15 20 683 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/af3892e1009ef4a72953531bd8ad6948.pdf 29efab7deeeaeb7fa7bc7ad295dc2341 PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality Oral History Interview with Carolyn Wiley Interview Conducted by Toby Jenkins Date: 2009 or 2010 Additional Interview conducted on May 26, 2026 and included as an addendum Transcript Edited by Dennis Neill – May 30, 2026 Restrictions: Interviewee requested: Video for Onsite Review Oklahomans for Equality History Project 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK. 74120 918.743.4297 1 �About Carolyn Wiley… Screenshot from 2009 or 2010 Interview. Photo taken on May 26, 2026, when Toby Jenkins did an additional video interview with Carolyn. The transcript is included as an addendum. Toby Jenkins - Bob, who is our translator today, Carolyn's partner, is hearing impaired and in this video she wanted to make sure that her partner would be able to see the whole interview. And then of course, Glenna, who does a lot of work with us here at the center and teaches sign language classes and all sorts of things like that, she is also hearing impaired. And 2 �her daughter is in charge of the GSA group at Owasso, so give Glenna a hand. We're very proud of her. Alright, if you're ready, I'm ready. Okay, we're ready. Alright, I'm Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, and we're here in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with our Vintage series. Vintage captures the stories of those who brought us to the place where we're enjoying incredible freedom and acceptance in this part of the country and helped us build what we have today here at Oklahomans for Equality. We're interviewing Carolyn Wiley, who is a former educator, an advocate for many issues for the gay community, who can tell us a side of the story that you may not know, so I look forward to you hearing about a little Oklahoma girl who made it big. And Carolyn, now this is just like the Jerry Springer story. We like to come up with some secrets, so be thinking about that because I'm going to let you tell some little tantalizing details for us to do also. Carolyn, thank you for being with us today so much. We're very honored, and I've known you for years and always admired you, so I feel very fortunate to have you with us today. I want to start at the beginning, not the beginning of the earth, but at the beginning of your life. And this little baby doll right here in this picture was born where? Where were you born? I was born in Duncan, Oklahoma. Duncan, Oklahoma. Way out on the prairie. Yes, and then taken even further out on the prairie to the farm where I grew up. An old farm girl. And this right here is a picture of your mom and dad? This is a picture of my mom and dad, and they were older. They were both in their 40s when I was born, and I was adopted, so they wanted a child very bad. And yeah, they ended up with me. Well, I think they probably were proud of you because the pictures seem to say that. This is a wonderful picture of, I believe you said this is your mother's parents? My mother's parents, along with my parents. This was taken down in north central Texas, just west of Wichita Falls, at my mother's uncle and aunt's store at Four Corners Mankins. All that was there was a little filling station, their little filling station, grocery store, which is where that was taken. And they had a post office, and there were about two houses, and that was it. That was it. That was it. Lots of rattlesnakes. 3 �Well, I love this picture right here. It says Lincoln Valley District 79. And this is your school picture, and Lincoln Valley would have been around where? Lincoln Valley was located about six miles outside of Walters, little community school, little one-room schoolhouse. So yes, I can tell the story of going to a one-room school. That was the entire school, grades one through eight. I was a whole five years old in the first grade. Needless to say, I was too young to go into a proper school. But the teacher said it was okay, invited my mom. And there was another family with a little boy, five. And so we got to be in first grade together. Hi, everybody. Thank you. It was quite an experience. And yeah, what can I say? That was where I got all of my whippings that I ever got in school. Oh, and you got several? I got four that year. Four whippings in one year by the teacher because I liked to play in the water. Every time it rained, there would be water puddles out there. Couldn't get wet. Right. So we'd start walking way around and get closer and closer and I'd get wet. Now, how old are you in this picture right here? Oh my, that is third grade. Third grade. Little freckles. Seven years old. Beautiful blue eyes. Very curly hair. Very curly. And would you love that? Would you love to have your hair brushed? I think you told me. Oh, I hated having my hair brushed. Because it was long hair. I was very tender-headed because, well, I was always with my dad. Wherever my dad was, that's where I was. Whether it was riding in the back of the pickup or I was riding on the tractor or on the drill or whatever at the time. And my hair would get tangled and mother wanted to brush it out and it was not very gentle and it hurt and I tried a lot. Where were you at school? Because your little one-room school house had closed. The one-room school house closed after the one year and I had to go into town to Walters to school. All of my schooling was in Walters until I went to college. 4 �Now in this picture, I believe you cut your hair. Finally. This was the day at the beginning of your hoodlum years? Yes, as a matter of fact it was. And believe me, I talked for the longest time I wanted to get my hair cut, as I said. Because I was so tenderheaded and I wanted to get it cut. And the style was short. This was early days of Elvis Presley and rock and roll. And I wanted short hair and finally after many years, I was allowed to cut. And so I had the old-fashioned, what was then called a duck tail, which was very, very short. So yes, in a little bit I realized that it was the beginning of my hoodlum years. In this picture though, you look like you “femmed up” quite a bit. This is a beautiful bouffant hairdo. What year did you graduate? I graduated high school in 1963. 1963 from Walters? From Walters, high school. And you were a beautiful young woman. Thank you. Thank you. Now let me tell you, we're going to rush on to college. Here you are, I believe this is maybe your graduation picture from college. That was my freshman year. There's one year between those two. Little country girl and you went to school where? What college? I went to, started out at Oklahoma College for Women, which was all women way back in the day, which had I known, really known back then, I could have had them all. And going back through all of the pictures and realizing all of the lesbians there were. Yeah, I said I could have had them all. And where was the school? 5 �The school was in Chickasha, Oklahoma College for Women, which after two years, my junior year, they decided to let boys into the school and it became Oklahoma College of Liberal Arts. And what did you study? Let's see, the first two years was music, voice, women as voice major. Then switched over to music education. Then switched to business, spent a year as a business major. Then went back to music, I missed it too much. Then I transferred to colleges for a year, went out to Weatherford, and then came back and in 1969 graduated from Oklahoma College of Liberal Arts with my bachelor's degree in music education. And became a school teacher. And became a school teacher. Now where was your first assignment? What was your first school to teach at? The very first school I taught in was in Bartlesville at Madison Junior High. And from there you went? Then I moved back to Duncan so I could be closer to my parents because they were getting older and being an only child, I felt obligated to them or wanted to be closer. So I moved back to Duncan, taught there for eight years. And then moved to Locust Grove, Oklahoma. You told me an interesting story, I want to cover this. This is in Duncan, Oklahoma. Now let's real quickly, you have finished college. Had you had any kind of romantic relationship with another woman prior to that? I was getting ready to go out and do my student teaching. I finished the class work. Went out to do my, was getting ready to go do the student teaching. There was a young lady I had met there at college playing bridge with. And she had worked in the cerebral policy center in Norman the previous summer. And I kept wanting to go visit her kids that she had that summer. And so she finally agreed to allow me to go see her children, her kids as she called them. And she was a paraplegic, which meant she was in a wheelchair. She had polio. The cerebral palsy kids really related to her very well. They did things for her that the other teachers were trying to get the kids to. But because they responded to it, they could identify with her. They did things for her that they wouldn't do for others. So anyway, didn't go there. We ended up spending, as a celebration of finishing all my class work, ended up spending the night. Went out for a fancy dinner, went to Oklahoma City, spent the night. And when I awoke the next morning, I had some souvenirs on my neck, 6 �also known as hickeys. And I had to get back to Chickasha to move out of the dorm and back home to my parents to do my student teaching. I took a lot of makeup. And thank goodness for the old days of hand stick that covered it very well. So that was your first relationship. That was my first relationship. And from there, we continued on and I was with that person for five years. And then what I want to bring out is in this story, you were in Duncan. That was the scandalous part that we wanted to hear. So very good. You ended up in Duncan. And I believe you mentioned to me that you were in a relationship. You had a companion when you were teaching at Duncan. And then you tell this story about a young man who also taught. Yes. Now tell us a little bit about that in this picture here. Here, Carolyn is in front of an AIDS quilt. And I want her to tell a little bit about her years at Duncan and about her relationship and then her relationship with another colleague who also was gay. Yes, I was very proud of this picture. I was very proud when the AIDS quilt was brought here to Tulsa and I had the honor, knew someone who could ask to bring a certain panel in. And I wanted to see Joe's panel. The panel was for Joe Dodson that I had taught with in Duncan. He was gay. I was a lesbian. And back in those days, one could not be out. So that was one of the reasons you could lose your job. You could be dismissed as a teacher without anything had to be written up. I mean, they just let you go. So it was on the books. It was definitely on the Oklahoma education books. Not just on the local level, but on state level. (Editors Note: Oklahoma removed its ban on gay teachers in 1985) Anyway, Joe was a science teacher. I was a music teacher. And when I first saw him, I thought, yes, I could tell. The gaydar went off. And as I said, became acquainted with him. We had quite the relationship as far as the straight teachers community went on in that we were considered more or less a little couple. And when we could invite guests, I mean, when there would be occasions, you know, we bring your spouse or whatever, I would invite his boyfriend as my date. He would invite my girlfriend. So we double dated a lot. And then he died of AIDS. And then he changed schools. And unfortunately, yes, he did pass away from AIDS. 7 �And you specifically wanted his quilt brought to Tulsa? I wanted his panel brought in and to read on his panel and to see where the teachers from Moore had finally come around and they signed his panel. They were very supportive later on. But in the early days, it was completely unknown. You were in Duncan and then we have lots of pictures here that I believe these were schoolteacher pictures. And you left Duncan and eventually you came to... Locust Grove. And how many years were you in Locust Grove? I taught school in Locust Grove for 17 years. Seventeen years. And is that where you began to get connected with the Tulsa gay community? When you were living in Locust Grove? It was. In the fact of, as I referred to it quite often, the hinterlands. After being in Duncan around auto money, where the children drove a lot better cars than the teachers did, naturally. It was like stepping back in history 70 or 80 years because this was a very small community. We had more student enrollment was larger than the town's population because it's an auto recreation area. Everybody lives out in the country. They don't live in town proper. As I said, there was nothing to do out there. So you come to Tulsa. It's only 45 minutes. Well, back in those days, it was an hour because they didn't have the turnpike like they do now. It was the old highway 33 with all the crooks. Curves from Locust Grove to Chouteau. She goes many times. Once even in snow and ice. Now you came to Tulsa and you got involved in the gay community. I understand that you were really involved at MCC, Metropolitan Community Church. You want to talk a little bit about that? Yes, I was very fortunate. I was raised, my mother was Pentecostal. I was raised Pentecostal as in Church of God, Assembly of God, the old 8 �fashioned holy roaders as they had been called or you would hear of. But anyway, I was excited to find out that there was a church that accepted gays and lesbians. There was a huge, I mean, we had all been raised in a church, whether it be Baptist, Presbyterian, Christian, Catholic, I don't care what religion. We had some sort of religious background. I had mine. Fortunately, I had been given the opportunity to think for myself and accept the others. And with my college and my music, I had already been associated with Christian Church as choir director. I had been an organist for Methodist Church. I had been choir director for Presbyterian Church. So, I mean, it all came down to we all had a same belief. We all believe in the higher being, whether you call it Buddha, God, whatever. And I just had this openness. I was fortunate enough to be able to open my mind and say, OK, we're all believing the same thing. And we're not going to, anytime you get two people together, at some point, I don't care how much alike they are, you're going to find differences and accept differences. Know that we can agree to disagree. We don't have to go to this city over it. Very good. So you got involved. You got involved in the MCC church and were involved in their music program. Yes. Being the musician, either singing or playing the piano or sometimes the organ. Anyway, yes. We directed some choirs and y'all did some traveling. We would travel. I just had the opportunity with my music to be involved with church, go and sing, go and play, fellowship. Met many wonderful people and just, it's been great, it's been an opportunity to meet people from around the world. And with MCC I did have the opportunity to go not only to regional conferences, but to go to the international conference one year in LA. And that particular year they decided, I said they, meaning the immigration service decided not to allow some of the representatives from foreign countries who were HIV positive, they would not allow them into the country. (Editors Note: In 1987 the US added HIV to its list of contagious diseases and instituted a travel ban for all travelers with HIV. It was officially lifted on January 4, 2010) To attend the international conference of the MCC? Right. The fellowship. And here you are, this is in a picture in Los Angeles where they're picketing in the streets. We, they arranged and hired some buses, took us by bus from the hotel downtown to the INA, the immigration services, and we staged a protest. And it was wonderful and I felt, and I still feel very honored to have been 9 �there, to go through that experience of knowing that we were standing up for people who were not HIV positive. We were not allowed in our country. Here we are supposed to be so free and so accepting. And yet these, there were people held out of the country from coming simply because they had AIDS. It didn't matter, they had their medication, so on and so forth. They were not contagious. And most of these would have been ministers, wouldn't they, coming from foreign countries? Yes, a lot of them would have been ministers. In this picture, the signs say, let my people in, don't test our guests. Carolyn, you realize that this protest, it was the first year they had the ban, wasn't it the federal government banned anyone from coming into the country? It's the first one that I know of. And you do realize that it took decades for that ban to finally be lifted. President Obama was one of the first things he did as the president of the United States of America. He lifted the ban, the travel ban. So now people from other countries who may be HIV positive, they are able to visit our country and attend the International Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches and many other congregations that are finally opened up to gay people and their ministry within the church. So when you think about that and what you would want to say to young people about that and the feeling you had that day when you marched in the streets, what would you like to say about that to young people? If you believe in something, have the guts to stand up for it. As I said, when you invited me here, I didn't feel like I had done that much. I was not out in the forefront. I wasn't the ones out marching. I couldn't or I didn't think I could. Now that I'm older, I realize that I can. And I try and support the youth in every possible way I can. Anyone. As I said, we've all got to start somewhere and I wish I had had the background, someone to support me. I remember the first year, and it was before the OKEQ, going to the Human Rights Banquet. It was during Pride and coming to hear the guests that year. The grand marshals that year were Olympic Gold Medalist Greg Louganis and Colonel Margarethe Cammermeyer (Editors Note) . And to hear all of a sudden, they were recognizing high school students for forming Gay and Straight Alliance. To have that in the school, the children, and they didn't have to be gay students, but there was friendly people there to support them. Going back to Duncan, one note. I remember one student, and back then there was also not only gay-straight, but racial. There was strictly the black community and there was a white community. The blacks would walk as a group. They would walk to school. And I mean, they were always in a group. There was one young man who, unfortunately I never had the opportunity to, but yes, looking back, he was very gay. And he was not 10 �feeling well and he got permission from his teacher to go to the principal's office and wanted to go home. I was told, no. He said, why do you need to go home? I have the cramps. Excuse me, a guy doesn't have cramps, as in menstrual cramps. I'm sorry, but just to know that there was someone there now who had moved to the point where there were people who would support more than just black, white, or racial differences. But straight people, knowing they could be friends with a gay person or a lesbian. And the young people just have no idea. They're used to having that around. That's a very good point. Now, you talked about how in the early days, tell me about how your first time to be in a gay pride parade, where was that and what did that make you feel like? And why were you there in that specific place? Again, I went with, I did a lot with churches or ministers. My first gay pride parade was in Oklahoma City. I had the opportunity to go with, there was a group from the church, MCC, even though at that time here in Tulsa we had two MCCs. There was the regular church or the founding church, and then there was a branch-off group, Family of Faith. I was going there with the minister to Oklahoma City for their pride parade and to ride in the car representing a northeast part of Oklahoma. And I felt safe in going to Oklahoma City. Even though there would be cameras there, I knew that the news coverage or the cameras, they would be shown in Oklahoma City. There wouldn't be people from Locust Grove that would be able to see that. So I knew I was safe in my job, but I felt very proud just to see people lined up up and down the street knowing that they were supporting gay people. Then I got to go to the first pride parade in Tulsa back when we gathered down on Brookside, which is 33rd, 35th part of Peoria. And I was honored in carrying the banner in front of the pick-up saying, our church. And I got to walk all the way from 33rd, wherever we started there on Peoria, up to 31st, then we turned and went over to Riverside, then up to Riverside all the way to Veterans Park. And it was the first parade. It was great. And during the walk, happened to be along on the sidewalk, there was a person that I sang with that had no idea I was a lesbian. And she came running over, she was so excited that I was marching in the parade. And gave me a big hug, and that meant the world, knowing that I had a straight person that was willing to come and support me, and did support me. And it took a lot of courage in 1999, and this organization fought for several years to try to get permission from the city council to let us have a parade, and every year it was voted down, and sometimes they would just have a parade where they'd walk down the sidewalks. 11 �And so finally they got permission, and this is 1999, you were there, even in 1999, was there a little bit of apprehension that maybe if somebody found out about you, it would affect your... Oh yes, it could have been dismissal, although I had tried to instill in my students and fellow teachers, etc., the feeling that just because you were in some sort of a march did not mean that you were gay, or like in a pride parade, did not mean that you were gay, but that you had sympathy for someone else. And also I want to mention during this parade, there was quite the protest from Fred Phelps Church. I mean, there were lots and lots of pictures, and we were told endlessly, do not make comments back to them, do not let them get to you. Just smile and say, God loves you, I'll pray for you, or whatever. Did not get in any kind of confrontation at all. All right, so those were some early days, and we've talked a little bit about, want to talk a little bit about when you first began to hear of AIDS in Tulsa, and maybe some of the things that you were involved in in those early days. The first thing I remember, of course, was through church being an MCC, and we would hear a lot about all different places in the country. There were starting to be, even though I was not aware of that legend here in Tulsa for several years, that we had lost people. I can remember the early days when we used to have a gay softball tournament, and supposedly that was how many of our first members contracted were infected with AIDS. And the fact that some of the outof-town guests, when they came in, supposedly this was how it was spread. So they would have came from larger urban areas, had intimate relationships with local persons, and they were infected that way. So there was this theory that that's how AIDS came to Tulsa, is what you're saying. That's, yeah. In that, or when the people here, and unfortunately it was men, would go to other cities such as Dallas or San Francisco or LA or Miami or New York, where the larger communities where there was more chance of being infected. Yeah, and unfortunately we lost many, many good people. So it happened here quick, and then what was Tulsa's response? Do you remember, did y'all come together in organized groups? The main thing I remember was the forming of the RAIN [edit comment – Regional AIDS Interfaith Network] teams, people to go out. For those who were infected here in Tulsa, to go out they would form huge RAIN 12 �teams to go out and help care for them. Most of the time these people were, of course, turned away by their families. They were having trouble finding a place to live, having someone take care of them. If they were in any type of relationship, their partner many times just up and left. They couldn't be associated with it. So they were isolated. They were totally isolated. And abandoned. Definitely. Fortunately, a lot of different churches, not just MCC, but the different churches would form the RAIN teams to go out and help care for these people. Did you, were there lots of funerals in those days? Oh my. And did you get asked to sing at several of those funerals? Did your choir suffer with those funerals? Yes. Yes to all of those. There were funerals, oh mercy, at least once a week, sometimes two or three times a week. You mentioned Leslie Penrose earlier. Bless her heart. I remember one year in between when they was on AIDS Day when they would just mention the ones who had passed, the reading of the names for that one year and present new panels that were being made for the AIDS bill. And she had lost 40 people in that one year. And that can be devastating, not only to the immediate family, but I don't care how you are intertwined with someone. Our lives constantly get together. We overlap, whether it be young, old, black, white, any type of ethnicity. We do interact with each other and we must be accepting of one another, whether it be the, back in the early days when it was more or less the war between the gay men and the lesbians. We have finally learned to come together. And I mean we were all fighting for the same thing, we were constantly fighting each other. And I always thought that was such a shame, but we finally did get our acts together so that we can. And today it's lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and young people today like to call themselves queer, which is quite a bit different than what we grew up with. That was a term of derision, wasn't it? Oh, if you were called a queer back then, I mean that was highly insulting. Now, what do you think when we were talking about the AIDS and you losing so many people in that day, what do you think about when I tell you 13 �here in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on the other side of these cameras, we hang on permanent display the AIDS quilts. What do you think about that when you can see that right here are Oklahomans, we always request that they feature Oklahomans. What do you think when you walk into this room and see those? I mean, often reminded, I mean I love to look at that quilt because it has special memories. Some of the people that are on the panels on the quilt are people I knew. Do you realize that sometimes we have young people under I would say 35 who come into the building and have never heard of the AIDS quilts. They have now lived for 10 or 12 years with medication and not being so common for it being a death sentence that it's a manageable disease, and they don't realize that there was a time it was an epidemic. So how do you feel about us making sure these young people know the story behind these quills? They've got to know. They've got to be told. They need to be made aware. They need to be made aware of what they need to do to be safe. We all need to be safe. I have a nephew, which unfortunately, and one of the flyers that was sent out, whether by email or whatever, the picture used in me was from the AIDS service last year. (Editors note Carolyn was featured on the front page of the Tulsa World attending the World AIDS Day memorial service) World AIDS Day. World AIDS Day. And yes, I was in tears. Not having any brothers or sisters. I have a cousin whose youngest son, who is the one of the few white heirs that has unfortunately been forsaken by his father, who I'm happy to say has just been given an opportunity for medication and for help, and he's moved to Hawaii. He is HIV positive. He has AIDS. Full blown. He's stage four. But it's so interesting. I mean, so wonderful, not just interesting, wonderful and makes me so happy to read on Facebook of how he's just gotten back from the hospital and getting help. And they just started his new medication regimen and to have to be able to read and hear him say, instead of having four years to live now with this medication, he's been given 40 years. The progression and the success as we learn and things progress, the advances we are making in medication now that they are finding ways of helping people. As you said, in the early days, there wasn't any help. They tried, they didn't know anything about it. Medications had to be made. I mean they had to find some way, just like finding a cure for the common cold, which I know basically they haven't done. But advances in medicine or any type of advances take time. It takes a lot of preparation. It takes a lot of study. It takes someone 14 �stepping out, whether it be a medical researcher stepping out, taking that extra step to think, well maybe this will work and try. And yes, it is a series of trial and error. And back in the early days, there just wasn't the medicines there. Thank God we have them today. I appreciate you emphasizing. Young people need to see these AIDS quilts and be reminded we still have a high rate of infections among young gay men in Oklahoma. And this concerns me here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Thank you for challenging me. I want to, as we come to a close, I want to show this very, very elaborate picture of you dressed and very formally. And tell me about this picture and why you're dressed in such a dapper outfit. Oh, dapper. But the old term for a big look. This picture was taken. I was asked to sit and have my portrait made. This was when I was director of the Women of Council Oak. I was the founding director. I was given the opportunity to be the founding director of an all-women's group. Well, no, we weren't an all-lesbian group because we had straight women. We tried to be an open group. And bisexual women. And bisexual women, inviting everyone to come in. And I think you had some transgendered women in that choir also that I'm aware of. No, not in the early days. Okay. But we were very open. And yes, we would have accepted some transgendered women. I probably would have had to find a few. But it was just a place for women to come together and sing. The Council Oak Men's Choir, which I admired for many, many years. I still admire and they have been great things and traveled and represented Tulsa. Some wonderful musicians, wonderful friends. Were you involved when they had the joint choir and did the Sing for the Cure, came together for Breast Cancer? That was how the formation of Women of Council Oak started. I heard about it from word, spread word, mouth, inviting women to come and join. And we did, we rehearsed. And it was wonderful. And because we did have the women, sorry, thought I had to shut up. I'm sorry. Anyway, the women came together. And not only was the Council Oak Men's Choir the women that we rounded up here in Tulsa or 15 �surrounding areas. There was one woman, a man and a woman that drove from, shoot, I can't think of the name. Anyway, they drove great distance, drove in to sing. Then the Turtle Creek Men's Choir from Dallas and the Women's Choir from Dallas drove up and joined. And we had this massive choir. At the Performing Arts Center? At the Performing Arts Center. And it was truly wonderful. And the story, the Women's Choir of Dallas is the one that originally created the score Sing for the Cure. They had it commissioned. And it tells the wonderful different stories, different women, different stages of women's lives as they were diagnosed with cancer. And sometimes the family expressions, what they went through or getting a sentence or the diagnosis by the, a lot of times it was like a sentence to be told, a woman to be told that no, you're not responding to any kind of medicine or treatment. It's going to be automatically loss of breast. And anyway, if you haven't read that book, I would suggest that you do read it because it is a wonderful story. And lesbians have a higher rate of breast cancer than most women. Do you remember the thoughts of how the gay choruses were stepping outside of the normal causes like AIDS and equal rights, and we were aligning with the straight people finding a common goal to support? What was your thoughts about that being a part of that? Sing for the Cure was very special for me in that this same cousins whose son is AIDS positive, has AIDS, his mother died from cancer. Breast cancer. She had breast cancer was diagnosed while he was in the military. They were sent back stateside, which I had known her all through school. And having lost her and singing for her funeral was very special, very hard emotionally. But yet I wanted to do Sing for the Cure in her remembrance. And that was my passion for doing that. Music has wonderful life. I mean, it's opened up so many things for me. I can go on with all the, which we won't even have time to go into any of that. But music is such an opportunity. So many different areas. I don't care what your desire is. I mean, what kind you like. You can always find something that can be meaningful. And I believe me, I don't understand all the rap music. But all I can say is that it is important to the young people. It says something to them. Carolyn, it has been incredible today to be with you. You're my prettiest guest. Because up to this time, I've always been interviewing men. Now, you don't have them on today, but you are known across Tulsa for your fingernails during Pride. And what do you always have your fingernails done? How do you have them done for Pride? 16 �My fingernails are always done in the rainbow colors. And you not only share those with Tulsa. You go to Wichita. You went to Wichita. Travels regionally. Now, Carolyn, there's something I want us to, as we close, I want us to think about. And this just came to me. You were an educator for decades. How do you feel when you're in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center visiting with me yesterday and one of your former students from Locust Grove is sitting around the corner in his office and comes in and now he's an adult, openly gay man serving on the Board of Oklahomans for Equality seeking equal rights for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgendered Oklahomans and working closely with our allies. How does that make you feel? He walked in. I just want to share with our audience. He walked in. He saw you. You just grabbed each other. He was in my office. And you didn't realize that Matthew DeCamp was right around the corner. How does that make you feel to know that your students have grown up and taken their place in this fight for equality? It makes me very proud. And I'm just so happy they had the opportunity to be able to go out and say, yes, I'm gay, I'm lesbian, I am proud of who I am because I was not given that opportunity. I wish I had known. I wish I could have encouraged more people. And speaking of that, and former students, there's a young man in Dallas who, which when they sing for the Cure in Dallas, and we had gone out after rehearsal to one of the bars, Sue Ellen's, and was sitting out there and all of a sudden, sitting there with a former high school classmate that is a lesbian, yes, and with my partner and the others that are someone else that had gone down with us to sing, and all of a sudden in the open area you hear, granny! And it echoes out. And it was one of my former students, a younger man, who was part of the group that called me granny from the time I was in my 30s and 40s, many years ago. But, and yes, he had gone through school, graduated from Locust Grove, got married, had children, came around and realized that he wasn't happy in that situation and decided to come out as a gay man and to be so accepted and to know that we could still sing. And one of his statements, and I was, why didn't you tell me back then? And I'm saying, oh honey, there was no way I could have. Yes, I knew back then. Certainly he had all of the signs, he was very fashionable, he didn't catch his hair, he always had to have a certain type of shoes or he had to be dressed a certain way. He was very fashion conscious. Oh, extremely fashion conscious. Which is not always an indication that someone's gay. And I'm going to point that out, not anything else, but back several years ago it was, you had to have a certain shirt or you had to wear a certain kind of, you had to wear certain name brands to be considered fashionable or be part of the in-group. But he kept saying, why didn't you tell me back then? 17 �And I'm saying, honey, I couldn't, there was no way. I couldn't even say that I was gay or lesbian. It would have been my job. I could not have mentioned it in the classroom. And now, as I said, the first time I heard him say there was a gay-straight alliance in school, I was so excited they could even talk about it in school. And today in Tulsa Public Schools and in Union Public Schools, openly gay teachers can, if they see a young gay student, they can make sure they're aware of where they can get helps and resources. And you may have a gay teacher talking with one of their gay students about, are you going to Pride this weekend? How does that make you feel to see that we've come that far where the teacher can actually now help their students as they think about their life and their career and being open about who they are? How does that make you feel? I wish I had the opportunity. I think it is wonderful because there's enough pressure still, particularly here in Oklahoma, from the mindset of our people that it's still wrong. You can't be gay. You can't be a lesbian. You're never going to amount to anything. All the negative things that are done. There is no support, or there has been in the past, so little support for gay and lesbian students. And to have someone knowing that you could go and say, hey, I think I may be gay, even to question. Have that opportunity. And it's much the same way, it's like, well, and I'm going to get back into the religious part of it, but to have the churches where you could go and say, I may be, I'm really attracted to this person of the same gender, and say, it's okay, you can still be a Christian, or you can still be a member of the faith. And it's the same thing in school, just to have that person knowing that you can go and talk to them about anything. That was what I always tried to prove to my students. I don't have to agree with what you're doing. I don't have to, I know some of the consequences, but yes, unfortunately you're going to be like the two-year-old that has to go up and touch the stove when it's on and learn that hot and no means that it's going to hurt if you touch it anyway. You've got to have that experience. And just to know that there might be a gay or lesbian teacher that they could go and talk to about, I think I might be, or I'm really attracted, or I had this problem because of. I'm so inspired by the bullying, because there for so many years has been so much bullying, and so anti-bullying. I want us to get that started. I mean, it's the same thing like our early years, when people, whether it be the living with AIDS, so many deaths caused by AIDS, or just the bombing of churches back in the early days. Gay churches. Gay churches. It had to start somewhere, but it's also had to come around and someone had to stand up and say, stop. And the young people now have so much, fewer things, but yet the opportunity to say, no, that's wrong. We had to listen to the queer or the off-color jokes about queer, about 18 �homosexuality, about lesbianism. We couldn't say anything, and now it's like, no, no, no. I find that offensive. And we must do more for our kids who are being bullied in schools. Definitely. Loss of one life is too many. Carolyn, thank you so much for being with us here today on Vintage. You are a vintage. You are a special creation, greatly treasured, and you'll never go out of fashion, right? Thank you so much for being with us today, and thank you, Bob, for being our translator today, for those of you who are hearing impaired. We've been broadcasting from the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, and this has been Carolyn Wiley, our special guest. You didn't have to keep me going. You didn't go yes or no. I just loved you. All right, thank you so much. Addendum: Carolyn Wiley Oral History Interview May 26, 2026 Toby Jenkins: Carolyn Wiley on May 26th, 2026. Today we're interviewing Carolyn and I want her to talk a little bit about her experience with the Imperial Court. Carolyn, what was your official title with the Imperial Court? Carolyn Wiley: With the court itself, I never had a title other than when I, after I ran for, as a candidate to be the Empress for all of Oklahoma. And that meant that I was represented as when we went to court functions, I could be recognized as the head of the Imperial Court of Oklahoma Toby Jenkins: The Empress of all Oklahoma. And do you remember that year? Carolyn Wiley: I'm thinking it's around 65 to 70. Toby Jenkins: So would it have been about like 2013 and 2014? Carolyn Wiley: Before that. Reign VI Absolute Empress Carolyn “Cougar Anne” Wiley 19 �Toby Jenkins: Okay. Right. I'll research that and find out for sure. And we'll make sure that's a part of your record. Carolyn Wiley: Well, to find when I took Bill [Francisco] and we went to New York. Toby Jenkins: Well, I know when that was. That was in 2019. I just was trying to remember when you were crowned the Empress of all Oklahoma. I was there. So I remember that night when you were crowned. It was at the Hyatt Regency Hotel. And you had, do you remember you had fallen and broke your arm? Carolyn Wiley: Yep. Toby Jenkins: And you went ahead through the whole coronation with a broken arm and did not go to the hospital. Carolyn Wiley: Until after it was over, we had things to do. Toby Jenkins: People to see. And so what were your duties as Empress? Carolyn Wiley: Just to represent the court wherever I went. Whether it be here in, now Sand Springs. Tulsa, Oklahoma City. To say nothing of all the courts I visited in Texas, there are nine courts in Texas and I went to all of them. Toby Jenkins: And so for our viewers, can you tell us what the Imperial Court is and what its mission is and how it was started? Toby Jenkins: It was started by Jose… Carolyn Wiley: No, it was started by Kris Kohl. Toby Jenkins: Well, here in Oklahoma, we're talking about the Imperial Court National. It was started by a person in California. Carolyn Wiley: Yeah, Jose's great poohpah. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, I'll look that up. So you became the Empress, and so if you went to other courts. Carolyn Wiley: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Traveled to other cities, you represented Oklahoma. Carolyn Wiley: Traveled everywhere from New York to LA. 20 �Toby Jenkins: I think you used to go to the Equality Gala, didn't you? And have to represent the Imperial Court at the Equality Gala? Carolyn Wiley: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Jose Sarris founded the Imperial Court System in 1965 in California to raise money for LGBTQ activism. And he was known as Mama Jose or is that what it was? Mama? He had been the first openly gay candidate to run for public office in 1961. Carolyn Wiley: No, he was just how he did it. Toby Jenkins: The Widow Norton. And he founded that. He was a performer. And it's modeled after the European court system. So it has kings and queens and empresses and ladies and lords and dukes and duchesses. And Carolyn was an empress for Oklahoma. Carolyn Wiley: Okay, I was Empress Number Six. When the court was founded, I was number six to run for the top position. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, and Kris Kohl founded it. Famous drag queen here in Oklahoma who now lives in Missouri. So we talked a little bit about how you would travel to other places. Tell us about when you and Bill Francisco went to New York City for the 50th anniversary of Stonewall and the New York City pride parade. Talk about that. Carolyn Wiley: Oh, wow, what a weekend. Of course, the main basic part was: just what do you take? I mean, there's just so many clothes and so much. Of course, being a part, as a part of being of the court system, you were required, or it was preferred, that you wore a crown, that you had a sash or some sort of identification where you were from. Basically I just went as myself and they couldn't figure out I was from Oklahoma. Heck with them. I didn't have my Texas drawl which I could have, and I have used the drawl a few times when I'd go to Texas to some of the different court functions which I still miss now. Toby Jenkins: You were in New York City and you were with Bill Francisco, I was there. Many people in New York City for that event, oh, just a few thousand. Toby Jenkins: Talk about a million closer. Carolyn Wiley: Yeah, that too. But as far as going to the reception itself, it was held at one of the big hotels. They had made that all, made all those arrangements, so everything was set up for it and you just had to introduce yourself or let it be known who you were. So you get in and, as Empress, I got to say I'm here. 21 �Toby Jenkins: Did you get to visit the Stonewall Bar and the Stonewall Memorial? Carolyn Wiley: Oh, that's where it was held. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, oh, very good. Were y'all in the parade? Did you get to be in the parade? Carolyn Wiley: No, but we walked several blocks just to go so that we could see it and we had gone into... I mean Bill and I had gone from the hotel down to that place. There were people everywhere, they had all the roads, all the streets blocked off Bill had forgotten something, left something in his room, so we had to go back to the hotel and get his room key so he could go get whatever and just had a good time. I think I of course got to meet people like I would meet anyone new, just doing what came naturally. Toby Jenkins: Representing Oklahoma, the Imperial Court of Oklahoma. And you were there for that 50th anniversary. Your thoughts about being there at the 50th anniversary of Stonewall. What were your thoughts about that? Being a person from Oklahoma who had been a schoolteacher, who did work with young people, what were your thoughts about how significant that moment was? Carolyn Wiley: It was actually a wonderful moment and many thoughts went through your mind just to know that you were in New York, that I was in New York, not necessarily that I was representing Oklahoma, but knowing I was representing Oklahoma, but just to be there. And, of course, Queen Mother was there. It was so good and they had different people and from all age groups. They're talking about their experiences within the LGBT etc. community and what they had done. There was one young man there and he was like in high school, representing and he had just done wonderful things. It was set up towards running or we were trying to represent just like they did in England. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, European Court. We were joking that Empress Wiley, I guess is Carolyn Wiley, Empress Six. We think she looks a lot like Queen Elizabeth when she wears her crown. So is it heavy? Carolyn Wiley: No, not really. After you're sitting in a court function, whatever it is, wherever you are, it gets heavy after a while. Toby Jenkins: Who made your crown? Do you remember? 22 �Carolyn Wiley: No, I ordered it out of the booklet where you could get crowns. Toby Jenkins: So it wasn't somebody that made it special for you? Carolyn Wiley: No. Toby Jenkins: All right. So you were talking about being in New York City for Stonewall and the Imperial Court and you got to meet a lot of people. Any other thoughts about that moment in 2019 when Bill Francisco, who I guess we would call him your sidekick. He was your what? Carolyn Wiley: My escort. Toby Jenkins: Your escort. He was your escort. I think they call themselves royalties, whenever they have an escort, they call them their consort. He was your consort. Carolyn Wiley: Yeah, okay. We did a lot of consorting around. Toby Jenkins: So your thoughts about the Imperial Court, do you stay in touch with those folks? Do they come see you sometimes? Carolyn Wiley: There are a few of them that I do see quite often. I know we had a coronation, although it's been about almost a year since I went. It was just good to see people all over. I mean, that's one of the functions as even a current or a past Imperial Court member. You get to go and you get to see all these people that travel from all over. They've been invited throughout the years or however long it's been. Hopefully your royalty, the current or past members of Emperor and Empress do travel and get to go and meet other people and invite them to your coronation. Toby Jenkins: What do you feel like the strongest, most important part of the court system is, the Imperial Court? Why do you feel like it's so important to the LGBTQ community? Carolyn Wiley: Well, as I said, the Imperial Court was set up to invite people or get to know people from all over the world, from wherever. They come in and they get to tell you a little bit about their court system and invite you to their facilities. And the one invitation that I got was...actually several times, but to go to their coronation and be with their people was Hawaii. And I never got to go to Hawaiian coronation. But I certainly got to know some of their people very well. 23 �Toby Jenkins: But you traveled all over the country, didn't you? I mean, you went from coast to coast, because you went to California, didn't you? Carolyn Wiley: Oh, yes. Toby Jenkins: And you went to New York, so that's coast to coast. Carolyn Wiley: Well, it was just what was available at the time of what was scheduled. I mean, everything is set up throughout the year, so you get to pick and choose where you want to go or where you want to go. Toby Jenkins: Now, do you feel like it was helpful as we all are fighting for equality even harder today, because we may lose it? Did you feel it was important for you to build strong relationships with other states, other cities, other areas? Carolyn Wiley: Well, particularly those close by to Oklahoma here, because it was so easy to hop in the car and away I go. Knowing there are seven courts within the state of Texas, which is a good-sized amount of property, to make all seven courts and their coronations was a great experience. Toby Jenkins: So, as we finish, I wonder, do you have any message for your friends who are still in the Imperial Court, those who come after you, the young people who are now the emperors and the empresses? Do you have a message for young people today that you'd like to give them? Carolyn Wiley: Yes, be active and don't ever feel like you're meeting a new person, because it's only by meeting new people that you get to make new friends. And personally, I would say one of my greatest experiences was being a member of the Imperial Court and traveling all over. Because not only did I make all seven courts in Texas, I've been to California, Colorado, Arizona. I got to go around. Toby Jenkins: Well, thank you so much for making time with us today and that we got to see Empress Six with her crown on. Carolyn Wiley: Oh, yeah. Woppie. Toby Jenkins: It's May 26th, 2026, in Sand Springs, at the palace of Empress Six, Carolyn Wiley. Carolyn Wiley: Also known as the nursing home, but it's okay. Yeah, and away I go. 24 �Toby Jenkins: So we were talking about how hard we are fighting. We just didn't ever dream we would have to fight so hard for our rights again. What were your thoughts? You said something that was really profound. Carolyn Wiley: Wow, I said something profound. No, never did we realize, and even I at my age, which is getting closer to 80 all the time, never did I realize, even in my advanced age as one of the older members of the Imperial court system here in Oklahoma, that, as you said, everything is toward the younger people, getting them involved. And yes, we want to get them involved because we want someone to carry it on. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, but we've got such a hostile government that's trying to take away our rights again. And you said, what did you say about that? Carolyn Wiley: I don't know, what did I say? I forgot. Toby Jenkins: You told us that we're just going to have to keep fighting, and you're willing to fight even at your age. Carolyn Wiley: You bet. Always willing. I can’t get around as much as I used to, but it's like, get out of my way, I am coming through. Toby Jenkins: Very good. So we've got to keep fighting, don't we? Carolyn Wiley: We must keep fighting. There are too many people involved. It would impact them, with them not even being able to fight. We must go ahead and fight and win our battles. 25 � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2009-2010; 2026] Carolyn Wiley Interview Description An account of the resource Transcript of oral history interview with Toby Jenkins in 2009 or 2010 as part of the Vintage Series of interviews, alongside an addendum interview recorded on May 26, 2026. <strong>Video available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for on-site research.</strong> Born in Duncan, Oklahoma, Carolyn graduated from Walters, Oklahoma High School in 1963. In 1969, she graduated from the Oklahoma College of Liberal Arts in Chickasha. She begin a teaching career at Madison High School in Bartlesville, Oklahoma, followed by teaching stints in Duncan and Locust Grove, Oklahoma. While in Locust Grove, she begin commuting to Tulsa to become involved in the LGBTQ+ community and was active in Metropolitan Community Church. She was the founding director of the women’s choral group, Women of Council Oak, which later became Sisters in Song. She discusses her involvement with the AIDS Quilt and other outreach in support of those dealing with HIV.<br /><br />Physical tapes not yet located. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Toby Jenkins, Carolyn Wiley Subject The topic of the resource Carolyn Wiley Oral History Project Vintage Series Interview with Addendum Interview Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource c. 2009-2010; May 26, 2026 AIDS AIDS Quilt AIDS/HIV available at Center Carolyn Wiley HIV HIV/AIDs interview Metropolitan Community Church NAMES Project NAMES Project quilt OKEQ Oral History Project oral history oral history interview Oral History Project oral history transcript Sisters in Song Toby Jenkins transcript video Vintage Vintage Series Women of Council Oak https://history.okeq.org/files/original/ae720f37b67fe1d07b1a660ec30be6c3.jpg 3d36c73df7f5d443c35811d1ab4c536c https://history.okeq.org/files/original/816576851a461a49caeb713b19240694.mp4 3a2fb94204d5fad94d23da9b807c8740 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/7205a5a0a661f11e09d82362ce52eadc.pdf e21c9690e1e258a36a967b7f66c78441 PDF Text Text Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM Oklahomans for Equality Oral History Interview (Vintage Series) with Charles Faudree Interview Conducted by Toby Jenkins Date: December 4, 2012 Transcribed By: Dennis Neill using Riverside Studio AI, January 26, 2026 Restrictions: Interviewee requested: N/A Oklahomans for Equality History Project 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK. 74120 918.743.4297 historyproject@okeq.org https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 1 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM About Charles Faudree Editor’s Note: Charles Faudree passed away on November 27, 2013. His obituary and an article from the Tulsa World are at the end of this interview. Keywords LGBTQ, Oklahoma, Charles Faudre, coming out, spirituality, AIDS crisis, community support, acceptance, recovery, resilience Summary In this conversation, Toby Jenkins interviews Charles Faudree, a renowned interior designer and a significant figure in the LGBTQ+ community in Oklahoma. Charles shares his journey from growing up in Muskogee to becoming a successful designer in Tulsa, discussing the challenges he faced while coming out, the impact of the AIDS crisis, and his commitment to community support and fundraising. He reflects on his spiritual journey, the importance of acceptance, and the changes he has witnessed in society regarding LGBTQ+ rights. Charles emphasizes the need for love and understanding, especially for young LGBTQ+ individuals navigating their identities. Takeaways    Charles Faudre's journey reflects the evolution of LGBTQ+ acceptance in Oklahoma. The importance of community support during the AIDS crisis was paramount. Spirituality played a crucial role in Charles's acceptance of himself. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 2 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75        1/26/26, 11:52 AM Fundraising initiatives can significantly impact community health resources. Charles's story highlights the importance of love and acceptance from family. Recovery from addiction allowed Charles to embrace his true self. The role of St. Jerome's Church was pivotal in Charles's spiritual journey. Charles believes that LGBTQ+ individuals should give their parents time to accept them. The current state of LGBTQ+ rights in Tulsa is a mixed experience. Charles's resilience in the face of health challenges inspires hope. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Charles Faudre and His Impact 01:38 Charles's Early Life and Coming Out Journey 08:22 The Role of Spirituality in Acceptance 14:51 Fundraising for AIDS Awareness and Community Support 22:53 Reflections on Progress and Current Challenges 30:45 Advice for Young LGBTQ+ Individuals and Conclusion Charles Faudree Oral History Interview 12-4-2012 Toby Jenkins: I'm Toby Jenkins, Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality, and we want to welcome you to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in downtown Tulsa for Vintage Tulsa, our way of capturing the stories of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Oklahomans and hearing what they have to say about the marvelous history of our state and how their lives interweaved with that story. Today I am so honored to have a man who I've admired for many years. He was instrumental in helping me to walk and talk and act like a regular lady when I came out. He was among the wonderful folks at St. Jerome's Church that mentored me. And Charles Faudree, as many of you know, is a world-renowned interior designer, but he's also from Oklahoma, and he is significant to the work of Oklahomans for Equality because he was one of the individuals that was connected to the early days of our founding. And also the Equality Center, one of the favorite rooms that folks love to see at the end of a tour when they've toured the Equality Center. We start out in the Cisar Holt Lobby, and we finish in the Charles Faudree boardroom. And I always finish the tour by saying, this is what gays can do with your basement. And folks, Charles Faudree is responsible. Give Charles a warm welcome for being here today, and we're going to get into it. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 3 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM Charles Faudree: Excuse me. I'm glad to be here, I'm glad to be anywhere these days. The key word seems to be vintage, and I certainly fall under that. I was born a long, long time ago. I've always been an Okie. I was born almost 75 years ago. I grew up in Muskogee, so not only am I an Okie from Muskogee, but I grew up in a family with a mother and father that was never anything but loving. I look back on my life, and I think they sacrificed for me to go to parochial school. I went to the nuns for eight years. I loved the nuns, and I learned to love God there. Then I went to a boys' prep school, military boarding school. Toby Jenkins: And where was that, Charles? Charles Faudree: That was in Muskogee as well. It closed my senior year, the health department closed it. The dorm was on the top floor. It was a fire trap. But that was really when I felt like I didn't belong. I can't even clap to rhythm, so let alone could I play football or do all those intramural sports that I had to do at that school. So I was no good at that, but anyway, I suffered and made it through. I didn't know any better. I knew my folks, that's what they wanted. They were staunch Catholics. So when I graduated, and I had parents that didn't drink. My father would drink a beer in the summer sometimes, and we had eggnog at Christmas. And Christmas Day, we had some cheap champagne. So I was never really in my house or our home. But my folks always said, if you want to drink, come and drink at home. So then I went off to college, and that's where I learned to drink and party and have a good time. Toby Jenkins: And where was that? Charles Faudree: That was in Tahlequah. I had enrolled at TU, had the entrance exams at already a dorm room, and my dorm roommate was going to be a Baptist minister. And I made the mistake of going to two revivals with he and his mother, and the father, that being the Catholic that he was, decided that I would not go to TU. So in the middle of August, I went to Northeastern with no one on the campus, a lot of Indians sitting in the town square. And at that moment, I hated my father. But, you know, God works in my life in strange ways and does for me what I can't do for myself because at Northeastern, I was a big duck in a little puddle and it worked best for me. Toby Jenkins: Now, were you involved in student government or music or art? Charles Faudree: No, my, well, yes and no, my degree was in art, but, you know, I made who's who in college and I was secretary of my fraternity and tri-sigma man and https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 4 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM made the deans on a roll. I did, you know, I was motivated to, and, you know, I always dated girls. I never had, I never was in love with a girl, but because I was a funny drunk or funny, you know, I always had a date for the sock hops or any function that I needed a date for. So, I always knew, was different in my life than most people, but I knew also that I was a Catholic and I knew how, and if I offend you and you're a Catholic, this is what it was for me. I don't judge anyone else and, you know, more power to you if it all works for you. But, I taught school actually for four years and then I opened a shop at 25. Toby Jenkins: Now, where did you teach school? Charles Faudree: I taught school, I went to the Art Institute first for one year and I taught school there, but I also, then I moved back to Oklahoma. Toby Jenkins: Where was the Art Institute, Charles Faudree: In Kansas City. In Kansas City. I taught school in Tulsa. I taught junior high art and I met a couple that, they were opening a shopping center in Oklahoma. It was the first shopping center this side of the Mississippi that was enclosed, so it was almost an attraction for Oklahoma and this person, the wife that I taught with, father said, I will back you in a shop if we can call it Faudree's and you will run it, I will be the silent partner and take care of the books. And here is where I met a lot of other people that were gay. There was a flower shop across from my shop, a home shop. Anyway, and once someone fell in my bed, I knew what was my problem all along. Toby Jenkins: So they just fell into your bed? Charles Faudree: They fell into my bed. Toby Jenkins: You make it sound like it was almost an accident. Charles Faudree: No, no, they well crawled or jumped or whatever. It was a great experience. Toby Jenkins: So what was the name of the shopping center? Charles Faudree: Todd, help me. Shepard Mall. Shepard Mall, Toby Jenkins: In Oklahoma City? Charles Faudree: Yes, it always looked like a factory, but when it opened, it had beautiful shops and it was an instant success and I had never worked harder. But I will tell you, coming out for me was a big thing. That's 50 years ago. The people today are https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 5 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM so lucky that this is a different world. 50 years ago, you almost went underground. And the fact that I was a Catholic, I thought I was losing my mind. I would have killed myself. Toby Jenkins: Except now, were you still observant? I mean, did you still attend mass? Charles Faudree: I still attended mass. I'd never missed mass, a Sunday in my life, in 25 years. I had no one to talk to. I had no equality center. I had no one to talk to. I thought I was losing my mind and I would have killed myself, except why expedite going to hell? So one day, one Sunday, I didn't go to church and lightning didn't strike. And so my story was my life with God, my life without God, and my life with God. Because I actually turned my face on God and thought, I'm all right. And I was motivated then to be more successful, try to be more successful than ever, to prove myself. Charles Faudree: I had a sister that understood and loved me as I love her. I love her more than life itself. And she understood, yet she was seven years younger, My father had died by (?). I had a mother that was understanding and said she loved me regardless. Toby Jenkins: What was that like when you had that conversation with her? Could she tell something was bothering you or? Charles Faudree: She said that it's so strange because two of her closest friends both had sons that were older than me that were gay and she said you know I don't understand it but I accept it and I love you unconditionally. My father had died when I was a sophomore in college. I look back on that and wonder what my father would have thought. My father would have probably had a different viewpoint. There was a little redneck in my father but it doesn't matter. It's only a curiosity but the big deal sort of became a little deal. I could tell you being gay is only a little section of my life today and I have never been turned away or felt minority. When I moved to Tulsa I was accepted by… Toby Jenkins: And what year was that Charles? Charles Faudree: That was almost 30 years ago I opened a shop in Utica Square and you know my clients are all sophisticated and bright enough to understand that gay people are the most creative and that they need us. So my life was good and my life has always been good but I have to say this at 50, at 50 I addressed my drinking. I had you know I never would pass out or black out. I'd only use the word slept or woke up. I slept in a lot of places. I woke up in a lot of places. I woke up in a lot of places. And you know drinking and dealing with myself… Well back up when I was 25 I started drinking because drinking made me be what I wanted to be as well as what I didn't want to be. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 6 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM And I could pursue the gay life and not and you know I could even clap to rhythm. But at 50 with no God in my life I thought you know I have fallen asleep in parking lots and hedges and in places that I wouldn't didn't know how I got there or who I was with. So I had actually my last drink on a New Year's Eve with six gay friends. We went to Dallas for a New Year's Eve black tie at the French room at the Adolphus. And to make a long story short at the end of the night they carried me through the lobby. Passed out or asleep as I used to say. So I went to AA. And again God is doing for me what I can't do for myself. Only went to AA to think I'd get a grip on drinking.Drinking. But you know in AA is where I learned to love myself. Accept myself for exactly what I am. Know that the God that I thought was Catholic is not necessarily Catholic. But is within me and made me exactly like I am. So I can tell you it changed my life. And it also gave me the freedom to say that I was an alcoholic was a hard thing to say. I went to meetings three months before I could say it. I never would say to people that I was gay. But it gave me the freedom to say that I was gay and be proud of the fact that I was gay. Today, I wouldn't change anything about my life. But I can tell you, at 25, you think, why am I not what I thought was normal? Why did I not want to be married and have children? Today, you know, I'm the happiest I've ever been in my life. Today, or back at 50, after 3 years of being sober, I lost an ex-lover to AIDS. Toby Jenkins: And that was what year? Charles Faudree: Well, I was 50 and I'm 75. It was 25 years ago. Speaker 3: Okay. Charles Faudree: 25 years ago. Toby Jenkins: So it would have been right at the beginning of the plague. Charles Faudree: The beginning, and no one knew what it was. It was just a gay disease. But I lost a partner and I lost a dozen friends. And I thought, this is Tulsa. There was Tulsa Caresa and then we were opening the St. Joseph's Hospice. So I thought, I thought I would like to start a fundraiser and maybe do a house tour. Because the Philharmonic had had a house tour that was successful and dropped it. So I met with four women for lunch, my sister being one, Nancy Renburg, Lynn Robertson, like anyway, all women that I thought would be honest with me. And I said, I'd like to do a fundraiser for AIDS, because I didn't know if it would, might even jeopardize my, my job or my livelihood. Toby Jenkins: So prior to this time, Charles, uh, the only fundraising from what I've been told was within the gay community. Nobody had ever reached outside of the gay community to be able to articulate our needs as a community to the greater population. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 7 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM Charles Faudree: That's right. And so I thought it's time to step out. And so I met those four women and said, I'm thinking about a house tour. What do you think? And all four ladies said, you have my house. Thus we started the Hope Candlelight tour. You know, that first year, Nancy Vaughn, all these people, these, uh, straight people helped. We, uh, we didn't know what we were doing. We put the wrong name on the wrong address. Uh, it, it was almost comical, but in spite of that, we made $40,000 the first year, the next year. ..Anyway, within three years, we made a million dollars for Tulsa Cares. We helped St. Joseph’s and Rain[Regional AIDS Interfaith Network], all three had a place on the rain Board. And we helped open St. Joseph’s Hospice., Toby Jenkins: Saturday was world AIDS day. This videotaping is taking place on December the 4th. Am I right? But on Saturday, we were at Circle Cinema with many of your good friends and Clark Weins was at Circle Cinema said he was on the firs RAIN team with you and Dennis Neill. Charles Faudree: Yes. Toby Jenkins: And, uh, so did you help starting teams? Charles Faudree: Uh, uh, Sutherland, what is her name? Mary Brotherton [Mary Cathrine Smotherman] was the founder and she had lost her son. And so they formed a board meeting and we would meet, uh, in Oklahoma City, uh, because that's where she was, uh, oh Lord, those trips to Oklahoma City. Uh, what is the lady minister? Toby Jenkins: Leslie Penrose. Charles Faudree: Leslie Penrose. I drove once with, and, uh, she and someone representing the Jewish, uh, belief wrote with me. They both stepped out of the car when they got home and said, we will never ride with you again. It was just fine with me. But one, one trip to the board meeting in February, I had a flat, flat, and I'm listening to a book on tape. This has nothing to do with what I'm supposed to be telling you. But anyway, I had a flat. So I called AAA and said, I have a flat. And they said, where are you? And I said, I don't know. I'm on the turnpike. And they said, well, where? And I said, I don't know. I'm listening to a book on tape. She said, well, we can't help you. I called a tough guy at my shop and said, what do I do? And he said, well, I can't come if I don't know where you are. Look at the manual. Well, the manual is written by a German. So it's very hard to read. I had not changed the flat since I was in high school where you jacked up a jack. Well, and it was freezing rain. I tried to flag people down. No one would help me. I had to go to the bathroom so bad. I took care of that in the ditch. But I got that manual out, and I put my head on the steering wheel and said, God, help me, help me. Somehow, one hour later, I had changed a flat. I was an hour late for the meeting, but I had a feeling of https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 8 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM accomplishment that you cannot believe. I was, of course, covered in grease, but anyway, it has nothing to do with that. But yes, RAIN was a wonderful organization at the time that it was needed. Toby Jenkins: And kind of explain for our viewers what RAIN was, because a lot of young folks watch these videos and they don't know about this period of our history. Charles Faudree: It was so terrible but so rewarding. We went to the home of people that were not hospitalized but still needed care. We did everything. We would grocery shop for them. We took them to the doctor's appointment. We changed the litter box. We did anything we needed to help them, give them their medication, change their clothing. It was something. My friend, Rob Carpenter, was on our care team [Rob was the client]. And my sister, who has always supported me in everything, she worked on RAIN only because of Rob. She decorated his wheelchair. He loved it. They called him Dolly Hollywood. She, with a connection in Hollywood that we had, had Liz Taylor sign a copy to Dolly Hollywood for him. And we were with him the night…He's the one that took me to my first AA meeting because he was in Illinois. But we were with him the night before and the morning that he died and were able to say how much we loved him. But what a grueling death some of these people went through. Toby Jenkins: And Rob's name is on the quilt here in the lobby as you came through. Charles Faudree: Yes, and we worked on it. We made that quilt. You know, it's a different time with AIDS patients now. You know, St. Joseph's is closed. We worked at St. Joseph. But back to the home tour. What an affirmation it was for Tulsa to step forward and do what they did. This is not New York. And we were not Liz Taylor. But to have the people support us in all of this was unbelievable. And the decorators that I knew in town, each decorator did a room for St. Joseph. It was like a home. And a lot of the people would say this is, they died in a place that was more comfortable and more beautiful than they had lived in. We had, I did the living room, anyway, all of the decorators. And one of them ended up dying in one of the homes, one of the rooms that he had painted clouds on the ceiling and done the decor in the room. So it was a good time, but a very sad time to see people dying like they were. Today, you know, I'm on, and with losing all the friends, I made a promise to God that I found in my life that I would support AIDS fundraising as long as I lived or until there was a cure. I'm dealing with a health problem today myself, but I'm upright. And I have new hope, thanks to the power of prayer and positive thinking and good medicine that I'm going to be around a while. I had cancer 20 years ago when I was 3 years sober and into the candlelight tour and had surgery and it came back 10 years later. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 9 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM Charles Faudree: And I had 7 weeks of radiation and then it came back 3 years ago in the shoulder, in my shoulder, and today it's in 5 places in my bone. But I'm doing, I've been doing chemo since March. I did my first chemo the day of our Red Ribbon Gala. Toby Jenkins: Last year? Charles Faudree: Last year. Toby Jenkins: And how much money did they raise that night? Charles Faudree: $300,000 maybe $400,000. Toby Jenkins: No, it was more than that. It was five or six. I was there. They were honoring you. Charles Faudree: Yes, and what a surprise it was. I knew I was getting a little reward, but I didn't know the whole ink. I would have insisted on more people or more friends come, but I thought it was just another one of those glass awards. But it came at a wonderful time for me, because it was a very low and fearful time, because my doctor had said, this is not curable, but we will do everything we can to maintain it. And we have, and they have and I have. I ended up having what everyone thought was part of the cancer. I actually had Trigeminal Neuralgia, which is a disease that they never know what is brought on, but it's by a nerve that is in your skull right above your ear. But I had this pain that electric shoots would shoot to my head and caused me to have an earache that was pounding and half of my teeth ached as if I had a toothache. So I first went to my dentist who pulled. I'm telling you now this, I'm on a roll, but the dentist said, well, I think it's your back tooth. He pulled the tooth. I'm going to France. So I said, I'm going to France in 10 days, so I need the quickest cure. He said, well, the quickest is to pull it. So they pulled it. I went to France. 10 days later, a week later, I came home. Charles Faudree: I still had the toothache. So I went back to the dentist and he said, well, I think it's the next tooth. He pulled that tooth. Three weeks later, I still had pain. I went to him and he sent me to, I don't know, my terminology is not in the medical field. I think it was an endocrologist or something to diagnose what was wrong with my teeth. So they pulled my third tooth, which had nothing to do with the teeth, it was all this Xgeva that I had been taking for bone density had caused some deterioration of the bone in my jaw, which had caused this trigeminal. But I had gone to even my own doctor, Dr. Gawey, and said, everyone is doing their part, but what about this severe pain that I have in my head and in my ears and my eye? And a lady came in my shop and said, you have the same symptoms that my mother had. And CyberKnife took care of it. So I called Dr. Gawey again and met with https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 10 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM him and said, CyberKnife. So he said, well, we will try that. I don't think that's what it is. But trust me, it was CyberKnife. The woman in charge, the surgeon, or actually she's a radiologist that runs the CyberKnife, diagnosed it immediately. And I took CyberKnife, and I am totally pain-free. Thank you, CyberKnife. Thank you, God. Thank you, the power of prayer. Because I've had people praying for me that I didn't even know. I've gotten cards from people I didn't know. But what is so incredible is to live to be 75 and see the change that has been made. And I know, you know, I'm irritated. I wish all of us would have approached this gay marriage with another term than marriage, if we would have just said anything else but marriage. I know it would have passed in every state. Because every friend I have thinks that we deserve the same equal rights that every married people have. And I believe it. And I may not, you know, this red state that I'm in, I may never see that happen here. I think all we need is a legal commitment. And so that we can have legal rights when our partner is in the hospital. I have a partner of seven years that was my partner two other times for two years. And, you know, is now involved in senior care, as he calls it, taking care of me. But what a gift it is that I have him, because if I didn't, I don't know what I would do. it's a different time. We've come so far to have this equality center and you know, a lady in the, what happened this time? We have a lady in the Senate, ours, you know, that is gay. Toby Jenkins: Tammy Baldwin? Charles Faudree: Yes. You know, it's, I know we're making headway. We've made such headway in the 50 years since I've been out. You know, I would like to say this to all the young people, you know, dealing with coming out. You know, I have a friend now that has a daughter that's a senior in high school and has come out and the mother embraces her beautifully and she also is housing a girl that is 18 that her mother and dad kicked her out. So she's living with my friend Chrissy as well as her daughter. You know, there are people that don't understand this but the truth is, you know, I think gay people, young gay people should give their parents time to embrace it. You know, it took me a time to embrace it myself. We, I didn't, as Leslie Jordan said, I didn't fall out of my mother's womb in red heels. I was a Catholic and I dealt with it. It was a bad time, but it is a good time now. And, you know, I don't know what to say more than that except be thankful for where we are, never give up. You know, I can tell you because of being gay, I have learned to love myself. I'm not afraid to die, but yet I want to live more than I've ever wanted to live. So I'm glad to be https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 11 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM here today and hope that I helped someone with their story or helped their acceptance. Acceptance is a hard thing right now. Acceptance for me is really hard. I can't do what I want to do. I can't jump up and hang a picture on the wall. I haven't been able to travel because of germs on a commercial flight. I have a few clients that have private planes, but I'm on a new mission that just three weeks now that allow me to travel. And I take chemo four times. I mean, I take four pills a day that are chemo instead of the drip in my shunt. So my prayer is that it works and I won't have to go back to the regular chemo because my limitations are not as great as they were. I'm able to fly again. Toby Jenkins: Charles, I want to ask you about, I think the way you have framed this, I wish you had run for office. This is so eloquent the way you've said it, especially the advice you've given to young people. I first got to know you when I had first come out. I'd been fired by the district attorney and kicked out of the biggest church in town. And I found St. Jerome's Church. And that's actually where I got to know you and your mother. Charles Faudree: And my mother. Toby Jenkins: Who, I lived in the same neighborhood as she did. And as my children grew up, we would go down and visit with her on Saturdays and sometimes walk her little dog. I don't remember the little dogs now. But that's where I got attached to you and your mom. How important was finding a place that helped you blend the spiritual part of your life with the authentic self? How important was that? Charles Faudree: It was one of the greatest things that ever happened. Not only for that, but for my mother. I found St. Joseph's purely by accident. We used to have an AIDS walk every AIDS day from one church to another church. And we walked to this church. And I was with Hilary Kitz, who was in some office position then. And we walked and we went to St. Jerome's. I'd never seen that church. I knew it was sort of there because I had helped at St. Joseph's and it was right behind St. Joseph's Church hospice. But I got there and Father Rick was there, a gay priest, and he embraced everybody and I felt at home. So I said to Hilary, I think I'll come back to this church. Because I will tell you, with an alcoholic personality, if you get a little spiritual life, I wanted more. And I missed the pomp and circumstance or the ritual that the Catholic Church had, but I hated the judgment that they had. I still loathe going to a Catholic funeral when they say, would you please be seated while the Catholics take communion. had Father Sweat, he was in my shop today, and I had Father Sweat call and say, can I anoint you, Charles? It's not about dying, it's about living. And I said, Father, you know I https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 12 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM go to another church. And he said, yes, but if I would anoint you, you could come to the convent, which I'm trying to get to heaven any way I can. I had redone and dedicated all my fabrics and furniture to the convent living room. He said, you know all the nuns and come and go to mass on a Sunday, and I will anoint you, and you will be forgiven and you can take communion. And I should have hung up on him. I would be forgiven and I could take communion. You know, I have been forgiven for 23 years. I haven't gone any place that I wouldn't take my God with me. Now, back before when I would fall asleep in places, I took myself to some lonely places. So I found St. Jerome's and I went back that next Sunday, and I've gone Sunday since that I'm in town. I didn't know anybody in that church when I went back, except Father Rick, I had met once at a fundraiser and he thanked me for helping with other fundraisers. But I went back and later I came on the vestry. I met Toby there. And Toby, so my mother one Sunday said, Charles, why don't I go to the church with you? And I said, mother, this, so she, I said, well, that's fine. I'll pick you up. I took her to that church and she took communion. So after church, what a great time it was in my mother's life because she was in her eighties and I got to know her at a different time because my mother was very independent. My mother was a saint. I never heard her say a cuss word. I never saw her say a bad word about any of my sister's ex-husbands or talk about anybody. I wish I were more like her, but she, she said, Charles, I know that's not a Catholic church. So she started going to that church with me and we would have lunch every day. And all of these people like Toby embraced her. She was the matriarch of that church. She loved all the attention I got. She got, she, I'd say, mother, you look good today in red. She said, well, I wore red last week and they gave me so many compliments. Toby and someone else carried her up the steps the last Sunday that she went to church. She early on said, I want to join this church. And father Rick went to her and said, Ruby, you know, this church is not Catholic and the Catholic church would not approve of it. And she said, do you believe that? He said, no. And she said, I don't either. While an affirmation to me as her gay son, that she joined that church, the day that she joined that church, she was 86 and a 19 year old boy, 18 year old boy joined that church. There was not a dry eye in that church. So my sister has since joined that church. She has served on the vestry. We still have more straight people than we did. We have a more mixed race but fewer than I would like. I would like that church to be all, it totally is inclusive. Everyone is invited at the table. But I wish it were a bigger congregation. But Father Rick says, we https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 13 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM are here for those that have no other place to go and not accepted at other churches. So I have to remember that. So, you know, Francie and I have donated a wonderful stained glass window over the altar in memory of my mother who made her, was a motive of her getting up, putting her makeup on and going to church to be embraced with all the members of that church. Toby Jenkins: Well, that is beautiful. And as you know, I would have been, I probably would not have lived a month if I had not had St. Jerome's because spirituality was such an important part of my life. And I had been treated so hostile by the church that I had served so faithfully that if I had not been at St. Jerome's and met people like your mother and the wonderful people there, I probably would not have survived. So really the success of Oklahomans for Equality today, the largest gay rights organization in 43 states, a lot of that has to do with there was a place to help me not feel like that I had been abandoned by God. Just recently, last week, the Human Rights Campaign rated 137 cities across America on how good of cities those were for gay people to live in. And Charles, you may not be aware, but the Oklahoma City and Tulsa and even Wichita and other cities in this region, none of us got real high ratings and they rated Tulsa below 50%. I was interviewed by the media and I told them I felt like HRC had given us a low rating and it wasn't true of what the city was like. What are your thoughts? Do you feel like Tulsa is a welcoming, inclusive city to someone like yourself? Or do you feel like it's a hostile environment for gay people? You know, I don't, I don't think it is. I think it's, I mean, it's like I said earlier up in my story, I have never, ever felt as a minority with the people I work with and all the clients that I have. They have embraced me unbelievably. I will tell you back when I had my first shop, you know, 50 years ago, there was only one bar and it was totally disguised so you almost went underground and I had someone come in my shop with a badge and flash it and tell me that he was under the impression that I was gay and if I would give him a list of gay people in Oklahoma, I would be safe. And I said, well, it's totally an assumption on your part and thank God that's all I said because I went to the back room of my shop and called a gay attorney that Rogers, Bill Rogers, which a lot of you know, I called him and he said, I'll pick you up at the back door and he said, you said the right thing. But that's, I mean, that is a long time ago and you know, we don't feel that way today and it's like I said, it's only a little part of my life today because I feel safe and loved and embraced in Tulsa. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 14 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM Tulsa, you know, it's not, you know, because of the books I've written, I've been on speaking tours and they always say, if you could live anywhere, where would you live? And I say Tulsa, I love living in Tulsa, you know, because it's like I said, 25 years ago, they stepped out and have supported me in everything that I have asked for, in the way of AIDS, our fundraising for gay rights. Toby Jenkins: Well, I just think that is a wonderful way to conclude our interview. Addendum: Charles Faudree Obituary Charles Hamlet Faudree was born February 27, 1938 in Ada, OK to Ruby May (Brewer) and Hamlet Charles Faudree. He passed from this life Wednesday, November 27, 2013 at the age of 75. Charles attended St. Joseph's High School in Muskogee, OK and graduated from Northeastern State College in Tahlequah, OK with a Bachelor's of Arts degree in Art Education. He was gifted beyond measure in the field of interior design and was adored around the globe for his attention to detail, his blending of myriad blues and his abject love of all things French. Charles was honored by House Beautiful as one of the top designers in the United States and was the best-selling author of six books on interior design. His fabric and wallpaper lines marketed through Stroheim and his work covered by Veranda, House Beautiful, Southern Accents and Traditional Home among others, Charles leaves an indelible legacy in the field of interior design. A believer in strong community support, he touched the lives of countless Tulsans as the founder of The Hope Candlelight Tour, a passionate supporter of Tulsa CARES, an avid follower and advocate of AA and an enthusiastic parishioner of Parish Church of St. Jerome, ECC and, as well, a bell ringer at Christmas for the Salvation Army. Charles, throughout his life possessed an irrepressible sense of humor and quick wit, was an ardent prankster with a laugh that could light up a room and he collected friends from every walk of life and from every corner of the world. A humble man, generous of spirit beyond measure, caring more about others than self, he loved and lived life to the fullest extent possible and considered himself extraordinarily blessed to have had the support and love of a small and treasured family, the adoration and companionship of a cadre of Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, and the loyalty and admiration of https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 15 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM an extraordinary number of friends and acquaintances - all of whom considered themselves equally blessed to have called him friend. Charles will be long remembered as a fabulous brother to Francie Faudree Gillman; a caring and loving partner to Bill Carpenter; and, a steadfast companion to Ruby and Lila. A memorial service will be held 11:00 AM Wednesday, December 4, 2013 at Trinity Episcopal Church, 501 S. Cincinnati Ave., Tulsa, OK In lieu of flowers, friends may contribute in Charles' memory to Tulsa CARES at www.tulsacares.org or Parish Church of St. Jerome, ECC at www.stjerometulsa.org. Tulsa World November 29, 2013 Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 The décor expert and longtime presence on Cherry Street was known worldwide. C harles Faudree, a renowned Tulsa-based interior designer and philanthropist, died Wednesday. He was 75. Services are pending with Ninde Brookside Funeral Home. Best known as an expert in French Country décor, Faudree kept a longtime shop and studio in Tulsa's Cherry Street district, and over his 35-year career worked with clients worldwide, won many honors and saw his work featured in various books and magazines. A noted philanthropist as well, Faudree was the guest of honor in March at Tulsa CARES' https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 16 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM 15th annual Red Ribbon Gala, which supports people affected by HIV/AIDS. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 17 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM Faudree was a founding member of the organization. Local artist Patrick "Pat" Gordon knew Faudree for nearly 40 years. "There really wasn't a much better human as Charles," he said. That's not easy to say in this time and day. Charles had the ability to make you feel like you were the most important human being that ever breathed. He was just focused on you. If you didn't know him, your life is a little quieter for it." Former Mayor Kathy Taylor was a client. She said Faudree made an impact not just on the state but for the state. Taylor said his eyes were full of deep kindness and he always had a smile on his face. "When you were with Charles, you always thought you were the only person in his life at that moment," she said. "He would put himself and his incredible talent aside and really focused on making you feel like a great friend and a great person." Interior design wasn't Faudree's first career move. A native of Muskogee, Faudree graduated from Northeastern State University in Tahlequah with an art degree and from there attended the Kansas City Art Institute. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 18 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 He went on to teach art and sell home furnishings, living in Dallas for several 1/26/26, 11:52 AM years. But since he was a boy, when his mother had allowed him to choose his own paint colors for his room, Faudree had an interest in interior design. In late 1977, with his 40th birthday approaching, he decided to move back to Muskogee and open a design studio and antiques shop. Helping redesign a home there for his sister, Francie, Faudree suddenly found himself launched on a new career. Within a few years, Faudree was building an impressive list of clients from across the U.S. and Europe, and his designs were appearing in such magazines as House Beautiful, Southern Living, Traditional Home and House and Garden, as well as a number of decorating books. Named Traditional Home's Designer of the Year in 1995, he was later hailed by House Beautiful as one of America's top 100 interior designers for three consecutive years, 2002-04. Among his higher-profile projects abroad, Faudree was involved in the ongoing restoration of the historic estate La Finca la Caprichosa in Spain. Closer to home, Faudree in 1995 assisted former Oklahoma first lady Cathy Keating in refurbishing the Governor's Mansion. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 19 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 In the early 1970s, Faudree was one of the founders of Oklahomans for Human 1/26/26, 11:52 AM Rights in Oklahoma City. He worked with others to found a Tulsa chapter of OHR □ the forerunner of Oklahomans for Equality □ in the late 1970s. He was on the design team for the renovation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in downtown Tulsa and designed the center's board room. Tracy Salisbury, owner of T.A. Lorton, said Faudree touched many people worldwide and had an undeniable gift as an interior designer. "We had this funny relationship, said Salisbury, who had known Faudree since she was 15. She had her senior internship with him. "He was a grandfather to my children, a brother to me, a best friend □ just like he is with many people. Charles is a most cherished friend of mine. He is irreplaceable in my life and my family's." Faudree wrote five books on design. His first, in 2003, "Charles Faudree's Country French Signature," was released by Gibbs-Smith Publishers and is now in its ninth printing with more than 60,000 copies sold. https://tulsaworld.com/obituaries/localobituaries/renowned-tulsa-bas…audree-dies-at-75/article_4827f46c-5846-5c8e-8c2a-d94e08ee8551.html Page 20 of 21 �Renowned Tulsa-based interior designer Charles Faudree dies at 75 1/26/26, 11:52 AM In 2008, Faudree created his own fabric line, a first for him, collaborating with Tulsa-based textile brand Vervain. Although French Country remained his favorite □ Southern décor was also high on his list □ Faudree believed that good decorating was "about the mix and not the match" and that varying styles, both old and modern, could be brought together to create settings of beauty and comfort. Faudree also had a passion for dogs. He owned several of his favorite breed, Cavalier King Charles spaniels, over the last 25 years, while building an impressive collection of dog paintings and statues. Faudree is survived by his partner, Bill Carpenter, and a sister, Francie Faudree Gillman. 21 � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/afadae3c8c3311539745e4ef62a6ad06.pdf 7cbb2a826cc47dfcaa822f8bebf2d481 PDF Text Text Charles Faudree was an important part of the design team who helped bring about Oklahomans for Equality Dennis R. Neill Equality Center dedicated in Tulsa in 2007. Charles passed away in 2013. The information below is from his obituary. Charles Hamlet Faudree was born February 27, 1938 in Ada, OK to Ruby May (Brewer) and Hamlet Charles Faudree. He passed from this life Wednesday, November 27, 2013 at the age of 75. Charles attended St. Joseph's High School in Muskogee, OK and graduated from Northeastern State College in Tahlequah, OK with a Bachelor's of Arts degree in Art Education. He was gifted beyond measure in the field of interior design and was adored around the globe for his attention to detail, his blending of myriad blues and his abject love of all things French. Charles was honored by House Beautiful as one of the top designers in the United States and was the best-selling author of six books on interior design. His fabric and wallpaper lines marketed through Stroheim and his work covered by Veranda, House Beautiful, Southern Accents and Traditional Home among others, Charles leaves an indelible legacy in the field of interior design. A believer in strong community support, he touched the lives of countless Tulsans as the founder of The Hope Candlelight Tour, a passionate supporter of Tulsa CARES, an avid follower and advocate of AA and an enthusiastic parishioner of Parish Church of St. Jerome, ECC and, as well, a bell ringer at Christmas for the Salvation Army. Charles, throughout his life possessed an irrepressible sense of humor and quick wit, was an ardent prankster with a laugh that could light up a room and he collected friends from every walk of life and from every corner of the world. A humble man, generous of spirit beyond measure, caring more about others than self, he loved and lived life to the fullest extent possible and considered himself extraordinarily blessed to have had the support and love of a small and treasured family, the adoration and companionship of a cadre of Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, and the loyalty and admiration of an extraordinary number of friends and acquaintances - all of whom considered themselves equally blessed to have called him friend. � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Oral History A resource containing historical information obtained in interviews with persons having firsthand knowledge. Interviewer The person(s) performing the interview Toby Jenkins Interviewee The person(s) being interviewed Charles Faudree Location The location of the interview Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data Video Duration Length of time involved (seconds, minutes, hours, days, class periods, etc.) 42 minutes Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2012] Charles Faudree Oral History Interview Subject The topic of the resource Interview of Charles Faudree by OkEq Executive Director Toby Jenkins Description An account of the resource Video recording and transcript of oral history interview with Toby Jenkins on December 4, 2012. Born on February 27, 1938, in Ada, Oklahoma, Charles spent his early years in Muskogee, Oklahoma. He graduated from Northeastern State University in Tahlequah, Oklahoma. He taught art in a junior high in Tulsa, then relocated to Oklahoma City to open a design store. Later he returned to Tulsa and continued his retail design and furniture store occupation while becoming one of the best-known interior designers in the United States, specializing in French style and antiques. He was instrumental in funding early work in Tulsa to assist those living with AIDS through his work with Tulsa Cares and overseeing the design of St. Joseph’s House in Tulsa. He worked with Kirk Holt of Cisar/Holt in rallying designers to help with the improvements at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center which serves as the home of Oklahomans for Equality. Charles passed on November 27, 2013 in Tulsa.<br /><br />Physical tapes not yet located. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Toby Jenkins, Charles Faudree, Dennis Neill Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource December 4, 2012 2012 AIDS AIDS/HIV biography Charles Faudree Dennis R. 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(1943), a musical adaptation of Lynn Rigg's play Green Grow the Lilacs (1931). Riggs was born in 1899 on a farm near Claremore. He escaped Oklahoma when he turned 18, surviving on odd jobs in Chicago and New York. He returned to Tulsa a year later and worked briefly as a reporter for the Oil and Gas Journal. Part-Cherokee, Riggs used income from leasing his Claremore land allotment to attend the University of Oklahoma where he studied English and started to write poetry. Stress and illness (probably connected with a growing awareness of his homosexuality), however, prevented Riggs from graduating. Instead, in 1923,he left Norman and moved to Santa Fe at the invitation of gay poet Witter (Hal) Bynner (1881-1968) who had briefly taught at OU in 1922. Bynner, who edited the literary journal the Laughing Horse, published a few of Rigg's early poems. Bynner's own Santa Fe home is now a gay-friendly Bed and Breakfast, the Inn of the Turquoise I\I|SW, LCSW Counselor & Psychothe 4870 E Lewis Ave Suite 190 Tulsa, OK741 05 918 .284.A123 Bear. In Santa Fe, Riggs joined an literary and artistic circle that partly rotated around the wealthy Taos socialite Mabel Dodge Luhan who had talked bisexual British author D. H. Lawrence into moving to New Mexico. Along with Bynner, Rigg's New Mexico friends included gay artist Cady Wells and gay novelist Myron Brinig. Between 1935 and 1940, Riggs owned a home in Santa Fe located at 710 Acequia Madre. He also had an apartment in New York, at 1 Christopher St and also lived, for a few years, in France and Los Angeles working on Hollywood movie screenplays These included The Garden of Allah (1936), featuring Marlene Dietrich and Charles Boyer, Cecil B. DeMille's The Plainsman (1936) starring Gary Cooper and Jean Arthur, and also two early Basil Rathbone features, Sherlock Homes and the Voice of Terror and Sherlock Holmes in Washington. In Hollywood, Joan Crawford was a favorite beard. She gave Riggs a Scottish Terrier named Baron. Providing Mental He fo r olescents, Adults and Gouples. Riggs only returned to Oklahoma for brief visits. One of these was to attend the History Project Memories (Continued on page l2) 6 tohr.o I �(Continued from page 6) opening of Oklahoma! in Tulsa's Convention Hall (Brady Theater) in April 1947. Riggs had mixed memories of his boyhood state, describing Oklahomans as "a suspect fraternity, as fearful of being recognized by others as they were by themselves. Gamblers, traders, vagabonds, daredevils, fools. Men with a sickness, men with a distemper. Men disdainful of the settled, the admired, the regular ways of life. . . Pio- neers, eaten peop[e." On the other hand, he wrote his play Green Grow okho the Lilacs featuring Oklahomans were not parsimonious of speech and ordinarily, not parched in their fruity enjoyment of life. These people were few and far between indeed; but they existed, uneaten, undisturbed, hearfy, fertile, and gay." Riggs had complicated relations with friends and lovers. He had only two longer-term partners, both younger: the Mexican artist Enrique GasqueMolina (who painted and wrote as Ramon Naya) and Gui Machado, a performer in Jos6 Limon's New York dance company. With profits kom Oklahoma!, Riggs bought a home on Shelter Island, off Long Island, where he died from stomach cancer in 1958. Besides Green Grow the Lilacs, Riggs left behind a legacy of poems and plays (including the experimental Cherokee Night). And who can ignore Oklahoma!'s lyrical plea? Tlte.farmer and the cowman should be frtends, Oh, the farmer and the cowman should be friends. One man likes to puslt a plough, the other likes to chase a caw, But that's no reason why they cain't be friends. tr I a 0 a I 0 I a I a F (Continuedfrom page I l) ma. Steve served as Diroctor of Environmental Programs for the American Lung Association of Oklahoma for three years, trained as an Environmental Consultant and now provides environmental consulting and education to homes, schools and business through the University of Tulsa and Oklahoma State University. Steve has worked for the past 28ry,ears with nearly 50 different not-for-profits in Tulsa, primarily in fundriising ahd Board service. Steve resides near downtown Tulsa, attends Holy Family Cathednalsnd hasa strong group of longtime friends with a common goal of serving those in need. Janet Gearin Oklahoma born and bred, Janet left Oklahoma to pursue degrees that would lead her into a career as a Psychiatric Clinical Specialist. Her first stop was in Denver where she spent 3 years getting her BS in Nursing. As a University of Colorado graduate, Janet then had to make a decision of where to go for her Masters degree. She chose the great city San Francisco and spent 2 years there getting that Clinical Specialist certification from the University of California-San Francisco. Janet chose to return to her home state to be close to family and to be the flrst Clinical Specialist to practice in the state of Oklahoma. She is now well into her 31st year with the Depart- ment of Veterans Affairs. In the 1980's, she began helping those with HIV and AIDS. She was among those who established the TOHR helpline. She was with Shanti for several years, served on its first Board of Directors , and worked as a facilitator for many support groups for friends, family and persons with HIV/AIDS. Janet remembers the early days of RAN, PFLAG, and Interfaith AIDS Ministries as organizations that led the way. She worked with the Community Service Council for a number of years to expand, build and organize community services. She spoke to many different groups...from secretaries to Dental hygienists to other nurses during those years trying to build bridges of support and assistance for the Gay community as well as those living with HIViAIDS. In 1989, with the founding of Follies Revue, lnc., she found her real passion. She served as President several years and helped Follies raise hundreds of thousands of dollars for HIV/AIDS support and service organizations over a 10-year period of time. Since 2003, Janet has served on the TOHR board and she also works as a Center volunteer on Friday evenings. Lamont Lindstrom Lamont currently serves as the 2nd Vice President of TOHR. Lamont received his Ph.D. from the University of California at Berkeley and is a Professor of Anthropology at the University of Tulsa. Lamont is active in the Society of Gay and Lesbian Anthropologists and the advisor of the University of Tulsa's BLGTA (Bi, Lesbian, Gay & Transgender Association). Michael Mills a Michael has approximately twenty-five years of diverse experience in private industry and higher education. For the past eighteen years, he has held a variety of administrative management positions at The University of Tulsa, encompassing the areas of academic support services and student services administration. Currently, he holds the position of Associate Dean of Students and Director of Career Services and University and Community Service. Mr. Mills received his undergraduate degree from Oklahoma State University and his master's degree from The University of Oklahoma. Mr. Mills has presented workshops on a variety of topics, including Resume Writing, Interview Techniques, Dress-for-Success, Business Etiquette, The Successful Job Search, and Effective Communication. He currently seryes as VicePresident for Community Outreach on the Board of Directors for Youth Services of Tulsa. (Continued on page l3) 12 tohr.o I � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2006] TOHR Reporter "There Would Be No Oklahoma! Without Lynn Riggs" Description An account of the resource TOHR Reporter article about the life and works of Lynn Riggs from the September - October 2006 issue, pages 6 and 12. Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource September - October 2006 Subject The topic of the resource 2006 TOHR Reporter Article "There Would Be No Oklahoma! Without Lynn Riggs" Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource TOHR Reporter 2006 history project history project memories Lynn Riggs Oklahoma Oklahoma musical TOHR TOHR Reporter Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) https://history.okeq.org/files/original/b95930bb43b6204cc0b535ce32caa168.mp4 469e654a90e50910f02a606edc370ad8 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/de83922a814abfccb89b44324379c8b2.pdf 24694ed11bcd4bf4f24f336d45fea72a PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality Oral History Interview with Tom Neal Interview Conducted by Dennis Neill Date: April 30, 2026 Transcribed and Edited By: Dennis Neill using Reduct.Video AI, May 23, 2026 Restrictions: Interviewee requested: N/A Oklahomans for Equality History Project 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK. 74120 918.743.4297 historyproject@okeq.org 1 �About Tom Neal Summary In this in-depth interview, Tom Neal shares his life journey, from growing up in Oklahoma to becoming a community activist and publisher. He discusses his experiences with LGBTQ+ advocacy, the evolution of Tulsa's community spaces, and his reflections on social progress and challenges. Keywords LGBTQ+ history, Tulsa community, activism, journalism, HIV/AIDS, LGBTQ+ rights, community building, personal story Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:29 Tom Neal's Early Life and Family Background 01:15 Education and Early Influences 02:11 School Experiences and French Class Antics 03:11 College Years and Architectural Studies 04:21 Moving Back to Tulsa and Community Involvement 07:16 Growing Up LGBTQ+ in Tulsa 08:38 Realization of Sexual Identity and Puberty 09:46 Early Role Models and Family Support 11:20 First Awareness of Being Different 12:28 Family Reactions and Relationships 13:54 Exploring Sexuality and Personal Growth 15:16 Involvement in LGBTQ+ Organizations and Activism 16:42 Community Engagement in Dallas and Tulsa 18:40 Founding Tulsa Family News 2 �20:05 Courage to Be Open and Advocate 22:12 Memories of Bruce Goff and Architectural Roots 24:08 First Encounters with HIV/AIDS in Los Angeles 27:24 Activism and Civil Rights Work 35:19 Journalism and Publishing Journey 42:54 Proudest Achievements and Challenges 44:17 Memorable Moments and Mistakes in Publishing 45:24 Reflections on Community and Progress 50:22 Involvement with Oklahoma LGBTQ+ Organizations 58:51 Early Days of the LGBTQ+ Center in Tulsa 01:06:49 Community Challenges and Progress 01:11:49 The Impact of Media and Community Scattering 01:16:46 Reflections on Activism and Community Building 01:23:18 Future Plans and Personal Reflections Tom Neal Oral History Interview April 30, 2026 Dennis Neill: Good morning. It is April the 30th, 2026. I am Dennis Neill, and I am in the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Oklahoma Equality Center, and I'm here with Tom Neal. We have the pleasure of interviewing him, and with me is Mary Bishop-Baldwin, an archivist that is working with us here at the Center. So Tom, would you introduce yourself by mentioning your name and your age and where you grew up? Tom Neal: I'm Tom Neal. I'm 68. I was born in Oklahoma City, but we moved here when I was three, so I pretty much consider myself being from Tulsa. Dennis Neill: And tell me a little bit about your early life, your family life, your education as an adolescent. Tom Neal: Sure, so my father is a retired anesthesiologist, and he moved here to start the anesthesia department at St. Francis, and of course at that time, St. Francis was the edge of the city, and our little housing development, Holiday Hills, was about the only only place to live that was near the hospital. I think that was even before the LaFortunes donated their farm to become LaFortune Park. I don't remember this, but that's what I remember my mom saying. I have four brothers, two older, two younger. I'm biologically related to my three younger, two younger brothers, excuse me, and my two older brothers were adopted by my family, though they're biologically related to each other. Went through TPS, Carnegie, which I'm proud to say is still considered one of the best schools in the city, elementary schools, Nimitz, and then Memorial, and most people usually get thrown out of private schools and wind up going to a public school. I managed to get thrown out of a public school and wound up finishing up at Holland Hall my last couple of years, so I'm not sure it's a distinction to be proud of, but it's part of my history. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: What did you do to get kicked out? 3 �Tom Neal: I think I smarted off to one of the disciplinarians who was a coach, and they had sent me home for something, and I was feeling oppositional, so instead of going home, which most kids probably want to go home, I went to my French class, and he came and threatened to drag me bodily out of the French class, and so I spoke to him only in French at that point, which of course, and he later told my parents that I had cussed him out in French. I don't know, I didn't know when he cussed words in French, so that wasn't actually true, but anyway….wound up being one of the best things for me academically. I spent a couple semesters, well, I spent one semester at the American College in Paris. I was a little too young as a freshman to be that far away from home. There's a reason you do it in junior year, but I came back and went to the University of Tulsa for a couple semesters, and then I transferred to Rice in Houston and finished up there, class of 1980, with a degree in art and architectural history. Not very employable, but very interesting, and also a degree that involved a lot of writing, which may be relevant to other things. I also wound up having pretty intensive writing instruction when I was at Holland Hall, so that was a benefit there, too, as well as a couple of really good French teachers at Holland Hall. Then I moved from Houston to Dallas, started going to architecture school at the University of Texas at Arlington, and then left to go to an architecture program in Los Angeles, lived there for about four years, and then decided that the day that they had, well, this is just circumstantial, but the day that they had both an earthquake and a tornado in Los Angeles is the day that I moved back to Tulsa. So, and then worked here in Tulsa for a couple years, particularly for two architects, Kathleen Page and Rachel Williams-Zabrowski. Wonderful, wonderful people, who, after I worked with them maybe two years, Kathleen took me aside and said, we're firing you, not because we don't like your work, but because you need to go back to school and finish your architecture degree, because I had begun it, but not finished it. And I said, well, gee, thanks, maybe, but, so I wound up shopping my credits to Oklahoma State and then to OU, and Oklahoma State, they're like, well, you didn't do it here, you need to start from the beginning, and OU said, we're going to give you credit for almost everything, so I'm a Sooner, that was a no-brainer. So Rice, 1980, University of Oklahoma, 1989. Lived in Dallas again and then came back to Tulsa after my mother had an aneurysm, which she survived, thanks be to God, and have been in Tulsa. And that was probably, well, you [Dennis] and I knew each other before. I had met you when TOHR was almost new, and you and Doug [Hartson] and all that crew were doing stuff at the Aaronson Auditorium. But I think that might have been when I was working for Kathleen. And then I came back in 93 and got involved in, went to Pride, at that point still kind of in the wilds of Mohawk Park, and kind of got involved in the community. Kelly was leading things, Kelly Kirby was leading things then, and kind of went from there. Before I had a little, I'd been involved in a retail, a lesbian owned retail store in Dallas on Cedar Springs, in the heart of a kind of gay village. And so I tried to recreate that in Tulsa, even though it's a very different dynamic. Dallas had that concentrated 4 �little bit of community, whereas now and then, Tulsa's community is kind of scattered. And I had a store at the Silver Star Retail Store for about a year. Dennis Neill: Do you remember what year that would have been? Tom Neal: That would have been about probably 94-ish, 1994-ish. Dennis Neill: And was that Tomfoolery? Tom Neal: Yes, it was called Tomfoolery. Yeah, and it was a, kind of like Tulsa Family News, it was a, compared to some LGBT retail establishments, it was a pretty vanilla, clean, I didn't have things that you wouldn't, that you'd be ashamed to show your mother, for example. So, same with the paper, did not, tried to be a legitimate news outlet within my skill set. Anyway, so how am I doing? Dennis Neill: Great, so let's talk a little bit more about your early years, growing up in school, kind of your peers and your activities both within the school and any out of school activities that were of particular interest to you during that growing up phase. Tom Neal: Golly, well, I was like a lot of gay kids, I was probably pretty obviously gay, from elementary school, and I do remember getting harassed, at that time, it was just bullying, it was kind of the ethos of the time. A little bit at Carnegie, more so at Nimitz, junior high seems to bring out the worst, particularly in boys, but there's some mean girls too, you know. And actually, I remember also getting harassed at Memorial, there was one young man who used to, I didn't, I don't think I even knew his name, I don't think I'd ever met him, but whenever we would encounter each other in the hallways, he would scream faggot at me, which was, well, that's lovely. And I'm like, you know. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: How did you react to that? Tom Neal: Well, it made me angry, but there wasn't, I mean, there were no, there were no very few, to my knowledge, no support resources. I, like a lot of gay men of that era, tried to, was kind of in denial. I think, I do remember at age 16, I decided, being gay is not very easy and I'm not going to be gay, because I'm just a pig-headed gay and I figured I could just kind of will myself not to be gay. And that lasted until 24. And I was in a relationship with a young lady and she broke up with me and I thought, probably this is the time I need to just acknowledge, but we lived together and, to some degree had a fairly successful relationship. Dennis Neill: Any children? Tom Neal: No, no, no, no. We were not married and we did not have children. We worked really hard not to have children, trust me. Dennis Neill: So, going back a little bit to when you were first feeling your identity, can you talk a little bit about your evolution of realizing what your identity is and how you experienced that early on? Tom Neal: I think the thing that's important to remember, I’m a little bit of a history nerd, so, I was born in 1957, so 1977, I was 20. Back five years, 1972, I was 15, right? If I'm doing the math right. And 1972 Stonewall had only happened three years before. 5 �There was no, there was not, I mean, if you wanted to like look at images of a male figure, I think, like, you got to check out the football players' tight pants and look at the underwear section in the Sears and Roebuck, which is all airbrushed by the way, so. So, I mean, there was no, there was no, there was no, I mean, there was actually no role models. There was nothing out there and particularly, maybe in New York or, California, but not, I don't think so even there particularly, but even less so in Tulsa, Oklahoma. My parents, who wound up over the years being tremendously supportive of TOHR and the things I did with the community, loaning me, donating at times, loaning me their truck if we needed to set up things for Pride when we did the first Pride in Owen Park. Even though they were old school conservative Republicans, not the new ones, faithful Presbyterians and in hindsight, given that I could have been born into a Baptist or some kind of evangelical kind of tradition, I'm really grateful because the Presbyterians didn't say anything homophobic. We didn't exist. They didn't acknowledge our existence, but that was more benign than certainly other options. I met a young man at Trinity recently who identified himself as a refugee from a Southern Baptist upbringing. Dennis Neill: When did you first kind of distinguish between being gay and being heterosexual or being homosexual? When did that first kind of come into your mind? Tom Neal: Puberty. I mean, puberty hit and I knew that, I'm like, okay. One of these things is not like the other and I'm like, the other dudes are like, hey, there's this girl who will meet you behind New Haven Methodist Church and you can have some fun. This is in junior high, mind you, and I'm like, I couldn't get out of the, I'll pass. I mean, I knew that I didn't want to do that, and I think that's pretty. Dennis Neill: Did you date at all in junior high? Tom Neal: Just the standard, ask a girl to go to a dance because your best buddy was going to a dance and, so you wanted to go with them and, you know. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Realizing this about yourself, that you were different, did that scare you? Tom Neal: No, but I think I was really lucky. Our mother was a woman of very, very strong character. She had endured, survived some really serious health challenges as a young woman and I think she just, I don't know, I think somehow we got imbued with that strength of character, , that I'm not the problem, y'all may have a problem, but I'm not the problem, who I am. And that's a gift from my parents that I cannot underestimate. So no, I basically… like I know that young LGBT plus people sometimes have suicidal thoughts, that kind of stuff, and I'm like, F that. I am fine. The problem is with you guys. Dennis Neill: So how did you explore your sexuality with your family, both your parents and your siblings? How did that evolve and have there been issues that have brought discomfort to either you or the family? 6 �Tom Neal: I don't think my older brothers talked about it. We didn't talk, but they're enough older. My oldest brother was born in 1949 and my next brother in 51, so they were off into the world while I was growing up. So we have a good relationship now, but we weren't, they were awake. They were off at college, one brother was in Korea. So less of an issue. My youngest brother is seven years younger, so he was a baby during some of this time. Tom Neal: Really my next younger brother, to whom I'm probably, I hate to pick favorites, closest, but we talk every day now that you can talk for free, and he somehow fell into more evangelical traditions, faith traditions. And so at times it was very difficult. I mean, for a while he worked for American Airlines and I think they still do, but particularly then they had non-revenue benefits where family members could fly for next to nothing. And at one point he was like, you're using these benefits to go do gay things and I, you can't, I forbid that you should do that because you're doing gay things. And I don't approve. And I'm like, I said, you don't tell your mother-in-law what she can go do with her non-revenue benefits, you know? So, I mean, because I was living in Dallas and I went to ILGA, which is the International Lesbian and Gay Association Conference in Stockholm. And the only reason I could do it was because I had basically an almost free ticket, though I did have some application fees and DGA, Dallas Gay Alliance, it was called then. I asked them to give me some funds to help with the trip and, so, and I... Dennis Neill: So, that is after you finished which level of education you were... Tom Neal: That was, that was after I finished up at Rice. No, that was probably after finishing both degrees, because I lived in Dallas in between the degrees, and then I lived in Dallas after the degrees, because I graduated from OU, had enough to go to work with Stan Grala, who's the G in GH2, and probably should have worked for Stan. We had a great working relationship. The H's, Mike and Kara Hall, went to work for him. Stan designed horse barns. He was an equestrian architect. Very different practice, right? But I wound up working for a firm here in Tulsa, and then I got an opportunity to work for RTKL, which is a very prestigious firm in Dallas, and I moved back to Dallas and worked for them. What was the question? Circle back. Dennis Neill: Kind of your activities in Dallas. Tom Neal: I just was involved in community stuff. Obviously kind of had the bug in. I had gotten involved in LGBT plus activism at OU, because we were trying to get a nondiscrimination policy for OU, which the university did not have, and they were not particularly willing. They were actually quite unwilling to add that on, and so we lobbied the Board of Trustees, Board of Regents. I went to a black alumni dinner once to talk to the one black regent, just to see, because it was the only opportunity to get face-to-face with her. Since this happened, OU's gotten there. I wish it got there a lot faster, much to my chagrin. I think Laura [Belmonte] was a big part of that, to be honest. I kind of found my voice there. I never really wanted, thought I would be an activist. So I'd gone there because I already had an undergraduate degree. My course load was lighter. My first year was, so I didn't have to do all the distributions. All I had to do was the architecture 7 �program. Well, the first year I got most of that out of the way, so my second year I'm like, and I ran for the Student Congress, and got elected, and again was just really agitating to try to get all this, and then when I came, after I finished up, I kind of continued that in the community, and that was in Dallas. I was involved with GLAAD, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, which at that time, it was not a single office national organization. It was a bunch of chapters around the country. There was a chapter in San Francisco, Los Angeles, New York, obviously D.C., maybe Atlanta, I don't know for sure, but one in Dallas, and got involved with that. And my dear friend of mine, CeCe Cox, who's from Bartlesville, who's been the head of the gay, the equivalent of OkEq in Dallas, was kind of my comrade-in-arms in that, and we kind of built GLAAD and went to organizing meetings. In the process of trying to create a national GLAAD organization, we had meetings all over the country to do that. Dennis Neill: How were you finding the fight at OU? Tom Neal: At OU? I am class of 89, and I went there in 87, so it would have been between 87 and 89. Dennis Neill: And did you have an organized gay or lesbian group on campus that was helping you? Tom Neal: Yeah, yeah, we did. Dennis Neill: Were you very involved in that? Tom Neal: I was one of the leaders of that at one point. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Let me ask you about that. Tom Neal: Yeah. Dennis Neill: You were working on a graduate degree in architecture at that time or another undergraduate… Tom Neal: So I actually took a second undergraduate degree, but in architecture, you can do a four-year degree, but then you have to have a two-year master's in order to have a qualifying degree to be professionally licensed. Or you can do a five-year degree, which qualifies you for professional licensing. So I went and spent two more years, combined with my other undergraduates, to get a B-Arch, which is a five-year degree. In hindsight, I wish I had gotten a master's, because later, I wound up teaching at TCC, and if I had had a master's, I could have continued teaching. But anyway, that's... Maty Bishop-Baldwin: So while you were there, you said there were no protections for LGBT people. Tom Neal: Correct. 8 �Mary Bishop-Baldwin: But yet, you were willing to put your face and your name out there and say, hey, I'm gay, and we need these protections. What gave you the strength and courage to do that when you knew that you could be expelled just for being gay? Tom Neal: Well, I don't think they were actually doing… I don't know that they would have done that. I guess they could have technically, but I don't think they would have because they'd have to, they'd lose way too much of the university. But two, I would go back to my blessed mother whose, courage in life, kind of informed, my, I don't know, maybe it's the Zodiac is somewhat esoteric, but, Leo, I mean, I'm like I'm right and they're wrong. Dennis Neill: Could you post posters about your meetings? Were you undercover… Tom Neal: No, we were not undercover and in fact I think we had student funding like any other student organization. Somebody else had won that battle before I got there and because they started, I was not there then. But every student organization needs a faculty sponsor, and our faculty sponsor was a groundbreaking African-American professor, Dr. Henderson- I can't remember his first name, not gay, not even remotely gay, but committed to the notion that people, all people, should be treated fairly, and as a black man understanding some of that struggle. Dr. Henderson agreed to be the faculty sponsor and, like I say he'd been that for some time. He didn't really do anything day to day. You know we had to have a signature, I think once a year and yeah, so you know there was another advantage. My blessed father paid for my tuition, so I wasn't dependent on scholarships. I had a certain amount of economic invulnerability. I went back to OU when I was 29, and at 29, hopefully you've got your act together a little bit better and you know I'm like… Dennis Neill: what was the name of the organization? Tom Neal: That's a good question, Dennis. I can't remember. I could probably Google it, it's probably out there with like everything else. Dennis Neill: So, being in an architectural program at OU, did you have any background on Bruce Goff and his role at OU? Do you want... about what you encountered at OU and then the subsequent history, if you know about how OU kind of redeemed Bruce Goff? Tom Neal: Well, it's really interesting because I wound up again my last year- I had a little extra time, so I was involved as a student representative of different things, like we had a lecture committee, and I was the student rep and this kind of stuff. And I remember having lunch. We had an Englishman who was one of our professors there and they brought a speaker- in no idea who that speaker was. I was invited to lunch at the faculty club or whatever, and we were having lunch with him and they were talking about Bruce Goff. But at that point he was like we don't talk about the fact that Bruce Goff was a gay man and that the university was hostile to him during some of that time, and I of course brought that up and I thought the English guy was going to kind of have a little fainting spell perhaps. But yeah, no, certainly, even then Bruce Goff has certainly been radically embraced by the university. Now wasn't as much then. They weren't, but 9 �they were proud of his work. They just didn't want to talk about the- you know the not so pretty history of how the university treated him. Dennis Neill: If you go into the architectural school at OU now, do you see evidence of Bruce Goff? Tom Neal: I would imagine, though I have not been back in some years. I haven't been in that building since I served on the Tulsa Preservation Commission for three years and we had a training session at OU and that's the last time I was there, but that was when Dewey Bartlett was mayor. So that gives you- I can't remember the date on that, but that's been seven or eight years at least, if not maybe longer. Dennis Neill: Where were you when you first learned about HIV-AIDS? Tom Neal: Oh, absolutely, I lived in Los Angeles, which is one of the epicenters. LA, New York, San Francisco were all hit hard and I had a couple of kind of best older, best friend, gay guys who had been my neighbors and they kind of adopted me. They were like my gay uncles, and they started. My friend Kerry got sick first and then wound up... it was the classic early, what are we talking? Nineteen, eighty-three, probably about eighty-three, because I graduated from Rice in eighty and lived a couple years in Dallas, went to California and Kerry and Phillip were partners. We lived in the same loft building in downtown Los Angeles before it was stylish to do so, by the way, it was right in between Little Tokyo, which was nice, and Skid Row, which was not so nice, and we were closer to Skid Row. But they were my neighbors there and then we also wound up living in an apartment building in mid-Wilshire, much nicer part of town. Kerry got sick, wound up in part of the big hospital, public hospital. It was east of downtown and in those days people got pneumonia, they died. It's that fast and nobody knew what the hell was going on. You know Kerry… digressing slightly, well, he was from Indiana, so he went home, Philip went with him, I flew back. In those days it was prior to 9-11, so you could like, I actually took a thing of sushi because he wanted sushi. So I carried sushi halfway across the country and then he couldn't eat it because he just wasn't feeling well. Those were kind of dire days. And I remember going to get my first HIV test, which at that time nobody in Los Angeles was doing it. The only place was the center in Long Beach. You drove 30 miles to Long Beach and then you waited for two weeks because it was not an instant test, and thanks be to God. You know I'm- the term had not been invented yet- but I realized that I'm probably demisexual, which means I kind of like to know people before I have sex with them. I'm not going to go into too much sex here, but so I think that probably might have…maybe didn't get infected because of that, because I'm like I just am not comfortable with this and so, but that was not the ethos at the time. Dennis Neill: I'd like to spend a little bit more time about your personal knowledge of HIV/AIDS, since it's shaped generations, yeah, yeah, yeah. So you first encountered it in LA and you've been in Dallas and Tulsa. Just talk a little bit more about your path in activism particularly related to HIV/AIDS. 10 �Tom Neal: I think to be honest, I focused more on civil rights issues because there were already a lot of people working on HIV issues, particularly when I wound up back in Tulsa after 93. TOHR had the testing program that later became HOPE. So those kind of were covered when I was involved in TOHR leadership. Of course we were, they were us and we were they and you know being supportive of the two programs. it's just, I don't know, it's just, I mean I'm a regular visitor here for the testing program. So I even brought my… I had a foster kid for a while and I brought my foster kid because he's like I need to get tested. And I said, and my foster kid was straight, very straight, extremely straight, and I said, Nathan, your risk factors are really, really low. I mean, I'm sure we can do this, but I don't see…What I didn't know, the other tests they do, along with the HIV test, is syphilis. Yeah, my foster kid tested positive for that. So we had a little conversation about safer sex as well as the concept of statutory rape, because I think the young lady with whom he'd been involved, who apparently was the initiator, I said it doesn't matter if she initiates it, if she's 14, you're going to prison. He was 17. So yeah, sorry, I have a little ADD, and so we, my conversations, are almost always meandering, so I don't know really how to add to that. It's always been kind of part of, I mean, I feel, on some level, I think any of us, you know gay men, but lesbians too, not necessarily for the same reason. We've all kind of been informed and scarred by that experience, because… Dennis Neill: Have you lost many acquaintances or friends to AIDS. Tom Neal: Some, probably would have been more if I'd spent more time in more exclusively gay circles. But, like I say, in Los Angeles I was going to architecture school. And the majority of the people I was around were heterosexual. So at least in that time their exposure and their risk factors were a lot lower. So enough, particularly Kerry and Philip. I mean I remember I kept up with Philip after Kerry died and Philip was from, he was from Massachusetts and went back there and I remember thinking I need to call, I need to call, I need to call see how he's doing. But I kept putting it off because I was really I was afraid that I would hear that he had died. And I finally called and I got his mother and he was, he was very, very Italian Catholic family, you know. So I mean, that was his Boston identity and we had a sad conversation, because she was like she- not her exact words, but it was like honey, you know. Now he's gone, you know. So anyway, yeah, I don't know. Dennis Neill: I should have asked you this earlier: design has been kind of your life. What was your stimulus that got you so interested in design work and was there any other career path that you considered other than architectural? Tom Neal: Well, I published a newspaper for eight years, so without any formal journalistic training other than the writing that I alluded to at Holland Hall, and then if you're in an art history program, basically art history is dealt with by writing about it, right? So I think I developed those but, and that I kind of more fell into might also have been kind of an outgrowth from the work with GLAAD, an awareness of how critical media is to our community towards representation. 11 �But the architecture stuff, I think it was always an interest. So my mother is from a little tiny town called Wewoka in east central Oklahoma and my grandfather had a barber shop in downtown Wewoka next to the movie theater. He'd always wanted to be a physician, but his father had what we now call Alzheimer's or dementia and wound up in the state. My great-grandfather would have been in the state hospital in Norman, because that's all they had, that's all they could do. Tom Neal: So he wound up being a barber because he had, like I don't know, half a dozen siblings and somebody had to help take care of them. So and my grandmother learned to be a beautician. They had the barber shop in front and the beautician shop in the back and in those days, you had magazines galore, right, because pre-Internet we didn't all look at our phones, so you had like the hunting magazines and the sports magazines in the barber shop in the back they had like House Beautiful, House and Garden and whatever those kind of things, and some of them would show one of the magazines would have plans, would have the floor plans of the houses, and I remember being you know little kid, I was fascinated. I would sit in the barber shop or in the beauty shop, depending, and look at the magazines and study the plans. The interest was there. I also think that if you think about left brain, right brain and wiring the way, I think I have a memory which also fits with an art history degree. I have a strong visual memory, much more so than other things, so like for love or for money, I can probably not remember the name of a song or song lyrics. That kind of information is like gone as soon as it's in my head it's gone, but visual stuff stays with me and, by way of example, years ago I was, I had worked for 10 years doing kitchen bath design for Home Depot while I kind of did my practice on the side. So I met a lot of people. It's a downtown store, very diverse, you know north side, south side, midtown, wherever- and I'd gone into Petty's- and God rest its soul right. So for something I didn't usually shop there- and there was an older, very distinguished couple and I said, oh, Tom, how nice to see you and I'm going… Usually I can remember faces but I'm like I have no idea who these people are, not a clue. You helped us with our kitchen, this, that and the other, and we still love it three or four years later. And they said: and that island. And I said, oh, the island. Oh, wait, a minute now did we do this, this? And this wasn't the island, kind of like this. I remembered the island. I could not remember who they were, but I could remember the visual, the design that we did for that. I think for better, for worse, that's where my brain wiring is. And I'm at the risk of being immodest, I'm pretty good at what I do because I think I'm working with my natural tendencies or skillset. Right. Dennis Neill: So you bring up your interest in writing and, excuse me, journalism. Let's talk a little bit more about your early introduction into publication and writing. And I do recall, right, Tom, that you were a writer for the Parachute. And I believe that was Chuck Breckridge. Tom Neal: Who's still in town. Yes. Reverend Chuck. Good. That'll be wonderful. Dennis Neill: So just talk us through, kind of chronologically, your interest in journalism, how you got involved and how the new world has impacted journalism and why you decided to stop publishing. 12 �Tom Neal: So I came back to Tulsa, I, at that point was, I mean, I had my little retail store that I wanted to do, but I also needed something else to make a little bit more money. And so Chuck was doing a newspaper, he was based in Wichita, but he was distributing the paper here. And he, I think, offered a job to sell advertising for him. So I took that with the understanding I would also write, I would write to him, I'd be the local writer. And I did that for him for a few months before I realized that I could do it myself and cut out the boss, which maybe is not very nice, but, and so that's when I started Tulsa Family News, title, definitely deliberately ironic. And but with, we were, I had an AP subscription, it was, the intention was to be within the boundaries of my skills, as good and as serious of a newspaper as we could do. And I did that, I think it was eight years. I later, the store closed because the lease ended. And I was also, I don't smoke. And being in a smoky bar till two o'clock in the morning, most of the nights of the week was just a little much. And I wound up taking a job at Home Depot and fell into the design position then. And I was just burning myself the candle at both ends, it was just too much to work full time, do the newspaper. And I finally, after eight years, just said, I’ve, I just, I can't do this. It was right on the edge of the transformation because of the Internet and that kind of thing. If you think about Dennis and Mary, when I came back to Tulsa, we were just beginning to have cell phones, because I remember the number I still had today is one that I got through the LGBT business group that, there was somebody offering cell phones at a discount to the group, and that was my first cell phone. And then personal computers were just coming in, well, had just started coming in when I was at OU in 1989, because they had the first very rudimentary CAD programs, Computer Aided Drafting. At the time I was doing this it met a need in the community, in my opinion, continue to fight battles, like trying to get Tulsa City County Public Library to let us be in the library, free distribution, which they offered without question or restriction to everybody until we ask, God bless Pat Woodrum. And then they changed the rules so that they didn't have to let us in. And I think that went on until I, let's see if I can remember his name, he was a County Commissioner at the time, and he's since, I think he lives mostly in Buena Vista, Colorado these days, but I got a hold of him and said, this would probably be a really good First Amendment lawsuit, and really embarrassing for the City County Library system that they are not allowing a publication in when their whole purpose is to promote publications and reading, and shortly after that the policy changed. Dennis Neill: To allow you back in? Tom Neal: Yeah. To allow us, yeah. Dennis Neill: Do you recall what time frame we're talking about, and how long it took to resolve? 13 �Tom Neal: I think I was doing the publication between about 94, 93, 94, and eight years later, so around 2000, so it was sometime in that period. Maybe his name is Bob, I could look it up, but yeah, yeah. You would recognize the name, yeah. Dennis Neill: And was it every two months, is that when… Tom Neal: Every month. Every month. Dennis Neill: And then who actually printed the publication? Tom Neal: Well, so that was another thing. I got turned down left and right by printers, by other people, and I finally happened to talk to Dave, I can't remember Dave's last name, more of those escaping names, but he was the publisher of the Claremore Daily News, and I drove up to Claremore, and they published it for me, and then I went back to Claremore, got it, and then I dragged my backside all over town distributing it, you know. So it was pretty much a one-person show, me, me, and me. Dennis Neill: But now, how was John Christjohn… Tom Neal: At the time, he and I were living together… Dennis Neill: As partners? Tom Neal: Yeah and we had met in Dallas and then he moved up here and we're still friends. Full disclosure, he is a tenant in one of my garage apartments. It's kind of hard to find a place to live when you have three or four dogs and no money. So not trying to throw him under the bus too much. But anyway, so he wrote for me because he was kind of part of it and sometimes, he helped with parts of it. I had a number of writers. My friend Merry Schepers, I think wrote, something about the handy lesbian or something. She did home improvement stuff. There was Mark Wright who's an attorney, Native American attorney who I think lives in DC now and he would do food reviews and honest God, the ladies who started Wild Fork, he wrote a horrible, horrible, mean review of them. And I'm like, I'm gonna publish it. Try not to censor my writers. And they were furious at me for years and did not believe me that I, they thought I'd written it. And I'm like, I'm not that much of a foodie and no, there is a person, I'm not gonna tell you his name because that's part of the deal, but I did not write it. And I think they may have forgiven me, but for about 10 years I'm pretty sure they didn't forgive me, so. Dennis Neill: How about Dyke Devine? Was she a column in your paper? You recall that? Tom Neal: Maybe. I don't remember. Dennis Neill: I think that might have been Anna Dodwell that wrote it. Tom Neal: Yeah, it might have been. Yeah, yeah, because Anna and I are still, I don't think she lives here now. Tom Neal: Yes, she does. 14 �Tom Neal: I know we, I think we're Facebook connected, but you know. Yeah, yeah. Dennis Neill: So looking over your eight years of publications, what do you consider your greatest achievement, like a storyline or investigative report? What is one of your proudest moments of being a publisher? Tom Neal: Two things. I think I did, early on, did an interview with Susan Savage, which, I mean, getting a major, to our city, public official to interview with an LGBT publication, I think that was kind of a nice little coup. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: She was mayor at the time. Tom Neal: She was mayor at the time. I kind of had to shame her into it, so, but we got there. And, and then I did an interview with Steve Largent, who was either running for Congress, no, I think he was running for Congress, but later was our congressman, first district congressman, with whom I had tremendous political, theological and philosophical differences, but he was always very, very civil. He was a very decent man, at least interacting with him as a person. I like those, those two things. I think just surviving for eight years is maybe an accomplishment. Speaker 3: What was the rest of the question? Tom Neal: There was something. Dennis Neill: That was really it. How about a low, where you really feel like... Tom Neal: The lowest low, and you might appreciate this, is when I misspelled Tahlequah in the headline above the fold. That chapped my backside. You needed a copy editor, didn't you? But it was me, me, me, me, and me. I was, I was, and it was like, it was in print. I had however many copies I had printed every month before I even realized. I'm like, oh, something about some community organizing in Tahlequah or something with Northeastern State. I don't remember that. All I remember is that I screwed it up with the spelling. That, that really, I mean, I'm sure there are other things. I think there may have been a story that they jumped and then disappeared. But, considering that that has happened in major, in like the Tulsa World and other publications, and they had a lot more people to help them than I did, maybe I'll cut myself some slack. Dennis Neill: So, Mary, you have some other questions around journalism. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Let's see, when you were writing for Chuck Breckenridge for his publication, and you thought, I can do this myself, how did it feel to go out on your own in competition with him, the man who had been your boss? Tom Neal: Well, we had not worked together for very long. I mean, it was probably only maybe three or four months. And again, I have tried over the years to make a point to be civil with people, even with whom I've had an argument in the past, or with whom I have lots of disagreements. I mean, God rest her and Joe's soul, but Nancy MacDonald and I did not see eye to eye on a whole lot of stuff, and I was very vocal about it, and I wrote about it at times, and pissed off…I think there are still gay men in this community for 15 �whom Nancy was a saint, and they're angry at me about it. But she was like another mother, or at least an aunt, and Joe and my father are the same generation, and he practiced at St. John's, he was an anesthesiologist as well. So, I mean, I guess my point is, I kind of strayed away from your original question, but my point is, we've got to be nice to each other. Even if we, I mean, I'm sure I pissed you [Dennis] off about something somewhere along the way, though you've always been so kind and gracious to me, you know. So, I'm sure there have been other people. Well, Tim and I have struggled, you know. God bless him, but even we, these days at least, I think are civil. Yes, sir? Dennis Neill: So, what was your competition during that period of time? Of course, the Gayly has continued to publish over this period of time, and just knowledge about other publications would be very helpful during your era, or really any of the time that you weren't even publishing, your interest in the other journalistic world reaching out to our community. Tom Neal: Really, other than the Parachute, there have been things before. Oklahoma City, I mean, the Gayly has always been kind of OKC-centric, you know. I mean, and it was, maybe they're doing better now, but at that time they really, they were distributed in Tulsa, but they didn't really cover Tulsa to a meaningful degree. I think Chuck got busy with other, I don't know that he continued, I don't remember how long he continued the Parachute after that. Next thing I know, he's here and he's working in a religious capacity rather than this. To be honest, Dennis, I don't think there was much. But again, about the time I was shutting down was about the time that everything, the Internet exploded, you didn't need a local news. When I started, you couldn't get this news any place else to any significant degree. I was going through AP specifically, Associated Press, specifically looking for stories of interest to the community. The Tulsa World was not covering LGBT plus stuff, and the local broadcast media, and of course I'm a print snob anyway, so, I think TV broadcast is kind of stupid news, but it has reach. Dennis Neill: So do you have any background on the Star or the Metro Star? I think they may have come after you. Tom Neal: I don't remember them much, to be honest. Dennis Neill: I guess there was some perspective, but also a publication around it. Tom Neal: Yeah, I just, again, since I don't really go out, I mean, and that was true even when I wasn't 68 years old. Dennis Neill: And, as a sign of the times, this is the month that the Gayly had to go all digital, they no longer do hard print. Tom Neal: I did not know that, wow. Dennis Neill: Yeah, Robin's been so loyal, continue that publication, but just financially realized that she could not continue to sustain a hard copy. 16 �Tom Neal: You don't do journalism for the money. It's like teaching a TCC, you don't do it for the money. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: I can verify that. Tom Neal: Yes, ma'am. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Adjunct? No, I meant about journalism. Tom Neal: Oh, yeah, about journalism, yeah, yeah, yeah. Dennis Neill: So, Tom, let's talk a little bit more about your role and knowledge and involvement with OHR, then TOHR, and then Oklahomans for Equality. So we first formed the organization in 1980. When was your first exposure to what was then OHR? Tom Neal: 1980? Probably about three years after that, and I think it had become TOHR at that point. Dennis Neill: 1985. Tom Neal: Okay. Maybe it was, yeah, maybe, yeah. I don't know. I do remember going down and going to the Aaronson Auditorium, and there was Doug Hartson, greeter par excellence, and, it was, there was always kind of a program, I've told the kids running this place they need to go back and do that some, they need to have periodic meetings and a program of some kind, but we'll see. And then, like I say, and then I was back at OU, so I was out of the picture, and I was in Dallas, and then I was back from Dallas, so... Dennis Neill: And you said in 84 was when you came back to Tulsa, is that right? Tom Neal: Yeah, I think, I think, yeah, that's why I wasn't around for OHR. I spent, maybe, I'm fuzzy with numbers, it's kind of like song lyrics and titles, I get, I have to have something to tie a memory to, but class of 80, Rice, two years in Dallas, I thought it was four years, but maybe three or four years in Los Angeles, and then back, and then working in Tulsa, probably for two or three years before I went to OU in 87. Somehow that math doesn't add up, so, maybe I was in one of those places less long than I remember, so. Dennis Neill: So you would have been dating my roommate, Mike Williams, and that would have been around 87 and 88. Tom Neal: Yeah, right before I went to OU, and that's when you and John first met, if memory serves me, and you were in that house over on Cincinnati or Boston, one of those places. Dennis Neill: Yeah, Boston Court. Tom Neal: Yeah, and I think I just signed a carport for you guys. Dennis Neill: Uh-huh, that's correct. Tom Neal: I forgot about that. 17 �Dennis Neill: So tell me a little bit about that time frame, so you were here for, I guess, a short period of time. Tom Neal: A couple years. Dennis Neill: Were you dating Mike while you were in Tulsa, or were you also... Tom Neal: No, I, we petered out, I don't know, I don't remember what happened, but yeah, I was dating him when I was in Tulsa. There's another guy with red hair, whose name I can't remember. That was when Kathleen, when I first went to work for her, she worked out of her house over by, well, kind of not far from your house, that same neighborhood. And then she went into this old red brick building over here off of, over on 3rd Street, it's kind of isolated by itself, Detroit, right, 4th and Detroit, right there, and she worked there, and then I went to OU. I'll be blunt, I don't think I've had great luck with relationships. Mr. Christjohn being one of the last ones, and it is flawed and toxic in many respects, but it's of many years' acquaintanceship. Dennis Neill: Then, 83, 84, you're back, I mean, sorry, 93, 94, you're back in Tulsa. Tom Neal: Right. Dennis Neill: You've got the store going on Silver Star, you've got your publication going, and then how did the TOHR come on your radar when you came back and your involvement, including being on the board and president? Tom Neal: Yeah, well, I got involved because I got involved in Pride, because I went to that first, I just was barely back in town and went to Pride, and it was in Mohawk Park, much to my chagrin. It was like hidden, and it was swampy, we'd had rains, not surprising, early summer in Tulsa, it was rainy, that's flood land, and it was just a big stinkin' mess. Dennis Neill: And do you recall, was TOHR actually the sponsor, or was that when the bars were still doing Pride? Tom Neal: I think it was the bars, it was the bars, because, and I had kind of an in with it, because I was, I had just started renting space from John and, was it John and Steve, who owned the Silver Star, and so I got involved in organizing it, and pushed to move it, and we moved it to Owen Park. Dennis Neill: So the next year? Tom Neal: The next year. Dennis Neill: So would that be, do you think, 94 or 95, or can you kind of? Tom Neal: Probably 94, probably 94. And that was one of the years that Mom and Dad lent me the truck, and that was, and we think, I think it was in Owen Park for a couple of years, maybe, and then other people took it over and it went different places, I mean, at one point, the parade went on Brookside, right? Dennis Neill: Yes. 18 �Tom Neal: On Riverside. Dennis Neill: The information we have, and you'll probably have a little more since you're the board president doing this, you might recall that Greg Gatewood got very involved and helped organize the 1998 Pride, which was down the sidewalks, because we didn't have a permit. Tom Neal: Right, I remember that, I covered that. Dennis Neill: And so I think Nancy and Greg worked together, and then in 99, Greg pursued the permit. So that was the first time we had it at what is now Dream Keepers, which was the Veterans Park, and we're not exactly sure when TOHR stepped back in to run Pride, but you probably were present at about around that time, I think. Tom Neal: So I think probably it's very possible that I might have kind of made that happen, that the bartenders, the bar crew kind of they were still there but kind of stepped back and I think they were only doing it because nobody else was. We also had a lot of pushback from people who were very uncomfortable moving out of the far reaches of Mohawk Park because Mohawk felt safe, and I had Owen Park, particularly at that time, a fairly neglected part of the city. it's a long way from Edison Street. It's the only major street through there. Y'all are still gonna be pretty safe and isolated in there, but it's got shade and it doesn't flood, you know. So I mean it was pretty prosaic in some place in this time, because it was definitely before Greg, Deborah Starnes and IDeborah was president at TOHR and we signed the lease for the building on Brookside that now that had a sushi place recently in the bottom, over at near Weber's Root Beer. You know it's kind of a 1940s building and owned by a local slumlord. We got lucky that we wrote into the contract that we had to make sure that the elevator was working, which apparently hadn't worked for ten years, and he had to drop some change to get it working. But we got the working elevator. I think we poured a tiny bit of concrete at the front step to make a semi-ramp to get people in and that was where you know there was, and Peterson- Claudette Peterson, was up there and one of my memories is when we were trying to get it ready to use, there was no big room in there. It had been a dental practice, is my memory, and so there are all these little rooms and we got in there and it was the bunch of guys from FUSO, which was an AfricanAmerican men's HIV outreach organization, and there's nothing like having four or five black queens with sledgehammers and me taking out the solid plaster and metal lath walls between these like five or six rooms to create the bigger room so we'd actually have a meeting space up there and fortunately they were not structural. I did check, I did check, but yeah, so we, got that all out and created that room and, I wound up putting a flagpole made out of just a galvanized metal pipe from Home Depot and clamps- because, again, we had no money, we had no budget- up on the top of the elevator shaft and we had this enormous five-by-eight flag that I bought through my store, and it kept getting stolen. People would come and take it, take it, but, yeah, but it was remarkable because suddenly, Tulsa, Oklahoma, with relatively little LGBT plus visibility, there's this big-ass gay pride flag flying over Brookside. It was really kind of lovely. Deborah Starnes and I actually personally put whatever limited funds we had at risk by signing that lease because we were personally on the hook for it. 19 �Dennis Neill: So what was the stimulus of moving from where we are at 39th and Harvard? And who actually did the research to find the space? Tom Neal: That space? I think of Deborah and I… Dennis Neill: On Brookside, did you look at several different locations? Tom Neal: I think so at one point. Now, Tim Gillian would be a good person to talk to about that, because I know he was involved in some of the researching, because I remember- and Nancy was involved as well, because at one point, we went and looked at the freaking Ambassador Hotel as a gay pride center. It was a ruin at the time before he had been renovated into this. obviously, top-flight hotel. It had been empty for at least 10 years, maybe 20 years. We, I remember looking at that. We looked at what is now the Circle Cinema. This is obscure, lost, almost lost, facts, isn't it? Dennis Neill: Yeah, we actually looked at it again in 2022. I mean 2002. Tom Neal: Yeah, Circle Cinema, part of the back roof or something was coming down on it. Somehow, and I don't know if Nancy got like Nancy was pushing, she was, she was a suburbanist at heart, so she was always pushing…Oh, we can find this shopping center out here, and I'm like we need to be more urban. Gay people use that term broadly and generically. 41st and Hudson is not an ideal location, though they made it work there, you know so. So, yeah, so that we, yeah, we did that and it was there for a while. And then there was Steve H, I don't remember. Took over Horn, yeah, came after me, and then Greg and Kerry. Then at that point I'd step back. Dennis Neill: And was it your store that was in the center? Because there's that store… Tom Neal: At a certain point I think I just gave or sold. I don't think I mostly gave the leftover merchandise I did to the center to use to sell for their benefit. Tom Neal: I don't think, because once I once- you know Steve and John, God bless himhad some dude out of Oklahoma City who thought he could- he also had a newspaper, very short-lived, and thought he could have a newspaper and have a store and still live in Oklahoma City, and so they basically said: eh, we're doubling your rent and I'm like this is not a viable project at double rent, it's barely viable at the current rent. Thanks, guys, no hard feelings. That's when I kind of shut it down, I think at one point I tried to do some sales out of one of the MCC churches, but it wasn't really…Tulsa's a challenge because there is no really gay community, physical, geographical gay community. Dennis Neill: During your period as president on the board we still have the testing clinic. I interviewed Jeremy Simmons a couple of months ago and he recalls that we did create the name Hope while it was at TOHR and all he can remember is it was kind of like a committee decision to come up with Hope. He couldn't really remember the individual that came up with that name, any recollection. 20 �Tom Neal: I don't know that. I was not part of those conversations. My recollection is they had decided and there were problems with some of the state funding- the state was being kind of homophobic is my recollection, but I don't put money on that oneand they- Jeremy in particular and others- really felt like they needed to separate from TOHR in order to continue to get the funding that they were getting from the state. And some of us were really opposed to that, just probably more because we were being cantankerous and like no, no change is scary, you know. They came in and did a really good reading of the bylaws and came in and did an emergency ambush meeting and basically just overrode the vote and separated themselves out, which probably in hindsight I guess that was the right thing to have done. Dennis Neill: Were you president at that point in time? Tom Neal: I think I might have been. Dennis Neill: And so, maybe is that when you left maybe Dee Beasley became president, or who was your vice president. Do you recall? Tom Neal: Um, no, I do not recall, but Steve Horn succeeded me. Directly after me was Steve Horn, and then, directly after him, he got a job in Dallas or someplace out of town, and then it was Greg. The only person I can think… Dennis Neill: I think maybe Dee after… Tom Neal: I don’t remember, I don’t… Dennis Neill: Dee was only president for about three months Tom Neal: I don't know when that was. The only person I would mention because he was a stalwart. John Stanley was on my board. He wasn't vice president; he was just a great trooper who would do whatever he could to help and he passed. Dennis Neill: Fortunately, we do have an interview with him. Morgan [Allen], I think around 2002. So we have his transcript on our website. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: In 2002?? Dennis Neill: No, I’m sorry, in 22. Yeah, yeah, 2022. Tom Neal: I knew what you meant. No, well, and Morgan sang a really plaintive appellation, a cappella song, at his memorial service here. Yeah, it's just achingly beautiful, and I know her from Trinity Choir. She's in the choir, I'm not, and I asked her if she would do it and it was really kind. Dennis Neill: So, Tom, coming back to the period in the 1990s when you were acting with the TOHR, do you remember when you first got involved with the organization and what kind of caused you to be so interested in taking action and a leadership role in the organization? 21 �Tom Neal: I think I more fell into it than anything else. There was maybe a vacuum. You know somebody needed to do it and nobody else seemed to be stepping up again, coming back and doing Pride literally within a week, a couple of weeks, of having returned to the city, like end of May and coming in June, and pride was in June still then. And then the next year, and you know just the realization this could be done better. And so next year, I kind of did that, I think, a couple years, and then, like I say, Debra Starnes and I got along pretty well and she ran for president and then I think she had something that she had to step down and I was vice president and so became president. I don't remember if I got reelected in my own right or not, if I just finished out her term, I just don't remember at this point. But proud of the fact that though we did not own it, but for the first time in Tulsa's history there was a physical LGBT plus center for the community Dennis Neill: Speaking of that, Greg recalls, Greg Gatewood recalls when you first put the signage up and Greg mentioned that, he said: if we put that sign up, I know there's going to be a car wreck on Brookside by people eyeing that sign and he said that day we put it up, sure enough there was a fender bender right in front of the building because somebody was looking at the sign and not paying attention. So do you recall some of those early days of the center, some of the vandalism? Tom Neal: I know we had a little bit of vandalism. I don't remember a lot of details, I think maybe somebody broke the front door one time, Dennis Neill: The glass twice. Tom Neal: Was it twice? Maybe I'm a little bit of a Pollyanna. I try to see the positive. So I maybe, I just don't remember. I mainly remember the flag being stolen because I personally was up there on the roof putting it back up and buying another one and so forth. But just in general, the only other thing I can really remember distinctly is when there was an event for Chaz Bono. You know Cher's son these days. At the time I think she still identified as a woman and I remember taking pictures of Chaz and Nancy McDonald talking in that hallway, in that great hall or small great hall that we created. Dennis Neill: I think she was here, wasn't she for a fundraiser? I believe we had it at the downtown Doubletree. I can't remember if it was for TOHR or if it was for PFLAG. Tom Neal: Could have been either, could have been either. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Dennis Neill: And were you involved with PFLAG through these years? Tom Neal: Certainly, when I was doing the newspaper, I was very supportive of PFLAG and I think I would assume that I probably donated advertising to them, certainly covered events that they had them. I seem to recall that they were often meeting at Fellowship Congregational there on Harvard and somewhere along the way became friends with the late Reverend Russell Bennett, great, great hero of mine, again kind of taking the stand back in the day when very few people were. I mean in those days, if you remember, again, before we started interviewing, we were talking about NCCJ [National Conference for Christians and Jews] and sometimes not always having support from parts of the community from whom you might have expected to get it, and I remember 22 �that Russell was out there very, very supportive, even at times when, for example, All Souls was not. They were just kind of ducking the issue, which is ironic because they were very welcoming of LGBT people as individuals, but they were not putting any of their credibility as a congregation on the line at the time, or at least that was my perception of things. Obviously not where they are today. You know so, but at that time, you know also, you know my parish Trinity was supportive of individuals, but not as out there. That whole denomination has made progress. Likewise, you know the Methodists and the Presbyterians. Dennis Neill: And was this about the time the Say No to Hate Coalition formed, or was that after your time? Do you think? Tom Neal: I think after. Again, I'm not the best person with dates. Dennis Neill: Yeah, I think it might have been after, because I know at one time I was fairly involved with it. But then Laura was very, very involved. I think she chaired it for a while. That was probably when she was president in 2004 - 2007, time frame. So talk a little bit about some of your highs and lows while you were so involved with TOHR in those early 90s. Tom Neal: I think I kind of feel like I've covered those. I mean, really. Dennis Neill: Were you having monthly meetings then? Y Tom Neal: Yeah, I think so. I think so. Dennis Neill: At that center? Tom Neal: I think so, I think so at the center, yeah. Not enormously attended, but I haven't seen enormous attendance of anything in the community since maybe the really early days at Aaronson, when it was literally almost the only game in town. So, other than I guess the bars that were all over the place. Certainly with the Internet, with people meeting each other electronically these days, I mean, there's what, maybe three bars left now, and I don't go to bars anyway. It was already a somewhat scattered community compared to maybe Dallas or Houston, where you had, a physical center to the places. And I think with the changes in media, it's even more scattered. Dennis Neill: So are you comfortable being called an activist? Tom Neal: Yeah, sure. I think it's a worthy title. I don't think these days I would make that claim anymore. I've stepped back, I’ve really focused on my, my work, my design practice. I don't remember if I mentioned to you, but I'm taking a class at TU, which I love being on campus. It's, they call it lifelong learning. It's not for credit. I call it classes for old people. It's really good because since I work out of my home and my work companions are a dog and three cats, it's nice to interact with like… Dennis Neill: What are you taking at TU? 23 �Tom Neal: I am taking Spanish. I'm just finishing my fourth semester there, motivated, prompted by a trip to Spain with one of my nephews. And I had been using Duolingo to try to learn some Spanish. And I came back from that trip feeling like I needed more formal instruction. And originally thought I'd try to take something at TCC. I had taught adjunct there for nine semesters, but they didn't have anything that wasn't online. And I wanted an in-person class. And then I live literally seven minutes by bicycle from TU. I'm like, I live across from a major university. Let me see what they have to offer. And I wound up, and it was very interesting as this long-haired senior citizen walking into a classroom full of mostly freshmen, 18- and 19-year-olds, whose eyes are getting big. It's like, who is this old guy in the class? And I'm looking like, God, they look like they're 14. It's been a really good experience. And my Spanish is progressing. Dennis Neill: Cool. So at TCC, what were you teaching? Tom Neal: I taught both art appreciation and humanities one. Dennis Neill: Did you feel welcome as an adjunct professor at TCC? Tom Neal: Yes, certainly. No issues because I was gay. Well, adjuncts are overworked and underappreciated, generally speaking. Every, probably every place in the nation, but it was a good experience. I stumbled into it. It was actually a random conversation I was having with another person, closer to my age, in the men's locker room, because I used to work for 10 years, maybe, well, maybe it's 20 years. Many years I worked out at the TCC Fitness Center because it was so close to Home Depot where I was working. And I had a conversation with a guy named Ralph saying, my undergrads in art history. I'd love to teach someday. And he said, hmm, my wife's in charge of making those assignments. I said, oh, well, tell her I would be interested. And a couple months later, I get a call at 4.45 PM on a Friday saying, we really, somebody's dropped out. And could you teach this class starting on Tuesday at 10 a.m.? Indeed, I can, but I had never seen the textbook. I hadn't seen a syllabus. I was cramming on Monday to start teaching on Tuesday, but I had a good time. The pay is crap, but I very much, and I wound up teaching initially, mostly an art appreciation class for a program they called Accelerate, where TCC took its concurrent enrollment classes out to public high schools. Students in Tulsa can take a class at TCC. Concurrent enrollment sometimes means they take it on campus. But in this case, particularly because not every student is mobile, we wound up…I wound up teaching at Tulsa Central, Hale, East Central, and then Webster and Edison. Those last two more than any other, repeated times. And it was great. I loved, I had the best and the brightest. For example, East Central is a pretty rough school. It looks like a prison, and it had high security when you walk in. But the kids I was working with were brilliant. And it was such a good experience. And then, again, Humanities I on campus was not bad. I liked that as well. That was at Metro Campus. It hasn't happened lately, but for a few years I would be randomly going around Tulsa, and somebody would say, hey, did you teach Humanities at TCC? I said, yeah. And mostly people said, I took your class. I loved your class. It made you feel really good. 24 �Dennis Neill: So, as an activist, what do you consider kind of your crown achievement? Would you say whether it's through the newspaper or your active involvement in organizations? What really gives you comfort about the view you took about being an activist in the community? Tom Neal: I think it's not any single thing, Dennis. I think it is a general pushing, expanding the envelope, pushing things forward, making it a little better than it was before. The process at OU that I worked on towards getting a nondiscrimination policy, we didn't get it, but somebody did after us. But I think the work that we did helped move us in that direction. Clearly, I think that the fact that we're sitting in this wonderful building today has its origins in the thinking that people like Nancy and Greg and... Dennis Neill: Okay. And you were talking a little bit about your activism and you feeling like it's not just one event, but you want to expand it a little bit more? Tom Neal: So, I think, I don't know whether we chopped this off or not, but I was saying that, here we are in this beautiful, wonderful building. And I think, again, back to the notion that maybe it's not any single thing that I accomplished, but being part of the process of moving us forward as a community, that, the origins of this building, to some degree, are in the building that Deborah and I signed the lease for over on Brookside. In the thinking, Nancy McDonald was very involved, Greg Gatewood…each of us working to the recognition that we need a physical place to anchor the community, particularly in a community that is kind of scattered, to all parts of the city. And I think I helped advance that. I think, maybe like before we started the interview, we were talking about our interaction with the Jewish community and maybe, helping people there to be more aware of, sometimes the intersection between LGBT issues and Jewish issues, particularly in terms of our shared history around, living through the Nazi regime. not identical experiences, obviously, but some overlap there. Part of that process…I know you can relate to this, one step forward and two steps back, or maybe it's two steps forward and one step back. When you and I first met, there were really hopes that the city of Tulsa was then, in 1980-something, going to add a non-discrimination policy. And I think you guys are really close. There was a little bit of a backlash, you know? Dennis Neill: But do you feel like there's been some backsliding over these recent years? And what would you attribute that to? And what would you tell the current generations? How can we move forward? But I'm assuming you might feel like we're backsliding in progress. What are your thoughts? Tom Neal: Well, yeah, I don't think we can take anything for granted. And I think again, as a student of history, if you look at Weimar, Germany, it was a good place for queer people in the 1920s, and then only to be followed by... I think, again, part of that shared experience or similar experience of the Jewish communities around the world and of LGBT communities is this kind of, we're always looking over our shoulders because, particularly with the current administration, could things turn south, could things go bad really quickly. I think I live with that as a little bit of a fear. I just read that the Texas 25 �Tech University system has now basically banned- it's destroyed- the women's studies, the LGBT studies, sexuality studies. You can't even write or talk about these issues. I have family who are alums, and so I put on my Facebook like, hmm, reposted, shared the story but then said: maybe we should call this fascist Tech, not Texas Tech, though Texas and fascism may be pretty good overlap these days. So, yes, are we backsliding? I think our fears are worse than the actuality. But could we backslide? I think that's real. What would I say to young people? Don't blow off your seniors completely. Some of us have some experience. You don't have to freaking, reinvent everything every time or assume that everybody who's you know older than you is an idiot and doesn't know anything, because sometimes that's how it feels. I was a little perturbed because recently this organization had a weekend seminar for rural organizing, I think, and I looked over it and it was kind of almost pro forma, by the book inclusive. We had one of these and one of these and one of these I mean in terms of racial and ethnic diversity and so forth, except for there was not a single old person in the mix. They were all Morgan's age and younger and I'm kind of like some of us might have something to contribute. Some of us have done some of this before, and I think you know again, maybe kind of one of my pet peeves- and we see it a fair amount in the, in the gay part of the LGBT community, is ageism. You know just, and- and I've been a little outspoken, calling people I say, that's kind of, that's kind of …So I think that would be kind of my, maybe the message, the answer to the question is: you know that inclusiveness is not just about, race and ethnicity or gender. You know that that many people have something to contribute. I don't know, probably if I keep talking, I'm going to say the same thing over in three different ways. Dennis Neill: Anything we haven't covered over your life to date and your reflections on what's been accomplished and what needs to be accomplished or any other comments you want to make. Tom Neal: Oh well, thank you for doing this, it's fun. It's kind of makes me remember some things that I hadn't really thought about for a while. You know I'm usually focused on work deadlines and Spanish exams and walking my dog. I'm planning my next trip because I really enjoy traveling. Dennis Neill: Where's that? Tom Neal: Next trips? This summer's trips, I think I'm going to go to Little Rock just for a long weekend, just because I've never really spent any time there. And there's the Clinton Library. Their art museum has been recently revamped, and I like to visit Episcopal Parishes when I travel, and this is going to sound so church nerdy, but they have Christ Church and the Cathedral, two different congregations within blocks of each other, and I can actually go to one service at 8 or 8:30, and the other one at 10:30, which is a lot of church. Dennis Neill: Both Episcopalian? 26 �Tom Neal: One's the Cathedral, one's just, I guess, the local church, but they're both historic because Little Rock, Arkansas is older than we are as a state. I'll probably go see my brother and go to the beach with my nephew that I traveled with in North Carolina. I'm kind of avoiding overseas travel because of you know all the unrest right now. But my nephew, with whom I travel a fair amount, he said, I want to get one last trip in August before, hopefully, I take a class at TU in the fall. And he said: well, what about Mexico City? I'm like I've been really wanting to go to Mexico City because I've never been, fits in with studying Spanish, amazing art and museums and history, and I like to mountain bike, and I even think there's mountain biking close to the city. So hopefully that'll be, that'll be that, and then next winter go skiing because that's my other thing. Dennis Neill: Tom, I really appreciate your time, your dedication to the community and everything that you've done for this organization and for the great history you've left us with the Tulsa Family News. Thank you very much. Tom Neal: Thank you, Dennis. 27 � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2026] Tom Neal Interview Subject The topic of the resource Tom Neal Oral History Project Interview from April 30, 2026 Description An account of the resource In this in-depth interview, Tom Neal shares his life journey, from growing up in Oklahoma to becoming a community activist and publisher. He discusses his experiences with LGBTQ+ advocacy, the evolution of Tulsa's community spaces, and his reflections on social progress and challenges. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tom Neal, Dennis Neill Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 30, 2026 activism AIDS/HIV Dennis Neill Dennis R. Neill Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Gay Rights HIV/AIDs interview journalism Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Oral History Project oral history oral history interview Oral History Project oral history transcript Rainbow Library Tom Neal transcript Tulsa Family News video Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2019] Tommy Chesbro Interview Subject The topic of the resource Tommy Chesbro OSU Diverse Sexuality and Gender in Oklahoma Oral History Project Interview from April 24, 2019 Description An account of the resource Tommy was interviewed on April 24, 2019, by Oklahoma State<br />University as part of its Diverse Gender and Sexuality in Oklahoma Oral History Project. In this interview, Tommy discusses his early life in Blackwell and Stillwater, Oklahoma, his experiences at Oklahoma State University, and his long-time leader as an HIV educator and counselor. <strong>A copy of the OSU transcript is on file at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for on-site research.</strong> Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tommy Chesbro, Ryan Dyer, Angus Henderson, Ashlyn Ruley, Micki White, Dennis Neill Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 24, 2019 2019 Angus Henderson Ashlyn Ruley Diverse Sexuality and Gender in Oklahoma Oral History Project interview Micki White Oklahoma Oral History Research Program Oklahoma State University Oklahoma State University (OSU) Oklahoma State University Archives oral history oral history interview Oral History Project oral history transcript OSU OSU Archives OSU Diverse Sexuality and Gender in Oklahoma Oral History Project Ryan Dyer Tommy Chesbro transcript https://history.okeq.org/files/original/3c5534c471c21dd145842498ffa3bbb3.pdf b86fe35d10bfd959b7d694513b5ce89e PDF Text Text -GAY-ETY INT-TOWN. by loni broaddus The vertical file in the Tulsa Library public relations to be seen with a member of the oppostie sex. labeled "Homosexuality " contains few­ Another famous Tulsa hangout was er than thirty articles clipped from the Bishop's Restaurant and Bar, where Tulsa World and Tulsa Tribune. The earliest is dated August 1976; the head­ gays and straights socialized together. line reads "Homosexual Arrests In­ The stt:aight people naturally had no crease at Mohawk Park." Other arti­ idea there were homosexuals in their cles discuss a proposed civil rights midst-after all, this was during the ordinance requested by the gay com­ late 40s-early 50s. munity, claims of police harassment by "Bishop's Bar was quite gay-it was patrons of gay bars, clergymen views mixed," says M.C. "It was very typical on homosexuality, Metropolitan Com­ (during that time) to find good places munity Church ("MCC Grows Gay-ly that were mixed. In other words, you . . . "), and lesbian custody rulings. The didn't go into Bishop's Bar as a scream­ most recent article in this file is dated ing queen. You didn't go in there July 19, 1983 and concerns the drain­ dressed in cutoffs. Women didn't even ing of a city pool after its use by gays for wear slacks in those days. " Indeed, the an OHR swimming party. style for women was dresses and high­ The most thorough Journalism in­ heeled spikes, suits and ties for men. cluded is a series of three articles by The curb in front of Bishop's was a Keo Jackson on the entire front page gathering place for the 21-25 year-old of the City/State section of the Sunday crowd. There they'd hang around, World dated July 11, 1982. The first waiting for someone to come along article estimates a gay population in and maybe offer them a ride out to the Tulsa of 50,000 pe ople, further predict­ Blue Haven, or even the few blocks over to the St. Moritz, where the ing that the "subculture ... will double in number by 1990." The second article, jukebox played the big band sounds of "Gay Pride Replaces Stereotype," is Glenn Miller and Tommy Dorsey. filled with positive comments by John Dancing, however, was not allowed: Willis (owner of Zipper's) and Rev. Alice Oklahoma law prohibited dancing Jones (of MCC in Tulsa), as well as where beer was served. mentions of gay bars, activities, and After only about three months, the organizations. The final article tells us Blue Haven closed-a victim of the that the '"Fruit Loop' Showcases Dark miles in a time when mobility was not .,,.... �e. eaS\\y attained. Jackson's account ot gay \ite in 'Tu\sa Some time \ater, Thurman Glynn opened the Little Mexico Bar at about highlights the library's meager co\\ec­ ity. 18th and Boston. "That was a wild, sexual Homo on s article of tion pissy-elegant place," rememoers M. C. A sketchy history at best. "People just crammed into the Little And yet, we do have a story. Mexico Bar-so much fun. The win­ When Men Were Men dows were Spanish style . . . they Spikes the Wore and the Dykes opened out. We crawled in and out of man," society "cafe cribed A self-des those windows because it was so M.C. Parker has lived and played in we couldn't get through the crowded Tulsa since 1949, when he opened his front door!" Drive-In. Haven first gay bar, the Blue Ah, the good old days. Those were Prohibition days, and beer Even in the early 40s, Tulsa had at was the only alcoholic beverage sold least one gay bar. Called the Tropical legally. Bootleg whiskey was available, Gardens, it was run by two sisters in of course; M.C. sold it out of a briefcase in half-pints. what had once been a filling station. M.C. Parker owns a book called The Blue Haven was located south­ Snoot If You Must which mentions The west of Tulsa, near what is now Town Tropical Gardens, though not by name. West Shopping Center. It was one of Copyrighted in 1943, the book was four gay bars in Tulsa at the time­ written by writer and publisher Lucius though it also had a weekday hetero­ Beebe, who visited Oklahoma many sexual clientele comprised of nearby times to see his lover, who had been residents. M.C. explains, "(Gays) drafted and stationed here. couldn't come out on weeknights. Back Beebe writes: "Tulsa was not without in those days, not everybody had its charms. There was, for instance, a wheels ... even the 24-25 year-old boys nightclub that had formerly been a didn't have cars." gasoline filling s·tation and beer flowed out hung community So the gay out of all of-the compressed air hoses." downtown, sometimes at the Blue Note Time P.assed, but liqu9r by the drink on Denver,more often at the St. Moritz. didn't, and·many oTthe old bars closed The St.Moritz was located in the center down, or just faded into the past. By of the block where Cathey's Furniture is the 60s, many gays were partying at today, and according to M.C., was "the the Tai Mahal or the Zebra. Then there number one place to go." Lesbians had their own bar, the Milwaukee Tavern, were Gene's Bamboo and Friend's which was somewhere in the vicinity of Lounge (which later became Tracy's 15th and Cincinnati. For the most part, and then New Edition). These four however, gay men and lesbians ran bars stand out as the longest-running Gene's Ba mboo by 1 _____ !'round together; certainly it was s od gay bars in Tulsa; ------------- ----- ----· -•--- ... --- q· . -- far holds the record. Recently remo­ deled,the Bamboo still operates on the same side of town where it has been for nearly a q�rter of a century. Cleaning Oat the Closet• (Or: Oat of the Closet Into the Fire) Ttm Tumer is well known around Tulsa as the owner of Tim's Playroom. Before the Playroom, he managed The New Plantation,which was at 61st and Yale. And before that-he owned Jim's Anything Goes on 58th and Peoria­ which came after The Queen of Heart's, of which he owned half. But his bar career started at Friend's Lounge. He had been married; he had been working in the construction busi­ ness. One day he went into Friend's not knowing it was a gay bar. He played pool all afternoon with a group of les­ bians, who invited that night. Friend's owner, Tracy Mclaughlin, eventually hired Jim to bartend thei:�-.. Thq�.were the days of police harass­ ment. Cops seemed to show up at the gay bars whenever they were bored, entertaining themselves by writing up the bar owners for minor offenses, or occasionally just harassing the queers. "I remember really admiring people like Tracy McLaughlin . . . him espe­ cially, because I went to court with him several times," Ttm recalls. "He was actually going to bat for the entire community. He wasn't thinking at all of his business. At that time he was think­ ing 'Hey, they can't tell us to do that, they can't push us around like this.' And he never would hire attorneys. He went down and represented himself all time and he usually won." ' theBut a battle does not necessarily <Arih the war. In 1976, arrests we:re made in Mohawk Park for "soliciting to perform an unnatural sex act, outraging public decency, and sodomy." In 1977, thirteen men were arrested for Jayw�lking­ near a gay bar, of course. A couple of gay organizations had been atteinped in Tulsa, but the one that put Gay TµIsa on the map was the Tulsa Gay Community Caucus. In the early 70s, a series of hostile editorials appe ared in the Tulsa World. "They were all very anti-gay, blatantly so, for no reason," remembers John, a co-founder of TGCC who soon became its primary leader and spokesman. "Gay Lib had never been whispered about in the city in any way." The last editorial finally angered John to the point that he felt com pe lled to reply. He wrote a letter to the editor, a rebuttal which stated facts but never mentioned his own homosexuality. "That's really kind of what started it, strange as it may seem," explains John about the beginnir-igs of TGCC. "There had always been problems ... as far as housing, and police harassment." John's letter was printed the day he left for a two-week vacation. When he. returned, the embryo.group for TGCC was formed. John discussed the group and the situation with his boss, assur­ ing him that John would never bring the company name into it. "It took them three weeks, but they figured out a way to get rid of me." John promptly went to the Taj Mahal and spent the afternoon getting drunk on free beer. Since he had already las his job, John became the primary speaker for TGCC's newly formed Speaker's Bureau, appearing before churches and civic groups. "John was very upfront," says Tay Clare, a member of TGCC's inceptive group. "He was absolutely the best advocate for gay rights.!' John received surprising support for his efforts-as well as some disappoint­ ing lack of support. "We got more sup­ port from the non-gay community than c------, BAY BARS IN TULSA I ,1rt/1/ //II/If TROPICAL GARDENS: Early 40s. Operated by two sisters in what had once been a tilling station. ST. MORITZ: 1940s-50s. located on South Main. Was the place to go. Closed down alter a move in anticipation ot liquor by the drink-which did not pass. I BLUE NOTE: 40s-50s. located on North Denver. BLUE HAVEN: Opened Nov. 1949 by M.C. Parker. Located in southwest Tulsa. Closed alter 3 months due to location. MILWAUKEE TAVERN: 40s-50s. Lesbian bar. Located at about 15th and Cincinnati. BISHOP'S BAR: 40s-50s. Located downtown. M\xed crowd but a popular gay hangout. 11 LITTLE MEXICO: Late 50s. Owned by Thur· man Glynn. THE D06HOUSE: Owned by Bob Johnson. TAJ MAHAL: Late 50s. Original location downtown. Manager and his lover were mur­ dered in the sleeping quarters there-case never solved. The Taj eventually moved to the 11th Street location vacated by the 8th Day. ,'I ' 1- . ' ZE••Ar Downtolliin, .-,,,., ,,_ __. ,,_, the Ta/. Pink pool tallle. • IIIMIOO LOU#IE: Opened early 60s. Owned by Gene Covington. Still operating-oldest gay bar in Tulsa. 8th DAY Located on 11th Street al Lewis nexI door to. what is now a flower shop. GALA: Lesbian owned. Women's bar with niixed clientele. Located in what is now Tim's Playroom. First private club. Only entrance in the back. SKOO-BEE-DO: Owned by Paul Scott. FRIEND'S LOUNGE: Owned by Tracy Mclau· glin. Later called Tracy's, the New Edition. TIFFANY CLUB: Opened early 70s. QUEEN OF HEARTS: Opened 1974. Owners: Tim Turner and Paul Magruder. CARUSO'S RICK'S TIM'S ANYTHIN6 60ES: Owned by Tim Turner. 58th and Peoria. NEW PLANTATION: Owned by Tom Olson. managed by Tim Turner. 51st and Yale. • THE CLUB: Opened by owners of Gala. 12th and Memorial. Lesbian bar-originally attended by gay men also. Now called The Rustic Club. • TIM'S PLAYROOM: Owned by Tim Turner. Opened in July 1977. Located at 11th and Lewis under the Meadow Gold sign. • ZIPPER'S: Owned by John Willis. 33rd and Yale. Opened in 1979, • SEEKER'S CHOfCE: Lesbian bar on Admiral at Memorial. TULSA MINING CO.: On 11th Street. First alter-hours bar. Now Schlitzy·s. • TOOL IOX: Near downtown. Western bar. • OVER THE RAINBOW: At 11th and Garnett. Owned by Arlene Benson. Tulsa's largest les· bian bar-though clientele is mixed. • DANTE'S: Owned by Mark trom L.A. Located on 31st at:Harvard'. · • - ,. ' .. 2 ' ,, I l . . I .i • I •I I .I • I II I .. \ I •i ·! . • f.I i .I �. off the ground, an· OHR ·w· as ge. ttin9 started that would as w other servi·ce • unti·1 1·ts munity om been expected. One gay person exc y ga e rt th October On plained t at by coinmenting that "Most �!�ution just this year. h Ano �her of of these questions are checked 'no' - . go Issue er 25 19 the Premi _Edited because I have not let the fact that I·am streets. the it e h W�rld magazin etta Princ gay be known." by ed lish pub er Park b MC . Mr. Tulsa's "Se�ual Preference Study" (a.k.� fiudd, a�d with Tim Warren was an incredibly well_-researched, 1ss�e first that ctor, limm) as Sales Dire pioneering study. Copies were requestuncluded a nude male photo, gossip ed from and sent all over the count�. information, a gay directory, and more. But it was not enough to get an ord1It wasn't the first publication for Tulsa, nance passed protecting Tulsa's gay but was the one that survived the test of community. Eection time was too do� time. After a while the magazin e was for that much comfort. take n over by Jack Field and Stuart Instead, the Human Rig�ts ComSantifier; it grew, and eventually covermission recommended a pohcy sta!e• ed several states. ment-which meant that comparues . . Still another yout�ful orga ruzatio� doing business with the city could not which operat�s �s a vital par� of Tulsa s discriminate against employees on the gay community is Metr�pohtan �ombasis of sexual preference. It passed. munity Church. Started m Tuls� m �he The first step. mid-70s, M(;C has grown fr_om its first Unfortunately, the only step. If the storefront h ome to a quiet church idea was to consider the Ordinancebu!lding in northeast Tulsa. MC� offers which offered gays the only legal proan outreach to the gay community that tection-at a later date, all hope died many other churches ha ve not been with the electio · n of Jim Imhofe as Mayor able or willing to provide. MCC sponof Tulsa. sors rap groups, a children's church, ln i978 Jim Imhofe is quoted in the Tulsa Tribune as saying, "l don't think guest speakers, and socials. It ministers to gay youth and sponsors da nces for it's the government's place to be giving them. MCC fills needs that cannot be attention to the issue of homosexuality,particularly when it is treating homomet in bars-which were, for so long, sexuals _ as a mi nority, which means the only places to go to meet others like you give preferential treatment to the we did from the gay community. T he concept." gay community was very hostile. We Jim wasn't exactly on our side. were perceived a s rocking their secure boa t-even though their boat -was Passing the Torch (Or: Flaming Fiercely F orward) anything but secure." After several years spearhea ding the By 1976,_TGCC ha d decided it was ��� Gay Community Caucus, John time to sink or swim. Gay bars were �:;.;=-==aenrn�ely needed� break. ·He passed being bus ·tecn,early every night, and the rems on, but interest waned and letters to various city officials obtained TGCC soon became a page in Tulsa no results. So, in March, John appeared gay history. before Tulsa's Board of Commissioners Tulsa's n ext gay organization was · to "respectfully ask that the Tulsa City formed as a chapter of a n Oklahoma Commission a dopt a Municipal Ordi­ C�ty grou_p, _Oklahomans _for Human nance which will gua ra ntee the rights �ghts.In �ts m!anc�, OHR m Tulsa was of all homosexuals in this municipality viewed with d1sda m by many gays. It so that fea r and repression will no was called "cliquish" and members were longer enslave the minds of one of the. referred �o as "the Polo set." _But despi�e largest minorities in this community .. ." early a�1tudes,- OHR survive� an� 1s The Commissioners seemed unco mn ow an integral part of the community. fortable, with the exception of Poli ce A recent na!lle change to Tulsa Okla and Fire Commissioner Mike K e an. homans for Human Rights severed the .Mayor Lafortune didn't th· m k ;� ere umbilical to the OKC parent group, w as much of a problem ' a . . n d referred and TOHR .1s a strang organiz ation the ·m atte r to the Huma n R'1 9h ts that stands on its own merits. It aperCommission. ates the Help Line, provides a hospice . "The on ly trouble was• he h a d not service f or AIDS pati·ents, donates reckoned on Victor"a Myers " s booksto the library,prints a newsletter, _ John. "She ,;a·s-on the'Hum an Rig� :'5 and generally serves as an informational ts Commiss·,on. She was a 1aw . s tudent �nd ed_ucational forum for gay-related she picked it up and ran wit h the b�il · issues m Tulsa. and got the study going." ' . About the same tim e as the fledgling The study, officially titled "Se�ual c.:· ,,- .... 5 The II • LEATHER • NOVELTIES • CARDS • MAGS • A?SORTED GIFT ITEMS • GAY PRIDE T-SHIRTS GENERAL STORE Open 7 p.m. Nightly (located inside TIM'S PLAYROOM Special Sidewalk Sale - June 27th ..;.. .. . . . -. . ' -... speak. We are fifteen years, ot only ourselves. of care as a fir� n take to ruI ing w n , _ e dy ,, Stu ce Preferen ntrY· The u o c is 4p. t ing n We are grow for Tulsa, but a first i h a five m o nth ov Tulsa, perhaps, is growing up with us. study was con�uct. � i ther or not e Police harassment is almost nonexistent period "to determine in the areas t � eXIS em� robl substantial p compared to what it wa� ten years ago. ub. lic . a,,ccom· p ng, usi ho ent, employm of Mayor Young threw out the first soft­ " ctices. modations and police pra · ball at a gay gam e last year, and has w ere d. isOver 500 questionnaires made an appearance at MCC. The unity. to do a ��ntributed within the gay comm Tulsa press even manage agers, . Hotel and motel owners and m an on occasion. gays on y stor ntal rtment . d me real estate agencies and apa here, of exists still obia oph Jom ers JU complexes, as well as Tulsa_e�p�oy courSe . But it no long er debilitates us. ls were contact ed. Priv ate md1v1dua h We have supp ort netw orks; .we ave were called in a phone survey. Lett�rs places to go. were sent to cities across the U.S. with We have Gay Pride. laws pertaining to sexuality. begun to AII this research was done to deter­ mine. the extent-if any-to which homosexuals were being discriminated against, and to discover possible a p­ proaches to the issue. The respondents of the business commun ity for the most pa rt indicated that they would not or ha d not discrim­ inated against suspect or known homo­ sexua ls. However, those in business • were overwhelmingly against a city ordinance protecting homosexuals. Sixty-one percent of the general population felt that ga ys should not be fired due to their sexu al preferences, though the majority believed that gays should not be tea chers or ministers. The gay community itself reported less discrimination than might have us. In fact, it ha s only bee n during the past few yea rs that Tulsa has ha d so many different services to offer the gay community; a community that has al­ ways existed but has only, in the past MISS GAY TULSA ° A L/1/ of Thall Who HIVI warn /hi MIii Bly Tu/11 Crown .,..- compiled by M.C. Parker & Timm Warren NOTE: Some dates list more than one Queen. Thi_s is due 10 the fact thal more Jhan one pageant was h_eld m sotne years until the consolidation of pagean_ts m 1 � 82 br warPark Produclions. Miss Gay Tulsa �s a registered trademark of WarPar� Productions. Gala Holiday Inn East Blue Moon Blue Moon St. Augustine's Church Friend's Lounge 1974·75 Marcie Mayo 1975·76 Taja Queen of Hearts 1976·77 Leslie Fox Le Cabaret Trudy Tyler Le Cabaret 1977·78 Louise Kelly New Plantation 1978-791 Casey Starr PapillonLisa Goodman Foundain ° 197.9-80 Mr. Timm Friend's Lounge Rita Caruso's 1980-81 Leighann Quality Inn Ci anti Caruso's 1981 ·82 Tosha Turner Rick's Chi Chi Caruso's 1982·83 Helen Holiday Crash Landing 1983-84 Raven Madd Gaslight 1984-85 Stephanie Casady Old Lady on Brady Queen Sandy Feathers Jamie 1972·73 Cammie 1973·74 Dianne 1970·71 1971·71 � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Collection] Oklahoma LGBT+ History Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br /><br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document -GAY-ETY INT-TOWN. far holds the record. Recently remo­ deled,the Bamboo still operates on the same side of town where it has been for Oat of the Closet Into the Fire) Since he had already las his job, John became the primary speaker for TGCC's newly formed Speaker's Bureau, appearing before churches and civic groups. by loni broaddus The vertical file in the Tulsa Library public relations to be seen with a Ttm Tumer is well known around Tulsa as the owner of Tim's Playroom. "John was very upfront," says Tay Clare, a member of TGCC's inceptive labeled "Homosexuality " contains few­ er than thirty articles clipped from the Tulsa World and Tulsa Tribune. The earliest is dated August 1976; the head­ line reads "Homosexual Arrests In­ crease at Mohawk Park." Other arti­ cles discuss a proposed civil rights ordinance requested by the gay com­ munity,claims of police harassment by patrons of gay bars, clergymen views an OHR swimming party. The most thorough Journalism in­ cluded is a series of three articles by Keo Jackson on the entire front page of the City/State section of the Sunday World dated July 11, 1982. The first article estimates a gay population in Tulsa of 50,000 people, further predict­ ing that the "subculture ... will double in number by 1990." The second article, "Gay Pride Replaces Stereotype," is filled with positive comments by John Willis (owner ofZipper's) and Rev.Alice Jones (of MCC in Tulsa), as well as mentions of gay bars, activities, and organizations. The final article tells us that the '"Fruit Loop'Showcases Dark �e. Jackson's account ot gay\itein 'Tu\sa legally. Bootleg whiskey was available, of course; M.C.sold it out of a briefcase in half-pints. The Blue Haven was located south­ west of Tulsa, near what is now Town West Shopping Center. It was one of four gay bars in Tulsa at the time­ though it also had a weekday hetero­ sexual clientele comprised of nearby residents. M.C. explains, "(Gays) couldn't come out on weeknights. Back in those days, not everybody had didn't have cars." So the gay community hung out downtown,sometimes at the Blue Note on Denver,more often at the St. Moritz. The St.Moritz was located in the center of the block where Cathey's Furniture is today, and according to M.C.,was "the number one place to go." Lesbians had their own bar, the Milwaukee Tavern, which was somewhere in the vicinity of 15th and Cincinnati.For the most part, member of the oppostie sex. "Bishop's Bar was quite gay-it was mixed," says M.C. "It was very typical (during that time) to find good places that were mixed. In other words, you didn't go into Bishop's Bar as a scream­ ing queen. You didn't go in there dressed in cutoffs. Women didn't even wear slacks in those days. " Indeed, the Blue Haven, or even the few blocks over to the St. Moritz, where the jukebox played the big band sounds of Glenn Miller and Tommy Dorsey. Dancing, however, was not allowed: Oklahoma law prohibited dancing where beer was served. After only about three months, the Blue Haven closed-a victim of the miles in a time when mobility was not eaS\\y attained. Some time \ater, Thurman Glynn opened the Little Mexico Bar at about 18th and Boston. "That was a wild, pissy-elegant place," rememoers M. C. dows were Spanish style . . . they opened out. We crawled in and out of those windows because it was so crowded we couldn't get through the front door!" Ah, the good old days. Even in the early 40s, Tulsa had at least one gay bar. Called the Tropical Gardens, it was run by two sisters in what had once been a filling station. M.C. Parker owns a book called Snoot If You Must which mentions The Tropical Gardens, though not by name. Copyrighted in 1943, the book was written by writer and publisher Lucius Beebe, who visited Oklahoma many times to see his lover, who had been drafted and stationed here. Beebe writes: "Tulsa was not without its charms. There was, for instance, a nightclub that had formerly been a gasoline filling st· ation and beer flowed out of all of-the compressed air hoses." Time P.assed, but liqu9r by the drink didn't, and·many oTthe old bars closed Before the Playroom, he managed The New Plantation,which was at 61st and Yale. And before that-he owned Jim's Anything Goes on 58th and Peoria­ whichcameafter The Queen of Heart's, But his bar career started at Friend's Lounge. He had been married; he had been working in the construction busi­ ness. One day he went into Friend's - not knowing it was a gay bar. He played pool all afternoon with a group of les­ bians, who invited that night. Friend's owner, Tracy Mclaughlin, eventually hired Jim to bartend thei:�-.. Thq�.were the days of police harass­ ment. Cops seemed to show up at the gay bars whenever they were bored, theycan't push us around like this.' And he never would hire attorneys. He went down and represented himself all ' the time and he usually won." the war. In 1976, arrests we:re made in Mohawk Park for "soliciting to perform an unnatural sex act, outraging public decency, and sodomy." In 1977,thirteen men were arrested for Jayw�lking­ near a gay bar, of course. A couple of gay organizations had been atteinped in Tulsa, but the one that put Gay TµIsa on the map was the Tulsa Gay Community Caucus. In the early 70s, a series of hostile editorials appeared in the Tulsa World. "They were all very anti-gay, blatantly so, for no reason," remembers John, a co-founder of TGCC who soon became its primary leader and spokesman. "Gay Lib had never been whispered about in the city in any way." The last editorial finally angered John to the point that he felt compelled to reply. He wrote a letter to the editor, a rebuttal which stated facts but never mentioned his own homosexuality. "That's really kind of what started it, strange as it may seem," explains John about the beginnir-igs of TGCC. "There had always been problems ... as far as housing, and police harassment." John's letter was printed the day he left for a two-week vacation. When he. returned,the embryo.group for TGCC was formed. John discussed the group and the situation with his boss, assur­ ing him that John would never bring the company name into it. "It took them three weeks, but they figured out a way to get rid of me." group. "He was absolutely the best advocate for gay rights.!' John received surprising support for his efforts-as well as some disappoint­ ing lack of support."We got more sup­ port from the non-gay community than c , BAY BARS IN TULSA I ,1rt/1/ //II/If TROPICAL GARDENS: Early 40s. Operated by two sisters in what had once been a tilling station. ST. MORITZ: 1940s-50s. located on South Main. Was the place to go. Closed down alter a move in anticipation ot liquor by the drink-which did not pass. I BLUE NOTE: 40s-50s. located on North Denver. BLUE HAVEN: Opened Nov. 1949 by M.C. Parker. Located in southwest Tulsa. Closed alter 3 months due to location. MILWAUKEE TAVERN: 40s-50s. Lesbian bar. Located at about 15th and Cincinnati. BISHOP'S BAR: 40s-50s. Located downtown. M\xed crowd but a popular gay hangout. LITTLE MEXICO: Late 50s. Owned by Thur· THE D06HOUSE: Owned by Bob Johnson. TAJ MAHAL: Late 50s. Original location downtown. Manager and his lover were mur­ the 11th Street location vacated by the 8th Day. ZE••Ar Downtolliin, .-,,,., ,,_ __. ,,_, the Ta/. Pink pool tallle. • IIIMIOO LOU#IE: Opened early 60s. Owned by Gene Covington. Still operating-oldest gay bar in Tulsa. 8th DAY Located on 11th Street al Lewis nexI door to. what is now a flower shop. GALA: Lesbian owned. Women's bar with niixed clientele. Located in what is now Tim's Playroom. First private club. Only entrance in the back. SKOO-BEE-DO: Owned by Paul Scott. FRIEND'S LOUNGE: Owned by Tracy Mclau· glin. Later called Tracy's, the New Edition. TIFFANY CLUB: Opened early 70s. QUEEN OF HEARTS: Opened 1974. Owners: Tim Turner and Paul Magruder. CARUSO'S RICK'S TIM'S ANYTHIN6 60ES: Owned by Tim Turner. 58th and Peoria. NEW PLANTATION: Owned by Tom Olson. managed by Tim Turner. 51st and Yale. • THE CLUB: Opened by owners of Gala. 12th and Memorial. Lesbian bar-originally attended by gay men also. Now called The Rustic Club. • TIM'S PLAYROOM: Owned by Tim Turner. Opened in July 1977. Located at 11th and Lewis under the Meadow Gold sign. • ZIPPER'S: Owned by John Willis. 33rd and Yale. Opened in 1979- , • SEEKER'S CHOfCE: Lesbian bar on Admiral at Memorial. TULSA MINING CO.: On 11th Street. First alter-hours bar. Now Schlitzy·s. • TOOL IOX: Near downtown. Western bar. • OVER THE RAINBOW: At 11th and Garnett. Owned by Arlene Benson. Tulsa's largest les· bian bar-though clientele is mixed. • DANTE'S: Owned by Mark trom L.A. Located ,'I ' 1- . ' ' .. 2 ' I ,, l .. I • I • I I •. II ..\I • ·!i .• fI i ------------- -- --- -- --· -•----- ... ---· on 31st at:Harvard'. · • - ,. . I c.:· ,,- .... 5 . been expected. One gay person ex- oplainedf thesehquestions are checked 'no' - . gabeycabueseknI ohwnave."not let the fact that I am 25 waTsulasna'sin"cSere�duiballyPrweefellr_-ernesceaSrctuhdeyd", epdionfreoemrinagnsdtusedny.tCalol poiveesrwtehreecroeuqunest�t.- nanBcuet itpwasases ndopt reontoeucgtihngtoTgueltsaan'sogrady1- fcoormthmautnmityu.cEheccotmionfotritm. e was too do� miIsnssiotenarde,ctohmemHeunmdeadnaRpigo�hctsy Cstoa!me•- 19go the Premier Issue of Ano�her fifteen years, begun to speak. We are Ieru-ning to take care of ourselves. Tulsa, perhaps, is growing up with us. · . ment-which meant that comparues . . baTsihseoffirssetxsutaelpp. reference. It passed. ideUanwfoarsttuoncaotenlys,idtehrethoenlOy rsdteinpa. nIcf et-he mgauyncitoymCmhuurncithy. SistaMrteetdr�pm oThutals� �mo�mhe- smtoidr-e7fr0os, M(;C has grown from its first proaches to the issue. community for the most part indicated which offered gays the only legal pro- abnu!olduintrgein northeast a. MC� offers that they would not or had not discrim­ wteitchtitohne-eleactt· aiolaotefrJidmatIme,haollfehaospMe adyieodr many otahcehr tcohtuhrecghaeys chommunity that • werealos.veHrwowhelvmerin,gtlhyosaegaiinsbt uasinceistys 1973·74 Dianne ln i978 Jim Imhofe is quoted in the guestrsappeagkreorusp,s,nad children's church, ordinance protecting homosexuals. Church iTt'sultshaeTgroibveurnnemaesnsta'ysipnlga,c"eltdoobne'tgtihvingk a a socials. It ministers poSpiuxltayt-ionefelpt ethrcaet ngt of the general though the m jority believed th t gays 119754·765 1977·78 Taja Trudy Tyler Mayo Le Cabarret gwe did from the gay community. The should not beate chers or ministers. a 1978-791 CLiassaeyGoSotdamrran PNaepwillPolna-ntation waeyrecpoemrcmeuivneitdy was very hostile. We less discaryimcionmmunity itself reported 19° 7.9-80 Mr. Timm Friend's Lounge bo t-eve as rocking their secure 1980-81 Leighann CQauraulsitoy'sInn a n though their boat -was paIsnt ffeacwt,yiet has only been during the Cianti Caruso's ars that Tulsa has had so 1981 ·82 TCohsi hCahTurner Caruso's 1983-84 RHaevleenn HMoaliddday GCarasslihghLtanding gTGCC soon became a page in Tulsa Stephanie Casady Old Lady on Brady n t . . · d " . ' Open 7 p.m. Nightly (located inside TIM'S PLAYROOM Special Sidewalk Sale - June Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1985] Gay-ety in T-Town, Early Gay History and Bars, 1940's- 1985 Subject The topic of the resource Gayly Oklahoman, June 1985 article by Toni Broaddus reviewing gay bar history and other events including the formation of Tulsa Gay Community Caucus (TGCC) and Oklahomans for Human Rights (OHR). Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Toni Broaddus with the Gayly Oklahoman Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Gayly Oklahoman Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Gayly Oklahoman Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 1985 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Gayly Oklahoman Gayly Oklahoman John Faires M.C. 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Title A name given to the resource [2005] Trish Spurgin Interview Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource November 18, 2005 Description An account of the resource Video recording and transcript of oral history interview with Laura Belmonte on November 18, 2005. <strong>Video and Transcript available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for on-site research.</strong> Trish was born in Tulsa in 1941. [Editor’s note – full name was Agnes Patricia “Trish” Spurgin. She passed away in Tulsa on June 27, 2021.] She attended Western College for Women in Oxford, Ohio. In 1959, she experienced her first same- sex relationship while in college. She returned to Tulsa and attended the University of Tulsa. Trish worked in accounting and collections. Regarding the Tulsa lesbian scene, she discussed the bar life, social activities and the frequent police harassment. She discussed her interactions with her gay brother and observations about lesbians and gay men and her exposure to Tulsa Oklahomans for Equality. Subject The topic of the resource Trish Spurgin Oral History Interview from November 18, 2005 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Trish Spurgin, Laura Belmonte, Jensen Bridges, Matthew D. Williams, Dennis Neill 2005 Agnes Patricia "Trish" Spurgin Agnes Patricia Spurgin Agnes Patricia Trish Spurgin available at Center Dennis Neill Dennis R. Neill interview Jensen Bridges Laura A. Belmonte Laura Belmonte lesbian Matthew D. 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Title A name given to the resource [2001] Pride Library Flier Subject The topic of the resource Diversity Celebration 2001 Description An account of the resource Flier for Pride 2001 celebrations held in partnership with the Tulsa City County Library. 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ByTomNeal~.Tulsa Family News reporter Aruling by Oklahoma district level judge, Melinda Monette on a civil lawsuit filed by Dmmright attorney, TimDaniel, may strike the kilfin~blowto Oklahoma’s,sodomy"law. The lawsuit, seeks damages.from the estate of a Gay roanallegedly for knowingly expo.sing the plaintiff to risk of HIV infection (human. immune,deficiency.viruS) dining, the course of a two¯year Se~xual. relationship. It is alleged that the decedent knew he had been diagnosed with AlDS-(acqUired im~ mune deficiency syn. . status, and imowingly enguged in sexual bchavio~ that exposed the plalnfiffto high-risk of infection.. Ex’ posinganotherl)ersont0~ ofHIVinfectiouwithout fall .... ¯ ~losureis avi01afi0n of Oklahomalaw¶ . .. ~ -Tnn.Cheek, attom~ey,de-, fendingtheestateofthe..d.e.-. ’ ~ced¢.nt, :Challenged not.:the faCtor)f the plalntiff~s~ ."i "" bu[Challengedthep~:~S"?~..:: .:". :: :, i-. New report cites anti-gay public policy incidents in 41 states in past year court tests..As a :different circumstances are By CHRIS THOMAS examined by the court, tbe application~of a GayNet News Service November. 22, 1993 ruling is better understond. A new rep0rt on anu~gay efforts across the Some of!the legal support for overturning nation spotlights several dangerous strategies sodomy lawswas lost in a US Supreme Court Mr. RobertCrandall, President being usedby anti:gay groUps, and shows how ruling, Bowers vs,:.Hardwick, also from 1986~ scattered.victories can be turned into a broader This case found that homosekUal .conduct is, base of Support. "Hostile Climate:A State-by- ¯ ’We were extremely disapp6inted-to lean not protected under the US Constitution’s imState Report on Anti-GaY Activity" Was pre~ that-American Airlines has Once again behaved plied right to privacy. Legul paredby Peoplefor the American Way (PAW), irresponsibly-in its:treatment Of passengers experts have characterized a 300,000,member non-partisan constitutional who either have or are perceived to have’ AIDS ~ Ibis 5.4.case aspoorly realiberties o~aniTation based in Wa~xhlngton, or HIV disease. soned, being more informed D.C. The latest incident of which we are aware, by traditional pmjndice than According to PAW president Arthur J. that of the forcible arrest of Mr. Timothy , by.sound legal principles. Krupp, "While national battles over guy fights Holless from flight 50 out 0fChicago, is in our Former US Jus~ce Powell~ have captured, the limelight, dozens of 10wView, deplorable~ Our understanding of-the - who provided the ~swing" facts leads us to belive that there w_as-a phevote . to. continue to ~ofdecampaignsagainstbasiccivilfi~ts:for guys and lesbians have beenprolif~g at~ nomenal°insensitivity to ithe needs. of :those cdminalize private~ con~ the local level:The Spread 0fanti-guyactivity - who suffer from AIDS, and.Seems to us as if " sehsual homosexual .conAmerican’S actions may havebeen Vi0~five of :,duct, has since.recanted his . has reached a point where:~0ns 0f;AmefiCansfeartheirmostbasicfightsarebeingheld ¯ .boththeAirCarderAccessActandTitleIlIof vote, sayinghemadeamishostage to hate politics: take; " " the~cans withDisabi!iti~ ACt: According to.the repott, 4! stat~s and.:the.. -" T0 addinsuit t0 th~ th~i:indign~.ty- of your In his respo.ns¢ to attor" neyTimCheek, .Mr. Daniel . ~. Districtgf Columbia have ekperienced anti~,a~n~tofMr~Holiess~i~SadVocacy axguedthathiS..cfientshould gayactivitysincetheNo~e=mber1992el~ons..i: .:~ups ~nght. a re~:~!-tO)~e\~lment Of Atota10f!32stateor!ocalbattlesarechronic!~i.. =.Mr. Holiess,. ~,Am.erk~ans<answer Wasihat~the not-10se ’~temost fundaintherePort,:~d.rangedfromattacksS..mt.e,wide ¯ :]ncidentdoes ~iot Warrant:a respon~e:!’Fnatis~. . mental-right, ltl~t of a fair . ~g in c0art:’.~use anfi~liseriminafion laws to.the vandalism of unaccep.table: ¯ ’ .... : . .... We understand that. American>has:~l~lO. ~ .. ...... the fient isGaylanden- . the home of Melbourne, .!0wa,.mayor Bill. -~ right,~i~u. ; ~ ~~,~::th~ ~,n.- "...."gu"g~:.in.:hsmose~ual,conduct~ [n challenging - Crews,.who hndpnbficlycome o.utjnst prior.to .gized ~, ~ H~.!.!e~;: By.’ that We-i~er,you against natui~, <committed w~th ,mankind or ¯ ~ ~=~ ~ ~~" ~"~~=~I~I~: ~ " doctl~ne..Daniel, adds that.whiletheBower~withabeast,ispmi.~hablebyimprbonmentin CUFERTINO,Calif.I:==~Wiili~ms0n C6~i~ty, vs; Hardwickdecision doeS allow the state .of Georgia to keepits "sodomy" law, it does not" T~xas, county commissioners who Snubbed the penitentimT not exceeding ten years,..." Legal scholal~ have questioned whether Apple Comp~terInc.at.the end of Novemi~r require Oklahoma to reinstate its "sodomy" Oklahoma’s "sodomy"-statute still applies to. law which has atready been found to be uncon~ because ofits domestic pa11~er health benefits homosexual.conduct. In 1986 in a case con= package for gay and. lesbian employees re, stitutlonal, ceming hete~osexunl oonduct, )he law was IndgeMunettemledinfavorofTimDanieI’s versedtbemselvesaweeklateronDec.7. Just client,.nding that the decision of Post vs. the found to be ~nconstitutionaL In ¯Post vs; the aweckbefore,on Nov. 30, the commissionexs State 0fOk/ahoma;the Corot ofCrlminal Ap, _ State of Oklahoma do~s apply to homosexual had refused 3=2 to e~te~id a $750,000. tax peals of Okla_homa found that"’natund repug= abatementto Apple because of the domestic conduct. Thismeansthathomosexualconduct nance’.[onthepartofmanyforcertalnsexual is no longer cdmin~li~zy,d in the state ofOlda- . parmersbenefits. The,second vote that give Apple the. $1 million for: impmvements,-also homa _unless a. higher court reverses .Judge acts] does not createcompelling,justification for:statereg||lntionof ?abnoimal.. :sexual ~ . Monette’gd~ision: Atty. Cheeksaid he would 3-2,involvedfiochangeinthecomputer~.mn, s involving consentingaduitS,-and thus,.ap.pli: seeksucharuiingfromahigh’ercourt,uptothe ¯ pertuerspolicy, which Apple inSisted from the : cation0f..;~[the~OK~mylaw].,..to alleg:,..State SupremeCunrt(if.~, IfJu~l_g,e_ : timetheissuef’nsteruptedherenearlyam0nth _edly private; .. onk~.usual :aCtS-violated:, : M0nette’s ~ion. is upheld: iO~0ma s.: + r "~O W~ not up for negotiation, "Our pofiCy who ha~e:;or are perceived to have HIV or hdDS. We expect s.hortlyfiom you a.clear statementofnon=di~nation and full-corn= pliance with all Federal antl~inadon laws, and we expect you to abide by that unti= discdndnation inthe future. Rep.BameyFrank, D=MA Rep. HenlT Waxman, D~CA Rep. Pat Schmeder, D-CO Rep.G~ Studds, D;MA Rep.JamesOberstar, D-MN Rep. John Lewis: D-GA Rep.John O!_ver, D-MA ¯ Rep~.Jolene~nsoeld, D-WA :Rep. AnnaG~.Eshoo, D-CA : Rep~ Th0nW~- Andrews,. D-MA ¯ de[endant~s~timtionald~ttopdvacy...:?: . ~p!.l~’~’~0wens,~D-,~.MA- "s,o~!0_..~ay".law~bed~lyun~titutiom!. :~mainsdearandwedidnotwalver,"saidBil! Rep: Jano:ttarman, t)-uA. A!tomeYDa~dmgges.~.~ttl~ecase, Pon.- . .-andTn~Danl.erSplaintiffscasowillgototrial ~ . Keeo*_,_n, Apple’s spokexman in Texns~- ,We vs:.. the.State.of OMahoma; logid.ally.s~uld :. like any. other civil. dam~£eS case. At press . feel tlds poficy.is an .’,m!:~t component of : Rep.-_Tom I ~_ntos, D-CA Rep: Jerrold _N.~a~i!~...,~ D-NY . apply.to-~~.con~= Wen ash=.-.: . time, nQ further action had occurred. An upour business plan. It sa way to .~, and " Rep.Nancy Pelosi,D-CA retain tlmbestandbrightestempl0yees; . . ergsexualconductbutadd~ino~rsystemof, pealtoahigherCourtandfurtherrulingscanbe " Rep.Marty Meehan, D,MA -GayNet News Service lawtheseissuesaredetetmin~by~ive: ex~..within, the next several munths. . . Rep. Neff. A~ble, ENtR ..... .... ~ ¯ Rep. N~ Velazquez, .D=NY R~p. L~ Schenk, D-CA - B~ Tom Neat, Tulsa Family News reporter. ~ sm~; ~oliti~ or reugions beuefs, fa~y, co~u=t, ~l~ ~se regmtions arm beTheTuisapubHcSchoolSystem has ig- - social~)rcuitmal-baclq~ound, ~ Rep.Howm’dBe~man, D~CA ~nningoftheschoolyearwithnllnewtencher ~ for eightrmmths stamnon~iscrlmlna~: unfairly, a.. exclude .andy student Rep. Lynn C.:Wooisey~ D-CA conu’acts. . ¯ . . Washington, D.C, ¯ from pad¢ipa.~tion in. any program, b: deny ’~ tion. reg_ula~ons. ~b~t_ ~ !.ude ..lye~te~."onfo.r Tu!~.~ FatallyNewsy.keel. th¢off.~ceofStat¢ . smdentsbasedonsexual~muon.OnMarch Superintendent of Public Instm.ct!on, Sandy - The letter above was. sent after Timothy benefitsto.’anystud~nts, c~-grantunyadvan¯ Holless was arrested and removed by for~ Cran~tt,.for unexplanation of how it was that 18, tl~ OidahomaState ~vof-Edu, laget0 any~s~dent~..: ~ ..... - -Tul sa Publ cation adupted.s~.0f peaorm~-ce and. " conduct forl teachers~ These~ standardswere adopted asa result of HB 1017. - .. ’ These standards state, -"the teacher must strive to help each Student realiz¢:his or.her potential as awmhy and effectivememberof society,,the teacher:. ..... shall not on.the basis 6frace, mari-. . .. color, creed, sex, nationalofigin, " " Gay-State-Educa,.... " Regulat,ons " re-Pro, Jack ~ntious, ~nager> forH,,,~_ Re- the second ~gest schoo! disUict~in~ the Smt~ Rep.:Goorge Miller, .from an-Am~can_A~r.’~.,~es flight on Novena- not only was not ,.m compliance with these bet 14bound from C~r.c~g0~toSan Fruncisco. sources-for Tulsa Public Schcols (TPS)told Tulsa Family Newi Ll~ sciiooi system had not _ regulation but didn t even seem to know about . Speaking with TulsaFamily.News, Gus been aware of ther~gu.lations’before, Tulsa - them~ Press secretary forthe superintendent, Whitcomb of American- Airlines .pubic rela!0hnDelanders, intitiallytookthisrequestbut Family News called: Mr~ Pontius indicated tions department portrayed the mc~_n_t as merely an effort to insure -Mr. Holless wellthat Tuisa Public Schools would disfi-ibute the. --. failed to respond to further phone calls over see American, page 4 being, regulations sometime before March 1994. In several weeks, the Tulsa area, the Jenks school system,..in . .. ..~..... .... Tulsa Family News~ De¢embe~ 1993-January!994,-page~l .. , �Tulsa Directory- Why Tulsa Family News? tied together by need and sometimes, love. It has always included us, .Lesbian% Gay.men women (though may~ ~ qui= in those ~t and Bisex.als, though not always by those names (spinster annts and bachelor tmcles,and wools), tbe m~mlng off~ff/y forLesbinn.% Gay as we know,being married doesn’t make you :~.:~i;ii: n~n and Bisexnalx is fluid. sUaight), Fami/y is, yes, our blab/adoptive parents The family in America has rarely been what i-!:~!ii!and siblings but famay is also that tribe of the Christor[:ascists have claimed. We know it ’~i! women and men, sisters and brothers (orperand they know it too. But dem0nizing us :~!~?"hapsjust sisters), who welcomed us.after we serves their political purpose. This country has realized our diffe~nces from the heterosexual a long and shameful history of slandering various minorities; creating.an, enemy within .:i~;~:~More than many ~bes, we are a diverse to play off folks’ fears so that a few could gain :~i~)gr0up.Weare sqmm~byissues of gender, of wealth and political power. !!!’:~ra~, religion and ethnicity~ by class and by ~ age, and by physical beauty. Sometimes, like We have demonized Native Americans, Blacks~ Jews, Catholics, Asians and :others. biological families, We a~.cl’u~l and abusive These days, Lesbians; Gay men and Bisexuais are the enemy of choice: and the coffers of the .... But at our best, despised though we nmy be Religious Right, the Christ~-Fas~ists are full. So this is ~Tulsa Family News, news for our that much of the rest of this country long seem f~mili~ of the heart; and for our families that to have forgouen. For example, I was involvedin several of the’ are biological, our brothers, sisters and parnationalplanning meetings for thislast.March : ents~ Cousins, Uncles, and aunts. This is the fn’st of what I hope will be many en Washington.For all .th¢ fmstrationandhard issues. Tulsa deserves to have its own event work of the process, it was charactmizedby an and entertainment paper. News. from Oldaeffmt toempower and include persons of all homa City is of interest but is not enough. statuses; r’ac~, gender, transgsnder, age; subThis paper follows several other attempts by folks, whoml honor for theirhard work. Tulsa No one else in America is even seriously trying FamilyNews can and will be there for Tulsaif democracy of this sort....ee~ainly, not our you help us. Let us know.what you like: Let us gov~=mnent¯ ...... .know ~wh~t.you don’t like. (gently, please). America:in Some Native ~e~ican maditi0ns, .’ . Patronize the basinesses thai’sUpport us and tell them that you saw their ad - there is a Men IWho loved Men: & W~. who loved can~eaionbeWeen your actions :a~I this paWomen were known us.Two-Spirits. They had: special roles as ~aman* ~ thos~ who showed per being here, And if yon are aLesbian oi Gay business owner, reach out to your community the way, P~aaps, we .can showthe way io a Via advertising~. Lesbian and Gay bar owners country tharoflon has failed to live theideals have long carried much of the weight of helpit claim.~. ing the community.: it’s time for some of the We must reO~m fami/y from those who rest of us to sh~re the job. Thank.~. would take it fox ~ use only - who would Tom Nea],. publisher. perve~t it for their political and monetmy gain: The family historically has been large and PS, anyone interested in a Lesbian/Gay Indian ~ganization, drop a line:to Jesse, c/o TFN. messy,som~mes biological but just as often Hey, gir~ that one’s cute, is shefamily? 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Sheridan 747-6711 3356 E. 51 584-7486 *Phun Stuph, 1519 E. 15 Sheridan *Tomfoolery, 1565 S. 832-0233 Organizations 74101 ACT-UP, POB 532 Names Proj, POB 318 74101 748-3111 P-FLAG POB 5280074152 749-4901 HIV Resource Consortium *TOHR, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-l743-4297 Gay Line Info. 749-7898 Shanti Hotline B/L/G Alliance, Tulsa U. 583-9780 Oklahoma AIDSHotline . 800,535-2437 Other *Tulsa Central Library, 400 Civic Ctr. 596:7977 *Chapman Student Ctr.. TU, 631-0000 TULSA FAMILY NEWS Publisher/Editor Tom Neal .918~832-0233 POB 4140 Tulsa, OklahOma 74159 Issuedon the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1993 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photO in no way indicates or reflects thai person’s sexual orientation. 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TU, 583,9780 Next Month - First,in a Series: Interviews with _City Council Candidateson Our Issues New Feature: Local Heroes Tnlsa’s Only Openly Gay-o~wned Gift Store Pride Jewelry, Buttons, Stickers, Cards, Newsmagazines, T-shirts & Sweatshirts & more for Lesbians, Gay Men & Bisexuals, Our Families & Our Friends Come f’md those.Holiday Gifts ~ at the Store where you know you’ll be treated like Family! �Faggots have day . W. Da n i.el +Attorney at.+Law " + . Estate:Planning, Adopbons, PeP,~bnal Injury. ¯ Criminal Law, Bankruptcy, WorkersCompen~ation 1;800~742-9468 ~or 918-352~9504 128 ~East Broadway, Drumri ght;Oklah0ma :-. , W~kend and evening appoin~ents areavailable.. . .., SALOON- S PR.EJUD-ICE+ ......- The editodal mpmd.cedabovc is from The Grow $.~, Grovei Oklahomm It was fax~ directly to TulsaFa~’ly N~ws wi~ ~sSion to reprint. Should we laugh or ~ after rending.this editorial by its publisher, M. Gerald Stone? The view ¯ is.so exlreme and so ignorant that at.first it is hard to takeit seriously. Sadiy,.,though, we recog~ze., thatM. Gegald Stone isnot being facetious. He’s serious when he suggest that,sexbetween.males i~dI~0.~n~an~ of the HIV virus." It scem~ that Mr. Stone is not one.to letl 0 years of medical e~idencei from amandthe World get in the way of his prejudice. He adds that "faggots" should noi come, ~g to the-government and the taxpayers.for help in fighting the HIV epidemic. Excuse us, Mr. Stone, but last we checked, Lesbians & Gay melt Were still citizens. We know that we ~e certainly paying our.fair ~are of taxes (probably more) and. we know it’s our government too, no _.manet how much that governmentirea~ U_s~as 3rd class~citizens. It’s our right . to:~all on+o.ur goyemme~it to fry-to prevent funhe~ suffe_~g by finding ~ent for HW related diseases, including we hopa.acure ultimately. Ifs our.fightto be~angry, at our.government who during the past decade did so much less than it Could have done precisely because it was dominated by men who think like you- though most of them were somewhat more subtle in expressing their . Now, we recognize t_ha_t it is:your right to express yourself and we defend that+right, no matter " howchtwlish that opinion.is~But we.can’t help but.wonder 8S we.a_ppgoachrthi~:~.sesson ~ . i when Jews celebrate the’miracle of the lamps, Pagans the lengthening of theday, and Christians~ Buffet, Champagne " PartyFavors & Door.Prizes SlOcouple, $6: single. ¯Afternoon Beer.Bust 4-7pm, Tues. - Fri. Dancers on ~ursdays thro Decembe .. Look for Miss Gay Tulsa in Janua_ry +.. :-". +.l565!S.Sheridan,83&4234 a mrm who Called o,u.:fog ti0mpassion, c0uld.yon not put aside at !eastsome:of y0_m: .ha.te~..-~d:~s~ !. : .Tutsa Family News; DecemBer 1993-~anuary !994, page �Tulsa D recto y . . Why Tulsa- .Family ?.. News Hey, girl, thol one’$ cute, is shefa!!ly ? Said. fled togethe~ by,need and sometimes, love. It .:~: withkony,some|ime~,saidbymen,orsaidby has always included us, .I.~bianx, Gay.men ii iwmnan (tlmughmaybuno~quiteinthoseexact.. and Bis~xual~ though not always by those. ~ i~ii ~:w0rds), t~mmningoff~ni/y forLeshians, Gay frames (spinsterannts and bach_e~r, uncles, and " as we know,being marrieddoesn t make you . ~::,!!~:.:mon and Bisexuals is fluid.¯ ~-~ .... . . ’ .~:i::;i~ Family is, yes, our birl~/adoplive patents, slraigh0~ The l~ami!yinAmcficahasrarely been what :.ii!~iii~:i,and siblings but fomily is also ~ tribe of !i!i>~:i:wemea and men, ~’~s~ers aMbrothers (o~per-_ ~ the Chris.t~:Fascists have claimed. We know it ¯?i~Impsju~t sisters), who welcomed us after we - and they know it too. But demonizing as a long and shameful .history of slandering! various ~tles~ creating.an ¢nemy within toplay off folks" fearsso that a fe~ could gain ~~!( ~..We ar~ sqmm~by issues ofgender, of w~alth and political power. .- " ~:~ race, religion a~l emnidty: by cla~s and by We have demonized Native Americans, .~ age, and by physical beauty. Sometimes, like biological families, we a~e.cmel and abusive . Blacks~ Jews, Catholics, Asiaus:.and <others. These da~,s, Lesbians; Gay m¢n and Bisexuals to one another. -a~ the enemy of choice; and.the coffers of the But at our besG despised thongh wemay be Religious Right, the Christb:Fascists are full. by HeteroAmerica, westrive for ideals mat much of the rest of this cotmU-y long seem So this is.Tulsa Family News, news for our families of the heart, and for our families that to have forgotten. are. biological, our brothers, sisters and parFor example, I was involved in several of the national planning meetings for.this lastMarch ’. ents~ Cousins, Uncles, andaunts. This is the f~st of what I hope. will be many on W:tghington.For all the fmslrationandhard issues. Tulsa deserves to have its own event workoftheproce~itwascharacterizedbyan and dntertainment paper.- News. from OklaeffoR toCmpower and include persons of all homa City is of interest but isnot enough. statuses: race, gender, transgender, age, subThis paper follows several other attempts by counnanitles: students, leather, religions, etc. No one else in America is even seriously W!ing~ folks whom I honor for their-hard work; Tulsa Family News can and will be there for Tulsaif democracy of this sort....certainly, not our govemm¢.nL .... yon help us, Let us !mow.what you like: Let us And~.thisispart0four~iBto ~ :know "What~y0u .don’t: like: (gently, please). America:insomeNativeAmericantraditi0ns,: ~ Patronize thebusinesses thaiSupport us and tell them that_ you saw their ad- there is a Men :Who loved Men. & W0m~n.wh0 lOVed connectionbetween your actions :and this paWomen were known us,Two-Spirits. They had per be ing here. And ifyou areaLesbianotGay special roles as ~aman.~ - those who showed the way, Perhaps, we Can showthe wayio.a ¯ business owner, reach out to your community Via advertising: .Lesbian and Gay bar owners country thatoflen has failed to five theidealS have long carried much of the weight of belpit claim.x, We must reclaim fa~i/y from those who- ing the community-it’s time for some of the rest Of us to $hare the job, Thank.g, would take R for their use only - who would Tom Heal, publisher. pervert it for their political and monetary gain. ¯ne family historicaily has been large and IS, anyone interested in aLesbian/Gay Indian .organization, drop a line’to Jesse, c/o TFN. messy,.sometimes biological but just as often Kelly,, H,. rby--. Certified Public Accountant 9933 East 16th, Suite 104 Tulsa 74128 918-663=9399 Tulsa Family News, December 1993- January 1994, page 2. * Asterisks indicate d~.tribution points Bars& Restaurants *The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria 744-0896 *Cherry St. Bakery~ 1344 E: 15 583-8398 *Electric Circus; 606 S. Elgin 587-8~77 583~5233 *Laff’s, 311E. 7th *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 S. Sheridan 834-4234 *Renegade, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 *Time n’ Time Again, !515 S.. Memorial" ~. - . 660-0856 664-8299 " *TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd .584-1308 .*Whittier Care, 416 S~ Lewis, 582-2400 Retail Businesses/Galleries*Indian Territory Coffee Company 1613 E. 15 587-1633 Galerie Europa, 203 N. Main 592-2787 Harry & Mrs. Jones, 1617 E. 15 582-1617 Jared’s, 1602 E. 15 582-3018 Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 599-8070 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 PI 664-2951 Novel Idea Discount Books 492-0335 7104 S~ Sheridan 747-6711 3356 E. 51 *Phun Stuph, 1519 E. 15 584-7486 *Tomfoolery, 1565 Sheridan S. 832-0233 Organizations 74101 ACT-UP, POB 532 Names Proj, POB 318 74101 748,3111 P-FLAG POB 52800 74152 749-4901 HIV Resource Consortium *TOHR, 4154 S..Harvard, Ste. H-1 Gay Line Info. 743-4297 749-7898 Shanti Hotline B/L/G Alliance, Tulsa U, 583-9780 Oklahoma AIDS-Hotline 800-535-2437 *Tulsa Central Library, 400 Civic Ctr. 596-7977 ,Chapman Student Ctr.. TU, 631-0000 TULSA FAMILY, NEWS Publisher/Editor Tom Neal .918:832-0233 POB 4140 Tulsa, OklahOma 74159 Issuedon the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this pablication are protected by US copyright 1993 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Pubfication era name orphot0 in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. Correspendance i~ assumed to be for publica~ tion unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondence should be s.ent to the address above. Tulsa Fatally’News is a event & entertainment newspaper dis~buted free of charge in local businesses and organizations. *University Center at Tulsa ProfessionalsTheodore Campbell, MSW 1560 E 21 743-1000 Sandra-J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy 2865 E. Skclly, Stc. 215 745-1111 -T’nn Daniel, Atty. 352-9504 or 800-742-9468 Bill Hinkle, Atty. 749-1586 Kelly Kirby, CPA, 9933 E 16 663-9399 John’ Kirk, Realtor 747-5800, 745-2245 Tom Ncal, Designer: 832-0233 B uildings/Gardcns/G-raphics Religious Organizations *Family of Faith MCC,, 500 W. ’A’ Jenks 298-4622 ~,~tio~n:(Me=0dis0" .~ .’., .- 742-8213 )~C~2"T~I~ ¢,~623M~pld~ood 838-1715 Dignity/Integrity. " 298-4648 *Canterbury Ministry Ctr.. TU, 583~9780 Next Month o First in a Series: Interviews with .City Council Candidateson Our Issues New Feature: Local Heroes. Tulsa’s Only Openly Gay-o~wned Gift Store Pride Jewelry, Buttons, Stickers,. Cards, Newsmagazines, T-shirts & Sweatshirts & more for Lesbians, Gay Men & Bisexuals, Our Families & Our Friends Come find those-Holiday Gifts . . atthe Store where you know you’ll be treated like Family! �News Briefs News Briefs News BriefsNewsBriefs NeWs Briefs News BriefsNews Briefs News Arrests in Anti-Gay Killing NEW ORI.EANS ~ Grat Gunderson, 24, Ronaid D. Graves, 24,and Mingo Graham, 23,-were charged with Is,t-degree murder in the stabbing death of Joseph Balog of Gulfport, Miss., while he was walking through the French Quarter of New Orleans earlier in November with a friend. The second man was seriously .injured inthe attack while 4 or 5 men yelled anti-gay epithets. Officials say they are looking for other suspects-in the killing. According to. police, neither the dead man nor his unidentified friend were gay even thongh their attackers apparently believed they were. Previously Unknown WildeLove Letters Auctioned LObiDON~A anonymous bidderpurchased acollection of love letters from authorOscar Wilde to Philip Griffiths for $27,580..The letters were written by Wilde to the wealthy young Griffiths in the 1880s and included a photograph of the famous gay playwright. The brief affair between the two men harriet been previously known about and the letters were offered for sale through Christie’s auctioneers by adescendent of Griffiths~ LibraryBan on Out-of-Town Papers Anti-Gay? TULSA, Okla. ~ The Tulsa.County library commission has voted to prohibit out-of-town publications from being distributed at libraries, a move TomNeal, the Tulsa reporter.for the Wichita, Kan.-bused gay paper The Parachute, says is aimed to excluding the gay publication from distribution at the libraries. Library officials deniedthat was their motive, noting that it will continue.to carry TheGay/y Ok/ahoman,-which is pubfished in Oklahoma City. (Editor’s note: The Tulsa City-.COunty Library does notdistribute The Gayly Oklahonmn at/d on/y carries one copy in its downtownbranok) -Clinton ’NotDone’ With Military Issue Yet? SEATILE w Seattle radio and TV stations reported that while resident Clinton was in the city for a snmmR conference with-leaders of Asian and Padfic Rim nations in November, ajogger who wus out mnnigg in the early morning mn into the President and commented that"You let gays in the military, down, didn’t yonT’ Clinton reportedly repfied, somewhat enigmatically, ’We’ re not done yet." Mass Test for AIDS Virus Planned at Concert SEATILE:-- The Vancouver, Wash.-based Saliva Diagnostic S.ystems Inc.. will help gather saliva samples at a Budapest rockconeert on Nov. 26 in what the firm says will be the largest mass AIDS testing ever conducted. More than 1,000 samples willbe collected and analyzed using the firm’s self-admiifiStered saliva test, which checks for the presence of HIV. The samples will be analyzed by the National Institute of Hematology and Blood Transfusion in Budapest. According to Dr, David Barnes, director of the firm’.s European offices, the mass testing .will be an opportunity to demonstrate the usefulness of the company’s Omni-SAL device over standard HIV blood tests.. discrimination onthe basis of sexual orientation; and WHEREAS, the result of this potential harassment, and discrimination is the denial to some Louisianians of.fights, privileges or benefits,, solely on the basis of personal.matters; and WHEREAS;it isinappropriate for government either to encourage or discourage, to condone or condenm in the area of sexual orientation; NOW THEREFORE I, EDWIN W, EDWARDS, Governor of the State of Louisiana, by virtue of the authority.vestedin me.by the Constitution and laws of the §tate of Louisiana, do hereby order: SECTION 1 - No state agency or department shall discriminate on :the basis of sexual orientation against auy individual in the provision of any services or benefits by such state agency ¯ or department. ~ SF_LTION 2, No state agency, or department shall discriminate on .the basis of sexual orientation against any individual in any matter pertaining to employment by the state, including, but.not limited.to(hiring, promotion, tenure, recruitment, and compensation. " SF_L’~ON 3, All Contraets:forthe purchase of services by anystate agency or department " shall be awarded without discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation of the personsseeking such contracts. Further, all such contracts shall include a I~ovision ths.t the contractor shall not discriminate on.the basis of sexual orientation i_n any matter relating to employment. SECTION 4 - This Order shall take effect immediately upon promulgation. AIDS Scientist. Urges Vatican to Relax. Condom Rules VATICAN C1TY~ Dr. Lnc Montagnier, the French co-discoverer. :of HIV,-has urged the Catholic Church to ease its restrictions on thc~use of condoms inan effort to fight the.AIDS epidemic. "I don’t-want to give lessons to the Church, but I do invite it tube more pragmatic Montagnier, himself a and. tolerant," Montagnier said at a Vatican-sponsored gathering. Catholic, said,"If AIDS is a d_iabolicul disease,, no method to beat it can itself be considered diabolical." Black Clergy Urged to Battle AIDS WASHINGTON -- The Rev.. George Stallin g~, archbishop of the Imani Temple, ha~ urged other black ministers to overcome their moral concerns and assume a more active role in the battle against AIDS. "Ifpreachers are apprehensive abontAIDS issues because they view it as a result of sinful behavior, that is no excuse not to minister.to those, afflicted/’.Stallings said at a recent meeting with Uulted Response to Black America~s :Needs ~AN),-Also at that meeting, Stallings announced plans to develop an AIDS education program tO be used by the. clergy. According to URBAN, ~the.reverend promised thatImani Temple wou!d ;~become a center for blacktheological responsesto the AIDS criSisin auder-servedcommunitiesY A similar call for the biack clergy.to assume a more active leadership role .in fightingthe epidemic was made in. Phil~ulelphla ata meeting sponsored by the "Ecumenical !rife. AIDS Resource Center. ¯ LAnti-Bias Executive Order in Louisiana Erotica Booming in Sexually Perilous.Times BATON ROUGE, La.--Louisiana Guy. Edwin W. Edwards, has signed aproclamation barring state agencies from discrimination based on sexual orientation in providing services, hiring, awarding contracts or ia-~e practices of state contractors. The text of Guy. Edwards’ executive order follows: STATE OF LOUISIANA EXECUTIVE DE ARTMENT BATON ROUGE EXECUTIVE ORDER NO. EWE 92- 7 WHEREAS, a portionof the population of our State is subject to potential harassment and SAN FRANCISCO ~ Accg.rding.to a report i~t:~th~ N0~ember issue ~of 2Ameficau Demograph.ic.s,=fears:about:AIDS and otherSeXually transmitted diseases have prompted Americans to curb Sandra J. Hill, M.S. Psychotherapy &Clinical Consultation Sensitive to the Challenges Of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgendered Individuals, Couples & Families. 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Ste. 215 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 745-1111 Novel Idea Discount Books 7104 S. Sheridan, 492-0335 3356 E. 51st, 747-6711 Titles .of Interest to. the Lesbian & Gay Communities Tulsa Family News, December1993- January 1994, page 4 Hostile Climate, cont.from page 1 : .-Human RightsCampaign i~und, said that the report ’~’is alandmark study, providing state by state documentation of the radical rights agenda of int01eiance, discriminhtion and violence." Amid .the losses at both the local and state .levels,-the.report also cites a few successes. Onelmrticulafly notable victory occurred when Minnesota became the eighth state in the nation ¯ to bar :discrimination against gays in housing, public accommodations, and employment. The report saysthat one of the main reasons for the success in Minnesota was thai members of the group "Itrs Time Minnesota" were able to marshall .the support of several state religious leaders, including Catholic bishops, l~daind the.anti-discrimination bill. The nationr s middle ground, "the undecided American;" will be the next battleground in the struggle for equal rights; says the report. "Rising to this challenge;:~ thereport concluded, ’.’gay rightssupporters in communities_across the country are reaching out to broaden theh alliances with the bUsiness community, with Afriean-Americans and Hispanics; and.with the main-line churches. The next cycle .will reveal which side has made the most compelling case to the Americanpublic." is at the forefront of these efforts both.in schools and elsewhere, according to thereport. Anti-gay efforts in Arizona, Florida,. MissOuri, and oregon have been spearheaded bymemhers oftheChristiau Coalition, the Traditional Values. Coalition, and the oregon Citizens Alliance. By the Christian Coalition’s own post-election tally, at least 66 right,wing ean. didates were elected to school beardsaeross the nation, often using, misleading claims of "homosexual-lesbian propaganda" in curricula to win election. Another strategy being used by the religious tight is to drive wedges between gays .and other minority groups, including_ African.Americans and Jewish Americans. The term "special tights" has been.appropriated for use in these battles, in which opponents Claim that gays are not a "legitimate" ~minority group, and that the straggles fought by these other groups are being triviaiized by~the gay equaltights movement. National gay leaders were thankful that the report had been released, but also spoke strongly against the incidents, documented~ Peri Jude Radecic, executive :director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, called the report"shocking.’~ Radecic added that the report "crystallizes the sobering reality that we are fighting an unprecedented mobilization by the Far Right, who are trampling over the ideals of freedom and liberty in their pursuit of political power." In the coming months, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force willbe. working with other national, regi,onal~ and local groups, gay and non-gay,-to turn back this march of hatred which masquerades as legitimate politics and threatens the American valuesof fairness and decency," said Radecic. Tim McFeeley, executive director ~,~ the American, cont. frompage I Mr. Holless was visibly ill and was carrying a IV bag which fed a catheter, Mr.. Whitcomi: said that the flight crew asked Six times that Mr. Holless deplane temporari!y for amore private conversationwhile his medical records were checked. Mr. Holless refused and was removed by Chicago police. Several eyewitnesses indicated however thai Mr. Hoiless was dragged from the plane, screaming in pain. At press-time, Congressman Frank told Tulsa Family News, that he had not yet received any ~espouse from American. �News Briefs News,Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News BriefsNewsBriefsNewsBriefs,News their anything-goes sexual attitudes and behaviorsof the past. But spending on pornography, sex toysandother sexually-relatedarticleshasbeen skyrocketing during thepast 10 years or so, says asurvey by the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. "Because of fears about sexually transmitted diseases,-people are having feWer partners," said Dr. Ted McIlveana, president of.the Institute. "So now they’re buying paraphernalia." ’American Gladiator’ Comes Out LOS ANGELES--We are everywhere, gay fights activists are fond of pointing out. Yet another indicator of the reality of this small truism came for viewers of the "IV.program "American Gladiators," a show with apenchant forhunkyguys and galsinTtight spandex super-hero costumes doing pretty silly things~simulating soft,core war-game conte~ts.During a chat with one of the regular beefcake hunks on the.show called Turbo (yes, .that’s the kind of names they’re known by), the interviewer asked him why he wears an earring. Turbo’s cool response: "Because I’m gay."_The rest of the:interview went ahead without furtherreference to Turbo’ s - or with a body like that, maybe it should be ’~Mr. Turbo’s" - sexual.orientation. We suppose the next coming out semi-star will have to be oue.0f the drivers On those strange monster-track programs. NIH Agrees to Ask Women About Sexual Orientation in Study WASHINGTON" According _tothe American.Association of Physicians for Human Rights, an organiTation of gay andlesbian doctors, the National Institutes of Health has agreed to ask about sexual orientation when it begins a massive study of women’s health issueS. The study, Which will survey some 160,000 women nationally, will be the largest study of w0men’s health ever undertaken by the federalgovemment. It is scheduled to begin in January 1994. NIH agreed to include questions about sexual orientation and behavior after AA HR and the National Center for Lesbian Rights mounted an intensive lobbying campaign to convince the federal agency that there might be increased health risks among lesbians that would not show up in a survey of women in general. Earlier this year; Suzanne Haynes, an epidemiology expert with theNational Cancer Institute, reported increaseddSk factors.for breast cancer among lesbians, a study AA HR cited in convincing NIH to ask about sexual Orientation in the upcoming $600 million federal survey. -Shareholders Nix Cracker Barrel Anti-Bias Policy LEBANON,.Tenn.--Shareholders of the Cracker Barrel Old Country Store chain of restaurants voted against adopting an anti-bias poficy that would-include sexual orientation ai their annual meeting atthe f’mnrs headquarters. Rights activists say a 1991 company policy of hiring only .straights and fhing gays and lesbians remains in effect, a claim the chain denies. ° from San Francisco. The Barney. ’Homo Conspiracy, ¯ CHARLOTI’E, N.C. Josepll Chambers, a former Church of God minister and gayrights foe in Charlotte, N.C.; is pubfishing a booklet identifying Barney; the PBS-TV purple dinosaur currently the rage with the preschool set,.as a "new age demon’~ who promotes homosexuality. Chambers, who was earlier.this year removed as pastor of the Paul Creek.Church of G0d after he had tried to claim ownership, of the.church and its property, has condemned Barney as "straight out of the new age and the world ofdemons and devils." According to Chambers, who has started an anti-gay rights group known as Concerned Charlotteans,"Barney is teaching kids-that we must accept everyone as they are ~. whether they;re homosexuals .or lesbians.r~ Chambers and. Concerned Charlotteans, whose newsletter "Update" is r~gnl~!y crammed with anti-gay items, are getting ready to publish a booklet, ,Barney the Purple Messiah," to elaborate on-the alleged evil homosexual conspiracy behind the 6-foot purple children’s character. Hawaii Lawmaker to Introduce Gay Marriage Ban HONOLULU ~ State Rep, Tewance Tom has announced he will introduce a measure barring same-sex marriage in Hawaii. Thestate Supreme Court earlier this year ruled that gay andlesbian cou#es may have a constitutional right to legally marry unless that state can prove a "compelling state interest" in prohibiting same-sex marriages. One gay male couple and 2 lesbian couples sued .after the state refused to issue marriage licenses for them. Topeka Council. OKs Anti-Picketing Measure TOPEKA, Kansas ~ The Top~kn, Kansas, City . Council has - approved an anti-picketing ordinance aimed at restricting anti-gay protests - led by the Rev.:Fred Phelps - outside churches. Phelps and his followers often picket other churches he sayssupport gay rights ~nd demonstrate at funerals of people who have died. of AIDS with signs .reading ?God.hates fags." The council passed a similar.measure earlier this year which was vetoed by Mayor Butch Felker. Felker Said he is ancertain whether herll veto this measure or not. LSU Coach Worried About.Homosexual Role Models OAKLAND, CaliL--’Leland Traiman, a gay nurse,is in the processofopening the Rainbow Flag Health Services, which will.be tee world’s first lesbian-specific sperm bank. Traiman says the medical service.will stock only Sperm donated by gaymen andthat the agency will encourage BATON ROUGE, La,-- LouiSiana State University basketball coach Dale Brown Thursday, Dec: 9~ blamed a society thatholds up embezzlers, alcoholics and homosexuals as role.models when asked about the arrest of 2LSU football players on burglary charges. ’AVe gntto toughen up our sy.stem in America,’" Brown-said. "The criminal gets away with everything in this permissive society, Kids get good people to copy from - the television personalities that axe homosexuals, the embezzlerS, the coaches that are drunks, ministers who are false evangelists. So kids are looking at society in general. And it’s a kind of sickness in society. Each person.needs to clean up his mess, I guesS.". 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POB .1265 Broken Arrow Community Playhouse I109 E. Memphis 258-0077 Clark Theatre 11440 E~ Admiral G A Y ’L Show A Christmas Carol December 10-23 $11-16 WilSams Theatre, Perf. Arts Center The Best Christmas Pageant Ever December 10=19 $10 BA Community Playhouse Working December 17-19 $5Clark Theatre It’s Sad, So Sad, When an Elf Goes Bad December21-23 $3 Heller Theatre 5328 S. Wheeling 669-6455 S~tlight Theatre 1381 Riverside.Drive 587-5030 Performing Arts. Trust 101.E; ~ 596-711I ¯ Tat~a BaUer Clark Theatre An Evening ofDance with Locomotion January 7-10 $5 Heller Theatre The Drunkard. December 18 January 8, 15 $7,50 Spotlight,Theatre .. Jungle.Book January 8 $7 " " . Studio One, Performing ArtsCenter The .Nutcracker 4512 S. Peoria 749-6006 I F E S T Y L meant to 1~. Shesays her intention "isn’t to upset or bother people; my intention is to entertain. It’s not like I’m a historian or an expert¯ on anything. Particularly recently, I guess, I’ve made some effort to be pe!~tical, but it’s also what interests me lately." While on stage, her body language alone is entertaining as she-drapes herself over the stool¯, wraps herself in the mike cord, or lays on the floor while deliVering her material. Because of her improvisational approach and the relationship she develops with her audience, each show is an experience - no two are alike. Paula was born in Alabama,("Thankfully, I only spent one month there"), raised in Sudbury, Massachusetts; moved to San Francisco at the age of 19, and now resides in Los Angeles. She credits Massachusetts as the state where she.received her first break. "It’s the typical. story of almost every comedian: I was busing. tables at a club in town and they started an open-mike comedy show, and I thought I might be able to do that. So I did." Based on the audience response when she performed at various clubs~ she felt that she bad found her niche. Despite frequent appearances on "The.Tonight Show" and~-"Late Night with David Letterman", the 1989 American Comedy Award for Funniest Female. Stand-Up, numero6s cable television specials, including her own "One Night Stand - Cats, Cops and Stutt" on HBO,"Tbe Paula Poundstone Show", (HBO’s "talk show With a twist"), and the nomination foran ACE. Award, Paularemains low-key about her success and She has noplans to star in a movie or TV serieS. "I just do what " I d0~ I have never beent0 ambitions and one With :her dead:on perception and deadpan to seek fame or status?" She-likes comed~ because it’s nice, easy work ~itrs really a delivery,Panladisplays a remarkable ability See"Poundstone, "page 7 to see.things as they really are, notas they are. by Lee Moon - IN - Boston Offbeat, eccentric; quirky, hysterically funny, a comedy watershed, an artist, and an inventor, are just a fewof the words and ways that have been--used to describe Paula Poundstone. She fits all ofthe.se descriptions and then some, She alsopossesses an extraordinary, insightful mind and a special talent for interacting with her audience. When PaulaMts the stage, she uses all of those elements in her routines. She addresses everything from cats (she has 5), to the Persian Gulf War. "I figure if you go.to the bottom of the whole thing, ten years from now, it’ s gonna turn out that some yellow ribbon salesman somewhere was at the root of the entire thing. I love the idea of tracing it. You know, you go through the Pentagon, through the ambassadors, through the Fanir of Kuwait, and then there’s one little ribbon salesman basking in the Sun .... " . She has her own topics as well. On grownups: "Yon everwonder why adults are always asking little kidswhat they want to.be when they grow up.9 They’relooking for ideas!, And on junk food: ’ "Driving a convertible ~ changed my eating habits. I used to .eat those Hostess Mini Gems with the white powdered sugar on the sides. Now I find I’m eating a bald doughnut with alot of white junk on my face." She can tell you in exactly how man~ states, Ring, Dings (which, she says;are far superior to:Ho.H0"s) are sold, and the nutritional ingredients of-Pop Tans.~("Pop Tarts are a free taste treat. They are truly one 0flife’sfiuer pleasures. I don’t go,anywhere ~ithout ~em. Ido ’era cold right from the HI.V ,TESTIN.G...CLIN lC EVERY THURSDAY>EVENI-NG,I-7=8:30PM ’. sponsored by ’ .. TulsaOkl~omansFor Human Rights --..4154 S. Ha~ardi Ste: Hal, Quadrangle Building :..-SW Comer. of41Si &H~ard, SW Comer of office-building " ........ Fi nge.r Stick, .M et h od . E Paula. Poundstone-- The Pop Tart Queen iDaytime Testing, Tuesday and Thursday,by Appointment .Call 74.9-4194 By & for but not exdusi e tOthe .Lesbian,. Gay & Bisexual:.Communities �" How.:.: !’To S-ALOON Buffet, Champagne, Party Favors & Door Prizes $10 couple; $6 single. Afternoon Beer Bust 4-Tpm,:Tues. - Fri. " Dancers on .Thursdays thro’ December Look for Miss¯ .Gay Tulsa in January 1565 S, Sheridan, 834-4234 .... Poundstone, continuedfrompage 6 g.o~!job for me: I have no self-discipline. I don’t even wr~.’te down my jokes and staff on .pieces of paper like other people.. Everything .tha._t~I.d.9.0~ s.tage..iS a. ~_.fl_~,;o!~_ Of.~ofhow. I Spend mydays and nights.’ .... Just how these days~and nights are spent is OUT IN THE STARS Aries (Mar..20-Apr. 19): Ron up the.windows, gnu the engine, andget amove,on.Ever ~ since you left the city limits, you’ve no longer been subject to the federally-mandated 55mph speed limit. That semi from,_To_,_pe__k_a._, is crawling up onto your tail, and he s about to crush you into a metal pancake if.you don’t start moving as fast as you safely ca~_. The officer will just politely give you a thumbs-up, so don’t worry. Taurus(Apr. 20-May20): These must not bethe happiest days f~ our dear Les Nessman, newscaster at the fabled WKRP in Cincinnati. Not only did he get kicked out of the locker room because they thought he was gay, now he" s got a whole city screaming to get him off the air. Les knows better, though, and you might t~ his technique next time there’s some static on your dial: grab one of your Buckeye News Hawk awards and tell Herb to sit on it. Gem|hi (May 21-Jnn. 20): Let’s clear.one thing up right away. I’m so direct with you only because I care, not becans~ anyone’s paying me.on the side to feed you false advice. It’s tough, though, because some rather luCrative offers have come myway, but I’ve humbly placed my honesty toward you ahead ofmy need to stop eating macaroni and cheese. Not everyone else may be as magnaminous as I, so be sure to buys lots of grains of salt to take with the advice yon receive. Cancer (Jun. 21-Jul. 22): I hafta get something off my chest about NAFTA. It was quite a laffla see that Ferengi guy debating the vicepresident. I told my whole staffta watch, and it quickly became obvious that hardly anything _ rhymedwith NAFI’A. Consider your own evident in her inaierial (she doesa funny mutine-about the-ctmffort of airline travel), and where she is performing. Always on .the go, her appearances at clubs, colleges~benefitsand events take heracross the conutry non7. stop. She averages 45.-weeks a year On thE road~ .... ..trade tariffs’right now; hecause someof them Buy rReal- .Es.tateTogether by Donald Vaughan ¯ COUPLES.:.?A Gay & Lesbian Newsletter This article is written from a real estate lawyers poitit of vidw. Couples interested in buying realestate together shouldconsult their own legal, mx and f’manci~-advisors. Mostof us were brought up t6 believe that owning a.houie~ with a husband or wife is a. major part. of:the "great American dream." Although Some of us may Still end up with the cottageon the hill, for most of usthe dream has changed.-We, now are more interested in a condo in an.urban center, a multifamily in a city neighborhood, or a vacation home~ to say nothing of the dream spouse’s change in gender. Buyingreal estate with our Companion is still a strongly-felt desire for many.of us. This is the f~st in a four-part series ofarticleswhich will explore~ - the process of deciding what type of property, location,-search process and financing to use; - negotiating and closing the deal, moving in, runningthe place & selling; - the merits of co-tenancy or other legal agreementswhich define the rights and obligations of the individual owners. Is buying real estate together a good idea? The decision to buy a real estate together often times is the~major choice a couple makes after establishing :their relationship. There generally are-~ types of advantages and disadvantages gay and lesbian couples need to con-.. sider in making this_decision. Eager Would~be buyers tend to think of the pros first: Buying rea~ estate... John Kirk- For All Your Real Estate Needs Res.: (918)745-2245 ¯ . Bus.: .(918)7~7-5800 5727 South Lewis, Suite 120*Tulsa, OK. 74105 maybe too high.and might.be inhibiting the free fl0w of happiness across your borders. If anyone offers ,you photos of Messrs. Smoot and Hawley, just decline and say :that they make a marvelous couple. Leo 0nl. 23-Aug.,22): Here are myTop 3 reason~ (intellectual property lawsprevent me from doing: 10) why you should t~j. to have more fun this.week: 3, Yon’ve been a bump on. a log for so long you’re getting wood rot; 2. That churning noise in your stomach has nothing todo with mass quantities of melted. processed cheese flav0r.product;and Number. One: Thanks to this advice, your world will be.flooded with people all having more, fun; and : one 0fthem has a very special type of fun.all - planned.out for you. Virgo (AUg. 23=Sep, 22): You walk into the waiting room, Ralph Edwards jumps out from behind the chair and screams, "This is your life," and your f|rstinstinct is to run back to the parking lot, head between your legs. Since. you’re probably, not (yet) a well-known star, though, you can do better. Haven’t you been iseoretly wishing for a sneak peek at the. next couple.of chapters? Of course, that may send you packing for the parking lot, but at least you’ll have a. chance to rewrite the book. Libra (Sep. 23-Oct. 22): Winter is"he~! Grease those skids, oil those chains, brush those gloves; and wash the mask. Someday you may want to take up outdoor activities as well but, in the meantime, be sure to.buy your lift tickets early. The forecasters say it’ s going to be an above,normal season,so startplanning those controlled avalanches now to keep ev¯ erything under control.. Scorpio (Oct~ 23-Nov: 21): The ancient - will be economically rewarding; " " -will be.emoti0nally rewarding; " - will give us a solid mteofreturn; - will create equity for us; .- will give us income tax benefits. . And now that... " -prices are a[ rock bottom, why not? - interest rates are much.lower, why not? Real EState isa status symbol-both in society at large and our own community. On the other hand consider the cons. Buying realestate can cripple your incomes if one of youloses your job, nor is it a good way t0’shore up a troubled relationship. It can be a lime commitment for which neitherof you is ready.lt can accentuate differences in taste and long-range, personal goals. If you break up dissolving ~ estate assets can be messy, even with good agrec~ ments in place.. In the second article in this series, we will discuss the general formulas, lenders use to detetminewhathousingexpensesmostcouples can c0mfo~ably afford. An accoantant or financial advisor, can advise a couple as to appropriate savings plans and di~sahility and life insurance programs.which may limit the financial risks involved. Co-tenancy agreements, to be discussed in the last article of this .series; can.define who pays what:if problems with the relationship develop. Buying property together isa seriouscommitment; a detailed plan going in always simplifies the process, not to mention your sanity!-Location; financing and looking for that winning piece. of property will be in future issues. .... " " " " ’ John " nausam, REALTORSe ways seem to be what you need this week. So I lit some. incense, turned down the lights, an’anged all my stones in perfect concentric circles, andstarted to chant some Bulgarian folk music. After [was politely reminded that Foley:s~d ,not approve of such behavior in its furniture :idepartment, the answer appeared .beforemy eyes.It’s absolutely crysta! clear for. you this.week. It was therein front of me, almost in black and white. "Elegant inxury can be_ yours with low monthly payments." Sagittarius (Nov..22rDec. 2.0,): What your .world needs n~ght now i~ a little more gay cuitute. Fortanately, I have a few Petri dishes handy; and.you know exactly where to fred some of those peskycultures that have been festering on the fringes of your la,boratory. Now, let’sputthemunder this huge ultraviolet " light; grow them to te_n times their normal size, and then watch them explode in a mass of :protoplasmic self-con~ction.. S~p playing inthe lab, and create some new life in the real world instead, Capricorn (Dec. 21-Jan. 19): Tax,free municipal bbnds. I~m not a registered broker or agent,so I can’t say anything else.about them without running afoul of both the Secudries and Exchange Commission and the Gay Astrologers’ Collective~ Local 1. But beware that s6me investments can take a very long iim¢ to mature, and the test is whether or not you can sit them and wait fortime to takeits com~.-YourmOstinnnatam investments might just pm(ince the most intcresL Aquarius (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): .Sometimes. I wonder about people who think there’s nothingmoretolifethanquietcandielightdinn~rs, gentle walks along the beach, and cuddling in frontofthetelevision. I wonder how nice that wonld be,.acWally. Every once in a while, it’s time to trim off the sirens, unload the ammm nition, andtakeoffthe fatigues; somewbereon the other.side of your battle line is someone who wants nothing more than what yon want. If you’re quiet enough, you might just hear them whisper. Pisces (Feb. 19-Mar.- 19): Turn .on the Snuday~moming preachers (actually, please don’t, because it would only excite them), and you’ll hear that our country is morally bankrapt.. They’re thinking of something totally different, but your own bank’s assets are critically low, and you need to take a serious look atyour policy toward lending to foreign gov: -emments. Write off those uncollectible debts, open somenew branches, andmail outa few thousand free credit-card offers. Tulsa Family News, December 1993-January 1994, page 7 �T H E Company American Theatre Co. POB 1265 Broken Arrow ¯ Community Playhouse 1109 E. Memphis . 258-0077 Clark Theatre 11440 E. Admiral Helier Theatre 5328 S. Wheeling 669-6455 Spotlight Theatre 1381 Riverside.Drive 587-5030 G A Y Show A Christmas Carol December 10-23 $11-16 William~ Theatre, Perf. Arts Center The Best Christmas Pageant Ever December 10-19 $10 BA Community Playhouse Working December 17-19 $5 Clark Theatre It’s Sad, So Sad, When an Elf Goes Bad December21-23 $3 Clark Theatre An Evening ofDance with Locomotion January 7-10 $5 Heller Theatre The Drunkard December 18 Janna~r 8, 15 Perfo~ing Arts.Trust 101E; Third $7,50 SpotiightTheatre Jungle Book January 8 Tulsa Ballet The Nutcracker " ~ " Studio One, Performing Arts Cent . ~ December 16-23 4512 s. Peoria 749 .: ~ North .... 132 N.Gr~nwood L Ma Rose Ch~,.r~an Music HalL-Perf. A~ Center . -.. December 12÷18: studio.O~, P=fom~g a’ms sched~ isbrouoi-t toyon as as(~,~ of Z~eatre tulsa. l~ext perf--: I F E S T Y L Paula. Poundstone----Th.e Pop Tart Queen meant to be. Shesays h~er intention "isn’t to by Lee Moon - IN- Boston upset or bother people; my intention is to Offbeat, eccentric; quirky, hysterically entertain. - It’s not like I’m a historian or an funny, a comedy watershed, an artist, and an expert on anything. Particularly recently,. I inventor, are just a fewof the words and ways guess, I’ve made some effort to be peEtical, that have been-used to describePaula but it’s also what interests me lately." Poundstone. She fits all of.the,se descriptions While on stage, her body language alone is and then some. She also possesses an extraorentertaining as shel-drapes herself over the dinary, insightful mind a~d a special lalent for stool, wraps herself in the mike cord, or lays on interacting with her audience. the floor while delivering her material. BeWhen Paulahits the stage, she uses all of cause of her improvisational approach and the those elements in her routines. She addresses relationship she develops with her audience, everything from cats (she has 5), to the persian each show is an experience - no two are alike. Gulf War. "I figure if you go to the bottom of Paula was born in Alabama~("Thankfully, I the whole thing, ten years from now, it’s gonna only spent one month there"), raised in Sudbury, turn out that some yellow ribbon salesman Massachusetts; moved to San Francisco at the somewhere was at the root of the entire thing. age of 19, and now resides in Los Angeles. I love the idea of tracing it. You know, you go She credits Massachusetts as the state where through the Pentagon, :through the ambassashereceived her first break. "It’s the typical. dors, through the Emir of Kuwait, and then story of almost every comedian: I was busing. there’s one little ribbon salesman basking in tables at a club in town and they started an the Sun... ". open-mike comedy show, and I thought I might She has her own topics as well. On grownbe able to do that. So I did." Based on the ups: "You ever.wonder why adults ate always audience response when she performed at asking little kids what they: want to.be when various clubs, she felt that she had found her they grow up? They’re looking for ideas!" niche. And on junk food: "Driving a convertible Despite frequent appearances on "The.Tohas changed my eating .habits. I used to eat night Show" and~-"Late Night with David those Hostess Mini Gems with the white Letterman", the¯ 1989 American Comedy powdered sugar on the sides, Now Ifind I’m Award. for Funniest Female Stand,Up, nueating a bald doughnut witha lot of White junk merot~s cable television specials, including on my face." She-can tell you in exactly how her own "One Night Stand - Cats, Cops and many states. Ring: Dings (which, she says; are StutI"onHBO,"ThePaulaPotmdstoneShow", far superim" to Ho-H0"s)are sold, and the (HBO’s."talk show With a twist’~), and the nutritional ingredients of Pop Tarts.-("Pop nomination foran ACE Award, Paularemalns Tarts-are a f’me taste treat. They aretruly one low-key about her success and She has no plans offife’Sfiner pleasures..I don’t go.anywhere to star in a movie or.TV series. "I just do What Withont.,em. I do ’era cold right from the I do. I have neverbeent0 ambitions and one .I~.~ ).’< .... - Withher dead-on perceptionand deadpan to seek fame or status;" She-likes comed~ delivery, :Paula displays a remarkable ability because it’s nice,,easy work -- it’s really a SeePoundstone, page 7 -to see~hingsas they really am, notas they are. Tennessee Willlam.¢ The G/ass Menagerie, Jan, 21-30,Call 587-8402 for more info. EVERY THURSDAY>-EVEN!-NG.7-8:.30 PM Tulsa Okl~omans :For .Human Rights 4154S~ Harvard;. Ste. H,I,Quadrangle Building ¯ SW Comer¯ 0f41 st &H~ard, SW Comer of office: building " . FingerStick Method ., " Daytime Testing, Tuesday and, Thursday,by Appointment- Call 74!9’4194 ~ By & for but not-exclusive tothe Lesbian, Uay""&- Bisexual~Communities Family News; December 1-993:- Janua_~. 19i94,; page: 6 ~ E �1tIE 3340-South Peoria 2]To Enl~er Tu I sa., O~l. ahom. ALL THE. Tulsa Family News, December 1993- January 1994, page 8 744’0896 PEOPLE GO � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document <p><strong>TULSA FAMILY NEWS</strong><br /><em>Serving Tulsa's Lesbian, Gay &amp; Bisexual Communities — Our Families of the Heart</em><br />Volume 1, Issue 1<br /><br /><strong>HIV Exposure Lawsuit Could Give Final Blow To Sodomy Law</strong><br /><em>By Tom Neal, Tulsa Family News reporter</em><br />A ruling by Oklahoma district level judge, Melinda Monette on a civil lawsuit filed by Drumright attorney, Tim Daniel, may strike the killing blow to Oklahoma’s "sodomy" law. The lawsuit seeks damages from the estate of a Gay man allegedly for knowingly exposing the plaintiff to risk of HIV infection (human immune-deficiency virus) during the course of a two-year sexual relationship. It is alleged that the decedent knew he had been diagnosed with AlDS (acquired immune deficiency syndrome), concealed his health status, and knowingly enegaged in sexual behavior that exposed the plaintiff to high risk of infection. Exposing another person to risk of HIV infection without full disclosure is a violation of Oklahoma law.<br />Tim Cheek, attorney defending the estate of the decedent, challenged not the facts of the plaintiff's case but challenged the plaintiff's right to sue. Mr. Check claimed that the plaintiff, a person admitting to violating Oklahoma's "sodomy" statute, a felony crime, has no right to seek damages for an injury that occurred during "the commission of a crime" — i.e. the violation of Oklahoma's "sodomy" statute, ".... [the] detestable and abominable crime against nature, committed with mankind or with a beast, is punishable by imprisonment in the penitentiary not exceeding ten years...."<br />Legal scholars have questioned whether Oklahoma's "sodomy" statute still applies to homosexual conduct. In 1986 in a case concerning heterosexual conduct, the law was found to be unconstitutional. In <em>Post vs. the State of Oklahoma</em>, the Court of Criminal Appeals of Oklahoma found that "'natural repugnance' [on the part of many for certain sexual acts] does not create compelling justification for state regulation of 'abnormal' sexual acts involving consenting adults, and thus, application of....[the OK sodomy law]....to allegedly private, consensual acts violated defendant's constitutional right to privacy...."<br />Attorney Daniel suggests that the case, <em>Post vs. the State of Oklahoma</em>, logically should apply to homosexual conduct as well as heterosexual conduct but add that in our system of law these issues are determined by successive court tests. As a different circumstances are examined by the courts, the application of a ruling is better understood.<br />Some of the legal support for overturning sodomy laws was lost in a US Supreme Court ruling, <em>Bowers vs. Hardwick</em>, also from 1986.  This case found that homosexual conduct is not protected under the US Constitution’s implied right to privacy. Legal experts have characterized this 5-4 case as poorly reasoned, being more informed by traditional prejudice than by sound legal principles. Former US Justice Powell, who provided the "swing" vote to continue to criminalize private, consensual homosexual conduct, has since recanted his vote, saying he made a mistake.<br />In his response to attorney Tim Cheek, Mr. Daniel argued that his client should not lose "the most fundamental right, that of a fair hearing in court" because the client is Gay and engaged in homosexual conduct. In challenging defense attorney Cheek, Daniel claims that the ruling in <em>Post vs. the State of Oklahoma</em> applies to homosexual conduct as well. Daniel further states that the <em>Bowers vs. Hardwick</em> decision is the product of a sharply divided US Supreme Court and does not represent "settled doctrine." Daniel adds that while the <em>Bowers vs. Hardwick</em> decision does allow the state of Georgia to keep its "sodomy" law, it does not require Oklahoma to reinstate its "sodomy" law which has already been found to be unconstitutional.<br />Judge Monette ruled in favor of Tim Daniel's client, ruling that the decision of <em>Post vs. the State of Oklahoma</em> does apply to homosexual conduct. This means that homosexual conduct is no longer criminalized in the state of Oklahoma unless a higher court reverses Judge Monette's decision. Atty. Cheek said he would seek such a ruling from a higher court, up to the State Supreme Court if necessary. If Judge Monette's decision is upheld, Oklahoma's "sodomy" law will be clearly unconstitutional and Tim Daniel's plaintiff's case will go to trial like any other civil damages case. At press time, no further action had occurred. An appeal to a higher court and further rulings can be expected within the next several months.<br /><em>Attorney Tim Daniel</em><br /><br /><strong>HOSTILE CLIMATE</strong><br /><strong>New report cites anti-gay public policy incidents in 41 states in past year</strong><br /><em>By CHRIS THOMAS</em><br /><em>GayNetNews Service</em><br />A new report on anti-gay efforts across the nation spotlights several dangerous strategies being used by anti-gay groups, and shows how scattered victories can be turned into a broader base of support. "Hostile Climate: A State-by-State Report on Anti-Gay Activity" Was prepared by People for the American Way (PAW), a 300,000-member non-partisan constitutional liberties organization based in Washington, D.C.<br />According to PAW president Arthur J. Kropp, "While national battles over gay rights have captured, the limelight, dozens of low-profile campaigns against basic civil rights for gays and lesbians have been proliferating at the local level. The spread of anti-gay activity has reached a point where millions of Americans fear their most basic rights are being held hostage to hate politics.<br />According to the report, 41 states and the District of Columbia have experienced anti-gay activity since the November 1992 elections. A total of 132 state or local battles are chronicled in the report, and ranged from attacks statewide anti-discrimination laws to the vandalism of the home of Melbourne, Iowa, mayor Bill Crews, who had publicly come out just prior to his participation in the March on Washington. Schools are a major focus of anti-gay efforts, and the religious right movement<br /><em>see Hostile Climate, page 4</em><br /><br /><strong>TX Welcomes Apple</strong><br />CUPERTINO, Calif. — Williamson County, Texas, county commissioners who snubbed Apple Computer Inc. at the end of November because of its domestic partner health benefits package for gay and lesbian employees reversed themselves a week on Dec. 7. Just a week before, on Nov. 30, the commissioners had refused 3-2 to extend a $750,000 tax abatement to Apple because of the domestic partners benefits. The second vote that give Apple the $1 million for improvements, also 3-2, involved no change in the computer firm's partners policy, which Apple insisted from the time the issue first erupted here nearly a month ago was not up for negotiation. "Our policy remains clear and we did not waiver," said Bill Keegan, Apple's spokesman in Texas. "We feel this policy is an important component of our business plan. It's a way to attract and retain the best and brightest employees."<br /><em>–GayNet News Service</em><br /><br /><strong>AIDS Bias at American Airlines?</strong><br />November 22, 1993<br /><br />Mr. Robert Crandall, President<br /><br />Dear Mr. Crandall,<br />We were extremely disappointed to lean [sic.] that American Airlines has once again behaved irresponsibly in its treatment of passengers who either have or are perceived to have AIDS or HIV disease.<br />The latest incident of which we are aware, that of the forcible arrest of Mr. Timothy Holless from flight 50 out of Chicago, is in our view, deplorable. Our understanding of the facts leads us to belive that there was a phenomenal insenitivity to the needs of those who suffer from AIDS, and seems to us as if American's actions may have been violative of both the Air Carrier Access Act and Title III of the Americans with Disabilities Act.<br />To add insuit to the the [sic.] indignity of your treatment of Mr. Holless, when AIDS advocacy groups sought a response to the treatment of Mr. Holless, American's answer was that the incident does not warrant a response. That is unacceptable.<br />We understand that American has apologized to Mr. Holless. By that we infer you recognize that you have erred, and changed your opinion that the situtation merited no response. We will now look to see that American implements clear and appropriate guidelines with respect to how the airline will accommodate the needs of future travelers who have or are perceived to have HIV or AIDS. We expect shortly from you a clear statement of non-discrimination and full compliance with all Federal anti-discrimination laws, and we expect you to abide by that anti-discrimination in the future.<br />Rep. Barney Frank, D-MA<br />Rep. Henry Waxman, D-CA<br />Rep. Pat Schroeder, D-CO<br />Rep. Gerry Studds, D-MA<br />Rep. James Oberstar, D-MN<br />Rep. John Lewis, D-GA<br />Rep. John Olver, D-MA<br />Rep. Jolene Unsoeld, D-WA<br />Rep. Anna G. Eshoo, D-CA<br />Rep. Thomas Andrews, D-MA<br />Rep. Major Owens, D-MA<br />Rep. Jane Harman, D-CA<br />Rep. Tom Lantos, D-CA<br />Rep. Jerrold Nadler, D-NY<br />Rep. Nancy Pelosi, D-CA<br />Rep. Marty Meehan, D-MA<br />Rep. Neil Abercrombie, D-HI<br />Rep. George Miller, D-CA<br />Rep. Nydia Velazquez, D-NY<br />Rep. Lynn Schenk, D-CA<br />Rep. Howard Berman, D-CA<br />Rep. Lynn C. Woolsey, D-CA<br />Washington, D.C.<br />The letter above was sent after Timothy Holless was arrested and removed by force from an American Airlines flight on November 14 bound from Chicago to San Francisco. Speaking with <em>Tulsa Family News</em>, Gus Whitcomb of American Airlines public relations department portrayed the incident as merely an effort to insure Mr. Holless' wellbeing.<br /><em>see American, page 4</em><br /><br /><strong>Tulsa Public Schools Ignore Pro-Gay State Educa. Regulations</strong><em></em><br /><em>By Tom Neal, Tulsa Family News reporter</em><br />The Tulsa Public School System has ignored for eight months state non-discrimination regulations that include protection for students based on sexual orientation. On March 18, the Oklahoma State Department of Education adpoted standards of performance and conduct for teachers. These standards were adopted as a result of HB 1017.<br />These standards state, "the teacher must strive to help each student realize his or her potential as a worthy and effective member of society ....the teacher: .....shall not on the basis of race, color, creed, sex, national origin, marital status, political or religious beliefs, family, social or cultural background, <span style="text-decoration:underline;">or sexual orientation,</span> unfairly, a. exclude andy [sic.] student from participation in any program, b. deny benefits to any students, c. grant any advantage to any student...."<br />Jack Pontious, Manager for Human Resources for Tulsa Public Schcols (TPS) told <em>Tulsa Family News</em> that school system had not been aware of the regulations before <em>Tulsa Family News</em> called. Mr. Pontius indicated that Tulsa Public Schools would distribute the regulations sometime before March 1994. In the Tulsa area, the Jenks school system, in contrast, included these regulations at the beginning of the school year with all new teacher contracts.<br />Tulsa Family News asked the office of State Superintendent of Public Instruction, Sandy Garrett, for an explaination of how it was that the second largest school district in the state not only was not in compliance with these regulation [sic.] but didn't even seem to know about them. Press secretary for the superintendent, John Delanders, initially took this request but failed to respond to further phone calls over several weeks.<br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, December 1993 – January 1994, page 1</em><br /><br />[Comic caption: "Because their greed matters more than what he taught."]<br /><br /><em>Why Tulsa</em> <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Family</span> <em>News?</em><br /><em>Hey, girl that one’s cute, is she family?</em> Said with irony, sometimes, said by men, or said by women (though maybe not quite in those exact words), the meaning of <em>family</em> for Lesbians, Gay men and Bisexuals is fluid.<br /><em>Family</em> is, yes, our birth/adoptive parents and siblings but <em>family</em> is also that tribe of women and men, sisters and brothers <em>(or perhaps just sisters)</em>, who welcomed us after we realized our differences from the heterosexual world.<br />More than many tribes, we are a diverse group. We are separated by issues of gender, of race, religion and ethnicity, by class and by age, and by physical beauty. Sometimes, like biological families, we are cruel and abusive to one another. <br />But at our best, despised though we may be by HeteroAmerica, we strive for ideals that much of the rest of this country long seem to have forgotten.<br />For example, I was involved in several of the national planning meetings for this last March on Washington. For all the frustration and hard work of the process, it was characterized by an effort to empower and include persons of all statuses; race, gender, transgender, age, sub-communities: students, leather, religious, etc. No one else in America is even seriously trying democracy of this sort....certainly, not our government.<br />And perhaps this is not part of our special gift to America: in some Native American traditions, Men Who loved Men &amp; Women who loved Women were known as <em>Two-Spirits</em>. They had special roles as shamans — those who showed the way. Perhaps, we can show the way to a country that often has failed to live the ideals it claims.<br />We must reclaim <em>family</em> from those who would take it for their use only — who would pervert it for their political and monetary gain. The family historically has been large and messy, sometimes biological but just as often tied together by need and sometimes, love. It has always included us, Lesbians, Gay men and Bisexuals, though not always by those names (spinster aunts and bachelor uncles, and as we know, being married doesn’t make straight).<br />The family in America has rarely been what the Christo-Fascists have claimed. We know it and they know it to. But demonizing us serves their political purpose. This country has a long and shameful history of slandering various minorities, creating an enemy within to play off folks’ fears so that a few could gain wealth and political power.<br />We have demonized Native Americans, Blacks, Jews, Catholics, Asians and others. These days, Lesbians, Gay men and Bisexuais are <em>the enemy</em> of choice, and the coffers of the Religious Right, the Christo-Fascists are full.<br />So this is Tulsa Family News, news for our families of the heart, <span style="text-decoration:underline;">and</span> for our families that are biological, our brothers, sisters and parents, cousins, uncles, and aunts.<br />This is the first of what I hope will be many issues. Tulsa deserves to have its own event and entertainment paper. News from Oklahoma City is of interest but is not enough.<br />This paper follows several other attempts by folks, whom I honor for their hard work. <em>Tulsa Family News</em> can and will be there for Tulsa if you help us. Let us know what you like. Let us know what you don’t like (gently, please). Patronize the basinesses that support us and tell them that you saw their ad — <em>there is a connection between your actions and this paper being here.</em> And if you are a Lesbian or Gay business owner, reach out to your community via advertising. Lesbian and Gay bar owners have long carried much of the weight of helping the community — it’s time for some of the rest of us to share the job. Thanks.<br />Tom Neal, publisher.<br />PS, anyone interested in a Lesbian/Gay Indian organization, drop a line to Jesse, c/o <em>TFN</em>.<br /><br />Kelly H. Kirby<br />Certified Public Accountant<br /><strong>9933 East 16th, Suite 104</strong><br /><strong>Tulsa 74128</strong><br /><strong>918-663-9399</strong><br /><br /><strong>Tulsa Directory</strong><br />* Asterisks indicate distribution points<br /><strong>Bars &amp; Restaurants</strong><br />*The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria 744-0896<br />*Cherry St. Bakery, 1344 E. 15 583-8398<br />*Elearic Circus, 606 S. Elgin 587-8677<br />*Laff's, 311 E. 7th 583-5233<br />*Silver Star Saloon, 1565 S. Sheridan 834-4234<br />*Renegade, 1649 S. Main 585-3405<br />*Time n’ Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial 660-0856<br />*TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial 664-8299<br />*Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308<br />*Whittier Cafe, 416 S. Lewis, 582-2400<br /><strong>Retail Businesses/Galleries</strong><br />*Indian Territory Coffee Company 1613 E. 15 587-1633<br />Galerie Europa, 203 N. Main 592-2787<br />Harry &amp; Mrs. Jones, 1617 E. 15 582-1617<br />Jared’s, 1602 E. 15 582-3018<br />Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 599-8070<br />*Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 Pl 664-2951<br />Novel Idea Discount Books<br />7104 S. Sheridan 492-0335<br />3356 E. 51 747-6711<br />*Phun Stuph, 1519 E. 15 584-7486<br />*Tomfoolery, 1565 S. Sheridan 832-0233<br /><strong>Organizations</strong><br />ACT-UP, POB 532 74101<br />Names Proj. POB 318 74101 748-3111<br />P-FLAG POB 52800 74152 749-4901<br />HIV Resource Consortium<br />*TOHR, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1<br />Gay Line Info. 743-4297<br />Shanti Hotline 749-7898<br />B/L/G Alliance, Tulsa U. 583-9780<br />Oklahoma AIDS Hotline 800,535-2437<br /><strong>Other</strong><br />*Tulsa Central Library, 400 Civic Ctr. 596-7977<br />*Chapman Student Ctr. TU, 631-0000<br />*University Center at Tulsa<br /><strong>Professionals</strong><br />Theodore Campbell, MSW<br />1560 E 21 743-1000<br />Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy 2865 E. Skelly, Ste. 215 745-1111<br />Tim Daniel, Atty. 352-9504 or 800-742-9468<br />Bill Hinkle, Atty. 749-1586<br />Kelly Kirby, CPA, 9933 E 16 663-9399<br />John Kirk, Realtor 747-5800, 745-2245<br />Tom Neal, Designer 832-0233<br />Buildings/Gardens/Graphics<br /><strong>Religious Organizations</strong><br />*Family of Faith¯MCC, 500 W. ’A’ Jenks 298-4622<br />Affirmation (Methodist) 742-8213<br />*MCC-Tulsa, 1623Maplewood 838-1715<br />Dignity/Integrity 298-4648<br />*Canterbury Ministry Ctr. TU, 583-9780<br /><br /><strong>TULSA FAMILY NEWS</strong><br />Publisher/Editor<br />Tom Neal<br /><br />918-832-0233<br />POB 4140<br />Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159<br /><br />Issued on the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1993 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation.<br />Correspondance is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondance should be sent to the address above.<br />Tulsa Family News is a [sic.] event &amp; entertainmnt newspaper distributed free of charge in local businesses and organizations.<br /><br /><br /><em><strong>Next Month</strong></em><br /><strong>First in a Series: Interviews with City Council Candidates on Our Issues New Feature: Local Heroes</strong><br /><br /><strong>toMfooLery!</strong><br /><strong>Tulsa’s Only Openly Gay-owned Gift Store</strong><br /><strong>Pride Jewelry, Buttons, Stickers, Cards, Newsmagazines, T-shirts &amp; Sweatshirts &amp; more for Lesbians, Gay Men &amp; Bisexuals, Our Families &amp; Our Friends</strong><br /><strong>Come find those Holiday Gifts at the Store where you know you’ll be treated like <em>Family!</em></strong><br /><strong>1565 South Sheridan, Tulsa</strong><br /><strong>918-832-0233, Visa/MC accepted.</strong><br /><strong>Open Evenings</strong><br /><strong>Wed.-Thurs. 7-12, Fri.-Sat. 7-2am, Sun. 7-10pm</strong><br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, December 1993 — January 1994, page 2</em><br /><br /><strong>PROUD OF HIS PREJUDICE</strong><br />The editodal reproduced above is from <em>The Grove Sun,</em> Grove, Oklahoma. It was faxed directly to <em>Tulsa Family News</em> with permission to reprint.<br />Should we laugh or cry after reading this editorial by its publisher, M. Gerald Stone? The view is so extreme and so ignorant that at first it is hard to take it seriously.<br />Sadly, though, we recognize that M. Gerald Stone is not being facetious. He’s serious when he suggest [sic.] that "sex between males <span style="text-decoration:underline;">is the main cause</span> of the HIV virus." It seems that Mr. Stone is not one to let 10 years of medical evidence from around the world get in the way of his prejudice. He adds that "faggots" should not come crying to the government and the taxpayers for help in fighting the HIV epidemic.<br />Excuse us, Mr. Stone, but last we checked, Lesbians &amp; Gay men were still citizens. We know that we are certainly paying our fair share of taxes (probably more) and we know it’s <span style="text-decoration:underline;">our</span> government too, no matter how much that government treats us as 3rd class citizens. It’s our right to call on our government to try to prevent further suffering by finding treatment for HIV related diseases, including we hope a cure ultimately. It's our right to be angry at our government who during the past decade did so much less than it could have done precisely because it was dominated by men who think like you — though most of them were somewhat more subtle in expressing their bias.<br />Now, we recognize that it is your right to express yourself and we defend that right, no matter how churlish that opinion is. But we can’t help but wonder as we approach this sacred season — when Jews celebrate the miracle of the lamps, Pagans the lengthening of the day, and Christians, a man who called out for compassion, could you not put aside at least some of your hate? And as a journalist, couldn't you at least check your facts?<br /><br /><strong>Timothy W. Daniel</strong><br /><em><strong>Attorney at Law</strong></em><br /><strong>Estate Planning, Adopbons, Personal Injury</strong><br /><strong>Criminal Law, Bankruptcy, Workers Compensation</strong><br /><strong>1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504</strong><br /><strong>128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma</strong><br /><strong>Weekend and evening appointents are available.</strong><br /><strong>Know Your Rights!</strong><br /><br /><strong>SILVER STAR SALOON</strong><br /><em>New Year's Eve</em><br />at the Silver Star Saloon<br /><em>Buffet, Champagne</em><br /><em>Party Favors &amp; Door Prizes</em><br /><em>$10 couple, $6 single</em><br /><strong><em>Afternoon Beer Bust 4-7pm, Tues. - Fri.</em></strong><br /><strong><em>Dancers on Thursdays thro' December</em></strong><br /><em>Look for Miss Gay Tulsa in January</em><br />1565 S. Sheridan, 834-4234<br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, December 1993 — January 1994, page 3</em><br /><br />[duplicate of page 2]<br /><br /><strong>News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News</strong><br /><br /><strong>Arrests in Anti-Gay Killing</strong><br />NEW ORLEANS — Grat Gunderson, 24, Ronald D. Graves, 24, and Mingo Graham, 23, were charged with 1st-degree murder in the stabbing death of Joseph Balog of Gulfport, Miss., while he was walking through the French Quarter of New Orleans earlier in November with a friend. The second man was seriously injured in the attack while 4 or 5 men yelled anti-gay epithets. Officials say they are looking for other suspects in the killing. According to police, neither the dead man nor his unidentified friend were gay even though their attackers apparently believed they were.<br /><br /><strong>Previously Unknown Wilde Love Letters Auctioned</strong><br />LONDON — A [sic.] anonymous bidder purchased a collection of love letters from author Oscar Wilde to Philip Griffiths for $27,580. The letters were written by Wilde to the wealthy young Griffiths in the 1880s and included a photograph of the famous gay playwright. The brief affair between the two men had not been previously known about and the letters were offered for sale through Christie's auctioneers by a descendant of Griffiths.<br /><br /><strong>Library Ban on Out-of-Town Papers Anti-Gay?</strong><br />TULSA, Okla. — The Tulsa County library commission has voted to prohibit out-of-town publications from being distributed at libraries, a move Tom Neal, the Tulsa reporter for the Wichita, Kan.-based gay paper <em>The Parachute</em>, says is aimed to excluding the gay publication from distribution at the libraries. Library officials denied that was their motive, noting that it will continue to carry <em>The Gayly Oklahoman</em>, which is published in Oklahoma City. (<em>Editor's note: The Tulsa City-County Library does not <span style="text-decoration:underline;">distribute</span> </em>The Gayly Oklahoman <em>and only carries one copy in its downtown branch.</em>)<br /><br /><strong>Clinton 'Not Done' With Military Issue Yet?</strong><br />SEATTLE — Seattle radio and TV stations reported that while resident [sic.] Clinton was in the city for a summit conference with leaders of Asian and Pacific Rim nations in November, a jogger who was out running in the early morning ran into the president and commented that "You let gays in the military down, didn't you?" Clinton reportedly replied, somewhat enigmatically, "We're not done yet."<br /><br /><strong>Mass Test for AIDS Virus Planned at Concert</strong><br />SEATTLE — The Vancouver, Wash.-based Saliva Diagnostic Systems Inc. will help gather saliva samples at a Budapest rock concert on Nov. 26 in what the firm says will be the largest mass AIDS testing ever conducted. More than 1,000 samples will be collected and analyzed using the firm's self-administered saliva test, which checks for the presence of HIV. The samples will be analyzed by the National Institute of Hematology and Blood Transfusion in Budapest. According to Dr. David Barnes, director of the firm's European offices, the mass testing will be an opportunity to demonstrate the usefulness of the company's Omni-SAL device over standard HIV blood tests.<br /><br /><strong>Anti-Bias Executive Order in Louisiana</strong><br />BATON ROUGE, La. — Louisiana Gov. Edwin W. Edwards, has signed a proclamation barring state agencies from discrimination based on sexual orientation in providing services, hiring, awarding contracts or in the practices of state contractors.<br />The text of Gov. Edwards' executive order follows:<br />STATE OF LOUISIANA EXECUTIVE DE ARTMENT<br />BATON ROUGE EXECUTIVE ORDER NO. EWE 92 - 7<br />WHEREAS, a portion of the population of our State is subject to potential harassment and discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation; and<br />WHEREAS, the result of this potential harassment, and discrimination is the denial to some Louisianians of rights, privileges or benefits, solely on the basis of personal matters; and<br />WHEREAS it is inappropriate for government either to encourage or discourage, to condone or condemn in the area of sexual orientation;<br />NOW THEREFORE I, EDWIN W. EDWARDS, Governor of the State of Louisiana, by virtue of the authority vested in me by the Constitution and laws of the state of Louisiana, do hereby order:<br />SECTION 1 - No state agency or department shall discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation against any individual in the provision of any services or benefits by such agency or department.<br />SECTION 2 - No state agency or department shall discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation against any individual in any matter pertaining to employment by the state, including, but not limited to, hiring, promotion, tenure, recruitment, and compensation.<br />SECTION 3 - All contracts for the purchase of services by any state agency or department shall be awarded without discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation in any matter relating to employment.<br />SECTION 4 - This Order shall take effect immediately upon promulgation.<br /><br /><strong>AIDS Scientist Urges Vatican to Relax Condom Rules</strong><br />VATICAN CITY — Dr. Luc Montagnier, the French co-discoverer of HIV, has urged the Catholic Church to ease its restrictions on the use of condoms in an effort to fight the AIDS epidemic. "I don't want to give lessons to the Church, but I do invite it to be more pragmatic and tolerant," Montagnier said at a Vatican-sponsored gathering. Montagnier, himself a Catholic, said, "If AIDS is a diabolical disease, no method to beat it can itself be considered diabolical."<br /><br /><strong>Black Clergy Urged to Battle AIDS</strong><br />WASHINGTON — The Rev. George Stallings, archbishop of the Imani Temple, has urged other black ministers to overcome their moral concerns and assume a more active role in the battle against AIDS. "If preachers are apprehensive about AIDS issues because they view it as a result of sinful behavior, that is no excuse not minister to those afflicted," Stallings said at a recent meeting with United Response to Black America's Needs (URBAN). Also at that meeting, Stallings announced plans to develop an AIDS education program to be used by the clergy. According to URBAN, the reverend promised that Imani Temple would "become a center for black theological responses to the AIDS crisis in under-served communities." A similar call for the black clergy to assume a more active leadership role in fighting the epidemic was made in Philadelphia at a meeting sponsored by the Ecumenical Info. AIDS Resource Center.<br /><br /><strong>Erotica Booming in Sexually Perilous Times</strong><br />SAN FRANCISCO — According to a report in the November issue of _American Demographics,_ [sic.] fears about AIDS and other sexually transmitted diseases have prompted Americans to curb their anything-goes sexual attitudes and behaviors of the past. But spending on pornography, sex toys and other sexually-related articles has been skyrocketing during the past 10 years or so, says a survey by the Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality in San Francisco. "Because of fears about sexually transmitted diseases, people are having fewer partners," said Dr. Ted McIlvenna, president of the Institute. "So now they're buying paraphernalia."<br /><br /><em>Sandra J. Hill,</em> M.S.<br /><strong>Psychotherapy &amp; Clinical Consultation</strong><strong></strong><strong><em><br /></em></strong><em>Sensitive to the Challenges of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &amp; Transgendered Individuals, Couples &amp; Families.</em><br /><strong>2865 E. Skelly Drive, Ste. 215</strong><br /><strong>Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 745-1111</strong><br /><br />Novel Idea<br />Discount Books<br />7104 S. Sheridan, 492-0335<br />3356 E. 51st, 747-6711<br /><em>Titles of Interest to the Lesbian &amp; Gay Communities</em><br /><br /><em>Hostile Climate, cont. from page 1</em><br />is at the forefront of these efforts both in schools and elsewhere, according to the report. Anti-gay efforts in Arizona, Florida, Missouri, and Oregon have been spearheaded by members of the Christian Coalition, the Traditional Values Coalition, and the Oregon Citizens Alliance. By the Christian Coalition's own post-election tally, at least 66 right-wing candidates were elected to school boards across the nation, often using misleading claims of "homosexual-lesbian propoganda" in curricula to win election [sic.].<br />Another strategy being used by the religious right is to drive wedges between gays and other minority groups, including African-Americans and Jewish Americans. The term "special rights" has been appropriated for use in these battles, in which opponents claim that gays are not a "legitimate" minority group, and that the struggles fought by these other groups are being trivialized by the gay equal-rights movement.<br />National gay leaders were thankful that the report had been released, but also spoke strongly against the incidents documented. Peri Jude Radecic, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, called the report "shocking." Radecic added that the report "crystallizes the sobering reality that we are fighting an unprecedented mobilization by the Far Right, who are trampling over the ideals of freedom and liberty in their pursuit of political power." [sic.] In the coming months, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force will be working with other national, regional, and local groups, gay and non-gay, to turn back this march of hatred which masquerades as legitimate politics and threatens the real American values of fairness and decency," said Radecic.<br />Tim McFeeley, executive director of the Human Rights Campaign Fund, said that the report "is a landmark study, providing state by state documentation of the radical rights [sic.] agenda of intolerance, discrimination and violence."<br />Amid the losses at both the local and state levels, the report also cites a few successes. One particularly notable victory occurred when Minnesota became the eighth state in the nation to bar discrimination against gays in housing, public accommodations, and employment. The report says that one of the main reasons for the success in Minnesota was that members of the group "It's Time Minnesota" were able to marshall the support of several state religious leaders, including Catholic bishops, behind the anti-discrimination bill.<br />The nation's middle ground, "the undecided American," will be the next battleground in the struggle for equal rights, says the report. "Rising to this challenge," the report conlcuded, "gay rights supporters in communities across the country are reaching out to broaden their alliances with the business community, with African-Americans and Hispanics, and with the main-line churches. The next cycle will reveal which side has made the most compelling case to the American public."<br /><br /><em>American, cont. from page 1</em><br />Mr. Holless was visibly ill and was carrying a [sic.] IV bag which fed a catheter. Mr. Whitcomb said that the flight crew asked six times that Mr. Holless deplane temporarily for a more private conversation while his medical records were checked. Mr. Holless refused and was removed by Chicago police. Several eyewitnesses indicated however that Mr. Holless was dragged from the plane, screaming in pain.<br />At press-time, Congressman Frank told <em>Tulsa Family News</em>, that he had not yet recieved any response from American.<br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, December 1993 — January 1994, page 4<br /><br /></em><strong>News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News</strong><br /><br /><strong>'American Gladiator' Comes Out</strong><br />LOS ANGELES — We are everywhere, gay rights activists are fond of pointing out. Yet another indicator of the reality of this small truism came for viewers of the TV program "American Gladiators," a show with a penchant for hunky guys and gals in light spandex super-hero costumes doing pretty silly things simulating soft-core war-game contests. During a chat with one of the regular beefcake hunks on the show called Turbo (yes, that's the kind of names they're known by), the interviewer asked him why he wears an earring. Turbo's cool response: "Because I'm gay." The rest of the interview went ahead without further reference to Turbo's - or with a body like that, maybe it should be "Mr. Turbo's" - sexual orientation. We suppose the next coming out semi-star will have to be one of the drivers on those strange monster-truck programs.<br /><br /><strong>NIH Agrees to Ask Women About Sexual Orientation in Study</strong><br />WASHINGTON — According to the American Association of Physicians for Human Rights, an organization of gay and lesbian doctors, the National Institutes of Health has agreed to ask about sexual orientation when it begins a massive study of women's health issues. The study, which will survey some 160,000 women nationally, will be the largest study of women's health ever undertaken by the federal government. It is scheduled to begin in January 1994. NIH agreed to include questions about sexual orientation and behavior after AAHR and the National Center for Lesbian Rights mounted an intensive lobbying campaign to convince the federal agency that there might be increased health risks among lesbians that would not show up in a survey of women in general. Earlier this year, Suzanne Haynes, an epidemiology expert with the National Cancer Institute, reported increased risk factors for breast cancer among lesbians, a study AAHR cited in convincing NIH to ask about sexual orientation in the upcoming $600 million federal survey.<br /><br /><strong>Shareholders Nix Cracker Barrel Anti-Bias Policy</strong><br />LEBANON, Tenn. — Shareholders of the Cracker Barrel Old Country Store chain of restaurants voted against adopting an anti-bias policy that would include sexual orientation at their annual meeting at the firm's headquarters. Rights activists say a 1991 company policy of hiring only straights and firing gays and lesbians remains in effect, a claim that the chain denies.<br /><br /><strong>World's 1st Lesbian Sperm Bank Planned</strong><br />OAKLAND, Calif. — Leland Traiman, a gay nurse, is in the process of opening the Rainbow Flag Health Services, which will be the world's first lesbian-specific sperm bank. Traiman says the medical service will stock only sperm donated by gay men and that the agency will encourage the women to meet the sperm donor because "a lot of lesbians don't want to have children by using anonymous donors, and they'd rather be connected to a gay male household than to a heterosexual one." Traiman says locating the sperm bank, which is planned to open next year, in Oakland makes sense because of the large number of lesbians believed to live in the city across the bay from San Francisco.<br /><br />The Barney 'Homo Conspiracy'<br />CHARLOTTE, N.C. — Joseph Chambers, a former Church of God minister and gay rights foe in Charlotte, N.C., is publishing a booklet indentifying Barney, the PBS-TV purple dinosaur currently the rage with the preschool set, as a "new age demon" who promotes homosexuality. Chambers, who was earlier this year removed as pastor of the Paul Creek Church of God after he had tried to claim ownership of the church and its property, has condemned Barney as "straight out of the new age and the world of demons and devils."<br /><br /><em>THE GAY LIFESTYLE</em><br /><br />HOLIDAY THEATER SCHEDULE<br /><strong>Company Show</strong><br />American Theatre Co. POB 1265<br /><em>A Christmas Carol</em> December 10-23 $11-16 William Theatre, Perf. Arts Center<br />Broken Arrow Community Playhouse 1109 E. Memphis 258-0077 Clark Theatre 11440 E. Admiral<br /><em>The Best Christmas Pageant Ever</em> December 10-19 $10 BA Community Playhouse<br /><em>Working</em> December 17-19 $5 Clark Theatre<br /><em>It’s Sad, So Sad, When an Elf Goes Bad</em> December 21-23 $3 Clark Theatre<br />Helier Theatre 5328 S. Wheeling 669-6455<br /><em>An Evening of Dance with Locomotion</em> January 7-10 $5 Heller Theatre<br />Spotlight Theatre 1381 Riverside Drive 587-5030<br /><em>The Drunkard</em> December 18 January 8, 15 $7.50 Spotlight Theatre<br />Performing Arts Trust 101E Third<br /><em>Jungle Book</em> January 8 $7 Studio One, Performing Arts Center<br />Tulsa Ballet 4512 S. Peoria 749-6006<br /><em>The Nutcracker</em> December 16-23 (prices vary) Chapman Music Hall, Perf. Arts Center<br />Theatre North 132 N. Greenwood<br /><em>Ma Rose</em> December 12-18 $10 Studio One, Performing Arts Center<br />This schedule is brought to you as a service of <em>Theatre Tulsa</em>. Next performance: Tennessee Willlams' <em>The Glass Menagerie</em>, Jan. 21-30. Call 587-8402 for more info.<br /><br /><strong>Paula Poundstone - The Pop Tart Queen</strong><br /><em>by Lee Moon - IN - Boston</em><br />Offbeat, eccentric; quirky, hysterically funny, a comedy watershed, an artist, and an inventor, are just a few of the words and ways that have been used to describe Paula Poundstone. She fits all of these descriptions and then some. She also possesses an extraordinary, insightful mind and a special talent for interacting with her audience.<br />When Paula hits the stage, she uses all of those elements in her routines. She addresses everything from cats (she has 5), to the Persian Gulf War. "I figure if you go to the bottom of the whole thing, ten years from now, it’s gonna turn out that some yellow ribbon salesman somewhere was at the root of the entire thing. I love the idea of tracing it. You know, you go through the Pentagon, through the ambassadors, through the Emir of Kuwait, and then there’s one little ribbon salesman basking in the sun..."<br />She has her own topics as well. On grown-ups: "You ever wonder why adults are always asking little kids what they want to be when they grow up? They’re looking for ideas!"<br />And on junk food: "Driving a convertible has changed my eating habits. I used to eat those Hostess Mini Gems with the white powdered sugar on the sides, Now I find I’m eating a bald doughnut with a lot of white junk on my face." She can tell you in exactly how many states Ring-Dings (which, she says, are far superior to Ho-Ho's) are sold, and the nutritional ingredients of Pop Tarts. ("Pop Tarts are a fine taste treat. They are truly one of life's finer pleasures. I don’t go anywhere without 'em. I do ’em cold right from the box.")<br />With her dead-on perception and deadpan delivery, Paula displays a remarkable ability to see things as they really are, not as they are meant to be. She says her intention "isn’t to upset or bother people; my intention is to entertain. It’s not like I’m a historian or an expert on anything. Particularly recently, I guess, I’ve made some effort to be political, but it’s also what interests me lately."<br />While on stage, her body language alone is entertaining as she drapes herself over the stool, wraps herself in the mike cord, or lays on the floor while delivering her material. Because of her improvisational approach and the relationship she develops with her audience, each show is an experience - no two are alike.<br />Paula was born in Alabama, ("Thankfully, I only spent one month there"), raised in Sudbury, Massachusetts, moved to San Francisco at the age of 19, and now resides in Los Angeles.<br />She credits Massachusetts as the state where she received her first break. "It’s the typical story of almost every comedian: I was busing tables at a club in town and they started an open-mike comedy show, and I thought I might be able to do that. So I did." Based on the audience response when she performed at various clubs, she felt that she had found her niche.<br />Despite frequent appearances on "The Tonight Show" and "Late Night with David Letterman", the 1989 American Comedy Award for Funniest Female Stand-Up, numerous cable television specials, including her own "One Night Stand - Cats, Cops and Stuff" on HBO, "The Paula Poundstone Show", (HBO’s "talk show with a twist"), and the nomination for an ACE Award, Paula remains low-key about her success and she has no plans to star in a movie or TV series. "I just do what I do. I have never been to [sic.] ambitious and one to seek fame or status." She likes comedy because it’s nice, easy work — it’s really a<br /><em>See Poundstone, page 7</em><br /><br /><strong>HIV TESTING CLINIC</strong><br /><strong>EVERY THURSDAY EVENING, 7-8:30 PM</strong><br /><em>sponsored by</em><br />Tulsa Oklahomans For Human Rights<br />4154 S. Harvard, Ste. 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I don’t even write down my jokes and stuff on pieces ofpaper like other people. Everything that I do on stage is a reflection of how I spend my days and nights."<br />Just how these days and nights are spent is evident in her material (she does a funny routine about the comfort of airline travel), and where she is performing. Always on the go, her appearances at clubs, colleges, benefits and events take her across the conutry non-stop. She averages 45 weeks a year on the road.<br /><br /><strong>How To Buy Real Estate Together</strong><br /><em>by Donald Vaughan</em><br /><br /><em>COUPLES: A Gay &amp; Lesbian Newsletter</em><br />This article is written from a real estate lawyer's poitit of view. Couples interested in buying real estate together should consult their own legal, tax and financial advisors.<br />Most of us were brought up to believe that owning a home with a husband or wife is a major part of the "great American dream." Although some of us may still end up with the cottage on the hill, for most of us the dream has changed. We now are more interested in a condo in an urban center, a multifamily in a city neighborhood, or a vacation home, to say nothing of the dream spouse’s change in gender. Buying real estate with our companion is still a strongly-felt desire for many of us. This is the first in a four-part series of articles which will explore:<br />– the process of deciding what type of property, location, search process and financing to use;<br />– negotiating and closing the deal, moving in, running the place &amp; selling;<br />– the merits of co-tenancy or other legal agreements which define the rights and obligations of the individual owners.<br />Is buying real estate together a good idea? The decision to buy a real estate together often times is the major choice a couple makes after establishing their relationship. There generally are three types of advantages and disadvantages gay and lesbian couples need to consider in making this decision.<br />Eager would-be buyers tend to think of the pros first: Buying real estate...<br />– will be economically rewarding;<br />– will be emotionally rewarding;<br />– will give us a solid rate of return;<br />– will create equity for us;<br />– will give us income tax benefits.<br />And now that...<br />– prices are at rock bottom, why not?<br />– interest rates are much lower, why not?<br />Real Estate is a status symbol both in society at large and our own community. On the other hand consider the cons. Buying real estate can cripple your incomes if one of you loses your job, nor is it a good way to shore up a troubled relationship. It can be a time commitment for which neither of you is ready. lt can accentuate differences in taste and long-range personal goals. If you break up dissolving estate assets can be messy, even with good agreements in place.<br />In the second article in this series, we will discuss the general formulas, lenders use to detetmine what housing expenses most couples can comfortably afford. An accoantant or financial advisor can advise a couple as to appropriate savings plans and disability and life insurance programs which may limit the financial risks involved. Co-tenancy agreements, to be discussed in the last article of this series; can define who pays what if problems with the relationship develop. Buying property together is a serious commitment; a detailed plan going in always simplifies the process, not to mention your sanity! Location, financing and looking for that winning piece of property will be in future issues.<br /><br />John Kirk<br /><em>"For All Your Real Estate Needs"</em><br /><strong>Res.: (918) 745-2245</strong><br /><strong>Bus.: .(918) 747-5800<br /></strong>5727 South Lewis, Suite 120 - Tulsa, OK 74105<br /><strong>John Hausam,</strong><br />REALTORS<b>©</b><br /><br /><em><strong>OUT IN THE STARS</strong></em><br /><strong>Aries</strong> (Mar. 20-Apr. 19): Roll up the windows, gun the engine, and get a move-on. Ever since you left the city limits, you’ve no longer been subject to the federally-mandated 55-mph speed limit. That semi from Topeka is crawling up onto your tail, and he's about to crush you into a metal pancake if you don’t start moving as fast as you safely can. The officer will just politely give you a thumbs-up, so don’t worry.<br /><strong>Taurus</strong> (Apr. 20-May 20): These must not be the happiest days for our dear Les Nessman, newscaster at the fabled WKR Pin Cincinnati. Not only did he get kicked out of the locker room because they thought he was gay, now he's got a whole city aming to get him off the air. Les knows better, though, and you might try his technique next time there’s some static on your dial: grab one of your Buckeye News Hawk awards and tell Herb to sit on it.<br /><strong>Gemini</strong> (May 21-Jun. 20): Let’s clear one thing up right away. I’m so direct with you only because I care, not because anyone’s paying me on the side to feed you false advice. It’s tough, though, because some rather lucrative offers have come my way, but I’ve humbly placed my honesty toward you ahead of my need to stop eating macaroni and cheese. Not everyone else may be as magnaminous as I, so be sure to buys [sic.] lots of grains of salt to take with the advice you receive.<br /><strong>Cancer</strong> (Jun. 21-Jul. 22): I hafta get something off my chest about NAFTA. It was quite a laffta see that Ferengi guy debating the vice president. I told my whole staffta watch, and it quickly became obvious that hardly anything rhymed with NAFTA. Consider your own trade tariffs right now, because some of them maybe too high and might be inhibiting the free flow of happiness across your borders. If anyone offers you photos of Messrs. Smoot and Hawley, just decline and say that they make a marvelous couple.<br /><strong>Leo</strong> (Jul. 23-Aug. 22): Here are my Top 3 reasons (intellectual property laws prevent me from doing 10) why you should try to have more fun this week: 3. You’ve been a bump on a log for so long you’re getting wood rot; 2. That churning noise in your stomach has nothing to do with mass quantities of melted processed cheese flavor product; and Number One: Thanks to this advice, your world will be flooded with people all having more fun, and one of them has a very special type of fun all planned out for you.<br /><strong>Virgo</strong> (Aug. 23-Sep, 22): You walk into the waiting room, Ralph Edwards jumps out from behind the chair and screams, "This is your life," and your first instinct is to run back to the parking lot, head between your legs. Since you’re probably not (yet) a well-known star, though, you can do better. Haven’t you been secretly wishing for a sneak peek at the next couple of chapters? Of course, that may send you packing for the parking lot, but at least you’ll have a chance to rewrite the book.<br /><strong>Libra</strong> (Sep. 23-Oct. 22): Winter is here! Grease those skids, oil those chains, brush those gloves, and wash the mask. Someday you may want to take up outdoor activities as well but, in the meantime, be sure to buy your lift tickets early. The forecasters say it’s going to be an above normal season, so start planning those controlled avalanches now to keep everything under control.<br /><strong>Scorpio</strong> (Oct. 23-Nov: 21): The ancient ways seem to be what you need this week. So I lit some. incense, turned down the lights, arranged all my stones in perfect concentric circles, andstarted to chant some Bulgarian folk music. After I was politely reminded that Foley's did not approve of such behavior in its furniture department, the answer appeared before my eyes. It’s absolutely crystal clear for you this week. It was there in front of me, almost in black and white. "Elegant luxury can be yours with low monthly payments."<br /><strong>Sagittarius</strong> (Nov.22-Dec. 20): What your world needs right now is a little more gay cultute. Fortunately, I have a few Petri dishes handy, and you know exactly where to find some of those pesky cultures that have been festering on the fringes of your laboratory. Now, let’s put them under this huge ultraviolet light, grow them to ten times their normal size, and then watch them explode in a mass of protoplasmic self-contradiction. Stop playing in the lab, and create some new life in the real world instead.<br /><strong>Capricorn</strong> (Dec. 21-Jan. 19): Tax-free municipal bonds. I'm not a registered broker or agent, so I can’t say anything else about them without running afoul of both the Securities and Exchange Commission and the Gay Astrologers’ Collective, Local 1. But beware that some investments can take a very long time to mature, and the test is whether or not you can sit there and wait for time to take its course. Your most immature investments might just produce the most interest.<br /><strong>Aquarius</strong> (Jan. 20-Feb. 18): Sometimes I wonder about people who think there’s nothing more to life than quiet candlelight dinners, gentle walks along the beach, and cuddling in front of the television. I wonder how nice that would be, actually. Every once in a while, it’s time to turn off the sirens, unload the ammunition, and take off the fatigues; somewhere on the other side of your battle line is someone who wants nothing more than what you want. If you’re quiet enough, you might just hear them whisper.<br /><strong>Pisces</strong> (Feb. 19-Mar. 19): Turn on the Sunday-morning preachers (actually, please don’t, because it would only excite them), and you’ll hear that our country is morally bankrupt. They’re thinking of something totally different, but your own bank’s assets are critically low, and you need to take a serious look at your policy toward lending to foreign governments. Write off those uncollectible debts, open some new branches, and mail out a few thousand free credit-card offers.<br /><br />Please support our advertisers!<br /><br />Tulsa Family News, December 1993-January 1994, page 7<br /><br />[duplicate of page 6]<br /><br /><strong>THE Alley</strong><br />Presents The<br />First Annual<br />New Year's Eve Bash<br />Free Champagne Toast And Food Buffet At Midnight!<br />Door Prizes Awarded Every 30 Minutes!<br />Tickets On Sale Now<br />$10 In Advance Friday, December 31st, 1993<br />3340 South Peoria 21 To Enter 744-0896<br />Tulsa, Oklahoma<br /><br /><strong>WHERE ALL THE HAPPY PEOPLE GO</strong><br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, December 1993-January 1994, page 8</em></p> Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. 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E sse nti al For Hea~ll-hy Gay KidS:: WASHINGTON - A .tolerant. ;loving and suppo~tive.en\-i; ronment buill around young gays and lesbians C~uld be ~he tifd,. saving ~orce lhat coanteracts the problems thato[ien place tliem at.high risk for HIV infection, said. RayfordI~yde,. ~feputi director of the news office at the U.S. Public Health Seaice, in a recent speech to the agency’s empR~yees. Nytle. who said he has experienced [irsl-hand the intolerant altitudes towm-ds gays and lesbians, said that a negative attitude toward homosexualit? by family and friends creates a confused yo, ung adult who, in trying to c~me to terms With/sexualit?, often succumbs to isolation and !owself-esteem: These trails can lead to sell~destcucti\e behaviors - such as alcohol and drug abuse, s{iicide, and unsafe Sex - which place them at risk-for all sexually transmitt¢d diseases, and especially for AIDS. Accepting a young, homosexnal and providing a supportix e famih’ climate, on the other hand. could allow these youngsters to x alue themselves enough to xxant to sta\’ healthy and live fulfilling, responsible lives, K~tle said. He added that gay and lesbian youths need community, role models who promote healthy- ’,Trod responsible choices." Condom TV Ads Begin b\,.Tam Neal .: Bom-bed January 10- Time’N-Time Again, a local bar.serving primarily - the Tulsa Lesbian community, suffered light-damage from a ~ home-made pipe bomb that w’~s thrown through its d~.~or. There \xerc patrons in.the bar as weltas staff but no one was hurt. Damages wcrc limited to burns on the flooring, broken glass from the windows blon out and signs shaken off the wall. Police have taken descriptions of the person seen throwing the Ixmab. Jane Roth, owner of Time N’ Time Again, said that the description given of the bomber resembled tha! of an individual’banned from thc bar previously. She characterized the bombing as possibly moti\-at~d by a "~{udge" rather than by anti-Lesbian bias. TJC Officials ExpressGay-Positive Attitudes �Opinion.: BigotrY at City Hall Back in July, Robert Nelson, Tulsa C~y CounCilman, .told the Tulsa World of his opposition to proposed human rights protections for Lesbians and Gay men. Although he is not’a lawyer, Nelson proclaimed that current laws already protect Lesbians and Gay men from discrimination based on their sexual orientation. InOctober, speaking with Mr. Nelson; I sought to learn if he genuinely believed that current laws provided civil rights protections.for Lesbians and Gay men~ I met with Mi’. NelsOn and his aide, Rebecca, in his Ci_ty Hall office. When questioned about his earlier statements, he repeated them: "[there. are] enough la~s to cover any conditi6ns:,. [he-would] like us to be color-blind, politics-blind, gender-blind.:...’ This statementis admirable but not accurate about current law. By chance, in the ~middle of this conversation, City Attorney David Pauling stuck his head in Mr. Nelson’s office: We asked Mr. Pauling if there were any Mws, federal, state or local which would protect t:itizens on the basis Of their sexual orientation? Mr: Pauling stated, ".Lno ordinance explicitly addresses that point [providing protecti_on based on sexual orientation] and no redress is available..." I "also shared with Mr. Nelson mv research on the issue. If you ask them, the city of Tulsa Human Rights Commission will tell yo~ that there are no protections underany current .laws from discrimination based on sexual orientation. Likewise, the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission for Oklahoma which enforces applicable federal law said there are no protections under any current laws from discrimination basedbn.sexual orientation.This information which I confirmed with a few phone calls was easily available to.Mr. Nelson. He could have had a staff person call He hadn’t asked EEOC He hadn’t asked the Human R~ghts Commission. Fie hadn t even asked the C~ty Attorney right there in C~ty Hall. And even after heating my int’ormation and-that of the City Attorney, he still claimed that current laws prevent sexual orientation discrimination. . Mr. Nelson’s ability to hold on to this view in spite 0Lconsiderable evidence to the otherwise ~as only the begmmng. He proceeded to say that ...what we ve done m the past [laws providing civil rights protections] have hurt us....dvil rights [laws] orders you-to discriminate on the basis of race, creed, etc...." In some disbelief, I asked him if this meant he was opposed to the civil rights acts of the 1960’s which ended, at least officially, segregated public facilities. As I understood him, he stood by his opposition to civil rights protections, not only as proposed for Lesbians.and Gay men but also those already in place to address discrimination based on race, gender, religion and so forth. Perhaps in this context, that of a man who seems to have no understanding of the fact that Jim Crow laws did not just disappear on their own, Mr. Nelson’s declaration that the law protects Lesbians and Gay men, when it does not, is at least consistentff not logical Robert Nelson also added’that he didn’t think that there’was th~t~much discrimination against Lesbians and Gay men. He was not familiar with a 1978 study done by the City documenting discrimination in h~3tising and employment. However, if he’s willing to ignore what the City Attorney says to. his face, then it seems likely thai he would ignore any other researchtoo. Nelson’s attitude~seems to be one of: don’t bother me with the facts-whenI’ve already made up my mind Mr Nelson says that LeSbians and Gay men have every right that everyone else do~s; and that we .should not be discriminated against ~ based on our sexual orientation, BUT that he would do everything he could to make ce~dn such a~human-riglits- ordinanceis not.p~sed. ~ " This politician says there sho_ul,d_be no discrimination but opposes any.effort acthally to end civil fights abuses. Perhaps what we ve~ got here is a kind of bigotry that dares not speak its mime. The lesson in this for us, Lesbiansand Gay men~ our families and Our friends is that we can no longer remain complacent about local politics. Nelson is perhaps less smart about his bigotry and i~ therefore, more vocal butwe have few friends on the Tulsa City Council. And that is something we can change. The City Council primary, elections are February 1, and the election is March 1. There are folks running for some of tho~ seats who are very g~od On Lesbian and Gay issues.There are some who are very had. Andthere are some who [night be educated. This iswhere we can make a difference. Oldahoma City has come close in recentmonths to passing a human fights ordinance; Tulsa could pass one too if We just get, fair-minded f~tks elected. Those candidates, new and incumbent need to hear from us. They .need our volunteer hours and if we can, they. need our contribution. We can make a difference in the quali~ of life for ourselves and for the Lesbian and Gay kids growing up now. Tom Neal, publisher Tulsa DireCtory *. Asterisks indicatedistribution.points. Bars & Restaurants *The Alley; 3340 S. Peoria ;744-0896 *Cheh~" St.- Bakery, 1344 E. 15 583-8398 *Deep Elm, 61st & Mem. 250-0933 *Electric Circus, 606 S. Egin 587-8677 *Laff’s, 31L E. 7th 583-5233 *ParadiseBar& Grill, 12570 E. 21 °,23429007 *SilverStar Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 8342zP234 *Renegade, 1649 S. 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Due to false infOrmation, provided to GayNet, anews item was carried indicating that one of the "American Gladiators" had acknowledged heis gay on one of the television programs aired nationally.The neffs report was erroneous and we sincerely rearer any mi~nformation or inconeenience thereport may" haye caused. January S-ale Tulsa’S Only Openly -Gay-owned Gift Store Pride Jewelry, Buttons, Stickers, Cards, Newsmagazines; T-shirts & More for Us, Our Families: & OurFriends Puppy.Pause II ....l tth & Mingo :-.-:’.::i: 838;7626 :Open, esday- -Saturday at 8am. ,Appointments; walk’ins Aiso-Wele6me Tulsa bbmily News. January 1994 - February 1994, page 2 �DO I REALLYWANT TO. SURVIVE. THIS EPIDEMIC?- b~ Alan G. Nvi/rav..M.S. - For many’,/he qresuon ~n the headline above may seem absurd. The will to live is a motivation that we generally take lbr granted. Alarmingly, though~ reports from the xvcs~ coast indicate that some.people are responding to the above question with ambivalence. Workshops at the 1993 National Lesbian and gay HealthConference in Hrustonand the National AIDS Updatein San Francisco are shedding light on a disturNng development in AIDS epicenters. So far, most of the anecdotal infi)rmation is coming fromSan Francisc~a. However, even here, away from the AIDS epicenters, many of us who Work ih HIV prevention are s "tdrting tosee how this deepening epidemic is takingits toll on t~he mental health of.the gay communi.ty. Health educators have long known that hc’,.dth behavior change is an extremely complex process. Htmaan beings who have iull kn0wl edge Of the. negati \’e consequences of certain behaviors nevertheless chemise to participate in those beha\io~. There is ampl~ evidence all around us. in our friends who are overweight,-.. who smoke, who drive without seatbelts, who abuse alcohol and other drugs, etc. The majority of the individuals who participate in, these unhealthful behaviors knrw that their actions ¯ can have pegatjve consequences. Lack ~ knowledge-is notan issue..Internal cultural I t, ,ors and external societal factors drive peop : to do things that are.harmful. The deepening ~,IDS epidemic itself is prompting .some HIVnegativd men t-o question the quality of life they can have if most or "all of their friends and family are to die of HIV. In San FranCisco, approximately 50% of,gay and bisexu,l men are infected withHIV. In some specific age groups, ttiat percentage is much higher. For instance, m gay and bisexual men in their Upper thirties in Spa Francisco, apprbximately 80.% are infected with H1V. Some gay men are .unconsciously asking themselves "How much is lifc Worth. when [ only have funeral after funeral after funeral to Io0k forwa~rd to?" In such an environment, some gavmen may feel that ~co~ng HIV: infected ~s not sucfi a temble sccnario: Consider the words of a ncwh" HIV-inlk~tcd client -of Berkeley.p~yehol.ogisi. Walt Odets: "Be!~n.g n~wly, i. HIV pomti ve J_s:. d":,~ I ess stressful-place to be. 1’11 probably stay healthy for another decade.-I. don~t have ~to-worryiabout seroconverting; 1 .dontt.have t..o~worry about ~.buryi.ng my .friendsfor the next 50’ Years; and Idon!t have to worry about .being’ the ’last gayman’." "’Being newly HI V posi.tive is a less stressful place .to .be. I"11 probably stay healthy for another dedade. I don~t have to worry about Seroconverting;l don’t have to Won’y about bu~’ing my friends fbr the next:50 years; and I dop’t have to \vote" atx~ut being the ’last gay ma~l ’. "" S:This newly infected man may. have had a specific intention to becomc HI¢" infected, o~: he may simply havc grown weary 0f living thro~g’h a h~:~r~iblc epidemic that 6nh’ prom~scs to get worsc. Will this phcnomcno grow as thc cpidcmic progrcsses and more pcoplc become ill’? The impact on gay men’s will rcmam U~infectcd may be prolbund. Counsclors in AIl~S’epiccntcr..s whoare reporting this phenomenon :streSs that these lechngs are almost alxvays subconscious. Admitting ambivalence alyout one’s own survival is taboo. Many counselors arc familiar with. a\- men stdl engaging in unsafe sex, who say they arc snrpriscd, bafllcd, dr confuscdabou’t their-own unsafe behavior_. These men oftea pummel thcmsehes and call thcmschcs ignoran(ibr having unsafescx Mcanwhilc, dcflying moti\ations for their risky.behavior may not bc explored. A group of San Franc sco counseling professionafs have bcgun.t0 call lo~" gre~tc~" attcntidnto be paid It~ th~ mental h~alth ne~ds of gay and~bisexnal men living through this continning AIDS cpidcmic. Stories from clients ~ind fricnds xxho had rcccntly, bccomc HI V infected provoked them to speak atx~ut a "psychological cpidcmi~" happening in AIDS cpicenters. Two of the most visible lccturcrs on this "phsychok~gical cpidcmic" are Berkclcy pShychologist Walt Odets a!!d San Francisco therapist Tom Moon, MFCC. Odets says that gay men in AIDS cpiccntcr m’e incrca’singly having to grapple \vith a fundamental truth of ~uman existence: bMogical survival is not enough. Man.’," people xvith A IDS, whose health maybe deteriorating, have to deal with.the issue-of qu’,di.ty vs. quantity Now, people without AIDS - whose lives have been changed by AIDS, ncvcrthclcSs -are’ addressing the. same concern. Town Hall :Meeting Mayor Susan Savage :7pro, Monday, February 21 (tentative) ~- Silver Star Saloon 156~. S. Sheridan ~ Call 832’02~3 to confirm. /Sponsored b~ Simply Equal ¯ - & Tulsa Family News Parklane Building Secure Midtown/ Riverside-Area " One. Bedroom Apa rtment No pets, kids or waterbeds, please. Good credit/references required. $315; bills Pai.d, .$1.50 deposit. 587-4640 WANTED:- Part-time HIV Testing Counselor; Gay, Lesbian & Bi-sexual Friendly; People .of Color are 1 . especiall y encouraoed ~, to aPPY. . Applications accepted until 4pm Jan-. 21 st.-Please call Roger Morris 749,4194 Gay Owned and Operated - -a r & G &" 12.9 . ¯ " (Next. to Homeland)Phone °234,9007 Beer Bust , Eve " (tay . .i 81.50-..Pit( hers,. 9-:to mllnight. "( ~r" ~:’~S*, ¯ " ..... .Po6d : served ¯ -"- ........ llam:;~am-, ! du.Hng,.all .oNn hou rs; Major’,.~,~,~’.’~""a" eardSaccepted. ..... ’ ............., ~ ......... r ..... .-. TulsaoFa,hiO NeWs,: January 1994.:February.1994;page3 . �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News.Briefs News Country Goes for AIDS Prevention put back on toy store shelves in more than 40 Female Condoms for Gay Men FBI Investigating COlorado Mail states. Canada and England. When Christmas LONDON.. They’re still not yet commerCOLORADO SPRINGS. Colo. - The FB] rolled around, of course, the effort,which the cially available in.the U.S.. but inBritain the is investigating reports o1~ hate mail being sent B.L.O. admits is an "unabashed publicity female condom has .bec~n,oe increasingly to readers who wrote letters to the editor of a stunt," became public as kids found their G.I. :popular with gay men.-:VChen the condoms new weekly The Colorado Springs Indepen-. Joes exclaiming in the voice, of teenage girl, went on sale.ih~ England in 1992. under .the dent as a possible Violation of:First Amend~ "Let’s go to the beach," and their BarNes ¯ brand name "F~midom "-the National AIDS ment rights by someone upset with thepaper’s snarliiag out in a deep baritone, "Eat lead, ManUal promptly included guidelines on their, antbAmendment 2 editorial positions: Most of Cobra!" The B.L.O. says the vOice-change : use by ~ay.:rheh. AIDS’ :educators say tile ~he anonymous letters handed over tothe operation was a head-Oh attack on"gender- . female condom with an extra,heavy d~med ~ so far.are Signed simply "The Concerned based stei’eotyping in 6hildren’s toys. No one cap allows .for more vigorous, sex, reducing mencans and are nfew~th Chnstmrr referhas taken up Mattel’s offer to exchange any of concerns’:about leaks and breakage. ~ind be- ’ ences, veiled threats and sexual obscenities. the butch BarNes,and several major to3; stores cause it’smade of polyurethane rather than One 63-year-old yeoman, tbr example, wrote a have reported a number of inquiries about the latex it Can als0 be £1sed with nonwater-based letter to the editor that was published in The new gender-bender dolls, lubricants The Temale condom also has a htdependent merely suggesting the paper.use Michael C.allen-Dies of AIDS Pulling of. Gay Books Prompts psychological advantage, educators say, bea larger typeface so she and other older readers LOS ANGELES --Michael Callen, the cause it can be .inserted in advance." The with vision problems eould read it moreeasilv. Student ’Cheek-Out’ Protest composer, singer and writer whose 12-year manufacturer, Wisconsin Pharmical ComFany; She received a letter from "Concerned Ame~KANSAS C!TY, Mo. - After a,school disstruggle with AIDS made him oneof the most has: tried .tO get final FoodandDrug Adminiscans" calling, her a"weak-minded sheep" and trictin suburban KansasCity, Mo., Ordered the visible people With AIDS in the U.S., died at - rp,~,~,~,~ ,’,f u,,,,~ ,,,~ ,,,,,~ ~,~,1,,, ~r,,~,,,,~ ....... tration approval for6 years. ’The.finn hopes lbr indicated in explicitl ’sexual lang uage that she ~:-=............ - ....... vo~,,,~ ¯ .... . . . .. Y, ¯ .......... ¯ . - group approval early m 199~. his Los A~geles home Mondav ,DEC,,27 .............. ¯ should be sodomlzed The letter also warned aault novels aonatea ov tne gay ngnLs .. : FDA ~: ;2 .. -. . ¯¯ , ..... , ...... . _. ¯ .. . , . -, . ;., Callen, who recorded "Purple iSI~l~ ~t~d" Th~ " ~ay$ Pamu Memt~e~$. in. N¥ ¯ . t~o. not attempt to ~ rite more fetters ¯ ~onn Pro’ect 21,, students schools’ ~J . ,., at ohe ot~ the’dis~ict . .... . . ...]/... . .. , Flirtations" with the a cappella group of the Weiss, e&tor of lhe htdependent has handed began a massive check-out" of some 2,900 ALBANY, N~Y. -, New Yoi~k state’s:houssame ¯ name, ¯was also one of the .founding library books to nrotest what the,, seeas cen . ing agencv may consider ~av an~d lesbian -- all the.anonymous letters to the FBI which is - suchas , . People ~ith ,. r. . ~ ’, ~’ ~" ,) :~ ~"%~’;: ’ ~ . . orgamzers of groups the ,"r ,.... investi g atin g tode term ine if the author or sorshm Mission~, couples as family members the state hmb ,’ .¢ of what they read A Shawnee A..I~DS C,oali!ign and the National Association ’authors of the thr~ateriing l~tter~ have violated -Scho~ District c~mmi~’tee Voted T~ur£iav : :e6Uh tiaS.ruled. T~e d~fisi0:~ Wiil~;p~rmit st~r~ veo.pte with AIDS. He was 38.. Dec. 16, to return the novels All~t~e/~can"~j .... :~Vi~iingpartne~s;tolinheriti’ent~C~t~irbil~d hour: :. federal civil’fights laws, particularly in the uenoer-Bender Barbies & G.LJoes and Annie On My Mina tO-~oject ~iafie~2.:~ ingiri-the;state~:.:-.-=~.:- . ’ .. . ’~ areaofsuppressingFirstAinen~lmen(guamni group of eight parents in the district :com~ ’. ii ,7 weekly newspaper has , ~N,EW. Y.O.RK~-,,H.e’s big, bad,Battle iburley and plained that the books "prom0tehom0sekual: " ":PHOENIX: Aii~ ’: A S;~:~,~w~’i2 ;,~.m2. ~ mso oI~ereo a :l,t,u~ rewardi:for information outcn. ,~no me. tmking G I Joe COm¯ " off things ’ ¯ " that " ¯,: cammian .... ¯ : .... " : ...... r’ ....... ¯ .... " " anonymous mander is supposed to roar lik~ " ity’ , The 11 ~member ~ommittee decided to’oroliibitle~slation ~ua,~b~,,, ,,,~i’.leadin g to the conv~ctlqn of the ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " ......... ,. .~.... ’- ..... ’ letter-writers . Attack. and -Vengeance ts mtne.’ But in- : _ ..., _. ~ . ~" _ ...... the scko~,,l &st~ct should.return the books.:: : ’ : . gay biashas:beenlaurichedinAfiZbtla"Sup-. stead, because of the work 0f a group of,New because they were presented by a special2.1- ; ~o~teis ~i" the anti2~a~:initiati~e ~r0n~sal ;b~d .... ~~ t~OUpta$ t:quantyMl~attimor~ interest groui~ advodatih~ its oWii a~enda "’.- : ~ifi~i~’,~.~:gPA~~£a,~,,,., ~r-.i,~] :-~: - ’ York artists, several hundred of the G.I. Joes ’ BALTIMORE Baltim0re’~ :t~ ....... , ~r NASHVILLE- Beginning on Jan. 13, some 35 countr\ music stars xvill be Seen in. no: nonsense public service announcements on ,’adio. TV and print media to promote awarencss of the AIDS epidemic. Stars featured in the "’Break the Silence" ads include Garth Br~×~ks. Clint Black, Johnny Cash, Tammv Wyneuc, Wynonna Judd,-D’olly Parton anal WillieNclson. Singer Mark Chestnutt started the Country Music AIDS Awareness Campaign. Some Of the messages in the campaign include: "Sleeping with yourpa~er is sleeping with their past" and "Use a latex condom eve~" time you have sex." Ani| Gayeaml aign in ArizOna. g " " ( . .i .)," -: " " ." , 2 ntroyersv abo.utth~:lgooks IDA~t0 t~ALLS "~- ^. :S.;~;.2 ;~ .’.. " earne.r this year bought some 300 G.I..Joe and dunng the past:year as aml-~,ay actlv~sts hax e Idaho Falls Po}tRe-ister survey :~nl ~ ~" Barbledolls andswapped the computer chips i. escalated attacks on ga.y:positive materialS in " ,,., ~; .~2, 2,g " -:"- .Y. 9~-me manos ~.u,~ ~,g.~sl.a,to,rs ~pport.anmltmt~ve that give the popular dolls their e~;llection 6f - the public :educational system One-bf tile ’ =: ¯ reporters. ...... sponsoreo o the toano txitizens Alliance to ...... ....~n ’ the protesl~:tOld set phrases. The switched dolls were then ..studentslnvolved ¯ ’ ¯ .... " "’Y’ -- pr.ote.,cuo~s.coven,,ngsexuai prgm..t,1~.cW,n,~g.nts " .... carefully repaekaged along wit.h aflyer urging ~. that the witlidlawal 0f.lx~ks bY students Would the purchasers .to contaCi.thetr local media-" continUe a~ long as the distria tried to restrict :~ffieeLta~tiu°rn~ m, me.s.._mt.e ~ i’~r~s, .~ emoer 1~,~4. will vote on "about this funny doll.they g and stealthdv what they cou~Jd or could, not read t~,=~;,~,¢~.’r.~,;,^ ~,, ~=^^ " " . :. " ° ..... ’:" .~i.i , :%;, ~ ..~-... i -i .......:.]~,l~i~.S::~:~itt-~i~e~n.fMa~i~lies: . me .; .~.,, ~’;..d "7 ... oi~ ivtatthews , . " in t.narlotte ~ t.: community , :., " ¯ have gone to court i.n an effort [o¯ prevent the New Life Metropolitan Community Chiarch from opening .its newly purchased church in their communit~becausemany of its parishio..... hers are gays~hd lesbians. But’Re~~ Robert :.:’ ?i Darst of ~,i~W Life MCC,:with the Supp01"t o[ the Charlotte Ai~ea Cle:~gy Assn ; is fighting. back. "If they’want itd buy it [the ~hurch ¯ property] from us,we’ll .sell it to them - at a . ¯ i~ro~it, ol~course: We’ll makemoney off their, homophobia," he said. ¯ Mass. Student BiasLaw Signed 2nd Annual Benefit for Tulsa PFLAG _ .BOSTON -Mass. Gov. William Weld =g .bias against students in :he state because of their se~ual.’Orientation: It is the first such state law in theU.S .and was approved by the legislature Parents & Friends-of Lesbi; HIV TESTING CLINIC EVERY THURSDAY EVENING, 7’8:30 PM sponsored by program The-city wo)kers partners plan doesn tgo.into elfect until 1995, however. Chilar"-’= w~=~,..^ o,,,,, ~,,, k’,,--~]’~ 7,~.,~,,’"’~’’~ ":’y "~’~.~"~ ~,’~ r~.w ~ur,r,_ -~esponses ~romme r~ortn Pole Poll a nationwide ~,,~,:o,~ ,,~ ~ondu .._3 ~_..~,. ~- ; .,.7:" ~-’. ~. ~te ~c2~ r~’;~’°gs°~2em~h~ra ol~vC~’ ~o ¯ ° " etal concerns chief.among:them the AiDS epidemic. The’sun, eyof.mdi’ethan 3,000 children, ages 7 tO 13,:found that more than 26% of them, given a holiday wish that could come true, would ask for a cure for AIDS. That response was the most popular.of the I 1 choices given; ranking higher than drugs, crime, homelessness, war,elimination racism or of gangs. Canada More Positive About Gays TORONTO - Mac/ean’s. Canada’s largest circulation news magazine, has just publishcd ~ts annual national poll of what Canadians think about a vm:ietv of issues, including homosexuals: Overall’, 56 percent of those re- sponding agreed with the statement, "It would bc fine if oneof my chil~tren turncd out to be gay." In Quebec province, where more than a third of all Canadians live, an astounding 85 percent of the respondents agreed with the ,statement’ .Whenme ~resented:.. with theand statement.. It would bothe~ d openly gay lesNan in schools," 51 percent .,reed or strongly ~dis3 l~ercent agreeii~:.that "s WOUld boiher them. . " " . about ho- ELLISVILLE,’Miss~-:At a .~rt io prevent He~isdn ;fi~om Daytime Testing; Tuesday and Thursday, by Appointment _ Ck}l ;749~zfiN ¯ By &for.but not exclusiveto the Lesbian, GaY & Bisexual Commun~ti~)~:" ii!: .... j :/ :i:~!..i.;i ............. Tulsa Family News,-January19~4~Eebruary~1994~-pi~ge;4 ~,: <:;~:’~,._~.:~-~.o. . ’.. ¯ Migs., in:1964, who Paid the Women~g ~had every, fight.t6 exist and operate ~t~ i eenter,:f~0d b~k, clbthes.ci~seL Crisis phon’e . - - . ..... : .. o ..:’;.~: i~...:.. ....... : , ....¯ ,. -.’i:-:.i’:.’,.:: ~ -;, �¯ News Brnefs News Briefs News Br" line arid displaced homernakers’ program. Chancy has even led a caravan of sevemfcars full of people who acted as late-night guards at the Sister Spiril property. The women have been the continuing object of threats and the property vandalized since k)ca! ministers stirred up opposition to what they telmcd a "lesbian compourid." Sir lan Enters the ’Ring’ HOLLY’WOO~ - Sir Ian McKellen. the openly gay noted British actor, is set tO co-star as a political adviser in the long-buffed Orsoh Welles movm project, "The Big Brass Ring " based on a fictional story about a U.S. presidential candidate who must hide hishomosexuality to rnn for office. No date has been set for the delayed film to go into prt~luction. " Cleric Wants Condom Ads Pulled INDIANAPOLIS - Indiana Roman Catho~ lic Archbishop Daniel Bucchlein called on local TV and radio broadcasters not to air the federal government’s newly released public sewice announcements promoting condom-use as part of a new AIDS-pre~;e.ntion i~ffort. Buechlein said condoms .encourage young people to engage in casual sdx, bu~:n~fst 0f staters stations said.they.would run the gfvernment PSAs anyway. . ,~ ¯ A Very Natural Thing ROTTERDAM, The Netherlands - The Staat~-Zeitung newspaper reports that 2 male flamingos at.the Rotterdam Zoo .have bonded st) closely that the~y repe-atedlv tried to steal eggs fro~ nesting females to ~aise their own baby. Moved by the persistence of the gay birds, ztx)keepers linallv gave them:their own fertili~e.d egg which th~ tw()-hatched ~nd"be-~ gan rinsing as their own. -" Briefs N" ws Briefs’ News " " nefs News Bruefs News Briefs News cause inqu, rin~ minds ,,ant to know, ,re can T assure re~deL’s that Romcr(£s claims of gigasizc are not rncre hubris or isomc optical illusion. It’s tough work, but somconc’s gol to do it. Computer Matching Service What Sign Are You? DETROIT ~ Just thought you.d " " h" kc to know that, according to Patricia Fedclum of the Deaf Hearing & Speech Center in Detroit. deal" Americans have generally stopped using a limp wrist to sign the wo~d indicating a homosexual, As a sign of the" times, the ne~ves~ sign is simply the letter Q for (guess what?l the Wt)rd "~ueer." Settlement in FBI BiasSuit SAN FRANCISCO -The FBI has agreed not to discrimi.natc against ga3 and lesbian employees based on sexual orientation or conduct as parl of a settlement :of a class-action lawsuit filed b\’ former San Diego FBt agent Frank Buttinoia 20-year-\:etcran of the climc agency fired when tlie bureau learned hc is gay Under the tem3s of the Sctd~mcnt, the FBI does not admit any wrongdoing but agrees to formally adopt ffuidelincs prohibiting discrimina~i0n.against appl cants, and,employees ’oh.?thc gffunds of s~xual orientation. ~hc ,agency:retains, howc.~,’er~ the option to.imcstigate h~iw anapplicant’s ~exua 6(mductmlght affect their31cl~d~:act~r or:judgment~ The FBI will pay Buttino an undiscl0sed:aim)unt of money, including court costs, and he will be allowed to receive his pension, But Buttino will not get his job with ihc FBI back..As part of the agreement, the FBI will accept its first openly lesbian applicant Dana Tillson, a 32year-old private inve-stigator the:biarcau had earlier rejetted after learning shcis a lesbian. Linking with one or n|orc like-minded partners is now as simple as making a few keystrokes, thanks to The Matchmaker. a world-wide matching service for the gay and lesbian world serviceC°mmUn~sll\"[hclnfirstall°wingof its kind.Graphical Interface Forl-nat images of the users to be exchanged, this Users Of the Matchmaker can find new friends, potential mates; or just someone to chat. with about similar interests. Travelers k.x~king for compat ble people indistant cities find the service . \cr\ helpful for locating new friends in destilmtion cities. AS With most matchmaking scr\iccs, a questionnaire is filled Out by the user, describing him or herself, as well as indicating preferences for traits desired in a partner. The computer selects a lnatch:fron~ filcs,"based on gender, location agcl and percentage of matched interests, similar ties and desired qualities. For more inl:ormation about The Matchmaker..contact: ~ .Arnic HoldclL Looking Glass Services, Voice: 918.838. 1222, BBS: 918.838.7575 or 7755 P.O. Box.33076. Tulsa~ OK 74153 PFLAG Support Groups Parents.and FriendsOf L¢:sbians and Gays, T’ulsa Chapter in a partnership with the HIV Rcsourc( Center and the Vi~.;iting Nurse A~sociation is offering a support.groul~ for oarents, friends and l;amily of those persons:living with HIV/AIDS. The groupis m_ceting.the’tirst dnd third Wednesda~,,s,of eat!h month at 6:30 pro: P~G ~s also sD.mS0i-ihg a:RAP~roup lbr lhmih’, liicnds~Ga~rs ~md Lesbians who ~ antto talk about:iheir ex~rie~ccs on,tJ~i(!.ij0urncy toundcrslan’ding and aCCeptanCe This group will meet on Bo~h’~f.~hesc.’~rot~psWill meet-at-ihcI~llV Resource Ccmeri~l154 South Harvard, SUiie H, Conlcrence_: R~x!m:For mi.~r~ information,, please call the PFLAG Hotline~ 749-490I., .... : : : Ne~ QommumtyBulidmg Orgamzatlon ., formed]Goal: building a stronger,, healthier nded ]gersons Organizational meeting: NationaI,HIV Magazine Launched Virtual Safe Sex CHICAGO -- "17te Advocate rel~)rt~that the SANFRANCISCO - The highqech.compremiere issue of Plus: The MagiStrate About .-. puter world inched forward (.maybe: even 8 Livbtg attd.HIV~riil be laun~hC~i’.this month inches forward) with the premiere of "Dream Thdmagazine will:f(x:us on lifestyleissues and Lovers:’ the first gay gex CD-ROM aLthc daily concerns the difficulties fa~cd by people MacWorld Exp0,. For.the computer illiterati infe’ctcd with’thc’,vitUs but not Usu"allv ad-’ who don’t know a CD-ROM from Baba Ram -Tdr(~sed :i n ~i~ etiical~ibli~:a-tii-m~,"in~lud~r~g ca-:Dass, suffice it to sa~:: that ROM (or "Readreer deCisions, dating~ famil;,) relation~hips Only Memory:’) is t(3 3’our average desktop andunconvehtiona]- ~j~proac~aes :to staving computer what~ideotape is to 8mm film - a health\. " " high-tech zoom that reproduces and g~nerates Pneumonia Treatment Causing 9mazmgly sharper, mote detailed images. With Shifts in Opportunistic Diseases mteractwe capabilities, CD-ROM allows the BOSTON -- The New England Journal of user to manipulate the images in a rariety of Medicine rel:x)rts thatthe eddy and widespread ways not possible in awe conventional medium - which means you c~n do a lot more With " treatment of AIDS-l-elated i~ncumonra in the "’Dleana Lo\ers’~ star Joe Romero than you U.Si:ischanging the pattern of illnesses related ever thought possible. Romero,.who atien~led t0 HIV. Because drugs treating pneum~x:\’stis carrel pneumonm extend life expectan~y.of the opening of the 10th annual. MacWorld people xvith AIDS without stopping the deExpo where "Dream Lovers" was..., ahenl-... eli,he of the immune system, 4 types of AIDSbeing exhibited, said he was surprised by the related illnesses occur more frequently: mvco"number of women who are just going crazy bacterium avium complexdisea~e, cs~pha’geal over it." (Well if you’ve ever seen the swarthY’ Romero’s "it," you wouldn’t be all thin su{candidiasis, wasting syndrome, and cvtomegalovirus disease.The lbur, once rclati~,-eh: iSrised.) But Wi[ihout batting an eyelash, R0mero uncommon, arc now fairly often found among points out with perhaps )ustii:iable pride of patients, ownership, that the program’s windows dis(c) 1994 by GayNet N(~ws Sers:ice. playing the sex-acts menu "is the largest window size. The heterosexual versions for pore CD-ROMs] have small windows." 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Wait Until Dark Community Playhouse of Broken Arrow Feb. 11-20 258-0077 BACP $10;$8 Charley’s Aunt ¯ Feb 18~27 Williams Theatre, PAC The Drunkard Saturdays, 8:15 p.m.,S8 Theatre Tulsa 596-7H I $12.50 I F E S T Y L E Gay and Lesbian Committment Ceremonies by Lori Livingston, COUPLES have beei~ sharing life and hearth for cons, As Carolyn and Nancy, professionals inalbeit discreetly. Still technically not legal ~n " by Gerald Miller, M.A. their mid-thirties smile and exchange silx er-the United States (in the Netherlands, howevcr -,. What is "Meaningful Theatre", anyway? and-amethyst bands, the’ wedding p~. of old same-sex unions are given the same status as Today, political "correctness" has translated friends witness. Later, a midnight cel~brati0n heterosexual counterparts), gay marriage is "meaningful" into a6stracted heavy drama supper will include Nancy’s mother and gaining slow acceptance. In t989, an estiaimed at the issue of the moment. Those scripts Carolyn’s two children: Star and Brigid choose mated three¯ hundred gay men and lesbians don’t hold a monopoly on beingmeaningful or to simplify’ their commitment ceremony, recitclad in attire ranging from formal to ultravaluable. Sometimes, there,is value in being ing vows and making love on a secluded stretch casual and hailing from as far away as Japan simply.., entertained. Sometimes,~being able of beach in Aruba. Michael and Kevin, antiquecame together on.the streets of our nation’s to escape the cares and concerns of daily life dealers~who have co-habitated for three years capital and publicly acclaimed (heii" unions in can be even more meaningful to an audience. opt for the traditional trappings of matrimony: a great Gay Wedding: Churches and religious At Theatre Tulsa, our mission statement tuxedos o1~ dove grey, institutions such as the enunciates that we, place equal emphasis on exchanging rings and " Universalist Meeting both the quality Of the production and the-~ vows in the UniversalHouse and Unitarian quality_of the "e~perierice ~’or the participants". ist Church in Boston, sects accept and enBy "participants", we mean the talent pool, the Massachusetts. Tri.sh courage gay marriages, volunteers, and the audience. Our objective is and Patty wear match- " offeri ng same-sex ¯ to provide the best quality theatrical entertaining gowns, organdy and couple counseli ng and ment we can, from the resources available in white lace lbr their Auperforming ~r,’ices. the community.. Our objective witli this aptumn union. No one Those gay men proach was to provide for the community of gives th~ bride away; and lesbians who IOF i~’lE e,OS~r! actors and the local audience to, participate in willingly she takes the choose not to affirm the best of live theater. " arm Of herlover as they ~ . " their joining religiously That best may sometimes be dark dramas. ¯ ¯ stand-beneath- the laden " can and.do create their and sometimes frothy comedies or musicals. grape arbor in their Madison, Wisconsin back..own personal expressions of shared love, as The very best and most meaningful theater yard. Jo and Kelly, arm bikers, wear leather varied and diverse as the individuals themwill be entertaining in the delivery of its and. commit "themselves .in a celebration of selves:~ message. Good drama, by definition, has to be joined life, riding Harley Davids0n motor: Editedby BeckT Butler, Cerernonies of the accessible to the audience2 If the work-is not cycles in Colorado. And in windy Chicago Heart (Seal Press) is a documented account of -entertaining, there will be no audience. If there Tim and.Pat quietlyre-affirm their sixteensame-sex ctnnm~tment ceremonies. Well-reis no audience, how" can anyone have an assoyear relationship every 365 days;- sharing a searched, it is a moving testimony of gay [~ottle of Cognac and a reading 6f Dicken’s A ciated "meaningfulY experience? couples acknowledging their unions, both traChristmas Carol each ChristmasEve. ¯ ¯ o¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ o ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯. ¯ ¯ ditionally and avant-garde. Commitment ceremonieS. Matrimony. E,s¯ AS we approach the twenty-first century, ¯ poused union. Across the United States and seemingly in the final rounds of a fight for gay ¯beyond gay men and lesbiahs are joyously, rights which we will win, the trend to publicly ¯ openly~and privately,- noisily and ih quiet acknowledge gay unions with the institutioh ¯ " .pledge~joining in a-wave of loving ritual, of marriage is on the upswing. With the self¯ ¯ .Is, th!,s a new trend? One might suppose yes, absorbed 80’s-decade at our backs, more same-citing me number of public c0mmitinents in ¯ gender couplesare declaring their relation¯ .-recent years but in act;aality same-sex couples stiipsin all manner of ritualistic creativity. GAY:MARRIAGE?. NOTHING-NI::IN, JUST OUT ¯ " Timothy W. :Daniel I’ ¯ ."1" . . ¯ AttornoyatLaw TOM NEAL DESIGNER Buildings, Gardens & Graphics 832.0233 Estate Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury Criminal Law, Bankruptcy, Workers Compensation 1’800’742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway~ Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend arid evening appointments are available. .:K.n.ow You r Rights! Tulsa .Family News, January¯1994 : February 1994, page" 6 �¯E G. ¯ S s TG F EM Domestic Partners Benefits-Are You Being Ripped. Off? H .A Y L.’ by Mary Troltnstine - Entre Nous In Ihct there may ~ legal precedence lk~r cxtcndfng domestic Ifa ~rspective employer said. "1 pay heterosexuals $15 an pawners ~ncfits.~itlc.VlI of the Civi.l Rights Act specifics that hour and lesbians and gays $10 an hour?." would you ~ke the an3 benefits ofl~red by a companY must ~ cqmtablv ofl~red to job? EveD’ time we accepl a job at a company that does not all employees. Rcce:nt EEOC rulihgs have used this ~act to force ofl’er domestic partners benefits we ha~’c taken the job for $10 employers to give men the same parenting leave as they give their an hour. Benefits packages represent 25-35’~ of an employee’s. female emplo\ccs. . pay. As a gay or lesbian employee working in a company that There is no [:orrcct way to fight for domestic l~artncrs benefits. does not recogni2c our partners, we But there i ~ enough cxper|cnce to dhtc to can’t utilize the medical/dental, plan for be able to draw s0fiae g~neral conchisions. our partner. We can’t take sick leave to It is important IO understand and work tend otu" sick partner, lhmily leave when \viththc "corporateculture" that defines If a perspective employer our partner has a child, orbereavemcnt your conlpany. How does inlbnnation l]ow leave if our partner should.die. If our in thi: company? How arc decisions made? said, "1 pay heterosexuals company extends health club privileges Who has the power to make and to influor other perks to its employees’and ence decisions? $15 an hour and lesbians Ihmily, our families arc once again left Ho\\ you present the pr0blcmslsoluout. These are all benefits that the and gays ¯$10/hour?" tions is critical to whether or not you’ll be company would extend to us, if only we listened to. A confrontational approach were straight. would, you take the job? does not Work, but You mm;t stay visible. There are companies that e.~tend benErame the issues so’that thc comt~anv sccs Every time we accept a el’its to their gay and lesbian employthatit is in their best interest to c~angc ees. Are they alii’uistic companies, out their policies. Give the Coml~m\’ as much job at a company that to. do the morally right thing? Compainformation as you can, includit~g policies rues are not moral. They canbe perand monctarx anah:sis of Othcrcompadoes not offer, domestic. suaded however, to do th~ morally cot-. nics; domcsti’( partners policies. ..feet thing if it can be shown to be in the partners benefits, we have ¯ Partnerships arc important. There is company’s best interest. strength in numberS. Form aJcsbian & gay taken the job for $10/hour. Why should a company extend costly employees assocmtion..loin forces with benefits to non-traditional families? other employee groups. Unmarried hetSome of the reasons given.by employerosexuals t~kc ad\’antagc of domestic ers who have extended domestic partpartnership benefits far more often (han nership benefits include: lesbian and gay couples. Joining forces with unmarried hctcro1. Benefits packages help employers recruit and retain se~xuals can push the Cause foi’ward much faster. qualified workers and a db,’erse workplace. It is hel pft, l to get the supp6rt of Human. R~sourccs. Even. 2. Employees are more productive if they feel management though the HR departmentis of(on the prescncr of the status v.alues them and takes their l:amilies seriot~slv, there are man\’ ~×xt people in HR who honc~th" wzint to d0 the ~. Financial needs of an employee in a non-~raditional family right thing. Enlist the support and help from som[2one in manageare m~ different from financial needs of a married emplove(~, ~cnt~ This pe?son does not -havcto be lesbian i~r gay. Bcnnct nor are their responsibilities to their partner different. " " Marks,. o-chair of the gay employees group at Appl~ ~omputcr 4. Denying benefits violates principles of fairness, summed it up when he said "I would much r’athcr work \vith ’ 5. Redefining "family" to include long-term committed sympathetic straight people than closeted gay people on these relatio_nships reflects th(~changing socia~ reality. " ..... " i~sues. ’ i s " Y¯ .a L T u I s. a Oklahoma’ 05 eat Pagaant . by Kris Kohl - F~ms and contestants are preparing for the annual Miss Gay, Tulsa Pageant to be held on Sunday, January thirtieth at eight p;m. at the Silver Star Saloon, 1565 S. Sheridan. At twentythree years old, the pageant is the oldest in Oklahoma:" it predates by two ’,’ears the Miss Gay American Pageant of Norma KriTsfie in Little-R~k, Arkan~. The pageantwill be an AIDS benefit, with proceeds going to the MCC AIDS fund. Money collected from advertisers, raffle tickets, and donations at the &x~r of the Silver Star Will all contribute to the fund. I.~t year, this wonderful event was the largest fund:miscr of its kind in our state. The pageant brought in over $ I, 100, which was divided between Shantiand MCC.. Our pageant¯ over the-years has benefited from. the contri.butions of many shining Stars. Each, in their own way, shone bright as title-holders, and Will all be long-remembered. Two people without whom this pageant would never have achieved its statusand grace arc EmCee Parker and Tim Warren. These two men created the Miss Gay Tulsa Empire. La,,~t year, as a memorial to these two pioneers who have passed on; an award was created by pageant director, Kris Kohl. The Award of Artistry recogni~,es the power and contribution to the art of female impersonation ofthe stage performance of its recipmnt. Last 3’car, the fabulous Jazzmyn Cherri took home this honor, as well as being fimt runner-up. Second runner--up and w~nncr of Male Intcn’iew, was Sensuous Helen Holliday. Who will be crowned this )’ear? Come find out on January ~hirtieth at the Sihcr Star! A limited amount of reserved seating is available for ten dollars per person. A donation of three dollars c(wer will be asked for at the door, and raffle tickets lbr some wonderful prizes can be bought at the d(×)r as well. Remember. all proceeds benefit MCC-AIDS benefit fund! - all your interior needs~ New Hours: Tues.,Thurs. 4:2 Fri. & Sat. 7-2 Sun, 4-2 15th Street, 599-8070 MaleDancers Every Thursday E �I T H E G A L What Is Meaningful Theater, Anyway? Show.- Company City of Angels TPAC Jan 18--20 . 596-7111 $29 Chapman Theatre, PAC Ed Metzcer as TPAC Trust Albert Einstein 596-7111 Jan 2 !, Williams Theatre. PAC $12 Glass Menagerie Jan 21-30 Studio 1, PAC Theatre Tulsa 596-7111 $12.50 Philfip Bianconi Jan 22.Z3 Chapman Theatre, PAC PhilharmoniC 596-7111 $25 Armchair Traveler January 24 Chapn~an Theatre, PAC Celebrity Attrac. 596-7111 $6 One M0’ Time American Theatre Co. Feb. 4-12 596:7111 Williams Theatre, PAC Prices vary,. Romeo & Juliet Feb 11"13 Chapman Theatre, PAC Tulsa Ballet 596-711"1 Prices vary. Wait Until Dark Community Playhouse of Broken Arrow Feb. 11-20 258-0077 BACP - $10; $8 Charley’s Aunt ¯ Feb 18-27 Williams Theatre, PAC Theatre Tulsa 596-71-11 $12.50 The Drunkard Saturdays, 8:15 p,m,;$8 . Spotlight Theatre 1381. Riversid~ by Gerald Miller, M.A. What is "Meaningful Theatre", anyway.’? Today, political "correctness" has translated "meaningful" into abstracted heavy drama aimed at the issue of the moment. Those scnpts don’t hold a monopoly on beingmeaningful or valuable. Sometimes, there,is value in being simply.., entertained. Sometimes,being able to escape the cares and concerns of daily life can be even more meaningful to an audience. At Theatre Tulsa, our mission statement enunciates that we, place equal emphasis on both the quality Of the production and the-quality_of the "experiehce for the participants". By "participants", we mean the talent pool, the volunteers, and the audience. Our objective is to provide the best quality theatrical entertain. ment we can, from the resources available in the community.. Our objective With this approach was to provide for the community of actors and the local audience to.participate In the best of live theater. That best may sometimes be dark dramas, and sometimes frothy comedies or musicals. The very best and most meaningful theater will be entertaining in the delivery of its message. Good drama, by definition, h~ to be accessible to the audience~ Iftbe work-is not ,ente~aining, there will be no audience.if there is no audience, how can anyone have an associated meamngtui experience. ¯ ¯ .. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯.. ¯ .¯. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯. i th atre , ¯ i" " " - ’i q:tdsai .: ¯ : i " " "~I~.,I’L~ ¯ ~i ’., i.. :" k " r " " " - ¯ * c, tt s 7 -s ,ozi ¯ amtams " : ethe ~lass,~Tlenage~ie . I F E S T Y L E Gay and Lesbian Committment Ceremonies- by Lori Livingston, COUPLES have been sharing life and hearth lbr cons, As Carolyn and Nancy, professionals inalbeit discreetly. Still technically not legal in their mid-thirties smile and exchange sih er-the United States (in the Netherlands, however \ and-amethystbands, the’ wedding ~ of old same-sex umons are given the Same status as friends witness. Later, a midnight cel~brati0n heterosexual counterparts), gay marrmge is supper will include¯ Nancy’s mother and gaming slow acceptance. In t989. an est,Carolyn’s two children: Star and Brigid choose mated three hundred gay men and lesbians to simplify’ their commitment ceremony’, recitclad in attire ranging from formal to ultraing vows and making love on a secluded stretch casual and hailing from as far away as Japan of beach_in Aruba. Michael and Kevin, antiquecame together on the streets of our nation’s dealers.who have co-habitated for three years capital and publicly acclaimed theii" unions in opt for the traditional trappings of matrimony’: a great Gay Wedding~ Churches and religious tuxedos of dove grey~ institutions such as the exchanging rings and Universalist Meeting vows in the UniversalHouse and Unitarian ist Church in Boston, sects accepl and enMassachusetts. Trish courage gay marriages, and Patty wear match-’ offeri ng same-sex lng gowns, organdy and couple counseling and white lace for their Auperforming services. tumn union. No one Those gay men gives th6 bride away; and lesbians who willingly she takes the choose not to affirm arm Of her lover as they their joining religiously stand beneaththe laden can and do create their grape arbor in tlieir Madison, Wisconsin backown personal expressions of¯shared love, as yard. Jo and ¯Kelly, avid¯bikers, wear leather varied and.diverse as the individuals themand. commit "themselves ¯in~ a celebration of selves~ joined life, riding Harley Davidson motor~ Edited by Beck3~ Butler, Ceremonies of the cycles in Colorado. And in wi ndy Chicago Heart (Seal Press) is a documented account of Tim and¯Pat quietly.rezaffirm their sixteensame-sex commitment ceremonies. Well-reyear relationship ever), 365 days;, sharing a searched, it is a moving testimony of gay [~ottle of Cognac anda reading ~i" Dicken’s A couples aCknowledging their unions, both traChristmas Carol each ChristmasEve. ditionally and avant-garde. Commitment ceremonies. Matrimony. EsAS we approach the twenty-first cer~tury, poused union. Across theUnited Statesand seemingly in the final rounds of a fight for gay beyond gay men and lesbiahs are joyously, rights which we will win, the trend to publicly. acknowledge gay unions ~vith the institution openly~and privately, noisily and in quiet pledges joining in a.wave of¯loving ritual. ¯ . of marriage.is on the upswing. With the self" Is.this a new trend? One might suppose ves, absorbed 80’s decade at our backs, more sameciting the number of public’commitment~ in gender couples are declaring their relation..recent years but in actZaality same-sex couples . ships in all manner of ritualistic creativity. GAY-MARRIAGE? NOTHING¯NEW, JUST OUT OF THECLOSET! " ¯¯" lot more LnformatLon.." ¯ Estate Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury Criminal Law, Bankruptcy, Workers Compensation 1’800,742-9468or918 -352-9504 128 East BroadwayCDrumright, Oklahoma Weekend and,evening,appointments are-available. Know-. You.r Rig hts!. 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Text Any textual data included in the document <strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">[WORK IN PROGRESS]</span><br /><br />TULSA FAMILY NEWS</strong><br /><em>Serving Tulsa's Lesbian, Gay &amp; Bisexual Communities – Our Families of the Heart</em><br />January - February 1994, Volume 1, Issue 2<strong><br /><br /><span style="text-decoration:underline;">National News</span><br /><br />Family Support Essential For Healthy Gay Kids</strong><br />WASHINGTON – A tolerant, loving and supportive environment built around young gays and lesbians could be the life saving force lhat counteracts the problems that often place them at high risk for HIV infection, said Rayford Kytle, deputy director of the news office at the U.S. Public Health Service, in a recent speech to the agency’s employees.<br />Kytle, who said he has experienced first-hand the intolerant attitudes towards gays and lesbians, said that a negative attitude toward homosexuality by family and friends creates a confused young adult who, in trying to come to terms with sexuality, often succumbs to isolation and low self-esteem. These traits can lead to self-destructive behaviors - such as alcohol and drug abuse, suicide, and unsafe sex - which place them at risk for all sexually transmitted diseases, and especially for AIDS.<br />Accepting a young, homosexual and providing a supportive famiy climate, on the other hand, could allow these youngsters to value themselves enough to want to stay healthy and live fulfilling, responsible lives, Kytle said. He added that gay and lesbian youths need community role models who promote healthy and responsible choices.<br /><br /><strong>Condom TV Ads Begin Airing But Not for Gays</strong><br />WASHINGTON – Thirteen years into the AIDS epidemic and with more than 200,000 Americans dead, the federal government has finally broken years of silence with the debut Tuesday, Jan. 4, of major network television and radio spots promoting condom use to prevent HIV infection. But amazingly what the explicit federal ad campaign fails to address because of pressures from conservative members of Congress is the largest group at risk for HIV infection - gay and bisexual men.<br />The rather steamy ads began running on ABC-TV nationally on Jan. 4 and local stations will be getting the PSAs on Feb. 1 when they will be distributed to an estimated 2,800 TV stations and 4,700 radio stations around the country. And while AIDS activists had guarded praise for the administration's decision to launch the blunt ads promoting condom use, many were disappointed in the failure of any of the PSAs to target gay and bisexual men, the largest at-risk population in the U.S.<br />Washington D.C. AIDS educator Jim Graham said, "We would like to have seen it done differently," he said. "We'd like to have seen ads tailored for gay and bisexual males, definitely. But with that said, I think that this is a major step forward in the prevention effort in the United States." The PSAs, created by the ad agency Ogilvy &amp; Mather, include nine TV spots and four radio ads featuring celebrity voice-overs by Jason Alexander of "Seinfled" and Martin Lawrence of "Martin". Some of the ads promote abstinence, and Spanish-language radio and TV stations will get dubbed versions of the PSAs.<br /><br /><strong>Human Rights Campaign Fund Organizer Named</strong><br />WASHINGTON – The Human Rights Capaign Fund has named Cathy Woolard as coordinator of its new Federal Advocacy Network (FAN), a program aimed at mobilizing a grassroots activist network working on lesbian and gay rights. Woolard coordinated HRCF's regional office in Atlanta until becoming a lobbyist at the group's Washington, D.C., office. "We recognize that the work of national organizations can never be accomplished without the active participation of our community at the local and state level," Woolard said. "We need local activists with the skills and training to effectively lobby Congressand [sic.] mobilize support on the local level. That is what the Federal Advocacy Network will do."<br /><br /><strong>New "National" Gay Group</strong><br />WASHINGTON – Gay &amp; Lesbian Americans has announced plans to hold a summit and organizing meeting in Washington D.C. at the Georgetown University Law Center on Jan. 15-16. Part of the organizing meeting will be broadcast over C-SPAN. The group will be forming a national network of grassroots organizations with state and local chapters around the country. "The purpose of the summit is to bring together gay and lesbian grassroots leaders who are interested in forming a national group with state and local chapters," said Steven Reichert.<br /><br />[text in cartoon:]<br />HONOR SERVED<br />A GAY SERVICEMAN ***WINS*** IN APPEALS COURT<br />JOSEPH STEFFAN<br /><br /><em>Cartoon by David Brady<br /><br /></em><strong>UPDATE: Gays in the Military Pentagon Unveils New Regulations</strong><br />WASHINGTON – The Defense Department outlined new procedureson [sic.] Wednesday, Dec. 22, to implement its new policy concerning gays and lesbians in the U.S. armed forces that gay rights leaders called only "marginally less intolerable" than the previous policy. The complex regulations will take effect Feb. 5, 1994, and are intended to set down guidelines for military commanders about what is and is not the basis for investigating a service member's sexual orientation.<br />Defense Secretary Les Aspin said that the policy has already passed a crucial test by meeting the approval of both the Joint Chiefs of Staff and Congress, despite continuing opposition from rights activists and setbacks inthe [sic.] courts. Gay rights advocates, however, said they would challenge the new policy in court as unconstitutional. "The new regulations are simply a repackaging of thesame [sic.] prejudice and discrimination that existed under the pre-Clinton policy," said Tanya Domi, a former Army captain, now with the National Gay &amp; Lesbian Task Force.<br /><br /><strong>Tulsa Lesbian Bar Bombed</strong><br /><em>by Tom Neal</em><br />January 10 – Time-N-Time Again, a local bar serving primarily the Tulsa Lesbian community, suffered light damage from a home-made pipe bomb that was thrown through its door. There were patrons in the bar as well as staff but no one was hurt. Damages were limited to burns on the flooring, broken glass from the windows blon [sic.] out and signs shaken off the wall.<br />Police have taken descriptions of the person seen throwing the bomb. Jane Roth, owner of Time N’ Time Again, said that the description given of the bomber resembled that of an individual banned from thc bar previously. She characterized the bombing as possibly motivated by a "grudge" rather than by anti-Lesbian bias.<br /><br /><strong>TJC Officials Express  Gay-Positive Attitudes</strong><br /><br /><em>Opinion:</em> <strong>Bigotry at City Hall</strong><br />Back in July, Robert Nelson, Tulsa City Councilman, told the Tulsa World of his opposition to proposed human rights protections for Lesbians and Gay men. Although he is not a lawyer, Nelson proclaimed that current laws already protect Lesbians and Gay men from discrimination based on their sexual orientation.<br />In October, speaking with Mr. Nelson; I sought to learn if he genuinely believed that current laws provided civil rights protections for Lesbians and Gay men. I met with Mr. Nelson and his aide, Rebecca, in his City Hall office. When questioned about his earlier statements, he repeated them: "[there are] enough laws to cover any conditions....[he would] like us to be color-blind, politics-blind, gender-blind...." This statement is admirable but not accurate about current law.<br />By chance, in the middle of this conversation, City Attorney David Pauling stuck his head in Mr. Nelson’s office. We asked Mr. Pauling if there were any laws, federal, state or local which would protect citizens on the basis of their sexual orientation? Mr. Pauling stated, "...no ordinance explicitly addresses that point [providing protection based on sexual orientation] and no redress is available..."<br />I also shared with Mr. Nelson mv research on the issue. If you ask them, the City of Tulsa Human Rights Commission will tell you that there are no protections under any current laws from discrimination based on sexual orientation. Likewise, the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission for Oklahoma which enforces applicable federal law said there are no protections under any current laws from discrimination based on sexual orientation. This information which I confirmed with a few phone calls was easily available to Mr. Nelson.<br />He could have had a staff person call. He hadn’t asked EEOC. He hadn’t asked the Human Rights Commission. He hadn't even asked the City Attorney right there in City Hall. And even after heating my information and that of the City Attorney, he still claimed that current laws prevent sexual orientation discrimination.<br />Mr. Nelson’s ability to hold on to this view in spite of considerable evidence to the otherwise was only the beginning. He proceeded to say that "...what we've done in the past [laws providing civil rights protections] have hurt us....civil rights [laws] orders you to discriminate on the basis of race, creed, etc...." In some disbelief, I asked him if this meant he was opposed to the civil rights acts of the 1960’s which ended, at least officially, segregated public facilities. As I understood him, he stood by his opposition to civil rights protections, not only as proposed for Lesbians and Gay men but also those already in place to address discrimination based on race, gender, religion and so forth.<br />Perhaps in this context, that of a man who seems to have no understanding of the fact that Jim Crow laws did not just disappear on their own, Mr. Nelson’s declaration that the law protects Lesbians and Gay men, when it does not, is at least consistent if not logical. Robert Nelson also added that he didn’t think that there was that much discrimination against Lesbians and Gay men. He was not familiar with a 1978 study done by the City documenting discrimination in housing and employment.<br />However, if he’s willing to ignore what the City Attorney says to his face, then it seems likely that he would ignore any other research too. Nelson’s attitude seems to be one of: don’t bother me with the facts when I’ve already made up my mind. Mr Nelson says that Lesbians and Gay men have every right that everyone else does; and that we should not be discriminated against based on our sexual orientation, BUT that he would do everything he could to make certain such a human rights ordinance <span style="text-decoration:underline;">is not passed</span>.<br />This politician says there should be no discrimination but opposes any effort to actually to end civil rights abuses. Perhaps what we've got here is a kind of <em>bigotry that dares not speak its name.</em><br />The lesson in this for us, Lesbians and Gay men, our families and our friends, is that we can no longer remain complacent about local politics. Nelson is perhaps less smart about his bigotry and is therefore, more vocal but we have few friends on the Tulsa City Council. <em>And that is something we can change.</em> The City Council primary elections are February 1, and the election is March 1. There are folks running for some of those seats who are very good On Lesbian and Gay issues. There are some who are very bad. And there are some who might be educated.<br />This is where we can make a difference. Oklahoma City has come close in recent months to passing a human rights ordinance. Tulsa could pass one too if We just get fair-minded folks elected. Those candidates, new and incumbent need to hear from us. They need our volunteer hours and if we can, they need our contribution. We can make a difference in the quality of life for ourselves and for the Lesbian and Gay kids growing up now.<br /><br />Tom Neal, publisher<br /><br />Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa<br /><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Services</span><br />Sunday 10:45 am<br />Wednesday 6:30 pm<br />In Home Cell Groups 2nd &amp; 4th Sundays 6:00 pm<br />1623 N. 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TU, 583-9780 <br /><br /><strong>TULSA FAMILY NEWS</strong><br />Publisher/Editor<br />Tom Neal<br /><br />Assistant Editor<br />James Christjohn<br /><br />918-832-0233<br />POB 4140<br />Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159<br /><br />Issued on the 15th of each month, the emire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation.<br />Correspondance is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondance should be sent to the address above.<br />Tulsa Family News is a event [sic.] &amp; entertainment newspaper dimributed free of charge in local businesses and organizations.<br /><br /><strong>CORRECTION/RETRACTION</strong><br />Due to false information provided to GayNet, a news item was carried indicating that one of the "American Gladiators" had acknowledged heis [sic.] gay on one of the television programs aired nationally. The news report was erroneous and we sincerely regret any missnformation or inconvenience thereport [sic.] may have caused.<br /><br /><strong>Tomfoolery!</strong><br /><strong>January Sale</strong><br /><strong>Tulsa’s Only Openly Gay-owned Gift Store</strong><br /><strong>Pride Jewelry, Buttons, Stickers, Cards, Newsmagazines, T-shirts &amp; More for Us, Our Families &amp; Our Friends</strong><br /><strong>Valentine's Day</strong><br /><strong>Find Those Cool Gifts For Your Honey!</strong><br /><strong>1565 South Sheridan, Tulsa</strong><br /><strong>832-0233, Visa/MC accepted.</strong><br /><strong>New Hours: Wed.-Thurs. 9-12, Fri.-Sat. 9-2am </strong>[sic.]<strong>, Sun. 8-11 pm</strong><br /><strong>Coming Soon: Tomfoolery! at the Alley</strong><br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, January 1994 – February 1994, page 2</em> <br /><br /><strong>DO I REALLY WANT TO SURVIVE THIS EPIDEMIC?</strong><br /><em>by Alan G. Nyitray, M.S.</em><br />For many, the question in the headline above may seem absurd. The will to live is a motivation that we generally take for granted. Alarmingly, though, reports from the west coast indicate that some people are responding to the above question with ambivalence.<br />Workshops at the 1993 National Lesbian and gay [sic.] Health Conference in Houston and the National AIDS Update in San Francisco are shedding light on a disturbing development in AIDS epicenters. So far, most of the anecdotal information is coming fromSan Francisco. However, even here, away from the AIDS epicenters, many of us who work ih HIV prevention are starting to see how this deepening epidemic is taking its toll on the mental health of the gay community.<br />Health educators have long known that health behavior change is an extremely complex process. Human beings who have full knowledge of the negative consequences of certain behaviors nevertheless choose to participate in those behaviors. There is ample evidence all around us, in our friends who are overweight, who smoke, who drive without seatbelts, who abuse alcohol and other drugs, etc. The majority of the individuals who participate in these unhealthful behaviors know that their actions can have negative consequences.<br />Lack of knowledge is not an issue. Internal cultural factors and external societal factors drive people to do things that are harmful. The deepening AIDS epidemic itself is prompting some HIV negative men to question the quality of life they can have if most or all of their friends and family are to die of HIV. In San Francisco, approximately 50% of gay and bisexual men are infected with HIV. In some specific age groups, that percentage is much higher. For instance, in gay and bisexual men in their upper thirties in San Francisco, approximately 80% are infected with HIV.<br />Some gay men are unconsciously asking themselves "How much is life worth when I only have funeral after funeral after funeral to look forward to?" In such an environment, some gay men may feel that becoming HIV infected is not such a terrible scenario. Consider the words of a newly HIV-infected client of Berkeley psychologist Walt Odets:<br />"Becomnig newly HIV postive is a less stressful place to be. I'll probably stay healthy for another decade. I don't have to worry about seroconverting; I don't have to worry about burying my friends for the next 50 Years; and I don't have to worry about being the ’last gay man’."<br />This newly infected man may have had a specific intention to becomce HIV infected, or he may simply have grown weary of living through a horrible epidemic that only promises to get worse. Will this phenomenon grow as thc epidemic progresses and more people become ill? The impact on gay men’s will remain uninfected may be profound.<br />Counselors in AIDS epicenters who are reporting this phenomenon stress that these feelings are almost always subconscious. Admitting ambivalence about one’s own survival is taboo. Many counselors are familiar with gay men still engaging in unsafe sex, who say they are surprised, baffled, or confused about their own unsafe behavior. These men often pummel themselves and call themselves ignorant for having unsafe sex. Meanwhile, underlying motivations for their risky behavior may not be explored.<br />A group of San Francisco counseling professionals have begun to call for greater attention to be paid to the mental health needs of gay and bisexnal men living through this continuing AIDS epidemic. Stories from clients and friends who had recently bccomc HIV infected provoked them to speak about a "psychological epidemic" happening in AIDS epicenters.<br />Two of the most visible lecturers on this "phsychological epidemic" are Berkeley pshycologist [sic.] Walt Odets and San Francisco therapist Tom Moon, MFCC. Odets says that gay men in AIDS epicenter [sic.] are increasingly having to grapple with a fundamental truth of human existence: biological survival is not enough. Many people with AIDS, whose health may be deteriorating, have to deal with the issue of quality vs. quantity. Now, people without AIDS – whose lives have been changed by AIDS, nevertheless – are addressing the same concern.<br /><br /><em>Gay-Owned and Operated</em><br />PARADISE Bar &amp; Grill<br />21st &amp;" 129 East Avenue (Next to Homeland) Phone 234-9007<br />$3 Beer Bust, Everyday 4-7, $1.50 Pitchers, 9 to midnight.<br />Sunday - Free Buffet at 4:00<br />Monday - Pool League at 8:00<br />Wednesday - "Bamboo Night" Starring Gene Kernigan<br />Thursday - Ladies Night with $1.25 Longnecks for the Ladies<br />Saturday - Pool Tournament at 8:00<br />Open Daily 11am-2am, Food served during all open hours. Major credit cards accepted.<br /><br /><strong>Town Hall Meeting</strong><br /><strong>Mayor Susan Savage</strong><br /><strong>7pm, Monday, February 21 <em>(tentative)</em></strong><br /><strong>Silver Star Saloon</strong><br /><strong>1565 S. 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Please call Roger Morris 749-4194<br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, January 1994 – February 1994, page 3</em><br /><br /><strong>News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News</strong><br /><br /><strong>Country Goes for AIDS Prevention</strong><br />NASHVILLE – Beginning on Jan. 13, some 35 country music stars will be seen in no-nonsense public service announcements on radio, TV and print media to promote awareness of the AIDS epidemic. Stars featured in the "Break the Silence" ads include Garth Brooks, Clint Black, Johnny Cash, Tammy Wynette, Wynonna Judd, Dolly Parton and WillieNelson [sic.]. Singer Mark Chestnutt started the Country Music AIDS Awareness Campaign. Some of the messages in the campaign include: "Sleeping with your partner is sleeping with their past" and "Use a latex condom every time you have sex."<br /><br /><strong>Michael Callen Dies of AIDS</strong><br />LOS ANGELES – Michael Callen, the composer, singer and writer whose 12-year struggle with AIDS made him one of the most visible people with AIDS in the U.S., died at his Los Angeles home Monday, Dec. 27. Callen, who recorded "Purple Heart" and "The Flirtations" with the a cappella group of the same name, was also one of the founding organizers of groups suchas [sic.] the People with AIDS Coalition and the National Association of People with AIDS. He was 38.<br /><br /><strong>Gender-Bender Barbies &amp; G.I. Joes</strong><br />NEW YORK – He’s big, bad, burley and butch. And the talking G.I. Joe Battle Commander is supposed to roar off things like "Attack!" and "Vengeance is mine." But instead, because of the work of a group of New York artists, several hundred of the G.I. Joes this Christmas are saying things like "Will we ever have enough clothes?" and "I love to shop with you." The group, which calls itself the "Barbie Liberation Organization" (or B.L.O.) earlier this year bought some 300 G.I. Joe and Barbie dolls and swapped the computer chips that give the popular dolls their collection of set phrases. The switched dolls were then carefully repackaged along with a flyer urging the purchasers to contact their local media "about this funny doll they got" and stealthily put back on toy store shelves in more than 40 states, Canada and England. When Christmas rolled around, of course, the effort, which the B.L.O. admits is an "unabashed publicity stunt," became public as kids found their G.I. Joes exclaiming in the voice of teenage girl [sic.], "Let’s go to the beach," and their Barbies snarling out in a deep baritone, "Eat lead, Cobra!" The B.L.O. says the voice-change operation was a head-on attack on "gender-based stereotyping in children’s toys. No one has taken up Mattel’s offer to exchange any of the butch Barbies,and [sic.] several major toy stores have reported a number of inquiries about the new gender-bender dolls.<br /><br /><strong>Pulling of Gay Books Prompts Student ’Check-Out’ Protest</strong><br />KANSAS CITY, Mo. – After a,school district in suburban KansasCity [sic.], Mo., Ordered the removal of two gay- and lesbian-themed young adult novels donated by the gay rights group, Project 21, students at one of the district schools began a massive "check-out" of some 2,900 library books to protest what they see as censorship of what they read. A Shawnee Mission School District committee voted Thursday Dec. 16, to return the novels <em>All-American Boys</em> and <em>Annie On My Mind</em> to Project 21after [sic.] a group of eight parents in the district complained that the books "promote homosexuality." The 11-member committee decided that the school district should return the books because "they were presented by a special interest group advocating its own agenda," and recommended that in the future the district not accept donated books at all. Shawnee Mission is the fifth area school district to be confronted with controversy about the books during the past year as anti-gay actlvists have escalated attacks on gay-positive materials in the public educational system. One of the students involved in the protest told reporters that the withdrawal of books by students would continue as long as the district tried to restrict what they could or could not read.<br /><br />2nd Annual Benefit for Tulsa PFLAG<br />The Oklahoma City Metro Men's Chorus<br /><em>Will Perform</em><br />Saturday, February 12, 1994, 8 pm<br />Hope Unitarian Church, 84th &amp; Sheridan<br />$10 donation requested for Concert &amp; Reception<br />Part of the proceeds of the benefit will go to the HIV Resource Center in appreciation of meeting space provided to PFLAG.<br />Parents &amp; Friends of Lesbians &amp; Gays<br /><br /><strong>HIV TESTING CLINIC</strong><br /><strong>EVERY THURSDAY EVENING, 7-8:30 PM</strong><br /><em>sponsored by</em><br /><strong>TOHR<br />FREE<br />ANYONYMOUS<br />Finger Stick Method</strong><br />Daytime Testing, Tuesday and Thursday, by Appointment - Call 749-4194<br /><em>By &amp; for but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay &amp; Bisexual Communities</em><br /><br /><strong>Female Condoms for Gay Men</strong><br />LONDON – They’re still not yet commercially available in the U.S., but in Britain the female condom has become increasingly popular with gay men. When the condoms went on sale in England in 1992 under the brand name "Femidom," the National AIDS Manual promptly included guidelines on their use by gay men. AIDS educators say the female condom with an extra-heavy domed cap allows for more vigorous sex, reducing concerns about leaks and breakage, and because it’smade [sic.] of polyurethane rather than latex it can also be used with nonwater-based lubricants. The female condom also has a psychological advantage, educators say, because it can be iinserted in advance. The manufacturer, Wisconsin Pharmical Company; has tried to get final Food and Drug Administration approval for 6 years. The firm hopes for FDA approval early in 1994.<br /><br /><strong>Gays 'Family Members' in NY</strong><br />ALBANY, N.Y. – New York state’s housing agency may consider gay and lesbian couples as "family members" the state high court has ruled. The decision will permit surving partners to linherit rent-controlled housing in the state.<br /><br /><strong>Anti-Gay Campaign in Arizona</strong><br />PHOENIX, Ariz. – A statewide petition campaign to prohibitlegislation [sic.] outlawing anti-gay bias has been launched in Arizona. Supporters of the anti-gay initiative proposal, based on Colorado's Amendment 2, will have to gather more than 150,000 signatures by July 7 to qualify the initiative for theballot [sic.] next year.<br /><br /><strong>Idaho Legislators Aren't Anti-Gay</strong><br />IDAHO FALLS, Idaho – According to an <em>Idaho Falls Post Register</em> survey, only 9 of the Idaho's [sic.] 105 legislators support an initiative sponsored by the Idaho Citizens Alliance to prohibit civil rights protections covering sexual orientation. Voters in the state will vote on themeasure [sic.] in November 1994.<br /><br /><strong>Residents Trying to Block MCC</strong><br />MATTHEWS, N.C. – Two dozen families in the Charlotte, N.C., community of Matthews have gone to court in an effort to prevent the New Life Metropolitan Community Church from opening its newly purchased church in their community because many of its parishionhers are gays and lesbians. But Rev. Robert Darst of New Life MCC, with the support of the Charlotte Area Clergy Assn., is fighting back. "If they want to buy it [the church  property] from us,we’ll [sic.] sell it to them - at a profit, of course. We’ll make money off their homophobia," he said.<br /><br /><strong>Mass. Student Bias Law Signed</strong><br />BOSTON – Mass. Gov. William Weld signed a law barring bias against students in public schools in the state because of their sexual orientation. It is the first such state law in the U.S. and was approved by the legislature after 2 previous attempts at passage had failed.<br /><br /><strong>FBI Investigating Colorado Mail</strong> <br />COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo. – The FBI is investigating reports of hate mail being sent to readers who wrote letters to the editor of a new weekly <em>The Colorado Springs Independent</em> as a possible violation of First Amendment rights by someone upset with the paper’s anti-Amendment 2 editorial positions. Most of the anonymous letters handed over to the FBI so far are signed simply "The Concerned Americans" and are rife with Christian references, veiled threats and sexual obscenities. One 63-year-old woman, for example, wrote a letter to the editor that was published in <em>The Independent</em> merely suggesting the paper use a larger typeface so she and other older readers with vision problems could read it more easily. She received a letter from "Concerned Americans" calling her a "weak-minded sheep" and indicated in explicitly sexual language that she should be sodomlzed. The letter also warned, "Do not attempt to write more letters." John Weiss, editor of The Idependent has handed all the anonymous letters to the FBI which is investigating to determine if the author or authors of the threatening letters have violated federal civil rights laws, particularly in the area of suppressing First Amendment guarantees of free speech. The weekly newspaper has also offered a $1,000 reward for information leading to the conviction of the anonymous letter writers.<br /><br /><strong>Couples Equality in Baltimore</strong><br />BALTIMORE – Baltimore’s Board of Estimates has ruled that same-sex couples will get the same health and family benefits as married couples do under the city's domestic partners program. The city workers' partners plan doesn't go into effect until 1995, however.<br /><br /><strong>Children's Wish: A Cure for AIDS</strong><br />NEW YORK – Responses from the North Pole Poll, a nationwide survey of children conducted by Nintendo of America Inc., indicate that American kids have their own societal concerns, chief among them the AiDS epidemic. The survey of more than 3,000 children, ages 7 to 13, found that more than 26% of them, given a holiday wish that could come true, would ask for a cure for AIDS. That response was the most popular of the 11 choices given, ranking higher than elimination of drugs, crime, homelessness, war, racism or gangs.<br /><br /><strong>Canada More Positive About Gays</strong><br />TORONTO – <em>Maclean’s</em>, Canada’s largest circulation news magazine, has just published its annual national poll of what Canadians think about a variety of issues, including homosexuals, Overall, 56 percent of those responding agreed with the statement, "It would be fine if one of my children turned out to be gay." In Quebec province, where more than a third of all Canadians live, an astounding 85 percent of the respondents agreed with the statement. When presented with the statement, "It would bother me if openly gay and lesbian people were teaching in schools," 51 percent of the respondents disagreed or strongly disagreed, with only 13 percent agreeing that openly gay teachers would bother them. Contrasted with American attitudes about homosexuals, a 1993 <em>U.S. News &amp; World Report</em> poll found 52 percent of those surveyed oppose teaching students anything about homosexuality in the public schools.<br /><br /><strong>More Opposition to 'Sister Spirit'</strong><br />ELLISVILLE, Miss. – At a packed meeting Monday, Jan. 3, in rural Jones County, Mississippi, residents created the Ovett Community Defense Fund in an effort io prevent lesbians Wanda and Brenda Henson from converting a 120-acre former farm into a feminist retreat. Locals set up the legal fund to help finance lawsuits against Camp Sister Spirit on the grounds that it would create a local nuisance and lower the area's property values. Sister Spirit earlier recieved the support of Ben Chaney, whose brother James was one of 3 civil-rights workers murdered in Philadelphia, Miss., in:1964, who said the women's retreat had every, right to exist and operate its literacy center, food bank, clothes closet, crisis phone line and displaced homemakers’ program. Chaney has even led a caravan of several cars full of people who acted as late-night guards at the Sister Spirit property. The women have been the continuing object of threats and the property vandalized since local ministers stirred up opposition to what they termed a "lesbian compound."<br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, January 1994 – February 1994, page 4</em><br /><br /><strong>News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News</strong><br /><br /><strong>Sir lan Enters the ’Ring’</strong><br />HOLLYWOOD – Sir Ian McKellen, the openly gay noted British actor, is set t0 co-star as a political adviser in the long-buried Orson Welles movie project, "The Big Brass Ring," based on a fictional story about a U.S. presidential candidate who must hide his homosexuality to run for office. No date has been set for the delayed film to go into production.<br /><br /><strong>Cleric Wants Condom Ads Pulled</strong><br />INDIANAPOLIS – Indiana Roman Catholic Archbishop Daniel Bucchlein called on local TV and radio broadcasters not to air the federal government’s newly released public service announcements promoting condom use as part of a new AIDS-prevention effort. Bucchlein said condoms encourage young people to engage in casual sex, but most of state's stations [sic.] said they would run the government PSAs anyway.<br /><br /><strong>A Very Natural Thing</strong><br />ROTTERDAM, The Netherlands – The <em>Staats-Zeitung</em> newspaper reports that 2 male flamingos at the Rotterdam Zoo have bonded so closely that they repeatedly tried to steal eggs from nesting females to raise their own baby. Moved by the persistence of the gay birds, zookeepers finally gave them their own fertilized egg which the two hatched and began rinsing as their own.<br /><br /><strong>Virtual Safe Sex</strong><br />SAN FRANCISCO – The high-tech computer world inched forward (maybe even 8 inches forward) with the premiere of "Dream Lovers," the first gay sex CD-ROM at the MacWorld Expo. For the computer illiterati who don’t know a CD-ROM from Baba Ram Dass, suffice it to say that ROM (or "Read-Only Memory") is to your average desktop computer what videotape is to 8mm film - a high-tech zoom that reproduces and generates amazingly sharper, more detailed images. With interactive capabilities, CD-ROM allows the user to manipulate the images in a variety of ways not possible in any conventional medium - which means you can do a lot more With "’Dream Lovers" star Joe Romero than you ever thought possible. Romero, who attended the opening of the 10th annual MacWorld Expo where "Dream Lovers" was ... ahem ... being exhibited, said he was surprised by the "number of women who are just going crazy over it." (Well, if you’ve ever seen the swarthy Romero’s "it," you wouldn’t be all that surprised.) But witihout batting an eyelash, Romero points out with perhaps justifiable pride of ownership, that the program’s windows displaying the sex-acts menu "is the largest window size. The heterosexual versions [of porn CD-ROMs] have small windows." And because inquiring minds want to know, we can assure readers that Romero's claims of gigasize are not mere hubris or some optical illusion. It’s tough work, but someone’s got to do it.<br /><br /><strong>What Sign Are You?</strong><br />DETROIT – Just thought you'd like to know that, according to Patricia Fedclum of the Deaf Hearing &amp; Speech Center in Detroit, deaf Americans have generally stopped using a limp wrist to sign the word indicating a homosexual. As a sign of the times, the newest sign is simply the letter Q for (guess what?) the word "queer."<br /><br /><strong>Settlement in FBI Bias Suit</strong><br />SAN FRANCISCO – The FBI has agreed not to discriminate against gay and lesbian employees based on sexual orientation or conduct as part of a settlement of a class-action lawsuit filed by former San Diego FBI agent Frank Buttino, a 20-year-veteran of the crime agency fired when the bureau learned he is gay. Under the terms of the settlement, the FBI does not admit any wrongdoing but agrees to formally adopt guidelines prohibiting discrimination against applicants and employees on the grounds of sexual orientation. The agency retains, however, the option to investigate how an applicant’s sexual conduct might affect their character or judgment. The FBI will pay Buttino an undisclosed amount of money, including court costs, and he will be allowed to receive his pension. But Buttino will not get his job with the FBI back. As part of the agreement, the FBI will accept its first openly lesbian applicant Dana Tillson, a 32-year-old private investigator the bureau had earlier rejected after learning she is a lesbian.<br /><br /><strong>National HIV Magazine Launched</strong><br />CHICAGO – <em>The Advocate</em> reports that the premiere issue of <em>Plus: The Magazine About Living and HIV</em> will be launched this month. Themagazine [sic.] will focus on lifestyle issues and daily concerns, the difficulties faced by people infected with the virus but not usually addressed in medicalpublications [sic.], including career decisions, dating, family relationships andunconventional [sic.] approaches to staying healthy.<br /><br /><strong>Pneumonia Treatment Causing Shifts in Opportunistic Diseases</strong><br />BOSTON – <em>The New England Journal of Medicine</em> reports thatthe [sic.] early and widespread " treatment of AIDS-related pneumonia in the U.S. ischanging [sic.] the pattern of illnesses related to HIV. Because drugs treating pneumocystis carini pneumonia extend life expectancyof [sic.] people with AIDS without stopping the decline of the immune system, 4 types of AIDS-related illnesses occur more frequently: mycobacterium avium complexdisease [sic.], esophageal candidiasis, wasting syndrome, and cytomegalovirus disease. The four, once relatively uncommon, are now fairly often found among patients.<br />(c) 1994 by GayNet News Service.<br /><br /><span style="text-decoration:underline;"><strong>TULSA NOTES</strong></span><br /><br /><strong>Computer Matching Service</strong><br />Linking with one or more like-minded partners is now as simple as making a few keystrokes, thanks to The Matchmaker, a world-wide matching service for the gay and lesbian community. In allowing Graphical Interface Format images of the users to be exchanged, this service is the first of its kind.<br />Users of the Matchmaker can find new friends, potential mates, or just someone to chat with about similar interests. Travelers looking for compatible people in distant cities find the service very helpful for locating new friends in destination cities.<br />As with most matchmaking services, a questionnaire is filled out by the user, describing him or herself, as well as indicating preferences for traits desired in a partner. The computer selects a match from files, based on gender, location, age, and percentage of matched interests, similarities, and desired qualities.<br />For more information about The Matchmaker, contact:<br />Arnie Holder, Looking Glass Services, Voice: 918.838.1222, BBS: 918.838.7575 or 7755<br />P.O. Box 33076, Tulsa, OK 74153<br /><br /><strong>PFLAG Support Groups</strong><br />Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays, Tulsa Chapter in a partnership with the HIV Resource Center and the Visiting Nurse Association is offering a support group for parents, friends and family of those persons living with HIV/AIDS. The group is meeting the first and third Wednesdays of each month at 6:30 pm.<br />PFLAG is also sponsoring a RAP group for family, friends, Gays and Lesbians who want to talk about their experiences on the journey to understanding and acceptance. This group will meet on the fourth Sunday of each month.<br />Both of these groups will meet at the HlV Resource Center, 4154 South Harvard, Suite H, Conference Room. For more information, please call the PFLAG Hotline, 749-4901.<br /><br /><strong>New Community Building Organizatlon</strong><br />New consciousness raising organization being formed. Goal: building a stronger, healthier Tulsa Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual community. Needs: Like-minded persons. Organizational meeting: February 29, 2pm. Call for directions, 832-1816.<br /><br /><em>Sandra J. Hill, M.S.</em><br /><strong>Psychotherapy &amp; Clinical Consultation</strong><br /><em>Sensitive to the Challenges of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual &amp; Transgendered lndividuals, Couples &amp; Families.</em><br /><strong>2865 E. Skelly Drive, Ste. 215</strong><br /><strong>Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 745-1111</strong><br /><br /><em>THE GAY LIFESTYLE</em><br /><br /><strong>THEATRE SCHEDULE</strong><br /><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Show</span> <span style="text-decoration:underline;">Company<br /></span><br />City of Angels TPAC<br />Jan 18-20 596-7111<br />Chapman Theatre, PAC $29<br /><br />Ed Metzcer as Albert Einstein TPAC Trust<br />Jan 21. 596-7111<br />Williams Theatre, PAC $12<br /><br />Glass Menagerie Theatre Tulsa<br />Jan 21-30 596-7111<br />Studio 1, PAC $12.50<br /><br />Phillip Bianconi Philharmonic<br />Jan 22-23 596-7111<br />Chapman Theatre, PAC $25<br /><br />Armchair Traveler Celebrity Attrac.<br />January 24 596-7111<br />Chapman Theatre, PAC $6<br /><br />One Mo' Time American Theatre Co.<br />Feb. 4-12 596-7111<br />Williams Theatre, PAC Prices vary.<br /><br />Romeo &amp; Juliet Tulsa Ballet<br />Feb 11-13 596-7111<br />Chapman Theatre, PAC Prices vary.<br /><br />Wait Until Dark Community Playhouse of Broken Arrow<br />Feb. 11-20 258-0077<br />BACP $10; $8<br /><br />Charley’s Aunt Theatre Tulsa<br />Feb 18-27 596-7111<br />Williams Theatre, PAC $12.50<br /><br />The Drunkard Saturdays, 8:15 p.m.,S8<br /><br />TOM NEAL<br />DESIGNER<br />Buildings, Gardens &amp; Graphics<br />832.0233 <br /><br /><strong>What Is Meaningful Theater, Anyway?</strong><br /><em>by Gerald Miller, M.A.</em><br />What is "Meaningful Theatre", anyway? Today, political "correctness" has translated "meaningful" into abstracted heavy drama aimed at the issue of the moment. Those scripts don’t hold a monopoly on being meaningful or valuable. Sometimes, there is value in being simply... entertained. Sometimes, being able to escape the cares and concerns of daily life can be even more meaningful to an audience.<br />At Theatre Tulsa, our mission statement enunciates that we place equal emphasis on both the quality Of the production and the quality of the "experierice for the participants". By "participants", we mean the talent pool, the volunteers, and the <strong><span style="text-decoration:underline;">audience</span>.</strong> Our objective is to provide the best quality theatrical entertainment we can, from the resources available in the community. Our objective with this approach was to provide for the community of actors and the local audience to participate in the best of live theater.<br />That best may sometimes be dark dramas, and sometimes frothy comedies or musicals. The very best and most meaningful theater will be entertaining in the delivery of its message. Good drama, by definition, has to be accessible to the audience. If the work is not entertaining, there will be no audience. If there is no audience, how can anyone have an associated "meaningful" experience?<br /><br /><strong>Gay and Lesbian Committment Ceremonies</strong><br /><em>by Lori Livingston</em>, COUPLES<br />As Carolyn and Nancy, professionals in their mid-thirties smile and exchange silver-and-amethyst bands, the wedding party of old friends witness. Later, a midnight celebration supper will include Nancy’s mother and Carolyn’s two children. Star and Brigid choose to simplify their commitment ceremony, reciting vows and making love on a secluded stretch of beach in Aruba. Michael and Kevin, antique dealers who have co-habitated for three years opt for the traditional trappings of matrimony: tuxedos of dove grey, exchanging rings and vows in the Universalist Church in Boston, Massachusetts. Trish and Patty wear matching gowns, organdy and white lace for their Autumn union. No one gives the bride away; willingly she takes the arm of her lover as they stand beneath the laden grape arbor in their Madison, Wisconsin backyard. Jo and Kelly, avid bikers, wear leather and commit themselves in a celebration of joined life, riding Harley Davidson motorcycles in Colorado. And in windy Chicago Tim and Pat quietly re-affirm their sixteen-year relationship every 365 days; sharing a bottle of cognac and a reading of Dicken’s <em>A Christmas Carol</em> each Christmas Eve.<br />Commitment ceremonies. Matrimony. Espoused union. Across the United States and beyond gay men and lesbians are joyously, openly and privately, noisily and in quiet pledges joining in a wave of loving ritual.<br />Is, this a new trend? One might suppose yes, citing the number of public commitiments in recent years but in actuality same-sex couples have been sharing life and hearth for eons, albeit discreetly. Still technically not legal in the United States (in the Netherlands, however same-sex unions are given the same status as heterosexual counterparts), gay marriage is gaining slow acceptance. In 1989, an estimated three hundred gay men and lesbians clad in attire ranging from formal to ultra-casual and hailing from as far away as Japan came together on the streets of our nation’s capital and publicly acclaimed their unions in a great Gay Wedding. Churches and religious institutions such as the Universalist Meeting House and Unitarian sects accept and encourage gay marriages, offering same-sex couple counseling and performing services.<br />Those gay men and lesbians who choose not to affirm their joining religiously can and do create their own personal expressions of shared love, as varied and diverse as the individuals themselves.<br />Edited by Becky Butler, <em>Cerernonies of the Heart</em> (Seal Press) is a documented account of same-sex commitment ceremonies. Well-researched, it is a moving testimony of gay couples acknowledging their unions, both traditionally and avant-garde.<br />As we approach the twenty-first century, and seemingly in the final rounds of a fight for gay rights which we will win, the trend to publicly  acknowledge gay unions with the institution of marriage is on the upswing. With the self-absorbed 80’s decade at our backs, more same-gender couples are declaring their relationships in all manner of ritualistic creativity.<br /><br /><strong>GAY MARRIAGE? NOTHING NEW, JUST OUT OF CLOSET!</strong><br /><br /><strong>Timothy W. Daniel</strong><br /><em><strong>Attorney at Law</strong></em><br /><strong>Estate Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury</strong><br /><strong>Criminal Law, Bankruptcy, Workers Compensation</strong><br /><strong>1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504</strong><br /><strong>128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma</strong><br /><strong>Weekend and evening appointments are available.</strong><br /><strong>Know Your Rights!</strong><br /><br /><em>Tulsa Family News, January 1994 – February 1994, page 6</em><br /><br /><em>THE GAY LIFESTYLE</em><br /><br /><strong>No Domestic Partners Benefits – Are You Being Ripped Off?</strong><br /><em>by Mary Troltnstine - Entre Nous</em><br />If a prspective employer said, "I pay heterosexuals $15 an hour and lesbians and gays $10 an hour?" [sic.] would you take the job? Every time we accept a job at a company that does not offer domestic partners benefits we have taken the job for $10 an hour. Benefits packages represent 25-35% of an employee’s pay. As a gay or lesbian employee working in a company that does not recognize our partners, we can’t utilize the medical/dental plan for our partner. We can’t take sick leave to tend our sick partner, family leave when our partner has a child, or bereavement leave if our partner should die. If our company extends health club privileges or other perks to its employees and family, our families are once again left out. These are all benefits that the company would extend to us, if only we were straight.<br />There are companies that extend benefits to their gay and lesbian employees. Are they altruistic companies, out to do the morally right thing? Companies are not moral. They can be persuaded however, to do the morally correct thing if it can be shown to be in the company’s best interest.<br />Why should a company extend costly benefits to non-traditional families? Some of the reasons given by employers who have extended domestic partnership benefits include:<br />1. Benefits packages help employers recruit and retain qualified workers and a diverse workplace.<br />2. Employees are more productive if they feel management values them and takes their families seriously.<br />3. Financial needs of an employee in a non-traditional family are no different from financial needs of a married employee, nor are their responsibilities to their partner different.<br />4. Denying benefits violates principles of fairness.<br />5. Redefining "family" to include long-term committed relationships reflects the changing social reality.<br />In fact there may be legal precedence for extending domestic partners benefits. Title VII of the Civil Rights Act specifics that any benefits offered by a company must be equitably offered to all employees. Recent EEOC rulings have used this act to force employers to give men the same parenting leave as they give their female employees.<br />There is no corrcct way to fight for domestic partners benefits. But there is enough experience to date to be able to draw some general conclusions. It is important to understand and work with the "corporate culture" that defines your company. How does information flow in the company? How are decisions made? Who has the power to make and to influence decisions?<br />How you present the problems/solutions is critical to whether or not you’ll be listened to. A confrontational approach does not work, but you must stay visible. Frame the issues so that the company sees that it is in their best interest to change their policies. Give the company as much information as you can, including policies and monetary analysis of other companies; domestic partners policies.<br />Partnerships are important. There is strength in numbers. Form a lesbian &amp; gay employees association. Join forces with other employee groups. Unmarried heterosexuals take advantage of domestic partnership benefits far more often than lesbian and gay couples. Joining forces with unmarried heterosexuals can push the cause forward much faster.<br />It is helpful to get the support of Human Resources. Even though the HR department is often the preserver of the status quo, there are many good people in HR who honestly want to do the right thing. Enlist the support and help from someone in management. This person does not have to be lesbian or gay. Bennet Marks, co-chair of the gay employees group at Apple Computer summed it up when he said "I would much rather work with sympathetic straight people than closeted gay people on these issues.<br /><br /><strong>If a perspective employer said, "I pay heterosexuals $15 an hour and lesbians and gays $10/hour?" </strong>[sic.]<strong> would you take the job? Every time we accept a job at a company that does not offer domestic partners benefits, we have taken the job for $10/hour.</strong><br /><br /><strong>Miss Gay Tulsa Oklahoma’s Oldest Pageant</strong><br /><em>by Kris Kohl</em><br />Fans and contestants are preparing for the annual Miss Gay Tulsa Pageant to be held on Sunday, January thirtieth at eight p.m. at the Silver Star Saloon, 1565 S. Sheridan. At twenty-three years old, the pageant is the oldest in Oklahoma; it predates by two years the Miss Gay American Pageant of Norma Kristie in Little Rock, Arkansas.<br />The pageant will be an AIDS benefit, with proceeds going to the MCC AIDS fund. Money collected from advertisers, raffle tickets, and donations at the door of the Silver Star Will all contribute to the fund. Last year, this wonderful event was the largest fundraiser of its kind in our state. The pageant brought in over $ 1,100, which was divided between Shanti and MCC.<br />Our pageant over the years has benefited from the contributions of many shining stars. Each, in their own way, shone bright as title-holders, and will all be long-remembered. Two people without whom this pageant would never have achieved its status and grace are EmCee Parker and Tim Warren. These two men created the Miss Gay Tulsa Empire.<br />Last year, as a memorial to these two pioneers who have passed on, an award was created by pageant director, Kris Kohl. The Award of Artistry recognizes the power and contribution to the art of female impersonation of the stage performance of its recipient.<br />Last year, the fabulous Jazzmyn Cherri took home this honor, as well as being first runner-up. Second runner--up [sic.] and winner of Male Interview, was Sensuous Helen Holliday. Who will be crowned this year? Come find out on January thirtieth at the Silver Star!<br />A limited amount of reserved seating is available for ten dollars per person. A donation of three dollars cover will be asked for at the door, and raffle tickets for some wonderful prizes can be bought at the door as well. Remember <em>all</em> proceeds benefit MCC-AIDS benefit fund!<br /><br /><strong>Please Support Our Advertisers<br /></strong><strong>And</strong><br /><strong>Let Them Know You Read It Here!</strong><br /><br />SILVER STAR SALOON<br />Miss Gay Tulsa Pageant<br />Sunday, January 30, 8pm<br /><strong>New Hours:</strong><br /><strong>Tues.-Thurs. 4-2</strong><br /><strong>Fri. &amp; Sat. 7-2</strong><br /><strong>Sun. 4-2</strong><br />Beer Bust<br /><em><strong>Tues. - Thurs. 4-7 pm, $4<br /></strong></em><em><strong>Wed. &amp; Thurs. 9pm-1am, $4</strong></em><br /><strong>Male Dancers Every Thursday</strong><br /><br />BUDGET WINDOW TREATMENTS and more!<br /><em>Visit our expanded showroom</em><br /><strong>Window coverings of all types, accessories, silk flowers, rugs, custom upholstery &amp; more – all your interior needs.<br />Wemberly Center</strong><br /><strong>7116 South Mingo, Suite 102, 254-2100</strong><br /><br /><strong>Drop your pants at</strong><br /><strong>BellAire Cleaners*</strong><br /><strong>Expert Alterations &amp; Drapery Cleaning</strong><br /><strong>4951 So. Peoria, (across from the Camelot) 743-5967, M-F 7-6, Sat. 9-2</strong><br />*and your shirts, dresses, ties <span>–for all your cleaning!</span><br /><br />Ken's Flowers<br />1635 E. 15th Street, 599-8070<br /><strong>Serving Tulsa's Lesbian &amp; Gay Communities With Pride </strong><span><strong>– Look for our Rainbow Flag</strong><br /><br /></span><em>Tulsa Family News, January 1994 – February 1994, page 7</em><br /><br />[duplicate of page 6]<br /><br />The Alley<br />3340 South Peoria<br />21 To Enter<br />744-0896<br /><br />The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria Ave., is the current room of choice for Tulsa's gay community. Formerly Spectrum and, before that, T-Birds, The Alley's turntables pour out heavy doses of hardcore techno and disco-laden hip-hop, making it a popular spot for heterosexual clubgoers in search of good dance music.<br /><br />The only one recognized by THE WORLD Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1994] Tulsa Family News, January-February 1994; Volume 1, Issue 2 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa's Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. 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Ch, Palmer w~ un, See Police ACcused, page 6 ........ men than for hetero: sexuals; and also of c0mmitting ¯ _ February ~March 1994, Volume 1’ Issu. e_3 at aft open forum t Tulsa F~ily News on Thurs, ;herid~ Pine),iChurch°fGreater & The Mayor ~ill be welcomed by the Reverend Alice J0nes, Robert Crow of Simply Equal and TOn{ Neal, publisher of Tulsa Family i ,family&friendsoftheTulsaLesbian/Gay/Bisexual ~s are inVitdd to hear and to question our mayor. ..... .... Ci t.... V~t~[]~]~=~i~ Good News lot Tulsa Council District Six by Kharma Anos In a candid interview with Tulsa Family News, Suzanne Marler~Republican candi&ate for district Six City Council, adlressed the problem of discrimination againstGay, Lesbian, and Bisexual people in the city of Tulsa¯ Suzanne firmly believes that "Discrimination is wrong, no matter who the victim,,’ In fact, she says there could be no possible argument for its justification. 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All of these . ,.a; .... a o~a, ’-’n M’-rton areissuesthatthepublicschools .,.a. s~,,...,~.,~,.~ ,.,,~.:,, , q.y ; byaskingtheofficerifhewanted ¯ NonoracKe, execuuve ealtor el ..... . ~n Tulsa, on some level or an, a blow ob and then grabbed ^ ~ Ro!l Cal!; pred~cted,,that thee 0ih~r n~d to address Would tiae ~ffic~r’s ~,enitals like{0 fiiad~Ut~iiether’y0u think Clint°0ad~inistrati°n maY su!i;, On Feb. 2,~hief ~on PaImer fer,the political consequences stated that this sort of law en; so, too: of the PBS network airing of forcement effol~ is not a high iT" Well mY basic ohilosophy iS that were establishing priority, but is done in respon’~e "Tales of the City" earlier in te ’citi~e~ ~omplaints. Several January ~hqn Coogm_~s :r~consome schoo! system to ensure an internati0nally SUperior educavenes. Kt~ndra~Re !, described reques ,t~e Chief and to Seb~ies;:p~ge7 don for a/! c[iildr~fi. ’. Ail kids lvl@0i:S:a)~ge s press aide; Jim abe ’ery TN: OK. Racism is not gone, and we do a lot of work tO ia3’ to promote tolerance, totry toeducare people, to try to hopefully change [heir hearts but obvi" ously }hose are issues that just have,n t gone away. Likewise, there stremendousprejudiceand bigotry that LeSib~’an a nd! Gay people experiencel There are school systems, particularly in Ne w York an d Los Angeles that have been trying to promote tel, erance for all people, including Lesbian and Gay people~ Ho~ doyouaddresstheissu~ofprejudic~andtoleranceforGayI~o~le within the educational system? How are we in terms of our educational system? JT: I haven’t re,a.lly looked at that, and I haven t really been confronted with that issue in my experience as an edUcator; all students should be given an op" " and that ’ s what I will portumty, focus on. We need to have cul. the school tural awareness ~n systems. In order to do that, you h~ve to have some experiences that will allow that td happen, ’ for all children and all pedple; I think ~ple Should be able .See Thotnpson, page 8 ~ent. ~r the ~a~ ~d ~s2 bian community before the M~ch 1st generN election: Tulsa Fami[~ News: The city’s human rights commission is studying a possible civil rights ordin~ce to include protections for gays ~d lesbians. What are yo~ ~oughts? Gilbert: The Gay ~d Lesbi~ has every right as an american citizen. But I do not support minority status [for gays and lebians] because of my Christian background. But you still wouldn’t treat them differently as a citizen. See Gilbert, page 7 _ . _ Stepping Forward: Candid Talk with doe Williams by TomNeal& James Christjohn Late last year, TFN reporter Tom Neal ~poke with Joe W!Iliams, who is running for tile District 1 city Council seat. His opinions reflected a healthy respect for diversity, and a strong sense of fairness for all people. When asked wh.y he w as run-, ning,¯ herepliedthathehasfouna " thatffyou ,, makeacomm~tment to achieve certain things, individuals can make a difference." "Any time a change takes place, it will require people willing to step forward. Inste.ad of comSee Wilhams, page 6 Tulsa Family News, February 1994 - March 1994, page ! �Sexwith the Tulsa Police L e t t e. r S Let’s talk about sex, in particular, sex in public places.The reality is that people have sex in public places. Some of this behavior is heterosexual and some of it is homosexual. All of it is inapprbpriate. All of it is illegal, There are public parks in Tulsa thatareknownasmeetingplaces of deep-rooted prejudice in the department, as well as raising issues of possible law-breaking by those supposed to be upholding the law. We call on the Mayor and the chief of police to investigate these operations in detail to assure Lesbian and Gay citizens Tales of the City .... TULSA FAMilY NEWS Assistant Editor Publisher/Editor lames Christjohn Tom Neal 918-832-0233, POB 4140, TUlsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued on the 15th of each mon~, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission _ from the publisher. Publication. of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed’t0 be for publication unless Otherwise Dear Editor; In recent days, OETA channel 11 showed Armistead.Maupin’s "Tales of the City". The first responses I heard from the gay and lesbian community were upset and disappointment that language and content were cennotedcorrespondanceand becomeS:shouldthebesOlesentPropertYto the address°fTulSaabove.Family NewL All munitiesthat our cOm-are oh the wantf°r .!0~nto Save~w=h° ....." sored. not being sex with each Tulsa Family News is aevent & entertainment newspaper distributedThe second wave of reaction .the. singled out for other. Thisfactfree of charge in local businesses and organizations. was from thereligiousright, who selective enmay. be repugwere outraged that it was shown forcement of nant to many investigate...to at all. I have heard that the stathe law, or for tion received over 4001etters of g e n e r a 1 Itisalsorepugprotest. I wonder how many of harassment, nant to many and those"onourside"wrotetocomWecallonboth Gay men & that mend ,OETA for showing the of these offiLesbians. Bars & Restaurants Wecan&do are not being cials to work series? 744-0896 *The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria with minority We have been given to underask our police singled out for 583-8398 *Cherry St. Bakery, 1344 E. 15 communities, stand that thelocalPBS station officers to dis250-0933 *Deep Elm, 61st & Memorial enforcein particular, courage public did not want to air "Tales.." at 583-5233 with ours, to sexuality so *Laff’S, 31t E. 7th all, and are. now able to say Of tile law.,, solve together 749-1563 that the major’I told you so’. *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th actual and per- ...... What those of us in the gay ity of us can 234-9007 *Paradise Bar & Grill, 12570 E. 21 ceived commhnity problems, enjoytheparkswithourspouses, andlesbiancommunity, andour 834-4234 *SilverStar Saloon, 1565 Sheridan Finally, we call on the Mayor to friends and families without hafriends and families who sup585-3405 *Renegade, 1649 S. Main issue an executive, order banrassment or.embarassment. But port human rights, must do is to 660-0856 *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial ning discrimination based on we remember also that it is not send a letter (not just phone) 664-8299 *Time n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial sexual orientation among all city illegal in Oklahoma for two perstating that you believe in free584-1308 employees. We call on Chief sons to meet each other in a park *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd, . domofspeechandhumanrights, Palmer to institute immediately so long as they are of age and go 582-2400 416 S. Le~ffi~ *Whittier Cafe, and that you support the showcultural awareness training for elsewhere iftheydo anything, Businesses/Services ing of programs like "Tales of police officers, both in-service It is in this context that we Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Suite 102 254-2100 andattheacademy, that includes " the City". And include a contriconsider, the= allegations raised 587-1633 *Indian Terr. Coffee Company 1613 E. 15 bution of.whatever amount you - sexual orientation issues. With by some citizens. Each of these 592-2787 can manage. Galerie Europa, 203 N. Main Lesbian & Gay police, officers persons, some speaking anony582-_1617 Harry & Mrs. Jones, 1617 E. 15 and a c~ty commitment not to .We have in our community mously, others on the record, 582-3018 discriminate, then can Tulsa’s the tendency to criticize politinone0f whomkno’w the other, Jared’s~ 1602 E. 15 :,..~:.:z~=~%_LesbianandGay~itizen~startto -: ~;cal~!gaders:who"don’~.t-~standup .... ~ K~eii’~s, ~Flow~rs,- 1635 ,.E.,=~=~:~:~’ . tell simitar:stOries~ And-these .......599~8070 " " ’ " " " ~ " " , and ~ " to be outraged tmstTulsasfinestagaxn, forus when stories aretoO consistent to. be 585-1234 *Living - Arts of Tulsa, 224 N, Main we don’t get full and favorable. Tom Neal, publisher dismissed. Their charges Speak porlrayals in the public media. *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 PI - - 664-2951 Yet how many ofus are willing Novel Idea Discourit Books to take any risk at all? Do we 7104 S. Sheridan. ~92-0335 747- 67 t 1 3356 E. 51 . risk our jobs the way we expect On January 29th on C-SPAN, the Coral Ridges Ministries Confer584-7486 *Phun Stuph, 1519 E. 15 ~political leaders to for the sake enceheldinF~Lauderdale, Florida was broadcast to thousands of 838-7626 ~ofgayandlesbianrights?Dowe II, 1 lth & Mingo Puppy Pause households across thenation. The purpose of the conference was to 832-0233 even risk a Small degree of per*Tomfoolery, 1565 S. S heridan urge Christians to "reclaim America" for Christ. However, the goals sonal discomfort when coming 742-6909 of this conference cannot be said to have anything to do with Jesus Zat’s, 3708 South Peoria Christ or with compassion, acceptance and love that Christ spoke of out to people around us who Organizations vociferously. probably know already? . 74101 ACT-UP, POB 532 What they should have called the conference was "How to Impose PBS operates on public ~up748-3111 Names Proj. POB 31.81 74101 Your Morals on the Nation and Disregard Anyone Who Does Not port. tf they believe that airing a 749-4901 P-FLAG POB 52800 74152 Wholeheartedly Agree With You." The keynote speaker for the show will lose that support, they *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 conference was the former Vice President of the United States, Mr. won’t air it. If we don’t speak 743-4297 Dan Quayle. Notonly has Dan recently learned how to spell"Potato", TOHR Gay Line Inf0. out, we don’t have any right to but he has also learned how to put-words like "tradition", "family 749-7898 Stianti Hotline complain if we never again see values", "moral", end"ethical" together to form a moving speech. He any positive gay/lesbian shows BiL/G Alliance, University of Tulsa. 583-9780 urged Christians to go back to their home towns and no longer be part on PBS. We will have helped 800-535-2437 Oklahoma AIDS .Hodine of the "silent majority", but instead to speak out about the principals cause that possible scenario by Other "upon which this nation was built." The principals he was talking our silence. *Chapman Student Center, .University of Tulsa 631-0000 about were the principals-that construct the "traditional family’~. Paul Thompson,Co-chair *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule . _ : . Perhaps a more appropriate tide for his speech would have been "To Oklahoma Gay & Lesbian Heck With Love And Acceptance, Let’s Keep Dysfunction Alive!" *University Center .at Tulsa Political Caucus Among other things, Dan noted that Christians need to fight to keep Professionals Assistant editor’s note: We are Gays and Lesbians from having the same sanctified relationships as 743-1000 Theodore Campbell, MSW, 1560 E 21 all too ready to criticize, as Mr. heterosexuals, Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 Thompson points out. We need After receiving an extended standing ovation, Dan Quayle turned 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Tim Daniel, Attorney " . to remember that it is just as the microphone over to Dr. James Kennedy, who ended theevening’s Bill Hinkle, Attorney . 587- i~500 important to praise positive acfestivities by stating that he doesn’t hate anyone, but hehas a moral 747-5466 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 tions, as well as point out the obligation to help save people who are "chained to their sins." Although th~s type of ~gnorance can be amusing to all of us, t s negative. Let OETA know that. 747,5800, 745-2245 John Kirk, Realtor really a very serious and frightening thing. At virtually any time they did well in spite of them832-0233 Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics during the day from anywhere .in the world, people can tune in to selves! .... Religious Organizations television or radio programs that are motivating people to do all in The address: 298-4622 *Family of Faith MCC, 500 W. ’A’ Jenks their power to stop ’sin’ and ’immorality’ from infiltrating society OETA 742-8213 Affirmation (Methodist) allinthe"nameofGod".It’seasytounderstandhowsomanypeople 811N. SheridanRd. 838-1715 *MCCof Greater Tulsa, 1623Maplewood can be so uninformed and so filled with hatred. Tulsa, OK 74115 298-4648 What recourse do we have? we can dothe same thing any group of Dignity/Integrity PBS comment line: 583-9780 people mustdo when faced with ignorance. We can educate ourselves *Caqter.b:ury. Ministry Center, University of Tulsa 800-356-2626 and those around us. We can’t continue to sit around hiding and waiting for someone else to speak up for us. It’s time we take the Mayor. and ch ief Of police to heterosexuals, assure Lesbian Gay citizens ties our eommuni- selective ment initiative and responsibility for defending ourselves. 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Human Rights - ANONNYMOUS -- . . . . -Con Finger Stick Method Volunteers Always Welc6~e For and by but not limited to Lesbian, G~s, .Tulsa Family News, Febr~ary~March 1994, page 3 �News Briefs-News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News BriefsNewscialist, Briefs News Steven Reichert as Net- Chiola, running forqhe Cook ~work Coordinator, and Mickey County, Ill.,.¯Circuit Court; D [ S c r i m i n a t i 0 n Wheatley as Chief Finance OffiVictor~h Sigler, running for the TAMPA, Fla. - A gay rights cer. GLA Chapters quickly beDade County, Fla., Court; and group, the Human Rights Task gan forming as the founding Ken Wolf, who is running for a membership returned .to their Force of Florida, has been chamseat on the Ft. Lauderdale,Fla., pioning the case of 4 straight home towns, and the first group City Commission. womenfiredfromtbeLateShow of local GLA chapters will be Gay Marriage in Hawaii formally announcedaround the bar in New Port Richey, Fla., HONOL~U~::;When. the .HacountryonValentine~s Day;Feb. after the owner of the club dewail Legislature reconvenes this cided t~>tum it intQ a barcatedng 14, at.a-multiple-citynews conmonth for its J994 session, one to gay men,~cl~fiining the ng~b ference that-is being called of the measures that will come customers wouldn ~t f~el c6~n"Queers Across~rA-merica.".~ before the lawmakers will be a fortalSie~ith straight~aitreSges Bringing some unexpected proposed bill offeredby conserandbarienders. ="~Ve ve always muscle to GLA were Bob Paris, vativesthatwouldexpliciflypro= knownthat.thiskindofdiscrimiformer Mr: America and Mr. hibit same-sex marriages. The Universe, who in 1989 shook up nation is wrong no matter .who state Supreme Court ruled more it’s directed againsL" saidTodd the professional bodybuilding than a year ago that~ same-sex world by coming out and exSimmons of the task force. "No couples may not be denied mar.changing marriage vows with one deserves to lose their job riage licenses unless the state his husband and fellow physique because of their sexual orientacan prove a compelling stateinmodel.Rod Jackson. The Olymtion, particularly when it has terest in prohibitingthem from absolutely no relevance to the pia, Wash., couple -became the gettingmarried.Alowercourtis first non-founding members to iob they’ve been hired to perstill reconsidering the case unjoin GLA following the official "form." der the high court’s guidelines formation of the group in midButtino-FBI Settlement of stricter scrutmy, and many January: SAN FRANCISCQ - A federal activists believe the earlier SuFor information about joining court judge has’~approved a preme Court ruling set the stage Gay & Lesbian Americans, con$205,000Settlementbetween the for Hawaii to become the first tact the organization at: P O Box FederalBureau. of investigation state to lega!ly Fecognize. gay 77533, Washington, D.C. 20013and gay former agent Frank and lesbian ¯amazes. 7533 or phone (202) 546-4124 Buttino,’who charged in a yearsArizona Antt-Gay Bill or the organization" s toll-free line long lawsuit against the federal PHOENIX, Ariz. - A proposed at 800-889-5111 or, for high.crime agency that his dismissal state constitutional amendment tech types, contact them through in 1989 after 20 years of service that would ban legislation protheir Intemete-mail address: glaWas discriminai6ry. The agreetecting gays andlesbians against join@queernet.org for memberment was approved by U:S. Disdiscrimination has been introship details. trict Judge Saundra Brown duced by Rep; Rusty Bowers, a ~upport For Activists. .Armstrong and requires the FBI Conservative Mesa Republican, ST. LOUIS- A group of gay and to pay Buttino’s attorneys in the Arizona legislature and $53,000 in legal fees involved in lesbian mental health workers in. senttotheHouseJudiciaryCom~ his court battle, pledge to stop SL Louis has formed CPR (Counmittee: Bowers Said ~he introseling Professio0al. Resou~r~es).~. ~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ m,mm ¯ ¯ m.m ¯ ¯.. ¯ ¯," ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 1¯ Anti÷Gay A~dopti~nBill-~: ducedtheand:gaylegislatiOn~beto pro’tide cou.n.seling and s.up~ ~ " it " ~: =OL~YMPiA~~Wash; L~tieW~h~:~: eaus~ of:gay ~:rights.laws.passed port services~f0r activists wfi0 ¯ ington Legislature will consider , in Phoenix and Tucson that out= are experiencing the same sort law .anti-gay bias. The Arizona ¯ . . .= a-proposedbill this session that of post traumatic stress disor¯ Traditional Values- Coalition = would make it illegal to place a ders soldiers experience during ¯ began gathering signatures for a ¯ foster child in a household with ¯ battle. "We want to offer sersimilarstatewideanti-gay initiaa homosexual, bisexual, trans¯ vices that could address needs tive in December. ¯ sexual or transvestite. The pro¯ they escalate and over--¯ posed legislation was prompted " Sex Classes Evaluated before ¯ Open esday" Saturday atSam. ~ whelm individuals:There’s so WASHINGTON Classes on ¯ by the case of Megan Lucas, a much emotionalfallout, and for ¯ sexuality and AIDS are offered 22-year-oldwomanwhoisfight_ - Call. forAppointments .an issue like this, where it really ¯ " in some 93% of all U.S. public ing to regain custody of her 3¯ ¯ Walk-ins Also Welcome. is our life or death, we’ve seen a ¯ high schoo!s, and the most effec¯ year-old son who¯she had aban¯ reat buildup." " ¯ _ tive courses combine informa¯ donedin 1990. Lucas started her ime to Try Gay Meg? tion on, abstinence along with ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯= ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " fight last year to regain custody NEW YORK - Time Warner theimportanceofusingcondoms of the boy after learning he had Inc. says that it is tentatively and other contraception, accordbeen placed in the foster care of considering publishing a magaing to sex. researcher Douglas Louis and Ross Lopton, 2 gay zine targeted to gay and lesbian Kirby in a report sponsored by men, who are seeking to adopt readers, although the publishing the Kaiser Family Foundation. Secure Midtown/Riverside-Area the boy as their son. Washington giant declined to give any details The research indicated that, conis one of 6 states that permit One Bedroom Apartments of the possible magazine. Time trary to opponents of sex ed same-sex couples to adopt chilspokesman Peter Costiglio said Skyline views available, classes, the courses neither hasdren. "It’s at a very preliminary, early ten the start nor increase the freLesbian/Gay Candidates $315, bills paid. 587-4640 stage. There’s no timetable yet." quency of sexual intercourse WASHINGTON -The Gay & Nor would Costiglio discuss " LesbianVictoryFund, theWashamong t.eens. Nor do the sex ed what sort of magazine Time classes ¯crease the number of ington-based network of politimight launch in a market where sexual-partners. cal campaign donors, has enno lesbian/gay periodical has yet Gay & Lesbian Americans dorsed 6 more gay and lesbian broken the 100,000 paid circulaWASHINGTON Activists candidates .in .upcoming 1994 tion barrier. from around the country gathraces. They include: Tony Miller, ’Out There I1’ .Comedy ered in the nation’.s capital over who isrunning for statewide ofHOLLYWOOD - Tickled that the Jan. 15-17 weekendtoiaunch fice as California’s Secretary of "Out There," Comedy Central’s Gay and Lesbian Americans,- a State; Will Fitzpatrick, running first gay and lesbian comedy ¯ for a seat in the Rhode Island " "diverse, nonpartisan coalition special, doubled its prime time of grassroot~a~l~ocates commit, Senate; George Eighmey, run, ratings, the cable network has ted to civil fights for gay, lesning f_or a seat .in .the Oregon announced plans for "Out There transgender House of Representatives; John " bian, 117 which will be taped before a Ixople ’ in this country~ E~ected Duran, running for a seat in the live audience in Manhattan dur~ts ihtefim officers ih the new California Assembly; Susan Serving Tulsa’s ing the Gay Games IV (June 18group while it builds memberLeal; running.for a. seat on the 25), Gay Pride Weekend (June. ship, creates .local chapters Lesbian & Gay Communities -San Francisco Board of Super24-26) and Stonewall 25-celaround the Countryand firms up visors.; and Barb Jones, who is ebrati0n in New York. The proWith Pride - Look for our Rainbow Flag i[s structure were Kim Edwards running for a seat on the Tempe, . gram will be aired later in the as OutreaCh :Dir~ctoL JonCarl Ariz., City Council. The Victory summer. Tulsa Family News, February 1994 -Marcht994, page 4 Fund had earlier endorsed Tom Lewis as Communications Spe- Gays Battle Anti-Straight ¯" lenging its constitutionality is~ pending, but the AHA council decided to move its 1995 convention until the referendum is declared unconstitutional. Catholics Blast .Bishops CHICAGO - Three Catholic groups have .taken the U.S. Catholic Conference of Bish6ps to task for its opposition to fedemlly-spons.ored television and radio public service announcemerits promoting condom use~ Leaders of the National Coali~ tionofAmericanNuns;Catholic ~Advocates for Lesbian and Gay. Rights and Chicago Catholic Women joinedwith AIDS educators in scolding the bishops, whoearlierinJanuarydenounced as"immoral and murderous" the Convention in Cincinnati just-announcedTVandradioads " encouraging the use of condoms SAN-FRANCISCO ~-- The to prevent the spread of HIV country’s foremost historical orinfection among sexually active ganization - the American Hisy-ounger Americans. todcalAssociadon-hasformally Carolina Anti-Gay Bills canceled its planned 1995 anCOLUMBIA, S.C. - The South nual convention in Cincinnati, Carolina House has overwhelmaccusing thatcity of denying lesingly approved legislation that biansand gay men equal protecwouldbar gays and lesbians from tion under the law. The AHA’s serving in the state National governingcouncilvotedto move Guard, adopting children or actits January 1995 meeting to Chiing as foster parents; The mea~ cago or New York because rotsures, some of the most restricers in Cincinnati in November five’in years, were prompted by approved an amendment to the several high-profile child-cusCity charter barring civil rights tody casesinvolving lesbiansand protectionsbased on sexual origay men around the country as entafion. A federal court has blockedenforcementoftheanti- ’ well as by the national debate gaymeasurewhilealawsuitchal, " last year 0yetending the~Penta~ g0n ban~ any discrimination within the agency based on sexual orientation, and agree to hire Dana Tillson, a 32-year-old San Francisco private investigator whose application had been rejected because she is a lesbian. Adobe Offers Benefits MOUNTAIN VIEW, Calif. The gay newspaper OutNow! in SanJose, Calif.,reportsthatcom~ puter manufacturer Adobe Sys" tems of Mtn. View is thelatest high-tech :firm :to extend company-benefits to-the domestic-partners of its workers. The new benefits program went into effect at Adobe on Jan. 1 and is available to both same-sex and - .op~p0site-sex coupleS, Historians Cancel ’95 11 th & Mingo, 838,7626 ~ Parklane BUilding Ken’-s Flowers 1635 E. 15th Street, 599-8070 _b,!sexual and �:News¯ Briefs NewsBriefs News Briefs News Briefs .News Briefs News Briefs News some basic questions about why is in queer films. According to cies to specify only "race, ag.e, so, donrt expect a kiss-and-tellNV Anti-Gay Initiative fraternities and sororities are apcolor, religion, national origin, Variety, the motion picture inall bio,.~ Smith Says;-because CARSON CITY, Nev. :- Lonpealing to gays and lesbians, sex, veteran status, disability or dustry trade paper’s just pubLouganis "fervently hopes this Mabon, founder of the anti:gay what they gained from the expeany other basis protected by fedlished listing 6f the most proffi[Ms,sexual orientation] does not OregonCitizens Alliance, j0ined rience, what, if any, anti-gay exeral, state or local law" - disable films released in 1993,"Jubecome the primary focus of with Daisy Stanley of the newly periences they may have encouncreetly omitting "sexual orientarassic Park" came as last year’s media attention?, Revealing an formed Nevada Citizens Allitered,and similar topics. To obtion" from the list. second most profitable film, open secret? Ten years after his ance,Tuesday, Jan: 25, in filing tain a copy of the survey, write topped by "The Wedding BanOlympic fame? Afterthe outing Idaho ¯Anti-Gay Initiative a petition to prohibit the "prequet.". Ahn Li’s film about a~ reto: Fraternity Research, PO Box sentati0n of homosexuality as a "ofJ. ~dgar-Hoover? NoL!ikely,...: BOISE, Idaho--Apollby Boise cially mixed yuppie gay cou~!e 15863, San Diego CA 92175. ’ TNT s Gay Celeb IAneup ~ State ~University’s Survey Repositive lifestyle" by .any govwhotryto.hoodwinkWei-Tung.S ~ CO Funflie.’,Boot~CamP’ NEW. YORK ’.Just in case.you:~.: searchCenter found that 54% of ernment institution in Nevada, parents~ from Taix~an into ..beCOLORADO SPRINGS,. Colo. Theinitiative petition; similar to missed a truly, memorable-too-: .. like!.y..s.~te.~voters.opP0S~.~..t~: lieving he .i~. straightby miount-.ii_. Fi’~edo~iW-.atCh~.-a.~ligiq,us. ment in American cultural his;:~ :~ gay !mt!alave sponsorea oy. t e thevoter, approved Amendment tory, wwr’.~,,,,-,-t~re~antation .... of th.e,~ ..~ Idaho ¯-Citizens._ A!!iance,. wh.ile. ing a fake wedding gro~s~,dmor~,(~ right m ~hi.@ing pubiiCau."0,’~ ~ 2 in Coloradi~; needs only 51,000 than any film in 1993 compaored - r@0~ted fiaat th~:Coaiition ~ 1962 Rosalind Russell~Natahe _ 26%support themeasure which signatures to qualify for the balWood film ’~Gypsy~’ was comes before voters.in-Novem .... to itsexpenditures, Variety.says. .....Reviv, a! (COR),. located, in lot-this November." Gov.’Bob ber. The pollsters said.the survey The Hollywood- trade paper.re~ Sonoma County, Calif., is relohostessed by supermodel ultraMiller had denounced the anticaring to Colorado later this year has a 3.4% margin of error. A pOrted in its annual survey of drag queen RuPaul. Coming up gay initiative as a ,message of to open a "boot-camp training full 20%. of those polled, how-. most profitable films that "The on the cable channel’s "Our Faintoleranceand discrimination." ever, said they weren’t familiar school for radical world-changWedding Banquet, grossed a vorite Movies" series being Mabon, however, snapped back ers" where fundamentalists will staggering 23 times what it cost with the anti-gay ballot measure hosted by celebs is-Barbra that Miller "’will ultimately pay learn "hand-to-hand combat inand weren’t sure where they to produc..e~ handily beating Streisand’s"Funny Girl,"hosted the price". tellectually and spiritually..." stood on it. A poll commissioned Stephen Spielberg’s dinosaur by comic, actress and lesbian Jesse Helms vs.-U;N. COR, an extremist far:right funby. the Idaho Citizens Alliance blockbuster "Jurassic Park," icon Sandra Bernhard.. By the WASHINGTON - The U.S. damentalist group has ties to farwhich earned only 16 times its last November, but challenged Senate voted 99-0 on Wednes- ’way~ the statuesque platinum roduction expenses. . right leaders Beverly LeHaye of by fights activists, had indicated blond bewigged RuPaul still inday, Jan. 26, to cut contributions Concerned Women for America orority/Frat. Survey 63% of the state’s residents fasists-that, even though he "loves to the United Nations by $119 and Donald Wildmon of the vored the anti-gay measure. SAN DIEGO, Calif. The San "Gypsy,’ he still wants to’do an million this year and next unless American Family Assn. It also ’Domestic Par[ners’ Fly Diego-based Fraternity Research all-black remake of another Roz the federal government insures advocates setting up a ChrisiianJERUSALEM A gay-flight is conducting a confidential naRussell classic, "Mame;~ "starthat the international agency has based government in the U.S. tional survey of lesbians and gay attendant with Israel’ s E1 AI Airring moi, Of course." severed all ties with any .group and urges followers to "systemlines has won a court ruling that men who are either currently unNo NAMBLAat UN March that endorses ~xfial-relatio~is atically and effectively rebuild dergraduate or alumnimembers requires the air carder to extend ATLANTA-TheSteeringCom-with children.The amendment their civilization on Biblicalprinto the unidentified gay worker’s of a university sorority or fratermitteeof Stonewall 25 has voted to a funding bill for the State .ciples, thatincludethe mandated nity. The survey is under the domestic partner thesame anto bar from its March on. the Dept. was offered by Sen. Jesse direction of Douglas Case, a gay nual free ticket the airline makes death ._l~=,,nalty for an assortment United Nations in New York this Helms (R-N.C;), who railed of sins. ranging from. dell available to the marfiedspouses .-~-. actavlst and currently Coordlna~ against the U.N. Economic &°~ June any groups that advocate quencyandblasphemytohomoSociatCoun~cil’srec0gnitionlast sexual exploitation of children . ofitsempl0yees.Thecourtru!ed° ’ tor of Fraternity & Sorority Life sexuality, adultery and:failure to . thatin-refu~ing to,g_i~ie:the free-., at San Diego State University. ¯ orrepealofage:0f-cousentlaws. yearofthelnternatiofialLesbian .repay ~ bail The 32:question survey results bie to the gay man s boyfriend it. The vote; clearly aimed at ex& Gay Association 0LGA):be:bond. are aimeJl at Shedding light on cause theNorthAmeri~anMan/ eluding:members 0f the North ¯ was ,dolating the nation,s anti-i . :Boy Love.- Association ~ ¯ AmericanMan/B0y LoveAssn. ¯ biaslaws, which includesexual orientation.. ~ Europe, ~W..Bush, president said, if elected,: he only recently been granted conthat NAMBLA withdraw from would veto any repeal of.the sultative status in the UN’s Ecothe Belgian-based association of state’s sodomy statute because nomic & Social Council. lesbian and gay organizations, he said. the law "is a symbolic ~/. ~Russlans Anti,Gay "~ .... S~FI Supervisors. Take gesture of trad’m’onal values." First InterState to-Task SAN FRANCISCO - A report .... Texas gay rights activists said by MarshaGessen for the-San SAN:FRANCISCO - Shocked that. banking giant First Inter- they considered Bush’s corn: Francisco-based International ments to be the kind of panderstate Bank, under pressure from Gay & Lesbian Human Rights ing to the religious right that lost anti~.gay fundamentalists,had unCommission finds that in spite his father the 1992 presidential ceremoniously dropped its perof the repeal of Russia’s antirace. sonnel policy barfing discrimigay law in 1993, the country ’Harvey Milk’ - The Opera nation based on sexual orientaremains a "land of terror" for SAN FRANCISCO ~ At the tion, the San Francisco Board of gays and lesbians: The report snail’s pace rate the Oliver S tone Supervisors has sent a-sharply charges that government offiproposed ~motion picture "The critical letter to First Interstate cials still have not accounted for Mayor of Castro Street" is movBankCorp president William some 200 gay men sentenced to Siart, expressingits"disappoint- ~ ~ng, you may be able to catch the labor camps for violating the opera based on the assassinatedment" in the bank’s decision. nation’s anti-gay law before it gay politician Harvey Milk’ s life "There is norestricti0n against was repealed, even though those before it hits the big screen as a First Interstate Bank Corp’s proconvicted in the past .were supbiopic. The opera- called simply posed to be released under the hibition ofdiscrimination based "Harvey-Milk"- is slated to premeasure passedb~ the Russian upon sexual orientation in all of miere atthe Houston Grand Opthe states in which your subsidParliament last year. The report era on Jan. 21, 1995,_followed also says law enforcement offiiaries are located," the letter by a spring 1995-performance cials continue.to harass gays and states. "Such a policy would be by theNew York CityOpera and far more Consistent than allowles,N~s,p.fison and~a_l~o..rca~p:.’ offl~i~iig ~stili .mi~izM[ iii~arcer2.... ingSuch di~criminationin-those ...... a production~ by the San-Fram ateff:gayS ~d intimidate lesbi-~ .~ states where it is not prohibited~’~d.: cisco Opera in the fall of 1996. The opera was commissioned ans in their"cust0dy, and g~y . 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Tulsa Family News, February 1994 - March 1994, page 5 �News Briefs-News Briefs News Briefs NewsBriefs News BriefsNews¯BriefS News Gays Battle Anti-Straight Di. scri m ination TAMPA, Fla. - A gay fights group, the Haman Rights Task Force of Florida, has been championing the case of 4 straight women fired from the Late S how bar in New Port Richey, Fla., after the owner of the club decided to turn it intoa barcatering to gay men,claiming the new customers~wouldn~’~t~ feel ctm~ fortaSte~ith straight ~idtreSses and~artenders. :"we Ve always known thatthis kind ofdiscfimination is wrong no matter *who it’s directed against," said Todd Simmons of the task force. "No one deserves to lose their job because of their sexual orientation, particularly when it has absolutely no relevance to the job they’ve been hired to perfOrm." Buttino-FBI Settlement SAN FRANCISCO - A federal court judge has’~approved a $205,000settlement between the Federal-Bureau of Investigation and gay former agent Frank Buttino,’who charged in a yearslong lawsuit against the federal crime agency that his dismissal in 1989 after 20 years of service was discriminatory. Th_e agreement was approved by U.S. District Judge Saundra Brown Armstrong and requires the FBI to pay Buttino’s attorneys $53,000 in legal fees involved in any discrimination within, the lenging its constit,utionality iS:" agenc~y based on sexual orienta’pending, but the AHA council tion, and. agree to hire Dana decided to move its 1995 conTillson, a 32-year-old San Franvention- until the referendum is cisco private investigator whose declared unconstitutional. Catholics Blast ,Bishops application had been rejected because she is a lesbian. CHICAGO - Three Catholic groups have taken the U.S. Adobe Offers Benefits Catholic Conference of Bishtps MOUNTAIN VIEW, Calif. The gay newspaper OutNowt. in to task for its opposition to federally-spons.ored television and San Jose, Calif, reports thatcom~ radio public service announceputermanufa~turer Adobe Sysments promoting condom use~tems of Mtn. View is the.latest high~techfirm :to extend comLeaders of the National Coalipany- benefits to-the domestic tion of AmericanNuns, Catholic -Advocates for Lesbian and Gay parmers of its workers. The new Rights and Chicago Catholi~ benefits program went into efWomen joined-with AIDS edufect at Adobe on Jan. 1 and is cators in scolding the bishops, available to both same-sex and who earlier in January denounced .opp0site-sex coupleS. as "immoral and murderous" the Historians Cancel ’95 just-announcedTV andmdio ads Convention in Cincinnati encouraging the use of condoms SAN- FRANCISCO -- The to prevent the spread of HIV country’s foremost historical orinfection among sexually active ganization - the American Hisyounger Americans. todcal Association- has formally Carolina Anti-Gay Bills canceled its planned 1995 anCOLUMBIA, S.C. - The South nual convention in Cincinnati, Carolina House ha~ overwhelmaccusing thatcity of denying lesbiansand gay men equal protec- - ingly approved legislation that wouldbargayS and lesbians from tion under the law. The AHA’s serving in the state National governing council voted to move Guard; adopting children or actits January 1995 meeting to Chiing as foster parents; The mea~ cago or New York because votsures, some Of the most restricers in Cincinnati in November tive in years, were prompted by approved an amendment to the several high-profile chiM-cuscity charter barfing :civil rights tody cases involving lesbians and eProtections based on sexual origay men around the country as ntafi0n. A federal court has well.aS by :the national debate blocked enforcement of the anti- Chiola, running for :the Cook County, IlL, Circuit C0urt; Victoria Sigler, running for the Dade County; Fla., Court; and Ken Wolf, who is running for a seat on the Ft. Lauderdale, Fla., City Commission. Gay-Marriage in Hawaii HONO~UI2U~-~When the HawaiiLegislature reconvenes this monthfor its49.94 session, one of the measures that will come before the .lawmakers will be a proposed bill offered by conservatives that wouldexplicitly pro~ hibit same-sex marriages. The state Supreme Court ruled more than a year ago that~ same-sex couples may not be denied marriage licenses unless the state can- prove a compelling state interest in pr0hibitingthem from getting married. A lower court is still reconsidering the case under the high court’s guidelines of stricter scrutiny, and many activists believe the earlier Supreme Court ruling set the stage for Hawaii to become the first state to lega!ly recognize, gay and lesbian marrla~ges. Arizona Ant,-Gay Bill PHOENIX, Ariz~ - A proposed state constitutional amendment that would ban legislation protecting gays and lesbians against discrimination has been introduced by Rep:Rusty Bowers, a conservative Mesa Republican, in the Arizona legislature and cialist, Steven Reichert as Net.work Coordinator, and Mickey Wheatley asChi~fFinance Officer. GLA Chapters quickly began forming as the founding membership returned to their home towns, and the first group of local GLA chapters will be formally announced around the countryonValentine~s:Day,Feb. 14, at.a-multiple-city nears conference that :is being called "Queers Across ,,America:".o Bringing some unexpected muscle to GLA were Bob Paris, former Mr: America and Mr. Universe, who in 1989 shook up the professional bodybuilding word by coming out and ex.changing marriage, vows with his husband and fellow physique model.Rod Jackson. The Olympia, Wash., couple-became the first non-founding members to join GLA following the official formation of the groupin midJanuary... For information about joining Gay & Lesbian Americans, contact the organization at: P O Box 77533, Washington, D.C. 200137533 or phone (202) 546-4124 or the organization’s toll-free line at 800-889-5111 or, for hightech types, contact them through their Intemet e-mail address: glajoin@queernet.org for membershi_p details. ~upport For Activists ST. LOUIS.- A group of gay and lesbian mental health workers in lastyear overending thePenta- ~ senttotheH0useJudiciaryCom~ his court battle~.pledge to stop gaymeasurewhilealawsuitchal~ mittee:.~Bowers Said heintroSt.Louishasf0rmedCPR(Coun~ gon ban~ ¯ ¯ ,......... ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ~¯.= ¯ ¯¯o=¯ ; An;t[,Gay~AdOption~,~:Bill~--:~ duced0theand÷gayl~gislafion~be-~ :,: se!ing ..~=.ofessio0,..M.-:.R~sou[~es) .... ¯ ¯ ¯=¯¯ =¯ =.:=¯ ¯ =.¯ ¯: ¯ ¯.-.¯.... ~:,i-.~ ,~..~i;-, ~.~., ~-: ,--.-~’~-~ ~i", ~.~:~i÷~OL~MPi~sli~::’~ti~e~h’:;::",:~-"cau~e~of~gay~ghts:4aws.:Passed ~.~---to provide CO~,Bsdan.g:;.~and~.u.P7 "- ingtonLegi~lfiture:will con~idtr’~ in Phoeni.xandTueson that.out- ¯ port services"tbt acuv~sts who aprop0se~-bill this-session that -.. ~ law_anti:gay .bias. The Arizona are experiencing the same. sort ¯ : 1: HI !.1 IV IO~,.LI ~:~d~’: :.tJ~ .... , ¯ ¯ ’ " : woul~i make it illegal to pla~e a Traditional Values. Coalition . of post traumatic stress disor.~.~-" d ¯ ¯ foster child in a household vcith began gathering signatures for a ders soldiers experience during ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " ¯ ¯ "¯ 11 th & Mingo, 838-7626 Open esday" Saturday atSam. ~ " Call for Appointments ~ Walk-ins Also Welcome. ¯ = Parklane BUilding Secure Midtown/Riverside-Area One Bedroom Apartments Skyline views available, - $315, bills paid. 58%4640 Ken’s Flowers ~ 1635 E. 15th Street, 599-8070 Serving Tuisa’s Lesbian & Gay Communities With Pride - Look for our Rainbow Flag Tulsa Family News,.February 1994 -March 1994, page 4 ¯ ¯ ¯ similar statewide anti-gay initiative in .December. posed legislation was prompted- S~x Classes Evaluated WASHINGTON - Classes on by the case of Megan Lucas; a sexuality andAIDS are offered . 22-year-old woman who.is fighting toregain custody of her~3- in some 93% of all U.S. public high schools, and the mosteffecyear-old son whom she had abanrive courses combine informadoned in 1990. Lucas started her tion on., abstinence along with the importance of using condoms of the boy after learning he had and other contraception, accord: beenplaced in the foster_.care of ing to .sex researcher Douglas Louis and Ross L0pton, 2 gay Kirby..in a report sponsored by men, who are seeking to adopt the Kaiser Family Foundation. the boy as their son. Washington The research indicated that, conis one of 6 states that permit trary-to opponents of sex ed same-sex couples to adopt chilclasses, the Courses neither has- " dren. ten the start nor increase the freLesbian/Gay Candidates quency of sexual intercourse WASHINGTON-. The Gay & among teens. Nor do the sex ed Lesbian Victory Fund, theWashclasses increase the number of ington-based network of politisexual-partners. cal campaign donors, has enGay & ¯Lesbian Americans. dorsed 6 more gay and lesbian WASHINGTON - Activists candidates .in upcoming 1994 from around the country gathraces. They include: Tony Miller, ered in the natiOn’,s capital over who isrunning for statewide of. fice as Califoruia’s Secretary of the Jan215-17 weekend to launch Gay and LeSbian Americans, a State; Will Fitzpatrick, running "diverse, n0~partisan coalition for a seat in the Rhode Island ofgrassrootsadvocates commit, Senate; George Eighmey, runted to civil rights for gay, lesning for a seat_in .the Oregon House- of Representatives; John " " bian, bisexual and transgender people" in this countryJ Elected. . Duran, running for a seat in the California Assembly; Susan as interim Officers in the new a homosexual, bisexmil, transsexual or transvestite. The pro- group while it builds memberLeal,. runningfor a: seat onthe -San Francisco Board of Super-- ship, creates :local chapters arohnd(he Countryand firths up visors.; and Barb Jones, who,iS running for a seaton the Tempei " it~~ structure were Kim Edwards Ariz,, City Council. The Victory . as Outr:.~k~Direetor, JonCarl Fund had earlier endorsed Tom ¯ Lewis as Communications Spe- battle: "We want to offer services that could address needs before they escalate and overwhelm individuals:There’s so much emotional fallout, and for .an issue like this, where it really is our life or death, we’ve seen a r_ea t buildup." ime tO.Try Gay Meg? NEW YORK.- Time Warner Inc. says that it is tentatively considering publishing a magazine targeted to gay and lesbian readers, although the publishing giant declined to give any details of the possible magazine. Time spokesman Peter Costiglio said "It’s at a very preliminary, early stage. There’s no timetable yet~" Nor would Costiglio discuss what sort of magazine Time might launch in a market where no lesbian/gay periodical has yet broken the 100,000 paid circulation barrier. ’Out There I1’ Comedy HOLLYWOOD - Tickled that "Out There,’~ Comedy Central’s first gay and lesbian comedy special, doubled its prime time ratings, the cable network has announced plans for "Out There IL" which will be taped before a live audience in Manhattan during the Gay Games IV (June 1825), Gay Pride Weekend (June 24-26) and Stonewall 25-celebrati0n in New York. The program will be aired later in the summer. ~ �Williams from page 6 ignorance". He feels there has been devastation because of ignorance. He wants to make knowledge available to all, but respects the rights ofparents who would object. He feels that parents should have a right to veto in terms of their own children, but that "it’s appropriate thateducation should be available" and accessible to those who want it. He thinks that 16 is an appropriate age to make education available. Williams does not feel that education will encourage kids to become more sexually active, but allow them to make better decisions about their activity and its consequences. "The kid’s going to do what they want to do, and when kids make decisions, they don’t make them based on consequences for the most part. But I hope that they can make better decisions when they make them, because they understand how to make ,..discrimination is wrong. If we don’t put some kind of protections to say that we’re not going to let you take away [rights].. ,then we’ve really taken .the wrong p0sitionr~ .Marler ¯ from page 1 Suzanne is running for City Council because she believes that it is possible to make changes, and to honestly represent all of the people, in the city of Tulsa. She believes that her opponent, James Hogue, has not done that. Suzanne’s goal is to make decisions for the city of Tulsa that make sense. As far as Suzanne Marler is concerned, equal rights make sense and it"Is apriority to be able to guarantee equal rights and equal representation to every citizen in Tulsa." Suzanne believes that discrimination is a problem in Tulsa, and it is necessary to add’ sexual orientation’ to the non-discriminationpolicies ofthecity."When there is such obvious injustice taking place, it.’s time we take appropriate action to make sure that it stops. That’s what government should be about." Williams, continued thought heshouldn’t have backed off [the ending of the Military ban on Gays in the armed services]. Are we now doing to decide that certain people can’t be executives, now certain people can’t be school administrators? It goes on and on, and it comes out to one reason; but no one discusses performance:They!re discussing everything but-that." WHAT GAY AND LESBIAN ISSUES? by Kharma Anos Darla Hall, incumbent City Council member from District 2, won the Democratic Party primary. She will-face Republican Gary Moore in the March first election. When asked for an interview, Councilor Hall said that trying to run her business, City Hall, and a campaign left her little time to talk with people. However, she was able to spare a few minutes by phone. After her initial question of "What (do Gay issues) have to do with the City Council? ", Darla answered questions about what she would do to combat the problem of discrimination based on sexual orientation .That is a "very difficult" issue to address, Darla said. She is aware that Tulsa has a large Gay, Lesbihn, and BiSexual population, but feels that adding "sexual orientation" to the nob-discriminatory policy of the city "would be like passing a law to protect you if you’re Catholic." (Editor’s note: existing law protects on all statuse~ except for sexual orientation.) Darla says that before she would voteeither for or against a measurethatw0uldprotectGays,, she would have to thoroughly research the issue. "Right now, my cup runneth over...I am. so busy that I only have time to think about the [current]issues." Gilbert from page 1 TFN: We understand thecommission may not act, but will instead ask the state to do so. Is that yourunderstanding? DG: We haven’t heard anything about it yet, and I don’t know how other council members feel, or will act. TFN: Are you aware that there are no current protections for gays and lesbians, even under the E.E.O.C.? (fair empl. laws) DG:I haven’t spent any time studying this issue. In fact, I’ve never been contacted by gays and lesbians before. TFN: Should there be any protections, .even for employment? DG: People have predujices. There should be education. Prejudice is a problem. This is a moral value for a lot of people. We need to be more tolerable (sic) and treat them as ciuzens, regardless of their preference. In my office, every citizen has the same voice. TFN: Mayor Savage will address a gay and lesbian group on March 24th at the Tulsa Metropolitan Community Church. On that date, the mayor will be asked to issue an executive order -to protect gay andlesbian city employees and contract workers. What is your comment? DG:.I’msurethatwhoeverthe Mayor is [following the election] should act their conscience, Tales from page 1 "’Tales" as "’featuring raunchy language, fronta! nudity, samesex kissing and drug use - all in a positive light. But Congress will be back soon, and PBS inevitably will come in for legitimateattack." Even before the 6hour "Tales" hit the airwaves, however, Robert H. Knight of the anti-gay Family .Research Council attacked the series at hearings held by the Corporation for Public Broadcasting on Jan. 12, calling the TV version Of Armistead Maupin’s hit book "a slick piece of gay propaganda" _and objecting to what he said was "taxpayers [being] hit up to pay for a national propaganda exercise glorifying homosexual promiscuity." Gilbert. continued and rightfully so. C i t i z e n s sho.uld be treated equally, regardless of their lifestyle outside the job. TFN: If there was a petition drive in your district, and thousands, of signatures supported protection, how .would you act? DG: I would act the same way as I did about the half-penny sales tax. If there were enough s~gnatures, I would at least consider it. The council wants to protect the rights of all citizens of Tulsa. ~ ~ ~ ~:. ;. ~HIV’TESTINGC.LINIC~ rant that ¯ about HIV. Teenagers~ he said, need to make informed decisions based on knowledge and understanding of the consequences. "I think knowledge is power,i think knowledge is freedom, I think knowledge leads to understanding", Mr. Williams states. Logic needs be be present on both sides of an issue. "If I close my mind, I really don’thave any understanding at all. If you really want to make good decisions, even if you don’t agree with all the other sides that you hear, I think part of being a good leader is to get as much information as possible, as many diverse opinions as you can, and if nothing else, I think it makes you a better person, and hopefully makes you a better leader too. Mr. Williams thinks that if the Mayor has an opportunity to issue a declaration banning dis- crimination on the basis ofsexual orientation, then "She should do that. There’s people who could be excellent employees, and all ot a sudden someone firids out ten years later, that so-and-so’s Gay. And then they make a decision they can treat them different, andrun them out and all that. " Has nothing to do with their job performance...The people that work for me, I don’t hire them because I want them to agree with my political views, or my religious views, or this and that. I hire them because of their per.formance..With Clinton, I ’ - ~,: : :. EV~E;RY "~HUR~iEVENIN~"~: 7!~8~:130 PM sponsored by TOHR, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Yes, you are seeing double! Tu.lsa’s only Gay Gift Store -now has 2 locations! Finger Stick Method Daytime Testing, Tuesday and Thursday, by Appointment Call 749-4194 By & for but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities YOU ARE NOT ALONE For more information about a Tulsa based support/education group for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual or questioning youth, 15-20 years old, call 587-1300 Tulsa Family News,.February 1994.~ March 1994, page 7 �and say weare all put here on traditional education- math-" and say this person’s Gay, and TN:I think the thing that conearth to do the best we can to live ematics, reading, whatever. But this person’s not Gay...When I cerns both young and adult Lestogether, and work together in once we get to. ithe junior and taught Pythagorus’ Thb, orem, I bian and Gay-people, is that. an from page 1 harmony...You’ll have to excuse senior.high level, the curricula didn’t see any difference in teachapproach that says, "Oh we’re cope and live with, respect one me, I’mnot a student of a lot~of expands, and in Tulsa, from my ing any child the same theorem. included in [with:out being menanother’s opinioris. I don’t sepathis discrimination that goes on recollection of being in Schools I’m just ignorant to some of the tioned specificaHly]’, in effect rate people out as Gays/Lesbi-in our country...I don’ t care what: here, you4eal with human sexuthings you’re saying about speoften renders us invisible and ans, especially as an educator; you are, we create an environality at some point. Now, human cial kind of ’lesson, or .Special doesn’t really address our issues. I’m the Superintendent for all ment for children to learn. I’m sexuality, when it’s approached way, or special kind of approach Lesbians and Gay men have a k~ds, black, white! and all kinds sorry, I can’t say anymore about exclusively from a heterosexual that Gay people and LeSbians culture; have history..¥ou don’t of things. But when you see a that. I don’t like to talk about our context ’where it presumes that have to be... I don’t understand learn about the different people certain kind of group being d!signorance. You have given me a everybody is heterosexual, is not that. I just think that all children who contributed who also were crimin..ated against; you must ~ntopic that I~ hadn’ t -given a~lot of going to serve Lesbian and Gay :are children, they have a brain, sure, or try to make sure, tha.t..that Gay, I mean, you learn about thought to, and I think I deserve ¯ kids; because it doesn’t even d~n’t happe~ and.try t6 make ’ ’em, but ~omehow nobody ev.er an opportunity to think about it. ’.~ speak to their reality~ And you’ re gets around to mentioning me surethfit ~y a~e ffi~ienan equal YOU haveraised some questions right abOut visibility, Gay-and When a child’s in factthat, Oh,bytheway.2 .Its opportumty as well as the other that is something that we need to Lesbian: people are not always a kindof way of ripping off our students. That’s ~;here I Come Tulsa public schools; consider .and think about. visible on sight, butChristians role models from our culture. from, I just want all kids to have I plan to put together some we i~dI gonna work aren’t, and Jews aren’ t, and there Our readers are very concerned this opportunity:i advisory panels, to includeare cultural differences there and with that child,, reabout a problem of invisibility. TN: So; if I understand you people from all walks of life. My people respect those cultural difI would think that that is setproperly, then certainly if it gardless of any diffirst six months on the job will be ferences. Do you see where l’m ting out inclusion for all people, comes to your atte’n.tion that Lesdoing a lot of listening and obcoming from? ferences, and when including specifically Lesbians bian and Gay 3~oung adults are serving. I really want to make JT: Yeah, I understand where andGay men. I think that would we employ people in experiencing discrimination, eisure I’m in tune with what’s goyou’re coming from; I just have be part of the role of a Superinther from faculty, staff, or from ing on in that particular school that school district. to be very honest with you,-I am tendent;.to say everybody is inother students, then you would district. You have raised some not coming in to discriminate we expect to be cluded here, especiall3i since institute steps to address those questions that probably I haven’t against any child. When a child" s Lesbians and Gay menhave chilproblems? representative of given a great deal of thought to, in Tulsa public schools, we’re dren and pay taxes. JT: I think it’d be up to the because in some places-that’s gonna work with that child, rethe culture... ~ JT: To be~very candid with you, individual schools, as superinnot the issue. Gays and Lesbians gardless of any differences, and I’m ignorant to the point of betendent, I can’t do it from my have been in all cultures, but when we employ people in that ing able to walk into a building~ office, and we’re getting into they’ ve been in the closet. You’ re_ school district, we expect to be they have a mind, they function, and identify a Gay person vs. the site-based decision making. I telling me in Tulsa that those representative of the culture that -and what we try to do is educate, one that’s not Gay, or Lesbian think that leaders at the schools people are no longer willing to we are. about. So I have some is reach those children through vs. one that’s nota Lesbian...l need tO b6-aware of those kindS do that and want to come out and real serious problems with sepathemostappropriate way,f dealknow a lot of people.2I’ve s~en of situations. And I would hold speak for their rights and privirating .people out. This Country ing with their, needs: -I m just a lot of people come out of-the administrators and teachers achas labeled so many people over ~ " leges as all otherAmerican citiha~ing some problems right closeLas they usedto.say, and .......... countable for educating all kids, zens, and I’m telling you. that the years; we-have more labelshave-thoseoutwardappearances -: now..; and 1 repeat, you know, educat=we’re gonna educate our chilfor our children than any other you can identify. But there’s so TN: Let me give .you a speing all kids, and Fm not saying dren, I’m a kid’s person; and I advanced culture in the world, many other people who are. not- -t cific, then. If we}re talking about just Gays & ISesbians. I’m talklove all kids. Let me putit to you.. I Ym just so tired of heatingthem, [identifiable], and you just canr t elementary, then we may be dealing poor kids, rich kids, white like that. I just want toput all that aside, walk into any particul~, culture. ingwith exclusiv.ely i_ssues of kids, educating all kids ...... John Thompson Gay, Lesbian-& Bi-sexual Friendly. People of Color are especially encouraged to apply. Applications accepted until 4pm on Feb. 24th. Please call Roger Morrig, 749-4194 Attorney at.Law Estate Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury Criminal Law, Bankruptcy, Workers compensation ~ ~ lnitia!~consultation at no,charge, Expert. leaning/Pre sing, " 1-800-742 9468, or 91.8,352-9504 . . Alterations & Drapery Cleaning 4951 So. Peori~i~ (across from the Camelot) 743-5967 Monday-Friday 7-6, Saturday 9-2 Same,day dry cleaning service on_ request.. Tulsa Family News, February 1994 - March 1994,page 8 ~ 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are .available.: Know Your_. Rightst - �Health Briefs Health Briefs. Health BriefsHealth Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Firing Costs Law Firm ~ gramsforAmedcans0~ierS0a~:. " tions since the previous report in badly: needed=While"they set-to NEwYORK - .In a case with striking, similarities, to the just-to think they wi!l no~be, in_fected releasedmotion picture Philaby AIDS, .people over~:age 50 delphia; a New,York law :firm = haVe,consistenfly?acc0unt~d for ’that fired an AIDS qnfected law10% Of AIDS 6ases, with the toll yerhasbeenorderedt0paymOre now at more than 33,000: . than: $5 ,00,000 - to= the deceased ’ N-ee d I.e -Sw alp: s attorney s estate by the state Di-, ¯ DOil’t Add Ad diets Impo~t;-new. visi0nof~HuinanRights; iBaker . CHICAGO & McKenzie said it-would ap- .. evidence¯ backs-.up claims, that, peal ’the decisi0n~ maintaining needle-’exchange.~ programs ihatit.was;unaware ofGeoffrey aimed at preventing ~:IDS Bower.’scondition when he wa’s- among drug users can?~li’amatifired in 1986. The firm contends callycurb high-risk needle:sharthat Bower was released, from ing by IV. drugu,sers ~ without his-employment because of his attracting newdrug abusers, acjobperformance. Bowers never cotdingto-two reports published told anyone at the-law-firm that in the Jan~ I2issue of the Jourhe was gayor that he.had AIDS, nal of the American. Medical but doctors testified that he had Association~ A five-year redisfiguring lesions on his faceas search project by the University a result of Kaposi’s Sarcoma. of Califomia at San Francisco 9 Cities Eligible for Fu nds found that about 3% of the IV ST. LOUIS ~-By exceeding the drug injectors w_ho exchanged grim benchmark of 2,000 AIDS needles in 1988 were new drug ¯ users, but that.by 1.993 that figcases, St. Louis is the latest of 9 U.S :cities to become eligible for ure. had.dropped to barely 1%. federal grauts to help care for its According to theUCSFresearchAIDS patients. TheDepartment ers, the study indicates such of Health and Human Services needle programs do not contribawarded nearly $1~2 million to ute to increased IV drug abuse. the city to help¯pay the cost Of ¯ Another research effort, at New out-patient services, meals, York’s Beth Israel Medical Cenmedication~ counseling andother ter, also founda dramatic shiftin services to residents with HIV/ the use of shared needlesamong AIDS. The agency awarded a IV drug users, in 1984, theNew York researchers found 51 pertotal of $t59.9 million in grants to 34 metropolitan areas which centof the July: Federal Funds for ¯ ¯ NeedleProgram.s WASHINGTON TheClinton administration is studying whether or not itshould put-federal..funding~ into needle exchange.programs around the country in-an effort to slow the spread.of HI.V among iV drug users, White HOUse AIDS advisor Kri~stineGebbie told repo~ers. The~earemorethan 3 dozen needle-swap programs ~in_. U.S. cities;.m0st of them technically illegal and poorly funded through volunteer efforts.. Federal regulations block the government from funding such needle-exchange programs without scientific evidence that IV~needle exchanges actually slow trans- Editorial in the Baltimore mission of the virus without inSun ~bout the government’s creasing drug use. Late !ast year,. researchers published the most AIDS :awareness radio and.TV comprehensive study to date on S~.l~,~. ~" needleexchangesandc0ncIuded ~ ~ =The Clinton administration deserves credit for prying the lid that the. needle-swap programs offof what previoUSadrriinistrado in fact block transmissionand tionsmisto6kforacanofworms. don’t ~addnew addictsto the The fear that public service ads nation’s population. That .research, Gebbie said, piompted . might promote promiscuity¯ - a federal health.offiCials t0begin ¯ cause that.seems to thi~ive with reevaluating federal fundi~ng for " or wi~i~’u?prom~otion- .kept’!he the programs. Q u o t e --U n q u o te ingiife~s~ixqng infoima~:oirffiih young people who needlessly "No one expects publi~ serwere risking their lives. There vice announcements to .stem the were no worms inthat can, ~3nly tide of AIDS. But at least¯ the vital, life-saving information. Clinton administration is getting Condoms do reduce risk. Intbraggressive about spreading what mation about staying healthy we do know to be true: Using a promotes health." condom dramatically reduces the Edi~torial in the Miami Ile~chances of contracting the AIDS . aM about AIDS info. spots. VIYUS." SALOON ¯ vet; ; drawing, dancing &fun! " :. ~ ~peop!e;.seem to be.getting the - . jecting it. ~ ’" messageaboutAIDSprevention, New AIDS Ads in .N~ ~W YORK -~Th~Gay Men s older Americans are largely ignoting, safeguards against the ¯. Health CrisiSha~ mounted a new disease~ a riew¯ medical survey s~bway AIDS preventiOn ad Concludes.. To find out what ’ campaign in Manhattan~targe~older~Am~ricans ~aredoing to ~:in~--’youngerh0m0sexualsand protect .themselves¯ against bisexuals: Tlie ads feature gay, AIDS, Dr. Ron Stall.and Dr. Joe lesbian, and heterosexual ¢ouples Catania oftheUni~ei’~ity ofCali: kissing 0r embmcffig while ho!ding ~ontlomsand Other protec- ’ fomia atSan Francisco .studied more than 3~000 interviews-of tire de,rices. Official~-fro:m people over the age of 50 taken GMHC, the largest AIDS ser~ .from large national surveys, vice organization in the country, Some 10% 6f therespondents say the ads are more explicit reported having multiple sex than whatthey have produced in pai,tners or a bl~5odtralisfusi0h " the pastfor the general public in the 1980’s before AIDS spokespersonforthecity’shealth screening was widely available, department said the ads were no Despite these risk factors, the more explicit than those used by researchers say, older Ameri~s Calvin Klein and other adverti~, ers to p~0mote their products:.. were 6 times less likely to~Use co0doms and5 tim~s:~less likely AIDS Has. Hit 3,000,00.0 to undergO AIDS testing thah’. .Ii~GENEVA ~ Since AIDSwa~ younger people with simile,riSk- ~;!-. firstidentifiedm0re than 13 years factors. Smllpointsoutthat, f0r-.~; ago; aft estimated 3 million olderAmericans, there have been - ~ p~ple:worldwide-have develbpedl!ae full-i~lown disease, acno public health warnings, :"When have you ever seen an cording to the World Health OrAIDS poster with a wrinkled ganizarion;Inatwice-yearly re face?" he asks. Also,. adds Dr. port,, the UN agency al~so, said Mitchell Feldman, an assistant that some¯14million adult~ andl professor of medicine at UCSF, million !children ha~e been indoctors tend to ignore AIDS risk fectedwithHIV, the~,irus.that is " believed to cause AIDS..~ The factors, in older patients. ,!’They assume older pe~le don thave estimateSwere:-farhigher ith~ ~ sex and arern0t at risk," he says. pi’eviously repo.rted.~ s~tistiCs. "But :not only arethey ha~,ing ~l’hey repiesent a j ump 6f ahalf-. sex, theyare not-lakingprecanmillion~in AIDS cd:ses,.~.-an’d.~a .... tions." He says education proleap of 1 million in HIV infec- February 27, Sunday Showcase Miss Gay Tulsa ~9~1, Bobby Sue So.mmers Ashlev Mikkels, Rebecca Hunter with Host Kris Kohl February 27, 6pm, OGRA,Tulsa Organizational meeting for Tulsa Chapter of Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association - March Events March 12iI OGRA Fundraiser :March 13, MDA Fundraiser March 27, Sunday Showcase withKris K0hl¯¯. -Hours: Tuesi-Thurs. 4,2, Fri, & Sat. 7-2, Sun. 4-2 " ......... ~ ~ ~...... ¯ - TulsaFamily News, February 1994 - March 1994, page 9 �T H E Y A G L Mardi Gras I, E S T Y L E 94 For Shanti-Tulsa American Theatre Co. BREAKING LEGS Mar. 18-26 596-7111 Broken Arrow Community Playhouse WAIT UNTIL DARK Feb. 11-20 258-0077 Clark To be announced. 596-711 t Heller Theatre SHERRY’S TURN NO EXIT Feb. 17-20 Mar. 10-13 746-5065 Sapulpa Community Theatre RHONDA "PEACHES" LOVELACE’S ONE WOMAN SHOW Feb. 18-20 227-2169 Spotlight Theatre THE DRUNKARD 587-5030 Theatre PODS OUR TOWN Ongoing FEB. 25-.27, MAR. 3-6 Theatre TulsaCHARLEY’S AUNT LIFE WITH .FATHER Feb, 19-27 Mar:ll-20 Tulsa BalletTheatre To beannounced. 596-7111 TulsaOpe_ra RIGOLETI’O The Mardi Gras tradition is being brought to life by SHANTI-Tulsa, with all proceeds going to this AIDS-support agency.. Mardis Gins 9 ~vill be held in the rejuvenated Brady District at Brady Street Studios,20 E. Brady. Street; on Saturday, February 19, from 8:00 p.m. until midnight. There will be dancing costumes, and cocktails, as well as raffles:The raffles will be ongoing, and local merchants and friends of SHANT!-Tulsa have donated many wonderful items to be given as prizes. Start now on your costumes, mark your calendars, and plan on enjoying this Mardi Gras ball with your friends. Tickets are still S10.00 each, Patrons $25.00 each, and raffle tickets are S1.00 each. For more information, call SHANTI-Tulsa- at 918-749, 7898. SHANTI-Tulsa was established in 1986 as a non-profit organization for HIV+ persons, persons living with AIDS, their families and loved ones. Througha network of volunteers, SHANTI-Tulsa provides AIDS information, support groups, buddy programs, social activi¯ ies, and a food pantry. 596-7111 596-7111 Feb, 26, Mar. 3-8596-7111 Bobbie Sue S,ommers A NEW QU.EEN REIGNS.! .-~ ¯¯ , ¯ :¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 0 . ¯ ¯ oo ¯ " ~ " ’~~~ :~ ;"~ ~%:Le~bianiGaylBil THEATRETULSA : Transgendered . " Presents ~..Organizing Meeting ¯ S~t..Feb. 26,11am ~ - Life yith F at ,er :"" Snlver Star: ,Saloon., March: II 20, call 587.8402 ¯ 1565 ~ Into: O’O O O lilt I O ¯ OO0 VICTOR BORGE Celebrate his 85th Birthday Tour! by Kris Kohl Bobbie Sue Sommers is now Miss Gay Tulsa 1994, having won the pageant held at the Silver Star. Kris Kohl stated that this year’s competition.brought in a standing room only crowd-, and was most successful in terms of raisingmoney for its cause, the AIDS fund of Tulsa MCC. Kris is ~ery proi~d of the people and. businesses that supported the pageant and donated flowers, ads, time, space, and prizes. The winner of Miss Gay Tulsa, Bobbie Sue Sommers, added a special thank you to her Sponsors, including the Silver Star Saloon, Paradise, Deep Elm, and Tomfoolery. She says,"As your Miss gay Tulsa, I fully plan to represent the title tO the best of my ability; and proudly take it to Miss Ga~ ’Oklahoma." Runners-up were Ashley Mikkels and Rebecca Hunter, HelenHolliday took home an award for Community Service; and Bobbie Sue also scored in the Beauty, Artistry, and-Sportswear categories. Pat Wilson, AKA "Sluticia", won for Male Interview. " " Kris Kohl extends a warm thank you toall ten contestants: Bobbie Sue Sommers, Anita Mann~ Ivana B. Real,Constance.Monroe~Jd. Gentry; Sensuous, RebecCa Hunter, St~phanie Ross; Sluticia swamppussy, and Ashley Nikkels; and to all who made the event posSible; . Monroe Replaces Scott a:s Miss Gay Tulsa-Metroplex by DaM Pa~i " Constance Monroehas .been. named "Miss Gay- Tulsa Metroplex" for the remainder of 1994. This results from Fall0n.S~ott’s being chosen as th~ current:reigning ’"Miss Gay Oklahoma, US A". A~,Miss ~alloh Sd0tt ~ obligationsid that tide w6uld supersede:that of ,Miss " Gay Tulsa M~trop[~’i’, Central Pageant’s bo~d of governors have :agreed that tliis iiction be taken, Moriroe will represent Central Pageants, inc. at-the ~’MissGay Oklahoma America" pageaht this ¯ y~r, al0ngwithAnita Richards an,.,,d, JJ. Gentry:CentralPageantsalso announces the crowning of anew Mis~ Gree~i country of Oklahoma ’94" later this..spring. This pageant will be open to. all female impersonators, (Eduo s note: Central Pageam accompanied their press release with copies _of legal documents establishing the corporation.) Thursday, March 17 8 p.m. Chapman Music Hall Tulsa Performing Arts Center ~Tickets: $1.5, $20, $25, $35 Call. 596-7111 Tickets by Phone, Tulsa Family News, February 19-94 - March 1994, page 10 2630 East 15th, Tulsa, 749-1563 .Dart Tournament,. Tuesdays, 8 pm Pool Tournament, Fridays, 7:30 .Every. Friday’at 1.0:30, SHOW! �T .H GI_ A-,,-.Y E LIVING ARTS OF TULSA 1994 CALENDAR Pathology of Symbols by Osage/Pawnee painter ~Norman Ak~rs, .-: Vid~.o:b~!ghdi~iraphers UyTM~a~ Ey~photographers. Photographs Th~T~lsaPhoto Collective. February 19~20. Two Tuesdays Performance art FebrUary 22. Process in Clay by Jorge Ortega February 28-April 3. Reception For Ortega and Harris, March 10, TULSA LIBRARY. CALENDAR March 1: . Lecture ~ Wildflowers of-Oklahoma, 1:30, Bixby Library March 1~3 ~5 8,i0,12 Noontime:B0ok Fair~ 2p.m., Centr~fLibrary March 2: . : . Treasures oftheGilcrease, lp;m., Hardesty S0uth-Regional March5,12: Poets in Person;~! 0a.m.o 12p.m., Central Library. March 7,14: Books Sandwiched In, 12:1012:50 p.m., Central Library March 9: Cowboys. lp.m., Hardesty South Regional Library March 10: ADULT BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP, Hardesty South Regional Library STANDING. TOGETHER New Support Group Family of Faith Metropolitan . Responding to the need for Community Church invites you peer support, counseling, and toa workshop, "Homosexuality social and informationalneeds of and the Bible"., Sunday, Feb. 20. This workshop will begin at ap: ;.~.couples living with HIV, a new proximately lpm (after services) " Ug~oup is forming,.called"Standing Together". Meetings are faat 500 W. ’A’ Street in Jenks. Cilitated by William and Jeff, This is the 1st ina series. Othboth train~ counselors. Tfier~ is ers will be, "Sharing the Flame" no cost. Meetings :every Thurson Feb.. 27,and" The Blessing" day atT:00 p.m. Forlocation, on March 20. For more info: call call 743~2917. 298-4MCC (298-4622). Does God Hate Gays? L I F Y E L E ;dd cam round. UP IN-LIFE UNDERGOUND TODD CAMPS IT tinued his cartooning as a colfrontofhundredsofreaderswho "For me as a person, ’Life Underground’ Has been the best therapy a guy could ask for", said Todd Camp of his monthly comic strip now aPl~,,,aring in Tulsa Family News. I mean, your love life;.(or lack thereof), the frustrations ofbeing Gay in a straight world, and the great mystery we call dating; all: in have been there before?" He posted his firstcomic strip , , I,,t~ ~mu’r,, ~in~ t~ ~nf[ -I,’,k,f,;X~i’~,o~’~v~fflil - do it statew de r ght?" :- :1 ...... : " ’ : I ; rt ’’ " " " : 6~?a bulletin board in the hall: "wayofhis:high:scho01,andcon: lege student. He now works at a major Texas daily newspaper. He is out at work, as well as being out regionally, via "Life Underground". As.hesays,"If Ym°~.r~sg°~e~°gt~t°~’geu, Y ,, ; :" right? Well, hes out;.inat.least two States now,"thanks:tO+~ulsa ¯ FamilyNews.. -Gay.OWneddhdOperared " ii-: ’: . . : Thank.you Tulsa,: for " .support! 21st & 129 East Avenue (Next to Homeland) Phone 234-9007 $3 Beer Bust, Everyday 4-7, $1.50 Pitchers, 9 to midnight. Dart League, 8pro Paradise is looking for good players for 2 dart teams, call for info. Monday ~ Pool Tournament, 8pm. Tuesday ~ Wednesday - Bamboo Night with Singing/Dancing Star Gene Kernaghan. Music from the401s, 50’s & 60% Thursday - Ladies Night, with $1.25 Longnecks for the Ladies. Talent Search ’94. Looking for Male/Female Dancers, Singers, Comics~-Cal!...the Paradise. Male Dancers (Looking for Leather). Disco & Mixed music, 10pm. , ~ Friday Showcase with Mersades, and special guest Stephanie Cassidy. And Dancers too! Satuday AfterMarch 1st, Brunch,~.noon -2pm. Keyboards by Cool Breeze; Rita’s. Karaoke from 2-6pm~ Sunday Feb. 19Feb. 26 March 5 March 12- Stephanie Cassidy with Erika Grant,We~idy Storm, Mersades. Male & Female Dancers, Mike & Sidney. stephanie Cassidy withMersades, Fallon Scott,_ Stephanie Ross, & Male Dancers. T~ger Lily Night (1 st S at.). Tiger Lily with Stephanie Cassidy,_ Mersades, S tephanie Ross, & Lola! Hosts Mersades & Stephanie Cassidy, with Courtney, Michell Ross, & Dancer, Bobby! Open daily till.2am,~.Fpod served during all open hours: Major credit cards accepted. Tulsa Family News, February 1994 = March 1994, page 11 �1 MONEY! MONEY-! MONEY! Every Thursday & Sunday, $50 give-away Every Friday & .Saturday, $200 give,away Each night between 1 0 & 12! Beer BUst: Thursday & Sunday, all night $5 Friday & Saturday, 9-1 2 $3 Domestic Longnecks 50¢, 9-1 0 pm, $1, 1 0-11 everynight On Feb. 24, From Kansas City The SHOW ME Man -Dancer Doug Boyce Comi.ngMarch 20th First Class Male. Dance Revue Graphics by Tulsa Family News � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document [WORK IN PROGRESS]<br /><br />February <span>—</span>March 1994, Volume 1, Issue 3<br /><br />Several Tulsa citizens have aecuged the Tul~Poliee Dept. misconduct~ specifically; for men than for hetero-sexu¯ als; and also of c0mmitting<br />th~se aileged complaint’s ~re  nmh0fiOfed at press time When informed that citizens felt that officers were ~ilty of miscon TFN asked Ch: Palmer what ..... ....   sort of enforcement efforts were directed at heterosexual activity<br /><br />at aft open forum sponsored by Simply Equal/Tulsa and Tulsa F~ily News on Thurs<br />The Mayor ~ill be welcomed by the Reverend Alice J0nes, Robert Crow of Simply Equal and TOn{ Neal, publisher of Tulsa Family ,family&amp;friendsoftheTulsaLesbian/Gay/Bisexual are inVitdd to hear and to question our mayor.<br /><br />t....  i~fo~ed that .,iJ: with ~ ;hePrinide)~,iC&amp;hurch°fGreater <br /><br />Good News for Tulsa Council District Six<br />by Kharma Anos<br />In a candid interview with ~s  Tulsa Family News, Suzanne Marler~Republican candi&amp;ate :  by citi- in the: were zens arrested and by other ob- there an) o~the behavior ofTulsa ficers hanging out in the , male officers by .... to have parkUsers? Ch, Palmer w~ un, : Further, See Police ACcused, page 6 ~he 0ffiC: ........ district Six City Council, adlressed the problem ofdiscrimination againstGay, Lesbian, and Bisexual people in the city of Tulsa¯ Suzanne firmly believes that "Discrimination is wrong, no matter who the victim,,’ In fact, she says there could be no possible argument for its justification. When asked if that included discrimination on the basis of Sexual Orientation, Suzanne wasted no time in answering !’Absolutely!" .... See M~He~ p~ge 7 some my oft ’ery was made abe had his hand Superintendent agency agreed to investigate Schools; Here is what he had to TN: OK. Racism is not gone, ~ , ,,_~ ..... " say regarding Gay and Lesbian and we do a lot of work tO ia3’ to comfort with public sexuality, ~[~~’~~,~[~ issues in our schools: promote tolerance, totry toedusuggesting that he &amp; theofficer :imnressive Ratinr s TN: What we re interested in care people, to try to hopefully should go to an apartment or ..... r- ;" Pi3~ TV is how the public schools are change [heir hearts but obviotherprivate setting. The officer NEW YORK -- The o- " Gay &amp; Lesbian Civil Rights: ~, New Issue,With Dist:3R~~!~pnD~arrell Gilbiie~ri~t (Gii aS:t se ~ent. ~r the ~a~ ~d ~s2 bian community before the M~ch 1st generN election: Tulsa Fami[~ News: The city’s human rights commission is studying a possible civil rights ordin~ce to include protections for gays ~d lesbians. What are yo~ ~oughts? Gilbert: The Gay ~d Lesbi~ version of Armistead Mau’-in’s dealing with providing services ously }hose are issues that just has every right as an american said he had no place to go. The ,,,v.~.... ~ :...... T. to Lesbian and Gay students in have,n t gone away. Likewise, citizen. But I do not support mi- .a,,,~ ,~I me ~lty scorea lm citizen the,n pldced his fiand on . , . ? ... . - thepubli,c,schoolsystemln_o},her there stremendousprejudiceand nority status [for gays and the officers,, ~hi~t! and was,,ar- pr~es.s~vm.y ~n.the p.~mse~.n ratings places, ~multiculturalism is bigotry that LeSib~’an and! Gay lebians] because of my Chrisrested for sexual battery, a .o~ zv mIaJor metrop.om.a.n.mar- seen as including Gays and Les- people experiencel There are tian background. But you still felony crime not to exceed 5 l~et_s in this countl3,. ~T~!e~s got bians, inTulsa, I guOss it’s been school systems, particularly in wouldn’t treat them differently years in prison. Despite its mis- a 3-m"gnt avera~ge ot 4~. - or: defined more narrowly, having New York and Los Angeles that as a citizen. leadingname, Sexua~battery can some 4 million households. For to do with race exclusively.How have been trying to promote tel, See Gilbert, page 7 occur When the slightest ~buch comparison, the average rating i~isthatyouseemulticu}turalism, erance for all people, including _ _ . occursonany.partdf.the~dy, if for network TV shows in the I d like to know if you re famil- Lesbian and Gay people~ Ho~ Stepping Forward: thearrestingofficerbelievesihat same evening time period this iarwithareportthatwa~doneby doyouaddresstheissu~ofpreju- Candid Talk with there, is "le~vd &amp; l~scivious in- season was 2.3. "Tales" also Dr. Louis Sullivan under the dic~andtoleranceforGayI~o~le doe Williams tent. This citizen claims ihat turned in the 2nd highest ratings Bush administration. It studied within the educational system? by TomNeal&amp; James Christjohn any lewd and Iasci)iot~s intent of any PBS production this sea- te~n suicide and found that Les- How are we in terms of our edu- Late last year, TFN reporter was initiated by the police offi- son "i’li~ highest rated PBS pro- bian and Gay youth were at sig- cational system? Tom Neal ~poke with Joe W!Icer. duciion this season was "I’ll Fly nificantly higher risk of suicide JT: I haven’t re,a.lly looked at liams, who is running for tile This citizen claimed that in Away Then and l~l’ow" x~hich becanseofthediscriminationand that, and I haven t really been District 1 city Council seat. His court this omcer lied about hiS a.~ir; October . prejudice they experience. Ob- confronted with that issue in my opinions reflected a healthy reand the citizen’s conduct: The P~litical’Fallout vi0usly, Lesbian and Gay youth experience as an edUcator; all spect for diversity, and a strong officer told the court that the wa&lt;i.tlNGTOi~ writin- in are at risk for STD’s, in pa}ticu- students should be given an op- sense of fairness for all people. cm¯ -zen walked up to h~¯ m, began ...".~.",.a;....a o~a,-’--’n ~, ¯ ¯ " ’ " w run- M’-rton lar HIV mfecuon. All of these portumty, and that s what I will When asked wh.y he as , byaskingtheofficerifhewanted .,.a. s~,,...,~.,~,.~ ,.,,~.:,, , q.y ; areissuesthatthepublicschools focus on. We need to have cul- ning, herepliedthathehasfouna ¯ NonoracKe, execuuve ealtor el ..... . ¯ ,, " a blow ob and then grabbed ^ ~ . ~n Tulsa, on some level or an, tural awareness ~n the school thatffyou makeacomm~tment tiae ~ffic~r’s ~,enitals Ro!l Cal!; pred~cted,,that thee 0ih~r n~d to address Would systems. In order to do that, you to achieve certain things, indi- On Feb. 2,~hief ~on PaImer Clint°0ad~inistrati°n maY su!i;, like{0 fiiad~Ut~iiether’y0u think h~ve to have some experiences viduals can make a difference." stated that this sort of law en- fer,the political consequences so, too: ; that will allow that td happen, ’ "Any time a change takes place, forcement effol~ is not a high of the PBS network airing of iT" Well mY basic ohiloso- for all children and all pedple; I it will require people willing to priority, but is done in respon’~e "Tales of the City" earlier in phy iS that were establishing think ~ple Should be able step forward. Inste.ad of comte ’citi~e~ ~omplaints. Several January ~hqn Coogm_~s :r~con- some schoo! system to ensure an .See Thotnpson, page 8 See Wilhams, page 6 reques ,t~e Chief and to venes. Kt~ndra~Re !, described internati0nally SUperior educalvl@ 0i:S:a)~ge s press aide; Jim Seb~ies;:p~ge7 don for a/! c[iildr~fi. ’. Ail kids Tulsa Family News, February 1994 - March 1994, page ! Sexwith the Tulsa Police L e t t e. r S .... TULSA FAMilY NEWS Let’s talk about sex, in par- of deep-rooted prejudice in the Publisher/Editor Assistant Editor ticular, sex in public places.The department, as well as raising Tales of the City Tom Neal lames Christjohn reality is that people have sex in issues of possible law-breaking Dear Editor; 918-832-0233, POB 4140, TUlsa, Oklahoma 74159 public places. Some of this be- by those supposed to be uphold- In recent days, OETA channel Issued on the 15th of each mon~, the entire contents of this publicahavior is heterosexual and some ing the law. 11 showed Armistead.Maupin’s tion are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may of it is homosexual. All of it is We call on the Mayor and the "Tales of the City". The first not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission inapprbpriate. All of it is illegal, chief of police to investigate responses I heard from the gay _ from the publisher. Publication. of a name or photo in no way indicates There are public parks in Tulsa these operations in detail to as- and lesbian community were or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. thatareknownasmeetingplaces sure Lesbian and Gay citizens upset and disappointment that Correspondence is assumed’t0 be for publication unless Otherwise wantf.°!r0~nto Save~w=h°....." oh the munitioesuthratcOm-are language and content were cen- notedcorrespondanbceecaonmdeS:shouldthebesOlesentProtpheretYatoddress°fTulSaabove.Family NewL All sex with each not being sored. - other. Thisfact- Mayor. and .the. singled out for The second wave of reaction Tulsa Family News is aevent &amp; entertainment newspaper distributedmay. be repug- ch ief Of police to selective en- was from thereligiousright, who free of charge in local businesses and organizations. nant to many investigate...to forcement of were outraged that it was shown heterosexuals, assure Lesbian the law, or for at all. I have heard that the sta- Itisalsorepug- g e n e r a 1 tion received over 4001etters of nant to many and Gay citizens harassment, protest. I wonder how many of Gay men &amp; Lesbians. that our eommuni- Wecallonboth those"onourside"wrotetocomof these offi- mend ,OETA for showing the Wecan&amp;do ties are not being cials to work series? Bars &amp; Restaurants ask our police singled out for with minority We have been given to under- *The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria 744-0896 officers to dis- communities, stand that thelocalPBS station *Cherry St. Bakery, 1344 E. 15 583-8398 courage public selective enforce- in particular, did not want to air "Tales.." at *Deep Elm, 61st &amp; Memorial 250-0933 sexuality so ment Of tile law.,, with ours, to all, and are. now able to say *Laff’S, 31t E. 7th 583-5233 that the major- solve together ’I told you so’. *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th - 749-1563 ity of us can actual and per- ...... What those of us in the gay *Paradise Bar &amp; Grill, 12570 E. 21 234-9007 enjoytheparkswithourspouses, ceived commhnity problems, andlesbiancommunity, andour *SilverStar Saloon, 1565 Sheridan 834-4234 friends and families without ha- Finally, we call on the Mayor to friends and families who sup- *Renegade, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 rassment or.embarassment. But issue an executive, order ban- port human rights, must do is to we remember also that it is not ning discrimination based on *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 660-0856 illegal in Oklahoma for two per- sexual orientation among all city send a letter (not just phone) sons to meet each other in a park employees. We call on Chief stating that you believe in free- *Time n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial 664-8299 so long as they are of age and go Palmer to institute immediately domofspeechandhumanrights, *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd, . 584-1308 elsewhere iftheydo anything, cultural awareness training for and that you support the show- *Whittier Cafe, 416 S. Le~ffi~ 582-2400 It is in this context that we police officers, both in-service ing of programs like "Tales of Businesses/Services consider, the= allegations raised andattheacademy, that includes " the City". And include a contri- Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Suite 102 254-2100 by some citizens. Each of these - sexual orientation issues. With bution of.whatever amount you *Indian Terr. Coffee Company 1613 E. 15 587-1633 persons, some speaking anony- Lesbian &amp; Gay police, officers - can manage. Galerie Europa, 203 N. Main 592-2787 mously, others on the record, and a c~ty commitment not to .We have in our community Harry &amp; Mrs. Jones, 1617 E. 15 582-_1617 none0f whomkno’w the other, discriminate, then can Tulsa’s the tendency to criticize politi- Jared’s~ 1602 E. 15 :,..~:.:z~=~%- 582-3018 tell simitar:stOries~ And-these _LesbianandGay~itizen~startto -: ~;cal~!gaders:who"don’~.t-~standup .... ~ K~eii’~s, ~Flow~rs,- 1635 ,.E.,=~=~:~:~’ . .......599~8070 stories aretoO consistent to. be tm" stTulsas’ fin" estag" ax"n, fo~ru"s", an~d" to be outr"aged when *Living -Arts of Tulsa, 224 N, Main 585-1234 dismissed. Their charges Speak Tom Neal, publisher we don’t get full and favorable. porlrayals in the public media. *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 PI - - - 664-2951 Yet how many ofus are willing Novel Idea Discourit Books to take any risk at all? Do we 7104 S. Sheridan. ~92-0335 On January 29th on C-SPAN, the Coral Ridges Ministries Confer- risk our jobs the way we expect . 3356 E. 51 747-67 t 1 enceheldinF~Lauderdale, Florida was broadcast to thousands of ~political leaders to for the sake *Phun Stuph, 1519 E. 15 584-7486 households across thenation. The purpose of the conference was to ~ofgayandlesbianrights?Dowe Puppy Pause II, 1 lth &amp; Mingo 838-7626 urge Christians to "reclaim America" for Christ. However, the goals even risk a Small degree of per- *Tomfoolery, 1565 S. S heridan 832-0233 of this conference cannot be said to have anything to do with Jesus sonal discomfort when coming Zat’s, 3708 South Peoria 742-6909 Christ or with compassion, acceptance and love that Christ spoke of out to people around us who Organizations vociferously. . probably know already? ACT-UP, POB 532 74101 What they should have called the conference was "How to Impose PBS operates on public ~up- Your Morals on the Nation and Disregard Anyone Who Does Not port. tf they believe that airing a Names Proj. POB 31.81 74101 748-3111 Wholeheartedly Agree With You." The keynote speaker for the show will lose that support, they P-FLAG POB 52800 74152 749-4901 conference was the former Vice President of the United States, Mr. won’t air it. If we don’t speak *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 Dan Quayle. Notonly has Dan recently learned how to spell"Potato", out, we don’t have any right to TOHR Gay Line Inf0. 743-4297 but he has also learned how to put-words like "tradition", "family complain if we never again see Stianti Hotline 749-7898 values", "moral", end"ethical" together to form a moving speech. He urged Christians to go back to their home towns and no longer be part any positive gay/lesbian shows BiL/G Alliance, University of Tulsa. 583-9780 of the "silent majority", but instead to speak out about the principals on PBS. We will have helped Oklahoma AIDS .Hodine 800-535-2437 "upon which this nation was built." The principals he was talking cause that possible scenario by Other about were the principals-that construct the "traditional family’~. our silence. *Chapman Student Center, .University of Tulsa 631-0000 Perhaps a more appropriate tide for his speech would have been "To Paul Thompson,Co-chair *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule . _ : . Heck With Love And Acceptance, Let’s Keep Dysfunction Alive!" Oklahoma Gay &amp; Lesbian *University Center .at Tulsa Among other things, Dan noted that Christians need to fight to keep Political Caucus Professionals Gays and Lesbians from having the same sanctified relationships as Assistant editor’s note: We are heterosexuals, all too ready to criticize, as Mr. Theodore Campbell, MSW, 1560 E 21 743-1000 After receiving an extended standing ovation, Dan Quayle turned Thompson points out. We need Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 the microphone over to Dr. James Kennedy, who ended theevening’s to remember that it is just as Tim Daniel, Attorney " . 352-9504, 800-742-9468 festivities by stating that he doesn’t hate anyone, but hehas a moral important to praise positive ac- Bill Hinkle, Attorney . 587- i~500 obligation to help save people who are "chained to their sins." tions, as well as point out the Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747-5466 Although th~s type of ~gnorance can be amusing to all of us, t s negative. Let OETA know that. John Kirk, Realtor 747,5800, 745-2245 really a very serious and frightening thing. At virtually any time they did well in spite of them- Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics 832-0233 during the day from anywhere .in the world, people can tune in to selves! .... Religious Organizations television or radio programs that are motivating people to do all in The address: *Family of Faith MCC, 500 W. ’A’ Jenks 298-4622 their power to stop ’sin’ and ’immorality’ from infiltrating society - OETA allinthe"nameofGod".It’seasytounderstandhowsomanypeople 811N. SheridanRd. Affirmation (Methodist) 742-8213 can be so uninformed and so filled with hatred. Tulsa, OK 74115 *MCCof Greater Tulsa, 1623Maplewood 838-1715 What recourse do we have? we can dothe same thing any group of PBS comment line: Dignity/Integrity 298-4648 people mustdo when faced with ignorance.Wecan educate ourselves *Caqter.b:ury. Ministry Center, University of Tulsa 583-9780 and those around us. We can’t continue to sit around hiding and 800-356-2626 waiting for someone else to speak up for us. It’s time we take the initiative and responsibility for defending ourselves. Tulsa Family News, February 1994 - March 1994, page 2 -Tulsa Oklahomans fOr Human Rights February/March 1994 Volume 14 Number 3 PO Box 52-729 TulSa OK 74152 Serving G~een . Country’s Lesbia~ Gay and Communities in our i4th Tulsa’s Gay &amp; Lesbian Information and RefferalLine ¯ TOll 1 -! EI PL:I N4= elcome to the new format for new this past year, a. picnic and dance in the TOHR Reporter. We enter this venture. Bait!ett ¯Square. Our membership meetwith Tulsa Family News to help bring ings, held the firstTuesday ofeach month, Tulsa news to our members~ and to bring include specialguest Speakers and updates TOHR info to the larger community, on local happenings._. .. . 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Human Rights - FREE ANONNYMOUS -- ..... -Con Finger Stick Method Volunteers Always Welc6~e For and by but not limited to Lesbian, G~s, .Tulsa Family News, Febr~ary~March 1994, page 3 News Briefs-News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News BriefsNews Briefs News Gays Battle Anti-Straight any discrimination within the lenging its constitutionality is~ Chiola, running forqhe Cook D [ S c r i m i n a t i 0 n agency based on sexual orienta- pending, but the AHA council County, Ill.,.¯Circuit Court; TAMPA, Fla. - A gay rights tion, and agree to hire Dana decided to move its 1995 con- Victor~h Sigler, running for the group, the Human Rights Task Tillson, a 32-year-old San Fran- vention until the referendum is Dade County, Fla., Court; and Force ofFlorida, has been cham- cisco private investigator whose declared unconstitutional. Ken Wolf, who is running for a pioning the case of 4 straight application had been rejected Catholics Blast .Bishops seat on the Ft. Lauderdale,Fla., - womenfiredfromtbeLateShow because she is a lesbian. CHICAGO - Three Catholic City Commission. bar in New Port Richey, Fla., Adobe Offers Benefits groups have .taken the U.S. Gay Marriage in Hawaii after the owner of the club de- MOUNTAIN VIEW, Calif. - Catholic Conference of Bish6ps HONOL~U~::;When. the .Hacided t~&gt;tum it intQ a barcatedng The gay newspaper OutNow! in to task for its opposition to fed- wail Legislature reconvenes this to gay men,~cl~fiining the ng~b SanJose, Calif.,reportsthatcom~ emlly-spons.ored television and month for its J994 session, one customers wouldn ~t f~el c6~n- puter manufacturer Adobe Sys- radio public service announce- of the measures that will come fortalSie~ith straight~aitreSges " tems of Mtn. View is thelatest merits promoting condom use~ before the lawmakers will be a andbarienders. ="~Ve ve always high-tech :firm :to extend com- Leaders of the National Coali~ proposed bill offeredby conserknownthat. thiskindofdiscrimi- pany-benefits to-the domestic-- tionofAmericanNuns;Catholic vativesthatwouldexpliciflypro= nation is wrong no matter .who partners of its workers. The new ~Advocates for Lesbian and Gay. hibit same-sex marriages. The it’s directed againsL" saidTodd benefits program went into ef- Rights and Chicago Catholic state Supreme Court ruled more Simmons of the task force. "No fect at Adobe on Jan. 1 and is Women joinedwith AIDS edu- than a year ago that~ same-sex one deserves to lose their job available to both same-sex and cators in scolding the bishops, couples may not be denied marbecause of their sexual orienta- - .op~p0site-sex coupleS, whoearlierinJanuarydenounced riage licenses unless the state tion, particularly when it has Historians Cancel ’95 as"immoral and murderous" the can prove a compelling stateinabsolutely no relevance to the Convention in Cincinnati just-announcedTVandradioads terest in prohibitingthem from iob they’ve been hired to per- SAN-FRANCISCO ~-- The " encouraging the use of condoms gettingmarried.Alowercourtis "form." country’s foremost historical or- to prevent the spread of HIV still reconsidering the case un- Buttino-FBI Settlement ganization - the American His- infection among sexually active der the high court’s guidelines SAN FRANCISCQ - A federal todcalAssociadon-hasformally y-ounger Americans. of stricter scrutmy, and many court judge has’~approved a canceled its planned 1995 an- Carolina Anti-Gay Bills activists believe the earlier Su- $205,000Settlementbetween the nual convention in Cincinnati, COLUMBIA, S.C. - The South preme Court ruling set the stage FederalBureau. of investigation accusing thatcity ofdenying les- Carolina House has overwhelm- for Hawaii to become the first and gay former agent Frank biansand gay men equal protec- ingly approved legislation that state to lega!ly Fecognize. gay Buttino,’who charged in a years- tion under the law. The AHA’s wouldbar gays and lesbians from and lesbian ¯amazes. long lawsuit against the federal governingcouncilvotedto move serving in the state National Arizona Antt-Gay Bill .crime agency that his dismissal its January 1995 meeting to Chi- Guard, adopting children or act- PHOENIX, Ariz. - A proposed in 1989 after 20 years of service cago or New York because rot- ing as foster parents; The mea~ state constitutional amendment Was discriminai6ry. The agree- ers in Cincinnati in November sures, some of the most restric- that would ban legislation promentwas approved by U:S. Dis- approved an amendment to the five’in years, were prompted by tecting gays andlesbians against trict Judge Saundra Brown City charter barring civil rights several high-profile child-cus- discrimination has been intro- .Armstrong and requires the FBI protectionsbased on sexual ori- tody casesinvolving lesbiansand duced by Rep; Rusty Bowers, a entafion. A federal court has - gay men around the country as Conservative MesaRepublican, to pay Buttino’s attorneys $53,000 in legal fees involved in blockedenforcementoftheanti- ’ well as by the national debate in the Arizona legislature and his court battle, pledge to stop gaymeasurewhilealawsuitchal, last year 0yetending the~Penta- senttotheHouseJudiciaryCom~ ~" g0n ban~ mittee: Bowers Said ~he intro- ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ m,mm ¯ ¯ m.m ¯ ¯.. ¯ ¯," ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯~ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 1¯ Anti÷Gay A~dopti~nBill-~: ducedtheand:gaylegislatiOn~be- ~ " it " ~: =OL~YMPiA~~Wash; L~tieW~h~:~: eaus~ of:gay ~:rights.laws.passed ¯ = ington Legislature will consider , in Phoenix and Tucson that out- ¯ . . . = a-proposedbill this session that law .anti-gay bias. The Arizona = ¯ would make it illegal to place a Traditional Values- Coalition ¯ ¯ foster child in a household with began gathering signatures for a ¯ ¯" 11 th &amp; Mingo, 838,7626 ¯ a homosexual, bisexual, trans- similarstatewideanti-gay initia- ¯ ¯ sexual or transvestite. The pro- tive in December. ¯ Open esday" Saturday atSam. -- posed legislation was prompted " Sex Classes Evaluated ¯ ~ ¯ by the case of Megan Lucas, a WASHINGTON - Classes on ¯ _ - Call. forAppointments 22-year-oldwomanwhoisfight- sexuality and AIDS are offered ¯ ¯ Walk-ins Also Welcome. ¯ ing to regain custody of her 3- " in some 93% of all U.S. public ¯ ¯ year-old son who¯she had aban- ¯ high schoo!s, and the most effec- ¯ ¯ donedin 1990. Lucas started her _ tive courses combine informa- ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯= ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ " fight last year to regain custody tion on, abstinence along with of the boy after learning he had theimportanceofusingcondoms beenplaced in the foster care of and other contraception, accord- Parklane BUilding Louis and Ross Lopton, 2 gay ing to sex. researcher Douglas men, who are seeking to adopt Kirby in a report sponsored by Secure Midtown/Riverside-Area the boy as their son. Washington the Kaiser Family Foundation. One Bedroom Apartments is one of 6 states that permit The research indicated that, con- Skyline views available, same-sex couples to adopt chil- trary to opponents of sex ed dren. classes, the courses neither has- $315, bills paid. 587-4640 Lesbian/Gay Candidates ten the start nor increase the fre- WASHINGTON -The Gay &amp; quency of sexual intercourse " LesbianVictoryFund, theWash- among t.eens. Nor do the sex ed ington-based network of politi- classes ¯crease the number of cal campaign donors, has en- sexual-partners. dorsed 6 more gay and lesbian Gay &amp; Lesbian Americans candidates .in .upcoming 1994 WASHINGTON - Activists races. Theyinclude: Tony Miller, from around the country gathwho isrunning for statewide of- ered in the nation’.s capital over fice as California’s Secretary of theJan. 15-17 weekendtoiaunch Ken’-s Flowers State; Will Fitzpatrick, running Gay and Lesbian Americans,- a ¯ for a seat in the Rhode Island " "diverse, nonpartisan coalition Senate; George Eighmey, run, of grassroot~a~l~ocates commit, ning f_or a seat .in .the Oregon ted to civil fights for gay, les- 1635 E. 15th Street, 599-8070 House of Representatives; John " bian, _b,!sexual and transgender Duran, running for a seat in the Ixople ’ in this country~ E~ected Serving Tulsa’s California Assembly; Susan ~ts ihtefim officers ih the new Leal; running.for a. seat on the group while it builds member- Lesbian &amp; Gay Communities -San Francisco Board of Super- ship, creates .local chapters With Pride - Look for our Rainbow Flag visors.; and Barb Jones, who is around the Countryand firms up . running for a seaton the Tempe, i[s structure were Kim Edwards Ariz., City Council. The Victory as OutreaCh :Dir~ctoL JonCarl Tulsa Family News, February 1994 -Marcht994, page 4 Fund had earlier endorsed Tom Lewis as Communications Specialist, Steven Reichert as Net- ~work Coordinator, and Mickey Wheatley as ChiefFinance Officer. GLA Chapters quickly began forming as the founding membership returned .to their home towns, and the first group of local GLA chapters will be formally announcedaround the countryonValentine~s Day;Feb. 14, at.a-multiple-citynews conference that-is being called "Queers Across~rA-merica.".~ Bringing some unexpected muscle to GLA were Bob Paris, former Mr: America and Mr. Universe, who in 1989 shook up the professional bodybuilding world by coming out and ex- .changing marriage vows with his husband and fellow physique model.Rod Jackson. The Olympia, Wash., couple -became the first non-founding members to join GLA following the official formation of the group in mid- January: For information aboutjoining Gay &amp; Lesbian Americans, contact the organization at: PO Box 77533,Washington, D.C. 20013- 7533 or phone (202) 546-4124 or theorganization" s toll-free line at 800-889-5111 or, for hightech types, contact them through their Intemete-mail address: glajoin@ queernet.org for membership details. ~upport For Activists. ST.LOUIS-A group ofgay and lesbian mental health workers in. SL Louis has formedCPR(Counseling Professio0al. Resou~r~es).~. ~ to pro’tide cou.n.seling and s.up~ port services~f0r activists wfi0 are experiencing the same sort of post traumatic stress disorders soldiers experience during battle. "We want to offer services that could address needs before they escalate and overwhelm individuals:There’s so much emotionalfallout, and for .an issue like this, where it really is our life or death, we’ve seen a ~reat buildup." " ime to Try Gay Meg? NEW YORK - Time Warner Inc. says that it is tentatively considering publishing a magazine targeted to gay and lesbian readers, although the publishing giant declined to give any details of the possible magazine. Time spokesman Peter Costiglio said "It’s at a very preliminary, early stage. There’s no timetable yet." Nor would Costiglio discuss what sort of magazine Time might launch in a market where no lesbian/gay periodical has yet broken the 100,000 paid circulation barrier. ’Out There I1’ .Comedy HOLLYWOOD - Tickled that "Out There," Comedy Central’s first gay and lesbian comedy special, doubled its prime time ratings, the cable network has announced plans for "Out There 117 which will be taped before a live audience in Manhattan during the Gay Games IV (June 18- 25), Gay Pride Weekend (June. 24-26) and Stonewall 25-celebrati0n in New York. The program will be aired later in the summer. :News¯ Briefs NewsBriefs News Briefs News Briefs .News Briefs News Briefs News NV Anti-Gay Initiative CARSON CITY, Nev. :- Lon- Mabon, founder of the anti:gay OregonCitizens Alliance,j0ined with Daisy Stanley of the newly formed Nevada Citizens Alliance, Tuesday, Jan: 25, in filing a petition to prohibit the "presentati0n of homosexuality as a positive lifestyle" by .any government institution in Nevada, Theinitiative petition; similar to thevoter,approved Amendment 2 in Coloradi~;needsonly 51,000 signatures to qualifyfor the ballot- this November." Gov.’Bob Miller had denounced the antigay initiative as a ,message of intoleranceanddiscrimination." Mabon, however, snapped back that Miller "’will ultimately pay the price". Jesse Helms vs.-U;N. WASHINGTON - The U.S. Senate voted 99-0 on Wednesday, Jan. 26, to cut contributions to the United Nations by $119 million this year and next unless the federal government insures that the international agency has severed all ties with any .group that endorses ~xfial-relatio~is with children.The amendment to a funding bill for the State Dept. was offered by Sen. Jesse Helms (R-N.C;), who railed so, donrt expect a kiss-and-tellall bio,.~ Smith Says;-because Louganis "fervently hopes this [Ms,sexual orientation] does not become the primary focus of media attention?, Revealing an open secret? Ten years after his cies to specify only "race, ag.e, color, religion, national origin, sex, veteran status, disability or any other basis protected by federal, state or local law" - discreetly omitting "sexual orientation" from the list. Olympic fame? Afterthe outing Idaho ¯Anti-Gay Initiative "ofJ. ~dgar-Hoover? NoL!ikely,...: BOISE, Idaho--Apollby Boise TNT s Gay Celeb IAneup ~ State ~University’s Survey Re- NEW. YORK ’.Just in case.you:~.: searchCenter found that 54% of missed a truly, memorable-too-: .. like!.y..s.~te.~voters.opP0S~.~..t~: ment in American cultural his;:~ :~ gay !mt!alave sponsorea oy. t e tory, wwr’.~,,-,,,-t~.re.~a.n.tation of th.e,~ ..~ Idaho ¯-Citizens. A!!iance,. wh.ile. 1962 Rosalind Russell~Natahe _ 26%support themeasure which Wood film ’~Gypsy~’ was comes before voters.in-Novem.... against the U.N. Economic &amp;°~ SociatCoun~cil’srec0gnitionlast sexual exploitation of children yearofthelnternatiofialLesbian ¯ orrepealofage:0f-cousentlaws. &amp; Gay Association 0LGA):be:- The vote; clearly aimed at excause theNorthAmeri~anMan/ eluding:members 0f the North :Boy Love.- Association ~ ¯ AmericanMan/B0y LoveAssn. hostessed by supermodel ultradrag queen RuPaul. Coming up on the cable channel’s "Our Favorite Movies" series being hosted by celebs is-Barbra Streisand’s"Funny Girl,"hosted by comic, actress and lesbian icon Sandra Bernhard.. By the ’way~ the statuesque platinum blond bewigged RuPaul still insists- that, even though he "loves "Gypsy,’ he still wants to’do an all-blackremake ofanother Roz Russell classic, "Mame;~ "starring moi, Of course." No NAMBLAat UN March ATLANTA-TheSteeringCom-- mitteeofStonewall25 has voted to bar from its March on. the UnitedNationsinNewYorkthis June any groups that advocate ber. The pollsters said.the survey has a 3.4% margin of error. A full 20%. of those polled, how-. ever, said they weren’t familiar with the anti-gay ballot measure and weren’t sure where they stoodon it. Apoll commissioned by. the Idaho Citizens Alliance last November, but challenged by fights activists, had indicated 63% of the state’s residents favored the anti-gay measure. ’Domestic Par[ners’ Fly JERUSALEM A gay-flight attendant with Israel’ s E1 AI Airlines has won a court ruling that requires the air carder to extend is in queer films. According to Variety, the motion picture industry trade paper’s just published listing 6f the most proffiable films released in 1993,"Jurassic Park" came as last year’s second most profitable film, topped by "The Wedding Bansomebasic questions about why fraternities and sororities are appealing to gays and lesbians, what they gained from the experience, what, if any, anti-gay experiences they may haveencountered, and similar topics. To obtain a copy of the survey, write quet.". Ahn Li’s film about a~ re- - to: Fraternity Research, PO Box cially mixed yuppie gay cou~!e 15863, San Diego CA 92175. ’ whotryto.hoodwinkWei-Tung.S ~ CO Funflie.’,Boot~CamP’ parents~ from Taix~an into ..be- COLORADO SPRINGS,. Colo. lieving he .i~. straightby miount-.ii_. Fi’~edo~iW-.atCh~.-a.~ligiq,us. ing a fake wedding gro~s~,dmor~,(~ rightm~hi.@ing pubiiCau."0,’~~ than any film in 1993 compaored - r@0~ted fiaat th~:Coaiition ~ to itsexpenditures, Variety.says. .....Reviv,a! (COR),. located, in The Hollywood- trade paper.re~ Sonoma County, Calif., is relopOrted in its annual survey of most profitable films that "The Wedding Banquet, grossed a staggering 23 times what it cost to produc..e~ handily beating Stephen Spielberg’s dinosaur blockbuster "Jurassic Park," which earned only 16 times its ~roduction expenses. . orority/Frat. Survey SAN DIEGO, Calif. The San Diego-based Fraternity Research is conducting a confidential national survey of lesbians and gay men who are either currently undergraduate or alumnimembers caring to Colorado later this year to open a "boot-camp training school for radical world-changers" where fundamentalists will learn "hand-to-hand combat intellectually and spiritually..." COR, an extremist far:right fundamentalist group has ties to farright leaders Beverly LeHaye of Concerned Women for America and Donald Wildmon of the American Family Assn. It also advocates setting up a Chrisiianbased government in the U.S. and urges followers to "systematically and effectively rebuild to the unidentified gay worker’s of a university sorority or frater- theircivilization on Biblicalprindomestic partner the- same an- nity. The survey is under the .ciples, thatincludethe mandated nual free ticket the airline makes direction ofDouglas Case, a gay death ._l~=,,nalty for an assortment available to the marfiedspouses .-~-. actavlst and currently Coordlna~ of sins. ranging from. dell - . ofitsempl0yees.Thecourtru!ed° ’ tor of Fraternity &amp; Sorority Life quencyandblasphemytohomo- . thatin-refu~ing to,g_i~ie:the free-., at San Diego State University. - sexuality, adultery and:failure to bie to the gay man s boyfriend it. The 32:question survey results .repay ~ bail ¯ was ,dolating the nation,s anti-i are aimeJl at Shedding light on bond. ¯ biaslaws, which includesexual . orientation.. Europe, that NAMBLA withdraw from only recently been granted conthe Belgian-based association of sultative status in the UN’s Ecolesbian and gay organizations, nomic &amp; Social Council. ~Russlans Anti,Gay "~.... S~FI Supervisors. Take SAN FRANCISCO - A report .... First InterState to-Task by MarshaGessen for the-San Francisco-based International Gay &amp; Lesbian Human Rights Commission finds that in spite of the repeal of Russia’s antigay law in 1993, the country remains a "land of terror" for gays and lesbians: The report charges that government officials still have not accounted for some 200 gay men sentenced to labor camps for violating the nation’s anti-gay law before it was repealed, even though those convicted in the past .were supposed to be released under the measure passedb~ the Russian Parliament last year. The report also says law enforcement officials continue.to harass gays and les,N~s,p.fison and~a_l~o..rca~p:.’ offl~i~iig ~stili .mi~izM[ iii~arcer2.... ateff:gayS ~d intimidate lesbi-~ .~ ans in their"cust0dy, and g~y . bashingscoiitinuethrbughoutth6~ :" country unchecked. Louganis- Coming Out NEW YORK - Gossip ColumnistLiz Smithreports thatOlympic gold medalistGregLouganis " has signed abookdeal with Random House for his biography in which the reserved athleteturned- entertainer will finally discusshis homosexuality: Even SAN:FRANCISCO - Shocked that. banking giant First Interstate Bank, under pressure from anti~.gay fundamentalists,had unceremoniously dropped its personnel policy barfing discrimination based on sexual orientation, the San Francisco Board of Supervisors has sent a-sharply critical letter to First Interstate BankCorp president William Siart, expressingits"disappointment" in the bank’s decision. "There is norestricti0n against First Interstate Bank Corp’s prohibition ofdiscrimination based upon sexual orientation in all of the states in which your subsidiaries are located," the letter states. "Such a policy would be far more Consistent than allowingSuch di~criminationin-those...... states where it is notprohibited~’~d.: Las~ year First Interstate, Which operates" banks in. 11 Western_ states, became th~’tatge_t~f-anti~ ,=, gay fundamentalists:oafter (2hristNet, a national computer network for far-right Christians, urged its subscribers and their supporters to write to the bank protesting FIB’s anti-bias policy including sexualorientation; The bank then quietly changed :its employmentdiscriminati0npoll.... ~W..Bush, president said, if elected,: he would veto any repeal of.the state’s sodomy statute because he said. the law "is a symbolic ~/. gesture of trad’m’onal values." Texas gay rights activists said they considered Bush’s corn: ments to be the kind of pandering to the religious right that lost his father the 1992 presidential race. ’Harvey Milk’ - The Opera SAN FRANCISCO ~ At the snail’spacerate the Oliver Stone proposed ~motion picture "The Mayor of Castro Street" is mov- ~ ~ng, you may be able to catch the opera based on the assassinatedgay politician Harvey Milk’ s life before it hits the big screen as a biopic. Theopera- called simply "Harvey-Milk"- is slated to premiere atthe Houston Grand Opera on Jan. 21, 1995,_followed by a spring 1995-performance by theNew York CityOpera and a production~ by the San-Fram cisco Opera in the fall of 1996. The opera was commissioned jointly by the three companies and ~is the. work of composer SteWart Wallace and librettist Michael Korie. 1993’s.. Most Profitable Film? Guess Again! HOLLYWOOD -- Forget "Jurassic Park," "Schindler’s LiSt," "Philadelphia,"-and similar .motion picture box office-block: bustt/s; the real profit in movies Sensitive to the Challengesof Gay, Lesbian:, Bisexual &amp; " Transgendered Individuals, Couples &amp; Families. 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Ste. 215 ¯Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 745-1111 . . Certified:Public Accountant Please Note New Address&amp; Phone PO.B¯ 1401. 1, Tulsa 74..,:t59.:M L1,,1 . 747-546.6 Faster refunds available through electronic filing. Tulsa Family News, February 1994 - March 1994, page 5 News Briefs-News Briefs News Briefs NewsBriefs News BriefsNews¯BriefS News Gays Battle Anti-Straight Di. scri m ination TAMPA, Fla. - A gay fights group, the Haman Rights Task Force ofFlorida, has been championing the case of 4 straight women fired from the Late Show bar in New Port Richey, Fla., after the owner of the club decided to turn it intoa barcatering to gay men,claiming the new customers~wouldn~’~t~ feel ctm~ fortaSte~ith straight ~idtreSses and~artenders. :"we Ve always known thatthis kind ofdiscfimination is wrong no matter *who it’s directed against," saidTodd Simmons of the task force. "No one deserves to lose their job because of their sexual orientation, particularly when it has absolutely no relevance to the job they’ve been hired to perfOrm." Buttino-FBI Settlement SAN FRANCISCO - A federal court judge has’~approved a $205,000settlement between the Federal-Bureau of Investigation and gay former agent Frank Buttino,’who charged in a yearslong lawsuit against the federal crime agency that his dismissal in 1989 after 20 years of service was discriminatory. Th_e agreementwas approved by U.S. District Judge Saundra Brown Armstrong and requires the FBI to pay Buttino’s attorneys $53,000 in legal fees involved in any discrimination within, the agenc~y based on sexual orientation, and. agree to hire Dana Tillson, a 32-year-old San Francisco private investigator whose application had been rejected because she is a lesbian. Adobe Offers Benefits MOUNTAIN VIEW, Calif. - The gay newspaper OutNowt. in SanJose, Calif, reports thatcom~ putermanufa~turer Adobe Systems of Mtn. View is the.latest high~techfirm :to extend company- benefits to-the domestic parmers of its workers. The new benefits program went into effect at Adobe on Jan. 1 and is available to both same-sex and .opp0site-sex coupleS. Historians Cancel ’95 Convention in Cincinnati SAN- FRANCISCO -- The country’s foremost historical organization - the American Histodcal Association- has formally canceled its planned 1995 annual convention in Cincinnati, accusing thatcity ofdenying lesbiansand gay men equal protection under the law. The AHA’s governingcouncil voted to move its January 1995 meeting to Chicago or New York because voters in Cincinnati in November approved an amendment to the city charter barfing :civil rights ePnrtoatfei0ctnio. nsAbafseedderoanl sceoxuuratl ohraisblocked enforcement ofthe antilenging its constit,utionality iS:" ’pending, but the AHA council decided to move its 1995 convention- until the referendum is declared unconstitutional. Catholics Blast ,Bishops CHICAGO - Three Catholic groups have taken the U.S. Catholic Conference of Bishtps to task for its opposition to federally- spons.ored television and radio public service announcements promoting condom use~- Leaders of the National Coalition ofAmericanNuns, Catholic -Advocates for Lesbian and Gay Rights and Chicago Catholi~ Women joined-with AIDS educators in scolding the bishops, whoearlier inJanuary denounced as "immoral and murderous" the just-announcedTV andmdio ads encouraging the use of condoms to prevent the spread of HIV infection among sexually active younger Americans. Carolina Anti-Gay Bills COLUMBIA, S.C. - The South Carolina House ha~ overwhelm- - ingly approved legislation that wouldbargayS and lesbians from serving in the state National Guard; adopting children or acting as foster parents; The mea~ sures, some Of the most restrictive in years, were prompted by several high-profile chiM-custody cases involving lesbiansand gay men around the country as well.aS by :the national debate Chiola, running for :the Cook County, IlL, Circuit C0urt; Victoria Sigler, running for the Dade County; Fla., Court; and Ken Wolf, who is running for a seat on the Ft. Lauderdale, Fla., City Commission. Gay-Marriage in Hawaii HONO~UI2U~-~When the HawaiiLegislature reconvenes this monthfor its49.94 session, one of the measures that will come before the .lawmakers will be a proposed bill offered by conservatives that wouldexplicitly pro~ hibit same-sex marriages. The state Supreme Court ruled more than a year ago that~ same-sex couples may not be denied marriage licenses unless the state can- prove a compelling state interest in pr0hibitingthem from getting married. A lower court is still reconsidering the case under the high court’s guidelines of stricter scrutiny, and many activists believe the earlier Supreme Court ruling set the stage for Hawaii to become the first state to lega!ly recognize, gay and lesbian marrla~ges. Arizona Ant,-Gay Bill PHOENIX, Ariz~ - A proposed state constitutional amendment that would ban legislation protecting gays and lesbians against discrimination has been introduced by Rep:Rusty Bowers, a conservative Mesa Republican, in the Arizona legislature and his court battle~.pledge to stop gaymeasurewhilealawsuitchal~ lastyear overending thePenta- ~ senttotheH0useJudiciaryCom~ - ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯.= ¯ ¯¯ ¯ ~ gon ban~ - mittee:.~Bowers Said heintro- St.Louishasf0rmedCPR(Coun- ¯ ¯ ¯=¯¯ =¯ =.:=¯ ¯ =. : ¯ .-.....,......... ¯ ~ o= ; An;t[,Gay~AdOption~,~:Bill~--:~ duced0theand÷gayl~gislafion~be-~ :,: se!ing ..~=.ofessio0,..M.-:.R~sou[~es) .... ~:,i-.~ ,~..~i;-, ~.~., ~-: ,--.-~’~-~ ~i", ~.~:~i÷~OL~MPi~sli~::’~ti~e~h’:;::",:~-"cau~e~of~gay~ghts:4aws.:Passed ~.~---to provide CO~,Bsdan.g:;.~and~.u.P7 "- ingtonLegi~lfiture:will con~idtr’~ in Phoeni.xandTueson that.out- ¯ port services"tbt acuv~sts who ¯ : 1: HI !.1 IV IO~,.LI ~:~d~’: :.tJ~...., ¯ aprop0se~-bill this-session that -.. ~ law_anti:gay .bias. The Arizona are experiencing the same. sort ¯ .~.~-" d ’ " : woul~i make it illegal to pla~e a Traditional Values. Coalition . of post traumatic stress disor- ¯¯ ¯ foster child in a household vcith began gathering signatures for a ders soldiers experience during 11 th &amp; Mingo, 838-7626 " ¯ ¯ a homosexual, bisexmil, trans- ¯ ¯ sexual or transvestite. The pro- - Open esday" Saturday atSam. - posed legislation was prompted- ¯¯ ~ " - = ¯ by the case of Megan Lucas; a Call for Appointments ¯ ~ - . 22-year-old woman who.is fight- " Walk-ins Also Welcome. ing toregain custody of her~3- ¯ ¯ year-old son whom she had aban- ¯ ¯ doned in 1990. Lucas started her of the boy after learning he had beenplaced in the foster_.care of Parklane BUilding Louis and Ross L0pton, 2 gay Secure Midtown/Riverside-Area men, who are seeking to adopt the boy as their son. Washington One Bedroom Apartments is one of 6 states that permit Skyline views available, same-sex couples to adopt chil- - dren. $315, bills paid. 58%4640 Lesbian/Gay Candidates WASHINGTON-. The Gay &amp; Lesbian Victory Fund, theWashington- based network of political campaign donors, has endorsed 6 more gay and lesbian candidates .in upcoming 1994 races. Theyinclude: Tony Miller, who isrunning for statewide of. Ken’s Flowers fice as Califoruia’s Secretary of ~ State; Will Fitzpatrick, running for a seat in the Rhode Island Senate; George Eighmey, running for a seat_in .the Oregon 1635 E. 15th Street, 599-8070 House- of Representatives; John " " . Duran, running for a seat in the Serving Tuisa’s California Assembly; Susan Lesbian &amp; Gay Communities With Pride - Look for our Rainbow Flag Tulsa Family News,.February 1994 -March 1994, page 4 similar statewide anti-gay initiative in .December. S~x Classes Evaluated WASHINGTON - Classes on sexuality andAIDS are offered in some 93% of all U.S. public high schools, and the mosteffecrive courses combine information on., abstinence along with the importanceofusingcondoms and othercontraception, accord: ing to .sex researcher Douglas Kirby..in a report sponsored by the Kaiser Family Foundation. The research indicated that, contrary- to opponents of sex ed classes, the Courses neither has- " ten the start nor increase the frequency of sexual intercourse among teens. Nor do the sex ed classes increase the number of sexual-partners. Gay &amp; ¯Lesbian Americans. WASHINGTON - Activists from around the country gathered in the natiOn’,s capital over theJan215-17 weekend to launch Gay and LeSbian Americans, a "diverse, n0~partisan coalition ofgrassrootsadvocates commit, ted to civil rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people" in this countryJ Elected. as interim Officers in the new Leal,. runningfor a: seat onthe group while it builds member- -San Francisco Board of Super-- ship, creates :local chapters visors.; and Barb Jones, who,iS arohnd(he Countryand firths up running for a seaton the Tempei " it~~ structure were Kim Edwards Ariz,, City Council. The Victory . as Outr:.~k~Direetor, JonCarl Fund had earlier endorsed Tom ¯ Lewis as Communications Specialist, Steven Reichert as Net- .work Coordinator, and Mickey Wheatley asChi~fFinance Officer. GLA Chapters quickly began forming as the founding membership returned to their home towns, and the first group of local GLA chapters will be formally announced around the countryonValentine~s:Day,Feb. 14, at.a-multiple-city nears conference that :is being called "Queers Across ,,America:".o Bringing some unexpected muscle to GLA were Bob Paris, former Mr: America and Mr. Universe, who in 1989 shook up the professional bodybuilding word by coming out and ex- .changing marriage, vows with his husband and fellow physique model.Rod Jackson. The Olympia, Wash., couple-became the first non-founding members to join GLA following the official formation of the groupin mid- January... For information about joining Gay &amp; Lesbian Americans, contact the organization at: PO Box 77533, Washington, D.C. 20013- 7533 or phone (202) 546-4124 or the organization’s toll-free line at 800-889-5111 or, for hightech types, contact them through their Intemete-mail address: glajoin@ queernet.org for membershi_ p details. ~upport For Activists ST. LOUIS.-Agroup ofgay and lesbian mental health workers in battle: "We want to offer services that could address needs before they escalate and overwhelm individuals:There’s so much emotional fallout, and for .an issue like this, where it really is our life or death, we’ve seen a ~r_eat buildup." ime tO.Try Gay Meg? NEW YORK.- Time Warner Inc. says that it is tentatively considering publishing a magazine targeted to gay and lesbian readers, although the publishing giantdeclined to give any details of the possible magazine. Time spokesman Peter Costiglio said "It’s at a very preliminary, early stage. There’s no timetable yet~" Nor would Costiglio discuss what sort of magazine Time might launch in a market where no lesbian/gay periodical has yet broken the 100,000 paid circulation barrier. ’Out There I1’ Comedy HOLLYWOOD - Tickled that "Out There,’~ Comedy Central’s first gay and lesbian comedy special, doubled its prime time ratings, the cable network has announced plans for "Out There IL" which will be taped before a live audience in Manhattan during the Gay Games IV (June 18- 25), Gay Pride Weekend (June 24-26) and Stonewall 25-celebrati0n in New York. The program will be aired later in the summer. Williams from page 6 ignorance". He feels there has been devastation because of ignorance. He wants to make knowledge available to all, but respects therights ofparents who would object. He feels that parents should have a right to veto in terms of their own children, but that "it’s appropriate thateducation should be available" and accessible to those who want it. He thinks that 16 is an appropriate age to make education available. Williams does not feel that education will encourage kids to become more sexually active, but allow them to make better decisions about their activity and its consequences. "The kid’s going to do what they want to do, and when kids makedecisions, they don’tmake them based on consequences for the most part. But I hope that they can make better decisions when they make them, because they understand how to make ,..discrimination is wrong. If we don’t putsome kind ofprotections to say that we’re not going to let you take away [rights].. ,then we’ve really taken .the wrong p0sitionr~ rant that ¯ about HIV. Teenagers~ he said, need to make informed decisions based on knowledge and understanding of the consequences. "I think knowledge is power,i think knowledge is freedom, I think knowledge leads to understanding", Mr. Williams states. Logic needs be be present on both sides of an issue. "If I close my mind, I really don’thave any understanding at all. If you really want to make good decisions, even if you don’t agree with all the other sides that you hear, I think part of being a good leader is to get as much information as possible, as many diverse opinions as you can, and if nothing else, I think it makes you a better person, and hopefully makes you a better leader too. Mr. Williams thinks that if the Mayor has an opportunity to issue a declaration banning dis- - crimination on the basis ofsexual orientation, then "She should do that. There’s people who could be excellent employees, and all ot a sudden someone firids out ten years later, that so-and-so’s Gay. And then they make a decision they can treat them different, andrun them out and all that. " Has nothing to do with their job performance...The people that work for me, I don’t hire them because I want them to agree with my political views, or my religious views, or this and that. I hire them because of their per- .formance..With Clinton, I .Marler ¯ from page 1 Suzanne is running for City Council because she believes that it is possible to make changes, and to honestly represent all of the people, in the city of Tulsa. She believes that her opponent, James Hogue, has not done that. Suzanne’s goal is to make decisions for the city of Tulsa that make sense. As far as Suzanne Marler is concerned, equal rights make sense and it"Is apriority to be able to guarantee equal rights and equal representation to every citizen in Tulsa." Suzanne believes that discrimination isa problem in Tulsa, and it is necessary to add’ sexual orientation’ to the non-discriminationpolicies ofthecity."When there is such obvious injustice taking place, it.’s time we take appropriate action to make sure that it stops. That’s whatgovernment should be about." Williams, continued thoughtheshouldn’t have backed off [the ending of the Military ban on Gays in the armed services]. Are we now doing to decide that certain people can’t be executives, now certain people can’t be school administrators? It goes on and on, and it comes out to one reason; but no one discusses performance:They!re discussing everything but-that." WHAT GAY AND LESBIAN ISSUES? by Kharma Anos Darla Hall, incumbent City Council member from District 2, won the Democratic Party primary. She will-face Republican Gary Moore in the March first election. When asked for an interview, Councilor Hall said that trying to run her business, City Hall, and a campaign left her little time to talk with people. However, she was able to spare a few minutes by phone. After her initial question of "What (do Gay issues) have to do with the City Council?", Darla answered questions about what she woulddo to combat the problem of discrimination based on sexual orientation.That is a "very difficult" issue to address, Darla said. She is aware that Tulsa has a large Gay, Lesbihn, and Bi- Sexual population, but feels that adding "sexual orientation" to the nob-discriminatory policy of the city "would be like passing a law to protect you if you’re Catholic." (Editor’s note: existing law protects on all statuse~ exceptfor sexual orientation.) Darla says that before she would voteeither for or against a Gilbertfrom page 1 TFN: Weunderstand thecommission may not act, but will instead ask the state to do so. Is that yourunderstanding? DG: We haven’t heard anything about it yet, and I don’t know how other council members feel, or will act. TFN: Are you aware that there are no current protections for gays and lesbians, even under the E.E.O.C.? (fair empl. laws) DG:I haven’t spent any time studying this issue. In fact, I’ve never been contacted by gays and lesbians before. TFN: Should there be any protections, .even for employment? DG: People have predujices. There should be education. Prejudice is a problem. This is a moral value for a lot of people. We need to be more tolerable (sic) and treat them as ciuzens, regardless of their preference. In my office, every citizen has the same voice. TFN: Mayor Savage will address a gay and lesbian group on March 24th at the Tulsa Metropolitan Community Church. On that date, the mayor will be asked to issue an executive order measurethatw0uldprotectGays,, -to protect gay andlesbian city she would have to thoroughly employees and contract workresearch the issue. "Right now, ers. What is your comment? my cup runneth over...I am. so DG:.I’msurethatwhoeverthe busy that I only have time to Mayor is [following the electhink about the [current]issues." tion] should act their conscience, Tales from page 1 "’Tales" as "’featuring raunchy language, fronta! nudity, samesex kissing and drug use - all in a positive light. But Congress will be back soon, and PBS inevitably will come in for legitimateattack." Even before the 6- hour "Tales" hit the airwaves, however, Robert H. Knight of the anti-gay Family .Research Council attacked the series at hearings held by the Corporation for Public Broadcasting on Jan. 12, calling the TV version Of Armistead Maupin’s hit book "a slick piece ofgay propaganda" _and objecting to what he said was "taxpayers [being] hit up to pay for a national propaganda exercise glorifying homosexual promiscuity." Yes, you are seeing double! Tu.lsa’s only Gay Gift Store -now Gilbert. continued and rightfully so. C i t i z e n s sho.uld be treated equally, regardless of their lifestyle outside the job. TFN: If there was a petition drive in your district, and thousands, of signatures supported protection, how .would you act? DG: I would act the same way as I did about the half-penny sales tax. If there were enough s~gnatures, I would at least consider it. The council wants to protect the rights of all citizens of Tulsa. ~ has 2 locations! ~ ~ ~:. ;. ~HIV’TESTINGC.LINIC~ ’ - ~,: : :. EV~E;RY "~HUR~iEVENIN~"~: 7!~8~:130 PM sponsored by TOHR, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Finger Stick Method Daytime Testing, Tuesday and Thursday, by Appointment Call 749-4194 By &amp; for but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay &amp; Bisexual Communities YOU ARE NOT ALONE For more information about a Tulsa based support/education group for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual or questioning youth, 15-20 years old, call 587-1300 Tulsa Family News,.February 1994.~ March 1994, page 7 John Thompson from page 1 cope and live with, respect one another’s opinioris. I don’t separate people out as Gays/Lesbi-- ans, especially as an educator; I’m the Superintendent for all k~ds, black, white! and all kinds of things. But when you see a certain kind of group being d!scrimin.. ated against; you must ~n- TN:I think the thing that concerns both young and adult Lesbian and Gay-people, is that. an approach that says, "Oh we’re included in [with:out being mentioned specificaHly]’, in effect often renders us invisible and doesn’t really address our issues. Lesbians and Gay men have a culture; have history..¥ou don’t learn about the different people who contributed who also were sure, or try to make sure, tha.t..that Gay, I mean, you learn about d~n’t happe~ and.try t6 make ’ ’em, but ~omehow nobody ev.er surethfit~y a~e ffi~ienan equal gets around to mentioning me opportumty as well as the other factthat, Oh,bytheway.2 .Its students. That’s ~;here I Come a kindof way of ripping off our from, I just want all kids to have this opportunity:i TN: So; if I understand you properly, then certainly if it comes to your atte’n.tion that Lesbian and Gay 3~oung adults are experiencing discrimination, either from faculty, staff, or from other students, then you would institute steps to address those problems? JT: I think it’d be up to the individual schools, as superintendent, I can’t do it from my office, and we’re getting into site-based decision making. I think that leaders at the schools need tO b6-aware of those kindS of situations. And I would hold administrators and teachers accountable for educating all kids, and 1 repeat, you know, educat=- ing all kids, and Fm not saying just Gays &amp; ISesbians. I’m talking poor kids, rich kids, white kids, educating all kids...... role models from our culture. Our readers are very concerned about a problem of invisibility. I would think that that is setting out inclusion for all people, including specifically Lesbians andGay men. I think that would be part of the role of a Superintendent;. to say everybody is included here, especiall3i since Lesbians andGay menhavechildren and pay taxes. JT: To be~very candid with you, I’m ignorant to the point of being able to walk into a building~ and identifyaGay person vs. the one that’s not Gay, or Lesbian and say this person’s Gay, and this person’s not Gay...When I taught Pythagorus’ Thb,orem, I didn’t seeany difference in teaching any child the same theorem. I’m just ignorant to some of the things you’re saying about special kind of ’lesson, or .Special way, orspecial kind ofapproach that Gay people and LeSbians have to be... I don’t understand that. I just think that all children are children, they have a brain, When a child’s in Tulsapublic schools; we i~dI gonna work with that child,, regardless of any differences, and when we employ people in that school district. we expect to be representative of the culture... ~ they have a mind, they function, -and what we try to do is educate, vs. one that’s nota Lesbian...l is reach those children through know a lot of people.2I’ve s~en themostappropriate way,fdeala lot ofpeople come out of-the ing with their, needs: -I m just closeLas they usedto.say, and ..........ha~ing some problems right have-thoseoutwardappearances -: now..; you can identify. But there’s so - TN: Let me give .you a spemany other people who are. not- -t cific, then. Ifwe}re talking about [identifiable], and you just canrt elementary, then wemay be dealwalk into any particul~, culture. ingwith exclusiv.ely i_ssues of Gay, Lesbian-&amp; Bi-sexual Friendly. People of Color are especially encouraged to apply. Applications accepted until 4pm on Feb. 24th. Please call Roger Morrig, 749-4194 Expert. leaning/Pre sing, " Alterations &amp; Drapery Cleaning 4951 So. Peori~i~ (across from the Camelot) 743-5967 Monday-Friday 7-6, Saturday 9-2 Same,day dry cleaning service on_ request.. ~ traditional education- math-" ematics, reading, whatever. But once we get to. ithe junior and senior.high level, the curricula expands, and in Tulsa, from my recollection of being in Schools here, you4eal with human sexuality at some point. Now, human sexuality, when it’s approached exclusively from a heterosexual context ’where it presumes that everybody is heterosexual, is not going to serve Lesbian and Gay :- ¯ kids; because it doesn’t even ’.~ speak to their reality~ And you’ re right abOut visibility, Gay-and Lesbian: people are not always visible on sight, butChristians aren’t, andJewsaren’ t, and there are cultural differences there and peoplerespectthose cultural differences. Do you see where l’m coming from? JT: Yeah, I understand where you’re coming from; I just have to be very honest with you,-I am not coming in to discriminate against any child. When achild" s in Tulsa public schools, we’re gonna work with that child, regardless of any differences, and when we employ people in that school district, we expect to be representative ofthe culture that we are. about. So I have some real serious problems with separating .people out. This Country and say weare all put here on earth to do the best wecan to live together, and work together in harmony...You’ll have to excuse me, I’mnot a student of a lot~of this discrimination that goes on in our country...I don’tcare what: you are, we create an environment for children to learn. I’m sorry, I can’t say anymore about that. I don’t like to talk about our ignorance. You have given me a topic that I~hadn’ t -given a~lotof thought to, and I think I deserve an opportunity to think about it. YOU haveraised some questions that is something that we need to consider .and think about. I plan to put together some advisory panels, to includepeople from all walks of life.My first six monthson thejob will be doing a lot of listening and observing. I really want to make sure I’m in tune with what’s going on in that particular school district. You have raised some questions thatprobably I haven’t given a great deal of thought to, because in some places-that’s not the issue. Gays and Lesbians have been in all cultures, but they’ vebeen in thecloset. You’ re_ telling me in Tulsa that those people are no longer willing to do that and want to comeout and speak for their rights and privihas labeled so many people over ~ " leges as all otherAmerican citithe years; we-have more labels- zens, and I’m telling you. that for our children than any other we’re gonna educate our chiladvanced culture in the world, dren, I’m a kid’s person; and I IYmjust so tired ofheatingthem, love all kids. Letme putit to you.. I just want toput all that aside, like that. - Attorney at.Law Estate Planning, Adoptions, Personal Injury Criminal Law, Bankruptcy, Workers compensation ~ ~ lnitia!~consultation at no,charge, 1-800-742 9468, or 91.8,352-9504 .... 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are .available.: Know Your_. Rightst Tulsa Family News, February 1994 - March 1994,page 8 - Health Briefs Health Briefs. Health BriefsHealth Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Firing Costs Law Firm ~ gramsforAmedcans0~ierS0a~:. " NEwYORK - .In a case with badly: needed=While"they set-to striking, similarities, to the just-- to think they wi!l no~be,in_fected releasedmotion picture Phila- by AIDS, .people over~:age 50 delphia; a New,York law :firm = haVe,consistenfly?acc0unt~d for ’that fired an AIDSqnfected law- 10% OfAIDS 6ases, with the toll yerhasbeenorderedt0paymOre now at more than 33,000: . than: $5,00,000 - to= the deceased ’ N-ee d I.e -Sw alp: s attorney s estate by the state Di-, ¯ DOil’t Add Addiets visi0nof~HuinanRights; iBaker . CHICAGO Impo~t;-new. &amp; McKenzie said it-would ap- .. evidence¯ backs-.up claims, that, peal ’the decisi0n~ maintaining needle-’exchange.~ programs ihatit.was;unaware ofGeoffrey aimed at preventing ~:IDS Bower.’scondition when he wa’s- among drug users can?~li’amatifired in 1986. The firm contends callycurb high-risk needle:sharthat Bower was released, from his-employment because of his jobperformance. Bowers never told anyone at the-law-firm that he was gayor that he.had AIDS, but doctors testified that he had disfiguring lesions on his faceas a result of Kaposi’s Sarcoma. 9 Cities Eligible for Funds ST. LOUIS ~-By exceeding the grim benchmark of 2,000 AIDS cases, St. Louis is the latest of 9 U.S :cities tobecomeeligible for federal grauts to help care for its AIDS patients. TheDepartment of Health and Human Services awarded nearly $1~2 million to the city to help¯pay the cost Of out-patient services, meals, medication~ counseling andother services to residents with HIV/ AIDS. The agency awarded a total of $t59.9 million in grants to 34 metropolitan areas which ing by IV. drugu,sers ~ without attracting newdrug abusers, accotdingto- two reports published in the Jan~ I2issue of the Journal of the American. Medical Association~ A five-year research project by the University of Califomia at San Francisco found that about 3% of the IV drug injectors w_ho exchanged needles in 1988 were new drug ¯ users, but that.by 1.993 that figure. had.dropped to barely 1%. According to theUCSFresearchers, the study indicates such needle programs do not contribute to increased IV drug abuse. ¯ Another research effort, at New York’s Beth Israel Medical Center, also founda dramatic shiftin the use of shared needlesamong IV drug users, in 1984, theNew York researchers found 51 percentof the ¯ vet; peop!e;.seem to be.getting the - .. jecting it. ~ ’" " :. ~ ~- messageaboutAIDSprevention, New AIDS Ads in .N~ older Americans are largely ig- ~WYORK -~Th~Gay Men s noting, safeguards against the ¯. Health CrisiSha~ mounted a new disease~ a riew¯ medical survey s~bway AIDS preventiOn ad Concludes.. To find out what ’ campaign in Manhattan~targe~- older~Am~ricans ~aredoing to ~:in~--’youngerh0m0sexualsand protect .themselves¯ against bisexuals: Tlie ads feature gay, AIDS, Dr. Ron Stall.and Dr. Joe lesbian, and heterosexual ¢ouples CataniaoftheUni~ei’~ity ofCali: kissing 0rembmcffig while ho!dfomia atSan Francisco .studied ing ~ontlomsand Other protec- ’ more than 3~000 interviews-of tire de,rices. Official~-fro:m people over the age of 50 taken GMHC, the largest AIDS ser~ .from large national surveys, vice organization in the country, Some 10% 6f therespondents say the ads are more explicit reported having multiple sex than whatthey have produced in pai,tners or a bl~5odtralisfusi0h " the pastfor the general public in the 1980’s before AIDS spokespersonforthecity’shealth screening was widely available, department said the ads were no Despite these risk factors, the more explicit than those used by researchers say, olderAmeri~s Calvin Klein and other adverti~, were 6 times less likely to~Use ers to p~0mote their products:.. co0doms and5 tim~s:~less likely AIDS Has. Hit 3,000,00.0 to undergO AIDS testing thah’. .Ii~GENEVA ~ Since AIDSwa~ younger people with simile,riSk- ~;!-. firstidentifiedm0re than 13 years factors. Smllpointsoutthat, f0r-.~; ago; aft estimated 3 million olderAmericans, there havebeen - ~ p~ple:worldwide-have develno public health warnings, bpedl!ae full-i~lown disease, ac- :"When have you ever seen an cording to the World Health Or- AIDS poster with a wrinkled ganizarion;Inatwice-yearly re face?" he asks. Also,. adds Dr. port,, the UN agency al~so, said Mitchell Feldman, an assistant that some¯14million adult~ andl professor of medicine at UCSF, million !children ha~e been indoctors tend to ignore AIDS risk fectedwithHIV, the~,irus.that is " factors, in older patients. ,!’They assume older pe~le don thave sex and arern0t at risk," he says. "But :not only arethey ha~,ing sex, theyare not-lakingprecantions." He says education protions since the previous report in July: Federal Funds for ¯ ¯ NeedleProgram.s WASHINGTON TheClinton administration is studying whether or not itshould put-federal.. funding~ into needle exchange. programs around the country in-an effort to slow the spread.of HI.V among iV drug users, White HOUse AIDS advisor Kri~stineGebbie told repo~- ers. The~earemorethan 3 dozen needle-swap programs ~in_. U.S. cities;.m0st of them technically illegal and poorly funded through volunteer efforts.. Federal regulations block the government from funding such needle-exchange programs without scientific evidence that IV~needle exchanges actually slow transmission of the virus without in- Editorial in the Baltimore creasing drug use. Late !ast year,. Sun ~bout the government’s researchers published the most AIDS :awareness radio and.TV comprehensive study to date on S~.l~,~. ~- " needleexchangesandc0ncIuded ~ ~ =The Clinton administration that the. needle-swap programs deserves credit for prying the lid do in fact block transmissionand offof what previoUSadrriinistradon’t ~addnew addictsto the tionsmisto6kforacanofworms. nation’s population. That .re- The fear that public service ads search, Gebbie said, piompted . might promote promiscuity¯ - a federal health.offiCials t0begin ¯ cause that.seems to thi~ive with reevaluating federal fundi~ng for " or wi~i~’u?prom~otion- .kept’!he the programs. Q u o t e --U n q u o te ingiife~s~ixqng infoima~:oirffiih "No one expects publi~ service announcements to .stem the tide of AIDS. But at least¯ the Clinton administration is getting aggressive about spreading what we do know to be true: Using a condom dramatically reduces the chances of contracting the AIDS VIYUS." young people who needlessly were risking their lives. There were no worms inthat can, ~3nly vital, life-saving information. Condoms do reduce risk. Intbrmation about staying healthy promotes health." . Edi~torial in the Miami Ile~- aM about AIDS info. spots. SALOON ; drawing,dancing &amp;fun! February 27, Sunday Showcase Miss Gay Tulsa ~9~1, Bobby Sue So.mmers Ashlev Mikkels, Rebecca Hunter with Host Kris Kohl February 27, 6pm, OGRA,Tulsa Organizational meeting for Tulsa Chapter of Oklahoma Gay RodeoAssociation - March Events March 12iI OGRA Fundraiser :March 13, MDAFundraiser March 27, Sunday Showcase withKris K0hl¯¯. -Hours: Tuesi-Thurs. 4,2, Fri, &amp; Sat. 7-2, Sun. 4-2 believed to cause AIDS..~ The estimateSwere:-farhigher ith~ ~ pi’eviously repo.rted.~ s~tistiCs. ~l’hey repiesent ajump6f ahalf-. million~in AIDS cd:ses,.~.-an’d.~a .... " ......... ~ ~ ~...... ¯ leap of 1 million in HIV infec- - TulsaFamily News, February 1994 - March 1994, page 9 T H E G American Theatre Co. BREAKING LEGS Mar. 18-26 Broken Arrow Community Playhouse WAIT UNTIL DARK Feb. 11-20 Clark To be announced. 596-711 t Heller Theatre SHERRY’S TURN Feb. 17-20 NO EXIT Mar. 10-13 Sapulpa Community Theatre RHONDA "PEACHES" LOVELACE’S ONE WOMAN SHOW Feb. 18-20 A 596-7111 258-0077 746-5065 227-2169 Spotlight Theatre THE DRUNKARD Ongoing 587-5030 Theatre PODS OUR TOWN FEB. 25-.27, MAR. 3-6 596-7111 Feb, 19-27 Mar:ll-20 596-7111 Theatre Tulsa- CHARLEY’S AUNT LIFE WITH .FATHER Tulsa BalletTheatre To beannounced. 596-7111 TulsaOpe_ra RIGOLETI’O Feb, 26, Mar. 3-8596-7111 Y L I, Mardi Gras 94 For Shanti-Tulsa The Mardi Gras tradition is being brought to life by SHANTI-Tulsa, with all proceeds going to this AIDS-support agency.. Mardis Gins 9 ~vill be held in the rejuvenated Brady District at Brady Street Studios,20 E. Brady. Street; on Saturday, February 19, from 8:00 p.m. until midnight. There will be dancing costumes, and cocktails, as well as raffles:The raffles will be ongoing, and local merchants and friends of SHANT!-Tulsa have donated many wonderful items to be given as prizes. Start now on your costumes, mark your calendars, and plan on enjoying this Mardi Gras ball with your friends. Tickets are still S10.00 each, Patrons $25.00 each, and raffle tickets are S1.00 each. For more information, call SHANTI-Tulsa- at 918-749, 7898. SHANTI-Tulsa was established in 1986 as a non-profit organization for HIV+ persons, persons living with AIDS, their families and loved ones. Througha network of volunteers, SHANTI-Tulsa provides AIDS information, support groups, buddy programs, social activi- ¯ies, and a food pantry. .-~ ¯¯, ¯ :¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ 0 . ¯ ¯ oo ¯ " ~ " ’~~~ :~ ;"~ ~%:Le~bianiGaylBil THEATRETULSA : Transgendered . " ~..Organizing Meeting Presents ¯ S~t..Feb. 26,11am ~ - Life yith Fat ,er :"S"nlver Star: ,Saloon., March: II 20, call 587.8402 ¯ 1565 ~ Into: O’O O O lilt I O ¯ OO0 VICTOR BORGE Celebrate his 85th Birthday Tour! Thursday, March 17 8 p.m. Chapman Music Hall Tulsa Performing Arts Center ~Tickets: $1.5, $20, $25, $35 Call. 596-7111 Tickets by Phone, Tulsa Family News, February 19-94 - March 1994, page 10 E S T Y L E Bobbie Sue S,ommers A NEW QU.EEN REIGNS.! by Kris Kohl Bobbie Sue Sommers is now Miss Gay Tulsa 1994, having won the pageant held at the Silver Star. Kris Kohl stated that this year’s competition.brought in a standing room only crowd-, and was most successful in terms of raisingmoney for its cause, the AIDS fund of Tulsa MCC. Kris is ~ery proi~d of the people and. businesses that supported the pageant and donated flowers, ads, time, space, and prizes. The winner of Miss Gay Tulsa, Bobbie Sue Sommers, added a special thank you to her Sponsors, including the Silver Star Saloon, Paradise, Deep Elm, and Tomfoolery. She says,"As your Miss gay Tulsa, I fully plan to represent the title tO the best of my ability; and proudly take it to Miss Ga~ ’Oklahoma." Runners-up were Ashley Mikkels and Rebecca Hunter, HelenHolliday took home an award for Community Service; and Bobbie Sue also scored in the Beauty, Artistry, and-Sportswear categories. Pat Wilson, AKA "Sluticia", won for Male Interview. " " Kris Kohl extends a warm thank you toall ten contestants: Bobbie Sue Sommers, Anita Mann~ Ivana B. Real,Constance.Monroe~Jd. Gentry; Sensuous, RebecCa Hunter, St~phanie Ross; Sluticia swamppussy, and Ashley Nikkels; and to all who made the event posSible; . Monroe Replaces Scott a:s Miss Gay Tulsa-Metroplex by DaM Pa~i " Constance Monroehas .been. named "Miss Gay- Tulsa Metroplex" for the remainder of 1994. This results from Fall0n.S~ott’s being chosen as th~ current:reigning ’"Miss Gay Oklahoma, USA". A~,Miss ~alloh Sd0tt ~ obligationsid that tide w6uld supersede:that of ,Miss "GayTulsa M~trop[~’i’, Central Pageant’s bo~d of governors have :agreed that tliis iiction be taken, Moriroe will represent Central Pageants, inc. at-the ~’MissGay Oklahoma America" pageaht this ¯ y~r, al0ngwithAnita Richards an,.,,d, JJ. Gentry:CentralPageantsalso announces the crowning ofanew Mis~ Gree~i country ofOklahoma ’94" later this..spring. This pageant will be open to. all female impersonators, (Eduo s note: Central Pageam accompanied their press release with copies _of legal documents establishing the corporation.) 2630 East 15th, Tulsa, 749-1563 .Dart Tournament,. Tuesdays, 8 pm Pool Tournament, Fridays, 7:30 .Every. Friday’at 1.0:30, SHOW! T .H E LIVING ARTS OF TULSA 1994 CALENDAR Pathology ofSymbols by Osage/Pawnee painter ~Norman Ak~rs, .-: Vid~.o:b~!ghdi~iraphers UyTM~a~Ey~photographers. Photographs Th~T~lsaPhoto Collective. February 19~20. Two Tuesdays Performance art FebrUary 22. Process in Clay by Jorge Ortega February 28-April 3. Reception For Ortega and Harris, March 10, GI_ A-,,-.Y TULSA LIBRARY. CALENDAR March 1: . Lecture ~ Wildflowers of-Oklahoma, 1:30, Bixby Library March 1~3 ~5 8,i0,12 Noontime:B0ok Fair~ 2p.m., Centr~fLibrary March 2: . : . Treasures oftheGilcrease, lp;m., Hardesty S0uth-Regional March5,12: Poets in Person;~! 0a.m.o 12p.m., Central Library. March 7,14: Books Sandwiched In, 12:10- 12:50 p.m., Central Library March 9: Cowboys. lp.m., Hardesty South Regional Library March 10: ADULT BOOK DISCUSSION GROUP, Hardesty South Regional Library L I F round. E Y L ;dd cam E Does God Hate Gays? Family of Faith Metropolitan Community Church invites you toa workshop, "Homosexuality and the Bible"., Sunday, Feb. 20. This workshop will begin at ap: proximately lpm (after services) at 500 W. ’A’ Street in Jenks. This is the 1st ina series. Others will be, "Sharing the Flame" on Feb.. 27,and" The Blessing" on March 20. For more info: call 298-4MCC (298-4622). STANDING. TOGETHER New Support Group . Responding to the need for peer support, counseling, and social and informationalneeds of ;.~.couples living with HIV, a new " Ug~oup is forming,.called"Standing Together". Meetings are fa- Cilitated by William and Jeff, both train~ counselors. Tfier~ is no cost. Meetings :every Thursday atT:00 p.m. Forlocation, call 743~2917. TODD CAMPS IT UP IN-LIFE UNDERGOUND "For me as a person, ’Life frontofhundredsofreaderswho tinued his cartooning as a col- Underground’ Has been the best have been there before?" lege student. He now works at a therapy a guy could ask for", He posted his firstcomic strip major Texas daily newspaper. said Todd Camp of his monthly , , He is out at work, as well as comic strip now aPl~,,,aring in I,,t~ ~mu’r,, ~in~ t~ ~nf[ being out regionally, via "Life Tulsa Family News. I mean, -I,’,k,f,;X~i’~,o~’~v~fflil Underground". As.hesays,"If - do it statew de r ght?" your love life;.(or lack thereof), :- :1...... Ym°~.r~sg°~e~°gt~t°~’geu, : " : I Y ,, ; :- the frustrations ofbeing Gay in a ; rt ’’ " " " ’ " right? Well, hes out;.inat.least straight world, and the great : 6~?a bulletin board in the hall: two States now,"thanks:tO+~ulsa mystery we call dating; all: in "wayofhis:high:scho01,andcon: ¯ FamilyNews.. -Gay.OWneddhdOperared " ii-: ’: . . : Thank.you Tulsa,: for " .support! 21st &amp; 129 East Avenue Monday ~ Tuesday ~ Wednesday - Thursday - Friday - Satuday - Sunday - Feb. 19- Feb. 26 - March 5 - March 12- (Next to Homeland) Phone 234-9007 $3 Beer Bust, Everyday 4-7, $1.50 Pitchers, 9 to midnight. Dart League, 8pro Paradise is looking for good players for 2 dart teams, call for info. Pool Tournament, 8pm. Bamboo Night with Singing/Dancing Star Gene Kernaghan. Music from the401s, 50’s &amp; 60% Ladies Night, with $1.25 Longnecks for the Ladies. Talent Search ’94. Looking for Male/Female Dancers, Singers, Comics~-Cal!...the Paradise. Male Dancers (Looking for Leather). Disco &amp; Mixed music, 10pm. , ~ Showcase with Mersades, and special guest Stephanie Cassidy. And Dancers too! AfterMarch 1st, Brunch,~.noon -2pm. Keyboards by Cool Breeze; Rita’s. Karaoke from 2-6pm~ Stephanie Cassidy with Erika Grant,We~idy Storm, Mersades. Male &amp; Female Dancers, Mike &amp; Sidney. stephanie Cassidy withMersades, Fallon Scott,_ Stephanie Ross, &amp; Male Dancers. T~ger Lily Night (1 st Sat.). Tiger Lily with Stephanie Cassidy,_Mersades, Stephanie Ross,&amp; Lola! Hosts Mersades &amp; Stephanie Cassidy, with Courtney, Michell Ross, &amp; Dancer, Bobby! Open daily till.2am,~.Fpod served during all open hours: Major credit cards accepted. Tulsa Family News, February 1994 = March 1994, page 11 1 MONEY! MONEY-! MONEY! Every Thursday &amp; Sunday, $50 give-away Every Friday &amp; .Saturday, $200 give,away Each night between 1 0 &amp; 12! Beer BUst: Thursday &amp; Sunday, all night $5 Friday &amp; Saturday, 9-1 2 $3 Domestic Longnecks 50¢, 9-1 0 pm, $1, 1 0-11 everynight On Feb. 24, From Kansas City The SHOWME Man -Dancer Doug Boyce Comi.ngMarch 20th First Class Male. Dance Revue Graphics by Tulsa Family News Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1994] Tulsa Family News, February-March 1994; Volume 1, Issue 3 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa's Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 was issued between December 1993-January 1994. 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Community W-e.l c o.. m ~? : Urban T.uls-a; a monthly enter~ tainrrient newspaper reiterated its .. policy of rEfusing-to accept advertising that:-, uses the words 29 _... _: -: LesNan hr"Gay. The exception is_ an-.ad: for- the Newly CliniC. Keith M.S Skrzypczak, edit0~& pubfisher, an open forum sponsoredby " Mayor Susan Savage . said that this. ad was.accepted Tulsa Family News and hoste_d because heterosexuals might be had to.cancel her earlierdate of by the Metropolitan Community interestedin the service. February 24. . Church Of Greater Tulsa, 1623 Pat Devlin, the owner of The Mayor will be welcomed North Maplewood(northwest of. Cherry St. novelty.shop, Phun by the Reverend Alice Jones andSheridan & Pine). See NotWelcome, page 7 This is a fulfillment ofapromTom Neal. Members, family & friends of the TulsaLesbian/Gayl ise.made inan interview ~lone in Bisexual/Transgendered ~ c6m~ the fall with Tulsa Family, News publisher, Tom Neal. Due toa mUnities are iriVited again to hear family emergency, .the Mayor .- and to question our mayor. Tulsa business Business Guild.. While the organizers are still developing a formal. mission statement, Tim ’Gillean of Budget Window.. Treatments & Mote :describes its goals as.providing a place for Lesbian & Bay businesSowners to meet each other for support, sharing advice and resources, r The first two meetin.~s have See.RainboW Business" page 6 .ayorSavageCancels . allegedly held ~ thing from police haiassment-to Sava up by family prob!ems,sent Jim - - .diScriminationinthe workplace, East and Hi!ary Kitz torepresent --. Specific requests and sugges¯ tions to the Mayor were to inher at the town meeting on Feb-. elude Gay and Lesbian sensitivruary 24. Apparently, this is the See Mayor Cancels, page 6 second time Mayor Savage has the values that make our nation " strong." "All people in our society must enjoy the opportunity to be judged on their merits," Clinton wrote. "Sadly, as you point out, this simple principle 0fjustice has come under assault in several states this .year-:" " Clinton went on to write, "Those who wguld legalize, discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or any other gr0unds :are gravely mistaken about the val,,ues that make out-nati0n.str0ng. The essential, right .tp. ,e,qua!ity See Clin~on, pag.e 8 ing. metropolitan :area was included in each_ bill. The insert was a. joint effort of the city of..Tulsa, the Tulsa Human. Rights Com- . mission, theTulsaHumanRights ~ebruary 14, said "Gee whiz, Janethere’s,;not gonnabeaGayPridepicnic ,so then we took it over. The first ~ year, there weren’t.really that many people. The second year, I talk~d~,ithRoyandJimmyfrom the To, olbox, to see if they ouldn:t help me.out a little bit. So.they-~can{e in with me and it grew quite a bit the next year. Every year it has grown some. Se_e Jane Roth~ page 7_ ~t994 ~. William Weybour~ Gayand Lesbian Victory Fund Seventh Floor ~$2 14~h Street, Waahington, D.C. LocaI-Heroes:-JaneRoth TFN: Tell us about the Pride Picnic, and your involvement with it? JR: When we first came t0¯ town, TOHR had been doing it. And they dropped it. I really don’t know the circumstances, They dropped a lot of things around 19~.8, like the Southwest Invitatiohal, which we picked up. . But when I got;here,.!he girls Plans for Tulsa’s 1 st Lesbian/ .Gay Film ~Festival have been annoUnced byits .organizers. A jointeffort between members of TOHR. Tulsa Oklahomans for Human -Rights and the BLGA, Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Ass0cia~ fion of the University of Tulsa will be held April 15.17 in Lorton Hall at theUnivers!ty of Tulsa. See Film :Festival, page 8 :u I s a Clinton Slams Anti-Gay Politics WASHINGTON - President Clinton has sent a letter to the. Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund condemning anti-gay rights effortg that have cropped upin nearly a dozen states and even more cities and counties around.the country as what he called an attempt to le~,ahze d~scr-rm~nation." In the Feb, 14 letter, addressed to William Waybourn, executive director of the Victory Fund, Clinton said the sponsors of antigay campaigns around the country "are gravely-mistaken abo.u~t _ April 15, 16 & 17 20005 aswell as threats motiva_ted by raceT reli~ gion, nationatofiginor.other statuses. It was notable for its inclu’ " of-the words, " sexuatonension S~eNO’Hate, page 6 . . Gay & Bisexual communities to come together to celebrate our pride, and this year, the 25th anniversary of the Stonewall rebellion. The picnic traditionally has See Tulsa Picnic, page 6 Oklaho.ma i d e S um m i. t On February 26 at the Silver - Star SalOon in Tulsa. 18 representatives from Lesbian/Gay/ Bisexual o.rganizations from Oklahoma City, Norman. Stillwater and Tulsa met to de .... o velop plans for a State-wide meeting Or conference to be held this June. Oklahoma City organizers had held a meeting on Feb. 6th at which they "brainstormed" ideas -for goals and possible outcomes " Of d state-wide nieeting. At the Tulsa meeting, Tulsa representatiT.esproposedthat thismeeting should be held in OklaSee Pride Summit, page 8 Sincerely, Tulsa Family New~ March - April 1994, page 1 �Letters Good Idea Bad Attitude: Youth Services of Tulsa’s Gay Young Adults Program Some months ago, Youth Services of Tulsa. a United Way agency, began .a program to help Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and ques, ti0mng young adults by iproviding a support group. Gay. youth (using the term gay to indicate aH the statuses above)are at greater-risk than many other youngadults. Government studies have shown that gay youth are 2 to 6 times more likely toattempt suicide and may account for 30% of completed suicides. Low__self esteem, identity, conflicts, isolation, and fami~ alienation, all which can .be blamed on the prejudice and bigotry of our society, are factors in their behavior. The problems for gay young adults are real; the need for help are real. Friends and members of Tulsa’s Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual communities should applaud Youth Services for taking this brave step. We should recognize the "right-hearted-ness" of the individuals involved. Lisa Pottorf and others on staff, some Gay, some not, are clearly committed to doingtheright thing: helping kids. Members of our communities have also become involved as volunteer facilitators. Many others would probably help if.they but knew about the program. - - There-inlies the problem,The program, is .hamstrUng by. the. fears, an~possibly, prejud{~e, Of Youth Services’ top officers and staff. Because of fear of backlash, Youth Services hardly wants any one to know about the program but in the process risking that those who need to know See Gay Youth, page 7 INTERNATIONAL TOURS Airline/Hotel Reservations Ticket Pick-Up ¯ Cruise/Tour Packages Group & Incentive Programs "NO" Service Charge l~xperienced Personnel Packages Available for Gay Games & Stonewall - 25 (918) 341-6866 Oklahoma’s Only LG.TJ~ Affiliate (Internagional Gay Travel Assoc~aglon) Tulsa Family News, March - April 1994, page 2 Several .times last night during the forum with Mayor Savage’s staff, I heard people from the audience talking about "Bible Thumpers". The fact that MCC Tulsa allowed us to meet in their church building should demonstrate that all "Bible thumpers" are not .bad people. nor are they all anti-Gay. In fact, there are more than two Christian organizations in Tulsa that specifically serve our commuriity. AS we ask the world to put aside its prejudices, shouldn’t we also ask ourselves the same thing? How many of us automatically assume that if someone is heterosexual. Republican, and Christian, they are also antiGay ? Isn’ t that assumption based on prejudice? As we as a community, ask the people in our society to change; let’ s also make the necessary changes within ourselves. As we. ask the people in our society to give everyone a chance regardless of their sexual orientation, let’s also start giving everyone around us a chance, regardless of their sexual orientation, religious affiliation, or political partnership. If we can do that, we will become a better people. Editor’s note: the letter above was Submitted unsigned and without a phone number. While TFN is happy to print letters with.name withheld by request, infUtiirei "unsigned letterk Willno}be rep]:oduced~ .....~ "" ’~ " Dear TFN, The angerl disappointment, and feelings of betrayal that resuited from Mayor Savage’s last minute unavailability last night are only natural. However, I am concerned about what might result if those feelings are not handled in the appropriate way. If we, as a community, harbOr those feelings and allow them to expand instead of doing the appropriate thing and focusing that negative energy into something positive, it will be counter-productive and detrimental to our struggle for equal rights. We cannot generate change by sitting around being angry and feeling sorry for ourselves. We can generate change by taking action. I understand that there are those in our community who are afraid to stand up and OUT because they may lose their jobs, their homes, or families. Isn’t it sad that there has to be that fear? But even thos’e people who have that fear can write letters, can make phone calls, can actively vote, and can follow up on their votes by talking with their representatives. We cannot expect our government to take all of the chances and do all of the work while we sit around absorbed in our own self-pity. We have to show our governmental leaders that we are willing to support them before,, during, and after See Letters, page 7 TULSA FAMILY NEWS Publisher/Editor Tom Neal Assistant Editor James Christjohn Staff Writer Kharme Amos 918-832-0233’, POB 4140. Tulsa. Oklahoma 74159 Issued on the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication areprotected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in.whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. 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President’s Report Mayor’s office ...... : ....... ,.. 596-2100 City of Tulsa Human Rights Department ..................... 596-7818 Quik Trip (ask.for President’s office) ........... 836-855 ! PSO (ask for Carol t Iuff Hicks) ..... ~ ...... 599-2000 - Samson ~ompanies (ask for Sentell Fox) ....... 583-t791 " .................. ’ Currently TOItR i.~ working in:c6aliti0n with other groups towards the goal ofllaankthem for participating ~the Say spurring our legislature-tuadd sexual o_o.’- N6 Tb I-!a-te educa,i~nai.e~i’~beeptJaniee Nicklas, Senior Planner on - because of her extensive work in the HIV/ entati0n to Oklah0ma’s~ hate ¯ crim~es - ingthediversityof’~i6:ubmmiinit~_andfor llealth, Promotion, Community Service AIDS arena over the past several ~years. statUte:. This past niUnth" sh~’a itei~s~3i~ : -n6t toleratinj(li~it-( ilirected agaii~t any CounoilufTulsa Ar~a United Way, Will be-~ Slic isa ’tremetidous asset to our commuspeaking at-the April TOttR. meeting, nity and a wonderful spokesperson-for No to Hate-pUblicity’campaign, sponsored ~grou, p, including gays and lesbians~ If locally, which included a Tulsa utility bill you re afraid to identifyyourself, leaveout about the Tulsa Community AIDS Part- persons-livingwith HIV & AIDS. : insert with sexual orientation in its text. the speoitic reference to gays and lesbians, Please join us for this excitingpresennership (TCAP). TCAP, part of NCAP The City of.Tulsa, along with the corpo- but please take a few minutes to make the (National Community AIDS Partnersh!~p)~’ tation on Tuesday,. April 5, 1994 at the calls. It’s important that these folks know rate sponsors of the projeoL have received expects to grant approximately 1/2 milhon Gathering Place, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite afew negative phone calls about the cam- that ~ve appreciate the stand they have dollars to organizations in the Tulsa MSA -|t~ We have a social time.starting at taken. Feedback ofpublic opinion will over the next four years. Thisnew venture - 6:30pro and the meeting. commences. paign. I urge you to show vonr personal. affect their future decisions. support of the projeetby’tak]ng a few minwill greatly benefit areas that currently promptly at 7:00pm~ TOHR, Tulsa’S by Kelly ~Kirby, President, TOHR growing human rights community set3’ice utes :to call: unserved or underserved, This marks the second issue of the TOHR Reporter running within Tulsa Family News. Feedback has been very positive to this new format, getting more local news to our membership as well as TOHR news to the larger community. Our last meeting saw several new faces and TOHR nee~ the support of all of Us. " APRIL MEETING NOTICE Janice brings a wealth of information organization, NEEDS YOU! Gay Gale ndar of Events,COMING SOON! TOHR to Go-sponsor GaylLesbian Film Festival April 15-17 have beenset as tentative dates for an extensive Gay/Lesbian Film Festival to be held on the University of Tulsa campus. This should be an_exciting and diverse showing of timely cultural issues and enterta’inment. Mark these dates NOW and look for additional information as the time draws near. TOHR is in the proo¢~ of o’olle~ting your. event, meeting or gathering. "Calendar of Events’" items for publicaThe "’Calendar" is intended to notify tion in all area newspapers~..Please call the ¯ the lesbian~ gay, bisexual and transgenHelpLine 743-GAYS (4297) to promote dered community of happenings in town. H~MBF.-.RS’ RI-:PR~_SENfAI-IVFS MI:-MRIi:I~SHIP APPI ICAIION u Yes.I want to be a Contributing member of- U I would like to volantec, help witl~: Taisa Oldahomaas foi Human Rights. ~ LesbiatgG~y/B~sexual llelpl.ine Please accept l~)~mt ~.s described below: Name .... rl HIV Counselor .~ $10Limited Income/Stadent Membership " ..................... ~ Executive Board Member . . " : . Address _ .i ~ _ _ ~. $20~:.M.¢anbcuship_ , iH~M.M~o_, :. :~ .~y~ent Pl~ing and P.a~y- preparations,. ~.’,q 5 -. ~ ’ ~-,: i: :l~l~ $,3::5..: ¯ Phone (i,pti~mal).: s~ "zip,: -- " -r3!~’~i~~-~r~~=- ~iv:::: 7: :f>..i::7. ~: ~10gtmV ~eeti~g s~,,t, ,:~ " .:- ..... --’. Do~ .:...:.:.:...:.:....=....:.../:.::..~::::;......."X,~,,e~ " : :.. : Make-cheek pcg~ble .tO TulsdOklahomans f&. . ................. Signature ......................................... .+ -++.+ Kclly Kirby....: .................................. 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Harvard, Suite H- l from ¯legal and medical to AIDS. TOItR and bar information. The ltelpLine is staffed 7 davs.a week, 8-10-PM l.’ohtnteers are always welcome! TOIIR fields calls for an ~m-going discrimination survey. If you, or someone you know, are being di~riminated agaittst, please eonta~t the ttelpLit~ at 743-4297. Quadrangle Building SII" corner.of 41st and Harvard, SW comer of office compl~r Also, TOHR tracks hate crimes statistics. If.you are, or someone you know ~ a victim of a hate crime this information is veD.’ valuable. Please cal! the HelpLine. + ..~ Service of 7~tlsa Oklahomans for Human Rights ! olmtteers Always !~ielcome /;br and by hut m~t limited toLesbians, Ga.vs, and Bis~ruals And if you move or are having problems receiving your TOHR mMiings ~ the 7"visa Family News, call to pro~Ade a change of address or to verify yore-addr~s. Tuba Family News, March--April 1994, page �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News.Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News nel protections. Now the bank Boycott Threat toGay has agreed to put "sexual orienMarriages .in Hawaii tation" back into its anti-bias HONOLULU- Anti-gay forces policies just weeks after politihave apparently been flooding cians, led .by San Francisco Suthe Hawaii Visitors Bureau with pervisor Susan Leal, and activletters and phone calls threaten, ists, led by the National Gay & ing an economic boycott of the Lesbian Task Force. launched a state if it permits same-sex marcampaign to pressure the bankriages. The head of the state?s ing giant to reinstate the old tourism office t01d legislators policy. In a.letter to Leal, who that the agency has received over-~: had written a stinging letter to whelming numbers of calls and the bankto complain about the lettersthreatening boycotts, of change in FIB’s personnel-lanconventions, vacations, family guage, ¯Julius L. L0eser. senior reunions, and other visits to the vice:president assistant .general islands if Hawaii alloWg gays counsel at the bank, said~ "’For o and (esbians to marrY. Tourism clarity, we will add language ~o officials also noted ti{at they.had . ¯ our-written corporate policy to received hardly any expressions state more-directly our existing of support for. same,sex marpolicy:.afiat will explicitly state riage~and concluded that jr’state that we .Er0hibit discrimination courts.rule that/est~ian-and gay and harassment based on race. marriages are legal under state a,~e color reli,,ion nationalorilaw. it_would me~asurably dam~.-...-.~t~:.~.sex. ~ete~n st’atus, disabiiage the state’s:important tourity and s~xualorientation.’" ism industry. The agency can Amnesty En.ds Silence contacted by writing: Hawaii SAN FRANCISCO - The huVisitors Bureau. 2270 ’Kalakaua man rightsorganization Amnesty Avenue. Suite 80 L HoaOlulu HI International USA announced 968.15 or by calling (808) 924the launching of a broad, siX0266. month campaign in the United ’Seattle Times’ Extends States to end government imBenefits to Partners prisonment, torture and execution.of gays and lesbians around SEATTLE - The Seattle Times the world. The campaign, kicked has become the 2nd major daily newspaper in the U.S. to extend off in conjunction with the publication of AI’s groundbreaking health insurance and family leave benefits to the partners of its gay report "Breaking the Silence: omy laws only to homosexuals, and the organization now says. it "would consider an individual imprisoned under these laws a Prisoner of Conscience and~ would call for their immediate and unconditional release." To get copies of the report "Breaking the Silence:’ send $8.00 (which includes shipping and handling) tO: AIUSA, 322 Eighth Avenue, New York NY 10001. Defeat in Missouri City SPRINGFIELD, Mo, - In what activists fear may be.a harbinger of next November’s statewide vote on a Missouri anti-gay constitutional amendment, Springfield, Mo., residents voted overwhelmingly to repeal a city hate crimes measure that includes sexual orientation,. among other categories. The vote was. 71%for- repeal to 29% against. The repeal campaign was headed by Poll: Jobs, Housing -Yes; a local group Citizens for Decent .Standards .which has close Marriage, Adoption - No ties with the statewide ArfiendNEW YORK ~ A polt, published merit Coalition, which ig backin the Feb. t 4 issue ofNewsweek ing a state anti-gayconstitutiOnal underscores-Americans’ conamendment based on Colorado’s .tinuing contradictory attitudes Amendment 2 prohibiting any about gays and lesbians. While gay rights measures inMisSouri. .the poll, conducted Feb. 3-4 for Rights Battle Erupts in New the magazine-by.the Princeton Mexico Legislature. " Survey Research Associates N.C..Parade Gets. P.etmit based on_ telephone interviews . CHARLOTTE, N.C.-The Front with 750 adUlts, found that 74% Page reportsthat the 8th annual endorse .employment anti-bias North Carolina Lesbian & Gay protections for homosexuals, and Pride parade and rally has gotten’, 81% think gays and lesbians approval from city officials for should have housing protections. its scheduled. June 5 event in as Well, more than 60% said they spite ,of objection by an influen.oppOse same-sex marriages and tial Baptist minister. Organizers adoption rights for gays and lesof the. event, being held in Charbians. Fewer than 0ne-third of lotte for .the first time, will hold those polled support .marriage the post-parade rally at Marshall and adoption rights for gays. Of Park, located next to the First those surveyed, 43% said they Baptist Church. The church’s had a friend or acquaintance who pastor, Rev. Charles Page, had is horaosexual, while56% said objectOd that the event .doesn’t they didn’t know aflyone who is gay or lesbian, When asked if ¯"representthe Valuesof0ur comAIDS. hfid changed their f.eeling’ : .muni.t.Y.":But.qi~Yoffigia!s voted and lesbian workers. The Bos-" -HumanRightsViolatio,nsBased ton Globe_became thefirst daily . on Sexual Orientation,’ was arito o-~t’Stich~ ’6~i~fi~; the~Vi~~ ~’~-: ~0un~d -~t ’~iress~"~onf~r~ne~ lage Voice,~-the p..op~lar :New ,:,held:~i~rnultaneousl~haSanF~,an~!’::~ " York weekiy.:~lso:’indludes the": cisco~indWaghingt~n;D.C. "~tie erant of gays, while 31% said it unmarried partners of its employees in its benefits package. First Interstate Restores Anti-Bias Language SAN FRANCISCO - First Interstate BankCorp: which operates banks in 13 Western states from Oregon to Texas. has agreed to reinstate nondiscrimination language m ~ts personnel polictes to include sexual orientation. saying thewhole issue was a"naisunderstanding:" In 1993, under pressure from fundamentalist groups in Utah and Arizona. FIB changed its anti-bias policy to include only"race, age, color, religion, national origin, sex. veteran status, disability or any other basis protected by federal. state or local law." Rights activists said, because only ’one state - California - has a gay rights law, the change amounted to FIB dropping its own person- U.S. branch of the London-based international human rights Watchdog group said the intensive campaign "places .the government repression of gay men arid lesbians squarely on the international human rights agenda ., to put government on notice tha( homosexuals are no longer easy targets for human rights abuses." "Breaking the Silence" documents attacks against gays and lesbians ranging from government-backed rape and torture to executions because-of individuals’ sexual orientation. The report notes that in Romania, gay men are routinely targeted for police assaults and torture, citing several cases of beatings lasting as long as 13 hours. Similar reports are cited in Great Britain, the United States, Costa Rica and Turkey. .The report also notes that 5 U.S. states - Arkansas, Kansas, Missouri, Montana and Tennessee - apply their sod- had made them less sympathetic, Pollsters said the Survey had a 4 percent margin of error. Pope Says ’Nope’ to Lesbian/Gay Families VATICAN CITY - A proposed resolution before the European Parliament calling for the legaP ization of same-sex marriages and allowing gay and lesbian couples to adopt children drew a quick - and negative ~ response from Pope John Paul.. The pope, speaking to a group of bishops about thee need to. protect the unity of the family, mentioned the European Parliament resolution, saying a growing number .of politicians are recognizingthe importance of keeping families together, but added, "not all of them, however, as we have seen...We can’t let .this pass." The gay and lesbian marriage and adoption resolution was introduced Tuesday, Feb. 8. Kefi’s Flowers 1635 E. 15th Street, 5.99-8070 . Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian & Gay Communities With Pride - Look for our Rainbow Flag Tulsa Family News, March - April 1994, page 4 ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ thaiderailed a proposed city Ordinance adding sexual orientation to Charlotte’s anti-bias protections. Sony Mulls Plant in Springfield, Ore. SPRINGFIELD, Ore. - Activ~ ists are raising warning flags over plans by Sony Inc. to construct a new compact disc plant in Springfield, O?e., which in 1992 approved an anti-gay ballot ihitiative. Springfield city council members who backed the antigay ordinance have said the legislationactually would makethe: town more appealing to businesses that support "traditional family values." Sony officials have played down the. importance of the anti-gay measure, even though they acknowledged to reporters that the finn .has an anti-bias, policy that includes, sexual orientation. Th.e company refused, however, to say whether it-recognizes the domestic part- ners of employees.Activists are callingon people to contact Sony USA officials to let them-know the importance they. place on Sony’s move, its refusal to take the:anti-gay vote.seriously, and its reluctance to publicly discuss its domestic partners policies. Oregon activists urge contacting: RonSommer, Chairman, Sony of America, Sony Drive, Park Ridge. NJ 07656 FAX: " 201-930-2263; and James Frische, SonyDigitai Audio Disc Corp., 1.8100 N~ Fruitridge Ave., Terre Haute, Ind. 47804 FAX: 812~466~i [ 2 " Protections; ~Benefits at BelI,NorthernlNorthern : _T e ili e c o m. -OTTAWA,~Sta!!.ing thisl year~.. " .... Beli~b~0flh~m Research now in=~ ~5/ ’ ~ eludes s~xuai orientation in it~ equal employment opportuni/y~ ent corporation, Northern Telecom.Ltd. implemented the new policy throughout all its subgidiaries. And beginning in July of this .year Northern Telecom is extending domestic partner benefits to Bell-Northern Ltd. in Canada and BellNorthern USA. The Gay, Les~ bian, Bisexual Association has also formed for Bell-Northern Research/Northern Telecom employees ..... "Front RUnner’ Sequel ~ - ~,N~.W, yORK nest=semng novel ~ane front Runner, will be on 15ookshelves in time for Gay Games IV this June in New York. Warren’s sequel; Hailan’s Race, contin-~ ues the story of characters Harlan Brown and Billy Sire. The author calls fhe continuation "a story about loss and healing, about the courhge to love again." Comic Targets Gays ST. -LOUIS - Washington University students and Officials are trying to figure out how to respond to a comic book drawn by an unidentified student at the university’s fine arts school depicting a string of 27 grisly killings, mostly of gay men. "Today it’s fags, tomorrow it’ll be some other idiotic fringe group that pis~es me off;" thecomic’s murderous character says. "Like I said before, I am God. I decide who lives and dies, and my hand reaps the harvest?’ The grimly explicit drawings depict its victims .being shot, stabb~d, CUt in Puppy Pause II " ¯ ¯ ¯ All Breeds Dog Grooming _, llth & Mingo, 838-7626 Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. Call for Appointments. Walk.ins Also Welcome. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ m ¯ mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm ¯ �News Briefs NewsB.riefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News .Briefs News along the electronic telecommufinancially-successful far-right ~n anti-God message and pro-. way to prevent the disease, half, disemboweled, and one nications superhighway can reAfrican-American woman being homosexuality. Chisum also co-authored a 1993 groups battling gay rights, a_bor- - moting tion; gex education and similar CCABers .are following the in ally be. Andersonand Benvenuti measure that gave the state inmurdered with a "garden weathe -footsteps of Joseph Cham~ attracted media attention earlier surance department authority to social policy issues in this courtsel." The creator of the comic regulate the selling of life insurtry. B. Allan Ross, a spokesman book writes in a chilling introbers, a former Church of God inF.ebruary whe~; frustrated.with minister and gay rights foe in ance policies, by .people with for the boycott group, DomiNO trying to meeting women at duction,"thethingthispromotes AIDS, the game viatical .s.ettle- . Pizza. Theory, said, "Focus on Charlotte,N.C:¢ who’s recently singles bars and classified ads. is hatred and contempt." School officlalsand studentleadershave ,o ments that he.~s now.cashing ~n the Famdy is one of the ¯many pubhshed booklet, - Barney the they shelled out $3,000 .h r a held .a.,seriesOf meetings, about .:~ on. AIDS ai~d gay,rigti~"~ti~-i ~ fronts.for thep~tieal and finan- " Pu~le Messiah;(’.~laims t~e. 6~ the co~ebook:~nd how to’;re- ~ :?ists ifi.~’~t~ll~Cfi~gfi~’~~ ~cial mac~inff ~eSpo~sibl~.fbr: .... foot PBS ~har~.~’teac~ing~:: ~freeway:.i~th~ge.arc~?M~ss spon6:-t~ it ,:::,--~.- ,../.~ - ~- actions~’Jmdcabf6:~: ~::;~ ’ ~. ~: : ~ Amend~ent2 in.Colorado,’for, .-~ ¯:kidstfia~..w~ must ac~ep/e~er~;~ Mormons~CalledtO? ~:- -::~ Domestic Padnersfor whathappened~nClnc~nnat~,and oneas.they~e~.wh~-thert~y~re. 3, portrd~t:phor~ofthe,t~u~m~a~ ~,_ ~..,-~ .z ......’ ~.~ . ~.-~-~ / - ¯ , : , : ¯ M~ss~pl. -C~nclnnat~ voters Tolerance, WhaI-a:conce t.~ln-..-. ~thes~m~le.messa~ EachSe0k time for V~lentine’s Daf, th~~ :sembly~an~i~ch~ ’~at~ £(D-, ~’dr~’p~o~’]Tbq~i’n~l~q)h~’~g. . aft% all the ~u~licity about th~ Moron Church. has declared . Sylm~)announcedme~ntroauc- " tectionsbased6nsexual0fidntacalledFlorid~ans~ which sounds . billbo~rd;:-a? high-tech hacker warQn!~gafizingsame-segmar~ ./ tionofaproposedmeasureint~e -cracked their voice-mail access like an anti=tooth decay ~ treattion, modeled on’ COlorado’s riaggf!.and.urging th( ~ati0n"s 9 :~ California LegiSlature on Moncodeandchangedthemen’smes-ment,.NhHe people.fr0~_Tampa Amendment: 2:’Locat residents million church, members to de: day, Feb. t.4 to set ~p statewide in ovett~ Miss.; have mounted a are Called_ Tampans, which sage¯-and theirsex,ual orientafend the "sacred family setting.". . domestic pa:tner registration.for .. campaign there .toforce a. non- ..... ~sounds fike something altogether lion in the process. The hacker ¯ A pre~s release from Mormon unmarried same: ’ ’;profitfem~mstretreat, ....." ...... left a .voice~mail greeti:ng lhat CamP .S~sdifferent, , opposite~ ~,. and, ~ .... Church leaders said, "Marriage . .......... "ter S-irit ^ut -f~he ’ area"’sex couples, the r~atz nm.womo ";’" .said, "Hi. Thanks for cal.ling. . . . uy any /? ,~u u t Buffed Bruinto Bif Blazes between’a man and.a woman is ¯ allow~zouples , t~rfilepartnerreg--’~. .... ..~^~ .... ,. .......~..~ ¯ We’re both looking for Mister . lll~K~;allb -ll~k.¢~;b~a.ly ." O~baLlb~ trig .~ ATLANTA - As part of the U.S.. " " ordained of God :to ¯fulfill. the . women who run tlie retreat are Right. If you’re a young: white . lstrat~on forms wxth the Cahfo.rForest Servicers celebi~gtion of eternal destiny.of his children, nia Secretary of :State’s.office. ---lesbians:Ross said the DomiNO Smokey- the .¯Bear’s 50th birthmale responding to oucbillboard This sacredfamily setting with Bothpartners, whethersame-sex n:~,~ ...... ~. ........ ~’^-:^" -ad then ¯leave the followinday, the once-chunky daddy be~ , in father and mother fi~ly com. or opposxte sex~ would have.to f.~.ti.~ ~ftor-the tone" Your ~ .~a a~.¢,..,.i ...... ~¢ino . . . .. ~ ¯ -......not. . has u oateo ~1S a~, u y m~ttedtoeachother.and.tonghbel8 ye~s of.age:orolder, . ¯ P~ " ~ ¯ , . ¯ i=~.’ " nnmo =lolo~h.n’o number ad" tho~.mlnnPlvT..utlaf~.rnHnd ...... . . . .... ~ ..... ~-.=~....~ .....y=,~ . m~led.or . . : in . another image, translo~lngnlmselHnto teoushvlngiofferstfiebesthope cu~ently ~tho on~ntr~t ~xtlthin tha n~t ¯ , ¯ ; .~ gym~tone~-amma~ ~0.se ..... foravoidingmanyoftheillstfiat -registere’ddomesticp~tnership, ~’r_r~’~:~_~V~~’~:~Zr;" . um ed-u ecks and c sy ..... .... .... . ......... afflict s~ety. Church officials hve together, -shoe h~an g~ ex .................... P P P P .......... ~-- o. . - ¯ fires , ...... are welcome to leave amcssa~.c ......... cott organizers can be. reached o .... ~ more ..... ,. a ............. ~ood looks could h~ht ..... stud the call to oppose gay and penses and not be telatedqn ¯ ~.. :tmo~ .o~:o~n~ , ’ - ¯ .... ~ ........ - .... ~ ..... ........ , than the old Smoke ever exun. way that., would legally, bar tbem, " .................. lesbmn mama~es, was a result of men sa~d the faked messa.e 71~Oml~ ~$10~ ~ YEnc .............. ~u.~shed" But when ..... Zorn, a from gettlngm~ed understate .. a court case m Hawan that could - - ..... ..... . ~ - = - : -, ¯ .... , .. .~,~- ~,., ~ a .... r th- number ~.~. .... ~... - .,RICHMOND, .Va ..... Lesb!an Ch~ca~o Tribune colummst, ae- . . .~o.~t.~_~o~ ................o.,,~o¢~.~H~ .~.-r.....~---a ...... _ ¯ ¯ oiresponses they rece~x.eo " " ..... " : " " .... ’ ’: ’ " ~ : the . morn Sh~on Bottoms returned ctded to t~ to-find out about .... "=t’i"" m~i=H ’~ ........ ~_,,_~ ==.,_~ ~ ’ =,~.P .... ~ ...... :AlOOg~ ~0~ ~nmg. - . .... . . .. ¯ ~= - : to-a Vlrgmla stat~ppea!s court .... ch~e in the brawny, b~:ln .s Reeogmze~Gay~Gro~p.- in:her fightto reg~n cust0dy:of " new :Solofle~- loo~ 2-:~higeled - In On :’Death gutures~..., .~BO!sE,~ia~:3~-~~ff6a~’,~,id~0 ~ -her 2~y~e~-old.s~n~ Tyler, Last -- pecks;cut abs~:buffed ~ebest-and AUS~;~ Te~as:~:£. ~g.a~ghy .:i;;~~:;~;i~t~ff~J~es:,, :_ iy~h~i~e~~defl~eu~ ; i~;~.tfimmer~, tigh~e~a~:st~; h~-.xan ¯ ~llRton e ds . g ,. WASHINGTON:, Presi~nt"- ......to le~ that state?Rep.:~men~ .. :~sanoffieiMc~puSg~0Up.~he . mother] Ka~ B~t0~s,:.w~_~- . ,.wOald~atJg~an~-fite. ~The-Ad;. " -~ules:ongays.and lesbians in the :omy Statute;6~he:bbo~sznd.to - whichw0uldhave~ade~pus ..tember,;-Sh~0h Bott~ms,wh0 " ~ featur~ng:-the;- new .be~fcake ~:~dhange-a-p~0posed passag~ that¯ :iequir~ sehool~..tffteach that ab- . ¯¯funds and facifities a~Iable ~0:., .lives ~i~h.herio~et AprilWade, Smokey denied there.had in.fact .sfi~n~eis,~hegn!y way to pre2 thegay.~oup;The.studen~sen~.... ackn0mledgedincour~thatthe2 been any change.. Eve~:~ore . vent ~V¯infection,. is making a " tors h~ ’~gue~: ~at a ~college .::~:do.in~faet have¯sex, which.P~ ¯ amazing, Zorn told ~dy ~ity - -.-~ate matter and homosexual orifidysum of money by¯investing ." grohp based?~01elyon~sexual.-~s0ns, sdid. iSillegal under.. .~ Timestha(.offiCialS~i~fi~e~o~,::-:-entati0nis riot a barto Se?vice heawly m vmt~calsettlements of -. orientation ~sn..t neede~,at~-the~.... .~r,~ma s .sodomy. la~., ¯ Her ......est SerT~ce ~had~:t:w~c.e:contacted ~.., entry or continued service un¯..life insuiancepolieiesofpeople different.editorS at.tfie~aper.in ¯ less-mani.fested hy homosexual " scho01.Butld~hoAtt0~Gen, . conauct is immor-al," P~s0ns eral L~ E¢’hoHa~k:fiag-’r~led. .ruled..,Thecoaduct render~ her an (ans?a~cdg~gut~i~fort, :~ngof~S,~,qmet~mescalled "~ ~eath, futureS~ Chisum r~port- . denying the ~roup campusrec- " an Unfit p~ent:,,:-.-. ; .-. ¯ : :~-squeleh:gorn~S~-:st0~b0h’r~the:-.. :.onb~" sense.sam Nunn (D-Ga.) .... 0gnition -vioiate~. group- m~mBarney - Pumle Menace .adw hirsutehuak. Rum6rrhagit -. Dan Coats:~(R,Ind.)and Strom ediyhasinvestedS0me$2~,~ m the.wat~cal pro~am, which ~rs-F~rst~mendmentnghtsof - T~PA R- ~ ~m¢ W-~th ,-.that .Smokey may:be.e.ntermg ¯ :Thu~ond ..(R,S.C.),-wall now " " sexual onen" g i~es te~mally all patxents a free s~ecfi and ass~mtlon:" ........................... : " " n~t;~-a.~-.-~-~g ~- 0-~,-~ ................................. oneoftheever-~pul~b~echest .:~:~ fead::Aoerson~s ~ " ’ " ..... ’.... " P " ’ ~ " ~’ .......... o ......... -¯contests so, hot at.=ay bars:every ..... ta[~on ~s considered a personal way to cash ~n on ~e~r hfe tnsur.... " has foxed callin~ itself Citi. ance " ¯ About ~ Barney. ........... being, - s~tted . and pri~ate and is .not.a. .... . ¯ where in hope,- 0f ....p01icies.at:~ a discount by ’~N0 dustie~ = No Pizza" zens Concerned ...... ¯ ......... . :~ ¯ matter ....... haming-the .pu~.clih~rs. 0f the - byatalent-scout forBearmaga-. .....-. ba~toserwceentryorContmucd.. . ..... SANDIEGO ~ A San Diego,That’s B~naey the .......... PBS-TV ¯policies as beneficiaries. Accordserwce unless manflested by ho" z~ne. ., ~ - ~ Calif.-based¯group hascalledfor pu~le dinosaur, hotRep. B~ney ing to the Dallas Morning News, Hi~h-ToehSoxHal -- " -.- mosexual conduct." Rep. Ron a nationwide gay and .lesbian Frank of Mass.;thattbe good Chisum’s investments have so Dellums (DvCalif.), chai~mn of boycott of Domino’ s Pizza with fol~s of Tampa are Worried Orientation Cha~e far netted him a t7% annual rethe House Armed Services Commore than 5,000 locati0nsin the ’about, claiming they intend to SAN JOSE, Calif. - No one ever turn. Chisum is head of the Texas mittee and a: leading liberal U.S. after Domino’s chief-ex~ _"expose,,Barneyfor what he resaid findingthat special ValenConservative C0a~ition, which Democrat, said the change was a ecutive officer Tom..,Mo-riaghan ally. i.s... W~ a.~w.a.y~ thought tine Was easy. But two San Jose; last year attempied.td.~av¢ a!l sign Glinton was ~’backpedaling’? ~ super awardedthec0mpany,shiamafii ........... Barney was.’ a " cloyingly, ,, " ’ ¯ -" ’: " Calif.;’het~ros~(ial men’-sted~ state AIDS edu~at.ion fundg for tarianawardt0Dr. James D0b2 saccharine cha.ract~r on.:a: " Anderson and "chriStian- on the issue and that-it-’was a adults¯ transferred tO programs tragic step backward that is cason, head of the Colorad0~ Benvenuti;thirty¯so~efhingguys children’s TV ¯show. but Citifor children and teens - w~io by tering to the wrong forces." Springs-based Focus0n theFam: zens Concerned say the.pbptilar with-strapping good looks -found state education regulations can ily, one of the largest and most pre-historic Barney is.spreading out..e.xac.tly how difficult love only~ 1~ ~taug~h:.t~bs~r~ce ~ ~h¢ Ds. Window coverings of all types, accessories, silk flowers, rugs, custom, upholstery & more - all your interior needs. Wembley Center " 7116South Mingo, Suite 102, 254,2100 as $1.99 10AM-10PM MONDAY THRffSATURDAY, N00N-8PM SUNDAY " Tulsa Family¯ News; March - April.1994, page 5 �Rainbow BUsiness from page 1 had between 15" & 20. persons attending with businesses re.presented from retailers, bar-owners, lawn-care provider~s to professionals, such as graphics & building designers, attorneys & physicians. Officers will. be elected at the next,meeting on Monday, March :21 at 7pm,.For more i~n~formation.-call,i, Ti’m G~llean~at BudgetzWindow..-T.reatmentsi ~ ~More ar~ 254=21~00~: MayorSavage from page 1 ity training among the training currently being given-to Tulsa police officers, to-advertise Tulsa’s youth services as beinga sale place for Gay and Lesbian teens to-go, and to issue an executive order that would protect Gay and Lesbian city employees from any type ofjob discrimination, When questioned about current operating procedures of the City of Tulsa and -the Tulsa Police Department. the Mayor’s staff repeatedly asked for "specific cases" of unfair.treatment. Mr. East and Ms. Kitts indicated a willingness, on the part of the Mayor, to combat: injustice if there were specific documented cases that theCity could investigate. Several people from the audiencedid stay after the forum to discuss specific incidents. Several peopJe from the-audience commended the office of the Mayor for the February waterbill inserts thatlisted sexual :,.ofientati0n among the diversi- fieso£society. Mr..East saidthat lhey had e×pefienced some cases of negativefeedback from certain citizens in Tulsa. Mr. East and Ms. Kitz told the audience that the Human Rights Commission is studying the need to include sexual orientation in the non-discriminatory policy of thecity. Before the Mayor takes any action, she will probably wait to find out what the recOmmendation of the Commission is. Ms. Kitzsaid that the Mayor is constantly appointing people to various boards, one of which is the Human Rights Commission. She indicated that there are current vacancies, on that commission, as well’ as On many other city boards. Resumes can bb sent to the Office of the Mayor. Decisions decisions,.,,. per mo;* air, AM/FM cassette "47 payments at $169,~13,8501MSRPI $13,421 sale price, $500 $12,921 financed, last ~a[ment S5955i 151000 miles i~er’(ear t’ree; 12 down i~er mile thereafter.. ’94 Galant ES .5,05% apr, w.a.c. per mo.* air, AM/FM cassette, auto "41 payments of $225, $17.268 MSRP, S16367sale price, $500 down last ~0a’(ment S8806, 15,000 miles I~er ~,ear freer 12 ¢ ~er mile thereafter. ’94 Diamante ES $25,995, MSRP, Included: "S300 security deposit, tag & tax due a_t inception, air., pow..er win. do .ws,:i.o.c._k.s., $1500 cap reduction, 42 mo. closed end cruise, alloy wneels, .~M/I-IV1 ease, res dual $12,998. 15,000 miles per year free, 15 ¢ thereafter, total of payments $12,558 w.a.c, cassette, graphic equalize.r & dual air bags. ’94 3000.GT ~.* lease *$1500 cap reduction $300 security deposit,- =$27,645, MSRP dual air bags, air, tilt, power windows,locks,cruise, plus & tag & tax due at inception, 42 mo. closed end leas’e, residual $14,099, 15,000 miles per year free, 15 more. thereafter, total of payments $12,558 w.a.c. don carlton MITSUBISHI 4423 S. Memorial Tulsa Family News, March -April 1994, page 6 665-6595 about 40 acres of land down there nity; We"ve had a lot of different and ended up staying there"for girls who have needed help and about five years, then moved to Last year, Johnand Stevefrom we’ve, done fundraisers, and . Watonga; lived in Kansas City the Silver Star came in with us. It they’ve got another one right about twenty years, really helped because it takes a now we’re planning on doing TFN: Have been involved in lot of people. Nobody else wants Something for.... mostly bar businesses? Any rimein your life, there’s to help .with the cooking, and JR: Yeah. Over that periodof you’ve got all that stuff to do. times that you-don’t expect. I time I started in Kansas City, TFN: Do you have an estimate had a friend who was here from then. opened my own in SanFranciscO~ndshementi0ned of how many people were there Humansville; and Wato.nga. last.year? that she had.. :never see~a~.such a JR: The.guys.at the gate said it ’ Those were straight bars/You closeness in-a community: belearn theropes all different ways. fore. !She Said.I musto b.e.,rea!ly was approximately eleven to Our~,~rlsthereatT&T, they-re proud, and I-was so overtwelve hundred. What F d like to pr0bably"the m0si supp0~tiVe .......... do is .get a.little more inyglve.w,helmed, ! ~as.just crying...~ :: bunch 6f~arii~h th~ii illa~,e ~ver " , !f ! s.a.y ~H-’ ey, we~ need somement. ~en-in ai~i c~in~muflity.:I got a we .get a .lot of peopie who thing, there ssome~rtsoutthe_re callandwastoldthiswomanhad (who need help)’, they’ll say say, "Well, everything’ s donated. just moved to Tulsa, she had no We’ll have shows or something ’Well we’ll put this show toapartment, she had no furniture, for donations." The beer’s do,,ether,~, Jane.’ she had two children. !/ _e made nated, the hotdogs were donated, Our auctions ’seem. to work a couple calls out, and I’m not betterthananything.Wehadone but they don’t realize our costs. kidding you, we hfid everything T.he park costs, the cooker costs, in September, and one. arotind there by that night. Christmas, for a needy family. porte-potties cost; the chiPS~ the ¯ TFN: Wow, one day. That is TFN! How do. you find out plates cost.:There’ S just so much oneof the reasons TFN wanted about who needs help? money involved, that one person t0’.talk with you. People go ¯ JR: There are ways offinding cannot.do it anymore, If we could around with a lotta stereotypes, peoplein need. Oneyear, Rocky get some volunteers; ff we could you know, "There’s this kinda from TOHR, he helped me. I get the equipment, that’d be think that was the first year l was folk, and thatkinda folk, and great, That’s why we’re starting there’s bar pe0ple... In actuality, a little earlier this year. here, W~ had .the woman with the two childrem Jimmy and Roy Editor’s note: we alsoaskedJane . - there are good people all around but we don’t hear about it. We also went With us to deliver. I to tell us a little about .herself hope to change that, and raise and her experiences.. " think we had two pickup loads. awhrenessof some of the good TFN: .’~hat brought you tO There was anotherfamily who thatisdbne. That’sanincredible had a little boywho was really Tulsa? story.. sick; and their phone bills were JR: .I read about the bar for JR: Well, you kngw, every" s0tremendous,justtryingtofind sale, andI came down tb to0kat doctors. Last year, we gave the it. , body does what they Cando w!th ¯ " TFN? Wla~i-e wereyou living wllat they have:Now, me.~! m .proceeds to .shanti; who deliv~r~ff£tii~ mon_ey to sever~ldifferin.the ba~business; AiidI danY:t . ent. families who needed fobd.. Jane Roth fro-, page 1 �Gay Youth ft~om page2 about the program, Lesbian & Gay youth, won’t find out either: Tulsa Family News became involved in this issue inad.vertantly. A high school q,uamtance was ¯approached abotit advertising for one of his businesse.s. He declined citing ,<~the-homophobia of the town in -wh.ict~it~s located but suggested -"~,thar:he::wouldlilke to pay for ;advertising :f6r;.this youth pro-’grams" -~ : ’ . ~-: Tulsa FamilyNews contacted :YouthServices arld the 0ff~r was accepted: The donor.later’asked if his dollars could go to Youth Services (in order to-get a tax deduction) with Youth Services payingfortheadwithear-marked dollars (it is not Unusual for gifts to be dedicatedl to a partio.ular purpose). This is where the problems arose.Youth SerVices would not honor what should have been routine donor request. It tUrns out that Youth Services never " " wanted the ads that they.approved to run but did-SO because they felt to-refuse the 0ff~r would traps Of thecl0Setl and how easy it i~ to i-afionali~e hiding. Another thing Ms. Wiggins refuses to answer is what, if any timeline, Youth Services for taking the program more public? If they~could reach all the young adults who need their help through their current outreach that would be fine. But ~hat outreach is limited at present to putting cards with their phone number in library books that gay youth might pick up and to the beginnings of a word of mouth built network of "sympathetic" school counselors. The result is ~b6ut i 6 kids ~in"the~ p~ogram inow. Better than nothing, but the best we can do? We think not. In a meeting with Tulsa Family News, Ms. Wiggins stated Youth Services does not have a timeline for reaching those who need theprogram by going more public, and will not make any commitment tO consider developing one. Futhermore, at that , same meetin.g~ MS,. Wiggins "mad~d-riUmO~r~0.f hgs’til~_ re= riiarks aimed at the.Lesbian & Gag’(ommuniti~ she accused us ofai .min~,:"brick~ats,~at Yomh cfifiz~d t]~T0~" not hd~ihg d~el0ped anything fOr OU!: young adultsourselves, andco~plained that "your communities" had hardly raised any money for the program in: contrast to .her board of.directors, MS.. Wiggins.~uggested that if we didn’t like what the~, were doing, we should shutUP or start our own. In response, Tulsa Family News would liketo sugges[ that "our communities" can hardly support pi’ograms about .which we haven’t been told. We would add that the Lesbian/Gay com- there", perhaps our experience and advice might be given a little more respect, Youth ServiCes is partially funded by United Way.Some of those dollars are Our dollars. They are also receiving funding from the state of Oklahoma. and some of .those dollars are. definitely ours: Sooner or later, Youth Services is going-to have to get brave and come out about serving all youth, including ours. Youth Services’ mission is not ¯and should not be restricted to heterosexual youth-only. Jane Roth ...... " " "~ 0nhimterribly.Hegbtl~t~r~t~i~i~":NOHate ,.: _f_r,Orh page 1 she said~ "My heai:t g~es out-to: .... . : .. ~ , . from page I perspective on Tulsa s ommuthese kids, and is there any wa~ .~-tation" in the:;~.ntCiiCC. "~Vc arc nities? " ¯ youcan dome and get them with-a stronger’ Commtmit v because ~: I think the community is a out somebody kn~WingT" .. -- /of ouraccepkmce-of ~arions re: 10t more togetherthan it was,. I said that I kn0w,{~ 10t 0t; ,.- ie 0n~rac~s, sexual oicntat from when I first came here. people that .Could . ~ake~’em:to & _ a~d naii0mil 0ri~in:" it went You’re always gonna ha.ve afew meriting, if we Could .fi~d 0he,::if t0: say that luws~that target haw we could find a meeting place -. crimes arc imp(~rtant but that ¯ people in thecommunity that are : .justprejudiced. Theydon’t want - gh0fild also Ibcdg,ol~ our bcli’~’ls tb~ these kids. She said, "It’s the guys around, the guys don’t hard for’em in school I:kh0w -. : want~hg girls ar0un~,:and I.think how Fdfeel if it had~been:oneof ,’~Ougm~essagc~,sbould;,~c that" s so stupid. Everybody needs my own chddren ,The~boy.had everyb0dy.,~ ..-. . ’ ~’. come to her house;,and,s~e;said; ::.. th~l(d’i!’l~r~hces 5h;~t TFN: Do y0u: think Tuls,~t ~’My heart-went-ouvto ~i~¢and I o~c-oLus..a~un(~z o~.. : :¢.-needsa ciammunity center? . am not-Gay. Ithought thatma~ ~im East. prc~s, spokes J:,R: It does.i, but I don’.t-.krtow something.. The ,kids do need Ibr Tuls~fimyoriSusan Savage, ifit’.d w0rl(.~ we’ve:had.~ 10t of some lsupport]. ¯ -. indicated that a l~vpersons had different things, SO many differTFN: Whatdovou think,about called lo complain of the inclu: ent things that have :failed t-hat a program that ~xists [for’Gay sion of "sexual orientation.’ Those wishing to commcm peoplehavetfiedt~puttogether., kidsl, but refuses to advertiseor And why? Id0n t .knoff.~..still ~ . otfierwise :make themselves this essay may call the Nia.xor’s we’ve got a lot more than what known. 6ven ~hen a donor .oI~ office at 596~41 I. we.had when I first.came here. a l~rs to donate, money specifi5 lot more. " " cally lbr that purpose’: The?e arc lioml,,Ce 2 LetteFs You know~ when.I firstcame thev take the initiative to stand cuwentlv sixteen:kids utilizinu here .one of the.pe0ple that was the proffram. Do you think: .th~ ,_up ibr us. the biggest help to me was Kris in al! ol~ Tulsa.- there are ,only Additionally, the. worst thing Kohl. ~is was always donating we can do is t¢;Ict disagreements si.xtcenGay kids? his time forbenefitS and stuff. . JR: That does not make sense " us and’ ar,,’ eum,-n,s ....s,eparm¢one another. It is not necessary He s been dora= ~t.e~er-s~nce I. to me. How arc the. kids supgot here, and was probably.dolk)r every Gay. Lesbian or Bfposed toknow about this’? When ing it b~fore i got here.~... ’ I have straieht x~:0mcn calline - sexual person to,agree on every SALOON Sunday March-13, MDA Benefit Couple Dancing Workshop By Paula Hand Sat. &Sun. March 26.& 27, $35 for. both days. Learnthe Best in Country Da.ncing!- Sunday Showcase,March!27ii " " ....!!i ... Anne Marie "Liza" Ivana B. Real & Sadie Brooks Hosted byKris Kohl Hours: Tues.-Thurs. 4~2, Fri. & Sat. 7-2, Sun, 4-2 1565 S. Sheridan : ~.~. Ttd_sa Family. News March -~ April ! 994, page �Clinton frompage l Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Silverman, AmFAR’ s president, must not be denied by ballot Trials Begin of Global agreed that he was hardly happy initiative or otherwise." The with the Bush administration’s AIDS Vacci ne Clinton lettercame as a result Of -record on AIDS, but said HAUPPAUGE, N.Y. - United a request by the Victory Fund for AmFAR had hoped the exBiomedicallnc. has started clinithe~Clinton’s support in fighting president’s inv01vement’would cal trials.of the 1 st multi-compothe anti-gay campaigns. reach people "whom we might nent syn!hetic AIDS vaccine Waybourn’s letter was written on behalf of his own or~aniza.designed~peclfically :to target tion. as well as the HumaffRi~tits i~ae .e.xte~.~i~i-.~0rldwide vari- " Campaign Fund. the’ N~.t~fial ~: "ability o~7~I~:.2.ii virt)s..W~hil~ Gay & Lesbian Task For~vthe’~ .~thef cai~4idat~:-vaccines~:a?e ~ Ga~&LesbianAlliance~ga~st~;~ ~b~sed on~i~le;varmnt ol~me ¯ . ............ . ..... - :~ ¯ . -lh;~ ~]’amation (GLAAD). a~d~’~: NOrth N~strai:n~. ~j’)~.~. ~4nts, Families & Prien~s 6~4ff~~ ,-¯virus; ~,~¢~cu~d"~i.fs;rff:? / Heartstrings 101 is a musical theater event challen~in~ the audience- ~bianshndGavs(P-FEAG3~r~. sea?ch o~t~g:~bleculaf d~si~n.......... tions in the ¯state. Drug addicts ofa"cocktait,:vaccinetargeting president’s backing brings a to think about the realities of HIV & AIDS. ThecmTent tour is a range of HIV- 1: strains existing who eXchangesex f0r-crack and measure of hope to thos~, whoother~drugs ,are the main force designed Ibr young.adults and is a call to action to save a generation :around, the .glob~. The PhaSe are fighting in the.trenche~~ery behindthe rising VD rate, offiat risk. trialS, to deier~]’ne safety and day to defeat these anti-ga,y meacials .said. According to state Heartstring 101 is a pmgrana ofthe nationa.l Community AIDS iriimunogenici(~~ is beiri~ Sl~O~isures.’" Waybourn sai& ;’R v~-ill . health statistics:, the syphilis rate Partnership and is touring the country this spring as part-of a new Sored-:by ,th~ ~.accirie ~lini~al sustain them through in Mississippi is 7 times,that of national youth mmamc. The perlkm]mncc on March _: will be a Trials Ne~ff~r.t4:of th6 U.S! Nabattle¯ We are not alone." the national average. AIDSex~review lbr our community In preparation t~r an .egtended tour ih tional’ Institute of Allergy and 1995 Which will visil T~dsa area colleges and universities. . Infectious Diseases and is being, perts say a dramatic increase in HIV infection is steadily increash~ in ad01escentsand voun~ adults conducted at the Universit9 ~0f the syphilisrate portends¯, in the Pride Summit from page 1 next few years~ a similar:sharp in our c~mmunitv. Aheadv more titan 1.100 cases of HIV & AIDS Rochester and Johns Hopkins ¯ have been dia~no~scd in tbe~ulsa area. Many of the cases of AIDS are rise in new HIV infections as homa City lbr geographical reaUniversity. welli reported among young adults between the ages of 20 and 29. indicatsons. The group also came to " ~ Concerns Over Federal in~ that most 0f tlwm contraclcd the virus at a much earlier a~e. consensus that this state-wide Calif°rniaissuesSafer ~hc GatckOcpcr~ Pfrfdrmancc is lbr community leaders an~ other " AIDS Funding " meeting should be called the~ ¯ Oral Sex Guidelines - to value our digersity, seeking politiCal unity for common goals, and in particular, recogniz(.the strengtl~s and contributions ¯ of race, gender and class, Clean ing/Pt:es sing, Alterations & Drapery Cleaning Outcomes of the Summit may . "- - fn~tude h rapid ~l~onsen~twor~= of GLB.T organizations, the creation 6t il ic~nt~al :i’esofrC~’prbvider,"-a dii-~ctbry of organizations, and a leadership caucus. Outreach to:rural Lesbians and Gay men is a topic of particular concern. For more information, call Tulsa Family News at 832-0233. 4951" So. Peoria, (across from the Camelot) 743-5967 Monday-Friday 7-6, Saturday 9-2 Same-day dry cleaning service on request. l’u~s,~ I"amffy News. March - April 1994 .p.a.ge 8 I "This seems a little hypocrit!-[, I cal to me, especially consider-~ ling where ABC had to kiss/ I Roseannejust to keep her from / I going tO .CBS." - Jay Leno/ [ about Roseanne’s lesbian kiss.I .tate AIDS prevention and- care presentorsuspected; avoidrough efforts in rural states, and comor vigorous oral sex; check for munity," said Jeremy Landau, cutsin the mouth and genitals executivedirectoroftheNational before having oral sex; wash the Rural AIDS Network-. ~ sex or._.qans before:arid after;:and Bushes Bow Out of avoid~tushfffg ~rfl0ssing t~eth AIDS Benefit WA S HI NGT0iN :2: iF:0~.irner .... : immedi:ate!y before Or after .ha,~Pi’egident.George Bush and wife .ing oral Barbara have fo?mally .,With-¯ . -u~lan !nqulry~ drawn from a fundraising event for AmFAR (American Founda., .... tion f0rAIDS ReSearch) follow- -’:~-K~,r_~ ~-~;:,;~,,~or,’~ in_ ~ng w~despread protests of their be,ng ,nv,ted to s,t on an honor aryhostcommitteefortheevent, than 1,000-Canadians with the Opponents said Bush’s support in the fight against the epidemic virus got under way Monday, Feb. 14~although the head of the was negligible When he was commission doesn’t expect to president.R0s~m~irialBush’s ..... make anyfindings availabi.e for chief Of st,aft, t01d the Washing~ nearly 2-years. More than a thouton Post,- They have withdrawn. sand hemophilia~cs and patients It.was more out..of courtesy so receiving blood transfusions in they would not harrfi .the.fun& Canada are known to have been raising .event." Mervyn infected since 1978, and some " �Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs_ Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs 400 of them have since died..The government commission, headed hy Justice Horace Crever, will begin by holding hearings throughout the rcountry during the next 8 months to gather infor~ mation and testimony. Although the commission has a September 1994 deadline, Crever said he does not expect a report to be ready before December 1995. U.S.’Women Unaware of, Sexual Health Risks WASHINGTON- The overwhelming majority of women surveyed, inthe U.S. believe they are safe from sexually transmitted diseases,including AIDS~ according to a poll of !;000 women between .the ages of 18,60. The survey, condiacted by the AmeriCan Medical womenrs Assn. and the Campaign for ¯ .Vgomen~s Health, determined that.two-thirds,.ol~ U..S.:women know "almost nothing:’ about STDs other than .AIDS, .arid one-third know "almost. n0thing?’ about, any STDs,, including.. AIDS. In.. addition~ some.50%bf womenbelievemonogamy -is.effective protection against disease;fewer thaii" one-third of the women surveyed use:condoms during sex; and t:wo-thirds of the ~women under age 25. use condoms or abstain :from se~,.?This survey reported. The report also indicates that the-number of confirms that women are uninformed, .unconcerned-and people living with AIDS in the city’crested at 9.109 in not taking action in the.face of rising risk,, said Joan 1992 and projects that number will fall to 6.460. by 1997. Kuriansky of the Campaign for Women’s Health. Health officials said the safe sex campaignslaunched bv AIDSEpidemic Declining in San Francisco the’city’s gay community early in.the, epidemic were the SAN FRANCISCO.- San Francisco Health Department most important contributor to breaking the relentless officials have announced what may be the most signifispread of HIV. In other larger U.S. cities, such as New cant pieces of good news inthe grim recent history of the York and Los Angeles, ~prevention efforts were less AIDS epidemic. An analysis by health officials indicates effective, they said. As a result, the number of new AIDS that the epidemic peaked in 1992 in this city, the first to cases there, and elsewhere around the country’, have be hit by the disease that has killed more than 200,(300 continued to grow annually. Americans in the past 13 years. The Health Department report indicates that the number of new A:IDS cases. i’eported in i992 hit a high point of 3,326 and has begun -slowly but.steadily to decrease. By t997, health dfficials here now estim’d{e.there will ~ only I~204¯1 ~V : The. Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP) is.seekin,,¢ applications.. "l’Olll co. n nt,. airy. organizations/bE the pu~osc ol strc ~gt.hcn ng Tulsa" s ability to meet the Challenge of HIV/AII)S. On the merits of a proposal IY0m t~c Tuls~ area United Way and the Community Scrv.icc Council. Tulsa was chosen this year Ibr a ffiliation. Throu~la the National Communi.ty AIDS Partncrst~ip Challenge Grant program; the TACP will Ol’l~r ftmding l~r proposals addressing the lbllowing cohccrns: H1VLMDS information scrvi¢cs,,~art cular[~,.lhosc.~vhich expand or enhance~tfic HIV/~?II~S h~i( ~i~c nt~rnlation and rcl~f~il services c6~crauc cthrcfith’ avmlable in Tulsa: HIV prcvcntion/cducath~n: ~crviccs especially those whic~ target ytmth. ~ omt’n, minorities, injection, dru_,, u~crs: ¯ Hlk ’/..kll)S ca~c ~ci’viccs: includmgdental ~trc. psycho~ocial ~iCcdk including" counseling, transportation assistance, l i~ ing hcalth~ ily with HI~ and support: agcnc~ ,labili/ation: and volan.teer development and coordination. I:cllcrs of interest arc due by 5 (~)p.m.on March 251h. I -Full proposals arc duc by 5 ~.m. 0n April 22nd. I There will hc an inlbrmalion ~c~i6n trom tl_ IO a.m. on ~arch 17th in the Collin~ R~,m. t:nitcd Way Building. 1430 S. Boulder. Applicators mull bc c~ted jn and scr~c pc0plc in the "l’ul,a~MS~-~ (Tulsa. R(~gc~s.Wagoner. Creek. and ()sage ~’ounl~c~ If you are unable to attend thi~ meeting and ~ ould Ilk6 copies of the inlk~rmation, contat’t Sharon Pottier at 5S55551 after Mardh 17lh:Scnd lett~r~, tt~ Jani~’~’ ~ikla~. Project Director. TCAP. 1431) S. Boulder. l’ul~a ()K: 74119-3604. For more information, call NI~. Niklas at 918-585-5551. Quote- Unquote "The perverts of the ’50s arethe saints of the "90s.’" ~ Long-time lesbian activist Del Martin who, along with her partner Phyllis Lyon. the Rev. Cecil ~Williams; and the Rev. Robert Cromey, received ’.’Liying Saints" awards :from. the Metropolitan Cbmnianity Church.in San~ Francisco. - Fri ds K pi/ g Fri ds. . , REACH for details Look for-us at our Thursdays from 6: 0 - 9:00 pnt the11"th $’[’reet Loeafio. (Project Eeaeh.Otrt !!) for details. Tulsa Family News, March 2_ April i 994. page9 �T H E G A L I F Are You Prime? American Theatre Co. BREAKING LEGS Mar. 25-Apr..2 596-7111 Broken Arrow Community Playhouse ALL MY SONS Mar.48~27 258-0077 Clark - , - , _-:. To be~:affnounced. ~ 596-7111 Holler Theatre NO EXIT Mar. 1(/213 746-5065 Sapulpa Community Theatre TBA _,7-_169 Spotlight .Theatre THE DRUNKARD 587-5030 Ongoing. .Theatre Pops TBA Theatre Tulsa I,WE WITH FATHER ANNE OF THE THOUSAND DAYS 596-7111 Mar. 11-20 Apr. 8-1, 596-7111 THE WIZARD OF OZ Apr. l&2 596-7111 Tulsa Ballet Tlaeatre THE MIGHTY CASEY Apr. 8-10 5i-)6-7111 Tourin~ Tulsa Junior College CURSE.YOU. JACK DALTON Apr. 8-17 596-7111 THEATRE TULSA Life With Father Marc_ h 11-20 Anne of the Thousand Days April 8-17 Kelly Kirby Certified Public Accountant Please Note New Address & Phone: POB 14011, Tulsa 74159-1011, 747-5466 Faster refunds available through electronic.filing. Tulsa Area Prime Timers are on the move. TAPT began in August. 1993, as the 27th chapter of International Prime Timers. Initially having 15 mem, -bers. the organization now has 45 members: and is growing. The purpose of TAPT is to provide social and cultural/recreational activities organized out of interest surveys fromthe membership. TAPT pUblishes a monthly newsletter .\vith an activity calendar/’or its members. ACtivities range from dinin~ out to get-togethers: swim parties and cookouts. Many members are planning to attend the Dallas/Fort Worth Prime Timers 4th anniversary Celebration March 18-20. Springtime is on its way, and outdoor activities are being planned. One overnight trip is being organized for the 67 mile train ride through the Ozark mountains. If you are 40 or over, you may write to: Tulsa Area Prime Timers, P.O. Box 52118. Tulsa: Oklahoma. 74158 Worksho.p Family of Faith is hosting a workshop entitled "’The Blessing" on. Wednesday. March 3.0. The workshop Will b~ preceded . bya potluck dinner.at 6:30. The ¯ %cus of the workshop.is to.talk about how each 0f-~s can be a blessing to those-in our lives, and also how we canbe blessed by our families and loved ones For info., call 298-4622. Leaves of Grass Health Center is an organization dedicated to the enhancement of health in body, mind. and spirit, through counseling, play & art workshops, retreats, and prevention education towards the transformation of consciousness. LOGHC is located in the (oothills of the Ozarks in-Northeastern Oklahoma in Tahlequah. LOGHC is-an association ofpr0fessionals who have counseling expertise with all forms ofad-~ diction processes, stress illness, people living with HIV/AIDS and people affected by PLWA’ s. education, and nutrition. Director Jan Bauer also extends.an invitation, as local representative of the national organization, ’Old- Lesbians Orga-. nizing for Change’, to Lesbians House Share GWF looking for GF or couple to share " 4 bedroom home. $350/mo. incl. utilities, washer, etc. 2630 East 15th 749- !-~63 ~ !.I.~,~ l"ami/;" News, March Dart Tournament. Tuesdays; 8 prr 1/2 rent offfor yard poo! Tournament. Fridays, 7:30 work/maintenance, Every Friday at t 0:30, SHOW! April 1994. page lO 832-1816 E S T Y L E am acutely aware that I have to make the experience as positive and beneficial as I possibly can. by Gerald Miller I also have to be constantly atVolunteerism and community tuned to the potential negative service is something whictiTheincident. That means t spend a a.tre Tulsa deals in every day. It lot of time trying to guard against is part of our mission as a comthat potential negative, and I am munity ~heater, and a mainstay sure that I’m not always sucin our ability to prOduce shows. cessful. We are-constantly surprised at Let me suggest for all of you the number of people who want who have had the one negative to come and dip their toes in this experience, or for those of you thing called theater. While I will who haven’t given yourselves never discourage anyone from the opportunity of either the that desire, I do want to pose the negative or positive experience question as to Why that of volunteerism, give another volunteerism and community shot~ or a’firgt shot. Keep in mind spirit doesn’t get translated into that involvement is the only way other worthwhile efforts. you can help shape the commu¯ Even as 1 pose that quesuon, I nity in which we all live. havetoremindmyselfthatldoff’t YOU have a vast potential outdo all that I can. or all that I once " let to suit your individual interdid. My "explanation’. (read :’~xests. Tulsa is blessed with countcuse") is TIME. Where I once less community service organivolunteered to walk my block zations, artistic outlets, religious for the American Heart Associaservice organizations, commution. I don’t anymore. Where I nity committees, ed.ucational once was extremely active in outreach programs, and of political volunteerism, I’m not course, political activity. Someanymore. Where I once invested where out there is a group that time in civic committees, I don’t needs your talents and time. anymore. Get out there and get involved. The over-riding reason that I Don’t expect the .negative expedon’t do these things anymore is. rience. No matter how busy’your the amount of time spent in my life may be, there isa very selfduties with the theatre.. In all fulfilling opportunity waiting for honesty, part of the ieason that I you. You must be pro-active. don’t make time for these efforts due to the fact that in a couple of~ about your involvement. Here’s what I commit to do cases, I had a.di~heartening ex- . before the end of summer. I will perience, t let the individual negative .experience-:drive me . find some non,theater:avenue av,;~t)"f{om iill thdg~0d that those ’ and provide ¯time and money to that group. I’ll report back to efforts represented, you as which group it- was and As a person Who regularly sowhat I was able to do: Now, it’s licits ¯volunteers, relies upo_n your turn! them, and appreciates them, I Theatre Notes age 60 orolder to.acquaint with with the OLOC organization and who might enjoy participating in an OLOC ageism c.onscioushess raising group. OLOC is committed to networking with old lesbians everywhere to combat ageism, and celebrate differ- ences and affirm the diversity of our races, ethnicities, class back~ grounds, of herstories, and present lives, For further information on either LOGHC or OLOC, call Jan Bauer at 918-456-2448. OSUGay, Lesbian, Bisexual -Community Association Alumni Banquet Saturday, April 2 Crestview Clubhouse 2323 East Sixth,Stillwater Reception, 6pm, Dinner, 7pm, Dance, 9:2am, RSVP by March 26 Speaker: Robyn Ochs, author/activist GLBCA, 405-744-5252 040, Student Unio, Box ~01, Sti!!water 74078 �T H E ClTY/COUNTY L I B R A R Y April 1-30 Display: Book Collectors Club of Tulsa, 4th anti Denver. April 2,5,7,9,11,14 Noontime Book Fair 1 la.m.-2p.m., 4th and Denver. April 2 Workshop: Begin’g Genealggy 9:30a.m.- 12p.m. 1520 N.Hartford Ave. Api-il 4 . . Family Film Night, "Winnie The Pooh and Tigger Too" 6:45p.m.-7:30p.m., 5 [3113! 91 st April 4 Books Sandwiched In 12:10-12:50 p.m. Aaronson Audit., 4th& Denver. April 4, 11 Lecture: "Positive Parenting: Meeting The Challen=e , 6:15p.m.-7p.m., 551 E. 46th St North. April 6 BookDiscussion, i :30p.m:, 3219 S. 113th W. Ave¢Santi Springs. April 6 Lecture: "Tulsa’s Scandalous Past.", 12:10p.m.- 12:50p.m., Aaronson Audit., 4th & Denver. April 7 Lecture: "Herbs to Know ~and Grow", 10:30a:m.-1 l:15p.m., 3210 E.21st St. April 8 Book Signing, William Sanders, author of"The Next Victim", & "’A Deathon RoUfe 66......... 7p.m., 1207 E.45th PI. April 11 ,, G A, Y L. I F E S ........ T ..... Y L E life life rouna . 737 S. 85th 6737 S. 85th:E.Ave. April 1.1 Book Review, 2~2:50p ira.,. B r0-:.: .. ken Arrow Library, 300 Broadway .April 13 Lecture by Rev. Dr. John Wolfe Sandra Z Hill, M.S. Psychotherapy and Clinical Consultation 21st..& ,129.East Avenue (Next.to Homeland) 234-9007 . $3 Beer .Bust, Everyday 4-7, $1.50 Pitchers, 9. to midnight. Mon. - Dart League 8pm. Tues.- Pool Tournament, 8pm. Wed.- Bamboo Night with Singing/Dancing Star, Gene Kernaghan, 40’s, 50’s & 60’.s Music Thurs. - Ladies Night, $1.25Longnecks 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Ste. 2.15 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 745i 1111 for the. Ladies. Fri. - Male Dancers, Disco &::iMixed .music, 10pm. Sat. - Showcase with Mersades; and. guest, Stephanie Cassidy, And Dancers too! Sunday Brunch, noon.-2pm, Open daily till 2am, Food served during all open hours. Maj0r; credit cards accepted.. "Tulsa Fantily.Ne. ws, March - April !994, page 11 �Coming March 20th, First Ciass Male Dance Revue Fourhot guys &. One outrageous girl! Thursday-:& Sunday The bestshows in town - call for lineup! Friday & Saturday Music:--in town! _Cheap-beer every-night! Nightly beer busts! Domestic Longnecks 50¢, 9-1.0 pm, $1,10-11 every night! r I toMfoo~ery.!.¯ .. at the Alle_v . "lllitis,,,- ~ur~l Oish-2am Airl~.idt)iscol=" accepted. Tulsa’s only ~ Lesbian/Gay Gift Store April 3rd The Jimmy James Show ..Tickets on sale now! $5 advance, $8 at the door � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay.& Bisexual Communities L O.ur Families of the Heart 3rd t=.me s the charm? Community 29 Newly M.S an open forum sponsoredby " March ~ ,~ April -|994:,.-¥olume !; Issue 4 W-e.l c o.. m ~? : Urban T.uls-a; a monthly enter~ tainrrientnewspaperreiterated its .. policy of rEfusing-to accept advertising that:-, uses the words _... _: -: LesNan hr"Gay. The exception is_ an-.ad: for- the CliniC. Keith Skrzypczak, edit0~& pubfisher, Tulsa business Business Guild.. While the organizers are still developing a formal. mission statement, Tim ’Gillean of Budget Window.. Treatments &Mote :describes _ April 15, 16 & 17 Plans for Tulsa’s 1 st Lesbian/ Tulsa Family News and hoste_d Mayor Susan Savage by the Metropolitan Community Church Of Greater Tulsa, 1623 North Maplewood(northwest of. Sheridan & Pine). This is a fulfillment ofapromise. made inan interview ~lone in the fall with Tulsa Family, News had to.cancel her earlierdate of February 24. . The Mayor will be welcomed by the Reverend Alice Jones and- Tom Neal. Members, family & friends ofthe TulsaLesbian/Gayl Bisexual/Transgendered ~ c6m~ publisher, Tom Neal. Due toa mUnities are iriVited again to hear family emergency, .the Mayor .- and to question our mayor. .ayorSavageCancels . said that this. ad was.accepted because heterosexuals might be interestedin the service. Pat Devlin, the owner of Cherry St. novelty.shop, Phun See NotWelcome, page 7 its goals as.providing a place for Lesbian & Bay businesSowners to meet each other for support, sharing advice and resources, r The first two meetin.~s have See.RainboW Business" page 6 .Gay Film ~Festival have been annoUnced byits .organizers. A jointeffort between members of TOHR. Tulsa Oklahomans for Human -Rights and the BLGA, Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Ass0cia~ fion of the University of Tulsa will be held April 15.17 in Lorton Hall at theUnivers!ty of Tulsa. See Film :Festival, page 8 :u I s a Sava . allegedly held ~ thing from police haiassment-to ing. aswell as . Gay & Bisexual up by family prob!ems,sent Jim - - .diScriminationinthe workplace, metropolitan :area was included threats motiva_ted by raceT reli~ communities to come together East and Hi!ary Kitz torepresent --. Specific requests and sugges- in each_ bill. The insert was a. gion, nationatofiginor.other sta- to celebrate our pride, and this her at the town meeting on Feb-. ¯ tions to the Mayor were to in- joint effort of the city of..Tulsa, tuses. It was notable for its inclu- year, the 25th anniversary of the ruary 24. Apparently, this is the elude Gay and Lesbian sensitiv- the Tulsa Human. Rights Com- . sio" n of-the words, "sexuaton’en- Stonewall rebellion. second time Mayor Savage has See Mayor Cancels, page 6 mission, theTulsaHumanRights . S~eNO’Hate, page 6 The picnic traditionally has See Tulsa Picnic, page 6 Clinton Slams Anti-Gay Politics WASHINGTON - President Clinton has sent a letter to the. Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund condemning anti-gay rights effortg that have cropped upin nearly a dozen states and even more cities and counties around.- the country as what he called an attempt to le~,ahze d~scr-rm~nation." In the Feb, 14 letter, addressed to William Waybourn, executive director ofthe Victory Fund, Clinton said the sponsors ofantigay campaigns around the country "are gravely-mistaken abo.u~t the values that make our nation " strong." "All people in our society must enjoy the opportunity to be judged on their merits," Clinton wrote. "Sadly, as you point out, this simple principle 0fjustice has come under assault in several states this .year-:" " Clinton went on to write, "Those who wguld legalize, discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation or any other gr0unds :are gravely mistaken about the val- ,,ues that make out-nati0n.str0ng. The essential, right .tp. ,e,qua!ity See Clin~on, pag.e 8 LocaI-Heroes:-JaneRoth TFN: Tell us about the Pride said "Gee whiz, Janethere’s,;not Picnic, and your involvement gonnabeaGayPridepicnic ,so with it? then we took it over. The first JR: When we first came t0¯ ~ year, there weren’t.really that town, TOHR had been doing it. many people. The second year, I And they dropped it. I really talk~d~,ithRoyandJimmyfrom don’t know the circumstances, the To,olbox, to see if they They dropped a lot of things €ouldn:t help me.out a little bit. around 19~.8, like the Southwest So.they-~can{e in with me and it Invitatiohal, which we picked grew quite a bit the next year. up. Every year it has grown some. . But when I got;here,.!he girls Se_e Jane Roth~ page 7_ ~ebruary 14, ~t994 ~. William Weybour~ Gayand Lesbian Victory Fund Seventh Floor ~$2 14~h Street, Waahington, D.C. 20005 Sincerely, Oklaho.ma i d e S um m i. t On February 26 at the Silver - Star SalOon in Tulsa. 18 representatives from Lesbian/Gay/ Bisexual o.rganizations from Oklahoma City, Norman. Stillwater and Tulsa met to de.... o velop plans for a State-wide meeting Or conference to be held this June. Oklahoma City organizers had held a meeting on Feb. 6th at which they "brainstormed" ideas -for goals and possible outcomes " Of d state-wide nieeting. At the Tulsa meeting, Tulsa representatiT.esproposedthat thismeeting should be held in Okla- See Pride Summit, page 8 Tulsa Family New~ March - April 1994, page 1 Good Idea Bad Attitude: Youth Services of Tulsa’s GayYoung Adults Program Some months ago, Youth Services of Tulsa. a United Way agency, began .a program to help Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and ques, ti0mng young adults by iproviding a support group. Gay. youth (using the term gay to indicate aH the statuses above)are at greater-risk than many other youngadults. Government studies have shown that gay youth are 2 to 6 times more likely toattempt suicide and may account for 30% of completed suicides. Low__self esteem, identity, conflicts, isolation, and fami~ alienation, all which can .be blamed on the prejudice and bigotry of our society, are factors in their behavior. The problems for gay young adults are real; the need for help are real. Friends and members of Tulsa’s Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual communities should applaud Youth Services for taking this brave step. We should recognize the "right-hearted-ness" of the individuals involved. Lisa Pottorf and others on staff, some Gay, some not, are clearly committed to doingtheright thing: helping kids. Members of our communities have also become involved as volunteer facilitators. Many others would probably help if.they but knew about the program. - - There-inlies the problem,The program, is .hamstrUng by. the. fears, an~possibly, prejud{~e, Of Youth Services’ top officers and staff. Because of fear of backlash, Youth Services hardly wants any one to know about the program but in the process risking that those who need to know See Gay Youth, page 7 INTERNATIONAL TOURS Airline/Hotel Reservations Ticket Pick-Up ¯ Cruise/Tour Packages Group & Incentive Programs "NO" Service Charge l~xperienced Personnel Packages Availablefor Gay Games & Stonewall - 25 (918) 341-6866 Oklahoma’s Only LG.TJ~ Affiliate (Internagional Gay Travel Assoc~aglon) Tulsa Family News, March - April 1994, page 2 Letters Several .times last night during the forum with Mayor Savage’s staff, I heard people from the audience talking about "Bible Thumpers". The fact that MCC Tulsa allowed us to meet in their church building should demonstrate that all "Bible thumpers" are not .bad people. nor are they all anti-Gay. In fact, there are more than two Christian organizations in Tulsa that specifically serve our commuriity. AS we ask the world to put aside its prejudices, shouldn’t we also ask ourselves the same thing? How many of us automatically assume that if someone is heterosexual. Republican, and Christian, they are also anti- Gay? Isn’ t that assumption based on prejudice? As we as a community, ask the people in our society to change; let’ s also make the necessary changes within ourselves. As we. ask the people in our society to give everyone a chance regardless oftheir sexual orientation, let’s also start giving everyone around us a chance, regardless of their sexual orientation, religious affiliation, or political partnership. If we can do that, we will become a better people. Editor’s note: the letter above was Submitted unsigned and TULSA FAMILY NEWS Publisher/Editor Assistant Editor Staff Writer Tom Neal James Christjohn Kharme Amos 918-832-0233’, POB 4140. Tulsa. Oklahoma 74159 Issued on the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication areprotected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in.whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. (~orr~l~0ndan~ is ]as~um~dtb’b~for ptiblicati~n iahless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondance should be sent to the address above. Tulsa Family. News is distributed free of charge in localbusinesses and organizations. . . without a phone number. While TFN is happy to print letters with.name withheld by request, *Indian Territory Coffee Com.pa-ny, infUtiirei "unsigned letterk Will- Galerie ~...~-Europa, 203 N. Main.... no}be rep]:oduced~ .....~ "" ’~ " H,a~.~y &:-Mrs lon~s.;-<164q--El 15 Jared’s, 1602 E. " 15 Bars & Restaurants *The .Alley, 3340 S. Peoria *Cherry St. Bakery, 1344 E. 15 *Deep Elm, 61st & Memorial *Laff’s, 311 E. 7~h *Lola’s, 263.0 E. i 15th *Paradise Bar & ~rill, 12570 E. 21 *SilverStar Saloon~ 1565 Sheridan *Renegade, 1649 S. Main *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Time n’Time .Ag~i-n, 1515 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338~ E. 3rd *Whittier Cafe, 4~16 S. Lewis~ Businesses/Services Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Ste. 102 *CDWarehouse, 6080 S. Sheridan 1613 E. 15 744-0896 583-8398 250-0933 583-5233 749-1563 234-9007 834-4234 585-3405 660-0856 664-8299 584-1308 582-2400 254-2100 491-9474 587-1633 592-2787 582-3018 Dear TFN, The angerl disappointment, and feelings of betrayal that resuited from Mayor Savage’s last minute unavailability last night are only natural. However, I am concerned about what might result if those feelings are not handled in the appropriate way. If we, as a community, harbOr those feelings and allow them to expand instead of doing the appropriate thing and focusing that negative energy into something positive, it will be counter-productive and detrimental to our struggle for equal rights. We cannot generate change by sitting around being angry and feeling sorry for ourselves. We can generate change by taking action. I understand that there are those in our community who are afraid to stand up and OUT because they may lose their jobs, their homes, or families. Isn’t it sad that there has to be that fear? But even thos’e people who have that fear can write letters, can make phone calls, can actively vote, and can follow up on their votes by talking with their representatives. Wecannot expect our government to take all of the chances and do all of the work while we sit around absorbed in our own self-pity. We have to show our governmental leaders that we are willing to support them before,, during, and after See Letters, page 7 Ken?s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 599.8070 *Living Arts of Tulsa, 224 N. Main 58.5-1234 *Mohawk Music, 615~7 E 51 PI 664-2951 Novel Idea DiscOunt Books 7104 S: Sheridan 492-0335 3356 E. 51 747-6711 Puppy Pause II, l lth & Mingo 838-7626 *Tomfoolery, 1565 S. Sheridan 832-0233 Zat’s, 3708 oSouth Peoria 742-6909 Organizations ACT-UP, POB 532, 74101 B/L/G Alliance, University of Tulsa. 583-9780 *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S. Harvard,Ste. H-1 NAMES PROJECT, POB 3181 74101 - 748-3111 Oklahoma AIDS Hotline 800-535-2437 P-FLAG, POB 52800 74152 749~4901 Prime-Timers P.O. Box 52118, 74128 Shanti Hotline 749-7898 TOHR Gay Line (Info.) 743-4297 - Other *Chapman Student Center, University of Tulsa 631-0000 *Tulsa City Hall; Cafeteria Vestibule *University Center at Tulsa ,._ Professionals Theodore-Campbell, MSW, 1560 E 21 743-1000 Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psylchotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Bill Hinkle, Attorney 587-1500 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011~ 74159 747-5466 John Kirk, Realtor 747-5800. 745-2245 Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics 832-0233 Religious Organizations *Family of Faith MCC, 500 W. ’A’ Jenks 298-4622 Affirmation (Methodist) 742-8213 *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623Maplewood 838-1715 Dignity/integrity 298-4648 *Canterbury Ministry Center, University of Tulsa 583-9780 Tulsa~ Ok~ahomans .for Hum-an Rights March/April 1994 Volume 14 NUmber 4 PO’Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152~ .The views expressed elsewhere in Tulsa Family News are not necessarily the views ofTOHR. Permission is granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along with other items, under the byline,"submitted.by TOHR’" Contained elsewhere in Tulsa Family News.. APRIL MEETING NOTICE Janiee Nicklas, Senior Planner on - because ofher extensive work in the HIV/ llealth, Promotion, Community Service AIDS arena over the past several ~years. CounoilufTulsa Ar~a United Way, Will be-~ Slic isa ’tremetidous asset to our commuspeaking at-the April TOttR. meeting, nity and a wonderful spokesperson-for about the Tulsa Community AIDS Part- persons-livingwith HIV & AIDS. : nership (TCAP). TCAP, part of NCAP Please join us for this excitingpresen- (National Community AIDS Partnersh!~p)~’ tation on Tuesday,. April 5, 1994 at the expects to grant approximately 1/2 milhon Gathering Place, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite dollars to organizations in the Tulsa MSA -|t~ We have a social time.starting at over the next four years. Thisnew venture - 6:30pro and the meeting. commences. will greatly benefit areas that currently promptly at 7:00pm~ TOHR, Tulsa’S unserved or underserved, growing human rights community set3’ice Janice brings a wealth of information organization, NEEDS YOU! TOHR to Go-sponsor GaylLesbian Film Festival April 15-17 have beenset as tentative and diverse showing of timely cultural isdates for an extensive Gay/Lesbian Film sues and enterta’inment. Mark these dates Festival to be held on the University of NOW and look for additional information Tulsa campus. This should be an_exciting as the time draws near. President’s Report This marks the second issue of the TOHR Reporter running within Tulsa Family News. Feedback has been very positive to this new format, getting more local news to our membership as well as TOHRnews to the larger community. Our last meeting saw several new faces and TOHR nee~ the support of all of Us. " Mayor’s office ...... : .......,.. 596-2100 City of Tulsa Human Rights Department ..................... 596-7818 Quik Trip (ask.for President’s office) ........... 836-855 ! PSO (ask for Carol t Iuff Hicks) ..... ~ ...... 599-2000 - Samson ~ompanies (ask for Sentell Fox) ....... 583-t791 Currently TOItR i.~ working in:c6ali- - " .................. ’ ti0n with other groups towards the goal of- llaankthem for participating ~the Say spurring our legislature-tuadd sexual o_o.’- N6 Tb I-!a-te educa,i~nai.e~i’~beeptentati0n to Oklah0ma’s~ hate ¯ crim~es - ingthediversityof’~i6:ubmmiinit~_andfor statUte:. This past niUnth" sh~’a itei~s~3i~ : -n6t toleratinj(li~it-( ilirected agaii~t any No to Hate-pUblicity’campaign, sponsored ~grou,p, including gays and lesbians~ If locally, which included a Tulsa utility bill you re afraid to identifyyourself, leaveout insert with sexual orientation in its text. the speoitic reference to gays and lesbians, The City of.Tulsa, along with the corporate sponsors of the projeoL have received afew negative phone calls about the campaign. I urge you to show vonr personal. support of the projeetby’tak]ng a few minutes :to call: but please take a few minutes to make the calls. It’s important that these folks know that ~ve appreciate the stand they have taken. Feedback ofpublic opinion will affect their future decisions. by Kelly ~Kirby, President, TOHR Gay Gale ndar ofEvents,COMING SOON! TOHR is in the proo¢~ of o’olle~ting your. event, meeting or gathering. "Calendar of Events’" items for publica- The "’Calendar" is intended to notify tion in all area newspapers~..Please call the ¯ the lesbian~ gay, bisexual and transgen- HelpLine 743-GAYS (4297) to promote dered community of happenings in town. MI:-MRIi:I~SHIP APPI ICAIION u Yes.I want to be a Contributing member of- U I would like to volantec, help witl~: H~MBF.-.RS’ RI-:PR~_SENfAI-IVFS Taisa Oldahomaas foi Human Rights. Name .... Please accept l~)~mt ~.s described below: ~ LesbiatgG~y/B~sexual llelpl.ine Kclly Kirby....:.................................. President ..................... .~ $10Limited Income/Stadent Membership " rl HIV Counselor Ric Kirby ........................... 1st Vice President Address _ .i ~ _ _ ~. $20~:.M.¢anbcuship" _ : - . ~ Executive Board Member . . Kathleen Golden .............;2nd Vice President , ~.’,q 5 -. ~ ’ ~-,: i: :l~l~ $,3::5..: iH~M.M~o_,:. :~ .~y~ent Pl~ing and P.a~y- preparations,. ~. ,R:0be~. 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And if you move or are having problems receiving your TOHR mMiings ~ the 7"visa Family News, call to pro~Ade a change of address or to verify yore-addr~s. Tuba Family News, March--April 1994, page News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News.Briefs Boycott Threat toGay Marriages .in Hawaii HONOLULU- Anti-gay forces have apparently been flooding the Hawaii Visitors Bureau with letters and phone calls threaten, ing an economic boycott of the state if it permits same-sex marriages. The head of the state?s tourism office t01d legislators that the agency has received over-~: whelming numbers of calls and lettersthreatening boycotts, of conventions, vacations, family reunions, and other visits to the islands if Hawaii alloWg gays and (esbians to marrY. Tourism officials also noted ti{at they.had received hardly any expressions of support for. same,sex marriage~ and concluded that jr’state courts.rule that/est~ian-and gay nel protections. Now the bank has agreed to put "sexual orientation" back into its anti-bias policies just weeks after politicians, led .by San Francisco Supervisor Susan Leal, and activists, led by the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force. launched a campaign to pressure the banking giant to reinstate the old policy. In a.letter to Leal, who had written a stinging letter to the bankto complain about the change in FIB’s personnel-language, ¯Julius L. L0eser. senior vice:president assistant .general counsel at the bank, said~ "’For o clarity, we will add language ~o . ¯ our-written corporate policy to state more-directly our existing policy:.afiat will explicitly state that we .Er0hibit discrimination and harassment based on race. marriages are legal under state a,~e color reli,,ion nationalorilaw. it_would me~asurably dam~.-...-.~t~:.~.sex. ~ete~n st’atus, disabiiage the state’s:important tour- ity and s~xualorientation.’" ism industry. The agency can contacted by writing: Hawaii Visitors Bureau. 2270 ’Kalakaua Avenue. Suite 80 L HoaOlulu HI 968.15 or by calling (808) 924- 0266. ’Seattle Times’ Extends Benefits to Partners SEATTLE - The Seattle Times has become the 2nd major daily newspaper in the U.S. to extend health insurance and family leave Amnesty En.ds Silence SAN FRANCISCO - The human rightsorganization Amnesty International USA announced the launching of a broad, siXmonth campaign in the United States to end government imprisonment, torture and execution. of gays and lesbians around the world. The campaign, kicked off in conjunction with the publication of AI’s groundbreaking omy laws only to homosexuals, and the organization now says. it "would consider an individual imprisoned under these laws a Prisoner of Conscience and~ would call for their immediate and unconditional release." To get copies of the report "Breaking the Silence:’ send $8.00 (which includes shipping and handling) tO: AIUSA, 322 Eighth Avenue, New York NY 10001. Poll: Jobs, Housing -Yes; Marriage, Adoption - No NEWYORK~Apolt, published in the Feb. t4 issue ofNewsweek underscores-Americans’ con- .tinuing contradictory attitudes about gays and lesbians. While .the poll, conducted Feb. 3-4 for the magazine-by.the Princeton Survey Research Associates based on_ telephone interviews with 750 adUlts, found that 74% endorse .employment anti-bias protections forhomosexuals, and 81% think gays and lesbians should have housing protections. as Well, more than 60% said they .oppOse same-sex marriages and adoption rights for gays and lesbians. Fewer than 0ne-third of those polled support .marriage and adoption rights for gays. Of those surveyed, 43% said they had a friend or acquaintance who is horaosexual, while56% said News Briefs News Briefs News benefits to the partners of its gay report "Breaking the Silence: they didn’t know aflyone who is Defeat in Missouri City SPRINGFIELD, Mo, - In what activists fear may be.a harbinger of next November’s statewide vote on a Missouri anti-gay constitutional amendment, Springfield, Mo., residents voted overwhelmingly to repeal a city hate crimes measure that includes sexual orientation,. among other categories. The vote was. 71%- for- repeal to 29% against. The repeal campaign was headed by a local group Citizens for Decent .Standards .which has close ties with the statewide Arfiendmerit Coalition, which ig backing a state anti-gayconstitutiOnal amendmentbased onColorado’s Amendment 2 prohibiting any gay rights measures inMisSouri. Rights Battle Erupts in New Mexico Legislature. " N.C..Parade Gets. P.etmit . CHARLOTTE, N.C.-TheFront Page reportsthat the 8th annual North Carolina Lesbian & Gay Pride parade and rally has gotten’, approval from city officials for its scheduled. June 5 event in spite ,of objection by an influential Baptist minister. Organizers of the. event, being held in Charlotte for .the first time, will hold the post-parade rally at Marshall Park, located next to the First Baptist Church. The church’s pastor, Rev. Charles Page, had objectOd that the event .doesn’t ners of employees.Activists are callingon people to contact Sony USA officials to let them-know the importance they. place on Sony’s move, its refusal to take the:anti-gay vote.seriously, and its reluctance to publicly discuss its domestic partners policies. Oregon activists urge contacting: RonSommer, Chairman, Sony of America, Sony Drive, Park Ridge. NJ 07656 FAX: " 201-930-2263; and James Frische, SonyDigitaiAudioDisc Corp., 1.8100 N~ Fruitridge Ave., Terre Haute, Ind. 47804 FAX: 812~466~i [ 2 " Protections; ~Benefits at BelI,NorthernlNorthern : _T e ili e c o m. -OTTAWA,~Sta!!.ing thisl year~.. " .... Beli~b~0flh~m Research now in=~ ~5/ ’ ~ eludes s~xuai orientation in it~ equal employment opportuni/y~ ent corporation, Northern ~ Telecom.Ltd. implemented the - new policy throughout all its subgidiaries. And beginning in July of this .year Northern Telecom is extending domestic partner benefits to Bell-Northern Ltd. in Canada and Bell- Northern USA. The Gay, Les~ bian, Bisexual Association has also formed for Bell-Northern Research/NorthernTelecom employees..... "Front RUnner’ Sequel and lesbian workers. The Bos-" -HumanRightsViolatio,nsBased ton Globe_became thefirst daily . on Sexual Orientation,’ was arito o-~t’Stich~ ’6~i~fi~; the~Vi~~ ~’~-: ~0un~d -~t ’~iress~"~onf~r~ne~ lage Voice,~-the p..op~lar :New ,:,held:~i~rnultaneousl~haSanF~,an~!’::~ " York weekiy.:~lso:’indludes the": cisco~indWaghingt~n;D.C. "~tie unmarried partners of its employees in its benefits package. First Interstate Restores Anti-Bias Language SAN FRANCISCO - First Interstate BankCorp: which operates banks in 13 Western states from Oregon to Texas. has agreed to reinstate nondiscrimination language m ~ts personnel polictes to include sexual orientation. saying thewhole issue was a"naisunderstanding:" In 1993, under pressure from fundamentalist groups in Utah and Arizona. FIB changed its anti-bias policy to include only"race, age, color, religion, national origin, sex. veteran status, disability or any other basis protected by federal. state or local law." Rights activists said, because only ’one state - California - has a gay rights law, the change amounted to FIB dropping its own person- U.S. branch ofthe London-based international human rights Watchdog group said the intensive campaign "places .the government repression of gay men arid lesbians squarely on the international human rights agenda ., to put government on notice tha( homosexuals are no longer easy targets for human rights abuses." "Breaking the Silence" documents attacks against gays and lesbians ranging from government- backed rape and torture to executions because-of individuals’ sexual orientation. The report notes that in Romania, gay men are routinely targeted for police assaults and torture, citing several cases of beatings lasting as long as 13 hours. Similar reports are cited in Great Britain, the United States, Costa Rica and Turkey. .The report also notes that 5 U.S. states - Arkansas, Kansas, Missouri, Montana and Tennessee - apply their sod- Kefi’s Flowers 1635 E. 15th Street, 5.99-8070 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian & Gay Communities . With Pride - Look for our Rainbow Flag Tulsa Family News, March - April 1994, page 4 gay or lesbian, When asked if ¯"representthe Valuesof0ur com- ~,N~.W, yORK AIDS. hfid changed their f.eeling’ : .muni.t.Y.":But.qi~Yoffigia!s voted erant of gays, while 31% said it thaiderailed a proposed city Or- nest=semng novel ~ane front had made them less sympathetic, dinance adding sexual orienta- Runner, will be on 15ookshelves Pollsters said the Survey had a 4 percent margin of error. Pope Says ’Nope’ to Lesbian/Gay Families VATICAN CITY - A proposed resolution before the European Parliament calling for the legaP ization of same-sex marriages and allowing gay and lesbian couples to adopt children drew a quick - and negative ~ response from Pope John Paul.. The pope, speaking to a group of bishops about thee need to. protect the unity of the family, mentioned the European Parliament resolution, saying a growing number .ofpoliticians are recognizingthe importance of keeping families together, but added, "not all of them, however, as we have seen...We can’t let .this pass." The gay and lesbian marriage and adoption resolution was introduced Tuesday, Feb. 8. tion to Charlotte’s anti-bias protections. Sony Mulls Plant in Springfield, Ore. SPRINGFIELD, Ore. - Activ~ ists are raising warning flags over plans by Sony Inc. to construct a new compact disc plant in Springfield, O?e., which in 1992 approved an anti-gay ballot ihitiative. Springfield city council members who backed the antigay ordinance have said the legislationactually would makethe: town more appealing to businesses that support "traditional family values." Sony officials have played down the. importance of the anti-gay measure, even though they acknowledged to reporters that the finn .has an anti-bias, policy that includes, sexual orientation. Th.ecompany refused, however, to say whether it-recognizes the domestic partin time for Gay Games IV this June in New York. Warren’s sequel; Hailan’s Race, contin-~ ues the story ofcharacters Harlan Brown and Billy Sire. The author calls fhe continuation "a story about loss and healing, about the courhge to love again." Comic Targets Gays ST. -LOUIS - Washington University students and Officials are trying to figure out how to respond to a comic book drawn by an unidentified student at the university’s fine arts school depicting a string of 27 grisly killings, mostly of gay men. "Today it’s fags, tomorrow it’ll be some other idiotic fringe group that pis~es me off;" thecomic’s murderous character says. "Like I said before, I am God. I decide who lives and dies, and my hand reaps the harvest?’ The grimly explicit drawings depict its victims .being shot, stabb~d, CUt in ¯¯ ¯¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯¯¯ mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Puppy Pause II "¯ ¯ ¯ All Breeds Dog Grooming _, llth & Mingo, 838-7626 Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. ¯ ¯ Call for Appointments. ¯ Walk.ins Also Welcome. ¯ m ¯ News Briefs NewsB.riefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News .Briefs News half, disemboweled, and one way to prevent the disease, financially-successful far-right ~n anti-God message and pro-. African-American woman being Chisum also co-authored a 1993 groups battling gay rights, a_bor- - moting homosexuality. murdered with a "garden wea- measure that gave the state in- tion; gex education and similar CCABers .are following the in sel." The creator of the comic surance department authority to social policy issues in this court- the -footsteps of Joseph Cham~ book writes in a chilling intro- regulate the selling of life insur- try. B. Allan Ross, a spokesman bers, a former Church of God duction,"thethingthispromotes ance policies, by .people with for the boycott group, DomiNO minister and gay rights foe in is hatred and contempt." School AIDS, the game viatical .s.ettle- . Pizza. Theory, said, "Focus on Charlotte,N.C:¢ who’s recently along the electronic telecommunications superhighway can really be. AndersonandBenvenuti attracted media attention earlier inF.ebruary whe~; frustrated.with trying to meeting women at singles bars and classified ads. officlalsand studentleadershave ,o ments that he.~s now.cashing ~n the Famdy is one of the ¯many pubhshed booklet, - Barney the they shelled out $3,000 .h r a held .a.,seriesOf meetings, about .:~ on. 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" -~ules:ongays.and lesbians in the :omy Statute;6~he:bbo~sznd.to - whichw0uldhave~ade~pus ..tember,;-Sh~0h Bott~ms,wh0 " ~ featur~ng:-the;- new .be~fcake ~:~dhange-a-p~0posed passag~ that¯ :iequir~ sehool~..tffteach that ab- . ¯¯funds and facifities a~Iable ~0:., .lives ~i~h.herio~et AprilWade, Smokey denied there.had in.fact .sfi~n~eis,~hegn!y way to pre2 thegay.~oup;The.studen~sen~.... ackn0mledgedincour~thatthe2 been any change.. Eve~:~ore . vent ~V¯infection,. is making a " tors h~ ’~gue~: ~at a ~college .::~:do.in~faet have¯sex, which.P~ ¯ amazing, Zorn told ~dy ~ity - -.-~ate matter and homosexual orifidysum ofmoney by¯investing ." grohp based?~01elyon~sexual.-~s0ns, sdid. iSillegal under.. .~ Timestha(.offiCialS~i~fi~e~o~,::-:-entati0nis riot a barto Se?vice heawly m vmt~calsettlements of -. orientation ~sn..t neede~,at~-the~.... .~r,~ma s .sodomy. la~., ¯ Her ......est SerT~ce ~had~:t:w~c.e:contacted ~.., entry or continued service un- ¯..life insuiancepolieiesofpeople " scho01.Butld~hoAtt0~Gen, . conauct is immor-al," P~s0ns different.editorS at.tfie~aper.in ¯ less-mani.fested hy homosexual :~ngof~S,~,qmet~mescalled eralL~ E¢’hoHa~k:fiag-’r~led. .ruled..,Thecoaduct render~ her an (ans?a~cdg~gut~i~fort, "~ ~eath, futureS~ Chisum r~port- . denying the ~roup campusrec- " an Unfit p~ent:,,:-.-. ; .-. ¯ : :~-squeleh:gorn~S~-:st0~b0h’r~the:-.. :.onb~" sense.sam Nunn (D-Ga.).... ediyhasinvestedS0me$2~,~ 0gnition -vioiate~. group- m~m- Barney - Pumle Menace .adw hirsutehuak. Rum6rrhagit -. Dan Coats:~(R,Ind.)and Strom m the.wat~cal pro~am, which ~rs-F~rst~mendmentnghtsof - T~PA R- ~ ~m¢ W-~th ,-.that .Smokey may:be.e.ntermg ¯ :Thu~ond ..(R,S.C.),-wall now gi~e.s.t.e~.m.a.l.ly.a.ll.p.a.tx.en.ts.a...f.re.e.s.~e.c.fi.a.nd..as.s~.m.t.lo.n:".: ." ." n~.t;~.-a..~-..-~.-~g.~.-.0-~.,-~..on.eof.the.ev.er-~.pu.l~b.~e.che.st..:~:~.fea.d::.Aoer"son"~s sexual on"en- way to cash ~.n on.~e~.r hfe.tnsu.r........" . ’ " .’........ " has foxed callinP~ itse"lf Cit~i. -¯conte"sts so,’hot at.=oay ba.rs.:ev.er.y........ta[.~o.n ~s ~consi"dered a pe~rs’onal .... ’~N0 dustie~ = No Pizza" zens Concer"ne¯ d A.~b.o.u.t Bar.ney... .¯ wh.ere.in h.ope,.- 0..f.b..e.i.ng., -s~.¯.tt.e..d..... a.n.d pri. ~a:~te¯m..at.te.r.an.d.is .not.a. SANDIEGO ~ A San Diego,- That’s B~naey th.e..P.B..S.-.T.V. - byatalenfto-srcBouet arm.a.g.a-.. .-. ba~toserwc. een.t.r.y.o.rContmucd.. Calif.-based¯group hascalledfor pu~le dinosaur, hotRep. B~ney " z~ne. ., ~ - ~ serwce unless manflested by hoa nationwide gay and .lesbian Frank of Mass.;thattbe good Hi~h-ToehSoxHal -- " -.- mosexual conduct." Rep. Ron boycott of Domino’ s Pizza with fol~s of Tampa are Worried Orientation Cha~e Dellums (DvCalif.), chai~mn of Springs-basedFocus0n theFam: ily, one of the largest and most more than 5,000 locati0nsin the ’about, claiming they intend to SAN JOSE, Calif. -Noone ever U.S. after Domino’s chief-ex~ _"expose,,Barneyfor what he re- said findingthat special Valenecutive officer Tom..,Mo-riaghan ally. i.s... W~ a.~w.a.y~ thought tine Was easy. But two San Jose; awardedthec0mpany,shiamafii........... .’ " ’ ¯ ~ Barney was a cloyingly, super-" ’: " Calif.;’het~ros~(ial men’-sted,~, " tarianawardt0Dr. James D0b2 saccharine cha.ract~r on.:a: " Anderson and "chriStianson, head of the Colorad0~ Benvenuti;thirty¯so~efhingguys with-strapping good looks -found out..e.xac.tly how difficult love children’s TV ¯show. but Citizens Concerned say the.pbptilar pre-historic Barney is.spreading ance p01icies.at:~ a discount by haming-the .pu~.clih~rs. 0f the ¯policies as beneficiaries. According tothe Dallas Morning News, Chisum’s investments have so far netted him a t7% annual return. Chisum is head ofthe Texas Conservative C0a~ition, which last year attempied.td.~av¢ a!l state AIDS edu~at.ion fundg for adults¯ transferred tO programs for children and teens - w~io by state education regulations can only~ 1~ ~taug~h:.t~bs~r~ce ~~h¢ Window coverings of all types, accessories, silk flowers, rugs, custom, upholstery & more - all your interior needs. Wembley Center " 7116South Mingo, Suite 102, 254,2100 the House Armed Services Committee and a: leading liberal Democrat, said the change was a sign Glinton was ~’backpedaling’? on the issue and that-it-’was a tragic step backward that is catering to the wrong forces." Ds. as $1.99 10AM-10PM MONDAY THRffSATURDAY, N00N-8PM SUNDAY " Tulsa Family¯ News; March - April.1994, page 5 Rainbow BUsiness from page 1 had between 15" & 20. persons attending with businesses re.presented from retailers, bar-owners, lawn-care provider~s to professionals, such as graphics & building designers, attorneys & physicians. Officers will. be elected at the next,meeting on Monday, March :21 at 7pm,.For more i~n~formation.-call,i, Ti’m G~llean~at BudgetzWindow..-T.reatmentsi~~ More ar~ 254=21~00~: MayorSavage from page 1 ity training among the training currently being given-to Tulsa police officers, to-advertise Tulsa’s youth services as beinga sale place for Gay and Lesbian teens to-go, and to issue an executive order that would protect Gay and Lesbian city employees from any type ofjob discrimination, When questioned about current operating procedures of the City of Tulsa and -the Tulsa Police Department. the Mayor’s staff repeatedly asked for "specific cases" of unfair.treatment. Mr. East and Ms. Kitts indicated a willingness, on the part of the Mayor, to combat: injustice if there were specific documented cases that theCity could investigate. Several people from the audiencedid stay after the forum to discuss specific incidents. Several peopJe from the-audience commended the office of the Mayor for the February waterbill inserts thatlisted sexual :,.ofientati0n among the diversi- - fieso£society. Mr..East saidthat lhey had e×pefienced some cases of negativefeedback from certain citizens in Tulsa. Mr. East and Ms. Kitz told the audience that the Human Rights Commission is studying the need to include sexual orientation in the non-discriminatory policy of thecity. Before the Mayor takes any action, she will probably wait to find out what the recOmmendation ofthe Commission is. Ms. Kitzsaid that the Mayor is constantly appointing people to various boards, one of which is the Human Rights Commission. She indicated that there are current vacancies, on that commission, as well’ as On many other city boards. Resumes can bb sent to the Office of the Mayor. 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Memorial 665-6595 Tulsa Family News, March -April 1994, page 6 Jane Roth fro-, page 1 Last year, Johnand Stevefrom the Silver Star came in with us. It really helped because it takes a lot ofpeople. Nobody else wants to help .with the cooking, and you’ve got all that stuff to do. TFN: Doyou have an estimate of how many people were there last.year? JR: The.guys.at the gate said it was approximately eleven to twelve hundred. What Fd like to do is .get a.little more inyglvement. we .get a .lot of peopie who say, "Well, everything’ s donated. We’ll have shows or something for donations." The beer’s donated, the hotdogs were donated, but they don’t realize our costs. T.he park costs, the cooker costs, porte-potties cost; the chiPS~ the plates cost.:There’ Sjust so much money involved, that one person cannot.do it anymore, Ifwe could get some volunteers; ff we could get the equipment, that’d be great, That’s why we’re starting a little earlier this year. Editor’s note: wealsoaskedJane . to tell us a little about .herself andher experiences.. " TFN: .’~hat brought you tO Tulsa? JR: .I read about the bar for sale, andI came down tb to0kat it. , ¯ " TFN? Wla~i-e wereyou living about40acres ofland down there nity; We"ve had a lot of different and ended up staying there"for girls who have needed help and about five years, then moved to we’ve, done fundraisers, and . Watonga; lived in Kansas City they’ve got another one right about twenty years, now we’re planning on doing TFN: Have been involved in Something for.... mostly bar businesses? Any rimein your life, there’s JR: Yeah. Over that periodof times that you-don’t expect. I time I started in Kansas City, had a friend who was here from then. opened my own in SanFranciscO~ndshementi0ned Humansville; and Wato.nga. that she had.. :never see~a~.such a ’ Those were straight bars/You closeness in-a community: belearn theropes all different ways. fore. !She Said.I musto b.e.,rea!ly Our~,~rlsthereatT&T, they-re proud, and I-was so overpr0bably" the m0si supp0~tiVe ....w.,.h.e..lm.. ed, ! ~as.just crying...~ :: bunch 6f~arii~h th~ii illa~,e ~ver " , !f ! s.a.y ~H-’ey, we~ need some- ~en-in ai~i c~in~muflity.:I got a thing, there ssome~rtsoutthe_re callandwastoldthiswomanhad (who need help)’, they’ll say just moved to Tulsa, she had no ’Well we’ll put this show toapartment, she had no furniture, ,,ether,~, Jane.’ she had two children. !/€_e made Our auctions ’seem. to work a couple calls out, and I’m not betterthananything.Wehadone kidding you, we hfid everything in September, and one. arotind there by that night. Christmas, for a needy family. ¯TFN: Wow, one day. That is TFN! How do. you find out oneof the reasons TFN wanted about who needs help? t0’.talk with you. People go ¯ JR: There are ways offinding around with a lotta stereotypes, peoplein need. Oneyear, Rocky you know, "There’s this kinda from TOHR, he helped me. I folk, and thatkinda folk, and think that was the first year l was there’s bar pe0ple... In actuality, here, W~ had .the woman with - there are good people all around the two childrem Jimmy and Roy but we don’t hear about it. We also went With us to deliver. I hope to change that, and raise think we had two pickup loads. awhrenessof some of the good There was anotherfamily who thatisdbne. That’sanincredible had a little boywho was really story.. - sick; and their phone bills were JR: Well, you kngw, every- " s0tremendous,justtryingtofind body does what they Cando w!th doctors. Last year, we gave the wllat they have:Now, me.~! m .proceeds to .shanti; who delivin. the ba~business; AiidI danY:t ~r~ff£tii~ mon_ey to sever~ldiffer- .. ent. families who needed fobd.. ~b6ut i 6 kids ~in"the~ p~ogram inow. Betterthan nothing, but the best we can do? We think not. In a meeting with Tulsa Family News, Ms. Wiggins stated Youth Services does not have a timeline for reaching those who need theprogram by going more public, and will not make any commitment tO consider developing one. Futhermore, at that Gay Youth ft~om page2 about the program, Lesbian & Gay youth, won’t find out either: Tulsa Family News became involved in this issue inad.vertantly. A high school q,uamtance was ¯approached abotit advertising for one of his businesse.s. He declined citing ,<~the-homophobia of the town in -wh.ict~it~s located but suggested , same meetin.g~ MS,. Wiggins -"~,thar:he::wouldlilke to pay for "mad~d-riUmO~r~0.f hgs’til~_ re= ;advertising :f6r;.this youth pro- riiarks aimed at the.Lesbian & -’grams" -~ : ’ . ~-: Gag’(ommuniti~ she accused Tulsa FamilyNews contacted us ofai.min~,:"brick~ats,~atYomh :YouthServices arld the 0ff~rwas accepted: The donor.later’asked cfifiz~d t]~T0~" not hd~ihg d~elif his dollars could go to Youth 0ped anything fOr OU!: young Services (in order to-get a tax adultsourselves, andco~plained deduction) with Youth Services that "your communities" had payingfortheadwithear-marked hardly raised any money for the dollars (it is not Unusual for gifts program in: contrast to .her board to be dedicatedl to a partio.ular of.directors, MS.. Wiggins.~uggested that if we didn’t like what the~, were doing, we should shut- UP or start our own. In response, Tulsa Family News would liketo sugges[ that "our communities" can hardly support pi’ograms about .which we haven’t been told. We would add that the Lesbian/Gay compurpose). This is where the problems arose.Youth SerVices would not honor what should have been routine donor request. It tUrns out that Youth Services n" ev"er wanted the ads that they.approved to run but did-SO because they felt to-refuse the 0ff~r would ¯ people in thecommunity that are : .justprejudiced. Theydon’t want the guys around, the guys don’t want~hg girls ar0un~,:and I.think that" s so stupid. Everybody needs everyb0dy.,~ ..-. . ’ ~’. TFN: Do y0u: think Tuls,~t needsa ciammunity center? . J:,R: It does.i, but I don’.t-.krtow ifit’.d w0rl(.~ we’ve:had.~ 10t of different things, SO many different things that have :failed t-hat Jane Roth......" " "~ 0nhimterribly.Hegbtl~t~r~t~i~i~":NOHate ,.: _f_r,Orh page 1 she said~ "My heai:t g~es out-to:.... . : .. ~ , . from page I perspective on Tulsa s €ommu- these kids, and is there any wa~ .~-tation" in the:;~.ntCiiCC. "~Vc arc nities? ¯ " youcan dome and get them with- -a stronger’ Commtmitv because ~: I think the community is a out somebody kn~WingT" .. -- /of ouraccepkmce-of ~arions re: 10t more togetherthan it was,. I said that I kn0w,{~ 10t 0t; ,.- ie 0n~rac~s, sexual oicntat from when I first came here. people that .Could . ~ake~’em:to & _ a~d naii0mil 0ri~in:" it went You’re always gonna ha.ve afew meriting, if we Could .fi~d 0he,::if t0: say that luws~that target haw we could find a meeting place -. crimes arc imp(~rtant but that tb~ these kids. She said, "It’s - gh0fild also Ibcdg,ol~ our bcli’~’ls hard for’em in school I:kh0w -. : how Fdfeel if it had~been:oneof ,’~Ougm~essagc~,sbould;,~c my own chddren ,The~boy.had - come to her house;,and,s~e;said; ::.. th~l(d’i!’l~r~hces 5h;~t ~’My heart-went-ouvto ~i~¢and I o~c-oLus..a~un(~zo~.. : :¢.-- am not-Gay. Ithought thatma~ ~im East. prc~s, spokes something.. The ,kids do need Ibr Tuls~fimyoriSusan Savage, some lsupport]. ¯ -. indicated that a l~vpersons had TFN: Whatdovou think,about called lo complain of the inclu: a program that ~xists [for’Gay sion of "sexual orientation.’ peoplehavetfiedt~puttogether., kidsl, but refuses to advertiseor Those wishing to commcm And why? Id0n t .knoff.~..still ~ . otfierwise :make themselves this essay may call the Nia.xor’s we’ve got a lot more than what known. 6ven ~hen a donor .oI~ office at 596~41 I. we.had when I first.came here. a l~rs to donate, money specifi5 lot more. - " " cally lbr that purpose’: The?e arc LetteFs lioml,,Ce 2 You know~ when.I firstcame cuwentlv sixteen:kids utilizinu thev take the initiative to stand here .one of the.pe0ple that was the proffram. Do you think: .th~ ,_up ibr us. the biggest help to me was Kris in al! ol~ Tulsa.- there are ,only Additionally, the. worst thing Kohl. ~is was always donating si.xtcenGay kids? we can do is t¢;Ict disagreements his time forbenefitS and stuff. . JR: That does not make sense and’ ar,e,’um,.-n.,.s.s,eparm¢" - us He s been dora= ~t.e~er-s~nce I. to me. How arc the. kids sup- one another. It is not necessary got here, and was probably.do- posed toknow about this’? When lk)r every Gay. Lesbian or Bfing it b~fore i got here.~... ’ I have straieht x~:0mcn calline - sexual person to,agree on every traps Of thecl0Setl and how easy it i~ to i-afionali~e hiding. Another thing Ms. Wiggins refuses to answer is what, if any timeline, Youth Services for taking the program more public? If they~could reach all the young adults who need their help through their current outreach that would be fine. But ~hat outreach is limited at present to putting cards with their phone number in library books that gay youth might pick up and to the beginnings of a word of mouth built network of "sympathetic" school counselors. The result is there", perhaps our experience and advice might be given a little more respect, Youth ServiCes is partially funded by United Way.Some of those dollars are Our dollars. They are also receiving funding from the state of Oklahoma. and some of .those dollars are. definitely ours: Sooner or later, Youth Services is going-to have to get brave and come out about serving all youth, including ours. Youth Services’ mission is not ¯and should not be restricted to heterosexual youth-only. SALOON Sunday March-13, MDA Benefit Couple Dancing Workshop By Paula Hand Sat. &Sun. March 26.& 27, $35 for. both days. Learnthe Best in Country Da.ncing!- - Sunday Show" case,"Mar.ch.!2.7i.i !!i ..... Anne Marie "Liza" Ivana B. Real & Sadie Brooks Hosted byKris Kohl Hours: Tues.-Thurs. 4~2, Fri. & Sat. 7-2, Sun, 4-2 1565 S. Sheridan : ~.~. Ttd_sa Family. News March -~ April ! 994, page Clinton frompage l must not be denied by ballot initiative or otherwise." The Clinton lettercame as a result Of a request by the Victory Fund for the~Clinton’s support in fighting the anti-gay campaigns. Waybourn’s letter was written Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Trials Begin of Global AIDS Vacci ne HAUPPAUGE, N.Y. - United Biomedicallnc. has started clinical trials.ofthe 1 st multi-component syn!hetic AIDS vaccine Silverman, AmFAR’s president, agreed that he was hardly happy with the Bush administration’s -record on AIDS, but said AmFAR had hoped the expresident’s inv01vement’would reach people "whom we might on behalf of his own or~aniza- .designed~peclfically :to target tion. as well as the HumaffRi~tits i~ae .e.xte~.~i~i-.~0rldwide vari- - " Campaign Fund. the’ N~.t~fial ~: "ability o~7~I~:.2.ii virt)s..W~hil~ Gay & Lesbian Task For~vthe’~ .~thef cai~4idat~:-vaccines~:a?e ~ -lh;~ Ga~&LesbianAlliance~ga~st~;~ ~b~sed on~i~le;varmnt ol~me ¯ . ............ ...... - :~ ¯ . ~]’amation (GLAAD). a~d~’~: NOrth N~strai:n~. ~j’)~.~. ~4nts, Families & Prien~s 6~4ff~~ ,-¯virus; ~,~¢~cu~d"~i.fs;rff:? / Heartstrings 101 is a musical theater event challen~in~ the audience- ~bianshndGavs(P-FEAG3~r~. sea?ch o~t~g:~bleculaf d~si~n.......t.i.o.ns in the ¯state. Drug addicts to think about the realities of HIV & AIDS. ThecmTent tour is president’s backing brings a ofa"cocktait,:vaccinetargeting designed Ibr young.adults and is a call to action to save a generation measure of hope to thos~, who- a range ofHIV- 1: strains existing who eXchangesex f0r-crack and at risk. Heartstring 101 is a pmgrana ofthe nationa.l Community AIDS Partnership and is touring the country this spring as part-of a new national youth mmamc. The perlkm]mncc on March _: will be a ~review lbr our community In preparation t~r an .egtended tour ih 1995 Which will visil T~dsa area colleges and universities. . HIV infection is steadily increash~ in ad01escentsand voun~ adults in our c~mmunitv. Aheadv more titan 1.100 cases of HIV & AIDS have been dia~no~scd in tbe~ulsa area. Many of the cases ofAIDS are reported among young adults between the ages of 20 and 29. indicatin~ that most 0f tlwm contraclcd the virus at a much earlier a~e. ~hc GatckOcpcr~ Pfrfdrmancc is lbr community leaders an~ other are fighting in the.trenche~~ery day to defeat these anti-ga,ymeasures.’" Waybourn sai& ;’R v~-ill sustain them through battle¯ We are not alone." Pride Summit from page 1 homa City lbr geographical reasons. The group also came to consensus that this state-wide meeting should be called the~ :around, the .glob~. The PhaSe trialS, to deier~]’ne safety and iriimunogenici(~~ is beiri~ Sl~O~i- Sored-:by ,th~ ~.accirie ~lini~al Trials Ne~ff~r.t4:of th6 U.S! National’ Institute of Allergy and other~drugs ,are the main force behindthe rising VD rate, officials .said. According to state . health statistics:, the syphilis rate in Mississippi is 7 times,that of the national average. AIDSex- Infectious Diseases and is being, perts say a dramatic increase in conducted at the Universit9 ~0f the syphilisrate portends¯, in the Rochester and Johns Hop¯kins next few years~ a similar:sharp University. rise in new HIV infections as welli Concerns Over Federal ~ - " " " AIDS Funding " Calif°rniaissuesSafer ¯ Oral Sex Guidelines Cleaning/Pt:essing, Alterations & Drapery Cleaning 4951" So. Peoria, (across from the Camelot) 743-5967 Monday-Friday 7-6, Saturday 9-2 Same-day dry cleaning service on request. l’u~s,~ I"amffy News. March - April 1994 .p.a.ge 8 .tate AIDS prevention and- care presentorsuspected; avoidrough - to value our digersity, seeking politiCal unity for common goals, and in particular, recogniz(. the strengtl~s and contributions ¯of race, gender and class, Outcomes of the Summit may .. "- - fn~tude h rapid ~l~onsen~twor~= of GLB.T organizations, the creation 6t il ic~nt~al :i’esofrC~’prbvider,"- a dii-~ctbry of organizations, and a leadership caucus. Outreach to:rural Lesbians and Gay men is a topic of particular concern. For more information, call Tulsa Family News at 832-0233. efforts in rural states, and community," said Jeremy Landau, or vigorous oral sex; check for executivedirectoroftheNational cutsin the mouth and genitals Rural AIDS Network-. ~ before having oral sex; wash the sex or._.qans before:arid after;:and Bushes Bow Out of avoid~tushfffg ~rfl0ssing t~eth AIDS Benefit WAS HINGT0iN :2: iF:0~.irner .... : immedi:ate!y before Or after .ha,~- Pi’egident.George Bush and wife .ing oral Barbara have fo?mally .,With-¯ . -u~lan !nqulry~ drawn from a fundraising event forAm., FAR (Ame.ric.an.Fou.ndation f0rAIDS ReSearch) follow- -’:~-K~,r_~ ~-~;:,;~,,~or,’~ in_ ~ng w~despread protests of their be,ng ,nv,ted to s,t on an honor aryhostcommitteefortheevent, than 1,000-Canadians with the Opponents said Bush’s support in the fight against the epidemic virus got under way Monday, was negligible When he was I "This seems a little hypocrit!-[, president.R0s~m~irialBush’s I cal to me, especially consider-~ chief Of st,aft, t01d the Washing~ ling where ABC had to kiss/ ton Post,- They have withdrawn. I Roseannejust to keep her from / It.was more out..of courtesy so I going tO .CBS." - Jay Leno/ they would not harrfi .the.fun& [ about Roseanne’s lesbian kiss.I raising .event." Mervyn Feb. 14~although the head ofthe commission doesn’t expect to ..... make anyfindings availabi.e for nearly 2-years. More than a thousand hemophilia~cs and patients receiving blood transfusions in Canada are known to have been infected since 1978, and some Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs_ Health 400 of them have since died..The government commission, headed hy Justice Horace Crever, will begin by holding hearings throughout the rcountry during the next 8 months to gather infor~ mation and testimony. Although the commission has a September 1994 deadline, Crever said he does not expect a report to be ready before December 1995. U.S.’Women Unaware of, Sexual Health Risks WASHINGTON- The overwhelming majority of women surveyed, inthe U.S. believe they are safe from sexually transmitted diseases,including AIDS~ according to a poll of !;000 women between .the ages of 18,60. The survey, condiacted by the Ameri- Can Medical womenrs Assn. and the Campaignfor ¯ .Vgomen~s Health, determined that.two-thirds,.ol~ U..S.:women know "almost nothing:’ aboutSTDs other than .AIDS, .arid one-third know "almost. n0thing?’ about, any STDs,, including.. AIDS. In.. addition~ some.50%bf womenbelievemonogamy -is.effective protection against disease;fewer thaii" one-third of the women surveyed use:condoms during sex; and t:wo-thirds of the ~women under age 25. use condoms or abstain :from se~,.?This survey confirms that women are uninformed, .unconcerned-and not taking action in the.face of rising risk,, said Joan Kuriansky of the Campaign for Women’s Health. AIDSEpidemic Declining in San Francisco SAN FRANCISCO.- San Francisco Health Department officials have announced what may be the most significant pieces of good news inthe grim recent history of the AIDS epidemic. An analysis by health officials indicates that the epidemic peaked in 1992 in this city, the first to be hit by the disease that has killed more than 200,(300 Americans in the past 13 years. The Health Department report indicates that the number of new A:IDS cases. i’eported in i992 hit a high point of 3,326 and has begun -slowly but.steadily to decrease. By t997, health dfficials here now estim’d{e.there will ~ only I~204¯1 ~V : Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs reported. The report also indicates that the-number of people living with AIDS in the city’crested at 9.109 in 1992 and projects that number will fall to 6.460. by 1997. Health officials said the safe sex campaignslaunched bv the’city’s gay community early in.the, epidemic were the most important contributor to breaking the relentless spread of HIV. In other larger U.S. cities, such as New York and Los Angeles, ~prevention efforts were less effective, they said. As a result, the number of new AIDS cases there, and elsewhere around the country’, have continued to grow annually. The. Tulsa Community AIDS Partnership (TCAP) is.seekin,,¢ applications.. "l’Olll co. n nt,. airy. organizations/bE the pu~osc ol strc ~gt.hcn ng Tulsa" s ability to meet the Challenge of HIV/AII)S. On the merits of a proposal IY0m t~c Tuls~ area United Way and the Community Scrv.icc Council. Tulsa was chosen this year Ibr a ffiliation. Throu~la the National Communi.ty AIDS Partncrst~ip Challenge Grant program; the TACP will Ol’l~r ftmding l~r proposals addressing the lbllowing cohccrns: H1VLMDS information scrvi¢cs,,~art cular[~,.lhosc.~vhich expand or enhance~tfic HIV/~?II~S h~i( ~i~c nt~rnlation and rcl~f~il services c6~crauc cthrcfith’ avmlable in Tulsa: HIV prcvcntion/cducath~n: ~crviccs especially those whic~ target ytmth. ~ omt’n, minorities, injection, dru_,, u~c¯ rs: Hlk’/..kll)S ca~c ~ci’viccs: includmgdental ~trc. psycho~ocial ~iCcdk including" counseling, transportation assistance, l i~ ing hcalth- ~ ily with HI~ and support: agcnc~ ,labili/ation: and volan.teer development and coordination. I:cllcrs of interest arc due by 5 (~)p.m.on March 251h. I -Full proposals arc duc by 5 ~.m. 0n April 22nd. I There will hc an inlbrmalion ~c~i6n trom tl_ IO a.m. on ~arch 17th in the Collin~ R~,m. t:nitcd Way Building. 1430 S. Boulder. Applicators mull bc c~ted jn and scr~c pc0plc in the "l’ul,a~MS~-~ (Tulsa. R(~gc~s.Wagoner. Creek. and ()sage ~’ounl~c~ If you are unable to attend thi~ meeting and ~ ould Ilk6 copies of the inlk~rmation, contat’t Sharon Pottier at 5S5- 5551 after Mardh 17lh:Scnd lett~r~, tt~ Jani~’~’ ~ikla~. Project Director. TCAP. 1431) S. Boulder. l’ul~a ()K: 74119-3604. For more information, call NI~. Niklas at 918-585-5551. Quote- Unquote "The perverts ofthe ’50s arethe saints of the "90s.’" ~ Long-time lesbian activist Del Martin who, along with her partner Phyllis Lyon. the Rev. Cecil ~Williams; and the Rev. Robert Cromey, received ’.’Liying Saints" awards :from. the Metropolitan Cbmnianity Church.in San~ Francisco. - Fri ds K pi/ g Fri ds. . , for details Look for-us at our REACH Thursdays from 6: 0 - 9:00 pnt the11"th $’[’reet Loeafio. (Project Eeaeh.Otrt !!) for details. Tulsa Family News, March 2_ April i 994. page9 T H E G A American Theatre Co. BREAKING LEGS Mar. 25-Apr..2 596-7111 Broken Arrow Community Playhouse ALL MY SONS Mar.48~27 258-0077 Clark - , - , _-:. To be~:affnounced. ~ 596-7111 Holler Theatre NO EXIT Mar. 1(/213 746-5065 Sapulpa Community Theatre TBA _,7-_169 Spotlight .Theatre THE DRUNKARD Ongoing. 587-5030 .Theatre Pops TBA 596-7111 Theatre Tulsa I,WE WITH FATHER ANNE OF THE THOUSAND DAYS Mar. 11-20 Apr. 8-1, 596-7111 Tourin~ THE WIZARD OF OZ Apr. l&2 596-7111 Tulsa Ballet Tlaeatre THE MIGHTY CASEY Apr. 8-10 5i-)6-7111 Tulsa Junior College CURSE.YOU. JACK DALTON Apr. 8-17 596-7111 THEATRE TULSA Life With Father Marc_h 11-20 Anne ofthe Thousand Days April 8-17 Kelly Kirby Certified Public Accountant Please Note New Address & Phone: POB 14011, Tulsa 74159-1011, 747-5466 Faster refunds available through electronic.filing. 2630 East 15th Dart Tournament. Tuesdays; 8 prr 749- !-~63 poo! Tournament. Fridays, 7:30 ~ Every Friday at t 0:30, SHOW! L I F E S AreYou Prime? Tulsa Area Prime Timers are on the move. TAPT began in August. 1993, as the 27th chapter of International Prime Timers. Initially having 15 mem, -bers. the organization now has 45 members: and is growing. The purpose of TAPT is to provide social and cultural/recreational activities organized out ofinterest surveys fromthemembership. TAPT pUblishes a monthly newsletter .\vith an activity calendar/’or its members. ACtivities range from dinin~ out to get-togethers: swim parties and cookouts. Many members are planning to attend the Dallas/Fort Worth Prime Timers 4th anniversary Celebration March 18-20. Springtime is on its way, and outdoor activities are being planned. One overnight trip is being organized for the 67 mile train ride through the Ozark mountains. If you are 40 or over, you may write to: Tulsa Area Prime Timers, P.O. Box 52118. Tulsa: Oklahoma. 74158 Worksho.p Family of Faith is hosting a workshop entitled "’The Blessing" on. Wednesday. March 3.0. The workshop Will b~ preceded . bya potluck dinner.at 6:30. The ¯ %cus of the workshop.is to.talk about how each 0f-~s can be a blessing to those-in our lives, and also how we canbe blessed by our families and loved ones For info., call 298-4622. T Y L E Theatre Notes by Gerald Miller Volunteerism and community service is something whictiThea. tre Tulsa deals in every day. It is part of our mission as a community ~heater, and a mainstay in our ability to prOduce shows. We are-constantly surprised at the number of people who want to come and dip their toes in this thing called theater. While I will never discourage anyone from that desire, I do want to pose the question as to Why that volunteerism and community spirit doesn’t get translated into other worthwhile efforts. ¯ Even as 1 pose that quesuon, I havetoremindmyselfthatldoff’t do all that I can. or all that I once " did. My "explanation’. (read :’~xcuse") is TIME. Where I once volunteered to walk my block for the American Heart Association. I don’t anymore. Where I once was extremely active in political volunteerism, I’m not anymore. Where I once invested time in civic committees, I don’t anymore. The over-riding reason that I don’t do these things anymore is. the amount of time spent in my duties with the theatre.. In all honesty, part of the ieason that I don’t make time for these efforts due to the fact that in a couple of~ cases, I had a.di~heartening ex- . perience, t let the individual am acutely aware that I have to make the experience as positive and beneficial as I possibly can. I also have to be constantly attuned to the potential negative incident. That means t spend a lot oftime trying to guard against that potential negative, and I am sure that I’m not always successful. Let me suggest for all of you who have had the one negative experience, or for those of you who haven’t given yourselves the opportunity of either the negative or positive experience of volunteerism, give another shot~ or a’firgt shot. Keep in mind that involvement is the only way you can help shape the community in which we all live. YOU have a vast potential outlet to suit your individual interests. Tulsa is blessed with countless community service organizations, artistic outlets, religious service organizations, community committees, ed.ucational outreach programs, and of course, political activity. Somewhere out there is a group that needs your talents and time. Get out there and get involved. Don’t expect the .negative experience. No matter how busy’your life may be, there isa very selffulfilling opportunity waiting for you. You must be pro-active. about your involvement. Here’s what I commit to do before the end of summer. I will negative .experience-:drive me . find some non,theater:avenue av,;~t)"f{om iill thdg~0d that those ’ and provide ¯time and money to efforts represented, that group. I’ll report back to As a person Who regularly so- you as which group it- was and licits ¯volunteers, relies upo_n what I was able to do: Now, it’s them, and appreciates them, I your turn! Leaves of Grass Health Center is an organization dedicated to the enhancement of health in body, mind. and spirit, through counseling, play & art workshops, retreats, and prevention education towards the transformation of consciousness. LOGHC is located in the (oothills of the Ozarks in-Northeastern Oklahoma in Tahlequah. LOGHC is-an association ofpr0- fessionals who have counseling expertise with all forms ofad-~ diction processes, stress illness, people living with HIV/AIDS and people affected by PLWA’ s. education, and nutrition. Director Jan Bauer also extends. an invitation, as local representative of the national organization, ’Old- Lesbians Orga-. nizing for Change’, to Lesbians House Share GWF lookingfor GF or couple to share " 4 bedroom home. $350/mo. incl. utilities, washer, etc. 1/2 rent offfor yard work/maintenance, 832-1816 age 60 orolder to.acquaint with with the OLOC organization and who might enjoy participating in an OLOC ageism c.onscioushess raising group. OLOC is committed to networking with old lesbians everywhere to combat ageism, and celebrate differences and affirm the diversity of our races, ethnicities, class back~ grounds, of herstories, and present lives, For further information on either LOGHC or OLOC, call Jan Bauer at 918-456-2448. OSUGay, Lesbian, Bisexual -Community Association Alumni Banquet Saturday, April 2 Crestview Clubhouse 2323 East Sixth,Stillwater Reception, 6pm, Dinner, 7pm, Dance, 9:2am, RSVP by March 26 Speaker: Robyn Ochs, author/activist GLBCA, 405-744-5252 040, Student Unio, Box ~01, Sti!!water 74078 !.I.~,~ l"ami/;" News, March April 1994. page lO T H E ClTY/COUNTY L I B R A R Y April 1-30 Display: Book Collectors Club of Tulsa, 4th anti Denver. April 2,5,7,9,11,14 Noontime Book Fair 1 la.m.-2p.m., 4th and Denver. April 2 Workshop: Begin’g Genealggy 9:30a.m.- 12p.m. 1520 N.Hartford Ave. Api-il 4 . . Family Film Night, "Winnie The Pooh and Tigger Too" 6:45p.m.-7:30p.m., 5 [3113! 91 st April 4 Books Sandwiched In 12:10-12:50 p.m. Aaronson Audit., 4th& Denver. April 4, 11 Lecture: "Positive Parenting: Meeting The Challen=e , 6:15p.m.-7p.m., 551 E. 46th St North. April 6 BookDiscussion, i :30p.m:, 3219 S. 113th W. Ave¢Santi Springs. April 6 Lecture: "Tulsa’s Scandalous Past.", 12:10p.m.- 12:50p.m., Aaronson Audit., 4th &Denver. April 7 Lecture: "Herbs to Know ~and Grow", 10:30a:m.-1 l:15p.m., 3210 E.21st St. April 8 Book Signing, William Sanders, author of"The Next Victim", & "’A Deathon RoUfe 66......... 7p.m., 1207 E.45th PI. April 11 ,, . G A, Y L. life life 6737 S. 85th:E.Ave. April 1.1 Book Review, 2~2:50pira.,.Br0-:.: .. ken Arrow Library, 300 Broadway .- April 13 Lecture by Rev. Dr. John Wolfe 737 S. 85th Sandra Z Hill, M.S. Psychotherapy and Clinical Consultation 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Ste. 2.15 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105 745i 1111 I F E S ........ T.....Y L E rouna 21st..& ,129.East Avenue (Next.to Homeland) 234-9007 . $3 Beer .Bust, Everyday 4-7, $1.50 Pitchers, 9. to midnight. Mon. - Dart League 8pm. Tues.- Pool Tournament, 8pm. Wed.- Bamboo Night with Singing/Dancing Star, Gene Kernaghan, 40’s, 50’s & 60’.s Music Thurs. - Ladies Night, $1.25Longnecks for the. Ladies. Fri. - Male Dancers, Disco &::iMixed .music, 10pm. Sat. - Showcase with Mersades; and. guest, Stephanie Cassidy, And Dancers too! Sunday Brunch, noon.-2pm, Open daily till 2am, Food served during all open hours. Maj0r; credit cards accepted.. "Tulsa Fantily.Ne.ws, March - April !994, page 11 Thursday-:& Sunday The bestshows in town - call for lineup! Friday & Saturday Music:--in town! Coming March 20th, First Ciass Male Dance Revue Fourhot guys &. One outrageous girl! _Cheap-beer every-night! Nightly beer busts! Domestic Longnecks 50¢, 9-1.0 pm, $1,10-11 every night! r I toMfoo~ery.!.¯ .. at the Alle_v . "lllitis,,,- ~ur~l Oish-2am Airl~.idt)iscol=" accepted. Tulsa’s only ~ Lesbian/Gay Gift Store April 3rd The JimmyJames Show ..Tickets on sale now! $5 advance, $8 at the door Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1994] Tulsa Family News, March-April 1994; Volume 1, Issue 4 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa's Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September of 2001 (Volume 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics pf marriage, military, law, charity, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics, all at the local and national level. This document is availble in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource March-April 1994 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Kharma Amos Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma-Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neil/Tulsa Family News Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/464 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, February 15-March 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 3 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/eb6551e9c5a9c387dd0e17803fa50b4f.jpg 5cb4b50e33012ae9b86f3cb49c561361 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/fc85411c0ba4024519fe6ddb72c08663.pdf f3fb585bdd5cd63f74f83666f15cc2a1 PDF Text Text Serving Tulsa~s LeJbian~i Gay & Bisexual Communities7 Our-Famitie:.S. of the Heart- .Tulsa Gay Chu.rc~hes C.elebratel =Family of-Faith-- MCC~Founder IS Moving! FamflyofFaithMetropolitan Greater TulsaCommunity Church .has moved fromitslocationinJenksto5451E South:Mingo. Family of Faith PastorsPam~rockerandMarim: .ByKliarmaAmos. council.from the Westside Ministerial Fellowship, 13 people , ad~r~ssedt~e~t~o=caa~ont B u, r n i n ,~s~rvice an .~, : -~ " : :: :’: " ..... " Sgt Ci~ Counci!.~ ,e.ars. ~ C ~ o~ n db m-n.s. Praise&.Cr,t,c,sm MO r t g . .: JtsephSteffan(s~aseappears to -:~’.. %fientation’ to ¯ : :.~ gres~ional brief in a case:before thd.Supreme: :. ~’mPrecedented:¯ ¯ "’: " April - May 1994, Volume 1, IsSue 5 :Say No To Hate ..... M a ~ y . o r " ~........ ....... " F’mk sLat’ted the chu:.ch four.years The ago in Broken Arrow. " founder 6f the Universal The programming of,the lowship of MetropolitanCom:: church lias ~xpanded toinclude¯ - munity Chuiches joined the Project-ReachOut- HIV TeSt. Reverend Alice.Jones andher ing and CounsellingCenter~ a_ .... congregationin a worship service ¯ choir, a co-depe:!dency Support ~ .andinadinner/dancet0~ei-el~ate group, and Bible Study-. .... the burning of the.mortgage~ on. " ¯ The Church will celebrate_serthe buildii~b ofthe Metr~t~ll-tan v!ces inthe new facility begin- . : Communi~ Church of Creater mng in April. For information,: . Tulsa, Call MCC-1441: .. . MCC-Greater.Tulsa wasthe ~_ i .NEWS :, .’, "~ ............. ¯ A n t i - G-~ y . . Uncertain .on- ~o reoont oo~t,o~or. ~r-Anb-GayBzas rounding the inclusion of’.’sexual orientation"in a Say No To-Hate brochure inserted in :the city water bills ...... , At the city Council meeting on --March 31, Rev. Rod Harris, . -..President of the F.ellowship and ~astorofTrinity.BaptistO~urch, representedthe.concerns of 22 churches from .the west side of Tulsa; Rev. Harris, Dale. Leander, ¯ .= ~,- . ¯ Tulsa Mayor Susan Savage showed up as .schedu!e.d on Tuesday, March 29at the Metropolitan Community Church of G-teater Tulsa for a community meeting with the Lesbian/Gay7 Bisexti~l communities. " ! .~ The mayor ’ began by apologi._zi_’~g: for, cancelling her Feb. appearance .:due to fi family emergency. Taking questions from the ~udience’~f about-50, �What’s Wrong With Our "World"? By Kharma Amos Recently I spent some time in Springfield, Missouri and had the opportunity to read their local newspaper, "The News Leader". I have to say, reading their paper for two days made me wonder what is wrong with the Tulsa.World?_ In both weekend issues ~f the Sprmgf~eldpap~r the~:~as s:ig~ nifieanti¢overage of Gay xssues,. There was an article taken from "The Advocate" in Saturday’s paper, and on Sunday there was a headline about the anti-gay positions Missouri’s governor supports. Additionally, The News Leader runs Deb Price’ s syndicated column about Gay Issues weeny. I don’ t know if you’ ve been watching the news, but Springfield is not rumored as being among the world’s most progressive and accepting cities. Springfield just repealed their hate crimes statute by a 71% to 29% vote because voters objected to protecting citizens on the basis of sexual orientation. Does this sound like a town that should have better media coverage than Tulsa? When anti-gay proposals are made in.the Missouri House or Senate, the News Leader gives it a headline. When anti-gay proposals are made in the Oklahoma House or Senate, the Tulsa World buries the illformation in an article with a different headline. Does this sound like equal coverage? I think not. Springfield is not the only U.S. city whose media coverage should make the T0ulsa World .hang its-head in shanie. As a matter of fact, cities all over the U.S. have newspapers who do not exhibit the blatant homophobia apparent in the Tulsa World. I recenffycorresponded with an editor from the Tulsa World and suggested that the Tulsa World get up off of its complacency and give the people of Tulsa the unbiased journalism they deserve. Needless to say, my request wash’ t greeted with open arms. In fact, the Tulsa World has no intention of changing the way it covers gay issues. I wonder what would happen if all 40,000+ Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, their families, and their friends cancelled their subscriptions to the Tulsa World until the coverage of Gay issues improved. I think we might be surprised. Corrections & Comments Any organization or business will make mistakes. The more complex the job, the greater the likelihood of error. The process of investigating, researching, organizing & editing news coverage as well as selling advertising to support this paper and physically producing is challenging. What is surprising is that this paper is not filled with mistakes from cover to cover. One mistake for which we apologize is the following: the name of our Local Hero of last month is Jane Rother, not Jane Roth. To Jane, a modest but true hero, we apologize. To our readers we apologize See Corrections, page 7 INTERNATIONAL TOURS Airline/Hotel Reservations Ticket Pick-Up ¯ Cruise/Tour Packages Group & Incentive Programs "NO" Service Charge RSVP’s 10th Aniversary Cruise .on board Carnival’s mega-fun Ship Jubilee March 19-26, 1995, Mexican Riviera, d. LA Space going fast, Call for details. 181 341-6866 Oklahoma’s Only LG.T-4. Affiliate (International Gay Travel Association) Tulsa Family News, April - May 1994, page 2 Letters Dear Tulsa Family News, We are children of God We are your mothers and fathers We are your sons and daughters We are human beings We are from all walks of life We are doctors.and lawyers . : We areiS01iC~:~and ~i~,’ : :.: We are ~eachers anrfann~rs :. .We are i~Ii~sters~:and. RhblJ~s We are Student~d " churchgoers We are bosses and laborers We are home-makers, and taxpayers ¯ We are young and old We are black, white and brown We are good and bad We are poor and rich We are loving and caring people We are the pa~t and the future We are a part of this world, too. Many men and women have fought and died to keep the United States of America a land of the free. If this is the land of the free, let there be FREEDOM FOR ALL, not just for some. Lesbians and Gays are part of this country and all others, and a part of what makes this world go ’round. We do not ask for special rights, only equal rights - the rights every American are entiffed to. Jimmy Flowers A Gay American. Dear Tulsa Family News, After I received the news that the Westside Ministerial Fellowship was coming before the city council to propose a measure that would prohibit the city from promoting the "homosexual lifestyle", like they supposedly did in the water bill insert, I became deeply concerned. I called the city council office and spoke with the secretary who informed me that my city councilor, James Hogue, had put the item on the agenda. My immediate conclusion was that he would be the one with the mos.t concrete facts, & therefore was the person to whom I should direct my questions. I expected to be treated with respect, and to have at least some of my questi0ns answeied: : This w as not the case. My first question was, "Why did you put this on the. agenda?" To my ¯ - sui-prise his answer was, "Because they. asked me to". He had no facts and gave me no pertinent information. Within the course of three minutes the conversation mined fr~rm a reasonable inquiry about a specific issue mto a debate on human and civil rights, t asked ¯ him, "If you hired someone not knowing he w as homosexual and he came out to you at a later date what would you doT’. His reply was, "If I had a woman secretary and she came on to me, I would fire her too." To my knowledge coming OUT and coming ON are two completely different See Letters, page 7 TULSA FAMILY NEWS Publisher/Editor Assistant Editor Staff Writer Kharme Amos James Christjohn Tom Neal 91.8-832-0233, POB 4140, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. 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" ~ Application- Community of H.o-pe Re, aches Out For May ~Meeting ~ ~.~ Tdlsa OklahOmans..for ~Haman"° Rights.. Leslie Penmse describesithe Community of Hope as a missionary style fellowship delivering the Word through the deeds"0f its members. This month Rev. Penrose will be the guest speaker at the TOHR monthly meeting to be held Tuesday, May 3 at 7 pro. As usual, social hour begins at 6:30 pm at the HIVRC, 4154 S. Harvard,.Suite H-1. A chartered community of the UnitedMethodist Chh~ch, Rev. Pem’ose says the fellowship is open andaffirming to all its members. Some of the christqike projects offered by the CommunityofHope include providing transiti~hai;living quarter~ for victims of domestic violence and their children; Rainbow Village, a hospice for people living with AIDS; a RAIN care team; [he At/gel Proj~i;, deii~,ering packages of~food A COOPERATIVE PRESENTATION OF TOHR MiD THE BISEXUAL, LE~BL~ GAY :ASSN. 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" Tulsa Family News, April-May 1994, page 3 �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News,BriefS News Briefs News Briefs News Part of ’96 Olympics to be Held in Cobb County, Ga. ATLANTa- Rights groups have asked the AtlantaCommittee for the Olympic Games to move the, site of the volleyball matches .at the 1996 Summer Olympics out of nearby Cobb County. Last y.ear the CobbCounty Commissioners approved a resolution condemning the "gay lifestyle" and cut all county arts funding because of a play which included references to homosexuality. So far Atlanta Olympic organizers have refused to do anything, saying the games are "not about politics." Activists have asked people to contact the Olympic Committee organizers to protest locating any of the events in Cobb County. You can contact: Billy Paine, president, Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games, PO Box 1996, Atlanta GA 30301, or phone (404) 224-1996, orFAX (404) 224-1997 Gay Long Distance Carrier Controversy CHICAGO After CommunitySpirit, the long-dis: tance phone carrieraimedat gays and lesbians, dropped its customer billing service, Trans National Communications, customers began complaining of receiving calls from TNC saylng that CommunitySpirit is not donating the portion of customers" bills that is earmarked to gay and AIDS organizations. Jeffrey Vitale, president of CommunitySpirit, said, "This accusation is a complete falsehood" and called it a "’smear campaign" on the part of TNC because of its lost contract with the carrier. Vitale noted that Community, Spirit’s 1st year of donations, which are based on customers’ long-distance charges through the carrier, couldn’t even be computed until April 1 since customers have up to 90 days to pay their phone charges. "’As soon as the books can be dosed for 1993," Vitale said, "approximately $80,000 will be distributed to approximately 600 different lesbian and gay supportive organizations." He said the payments are scheduled to go out in May. Ugly Child Custody Fight in North. Carolina LEXINGTON, N.C. - In what rights activists say is a child cus- tody battle between a lesbian room and her own mother, two lesbians have been charged with sexually abusi.ngone of the women’s 2-year-old daughter. Shirley EdwardS, 25, and Donna MaVen, 34, were airested January I 1 on felony child sexual abuse charges in a complaintfiled by a friend of Edwards’ own mother, Elaine van Zant. According to Madren, after Edwards told van Zant last year that she is a lesbian, van Zant began demanding that. she be given custody of the woman’s infant daughter and the two women began receiving menacing phone calls, had car windows smashed, and were beaten up in a parking lot. "This all stems from her mother not liking the relationship," Madren said. "When she [EdwardS] came out she said that Shirley had a choice of.either giving her her child or gomg to a "normal’ lifestyle." Florida Anti-Gay Measure Can’t Go on Ballot TALLAHASSEE, Fla. - A proposed state constitutional amendment that would bar gay civil rights in Florida was ruled unconstitutional Thursday, March 4, by the state Supreme Court and blocked from appear~ ing on a statewide ballot this November The justices ruled the ballot measure was flawed because it did not advise voters of its true meaning and consequences, and because it would conflict with basic civil liberties, such as the right of employees to bargain collectively without fear of discrimination. The ballot initiative was backed by the American Family Association, which led a successful campaign to strike down a gay rights ordinance m the city of Tampa in 1992. The wording of the now-dead measure banned new law.~ and repealed all existing ones granting protections on the basis of any "characteristic, trait, status or condition other than race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, handicap, ethnic background, marital status or familial status." ’’The Florida Supreme Court’s ruling is a critical national precedent," said Suzanne Goldberg, who argued against the measure on behalf of the Lambda Legal Defense & Education Fund. "It makes dear that civil rights are not special rights - and it deals a powerful blow to the national radical right attack on lesbians and gay m.en and civil rights generally." VA Governor Fears Housing Loans Might Encourage Gays RICHMOND, Va. - Virginia Gov. Ge0rge Allenis opposing a plan to make it easier for lowincome Vir-ginians .to get state housing loans because he says the changes would encourage homosexual and unmarried couples to live together. In a letter Allen argued that the plan would change "long-standing policy in Virginia as it relates to the definition of !family?" According to a spokesman for the governor, "Allen doesn’t agree with these relationships and is not going to be advocating these relationships in his .administration .... This could establish a precedent that could lead to a redefinition of what family is." The spokesman added that homosexuality "is basically viewed by the governor as an unnatural relationship." Zimbabwe Homophobia, AIDSphobia HARARE, Zimbabwe- Several political leaders in the southern African nation of Zimbabwe have recently shocked gay and AIDS activists worldwide with statements calling for the arrests of homosexuals in the country, as well as forced abortions for women with AIDS who become pregnant and the execution of infected mothers. Chief Nathanid Mutoko said during a debate in the Zimbabwean parliament, "ff a pregnant woman is found to have AIDS, she should be killed so that the AIDS ends there with-her." Mutoko added, "You should not only terminate the pregnancy, because the woman would still continue to spread the AIDS." In January, Home Affairs Minister Dumiso Dabengwa told state police he was "anxious" to have local gay men arrested"because it 0aomo= sexuality] is illegal in this country.". Local gays have reported that police indeed have begun raiding private residences of members of the Gay and Lesbian Association of Zimbabwe (GALZ). So far, GA~LZ mem- bers-say, authorities have not arrested anyone but have seized GALZ materials. All this current anti-gay campaign follows in the wake of a statement last year by President Robert Mugabe that homosexuality was "a curse" on indigenous African culture that was_"for whites only." Sydney Gay Pride Goes on TV SYDNEY - Sydney’ s Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras parade, one of the largest gay pride events in the world, made history this year when the Australian Broadcasting Commission (ABC) aired an hour of coverage of the event on Australihn TV during prime time Sunday evening, March 7, in spite of objections by Anglican bishops and members of parliament. Police put the crowd estimates at 300,000 people, but organizers say the figure was closer to half a million. The ABC broadcast attracted more than 600,000 viewers - the largest Sunday night audience ever for ABC. The network also issued a 3-hour videotape of the parade. Partners Ordinance Under Attack AUSTIN, Texas - Anti-gay opponents of the Austin, Texas, domestic partners ordinance turned in nearly 17,000 signatures to the city clerk’ s office in the latest anti-gay ballot campaign in the U.S. At least 15,269 valid.signatures are needed to put the repeal measure before the voters this May. The ballot initiative would amend the city’ s charter to define a. spouse as a legally married husband or wife and would restrict city benefits to workers’ spouses, parents, children, siblings, grandparents and the parents and grandparents of an employee’s spouse. The city’s partners benefits package, which applies only to city workers, was approved by the city council in September and is the only such benefits packages in Texas. Georgia Legislature’s Weird Gay Agenda ATLANTA- The Georgia Legislature is considering a number of measures of interest this session. In the state Senate, one resolution urges GPTV, a PBS television affiliate, never to broadcast "Tales of the City" again; while one bill (SB 350) would decriminalize consensual iUUlilil i In l I Nil ill i lllllil II II II ¯ - -Kelly Kirby Certified Public Accountant Please Note New Address & Phone: POB 14011, Tulsa 74159-1011, 747-$466 Faster refunds available through electronic filing. Tulsa Family News, April - May 1.994, page 4 ¯ ¯ [] ¯ ¯m ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Puppy Pause : II .! ¯ All Breeds Dog Grooming ¯ ¯ ¯ llth & Mingo, 838-7626 " ¯ Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. ¯ ¯ Call for Appointments ¯ ¯ Walk-ins Also Welcome. ¯ ¯ immmmlinm m iimmim¯mmm imimimmmmmmm¯ ¯ ¯ sodomy in Geor~a. In the state House, one bill would prohibit local government agencies from recognizing domestic partnerships; but a second measure (HB 1331), which reclassifies rape into varying types of offenses, also would decriminalize consensual sodomy: The oddest bill (HB 605), however, would create something called a"covenant marriage" that would require both p~rfies, regardless of their ages, to have written permission from both parents unless they are dead; documentation that both have received pre-marital counseling; and a notarized statement from both stating that they understand that a "covenant marriage" cannot be dissolved under any circumstances. The proposed law would allow for legal separation - not divorce only for spousal abuse, child abuse or homosexual conduct by the other spouse. Another Roseanne Kiss LOS ANGELES - When Roseanne Arnold was given the People’ s Choice’ award for best female performer on television Tuesday, Mar. 8, by Carol Bumett, Americans watching the CBS-TV broadcas.t got a replay of Roseanne’s recent "lesbian kiss" when Arnold embraced Bumett and gave her a lengthy kiss. A spokesman for Arnold said the People’s Choice kiss was Bumett’ s idea because the 2 women ’~ust wanted to make fun of all the silliness about the "Roseanne’ controversy." Earlier in March, Mariel Hemingway’ s lesbian character on the show took Roseanne to a lesbian bar where Hemingway kissed her, creating something of a media frenzy when ABCTV initially said it would not broadcast the episode. More ’Roseanne’ Kiss HOLLYWOOD - Just in case you aren’t tired of hearing the phrase "lesbian kiss" in connection with ABC-TV’ s "Roseanne" show, we hasten to note that the episode featuring the Roseanne Arnold-Mariel Hemingway smooch was the week’ s top-rated program. The show’ s 21% share o~" the nation’ s viewing audience represents some 19,782,000 households. Colombia High Court Says Gays Can Serve in Military BOGOTA - The United States couldn’t quite bring itself to end the 50-year ban on gays and lesbians in the armed forces, but with one sweeping ruling, the Colombia Supreme Court has toppled its own military’s prohibitions - and thrown in police forces as well. The Colombia Supreme Court ruled that all the nation’s military and police forces must accept gays and dump its rules barring homosexuals. The high court cited constitutional guarantees of "indmacy and personal-develop- �News Briefs-News ment" in ordering the military to re-admit Eduardo Cuevas, .who had been expelled from a cavairy school in 1993. The army had claimed Cuevas was.seen "with another male. student, hugging, kissing andcommittii~g acts that a~e immoral .and., abnormal het~een;t~0~men, I ;NeWs Briefs.News Br=efs News Br,efsNews BriefsNews erans Council refused to spon- tion 175,.. which never criminalized lesbian rel~tionships, waS widely used by the Nazis to force thtlisandS Of homosexuals into concentration camps andhas become the symbol of legal bias among. German gay and i~sbian rights groups. Tl~e change.also m~ 16. ~e sexual sex, the same as for he ¯ ero~exual sex! Ttf~ fo.rmer F~_.t German Republic ha.d:’iilready abolished Section 175f611owing .World War II, and-with !the reunification of-.Germafiy in 1990, the:newly reunited ~oun- " ’ try announced ~e.anti-gay pro- hibition would be removed. European Parliament Gets Behind Gay Rights BRUSSELS:-In its most New Regulat!ons at FBI .sweeping statement t6 date .on WASHINGTON - The Federal gay rights, the European ParliaBureau of Investigation has is: menthas voted .159 to 96 for sued new guidelines ending its equalized age of consent laws longstanding prohibition~n’ gays throughout the European Comand lesbians in the n~tiori, s top munity governing gay and nonlaw enforcement agency. At a gay-sexual behavior. The meapress conference, F~I’ Director sure also instructs the European Lores. Ereeh said that homoCommission to develop, guidesexual conduct isnot per se mislines for member nations to disconduct," but added that "’the mantle laWs discriminating FBI will draw adverse concluagainst homosexuals or used to sions if there is an attempt to persecute gays and lesbians. The conceal activities that might resolution, which does not have" make the employee or applicant the force of law, also says that vulnerable to coercion~ espiogay and lesbian couples should nage or theft. The new-gin"debe permitted the sai~ legal.marlln~s ~ame abomf0116wing a ¯ fiage fighB:andadvantages as " protracted lawsni~ byforme~.FBI ¯ opposite-sex couples.~Cl’.atidia agent Frank Bu’ttino of San DiRatA, the Germaii~liamefi~.th.ry: ~0 which was only settledlast ’ ~epre~entafive Wfi0 infroduc~d : year with thelaw enforcement the resolution;initiall~ipr.opoS~ ~gency agreeingto ~em0~e its : measiires that would haw -- r~strictions On. gays. and lesbi- :--m~tted the :European C0mmisans. sion to fight anti-gay bias in EC military forces and ~hurches, as Gay Games Versus well as extending asylum status World CuoSoeear to refugeesfleeing persecution NEW YORK: :- Organizers of in theirhomeland~ because of the World Cup soccer tournatheir sexual orientation. Roth’s - ment, slated to take placeinNew originalproposal would ha~e York the same time as the, Gay 2 amended.the Maastricht Treaty Games, are complaining tlmt the to prohibit discrimination on the lesbian and gay athletic-cultural basis of Sexual 6dentation. The event is creati~ig transportation reso!ution-was especially criti~ and hotd booking problems,f0r eal :of iGreat ~B~t,~in: which has them. Charlie Stillitano, World the highestage.of sexual consent Cup director, said "They [the laws in Europe, contimies to have Gay Games] impact on.us very a higher age of consent for ’sex directly. Everything fr0mlimamong men than for heterosexuousines to buses are being taken als, and still has some of the up and so are hotel rooms.Jt’s most repressive antiSgay laws in been jus(incredible." Stillitano theEC. Paul Elling, the Interalso said he had_been stunned to national. Gay and Lesbian be askeffata meeting last year Association’s representativeto-with city officials "-if we conld the European Uni0n~ said move the .dates of our games parliament’ s actions were"badly because they,,co.~nflicted with the needed to spur .[European CamGay Games: O~ganizers of the two events, .however, have re~ mained on.good terms~ in trying " to deal-with ~the.eomplexides ~of " . putting o’n their large’events simultaneously: BOth events .take place this. June. ¯ ~f .a~, ~.e.~~¢tfi~it~,i~,int~~ fere~i-W~th mjliiary dilfids~ the court said,e~en then the rail tary Would have to makea.very good arg~ument for diSCharging anyone for homosexual behavior. ¯ Colombia is the-lst Latin American nation, and onlythe 2nd nation in th~ Americas Canada was the 1 st - tolift its ban on homosexuals in the armed forces. munity] member states" .: to :. :lgsues." Conservative groups in ] sor this year’s event after the the state hadinsisted fl]at ihforeliminate.anti-gay laws and:~idd state supreme court said a gay marion ~n abortion bedeieted, Civil rights pr0ie~tiong forga~ and lesbian group Arid a right to ¯ thatI abstin(nce be emphasized and lesbians in their respeCtiVe inarch. But there was a parade in the~ex,education secfioni and sort of -Sunday, Mar. 20, anythat warliings ahem th~ state’s BBC Radio toBegin : way: ¯A quickly orgamzed mo¯sodomy lhff~ be inclUded. The We~kly Gay Program torcade assembled in South textbooks are aimed at high LONDON:~-BBC Radio will be Boston.with more than.200 ve~. -. school students, . ,.:-, .. ~.~ .... ;~-,-~ launc!~g i.tSJst,weeklylgay and hictes~’" packedo with-~-I¥is St. Patr,cks ay: ~ lesbia~ ii~ws ~d c~em affairs ~i~fi~ans~ b~i~fl~, dr69~hlO~g I ;NEW YORK- St. Patn~k.s~ y. i~dt< Wi~~ membekS ~0f parades iffNe~: Y~0rk and:B0s’Ameriean:-Gay, LesbiAn=, Bi--~ ton remained embroiled in conSexual-Group of Boston. trovetsy, this year as IrishLeaders Denounce Hate American community, leaders WASHINGTON - In response continued trying to keep gays ,t~ the verbal attacks. against and lesbians fr~in marchin~ in .whites, womefi, Jew¯s,’ Arabs, those.2 cities.. In New York’s ~gays,. and African Americans" massive parade, the Ancient Vatican Again Attacks by some KhaiidMuhammad and Order of Hibemians again reSaran.Sex Marriage.. .fused to permit the Irish Lesbian other leaders of the Nation of Islam, the AmericanJewish "ROME - The Vatican newspa& Gay Organization to march in Committee has. put ads in a per L’Osservatore Romano has the c~ty-s’parad , as several ntafiber 6f national publications, published another attack on:the hundred gay fights activists proincinding the’New Republic, Eur0peanParliamentr s calls for te~ted wiih a rally. Asprotesters Cosigned by a number of leaders legalizing game~sex marriages, blocked-an intersection near the ¯of the Catholic Church, political claiming i( conld lead to incest. ¯ parade route~ police arrested at leaders and gay and o~er civil The lengthy., opinion: pieceby least 3Oaf the demonstrators, rights or~aii~za_tio~is.-- We, the Bishop AlesSandro. Maggiolini including gay city_councilman undersigned, believethat the best ~asks~ "What if-incest began to Tom Duane. It is the 3rd year response we can ~ve to those spread as an instinct, world that running .that the gay-and lesbian who teach hate is to join our .be marriage too?r’ Maggiolini -Irish group has been excluded voices, as we have so often joined reiterates the Catholic Church’s from the parade in New York. In . forces, in a better me.ssage - of moral objecti0ng to .homosexuBoston, the .Allied War Veterans faith in each other, of shared ality as an "objective moral dis-COuncil of So.uth Boston candevotion to America’s highest order" and cha~ges that gay fights celed the annual event it has ideals of freedom and equality," activists’ campaign to legalize spomored there since 1947 after the ads state. The ad is Signed by samersex marriage is ."aggresthe Massachusetts Supreme Ju~ 2 Catholic cardinals, 5:archsive; hedonistic;.and indi~Cidual -~ didal COurt ruled that theJrishbishops,.and3 bishops. Addi tion ¯ ~!stte.: In.whatsomenghts.actt ’Am~ric~ Gay; ~sbian &~:Bi~ signa~ories:inchide~ New York -~sts-cons~dered an- ~rome-’ truth Sexual .G~tup’tf~ BOSton had a :that the-Catholi,,c: lea-ders~p.:it: .. le~al:ri:ght to march in the pa-.. ~ Gay. Marie Cuomo;~ Chicago ¯ MayorRichardDaiey, New Yo~k shouldwr0te-~ :|ake ~0 h~art~Y: ~ self M~ggiofi~ :/~eh :the - mde~ U.S, SupremeCo~Jus.. rice ., Mfi~or. Rudolph Giuliani~ U. S. DaVid: ~:tUt~r ~r~fu~d~it~bl:tek- i Rep.~,ThomaS Manton of New .~ die~’0~hip of~those:who)think the state high court riding after Yo}k, and Thomas Melady, u.S. they po~se~S the. truth-and- the parade 0rg~mizers argfaed that ambassador to the Vatican. Gay good.takes over; you can be slire being compelled to allow the rights signers included David of the imminent decline of that gay and lesbian group to march Geffen, Tim McFeely of the cnlture." violated the veterans group S Human Rights Campaign Fund:, -. TextbookPubiisher own right of free as~eml~ly. and Peri Jude .Radecic of the S0uter did not comment on his .. Withdraws Book.from National Gay. & Lesbian Task refusal to intervene in the Case. ’ ¯ ~ Force. Texas Elsewhere around the country, Gay Book Awards AUSTIN, Texas - PubliSher gay and lesbian Irish,American Hold, Rinehart & Winston.has BUFFALO; N~Y. - The Amerigroups joined in St. Patrick’s. told the Texas Board of.Educacan Library AssoCiation’s Gay Day paradesin Seattle mid San tion that it will not market a and¯Lesbian Book .Awards FranCisco without protest Or Ophealth textbook iii the state be- _ position. While in Irdand~ gays .Committee has announced this cause ’of changes the state had years’s winners. The 1994.book and lesbians again marChdd in insisted, o~ being made Conaward for literature went to Leslie .Dublin’s giant parade for the2nd cerning sex education~" bir, th Feinberg for Stone Butch Blues time and a gay.group in Cork for control teen suicide and gay and : the 1st time joined in the cel(Firebrand Books), a poignant " lesbian help phone, numbers. ebrations .there. Gay and lesbian exploration of transgendered William T~g~0n; president of identity in the years surrounding marchers in neither parade in ¯ the publishing firm, said in a Stonewall. Chosen as the 1994 Ireland were opptsed. letter, "~We simply cannot pro~ nonfiction award winner was BOSTON - The city’s official duce a product that does.~not Family Values: Two Morns and St. Patrick’S Day Parade. was provide children with ade~luate Their Son by Phyllis Burke formally canceled when the ¯ in§truetion on .life:threatening See News Briefs, page 6 South Boston Allied War Vet~_nchtr~d I~y Nigel.wr~nd~;-frill be broadcast Saharday eveniligs and Will aim at substantivenews affecting the gay and lesbian commlmity in areas such as civil rights, same-sex marriages, ho~nophobla and simiiak topi~s. [ . . :.. ¯ ;:Webuy,pre:owned"CDs Germany’s:Anti-Gay ~: "Law Deleted. BONN, German~¯i-~The Germ.an: parliament (Bulidestag) delet,ed Section:175,fron onstitgtion;. i.ending the country: s. l24~ye~r:oid legal . 10AM.i0PM MONDAY THRU SATURDA¥o N00N.SPM SUNDAY I " "- 749"1563 - .- .... ’ - . . :. - Esr SOUSD Tulsa Family News; ~ril ~ M~ 1994, page 5 I .... �News Briefs News Briefs News (Random House), a chronicle of the author’s transformation from the closet to up-front activism though the catalyst of lesbian parenthood. The awards will be formally presented during the ALA’s annual convention irt Miami on June 27. WASHINGTON,-The Internati~:Lesbian, and~ Gay ~outh Orgaliizhtion (IGLYO) has!announced its 1 lth. annual youth and student conference slated for July 31-Aug. 7, 1994, in Dublin, Ireland. Registration for the conference is $95 (U.S.) for tGLYO members and $110 for non-members. For information in North & South America: IGLYO:America, P.O. Box 42463, Washington, DC 200150463, (202) 362-9624 (voice & fax), or via Internet e-mail at EP4417A@American.EDU In Europe contact: IGLYO General Secretariat, Postbus 542, NL-!00 AM Amsterdam, The Netherlands. Tom ~nks Wows HOLLYWOOD - Steven Spielberg’s dinosaurs from "Jurassic Park" and the director’ s stunning Holocaust film "’Schindler’s List" may have dominated the ammal Academy Awards Monday night, Mar. 21. but it was Tom Hanks, winner of the best actor accolade for his bx)ru’ayal of agay man with AIDS m the box office hit "Philadel- phia," who walked a~vay the hearts of thousands of gays and lesbians around the country for his moving acceptance speech. "I know that my work in this case is magnifiedby the fact that ~the streets of heaven are too crowded with angels... We "know ~their, names.~ Thgy number a thousand for each one of the red ribbQns that we wear here tonig~L.They finally rest in the warm embrace of the creator of us all." Acknowledging "two gay men" from his high school days in Oakland, Calif., when he was just beginning to learn the art of acting, Hanks said during his acceptance speech, "I would not be standing here if it weren’t for two very important men in my life, Mr. Rawley Famsworth, who was my high school drama teacher who taught me that "Act well. There all the glory lies’ and one of my classmates, Mr. John Gilgerson." His voice cracking, Hanks went on: "I mention their names because they are two of the finest gay Americans, two wonderful men, that I had the good fortune to be associated with, to fall under their inspiration at such a young age. I wish my babies could have the same sort of teachers, the same sort of friends." Farnsworth, now retired, taught Hanks for three years at Skyline High School in the early 1970s. Farnsworth wasn’t out to his students back then, but it was apparent to Hanks and other students that their teacher was gay. H~V-PosNve V~Ntors Can Attend Gay Games WASHINGTON - The Clinton administration will pe .rmi.t.for~ eigners infected with HIV to attend Gay G~e~ IV ~Newyork this Jun~ Af(er being advised by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that there was no public health reason to prohibit the brief stay, Attorney General Janet Reno on Mar. 22 approved a waiver to a nile prohibiting people with HIV from entering the United States. Visas granted under the waiver will allow visitors to stay in the country for up to 10 days. Between 10,000 and 15,000 participants and spectators from more than 40 countries are expected to attend the event. Or~on Communiti~ OK Anti-Gay M~sures PORTLAND, Ore. - Continuing its city-by-city, county-bycounty sweep of passing antigay ballot measures, the Oregon ~itizens Alliance won voter approval in 3 more cities and 1 county on Tuesday, Mar. 22. Marion County voters approved its measure by a 61%-39% margin; Albm~y voted 59%-41% in favor; Junction City approved an initiative by 57%-43%; and Turner voters gave its local measure a whopping ?9%-21% vote. Gay W~na US Asylum SAN FRANCISCO- The U.S. Immigration and Naturalization Service has granted asylum to a gay Mexican man in what may be the first agency decision recognizing gays and lesbians as a social group vulnerable to persecution in other nadons. San Francisco attorney Ron Silberstein announced Mar. 24 that a special asylum unit of the INS in San Francisco had determined on Mar. 18 that his irumigrant client had established well-founded fear of persecution" if he were to be returned to his homeland. The man, who identified himself by the pseudonym Jose Garcia, said he entered the U.S. illegally more than 10 years ago to escape a lifetime of abuse and ostracism in Mexico. Garcia sought asylum in October on the grounds that he had been beaten, harassed and at one time raped by Mexican police because of his sexual orientation. He also presented evi- dence that he might be targeted by Mexican authorities because he has spentmost of his time in the U.S~ asa gay advocate and AIDS outreach worker. Silberstein credited the Clinton administration for the groundbrealdng decision,~ ~LBKNY; N~;~L, T~a~ New rights activists in putting pressure on Republicans in the New York Senate to support a statewide gay rights measure. A bill last year passed the state Assembly, but died when Senate majority leader Ralph Marino, a Republican, refused to bring the measure to the floor for a vote. The Times reported that a number of GOP senators last year had privately expressed concerns over a backlash over the measure and wanted to avoid a floor vote altogether. Optien fer Gay Fi~m LOS ANGELES - David Caruso, the sexy red-head actor starting in the controversial TV series NYPD Blues has signed a film opuon on James Delessandro’s murder mystery "Bohenfian Heart,"based on the fictional killing of the first openly gay mayor of San Francisco. ff the motion picture deal goes through, Caruso would play a private detective. B ess The Lord At Times Where God Uplifts All People Sunday service, 10:45 am Wednesday service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sundays, 6:00 pm 1623 N, Ma~lewood Tulsa, OK 74115 All 4 communities had voted for the statewide anti-gay ballot initiative Measure 9 ~at failed to pass in 1992. The state legislature enacted an emergency law last year that prohibits such measures from being enforced, although that law is being challengedincourt: LonMabon~head of the OCt, Sai&he:was #eased with the vote: "This is:exactly what I was hoping for. 2627-B East 11th Street Phone: (918) 838-1715 3% Down Co w tio a Loa s Free Seminars Tulsa Garden Center Owen’s Park 2435 S. Peoria 560 N. 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Subscriptions are free to people infected with MS Police Keep HIV+ LiSt BILOXI, Miss.- According to the G.ulfport (Miss2) Sun-Herald, T0mmy Moffet,.police chief in Biloxbacknowledged that city. police kept a list; of re~,idents infected With HIV, in.~hat he said was an effort .to protect paramedics, police andother= emergency personnel who "frequently come into contact"With ri.efs,Health Briefs. Health Briefs¯Health Briefs Health Briefs th~ virus)’ Local activists are demanding that the list,be de-. stroyed. . . " " " Men¯ o! Color¯AIDS Edue SAN FRANCISCO - A new Smdyby the Centers for Disease Cod~rol and ¯Prevention says AIDS n~06rams targ~tiii~ ~ay ~ii bi~- nl~ ~;cbi~r ~ar~ ba~l~imd~ffufid~d :~}ie s~d:y ren0rts ihili ffhile ~a¢ and bis~ Affi~-~e~m~s:His ~ pauic-Latin0s, Asian Pacffi~ ISlanders and Native Americans collectively account for a third of all the infected men studied, 0nly i3 %of.available funding is allocated to AIDS prevention programs aimed at these,groups. ’qqais document is a long overdue assessment of the impact of HIV-disease on giay men of color," said Steve Lew, Asian co-chair 6f ithe Campaigi~ for Fairness. "Federal and local goffemments"havE ignored or underfunded appmpiiate HIV prevention pro~ams targeting gay mbn of Ctl0r," The ~mdv recommei~ds, substantial ~- .creasesin.funding~f0rpr0gr~s-: Under the_Orphan Drug Act; the maker of an approved¯ orphan .targefing,ordeSigned,.developed drug enj:oysexclusiv~ approv.al ’and implemented by gay and.Nsexual menof color. " foi ~t~,at drug for 7 yearsafter the ~,u~es~DP~OVal for marketing " AZTAlternative. ,, LISBON --Great.Britain s ,o.~ ,~ _.._ ; , .. . . -,N,~,~,1~,7,1~t!O~O~22 .Wellcome C0.:may face a dir.e,ct ~ w&ol-ltm~i = challenge in Europe over-me patents ~0:th~:~ID§~ dm~’)~ - York Time~ r~fforts that federal healthtfficials arth~ceni~Nf0r byaP0i!uguesefmnlFar~A~s Disease Control-& Prevention ~oductos Farmaceutacos, when it be~~fi~ke~g a ~di~: ar~ 6flee ~a~ _tacldii~g tli~if0tn~.dab,le task-or trTmg .to Oest~ . made version0f the ~dr~.g under mine now many American . the name Apo-Zidovndine ata infected with HIV, andthat the cost estimated to be at least 15% CDC’ s often criticized current lower than Wellcome.charges in ~ estimate of 1 million will drop. Europe. The CDC plans to makea new Firm Seeks ’Orphan estimate in July and~]n prepara.Drug’ Status tion, the agency invited indeNEW ORLEANS ~- The New pendent experts to review data. Orleans~based-biotech co~apany, M0st otheiiestimates rangedfrom Imreg tnc:, has applied to the 600,000 to 800,000. The new Food 8~ Drug Adrn]fiistration for estimate could have critical Orphan Drug stares~ for its exhealth, political, and economic pedimental, d-rug IMREG-1 and ramifications. Identifying ~the synthetic counterparts. IMREGnational trend in HIV infection 1 is being-tested with HIVdnand pinpointing geographic arfected patients¯who caunot tol, eas where the virus is concencrate other antiviral medicationS, trated is crucial to preparing The st dard is option BROOKSIDE JEWELRY - 17 issue of the prestigious New Af~Can Americans diagnosed ShopWhereYouAreAppreciatedL ~¯. |, L sbian &.Oay Co ,nities it Priae . . 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I education and pre~;ention " Fine Jewelry 4649 South Peoria, 743,5272 - ca~.~sPsnaO¢~S.~eWwtn~fit~.~datt~Ow~ be based onth~ best available scie~-~c da’ta, an es0m~te 1;wer BOSTON ~ According to a majot study published in (he March Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30~ 5i00 Monday-Friday ..... .~’c6rd LX Sedan budgyts, ,develop!rig pub.l, ic healtla policy,, evaluating tlae su.c~e.s.s of.prevention pr,ogram,s, anq identit-ymg r.r,es, ear~c~n~ne~s ~ ¯1 ,,, 1 "Look Look for our Rainbow Flag ~. .... - -: ,;..-. " .--. ’ - . with HIV infection are far]ess likely than whites to be pre- scribed medicines to fight the infection. The s~mdy, conducted under theausplces of ~eU.S.. .found..thatjust58 percent of HIVpositive African American patients were prescribed drugs approved to fend off the onset of p.neumocyStis carinii pneumo.- ma,. a common AIDS-related ailment, while 82 percent grinretted white patients.are preScribed the pn~tunonia-fighting drugs. Similarly, less than half 48 percent- of HIV-positive -African Americans are prescribed Azr, an anti-viral medicine, while 68 percent of whites are given the drug, according¯to the researchers. Cure Difficult to Imagine an,Accordi~ the ~t aut~’in’~bile’fo~-x’oui , the driver’s and;fr0nt passenger’s" " (918) 62~.-3636 ¯ ¯ .. - ag KUWAIT -The World Health Organj’zation’s chief AIDS re. . search expert-said that while scientists would doubtless eventually be able to develop a treatment to keep HIV infection at bay, it is not likely that they will find an " ouuight ~ure. "I think cure is a big word," Joep Lange,.chief of~ clinical research and product development at WHO s Global ¯ Program on AIDS, said. "I think - W~ are much further away than - we..ttlink we are in ~ffective " treatment ofthe.disease.’; He said that e~en, if a yac. ~e was available today; itwt~lld take another decadeor two to. break the back of the ep~dennc be~ cause. Of the 10gisfieal difficulties of Vaccinating groups most at �Health~ ¯Briefs¯ H¯ealth Briefs Health Briefs .-Health some,~,000~es0f.r~inf~c- " ~uve~les may. be infected, and risk in the developing world. Lange said he is optimis.tic a vaccinewould eventually be developed, but that this event would inevitably slow down the search for a cur~. "Even if we had an effective vaccine today, it stillmeans there are millions and millio,m,,bf infe.c,te,d. ~ople to be treated,.-he said. "I ~"sure:that if wdhadtaneffe~tive vacdri~; ¯ thedfi;ce to find’an~ffeetiveCur~ would suffer.b~usew.by _Would you be looldng for an effective cure when eventually ther~ is not going to. be a disease anymore?" N¥C HIWAIDS Pharmacy NEW.YORK- APP (Americ~an Preferred Prescription) has opened New York City’s first pharmacy devoted to people withHIV/AIDS. The A~PP Pharmacy opened in the city’ s_ Chelsea district Wednesday ,Mar. 23, and is believed to be only the 2rid " such facility in the country. A similar HIV/AIDS plaarma~y operates in San Francisco, . SyringesResold inlndia PUNE¢India --The Indian Express repor.ts fliat hundreds :.of ihoiisands of used and possibly co~ita~il~ted IV syringes-are being soldheredufing,the religiousHoli celebration. The fesrival includes spraying pe6ple wi.th-.tinted water, which celebrants_do by using the syringes. According to tlie papet,-th~re are tion in ~e westeru Indian city.. The newspaper reported that the used syringes,were probably. obtained illegally from hospitals discarding reusable syringes in favor of disposablehyp0dermtcs. Indian Express reported that many "of the needles still ~ontained tra~es-of blOOd even though.several shop :owners selling the,s.yringes sa~d they had been ~qeaned before beingr~sold. Australian with AIDS Symptoms,¯ But No HIV LONDON - According to. areport in the BritiSh Medical Jour~ hal, rese-archers in Australia "found7 people who appeared .clinically to have ¯AIDS there, but were-~ot infected with HIV, the virus generally believed to caus.e the disease. "Only one patient gave ahistory of exposure.to a factor associated with an increased risk of HIV infection: he had received-multiple blood transfusions during 1982~. 83,Tthe University of New South Wales.reported. HIV Testing fo r " - Juvenile Detainees HousToN -The H0uhton Clitonicle reportsthat the Harris County (Houston), Texas, jure" nileboardhas agreed t0 lethealth workers t~est conSentingjuv efliIes waiting to appear in court cases for HIV. County health officials ¯ bdieve a larg~- number of the .Kris. Kohl’s Coming Events ~e juv¢~l~ bo~d ml~g ~lows ~eteens~obetestedwi~outthe consent "of their parents. University Asks Students for HIV Status HOBART, Australia- Tlie University of Tasmania s school of medicine and plmrmacy has-to!d medical Students to supply the university.administration with medical records indicating their HIV statusl The herod of the Tas: manian AIDS Council; however; said the request violates the Australian state’s confidentiality l~ws and has referred the matter .to the human rights commission. A.school official said the university is investigating whether the letters to medical school students violated the law but,!nsisted they hail been written, in go0d faith~ with the " Miss FemaleImpersonator NEOK Pageant ~Apfil 16~atRe~egades, ~e "Red ~bbon.- Gift s Night .The ’Wliss Female Impersonator Out" will be happening as aTulsa Northeast: Oklahoma Pageant’: Pride. Benefit at 1 l:00p.m. On April 24th, the Miss Silver Star ¯ (MFINQP) isbeing formed by Jordan Henry of Broken Arrow. ’ 94pageant will-take place at, Of Mr. Henry intends to mix a pagcourse, the Silver Star Saloon. eant’~a benefit; and Selec.tE~een Lined up are Ivana B.Real, Anne Who wi~-repre~’~nt antl:pttifiote ¯ Marie, and Miss Cote. ApplicafUfih~iq~n~fit~-tg,hel’p:~e~m: tiOnsand other information will munity ~S a Wh0[e. ¯ be available at the clu,b,. -;>: .". This year, the MFINOP On Ma~ist, TNT s Tulsa benefit SHANTI, which is an Pride Benefit GaY.Picnic show¯ agency that provides informawith an all star cast will be the tion, referral, and suppdrt serevent. Held to provide funding vices for persons involved with " for the event of the year, the Gay _AIDS. The pageant is limited to Pride Picnic, the show¯ starts at only the 918 ar~a-code, anffwill 9:00 p.m., and donations at the take place on May 22nd. door wduld be appreciated. -- On May 13th,"tbe Silver Star special Notice: Saloon Will host-a Tulsa Pride The National Institut~ofhealth Benefit for the picnic, with a stellar cast. The curtain is set for is seeking pairs of Gay brothers, intention of protecting members of the pub!!c and ~e Students concerned. " : ¯ : ’ ~0"00 n m anddonations will l~’acd~te~i, at.the door:- . ’ .theirLesbianparents,SisterS~toandparticipateif possible,in ~ Th(-Picnie has grown a lot" :. basic research which includes a sinceits inception, and the costs blood sample and a short inter~ have grown, too. Supporting view. The-NIH islocated in ,, Quote- Unquote, Bethesda, Maryland: Transpor: Leviticus.20 is- eleaLthat a. these eventsi§~ruci~l.s0~aatthls tationcosts andasmall perdiem man Wholi~s wi~atioth~rman - year’.s picnic will !~e the best payment.will b~ provided. Strict is an abomination and should beever!Gr,e~t things are coming to Tulsain 9~;:’s0-.-~yatch the T.ulsa cohfldentialit~ is agsured. Gay killed.Ofco~se,itals0~aystliat brothers may write to Dr. Dean .fami.]FNeWs;.~d listen fortip: a man who handlegla pigskin is ~:~. Hamer, NIH Bldg 37,Room .. omj.’~eyefi~;,~: ¯ ,~ ~ ".. an abomination. W,hatwill that Bethesda, MD, 20892, do to American footbati: 1:402:2709. Les-- Mel White,. once speechwriter for Jerry Falwell ahd Pat RoiSertson, nowDean Of the MCC~d~edral:in Dallas Jeffery A. 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Here’s What Brbken Arrow Community Playhouse 258-0077- " we have oil tap forne~,t season: : :-: TBSp. September ~rmed): Blithe (;lark 596-7111 ~- /Spirit b’yNod Cow.ard,October Thriller: Dracula -based on the HellefTheatre Brain Stoker Novel, December 746-5065 TBA. Family: Miracle on 34th street Plfilh~mn6nic _ (with seasonal music), February 596-711i 4/16-17 Comedy: Jakes’ Women - Nell. Sapldpa Commmfit~¢ .Theatre Simon’s latest script, March 22%2169 "FBA Family: Charlottes" Web Spotlight Theatre Childrens Classic, March 587-5030 Ongoing THE DRUNKARD Drama: Twelve AngD’ Men Theatre North Courtroom type drama., May 596-7111 . THE MEEFING 4/19-20 Classical: Cyrano de Bergerac Tl~catrc Pops Period Romance Comedy, TBA Summer Musical: Forever Haid Theatre Tulsa. - Musical Comedy/Drama. All 8 ~ ~AN-NE OF THE " productions are included in one :i~--THOUSAND DAYS 4/8-17 596-77111 package price with a lower price PRELUDETOA KISS 5~20-29 than the 1993 - 1994 seas.on, Butwith the news that the 596-7111 4~22 ,TCcltic Music Shries Philharmonic is filing for Tulsa 13allot Theatre Chapter 11 .Bankruptcy :reorga596-7111 " TBA. nization, I have been answering --.~ Tnlsa Junior College ’: - a lot a questions about how such CURSEYOU JACK DALTON Apr::~8~l7 596;7t11 a thing canhappen to an es.tab~ Tulsa Opera " ’ . lished Arts organization. So, asa MARR1AGEOF FIGARO:: 4/30-5/1 Non-Prbfit Arts manager I want to take minute to touch on that issue, because it is joined at the hip, so. to speak, with Subscriptions. - E- S T Y L E When.fewer and fewer people How.eanan established buyseasontickets,theArtsgroup Group_suddenly find itselfArts on has to remove "Art" dollars and the verge of extinction ? First.because i(hasprobablynot been transfers.that. ~t,o ,trying. to find other "dollars" to ma~htain the abl~ to recognize and adapt to the group. the new economic environment we all face. Second, because it is Sh~ak,e,speareas always has said it best, for want of the nail the taken for ~tedby the commu: :gho~ was lost, fob-wantof the nity, mea~iiiag the public Third, andmost dangerous, becamethe - SfiO~ the horse was lo~t, for want of .the horse, the Kingdom was 16St% Each of you as a season " $70.00 dollars is Subscriber fs the nail in the shoe of the horse called "arts". what you ai~d a:fri~nd Theatre Tulsa has this year might spend on one done something unhehrd of, we .... have lowered the overall ticket really good dinner cost. As a Season buyer you can and drinks, have 8 admissions to be used Why not. nourish however you wish next season for ST0.00. YoU could use 1 adthe "Arts" with that missionforeachofthe8producsame $70.00 .9 tions, ot two admissions for your 4 favorites or bring 7 friends for a Dracnla Halloween party. $70.00 dollars is what you and community has begun to believe a friend might spend on one rethat wealthy patrons and bustally good dinner and drinks. Why nesses will take care of the needs not nourish the "’Arts" with that of the organization, same $70.00 ? You are the ulti.When you decide you.won’t mate decision maker, about buy a season subscription you whether Tulsa can have a thriv~ have wounded on the overall ing Arts Community. Here at the health of the Arts group. T.hat Theater, we refer to Theatre wound becomes even more fatal Tulsa as Tulsd’s Theater. Help because Chances are when you us continue with the 73rd Seaaren’t a season ticket holder, you son, call 587-8402 and hammer won’.tbe comingas an individual your nail home for the A~ts in.... ticket buyer either dueto schedTulsa.. uling and other constraints. TOHR & BLGA of TU Present the¯ Friday; April 15, 7:30 pm Two Spirit People NativeAmeficanLesbian&Gay Traditions, 1991, USA FlrstAnnua,1 , Tulsa Lesbian A music video by the late Marion Riggs,199t, USA & Gay Film ....Barbara Hammer #1 Video:.sh0rts by Lesbian filmaker. 198%89, .US.A+...... Festival 9:00, Intermission Anthem With assistance from the Canterbury Ministry & Tulsa Family News 9:15, Fun Down There A naive, young man faoves to NYC to learn about Gay life. 1989;.USA. Saturday afternoon, April i6, 2:00pm Beauties Without a Cause Drag queens out of control 1986, USA. Comedy in.Six Unnatural Acts Vinrge Lesbian comedies, 1975, USA: . Dead Boys Club A young man’s coming out story, 1992, USA. ~: 15, Intermission ,_~o: ~ ~:3 30, Absolutelv.Posttt e . ~ Peter, ad~..’~r~’int~y~,ews wi~l~ven i HIV+ persons, 1990, USA. Saturday~ April 16, 7!30pm 1Got That-Way From Kissing Girls Just kissing with a couple of guys too, 1990, USA. Stop The Church Documentary on ACT-UP (AIDS Coaliton to Unleash Power). demonstration; !991,USA. 8:15, Intermission 8:30, Urinal ~ . Not qu~t~ What you might think, partly i newsstory,partly suffeal comic in-vention, a look at police harassment, 1989, canada. ." - Sunday aftemoon, April 17 2:00, Tongues Untied Marion Riggs acclaimed exploration of being African-American & Gay, 1989, USA. 3:15, Intermission 3:30, Choosing Children Lesbians having children, 1984, USA. Sunday, April 17 7:30, Among Good Christian.People The :story of an African-American Lesbian who grew upas Jehovah’s Witness, 1991, USA. 8:15, Salut Victor Two older men, one Gay, coping with living in a nursing home, 1989, Canada. Tulsa Family News’, April - May 1994, page 10 " . vHugePatio vVolley Ball ¯ Horseshoes rye 01’ Sunday .. .. Afternoon Beer Bust, 2-4 pm$2 v Happy Hour, Daily 4-6 pm OPEN ¯ Pool Tournament Tuesdays, 8 pm v.Dart Tournament Saturday, 3 pm & Mondays After Dart League Male Dancers Open: Mon-Sat, 10am - 2am, Sun, Noon - 2am NEVER ECT!! 1229 S. MEMORIALDR~ �T H~ E E ¯ :S T Y L E by todd 1calm so yOU WANT A Herland Spring Womens’ Retreat! ¯ R0manNose ¯State Park is the si~eof the armua~ Hind~Sp;ring Retreat for Women, held May 2 lst~-23r& FeatUredentertainers ate" Miss Brown To You with Mar)’ Reynolds, Louise Golberg, Terri Hoersch;. and Elvse An~elo.. Other l~hligh~s h~dudeth~ ]at~-night. campfire s~ng-a[ongs, ~he fabulot~s .~ot-luck"supper~ ia :Women~ s Market, open mike with jokes;.poetr.~~, and music, and all’ the. other things that a hundred br so women could dream ~up~ For more information regarding tickets and lod~ng!camping, write Herland Sister Resources at 2312 N.W. 39th Street, Oklahoma City, OK, 731.1~2, or:phone 405-521-9696. . . ~- " " Gay.P~de: Picnic Benefit. - SCOTT JOHNSON Tues.-Thurs. 4:2,.Fr~:"i &!Sat. 7-2, Sun. 4-2 .1565 South Sheridan, 834:4234 Hosted The Greeu Country Clogger~ Tulsa Family News, April- May 1994, page 11 �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa~s LeJbian~i Gay & Bisexual Communities7 Our-Famitie:.S. of the Heart- .Tulsa Gay Chu.rc~hes C.elebratel " ~........ ....... " =Family of-Faith-- MCC~Founder IS Moving! FamflyofFaithMetropolitan Greater Tulsa- Community Church .has moved fromitslocationinJenksto5451- MO r t g E South:Mingo. Family of Faith PastorsPam~rockerandMarim: B u, r n i n F’mk sLat’ted the chu:.chfour.years The ago in Broken Arrow. " - founder 6f the Universal The programming of,the lowship of MetropolitanCom:: church lias ~xpanded toinclude¯ - munity Chuiches joined the Project-ReachOut- HIV TeSt- . Reverend Alice.Jones andher ing and Cou.nsell.ingCe.nter~.a_ congregationinaworship service ¯ choir, a co-depe:!dency Support ~ .andinadinner/dancet0~ei-el~ate group, and Bible Study-. ....the burning of the.mortgage~ on. " ¯ The Church will celebrate_ser- the buildii~b ofthe Metr~t~ll-tan v!ces inthe new facility begin- . : Communi~ Church of Creater mng in April. For information,: . Tulsa, Call MCC-1441: .. . MCC-Greater.Tulsa wasthe ~_ .NEWS April - May 1994, Volume 1, IsSue 5 :Say No To Hate .....M a ~y . o r Ci~Counci!.~,e.ars. ~ C o n db m-n.s. Praise&.Cr,t,c,sm ~ ~ .ByKliarmaAmos. A n t i - G-~ y council.from the Westside Min- . . isterial Fellowship, 13 people , ad~r~ssedt~e~t~o=caa~ont Uncertain .on- ~o reoont oo~t,o~or. ~r-An¯ b.-=G~,- a. yBz¯as ¯ rounding the inclusion of’.’sexual orientation"in a Say No To-Hate brochure inserted in :the city water bills...... , At the city Council meeting on --March 31, Rev. Rod Harris, . Tulsa Mayor Susan Savage showed up as .schedu!e.d on Tuesday, March 29atthe Metropolitan Community Church of G-teater Tulsa for a community -..President of the F.ellowship and meeting with the Lesbian/Gay7 ~astorofTrinity.BaptistO~urch, Bisexti~l communities. " ! representedthe.concerns of 22 .~ The mayor’began by apolochurches from .the west side of gi._zi_’~g: for, cancelling her Feb. Tulsa; appearance .:due to fi family Rev. Harris, Dale. Leander, emergency. Taking questions from the ~udience’~f about-50, ,~s~rvice an i . .: JtsephSteffan(s~aseappears to :, .’, -:~’.. %fientation’ to "~ ¯ : :.~ gres~ional brief in a case:before thd.Supreme: :. ~’mPrecedented:¯ ¯ "’: " -~ : :: :’: .~, : " " ..... " Sgt ............. What’s Wrong With Our "World"? By Kharma Amos Recently I spent some time in Springfield, Missouri and had the opportunity to read their local newspaper, "The News Leader". I have to say, reading their paper for two days made me wonder what is wrong with the Tulsa.World?_ In both weekend issues ~f the Sprmgf~eldpap~r the~:~as s:ig~ nifieanti¢overage ofGay xssues,. There was an article taken from "The Advocate" in Saturday’s paper, and on Sunday there was a headline about the anti-gay positions Missouri’s governor supports. Additionally, The News Leader runs Deb Price’ s syndicated column about Gay Issues weeny. I don’ t know if you’ ve been watching the news, but Springfield is not rumored as being among the world’s most progressive and accepting cities. Springfield just repealed their hate crimes statute by a 71% to 29% vote because voters objected to protecting citizens on the basis of sexual orientation. Does this sound like a town that should have better media coverage than Tulsa? When anti-gay proposals are made in.the Missouri House or Senate, the News Leader gives it a headline. When anti-gay proposals are made in the Oklahoma House or Senate, the Tulsa World buries the illformation in an article with a different headline. Does this sound like equal coverage? I think not. Springfield is not the only U.S. city whose media coverage should make the T0ulsa World .hang its-head in shanie. As a matter of fact, cities all over the U.S. have newspapers who do not exhibit the blatant homophobia apparent in the Tulsa World. I recenffycorresponded with an editor from the Tulsa World and suggested that the Tulsa World get up off of its complacency and give the people of Tulsa the unbiased journalism they deserve. Needless to say, my request wash’ t greeted with open arms. In fact, the Tulsa World has no intention of changing the way it covers gay issues. I wonder what would happen if all 40,000+ Gays, Lesbians, Bisexuals, their families, and their friends cancelled their subscriptions to the Tulsa World until the coverage of Gay issues improved. I think we might be surprised. Corrections & Comments Any organization or business will make mistakes. The more complex the job, the greater the likelihood of error. The process of investigating, researching, organizing & editing news coverage as well as selling advertising to support this paper and physically producing is challenging. What is surprising is that this paper is not filled with mistakes from cover to cover. One mistake for which we apologize is the following: the name of our Local Hero of last month is Jane Rother, not Jane Roth. To Jane, a modest but true hero, we apologize. To our readers we apologize See Corrections, page 7 INTERNATIONAL TOURS Airline/Hotel Reservations Ticket Pick-Up ¯ Cruise/Tour Packages Group & Incentive Programs "NO" Service Charge RSVP’s 10th Aniversary Cruise .on board Carnival’s mega-fun Ship Jubilee March 19-26, 1995, Mexican Riviera, d. LA Space going fast, Call for details. 181 341-6866 Oklahoma’s Only LG.T-4. Affiliate (International Gay Travel Association) Tulsa Family News, April - May 1994, page 2 Letters Dear Tulsa Family News, We are children of God We are your mothers and fathers We are your sons and daughters We are human beings We are from all walks of life We are doctors.and lawyers . : We areiS01iC~:~and~i~,’ : :.: We are ~eachers anrfann~rs :. .We are i~Ii~sters~:and. RhblJ~s We are Student~d " churchgoers We are bosses and laborers We are home-makers, and taxpayers ¯ We are young and old We are black, white and brown We are good and bad We are poor and rich We are loving and caring people We are the pa~t and the future We are a part of this world, too. Many men and women have fought and died to keep the United States of America a land of the free. If this is the land of the free, let there be FREEDOM FOR ALL, not just for some. Lesbians and Gays are part of this country and all others, and a part of what makes this world go ’round. We do not ask for special rights, only equal rights - the rights every American are entiffed to. Jimmy Flowers A Gay American. Dear Tulsa Family News, After I received the news that the Westside Ministerial Fellowship was coming before the city council to propose ameasure that would prohibit the city from promoting the "homosexual lifestyle", like they supposedly did in the water bill insert, I became deeply concerned. I called the city council office and spoke with the secretary who informed me that my city councilor, James Hogue, had put the item on the agenda. My immediate conclusion was that he would be the one with the mos.t concrete facts, & therefore was the person to whom I should direct my questions. I expected to be treated with respect, and to have at least some of my questi0ns answeied: : This was not the case. My first question was, "Why did you put this on the. agenda?" To my ¯ - sui-prise his answer was, "Because they. asked me to". He had no facts andgavemenopertinent information. Within the course of three minutes the conversation mined fr~rm a reasonable inquiry about a specific issue mto a debate on human and civil rights, t asked ¯ him, "If you hired someone not knowinghe was homosexual and he came out to you at a later date what would you doT’. His reply was, "If I had a woman secretary and she came on to me, I would fire her too." To my knowledge coming OUT and coming ON are two completely different See Letters, page 7 TULSA FAMILY NEWS Publisher/Editor Assistant Editor Staff Writer Tom Neal James Christjohn Kharme Amos 91.8-832-0233, POB 4140, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. 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Skelly 745-1111 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352:9504, 800-742-9468 Bill Hinlde, Attorney 587-1500 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747-5466 John Kirk,: Realtor 747-5800, 745-2245 Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics Religious Organizations *Bless The LordAt All Times Christian Ctr.2627B E. 11 *Family of Faith MCC, 500 W. ’A’-Jenks Affirmation (Methodist) *MCC of Greater Tulsa, 1623 Maplewood Dignity/Integrity *Canterbury Ministry Center, University of Tulsa 832-0233 628-0594 298-4622 742-8213 " 838-1715 298-4648 583 -9780 " . " Tulsa Oklahomans for HumanRights’ POBox~527~29 Tulsa OK 74"11~2 " " r ~ ¯ . :" Ap?ii/May,1994 Volume14:N~mberS, .,. iMembership Application- The views expressed elsewhere-in Tulsa Family News are not necessarily the views of TOHR. I Name " " . . . Permission is granted to reprint inf~h’nationcontained within the. TOHR Reporter pagealong with other 1 ~ ° items, under the byline, "submlttedby TOHR’, contained elsewhere in Tulsa Family News. Community of H.o-pe Re,aches Out For May ~Meeting ~ ~.~ Leslie Penmse describesitheCommunity of Hope as a missionary style fellowship delivering the Word through the deeds"0f its members. This month Rev. Penrose will be the guest speaker at the TOHR monthly meeting to be held Tuesday, May 3 at 7 pro. As usual, social hour begins at 6:30 pm at the HIVRC, 4154 S. Harvard,.Suite H-1. A chartered community of the United- Methodist Chh~ch, Rev. Pem’ose says the fellowship is open andaffirming to all its members. Some ofthe christqike projects offered by the CommunityofHope include providing transiti~hai;living quarter~ for victims of domestic violence and their children; Rainbow Village, a hospice for people living with AIDS; a RAIN care team; [he At/gel Proj~i;, deii~,ering packages of~food and ~necessities’ for PLWAs; the homeless. Fashioned after a Central American community: basedstructure, the Community of Hope is a welcome addition to the Tulsa ar~a. 15,16, &17 A COOPERATIVE PRESENTATION OF TOHR MiD THE BISEXUAL, LE~BL~ GAY :ASSN. OF ~ru Tdlsa OklahOmans..for ~Haman"° Rights.. would like ~Vol~ P " : HW-Co~lor Tulsa Okiahomans for " " " CAN STDP IF’ FREE w,D,.U,oo,o.oEou-,,,oo,-u,.,o., LpLINE ’i INYM ""-’"= I GIVESFREE. ’ KNOW OUR :,’","", ¯ - ADVERTISING ,~imeT~ti, ~ TO GAY BARS! ~y~int.n* ~ BE SAFE AN D Human Rights =*N HIV TESTING CLINIC_ wE DURBELVEB~ REDUCE OUR ANONYMOUS : and newcomers requesting information Finger Stick Method =T:,.~TU B, .Daytime Testing Money-Thursday 749-4194 . ~ Many calls received by the TOHR BE TE5TED HelpLine:~refor referr~ to-v~ito~ Eve~ Thur~ay Evenins , " ~ ~ ~yo. have anyq.st~ re#ardin# ~. in Green Count~ we will make ~e~ .~ the Gay, Lesbian,B~Communi~ brt to answer them or refer . someonewhoca~ " effort referyou to By and for ~ut not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Community someone who Call. Tulsa Family News, April-May 1994, page 3 News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News,BriefS News Briefs News Briefs News Part of ’96 Olympics to be Held in Cobb County, Ga. ATLANTa-Rights groups have asked the AtlantaCommittee for the Olympic Games to move the, site of the volleyball matches .at the 1996 Summer Olympics out of nearby Cobb County. Last y.ear the CobbCounty Commissioners approved a resolution condemning the "gay lifestyle" and cut all county arts funding because of a play which included references to homosexuality. So far Atlanta Olympic organizers have refused to do anything, saying the games are "not about politics." Activists have asked people to contact the Olympic Committee organizers to protest locatinganyoftheevents inCobb County. You can contact: Billy Paine, president, Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games, POBox 1996,AtlantaGA30301, orphone (404) 224-1996,orFAX (404) 224-1997 Gay Long Distance Carrier Controversy CHICAGO - After CommunitySpirit, the long-dis: tance phone carrieraimedat gays and lesbians, dropped its customer billing service, Trans National Communications, customers began complaining of receiving calls from TNC saylng that CommunitySpirit is not donating the portion of customers" bills that is earmarked to gay and AIDS organizations. Jeffrey Vitale, president of CommunitySpirit, said, "This accusation is a complete falsehood" and called it a "’smear campaign" on the part of TNC because of its lost contract with the carrier. Vitale noted that Community,Spirit’s 1st year of donations, which are based on customers’ long-distance charges through the carrier, couldn’t even be computed until April 1 since customers have up to 90 days to pay their phone charges. "’As soon as the books can be dosed for 1993," Vitale said, "approximately $80,000 will be distributed to approximately 600 different lesbian and gay supportive organizations." He said the payments are scheduled to go out in May. Ugly Child Custody Fight in North. Carolina LEXINGTON, N.C. - In what rights activists say is a child custody battle between a lesbian room and her own mother, two lesbians have been charged with sexually abusi.ngone of the women’s 2-year-old daughter. Shirley EdwardS, 25, and Donna MaVen, 34, were airested January I 1 on felony child sexual abuse charges inacomplaintfiled by a friend of Edwards’ own mother, Elaine van Zant. According to Madren, after Edwards told van Zant last year that she is a lesbian, van Zant began demanding that. she be given custody of the woman’s infant daughter and the two women began receiving menacing phone calls, had car windows smashed, and were beaten up in a parking lot. "This all stems from her mother notliking the relationship," Madren said. "When she [EdwardS] came out she said that Shirley had a choice of.either giving her her child or gomg to a "normal’ lifestyle." Florida Anti-Gay Measure Can’t Go on Ballot TALLAHASSEE, Fla. - A proposed state constitutional amendment that would bar gay civil rights in Florida was ruled unconstitutional Thursday, March 4, by the state Supreme Court and blocked from appear~ ing on a statewide ballot this November The justices ruled the ballot measure was flawed because it did not advise voters of its true meaning and consequences, and because it would conflict with basic civil liberties, such as the right of employees to bargain collectively without fear of discrimination. The ballot initiative was backed by the American Family Association, which led a successful campaign to strike down a gay rights ordinance m the city of Tampa in 1992. The wording of the now-dead measure banned new law.~ and repealed all existing ones granting protections on the basis of any "characteristic, trait, status or condition other than race, color, religion, sex, national origin, age, handicap, ethnic background, marital status or familial status." ’’The Florida Supreme Court’s ruling is a critical national precedent," said Suzanne Goldberg, who argued against the measure on behalf of the Lambda Legal Defense & Education Fund. "It - -Kelly Kirby Certified Public Accountant Please Note New Address & Phone: POB 14011, Tulsa 74159-1011, 747-$466 Faster refunds available through electronic filing. Tulsa Family News, April - May 1.994, page 4 makes dear that civil rights are not special rights - and it deals a powerful blow to the national radical right attack on lesbians and gay m.en and civil rights generally." VA Governor Fears Housing Loans Might Encourage Gays RICHMOND, Va. - Virginia Gov. Ge0rge Allenis opposing a plan to make it easier for lowincome Vir-ginians .to get state housing loans because he says the changes would encourage homosexual and unmarried couples to live together. In a letter Allen argued that the plan would change "long-standing policy in Virginia as it relates to the definition of !family?" According to a spokesman for the governor, "Allen doesn’t agree with these relationships and is not going to be advocating these relationships in his .administration .... This could establish a precedent that could lead to a redefinition of what family is." The spokesman added that homosexuality "is basically viewed by the governor as an unnatural relationship." Zimbabwe Homophobia, AIDSphobia HARARE, Zimbabwe- Several political leaders in the southern African nation of Zimbabwe have recently shocked gay and AIDS activists worldwide with statements calling for the arrests of homosexuals in the country, as well as forced abortions for women with AIDS who become pregnant and the execution of infected mothers. Chief Nathanid Mutoko said during a debate in the Zimbabwean parliament, "ff a pregnant womanis found to have AIDS, she should be killed so that the AIDS ends there with-her." Mutoko added, "You should not only terminate the pregnancy, because the woman would still continue to spread the AIDS." In January, Home Affairs Minister Dumiso Dabengwa told state police he was "anxious" to have local gay men arrested"because it 0aomo= sexuality] is illegal in this country.". Local gays have reported that police indeed have begun raiding private residences of members of the Gay and Lesbian Association of Zimbabwe (GALZ). So far, GA~LZ members- say, authorities have not arrested anyone but have seized GALZ materials. All this current anti-gay campaign follows in the wake of a statement last yearby PresidentRobertMugabe that homosexualitywas "acurse" on indigenous African culture that was_"for whites only." Sydney Gay Pride Goes on TV SYDNEY - Sydney’ s Gay & Lesbian Mardi Gras parade, one of the largest gay pride events in the world, made history this year when the Australian Broadcasting Commission (ABC) aired an hour of coverage of the event on AustralihnTV during prime time Sunday evening, March 7, in spite of objections by Anglican bishops and members of parliament. Police put the crowd estimates at 300,000 people, but organizers say the figure was closer to half a million. The ABC broadcast attracted more than 600,000 viewers - the largest Sunday night audience ever for ABC. The network also issued a 3-hour videotape of the parade. Partners Ordinance Under Attack AUSTIN, Texas - Anti-gay opponents of the Austin, Texas, domestic partners ordinance turned in nearly 17,000 signatures to the city clerk’ s office in the latest anti-gay ballot campaign in the U.S. At least 15,269 valid.signatures are needed to put the repeal measure before the voters this May. The ballot initiative would amend the city’ s charter to define a. spouse as a legally married husband or wife and would restrict city benefits to workers’ spouses, parents, children, siblings, grandparents and the parents and grandparents of an employee’s spouse. The city’s partners benefits package, which applies only to city workers, was approved by the city council in September and is the only such benefits packages in Texas. Georgia Legislature’s Weird Gay Agenda ATLANTA-The Georgia Legislature is considering a number of measures of interest this session. In the state Senate, one resolution urges GPTV, a PBS television affiliate, never to broadcast "Tales of the City" again; while one bill (SB 350) would decriminalize consensual iUUlilil i In l I Nil ill i lllllil II II II Puppy Pau:se II .! ¯ ¯ ¯ [] ¯ ¯ ¯ m¯ All Breeds Dog Grooming ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ llth & Mingo, 838-7626 " ¯ ¯ ¯ Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Call for Appointments ¯ ¯ Walk-ins Also Welcome. ¯ ¯ ¯ immmmlinm m iimmim¯mmm imimimmmmmmm¯ sodomy in Geor~a. In the state House, one bill would prohibit local government agencies from recognizing domestic partnerships; but a second measure (HB 1331), which reclassifies rape into varying types of offenses, also would decriminalize consensual sodomy: The oddest bill (HB 605), however, would create something called a"covenant marriage" that would require both p~rfies, regardless of their ages, to have written permission from both parents unless they are dead; documentation that both have received pre-marital counseling; and a notarized statement from both stating that they understand that a "covenant marriage" cannot be dissolved under any circumstances. The proposed law would allow for legal separation - not divorce - only for spousal abuse, child abuse or homosexual conduct by the other spouse. Another Roseanne Kiss LOS ANGELES - When Roseanne Arnold was given the People’ s Choice’ award for best female performer on television Tuesday, Mar. 8, by Carol Bumett, Americans watching the CBS-TVbroadcas.t got a replay of Roseanne’s recent "lesbian kiss" when Arnold embraced Bumett and gave her a lengthy kiss. A spokesman for Arnold said the People’s Choice kiss was Bumett’ s idea because the 2 women ’~ust wanted to make fun of all the silliness about the "Roseanne’ controversy." Earlier in March, Mariel Hemingway’ s lesbian character on the show took Roseanne to a lesbian bar where Hemingway kissed her, creating something of a media frenzy when ABCTV initially said it would not broadcast the episode. More ’Roseanne’ Kiss HOLLYWOOD - Just in case you aren’t tired of hearing the phrase "lesbian kiss" in connection withABC-TV’ s "Roseanne" show, we hasten to note that the episode featuring the Roseanne Arnold-Mariel Hemingway smoochwas the week’ s top-rated program. The show’ s 21% share o~" the nation’ s viewing audience represents some 19,782,000 households. Colombia High Court Says Gays Can Serve in Military BOGOTA - The United States couldn’t quite bring itself to end the 50-year ban on gays and lesbians in the armed forces, but with one sweeping ruling, the Colombia Supreme Court has toppled its own military’s prohibitions - and thrown in police forces as well. The Colombia Supreme Court ruled that all the nation’s military and police forces must accept gays and dump its rules barring homosexuals. The high court cited constitutional guarantees of "indmacy and personal-developNews Briefs-News ment" in ordering the military to re-admit Eduardo Cuevas, .who had been expelled from a cavairy school in 1993. The army had claimed Cuevas was.seen "with another male. student, hugging, kissing andcommittii~ g acts that a~e immoral .and., abnormal het~een;t~0~men, I ~f .a~, ~.e.~~¢tfi~it~,i~,int~~ fere~i-W~th mjliiary dilfids~ the court said,e~en then the rail - tary Would have to makea.very good arg~ument for diSCharging anyone for homosexual behavior. ¯Colombia is the-lst Latin American nation, and onlythe 2nd nation in th~ Americas - Canada was the 1 st - tolift its banonhomosexuals in thearmed forces. New Regulat!ons at FBI WASHINGTON - The Federal Bureau of Investigation has is: lsounegdstnaenwdingguipdreolhinibeistieonn~dnin’ ggaiytss and lesbians in the n~tiori, s top law enforcement agency. At a press conference, F~I’ Director Lores. Ereeh said that homosexual conduct isnot per se misconduct," but added that "’the FBI will draw adverse conclusions if there is an attempt to conceal activities that might make the employee or applicant vulnerable to coercion~ espio- nage or theft. The new-gin"delln~ s ~ame abomf0116wing a " protractedlawsni~byforme~.FBI agent Frank Bu’ttino of San Di- ~0 which was only settledlast year with thelaw enforcement ~gency agreeingto ~em0~e its -- r~strictions On. gays. and lesbians. Gay Games Versus World CuoSoeear NEW YORK: :- Organizers of the World Cup soccer tourna- - ment, slated to take placeinNew York the same time as the, Gay Games, are complaining tlmt the lesbian and gay athletic-cultural event is creati~ig transportation and hotd booking problems,f0r them. Charlie Stillitano, World Cup director, said "They [the Gay Games] impact on.us very directly. Everything fr0mlimousines to buses are being taken up and so are hotel rooms.Jt’s been jus(incredible." Stillitano also said he had_been stunned to be askeffata meeting last year -with city officials "-if we conld move the .dates of our games because they,,co.~nflicted with the Gay Games: O~ganizers of the two events, .however, have re~ ;NeWs Briefs.News Br=efs News Br,efsNews BriefsNews munity] member states" .: to :. eliminate.anti-gay laws and:~idd Civil rights pr0ie~tiong forga~ and lesbians in their respeCtiVe BBC Radio toBegin : We~kly Gay Program LONDON:~-BBC Radio will be launc!~gi.tSJst,weeklylgay and lesbia~ ii~ws ~d c~em affairs ~_nchtr~d I~y Nigel.wr~nd~;-frill be broadcast Saharday eveniligs and Will aim at substantivenews affecting the gay and lesbian commlmity in areas such as civil rights, same-sex marriages, ho~nophobla and simiiak topi~s. Vatican Again Attacks Saran.Sex Marriage.. "ROME - The Vatican newspaper L’Osservatore Romano has published another attack on:the Eur0peanParliamentr s calls for legalizing game~sex marriages, claiming i( conld lead to incest. The lengthy., opinion: pieceby Bishop AlesSandro. Maggiolini ~asks~ "What if-incest began to spread as an instinct, world that .be marriage too?r’ Maggiolini reiterates the Catholic Church’s moral objecti0ng to .homosexuality as an "objective moral disorder" and cha~ges thatgay fights activists’ campaign to legalize samersex marriage is ."aggressive; hedonistic;.and indi~Cidual-~ ¯ ~!stte.: In.whatsomenghts.actt - -~sts-cons~dered an- ~rome-’ truth :that the-Catholi,,c: lea-ders~p.:it: .. ~sMel~fggsihoofui~ldwr:0|atek-e~~:/0~eh~har:t~thYe: .~ die~’0~hip of~those:who)think they po~se~S the. truth-and- the good.takes over; you can be slire of the imminent decline of that cnlture." -. TextbookPubiisher .. Withdraws Book.from ¯ ~ Texas AUSTIN, Texas - PubliSher Hold, Rinehart & Winston.has told the Texas Board of.Education that it will not market a health textbook iii the state be- _ cause ’of changes the state had insisted, o~ being made Concerning sex education~" bir,th control teen suicide andgay and " lesbian help phone, numbers. WilliamT~g~0n;president of ¯ the publishing firm, said in a letter, "~We simply cannot pro~ duce a product that does.~not provide children with ade~luate ¯ in§truetion on .life:threatening tion 175,.. which never criminalized lesbian rel~tionships, waS widely used by the Nazis to force thtlisandS Of homosexuals into concentration camps andhas become the symbol of legal bias among.German gay and i~sbian rights groups. Tl~e change.alsom~16. ~e sexual sex, the same as for he - ¯ ero~exual sex! Ttf~ fo.rmer F~_.t German Republic ha.d:’iilready abolished Section 175f611owing .World War II, and-with !the reunification of-.Germafiy in 1990, the:newly reunited ~oun- " ’ try announced ~e.anti-gay pro- - hibition would be removed. European Parliament Gets Behind Gay Rights BRUSSELS:-In its most .sweeping statement t6 date .on gay rights, the European Parliamenthas voted .159 to 96 for equalized age of consent laws throughout the European Community governing gay and nongay- sexual behavior. The measure also instructs the European Commission to develop, guidelines for member nations to dismantle laWs discriminating against homosexuals or used to persecute gays and lesbians. The resolution, which does not have" the force of law, also says that gay and lesbian couples should bepermitted thesai~ legal.mar- ¯ fiage fighB:andadvantages as ¯ opposite-sex couples.~Cl’.atidia RatA, the Germaii~liamefi~.th.ry: ’ ~epre~entafive Wfi0 infroduc~d : the resolution;initiall~ipr.opoS~ : measiires that would haw :--m~tted the :European C0mmission to fight anti-gay bias in EC military forces and ~hurches, as well as extending asylum status to refugeesfleeing persecution in theirhomeland~ because of their sexual orientation. Roth’s originalproposal would ha~e 2amended.the Maastricht Treaty to prohibit discrimination on the basis of Sexual 6dentation. The reso!ution-was especially criti~ eal :of iGreat ~B~t,~in: which has the highestage.of sexual consent laws inEurope, contimies tohave a higher age of consent for ’sex among men than for heterosexuals, and still has some of the most repressive antiSgay laws in theEC. Paul Elling, the International. Gay and Lesbian Association’s representativetothe European Uni0n~ said parliament’ s actions were"badly needed to spur .[European Cam- :lgsues." Conservative groups in ] the state hadinsisted fl]at ihfor- I marion ~n abortion bedeieted, ¯ thatI abstin(nce be emphasized in the~ex,education secfioni and that warliings ahem th~ state’s ¯sodomy lhff~ be inclUded. The textbooks are aimed at high school students, - ~. . ,.:-, .. ~.~ .... ;- ~-,-~ -. St. Patr,cks ay: ~ ;NEWYORK-St. Patn~k.s~ y. parades iffNe~: Y~0rk and:B0s’- ton remained embroiled in controvetsy, this year as Irish- American community, leaders continued trying to keep gays and lesbians fr~in marchin~ in those.2 cities.. In New York’s massive parade, the Ancient Order of Hibemians again re- .fused to permit the Irish Lesbian & Gay Organization to march in the c~ty-s’parad , as several hundred gay fights activists prote~ ted wiih a rally. Asprotesters blocked-an intersection near the ¯ parade route~ police arrested at least 3Oaf the demonstrators, including gay city_councilman Tom Duane. It is the 3rd year running .that the gay-and lesbian -Irish group has been excluded from the parade inNew York. In Boston, the.Allied War Veterans -COuncil of So.uth Boston canceled the annual event it has spomored there since 1947 after the Massachusetts Supreme Ju~ didal COurt ruled that theJrish- ’Am~ric~ Gay; ~sbian &~:Bi~ Sexual .G~tup’tf~ BOSton had a le~al:ri:ght to march in the pa-.. - mde~ U.S, SupremeCo~Jus..rice DaVid: ~:tUt~r ~r~fu~d~it~bl:tek- i the state high court riding after parade 0rg~mizers argfaed that being compelled to allow the gay and lesbian group to march violated the veterans group S own right of free as~eml~ly. S0uter did not comment on his refusal to intervene in the Case. ’ Elsewhere around the country, gay and lesbian Irish,American groups joined in St. Patrick’s. Day paradesin Seattle mid San FranCisco without protest Or Opposition. While in Irdand~ gays and lesbians again marChdd in .Dublin’s giantparade for the2nd time and a gay.group in Cork for : the 1st time joined in the celebrations .there. Gay and lesbian marchers in neither parade in Ireland were opptsed. BOSTON - The city’s official St. Patrick’S Day Parade. was formally canceled when the South Boston Allied War Veterans Council refused to sponsor this year’s event after the state supreme court said a gay and lesbian group Arid a right to inarch. But there was a parade - sort of -Sunday, Mar. 20, anyway: ¯A quickly orgamzed motorcade assembled in South Boston.with more than.200 vehictes~’" packedo with-~-I¥is ~i~fi~ans~ b~i~fl~, dr69~hlO~g i~dt<Wi~~ membekS ~0f Ameriean:-Gay, LesbiAn=, Bi--~ Sexual-Group of Boston. Leaders Denounce Hate WASHINGTON - In response ,t~ the verbal attacks. against .whites, womefi, Jew¯s,’ Arabs, ~gays,. and African Americans" by some KhaiidMuhammad and other leaders of the Nation of Islam, the AmericanJewish Committee has. put ads in a ntafiber 6fnational publications, incinding the’New Republic, Cosigned by a number of leaders ¯of the Catholic Church, political leaders and gay and o~er civil rights or~aii~za_tio~is.-- We, the undersigned, believethat the best response we can ~ve to those who teach hate is to join our voices, as wehave so oftenjoined . forces, in a better me.ssage - of faith in each other, of shared devotion to America’s highest ideals of freedom and equality," the ads state. The ad is Signed by 2 Catholic cardinals, 5:archbishops,. and3 bishops. Addition signa~ories:inchide~ New York ~ Gay. Marie Cuomo;~ Chicago ¯ MayorRichardDaiey,NewYo~k ., Mfi~or. Rudolph Giuliani~ U.S. Rep.~,ThomaS Manton of New Yo}k, andThomas Melady, u.S. ambassador to the Vatican. Gay rights signers included David Geffen, Tim McFeely of the Human Rights Campaign Fund:, and Peri Jude .Radecic of the National Gay. & Lesbian Task Force. Gay Book Awards BUFFALO; N~Y. - The American Library AssoCiation’s Gay and¯Lesbian Book .Awards .Committee has announced this years’s winners. The 1994.book awardforliterature went to Leslie Feinberg for Stone Butch Blues (Firebrand Books), a poignant exploration of transgendered identity in the years surrounding Stonewall. Chosen as the 1994 nonfiction award winner was Family Values: Two Morns and Their Son by Phyllis Burke See News Briefs, page 6 . :.. ¯ ;:Webuy,pre:owned"CDs . "Law Deleted. I BONN, German~¯i-~The Germ.an: parliament (Bulidestag) delet,ed mained on.good terms~ in trying to deal-with ~the.eomplexides ~of " " . [ . putting o’n their large’events simultaneously: BOth events .take place this. June. ¯ Germany’s:Anti-Gay ~: 10AM.i0PM MONDAY THRU SATURDA¥o N00N.SPM SUNDAY Section:175,fron " "- .... ’ - . . :. - €onstitgtion;. i.ending the country: s. l24~ye~r:oid legal 749"1563 - .- Esr SOUSD Tulsa Family News; ~ril ~M~ 1994, page 5 I .... (Random House), a chronicle of the author’s transformationfrom the closet to up-front activism though the catalyst of lesbian parenthood. The awards will be formally presented during the ALA’s annual convention irt Miami on June 27. WASHINGTON,-The Internati~: Lesbian, and~ Gay ~outh Orgaliizhtion (IGLYO) has!announced its 1 lth. annual youth and student conference slated for July 31-Aug. 7, 1994, in Dublin, Ireland. Registration for the conference is $95 (U.S.) for tGLYO members and $110 for non-members. For information in North & South America: IGLYO:America, P.O. Box 42463, Washington, DC 20015- 0463, (202) 362-9624 (voice & fax), or via Internet e-mail at EP4417A@American.EDU In Europe contact: IGLYO General Secretariat, Postbus 542, NL-!00 AM Amsterdam, The Netherlands. Tom ~nks Wows HOLLYWOOD - Steven Spielberg’s dinosaurs from "Jurassic Park" and the director’ s stunning Holocaust film "’Schindler’s List" may have dominated the ammal Academy Awards Monday night, Mar. 21. but it was Tom Hanks, winner of the best actor accolade for his bx)ru’ayal ofagay man with AIDS m the box office hit "Philadelphia," who walked a~vay the hearts of thousands of gays and lesbians around the country for his moving acceptance speech. "I know that my work in this case is magnifiedby the fact that ~the streets of heaven are too crowded with angels...We "know ~their, names.~ Thgy number a thousand for each one of the red ribbQns that we wear here tonig~ L.They finally rest in the warm embrace of the creator of us all." Acknowledging "two gay men" from his high school days in Oakland, Calif., when he was just beginning to learn the art of acting, Hanks said during his acceptance speech, "I would not be standing here if it weren’t for two very important men in my life, Mr. Rawley Famsworth, who was my high school drama teacher who taught me that "Act well. There all the glory lies’ and one of my classmates, Mr. John Gilgerson." His voice cracking, Hanks went on: "I mention their names because they are two of the finest gay Americans, two wonderful men, that I had the good fortune to be associated with, to fall under their inspiration at such a young age. I wish my babies could have the same sort of teachers, the same sort of friends." Farnsworth, now retired, taughtHanksfor three years at Skyline High School in the early 1970s. Farnsworth wasn’t out to his students back then, but it was apparent to Hanks and other students that their teacher was gay. H~V-PosNve V~Ntors Can Attend Gay Games WASHINGTON - The Clinton administration will pe.rmi.t.for~ eigners infected with HIV to attendGayG~ e~ IV~Newyork this Jun~ Af(er being advisedby the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention that there was no public health reason to prohibit the brief stay, Attorney General Janet Reno on Mar. 22 approved a waiver to a nile prohibiting people with HIV from entering the United States. Visas granted under the waiver will allow visitors to stay in the country for up to 10 days. Between 10,000 and 15,000 participants and spectators from more than 40 countries are expected to attend the event. Or~on Communiti~ OK Anti-Gay M~sures PORTLAND, Ore. - Continuing its city-by-city, county-bycounty sweep of passing antigay ballot measures, the Oregon ~itizens Alliance won voter approval in 3 more cities and 1 county on Tuesday, Mar. 22. Marion County voters approved its measure by a 61%-39% margin; Albm~y voted 59%-41% in favor; Junction City approved an initiative by 57%-43%; and Turner voters gave its local measure a whopping ?9%-21% vote. News Briefs News Briefs News All 4 communities had voted for dence that he might be targeted the statewide anti-gay ballot initiative Measure 9 ~at failed to pass in 1992. The state legislature enacted an emergency law last year that prohibits such measures from being enforced, although that law is being challengedincourt: LonMabon~head of the OCt, Sai&he:was #eased with the vote: "This is:exactly what I was hoping for. Gay W~na US Asylum SAN FRANCISCO- The U.S. Immigration and Naturalization Service has granted asylum to a gay Mexican man in what may be the first agency decision recognizing gays and lesbians as a social group vulnerable to persecution in other nadons. San Francisco attorney Ron Silberstein announced Mar. 24 that a special asylum unit of the INS in San Francisco had determined on Mar. 18 that his irumigrant client had established well-founded fear of persecution" if he were to be returned to his homeland. The man, who identified himself by the pseudonym Jose Garcia, said he entered the U.S. illegally more than 10 years ago to escape a lifetime of abuse and ostracism in Mexico. Garcia sought asylum in October on the grounds that he had been beaten, harassed and at one time raped by Mexican police because of his sexual orientation. He also presented eviby Mexican authorities because he has spentmost of his time in the U.S~ asa gay advocate and AIDS outreach worker. Silberstein credited the Clinton administration for the groundbrealdng decision,~ ~LBKNY; N~;~L, T~a~ New rights activists inputting pressure on Republicans in the New York Senate to support a statewide gay rights measure. A bill last year passed the state Assembly, but died when Senate majority leader Ralph Marino, a Republican, refused to bring the measure to the floor for a vote. The Times reported that a number of GOP senators last year had privately expressed concerns over a backlash over the measure and wanted to avoid a floor vote altogether. Optien fer Gay Fi~m LOS ANGELES - David Caruso, the sexy red-head actor starting in the controversial TV series NYPD Blues has signed a film opuon on James Delessandro’s murder mystery "Bohenfian Heart,"based on the fictional killing of the first openly gay mayor of San Francisco. ff the motion picture deal goes through, Caruso would play a private detective. Where God Uplifts All People Sunday service, 10:45 am Wednesday service, 6:30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sundays, 6:00 pm 1623 N, Ma~lewood Phone: Tulsa, OK 74115 (918) 838-1715 3% Down Co w tio a Loa s Free Seminars Tulsa Garden Center 2435 S. Peoria April 16, 1994 Owen’s Park 560 N. 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Subscriptions are free to people infected with MS Police Keep HIV+ LiSt BILOXI, Miss.- According to the G.ulfport (Miss2) Sun-Herald, T0mmy Moffet,.police chief in Biloxbacknowledged that city. police kept a list; of re~,idents infected With HIV, in.~hat he said was an effort .to protect paramedics, police andother= emergency personnel who "frequently come into contact"With of all the infected men studied, 0nly i3 %of.available funding is allocated to AIDS prevention programs aimed at these,groups. ’qqais document is a long overdue assessment of the impact of HIV-disease on giay men of color," said Steve Lew, Asian co-chair 6f ithe Campaigi~ for Fairness. "Federal and local goffemments"havE ignored or underfunded appmpiiate HIV prevention pro~ams targeting gay mbn of Ctl0r," The ~mdv recommei~ds, substantial ~- Thest dard isoption .~’c6rd LXSedan . . an,Accordi~ the ~t aut~’in’~bile’fo~-x’oui , the driver’s and;fr0nt passenger’s" ag " (918) 62~.-3636 ¯ ¯ .. - lower than Wellcome.charges in CDC’s often criticized current WASHINGTON-According to Europe. ~ estimate of 1 million will drop. a review in the current issue of Firm Seeks ’Orphan The CDC plans to makea new Governing magazine, the AIDS estimate in July and~]n prepara- epidemic has provoked more le- Drug’ Status .- tion, the agency invited inde- gal: actions than any disease in NEW ORLEANS ~- The New pendent experts to review data. U.S. legal history. AIDS and Orleans~based-biotech co~apany, M0stotheiiestimates rangedfrom Governmental Liability~ a book Imreg tnc:, has applied to the Food 8~ Drug Adrn]fiistration for 600,000 to 800,000. The new by the American Bar Assn., adestimate could have critical dresses the issues with Which Orphan Drug stares~ for its ex- health, political, and economic .state and local governments are pedimental, d-rug IMREG-1 and ramifications. Identifying ~the nowconfronted. It describes the synthetic counterparts. IMREG- national trend in HIV infection court decisions and legislative 1 is being-tested with HIVdn- and pinpointing geographic ar- fOundatiOnS that define the legal fected patients¯who caunot tol, eas where the virus is concen- atmosphere, and recommends crate other antiviral medicationS, trated is crucial to preparing guidelines for avoiding liability in the areas of HIV testing, confidentiality; discrimination, and BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Racism.in HIV Treatment BOSTON ~ According to a ma- Fine Jewelry jot study published in (he March Watch & Jewelry Repair 17 issue ofthe prestigious New . England Journal of Medicine, - 4649 South Peoria, 743,5272 Af~Can Americans diagnosed with HIV infection are far]ess Comer of 48th & Peoria likely than whites to be pre- 9:30~ 5i00 Monday-Friday..... scribed medicines to fight the infection. The s~mdy, conducted - ShopWhereYouAreAppreciatedL ~¯. under theausplces of ~eU.S.. I 1-635E’i15thSt,reet" 99 8070 | " ’." .. , Serving Tulsa’s .: . ~ -: |, L sbian &.Oay Co ,nities it Priae I "Look for our Rainbow Flag ~. ~ ¯1 | -: ,;..-. .--. ’ - ,,, 1 .found..thatjust58 percentofHIVpositive African American patients were prescribed drugs approved to fend off the onset of p.neumocyStis carinii pneumo- ....... .- ma,. a common AIDS-related 1¯635 E.-15th Street, 599-8070 ailment, while 82 percent grinretted white patients.are pre- Scribed the pn~tunonia-fighting drugs. Similarly, less than half - 48 percent- of HIV-positive -African Americans are pre- .... - Look scribed Azr, an anti-viral medi- " cine, while 68 percent of whites . are given the drug, according¯to the researchers. Cure Difficult to Imagine KUWAIT -The World Health Organj’zation’s chief AIDS re- . . search expert-said that while scientists would doubtless eventuallybeable todevelop atreatment to keep HIV infection atbay, it is not likely that they will find an " ouuight ~ure. "I think cure is a big word," Joep Lange,.chief of~ clinical research and product development at WHO s Global ¯ Program on AIDS, said. "I think - W~ are much further away than - we..ttlink we are in ~ffective " treatment ofthe.disease.’; Hesaid that e~en, if a yac.€~e was available today; itwt~lld take another decadeor two to. break the back of the ep~dennc be~ cause.Ofthe10gisfieal difficulties of Vaccinating groups most at Health~ ¯Briefs¯ H¯ealth Briefs risk in the developing world. Lange said he is optimis.tic a vaccinewould eventually be developed, but that this event would inevitably slow down the search for a cur~. "Even if we had an effective vaccine today, it stillmeans there are millions and millio,m,,bf infe.c,te,d.~ople to be treated,.-he said. "I ~"sure:that ifwdhadtaneffe~tive vacdri~; ¯ thedfi;ce to find’an~ffeetiveCur~ wouldsuffer.b~usew.by _Would you be looldng for an effective cure when eventually ther~ is not going to. be a disease anymore?" N¥C HIWAIDS Pharmacy NEW.YORK-APP (Americ~an Preferred Prescription) has opened New York City’s first pharmacydevoted topeople with- HIV/AIDS. The A~PPPharmacy opened in the city’ s_ Chelsea districtWednesday,Mar. 23,and is believed to be only the 2rid " such facility in the country. A similar HIV/AIDS plaarma~y operates in San Francisco, . SyringesResold inlndia PUNE¢India --The Indian Express repor.ts fliat hundreds :.of ihoiisands of used and possibly co~ita~il~ted IV syringes-are being soldheredufing,the religiousHoli celebration. The fesrival includes spraying pe6ple wi.th-.tinted water, which celebrants_ do by using the syringes. According to tlie papet,-th~re are some,~,000~es0f.r~Hinfe~ca- lt"h~uvBe~lresiemafys. be.-inHfecetead,ltahnd .Kris. Kohl’s " Miss Female- Coming Events Impersonator tion in ~e westeru Indian city.. ~ejuv¢~l~ bo~d ml~g ~lows ~eteens~obetestedwi~outthe ~Apfil 16~atRe~egades, NEOK Pageant consent "of their parents. ~e "Red ~bbon.- Gift s Night - - University Asks Students for HIV Status HOBART, Australia- Tlie University of Tasmania s school of medicine and plmrmacy has-to!d medical Students to supply the university.administration with medical records indicating their HIV statusl The herod of the Tas: manianAIDS Council; however; said the request violates the Australian state’s confidentiality l~ws and has referred the matter .to the human rights commission. A.school official said the university is investigating whether the letters to medical school students violated the law but,!nsisted they hail been written, in go0d faith~ with the The newspaper reported that the used syringes,were probably. obtained illegallyfrom hospitals discarding reusable syringes in favorofdisposablehyp0dermtcs. Indian Express reported that many "of the needles still ~ontained tra~es-of blOOd even though.several shop :owners selling the,s.yringessa~d they had been ~qeanedbefore beingr~sold. Australian with AIDS Symptoms,¯ But No HIV LONDON - According to. areport in the BritiSh Medical Jour~ hal, rese-archers in Australia "found7 people who appeared .clinically to have ¯AIDS there, but were-~ot infected with HIV, the virus generally believed to caus.e the disease. "Only one patient gave ahistory of exposure. to a factor associated with an increased risk of HIV infection: he had received-multiple blood transfusions during 1982~. 83,Tthe University ofNew South Wales.reported. HIV Testing fo r " - Juvenile Detainees HousToN -The H0uhton Clitonicle reportsthat the Harris County (Houston), Texas, jure- " nileboardhas agreed t0 lethealth workers t~estconSentingjuvefliIes waiting to appear in court cases for HIV. County health officials ¯bdieve a larg~- number of the Out"will behappeningas aTulsa .The ’Wliss Female Impersonator Pride. Benefit at 1 l:00p.m. On April 24th, the Miss Silver Star ’ 94pageant will-take place at, Of course, the Silver Star Saloon. Linedupare Ivana B.Real, Anne ¯ Marie, and Miss Cote. ApplicatiOnsand other information will be available at the clu,b,. -;>: .". On Ma~ist, TNT s Tulsa Pride Benefit GaY.Picnic show¯ with an all star cast will be the event. Held to provide funding "for the eventof the year, the Gay Pride Picnic, the show¯ starts at 9:00 p.m., and donations at the door wduld be appreciated. -- On May 13th,"tbe Silver Star Saloon Will host-a Tulsa Pride Benefit for the picnic, with a stellar cast. The curtain is set for Northeast: Oklahoma Pageant’: ¯ (MFINQP) isbeing formed by Jordan Henry of Broken Arrow. Mr. Henry intends to mix a pageant’~ a benefit; and Selec.tE~een Who wi~-repre~’~nt antl:pttifiote fUfih~iq~n~fit~-tg,hel’p:~e~m: munity ~S a Wh0[e. ¯ This year, the MFINOP benefit SHANTI, which is an agency that provides information, referral, and suppdrt services for persons involved with _AIDS. The pageant is limited to only the 918 ar~a-code, anffwill take place on May 22nd. special Notice: TheNational Institut~ofhealth is seeking pairs of Gay brothers, intention of protecting members ’ ~0"00 n m anddonations will of the pub!!c and~e Students l~’acd~te~i, at.the door:- . ’ .theirLesbianparents,SisterS~toandpartpicoispsatiebilfe,in concerned. : : ¯ " ~ Th(-Picnie has grown a lot" :. basic research which includes a sinceits inception, and the costs blood sample and a short inter~ ,, Quote- Unquote, have grown, too. Supporting view. The-NIH islocated in Leviticus.20 is- eleaLthat a. these eventsi§~ruci~l.s0~aatthls Bethesda, Maryland: Transpor: man Wholi~s wi~atioth~rman - year’.s picnic will !~e the best tationcosts andasmall perdiem is an abominationand should be- ever!Gr,e~t things are coming to payment.will b~ provided. Strict killed.Ofco~se,itals0~aystliat Tulsain 9~;:’s0-.-~yatch the T.ulsa cohfldentialit~ is agsured. Gay a man who handlegla pigskin is .fami.]FNeWs;.~d listen fortip: brothers may write to Dr. Dean an abomination. W,hatwill that ..€omj.’~eyefi~;,~: ¯ ,~ ~ ".. ~:~. Hamer, NIH Bldg 37,Room Bethesda, MD, 20892, 1:402:2709. Lesdo to American footbati: - -- Mel White,. once speechwriter for Jerry Falwell ahd Pat RoiSertson, nowDean Of the MCC~d~edral:in Dallas Jeffery A. Beal, MD TedCampbell, LCSW Ginny Butler, RN MS Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehesive Primary Care Medicine andPsychotherapeutic Services -.::;~w,ze hifayvOe’umba~neyloinngs:u~rtba~niclnespurroavnicdee~rp, ;a:fbfiglmiamtiotn" s.. " ’~ "-."~hatdobs~n~.t_.,ili~[.ius:. aslprov~der~i " " -" ~ -ca_ll us :ahd~ewill apply. ~ . 1560East21stStreet, Suite21.0 - Monda3 Window coverings of..~ll types; accessories, silk " flowers, rUgs;icustom dpholstery& more. - - all. yourinteHor ,needs. ~ - Wemb!ey Center ..... 7116 South~.MingO, Suite i02, 254-2100 Sandra. J. Hi!t, M.S. Psychotherapy and Clinical Consultation 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Ste.215 Tulsa, Oklahoma 74105, 745-1111 ~ulsa Family News, April - May 1994, page 9 T H E G A American Theatre Co. Lost in Yonkers 4129-517 Brbken Arrow Community Playhouse : :-: TBSp. (;lark HellefTheatre TBA. Plfilh~mn6nic _ - 4/16-17 Sapldpa Commmfit~¢ .Theatre "FBA Spotlight Theatre THE DRUNKARD Ongoing Theatre North . THE MEEFING 4/19-20 Tl~catrc Pops TBA Theatre Tulsa. - ~ ~AN-NE OF THE " :i~- --THOUSAND DAYS 4/8-17 PRELUDETOA KISS 5~20-29 ,TCcltic Music Shries 4~22 Tulsa 13allot Theatre " TBA. 746-5065 596-711i 22%2169 587-5030 596-7111 596-77111 596-7111 Y L I F E- S T Y L E T~ea~r~ [~[ot~ How.eanan established Arts When.fewer and fewer people Group_suddenly find itself on buyseasontickets,theArtsgroup . By GeraMMiller the verge of extinction ? First.- has to remove "Art" dollars and ¯ I:wanted fo talkabout season because i(hasprobablynot been transfers.that. ~t,o ,trying. to find subs.c.r.i.p.t.ion for Thea" tre Tulsa’s abl~ to recognize and adapt to other "dollars" to ma~htain the 596-7111 73rd consecutive which will be: the new economic environment the group. .gin next September. Here’s What we all face. Second, because it is Sh~ak,e,speareas always has said 258-0077- " we have oil tap forne~,t season: taken for~tedbythe commu: it best, for want of the nail the September ~rmed): Blithe nity, mea~iiiag the public Third, :gho~ was lost, fob-wantof the 596-7111 ~- /Spirit b’yNod Cow.ard,October andmost dangerous, becamethe - SfiO~ the horse was lo~t, for want Thriller: Dracula -based on the of .the horse, the Kingdom was Brain Stoker Novel, December 16St% Each of you as a season Family: Miracle on 34th street $70.00 dollars is S" ubscriber fs the nail in the shoe (with seasonal music), February what you ai~d a:fri~nd of the horse called "arts". Comedy: Jakes’ Women - Nell. might spend on one Theatre Tulsa has this year Simon’s latest script, March .... done something unhehrd of, we Family: Charlottes" Web - really good dinner have lowered the overall ticket Childrens Classic, March and drinks, cost. As a Season buyer you can Drama: Twelve AngD’ Men - have 8 admissions to be used Courtroom type drama., May Why not. nourish however you wish next season Classical: Cyrano de Bergerac - the "Arts" with that for ST0.00. YoU could use 1 ad- Period Romance Comedy, missionforeachofthe8produc- Summer Musical: Forever Haid same $70.00 .9 tions, ot two admissions for your - Musical Comedy/Drama. All 8 4 favorites or bring 7 friends for productions are included in one a Dracnla Halloween party. package price with a lower price community has begun to believe $70.00 dollars is what you and than the 1993 - 1994 seas.on, that wealthy patrons and bust- a friend might spend on one re- Butwith the news that the nesses will take care of the needs ally gooddinner and drinks. Why Philharmonic is filing for of the organization, not nourish the "’Arts" with that 596-7111 Chapter 11 .Bankruptcy :reorga- .When you decide you.won’t same $70.00 ? You are the ulti- --.~ nization, I have been answering buy a season subscription you mate decision maker, about - a lot a questions about how such have wounded on the overall whether Tulsa can have a thriv~ a thing canhappen to an es.tab~ health of the Arts group. T.hat ing Arts Community. Here at the lished Arts organization. So, asa wound becomes even more fatal Theater, we refer to Theatre Non-Prbfit Arts manager I want because Chances are when you Tulsa as Tulsd’s Theater. Help to take minute to touch on that aren’t a season ticket holder, you us continue with the 73rd Seaissue, because it is joined at the won’.tbe comingas an individual hip, so. to speak, with Subscrip- ticket buyer either dueto schedtions. - - uling and other constraints. Tnlsa Junior College ’: CURSEYOU JACK DALTON Apr::~8~l7 596;7t11 Tulsa Opera " - ’ . - MARR1AGEOF FIGARO:: 4/30-5/1 son, call 587-8402 and hammer your nail home for the A~ts in.... Tulsa.. TOHR & BLGA ofTU Present the- Friday; April 15, 7:30 pm ¯ 1 Two Spirit People FlrstAnnua, , NativeAmeficanLesbian&Gay Traditions, 1991, USA Tulsa Lesbian Anthem A music video by the late Marion & Gay Film Riggs,199t, USA Barbara Hammer #1 .... Video:.sh0rts by Lesbian filmaker. Festival With assistance from the Canterbury Ministry & Tulsa Family News Saturday afternoon, April i6, 2:00pm Beauties Without a Cause Drag queens out of control 1986, USA. Comedy in.Six Unnatural Acts Vinrge Lesbian comedies, 1975, USA: . Dead Boys Club A young man’s coming out story, 1992, USA. ~: 15, Intermission ,_~o: ~ ~:3 30, Absolutelv.Posttt e . ~ i Peter, ad~..’~r~’int~y~,ews wi~l~ven HIV+ persons, 1990, USA. 198%89, .US.A+...... " 9:00, Intermission 9:15, Fun Down There . A naive, young man faoves to NYC to learn about Gay life. 1989;.USA. Saturday~ April 16, 7!30pm 1Got That-Way From Kissing Girls Justkissing with a couple of guys too, 1990, USA. Stop The Church Documentary on ACT-UP (AIDS Coaliton to Unleash Power). demonstration; !991,USA. 8:15, Intermission 8:30, Urinal ~ . Notqu~t~Whatyoumightthink, partly i newsstory,partly suffeal comic in- -vention, a look at police harassment, 1989, canada. ." - Sunday aftemoon, April 17 2:00, Tongues Untied Marion Riggs acclaimed exploration of being African-American & Gay, 1989, USA. 3:15, Intermission 3:30, Choosing Children Lesbians having children, 1984, USA. Sunday, April 17 7:30, Among Good Christian.People The:story of an African-American Lesbian who grew upas Jehovah’s Witness, 1991, USA. 8:15, Salut Victor Two older men, one Gay, coping with living in a nursing home, 1989, Canada. vHugePatio - .. .. vVolley Ball ¯ Horseshoes rye 01’ Sunday OPEN Afternoon Beer Bust, 2-4 pm$2 v Happy Hour, Daily 4-6 pm ¯ Pool Tournament Tuesdays, 8 pm v.Dart Tournament Saturday, 3 pm & Mondays After Dart League Male Dancers Open: Mon-Sat, 10am - 2am, Sun, Noon - 2am NEVER ECT!! Tulsa Family News’, April - May 1994, page 10 1229 S. MEMORIALDR~ T H~ E so yOU WANT A E :S T Y L E ¯ by todd 1calm Gay.P~de:Picnic Benefit. Tues.-Thurs. 4:2,.Fr~:"i &!Sat. 7-2, Sun. 4-2 .1565 South Sheridan, 834:4234 Herland Spring Womens’ Retreat! ¯ R0manNose ¯State Park is the si~eof the armua~ Hind~Sp;ring Retreat for Women, held May 2 lst~-23r& FeatUredentertainers ate" Miss Brown To You with Mar)’ Reynolds, Louise Golberg, Terri Hoersch;. and Elvse An~elo.. Other l~hligh~s h~dudeth~ ]at~-night. campfire s~ng-a[ongs, ~he fabulot~s .~ot-luck"supper~ia :Women~ s Market, open mike with jokes;.poetr.~~, and music, and all’ the. other things that a hundred br so women could dream ~up~ For more information regarding tickets and lod~ng!camping, write Herland Sister Resources at 2312 N.W. 39th Street, Oklahoma City, OK, 731.1~2, or:phone 405-521-9696. . . ~- " " Hosted The Greeu Country Clogger~ - SCOTT JOHNSON Tulsa Family News, April- May 1994, page 11 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1994] Tulsa Family News, April-May 1994; Volume 1, Issue 5 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa's Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September of 2001 (Vol. 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, military, law, charity, Pride, TORH, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April-May 1994 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Kharma Amos Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neil/Tulsa Family News Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/465 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, March 15-April 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 4 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/40b4b969772c805a56ac78b3040177ef.jpg e738486ca585a71b984539cba46fbed8 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/0af39f3d7c73fc0b0ae7dad5136132a2.pdf 75ee5b6fa87d103579e4f03c84920ec5 PDF Text Text Serving Tulsa’s -Lesbian, Gay & BiSexual Communities :2.Our Families of the Heart" ~ ~--~ay is-.Jtme 14, 1994, Volume 1, Is sue a h ts. city councilor .... Fe de r a I Co mm!ss n ,on ro-Lesb=.a Ga:y Non-D scr rni.nati on.Arnendrnelnt- nt i as p o.s-a.z . By Kharma Amos - DiscriminatiOn. :¯ Bill tO. Target: . ~m" ~ ] o ~-m e n.| WASHINGTON - Representafives Barney Frank (D-4th MA) andGerry Studds (D-10th MA) . will introduce federal legislation HogueAg.a, inst Tulsa City Cotmeilor James Hogue (District 6, fareast & northeast Tulsa). attended the publiehea ngs eldbytheXulsa Human ~Rights Commission to discuss the repd~;~l’~$:com-~ me.datious marauding Committee on Sexual Ori.entation Discrimination.. Councilor Hogue stated~that2he~i~iends because ’~ae wiii~y~’li~ien to to outlaw anti-gay discriminatiOn any citizen of Tulsa who wants in ~the workplace, the Human to speak their mind." ,~.~ .Rights -Campaign FUnd~(HRCF) See Hogue~ p~ge 7 and the National Gay and Les ....... ~<~’~ bian Task Force (NGLTF) have Human Rights Commissioners Over 350 citizens pack Tulsa City-County Library’s Aaronson Auditorium ~ one of several public hearings. Photos: JD Jamett ~ announced: The legislation is Eddie Faye Gates & Dennis.Neill_ with the City. lobby. expected to be introduced i’n By Tom Neal - A third hearing is. scheduled June. Record crowds have attended , Over.350 attended, the first publiclhearingshel~dby the City. hearingheldonWednesday,Mayfor. Friday, May 13th from :6’q’heright.tobesecureinone’s 4th at AaronsonAuditorium of 10pm in the Assembly Hall of livelihoodis abedrock principle of Tulsa’ Human Rights Cornthe Tulsa Convention Center.. the City-County CentralLibrary with which every.American-can . mission on .a report reco~-, with many standing around the The Human Rights Commission mending-the ad~.0oni0fff.S.exfial identify,Y said Congressman perimeter iahd at the doors of the " is scheduled to meet on Monday._, Studds. ’%!}llions iCame tothese 0rientati0n"to th( City’s nonshoresin-sdarehof,gpp.or~t~!~- . .dls(fi~iiation Ordinance, The.-...room for several hours. Esti- " May !6th to decide whether to’: "Ibelieve the timehas come for Congress to put’into law a very simple principle: individuals have a right to be evaluated, in. the workplace based onthe quality and quantity of work they do; and not be disadvantaged because someone doesn’t like what they do in their private lives," Said Congressman-Frank. "Discriminating against honest, hardworking people because they are gay or lesbian makes no sense - morally, socially, or ecbnomically. I believe the Ameri- : can people .will support appropriately drafted legislation that embodies this principle." ’q’he time is right for federal legislation to end discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation in the workplace," said Tim McFeeley, Executive Director of HRCF.. "Several recent national polls make it clear that Americans by large margins oppose workplace discrimination against lesbians, gay men- and bisexuals." McFeeley also noted that more than 230 members of the U.S. House have issued nondiscrimination policies with regards to sexual orientation in their own employment practices. The strategy for this bill includes Congressional hearings on job See Fed. Bill, pa~,e 7 Cancel That Hawaii Honeymoon Gay Congressional Aides Organize HONOLULU-The Hawaii state House of Representatives has iipprovedby a wide 35-12 margin a bi!l, already approved by the state Senate,~t~at defines marriage as a legal contract only between:a man and a woman. The measure, which Gov. John Waihee is expected to sign, also includes a warning for the state’ s courts not to become embroiled in the controversy around samesex marriages, claiming interpreting marriage licensing is ithe exclusive domain of the state legislature. The state Supreme Court last year ruled that the state must prove in a lower court a "compelling interest" if it wants to block same-sex marriages, Virtually setting the stage for the lower court to order the state to issue licenses to gay and lesbian couples. " WASHINGTON- The _Congression~l Roll Call_ reports that a group of Capitol Hillemployees has gotten approval i’~om House Speaker Tom Foley (DWash.) to start the Lesbian &. Gay Congressional S taff Assn:,. to look at~ter the general welfare of Congressional-staffers. The group still requires approval of the House Administration Commj’ttee, which is expected soon. Approval will give theemployee group House mail privileges and useof office slLace at the Capitol complex. The~oup said it was prompted to form the association because of reports in the Tulsa Worm and other papers that 3 Representatives from Oklahoma said they would not hire any openly gay staff members. The 5 founders of the association are: David Vershure with the office of Rep. Pat Schroeder (D-Col0.), Robert Raben, an aide to Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.), MarkAgrastin the office of Rep. Gerry Studds (D-Mass.), Victor Castillo in the office of Rep. Bob Filner (D,Calif.), and Karen Anderson, in the office.of Rep. Jolene Uusoeld (D-Wash:).. Marriage .Bills In Conference HONOLULU - The Hawaii Legislature has appointed a conference committee to resolve" differeiices between bills from the-state House and Senate.that See Marriage, page 7 bets of these groups will hold a summit the weekend of July 15= Sodomy Laws Violate 17 atthe University of Oklahoma Human Rights campus in Norman, By providing a forum for HOBARTH, Australia - After members of these groups to meet repeated failed attempts to deand. s..h3re news. of each other’s ci’iminalize sodomy laws in the acttvztaes and goals, organizers Australian islandstate of Tassay they hope the meeting will mania, the United Nations Hufurther empower and motivate man Rights Committee has departicipants, building unity while dared the legislation a violation recognizing diversity. of civil and human rightsunder Precise schedules:"for the the UN Declaration of Human. Oklahoma Pride Summit are gtill Rights. Details of the UN being discussed, but those plancommittee’s decision were not ning the meeting, have arranged in’mediately available, but the inexpensive hou_sing .for regis, lengthy six-year fight by gay tere.d participants at ~the OU rights activists in the conservadormitories, and the feasibility tive,, southern island state to of affordable or free child care is topple sodomy laws there has being pursued. Participants are been given an enormous boost being encouraged to use the by the influential international dormitory housing to enhance organization’s decisiom -The the summit,s focus on building UN decision reportedly is based networks and comradery..The on the sexual equality provisions groups plan to create a gayof Article 2 inthe Declaration Of friendly, ,safe space" for conHuman Rights, which states: ference participants. "Everyone is entitled to all-the Interested Okl~Jaomans from fights and freedoms set forth in all parts of the state are invited to this Declaration, without disregister and attend; housing will tinction 6f any kind, such as race, be guaranteed only to those pre.color, sex, language, religion, registering by June 25. Orgapolitical or .other opinion, nauizers say additional information tional or social origiq,~ property, will be forthcoming, and costs birth or other stares. It is the will be very affordable, varying first such decision of its kind by See Summit, page 7 the United Nations. Tulsa Family News, May - June 1994, page 1 �L e.t te r s The time will surely come someday when we can truly call ourselves free and as equal as the rest of our society. But when.’? How much longer do we w.ait for something that by the nature of our democracy is already ours? We were born to it, believe init, have fought and died .for it, but still it is not ours. Those of us who live in the warmth and security of our fash: ion-grey closets are deceiving ourselves if we think someone else will get it for us. We aifhave to work and be part of it. How foolish we are to think that our silent vigil Within~ur collective closets will eventually bring us freedom and equality. Some of us say, "we don’~ really have it all that bad, so why rock the boat?" Have we forgotien what that closet is really? It is nothing more than the cramped and dimly:lit imprisonment of our very essence by a,society whose inju.srice is based on ignorance, iresinformation, and prejudice. How mUChlonger do we wait until we can all walk away from thatprison andbe able to embrace: the ideals of equality with the dignity of.being who we ’are? How many more Gay people,’.m the city of Tulsa will have to die or be mercilessly beaten before we finally step out and face the crowdwiihaunitedvoice saying, "all right, wehave had enough! "? How many more of-us must suffer property damage, or~ have our jobs and housing denied or taken from us. How much longer do we remain a silent minority quietly praying for the day when people will accept us in this city? we have to understand that as aunite~.Gay commlmity, we can and will bring about change. We cannot remain a scattered and out of touch group when our health and livelihoods are at stake. We must bring the forces of individuals, orgamzations, gathenngs togetherto speak as one vo,ice if weare to overcome the injustice that prevails in this city. It is our city too. We-helped build and continue to support Tulsa and we are entitled to its benefits and protection as is everyone. We c-~nnot forget we are not alone. We have each other and within that fact lies our direction, ourpower,, and our voice. We cannot wait for a personal tragedy to.strike each,of us for then it will be too late. We must orgamze in eve~ meeting place in our commumty and draw alliances with each other for the good of us all. For some it is TOHR. Others may choose MCC’s as the place to organize and for still others, it is our local barg and social clubs. But we must all work together or fall victim to internal power struggles and self-serving hypocrisy. Our direction must be clear and a noble one. We must stand together witha unity of purpose and proclaim our rights as citizens and human~ beings. How mochlonger must we wait? - John R. Silver Star Saloon As most people know, a lot of men go to the parks and have sex with other men. Many of these men are married and do not identify as being Gay or Bi~ sexual. Because they don’t idendfy as being partof Gay society, they don’t go to bars~ and therefore, don’t have access to literature on HIV/AIDS, and probably don’t realize the extremely high risk they are putting themselves in._ This is a population that needs to be reached and educated about the realities of HIV/AIDS. My JwOb includes this outreach. I am ritinginhopes that anyone who would beinterested in doing this kind of outreach will contact me. I have already cleared this with the Tulsa Police. I have t-shirts for volunteers to use While doing such outreach. I also havea letter from my. executive director and from the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health that affirm the purpose of such outreach. By doing this outreach we are not condoning sex in parks. We are simply acknowledging that it happens and these people need HIV/AIDS educadon. If you are interested in volunteering to do park outreach, please contact me, Brian, at 5827225. Editor’s note: readers may find it interesting that this viewpoint was written 12 years ago though it’s message seems still appropriate today. Wake Up & Smell The Coffee OK folks, it’s time now to get forward the proposal (it seems to moving if we, Tulsa’s Lesbian, - me that the anti-Gay folk have -only proved the need for proGay, Bisextml & friends comtection with all their lies & promunities, want to have a hope of paganda), the real batde is at the getting civil fights protections City Council. And we just don’t passed. The proposal being rehave enough friends there right viewed by the City’s Human now. Of the,me councilors, we Rights Commissionis not perfect have one likely ’yes’ vote, a bunch - because of the ordinance the of ’maybe’s’ and some pretty proposal amends does not affect likely ’no’s.’ Robert Nelson and pfivate emp!oyers, many cases Robert Gardner have stated their of job discrimination would not opposition in print. John Benbe covered. But it would cover ja~in is thought nnlikely to be those who do contractual busisupportive by those who know ness with the City and it could him. Darla Hall has indicated to cover the City’s own practices, Gay constituents that she is unand therefore, .is of symbolic likely to vote ’yes,’ as has now importance. James Hogue. You all can count We’ve gotten a good start on as well as I can. ¯ this issue. Shawn Hayes, Nate :If you care even just the tiniest Mattingly, Alice Jones and most bit, #ease get involved. Call your of the bar owners deserve praise council person. Call all the for organizing info: _rallie~s .f.or councilors. Talk to your friends these public hearings. Most t o,lKs because what each of us does I’ve spoken with, can’t rememoer really can add up. Get involved. when something like this has Go to a TOHR meeting. happened before. It’s a great start. Maybe if ’we work hard However, these hearings, no enough, weal get it through the matter, how nasty & meancouncil. If not, we must keep spirited, they’ve been are only hope alive and begin preparing skirmishes. Assuming that the for City Council elections only Human Rights Commission does TULSA FAMILY NEW S Staff Writer Assistant Editor Publisher/EditOr Kharma Amos James Christjohn Tom Neal 918-832-0233, POB 4140, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued. on or before the 15th.of each month, the entire contents of this ,publication are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondance is assumed to be for publication Unless otherwise noted and becomesthe sole propertypf TulsaFamilyNews. Al!correspondance should be sent.to the address above. Tulsa Family News is distributed free of charge in local businesses and organizatigns. . , Clubs & Restaurants 744-0896 *The Alley, 3340 S. 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E. 15 599-8070 Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15 TULSA - HIV/AIDS educator 585-1234 *Living Arts of Tulsa, 224 N. Main and bar tender Brett Carlos 587-8108 Tarvin died, on May 6 from Major Affairs, 2014 E. 6th 664-2951 AIDS,related illness. Only 24, *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 P1 Bfett enriched many lives with Novel Idea Discount Book~ 3356 E. 51 , 74%6711 -7104 S. Sheridan, 492-0335 his energy, his humor, his pas838-7626 sion. Brett worked, with Indian Puppy Pause-tI, llth & Mingo 832-0233 *Tomfoolery, 1565 S. Sheridan Health Care as an HIV/AIDS 583 - 1572 educator, atthe Silver Star Saloon Sound Warehouse, 1338 E. 15th 742-6909 and as avolunteer facilitator with Zat’s, 3708 South Peoria Organizations Youth Services support group 583 -9780 for Lesbian& Gay young adults. B/L!G Alliance, University of Tulsa, 749.4194 He is survived by many loving *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 748-3111 family members and many NAMES PROJECT, POB 3181 74101 749-4901 ffiends. Tulsa is a poorer place P-FLAG ~ POB 52800 74152 74128 without him. Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 622-1441 Project Reachout, HIV Testing, 5451-E So. Mingo 749-7898 two years away. If the ones in Shanti Hotline right now, won’t do fight by. us, TulsaOklahomans for Human Rights, (TOHR) POB 52729, 74152 then there are other candidates, TOHR Gay HelpLine (info.) 743-4297 some of whom nearly won just Other this last time, who want our votes *Chapman Student Center, University of Tulsa 631-0000 and who support our civil rights. *Tulsa City Hall,~Cafeteria Vestibule A final thought: our mayor, *University Center at Tulsa Susan Savage, has even now the Professionals ¯ authority (and direction from a Associates in Medical & Mental Health, 1560 E. 21 743-1000 resolution from the old City Jeffery A. Beal, MD, CAnny Buffer, RN, Theodore Campbell, MSW Commission) to ban discriminaPhillip Cyr, Gen, Contractor-Cosmetic Remodeling 745-9911 tion based on sexual orientation Sandra J. Hill, MS," Psychotherapy, 2865 E.. Skelly 7.45-1111 in city hiring. If our Mayor 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Tim Daniel, Attorney wanted to stop the discrimination 587-1500 Bill Hinlde, Attorney that city employees have told 747-5466 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 her and her staff about, she d 747-5800, 745=2245 John Kirk, Realtor issue that order now. No doubt, Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics 832-0233 it’s politically safer not to help ..... Religious Organizations Lesbian & Gay people out but it 628-0594 sure does make you wonder if *Bless The Lord At All Tmaes Christian Ctr 2627B E" 11 838-7232 there’s a single politician in the *Community of Hope, 1347 N. Yale 622-1441 state of Oklahoma who cares *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo 742-8213 about justice and has the courAffirmation (Methodist) 838-1715 age to do anything about it. *MCC of Greater Tnlsa, 1623 N Maplewood 298-4648 Tom Neal, pubi~sher & 9ditor Dignity/Integrity Mayor’s 596-7411 *Canterbury Ministry Center, University of Tulsa 583-9780 City Council 596-1990 Obituaries �Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights.PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 . May/June 1994 Volume 14 Number (l The views expressed elsewhere in Tulsa. Family News are not necessarily the views ofTOHR. Permission is granted to repdnt information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along with other items, under the byline, "submitted by TOHR", contained elsewhere in Tulsa Family News. From the President TOHR and it’ s members have taken a very active role in the recent events surrounding the proposed amendment to city ordinances tO include sexual orientation in all non-discrimination sections. Our community has really rallied around the issue and I think its impbitant t6 fiote many other organized efforts as well as our own. Particularly evident in awareness raising and at. the public forums have been PFLAG, MCC, the gay bar owners coalition and the League of Women Voters. It’ s inevitable to leave persons out of a list of thank yous and I won’t undertake an exhaustive list. But I personally appreciate the efforts of each person who has either spoken at the forums or simply, been present .to be portive. There are so many people in Tulsa who are supportive of us and I feel it isimportant that they. be recognized. As we fight this battle for our basic human rights, many hurtful and inflammatbry remarks have been made, both by those for and those against the proposal. Which leads me to ponder, what purpose do these comments serve? This is a very emotional issue on both sides. Much of the public commentary has not been focused on the proposals but have been attacks on the opposing sides, At one forum a streaker referred to "right wingNazi Christians.’ and another Speaker. ; the 1. When we make slanderous public comments we are hurting our credibility. A person could have these feelings about their opposition. But there are appropriate places to vent those feelings without damaging our case. 2. Speaking to the point helps educate -the people who will be making these decisions. Gay persons have many life experiences that many if not most heterosexuals aren’t aware of. Sharing these experiences in credible and understandable ways will help them to be more informed. 3. Realizing that some folks will never change their minds about who we are, how we live and what wedo should help us to utilike our energies more effectively. If a person is unreasonably set in their thinking, it probably is something that we cannot --change. -The serenity prayer comes to mind here and leads.to my next-point. 4. It takes courage to speak out publicly, particularly to come out as a gay .person. But without hearing our stories about losing a job or not getting a place to live,, the general public wants to think this discrimination doesn’ t exist. 5. It is important to use language that will be well received, including the terms radical right, gay people and basic rights or human rights.- For some of you, these may not be politically correct terms, but they to decide what action they want to take on the reports recommendations. It is very important, let me relY_,at very important that you make your feelings known to both of them. Write letters, make phone calls, set up appointments to make personal visits with l~oth the Mayor’ s office and your City Councilor. Let them know how you have been discriminated against and why these proposed changes are necessary. Your actions will make a differenc!! by Kelly Kirby I Membership Application I i Name Address Sta~ city Z~p Phone (optional) Signature O Yes l want tO be a contributing member of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Please accept, payment as described below:. O $10 Limited Income/Student Membe~fip [21 $20 Regular Membership l-I $35 Organizational./Household Membership ~ $100 Sustaining Membership 1994 TOHR Follies I am ctm~ly m:eivingTOH R mailings and the T.lsa Family News I am not on the mailing list The Annual TOHR Follies will be held in conjunction with other Gay Pride events Friday, June 17th at 9 pm at the Silver Star Saloon, 1565 S. Sheridan. "’This year’ s show will offer a fresh look at local talent including singers, dancers, musicians-and comics," said this year’ s follies director, Ric Kirby. "We are giving the annual show a boost with a new location and incredible acts. Tulsa has excellent talent and we are proud to have them performing for us in what we hope will be the best FOLLIES ever." I would like to volunteer help with: Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual HelpLine. HIV Counselor Executive Board Member Event Planning and Party Preparations Monthly Meeting Support Make check payable to Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Donations cofi~ib’uted tb TOHR over set membership fee~ are Tax Deductible. Mem bers’ Representatives are terms Which recent polling has found to have the most favorable appeal to mainstre.am Am~nca~ . . In. other words, mainstream Amenca ts Jun.e Meeting Kelly Kirby .., ...........................:..... President RiC Kirby .......................... Is! ~ic~.]~fident Kathleen Golden ............... 2nd~yice Pres!dent Rb~rt Crow. ~:,;.:~.~.,.::.J~=~.:..~.~:~::..;..~::.: sg~ta~j ..... Don.........:.......~,.,,.: ............. tion? 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News Briefs,News Briefs NeWs Briefs News tor Peri Jude Radecic. "It is imperative that President Clinton appoint a consensus-builder who is also able to carry on Justice Blackmun’s legacy of defending the right to privacy." Anti-Gay Forces in Wisconsin MILWAUKEE- A group known as Wisconsin Christians United says it will launch a broad campaigh called "Project Resist & Restore’"to fight gay rights in the state. Ralph Ovadal, head of WCU, said the campaign intends to "resist the homqsexual agenda and restore decency and sanity to our public policy here in Wisconsin and to our governing institutions." He said the group would raise funds to purchase and distribute :"The Homosexual Agenda," an anti :gay film; publish a statewide newspaper "ex-. posing homosexuality," and in: troduce legislation to remove all sexual orientation language from State laws. PBS Won’t Fund "More Tales of the City" SAN FRANCISCO ~ The Public Broadcasting System has dropped plans to contribute any financial support for the production of ’‘More Tales of the City," a s.equel to the popular mini-. series based on Armistead Maupin’s ’‘Tales of the City" books. Britain’ s Channel.. 4, whichunderwrote nearly all the productioncos.ts of the first mini: stiles, had expectedPBS,to un- " derwrite about half tile costs of the sequel becauseof the enormous popularity of’Tales" when it aired in the U.S. on most PBSTV stationsin January. Donald Wildmon of the Tupelo, Miss.based American Family Assn. and a long-time critic of American television, in March urged members of his group to protest the use of U.S. tax funds for the mini-series. A PBS spokespcrson told the San Francisco Chronicle that it had dropped plans to fund "More Tales of the City" because of ~"budgetary reasons," not because of pressure from conservative ann-gay groups. But Maupin told the Chronicle, "For them (PBS) to deny that they’re running scared at this point is preposterous, because I think that’s exactly what they’re doing." Alan Poul, who produced ’‘Tales of theCity" in Los Angeles and San Francisco, said he expects Britain’s Chaunt 4 to look for new U.S. financial partners for the sequel. backed out of co-funding the sequel, reportedly because of pressure from anti-gay far-right religious groups that found the series offensive. ’‘Tal~s" garnered enormous ratings in most major TV markets when it first aired on PBS in January. Lutherans Back Minister FRESNO, Calif., Delegates at the Evangelical Lutheran Church of America annual nafonal conference voted in favor of a resolution supporting an openly gay Lutheran minister and his church, even though the minis: ter has technically b~en defrocked by a retiring bishop. Outgoing. Bishop Lyle Miller defrocked the Rev. Ross Merkel of St. Paul’ s Lutheran Church in Oakland, Calif., for "conduct incompatible with the character of the ministerial office" after Merkel came out to his congregation last year by introducing them to the man he described as his "partner in a c0mmitted relationship." The congregation at St. Paul’s has, however, steadfasfly stood byMerkel as their pastor, and the ELCA resolution underscores the growing conflict in many denominations between more conservative, orthodox members of the clerical hierarchy and a grassroots movement toward greater liberalization in .many churches. Anti.Gay iMeasure in Oregon Tossed Out SALEM, Qre, 7iMari,on County: (0~egon) cireiii.t: -c0urt~:3~idge. .Rtdney Miller has niled that a proposed statewide anti,gayballot measure is unconstitutional: on technical grounds. Judge Miller ruled that the pro.posedinitiative, which wouldbar any government agency from granting minority status to homosexuals, restrict school .and library information abOut homosextiality, bar state funds to "promote" homosexuality, and restrict public employment of gays and lesbians, violates the state constituti0nal, requirement that ballot measures be.limited to a single subject. In barring the ballot measure, backed.by the Oregon Citizens Alliance, Judge Miller also said it was sufficiently broad that it in fact would be an attempt to revise instead of merely amend the state constitution. Charles Hinlde, an ACLU attorneywho argued against the OCA measure, said; "The purpose of the single-subject rule is to protect the integrity of the mitiafve process from measures that attempt to misleadthe voters. The OCA refuses to follow these basic rules." An attorney " for the OCA said the groupwould probably seek an emergency appeal to overtum Judge lVlhler s decision. Julie Davis,.a spokeswoman for Support. Our Communi.ties PAC, the group fighting to defeat the OCA proposed measure, Said: "While today we can celebrate a victory, we must remember, this ruling is otily, based on a technicality. TheOCA will continue its attempt to impose its discriminatory ideas on the people of Oregon. We are relieved todaygbut recognize this is but onestep in a very long fight to create a state where the fights of all citizens are held Sacred and cannot be threatened by radical groups like the OCA." Russians Try to Marry MOSCOW- Karmem Bruyeva, director of one of Moscow’s Wedding Palaces (as the Russian marriage registries are known), _politely told Robert Filippini, .an American’artist, and Yaroslav Mogutin, a Russian reporter, "I cannot register your union because the law specifies marriage as a voluntary union between a man and a woman,". as scores of reporters from the city’s international press corps stood by. "I am really sorry;" she t01d the two men. Brny~va sug~ gested that. *Filippini and. Mogptin, bdieved-~ be the first s~-coupf~inthe~fioh .~ to l~gally ~, a~k the Riis~ sihnPa~lia~ent: t0amend the law" and then askb.d the bevy of journalists who had come to cover the highly publicized event how many of them thought the laws shoul,d be changed to allow same-sex couples to marry. Filippini, a 41-year-old artist from New York, met Mogutin during a visit to Russia a little over ayear ago and the two have lived together in Moscow since January. Bothmen said they were not surprised that their attempt to register their relationship:had failed, but said it was imp(3rtant to make the attempt. "What we did was an actaimed at stressing growing- U.S.-RuSsian friendship, Mogutin told reporters following the,rejection of their ap plication. It is also a protesf against any form of sexism. The main thihgis to draw attention to the difficulties of homosexuals in Russia, protest the polities of sexism and demonstrate the solidity of Russian-American ties." Brits OK Gay Military Sex LONDON -The British House of Con~mons has voted to remove any criminal penalties involving homosexual acts in the nation~ s military forces, although British gay and lesbian .soldiers can still bedischarged from.the " services because of their sexual Orientation. The legislation, which som~-British rights activists labeled ’.’Can Do, Can-’tTell still must win the approval of the House of Lords where it is unlikely to be rejected, despite many of the Lords opposition. Roger Goode of the English gay rights group Stonewall said, the change wouldn’t change much for.gays and lesbians in the armed forces "because they could still be discharged for being gay. "However, itis progress," Goode added, ?because it should now mean an end to the cruel and humiliating investigation procedures of gathering bodily eviden-ce to prosecute men on charges of being gaY in the forces." Calif. Councilwoman Recalled Over ~emarks SAN JOSE, Calif. - Voters in San Jose, Calif., made a strong statement against divisiveness by recalling Kathy Cole, an embattled 1st term:black city councilwoman who came .under fire for videotaped remarks:last year -at an~Pffric~an-~meri(!ati !1 eader,-~ ship conference sayinggays and° As.ian~AmericanS get preferential treatment from city-hall and comparing Hispanics to-"little pit bulls." A coalition of gay, black, Hispanic, Asian-American and white San Jose residents launched the recall Campaign, r and voters decided by a 59%41% margin to remove Cole, the first member of the City Council ever to be.removed from office. CA Court Rejects Lesbian Custody Case SAN FRANCISCO - The California Supreme Court voted 6-0 not to review Mower court decision to prohibit visitation rights by alesbian Who helped raise her lover;s child..After the two women, identified only as Georgia P. and. Kerry P., broke up, Georgia sued the child’s birth mother, Kerry, in an attempt to enforce an agreement.they had signed that ~gave bOth women parental rights. A s.tate .court in January, however,. ~nA!.. :~ that the agreement had-no legal standing and that Georgia P. had no legal parental. rights ~oncerning the child, now 8 years old.:.The state high court declined to review the lower court decision. Camp Sister Spirit SAN FRANCISCO ~:°Lesbians andgay men in the San Francisco Bay Area as of:mid,April had contributed more than $10,000 to support theembattled women who have:started-a lesbian-feminist camp in rural Mississippi. Camp Sister Spirit in OveR, Mi’ss., has l~en:tmder fire from anti-gay forces in,the rural community since word Of the retreat became-.l~aown ’l’as t year. ’~I feel more e.mj~0~r~d;~"Sister Spirit co-found~ BrendaH~nstn s~id during a ~si~ here lastweek .... to~ICh-ov~led~fli~Support the women at the camphaye regeived from ?the region:~’J~st~to known that you’ve got that ~uppott - we needed that," she said. The Camp Sister Spirit Defense Fund brought Brenda and Wanda Henson, who run the rural reSee News Briefs, page 6 3404 S. 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Briefs News .Briefs.News Briefs News Briefs News Asylum for Gay Mexican SAN FRANCISCO- In its most unmistakable indicator to date that oppressed gays and lesbians may qualify for political sanctuary, the U.S. Immigration and Naturalization Service has granted asylum to a gay Mexican citizen who said his life would be endangered if he were returned to his native country. Officials at INS headquarters in WashingtOn authorized the asylum status On Mar. 18, extending political refugee status tothe man, known by the fictitious name of, Jose Garcia, who convinced immigration officials that he has ~ifff~fetF"unspeakable degradatifns" ’iii :his homeland becauseofhis sexual orientation. Garcia’s attorney, Ron Silberstein, announced the INS decision in San Francisco on Mar. 24, saying his client’s case appears to .be. the first that the government has-accepted as of- ~ ficial oppression based on homosexuality. "We.hope that the INS decision will serve as a wake-up~ for government all over theworld that persecution on account of someone’s sexual orientation is. unacceptable," Sflbersteinsaid at a press con-. ferenceannouncing the decree. Garcia, who refused to be pho~ tographed out ~of concerns forhis personal safety, said he was "deeplygrateful to the INS" for its decision, ,The Mexicaq police, on numerous occasions. arrested me solely because I was gay," Garcia saidin a written statement: "’They accused me of committing bogus crimes. They extorted money from me. On one occasion [as a teenin 1976], they raped me. As a gay man in Mexico, life was made intolerable for me." But it is unclear exactly what the recent INSdecision acmall y means in terms of gay and lesbian refugees seeking asylum in. fli~ U.s. In a news statement, INS spokesman Duke Austin said the decision was made because of the "specific and unique circumstances, of Garcia’s case. "This does not mean that homosexuals in Mexico are persecuted,, Austin atd, q~his means that this individual, due to the facts and circumstances, convinced.an asylum officer that he has.a wellfounded fear of persecution that would justify asylum. It only relates ~o him.It doesn’t-relate to a class of people." MCC Destroyed by Fire SACRAMENTO, Calif. - The Sacramento Metropolitan Community Church burned late Sunday evening~ Mar. 27, while the prdd0minately gay and lesbian religious group was in the midst of party relocating to a new facility. Fire officials are treating the blaze as "suspicious." The fire broke out on the roof of the building between 11 pm; ¯when MCC officers and volunteers quit working for the night, and midnight. In addition to most of MCC’s records, a 10,000-book library housed at the church was also totally lost in the fire. There were no injuries reported in counection with the blaze. TV Ads with Gay Couple PLYMOUTH MEETING, Penna. - Ikea, a Swedish-based, international home furnishing chain began airing 4n~w TV ads in’its ~Lifestages" advertising campaagn~ that includes a gay male couple discussing their purchase of a dining-room table, among other non:traditional family relationships portrayed in the commercials.,"We’re pro, filing the diverse lifesty!es and lifestages to reflect what s common to all of us: commitment to a relationship, the importance of family, and making a house a home,, said Peter Connolly, Ikea’s marketing director. The 3% Down Conventional Loans Free Seminars Tulsa.Garden Center 2435 S. Peoria April 16, 1994 1 Year ARM 4.375 Owen’s Park 560 N. 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Court Upholds Boy rights .group, ,OCCUR,.use the overnight facilities at a government~run lodge in 1990. The court found, i~ the first ruling of its kind in the country, that the Tokyo city.government illegally discriminated against OCCUR members because of their, sexual orientation and ordered the government to pay the gay rights group the equivalent of $2,0~0. Rush’s Military tion with Limbaugh’s role. PBS Station Offers ~ Partnership Benefits SAN FRANCISCO-KQED,the Public Broadcasting Service station in San Francisco says it will extend health insurance benefits to the partners of its employees effective May 1. To obtain the benefits, workers at the station must sign a confidential affidavit of their domestic partner relaCareer (Not!) tionship. WASHINGTON - The WashNevada Pols Oppose ington Post has revealed that Anti=Gay Initiative America’s favorite orange-juice RENt - Nevada Gov. Bob poster boy Rush I Jmbaugh, who Miller, Rent Mayor Pete regularly blasts President Clinton Sferrazza and Democratic con: for "dodging" the draft during gressional candidate Jim Spot the Vietnam War, himself all spoke at a rally in Reno to Scout Ban ducked military service during oppose a proposed initiative by LOS ANGELES - The Califorthat tumultuous period. Acthe Nevada Citizens Alliance that nia Appeals Court has ruled that cording to Post reporter David would amend the state constituRemnick, Limbaugh got a 1-Y the Boy Scouts of America are° tion to-bar minority status for exemption during Vietnam for, not a business under state law gays, lesbians and bisexuals. and as such are not required to of all things, having an ingrown "This petition isn’t just repughair on his backside - animage to allow an openly gay man to benant and negative for gays and contend with. Despite his own come a troop leader. The court lesbians," Miller is quoted as said that although anti=gay disservice-ducking, Limbaugh, a saying, "it’s a threat to everyone Southeast Missouri State dropcrimination by businesses is ilin Nevada. It goes against the legal under state law, that law out who managed to graduate basic premise of all religions and does not apply to the Scouts and instead from the Dallas-based is designed to divide us and to Elkins Institute of Radio and other charitable groups are exinstill hatred and intoleranceT’ Technology, has gotten a lot of empt for the law’s provisions. mileageout of his super-patriot NGLTF on Justice Harry The court said the Scouts are posturing by belittling Clinton guaranteed freedom of associaBlackmun’s Retirement (and anyone else to the. left of tion under the Constitution and WASHINGTON ~- As Justice Genghis Khan) for not joining cannot be compelled to accept Harry,Blackmun announced his individuals whdm they consider up to fight for Truth, Justice and retirementfromthe U.S. Supreme contrary to their principles.. the An~erican Way. Remnick Court today, the Nationa) Gay Timothy Curra~, a fdrmer: ~a.gle ¯ also notes S~me other outstand: ,. and .Lesbian: Ta~k Forc~ ing fightiSii-¢ ciiicken hawks?(as i Scout wh6 has’-sued theSc0uts .(NGLTF~ p~ifi~ed’his ~agsitiiate he describes .war wimps with no after he was not allowed to bedefense ~of the right to privacy come a troop leader in 1980 bemilitary service who nevertheduring his 24 years of service to less bristle at other people’s lack cause heis openly gay, was the nation. Justice Blackmun’s Of military trainihg). Among stunned by the court ruling. "I eloqu,ence in defense of the right them: Dan Quayle, George Will,. can be just as much of a role to privacy extended beyond his Newt Gingrieh, Sylvester model, regardless of my sexual landmarkopinionin Roe v. Wade Stallone, Pat Buchanan and Roorientation, as anyone else," he to his forceful dissent in Bowers nald Reagan.Hey, we’ll drink to said. "I think that people need to ¯ v. Hardwick, in which the Sua crew like that. Pass that apple judge me by actions and the preme Court denied that a fundajuice, would ya? things I do."A Scout spokesman mental right to consensual sexual said the youth group isn’t "dis: Limbaugh-Od Update intimacy between two adults of Criminating but rather differenNEW YORK - A spokesperson ¯ the same sex exists. In his disflaring’.’ based on moral prinfor theFlorida Citrus C~inmissenting opinion "in Bowers v. ciples. Jon Davidson, an ACLU sion has told Advertising Age" Hardwick, Justice Blackmun attorney representing Curran, that ithas received 6,341 comcited a previous case and wrote, however, said the court decision plaints .and 5,265 expressions of "...This case is about ’the most "overturns decades of state law" support for its decision to use comprehensive of rights and the prohibiting discrimination. arch-conservative talkshow host right most valued by civilized Davidson said he would ask for Rush rimbaugh as a spokesman. men,’ namely, ’the d~lat to be let a rehearing and would appeat to "’We’re still using Mr. I imbaugh, ne .... uepnvmg individuals the state Supreme Court if necalthough we continue to review of the right to choose for themessary. the situation,’" the commission selves how to conduct their intiGay Rights in Japan spokesperson said. Meanwhile, mate relationships poses a far citrus consumption is reportedly TOKYO - District Court Judge greater threat to the values most down 6% compared tO the same deeply rooted in our Nation’s Toshiald Harada has ruled that period last’year, but commission history than tolerance of nonthe Tokyo city government reofficials say there’s no counec- - conformity could ever do. Befused to let Japan’s largest gay cause the Court today betrays those values, I dissent," he wrote. As Justtce Jackson wrote so eloquently," Blacklnun added, ¯ ’"Freedom to differ is not lim¯ ited to things that do not matter ¯ much. That would be a mere ¯ shadow of freedom. The test of ¯ its substance is the right to differ ¯ ¯ asto things that touch the heart of l!th & Mingo, 838-7626 ¯ the existing order.’" "Adminis¯ Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. tration officials have discussed ¯ the need to ensure that the next Call for Appointments ¯ Supreme Court appointee is ’able ¯ Walk-ins Also Welcome. to build consensus on the Court" ¯ i InNo nn ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Im ¯ am ¯ ¯ nn’n ¯ in noted NGLTF Executive.Direc-, Puppy Pause-II All Breeds Dog Grooming �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs ,News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Continued from page 5 treat, to the Bay Area to talk about the trouble the womenhave had in the tiny community of Ovett that has exploded into a national issue for gay rights activists. Contributions to the taxexempt brganization can be made directly to: Camp SisterSpirit, PO Box 12, oveit; Mississippi 39464. Gay Asian:Americans to be in SF Festival. SAN FRANCISCO-~ Some 100 membersof the Gay Asian Pacific A~ance, the.Asian!Pacific Sisters, and the Older Asian Sisters in Solidarity will participate in th~’--amiii~il"~San Francisco Cherry:Bloss6i~l’Festival Parade this-yearlslated for Sunday, Apr. 24. Iris thefirst time gay ahd lesbian groups have marched in the Cherry Blossom Parade here, and is believed to be one.of the f’Lrst-ifnotthein’st- tojoinin the celebrations in the country. The marchers will also have an accom,p, anying float carrying 1993 s Mr. & Miss GAPA as well as alavender Godzilla: LongOistance Carriers Fight Over Gay Market BOSTON- The Boston Globe reports that the fight between long-distance carriers Tram Na= tional Inc., Wlfi.’ch operates the new..=. Pride .=Network, and CommunitySpirit in_ Chicago, ownext b~i(3V ~!~x)ked-Opinions, for lesbian and gay phone customers has now gone to U.S. Federal Court in Boston. Trans National filed for an injlmc.tion to prohibit Overlooked Opinions from switching Pride Network customersto CommtmitySpirit without the consent of the customers - a practice known among long-distance carriers as "slamming?’ Trans National had provided CommunitySpirit customers With l_ong-distance set: vice unti! !ast year when the two firms became embroiled in a dispute.and then set .themselves in ~lirectcompetition for the gay andlesbian market this past February when CommunitySpirit terminatedits conWact withTrans National. The two firms have been locked in a bitter campaign of charges and counter:charges against each other .since then in the complicated case. Chicago Ares Village Adds Partners Benefits CHICAGO - The Chicago region village of Oak Park became the first in illinois to extend benefits to city workers with samesex parmers by a unanimous 7-0 vote Tuesday, April 19, following.5 hou!gs of often heated.public testimony and a full hour by the village trustees. The board reject by a 4-3 vote, however, a compamon amendment that would have granted the same benefits to unmarried Oppositesex couples~ and by the same 4- 3 vote turned down a measure that would have set up a partners’ registration procedure for village residents. Georgia County Tries to Mute Anti-Gay Stance ATLANTA- Commissioners in Cobb County,Ga., said gays and lesbians would be welcome in the county when part of the 1996 Olympic Games arc slated to,be held where the Same officials only a year ago had condemned the "gay lifestyle:" Bill Byme, chairman Of the County Commission, issueda proclamation stating the county would welcome "all athletes and visitors " from all participating countries, without discrimination." The 1996 summer games;s volleyball events are slated to be held in the Atlanta suburban county, and gay rights activists have.b~e,n pressuring the host orgamzang Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games to move them from Cobb County because of (he commissioners’ anti-gay actions last year that declared the "homosextml lifestyle" was "incompatible with the standards to which ,this community subscribes.’ Byrne rather soured even this minor move toward improving the county’s recent anti-gay rhetoric, however, by casually saying thatneo-Naziand skinhead protesters were also welcome. Timothy W. Daniel Attorney at Law Estate Planning Adoptions Personal Injury Criminal Law. Bankruptcy Workers Compensation Atlanta Benefits Lost? ATLANTA - The Atlanta Constitution reports that Fulton County Superior Court Judge Isaac Jenrette.has declared Atlanta’s domestic partner) registration measure unconsu-; tutionai. The paper reports that" Jenrette ruled that"the domestic partnership ordinance was outside[Atlanta s] authority under the municipal home rule act" and the state’s constitution. City Officials immediately said they would appeal the ruling to the Georgia Supreme Court. N.H. KillsGay Rights Law CONCORD, N.H. - The New Hampshire Senate rejected a proposed statewide gay rights law by a vote of 13-10 against, effectively killing the measure during the current legislative session. Disappointed lesbian/ gay rights activists say they will try again toget the law through the next!egislature. NM Univ. Gives Benefits ALBUQUERQUE- According to a new policy at the school, employees and faculty at the University of New Medic6 will be eligible to get health insurance and other benefits for their domestic partners. The:new benefits program extends to the partners of gay and lesbian employees the same benefits now available tothe spouses of mar: ried workers at the school. Coach Sues Baptist U. over AIDS Firing ~RALEIGH, N.C. - A Baptistrun Campbell University gym coach has filed a lawsuit under the Americans with Disabilities Act because the religious school fired him when it discovered he has AIDS. The "John Doe" suit was fried after the federal Equal Employment Opportunity Commission investigated Doe’s complain last year. The EEOC is also seeking to enjoin the umversity from fm-the~ bias against campus employees infected with HIV. The-university !earned of Doe’s illness when he took time off last year becanse of a bout of AIDS:related pneumonia. Officials with the school declined to comment on the lawsuit. Coast Guard BarsBias WASHINGTON - The Coast Guard issued a revised directive clarifying anti-bias protections to gay and lesbian civilian workers after it decided an earlier policy statement was vague enough that it could appear to include military personnel as well. The new directive, dated yesterday, states: "Equality of treatment and opportunity for civilian Coast Guard members without regard to race, color, religion, gender, ethnic groups~ cultural backgrounds, age, sexual orientation, or disability is the policy of the Coast Guard." INTERNI I.ONAL TOURS Airline/Hotel Reservations Ticket Pick-Up Cruise/Tour Packages Group & Incentive Programs "No" Service Charge (918)341-6866 RSVP’s 10th Aniversary Cruise board Carnival’s mega-fun Ship Jubilee, March 19-26, 1995, d. LA Mexican Riviera, Space going fast. Oklahoma’s Only LG.T.A. Affiliate (International Gay Travel Association) Initial. bonsultation at no charge. Attention All Lesbian & Gay Couples. -Protect your -relationship! 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Each year since 1974, a Gay and Lesbian Civil Rights Bill has been introduced, but each time died in committee. "We will effectively communicate to ithe American people the tigly reality Of discrimination that gay people face,everyday and h0wit negatively impacts the entire country," said Peri Jude Radecic, NGLTF’s Executive Director. Radecic and MeFeeley also noted the. value of educating the public about anti-gay bias during the critical 1994 election cycle, during which up to 9 states are facing anti-gay ballot measures. A broad-based coalition of organizations led by the Leadership Conference on Civil Rights, NGLTF and HRCF is forming to organize support for the bill. from page 1 according to income. Volunteers are needed to assist in planning, conference staffing, and Child and adolescent care. Information on becoming involved will b~ available-at booths set up at various community events throughout May and June and will appear in gay publications. The next planning meeting for the Summit will be held on May 19, in Stroud, and -all those interested are invited to participate. For more-information on this meeting, or on volunteering or registering for the Oklahoma Pride Snmmit, phone Herland Sister Resources at (405) 5219696, or Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian political Caucus at (405) 791-0202. Marriage from page 1 would prohibit same-sex marriages in the state. Both bills passed by substantial margins and define marriage as-a legal relationship specifically between a male and a female. The differ~ ences between the two measures are largely technical complexities. The senate-house conference committee must complete its work by the end_of April " Hogue from page 1 When asked if he had reached any conclusions, Councilor Hogue replied, ’~the report (issued by th~ commitfee) is ajoke." He believes the report to be ’totally biased and not representative of all the cOmmunity." When asked if anything would persuade him to supportiL Hogue responded, "I doubt it." Lesbian Support Group Forming For more information, call TRy Clare at 587-4669. el " Military Update the 2-minute ttme ~ln~t ~gu~r_h n,--n, ~, ~u.=11~-....... v......... ~gh~ng ch~erson, D~s WASHINGTON - Justice Dept. . Neill to have library security attorneys began arguing, their officers to escort speakers away. defense of the Pentagon s 50One such incident’ocenrred when year ban against homosexuals, perennial Tulsa political candieven though PreSident Clinton date, Virginia Jenner spoke in supported ending the ban. A 51favor of the proposed ordinance page brief filed by. gove,mment change wliile promoting her lawyers with the Federal Court latest campaign. of Appeals Contends the anti-At both hearings so far, more gaypo!icy"pre~ents homosexual have spoken against the proposal than in favor. MOSt of the ~rgu- . : acts that would interfere withthe . military missjon,.and.i~s ."ratioments are variationson religious nally related-to the vital military objections,.usually by indiVidugoal of maintaining .unit cohe~ als who .identify themselves as sion.’ TheJustie~. Dept.brief evangelicalChriStians.. urged the full appeal court to However, representatives of review a 3-judge appeals court the E. Okla. Presbyterian Synod ruling that struck down the old and the Society of Friends -Pentagon ban in November in (Quaker) spoke in favor as did the.case involving Joe steffan, a the president of the Tulsa chapformer Naval Academy midter of the League of Women shipman discharged in 1987 afVoters. Speakers from.PFLAG, ter he. said he was gay. Even Parents, Family & Friends of tho,u,gh the new "don’t ask, don’t Lesbians & Gays spoke in suptell policy is not directly at isport, in particular, Pat Padgett, sue in the Steffan case, the brief Judy Crumrine, & Joe notes that COngress recently McDonald:The Rev. Alice Jones passed legislation codifying the of the Metropolitan Community new policy, and affirming the Church of Greater Tulsa testified Pentagon’s reasoning, behind as did Shawn Hayes and Nate both the old and the new policy. Matting!y. Mr. Hayes and Mr. Judge: ’Serious Mattingly Were largely respon, sible, with,assistance from JD Question’ About New Jamett &others, for the unprecPentagon Policy edented rallies suppol~ted by alNEW YORK - A Federal Dis~ most all Tulsa bar owners to triet Courtjudgehas ruled that 6 inform Community members service members :~5:gay men about the hearings & to encourand 1 lesbiae age attendance. , fn’ ds; their legM chMlenge to the Pentagon’s new "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy is is decided, saying there is "serious question" about Whether the new policy oversteps the military’s claimed interests in preserving morale and good order. U.S: District Court Judge Eugene Nickersonorde_~ the Department of Defense not to investigate or discharge the 6 Soldiers ~liile their constitutional challenge to. the new. policy is still pending. Two of.the service members areon active duty and 4 are in reserve.units. In a lengthy ruling, Judge Nickerson, .raised doubts abo~t:~e basis of the new, comply5 ..policy, enacted by Congress !a~t year after President Clinton said he would lift the 50-year:old ban on gays and lesbians in themi,li :.t~ry. Judge Nickerson also .questioned whether the new .policy in fact extendsany greater.protections m homosexuals m~th.e,military than the old policy.of blanket exclusion did. ’q’here is a serious questionas to whether a regulation goe~s_~eyond what is reasonably .0gge~.mX¢~.~o protect any possible government interest," the judge~wrote; "when it inhibits six service members from continuiitg to Speakin court PROJECT REACH llivd 622-1441 look for usat our 5451-E So. Mingo T: O.pm Thursday - Tulsa Family News, May -:;!une 1994, page 7 :rl �Health Briefs Health Briefs Health, Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health .Briefspeople infected with HIV. Legislator Wants HIV+Soldiers Booted SANTA ANA, Calif. - Ultraconservative U.S. Rep. Robert Doruan (R-Calif.) has called on the Department of Defense to discharge some 1,400 service personnel who have tested posifive for HIV. Testifyingbefore a. subcommittee of the House Armed Services Committee, Doruan said, "The impact on combat readiness is only beginning -. a nightmare could develop." Dornan said he would introduce legislation to require discharges for. military personnel who are medically unable to be deployed for active duty. A similar bill.by Doman in 1993 failed to win approval. ’According to the Defense Dept., there are 757 members of the Navy, 422in the Army, 164 in the Air Force and 97 in the Marine Corps who have tested positive for the virus. DaD also says there are an additional 2,120 service members who are non-deployable because they have Cancer, die- betes, coronary disease or Other medical Conditions. AIDS and gay rights activists say Doman is just grandstan.,ding as the elections come up. "It s election time, and Bob Doman will say whatever he needs to whip up.his homophobic, AIDS-phobic supporters," said Jieff LeTourneau of the Orafige County (Calif.) Visibility Leagtie: "’He’s a Cold Warrior who doesn’ t have a Cold War to fight anymore, so he’s picking on marginalized people." ’Newsweek’ on Deathi Futures WASHINGTON- Am article~n the Mar. 25 issue of Newsweek deals with "Living Benefits ," on~e of at least 50 investment grougs offering "death futures" to AIDS patients. Technically called "viatical settlements," a terminally ill patient names the company as sole beneficiaryofhis or her life insurance policy; in return, the company pays the patient a portion of the benefits. When the patient dies, the cam- pany redeems the policy for the full amount, thereby making a profit. According to Newsweek, because AIDS is always fatal, such patients are a good risk and business is booming. The largest company-will buy more than $300 million worth of policies this year alone, and investors can rake in as much as 25% profit in a year. According to the magazine’s report, the National Association ofInsurance Commissioners is alarmed at the rapid proliferation of viatical deals, and concerned about po-. tenfial abuse,.andithas proposed preliminary guidelines governing the settlements. Patients would have to be informed exactly how theymight be affected. Swede Claims Advance Toward AIDS-Vaccine STOCKHOLM - Following a recent declaration by HIV codiscoverer Luc Montagnier that vaccine research has reached a standstill, a Swedish researcher claims to have discovered antibodies which can :destroy al.l stratus of the HIV virus - a find that he says could yield a vaccine within thenext decade. Sigvard Olofsson, a professor at Gothenburg University claims, ’"We have found the key that fits all locks." That key is a so-called Tn-antigen that was effective against all types of HIV in laboratory experiment.. "In the test tube, this kills all thinkable types of the HIV virus," said Olofsson, who was quoted by Sweden’ s national news agency, TT. "The next step is to test this against reality." According to the report, the professor said that he and Danish colleagues wilt first testthe:vaccine on monkeys~ then on humans within 5 years, and that a vaccine could be available in 10 years. Hattoy vs. AIDS Chief WASHINGTON - Bob Hattoy, the Clinton administration’s most visible gay rights advocate, criticized AIDS .policy coordinator Kristine Gebbi~ in this month’s premier issue of POZ, a magazine produced by-and for BROOKSIDE JEWELRY. 1994 DIAMANTE Includes: Dual Air Bags. 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There are growing reports that there has been widespread-dissatisfaction with the AIDS office in the gay and AIDS communities, which complain that the office is ineffective and lacking in leadership. Gebbie’ s supporters counter that the 6month-old office has made significant progress in coordinating the administration’s AIDS efforts, including increased housing programs for AIDS patients and the establishment of an office of AIDS research. HIV & the Deaf Community " WASHINGTON - The Mar. 4 issue of Newsweek contains a frightening article on the virtual ignorance of deaf people in the U.S. about ways to prevent exposure to HIV- and indeed the epidemic itself - because ASL (American Sign Language) and not Englishis their firstlanguage. Deaf activists say English reading levels among the average deaf adult are between 3rd and 8th gr.ade leaving this. community virtually in ~the.dark about ’’The knowledge base is lacking," Donna Lestme, a New York social-services counselor, told Newsweek. "With all the ways we have of t,ransmitting infermarion, they re just not receiving it.". But language is only one ofthe problems, the magazine says. The weekly says residen’ tial schools for the deaf are more ’ ~puritanical" than others, leaving many deaf people lagging behind in the basic knowledge of anatomy, diseases and medicine generally. The magazine also says some scientists believe that IV drug abuse.among the deaf is proportionately higher because of the alienation of the community from the restof the country. To help combat the problems, some 100 activists have been working since 1991 as the National Coalition on HIV and the Deaf Community, working at clinics and in outreach programs for the deaf around the country. AZT - No Help for Asymptomatic Patients LONDON - The British medi~ eal journal Lancethas published the long-awaited large-scale combined British-French study known as the Concorde Report which concludes that AZT, the most widely used ,AIDS drug, does not prevent fatal oppormnisfic illnesses in people infected with HIV but who remain asymptomatic. The report backs up earlier f’mdings that AZT is of �Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health .Bri¯efs Health Briefs little or no value in preventing the onset of AIDS among those already infected. ’q’he results of Concorde do not.encourage the early use of zidovudine (AZT) in symptom-free HIV-infected patients," the team of researchers concluded. AZT has,":how, ever, been .shown to prolong the fives of patients with full,blown AIDS. The Britis~h-based Wellcome PLC, which manufactures AZT worldwide and which participated in the research, refused to sign the final report and has formally rejected the study’s findings. Texas GOP ’Quarantine’ Resolution Draws Fire GALVESTON, Texas - AIDS activists and the county _Democratic Party sharply denounced a .resolution approved by the Galveston County Republican Party calling for a quarantine of people infected with HIV, the virus generally believed to cause AIDS. "Inmy opinion, the whole resolution is Idled with rhetoric, innuendo.and misinformation," Maurisa Bylerly; head of the AIDS Coalition of CoaStal Texas, told the Houston Chronicle. David Jameson, chair of the Galveston County Democratic Party, said the ¯resolution smackedof Nazi Germany.. "It sounds alive foruia at San Francisco say a a patient’s blood viatubes, heatthe Danish Supreme Court overstudy ofHIV patient longevity~ turned the conviction of an HIVingitseveraldegreesabovebedy sh0ws infected individ_u~al.~ s diagten~_perature, and re-injecting the positive manwhohad been found SAN FRANCISCO - Researchguilty~by a lower court of recknosed with AIDS are now living " treated.blo0dwhile still warm, ers at the University of Califorless endangerment because he muchlikeakidney dialysis. The nia at San Francisco say they ~ aboutayearlongerthanpatientsl didade~deagofl:hestudyfonnd ....treatment, developed in 1990, had unprotected sex with nearly have f~t~nd the first evidenc~ that between 1983,86 the mewas dismissed at the time by the two-dozen women. that- HIV,- the virus generally dian survival-time was 28:4 National ¯Institutes of Health Texas Insurer Ordered believed to cause AIDS¯ is also months from the point when their which said’ the patient Alons0 rectly linked to certain forms to Continue Benefits lymphocyte cell count fell beclaimed he cured of AIDS didn’ t lymphoma or cancer Of the DALLAS - An article in Busilow 200. From 1987-89, the even have the disease but was lymphatic system. Although ness Insurance magazine reports survival time rose to 40.1 months suffering from "cat scratch fe, lymphoma is common among a ruling by U.S. District Court from the time of the 200-mark ver,, which can produce~similar people with AIDS¯ it has been Judge Robert Maloney ordering indicator: The Survival time has although not usually fatal assumed that the cancer was an that Fidelity Security Life Inplateaued at that level from 1990symptoms, indirect result of the failure.of surance Co. must continue to 93. The scientists saythe inGospelAID ’94 the body’s immune system to pay medical benefits-to a Texas crease in longevity from the point stave off the potentially fatal PHILADELPHIA - GospelAID AIDS patient: even though his. of the200:inark has not been cancer rather than directly linked ¯ 94, a musical production feagroup health insurance policy because of anti-viral drugs like to the vires itself. Butin a new turing leading local and national was canceled. Ac~ordi~ng to the study, theUC-SFresearcherss~ay AZT, but has been the result gospel¯ choirs, as.well as some of magazine, the company’s masthey have found evidence at the .~ mainly of improved treatments the country’s most popular ter policy dictates that it may to battle the opporttmistic infec= molecular level that the virus is secular voices, is slated for April ¯ cancel group coverage at any tion of pneumocystis carinii directly responsible for spawn30 in Philadelphia: Sponsored time with 60 days’~ notice, but pneumonia, the leading.cause of ing malignant cells. ’cHris would by Philadelphia’ s Gospel Music that provision was not included death for people with AIDS in be the first time that any human Preservation Alliance in conin the certificates issued to indithis country. retrovirus has been implicated junction with ActionAIDS, the vidual policyholders. AIDS pa, Limited Bloo.d Heat in causing cancer like this," said extravaganza will be hosted by tient Michael Elder sued Fidelthe study’s senior author, Dr. Tony Award-winning actor TreatmentTrial OK’d ity and Albert H. Wohlers & Co. Michael McGrath. "It’ s a totally James.Earl Jones and will fea- the agency which administered WASHINGTON - The Baltiture some 355 choir singers as different perspective of what more Sun reports that the Food the policy - in a bid to keep about HIV can do." The report will be well as musicians Grover Wash&DrugAdministrationhfis given $800,000 in medical benefits: pubfished in the April 15issueof ¯ a doctor in the U.S. permission ington Jr., Rachelle Ferrell, and Elder contended that, because the journal Cance¢ Research, Boyz II Men.. to use a controversial bloodhe was unaware that his policy published by the American AsDenmark Considei;ing heating method to treat 6 AIDS could be Canceled, he was de-sociation for Cancer Research. patients in effort to cure them of pending on $1 million in lifetime HIV-Sex Crime Bill S.F. Researchers Cite .the fatal disease.. Dr. Kenneth :ben.efits. 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May.- June1994i, page 9 �T H G E A L Y I Theatre-Notes Sl~otlight Theatre ’ THE DRUNKARD Ongoing 587-5030 Theatre North READERS THEATRE 6123-25 596-7111 Theatre Works ROAD TO NIRVANA 619-12 596-7111 Theatre Tulsa PRELUDE TO A KISS 5120-29 596-7111 Touring WILL ROGERS FOLLIES 5131-615 596,7111 DALLAS BRASS WITH PETER NERO 5121 Dance Center DANCE RECITAL 6/25 596-7111 PAC Ttust PIANO RECITAL 6/10-11 596-7111 Broken Arrow CAROSEL 6116-26 258-0077 MCtropolitar(Community Church of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday service, 10:45 am Wednesday service, 6’.30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sundays, 6:00 pm. Phone: 1623 N. Maolewood Tulsa. OK 74115 (918) 838-1 715 By Gerald Miller, Theatre Tulsa As snmmer approachs, there will be a little lull in the "Theater World" as most of us will be dosing out.this season and diving into preparations for the next one. But-there will still things happening in the summer. The KOTV Spirit of Oldahoma SummerStage ’94 Festival is scheduled through July and into August:The University of Tulsa and the Gilbert & Sullivan Society.will have a June offering, and TheatrePOPS has plans to re-mount A Mid SummerNight’s Dream again. So its’ not like there won’t be anything happeningthis snmmer. E S T As for Theatre Tulsa we will be bending efforts toward our SummerStageoffering, And the Worm Goes Round, a musical revue saluting 25 years of Broadway collaborators Kander and Ebb. They produced music andlyrics for thelikes of Cabaret, Kiss of the Spider Woman, and New York, New York and the list goes on and on.. So when its’ really hot and sticky this summer, join us for a cool and relaxed evening of pure Broadway Music. Prelude to a Kiss by Craig Lucas is our season closer. I understand this show will be previewed elsewhere in this issue. But I still want to invite anyone Y L E interested in seeing more contemporary works on Tulsa stages to attend. Theatre Tulsais taking. a chance on this production because of its adult themes/language and we need audience support if this kind of show is to be a regular part of future seasons. We also are looking for new and different-ways to promote Theatre Tulsa. If you have suggestions, please forward them to me. We have developed a card listing our 1994 - 1995 season, an individual adult ticket discount and a #ace for your business card. Give me a call at 5878402 if you think this would be effective for you. Tu!sa’s OldestTheater Co. Presents Play With Gay-Relevant Message By James Christjohn more gay theatre in Tulsa, we Or is it? He struggles to live a The theme of Prelude to a Kiss need to support shows that are a lie trapped in ber body; married is that love is love, no matter step in that direction. Theatre to a man; and she has to de~l with what form the participants take. Tulsa is going out on a limb; the problems of aging; and desIt speaks to the underlying several battles were fought sireperately trying totellher husband prejudices that we all face in our ply to bring this show to life, daily lives. At the marriage of a [hat. she is the old man he sees. young couple; an old man kisses The play.has many underlying with its language and action inih~":’~d~. iiaher~.~iie "g~e§-tlx~ : ~’th~n~eg>of’i~I~#an~.t0out.:-s_~ci:~ .iNct,:Th(¢~ ~,a,.:~!~P~s,.~:...... chance tO start anew, in a-young ety; living a lie; d~aling ~{th" .... ~b~i~: b~d~ti~::~fi~d the show hasn’~ even been seen yet! mamage _ you.kngw; y0u havea body, to recapture kis own youth, It’s up to us to let those folks great courtship, .the mate seems In him, she sees an answer to the know that they don’t matter, betobe everything you were. look.fears she experiences daily livcause thereis an audience that ing for, then you move m, get ing in the modem World - all that will appreciate this. married; and boom! Who is this is behind him, she thinks. For a The cast is excellent, the diperson, you start to wonder. How moment, they desire to switch, rector is sensitive to our issues, many of us, in such a situation, and in that moment, the desire is and knows what she’s doing. haveturned tO our partners and powerful enough to make the There is an openly gay characsaid, "You’re not who I thought transformation happen.,,"The ter, and a wonderful message. you were!" grass is always greener... 11th International AIDS Candlelight Memorial and Mobilization Sunday, May 22, 7pm Shiloh Baptist.Church 1124 No. Cincinnati, Reception after service. For more info. call 438-2437, Interfaith AIDS Ministries Tulsa Family News, May - June 1994, page 10 F The play can be characterized by this quote: "Never to be squan-_ de.red.., the miracle of another human being." The groom overcomes his own issues of homophobia. As to how and why - see the play! I am urging you to see this show, because in order to have For reservations, call 5967111.ToletTheatreTulsaknow that you appreciate what they’re doing for us by fighting to do this show, call 58%8402. Those who would have this show banned have called, ~o it’s up to us to counter with positive comments. Pride Picnic Rainbow Business Guild Volunteers are needed to help with set-up, dean-up, cooking at the Tulsa Pride Picnic on Sunday~ June-19. Booth space will be available for organizations & businesses. Call Jane at 664-8299. The Guild will hold its next meeting on Monday, May 23, at 7pm. Topics will include the Pride Picnic & more Call 2542100 for info. Festival to Include Gay-Artists The New Genre Festival to be held June 10, 11, and 12inTulsa at the Living Arts Space~224 N. Main, features time-based works by artists which stretch the limits of their media. Local performance artist Robert Hernandez will be presenting his newest piece. . Nationally acclaimed Chicano multi-media artist David Zamora Casas of San Antonio, Texas will be presenting ’The Born Again American Mexican." Casas, a self-taught painter, sculptor, singer, activist, curator, videographer and performance artist, will be visiting Tulsa to lecture for the Harweldin hstirote for Arts and Education Snmmer Session Workshops. �T H E -G.- A L Y I F S E T Y E L RTIFICIAL INSEMINATION q-HING HA5 MEAT A L055. :E WANT TO lqgLP OUT KIT AND LESL IE --"." BUT T- 17:~DN"F KNOW IF . ~ COULD LIVE NIT~ THE FACq" T~AT CI#ILD WILL WANli)gRING IVI6~ AROUND OUT TF~F.RF_. WITHOUT MY" BFING A PART OF: NI5 LIFE: John Kirk "For All Your Real Estate Needs" Res.: (918) 745;2245 Bus.: (918) 747;5800 15727 South Lew.is, Suite 120 *Tulsa, OK 74[05 .John REALTORS*. -~.. PhilhpCyr~ -" . .... . , ..:. ! ,- . , _ ".:-.. . 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Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s -Lesbian, Gay & BiSexual Communities:2.Our Families of the Heart" ~ ~--~ay is-.Jtme 14, 1994, Volume 1, Issue a h ts. city councilor Co mm!ss n ,on ro-Lesb=.a Ga:y HogueAg.a,inst n t i a s Non-D scr rni.nati on.Arnendrnelnt- p o.s-a.z Gay Congressional Aides Organize WASHINGTON- The _Congression~ l Roll Call_ reports that a group of Capitol Hillemployees has gotten approval i’~om House Speaker Tom Foley (DWash.) to start the Lesbian &. Gay Congressional S taff Assn:,. to look at~ter the general welfare of Congressional-staffers. The group still requires approval of the House Administration Commj’ttee, which is expected soon. Approval will give theemployee group House mail privileges and useof office slLace at the Capitol complex. The~oup said it was prompted to form the association because of reports in the TulsaWormandotherpapers that 3 Representatives from Oklahoma said they would not hire any openly gay staff members. The 5 founders of the association are: David Vershure with the office of Rep. Pat Schroeder (D-Col0.), Robert Raben, an aide to Rep. Barney Frank (D-Mass.), MarkAgrastin the office of Rep. Gerry Studds (D-Mass.), Victor Castillo in the office ofRep. Bob Filner (D,Calif.), and Karen Anderson, in the office.of Rep. Jolene Uusoeld (D-Wash:).. Sodomy Laws Violate Human Rights HOBARTH, Australia - After repeated failed attempts to deci’iminalize sodomy laws in the Australian islandstate of Tasmania, the United Nations Human Rights Committee has dedared the legislation a violation of civil and human rightsunder the UN Declaration of Human. Rights. Details of the UN committee’s decision were not in’mediately available, but the lengthy six-year fight by gay rights activists in the conservative,, southern island state to topple sodomy laws there has been given an enormous boost by the influential international organization’s decisiom -The UN decision reportedly is based on the sexual equality provisions of Article 2 inthe Declaration Of Human Rights, which states: "Everyone is entitled to all-the fights and freedoms set forth in this Declaration, without distinction 6fany kind, such as race, .color, sex, language, religion, political or .other opinion, national or social origiq,~ property, birth or other stares. It is the first such decision of its kind by the United Nations. bets of these groups will hold a summit the weekend of July 15= 17 atthe University ofOklahoma campus in Norman, By providing a forum for members ofthese groups to meet and. s..h3re news. of each other’s acttvztaes and goals, organizers say they hope the meeting will further empower and motivate participants,building unity while recognizing diversity. Precise schedules:"for the Oklahoma Pride Summitare gtill being discussed, but those planning the meeting, have arranged inexpensive hou_sing .for regis, tere.d participants at ~the OU dormitories, and the feasibility of affordable or free child care is being pursued. Participants are being encouraged to use the dormitory housing to enhance the summit,s focus on building networks and comradery..The groups plan to create a gayfriendly, ,safe space" for conference participants. Interested Okl~Jaomans from all parts of the state are invited to register and attend; housing will be guaranteed only to those preregistering by June 25. Orgauizers say additional information will be forthcoming, and costs will be very affordable, varying See Summit, page 7 Tulsa Family News, May - June 1994, page 1 "Ibelieve the timehas come for Congress to put’into law a very simple principle: individuals have a right to be evaluated, in. the workplace based onthe quality and quantity of work they do; and not be disadvantaged because someone doesn’t like what they do in their private lives," Said Congressman-Frank. "Discriminating against honest, hardworking people because they are gay or lesbian makes no sense - morally, socially, or ecbnomically. I believe the Ameri- : can people .will support appropriately drafted legislation that embodies this principle." ’q’he time is right for federal legislation to end discrimination onthe basis of sexual orientation in the workplace," said Tim McFeeley, Executive Director of HRCF.. "Several recent national polls make it clear that Americans by large margins oppose workplace discrimination against lesbians, gay men- and bisexuals." McFeeley also noted that more than 230 members of the U.S. House have issued nondiscrimination policies with regards to sexual orientation in theirown employmentpractices. The strategy for this bill includes Congressional hearings on job See Fed. Bill, pa~,e 7 Cancel That Hawaii Honeymoon HONOLULU-The Hawaii state House of Representatives has iipprovedby a wide 35-12 margin a bi!l, already approved by the state Senate,~t~at defines marriage as a legal contract only between:a man and a woman. The measure, which Gov. John Waihee is expected to sign, also includes a warning for the state’ s courts not to become embroiled in the controversy around samesex marriages, claiming interpreting marriage licensing is ithe exclusive domain of the state legislature. The state Supreme Court last year ruled that the state must prove in a lower court a "compelling interest" ifitwants to block same-sex marriages, Virtually setting the stage for the lower court to order the state to issue licenses to gay and lesbian couples. " Marriage .Bills In Conference HONOLULU - The Hawaii Legislature has appointed a conference committee to resolve" differeiices between bills from the-state House and Senate.that See Marriage, page 7 .... Federa I - - . By KharmaAmos Tulsa City Cotmeilor James DiscriminatiOn : Hogue (District 6, fareast & . ¯ . northeast Tulsa). attended the Bill tO. Target: publiehea ngs eldbytheXulsa Human ~Rights Commission to ~m ~ ] o ~-m e n.| discuss the repd~;~l’~$:com-~ " me.datiousmarauding WASHINGTON - Representa- . Committee on Sexual Ori.entafives Barney Frank (D-4th MA) tion Discrimination.. Councilor andGerry Studds (D-10th MA) Hogue stated~that2he~i~iends will introduce federal legislation because ’~ae wiii~y~’li~ien to to outlaw anti-gay discriminatiOn any citizen of Tulsa who wants in ~the workplace, the Human to speak their mind." .Rights -Campaign FUnd~(HRCF) ,~.~ See Hogue~ p~ge 7 and the National Gay and Les.......~<~’~ bian Task Force (NGLTF) have Human Rights Commissioners Over 350citizens pack Tulsa City-County Library’s Aaronson announced: The legislation is EddieFaye Gates&Dennis.Neill_ Auditorium ~ one ofseveralpublic hearings. Photos: JD Jamett ~ expected to be introduced i’n By Tom Neal with the City. lobby. June. Record crowds have attended , Over.350 attended, the first - A third hearing is. scheduled ’q’heright.tobesecureinone’s publiclhearingshel~dby the City. hearingheldonWednesday,May- for. Friday, May 13th from :6- livelihoodis abedrock principle of Tulsa’ Human Rights Corn- 4th at AaronsonAuditorium of 10pm in the Assembly Hall of with which every.American-can . mission on .a report reco~-, the City-County CentralLibrary the Tulsa Convention Center.. identify,Y said Congressman mending-the ad~.0oni0fff.S.exfial with many standing around the The Human Rights Commission Studds. ’%!}llions iCame tothese 0rientati0n"to th( City’s non- perimeter iahd at the doors of the " is scheduled tomeet on Monday._, shoresin-sdarehof,gpp.or~t~!~- . .dls(fi~iiation Ordinance, The.-...room for several hours. Esti- " May !6th to decide whether to’: The time will surely come someday when we can truly call ourselves freeand as equal as the rest of our society. But when.’? How muchlonger do we w.aitfor something that by the nature of our democracy is already ours? We were born to it, believe init, have fought and died .for it, but still it is not ours. Those of us who live in the warmth and security of our fash: ion-grey closets are deceiving ourselves if we think someone else will get it for us. Weaifhave to work and be part of it. How foolish we are to think that our silent vigil Within~ur collective closets will eventually bring us freedom and equality. Some of us say, "we don’~ really have it all that bad, so why rock the boat?" Have we forgotien what that closetis really? It is nothingmore than the cramped and dimly:lit imprisonment of our very essence by a,society whose inju.srice is based on ignorance, iresinformation, and prejudice. How mUChlonger do we wait until we can all walk away from thatprisonandbeableto embrace: the ideals of equality with the dignity of.being who we ’are? How many more Gay people,’.m the city of Tulsa will have to die or be mercilessly beaten before we finally step out and face the crowdwiihaunitedvoice saying, "all right, wehavehadenough! "? Howmany moreof-usmustsuffer property damage, or~ have our jobs andhousing denied or taken from us. How much longer do we remain a silent minority quietly praying for the day when people will accept us in this city? we have to understand that as aunite~.Gay commlmity,we can and will bring about change. We cannot remain a scattered and out of touch group when our health and livelihoods are at stake. We must bring the forces of individuals, orgamzations, gathenngs togetherto speak as one vo,ice if weare to overcome the injustice that prevails in this city. It is our city too. We-helped build and continue to support Tulsa and we are entitled to its benefits and protection as is everyone. We c-~nnot forget we are not alone. We have each other and within that fact lies our direction, ourpower,, and our voice. We cannot wait for a personal tragedy to.strike each,of us for then it will be too late. We must orgamze in eve~ meeting place in our commumty and draw alliances with each other for the good of us all. For some it is TOHR. Others may choose MCC’s as the place to organize and for still others, it is our local barg and social clubs. But we must all work together or fall victim to internal powerstruggles and self-serving hypocrisy. Our direction must be clear and a noble one. We must stand together witha unity of purpose and proclaim our rights as citizens and human~ beings. How mochlonger must we wait? - John R. Silver Star Saloon Editor’s note: readers mayfind it interesting that this viewpoint was written 12 years ago though it’s message seems still appropriate today. Wake Up & Smell The Coffee OK folks, it’s time now to get forward the proposal (it seems to moving if we, Tulsa’s Lesbian, - Gay, Bisextml & friends communities, want to have a hope of getting civil fights protections passed. The proposal being reviewed by the City’s Human Rights Commissionis notperfect - because of the ordinance the proposal amends does not affect pfivate emp!oyers, many cases of job discrimination would not be covered. But it would cover those who do contractual business with the City and it could cover the City’s own practices, and therefore, .is of symbolic importance. We’ve gotten a good start on ¯ this issue. Shawn Hayes, Nate Mattingly, Alice Jones andmost of the bar owners deserve praise for organizing info: _rallie~s .f.or these publichearings. Mostto,lKs I’ve spokenwith, can’trememoer when something like this has happenedbefore. It’s a great start. However, these hearings, no matter, how nasty & meanspirited, they’ve been are only skirmishes. Assuming that the HumanRights Commission does me that the anti-Gay folk have -only proved the need for protection with all their lies & propaganda), the real batde is at the City Council. And we just don’t have enough friends there right now. Of the,me councilors, we haveonelikely ’yes’ vote, abunch of ’maybe’s’ and some pretty likely ’no’s.’ Robert Nelson and Robert Gardner have stated their opposition in print. John Benja~ in is thought nnlikely to be supportive by those who know him. Darla Hall has indicated to Gay constituents that she is unlikely to vote ’yes,’ as has now James Hogue. You all can count as well as I can. :Ifyoucare evenjust the tiniest bit,#easegetinvolved. Call your council person. Call all the councilors. Talk to your friends because what each of us does really can add up. Get involved. Go to aTOHR meeting. Maybe if ’we work hard enough, weal get it through the council. If not, we must keep hope alive and begin preparing for City Council elections only L e.t te r s As most people know, a lot of mengo to the parks and have sex with other men. Many of these men are married and do not identify as being Gay or Bi~ sexual. Because they don’t idendfy as being partof Gay society, they don’t go to bars~ and therefore, don’t have access to literature on HIV/AIDS, and probably don’t realize the extremely high risk they are putting themselves in._ This is a population that needs to be reached and educated about the realities of HIV/AIDS. My JwOb includes this outreach. I am ritinginhopes that anyone who would beinterested in doing this kind of outreach will contact me. I have already cleared this with the Tulsa Police. I have t-shirts for volunteers to use While doing such outreach. I also havea letter from my. executive director and from the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health that affirm the purpose of such outreach. By doing this outreach we are not condoning sex in parks. We are simply acknowledging that it happens and these people need HIV/AIDS educadon. If you are interested in volunteering to do park outreach, please contact me, Brian, at 582- 7225. Obituaries Activist. Brett Tarvin TULSA - HIV/AIDS educator and bar tender Brett Carlos Tarvin died, on May 6 from AIDS,related illness. Only 24, Bfett enriched many lives with his energy, his humor, his passion. Brett worked, with Indian Health Care as an HIV/AIDS educator, atthe Silver Star Saloon and as avolunteerfacilitatorwith Youth Services support group for Lesbian& Gay young adults. He is survived by many loving family members and many ffiends. Tulsa is a poorer place without him. two years away. If the ones in right now, won’t do fight by. us, then there are other candidates, some of whom nearly won just this last time, who wantour votes and who support our civil rights. A final thought: our mayor, Susan Savage, has even now the ¯ authority (and direction from a resolution from the old City Commission) to ban discrimination based on sexual orientation in city hiring. If our Mayor wanted to stop the discrimination that city employees have told her and her staff about, she d issue that order now. No doubt, it’s politically safer not to help Lesbian & Gay people out but it sure does make you wonder if there’s a single politician in the state of Oklahoma who cares about justice and has the courage to do anything about it. Tom Neal, pubi~sher & 9ditor Mayor’s 596-7411 City Council 596-1990 TULSA FAMILY NEW S Publisher/EditOr Assistant Editor Staff Writer Tom Neal James Christjohn Kharma Amos 918-832-0233, POB 4140, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued. on or before the 15th.of each month, the entire contents of this ,publication are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondance is assumed to be for publication Unless otherwise noted and becomesthe sole propertypf TulsaFamilyNews. Al!correspondance should be sent.to the address above. Tulsa Family News is distributed free of charge in local businesses and organizatigns. . , Clubs & Restaurants *The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria *Bad Boys Club, 1.229 S. 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Beal, MD, CAnny Buffer, RN, Theodore Campbell, MSW Phillip Cyr, Gen, Contractor-Cosmetic Remodeling 745-9911 Sandra J. Hill, MS," Psychotherapy, 2865 E.. Skelly 7.45-1111 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Bill Hinlde, Attorney 587-1500 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747-5466 John Kirk, Realtor 747-5800, 745=2245 Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics 832-0233 .....Religious Organizations *Bless The Lord AtAll Tmaes Christian Ctr 2627B E" 11 628-0594 *Community of Hope, 1347 N. Yale 838-7232 *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo 622-1441 Affirmation (Methodist) 742-8213 *MCC of Greater Tnlsa, 1623 N Maplewood 838-1715 Dignity/Integrity 298-4648 *Canterbury Ministry Center, University of Tulsa 583-9780 Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights.PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 I May/June 1994 Volume 14 Number (l . I The views expressed elsewhere in Tulsa. Family News are not necessarily the views ofTOHR. Permission is granted to repdnt information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along with other i items, under the byline, "submitted by TOHR", contained elsewhere in Tulsa Family News. From the President 1. When we make slanderous public comments we are hurting our credibility. A person could have these feelings about their opposition. But there are appropriate places to vent those feelings without damaging our case. 2. Speaking to the point helps educate -the people who will be making these decisions. Gay persons have many life experiences that many if not most heterosexuals aren’t aware of. Sharing these experiences in credible and understandable ways will help them to be more informed. 3. Realizing that some folks will never change their minds about who we are, how we live and what wedo should help us to utilike our energies more effectively. If a person is unreasonably set in their thinking, it probably is something that we cannot --change. -The serenity prayer comes to mind here and leads.to my next-point. 4. It takes courage to speak out publicly, particularly to come out as a gay .person. But without hearing our stories about losing a job or not getting a place to live,, the general public wants to think this discrimination doesn’ t exist. 5. It is important to use language that will be well received, including the terms radical right, gaypeople and basic rights or human rights.- For some of you, these may not be politically correct terms, but they have been attacks on the opposing sides, are terms Which recent polling has found At one forum a streaker referred to "right to have the most favorable appeal to mainwingNazi Christians.’ and another Speaker. stre.am Am~nca~ . . In. other words, ; the mainstream Amenca ts TOHR and it’ s members have taken a very active role in the recent events surrounding the proposed amendment to city ordinances tO include sexual orientation in all non-discrimination sections. Our community has really rallied around the issue and I think its impbitant t6 fiote many other organized efforts as well as our own. Particularly evident in awareness raising and at. the public forums have been PFLAG, MCC, the gay bar owners coalition and the League ofWomen Voters. It’ s inevitable to leave persons out of a list of thank yous and I won’t undertake an exhaustive list. But I personally appreciate the efforts of each person who has either spoken at the forums or simply, been present .to be portive. There are so many people in Tulsa who are supportive ofus and I feel it isimportant that they. be recognized. As we fight this battle for our basic human rights, many hurtful and inflammatbry remarks have been made, both by those for and those against the proposal. Which leads me to ponder, what purpose do these comments serve? This is a very emotional issue on both sides. Much ofthe public commentary has not been focused on the proposals but tion? The proposals deal with human rights,- -.;a~. m.ore e The right for a person to do his or her job amy t and be judged on the merits of their work racial struggles): While some of this may be difficult for you to accept, it is clear that the way wepackage our message is vitally important to winning these battles. This battle is far from over. After the human rights commission votes on the report, probably in their Ju~.e meeting, it will then be up tothe Mayor and City Council performance. The fight for personsto rent an apartment. The right for persons to be served in a restaurant or other public accommodation. The issue here is basic rights folks, not Nazis and feces. To effectively advance our issues and to be successful, there are several things I think are important to note. to decide what action they want to take on the reports recommendations. It is very important, let me relY_,at very important that you make your feelings known to both of them. Write letters, make phone calls, set up appointments to make personal visits with l~oth the Mayor’ s office and your City Councilor. Let them know how you have been discriminated against and why these proposed changes are necessary. Your actions will make a differenc!! by Kelly Kirby 1994 TOHR Follies The Annual TOHR Follies will be held in conjunction with other Gay Pride events Friday, June 17th at 9 pm at the Silver Star Saloon, 1565 S. Sheridan. "’This year’ s show will offer a fresh look at local talent including singers, dancers, musicians-and comics," said this year’ s follies director, Ric Kirby. "We are giving the annual show a boost with a new location and incredible acts. Tulsa has excellent talent and we are proud to have them performing for us in what we hope will be the best FOLLIES ever." Jun.e Meeting WET CAN YOU GET." The pool party and social will begin at 6:30 and all members are asked to bring a swimsuit, towel, and a potluck dish. BYOL or BYOB. Pop and ice will be -provided. Old and new members are welcome. Call 747-4125 to R.S.V.P. Show off your svelte swimmer’ s body or]ust shoW up. Membership Application Name Address city Sta~ Z~p Phone (optional) Signature O Yes l want tO be a contributing member of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Please accept, payment as described below:. O $10 Limited Income/Student Membe~fip [21 $20 Regular Membership l-I $35 Organizational./Household Membership ~ $100 Sustaining Membership Iamctm~lym:eivingTOHR mailings and the T.lsa Family News I am not on the mailing list I would like to volunteer help with: Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual HelpLine. HIV Counselor Executive Board Member Event Planning and Party Preparations Monthly Meeting Support Make check payable to Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Donations cofi~ib’uted tb TOHR over set membership fee~ are Tax Deductible. Mem bers’ Representatives Kelly Kirby .., ...........................:..... President RiC Kirby .......................... Is! ~ic~.]~fident Kathleen Golden ............... 2nd~yice Pres!dent Rb~rt Crow. ~:,;.:~.~.,.::.J~=~.:..~.~:~::..;..~::.: sg~ta~j ..... Don.........:.......~,.,,.: ............. 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Anti-Gay Forces in Wisconsin MILWAUKEE- A group known as Wisconsin Christians United says it will launch abroad campaigh called "Project Resist & Restore’"to fight gay rights in the state. Ralph Ovadal, head of WCU, said the campaign intends to "resist the homqsexual agenda and restore decency and sanity to our public policy here in Wisconsin and to our governing institutions." He said the group would raise funds to purchase and distribute :"The Homosexual Agenda," an anti:gay film; publish a statewide newspaper "ex-. posing homosexuality," and in: troduce legislation to remove all sexual orientationlanguagefrom State laws. PBS Won’t Fund "More Tales of the City" SAN FRANCISCO ~ The Public Broadcasting System has dropped plans to contribute any financial support for the production of ’‘More Tales of the City," a s.equel to the popular mini-. series based on Armistead Maupin’s ’‘Tales of the City" books. Britain’ s Channel.. 4, whichunderwrote nearly all the productioncos.ts ofthefirstmini: stiles, had expectedPBS,to un- " derwrite about half tile costs of the sequel becauseof the enormous popularity of’Tales"when it aired in the U.S. on most PBSTV stationsin January. Donald Wildmon of the Tupelo, Miss.- based American Family Assn. and a long-time critic of American television, in March urged members of his group to protest the use of U.S. tax funds for the mini-series. A PBS spokespcrson told the San Francisco Chronicle that it had dropped plans to fund "More Tales of the City" because of ~"budgetary reasons," not because of pressure from conservative ann-gay groups. But Maupin told the Chronicle, "For them (PBS) to deny that they’re running scared at this point is preposterous, because I think that’s exactly what they’re doing." Alan Poul, who produced ’‘Tales of theCity" in Los Angeles and San Francisco, said he expects Britain’s Chaunt 4 to look for new U.S. financial partners for the sequel. Others May Take on ’More Tales’ BOSTON - According to Variety, the entertainment magazine; Boston’s WGBH public broad, casting station has been talking with other major PBS affiliates around the U.S. about the possibility ofjointly funding produc,; lion of"More Tales of the City, . a proposed sequel to the popular British mini -series that aired on PBS early this year. PBS has backed out of co-funding the sequel, reportedly because of pressure from anti-gay far-right religious groups that found the series offensive. ’‘Tal~s" garnered enormous ratings in most major TV markets when it first aired on PBS in January. Lutherans Back Minister FRESNO, Calif., Delegates at the Evangelical Lutheran Church ofAmerica annual nafonal conference voted in favor of a resolution supporting an openly gay Lutheran minister and his church, even though the minis: ter has technically b~en defrocked by a retiring bishop. Outgoing. Bishop Lyle Miller defrocked the Rev. Ross Merkel ofSt. Paul’ s Lutheran Church in Oakland, Calif., for "conduct incompatible with the character of the ministerial office" after Merkel came out to his congregation last year by introducing them to the man he described as his "partner in a c0mmitted relationship." The congregation at St. Paul’s has, however, steadfasfly stood byMerkel as their pastor, and the ELCA resolution underscores the growing conflict in many denominations between more conservative, orthodox members of the clerical hierarchy and a grassroots movement toward greater liberalization in .many churches. Anti.Gay iMeasure in Oregon Tossed Out SALEM, Qre, 7iMari,on County: (0~egon) cireiii.t: -c0urt~:3~idge. .Rtdney Miller has niled that a proposed statewide anti,gayballot measure is unconstitutional: on technical grounds. Judge Miller ruled that the pro- .posedinitiative, which wouldbar any government agency from granting minority status to homosexuals, restrict school .and library information abOuthomosextiality, bar state funds to "promote" homosexuality, and restrict public employment of gays and lesbians, violates the state constituti0nal, requirement that ballot measures be.limited to a single subject. In barring the ballot measure, backed.by the Oregon Citizens Alliance, Judge Milleralso saiditwas sufficiently broad that it in fact would be an attempt to revise instead of merely amend the state constitution. Charles Hinlde, an ACLU attorneywho argued against the OCA measure, said; "The purpose of the single-subject rule is to protect the integrity of the mitiafve process from measures that attempt to misleadthe voters. The OCA refuses to follow these basic rules." An attorney " fortheOCAsaidthegroupwould probably seek an emergency appeal to overtumJudgelVlhler s decision. Julie Davis,.a spokeswoman for Support. Our Communi. ties PAC, the group fighting to defeatthe OCA proposed measure, Said: "While today we can celebrate avictory, we must remember, this ruling is otily, basedonatechnicality.TheOCA will continue its attempt to impose its discriminatory ideas on the people of Oregon. We are relievedtodaygbutrecognize this is but onestep in a very long fight to create a state where the - fights of all citizens are held Sacred and cannot be threatened by radical groups like the OCA." Russians Try to Marry MOSCOW-KarmemBruyeva, director of one of Moscow’s Wedding Palaces (as the Russian marriage registries are known), _politely told Robert Filippini, .an American’artist, and Yaroslav Mogutin, a Russian reporter, "I cannot register your union because the law specifies marriage as a voluntary union between a man and a woman,". as scores of reporters from the city’s international press corps stood by. "I amreally sorry;" she t01d the two men. Brny~va sug~ gested that. *Filippini and. Mogptin, bdieved-~ be the first s~-coupf~inthe~fioh .~ to l~gally~,a~k the Riis~ sihnPa~lia~ent: t0amend the law" and then askb.d the bevy of journalists who had come to cover thehighly publicizedevent how many of them thought the laws shoul,d be changed to allow same-sex couples to marry. Filippini, a 41-year-old artist from New York, met Mogutin during a visit to Russia a little over ayear ago and the two have lived together in Moscow since January. Bothmen saidthey were not surprised that their attempt to register their relationship:had failed, but said it was imp(3rtant to make the attempt. "What we did was an actaimed at stressing growing- U.S.-RuSsian friendship, Mogutin told reporters following the,rejection of their ap plication. It is also a protesf against any form of sexism. The main thihgis to draw attention to the difficulties of homosexuals 2630 East 15th 749-1563 Dart Tournament, Tuesdays, 8 pm Pooi Tournament, Fridays, 7:30 EverY Friday. at 10:30, SHOW! in Russia, protest the polities of sexism and demonstrate the solidity ofRussian-American ties." Brits OK Gay Military Sex LONDON -The British House of Con~mons has voted to remove any criminal penalties involving homosexual acts in the nation~smilitaryforces,although British gay and lesbian .soldiers can still bedischarged from.the " services because of their sexual Orientation. The legislation, which som~-British rights activists labeled ’.’CanDo,Can-’tTell still must win the approval of the House of Lords where it is unlikely to be rejected, despite many of the Lords opposition. Roger Goode ofthe English gay rights group Stonewall said, the change wouldn’t change much for.gays andlesbians in thearmed forces "because they could still be discharged for being gay. "However, itis progress," Goode added, ?because it should now mean an end to the cruel and humiliating investigation procedures of gathering bodily eviden- ce to prosecute men on charges of being gaY in the forces." Calif. Councilwoman Recalled Over ~emarks SAN JOSE, Calif. - Voters in San Jose, Calif., made a strong statement againstdivisiveness by recalling Kathy Cole, an embattled 1st term:black city councilwoman who came .under fire for videotaped remarks:last year -at an~Pffric~an-~meri(!ati !1eader,-~ ship conference sayinggays and° As.ian~AmericanS get preferential treatmentfrom city-hall and comparing Hispanics to-"little pit bulls." A coalition of gay, black, Hispanic, Asian-American and white San Jose residents launched the recall Campaign, and voters decided by a 59%- 41% margin to remove Cole, the firstmember of the City Council ever to be.removed from office. CA Court Rejects Lesbian Custody Case SAN FRANCISCO - The California Supreme Court voted 6-0 not to review Mower court decision to prohibit visitation rights by alesbian Who helped raise her lover;s child..After the two women, identified only as Georgia P. and. Kerry P., broke up, Georgia sued the child’s birth mother, Kerry, in an attempt to enforce an agreement.they had signed that ~gave bOth women parental rights. A s.tate .court in January, however,.~nA!..€:~ that the agreement had-no legal standing paanrdentthaal.t Griegohrtgsia~Po.nhcaedrnnionglegthael child, now 8 years old.:.The state high court declined to review the lower court decision. Camp Sister Spirit SAN FRANCISCO ~:°Lesbians andgay men in the San Francisco Bay Area as of:mid,April had contributed more than $10,000 to support theembattled women who have:started-a lesbian- feminist camp in rural Mississippi. Camp Sister Spirit in OveR, Mi’ss., has l~en:tmder fire from anti-gay forces in,the rural community since word Of the retreat became-.l~aown ’l’as t year. ’~I feel more e.mj~0~r~d;~"Sister Spiritco-found~BrendaH~nstn s~id during a ~si~ here lastweek ....to~ICh-ov~led~fli~Support the womenatthecamphayeregeived from ?the region:~’J~st~to known that you’ve got that ~uppott- we needed that," she said. TheCamp Sister Spirit Defense Fund brought Brenda and Wanda Henson, who run the rural re- See News Briefs, page 6 r 3404 S. Peoria, Suite 1 (30 ~ulsa, OK 74105 . (918) 744-9595 1-800-933-9595 ¯ Full Se~ice Flodst ¯ Contemporary & Custom Design- , WorldwideDelivery.. Located in Brookside One Block South of ¯ Distinctively Different ¯ Superior Quality ¯ A Professional Staff YOU SAVE! Purchase little as .$’L99 10AM-10PM MONDAYTHRU SATURDAY, N00N-8PM SUNDAY BEST SOUND IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD! 1338:E;~ST 15TH STREET ~,583-1572: ~",’- . ..... ~.- -. - News Briefs News Briefs News. Briefs News .Briefs.News Briefs News Briefs News Asylum for Gay Mexican SAN FRANCISCO-In its most unmistakable indicator to date that oppressed gays and lesbians may qualify for political sanctuary, the U.S. Immigration and Naturalization Service has granted asylum to a gay Mexican citizen who said his life would be endangered ifhe were returned to his native country. Officials at INS headquarters in WashingtOn authorized the asylum status On Mar. 18, extending political refugee status tothe man, known by the fictitious name of, Jose Garcia, who convincedimmigration officials that he has ~ifff~fetF"unspeakable degradatifns" ’iii :his homeland becauseofhis sexual orientation. Garcia’s attorney, Ron Silberstein, announced the INS decision in San Francisco on Mar. 24, saying his client’s case appears to .be. the first that the government has-accepted as of- ~ ficial oppression based on homosexuality. "We.hope that the INS decision will serve as a wake-up~ for government all over theworld that persecution on account of someone’s sexual orientation is. unacceptable," Sflbersteinsaid at a press con-. ferenceannouncing the decree. Garcia, who refused to be pho~ tographed out ~of concerns forhis personal safety, said he was "deeplygrateful to the INS" for its decision, ,The Mexicaq police, on numerous occasions. arrested me solely because I was gay," Garcia saidin a written statement: "’They accusedme of committing bogus crimes. They extorted money from me. On one occasion [as a teenin 1976], they raped me. As a gay man in Mexico, life was made intolerable for me." But it is unclear exactly what the recent INSdecision acmally means in terms of gay and lesbian refugees seeking asylum in. fli~ U.s. In a news statement, INS spokesmanDuke Austin said the decision was made because of the "specific and unique circumstances, of Garcia’s case. "This does not mean that homosexuals in Mexico are persecuted,, Austin atd, q~his means that this individual, due to the facts and circumstances, convinced.an asylum officer that he has.a wellfounded fear of persecution that would justify asylum. It only relates ~o him.It doesn’t-relate to a class of people." MCC Destroyed by Fire SACRAMENTO, Calif. - The Sacramento Metropolitan Community Church burned late Sunday evening~ Mar. 27, while the prdd0minately gay and lesbian religious group was in the midst of party relocating to a new facility. Fire officials are treating the blaze as "suspicious." The fire broke out on the roof of the building between 11 pm; ¯when MCC officers and volunteers quit working for the night, and midnight. In addition to most of MCC’s records, a 10,000-book library housed at the church was also totally lost in the fire. There were no injuries reported in counection with the blaze. TV Ads with Gay Couple PLYMOUTH MEETING, Penna. - Ikea, a Swedish-based, international home furnishing chain began airing4n~w TV ads in’its ~Lifestages" advertising campaagn~ that includes a gay male couple discussing their purchase of a dining-room table, among other non:traditional family relationships portrayed in the commercials.,"We’re pro, filing the diverse lifesty!es and lifestages to reflect what s common to all of us: commitment to a relationship, the importance of family, and making a house a home,, said Peter Connolly, Ikea’s marketing director. The 3% Down Conventional Loans Free Seminars Tulsa.Garden Center 1 Year ARM 4.375 Owen’s Park 2435 S. Peoria 560 N. 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Court Upholds Boy Scout Ban LOS ANGELES - The California Appeals Court has ruled that the Boy Scouts of America are° not a business under state law and as such are not required to allow an openly gay man to become a troop leader. The court said that although anti=gay discrimination by businesses is illegal under state law, that law does not apply to the Scouts and other charitable groups are exempt for the law’s provisions. The court said the Scouts are guaranteed freedom of association under the Constitution and cannot be compelled to accept individuals whdm they consider contrary to their principles.. Timothy Curra~, a fdrmer: ~a.gle Scout wh6 has’-sued theSc0uts after he was not allowed to become a troop leader in 1980 because heis openly gay, was stunned by the court ruling. "I can be just as much of a role model, regardless of my sexual orientation, as anyone else," he said. "I think that people need to judge me by actions and the things I do."A Scout spokesman said the youth group isn’t "dis: Criminating but rather differenflaring’.’ based on moral principles. Jon Davidson, anACLU attorney representing Curran, however, said the court decision "overturns decades of state law" prohibiting discrimination. Davidson said he would ask for a rehearing and would appeat to the state Supreme Court if necessary. Gay Rights in Japan TOKYO - District Court Judge Toshiald Harada has ruled that the Tokyo city government refused to let Japan’s largest gay rights .group, ,OCCUR,.use the overnight facilities at a government~ run lodge in 1990. The court found, i~ the first ruling of its kind in the country, that the Tokyo city.government illegally discriminated against OCCUR members because of their,sexual orientation and ordered the government to pay the gay rights group the equivalent of $2,0~0. Rush’s Military Career (Not!) WASHINGTON - The Washington Post has revealed that America’s favorite orange-juice poster boy Rush I Jmbaugh, who regularly blasts PresidentClinton for "dodging" the draft during the Vietnam War, himself ducked military service during that tumultuous period. According to Post reporter David Remnick, Limbaugh got a 1-Y exemption during Vietnam for, of all things, having an ingrown hair onhis backside - animageto contend with. Despite his own service-ducking, Limbaugh, a Southeast Missouri State dropout who managed to graduate instead from the Dallas-based Elkins Institute of Radio and Technology, has gotten a lot of mileageout of his super-patriot posturing by belittling Clinton (and anyone else to the. left of Genghis Khan) for not joining up to fight for Truth, Justice and the An~erican Way. Remnick ¯ also notes S~me other outstand: ,. ing fightiSii-¢ ciiicken hawks?(asi he describes .war wimps with no military service who nevertheless bristle at other people’s lack Of military trainihg). Among them: DanQuayle, George Will,. Newt Gingrieh, Sylvester Stallone, Pat Buchanan and Ronald Reagan.Hey, we’ll drink to a crew like that. Pass that apple juice, would ya? Limbaugh-Od Update NEWYORK - A spokesperson for theFlorida Citrus C~inmission has told Advertising Age" that ithas received 6,341 complaints .and 5,265 expressions of support for its decision to use arch-conservative talkshow host Rush rimbaugh as a spokesman. "’We’re still using Mr. I imbaugh, although we continue to review the situation,’" the commission spokesperson said. Meanwhile, citrus consumption is reportedly down 6% compared tO the same period last’year, butcommission officials say there’s no counec- - Puppy Pause-II - All Breeds Dog Grooming l!th & Mingo, 838-7626 Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. Call for Appointments Walk-ins Also Welcome. i InNo nn ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Im ¯ am ¯ ¯ nn’n ¯ in ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ tion with Limbaugh’s role. PBS Station Offers ~ Partnership Benefits SANFRANCISCO-KQED,the Public Broadcasting Service station in San Francisco says it will extend health insurance benefits to the partners of its employees effective May 1. To obtain the benefits, workers at the station must sign a confidential affidavit of their domestic partner relationship. Nevada Pols Oppose Anti=Gay Initiative RENt - Nevada Gov. Bob Miller, Rent Mayor Pete Sferrazza and Democratic con: gressional candidate Jim Spot all spoke at a rally in Reno to oppose a proposed initiative by theNevadaCitizens Alliance that would amend the state constitution to-bar minority status for gays, lesbians and bisexuals. "This petition isn’t just repugnant and negative for gays and lesbians," Miller is quoted as saying, "it’s a threat to everyone in Nevada. It goes against the basic premise of all religions and is designed to divide us and to instill hatred and intoleranceT’ NGLTF on Justice Harry Blackmun’s Retirement WASHINGTON ~- As Justice Harry,Blackmun announced his retirementfromthe U.S. Supreme Court today, the Nationa) Gay and .Lesbian: Ta~k Forc~ .(NGLTF~ p~ifi~ed’his ~agsitiiate defense ~of the right to privacy during his 24 years of service to the nation. Justice Blackmun’s eloqu,ence in defense of the right to privacy extended beyond his landmarkopinioninRoev. Wade to his forceful dissent in Bowers ¯ v. Hardwick, in which the Supreme Court denied that a fundamental right to consensual sexual intimacy between two adults of ¯ the same sex exists. In his dissenting opinion "in Bowers v. Hardwick, Justice Blackmun cited a previous case and wrote, "...This case is about ’the most comprehensive of rights and the right most valued by civilized men,’ namely, ’the d~lat to be let ne....uepnvmg individuals of the right to choose for themselves how to conduct their intimate relationships poses a far greater threat to the values most deeply rooted in our Nation’s history than tolerance of nonconformity could ever do. Because the Court today betrays those values, I dissent," he wrote. As Justtce Jackson wrote so eloquently," Blacklnun added, ’"Freedom to differ is not limited to things that do not matter much. That would be a mere shadow of freedom. The test of its substance is the right to differ asto things that touch the heart of the existing order.’" "Administration officials have discussed the need to ensure that the next Supreme Court appointee is ’able to build consensus on the Court" noted NGLTF Executive.Direc-, News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs ,News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Continuedfrom page 5 treat, to the Bay Area to talk aboutthe trouble thewomenhave had in the tiny community of Ovett that has exploded into a national issue for gay rights activists. Contributions to the taxexemptbrganizationcanbemade directly to: Camp SisterSpirit, PO Box 12, oveit; Mississippi 39464. Gay Asian:Americans to be in SF Festival. SAN FRANCISCO-~ Some 100 membersof the Gay Asian Pacific A~ance, the.Asian!Pacific Sisters, and the Older Asian Sisters in Solidarity will participate in th~’--amiii~il"~San Francisco Cherry:Bloss6i~l’Festival Parade this-yearlslated for Sunday, Apr. 24. Iris thefirst time gay ahd lesbian groups have marched in the Cherry Blossom Parade here, and is believed to be one.of the f’Lrst-ifnotthein’st- tojoinin the celebrations in the country. The marchers will also have an accom, p,anying float carrying 1993 s Mr. & Miss GAPA as well as alavender Godzilla: LongOistance Carriers Fight Over Gay Market BOSTON- The Boston Globe reports that the fight between long-distance carriers Tram Na= tional Inc., Wlfi.’ch operates the new..=. Pride .=Network, and CommunitySpirit in_ Chicago, ownextb~i(3V~!~x)ked-Opinions, for lesbian and gay phone customers has now gone to U.S. Federal Court in Boston. Trans National filed for an injlmc.tion to prohibit Overlooked Opinions from switching Pride Network customersto CommtmitySpirit without the consent of the customers - apracticeknown among long-distance carriers as "slamming?’ Trans National had provided CommunitySpirit customers With l_ong-distance set: viceunti! !ast year when the two firms became embroiled ina dispute. and then set .themselves in ~lirectcompetition for the gay andlesbianmarket this past February when CommunitySpirit terminatedits conWactwithTrans National. The two firms have been locked in a bitter campaign of charges and counter:charges against each other .since then in the complicated case. Chicago Ares Village Adds Partners Benefits CHICAGO - The Chicago region village ofOak Parkbecame the first in illinois to extend benefits to city workers with samesex parmers by a unanimous 7-0 vote Tuesday, April 19, following. 5 hou!gs of often heated.public testimony and a full hour by the village trustees. The board reject by a 4-3 vote, however, a compamon amendment that would have granted the same benefits to unmarried Oppositesex couples~ and by the same 4- 3 vote turned down a measure that would have set up a partners’ registration procedure for village residents. Georgia County Tries to Mute Anti-Gay Stance ATLANTA-Commissioners in Cobb County,Ga., said gays and lesbians would be welcome in the county when part of the 1996 Olympic Games arc slated to,be held where the Same officials only a year ago had condemned the "gay lifestyle:" BillByme, chairman Of the County Commission, issueda proclamation stating the county would welcome "all athletes and visitors " from all participating countries, without discrimination." The 1996 summer games;s volleyball events are slated to be held in the Atlanta suburban county, andgay rights activists have.b~e,n pressuring the host orgamzang Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games to move them from Cobb County because of (he commissioners’ anti-gay actions last year that declared the "homosextml lifestyle" was "incompatible with the standards to which ,this community subscribes.’ Byrne rather soured even this minor move toward improving the county’s recent anti-gay rhetoric, however, by casually saying thatneo-Naziand skinhead protesters were also welcome. Atlanta Benefits Lost? ATLANTA - The Atlanta Constitution reports that Fulton County Superior Court Judge Isaac Jenrette.has declared Atlanta’s domestic partner) registration measure unconsu-; tutionai. The paper reports that" Jenrette ruled that"the domestic partnership ordinance was outside[ Atlanta s] authority under the municipal home rule act" and the state’s constitution. City Officials immediately said they would appeal the ruling to the Georgia Supreme Court. N.H. KillsGay Rights Law CONCORD, N.H. - The New Hampshire Senate rejected a proposed statewide gay rights law by a vote of 13-10 against, effectively killing the measure during the current legislative session. Disappointed lesbian/ gay rights activists say they will try again toget the law through the next!egislature. NM Univ. Gives Benefits ALBUQUERQUE-According to a new policy at the school, employees and faculty at the University of New Medic6 will be eligible to get health insurance and other benefits for their domestic partners. The:new benefits program extends to the partners of gay and lesbian employees the same benefits now available tothe spouses of mar: ried workers at the school. Coach Sues Baptist U. over AIDS Firing ~RALEIGH, N.C. - A Baptistrun Campbell University gym coach has filed a lawsuit under the Americans with Disabilities Act because the religious school fired him when it discovered he has AIDS. The "John Doe" suit was fried after the federal Equal Employment Opportunity Commission investigated Doe’s complain last year. The EEOCis also seeking to enjoin the umversity from fm-the~ bias against campus employees infectedwith HIV. The-university !earned of Doe’s illness when he took time off last year becanse ofa bout of AIDS:related pneumonia. Officials with the school declined to comment on the lawsuit. Coast Guard BarsBias WASHINGTON - The Coast Guard issued a revised directive clarifying anti-bias protections to gay and lesbian civilian workers after it decided an earlier policy statement was vague enough that it could appear to include military personnel as well. 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Each year since 1974, a Gay and Lesbian Civil Rights Bill has been introduced, but each time died in committee. "We will effectively communicate to ithe American people the tigly reality Ofdiscrimination that gay people face,everyday and h0wit negatively impacts the entire country," said PeriJude Radecic, NGLTF’s Executive Director. Radecic and MeFeeley also noted the.value ofeducating the public about anti-gay bias during the critical 1994 election cycle, duringwhichup to 9 states are facing anti-gay ballot measures. A broad-based coalition of organizations led by the Leadership Conference on Civil Rights, NGLTF and HRCF is forming to organize support for the bill. Marriage from page 1 would prohibit same-sex marriages in the state. Both bills passed by substantial margins and define marriage as-a legal relationship specificallybetween a male and a female. The differ~ ences between the two measures are largely technical complexities. The senate-house conference committee must complete its work by the end_of April " Summit from page 1 according to income. Volunteers areneeded to assist in planning, conference staffing, and Child and adolescent care. Information on becoming involved willb~available-atbooths set up at various community events throughoutMay and June and will appear in gay publications. The nextplanning meeting for the Summit will beheld on May 19, in Stroud, and -all those interested are invited to participate. For more-information on this meeting, or on volunteering or registering for the Oklahoma Pride Snmmit, phone Herland Sister Resources at (405) 521- 9696, or Oklahoma Gay and Lesbianpolitical Caucus at (405) 791-0202. Hogue from page 1 When asked if he had reached any conclusions, Councilor Hogue replied, ’~the report (issuedby th~ commitfee) is ajoke." He believes the report to be ’totally biased and not representative of all the cOmmunity." Whenaskedif anythingwould persuadehim to supportiLHogue responded, "I doubt it." Lesbian Support Group Forming For more information, call TRy Clare at 587-4669. Hearings o el " Military Update the 2-minute ttme ~ln~t ~gu~r- _h .=11~-- n,--n, €~, ~gh~ng ch~erson, D~s ~u.......v......... their legM chMlenge to the Neill to have library security officers to escort speakers away. Onesuchincident’ocenrredwhen perennial Tulsa political candidate, Virginia Jenner spoke in favor of the proposed ordinance change wliile promoting her latest campaign. At both hearings so far, more have spoken against the proposal than in favor. MOSt of the ~rguments are variationson religious objections,.usually by indiViduals who .identify themselves as evangelicalChriStians.. However, representatives of the E. Okla. Presbyterian Synod and the Society of Friends (Quaker) spoke in favor as did the president of the Tulsa chapter of the League of Women Voters. Speakers from.PFLAG, Parents, Family & Friends of Lesbians & Gays spoke in support, in particular, Pat Padgett, Judy Crumrine, & Joe McDonald:The Rev. Alice Jones of the Metropolitan Community Church of Greater Tulsa testified as did Shawn Hayes and Nate Matting!y. Mr. Hayes and Mr. Mattingly Were largely respon, sible, with,assistance from JD Jamett &others, for the unprecedented rallies suppol~ted by almost all Tulsa bar owners to inform Community members about the hearings & to encourage attendance. . WASHINGTON -Justice Dept. attorneys began arguing, their defense of the Pentagon s 50- year ban against homosexuals, even though PreSident Clinton supported ending the ban. A 51- page brief filed by. gove,mment lawyers with the Federal Court ofAppeals Contends the anti-- Pentagon’s new "don’task, don’t tell" policy is is decided, saying there is "serious question" about Whether the new policy oversteps the military’s claimed interests in preserving morale and good order. U.S: District Court JudgeEugeneNickersonorde_~ the Department of Defense not gaypo!icy"pre~ents homosexual to investigate or discharge the 6 . : acts that wouldinterfere withthe Soldiers ~liile their constitutional . military missjon,.and.i~s ."ratio- challenge to. the new. policy is nally related-to the vital military still pending. Two of.the service goal of maintaining .unit cohe~ members areon active duty and sion.’ TheJustie~. Dept.brief 4 are in reserve.units. In a urged the full appeal court to lengthy ruling, Judge Nickerson, reviewa 3-judge appeals court ruling that struck down the old -Pentagon ban in November in the.case involving Joe steffan, a former Naval Academy midshipman discharged in 1987 after he. said he was gay. Even tho,u,gh the new "don’t ask, don’t tell policy is not directly at issue in the Steffan case, the brief notes that COngress recently passed legislation codifying the new policy, and affirming the Pentagon’s reasoning, behind both the old and the new policy. Judge: ’Serious Question’ About New Pentagon Policy .raised doubts abo~t:~e basis of the new, comply5 ..policy, enacted by Congress !a~t year after President Clinton said he would lift the 50-year:old ban on gays andlesbians inthemi,li :.t~ry. Judge Nickerson also .questioned whetherthe new .policy in fact extendsany greater.protections m homosexuals m~th.e,military than the old policy.of blanket exclusion did. ’q’here is a serious questionas to whether a regulation goe~s_~eyond what is reasonably .0gge~.mX¢~.~o protect any possible government interest," the judge~wrote; "when it inhibits six service members from continuiitg to Speakin court :rl NEW YORK - A Federal Dis~ triet Courtjudgehas ruled that 6 service members :~5:gay men and 1 lesbiae , fn’ ds; PROJECT REACH llivd T: O.pm Thursday - 622-1441 lookfor usat our 5451-E So. Mingo Tulsa Family News, May -:;!une 1994, page 7 Health Briefs Health, Briefs Health Briefs betes, coronary disease or Other medical Conditions. AIDS and gay rights activists say Doman is just grandstan.,ding as the elections comeup. "It s election time, and Bob Doman will say whatever he needs to whip up.his homophobic, AIDS-phobic supporters," said Jieff LeTourneau of the Orafige County (Calif.) Visibility Leagtie: "’He’s a Cold Warrior who doesn’ t have a Cold War to fight anymore, so he’s picking on marginalized people." ’Newsweek’ on Deathi Futures WASHINGTON- Am article~n the Mar. 25 issue of Newsweek deals with "Living Benefits," on~e of at least 50 investment grougs offering "deathfutures" to AIDS patients. Technically called "viatical settlements," a terminally ill patient names the company as sole beneficiaryofhis or her life insurance policy; in return, the company pays the patient a portion of the benefits. When the patient dies, the cam- Health Briefs Health .Briefs Health Briefs Legislator Wants HIV+Soldiers Booted SANTA ANA, Calif. - Ultraconservative U.S. Rep. Robert Doruan (R-Calif.) has called on the Department of Defense to discharge some 1,400 service personnel who have tested posifive for HIV. Testifyingbefore a. subcommittee of the House Armed Services Committee, Doruan said, "The impact on combat readiness is only beginning -. a nightmare could develop." Dornan said he would introduce legislation to require discharges for. military personnel who are medically unable to be deployed for active duty. A similar bill.by Doman in 1993 failed to win approval. ’According to the Defense Dept., there are 757 members of the Navy, 422in the Army, 164 in the Air Force and97 in the Marine Corps who have tested positive for the virus. DaDalso says there are an additional 2,120 service members who are non-deployable because they have Cancer, die- 1994 DIAMANTE Includes: Dual Air Bags. Power Windows & LOCKS, Classi( tyling With Economical Price Tag. 299Pot MO.* 1994 GALANT ES $750 5.15% Down APR ¯includes Dual A~r Bags. Automat=c Transmission. Air COndlt~on$ng. Power Windows & Door LOCKS, Cr0lse OontroI, 6 SpeaKer AM/FM C’assetle Stereo System and more "59 payments of $199. $18.300 MSRP. sale price $16.764: last " payment of $7320, 15,000 m=les per year free, ,12€ per mile thereafter w.a C don carlton MITSUBISHI 4423 S. Memorial 665-6595 Tulsa Family News, May =.June 1994, page "8 stratus of the HIV virus - a find that he says could yield a vaccine within thenext decade. Sigvard Olofsson, a professor at Gothenburg University claims, ’"We have found the key that fits all locks." That key is a so-called Tn-antigen that was effective against all types of HIV in laboratory experiment.. "In the test tube, this kills all thinkable types of the HIV virus," said Olofsson, who was quoted by Sweden’ s national news agency, TT. "The next step is to test this against reality." According to the report, the professor said that he and Danish colleagues wilt first testthe:vaccine onmonkeys~ then on humans within 5 years, and that a vaccine could be available in 10 years. Hattoy vs. AIDS Chief WASHINGTON - Bob Hattoy, the Clinton administration’s most visible gay rights advocate, criticized AIDS .policy coordinator Kristine Gebbi~ in this month’s premier issue of POZ, a magazine produced by-and for pany redeems the policy for the full amount, thereby making a profit. According to Newsweek, because AIDS is always fatal, such patients are a good risk and business is booming. The largest company-will buy more than $300 million worth of policies this year alone, and investors can rake in as much as 25% profit in a year. According to the magazine’s report, the National Association ofInsurance Commissioners is alarmed at the rapid proliferation of viatical deals, and concerned about po-. tenfial abuse,.andithas proposed preliminary guidelines governing the settlements. Patients would have to be informed exactly how theymightbe affected. Swede Claims Advance Toward AIDS-Vaccine STOCKHOLM - Following a recent declaration by HIV codiscoverer Luc Montagnier that vaccine research has reached a standstill, a Swedish researcher claims to have discovered antibodies which can :destroy al.l BROOKSIDE JEWELRY. 1635 E. 15th Street, 599-8070 Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian & Gay Communities With Pride - Look for our Rainbow Flag people infected with HIV. Hattoy, challenges Gebbie’ s assertion that AIDS is an "educational prbcess." "I wantto say to Gebbie, ’If you think AIDS is an educationalprocess, theneducate yourself, honey! It’s a war and my side’ s dying," Hattoy, who has AIDS, says. He also commented- that Gebbie "doesn’t have a sense of vision or an action plan." There are growing reports that there has been widespread- dissatisfaction with the AIDS office in the gay and AIDS communities, which complain that the office is ineffective and lacking in leadership. Gebbie’ s supporters counter that the 6- month-old office has made significant progress in coordinating the administration’s AIDS efforts, including increased housing programs for AIDS patients and the establishment of an office of AIDS research. HIV & the Deaf Community " WASHINGTON - The Mar. 4 issue of Newsweek contains a frightening article on the virtual ignorance of deaf people in the U.S. about ways to prevent exposure to HIV- and indeed the epidemic itself - because ASL (American Sign Language) and notEnglishis theirfirstlanguage. Deaf activists say English reading levels among the average deaf adult are between 3rd and 8th gr.ade leaving this. community virtually in ~the.dark about ’’The knowledge base is lacking," DonnaLestme, aNewYork social-services counselor, told Newsweek. "With all the ways we have of t,ransmitting infermarion, they re just not receiving it.". But language is only one ofthe problems, the magazine says. The weekly says residen- ’ tial schools for the deaf are more ’~puritanical" than others,leaving many deafpeople lagging behind in the basic knowledge of anatomy, diseases and medicine generally. The magazine also says some scientists believe that IV drug abuse.among the deaf is proportionately higher because of the alienation of the community from the restof the country. To help combat the problems, some 100 activists have been working since 1991 as the National Coalition on HIV and the Deaf Community, working at clinics and in outreach programs for the deaf around the country. AZT - No Help for Asymptomatic Patients LONDON - The British medi~ ealjournal Lancethas published the long-awaited large-scale combined British-French study known as the Concorde Report which concludes that AZT, the most widely used ,AIDS drug, does not prevent fatal oppormnisfic illnesses in people infected with HIV but who remain asymptomatic. The report backs up earlier f’mdings that AZT is of Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health .Bri¯efs Health Briefs little or no value in preventing the onset of AIDS among those already infected. ’q’he results of Concorde do not.encourage the early use of zidovudine (AZT) in symptom-free HIV-infected patients," the team of researchers concluded. AZT has,":how, ever, been.shown to prolong the fives of patients with full,blown AIDS. The Britis~h-based Wellcome PLC, which manufactures AZT worldwide and which participated in the research, refused to sign the final report and has formally rejected the study’s findings. Texas GOP ’Quarantine’ Resolution Draws Fire GALVESTON, Texas - AIDS activists and the county _Democratic Party sharply denounced a .resolution approved by the Galveston County Republican Party calling for a quarantine of people infected with HIV, the virus generally believed to cause AIDS. "Inmyopinion, the whole resolution is Idled with rhetoric, innuendo.and misinformation," Maurisa Bylerly; head of the AIDS Coalition of CoaStal Texas, told the Houston Chronicle. David Jameson, chair of the Galveston County Democratic Party, said the ¯resolution smackedof Nazi Germany.. "It sounds alive told the newspaper, foruia at San Francisco say a a patient’s blood viatubes, heat- HIV Causes Cancers study ofHIV patient longevity~ ingitseveraldegreesabovebedy SAN FRANCISCO- Research- sh0ws infectedindivid_u~al~.s diag- ten~_perature, and re-injecting the ers at the University of Califor- nosed with AIDS are now living " treated.blo0dwhile still warm, nia at San Francisco say they ~ aboutayearlongerthanpatientsl muchlikeakidney dialysis. The have f~t~nd the first evidenc~ didade~deagofl:hestudyfonnd ....treatment, developed in 1990, that-HIV,- the virus generally that between 1983,86 the mebelieved to cause AIDS¯ is also ~frectly linked to certain forms lymphoma or cancer Of the lymphatic system. Although lymphoma is common among people with AIDS¯ it has been assumed that the cancer was an indirect result of the failure.of the body’s immune system to stave off the potentially fatal cancer rather than directly linked to the vires itself. Butin a new dian survival-time was 28:4 monthsfrom the pointwhentheir lymphocyte cell count fell below 200. From 1987-89, the survival time rose to40.1 months from the time of the 200-mark indicator: The Survival time has plateaued at thatlevelfrom 1990- 93. The scientists saythe increaseinlongevityfrom thepoint of the200:inark has not been because of anti-viral drugs like study, theUC-SFresearcherss~ay AZT, but has been the result they have found evidence at the .~ mainly of improved treatments molecular level that the virus is to battle the opporttmistic infec= directly responsible for spawn- tion of pneumocystis carinii ing malignant cells. ’cHriswould pneumonia, the leading.cause of be the first time that any human death for people with AIDS in retrovirus has been implicated this country. in causing cancer like this," said Limited Bloo.d Heat the study’s senior author, Dr. TreatmentTrial OK’d Michael McGrath. "It’ s a totally WASHINGTON - The Baltidifferent perspective of what more Sun reports that the Food HIV can do." The report will be &DrugAdministrationhfis given pubfished in the April 15issueof ¯ a doctor in the U.S. permission the journal Cance¢ Research, to use a controversial bloodpublished by the American As- heating method to treat 6 AIDS sociation for Cancer Research. patients in effort to cure them of S.F. Researchers Cite .the fatal disease.. Dr. Kenneth Increased )r Alonso received notification from the was dismissed at the time by the National ¯Institutes of Health which said’ the patient Alons0 claimedhe cured ofAIDS didn’ t even have the disease but was suffering from "cat scratch fe, ver,, which can produce~similar - although not usually fatal - symptoms, GospelAID ’94 PHILADELPHIA - GospelAID ¯ 94, a musical production featuring leading local and national gospel¯ choirs, as.well as some of the country’s most popular secular voices, is slated for April 30 in Philadelphia: Sponsored by Philadelphia’ s Gospel Music Preservation Alliance in conjunction with ActionAIDS, the extravaganza will be hosted by Tony Award-winning actor James.Earl Jones and will feature some 355 choir singers as well as musicians Grover Washington Jr., Rachelle Ferrell, and Boyz II Men.. Denmark Considei;ing HIV-Sex Crime Bill the Danish Supreme Court overturned the conviction of an HIVpositivemanwhohadbeenfound guilty~by a lower court of reckless endangerment because he had unprotected sex with nearly two-dozen women. Texas Insurer Ordered to Continue Benefits DALLAS - An article in Business Insurance magazine reports a ruling by U.S. District Court Judge Robert Maloney ordering that Fidelity Security Life Insurance Co. must continue to pay medical benefits-to a Texas AIDS patient: even though his. group health insurance policy was canceled. Ac~ordi~ng to the magazine, the company’s master policy dictates that it may ¯cancel group coverage at any time with 60 days’~ notice, but that provision was not included in the certificates issued to individual policyholders. AIDS pa, tient Michael Elder sued Fidelity and Albert H. Wohlers & Co. - the agency which administered the policy - in a bid to keep about $800,000 in medical benefits: Elder contended that, because he was unaware that his policy could be Canceled, he was de-- pending on $1 million in lifetime COPENHAGEN-Danishhealth :ben.efits. Judge Maloney ruled and J"ust"ICe m~,-,~~t,-~-, officia. ls ... agm.nst F.i.d.elity b. eca~ use Texas ¯ n ;;~..~ _~W^:... ......=l.k :, :law reqmres pOhcyholder eer~ illegal f~r pe0plewith Hiv to tificates to include essenttal, m- .... cancella- Jeffery A.BeN, MD Ted Campbell, LCSW Ginny Buffer, RN MS Specialized in HIV Caw: -Providing .Comprehesive Primary Care- Medicine and Psychotherapeutic S.ervices We ¯have :many insurance,provider affiliations -ifyoubelong to. aninsuranceprogram .that does notlist us as providers/ 1560. EaSt2lst: Street, .Suites21-0 -. Window coverings of all types, accessories, silk flowers, rugs, custom upholstery & more -all your interior needs. Wembley Center 7116 South Mince, Suite 102, 254-2100 r Sandra.J, Hill, M.S. Psychotherapy and Clinical Consultation " .. 2865 E. Skelly Drive, Ste. 215 - Tulsa Faraily:News. May.- June1994i,page 9 T H E G A Y Sl~otlight Theatre ’ THEDRUNKARD Ongoing Theatre North READERS THEATRE 6123-25 Theatre Works ROAD TO NIRVANA 619-12 Theatre Tulsa PRELUDETO A KISS 5120-29 Touring WILL ROGERS FOLLIES 5131-615 DALLAS BRASS WITH PETER NERO 587-5030 596-7111 596-7111 596-7111 596,7111 5121 L I F E S T Y L E Theatre-Notes By GeraldMiller, Theatre Tulsa As snmmer approachs, there will be a little lull in the "Theater World" as most of us will be dosing out.this season and diving into preparations for the next one. But-there will still things happening in the summer. The KOTV Spirit of Oldahoma SummerStage ’94 Festival is scheduled through July and into August:The University of Tulsa and the Gilbert& Sullivan Society.will have aJune offering, and TheatrePOPS has plans to re-mountA Mid SummerNight’s Dream again. So its’ not like there won’t be anything happeningthis snmmer. As for Theatre Tulsa wewill be bending efforts toward our SummerStageoffering, And the Worm Goes Round, a musical revue saluting 25 years of Broadway collaborators Kander and Ebb. They produced music andlyricsforthelikes ofCabaret, Kiss of the Spider Woman, and New York, New York and the list goes on and on.. So when its’ really hot and sticky this summer, join us for a cool and relaxed evening ofpure Broadway Music. Prelude to a Kiss by Craig Lucas is our season closer. I understand this show will be previewed elsewhere in this issue. But I still want to invite anyone interested in seeing more contemporary works onTulsa stages to attend. Theatre Tulsais taking. a chance on this production because of its adult themes/language and we need audience support if this kind of show is to be a regular part of future seasons. We also are looking for new and different-ways to promote Theatre Tulsa. If you have suggestions, please forward them to me. We have developed a card listing our 1994 - 1995 season, an individual adult ticket discount and a #ace for your business card. Give me a call at 587- 8402 if you think this would be effective for you. Dance Center DANCE RECITAL 6/25 596-7111 PAC Ttust PIANO RECITAL 6/10-11 Broken Arrow CAROSEL 6116-26 596-7111 258-0077 MCtropolitar(Community Church of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday service, 10:45 am Wednesday service, 6’.30 pm Home Cell Groups, 2nd & 4th Sundays, 6:00 pm. 1623 N. Maolewood Phone: Tulsa. OK 74115 (918) 838-1 715 Tu!sa’s OldestTheater Co. Presents Play With Gay-Relevant Message By James Christjohn The theme of Prelude to a Kiss is that love is love, no matter what form the participants take. It speaks to the underlying prejudices that weall face in our Or is it? He struggles to live a more gay theatre in Tulsa, we lie trapped in ber body; married need to support shows that are a to a man; and she has to de~l with step in that direction. Theatre the problems of aging; and des- Tulsa is going out on a limb; perately trying totellher husband several battles were fought siredaily lives. At the marriage of a [hat. she is the old man he sees. ply to bring this show to life, young couple; an old man kisses The play.has many underlying with its language and action inih~":’~ d~. iiaher~.~iie "g~e§-tlx~ : ~’th~n~eg>of’i~I~#an~.t0out.:-s_~ci:~ .iNct,:Th(¢~ ~,a,.:~!~P~s,.~:...... chance tO start anew, in a-young ety; living a lie; d~aling ~{th" .... ~b~i~: b~d~ti~::~fi~d the body, to recapture kis ownyouth, mamage _ you.kngw; y0u havea show hasn’~ even been seen yet! great courtship, .the mate seems It’s up to us to let those folks tobe everything you were. look- In him, she sees an answer to the know that they don’tmatter, be- .fears she experiences daily living in the modem World - all that is behind him, she thinks. For a moment, they desire to switch, and in that moment, the desire is powerful enough to make the transformation happen.,,"The grass is always greener... 11th International AIDS Candlelight Memorial and Mobilization Sunday, May 22, 7pm Shiloh Baptist.Church 1124 No. Cincinnati, Reception after service. For more info. call 438-2437, Interfaith AIDS Ministries Tulsa Family News, May - June 1994, page 10 ing for, then you move m, get cause thereis an audience that married; and boom! Who is this will appreciate this. person, you start to wonder. How The cast is excellent, the dimany of us, in such a situation, rector is sensitive to our issues, haveturned tO our partners and and knows what she’s doing. said, "You’re not who I thought There is an openly gay characyou were!" ter, and a wonderful message. The play can be characterizedby For reservations, call 596- this quote: "Never to be squan-_ 7111.ToletTheatreTulsaknow de.red.., the miracle of another that you appreciate what they’re human being." The groom over- doing for us by fighting to do comes his own issues of homo- this show, call 58%8402. Those phobia. As to how and why - see who would have this show the play! banned have called, ~o it’s up to I am urging you to see this us to counter with positive comshow, because in order to have ments. Pride Picnic Volunteers are needed to help with set-up, dean-up, cooking at the Tulsa Pride Picnic on Sunday~ June-19. Booth space will be available for organizations & businesses. Call Jane at 664-8299. Rainbow Business Guild The Guild will hold its next meeting on Monday, May 23, at 7pm. Topics will include the Pride Picnic & more Call 254- 2100 for info. Festival to Include Gay-Artists The New Genre Festival to be held June 10, 11, and 12inTulsa at the Living Arts Space~224 N. Main, features time-based works by artists which stretch the limits of their media. Local performance artistRobert Hernandez will be presenting his newest piece. . Nationally acclaimed Chicano multi-media artistDavidZamora Casas ofSanAntonio, Texas will be presenting ’The Born Again American Mexican." Casas, a self-taught painter, sculptor, singer, activist, curator, videographer and performance artist, will be visiting Tulsa to lecture for the Harweldin hstirote for Arts and Education Snmmer Session Workshops. T H E -G.- A Y L I F E RTIFICIAL INSEMINATION q-HING HA5 MEAT A L055. :E WANT TO lqgLP OUT KIT AND LESL IE --"." BUT T- 17:~DN"F KNOW IF . ~ COULD LIVE NIT~ THE FACq"T~AT IVI6~ CI#ILD WILL WANli)gRING AROUND OUT TF~F.RF_. WITHOUT MY" BFING A PART OF: NI5 LIFE: S T Y L E John Kirk "For All Your Real Estate Needs" SOIIIIT:HIIIG NlW IH VOICI- PIRSONALS Watch Tulsa Family News for more information! 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Saturday,-5 pm ¯ & Mondays After Dart League ¯ Happy Hour, Weekdays 4.7 pm Male Dancers Open: Mon-Sat, 10am - 2am, Sun, Noon-2am WHAT TOEXPEC Tulsa Family News, May - June J994, page J2 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1994] Tulsa Family News, May 15-June 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 6 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa's Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September of 2001 (Vol. 8, Issue 9). 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Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource May 15-June 14, 1994 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Kharma Amos Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma-Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neil/Tulsa Family News Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/466 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, April 15-May 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 5 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/93c40be272aa22e322c75f94431e1fa5.jpg 4aac6e5bb02f5d46dda8ecf8218e29b4 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/1f14a63f7574841483f0d0e1ae751767.pdf 577f37e45c41450a8eca02e951ac6a64 PDF Text Text �L.e t te rs TULS A FAMILY NEWS Staff Writer Assistant Editor F~ublisher/Editor Kharma Amos James Christjohn Tom Neai 918-832-0233, POB 41at0, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright I994 by Tulsa FamilyNews and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without vaitten permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondance is assumed to be - for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sol~ p.ro_perty, of Tulsa Family News. All eorrespondance should be sent to the. address above. TulsaFamilyNews is distributed freeofchargeinlocallbusiri~s~ and organizations. Miz Sensuous Tells Us without reservation, who we are by David Nava What, When & Whereforel and Who we love. "When do we get our parade.7"" The drag queens, female imSo, when do the straight people The question was asked more .in personators, or gender illusionget their own parade? When fun than wi~.en_v.:.~;~more m ists today have a problem: they straight peo.ple are prevented joking than with;~alice, but it are busy cutting one another from marrying the people they struck a chord, with me. I had down.,There’s enough room in choose to marry, precluded from casually mentioned to a couple Tulso for ev~:e~y~_~body.~to get a~ong.. of my straight :.f..,ri~n~.that. the. . enjoying tax benefits availabl.e " Ba~kwheh l~Ii~ s~n~tious~vas to married people; then they Gay Pride E~de ~a~-coming born no one put anyone down, should have a parade. When up and I was looking forward to everyone tried helping everyone. straight people are barred from Old! Damn right...the way some it’"What abgut, S~aight .Pride ¯ serving their country in the mili7 of the Darlings are doing,, cutting ¯ tary,i then they should have a Day?" the female .of ~ ¢O,uple the older Queens down....they pal:ade. When straight people ,are asked with a gin~ "Everyday is ¯ are here and will be here...keep routinely fired from. their jot~s Stratght Pride Day., I auswere , Clubs & Restaurants gettin up, planting your feet~On’% because of who they love with or 744-0896 also grinning, ’..’This culture celthe floor e,~ery day, and you1~be ~ .~The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria live with then they should have a 835-5083 ebrates it with gay abandon." old too! People like myself, MC ..... ~’B~d Boys Club~ 1229 S. Memorial parade. Whenstraight people axe 583-8398 She laughed...When do we get *Cherry St. Bakery, 1344 E. 15 Parker, Mr. Timm~ Miz Dorian, blocked from holding sensitive 749-1563 ourparade?’ dem~ndedher male *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th Bead Aheads and Lady Diana jobs in the government merely 587-8811 counterpart ’Turn the television *.Metropole, 1902 E. 11 laid the ground for you to be because of their sexual orienta8344234 on." I said. ’¢Fhere’s your pa*Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan performers, not critics....the fution, then they should have a 585-3405 rade." We all laughed and went *Renegade, 1649 S. Main ture can be outstanding if we 835-1055 parade. When strai,gh.t people,.a~e, about our business but the brief *Rex, 6101 E. Admiral love one another..stop the hate forbidden to raise their Own cm~660-0856 exchange kept coming back to *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial and discrimination....why fight dren orto adopt others, if they so 664-8299 me through the week. The more *Time n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial among ourselves? choose, then they should have 584-1308 I thought about it the more seri*Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd By the way, thank you all for parade. When straight people are 582-2400 ous it became. *Whittier care, 416 S. Lewis your support when I was ill back beaten, harassed and shot at for Why have aGay Pride 15arade? Businesses/Services in October. I’ve come a long holding hands in public then I’ll It’s a question many straight 743-5967 ways...I’m still here to terrorize BellAire Cleaners, 4951 S. Peoria march in their parade. people might be asking in the Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Ste. 102 254-2100 each and everyone of you...let’s A man who lives in my next few weeks. Gay people, I 491-9474 go forward as one...the past was *CD Warehouse, 6080 S. Sheridan neighborhood was shot on our believe, inherently, intuitively 587-6030 good, now let’s make it a fabu- - *CD Warehouse in Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria street 2 years ago by a carload of know why we have a parade. We 744-9595 Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria, Ste. 100 lous future! Sensuous young thugs because he was bidhave a Gay Pride Parade because 58%1633 Editor’s note: the preceeding *Indian Territory Coffee Company, 1613 E. 15 cling a companion farewell with 25 years ago a bunch of drag 341-6866 International Tours ts only an excerpt of an inforan embrace. The companion was queens at a bar called The 582-1617 mative and interesting letter Harry & Mrs. Jones, 1617 E. 15 another man. The Human Rights Stonewall fought back for the 582-3018 Jared’s, 1602 E. 15 about some of our community’s Commissioner of this city pubfirst time when the police over599-8070 past. We will publish more as Ken’s FlowerS, 1635 E. 15 licly intimated that the mean were stepped the bounds of their au585-1234 *Living Arts .of Tulsa,-224 N. Main space allows. We apologize if "a_sking " ~ for it" through , enga..gig, .. ,, g thority for the millionth time, 587-8108 Major Affairs, 2014 E. 6thwe’ve mispelled any names. in "provocative benavmr thereby launching the Gay Lib664-2951 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 PI eration Movement. We have a . embracing to say good-bye. Novel Idea Discount Books or not-so well meaning straight That’s why I’ll be. at The Gay Gay Pride Parade so that at least 3356 E. 51, 747:6711 7104 S. Sheridan, 492-0335 acq~mintance of yours questions Pride Parade. Unless we stand for one day in a year we can walk 838-7626 Puppy Pause lI, 1 lth & Mingo the need for a Gay Pride Day together, march together, care down the streets of Where we 749-6301 *S~ribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square Parade, edueat~ the poor soul. together, no one will do it for us. live and show our numbers for 583-1572 Sound Warehouse, 1338 E. 15th I’ m picking up the phone to call We Gay and Lesbian people are all the world to see. We have a 832-0233 *Tomfoolery, 1565 S. Sheridan my two friends now. on our own and we must depend Gay Pride Parade to celebrate 742-6909 David Nava is an actor and Zat’s, 3708 South Peoria on each other. our defeat of The Closet, to have writer in Chicago. Organizations So, when some well meaning, a day when we can proclaim, Al! across the country, members of the Lesbian/Gay press have been ruminating about this big 25th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots...Stonewall on this cover, Stonewall on that cover...it’s going to be one hell of a party. But unlike last year’s March on Washington, it’s not clear what, beyond a.party, it will be. Yes, there is a March on the UN; yes, there are the Gay Games, glorious and worthy in themselves, and yes, there is the annual conference of the Inter~ national Lesbian/Gay Association (ILGA). But still I am haunted by the comments of Mary Breslauer in The Advocate this spring. Ms.~ Breslaner asked if we; our wonderfully diver~e communities could organize for any thing other than a party: She suggested that the 100 million or so dollars that will pour into New York could buy a lot of grass-roots lobbying, education, tv & radio ads. The combined budgets of our so- called national organizations (Human Rights Campaign Fund, National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund) are but a fraction of the Stonewall dollars. VvTnat’s wrong with this picture - how much do we value our civilrights? Oppression- we usually think of it as something done to us by non-Gay people. Unfortunately, it’s also something we do to ourselves and each other. Growing up in a heterosexist and homophobic society, that hatred poisons us too. I’ve been talking advertising with a Gay merchant for over 9 months. His large & successful business stocks products specifically made for us. He whines about sales but he refuses to advertise those products to us. Many here in Tulsa would buy from him if they only knew. While dearly I would like him to advertise (that’s what makes it possible to bring you news not ~ound in The Tulsa Worm or any other Tulsa paper), there is a broader community interest too. The products he sells can educate and enlighten our community if you know where to find them. Till now, what he’s stocked, though a fraction of what he could do, has been almost the only choice in Tulsa. He could make money and help his community at the same lime but it seems that he’s too inhibited by his fears of ,fundies." More frustrating, this met. chant has refused to allow distribution of this paper while continuing to distribute a monthly paper with documented anti-Gay policies. This sort of disclSmina. fion is unacceptable from nonGay businesses but is unbelievable from our own. Fortunately, one of his better rivals across town, although it is a non-Gay business, is more open-minded. They’ve welcomed Tulsa Family News and our readers. You can guess where Irll be shopping. Tom Neal, publisher &.editor 583 -9780 B/L/G Alliance, University of Tulsa. *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-l 749-4194 748-3111 NAMES PROJECT, POB 3181 74101 749-4901 P-FLAG, POB 52800 74152 74128 Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 622-1441 Project Reachout, HIV Testing, 5451-E So. Mingo 749-7898 Shanti Hotline Tulsa Oklahomaus for Human Rights, (TOHR) POB 52729, 74152 TOHR Gay HelpLine (Info.) 743-4297 Other *Chapman Student Center, University of Tulsa * Tulsa City/County Libraries: Central, Hardesty South, Martin East, West Regional, Rudisill North. For info: call 596-7977. *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor *University Center at Tulsa Professionals Associates in Medical & Mental Health, 1560 E. 21 743-1000 Jeffery A. Beal, MD, Giuny Butler, RN, Theodore Campbell, MSW 425-4778 Kathi Bums, LCSW, Lie. Clinical Therapist, 745-9911 Phillip Cyr, Gen. 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Permission is granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR R~:~,p~’~long with other items, under the byline, "submitted by TOHR; contained elsewhere in-Tblsa Family News. TOHR proudl9 presents the annual pride meek ~ .o: . :. _ L_ . . i-i " " ~ ’ " : ’~ July Meeting Racism in :the Gay ¯ .: ~ Community~ ’ ’ at the "What olorjs the "GayCommunity?" a~ Jtily’s fe~a.tuted.~St-sp~aiter; " Alan Nyitray, i ofOklahoma: City; The July membership meeting of TOHR will begin wlths~iai time at 6:30 and the meeting starts at 7 p.m. on Tuesday, July 5 at the HIV/Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite.Hol, lower level. TULSA’S BI ST 1565 S. Sheridan Friday, June 17th from 9 p.m. to Midnight $5 at the door to benefit TOHR. -A lesbian and gay fights activisl, Nyitray has offered his expertise and talents to Oklahomans, from human rights organizing, to lobbying the OklahOma state legislature, to speaking out for marginalized people. I llT! RTfllfllTII llT! M.C. MK. 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J1me-Ju{Fl1994. page 3 �News:Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Students Fight the Right MINNEAPOLIS - Recalling student civil rights activism in the South during the 1960s, dozens of gay; lesbian, bisexual and transgeader students from the University of Minnesota will be departingby bus from Minneapolis July 10 f,o,r what organizers are calling ’Missouri Summer’ 947~TI~ sthd"ent campaign will work in a~ 8-week grassroots campaign With the Missouri-based :group - Show - Me Equality :to ~gh~.a proposed statewide anti-gayballot measure. For more information about the student grojeet contact Gary Schiff, c00r~liffator, MISSOURI SUMMER’.94 at. (612) 7245942, by writing to MISSOURI SUMM~.~94, 1i5 E. 34th St. Miuneapolis..~ MN 55408, or scbif003 @maroon.tc.nmn_edu Anti-Gay .Ballot to. Fail? BOISE, Idaho- With less than 3 months until a July 8 filing deadline, the Idaho Citizens Alliance says it had gathered just over a third ofthe signafures needed to put a proposed anti-gay ballot initiative on the ballot this November, according to the Idaho Statesman newspaper. Opponents of the proposed measure were hopeful about ICA’ s difficulties in getting the required number of signatures, but were not yet celebrating. "It just goes to Show that Idaho is not the pushover state that they thought it was," said Brian Bergqnist, co-chairman of the Don’t Sign On Committee. No Bias in Health Reform WASHINGTON - According to a poll released bythe Human Rights CampaignFund,-67% of Americans favor anti-bias proteetions including gays andldsbian~ as part 6f~dfi6aal health-care reform efforts, while only 24% opposed such civil rights protections. HRCF, a gay rights advocacy groupbased inWashington, is lobbying Congress to include anti-bias language in various health care proposals currently being considered by the legislature. 10,000 Athletes NEW YORK - At least 10,000 athletes from around the world have registered for the June 1825 Gay Games IV, organizers of the cultural and athletic celebration have announced. Gay Games officials said they expect more than a million visitors in the city from 42 different countries, including Indonesia, Bulgaria, Zimbabwe, and New Zealand. They also confirmed that theU.S. Justice Dept. has ¯ All Breeds Dog Grooming ¯ llth & Mingo, 838-7626 ¯ waived a ban that bars foreigners With HIV and AIDS from entering the country. Fundie Candidates Lose VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. - A Pat Robertson-backed slate of 5 fundamentalists vying for seats on the televangelist’S own hometown of Virginia Beach, Va., were all rejected by Voters Tuesday, May 3. ~ Edward Kreyfin~ Jr., one of the defeated fundamentalist candidates, said ¯ ilie ~featbf-~e slht~ ~ ~iil~d by talk ’~thdtwe w~ia ri~litwing takeover" group. Austin Repeals Benefits AUSTIN, Tex. - By almb~tla 2~ 1 margin, voters in the Texas state capital dealt a surprise bodyblow to gay rights in one of the few cities in the state that likes to pride itself on its progressive politics by repealing Austin’s domestic partner progr~.for city workers. With a!L _o,f~e ~recincts reporting, thenbn~0fficial count was 51,475, or 62%; in favor of Proposition 22, and 31,082, or 38%, against. Although the group backing the successful repeal measure, Concorned Texans, had couched much of its campaigning to overturn the city-approved partners benefits in economic terms, the organization also made it clear that it considered the recognition of same-sex partnerships a"perversion of traditional family values." Charles Bullock, pastor of the Christ Memorial Baptist Church and the head of Concerned Texans, said the vote in the usually liberal Austin showed a dear majority with conservative moral values,, even if they do not always¯¯out at decti0ns. The resultsof the election stunned ¯ ¢die~city’~’s’ |esbian/gay~commu" ~ifity,~many:of’whom said ihey felt let down by Austin’ s usually tolerant residents. Colorado& Amendm’t 2 I~E~VE~~ The ~10rado attorney general’ s office has applied to the state Supreme Coqrt asking it to restore the anti-gay Amendment 2 to the books. The appeal, which is expected to be heard by the court later this year, c~aim’~ ~e,voter-approved mea. sure would.have protected the legal rights of citizens, including landlords and employers, wi~h "deep-seated and profound religious objections to homosexuality"by repealing local civil rights measures throughout Colorado. Canadian Partners TORONTO ’- The Canadian government says it will go ahead with legislation requiring employers to pay benefits to samesex couples. Attorney General Marion Boyd said the goyernment will introduce the legislation shortly in an effort to make certain that same-sex couples get thesame fights as married heterosexuals. If the proposed legislation is enacted, companies would be required to pay~amily benefits to the’ Same-sex partners of ~mployees, and the def’mition of"spousev would be modified ~in’softie 80 p~dee~of ~Xisting legislation t0 bring it in line with the changes. Although exact details were not made available, the proposed legislation and its relaied changes would mean that same-sex couples would be able tojointly adopt children. Passage of the legislation will hinge on approval in the legislature. NYC Councilman to Run for Congress NEWYORK-TomDuane, New York’s first openly gay city councilman, has announced that hey s throwing his .hat inthe race to.represent part of Manhattan’ s West Side 8th Congressional district in the U.S. House of Representatives. Dtmne, 39, announced during his 1991 bid for a seat on theCity Council that he is HIV:positive. He will face Kelly Kirby Certified Public Accountant Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. 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Some 24 ¢ommuni, ties in Oregon have SO far ap- proved anti-gay ballotmeasures, and the anti-gay Oregon Citi- zeus Alliance is planning to put ¯ its 2nd statewide measure before Oregonvoters this November. A similar 1992 effort was narrowly rejected by the state,s voters. Bermuda Sodomy Law BEtLMUDA - The~i Bermuda House of Assembly has voted 22-16 to. legalize homosexual relations between men after a tense and often bitter debate. The proposed legislation must still be approved by the British colony’s senate: Premier Sir John Swan opposes the legalization efforts. ~ " ~ ~. ~Aussies .Fight forRights SYDNEY ÷~ The Aus~ian-fed-. ’ eral gove~ent is,[aunc~izg legal moves .tO nullify Tasma- n/an state laws that bar male on Monday, May 23, that it has petitioned to Queen Elizabeth II homosexual acts following failfor a royal pardonfor gay playure.of state and federal officials wright Oscar Wilde as a fitting to reach any compromise. The commemoration of his convicUN Human Rights CommiRee tion on "~uggery" (or sodomy) . earlier this~ year declared charges next year. A press tel~e~s.,e Tasmania’s male;male sedomy from the group said Wilde s statutea conmavention of internati0nal-human rights accords. . "imprisonment is astain on the .i_ A~s_trali .an~ Attorney General -judi~al. :s~y~t~m...~Th.e-very least ~ ~oc~t~i~n d6i~ ~icl~iov~!edge - Michael Lavarch said he would ~recommend that the federal --the wrong done.to Wilde an,d, grant him; a royal pardon?-.. ~. governmenttak,e steps to assure~ -. that-~ Tasmania~:s.,homosexuals. -~ Buckingham Palac~~ did!i ~ngt enjoy the~ii~e rights :as other citizen..Gay .activists, who: - CiVilian-ACcu~Navy.¯ s~ ~e Wl~lsofthis complex .-LOS ANGF_~F_~ .-~. fight: bgtw~ i the .: fe~der~ and ¯ S~v~ a foyer Mari.e¢~rps T~angovernments by Sucsergemlt and: 12:year:.civilian cessfulty ~g-thelr Caseuf employee with the Strike~Syshuman rights violations to the temi ~~tatthe~M"gu UN,-Said theyh~ot~xtto ice s0me ". Naval!firWeapons station;- has sort ofiegal reforms by-the end reached a settlement~in his’ federal’c6mplaintwith the Equal - Gay RightsLaw. Sort Employinent-. Opportunity cO-~m~ssion, c~ar~ii~g ~th~ -. of -.,in. N.C. City. - was harassed and discriminated ASHEViLLE, H.C:~ A resoluagainst by the.Navy because of tion be~fore the .Asheville City ~his sexual orientation. As part of Council- ban’ing anti-gayem-the settlement, however; Swarm pl0yment =ind h6using discrimiwill keep hiscivil service rank nation passed .by a narrow 4-3 and transfer to the base’s ote - l~ut oaly ~fter.~e phrase comptroller’s office.as a man"sexual orientation" was reagement analyst. placed with~ the vague "or any ~therreason~’ ~. thg list of prOGavs-& the Holocaust JERUSALEM - Conservative tected classes. Far right, anti:gay Jewish demonstrators scuffled fundamentalists had objected to with gay rights activists, at the including sexual orientation in the legislation: .i " " " Holocaust ~demorial .in Israel days before the ceremony, a group of 19 rabbis took out anad in the Jerusalem Post denounc-ing the ceremony as "an abomination" and threatening a boycoRof the Holocaust Mem6rial if the ceremony wentaheac~ One protester shouted . "You are full of shit and AIDS, at a gay rights .hCfi~ist,~-No s.e~ous incidents wererepoff~d and rio arrests were letterofpr0testovertheincidenL Franco Grillini,-head of the Italian group Axcigay, urged "for- ciga governments to boycott Italy until we have assurances that the presence of fascists, in govern- inent woii’i-iaffect ite-;bcratic rights.,~ In Bonn_. the Society for the Threatened People said it had called ~e vigil outside the Italian ¢mbassy~use Of Concern for the rightS of minorities : _Lesbian Book Rev|ew ¯ ~ALTADENA~ Calif..~ The ~-~ bian~Revi~w:~0f:-B0oks will -la~ch¯pubu~ati0n ~s AUguSt, :o f~atuiing reviews of~o~, by, ¯ about and -directed,t6 lesbian readers. The review will also :~ feature essays about :authors, fiterary~issues:and related topical m~tters in a wide range, of works, from histo~ and literature tosCiencefiction and erotica. The, quarterly review is available at a subscription price of $I0 for 1 yeafor $18 foi 2 yeats at:, Lesbian Review 6f Books, PO Box 6369, Altadena CA 91003 (for a sample copy of the first issue, send $2.50 to that address). Conoentration Camps ROME - Gay rights activists in Italy called for an international boycott of the country after remarks.by a neo-fascist r.nning fora seat in the European Parliament that Friday 1;o Sunday, July 15’17 . on t, heOU Gampus,-Norm.an. Oklahoma " " yoU’re a part- of Oklahorna l .fi $t st t .wide’ . gathering of :Gay, Lesbian, Bisexualand Transgendered people! FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL (91~) 445-0922, OR WRITE TO : R0. [50X 61305 . OKLAHOMA CITY, OKLAHOMA ¯ 73146 Tulsa Family News, June:July 2994, p~age 5 �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News continued from page 5 page ruling. "Prejudice, whether founded on unsubstantiated fears, cultural myths, Stereotypes or erroneous assumptions cannot be the basis for a discriminatory classification," Judge Zilly ruled. Cam~ermeyer, a 27-year.veteran and Army nurse who was awarded the Bronze Star for her 14-month tour of duty in Vietnam, was thrilled at the ruling. Partners Bill Fails in CA SAC~MENTO; Calif: =-The day after.the California Assembly passed a statewide domestic parmers registration measure by the narrowest of. margins, the proposed bill failed to pass the state Senate by 2 votes - although it s611 lmsa second chance at passage in the upper house. The limited partners bill would extend to registered couples heterosexual or homosexual - such legal benefits as hospital visitation rights; serving as a conservator for their partner, and willing property as married couples do. The legislation, authored by Assemblyman Richard Katz, was approved by the state Assembly on May 31 by a 41-26 vote - the bare minimum needed for approval in the lower chamber. But the next day, the Senate compamon measure, sponsored by Sen. Gary Hart (D~anta Barbara), gam~red.only 19 votes for passage with 16 against. A21-vote majority is required in the upper chamber to pass such legislation. Because of the bill’s passage in the AS. sembly, along with the close Senate vote, Hart asked for and was given permission to put the measure forward on the Senate agenda during a future session. Church~of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday service, 10:45 am Home Cell~Groups, 2nd & 4th Sundays, 6:00 pm Phone: (918) 838-1715 SF Partners’ Tax, Break ing, taxpaying citizens who SAN FRANCISCO- Same-sex should be entitled to the same couples here took.another increrights awarded to others." mental step toward equal-recogBoy Scout Ban Review nition of their domestic parmerSACRAMENTO~ Calif: - The ships with an exemption from state Supreme Court has agreed the ~ity’s real estate transfer taxes review conflicting lower court if they dissolve, their relationings about whether the Boy ship - an exemption married Scouts of America policy, of excouples enjoy under state law. cluding gays and atheists vio= The exemption measure, unani- -lates ~S~’e anfi-discrimiiiation mously approved by the Board statutes. The high court .-anof Supervisors on Tuesday May ¯ ntua~d:it wilIe~xi~ the ii~31, is themost recent legal effort peals Of two separate eases inhere to .extend benefits to gay volving the. youth group, both of and lesbian couples already enwhich concern wl~ether the Boy joyed by married conples: Scouts are a ’~business estab"We’re endeavoring to chip. away lishmeni"’aS defined by at the issue of lesbian and gay Califomia~s sweeping Unrnh equity in society," said SuperviCivil Rights Act. Early last year sor Carole Migden, author of the a state Court of Appeal in Santa measure. "Lesbians and gays live Aim ruled that the Orange County here in great numbers, the maCouncil of the Boy Scouts isin jority of whom are hard-workfact a business as defined by the Unnth ACt and cannot exclude youngsters from membership because .of their religious beliefs _and refusal .to swear an oath to God. Just weeks later, however, a state appeals court in Lo~ Angeles.ruledthat the scouts were not a~business under the Unruh Act and that the youth group could legally exclude gays~ Tl~t ruling came in the case’of~Tim Photography Curran, a former Eagle Scout who filed suit originally in 1980 J.D. Jamett after he was rejected as a scout592,0608 master for a Berkeley troop be- Sandra J, Hill, M,S. ~d San Diego Gives Benefits SAN DIEGO, Calif. - The San Diego, Calif., city council narrowly approved a measure extending health care benefits to the domestic partners of unmarried municipal employees. The council approved the measure oN a 5~4 vote during a session. concerned with contracts between the city and anion workers. Councilwoman Christine ,Kehoe,. a lesbian who recently became the council’s first openly gay member and sponsorof the measure, said, "It’s a fairness is, sue. 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Affiliate (International Gay Travel Association) Tul;a Family News, June-July 1994, page 6 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and-evening appointments are available; �~News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs,News Briefs News Briefs News~Briefs News AT&T Wants Gays! ers expect the city to appeal the Swedish Partners Law CHICAGO - ~T&T, the giant ruling since gays and lesbians STOCKHOLM -Following a long-distance cartier, has broken cannot legally marry anywhere 4-hour debate, the Swedish parsomething of a barrier by-sendin.the U.S~ liament (Riksdag) narrowly. ing some 70,000 direct-mail adopted legislation that would Dutch Partners ,Law pieces targeting gays, .lesbians allow-same-sex Couples nearly AMSTERDAM-- The Dutch Disney World’s Gay Day and bisexuals. ~as ~ prosPectiv.e but not all the Same bentfits cabinet hastabledameasur~ that ORLANDO, Fla. - Despite .ancustomers. It is believed to be and responsibilities of marriage. gry complaints from anti-gay thefirst time ~ maj0r U.S. firm The bill establishing registered ~uhdamentalists ~and evencon= has specifically sought-to target partnerships in tile e0untry couples, extending, to gays andspicuous signs saving it wasn’t a the country’.s !argelyuntapped passed 171-141. The law, which lesbians who registered many of Disney World sponsored event, gay comm~ty in a direct’mail will go into effect at the begin~ the same benefits as married het-. "Gay Day at Disney" drew some advertising campaign..o"It.’.s . a ning of 1995, a!lows same-sex erosexuals,No e~planation ~was ~ 20,000 lesbians andgay men to ¯v~ry o~fitiV~ m~rket,’~ Jo~ couples a civil.(but not churdh) given for .the:action.which is. the popular theme park. A small Heath, AT&T’S public relations ¯ ceremony similar to a wedding; believed-tobe only temporary. gro~ip 0f about 2 dozen protest-= manager in Chicago, said. :"It" s a couples dre ntt allowed to adopt Ontario Partners,-Lose ers connected with the American good market Segment. to tar_get.. or have children through artifiFamily Assn. and Operation TORONTO ~- The Ontario ParIt includes affluent, highly e~hicial insemination, Denmark and Rescue picketed along an enliament has rejected on a 68-59 cated and brand loyal consumNorway already have similar trance road to the park, but withvote a. government-sp0nsored ers with ahigh level of discrelaws. out much apparent support. measure that- would have-estabtionary income.’.’ quotes Minneapolis Law Illegal Disney World posted signs outlished a:domestic partner regisfroms~,~eral AT&T customers MINNEAPOLI.S.~ (June 8) -side the park explaining that tration in the province.This and includes excerpts from a District Court Judge Deborah "members of the gay.comn~unity means the measure is dead:in letter’i explaining the corpohave chosen to visit the Magic ¯ Hedlundhas ruled t~at the Min~ Ontario for the time being. neapolis:eity council overstepped Kingdom today in their recogits authoriU when it enacted a nition of Gay and Lesbian Pride measure tl~t extends benefits to. Month" and that Disney "does the.partners of lesbian .and. gay not discriminate against dnyone’s city workers.: Judge Hedlfin-d fight to visit the Magic Kingd~m." / Lesbian and gay Workers ¯ declared the parmers Ordinance License~d Clinical Therapist illeg.al.and ruled,that the state of at the park volunteered to serve SolutiOn~oriented Therapy Minnesotahad given cities the as off:duty guides for the thouI¯nd[viduals,~couples,¯ families, adolescents sands who showed up. The ..legal. right to finance employee benefits~0nly f0r the spouses mid eventis the 4th such lesbian!gay Confidential - ethical, reputable dependents ofcity workers. Betrip to .the central Florida park, caiase sathe-sex couples-cannot but, because of the ~eelebrations leg~ly!-marry, thejudge, ruled,of the 25th annivers~, of.the _ : ~ Tulsa, OK " ~y eann0t ~ome eli~ib!e for Stonewall:Riots Daya~’Disney, ~6t@id~pf~! ¯ su~hibenefi.ts~ It Was’not imm¢- ’ ~ ~a~i~ ~|~ but~many,.~obse~. had dropped its plans after Donald Wildmonof the American Family Assn.had laanched a campaign .by his group against the magazine. ,Kami =Burns,. LCSW ration’ s pro-gay policies and its gay-lesbian-biSexual employee group. A repiycardis iavender with a pink triangle. 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"the study has Kristine Gebbie, President establishment of a community hospital and sent him to another WASHINGTON - An advisory Clinton’s.iAIDS policy coordi: ~tflznningo~,~r°un to,_ ad’Vi~ OSDHI: shown, that Acyclovir. can extend hospital f~ treatment. hfe by .around szx months, a committee of the Food and Drug nator;to ~esign. lqAP’~VA’s exon funding priorifiesfor HIV .... Infections from Vaccine Administration has recom¯ ecutive direc~r, William Free~ prevention: OSI-ID~!.00.kstowtxk " significant advantage in this somended that the government CHICAGO ~ Several volunteers man, said the:organization had more elbsdy with a variety of rions disease," said David Cooapprove-a new drug to treat HIV, in a federal government study to communities around the state to per, director ofthe National "worked hard" with Gebbie for 9 months.bm.o.that"now we be.workmoreeffeetivel~tocombat. ~,en.m~in_IL/IVEpidemiology..an.d . but with severe warnings that:.,-testexpefimentalAIDSvaceines lievgshi~’iS’!in0.~ipable of mar= -~:~ According to~NYitm~ ii":’ Cl~yal.~l~se~c_h :~t;~e,. Um~ . d,octo~s.stilLdo.9~.t know.enou.gh (ha.v.e become infected with._HIV; s~ the ~_pixnt of the federal i" OSDHGay&.LesbianOutreaCh ~.vers...Ry~I~.ew~oumw_mes..,. ~bou,t,.tge~m~e~_~cme.t.o, saywho, ...imsmg.cog._csms:abo.u.tthesafety level :NAPWAsaysisnecesimry Coordinator, the~tat.e’s Gay"& mma testa Hertm tot HIV s~omo, ta~e.it. :l~heFDAp..anelof / of sueh,.m,alSi:according to are~ to fight the epidemic. In inter~ .Lesbian. ommuiiifie~ are en;. -:NEWDI~I J-II-Thegovemment~,enUsts said .t.t~t Stavudine, o_r :. port~theC~ago Tribune. The 4.T, .p,m~babl.y..has s.om~e~,b~nefit . ya~.c~m..~, Whichare be~.g test~l views with‘ several reporters, couraged to participate in this .. Sponsored Indian :Council of GebbieSaid.shehasnointenfion process. : - .._ ~-.. :_ ~’ i Medical Research, In.dia’s top m !~mited clinical trials~at 5 ,overme.~¢xastmgAt~..~arugs, but _c~__utano_t say.precmely who .. universities, do not contain any of resigningz~ ’ . . OSDH seeks individuals from " medical agency, says itwill be~ PWA’s Raused Ent~ to.. ,thesecommunitiest0se~efot~a, - ginAInS-related clinical trials .would ,be~fit,~owsafe~edmg :~0f~v~’~e.ti.cmat_~erialand .is, or .w,nem.e.r.tlxe m.anutactmTer .:can t:.c~=~e m~=:e~_.~tmn..But even. Rao~nti~’Thi~’.l,v|~ oneyear.term. The ~deadlin¢for. involving traditional Indian ts on me ng.ht track to answer /so,7 ofsome 1;400participants W’7,,’7;:Y,:,~’~.::’:""".~.. ~ nominations was June 17buthas . herbal remedies said to Stop the these and other.questionS. The "- including 2 people who were been extended: indefinitely. Spread of HIV A task force has . ~,la _t~tJlor~ A ,re~ep. non neia oy federal AIDS poficy co. drugseemS to helpboost the recei~ng only placebos - have selected. 10 l~er~al drugs for Nomination form~ andmoreinordinator Kristine Gebbie to immunity of HIV patients while testedpositiveforHIV.All seven formation can be found at the cfiuical experiments. The drugs commemorate Pediatric & Adocreating fewer Side effects than positive volunteers had been Triangle Association, 2136 NW were selected from the ancient lescent AIDS Week and AIDS other drags, according to Bristolcounseled about how to reduce 39th, Oldahoma City, or the HIV Indian school of Ayurvedic Watch -.flopped when 9 invited Myers Squibb: -the risk of HIV infection, but Resource Center,. 4154 So: .medicine, which uses herbal and I-IIV-positive, homeless guests researchers have long worried Patient Sues Hospital Harvard, Ste. H- 1, Tulsa~ or write root-extracts for treatment of and 20 otherinvitedpeople were HIV/STD Service, Oklahoma. chronic diseases. TOLEDO, Ohio- Fred Charon, denied entrance to the event. The neously believe that they are State Departmont of Health, I000 a 31-year-old man with AIDS University Sued resulting eommotkra and confuprotected and engage in highNE 10th, OKC 73117, 40£27!who was denied treatment by~a BUIES CREEK, N.C. - The fedsions pawned accusations of risk behaviors. Scientists say 4636 or 800=535-AIDS. hospital emergency room physieral lawsuit against the Baptistracism and discrimination some new infections were to be cian, has sued under the Amerirun Campbell University in an against homeless people, and Gay & Lesbian Quarterly, a expected during the trials and cans With Disabilities Act. Ateffort to make the school rehire a many guests who were admitted newsletter for healthcare profesthat no prospective vaccine torneys with ACLU representphysical education coach with to the reception walked out in sionals, highlighting recent rewould likely be 100% effective. ing Charon claim in the lawsuit AIDS is underway. The "John protest. The incident-mounted search of interest of those workthat he was suffering an allergic Doe" suit was filed after the U.S. further criticism of Gebbie, who ing with sexual minorities. reaction to medication when he Equal Employment Opporttmity. activists say has not done enough For info: Christopher J. went to the M_emorial Hospital .... Commission investigated the to fight AIDS. Alexander, Ph.D, 510-869-4544 PROJECT Alivd 622-1441 ¢o.fid al Look for o~ at our NEW LOOATION 7:$0 pm Thursday ¢odepmdmey Support ~roop 5451-E So. Mingo We’re Orowiag g We’re Movi.g! MCC-1441 u.sding tuesdays fro~ 6:~0,9:00 pm at the Family of Fa~ rosario. ~roJeet F.eaoh Out !} Thursdays from 6%0- 9:00 pm a~ ~he llth $~reet laoatio. (~roJeet F,eaeh OH !!) Other Time~ by Appointment �Demo~ Pride Summit ontinuedfrom page I " continuedfrom page l that’s so, then the laws and rules need to be include protection from discrimination changed?’ 3Vhen asked if he would issue on .the basis of sexual orientation. 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For. convenience ..you~may make reservations for ’any of the productions by calling the Per= forming Arts Center Box Office at 596-7111 for res.ervations. This year the Performing Arts Trust and KOTV Television are co-sponsoring the entire Festival and all of us from the SummerStage Board ~want to express our thanks. A-Festival arrangement like this allows all the producing companies to really strut their best efforts. Be sure to take advantage of wide range of offerings. After all, how much time can you really spend at the lake ? Theatre Tulsa will be offering something, very special this summer during the Festival. The World Goes ’Round is a Broadway Musical Revue which pro- E S T Y L continued to mount productions vides 30 of your favorite Broadduring the Second World War, way hits in a single evening. From Cabaret; Chicago; New both for civilians and for service men and women. York, New York to Kiss of the Spider Woman and many, many Between 1942 and 1943, one more shows, you can enjoy a full of.our Artistic Managers was evening of the best of Broadway Ward Mendenhall w’ho was music in one clever evening. For called into service and the last additional information glvem a twoplays of 1943 were directed call at 58%8402 and ask about .- by Virginia Weaver Russell.. our Group Discounts. So here in.this moment of refleetion about sacrifice and serI want to take: a moment to reflect on the .other big event vice; I find another tie between which is occurring as I write. the life of this Theater, this Commtmity and the wonderful The D,Day. Invasion was fifty years ago today. The events of peoplcwho kept up; not only their Own spirits, but the spirits this ..day 50 years ago have been the inspiration for some wonof _the whole community in that darkest of times. Here’s to Ward derful dramatic works. Mendenhall, and .all the other In fact the Theater had its’ own dramatic moment relative to the men and women from Tulsa Little Theatre who served their war. Tulsa Little Theatre, our community so honorably at name back then, was one of the home and on the battlefield. few Community Theaters which ADVENTURE BASE ONE Trainino in rappieling/backpacking/. _m oun?aineering/wil~ernes s treks/ ropes courses Consulting in experimental wilderness adventure based programming. Private & group rates available. Exclusive "family groups" welcome Call for information, 918-425-4778. "TULSA’S HOTTEST CRUISE BAR" SALOON ¯ Huge Patio ¯ Coors Pool Tournament ¯ Volley Ball Tuesdays, 8 pm ¯ Horseshoes ¯ Dart Tournament, ¯ Classic Trashy Sunday Saturday, 5 pm Afternoon Beer Bust & Mondays 2,4 pm $3 After Dart League ¯ Happy Hour, Weekdays 4-7 pm Male Dancers Open: Mon-Sa,,, 0am- 2~.m~S~n, Noon - 2am NEV.. 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Text Any textual data included in the document by David Nava "Whendowe getourparade.7"" The question was asked more .in fun than wi~.en_v.:.~;~more m joking than with;~alice, but it struck a chord, with me. I had casually mentioned to a couple of my straight :.f..,ri~n~.that. the. Gay Pride E~de ~a~-coming up and I was looking forward to it’"What abgut, S~aight .Pride ¯ Day?" the female .of~¢O,uple asked with a gin~ "Everyday is Stratght Pride Day., I auswere , also grinning, ’..’This culture celebrates it with gay abandon." She laughed...When do we get ourparade?’dem~ndedhermale counterpart ’Turn the television on." I said. ’¢Fhere’s your parade." We all laughed and went about our business but the brief exchange kept coming back to me through the week. The more I thought about it the more serious it became. WhyhaveaGayPride 15arade? It’s a question many straight people might be asking in the next few weeks. Gay people, I believe, inherently, intuitively know why wehave a parade. We have aGay Pride Paradebecause 25 years ago a bunch of drag queens at a bar called The Stonewall fought back for the first time when the police overstepped the bounds of their authority for the millionth time, thereby launching the Gay Liberation Movement. We have a Gay Pride Parade so that at least for one day in a year we can walk down the streets of Where we live and show our numbers for all the world to see. We have a Gay Pride Parade to celebrate our defeat of The Closet, to have a day when we can proclaim, Al! across the country, members of the Lesbian/Gay press have been ruminating about this big 25th anniversary of the Stonewall Riots...Stonewall on this cover, Stonewall on that cover...it’s going to be one hell of a party. But unlike last year’s March on Washington, it’s not clear what, beyond a.party, it will be. Yes, there is a March on the UN; yes, there are the Gay Games, glorious and worthy in themselves, and yes, there is the annual conference of the Inter~ national Lesbian/Gay Association (ILGA). But still I am haunted by the comments of Mary Breslauer in The Advocate this spring. Ms.~ Breslaner asked if we; our wonderfully diver~e communities couldorganizeforany thing other than a party: She suggested that the 100 million or so dollars that will pour into New York could buy a lotof grass-roots lobbying, education, tv & radio ads. The combined budgets of our sowithout reservation, who we are and Who we love. So, whendothe straightpeople get their own parade? When straight peo.ple are prevented from marrying the people they choose to marry, precluded from . enjoying tax benefits availabl.e to married people; then they should have a parade. When straight people are barred from serving their country in the mili7 ¯tary,i then they should have a pal:ade. When straightpeople ,are routinely fired from. their jot~s because of who they love with or live with then they should have a parade. Whenstraight people axe blocked from holding sensitive jobs in the government merely because of their sexual orientation, then they should have a parade. Whenstrai,gh.t people,.a~e, forbidden to raise their Own cm~- dren orto adopt others, if they so choose, then they should have parade. Whenstraight people are beaten, harassed and shot at for holding hands in public then I’ll march in their parade. A man who lives in my neighborhood was shot onour street 2 years ago by a carload of young thugs because he was bidcling a companion farewell with an embrace. The companionwas another man. TheHuman Rights Commissioner of this city publicly intimated that the mean were "aski"ng~ for it" throug,h en..ga..,g, ig,g in "provocative benavmr . embracing to say good-bye. That’s why I’ll be. at The Gay Pride Parade. Unless we stand together, march together, care together, no one will do it for us. We Gay and Lesbian people are on our own and we must depend on each other. So, when some well meaning, called national organizations (Human Rights Campaign Fund, National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund) are but a fraction of the Stonewall dollars. VvTnat’s wrong with this picture - how much do we value our civilrights? Oppression- we usually think of it as something done to us by non-Gay people. Unfortunately, it’s also something we do to ourselves and each other. Growing up in a heterosexist and homophobic society, that hatred poisons us too. I’ve been talking advertising with a Gay merchant for over 9 months. His large & successful business stocks products specifically made for us. He whines about sales but he refuses to advertise those products to us. Many here in Tulsa would buy from him if they only knew. While dearly I wouldlikehim to advertise (that’s whatmakes it possible to bring you news not ~ound in The Tulsa Worm or any L.e t te rs Miz Sensuous Tells Us What, When & Whereforel The drag queens, female impersonators, or gender illusionists today have a problem: they are busy cutting one another down.,There’s enough room in Tulsofor ev~:e~y~_~body.~to get a~ong.. " Ba~kwheh l~Ii~ s~n~tious~vas born no one put anyone down, everyone triedhelping everyone. Old! Damn right...the way some of the Darlings are doing,,cutting the older Queens down....they TULSA FAMILY NEWS F~ublisher/Editor Assistant Editor Staff Writer Tom Neai James Christjohn Kharma Amos 918-832-0233, POB 41at0, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright I994 by Tulsa FamilyNews and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part withoutvaitten permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo in no way indicates or reflects that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondance is assumed to be - for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sol~ p.ro_perty, of Tulsa Family News. All eorrespondance should be sent to the. address above. TulsaFamilyNews is distributed freeofchargeinlocallbusiri~s~ and organizations. ¯are here and will be here...keep Clubs & Restaurants gettin up, planting your feet~On’% thefloor e,~ery day, and you1~be ~ .~The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria old too! People like myself, MC ..... ~’B~d Boys Club~ 1229 S. Memorial Parker, Mr. Timm~ Miz Dorian, Bead Aheads and Lady Diana laid the ground for you to be performers, not critics....the future can be outstanding if we love one another..stop the hate and discrimination....why fight among ourselves? By the way, thank you all for your support when I was ill back in October. I’ve come a long ways...I’m still here to terrorize each and everyone of you...let’s go forward as one...the past was good, now let’s make it a fabulous future! - Sensuous Editor’s note: the preceeding ts only an excerpt of an informative and interesting letter about some ofour community’s past. We will publish more as space allows. We apologize if we’ve mispelled any names. *Cherry St. Bakery, 1344 E. 15 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *.Metropole, 1902 E. 11 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegade, 1649 S. Main *Rex, 6101 E. Admiral *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Time n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Whittier care, 416 S. Lewis Businesses/Services BellAire Cleaners, 4951 S. Peoria Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Ste. 102 *CD Warehouse, 6080 S. Sheridan - *CD Warehouse in Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria, Ste. 100 *Indian Territory Coffee Company, 1613 E. 15 International Tours Harry & Mrs. Jones, 1617 E. 15 Jared’s, 1602 E. 15 Ken’s FlowerS, 1635 E. 15 *Living Arts .of Tulsa,-224 N. Main Major Affairs, 2014 E. 6th- *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 PI Novel Idea Discount Books 7104 S. Sheridan, 492-0335 3356 E. 51, or not-so well meaning straight acq~mintance of yours questions the need for a Gay Pride Day Parade, edueat~ the poor soul. I’mpicking up the phone to call my two friends now. David Nava is an actor and writer in Chicago. other Tulsa paper), there is a broader community interest too. Theproducts he sells can educate and enlighten our community if you know where to find them. Till now, what he’s stocked, thoughafractionofwhathecould do, has been almost the only choice in Tulsa. He could make money and help his community at the same lime but it seems that he’s too inhibited by his fears of ,fundies." More frustrating, this met- . chant has refused to allow distribution of this paper while continuing to distribute a monthly paper withdocumentedanti-Gay policies. This sort of disclSmina. fion is unacceptable from non- Gay businesses but is unbelievable from our own. Fortunately, one of his better rivals across town, although it is a non-Gay business, is more open-minded. They’ve welcomed Tulsa Family News and our readers. You can guess where Irll be shopping. Tom Neal, publisher &.editor 744-0896 835-5083 583-8398 749-1563 587-8811 8344234 585-3405 835-1055 660-0856 664-8299 584-1308 582-2400 743-5967 254-2100 491-9474 587-6030 744-9595 58%1633 341-6866 582-1617 582-3018 599-8070 585-1234 587-8108 664-2951 Puppy Pause lI, 1 lth & Mingo - *S~ribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Utica Square Sound Warehouse, 1338 E. 15th *Tomfoolery, 1565 S. Sheridan Zat’s, 3708 South Peoria Organizations B/L/G Alliance, University of Tulsa. *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. 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Skelly 745-1111 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Bill Hinlde, Attorney -587-1500 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 7~159 747-5466 John Kirk, Realtor 747-5800, 745-2245 Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics 832-0233 Richard Reeder, MS, Psychotherapy 581-0902, 743-4117 Religious Organizations *Bless The LordAtAll Times Christian ctr 2627B E. 11 628-0594 *Community of Hope, 1347 N. Yale 838-7232 *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mingo 622-1441 *MCC of Greater .Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 Dignity/Integrity 298-4648 *Canterbury Ministry Center, University of Tulsa 583-9780 Tulsa OklahomatiS~or Human Rights ¯ PO Box 52 729 Tul~a; 0 K 74152 tohr reporter . , The views expressed elsewhere in Tulsa Family News are not necessarily the views of TOHR. Permission is granted to reprint information contained within the TOHRR~:~,p~’~long with other items, under the byline, "submitted by TOHR; contained elsewhere in-Tblsa Family News. TOHR proudl9 presents the annual pride meek~ .o: . :. _ L_ . . i-i " " " ~ ’ : ’~ ’ ’ at the 1565 S. Sheridan Friday, June 17th from 9 p.m. to Midnight $5 at the door to benefit TOHR. TULSA’S BI ST I llT! RTfllfllTII llT! M.C. MK. TONI SINCLAIRffom OKC HELLEN BACK Miss Renegades 1994 KRIS KOH% Miss Tulsa 1986 FALLON SCOTT Miss Oklahoma USA 1993 I-~LGA Miss Renegades 1993 SADIE BROOKSMiss Silver Star 1994 MR. SILVER STAR 1993 . .- ~;~: ~-:~: o~::.>..~.~>:~.~: .--~.-~ -~-~........ ~<- L>.~-~:~S ~.E..-R S~.~t~:................. , ~,:~, ~:...:~. . - ~ ~::5-~. 7 30 9:~00-p:m::~- ~ ~"-~ ~-gb~a~~te~L"O~n~ ~f~a~’~ ~= ’~~= ..... ~ . -. . $8 per Person $15 per Couple includes Show! 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J1me-Ju{Fl1994. page 3 News:Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Students Fight the Right MINNEAPOLIS - Recalling student civil rights activism in the South during the 1960s, dozens of gay; lesbian, bisexual and transgeader students from the University of Minnesota will be departingby bus from Minneapolis July 10 f,o,r what organizers are calling ’Missouri Summer’ 947~TI~ sthd"ent campaign will work in a~ 8-week grassroots campaign With the Missouri- based :group -Show -Me Equality :to ~gh~.a proposed statewide anti-gayballot measure. Formoreinformation about the student grojeet contact Gary Schiff, c00r~liffator, MISSOURI SUMMER’.94 at. (612) 724- 5942, by writing to MISSOURI SUMM~.~94, 1i5 E. 34th St. Miuneapolis..~ MN 55408, or scbif003 @maroon.tc.nmn_edu Anti-Gay .Ballot to. Fail? BOISE, Idaho- With less than 3 months until a July 8 filing deadline, the Idaho Citizens Alliance says it had gathered just over a third ofthe signafures needed to put a proposed anti-gay ballot initiative on the ballot this November, according to the Idaho Statesman newspaper. Opponents of the proposed measure were hopeful about ICA’ s difficulties in getting the required number of signatures, but were not yet celebrating. "Itjust goes to Show that Idaho is not the pushover state that they thought it was," said Brian Bergqnist, co-chairman of the Don’t Sign On Committee. No Bias in Health Reform WASHINGTON - According to a poll released bythe Human Rights CampaignFund,-67% of Americans favor anti-bias proteetions including gays andldsbian~ as part 6f~dfi6aal health-care reform efforts, while only 24% opposed such civil rights protections. HRCF, a gay rights advocacy groupbased inWashington, is lobbying Congress to include anti-bias language in various health care proposals currently being considered by the legislature. 10,000 Athletes NEW YORK - At least 10,000 athletes from around the world have registered for the June 18- 25 Gay Games IV, organizers of the cultural and athletic celebration have announced. Gay Games officials said they expect more than a million visitors in the city from 42 different countries, including Indonesia, Bulgaria, Zimbabwe, and New Zealand. They also confirmed that theU.S. Justice Dept. has waived a ban that bars foreigners With HIV and AIDS from entering the country. Fundie Candidates Lose VIRGINIA BEACH, Va. - A Pat Robertson-backed slate of 5 fundamentalists vying for seats on the televangelist’S own hometown of Virginia Beach, Va., were all rejected by Voters Tuesday, May 3. ~ Edward Kreyfin~ Jr., one of the defeated fundamentalist candidates, said ¯ ilie ~featbf-~e slht~~~iil~d by talk ’~thdtwe w~ia ri~litwing takeover" group. Austin Repeals Benefits AUSTIN, Tex. - By almb~tla 2~ 1 margin, voters in the Texas state capital dealtasurprisebodyblow to gay rights in one of the few cities in the state that likes to pride itself on its progressive politics by repealing Austin’s domesticpartnerprogr~.forcity workers. With a!L _o,f~e ~recincts reporting, thenbn~0fficial count was 51,475, or 62%; in favor of Proposition 22, and 31,082, or 38%, against. Although the group backing the successful repeal measure, Concorned Texans, had couched much of its campaigning to overturn the city-approved partners benefits in economic terms, the organization also made it clear that it considered the recognition of same-sex partnerships a"perversion of traditional family values." Charles Bullock, pastor of the Christ Memorial Baptist Church and the head of Concerned Texans, said the vote in the usually liberal Austin showed a dear majority with conservative moral values,, even if they do not always ¯¯out at decti0ns. The resultsof the election stunned ¯ ¢die~city’~’s’ |esbian/gay~commu- " ~ifity,~many:of’whom said ihey felt let down by Austin’ s usually tolerant residents. Colorado& Amendm’t 2 I~E~VE~~The ~10rado attorney general’ s office has applied to the state Supreme Coqrt asking it to restore the anti-gay Amendment 2 to the books. The appeal, which is expected to be heard by the court later this year, c~aim’~ ~e,voter-approved mea- . sure would.have protected the legal rights of citizens, including landlords and employers, wi~h "deep-seated and profound religious objections to homosexuality" byrepealinglocal civil rights measures throughout Colorado. Canadian Partners TORONTO ’- The Canadian government says it will go ahead with legislation requiring employers to pay benefits to samesex couples. Attorney General Marion Boyd said the goyernment will introduce the legislation shortly in an effort to make certain that same-sex couples get thesame fights as married heterosexuals. If the proposed legislation is enacted, companies would be required to pay~amily benefits to the’ Same-sex partners of ~mployees, and the def’mition of"spousev would be modified ~in’softie 80 p~dee~of ~Xisting legislation t0 bring it in line with the changes. Although exact details were not made available, the proposed legislation and its relaied changes would mean that same-sex couples would be able tojointly adoptchildren. Passage of the legislation will hinge on approval in the legislature. NYC Councilman to Run for Congress NEWYORK-TomDuane,New York’s first openly gay city councilman, has announced that hey s throwing his .hat inthe race to.represent part of Manhattan’ s West Side 8th Congressional district in the U.S. House of Representatives. Dtmne, 39, announced during his 1991 bid for a seat on theCity Council that he is HIV:positive. He will face ¯ All Breeds Dog Grooming ¯ llth & Mingo, 838-7626 ¯ Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. ¯ Call for Appointments ¯ Walk-ins Also Welcome¯ ¯ BROOKSIDE JEWELRY : i * Fine Jewelry ¯° Watch & Jewelry Repair 4649 South Peoria, 743-5272 DartTournament, Tuesdays, 9 pm . 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Some 24 ¢ommuni, ties in Oregon have SO far approved anti-gay ballotmeasures, and the anti-gay Oregon Citizeus Alliance is planning to put ¯ its 2ndstatewide measure before Oregonvoters this November. A similar 1992 effortwas narrowly rejected by the state,s voters. Bermuda Sodomy Law BEtLMUDA - The~i Bermuda House of Assembly has voted 22-16 to. legalize homosexual relations between men after a tense and oftenbitter debate. The proposed legislation must still be approved by the British colony’s senate: PremierSirJohn Swan opposes the legalization efforts. ~ " ~ ~. ~Aussies .Fight forRights SYDNEY÷~TheAus~ian-fed-. ’ eral gove~ent is,[aunc~izg legal moves .tO nullify Tasmahomosexual acts following failure. of state and federal officials to reach any compromise. The UN Human Rights CommiRee . earlier this~ year declared Tasmania’s male;male sedomy statutea conmavention of internati0nal- human rights accords. .i_ A~s_trali.an~ Attorney General - Michael Lavarch said he would ~recommend that the federal ~. governmenttak,e steps to assure~ -. that-~ Tasmania~:s.,homosexuals. enjoy the~ii~e rights :as other citizen..Gay .activists, who: ¯ s~~eWl~lsofthiscomplex fight: bgtw~i the.:fe~der~ and T~angovernments bySuccessfulty ~g-thelr Caseuf human rights violations to the UN,-Said theyh~ot~xttoice s0me sort ofiegal reforms by-the end - Gay RightsLaw. Sort -. of -.,in. N.C. City. ASHEViLLE, H.C:~ Aresolution be~fore the .Asheville City Council- ban’ing anti-gayempl0yment =ind h6using discriminaottieo- nl~puatsoseadly.b~yftaern.a~reropwhr4a-s3e "sexual orientation" was replaced with~ the vague "or any ~therreason~’ ~. thg list of prOtected classes. Far right, anti:gay fundamentalists hadobjected to including sexual orientation in the legislation: .i " " " petitioned to Queen Elizabeth II for a royal pardonfor gay playwright Oscar Wilde as a fitting commemoration of his conviction on "~uggery" (or sodomy) charges nextyear.Apresstel~e~s.,e from the group said Wilde s . "imprisonment is astain on the -judi~al. :s~y~t~m...~Th.e-very least ~ ~oc~t~i~n d6i~ ~icl~iov~!edge --the wrong done.to Wilde an,d, grant him; a royal pardon?-.. -~ Buckingham Palac~~ did!i ~ngt - CiVilian-ACcu~Navy.- .-LOS ANGF_~F_~ .-~. ¯ S~v~ a foyer Mari.e¢~rps sergemlt and: 12:year:.civilian employee with the Strike~Systemi~~ tatthe~M"gu ". Naval!firWeapons station;- has reacheda settlement~in his’ federal’c6mplaintwith the Equal Employinent-. Opportunity cO-~m~ssion, c~ar~ii~g ~th~ - was harassed and discriminated against by the.Navy because of ~his sexual orientation. As part of -the settlement, however; Swarm will keep hiscivil service rank and transfer to the base’s comptroller’s office.as a management analyst. Gavs-& the Holocaust JERUSALEM - Conservative Jewish demonstrators scuffled with gay rights activists, at the Holocaust ~demorial .in Israel group of 19 rabbis took out anad in the Jerusalem Post denounc- -ing the ceremony as "an abomination" and threatening a boycoRof the Holocaust Mem6rial ifthe ceremony wentaheac~ One protester shouted . "You are full of shit and AIDS, at a gayrights .hCfi~ist,~-No s.e~ous incidents wererepoff~dandrio arrests were : _Lesbian Book Rev|ew ¯ ~ALTADENA~ Calif..~ The~-~ bian~Revi~w:~0f:-B0oks will -la~ch¯pubu~ati0n ~s AUguSt, :o f~atuiing reviews of~o~, by, ¯ about and -directed,t6 lesbian readers. The review will also :~ feature essays about :authors, fiterary~issues:and related topical m~tters in a wide range, of works, from histo~ and literature tosCiencefictionand erotica. The, quarterly review is available at a subscription price of $I0 for 1 yeafor $18 foi 2 yeats at:, Lesbian Review 6f Books, PO Box 6369, Altadena CA 91003 (for a sample copy of the first issue, send $2.50 to that address). Conoentration Camps ROME - Gay rights activists in Italy called for an international boycott of the country after remarks. by a neo-fascist r.nning fora seat in the European Parliament that Franco Grillini,-head of the Italian group Axcigay, urged "forcigagovernments toboycottItaly until wehave assurances that the presence of fascists, in governinent woii’i-iaffect ite-;bcratic rights.,~ In Bonn_. the Society for the Threatened People said it had called ~e vigil outside the Italian ¢mbassy~use Of Concern for the rightS of minorities Friday 1;o Sunday, July 15’17 . on t,heOU Gampus,-Norm.an. Oklahoma " " yoU’re a part-of Oklahorna l .fi $t st t .wide’ .gathering of :Gay, Lesbian, Bisexualand Transgendered people! FOR MORE INFORMATION CALL (91~) 445-0922, OR WRITE TO : R0. [50X 61305 . OKLAHOMA CITY, OKLAHOMA ¯ 73146 Tulsa Family News, June:July 2994, p~age 5 News Briefs News continuedfrom page 5 page ruling. "Prejudice, whether founded on unsubstantiated fears, cultural myths, Stereotypes or erroneous assumptions cannot be the basis for a discriminatory classification," JudgeZilly ruled. Cam~ermeyer, a 27-year.veteran and Army nurse who was awarded the Bronze Star for her 14-month tour of duty in Vietnam, was thrilled at the ruling. Partners Bill Fails in CA SAC~MENTO; Calif: =-The day after.the California Assembly passed a statewide domestic parmers registration measure by the narrowest of. margins, the proposed bill failed to pass the state Senate by 2 votes - althoughit s611lmsa secondchance at passage in the upper house. The limited partners bill would extend to registered couples - heterosexual or homosexual - Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News such legal benefits as hospital visitation rights; serving as a conservator for their partner, and willing property as married couples do. The legislation, authored by Assemblyman Richard Katz, was approved by the state Assembly on May 31 by a 41-26 vote - the bare minimum needed for approval in the lower chamber. But the next day, the Senate compamon measure, sponsoredby Sen. Gary Hart (D- ~anta Barbara), gam~red.only 19 votes for passage with 16 against. A21-vote majority is required in the upper chamber to pass such legislation. Because of the bill’s passage in the AS- . sembly, along with the close Senate vote, Hart asked for and was given permission to put the measure forward on the Senate agenda during a future session. Church~of Greater Tulsa Where God Uplifts All People Sunday service, 10:45 am Home Cell~Groups, 2nd& 4th Sundays, 6:00 pm Phone: (918) 838-1715 SF Partners’ Tax, Break SAN FRANCISCO- Same-sex couples here took.another incremental step toward equal-recognition of their domestic parmerships with an exemption from the ~ity’s real estate transfer taxes if they dissolve, their relationship - an exemption married couples enjoy under state law. The exemption measure, unanimously approved by the Board of Supervisors on Tuesday€May ¯ 31, is themostrecent legal effort here to .extend benefits to gay and lesbian couples already enjoyed by married conples: "We’re endeavoring to chip.away at the issue of lesbian and gay equity in society," said Supervisor Carole Migden, author of the measure. "Lesbians and gays live here in great numbers, the majority of whom are hard-work- Photography J.D. Jamett 592,0608 ing, taxpaying citizens who should be entitled to the same rights awarded to others." Boy Scout Ban Review SACRAMENTO~ Calif: - The state Supreme Court has agreed ~dreview conflicting lower court ings about whether the Boy Scouts of America policy, of excluding gays and atheists vio= -lates ~S~’e anfi-discrimiiiation statutes. The high court .-anntua~ d:it wilIe~xi~ the ii~- peals Of two separate eases involving the. youth group, both of which concern wl~ether the Boy Scouts are a ’~business establishmeni"’ aS defined by Califomia~s sweeping Unrnh Civil Rights Act. Early last year a state Court of Appeal in Santa Aimruledthat the OrangeCounty Council of the Boy Scouts isin fact a business as defined by the Unnth ACt and cannot exclude youngsters from membership because.of their religious beliefs _and refusal .to swear an oath to God. Just weeks later, however, a state appeals court in Lo~ Angeles. ruledthat the scouts were not a~business under the Unruh Act and that the youth group could legally exclude gays~ Tl~t ruling came in the case’of~Tim Curran, a former Eagle Scout who filed suit originally in 1980 after he was rejected as a scoutmaster for a Berkeley troop be- San Diego Gives Benefits SAN DIEGO, Calif. - The San Diego, Calif., city council narrowly approved a measure extending health care benefits to the domestic partners of unmarried municipal employees. The council approved the measure oN a 5~4 vote during a session. concerned with contracts between the city and anion workers. Councilwoman Christine ,Kehoe,. a lesbian who recently became the council’s firstopenly gay member and sponsorof the measure, said, "It’s a fairness is, sue. What the city has done is made it - I hope - OK for other employers in San Diego to say this is the kind of coverage I want to offer." Time Kills Gay Magazine NEW YORK - Time Inc. has said abandoned plans to launch Tribe, a national gay magazine that would have been the first such publication started by a major :-mainstream publisher: There were reports that Time had been the object Of intense letterrwriting campaign by anti~ gay fundamentalists, but executives with the publishing firm denied their; decision to drop plans for the new.magazine were a result of any outside pressure and insistedthe Switch in plans was based entirely on economics.. The Village Voice had, reported, however, ~at ~ime:~Inc, Sandra J, Hill, M,S. 745,1111 INTERNATIONAL TOURS Airline/Hotel Reservations Ticket Pick-Up " ~C~se/Tour Packages Group & Incentive Programs "No" Service Charge --- :.:: :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::: ~"~-r. -. :::::::::: :~ RSVP’s 10th Ai_niversary Cruise on ~~i!~~i~~:::~:-~- JbuoabrildeeC, aMrnairvcahl s19m-2eg6a, -1fu99n5S, hdi.pLA ~Mexican Riviera, Space going fast. Oklahoma’s Only LG.T.A. Affiliate (International Gay Travel Association) Tul;a Family News, June-July 1994, page 6 -Attorney -atLaw. Estate Planning Adoptions Personal Injury Criminal Law Bankruptcy Workers Compensation Initial consultation at no charge. Attention All Lesbian & Gay Couples Protect your relationship! There are ways .to replicate the legal benefits/ protections of marriage. For the fee of only $150 each, you can provide for each other with powers of attorney, living-wills, medicalauthorizations, testamentaw wills and other documents if needed with fUll.consultation. 1-800-742-9468 or 918-352-9504 128 East Broadway, Drumright, Oklahoma Weekend and-evening appointments are available; ~News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs,News Briefs News Briefs News~Briefs News had dropped its plans after Donald Wildmonof the American Family Assn.had laanched a campaign .by his group against the magazine. Disney World’s Gay Day ORLANDO, Fla. - Despite .angry complaints from anti-gay ~uhdamentalists ~and evencon= spicuous signs saving it wasn’t a Disney World sponsored event, "Gay Day at Disney" drew some 20,000 lesbians andgay men to the popular theme park. A small gro~ip 0f about 2 dozen protest-= ers connected with theAmerican Family Assn. and Operation Rescue picketed along an entrance road to the park, but without much apparent support. Disney World posted signs outside the park explaining that "members of the gay.comn~unity have chosen to visit the Magic Kingdom today in their recognition of Gay and Lesbian Pride Month" and that Disney "does notdiscriminate againstdnyone’s fight to visit the Magic Kingd~ m." / Lesbian and gay Workers at the park volunteered to serve as off:duty guides for the thousands who showed up. The eventis the 4th such lesbian!gay trip to .the central Florida park, but, because of the ~eelebrations of the 25th annivers~, of.the Stonewall:Riots Daya~’Disney, ~6t@id~pf~! Swedish Partners Law STOCKHOLM -Following a 4-hour debate, the Swedish parliament (Riksdag) narrowly. adopted legislation that would allow-same-sex Couples nearly - - but not all - the Same bentfits and responsibilities of marriage. The bill establishing registered partnerships in tile e0untry passed 171-141. The law, which will go into effect at the begin~ ning of 1995, a!lows same-sex couples a civil.(but not churdh) ¯ ceremony similar to a wedding; couples dre ntt allowed to adopt or have children through artificial insemination, Denmark and Norway already have similar laws. Minneapolis Law Illegal MINNEAPOLI.S.~ (June 8) -- District Court Judge Deborah ¯ Hedlundhas ruled t~at the Min~ neapolis:eity council overstepped its authoriU when it enacted a measure tl~t extends benefits to. the.partners of lesbian .and. gay city workers.: Judge Hedlfin-d ¯ declared the parmers Ordinance illeg.al.and ruled,that the state of Minnesotahad given cities the ..legal. right to finance employee benefits~0nly f0rthe spouses mid dependents ofcity workers. Becaiase sathe-sex couples-cannot leg~ly!-marry, thejudge, ruled,- " ~y eann0t~ome eli~ib!e for - ¯ su~hibenefi.ts~ It Was’not imm¢- ’ ~ ~a~i~ ~|~ but~many,.~obse~. ers expect the city to appeal the ruling since gays and lesbians cannot legally marry anywhere in.the U.S~ Dutch Partners ,Law AMSTERDAM-- The Dutch cabinet hastabledameasur~ that couples, extending,to gays andlesbians whoregistered many of the same benefits as married het-. erosexuals,- No e~planation ~was ~ given for .the:action.which is. believed-tobe only temporary. Ontario Partners,-Lose TORONTO ~- The Ontario Parliament has rejected on a 68-59 vote a. government-sp0nsored measure that-would have-established a:domestic partner registration in the province.This means the measure is dead:in Ontario for the time being. AT&T Wants Gays! CHICAGO - ~T&T, the giant long-distance cartier, has broken something of a barrier by-sending some 70,000 direct-mail pieces targeting gays, .lesbians and bisexuals. ~as ~ prosPectiv.e customers. It is believed to be thefirst time ~ maj0r U.S. firm has specifically sought-to target the country’.s !argelyuntapped gaycomm~ty in a direct’mail advertising campaign..o"It.’.s .. a ¯v~ry €o~fitiV~ m~rket,’~ Jo~ Heath, AT&T’S public relations manager in Chicago, said. :"It" s a good market Segment. to tar_get.. It includes affluent, highly e~hicated and brand loyal consumers with ahigh level of discretionary income.’.’ quotes froms~,~eral AT&T customers and includes excerpts from a letter’i explaining the corpo- ,Kami =Burns,. LCSW License~d Clinical Therapist - SolutiOn~oriented Therapy I¯nd[viduals,~couples,¯ families, adolescents Confidential - ethical, reputable _ : ~ Tulsa, OK ration’ s pro-gay policies and its gay-lesbian-biSexual employee group. Arepiycardis iavender with a pink triangle. Heath said the direct mail approach is much like the targeting of Blacks, Hispanics, a~d A~ia~s’; or mailing to people with dertain lifestyle patterns, Such as travelers, peoi~lewho Work at home, coil~ge smdem-s:0r ne~ home " ~COPA Ross Folsom Hairdesigner Color Techiaician Lincoln Plaza i310 E. 15th St. 583.1500 Beal, MD ¯ i Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehesive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic Services We have many .insurance provider affiliations - ifyou belong to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us andwe will apply. 1560 East 21st Street, Suite 210 743-1000 Monday - Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm SUPPORT TULSA G’AY PRIDE T R:AVEL ¯ -i~..i: "’Our ClientsAlways,; ’ ) 496’2410" 1’800"336"3524" 6927 So: cantonAve, -¯¯ PhillipCyr General Contractor CosmeticRenovations interiorlE3cteriorPainting , Carpeting Cabinet Refacing CeramicTile Countertops . ~ 918:745-9911 Tulsa Family News,. June-July 1.994, page 7 1~ E N() VATd()N,~ Health Briefs Health Briefs .Health, Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs AIDS Groups Call on Gebbi6 tO Resign WASHINGTON-Th~ National Assn. Of People with AIDS and ACT UPhave both called for Kristine Gebbie, President Clinton’s.iAIDS policy coordi: nator;to ~esign. lqAP’~VA’s ex- ¯ecutive direc~r, William Free~ man, said the:organization had "worked hard" with Gebbie for OK State Health Dept. Aussies Tout Acyclovir Seeks Planning Input SYDNEY - High doses of the The HIV/STD Service of the herpes drug Acyclevir can sig- Oklahoma State Department of . nificanfly prolong the survival Health (OSDH) announces the of people with AIDS, according establishment of a community to a 19~2_. study. "the study has ~tflznningo~,~r°un to,_ ad’Vi~OSDHI: shown, thatAcyclovir. can extend on funding priorifiesfor HIV .... hfe by .around szx months, a prevention: OSI-ID~!.00.kstowtxk " significant advantage in this somore elbsdy with a variety of rions disease," said David Coocommunities around the state to per, director ofthe National man’s complaint last year and concluded he had been wrongfully dismissed because of his HIV status. Officials at the university deny any wrong doing. FDAOKs New Drug WASHINGTON - An advisory committee of the Food and Drug Administration has recommended that the government approve-a new drug to treatHIV, emergency room in Fremont, Ohio. But, the suitcharges, when Dr.Charles Hull, the physician in charge at the time, discovered Charon’s AIDS diagnosis, Hull refused to admit Charon to the hospital and sent him to another hospital f~ treatment. Infections from Vaccine CHICAGO~ Several volunteers in a federal governmentstudy to 9 months.bm.o.that"now we be- .workmoreeffeetivel~tocombat. ~,en.m~in_IL/IVEpidemiology..an.d . but with severe warnings that:.,-testexpefimentalAIDSvaceines lievgshi~’iS’!in0.~ipable of mar= -~:~Accordingto~NYitm~ ii":’ Cl~yal.~l~se~c_h :~t;~e,. Um~ . d,octo~s.stilLdo.9~.tknow.enou.gh (ha.v.ebecome infected with._HIV; s~the ~_pixnt of the federal i" OSDHGay&.LesbianOutreaCh ~.vers...Ry~I~.ew~oumw_mes..,. ~bou,t,.tge~m~e~_~cme.t.o, saywho, ...imsmg.cog._csms:abo.u.tthesafety level :NAPWAsaysisnecesimry Coordinator, the~tat.e’s Gay"& mma testa Hertm tot HIV s~omo,ta~e.it. :l~heFDAp..anelof / of sueh,.m,alSi:according to are~ to fight the epidemic. In inter~ .Lesbian.€ommuiiifie~are en;. -:NEWDI~I J-II-Thegovemment- ~,enUsts said .t.t~t Stavudine, o_r :. port~theC~ago Tribune. The views with‘ several reporters, couraged to participate in this .. Sponsored Indian :Council of 4.T, .p,m~babl.y..has s.om~e~,b~nefit . ya~.c~m..~, Whichare be~.g test~l GebbieSaid.shehasnointenfion process. : - .._ ~-.. :_ ~’ i Medical Research, In.dia’s top ,overme.~¢xastmgAt~..~arugs, m !~mited clinical trials~at 5 of resigningz~ ’ . . OSDH seeks individuals from " medical agency, says itwill be~ but _c~__utano_t say.precmely who .. universities, do not contain any PWA’s Raused Ent~ to.. ,thesecommunitiest0se~efot~a, - ginAInS-related clinical trials .would ,be~fit,~owsafe~edmg :~0f~v~’~e.ti.cmat_~erialand Rao~nti~’Thi~’.l,v|~ oneyear.term. The ~deadlin¢for. involving traditional Indian .is, or .w,nem.e.r.tlxe m.anutactmTer .:can t:.c~=~e m~=:e~_.~tmn..But even. W’7,,’7;:Y,:,~’~.::’:""".~.. ~ nominations was June 17buthas . herbal remedies said to Stop the ts on me ng.ht track to answer /so,7 ofsome 1;400participants . ~,la_t~tJlor~ -A ,re~ep.non been extended: indefinitely. Spread of HIV A task force has these and other.questionS. The "- including 2 people who were neia oy federal AIDS poficy co. Nomination form~ andmorein- selected. 10 l~er~al drugs for drugseemS to helpboost the recei~ng only placebos - have ordinator Kristine Gebbie to formation can be found at the cfiuical experiments. The drugs immunity ofHIV patients while testedpositiveforHIV.All seven commemorate Pediatric &Ado- creatingfewer Side effects than positive volunteers had been lescent AIDS Week and AIDS Watch -.flopped when 9 invited I-IIV-positive, homeless guests and 20 otherinvitedpeople were denied entrance to the event. The resulting eommotkra and confusions pawned accusations of racism and discrimination against homeless people, and many guests who were admitted to the reception walked out in protest. The incident-mounted further criticism of Gebbie, who activists say has notdoneenough to fight AIDS. Triangle Association, 2136 NW 39th,OldahomaCity, or the HIV Resource Center,. 4154 So: Harvard, Ste. H-1,Tulsa~ orwrite HIV/STD Service, Oklahoma. StateDepartmontofHealth, I000 NE 10th, OKC73117, 40£27!- 4636 or 800=535-AIDS. Gay & Lesbian Quarterly, a newsletter for healthcare professionals, highlighting recent research of interest of those working with sexual minorities. For info: Christopher J. Alexander, Ph.D, 510-869-4544 were selected from the ancient Indian school of Ayurvedic .medicine, which uses herbal and root-extracts for treatment of chronic diseases. University Sued BUIES CREEK, N.C. -Thefederal lawsuit against the Baptistrun Campbell University in an effort tomake the school rehire a physical education coach with AIDS is underway. The "John Doe" suit was filed after the U.S. Equal Employment Opporttmity. Commission investigated the otherdrags, according to Bristol- Myers Squibb: Patient Sues Hospital TOLEDO, Ohio- Fred Charon, a 31-year-old man with AIDS who was denied treatment by~a hospital emergency room physician, has sued under the Americans With Disabilities Act. Attorneys with ACLU representing Charon claim in the lawsuit that he was suffering an allergic reaction to medication when he counseled about how to reduce -the risk of HIV infection, but researchers have long worried neously believe that they are protected and engage in highrisk behaviors. Scientists say some new infections were to be expected during the trials and that no prospective vaccine would likely be 100% effective. went to the M_emorial Hospital .... PROJECT Alivd 7:$0 pm Thursday ¢odepmdmey Support ~roop 622-1441 Look for o~ at our NEW LOOATION 5451-E So. Mingo We’re Orowiag g We’re Movi.g! ¢o.fid al u.sding tuesdays fro~ 6:~0,9:00 pm at the Family of Fa~ rosario. ~roJeet F.eaoh Out !} Thursdays from 6%0- 9:00 pm a~ ~he llth $~reet laoatio. (~roJeet F,eaeh OH !!) MCC-1441 Other Time~ by Appointment Demo~ €ontinuedfrom page I " that’s so, then the laws and rules need to be changed?’ 3Vhen asked if he would issue an executive order banning discrimination basedon sexual orientation for state Pride Summit continuedfrompage l include protection from discrimination on.the basis of sexual orientation. She is now leading acampaignto fight the radical employees,, hel responded by. asking, right’s targeting of the black community "do~n’tthatfollow fromwhatIjust said?" in anti-gay ballot initiatives. Bernice Shedriek’s campaign literature Radecic and Carter will.join with Gays speaks o~ the. great adversity she.has and Lesbians from across the state for overcome and Jf her doggedness in fo!- .Oklahoma’sfirsts-mmitconference.Early " lowing what she believes is right. 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Memodal * Tulsa, OK 74145 (918) 622~3636 Tulsa Family Ne~s, June,July l~.~, page 9 T H E G Greenwood & Archer JUNL~F~NTH JAZZ, BLUES & GOSPEL FF~TIVAL 6116d9 Broken Arrow " CAROSEL 6/16-26 River Park Wdst " RFfoGAEFEST 6/24~25 American Theatre Co. BYE BYEBIRDIE 7/8-17 Theatre Pops ANTIGONE/ANOTHER ANTIGONE 7/8-17 Theatre Tulsa AND THEWORLD GOES ROUND 7/22-31 Svotli~ht Theatre THE DRUNKARD Ongoing A 596-71 I1 596-7111 596-7111 587-5030 Y L I Theatre Notes by Gerald Miller, Theatre Tulsa If it is Summer, thenitmustbe SummerStage time. The KOTV Spirit of Oklahoma SummerStage~ Festival ’94 kicks off this monih. The original idea for. the: Summer Festival was developed toprovide live Theatrical entertainment during the time.when most area theaters were notin production. Thatidea .wilt be translated into nine productions by eight companies this summer. For. convenience ..you~may make reservations for’any of the productions by calling the Per= forming Arts Center Box Office at 596-7111 for res.ervations. This year the Performing Arts Trust and KOTV Television are co-sponsoring the entire Festival and all of us from the SummerStage Board ~want to express our thanks. A-Festival arrangement like this allows all the producing companies to really strut their best efforts. Be sure to take advantage of wide range of offerings. After all, how much time can you really spend at the lake ? Theatre Tulsa will be offering something, very special this summer during the Festival. The World Goes ’Round is a Broadway Musical Revue which pro- F E S T Y L E vides 30 of your favorite Broadway hits in a single evening. From Cabaret; Chicago; New York, New York to Kiss of the Spider Woman and many, many more shows, you can enjoy a full evening of the best of Broadway music inone clever evening. For continued to mount productions during the Second World War, both for civilians and for service men and women. Between 1942 and 1943, one of.our Artistic Managers was Ward Mendenhall w’ho was called into service and the last additional information glvem a twoplays of1943 were directed call at 58%8402 and ask about .- by Virginia Weaver Russell.. our Group Discounts. So here in.this moment of re- I want to take: a moment to reflect on the .other big event which is occurring as I write. The D,Day. Invasion was fifty years ago today. The events of this ..day 50 years ago have been the inspiration for some wonderful dramatic works. Infact the Theaterhadits’ own dramatic moment relative to the war. Tulsa Little Theatre, our name back then, was one of the few Community Theaters which fleetion about sacrifice and service; I find another tie between the life of this Theater, this Commtmity and the wonderful peoplcwho kept up; not only their Own spirits, but the spirits of _the whole community in that darkest of times. Here’s to Ward Mendenhall, and .all the other men and women from Tulsa Little Theatre who served their community so honorably at home and on the battlefield. ADVENTURE BASE ONE Trainino in rappieling/backpacking/. _m oun?aineering/wil~ernes s treks/ ropes courses Consulting in experimental wilderness adventure based programming. Private & group rates available. Exclusive "family groups" welcome Call for information, 918-425-4778. 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Partners is seeking f’mancial support.for tile projectforproduelionand distn’bution. Formore info: Partners, Box-9685, Seattle, WA 98109; (206) 935-1206. I F -E S T Y L E TNT’s 7th Anniversary Party Sunday, July 10th Dancers, Singers, Comedians Specials All Night! 2H4 So. Memorial., 660-0856 SAIL ON OVER TO ¯PHOENIX MORTGAGE CORR AND SEE THE ALTERNATIVE PROGRAM WE CAN ANCHORFO.RYOU. YOUR ALTERNATIVEMORTGAGE COMPANY SPECIALIZING IN ¯ SELF-EMPLOYED NEW CONSTRUCTION LOANS PROFESSIONALS 918,592.7700 -? Black ~.~ White Charities, It the continuing traditic FRIDAY, JUL’f 29 ¯ Gilcrease Come be. a part of two evenings A Night of Sizzling Sounds, Delicious Dancing, Savy Socializing & Exotic E -~: Eight o’clocktil Midnight Tulsa Fairground Pavilion on Expo Square Black & White Attire: Suggested Cash Bar on the e~oning of dance. 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Kills HIV Testing Grant to Family of Faith MCC’s Project Reach Out; Flags Management Problems National News Gay Games IV & Stonewall 25 NEW YORK - "Welcome to Yankee Stadium! You’ve come to the right place," actor/playwright Harvey Fierstein said to the roared approval of more thzn 40,000 spectators as nearly 12,000 athletes from around the world marched in the famed New York stadium during the dosing ceremonies of Gay Games IV. The thousands of women and men from 43 countries competed in 31 spordng events held at 42 locations around the New York City ’metropolitan area. The weeklong event, which organizers said drew more than a halfmillion visitors to Manhattan where they spent at least an estimated $400 million, was astOundingly free of trouble. At the opemng ceremonies at Columbia University Stadium on June 18, three rather forlorn antigay fundamentalists showed up outside the arena to warn of "the evils of homosexuality" while tens of thousands and lesbians see Games, page 6 Co ng.ress to Consider AntiDiscrimination Proposal No OK Lawmakers Willing to Sponsor WASHINGTON- According~ to the Human Rights Campaign Fund, .the Employment NonDiscrimination Act (Senate, $2238 & House, HR4636) that would bar bias in the workplace based on sexual orientation, has gotten the backing of 30 sponsors in the U.S. Senate and ll6in the House of Representatives - 136 Democrats, 9 Republicans and 1 Independent -.since the measure was introduced June 23. Legislative aide to Mass. Representative Gerry Studds, Mark Agrast noted that this bill is a "serious" proposal written in "real" legislative language. While he charaterized earlier civil rights proposals as usefulin raising the issue of rights proteetions, he emphasized that this bill has much more serious Chances 0f passing. The bill provides exemptions for religious July 15 - August 14, 1994, Volume 1, Issue 8 TOHR Defends Human Rights Chief Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) praised Eddie Fay Gates for her work as a member of the Human Rights Commission of the City of Tulsa. TOHR alSO condemned the announced opposition of several councillors to Ms. Gates reappointment."This is an attempt to punish Ms. Gates for giving civil rights proposals that include Lesbians and Gay men a fair hearing" said Ric Kirby, TOHR vice-president. He added, "Ms. Gates has a long and distinguished record of volunteer service to the city. Our councillors should consider the city lucky if sheis willing to continue to serve." institutions and for employers with fewer.than 15 employees. Agrast also noted the unprec- bill. He tioted that he has a very " good record of voting in support of issues of concern to Lesbian & Gay Oklahomans. He stated that he would not be a co-sponsor of the bill since it did notgo through any committees on which he serves. He added that he did not feel co-sponsorship was particularly important to a bill’s passage. Senator Boren’s press aide, Nick Hathaway issued a brief statement saying that the senator was supportive of the concept of the bill but was still undecided about co-sponsorship. edented number of Republican c0-sponsors foi the bill. At press time, neither Representative McCurdy’s staff or Sen. Nickles staff had returned re: peated calls asking for explanations of their respective positions. Sen. Nickles’ staff indicated that he would oppose the bill but also stated that they had not even read it yet. Representative Mike Synar while in Tulsa for a pro-choice rally at Temple Israel said he would vote for the Officials with the HIV/STD Services of the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health have issued a certified letter to Family of Faith (FoF) Metropolitan Community Church notifying it of the end of funding for Project Reach Out Too, an HIV education and testing program aimed at Gay & Bisexual men of color in Tulsa. The end of funding for Project Reach Out Too will also end state funding for HIV testing at Project Reach Out, aFoF project begun in 1993 to educate and test underserved sub-communities: youth, rural inhabitants and leatherfolk~ State Healfla Gay & Lesbian Outreach co-ordinator., Alan Nyitray and co-liason Ernestine Hill indicated that the grant was withdrawn due to repeated failure to complete federally mandated forms. These "scan" forms which are coded with identifying numbers to match blood samples and test results; help,in part; to verify that persons teSted actually have received their test results as well aspr0per ~-.re~e~t and p~s t~ test counselling. Nyitray indi, eated that inlate 1993 under the original grant, problems ~ith not receiving the forms _began to appear. In early 1994, FoF received a grant six times larger than its 1993 grant to begin the "men of color"-outreach at a non-SOuth Tulsa location and a small amount of funds was included to continue to pay for HIV testing as a continuation of the 1993 program. However, according to Nyitray, problems with paperwork continued. He recalls that he and Hill had either four orfive meetings in Tulsa with Pastor Pam Crocker over Several months during the spriiag as well as a similar number of phone calls. Nyitray said that it got- to the point that his dept. was making photo copies of blood sample paperwork in order to be able to track how many "scan" forms were missing. Nyitray said _Crocker claimed that volunteers were failing to complete the forms. In April; Nyitray states his office’ feared that Crocker did not seem to be-able to fix the problem but none-the-less met with Crocker who was told that the project would have to have "excellentreporting" during May or the project wouldbe cancelled. As of June 17, the "scan" forms that went with blood samples submitted in May and that should have been sent before June 5, had not been received and the state health dept. began the process to withdraw the grant. Who’s Res ponsible? Family of Faith board members, Kharma Amos and Dee Chambers, both stated that the church board knew that there were problems with Project Reach Outbut that they understood that Project Reach Out and the church were two separate entities. The board was aware that Pastors Pare Crocker and Marion Fink were involved in managing Project Reach Out. Amos remarked on conflict earlier between the board and Project Reach Out management about the accountability of the project to the church. However, according to Nyitray, the contract with the state for Project.Reach Out was signed by Marion Fink as pastor of FoF and state officials considered Pare Crocker to be the person responsible for managing the project: Rudy Castillo; a volun= teer co-ordinator with the project, stated that Project Reach Out was using the church’s tax-exempt status (federal tax identificationnumber) to order to receive the grant. Individuals familiar with Metropolitan Community Church bylaws and Internal Revenue Service regulations indicate that under those circumstances that the church is legally responsible for the project. Rudy Castillo stated that he and Crocker shared responsibilities for Project Reach Out but that paperwork/financial matters were Crocker’s. He recalled two meetings state officials held with Crocker about Project Reach Out problems but says h( was not informed of the meetings until after they took place though he understood that Emestine Hill had requested his participation. He also says heoffered to help with paper work but was turned down. Castillo indicates that last Week he found in the Project ReachOut office about 75"scan" forms that were incomplete or incorrect. He added that if forms were. not completed properly by a volunteer, they could have been corrected by Crocker, him self or a volunteer receptionist. Castillo also reports rumors, confirmed by Nyitray, that state forms which require notarization after first being filled out, signed were see Family of Faith, page 9 Tulsa Family News, July - August 1994, page 1 �TULSA FAMILY NEWS by Senator Edward Kennedy we intend to prevail. complacent and convert th SkepAt all critical stages in the Polls show that the vast matical. To make this bill a reality, history of a free people, forces of jority of Americans agree with we need you to take the followus that Lesbians and Gay men oppression must be confronted i~ng steps: in order for the frontiers of jusshould not have to face discrimiIf you have been discrimilice to be extended. For America, nation in the workplace. Many nated against in employment fortune 500 corporations have the time has come again. For or know someone who has Gay men and LeSbians, the time ¯ alreadyincluded sexual orienta~~ make sure we know about it. tion in their non-discrimination is now. Make sure we know the facts. policies. Eight states and more Just recently, a million (Write to the Committee on LaAmeri.c_~ans gath_ered to combor and Human Resources, SD. than 100 munic~alities have memorate the 25th anniversary’ ": ~d" tt-" bail: discrimination? S" ~4~g,’DC 20510.)Send ti~ all theagainst Gaymen andLesbians. information you think will be of Stonewall, the first milestone in this long journey on freedom’ s By joining Congressmen useful in making our poinL Job road.The civil rights movemem Barney Frank, Gerry Studds and discrimination against Gay men myself at the press conference is on the march again, moving and Lesbians is not a myth-it’s introducing this legislation, a reality that is shattering lives closer to the American ideal, of Coretta Scott King affirmed this liberty and justice for all. and denying opportunities daily. action as the next chapter in Write and call your SenaWe have refused to be intimidated by hate. Once again, it i~ tors and Representatives at timeto challenge our country to (202) 224-3121 and tell them to live up to its founding ideals. co-sponsor the Employment "This is not about A great dealof progress has Non-Discrimination act of been made in the past quarter granting special 1994 (S.2238 & HR4636). Make century. Although many miles sure they know that this is imrights- it is about portant - not just to the Gay have been traveled, there are many promises yet to bekept. commtmity, but to all their conrighting senseThey are promises to a cook in stituents who believe in the fundamental principles of a Georgia fired for being a Lesless wrongs." democratic society. bian; to a postal worker in US Senator Contact your friends, Michigan beaten unconscious by co-workers for being Gay; and neighbors, co’workers, emEdward Kennedy to a truck driver in New Hampployers, and family members and make sure that they, too, shire, a stock broker in MaryAmerica’s civil rights history. make their voices heard for land, a social worker in Missisfreedom and justice. The phone sippi, and countless other She said: "I support the Employbanks.of the radical right will be ment Non-Discrimination Act Americans - all fired because of prejudice despite their producof 1994 because I believe that working overtime - and yours freedom and justice cannot be tivity "and performance. Such must be, too .... parceled out in pieces to suit There is likely to be a massive flagrant discri mination is wrong, political convenience. As my misinformation campaign and it is time to fight back. husband, Martin Luther King, about what our bill does. Form Thatis why, along with thirty "truth squads" and make sure Jr. said, ’Injustice anywhere is a of my Senate colleagues and 115 threat to justice everywhere’ ." your delegation in Congress House members, I have sponThe fact remains that in 42 has the facts to seperate truth sored the Employment Nonstates, qualified Lesbians and from malicious fiction. Discrimination Actof 1994. Our Gay men with excellent records Work closely with others in bipartisan legislation will extend can be fired - with no warning the civil rights community in existing federal protections just for being Gay. It happens your area - people of color, againstjob discrimination to Gay every day, and it is up to us to women, physically challenged, men and Lesbians, and give restop it. religious, and labor organizalief to those living in fear of Lets be clear - The radical tions - and ask for their suplosing their livelihoods. Our bill right will leave no stone unturned will send a strong message to port and s.uggestions. They are veterans In the civil rights employers and all Americans that to block the enactment of this essential legislation. Our own movement and can be helpful homophobia will not be tolerated commitment must be even with coalition-building and as employment policy anywhere stronger. To ensure success, we strategy. in the nation. need your active support and This is not about granting AS Harvey Milk said, ’None assistance. of nsare free until-all of us are special~rights - it is about rightBeing right is good, but it is ing senseless wrongs. Our case free." We need to join together, not enough. We must inspire the not let others divide us. is strong, our cause is just, and by Tom NeaL publisher Civil fights protections are one of those things we shouldn’t need to have. Tulsa City Councillor Vicki Cleveland says so and many of us would agree. Unlike Ms. Cleveland, however, most of us recognize that often we are judged by our status: our race, gender, religion or our, sexual orientation rather than by our ability to perform a job, pay for services or rent/buy a home, Many Americans assume that Lesbians and Gay men, and Bi- sexuals enjoy civil rights protections just like everyone rise. They assume that a problem encountered can be addressed by complaining to the right governmental agency. Many are very surprised to find that those agencies will not, and can not take a complaint of discrimination based on sexual orientation. Some people know better or have good reason that they should. Some of the people who should know better are Oklahoma politicians. Locally, John Tulsa Family News, July - August 1994, page 2 ......................... about silencing debate on civil tights issues and his harrassment of Human Rights Commissioner Eddie F.aye Gates make one wonder if he’s a member of a totalitarian branch of the Republicanparty - those who believe in democratic principles of debate and minority rights need not apply. He’s joined by some ol, l leagues who at least need to review their basic civics lessons: they represent all citizens, .not the ones who are exactly like see OK Politicians, page 8 Publisher/Editor Assistant Editor Staff Writer Tom Neal James Christjohn Kharma Amos 918-832-0233, POB 4140, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire Contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher¯ Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondance is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondance should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at advertiser and ,Qther_ !9.~ca__tign_ ~, _Ad.d.ifional .cgpies.are .ay .ai_l a.b.1e .a.t .Tgm_fpp[er~ ~ ........... 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Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 [L Skelly 745-1111 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Bill Hinkle, Attorney 587-1500 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74"159 747-5466 John Kirk, Realtor 747-5800, 745-2245 Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics 832-0233 Richard Reeder, MS, Psychotherapy 581-0902, 743-4117 Religious Organizations *Bless The Lord At All Times Christian Ctr 262713 E. 11 628-0594 *Community Of Hope, 1347 N. Yale 838-7232 *Family of Faith Mcc, 5451-E So; Mingo 622-1441 *MCC ofGreater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 Dignity/Integrity 298-4648 *Canterbury Ministry Center, University of. Tulsa 583-9780 �tohr reporter Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights ¯ PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 July/Augusl 1994 Volume 14 Number 8 The views expressed elsewhere in Tulsa Family News are not necessarily the views of TOHR. Permission is granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along with other items, under the byline, "submitted by TOHR’, contained elsewhere in Tulsa Family News. President’s Column by Kelly H. Kirby Pending Legislation Alert The Employment Non=Discrimination Act of 1994 (ENDA) has been introduced into both houses of congress as House Bill 4636 and Senate Bill 2238. There are currently more than 100 sponsors in the House of Representatives and 33 in the Senate. As opposed to legislation which has been introduced every year since the 1970s proposing basic rights for gays and lesbians, the act deals only with non discrimination in employment. This particular issue seems to have the broadest public opinion support (’/8% per one recent poll). That means 4 out of 5 Americans believe that sexual orientation discrimination should not be allowed in the work place. Other basic rights issues draw less and less public support, ranging from housing down to spousal and parental rights for lesbians and gay men. There are two very important things YOU can do: 1. Write or call your Representative and Senators urging their support for passage. This legislation may be acted upon rather quickly so take time to write or call t soon. Your personal message will make a difference. 2. The Human Rights Campaign Fund (HRCF) is looking for persons with employment related discrimination stories, some from each state. The best and most clear cut accounts will be written up and some persons may be invited to testify at possible Congressional hearings. If you or someone you know clearly fit these guidelines, please write to: August Meeting PARTY ON BARTLETT SQUARE TOHR will observe its August meeting with the Second Annual Picnic and Dance on Bartlett Square. Everyone is invited to join TOHR and its members in celebrating summer at 5th and Main in beautiful downtown Tulsa. On Tuesday, August 2, 1994, from 7 to 10 p.m. we will be OUT in public. TOHR will provide soft drinks and have a live DJ spinning the hottest tracks. You are invited to bring your own picnic if you like, bring your family and friends and come prepared to show your pride. We had a great turn out last year so let’s do it ’til we’re satisfied. HRCF Attention: Steven Leanos P.O. Box 1396 Washington, D.C. 20013 Our quick action can help this measure pass. With a couple of exemptions for small employers (under 15 employees) and religious organizations, this proposed legislation would give far reaching protection to bisexuals, gay men and lesbians. How would it feel to be able to go to work tomorrow and know that you couldn’t legally be fired for being who you are? 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Tulsa Family News, July-August 1994, page 3 �I News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News NAMBLA Expelled NEW YORK- The members of the International Lesbian & Gay Association have voted by 21430 to expel NAMBLA (the North American Man/Boy Love Assn.). An 80% majority is requiredby ILGA’ scharter toexpel a member organization from the international fights group; the vote represents an 88% majority in favor of expelling the controversial NAMBLA group. Two other groups that deal with man/ boy love- the Dutch organization Vereniging Martijn and the USbased Project Truth - were also expdled from ILGA at the same time. Debate over the position of NAMBLA in the lesbigay movement has raged on and off for the past few years. But its membership in ILGA became an urgent political issue during the past year when U.S. Sen. Jesse Helms proposed - and Congress approved - an appropriations-bill amendment the would require the United States to cut off some $118 million in UN contributions unless the government certifies "that no United Nations agency...grants any official status, accreditation, or recognition to any organization which promotes, condones, or seeks the legalization of pedophilia, or which includes as a subsidiary or member any such organization." ILGA last year was granted consultative status with the UN’s Economic & Social Council - the first lesbigay organization to gain such status. In.a press release, NAMBLA condemned the expulsion vote as "a capitulation to US blackmail" and accused the ILGA secretariat of distorting NAMBLA’s position and purpose. Ohio Anti-Gay Measure CINCINNATI- The Cincinnati Post reports that Ohio Attorney General Lee Fisher has f’ded an amicus brief in opposition to the anti-gay Issue 3 approved by Cincinnati voters. The brief f’fled by Fisher argues that any measure approved by voters in the state must be consistent with the provisions of the U.S. Constitution but that Issue 3 violates the equal protection clause by pre-. venting a class of people from seeking legal protections on an equal basis with other citizens. Gay Pastor Begins Fast COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo. - The Rev. Mel White, the Dallas gay minister who was once a ghostwriter for Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson, has begun a 7day "fast for understanding" outside the offices of Focus on the Family to draw attention to attacks by the religious right against gays and lesbians in this country. "In the last six months, Focus on the Family has quietly assumed leadership of an unprecedented attempt by extremist Christians to exert political and moral control over the nation," Dr. White said in a press statement. "Attacks against gay and lesbian people have become a pivot point in their movement." Focus on the Family backed Amendment 2, approved by Colorado voters and now being challenged in the courts. The organization now has chapters in all 50 states and, until recently a little-known organization, is one of the richest groups to emerge SALON in the religious right recently. NO Arizona Initiative TUCSON, Ariz. - Arizona will not be one of the states facing a vote this year on an anti-gay measure that would have barred state and local laws prohibiting discrminafion based on sexual orientation. Frank Meliti, leader of the Traditional Values Coalilion of Arizona which had backed the statewide measure, claimed the group had collected some 247,000 signatures - well over the 158,000 required- but would not be turning the petitions in, charging that ’~nilitant homosexuals" would only keep any such measure passed by the voters tied up in court challenges. At a press conference, Meliti displayed 4 cardboard boxes taped shut, but refused to open the boxes to show reporters the signed petitions he claimed the group had gathered. Louganis Tells Olympic Committee to Move Out ST. LOUIS - Olympic diver Greg Louganis told members of the U.S. Olympic Committee that the 1996 volleyball competition should be removed from Cobb County, Ga., because of a resolution adopted by commissioners there last year condemning the "gay lifestyle." Louganis, who acknowledged being gay at Gay Games IV in New York in June, made his remarks at an awards ceremony after receiving the USOC’s prestigious Robert J. Kane Award recognizing Olympic athletes who continue making contributions to their sport. According to a New York Times report, the USOC is trying to find a way to move the volleyball competition out of Cobb County without appearing to have caved in to pressure from gay rights activists. In speaking to the audience, Lougams identified himself as an "openly gay athlete." He told the awards audience, "They [the Cobb County Commission] have made it dear some of the athletes won’t be welcomed. An openly gay athlete should be able to compete without barriers." Cobb Cty. Extremists NATHANAEL MATTINGLY salon estetica 749-0777 WESTCOPA 3509 S, Peoria ¯ Second Level ¯ Tulsa, OK 74105 Ross Folsom Hairdesigner Color Technician Lincoln Plaza BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Fine Jewelry Watch & Jewelry Repair 4649 South Peoria, 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday 1310 E. 15th St. 583.1500 Shop Where You Are Appreciated! PhillipCyr i RO,YAL TRAVEL Our Clients Always Receive Royal Service" 496-2410, 1-800’336-3524 6927 So.. Canton Ave. General Contractor CosmeticRenovations Inte riorlExteriorPainting Carpeting Cabinet Re-facing Ceramic Tile Countertops 918-745-9911 Tulsa Family News, July -August 1994, page 4 �News. Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News. ATLANTA-The Atlanta-based anti-bias group Neighbors Network has released a report, ’~-Iidden Agenda: The Influence of Religious Extremism on the Politics of Cobb County, Georgia," which links anti-gay County COmmissioner Gordon Wysong with a little-known farright religious movement that advocates the death penalty for homosexuals and replacing democracy in the U.S. with a theocracy. Cobb Cty, Politico’s Daughter Comes Out ATLANTA - Rights activists battling to change an anti-gay resolution in the Atlanta suburb of Cobb County got a maj or boo st when the daughter of Cobb County Commissioner Chairman Bill Byme, told the Southern Voice, Adanta’s gay paper that she struggled with what to do ever since the commission’s resolution made national news last August. After cgnfronting her father about it, Byme said, she decided to take the next step. ’Tm sorry for what my dad has donee" she said. ’That’s one of the reasons I’m coming out .... I felt like I needed to tell these Christian people that they are dead wrong. I don’t think they hdve any idea about l~ow to be Christian." Boy Scouts Lose SAN DIEGO - California Superior Court Judge Anthony Joseph has awarded $5,000 to Chuck Merino, an E1Cajon Police officer who sued the Boy Scouts for drumming him out of the youth group as an Explorer Scout leader after he-acknowledged he is gay. Judge Joseph ruled that the Scouts are in fact a business as defined under state law and are therefore prohibited from discriminating on a variety of factors, including sexual orientation. The judge ruled that acknowledging being homosexual "does not translate into "teaching’ that homosexuality is proper or improper." The state Supreme Court has already agreed to hear 2 cases involving the Boy Scouts’ policies conceruing gays and atheists which hinge on the same question of whether or not the youth group qualifies as a business under California law. Lesbian Officer Wins Reinstatement Appeal SAN FRANCISCO - The federal government has lost its appeal to block Col. Margarethe Cammermeyer’ s immediate re- instatement while the case of her dismissal is being appealed. The U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals turned down the government’s appeal of a lower "-court that ordered Czmmermeyer reinstated in the Washington State National Guard while her discharge is being appealed. It was not immediately clear whether the government would appeal the ruling to.the U.S. Supreme Court or not. Justice Dept, Appeals Cammermeyer Ruling WASHINGTON- To almost no one’s surprise, the U.S. Justice Department says it will appeal a recent decision by a U.S. district judge in Washington state to reinstate highly decorated National Guard nurse Col. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who declared to military officials she is a lesbian. Earlier in June, a U.S. District Court in a summ ary judgment in favor of Cammermeyer concluded that the government discriminated against the nurse without a "rational" basis for doing so and that the action was "grounded solely on prejudice." Ballot Measures Fail to Qualify in Washington OLYMPIA, Wash. - Two anti- gay initiatives in Washington state have not qualified for the ballot when backers of the initiafives failed to turn in the nearly 182,000 valid signatures. The measures would have barred the state orany governmental agency in Washington from recognizing the legal rights of gays, lesbians or bisexuals as a protected class. Texas Daily Publishes Same-Sex Unions EL PASO,.Texas -The El Paso Times has become the first daily newspaper in Texas - and one of only a handful in the U.S. - to accept same-sex couples announcements on an equal footing with opposite-sex wedding notices. The Everett (Washington) Herald near Seattle is believed to be the first daily paper in the U.S. to begin publishing same-sex partaers notices, which it began doing in November 1990. Fed. Hate Crimes Report BERLIN - FBI Director Louis Freeh, in Germany for an antiright wing conference, released details of the U.S. government’ s 1993 hate crimes statistics. Of the 7,684 crimes reported, the report indicate~, 806 - or 10.5% - were motivated by the victim’ s sexual orientation. The crimes reported ranged from minor property vandalism to assaults, rapes and murders. The motivation in the majority of the reported hate crimes continued to be race (4,168), followed by religion (1,189). Sexual orientation - which almost exclusively means anti-gay attacks - followed next, and national or ethnic origin was last with 583 reported crimes. American Airlines Gay-Positive Video ATLANTA -’ American Airlines, which ran into troubled skies when a flight crew carrying passengers back from the National March on Washington last year replaced all the pillows and blankets midway through the flight because gays and lesbians had used them, has putout a gay-positive employee videotape for its 70,000 workers "to help prevent the unfortunate incidents in the past" and ’’to make it clear that its policies of nondiscrimination and fairness are taken to heart." German Rights Proposal Fails BERLIN - The government of German Chancellor Helmut See News Briefs, page 6 numnnnnmumnmnnnumunmnnnnnunnunnnn ¯ [] ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ [] ¯ [] ¯ [] [] ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ Puppy Pause II All Breeds Dog Grooming llth & Mingo, 838-7626 Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. 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The ACLU says it will probably also file a similar suit in behalf of 98 other city workers - beth gay and straight - whose partners lost the benefits following the May 7 election repeal. The suit charges the city with breach of contract and unfair insurance practices because voters yanked the benefits program that had been in place since September when it was initially approved by the city council. Lesbian Gets Son Back RICHMOND, Va. - The Virginia CoUrt of Appeals has overturned a lower court child custody ruling that. ordered the 2year-old son of Sharon Bottoms removed from her home because she acknowledged she is a les- bian. "A parent’s private sexual conduct, even if illegal, does not create a presumption of unfitness," wrote Judge Sam Coleman for the. 3-member panel. The unanimous appeals court ruling overturned a lower court ruling that gave custody of the boy to Bottoms’ 43-year-old mother, Kay Bottoms, who had brought the custody dispute against her daughter. The grandmother was unavailable for: comments following the decision, but her attorney, Richard Ryder, said his client, would appeal the ease to the state Supreme Court. Virginia Adds Lesbian/Gay Families RICHMOND, Va. - The Virginia Housing Development Authority has. approved a pror posed regulatory change that would allow offering low-income loans to non-traditional .households, including gay and lesbian couples. The pr0~posal alters current regulations, which restrict such loans to families that are related by "blood, marriage or adoption," to include low-income joint house purchasers defined’as "two or more individuals living together on the premises as a single, nonprofit housekeeping uuit." Several area gay andlesbianhomeowners and prospective buyers spoke in support of the proposed change as did representatives of Richmond’s and Virginia’s mortgage bankers association and the Richmond Assn. of Realtors. But Margaret Braddy of Concerned Women of America called the proposal a move toward "illegal and immoral behavior. ....Virginia will not be improved by disregarding-the importance ... of the familyuuit," Braddy said. But the VHDA board disagreed and approved the regulation change with oul.y one vote cast against it. ~ Nevada Measure Fails CARSON CITY, Nev. - An attempt by a group in Nevada to put an" anti-gay ballot measure before voters in the state failed when a group backed by the Oregon Citizens Alliance failed to get the 51,399 valid voter signatures needed to qualify the measure by the June 21.~date petitions were due to be turned in. ’The opposition was well-organized and worked extremely hard but they just couldn’t get anywhere near the ... signattires they needed," said Beverly Baum of the Campaign for Liberty, the group fighting the proposed amendment. The signatures needed for proposed ballot measure in Nevada must include voters from 13 of the state’s 17 counties. Surg. General v. Fundies WASHINGTON- U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders has set off a firestorm of controversy for critical remarks she made about anti-gay fundamentalists. During a speech at the Lesbian and Gay Health Conference in New York on Wednesday, June 22, Elders said of the religious right’s opposition to AIDS and schoo! sex education programs: "We’ve got to be strong to.take on those people who are selling our children out in the name of religion..We’ve got to be as aggressive as .they !ve .been." At one point the outspoken Elders referred to the ’bin-Christian religious right." Idaho Pride Draws Crowd BOISE - More than. doubling last year’s turnout, more than a thousand people turned out Saturday, June I 1, for Boise’s 5th annual Gay Pride.celebration as the state faces a likely nasty antigay ballot measure. Anti-gay protesters also showed up for the event, some carrying signs reading: "Only good queer is a dead queer." Organizers of the event said the Idaho Citizens Alliances’ attempt to put an antigay ballot initiative before the voters in the state contributed to the larger tdmout this year. Navy Bans Anti-Gay Civilian Job Bias WASHINGTON - The U.S. Navy has become the first branch of the nation’s armed forces to formally prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation among its civilian workforce. The Coast Guard had earlier this year issues an anti-bias statement including sexual orientation, but the U.S. Coast Guard is a division of the Department of Transportation rather than the Defense Department. G a m es cont’dfrom p. 1 and gay men simply ignored them. New York s police force, beefed up with some 6,500 ofricers on overtime duty during the week, reported not asingle anti-gay attack connected with the gigantic event. On Saturday evening, June 25, after the Gay Games closing ceremonies the International.Dyke March drew. an estimated %000 women who marched from 42rid street down Fifth Avenue - without a permit -to a mucous and festive rally at Washington Square Park. A mile-long rainbow flag led the parade from the United Nations up First Avenue to Central.Park on Sunday - the "ofricial;"Stonewall 25 march that included Mayor Giuliani. ACT UP, Gay & Lesbian Americans and other groups Organized an unautho-, rized parade up Fifth Avenue. S tonewal125 organizers had been refused a city permit for that route. Organizers estimated participation at 1.1 million. City police and parks officials estimated the number was a mere .100;000 people. The only thing tired about your trip Sandra J. Hill, M. S, should be you.., when you get back! Travel with DAMRON ¯ the freshest lesb,an &"gay trav!i guides! 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President Ronald Reagan, depicting him with kaposi sarcoma lesions. According to a Benetton spokesperson, the retouched photo was, the clothing manufacturer s way of pointing the finger of blame at the onetime actor and former president for not acting to battle the AIDS epidemic. Asian AIDS Epidemic GENEVA - The number of AIDS cases around the world has risen 60% during the past year, according to the World Health Organization, which estimates that there are 4 million actual cases of AIDS and 17 ¯ million cases of HIV infection globally. While most of these infections are in sub-Saharan Africa, WHO officials say the greatest danger is in Asia, which has experienced an eighffold increase in the number of AIDS cases during the past year. Of particular concern, says WHO, is thespread of the disease among female prostitutes in Thailand, India,.and.other countries.~. HIV Measures in Sweden STOCKHOLM = The Swedish government has adopted a number of compulsory measures intended to control the spread of HIV,including voluntary routine testing, mandatory contact- and partner-tracing and testing. If a case of HIV is diagnosed, the physician will be required under the new.policies to file a report including a coded case number, gender, year and country of birth; risk category and, if possible, time and place of transmission. The physician will also be obliged to see the patient on a regular basis, and to inform him or her of binding regulations to prevent further spread of infection. These regulations now include informing prospective Sexual parmers about the infection before intercourse; practicing safe:sex; refraining from shared use of hypodermic needles or syringes; and not en- gaging in prostitution. Patients must also inform medical authorities before undergoing any treatment involving Mood contact. If the patient does not follow these regulations, the doctor is required to report the patient to medical officers in charge of the ctntrol of communicable diseases. If thepatient continues to ignore the mandatory restrictions, however, they can be detained in ahospital if health officials believe they present a threat Of infecting others = a decision to be made by the administrative courts. Transmission Risks Among Bisexual Men SAN FRANCISCO - A study on the prevalence and patterns of sexual behavior among male -bisexuals has concluded that San Francisco men identifying themselves as bisexual are not likely to transmit HIV to their female partners. The finding by . researchers at the University of California at San Francisco contradicts a general misconception that bisexual men provide a "bridge" can’ying HIV from the gay subculture to the larger heterosexual community, according to UCSF lead researcher Dr. Maria Ekstrand. The study, which involved 140 unmarried men whose HIV status was known to the researchers, found that mos t of the s exual ris~k-taking took place when the bisexual men had sex with other males not when engaged in sex with women. Only 7 percent of the bisexual male actually reported having sex with women, and among this group,.a mere 2 percent reported having unprotected vaginal intercourse, the. study reports. The findings also indicate that the men in the study significantly cut back on sexual risk-taking behaviors in general and particularly during malemale sex, during the five-year term of the study. Although unprotected vaginal intercourse remains common among men who have sex with women, this behavior wasreported! almost exclusiVely by the HIV-negalivemeninvolvedin the research. Drug Trials in Australia SYDNEY- Australian AIDS researchers have announced that a new drug that is believed to boost the immune system rather than attack the HIV virus itself, is to be tested for the first time in the country. Scientists hope that the drug, Interleukin-2 (IL-2), will increase the life expectancy and quality of life for people infected With HIV. Preliminary studies using IL-2 have shown that some HIV positive people have experienced a fourfold increase in T-cell counts. One hundred twenty volunteers in Sydney, Melbourne and Perth with relatively healthy immune systems are being sought to participate. The drug is supposed to boost the immune system so the virus has less chance of reproducing. In a trial in the U.S. two years ago, 90 percent of the participants, with an average Tcell count of 400, showed marked increases in their counts for about a year. A stronger immune system also makes people less sus--ceptible to secondary infections. H!V Home Test Kit WAS HINGTON - According to Advertising Age, Johnson &: Johnson hopes to become the first healthcare marketer to put an HIV home sdf-test kit on the market. The $30 kit, known as Confide, would include a lancet with which to draw blood and a smear card to send off to a national laboratory. Results, counseling, and medical referrals would be dispensed by phone. The Food & :Drug Administration has refused approval to other home test kits, citing concerns such as packing and mailing, false positives, and the need for in-person medical consultations. Johnson & Johnson claims that Confide will provide easy access and total anonymity. An independent survey by the company found that 80% of gays and lesbians would be inclined to use the test, and a recent poll from the Centers for Disease Control in Atlanta ~ound that 1 in 4 Americans would use such a test. 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For more information, call 918-743-1000, ext. ’HIV’ between 10am - 4pm. To receive more information about new clinical trials as they are available, send .your name & address to: Associates in Medical & Mental Health 1560 E. 21st St, Ste. 210, .Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Family News, July ~ August 1994, page 7 �OK Politicians co.t’d omp. 2 them. A couple of them, like Ms.lCleveland, need to remember or learn~that even if they’re tired of hearing about a problem, their job ($12,000 annually) includes actually listening to citizens. Councillors Hall, Hogne, & Gilbert, who in theory are members of the Democratic Party, might do well to re-read the national patty platform: civil rights are for everyone, including Lesbian and Gay citizens. Running for governor, Bernice Shedrick. is touted as one of the brightest in the OK legislature (and no, that is not damning her by faint praise) and is an attorney. She apparently thinks that being Gay or Lesbian means that you’re dumb too. A month ago Shedrick was told that current civil rights protections do not include Lesbians & Gay men. She was asked if she would support amending those to provide protection based on sexual orientation. She promised, "H1 look into it." A month later, after repeated phone calls,, she issued a statement that civil rights laws protect all citizens and tt~t as governor sheql uphold the laws. Hello, Bernice- we started with the fact that current civil rights laws don’t include Lesbians & Gay men, a fact that as a legislator or lawyer she could easily verify. So what we’re being told us that she’ll support the laws that don’t include us. Why doesn’t she just tell us that she doesn’t want our votes and we’ll vote for Jack Mildren who believes in civil rights, even for Gay p~ople. However, it is the Oklahoma Congressional delegation which shames us as Oklahomans most. Between Inhofe & Nickles (no doubt members of the same branch of Republicans as John Benjamin) who are openly prejudiced and Democrats such as .Dave McCurdy and David Boren who just. don’t have seem to have the courage to include Lesbian & Gay Oklahomans in their constituencies, Lesbian & Gay Oklahomans just don’t get much represention at all. Except maybe from Rep. Mike Synar who never-the-less won’t join 116 of his peers in co-sponsoring a new bill, the Employment Non-Discrimi- 25" l|° 1|" $2" $6" 40° 44" 48" 3 DA Y PRODUCTION MINI BLINDS VERTICALS PLEATED SHADES SAME PRICE! 42" 1 7 1 8 1 9 21 23 25127 29 48" 18:19 21~23!26128!30i32 18121123 24~281 30~32~35 SG" 22~24127!29132~35 37140 7116 South Mingo, Suite 102, 254-2100 nation LAct of 1994, designed to discourage discrimination based on sexual orientation in the workplace. Mike says cosponsorship doesn’t matter but if that’s so why are 116 congress folks wasting their time? Synar at least is familiar with the bill. Sen. Nickles.office will tell that he’s opposed to it but his folks can’t tell you why because it turns out they haven’t even read it. They just know they wouldn’t like it. Now duck & cover Dave McCurdy "wants to be a senator and probably will get our votes only because the alternative, "Tulsa’s dysfunctional congressman"The Tulsa WorM, James lnhofe, is not only bad for Gay people, he’.s just plain bad. But McCurdy’s position on civil rights for Lesbian and Gay citizens seems to be that he doesn’t mind ff we have a few as long as no one knows he said so. McCurdy too is alone among Oklahoma’s semimoderate Democrats in refusing to sign a Human Rights Campaign Fund pledge not to discriminate in hiring in his office. He told The Tulsa Worm that he did not sign the pledge because he already had such protections in his office. However’, on direct questioning, his press secretary, Cindy Cain said that McCurdy’s office policy does not include protection from discrimination based on sexual orientation. Hello, Dave - back here in Oklahoma, we’d call that a lie- maybe in DC, you call it something else? Sen. Boren to our knowledge is the only Oklahoma politician who’s ever felt it necessary to swear an oath of heterosexuality on the steps of our state capitol. Having been the victim of anti-Gay prejudice, one would hope he might be more forthcoming. However, even though he is leaving DC, the best that he c~an muster is that he’s supportive of theconcept of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act of 1994 but he’s still undecided whether to become a co-sponsor. Hello, Senator - you’re a lame-duck! If he can’t stand up for civil rights now, when will ke ever? At the rate this session’s going he’ll be gone before a vote will ever be likely. Many Oklahomans find these legislators to be a disappointment, and in the case of our city council, the word clown comes to mind, but Lesbian and Gay Oklahomans have more justification for those feelings than many citizens. We are not yet represented in the council or the’ legislature or openly represented in our congress. There’s not much we can do but this: get registered if you’re not; vote no matter how inconvenient it may be; get involved- call or fax McOardy and Synar and even Inhofe and Nickles if you are feeling "masochistic." They might not like us but they still need to hear from Us. Call your city councillors and Mayor Savage. Remember that the primary is August 23 and you can make a difference inwho’s govemor.TulsaDemocraticparty headquarters phone is 742-2457. If you’re a Republican, call TFN to.get in contact with folks who want to starta Log Cabin Republicans chapter, an organization for Lesbian and Gay Republicans. What each of you does makes a difference. Other Issues Our report of the loss of state funding for Project Reach Out is a story of pain for a number of individuals, the congregation of Family of Faith MCC and this writer. I am sorrowed by that pain but writing about the situation was appropriate, necsee Other Issues, page 11 Timothy W. Daniel Richard Reeder, MS Attorney at Law Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates Estate Planning Adoptions Personal Injury Criminal Law Bankruptcy Workers Compensation Serving the Diverse needs of the Gay and Lesbian Community Individuals 1515 South Lewis Tulsa, OK 74104 Couples Groups (918)743-4117 (918)581-0902 Initial consultation at no charge. Attention All Lesbian & Gay Couples Protect your relationship! There are ways.to replicate the legal benefits/ protections of marriage. 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Castillo wonders just exactly what has happened to funds that were donated to Project Reach Out from fundraisers held in two Tulsa bars. Over $400 was raised in these events but right now there is no money in the Project Reach Out account; it appears there have been a couple "bounced" checks (one of which has been made good by Crocker & Fink) and Castillo has yet to find records of expenditures from that account. When he questioned Crocker about where the funds were spent, her accounting of the expenditures did not fit his recollection of the bills. He expected that there would be some funds remaining. Castillo was authorized to sign checks was Crocker but claims the only things he’s ever signed were the signature card and co-signature on a check to help a community enterminer during a serious illness. What do Crocker & Fink Say? Marion Fink and Pam Crocker have moved to Kansas City, Missouri, having resigned their pastorate. They attended a final service on July 10 at Family of Faith at which a special offering of $500 was given to them, according to Dee Chambers, FoF treasurer. Board member Amos suggested that Chambers might have a phone number for Crocker & Fink though Amos did not. Chambers said that the former pastors did not yet have a phone but would call as they got one. A Project Reach Out volunteer suggested that there was a non-published listing for Pare Crocker at what is alleged to be their new address in Kansas City. Shortly after speaking with Chambers about these issues, Amos called TFN with a message from Crocker threatening to sue if an article were written. Rudy Castillo say he,Amos and another church member were called by Crocker about this time. Castillo characterized it as she (Crocker) went "crazy" on me. Crocker called TFN directly and inquired if we’d received her message from Amos. TFN expressed our interest in getring the information sorted out and the following is a transcription of the tape. TFN: "...I’m really happy that you called" Crocker: "yeah well I’m not sure you’re going to be with me" TFN: "I’m tape-recording this conversation. I’d be happy to talk with you and see what you have to say." Crocker: "I think you better take the tape recorder off." TFN: "no ma’am, any conversation we have is going to be stlictly on the record with the tape recorder going, I already have from Kharma that you are making threats" Crocker: "the only threat, dear, is just you know, if a story is printed untrue, then I can take you to court, that’s just plain & simple, that’s not a threat..." TFN: "...People have come to me with allegations. My job as a journalist is to report on items of interest and concern to our community and clearly Family of Faith & Project Reach Outare programs of interest to our community...I am very much interested in heating from you all your version of what has happened with these programs." Crocker: "tell you what I need to do, let me do some talking, let me see what people have said, I don’t want to be on your tape recorder saying things unless I know what’s (been) said." TFN: "...you can share with me your version of what has happened." Crocker: "OK, when I get ready to tell you my version, I’ll give you a call." TFN: "OK would you be willing to give me your number so that I can follow up with you?" Crocker: "no" TFN: "ok, you’re not willing to do that?" Crocker: l...u , I want to do things in my time when I’m ready to talk with you." TFN: "so, do you have anything to hide in this whole matter?" Crocker: "no, I don’t have anything to hide." TFN: "ok, so that you feel that all of your behavior with regard to Project Reach Out and financial management of that particular project as well as the church, all of that is on the up & up?" Crocker: "yes" TFN: "great I’ll be happy to go on the record with that." Crocker: "wall like I said when I have anything to say to you I will...let me talk to my lawyer and I"11 be in touch with you." According to state health officials, although they now reside in another state, Crocker and Fink are still contractually responsible for Project Reach Out. State officials know that they’re gone but can do nothing until Family of Faith sends official notice of the former pastors departure. Family of Faith remains fiscally responsible Rudy Castillo worries whether Project Reach Out can continue with out access to state blood testing Which now will be denied. Private testing is available but funds may not be. And until questions about the disbursement of funds are answered, he worries that the community may be less willing to help. Even now a small food bank project for PWA’s is only continuing because Castillo’s co-workers seeing his anguish are helping. Alan Nyitray and Emestine Hill of the State Health Dept. are preparing an RFP, request for proposals from other’ groups, as quickly as they can to try to address the need for which the program was intended: to get H1V information and testing to Gay & Bisexual men of color, an seriously underserved sub-community both in Oklahoma and across the US. Nyitray commented that finally what killed the program was not just the fact that the required paperwork was not done but was that call after call after call left on answering machines about the programs were unreturned. Shortly before press lime, Pam Crocker called back and was Willing to discuss Project Reach Out. 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By using Tulsa Family News Personal Service the customer placing the ad agrees not to leave his/her phone number, last name or address in his/her greeting. ~ ..... ’ ’" Jackson-Henry Holy Union & Celebration Brian Jackson & Tim Henry exchanged vows and rings in a Holy Union ceremony at the home of Bob Ames in North Hollywood, California on June 10. The Reverend Judy Dahl officiated, reading from the 13th chapter of Hebrews and blessing the rings. The couple also held a Commitment Celebration on June 17 in Tulsa. Friends helping to witness the ceremony and celebrate the union included Randy Ditmore, Craig Tmvis, Frank Harris and Bob ,Mnes. Follies Revue, Inc. Presents Cabaret ’94 Follies Revue, Inc. has announced plans for the sixth annual fundraising event benefitting Tulsa area organizations that provides services and direct care to individuals who have HIV/AIDS. "Cabaret ’94 will follow the format of the ’93 event, a dinner/nightclub entertninment evening. Cabaret ’94 is scheduled for 8:30pm on August 25, 26, and 27 at Escargot, 8th and Main. The 25th performance is a"Patron’s Evening", with pre-show music, dinner, wine & valetparking. Tickets are $40. On the 26 & 27, tickets are $25 & are available from Carson Attractions, 584-2000. For more information on other locations selling tickets or whole-table rates, call Follies Revue, Inc., at 437-0201. SALOON Open: Men-Sat, 10am- 2am, Sun, Noon -2am KNOW WHATTOEXPEC New Hours: Wed.- Sun. 7-2 Closed Mon. & Tues. 1565 South Sheridan, 834-4234 "ulsa Family News, July - August 1994, page 10 �THE G A Y L I F. E S T Y L Miss Gay Tulsa USA On Sunday, September 4, 1994, the Official 1995 Miss Gay Tulsa USA Pageant will be heldin Tulsaat the Metropole ’, Tulsa’s hot new dance dub located at I902 East llth Street, beginning at 10:00pro. The Miss Gay Tulsa USA Pageant is an official preliminary to the 8th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma USA Pageant, which will be held ih November. This will be the seventh year for the Miss Gay Tulsa USA Pageant and former Miss Gay Tulsa USA’s include: Raghenna, Bobble Sue Sommers,Jordan Blake, Toni, Jazmyne Cherri, along with the current Miss Gay Tulsa USA, Taylor Bryan’s. The Miss Gay USA Pageant celebrates its 10th anniversary in 1995 and David Bridgman, Oklahoma USA promoter, is inviting all female impersonators to enter as the Miss Gay Tulsa USA Pageant will send the winner and the 1st runner-up to the Miss Gay Oklahoma USA Pageant which will send its winner and 1st runnerup to the 10th anniversary Miss Gay USA Pageant to represent OUR state. Entry forms are available at Tulsa dubs or by contacting David Bridgman at 838-3701. Tulsa Family News is proud to announce Passages to serve our communities. In this feature, we will publish holy union, birth, anniversary announcements with photos & obituraries on a space-available basis in the issue after the event. Please send materials by the 1st of the month with a phone number. Other Issues cont’d from p. 8 essary and ultimately, was an issue of my responsibility offair and accurate reporting to our communities. I would like to write only of the many heroes of our communities: the McDonalds, the Kirbys, Phil Wiley, Tay Clare to pick on-a few and neglect many others but also I must write of when things go wrong. This story is especially painful because it involves persons who are also heroes to some here but who seem to have made unwise choices. If the individuals involved were only harming themselves, we might pity them but not pass judgement on them. In this case, it’s not ~lear that anything illegal has been done. It appears that most of what happened evenhiay not be unethical but it was negligent. And this negligence resulted in the quite unnecessary loss of funding to an HIV education project to an underserved part of our communities, Gay & Bisexual men of color. Itis conceivable that some lives actually may be lost or end sooner because of the loss of this funding for HIV education and testing. Itis this failure to be responsible that we as communities have a right to evaluate. Just as we reqture our elected leaders to be responsible, we too must ask others who chose roles of leadership to be responsible. If say you’ll do something, then do it. If you find you can’t do it, then hand the project off. In this situation because of the profession of the individuals, the expectations of responsible actions are higher. Did these people do good things dmSng much of the time they were here? Yes. Ate these people bad? I don’t think so. Did they do anything bad? Probably not. But did they do what they should have? No. And have they .taken responsibility for their actions? Only just barely, it seems. Charity Event: 1.994 Tulsa Famil ~ News, July - August 1994, page E �MET POLE RAN.D OPE NING " ~Gala . . . . Satur day,. July 16, Opening with~hoSt Rachael Erlkks, Lola McCall, Paula Rae & More! Fri. & sat: DanCing by Cody! Sunday: Sensuous & Friends! Stage Sets by A Major Affair Monday-Thursday Saturday Through the End of July 50¢ Draws, 4,Spm & regular specials 25¢ Draws, 4-7, $1 Longnecks 8-11 T’s for $2 Friday Sunday For Your Entertainment Dart Board & Pool Table Disco opening during the week Dancers every Fri. & Sat. evenings We put you in charge, pick your own beer bust, any 2 hour period from 410, only $3 $4 Bud Beer Bust 8-11 Sundays: Sensuous & Friends, llpm No Cover - 1902 East llth - 587-8811 - Must Be 21 To Enter-.Open: Mon-Sun, 4-2 am Tulsa Family News, July-August !994, page 12 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document TULSA-FAMILYNEWS Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart July 15 - August 14, 1994, Volume 1, Issue 8 National News Gay Games IV & Stonewall 25 NEW YORK - "Welcome to Yankee Stadium! You’ve come to the right place," actor/playwright Harvey Fierstein said to the roared approval ofmore thzn 40,000 spectators as nearly 12,000 athletes from around the worldmarchedin thefamedNew York stadium during the dosing ceremonies of Gay Games IV. The thousands of women and menfrom 43 countries competed in 31 spordng events held at 42 locations around the New York City ’metropolitan area. The weeklong event, which organizers said drew more than a halfmillion visitors to Manhattan where they spent at least an estimated $400 million, was astOundingly free of trouble. At the opemng ceremonies at Columbia University Stadium on June 18, three rather forlorn antigay fundamentalists showed up outside the arena to warn of "the evils of homosexuality" while tens of thousands and lesbians see Games, page 6 Co ng.ress to Consider Anti- Discrimination Proposal No OK Lawmakers Willing to Sponsor WASHINGTON- According~ to the Human Rights Campaign Fund, .the Employment Non- Discrimination Act (Senate, $2238 &House, HR4636) that would bar bias in the workplace based on sexual orientation, has gotten the backing of30 sponsors in the U.S. Senate and ll6in the House of Representatives - 136 Democrats, 9 Republicans and 1 Independent -.since the measure was introduced June 23. Legislative aide to Mass. Representative Gerry Studds, Mark Agrast noted that this bill is a "serious" proposal written in "real" legislative language. While he charaterized earlier TOHR Defends Human Rights Chief Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) praised Eddie Fay Gates for her work as a member of the Human Rights Commission ofthe City ofTulsa. TOHR alSO condemned the announced opposition of several councillors to Ms. Gates reappointment."This is an attempt to punish Ms. Gates for institutions and for employers with fewer.than 15 employees. Agrast also noted the unprecgiving civil rights proposals that include Lesbians and Gay men a fair hearing" said Ric Kirby, TOHR vice-president. Headded, "Ms. Gates has a long and distinguished record of volunteer service to the city. Our councillors should consider the city lucky ifsheis willing to continue to serve." civil rights proposals as usefulin edented number of Republican raising the issue of rights pro- c0-sponsors foi the bill. teetions, he emphasized that this bill has much more serious Chances 0fpassing. The bill provides exemptions for religious At press time, neither Representative McCurdy’s staffor Sen. Nickles staff had returned re: peated calls asking for explanations of their respective positions. Sen. Nickles’ staff indicated that he would oppose the bill but also stated that they had not even read it yet. Representative Mike Synar while in Tulsa for a pro-choice rally at Temple Israel said he would vote for the bill. He tioted that he has a very " good record of voting in support of issues of concern to Lesbian & Gay Oklahomans. He stated that he would not be a co-sponsor of the bill since it did notgo through any committees on which he serves. He added that he did not feel co-sponsorship was particularly important to a bill’s passage. Senator Boren’s press aide, Nick Hathaway issued a brief statement saying that the senator was supportive of the concept of the bill but was still undecided about co-sponsorship. State H.ealth Dept. Kills HIV Testing Grant to Family of Faith MCC’s Project Reach Out; Flags Management Problems Officials with the HIV/STD Services of the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health have issued a certified letter to Family of Faith (FoF) Metropolitan Community Church notifying it of the end of funding for Project Reach Out Too, an HIV education and testing program aimed at Gay & Bisexual menof color in Tulsa. The end of funding for Project Reach Out Too will also end state funding for HIV testing at Project Reach Out, aFoFproject begun in 1993 to educate and test underserved sub-communities: youth, rural inhabitants and leatherfolk~ State Healfla Gay & Lesbian Outreach co-ordinator., Alan Nyitray and co-liason Ernestine Hill indicated that the grant was withdrawn due to repeated failure to complete federally mandated forms. These "scan" forms which are coded with identifying numbers to matchblood samples and test results; help,in part; to verify thatpersons teSted actually have received their test results as well aspr0per ~-.re~e~t and p~st~ test counselling. Nyitray indi, eated that inlate 1993 under the original grant, problems ~ith not receiving the forms _began to appear. In early 1994, FoF received a grant six times larger than its 1993 grant to begin the "men of color"-outreach at a non-SOuth Tulsa location and a small amount of funds was included to continue to pay for HIV testing as a continuation of the 1993 program. However, according to Nyitray, problems with paperwork continued. He recalls that heand Hill had either four orfive meetings in Tulsa with Pastor Pam Crocker over Several months during the spriiag as well as a similar number of phone calls. Nyitray said that it got- to the point that his dept. was making photo copies of blood sample paperwork in order to be able to track how many "scan" forms were missing. Nyitray said _Crocker claimed that volunteers were failing to complete the forms. In April; Nyitray states his office’ feared that Crocker did not seem to be-able to fix the problem but none-the-less met with Crocker who was told that the project would have to have "excellentreporting" duringMay or theprojectwouldbecancelled. As of June 17, the "scan" forms that went with blood samples submittedinMayand that should have been sent before June 5, had not been received and the state health dept. began the process to withdraw the grant. Who’s Res ponsible? Family of Faith board members, Kharma Amos and Dee Chambers, both stated that the church board knew that there were problems with Project Reach Outbut that they understood that Project Reach Out and the church were two separate entities. The board was aware that Pastors Pare Crocker and Marion Fink were involved in managing Project Reach Out. Amos remarked on conflict earlier between the board and Project Reach Out management about the accountability of the project to the church. However, according to Nyitray, the contract with the state for Project.Reach Out was signed by Marion Fink as pastor ofFoFand state officials considered Pare Crocker to be the person responsible formanaging the project: Rudy Castillo; a volun= teerco-ordinatorwith theproject, stated that Project Reach Out was using the church’s tax-exempt status (federal tax identificationnumber) to order toreceive the grant. Individuals familiar with Metropolitan Community Church bylaws and Internal Revenue Service regulations indicate that under those circumstances that the church is legally responsible for the project. Rudy Castillo stated that he and Crocker shared responsibilities for Project Reach Out but that paperwork/financial matters were Crocker’s. He recalled two meetings state officials held with Crocker about Project Reach Out problems but says h( was not informed of the meetings until after they took place though he understood that Emestine Hill had requested his participation. He also says heoffered to help with paper work but was turned down. Castillo indicates that last Week he found in the Project ReachOutoffice about75"scan" forms that were incomplete or incorrect. He added that if forms were. not completed properly by a volunteer, they could have been corrected by Crocker, himself or a volunteer receptionist. Castillo also reports rumors, confirmed by Nyitray, that state forms which require notarization after first being filled out, signed were see Family ofFaith, page 9 Tulsa Family News, July - August 1994, page 1 by Senator Edward Kennedy At all critical stages in the history ofa free people, forces of oppression must be confronted in order for the frontiers of juslice tobe extended. ForAmerica, the time has come again. For Gay men and LeSbians, the time is now. Just recently, a million Ameri.c_~ans gath_ered to comwe intend to prevail. Polls show that the vast majority of Americans agree with us that Lesbians and Gay men should not have to face discrimination in the workplace. Many fortune 500 corporations have ¯ alreadyincluded sexual orienta~~ tion in their non-discrimination policies. Eight states and more than 100 munic~alities have complacent and convert th Skeptical. To make this bill a reality, we need you to take the followi~ ng steps: If you have been discriminated against in employment or know someone who has - make sure we know about it. Make sure we know the facts. (Write to the Committee on Labor and Human Resources, SD. memorate the 25th anniversary’ ": ~d" tt-" bail: discrimination? S" ~4~g,’DC 20510.)Send ti~ all theof Stonewall, the first milestone in this longjourney onfreedom’ s road.The civil rights movemem is on the march again, moving closer to the American ideal, of liberty andjustice for all. We have refused to be intimidated by hate. Once again, it i~ timeto challenge our country to live up to its founding ideals. A great dealof progress has been made in the past quarter century. Although many miles have been traveled, there are many promises yet to bekept. They are promises to a cook in Georgia fired for being a Lesbian; to a postal worker in Michigan beatenunconscious by co-workers for being Gay; and to a truck driver in New Hampshire, a stock broker in Maryland, a social worker in Mississippi, and countless other Americans - all fired because of prejudice despite their productivity "and performance. Such flagrant discrimination is wrong, and it is time to fight back. Thatis why, along with thirty ofmy Senate colleagues and 115 House members, I have sponsored the Employment Non- Discrimination Actof 1994. Our bipartisan legislation will extend existing federal protections againstjob discrimination to Gay men and Lesbians, and give relief to those living in fear of losing their livelihoods. Our bill will send a strong message to employers and allAmericans that homophobiawill notbe tolerated as employmentpolicy anywhere in the nation. This is not about granting special~rights - it is about righting senseless wrongs. Our case is strong, our cause is just, and against Gaymen andLesbians. By joining Congressmen Barney Frank, Gerry Studds and myself at the press conference introducing this legislation, Coretta Scott King affirmed this action as the next chapter in "This is not about granting special rights- it is about righting senseless wrongs." US Senator Edward Kennedy America’s civil rights history. She said: "I support the Employment Non-Discrimination Act of 1994 because I believe that freedom and justice cannot be parceled out in pieces to suit political convenience. As my husband, Martin Luther King, Jr. said, ’Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere’ ." The fact remains that in 42 states, qualified Lesbians and Gay men with excellent records can be fired - with no warning - just for being Gay. It happens every day, and it is up to us to stop it. Lets be clear - The radical right will leave no stoneunturned to block the enactment of this essential legislation. Our own commitment must be even stronger. To ensure success, we need your active support and assistance. Being right is good, but it is not enough. Wemust inspire the information you think will be useful in making our poinL Job discrimination against Gay men and Lesbians is not a myth-it’s a reality that is shattering lives and denying opportunities daily. Write and call your Senators and Representatives at (202) 224-3121 and tell them to co-sponsor the Employment Non-Discrimination act of 1994 (S.2238&HR4636). Make sure they know that this is important - not just to the Gay commtmity, but to all their constituents who believe in the fundamental principles of a democratic society. Contact your friends, neighbors, co’workers, employers, and family members and make sure that they, too, make their voices heard for freedom andjustice. Thephone banks.of the radical right will be working overtime - and yours must be, too.... Thereis likely tobea massive misinformation campaign about what ourbill does. Form "truth squads" and make sure your delegation in Congress has the facts to seperate truth from malicious fiction. Work closely with others in the civil rights community in your area - people of color, women, physically challenged, religious, and labor organizations - and ask for their support and s.uggestions. They are veterans In the civil rights movement and can be helpful with coalition-building and strategy. AS Harvey Milk said, ’None of nsare free until-all of us are free." We need to join together, not let others divide us. by Tom NeaL publisher Civil fights protections are one ofthose things we shouldn’t need to have. Tulsa City Councillor Vicki Cleveland says so and many of us would agree. Unlike Ms. Cleveland, however, most of us recognize that often we are judged by our status: our race, gender, religion or our, sexual orientation rather than by our ability to perform a job, pay for services or rent/buy a home, Many Americans assume that Lesbians and Gay men, and Bisexuals enjoy civil rights protectionsjust likeeveryonerise. They assume that a problem encountered can be addressed by complaining to the right governmental agency. Many are very surprised to find that those agencies will not, and can not take a complaint of discrimination based on sexual orientation. Some people know better or have good reason that they should. Some of the people who should know better are Oklahoma politicians. Locally, John Tulsa Family News, July - August 1994, page 2 ......................... about silencing debate on civil tights issues and his harrassment ofHuman Rights Commissioner Eddie F.aye Gates make one wonder if he’s a member of a totalitarian branch of the Republicanparty - those who believe in democratic principles of debate and minority rights need not apply. He’s joined by some €ol,l leagues who at least need to review their basic civics lessons: they represent all citizens, .not the ones who are exactly like see OKPoliticians, page 8 TULSA FAMILY NEWS Publisher/Editor Assistant Editor Staff Writer Tom Neal James Christjohn Kharma Amos 918-832-0233, POB 4140, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74159 Issued on or before the 15th of each month, the entire Contents of this publication are protected by US copyright 1994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher¯ Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondance is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondance should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at advertiser and ,Qther_ !9.~ca__tign_~, _Ad.d.ifional .cgpies.are .ay.ai_l a.b.1e .a.t .Tgm_fpp[er~ ~ ........... Clubs & Restaurants *The Alley, 3340 S. Peoria *-Bad Boys Club, 1229 S. Memorial *Cherry St. Bakery,. 1344 E: 15 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th *Metropole, 1902 E. 11 *Silver Star Saloon, 1565 Sheridan *Renegade, 1649 S. Main *Rex, 6101 E; Admiral *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial *Time n’Time Again, 1515 S. Memoriai *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd *Whittier Cafe, 416 S. Lewis Businesses/Services Adventure Base One BellAire Cleaners, 4951 S. Peoria Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Ste. 1.02 *CD Warehouse, 6080 S. Sheridan *CD Warehouse in Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria Encore M0rtgage Corp, 4835 S. Fulton, Ste 105 Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria, Ste. 100 "J~vaDave S~ L’mcoin Plaza . *Indian Territory Coffee Company, 1613 E. 15 !nternation~ .Tour.s Ken’s Flowers, 1635 E. 15- Major Affairs, 2014 El 6th *Midtown Theater, 319 E. 3 *Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 P1 Phb~nix --Mortgage Corp. Pupp~"P~us’e" II, llth & Mingo *Scribner’s Bookstore, 1942 Udca Square Sound Warehouse, 1338 E. 15th *Tomfoolery, 1565 S. Sheridan Organizations B/L/G Alliance, University of Tulsa. Interfaith AIDS Ministries 744-0896 835-50.83 583-8398 749-1563 587-8811 834-4234 585-3405 835-1055 660-0856 664-8299 584-1308 582-2400 425-4778 743-5967 254-2100 491-9474 587-6030 660-0880 744-9595 592-3317 587-1633 341-6866 599=80"/0 587-8108 584-3112 664-2951 592-7700 838-7626 749-6301 583-1572 832-0233 583-9780 438-2637 *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-I. 749-4194 NAMES PROJECT, POB 3181 74101 , 748-31 !1 P-FLAG, POB 52800 74152 749-4901 Prime-Timers, P.O. BOX 52118 74128 Project Reachout, HIVTesting, 5451-E So. Mingo 622-1441 Shanti Hotline 749-7898 TulsaOklahomansforHumanRights,(TOHR) POB52729, 74152 TOHR Gay HelpLine (htfo.) 743-4297 Other. *Chapman Student Center, University of Tulsa * Tulsa City/County Libraries: Central, Hardesty South, Martin East, West Regional, Rudisill North. For info: call 596-7977 *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor ~*University Center at Talsa ........... Professionals Associates in MedicaJ & Mental Health, 1560 E. 21 743-1000 Jeffery A. Beal, MD, Giuny Butler, RN, Theodore Campbell, MSW K~ithi Biarns, LCSW, Lie. Clinical Therapist, 425-4778 Phillip Cyr, Gen. Contractor-Cosmetic Remodeling 745-9911 Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 [L Skelly 745-1111 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Bill Hinkle, Attorney 587-1500 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74"159 747-5466 John Kirk, Realtor 747-5800, 745-2245 Tom Neal, Designer, Buildings/Gardens/Graphics 832-0233 Richard Reeder, MS, Psychotherapy 581-0902, 743-4117 Religious Organizations *Bless The Lord AtAll Times Christian Ctr 262713 E. 11 *Community Of Hope, 1347 N. Yale *Family of Faith Mcc, 5451-E So; Mingo *MCC ofGreater Tulsa, 1623 N. Maplewood Dignity/Integrity *Canterbury Ministry Center, University of. Tulsa 628-0594 838-7232 622-1441 838-1715 298-4648 583-9780 tohr reporter Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights ¯ PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 July/Augusl 1994 Volume 14 Number 8 The views expressed elsewhere in Tulsa Family News are not necessarily the views of TOHR. Permission is granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR Reporterpage along with other items, under the byline, "submitted by TOHR’, contained elsewhere in Tulsa Family News. President’s Column by Kelly H. Kirby Pending Legislation Alert The Employment Non=Discrimination Act of 1994 (ENDA) has been introduced into both houses of congress as House Bill 4636 and Senate Bill 2238. There are currently more than 100 sponsors in the House of Representatives and 33 in the Senate. As opposed to legislation which has been introduced every year since the 1970s proposing basic rights for gays and lesbians, the act deals only with non discrimination in employment. This particular issue seems to have the broadest public opinion support (’/8% per one recent poll). That means 4 out of 5 Americans believe that sexual orientation discrimination should not be allowed in the work place. Other basic rights issues draw less and less public support, ranging from housing down to spousal and parental rights for lesbians and gay men. There are two very important things YOU can do: 1. Write or call your Representative and Senators urging their support for passage. This legislation may be acted upon rather quickly so take time to write or call soon. Your personal message will make a difference. 2. The Human Rights Campaign Fund (HRCF) is looking for persons with employment related discrimination stories, some from each state. The best and most clear cut accounts will be written up and some persons may be invited to testify at possible Congressional hearings. Ifyou or someone you know clearly fit these guidelines, please write to: HRCF Attention: Steven Leanos P.O. Box 1396 Washington, D.C. 20013 Our quick action can help this measure pass. With a couple of exemptions for small employers (under 15 employees) and religious organizations, this proposed legislation would give far reaching protection to bisexuals, gay men and lesbians. How would it feel to be able to go to work tomorrow and know that you couldn’t legally be fired for being who you are? Please ACT NOW! August Meeting PARTY ON BARTLETT SQUARE TOHR will observe its August meeting with the Second Annual Picnic and Dance on Bartlett Square. Everyone is invited to join TOHR and its members in celebrating summer at 5th and Main in beautiful downtown Tulsa. On Tuesday, August 2, 1994, from 7 to 10 p.m. we will be OUT in public. TOHR will provide soft drinks and have a live DJ spinning the hottest tracks. You are invited to bring your own picnic ifyou like, bring your family and friends and come prepared to show your pride. We had a great turn out last year so let’s do it ’til we’re satisfied. t Membership Name Address Cit~ Phone (optional) Signature Application BISEXUAL, LESBIAN AND GAY ISSUES INFORMATION Yes I want to be a contributing member of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Please accept payment as described below: $10 Limited Lncome]Student Membership $20 Regular Membership $35 Organizational/Household Membership $100 Sustaimn"g Membership I-I I~nctana~n:ceg,ingTOHR mailings and the Tulsa Family News [:i I am not on the mailing list 743- AND REFERRALS would like to volunteer help with: Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual HelpLine HIV Counselor Executive Board Member Event Planning and Party Preparations Monthly Meeting Support Make check payable to Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Donations contn’buted to TOHR over set membership fees are Tax Deductible. 4G2A9Y7S Memb e rs’ Re presentatives Kelly Kirby ...................................... President Ric Kirby ........................... 1st Vice President Kathleen Golden ............... 2nd Vice President Robert Crow .................................... Secretary Don ............. ~ .................................... Treasurer Owen ............................ HelpLine Coordinator Ruben Garcia ......................... Reporter Editor ..................................... Activities Coordinator Fundraising Coordinator Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights HIV T[STING CLINIC FREE--- ANONYMOUS Finger Stick Method EDUCATE ynURSELF~ REDUCE YOUR RISK BEHAVIORS, IT’S YOUR LIFE- BE IN CONTROL, Daytime Testing Monday-Thursday by Appointment 749-4194 Every Thursday Evening 7-8:30 p.m. 4154 S. Harvard Suite H-1 By and for but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Communities. Tulsa Family News, July-August 1994, page 3 I News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News NAMBLA Expelled NEW YORK-The members of the International Lesbian & Gay Association have voted by 214- 30 to expelNAMBLA(the North American Man/Boy Love Assn.). An 80% majority is requiredbyILGA’ schartertoexpel a member organization from the international fights group; the vote represents an 88% majority in favor of expelling the controversial NAMBLA group. Two other groups that deal with man/ boylove- the Dutch organization Vereniging Martijn and the USbased Project Truth - were also expdled from ILGA at the same time. Debate over the position of NAMBLA in the lesbigay movement has raged on and off for the past few years. But its membership in ILGA became an urgent political issue during the past year when U.S. Sen. Jesse Helms proposed - and Congress approved - an appropriations- bill amendment the would require the United States to cut off some $118 million in UN contributions unless the government certifies "that no United Nations agency...grants any official status, accreditation, or recognition to any organization which promotes, condones, or seeks the legalization of pedophilia, or which includes as a subsidiary ormemberany such organization." ILGA last year was granted consultative status with the UN’s Economic & Social Council - the first lesbigay organization to gain such status. In.a press release, NAMBLA condemned the expulsion vote as "a capitulation to US blackmail" and accused the ILGA secretariat of distorting NAMBLA’s position and purpose. Ohio Anti-Gay Measure CINCINNATI-The Cincinnati Post reports that Ohio Attorney General Lee Fisher has f’ded an amicus brief in opposition to the anti-gay Issue 3 approved by Cincinnati voters. Thebrief f’fled by Fisher argues that any measure approved by voters in the state must be consistent with the provisions of the U.S. Constitution but that Issue 3 violates the equal protection clause by pre-. venting a class of people from seeking legal protections on an equal basis with other citizens. Gay Pastor Begins Fast COLORADO SPRINGS, Colo. - The Rev. Mel White, the Dallas gay minister who was once a ghostwriter for Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson, has begun a 7- day "fast for understanding" outside the offices of Focus on the Family to draw attention to attacks by the religious right against gays and lesbians in this country. "In the last six months, Focus on the Family has quietly assumed leadership of an unprecedented attempt by extremist Christians to exert political and moral control over the nation," Dr. White said in a press statement. "Attacks against gay and lesbian people have become apivotpointin theirmovement." Focus on the Family backed Amendment 2, approved by Colorado voters and now being challenged in the courts. The organization now has chapters in all 50 states and, until recently a little-known organization, is one of the richest groups to emerge in the religious right recently. NO Arizona Initiative TUCSON, Ariz. - Arizona will not be one of the states facing a vote this year on an anti-gay measure that would have barred state and local laws prohibiting discrminafion based on sexual orientation. Frank Meliti, leader of the Traditional Values CoalilionofArizonawhichhadbacked the statewide measure, claimed the group had collected some 247,000 signatures - well over the 158,000 required- but would not be turning the petitions in, charging that ’~nilitant homosexuals" would only keep any such measure passed by the voters tied up in court challenges. At a press conference, Meliti displayed 4 cardboard boxes taped shut, but refused to open the boxes to show reporters the signed petitions he claimed the group had gathered. Louganis Tells Olympic Committee to Move Out ST. LOUIS - Olympic diver Greg Louganis told members of the U.S. OlympicCommitteethat the 1996 volleyball competition should be removed from Cobb County, Ga., because of a resolution adopted by commissioners there last year condemning the "gay lifestyle." Louganis, who acknowledged being gay at Gay Games IV in New York in June, made his remarks at an awards ceremony after receiving the USOC’s prestigious Robert J. Kane Award recognizing Olympic athletes who continue making contributions to their sport. According to a New York Times report, the USOC is trying to find a way to move the volleyball competition out of Cobb County without appearing to have caved in to pressure from gay rights activists. In speaking to the audience, Lougams identified himself as an "openly gay athlete." He told the awards audience, "They [the Cobb County Commission] have made it dear some of the athletes won’t be welcomed. An openly gay athlete should be able to compete without barriers." Cobb Cty. Extremists SALON WESTCOPA Ross Folsom Hairdesigner Color Technician Lincoln Plaza 1310 E. 15th St. 583.1500 NATHANAEL MATTINGLY salon estetica 749-0777 3509 S, Peoria ¯ Second Level ¯ Tulsa, OK 74105 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Fine Jewelry Watch & Jewelry Repair 4649 South Peoria, 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday Shop Where You Are Appreciated! i RO,YAL TRAVEL Our Clients Always Receive Royal Service" 496-2410, 1-800’336-3524 6927 So.. Canton Ave. PhillipCyr General Contractor CosmeticRenovations InteriorlExteriorPainting Carpeting Cabinet Re-facing CeramicTile Countertops 918-745-9911 Tulsa Family News, July -August 1994, page 4 News. Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News. ATLANTA-TheAtlanta-based anti-bias group Neighbors Network has released a report, ’~-Iidden Agenda: The Influence of Religious Extremism on the Politics of Cobb County, Georgia," which links anti-gay County COmmissioner Gordon Wysong with a little-known farright religious movement that advocates the death penalty for homosexuals and replacing democracy in the U.S. with a theocracy. Cobb Cty, Politico’s Daughter Comes Out ATLANTA - Rights activists battling to change an anti-gay resolution in the Atlanta suburb ofCobbCounty gotamajorboost when the daughter of Cobb County Commissioner Chairman Bill Byme, told the Southern Voice, Adanta’s gay paper that she struggled with what to do ever since the commission’s resolution made national news last August. After cgnfronting her father about it, Byme said, she decided to take the next step. ’Tm sorry for what my dad has donee" she said. ’That’s one of the reasons I’m coming out.... I felt like I needed to tell these Christian people that they are dead wrong. I don’t think they hdve any idea about l~ow to be Christian." Boy Scouts Lose SAN DIEGO - California Superior Court Judge Anthony Joseph has awarded $5,000 to Chuck Merino, an E1Cajon Police officer who sued the Boy Scouts for drumming him out of the youth group as an Explorer Scout leader after he-acknowledged he is gay. Judge Joseph ruled that the Scouts are in fact a business as defined under state law and are therefore prohibited from discriminating on a variety of factors, including sexual orientation. The judge ruled that acknowledging being homosexual "does not translate into "teaching’ that homosexuality is proper or improper." The state Supreme Court has already agreed to hear 2 cases involving the Boy Scouts’ policies conceruing gays and atheists which hinge on the same question of whether or not the youth group qualifies as a business under California law. Lesbian Officer Wins Reinstatement Appeal SAN FRANCISCO - The federal government has lost its appeal to block Col. Margarethe Cammermeyer’ s immediate reinstatement while the case of her dismissal is being appealed. The U.S. 9th Circuit Court of Appeals turned down the government’s appeal of a lower "-court thatorderedCzmmermeyer reinstated in the Washington State National Guard while her discharge is being appealed. It was not immediately clear whether the government would appeal the ruling to.the U.S. Supreme Court or not. Justice Dept, Appeals Cammermeyer Ruling WASHINGTON-To almost no one’s surprise, the U.S. Justice Department says it will appeal a recent decision by a U.S. district judge in Washington state to reinstatehighly decorated National Guard nurse Col. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who declared to military officials she is a lesbian. Earlier in June, a U.S. District Court in a summaryjudgmentin favor of Cammermeyer concluded that the government discriminated against the nurse without a "rational" basis for doing so and that the action was "grounded solely on prejudice." Ballot Measures Fail to Qualify in Washington OLYMPIA, Wash. - Two antigay initiatives in Washington state have not qualified for the ballot when backers of the initiafives failed to turn in the nearly 182,000 valid signatures. The measures would have barred the state orany governmental agency in Washington from recognizing the legal rights of gays, lesbians or bisexuals as a protected class. Texas Daily Publishes Same-Sex Unions EL PASO,.Texas -The El Paso Times has become the first daily newspaper in Texas - and one of only a handful in the U.S. - to accept same-sex couples announcements on an equal footing with opposite-sex wedding notices. The Everett (Washington) Herald near Seattle is believed to be the first daily paper in the U.S. to begin publishing same-sex partaers notices, which it began doing in November 1990. Fed. Hate Crimes Report BERLIN - FBI Director Louis Freeh, in Germany for an antiright wing conference, released details of the U.S. government’ s 1993 hate crimes statistics. Of the 7,684 crimes reported, the report indicate~, 806 - or 10.5% - were motivated by the victim’ s sexual orientation. The crimes reported ranged from minor property vandalism to assaults, rapes and murders. The motivation in the majority of the reported hate crimes continued to be race (4,168), followed by religion (1,189). Sexual orientation - which almost exclusively means anti-gay attacks - followed next, and national or ethnic origin was last with 583 reported crimes. American Airlines Gay-Positive Video ATLANTA -’ American Airlines, which ran into troubled skies when a flight crew carrying passengers back from the National March on Washington last year replaced all the pillows and blankets midway through the flight because gays and lesbians had used them, has putout a gay-positive employee videotape for its 70,000 workers "to help prevent the unfortunate incidents in the past" and ’’to make it clear that its policies of nondiscrimination and fairness are taken to heart." German Rights Proposal Fails BERLIN - The government of German Chancellor Helmut See News Briefs, page 6 numnnnnmumnmnnnumunmnnnnnunnunnnn ¯ [] ¯ ¯ ¯¯ [] ¯ [] ¯ [] [] ¯¯ ¯ Puppy Pause II All Breeds Dog Grooming llth & Mingo, 838-7626 Open Tuesday - Saturday at 8am. 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The ACLU says it will probably also file a similar suit in behalf of 98 other city workers - beth gay and straight - whose partners lost the benefits following the May 7 election repeal. The suit charges the city with breach of contract and unfair insurance practices because voters yanked the benefits program that had been in place since September when it was initially approved by the city council. Lesbian Gets Son Back RICHMOND, Va. - The Virginia CoUrt of Appeals has overturned a lower court child custody ruling that. ordered the 2- year-old son of Sharon Bottoms removedfrom herhome because she acknowledged she is a lesbian. "A parent’s private sexual conduct, even if illegal, does not create a presumption of unfitness," wroteJudgeSamColeman for the. 3-member panel. The unanimous appeals court ruling overturned a lower court ruling that gave custody of the boy to Bottoms’ 43-year-old mother, Kay Bottoms, who had brought the custody dispute against her daughter. The grandmother was unavailable for: comments following the decision, but her attorney, Richard Ryder, said his client, would appeal the ease to the state Supreme Court. Virginia Adds Lesbian/Gay Families RICHMOND, Va. - The Virginia Housing Development Authority has. approved a pror posed regulatory change that would allow offering low-income loans to non-traditional .households, including gay and lesbian couples. The pr0~posal alters current regulations, which restrict such loans to families that are related by "blood, marriage or adoption," to include low-income joint house purchasers defined’as "two or more individuals living togetheronthe premises as a single, nonprofit housekeeping uuit." Several area gay andlesbianhomeowners and prospective buyers spoke in support of the proposed change as did representatives of Richmond’s and Virginia’s mortgage bankers association and the Richmond Assn. of Realtors. But Margaret Braddy of Concerned Women of America called the proposal a move toward "illegal and immoral behavior. ....Virginia will not be improved by disregarding-the importance ... ofthe familyuuit," Braddy said. But the VHDA board disagreed and approved the regulation change with oul.y one vote cast against it. ~ Nevada Measure Fails CARSON CITY, Nev. - An attempt by a group in Nevada to put an" anti-gay ballot measure before voters in the state failed when a group backed by the Oregon Citizens Alliance failed to get the 51,399 valid voter signatures needed to qualify the measure by the June 21.~date petitions were due to be turned in. ’The opposition was well-organizedandworkedextremelyhard but they just couldn’t get anywhere near the ... signattires they needed," said Beverly Baum of the Campaign for Liberty, the group fighting the proposed amendment. The signatures needed for proposed ballot measure in Nevadamustinclude voters from 13 of the state’s 17 counties. Surg. General v. Fundies WASHINGTON-U.S. Surgeon General Joycelyn Elders has set off a firestorm of controversy for critical remarks she made about anti-gay fundamentalists. During a speech at the Lesbian and Gay Health Conference in New York on Wednesday, June 22, Elders said of the religious right’s opposition to AIDS and schoo! sex education programs: "We’ve got to be strong to.take on those people who are selling our children out in the name of religion..We’ve got to be as aggressive as .they !ve .been." At one point the outspoken Elders referred to the ’bin-Christian religious right." Idaho Pride Draws Crowd BOISE - More than. doubling last year’s turnout, more than a thousand people turned out Saturday, June I 1, for Boise’s 5th annual Gay Pride.celebration as the state faces a likely nasty antigay ballot measure. Anti-gay protesters also showed up for the event, some carrying signs reading: "Only good queer is a dead queer." Organizers of the event said the Idaho Citizens Alliances’ attempt to put an antigay ballot initiative before the voters in the state contributed to the larger tdmout this year. Navy Bans Anti-Gay Civilian Job Bias WASHINGTON - The U.S. Navy has become thefirstbranch of the nation’s armed forces to formally prohibit discrimination based on sexual orientation among its civilian workforce. The Coast Guard had earlier this year issues an anti-bias statement including sexual orientation, but the U.S. Coast Guard is a division of the Department of Transportation rather than the Defense Department. Games cont’dfrom p. 1 and gay men simply ignored them. New York s police force, beefed up with some 6,500 ofricers on overtime duty during the week, reported not asingle anti-gay attack connected with the gigantic event. On Saturday evening, June 25, after the Gay Games closing ceremonies the International.Dyke March drew. an estimated %000 women who marched from 42rid street down Fifth Avenue - without a permit -to a mucous andfestive rally at Washington Square Park. A mile-long rainbow flag led the parade from the United Nations up First Avenue to Central.Park on Sunday - the "ofricial;"Stonewall 25 march that included Mayor Giuliani. ACT UP, Gay & Lesbian Americans and other groups Organized an unautho-, rized parade up Fifth Avenue. Stonewal125 organizers hadbeen refused a city permit for that route. Organizers estimated participation at 1.1 million. City police and parks officials estimated the number was a mere .100;000 people. Sandra J. Hill, M.S, Tulsa Family News, July - August 1994, page 6 The only thing tired about your trip should be you.., when you get back! 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President Ronald Reagan, depicting him with kaposi sarcoma lesions. According to a Benetton spokesperson, the retouched photo was, the clothing manufacturer s way of pointing the finger of blame at the onetime actor and former president for not acting to battle the AIDS epidemic. Asian AIDS Epidemic GENEVA - The number of AIDS cases around the world has risen 60% during the past year, according to the World Health Organization, which estimates that there are 4 million actual cases of AIDS and 17 ¯ million cases of HIV infection globally. While most of these infections are in sub-Saharan Africa, WHO officials say the greatest danger is in Asia, which has experienced an eighffold increase in the number of AIDS cases during the past year. Of particular concern, says WHO, is thespreadofthe diseaseamong female prostitutes in Thailand, India,.and.other countries.~. HIV Measures in Sweden STOCKHOLM = The Swedish government has adopted a number of compulsory measures intended to control the spread of HIV,including voluntary routine testing, mandatory contact- and partner-tracing and testing. If a case of HIV is diagnosed, the physician will be required under the new.policies to file a report including a coded case number, gender, year and country ofbirth; risk category and, if possible, time and place of transmission. The physician will also be obliged to see the patient on a regular basis, and to inform him or her of binding regulations to prevent further spread of infection. These regulations now include informing prospective Sexual parmers about the infection before intercourse; practicing safe:sex; refraining from shared use of hypodermic needles or syringes; and not engaging in prostitution. Patients must also inform medical authorities before undergoing any treatment involving Mood contact. If the patient does not follow these regulations, the doctor is required to report the patient to medical officers in charge of the ctntrol of communicable diseases. If thepatient continues to ignore the mandatory restrictions, however, they can be detained in ahospital if health officials believe they present a threat Of infecting others = a decision to be made by the administrative courts. Transmission Risks Among Bisexual Men SAN FRANCISCO - A study on the prevalence and patterns of sexual behavior among male -bisexuals has concluded that San Francisco men identifying themselves as bisexual are not likely to transmit HIV to their female partners. The finding by . researchers at the University of California at San Francisco contradicts a general misconception that bisexual men provide a "bridge" can’ying HIV from the gay subculture to the larger heterosexual community, according to UCSF lead researcher Dr. Maria Ekstrand. The study, which involved 140 unmarried men whose HIV status was known to the researchers, found thatmost ofthe sexualris~k-taking took place when the bisexual men had sex with other males - not when engaged in sex with women. Only 7 percent of the bisexual male actually reported having sex with women, and among this group,.a mere 2 percentreportedhaving unprotected vaginal intercourse, the. study reports. The findings also indicate that the men in the study significantly cut back on sexual risk-taking behaviors in general and particularly during malemale sex, during the five-year term of the study. Although unprotected vaginal intercourse remains common among men who have sex with women, this behavior wasreported! almost exclusiVely by the HIV-negalivemeninvolvedintheresearch. Drug Trials in Australia SYDNEY- Australian AIDS researchers have announced that a new drug that is believed to boost the immune system rather than attack the HIV virus itself, is to be tested for the first time in the country. Scientists hope that the drug, Interleukin-2 (IL-2), will increase the life expectancy and quality of life for people infected With HIV. Preliminary studies using IL-2 have shown that some HIV positive people have experienced a fourfold increase in T-cell counts. One hundred twenty volunteers in Sydney, Melbourne and Perth with relatively healthy immune systems are being sought to participate. The drug is supposed to boost the immune system so the virus has less chance of reproducing. In a trial in the U.S. two years ago, 90 percent of the participants, with an average Tcell countof400, showedmarked increases in their counts for about a year. A stronger immune system also makes people less sus--- ceptible to secondary infections. H!V Home Test Kit WASHINGTON -According to Advertising Age, Johnson &: Johnson hopes to become the first healthcare marketer to put an HIV home sdf-test kit on the market. The $30 kit, known as Confide, would include a lancet with which to draw blood and a smear card to send off to a national laboratory. Results, counseling,andmedical referrals would be dispensed by phone. The Food & :Drug Administrationhas refused approval to other home test kits, citing concerns such as packing and mailing, false positives, and the need for in-person medical consultations. Johnson & Johnson claims that Confide will provide easy access and total anonymity. An independent survey by the company found that 80% of gays and lesbians would be inclined to use the test, and a recent poll from the Centers for Disease Control in Atlanta ~ound that 1 in 4 Americans woulduse such a test. 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To receive more information about new clinical trials as they are available, send .your name & address to: Associates in Medical & Mental Health 1560 E. 21st St, Ste. 210, .Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Family News, July ~ August 1994, page 7 OK Politicians co.t’d omp. 2 them. A couple of them, like Ms.lCleveland, need to remember or learn~that even if they’re tired of hearing about a problem, their job ($12,000 annually) includes actually listening to citizens. Councillors Hall, Hogne, & Gilbert, who in theory are members of the Democratic Party, might do well to re-read the national patty platform: civil rights are for everyone, including Lesbian and Gay citizens. Runningfor governor, Bernice Shedrick. is touted as one of the brightest in the OK legislature (and no, that is not damning her by faint praise) and is an attorney. She apparently thinks that being Gay or Lesbianmeans that you’re dumb too. Amonth ago Shedrick was told that current civil rights protections do not include Lesbians & Gay men. She was asked if she would support amending those to provide protection based on sexual orientation. She promised, "H1 look into it." Amonthlater, after repeated phone calls,, she issued a statement that civil rights laws protect all citizens and tt~t as governor sheql uphold the laws. Hello, Bernice-we started with the fact that current civil rights laws don’t include Lesbians & Gay men, a fact that as a legislator orlawyer she could easily verify. So what we’re being told us that she’ll support the laws that don’t include us. Whydoesn’t shejust tell us that she doesn’t want our votes and we’ll vote for Jack Mildren who believes in civil rights, even for Gay p~ople. However, it is the Oklahoma Congressional delegation which shames us as Oklahomans most. Between Inhofe & Nickles (no doubt members of the same branch of Republicans as John Benjamin) who are openly prejudiced and Democrats such as .Dave McCurdy and David Boren who just. don’t have seem to have the courage to include Lesbian & Gay Oklahomans in their constituencies, Lesbian & Gay Oklahomans just don’t get much represention at all. Except maybe from Rep. Mike Synarwho never-the-less won’t join 116 of his peers in co-sponsoring a new bill, the Employment Non-Discrimi- 3 DA Y PRODUCTION MINI BLINDS VERTICALS PLEATED SHADES SAME PRICE! 25" l|° 1|" $2" $6" 40° 44" 48" 42" 1 7 1 8 1 9 21 23 25127 29 48" 18:19 21~23!26128!30i32 18121123 24~281 30~32~35 SG" 22~24127!29132~35 37140 7116 South Mingo, Suite 102, 254-2100 nation LAct of 1994, designed to discourage discrimination based on sexual orientation in the workplace. Mike says cosponsorship doesn’t matter but if that’s so why are 116 congress folks wasting their time? Synar at least is familiar with the bill. Sen. Nickles.office will tell that he’s opposed to it but his folks can’t tell you why because it turns out they haven’t even read it. They just know they wouldn’t like it. Now duck & cover Dave McCurdy "wants to be a senator and probably will get our votes only because the alternative, "Tulsa’s dysfunctional congressman"- The Tulsa WorM, James lnhofe, is not only bad for Gay people, he’.s just plain bad. ButMcCurdy’s positiononcivil rights for Lesbian and Gay citizens seems to be that he doesn’t mind ff we have a few as long as no oneknows he said so. McCurdy too is alone among Oklahoma’s semimoderate Democrats in refusing to sign a Human Rights Campaign Fund pledge not to discriminate in hiring in his office. He told The Tulsa Worm that he did not sign the pledge because he already had he is leaving DC, the best that he c~an muster is that he’s supportive of theconcept of the Employment Non-Discrimination Act of 1994 but he’s still undecided whether to become a co-sponsor. Hello, Senator - you’re a lame-duck! If he can’t stand up for civil rights now, when will ke ever? At the rate this session’s going he’ll be gone before a vote will ever be likely. Many Oklahomans find these legislators to be a disappointment, and in the case of our city council, the word clown comes to mind, but Lesbian and Gay Oklahomans have more justification for those feelings than many citizens. We are not yet represented in the council or the’ legislature or openly represented in our congress. There’s not much we can do but this: get registered if you’re not; vote no matter how inconvenient it may be; get involved- call or fax McOardy and Synar and even Inhofe and Nickles if you are feeling "masochistic." They might not like us but they still need to hear from Us. Call your city councillors and Mayor Savage. Remember that the primary is August 23 and you can make a difference such protections in his office. However’, inwho’s govemor.TulsaDemocraticparty on direct questioning, his press secretary, Cindy Cain said that McCurdy’s office policy does not include protection from discriminationbasedonsexual orientation. Hello, Dave - back here in Oklahoma, we’d call that a lie-maybe in DC, you call it something else? Sen. Boren to our knowledge is the only Oklahoma politician who’s ever felt it necessary to swear an oath of heterosexuality on the steps of our state capitol. Having been the victim of anti-Gay prejudice, one would hope he might be moreforthcoming. However, even though headquarters phone is 742-2457. If you’re a Republican, call TFN to.get in contact with folks who want to starta Log Cabin Republicans chapter, an organization for Lesbian and Gay Republicans. What each of you does makes a difference. Other Issues Our report of the loss of state funding for Project Reach Out is a story of pain for a number of individuals, the congregation of Family of Faith MCC and this writer. 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Richard Reeder, MS Cherry Street Psychotherapy Associates Serving the Diverse needs of the Gay and Lesbian Community Individuals 1515 South Lewis Tulsa, OK 74104 Couples Groups (918)743-4117 (918)581-0902 Bless The Lord At All Times CHRISTIAN .CENTER 2627-B East 11th Street We would like to (Because every- !nvite you to join one has a right to ,nou.rspiritf!lted be blessed by serwces. A Place God!) Sunday where we all School, 9:45 am, come together to " Services at 11:00 worship, praise & am & our weekly glorify the name bible study is held ofJesus ! each Wed. at 7:30 628,0594, message phone. Eddie Cook, pastor Tulsa Family News, July - August 1994, page 8 Faith continuedfrompage,1 pre-signed blank by Fink, allegedly in tile presence of a notary who would later seal the documents. Castillo wonders just exactly what has happened to funds that were donated to Project Reach Out from fundraisers held in two Tulsa bars. Over $400 was raised in these events but right now there is no money in the Project Reach Out account; it appears there have been a couple "bounced" checks (one of which has been made good by Crocker & Fink) and Castillo has yet to find records of expenditures from that account. When he questioned Crocker about where the funds were spent, her accounting of the expenditures did not fit his recollection of the bills. He expected that there would be some funds remaining. Castillo was authorized to sign checks was Crocker but claims the only things he’s ever signed were the signature card and co-signature on a check to help a community enterminer during a serious illness. What do Crocker & Fink Say? Marion Fink and Pam Crocker have moved to Kansas City, Missouri, having resigned their pastorate. They attended a final service on July 10 at Family of Faith at which a special offering of $500 was given to them, according to Dee Chambers, FoF treasurer. Board member Amos suggested that Chambers might have a phone number for Crocker & Fink though Amos did not. Chambers said that the former pastors did not yet have a phone but would call as they got one. A Project Reach Out volunteer suggested that there was a non-published listing for Pare Crocker at what is alleged to be their new address in Kansas City. Shortly after speaking with Chambers about these issues, Amos calledTFN with a message from Crocker threatening to sue ifan article were written. Rudy Castillo say he,Amos and another churchmember were called by Crocker about this time. Castillo characterized it as she (Crocker) went "crazy" on me. Crocker called TFN directly and inquired if we’d received her message from Amos. TFN expressed our interest in getring the information sorted out and the following is a transcription of the tape. TFN: "...I’m really happy that you called" Crocker: "yeah well I’m not sure you’re going to be with me" TFN: "I’m tape-recording this conversation. I’d be happy to talk with you and see what you have to say." Crocker: "I think you better take the tape recorder off." TFN: "no ma’am, any conversation we have is going to be stlictly on the record with the tape recorder going, I already have from Kharma that you are making threats" Crocker: "the only threat, dear, is just you know, if a story is printed untrue, then I can take you to court, that’s just plain & simple, that’s not a threat..." TFN: "...People have come to me with allegations. My job as a journalist is to report on items of interest and concern to our community and clearly Family of Faith & Project Reach Outare programs of interest to our community...I am very much interested in heating from you all your version of what has happened with these programs." Crocker: "tell you what I need to do, let me do some talking, let me see what people have said, I don’t want to be on your tape recorder saying things unless I know what’s (been) said." TFN: "...you can share with me your version of what has happened." Crocker: "OK, when I get ready to tell you my version, I’ll give you a call." TFN: "OK would you be willing to give me your number so that I can follow up with you?" Crocker: "no" TFN: "ok, you’re not willing to do that?" Crocker: l...u , I want to do things in my time when I’m ready to talk with you." TFN: "so, do you have anything to hide in this whole matter?" Crocker: "no, I don’t have anything to hide." TFN: "ok, so that you feel that all of your behavior with regard to Project Reach Out and financial management of that particular project as well as the church, all of that is on the up & up?" Crocker: "yes" TFN: "great I’ll be happy to go on the record with that." Crocker: "wall like I said when I have anything to say to you I will...let me talk to my lawyer and I"11 be in touch with you." According to state health officials, although they now reside in another state, Crocker and Fink are still contractually responsible for Project Reach Out. State officials know that they’re gone but can do nothing until Family of Faith sends official notice of the former pastors departure. Family of Faith remains fiscally responsible Rudy Castillo worries whether Project Reach Out can continue with out access to state blood testing Which now will be denied. Private testing is available but funds may not be. And until questions about the disbursement of funds are answered, he worries that the community may be less willing to help. Even now a small food bankproject for PWA’s is only continuing because Castillo’s co-workers seeing his anguish are helping. Alan Nyitray and Emestine Hill of the State Health Dept. are preparing an RFP, request for proposals from other’ groups, as quickly as they can to try to address the need for which the program was intended: to get H1V information and testing to Gay & Bisexual men of color, an seriously underserved sub-community both in Oklahoma and across the US. Nyitray commented that finally what killed the program was not just the fact that the required paperwork was not done but was that call after call after call left on answering machines about the programs wereunreturned. Shortlybeforepress lime, Pam Crocker called back and was Willing to discuss Project Reach Out. She confirmed many of the details mentioned above though sometimes in a misleading fashion. When asked if she, as project financial director, felt responsible for the loss of the grant monies, she cited her inexperience but felt she did not bear the full responsibility. Wanted: Lesbians who like to play with balls. Women who want to be active in sports, please contact 646- 6455 (beeper) between 5-10pm or write to: Tulsa Womens Sports Association 1212 S. Florence Place, 74104 46th & Memorial 665-6595 don carlton MITSUBISHI NEW ’94 Galant LS or ’95 Galant ES Only $500 Down Not A Lease Your Choice! *237 too.* "55 payments at $237; ’94 LS list price $19,915, sale price $17,395, amount financed $17,395, last payment $8563.45, 6.40% APR. ’g5 ES list price $19,089, sale price $17,577, amount financed $17,077, last payment $8399.16, 6.73% APR, w. a. c. Jeffery A. 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Friends & Lovers is intended to provide an alternative means of meeting new people for friends or for long-term relationships. You must provide your name, address and day & evening phone numbers. This information is completely confidential. Catagories are: friends seeking friends, women seeking women, & men seeking men. Ads containing sexually explicit/implieitlanatomical language will not be accepted. Tulsa Family News reserves the right to edit or reject any advertisement. Ads may be submitted for publication only by persons 18 years of age or older. No ads will be published seeking persons under 18. Tulsa Family News assumes no liability for the content or reply for any personal ad. The customer placing the ad assumes complete liability and holds Tulsa Family News harmless for all cost, expenses, (including attorneys fees), liabilities and damages resulting from or caused by the publication or recording placed by the adveaiser or any reply to any such advertisement. By using Tulsa Family News Personal Service the customer placing the ad agrees not to leave his/her phone number, last name or address in his/her greeting. ~ ..... ’ ’" Jackson-Henry Holy Union & Celebration Brian Jackson &Tim Henry exchanged vows and rings in a Holy Union ceremony at the home of Bob Ames in North Hollywood, California on June 10. The Reverend Judy Dahl officiated, reading from the 13th chapter of Hebrews and blessing the rings. The couple also held a Commitment Celebration on June 17 in Tulsa. Friends helping to witness the ceremony and celebrate the union included Randy Ditmore, Craig Tmvis, Frank Harris and Bob ,Mnes. Follies Revue, Inc. Presents Cabaret ’94 Follies Revue, Inc. has announced plans for the sixth annual fundraising eventbenefitting Tulsa area organizations that provides services and direct care to individuals who have HIV/AIDS. "Cabaret ’94 will follow the format of the ’93 event, a dinner/nightclub entertninment evening. Cabaret ’94 is scheduled for 8:30pm on August 25, 26, and 27 at Escargot, 8th and Main. The 25th performance is a"Patron’s Evening", with pre-show music, dinner, wine & valetparking. Tickets are $40. On the 26 &27, tickets are $25 & are available from Carson Attractions, 584-2000. For more information on other locations selling tickets or whole-table rates, call Follies Revue, Inc., at 437-0201. SALOON New Hours: Wed.- Sun. 7-2 Closed Mon. & Tues. 1565 South Sheridan, 834-4234 "ulsa Family News, July - August 1994, page 10 Open: Men-Sat, 10am- 2am, Sun, Noon -2am KNOW WHATTOEXPEC THE G A Y L I F. E S T Y L E Miss Gay Tulsa USA On Sunday, September 4, 1994, the Official 1995 Miss Gay Tulsa USA Pageant will be heldinTulsaattheMetropole’, Tulsa’s hot new dance dub located at I902 East llth Street, beginning at 10:00pro. The Miss Gay Tulsa USA Pageant is an official preliminary to the 8th annual Miss Gay OklahomaUSA Pageant, which will be held ih November. This will be the seventh year for the Miss Gay Tulsa USA Pageant and former Miss GayTulsaUSA’s include: Raghenna, Bobble Sue Sommers,Jordan Blake, Toni, Jazmyne Cherri, along with the current Miss Gay Tulsa USA, Taylor Bryan’s. The Miss Gay USA Pageant celebrates its 10th anniversary in 1995 and David Bridgman, Oklahoma USA promoter, is inviting all female impersonators to enter as the Miss Gay Tulsa USA Pageant will send the winner and the 1st runner-up to the Miss Gay Oklahoma USA Pageant which will send its winner and 1st runnerup to the 10th anniversary Miss Gay USA Pageant to represent OUR state. Entry forms are available at Tulsa dubs or by contacting David Bridgman at 838-3701. Tulsa Family News is proud to announce Passages to serve our communities. In this feature, we will publish holy union, birth, anniversary announcements with photos & obituraries on a space-available basis in the issue after the event. Please send materials by the 1st of the month with a phone number. Other Issues cont’dfrom p. 8 essary and ultimately, was an issue of my responsibility offairandaccurate reporting to our communities. I would like to write only of the many heroes of our communities: the McDonalds, the Kirbys, Phil Wiley, Tay Clare to pick on-a few and neglect many others but also I must write ofwhen things go wrong. This story is especially painful because it involves persons who are also heroes to some here but who seem to have made unwise choices. If the individuals involved were only harming themselves, we might pity them but not pass judgement on them. In this case, it’s not ~lear that anything illegal has been done. It appears that most of what happened evenhiay not be unethical but it was negligent. And this negligence resulted in the quite unnecessary loss of funding to an HIV education projectto an underserved part ofour communities, Gay &Bisexual men of color. Itis conceivable that some lives actually may be lost or end sooner because of the loss of this funding for HIV education and testing. Itis this failure to be responsible that we as communities have a right to evaluate. Just as we reqture our elected leaders to be responsible, we too must ask others who choseroles ofleadership to beresponsible. If say you’ll do something, then do it. If you find you can’t do it, then hand the project off. In this situation because of the profession of the individuals, the expectations of responsible actions are higher. Did these people do good things dmSng much of the time they were here? Yes. Ate these people bad? I don’t think so. Did they do anything bad? Probably not. But did they do what they should have? No. And have they .taken responsibility for their actions? Only just barely, it seems. Charity Event: 1.994 Tulsa Famil ~ News, July - August 1994, page MET POLE RAN.D OPE NING ........Saturday,. July 16, Openi"ng ~Gala with~hoSt Rachael Erlkks, Lola McCall, Paula Rae & More! Fri. & sat: DanCing by Cody! Sunday: Sensuous & Friends! Stage Sets by A Major Affair Monday-Thursday 50¢ Draws, 4,Spm & regular specials Friday We put you in charge, pick your own beer bust, any 2 hour period from 4- 10, only $3 Saturday 25¢ Draws, 4-7, $1 Longnecks 8-11 Sunday $4 Bud Beer Bust 8-11 Sundays: Sensuous & Friends, llpm Through the End of July T’s for $2 For Your Entertainment Dart Board & Pool Table Disco opening during the week Dancers every Fri. & Sat. evenings No Cover - 1902 East llth - 587-8811 - Must Be 21 To Enter-.Open: Mon-Sun, 4-2 am Tulsa Family News, July-August !994, page 12 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource July 15-August 14, 1994 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Kharma Amos Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neil/Tulsa Family News Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/468 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, June 15-July 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 7 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/53c938bb504890d7ff105132ec1355ba.jpg e738486ca585a71b984539cba46fbed8 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/1a6b8afcade5f041648264f295c96d67.pdf 2fbde23bb5a7fffa2d07a50807fee086 PDF Text Text TULSA FAMILY NEWS Serving Tuba’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart August 15 - September 14, 1994, Volume 1, Issue 9 Senate Bias Hearings OK Primary Round-Up Who’s Good, Who’s Bad WASHINGTON - The Senate Labor & Human ResourcesCommitteebeganhearingsontheproposed Employment Non-Discrimination Act that would prohibit bias in the workplace because of sexual orientation- the first time the upper house of Congress has considered such a job discrimination measure. The bill was introduced in June by Sen. Edward Kennedy (D-Mass.), who is also chairman of the Senate committee. If enacted, the legislation would add sexual orientation to the classes protected under federal law from employment bias, along with race, sex, religion, age, national origin and disability. Among those slated to testify during the hearings will be a fired Cracker Barrel restaurant worker, a postal employee who was beaten unconscious at his job by a co-worker, and an executive with Pacific Bell. The hearings began on Friday, July 29. Most Child Molesters Are Heteros, Doctors Say DENVER -Adults who sexually abuse children are more likely to be heterosexual than gay, according to a study published in the current issue of the prominent medical journal Pediatrics. The study, which examined the medical records of 269 children treated for sexual abuse at Denver’s Children’s Hospital, was prompted by a 1992 anti-gay ballot measure in Colorado that excluded gays and lesbians from civil rights protections in the state. Researchers with the University of Colorado, led by Dr. Carole Jenny, wanted to see if there was any basis to the claim. What they found was that only 2 of the offenders involved in the 269 abuse cases seen at the hospital - just 0.7% - were identified as homosexual. Statisti,eally; the researchsugge:sts tha~ dafldren are more than 100 times likely to be ~exu~ii~assi~tilf~ by.a relative or the sexual partner of a relative, nearly always males. Senate Cand McCurdy Anti-Gay Bias is OK ¯ US Congressman Dave McCurdy has publically stated his opposition to civil rights protections for Gay Oklahomans. In a letter issued in response to repeated requests by Tulsa Family News, McCurdy refused to support pending legislation, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act of 1994 but stated that such "legislation is not necessary." When asked ff he was aware of civil rights abuses in Oklahoma, he answered, "no." To further questioning, McCurdy said that he felt that discrimination based on sexual orientation was not as bad as discrimination based on religion or race. Also, as far as TFN has been able to determine McCurdy had never met with any Oklahoma Lesbian & Gay community organizations or leaders here in the state. ~ou~ o! ~pt~-nlatlue~ Tulaa, Oklahoma Dear Mr. Neal: Thank yo~ for your In~eras~ In my poai=~0n o= gay ~ will ~u ~ a co~neor of legislation ~=i~ed =o by Maureen Curtin Norman, Oklahoma "Thank-you Congressmen Inhofe, Brewster, and Ishtook," exclaimed Mandy Carter; keynote speaker for the first annual Oklahoma Pride Summit. Member of the Board of Governors of the Black Gay and Lesbian Leadership Forum, Carter quickly explained her gratitude. Earlier this year, the three Congressmen openly admitted that they would not hire gays or lesbians to their respective staffs. The admission caused a stir in Washington D.C. that did not die, thanks to members of the Human Rights Campaign Fund who circulated a pledge. Each of the 244 members of the House of Representatives and 79 Senators who signed the pledge vowed that he or she would not discriminate on the see Summit, page 9 In an interview at the Sapulpa Public Library, Keating made the comment above and stated that he thought current civil fights laws pmvidelegal recourse to discrimination. He indicated that he felt that protections might not be needed because of Gays’ alleged higher wealth & education. He did emphasize his ’;openess" to discussion though he said he would not issue an executive order banning discrimination in state employment. Dome. for Gov. Bernice Shedrick: Not a Bigoted Bone in Her Body But Dodging the Issue & In Trouble with NOW Shedrick’s campaign staff claims she doesn’t have a bigoted bone but they don’t seem to be able to get a clear position out of her. She accepted a $1,000 donation from the National Organization of Women which supports civil rights for Lesbians but this issues seems not to have been considered. Oklahoma NOW president, Karen Ray had promised to "hold Shedrick’s feet to the fire." see Politics, page 2 Noted Evangelist at Family of Faith MCC on Sunday, August 21st. For more information, call 622-1441. National News- Military Update First State-wide Gay Conference Is Success Gays were all rich and travel a lot" Family of Faith Metropolitan Community Church welcomes Delores Berry who will conduct a "Praise and -:Worship,..I .............. ~...... _~_....... Don’t Forget to Vote, Primary: August 23, General Electio: November 8 photo: Maureen Curtin Radecic &friend Helen, Reaves, Bray, Neal, Carter Political analysis by Tom Neal GOP Frank Keating for Gov: "1 thought reporter~ page 3 Youth Speak Out: Older Lesbians & Gays Should Help Gay Young Adults Lesbian Officer to be Reinstated SEATTLE- Col. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who was kicked out of the Washington State National Guard in 1992 because she byBrannon Crain working to assist is a lesbian, will go back to her post as chief nurse as a result of a Lesbian & Gay youth. The future of the Gay federal court ruling. On July 8, the 9th Circuit Court of Appeals Community lies in the One of the most refused to accept the government’s request that Cammermeyer be hands of its youth. It prevalent issues is that kept out of the military. of peer acceptance. "It is seems obvious that as 2 Gays Discharged by Navy Boards difficult how to predict one generation follows NORFOLK, V~- A Navy Board of Inquiry hearing the discharge another, the Lesbian/- hqw you will be p~rceived." said one Gay communities mus~ proceedings against Lt. jr. grade R. Dirk Selland has unanimously youth in the community. support and train the ruled that the 25-year-old gay naval officer should be honorably next generation. discharged because of his sexual orientation. Selland told his "I was told by several commanding officer he was gay the day after President Clinton, Lesbian & Gay youth people that I was face more than their danmed." Lesbian and who had promised in his campaign to end the anti-gay Pentagon share of problems, such Gay youth need ban, took office. The naval board concluded that Selland had violated the Defense Department’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy as lack of peer reassurance from the acceptance, Gaywhen he informed his commanding officer of his sexual orientation. adult community that bashing, suicide, fear of Meanwhile, in Washington, D.C., another Navy Board of Inquiry they are not alone. recommended that Lt. Tracy Thorne also be honorably discharged Along the same lines coming out, and drug because he told ABC-TV’s "Nightline" program in 1992 that he is abuse. However, with is the fear of bashing. gay. Navy Secretary John Dalton still must approve the board’s help from older Lesbian No one whether they be and Gay groups and gay, straight, black, or discharge ruling, which he is expected to do. Thorne’s attorneys individuals, Gay youth white should be held have said they will take Thome’s case to the federal courts if the Navy lieutenant is in fact discharged. Michelle Benecke, coprisoner by their fear of are surviving. In Tulsa, director of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, said there being beaten because of Tulsa Oklahomans for I-Iuman Rights (TOI-IR) their practices, are more than 100 cases of gay military personnel pending before inquiry boards and federal courts that could reach the Supreme and Gay and Lesbian convictions, or beliefs. Bashing creates a Court in the next few years. AssociationofStudents legitimate fear of"being (GLAS) at Tulsa Junior Conn. Court Rules Pentagon Discriminates College Southeast out" in the sense of HARTFORD, Conn.-Connecticut Superior Court Judge Frances see Youth, page 8 Campus and others are Allen has ruled that the Defense Department’ s newest "don’t ask, see Military, page 9 Tulsa Family News, August- September 1994, page I �The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force is calling on our community to take aggressive action in the month of August before and during the summer recess of Congress to advocate for health care reform and passage of the Employment NonDiscrimination Act of 1994 (ENDA). Constituents must also communicate their outrage at the recent deluge of anti,gay amendments offered by Senator Jesse Helms (R-NC). :During late July and early August Sen. Jesse Helms unleashed a gay bashing agenda on Capitol Hill by filling the Congressional record with antigay speeches and by attaching amendments and making antigay motions to several bills. So far, he has attacked Agriculture Appropriations, the National Endowment for the Arts, Interior Appropriations and the Elementary and Secondary Education Act. Helms’ strategy has forced NGLTF, and other .groups, to spend its time battling against anti-gay attacks, rather than advancing our affirmative agenda by lobbying for the Employment NonDiscrimination Act (ENDA) and preserving, anti-discrimination provisions within health care reform bills soon to be on both the House and Senate floors. Helms must realize that ENDA enjoys unprecedented support on Capitol Hill. Helms knows that the gay, lesbian, and bisexual Community has been successful in getting sexual orientation included in civil rights provisions of a majority of health care reform bills. Helms also recognizes that the Clinton Administration has advanced the basic civil rights of federal gay, lesbian, and bisexual employees bY enacting non-discrimination employment policies in most federal agencies. Helms is attacking because he recognizes that we are winning thewar onbigotry. Helms hopes that in creating a hostile environment in the Senate on gay issues, he will prevent future votes to affirm gay, lesbian, and bisexual rights. Helms’ agendais to destroy any advance by the gay, lesbian, and bisexual community. We need you to take action now and hold your senators accountable for their votes in supporting Helms’ gay bashing. Act now! You can advocate for healtk care reform, support the Employment NonDiscrimination Act, and hold your senators accountable for their anti-gay votes in just a few minutes of your time. I. Contact your Representatives and Senators! Call the U.S. Capitol Switchboard for the phone numbers of your Members of Congress at: 202-224-3121. Don’t worry if you don’t know their names; the operator can tell you based on your zip code. A recently introduced federal bill prohibiting employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is receiving unprecedented bipartisan support in both the House of Representatives and Senate. The Employment NonDiscrimination Act (ENDA) of 1994 has 125 House and 30 Senate co-sponsors making it the most popular gay and lesbian civil rights bill in Congressional history. Senate hearings, held July 29, clearly demonstrated that job discriminationis areal danger for gay men, lesbians and bisexuals. September is an important month for ENDA with a vote expected in the Senate and hearings expected in the House. The following are talking points for ENDA: Federal law currently protects employees from discrimination on the basis of race, religion, gender, national origin, age, and disability. ENDA extends fair employment practices -- not special rights -- to lesbians, gay men, bisexuals and heterosexuals. A February 1994 Newsweek opinion poll found that "74% of all Americans favor protecting gays from job discrimination." ENDA is endorsed by civil rights, labor and religious leaders, and by the Leadership Conference on Civil Rights, the pre-eminent civil rights umbrella group. Health Care i(eform The House of Representatives and the Senate plan to vote on health care reform legislation before the August 19 summer recess. Both the Gephardt bill in the House and the Mitchell bill in the Senate .contain antidiscrimination language that bars discrimination based on sexual orientation. This is an historic civil rights victory for lesbians, gay men and bisexuals. However, NGLTF expects that some legislators may attempt to delete sexual orientation before a final vote. We must insist that sexual orientation remains in the anti-discrimination language of whatever reform bill passes. Talking points are: Anti-gay bias and stigma creates barriers to health care that increase vulnerabilities and risk for certain diseases and health problems. In a recent national survey conducted hy the American Association of Physicians for Human Rights, 9 out of 10 physicians reported observing anti-gay bias, including cases where patients received substandard care or were denied care because of their sexual orientation. The health insurance industry admits that it may avoid high risk groups when possible. Gay men make up the largest number of cases of AIDS in this country and are thereby perceived to be at risk for costly HIV/AIDS health care. Gay men are thus in danger of discriminatory redlining. Politics cont’dfrom p 1 even 10 rain. time. Tulsa World and Tulsa TV reporters suggest that they probably would have to wait only a week or so. cannot recommend the better candidate, we can identify the undeniably bad ones. And since Tulsa in Dist. 1 has had a rep. (inhofe) who’s obsessively antiGay~ ~ulsa.F_ami!y ..News has~ decided to endorse Steve Largent, anti-Gay bigot, as a perfect choice to continue the lnhofe."tradition of bias ?’ Largent’s campaign manager, Terry Alien, confirmed that Largent does not support civil rights protections for Lesbian and Gay citizens. Since Lesbian & Gay endorsement is so feared, maybe this will hurt Largent. Between the two strongest Democratic gov. candidates, Mildren and Shedrick, there is a clear choice. Mildren is openly supportive of our communities. Shedrickis not. I’m going to vote for Jack. Demo. Senate Hopeful Cody Graves: the New Duck & Cover Candidate Although h~’s ~oldtwo prominent Tulsa professionals all the right things on Lesbian/ Gay civil rights issues and health issues, this campaign like Shedrick appears to be ducking the issue. Many calls to his campaign have resulted in no position and it’s rumored that the Graves campaign is "Gaybaiting" the McCurdy campaign. Inhofe? TFN would like to .interview him as a sitting member of the House of Representatives and as a candidate for the Senate. However, monthly or more calls since Nov. ’93 have failed to get Prieo, dohnson, ate. These campaigns would only speak off the record or would not return calls. Republicans who are simply fair - who feel folks should be judged on job performance not sexual orientation or religious affiliation, have said toTFN: my actions speak for themselves but I can’t openly call for fairness or I’ll lose my race. Some Democrats have said the same. Do we recommend a candidate and undermine their race (if they are right)? How can we share our research and help our readers make an informed decision? This leaves us in a quandry. 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Barry Goldwater, dubbed "Mr. Conservative" by friends and foes, and Oregon Gov. Barbara Roberts have become co-chairs of Americans Against Discrimination, a group launched by the Human Rights Campaign Fund to battle farright anti-gay ballot measures around the country. -The 85year-old Goldwater said in a press statement that "extremist gr6ups" around the country were trying to "institutionalize discrimination" with the anti-gay ballot initiatives of the past few years. ’q’hese initiatives would legalize discrimination against people in the workplace," the former Arizona senator said. "People should not lose theirjobs because of factors unrelated to their work performance." In an article in the Washington Post, Goldwater wrote, "It’s time America realized that there was no gay exemption in the right to "llfe, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.’ Job discrimination against gays - or anybody else is contrary to each of these founding principles." 3 Anti-Gay Initiatives Fail TUCSON, Ariz. - Arizona, Missouri and Washington state will not be facing anti-gay ballot initiatives this year as backers of measures in the three states failed to turn in enough signatures to qualify the initiatives for statewide elections this year. The measures, generally modeled on Colorado’s Amendment 2, would have barred state or local governments from extending or recognizing civil rights protections for gay and lesbians. In Springfield, Mo., the Amendment Coalition, announced that it had failed in its effort to get an anti-gay initiative measure on the November general election ballot in the state because it had not collected the needed signatures. Two anti-gay initiatives in Washington state did not qualify for the ballot when backers of the initiatives failed to turn in the nearly 182,000 valid signatures at the state capitol in Olympia. The measures would have barred the state or any governmental agency m Washington from recognizing the legal rights of gays, lesbians or bisexuals as a protected class. Protest Vigil in Colorado In Colorado Springs, an estimated 5,000 people gathered at a rally in support of a weeklong fast and vigil by Mel White at the headquarters of Focus on the Family in Colorado Springs, Colo., which backed that state’s voter-approved anti-gay Amendment 2. White is the dean of the Cathedral of Hope in I demanded free drinks. McHugh’s attorney said it was a Dallas. In Denver, more than case of mistaken identity, but a 2,000 people gathered for a police officer found the 4 men in peaceful march in the Colorado a parking lot wearing women’s capital in support of White’s clothes. The arrested men are all "Fast For Understanding." After members of a rugby team that concluding his vigil, White said had played golf all day dressed he was sure he would "be misunderstood and condeumed" as women in a tournament lampoomng the Ladies’ PGA by James Dobson, head of Focus Tour. on the Family. "But I am convinced that what he and his Gays Slam Propaganda friends are saying and doing to TWIN FALLS,IDAHO-Gay end the rights of gays and lesbians rights activists are denouncing a in this country is morally and "debate manual" produced by spiritually wrong. I can’t be the Idaho Citizens Alliange that silent." labels homosexuals as "spawn Rugby Players in of the devil." The manual states, "Promiscuous sodomite activists "Drag" Attack Gay Bar are the most violent andirmtional BOCA RATON, Fla. - In one group of people on earth." It also of the strangest reports of an says that gays and lesbians attack on a gay bar, Mark "aggressively demand: the McHugh, an assistant state closing of all churches that prosecuting attorney, and 3 of oppose them; the total his rugby teammates have been destruction of the family; exile arrested on charges they went and actual murder of those who into the Paradise Club, a gay bar oppose them in any .way; the in Boca Raton, Fla., in. drag, ’conversion’ by forced sodomy screaming insults at bar patrons of all young men to and trashing the bar itself. Barhomosexuality; the official goers and employees said the 4 condemnation of normal love were part of a group of 10 men between men and women, and dressed as women who screamed the raising of private armies of insults such as "Faggots!" and thugs to enforce their agenda." "Dykes !" at patrons, scaring half Mary Rohlfing of Idaho for the people in the bar away, and Human Dignity said, "The tearing up plants and ripping similarity between the type of pictures off the wall. Police said deceitful rhetoric the ICA is a few of the men in drag started selling in this manual and what to strip during the episode and Germans heard about the Jews from the Nazis is uncanny." VA City Adds Protections CHARLOTTESVILLE, Va. The Charlottesville, Va., City Council has unanimously voted to add sexual orientation to the classes of citizens protected from discrimination under municipal law. The change was largely symbolic since the c~ty attorney’ s office had already given a legal opinion that discrimination based on sexual orientation was not legal. The addition of sexual orientation to city anti-bias protections was supported by both the Republican and Democratic parties. Oscar Wilde Honors LONDON - Flamboyant poet and playwright Oscar Wilde will be honored this coming Feb. 14 on the 100th anniversary of the opening of his best known play, "The Importance of Being Earnest" - in the company of fellow literary figures at Westminster Abbey. He will be honored with a plaque at the abbey’s new memorial window which stands above the tomb of Geoffrey Chaucer. Wilde spent 2 years in a British prison after the public exposure of his sexual relationship with Lord Alfred Douglas. Limbaugh Squeezed Out MIAMI - Rush Limbaugh has gone the way of Anita Bryant to For A Taste of Local Flavor Jim & Brent Invite You to ea ’s i ROYAL TRAVEL Tulsa’s only "family" owned & ~ ~ ~ ] rner fe & q3a r CAJUN-ESE CRAB-RANGOON ^ unt~lUe blend of crab meat:whitefish, cream cheese & fresh herbs.wrapped in won-tons & deep. fried. 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Whitman, a recently elected Republican, said the t-shirts were "so deeply offensive and so potentially harmful that I felt compelled to speak out publicly" about them "The message is an insult to the gay community," Gov. Whitman said, "and is offensive to anyone who sees it. It is demeaning to individualsandislitdemorethan an appeal to personal bias and bigotry,.’" Olympic Out of Cobb Cty ATLANTA - Gay and civil rights activists applauded the Atlanta Committee for the Olympic Games (ACOG) for its decision to move the 1996 Olympic volleyball competition from suburban Cobb County, Ga., because of a resolution adopted by county commissioners there last year condemning the "gay lifestyle." Followingmonthsofclosed-door negotiations between Olympic Games officials and Cobb County commissioners, along with intense pressure by gay and civil fightS groups to move the games if the county did not rescind its 1993 anti-gay resolution, ACOG announced Friday, July 29 that it would relocate the volleyball competition to a stadium at the UniversityofGeorgiainAthens, about 60 miles east of Atlanta. Helms Targets Schools’ Anti-Bias Programs WASHINGTON - After an exhibitionofwhatbackers called "disgusting" materials, the U.S. Senate late on Aug. 1 overwhelmingly approved by a 62-36 vote an amendment to cut off all federal funds to school districts in the country that teach acceptance of homosexuality "as a positive life style alternative." The move - an amendment to the reauthorizati on of the Elementary and Secondary School Act offered by Sen. Robert Smith (R-N.H.) and Sen. Jesse Helms (R-N.C.) - is amuch more strident version of a companion amendment sponsoredbyCongressmanMel Hancock (R-MO.) and approved by the House of Representatives earlier this year. The twoparagraph Smith-Helms amendment would cut federal funds for school districts in the U.S. with programs "that have either the.purpose or effect of encouraging or supporting homosexual_ity as a positive life stylealtemative"orusematerials for gay-affirming organizations, An attempt to weaken the impact of the Smith-Helms amendment, offeredbySen.EdwardKennedy (D-MA), was approved by a 990 vote, but the Kennedy amendment would cut federal funds to school districts that directly encouraged sexual activity of any kind heterosexual or homosexual. Local school districts in the U.S. get about 10 to 15 percent of their total budgets from federal educational funds, School Bd. Defies Helms CHAPEL HILL, N.C. - Only days after the U.S. Senate approved an amendment offered by Sen. Jesse Helms (R-N.C.) prohibiting school districts that offer gay-positivematerialsor counseling from receiving federal education funds, aschool board in his own back yard defiantly adopted a policy doing exactly that. The Chapel Hill school trustees unanimously gave the thumbs up to a policy that would create "safe schools" where everyone is respected regardlessofrace, gender, sexual orientation, political persuasion or religious affiliation. Chapel Hill trustee Mary Bushnell said of the new policy, "This plan grew out of a need to have students be more respectful and have a greater understanding of each other regardless of their diversity. Here we have to~do what is right and hope the Congress of the United States will do the same." Hollywood’s ’Closet’ HOLLYWOOD - HBO has started work on "The Celluloid Closet," a feature-I ength television documentary of Vito Russo’ s book on Hollywood’ s portrayal of gays and lesbians, The documentary is expected to premiere late next year and will I be produced and directed by Oscar-winning Rob Epstein and Jeffrey Friedman ("Common Threads: StoriesfromtheQuilt"). According to HBO, the major Hollywood studios are all cooperating in the production of the documentary by providing clips from the more than 100 films represented in "The Celluloid Closet." Seattle Adds Domestic Partners Measure SEATFLE- The Seattle City Council has unanimously approved a domestic partners registration ordinance. The measure will take effect a month: afteritis signed by MayorNorm Rice, who is expected to approve the measure. 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The U.S. Food and Administration neither requires scientists to test drugs for safety in women nor stops them from denying women’s access to experimental drugs because of liability fears, said attorney Theresa McGovem of the HIV Law Projectin testimony before the National Task Force on AIDS Drug Development. In one Irial, the FDA - fearing the possibility, of birth defects demanded that women get sterilized in order to participate, she told the task force. Another drug trial said women could enroll oulyifthey gotintmuterine devices to prevent pregnancy effectively blocking women with advanced cervical cancer, who could use other contraception but physically could notuse an IUD. An estimated 80,000 U.S. women of child-bearing age are infected with HIV, according to federal statistics. Scientists fear experimental AIDS drugs could cause birth defects if the women become pregnant, so those that do allow research on women insist they use contraception. Immune System Booster TOKYO - Japanese scientists have announced that their joint HIV research with an Australian team may support a diseasefighting strategy calling for injecting patients with their own lymphocytes. The method is based on the premise that lymphocytes attack foreign invaders in the body - but that the .quantity of these all-important immune-system agents drop significantly in people infected with HIV. An Australian team, headed by- John Dwyer, conducted the experiment, and the Japanese team,ledby Takashi Kurimura, did the research. Dwyer’s group extracted highly active and healthy lymphocytes, matching them to those of an HIV-positive young man; and then transferred the lymphocytes to him. After the procedure, the Virus decreased dramati6ally. The young man regained his body’s basic immtmity, and the treatment still proved to be effective six months later. AIDS Research Needs Better Sex/Drug Use Data WASHINGTON A committee of the Institute of Medicine, part of the National Academy of Sciences, has issued a report concluding that a lack of reliable studies of sexual behavior and drug abuse have hampered progress in fighting the AIDS epidem~ in the U.S. Basic research on behavior modification has not yet been conducted on the necessary level, the report says. Panel members wrote that despite extensive efforts to develop effective treatments or a vaccine against AIDS, research has been "inhibited by a political climate during the first decade of the epidemic that made it difficult, and on some occasions impossible to conduct research on the very behaviors in question: drug use and sex." The report recommended a comprehensive national survey of the two factors, which are the primary modes of -HIV transmission. Jocks Fight AIDS SAN FRANCISCO-The San .Francisco Giants shot down the Colorado Rockies 9-4 in their match-up Sunday, July 31, but the real winner at Candiestick Park here was the fight against the AIDS epidemic when the Giants became the first professional sports team to mount a benefit game to battle the epidemic. Some 50,007 fans turned out to watch the game and to witness history as pro sports moved from official silence about the disease that has killed more than 220,000 people during the past 13 years into center field~ In the process, the benefit game may have raised $100,000 or more in what has become known Jeffery A. 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The BASS ticket agency also donated 50 cents from all ticket sales for the game to the foundation. With additional funds from sales of AIDS memorial bracelets and other mementos, the total proceeds from the benefit were expected to surpass $100,000 for the day. Half the money raised will go to vaocine research, while the other half will be given to local agencies. Vaccinations Urged WASHINGTON-The federal government has kicked off a nationwide effort to urge HIV/ AIDS patients, senior citizens, diabetics, and heart or lung disease patients to receive a pneumoma vaccination. The need for immunization is especially urgent given the new drug-resistant strains of the bacteria. Pneumonia sickens more than 200,000 people and causes 40,000 deaths annually. Interim AIDS Leader WASHINGTON - President Clinton has named Patricia Fleming, an AIDS policy specialist and assistant to Health and Human Services Secretary Donna Shalala, to take the post as the administration’s AIDS policy coordinator temporarily. The appointment of Fleming fills a troublesome post in the administration that became vacant when Kristine Gebbie, informally known as Clinton’s "AIDS czar," resigned after months of widespread criticism for failing to make the epidemic a high-priority issue in the administration or the country. Fleming said she would hold the post for just two months while the White House searches for a permanent replacement for Gebbie. "I took the job because I really care deeply about AIDS," she said at a news conference. "If called upon, it’s my responsibility to do what I can to fight this epidemic." "Female" Condoms JACKSON, Wisc. Wisconsin Pharmacal has finally begun commercially distributing the country’s first approved female condom. The Reality condom, which will be sold at drug stores and supermarkets. Clinical Trials* now Open for Treatment of HIV Disease and Related. Infections Nevirapine...HlV Treatment Oral vs. IV Ganciclovir...CMV Retinitis Treatment Zithromax-Biaxin-Ethambutol...MAC Treatment *must meet inclusion & exclusion criteria. : ~F~r~ more:information, call 9i8~743.-1000, ext. ,HIV’ between 10am -:4pm. To recei~ve more information about new clinical trials as.they are available, send your name & address to: Jeffrey Beal, M.D. 1560 E. 21st St, Ste. 210 Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Family News, August- September 1994, page 7 �Su m m it continued from page I grounds of sexual orientation when hiring staff. More importantly, in Carter’s opinion, the turmoil won co-sponsors for new legislation prohibiting employment discrimination based on sexual orientation. But none of it would have been possible, Carter maintained, if not for Oklahoma’s brazen Congressmen. Their views made painfully obvious that the protection gays seek is not a special right but rather a need in the face of institutionalized prejudice. Meanwhile, Carter noted that it was Coretta Scott King, wife of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., who introduced the legislation on June 23,1994. Her reference to King was not a casual one. Sounding one of the summit’s themes, Carter explicitly linked advocacy of gay rights to advocacy of civil rights in general. "Because the Radical Right has targeted anyone who does not fit their rigid conception of "family," Carter explained, "we have allies among single parents, unwed couples, and people of color." Accordingly, she called for the gay community to "bridge the gap" between gays and straights and, more specifically, to reach out to the NAACP and the Urban League. In calling for these coalitions, Carter did not fail to make anothercrucial request. S he implored people wi thi n the movement to do two things: 1) appreciate their own diversity; and 2) agree to disagree. In fact, the summit’s agenda seemed designed to address both tasks. The opening panel, entitled "Living in Oklahoma," provided a glimpse of the varied experiences and profiles of OK gays. An "out" and vibrant employee of Catholic Charities, Tina Steeves served as panel moderator. She introduced Rudy, a soft-spoken, long-time Ada resident; Kharma, music director for one of Tulsa’s MCC churches; Jessica, an 18 year old activist, student, and actress from Enid; and Tom Neal, a Tulsan, who takes pride in both his Oklahoma roots and his "Cherokee/Korean/European family." After the four spoke, those in attendance were asked to break into Small groups and discuss, first, a plus and, then, a negative about living in Oklahoma. Meeting as strangers, the groups quickly established anintimacy that would grow to camraderie with each of the weekend’s events and conversations. Among the summi t’s other events were panels including, ’~fhe Law and How It Affects Us," "Affirming Our Spirituality," "Historical Perspectives on G/L/B/T Living in Oklahoma," and "G/L/B/T Health Issues." While local attorney Tim Daniel painted a grim picture of the ways Tulsa’s law enforcement has violated citizens’ rights, Alan Nitray encouraged individualSto explorehealthissues beyond the stark shadows HIV has cast. In addition to these planned panels, the summit’s organizers provided unstructured time for caucuses so that all attending-could meet those of similar interests and voice their concerns. Mandy Carter, for example, called a caucus for people of color. At midday, everyone gathered for a panel entifled,"Creating a Justice-Seeking Society." The panelists, Carter, Robert Bray, Tom Neal, and Vivien Ng, packed a punch as they combined practical suggestions with refreshing thoughtfulness. For example, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force member Robert Bray proclaimed the closet "the biggest obstacle to organization" and appealed: "I compel you.., come out of the closet." He went on to observe, "The true test of democracy is not its extension of protection to those who are the same, but its extension of protection to those who are different." "Energized and enervated" by Bray’s talk, Vivien Ng spoke of herself as an individual comprised of many dimensions. She explained that, as an Asian woman who is both academic and activist, her struggle for liberation must include all parts of her reality. "Otherwise," she warned, "those who need me have only my divided support." As Carter had earlier in the day, Ng highlighted the need to rink "divergent threads of community." The panel was, by all accounts, a breathtaking SUCceSS. Of course, not all was business at the summit. Simply Equal of Norman hosted a marvellous barbeque at a public park nearby the OU campus. Afterward, everyone was invited to watch movies, featuring Salmonberries, starringk.d, lang, and No Skin off My Ass. Pat Reaves, director of Herland Sister Resources, remarked on the willingness of Norman locals to stay in the dorms and enjoy "play" time with the out-of-towners. The second full day of summit activities was focused on developing skills. Steve Lazarus led a pant that discussed the "continuum of coming out and living out." Later in the morning, conference attendees chose from among three workshops: "Media Advocacy," "Influencing Public Policy," and "Organizing in your Community." Individuals from different regions across Oklahoma had time to brainstorm and network with an eye to thg future. The summi t closed with a luncheon that culminated in an enthusiastic address from the National Gay and Lesbian Task Forcedirector, Peri Jude Radecic. She congratulated the conference organizers and attendees for mobilizing across the state in a way many.have not yet in other states. Echoing a sentiment Tom Neal has articulated, Radecic predicted that the struggle for rights will be waged and won in ’the heart of the country. Financial donations, pledged by Tulsan Laurie Cooper and Norman resident S teve Lazarus, together with exchanged phone numbers promise that Oklahomans will struggle together in 1994 and1995. And that they will gather for the 2nd annual Oklahoma Pride Summit to share their successes, their failures, and themselves. M!lit,,ary, continued frompage l don t tell pohcy excluding gays and lesbians ¯from the military violates state civil rights laws. Judge Allen’s decision, a permanent extension of a temporary 1992 ruling, means Pentagon officials may notrecruitat the University of Connecticut. Alien wrote, "The court is asked to determine whether, under the new federal act and Department of Defense directives, the military continues to discriminate based on sexual orientation. The court finds it does." Lifeguard Project The LIFEGUARD project is coming to Tulsa. LIFEGUARD is a series of four meetings dealing with different aspects of HIV disease. The meetings are free and are designed especially for Gay and Bisexual men of all ages and color. The meetings will be held in volunteer’s homes throughout Tulsa on Wed. evenings. Dates to be announced in Tulsa Family News. The four meetings are: HEAT: HIV Education And Treatment, SAND: Sex And Nineties Dating, SEA: Sdf Esteem and Attitudes, SWIM: Sex With Intimacy for Men. Need a good argument against Bless The Lord At All Times working weekends? CHRISTIAN CENTER 2627-B East 11th Street Because everyone has a right to be blessed by God! Sunday School 9:45 Sunday Service 11am Choir Rehersal Mon. 7:30 Minister Class Tues. 7:30 Bible Study Wed. 7:30 HW Testing Clinic, Thurs. 6:30-9 628,0594i message phone. Eddie Cook, pastor ~- i . Wembley Center 7116 S. 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Coming out to parents can be one of the most~difficult experiences in a youth’s life..They live in constant fear of being disowned or abandoned. This can often be worse if parents are anti-gay. "My mother perceived homosexuality as a lifestyle that would ultimately destroy lives, and it had no redeeming qualifies. She felt the ordy thing Gay men were thiilking about was sex, and that’s how she raised me." said one Gay youth. Most parents feel that they caused this "problem" and perceive it as a failure. While there is a large amount of drug abuse in youth, it is especially prevalent among Gay youth. "Drugs provided an escape from all the hassle of living. You can just take a pill .or smoke something and everything is better." said one teen. An easier method for some is runmng away. It’s sad that Gay youth seek asylum on the streetsrather than from those that love them most: Older Gays and Lesbians must teach younger Gays and Lesbians that this is not the solution and try to help them find other alternatives. However, there are preventative measures being taken..Several groups such as GLAS aremaking their presence known. This group, along with others, is designed to benefit youth. Other groups, such TOHR and the Black & White Charities take special interest in youth. There is also an existing group for 16-21 year olds. With all this support, the future of the community should be well preserved. Editor’s note: Brannon Crain is a 17 year-old writer who’s active in a Tulsa Lesbian/Gay youth group..He recently was graduatedfrom high school andplans to attend Tulsa Junior College and the University of Tulsa. Kent Balch & Associates Kent Baich President Self-employed? 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Affiliate (International Gay Travel Association) Tulsa Family News, August - September 1994, page 8 Open: Wed.-Sun. 7-2-Closed Mon. & Tues. 1565 South Sheridan, 834-4234 �r T H E G A Y L Tulsa City/County Library Events/News Film Series on Prejudice Excludes Gays Tulsa City/County Library System film series on prejudice does not include films on anti-Gay bias (two of the film series have been shownand two are listed above). A spokesperson for the Central Library’s Media Center indicated that the exclusion was due to a lack of films on the subject in the system’s collection rather than bias by the programmers. Next year’s budget includes .funds for the purchase of film and video of Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual issues, and library staff is finding sources for materials. I F E S T Y L Tulsa Prime Timers Celebrate 1st Year Gay-Friendly Radio Station Seeks Help Tulsa area Prime Timers will celebrate their first anniversary August 27, 1994. An evening of fun, entertainment, and fellowship will be enjoyed in the true TAPT tradition. A recognition reception, entertainment, and some surprises are planned for the evening. TAPT is a social organization forolder Gay and Bisexual men over forty. TAPT was chartered in August of 1993. Starting out with 15 members, TAPT is now 59 members strong. A monthly newsletter and activity calender is published, updating members as to social activities and events planned for that month. Tulsa Prime Timers is one of 33 chapters in Europe, Canada, Australia and the USA. Prime Timers was begun in Boston, Massachusetts in 1987 by Woody Baldwin. For more infOrmation, write Tulsa Area Prime Timers, P.O. Box 52117, Tulsa, Oklahoma, 74104. by Brannon Crain EOI (the Edge of Insanity), Tulsa’s only Lesbian/Gay friendly station could go off the air for lack of advertising support. Station founders, President "Mother Theresa" DeVeto and vicepresident Deja Thoris have annouced a fund-raising drive to raise funds to keep the "alternative" programming on the air. DeVeto & Thoris are appealing to the Lesbian & Gay communities in particular. "EOI is probably one of the only Gay friendly stations in the country." Says Deja Thoris, who has 25 years’ experience in the entertainment business. EOI promotes "being yourself," and, "believing in who you are". Also, they attempt to "provide a catalyst for Gay youth" by establishing a sense of self-worth. EOI is probably the only radio station that acknowledges Lesbian & Gay issues and Lesbian/Gay youth in a non-hostile manner. If you are interested in helping this late night ally, donations can be sent to: EOI Network c/o KCMA, 2021 S. Lewis, Tulsa, OK, 74104-5758. For more info. call the station at 747-9999 between the hours of 12am and 6am. Another option is the EOI club card. Fill out an application ( whichmay be pickedup at Zat’ s, Mohawk Music, or Closter’s Skate Shop), return it along with $5, and receive discounts at places like the above mentioned shops. Also, there is a weekly Alley party every Thursday. The cost is $3 and all proceeds benefit EOI airtime. Desire Photography J.D. Jamett 582-0608 The only thing tired about your trip should be you.., when you get back!. Travel-with DAMRON Open: Mon-Sat, 10am - 2am, Sun, Noon - 2am .......... ¯ YOU’LL NEVER the freshest WHAT TO EXPECT!!!.: lesbian & gay travel gu ides! For a FREE catalog and/or credit card orders call ._ (800) 462-6654 " DAMRON COMPANY -PO Box 422458 San Francisco, CA 94142-2458 9am-5pm Pacific Standard Time Tulsa Fgtmily News, August - September 1994, page 10 E 1229 S. MEMORIAL DR;I:~::~’ULSA:,I~: 918,835-5083 �(2 A B A R E T 9 4 1 It’s Cabaret ’94. Follies Revue, Inc’s. annual fund-raising eventto benefit Tulsa area organizations that provide services ~nd care to persons with AIDS or who are HIV-positive. In the past four years we have contributdd nearly $64,000 to these groups. Cabaret ’94 is three full evenings of friendship, excellent food, beverages and fabulous musical talent, all in an intimate cabaret format. This year’s show features an outstanding cast of Cabaret performers, along with Ernastine Dillard, who recently opened for Della Reese in Las Vegas and at the Kennedy C(nter. So get ready for 90 minutes of pure entertainment in a redesigned seating arrangement that gives new meaning , ~.~ August 25, 26 & 27, 1994. to the promise, "there’s not a bad seat in the Muse." ~ Patrons Night, August 25,$40 per ticket, $300itable of 8. ~ Ticket prices include preshow music, dinner and August 26 & 27, $25 per ticket, $180 table of 8. ~ Pre-show music & dinner 7:30 pm, cash bar available. cabaret performance. For reservations call Carson i~:,~a~’~’ Escargot (formerly Harringtons) 8th & Main Attractions now at 584-2000. Produced by Follies Revue, Inc. Sponsored by TCI Cablevision of Tulsa & Bravo-Broadway Cares. Tulsa Family News, August- Se?tember 1994, page 11 �METROPOLE Coming Soon: One of Tulsa’s Favorite MC’s, Raghenna! Elegance Tour ’94 (drag comedy) Saturday, August 27, llpm After Metropole, they play Dallas’ Village Station Miss Tulsa USA, Sunday, September 4th, 10pm, $3 No Cover - 1902 East llth - 587-8811 - Must Be 21 To Enter- Open Daily 4-2 am Tulsa Family News, August - September 1994, page 12 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document WASHINGTON - The Senate Labor & Human ¯ ResourcesCommitteebeganhearingsontheproposed Anti-Gay Bias is OK Employment Non-Discrimination Act that would prohibit bias in the workplace because of sexual orientation- thefirst time the upperhouse ofCongress has considered such a job discrimination measure. The bill was introduced in June by Sen. Edward Kennedy (D-Mass.), who is also chairman of the Senate committee. If enacted, the legislation would add sexual orientation to the classes protected under federal law from employment bias, along with race, sex, religion, age, national origin and disability. Among those slated to testify during the hearings will be a fired Cracker Barrel restaurant worker, a postal employee who was beaten unconscious at his job by a co-worker, and an executive with Pacific Bell. The hearings began on Friday, July 29. Most Child Molesters Are Heteros, Doctors Say DENVER -Adults who sexually abuse children aremore likely to be heterosexual than gay, according to a study published in the current issue of the prominent medical journal Pediatrics. The study, which examined the medical records of 269 children treated for sexual abuse at Denver’s Children’s Hospital, was prompted by a 1992 anti-gay ballot measure in Colorado that excluded gays and lesbians from civil rights protections in the state. Researchers with the University of Colorado, led by Dr. Carole Jenny, wanted to see if there was any basis to the claim. What they found was that only 2 of the offenders involved in the 269 abuse cases seen at the hospital - just 0.7% - were identified as homosexual. Statisti,eally; the researchsugge:sts tha~ dafldren are more than 100 times likely to be ~exu~ii~assi~tilf~ by.a relative or the sexual partner of a relative, nearly always males. Don’t Forget to Vote, Primary: August 23, General Electio: November 8 US Congressman Dave McCurdy has publically stated his opposition to civil rights protections for Gay Oklahomans. In a letter issued in response to repeated requests by Tulsa Family News, McCurdy refused to support pending legislation, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act of 1994 but stated that such "legislation is not necessary." When asked ff he was aware of civil rights abuses in Oklahoma, he answered, "no." To further questioning, McCurdy said that he felt that discrimination based on sexual orientation was not as bad as discrimination based on religion or race. Also, as far as TFN has been able to determine McCurdy had never met with any Oklahoma Lesbian & Gay community organizations or leaders here in the state. ~ou~ o! ~pt~-nlatlue~ Tulaa, Oklahoma Dear Mr. Neal: Thank yo~ for your In~eras~ In my poai=~0n o= gay ~ will ~u ~ a co~neor of legislation ~=i~ed =o photo: Maureen Curtin Radecic &friend Helen, Reaves, Bray, Neal, Carter First State-wide Gay Conference Is Success by Maureen Curtin Norman, Oklahoma "Thank-you Congressmen Inhofe, Brewster, and Ishtook," exclaimed Mandy Carter; keynote speaker for the first annual Oklahoma Pride Summit. Member of the Board of Governors of the Black Gay and Lesbian Leadership Forum, Carter quickly explained her gratitude. Earlier this year, the three Congressmen openly admitted that they would not hire gays or lesbians to their respective staffs. The admission caused a stir in Washington D.C. that did not die, thanks to members of the Human Rights Campaign Fund who circulated a pledge. Each of the 244 members of the House of Representatives and 79 Senators who signed the pledge vowed that he or she would not discriminate on the see Summit, page 9 National News- Military Update Lesbian Officer to be Reinstated SEATTLE- Col. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who was kicked out of the Washington State National Guard in 1992 because she is a lesbian, will go back to her post as chief nurse as a result of a federal court ruling. On July 8, the 9th Circuit Court of Appeals refused to accept the government’s request that Cammermeyer be kept out of the military. 2 Gays Discharged by Navy Boards NORFOLK,V~-ANavy BoardofInquiry hearing the discharge proceedings against Lt. jr. grade R. Dirk Selland has unanimously ruled that the 25-year-old gay naval officer should be honorably discharged because of his sexual orientation. Selland told his commanding officer he was gay the day after President Clinton, who had promised in his campaign to end the anti-gay Pentagon ban, took office. The naval board concluded that Selland had violated the Defense Department’s "don’t ask, don’t tell" policy when he informedhis commanding officer ofhis sexual orientation. Meanwhile, in Washington, D.C., another Navy Board of Inquiry recommended that Lt. Tracy Thorne also be honorably discharged because he told ABC-TV’s "Nightline" program in 1992 that he is gay. Navy Secretary John Dalton still must approve the board’s discharge ruling, which he is expected to do. Thorne’s attorneys have said they will take Thome’s case to the federal courts if the Navy lieutenant is in fact discharged. Michelle Benecke, codirector of the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, said there are more than 100 cases of gay military personnel pending before inquiry boards and federal courts that could reach the Supreme Court in the next few years. Conn. Court Rules Pentagon Discriminates HARTFORD, Conn.-Connecticut SuperiorCourtJudge Frances Allen has ruled that the Defense Department’s newest "don’t ask, see Military, page 9 OK Primary Round-Up Who’s Good, Who’s Bad Political analysis by Tom Neal GOP Frank Keating for Gov: "1 thought Gays were all rich and travel a lot" In an interview at the Sapulpa Public Library, Keating made the comment above and stated that he thoughtcurrentcivil fights laws pmvidelegal recourse to discrimination. He indicated that he felt that protections might not be needed because of Gays’ alleged higher wealth&education. He did emphasize his ’;openess" to discussion though he said he would not issue an executive order banning discrimination in state employment. Dome. for Gov. Bernice Shedrick: Not a Bigoted Bone in Her Body But Dodging the Issue & In Trouble with NOW Shedrick’s campaign staff claims she doesn’t have a bigoted bone but they don’t seem to be able to get a clear position out of her. She accepted a $1,000 donation from the National Organization ofWomen which supports civil rights for Lesbians but this issues seems not to have been considered. Oklahoma NOW president, Karen Ray had promised to "hold Shedrick’s feet to the fire." see Politics, page 2 Noted Evangelist at Family of Faith MCC Family of Faith Metropolitan Community Church welcomes Delores Berry who will conduct a "Praise and -:Worship,..I .............. ~......_~_....... on Sunday, August 21st. For more information, reporter~page 3 call 622-1441. Youth Speak Out: Older Lesbians & Gays Should Help Gay Young Adults byBrannon Crain working to assist The future of the Gay Lesbian & Gay youth. Community lies in the One of the most hands of its youth. It prevalent issues is that seems obvious that as ofpeer acceptance. "It is one generation follows difficult how to predict another, the Lesbian/- hqw you will be Gay communities mus~ p~rceived." said one support and train the youth in the community. next generation. "I was told by several Lesbian&Gay youth people that I was face more than their danmed." Lesbian and share ofproblems, such Gay youth need as lack of peer reassurance from the acceptance, Gay- adult community that bashing, suicide, fear of they are not alone. coming out, and drug Along the same lines abuse. However, with is the fear of bashing. help from older Lesbian No one whether they be and Gay groups and gay, straight, black, or individuals, Gay youth white should be held are surviving. In Tulsa, prisoner by their fear of Tulsa Oklahomans for being beaten because of I-Iuman Rights (TOI-IR) their practices, and Gay and Lesbian convictions, or beliefs. AssociationofStudents Bashing creates a (GLAS) at Tulsa Junior legitimate fear of"being College Southeast out" in the sense of Campus and others are see Youth, page 8 Tulsa Family News, August- September 1994, page I The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force is calling on our community to take aggressive action in the month of August before and during the summer recess of Congress to advocate for health care reform and passage oftheEmploymentNon- Discrimination Act of 1994 (ENDA). Constituents mustalso communicate their outrage at the recent deluge of anti,gay amendments offered by Senator Jesse Helms (R-NC). :During late July and early August Sen. Jesse Helms unleashed a gay bashing agenda on Capitol Hill by filling the Congressional record with antigay speeches and by attaching amendments and making antigay motions to several bills. So far, he has attacked Agriculture Appropriations, the National Endowmentfor the Arts, Interior Appropriations and the Elementary and Secondary Education Act. Helms’ strategy has forced NGLTF, and other .groups, to spend its time battling against anti-gay attacks, rather than advancing our affirmative agenda by lobbying for the Employment Non- DiscriminationAct (ENDA) and preserving, anti-discrimination provisions within health care reform bills soon to be on both the House and Senate floors. Helms mustrealize thatENDA enjoys unprecedented supporton Capitol Hill. Helms knows that the gay, lesbian, and bisexual Community has been successful in getting sexual orientation includedincivil rights provisions of a majority of health care reform bills. Helms also recognizes that the Clinton Administrationhas advanced the basic civil rights of federal gay, lesbian, and bisexual employees bY enacting non-discrimination employment policies in most federal agencies. Helms is attacking because he recognizes that we are winning thewar onbigotry. Helms hopes Politics cont’dfromp 1 Demo. Senate Hopeful Cody Graves: the New Duck & Cover Candidate Although h~’s ~oldtwo prominent Tulsa professionals all the right things on Lesbian/ Gay civil rights issues and health issues, this campaign like Shedrick appears to be ducking the issue. Many calls to his campaign have resulted in no position and it’s rumored that the Graves campaign is "Gaybaiting" the McCurdy campaign. Inhofe? TFN would like to .interview him as a sitting member of the House of Representatives and as a candidate for the Senate. However, monthly or more calls since Nov. ’93 have failed to get that in creating a hostile environment in the Senate on gay issues, he will prevent future votes to affirm gay, lesbian, and bisexual rights. Helms’ agendais to destroy any advance by the gay, lesbian, and bisexual community. We need you to take action now and hold your senators accountable for their votes in supporting Helms’ gay bashing. Act now! You can advocate for healtk care reform, support the Employment Non- Discrimination Act, and hold your senators accountable for their anti-gay votes in just a few minutes of your time. I. Contact your Representatives and Senators! Call the U.S. Capitol Switchboard for the phone numbers of your Members of Congress at: 202-224-3121. Don’t worry if you don’t know their names; the operator can tell you based on your zip code. A recently introduced federal bill prohibiting employment discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation is receiving unprecedented bipartisan support in both the House of Representatives and Senate. The Employment Non- Discrimination Act (ENDA) of 1994 has 125 House and 30 Senate co-sponsors makingit the most popular gay and lesbian civil rights bill in Congressional history. Senate hearings, held July 29, clearly demonstratedthat job discriminationis areal danger for gay men, lesbians and bisexuals. September is an importantmonthforENDA with a vote expected in the Senate and hearings expected in the House. The following are talking points for ENDA: Federal law currently protects employees from discrimination on the basis of race, religion, gender, national origin, age, and disability. ENDA extends fair employment practices -- not special rights -- to lesbians, gay even 10 rain. time. Tulsa World and Tulsa TV reporters suggest that they probably would have to wait only a week or so. Prieo, dohnson, ate. These campaigns would only speak off the record or wouldnot return calls. Republicans who are simply fair - who feel folks should be judged on job performance not sexual orientation or religious affiliation, have said toTFN: my actions speak for themselves but I can’t openly call for fairness or I’ll lose my race. Some Democrats have said the same. Dowerecommenda candidate and undermine their race (if they are right)? How can we share our research and help our readers makeaninformed decision? This leaves us in a quandry. While we Tulsa Family News~ August - September 1994, page 2 men, bisexuals and heterosexuals. A February 1994 Newsweek opinion poll found that "74% of all Americans favor protecting gays from job discrimination." ENDA is endorsed by civil rights, labor and religious leaders, and by the Leadership Conference on Civil Rights, the pre-eminent civil rights umbrella group. Health Care i(eform The House of Representatives and the Senate plan to vote on health care reform legislation before the August 19 summer recess. Both the Gephardt bill in the House and the Mitchell bill in the Senate .contain antidiscriminationlanguage that bars discrimination based on sexual orientation. This is an historic civil rights victory for lesbians, gay men and bisexuals. However, NGLTF expects that some legislators may attempt to delete sexual orientation before a final vote. We must insist that sexual orientation remains in the anti-discrimination language of whatever reform bill passes. Talking points are: Anti-gay bias and stigma creates barriers to health care that increase vulnerabilities and risk for certain diseases and health problems. In a recent national survey conducted hy the American Association of Physicians for Human Rights, 9 out of 10 physicians reported observing anti-gay bias, including cases where patients received substandard care or were denied care because of their sexual orientation. The health insurance industry admits that it may avoid high risk groups when possible. Gay menmake up the largest number of cases of AIDS in this country and are thereby perceived to be at risk for costly HIV/AIDS health care. Gay men are thus in danger of discriminatory redlining. cannot recommend the better candidate, we can identify the undeniably bad ones. And since Tulsa in Dist. 1 has had a rep. (inhofe) who’s obsessively anti- Gay~ ~ulsa.F_ami!y ..News has~ decided to endorse Steve Largent, anti-Gay bigot, as a perfect choice to continue the lnhofe."tradition of bias ?’ Largent’s campaign manager, Terry Alien, confirmed that Largent does not support civil rights protections forLesbian and Gay citizens. Since Lesbian & Gay endorsementis so feared, maybe this will hurt Largent. Between the two strongest Democratic gov. candidates, Mildren and Shedrick, there is a clear choice. Mildren is openly supportive of ourcommunities. Shedrickis not. I’m going to vote for Jack. 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Maplewood 838-1715 Dignity/Integrity 298-4648 *Canterbury Ministry Center, University of Tulsa 583-9780 tohr reporter .Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights*PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 August/September 1994 Volume 14 Number 9 The views expressed elsewhere in Tulsa Family News are not necessarily the views of TOHR. Permission is granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along with other items, under the byline, "submitted by TOHR’, contained elsewhere in Tulsa Family News. SeptemberMeeting Lesbian/Bisexual/Gay SURPRISE! The September membership meeting ofTOHRwill begin wilh social time at 6:30 .and themeetingstarts at 7p~m. on Tues-_ day, September 6, at the HtV/Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-I, lower level. TOHR PFLAG BENEFIT THIS IS YO U-R € HANs¢ E TOHR Seeks "New Blood" for the 1995 Lesbian/Gay Calendar Year The nominating committee of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights has announced it is seeking nominations for its 1995 board ofdirectors, according to com- - mittee chair; KevinPortz. Offices open are: President 1st Vice-President 2nd Vice-President Secretary Treasurer Members-at-large are being sought for: Reporter Editor HelpLine Coordinator Public Relations Coordinator Fund-raising Coordinator and Activities Coordinator Applicants must be current in TOHR membership dues before applying. Nominations may be made to the committee by mailing or faxing your resume, no later than September 15th, to: TOHR P.O. Box 14212 Tulsa, OK 74159-1212 Fax: 918-582-1124 September 28th Comic... Songwriter...Singer... Lynn Lavner & Executive Director of PFLAG Int’l. Sandra Gillis MARK YOUR CALENDARS//! The slate of nominees will be presented at the October membership meeting on Tuesday, October 3. Voting will take place HelpLine Coordinator . during the November membership meeting Oversee, coordinate, schedule and reon Tuesday, November 1. Officers will be cruit volunteers for the HelpLine. sworn-in at the.Annual Holiday Party in Reporter Editor early December. . .... Produce monthly.newsletter and distrib- Membership Application Name Address City. stat~ Zip. Descriptions of the offices to be filled are as follows: President CEO ofTOHR and subject to Executive General guidance and supervision Preside at all meetings Recommend measures to further TOHR’s objectives First Vice President Plan and develop programs and meetings for the general membership. 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Next month’s issue of the Reporterwill feature more clinic news and biographies of our new staff. Memorandum of Understanding TOHR and the HIV Resource Center have entered into an agreement ofcooperation, an acknowlegement of mutual goals and intentions. 743- 4 2A9Y7s Members’ Representatives Kelly Kirby ..................................... President Ric Kirby ........................... 1st Vice President Kathleen Golden ............... 2nd Vice President Robert Crow .................................... Secretary Don .......................... ~°, ...................... Treasurer Owen ............. .............. HelpLine Coordinator Ruben Garcia ......................... Reporter Editor ..................................... Activities Coordinator Fundraising Coordinator By and-for but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay and-Bisexual. Communities. 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"People shouldnotlose theirjobs because of factors unrelated to their work performance." In an article in the Washington Post, Goldwater wrote, "It’s time America realized that there was no gay exemption in the right to "llfe, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.’ Job discrimination against gays - or anybody else - is contrary to each of these founding principles." 3 Anti-Gay Initiatives Fail TUCSON, Ariz. - Arizona, Missouri and Washington state will not be facing anti-gay ballot initiatives this year as backers of measures in the three states failed to turn in enough signatures to qualify the initiatives for statewide elections this year. The measures, generally modeled on Colorado’s Amendment 2, would have barred state or local governments from extending or recognizing civil rights protections for gay and lesbians. In Springfield, Mo., the Amendment Coalition, announced that it had failed in its effort to get an anti-gay initiative measure on the November general election ballot in the state because it had not collected the needed signatures. Two anti-gay initiatives in Washington state did not qualify for the ballot when backers of the initiatives failed to turn in the nearly 182,000 valid signatures at the state capitol in Olympia. The measures would have barred the state or any governmental agency m Washington from recognizing the legal rights of gays, lesbians or bisexuals as a protected class. Protest Vigil in Colorado In Colorado Springs, an estimated 5,000 people gathered at a rally in support of a weeklong fast and vigil by Mel White at the headquarters of Focus on the Family in Colorado Springs, Colo., which backed that state’s voter-approved anti-gay Amendment2. White is the dean of the Cathedral of Hope in Dallas. In Denver, more than 2,000 people gathered for a peaceful march in the Colorado capital in support of White’s "Fast For Understanding." After concluding his vigil, White said he was sure he would "be misunderstood and condeumed" by James Dobson, head of Focus on the Family. "But I am convinced that what he and his friends are saying and doing to endtherights ofgays andlesbians in this country is morally and spiritually wrong. I can’t be silent." Rugby Players in "Drag" Attack Gay Bar BOCA RATON, Fla. - In one of the strangest reports of an attack on a gay bar, Mark McHugh, an assistant state prosecuting attorney, and 3 of his rugby teammates have been arrested on charges they went into the Paradise Club, a gay bar in Boca Raton, Fla., in. drag, screaming insults at bar patrons and trashing the bar itself. Bargoers and employees said the 4 were part of a group of 10 men dressed as womenwho screamed insults such as "Faggots!" and "Dykes !" at patrons, scaring half the people in the bar away, and tearing up plants and ripping pictures off the wall. Police said a few of the men in drag started to strip during the episode and I demanded free drinks. McHugh’s attorney said it was a case of mistaken identity, but a police officer found the 4 men in a parking lot wearing women’s clothes. The arrestedmen are all members of a rugby team that had played golf all day dressed as women in a tournament lampoomng the Ladies’ PGA Tour. Gays Slam Propaganda TWIN FALLS,IDAHO-Gay rights activists are denouncing a "debate manual" produced by the Idaho Citizens Alliange that labels homosexuals as "spawn of the devil." The manual states, "Promiscuous sodomite activists are the most violentandirmtional group of people on earth." It also says that gays and lesbians "aggressively demand: the closing of all churches that oppose them; the total destruction of the family; exile and actual murder of those who oppose them in any .way; the ’conversion’ by forced sodomy of all young men to homosexuality; the official condemnation of normal love between men and women, and the raising of private armies of thugs to enforce their agenda." Mary Rohlfing of Idaho for Human Dignity said, "The similarity between the type of deceitful rhetoric the ICA is selling in this manual and what Germans heard about the Jews from the Nazis is uncanny." VA City Adds Protections CHARLOTTESVILLE, Va. - The Charlottesville, Va., City Council has unanimously voted to add sexual orientation to the classes of citizens protected from discrimination under municipal law. The change was largely symbolic since the c~ty attorney’ s office had already given a legal opinion that discrimination based on sexual orientation was not legal. The addition of sexual orientation to city anti-bias protections was supported by both the Republican and Democratic parties. Oscar Wilde Honors LONDON - Flamboyant poet and playwright Oscar Wilde will be honored this coming Feb. 14 on the 100th anniversary of the opening of his best known play, "The Importance of Being Earnest" - in the company of fellow literary figures at Westminster Abbey. He will be honored with a plaque at the abbey’s new memorial window which stands above the tomb of Geoffrey Chaucer. Wilde spent 2 years in a British prison after the public exposure of his sexual relationship with Lord Alfred Douglas. Limbaugh Squeezed Out MIAMI - Rush Limbaugh has gone the way of Anita Bryant to For A Taste of Local Flavor Jim & Brent Invite You to ea ’s rner fe &q3ar CAJUN-ESE CRAB-RANGOON ^ unt~lUe blend of crab meat:whitefish, cream cheese & fresh - herbs.wrapped in won-tons & deep. fried. 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Threads: StoriesfromtheQuilt"). areh-conservativetalkshowhost Olympic Games (ACOG) for its School Act offered by Sen. prohibiting school districts that According to HBO, the major won’ t be pitching Florida orange decision to move the 1996 Robert Smith (R-N.H.) and Sen. offer gay-positivematerialsor Hollywood studios are all juice after mid-August, the Olympic volleyball competition Jesse Helms (R-N.C.) - is amuch counseling from receiving cooperating in the production of FloridaDepartmentofCitrushas from suburban Cobb County, more strident version of a federal education funds, aschool the documentary by providing announced, following months of Ga., because of a resolution companion amendment board in his own back yard clips from the more than 100 protestsbygays, women,African adopted by county sponsoredbyCongressmanMel defiantly adopted a policy doing films represented in "The Americans and other groups. A commissioners there last year Hancock (R-MO.) and approved exactly that. The Chapel Hill Celluloid Closet." Citrus Dept. spokesperson condemning the "gay lifestyle." by the House of Representatives school trustees unanimously Seattle Adds Domestic downplayed the change, saying, Followingmonthsofclosed-door earlier this year. The two- gave the thumbs up to a policy "We’re doing what’s right for negotiations between Olympic paragraph Smith-Helms thatwould create "safe schools" Partners Measure Florida citrus growers." Games officials and Cobb amendment would cut federal where everyone is respected SEATFLE- The Seattle City NO Gov.Condemns Bias County commissioners, along funds for school districts in the regardlessofrace, gender, sexual Council has unanimously TRENTON,N.J. -NewJersey with intense pressure by gay and U.S. with programs "that have orientation, political persuasion approved a domestic partners Gov. Christine Todd Whitman civil fightS groups to move the either the.purpose or effect of or religious affiliation. Chapel registration ordinance. The hassentanangryletterprotesfing games if the county did not encouraging or supporting Hill trustee Mary Bushnell said measure will take effect a month: the manufacture and sale of an rescind its 1993 anti-gay homosexual_ity as a positive life of the new policy, "This plan afteritis signed by MayorNorm anti-gay t-shirt that parodies the resolution, ACOG announced stylealtemative"orusematerials grew out of a need to have Rice, who is expected to approve Trixbreakfast cereal slogan with Friday, July 29 that it would for gay-affirming organizations, students be more respectful and the measure. one that reads, "Silly Faggot, relocate the volleyball Anattempt to weaken the impact have a greater understanding of Far Flight Long Distance Dix are for Chix." In a press competition to a stadium at the ofthe Smith-Helms amendment, each other regardless of their PHILADELPHIA - Some statement, Gov. Whitman, a UniversityofGeorgiainAthens, offeredbySen.EdwardKennedy diversity. Here we have to~do 1,200religiousrightgroupshave recently elected Republican, said about 60 miles east of Atlanta. (D-MA), was approved by a 99- what is right and hope the joined to promote LifeLine, the the t-shirts were "so deeply Helms Targets Schools’ 0 vote, but the Kennedy Congress of the United States country’s first long distance offensive and so potentially Anti-Bias Programs amendment would cut federal will do the same." service "built on biblical values harmful that I felt compelled to funds to school districts that Hollywood’s ’Closet’ and centered around the lord WASHINGTON - After an directly encouraged sexual HOLLYWOOD - HBO has Jesus Christ." LifeLine will speak out publicly" about them exhibitionofwhatbackers called activity of any kind started work on "The Celluloid donate 10% of its billings to far- "Themessage is an insult to the "disgusting" materials, the U.S. heterosexual or homosexual. Closet," a feature-I ength fight groups battling abortion gay community,"Gov.Whitman Senate late on Aug. 1 Local school districts in the U.S. television documentary of Vito rights, gay rights, and said, "and is offensive to anyone overwhelmingly approved by a get about 10 to 15 percent of Russo’ s book on Hollywood’ s pornography. By the way, under who sees it. It is demeaning to 62-36 vote an amendment to cut their total budgets from federal portrayal of gays and lesbians, strict biblical principles, people individualsandislitdemorethan off all federal funds to school educational funds, who don’t their bills an appeal to personal bias and districts in the country that teach The documentary is expected to pay bigotry,.’" acceptance ofhomosexuality "as School Bd. Defies Helms premiere late next year and will (including presumably their Olympic Out of Cobb Cty a positive life style alternative." 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A Quality ofLife Alte natgve Southwest 2919 Welborn Dallas, Texas 75219 800/559-4790 Tulsa Office Opening Mid-September in the Quadrangle Office Center Tulsa Family News, August - September 1994, page 6 Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Women & AIDS Trials WASHINGTON - An AIDS attorney has charged that government regulators allow scientists and researchers to discriminate against women in trials of promising AIDS drugs, even demanding that they be sterilized if they want to ~ru’gCAipadtem. iTnhisetrUa.tSio.nFonoeditahnedr requires scientists to test drugs for safety in women nor stops them from denying women’s access to experimental drugs because of liability fears, said attorney Theresa McGovem of theHIV Law Projectintestimony before the National Task Force on AIDS Drug Development. In one Irial, the FDA - fearing the possibility, of birth defects - demanded that women get sterilized in order to participate, she told the task force. Another drug trial said women could enroll oulyifthey gotintmuterine devices to prevent pregnancy - effectively blockingwomenwith advanced cervical cancer, who coulduse other contraceptionbut physically could notuse an IUD. An estimated 80,000 U.S. women of child-bearing age are infected with HIV, according to federal statistics. Scientists fear experimental AIDS drugs could cause birth defects if the women become pregnant, so those that do allow research on women insist they use contraception. Immune System Booster TOKYO - Japanese scientists have announced that their joint HIV research with an Australian team may support a diseasefighting strategy calling for injecting patients with their own lymphocytes. The method is based on the premise that lymphocytes attack foreign invaders in the body - but that the .quantity of these all-important immune-system agents drop significantly in people infected with HIV. An Australian team, headed by- John Dwyer, conducted the experiment, and theJapanese team,ledbyTakashi Kurimura, did the research. Dwyer’s group extracted highly active and healthy lymphocytes, matching them to those of an HIV-positive young man; and then transferred the lymphocytes to him. After the procedure, the Virus decreased dramati6ally. The young man regained his body’s basic immtmity, and the treatment still proved to be effective six months later. AIDS Research Needs Better Sex/Drug Use Data WASHINGTON - A committee of the Institute of Medicine, part of the National Academyof Sciences, has issued a report concluding that a lack of reliable studies of sexual behavior and drug abuse have hampered progress in fighting Briefs the AIDS epidem~ in the U.S. Basic research on behavior modification has not yet been conductedonthe necessarylevel, the report says. Panel members wrote that despite extensive efforts to develop effective treatments or a vaccine against AIDS, research has been "inhibited by a political climate during the first decade of the epidemic that made it difficult, and on some occasions impossible to conduct research onthe verybehaviors inquestion: drug use and sex." The report recommended a comprehensive national survey ofthetwofactors, which are the primary modes of -HIV transmission. Jocks Fight AIDS SAN FRANCISCO-The San .Francisco Giants shot down the Colorado Rockies 9-4 in their match-up Sunday, July 31, but the real winner at Candiestick Park here was the fight against the AIDS epidemic when the Giants became the first professional sports team to mount a benefit game to battle the epidemic. Some 50,007 fans turned out to watch the game and to witness history as pro sports moved from official silence about the disease that has killed more than 220,000 people during the past 13 years into centerfield~ In the process, the benefit game may have raised $100,000 or more in whathas become known Health" Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs as the "Until There’s a Cure Day." During a moving ceremony, 700 AIDS volunteers deckedinred t-shirts andbaseball caps moved to center field to form a giant red ribbon, the symbol ofthefight againstAIDS. From a podium, Giant’s pitcher Rod Beck, shortstop Royce Clayton, actor Danny Glover, and singer Bobby McFerrin read out the names of scores ofpeople who have died of AIDS, while volunteers gracefully unfolded sections of the massive Names Quilt. The Giants are donating $1 from each ticket sold for the game to the Until There’s a Cure Foundation. The BASS ticket agency also donated 50 cents from all ticket sales for the game to the foundation. With additional funds from sales of AIDS memorial bracelets and other mementos, the total proceeds from the benefit were expected to surpass $100,000 for the day. Half the money raised will go to vaocineresearch, while the other half will be given to local agencies. Vaccinations Urged WASHINGTON-Thefederal government has kicked off a nationwide effort to urge HIV/ AIDS patients, senior citizens, diabetics, and heart or lung disease patients to receive a pneumoma vaccination. The need for immunization is especially urgent given the new drug-resistant strains of the bacteria. Pneumonia sickens more than 200,000 people and causes 40,000 deaths annually. Interim AIDS Leader WASHINGTON - President Clinton has named Patricia Fleming, an AIDS policy specialist and assistant to Health and Human Services Secretary Donna Shalala, to take the post as the administration’s AIDS policy coordinator temporarily. Theappointment ofFleming fills a troublesome post in the administration that became vacant when Kristine Gebbie, informally known as Clinton’s "AIDS czar," resigned after months of widespread criticism for failing to make the epidemic a high-priority issue in the administration or the country. Fleming said she would hold the post for just two months while the White House searches for a permanent replacement for Gebbie. "I took the job because I really care deeply aboutAIDS," she said at a news conference. "If called upon, it’s my responsibility to do what I can to fight this epidemic." "Female" Condoms JACKSON, Wisc. - Wisconsin Pharmacal has finally begun commercially distributing the country’s first approved female condom. The Reality condom, which will be sold at drug stores and supermarkets. L Jeffery A. 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More importantly, in Carter’s opinion, the turmoil won co-sponsors for new legislation prohibiting employment discriminationbasedonsexual orientation. But none of it would have been possible, Carter maintained, if not for Oklahoma’s brazen Congressmen. Their views made painfully obvious that the protection gays seek is not a special right but rather a need in the face of institutionalized prejudice. Meanwhile, Carter noted that it was Coretta Scott King, wife of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., who introduced the legislation onJune 23,1994. Herreference to King was not a casual one. Sounding one of the summit’s themes, Carter explicitly linked advocacy of gay rights to advocacy of civil rights in general. "Because the Radical Right has targeted anyone who does not fit their rigid conception of "family," Carter explained, "we have allies among single parents, unwed couples, and people of color." Accordingly, she called for the gay community to "bridge the gap" between gays and straights and, more specifically, to reach out to the NAACP and the Urban League. In calling for these coalitions, Carter did notfail tomakeanothercrucial request. She imploredpeople within themovement to do two things: 1) appreciate their own diversity; and 2) agree to disagree. In fact, the summit’s agenda seemed designed to address both tasks. The opening panel, entitled "Living in Oklahoma," provided a glimpse of the varied experiences and profiles of OK gays. An "out" and vibrant employee of Catholic Charities, Tina Steeves served as panel moderator. She introduced Rudy, a soft-spoken, long-time Ada resident; Kharma, music director for one of Tulsa’s MCC churches; Jessica, an 18 year old activist, student, and actress from Enid; and Tom Neal, a Tulsan, who takes pride in both his Oklahoma roots and his "Cherokee/Korean/European family." After the four spoke, those in attendance were asked to break into Small groups and discuss, first, a plus and, then, a negative about living in Oklahoma. Meeting as strangers, the groups quickly established anintimacy thatwould grow to camraderie with each of the weekend’s events and conversations. Among the summi t’s other events were panels including, ’~fhe Law and How It Affects Us," "Affirming Our Spirituality," "Historical Perspectives on G/L/B/T Living in Oklahoma," and "G/L/B/T Health Issues." While local attorney Tim Daniel painted a grim picture of the ways Tulsa’s law enforcement has violated citizens’ rights, Alan Nitray encouraged individualSto explorehealthissues beyond the stark shadows HIV has cast. In addition to these planned panels, the summit’s organizers provided unstructured time for caucuses so that all attending-could meet those of similar interests and voice their concerns. Mandy Carter, for example, called a caucus for people of color. At midday, everyone gathered for a panel entifled,"Creating aJustice-Seeking Society." The panelists, Carter, Robert Bray, Tom Neal, and Vivien Ng, packed a punch as they combined practical suggestions with refreshing thoughtfulness. For example, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force member Robert Bray proclaimed the closet "the biggest obstacle to organization" and appealed: "I compel you.., come out of the closet." He went on to observe, "The true test of democracy is not its extension of protection to those who are the same, but its extension of protection to those who are different." "Energized and enervated" by Bray’s talk, Vivien Ng spoke of herself as an individual comprised ofmany dimensions. Bless The Lord At All Times CHRISTIAN CENTER 2627-B East 11th Street Because everyone has a right to be blessed by God! Sunday School 9:45 Sunday Service 11am Choir Rehersal Mon. 7:30 Minister Class Tues. 7:30 Bible Study Wed. 7:30 HW Testing Clinic, Thurs. 6:30-9 628,0594i message phone. Eddie Cook, pastor ~- i . Wembley Center 7116 S. Mingo #102 254,21 OO Crystal 75% off Pleat -Mini Blinds *O, Select Colors She explained that, as an Asian woman who is both academic and activist, her struggle for liberation must include all parts of her reality. "Otherwise," she warned, "those who need me have only my divided support." As Carter had earlier in the day, Ng highlighted the need to rink "divergent threads of community." The panel was, by all accounts, a breathtaking SUCceSS. Of course, not all was business at the summit. Simply Equal of Norman hosted a marvellous barbeque at a public park nearby the OU campus. Afterward, everyone was invited to watch movies, featuring Salmonberries, starringk.d, lang, and No Skin off My Ass. Pat Reaves, director of Herland Sister Resources, remarked on the willingness of Norman locals to stay in the dorms and enjoy "play" time with the out-of-towners. The second full day of summit activities was focused on developing skills. Steve Lazarus led a pant that discussed the "continuum ofcoming out andliving out." Later in the morning, conference attendees chose from among three workshops: "Media Advocacy," "Influencing Public Policy," and "Organizing in your Community." Individuals from different regions across Oklahoma had time to brainstorm and network with an eye to thg future. The summit closed with a luncheon that culminatedin an enthusiastic address from the National Gay and Lesbian Task Forcedirector, Peri Jude Radecic. She congratulated the conference organizers and attendees for mobilizing across the state in a way many.have not yet in other states. Echoing a sentimentTom Neal has articulated, Radecic predicted that the struggle for rights will be waged and won in ’the heart of the country. Financial donations, pledged by Tulsan Laurie Cooper and Norman resident Steve Lazarus, together with exchanged phone numbers promise that Oklahomans will struggle together in 1994 and1995. And that they will gather for the 2nd annual Oklahoma Pride Summit to share their successes, their failures, and themselves. M!lit,,ary, continuedfrompage l don t tell pohcy excluding gays and lesbians ¯from the military violates state civil rights laws. Judge Allen’s decision, a permanent extension of a temporary 1992 ruling, means Pentagon officials may notrecruitatthe University ofConnecticut. Alien wrote, "The court is asked to determine whether, under the new federal act and Department of Defense directives, the military continues to discriminate based on sexual orientation. The court finds it does." Lifeguard Project The LIFEGUARD project is coming to Tulsa. LIFEGUARD is a series of four meetings dealing with different aspects of HIV disease. The meetings are free and are designed especially for Gay and Bisexual men of all ages and color. The meetings will be held in volunteer’s homes throughoutTulsaonWed. evenings. Dates to be announced in Tulsa Family News. The four meetings are: HEAT: HIV EducationAndTreatment, SAND: Sex And Nineties Dating, SEA: Sdf Esteem and Attitudes, SWIM: Sex With Intimacy for Men. Need a good argument against working weekends? ¯ - TheHondaPassport .:It happens dfi_ring the 48 hourswhen you’re on your 6\~ The roads look a tittle ¯ more inviting, and you find yourself heading out to places you\’e never been before. And there is plentyofroom for all your toys, Plus. the DX won’t cost you an arm and a leg. There~ argument settled. The Passport DX 1~[][]1~[11~ don carlton I1~.11| € 4[e]|Od| ,]ff;~l 3900 S. Memorial ¯ Tulsa, OK. 74145 (918) 622-3636 Tulsa Family News, August- September 1994,page 9 o Younger Gays cont!dfrom p. 2 persona~ safety, i A grim issue is that of suiciBe. Over 30. percent of all youth suicides ate related to sexual orientation. "I felt committing suicide wouldn’t matter because I was going to Hell anyway." said one ga~ youth. Statements like this are all too 0fteffechoed by other Lesbian and Gay youths. Coming out to parents can be one of the most~difficult experiences in a youth’s life..They live in constant fear of being disowned or abandoned. This can often be worse if parents are anti-gay. "My mother perceived homosexuality as a lifestyle that would ultimately destroy lives, and it had no redeeming qualifies. She felt the ordy thing Gay men were thiilking about was sex, and that’s how she raised me." said one Gay youth. Mostparents feel that they caused this "problem" and perceive it as a failure. While there is a large amount of drug abuse in youth, it is especially prevalent among Gay youth. "Drugs provided an escape from all the hassle of living. You can just take a pill .or smoke something and everything is better." said one teen. An easier method for some is runmng away. It’s sad that Gay youth seek asylum on the streetsrather than from those that love them most: Older Gays and Lesbians must teach younger Gays and Lesbians that this is not the solution and try to help them find other alternatives. However, there are preventative measures being taken..Several groups such as GLAS aremaking their presence known. This group, along with others, is designed to benefit youth. Other groups, such TOHR and the Black & White Charities take special interest in youth. There is also an existing group for 16-21 year olds. With all this support, the future of the community should be well preserved. Editor’s note: Brannon Crain is a 17 year-old writer who’s active in a Tulsa Lesbian/Gay youth group..He recently was graduatedfrom high schoolandplans to attend Tulsa Junior College and the University ofTulsa. Kent Balch & Associates Self-employed? 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Affiliate (International Gay Travel Association) SALOON Open: Wed.-Sun. 7-2-Closed Mon. & Tues. 1565 South Sheridan, 834-4234 Tulsa Family News, August - September 1994, page 8 r T H E G A Y L Tulsa City/County Library Events/News Film Series on Prejudice Excludes Gays Tulsa City/County Library System film series on prejudice does not include films on anti-Gay bias (two of the film series have been shownand two are listed above). A spokesperson for the Central Library’s Media Center indicated that the exclusion was due to a lack of films on the subject in the system’s collection rather than bias by the programmers. Next year’s budget includes .funds for the purchase of film and video of Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual issues, and library staff is finding sources for materials. Desire I F E S Tulsa Prime Timers Celebrate 1st Year Tulsa area Prime Timers will celebrate their first anniversary August 27, 1994. An evening of fun, entertainment, and fellowship will be enjoyed in the true TAPT tradition. A recognition reception, entertainment, and some surprises are planned for the evening. TAPT is a social organization forolder Gay and Bisexual men over forty. TAPT was chartered in August of 1993. Starting out with 15 members, TAPT is now 59 members strong. A monthly newsletter and activity calender is published, updating members as to social activities and events planned for that month. TulsaPrimeTimers is oneof33 chapters in Europe, Canada, Australia and the USA. Prime Timers was begun in Boston, Massachusetts in 1987 by Woody Baldwin. For more infOrmation, write Tulsa Area Prime Timers, P.O. Box 52117, Tulsa, Oklahoma, 74104. Photography J.D. Jamett 582-0608 T Y L E Gay-Friendly Radio Station Seeks Help by Brannon Crain EOI (the Edge of Insanity), Tulsa’s only Lesbian/Gay friendly station could go off the air for lack of advertising support. Station founders, President "Mother Theresa" DeVeto and vicepresident Deja Thoris have annouced a fund-raising drive to raise funds to keep the "alternative" programming on the air. DeVeto & Thoris are appealing to the Lesbian&Gay communities in particular. "EOI is probably one of the onlyGay friendly stations in the country." Says Deja Thoris, who has 25 years’ experience in the entertainment business. EOI promotes "being yourself," and, "believing in who you are". Also, they attempt to "provide a catalyst for Gay youth" by establishing a sense of self-worth. EOI is probably the only radio station that acknowledges Lesbian & Gay issues and Lesbian/Gay youth in a non-hostile manner. If you are interested in helping this late night ally, donations can be sent to: EOI Network c/o KCMA, 2021 S. Lewis, Tulsa, OK, 74104-5758. For more info. call the station at 747-9999 between the hours of 12am and 6am. Another option is the EOI club card. Fill out an application (whichmaybepickedup at Zat’ s,Mohawk Music, or Closter’s Skate Shop), return it along with $5, and receive discounts at places like the above mentioned shops. Also, there is a weekly Alley party every Thursday. The cost is $3 and all proceeds benefit EOI airtime. The only thing tired about your trip should be you.., when you get back!. Travel-with DAMRON the freshest lesbian & gay travel guides! For a FREE catalog and/or credit card orders call ._ (800) 462-6654 " DAMRON COMPANY -PO Box 422458 San Francisco, CA 94142-2458 9am-5pm Pacific Standard Time Open: Mon-Sat, 10am - 2am, Sun, Noon - 2am .......... ¯YOU’LL NEVER WHAT TOEXPECT!!!.: 1229 S. MEMORIAL DR;I:~::~’ULSA:,I~: 918,835-5083 Tulsa Fgtmily News, August - September 1994, page 10 (2 A B A R E T 9 4 It’s Cabaret ’94. Follies Revue, Inc’s. annual fund-raising eventto benefit Tulsa area organizations that provide services ~nd care to persons with AIDS or who are HIV-positive. In the past four years we have contributdd nearly $64,000 to these groups. Cabaret ’94 is three full evenings of friendship, excellent food, beverages and fabulous musical talent, all in an intimate cabaret format. This year’s show features an outstanding cast of Cabaret performers, along with Ernastine Dillard, who recently opened for Della Reese in Las Vegas and at the Kennedy C(nter. So get ready for 90 minutes of pure entertainment in a ~.~ August 25, 26 & 27, 1994. , ~ Patrons Night, August 25,$40 per ticket, $300itable of 8. ~ August 26 & 27, $25 per ticket, $180 table of 8. ~ Pre-show music & dinner 7:30 pm, cash bar available. i~:,~a~’~’ Escargot (formerly Harringtons) 8th & Main redesigned seating arrangement that gives new meaning to the promise, "there’s not a bad seat in the Muse." Ticket prices include preshow music, dinner and cabaret performance. For reservations call Carson Attractions now at 584-2000. 1 Produced by Follies Revue, Inc. Sponsored by TCI Cablevision of Tulsa & Bravo-Broadway Cares. Tulsa Family News, August- Se?tember 1994, page 11 METROPOLE Coming Soon: One of Tulsa’s Favorite MC’s, Raghenna! Elegance Tour ’94 (drag comedy) Saturday, August 27, llpm After Metropole, they play Dallas’ Village Station Miss Tulsa USA, Sunday, September 4th, 10pm, $3 No Cover - 1902 East llth - 587-8811 - Must Be 21 To Enter- Open Daily 4-2 am Tulsa Family News, August - September 1994, page 12 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Kharma Amos Brannon Crain Maureen Curtin JD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/489 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, July 15-August 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 8 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/42821bf452bf93dc97b836cc8d56e036.jpg be83d6b4fb969c1b61bdb9856525a08d https://history.okeq.org/files/original/a6fa0aedfffd5946a73986e48fbb8e19.pdf 644fa61399e5e0ce92edeb379f7d7369 PDF Text Text Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart Gays Not Confer÷nee onTo erance Dialogue with the Other: Healing & Hope Operating trader a new federal mandate seeking greater comnmni~ y involvement in the distribution of funds for HIV MDS preven~on, the O~oma ~ta~e Dept. of H~th has begtm dae commmnff phnnfing group (CPG). "l]fis group will help to determine where sm~c do!tars wii~ be distributed, t’he group ha~ 3 sub-groups: needs assessmenu epidemiology and nomination/membership. For more h~kx call William at 7423520. Tulsa wilt hos~ the I4th Nafiowal Worlcshop on Ctmsfian.Jewish Relations on Nov. 6-9 at the Adam’s Mark Hotel. The !~ organizers of ~he confernece which is associated with the National Conference (formerly the National Conference of C~stim~s m~d Jews ~ trove noted dmir parficuk~ efforts to m~e fl~is conference broadly diverse. including not on13 a v~me(y of Christian and Jewish organi7~itions m~d traditions but Nso representatives of tstam Native American {raNfions. Convener Dr. William J. Wiseman writes in ~he promotional brochure. "..,diversity ~s a given. Plurality is our response. We are capable of mutual suppo~ as we seek to dialogue with ’the other’ in healing m~d hope..." Despite this public co~mnitment to diversity, no part of the brochure indicates any effo~ttoincludeI~sbianmqdG@ C)n August 22. Tulsa’s Hmnan Rights * 7ommission received the revised report on discrimination based o~ sexual orientation if( ,m the Standing Committee on Sexna~ Orientation Discfimnafion~ The revised mlma reflects cfitidsms and sugges~ons made at sever~ public hegNngs held in fl~e late spring. The committal added Ioomotes and more of i~ source matefi~s m the ofi~nal re~)rt as wet1 as a&hng a seared re] ume eft all the materials that were st~bmited hy me public to the stantfing comnfiuee. This second volume comains a numt~r of documenls fl~at can be chm’acterized as ~mti-Gay but also contains letters or memor~mda urging support of pro~ecdons against discriminauox~ based on sexual oriemadon, submitting such documents vere: ~he I.eague of Women Voters of Metropolitan TNsa. the Session of John Knox Presb~ te~am Church. the Dept. of Ecumenical & Social Concerns of Eastern OMahoma PresbyteD’, All So~’s UNaNan Church and the Green Conntry Monthly Meeting of the September 15 October !4, 1994, Volume 1, Issue 10 Another letter endorsing protections was signed by some of the mos~ distinguished religious leaders in Tulsa. Fhe Rev. Caldwetl, College Hil! Presbyterian, P,abbi Fitzermim. B’nai EmunNl Synagogue. ~e Rev. Fox. St. John’s EpiscopN, the Rev. Kennedy, Trinity EpiscopM, Dr. Knippa, Grace l.:utheraa~ Emeritus. t~he Revs. Newman ~d WILLS, Boston Ave. Me~xJist. Rabbi Shenn~m Temple ~srae!. hrs. Wolf and S~th and ~e hey. Caused,. Soul’s (Jnitarian and the Roy Me,mesh. Kendal W~i~tier Ministries and Center. TU. The gist of ~his letter iBllows: "...ore’ {radifions are no{ uNfonn in our un, lerstanding of...sexud orientation we agr~ that ~r~Nn basic h~mmn rights ...are due NI persons...discmm~ ina~ion violates ..ont._faith tradition:~ wNch regains all_to be of sacred worth...h a~ers any of God’s children must be identified ~md rem(,ved.._" Fur&er action may be t~fl~en at the next Humm~ Rights Commission meeting on 9/19. The report if accepted will be forwarde~ to the Mayor & US Congress catgdtaate L~r~em Want Gays er y. .................. Lynn I~vner Lynn Lavner & Sandra Gillis At Benefit Show Tulsa Oklahomans fol,Human Rights (TOHR) and Parents, Friends & Family of Lesbians & Gays, Tulsa Chapter (PFLAG) will present a gala appearance by Ly~m Lavner and Sandra Gillis at All Soul’s Church, 29th & Peoria on Wednesday, September 28. Lavner, who bills herself as "America’s most politically incon’ect entertainer." combines /:greedy and cabaret-style musical performance. While the co~ uent of her ac~ is primarily (~3 myone with a ~ense of }mfl~or will appreciate her l~r~ly [ nvner dcscfi~>gs herself as "a ~;hor~ ~cf~..hm~&;d. New York lewish ~ esbia~’ who~s bce~ 1~ ~c }~e was seven. She’s role:, dcd d~me albums and a ~ivciwconcer~ recording, "Butch Fatale." Her perffmnauces have taken her to ~) smms and five coumries, playing venue~ rar~ging from Hippodrome. P~is’ Lc Piano see Lavner. pal SALT LAKE CITY The Japanese American Citizens League overcame enormous odds m its national convention in Salt Lake City Aug. 3-7 to become the first non-gay national civil rights organization in the U.S. to endorse same-sex marriages. Gay and lesbian thealready contlicting quesuons about gays and lesbians in this country, researchers this week released timings in 2 separate studies that sharply contradict earlier studies. One review study suggests the percentage of gays and lesbians in America may in fact be significanfly greater than members of JACL, church leaders, and even a U.S. other recent researchers have found; while another ’ study see JACL. page 10 see Studies, page 10 Fed. Crime Bill Includes Big Changes at NGLTF Anti-Gay Hate Crimes WASHINGTON, D.C. - The National Gay & L~esbian Task Force has announced the resignations of 4 key staff meln~rs at the lobbying group, including ~he ~eparture of Pefi Jude Radecic. NGLTF’s execaave dirdctor who will ~ hying flint W~s~ m November ffter h~s~ 1 ,’ear a~ the agency. Radccic wiI~ sm~ on a~ the Task PerLe ~5 ~s atrec~or of ,mbtic ~otic~. l~eavhv are: Deborah Cos, director ff finance ~ ~dministra~ion ~y Yoking, Jirec~or of Cr~fing Chm~ge: and Robin Kane. NGITFF’s acting Nrecmr ~{" public in~2}rmafion In its news release on ~he staff ~4hakeup. N(}t:I’b offered -~, reasons for the departures The vee NGL77;L pa~ ~’ /0 Task Force’s ’Crea~ng Change’ Conference to CINCINNATI U.S. District Court Judge S. Arthur Spiegel has declared that a Cincinnati city charter amendment excluding gays and lesbians from existing city civil rights protections violates the Constitution’s 1st Amendment and is vague. A spokesperson for the city solicitor’s office said the ruling would probably be appealed. WASIIINGTON. D.C. The contentious federal crime bil! approved by the Semite included a little-noticed amendmen~ that adds [~enalties for bias-based crimes based "sexna~ orientation the fir<~ time Congress has penalized ;rod ~av vi~tence in this coum> amendment offered ~, , aa~mc };eb~s~ci~ (D-Calif. and color, religion. ~,~ ;rod eflmicity, a~d ~,~,~ camgorms of disabiIity, g~:nder smmmem. Daniel Zinga~c o~ ~h see Ha~e Crimes. page ~0 Be in Dallas in Nov. Court Reinstates Sailor WASHINGTON. D.C, - The Nafiomfl Gay & i.esbi~m Task Force has annonnced that its annual CreaUug conferm~ ~a~ wilt 13 in Datias. Some 70 worksho~xs havebeen stated SAN FIRANCISCO -The W.S (Term of Appeals here has rnlea tl:,~/ me ])efcnse Deoartmcm c;mno~ discharge lesbians m, U~ da~e "TV Activism .... L{ealth m Pet Color Commmntms~ as Organim~g ~’~x>~ Qt,eer Culture." ~y)rg~q~ ~ng Workplace. Ad~. anc~i I x)bb? Techniques," "’Rural/Small T6wu Orgm~zing, "SexuNi~ and Ne Right Wing, �TULSA FAMILY NEWS 918-832-0233, FOB 41dO. Tuisa. OK 74159 Issued on orbefore the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright i994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondencd should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution locations. Additional copies are available at Tomfoolery! extremism, he may render The buzzword of the ’90’s himself isolated and almost Pu blishe r/Edito r is ~olerance. The hallmark useless in the House. Tom Neal ofthis decade will be its call (Washington observers say that Assistant Editor to toleranc- the big ol’ tent even conservative business James Christjohn mentality. To be openpolitical action committees have Staff Writers minded woud be synonybegun to abandon Inhofe because Kharma Amos mous, but, are we to be so of his extremism and his Brannon Crain open-minded that we allow prejudices.) Maureen Curtin our brains to fall out?.! I wish Tulsa Family News Staff Photographer For example, a prominent could tell you what Steve l_argent ’JD Jamett university in California reallymeans, but apparently part (where else?), wants to of not tolerating Lesbians and include in its policy and Gay men means not talking to procedures, literature that our press, or our community ~lubs & Restaurants it does not discriminate organizations. After repeated 744-0896 *The Alley,-3340 ~. Peoria against pedophiles - you calls, Terry Allen, Largent’s 835-5083 *Bad Boys Club, 1~229 S. Memorial "know, those folks who get campaign manager, did speak 749-1563 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th their kick out of abusing with us long enough to say that 587-8811 *Metropole, 1902 E. i11 innocent children! Excuse Largent would not support any 834=4234 *Silver Star Saloon~ 1565 Sheridan me, would you hand me my policies that.sought to reduce 585~3405 *Renegade, 1649 S~. 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Would we be 592-3317 passionate to one another *Java Dave’s, Lincoln Plaza wanna:be tradingonapretty face allow&l tofuncti0n iwour soc58%1633 regardless of our differ*Indian Territory Coffee Company, 1613 E. 15 and faded football g~ory, would iety if we. ,%onverted" to 341-6866 ences. However, the day we International Tours wa~t t0~kn0~ ~fi~ fiieis~ues are heterosexuality? Does he mean ¯ 599-8070 ’ s Flowers, 1635 E. 1 5 -"tolerate" the evil practices Ken d not only m southeast Tulsa an ............... thaf~)~ ivohlffbe segregated into .-587~g10g th of homosexuality, abortion, ~ " ~rro -- w , out *---" m "- Tulsa’s t~roKen ° " Major a[~mrs, zoz,~ ~ ~ re-education camps? Or does he 584:3112 .... ¯ .... .-~.~- -~--~-~ Mrdtown ~eater, 319 E. 3 po rnography .~nd ope.d,2mean that-we would be stoned 664-2951 philia-forsa~tE£Jua~i~6~-" ........ ’ ., =~¢t~raw~s;c, t~t3/ ~ .-.ax. rt~ts Gay ones Ma~.b..e tt ¯ for the "abomination of our 592-7700 Christian tenets our country f~hi~.od ~ me tg~hinl~ thTl~ , t~4mem~ lVl~rtgage corp.’ homosexuality?" 838-7626 ..............................=........... Min o was founded .upgn,..~S the 7S~omeone who wants tO repi:eseii~t~= ~ii~p,y,.~aas;e ..l~k~ l,,tn~: : " g N~W~It~-’S’t~ve Largent were 49@2410 .day we bd~b~ne~.~uT~b~’able Vour’city/county in governm.eiitJS ~y~ ~r_a,ve~ou,z/. ~. t_...a~a~t,o~n,,. , just to continue as an ex-football 749-630 ! to God’s irRolera~d and bcnt~ner s boo~store, [~z utica bquare w0~d~{v~t to meet with a cro~°~ player :-and- "business consul583-1572 judgment. Sound Warehouse, 1338"E. 15th section of its cilizeus, eventhose tant," his. opinions would be 747-3322 Southwest Viadcal, 4146 8~. Harvard, S re. F-5 ft6~ whom he is different. God offensive but not particularly 832-0233 Editor’s note: Largent *Tomfooleryr 1565 S. Sheridan forbidthatacandidatemightfind si~rdfieartt,--:Hpwever, as a US 583-1500 : implies a connection betWe~tcopa Salon, Lincoln Plaza~ that we-have more in common congressman, he would be in a ween homosexuality & Organizations that.he.thought.. pdgftion to make decisions that pedophilia. Reeetit medical 583-9780 BUt,th~n maybe not i-~’~.t.~ ~1 ....... B/IJGAlliance, University of Tulsa. c0iild"g~eatly, harm Tulsa’s research suggests that 438-243% 800-284-2437Interfaith AIDS Ministries .if you re ~ust goirigt~-~eti{d of Legbiai~ ’alnd: Gay communities heterosexual men are"mt~ch theseftlks, why waste your time *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S: Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4194 andOur.friends, and ultimately, more likely to be- sexual;:~: 748-3111 with tho~e not "ch0ge~n"?~ NAMES PROJ~ECT, 4154 S. Harvard. Ste. H- 1 the city... 749-4901 abusers of children-,.than P:F-.LAG, POB 52800 74152 Tom Neial .... Now if:he continues in the Jim Lesbians & Gay men. 74128 editor & publisher Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 Inhofe.tradition of radical right 599-8423 ’ Rainbow V:illage, POB 50403, 74150-0403 749-7898 -Shanti Hotline Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, (TOHR) POB 52729 74152 TOHR Gay He!pLine (hff0.) 743-4297 We.~.y.e ..:he.en ~¢ told. that in order to get..theendorse.m_ent . Last month, Tulsa Family Other. candidates in OklahOmh iniiSt and the $1,000 donation of News endorsed-Jack Mildren for * Chapma!3. S t0dent Center, University of Tulsa ~pp~ to;l~%~-QWin order to. NOW.;the Nafitiial Or~zafion.Governor l~e~ause he had done ~’ Tulsh City/County Libraries (sometimes-depends on the censor) ~t di~z{ed~We vebeentoldeven of Women. Perhaps she mislead what had been unheard of in *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor by our own folks that we should NOW, or perhaps, NOW was Oklahoma politics: he said he *University Center at Tulsa just "put up and shut up" so that willing to sell out Lesbians (and supported fairness and equa! Professionals we can get these folks elected. Gay men) in order just to get a oppommity for all Oklahomans, Associates in Medical & Mental Health, 1560 E. 2! 743-1000 Now maybe I’m a little slow but woman elected. NOW’s dumped including those of us who are Jeffery A. Beal, MD, Ginny Butler, RN, Theodore Campbell, MSW it-doesn’t seem tome that if a Lesbians before. NOW was as Lesbian ’and Gay. This Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 politician won’t say the right bad about returning phone calls commitment was made directly 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Tim Daniel, Attorney thing when "it" wants your vote, over many weeks as was to me and with seemingly real 744-0102 Learme M. Gross, Finandal Planning it’s less likely to do so after Shedrick, so we can’t tell you. conviction. Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747-5466 elected. Unfortunately, Mildren seems Mildren’s actions were in 749-3000, 800-539-7767 Jonathan & Dee Nicholas, Realtors Down in Texas, hardly a to have reneged on his strong contrast to Bernice 7~’7-5800, 745-2245 John Kirk, Realtor Nogressive oasis (Dallas politics commitment. A few weeks ago, Shedrick’s who ran away from 5g L-0902, 743-4117 Richard Reeder, MS, Psychotherapy can make Tulsa look like some his brother, Richard, told the giving an honest answer faster Fle~!gious Organizations liberal New E~gland townI Tulsa World that Jack couldn’t than the purse thief she allegedly 62g-0594 Lesbians and Gay men have bee~ *Bless The Lord At A~t Times Christian Ctr 2627B E. ,~. I remember our conversauon. chased. Shedrick’s equivocation 838-7232 a key part of tJr~e coalition that *Community of Hope 1347 N. Yale Repeamd calls to his campaign was especially disturbing since 622-1441 got Ann Richards etected. D~llas *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mir~go to get a status repor~ on his she was supposed to be 838-1715 has 3 .Gay city council persons memory have been ignored. *MCC of Greater TuI,a. 1623 N. Maplewood supportive of Lesbian civil rights 298-4648 Dignity/integrity see Politics’, p. ~ *Canterbury Ministry Center, . :z~versity ol ~fulsa 583-9780 Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 2 I can just hear you all now "Tom, you’ re just 0ver-reacting, you’rejust being melodramatic." However, Mr. Largent’s letter to the editors of the Tulsa World (reprinted with their permission), is troubling. What does he mean when he says that we (society?) should not "tolerate" homosexuality? He acknowledges that much evil occurs in the name..of religion .but then Says that God commanded ~ttestmettonof "~"" ~ " "naUons " " for their "eviE’ practices and praises this intolerance.. He characterizes homosexuality as an "evil practice." The association of ;destruction with intolerance of ’;Lesbians and Gay meil is dearly �tohr reporter Tulsa Oklahomans forHuman Rights. PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 September/October 1994 Volume !4 Number 10 The Crews expc~.~md elsewhent in Tu/se Family News are not necessarily the .views of TOHR. Permission is. granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along ~ ~ items, under lhe byline, "submitted by TOHR", contained elsewhere inTulse Family News. case management for people with HIV/ Several candidates vying for your votes in state and federal elections this November have been invited to the October meet- New Hours, AIDS. Derrick also works at Morton Health Clinic, helping people get needed health New Staff care and focuses outreach efforts to the African-American community. ing of TOHR to hear members’ at Testing eli=tic The new employees, and volunteers, are ~ concerns regarding human rights.’ ~ Candidates for U. S. Senate O- and House o£Representatives, TOHR’.slHIV Testing Clinic is now open with extended hours. Coutiseling and.test,. committed to offering testing that is both- ¯ free and anonymous. The clinic is housed ’in the HIV Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-I. The center offersclients_. ~ ~: i i:: =s~a~te govern.or; a~dother~ublic!’ "ink!~s::~fi~bi~!.l~ippointment-Monday., seiviee~ iinduding counseling, case. mare ~- i~f~Ces!willibe inVi~d~ ati~nd or~ fl~gh ~~day~om 9 a.m. until 5p.m: agement, Care teams;"support groups, and - BENEFIT send representatives or even just to send a policy statement to the membership of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The nominating committee will present a slate to fill 1995 officer positions. Nominations will also be taken from the floor ~l~°lduring this meeting and.then Same.day appointments am0ften po~.sible, .. a.food pantry. " butbe sure tocal1749-4194 to make surea AuguSt. was a briny month at the clinic! counselor will be available. -The-walk-in :. 93 p~op!e’were tested and 79. came to get. clinic is still openon Thursday.evenings at ~th~ir ~e~tilts. Clinic-staff and ~i01unteers-. Dave~ Definna, Mary, Mercedes, Steve and Tim for ali their efforts: Fifleeri ~eople hhge recently offered to. Septembe~!~hI. closed. Elections will be held at the November meeting: Social time begins at 6:30 and the meeting starts at 7 p:m: on Tuesday, October 4, at the HIV/ Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-1, lower level. become~iinie volunteers, and.w~i be tak..... ing the training offered by’ the Oklahoma I_ynn La~ner.:/ 7 p.m. Please arrive by8:30 tobe tested, to allow time. for the counseling and testing process.’ Results are given between 7 and 9p.m: No appointments a~e needed ~9~r the :evening clinic. : . TOHR’s HIV Testing Clinic welcomes new. employees ClaudettePeterson and De~pk Dav~s,: ~21a~dette Was hir~ director and has been working in the HIV/ . StateDepartment of Healtli that will.result AIDS arena since 1988. She and.herhus-, in theircertification Os ,testingc0unselors: , band Tim moved to Tulsa ~from.-Mont~ ’. Mri~fraining is scheduled to Start in-_: Comic...Songwriter.’ii:::~inger,. ...... ::~:-::~ ~,~;~, & " ; -- ~ ..... g0mery~Alabama three years ago: .... November, so anyone interestedin volunAssistant direet0r, Derrick, has, expe.ri- tearing for the clinieshould call Claudette eneeinHIV eounse!ing and testing, and-in orDen’ickat 749-4194. Sandra Gilti BISEXUAL, LESBIAN AND GAY ISSUES INFORMATION AND REFERRALS I 4G2A9Y7s Address ~ Yes I want to be a contributing member of Tulsa Oklahomans .for Human Rights. Please accept p~yment as described below: I-I $10 Lirnited hacome/Stadent Membership Iq $20 Regular Membevzhip City. I:] $35 Organizational/Household Membership I=1 $100 Sustaining Membership Membership Application Name Phone (optional) Signature have.been:workingvery ha~’.tokeep up With the d~mand. Claudette’ahd Derrick: givespecifiithanl~s t0~Brian, Connie, Cheryl, I:! Iam~rer~nx~ivingTOHR mailings and the TuisaFarnil)~News I-I lamnotonthemailinglist would like to volunteer help with: Members’ Representatives Iq Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual HelpLine I-I H1V Counselor I-I Executive Board Member I-I Event Planning and Party Preparations Kelly Kirby .................................... President Rie Kirby ........................... 1st Vi~e President Kathleen Golden ............ :.. 2nd Vice President Robert Crow .................................... Secretary .......................................................... Treasurer I:! Monthly Meeting Support Owen ........................... HelpLine Coordinator Make check payable to Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Donations contributed to TOHR over set raernbersbip "fees are Tax Deductible. Reporter Editor Activities Coordinator ..................................... . ................................. FundraisingCoordinator Ruben Garcia ........... :; By and for but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Communities. Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Risihts Daytime Testing Monday-Thursday by Appointment 749-4194 FREE & ANONYMOUS Finger Stick Method Every Thursday Evening 7:00-8:3’0 p.m. 41 54 S. Harvard Suite H- 1 Tulsa Family News, September-October 1994, page 3 �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News, Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Opposition to UN Cone CAIRO, Egypt- Islamic fundamentalists have allied themselves with the Roman Catholic Church in trying to prevent the UN International Conference on Population & Development from adopting policies that they say would encourage homosexuality, abortion and promiscuity. A spokesman for the allied religious groups, known as the Ad Hoc Coalition for Cairo, argued in court that the shooting the political .content of the program ends. was accidental. British Soldiers May Go Search for AIDS Czar WASHINGTON - Faced with to European Court difficulties in finding a new LONDON - Since 1990 the AIDS policy coordinator, the British Defense Ministry has Clinton administration brought discharged some 260 military gay tights and AIDS activists to men and women for being the White House to meet with homosexual according to domestic policy adviser Carol informationreleaseby Labor MP Rasco and acting AIDS policy Barbara Roche, who got the director Patricia Fleming¯ information from the Defense Activists said that as a result of Ministry, told The Guardian the meeting, the White House newspaper, "They are treated has started its search for a appallingly, with investigators replacement for thepost all over asking intimate questions and again. According to Daniel searching their personal Zingale, public policy director belongings¯" Some of the with the Human Rights discharged military personnel Campaign Fund who attended have said they may take their the White House meeting, the discrimination complaints to the Clinton administration agreed to European Court of Human set up a new working group on Rights. AIDS that will include the Justice Anti-Gay Bias Suit Dept. in fighting bias. ATLANTA - Ronald Kirkland "Discrimination has hampered has filed alawsuit against C~a~rtel the battle against AIDS from the Restaurants Inc., charging that very beginning, and continues he was fired as a chef at the to hamper education, prevention restaurant chain because he is and research efforts todoy;" gay and the firm’s management Zingale said. "!f we hope to end believed-he was infected with the epidemic,’we must also end discrimination ag_ains~ those; HIV or had AIDS and would cost .the chain money .through most vulnerable to the disease. increased insurance prelmums. Discrimination in health care, Kirkland was fired the day before education, employment-and ]_,.he ~a,s slatedto be enrolled iw "...~o$.h ! area~---i.s -~ a..-s¢~ou,s, )"i~.l~.,!diment t~ s~bppiffg ,~IDS." .~i (~ a ti~’ff~li ng ..... ~v~i~e -?.~’plan. Ex~employees ,with-the<., chain submitted sworn representauves of the National statements as part of Kirkland’s Black Gay & Lesbian smt that , restaurant Leadership ]:orum, National " sa3]ng ~¯..,.~ :.i.,.. ...... , , ,~. &"a. : ,4~,=~:~,.~,, managers:mscusseo Lanno Lesman a.no~a,.~ ;,~.=..~,~: ..-::,-..-.. me_man _ .s g ¯ ,. " ....... ~ conce s a t. KIV smms Lesb~ Task Force ~~~ ~=.~ ~ . ~>~ne 0~0~ l~S~Ce Amenc~ Assn¯ OI rnys~:. ~-,~¢-..~, - ~ __,~ _ for Hm~ ~"gts Gay Bar Ratd M~BOU~E, Am~Mia-~e -~_~A~traua~t° uount Melbo~e poa~ dep~ent’ s ~~~Uouples SYDNEY%~i The’~ustrahan head of civilian complaints has government has given the said he may investigate an Aug. {hum~ proposdl,.from the 7 raid on the Commerce Club, a Australiaii"SWakistics Bureau to popular gay nightclub, during enumerate sam&sex coup~~s~ which 463 patrons were publicly families during it~ strip-searched for possible drug of the nation. The plan got the possession. Only 8 people were approval of the Australian charged during the drug raid, on cabinet after lobbying efforts by various charges ranging from both gay rights groups and the possession Of illegal drugs to s.upport of the Anglican Synod. being drunk in public. The police was asked about gay flight attendants working on the charters, he was told the Cowboys’ "wouldn’t like that at Gov’t to Intervene in ~ Anti-Sodomy Laws CANBERRA, Australia - The Australian government has agreed to accept a proposal to legalize sodomy in the nation in an effort to override state antisodomy laws in Tasmania that were declared a violation of asked U.S. officials not to push international human rights by a for proposals-that would "attack U.N. commission earlier this religious beliefs on birth control, year. The move by the federal abortion and same-sex unions." government to negate the The So. Baptist Convention’s Tasmanian sodomy statutes is Christian Life Commission also likely to be challenged in court. joined in attacking the Clinton If federal legislation is adopted, administration. A1-Azhar, an it will not, however, remove influential center for Islamic Tasmania’s anti-sodomy laws studies, also denounced the UN directly since that island-state conference which it said has refused to repeal its statutes. promotes the acceptance of City Outlaws Kisses homosexuality, extramarital ANKARA, Turkey - The relations, and abortion. Other Reuters news service has Islamic leaders have condenmed reported that the southern the conference as "aZionist plot." Turkish city of Adana has Death Penalty in TX outlawed, public-kissing by men KERRVILLE, Texas - Donald as-unsanitary, The city has not, L. Aldrich, 29, has been found however, banned men kissing guilty of the brutal murder of women or women kissing other Nicholus West, a 23 -year-old gay women, and Eker offered no man, in Tyler, Texas, last explanation of how these other November¯ "The death sentence kis~s:-would be h~genic while handed down by the jury onl~= .iiiale,mate ’kisses were represents justice in this case," considered unsanitary. Smith County District Attorney Episcopal Bishops Jack Skeen told the Dallas Give Mixed Signals Morning News . It was a coldblooded, heinous crime. The INDIANAPOLIS - The bishops defendant deserved nothing less of the nation’ s Episcopal Church than the death sentence~.’’ tried - with~ mixed-results - to According topolice, West had deal with homosexuali~ during been kidnapped in Tyler, taken its national convention. A to a clay pit outside the town document issued by the bishops says that "lifelong, where he was stripped, brutally monogamous, heterosexual beaten, and shot at least 9 times unions between husbands and - including one shotinhis genitals wives" is the standard of the - before being finallykilled by a shot in his head. Henry E. Dunn, church’s teachings. But the document/which has been in the 19, and DavidR. McMillan, 18, have also been charged with works since 1991, also urges the murdering West and areawaitmg church to "respond pastorally to those persons whose sexual separate trials. behavior does not conform" to Outrage Over UT Killing its standards. Confusing the issue SALT LAKE C1TY - Utah gays further, the bishops voted to and lesbians are outraged over change the proposal from a Di,s.t&c~,C,o,O1;t,.Judge David S. Y0.’upg s-~nt’encing Of David :., ~Attendar~t Sues Airline: .:- ’~pa~torkl:t~hdhih~?~ to simply~a . study documen Under ~ DALLAS~7:Ame.fiean;Mrl:mes Nelson~Tl~gket to a mere 6 years .=,brzg~_n its ,,~v~, pressure-fro~m"a group" in ~,ri~9~ for,.~e killing of a gay - ~hves~_gafion-into ~9~ inc~delji~Q 7,fl~ight ~t,~qfi,.~t, Jay..Ma,uk_has ~ ~6~seNativelbishops, h0wewr( man, Douglas Koehler. " sued hls employer and theDall~s ~ the conference wenteven further already filer ~omplaia~ .o.j9’~ Protesters outside the state "aifd ffd6lStEd ~ companion connection with tile3-1ib~ i~ai~t. capitol building the day after the football team’ s chartered flights document that says ruling demanded Young’s to and from games exclude male Falwell Gets Offensive homosexuality "cannot be removal from the court. "With JACKSONV~I-L. LE, Fla ...... attend~m, ts.. M~auk’.s ,lawsuit, ~¢On~oned by the church" and clowns on the bench, you get Telev~slon stal~a XU3I’L,~:Tg ~E~’. s~-~X relationships "a murderers in the streets," Val Cowboys. Jacksonville ll’a~ tl~e~It&ie~I ~o denial of God’ s plan." Mansfield, a gay rights a.ctivist "me, pull Jerry Fal,,well &A)34T s~eriraination and~is aski~fot .3:~t~late Retracts "Joke" said. "Judge Young ts an Gospel Hour off~di~r~for embarrassment to the state of ¯ ;, BUENOS AIRES - Cardinal and, that: what .he ~.h.~ges is~ month for focusing~mo~¢~or~ Uuda ...". Hate-motivated crimes politics than on religl;hNi Wdgf Ame ~ncan A~rl~nes ,~ policy be" : Ant onto Quarracino, deserve stiffer sentences not picketed the TV st~. 7 ~gentina’s leading Catholic more lenient ones." Members of 74Jrelate, said his suggestion Cowlloy~ wpt!ld comment~ Falwell spent a good Oe~ of Koehler’s family agreed. "It’ s a ~fiean-q~ickty d~eified"thatTii’ ’.2{Furing a television interview that ume on the show mockery," Koehler’s sister homosexuals were "an ignoble broadcast in what.protesters °has sue~ a~ poti~y. Susan Nelson told the Salt Lake ¯stain [on] the face of society" called criticism of°~f~gi~eht Tribune¯ "It’ s like his life wash’ t and shoutdbe put in their own "~t!o3,,w ork,on the Dallas,Cowboys’Clinton ~at i~...p~%ed,)~g~y giae~{o,-~ayshis remarks were "a worth anything. When you charter b~cause explicit language b3~ the murder someone, you should joke, something that just crossed The suit also claims that when an televangelist. A spokesperson my mind¯" Quarracino told spend y~.u(, life paying for that I fox~the,stationsaidWTLVmould. American Airlines employee~ murder7 ~" ~liacker.s attorney --air re-runs of the.p~o’grAm tmt~l 2 ~ w~ ]~an~tlgs the charter flights~. - reporters later th~it he was sorry.. Tul~[~’aTm~[y News, September - O~t~’bdr~1994,--page"4 ~ ....................................... 7_ ~.7.L ~ if he "offended anyone, ff I hurt someone’s sensitivities." During an TV interview earlier, Quarracino said gays and lesbians should be have "alarge area.., to live in, with their own laws, their own media and even their own constitution." Gay tights activists in the country have threatened to sue the Cardinal over his remarks. Quarracino said he thought people "had a better sense of humor." Oregon Ballot Measure to Go Before Voters SALEM, Ore. - The Oregon state Court of Appeals has unanimously overturned a lower ruling against a proposed statewide anti-gay ballot measure, clearing the w ay for the initiative to go on the November ballot. Earlier this year a lower court had ruled the proposed measure- violated state constitutional restrictions against restricting voter initiatives to only 1 issue in each proposed measure. Proposition 13, a revised version of a s tatewide measure than failed to get voter approval in 1992, would repeal exisdng gay rights measures throughout Oregon, would bar any such legislation or ordinances in the furore, and would restrict access to educational and library information about homosexuality to adults only. Opponents of the anti-gay initiative say they will not appeal the ruling to the state Supreme Court. Cobb Cty. GA Rally MARIETTA, Ga. - Commemorating the first anniversary _ of the Cobb County (Ga.) Commission’s adoption of a resolution condemning "the gay lifestyle," hundreds of gays, lesbians and supporters rallied in the town square to mark the date with a protest¯ Estimates of the number of people attending ranged from 1,000 to 5,000 people. Some 200 police officers were on duty during the protest and rally. Law enforcement officials called it the most peaceful protest in more than a year. Seattle Dom..Partners SEATTLE- On Tuesday, Sept¯ 6¢ Seattle formally .began allowing unmarried same-sex and opposite-sex COul~les to register as domestic partners. Some 70 couples showed up when the city clerk’s office opened Tuesday morning to pay $25 each to register the relationship¯ The partners registration extends no legal benefits to couples. IdahoAnti-Gay Measure BOISE, Idaho- Several hundred people joined Idaho Gov. Cecil Andrus in officially launching a campaign against Prop. 1, an andgay initiative that will go before the voters this November¯ "We reject hatred whenever and wherever it appears, and it appears," Gov. Andrus said at the rally at the state capitol. �Saturday, 1994. Check-in, .9 am. ~Walk begins at.lO am. ~..~. Veteran’s Park 18th- & Boulder Avenue Benefiting non-profit (501(c)3) HIVIAIDS care-giving agencies:Indian Health Care Resource Center Clinic, Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)~ Tulsa Oklahomans for Hum an Rights (TOHR), Visiting Nurse Association of Tulsa, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN), Multicultural AIDS Coalition, Interfaith AIDS Ministriesl NAMES Project Tulsa Area, Hospice of Green Country, HIV Resource Consortium, Saint Joseph Residence, and SHANTI-Tulsa. ~DS~walk Tulsa Benefits Bad Bbyz - S.eptember 18; 10 pm Lola’s -.September 24, 10:30 pm Renegades ~ October 1, 11 pm Silver Star - October 7, 11 pm Metropole-October 12, 10 pm Alley- October 16, 9 pm After Walk Party For more information, call Walk 94 at 9-18 587 7222. Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 5 �Southwest A viatical company now open right here in Tulsa. y:u are considering selling your~life insurance are in busineSs~t0 helpy0u: receiVe the highest amount in the best, quickest, most ~Confidential manner possible. A Quality of Life Alternative Southwest 2919 Welborn Dallas, Texas 7521,9 800/559-4790 Tulsa Farm~l~d~#, September -Octobek I994, page 6 E. 41 st St. Suite F-5 Tulsa Office 4146 So. Harvard, Suite F,5 Tulsa, OK 74135-2610 -918-747-3320 �Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs to acknowledge and A Profile of HIV American~, 18 per 1000 pop., Oklahomans between the ages LIFEGUARD designed celebrate yourself. We will~ of 18 to 65basedon6% of general and Asians/Pacific Islanders, 3 in OK’s Gay per 1000 pop. This AIDS rate is population, with an assumption Proj~ect explore Gay identity and develop strategies to confront anti-Gay estimated assuming 6% of each of a higher percentage in urban Communities race/ethnieity The LIFEGUARD project is hostilities, both internal and areas and a lower one in rural is Gay or Bisexual. by Alan G. Nyitray~ MS "It’s important that we look at the Oklahoma Gay community as a collection of many smaller communities like African American Gay men, Hispamc! Latino Gay men, Lesbian and G~y youth, rural Gay peop!e, etc. Each of these smaller communities have their own issue that must be specifically addressed; There is no one monolithic Gay community," concludes Nyitmy in a summary of findings done by the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health. These materials were compiled for the use of the HIV Community Planning Group (CPG). The CPG is a new, federally mandated body that is hoped .will provide more community input into state HIV prevention efforts. These f’mdings indicate that in Oklahoma, African-American Gay and Bisexual men have’an estimated rate of AIDS that is twice as high as thatofCaucasian Gay and Bisexual men~, The following rates a~e fofGay and Bisexual males with AIDS: African-Americans, 39 per 1000 population, Hispanics/Latinos, 29-:per 1000 pop., Caucasians, 221i per 1000 pop., Native Nyitray, who is Gay & Lesbian ones; if 8% of Tulsa and Oklahoma City metro area Outreach .Co-ordinator of the population are Gay or Bisexual HIV/STD Service for the State males, then about 20% are likely Dept. of Health, concludes that infected with HIV. the higher rates of AIDS in Gay Men of color with AIDS are and Bisexual men of color show more often Gay and Bisexual that HIV prevention efforts must be improved in communities of rather thanheteros.exualinjeetion color. "Just as Gay people riced ’drUg users as ts commonly their own specific.~iHIV.. believed. Gay men of color are lesslikely to have had an HIV prevention message apart..from antibody test than Caucasian Gay heterosexuals, smaller .Gay communities with in the Iarger ¯ men. Gay/Bi men under age 25 are Gay community need.their ow.n significantly more likely to say messages and projects. One HIV that they did not use a condom in preventionmessage for the whole anal sex with a casual partner Oklahoma Gay community does than men older than 25. In larger not even come close to meeting urban areas outside Oklahoma, our needs." Gay/Bi young men have HIV Other issues identified in these infection rates estimated at 10~ f’mdings are: 30%. public health researchers have While Oklahoma’s Gay and never determined the true rate of Bisexual male populations have :.HIV infection for any Oklahomararely been ~tudied,. Lesbians based Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual ~mmunity~nor hav~ there bee~ ..... hav~nignbred~althou~h iiife¢fion occurs in this .group any random-based study to and no prevention projects have measure the HIV-related directly addressed Lesbians.., knowledge, attitudes, behaviors or;beliefs of Gay men~Bisex_uals ....For more inf0~aaonc~ Nlan Nyitray at 405-2714636 or write or Lesbians in Oklahoma, though these sorts of studies have been .,HIV/STD Service, OK Sta.te -successful elsewhere;~ . , ~ .~ ~ Other observations ar~........... ~ fOO6NE 16di’s~ oKC, ~731 i~/1299. there are at least 114,000 Gay, Les.b~an and Bisexual Jeffery A. Beal,-MD Ted Campbell,. LCSW Ginny Buffer; RN MS Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehesive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic ~ervices We have many insurance provider affiliations - if you be~long to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 1560 East 21st Street, Suite 210 Monday. Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 external. coming to Tulsa. This project October 26, SWIM: Sex With was originally developed in Los Intimacy for Men, this meeting, Angeles, California, and had held in an auditorium rather than been adapted to fit the needs of a home, brings together 30 to 50 Tulsans. men to discuss and celebrate the LIFEGUARD is a series of many safer and sexy options four meetings, dealing .with available to Gay men today and’ differentaspect~ of HIV disease~ help develop skills in increasing The meetings are free and are you own~sexual satisfaction. de~ignddes~allyfor Gay and. ~i~fial?. high-’of all: age~ :find ~. For more information, call 584-4983. color. The meetings will be held in voluntc~s~l~_m.cs through~0u.t Tulsa on wednesday evedings and will provide an excellent environment for meeting. Places Support Services announces and times are available by calling the return of the Being Aware Brian Jackson at 584-4983, rap group for the fall &-winter The four meetings are: seasons. The group will meet. October 5, HEAT: HIV. every week at 7 pm at 2440 East Education And Treatmefit, a 51st, Suite BS. The next meeting medical overview focusing on will,be Monday, September 19. living healthily with HIV for _ Being Aware is degigned to those who are seropositive and meet the needs,of pedple living negative, ~fe issues such_as. ~rdl~tidn~liiiis a~discuss~by with HIV/AIDS and thosepcople dealing-, with.the AIDS crisis. participants. This.is,~ a drop,in groupi:open to October 12, SAND: Sex And Nineties Dating, a fun._.and= allpcople regardless of race, age :e~pel-i~nfiid~m~efiiag desigixbl. of sexual expression. :Being’Aware is facilitated by examine our personal .goals and objectives in dating. Exploring - ~William Brnder, certified HIV/ AIDS test.counselor/educator/ -! s0me:;.0fith~issues of da~t~ing the age of AIDS. activist, and JeffMartin, Masters Level Counselor/Activist. For October 19, SEA: Self Esteem and Attitudos,.-.this meeti,n.~g ~’~ is more information, cal1742-3520. ~ Being Aware Support Group Clinical Trials* now Open for Treatment of HIV Disease and Related Infections _Nevirapipe...HIV Treatment Oral Vs. IV Ganciclovir...CMV Retinitis Treatment Zithromax-Biaxin-Ethambutol...MAC Treatment *must meet inclusion & exclusion criteria. For mo~e information, call 918-743-1000, ext. ’HIV’ between 10am - 4pm. To receive more information about new clinical trials as they are available, send your name & address to: Jeffrey Beal, M.D. 1560 E. 21st St, Ste. 210 Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Family N.ews~ September - October 1994, page 7 �presents... ’.:HIV Education Treatment \~// _ �(of 14). I’m not convinced that the culture mad prejudice is that different here. The difference is that in Texas, Lesbians & Gay men have been involved in politics and have demanded better treatment. Here we’re too busy being grateful for getting only one kick in the pants instead of two. As long as we don’t demand more of our politicians, we’re not going to get more. In many cases, we still may not get what we want but at least we can make an informed decision. Most social change in this country, this state, and this city did not come from well connected minority folks working their inside connections. It was the ones with inside connections, the Adam Clayton Powells who were telling Dr. King, "son, you’re going too fast..." Social change has come from those who were pushy, who said, "sorry we’re not going to accep,t, what you’re trying to do to us. Ada Louise Sipuel Fisher, Thurgood Marshall and the NAACP pushed OU towards desegregation. Joe Williams and others with the NAACP forced Tulsa out of its racist city commission form of government. They may have been polite but ~y weren’t just us, about us mad our issues as long as we allow them to get away with doing so. Tulsa Family News will do all we can to shame, cajole or persuade Oklalaoma politicians into upholding basic American values of fairness, honesty and respect for all citizens. Accordingly, Tulsa Family News ~s withdrawing its endorsement of Jack Mildren. We cannot recommend either Mildren or Shedfick. We find them to be both cowardly and less than honest. Repeatedly, we’ve been told that Shedrick "does not have a bigoted bone in her body." We been told Mildren believes in fairness. Well, this Gay man says start proving to our comnmnity that you stand for something other than only getting yourself elected or taking our money. The winner of the Detnocratic runoff election (September 20) will face Frank Keating, Republican nominee on November 8.. Meanwhile, media observers may wonder where the "mainstream" media has been in covering minority issues, including Lesbian~:and Gay issues, in this campaign. The Tulsa Woddhardl~,.~ms to make any connection between local issues concerning Lesbian and Gay Tulsans and the ahoma politicians are We do honor Chuck Ervin (State Capitol) and Jim Myers (DC burean) for asking a hard ques tion or two but wonder when the rest of them will get it? Then there’s television. The same stations that cover local Lesbian and Gay issues fairly well are as bad as theTulsaWorld on state and federal issues. Could it be that the tv stations did not ask about Lesbian and Gay issues in the tv debates because of well documented anti-Gay bias of some news people? Maybe they believe that if they don’t talk about us, we’ll just go away. I’m not. You know you can call these folks up and tell them you’ re not happy with their coverage. We do. We hope you will too. Conf, cont’d from p.l and Gays from other faith traditions. Nancy Day, executive director of the Tulsa chapter of the National Conference indicated that the office had not tried to involve local Lesbian/ Gay congregations or organizations. Other organizers apologized for the lack of inclusion and promised to investigate making last minute changes to the programming. Also at press time, organizers could not ’verify whether workshop presenters would address tbe anti-Gay aspects of the Holocaust. For more Friends seeking Friends College grad, 23, 6’ 1751bs. new to Tulsa, seeks friends with humor and self-esteem. Clean-cut, straight-acting, Christian wishes to meet Christian or moral, straight-acting, non-smokers, no. 44600, To respond to this ad, call 900-230-0027 $1.59/min. aver. 3 rain. Fall into a Relationship this Autumn Cool, crisp days, awash with color. Walking though piles of fallen leaves. Is this your ideal of fall? 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"No" Service Charge 91~.~41-6866 New York Film Festival, NYC 9/23-10/9 018i 747-9506 Fax 1918) 747-1154 4308 South Peoria ~tha, OK 74105-980~ " ." ’" Lone Star Women, s Music Festival, Texas Sonora Bay Women’s Week, Mexico 10/1‘8~ ’"~ ~ Gay & Lesbian Scuba Jamboree, Cozumel 10/1-8 Because everyone has a right to be blessed by God! ~-0~J~l, message phone. Eddie Coo.k, past~r ~bian Cruise, G~n¢lslands 10/2-8 Lost in Vegas, Las Vegas, Nevada 10/7-9 W~,s ¢ek, ProvincetownlO/12-17 K¢y Wea Fantasy Fest 10/31 New Orleans Halloween 10/31 Puerto Vallarta RSVP Vacation 11/5-12 Food & Wine Weekend, Provincetown H/11-14, man more Family orient vacat,on$. Mini Blinds 70% off" Tulsa Family News, September = Oc~!~¢r J~894, page 9 �NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS the National Asian Pacific are l~sing money just for being Lavner cont’d from p. 1 gay.’ Earlier marketing reseaich Studies American Legal Consortium. JACL cont’d from p. 1 U.S. Rep. Norman Mineta wrote in a letter to JACL: "Where Congressman appealed to the would we be today if the groups to approve the resolution NAACP, or the National Council endorsing equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians, which ~of La Raza, or the AntiDefamation League of B’nai passed by a 50-38 vote with 11 Brith, or the National Gay & abstentions. The proposal Lesbian Task Force, had taken caused serious dissensions in the the position that redress was a 65-year:old, 24,000-member Japanese American issue - and JACL. Allen Kato, JACL’s legal had nothing to do with African counsel, resigned m protest over Americans, Hispanic Americans, the proposal which he .called Jews or gay and lesbian "morally wrong." Bill Americans? These organizaHosokawa, a former _Denver tions, and their members;joined Post_ editorial page editor wrote us because they unders~c~i a column in JACL’s weekly believed in;our argument-that a publication saying that "JACL threat: t~ the civil fights 6f established ~i proud record that AmeriCanis a threat ito the civil includes adv~acy for all. But rights Of all Americans.;’now it has gone .beyond that, choosing;, arole,on..the cutting edge of t~e~litant hUman rights cont’d frdOip; 1 moveme~(," ~, ~Former JACL Human Rights Campaign Fundchap te rlf ~i~ie~.s,i.d~n t s Tak said~ "This is the;first ~tim~ Yamam6(6 i~.fid.~fi~ Yaniamoto Congress has acted to ~punisli rand formei; JACL staffer Lia violeiac¢ against lesbians and gay Shigemura,~e,,0ut during the men tlLrough stiffer periiiltie~ f0f months:l.0ni~i~d~fiate, over the hate crim~s, The inclusion of resolufioi~ arid: all~ addressed the disability aiid gender, aloi~g with conventi~ox~.tf.-app~al for its sexual brientation; sendS a adoption/., ,.M,~ religious message to loc;al law leaders,~"Ec~’li’ a~" the Rev. Joan enforcement agencies’ that the Ishibashi’ ~iUnited Church federal gfvemment is of Chris-ili~ :~olidu and the about g@~bashing:..""The full Rev. M~?~agawa of hate ~es bill passed the Senateon a 61=38 vote. President same-sex nim-ri~ag~;~gesblu_fi0n Chnton is-expected to s~gfithe as did ~/~’ cau.c.~s, bill into law. the. As~iation Hate .crimes cont’d from p. 1 indicates that gay men and lesbians, contrary to other findings and popular myth, earn considerably less than their heterosexual co-workers. One study, presented at the annual meeting of. the American Statistical Association in Toronto, indicated that 10% of American men and 6.4% of U.S, women have had sex with a member of the same’sex at least once during their lifetimes. The study also:found that more than 18% Of males and over 17% of females said they.had ~ither had sex with or had felt sexually, attracted.to:someone Of the Sam~’ sex - or both,- duriiigtheir lives. In additi0fi, the Study~also foimd tha~4:l% of’m~n arid 2:3% Of" women in this Cfuntry said they had’ duly iiad same:s:ek relatio~~. during their fives.~ AnOther Stud~; by ~/~ unive"r~itybf:Mafyland surveys have suggested that gay couples earn $56,000 to$63,006 annually, ~ompared with the national average of just $36,500. According to the study’s findings, gay men are more likely to hold professional jobs, but they are less likely to be promoted into managerial ranks, thereby eontributing to their overall lower income levels. While 1’7.9% of heterosexual men surveyed were managers, only 12.8% .of the gay men were. Navy. cont’d from p. 1 rational reason for its anti-gay policies. The appellate court ruling upheld the reinstatement order, but did not deal.with the issi~of the military ban’s constitutionality: .There was speculation that because the appeals .court only applies to Meinhold’S reinstatement and does not challenge the researcher, found that gay men’", c0nstitutiooality of the ban itself make 11% :t6 27% less than the government may not appeal hete-rosexu’al males in thedecisiontotheU.S.Supreme comparablejob~. Lesbians, the .. Court.’The Jnsdce Dept. would researchers found2earn ~% to- " onJysay that the decision was 14 % less thatl -heteros exual being reviewed. femaleS. "Lesbians’ men are experiengi.ng.’discont’d from p. 1 crimiuation fliat ’ actually hurts organization will launch a them -ec0nomically," said Leenari.on’al~search,, for ~ a new Badg.ett; a:’Univ~rsity. of Maryl~d e~01iomi’c~’ pro~essor, and ao:tli6r of!the’smdy;:’*They NGLTF. - Y Zinc and New York’s EightyEights to colleges and community centers to MCC’s in Wichita and Sarasota, the 25th anniversary of the National Organization of Women and the International Mr. Leather contest. Ms. Lavner typically performs in black leather. Sandra Gillis is the executive director of PFLAG’s national. organization. According to !ocal co-organizer, Nancy McDonald, Ms. Gillis will not be performing in leather, black or otherwise but: will be giving an update on the substantial efforts of PFLAG to fight discrimination basedon sexual orientation. Patrons may attend a private dinner with Lavner & Gillis, a special reception and the erformance with a donation of 100 for two persons. A sponsor ticket for the reception and performance is $50-for two, Tickets for the performanceare $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Tickets and information is available at Tomfoolery! or by calling 747-4125 or 742-8565. g Change Had credit )roblems in the )ast? WANN 800 apl!~intment. $I6,049 810 S.~incinnati Suite 100 .~.’~u!~a; Okla 74119 Sandra.J. MITSUBISHI The New Thinking in Automobile~" Hill, M.S. Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation Sensitive to the Challenges of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgen~lered Individuals, ¯ Couples & Families, 1 11 2865 E.-Skelly .Drive, Ste. 215; 745-. 1 " r :~: "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" Tulsa Family News, September- October 1994, page 10 ,-: . cont’d from p. ! ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’" and "Legislating Against Violence.," For further information, contact Sue Hyde at (61"7) 492-639~/ .... �T H E L ... I F E S T Y L E "G A Y sketch the impact of different don’t buy until you’re satisfied to it for 40 years and you work Where do I want to be? How do I want to live? More serious, as a survey by financial services giant Merrill Lynch shows, is the substantial gap between what people expect to afford in their retirement and what their retirement income will actually enable them to afford. They haven’t answered the most important question. What will my retirement income be? To answer that question, experts in the field agree the place to start is the income every Planner Leanne Gross. employed person will have: Social Security retirement benefits.. Until August 1988, the odds of your getting a satisfactory answer were about as good as by Leaane M. Gross beating a sidewalk gambler at three-card Monte. Most people look upon Since then, under a Social retirement as a happy exchange Security Administration of activities: playing golf, program called PEB ES (Personal visiting friends and family, siting Earnings and Benefit Estimate by the pool, traveling the world, Statemen0, you can have an or simply lazing the days away answer in a couple of weeks. in some pleasant climate. Call 8001937-2000, request form And yet, a growing record of. S SA-7004, complete it and return dashed hopes casts a shadow it. The information you receive across the expectation of will include your-estimated untroubled days. Stories abound monthly retirement, benefits of retirees adrift without a chart based on your projected earnings of daily obligations to direct and the age at which you expect them: They haven’t posed these to reure. questions about retirement that Be prepared for a shock., your they’ve routinely answered during their working years:. .. PEBES will most likely show . What do I want tq do wi~,m~i:: :( fliatS~al Seeurity-~ even ff you time and my life? ~ :" " " "..~ mad y~employer(s) contribute Mapping Your Financial Road to Retirement this is what you need. past 65-- will hardly meet basic living expenses. First Rule: Start your planning early. It takes from 20 to 25 Uncle Sam has not deceived you. Social Security is not a years to implement a successful pension, and was never intended retirement plan. Unless you have to be a pension, although that is major amounts to contribute to a. common assumption. Its the fund; however, some objective, zs to replace part of retirement savings m better-than none in any case. the income that individuals and their families lose, when they During those years, you’ll be building assets that will provide . retire, become severely disabled, or die. You should consider your retirement income, even under severeinflationarypressures, and Social Security and company pension benefits a "retirement ensure your security and that of your survivors, m the event of paycheck", using this to determine the income you’ll need health or other emergencies. to finance the retirement you You’ll set the process in want. motion by giving the planner a What is your next move? meticulous account of your The same action you take to.. present income and expenses, your total assets and liabilities, prepare for a home purchase, or. a vacation, or a child’s college, plus incomeyou expect toearn education. You must plan. ...... after retirement-along with the The only difference is that this year you intend to retire and the annU~il retirement income you is long:range.Pl~ng that.will want to have. pay a co~mm~anding role i~a your life for. many.y.e~s~. .. : ........ ..~ Afte_r analyzing, this But.a retirement .p!an, like a informa’d0~’. ~he pl~e!~...w~ll tailored suit, should fit. you propose ~a:ys¯ you can manage your current earnings andassets perfectly. Few ~people other than fiscal, e~per~s have the time or so they Will"yield the r~xiui~ed saw;y to onstruEi. such a piah, . incrm~ when you retire, q’his]s, and you’ll ..probable need essentially,, a long-range ¯ " in~;~stmeiat program bUii~,iin professional help. There’ s plenty available. Most mo~t eXtses,.onsi~me form0f ~xlarge banks, insurance free.annuity or other h~dged investment that will make the companies, investment houses most of the resources you can and accounting firms offer retirement planning. Pick a dedicate to it. ’ T.he :p~an, :wpically, will_ also quality instituti.on, ask questions, econon~ic scenarios high/low stable interest rates, high/low stable inflation, recession growth/depression- on vour rettrement~ncome. The complete plan will be a road map to your retirement security. However you dev~lop your plan, on your own or with experienced help, you can count on it requiring investment of time and personal resources. But never doubt that it’s worth every hour, every dollar you devote to it. As I always say: "People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan." Leanne M. Gross is a member of the Rainbow Business Guild, a Tulsa non-profit organization. Boy George Paternity ? LONDON - To the SUrlY,rise of virtually no one,iaB.fitish court has tossed out a ~i~fl claim by a woman in the. U.S°.iWho had charged that,.openly gay pop singer Boy Ge01ge.h~igl ~athered her 7-year-old~oiX:Th~ ~ed woman filedttie"aUit i~t~-t: year, but the court dis~ssed:the case when it was told tile ~vbman had not been heard:i~rO~ ~i:~ then. Boy George s~d Of:th~ w~oman’ s claims that he haffnever had sex with a woman ~ M8 !ifeand that therefore the birthmust have been "a miracle." Homes change with the times..: 496-2410, 800-336-3524 munic~ting withith’eir corn: parties via fax"modems. .Homes With two offices~will ~o~ ~ unusuat. Hou~ho[d size is shrinking and the number of -householders will increase nearly 20e~ this d~ade. At [he same [im~ mallv house- holds are expanding to dude grandparents, .~dult children, or both. That calls for flexible floor plans, and more accessory units ~ selfcontained "apartments"" within homes. Dining rooms mav be going the way of sculleries and ~pus rooms¯ ~me builders are.eliminating them in favor of more spacious eating areas open to family rooms. he National Association of Home Builders recenflv surveved industry watchers, futurist~,..and feading-edg~ builders to find out how new technology and changing demographics will be changing our homes. Here’s what they For buyers and sellers found. If you’re a buver remember that all the There will be more media rooms and larger family rooms because ot increaslates( improven~ents don’t mean a thing unless vou really like what you buy. The ing sales ofbig-screen TVs. Many Upscale,homes are being built with home should fit’your requirements.° complete home theaters. If you’re a seller, keep tn mind that - Many hgflae~ already have office opthere are buvers who will "decide ~that your home i~ exactly what they want. tions -- dens or extra bedrooms that can be used as home offices. But the trend is Putting buyers a~d sellers t~geth~er is ac6elerating. Bv theyear 2001, 70% of all. our job. Call us to learn how w~.can homes are expected to have computers guide you to success. Thei-e’s ¯ as more ,peopte-.work at home, com~ ....... obligation for a meeting. - ...... T ................................................................................................. ~;-,~4--.-~.~- ...... ’:~.~.,,,Tulsa Family~ews, September - 6CtOb’~’~’:"179~),~i pcige 11 ). �T H E F E S T Y L E Prime limers AiDS Info-Line Family of Faith-,~iOij g ~!~;ii~it’ ~y &. :~Body,~., Electric Interfaith AIDS Ministries has added a 918 area code 800 number (800-284-2437) to provide greater access to HIV/ AIDS information throughout eastern Oklahoma. As the State of Oklahoma AIDS information line is still inoperative, this is the only 24 hour, 7 day a week information source. Interfaith ¯AIDS Ministries also is seeking volunteers for the information line. Volunteers work from their homes as calls are forwarded from the Interfaith AIDS Ministries number. This phone line is the only 24 hour a day source of HIV/AIDS information and referrals in the 918 area code. Volunteers are asked to consider donating a 3-4 hour block of time at least one evening a week. Night owls would be especially welcome for late shifts. Training on HIV issues will be provided and typically requires about 4 hours and is conducted one on one. Another 2 hours on phone line protocals and crisis training is also provided. For more information or to volunteer, call Interfaith AIDS Ministries at 438-2437 or 800284-2437. Family of Faith MCC, Prime Timers, a social nonThe Tulsa Body Electric group I n t e g r i t Yannounces a workshop and profit organization for Gay men formerly of Jenks, celebrated a 5 over 40, will hold its monthly -°~.C~aP°_Ga,~, &~"_~.~.s:bi ~a!~:~~-~.~.etreat;.’!Celebrating the Body year birthday on Septembe:~;9; meeting on Saturday, September The church, now located at 5,L51- -:,LT~nistry ~t the Ro~an!!Ggtholi¢., :Eleclfic’~ to be held October 22 17 with social and business E South Mingo, had a dat~ee ;(::~Epi~s_~,.pa~C~h~i?.~-" : :’.i: :& 23. Tl~is will be the only segment at 2 pm and with a D/I WilI celebrate an Episcopal ...... ~’Midw~st site for a Body Electric party on Saturday the 10th to presentatmn at 3 pro. John commemorate the e~,ent. The mass at its Saturday, October 8th workshop in 1994. Denny, past president of the celebration confiiiu’ed:wthS~ an ~ i~mee~..ng, ~-at2.~Pm:2’ a~.~ Sai~..t ....... !~n". t_.h.e: !~ork~hop, each Tulsa Geneological S ociety will inspimfi6nal praiseland"~V orsliip .;Z(~:u.ns,~a~. s)~9~l qhurch,~.... ~.~(tic~p.ant -ie~;-/(o give and SamtDunstan s ~sl0cated on the:÷-; ~r~cfii~( fi (6rnplet~ : Taoist speak about tracing your celbrafion.on the 1 lth. Church north side of 71st Street between ancestry at the Gathering Room members were pleased to h~ve massage. Because of the healing Yale & Sheridan. All are at 4154 So. Harvard, Ste. H-l, natures of Eastern approaches to former Pastors Crocker and Fink welcome, including nonBasement Level Room. erotic energy, men living with back in Tulsa for the celebration. denominatibnal believers, In October, the organization Five years ago, Pastors Pam HIV and in recovery from will return to its regular s_chedule Crocker and Marian Fink started" with a meeting on October 1st. behavior addictions are Family of Faith from a renta!:~ .~. y.~ especially welcome. Tom Neal, publisher of Tulsa location in Broken Arrow. From Family News will speak about more information, the location in Broken Arrow, the newspaper and the TBE, POB 3502, Tulsa, OK the church moved to a more community. permanent location in Jenks, and 74101 or call 446-7883 or 587more recently to its present with location in Tulsa proper. Family of Faitli has grown~ ,-:~" Saint Afdan’s Episcopal from an hfitial membership of 3 Church will host Tulsa’s 9/20 " Tulsa City-County Library Commission, noon, Owasso observance of a national day of to 4 to a membership of over 50. Library, 103 W. Broadway. Programming at the church prayer for persons living with HIV and. AIDS on. Sunday, 9/21 An English Country Garden: a Potpourri of English Songs, includes a support .group for codependency, a ch0ii’; a w~kly October3at3 pm. The Presiding noon, Aaronson Auditorium, Central Lib: 4th & Bishop of Episcopal Church Denver. Bible .study, and many other USA has called all Episcopalians Liebeslieder Waltzes, noon, Aaronson Auditorium, Central acdvities. _ 9/28 to this observance though all are Lib. 4th & ~Denver. welcome. Saint Aidan’s is located 10/18 Tuls¯ City-County Library Commission, noon, Central at 4045 North Cincinnati. The Lib. 4th & Denver. vicar is the Reverend Gall Keeny 10/27 Parent Connection, AIDS Awareness for Parents, 7pm, -Mulligan. Owasso Library, 103 W. Broadway. -N:aii0nai- :o "of P rayer fo r s.U,tan o aUuse, mooa aoa write For Persons t-,v,nu HIV/AIDS 1658. Tulsa city-county Library mmmmm|mm|||mnmmmmim|||||m||mm|mm| | U | m ¯ ¯ U n | | m ¯ | ¯ m m Puppy-.Pause IIAll Breeds Dog Grooming llth & Mingo, 838-7626 m m FIRST FRA~IN .... | ¯ Brady Heights 2 & 3 Bedroom Apartments Small Complex | FINANCIAL. ¯ ¯ ¯ u Bob Hardy -TJC, Downtown Pager: 628-8745 Water paid Open Tuesday - Saturday at &am. | Call for Appointments | Walk-ins Also Welcome. | mm.m m m m m | i m | | mm | m | m ¯ m.mn mm m mmml mmm | Great Gay Area Close to UCT $285-325 918’582-8608 SALON Dart Tournament, Tues. 8pro - Pool Tournament, Fri. 7:30 2630 East 15th Every Friday at 11, SHOW[ Mr. Tulsa Leather 9/1% lOpm 749-1563, 4-2 m, M-Sun. Miss Ul~r Cherry St. Pageant 10/8 Parking at Massad~s BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Fine Jewelry Watch & Jewelry Repair 4649 South Peoria, 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday Shop Where You Are Appreciated! Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 12 WINFCOPA Kelly Kirby ’Ross Folsom Hairdesigner Color Technician Certified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations, whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities " with sensitive &timely information. 747-5466, POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 Lincoln Plaza 1310 E. 15th St. 583:1500 �FALL BENEFIT CONCERT Benefitting TOHR & PFLAG~ FEATURING LYNN LAVNER Co mic. . . ~o ngwriter. . ;Singer �H E G A Tulsa Family News Survey In order to find out more about the needs of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered Tulsans, Tulsa Family News has constructed the following survey We would appreciate your cooperation in this effort. Please complete the survey and return it to P.O. Box 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 or drop your completed survey by Tomfoolery! at 1565 South Sheridan (in the Silver Star Saloon) Thursday thru Sunday from 9:30 p.m. until 12:00 am on Thurs. & Sun. and till 2 am on Fri. & Sat. As this is the first such survey we’ ve done for the Tulsa area, we would appreciate any comments or suggestions you might have. Please circle or fill in the appropriate response. The voluntee~ information at the end may be sent separatdy in order to protect the privacy of your answers. L Y I F E S How often do you go to a "cultural!’ event, opera, conEert, - etc: T Y L E Political SupportGroup (specify): What types of organizational activities are important to Every six months Every three months More Frequently Less Frequently you? How many books have you read in the last three months’? How often do you read Tulsa Family News? Proties Scheduled Meetings Political Activities Social Gatherings Pride Activities News Updates Other (specify):. Every Month Occasionally Every Other Month First Time Reader Do current Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgendered organizations in Tulsa adequately suit your needs? What other Gay papers/publications do you read? If not, what suggestions do you have? PART I, ABOUT YOU The GaylyiOklahoman Age: The Advocate Gender: Tulsa. N~s Out Genre Denueve Do you think Tulsa needs a community center? How do you identify yourself? Other R~gional Publication (Specify): Gay. ~sbian Bisexual;,;+ Heterosexiad Other~specify)~. " Whi~K!~.~.i~the following Tulsa organizations are you affiliaied!,~ithi? ~ TOHRo:,+ Faith Community (MCC, Dignity, etc.) TU GLBA TJC GLAS Prime Timers. Women’ s Alternative PFLAG Pleage"rank each of the :following interest segments . :: according to importance (5 is~ the highest ranking) What would you be willing to do to support such a project? Political News 1234,5 Social News 1.2345.... Medical/HIV/AIDS News 12345 Religions News 12345 Phone Banking Tulsa Community News 12345 Mailing Oklahoma News 12345 National News 12345 Ir’Please Y 7indicate V- in’U77OT 7 FI 7---which of the following areas you I would be willing to volunteer. Yes No Yes No Yes No Hosting Parties Yes No ........... Hosdng Benefits Yes No " ; + l Editorial Republican Independent Democrat Other (specify): PolitiCal Research ¯ " If so, what is your party affiliation? ~.~12345 ..... I ’; -Hosfng Meetings Letters to the FAitor 12345 TOHR Reporter 12345 Public Speaking Advertisements 12345 ~Media Work Other (specify) 12 3 4 5 " Some College MA How can Tulsa Family News better meet your needs for news/issues of interest? " Less than 15,000 15-20,000 Yes. Yes No[ | No Writing Letters to the Editor Yes No + Writing Politicians Yes No Serving as a group officer Yes No Financial Contributions Yes No Other (specify) Yes ¯ ~ I I I I I I I 50,000 + PART IH - COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS How often do you eat out other than fast food? What type of organization would best suit your needs/ interests ? Every week 2,3 times a week AIDS Care Educational Social Religions How often do you go to see a moTie? Once a month Twice a month More often Thoughts of Desire . poetry by Collette This book is meant as a gifi to la friend, a lover, or even for yourself. B’s O sexy, sensual way to say this is how you make me feel. It’s available at Totnfoolery! or by mail for $9.95 plus $1.50 p&h. Send check or money order with your address to: 768 West 13th, Suite A, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74127 Tuba Family News, September - October 1994, pag~e 14 I " 20-30,000 Own or rent? Twice a month | PhD Income level: 30-50,000 l Yes + Nd-!~!~,. Education: BA I Other (specify): Are you a r~gistered voter? High School I | No I In order to contact you for volunteer work, please give I us the following information: I Name:_ Address: City:_ Phone: -~ -~ ~ I I I --.I �Care Hours: Bar Hours: Cafe: Tuesdau - Saturdau - 4:00 pm - Midnight Monday.-Saturday I1:00 :am - 2:00 am Serv~g Dinner 4:00pm to Midn~t, Tuesday through UPSTAIRS DOWNSTAIRS Sat’ul’~y. 253-7457 253-6723 BBQ, ]~asta, Vegetarian, Cajun, Chicken, Reubens, Steak & i Seafo(~d specials:, Eureka’s Best Burgeks, Finest Salads & Hous~made Dressings. Dine: ~, pstairs in our Care, Dowr~stairsin the Bar or Outside on our spacious Patio.I Free Delivery Downtaura. Chelsea’s Corner Cafe 10 Mountain, at Center Street Movies 8, 250-4513 Open Year Round! 68th & Memorial, Village Shopping~Center EXPECT SALOON (!;oen: Wed.- Sun. 7-2 Closed Mon. & Tues. 1565 South Sheridan, 834-4234 Tulsa Family News, September .October 1994. pv:o, e15, �Wednesday Nights. Jockey Shorts Contest -, $50 Prize, Beer Bust $4, 8-11 " Thursday Nights. Amateur Night- $25 to Winner Judged by Audience Applause September ~ec~a! " ~ Charle’ Wies Sour- $2.50 No Cover - 1902 East llth - 587-8811 - Must Be 21 To. Enter- Open Daily 4-2 am Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 16 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart September 15 October !4, 1994, Volume 1, Issue 10 Operating trader a new federal mandate seeking greater comnmni~ y involvement in the distribution of funds for HIV MDS preven~on, theO~oma ~ta~e Dept. of H~th has begtm dae commmnff phnnfing group (CPG). "l]fis group will help to determine where sm~c do!tars wii~ be distributed, t’he group ha~ 3 sub-groups: needs assessmenu epidemiology and nomination/membership. For more h~kx call William at 742- 3520. Gays Not Confer÷nee onTo erance Dialogue with the Other: Healing & Hope Tulsa wilt hos~ the I4th Nafiowal WorlcshoponCtmsfian- .Jewish Relations on Nov. 6-9 at the Adam’s MarkHotel. The!~ organizers of ~he confernece which is associated with the National Conference (formerly the National Conference of C~stim~s m~d Jews ~ trove noted dmir parficuk~ efforts to m~e fl~is conference broadly diverse. including not on13 a v~me(y of Christian and Jewish organi7~itions m~d traditions but Nso representatives of tstam Native American {raNfions. Convener Dr. William J. Wiseman writes in ~he promotional brochure. "..,diversity ~s a given. Plurality is our response. We are capable of mutual suppo~ as we seek to dialogue with ’the other’ in healing m~d hope..." Despite this public co~mnitment to diversity, no part C)n August 22. Tulsa’s Hmnan Rights * 7ommission received the revised report on discrimination based o~ sexual orientation if( ,m the Standing Committee on Sexna~ Orientation Discfimnafion~ The revisedmlmareflects cfitidsms and sugges~ons made at sever~ public hegNngs held in fl~e late spring. The committal added Ioomotes and more of i~ source matefi~s m the ofi~nal re~)rt as wet1 as a&hng a seared re] ume eft all the materials that were st~bmited hy me public to the stantfing comnfiuee. This second volume comains a numt~r of documenls fl~at can be chm’acterized as ~mti-Gay but also contains letters or memor~mda urging support of pro~ecdons against discriminauox~ based on sexual oriemadon, submitting such documents vere: ~he I.eague of Women Voters of Metropolitan TNsa. the Session of John Knox Presb~ te~am Church. the Dept. of Ecumenical & Social Concerns of Eastern OMahoma PresbyteD’, All So~’s UNaNan Another letter endorsing protections was signed by some of the mos~ distinguished religious leaders in Tulsa. Fhe Rev. Caldwetl, College Hil! Presbyterian, P,abbi Fitzermim. B’nai EmunNl Synagogue. ~e Rev. Fox. St. John’s EpiscopN, the Rev. Kennedy, Trinity EpiscopM, Dr. Knippa, Grace l.:utheraa~ Emeritus. t~he Revs. Newman ~d WILLS, Boston Ave. Me~xJist. Rabbi Shenn~m Temple ~srae!. hrs. Wolf and S~th and ~e hey. Caused,. Soul’s (Jnitarian and the Roy Me,mesh. Kendal W~i~tier Ministries and Center. TU. The gist of ~his letter iBllows: "...ore’ {radifions are no{ uNfonn in our un, lerstanding of...sexud orientation we agr~ that ~r~Nn basic h~mmn rights ...are due NI persons...discmm~ ina~ion violates ..ont._faith tradition:~ wNch regains all_to be of sacred worth...h a~ers any of God’s children must be identified ~md rem(,ved.._" Fur&er action may be t~fl~en at the next Humm~ Rights Commission meeting on 9/19. The of the brochure indicates any Church and the Green Conntry report if accepted will be effo~ttoincludeI~sbianmqdG@ Monthly Meeting of the forwarde~ to the Mayor & er y. .................. US Congress catgdtaate L~r~em Want Gays Lynn I~vner Lynn Lavner & Sandra Gillis At Benefit Show Tulsa Oklahomans fol,Human Rights (TOHR) and Parents, Friends & Family of Lesbians & Gays, Tulsa Chapter (PFLAG) will present a gala appearance by Ly~m Lavner and Sandra Gillis at All Soul’s Church, 29th & Peoria on Wednesday, September 28. Lavner, who bills herself as "America’s most politically incon’ect entertainer." combines /:greedy and cabaret-style musical performance. While the co~ uent of her ac~ is primarily (~3 myone with a ~ense of }mfl~or will appreciate her l~r~ly [ nvner dcscfi~>gs herself as "a ~;hor~ ~cf~..hm~&;d. New York lewish ~ esbia~’ who~s bce~ 1~ ~c }~e was seven. She’s role:, dcd d~me albums and a ~ivciwconcer~ recording, "Butch Fatale." Her perffmnauces have taken her to ~) smms and five coumries, playing venue~ rar~ging from Hippodrome. P~is’ Lc Piano see Lavner. pal CINCINNATI U.S. District Court Judge S. Arthur Spiegel has declared that a Cincinnati city charter amendment excluding gays and lesbians from existing city civil rights protections violates the Constitution’s 1st Amendment and is vague. A spokesperson for the city solicitor’s office said the ruling would probably be appealed. Fed. Crime Bill Includes Anti-Gay Hate Crimes WASIIINGTON. D.C. The contentious federal crime bil! approved by the Semite included a little-noticed amendmen~ that adds [~enalties for bias-based crimes based "- sexna~ orientation the fir<~ time Congress has penalized ;rod ~av vi~tence in this coum> amendment offered ~, , aa~mc };eb~s~ci~ (D-Calif. and color, religion. ~,~ ;rod eflmicity, a~d ~,~,~ camgorms of disabiIity, g~:nder smmmem. Daniel Zinga~c o~ ~h see Ha~e Crimes. page ~0 SALT LAKE CITY The Japanese American Citizens League overcame enormous odds m its national convention in Salt Lake City Aug. 3-7 to become the firstnon-gay national civil rights organization in the U.S. to endorse same-sex marriages. thealready contlicting quesuons about gays and lesbians in this country, researchers this week released timings in 2 separate studies that sharply contradict earlier studies. One review study suggests the percentage of gays and lesbians in America may in Gay and lesbian fact be significanfly greater than members of JACL, church other recent researchers have leaders, and even a U.S. found; while another ’ study see JACL. page 10 see Studies, page 10 Big Changes at NGLTF Task Force’s ’Crea~ng WASHINGTON, D.C. - The National Gay & L~esbian Task Force has announced the resignations of 4 key staff meln~rs at the lobbying group, including ~he ~eparture of Pefi Jude Radecic. NGLTF’s execaave dirdctor who will ~ hying flint W~s~ m November ffter h~s~ 1 ,’ear a~ the agency. Radccic wiI~ sm~ on a~ the Task PerLe ~5 ~s atrec~or of ,mbtic ~otic~. l~eavhv are: Deborah Cos, director ff finance ~ ~dministra~ion ~y Yoking, Jirec~or ofCr~fing Chm~ge: and Robin Kane. NGITFF’s acting Nrecmr ~{" public in~2}rmafion In its news release on ~he staff ~4hakeup. N(}t:I’b offered -~, reasons for the departures The vee NGL77;L pa~ ~’ /0 Change’ Conference to Be in Dallas in Nov. WASHINGTON. D.C, - The Nafiomfl Gay & i.esbi~m Task Force has annonnced that its annual CreaUug conferm~ ~a~ wilt 13 in Datias. Some70 worksho~xs havebeen stated U~ da~e "TV Activism ....L{ealth m Pet Color Commmntms~ as Organim~g ~’~x>~ Qt,eer Culture." ~y)rg~q~~ng Workplace. Ad~. anc~i I x)bb? Techniques," "’Rural/Small T6wu Orgm~zing, "SexuNi~ and Ne Right Wing, Court Reinstates Sailor SAN FIRANCISCO -The W.S (Term of Appeals here has rnlea tl:,~/ me ])efcnse Deoartmcm c;mno~ discharge lesbians m, I can just hear you all now - "Tom, you’ re just 0ver-reacting, you’rejustbeing melodramatic." However, Mr. Largent’s letter to the editors of the Tulsa World (reprinted with theirpermission), is troubling. What does he mean when he says that we (society?) should not "tolerate" homosexuality? He acknowledges that much evil occurs in the name..of religion .but then Says that God commanded ~ttestm"~e"t"to~no" f "naU" ons" for their "eviE’ practices and praises this intolerance.. He characterizes homosexuality as an "evil practice." The association of ;destruction with intolerance of ’;Lesbians and Gay meil is dearly The question is just what Mr. :Largent actually means. Does he ’~mean thatwe shoddbeshunned? Does he.mean that we should be ;systematically removed from positions ofresponsibility, or :merelybannedfrom certaintypes iofjobs?Are we to be tolerated as long as we are politically silentthat is, Subsidizing the hetero- ¯ sexual commtmities with our tax dollars but asking nothing for }urselveS-?WoddWebeallowed to owfi""pi}operty, to run businesses? Would we be allow&l tofuncti0n iwour society if we. ,%onverted" to heterosexuality? Does he mean thaf~)~ ivohlffbe segregated into re-education camps? Or does he mean that-we would be stoned for the "abomination of our homosexuality?" N~W~It~-’S’t~ve Largent were just to continue as an ex-football player :-and- "business consultant," his. opinions would be offensive but not particularly si~rdfieartt,--:Hpwever, as a US congressman, he would be in a pdgftion to make decisions that c0iild"g~eatly, harm Tulsa’s Legbiai~ ’alnd: Gay communities andOur.friends, and ultimately, the city... Now if:he continues in the Jim Inhofe.tradition of radical right Last month, Tulsa Family News endorsed-Jack Mildren for Governor l~e~ause he had done what had been unheard of in Oklahoma politics: he said he supported fairness and equa! oppommity for all Oklahomans, including those of us who are Lesbian ’and Gay. This commitment was made directly to me and with seemingly real conviction. Mildren’s actions were in strong contrast to Bernice Shedrick’s who ran away from giving an honest answer faster than the purse thief she allegedly chased. Shedrick’s equivocation was especially disturbing since she was supposed to be supportive ofLesbian civil rights The buzzword ofthe ’90’s is ~olerance. The hallmark ofthis decade will be its call to toleranc- the big ol’ tent mentality. To be openminded woud be synonymous, but, are we to be so open-minded that we allow our brains tofall out?.! Forexample, aprominent university in California (where else?), wants to include in its policy and procedures, literature that it does not discriminate against pedophiles - you "know, those folks who get their kick out of abusing innocent children! Excuse me, would you hand me my brain - itjustfell out! To besure, much evilgoes on under the guise of: religiouszealotry.However, we read in the Bible that .on numerous occasions Israel, ¯ under direct command of God, wasorderedto destroy other nations. Why? Often it wasfor the evil practices andtheworshipoffalsegods . by that nation. Intolerance? Absolutely! " I agree that, as anation, we must be more compassionate to one another regardless of our differences. However, theday we - -"tolerate" the evilpractices ofhomosexuality, abortion, pornography .~nd ope.d,2- philia-forsa~tE£Jua~i~6~-" Christian tenets our country was founded .upgn,..~S the .day we bd~b~ne~.~uT~b~’able to God’s irRolera~d and judgment. Editor’s note: Largent : implies a connection between homosexuality & pedophilia. Reeetit medical research suggests that heterosexual men are"mt~ch more likely to be- sexual;:~: abusers of children-,.than Lesbians & Gay men. 918-832-0233, FOB 41dO. Tuisa. OK 74159 Issued on orbefore the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright i994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondencd should be sent extremism, he may render himself isolated and almost useless in the House. (Washington observers say that even conservative business political action committees have begunto abandon Inhofebecause of his extremism and his TULSA FAMILY NEWS Pu blishe r/Edito r Tom Neal Assistant Editor James Christjohn Staff Writers Kharma Amos Brannon Crain Maureen Curtin to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one Staff Photographer free copy of each edition at distribution locations. ’JD Jamett Additional copies are available at Tomfoolery! prejudices.) I wish Tulsa Family News couldtell youwhat Stevel_argent reallymeans, but apparently part of not tolerating Lesbians and Gay men means not talking to our press, or our community ~lubs & Restaurants organizations. After repeated *The Alley,-3340 ~. Peoria 744-0896 calls, Terry Allen, Largent’s *Bad Boys Club, 1~229 S. Memorial 835-5083 campaign manager, did speak *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th 749-1563 with us long enough to say that *Metropole, 1902 E. i11 587-8811 Largent would not support any *Silver Star Saloon~ 1565 Sheridan 834=4234 policies that.sought to reduce *Renegade, 1649 S~. Main 585~3405 discrimination based on sexual *Rex, 6101 E. Admiral 835:1055 orientation (that is prejudice *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 660-0856 against homosexuals and *Time n’Time Agaia, 1515 S. Memorial 664-8299 bisexuals, but also against *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 heterosexuals whenthat occurs). *Whittier Cafe~ 416,& Lewis 582-2400 Mr. Allen spent most of the Businesses/Services conversation making hostile remarks that showed the breadth Kent Baleh & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 ofthatcampaign’sprejudiceand BellAire Cleaners, 4951 S. Peoria 743~5967 the depth of its ignorance. He Brookside Jewelry, 4649 So. Peoria 743-5272 clearly was not interested in Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Ste. 102 254-2100 learning from us Of the reality of *CD Warehouse, 6080 S. Sheridan 491-9474 our lives. . *CD Warehouse in -Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria 587-6030 ~ Maybe I’m out of iouch for First Franklin Financial, Bob Hardy 628-8745 believing that ~ p01it~cian;"~r Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria, Ste. 100 744-9595 wanna:be tradingonapretty face *Java Dave’s, Lincoln Plaza 592-3317 and faded football g~ory, would *Indian Territory Coffee Company, 1613 E. 15 58%1633 wa~t t0~kn0~ ~fi~ fiieis~ues are International Tours 341-6866 ¯ ’ 5 d Ken s Flowers, 1635 E. 1 599-8070 not only m southeast Tulsa an ...............th ~ " -- w *---" "- Tulsa’s " Major a[~mrs, zoz,~ ~ ~ .-587~g10g t~roKen ~rro , out m ° .... ¯.... .-~.~--~--~-~ Mrdtown ~eater, 319 E. 3 584:3112 ........’ ., - =~¢t~raw~s;c, t~t3/ ~ .-.ax. rt- 664-2951 ~ts Gay ones Ma~.b..e tt f~hi~.od ~€ me tg~hinl~ thTl~ , t~4mem~ lVl~rtgage corp.’ ¯ 592-7700 7.S~.o.m.eo.n.e.w.h.o.w.a.nt.s.tO.r.e.pi.:e.se.ii.~t.~=..~.i.i~.p.,y.,..~=aa.s.;e....l~.k.~.l.,,.tn.~.: :M" ingo 838-7626 Vour’city/county in governm.eiitJS ~y~ ~r_a,ve~ou,z/. ~. t_...a~a~t,o~n,,. , 49@2410 w0~d~{v~t to meet with a cro~°~ bcnt~ner s boo~store, [~z utica bquare 749-630 ! section of its cilizeus, eventhose Sound Warehouse, 1338"E. 15th 583-1572 ft6~ whom he is different. God Southwest Viadcal, 4146 8~. Harvard, S re. F-5 747-3322 forbidthatacandidatemightfind *Tomfooleryr 1565 S. Sheridan 832-0233 that we-have more in common We~tcopa Salon, Lincoln Plaza~ 583-1500 that.he.thought.. Organizations BUt,th~n maybe not i-~’~.t.~ ~1....... B/IJGAlliance, University of Tulsa. 583-9780 .if you re ~ust goirigt~-~eti{d of Interfaith AIDS Ministries 438-243% 800-284-2437- theseftlks, why waste your time *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S: Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4194 with tho~e not "ch0ge~n"?~ NAMES PROJ~ECT, 4154 S. Harvard. Ste. H- 1 748-3111 - Tom Neial .... P:F-.LAG, POB 52800 74152 749-4901 editor & publisher Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 74128 ’ Rainbow V:illage, POB 50403, 74150-0403 599-8423 -Shanti Hotline 749-7898 in order to get..theendorse.m_ent . and the $1,000 donation of NOW.;the Nafitiial Or~zafion.- of Women. Perhaps she mislead NOW, or perhaps, NOW was willing to sell out Lesbians (and Gay men) in order just to get a womanelected. NOW’s dumped Lesbians before. NOW was as bad about returning phone calls over many weeks as was Shedrick, so we can’t tell you. Unfortunately, Mildren seems to have reneged on his commitment. A few weeks ago, his brother, Richard, told the Tulsa World that Jack couldn’t remember our conversauon. Repeamd calls to his campaign to get a status repor~ on his memory have been ignored. We.~.y.e ..:he.en ~¢ told. that candidates in OklahOmh iniiSt ~pp~ to;l~%~-QWin order to. ~tdi~z{ed~We vebeentoldeven by our own folks that we should just "put up and shut up" so that we can get these folks elected. Now maybe I’m a little slow but it-doesn’t seem tome that if a politician won’t say the right thing when "it" wants your vote, it’s less likely to do so after elected. Down in Texas, hardly a Nogressive oasis (Dallas politics can make Tulsa look like some liberal New E~gland townI Lesbians andGay menhave bee~ a key part of tJr~e coalition that got Ann Richards etected. D~llas has 3 .Gay city council persons see Politics’, p. ~ Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 2 Tulsa Oklahomans forHuman Rights, (TOHR) POB 52729 74152 TOHR Gay He!pLine (hff0.) 743-4297 Other. *Chapma!3. St0dent Center, University of Tulsa ~’ Tulsh City/County Libraries (sometimes-depends on the censor) *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor *University Center at Tulsa Professionals Associates in Medical & Mental Health, 1560 E. 2! 743-1000 Jeffery A. Beal, MD, Ginny Butler, RN, Theodore Campbell, MSW Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Learme M. Gross, Finandal Planning 744-0102 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747-5466 Jonathan & Dee Nicholas, Realtors 749-3000, 800-539-7767 John Kirk, Realtor 7~’7-5800, 745-2245 Richard Reeder, MS, Psychotherapy 5g L-0902, 743-4117 Fle~!gious Organizations *Bless The Lord AtA~t Times Christian Ctr 2627B E. ,~. I 62g-0594 *Community of Hope 1347 N. Yale 838-7232 *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mir~go 622-1441 *MCC of Greater TuI,a. 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 Dignity/integrity 298-4648 *Canterbury Ministry Center, . :z~versity ol ~fulsa 583-9780 tohr reporter Tulsa Oklahomans forHuman Rights. PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 September/October 1994 Volume !4 Number 10 The Crews expc~.~md elsewhent in Tu/se Family News are not necessarily the .views of TOHR. Permission is. granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along ~~items, under lhe byline, "submitted by TOHR", contained elsewhere inTulse Family News. Several candidates vying for your votes in state and federal elections this November have been invited to the October meeting of TOHR to hear members’ ~ concerns regarding human rights.’ ~ Candidates for U. S. Senate O- and House o£Representatives, ~ ~: i i:: =s~a~te govern.or; a~dother~ublic!’ ~- i~f~Ces!willibe inVi~d~ ati~nd or~ send representatives or even just to send a policy statement to the membership of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The nominating committee will present a slate to fill 1995 officer positions. Nominations will also be taken from the floor ~l~°lduring this meeting and.then closed. Elections will be held at the November meeting: Social time begins at 6:30 and the meeting starts at 7 p:m: on Tuesday, October 4, at the HIV/ Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-1, lower level. New Hours, New Staff at Testing eli=tic TOHR’.slHIV Testing Clinic is now open with extended hours. Coutiseling and.test,. case management for people with HIV/ AIDS. Derrick also works at Morton Health Clinic, helping people get needed health care and focuses outreach efforts to the African-American community. The new employees, and volunteers, are committed to offering testing that is both- ¯ free and anonymous. The clinic is housed ’- in the HIV Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-I. The center offersclients_. "ink!~s::~fi~bi~!.l~ippointment-Monday., seiviee~ iinduding counseling, case. mare fl~gh ~~day~om 9 a.m. until 5p.m: agement, Care teams;"support groups, and - Same.day appointments am0ften po~.sible, .. a.food pantry. " butbe sure tocal1749-4194 to make surea AuguSt. was a briny month at the clinic! counselor will be available. -The-walk-in :. 93p~op!e’were tested and 79. came to get. clinic is still openon Thursday.evenings at ~th~ir ~e~tilts. Clinic-staff and ~i01unteers-. 7 p.m. Please arrive by8:30 tobe tested, to allow time. for the counseling and testing process.’ Results are given between 7 and 9p.m: No appointments a~e needed ~9~r the :evening clinic. : . TOHR’s HIV Testing Clinic welcomes new. employees ClaudettePeterson and De~pkDav~s,:~21a~dette Was hir~ have.been:workingvery ha~’.tokeep up With the d~mand. Claudette’ahd Derrick: givespecifiithanl~s t0~Brian, Connie, Cheryl, Dave~ Definna, Mary, Mercedes, Steve and Tim for ali their efforts: Fifleeri ~eople hhge recently offered to. become~iinie volunteers, and.w~i be tak..... ing the training offered by’ the Oklahoma BENEFIT Septembe~!~hI. I_ynn La~ner.:/ director and has been working in the HIV/ . StateDepartment ofHealtli that will.result Comic...Songwriter.’ii:::~inger,. AIDS arena since 1988. She and.herhus-, in theircertification Os ,testingc0unselors: , ...... ::~:-::~ ~,~;~, band Tim moved to Tulsa ~from.-Mont~ ’. Mri~fraining is scheduled to Start in-_: & " ; -- ~ ..... g0mery~Alabama three years ago: .... November, so anyone interestedin volun- Sandra Gilti Assistant direet0r, Derrick, has, expe.ri- tearing for the clinieshould call Claudette eneeinHIV eounse!ing and testing, and-in orDen’ickat 749-4194. BISEXUAL, LESBIAN AND GAY ISSUES INFORMATION AND REFERRALS Membership Application Name I 4G2A9Y7s ~ Yes I want to be a contributing member of Tulsa Oklahomans .for Human Rights. Please accept p~yment as described below: I-I $10 Lirnited hacome/Stadent Membership Iq $20 Regular Membevzhip I:] $35 Organizational/Household Membership I=1 $100 Sustaining Membership would like to volunteer help with: Iq Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual HelpLine I-I H1V Counselor I-I Executive Board Member I-I Event Planning and Party Preparations I:! Monthly Meeting Support Members’ Representatives Kelly Kirby .................................... President Rie Kirby ........................... 1st Vi~e President Kathleen Golden ............ :.. 2nd Vice President Robert Crow .................................... Secretary .......................................................... Treasurer Owen ........................... HelpLine Coordinator Address City. Phone (optional) I:! Iam~rer~nx~ivingTOHR mailings Make check payable to Tulsa Oklahomans for Ruben Garcia ........... :; Reporter Editor and the TuisaFarnil)~News Human Rights. Donations contributedto TOHRover ..................................... Activities Coordinator Signature I-I lamnotonthemailinglist set raernbersbip "fees are Tax Deductible. . ................................. FundraisingCoordinator By and for but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Communities. Daytime Testing Monday-Thursday by Appointment 749-4194 Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Risihts FREE & ANONYMOUS Finger Stick Method Every Thursday Evening 7:00-8:3’0 p.m. 41 54 S. Harvard Suite H- 1 Tulsa Family News, September-October 1994, page 3 News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News, Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Opposition to UN Cone CAIRO, Egypt- Islamic fundamentalists have allied themselves with the Roman Catholic Church in trying to prevent the UN International Conference on Population & Development from adopting policies that they say would encourage homosexuality, abortion and promiscuity. A spokesman for the allied religious groups, known as the Ad Hoc Coalition for Cairo, asked U.S. officials not to push for proposals-that would "attack religious beliefs onbirth control, abortion and same-sex unions." The So. Baptist Convention’s Christian Life Commission also joined in attacking the Clinton administration. A1-Azhar, an influential center for Islamic studies, also denounced the UN conference which it said promotes the acceptance of homosexuality, extramarital relations, and abortion. Other Islamic leaders have condenmed the conference as "aZionistplot." Death Penalty in TX KERRVILLE, Texas - Donald L. Aldrich, 29, has been found guilty of the brutal murder of Nicholus West, a23 -year-oldgay man, in Tyler, Texas, last November¯ "The death sentence handed down by the jury represents justice in this case," Smith County District Attorney Jack Skeen told the Dallas Morning News . It was a coldblooded, heinous crime. The defendant deserved nothing less than the death sentence~.’’ According topolice, West had been kidnapped in Tyler, taken to a clay pit outside the town where he was stripped, brutally beaten, and shot at least 9 times - including one shotinhis genitals - before being finallykilled by a shot in his head. Henry E. Dunn, 19, and DavidR. McMillan, 18, have also been charged with murdering Westand areawaitmg separate trials. Outrage Over UT Killing SALT LAKE C1TY - Utah gays and lesbians are outraged over Di,s.t&c~,C,o,O1;t,.Judge David S. Y0.’upg s-~nt’encing Of David Nelson~Tl~gket to a mere 6 years in ~,ri~9~ for,.~e killing of a gay man, Douglas Koehler. Protesters outside the state capitol building the day after the ruling demanded Young’s removal from the court. "With clowns on the bench, you get murderers in the streets," Val Mansfield, a gay rights a.ctivist said. "Judge Young ts an embarrassment to the state of Uuda ...". Hate-motivated crimes deserve stiffer sentences not more lenient ones." Members of Koehler’s family agreed. "It’ s a mockery," Koehler’s sister Susan Nelson told the Salt Lake Tribune¯ "It’ s like his life wash’ t worth anything. When you murder someone, you should argued in court that the shooting was accidental. Search for AIDS Czar WASHINGTON - Faced with difficulties in finding a new AIDS policy coordinator, the Clinton administration brought gay tights and AIDS activists to the White House to meet with domestic policy adviser Carol Rasco and acting AIDS policy director Patricia Fleming¯ Activists said that as a result of the meeting, the White House has started its search for a replacement for thepost all over again. According to Daniel Zingale, public policy director with the Human Rights Campaign Fund who attended the White House meeting, the Clinton administration agreed to set up a new working group on AIDS that will include the Justice Dept. in fighting bias. "Discrimination has hampered the battle against AIDS from the very beginning, and continues to hamper education, prevention and research efforts todoy;" Zingale said. "!fwe hope to end the epidemic,’we must also end discrimination ag_ains~ those; most vulnerable to the disease. Discrimination in health care, education, employment-and "...~o$.h€! area~---i.s -~ a..-s¢~ou,s, )"i~.l~.,!diment t~ s~bppiffg ,~IDS." .~i (~ a ti~’ff~li ng ..... ~v~i~e representauves of the National Black Gay & Lesbian the political .content of the program ends. British Soldiers May Go to European Court LONDON - Since 1990 the British Defense Ministry has discharged some 260 military men and women for being homosexual according to informationreleaseby LaborMP Barbara Roche, who got the information from the Defense Ministry, told The Guardian newspaper, "They are treated appallingly, with investigators asking intimate questions and searching their personal belongings¯" Some of the discharged military personnel have said they may take their discrimination complaints to the European Court of Human Rights. Anti-Gay Bias Suit ATLANTA - Ronald Kirkland has filed alawsuit against C~a~rtel Restaurants Inc., charging that he was fired as a chef at the restaurant chain because he is gay and the firm’s management believed-he was infected with HIV or had AIDS and would cost .the chain money .through increased insurance prelmums. Kirkland was fired the day before ]_,.he ~a,s slatedto be enrolled iw -?.~’plan. Ex~employees ,with-the<., chain submitted sworn statements as part of Kirkland’s Leadership ]:orum, National sm" t s~¯.a.,.~3:].ni.g,.. ..t..h..at ,re,stauran, t Lanno Lesman a.no,~~. a&,".a~. : ,4~,=m~:~a,.~n,,ag;,e~.r=s..:~m,~:sc..u-:s:,s-.e.-o.. me_ma_n . s g ¯ ,. " ....... ~ conce s a t. KIV smms Lesb~ Task Force~~~~=.~~. Amenc~ Assn¯ OI rnys~:.~~>~-ne,~0¢~-0..~~, -l~~S_~_C,~e_ forHm~~"gts Gay Bar Ratd M~BOU~E,Am~Mia-~e -~_~A~traua~t° uount Melbo~e poa~ dep~ent’ s ~~~Uouples head of civilian complaints has SYDNEY%~iThe’~ustrahan said he may investigate an Aug. 7 raid on the Commerce Club, a popular gay nightclub, during which 463 patrons were publicly strip-searched for possible drug possession. Only 8 people were charged during the drug raid, on various charges ranging from possession Of illegal drugs to being drunkin public. The police .=,brzg~_n its ,,~v~, - ~hves~_gafion-into ~9~ inc~delji~Q already filer ~omplaia~ .o.j9’~ connection with tile3-1ib~ i~ai~t. Falwell Gets Offensive JACKSONV~I-L.LE, Fla...... Telev~slon stal~a XU3I’L,~:Tg Jacksonville ll’a~ tl~e~It&ie~I ~o pull Jerry Fal,,well &A)34T "me, Gospel Hour off~di~r~for month for focusing~mo~¢~or~ politics thanonreligl;hNi Wdgf picketed the TV st~. Falwell spent a good Oe~ of ume on the show broadcast in what.protesters called criticism of°~f~gi~eht Clinton ~at i~...p~%ed,)~g~y explicit language b3~ the televangelist. A spokesperson government has given the {hum~proposdl,.from the Australiaii"SWakistics Bureau to enumerate sam&sex coup~~s~ families during it~ of the nation. The plan got the approval of the Australian cabinet after lobbying efforts by both gay rights groups and the s.upport of the Anglican Synod. :., ~Attendar~t Sues Airline: .:- ~ DALLAS~7:Ame.fiean;Mrl:mes 7,fl~ight ~t,~qfi,.~t, Jay..Ma,uk_has " sued hls employer and theDall~s football team’ s chartered flights to and from games exclude male attend~m,ts.. M~auk’.s ,lawsuit, Cowboys. ~s~eriraination and~is aski~fot and, that: what .he ~.h.~ges is~ Ame~ncan A~rl~nes ,~ policy be" Cowlloy~ wpt!ld comment~ ~fiean-q~ickty d~eified"thatTii’ °has sue~ a~ poti~y. "~t!o3,,work,on the Dallas,Cowboys’- charter b~cause The suit also claims that when an spend y~.u(, life paying for that I fox~the,stationsaidWTLVmould. American Airlines employee~ murder7 ~" ~liacker.s attorney --air re-runs of the.p~o’grAm tmt~l 2 ~ w~ ]~an~tlgs the charter flights~. - Tul~[~’aTm~[y News, September - O~t~’bdr~1994,--page"4 ~....................................... 7_ ~.7.L was asked about gay flight attendants working on the charters, he was told the Cowboys’ "wouldn’t like that at Gov’t to Intervene in ~ Anti-Sodomy Laws CANBERRA, Australia - The Australian government has agreed to accept a proposal to legalize sodomy in the nation in an effort to override state antisodomy laws in Tasmania that were declared a violation of international human rights by a U.N. commission earlier this year. The move by the federal government to negate the Tasmanian sodomy statutes is likely to be challenged in court. If federal legislation is adopted, it will not, however, remove Tasmania’s anti-sodomy laws directly since that island-state has refused to repeal its statutes. City Outlaws Kisses ANKARA, Turkey - The Reuters news service has reported that the southern Turkish city of Adana has outlawed, public-kissing by men as-unsanitary, The city has not, however, banned men kissing women or women kissing other women, and Eker offered no explanation of how these other kis~s:-would be h~genic while onl~= .iiiale,mate ’kisses were considered unsanitary. Episcopal Bishops Give Mixed Signals INDIANAPOLIS - The bishops of the nation’ s Episcopal Church tried - with~ mixed-results - to dealwith homosexuali~ during its national convention. A document issued by the bishops says that "lifelong, monogamous, heterosexual unions between husbands and wives" is the standard of the church’s teachings. But the document/which has been in the works since 1991, also urges the church to "respond pastorally to those persons whose sexual behavior does not conform" to its standards. Confusing the issue further, the bishops voted to change the proposal from a ’~pa~torkl:t~hdhih~?~ to simply~a . study documen Under pressure-fro~m"a group" ~ ~6~seNativelbishops, h0wewr( ~ the conference wenteven further "aifd ffd6lStEd ~ companion document that says homosexuality "cannot be ~¢On~oned by the church" and ~E~’. s~-~X relationships "a denial of God’ s plan." .3:~t~late Retracts "Joke" ¯;, BUENOS AIRES - Cardinal : Ant onto Quarracino, 7 ~gentina’s leading Catholic 74Jrelate, said his suggestion ’.2{Furing a television interview that homosexuals were "an ignoble ¯stain [on] the face of society" and shoutdbe put in their own giae~{o,-~ayshis remarks were "a joke, something thatjust crossed my mind¯" Quarracino told reporters later th~it he was sorry.. if he "offended anyone, ff I hurt someone’s sensitivities." During an TV interview earlier, Quarracinosaidgays andlesbians should be have "alarge area.., to live in, with theirownlaws, their own media and even their own constitution."Gaytights activists in the country have threatened to suetheCardinal overhis remarks. Quarracino said he thought people "had a better sense of humor." Oregon Ballot Measure to Go Before Voters SALEM, Ore. - The Oregon state Court of Appeals has unanimously overturned a lower ruling against a proposed statewide anti-gay ballot measure, clearing theway for the initiative to go on the November ballot. Earlier this year a lower court had ruled the proposed measure- violated state constitutional restrictions against restricting voterinitiatives to only 1 issuein eachproposedmeasure. Proposition 13, a revised version ofa statewidemeasure than failed to get voter approval in 1992, would repeal exisdng gay rights measures throughout Oregon, would bar any such legislation or ordinances in the furore, and would restrict access to educational and library informationabouthomosexuality to adults only. Opponents of the anti-gay initiative say they will not appeal the ruling to the state Supreme Court. Cobb Cty. GA Rally MARIETTA, Ga. - Commemorating the first anniversary _ of the Cobb County (Ga.) Commission’s adoption of a resolution condemning "the gay lifestyle," hundreds of gays, lesbians and supporters rallied in the town square to mark the date with a protest¯ Estimates of the number of people attending ranged from 1,000 to 5,000 people. Some 200 police officers were on duty during the protest and rally. Law enforcement officials called it the most peaceful protest in more than a year. Seattle Dom..Partners SEATTLE- On Tuesday, Sept¯ 6¢ Seattle formally .began allowing unmarried same-sex and opposite-sex COul~les to register as domestic partners. Some 70 couples showed up when the city clerk’s office opened Tuesday morning to pay $25 each to register the relationship¯ The partners registration extends no legal benefits to couples. IdahoAnti-Gay Measure BOISE, Idaho- Several hundred people joined Idaho Gov. Cecil Andrus in officially launching a campaign against Prop. 1, an andgay initiative that will go before the voters this November¯ "We reject hatred whenever and wherever it appears, and it appears," Gov. Andrus said at the rally at the state capitol. Saturday, 1994. Check-in, .9 am. ~Walk begins at.lO am. ~..~. Veteran’s Park 18th-& Boulder Avenue Benefiting non-profit (501(c)3) HIVIAIDS care-giving agencies:Indian Health Care Resource Center Clinic, Parents and Friends ofLesbians and Gays (PFLAG)~ Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), Visiting Nurse Association ofTulsa, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN), Multicultural AIDS Coalition, Interfaith AIDS Ministriesl NAMES Project Tulsa Area, Hospice of Green Country, HIV Resource Consortium, Saint Joseph Residence, and SHANTI-Tulsa. ~DS~walk Tulsa Benefits Bad Bbyz - S.eptember 18; 10 pm Lola’s -.September 24, 10:30 pm Renegades ~ October 1, 11 pm Silver Star - October 7, 11 pm Metropole-October 12, 10 pm Alley- October 16, 9 pmAfter Walk Party For more information, call Walk 94 at 9-18 587 7222. Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 5 Southwest A viatical company now open right here in Tulsa. y:u are considering selling your~life insurance are in busineSs~t0 helpy0u: receiVe the highest amount in the best, quickest, most ~Confidential manner possible. A Quality ofLife Alternative Southwest 2919 Welborn Dallas, Texas 7521,9 800/559-4790 E. 41 st St. Suite F-5 Tulsa Office 4146 So. Harvard, Suite F,5 Tulsa, OK 74135-2610 -918-747-3320 Tulsa Farm~l~d~#, September -Octobek I994, page 6 Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs A Profile of HIV in OK’s Gay Communities by Alan G. Nyitray~ MS "It’s important that we look at the Oklahoma Gay community as a collection of many smaller communities like African American Gay men, Hispamc! Latino Gay men, Lesbian and G~y youth, rural Gay peop!e, etc. Each of these smaller communities have their own issue that must be specifically addressed; There is no one monolithic Gay community," concludes Nyitmy in a summary of findings done by the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health. These materials were compiled for the use of the HIV Community Planning Group (CPG). The CPG is a new, federally mandated body that is hoped .will provide more community input into state HIV prevention efforts. These f’mdings indicate that in Oklahoma, African-American Gay and Bisexual men have’an estimated rate of AIDS that is twice as high as thatofCaucasian Gay and Bisexual men~, The following rates a~e fofGay and Bisexual males with AIDS: African-Americans, 39 per 1000 population, Hispanics/Latinos, 29-:per 1000 pop., Caucasians, 221i per 1000 pop., Native American~, 18 per 1000 pop., and Asians/Pacific Islanders, 3 per 1000 pop. This AIDS rate is estimated assuming 6% of each race/ethnieity is Gay or Bisexual. Nyitray, whois Gay &Lesbian Outreach .Co-ordinator of the HIV/STD Service for the State Dept. of Health, concludes that the higher rates of AIDS in Gay and Bisexual men of color show that HIV prevention efforts must be improved in communities of color. "Just as Gay people riced their own specific.~iHIV.. prevention message apart..from heterosexuals, smaller .Gay communities with in the Iarger Gay community need.their ow.n messages and projects. OneHIV preventionmessageforthe whole Oklahoma Gay community does not even come close to meeting our needs." Otherissues identified in these f’mdings are: public health researchers have never determined the true rate of :.HIV infectionforanyOklahomabasedGay, Lesbian or Bisexual €~mmunity~nor hav~ there bee~ any random-based study to measure the HIV-related knowledge, attitudes, behaviors or;beliefs ofGay men~Bisex_uals or Lesbians inOklahoma, though these sorts of studies have been -successful elsewhere;~ .., ~ .~ ~ Other observations ar~........... there are at least 114,000 Gay, Oklahomans between the ages of 18 to 65basedon6% ofgeneral population, with an assumption of a higher percentage in urban areas and a lower one in rural ones; if 8% of Tulsa and Oklahoma City metro area population are Gay or Bisexual males, then about 20% are likely infected with HIV. Men of color with AIDS are more often Gay and Bisexual rather thanheteros.exualinjeetion ’drUg users as ts commonly believed. Gay men of color are lesslikely to have had an HIV antibody testthanCaucasianGay ¯ men. Gay/Bi men under age 25 are significantly more likely to say that they did not use a condom in anal sex with a casual partner than men older than 25. In larger urban areas outside Oklahoma, Gay/Bi young men have HIV infection rates estimated at 10~ 30%. While Oklahoma’s Gay and Bisexual male populations have rarely been ~tudied,. Lesbians .....hav~nignbred~althou~h iiife¢fion occurs in this .group and no prevention projects have directly addressed Lesbians.., ....Formoreinf0~aaonc~Nlan Nyitray at405-2714636 or write .,HIV/STD Service, OK Sta.te ~ fOO6NE 16di’s~ oKC, ~731 i~/- 1299. LIFEGUARD Proj~ect The LIFEGUARD project is coming to Tulsa. This project was originally developed in Los Angeles, California, and had been adapted to fit the needs of Tulsans. LIFEGUARD is a series of four meetings, dealing .with differentaspect~ of HIV disease~ The meetings are free and are de~ignddes~allyfor Gay and. ~i~fial?. high-’of all: age~ :find color. The meetings will be held in voluntc~s~l~_m.cs through~0u.t Tulsa on wednesday evedings and will provide an excellent environmentfor meeting. Places and times are availableby calling Brian Jackson at 584-4983, The four meetings are: October 5, HEAT: HIV. Education And Treatmefit, a medical overview focusing on living healthily with HIV for those who are seropositive and negative, ~fe issues such_as. ~rdl~tidn~liiiis a~discuss~by participants. October 12, SAND: Sex And Nineties Dating, a fun._.and= :e~pel-i~nfiid~m~efiiag desigixbl. examine our personal .goals and objectives in dating. Exploring - -! s0me:;.0fith~issues of da~t~ing the age of AIDS. October 19, SEA: Self Esteem Les.b~an and Bisexual designed to acknowledge and celebrate yourself. We will~ explore Gay identity and develop strategies to confront anti-Gay hostilities, both internal and external. October 26, SWIM: Sex With Intimacy for Men, this meeting, held in an auditorium rather than a home, brings together 30 to 50 men to discuss and celebrate the many safer and sexy options available to Gay men today and’ help develop skills in increasing you own~sexual satisfaction. ~. For more information, call 584-4983. Being Aware Support Group Support Services announces the return of the Being Aware rap group for the fall &-winter seasons. The group will meet. every week at 7 pm at 2440 East 51st, Suite BS. The next meeting will,be Monday, September19. _ Being Aware is degigned to meet the needs,of pedple living withHIV/AIDS and thosepcople dealing-, with.the AIDS crisis. This.is,~ a drop,in groupi:open to allpcople regardless of race, age of sexual expression. :Being’Aware is facilitated by ~William Brnder, certified HIV/ AIDS test.counselor/educator/ activist, and JeffMartin, Masters Level Counselor/Activist. For and Attitudos,.-.this meeti,n.~g is moreinformation, cal1742-3520. ~’~ ~ Jeffery A. Beal,-MD Ted Campbell,.LCSW Ginny Buffer; RN MS Specialized in HIV Care Clinical Trials* now Open for Treatment of HIV Disease and Related Infections _Nevirapipe...HIV Treatment Oral Vs. IV Ganciclovir...CMV Retinitis Treatment Zithromax-Biaxin-Ethambutol...MAC Treatment Providing Comprehesive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic ~ervices We have many insurance provider affiliations - ifyou be~long to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 1560 East 21st Street, Suite 210 Monday. Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 *must meet inclusion & exclusion criteria. For mo~e information, call 918-743-1000, ext. ’HIV’ between 10am - 4pm. To receive more information about new clinical trials as they are available, send your name & address to: Jeffrey Beal, M.D. 1560 E. 21st St, Ste. 210 Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Family N.ews~ September - October 1994, page 7 presents... ’.:HIV Education Treatment \~// _ (of 14). I’m not convinced that the culture mad prejudice is that different here. The difference is that in Texas, Lesbians & Gay men have been involved in politics and have demanded better treatment. Here we’re too busy being grateful for getting only one kick in the pants instead of two. As long as we don’t demand more of our politicians, we’re not going to get more. In many cases, we still may not get what we wantbut at least wecanmake an informed decision. Most social change in this country, this state, and this city did not come from well connected minority folks working their inside connections. It was the ones with inside connections, the AdamClaytonPowells whowere telling Dr. King, "son, you’re going too fast..." Social change has come from those who were pushy, who said, "sorry we’re not going to accep,t, what you’re trying to do to us. Ada Louise Sipuel Fisher, Thurgood Marshall and the NAACP pushed OU towards desegregation. Joe Williams and others with the NAACP forced Tulsa out of its racist city commission form of government. They may have been polite but~y weren’tjust ahoma politicians are going to try to avoid talking with us, about us mad our issues as long as we allow them to get away with doing so. Tulsa Family News will do all we can to shame, cajole or persuade Oklalaoma politicians into upholding basic American values of fairness, honesty and respect for all citizens. Accordingly, Tulsa Family News ~s withdrawing its endorsement of Jack Mildren. We cannot recommend either Mildren or Shedfick. We find them to be both cowardly and less than honest. Repeatedly, we’ve been told that Shedrick "does not have a bigoted bone in herbody."Webeen told Mildren believes in fairness. Well, this Gay man says start proving to our comnmnity that you stand for something other than only getting yourselfelected or taking our money. The winner ofthe Detnocratic runoff election (September 20) will face Frank Keating, Republican nominee on November 8.. Meanwhile, media observers may wonder where the "mainstream" media has been in covering minority issues, including Lesbian~:and Gay issues, in this campaign. The Tulsa Woddhardl~,.~ms to make any connection between local issues concerning Lesbian and Gay Tulsans and the We do honor Chuck Ervin (State Capitol) and Jim Myers (DC burean) for asking a hard question or two but wonder when the rest of them will get it? Then there’s television. The same stations that cover local Lesbian and Gay issues fairly well are as bad as theTulsaWorld on state and federal issues. Could it be that the tv stations did not ask aboutLesbian andGayissues in the tv debates because of well documented anti-Gay bias of some news people? Maybe they believe that if they don’t talk about us, we’lljust go away. I’m not. Youknow you can call these folks up and tell them you’ re not happy with their coverage. We do. We hope you will too. Conf, cont’dfrom p.l and Gays from other faith traditions. Nancy Day, executive director of the Tulsa chapter of the National Conference indicated that the office had not tried to involve local Lesbian/ Gay congregations or organizations. Other organizers apologized for the lack of inclusion and promised to investigate making last minute changes to the programming. Also atpress time, organizers could not ’verify whether workshop presenters would address tbe anti-Gay aspects of the Holocaust. For more information, call 5846116. L IIII I II__L I I li~ I I Illl OKs Only IGTA Affifiate(ln~1 Gay Travel Assoc.) "No" Service Charge 91~.~41-6866 New York Film Festival, NYC 9/23-10/9 " ." ’" Lone Star Women,s Music Festival, Texas Sonora Bay Women’s Week, Mexico 10/1‘8~ ’"~ ~ Gay & Lesbian Scuba Jamboree, Cozumel 10/1-8 ~bian Cruise, G~n¢lslands 10/2-8 Lost in Vegas, Las Vegas, Nevada 10/7-9 W~,s ¢ek, ProvincetownlO/12-17 K¢y Wea Fantasy Fest 10/31 New Orleans Halloween 10/31 Puerto Vallarta RSVP Vacation 11/5-12 Food & Wine Weekend, Provincetown H/11-14, man more Family orient vacat,on$. Friends seeking Friends College grad, 23, 6’ 1751bs. new to Tulsa, seeks friends with humor and self-esteem. Clean-cut, straight-acting, Christian wishes to meet Christian or moral, straight-acting, non-smokers, no. 44600, To respond to this ad, call 900-230-0027 $1.59/min. aver. 3 rain. Fall into a Relationship this Autumn Cool, crisp days, awash with color. Walking though piles of fallen leaves. Is this your ideal of fall? Well there are people who feel the same way, reading ads in Friends & Lovers. But, like you, they’ve had trouble finding someone who shares their interests. That’s where we come in. Y6U n~ay place an ad of 30 words or less for a month free. After you mail your ad to TFN by the first of the month, you will be assigned a voice mail box in which you can leave a message to which other readers can respond. Leaving messages or listening to responses costs $1.59/ minute. You must provide your name, address and day & evening phone numbers. This information is completely confidential. Categories are: friends seeking friends, women seeking women, & men seeking men. Ads containing sexually explicit/implidt/anatomical language will not be accepted. Tulsa Family News reserves the right to edit or reject any advertisement. Ads may be submitted for publication’ only by per~_ns 18 years of age or older. No ads will be p.ublished seeking persons under 18. Tulsa F_amiJ_¥ News assumes no liability for the content or reply [or any personal ad. The customer placing the ad assumes complete lhbility and holdsTulsa Family Newsharmless forall cost, expel.. (induding attorneys fees), liabilities and damages resulling from or caused by the publication or recording placed by the a~verliser or _any reply ~any sitch ailvertisement. By using Tulsa Family News Personal Service thec~placing the ad agrees not to leave his/her phone numbs, last name ~addiess inhis/her 018i 747-9506 Fax 1918) 747-1154 4308 South Peoria ~tha, OK 74105-980~ Because everyone has a right to be blessed by God! ~-0~J~l, message phone. Eddie Coo.k, past~r Mini Blinds 70% off" Tulsa Family News, September = Oc~!~¢r J~894, page 9 NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS JACL cont’dfrom p. 1 Congressman appealed to the groups to approve the resolution endorsing equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians, which passed by a 50-38 vote with 11 abstentions. The proposal caused serious dissensions in the 65-year:old, 24,000-member JACL. Allen Kato, JACL’s legal counsel, resigned m protest over the proposal which he .called "morally wrong." Bill Hosokawa, a former _Denver Post_ editorial page editor wrote a column in JACL’s weekly publication saying that "JACL established ~i proud record that includes adv~acy for all. But now it has gone .beyond that, choosing;, arole,on..the cutting edge of t~e~litanthUmanrights moveme~(," ~, ~Former JACL chap te rlf ~i~ie~.s,i.d~n t s Tak Yamam6(6 i~.fid.~fi~ Yaniamoto rand formei; JACL staffer Lia Shigemura,~e,,0ut during the months:l.0ni~i~d~fiate, over the resolufioi~ arid: all~ addressed the conventi~ox~.tf.-app~al for its adoption/.,,.M,~religious leaders,~"Ec~’li’ a~" the Rev. Joan Ishibashi’ ~iUnited Church of Chris-ili~ :~olidu and the Rev. M~?~agawa of same-sex nim-ri~ag~;~gesblu_fi0n - as did ~/~’ cau.c.~s, the.As~iation the National Asian Pacific American Legal Consortium. U.S. Rep. Norman Mineta wrote in a letter to JACL: "Where would we be today if the NAACP,or the National Council ~of La Raza, or the Anti- Defamation League of B’nai Brith, or the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, had taken the position that redress was a Japanese American issue - and had nothing to do with African Americans, HispanicAmericans, Jews or gay and lesbian Americans? These organizations, and their members;joined us because they unders~c~i believed in;our argument-that a threat: t~ the civil fights 6f AmeriCanis a threat ito the civil rights Of all Americans.;’- Hate .crimes cont’dfrdOip; 1 Human Rights Campaign Fundsaid~ "This is the;first ~tim~ Congress has acted to ~punisli violeiac¢ against lesbians andgay men tlLrough stiffer periiiltie~ f0f hate crim~s, The inclusion of disability aiid gender, aloi~g with sexual brientation; sendS a message to loc;al law enforcement agencies’ that the federal gfvemment is about g@~bashing:..""The full hate~esbill passed the Senateon a 61=38 vote. President Chnton is-expected to s~gfithe bill into law. Studies cont’dfrom p. 1 indicates that gay men and lesbians, contrary to other findings and popular myth, earn considerably less than their heterosexual co-workers. One study, presented at the annual meeting of. the American Statistical Association in Toronto, indicated that 10% of American men and 6.4% of U.S, women have had sex with a member of the same’sex at least once during their lifetimes. The study also:found that more than 18% Of males and over 17% of females said they.had ~ither had sex with or had felt sexually, attracted.to:someone Of the Sam~’ sex - or both,- duriiigtheir lives. In additi0fi, the Study~also foimd tha~4:l% of’m~n arid 2:3% Of" women in this Cfuntry said they had’ dulyiiad same:s:ek relatio~~. during their fives.~ AnOtherStud~; by ~/~ unive"r~itybf:Mafyland are l~sing money just for being gay.’ Earliermarketing reseaich surveys have suggested that gay couples earn $56,000 to$63,006 annually, ~ompared with the national average ofjust $36,500. According to the study’s findings, gaymen aremorelikely to hold professional jobs, but they areless likely to bepromoted into managerial ranks, thereby eontributing to their overall lower income levels. While 1’7.9% of heterosexual men surveyed were managers, only 12.8% .of the gay men were. Navy. cont’dfrom p. 1 rational reason for its anti-gay policies. The appellate court ruling upheld the reinstatement order, but did not deal.with the issi~of the military ban’s constitutionality: .There was speculation that because the appeals .court only applies to Meinhold’S reinstatement and does not challenge the researcher, found that gay men’", c0nstitutiooality of the ban itself make 11% :t6 27% less than the government may not appeal hete-rosexu’al males in thedecisiontotheU.S.Supreme comparablejob~. Lesbians, the .. Court.’The Jnsdce Dept. would researchers found2earn ~% to- " onJysay that the decision was 14%lessthatl -heterosexual femaleS. "Lesbians’ men are experiengi.ng.’discrimiuation fliat ’ actually hurts them -ec0nomically," said Lee- Badg.ett; a:’Univ~rsity. of Maryl~d e~01iomi’c~’ pro~essor, - and ao:tli6r of!the’smdy;:’*They being reviewed. NGLTF. - cont’dfrom p. 1 organization will launch a nari.on’al~search,, for ~ a new Lavner cont’dfrom p. 1 Zinc and New York’s Eighty- Eights to colleges and community centers to MCC’s in Wichita and Sarasota, the 25th anniversary of the National Organization ofWomen and the International Mr. Leather contest. Ms. Lavner typically performs in black leather. Sandra Gillis is the executive director of PFLAG’s national. organization. According to !ocal co-organizer, Nancy McDonald, Ms. Gillis will not be performing in leather, black or otherwise but: will be giving an update on the substantial efforts of PFLAG to fight discrimination basedon sexual orientation. Patrons may attend a private dinner with Lavner & Gillis, a special reception and the gerformance with a donation of 100 for two persons. A sponsor ticket for the reception and performance is $50-for two, Tickets for the performanceare $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Tickets and information is available at Tomfoolery! or by calling 747-4125 or 742-8565. Change . cont’dfrom p. ! ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’" and "Legislating Against Violence.," For further information, contact Sue Hyde at (61"7) 492-639~/.... $I6,049 Y WANN MITSUBISHI The New Thinking in Automobile~" Had credit )roblems in the )ast? 800 apl!~intment. 810 S.~incinnati Suite 100 .~.’~u!~a; Okla 74119 Sandra.J. Hill, M.S. Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation Sensitive to the Challenges of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgen~lered Individuals, ¯ " r :~: Couples & Families, 1 11 2865 E.-Skelly .Drive, Ste. 215; 745-. 1 "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" ,-: Tulsa Family News, September- October 1994, page 10 T H E Planner Leanne Gross. Mapping Your Financial Road to Retirement by Leaane M. Gross Most people look upon retirement as a happy exchange of activities: playing golf, visiting friends and family, siting by the pool, traveling the world, or simply lazing the days away in some pleasant climate. And yet, a growing record of. dashed hopes casts a shadow across the expectation of untroubled days. Stories abound of retirees adrift without a chart of daily obligations to direct them: They haven’t posed these questions about retirement that they’ve routinely answered "G A Y Where do I want to be? How do I want to live? More serious, as a survey by financial services giant Merrill Lynch shows, is the substantial gap between what people expect to afford in their retirement and what their retirementincome will actually enable them to afford. They haven’t answered the most important question. What will my retirement income be? To answer that question, experts in the field agree the place to start is the income every employed person will have: Social Security retirement benefits.. Until August 1988, the odds of your getting a satisfactory answer were about as good as beating a sidewalk gambler at three-card Monte. Since then, under a Social Security Administration program calledPEBES (Personal Earnings and Benefit Estimate Statemen0, you can have an answer in a couple of weeks. Call 8001937-2000, request form SSA-7004, complete itandreturn it. The information you receive will include your-estimated monthly retirement, benefits basedon your projected earnings and the age at which you expect to reure. Be prepared for a shock., your during their working years:. .. PEBES will most likely show .What do I want tq do wi~,m~i:: :( fliatS~al Seeurity-~even ffyou time and my life? ~ :" " " "..~ mad y~employer(s) contribute L ..... I F E S T Y L E to it for 40 years and you work don’t buy until you’re satisfied past 65-- will hardly meet basic this is what you need. living expenses. First Rule: Start your planning Uncle Sam has not deceived early. It takes from 20 to 25 you. Social Security is not a years to implement a successful pension, and was never intended retirement plan. Unless you have to be a pension, although that is major amounts to contribute to a. common assumption. Its the fund; however, some objective, zs to replace part of retirement savings m better-than the income that individuals and none in any case. their families lose, when they During those years, you’ll be . retire, become severely disabled, building assets that will provide or die. You should consider your retirement income, even under Social Security and company severeinflationarypressures, and pension benefits a "retirement ensure your security and that of paycheck", using this to your survivors, m the event of determine the incomeyou’ll need health or other emergencies. to finance the retirement you You’ll set the process in want. motion by giving the planner a What is your next move? meticulous account of your The same action you take to.. present income and expenses, prepare for a home purchase, or. your total assets and liabilities, a vacation, or a child’s college, plus incomeyou expect toearn education. You must plan. ...... after retirement-along with the The only difference is that this year you intend to retire and the is long:range.Pl~ng that.will annU~il retirement income you pay a co~mm~anding role i~a your want to have. life for. many.y.e~s~. .. : ........ ..~ Afte_r analyzing, this But.a retirement .p!an, like a informa’d0~’. ~he pl~e!~...w~ll tailored suit, should fit. you propose ~a:ys¯ you can manage perfectly. Few ~people other than your current earnings andassets fiscal, e~per~s have the time or so they Will"yield the r~xiui~ed saw;y to €onstruEi. such a piah, . incrm~ when you retire, q’his]s, and you’ll ..probable need essentially,, a long-range professional help. ¯ " in~;~stmeiat program bUii~,iin There’ s plenty available. Most mo~t eXtses,.onsi~me form0f ~xlarge banks, insurance free.annuity or other h~dged companies, investment houses investment that will make the and accounting firms offer most of the resources you can retirement planning. Pick a dedicate to it. quality instituti.on, ask questions, ’ T.he :p~an, :wpically, will_ also sketch the impact of different econon~ic scenarios high/low stable interest rates, high/low stable inflation, recession growth/depression- on vour rettrement~ncome. The complete plan will be a road map to your retirement security. However you dev~lop your plan, on your own or with experienced help, you can count on it requiring investment of time and personal resources. But never doubt that it’s worth every hour, every dollar you devote to it. As I always say: "People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan." Leanne M. Gross is a member of the Rainbow Business Guild, a Tulsa non-profit organization. Boy George Paternity ? LONDON - To the SUrlY,rise of virtually no one,iaB.fitish court has tossed out a ~i~fl claim by a woman in the. U.S°.iWho had charged that,.openly gay pop singer Boy Ge01ge.h~igl ~athered her 7-year-old~oiX:Th~~ed woman filedttie"aUit i~t~-t: year, but the court dis~ssed:the case when it was told tile ~vbman had not been heard:i~rO~ ~i:~ then. Boy George s~d Of:th~ w~oman’ s claims that he haffnever had sex with a woman~ M8 !ifeand that therefore the birthmust have been "a miracle." 496-2410, 800-336-3524 Homes change with the times..: munic~ting withith’eir corn: parties via fax"modems. .Homes With two offices~will ~o~ ~ unusuat. Hou~ho[d size is shrinking and the number of -householders will increase nearly 20e~ this d~ade. At [he same [im~ mallv households are expanding to dude grandparents, .~dult children, or both. That calls for flexible floor plans, and more accessory units ~ selfcontained "apartments"" within homes. Dining rooms mav be going the way of sculleries and ~pus rooms¯ ~me builders are.eliminating them in favor of more spacious eating areas open to family rooms. The National Association of Home Builders recenflv surveved industry watchers, futurist~,..and feading-edg~ builders to find out how new technology and changing demographics will be changing our homes. Here’s what they found. There will be more media rooms and larger family rooms because ot increasing sales ofbig-screen TVs. Many Upscale, homes are being built with complete home theaters. For buyers and sellers If you’re a buver remember that all the lates( improven~ents don’t mean a thing unless vou really like what you buy. The home should fit’your requirements.° If you’re a seller, keep tn mind that - Many hgflae~ already have office op- there are buvers who will "decide ~that tions -- dens or extra bedrooms that can your home i~ exactly what they want. be used as home offices. But the trend is Putting buyers a~d sellers t~geth~er is ac6elerating. Bv theyear 2001, 70% of all. our job. Call us to learn how w~.can homes are expected to have computers guide you to success. Thei-e’s as more ,peopte-.work at home, com~.......obligation for a meeting. - ...... ¯ .................................................................................................~;-,~4--.-~.~- ......’:~.~.,,,Tulsa Family~ews, September - 6CtOb’~’~’:"179~),~i pcige 11 ). T H E AiDS Info-Line Interfaith AIDS Ministries has added a 918 area code 800 number (800-284-2437) to provide greater access to HIV/ AIDS information throughout eastern Oklahoma. As the State of Oklahoma AIDS information line is still inoperative, this is the only 24 hour, 7 day a week information source. Interfaith ¯AIDS Ministries also is seeking volunteers for the information line. Volunteers work from their homes as calls are forwarded from the Interfaith AIDS Ministries number. This phone line is the only 24 hour a day source of HIV/AIDS information and referrals in the 918 area code. Volunteers are asked to consider donating a 3-4 hour block of time at least one evening a week. Night owls would be especially welcome for late shifts. Training on HIV issues will be provided and typically requires about 4 hours and is conducted one on one. Another 2 hours on phone line protocals and crisis training is also provided. For more information or to volunteer, call Interfaith AIDS Ministries at 438-2437 or 800- 284-2437. Family of Faith-,~iOij g ~!~;ii~it’ ~y Family of Faith MCC, formerly of Jenks, celebrated a 5 year birthday on Septembe:~;9; The church, now located at 5,L51- E South Mingo, had a dat~ee party on Saturday the 10th to commemorate the e~,ent. The celebration confiiiu’ed:wthS~ an inspimfi6nal praiseland"~Vorsliip celbrafion.on the 1 lth. Church members were pleased to h~ve former Pastors Crocker and Fink back in Tulsa for the celebration. Five years ago, Pastors Pam Crocker and Marian Fink started" Family of Faith from a renta!:~ location in Broken Arrow. From the location in Broken Arrow, the church moved to a more permanent location in Jenks, and more recently to its present especially welcome. of Prayer fo r For more information, write TBE, POB 3502, Tulsa, OK Persons t-,v,nu 74101 or call 446-7883 or 587- with HIV/AIDS 1658. location in Tulsa proper. Family of Faitli has grown~ ,-:~" Saint Afdan’s Episcopal from an hfitial membership of 3 Church will host Tulsa’s to 4 to a membership of over 50. Programming at the church includes a support .group for codependency, a ch0ii’; a w~kly Bible .study, and many other acdvities. _ mmmmm|mm|||mnmmmmim|||||m||mm|mm| Puppy-.Pause II- | U | m ¯ ¯ U n| |m ¯ |¯m m F E S T &. :~Body,~., Electric I n t e g r i t YannoTuhneTcuelssaBaodwyoErlkecsthroicpgroaunpd -°~.C~aP°_Ga,~, &~"_~.~.s:bi~a!~:~~-~.~.etreat;.’!Celebrating the Body -:,LT~nistry ~t the Ro~an!!Ggtholi¢., :Eleclfic’~ to be held October 22 ;(::~Epi~s_~,.pa~C~h~i?.~-" :: :’.i: :& 23. Tl~is will be the only D/I WilI celebrate an Episcopal ...... ~’Midw~st site for a Body Electric mass at its Saturday, October 8th workshop in 1994. ~ i~mee~..ng, ~-at2.~Pm:2’ a~.~ Sai~..t ....... !~n". t_.h.e: !~ork~hop, each .;Z(~:u.ns,~a~. s)~9~l qhurch,~.... ~.~(tic~p.ant -ie~;-/(o give and SamtDunstan s ~sl0cated on the:÷-; ~r~cfii~( fi (6rnplet~ : Taoist north side of 71st Street between massage. Because of the healing Yale & Sheridan. All are natures of Eastern approaches to welcome, including non- erotic energy, men living with denominatibnal believers, HIV and in recovery from -N:aii0nai- :o "- s.U,tan o aUuse, mooa aoa .~. y.~ behavior addictions are All Breeds Dog Grooming llth & Mingo, 838-7626 Open Tuesday - Saturday at &am. Call for Appointments Walk-ins Also Welcome. mm.m m m m m | i m | | mm | m | m ¯ m.mn mm m mmml mmm m m | ¯| ¯ ¯ ¯ u || | | Y L E Prime limers Prime Timers, a social nonprofit organization for Gay men over 40, will hold its monthly meeting on Saturday, September 17 with social and business segment at 2 pm and with a presentatmn at 3 pro. John Denny, past president of the Tulsa Geneological S ociety will speak about tracing your ancestry at the Gathering Room at 4154 So. Harvard, Ste. H-l, Basement Level Room. In October, the organization will return to its regular s_chedule with a meeting on October 1st. Tom Neal, publisher of Tulsa Family News will speak about the newspaper and the community. observance of a national day of prayer for persons living with HIV and. AIDS on. Sunday, October3at3 pm. The Presiding Bishop of Episcopal Church USAhas called all Episcopalians to this observance though all are welcome. Saint Aidan’s is located at 4045 North Cincinnati. The vicar is the Reverend Gall Keeny -Mulligan. Tulsa city-county Library 9/20 " Tulsa City-County Library Commission, noon, Owasso Library, 103 W. Broadway. 9/21 An English Country Garden: a Potpourri of English Songs, noon, Aaronson Auditorium, Central Lib: 4th & Denver. 9/28 Liebeslieder Waltzes, noon, Aaronson Auditorium, Central Lib. 4th & ~Denver. 10/18 Tuls¯ City-County Library Commission, noon, Central Lib. 4th & Denver. 10/27 Parent Connection, AIDS Awareness for Parents, 7pm, Owasso Library, 103 W. Broadway. FIRST FRA~IN FINANCIAL. Bob Hardy Pager: 628-8745 Brady Heights 2 & 3 Bedroom .... Apartments Small Complex Great Gay Area Close to UCT -TJC, Downtown Water paid $285-325 918’582-8608 Dart Tournament, Tues. 8pro - Pool Tournament, Fri. 7:30 2630 East 15th Every Friday at 11, SHOW[ 749-1563, 4-2 m, M-Sun. Mr. Tulsa Leather 9/1% lOpm Parking at Massad~s Miss Ul~r Cherry St. Pageant 10/8 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Fine Jewelry Watch & Jewelry Repair 4649 South Peoria, 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday Shop Where You AreAppreciated! Kelly Kirby Certified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations, whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities " with sensitive &timely information. 747-5466, POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 SALON WINFCOPA ’Ross Folsom Hairdesigner Color Technician Lincoln Plaza 1310 E. 15th St. 583:1500 Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 12 FALL BENEFIT CONCERT Benefitting TOHR & PFLAG~ FEATURING LYNN LAVNER Comic...~ongwriter..;Singer H E G A Y L I F E S T Y L E Tulsa Family News Survey In order to find out more about the needs of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered Tulsans, Tulsa Family News has constructed the following survey We would appreciate your cooperation in this effort. Please complete the survey and return it to P.O. Box 4140, Tulsa, OK74159 or drop your completed survey by Tomfoolery! at 1565 South Sheridan (in the Silver Star Saloon) Thursday thru Sunday from 9:30 p.m. until 12:00 am on Thurs. & Sun. and till 2 am on Fri. & Sat. As this is the first such survey we’ ve done for the Tulsa area, we would appreciate any comments or suggestions you might have. Please circle or fill in the appropriate response. The voluntee~ information at the end may be sent separatdy in order to protect the privacy of your answers. PART I, ABOUT YOU Age: Gender: How do you identify yourself? Gay. ~sbian Bisexual;,;+ Heterosexiad Other~specify)~. Whi~K!~.~.i~the following Tulsa organizations are you affiliaied!,~ithi? ~ TOHRo:,+ TU GLBA Prime Timers. How often do you go to a "cultural!’ event,opera, conEert, - etc: Every six months Every three months More Frequently Less Frequently How many books have you read in the last three months’? How often do you read Tulsa Family News? Every Month Occasionally Every Other Month First Time Reader What other Gay papers/publications do you read? The GaylyiOklahoman The Advocate Tulsa.N~s Out Genre Denueve Other R~gional Publication (Specify): Pleage"rank each of the :following interest segments " . :: according to importance (5 is~ the highest ranking) Faith Community (MCC, Dignity, etc.) TJC GLAS Women’ s Alternative PFLAG Other (specify): Are you a r~gistered voter? If so, what is your party affiliation? Republican Independent Democrat Other (specify): Education: High School Some College BA MA PhD Political News 1234,5 Income level: Social News Medical/HIV/AIDS News 1.2345.... 12345 Religions News Tulsa Community News Oklahoma News National News Editorial Letters to the FAitor 12345 12345 12345 12345 ~.~12345 12345 ..... TOHR Reporter Advertisements 12345 12345 Other (specify) 12 3 4 5 How can Tulsa Family News better meet your needs for news/issues of interest? " Less than 15,000 15-20,000 20-30,000 30-50,000 50,000 + Own or rent? PART IH - COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS How often do you eat out other than fast food? Twice a month Every week 2,3 times a week How often do you go to see a moTie? Once a month Twice a month More often What type of organization would best suit your needs/ interests ? AIDS Care Educational Social Religions Political SupportGroup (specify): What types of organizational activities are important to you? Proties Political Activities Pride Activities Other (specify):. Scheduled Meetings Social Gatherings News Updates Do current Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgendered organizations in Tulsa adequately suit your needs? If not, what suggestions do you have? Do you think Tulsa needs a community center? What would you be willing to do to support such a project? Ir’ Y 7 V- ’U77OT 7 FI 7---- Please indicate in which of the following areas you I would be willing to volunteer. I Phone Banking Yes No | " I Mailing + ; Yes No l l PolitiCal Research ¯ Yes No " Hosting Parties Yes No | ........... Hosdng Benefits Yes No I ’; -Hosfng Meetings " Yes + Nd-!~!~,. I Public Speaking " Yes. No[ ~Media Work Yes No | ¯ ~ I Writing Letters to the Editor Yes No + I Writing Politicians Yes No I I Serving as a group officer Yes No I Financial Contributions Yes No I I Other (specify) Yes No I In order to contact you for volunteer work, please give I us the following information: I Name:_ -- -- ~ I Address: City:_ ~ ~ I Phone: I --.I Thoughts of Desire . poetry by Collette This book is meant as a gifi to la friend, a lover, or even for yourself. B’s O sexy, sensual way to say this is how you make me feel. It’s available at Totnfoolery! or by mail for $9.95 plus $1.50 p&h. Send check or money order with your address to: 768 West 13th, Suite A, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74127 Tuba Family News, September - October 1994, pag~e 14 Care Hours: Tuesdau - Saturdau 4:00 pm - Midnight UPSTAIRS 253-7457 Bar Hours: Cafe: - Monday.-Saturday Serv~g Dinner 4:00pm to I1:00 :am - 2:00 am Midn~t, Tuesday through DOWNSTAIRS Sat’ul’~y. 253-6723 BBQ, ]~asta, Vegetarian, Cajun, Chicken, Reubens, Steak & i - Seafo(~d specials:, Eureka’s Best Burgeks, Finest Salads & Hous~made Dressings. Dine: ~,pstairs in our Care, Dowr~stairsin the Bar or Outside on our spacious Patio.I Free Delivery Downtaura. Chelsea’s Corner Cafe 10 Mountain, at Center Street Open Year Round! Movies 8, 250-4513 68th & Memorial, Village Shopping~Center EXPECT SALOON (!;oen: Wed.- Sun. 7-2 Closed Mon. & Tues. 1565 South Sheridan, 834-4234 Tulsa Family News, September .October 1994. pv:o,e15, Wednesday Nights. Jockey Shorts Contest -, $50 Prize, Beer Bust $4, 8-11 " Thursday Nights. Amateur Night- $25 to Winner Judged by Audience Applause September ~ec~a! " ~ Charle’ Wies Sour- $2.50 No Cover - 1902 East llth - 587-8811 - Must Be 21 To. Enter- Open Daily 4-2 am Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 16 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1994] Tulsa Family News, September 15-October 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 10 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource September 15-August 14, 1994 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversations toward Tulsa's Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The newspaper brings a platform up important, evolving topics of marriage, military, law, charity, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. 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Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Kharma Amos Brannon Crain Maureen Curtin JD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma----Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/490 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, August 15-Issue 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 9 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/1cf8addb0eec6cbed2c77befbb4add07.jpg be83d6b4fb969c1b61bdb9856525a08d https://history.okeq.org/files/original/6a7730d0bcdc50609415690f3bdcb424.pdf 644fa61399e5e0ce92edeb379f7d7369 PDF Text Text Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart Gays Not Confer÷nee onTo erance Dialogue with the Other: Healing & Hope Operating trader a new federal mandate seeking greater comnmni~ y involvement in the distribution of funds for HIV MDS preven~on, the O~oma ~ta~e Dept. of H~th has begtm dae commmnff phnnfing group (CPG). "l]fis group will help to determine where sm~c do!tars wii~ be distributed, t’he group ha~ 3 sub-groups: needs assessmenu epidemiology and nomination/membership. For more h~kx call William at 7423520. Tulsa wilt hos~ the I4th Nafiowal Worlcshop on Ctmsfian.Jewish Relations on Nov. 6-9 at the Adam’s Mark Hotel. The !~ organizers of ~he confernece which is associated with the National Conference (formerly the National Conference of C~stim~s m~d Jews ~ trove noted dmir parficuk~ efforts to m~e fl~is conference broadly diverse. including not on13 a v~me(y of Christian and Jewish organi7~itions m~d traditions but Nso representatives of tstam Native American {raNfions. Convener Dr. William J. Wiseman writes in ~he promotional brochure. "..,diversity ~s a given. Plurality is our response. We are capable of mutual suppo~ as we seek to dialogue with ’the other’ in healing m~d hope..." Despite this public co~mnitment to diversity, no part of the brochure indicates any effo~ttoincludeI~sbianmqdG@ C)n August 22. Tulsa’s Hmnan Rights * 7ommission received the revised report on discrimination based o~ sexual orientation if( ,m the Standing Committee on Sexna~ Orientation Discfimnafion~ The revised mlma reflects cfitidsms and sugges~ons made at sever~ public hegNngs held in fl~e late spring. The committal added Ioomotes and more of i~ source matefi~s m the ofi~nal re~)rt as wet1 as a&hng a seared re] ume eft all the materials that were st~bmited hy me public to the stantfing comnfiuee. This second volume comains a numt~r of documenls fl~at can be chm’acterized as ~mti-Gay but also contains letters or memor~mda urging support of pro~ecdons against discriminauox~ based on sexual oriemadon, submitting such documents vere: ~he I.eague of Women Voters of Metropolitan TNsa. the Session of John Knox Presb~ te~am Church. the Dept. of Ecumenical & Social Concerns of Eastern OMahoma PresbyteD’, All So~’s UNaNan Church and the Green Conntry Monthly Meeting of the September 15 October !4, 1994, Volume 1, Issue 10 Another letter endorsing protections was signed by some of the mos~ distinguished religious leaders in Tulsa. Fhe Rev. Caldwetl, College Hil! Presbyterian, P,abbi Fitzermim. B’nai EmunNl Synagogue. ~e Rev. Fox. St. John’s EpiscopN, the Rev. Kennedy, Trinity EpiscopM, Dr. Knippa, Grace l.:utheraa~ Emeritus. t~he Revs. Newman ~d WILLS, Boston Ave. Me~xJist. Rabbi Shenn~m Temple ~srae!. hrs. Wolf and S~th and ~e hey. Caused,. Soul’s (Jnitarian and the Roy Me,mesh. Kendal W~i~tier Ministries and Center. TU. The gist of ~his letter iBllows: "...ore’ {radifions are no{ uNfonn in our un, lerstanding of...sexud orientation we agr~ that ~r~Nn basic h~mmn rights ...are due NI persons...discmm~ ina~ion violates ..ont._faith tradition:~ wNch regains all_to be of sacred worth...h a~ers any of God’s children must be identified ~md rem(,ved.._" Fur&er action may be t~fl~en at the next Humm~ Rights Commission meeting on 9/19. The report if accepted will be forwarde~ to the Mayor & US Congress catgdtaate L~r~em Want Gays er y. .................. Lynn I~vner Lynn Lavner & Sandra Gillis At Benefit Show Tulsa Oklahomans fol,Human Rights (TOHR) and Parents, Friends & Family of Lesbians & Gays, Tulsa Chapter (PFLAG) will present a gala appearance by Ly~m Lavner and Sandra Gillis at All Soul’s Church, 29th & Peoria on Wednesday, September 28. Lavner, who bills herself as "America’s most politically incon’ect entertainer." combines /:greedy and cabaret-style musical performance. While the co~ uent of her ac~ is primarily (~3 myone with a ~ense of }mfl~or will appreciate her l~r~ly [ nvner dcscfi~>gs herself as "a ~;hor~ ~cf~..hm~&;d. New York lewish ~ esbia~’ who~s bce~ 1~ ~c }~e was seven. She’s role:, dcd d~me albums and a ~ivciwconcer~ recording, "Butch Fatale." Her perffmnauces have taken her to ~) smms and five coumries, playing venue~ rar~ging from Hippodrome. P~is’ Lc Piano see Lavner. pal SALT LAKE CITY The Japanese American Citizens League overcame enormous odds m its national convention in Salt Lake City Aug. 3-7 to become the first non-gay national civil rights organization in the U.S. to endorse same-sex marriages. Gay and lesbian thealready contlicting quesuons about gays and lesbians in this country, researchers this week released timings in 2 separate studies that sharply contradict earlier studies. One review study suggests the percentage of gays and lesbians in America may in fact be significanfly greater than members of JACL, church leaders, and even a U.S. other recent researchers have found; while another ’ study see JACL. page 10 see Studies, page 10 Fed. Crime Bill Includes Big Changes at NGLTF Anti-Gay Hate Crimes WASHINGTON, D.C. - The National Gay & L~esbian Task Force has announced the resignations of 4 key staff meln~rs at the lobbying group, including ~he ~eparture of Pefi Jude Radecic. NGLTF’s execaave dirdctor who will ~ hying flint W~s~ m November ffter h~s~ 1 ,’ear a~ the agency. Radccic wiI~ sm~ on a~ the Task PerLe ~5 ~s atrec~or of ,mbtic ~otic~. l~eavhv are: Deborah Cos, director ff finance ~ ~dministra~ion ~y Yoking, Jirec~or of Cr~fing Chm~ge: and Robin Kane. NGITFF’s acting Nrecmr ~{" public in~2}rmafion In its news release on ~he staff ~4hakeup. N(}t:I’b offered -~, reasons for the departures The vee NGL77;L pa~ ~’ /0 Task Force’s ’Crea~ng Change’ Conference to CINCINNATI U.S. District Court Judge S. Arthur Spiegel has declared that a Cincinnati city charter amendment excluding gays and lesbians from existing city civil rights protections violates the Constitution’s 1st Amendment and is vague. A spokesperson for the city solicitor’s office said the ruling would probably be appealed. WASIIINGTON. D.C. The contentious federal crime bil! approved by the Semite included a little-noticed amendmen~ that adds [~enalties for bias-based crimes based "sexna~ orientation the fir<~ time Congress has penalized ;rod ~av vi~tence in this coum> amendment offered ~, , aa~mc };eb~s~ci~ (D-Calif. and color, religion. ~,~ ;rod eflmicity, a~d ~,~,~ camgorms of disabiIity, g~:nder smmmem. Daniel Zinga~c o~ ~h see Ha~e Crimes. page ~0 Be in Dallas in Nov. Court Reinstates Sailor WASHINGTON. D.C, - The Nafiomfl Gay & i.esbi~m Task Force has annonnced that its annual CreaUug conferm~ ~a~ wilt 13 in Datias. Some 70 worksho~xs havebeen stated SAN FIRANCISCO -The W.S (Term of Appeals here has rnlea tl:,~/ me ])efcnse Deoartmcm c;mno~ discharge lesbians m, U~ da~e "TV Activism .... L{ealth m Pet Color Commmntms~ as Organim~g ~’~x>~ Qt,eer Culture." ~y)rg~q~ ~ng Workplace. Ad~. anc~i I x)bb? Techniques," "’Rural/Small T6wu Orgm~zing, "SexuNi~ and Ne Right Wing, �TULSA FAMILY NEWS 918-832-0233, FOB 41dO. Tuisa. OK 74159 Issued on orbefore the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright i994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondencd should be sent to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one free copy of each edition at distribution locations. Additional copies are available at Tomfoolery! extremism, he may render The buzzword of the ’90’s himself isolated and almost Pu blishe r/Edito r is ~olerance. The hallmark useless in the House. Tom Neal ofthis decade will be its call (Washington observers say that Assistant Editor to toleranc- the big ol’ tent even conservative business James Christjohn mentality. To be openpolitical action committees have Staff Writers minded woud be synonybegun to abandon Inhofe because Kharma Amos mous, but, are we to be so of his extremism and his Brannon Crain open-minded that we allow prejudices.) Maureen Curtin our brains to fall out?.! I wish Tulsa Family News Staff Photographer For example, a prominent could tell you what Steve l_argent ’JD Jamett university in California reallymeans, but apparently part (where else?), wants to of not tolerating Lesbians and include in its policy and Gay men means not talking to procedures, literature that our press, or our community ~lubs & Restaurants it does not discriminate organizations. After repeated 744-0896 *The Alley,-3340 ~. Peoria against pedophiles - you calls, Terry Allen, Largent’s 835-5083 *Bad Boys Club, 1~229 S. Memorial "know, those folks who get campaign manager, did speak 749-1563 *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th their kick out of abusing with us long enough to say that 587-8811 *Metropole, 1902 E. i11 innocent children! Excuse Largent would not support any 834=4234 *Silver Star Saloon~ 1565 Sheridan me, would you hand me my policies that.sought to reduce 585~3405 *Renegade, 1649 S~. Main brain - it justfell out! discrimination based on sexual The question is just what Mr. 835:1055 *Rex, 6101 E. Admiral To be sure, much evil goes orientation (that is prejudice :Largent actually means. Does he 660-0856 *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial on under the guise of: against homosexuals and ’~mean that we shodd be shunned? 664-8299 *Time n’Time Agaia, 1515 S. Memorial religiouszealotry.However, bisexuals, but also against Does he.mean that we should be 584-1308 *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd we read in the Bible that .on heterosexuals when that occurs). ;systematically removed from 582-2400 *Whittier Cafe~ 416,& Lewis numerous occasions Israel, positions ofresponsibility, or Mr. Allen spent most of the Businesses/Services ¯ under direct command of conversation making hostile :merely banned from certain types 747-9506 God, was ordered to destroy Kent Baleh & Associates, Health & Life Insurance remarks that showed the breadth iofjobs?Are we to be tolerated as 743~5967 other nations. Why? Often BellAire Cleaners, 4951 S. Peoria ofthatcampaign’sprejudiceand long as we are politically silent 743-5272 it was for the evil practices Brookside Jewelry, 4649 So. Peoria the depth of its ignorance. He that is, Subsidizing the heteroandtheworshipoffalse gods . Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Ste. 102 254-2100 clearly was not interested in ¯ sexual commtmities with our tax 491-9474 by that nation. Intolerance? *CD Warehouse, 6080 S. Sheridan learning from us Of the reality of dollars but asking nothing for 587-6030 Absolutely! " . *CD Warehouse in -Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria our lives. }urselveS-?Wodd We be allowed 628-8745 I agree that, as anation, First Franklin Financial, Bob Hardy ~ Maybe I’m out of iouch for to owfi""pi}operty, to run 744-9595 we must be more comFloral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria, Ste. 100 believing that ~ p01it~cian;"~r businesses? Would we be 592-3317 passionate to one another *Java Dave’s, Lincoln Plaza wanna:be tradingonapretty face allow&l tofuncti0n iwour soc58%1633 regardless of our differ*Indian Territory Coffee Company, 1613 E. 15 and faded football g~ory, would iety if we. ,%onverted" to 341-6866 ences. However, the day we International Tours wa~t t0~kn0~ ~fi~ fiieis~ues are heterosexuality? Does he mean ¯ 599-8070 ’ s Flowers, 1635 E. 1 5 -"tolerate" the evil practices Ken d not only m southeast Tulsa an ............... thaf~)~ ivohlffbe segregated into .-587~g10g th of homosexuality, abortion, ~ " ~rro -- w , out *---" m "- Tulsa’s t~roKen ° " Major a[~mrs, zoz,~ ~ ~ re-education camps? Or does he 584:3112 .... ¯ .... .-~.~- -~--~-~ Mrdtown ~eater, 319 E. 3 po rnography .~nd ope.d,2mean that-we would be stoned 664-2951 philia-forsa~tE£Jua~i~6~-" ........ ’ ., =~¢t~raw~s;c, t~t3/ ~ .-.ax. rt~ts Gay ones Ma~.b..e tt ¯ for the "abomination of our 592-7700 Christian tenets our country f~hi~.od ~ me tg~hinl~ thTl~ , t~4mem~ lVl~rtgage corp.’ homosexuality?" 838-7626 ..............................=........... Min o was founded .upgn,..~S the 7S~omeone who wants tO repi:eseii~t~= ~ii~p,y,.~aas;e ..l~k~ l,,tn~: : " g N~W~It~-’S’t~ve Largent were 49@2410 .day we bd~b~ne~.~uT~b~’able Vour’city/county in governm.eiitJS ~y~ ~r_a,ve~ou,z/. ~. t_...a~a~t,o~n,,. , just to continue as an ex-football 749-630 ! to God’s irRolera~d and bcnt~ner s boo~store, [~z utica bquare w0~d~{v~t to meet with a cro~°~ player :-and- "business consul583-1572 judgment. Sound Warehouse, 1338"E. 15th section of its cilizeus, eventhose tant," his. opinions would be 747-3322 Southwest Viadcal, 4146 8~. Harvard, S re. F-5 ft6~ whom he is different. God offensive but not particularly 832-0233 Editor’s note: Largent *Tomfooleryr 1565 S. Sheridan forbidthatacandidatemightfind si~rdfieartt,--:Hpwever, as a US 583-1500 : implies a connection betWe~tcopa Salon, Lincoln Plaza~ that we-have more in common congressman, he would be in a ween homosexuality & Organizations that.he.thought.. pdgftion to make decisions that pedophilia. Reeetit medical 583-9780 BUt,th~n maybe not i-~’~.t.~ ~1 ....... B/IJGAlliance, University of Tulsa. c0iild"g~eatly, harm Tulsa’s research suggests that 438-243% 800-284-2437Interfaith AIDS Ministries .if you re ~ust goirigt~-~eti{d of Legbiai~ ’alnd: Gay communities heterosexual men are"mt~ch theseftlks, why waste your time *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S: Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4194 andOur.friends, and ultimately, more likely to be- sexual;:~: 748-3111 with tho~e not "ch0ge~n"?~ NAMES PROJ~ECT, 4154 S. Harvard. Ste. H- 1 the city... 749-4901 abusers of children-,.than P:F-.LAG, POB 52800 74152 Tom Neial .... Now if:he continues in the Jim Lesbians & Gay men. 74128 editor & publisher Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 Inhofe.tradition of radical right 599-8423 ’ Rainbow V:illage, POB 50403, 74150-0403 749-7898 -Shanti Hotline Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, (TOHR) POB 52729 74152 TOHR Gay He!pLine (hff0.) 743-4297 We.~.y.e ..:he.en ~¢ told. that in order to get..theendorse.m_ent . Last month, Tulsa Family Other. candidates in OklahOmh iniiSt and the $1,000 donation of News endorsed-Jack Mildren for * Chapma!3. S t0dent Center, University of Tulsa ~pp~ to;l~%~-QWin order to. NOW.;the Nafitiial Or~zafion.Governor l~e~ause he had done ~’ Tulsh City/County Libraries (sometimes-depends on the censor) ~t di~z{ed~We vebeentoldeven of Women. Perhaps she mislead what had been unheard of in *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor by our own folks that we should NOW, or perhaps, NOW was Oklahoma politics: he said he *University Center at Tulsa just "put up and shut up" so that willing to sell out Lesbians (and supported fairness and equa! Professionals we can get these folks elected. Gay men) in order just to get a oppommity for all Oklahomans, Associates in Medical & Mental Health, 1560 E. 2! 743-1000 Now maybe I’m a little slow but woman elected. NOW’s dumped including those of us who are Jeffery A. Beal, MD, Ginny Butler, RN, Theodore Campbell, MSW it-doesn’t seem tome that if a Lesbians before. NOW was as Lesbian ’and Gay. This Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 politician won’t say the right bad about returning phone calls commitment was made directly 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Tim Daniel, Attorney thing when "it" wants your vote, over many weeks as was to me and with seemingly real 744-0102 Learme M. Gross, Finandal Planning it’s less likely to do so after Shedrick, so we can’t tell you. conviction. Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747-5466 elected. Unfortunately, Mildren seems Mildren’s actions were in 749-3000, 800-539-7767 Jonathan & Dee Nicholas, Realtors Down in Texas, hardly a to have reneged on his strong contrast to Bernice 7~’7-5800, 745-2245 John Kirk, Realtor Nogressive oasis (Dallas politics commitment. A few weeks ago, Shedrick’s who ran away from 5g L-0902, 743-4117 Richard Reeder, MS, Psychotherapy can make Tulsa look like some his brother, Richard, told the giving an honest answer faster Fle~!gious Organizations liberal New E~gland townI Tulsa World that Jack couldn’t than the purse thief she allegedly 62g-0594 Lesbians and Gay men have bee~ *Bless The Lord At A~t Times Christian Ctr 2627B E. ,~. I remember our conversauon. chased. Shedrick’s equivocation 838-7232 a key part of tJr~e coalition that *Community of Hope 1347 N. Yale Repeamd calls to his campaign was especially disturbing since 622-1441 got Ann Richards etected. D~llas *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mir~go to get a status repor~ on his she was supposed to be 838-1715 has 3 .Gay city council persons memory have been ignored. *MCC of Greater TuI,a. 1623 N. Maplewood supportive of Lesbian civil rights 298-4648 Dignity/integrity see Politics’, p. ~ *Canterbury Ministry Center, . :z~versity ol ~fulsa 583-9780 Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 2 I can just hear you all now "Tom, you’ re just 0ver-reacting, you’rejust being melodramatic." However, Mr. Largent’s letter to the editors of the Tulsa World (reprinted with their permission), is troubling. What does he mean when he says that we (society?) should not "tolerate" homosexuality? He acknowledges that much evil occurs in the name..of religion .but then Says that God commanded ~ttestmettonof "~"" ~ " "naUons " " for their "eviE’ practices and praises this intolerance.. He characterizes homosexuality as an "evil practice." The association of ;destruction with intolerance of ’;Lesbians and Gay meil is dearly �tohr reporter Tulsa Oklahomans forHuman Rights. PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 September/October 1994 Volume !4 Number 10 The Crews expc~.~md elsewhent in Tu/se Family News are not necessarily the .views of TOHR. Permission is. granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along ~ ~ items, under lhe byline, "submitted by TOHR", contained elsewhere inTulse Family News. case management for people with HIV/ Several candidates vying for your votes in state and federal elections this November have been invited to the October meet- New Hours, AIDS. Derrick also works at Morton Health Clinic, helping people get needed health New Staff care and focuses outreach efforts to the African-American community. ing of TOHR to hear members’ at Testing eli=tic The new employees, and volunteers, are ~ concerns regarding human rights.’ ~ Candidates for U. S. Senate O- and House o£Representatives, TOHR’.slHIV Testing Clinic is now open with extended hours. Coutiseling and.test,. committed to offering testing that is both- ¯ free and anonymous. The clinic is housed ’in the HIV Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-I. The center offersclients_. ~ ~: i i:: =s~a~te govern.or; a~dother~ublic!’ "ink!~s::~fi~bi~!.l~ippointment-Monday., seiviee~ iinduding counseling, case. mare ~- i~f~Ces!willibe inVi~d~ ati~nd or~ fl~gh ~~day~om 9 a.m. until 5p.m: agement, Care teams;"support groups, and - BENEFIT send representatives or even just to send a policy statement to the membership of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The nominating committee will present a slate to fill 1995 officer positions. Nominations will also be taken from the floor ~l~°lduring this meeting and.then Same.day appointments am0ften po~.sible, .. a.food pantry. " butbe sure tocal1749-4194 to make surea AuguSt. was a briny month at the clinic! counselor will be available. -The-walk-in :. 93 p~op!e’were tested and 79. came to get. clinic is still openon Thursday.evenings at ~th~ir ~e~tilts. Clinic-staff and ~i01unteers-. Dave~ Definna, Mary, Mercedes, Steve and Tim for ali their efforts: Fifleeri ~eople hhge recently offered to. Septembe~!~hI. closed. Elections will be held at the November meeting: Social time begins at 6:30 and the meeting starts at 7 p:m: on Tuesday, October 4, at the HIV/ Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-1, lower level. become~iinie volunteers, and.w~i be tak..... ing the training offered by’ the Oklahoma I_ynn La~ner.:/ 7 p.m. Please arrive by8:30 tobe tested, to allow time. for the counseling and testing process.’ Results are given between 7 and 9p.m: No appointments a~e needed ~9~r the :evening clinic. : . TOHR’s HIV Testing Clinic welcomes new. employees ClaudettePeterson and De~pk Dav~s,: ~21a~dette Was hir~ director and has been working in the HIV/ . StateDepartment of Healtli that will.result AIDS arena since 1988. She and.herhus-, in theircertification Os ,testingc0unselors: , band Tim moved to Tulsa ~from.-Mont~ ’. Mri~fraining is scheduled to Start in-_: Comic...Songwriter.’ii:::~inger,. ...... ::~:-::~ ~,~;~, & " ; -- ~ ..... g0mery~Alabama three years ago: .... November, so anyone interestedin volunAssistant direet0r, Derrick, has, expe.ri- tearing for the clinieshould call Claudette eneeinHIV eounse!ing and testing, and-in orDen’ickat 749-4194. Sandra Gilti BISEXUAL, LESBIAN AND GAY ISSUES INFORMATION AND REFERRALS I 4G2A9Y7s Address ~ Yes I want to be a contributing member of Tulsa Oklahomans .for Human Rights. Please accept p~yment as described below: I-I $10 Lirnited hacome/Stadent Membership Iq $20 Regular Membevzhip City. I:] $35 Organizational/Household Membership I=1 $100 Sustaining Membership Membership Application Name Phone (optional) Signature have.been:workingvery ha~’.tokeep up With the d~mand. Claudette’ahd Derrick: givespecifiithanl~s t0~Brian, Connie, Cheryl, I:! Iam~rer~nx~ivingTOHR mailings and the TuisaFarnil)~News I-I lamnotonthemailinglist would like to volunteer help with: Members’ Representatives Iq Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual HelpLine I-I H1V Counselor I-I Executive Board Member I-I Event Planning and Party Preparations Kelly Kirby .................................... President Rie Kirby ........................... 1st Vi~e President Kathleen Golden ............ :.. 2nd Vice President Robert Crow .................................... Secretary .......................................................... Treasurer I:! Monthly Meeting Support Owen ........................... HelpLine Coordinator Make check payable to Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. Donations contributed to TOHR over set raernbersbip "fees are Tax Deductible. Reporter Editor Activities Coordinator ..................................... . ................................. FundraisingCoordinator Ruben Garcia ........... :; By and for but not exclusive to the Lesbian, Gay and Bisexual Communities. Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Risihts Daytime Testing Monday-Thursday by Appointment 749-4194 FREE & ANONYMOUS Finger Stick Method Every Thursday Evening 7:00-8:3’0 p.m. 41 54 S. Harvard Suite H- 1 Tulsa Family News, September-October 1994, page 3 �News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News, Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Opposition to UN Cone CAIRO, Egypt- Islamic fundamentalists have allied themselves with the Roman Catholic Church in trying to prevent the UN International Conference on Population & Development from adopting policies that they say would encourage homosexuality, abortion and promiscuity. A spokesman for the allied religious groups, known as the Ad Hoc Coalition for Cairo, argued in court that the shooting the political .content of the program ends. was accidental. British Soldiers May Go Search for AIDS Czar WASHINGTON - Faced with to European Court difficulties in finding a new LONDON - Since 1990 the AIDS policy coordinator, the British Defense Ministry has Clinton administration brought discharged some 260 military gay tights and AIDS activists to men and women for being the White House to meet with homosexual according to domestic policy adviser Carol informationreleaseby Labor MP Rasco and acting AIDS policy Barbara Roche, who got the director Patricia Fleming¯ information from the Defense Activists said that as a result of Ministry, told The Guardian the meeting, the White House newspaper, "They are treated has started its search for a appallingly, with investigators replacement for thepost all over asking intimate questions and again. According to Daniel searching their personal Zingale, public policy director belongings¯" Some of the with the Human Rights discharged military personnel Campaign Fund who attended have said they may take their the White House meeting, the discrimination complaints to the Clinton administration agreed to European Court of Human set up a new working group on Rights. AIDS that will include the Justice Anti-Gay Bias Suit Dept. in fighting bias. ATLANTA - Ronald Kirkland "Discrimination has hampered has filed alawsuit against C~a~rtel the battle against AIDS from the Restaurants Inc., charging that very beginning, and continues he was fired as a chef at the to hamper education, prevention restaurant chain because he is and research efforts todoy;" gay and the firm’s management Zingale said. "!f we hope to end believed-he was infected with the epidemic,’we must also end discrimination ag_ains~ those; HIV or had AIDS and would cost .the chain money .through most vulnerable to the disease. increased insurance prelmums. Discrimination in health care, Kirkland was fired the day before education, employment-and ]_,.he ~a,s slatedto be enrolled iw "...~o$.h ! area~---i.s -~ a..-s¢~ou,s, )"i~.l~.,!diment t~ s~bppiffg ,~IDS." .~i (~ a ti~’ff~li ng ..... ~v~i~e -?.~’plan. Ex~employees ,with-the<., chain submitted sworn representauves of the National statements as part of Kirkland’s Black Gay & Lesbian smt that , restaurant Leadership ]:orum, National " sa3]ng ~¯..,.~ :.i.,.. ...... , , ,~. &"a. : ,4~,=~:~,.~,, managers:mscusseo Lanno Lesman a.no~a,.~ ;,~.=..~,~: ..-::,-..-.. me_man _ .s g ¯ ,. " ....... ~ conce s a t. KIV smms Lesb~ Task Force ~~~ ~=.~ ~ . ~>~ne 0~0~ l~S~Ce Amenc~ Assn¯ OI rnys~:. ~-,~¢-..~, - ~ __,~ _ for Hm~ ~"gts Gay Bar Ratd M~BOU~E, Am~Mia-~e -~_~A~traua~t° uount Melbo~e poa~ dep~ent’ s ~~~Uouples SYDNEY%~i The’~ustrahan head of civilian complaints has government has given the said he may investigate an Aug. {hum~ proposdl,.from the 7 raid on the Commerce Club, a Australiaii"SWakistics Bureau to popular gay nightclub, during enumerate sam&sex coup~~s~ which 463 patrons were publicly families during it~ strip-searched for possible drug of the nation. The plan got the possession. Only 8 people were approval of the Australian charged during the drug raid, on cabinet after lobbying efforts by various charges ranging from both gay rights groups and the possession Of illegal drugs to s.upport of the Anglican Synod. being drunk in public. The police was asked about gay flight attendants working on the charters, he was told the Cowboys’ "wouldn’t like that at Gov’t to Intervene in ~ Anti-Sodomy Laws CANBERRA, Australia - The Australian government has agreed to accept a proposal to legalize sodomy in the nation in an effort to override state antisodomy laws in Tasmania that were declared a violation of asked U.S. officials not to push international human rights by a for proposals-that would "attack U.N. commission earlier this religious beliefs on birth control, year. The move by the federal abortion and same-sex unions." government to negate the The So. Baptist Convention’s Tasmanian sodomy statutes is Christian Life Commission also likely to be challenged in court. joined in attacking the Clinton If federal legislation is adopted, administration. A1-Azhar, an it will not, however, remove influential center for Islamic Tasmania’s anti-sodomy laws studies, also denounced the UN directly since that island-state conference which it said has refused to repeal its statutes. promotes the acceptance of City Outlaws Kisses homosexuality, extramarital ANKARA, Turkey - The relations, and abortion. Other Reuters news service has Islamic leaders have condenmed reported that the southern the conference as "aZionist plot." Turkish city of Adana has Death Penalty in TX outlawed, public-kissing by men KERRVILLE, Texas - Donald as-unsanitary, The city has not, L. Aldrich, 29, has been found however, banned men kissing guilty of the brutal murder of women or women kissing other Nicholus West, a 23 -year-old gay women, and Eker offered no man, in Tyler, Texas, last explanation of how these other November¯ "The death sentence kis~s:-would be h~genic while handed down by the jury onl~= .iiiale,mate ’kisses were represents justice in this case," considered unsanitary. Smith County District Attorney Episcopal Bishops Jack Skeen told the Dallas Give Mixed Signals Morning News . It was a coldblooded, heinous crime. The INDIANAPOLIS - The bishops defendant deserved nothing less of the nation’ s Episcopal Church than the death sentence~.’’ tried - with~ mixed-results - to According topolice, West had deal with homosexuali~ during been kidnapped in Tyler, taken its national convention. A to a clay pit outside the town document issued by the bishops says that "lifelong, where he was stripped, brutally monogamous, heterosexual beaten, and shot at least 9 times unions between husbands and - including one shotinhis genitals wives" is the standard of the - before being finallykilled by a shot in his head. Henry E. Dunn, church’s teachings. But the document/which has been in the 19, and DavidR. McMillan, 18, have also been charged with works since 1991, also urges the murdering West and areawaitmg church to "respond pastorally to those persons whose sexual separate trials. behavior does not conform" to Outrage Over UT Killing its standards. Confusing the issue SALT LAKE C1TY - Utah gays further, the bishops voted to and lesbians are outraged over change the proposal from a Di,s.t&c~,C,o,O1;t,.Judge David S. Y0.’upg s-~nt’encing Of David :., ~Attendar~t Sues Airline: .:- ’~pa~torkl:t~hdhih~?~ to simply~a . study documen Under ~ DALLAS~7:Ame.fiean;Mrl:mes Nelson~Tl~gket to a mere 6 years .=,brzg~_n its ,,~v~, pressure-fro~m"a group" in ~,ri~9~ for,.~e killing of a gay - ~hves~_gafion-into ~9~ inc~delji~Q 7,fl~ight ~t,~qfi,.~t, Jay..Ma,uk_has ~ ~6~seNativelbishops, h0wewr( man, Douglas Koehler. " sued hls employer and theDall~s ~ the conference wenteven further already filer ~omplaia~ .o.j9’~ Protesters outside the state "aifd ffd6lStEd ~ companion connection with tile3-1ib~ i~ai~t. capitol building the day after the football team’ s chartered flights document that says ruling demanded Young’s to and from games exclude male Falwell Gets Offensive homosexuality "cannot be removal from the court. "With JACKSONV~I-L. LE, Fla ...... attend~m, ts.. M~auk’.s ,lawsuit, ~¢On~oned by the church" and clowns on the bench, you get Telev~slon stal~a XU3I’L,~:Tg ~E~’. s~-~X relationships "a murderers in the streets," Val Cowboys. Jacksonville ll’a~ tl~e~It&ie~I ~o denial of God’ s plan." Mansfield, a gay rights a.ctivist "me, pull Jerry Fal,,well &A)34T s~eriraination and~is aski~fot .3:~t~late Retracts "Joke" said. "Judge Young ts an Gospel Hour off~di~r~for embarrassment to the state of ¯ ;, BUENOS AIRES - Cardinal and, that: what .he ~.h.~ges is~ month for focusing~mo~¢~or~ Uuda ...". Hate-motivated crimes politics than on religl;hNi Wdgf Ame ~ncan A~rl~nes ,~ policy be" : Ant onto Quarracino, deserve stiffer sentences not picketed the TV st~. 7 ~gentina’s leading Catholic more lenient ones." Members of 74Jrelate, said his suggestion Cowlloy~ wpt!ld comment~ Falwell spent a good Oe~ of Koehler’s family agreed. "It’ s a ~fiean-q~ickty d~eified"thatTii’ ’.2{Furing a television interview that ume on the show mockery," Koehler’s sister homosexuals were "an ignoble broadcast in what.protesters °has sue~ a~ poti~y. Susan Nelson told the Salt Lake ¯stain [on] the face of society" called criticism of°~f~gi~eht Tribune¯ "It’ s like his life wash’ t and shoutdbe put in their own "~t!o3,,w ork,on the Dallas,Cowboys’Clinton ~at i~...p~%ed,)~g~y giae~{o,-~ayshis remarks were "a worth anything. When you charter b~cause explicit language b3~ the murder someone, you should joke, something that just crossed The suit also claims that when an televangelist. A spokesperson my mind¯" Quarracino told spend y~.u(, life paying for that I fox~the,stationsaidWTLVmould. American Airlines employee~ murder7 ~" ~liacker.s attorney --air re-runs of the.p~o’grAm tmt~l 2 ~ w~ ]~an~tlgs the charter flights~. - reporters later th~it he was sorry.. Tul~[~’aTm~[y News, September - O~t~’bdr~1994,--page"4 ~ ....................................... 7_ ~.7.L ~ if he "offended anyone, ff I hurt someone’s sensitivities." During an TV interview earlier, Quarracino said gays and lesbians should be have "alarge area.., to live in, with their own laws, their own media and even their own constitution." Gay tights activists in the country have threatened to sue the Cardinal over his remarks. Quarracino said he thought people "had a better sense of humor." Oregon Ballot Measure to Go Before Voters SALEM, Ore. - The Oregon state Court of Appeals has unanimously overturned a lower ruling against a proposed statewide anti-gay ballot measure, clearing the w ay for the initiative to go on the November ballot. Earlier this year a lower court had ruled the proposed measure- violated state constitutional restrictions against restricting voter initiatives to only 1 issue in each proposed measure. Proposition 13, a revised version of a s tatewide measure than failed to get voter approval in 1992, would repeal exisdng gay rights measures throughout Oregon, would bar any such legislation or ordinances in the furore, and would restrict access to educational and library information about homosexuality to adults only. Opponents of the anti-gay initiative say they will not appeal the ruling to the state Supreme Court. Cobb Cty. GA Rally MARIETTA, Ga. - Commemorating the first anniversary _ of the Cobb County (Ga.) Commission’s adoption of a resolution condemning "the gay lifestyle," hundreds of gays, lesbians and supporters rallied in the town square to mark the date with a protest¯ Estimates of the number of people attending ranged from 1,000 to 5,000 people. Some 200 police officers were on duty during the protest and rally. Law enforcement officials called it the most peaceful protest in more than a year. Seattle Dom..Partners SEATTLE- On Tuesday, Sept¯ 6¢ Seattle formally .began allowing unmarried same-sex and opposite-sex COul~les to register as domestic partners. Some 70 couples showed up when the city clerk’s office opened Tuesday morning to pay $25 each to register the relationship¯ The partners registration extends no legal benefits to couples. IdahoAnti-Gay Measure BOISE, Idaho- Several hundred people joined Idaho Gov. Cecil Andrus in officially launching a campaign against Prop. 1, an andgay initiative that will go before the voters this November¯ "We reject hatred whenever and wherever it appears, and it appears," Gov. Andrus said at the rally at the state capitol. �Saturday, 1994. Check-in, .9 am. ~Walk begins at.lO am. ~..~. Veteran’s Park 18th- & Boulder Avenue Benefiting non-profit (501(c)3) HIVIAIDS care-giving agencies:Indian Health Care Resource Center Clinic, Parents and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG)~ Tulsa Oklahomans for Hum an Rights (TOHR), Visiting Nurse Association of Tulsa, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN), Multicultural AIDS Coalition, Interfaith AIDS Ministriesl NAMES Project Tulsa Area, Hospice of Green Country, HIV Resource Consortium, Saint Joseph Residence, and SHANTI-Tulsa. ~DS~walk Tulsa Benefits Bad Bbyz - S.eptember 18; 10 pm Lola’s -.September 24, 10:30 pm Renegades ~ October 1, 11 pm Silver Star - October 7, 11 pm Metropole-October 12, 10 pm Alley- October 16, 9 pm After Walk Party For more information, call Walk 94 at 9-18 587 7222. Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 5 �Southwest A viatical company now open right here in Tulsa. y:u are considering selling your~life insurance are in busineSs~t0 helpy0u: receiVe the highest amount in the best, quickest, most ~Confidential manner possible. A Quality of Life Alternative Southwest 2919 Welborn Dallas, Texas 7521,9 800/559-4790 Tulsa Farm~l~d~#, September -Octobek I994, page 6 E. 41 st St. Suite F-5 Tulsa Office 4146 So. Harvard, Suite F,5 Tulsa, OK 74135-2610 -918-747-3320 �Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs to acknowledge and A Profile of HIV American~, 18 per 1000 pop., Oklahomans between the ages LIFEGUARD designed celebrate yourself. We will~ of 18 to 65basedon6% of general and Asians/Pacific Islanders, 3 in OK’s Gay per 1000 pop. This AIDS rate is population, with an assumption Proj~ect explore Gay identity and develop strategies to confront anti-Gay estimated assuming 6% of each of a higher percentage in urban Communities race/ethnieity The LIFEGUARD project is hostilities, both internal and areas and a lower one in rural is Gay or Bisexual. by Alan G. Nyitray~ MS "It’s important that we look at the Oklahoma Gay community as a collection of many smaller communities like African American Gay men, Hispamc! Latino Gay men, Lesbian and G~y youth, rural Gay peop!e, etc. Each of these smaller communities have their own issue that must be specifically addressed; There is no one monolithic Gay community," concludes Nyitmy in a summary of findings done by the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health. These materials were compiled for the use of the HIV Community Planning Group (CPG). The CPG is a new, federally mandated body that is hoped .will provide more community input into state HIV prevention efforts. These f’mdings indicate that in Oklahoma, African-American Gay and Bisexual men have’an estimated rate of AIDS that is twice as high as thatofCaucasian Gay and Bisexual men~, The following rates a~e fofGay and Bisexual males with AIDS: African-Americans, 39 per 1000 population, Hispanics/Latinos, 29-:per 1000 pop., Caucasians, 221i per 1000 pop., Native Nyitray, who is Gay & Lesbian ones; if 8% of Tulsa and Oklahoma City metro area Outreach .Co-ordinator of the population are Gay or Bisexual HIV/STD Service for the State males, then about 20% are likely Dept. of Health, concludes that infected with HIV. the higher rates of AIDS in Gay Men of color with AIDS are and Bisexual men of color show more often Gay and Bisexual that HIV prevention efforts must be improved in communities of rather thanheteros.exualinjeetion color. "Just as Gay people riced ’drUg users as ts commonly their own specific.~iHIV.. believed. Gay men of color are lesslikely to have had an HIV prevention message apart..from antibody test than Caucasian Gay heterosexuals, smaller .Gay communities with in the Iarger ¯ men. Gay/Bi men under age 25 are Gay community need.their ow.n significantly more likely to say messages and projects. One HIV that they did not use a condom in preventionmessage for the whole anal sex with a casual partner Oklahoma Gay community does than men older than 25. In larger not even come close to meeting urban areas outside Oklahoma, our needs." Gay/Bi young men have HIV Other issues identified in these infection rates estimated at 10~ f’mdings are: 30%. public health researchers have While Oklahoma’s Gay and never determined the true rate of Bisexual male populations have :.HIV infection for any Oklahomararely been ~tudied,. Lesbians based Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual ~mmunity~nor hav~ there bee~ ..... hav~nignbred~althou~h iiife¢fion occurs in this .group any random-based study to and no prevention projects have measure the HIV-related directly addressed Lesbians.., knowledge, attitudes, behaviors or;beliefs of Gay men~Bisex_uals ....For more inf0~aaonc~ Nlan Nyitray at 405-2714636 or write or Lesbians in Oklahoma, though these sorts of studies have been .,HIV/STD Service, OK Sta.te -successful elsewhere;~ . , ~ .~ ~ Other observations ar~........... ~ fOO6NE 16di’s~ oKC, ~731 i~/1299. there are at least 114,000 Gay, Les.b~an and Bisexual Jeffery A. Beal,-MD Ted Campbell,. LCSW Ginny Buffer; RN MS Specialized in HIV Care Providing Comprehesive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic ~ervices We have many insurance provider affiliations - if you be~long to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 1560 East 21st Street, Suite 210 Monday. Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 external. coming to Tulsa. This project October 26, SWIM: Sex With was originally developed in Los Intimacy for Men, this meeting, Angeles, California, and had held in an auditorium rather than been adapted to fit the needs of a home, brings together 30 to 50 Tulsans. men to discuss and celebrate the LIFEGUARD is a series of many safer and sexy options four meetings, dealing .with available to Gay men today and’ differentaspect~ of HIV disease~ help develop skills in increasing The meetings are free and are you own~sexual satisfaction. de~ignddes~allyfor Gay and. ~i~fial?. high-’of all: age~ :find ~. For more information, call 584-4983. color. The meetings will be held in voluntc~s~l~_m.cs through~0u.t Tulsa on wednesday evedings and will provide an excellent environment for meeting. Places Support Services announces and times are available by calling the return of the Being Aware Brian Jackson at 584-4983, rap group for the fall &-winter The four meetings are: seasons. The group will meet. October 5, HEAT: HIV. every week at 7 pm at 2440 East Education And Treatmefit, a 51st, Suite BS. The next meeting medical overview focusing on will,be Monday, September 19. living healthily with HIV for _ Being Aware is degigned to those who are seropositive and meet the needs,of pedple living negative, ~fe issues such_as. ~rdl~tidn~liiiis a~discuss~by with HIV/AIDS and thosepcople dealing-, with.the AIDS crisis. participants. This.is,~ a drop,in groupi:open to October 12, SAND: Sex And Nineties Dating, a fun._.and= allpcople regardless of race, age :e~pel-i~nfiid~m~efiiag desigixbl. of sexual expression. :Being’Aware is facilitated by examine our personal .goals and objectives in dating. Exploring - ~William Brnder, certified HIV/ AIDS test.counselor/educator/ -! s0me:;.0fith~issues of da~t~ing the age of AIDS. activist, and JeffMartin, Masters Level Counselor/Activist. For October 19, SEA: Self Esteem and Attitudos,.-.this meeti,n.~g ~’~ is more information, cal1742-3520. ~ Being Aware Support Group Clinical Trials* now Open for Treatment of HIV Disease and Related Infections _Nevirapipe...HIV Treatment Oral Vs. IV Ganciclovir...CMV Retinitis Treatment Zithromax-Biaxin-Ethambutol...MAC Treatment *must meet inclusion & exclusion criteria. For mo~e information, call 918-743-1000, ext. ’HIV’ between 10am - 4pm. To receive more information about new clinical trials as they are available, send your name & address to: Jeffrey Beal, M.D. 1560 E. 21st St, Ste. 210 Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Family N.ews~ September - October 1994, page 7 �presents... ’.:HIV Education Treatment \~// _ �(of 14). I’m not convinced that the culture mad prejudice is that different here. The difference is that in Texas, Lesbians & Gay men have been involved in politics and have demanded better treatment. Here we’re too busy being grateful for getting only one kick in the pants instead of two. As long as we don’t demand more of our politicians, we’re not going to get more. In many cases, we still may not get what we want but at least we can make an informed decision. Most social change in this country, this state, and this city did not come from well connected minority folks working their inside connections. It was the ones with inside connections, the Adam Clayton Powells who were telling Dr. King, "son, you’re going too fast..." Social change has come from those who were pushy, who said, "sorry we’re not going to accep,t, what you’re trying to do to us. Ada Louise Sipuel Fisher, Thurgood Marshall and the NAACP pushed OU towards desegregation. Joe Williams and others with the NAACP forced Tulsa out of its racist city commission form of government. They may have been polite but ~y weren’t just us, about us mad our issues as long as we allow them to get away with doing so. Tulsa Family News will do all we can to shame, cajole or persuade Oklalaoma politicians into upholding basic American values of fairness, honesty and respect for all citizens. Accordingly, Tulsa Family News ~s withdrawing its endorsement of Jack Mildren. We cannot recommend either Mildren or Shedfick. We find them to be both cowardly and less than honest. Repeatedly, we’ve been told that Shedrick "does not have a bigoted bone in her body." We been told Mildren believes in fairness. Well, this Gay man says start proving to our comnmnity that you stand for something other than only getting yourself elected or taking our money. The winner of the Detnocratic runoff election (September 20) will face Frank Keating, Republican nominee on November 8.. Meanwhile, media observers may wonder where the "mainstream" media has been in covering minority issues, including Lesbian~:and Gay issues, in this campaign. The Tulsa Woddhardl~,.~ms to make any connection between local issues concerning Lesbian and Gay Tulsans and the ahoma politicians are We do honor Chuck Ervin (State Capitol) and Jim Myers (DC burean) for asking a hard ques tion or two but wonder when the rest of them will get it? Then there’s television. The same stations that cover local Lesbian and Gay issues fairly well are as bad as theTulsaWorld on state and federal issues. Could it be that the tv stations did not ask about Lesbian and Gay issues in the tv debates because of well documented anti-Gay bias of some news people? Maybe they believe that if they don’t talk about us, we’ll just go away. I’m not. You know you can call these folks up and tell them you’ re not happy with their coverage. We do. We hope you will too. Conf, cont’d from p.l and Gays from other faith traditions. Nancy Day, executive director of the Tulsa chapter of the National Conference indicated that the office had not tried to involve local Lesbian/ Gay congregations or organizations. Other organizers apologized for the lack of inclusion and promised to investigate making last minute changes to the programming. Also at press time, organizers could not ’verify whether workshop presenters would address tbe anti-Gay aspects of the Holocaust. For more Friends seeking Friends College grad, 23, 6’ 1751bs. new to Tulsa, seeks friends with humor and self-esteem. Clean-cut, straight-acting, Christian wishes to meet Christian or moral, straight-acting, non-smokers, no. 44600, To respond to this ad, call 900-230-0027 $1.59/min. aver. 3 rain. Fall into a Relationship this Autumn Cool, crisp days, awash with color. Walking though piles of fallen leaves. Is this your ideal of fall? 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Norman Mineta wrote in a letter to JACL: "Where Congressman appealed to the would we be today if the groups to approve the resolution NAACP, or the National Council endorsing equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians, which ~of La Raza, or the AntiDefamation League of B’nai passed by a 50-38 vote with 11 Brith, or the National Gay & abstentions. The proposal Lesbian Task Force, had taken caused serious dissensions in the the position that redress was a 65-year:old, 24,000-member Japanese American issue - and JACL. Allen Kato, JACL’s legal had nothing to do with African counsel, resigned m protest over Americans, Hispanic Americans, the proposal which he .called Jews or gay and lesbian "morally wrong." Bill Americans? These organizaHosokawa, a former _Denver tions, and their members;joined Post_ editorial page editor wrote us because they unders~c~i a column in JACL’s weekly believed in;our argument-that a publication saying that "JACL threat: t~ the civil fights 6f established ~i proud record that AmeriCanis a threat ito the civil includes adv~acy for all. But rights Of all Americans.;’now it has gone .beyond that, choosing;, arole,on..the cutting edge of t~e~litant hUman rights cont’d frdOip; 1 moveme~(," ~, ~Former JACL Human Rights Campaign Fundchap te rlf ~i~ie~.s,i.d~n t s Tak said~ "This is the;first ~tim~ Yamam6(6 i~.fid.~fi~ Yaniamoto Congress has acted to ~punisli rand formei; JACL staffer Lia violeiac¢ against lesbians and gay Shigemura,~e,,0ut during the men tlLrough stiffer periiiltie~ f0f months:l.0ni~i~d~fiate, over the hate crim~s, The inclusion of resolufioi~ arid: all~ addressed the disability aiid gender, aloi~g with conventi~ox~.tf.-app~al for its sexual brientation; sendS a adoption/., ,.M,~ religious message to loc;al law leaders,~"Ec~’li’ a~" the Rev. Joan enforcement agencies’ that the Ishibashi’ ~iUnited Church federal gfvemment is of Chris-ili~ :~olidu and the about g@~bashing:..""The full Rev. M~?~agawa of hate ~es bill passed the Senateon a 61=38 vote. President same-sex nim-ri~ag~;~gesblu_fi0n Chnton is-expected to s~gfithe as did ~/~’ cau.c.~s, bill into law. the. As~iation Hate .crimes cont’d from p. 1 indicates that gay men and lesbians, contrary to other findings and popular myth, earn considerably less than their heterosexual co-workers. One study, presented at the annual meeting of. the American Statistical Association in Toronto, indicated that 10% of American men and 6.4% of U.S, women have had sex with a member of the same’sex at least once during their lifetimes. The study also:found that more than 18% Of males and over 17% of females said they.had ~ither had sex with or had felt sexually, attracted.to:someone Of the Sam~’ sex - or both,- duriiigtheir lives. In additi0fi, the Study~also foimd tha~4:l% of’m~n arid 2:3% Of" women in this Cfuntry said they had’ duly iiad same:s:ek relatio~~. during their fives.~ AnOther Stud~; by ~/~ unive"r~itybf:Mafyland surveys have suggested that gay couples earn $56,000 to$63,006 annually, ~ompared with the national average of just $36,500. According to the study’s findings, gay men are more likely to hold professional jobs, but they are less likely to be promoted into managerial ranks, thereby eontributing to their overall lower income levels. While 1’7.9% of heterosexual men surveyed were managers, only 12.8% .of the gay men were. Navy. cont’d from p. 1 rational reason for its anti-gay policies. The appellate court ruling upheld the reinstatement order, but did not deal.with the issi~of the military ban’s constitutionality: .There was speculation that because the appeals .court only applies to Meinhold’S reinstatement and does not challenge the researcher, found that gay men’", c0nstitutiooality of the ban itself make 11% :t6 27% less than the government may not appeal hete-rosexu’al males in thedecisiontotheU.S.Supreme comparablejob~. Lesbians, the .. Court.’The Jnsdce Dept. would researchers found2earn ~% to- " onJysay that the decision was 14 % less thatl -heteros exual being reviewed. femaleS. "Lesbians’ men are experiengi.ng.’discont’d from p. 1 crimiuation fliat ’ actually hurts organization will launch a them -ec0nomically," said Leenari.on’al~search,, for ~ a new Badg.ett; a:’Univ~rsity. of Maryl~d e~01iomi’c~’ pro~essor, and ao:tli6r of!the’smdy;:’*They NGLTF. - Y Zinc and New York’s EightyEights to colleges and community centers to MCC’s in Wichita and Sarasota, the 25th anniversary of the National Organization of Women and the International Mr. Leather contest. Ms. Lavner typically performs in black leather. Sandra Gillis is the executive director of PFLAG’s national. organization. According to !ocal co-organizer, Nancy McDonald, Ms. Gillis will not be performing in leather, black or otherwise but: will be giving an update on the substantial efforts of PFLAG to fight discrimination basedon sexual orientation. Patrons may attend a private dinner with Lavner & Gillis, a special reception and the erformance with a donation of 100 for two persons. A sponsor ticket for the reception and performance is $50-for two, Tickets for the performanceare $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Tickets and information is available at Tomfoolery! or by calling 747-4125 or 742-8565. g Change Had credit )roblems in the )ast? WANN 800 apl!~intment. $I6,049 810 S.~incinnati Suite 100 .~.’~u!~a; Okla 74119 Sandra.J. MITSUBISHI The New Thinking in Automobile~" Hill, M.S. Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation Sensitive to the Challenges of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgen~lered Individuals, ¯ Couples & Families, 1 11 2865 E.-Skelly .Drive, Ste. 215; 745-. 1 " r :~: "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" Tulsa Family News, September- October 1994, page 10 ,-: . cont’d from p. ! ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’" and "Legislating Against Violence.," For further information, contact Sue Hyde at (61"7) 492-639~/ .... �T H E L ... I F E S T Y L E "G A Y sketch the impact of different don’t buy until you’re satisfied to it for 40 years and you work Where do I want to be? How do I want to live? More serious, as a survey by financial services giant Merrill Lynch shows, is the substantial gap between what people expect to afford in their retirement and what their retirement income will actually enable them to afford. They haven’t answered the most important question. What will my retirement income be? To answer that question, experts in the field agree the place to start is the income every Planner Leanne Gross. employed person will have: Social Security retirement benefits.. Until August 1988, the odds of your getting a satisfactory answer were about as good as by Leaane M. Gross beating a sidewalk gambler at three-card Monte. Most people look upon Since then, under a Social retirement as a happy exchange Security Administration of activities: playing golf, program called PEB ES (Personal visiting friends and family, siting Earnings and Benefit Estimate by the pool, traveling the world, Statemen0, you can have an or simply lazing the days away answer in a couple of weeks. in some pleasant climate. Call 8001937-2000, request form And yet, a growing record of. S SA-7004, complete it and return dashed hopes casts a shadow it. The information you receive across the expectation of will include your-estimated untroubled days. Stories abound monthly retirement, benefits of retirees adrift without a chart based on your projected earnings of daily obligations to direct and the age at which you expect them: They haven’t posed these to reure. questions about retirement that Be prepared for a shock., your they’ve routinely answered during their working years:. .. PEBES will most likely show . What do I want tq do wi~,m~i:: :( fliatS~al Seeurity-~ even ff you time and my life? ~ :" " " "..~ mad y~employer(s) contribute Mapping Your Financial Road to Retirement this is what you need. past 65-- will hardly meet basic living expenses. First Rule: Start your planning early. It takes from 20 to 25 Uncle Sam has not deceived you. Social Security is not a years to implement a successful pension, and was never intended retirement plan. Unless you have to be a pension, although that is major amounts to contribute to a. common assumption. Its the fund; however, some objective, zs to replace part of retirement savings m better-than none in any case. the income that individuals and their families lose, when they During those years, you’ll be building assets that will provide . retire, become severely disabled, or die. You should consider your retirement income, even under severeinflationarypressures, and Social Security and company pension benefits a "retirement ensure your security and that of your survivors, m the event of paycheck", using this to determine the income you’ll need health or other emergencies. to finance the retirement you You’ll set the process in want. motion by giving the planner a What is your next move? meticulous account of your The same action you take to.. present income and expenses, your total assets and liabilities, prepare for a home purchase, or. a vacation, or a child’s college, plus incomeyou expect toearn education. You must plan. ...... after retirement-along with the The only difference is that this year you intend to retire and the annU~il retirement income you is long:range.Pl~ng that.will want to have. pay a co~mm~anding role i~a your life for. many.y.e~s~. .. : ........ ..~ Afte_r analyzing, this But.a retirement .p!an, like a informa’d0~’. ~he pl~e!~...w~ll tailored suit, should fit. you propose ~a:ys¯ you can manage your current earnings andassets perfectly. Few ~people other than fiscal, e~per~s have the time or so they Will"yield the r~xiui~ed saw;y to onstruEi. such a piah, . incrm~ when you retire, q’his]s, and you’ll ..probable need essentially,, a long-range ¯ " in~;~stmeiat program bUii~,iin professional help. There’ s plenty available. Most mo~t eXtses,.onsi~me form0f ~xlarge banks, insurance free.annuity or other h~dged investment that will make the companies, investment houses most of the resources you can and accounting firms offer retirement planning. Pick a dedicate to it. ’ T.he :p~an, :wpically, will_ also quality instituti.on, ask questions, econon~ic scenarios high/low stable interest rates, high/low stable inflation, recession growth/depression- on vour rettrement~ncome. The complete plan will be a road map to your retirement security. However you dev~lop your plan, on your own or with experienced help, you can count on it requiring investment of time and personal resources. But never doubt that it’s worth every hour, every dollar you devote to it. As I always say: "People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan." Leanne M. Gross is a member of the Rainbow Business Guild, a Tulsa non-profit organization. Boy George Paternity ? LONDON - To the SUrlY,rise of virtually no one,iaB.fitish court has tossed out a ~i~fl claim by a woman in the. U.S°.iWho had charged that,.openly gay pop singer Boy Ge01ge.h~igl ~athered her 7-year-old~oiX:Th~ ~ed woman filedttie"aUit i~t~-t: year, but the court dis~ssed:the case when it was told tile ~vbman had not been heard:i~rO~ ~i:~ then. Boy George s~d Of:th~ w~oman’ s claims that he haffnever had sex with a woman ~ M8 !ifeand that therefore the birthmust have been "a miracle." Homes change with the times..: 496-2410, 800-336-3524 munic~ting withith’eir corn: parties via fax"modems. .Homes With two offices~will ~o~ ~ unusuat. Hou~ho[d size is shrinking and the number of -householders will increase nearly 20e~ this d~ade. At [he same [im~ mallv house- holds are expanding to dude grandparents, .~dult children, or both. That calls for flexible floor plans, and more accessory units ~ selfcontained "apartments"" within homes. Dining rooms mav be going the way of sculleries and ~pus rooms¯ ~me builders are.eliminating them in favor of more spacious eating areas open to family rooms. he National Association of Home Builders recenflv surveved industry watchers, futurist~,..and feading-edg~ builders to find out how new technology and changing demographics will be changing our homes. Here’s what they For buyers and sellers found. If you’re a buver remember that all the There will be more media rooms and larger family rooms because ot increaslates( improven~ents don’t mean a thing unless vou really like what you buy. The ing sales ofbig-screen TVs. Many Upscale,homes are being built with home should fit’your requirements.° complete home theaters. If you’re a seller, keep tn mind that - Many hgflae~ already have office opthere are buvers who will "decide ~that your home i~ exactly what they want. tions -- dens or extra bedrooms that can be used as home offices. But the trend is Putting buyers a~d sellers t~geth~er is ac6elerating. Bv theyear 2001, 70% of all. our job. Call us to learn how w~.can homes are expected to have computers guide you to success. Thei-e’s ¯ as more ,peopte-.work at home, com~ ....... obligation for a meeting. - ...... T ................................................................................................. ~;-,~4--.-~.~- ...... ’:~.~.,,,Tulsa Family~ews, September - 6CtOb’~’~’:"179~),~i pcige 11 ). �T H E F E S T Y L E Prime limers AiDS Info-Line Family of Faith-,~iOij g ~!~;ii~it’ ~y &. :~Body,~., Electric Interfaith AIDS Ministries has added a 918 area code 800 number (800-284-2437) to provide greater access to HIV/ AIDS information throughout eastern Oklahoma. As the State of Oklahoma AIDS information line is still inoperative, this is the only 24 hour, 7 day a week information source. Interfaith ¯AIDS Ministries also is seeking volunteers for the information line. Volunteers work from their homes as calls are forwarded from the Interfaith AIDS Ministries number. This phone line is the only 24 hour a day source of HIV/AIDS information and referrals in the 918 area code. Volunteers are asked to consider donating a 3-4 hour block of time at least one evening a week. Night owls would be especially welcome for late shifts. Training on HIV issues will be provided and typically requires about 4 hours and is conducted one on one. Another 2 hours on phone line protocals and crisis training is also provided. For more information or to volunteer, call Interfaith AIDS Ministries at 438-2437 or 800284-2437. Family of Faith MCC, Prime Timers, a social nonThe Tulsa Body Electric group I n t e g r i t Yannounces a workshop and profit organization for Gay men formerly of Jenks, celebrated a 5 over 40, will hold its monthly -°~.C~aP°_Ga,~, &~"_~.~.s:bi ~a!~:~~-~.~.etreat;.’!Celebrating the Body year birthday on Septembe:~;9; meeting on Saturday, September The church, now located at 5,L51- -:,LT~nistry ~t the Ro~an!!Ggtholi¢., :Eleclfic’~ to be held October 22 17 with social and business E South Mingo, had a dat~ee ;(::~Epi~s_~,.pa~C~h~i?.~-" : :’.i: :& 23. Tl~is will be the only segment at 2 pm and with a D/I WilI celebrate an Episcopal ...... ~’Midw~st site for a Body Electric party on Saturday the 10th to presentatmn at 3 pro. John commemorate the e~,ent. The mass at its Saturday, October 8th workshop in 1994. Denny, past president of the celebration confiiiu’ed:wthS~ an ~ i~mee~..ng, ~-at2.~Pm:2’ a~.~ Sai~..t ....... !~n". t_.h.e: !~ork~hop, each Tulsa Geneological S ociety will inspimfi6nal praiseland"~V orsliip .;Z(~:u.ns,~a~. s)~9~l qhurch,~.... ~.~(tic~p.ant -ie~;-/(o give and SamtDunstan s ~sl0cated on the:÷-; ~r~cfii~( fi (6rnplet~ : Taoist speak about tracing your celbrafion.on the 1 lth. Church north side of 71st Street between ancestry at the Gathering Room members were pleased to h~ve massage. Because of the healing Yale & Sheridan. All are at 4154 So. Harvard, Ste. H-l, natures of Eastern approaches to former Pastors Crocker and Fink welcome, including nonBasement Level Room. erotic energy, men living with back in Tulsa for the celebration. denominatibnal believers, In October, the organization Five years ago, Pastors Pam HIV and in recovery from will return to its regular s_chedule Crocker and Marian Fink started" with a meeting on October 1st. behavior addictions are Family of Faith from a renta!:~ .~. y.~ especially welcome. Tom Neal, publisher of Tulsa location in Broken Arrow. From Family News will speak about more information, the location in Broken Arrow, the newspaper and the TBE, POB 3502, Tulsa, OK the church moved to a more community. permanent location in Jenks, and 74101 or call 446-7883 or 587more recently to its present with location in Tulsa proper. Family of Faitli has grown~ ,-:~" Saint Afdan’s Episcopal from an hfitial membership of 3 Church will host Tulsa’s 9/20 " Tulsa City-County Library Commission, noon, Owasso observance of a national day of to 4 to a membership of over 50. Library, 103 W. Broadway. Programming at the church prayer for persons living with HIV and. AIDS on. Sunday, 9/21 An English Country Garden: a Potpourri of English Songs, includes a support .group for codependency, a ch0ii’; a w~kly October3at3 pm. The Presiding noon, Aaronson Auditorium, Central Lib: 4th & Bishop of Episcopal Church Denver. Bible .study, and many other USA has called all Episcopalians Liebeslieder Waltzes, noon, Aaronson Auditorium, Central acdvities. _ 9/28 to this observance though all are Lib. 4th & ~Denver. welcome. Saint Aidan’s is located 10/18 Tuls¯ City-County Library Commission, noon, Central at 4045 North Cincinnati. The Lib. 4th & Denver. vicar is the Reverend Gall Keeny 10/27 Parent Connection, AIDS Awareness for Parents, 7pm, -Mulligan. Owasso Library, 103 W. Broadway. -N:aii0nai- :o "of P rayer fo r s.U,tan o aUuse, mooa aoa write For Persons t-,v,nu HIV/AIDS 1658. Tulsa city-county Library mmmmm|mm|||mnmmmmim|||||m||mm|mm| | U | m ¯ ¯ U n | | m ¯ | ¯ m m Puppy-.Pause IIAll Breeds Dog Grooming llth & Mingo, 838-7626 m m FIRST FRA~IN .... | ¯ Brady Heights 2 & 3 Bedroom Apartments Small Complex | FINANCIAL. ¯ ¯ ¯ u Bob Hardy -TJC, Downtown Pager: 628-8745 Water paid Open Tuesday - Saturday at &am. | Call for Appointments | Walk-ins Also Welcome. | mm.m m m m m | i m | | mm | m | m ¯ m.mn mm m mmml mmm | Great Gay Area Close to UCT $285-325 918’582-8608 SALON Dart Tournament, Tues. 8pro - Pool Tournament, Fri. 7:30 2630 East 15th Every Friday at 11, SHOW[ Mr. Tulsa Leather 9/1% lOpm 749-1563, 4-2 m, M-Sun. Miss Ul~r Cherry St. Pageant 10/8 Parking at Massad~s BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Fine Jewelry Watch & Jewelry Repair 4649 South Peoria, 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday Shop Where You Are Appreciated! Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 12 WINFCOPA Kelly Kirby ’Ross Folsom Hairdesigner Color Technician Certified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations, whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities " with sensitive &timely information. 747-5466, POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 Lincoln Plaza 1310 E. 15th St. 583:1500 �FALL BENEFIT CONCERT Benefitting TOHR & PFLAG~ FEATURING LYNN LAVNER Co mic. . . ~o ngwriter. . ;Singer �H E G A Tulsa Family News Survey In order to find out more about the needs of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered Tulsans, Tulsa Family News has constructed the following survey We would appreciate your cooperation in this effort. Please complete the survey and return it to P.O. Box 4140, Tulsa, OK 74159 or drop your completed survey by Tomfoolery! at 1565 South Sheridan (in the Silver Star Saloon) Thursday thru Sunday from 9:30 p.m. until 12:00 am on Thurs. & Sun. and till 2 am on Fri. & Sat. As this is the first such survey we’ ve done for the Tulsa area, we would appreciate any comments or suggestions you might have. Please circle or fill in the appropriate response. The voluntee~ information at the end may be sent separatdy in order to protect the privacy of your answers. L Y I F E S How often do you go to a "cultural!’ event, opera, conEert, - etc: T Y L E Political SupportGroup (specify): What types of organizational activities are important to Every six months Every three months More Frequently Less Frequently you? How many books have you read in the last three months’? How often do you read Tulsa Family News? Proties Scheduled Meetings Political Activities Social Gatherings Pride Activities News Updates Other (specify):. Every Month Occasionally Every Other Month First Time Reader Do current Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgendered organizations in Tulsa adequately suit your needs? What other Gay papers/publications do you read? If not, what suggestions do you have? PART I, ABOUT YOU The GaylyiOklahoman Age: The Advocate Gender: Tulsa. N~s Out Genre Denueve Do you think Tulsa needs a community center? How do you identify yourself? Other R~gional Publication (Specify): Gay. ~sbian Bisexual;,;+ Heterosexiad Other~specify)~. " Whi~K!~.~.i~the following Tulsa organizations are you affiliaied!,~ithi? ~ TOHRo:,+ Faith Community (MCC, Dignity, etc.) TU GLBA TJC GLAS Prime Timers. Women’ s Alternative PFLAG Pleage"rank each of the :following interest segments . :: according to importance (5 is~ the highest ranking) What would you be willing to do to support such a project? Political News 1234,5 Social News 1.2345.... Medical/HIV/AIDS News 12345 Religions News 12345 Phone Banking Tulsa Community News 12345 Mailing Oklahoma News 12345 National News 12345 Ir’Please Y 7indicate V- in’U77OT 7 FI 7---which of the following areas you I would be willing to volunteer. Yes No Yes No Yes No Hosting Parties Yes No ........... Hosdng Benefits Yes No " ; + l Editorial Republican Independent Democrat Other (specify): PolitiCal Research ¯ " If so, what is your party affiliation? ~.~12345 ..... I ’; -Hosfng Meetings Letters to the FAitor 12345 TOHR Reporter 12345 Public Speaking Advertisements 12345 ~Media Work Other (specify) 12 3 4 5 " Some College MA How can Tulsa Family News better meet your needs for news/issues of interest? " Less than 15,000 15-20,000 Yes. Yes No[ | No Writing Letters to the Editor Yes No + Writing Politicians Yes No Serving as a group officer Yes No Financial Contributions Yes No Other (specify) Yes ¯ ~ I I I I I I I 50,000 + PART IH - COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS How often do you eat out other than fast food? What type of organization would best suit your needs/ interests ? Every week 2,3 times a week AIDS Care Educational Social Religions How often do you go to see a moTie? Once a month Twice a month More often Thoughts of Desire . poetry by Collette This book is meant as a gifi to la friend, a lover, or even for yourself. B’s O sexy, sensual way to say this is how you make me feel. It’s available at Totnfoolery! or by mail for $9.95 plus $1.50 p&h. Send check or money order with your address to: 768 West 13th, Suite A, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74127 Tuba Family News, September - October 1994, pag~e 14 I " 20-30,000 Own or rent? Twice a month | PhD Income level: 30-50,000 l Yes + Nd-!~!~,. Education: BA I Other (specify): Are you a r~gistered voter? High School I | No I In order to contact you for volunteer work, please give I us the following information: I Name:_ Address: City:_ Phone: -~ -~ ~ I I I --.I �Care Hours: Bar Hours: Cafe: Tuesdau - Saturdau - 4:00 pm - Midnight Monday.-Saturday I1:00 :am - 2:00 am Serv~g Dinner 4:00pm to Midn~t, Tuesday through UPSTAIRS DOWNSTAIRS Sat’ul’~y. 253-7457 253-6723 BBQ, ]~asta, Vegetarian, Cajun, Chicken, Reubens, Steak & i Seafo(~d specials:, Eureka’s Best Burgeks, Finest Salads & Hous~made Dressings. Dine: ~, pstairs in our Care, Dowr~stairsin the Bar or Outside on our spacious Patio.I Free Delivery Downtaura. Chelsea’s Corner Cafe 10 Mountain, at Center Street Movies 8, 250-4513 Open Year Round! 68th & Memorial, Village Shopping~Center EXPECT SALOON (!;oen: Wed.- Sun. 7-2 Closed Mon. & Tues. 1565 South Sheridan, 834-4234 Tulsa Family News, September .October 1994. pv:o, e15, �Wednesday Nights. Jockey Shorts Contest -, $50 Prize, Beer Bust $4, 8-11 " Thursday Nights. Amateur Night- $25 to Winner Judged by Audience Applause September ~ec~a! " ~ Charle’ Wies Sour- $2.50 No Cover - 1902 East llth - 587-8811 - Must Be 21 To. Enter- Open Daily 4-2 am Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 16 � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay & Bisexual Communities - Our Families of the Heart September 15 October !4, 1994, Volume 1, Issue 10 Operating trader a new federal mandate seeking greater comnmni~ y involvement in the distribution of funds for HIV MDS preven~on, theO~oma ~ta~e Dept. of H~th has begtm dae commmnff phnnfing group (CPG). "l]fis group will help to determine where sm~c do!tars wii~ be distributed, t’he group ha~ 3 sub-groups: needs assessmenu epidemiology and nomination/membership. For more h~kx call William at 742- 3520. Gays Not Confer÷nee onTo erance Dialogue with the Other: Healing & Hope Tulsa wilt hos~ the I4th Nafiowal WorlcshoponCtmsfian- .Jewish Relations on Nov. 6-9 at the Adam’s MarkHotel. The!~ organizers of ~he confernece which is associated with the National Conference (formerly the National Conference of C~stim~s m~d Jews ~ trove noted dmir parficuk~ efforts to m~e fl~is conference broadly diverse. including not on13 a v~me(y of Christian and Jewish organi7~itions m~d traditions but Nso representatives of tstam Native American {raNfions. Convener Dr. William J. Wiseman writes in ~he promotional brochure. "..,diversity ~s a given. Plurality is our response. We are capable of mutual suppo~ as we seek to dialogue with ’the other’ in healing m~d hope..." Despite this public co~mnitment to diversity, no part C)n August 22. Tulsa’s Hmnan Rights * 7ommission received the revised report on discrimination based o~ sexual orientation if( ,m the Standing Committee on Sexna~ Orientation Discfimnafion~ The revisedmlmareflects cfitidsms and sugges~ons made at sever~ public hegNngs held in fl~e late spring. The committal added Ioomotes and more of i~ source matefi~s m the ofi~nal re~)rt as wet1 as a&hng a seared re] ume eft all the materials that were st~bmited hy me public to the stantfing comnfiuee. This second volume comains a numt~r of documenls fl~at can be chm’acterized as ~mti-Gay but also contains letters or memor~mda urging support of pro~ecdons against discriminauox~ based on sexual oriemadon, submitting such documents vere: ~he I.eague of Women Voters of Metropolitan TNsa. the Session of John Knox Presb~ te~am Church. the Dept. of Ecumenical & Social Concerns of Eastern OMahoma PresbyteD’, All So~’s UNaNan Another letter endorsing protections was signed by some of the mos~ distinguished religious leaders in Tulsa. Fhe Rev. Caldwetl, College Hil! Presbyterian, P,abbi Fitzermim. B’nai EmunNl Synagogue. ~e Rev. Fox. St. John’s EpiscopN, the Rev. Kennedy, Trinity EpiscopM, Dr. Knippa, Grace l.:utheraa~ Emeritus. t~he Revs. Newman ~d WILLS, Boston Ave. Me~xJist. Rabbi Shenn~m Temple ~srae!. hrs. Wolf and S~th and ~e hey. Caused,. Soul’s (Jnitarian and the Roy Me,mesh. Kendal W~i~tier Ministries and Center. TU. The gist of ~his letter iBllows: "...ore’ {radifions are no{ uNfonn in our un, lerstanding of...sexud orientation we agr~ that ~r~Nn basic h~mmn rights ...are due NI persons...discmm~ ina~ion violates ..ont._faith tradition:~ wNch regains all_to be of sacred worth...h a~ers any of God’s children must be identified ~md rem(,ved.._" Fur&er action may be t~fl~en at the next Humm~ Rights Commission meeting on 9/19. The of the brochure indicates any Church and the Green Conntry report if accepted will be effo~ttoincludeI~sbianmqdG@ Monthly Meeting of the forwarde~ to the Mayor & er y. .................. US Congress catgdtaate L~r~em Want Gays Lynn I~vner Lynn Lavner & Sandra Gillis At Benefit Show Tulsa Oklahomans fol,Human Rights (TOHR) and Parents, Friends & Family of Lesbians & Gays, Tulsa Chapter (PFLAG) will present a gala appearance by Ly~m Lavner and Sandra Gillis at All Soul’s Church, 29th & Peoria on Wednesday, September 28. Lavner, who bills herself as "America’s most politically incon’ect entertainer." combines /:greedy and cabaret-style musical performance. While the co~ uent of her ac~ is primarily (~3 myone with a ~ense of }mfl~or will appreciate her l~r~ly [ nvner dcscfi~>gs herself as "a ~;hor~ ~cf~..hm~&;d. New York lewish ~ esbia~’ who~s bce~ 1~ ~c }~e was seven. She’s role:, dcd d~me albums and a ~ivciwconcer~ recording, "Butch Fatale." Her perffmnauces have taken her to ~) smms and five coumries, playing venue~ rar~ging from Hippodrome. P~is’ Lc Piano see Lavner. pal CINCINNATI U.S. District Court Judge S. Arthur Spiegel has declared that a Cincinnati city charter amendment excluding gays and lesbians from existing city civil rights protections violates the Constitution’s 1st Amendment and is vague. A spokesperson for the city solicitor’s office said the ruling would probably be appealed. Fed. Crime Bill Includes Anti-Gay Hate Crimes WASIIINGTON. D.C. The contentious federal crime bil! approved by the Semite included a little-noticed amendmen~ that adds [~enalties for bias-based crimes based "- sexna~ orientation the fir<~ time Congress has penalized ;rod ~av vi~tence in this coum> amendment offered ~, , aa~mc };eb~s~ci~ (D-Calif. and color, religion. ~,~ ;rod eflmicity, a~d ~,~,~ camgorms of disabiIity, g~:nder smmmem. Daniel Zinga~c o~ ~h see Ha~e Crimes. page ~0 SALT LAKE CITY The Japanese American Citizens League overcame enormous odds m its national convention in Salt Lake City Aug. 3-7 to become the firstnon-gay national civil rights organization in the U.S. to endorse same-sex marriages. thealready contlicting quesuons about gays and lesbians in this country, researchers this week released timings in 2 separate studies that sharply contradict earlier studies. One review study suggests the percentage of gays and lesbians in America may in Gay and lesbian fact be significanfly greater than members of JACL, church other recent researchers have leaders, and even a U.S. found; while another ’ study see JACL. page 10 see Studies, page 10 Big Changes at NGLTF Task Force’s ’Crea~ng WASHINGTON, D.C. - The National Gay & L~esbian Task Force has announced the resignations of 4 key staff meln~rs at the lobbying group, including ~he ~eparture of Pefi Jude Radecic. NGLTF’s execaave dirdctor who will ~ hying flint W~s~ m November ffter h~s~ 1 ,’ear a~ the agency. Radccic wiI~ sm~ on a~ the Task PerLe ~5 ~s atrec~or of ,mbtic ~otic~. l~eavhv are: Deborah Cos, director ff finance ~ ~dministra~ion ~y Yoking, Jirec~or ofCr~fing Chm~ge: and Robin Kane. NGITFF’s acting Nrecmr ~{" public in~2}rmafion In its news release on ~he staff ~4hakeup. N(}t:I’b offered -~, reasons for the departures The vee NGL77;L pa~ ~’ /0 Change’ Conference to Be in Dallas in Nov. WASHINGTON. D.C, - The Nafiomfl Gay & i.esbi~m Task Force has annonnced that its annual CreaUug conferm~ ~a~ wilt 13 in Datias. Some70 worksho~xs havebeen stated U~ da~e "TV Activism ....L{ealth m Pet Color Commmntms~ as Organim~g ~’~x>~ Qt,eer Culture." ~y)rg~q~~ng Workplace. Ad~. anc~i I x)bb? Techniques," "’Rural/Small T6wu Orgm~zing, "SexuNi~ and Ne Right Wing, Court Reinstates Sailor SAN FIRANCISCO -The W.S (Term of Appeals here has rnlea tl:,~/ me ])efcnse Deoartmcm c;mno~ discharge lesbians m, I can just hear you all now - "Tom, you’ re just 0ver-reacting, you’rejustbeing melodramatic." However, Mr. Largent’s letter to the editors of the Tulsa World (reprinted with theirpermission), is troubling. What does he mean when he says that we (society?) should not "tolerate" homosexuality? He acknowledges that much evil occurs in the name..of religion .but then Says that God commanded ~ttestm"~e"t"to~no" f "naU" ons" for their "eviE’ practices and praises this intolerance.. He characterizes homosexuality as an "evil practice." The association of ;destruction with intolerance of ’;Lesbians and Gay meil is dearly The question is just what Mr. :Largent actually means. Does he ’~mean thatwe shoddbeshunned? Does he.mean that we should be ;systematically removed from positions ofresponsibility, or :merelybannedfrom certaintypes iofjobs?Are we to be tolerated as long as we are politically silentthat is, Subsidizing the hetero- ¯ sexual commtmities with our tax dollars but asking nothing for }urselveS-?WoddWebeallowed to owfi""pi}operty, to run businesses? Would we be allow&l tofuncti0n iwour society if we. ,%onverted" to heterosexuality? Does he mean thaf~)~ ivohlffbe segregated into re-education camps? Or does he mean that-we would be stoned for the "abomination of our homosexuality?" N~W~It~-’S’t~ve Largent were just to continue as an ex-football player :-and- "business consultant," his. opinions would be offensive but not particularly si~rdfieartt,--:Hpwever, as a US congressman, he would be in a pdgftion to make decisions that c0iild"g~eatly, harm Tulsa’s Legbiai~ ’alnd: Gay communities andOur.friends, and ultimately, the city... Now if:he continues in the Jim Inhofe.tradition of radical right Last month, Tulsa Family News endorsed-Jack Mildren for Governor l~e~ause he had done what had been unheard of in Oklahoma politics: he said he supported fairness and equa! oppommity for all Oklahomans, including those of us who are Lesbian ’and Gay. This commitment was made directly to me and with seemingly real conviction. Mildren’s actions were in strong contrast to Bernice Shedrick’s who ran away from giving an honest answer faster than the purse thief she allegedly chased. Shedrick’s equivocation was especially disturbing since she was supposed to be supportive ofLesbian civil rights The buzzword ofthe ’90’s is ~olerance. The hallmark ofthis decade will be its call to toleranc- the big ol’ tent mentality. To be openminded woud be synonymous, but, are we to be so open-minded that we allow our brains tofall out?.! Forexample, aprominent university in California (where else?), wants to include in its policy and procedures, literature that it does not discriminate against pedophiles - you "know, those folks who get their kick out of abusing innocent children! Excuse me, would you hand me my brain - itjustfell out! To besure, much evilgoes on under the guise of: religiouszealotry.However, we read in the Bible that .on numerous occasions Israel, ¯ under direct command of God, wasorderedto destroy other nations. Why? Often it wasfor the evil practices andtheworshipoffalsegods . by that nation. Intolerance? Absolutely! " I agree that, as anation, we must be more compassionate to one another regardless of our differences. However, theday we - -"tolerate" the evilpractices ofhomosexuality, abortion, pornography .~nd ope.d,2- philia-forsa~tE£Jua~i~6~-" Christian tenets our country was founded .upgn,..~S the .day we bd~b~ne~.~uT~b~’able to God’s irRolera~d and judgment. Editor’s note: Largent : implies a connection between homosexuality & pedophilia. Reeetit medical research suggests that heterosexual men are"mt~ch more likely to be- sexual;:~: abusers of children-,.than Lesbians & Gay men. 918-832-0233, FOB 41dO. Tuisa. OK 74159 Issued on orbefore the 15th of each month, the entire contents of this publication are protected by US copyright i994 by Tulsa Family News and may not be reproduced either in whole or in part without written permission from the publisher. Publication of a name or photo does not indicate that person’s sexual orientation. Correspondence is assumed to be for publication unless otherwise noted and becomes the sole property of Tulsa Family News. All correspondencd should be sent extremism, he may render himself isolated and almost useless in the House. (Washington observers say that even conservative business political action committees have begunto abandon Inhofebecause of his extremism and his TULSA FAMILY NEWS Pu blishe r/Edito r Tom Neal Assistant Editor James Christjohn Staff Writers Kharma Amos Brannon Crain Maureen Curtin to the address above. Each reader is entitled to one Staff Photographer free copy of each edition at distribution locations. ’JD Jamett Additional copies are available at Tomfoolery! prejudices.) I wish Tulsa Family News couldtell youwhat Stevel_argent reallymeans, but apparently part of not tolerating Lesbians and Gay men means not talking to our press, or our community ~lubs & Restaurants organizations. After repeated *The Alley,-3340 ~. Peoria 744-0896 calls, Terry Allen, Largent’s *Bad Boys Club, 1~229 S. Memorial 835-5083 campaign manager, did speak *Lola’s, 2630 E. 15th 749-1563 with us long enough to say that *Metropole, 1902 E. i11 587-8811 Largent would not support any *Silver Star Saloon~ 1565 Sheridan 834=4234 policies that.sought to reduce *Renegade, 1649 S~. Main 585~3405 discrimination based on sexual *Rex, 6101 E. Admiral 835:1055 orientation (that is prejudice *TNT’s, 2114 S. Memorial 660-0856 against homosexuals and *Time n’Time Agaia, 1515 S. Memorial 664-8299 bisexuals, but also against *Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 heterosexuals whenthat occurs). *Whittier Cafe~ 416,& Lewis 582-2400 Mr. Allen spent most of the Businesses/Services conversation making hostile remarks that showed the breadth Kent Baleh & Associates, Health & Life Insurance 747-9506 ofthatcampaign’sprejudiceand BellAire Cleaners, 4951 S. Peoria 743~5967 the depth of its ignorance. He Brookside Jewelry, 4649 So. Peoria 743-5272 clearly was not interested in Budget Window Treatments, 7116 So. Mingo, Ste. 102 254-2100 learning from us Of the reality of *CD Warehouse, 6080 S. Sheridan 491-9474 our lives. . *CD Warehouse in -Lincoln Plaza, 15th & Peoria 587-6030 ~ Maybe I’m out of iouch for First Franklin Financial, Bob Hardy 628-8745 believing that ~ p01it~cian;"~r Floral Design Studio, 3404 S. Peoria, Ste. 100 744-9595 wanna:be tradingonapretty face *Java Dave’s, Lincoln Plaza 592-3317 and faded football g~ory, would *Indian Territory Coffee Company, 1613 E. 15 58%1633 wa~t t0~kn0~ ~fi~ fiieis~ues are International Tours 341-6866 ¯ ’ 5 d Ken s Flowers, 1635 E. 1 599-8070 not only m southeast Tulsa an ...............th ~ " -- w *---" "- Tulsa’s " Major a[~mrs, zoz,~ ~ ~ .-587~g10g t~roKen ~rro , out m ° .... ¯.... .-~.~--~--~-~ Mrdtown ~eater, 319 E. 3 584:3112 ........’ ., - =~¢t~raw~s;c, t~t3/ ~ .-.ax. rt- 664-2951 ~ts Gay ones Ma~.b..e tt f~hi~.od ~€ me tg~hinl~ thTl~ , t~4mem~ lVl~rtgage corp.’ ¯ 592-7700 7.S~.o.m.eo.n.e.w.h.o.w.a.nt.s.tO.r.e.pi.:e.se.ii.~t.~=..~.i.i~.p.,y.,..~=aa.s.;e....l~.k.~.l.,,.tn.~.: :M" ingo 838-7626 Vour’city/county in governm.eiitJS ~y~ ~r_a,ve~ou,z/. ~. t_...a~a~t,o~n,,. , 49@2410 w0~d~{v~t to meet with a cro~°~ bcnt~ner s boo~store, [~z utica bquare 749-630 ! section of its cilizeus, eventhose Sound Warehouse, 1338"E. 15th 583-1572 ft6~ whom he is different. God Southwest Viadcal, 4146 8~. Harvard, S re. F-5 747-3322 forbidthatacandidatemightfind *Tomfooleryr 1565 S. Sheridan 832-0233 that we-have more in common We~tcopa Salon, Lincoln Plaza~ 583-1500 that.he.thought.. Organizations BUt,th~n maybe not i-~’~.t.~ ~1....... B/IJGAlliance, University of Tulsa. 583-9780 .if you re ~ust goirigt~-~eti{d of Interfaith AIDS Ministries 438-243% 800-284-2437- theseftlks, why waste your time *HIV Resource Consortium, 4154 S: Harvard, Ste. H-1 749-4194 with tho~e not "ch0ge~n"?~ NAMES PROJ~ECT, 4154 S. Harvard. Ste. H- 1 748-3111 - Tom Neial .... P:F-.LAG, POB 52800 74152 749-4901 editor & publisher Prime-Timers, P.O. Box 52118 74128 ’ Rainbow V:illage, POB 50403, 74150-0403 599-8423 -Shanti Hotline 749-7898 in order to get..theendorse.m_ent . and the $1,000 donation of NOW.;the Nafitiial Or~zafion.- of Women. Perhaps she mislead NOW, or perhaps, NOW was willing to sell out Lesbians (and Gay men) in order just to get a womanelected. NOW’s dumped Lesbians before. NOW was as bad about returning phone calls over many weeks as was Shedrick, so we can’t tell you. Unfortunately, Mildren seems to have reneged on his commitment. A few weeks ago, his brother, Richard, told the Tulsa World that Jack couldn’t remember our conversauon. Repeamd calls to his campaign to get a status repor~ on his memory have been ignored. We.~.y.e ..:he.en ~¢ told. that candidates in OklahOmh iniiSt ~pp~ to;l~%~-QWin order to. ~tdi~z{ed~We vebeentoldeven by our own folks that we should just "put up and shut up" so that we can get these folks elected. Now maybe I’m a little slow but it-doesn’t seem tome that if a politician won’t say the right thing when "it" wants your vote, it’s less likely to do so after elected. Down in Texas, hardly a Nogressive oasis (Dallas politics can make Tulsa look like some liberal New E~gland townI Lesbians andGay menhave bee~ a key part of tJr~e coalition that got Ann Richards etected. D~llas has 3 .Gay city council persons see Politics’, p. ~ Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 2 Tulsa Oklahomans forHuman Rights, (TOHR) POB 52729 74152 TOHR Gay He!pLine (hff0.) 743-4297 Other. *Chapma!3. St0dent Center, University of Tulsa ~’ Tulsh City/County Libraries (sometimes-depends on the censor) *Tulsa City Hall, Cafeteria Vestibule, Ground Floor *University Center at Tulsa Professionals Associates in Medical & Mental Health, 1560 E. 2! 743-1000 Jeffery A. Beal, MD, Ginny Butler, RN, Theodore Campbell, MSW Sandra J. Hill, MS, Psychotherapy, 2865 E. Skelly 745-1111 Tim Daniel, Attorney 352-9504, 800-742-9468 Learme M. Gross, Finandal Planning 744-0102 Kelly Kirby, CPA, POB 14011, 74159 747-5466 Jonathan & Dee Nicholas, Realtors 749-3000, 800-539-7767 John Kirk, Realtor 7~’7-5800, 745-2245 Richard Reeder, MS, Psychotherapy 5g L-0902, 743-4117 Fle~!gious Organizations *Bless The Lord AtA~t Times Christian Ctr 2627B E. ,~. I 62g-0594 *Community of Hope 1347 N. Yale 838-7232 *Family of Faith MCC, 5451-E So. Mir~go 622-1441 *MCC of Greater TuI,a. 1623 N. Maplewood 838-1715 Dignity/integrity 298-4648 *Canterbury Ministry Center, . :z~versity ol ~fulsa 583-9780 tohr reporter Tulsa Oklahomans forHuman Rights. PO Box 52729 Tulsa OK 74152 September/October 1994 Volume !4 Number 10 The Crews expc~.~md elsewhent in Tu/se Family News are not necessarily the .views of TOHR. Permission is. granted to reprint information contained within the TOHR Reporter page along ~~items, under lhe byline, "submitted by TOHR", contained elsewhere inTulse Family News. Several candidates vying for your votes in state and federal elections this November have been invited to the October meeting of TOHR to hear members’ ~ concerns regarding human rights.’ ~ Candidates for U. S. Senate O- and House o£Representatives, ~ ~: i i:: =s~a~te govern.or; a~dother~ublic!’ ~- i~f~Ces!willibe inVi~d~ ati~nd or~ send representatives or even just to send a policy statement to the membership of Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights. The nominating committee will present a slate to fill 1995 officer positions. Nominations will also be taken from the floor ~l~°lduring this meeting and.then closed. Elections will be held at the November meeting: Social time begins at 6:30 and the meeting starts at 7 p:m: on Tuesday, October 4, at the HIV/ Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-1, lower level. New Hours, New Staff at Testing eli=tic TOHR’.slHIV Testing Clinic is now open with extended hours. Coutiseling and.test,. case management for people with HIV/ AIDS. Derrick also works at Morton Health Clinic, helping people get needed health care and focuses outreach efforts to the African-American community. The new employees, and volunteers, are committed to offering testing that is both- ¯ free and anonymous. The clinic is housed ’- in the HIV Resource Center, 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H-I. The center offersclients_. "ink!~s::~fi~bi~!.l~ippointment-Monday., seiviee~ iinduding counseling, case. mare fl~gh ~~day~om 9 a.m. until 5p.m: agement, Care teams;"support groups, and - Same.day appointments am0ften po~.sible, .. a.food pantry. " butbe sure tocal1749-4194 to make surea AuguSt. was a briny month at the clinic! counselor will be available. -The-walk-in :. 93p~op!e’were tested and 79. came to get. clinic is still openon Thursday.evenings at ~th~ir ~e~tilts. Clinic-staff and ~i01unteers-. 7 p.m. Please arrive by8:30 tobe tested, to allow time. for the counseling and testing process.’ Results are given between 7 and 9p.m: No appointments a~e needed ~9~r the :evening clinic. : . TOHR’s HIV Testing Clinic welcomes new. employees ClaudettePeterson and De~pkDav~s,:~21a~dette Was hir~ have.been:workingvery ha~’.tokeep up With the d~mand. Claudette’ahd Derrick: givespecifiithanl~s t0~Brian, Connie, Cheryl, Dave~ Definna, Mary, Mercedes, Steve and Tim for ali their efforts: Fifleeri ~eople hhge recently offered to. become~iinie volunteers, and.w~i be tak..... ing the training offered by’ the Oklahoma BENEFIT Septembe~!~hI. I_ynn La~ner.:/ director and has been working in the HIV/ . StateDepartment ofHealtli that will.result Comic...Songwriter.’ii:::~inger,. AIDS arena since 1988. She and.herhus-, in theircertification Os ,testingc0unselors: , ...... ::~:-::~ ~,~;~, band Tim moved to Tulsa ~from.-Mont~ ’. Mri~fraining is scheduled to Start in-_: & " ; -- ~ ..... g0mery~Alabama three years ago: .... November, so anyone interestedin volun- Sandra Gilti Assistant direet0r, Derrick, has, expe.ri- tearing for the clinieshould call Claudette eneeinHIV eounse!ing and testing, and-in orDen’ickat 749-4194. BISEXUAL, LESBIAN AND GAY ISSUES INFORMATION AND REFERRALS Membership Application Name I 4G2A9Y7s ~ Yes I want to be a contributing member of Tulsa Oklahomans .for Human Rights. Please accept p~yment as described below: I-I $10 Lirnited hacome/Stadent Membership Iq $20 Regular Membevzhip I:] $35 Organizational/Household Membership I=1 $100 Sustaining Membership would like to volunteer help with: Iq Lesbian/Gay/Bisexual HelpLine I-I H1V Counselor I-I Executive Board Member I-I Event Planning and Party Preparations I:! Monthly Meeting Support Members’ Representatives Kelly Kirby .................................... President Rie Kirby ........................... 1st Vi~e President Kathleen Golden ............ :.. 2nd Vice President Robert Crow .................................... 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Harvard Suite H- 1 Tulsa Family News, September-October 1994, page 3 News Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News, Briefs News Briefs News Briefs News Opposition to UN Cone CAIRO, Egypt- Islamic fundamentalists have allied themselves with the Roman Catholic Church in trying to prevent the UN International Conference on Population & Development from adopting policies that they say would encourage homosexuality, abortion and promiscuity. A spokesman for the allied religious groups, known as the Ad Hoc Coalition for Cairo, asked U.S. officials not to push for proposals-that would "attack religious beliefs onbirth control, abortion and same-sex unions." The So. Baptist Convention’s Christian Life Commission also joined in attacking the Clinton administration. A1-Azhar, an influential center for Islamic studies, also denounced the UN conference which it said promotes the acceptance of homosexuality, extramarital relations, and abortion. Other Islamic leaders have condenmed the conference as "aZionistplot." Death Penalty in TX KERRVILLE, Texas - Donald L. Aldrich, 29, has been found guilty of the brutal murder of Nicholus West, a23 -year-oldgay man, in Tyler, Texas, last November¯ "The death sentence handed down by the jury represents justice in this case," Smith County District Attorney Jack Skeen told the Dallas Morning News . It was a coldblooded, heinous crime. The defendant deserved nothing less than the death sentence~.’’ According topolice, West had been kidnapped in Tyler, taken to a clay pit outside the town where he was stripped, brutally beaten, and shot at least 9 times - including one shotinhis genitals - before being finallykilled by a shot in his head. Henry E. Dunn, 19, and DavidR. McMillan, 18, have also been charged with murdering Westand areawaitmg separate trials. Outrage Over UT Killing SALT LAKE C1TY - Utah gays and lesbians are outraged over Di,s.t&c~,C,o,O1;t,.Judge David S. Y0.’upg s-~nt’encing Of David Nelson~Tl~gket to a mere 6 years in ~,ri~9~ for,.~e killing of a gay man, Douglas Koehler. Protesters outside the state capitol building the day after the ruling demanded Young’s removal from the court. "With clowns on the bench, you get murderers in the streets," Val Mansfield, a gay rights a.ctivist said. "Judge Young ts an embarrassment to the state of Uuda ...". Hate-motivated crimes deserve stiffer sentences not more lenient ones." Members of Koehler’s family agreed. "It’ s a mockery," Koehler’s sister Susan Nelson told the Salt Lake Tribune¯ "It’ s like his life wash’ t worth anything. When you murder someone, you should argued in court that the shooting was accidental. Search for AIDS Czar WASHINGTON - Faced with difficulties in finding a new AIDS policy coordinator, the Clinton administration brought gay tights and AIDS activists to the White House to meet with domestic policy adviser Carol Rasco and acting AIDS policy director Patricia Fleming¯ Activists said that as a result of the meeting, the White House has started its search for a replacement for thepost all over again. According to Daniel Zingale, public policy director with the Human Rights Campaign Fund who attended the White House meeting, the Clinton administration agreed to set up a new working group on AIDS that will include the Justice Dept. in fighting bias. "Discrimination has hampered the battle against AIDS from the very beginning, and continues to hamper education, prevention and research efforts todoy;" Zingale said. "!fwe hope to end the epidemic,’we must also end discrimination ag_ains~ those; most vulnerable to the disease. Discrimination in health care, education, employment-and "...~o$.h€! area~---i.s -~ a..-s¢~ou,s, )"i~.l~.,!diment t~ s~bppiffg ,~IDS." .~i (~ a ti~’ff~li ng ..... ~v~i~e representauves of the National Black Gay & Lesbian the political .content of the program ends. British Soldiers May Go to European Court LONDON - Since 1990 the British Defense Ministry has discharged some 260 military men and women for being homosexual according to informationreleaseby LaborMP Barbara Roche, who got the information from the Defense Ministry, told The Guardian newspaper, "They are treated appallingly, with investigators asking intimate questions and searching their personal belongings¯" Some of the discharged military personnel have said they may take their discrimination complaints to the European Court of Human Rights. Anti-Gay Bias Suit ATLANTA - Ronald Kirkland has filed alawsuit against C~a~rtel Restaurants Inc., charging that he was fired as a chef at the restaurant chain because he is gay and the firm’s management believed-he was infected with HIV or had AIDS and would cost .the chain money .through increased insurance prelmums. Kirkland was fired the day before ]_,.he ~a,s slatedto be enrolled iw -?.~’plan. Ex~employees ,with-the<., chain submitted sworn statements as part of Kirkland’s Leadership ]:orum, National sm" t s~¯.a.,.~3:].ni.g,.. ..t..h..at ,re,stauran, t Lanno Lesman a.no,~~. a&,".a~. : ,4~,=m~:~a,.~n,,ag;,e~.r=s..:~m,~:sc..u-:s:,s-.e.-o.. me_ma_n . s g ¯ ,. " ....... ~ conce s a t. KIV smms Lesb~ Task Force~~~~=.~~. Amenc~ Assn¯ OI rnys~:.~~>~-ne,~0¢~-0..~~, -l~~S_~_C,~e_ forHm~~"gts Gay Bar Ratd M~BOU~E,Am~Mia-~e -~_~A~traua~t° uount Melbo~e poa~ dep~ent’ s ~~~Uouples head of civilian complaints has SYDNEY%~iThe’~ustrahan said he may investigate an Aug. 7 raid on the Commerce Club, a popular gay nightclub, during which 463 patrons were publicly strip-searched for possible drug possession. Only 8 people were charged during the drug raid, on various charges ranging from possession Of illegal drugs to being drunkin public. The police .=,brzg~_n its ,,~v~, - ~hves~_gafion-into ~9~ inc~delji~Q already filer ~omplaia~ .o.j9’~ connection with tile3-1ib~ i~ai~t. Falwell Gets Offensive JACKSONV~I-L.LE, Fla...... Telev~slon stal~a XU3I’L,~:Tg Jacksonville ll’a~ tl~e~It&ie~I ~o pull Jerry Fal,,well &A)34T "me, Gospel Hour off~di~r~for month for focusing~mo~¢~or~ politics thanonreligl;hNi Wdgf picketed the TV st~. Falwell spent a good Oe~ of ume on the show broadcast in what.protesters called criticism of°~f~gi~eht Clinton ~at i~...p~%ed,)~g~y explicit language b3~ the televangelist. A spokesperson government has given the {hum~proposdl,.from the Australiaii"SWakistics Bureau to enumerate sam&sex coup~~s~ families during it~ of the nation. The plan got the approval of the Australian cabinet after lobbying efforts by both gay rights groups and the s.upport of the Anglican Synod. :., ~Attendar~t Sues Airline: .:- ~ DALLAS~7:Ame.fiean;Mrl:mes 7,fl~ight ~t,~qfi,.~t, Jay..Ma,uk_has " sued hls employer and theDall~s football team’ s chartered flights to and from games exclude male attend~m,ts.. M~auk’.s ,lawsuit, Cowboys. ~s~eriraination and~is aski~fot and, that: what .he ~.h.~ges is~ Ame~ncan A~rl~nes ,~ policy be" Cowlloy~ wpt!ld comment~ ~fiean-q~ickty d~eified"thatTii’ °has sue~ a~ poti~y. "~t!o3,,work,on the Dallas,Cowboys’- charter b~cause The suit also claims that when an spend y~.u(, life paying for that I fox~the,stationsaidWTLVmould. American Airlines employee~ murder7 ~" ~liacker.s attorney --air re-runs of the.p~o’grAm tmt~l 2 ~ w~ ]~an~tlgs the charter flights~. - Tul~[~’aTm~[y News, September - O~t~’bdr~1994,--page"4 ~....................................... 7_ ~.7.L was asked about gay flight attendants working on the charters, he was told the Cowboys’ "wouldn’t like that at Gov’t to Intervene in ~ Anti-Sodomy Laws CANBERRA, Australia - The Australian government has agreed to accept a proposal to legalize sodomy in the nation in an effort to override state antisodomy laws in Tasmania that were declared a violation of international human rights by a U.N. commission earlier this year. The move by the federal government to negate the Tasmanian sodomy statutes is likely to be challenged in court. If federal legislation is adopted, it will not, however, remove Tasmania’s anti-sodomy laws directly since that island-state has refused to repeal its statutes. City Outlaws Kisses ANKARA, Turkey - The Reuters news service has reported that the southern Turkish city of Adana has outlawed, public-kissing by men as-unsanitary, The city has not, however, banned men kissing women or women kissing other women, and Eker offered no explanation of how these other kis~s:-would be h~genic while onl~= .iiiale,mate ’kisses were considered unsanitary. Episcopal Bishops Give Mixed Signals INDIANAPOLIS - The bishops of the nation’ s Episcopal Church tried - with~ mixed-results - to dealwith homosexuali~ during its national convention. A document issued by the bishops says that "lifelong, monogamous, heterosexual unions between husbands and wives" is the standard of the church’s teachings. But the document/which has been in the works since 1991, also urges the church to "respond pastorally to those persons whose sexual behavior does not conform" to its standards. Confusing the issue further, the bishops voted to change the proposal from a ’~pa~torkl:t~hdhih~?~ to simply~a . study documen Under pressure-fro~m"a group" ~ ~6~seNativelbishops, h0wewr( ~ the conference wenteven further "aifd ffd6lStEd ~ companion document that says homosexuality "cannot be ~¢On~oned by the church" and ~E~’. s~-~X relationships "a denial of God’ s plan." .3:~t~late Retracts "Joke" ¯;, BUENOS AIRES - Cardinal : Ant onto Quarracino, 7 ~gentina’s leading Catholic 74Jrelate, said his suggestion ’.2{Furing a television interview that homosexuals were "an ignoble ¯stain [on] the face of society" and shoutdbe put in their own giae~{o,-~ayshis remarks were "a joke, something thatjust crossed my mind¯" Quarracino told reporters later th~it he was sorry.. if he "offended anyone, ff I hurt someone’s sensitivities." During an TV interview earlier, Quarracinosaidgays andlesbians should be have "alarge area.., to live in, with theirownlaws, their own media and even their own constitution."Gaytights activists in the country have threatened to suetheCardinal overhis remarks. Quarracino said he thought people "had a better sense of humor." Oregon Ballot Measure to Go Before Voters SALEM, Ore. - The Oregon state Court of Appeals has unanimously overturned a lower ruling against a proposed statewide anti-gay ballot measure, clearing theway for the initiative to go on the November ballot. Earlier this year a lower court had ruled the proposed measure- violated state constitutional restrictions against restricting voterinitiatives to only 1 issuein eachproposedmeasure. Proposition 13, a revised version ofa statewidemeasure than failed to get voter approval in 1992, would repeal exisdng gay rights measures throughout Oregon, would bar any such legislation or ordinances in the furore, and would restrict access to educational and library informationabouthomosexuality to adults only. Opponents of the anti-gay initiative say they will not appeal the ruling to the state Supreme Court. Cobb Cty. GA Rally MARIETTA, Ga. - Commemorating the first anniversary _ of the Cobb County (Ga.) Commission’s adoption of a resolution condemning "the gay lifestyle," hundreds of gays, lesbians and supporters rallied in the town square to mark the date with a protest¯ Estimates of the number of people attending ranged from 1,000 to 5,000 people. Some 200 police officers were on duty during the protest and rally. Law enforcement officials called it the most peaceful protest in more than a year. Seattle Dom..Partners SEATTLE- On Tuesday, Sept¯ 6¢ Seattle formally .began allowing unmarried same-sex and opposite-sex COul~les to register as domestic partners. Some 70 couples showed up when the city clerk’s office opened Tuesday morning to pay $25 each to register the relationship¯ The partners registration extends no legal benefits to couples. IdahoAnti-Gay Measure BOISE, Idaho- Several hundred people joined Idaho Gov. Cecil Andrus in officially launching a campaign against Prop. 1, an andgay initiative that will go before the voters this November¯ "We reject hatred whenever and wherever it appears, and it appears," Gov. Andrus said at the rally at the state capitol. Saturday, 1994. Check-in, .9 am. ~Walk begins at.lO am. ~..~. Veteran’s Park 18th-& Boulder Avenue Benefiting non-profit (501(c)3) HIVIAIDS care-giving agencies:Indian Health Care Resource Center Clinic, Parents and Friends ofLesbians and Gays (PFLAG)~ Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), Visiting Nurse Association ofTulsa, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN), Multicultural AIDS Coalition, Interfaith AIDS Ministriesl NAMES Project Tulsa Area, Hospice of Green Country, HIV Resource Consortium, Saint Joseph Residence, and SHANTI-Tulsa. ~DS~walk Tulsa Benefits Bad Bbyz - S.eptember 18; 10 pm Lola’s -.September 24, 10:30 pm Renegades ~ October 1, 11 pm Silver Star - October 7, 11 pm Metropole-October 12, 10 pm Alley- October 16, 9 pmAfter Walk Party For more information, call Walk 94 at 9-18 587 7222. Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 5 Southwest A viatical company now open right here in Tulsa. y:u are considering selling your~life insurance are in busineSs~t0 helpy0u: receiVe the highest amount in the best, quickest, most ~Confidential manner possible. A Quality ofLife Alternative Southwest 2919 Welborn Dallas, Texas 7521,9 800/559-4790 E. 41 st St. Suite F-5 Tulsa Office 4146 So. Harvard, Suite F,5 Tulsa, OK 74135-2610 -918-747-3320 Tulsa Farm~l~d~#, September -Octobek I994, page 6 Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs Health Briefs A Profile of HIV in OK’s Gay Communities by Alan G. Nyitray~ MS "It’s important that we look at the Oklahoma Gay community as a collection of many smaller communities like African American Gay men, Hispamc! Latino Gay men, Lesbian and G~y youth, rural Gay peop!e, etc. Each of these smaller communities have their own issue that must be specifically addressed; There is no one monolithic Gay community," concludes Nyitmy in a summary of findings done by the Oklahoma State Dept. of Health. These materials were compiled for the use of the HIV Community Planning Group (CPG). The CPG is a new, federally mandated body that is hoped .will provide more community input into state HIV prevention efforts. These f’mdings indicate that in Oklahoma, African-American Gay and Bisexual men have’an estimated rate of AIDS that is twice as high as thatofCaucasian Gay and Bisexual men~, The following rates a~e fofGay and Bisexual males with AIDS: African-Americans, 39 per 1000 population, Hispanics/Latinos, 29-:per 1000 pop., Caucasians, 221i per 1000 pop., Native American~, 18 per 1000 pop., and Asians/Pacific Islanders, 3 per 1000 pop. This AIDS rate is estimated assuming 6% of each race/ethnieity is Gay or Bisexual. Nyitray, whois Gay &Lesbian Outreach .Co-ordinator of the HIV/STD Service for the State Dept. of Health, concludes that the higher rates of AIDS in Gay and Bisexual men of color show that HIV prevention efforts must be improved in communities of color. "Just as Gay people riced their own specific.~iHIV.. prevention message apart..from heterosexuals, smaller .Gay communities with in the Iarger Gay community need.their ow.n messages and projects. OneHIV preventionmessageforthe whole Oklahoma Gay community does not even come close to meeting our needs." Otherissues identified in these f’mdings are: public health researchers have never determined the true rate of :.HIV infectionforanyOklahomabasedGay, Lesbian or Bisexual €~mmunity~nor hav~ there bee~ any random-based study to measure the HIV-related knowledge, attitudes, behaviors or;beliefs ofGay men~Bisex_uals or Lesbians inOklahoma, though these sorts of studies have been -successful elsewhere;~ .., ~ .~ ~ Other observations ar~........... there are at least 114,000 Gay, Oklahomans between the ages of 18 to 65basedon6% ofgeneral population, with an assumption of a higher percentage in urban areas and a lower one in rural ones; if 8% of Tulsa and Oklahoma City metro area population are Gay or Bisexual males, then about 20% are likely infected with HIV. Men of color with AIDS are more often Gay and Bisexual rather thanheteros.exualinjeetion ’drUg users as ts commonly believed. Gay men of color are lesslikely to have had an HIV antibody testthanCaucasianGay ¯ men. Gay/Bi men under age 25 are significantly more likely to say that they did not use a condom in anal sex with a casual partner than men older than 25. In larger urban areas outside Oklahoma, Gay/Bi young men have HIV infection rates estimated at 10~ 30%. While Oklahoma’s Gay and Bisexual male populations have rarely been ~tudied,. Lesbians .....hav~nignbred~althou~h iiife¢fion occurs in this .group and no prevention projects have directly addressed Lesbians.., ....Formoreinf0~aaonc~Nlan Nyitray at405-2714636 or write .,HIV/STD Service, OK Sta.te ~ fOO6NE 16di’s~ oKC, ~731 i~/- 1299. LIFEGUARD Proj~ect The LIFEGUARD project is coming to Tulsa. This project was originally developed in Los Angeles, California, and had been adapted to fit the needs of Tulsans. LIFEGUARD is a series of four meetings, dealing .with differentaspect~ of HIV disease~ The meetings are free and are de~ignddes~allyfor Gay and. ~i~fial?. high-’of all: age~ :find color. The meetings will be held in voluntc~s~l~_m.cs through~0u.t Tulsa on wednesday evedings and will provide an excellent environmentfor meeting. Places and times are availableby calling Brian Jackson at 584-4983, The four meetings are: October 5, HEAT: HIV. Education And Treatmefit, a medical overview focusing on living healthily with HIV for those who are seropositive and negative, ~fe issues such_as. ~rdl~tidn~liiiis a~discuss~by participants. October 12, SAND: Sex And Nineties Dating, a fun._.and= :e~pel-i~nfiid~m~efiiag desigixbl. examine our personal .goals and objectives in dating. Exploring - -! s0me:;.0fith~issues of da~t~ing the age of AIDS. October 19, SEA: Self Esteem Les.b~an and Bisexual designed to acknowledge and celebrate yourself. We will~ explore Gay identity and develop strategies to confront anti-Gay hostilities, both internal and external. October 26, SWIM: Sex With Intimacy for Men, this meeting, held in an auditorium rather than a home, brings together 30 to 50 men to discuss and celebrate the many safer and sexy options available to Gay men today and’ help develop skills in increasing you own~sexual satisfaction. ~. For more information, call 584-4983. Being Aware Support Group Support Services announces the return of the Being Aware rap group for the fall &-winter seasons. The group will meet. every week at 7 pm at 2440 East 51st, Suite BS. The next meeting will,be Monday, September19. _ Being Aware is degigned to meet the needs,of pedple living withHIV/AIDS and thosepcople dealing-, with.the AIDS crisis. This.is,~ a drop,in groupi:open to allpcople regardless of race, age of sexual expression. :Being’Aware is facilitated by ~William Brnder, certified HIV/ AIDS test.counselor/educator/ activist, and JeffMartin, Masters Level Counselor/Activist. For and Attitudos,.-.this meeti,n.~g is moreinformation, cal1742-3520. ~’~ ~ Jeffery A. Beal,-MD Ted Campbell,.LCSW Ginny Buffer; RN MS Specialized in HIV Care Clinical Trials* now Open for Treatment of HIV Disease and Related Infections _Nevirapipe...HIV Treatment Oral Vs. IV Ganciclovir...CMV Retinitis Treatment Zithromax-Biaxin-Ethambutol...MAC Treatment Providing Comprehesive Primary Care Medicine and Psychotherapeutic ~ervices We have many insurance provider affiliations - ifyou be~long to an insurance program that does not list us as providers, call us and we will apply. 1560 East 21st Street, Suite 210 Monday. Friday, 9:30-4:30 pm, 743-1000 *must meet inclusion & exclusion criteria. For mo~e information, call 918-743-1000, ext. ’HIV’ between 10am - 4pm. To receive more information about new clinical trials as they are available, send your name & address to: Jeffrey Beal, M.D. 1560 E. 21st St, Ste. 210 Tulsa, OK 74114 Tulsa Family N.ews~ September - October 1994, page 7 presents... ’.:HIV Education Treatment \~// _ (of 14). I’m not convinced that the culture mad prejudice is that different here. The difference is that in Texas, Lesbians & Gay men have been involved in politics and have demanded better treatment. Here we’re too busy being grateful for getting only one kick in the pants instead of two. As long as we don’t demand more of our politicians, we’re not going to get more. In many cases, we still may not get what we wantbut at least wecanmake an informed decision. Most social change in this country, this state, and this city did not come from well connected minority folks working their inside connections. It was the ones with inside connections, the AdamClaytonPowells whowere telling Dr. King, "son, you’re going too fast..." Social change has come from those who were pushy, who said, "sorry we’re not going to accep,t, what you’re trying to do to us. Ada Louise Sipuel Fisher, Thurgood Marshall and the NAACP pushed OU towards desegregation. Joe Williams and others with the NAACP forced Tulsa out of its racist city commission form of government. They may have been polite but~y weren’tjust ahoma politicians are going to try to avoid talking with us, about us mad our issues as long as we allow them to get away with doing so. Tulsa Family News will do all we can to shame, cajole or persuade Oklalaoma politicians into upholding basic American values of fairness, honesty and respect for all citizens. Accordingly, Tulsa Family News ~s withdrawing its endorsement of Jack Mildren. We cannot recommend either Mildren or Shedfick. We find them to be both cowardly and less than honest. Repeatedly, we’ve been told that Shedrick "does not have a bigoted bone in herbody."Webeen told Mildren believes in fairness. Well, this Gay man says start proving to our comnmnity that you stand for something other than only getting yourselfelected or taking our money. The winner ofthe Detnocratic runoff election (September 20) will face Frank Keating, Republican nominee on November 8.. Meanwhile, media observers may wonder where the "mainstream" media has been in covering minority issues, including Lesbian~:and Gay issues, in this campaign. The Tulsa Woddhardl~,.~ms to make any connection between local issues concerning Lesbian and Gay Tulsans and the We do honor Chuck Ervin (State Capitol) and Jim Myers (DC burean) for asking a hard question or two but wonder when the rest of them will get it? Then there’s television. The same stations that cover local Lesbian and Gay issues fairly well are as bad as theTulsaWorld on state and federal issues. Could it be that the tv stations did not ask aboutLesbian andGayissues in the tv debates because of well documented anti-Gay bias of some news people? Maybe they believe that if they don’t talk about us, we’lljust go away. I’m not. Youknow you can call these folks up and tell them you’ re not happy with their coverage. We do. We hope you will too. Conf, cont’dfrom p.l and Gays from other faith traditions. Nancy Day, executive director of the Tulsa chapter of the National Conference indicated that the office had not tried to involve local Lesbian/ Gay congregations or organizations. Other organizers apologized for the lack of inclusion and promised to investigate making last minute changes to the programming. Also atpress time, organizers could not ’verify whether workshop presenters would address tbe anti-Gay aspects of the Holocaust. For more information, call 5846116. L IIII I II__L I I li~ I I Illl OKs Only IGTA Affifiate(ln~1 Gay Travel Assoc.) 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But, like you, they’ve had trouble finding someone who shares their interests. That’s where we come in. Y6U n~ay place an ad of 30 words or less for a month free. After you mail your ad to TFN by the first of the month, you will be assigned a voice mail box in which you can leave a message to which other readers can respond. Leaving messages or listening to responses costs $1.59/ minute. You must provide your name, address and day & evening phone numbers. This information is completely confidential. Categories are: friends seeking friends, women seeking women, & men seeking men. Ads containing sexually explicit/implidt/anatomical language will not be accepted. Tulsa Family News reserves the right to edit or reject any advertisement. Ads may be submitted for publication’ only by per~_ns 18 years of age or older. No ads will be p.ublished seeking persons under 18. Tulsa F_amiJ_¥ News assumes no liability for the content or reply [or any personal ad. The customer placing the ad assumes complete lhbility and holdsTulsa Family Newsharmless forall cost, expel.. (induding attorneys fees), liabilities and damages resulling from or caused by the publication or recording placed by the a~verliser or _any reply ~any sitch ailvertisement. By using Tulsa Family News Personal Service thec~placing the ad agrees not to leave his/her phone numbs, last name ~addiess inhis/her 018i 747-9506 Fax 1918) 747-1154 4308 South Peoria ~tha, OK 74105-980~ Because everyone has a right to be blessed by God! ~-0~J~l, message phone. Eddie Coo.k, past~r Mini Blinds 70% off" Tulsa Family News, September = Oc~!~¢r J~894, page 9 NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS NATIONAL NEWS JACL cont’dfrom p. 1 Congressman appealed to the groups to approve the resolution endorsing equal marriage rights for gays and lesbians, which passed by a 50-38 vote with 11 abstentions. The proposal caused serious dissensions in the 65-year:old, 24,000-member JACL. Allen Kato, JACL’s legal counsel, resigned m protest over the proposal which he .called "morally wrong." Bill Hosokawa, a former _Denver Post_ editorial page editor wrote a column in JACL’s weekly publication saying that "JACL established ~i proud record that includes adv~acy for all. But now it has gone .beyond that, choosing;, arole,on..the cutting edge of t~e~litanthUmanrights moveme~(," ~, ~Former JACL chap te rlf ~i~ie~.s,i.d~n t s Tak Yamam6(6 i~.fid.~fi~ Yaniamoto rand formei; JACL staffer Lia Shigemura,~e,,0ut during the months:l.0ni~i~d~fiate, over the resolufioi~ arid: all~ addressed the conventi~ox~.tf.-app~al for its adoption/.,,.M,~religious leaders,~"Ec~’li’ a~" the Rev. Joan Ishibashi’ ~iUnited Church of Chris-ili~ :~olidu and the Rev. M~?~agawa of same-sex nim-ri~ag~;~gesblu_fi0n - as did ~/~’ cau.c.~s, the.As~iation the National Asian Pacific American Legal Consortium. U.S. Rep. Norman Mineta wrote in a letter to JACL: "Where would we be today if the NAACP,or the National Council ~of La Raza, or the Anti- Defamation League of B’nai Brith, or the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force, had taken the position that redress was a Japanese American issue - and had nothing to do with African Americans, HispanicAmericans, Jews or gay and lesbian Americans? These organizations, and their members;joined us because they unders~c~i believed in;our argument-that a threat: t~ the civil fights 6f AmeriCanis a threat ito the civil rights Of all Americans.;’- Hate .crimes cont’dfrdOip; 1 Human Rights Campaign Fundsaid~ "This is the;first ~tim~ Congress has acted to ~punisli violeiac¢ against lesbians andgay men tlLrough stiffer periiiltie~ f0f hate crim~s, The inclusion of disability aiid gender, aloi~g with sexual brientation; sendS a message to loc;al law enforcement agencies’ that the federal gfvemment is about g@~bashing:..""The full hate~esbill passed the Senateon a 61=38 vote. President Chnton is-expected to s~gfithe bill into law. Studies cont’dfrom p. 1 indicates that gay men and lesbians, contrary to other findings and popular myth, earn considerably less than their heterosexual co-workers. One study, presented at the annual meeting of. the American Statistical Association in Toronto, indicated that 10% of American men and 6.4% of U.S, women have had sex with a member of the same’sex at least once during their lifetimes. The study also:found that more than 18% Of males and over 17% of females said they.had ~ither had sex with or had felt sexually, attracted.to:someone Of the Sam~’ sex - or both,- duriiigtheir lives. In additi0fi, the Study~also foimd tha~4:l% of’m~n arid 2:3% Of" women in this Cfuntry said they had’ dulyiiad same:s:ek relatio~~. during their fives.~ AnOtherStud~; by ~/~ unive"r~itybf:Mafyland are l~sing money just for being gay.’ Earliermarketing reseaich surveys have suggested that gay couples earn $56,000 to$63,006 annually, ~ompared with the national average ofjust $36,500. According to the study’s findings, gaymen aremorelikely to hold professional jobs, but they areless likely to bepromoted into managerial ranks, thereby eontributing to their overall lower income levels. While 1’7.9% of heterosexual men surveyed were managers, only 12.8% .of the gay men were. Navy. cont’dfrom p. 1 rational reason for its anti-gay policies. The appellate court ruling upheld the reinstatement order, but did not deal.with the issi~of the military ban’s constitutionality: .There was speculation that because the appeals .court only applies to Meinhold’S reinstatement and does not challenge the researcher, found that gay men’", c0nstitutiooality of the ban itself make 11% :t6 27% less than the government may not appeal hete-rosexu’al males in thedecisiontotheU.S.Supreme comparablejob~. Lesbians, the .. Court.’The Jnsdce Dept. would researchers found2earn ~% to- " onJysay that the decision was 14%lessthatl -heterosexual femaleS. "Lesbians’ men are experiengi.ng.’discrimiuation fliat ’ actually hurts them -ec0nomically," said Lee- Badg.ett; a:’Univ~rsity. of Maryl~d e~01iomi’c~’ pro~essor, - and ao:tli6r of!the’smdy;:’*They being reviewed. NGLTF. - cont’dfrom p. 1 organization will launch a nari.on’al~search,, for ~ a new Lavner cont’dfrom p. 1 Zinc and New York’s Eighty- Eights to colleges and community centers to MCC’s in Wichita and Sarasota, the 25th anniversary of the National Organization ofWomen and the International Mr. Leather contest. Ms. Lavner typically performs in black leather. Sandra Gillis is the executive director of PFLAG’s national. organization. According to !ocal co-organizer, Nancy McDonald, Ms. Gillis will not be performing in leather, black or otherwise but: will be giving an update on the substantial efforts of PFLAG to fight discrimination basedon sexual orientation. Patrons may attend a private dinner with Lavner & Gillis, a special reception and the gerformance with a donation of 100 for two persons. A sponsor ticket for the reception and performance is $50-for two, Tickets for the performanceare $10 in advance and $15 at the door. Tickets and information is available at Tomfoolery! or by calling 747-4125 or 742-8565. Change . cont’dfrom p. ! ’Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell,’" and "Legislating Against Violence.," For further information, contact Sue Hyde at (61"7) 492-639~/.... $I6,049 Y WANN MITSUBISHI The New Thinking in Automobile~" Had credit )roblems in the )ast? 800 apl!~intment. 810 S.~incinnati Suite 100 .~.’~u!~a; Okla 74119 Sandra.J. Hill, M.S. Psychotherapy & Clinical Consultation Sensitive to the Challenges of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgen~lered Individuals, ¯ " r :~: Couples & Families, 1 11 2865 E.-Skelly .Drive, Ste. 215; 745-. 1 "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" "~" ,-: Tulsa Family News, September- October 1994, page 10 T H E Planner Leanne Gross. Mapping Your Financial Road to Retirement by Leaane M. Gross Most people look upon retirement as a happy exchange of activities: playing golf, visiting friends and family, siting by the pool, traveling the world, or simply lazing the days away in some pleasant climate. And yet, a growing record of. dashed hopes casts a shadow across the expectation of untroubled days. Stories abound of retirees adrift without a chart of daily obligations to direct them: They haven’t posed these questions about retirement that they’ve routinely answered "G A Y Where do I want to be? How do I want to live? More serious, as a survey by financial services giant Merrill Lynch shows, is the substantial gap between what people expect to afford in their retirement and what their retirementincome will actually enable them to afford. They haven’t answered the most important question. What will my retirement income be? To answer that question, experts in the field agree the place to start is the income every employed person will have: Social Security retirement benefits.. Until August 1988, the odds of your getting a satisfactory answer were about as good as beating a sidewalk gambler at three-card Monte. Since then, under a Social Security Administration program calledPEBES (Personal Earnings and Benefit Estimate Statemen0, you can have an answer in a couple of weeks. Call 8001937-2000, request form SSA-7004, complete itandreturn it. The information you receive will include your-estimated monthly retirement, benefits basedon your projected earnings and the age at which you expect to reure. Be prepared for a shock., your during their working years:. .. PEBES will most likely show .What do I want tq do wi~,m~i:: :( fliatS~al Seeurity-~even ffyou time and my life? ~ :" " " "..~ mad y~employer(s) contribute L ..... I F E S T Y L E to it for 40 years and you work don’t buy until you’re satisfied past 65-- will hardly meet basic this is what you need. living expenses. First Rule: Start your planning Uncle Sam has not deceived early. It takes from 20 to 25 you. Social Security is not a years to implement a successful pension, and was never intended retirement plan. Unless you have to be a pension, although that is major amounts to contribute to a. common assumption. Its the fund; however, some objective, zs to replace part of retirement savings m better-than the income that individuals and none in any case. their families lose, when they During those years, you’ll be . retire, become severely disabled, building assets that will provide or die. You should consider your retirement income, even under Social Security and company severeinflationarypressures, and pension benefits a "retirement ensure your security and that of paycheck", using this to your survivors, m the event of determine the incomeyou’ll need health or other emergencies. to finance the retirement you You’ll set the process in want. motion by giving the planner a What is your next move? meticulous account of your The same action you take to.. present income and expenses, prepare for a home purchase, or. your total assets and liabilities, a vacation, or a child’s college, plus incomeyou expect toearn education. You must plan. ...... after retirement-along with the The only difference is that this year you intend to retire and the is long:range.Pl~ng that.will annU~il retirement income you pay a co~mm~anding role i~a your want to have. life for. many.y.e~s~. .. : ........ ..~ Afte_r analyzing, this But.a retirement .p!an, like a informa’d0~’. ~he pl~e!~...w~ll tailored suit, should fit. you propose ~a:ys¯ you can manage perfectly. Few ~people other than your current earnings andassets fiscal, e~per~s have the time or so they Will"yield the r~xiui~ed saw;y to €onstruEi. such a piah, . incrm~ when you retire, q’his]s, and you’ll ..probable need essentially,, a long-range professional help. ¯ " in~;~stmeiat program bUii~,iin There’ s plenty available. Most mo~t eXtses,.onsi~me form0f ~xlarge banks, insurance free.annuity or other h~dged companies, investment houses investment that will make the and accounting firms offer most of the resources you can retirement planning. Pick a dedicate to it. quality instituti.on, ask questions, ’ T.he :p~an, :wpically, will_ also sketch the impact of different econon~ic scenarios high/low stable interest rates, high/low stable inflation, recession growth/depression- on vour rettrement~ncome. The complete plan will be a road map to your retirement security. However you dev~lop your plan, on your own or with experienced help, you can count on it requiring investment of time and personal resources. But never doubt that it’s worth every hour, every dollar you devote to it. As I always say: "People don’t plan to fail, they fail to plan." Leanne M. Gross is a member of the Rainbow Business Guild, a Tulsa non-profit organization. Boy George Paternity ? LONDON - To the SUrlY,rise of virtually no one,iaB.fitish court has tossed out a ~i~fl claim by a woman in the. U.S°.iWho had charged that,.openly gay pop singer Boy Ge01ge.h~igl ~athered her 7-year-old~oiX:Th~~ed woman filedttie"aUit i~t~-t: year, but the court dis~ssed:the case when it was told tile ~vbman had not been heard:i~rO~ ~i:~ then. Boy George s~d Of:th~ w~oman’ s claims that he haffnever had sex with a woman~ M8 !ifeand that therefore the birthmust have been "a miracle." 496-2410, 800-336-3524 Homes change with the times..: munic~ting withith’eir corn: parties via fax"modems. .Homes With two offices~will ~o~ ~ unusuat. Hou~ho[d size is shrinking and the number of -householders will increase nearly 20e~ this d~ade. At [he same [im~ mallv households are expanding to dude grandparents, .~dult children, or both. That calls for flexible floor plans, and more accessory units ~ selfcontained "apartments"" within homes. Dining rooms mav be going the way of sculleries and ~pus rooms¯ ~me builders are.eliminating them in favor of more spacious eating areas open to family rooms. The National Association of Home Builders recenflv surveved industry watchers, futurist~,..and feading-edg~ builders to find out how new technology and changing demographics will be changing our homes. Here’s what they found. There will be more media rooms and larger family rooms because ot increasing sales ofbig-screen TVs. Many Upscale, homes are being built with complete home theaters. For buyers and sellers If you’re a buver remember that all the lates( improven~ents don’t mean a thing unless vou really like what you buy. The home should fit’your requirements.° If you’re a seller, keep tn mind that - Many hgflae~ already have office op- there are buvers who will "decide ~that tions -- dens or extra bedrooms that can your home i~ exactly what they want. be used as home offices. But the trend is Putting buyers a~d sellers t~geth~er is ac6elerating. Bv theyear 2001, 70% of all. our job. Call us to learn how w~.can homes are expected to have computers guide you to success. Thei-e’s as more ,peopte-.work at home, com~.......obligation for a meeting. - ...... ¯ .................................................................................................~;-,~4--.-~.~- ......’:~.~.,,,Tulsa Family~ews, September - 6CtOb’~’~’:"179~),~i pcige 11 ). T H E AiDS Info-Line Interfaith AIDS Ministries has added a 918 area code 800 number (800-284-2437) to provide greater access to HIV/ AIDS information throughout eastern Oklahoma. As the State of Oklahoma AIDS information line is still inoperative, this is the only 24 hour, 7 day a week information source. Interfaith ¯AIDS Ministries also is seeking volunteers for the information line. Volunteers work from their homes as calls are forwarded from the Interfaith AIDS Ministries number. This phone line is the only 24 hour a day source of HIV/AIDS information and referrals in the 918 area code. Volunteers are asked to consider donating a 3-4 hour block of time at least one evening a week. Night owls would be especially welcome for late shifts. Training on HIV issues will be provided and typically requires about 4 hours and is conducted one on one. Another 2 hours on phone line protocals and crisis training is also provided. For more information or to volunteer, call Interfaith AIDS Ministries at 438-2437 or 800- 284-2437. Family of Faith-,~iOij g ~!~;ii~it’ ~y Family of Faith MCC, formerly of Jenks, celebrated a 5 year birthday on Septembe:~;9; The church, now located at 5,L51- E South Mingo, had a dat~ee party on Saturday the 10th to commemorate the e~,ent. The celebration confiiiu’ed:wthS~ an inspimfi6nal praiseland"~Vorsliip celbrafion.on the 1 lth. Church members were pleased to h~ve former Pastors Crocker and Fink back in Tulsa for the celebration. Five years ago, Pastors Pam Crocker and Marian Fink started" Family of Faith from a renta!:~ location in Broken Arrow. From the location in Broken Arrow, the church moved to a more permanent location in Jenks, and more recently to its present especially welcome. of Prayer fo r For more information, write TBE, POB 3502, Tulsa, OK Persons t-,v,nu 74101 or call 446-7883 or 587- with HIV/AIDS 1658. location in Tulsa proper. Family of Faitli has grown~ ,-:~" Saint Afdan’s Episcopal from an hfitial membership of 3 Church will host Tulsa’s to 4 to a membership of over 50. Programming at the church includes a support .group for codependency, a ch0ii’; a w~kly Bible .study, and many other acdvities. _ mmmmm|mm|||mnmmmmim|||||m||mm|mm| Puppy-.Pause II- | U | m ¯ ¯ U n| |m ¯ |¯m m F E S T &. :~Body,~., Electric I n t e g r i t YannoTuhneTcuelssaBaodwyoErlkecsthroicpgroaunpd -°~.C~aP°_Ga,~, &~"_~.~.s:bi~a!~:~~-~.~.etreat;.’!Celebrating the Body -:,LT~nistry ~t the Ro~an!!Ggtholi¢., :Eleclfic’~ to be held October 22 ;(::~Epi~s_~,.pa~C~h~i?.~-" :: :’.i: :& 23. Tl~is will be the only D/I WilI celebrate an Episcopal ...... ~’Midw~st site for a Body Electric mass at its Saturday, October 8th workshop in 1994. ~ i~mee~..ng, ~-at2.~Pm:2’ a~.~ Sai~..t ....... !~n". t_.h.e: !~ork~hop, each .;Z(~:u.ns,~a~. s)~9~l qhurch,~.... ~.~(tic~p.ant -ie~;-/(o give and SamtDunstan s ~sl0cated on the:÷-; ~r~cfii~( fi (6rnplet~ : Taoist north side of 71st Street between massage. Because of the healing Yale & Sheridan. All are natures of Eastern approaches to welcome, including non- erotic energy, men living with denominatibnal believers, HIV and in recovery from -N:aii0nai- :o "- s.U,tan o aUuse, mooa aoa .~. y.~ behavior addictions are All Breeds Dog Grooming llth & Mingo, 838-7626 Open Tuesday - Saturday at &am. Call for Appointments Walk-ins Also Welcome. mm.m m m m m | i m | | mm | m | m ¯ m.mn mm m mmml mmm m m | ¯| ¯ ¯ ¯ u || | | Y L E Prime limers Prime Timers, a social nonprofit organization for Gay men over 40, will hold its monthly meeting on Saturday, September 17 with social and business segment at 2 pm and with a presentatmn at 3 pro. John Denny, past president of the Tulsa Geneological S ociety will speak about tracing your ancestry at the Gathering Room at 4154 So. Harvard, Ste. H-l, Basement Level Room. In October, the organization will return to its regular s_chedule with a meeting on October 1st. Tom Neal, publisher of Tulsa Family News will speak about the newspaper and the community. observance of a national day of prayer for persons living with HIV and. AIDS on. Sunday, October3at3 pm. The Presiding Bishop of Episcopal Church USAhas called all Episcopalians to this observance though all are welcome. Saint Aidan’s is located at 4045 North Cincinnati. The vicar is the Reverend Gall Keeny -Mulligan. Tulsa city-county Library 9/20 " Tulsa City-County Library Commission, noon, Owasso Library, 103 W. Broadway. 9/21 An English Country Garden: a Potpourri of English Songs, noon, Aaronson Auditorium, Central Lib: 4th & Denver. 9/28 Liebeslieder Waltzes, noon, Aaronson Auditorium, Central Lib. 4th & ~Denver. 10/18 Tuls¯ City-County Library Commission, noon, Central Lib. 4th & Denver. 10/27 Parent Connection, AIDS Awareness for Parents, 7pm, Owasso Library, 103 W. Broadway. FIRST FRA~IN FINANCIAL. Bob Hardy Pager: 628-8745 Brady Heights 2 & 3 Bedroom .... Apartments Small Complex Great Gay Area Close to UCT -TJC, Downtown Water paid $285-325 918’582-8608 Dart Tournament, Tues. 8pro - Pool Tournament, Fri. 7:30 2630 East 15th Every Friday at 11, SHOW[ 749-1563, 4-2 m, M-Sun. Mr. Tulsa Leather 9/1% lOpm Parking at Massad~s Miss Ul~r Cherry St. Pageant 10/8 BROOKSIDE JEWELRY Fine Jewelry Watch & Jewelry Repair 4649 South Peoria, 743-5272 Comer of 48th & Peoria 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday Shop Where You AreAppreciated! Kelly Kirby Certified Public Accountant Lesbians & Gays face many special tax situations, whether single or as couples. We are proud to serve our communities " with sensitive &timely information. 747-5466, POB 14011, Tulsa 74159 SALON WINFCOPA ’Ross Folsom Hairdesigner Color Technician Lincoln Plaza 1310 E. 15th St. 583:1500 Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 12 FALL BENEFIT CONCERT Benefitting TOHR & PFLAG~ FEATURING LYNN LAVNER Comic...~ongwriter..;Singer H E G A Y L I F E S T Y L E Tulsa Family News Survey In order to find out more about the needs of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered Tulsans, Tulsa Family News has constructed the following survey We would appreciate your cooperation in this effort. Please complete the survey and return it to P.O. Box 4140, Tulsa, OK74159 or drop your completed survey by Tomfoolery! at 1565 South Sheridan (in the Silver Star Saloon) Thursday thru Sunday from 9:30 p.m. until 12:00 am on Thurs. & Sun. and till 2 am on Fri. & Sat. As this is the first such survey we’ ve done for the Tulsa area, we would appreciate any comments or suggestions you might have. Please circle or fill in the appropriate response. The voluntee~ information at the end may be sent separatdy in order to protect the privacy of your answers. PART I, ABOUT YOU Age: Gender: How do you identify yourself? Gay. ~sbian Bisexual;,;+ Heterosexiad Other~specify)~. Whi~K!~.~.i~the following Tulsa organizations are you affiliaied!,~ithi? ~ TOHRo:,+ TU GLBA Prime Timers. How often do you go to a "cultural!’ event,opera, conEert, - etc: Every six months Every three months More Frequently Less Frequently How many books have you read in the last three months’? How often do you read Tulsa Family News? Every Month Occasionally Every Other Month First Time Reader What other Gay papers/publications do you read? The GaylyiOklahoman The Advocate Tulsa.N~s Out Genre Denueve Other R~gional Publication (Specify): Pleage"rank each of the :following interest segments " . :: according to importance (5 is~ the highest ranking) Faith Community (MCC, Dignity, etc.) TJC GLAS Women’ s Alternative PFLAG Other (specify): Are you a r~gistered voter? If so, what is your party affiliation? Republican Independent Democrat Other (specify): Education: High School Some College BA MA PhD Political News 1234,5 Income level: Social News Medical/HIV/AIDS News 1.2345.... 12345 Religions News Tulsa Community News Oklahoma News National News Editorial Letters to the FAitor 12345 12345 12345 12345 ~.~12345 12345 ..... TOHR Reporter Advertisements 12345 12345 Other (specify) 12 3 4 5 How can Tulsa Family News better meet your needs for news/issues of interest? " Less than 15,000 15-20,000 20-30,000 30-50,000 50,000 + Own or rent? PART IH - COMMUNITY ORGANIZATIONS How often do you eat out other than fast food? Twice a month Every week 2,3 times a week How often do you go to see a moTie? Once a month Twice a month More often What type of organization would best suit your needs/ interests ? AIDS Care Educational Social Religions Political SupportGroup (specify): What types of organizational activities are important to you? Proties Political Activities Pride Activities Other (specify):. Scheduled Meetings Social Gatherings News Updates Do current Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgendered organizations in Tulsa adequately suit your needs? If not, what suggestions do you have? Do you think Tulsa needs a community center? What would you be willing to do to support such a project? Ir’ Y 7 V- ’U77OT 7 FI 7---- Please indicate in which of the following areas you I would be willing to volunteer. I Phone Banking Yes No | " I Mailing + ; Yes No l l PolitiCal Research ¯ Yes No " Hosting Parties Yes No | ........... Hosdng Benefits Yes No I ’; -Hosfng Meetings " Yes + Nd-!~!~,. I Public Speaking " Yes. No[ ~Media Work Yes No | ¯ ~ I Writing Letters to the Editor Yes No + I Writing Politicians Yes No I I Serving as a group officer Yes No I Financial Contributions Yes No I I Other (specify) Yes No I In order to contact you for volunteer work, please give I us the following information: I Name:_ -- -- ~ I Address: City:_ ~ ~ I Phone: I --.I Thoughts of Desire . poetry by Collette This book is meant as a gifi to la friend, a lover, or even for yourself. B’s O sexy, sensual way to say this is how you make me feel. It’s available at Totnfoolery! or by mail for $9.95 plus $1.50 p&h. Send check or money order with your address to: 768 West 13th, Suite A, Tulsa, Oklahoma 74127 Tuba Family News, September - October 1994, pag~e 14 Care Hours: Tuesdau - Saturdau 4:00 pm - Midnight UPSTAIRS 253-7457 Bar Hours: Cafe: - Monday.-Saturday Serv~g Dinner 4:00pm to I1:00 :am - 2:00 am Midn~t, Tuesday through DOWNSTAIRS Sat’ul’~y. 253-6723 BBQ, ]~asta, Vegetarian, Cajun, Chicken, Reubens, Steak & i - Seafo(~d specials:, Eureka’s Best Burgeks, Finest Salads & Hous~made Dressings. Dine: ~,pstairs in our Care, Dowr~stairsin the Bar or Outside on our spacious Patio.I Free Delivery Downtaura. Chelsea’s Corner Cafe 10 Mountain, at Center Street Open Year Round! Movies 8, 250-4513 68th & Memorial, Village Shopping~Center EXPECT SALOON (!;oen: Wed.- Sun. 7-2 Closed Mon. & Tues. 1565 South Sheridan, 834-4234 Tulsa Family News, September .October 1994. pv:o,e15, Wednesday Nights. Jockey Shorts Contest -, $50 Prize, Beer Bust $4, 8-11 " Thursday Nights. Amateur Night- $25 to Winner Judged by Audience Applause September ~ec~a! " ~ Charle’ Wies Sour- $2.50 No Cover - 1902 East llth - 587-8811 - Must Be 21 To. Enter- Open Daily 4-2 am Tulsa Family News, September - October 1994, page 16 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1994] Tulsa Family News, October-November 1994; Volume 1, Issue 11 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource October 15-November 14, 1994 Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversations toward Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource Tulsa Family News was a monthly newspaper; No. 1 issued December 1993-January 1994. The final issue available was published in September of 2001 (Vol. 8, Issue 9). The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, military, law, charity, Pride, TORH, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Family News Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tom Neal Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource James Christjohn Kharma Amos Brannon Crain Maureen Curtin JD Jamett Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Tom Neal/Tulsa Family News Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/491 Relation A related resource Tulsa Family News, September 15-October 14, 1994; Volume 1, Issue 10 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24