10 20 690 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/bc3ebbac4883448b09f53e49df84e5d0.jpg 383d62c0e5fb1665e2940f9c6d326a87 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/c851c5f80290ad0f417c93eb0b34c12c.pdf 4e53b3823f23b4b3979886aaa3d4c493 PDF Text Text ����� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Serving: SW l'vfissouri SE Kansas NE Oklahoma NW Arkansas Volume-1 Issue-1 "Community " Juplin Missouri: "Community?" ... Just what can be said about it, for it, or to support it? I believe that we have to understand what community is before we can progress to developing that which we have not had ..... . See editorial !Xll/-2 ...... ... . Ozarks Pride Magazine is published monthly and distributed to area business and other outlets free of charge the first week of each month. Subscription service will be available soon. Community Unity Letters To The Editor:--- A Diverse Community Voice Joplin, :rvfissouri January 2004 Gay and sbian Military '~ Gay Man Serving" I am writing this column as a service member, just as many in the GLBT community are or have been. It is a perspective of my views as a military member, having served for over si.-..: years. It is a common misconception among the general public that gay service members are a fluke. People, especially in tb.e sheltered straight world, assume that the only gays in the military are lesbians. I am very happy to burst these misconceptions by saying that the gay community is alive and well in the US military. The military is almost a subculture of homosexuals. Although, in the 'don't ask, don't tell' era, enlistees are told to sign a contract stating that he/ she will not pursue or engage in homosexual sex or marry, attempt to marry anyone of the same sex upon enlistment. This is the major loop hole that commanders take advantage of to conduct "witch hwits" within their units. Even in light of this, I have come to realize that many (I would almost say most) of the personnel in the military are accepting of gays. Ontti1111td Gay l&!ikiry-/XI§ 3 Volume 1 Issue I Publisher: Ozarks Pride Magazine 2401 E. 32nd St. Suite 10 Box 10-243 Joplin, :M:issouri 64804-3128 www.ozarkspride.com Editor: C.D. Ward Managing Editor: T.J. Kelly Advertising Director: Chaz Stonn Staff Reporters: Marion Wilson Gf'81J Steele Correspondents: Ryan T. Raymond Contents: Editorial- page 2 Letters to Editor- pagef The Guide- page 7 Aunt Bea's Recipe's- page 7 Advertising Rates: Card Size Ad- $6.00 par issue Inside Half Page- 15.00 Inside Full Page- $25.00 per issue Inside Third Pags- $10.00 Ozm Pride Maga:d1111t publishi!d & cls-1bied roontly • a amnunllr ww:e by Ozsb Pride Gn:q, rl. Jcpin, Muolli. Pooliclllon rl. tile name, pboklgr,ph oc aar- rl. any p«QI, business ocorganlzallon in this publem! la notio beCOIIA'Ulld as 1111y in<bllon rl. sexual cninllllon a,- prelsences of IWI penoo, b~ oc organiz• lion. Opinions e,:presMd by collmllsls, 11M111Mn a,- L.«ti, to ths 5:ltor 1,e not~ fl8 opinion rl. Ozrit Prldt MIQazhe. b mi!; fie pui.h"' or l's 1CMl!llsin. eoo•nt rl. lCMll1lemen11 Ind n:le5 n the so.It responlliblly of hi idwl11ler and I« uhor. The Publsher rl. Ozm Prldt M!Qszitt re-lhe right io reluee ~i l!lllillNj b' ,ny Rl8IOn ,rlllt so -· Oz,lb Prldl! and,. lbne-11-el'I rl. n sole propertesof Oz1rb Prldt G,a;ip. All mnwlal C cop)'right 2004 Olllb Prldt Deadline for all ads, articles and payment is the 20th of each month at 4pm for the next months issue. Page 2 January 2004 j Guest Editorial: ByStevc Uric: When I heard that people in the community where wanting to publish a newspaper; the news was received \11/lth quite expectation then I was ask to write an article. This brought to heart agonizing memories of newsletters and newspapers of bygone days but triggered the "Oh, I have a forum to visit with." The topic being one of great interest for me for a number of years \11/lth more questions than there are answers for. "Community?" ... Just what can be said about it, for it, or to support it? I believe · that we have to understand what community is before we can progress to developing that which we have not had. Community has multiple definitions. First, it can be a noun, meaning simply a group of people ( or for that fact gorillas who seem to do a better job of it than people ) with like relationships, culture, socioeconomic standards and even possibly belief structures. Then more importantly, it can be a verb. It is an art, an action, and an opportunity for people with common threads to bond together to support and nurture each other in every way possible. This of course brings;backmemories of my return to Joplin in.1996: 0Jntin11ed on pa;ge 4 Ozarks Pritle Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW Missouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to·unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for thie:r rights and to;voicc opioos. This region has ll. huge GLBT population who is silent. Volume-1 Issue-1 Page 3 Gay Military .. ···"'•li•11,dfrr,,,,fa1t! t Especially with the military today training and working with multinational task forces and on international deployments. People are seeing how easy it is to be accepting of homosexuals as many of our closest allies are. A couple of examples are that the French military camp in Sarajevo has a gay bar and the Scandinavians are very accustom to having requests from gays to be roommates so to carry on a relationship. The US and British seem to be the only militaries in the industrialized free world that seem to think gays aren't worth serving. Not all are as accepting, but not as forbidding as we are either. Although, with the bureaucracy of today's military, I feel that commanders and supervisors are happy when you show up, do your job and stay out of trouble. The latter being the most important. . ... ,.,,, .• ~-.;1 "'"""• CommWlity Senice MCC Joplin-Spirit of Christ Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Service 7PM Steve T. Urie, Pastor 2902 E. 20th Street Joplin, MO 64803 January 2004 _\dverti,ement Faces Guesthouse A Bed & Breakfast 327 N Jackson Ave. Joplin, Missouri 64801 Reservations Required (417) 621-9915 Take our virtual tour on the web: www.facesguesthouse.com Gay Miliauy ..... I think that if the US went to a conscript army, as most European armies are, homosexuals would be expected to serve. (Not that I nor most in the military would endorse a military where one is forced to serve.) Most people in my unit knew I was gay, including my commander and her commander. No one ever gave me grief over it, although I was expected to redesign the interior of our headquarters building. I found that the men in my unit became very protective of me, especially when someone wanted to tell a gay joke. None of them had a problem living in close quarters with me on deployments or Field exercises. All of the talk of gays hurting morale and esprit-de-corps had no leg to stand on in my experience. But, there are times when homosexuals need help. That is why we have the Legal Defense Network, a group of pro bono lawyers (many former military) that give le~ assistance to homosexuals in the military. One day, I am sure, there will be no need for the Legal Defense Network or for people like me to say that serving your country is okay even if you arc a homoscxwtl. But until then it is up to the GLBT and PH .. AG communities to open the eyes of the law makers and the general public to the fact that we arc here to stay and we arc willing to serve ...... . Community: ro11ti1111ed jn,,,, Pfll! 2 Page4 A local pride organization was publishing a newsletter back then and a young man having resigned from the organization was published raking the community up one side and down the other for it's lack of accomplishment and support of itself. Every word was a point of frustration, pain and anguish. Tbrough lack of leadership or community support the organization diminished and died. Thus making his very prophetic words truth. Now what can we do about this, how can we create what is or has been missing and how can we allow for leadership to take hold and carry a standard forward. Spirit of Christ MCC is a church with a mission and that is to carry the standard of Christ to any and all that have been literally thrown away by every other church· or discarded by society. The church is the longest surviving organization in Joplin that reaches out to a special community and that is a community of ALL people without restriction. For six years the church has worked on developing community and finally this year the fruits of that effort started to be seen in the greater community ... yes Conti1111ed next robimn: ............... .. AdP,rfilm,1111 KOLORZ &giAmos Located Inside •REES l.a1Dtgt Fri-Sat 10p-111 716 1. main Joplin,MO -417-48371 J7 i!vyrc@yahoo.com worlc for pea.:e w.alk wi:b pride January 2004 community ... we started to see it coming together. People of different backgrounds.joining together to create a good for everyone by: sharing information, developing interpersonal relationships and business partnerships. Businesses are exchanging flyers and business cards, when someone chal:. le:nges thelegitimacy of a business; the ,."oQier business leaders step up and · support them. There is no king or queen of the hill but businesses and individuals with a common goal to devdop a long standing community that doesn't just benefit one person or another but everyone. Now that is community. Those businesses along with the church are reaching out and helping not just each other but people in the area as well. Monies, equipment and supplies are being distributed to help others. Now that is community. Can we have community in Joplin? Yes! The example is being set and you can be a part of it. Support the efforts of this newspaper, the businesses and organizations that stand together in the belief that we can do it. It's not competition; it's good sense! Steve T. Urie Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC On"Line: Tickle Your Brain: Take the most accurate IQ test on the web. http:/ /web.tickle.com/tests/uiq/ I Ozarks Pride Page 5 Fourth Annual Christmas Open House /y Jtajf rrpomr Grrg Skelt Joplin, MO- Tim Baker and Tom Walton's 4th year to host the Christmas open house charity for "Aids Project of the Ozarks" APO, to provide non perishable goods for members of APO. Tom and Tim opened their home to all who could and those who could not give to this worthy cause. APO members who are drflendant on food stimps and a small·social security disability income rely <?n . APO and other organizations to get them:through eac_h m?ntli. Since Food stamps will only'buy food , C:?"eryclay items such as laundry soap,. bleach, toilet paper, paper towds, pet food, furniture polish, dish soap, as we 'all know are necessities to fonction day to day, are out of pocket expenses for.those on foqd stamps. We who think nothing of buying a pack of bar soap do not realize people who pay rent ¢d utilities 6n;$600.00 per month Social Security,:go without these non luxury items. · · · Your Support co~tact APO (417) 881-1900 or MCC Spirit of Christ,Joplin (417) 206-6179 to make your contribution.--------- Advertlsem911t Cellular Mobile System AT&T Authorized Dealer January 2004 Admtismfent Call Travis (417) 825-0774 Free Ph~ne Car Charger , From $600.00 , no license, L.::==========================1 I tag, insurance, or drivers " Kwanzaa " Kwanzaa comes from Swahili meaning "first fruit". Based on ancient African traditions, embraces seven principles: unity, selfdetermination, collective work and responsibility, cooperative economics, purpose, creativity, and faith. Kwanzaa is a holiday created by Maulana Karenga in 1966 an"d is observed by more than 28 million people from Dec 26 to Jan L. ............. .. license required. On Sale Nowl 716 S. Main, Joplin Mo after4pm 417-627-9035 or Contact David At cell phone 816-651-4425 V olume-1 Issue-1 Page 6 qt~hid.Pres~~~ Ri~h ~aeash . , . . . Ef :t ' BRAS~ Brazil (Reuters) - The heil.d of tho' . W o · · · · on Suri.day qrgeit' ·· . · to:figllf . devastating AfricJUl nations .. ,' WHO.D.irector General Jong-Woo~ on Britain, ifapan and Scandinavian~ . . parti§ular to donate more money to.~e bijafa;· zation's.global push against the disease, csti~ mat~J,o be killing 8,0Gqtp~o;ple !\)fay. s.lc~ "The tr~nd is more mQQ.ey is b . . able, WC have to put in more re gestions and pressure to.the Lee, in Brazil for a globlil h · He said "very urgent action and•:irilf1he .busi- . ness-~-usual approach" was needed, · · Funding to battle HIV/ AIDS has increased from $3.2 billion in 2002 to $4.7 still less than half the yearly total Nations has called for to fight the epidemic . and provide drugs to treat people infected by HIV. The WHO earlier this month unveiled plans to rush life-saving antiretroviral (ARV) AIDS > drugs to 3 million of the world'spoortiy 2Q05: and train 10,000 health workers. · ·• .\~~~. Lee said HIV had now infected.'riearly 40 per~.•·. cent of people in Botswana and half the population would die of AIDS unless urgent action was taken. Life expectancy inMozambique is expected to fall to 27 years due to the disease. In 2002 around $1 billion was spent on fighting HIV and AIDS in Africa, which is thought to have nearly 30 million of the 40 million people infected by the disease. The United States has promised $15 billion over five years to combat AIDS, especially in Africa It has come under fire for only earmarking $2 billion for the program next year. Earlier this year, Britain said. it would give a global AIDS fund $280 million through to 2008 after initially pledging $200 million for five years in 2001. --------------- January 2004 Adl'lrlis,mmt Join Chaz andJasonNewYears Eve After Hours Party! 205 Highland,Joplin Call 623-3412 For Details. Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome. your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401E 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Emaii: editor@ozarkspride.com I Ozarks Pride Page 7 Aunt Bea's Infamous Recipes! Sock it Too Me, Whitt Btan and S altSdf,t S o,p: 4 tablespoons virgin olive oil 1 1/2 pounds of Italian sausage in casing 2 medium carrots 2 medium onions 2 doves of garlic (minced) 2 stalks of celery 1 teaspoon dried thyme 1 teaspoon thyme leaves 3 (15oz cans white beans) 1 quart chicken broth 2 teaspoons Tony Chachere's Creole Seasoning 1 cup white wine ( I drank the rest of the Bottle!) Heat oil in large, deep pan. Brown whole sausages; remove to cool for about five minutes. Cut celery, onions, and carrots into small dice. Brown vegetables in same pan . with garlic for about 10 minutes. Puree one can of white beans; add to vegetables. Cut sausage into small slices and add to vegetables, along with broth, wine and remaining beans. Simmer 30 minutes. Then let it cool for 10 minutes girls or it will bum your business. SAM HARRIS MAKES KANSAS CITY DEBUT Kau,1 a1y, MO/,_ MM ... 11 r;,.,, On Saturday, March 13, 2004 Kansas Citv will have the opp~rtunity to hear on of the most exciting Broadway performers of the last two decades. Sam Harris, in concert at Folly Theater. In a .benefit for I !ARC (Heartland AIDS Resource Council), Sam Harris will make his debut in Kansas City. Tickets fro this benefit concert are $30 and $40 and can be purchased through the Folly Box office on January 5, 2004. For more information you can email : harcbenefit@sbcglobal.net Midwest Times is the proud media sponsor for this event. January 2004 ~our States Community Directory -Bars-:-Nightclubs- Ron's:----Fayetteville, AR--( 479)442-3052 Wtld-On---Fayettcville, AR--( 479)521-9453 Ree's----Joplin, MO--(417)627-9035 Edge>------Springfield, M0-(417)831-4700 Martha's Vineyard-Springfield, MO-(417)831-6144 Oz:------Springfield, MO-(417)866-3876 Rov.isuz Place---Springfield, M0-(417)864-0036 Bamboo Lounge--Tulsa, OK--(918)836-8700 The End Up-----Tulsa, OK--(918)282-6503 Heads & Tails---Tulsa, OK--(918)6607878 Club Majestic---Tulsa, OK--(918)584-9494 Renegade:s----Tulsa, OK--(918)585-3405 Play-Mor-Club---Tulsa, OK---(918)838-9792 Si!Yer Star Saloon--Tulsa, OK---(918)838-4234 1NT's-----Tulsa, OK---(918)660-0856 Tool Box----Tulsa, OK--(918)584-1308 -Lodging- Faces Guesthouse B&B Joplin, MO(417)621-9915 -Restaw:ants- --Organizations- MCC Spirit of Christ--2902 E 20th, Joplin, MO-7PM MCC United Tulsa-1623 N. Maplewood-918-838-1715 MCC Living Spring-Eureka Springs, AR-870-253-9337 Rrunbow Christian Church-Springfield, MO---- Aids Project of the Ozarks- 513 Kentuclq,, Joplin, Ml J----417-624-5788 -Business ScrviccsKolon----- Joplin, MO--(417)483-7117 Cellular Mobil Sya--Joplin, MO-(417)825-0774 Penny Smart, Hair Salon-Joplin, M0-(417)623-3500 Massage By Rachacl-:loplin, MO--(417)438-3664 Mystic Cn::1.rions--Pinsburg, KA--{620)231-6790 Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC-Tulsa, OK---(918)747-5466 dVoi:alie !J(nJyhi Miss Merry Christmas 2004 Ree's of Joplin ~lffi: MONDAYTUESDAYWEDNESDAYTHURSDAYFRIDAY - SATURDAYAdvertisement I 716 S, MAIN ST. JOPLIN, M □ (417) 627·9 □ :35 I MOMDAY Ntelff roontAll Wini mar, DJ lR' UN TY nlltDAY Wffll TlnY DANf!INe Wffll DJ LR.' 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Volume 1 Issue 7 M A G E A LGBT COMMUNITY VOICE THE OZARKS STAR IS COMING! July 1, 2004 Issue 7 Ozarks Pride (The Ozarks Star) 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, 1-fissouri 64804-3128 wwv;.ozarkspride.com Editor: C.D. Ward (editor@ozarkspride.com) Member: National Lesbian Gay Journalist Association Contributing Writers: T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Columnist: Steve T. Urie Donald Pile Ray Williams Contents: Editor's Page -page 2 Voters Decision Page 4 Steve T. Urie - page 5 Donald & Ray, Ou! on Vacation- Page 7 Ozarks Pride Ou! Cruzin- page 12-13 That's Entertainment page-14 Lesbian Notions- page • 15 Deep Inside Hollywood-page-16 Q Scopes- page 20 Classifieds-page 22 Communiiy Directory- page 23 Advertising Rates: Card Size Ad- $17.00 per issue (3 Month Minimum) Subscription- $16.00 (6 months) Classifieds- $6.00 first 15 words- 25cents each additional. Email: advertising@ozarkspride.com Phone (417) 437-2275 for larger and full page ad rates. Deadline for all advertising, articles and payment is the 20th of each month for the next months issue. Ozarb Pridt Magazine is published & diltribuled monthly as a community a.vie» by Ozarlcs Pride Groop of Joplin, Missouri. Publication of lhe name. photograph or lkeness of any person. business or organization in thla publication is not to be construed •• any ind•ca!lon of 11xual ori1nl11ion or prelerencaa of auch person. bu,inesa or organization. O~niona expreo,ed by co!umnista, ldY!lr1i,ers or L•N•ri to tho Ec/J1or are not neca1S1rily the opinion oi Ozarb Prldt IM>gezine, ii• s/1/f. tho publiahor or J'a 1dver1;..,._ Content of ldver11•ments 1nd articles are the tole responsibility of the advettieer and /or au'l!or. Tha Publisher r, Oz•ri« Pr~ Msgazioo re1trves tho right lo refuse edvtrtil:ng material for any reason what so ever. o~ Prid& and 111 likenesses there of are sole properties of Ozarks Pride Group. All material O ~yrignt 200( Ozorh Pride We Made It! Yes, Ozarks Pride Magazine made it past the half year mark. We are in our 7th month and have met every distribution date. We are now the oldest continu- .,, ous running LGBT news publication in j Southwest Missouri. :i As some of you may remember, our first issue, January was eight pages. June, the Gay Pride 2004 issue was our largest issue with 28 pages and we are growing monthly. The community response has been tremendous and contributors such as Steve Urie, Ray Williams, Donald Pile, T J Kelly and Gabe Norman deserve huge hugs. Our loyal advertisers have come through month after month. REE's , Fairfield Inn, Faces Guesthouse, Century 21 Goldcastle OKC, Penny Smart with Woody's Manhattan, Vickie Bronson of Charles Burt Realtors, Studio 716 and Bamboo Lounge have kept the paper alive. You are greatly appreciated as are all the newer business community customers. With this half year milestone under our belt, I want to say, although we have continued to operate in the red to date, I am optimistic about the future of this magazine. There have been too many kudos from the LGBT community to think otherwise. In June issue we added the syndicated column "Lesbian Notions" and Q Scopes. For the July issue another syndication "Deep Inside Hollywood" a very popular national column. "Out on Vacation" by Ray Williams and Donald Pile is now in syndication. continued page-3 I I 1 :tf -~~, i t :~z} page-2 Of course our goal is to become a profit oriented company, and with circulation increasing each month our advertising rates have to increase. Our current rates are very reasonable and you the business community should take advantage of this opportunity to increase your sales. Our advertisers are all telling us they have new business from their Ozarks Pride ad's. Now, an important announcement.. .... Because our name " Ozarks Pride Magazine" is sometimes associated with Gay Pride Organizations, we have decided to rename the magazine beginning with the August issue. The new name will be " The Ozarks Star " The format will not change and we hope to continue to print the front and back cover in full color, although this is our most costly feature. In addition other enhancements are in the works for the future. Yes, we have come a long way in six months and I have met many new and wonderful people who have generously helped get us here. December will be our 12th issue and we are going to have a party baby! So get ready and have that old Tux cleaned and let out, that includes the ladies too! Have a great 4th of July. C.D. ward Editor/Publisher 3 Creator: Romeo San Vicente has extensive experience in Hollywood as a writer, producer, and homosexual. His friends have the ability to make or break your budding career, so be nice to him. About the column: Deep Inside Hollywood is an entertainment insider column covering celebrities, movies, TV shows, and other Hollywood subjects of interest to gays and lesbians. Lots of previews of upcoming gay-related projects, along with inside information about Tinseltown goings-on - with just a touch of gossip. This is Q Syndicate's most popular column. Ozarks Pride Magazine, soon to be "The Ozarks Star" will be publishing this column each month beginning with this issue. See page 16 for the first installment. Volume 1 Issue 7 Page4 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401E. 32nd St, Suite !1-243, Joplin, MO ~84-328 Email: editor@arkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW l'vfissouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to inform and report news of interest to our communtiy. Missouri Gay Marriage Vote August 3rd. Constitution Defense Leag11e 11datt: Tuesday, August 3 is fast approaching, and the campaign against Amendment 2 is picking up steam:"Aniendment 2 is the official ballot name.of the proposal to ban gay and lesbian marriage in the Missouri Constitution. With offices and staff in St. Louis and &nsas City, and staff in Columbia and soon to follow in Springfield, no.t to mention.active volunteer teanis in all 6£ these communities, the. &nstitution Defense League is positioning itself to defeat Amendment 2 on. Augμst 3! Missouri will be the first state in the country to vote on this kind qf constitutional amendn:ient since the victory in Massachusetts. At least four other states will face the same vote in November, and they, along with the rest of the country, are looking to .l\fissouri to see how we face up to the challenge. Ad11ertlsemi11i Woody's Manhattan Hair & Nall Salon Penny Smart 509 Main ~ Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments (417) 623-3500 Page 5 Community Spirit Keeps Climbing! I want to start this month thanking a number of business and church leaders for there thought&, suggestions and their help in building our GLBTS Community. Penny Smart (Woody's of Manhattan), Rachael Martinez (1\fassage by Rachael), Chaz Ward (Faces Guesthouse and Ozarks Pride Magazine), Rev. George and Rev Paula Jo David (Pastors at River of Life Church in Pittsburg, KS) as well as Connie Gilpin (MCC of the Living Spring in Eureka Springs, AR) have all been instrumental in building the great area community and teaching what "Unity in Christ" is all about. Exchanging business cards, spreading ,vord of businesses, traveling untold miles this group of people have been a positive force in not only Joplin, but Eureka Springs, Pittsburg and around the world through the UFMCC news and web news. The churches in this three state area are sponsoring and cosponsoring special events on regular bases for the good of the people here. The GLBTS Community is more than going to the bar. (Don't be offended, I not telling not to go there.) But } am telling you that there are other social events and programs for you to be 'involved in. Speaking of ev-ems, I understand that Pride in Springfield was a great success, so to in Kansas City, St Louis, Dallas, San Francisco ... and next year we are adding Joplin to the calendar. A committee is being developed July l, 2004 for Joplin Pride 2005 and it's time to start working on this nmv. If you are interested, please call 417-206-6179 and leave your name and number or email ~. This-will not be a church event but a community event to celebrate who we are. \Ve are dads, mothers, sisters, brothers, aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews. We are neighbors, co-workers, peers and friends. And we don't need to go out of town to celebrate that. The committee is making arrangements to have games, art works, crafts and food/ drink booths at this first ANNUAL JOPLIN PRIDE 2005. Watch for exciting announcements and be involved. Hopefully before our pride event we will have a new president, one that cares about all the people. REMEMBER VOTE! VOTE! VOTE! Your vote counts, each one makes differences. When you don't vote ... you make a difference too! You choose. There is a story of an old man watching as a young boy is picking up starfish on the beach. The boy picks up a starfish and throws it as far into the ocean as he can, walks along, picks up another and another and another. The old man finally catches up -with the young boy and tells him, "You're not going to make a difference, look at all of them." The young boy picked up another starfish and threw it just as high and far as he could, looked up to the old man and said, "it makes a difference to that one." Yes each one of your votes count ... be ready and let's make a bold stand and get the GLBTS community out to vote at our local elections in August and the Presidential Election in November. Have a great month! Steve Volume 1 Issue 7 ' MEN'S UNDERWEAR STORE NOW OPEN! 825 E 3.., ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL, 877-7-BOXERS ~OR INFO! UNDmWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE HOTTEST BRANDS, 80 SOFTWEAR + JOCKO + WC LA ROCHE + MUNDO UNICO + OLAF BENZ r t! Ozarks Pride Page 7 July 1, 2004 Photo by: Ray Williams -OUT ON VAl.ATION .. Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com THE GRAND RESORT "The Largest, exclusively Gay Resort on fl Ft. Lauderdale Beach, Florida" .t!. Ever wanted to go to a gay resort and be pampered to death? Fly down to Ft ,~,, Lauderdale and check out The GRAND Resort (www.grandresortnet), located just 'e'l steps from the Atlantic Ocean. Their friendly and accommodating staff will }!] pamper to your every whim. Service is what this resort is all about. From a 'fl delicious continental breakfast poolside each morning to guest "get-togethers" on !:I weekends and luxurious accommodations - you will be won over very quickly. ,~ii Their rooms and suites are spotlessly clean and decorated marvelously. The , '.1! moment you enter the front gates you realize that you aren't in Kansas anymore. fij Many guests don't leave this secluded resort because there is so much to see and •• r do in the resort. The owner of the Grand Resort is Casey Koslowski. Herbert Pianin ,,i is the general manager. With assistance from their staff of nine they go out of their J way to make your stay extremely enjoyable. A variety of accommodations are available including standard guest rooms, deluxe guest rooms, one and two bedroom suites, and a one or two bedroom penthouse. All rooms and suites feature cable TV, VCR's, a Sony HI-FI CID music system, private voice mail, iron and ironing board, hair dryer, refrigerator, gourmet pantry, microwave, and coffee maker with Godiva Coffee. Bathrooms are stocked with a great selection of Caswell Massey soaps, bath amenities, and plush robes for lounging. Most rooms have access to high speed Internet lines. For the comfort of guests all accommodations are non-smoking. A complete continental breakfast is served each morning in the Grand Cafe, or poolside, offering morning breads, fresh muffins, fresh brewed coffee or tea and assorted juices. There is a "community" computer where you can check your email account. They offer scuba diving lessons and can make arrangements for just - about any type of water sports you are interested in. A huge swimming pool dominates the front courtyard and a Jacuzzi is available in the tropical garden at the back of the resort. This is a paradise unto it's own. One would assume you're in the Tropics with palm trees and lush plants of all kinds eveywhere. A fully equipped fitness center, to keep your body in shape, is part of the amenities. Every Friday a guest "get together" is scheduled featuring sangrias, Volume 1 Issue 7 Page 8 SPRINGFIELD'S PRIDE 04 RQARING SUCCESS ! The Crowd enjoyed Live Eritertainment all day. Springfield, MO -]1me 13, 2004 l?J G"f. S teek Beginning on Friday, June 11th with a Candle Light Walk from Chestnut Expressway to-l'vfill Street with a party and food at The Edge. Royalty Pageant's were held Saturday night at The OZ and Martha's Vineyard. Ending with Pride In The Park on Sunday, June 13th "Show Me MO Priae" committee staged a fantastic event. Hundreds packed the nightclubs and an estimated 1600 were entertained at Phelps Grove Park on Sunday. The Festival wound down with a Barbecue at July 1, 2004 Saturday Night Pageant Results. Miss ShowMe MO Pride - Misty Falls 1st Alternate - Jayden LaRue Mr. ShowMe MO Pride-Michael Anthony 1st Alternate Cody Kane MR PRIDE - Justin Kastning 1st Alternate Zachary Isaacs Great Bartenders kept the liquid flowing at Ozarks Pride Volume 7 Page 10 July 1, 2004 Advertisement Ozarks Pride Page 11 03.29.04 DALLAS, TEXAS - R Family au,uu,11~. the first travel company devoted to gay and lesbian family vacations, has teamed up with Metropolitan Community Churches (MCC), the world's largest and oldest church group with an affirming ministry to the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLBT) communities. MCC will perform wedding ceremonies and offer worship services aboard R Family Vacations' historic inaugural cruise in July. "\Xle are honored to partner with MCC - their support of gay and lesbian families is truly 1m;p11rm12:," said Kelli O'Donnell and -..a1u11.1~"-Y, cofounders of R Family Vacations. "We are thrilled to be able to offer guests the to attend worship services or to marry on the cruise while surrounded and friends." cruise from on July 11, 2004. Ports of call will include Port \..-ana·ve1:a1. and Baham· · In addition to July 1, 2004 . Church of Greater Dallas, will serve as Pastor in Residence on the cruise. "\Xle are proud to support R Vacations and applaud their commitment to GLBT families not a vacation, but a support network of other parents and children just like their own," said Love. "\Xle are looking forward tojoining the hundreds of GLBT families from around the U.S. on the cruise in a celebration of love, faith and a couple's decision to step forward in both." Metropolitan Community Churches is the largest international vehicle for public education about homosexuality and Christianity. At the vanguard of civil and human rights movements for over 30 years, MCC addresses the important issues of sexism, homophobia, ageism, and other forms of oppression. Founded in MCC has an inclusive membership of over 43,000 members in 300 churches worldwide. R Family Vacations creates vacations for gay and lesbian travelers and their families of an instant community where everyone is R Vacations confirms you don't haYe to co1:np,ro:m1:se your to go on a vacation. For more information about R Brad is currently playing at The Ledo Lounge in Okfa.homa City, from 6 pm tq 10 pm on Fridays. His unique vocal style lends a romantic dimension to many classic favorites. Other than nightclub performances he is :tlso available for weddings, funer:tl's or private party's. " Since I play by ear, I play the music that I have recordings of or have heard enough times to be able to rec:tll. I tend toward musicians that play piano, like Elton John." Brad told OP writer Greg Steele. Brad was raised in St Louis, MO and moved to Oklahoma at age 22 to attend University at OU where he graduated and then completed two years of Medical School in Tulsa. Brad and his partner Rod live in Pink, Oklahoma where they plan to open a B&B this September. For booking information contact Brad at (405) 509-8506, or email outinpink@hotmail.com J ■ Urban Pop Solo Artist performed at the Silver Star Club June 6th to kick of Tulsa's Gay Pride Week. HOT! HOT! HOT! J's energy electrified the packed crowd at the Silver Star. He sang and danced to a ,rariety of songs including music from his latest album "\vithout My One And Only " and contains the Bonus R&B track, Run Like Hell, for all of you urban jocks! . This is J's second album release. "So High" was his first and a new single "Rise and Fall" will soon hit the music stores. If your going to be in the New York, NY area catch his show at THE ROXY on September 23, 2004. For other future performances and information,J.'s website. http://tuneengine.org/Jfansite.html Adverlisment ~' (◄ 117), 823-11007 F'eox:I (4'17) 023--S1159 En'ltaN; -cwn~ Oeopyma.x..c:om Pri,nu, and CopS! lntdli,n,g Lamilnllltfng Faxing Business Ca.-dla I Ozarks Pride Page 15 July 1, 2004 Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for tl;iree years as the cochair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own \Vrite." A Lambda Literary Award winner for her first novel, 011t of Time, Martinac has also authored several nonfiction books, including The Lesbian and Gqy Book of Love and Marriagt and The Q11urut Places: A G11ide to Gtry and Lesbian Historic Sites. Her screenplay, Fonign Affairs, co-written with her life partner, Katie Hogan, won second place in the 2003 PO\'v"ER UP Screenplay Competition. Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac July, 2004 Our Love Is Here To Stay A recent newspaper report on the 2002 marriage and divorce rates in Vermont showed that straight couples have a higher divorce rate than same-sex couples, and that the heterosexual rate has remained pretty constant since the advent of civil unions in 2000. Or, to phrase it in a way guaranteed to make the religious right squirm: if you're the child of a mommy-daddy family in Vermont, your parents are more likely to divorce than are Heather's two mommies. These are the first stats we've had on legalized gay relationships, and the temptation for the lesbian and gay community to jump to wild conclusions is pretty great, given how demonized our unions are. I wouldn't be surprised to hear some gay activists and commentators boasting that our relationships are "better" than heterosexual ones. But, in fact, they're simply different in their gender-role makeup and in a way that could help straight couples, too. It will be highly ironic if, in the long run, heterosexual marriages - which receive enormous societal and institutional support - prove to be shakier than same-sex ones. But then, there's so much hype and myth about heterosexual romance in popular culture, particularly aimed at women, making straight marriage look like a piece of wedding cake. A recent episode of the cheesy daytime talk show _Dr. Phil_ showed the extreme of this, interviewing young, single women with highly romanticized views of marriage. In fact, several had already planned their weddings, even though they didn't haYe boyfriends. On the other hand, there are far fewer romantic illusions for lesbian and gay couples, most of whom have nothing to hold them together but sheer willpower. Indeed, there has been some concern among queers on the far left that legalized marriage for same-sex couples ·will ultimately destroy one of good things we have going for us - the ability many gay couples have to stay mgether over the long haul, even though society doesn't recognize our unions. But then, there's more to the marriage game than simply sticking it out. Looking at marriage from a feminist perspective, one of the biggest hurdles facing hi:terosexuai unions is the strangieholci that gender roles continue to wield over most of the men and women who enter into them. And it's in the area of gender nonconformity that many iesbian and gay couples hold a powerful advantage. Contin11•d page Sr,pplwmet -21 Volume I Issue 7 Page 16 July 1, 2004 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente . July 2004 John Cusackls Ex-Gay Forget what you've heard about gay characters in films being no big deal in -Hollywood anymore. Apparently, sometimes they're still a _ ,·ery _ big deal. It's bad enough that Ang Lee's _Brokeback ,Mountain_ might have its gay romance neutered, but now director Nick Cassavetes and actor John Cusack are part of Hollywood's de-gaying process, too. Cassavetes will direct and Cusack will star in the film adaptation - penned by gay screenwriter Jonathan Tolins (_Twilight of the Golds_) and Seth Bass - of gay author David Gerrold's book The Martian Child_. When Romeo first reported :n this story, it looked like the plot would follow that of the original book, in which a gay man adopts a 6-year-old boy, only to discover that the child believes himself to be from Mars. In the film, however, Cusack's character ,,ill be straight. So far, no one is saying why the gay character was declared an unfit parent and why that change was so vital to the movie's development, but it's a safe bet to say it has a lot to do with the continued triumph of commerce over art. The film begins shooting this fall. Brendan Fraser's Queer _Secret_ Wtli he look as good in a James Bond-style ~xedo as he did in-his _George of the Jungle_ oincloth? That's the real question to be answered when Brendan Fraser steps into the role of _Gay Secret Agent_. Currently in negotiations to star, Fraser may well be the next _Austin Powers_, one ,,ith a distinct nvist in the "shao-ging" department. And speaking of Powers, that franchise's producers, Suzanne and Jennifer Todd, are also the ones behind this espionage spoof written by _Saturday Night Llve_ alum Brad Hall and Andrew Gottlieb. Translation: Expect lots of broad, silly riffing on gay stereotypes, so keep your sense of humor tu~ed to Lowest Common Denominator. Meanwhile, Romeo ,vants to know how much male eye-candy of the Bond Girl variety \\111 make it to the final cut. Jamie Babbitt Connects to Dot Lesbian filmmaker Jamie Babbitt (_B~ I'm -A Cheerleader_) is about to take a break from her busy career directing episodes of shows like Malcolm in the Middle_, _The Bernie Mac-Sho,v_, _Nip/Tuck_, and _Gilmore Girls to return to the world of feature films. Babbitt \,ill direct the thriller _Dot_, from writers Micah Schraft and Abdi Nazemian (ABC Familv's Beautiful Girl_). _Dot_ concerns a deaf ;ee;age orphan and the dark goings-on that arise when she moves in ,vith a "typical" family one that turns out to be anything but. Uniq~e to this project is the support of the Universitt of Texas in Austin, whose film school sponsor/a program that gives its students . hands-on experience making low-budget mov1es. In other words, they're donating a lot of free labor, and there's not a producer in the world who'd say no to that kind of deal. _South Park_ Guys String Up Team America __ South Park_ creators Trey Parker and Matt Stone are taking a break from their animated world of profanity-spewing children to enter the world of marionette superheroes. _Team America_, the first allmarionette feature film since_ Thunderbirds Are Go!_ hit big screens in 1966, is currently shooting in collaboration with gay superproducer Scott Rudin, featuring music by Marc Shaiman. Team America_'s plot involves strmgcontrolled puppets fighting ~vii forces and rontinNtd on page 17 Page 17 CC. MCC Joplin-Spirit of Christ Metropolitan Community Church Sunday Service 7PM Community Meal served Wednesday's at 6:~0pm, cost . 0 meal is always nutritionally balanced. Dinners i$n3c.l0u0d.e N doe soenrte, disn _ntukr naend d agwoaoyd . f e l~r wship Take out meals are also available. Bring your O · friends and family. Steve T. Urie, Pastor 2902 E. 20th Street Joplin, MO 64803 www.mccjoplin.com Inside Ho/fr111ood frr:J111 p,i.g, t 6 annoyi;g celebrities, and, given the overwhelming amount of absurdly silly gay content to be found in every project these guys have ever taken ?n, there's an almost 100 percent certru~ty that Parker and Stone's obsession with homosexuality will rear its head yet again. Look f~r an autumn rel~ase ~ just in time to skewer the pres1dent1al election. Romeo San Vicente usually keeps ;everal men on a string at the same time himself. Quotable Quotes "Bush is an incompetent leader. In fact, he's not a leader. He's a person who has no judgment, no experience and no knowledge of the subjects that he has to decide upon .... The shallowness that he has brought to the office has not changed since he got there . ... The president's capacity to lead has never been there. In order to lead, you have to have judgment. In order to have judgment, you have to have k~owledge and experience. He has none. - . House of Representatives ~em?crattc leader Nancv Pelosi of Calirorma, to the S;n Fra~cisco Chronicle, May 20. Volume I Issue 7 Page 18 July 1, 2004 Gay Travelers from page 7 chips, and salsa. On Saturday "get togethers" wine and cheese are featured. What a wonderful way to meet the other guests! We NEVER settle for second best and promise that you won't be disappointed in your stay here. This is a first-class resort. For beach lovers, simply walk a few yards and you're there. Another five blocks and you find yourself on Ft. Lauderdale's GAY beach where you will be one of hundreds of gay men basking in the Florida sun. The Grand Resort is centrally located and very close to downtown Ft. Lauderdale and the famous Las Olas Blvd. shopping area. A wide variety of wonderful restaurants and shops are found there. We particularly enjoy shopping atAudace, 813 East Las Olas Blvd. which is a gay clothing store highlighting swimwear and underwear. One particularly exciting bar on Las Olas is the Cathode Ray Club (1307 East Las Olas Blvd). This is an upscale bar "complex" with several bars in one. They are busy all the time and draw a great cocktail hour crowd. Their "theme" nights and special event nights are the norm - Monday is Comedy night, Tuesday is "2 for Tuesday" with the Sandy Lynn Duo live at the Baby Grand. Wednesday is "gaymetime Over Wednesday'' with a live show at 9pm. Thursday is mixer night and Friday happy hour lasts from 2pm until 9pm. Saturday is "two for one" from 2 till 9, and the Retro Dance Party with Liquid Rainbow is a Must event. There is always something special happening at the Cathode Ray (~). Next door is Bar Amici Restaurant (1301 East Las Olas Blvd) owned by the same proprietor as Cathode Ray. Again, it is upscale but with very reasonable prices. Their food is outstanding! Ft. Lauderdale abounds with gay bars and restaurants. Travelers will be able to quickly find just the right bar that suits them. Bars run the gamut from Disco, Leather, Drag, Strippers, neighborhood bars and high end cocktail bars. One of the great drag performers, AUNTIE MAME performs at several different bars and clubs in the city. Check out her website at: ~ and be sure to catch her act. Ft. Lauderdale is a great getaway for Midwesterners in winter and can also be fun year round. With over two dozen gay bars, over a dozen gay restaurants, two bath houses and dozens of gay-owned businesses, this is a gay Mecca every day of the year. A short day trip from Ft. Lauderdale would be to Palm Beach just a few miles up the highway. South Beach and Miami are just 25 miles south of Ft. Lauderdale. AVIS auto rentals (www.avis.com/prouder) are very reasonably priced and AVIS is the ONLY auto rental company that is gay-friendly. They do not charge extra for your partner driving like the other auto rental companies do. For more information about the GRAND RESORT, visit their web site at: www.grandresort.net. Their toll free number is: l-800-818-1211 with an email address of info@grandresort.net Their address is 539 North Birch Rd. Ft. Lauderdale, FL 33304. Other good websites if planning a visit to Ft. Laurderdale are: ~ (information about gay Ft. Lauderdale), ~(the local gay publication), and www.audace.com (the gay clothing store we visited). As always, if you have any travel questions, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/ gaytraveiers ks Pride Page 19 O'Donnell plans gay parenting magazine 31/05/2004- 12:48:15 Ireland Online Dublin,lreland American comclienne Rosie O'Donnell is planning a new magazine aimed at gay and lesbian parents. R Family Magazine, due out in 2005, is O'Donnell's second attempt at launching a publication. The first, Rosie, died an acrimonious death in 2003 after clashes between her and publishers Gruner And Jahr. O'Donnell's spokeswoman Cindi Berger says: "Rosie d~es hope to launch a magazine in the new year." The former actress ,,·ants a platform to address gay family issues. O'Donnell recently wed her long-term partner Kelli Carpenter in San Francisco. Quotable Quotes "It's not something I would want to do. I think it's more an attempt to assimilate. I don't know why \Ve have to marry in order to get equality. To me it is a human-rights issue. I believe people should be able to bless their relationships any way they choose. This idea that if we can just achieve marital rights then we're gonna be free is a delusion. Because I can assure you right now, we will never be like straight peopie'" Bov George to the Houston Voice, April 30. July 1, 2004 GAY DEMOCRATS ENDORSE SENATOR JOHN F. KERRY FOR PRESIDENT National Stonewall Democrats to Mobilize thousands in Community to Elect Kerry: National Stonewall Democrats is the only national organization of gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender Democrats, with more than 90 local chapters across the nation. NSD is committed to working through the Democratic Party to advance the rights of all people regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. artha' s Vine'f ard 219 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www.marthascomplex.com Volume l Issue 7 Seo y Jill Dearman July 2004 "Push the envelope, Libra!" Page20 es ARIES (March 21 to April 20): Mars, your oh-sobutch planetary ruler, hooks up with communicative Mercury in your house of passionate love. If the idea of your lover sleeping with someone else makes you see red, perhaps you'd better pugh for the kind of commitment you know you really want. A Leo is waiting for a proposal. Get thee to New Paltz. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): If you're struggling with what to do about a troublesome friendship, err on the side of love. Stop being so stubborn, and let an important ally know that you just aced reassurance. Try giving some. A Scorpio can't quite figure you out (and loves it that way). GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Your world is beginning to seriously change, Gemini. lt's up to you to move into the future :md stop holding fast to the past. You can create tbe'!'kiod of life you've always wanted. But yes, dear, you must be braYe. Get off the fence. Another Gemini gives you courage CANCER 0une 22 to July 22): Don't overpower business associates during thi~ cycle. Instead, wow them with your know-how, and stand firm on your deal points. You don't need any drama in your work life. Save that for when you come home to a roleplaying Gemini who wears many masks. LEO Quly 23 to August 22): Your career is about to take off, thanks to one part good fortune (Jupiter) and one part hard work {Saturn), which you've already done plenty 0£ Push forward now, while the planets are with you. Whatever you pitch, people want to buy. A Sagittarius wants to hear your ~piel. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): Jupiter's &.bulous trek throngh your ~ign puts you more in charge of your own destiny than eYer before. Start making some moves, doll. Don't just sit there looking sultry. A Pisces is waiting, but is getting restless. Ju;y 1, 2004 LIBRA (September 23 to October 22): Mars and Mercury hook up in your house of group efforts this week. If you push the envelope, you could really start working for a cause you believe in, with friends you adore. An 1\ries finds your altruism awfully appealing. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Stop acting older than you arc, sweetie. This is your time to regress and be as childlike (but not childish) as you wanna be. Get back in touch with your dreams and sense of wonder. A Leo wants to slip under the covers with you. SAGITTARIUS (NoYember 22 to December 21): You have the ability to change lives with your words, so maybe you should pick up a pen and start jotting down some ideas. A new career is imminent, but don'r pin yourself down just yet. Let your mind wander. And let your eyes wander over to a very seli:y Scorpio. CAPRICORN (December 22 to January 19): This is a fab rime for vour romantic affairs, dear Capric~rn, if yo~ are willing ro let someone else (like a strong and sexy Taurus) do all the work. Your job? To learn to receive bctrer. Wipe that smutty look off your face, you slut. AQUARlUS 0anuary 20 to February 18): Get all of the tedious tasks out of the way as quickly as possible, h~mey. Io a few shorr weeks, your love life ,vill become your number-one priority, so make sure your slate is clean. A Sagittarius wants to be able to slide into your life gracefully. PISCES (February 19 to March 20): The subtext in your relationships is a lot more fascinating than what's on the surface. Innuendoes abound. Try to probe your parmers about what they really want from you. Or when in doubt, just probe. But bear in mind, a restrained Capricorn is holding out for all your iove. Volume l Issue 7 Page 21 July 1, 2004 Advertis."1?7ent Sam Sampson in Concert Come and Listen to this MultiTalented Musician Produced by God's Child Records Saturday, July 31st , 2004 7:00PM Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street www.samsampson,net River of Life Church 1709 North Walnut Pittsburg, KS Lesbian Notio11s from pagt-15 All of us get indoctrinated into our "proper" gender roles early in life, from the time we're brought home from the hospital in the requisite pink or blue blanket. But somehow queer kids often manage to subvert those roles, by being boy-girls or girl-boys who won't - or can't act exactly as society dictates. And many of us take that with us into our adult relationships. \Vhile it's true that some straight relationships today do shake up gender roles - a female friend of mine mows the lawn, while her male partner washes the dishes - the norm is that wife Jane is burdened because husband Jim rarely "helps" around the house and doesn't bear primary responsibility for the kids. At the same time, their lesbian neighbors Judy and Jo don't have prescribed gender rules to rely on, so they set up a cop acetic arrangement in which each performs the tasks she likes and is good at, rather than those society assigns to women at birth. The disregard of traditional gender roles by same-sex couples is borne out, too, in a few studies about the grown children of lesbian parents (here isn't enough data yet on those of gay male parents) Girls and boys :raised to adult hood by two lesbian moms seem to be much less likely to feel hemmed in by gender expectations than kids raised in mom-and-dad families. \X-'hich makes sense - after all, they've grown up around women who do everything from cooking to repairing leak.-y faucets. Of course, gender nonconformity turns out to • be one of the religious right's biggest fears about lesbians and gay men having children that we'll raise a generation of manly women and womanly men. Jn its tract, "'\)\;'hat's Wrong with Letting Same-Sex Couples Marry'!' the iinily Research Council points with horror to a research study showing that "children of lesbians are less likely to conform to traditional gender norms," seeing that as one of the many things that's "wrong" with our unions. But queer families' gender freedom is something that's very _right_ about them and that may actually help hold our relationships togethec The real nightmare for religious conservatives is that straight wives and husbands might look at same-sex marriages more closely and figure that out, too ......... . Vohnnn 1 Issue 7 Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the fust.15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional wo:rd ... ..... . Good Lookingg,[I give yo11 pkasllf'e, .)'OU desm;e Call Hector@ 816-305-3988 In & Out Cans Night Rates Ozarks Pride Magazine On-Line. Check out our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. www.ozarkspride.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse,Joplin, MO. Private bath w / queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv: required. 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Jackson Ave, - - - 10:30AM Aids Project Ozarks- 513 Kentucky- 417-624-5788 Missouri, Springfield (417) Rainbow Christian Cb-837 \YI. Madison-417-866-6206 Unitarian Universalist Church - - - 417-833-2723 APO- 1901 E. Bennett, suite D- 417-881-1900 ShowMe MO Pride - - - - - - - - - 417-864-4459 GLO Community Ctr- 518 E. Commerical-869-3978 Oz Bar - 504 E. Commercial - - - - - -417-831-9001 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - -417-864-0036 MCC United- -1623 N. Maplewood- -918-838-1715 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City Hi-Lo Club 1221 NW SOth- - -405-843-1722 Finish IJne - -2200 NW 39th Expvy- - - 405-525-0730 Club Rox- - - -3535 N\v' 39th Expwy- -405-947-2351 Tnpanga Grill & Bar- 3535 NW 39th -405-947-2351 Oklahoma, Tulsa Bamboo Lounge- 7204 E. Pine - - --918-836-8700 Club Maverick- - 822 S. Sheridan - 918-835-3301 Heads & Tails- 7944 E. 21st - - - 918-660-7878 Club Majestic- 124 N. Boston - - - -918-584-9494 New Age Renegades- -1649 S. 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Beginning with the August 2004 issue. Serving the 4 States Region of Missouri, Oklahoma, Arkansas and Kansas. We are just getting bigger and better! For AdYertising Information Call (417) 437-2275 The Ozarks Star 2401 E. 32nd Street, Suite 10-243 Joplin, MO 64804-3128 July 1, 2004 It's been seYeral months since George Bush announced he is trying to lead this country by endorsing a discriminatory, unnecessary and undermining amendment to the U.S. Constitution. \'<1e just learned that an actual vote on this proposal has been scheduled in the United States Senate just three weeks from nm.v. You and so many others have been great. We must win this vote and win it big. Members of Congress tell us they're hearing from the other side by a 10 to 1 margin right now. That's why your action today is so critical. During the next few weeks, we intend to get 250,000 people to oppose the Constitutional amendment. That's right: 250,000. We need new people but we also need you to repeat your opposition, even if you ha\·e done so dozens of times already. Even if your legislator already opposes the Amendment. Pcrsisrence makes a difference. It tells our leaders that we will not stop, no matter ·what. Learn what you can do. \,·ww.hrcactioncenter.org Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] Ozarks Pride Magazine, July 1, 2004; Volume 1, Issue 7 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource Ozarks Pride's first issue began in January of 2004. Then follows Ozarks Pride (2004), The Star (2005), and The Metro Star (2008). 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Ward (editor@ozarkspride.com) Member: National Lesbian Gay Journalist Association Contributing Writers: T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Columnist: SteveT. Urie Donald Pile Ray Williams Contents: Editor's Page -page 2 Gabby Dearest- page 3 Scheduled Pride Festivals - Page 4 Steve T. Urie - page 5 Donald & Ray, Out on Vacation- Page 7 Lesbian Notions- supplement page -A Entertainers by Gay Travelers- supplement page - B Rainbow Flag Creator - page 11 Ozarks Pride Out Cruzin- page 12-13 Q Scopes- page 20 Classifieds-page 22 Community Directory- page 23 Advertising Rates: Card Size Ad- $17.00 per issue (3 Month Minimum) Subscription- $16.00 (6 months) Classifieds- $6.00 firs! 15 words- 25cents each additional. Email: advertising@ozarkspride.com Phone (417) 437-2275 for larger and full page ad rates. Deadline for all advertising, articles and payment is the 20th of each month for the next months issue. OZ8r'<s Pridt Magazine is published & d!ilributed monthly as a com111Jnity s.,.,;ce by Ozarb Pride Group of Joplin, Missouri. Publication of tho name, photog11ph or like.,.11 of any peoon, busin1:11 or org1niz1tion in this publication is not k, be construed 11 any indicalion of sexual orientation or preferences of 1uch peraon. business or Cl'glnization, Opinions e:rpmud by c.elumnl5ts, 8dverti1er1 or Lttitr, to thit Edl1or are not neceuarily the opinion of Ozark, Pride Mag1lin,, l1 !Jlaff, th• PUl:li,J,-.r or ff's ,a,,e,tiHII. Content of advtrtisemenb and article! are Ole 10/1 r11pcw,1ibiity of th1 advertiser 1nd /or atthor. Thi Pu~ishlr of Ozar:b Pr/th A11galine rasen"91 tho rig:ht to rttJse adnr1iling material for 1ny re1,on ,,tuill 10 ever. Ozarb Pride 1rxl 111 l!kenssse! there of are tole propertl•s of OZ111t1 Pridt Group, AH moteria; O copy,vht 21)(),1 Ozert, Pm1e Page 2 June 1, 2004 ''I DO'' On Monday May 17, 2004 a historical day, the United States become the fourth country to legalize same-sex marriage. Massachusetts became the first state in the US to legally allow same-sex couples to marry, bringing jubilation to Gay Rights Activists and millions of our citizens nation wide. The US joins an elite group of nations who's people have said to the world, Gay's and Lesbian's have equal rights. The era of the broom dance to declare your partner, has come to an end. The United States along with the Netherlands, Belgium and Canada's three largest provinces have set the stage for the world to act. As we celebrate Gay Pride this month and bathe in our victory, we must be reminded our new freedom could be short lived, as many State's are poised to vote us back into the 19th ·centmy. Voter's in Georgia, Kentucky, Mississippi, Oklahoma, Missouri , Utah and more to come, will vote later this year, to say HELL NO!, you are not equal. You do not have the same rights as the majority, or vote to follow the path of Massachusetts and our great neighbors to the north. In 2006 Massachusetts voter's will also decide if they will allow the State Supreme Court's ruling to stand. News media across the nation and around the world broadcast the events of the day. continued page-3 Editor Ozarks Pride Page 3 · June I, 2004 editor from page-2 A last minute appeal to the US Supreme Court by opponents failed and the rush was on to complete the paper work required by the State of Massachusetts. CONGRATULATIONS NEWLY WEDS! Thousands of same-sex couples lined up across the State among the cheers and applauds of hundreds of well wishers. We want to congratulate all the New Legally Wed couples and a huge congratulations and thank you to (GLAD) GAY LESBIAN ADVOCATES & DEFENDERS. The gay rights group who initiated and fought for this day in Massachusetts. It is so very important to support these human rights groups who depend on contributions from us to defend and fight for equality and our constitutional rights. Join together in pride and celebrate our sexuality. Have a great month. Yfl. ~- 0/,f/a,,xd /Editor Dear Gabby Dearest, My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years now, and although the sex has been great, he brought up the idea of having threesomes. We sat and talked about who we would be interested in doing this with, but now I'm having second thoughts. I really love my bf but am afraid of him cheating on me if I don't do this with him. Confused Dear Confused: I would say to be honest with your boyfriend and tell him you are not comfortable with the idea of inviting someone else into your bedroom. In my opinion, it is never a good idea to share that intimacy with a stranger. 9 times out of 10, it causes problems in your relationship and helps to escalate the old problems you've had in the past. If you and your bf have a great relationship and are in love, he will respect your opinion. Could be he is checking you out to see if you are longing for something new. If not and he does what you think he's gonna do, then he isn't the one for you. Love Gabby!!! Gabby Dearest is not a professional therapist. She is just a wise old lady that has been around the block many times. Replies to submitted request for advise should not be construed as absolute resolutions, just friendly advise from dear old sweet lady. You may contact Gabby Dearest by email .... kargabbf1l O@no,maiLcom or by addre5sing Gabby Dearest , Ozarks Pride, 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243,Joplin,MO 64804 Volume I Issue 6 Page 4 June 1, 2004 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community Unity, ar1d you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Email: editor@ozarkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW Missouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for their rights and to voice concerns. This region has a huge GLBT population without representation. 4 States Area Pride Events! St. Louis Pride The St. Louis Pridefest culminates in a parade on June 24. For more info, go to www.pridesaintlouis.com or email pride@pridesaintlouis.com. Springfield, Show Me MO Pride: 6/11- 6/13. Festival at Phelps Grove Park June 13, 12noon to 6:30pm. Kansas City Pride Dates: 6/6 - 6/13 Location: Kansas City, MO For more information got to www.heartlandpride.org/ planner/ festival.html Oklahoma City Pride Dates: 6/21 - 6/28 Location: Oklahoma City, OK For more information, go to www.okcpride.com. Tulsa Pride Dates: 6/6 - 6/13 Location: Tulsa, OK For more information, please email: ohrl O@hotmail.com. Topeka Pride Dates: 6/13 6/19 Location; Topeka, KS For more information, go to kansaspride.org. Northwest Arkansas Pride Weekend Fort Smith and Favetteville Starts 6/25 in Fort Smith to 6/27 Fayetteville. Pride Parade 6/26 AM in F;yetteville. All festivals aim~ are to educate the community by invoking, promoting, and celebrating Gay /Lesbian/Bisexual/ Transgender pride. Adverlismm1t Woody's Manhattan Hair & Nall Salon Penny Smart 509 Main ,. Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments ( 417) 623-3500 Ozarks Pride Page5 PRIDE PRIDE PRIDE In 2002, I had the distinct honor of attending the 2002 Intensives of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches. I say honor because this is the program that begins the final step of ordination and licensure with the MCC churches. I was there for continuing education because I don't have the educational qualifications to be ordained or licensed in our denomination. Some may ask what does this have to do with pride ... guess what? Everything because everything we do has to deal with us on a personal level, everything that we think about ourselves has to deal with us on a personal level and yes, everything that other see in us, hear from us and observe from us has to do with our concept of pride for ourselves and our community. There are others in the same situation I am in and they face the same ,-i,ill of God saying man doesn't lead you. I AM is the one that leads you. This same I AM of the Bible confirms on us the choice of will. The will to be who we are, where we are and whenever we are. Yes, things happen along the way but the Almighty One, or whatever name you choose to call the one found on the mountaintop in your heart. June 1, 2004 Now how do we choose to show our pride? Is it our behavior, our language, our reaching out to others or is it simply living the life that God gave us and living it to our fullest. I was recently told, "I'm tired of all this pride stuff, why can't we just be who we are." Well DUH! Ask yourself the question and answer it in the same question. While on my trip to San Francisco we attended the MCC church there and the first thing that struck me was the rainbow flags lining the ceiling. For me it was a startling vision of wow this is who we are. \Vhen we got back to dorms that night one of the young ministers in the group from England said it reminded him of fascism. Rainbow flags reminding someone of fascism, how dare he attack our freedom to fly our flag proudly. After discussion the flag was indeed brought up. How do we project who we are? Rainbow flags here remind me it's safe to be here, it's safe to shop here, and it's ok to be who you are. You see it's a difference of culture. In Europe the use of flags reminds people still today of the fascism in Germany. In England where there is a church of state, the Union Jack doesn't fly within its sanctuaries. They find it strange that in the country where we promote a difference of church and state that almost every sanctuary flies the United States flag. Europe uses the pink triangle to represent our community because of its use to tag gays in Nazi Germany. They say it reflects with more spirit the meaning of who we are and how we have suffered. Rather than a symbol, I say let's show our pride by portraying who we are all the time. Co11ti1111ed page-15 Steve MEN.'S UN.DERWEAR STORE NOW OPEN! 825 E 3111l ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL, 877-7-BOXERS FOR INFO! UNDERWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE ~OTTEST BRANDS, 80 SOFlWEAR + JOCKO + WC LA ROCHE + MUNDO UNICO + OLAF BENZ Ozarks Pride Photo by: Ray Williams Page 7 June 1, 2004 OUT ON Vi\l.ATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com PHOENIX, ARIZONA We usually don't get really, REALLY excited when a new gay/lesbian accommodation opens. However we just returned from Phoenix, Arizona where the CALAMUS RESORT ( calamusresort.com) recently opened. It is located at 401 Clarendon Avenue in the heart of midtown Phoenix. It has 110 units, 45 hotel rooms, 40 residential and the remaining retail office space, new salon and spa opening in the next couple of months. Calamus is an Asian aquatic plant that is growing around the pool, but more important, a series of Walt Whitman poems with veiled references to manly love! Check them out, very homo -erotic. In the 1920's to be a friend of Calamus was to be GAY! Vern Johnson, Phoenix entrepreneur, the CEO has bought and developed this property and it will soon become a major gay/lesbian destination. Jim McAvoy, the general manager of the hotel has done a remarkable job. All of the staff is extremely friendly and courteous. Ken, the front desk manager is the PERFECT person to greet you when you enter the hotel. He is fun, funny and very attentive. The Calamus Resort was built originally by the late actor, Cary Grant in the early 1970's and was named the Clarendon Hotel. It later became a Radisson Hotel and thru a few other changes of ownership it is now being brought back to it's original splendor. The rooms are spacious, clean and bright. The prices are moderate and affordable. Amenities includes private bathrooms, daily maid service, color TV with HBO, CD/Alarm Radios and complimentary local phone calls. There is plenty of free parking. They have a lovely tropical courtyard with a large heated swimming pool and Spa. Plans call for a hair salon, massage studio as well as retail outlet stores. There is a gift shop on the premise and newspapers. The front desk is open 24 hours a day. As you first enter the lobby you will be surprised by the spaciousness and interior decorating that they have done. The front desk staffis very attentive. You will certainly be welcomed here. Besides being a fine hotel they also have a restaurant and what a restaurant it is! Johnson's Restaurant serves a wide variety of delicious gourmet foods. Served in a beautiful setting with exquisite service. . ...... continued page-i 8 Volume 1 Issue 6 Page 10 June 1, 2004 Gi'OW~b.-..a%fderby ha\ingancnline ..--.. .&DoitM Call Today! 417-613-7809 Creatlvel>H.el>elJgn.eom Ca.the- Letta. always available to help you with your .real estate tranaactiomi 'Whether you are • o:r ael&ng property I can youtt Webb Oty. Carl ' lt. Ou- thage bi Mmouri. CaD Today For H:E.LPt 41 7,-48$-,61li $ or f;Mi-7076 Cathe: Letts, ABRi GRI Im/MAX New Diredian www.catheJetts.com 71 6 S. MAIN ST. JOPLIN, MCI MON: Request Dance Party w /Terry. TUES: queer as folks 4th Season - Tuesday w /Terry @gpm W'.ED: Dancing with DJ Lil'Ken THUR: Brandon Bravado & The Justice Janelle Moore Show. Karaoke with DJ Robbie FRI: The Robbie Walker Showcase and DJ Lil'Ken SAT: Dance Party with DJ Lil'Ken OPEN MOH-SAT F HAPPY HOUR 4-7PM Ozarks Pride Pride Supplement Page A June I, 2004 ----------'----- Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the cochair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own Write." A Lambda Literary Award winner for her first novel, Out of Time, Martinac has also authored several nonfiction books, including The Lesbian and Gt!)' Book of Love and Marriage and The Quemsl Places: A Guide to Gay and Lesbian Historic Sites. Her screenplay, ForognA.ffairr, co-written with her life partner, Katie Hogan, won second place in the 2003 PO\VER UP Screenplay Competition. Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac May 24, 2004 The Not-So-Golden Years It was only a small story, easily overshadowed by news of the horrific abuse of prisoners in Iraq. And the fact that it _was_ such a small story, receiving so little media attention, made it even more frightening: in a recent speech, Federal Reserve Chairman Alan Greenspan once again voiced grave concern about the effects of the "yawning fiscal deficit" on the future of the Social Security and Medicare systems. At about the same time as Greenspan's warning, the president requested a whopping S25 billion from Congress to continue the U.S. occupation of Iraq. Chairman Greenspan says he sees no escape from the country's fiscal crisis unless there are cuts made to public benefits for retirees an option that both President Bush and Sen. John Kerry are well aware of but obviously don't want to talk about. But as more and more gay people live longer and approach the time when we should be able to retire, the issue of aging becomes one that our community desperately needs to talk about - with an eye to arriving at concrete plans. I say "should be able to retire," because there's no question in my mind that a lot of gay people simply won't be able to stop working - ever. There are those, for example, who are self-employed, who work in low-paying jobs, or whose employers don't offer pension plans. Many, too, started saving for retirement only in middle age, because, like our straight counterparts, we had other obligations earlier in our lives - educations to finance, children to raise, mortgage payments to meet, parents to care for. Sadly, it's the middle and working classes, gay and straight, who will be deeply affected by the probable collapse of Social Security, the cushion that saw a lot of our parents through old age. Lesbian5 may be particularly hard hit, since ,vomen still earn considerably less than men. Because there are so many challenges and hurdles, it's no wonder that few of us can summon the courage to discuss growing old in the 21st century. When we do get around to searching for information, it's relatively easy to learn what the question5 are, but pretty hard to find answers. Too much of the focus is still on gay retirement communities, as if condos in warm climates were ll panacea and not just places where a seiect few of us wili spend our golden years. Consider that Joy Silver, the president of RainbowVision Properties, which is building a i46-unit gay retirement viliage in Santa Fe, N.M., says she err,isions a community where people wili chitchat in a rooftop cafe, enjoy art and cooking classes, and take part in cross-dressing bingo (no joke). Con!in:!l!li page S;tpple111net -III Volume 1 Issue 6 Supplement Page B June 1, 2004 OUT ON VN:.ATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com Entertainers One great thing about traveling is that besides meeting interesting people and visitng interesting places sometimes you also get to see FABULOUS ENTERTAINERS. The past few years we were fortunate to be able to see these several entertainers in action. They embody all that is good in a true entertainer ....... fun, funny, elegant and they all put on a great show. LYPSINKA, whose real name is John Epperson lives in New York City. We caught his act at the Alcazar Theatre in San Francisco. His production is entitled "LYPSINKA! THE BOXED SET" He is one of the most intelligent performers around. He does Gisele MacKenzie, Frances Faye, Connie Francis, Libby Morris, Dorothy Squires and the 50's muscial icon Delores Gray. He performs all over the United States and gets standing ovations wherever he performs. It is remarkable the staging and entertaining this entertainer does. You will be dazed by his performance. Unlike many perfomers like this he stretches the boundaries. The Hollywood Reporter says "Lypsinka is like nothing you've seen before! Theatrical artistry that never seems to slow down" The New York Times says "Lypsinka is a fascinating, funny and distrubing spectacle." From the opening scene to the finale this performer never lets down the audience. Re is absolute dynamite. Audiences go back year after year to see him perform. And on top of everything else John just happens to be a very nice person. For a listing of his performances and other information about him go to: www.lypsinka.com. FRANK MARINO, who performs at the Riveria Hotel in Las yegas is another performer who puts on a great show. He does his "Joan River's" routine and has been wowing audiences for years and years in las Vegas. The straights in the audience really get into his show and why not? He and his cast and crew put on a class act show. He emcees the show and introduces the different performers who do Cher, Shirley Maclaine, Tina, etc. Their show is sold out ahnost all of the time. It is basically a musical/ , comedy review with gorgeous gowns, feathers, glitter, etc. Frank changes costumes between every performer which gives a greaet dimension to the show. When going to Las Vegas next time, be sure and catch the show. His web site is: www.frankmarino.com THE LADY CHABLIS who made Savannah, Georgia her home for many years is indeed THE LADY We caught her show at CLUB ONE in Savannah when we were there. continued page - C Ozarks Pride Page 11 - Artist Gilbert Baker Creator of the Rainbow Flag The Rainbow Flag as we know it today was developed by San Francisco artist Gilbert Baker in 1978. At the time, there was a need for a gay symbol which could be used year after year for the San Francisco Gay and Lesbian Pride Parade. Baker took inspiration from many sources, from the hippies movement to the black civil rights movement, and came up with a flag with eight stripes. Color has always played an important power in the gay right movement- Victorian England symbolized homosexuality with the color green, lavender became popular in the 1960s, and and pink from the pink triangle has caught on as well- and the colors of the gay flag were no different. Baker explained that his colors each stood for a different aspect of gay and lesbian life: • Hot pink for sexuality, • Red for life, • Orange for healing, Iii Yellow for the sun, • Green for nature, • Blue for art, • Indigo for harmony, • Violet for spirit. Baker himself and thirty other volunteers hand-stitched and hand- June l, 2004 pink stripe. Baker had hand-dyed the color, and unfortunately pink was not a commercially available color. The flag caught on quickly in cities across the country. It was even officially recognized by the International Congress of Flag Makers. In 1989 the flag was given international recognition when West Hollywood resident John Stout successfully sued his landlords after they tried to prohibit him from hanging the flag from his apartment balcony. At New York's Stonewall 25 Parade in 1994, a gigantic 30-foot wide, one mile long rainbow flag was carried through the parade route by over 10,000 volunteers. Quotable Quotes "I think it's entirely who you are from birth, personally. Some people might choose, but I think that it's who you are. I think people need to be able to be who they are. I have a friend who was married for many years and then the marriage dissolved and he came out ... and he lived this life of tension and of great difficulty. ... It's in your system. It's in your genes .... I think that people have a right in America to be who they are, who they are born as, and we are all God's children." - Presidential candidate John Kerry in a March 26 MIV interview. dyed to large prototype flags for the 1978 parade. It was an immediate hit. However, when Baker took his design to the San Francisco Flag Co. to have it mass-produced for the 1979 parade, he had to remove the hot cactus Canyon Campground And Resort For Men In The Ozarks 1hr. Lar9r.1t Mr.n'& l.amp9round in thr. 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When the showroom lights go down then you hear the announcer saying, ladies and gentlemen, the Lady Chablis, you KNOW you are in for a big treat for the evening. The Lady Chablis wears beautiful gowns. He E performs and also talks directly with the ; audience. Even thou Club One is a gay bar and nightclub, dozens of straights line up to see his performance. The night we were there our table companion was Oscar de la Renta and his guests. He only performs at the Club One in Savannah once a month now but does perform all over. To get his schedule go to his web site at:www.theladychablis.com. AUNTIE MAME is a mavelous entertainer in the Ft.Lauderdale, Florida area. Her campy acts are welcomed by a wide variety of gays and lesbians in the area. She gives of herself and is one of the most dedicated entertainers around. His web site is: www.auntiemame .. biz. SIEGFRIED AND ROY at the MIRAGE in Las Vegs delighted audiences for years and years. We first met them way back in 1973 when they were peiforming at the old MGM GRAND in Las Vegas. They have certainly came a long way since then. They are the highest paid entertainers in the history of Las Vegas. Their shows were sold out EVERY NIGHT ! They are the only peiformers in Las Vegas who have ever accomplished this feat. Their exceptional show was extremely high tee and they just kept adding new dimensions to their shows all the time. Due to the unfortunate accident that Roy had on stage, their show has been cancelled. Our thoughts are with both Siegfried and Roy. "This column is fondly dedicated to the late LIBERACE." who being Mr. Showmanship, was the ultimate entertainer. His shows were a MUST for everyone to see. His foundation web page is: www.liberace.com For more information on traveling, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit theire web page at: www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers. Volume I Issue 6 Supplement Page D June I, 2004 ... Lesbian Notions from page - A OK, she's a businesswofuan, and bingo in drag could be fun. But it's time to raise the quality of the dialogue and address issues that will affect a much larger number of gay people. The Humm Rights Campaign, for ex,i.mple, has made lobbying for Social Security survivor benefits for same-sex couples a major issue on its plate. However, given tbllt the public retirement system's future is shakier every day, our organizations may need to rethink and broaden their efforts. Coincidentally, Greensp:rn's warning arrived just weeks before an important national conference on LGBT aging called "Aging on Our Own Terms," which is being held in mid-June in New York: City, sponsored by our premier senior advocacy group, SAGE. (For more info, visit www.sageusa.org.) The conference promises to address such vital questions as what gay community in~structures are already in place that can be made to worlc for old gay people and what new institutions will be needed to care for our elders in the future. A wide range of registration and housing fees makes the conference affordable to ,i.ll. Interestingly, SAGE provides an excellent example of how national gay organizations can transform themselves to meet the needs of a changing, aging community. Founded in 1977, SAGE's acronym originally stood for Senior Action in a Gay Environment, a title that primarily spoke to the social needs of older gay people - for example, having activities and friends in order to avoid isolation and loneliness. Although social activities ,vill always be an important function of gay senior groups, more and more they're only part of the equation. The fact is, many of us will need a lot more than some good gay company in our golden ye,i.rs. In light of changing times, SAGE's initials ,i.re now shorthand for Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders. The new name not only ·recognizes the breadth of our community, but also suggests that the organization is talcing a more pro-active role on gay senior issues - now, while there's time to make a difference. Ozarks Pride Page 1-5 June 1, 2004 TOOLS \"OU MUD to TtE ........... 1 n"VTOOi\Y &Et LSaT~• · A once-in-a-lifetime chance to make change At the end of June 2003, the U.S. Supreme Court struck down a Texas law which made most kinds of sexual intimacy a crime for same sex couples. That means that the relationships that are at the heart of our lives can't be made a crime anymore. But it means more than that. The Court didn't just strike the Texas law down. It ruled that gay people have the same right to form intimate relationships with others that heterosexuals have. Laws which deny that, the court said, "demean" the lives of gay people and deny us the dignity that is our right "as free persons." This is most important Court decision involving gay people ever. And it is also a powerful political statement. One of the primary justifications for treating gay people as second class citizens has been the claim that our relationships are wrong, and that we are therefore supposedly not entitled to equal respect. One of the primary ways people have tried to clinch the argument that our relationships are wrong is by pointing to so-called "sodomy" laws (some of which are aimed at same-sex relationships, and some of which technically are not). After the Supreme Court decision in the Texas case, that argument is just a dead letter. Our relationships aren't a crime. And the constitution gives us the same right to be intimate, to form relationships, to live our lives, that it gives to heterosexuals. hThat does not necessarily mean that businesses, schools and other institutions have to indude LGBT people in equal rontins,ed next column ... opportunity policies or treat LGBT relationships equally. But it does mean that the law no longer gives them an excuse to refuse. \X/e now have the best opportunity we have ever had to insist that governments, business and schools treat us with dignity and respect, and give us equal treatment in day to day life. No one who cares about equality and dignity for LGBT people should let the opportunity this Supreme Court decision has given us pass v.i.thout doing something to bring us a step closer to equality. Equality is up to us. Visit the ACLU web site to find the tools. www.aclu.org/ getequal/ campaign.html Steve from page-5 Be upfront, be truthful but always be true to who God has made you to be. It won't always be easy but each one of us adds to the group and then there is one more, and one more, and one more. My mother goes to Forest Park Baptist Church and one of her people saw the article this past summer about our church and told my mother, ''We don't know about how much good they do. "Think about that, they see us act up in parades, they see us act up yelling "Hey Girl!' Down the street ... but they "don't see how much good we do." This year, let's show them by example. Adopt a street, if you see brothers or sisters being inappropriate in front of others ... s,i.y something. We would if we didn't like what they were doing. Include your spouses name when you talk at work .. It becomes natural. No one has the authority over you to make you less than what God h:i.s created. Be proud of who you are and let it shine. Have a fun, safe summer. 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Ozarks Pride Page lJ -That's What Friends Are For -Where are Democrats on the Federal Marriage Amendment? by 1\r!att Foreman, ExeC11tive Director, National Gqy and Lesbian Task Force: You've got to hand it to the Bush Administration: they take care of their own. Wealthy folks have received tax breaks; Star Wars defense contractors are reaping billions; pollution controls on business are being eased; national forests have been opened to logging. Perhaps nothing is more glaring, however, than what has been done to cater to the demands of the religious right. For them, the constitutionally-mandated separation between church and state has been breached by the President's "Faith Based Initiative." Federal law now bans "late term abortion" at home and the administration has relentlessly attacked family planning programs abroad. With barely a shred of empirical evidence to show they work, "abstinence only" programs that actually ban access to real sex education or HIV prevention information - are being lavishly funded. Even with all of these giveaways, the religious right demanded more and they got it: the President's active support of an amendment to the U.S. Constitution prohibiting the recognition of same-sex marriage and enshrining the second class citizenship of gay and lesbian couples in our nation's most sacred document. We can moan and groan, but the President is delivering money and issue red meat to a part of the electorate tl1at was responsible for 40% of his votes in 2000 . In return, they are energized, grateful, and will turn out en masse in November - an essential ingredient if Mr. Bush is to be re-elected. Old fashioned, smart politics. Continued next coiumn: June l, 2004 So what are the Democrats doing to protect and energize a critical part of their base, namely the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender community? After all, our people consistently and overwhelmingly vote Democratic. (In light of the GOP's lousy positions on so many key gay issues, it's not hard to understand why.) In fact, we are the party's third most loyal bloc of support just behind the African American and Jewish communities. We've remained loyal in spite of slaps like "Don't Ask/Don't Tell," the federal Defense of Marriage Act, and the lack of a single federal law acknowledging our existence, even when the Democrats controlled the \'vhite House and one or both houses of Congress. Just as important in this day and age, our community raises a ton of money for the party - far outstripping our proportion of the vote. Given all of this, one would think the party would be willing - rhetorically and legislatively - to stand up for us. Let me be specific. I don't understand why our community should have to spend one more hour, one more dime, make one more phone call or write one more letter to make sure an anti-gay, anti-marriage constitutional amendment is dead on arrival in the U.S. Senate. Last July 17, Senate Minority Leader Tom Daschle pledged that Senate Democrats would kill the federal marriage amendment if it ever came to a vote. We were all grateful and relieved to hear that pledge. But, it didn't feel like such a big lift to me because killing the amendment requires only 34 votes, and there are 48 Democrats, five of whom are retiring at the end of this year. In other words, every single Democratic Senator considered "at risk" this fall could be "let off the hook" on this vote, if necessary, and the amendment would still be defeated. In a classic display of Washington legalese - we've since discovered that last July's pledge is in question. You see, it apparently applied only to "the" Federal Marriage Amendmenr as written lasr year. Continued page-21 ,Walt Fore111at1 I 1 I Volume l Issue 6 Page 18 June 1, 2004 Gay Traveler., from page 7 They have a wide choice of dinner en trees including Ribeyes, Shrimp, Salmon and a large selection of desserts. A full wine list and plenty of drinks. We have dined at several restaurants in Phoenix over the years and this is by far the finest dining experience that we have ever had in the city. They also have Johnson's Lounge which has a piano bar right next to the restaurant. This is a perfect place to meet other guests at the Resort. On weekends, the Sky Deck Bar is open on the 5th floor and is all outside. There is always a lot happening at the restaurant and bars. Check out their full listings of drink specials, events and entertainment at: www.johnsonsbar.com This is one of those rare places where you can check in to the hotel and stay right there and never want to leave. They are close to several other i;estaurants and gay/ lesbian bars if you wish to go however with what the Calamus Resort has to offer, many guests just stay right there to enjoy themselves. They are located about 8 miles from the airport and just minutes to several gay bars. Actually Phoenix has more gay bars than any other major city including San Francisco and New York City. Most are very nice and everyone is extremely friendly. Art Galleries, Museums and wonderful shopping are located nearby. Be sure to check out the new GRAND hotels in Phoenix, the Biltmore and the Phoenician. Both are.world class hotels with room prices to go with it. We enjoyed shopping at the YOUR COMPLETE PRIDE STORE at 4700 North Central. They carry a great line of jewelry, clubwear, sportswear, underwear, cards, gifts, books, magazines and swimwear. For first time travelers to Phoenix a few things to ·see and do are: Scenic drive from Camp Verde to Flagstaff, next column ... Papago Park Area, Northern Arizona and I the Navajo Nation, La Posada Resort, · Kartchner Caverns State Park, Heard Museum, Grand Canyon and the ArizonaSonora Desert Museum. The late great Senator Barry Goldwater , from Arizona summed it up best when he I said, "The big thing is to make this country,j along with every other country in the l world ... quit discriminating against people i just because they're gay .. You don't have toj agree with it, but they have a constitutional] right to be gay." Truer words were never l :j spoken. • I If you are wanting to get away for a few1 days, we certainly recommend the J CALAMUS RESORT in Phoenix. They f have come up with a really great gay/lesbia.d resort. Vern and James and their staff will l certainly make you feel right at home and :4 you will have a great time. I .J For more information on the Calamus j Resort, check out their web site at: j www.calamusresort.com or give them a call! at: l-877-4CALAMUS. Their email is: ·1 jamesmcavoy7 l 6@hotmail.com For other 1 information on Gay Phoenix and Gay I Arizona, go to: • I www.visitgayarizona.com. They will be I happy to send you at no charge one of theirj colorful pamphlets on GAY ARIZONA! Iti lists many activities of gay and lesbian interest for travelers. Their toll free telephone number is l-800-GAYAZ4U. For more information about gay travel, 1 l email Donald and Ray at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/ I gaytravelers. f I l Ozarks Pride Page 19 KANSAS REJECTS ANTI-GAY BIGOTRY IN STATE CONSTITUTION Gaywire Release: WASHINGTON - The Kansas Legislature adjourned May 8, effectively killing a proposed anti-gay amendment to the state Constitution that would have denied marriage to same-sex couples in the state. The measure, which failed in Senate and House votes, would have also denied the legal protections of marriage to same-sex couples in civil unions or domestic partnerships. "Legislators recognized that resurrecting an anti-gay amendment to the Kansas Constitution was a bad idea and waste of time," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. "This amendment was twice rejected - first by the Senate and then by the House. But some lawmakers just couldn't take no for an answer. It's heartening to see fairness won out." Following a successful House vote, the Senate, lead in part by Republican State Sen. David Adkins, rejected the measure on March 26. Lawmakers then brought the measure up for another vote. The Senate passed it, however, on May 4, the House rejected it the second time around. The Human Rights Campaign is the largest national lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender political organization with members throughout the country. It effectively lobbies Congress, provides campaign support and educates the public to ensure that LGBT Americans can be open, honest and safe at home, at work and in the community. June 1, 2004 Quotable Quotes "I am going to be tonight very strongly on the side of those who are fighting for a legal frame in which they can develop their relationship normally in their lives. In other words, gay marriage - yes, please! Absolutely yes!" -Actor Antonio Banderas at the GLAAD Media Awards, March 27 in Los Angeles. Martha's Vin ard 219 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www.marthascomplex.com l ! Volume I Issue 6 Page 20 June I, 2004 June l, 2004 I Volumn 1 Issue 6 Page 2_1 ----::=---------------=---------------~---J----------------------;:============================-.-Mall Formran from page-17 Q Scopes by Jill Dearman 'Work off steam, Aries!" ARIES (lvfarch 21 to April 20): On June 3, the moon close to volatile Pluto in your house of adventure could put a confrontational bee in your bonnet. Just make sure you count to 10 before exploding. A little physical exercise helps you work off steam and banish all your inner demons. A Pisces makes a good workout buddy - and I don't mean at the gym. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): You may have to pull back and stay out of trouble when it comes to a tricky new relationship. Not everyone is as straightforward as you are, baby. If you sense you are being manipulated, you are! An Aries, however, would never pull a fast one on you GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): The Sun moves close to Venus in your sign this week, so get ready for a Libra to move closer to you. You are an ace at reading the romantic signs, my dear. Keep your eyes open and your lips ready. CANCER (June 22 to July 22): You need to channel your rage, dear Cancer. Mars is stirring up your blood, but Saturn is insisting that you find a constructive outlet for those feelings. It doesn't matter whether you choose kickboxing or karate; just do something to release your anger. And then release your passion all over an Aries. LEO (July 23 to August 22): Anxiety peaks around the full moon on June 3, and then chill-out season officially begins for you. Make sure that you plan lots of time with a Libra during these late spring weeks. You need to be around someone who reminds you of your dreams. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): You may not get a chance to work on something that's important to you this week, but don't beat vourself up about it. Turn to a Cancer for encour:1g~ment. Early June is your spring-cleaning time. Organize and reorganize your environment, your workload, your social calendar ... everything. You'll make up for lost time soon enough. LIBRA (September 23 to October 22): The Sun hooks up with your ruler Venus in your I house of adventure, so this is a great week to 1 1 make a major play for someone you would like to play with. A Cancer is open to whatever ·1 you've got to offer. Be sure you are offering a lot. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): The full moon on June 3 falls in your house ! of money, which means that you will need to pay special attention to this sensitive area of your life. Pay off a debt tl1at you've been carrying around for way too long. Another Scorpio wants to carry you around for a while. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to i December 21): The full moon in your sign on :J June 3 pulls you closer to a Jover you've been ·j pulling away from. What are you afraid of? ~ This is the week to face that fear. A Gemini is -, just as nervous as you are. It's time to jump :l deeper into the relationship, not out of it. i J CAPRICORN (December 22 to January 19): I Your body is your best friend this week, my 1 darling, so listen to it. As the Sun and Venus 1 transi. t your h ouse o f health, try to tune in to .lt what your body is telling you. Do you need to j slow down your pace or speed it up? A 'j Gemini v;,ill give you the hands-on help you 1 need. 1 AQUARIUS Oapuary 20 to February 18): Don't rush to judgment about a friendship, sweetie. More information is coming down the pike. Take this week to express what you need to a Pisces, a,,d then wait. Patience pays off. Spend a little extra time with yourself. You've been way too harried lately. PISCES (February 19 to March 20): On June 2, the full moon in your house of friends ] j ! could make vou fall into the arms of a soulful j and affectio~ate Taurus pal. Don't try to plan j tomorrow. Just revel in this unexpected treat. .,• You need more surprises like this in vour life . ._ - , I I I 1 If the amendment is re-worded so it still outlaws same-sex marriage anywhere in the country but leaves the door open to state-based domestic partnerships or civil unions, all bets are off. As a result, LGBT organizations including my own -are making desperate appeals to their members asking them to press their representatives in Washington to oppose the amendment. Our allies at the Human Rights Campaign, for example, have raised S6 million to fight it. Log Cabin Republicans and their principled new leader Patrick Guerriero are spending Sl million on anti-amendment advertising. Ironically, even the Democratic Party has jumped on the bandwagon, seeking 500,000 signatures on petitions opposing the amendment to be circulated during gay pride events this summer. For me, it's appalling - indeed, sickening - that scarce resources are being sucked into this work. Every resource we have should instead be funneled to our allies in the ten or more states facing ugly and divisive campaigns to ratify antimarriage state constitutional amendments this November. Sadly, it looks as though our allies will be left nearly high and dry, again. We thought we could help head this off and give some cover to those now getting squishy on us by getting a few senators from safe Qet me say SAFE) seats not up for election this year to say unambiguously that they would oppose any amendment seeking to restrict marriage rights. (There's no shortage of ways to say this ,..-ithout god forbid - having to endorse marriage equality.) Turns out not even THEY would come through. One response I got from a SAFE seat was, "You can't ask us to say we'll oppose any amendment ... what if the amendment is reworded to specifically authorize civil unions?" Like that could happen -when hell freezes over. Sorry, I can't buy this. \Y/e're not even asking Senate Democrats to take a stand for full equality or asking them to vote against a popular measure. (ln fact, no poll shows majority support for the amendment.) Next ,o/J,mn ...... lie Lion's en A!!<lll.lJiR Cura • Sm.Es • Ps:!Mie Sert. ~ • Nil:9 T lllllaliii • 'W,.lllllQ Complete f 2mily Ha.- Care 4J7 .. 6ZB--f?67 3816 E. 7th St Joplin, MO 64801 No, this is about amending the U.S. Constitution to take away rights from a minority, something that has never occurred in the history of our nation. If Bob Barr, the anti-gay author of the 1996 Defense of Mii.rriage Act, is against amending the constitution this ,vay, how hard should this be for our "friends?" The religious right knows how to play adult politics: they insist on getting something in exchange for their support. It's time we did the same. Our community is owed a renewed pledge - now that any anti-marriage amendment is dead on arrival in the Senate. If we can't get something this simple and this just and this easy, then ... 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document V olume-1 Issue-3 "It's A Ilfe, Not A Lifestyle" March 2004 Advertisement A Comm11nity Voice Magazine Volume-1 Issue-3 "It's A Life, Not A Lifestyle" March 2004 Advertisement Volume 11'81.le 3 Publisher: Ozarks Pride 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, Missouri 64804-3128 www.ozarlcspridc.com Editor: C.D. Ward (edltor@ozarksprlde.com) Mllmber: N1tional ~sblan G,y Jot1111l/tt AS$X/alk:irl Contributing Writers: T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Columnist: Steve T. Urie Correspondents: Ryan T. Raymond Contents: Editor's Page .page 3 Stave T. Urie - pa,Je 2 Out Cruzeo- page 8 D031lnation New Orieans-- page 9 Gay Traveler&- Page 7 Know Your Rights- Pege 4 Classllleds-page 14 Community Directory- page 15 Advertising Rates: Email: advertising@ozarkspride.com Card Size Ad-$12.00 per Issue (3 Month Miniroom) Inside Half Page -$37.00 Inside Full Page - $70.00 per issue Inside Third Page - $25.00 Subscrlptlon- $10.00 (3 roon1hs) Deadline for all advertillng, article, a■ d payment is the 20tll of each month for the next months Issue. Ozsb Prldl Magaz!no Is publthtd & cllil~ m~ • 1 COl1lllllrit. y w.t:I by OlJlb P!ldi! Ololp a( .loplA, "'-'I. Publcafoaof h n-,, phcltqaph orlln• d ffff pn,11, blllior orgnm:in in flls pubbb iJ not ID bl COllli1lld • -,ildlcllloa dMXIIII Olilldon or~dlld poqon, i:.....OfOl'glliialo11. Opirbls •.-cl by~. 11Mf11nor L"4ni>,. &aor-.n notr-9ylbeq:,1J01dOnrbl'ltltW.Z-, 1111111.fls publ,hfl(Off,.,,.,..,._ ConllnldaMl'fNmllllsflldldclNn .. M,.......d .. edw111erandbrdo'. Tbtf'ldllirrlOrmf'rtllMrrlmll - 1hl dgltlD lllMt lldNrtlillfl ma.ill tr WTf-1 UIO -· OlltbF'ltlt flldll.._ ... dntoll~d Ozrir Pli:e G~. M mtlnl O OQP)lfglil 2004 Ontb Prdf Page2 March 200+ ONE VOICE .. . ONE VOTE .. . IT CAN MATTER, IT WILL MATTER, AND IT DOES MATTER! In the most recent primary in the State of Missouri, the Jasper County Election Office was practically begging for precinct workers, especially Democrats. The sad thing is how literally board to tears the workers where because of the slow turnout. You should have voted in my precinct. It was held at Eastmoreland Elementary School and the enthusiasm of the second graders were heartwarming and if only they could vote. They didn't understand what a ballot was and asked if they could see one. Why couldn't they vote? Did it mean that something was going to happen? The questions, the inquisitive minds, the expectation in the air and the excitement about getting to vote. The precinct workers arranged for the kids to get to use practice ballots and taught them how it all works. To the surprise of many, even these second graders could use the ballots without experiencing the "dangling chards." I am always amazed at the number of people who complain about something, anything and then won't do anything about it Nag, nag, and nag! Bitch, bitch, bitch! But oh me, I don't have time to do anything about it. But back to the point or is that the point? Where is your excitement? Where is your enthusiasm? Where is the expectation of change and being a part of that change? Yes! Yes! Yes! Your voice and your vote counts ... every vote counts and it is your responsibility to get out and vote. Maybe even to help get others to the precincts to do the same. Continued Steve T. Urie page-5 Volume-1 Issue-3 Page 3 There Is No Middle. Marriage or Nothing!!! Joplin, MO February certainly was a month of national debate on the issue of Marriage rights for American Gays and Lesbians. It has been discussed by the national, local, and foreign media, political parties, religious organizations, your parents, your neighbors, your friends, you name it. It is one of the hottest social issue's in decades and this country is very divided on the solution. Yes, the People of these United States of America are divided on, to give or not to give, an estimated 16 million citizens their constitutional right to legally marry the one they love. Whoa!!! We absolutely can not settle for a compromise of legalizing only "Same Sex Unions". We can not allow our constitution to be changed to discriminate against us. We are all aware of the San Francisco Mayor's decision to challenge the California State Constitution and issue marriage licenses to same-sex couples. Over 4,000 couple's have been issued marriage licenses and taken their vow's. In addition here are other events and headline briefs from around the world. From New York Times This paper fully supports the right of gay men and lesbians to marry, and we believe that in time they will have this right across the nation. Cambodian King Backs Same-Sex Marriage. King Norodom Sihandouk is an advocate of Lesbian and Gay rights, and has expressed his wishes for his country to accept and ''Legalize'' marriage for same-sex couples. March 2004 Lesbian and Gay couples wed in New Mexico. On Feb. 20th Same-sex couples began to marry in Sandoval County, N.M. The Collllty Clerk had determined State law did not prohibit it. Later that afternoon New Mexico stopped granting licenses. Canada: Gay marriage survives challenge. Canadian government officials drafted a same-sex marriage law that is now under consideration by the country's Supreme Court. In the meantime, the provinces of Ontario and British Columbia have begun issuing marriage licenses for same-sex couples. Massachusetts Court Stands by Roling On Feb. 4th the Massachusetts High Court stuck to their guns and stated " civil unions for same-sex couples are not a viable alternative to full marriage in the eyes of the State constitution". Freedom to Marry Week (Feb 9-15) Same-sex marriage activists across the country held rallies and demanded marriage licenses from county bureaus. Is Chicago Next ? In a news conference, Wed. Feb. 19 Chicago Mayor Richard Daley said he would have "no problem" with the city clerks office following the lead of San Francisco and issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples. Bush Declares War on Gay's and Lesbian's Feb. 24, 2004 Bush finall ts off the fence and comes out e the constitution to discriminate against Gay's and Lesbian's by calling on congress to enact the Federal Mamage Amendment FMA defines Marriage as only a man and a women. Editor continued -Daf!.e 5 Volume l Issue 3 Page 4 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion, commentary, and your input. Tius publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak Out/ Mailing address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Email: editor@ozarkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW ]\,fissouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for their rights and to voice op.ion's. Tius region has a huge GLBT population who is silent. Adimtir,mmt Fairfield Inn By Marriott Joplin 3301 S Range Line, Joplin, MO 64804 Reservation (417) 624-7800 Email: ffijpln@aol.com AdJJtrti.Jtmmt Woody's Manhattan Hai.t: & Nail Salon Penny Smart 509 Main• Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments ( 417) 623-3500 March ?004 KNOW YOUR RIGHTS! IF YOU ARE STOPPED BY THE POLICE OR ARRESTED From ACLU Ozarks Chapter: When you are stopped by the police or arrested, you have certain rights under the law. These rights are the same whether or not you have done anything wrong. Know these rights and use them during your encounter with the police. Above all, do not do or say anything that would make your situation worse. What you say to the police is always important. What you say can be used against you, and it can give the police a chance to arrest you, especially if you badmouth a police officer. Remember that you have the right to remain silent. Use that right! Do not resist or try to run away. Keep your hands where the police can see them. Never touch a police officer. Stay calm and speak politely. Insist on knowing why you have been stopped. Ask, "Officer, why did you stop me?" (Note: Your race, ethnic background, gender, sexual orientation, disability, age or appearance alone are not valid reasons for the officer to stop you). If you are stopped while you are driving, give the officer your driver's license, registration and proqf of insurance if he or she asks for them. If you're given a ticket, you should sign it; otherwise you can be arrested. You can always fight the case later in court. If you're suspected of drunk driving (DWI) and refuse to take a blood, urine or breath test, your driver's license may be suspended. Continued page 14 ........ . Volume-1 lssue-3 Page 5 March 2004 From }t1/,6 2-Steve T. Urie Think about the issues, this isn't just a time for gay marriage but a time to think about jobs, the economy, justification of war, and the direction of where our com1try is headed. Our president has said it is OK for companies to send jobs out of the country if it is cost effective but at whose cost? Our president has told us that the war in Iraq was and is justified because of weapons of mass destruction but where are those weapons? Our president has said the economy is rock solid but it is so rock solid that people all across our state and even the country have gone years without raises and the cost of living raises don't match the cost of living, so ,vhere is our rock solid economy? Then yes there is the issue of gay marriage and everyone's right to be married. So far I have been disappointed in the Democratic leaderships lack of picking up this issue. We have not taken a true stand on this issue and we must. The candidates are tiptoeing around the issue but there is a storm brewing that could be the equivalent of the civil rights movements of the 1960's. The headlines this week have all been overshadowed by the events in San Francisco and today a county clerk in the state ofNew Mexico followed suit in issuing marriage licenses to same sex couples. Yes it is headed to the courts but it is also very likely to be headed toward a Constitutional Amendment against it. An open act of discrimination against a single group of people and this must not be allowed. The issue is there for all to see and yet. .. where will you be Election Day? You have a chance to change our country by removing Mr. Bush :from the Presidency but maybe just as important is the fact that you get out to vote at all. Take yourself, your responsibility seriously and VOTE! Have a great month ... Steve ............... .. Editors page fi·om page-3 A spokesman :from the Log Cabin Republicans, a predominately gay and lesbian political group, have abandoned the Bush for re-election campaign and stated " President Bush has declared war on Gay's and Lesbian's". Although Democratic Presidential hopeful' s Kerry and Edwards are against legalizing marriage for Gay's and Lesbian's, they both support civil union's and have spoken out against the Bush proposed constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage. Civil Union's are not separate and equal, but separate and unequal, but the Democratic candidate's position on issue's critical to our community are so much better than those of President Bush. Our biggest battle now is not the battle to legalize marriage for same-sex couples, but to fight against a constitutional amendment that would shut down the right altogether. Yes, February 2004 was very exciting, but now we must face reality and go to work. I urge all of you to contact your congressional representatives and voice your opinion. C. D. Ward Editor, Oz.arks Pride Joplin, MO KOAM TV Poll Results Question: What do you think of Gay Marriage? www.koamtv.com I approve of Gay Marriage.=68% ! do not approve of Gay Marriage=30% I have no opinion on Gay Marriage= 2% W11at is ''Gay Marriage"? We would point out to KO.\.M, there is no such thing as" Gay Marriage". The correct term is "Marriage for Gay's and Lesbian's". Volume 1 Issue 3 About M-.lte Trnh At R.E E'S Joplin ril 1st, 7pm FREE A hilar•~l'f funn1 c.ult ft\m!U m +·'· .... rinq -..r Miss Universe Allows Transsexual Entry. Page 6 Chinese Transsexual Chen Lili received the OK to enter the Miss Universe Pageant to be held in Ecuador June 1, 2004. First she must win the contest in her southeast Chinese Province of Sichuan. " I hope to clinch the crown" said the successful model Chen Lili. Chen Lili was allowed to change her gender identity by the Chinese government in January. She will be the first Transsexual allowed to compete for the coveted Miss Universe crown. March 2004 J e an,d The Gay Travelers ,\dvertisemeut Faces Guesthouse A Bed & Breakfast 327 N Jackson Ave. Joplin, Missouri 64801 Reservations Required (417) 621-9915 Take our virtual tour on the web: www.facesguesthouse.com Aunt Bea's Infamous Recipes! Sock it Too Me, Beef.G,mlmb ! 4 tablespoons virgin olive oil 1 1 /2 pounds ground sirloin 1 large onion and 1 med bell pepper 2 cloves of garlic (minced) 1 teaspoon sweet basil 1(1Soz can stewed tomato's) 1 (8oz can tomato paste) 1 (15 oz cru1 mixed vegetables or your favorite) 3 cups cooked pasta 2 teaspoons Tony Chacherc's Creole Seasoning 1/2 cup red wine ( drink the remaining bottle) Cook the Sirloin, onions apd beli pepper in large skillet to medium well, add remaining ingredients except pasta, simmer for 20 min, add pasta and simmer for 10 min. Volumt-1 lssuc-3 Page 7 March 2004 OUT ON VACATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" By Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com THE NEW AND IMPROVED JOPLIN, MISSOURI It has been a few years since we visited Joplin, i Missouri and what a change just a few years can '------------~ make. If you can't afford the time or money right now to go to Florida, Arizona or California then why not try Joplin. Yes! Joplin, Missouri! Charles Ward, formerly of Oklahoma City has opened a wonderful new B&B in Joplin. FACES GUEST HOUSE (www.facesguesthouse.com) is located at 327 No. Jackson, just a few blocks north of downtown. It is a beautifully furnished Dutch Colonial Cottage, circa 1898. Charles has completely refurbished all the rooms. The large Garden Suite with private bath and adjoining sun room filled with tropical plants overlooks a garden with fountains. They also have the Romeo Room and the Burgundy Room. Each room is decorated beautifully. A continental breakfast buffet is served in the formal dining room each morning. There is a large formal living room with fireplace for meeting other guests. This is one of the loveliest B&B's that we have found in the Midwest. As for the name, FACES? One of the former owners many years ago began putting different faces in the cement on the outside of the house itself and on the cement walls around the house. There are 19 total. This is VERY interesting. Charles has done an absolutely outstanding job. It is worth staying there JUST to have one of his very famous and delicious Faces Martinis! They are the best that we have ever drank. Be sure and stay there when you visit Joplin. Their toll free number for reservations is :l-866-238-6721. Now, for the wonderful food part of this column. Larry Black recently opened one of the most exciting, romantic and delicious restaurants in the four State area. THE CONNER HOUSE is located downtown Joplin at 612 South Main St. It is an extremely elegant restaurant with crystal chandeliers, beautiful oil paintings and of ~ course live dinner music at the piano. The ambiance, the service, the food, EVERYTHING is done right here. Our server was Trinity who knows how to treat guests .... overly attentive without being obtrusive. When making a reservation do ask for one of his tables. They have a wide range menu including appetizers ... escargot, shrimp cocktail, Italian Bake and Conner Crab Dip. We had the French onion soup and it was marvelous. For entrees you have a wide range of choices from Fillet, New York Strip, Rib Eye, Beef Tip Bourguignon to Chicken Parmesan, Chicken Piccata and Chicken Alfredo. If Veal Oscar is your favorite they offer that too. We love seafood and they have Norwegian Salmon, the BIGGEST golden fried shrimp we have ever had, Shrimp Scampi and Conner Red Snapper. Be sure and save room for dessert. Their Bananas Foster and Cherries Jubilee which is prepared tableside is to die for! They have a full bar and wine selection. Besides all this wonderfulness the real treat is that it is not expensive. It is extremely reasonably priced. You can't dine at the chain restaurants for this price. Continued page- IO new Joplin Volume l Issue 3 I Ozarks Pride Page 9 March 2004 Destination New Orleans " Gay Mecca " " Big Easy" By OP rontribnti11g 1JJriter T. J. Kel/y New Orleans is a city steeped in tradition, history and mystery. From it's past as a haven for voodoo practitioners and French traders to the present day ) city of culture and technology there is a little something for everyone in the Big } Easy. In this two-part story, I will cover many tings to see and do in New Orleans. New Orleans has been influenced by many different cultures starting with the Spanish who settled what was then Lousianne; to the French, under whom the city ofNew Orleans flourished. As the provincial government seat of the Louisiana territory and major gulf port, New Orleans grew rapidly. These influences can still be seen in the city, especially in the old French Quarter (taken from the French term for neighborhood "quartier"). The French Quarter is probably the most talked about and recognizable feature of the city except for the Mississippi river. The Quarter is full of old bars, taverns, restaurants, shops, cafes ect. Blocks from the shores of the Mississippi, tourists and locals alike patronize the many establishments there and take ) in the beautiful Jackson square (off ~ which the famous Cafe du Monde is ) located). Because the bars have no closing time in New Orleans, the Quarter is a great place to party whether it's 5pm or 5am. In the Quarter you can go shopping for groceries at the Quartermaster A&P and Nelly Deli in the Gay District on Bourbon St., Central Grocery on Decatur St. or any of the many tiny A&P's located in the area. You can shop for gay pride items, fine art, fresh fish and seafood and everything in-between. Probably the most well knovro facet of the Quarter is Bourbon Street. Bourbon St. is lined, mostly, with bars restaurants and tourist shops. Old French colonial buildings line the street with balconies overlooking the street from the second stories. During the peak tourist seasons (February-April and July-September) Bourbon St. is packed full of people bar hopping, dancing and "working" for beads. One of the more famous establishments on Bourbon St. is Pat O'Brien's. Pat O's (as it is known) is the "home of the Hurricane". Pat O's also has an extensive Cajun and creative drink menu. When you order a Hurricane at Pat O's, it comes in a souvenir Hurricane glass. If you don't want to keep the glass, it is returnable at the bar for a $3 refund. Another great place on Bourbon is Razzoo's. Razzoo's is a live venue bar with a house blues band. The house band plays every day during happy hour. With 3 for I drink specials, no cover and great music, Razzoo's is hard to beat. When it comes to restaurants, New Orleans is top of the list. Whether you are looking for classic Cajun in a Mom-and-Pop, AllAmerican in a chain restaurant, or coat and tie in an elegant French restaurant; New Orleans has it all. Some of the better places to eat in the Quarter are along Decatur and Chartres Streets and just outside the Quarter on Frenchman Street. Some of the commercialized restaurants in the Quarter are Bubba Gump's, Jimmy Buffet's Margaritaville, Hard Rock Cafe and TGI Fridays. Gump's and Margaritaville are great places to go for drinks and appetizers. A couple of the established restaurants in the Quarter are Dicky Brennan's Steak house and K-Paul's Kitchen. Both are casual during lunch and coat and tie for dinner. One of the better low cost, casual places to eat in the Quarter is Angel Li's gourmet pizza. Toppings at Angel Li's include the classics to artichokes, tuna, crawfish, asparagus, feta cheese and many other choice toppings. New Orleans continued page-] I Volume-1 Issue- 3 Page 10 Mru:ch2004 New Jop/il}-jrom page 7 They are open for lunch Tuesday thru Saturday 11 to 2:30 and for dinner 5 to 9:30. Their phone number is ( 417) 623- 2833. Now it is "party time" and off to REE'S Nightclub at 716 South Main just a couple blocks south of the Conner House Restaurant. They are open Monday thru Saturday from 4 pm to 1 :30 am with Happy Hour everyday from 4 to 7. They are closed on Sundays. Terry, who is "hot and VERY available" is a great bartender. Richard, the owner and all of the staff are extremely friendly and so are all the people in the bar! Everyone makes you feel right at home here. Something is always happening at Ree's nightclub. They have a great disco dance floor, D.J, Combo nights, stage shows, and their Saturday dance parties. Their phone number is (417) 627-9035. We promise you that you will have lots of fun at this nightclub. One note for out of Towner's coming to Joplin is about parking at both the restaurant and the bar. Both face Main Street however their entrances are in the back and they have huge lighted parking lots. Steve T. Urie is the Pastor of the MCC Joplin-Spirit Christ Metropolitan Community Church, located at 2902 E. 20th Street. Services are 7 PM on Sundays. Joplin has a lot of tourist attractions including the Grand Falls, which is the only continuously running waterfall in the State, The Joplin Museum Complex and The Spiva Center for the Arts One of the most overlooked things to see in Joplin is their wonderful Architecture. They have one of the most interesting and complex array of architectural styles in the Midwest, ranging from Victorian, Queen Anne, Italianate, Gothic Revival, Romanesque, Neoclassic, Next column ,, Greek Revival, Dutch Colonial, Arts & Craft Movement including Bungalow and Prairie and Chicago Style. Stop by the Joplin Convention & Visitors Bureau at 222 West 3rd and pick up some of the brochures. If FACES Guesthouse is booked up when you plan to go to Joplin, then we suggest the gay friendly Fairfield Inn at 3301 South Range Line Road. Their toll free number is: 1-800-228-2800 Always remember, "live, love and laugh" and enjoy your traveling. For questions about traveling contact Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their web page at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers. Adm-tismunt Joe Brennan and Rodney Burgomy 4301 NW 63rd, Suite 100-Oldahoma City, OK 73116 -405-8-40-21~-v.c21-~ldciude.com Advertising with Ozarks Pride Magazine shows you support our community and we support those who support us. Advertising llS low llS $12.00 per issue. See advertising rates on page 2. I Q72rks Pride Page 11 Turnabout Fundraiser A Success! Joplin, MO by T.J. Kelly On Friday February 6th 2004, Ree's of Joplin held it's annual turnabout fundraiser show for the Joplin Community Clinic. The free clinic allows the customers of Ree's to use their parking lot free of charge without risk of being towed. Beyond that, many patrons utilize the clinic's free services. The clinic relies on contributions to stay open, not accepting government contributions which would stipulate how it is run to include who uses the parking lot. It is known that the clinic turned down a large contribution contingent on the fencing off of the parking lot so as not to be used by the gay establishment The grant was turned down in support of the gay community as a matter of principle. In appreciation, the owner of the club wanted to give back, with a turnabout fundraiser show. This year, Karaoke Jockey Robbie and bartender Terry were the guest performers, along with a special appearance by Miss Dolly. The show also included a rare appearance by the Grand Dame of Joplin, Miss Lilly. To finish out the line up were regulars from the Robbie Walker Friday Night Showcase including Robbie Walker, Latina Carlisle, Justice Janelle Moore and a farewell appearance by Alexis De Ville. All proceeds from the show went to the Joplin Community Clinic which included all performer tips and a portion of the cover charge. The show raised over $560 for the clinic . . ., .. , ........ Mar"h 2004 New Orleans cont.from page -9 If you're looking for culture, the Quarter is a great starting place. For those who have never been to the Big Easy, I would recommend a guided tour, perhaps by horse drawn carriage that you can find parked at Jackson square. These tours will take you by the major sites including St. Louis Cemetery 1, where the voodoo priestess Marie Louveau and stop frequently to let you visit the sites before moving on. Just outside the Quarter off Camp and N. St. Peter's Streets is the DDay museum for military buffs. It is a beautiful building with a wonderful tribute to those who fought in the invasion of Normandy on D-day during WWII. Another fun tour would be one of many "Haunted New Orleans" tours which you can sign up for at many tourist shops and information centers. Many of the tours start at a designated place (like the statue in Jackson square, for example) at dusk. These are all walking tours, covering a very large area including Mansions, cemeteries and buildings ... so wear your tennis. In the same line as the Haunted tours is the Anne Rice tour, for fans of the author ( or her gorgeom son who happens to be a gay author and poet). This tour hits places mentioned in her novels mostly from the Vampire Chronicles and Witching hour series and takes you by her mansion in the Garden district. Along Decatur Street is a little bit of culture and shopping in the French Market where fanners market meets flea market. Everything from fresh grown fruits and veggies to tourist trinkets and homemade fudge and candy stores line the French Market. In the next issue, I will cover things to see and do in the New Orleans Metro area outside the Quarter including the Garden District, Plantation Tours and the New Orleans Gay scene. To be continued in OP April issue. Volwnt-1 Issue- 3 Page 12 March2004 Advertimmnt Local Talent Paula-Jo David Releaaes First CD Jesus: My Faith Addiction 11irouqh It All The flrat recording by Southern· Contemporary Christian Singer Paule-Jo David, a native of Wichita, Kansas, released her first CD in December of 2003. Paula-Jo and her husband George were :ommi98ionecl as evangelist "Ambassadors Of Christ" by I Love The Lord Christian FellOWllhip Church o Mchita, Kansas and aent forth to the greater Southemt Kansas region to start a new spiritual work there. The Husband-Wife team aettled here in Joplin, and currently established the River Of Life Church in Pittsburg Kansas. Paula-Jo is a Pride Christian Music Artist and sound bites of her music may be heard by logging onto h :/ And selecting the woodstockcd link. You also may purchase her new CD at Great Expectations 920 E. 15111 St. Joplin or online @ w-ww .woodstockcd.com. The Fourteen song selection featured in Paula-Jo's debut album are a road map ofher journey thru her life's trials and tribulations with physical abuse; divorce; and drug addiction. In this album Paula-Jo's life transformation is reflected and poured out into her music, to the Lord. 1 1ver Piasburg. KS. 66762 Pastor: George David Phone (316)461-2668 Services Saaday'11 atl 1 :00am Timmons Chapel PSU Full GO ,PEL all affinning fellowship I Love The Lord Christian Ministries George & Paula-Jo David ,l111bi1,sadors of Cirri st 1509 Missouri Jopiin Mo.648fU (417) 781--1912 Email: paulajo.evans@sbcglobal.net LOzarks Pride Page 13 Advertism1mt March 2004 Selah Ministries International, Inc. Hosted By: SPIRIT OF CHRIST METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCH JOPLIN MO. -and- RIVER OF LIFE CHURCH PITTSBURG KS. *PRESENTS LIVE IN CONCERT* Sun Terry Lee Ousley Terry Lee Ousley bases his ministry in Farmington, Michigan. But really he and his partner, Rev. Jim Lynch, travel full-time as Selah Ministries International to bring God's Word to the glbt community. Terry Lee sings and writes most of his own music. He also manages an omnibus website for glbt Christian artists, called "Pride Christian Music" on the web , 2004 11 :00 a.m. @ Timmons Chapel (PSU Campus) Hosted by: River Of Life Church Pittsburg, KS./ Contact Pastor George David for details@ 316-461-2668 or Email: ~ ~ 1 Volume I Issue 3 Page 14 March 2004 Know your rights continued: If you are not driving (for example, if you are walking), you are not required to carry any type of identification. If you are asked for identification, you may give it to the officer if you want to, but you do not have to do this. You can't be arrested merely for refusing to identify yourself on the street. Never give false information to a police officer. Police may "pat down" your clothing if they suspect a concealed weapon. Don't physically resist, but make it dear that you don't consent to any further search. Ask the officer, "Am I free to leave?" If the officer says "No," assume that you are under arrest. If the officer says 'Yes," you can leave. Remember that you have the right to remain silent. In most situations, do not say anything except to identify yourself or ask the officer why you have been stopped. Don't bad-mouth a police officer, even if you believe that what is happening is unreasonable. That could lead to your arrest. Police may ask to search you, your car, or your home. Do not agree to such a search. Be polite, but make it clear that you are not consenting to a search. IMPORTANT: The police may have a right to search you anyhow, and they can do it without your consent. BUT if you give them consent, you may not be able to challenge an illegal search later in court. It is not lawful for police to arrest you simply for refusing to consent to a search. If the police say they have a search warrant, ask to see it. NOTE: More to come, Know Your Rights from the ACLU Ozarks Chapter will be continued in the April issue of Ozarks Pride. Ozarks Pride Classifieds $6.00 first 15 words, 25cents each additional Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word .................... . Ozarks Pride Magazine On-Line. Check out our web site for daley breaking GLBT news. www.ozarkspride.com Faces Guesthouse B&B Take the virtual tour of Joplin's only Gay Friendly Bed and Breakfast. www.facesguesthouse.com Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse,Joplin, MO. Private bath w/queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv. requited. 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KS MCC United Tulsa-1623 N. Mapl=ood-918-838-1715 MCC Living Spring-Eureka Springs, :\R-870-253-9337 L'::==========================-1 lwnbow Christian Church-Springfidd, MO-417-866-6206 -Aids Project of the Ozarks- 513 Kentucky,Joplin,Mu-----17-624-5788 1901 E. Bennett, suite D, Springfield, MO 417-881-1900 -Business Services- Penny Smart, Hair Salon-Joplin, M0-(417)623-3500 Manage By Rachael-Joplin, M0-----(417)438-3664 Chlll'b Bun Rcaltot11-Vicld Bronaon-(417)434-0077 My.tic Creatio118--•Pittsburg, KA..--(-620)231-6790 Kelly Kirby, CPA, PC-TuJga, OK--{918)747-5466 Ccntury21--0klahoma City, OK---(405) 840-2106 Advertisement CELEBRATING DIVERSITY IN CHRIST: BBUEViNG, RECEIViNG, BBLONGINGAJ\/7> SERVING BRINGING QUALITY CHRISTIAN MUSIC TO JOPLIN MISSOURI'S GLBT COMMUNITYI SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC PRESENTING IN CONCERT THE TALENTED CHRISTIAN WITNESS OF SHAWN THOMAS 2902 EAST 20TH STREET JOPLIN, MO 64804 POBOX4711 JOPLIN, MO 64803 Phone: 417-206-6179 Fax: 417-206-6179 Email: splrltofchrlstOcableone.net Contact: Steve Urie Q cop)'l'9t 2004 Ozlrir Prido Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document A LGBT COMMUNITY VOICE M A G A z I N E Volume 1 Issue 5 "It's A Life, Not A Lifestyle" May 1, 2004 NOW OPEN WED THRU SUN 9PM TO 2AM Daily Specials & Events - Shows Every Other Sunday - queer as folk Sun 9pm Volume 1 Issue 5 Page 2 May 1, 2004 Publisher: Ozarks Pride 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243 Joplin, Missouri 64804-3128 www:ozarkspride.com Editor: G.D. Ward (editor@ozarkspride.com) Member: National Lesbian Gay Journalist Association Contributing Writers: T.J. Kelly Greg Steele Columnist: Sieve T. Urie Donald Pile Ray Williams Contents: Steve T. Urie - page 2 Editor's Page -page 3 Gabby Dearest- page 3 Identity Theft - Page 4 Book Review Oklahoman -page 5 Donald & Ray, Out on Vacation- ~age 7 Ozarks Pride Out Cruzin- page 1 O Thank Your Legislators- page 15 Classifieds-page 18 Community Directory- page 19 Advertising Rates: Card Size Ad- $12.00 per issue (3 Month Minimum) Subscription- $16.00 (6 months) Classifieds- $6.00 first 15 words- 25cents each additional. Email: advertising@ozarkspride.com Phone (417) 437-2275 for larger and full page ad rates. Deadline for all advertising, articles and payment is the 20th of each month for the next months issue. Ozarks Pride Magazine it publi,hed & distributed monthly as a community service by Ozarl:s Pride Group of Joplin, MissourL Public•tion of the name, photogr•ph or likeness of •ny person, business or orgoniZllHon in this publication is oot to be construad as any indication of sexual orientation or preferences of such person, bu.sine.11 or organiutkin. Opinions expressed by columnist,, advertisers or L•ttar,; to th• Editor ara not neceisarily the opinion of Ozsrlc• Pride 1,/agazi,,., irs st•tr. th• publish•r or it's •<lwirtiseTJ. Conlan! of odvartiserr.enls and articles are the sole resp:,nsibility of tne adv1rtiaer and /or outhor. The Publisher of Oz•rb Pri~• IJ•g•rin• reserves the iight to refltSe adverti1ing material ior any re!ion wtu1t so e,er. OZ11rlcs Priui end 111 likanesS<ts there of are so:e properties of Oz•rl-• Pricffl Group. Ail material () copvr.ght 2004 Ozarlcs Pride DON'T LET THE LIGHT GO OUT ... DON'T LET THE LIGHT GO Due to a serious health problem resulting in surgery, Steve was unable to submit his column for this issue. We all wish him a speedy recovery and anxiously await his next contribution. Our prayers are with you, Steve. -------- Apr i I 21, 2004 HRC APPLAUDS CALIFORNIA LEGISLATURE'S VOTE IN FAVOR OF MARRIAGE EQUALITY 'With one ordinary committee vote, California sent an extraordinary message across the nation that only marriage provides full rights, responsibilities and benefits for same-sex couples and their families,' sai.d HRC President Cheryl Jacques. Jf7ASHINGTON - The Human Rights Campaign praised a California state committee for passing the first legislative ,-ote in the United States in favor of marriage equality. The California State Assembly Judiciary Committee voted 8 to 3 on Tuesday, April 20, to pass the Marriage License Non-Discrimination Act (AB 1967). Sponsored by Equality California - the statewide gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender group - and introduced by Assemblyman Mark Leno, D-San Francisco, the measure would allow California to marry same-sex couples. "With one ordinary committee Yote, California sent an extraordinary message across the nation that only marriage provides full rights, responsibilities and benefits for same-sex couples and their families," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. Read Ehfuii story on wHw.hrc.01z Ozarks Pride GAY PRIDE IS COMING! Just in case some of you may have , forgotten, June is national Gay Pride • month. Gay America will decorate from head to toe and celebrate the privilege's we've gained in the last 48 years. Yes, almost 50 years the Gay and Lesbian community has struggled, fought, protested, screamed, lobbied, gone to jail and died to bring us to this point in history that is year 2004. From what I recall, of course I was very young, just a mere infant in 1956. The Gay rebellion was just beginning. Totally gay bars were popping up across the country. Gay bathhouses, cruising area's, drag shows where open to the public. My Oh My in New Orleans, The Jewel Box in Kansas City, Pinocchio's in San Francisco, what a scandalous site, drag queens performing in front of straight people. Gay's and Lesbian's were defying the old order of society and bringing homosexuality to the front of the class. We were congregating in large numbers in public and openly declaring our sexuality. Gay Pride was born! Yes, gay people of the 50's and 60's were the pioneers of the gay rights movement that has resulted in the freedoms and rights we take for granted today. But, the long hard journey is not over. The generations that followed have accomplished the unthinkable, accomplishments my generation thought unattainable. We have come along way baby! Now it is the younger generation's turn to take us where we belong. To that equal place in society that even today eludes us. We will work hard and celebrate our Gay Pride. C.D. WardiEditor Dear Gabby Dearest, I have just recently gotten out of a short relationship with someone I had a deep connection with. When we broke up I felt like my life was over and I didn't think I could ever find someone as great or as caring as him, and I still don't. Do you have any advice for those of us who are trying to get over someone we truly cared about and can't seem to forget about? From: Can't Move On Dear Can't Move On: I know how hard it is to get over someone you truly care for, truth is, you can't make someone love you or want you back by smothering them with affection. Most people like that want space, control, and time to focus on their problems and feel like they are alone and aren't ready for any kind of commitment These are the kind of people that we, the Long Term Relationship types, need to stay away from. It isn't easy to get over them, but at the same time, it isn't healthy for you to keep hoping that they will change their ways. If you feel like you want to call them, don't, find something to keep you busy. Don't do the things the two of you used to do, find a new hobby, basically keep your mind off of them and one day, you will find that friendship with that person may be possible, but don't rush it. Focus on what is happening in your life and the goals you have for yourself. You can't make someone happy unless you are happy. Gabby Dearest is not a professional therapist. She is just a wise old lady that has been around the block many times. Replies to submitted request for advise should not be construed as absolute resolutions, just friendly advise from dear old sweet lady. You may contact Gabby Dearest by email .... ~ or by addressing Gabby Dearest , Ozarks Pride, 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243,Joplin,MO 64804 Volume l Issue 5 Page4 Want a VOICE in your community? We welcome your opinion , commentary, and your input. This publication is about building Community Unity, and you are a part of making this happen. We want you to speak out! Mailing address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804-3128 Email: editor@ozarkspride.com NOTE: All letter's to the editor and articles submitted must include your name and phone number for verification purposes only. Mission Statement: To provide a GLBT community voice to SW Missouri, SE Kansas, NE Oklahoma, NW Arkansas. Our mission is to unite a fragmented community reluctant to speak out for their rights and to voice concerns. This region has a huge GLBT population without represenJation. Fairfield Inn By Marriott Joplin 3301 South Rangeline Road Joplin, MO 64840 Reservation (417) 624-7800 Email: ffijpln@aol.com Advertisl!J11tnf Woody's Manhattan Hair & Nail Salon Penny Smart 509 Main * Joplin, MO 64801 Appointments (417) 623-3500 May 1, 2004 Identity Theft, Could It Happen To You? Compiled by: Greg Steel OP Contributing writer. ....... . We have all seen the commercials on TV. Some are very humorous, but contain a very serious message. Identity Theft is fast becoming a very lucrative international crime. Individuals and entire families can be financially destroyed, and it could be avoided by taking a few precautions to safe guard your personal information. The following is a memo sent out to company employees by a Corporate Attorney. Maybe we should all take some of his advise. 1. The next time you order checks have only your initials (instead of first name) and last name put on them. If someone takes your checkbook, they will not know if you sign your checks with just your initials or your first name, but your bank will know how you sign your checks. 2. When you are writing checks to pay on your credit card accounts, DO NOT put the complete account number on the "For" line. Instead, just put the ~1ast four numbers. The credit card company knows the rest of the number, and anyone who might be handling your check as it passes through all the check processing channels won't have access to it. 3. Put your work phone # on your checks instead of your home phone. If you have a PO Box use that instead of your home address. If you do not have a PO Box, use your work address. Never have your SS# printed on your checks. (DUH!) You can add it if it is necessary. But if you have it printed, anyone can get it Contim,ed page-13 Idmtity Ozarks Pride Page 5 May 1,2004 OKLAHOMA MAN PUBLISHES BOOK ENTITLED "FRENCH COUNTRY SIGNATURE." By Donald Pile and Ray Williams The International acclaimed interior designer, Charles Faudree has just published his new book, FRENCH COUNTRY SIGNATURE. Charles Faudree is a delightful chap from Tulsa, Oklahoma. His new book features dozens of beautiful color photos of different rooms that be has so meticulously designed. Charles is a very interesting and enjoyable person to talk with. His world wide travels have enabled him to self-educate himself on the finer things in life. He is very educated, fun, funny, delightful and we could spend hours and hours with him. Celebrated for creating French-style interiors, Charles's work has been featured in leading home magazines, including Traditional Home, Renovation Style, House Beautiful, Southern Accents and Veranda which happens to be one of our very favorite magazines. Seven homes designed by Charles including his own, have been featured on the Home & Garden television network. In 2003, be was chosen one of the top 100 designers in America by Home Beautiful. Charles Faudree Antiques and Interiors, established in 1980 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, is the base from which he travels worldwide to an International clientele. Charles's clients are found throughout America as well as in Spain, where he continues his work on the historic Finca la Caprichosa in Pro de Savilla. He assisted Oklahoma's former first lady, Kathy Keating in the 1995 restoration and refurbishing of the Governor's Mansion. Five individual homes including his own have been featured in Home & Garden TV. During his 25 year career as an Interior designer, Charles's work has appeared in many design magazines and design and decorating books. Six of his own homes have been featured in Traditional Home magazine, where he was a Design Award Winner in 1995. He was a featured designer to Signature Style, a book published by Traditional Home that spotlighted eight of America's leading interior designers. "Too much is NEVER enough", says Charles, who has achieved an international reputation for creating settings that have all the elegant accoutrements of a French Country estate. It is Charles's union of the rustic with the refined that creates his distinctive style of casual, understated elegance. With creations that are always artful, eclectic and inspiring, Charles is a master at one of the main tenets of French Country design~ombining traditional prints, patterns, colors and textures with just the right furnishings and collection. Continued-see book on page-16 MEN'S UNDEHWEAH STOHE NOW OPEN! 825 E 31111 ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL, 877-7-BOXERS FOR INFO! MON- 11-3AM! ONLINE!' SIZED! BOXERS UNDERWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE HOTT.EST BRANDS, 00 SOFTWEAR + JOCKO + WC LA ROCHE + MUNDO UNICO + OW BENZ Ozarks Pride Page7 May 1, 2004 OUT ON VACATION "Traveling in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com TULSA, OKLAHOMA We just returned from a wonderful weekend in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Oklahoma is fortunate to have not just one major city, but tl-vo! We have in the past told our readers how much fun Oklahoma City can be and now we can say the same thing about their sister city, Tulsa. Being antiques dealers we have been to Tulsa many times doing antiques shows in the past, however have not gotten back in about 10 years. Many of the owners of the fine restaurants, antiques shops, interior design shops and other upscale shops are gay owned. They have been around for many years and have a wonderful reputation. Tulsa is such a beautiful city with lots of shopping, museums, art galleries, antiques shops, etc. You won't get bored at all. Actually we really believe that Tulsa is the cleanest and most beautiful city in the Midwest and in the springtime when all the flowers and trees are coming out it is especially beautiful. The first day we toured the Philbrook Museum (www.philbrook.org). It is grand! They are in the process of putting in more gardens. Their artwork is fabulous. And their restaurant has delicious and exciting food. The next day we went to the Gilcrease Museum (www.gilcrease.org), "where the American West unfolds" This is one of the finest musuems for western art in the United States. Their galleries are full of absolutely fabulous artwork. From oil paintings, watercolors, sculptures, to the new American Indian artifact collection on the lower level it could take hours to see everything. Their museum gift shop has authentic American Indian handmade items for sale. Other interesting area places to visit are: Greenwood Cultural Center, J.M. Davis Arms and Historical Museum, Oklahoma Aquarium, Oklahoma Hall of Jazz, Tulsa Air and Space Museum, Tulsa Garden Center and the Tulsa Zoo. The Will Rogers Memorial and Museum is just a short drive from Tulsa. The Gay Community Center recently moved into a new location with much more room. This is a great place to find anything your looking for in Tulsa. They are located at 5545 E. 41st Street and their phone number is: 743-4297. A.J. gave us a guided tour of the Center and answered all of our questions. They offer all kinds of support for the community. And if you have extra furniture or anything, this is a great place to donate items. The MCC United of Tulsa is located at 1623 N. Maplewood. Their phone number is: 838-1715. There are all kinds of groups and organizations in the Tulsa area and the Gay Community Center is more than happy to direct you to any that you might be interested in. A GREAT website for anyone going to Tulsa is: www.timscottonline.com/ tulsa.htm. All cities should have a website like this one. Continued page- 14 Gay Traveiers ..... . Volume 1 Issue 5 Page 8 May 1, 2004 Advertisment April 23, 2004 Gaywire release MICHIGAN HOUSE PASSES BILL ALLOWING DOCTORS TO REFUSE TREATMENT OF GAYS The Republican-controlled Michigan House of Representatives passed a measure today that would allow doctors to refuse to treat gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender patients. The Conscientious Objector Policy Act pro\'ides that health care workers can refuse service to anyone for moral, ethical, or religious reasons, although the measure would prohibit the refusal of emergency care. The bill was strongly supported by the Michigan Catholic Conference, a conservative religious organization that also hosted a legislative day for Catholics at the state Capitol today. The bill now goes to the Republican- controlled Senate. according to 36Sgay.com. In addition, three other bills that mav affect health care for LGBT patients were ;pproved bv the House today. · Tulsa One would exempt a health insurer or health facility from providing or covering a health care procedure that violated ethical, moral or religious principles reflected in their bylaws or mission statement. Vocal opponents of the measure included Rep. Chris Kolb, the first openly gay legisbtor in Michigan. ''.Are you telling me that a health care provider can deny me"medical treatment because of my sexual orientation? I hope not," he asked the House. "This bill allows health care providers to deny needed health care services to any individual not currently protected from discrimination under the state's Elliot-Larsen civil rights act. Thus, a health provider could refuse health care to an individual based upon a patient's actual or perceived seimal orientation. I adamantlv oppose this legislation and believe that ;his is a very dangerous path for Michigan to travel down" , said Rep Kolb. Ozarks Pride Volume 1 Issue 5 May 1, 2004 MCC Joplin-Spirit of Christ Cc Metropolitan Community Church · • Sunday Service 7PM Community Meal served Wednesday's at 6:00pm, cost $3.00. No one is turned away. Our meal is always nutritionally balanced. Dinners include d.esert, drink and good fellowship. Take out meals are also available. Bring your friends and family. Steve T. Urie, Pastor 2902 E. 20th Street Joplin, MO 6480.3 'NW'II. mccjoplin .com Advertisment P'hone,; (-/1. "17} 623-'J007 ~ {417) 023-'1 '1 l59 EKAa■; cm,xO&S,4 0,;x:,pymax.oom PYints and Oopie3 Bi:odtng Lami,-.almg Faxing au•in~• Cards Ozarks Pride Page 13 May 1, 2004 Continued from page4 Identity.. 4. Place the contents of your wallet on a photocopy machine. Do both sides of each license, credit card, etc. You will know what you had in your wallet and all of the account numbers and phone numbers to call and cancel. Keep the photocopy in a safe place. I also carry a photocopy of my passport when I travel either here or abroad. We've all heard horror stories about fraud that's committed on us in stealing a name, address, Social Security number, credit cards. Unfortunately, I, an attorney, have firsthand knowledge because my wallet was stolen last month. Within a week, the thieve(s) ordered an expensive monthly cell phone package, applied for a VISA credit card, had a credit line approved to buy a Gateway computer, received a PIN number from OMV to change my driving record information on-line, and more. But here's some critical information to limit the damage in case this happens to you or someone you know: 1. We have been told we should cancel our credit cards immediately. But the key is having the toll free numbers and your card numbers handy so you know whom to call. Keep those where you can find them. 2. File a police report immediately in the jurisdiction where your credit cards, etc. were stolen. This proves to credit providers you were diligent, and this is a first step toward an investigation (if there ever is one). Here's what is perhaps most importani of all: (Have you even thought to do this.) Continued next column: 3. Call the 3 national credit reporting organizations immediately to place a fraud alert on your name and Social Security number. I had never heard of doing that until advised by a bank that called to tell me an application for credit was made over the Internet in my name. The alert means any company that checks your credit knows your information was stolen, and they have to contact you by phone to authorize new credit. By the time I was advised to do this, almost two weeks after the theft, all the damage had been done. There are records of all the credit checks initiated by the thieves' purchases, none of which I knew about before placing the alert. Since then, no additional damage has been done, and the thieves threw my wallet away. This weekend someone turned it in. It seems to have stopped them dead in their tracks. Here are the numbers you need to contact if your wallet, etc. has been stolen. 1. Equifax: 1-800-525-6285 2. Experian (formerly TRW): 1-888- 397-3742 3. Trans Union: 1-800-680-7289 4. Social Security Administration (fraud line): 1-800-269-0271 Atfvertislllel/1 ~~ o97aki Austin Letts For Appointments 417.659.9466 "Walk In's Welcome" 610 S. Main Street Joplin, MO 6480 I Volume 1 Issue 5 Page 14 May 1, 2004 Gay Travelers from page 7 By going to this one website you can find listings for most all of the gay and lesbian organizations, clubs, meetings as well as the bars locations and hours and it will even take you directly to their websites. This website also directs you to area attractions, musuems, galleries and places of interest. We visited several bars while we were in Tulsa and among the ones we enjoyed was the BAMBOO LOUNGE at 7204 E. Pine. Brian, the bartender is fun, wonderful, personable and very handsome. This bar has been around a long, long time in Tulsa ind has recently had some renovations. Be sure to check them out. Another bar is the CLUB MAJESTIC at 124 No. Boston which is in the Brady Arts District just to the North of downtown. They are open Thursday thru Sunday from 9pm till 2am. They have hot music, great lights and an :1wesome sound. Their website is: Nww.clubmajestictulsa.com. The SILVER STAR AT 1565 So. Sheridan has new DJ's, a new Sound System, a new Light Show and opens at !pm. Their website is: .vww.silverstarclub.com. We attended the 3rand Opening Party for the new CLUB \t1AVERICK at 822 So. Sheridan. Their Nebsite is: wvvw.tulsamaverick.com They 1re open daily from 4pm to 2am. This is the 1ewest bar in Tulsa and the owners are ioing it "the right way". We know that this )ar is going to be packed every night. The )wners, bartenders and staff are all :xtremely friendly and hospitable. There are no gay accommodations in rulsa. Perhaps in the near future one or two night open. Gay owned Bed and Breakfasts Lre quickly becoming popular throughout he United States. There are plenty of hotels md motels in every price range. ,ext coiumn ............... . For a weekend get a way, try Tulsa. There is so much to see and do and everyone at the bars are so friendly. You won't be a stranger in Tulsa for long. We want to give a big THANK YOU for the hospitality of our dear friend, Mark Wiedemnann while we were in Tulsa and to Andrew Hicks for helping us with all the preliminary work. He is a great writer. Quotable Quotes "Gay people are chasing after all the things that straight people hate. We want to get married, we want to be in the military, we want to have children, and these are all things that straight people are running from in droves." - Comedy writer and Hollywood Square Bruce Vilanch to St. Louis' Vital Voice, Feb. 27. Joe Brennan and-Rodney Burgamy 4301 NW 63rd, Suite 100-Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405-840-2106-w,vw.c21-goldcastle.com Advertising with Ozarks Pride Magazine shows you support our community and we support those who support us. Advertising as low as $12.00 per issue. See advertising rates on page 2. Ozarks Pride Page 15 PLEASE THANK THESE MISSOURI LEGISLATORS! Jejfmo11 City, MO March 31, 2004 The Missouri House of Representatives today voted to pass HJR 39 to amend the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage. The vote was 128-23 to amend our state constitution to ban same-sex marriage. If your legislator is on the following list, please call and thank him/her for voting against this horrible legislation and in favor of equality! John Burnett (43) 573-751-3310 Marsha Campbell (39) 573-751-4485 Russ Carnahan (59) 573-751-4567 Michael Corcoran (77) 573-751-0855 Melba Curls (41) 573-751-3158 Michael Daus (67) 573-751-6736 Margaret Donnelly (73) 573-751-0100 Curt Dougherty (53) 573-751-6535 Barbara Fraser (83) 573-751-4163 Chuck Graham (24) 573-751-2162 Jeff Harris (23) 573-751-9753 Bob Hilgemann (64) 573-751-1400 Ted Hoskins (80) 573-751-0169 Rodney Hubbard (58) 573-751-2383 Connie Johnson (61) 573-751-7605 Robin Wright Jones (63) 573-751-6800 Jenee Lowe (44) 573-751-2437 Mike Sager (48) 573-751-7335 Tom Villa (108) 573-751-0438 Michael Vogt (66) 573-751-9472 Vicki Walker (50) 573-751-7639 Vicky Riback Wilson (25) 573-751-1169 Yvonne Wilson (42) 573-751-9758 Quotable Quotes "They [gays] kept me alive when I got into trouble v:ith the Johnson administration. As long as they kept looking for my records and imitating me, then of course my name was always alive, so I'm very grateful to them." Eartha Kitt to the rvliami gay newspaper The Weekly News, Feb. 12. May 1, 2004 Disparities in Wide Range of Areas Including Income Tax, Survivor Benefits, and Estate Taxes POR]L-41\JD, OR April 14, 2004 - As millions of married couples are signing and sending off their tax returns prior to the April 15 tax day deadline, a groundbreaking report released today by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy Institute reveals that same-sex couples face widespread economic disparities and hardships because they are denied equal marriage rights. The report takes real-life situations commonly faced by Oregon couples and compares the economic benefits afforded to married couples to those given to same sex couples. A same-sex couple residing in Oregon is profiled to illustrate the real-life cost to them of not being able to marry. The report, entitled "'Economic Benefits of Marriage under Federal and Oregon Law," is the second in a series that documents the disparities gay couples face under federal and state income tax, Social Security benefits, gift tax, estate tax, worker's compensation, and line of duty death benefits. It was authored by Terence R. Dougherty, an attorney with Patterson, Belknap, Webb & Tyler LLP. "'Same-sex couples pay more in taxes and get fewer protections and benefits in return," said Matt Foreman, the Task Force's executive director. "These injustices arcn 't hypothetical instead, they arc being inflicted right now on hard-working, tax paying Oregon couples, often at times of family tragedy and loss. This report quantifies the cost to one gay Oregon family." The report was authored by Terence R. Dougherty, an attorney with Patterson, Belknap, Webb & Tyler LLP, a prestigious 168-lawyer firm based in New York City. The firm was ranked #I in the nation for the pro bono comributions of lawyers in 2002. Source: ~ Volume I Issue 5 Press Release 2004 AMENDMENT TO OKLAHOMA CONSTITUTION "Oklahoma legislators are trying to use the state constitution to discriminate against thousands of its families," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. WASHINGTON - The Oklahoma House passed an amendment today to the state constitution that would deny marriage, civil unions and domestic partnerships to same-sex couples, sending it to the ballot this November. Nine similar anti-marriage measures - including six constitutional amendments died in the Legislature earlier this month. However, this amendment was added to another bill, dodging the regular legislative process. "Oklahoma legislators are trying to use the state constitution as a weapon against thousands of its citizens," said HRC President Cheryl Jacques. "According to the Census, more than 5,700 same-sex couples and their families live in Oklahoma. The Constitution should protect them just as it protects their neighbors." fhe amendment was offered by Sen. fames Williamson, R-Tulsa. The Senate :iassed it April 15 by a 38 to 7 vote. It Jassed today in the House by a 94 to 4 vote. 'It is a sad day for Oklahoma when our Legislature votes to mandate :liscrimination in our state constitution," ,aid Kevin Smith, lobbyist for the i\merican Civil Liberties Union of :Jklahoma. fhe Human Rights Campaign is the argest national lesbian, gay, bisexual and .ransgender political organization with nembers throughout the country. It :ffectively lobbies Congress, provides :ampaign support and educates the public .o ensure that LGBT Americans can be )pen, honest and safe at home, at work md in the community. 16 1, 2004 5 With a look at old and new collections, blue and white Chinese painted furniture, Napoleonic figures, antique furnishings, unusual fabrics, accessories and architectural adornments, his book, FRENCH COUNTRY SIGNATURE is an inviting and exhilarating look into Charles's innate sense of balance in the way he juxtaposes fabrics, furnishings, color and accessories to create a cohesive portrait. Charles also has a beautiful Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Nicholas who has appeared on the cover of Traditional Home and 15 times within it's pages and he has "starred" in two Home and Garden television presentations. Charles Faudree's FRENCH COUNTRY SIGNATURE is published by Gibbs Smith Publishers and can be purchased on line or from your favorite book store. Martha's Vine~ard 219 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www.marthascomplex.com Volumn 1 Issue 5 Page 17 PrideRide Inc . . hosts annual fund-raising PrideRide 2004 bicycle ride KansasCity April 6,2004 Plans are now underway for the fourthannual PrideRide 2004 to be held on Saturday, June 12, 2004. Registration begins at 8 a.m. and the ride begins at 9 a.m. Proceeds from PrideRide, Inc. go toward organizations that benefit and serve the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgendered (LGBT) communities in greater Kansas City. Beneficiaries of PrideRide 2004 are SAVE, Inc. and The Lesbian and Gay Community Center of Kansas City. SAVE, Inc. provides housing and housing assistance for HIV/ AIDS challenged individuals and families. The Lesbian and Gay Community Center of Kansas City creates, supports and provides vital and timely resources and services for the lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and straight-allied (LGBTS) communities of Greater Kansas City. PrideRide, Inc. has raised a net total of over $10,000 in the first three years of the bicycle rides and has goals of increasing ridership and pledges for PrideRide 2004. Early Bird registration for PrideRide 2004 is a discounted $15 before May 21, 2004 and $25 after that date. A minimum pledge of $50 is required to ride. All riders receive a PrideRide T-Shirt, and there will be awards and gifts for levels above the minimum pledge. Pledge forms will soon be available at many local establishments and bicycle stores. Riders can register online and a pledge form can also be downloaded at the PrideRide web site. Details on times and ride routes are available on the pledge forms, posters and at the web site, ~- May I, 2004 An OP Cotmmmity Service FREE HIV TESTING,NO NEEDLES! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For your convenience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which does not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentiality. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC]oplin "Serving A Healthier Community" Quotable Quotes "I believe in domestic partnership. If the people change their minds and they want to overrule that [in favor of same-sex marriage], that's fine with me. But right now, that's the law, and I think every mayor and everyone should abide by the law .... We have a state law, and I think those issues should be left to the state, so I have no use for a constitutional amendment or change in that at all, no." - California Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger on NBC's The Tonight Show With Jay Leno, March 1. River Of Life Church PO Box 1578, Pittsburg, KS. 66762 astor: George David Phone: (316) 461-2668 Services: Sunday's 11am Email: geo592k@sbcglobal.net Timmons Chapel PSU Full GOSPEL all affirmin . Place your classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . Ozarks Pride Magazine On-Line. Check out our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. www.ozarkspride.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse, Joplin, MO. Private bath w / queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv. required. (417) 621-9915 Volunteers Needed: Wnat's going on in the communities of Springfield, Eureka Springs, Fayetteville, Rogers, Fort Smith, Tulsa, Miami, Pittsburg? Send us your scoop. Solicit your business owners to advertise in Ozarks Pride Magazine. Mail address: 2401 E. 32nd St., Suite 10- 243, Joplin, MO 64804. Deadline for all inclusion is the 20th of each month for next months issue. Business Opportunity: Ever dreamed of owning your own B&B? Beautiful 4 bed 4 bath 3200sqft fully furnished in Joplin, MO For Sale. Call Vicki Bronson at Charles Burt Realtors 417 -4 34-0077 Joplin MO64804 800-782-7822 Vicki Bronson 417-434-0077 www.vicki0ronson.com Congratulate that special person with a .. 13est WlshesAd" in Ozarks Pride Magazine. Only $10.00 for 1/Sth Page unit. Birthdays, I Love You, Anniversaries, Thank You's Mail to:: Ozarks Pride Magazine, 2401 E. 32nd St, Suite 10-243, Joplin, MO 64804 -Bars- Studio 716- -716 \1v. Sycamore- 479-571-1300 Arkansas, Fort Smith Burnzee's- -2301 Towson Ave #C- --479-494-7300 Kincade- - -Downtown Missouri, Joplin Ree's- - - - 716 S. Main - - - - --417-627-9035 Missouri, Kansas City Missie B's- - - 805 \1{f. 39th St- - -561-0625 Sidekicks Saloon 3707 Main St- - - - 931-1430 Buddies - - - - - - - 3715 Main St - - -561-2600 Missouri, Springfield MCC Living Spring- Kansas, Pittsburg River of Life Church-Timmons Chapel PSU 11AM Missouri, Joplin MCC Spirit of Christ-2902 E 20th, - - - -7PM UCCFF--204 N. Jackson Ave, - - - - 10:30AM Aids Project Ozarks- 513 Kentucky- - 417-624-5788 Missouri, Springfield Rainbow Christian Ch-837 \'v. Madison-417-866-6206 APO- 1901 E. Bennett, suite D- 417-881-1900 The Edge- -424 Boonville Ave- - - --417-831-4700 Oklahoma, Tulsa Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive -417-864-4572 MCC United- -1623 N. Maplewood- -918-838-1715 Oz Bar - 504 E. 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Sheridan -918-834-4234 TNT's- 2114 S. i\lemorial- - - Tool Box- - 1338 E. 3rd- - - - Yellow Brick Road- 2630 E. 15th -LodgingMissouri, Joplin -918-660-0856 Oklahoma, Tulsa 918-584-1308 Kelly Kirby,CPA-4815 S Harvard- -918-747-5466 - -918-293-0304 Underguy.com - - -825 E. 3rd - - -877-7-BOXERS Faces Guesthouse B&B - 417-621-9915 Fairfield Inn by Marriott- 417-624-7800 Volume 1 Issue 5 Page 20 7 1 6 S. MAIN ST • .JOPLIN, MD (41 7) 627~9 □ 35 • JOPLIN'S ALTERNATIVE NIGHTCLUB May 1, 2004 Featured Entertainment Every Other Friday with Special Guest MON: Will & Grace TV with Austin and Dance Party TUES: queer as folks 4th Season - Tuesday w /Terry @9pm WED: Dancing with DJ Lil'Ken THUR: Brandon Bravado & The Justice Janelle Moore Show. Karaoke with DJ Robbie FRI: The Robbie Walker Showcase and DJ Lil'Ken SAT: Dance Party with DJ Lil'Ken Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] Ozarks Pride Magazine, May 1, 2004; Volume 1, Issue 5 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource Ozarks Pride's first issue began in January of 2004. Then follows Ozarks Pride (2004), The Star (2005), and The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. 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Title A name given to the resource [2003] "Despite Victories, battles still rage on many fronts" Subject The topic of the resource Homophobia Description An account of the resource Newspaper article reviewing "Stories from the War on Homosexuality", a film series covering homophobia in various segments of society. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource R.J. Grubb Bay Windows ArtsPlus Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived Bay Windows Artsplus Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Bay Windows ArtsPlus Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource November 6, 2003 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource R.J. 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Title A name given to the resource [1993] The Traditional Values Coalition Video Subject The topic of the resource 1993 The Traditional Values Coalition Video: Politics of Divisiveness & Hate (Summary of Discussion Points in "Gay Rights/Special Rights") Description An account of the resource A 24 page collection regarding the Traditional Values Coalition's (TVC) anti-gay propoganda video "Gay Rights/Special Rights", prepared by Renee DeLapp for the Western States Center Advanced Leadership/Mentorship Program, Fall 1993. Includes an analysis of the ideologies expressed and relevant articles from the National Black Lesbian and Gay News Magazine, the Boston Phoenix, the Traditional Values Foundation (TVF), the Oakland Tribute, the Coalition for Human Dignity's Dignity Report, and the 1993 March on Washington for Lesbian, Gay, and Bi Equal Rights and Liberation. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] Rex Ball Interview Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 30, 2004 Description An account of the resource Video recording and transcript of oral history interview with Laura Belmonte on January 30, 2004. <strong>Video and Transcript available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for on-site research.</strong> Born in Oklahoma City in 1934, he attended Oklahoma State University and served as a commissioned officer with the Army Corps of Engineers. Married in 1960, he and his wife had four daughters. In 1986, they divorced and he became involved in the Tulsa LGBTQ+ community when he moved to Tulsa in 1986. As a gay man, he entered into a long-term relationship and continued his work as a well-regarded architect and urban designer. Subject The topic of the resource Rex Ball Oral History Project Interview from January 30, 2004 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Rex Ball, Laura Belmonte, Allison Richmond, Matthew D. Williams, Dennis Neill 2004 Allison Richmond available at Center interview Laura A. Belmonte Laura Belmonte Matthew D. 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Title A name given to the resource Robert (Bob) Odle Oral History Interview - Feb. 19, 2026 Transcript PDF Text Text Oklahomans for Equality Oral History Interview with Robert (Bob) Odle Interview Conducted by Toby Jenkins (and Dennis Neill) Date: February 19, 2026 Transcribed and Edited By: Dennis Neill using Reduct.Video AI, March 13, 2026 Restrictions: Interviewee requested: N/A Oklahomans for Equality History Project 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK. 74120 918.743.4297 historyproject@okeq.org 1 �About Robert (Bob) Odle Summary This interview with Bob Odle offers a deep dive into his life as a gay man, theater professional, and community advocate. Covering his personal journey, the impact of historical events, and insights into Tulsa's cultural scene, it provides valuable lessons on resilience, identity, and activism. Keywords LGBTQ history, theater, Tulsa, activism, personal story, AIDS, gay community, cultural history Key Topics    Bob Odle's personal history and identity The impact of historical events like JFK's assassination and AIDS crisis The development of theater and LGBTQ community in Tulsa Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background of Bob Odle 02:57 Early Life and Education 05:59 College Experience and Sexual Orientation 08:58 Military Draft and Sexual Identity 2 �11:50 Teaching Career and Coming Out 14:47 Theater Involvement and Gay Community Connections 17:48 Reflections on the LGBTQ+ Experience 20:57 Teaching Philosophy and Curriculum Development 23:56 Theater Companies and Professional Acting 39:52 Theatre Roots and Early Involvement 41:12 Memorable Performances and Traditions 43:39 The Birth of World Action Singers 48:06 The Evolution of Theatre Spaces in Tulsa 53:00 Theater Community Support and Changes 56:39 The Lynn Riggs Theater and Community Engagement 01:02:33 Impact of the Pandemic on Theatre 01:05:27 Personal Loss and Community Involvement 01:08:20 Political Climate and Advocacy 01:10:58 Concerns for Arts and Rights 01:20:21 A Message for Future Generations Robert (Bob) Odle Oral History Interview Feb 19, 2026 Toby Jenkins: Today is February the 19th, 2026. We are at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma, in the Joe and Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library, and we are doing archival work and interview today, and joining me for the interview is Amanda Thompson, our archivist and the founder of Oklahomans for Equality, Dennis Neill. This is Toby Jenkins. Today, viewers, we are very fortunate to have a very special guest. Tell us your name and your date of birth and your address. Bob Odle: Bob Odle, Robert Odle. Date of birth is May 15th, 1945. Bob Odle: My address is XXX in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins: Thank you so much. We're here today, and I want us to tell...you've had such an interesting life, and I want to make sure we get everything, and we appreciate our viewers' interest in this, and so this is...we're going to give you some history that you might have a little trouble finding, so we're going to put it in one place where our viewers can find this information. Do you want me to call you Bob or Robert? Bob Odle: Bob. Everybody calls me Bob, except my sixth-grade art teacher. Toby Jenkins: What are your pronouns? How do you identify your gender? Bob Odle: Mr. He. Toby Jenkins: So, you identify as male? Bob Odle: Yes. 3 �Toby Jenkins: Okay, and could you just, for our time together, we're gonna...how do you identify in your sexual orientation, your...how do you identify? Bob Odle: Well, I'm queer as a $3 bill. Toby Jenkins: Okay, good. So, it's good to know, and for our historical people, that was a phrase we used a lot when we were growing up as kids. Bob Odle: Well, I just heard about the origin of the $3 bill just within the past week. During this Civil War, some of the southern states, as I recall, didn't have really enough gold, and so they issued those $3 bills, or maybe it was the American Revolution. I don't remember, but it was some revolutionaries, and they issued worthless money, and it was $3 bills. Toby Jenkins: So, that's why we have it. That's why they always used it on us. Where were you born? Bob Odle: I was born in Kansas City, Missouri. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Bob Odle: Research Hospital. Toby Jenkins: Is your family from Kansas City, Missouri? Bob Odle: Most of my...the Bell side of the family is from Missouri. My four-times greatgrandmother came to Missouri with Daniel and Nathan Boone. Nathan Boone is buried not far from where she's buried, and so most of my relatives are there. The...and the Rileys are there, once they came to this country. The Odles are scattered around western part of Virginia. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Now, when you say she's buried up in Missouri, is she buried near Boone's Lick? (Editor’s note Boone's Lick is the historical site where Daniel Boone’s sons settled around Franklin Missouri.) Bob Odle: Oh, no, that's much farther north. Nathan Boone is much closer to Springfield, and it's a little country cemetery that is largely a family cemetery. I mean, I'm related by blood or marriage to most of the people who are in that cemetery, so she's buried there where the other Bells and the Rileys are. Toby Jenkins: And so you were...your family was in Kansas City at this time, or...? Bob Odle: Yes, they had moved...my grandmother and grandfather had moved to Kansas City, and I think most of my...all of my aunts and uncles were born in Kansas City, and my mother was born there, and...and so that's...that's where I was born. Toby Jenkins: Now, did you grow up there? I mean, was that what you spent your childhood? Bob Odle: Yes. I went to Munger Elementary School, which was named after a farmer who donated that land to the school district, and it was a little eight-room, four downstairs and four 4 �upstairs schoolhouse with a prefab outside for the 7th and 8th grades, and 6th and 7th grades. And so I went to Munger for the first three years, and then North Kansas City had a bond issue, and they built some new schools because that area of Kansas City was growing. They built right across the street from Munger, they built Oak Ridge and just a few blocks from us they built Maplewood. I went to Maplewood for the fourth and fifth grades and then my mother remarried and we moved to Tulsa, Oklahoma where I went to Luther Burbank for one year. TPS has recently sold that building. And then I went to Bell Junior High for two and a half years and then we moved over to 27th Street and I finished the ninth grade and went through high school at Nathan Hale and then got a scholarship to the University of Tulsa. I applied various places but TU gave me a scholarship that paid half of my tuition which was $600 a year. Toby Jenkins: And what year would that have been that you graduated? Bob Odle: I graduated from Nathan Hale in 63 and from TU in 67. Toby Jenkins: And how new was Nathan Hale? Was it a pretty new high school? Bob Odle: It was brand new that first year I went there. Toby Jenkins: Do you remember what your graduating class, how many were in your graduating class? Bob Odle: I contend there were 450 but some people, some members of my class say there were fewer than that. I don't know, I haven't counted the pictures in the yearbook. I keep thinking I must do that and I haven't. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, by the 70s it was up in the 2000s. Bob Odle: Yes, they added a wing. Toby Jenkins: But I think today Nathan Hale's graduating class is about 200. Bob Odle: Well, yeah, they added classrooms to the building. Quite a few classrooms after I graduated. Toby Jenkins: So was your family glad that you were going to school in Tulsa instead of getting accepted someplace else? Bob Odle: Well, they were glad I got a scholarship which was $300 which paid half of my tuition. And my books altogether, my books cost less than $100. Toby Jenkins: I don't think I ever paid $100. What did you study at TU? Bob Odle: I was a theater major. Toby Jenkins: And so this would have been in 1963 when you graduated. What was going on in our country at that time? I mean this was shortly after Kennedy had been assassinated. 5 �Bob Odle: No, it was when he was assassinated. That was a sad day that I remember that day. And the several days afterwards when we had no commercial TV. And Channel 2 played Handel's Largo during all of the station breaks. And we went until Monday after the funeral with no commercials on TV. And 24-hour coverage of the funeral and people visiting the White House and the Capitol. Toby Jenkins: Were you in school when y'all heard this news? Bob Odle: It was just my first time at the Baptist Student Union. They should have told me never to go back. My first time there and I went to class and a friend of mine who had a little portable radio said the president has been shot. And what's he talking about? He's crazy. And then it was during that class, I had humanities at 1 o'clock. It was during that class then that it was announced that the president was dead. I gave a friend a ride home and we listened to the radio. And the radio was covering the funeral and the death of the president. Toby Jenkins: And this would have been your freshman year? Bob Odle: It was my freshman year, yeah. It was a sad day. It was a sad several days. Couldn't believe that in the 20th century a president would be assassinated. I just couldn't believe that. Toby Jenkins: What were you studying at TU? Bob Odle: I was majoring in theater. I had a minor in English lit and a minor in education so I could get my teaching certificate. It was then, and I didn't know this until, I was so naive. I'm incredibly naive, even now. I heard after the first show that the person who played the lead and some other people were gay and, what? And so, later, I think the person who told me that had the hots for me for years. I think I later found out more and more people in the theater department, which is where I hung out, were gay and, oh, okay, I didn't know that. I had no idea. Toby Jenkins: Did you understand what that meant? Bob Odle: Oh yeah, I understood what it meant, but I just didn't know that they were gay and that there were so many. Toby Jenkins: So you were like in Gay Head Start, the theater department at TU. Did you, had you by that time, I mean, by then you're 18, adult, and you're a young male college student. Had you begin to realize about your own sexual orientation or was it? Bob Odle: Yeah, I went through a period, and I think it's not unusual, of denial. And, let's see, I was molested when I was like 12 years old, and I didn't know, I just, I didn't know anything about that. I just, it was when I was 15, I finally said, no, I don't want to do that anymore. Well, I didn't want to do it with somebody older, I wanted to do it with some of my classmates. And I remember when I was like in the seventh grade at Bell, the day we all suited up in our white tshirts and our white gym shorts and our white tennis shoes. And I walked, there were these other boys, and whoa, wow, I mean, this thrill went through me. Whoa, whoa. And so... 6 �Toby Jenkins: So you're in college, and you're in this program, and I guess it was gossip people were talking about people being gay. Bob Odle: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Was it in college that you began to, I mean, did you have a relationship with another student, a person, or? Bob Odle: No, not really, but there was one person who was in my English class who I had seen go to the, it was the Baptist student union, that was the reason I went that one day, and I went back subsequently. I did have the hots for him, and it was, he dropped out of school, I think, after the first semester of our freshman year. And in the past year or so have found out, I suspect he was killed in Vietnam. I suspect he joined the army, that school wasn't really for him. And when he didn't show up at any of our classes, and he was no longer on campus, I did feel like my heart was broken. I mean, I really had a crush on him. Toby Jenkins: So when he left school, I mean, you didn't know where he went, and so did you quit going to the Baptist Student Union after that? Bob Odle: No, I continued to go because I knew some other people who were there. Toby Jenkins: What was TU like in those days, in the 60s? Bob Odle: We had to wear our freshman beanies for the first six weeks. I still have mine somewhere, I tried to find it for the 50th anniversary, that's when I, oh no, this was 50 years after graduation. It was red, alternate red and yellow panels with a red 67 in the front panel, and we had to wear those for the first six weeks, I mean, that was the rule. We had to go to orientation like once a week. We had to take six hours of religion. I took Old Testament history and origin and principles of Christianity. Bob Odle: Later, they reorganized and we didn't have to take any religion, and I'd already taken six hours, and so we had to go to chapel, I don't know, maybe once at least…. Toby Jenkins: A week, once a week, or once a semester? Bob Odle: No, I think once in the first six weeks. The class of 68 had blue beanies with yellow 68 on the front. That was the last class, I think, that had to wear beanies. Toby Jenkins: About how many students do you think were at TU at that time? Bob Odle: I think they've held steady at about 4,000 to 5,000. Toby Jenkins: And so that would have been at the time when Tulsa was the oil capital of the world and TU was known as the top geology, or what am I saying? Petroleum engineer. Yeah, petroleum engineer. 7 �Bob Odle: There was one guy in the theater department who was from Egypt and he was in theater, but he, I think, came for petroleum engineering, which is why a lot of people were there from other states. Toby Jenkins: So you talked about the military and the Vietnam War. Tell us about that. Were there lots of students who were leaving? Bob Odle: I was not aware of any at that time because I graduated in 67, so the buildup, I think, started in 65, but I was not... We had student deferments as long as we were in school. Toby Jenkins: Were you in the military? Bob Odle: No, never. They didn't want me because I was gay. Toby Jenkins: You remember your draft number? Were you subject to a potential call-up? Bob Odle: I don't remember that. That's been so long ago. Toby Jenkins: So they didn't want you because you were gay. Tell us about that. I mean, by then, you were acknowledging…? Bob Odle: Well, I remember they had me come in and talk. There was a sergeant who was in charge of all of the physical examination and whatnot and he had me talk to a captain who asked me if I was sure I was gay, if I was just saying that. He said, I've always remembered, he said, you know this will go on your permanent record. Toby Jenkins: So you actually had to fill out a form that said that? Bob Odle: Yes. That was when... It was like an alumni meeting. All the guys I knew from high school were on the same bus, and some friends from junior high who went to Will Rogers were on the same bus going to Oklahoma City. That was part of what we did that day, was we had to sit down and fill out these forms about what diseases we'd had and if we had homosexual tendencies. So we had to actually fill out a form. Toby Jenkins: You felt like you needed to be honest? Bob Odle: Well, yeah, because I was going to go to law school, and I did go to law school for a while. So I thought, well, I can't lie on this. I think there was a small print that said it was a federal crime or something, and so I didn't want to lie. Toby Jenkins: So the captain tried to talk you out of it, is what you're saying? Bob Odle: He wanted to make sure that I wasn't just... Because a friend of mine said, I remember a party and he was talking about how... He had a high lottery number, so he wasn't chosen, but he said he had the choice of going to Canada or he could queer out. So apparently there were other people who were signing, yeah, they were gay. They had homosexual tendencies or whatever the wording changed to, and so apparently they had encountered that before, people lying about being gay. 8 �Toby Jenkins: This is fascinating to me. I don't know that I've ever had anybody talk about this. I don't know if I've ever interviewed somebody and them talk about the details of that and the possibility that the military wanted to make sure you weren't just using something. So I'm just curious, were you in a room with several people when you were asked this, or was it more of a private discussion? Bob Odle: Well, there was a big classroom with student desks for us to fill out the form, but then the sergeant... I was in a room, an office with the sergeant and a couple other non-coms. He said it would be better to get rid of me then than to go ahead and have me sworn in and have me booted out of the military for being gay. But he decided for some odd reason to have me talk to this, I guess, doctor who was a captain. I mean, I have no idea. They just know he was a captain and they sent me into his office for him to question me about that. Toby Jenkins: So you were able to avoid military service. Do you remember, I mean, you were a college student during these days. I don't know necessarily when… Bob Odle: Well, this was after I graduated that I got that. And it was after I'd taught for a year, too. But teachers had deferments. I mean, I was originally taken after I graduated with this busload of alumni, people I'd known in high school. And then the school board, I got a job teaching and the school board appealed that. And they had just gotten this draft board… I went before these old men. Toby Jenkins: Where were you teaching? Bob Odle: At Central High School, which was downtown. Toby Jenkins: The major campus that's still down there today. Bob Odle: Yeah, PSO owns it now, and AEP. And they had gotten something from Washington that they should give teachers who were teaching deferments or something like that. But I was drafted in the meantime. And so the public schools protested. But it wasn't that I got out of the military. The military didn't want me. Toby Jenkins: Very, very interesting. So well said. Bob Odle: Well, I know of other gay people who've had military experience. Well, and I have one friend who used to live in Tulsa, who lives somewhere in Dallas, I think, now. He was booted out of the Navy and was not happy with being booted out. I mean, there are a lot of gays who want to serve their country and be in the military. But we were not allowed to. And those who were drafted—and I have a friend who was investigated by the Naval Intelligence for a while. They trailed him. And I don't know if he was court-martialed or not. He stayed in the Navy for years and retired as a lieutenant commander. Some of his friends at his funeral said he would have been a commander had there not been that investigation. But he would sometimes go into bathhouses in San Diego or San Francisco in order to have the people who were tailing him leave him alone. 9 �Toby Jenkins: To make them have to follow him in there? Bob Odle: They wouldn't follow him in there. Toby Jenkins: So you said you finished TU and then you started teaching. Bob Odle: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: And you had to get a teacher's certificate. Now, I'm just curious, you're teaching—what did you teach at Central High School? Bob Odle: Competitive speech and drama. Toby Jenkins: So you would have probably been my instructor because that's the kind of stuff I was in in high school. So you were teaching…This would have had you probably 21, 22? Bob Odle: I was just barely 22 when I started teaching. And I taught for four years. My goal was to teach for four years, save some money, and go to law school full-time. I went to law school part-time, but I quit to go full-time, and that was about the time we started doing theater. And I thought, well really, I'd rather be an actor than be an attorney. And so I dropped out of law school. My mother was not happy with it. She got over that eventually. Toby Jenkins: So you're a young adult. Had you begun to have romantic relationships with men, or had you connected to the gay community? I mean, you were teaching school. Bob Odle: Well, I had a lot of friends who, being in theater, I had a lot of friends who were gay, and pretty much openly gay. And so, you know, I would think about that, you know. And eventually, after I was doing theater, and eventually, after years went by, because I was in a state of denial. I mean, I lived with a woman for a while. And... But it was because I was in a state of denial, which is not uncommon, I think, and so eventually when we broke up, because it was not destined to be, she lives with her second husband in South Carolina, I think, and I contact her periodically, or she contacts me. But I didn't really have, I still was so closeted. A lot of people probably knew, but it was sometime then, sometime around 1980, I think, that is after we moved into the Brook Theater in 79, it was about 1980 that I decided to go to, well I had been to, I mentioned this at the breakfast the other day, I had been to Saddle Tramps in Oklahoma City years before. I had no idea it was a gay bar. I mean, when I was, I had done Tea House of the August Moon in Tulsa, and then I was asked to join the touring company in Oklahoma City. So I went down to Oklahoma City, and friends put me on a bus, and I went down there, and I saw this limousine parked across from the bus station, and I thought, well it'd be neat if that was for me. It was! The owner of the theater had a huge Cadillac limousine, and I mean the big, stretched thing, and so he took me to the theater, and there were a couple of people in that play, that were in that cast, that were gay. And then I did another tour, and I think some people were gay, and then a lot of people I knew from the theater were gay. 10 �And a friend moved back for a short time to help us open The Brook, I think, with his boyfriend from New York, and they lived together. And so all of this was like, you know, making an impression on me. And so finally in about 1980, well I was going to tell you about Saddle Tramps. The manager of the Gaslight, we were dark on Monday nights, and so one Monday night, and every other Monday we got paid. And so it was a Monday we got paid, and so we all decided to go to dinner, and we went to the Haunted House, which you have to have reservations before they will tell you the address. It's a fabulous old mansion somewhere in northeast Oklahoma City, and they had fabulous food. And so we went there, and those who didn't have cars, because some people had their own cars, but I'd left mine, I'd taken the bus to Oklahoma City. I was in the manager's limousine with some other people, who I think back, I think at least two of them were gay, maybe three of them were gay. And so we went to the manager's house for a little while, and he lived somewhere in northeast Oklahoma City, and not far from the theater as I recall. But anyway, then we went to a bar. He decided, let's go to a bar. So well, I know the bar we'll go to, and we'll go to this bar. Well, it was Saddle Tramps. I didn't know. And it was a Monday night, so nobody was there except us and maybe a couple other people and the bartender. And I went in to use the restroom at one point, and there was a toilet sitting right in the middle of the floor, and there was a bathtub also there. And this is strange. And so I went out and I told the others, you've got to see that restroom. And so that was the first time. Then later on, somehow a friend of a good friend of mine who had been a colleague in teaching and who'd lived just two doors down from when we first moved to Tulsa, her friend was doing drag for the first time at a place called, I think, the Stage Door on Main. And so a group of us went to see him do drag for the first time, and he was not very good, but there was this person in a mini skirt, a mini dress that had flowers on it, and a bouffant wig, who did Harper Valley PTA, was fabulous. And so that was my first time. So later then, I decided to go to a gay bar, and I went to one called, I think, Caruso's, also on Main, maybe a little bit south of where Stage Door had by that time, I think, become a parking lot, as much of downtown Tulsa is. I went to Caruso's, and I went there a few times, and then I decided to branch out and try some others. And I'd heard of people going to Oklahoma City and staying at what was then called the Pepper Tree, it was the Habana, and now it's a different name, and why it's not the Habana, because it's been Habana since it opened in the 1960s. Because I went there as a school teacher, we had our speech convention at the Habana when it was a Best Western. And little did I know that right next door was Saddle Tramps. And because I had, you know, it was dark, and I was being toted around in this limousine, had no idea where I was or what was going on. And so, I heard of people going there, and so I went down there, and I discovered all of the bars in the hotel and on the Strip. And... Toby Jenkins: So during this time, I know you were an actor in the theater companies, and obviously a professional actor, you were being paid. Were you still teaching at this time? 11 �Bob Odle: No, I went back to teaching after, in 1990, I believe. I worked in theater and doing workshops in schools all over the state. And I went back to teaching. A friend of mine, because the oil companies who had given us money had moved to Houston, so they could be hit by hurricanes and flooded by hurricanes. And so a friend of mine suggested, why don't you go back and get your teaching certificate? So at his urging, I did. And so I got a job teaching. I deducted my trips to Oklahoma City for our annual convention for my income tax, because the motel, I had to have a motel while I was down there. I deducted that for my income tax. I went down there and I would always stay at the Habana, and then there were all those bars right there. Toby Jenkins: So I know that was the gay district still, I guess, today is considered that. So during this time, had you ever come out as openly gay to your other theater friends and folks? I mean, had you pretty well, you said about 1979 was when you began to connect to the gay community. Had you told other people that you were gay? Bob Odle: No, not until the friend who'd come here for the opening of The Brook went back to New York, and he'd come back Christmas to be with his parents. And so after a show, I said, why don't we go to a bar? I know a bar at 18th and Main. So we went to Renegades. And then later we went to Tim's Playroom at 11th and Lewis. And that was the most fun. That was a fun bar. Then, later in the 80s, I went to New Orleans and discovered just about all the bars in the French Quarter and some in the Marigny, and met a person who had been a student at Central High School when I was a teacher there. We went to see a play over at the Marigny Theater, which is connected with a bar and around the corner from some other bars. He died, oh, it's been several years ago, and he had heart problems. He was very intelligent, talented, and so I started making sometimes four trips per year to New Orleans. Certainly, I've gone there every year for about 30 years. When the bathhouse closed down there, I went into mourning for two years. I thought about, should I leave a bouquet of condoms and lube outside the front door? Because people leave bouquets of things. I mean, I was like, I miss that. That was a fun bathhouse. After Katrina, it was a member of the club baths, and I had a club card, and they were good at the club baths all over the country. I went to some of the others, and they were not as good as the Club New Orleans. Toby Jenkins: Were you teaching during this time? Bob Odle: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Were you able to be openly gay? In the early days when you got the deferment, I know the school board was addressing their teacher's deferments. Did anybody at your school know that you had got a deferment because you told them you were gay? Bob Odle: No. 12 �Toby Jenkins: Okay. Then while you were teaching here in Oklahoma, were you openly gay? I mean, did your students know you were gay? Did your principal, your ... Bob Odle: No, not that I know of. I think some suspected, but nobody really cared. I was there to teach speech, and I was focused on that. That was my job, and I was focused on doing that, and I also had a humanities class, and I was focused on spreading this notion of the arts, all of the arts, through the ages. I put together a thing on humanities for the first two years myself until ... It took two years before I found a book that also covered Asia, because of my philosophy that we're too Eurocentric, and kids needed to know. I sandwiched into a short period of time 6,000 years of Chinese and Japanese and Indian Middle Eastern art, which is not doing it ... I mean, that should have been a separate class, but it wasn't, and so I wanted kids exposed to that. Toby Jenkins: So that was curriculum? You were writing curriculum for that? Bob Odle: Yes, I did. Toby Jenkins: Okay. What theater companies were you involved in? You talked about you were a paid actor. Bob Odle: Yeah, I worked with American Theater Company for years, and also during some down times when we didn't do many shows, I also worked with Gaslight. Toby Jenkins: Okay. How long were you involved with American Theater Company? Bob Odle: From its inception in 1970 until ... Well, I did a show 2006, 2008. For four years in a row, we did the Rocky Horror Show, the original stage musical, which is much better than the movie. I frequently think that is the case, that things on stage don't translate to film. Toby Jenkins: Live theater is better. Bob Odle: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So how many years would that have been with American Theater Company? Forty? Bob Odle: Well, man. Bob Odle: 70 to almost, yeah, almost 40, 37 or so, I worked. I was on the board after that, for some time after that, but I was just too busy to do shows. And so, you know, but I was still affiliated with the theater, but I've not been on the board for like three years now. Toby Jenkins: What performances were you in, what shows? Bob Odle: Well, on my tombstone, which I have already bought, and it is, although I intend to be cremated and have my ashes scattered, my tombstone, which is next to my mother and stepfathers, and near my grandparents and great-grandparents and so on and so forth, yeah, that's Karl Krauss as Ebenezer Scrooge. And Karl has played that role for years and years. And 13 �so, you know, that's me as Brother Oral Love. That's one of the things on my tombstone. I had Robert, I think Robert Leonard Odle, because I'm named after both of my grandfathers. That was a thing in my family for a while after both grandfathers or grandmothers. And so I have Brother Love and Tartuffe, Captain Hook, and there's one other that I keep forgetting, but it's one of my favorite roles I ever played. But those are three of the ones. Toby Jenkins: So I know Christmas, Carol, is kind of like a Christmas tradition. Bob Odle: I know, I never, the second year we did it, one of the reviewers for one of the Tulsa papers said, this needs to be a tradition. And I thought, and well, it has become that. This is, I mean, this fall will be 50 years since Rick and I wrote that. Toby Jenkins: Well, I'll just let you know whether you are surprised that it became a tradition. In my family, I took my children to see it, and now I have grandchildren, and all of us have made it a part of our Christmas tradition. We don't go every year, but we've been multiple times. Bob Odle: I go every year. I mean, I love that story. It's a great story about giving. Dennis Neill: We spent a little more time talking about Joyce Martel and the Oral Action Singers, how that originated and your role in it and the longevity of that show. And did ATC actually own the Brook at that point in time? Bob Odle: No, we rented it or leased it, I don't remember which. But, well, Jerry Pope and Rick Averill and I, Rick always wrote the music. Jerry and I would, he would write one scene, I would write another scene and so on until we wrote the play. And it's about, it was essentially about balanced growth in Tulsa and the reason we didn't have balanced growth. And we did some stereotypical characters. And one was this religious figure, which we called in that musical, Seth Righteous. And so that sort of began it. Then a year later at Cain's, we opened and ran a month with Joyce Martel is Alive and Well and Living in Paris, Texas. I think that title was based on something that was on T, Jacques Brel is Alive and Well and Living in Paris or something. Anyway, so, but we decided not to call it Seth Righteous, to call it Oral Love because of the combination of the double entendre there with Oral Roberts out South and, you know, and the act of sex. And so we did that at the Cain's for a month and then they decided we were too bawdy for Cain's. That was when the people who had Cain's at the time were having people do the alligator and people were actually having sex in the audience. But we were too bawdy for them. So we moved to the Inferno, which is now the location of a car wash on South Peoria. The Inferno had a big sign outside that said topless lunch from 11 until seven. It was a long lunch. You would eat a lot of food. And we went in there and, like the first day we went in there, one of the dancers named Snowball grabbed me by the crotch and led me into the bar. So we did it there for a couple of months. Then we moved to Captain's Cabin, which was at 41st and Memorial. It's where Richard De La Fonte, a hypnotist, was working most nights and he had the prime weekend nights. Then we closed the show because we were going on the first of our summer tours. 14 �We talked about it during that summer tour and we came back and performed on the roof of the Mayo parking garage for a month- the coldest September on record, I think, and then the hottest day in October- we moved to the ballroom inside upstairs and we had this huge box that was two 4x8 sheets of plywood with about that much wood in between the shelves and all of our props and some of our costumes, and it wouldn't fit in the elevator shaft. So we had to take it to the freight elevator and we had to ride up on top of the freight elevator. We had to take it down to the basement, move the thing in on top of the freight elevator, take the freight elevator up to the floor below the ballroom and open the doors and move the thing out. It was a nightmare. Dennis Neill: So, Bob, this is all in the early 80s, right? Bob Odle: This is 75. Dennis Neill: Oh, okay, so now, which show are you talking about right now? Bob Odle: Joyce Martel. Dennis Neill: I saw it when I moved to Tulsa and I moved here in 77. Bob Odle: That was, oh well, we did the best of Joyce Martel in 76. And then in 77 we were at the Crest Club at the Mayo. We did some shows in the crystal ballroom, some shows we did downstairs in theToby Jenkins : Do you remember where you saw it? Dennis Neill: I thought I saw it at the Brook, but I could be wrong about that, correct? Bob Odle: Yeah, we didn't open that. 61579, that was the code on the security, the security system. Dennis Neill: I remember you and the flaming Bible, right? Bob Odle: Yeah, well, I used that for a long time. Dennis Neill: Okay, maybe it was another show. Bob Odle: We did the best of Joyce Martel, and then we closed that. And then in 77, well, we did some shows in the Pompeian Room, which is an artificial room they put because it was a two-story lobby, but they put a floor in and had this large meeting room called the Pompeian Room and it had Roman murals all around. It was horrible. Dennis Neill: So any pushback from Oral Roberts and the university with regard to the action singers? Bob Odle: Well, not then so much. We moved to the Brook, we continued, we did the Crest Club- and I don't remember what that show was called- right offhand. Then we got this deal with the Brook and we moved in there and we converted it from a movie house to a legitimate 15 �theater and we opened in June of 79 with huge, gigantic those spotlights on Peoria and drew a lot of attention. We had the marquee out front and some friends who had seen the show were friends with a man who made all of Oral Roberts' trinkets that he gave away for a donation and he had a pretty large house out south and it was his 50th birthday and they had happy 50th birthday up on the roof in big letters, eight feet tall. I mean they were huge letters- and so they decided he had all this money and he had everything he wanted, so they would give him something he wouldn't normally get, and so they gave him Brother Oral Love as his birthday, as entertainment for his birthday party, and there was a big crowd there. Some of the provosts of ORU was there and there were some other ORU people there and there were some of the people in the audience who just loved what I was doing. There were some who stood stony faced. Then one year, I don't remember what we renamed the show, we did a new show every year, which was a nightmare to write. But we did a show and I thought, okay, I'm going to write this sermon this year. What would I do if I were totally corrupt? And, you know, so, you know, like Jesus spent time in the desert. Well, I owned a house in Palm Springs. And because that's in the desert. And I had a Mercedes-Benz because there's a Janis Joplin song, Oh Lord, won't you give me a Mercedes-Benz. So I always ended with that. And the thing is that summer, Shoals, Jerry Shoals, I think his name is, published his book about Oral Roberts, the time he had worked for Oral Roberts. And it turned out he did have a Mercedes. He did drive a Mercedes. And he did own a house in Palm Springs. I mean, the stuff, if I were totally corrupt, this is what I would write. This is what I would do. Well, it turned out that was real life. And so Shoals came to see the show at least once. And he was tailed. They had people watching his every movement. Whether Oral actually knew about it or not, I don't know. But some of the people at the university did know what I was doing. But I got paid, so who cares. Toby Jenkins: So during this time, all these years, I assume you were teaching also but still doing theater. Bob Odle: No, at that time I was just doing theater. I had no time. Toby Jenkins: Was the theater community, live theater in Tulsa, did people attend the performances? Did it have lots of support? Bob Odle: We seated 750. That was what the fire marshal would allow in the building. We had lines that went from the box office around the corner and back to the alley, which is where our stage door was. I mean, we could stand and talk before the show to people who were going to see the show, maybe if they got in. Because we only seated 750. Dennis Neill: Those were the good old days. Those were great shows. Bob Odle: They were. 16 �Toby Jenkins: So looking back during those days and presently, is there still a lot of support in Tulsa for live theater? Bob Odle: I think so. I think Theater Tulsa is having, some part of it is the rent at the PAC. And Theater Tulsa has opened their place where I'm going tomorrow night and Saturday night, 55th and Peoria. It's a converted Dollar General store. And there are a lot of little splinter groups that do stuff. American Theater Company, I don't know. I mean, we always did five shows and we did a summer show. And at times we had like two or three shows running simultaneously. When we had Joyce running at the Mayo and Christmas Carol running at the PAC or whatnot. And some other times we did multiple shows at the same time. Because we had 25 people on our staff, full-time, paid. And others working part-time. Toby Jenkins: Who were cast members or writers, producers? Bob Odle: Musicians, concessions, bar workers, so on. Sometimes people in plays. But we had a staff of technicians and actors of like 25. Toby Jenkins: So here at the Equality Center, when we did our renovation about eight years ago, we felt like in our community we were having lots of theater groups that were showing an interest. And especially in our gay community, the queer community, about their interest in theater. One of the passions of some of our folks was that we convert a space into a theater space that could be used for the community, especially to make it accessible for people who wanted to do productions that might not have, you know, they might be cutting edge and be kind of outside of the standard stories to make sure that certainly queer theater had access to those theaters. And of course, it's named after Lynn Riggs, who wrote the story that became the Broadway musical, Oklahoma. Your thoughts about the Lynn Riggs Theater here at the Equality Center and the space and things like that. Bob Odle: Well, I love it. I think it's great. In fact, I was urging American Theater Company, we eventually moved, the Harwells bought the building at 308 South Lansing. And I always said this is a better place because there are posts there and I just like the Lynn Riggs better. I've seen some plays here. I've been to a lot of the Thursday night things and I like this venue. I think it's real neat. American Theater Company went from five shows down to last year, they did four shows. This year, they originally promoted three shows, but they eventually cut that back to one, Christmas Carol. And they do stand up comedy one night. They do, I think they have some drag shows out there. Occasionally, I mean, you know, it's not like the five show season that we used to market and then sometimes a tour or something special during the summer, it's not like that. I think that Christmas Carol hasn't drawn the past couple of years what it used to draw because the people who are managing the theater now determined that Christmas Carol is a tradition. So it doesn't need to be marketed. Well, they still market the Nutcracker. They still market other traditions. It needs to be marketed, people need to know. It needs to not be a secret production. I'm getting off on to my axe to grind. 17 �Toby Jenkins: Where all have you taught school? Dennis Neill: Well, TCC West and TCC North. English, comp. Toby Jenkins: No theater production or? Bob Odle: Well, I did have an acting class one semester and then that got to be a fiasco. It had to do with the management. I don't want to say anything more about that. But I taught at Central High School when it was downtown and I taught competitive speech and I directed plays and then I, well, I taught at Schulter for one year. They needed to bring up their test scores and they hired like the whole new administration and a third of the faculty was new and we brought up the test scores. So they weren't going to close. I hated leaving there because everybody was so supportive but I had this job offer at Mounds. And so it was like half the distance because I'd passed 201st Street halfway to Schulter. And so I took the job at Mounds and I drove down to Schulter to turn in my letters of resignation and to talk to them about, you know, I really liked this. Sorry to be leaving. And so I taught at Mounds for about 30 years and directed some plays, directed competitive speech. We won the state championship three years in a row. I had numerous individual state champions, one of whom never debated, but she is an attorney in Tulsa now and has fabulous commercials on Saturday Night Live and on the evening news. But she never, she persuaded me that she shouldn't take debate to, although she was undefeated. Bob Odle: Now, I'd be better if I took this, Mr. Odle. And so, okay. I mean, she persuaded me. Toby Jenkins: Now, did you ever teach at TU's theater department? Bob Odle: No, I didn't. Toby Jenkins: Were you involved with the? Bob Odle: After I graduated, I did do a play at TU that they then took to some contest at what used to be that horrible theater facility downtown in Oklahoma City [Mummers Theatre]. It's that thing that had boxes going every which way that they finally have torn down. And this should never have been built in the first place. Toby Jenkins: So just for purposes of our interview, the curtains in the Lynn Riggs were donated by TU Theater Department and the risers are from the TU Theater Department right before they closed down. Bob Odle: I know, and they still send me letters asking for money having closed the department that I graduated from years ago. And I think they gave the costumes to the PAC and they gave various other things away. Dennis Neill: We had to replace the curtains because they were out of code. 18 �Dennis Neill: Yeah, I think they had like a 10 or 15 year life. And so we replaced them in about 2020, 2021, something like that. Toby Jenkins: Let's go to our, I was curious to understand the trajectory in Tulsa, the incredible community support for live theater and how things have changed. You've lived through an interesting period. We talked about your, you know, being in college when Kennedy was assassinated. And here we are in 2026. During the, just real quickly, during the pandemic, were you involved in live theater and how the pandemic impacted our theater companies? Bob Odle: No, theater just totally shut down all over the world, I think. Now I, for a year there, I didn't go, except to go to research, I put on my mask and I still have masks in the car. But theater just shut down. And there was money, there was money for businesses that had to shut down and the theater applied for some grants and got some grants. The theater, the theater actually made more money the year we were shut down. They did no shows than some of the years when we'd done shows. Toby Jenkins: Because you didn't have any expenses. Toby Jenkins: Right. So here, I know that you, your family are here. Have you stayed involved in their lives? I mean, have they? Bob Odle: Well, they're all, my stepfather died in 2009 and my mother died just about three months ago. Toby Jenkins: Okay, our condolences. And how old was she? Bob Odle: She was 99 years and eight months and something. Toby Jenkins: Amazing. Bob Odle: She was, she would be, March 15th, she would be 100. And she was, she was doing all of her own, handling all of her business and doing all of her stuff until the very end when she just suddenly, precipitously went downhill. Toby Jenkins: Did she live by herself? Bob Odle: Yes, after my stepfather died, she did. She depended on her neighbor a lot and on me. It wasn't till I had to deal with our, the attorney that deals with our trust, and I had to write down, because I keep my calendars for years, and I had to write down all the times I'd taken her to the doctor and the dentist and the podiatrist and dermatologist and whatnot and to Reasor’s. And I didn't realize the amount of time and the amount of miles I was driving to take care of her. Toby Jenkins: Hmm. Well, I'm glad that she had you, and I'm glad that you had her. Bob Odle: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: And our condolences. What do you keep, what keeps you busy now? 19 �Bob Odle: Dealing with her estate. And a good friend of mine, the one who persuaded me to go back and get my teaching certificate and get a master's degree, he died July 10th of 2024. And so I was named co-executor of his estate. And we had to go to court Tuesday. That's why I couldn't meet Tuesday to deal with, we had a hearing dealing with that estate. I'm hopeful that before the two-year time passes, that we will have this probate all aside, but we had a business, we had three houses, multiple vehicles, and other property to deal with, and it's just been, it's been a nightmare. That has kept me really busy, and dealing with my mother, and now dealing with her estate, and trying to keep my own life going. Toby Jenkins: Now, are you involved in, I know that you're involved here in the organization, you come to some of the programs for older adults. Bob Odle: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: And are you involved in any other advocacy work, or political work, or? Bob Odle: Well, Tuesday, Tuesday I had to drop off the king cake, because it was Mardi Gras at the senior citizen breakfast. Then I dashed to the Tulsa Metropolitan Area Retired Educators Association, because I'm a retired teacher, and I took some sausage rolls to that, and stayed for that meeting. We always have interesting speakers. And so I'm involved in that. Last Friday was the Democrats' monthly luncheon at Interurban, and we have fascinating, well, Cindy Munson, who's the candidate for governor, spoke. And we always have fascinating speakers there. And so I go to that, and then I think there was one night this past week, maybe Tuesday night, Tuesday was a busy day, I went to Connie Dodson's kickoff for her campaign for school board, and I don't live in her district, but the idiot who represents that district now, I would like to see defeated. Toby Jenkins: So you're politically active. Bob Odle: Yes. Toby Jenkins: And what is your present feelings about our, I mean, you've lived a long time, you've seen a lot of things. Bob Odle: Go back to the Truman, I remember when President Truman was reelected. Toby Jenkins: What's your present feelings about our political climate, and how you see, okay, yeah, yeah. Do you have some concerns? Bob Odle: Yes. I'm concerned about whether I've been contributing to a couple of the candidates for Congress, not the one who made a million millions while paying his employees minimum wage, but I've contributed to others, one of whom is my school board member, and I'm contributing, but I'm concerned about whether we're even going to have an election or any more elections. I'm concerned about what the Supreme Court might decide, whether they would give him free license to totally trample or burn or tear up the Constitution. 20 �I mean, a guy who was fired from, I saw a guy who was fired from ABC News on MSNow the other day. I don't remember his name, but I remember the interview where he talked to the president about the things in the Oval Office, or here's a copy of the Declaration of Independence. What does that stand for? Well, it's a declaration, and it deals with love. All of the he hases, that whole list of he hases deals with love, and yes, it's a declaration. That's in its title, the Declaration of Independence. Toby Jenkins: I mean, duh. Bob Odle: How stupid do you have to be? He is pretty stupid. Toby Jenkins: So you see our political climate, and you see the way, not just constitutional norms being eroded, but specifically the erasure of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer people, the blacks, American Indians, the arts being stripped of funding, the Kennedy Center, as a person who's fought and taught and been instrumental in keeping fine arts alive in our culture. What are your thoughts on that? Bob Odle: Well, it's not just gay rights. It's black rights. I mean, he complains that the National Museum of the Black Americans, or whatever that is, this Smithsonian institution, deals too much with slavery. And he has said there should be less emphasis on Martin Luther King Day, or Juneteenth. We should focus more on his birthday. He has insisted that that November 12th be called Columbus Day and not Indigenous Americans Day, which in the city of Tulsa and maybe Oklahoma, a lot of states have declared it to be Indigenous Americans Day. I mean, he and our governor, our governor waves his Cherokee citizenship card around, hate American Indians. He hates black people. I mean, is it any surprise that some of the generals that have been fired have been black? Toby Jenkins: And female. Bob Odle: And the two journalists, well, the commandant of the Coast Guard was female. And the two journalists who were arrested in church were both black. Two of them were black. And he, I mean, his racism goes back generations. He and his father were fined, what, two million dollars by the federal government for not renting to black people in their apartment buildings back in the 60s or 70s. I think that goes from his grandfather coming over here from Germany under suspicious circumstances whereby Germany, when he went back after World War I, Germany refused to have him and send him back here because he had avoided the draft. He'd avoided the draft by coming over here. He didn't tell them he had homosexual tendencies or anything like that. Apparently he didn't. But I don't know. The racism, and his grandfather grew up in Germany at a time when Wagner was heavily racist, when Adolf Hitler was being born and was growing up, when there was a lot of racism in Germany at that time. And so he brought that over here and instilled that in his son and his grandson. 21 �Toby Jenkins: So, as we come to the close of our interview, is there anything else you want us to talk about that we haven't talked about? Bob Odle: Not that I can think of, except I'm sad that there is only basically one gay bar in Tulsa. It doesn't give us much variety. That's why I like New Orleans. There's a lot of variety down there. A lot of cities have more variety than we have. Although they have gone to publishing a calendar and they have Latin Night, which starts at 10 o'clock on the last Friday. They have Leather Night. They have various nights. So they have opened it to various people. But I don't go there very often because it's boring. Hardly ever do I see anybody my age or anybody I know there, so I don't go. Dennis Neill: So, Bob, why do you think that in the early 80s we had like 19 bars. We're down to a handful. What do you think has caused that demise, even though our city is larger? Bob Odle: Well, I think from what I observe in Tulsa and in other cities, I think part of it is the AIDS crisis. I think there was a diminution of the audience after that. I think the pandemic that hit in 2020 is part of it. And I think also we're at an age when I think this is wonderful in a way, but in a way I think it's depressing. Young gay people can go to any bar, hold hands, kiss, hug, whatever, and nobody really cares. I see this in New Orleans a lot. I saw Lafitte's Blacksmith Shop, which is where Lafitte's in Exile first started, except they've dropped the exile now. Until the owner of the building found out they were gay and they already moved them out and then they moved into a bigger place down the street. But I've seen people holding hands. I've seen, obviously, gay couples in there and in other bars here in Tulsa and in other places. And I think it's the acceptance of gay couples everywhere, in addition to those other things, but I think it's just an evolution. And I think it's a wonderful thing. Dennis Neill: You touched on AIDS. Can you talk a little bit more about your personal experience in the theatre, in the theatrical community, the impact both locally and anything you know. I am thinking about John Thomeyer who was so active and passed from AIDS. What has been your personal experience with AIDS? Bob Odle: Well, an actor who toured with Gaslight, who we then hired as part of our full-time staff, eventually quit and moved to New York. And there he began to exhibit all these different, you know, symptoms and died a number of years ago. A good friend who was in some of our first shows, our first season, moved to New York. He got cancer, some sort of colorectal thing, and he retired and he moved back to Tulsa. He eventually died, but essentially it was AIDS, you know, HIV. And then another friend who died in New York, he was from Tulsa, graduated from Will Rogers, was a student there when I did my student teaching at Will Rogers. And he did some shows with us early on, but then he moved to New York and he eventually died, I believe, of AIDS. And so I've known people who've died. I haven't known of anyone, oh, there's somebody, I can't think who it was, but there's somebody I do know who died….I didn't know him very well, but he died of AIDS. And I'm aware of numerous people who've died of AIDS, HIV. 22 �Dennis Neill: And were you ever involved in the 80s and 90s with some of the support groups around here or AIDS response within the Tulsa community? Bob Odle: I went to one meeting at Nancy McDonald's house of PFLAG, but I just didn't have time to get involved with that. And I was involved with you and three or four other people in reorganizing TOHR. That was in the 80s. But I really didn't have time because I was still doing theater at the time, and I was out of town doing tours and things, and I really didn't have time to get involved. And that's the thing about doing theater now, because I'm so involved in some of these social and political things. I hate to give up, because I gave those things up when I was doing theater, because almost every night I had to work. Now I hate to, I can't give up the political and social things I'm involved in. It's that time of my life for me. Toby Jenkins: So as we kind of come to the close, and just give you a minute to think about this, is there anything you would want to say to anybody who comes after us, or younger people today who will see this interview? Is there anything you would like to say, like, this is my message to you for the future? Bob Odle: Things will get better. I saw a person who has a shop on Greenwood talking about, he's an older person, talking about younger black people, thinking, why are you so bitter about stuff? Well, they had, young black people are enjoying the fruits of their labor. Young gay people are enjoying the fruits of our labor. But our labor shouldn't stop. It can't stop. Because we have seen from the past year that they can go back, these things can go backwards. Toby Jenkins: So don't stop. Bob Odle: No, we have to keep fighting for our rights. It was Hubert Humphrey who said, freedom has to be won every day. Toby Jenkins: Very good. Okay, if you'll give us your name one more time, and today's date. Bob Odle: Bob Odle, February 19th, 2026. Toby Jenkins: Thank you so much for your time with us today. Bob Odle: Well, thank you. Toby Jenkins: Thank you, Bob. Addendum: 23 �Robert "Bob" Odle dressed for the role of "Rev. Dr. Oral Love" for a production of "Joyce Martel," produced by the American Theatre Company of Tulsa, OK. The company performed this production at various venues from 1975 to 1985, some of which include the following: Cain's Ballroom, The Inferno, The Captain's Cabin, Mayo Hotel, and the Brook Theatre. The image shows Odle dressed in a church minister's robe while clutching a one dollar bill. 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Jack, had he awoken, would have been grateful to have spent his last moments in the same house where he once drank his morning coffee (which he took with two sugars and enough milk to nearly defeat the point), taught his baby daughters how to walk, and blasted the Grateful Dead on full volume (much to the dismay of his family). Jack was born in Little Rock, Arkansas, and grew up in the house in which he caused regular mischief throughout his teenage years – pranking his sisters, skateboarding in a handstand down the neighborhood’s steep hill, and, in one event, taking advantage of his parents’ absence to throw a party that resulted in dozens of cars lined down the street and only minor property damage (but which was cleaned so thoroughly and efficiently that his parents only realized after a neighbor, upset by the noise, informed them upon their return). At 40, he later married his wife Joyce in the same house – the two of them wed in his parents’ living room, clad not in tux and gown, but rather blue jeans and t-shirts, their families packed in around them. Jack worked as an attorney for 34 years, during which time he always positioned himself firmly on the side of the underdog, and fought to improve the circumstances of those who didn’t have much of a fighting chance. Jack’s readiness to help those in need also manifested itself in the form of spasmodic acts of generosity enacted on the behalf of random strangers: such as the time he engaged a Waffle House employee in conversation during the breakfast rush of a Christmas morning, and tipped her a one hundred dollar bill. Jack’s job as an attorney also presented itself in the familial sphere, where he would engage in lively debates with his daughters over anything and everything (and, on occasion, lost). Jack’s family will remember him as a man who laughed a bit too loud and spoke a bit too much. More than that, though, they will remember him as a man who tried very hard, and who loved very much. In lieu of flowers, please consider playing to yourself “Ripple” by the Grateful Dead, and sing along if you know the words. It was his favorite song. All friends and family are welcome to a celebration of Jack’s life at Murray Park, Pavilion 1 on June 15, 2024 at 11:00 A.M. We will laugh, cry, hear from some folks whom Jack admired greatly, and of course have live music. Bring your folding chairs and sit awhile. We’ll all be there to send him off with joy and love. Arrangements are under the direction of RuebelFuneralHome.com Condolences(18) Heather Jun 13th, 2024 8:17 pm # 18 My family and I were one of those “underdogs” Jack represented, fighting for us and winning against one of the most corrupt attorneys in Little Rock. I’m forever indebted for the kindness he showed toward me and my case. This news 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM �Jack Wagoner III 3 of 6 https://ruebelfuneralhome.com/obits/preview.php?id=3388 just shook me. We need more Jack Wagoners in the world. Rest in peace, awesome soul. Josh Coleman Jun 13th, 2024 4:58 pm # 17 We miss you Jack. “Would you hear my voice come through the music? Would you hold it near as it were your own?”. It’s been a tough few months without you here. I’ve thought about you many times along my adventures. I miss checking my phone to see enthusiastic texts or voicemails from you to keep me informed about something new and exciting going on. I kept feeling like I’d run into you at the sphere Vegas shows. I won’t be able to make it to the memorial, but you’ll live on in my memory forever. RIP Jack. Much love to you and your family. Bobby Hamilton May 29th, 2024 9:06 am # 16 I knew Jack for about 47years. We grew up not far from each other though never spent a lot of time together. He was someone I wanted to be around more as we shared an enthusiasm I can only describe as a zest for life and the need for inclusiveness. I would run into Jack from time to time as my family negotiated the foster care system. He was always doing what I thought a real lawyer would want to do, representing the less powerful. Thank you Jack, for fighting the good fight with a gleam in your eyes and a belief that it was working. I believe it too. Susan Jones Boe May 27th, 2024 9:39 am # 15 My brothers and I grew up with the Wagoner family and witnessed first hand the wonderful mischief of Jack! We are all so sorry for your loss. May his memory and the admiration of those who knew him bring you comfort in the years to come. Sandy Lewis Roberts May 20th, 2024 10:47 pm # 14 I’m so sorry to hear that Jack is gone. He was smart, witty, and absolutely one if a kind. He also had a huge and generous heart that he could not always hide. He was loved very much and will be missed by so many people, including me. My heart goes out to Joyce and his girls who I know, without a doubt, he loved so much. My prayers are with you and your daughters, Joyce. Please know I’m there for you on any day at anytime. Love you so much, Sandy Jean Blume May 16th, 2024 1:03 pm # 13 Jack my heart is broken, I love you! My thoughts and prayers to Joyce, Erin and Kylie, the ones you loved the most. 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM �Jack Wagoner III 4 of 6 https://ruebelfuneralhome.com/obits/preview.php?id=3388 You are now part of the Ripple in Gods Heavenly Kingdom. You will be greatly missed by all you have touched here on this earth. R.I.P. and love Jack. Trey Moore May 14th, 2024 1:29 pm # 12 Jack was a good man and a good friend and he is missed by many. Love you Jack, see ya on the flip side. Dave Wilson May 14th, 2024 12:45 pm # 11 Always moving to hear of your love for wife and daughters. Rest in peace, and God Bless your loved ones. Candice Murphy May 13th, 2024 8:36 pm # 10 I knew several of Jack’s family members from many great years at Trinity United Methodist Church. But I met Jack through our mutual friend Sean Harrison, who invited Jack over to see him perform at our first Home Concert in Leawood a year ago. It was such a special night and Jack let me know multiple times afterwards how much he enjoyed it. Sean’s performance was awesome, the weather was perfect, and I loved seeing those good friends spending time together. I’m so sorry he left too soon. Too many of the good ones do.Love to the family, Sean, and others who will miss him. — Candy Murphy Jill B May 13th, 2024 6:53 pm #9 May 13th, 2024 6:13 pm #8 Jack helped me and drove me crazy all at the same time. RIP Terry Barket My late husband, Gary, so enjoyed “Jack time”, both professionally and leisurely. Recently, I became reacquainted with Jack and he helped me with a legal problem…with a good result. I shall miss him deeply and remember him fondly. I hold Joyce and the twins close in my heart and prayers. Buzz Plumley May 13th, 2024 5:00 pm #7 May 13th, 2024 4:48 pm #6 Loved to hear Jack share his experience , strength and hope in AA meetings . Evans family Our thoughts and prayers are with your family Continue to rely on God and know that he hears your prayers, because he cares for you. Thinking of you all. 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM �Jack Wagoner III 5 of 6 https://ruebelfuneralhome.com/obits/preview.php?id=3388 Tom Kelly May 13th, 2024 1:51 pm #5 May 13th, 2024 1:42 pm #4 Gone too soon. Rest in peace Jack. Love to your family. Robin Mays So glad I got to spend some time with you, Jack and your girls in Charleston last year. Jack and I had such a good visit while you and girls were shopping. I know what a shock it was to you as well as to his friends and sisters. He will be missed by many, and I know his daughters will carry his memory in everything they do. Greg BRUCE May 13th, 2024 11:48 am #3 May 13th, 2024 9:59 am #2 May 12th, 2024 11:11 pm #1 Thank you for everything you for our community. Cathy Jones "Ripple" is my favorite as well. Rest in peace. Roger Amick Rest in peace. Leave your Condolence * Your Name * Your Email (will not be published) Condolence * Enter verification code = 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM �Jack Wagoner III 6 of 6 https://ruebelfuneralhome.com/obits/preview.php?id=3388 SUBMIT 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Text Any textual data included in the document Jack Wagoner III<br />Aug 13, 1961 - Apr 23rd, 2024<br /><br />Birth Date: Aug 13, 1961<br />Death Date: Apr 23, 2024<br />Funeral Date: Jun 15, 2024, 11:00 am<br />Location: Murray Park, Pavilion 1, Little Rock, Arkansas<br /><span style="text-decoration:underline;">Print this Obituary</span><br /><br />Jack Wagoner III https://ruebelfuneralhome.com/obits/preview.php?id=3388<br />1 of 6 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM<br /><br /><strong>Biography:</strong> JACK WAGONER III passed away on April 23, 2024, at his home in Little Rock, Arkansas, at the age of 62. Jack, had he awoken, would have been grateful to have spent his last moments in the same house where he once drank his morning coffee (which he took with two sugars and enough milk to nearly defeat the point), taught his baby daughters how to walk, and blasted the Grateful Dead on full volume (much to the dismay of his family).<br />Jack was born in Little Rock, Arkansas, and grew up in the house in which he caused regular mischief throughout his teenage years – pranking his sisters, skateboarding in a handstand down the neighborhood’s steep hill, and, in one event, taking advantage of his parents’ absence to throw a party that resulted in dozens of cars lined down the street and only minor property damage (but which was cleaned so thoroughly and efficiently that his parents only realized after a neighbor, upset by the noise, informed them upon their return). At 40, he later married his wife Joyce in the same house – the two of them wed in his parents’ living room, clad not in tux and gown, but rather blue jeans and t-shirts, their families packed in around them.<br />Jack worked as an attorney for 34 years, during which time he always positioned himself firmly on the side of the underdog, and fought to improve the circumstances of those who didn’t have much of a fighting chance. Jack’s readiness to help those in need also manifested itself in the form of spasmodic acts of generosity enacted on the behalf of random strangers: such as the time he engaged a Waffle House employee in conversation during the breakfast rush of a Christmas morning, and tipped her a one hundred dollar bill. Jack’s job as an attorney also presented itself in the familial sphere, where he would engage in lively debates with his daughters over anything and everything (and, on occasion, lost).<br />Jack’s family will remember him as a man who laughed a bit too loud and spoke a bit too much. More than that, though, they will remember him as a man who tried very hard, and who loved very much.<br />In lieu of flowers, please consider playing to yourself “Ripple” by the Grateful Dead, and sing along if you know the words. It was his favorite song.<br />All friends and family are welcome to a celebration of Jack’s life at Murray Park, Pavilion 1 on June 15, 2024 at 11:00 A.M. We will laugh, cry, hear from some folks whom Jack admired greatly, and of course have live music. Bring your folding chairs and sit awhile. We’ll all be there to send him off with joy and love. Arrangements are under the direction of RuebelFuneralHome.com<br /><br />Condolences(18)<br /><strong>Heather </strong>Jun 13th, 2024 8:17 pm # 18<br />My family and I were one of those “underdogs” Jack represented, fighting for us and winning against one of the most corrupt attorneys in Little Rock. I’m forever indebted for the kindness he showed toward me and my case. This news just shook me. We need more Jack Wagoners in the world. Rest in peace, awesome soul.<br /><br />Jack Wagoner III https://ruebelfuneralhome.com/obits/preview.php?id=3388<br />2 of 6 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM<br /><br /><strong>Josh Coleman</strong> Jun 13th, 2024 4:58 pm # 17<br />We miss you Jack.<br />“Would you hear my voice come through the music?<br />Would you hold it near as it were your own?”.<br />It’s been a tough few months without you here. I’ve thought about you many times along my adventures. I miss checking my phone to see enthusiastic texts or voicemails from you to keep me informed about something new and exciting going on. I kept feeling like I’d run into you at the sphere Vegas shows. I won’t be able to make it to the memorial, but you’ll live on in my memory forever. RIP Jack. Much love to you and your family.<br /><br /><strong>Bobby Hamilton</strong> May 29th, 2024 9:06 am # 16<br />I knew Jack for about 47years. We grew up not far from each other though never spent a lot of time together. He was someone I wanted to be around more as we shared an enthusiasm I can only describe as a zest for life and the need for inclusiveness. I would run into Jack from time to time as my family negotiated the foster care system. He was always doing what I thought a real lawyer would want to do, representing the less powerful.<br />Thank you Jack, for fighting the good fight with a gleam in your eyes and a belief that it was working. I believe it too.<br /><br /><strong>Susan Jones Boe</strong> May 27th, 2024 9:39 am # 15<br />My brothers and I grew up with the Wagoner family and witnessed first hand the wonderful mischief of Jack! We are all so sorry for your loss. May his memory and the admiration of those who knew him bring you comfort in the years to come.<br /><br /><strong>Sandy Lewis Roberts</strong> May 20th, 2024 10:47 pm # 14<br />I’m so sorry to hear that Jack is gone. He was smart, witty, and absolutely one if a kind. He also had a huge and generous heart that he could not always hide. He was loved very much and will be missed by so many people, including me.<br />My heart goes out to Joyce and his girls who I know, without a doubt, he loved so much. My prayers are with you and your daughters, Joyce. Please know I’m there for you on any day at anytime.<br />Love you so much, Sandy<br /><br /><strong>Jean Blume</strong> May 16th, 2024 1:03 pm # 13<br />Jack my heart is broken, I love you! My thoughts and prayers to Joyce, Erin and Kylie, the ones you loved the most.<br />You are now part of the Ripple in Gods Heavenly Kingdom. You will be greatly missed by all you have touched here on this earth. R.I.P. and love Jack.<br /><br />Jack Wagoner III https://ruebelfuneralhome.com/obits/preview.php?id=3388<br />3 of 6 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM<br /><br /><strong>Trey Moore</strong> May 14th, 2024 1:29 pm # 12<br />Jack was a good man and a good friend and he is missed by many. Love you Jack, see ya on the flip side.<br /><br /><strong>Dave Wilson</strong> May 14th, 2024 12:45 pm # 11<br />Always moving to hear of your love for wife and daughters. Rest in peace, and God Bless your loved ones.<br /><br /><strong>Candice Murphy</strong> May 13th, 2024 8:36 pm # 10<br />I knew several of Jack’s family members from many great years at Trinity United Methodist Church. But I met Jack through our mutual friend Sean Harrison, who invited Jack over to see him perform at our first Home Concert in Leawood a year ago. It was such a special night and Jack let me know multiple times afterwards how much he enjoyed it. Sean’s performance was awesome, the weather was perfect, and I loved seeing those good friends spending time together. I’m so sorry he left too soon. Too many of the good ones do.Love to the family, Sean, and others who will miss him. — Candy Murphy<br /><br /><strong>Jill B</strong> May 13th, 2024 6:53 pm # 9<br />Jack helped me and drove me crazy all at the same time. RIP<br /><br /><strong>Terry Barket</strong> May 13th, 2024 6:13 pm # 8<br />My late husband, Gary, so enjoyed “Jack time”, both professionally and leisurely.<br />Recently, I became reacquainted with Jack and he helped me with a legal problem…with a good result.<br />I shall miss him deeply and remember him fondly.<br />I hold Joyce and the twins close in my heart and prayers.<br /><br /><strong>Buzz Plumley</strong> May 13th, 2024 5:00 pm # 7<br />Loved to hear Jack share his experience , strength and<br />hope in AA meetings .<br /><br /><strong>Evans family</strong> May 13th, 2024 4:48 pm # 6<br />Our thoughts and prayers are with your family<br />Continue to rely on God and know that he hears your prayers, because he cares for you. Thinking of you all.<br /><br />Jack Wagoner III https://ruebelfuneralhome.com/obits/preview.php?id=3388<br />4 of 6 2/21/2025, 3:11 PM<br /><br /><strong>Tom Kelly</strong> May 13th, 2024 1:51 pm # 5<br />Gone too soon. Rest in peace Jack. Love to your family.<br /><br /><strong>Robin Mays</strong> May 13th, 2024 1:42 pm # 4<br />So glad I got to spend some time with you, Jack and your girls in Charleston last year. Jack and I had such a good visit while you and girls were shopping. I know what a shock it was to you as well as to his friends and sisters. He will be missed by many, and I know his daughters will carry his memory in everything they do.<br /><br /><strong>Greg BRUCE</strong> May 13th, 2024 11:48 am # 3<br />Thank you for everything you for our community.<br /><br /><strong>Cathy Jones</strong> May 13th, 2024 9:59 am # 2<br />"Ripple" is my favorite as well. 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Cc: $ tg :.g::: @1.4 I tfo ill j ; il .... Subject:,I.Jll['lele1rtlls"': 111111111%1•] 30 years of anti-gay politics I Qi ]!'A Southern Poverty Law Center The Thirty Years War A timeline of the anti-gay movement 1977 Born-again singer Anita Bryant campaigns to overturn an anti-discrimination law protecting gay men and lesbians in Dade Co1mty, Fla. Inspired by her victory, Bryant founds the first national anti-gay group, Save Our Children, drawing unprecedented attention to gay issues and motivating gay groups to organize in response. James Dobson, author of 1969 pro-spanking book Dare To Discipline, founds Focus on the Family in Arcadia, Calif. Focus will move to Colorado Springs, Colo., in 1991, become America's wealthiest fundamentalist ministry, and spearhead the campaign against gay marriage. 1978 Gay activist Harvey Milk, elected to the San Francisco Board of Supervisors on Nov. 7, is assassinated 20 days later (along with Mayor George Moscone) by right-wing religious zealot Dan White, a former city supervisor who had resigned in protest when the board passed a gay-rights ordinance. John Birch Society trainer and "family activist" Tim LaHaye publishes The Unhappy Gays (later retitled What Everyone Should Know About Homosexuality). Calling gay people "militant, organized" and "vile," LaHaye anticipates anti-gay arguments to come. California State Sen. John Briggs floats a ballot initiative allowing local school boards to ban gay teachers. "One third of San Francisco teachers are homosexual," Briggs says. "I assume most of them are seducing young boys in toilets." The initiative is defeated, but the campaign inspires anti-gay crusaders like the Rev. Lou Sheldon, who will fo1md the Traditional Values Coalition in 1981. 1979 5/19/2005 �,;z-":f -'!!:•�·. :·.:_:_�:.>';!���. --./::t:'.'-r.j•. '" •:.· ';;'i,<::�"...:��--:; ·� .: '':SG'�:::,\·;,-1::i�-�;::t ;;'� :.��-,�,u":• - �\,tt•� .. �Page2of7 The Rev. Jerry Falwell founds the Moral Majority, a national effort to stimulate the fundamentalist vote and elect Christian Right candidates. Early :fundraising appeals include a "Declaration of War" on homosexuality. 1980 Paul Cameron, former psychology instructor at University of Nebraska, begins publishing pseudo­ scientific pamphlets "proving" that gay people commit more serial murders, molest more children, and intentionally spread diseases. Expelled from the American Psychological Association in 1983 for ethics violations, Cameron will continue to produce bogus "studies" widely cited by anti-gay groups. 1981 Moral Majority allies in Congress propose the Family Protection Act, which would bar giving federal funds to "any organization that suggests that homosexuality can be an acceptable alternative lifestyle." Despite President Reagan's endorsement, the bill is defeated. The Council for National Policy, a highly secretive club of America's most powerful far-right religious activists, begins meeting quarterly at undisclosed locations. Among the members will be R.J. Rushdoony, who calls for death penalty for homosexuals, and anti-gay crusaders James Dobson, Beverly and Tim LaHaye, Jerry Falwell, Tony Perkins and Phyllis Schlafly. George W. Bush will meet with the Council during his first campaign for president. 1982 The U.S. Department of Defense issues a policy stating that homosexuality is "incompatible" with military service. Almost 17,000 gay soldiers will be discharged during the l 980s, though a 1989 Defense Deparbnent study will find gay recruits "just as good or better" than heterosexuals. 1983 Pat Buchanan, communications director for President Ronald Reag� calls AIDS, first identified in 1981, "nature's revenge on gay men." 1984 The Coalition on Revival is founded to promote "Christian government" in the U.S. and to agree on theological tenets - including anti-gay principles - that fundamentalists can rally around. Board members include Tim LaHaye, D. James Kennedy of Coral Ridge Ministries and Donald Wildmon of the American Family Association. Founder Jay Grimstead later tells The Advocate, "Homosexuality makes God vomit." 1985 Addressing the annual Conservative Political Action Conference, Paul Cameron uses the AIDS crisis 5/19/2005 �Page3 of7 to suggest that "the extermination of homosexuals" might become necessary. The following year, Colorado's Summit Ministries will publish Special Report: AIDS. Co-authored by Cameron, the popular pamphlet blames gay men for the epidemic and calls for a national crackdown on homosexuals. 1986 At the first Congressional hearings on anti-gay violence, Kathleen Sarris of Indianapolis tells of being stalked and assaulted by a "Christian soldier" who held her at gunpoint, beat and raped her for three hours, explaining that "he was acting for God; that what he was doing to me was God's revenge on me because I was a 'queer' and getting rid of me would save children." Anti-gay groups cheer the U.S. Supreme Court's 5-4 decision in Bowers v. Hardwick holding that state anti-sodomy statutes are constitutional. Four years later, Justice Lewis Powell, the swing vote, will tell New York University law students, "I probably made a mistake in that one." 1987 Boston's Gay Community News publishes a satire of anti-gay propaganda, beginning: "Tremble, Hetero Swine! We shall sodomize your sons, emblems of your feeble masculinity, of your shallow dreams and vulgar lives. We will raise vast private annies ... to defeat ... the family unit." Anti-gay groups seize on the article as proof of a "secret homosexual agenda." 1988 After a ferocious campaign by the fundamentalist Oregon Citizens Alliance (OCA), Oregon voters overturn their governor's executive order banning anti-gay discrimination in state hiring. Led by anti­ gay crusader Lon Mabon, OCA claims "promiscuous sodomite activists" have called for "the closing of all churches that oppose them and the total destruction of the family." 1989 U.S. Rep. William Dannemeyer (R-Calif.) publishes a landmark anti-gay tome, Shadow in the Land: Homosexuality in America. Calling lesbians and gay men 11the ultimate enemy," Dannemeyer accuses straight people of "surrendering to this growing army without a shot," and predicts gay rights will "plunge our people, and indeed the entire West, into a dark night of the soul that could last hundreds of years." 1990 University of Colorado football coach Bill McCartney founds Promise Keepers, which holds all-male stadium revivals promoting "traditional masculinity" throughout the l 990s. McCartney calls homosexuals "a group of people who don't reproduce, yet want to be compared with people who do reproduce," and says, "Homosexuality is an abomination of Almighty God." 1991 5/19/2005 �Page4 of7 Pat Robertson founds the American Center for Law and Justice (ACLJ), run by Christian Right attorney Jay Sekulow. ACLJ will be instrumental in fighting gay marriage, calling it a cancerous "perversion" that "directly attacks the family, which is the most vital cell in society." 1992 Colorado voters approve Amendment 2, overturning municipal laws protecting lesbians and gay men from discrimination. One of the organizers, Tony Marco, hones a "special rights" argument, claiming that gay people are inordinately wealthy and politically powerful, and neither need nor deserve the rights they "demand." "The Gay Agenda," 20-minute video featuring racy scenes filmed at gay-pride marches, is released by Ty and Jeannette Beeson of the Antelope Valley Springs of Life church in Lancaster, Calif. Aired by Pat Robertson's "The 700 Club,0 it will become one of the most widely viewed pieces of anti-gay propaganda. At the Republican National Convention in Houston, Pat Buchanan famously declares in a prime time speech, "There is a culture war going on in our country for the soul ofAmerica." Cheering audience members wave signs reading "Family Rights Forever, 'Gay' Rights Never." 1993 The battle over gay marriage is ignited when the Hawaii Supreme Court rules that denying same-sex couples marriage licenses violates "basic human rights" guaranteed in the state constitution - unless the state legislature can show a "compelling reason" to prevent gay marriage. Anti-gay groups begin a campaign to "defend marriage," with legal challenges led by ACLJ's Jay Sekulow. President Clinton's proposal to lift the ban on openly gay military personnel sends anti-gay activists into action, shutting down phone lines to Congress with hundreds ofthousands of calls in protest. "Honestly," asks D. James Kennedy in a fundraising letter for Coral Ridge Ministries, "would you want your son, daughter, or grandchild sharing a shower, foxhole, or blood with a homosexual?" The Cobb County (Ga.) Commission passes a resolution calling homosexuality "incompatible with the standards to which this community subscribes." Organizer Gordon Wysong declares, 0We should blame them for every social problem in America." Cobb County will be dropped as a host for 1996 Atlanta Olympic events because of its anti-gay stance. 1994 More than40 fundamentalist groups, led by Focus on the Family, hold a summit in Colorado to coordinate a "special rights" argument to oppose gay rights. This strategy is also promoted by the Traditional Values Coalition's "Gay Rights, Special Rights," a40-minute video claiming gay rights will erode the civil rights ofAfrican Americans. 1995 The Pink Swastika: Homosexuality in the Nazi Party, by fundamentalist activists Scott Lively and 5/19/2005 �Page 5 of7 Kevin Abrams, claims gays weren't victimized in the Holocaust, but instead helped mastermind the extermination of Jews (see stocy, p. 18). Repudiated by credible historians, the book is nevertheless praised by the Family Research Council and sold by several anti-gay organiz.ations. 1996 The National Pro-Family Forum, dedicated to "one man-one woman" marriage, holds its first secret meeting in a Memphis church cellar with representatives from more than 20 major anti-gay groups. Before the end of the year, forum members successfully push the Defense of Marriage Act, a symbolic measure defining marriage as between a man and a woman, through Congress. The Southern Baptist Convention announces a boycott of Disney parks and products because the company gives insurance benefits to partners of gay workers and allows "Gay Days" at its theme parks. "Beware of the Magic Kingdom," Focus on the Family advises parents. Gay Day protests become a staple of the anti-gay movement In Romer v. Evans, the U.S. Supreme Court rules Colorado's Amendment 2 (see 1992) unconstitutional by a 6-3 vote. The ruling puts an end to 20 years of state and local ballot initiatives aimed at stripping gays of anti-discrimination protections, leaving same-sex marriage as the main issue for anti-gay organizers. 1997 Ellen DeGeneres' character on the TV sitcom "Ellen" comes out as a lesbian, initiating protests and boycotts of sponsors led by Donald Wildmon and Jerry Falwell, who calls the actor "Ellen Degenerate." 1998 A coalition of fundamentalist groups led by Coral Ridge Ministries sponsors "Truth in Love," a million-dollar advertising campaign promoting "ex-gay ministries," which use discredited psychological methods to "cure" gay people. One day before a second round of "Truth in Love" ads is released, gay college student Matthew Shepard dies after being savagely beaten and left tied to a fence in Wyoming. The murder spurs a national debate about the connection between anti-gay rhetoric and hate crimes. In a TV interview, Senate Majority Leader Trent Lott (R-Miss.) compares gay people to alcoholics and "kleptomaniacs," earning praise from anti-gay activists. "Leaders willing to be set apart and stand solidly in the truth are rare in today's permissive culture," says James Dobson. 1999 Vermont Democratic Gov. Howard Dean signs a law sanctioning same-sex civil unions, entitling gay couples to marital rights arid benefits. Anti-gay leader Gary Bauer calls it "an unmitigated disaster" that is "worse than terrorism." 2000 5/19/2005 �Page6of7 "Teletubbies" cartoon character Tinley Winley is "outed" as gay in a "Parents' Alert" in Jerry Falwell's Liberty Journal, which asserts, "He is purple - the gay-pride color; and his antenna is shaped like a triangle - the gay-pride symbol." The U.S. Supreme Court rules 5-4 that the Boy Scouts of America can continue to ban gay scoutmasters. Anti-gay activists like Robert Knight ofthe Family Research Council use the scouting controversy to revive anti-gay "child molester" propaganda. After CBS morning-show host Bryant Gumbel interviews Knight, he is heard on air commenting, "What a fucking idiot." Anti-gay groups label CBS the "Christian Bashing System" and lobby unsuccessfully for Gumbel's firing. 2001 On "The 700 Cbib" two days after the 9/11 terrorist attacks, Jerry Falwell blames the tragedy on "the Pagans, and the abortionists, and the feminists and the gays and lesbians who are actively trying to make that an alternative lifestyle." Host Pat Robertson responds: "Well, I totally concur." 2002 The Rev. Michael Bray, a convicted abortion clinic bomber and leading advocate ofmurdering abortion doctors, praises Saudi Arabia for beheading three gay men on New Year's Day. "Let us give thanks," Bray proclaims. "Let us welcome these tools of purification. Open the borders! Bring in some agents of cleansing." 2003 Alan Sears, head ofthe Alliance Defense Fund, co-authors The Homosexual Agenda, a book that asserts gay activists' ultimate goal is "silencing" conservative Christians. Sears also accuses cartoon character SpongeBob SquarePants of being gay. The Massachusetts Supreme Judicial Court rules 4-3 that gay and lesbian couples have a right to marry. In the Washington Dispatch, legendary fundamentalist organizer Paul Weyrich declares marriage "The Final Frontier for Civili2:ation as We Know It." The U.S. Supreme Court overturns state anti-sodomy statutes in Lawrence v. Texas, ruling that gay people are entitled to "an autonomy of self that includes freedom of thought, belief, expression, and certain intimate conduct." Dissenting Justice Antonin Scalia complains that "the court has largely signed onto the so-called homosexual agenda." 2004 Constitutional amendments prohibiting same-sex marriage pass by wide margins in all 11 states, including Ohio and Oregon. Anti-gay groups meet in Washington, D.C., to plan for 10 more state initiatives in 2005. James Dobson's Focus on the Family Action organizes "Mayday for Marriage" rallies in six major cities to promote anti-gay marriage ballot initiatives in 11 states. An estimated 150,000 turn out for Oct. 15 protest in Washington, D.C., where Dobson declares, "[E)verytbing we care about is on the line. It's now or never." 5/19/2005 �Page 7 of? San Francisco officials begin issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples in February, with a handful of other U.S. municipalities following suit. Later that month, President George W. Bush announces his support for a Federal Marriage Amendment to the Constitution. 5/19/2005 � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Collection] Oklahoma LGBT+ History Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br /><br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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