1 20 1 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/c7641729331198cf80878d1d621281e2.jpg 216b9c8ff0503606252ceeef63779479 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/b310cde7c20101c7d372a18f34483f0e.pdf c52538920077b3300b717fc407c32658 PDF Text Text THE VOLUME 7 PREMIER SOURCE FOR ISSUE 4 GLBT OKLAHOMA Twi~er.com/MetroStarNews to exempt Oklahoma Ha e Cr mes Law protecting GLBTs State Senate It is very sad that any lawmaker in Oklahoma would introduce legislation that would force Oklahoma law enforcement officials to violate ground brealdng Federal law that would extend legal protections to LGBT Oklahomans who may become victims of violence motivated by bigotry." Statement by State Senator Andrew Rice who was one of the 6 Senators who voted no. By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ SB 1965, introduced by State Senator Steven Russell ( Republican-District 45) deals mainly with the Fede~aI Hate Crimes expansion signed into law by President Obama in October 22,2009, which added Federal Hates crimes protection to include gender, sexual oriei~tation, gender identity and disability in addition to the already covered categories of agencies from sharing evidence or providing assistance ro Federal authorities if they are im~esrigating a hate crime in Oklahoma. It has passed the State Senate 39-6. Oklahoma Hate Crimes laws (Section 850 Title 21) cover race, color, tel igion, gender, disability, familial status and national origin. As sexual orientation and gender identity are not covered, hate crimes against GLBTs in the state of Oklahoma could not be prosecuted as such under state law, yet such a crime could be punished as a hate crime under Federal [axe; which passage of SB 1965 would attempt m change. However Constitutionally Federal Law supercedes state law. As Tamya Cox of Oldaboma’s ACLU puts T lsa M tary Veteran Kelly rbv honored by O ahomans for By Michael xYZ Sasser TULSA, OK Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) is set to h--~nor Tulsa accountant Kelly ~rby with a Lifetime Achievement Award on April 24 at their 30th Anniversary Equality Gala. "I have to say that at 56 years old the word ’lifetime’ is a little daunting," says the aftable longtime activist. Kirby is being honored for 20 years of major activism for the Oklahoma GLBT community. "I appreciate the fact that they are recognizin, g my accomplishments," Kirby says. I think what I have done is important and I would have done it without aW recognition of it." it, "For example, if a bloody baseball bat was used in an Oklahoma hate crime against a gay person and it was held by state authorities who are most likely to be first on the scene, if this bill becomes law it could not be given to Federal authorities as evidence for prosecution." Since Oklahoma State Hate Crimes laws don’t covering GLBTs, SB 1965 would make it virtually impossible for hate crimes against GLBTs in Oklahoma to be successftdiv prosecuted as hate crimes. Scott J. Hamilton. Executive Director of the Cimarron Alliance stated, "\g)~e are appalled that the Oklahoma Senate would pass legislation that, in effect, green lights violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered citizens in this state. Not only is it unconstitutional, it is unconscionable. In the meantime our state vdll spend without limit to defend this in court. Oklahoma is in the midst of a budget crisis of historic proportions. I find it hard to believe that bigotry is so pervasive in our state that our policymakers would rather pass hate filled legislation than addressing failing schools and reductions in services for seniors." ........ Continued See BILL 1965 Page-5 ® MetroStarNews.com APRIL 1,2010 Pau Robert ompsor A lifetime of service-forever a gacy (1939-2010) By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Among Oklahomans who take an interest in equality and justice there are very fe~v who didn’t know about Paul Thompson, and many knew him xvell as he -worked hard to make Oklahoma better until his life ended. At least 2 generations of activists worked beside him, enduring the heartbreak of setbacks and the joys of victories as history marched on. His energy was tireless, chairing meetings, working with bureaucracies, organizing events, making speeches, doing mailings, and on and on. Although he had his own business, PRT Designs (interior decorating), his true passion was working with people for justice. He was well known for his outspoken pride clearly shown by his trademark outfits, which included xvearing a different rainbow color with matching socks every day. He co-chaired the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus from 1992 until 2010, and was active for many years with the Oklahoma Democratic Party. He also played a significant role in organizing Oklahoma City’s first Pride Parade in 1988, a true ~ilestone not only for Oklahoma City but rather the entire GLBT community of Oklahoma. That event was a major turning point in Oklahoma, with the KKK waiting in the Safexvay (now Homeland) parking tot on N.-W. 39th Street to stop the "queer parade." But that event had a happy ending as fellow activist Jim Ninamo put xt, "When they saw how many participants were marching, they tucked their tails and left." The rest was history, with that proud tradition continuing today. Paul served as the Male CoChair for the OKC Pride Parade and Festival for many years until 2009, when he was given a Chairmanship Emeritus Award for his service. ........ Continued See THOMPSON Page-4 giving well over 100 interviews and malting For more than two decades, Kirby has been a sure his clients know he might end up in the visible activist for GLBT issues with an emphasis media. on marriage equality and for gay "A lot of people in Tulsa and lesbian service members. It "1 lost a relationship feel that they can’t speak hasn’t always been an easy role to that had been long up because of family or play. term when he was community or work," Kirby On \Vorld A~DS Day in 1991, discharged from the says. "I had to get past that." Kirby participated in a smal! Air Force for being Still Kirby said he demonstration in Tulsa on a wet, gay," Kirby says. believes different people rainy night. Unbeknownst to him, should be featured by his photo was taken and the next media as representative of the state GLBT day appeared in a newspaper. community. "I got a phone call from my biggest client the next da)~" Kirby remembers. "q-he mvner of the ........ Continued See KIRBY Page-7 company asked me ifI had the opportunity to make a statement for my cause, if I would do it. I hadn’t really thought about it until then, but I said that yes, I probably would. An hour later, I was fired and lost two-thirds of my business. I basically had to start over from scratch building my business. Kelly WKirby 1974 at age 20, United States I guess that was my activist wake-up call." Air Force, honor guard dress uniform. _*Kirby said that "he hasn’t shut up"" since then, �Cimarron Alliance Moves Forward with new- O ces and a Dynamic Director By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Margaret Cox proudly cutting the ribbon held by the new Executive Director Scott J. Hamilton, with Lisa Ptsiri of the Oldahoma City Chamber of Commerce looking on. Gorin photo OKLM-IOMA CITY, OK__ Cimarron Alliance Group was formed in 1995 as a political action committee (PAC) focused on equality for the GLBT community in Oldaho,na. Although other groups existed at that time, anaong them the Oldahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, the Mliance was a venture of successful business people and professionals who would be able to give serious financial backing to deserving candidates seeking public office as well as put on events for the GLBT community. First chaired by the late Bill Rogers, the organization became a major force for the GLBT community and the Oldalxoma political landscape. In 1997 the Cimarron Alliance Foundation was formed as a 501(c)(3) organization, a nonprofit status which enables an organization to, among other things, accept contributions which are tax deductible to the giver. While this type of organization is prohibited fi’om most political activity, including contributing to or promoting candidates or political parties, the CAF was focused on educational issues facing the GLBT community, informing not only them but also straights as well. In this endeavor they have held events such as their annual Leadership Summit, which is a convention of leadership from all GLBT groups. They made history in 2001 when their Gay Pride banners for Oklalmma City light poles were oMered taken down by then Mayor Kirk Humphreys. They took the city 1:o Federal court and on September 13,2002 Judge Robin Cauthron ruled that the banners were protected by Federal free speech rights mandated by the U.S. Constitution. Redesigned in 1997, the Pride banners still fly on special occasions. Now as we face a new decade with pride facing prejudice, especially with opposition 2 to GLBT equality clearly shown to be alive and kicking in Oldahoma, Cimarron is facing challenge as they undergo change. For the first time they have an office, !ocated at 729 N.gi. 17th Street in OHahoma City. Likewise they now have their first fulltirne Executive Director Scott J. Hamilton, a native Otdahoman. A~er many years in New York City with many ventures he has returned home to fight for equality. Born inI960 in south Oklalmma City, he graduated as a valedictorian of Capitol Hill High School in 1978. He later graduated from OU with a Bachelor’s Degree in Journalism, and his first job was being a promoter for the Oldahoma Opry, an Oldahoma City venue for country and western musicians. He later took a far better paying position with an oil company but lost that job during the oil bust of 1983, actually driving to the unemployment office in a Mercedes. What followed was a variety of ventures to pay the bills, ranging from teaching junior high school chorus to painting garage doors to makJng doughnuts, among other endeavors. Finally he flew to New York City (the Mercedes long gone) with 3 suitcases and $200 to meet a friend awaiting he could stay vdth. Doing writing and consulting for an import/export business, he moved on to success with the advertising agency Charron, Schwartz and Partners. Walking through the subway one fateful day beneath Grand Central Station he saw Wayne Johnson, a gentleman that would prove to be a soulmate. As the relationship came together, Scott came out at work (no problem) and they legally married in Connecticut. Following this, he got involved working with nonprofit organizations. Finding himself laid off, he began checking around for other ....... Continued See ClMARRON Page 5 April 1, 2010 �is T.E.N? By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer 7he Equalily Network, or TEN. is comprised of three organizational entities: TEN PAC, TEN, and TEN Institute. Pictured above is Laura Belmonte. an activist who is also i4ce President and Co-Founder ofTEN. Townsend photo TULSA. OK TEN, or "The Equality Network" is a non-partisan statewide organization working to achieve equality and secure legal protection for tesbian. ga)~ bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Oklahomans through advocacy, coalition building and individual empowerment in the political process. Founded in 2009. TEN is comprised of three organizational entities: TEN PAC, TEN, and TEN Institute. "Over the last decade or so that I’ve worked for LGBT equalityin Oklahoma I’ve become increasingly impressed with the amazing progress statewide LGBT advocacy groups are having elsewhere," said Laura Belmonte, Vice President and Co-Founder of TEN. "Last year a number of positive forces converged and we concluded that the timing xvas right to implement a three-pronged strategy of ’educate, advocate, elect.’" Belrnonte also has a PhD amd is currently Director of American Studies and associate professor of Arnerican History at Oklahoma State University. "The launching ofTEN is the fulfilhnent of a personal dream and I feel very fortunate ro have the opportunity to work ~vith such a committed and talented group of people," adds Belmonte. "Each day, we are hearing from people all over the state - most in places where there is no organized effort for LGBT equality - and we are quite encouraged by the alliances that are developing. With time, effort, and a lot of help we think that TEN can help make some positive changes for LGBT Oklahomans." TEN is affiliated with the Equality Federation (vrww.equalityfederation.org), the national alliance of state-based LGBT advocacy organizations. Collectively these state groups have compiled a remarkable string of pro-equality victories on a range of issues including workplace fairness, antibullying and relationship recognition. Even a small group of w!!l-prepared constituents can www.metrostarnews.com make a powerful impression on a legislator. Legislators need to hear from people who support LGBT equality all the time, not only at times when the LGBT community is being targeted. "The board combines people with professional and non-professional experience in lobbying and advocacy at the state and local levels on causes as varied as LGBT rights, animal protection, HIV/A.IDS, economic injustice, and gender equality," adds Belmonte. "This wilt be a continua!, longterm effort. It is going to take time and effort to move Oklalaoma toward more inclusive ~nd just public policies for LGBT people." For more information you may contact Belmonte at lbelmonte@theequalitynetwork. org or 918.906.2134. Our web site is ~wcw. theequalitynetwork.org. You can also find TEN on Facebook and Twitter (follow TENEquality). Openly Gay Norman City Councilman wins re-election but now is running for State House NORMAN, OK (PR) __ When Tom Kovach was first elected to the Norman City Council in 2008, he wasn’t the first openly gay person to do so. That milestone was achieved by David Ray in 2002, but Tom did have the distinction of being the second, and of being re-elected unopposed this year. He represents Ward 2. However, as State Representative Bil! Nations of District 44 is leaving office due to term limits, Tom Kovach has announced he is running for that office as a Democrat, His stated reasoning, " Sometimes government produces ideas that in the light of day lack common sense. I have always been willing to speak out on those occasions as the voice of the people, and I remains so." "Throughout my years in Norman I have worked with people from all walks of life, helping them find solutions to the problems they faced. I have done so as a union leader, a smal! business owner and now as a local business executive. I accomplished these things through honesty, respectful communication and a willingness to hear all sides of an issue, the same qualities that will mark my service as your next state representative." He has lived in the district more than 40 years, graduating from OU with a degree in Letters. He currently works as a Customer Service Manager for Astromomics, a leading U.S. dealer and producer of quality optics. He and his partner Will Weir are active in many social service agencies in the Norman area, and look forward to doing more for their fellow Oklahomans. A Toast to Life It’s time to Paint the Town Robert! By Robin D-Townsend Contributing W-riter Other Options and Friends Food Pantry board president, Robert Painter tu,ws 40 in April and is planning a huge_f!~ndraising eventfor t,§e organization to celebrate the occasion. Townsend photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s a birthday bash like none other. Turning 40 is Robert Painter, famous for his ’best little tact stand down by the tracks,’ (a.k.a., ~lhe Iguana Mexican Grill). Painter is also the board president of Other Options, Inc (OOI) and has chosen to celebrate ’the big 4-0’ in a very unique way. "Our Toast to Life event is the signature fundraiser for Other Options and it is held annually in April?said Painter. ~Ttpril also happens to be the same month as my birthday. I really w~tnted to take advantage of the name Ihave made for myself to help an or,ga,~)ization who has done so much for people.’ Painter became acquainted with OOI when his dear friend, Tim Wade ~vas diagnosed with HIV. The only place he could find immediate help at no cost in Oklahoma City was at Other Options. This is where Painter met Mary Arbuclde, Executive Director of OOI and Friends Food Pantry. Wade found assistance with medication, food and other support services at OOI. Sadly, Wade passed away in 2009 but Painter has kep,t, his memory alive by giving back. The bigge,,st thing we [O~I] need is our own building, adds Painter. That is why our goal is $40,000 for this event and I think we can do it." Forty seems to be the magic number. Since 1989 Other Options in Oklahoma City has provided professional, consistent services to people who are HIV positive and disabled individuals, focusing on the impact HIV/AIDS has had in the lives of those they serve. The mission of Other Options is to create a better understanding of HIV/AIDS, provide training, guidance and provide educational directories that link the affected community to services. The venue will include live music, various artists and entertainers, dancing, and deadCenter will be showing films on the big screen, there will be a fashion show and a silent auction will be held. Another unique part of this event will be the art gallery featuring Oklahoma City artists Debbie Curtis, Joe Slack, Ben Potter, Brent Weber and Bryan Boone. Other surprises are also in store. ~ Toast to Life; Paint the Town Robert,’ vdtl be held on April 10th at 7:40pm at 25 NW 9th (just \grest of Nae Iguana). Tickets for the event are $40 and will include food, drink, entertainment and parldng. For tickets or to make a donation please call (405) 6058020. Reserve tickets are requested; the event is free to clients of Other Options. 1st Annual Tulsa Violence Symposium In Memory of Joseph Walker-Hoover Jaheem Herrera TULSA, OK (PR) April 16, 2010 hosted by Youth Services of Tulsa. Nae event will take place at Langston University Tulsa starting at 9AM. Registration to attend this event is not necessary. The event will address national and local concerns about the growing problems of student-on-student abuse in our communities - Bullying, Dating Violence/Date Rape, and Domestic Violence. If you would like to schedule a booth for your organization, please contact Michael Merryman at 918.382-4429, or email to mmerryman@yst.org. ’uPtcv - Civil Rights *Criminal ment Family Law - Litigation 625 N.W. t S.th Street a City, OK [vIETROSTAR 3 �Dear Editor, I wanted to share the letter Congresswoman Mary Fallin sent to me in response to my letter regarding EDNA and The Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Bill and the reaction of the Oldahoma Legislature. Kendell Powers Oklahoma Civ/ March 8, 2010 Mr. Kendel Powers 600 Northwest 23rd Street, Suite 101 Oklahoma City, OK 73103-1464 Dear Mr. Powers: Thank you for taking the time to contact me about the Employment NonDiscrimination Act. Understanding your ideas and concerns is important to me, as it helps me to better represent you and the Fifth District of Oklahoma. The Employment Non-Discrimination Act, or ENDA, would extend existing provisions of Federal law to prohibit employment discrimination on the basis of "actual or perceived" sexual orientation. The bill expands civil rights protections on the vague basis of perception, requiring courts to determine an employer’s thoughts when an employment action is taken. Currently Title \HI prohibits workplace harassment that is based on race, color, religion, sex, or national origin. This legislation is anotber example of political correctness gone wrong. This bill is constitutionally questionable, weakens both state and federal marriage laws, and creates a legal trap for businesses, schools, and people of faith. I have long opposed the government’s creeping assault on the faithbased values our country was founded on, the flaws in this bill are numerous and obvious. ENDA is inconsistent with the rights guaranteed by the Religious Freedom Restoration Act (PdaRA), which prohibits the Federal Government from substantially burdening the free exercise of religion. It nullifies the rights of some religious schools which, although not "controlled, managed or owned by a specific religion," may still consider religious faith and traditional moral values to be an essential part of their curriculum. This opens some of Oldahomds most successful faith-based institutions to unconstitutional government involvement and supervision. Without a blanket exemption for all religious educational institutions, nondenominational religious schools will be forced to operate under government review of curriculum and constant fear of litigation. The.proposed legislation makes a protected class based on sexual behavim; which will jeopardize our constitutional rights to freedom of speech and religious expression. ENDA is a direct attack on individual religious freedoms and creares a lega! tightrope for employers over which law to follow and violate. Employers with rnoral or religious beliefs opposed to homosexualiV will be forced to lay down their rights and convictions at the door, creating a hostile work environment. In addition to ENDA’s blatant disregard for traditional values, values 4 tsv{~£T~qOSTAR that still mean something to the people of Oklahoma, the law is so vaguely defined and so unenforceable that it seems to be more of a handout to trial lavo,ers than anything else. As your Representative, I stand for religious liberty and people of all faiths and oppose a convoluted, vaguely defined and unenforceable set of new regulations governing personal behavior and hiring practices. Thank you again for taking the time to share your ideas and concerns. As the 11 lth Congress addresses the man), challenges facing our nation, I hope you will continue to share your thoughts and vie,vs with me. However, due to increased security measures, mail delivery may be delayed for up to two weeks. Accordingly, I encourage you to visit my website at ,aw~v.fallin.house.gov to contact me via email in the future. While visiting my site you may also sign up for my e-newsletter as well as find usefu! information about the 11 lth Congress. Sincerely Mary Fallin Member of Congress Dear Editor, OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Hunting season is on for gays and lesbians as long as the Oklahoma Legislature is in session. If the rednecks don’t get us the suit-and-tie boys will. Not content with passing SQ 71 ! in 2004 making marriage only bet~veen one man and one woman as many times as they like, the Senate has just passed 39-6 a bill (SB1965) to opt out of the recentl~ passed federal Shepard/Byrd Hate Crime~ I[aw. ~e bill nmv goes to the House side of the Capitol. Senate Bill 1965 seems optimistically numbered in that I’m sure Sen. Russell, the sponsor, and 38 of his colleagues on both sides of the aisle would like to return to the year 1965 ifno~ earlier, when gays and lesbians knew that our place was not alongside other Americans but rather in the closet of narrow, scared shadows with the door hinges well rusted. ~e voting record is located here: http://tinyurl.com/ycgog86 It’s odd that many of these legislators weren’t even born then or were very young. Where did they learn such animosity towards strangers that never did them any harm? Surely not in their church pews or at their dinner tables, do you think? After all, African-Americans had just achieved a legal victory in 1965 with the ’passage of the Civil Rights and Voting Acts for which white bigots thought the sky would fall in. The sky did not fal! in and it won’t fall in when gays and lesbians achieve our social and legal victory over the bigots of Oldahoma. 2q~e only thing lost will be the legal right bigots so jealously retain to impose their ignorance over the rest of us. According to Sen. Russell’s legislative webpage he has a serious military record and several medals. If medals are a mark of bravery why is Sen. Russell so afraid of gays and lesbians that he sponsors bills that remove them from the protection of the law and maintain their second-class status as taxpayers--second-class in that gay/lesbian money is ACcepted for payment of taxes yet we are EXcepted when it comes to protection from hatred and discrimination? X~y is Sen. Russell afraid of gay/lesbian equality under the law? Senator Russell just can’t stop fighting wars and looking for enemies. He should reenlist and put his life back on the line, for his country of course. James Nimmo Oklahoma City, OK Hawaii’s Garden Isle: Kauai, In terms of scenery, the one Hawaiian island that comes closest to living up to the expectations of many first-time visitors is Kauai, a comparatively small but magnificently lush isle of rain forests, towering seaside cliffs and seduded beaches. Sumptuous full-service resorts to quaint B&B’s. A list of where to stay and things to do now online in our Travel Section @ www.MetroStarNews.com Dear Editor, TULSA, OK__ Senate Bil! 1965 has to be defeated. This bill would restrict Oklahoma law enforcement from complying with the federal justice department during a hate biased crime investigation. The bill’s author, State Senator Steven Russell, has suggested the Federal Hate Crimes Prevention Act would restrict free speech (aka ministers preaching against homosexuality). So the Oklahoma Senate has refused to hear bills that would assist victims ofliate biased crimes but have tentatively approved another bill that would remove any hope of justice for LGBT victims of violence. This is unacceptable and I strongly urge everyone to contact their State Senator and challenge them to not approve Senate Bill 1965 on it’s final hearing. Visit this website and find out how to reach your senator. http:llwww.facebook.comll195662;www. oksenate.gov/Senators/maps.htm Toby Jenkins President, Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa; OK .......... ......... : ...... He was born in Oklahoma City on November 19, 1939. AaCter growing up there and graduating from Central High School he worked maW jobs before creating PRT Designs, His road to activism began when he was arrested after leaving a gay bar over 40 years ago on bogus charges of lewd conduct. Unlike almost any of his peers, he fought the charge and won. He continued to fight injustice wherever he saw it. In addition to activism in the gay community he also helped African Americans, serving on the board of the Oklahoma City NAACP for over 15 ),ears as well. ........ Metro Star Travel Column Now Online Kauai’s famed Na Pali Coast, with its 4, 000foot cli~ rMng big,§ above the sea. Photo by Andrew Collins A memorialput up on the Nix/2. 39th Street Strip Median at N.14z. 39th and Pennsylvania by Nathanid Batchelder qfthe Peace House Paul passed away March 8 at Baptist Integris Medical Center due to a stroke and subsequent heart failure. A memorial service was held for him at the 1st Unitarian Church March 14. Speakers included Laura Rhoads, who knew him as "Unde Paul" when he was her childhood friend, as well as former Oklahoma Commissioner Jim Roth. Followed by a potluck supper a multitude of his friends and fellow activists shared memories, lamented how far he’d brought us, and how to make his legacy live on. No ma#er who yot are on life’s journ~ 3131 ,R. Pennsylvania, Oklaho 405.525.9555 April 1,2010 �jobs in a nationwide search. By chance he found an executivedirector’s position open with Cimarron Alliance and his first thought was,, A gay organization in Oklahoma CitT, how is that possible?" He applied for the position and got it. With the encouragement of his partner ’,Wayne (still in New York but who will join him later) he has plans for a new direction fi~r himself and for Cimarron. One of his major concerns, as it is for all nonprofits, is how to achieve objectives or even survive in this type of economy. His answer, "You keep going because the needs do not abate just because money is tight. If you believe in social jnstice, that doesn’t stop until there is justice. " He has been pleasantly surprised at the financial contributions people have made recently to the organization, and those volunteering their time and talents as well. He also realizes that for a long time there was a perception that Cimarron is an organization primarily focused as being an elite group of white,~ wealthy, handsome gay men. When it was formed in 1995 a membership cost $250. Today there are no dues to join the organization, and the Cimarron Alliance PAC no longer exists. Currently the Foundation hosts an annual Stop Hate in the Hallways summit, which has been a major factor for school systems in Oldahoma considering or implementing anti-bullying policies that protect students who are GLBT or perceived to be from harassment, q-he main objective now is more outreach. As Scott stated, " One of my goals for " this year, besides raising enough money to pay the bills, is to demonstrate with sincerity and conviction that this is an organization that is approachable and dedicated to serving everyone in the community." Beginning in April Cimarron Alliance Foundation will begin a "411 Series" ofg0 minute presentations on various aspects of problems facing the GLBT community. Topics covered could include living with a partner who is an addict, tax problems, race or religion as well as all categories covered by Federal law. As of press time, the bill was headed to the Oldahoma State House of Representatives, but may undergo changes before it is voted on there. Senator Rice stated that he hopes the bill is stopped in the House or vetoed by the Governor. Pat Sund, a spokeman for Governor Henry, said the governor is watching the bill but has not yet made a decision as to whether he will sign it. Memori , David Osthoff OKI~AHOMA CITY, OK __ David Henry Osthoff lost his battle with an extended illness ~aursda~; February 25, 2010, in Oldahoma City. He was born September 26, 1953, in Hopewell, Virginia to Charline Ehrlich. David had several jobs through the years, but will mainly be remembered as a server at Gusher’s Restaurant for many years before returning to Cookson, OK to care for his mother. He enjoyed reading, gardening and playing pool in the Family Pool League. David was a very caring and compassionate person. He never judged people, never met a stranger and never forgot anyone’s birthday or anniversary. He was preceded in death by his loving mother and father Charline and Billie Ballew. He is survived by two brothers and a sister; six nieces and nephews, and many close friends. Special thanks to the staff at North Winds Living Center in .O,KC. A celebration of David s life is planned for Sunday; April 18th in The Finishline located inside The Habana Inn at 4:30 p.m. Londerm D, Raine captures the title of Miss Gay Lawton By Victor Gorin Contributing Writer domestic violence, health issues, inheritance laws, situations usually faced by people in general with unique aspects for GLBTs. How does it feel to be directing an organization like Cimarron in the reddest state in the country? Scott feels encouraged stating, " ~ have found pockets of folks who are progressive in their thinking, deeply committed to social justice in a personal way. W~ile this is m~ incredibly red state I think there’s hope because I see work being done, quietly moving forward. That lets me kmow justice is not an insurmountable problem." ~fhere will be monthly meetings at the office, encouraging networking with officers from other GLBT organizations. ~Ihey will happen at 5:30 p.m. the first Tuesday of every month. Now located at 729 N.W. 17th Street in Oklahoma City, they can be reached e-mail at info@CimarronAlliance.org or by phone at (405) 495 9300. Their website warw.cimarronalliance.org tn addition to the obvious intention to deny protection to GLBT Oklahomans, Senator l~dce pointed out that the bill, ,-is it was written, likewise prohibits Oklahoma law enforcement from providing evidence to Federal authorities investigating any category of hate crime committed in Oklahoma, including those committed due to the victings www.rnetrostarnews.com ~nner Londenn Raine with ~l[ie Laine, Miss Gay Lawton 1982 and Miss Gay Oklahoma 1983. Gorin photo OKd_AHOi~cb~ CITY, OK__ It was a glamorous nigl~t at Angles March 5 when the Londenne Raine was crowned the new Miss Gay Lawton 2010, with 1st alternate A_lanna Paige. As a preliminary to the Miss Gay Oklahoma Pageant, they wil! go on to compete in that event. Also performing at the occasion was our current Miss Gay Oklahoma Shantell Mandelay. Miss G~ Lawton is one of the longest running preliminary competitions to Miss Gay Oklahoma, which began in 1978. Now 29 years young, the first Miss Gay Lawton was Lady Paris in 1981.5 winners of this pageant have gone on to win the title mCMiss Gay Oklahoma, and one (.Jacqulyn DeVaroe) has won the title of Miss Gay America. The current promoter is Aubrey Stone, who is Miss Gay Lawton of 2004. Eureka Springs Diversity 2010: THE GAYLIEN EKEND EUREKA SPRINGS, AR (PR) __ Eureka, the little city in the hills of the Arkansas . Ozarks that has become the pride of diversity, is gearing up for 2010. Spring Diversity will be held on April 9 -11. The same weekend as the annual U~EO. Conference. You’re invited to come join the Gaylien invasion of NOT just a few city blocks, NOT just a small handful of business, but one entire city. What’s to do? Say "I DO" and register your love with a Domestic Partner Certificate. The Courthouse is closed Saturday and Sunday so come early Friday or hangover till Monday. Tnere are over 150 unique shops and galleries to browse or max out your credit card. To start your weekend drop by the Pizza Bar. The Pizza Sluts will host their third Diversity X~¢elcome Mixer there at 13 N. Main, on Friday, 6-8 PM. You can pickup a complete schedule of Diversity Weekend For more information visit wvc~v. eurekapride.com or diversitTpride.com Art Opening and Exhibit of Original Works by ’ Dennis R. Scott.. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Apri! exhibit at the Dennis tL Neill Equality Center Gallery will feature works by Dennis 1L Scott. If there were a simple way to describe his art, it would be called "accidental art" since art is the accident of discovery - the unexpected result of the meandering mind. Dennis Scott, a retired English teacher, resides in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is ~ writer, lyricist, poet, craftsman, and artist. He has previously exhibited and sold his art at Utica Arts in The Square Show, Blue Dome Festival, Dennis R. Neill° Equality Center Gallery, River Walk Arts Festival, Cherry Street Arts Festival, Brook Arts Festival and the Parsons, Kansas Art Walk. His art has been sold to clients as far away as Florence, Italy. Dennis Scott has been creating in the medium of digital "art" for the last six years. His work is unlike typical digital or computer art because his art depicts his own way of seeing life and interpreting what he sees. One could easily peg Dennis Scott’s art abstract, impressionistic, or surreal but categories are of little concern to him. The art exhibit at the Dennis R. O’Neil Equality Center Gallery in April titled "Les Belles Dames Nues" (Lovely Nal(ed Ladies) ,vill feature over 65 nude prints of Dennis Scott’s art with over 40 of the works never having been printed before. Dennis Scott’s nude art is tasteful, yet evocative. Please join us to visit with Dennis Scott at the Opening Night Reception on Tnursday, April 1, from 6 to 9pro. Refreshments will be served. Dennis’s art will be on display throughout April. Free help ~1ET}~OSTAR 5 �Supplements By Ronald Blake Contributing writer Haotv: Ronald Blake, Cerdfied Fitness Instructor throz<gh ISSA International Sports . SciencesAssociadon My best fi’iend said I should do it. My brother said t should definitely do it. My co-worker said I don’t need to do it. My neighbor has never done it. Everyone has an opinion on taking supplements for health and well being. Should you do it? I have an easy but nebulous answer: I don’t knovd Let me gather some information from you. If you have a food allergy then you might want to consider taking supplements. Someone lactose intolerant will not drink milk or eat dairy products. This aversion to Betsy the Cow could cause a deficiency in calcium. Someone with a gluten allergy might miss out on the benefits of thiamine and riboflavin. This too could require supplementation. If you are very athletic and push your body to the outer limits of sanity then you’re a likely candidate for extra nutrition. This would certainly include triathaletes, marathoners, or bodybuilders. A 40 hour work week, intense training, and housecleaning when you get home might lead to insipid intercourse intertwined with irascibility in the evening. That isn’t fun! These uber athletes should strongly consider supplementation to get those needed nutrients that lead to late-day copacetic copulation. If the ornitho!ogy creatures gathered at your birdfeeder are eating more than you then it might be time to purchase meal or drink supplements. It isn’t safe to take in less than 1000 calories per day and it can zap your energy xvhile depleting valuable mineral reserves like iron from your body. Consult the family doctor or a nutritionist for suggestions on getting what your body needs to function properly. If you drink like Karen Walker, Captain Jack Sparrmv, or Mayberry’s Otis Campbell then you are an excellent candidate for supplemental drinks or shakes. Alcohol can adversely affect the body’s absorption and metabolism of nutrients. Excessive alcohol ravages the liver and pancreas too. This al! means that the body doesn’t get the nutrients it really needs. tfyou take a blow torch to all your foods and frequendy use adjectives such as charred, burnt, crispy, or well done to describe your meal it is a good bet that supplements on a store shelf have your name on them. Overcooking foods usually destroys B-group, C, and E vitamins. Boiling vegetables can also denude beneficial vitamins and minerals and 6 NETROSTAR le,ave you needing rnore nutritional assistance. Light steaming of vegetables can keep the good stuffin and taste just as good. Dieting can cause a need for supplements too. Many dieters are now eliminating entire food groups fi’om their plates. That means these folks aren’t getting important vitamins and minerals that would normally come from these food groups. Eliminating all carbs, all fat, or all protein just isn’t wise. Talk with your medical experts about nutritional replacements for these lost foods. You could also just go back to being a regular human being and sensibly eating carbs, fat, and protein togethe~: MI of this information should really guide you toward a professional opinion now. Consult your doctor, a certified fitness trainer or a nutritionist to assist you with deciding if supplements are necessary for you. Your brother, your co-worker, and your neighbor probably aren’t doctors, a certified fitness trainer, or a nutritionist. With that advice and lmowledge move your thimble five spaces to GO and collect your nutrients and vitamins for improved health and wellness! ¯ N~is health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy ycho enjoys visits to Hooters despite his non-breeder status. That lover of wings guy is Ron Blake and he can be reached at www.myblakefimess.com. Tony Kushner Pulitz& Prize-Winning Playwright, To Appear On Sunday, April 18 . TULSA, OK (PR) __ Renowned screemvriter and creator of Angels in America, playwright Tony Kushner will make his first live appearance in Tulsa on Sunday, April 18, 20!0 at the Synagogue: Congregation B’nai Emunah. He willbe interviewed on this occasion by noted actor and filmmaker Tim Blake Nelson. The Synagguo e is located at the corner of Peoria and Seventeenth Street. Details are available on the Synagogue xvebsite: www. tu!sagogue.com. 3rd Mr. Gay US of A Contest held at Angles Amadeus York of Texas gets the tit]e By Victor Gorin Mr Gay US ofA MI in white Amadeus York with the previous winner Richard Cranium. Gorin photo OKI.~AHOMA CITY, OK__ For aficianados of male impersonation it was a night in heaven March 14 when the new winner was crowned Mr.Gay US of A M! ( male illusion). Beginning March 12 the contest opened with 50 contestants, narrowed down to 12 finalists on the Sunday night conclusion. Promoted by Brenda Quayle, the contest is part of the US of A pageantry system which is now in its 26th year of operation. Accompanying the contest was a silent auction benefitting Camp Kindle, an organization providing free camping programs for children and young adults infected or affected by HIV. Giving up his tide was Richard Cranium of Texas. The new winners were 2nd runnerup Windz of New York, 1st runnerup Chad Meridian of Arkansas, and the new Mr. Gay US of A M! Amadeus York of Texas. April 1, 2010 �"It would be good if readers and viewers see a different face each time there is an issue in the community," Kirby says. "The broader community should see different people." Kirby has always been willing to speak out on issues. He and his partner of 11 years are legally married in California and Kirby has been a tireless advocate of marriage equalityan issue that has gained momentum around the country in recent years but not budged in conservative leaning Oldahoma. Ending the ban on out GLBT servicemernbers in the US military has also been a cause near, dear - and personal to Kirby. He served in the Air Force at the end of the Vietnam War and several of his friends were discharged because they were gay. One of those friends was particularly special. "I lost a relationship that had been long term when he was discharged from the Air Force for being gay," Kirby says. "I don’t lmow if it would have worked out for life, but I felt a very personal pain." Kirby became active in the military issue after former President Bill Clintoffs efforts to lift the ban on GLBT servicemembers evolved into the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) policy that stands today. Since then he has joined in on lobbying efforts of the state delegation and lobbied organizations to which be belongs - the American Legion and the Non-Commissioned officers Association -- to support repealing the ban. With the current debate on repealing DADT, Kirby feels there is some progress being made (~ward equal rights to serve. ’ Each time the issue comes up, there are more and more people willing to support repealing the ban," he says. "Whether or not there are enough people now I don’t lmow. I think right now there is as good a chance as there has ever been. I wish the military ’~,,~,~v. metrosta rn ews.co rn would look at the other countries who have removed that ban - none of them have had any problems." Kirby says he is committed to continue pushing for his causes and for the advancement of the community. , For more information on OkEqs 30th Anniversary Equality Gala, visit www.okeq. org. Your life an open book on Drag Race The autobiography challenge sends the latest queen packing on Ru-Paul’s Drag Race By Bebe Zahara Benet As I travel all around the country to promote my new single, so many people have told me that this season’s Jessica Wild reminds them of me. I told my mija this during our interview this week, many things I loved about watching her on RuPaul s Drag Race. ticA ll reca~ ~foweek 7 andprevious shows ate online now. All 12 weeks will be posted on our website at: www. mewosta~ews.com ~(~t~°oSTAR 7 �April 1, 2010 �~v.metrostarnews.com �10 April 1, 2010 ��Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. Club Maverick Hosts 19th Annual O~t &About in OKC & Tulsa @ Finishline, Oklahoma City Straley. Gorin photo @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ The End Up, Tulsa , will be goin~ to the this coming April. The Leather Lifestvle has been around awhile in OHahoma, and @ Angles, Oklahoma City com. @Club 209, Tulsa @ The Cop& Oklahoma City puf " in Chri @Club Majestic, Tulsa 12 ~®t~oSTAR @ Ledo, Oklahoma City April 1, 2010 �by Jack Fertig April 2010 "Go back to basics, GeminW’ Saturn backing into Virgo reminds us to clean up old business before starting new relationships. Aspecting Uranus and Neptune, she’ll dig up complications that must be dealt with to make progress. Go slowly and carefully. You have until late July to get it right. ARIES (March 2(}-Apri~ 19): Recalculate the equation of any partnership that’s troubling you. Can or should it be saved? Strong instincts and inspiration could lead you astray, but probably contain a kernel of truth. Friends can help you reconcile those with reality. TAURUS (April 2(} - May 2(}): Feeling stuck at work can push you back to reexamine your goals. Where do you feel most creative, and what doyou really have to offer? If professional goals feel nebulous, frame the question in terms of your social ideals. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 20): While your goals and ideals seem to be in flux, go back to basics, The most relevant questions about reaching out to the world around you ar6 taught early in life. Be nice, share and try to learn. Community service can also help clear your head: SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 2(}): Clean up any loose ends and nasty rumors affecting your reputation. Helpful inspiration comes from your home and family. Advice from siblings and neighbors can seem confusing, but don’t take it too literally and it could prove valuable. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Coming toward a peak of your professional reputation, now is the time to get the word out about your achievements and services. Typos and snafus lie in wait. Be very attentive to those details! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You’re coming into a phase of your life where your ideas and your mind will be much challenged. Review what you believe and why. Confusion about who you are and what’s important can be a healthy stage of growth. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Feeling unsure about sex and relationships can be a good step toward greater awareness. OK, it’s uncomfortable now. Meditation and other quiet secluded retreats - some with your love, some without - will ease the exploration. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Discuss longstanding family issues with siblings, or community problems with neighbors. Things probably aren’t as dark and complicated as they feel. New perspectives will help if you’re willing to be _very_ open-minded. METROPOLITAN LEO (July 23 - August 22): New ideas and skills can help get you out of financial trouble, but first understand how and why you got into that trouble. You won’t get that on your own. Your partner or an advisor can help you figure it out. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Taking the weight of the world on your shoulders is bad for your health. Discussing problems with your partner, or a trusted friend or counselor, is necessary even if it’s aggravating. A mild exercise program (swimming?) and meditation help, UBRA (September 23 - October 22): It seems you can’t catch a break, so make one for yourself. Take time off to meditate and play. Settle your nerves and charge up your batteries. You need this. in the long run it’s the responsible thing to do! COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Uric Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Sunday 6:00 PM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM www.socmcc.org 69 Spread 70 Boston cager, briefly 771 Social customs 72 silence ~r Copland ,Output role fbr fodie 63 Initial stake " 65 Plumb of The Brady Bunch Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document THE PREMIER SOURCE FOR GLBT OKLAHOMA VOLUME 7 ISSUE 4 Twi~er.com/MetroStarNews to exempt Oklahoma Ha e Cr mes Law protecting GLBTs State Senate It is very sad that any lawmaker in Oklahoma would introduce legislation that would force Oklahoma law enforcement officials to violate ground brealdng Federal law that would extend legal protections to LGBT Oklahomans who may become victims of violence motivated by bigotry." Statement by State Senator Andrew Rice who was one of the 6 Senators who voted no. By Victor Gorin Contributing writer OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ SB 1965, introduced by State Senator Steven Russell ( Republican-District 45) deals mainly with the Fede~aI Hate Crimes expansion signed into law by President Obama in October 22,2009, which added Federal Hates crimes protection to include gender, sexual oriei~tation, gender identity and disability in addition to the already covered categories of agencies from sharing evidence or providing assistance ro Federal authorities if they are im~esrigating a hate crime in Oklahoma. It has passed the State Senate 39-6. Oklahoma Hate Crimes laws (Section 850 Title 21) cover race, color, tel igion, gender, disability, familial status and national origin. As sexual orientation and gender identity are not covered, hate crimes against GLBTs in the state of Oklahoma could not be prosecuted as such under state law, yet such a crime could be punished as a hate crime under Federal [axe; which passage of SB 1965 would attempt m change. However Constitutionally Federal Law supercedes state law. As Tamya Cox of Oldaboma’s ACLU puts it, "For example, if a bloody baseball bat was used in an Oklahoma hate crime against a gay person and it was held by state authorities who are most likely to be first on the scene, if this bill becomes law it could not be given to Federal authorities as evidence for prosecution." Since Oklahoma State Hate Crimes laws don’t covering GLBTs, SB 1965 would make it virtually impossible for hate crimes against GLBTs in Oklahoma to be successftdiv prosecuted as hate crimes. Scott J. Hamilton. Executive Director of the Cimarron Alliance stated, "\g)~e are appalled that the Oklahoma Senate would pass legislation that, in effect, green lights violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered citizens in this state. Not only is it unconstitutional, it is unconscionable. In the meantime our state vdll spend without limit to defend this in court. Oklahoma is in the midst of a budget crisis of historic proportions. I find it hard to believe that bigotry is so pervasive in our state that our policymakers would rather pass hate filled legislation than addressing failing schools and reductions in services for seniors." ........Continued See BILL 1965 Page-5 T lsa M tary Veteran Kelly rbv honored by O ahomans for By Michael xYZ Sasser TULSA, OK Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) is set to h--~nor Tulsa accountant Kelly ~rby with a Lifetime Achievement Award on April 24 at their 30th Anniversary Equality Gala. "I have to say that at 56 years old the word ’lifetime’ is a little daunting," says the aftable longtime activist. Kirby is being honored for 20 years of major activism for the Oklahoma GLBT community. "I appreciate the fact that they are recognizin,g my accomplishments," Kirby says. I think what I have done is important and I would have done it without aW recognition of it." Kelly WKirby 1974 at age 20, United States Air Force, honorguard dress uniform. ® MetroStarNews.com APRIL 1,2010 Pau Robert ompsor A lifetime ofservice-forever a By Victor Gorin Contributing writer (1939-2010) OKLAHOMA CITY, OK Among Oklahomans who take an interest in equality and justice there are very fe~v who didn’t know about Paul Thompson, and many knew him xvell as he -worked hard to make Oklahoma better until his life ended. At least 2 generations ofactivists worked beside him, enduring the heartbreak ofsetbacks and the joys ofvictories as history marched on. His energy was tireless, chairing meetings, working with bureaucracies, organizing events, making speeches, doing mailings, and on and gacy on. Although he had his own business, PRT Designs (interior decorating), his true passion was working with people for justice. He was well known for his outspoken pride clearly shown by his trademark outfits, which included xvearing a different rainbow color with matching socks every day. He co-chaired the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus from 1992 until 2010, and was active for many years with the Oklahoma Democratic Party. He also played a significant role in organizing Oklahoma City’s first Pride Parade in 1988, a true ~ilestone not only for Oklahoma City but rather the entire GLBT community of Oklahoma. That event was a major turning point in Oklahoma, with the KKK waiting in the Safexvay (now Homeland) parking tot on N.-W. 39th Street to stop the "queer parade." But that event had a happy ending as fellow activist Jim Ninamo put xt, "When they saw how many participants were marching, they tucked their tails and left." The rest was history, with that proud tradition continuing today. Paul served as the Male Co- Chair for the OKC Pride Parade and Festival for many years until 2009, when he was given a Chairmanship Emeritus Award for his service. ........Continued See THOMPSON Page-4 For more than two decades, Kirby has been a visible activist for GLBT issues with an emphasis on marriage equality and for gay and lesbian service members. It hasn’t always been an easy role to play. On \Vorld A~DS Day in 1991, Kirby participated in a smal! demonstration in Tulsa on a wet, rainy night. Unbeknownst to him, his photo was taken and the next day appeared in a newspaper. "1 lost a relationship that had been long term when he was discharged from the Air Force for being gay," Kirby says. "I got a phone call from my biggest client the next da)~" Kirby remembers. "q-he mvner of the company asked me ifI had the opportunity to make a statement for my cause, if I would do it. I hadn’t really thought about it until then, but I said that yes, I probably would. An hour later, I was fired and lost two-thirds ofmy business. I basically had to start over from scratch building my business. I guess that was my activist wake-up call." _*Kirby said that "he hasn’t shut up"" since then, giving well over 100 interviews and malting sure his clients know he might end up in the media. "A lot of people in Tulsa feel that they can’t speak up because of family or community or work," Kirby says. "I had to get past that." Still Kirby said he believes different people should be featured by media as representative of the state GLBT community. ........Continued See KIRBY Page-7 Cimarron Alliance Moves Forward with new- O ces and a Dynamic Director By Victor Gorin Contributing writer Margaret Cox proudly cutting the ribbon held by the new Executive Director Scott J. Hamilton, with Lisa Ptsiri of the Oldahoma City Chamber of Commerce looking on. Gorin photo OKLM-IOMA CITY, OK__ Cimarron Alliance Group was formed in 1995 as a political action committee (PAC) focused on equality for the GLBT community in Oldaho,na. Although other groups existed at that time, anaong them the Oldahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus, the Mliance was a venture of successful business people and professionals who would be able to give serious financial backing to deserving candidates seeking public office as well as put on events for the GLBT community. First chaired by the late Bill Rogers, the organization became a major force for the GLBT community and the Oldalxoma political landscape. In 1997 the Cimarron Alliance Foundation was formed as a 501(c)(3) organization, a nonprofit status which enables an organization to, among other things, accept contributions which are tax deductible to the giver. While this type of organization is prohibited fi’om most political activity, including contributing to or promoting candidates or political parties, the CAF was focused on educational issues facing the GLBT community, informing not only them but also straights as well. In this endeavor they have held events such as their annual Leadership Summit, which is a convention of leadership from all GLBT groups. They made history in 2001 when their Gay Pride banners for Oklalmma City light poles were oMered taken down by then Mayor Kirk Humphreys. They took the city 1:o Federal court and on September 13,2002 Judge Robin Cauthron ruled that the banners were protected by Federal free speech rights mandated by the U.S. Constitution. Redesigned in 1997, the Pride banners still fly on special occasions. Now as we face a new decade with pride facing prejudice, especially with opposition to GLBT equality clearly shown to be alive and kicking in Oldahoma, Cimarron is facing challenge as they undergo change. For the first time they have an office, !ocated at 729 N.gi. 17th Street in OHahoma City. Likewise they now have their first fulltirne Executive Director Scott J. Hamilton, a native Otdahoman. A~er many years in New York City with many ventures he has returned home to fight for equality. Born inI960 in south Oklalmma City, he graduated as a valedictorian of Capitol Hill High School in 1978. He later graduated from OU with a Bachelor’s Degree in Journalism, and his first job was being a promoter for the Oldahoma Opry, an Oldahoma City venue for country and western musicians. He later took a far better paying position with an oil company but lost that job during the oil bust of 1983, actually driving to the unemployment office in a Mercedes. What followed was a variety of ventures to pay the bills, ranging from teaching junior high school chorus to painting garage doors to makJng doughnuts, among other endeavors. Finally he flew to New York City (the Mercedes long gone) with 3 suitcases and $200 to meet a friend awaiting he could stay vdth. Doing writing and consulting for an import/export business, he moved on to success with the advertising agency Charron, Schwartz and Partners. Walking through the subway one fateful day beneath Grand Central Station he saw Wayne Johnson, a gentleman that would prove to be a soulmate. As the relationship came together, Scott came out at work (no problem) and they legally married in Connecticut. Following this, he got involved working with nonprofit organizations. Finding himself laid off, he began checking around for other ....... Continued See ClMARRON Page 5 2 April 1, 2010 is T.E.N? By Robin D-Townsend Contributing Writer 7he Equalily Network, or TEN. is comprised of three organizational entities: TENPAC, TEN, and TENInstitute. Pictured above is Laura Belmonte. an activist who is also i4ce President and Co-Founder ofTEN. Townsendphoto TULSA. OK TEN, or "The Equality Network" is a non-partisan statewide organization working to achieve equality and secure legal protection for tesbian. ga)~ bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Oklahomans through advocacy, coalition building and individual empowerment in the political process. Founded in 2009. TEN is comprised of three organizational entities: TEN PAC, TEN, and TEN Institute. "Over the last decade or so that I’ve worked for LGBT equalityin Oklahoma I’ve become increasingly impressed with the amazing progress statewide LGBT advocacy groups are having elsewhere," said Laura Belmonte, Vice President and Co-Founder of TEN. "Last year a number of positive forces converged and we concluded that the timing xvas right to implement a three-pronged strategy of ’educate, advocate, elect.’" Belrnonte also has a PhD amd is currently Director ofAmerican Studies and associate professor ofArnerican History at Oklahoma State University. "The launching ofTEN is the fulfilhnent of a personal dream and I feel very fortunate ro have the opportunity to work ~vith such a committed and talented group of people," adds Belmonte. "Each day, we are hearing from people all over the state - most in places where there is no organized effort for LGBT equality - and we are quite encouraged by the alliances that are developing. With time, effort, and a lot of help we think that TEN can help make some positive changes for LGBT Oklahomans." TEN is affiliated with the Equality Federation (vrww.equalityfederation.org), the national alliance of state-based LGBT advocacy organizations. Collectively these state groups have compiled a remarkable string of pro-equality victories on a range of issues including workplace fairness, antibullying and relationship recognition. Even a small group ofw!!l-prepared constituents can make a powerful impression on a legislator. Legislators need to hear from people who support LGBT equality all the time, not only at times when the LGBT community is being targeted. "The board combines people with professional and non-professional experience in lobbying and advocacy at the state and local levels on causes as varied as LGBT rights, animal protection, HIV/A.IDS, economic injustice, and gender equality," adds Belmonte. "This wilt be a continua!, longterm effort. It is going to take time and effort to move Oklalaoma toward more inclusive ~nd just public policies for LGBT people." For more information you may contact Belmonte at lbelmonte@theequalitynetwork. org or 918.906.2134. Our web site is ~wcw. theequalitynetwork.org. You can also find TEN on Facebook and Twitter (follow TENEquality). Openly Gay Norman City Councilman wins re-election but now is running for State House NORMAN, OK (PR) __ When Tom Kovach was first elected to the Norman City Council in 2008, he wasn’t the first openly gay person to do so. That milestone was achieved by David Ray in 2002, but Tom did have the distinction of being the second, and of being re-elected unopposed this year. He represents Ward 2. However, as State Representative Bil! Nations of District 44 is leaving office due to term limits, Tom Kovach has announced he is running for that office as a Democrat, His stated reasoning, " Sometimes government produces ideas that in the light of day lack common sense. I have always been willing to speak out on those occasions as the voice of the people, and I remains so." "Throughout my years in Norman I have worked with people from all walks of life, helping them find solutions to the problems they faced. I have done so as a union leader, a smal! business owner and now as a local business executive. I accomplished these things through honesty, respectful communication and a willingness to hear all sides of an issue, the same qualities that will mark my service as your next state representative." He has lived in the district more than 40 years, graduating from OU with a degree in Letters. He currently works as a Customer Service Manager for Astromomics, a leading U.S. dealer and producer of quality optics. He and his partner Will Weir are active in many social service agencies in the Norman area, and look forward to doing more for their fellow Oklahomans. A Toast to Life It’s time to Paint the Town Robert! By Robin D-Townsend Contributing W-riter Other Options andFriends Food Pantry board president, Robert Painter tu,ws 40 in Apriland isplanninga huge_f!~ndraising eventfor t,§e organization to celebrate the occasion. Townsend photo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK It’s a birthday bash like none other. Turning 40 is Robert Painter, famous for his ’best little tact stand down by the tracks,’ (a.k.a., ~lhe Iguana Mexican Grill). Painter is also the board president of Other Options, Inc (OOI) and has chosen to celebrate ’the big 4-0’ in a very unique way. "Our Toast to Life event is the signature fundraiser for Other Options and it is held annually in April?said Painter. ~Ttpril also happens to be the same month as my birthday. I really w~tnted to take advantage of the name Ihave made for myself to help an or,ga,~)ization who has done so much for people.’ Painter became acquainted with OOI when his dear friend, Tim Wade ~vas diagnosed with HIV. The only place he could find immediate help at no cost in Oklahoma City was at Other Options. This is where Painter met Mary Arbuclde, Executive Director ofOOI and Friends Food Pantry. Wade found assistance with medication, food and other support services at OOI. Sadly, Wade passed away in 2009 but Painter has kep,t, his memory alive by giving back. The bigge,,st thing we [O~I] need is our own building, adds Painter. That is why our goal is $40,000 for this event and I think we can do it." Forty seems to be the magic number. Since 1989 Other Options in Oklahoma City has provided professional, consistent services to people who are HIV positive and disabled individuals, focusing on the impact HIV/AIDS has had in the lives of those they serve. The mission of Other Options is to create a better understanding of HIV/AIDS, provide training, guidance and provide educational directories that link the affected community to services. The venue will include live music, various artists and entertainers, dancing, and deadCenter will be showing films on the big screen, there will be a fashion show and a silent auction will be held. Another unique part of this event will be the art gallery featuring Oklahoma City artists Debbie Curtis, Joe Slack, Ben Potter, Brent Weber and Bryan Boone. Other surprises are also in store. ~Toast to Life; Paint the Town Robert,’ vdtl be held on April 10th at 7:40pm at 25 NW 9th (just \grest ofNae Iguana). Tickets for the event are $40 and will include food, drink, entertainment and parldng. For tickets or to make a donation please call (405) 605- 8020. Reserve tickets are requested; the event is free to clients of Other Options. 1st Annual Tulsa Violence Symposium In Memory of Joseph Walker-Hoover Jaheem Herrera TULSA, OK (PR) April 16, 2010 hosted by Youth Services ofTulsa. Nae event will take place at Langston University Tulsa starting at 9AM. Registration to attend this event is not necessary. The event will address national and local concerns about the growing problems of student-on-student abuse in our communities - Bullying, Dating Violence/Date Rape, and Domestic Violence. Ifyou would like to schedule a booth for your organization, please contact Michael Merryman at 918.382-4429, or email to mmerryman@yst.org. ’uPtcv - Civil Rights *Criminal ment Family Law - Litigation 625 N.W. t S.th Street a City, OK www.metrostarnews.com [vIETROSTAR 3 Dear Editor, from hatred and discrimination? X~y is Sen. I wanted to share the letter Congresswoman Mary Fallin sent to me in response to my letter regarding EDNA and The Matthew Shepard Hate Crimes Bill and the reaction of the Oldahoma Legislature. Russell afraid of gay/lesbian equality under the law? Senator Russell just can’t stop fighting wars and looking for enemies. He should reenlist and put his life back on the line, for his country of course. Kendell Powers Oklahoma Civ/ James Nimmo Oklahoma City, OK March 8, 2010 Dear Editor, Mr. Kendel Powers 600 Northwest 23rd Street, Suite 101 Oklahoma City, OK 73103-1464 Dear Mr. Powers: that still mean something to the people of Oklahoma, the law is so vaguely defined and so unenforceable that it seems to be more of a handout to trial lavo,ers than anything else. As your Representative, I stand for religious liberty and people of all faiths and oppose a convoluted, vaguely defined and unenforceable set of new regulations governing personal behavior and hiring practices. Thank you again for taking the time to share your ideas and concerns. As the 11 lth Congress addresses the man), challenges facing our nation, I hope you will continue to share your thoughts and vie,vs with me. However, due to increased security measures, mail delivery may be delayed for up to two weeks. Accordingly, I encourage you to visit my website at ,aw~v.fallin.house.gov to contact me via email in the future. While visiting my site you may also sign up for my e-newsletter as well as find usefu! information about the 11 lth Congress. Sincerely Mary Fallin Member of Congress Dear Editor, OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Hunting season is on for gays and lesbians as long as the Oklahoma Legislature is in session. If the rednecks don’t get us the suit-and-tie boys will. Not content with passing SQ 71 ! in 2004 making marriage only bet~veen one man and one woman as many times as they like, the Senate has just passed 39-6 a bill (SB1965) to opt out of the recentl~ passed federal Shepard/Byrd Hate Crime~ I[aw. ~e bill nmv goes to the House side of the Capitol. Senate Bill 1965 seems optimistically numbered in that I’m sure Sen. Russell, the sponsor, and 38 of his colleagues on both sides of the aisle would like to return to the year 1965 ifno~ earlier, when gays and lesbians knew that our place was not alongside other Americans but rather in the closet of narrow, scared shadows with the door hinges well rusted. ~e voting record is located here: http://tinyurl.com/ycgog86 It’s odd that many of these legislators weren’t even born then or were very young. Where did they learn such animosity towards strangers that never did them any harm? Surely not in their church pews or at their dinner tables, do you think? After all, African-Americans had just achieved a legal victory in 1965 with the ’passage of the Civil Rights and Voting Acts for which white bigots thought the sky would fall in. The sky did not fal! in and it won’t fall in when gays and lesbians achieve our social and legal victory over the bigots of Oldahoma. 2q~e only thing lost will be the legal right bigots so jealously retain to impose their ignorance over the rest of us. According to Sen. Russell’s legislative webpage he has a serious military record and several medals. If medals are a mark of bravery why is Sen. Russell so afraid of gays and lesbians that he sponsors bills that remove them from the protection of the law and maintain their second-class status as taxpayers--second-class in that gay/lesbian money is ACcepted for payment of taxes yet we are EXcepted when it comes to protection Thank you for taking the time to contact me about the Employment Non- Discrimination Act. Understanding your ideas and concerns is important to me, as it helps me to better represent you and the Fifth District of Oklahoma. The Employment Non-Discrimination Act, or ENDA, would extend existing provisions of Federal law to prohibit employment discrimination on the basis of "actual or perceived" sexual orientation. The bill expands civil rights protections on the vague basis of perception, requiring courts to determine an employer’s thoughts when an employment action is taken. Currently Title \HI prohibits workplace harassment that is based on race, color, religion, sex, or national origin. This legislation is anotber example of political correctness gone wrong. This bill is constitutionally questionable, weakens both state and federal marriage laws, and creates a legal trap for businesses, schools, and people of faith. I have long opposed the government’s creeping assault on the faithbased values our country was founded on, the flaws in this bill are numerous and obvious. ENDA is inconsistent with the rights guaranteed by the Religious Freedom Restoration Act (PdaRA), which prohibits the Federal Government from substantially burdening the free exercise of religion. It nullifies the rights of some religious schools which, although not "controlled, managed or owned by a specific religion," may still consider religious faith and traditional moral values to be an essential part of their curriculum. This opens some of Oldahomds most successful faith-based institutions to unconstitutional government involvement and supervision. Without a blanket exemption for all religious educational institutions, nondenominational religious schools will be forced to operate under government review of curriculum and constant fear of litigation. The.proposed legislation makes a protected class based on sexual behavim; which will jeopardize our constitutional rights to freedom of speech and religious expression. ENDA is a direct attack on individual religious freedoms and creares a lega! tightrope for employers over which law to follow and violate. Employers with rnoral or religious beliefs opposed to homosexualiV will be forced to lay down their rights and convictions at the door, creating a hostile work environment. In addition to ENDA’s blatant disregard for traditional values, values Hawaii’s Garden Isle: Kauai, In terms of scenery, the one Hawaiian island that comes closest to living up to the expectations of many first-time visitors is Kauai, a comparatively small but magnificently lush isle of rain forests, towering seaside cliffs and seduded beaches. Sumptuous full-service resorts to quaint B&B’s. A list of where to stay and things to do now online in our Travel Section @ www.MetroStarNews.com TULSA, OK__ Senate Bil! 1965 has to be defeated. This bill would restrict Oklahoma law enforcement from complying with the federal justice department during a hate biased crime investigation. The bill’s author, State Senator Steven Russell, has suggested the Federal Hate Crimes Prevention Act would restrict free speech (aka ministers preaching against homosexuality). So the Oklahoma Senate has refused to hear bills that would assist victims ofliate biased crimes but have tentatively approved another bill that would remove any hope of justice for LGBT victims ofviolence. This is unacceptable and I strongly urge everyone to contact their State Senator and challenge them to not approve Senate Bill 1965 on it’s final hearing. Visit this website and find out how to reach your senator. http:llwww.facebook.comll195662;www. oksenate.gov/Senators/maps.htm TobyJenkins President, Oklahomans for Equality Tulsa; OK .......... ......... : ...... ........ Metro Star Travel Column Now Online Kauai’sfamedNa Pali Coast, with its 4, 000- foot cli~ rMng big,§ above the sea. Photo by Andrew Collins He was born in Oklahoma City on November 19, 1939. AaCter growing up there and graduating from Central High School he worked maW jobs before creating PRT Designs, His road to activism began when he was arrested after leaving a gay bar over 40 years ago on bogus charges of lewd conduct. Unlike almost any of his peers, he fought the charge and won. He continued to fight injustice wherever he saw it. In addition to activism in the gay community he also helped African Americans, serving on the board of the Oklahoma City NAACP for over 15 ),ears as well. A memorialput up on the Nix/2. 39th Street Strip Median at N.14z. 39th andPennsylvania by NathanidBatchelder qfthe Peace House Paul passed away March 8 at Baptist Integris Medical Center due to a stroke and subsequent heart failure. A memorial service was held for him at the 1st Unitarian Church March 14. Speakers included Laura Rhoads, who knew him as "Unde Paul" when he was her childhood friend, as well as former Oklahoma Commissioner Jim Roth. Followed by a potluck supper a multitude of his friends and fellow activists shared memories, lamented how far he’d brought us, and how to make his legacy live on. No ma#er who yot are on life’s journ~ 3131 ,R. Pennsylvania,Oklaho 405.525.9555 4 tsv{~£T~qOSTAR April 1,2010 jobs in a nationwide search. By chance he found an executivedirector’s position open with Cimarron Alliance and his first thought was,, A gay organization in Oklahoma CitT, how is that possible?" He applied for the position and got it. With the encouragement of his partner ’,Wayne (still in New York but who will join him later) he has plans for a new direction fi~r himself and for Cimarron. One of his major concerns, as it is for all nonprofits, is how to achieve objectives or even survive in this type of economy. His answer, "You keep going because the needs do not abate just because money is tight. If you believe in social jnstice, that doesn’t stop until there is justice. " He has been pleasantly surprised at the financial contributions people have made recently to the organization, and those volunteering their time and talents as well. He also realizes that for a long time there was a perception that Cimarron is an organization primarily focused as being an elite group of white,~ wealthy, handsome gay men. When it was formed in 1995 a membership cost $250. Today there are no dues to join the organization, and the Cimarron Alliance PAC no longer exists. Currently the Foundation hosts an annual Stop Hate in the Hallways summit, which has been a major factor for school systems in Oldahoma considering or implementing anti-bullying policies that protect students who are GLBT or perceived to be from harassment, q-he main objective now is more outreach. As Scott stated, " One of my goals for " this year, besides raising enough money to pay the bills, is to demonstrate with sincerity and conviction that this is an organization that is approachable and dedicated to serving everyone in the community." Beginning in April Cimarron Alliance Foundation will begin a "411 Series" ofg0 minute presentations on various aspects of problems facing the GLBT community. Topics covered could include living with a partner who is an addict, tax problems, domestic violence, health issues, inheritance laws, situations usually faced by people in general with unique aspects for GLBTs. How does it feel to be directing an organization like Cimarron in the reddest state in the country? Scott feels encouraged stating, " ~ have found pockets of folks who are progressive in their thinking, deeply committed to social justice in a personal way. W~ile this is m~ incredibly red state I think there’s hope because I see work being done, quietly moving forward. That lets me kmow justice is not an insurmountable problem." ~fhere will be monthly meetings at the office, encouraging networking with officers from other GLBT organizations. ~Ihey will happen at 5:30 p.m. the first Tuesday of every month. Now located at 729 N.W. 17th Street in Oklahoma City, they can be reached e-mail at info@CimarronAlliance.org or by phone (405) 495 9300. Their website warw.cimarronalliance.org tn addition to the obvious intention to deny protection to GLBT Oklahomans, Senator l~dce pointed out that the bill, ,-is it was written, likewise prohibits Oklahoma law enforcement from providing evidence to Federal authorities investigating any category of hate crime committed in Oklahoma, including those committed due to the victings race or religion as well as all categories covered by Federal law. As of press time, the bill was headed to the Oldahoma State House of Representatives, but may undergo changes before it is voted on there. Senator Rice stated that he hopes the bill is stopped in the House or vetoed by the Governor. Pat Sund, a spokeman for Governor Henry, said the governor is watching the bill but has not yet made a decision as to whether he will sign it. Memori , David Osthoff OKI~AHOMA CITY, OK __ David Henry Osthoff lost his battle with an extended illness ~aursda~; February 25, 2010, in Oldahoma City. He was born September 26, 1953, in Hopewell, Virginia to Charline Ehrlich. David had several jobs through the years, but will mainly be remembered as a server at Gusher’s Restaurant for many years before returning to Cookson, OK to care for his mother. He enjoyed reading, gardening and playing pool in the Family Pool League. David was a very caring and compassionate person. He never judged people, never met a stranger and never forgot anyone’s birthday or anniversary. He was preceded in death by his loving mother and father Charline and Billie Ballew. He is survived by two brothers and a sister; six nieces and nephews, and many close friends. Special thanks to the staff at North Winds Living Center in .O,KC. A celebration of David s life is planned for Sunday; April 18th in The Finishline located inside The Habana Inn at 4:30 p.m. Londerm D, Raine captures the title ofMiss Gay Lawton By Victor Gorin Contributing Writer ~nner Londenn Raine with ~l[ie Laine, Miss Gay Lawton 1982 andMiss Gay Oklahoma 1983. Gorin photo OKd_AHOi~cb~ CITY, OK__ It was a glamorous nigl~t at Angles March 5 when the Londenne Raine was crowned the new Miss Gay Lawton 2010, with 1st alternate A_lanna Paige. As a preliminary to the Miss Gay Oklahoma Pageant, they wil! go on to compete in that event. Also performing at the occasion was our current Miss Gay Oklahoma Shantell Mandelay. Miss G~ Lawton is one of the longest running preliminary competitions to Miss Gay Oklahoma, which began in 1978. Now 29 years young, the first Miss Gay Lawton was Lady Paris in 1981.5 winners of this pageant have gone on to win the title mCMiss Gay Oklahoma, and one (.Jacqulyn DeVaroe) has won the title of Miss Gay America. The current promoter is Aubrey Stone, who is Miss Gay Lawton of 2004. Eureka Springs Diversity 2010: THE GAYLIEN EKEND EUREKA SPRINGS, AR (PR) __ Eureka, the little city in the hills of the Arkansas . Ozarks that has become the pride of diversity, is gearing up for 2010. Spring Diversity will be held on April 9 -11. The same weekend as the annual U~EO. Conference. You’re invited to come join the Gaylien invasion of NOT just a few city blocks, NOT just a small handful of business, but one entire city. What’s to do? Say "I DO" and register your love with a Domestic Partner Certificate. The Courthouse is closed Saturday and Sunday so come early Friday or hangover till Monday. Tnere are over 150 unique shops and galleries to browse or max out your credit card. To start your weekend drop by the Pizza Bar. The Pizza Sluts will host their third Diversity X~¢elcome Mixer there at 13 N. Main, on Friday, 6-8 PM. You can pickup a complete schedule of Diversity Weekend For more information visit wvc~v. eurekapride.com or diversitTpride.com Art Opening and Exhibit ofOriginal Works by ’ Dennis R. Scott.. TULSA, OK (PR) __ The Apri! exhibit at the Dennis tL Neill Equality Center Gallery will feature works by Dennis 1L Scott. If there were a simple way to describe his art, it would be called "accidental art" since art is the accident of discovery - the unexpected result of the meandering mind. Dennis Scott, a retired English teacher, resides in Tulsa, Oklahoma. He is ~ writer, lyricist, poet, craftsman, and artist. He has previously exhibited and sold his art at Utica Arts in The Square Show, Blue Dome Festival, Dennis R. Neill° Equality Center Gallery, River Walk Arts Festival, Cherry Street Arts Festival, Brook Arts Festival and the Parsons, Kansas Art Walk. His art has been sold to clients as far away as Florence, Italy. Dennis Scott has been creating in the medium of digital "art" for the last six years. His work is unlike typical digital or computer art because his art depicts his own way of seeing life and interpreting what he sees. One could easily peg Dennis Scott’s art abstract, impressionistic, or surreal but categories are of little concern to him. The art exhibit at the Dennis R. O’Neil Equality Center Gallery in April titled "Les Belles Dames Nues" (Lovely Nal(ed Ladies) ,vill feature over 65 nude prints of Dennis Scott’s art with over 40 of the works never having been printed before. Dennis Scott’s nude art is tasteful, yet evocative. Please join us to visit with Dennis Scott at the Opening Night Reception on Tnursday, April 1, from 6 to 9pro. Refreshments will be served. Dennis’s art will be on display throughout April. Free help www.rnetrostarnews.com ~1ET}~OSTAR 5 Supplements By Ronald Blake Contributing writer Haotv: Ronald Blake, Cerdfied Fitness Instructor throz<gh ISSA International Sports . SciencesAssociadon My best fi’iend said I should do it. My brother said t should definitely do it. My co-worker said I don’t need to do it. My neighbor has never done it. Everyone has an opinion on taking supplements for health and well being. Should you do it? I have an easy but nebulous answer: I don’t knovd Let me gather some information from you. If you have a food allergy then you might want to consider taking supplements. Someone lactose intolerant will not drink milk or eat dairy products. This aversion to Betsy the Cow could cause a deficiency in calcium. Someone with a gluten allergy might miss out on the benefits of thiamine and riboflavin. This too could require supplementation. Ifyou are very athletic and push your body to the outer limits of sanity then you’re a likely candidate for extra nutrition. This would certainly include triathaletes, marathoners, or bodybuilders. A 40 hour work week, intense training, and housecleaning when you get home might lead to insipid intercourse intertwined with irascibility in the evening. That isn’t fun! These uber athletes should strongly consider supplementation to get those needed nutrients that lead to late-day copacetic copulation. If the ornitho!ogy creatures gathered at your birdfeeder are eating more than you then it might be time to purchase meal or drink supplements. It isn’t safe to take in less than 1000 calories per day and it can zap your energy xvhile depleting valuable mineral reserves like iron from your body. Consult the family doctor or a nutritionist for suggestions on getting what your body needs to function properly. If you drink like Karen Walker, Captain Jack Sparrmv, or Mayberry’s Otis Campbell then you are an excellent candidate for supplemental drinks or shakes. Alcohol can adversely affect the body’s absorption and metabolism of nutrients. Excessive alcohol ravages the liver and pancreas too. This al! means that the body doesn’t get the nutrients it really needs. tfyou take a blow torch to all your foods and frequendy use adjectives such as charred, burnt, crispy, or well done to describe your meal it is a good bet that supplements on a store shelf have your name on them. Overcooking foods usually destroys B-group, C, and E vitamins. Boiling vegetables can also denude beneficial vitamins and minerals and le,ave you needing rnore nutritional assistance. Light steaming of vegetables can keep the good stuffin and taste just as good. Dieting can cause a need for supplements too. Many dieters are now eliminating entire food groups fi’om their plates. That means these folks aren’t getting important vitamins and minerals that would normally come from these food groups. Eliminating all carbs, all fat, or all protein just isn’t wise. Talk with your medical experts about nutritional replacements for these lost foods. You could also just go back to being a regular human being and sensibly eating carbs, fat, and protein togethe~: MI of this information should really guide you toward a professional opinion now. Consult your doctor, a certified fitness trainer or a nutritionist to assist you with deciding if supplements are necessary for you. Your brother, your co-worker, and your neighbor probably aren’t doctors, a certified fitness trainer, or a nutritionist. With that advice and lmowledge move your thimble five spaces to GO and collect your nutrients and vitamins for improved health and wellness! ¯ N~is health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy ycho enjoys visits to Hooters despite his non-breeder status. That lover ofwings guy is Ron Blake and he can be reached at www.myblakefimess.com. Tony Kushner Pulitz& Prize-Winning Playwright, To Appear On Sunday, April 18 . TULSA, OK (PR) __ Renowned screemvriter and creator ofAngels in America, playwright Tony Kushner will make his first live appearance in Tulsa on Sunday, April 18, 20!0 at the Synagogue: Congregation B’nai Emunah. He willbe interviewed on this occasion by noted actor and filmmaker Tim Blake Nelson. The Synagguoe is located at the corner of Peoria and Seventeenth Street. Details are available on the Synagogue xvebsite: www. tu!sagogue.com. 3rd Mr. Gay US ofA Contest held at Angles Amadeus York ofTexas gets the tit]e By Victor Gorin Mr Gay US ofA MI in white Amadeus York with theprevious winner Richard Cranium. Gorin photo OKI.~AHOMA CITY, OK__ For aficianados of male impersonation it was a night in heaven March 14 when the new winner was crowned Mr.Gay US ofA M! ( male illusion). Beginning March 12 the contest opened with 50 contestants, narrowed down to 12 finalists on the Sunday night conclusion. Promoted by Brenda Quayle, the contest is part of the US ofA pageantry system which is now in its 26th year of operation. Accompanying the contest was a silent auction benefitting Camp Kindle, an organization providing free camping programs for children and young adults infected or affected by HIV. Giving up his tide was Richard Cranium ofTexas. The new winners were 2nd runnerup Windz ofNew York, 1st runnerup Chad Meridian ofArkansas, and the new Mr. Gay US ofA M! Amadeus York ofTexas. 6 NETROSTAR April 1, 2010 "It would be good if readers and viewers see a different face each time there is an issue in the community," Kirby says. "The broader community should see different people." Kirby has always been willing to speak out on issues. He and his partner of 11 years are legally married in California and Kirby has been a tireless advocate of marriage equalityan issue that has gained momentum around the country in recent years but not budged in conservative leaning Oldahoma. Ending the ban on out GLBT servicemernbers in the US military has also been a cause near, dear - and personal to Kirby. He served in the Air Force at the end of the Vietnam War and several of his friends were discharged because they were gay. One of those friends was particularly special. "I lost a relationship that had been long term when he was discharged from the Air Force for being gay," Kirby says. "I don’t lmow if it would have worked out for life, but I felt a very personal pain." Kirby became active in the military issue after former President Bill Clintoffs efforts to lift the ban on GLBT servicemembers evolved into the Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell (DADT) policy that stands today. Since then he has joined in on lobbying efforts of the state delegation and lobbied organizations to which be belongs - the American Legion and the Non-Commissioned officers Association -- to support repealing the ban. With the current debate on repealing DADT, Kirby feels there is some progress being made (~ward equal rights to serve. ’ Each time the issue comes up, there are more and more people willing to support repealing the ban," he says. "Whether or not there are enough people now I don’t lmow. I think right now there is as good a chance as there has ever been. I wish the military would look at the other countries who have removed that ban - none of them have had any problems." Kirby says he is committed to continue pushing for his causes and for the advancement of the community. , For more information on OkEqs 30th Anniversary Equality Gala, visit www.okeq. org. Your life an open book on Drag Race The autobiography challenge sends the latest queen packing on Ru-Paul’s Drag Race By Bebe Zahara Benet As I travel all around the country to promote my new single, so many people have told me that this season’s Jessica Wild reminds them of me. I told my mija this during our interview this week, many things I loved about watching her on RuPaul s Drag Race. ticAll reca~ ~foweek 7andprevious shows ate online now. All 12 weeks will be posted on our website at: www. mewosta~ews.com ’~,,~,~v. metrostarnews.corn ~(~t~°oSTAR 7 April 1, 2010 ~v.metrostarnews.com 10 April 1, 2010 Photo’s by Victor G. & Judy G. O~t &About in OKC & Tulsa @ Bamboo Lounge, Tulsa @ Angles, Oklahoma City @ The Cop& Oklahoma City @ Finishline, Oklahoma City @ The End Up, Tulsa Club Maverick Hosts 19th Annual Straley. Gorinphoto , will be goin~ to the this coming April. The Leather Lifestvle has been around awhile in OHahoma, and @Club 209, Tulsa com. puf " in Chri @Club Majestic, Tulsa @ Ledo, Oklahoma City 12 ~®t~oSTAR April 1, 2010 by Jack Fertig April 2010 "Go back to basics, GeminW’ Saturn backing into Virgo reminds us to clean up old business before starting new relationships. Aspecting Uranus and Neptune, she’ll dig up complications that must be dealt with to make progress. Go slowly and carefully. You have until late July to get it right. ARIES (March 2(}-Apri~ 19): Recalculate the equation of any partnership that’s troubling you. Can or should it be saved? Strong instincts and inspiration could lead you astray, but probably contain a kernel of truth. Friends can help you reconcile those with reality. TAURUS (April 2(} - May 2(}): Feeling stuck at work can push you back to reexamine your goals. Where do you feel most creative, and what doyou really have to offer? If professional goals feel nebulous, frame the question in terms of your social ideals. GEMIN~ (May 21- June 20): While your goals and ideals seem to be in flux, go back to basics, The most relevant questions about reaching out to the world around you ar6 taught early in life. Be nice, share and try to learn. Community service can also help clear your head: CANCER (June 21- July 22): Discuss longstanding family issues with siblings, or community problems with neighbors. Things probably aren’t as dark and complicated as they feel. New perspectives will help if you’re willing to be _very_ open-minded. LEO (July 23 - August 22): New ideas and skills can help get you out of financial trouble, but first understand how and why you got into that trouble. You won’t get that on your own. Your partner or an advisor can help you figure it out. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Taking the weight of the world on your shoulders is bad for your health. Discussing problems with your partner, or a trusted friend or counselor, is necessary even if it’s aggravating. A mild exercise program (swimming?) and meditation help, UBRA (September 23 - October 22): It seems you can’t catch a break, so make one for yourself. Take time off to meditate and play. Settle your nerves and charge up your batteries. You need this. in the long run it’s the responsible thing to do! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21}: Take a hard look at your future and get ready to clear out the clutter in your life. Mending fences could mean quitting some friendships and groups, but offers you a chance to make it clean and amicable. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 2(}): Clean up any loose ends and nasty rumors affecting your reputation. Helpful inspiration comes from your home and family. Advice from siblings and neighbors can seem confusing, but don’t take it too literally and it could prove valuable. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Coming toward a peak of your professional reputation, now is the time to get the word out about your achievements and services. Typos and snafus lie in wait. Be very attentive to those details! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You’re coming into a phase of your life where your ideas and your mind will be much challenged. Review what you believe and why. Confusion about who you are and what’s important can be a healthy stage of growth. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Feeling unsure about sex and relationships can be a good step toward greater awareness. OK, it’s uncomfortable now. Meditation and other quiet secluded retreats - some with your love, some without - will ease the exploration. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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