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Ozarks Pride's first issue began in January of 2004. Then follows Ozarks Pride (2004), The Star (2005), and The Metro Star (2008).
This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit.
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C.D. Ward
T.J. Kelly
Chaz Storm
Marion Wilson
Greg Steele
Randy Vineyard
Steve T. Urie
Chaz
Lady Bunny
Romeo San Vincente
Steve T. Urie
Donald Pile
Ray Williams
Michael Hinzman
Jack Fertig
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This issue of the STAR marks a milestone not only for
our magazine, but for GLBT news publications as well.
We have seen five regional community papers come and
go since ou; inception, most only in publication for a few
months. Weil, this month is our 3rd Anniversary issue. With
the beginning of our fourth year January 2007, we plan to
make some changes, add new features and continue to
bring you our readers, local, national and world news that
affects the GLBT community. A new feature in this issue is
our "AFTER DARK" calendar which list events and special
function announcements from our advertisers. A good reason
to keep the STAR on your coffee table all month.
The Star was launched in December 2003 in Joplin, Missouri.
Our first issue was a digest size black and white
GLBT news and information magazine of just twelve pages.
Our first printing was under 1000 copies and distributed to
Joplin, Springfield, Fayetteville and Tulsa. Needless to say,
the Ozarks STAR had a very meager beginning with just
three advertisers.
I have worked very hard the past 3 years to make this
magazine a vlabie source of community information, news
and entertainment. Our readers are traveling the region to
places that were unknown when we began. I have personally
made many wonderful new friendships and acquaintances
because of this magazine. You are sincerely appreciated.
A big KUDOS to the efforts of our contributing writers Donald
Pile. RayWilliams, Michael Hinzman, Paul Wortman,
John Patrick, Greg Gatewood, Victor Gorin, Josh Aterovls,
Steve Urie and many others who have kept us informed
and entertained. Also to our sales agents Michael Leach,
Victor Gorin, Devre Jackson and Kay Massey who have
contributed tremendousiy to our success. Last but not least
a big thank you to our advertisers and readers.
WE'VE COME A LONG WAN BABY!
Sincerely,
C. D. Ward
Publisher/Editor in Chief
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Dear Chaz:
We notice that your publication, (The Star) is approaching its
3rd Anniversary and we are very proud of you. You have brought to
the Midwest a very intelligent and professional gay publicarion that
is now one of the main gay/lesbian publication in the tv1idwest.
Long are the days when so many gay pubiications were merely
"sleaze rags" Your content, articles and columns keeps everyone
abreast about events in the state, the Midwest, the country and the
world!
As we travel around the country, we always take extra copies of
the STAR with us to show other gays and they are amazed at the
quality of your publication.
Congratulations on your 3rd Anniversary and we wish you
continued success with your splendid work for many, many years to
come. We are very honored to be a small part of your success.
Respecdul!y,
Donald Piie
Ray Williams
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Victor Gorin interview with newly
elected 2nd term Oklahoma County
Commisioner Jim Roth.
Election 2006 By Joe Solmonese. HRC
President. Solmonese examines the effects
of the 2006 election on the GLBT
community.
litfi HOLIDAY GIFT IDEA'S
We did some shopping for you!
Something unique, something cheap
and some bling.
Travelers "Savannah, GA"
0 of Town "Fort Lauderdale"
Uncle Mikey finds a Twink that wants
co be fabulous, while a queen ponders
the afterlife.
INDEX
An Interview with Jim Roth ..... 6
Book Review. . . . . . . . . . . ... 11
OUT in Arkansas ........... 12
Past Out. ................. 14
Tulsa GLBT Centei News ..... 15
Holiday Gift Idea's. . . . ... 16
Ciao Travel. . . . ........... 17
Lesbian Notions. . . . . . 22
Star Scene. . . . . . ..... 24
Uncle Mikey. . . .. 26
After Dark . . . . .. 27
Horoscopes.. . .......... 28
Distributors. . . . 29
Cartoons. . . . . . . ...... 30
Classifieds. . 31
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AN INTERVIEW WITH
OKLAHOMA COUNTY
COMMISSIONERJIM ROTH.
By Victor Gorin
Phoro: Left Viaor Gorin and Jim Roth
In 2002, Jim Roth ran againsr anti-gay incumbent Beverly Hodges
in the race for Oklahoma County Commissioner of District One,
and become Oklahoma's first op~nly gay county commissioner. . He
made the most of rhis opportunity to do an excellent job in this position,
winning the respect of Oklahoma County voters from many
walks oflife. This year his Republican opponent, Dave Mehlhaff,
waged one of the most single issue, anti gay campaigns ever, and yet
Jim was re-elected. Now he shares with us how ir's been, and the
vision he has for che future
Victor: Well Commissioner, you ran a very strong and imeresting
campaign that always looked successful, but did you still feel a sense
of relief when it was over?
Jim: Absolutely. You never know until the last vote is counted. \ve
felt confident, we worked hard, but we didn't want to take anything
for granted.
Victor: Wdl, I'm sure you feel much better now. What do you feel
were the major factors.~hat made your victory so resounding?
Jim: Two things--First and foremost was our job performance. We
worked very hard and deiivered on what we promised, anci I don't
chink anyone has ever done better in District 1.
Second, my opponent's bigotry was rejected by a great number of
people that I think arc tired of that mean spirited side of politic;. l
think people realized from his approach rhat he had lirde to offer.
1/ictor: Truly over the past 4 years, v.rhen one considers the duties of
v;hat a county cotnn1issioner is supposed to do, you have a record
you can be proud of, including a balanced budget.
Jim: 1hat's right. Although all 3 discricts of ()kiahon1a (~ounty get
tht: sa1ne a111ount of n1oney for roads, I have the 1nf)St road n1ileage
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and still was the only one wirh a baianced budget. The pubiic in my
district is now driving over 54 miles of new road and 8 new bridges
with safer conditions. !vfy predecessor, Beverly Hodges, only built 1
bridge during her term.
Victor: You were instrumental during 2004 in impiementing and
keeping, despite a repeai attempt, a poiicy of nondiscrimination
for Oklahoma County employees that indudes sexual orientation.
Even now iI is the only government protection pertaining to sexual
orientation in the state of Oklahoma.
Jim: I serve this office with the premise char all peopie deserve respect
and dignity, and a public employment simation, of all places,
should be free of discrimination of any kind. We changed the current
policy to expand coverage in 3 areas, physical disabiliry, political
affiliation, and sexual orientation. I worked w implement this
policy for 3 reasons, to protect taxpayers from liability from officials
doing stupid things, attracting talent, and because it's the right thing
to do.
Victor: What do you hope do accomplish during your next term?
Our district is on a great rrajectory of improvement with a very aggressive
road and bridge program, a number of major projecrs. We
are also bringing a focus to senior citizens issues. Vie have to be sure
that we are that safety net so that their golden years are truly that.
Also I want to work on issues co help our memally ill in this county
so that they aren'r kept in the county jail without treatment.
Victor: Do you have future aspirations after .:his term of office?
Jim: Not right now, bur maybe in future years rhere will be something
I'll feel challenged w try.
Victor: \V'e!l, you obviousiy won the confidence of the voters in
Oklahoma County. Besr wishes and looking forward to four more
years! *
Two Night Tulsa Event Benefit
For Tulsa Cares Food Pantry.
By Greg Steele
TULSA, OK_Billed as Tulsa's Social Event of rhe year, the Bamboo
Lounge staged a two night benefit show hosted by Kris Kohl. The
5th annual Miss Bamboo Pageant was held on Saturday November
18th and the following night with Kris Kohl's show, The Bamboo
& Faces Present "REMEMBER OUR FAMILY". The two night
extravaganza packed the nighrc'.ub both nights and raised do;;:: ro
$500.00 for the Food Pantry.
The Miss Bamboo Pageant histed by Terry Hood and Stan Smith
dub co-owners is only one event out of 111any that the couple stage
each vear to benefit non-profit organizations in the Tiilsa area. 'The
out g~ing ~1iss Ba1nboo 2006. Mona Lott n:iuctandy reiinquishcd
her crown to Miss Bamboo 2007, Holly Rose, a newcomer to the
scene. Holly Rose campaigned extensiv~!y v.lith her slogan "!es
'Time For l1 l'~c",,v Generationn and sources say her ,veaithy husband
donated quite a sun1 to her success. lvfona Lott, J\.-1:iss Bamboo 2006
in a rage l~Jf despair crov,rned herself "E1npress of the Ban1boo'1 \Vhich
amounrs to nothing bur a cheap ploy to 1nainrain royal sratus in her
aging state! P.._ great time vva.s had by all and for a very gcJod cause.
Photo on page 25.
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DBAT Means Business
TULSA, OK_Business is all abom connections
and growth, and the newly formed
Diversity Business Association ofTulsa
(DBAT), a program supported by Tulsa
Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR), is
working to help GLBT business owners and
professionals in green country form those
connections and succeed in today's competitive
marketplace.
DBAT's mission is to provide a forum to
the gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender
business and professional community and
its allies for ,he purpose of networking.
professional development, creating increased
visibility and strengthening relationships
among business and professional community
members.
The group meets monthly for the purpose
of networking, development and quarterly
workshops as well. Socials are being planned
for next year. D BAT membership is an
affordable investment at $30.00 annually
for individuals and $50.00 annually for~
business entity. Members receive:
A copy of the annual business guide with
inclusion of a business listing and advertising
opportunities within the business guide.
DBAT Newsletter
TOHR Membership
Reduced fee at quarterly workshops
A listing on the DBAT web site and banner
advertising opportunities.
Join us and connec, with other locai GLBT
business owners and professionals within
your community. For 1hform,1tion contact
Susan Hartman at 918-274-1699 or
through e-mail at slr:artrnan@cox.aer.
* Wear the Red Ribbon
on December 1st.
Show the world you care that I-flV/;\I!)S
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Oklahoma Ci
Couple Exchange
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OKLAHOMA CITY, OK_Paula Schonauer
& Pam Trotter were united in a Holy
Union ceremony on the lovely grounds of
the Backdoor Coffeeshop October 7, their
wedding officiated by the Reverend Scott
Jones of the Oklahoma City Cathedral of
Hope Church. Paula is an Oklahoma City
police officer and Pam is a floral designer.
Together they reside in Oklahoma City.
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Tulsa Group Forms
Womens Supper Club.
TULSA, OK_Heather Hartman and a
group of other iadies have formed a new
club calied "LesDine Supper Club ofTulsa''.
Heather told us, "We meet the first Friday
of every month at Tulsa-area restaurants at
7 PM. For December we will be eating at
Jamil's Steakhouse, and in January we will
be eating at Caz's Chowhouse. For information,
peopie can emaii Lesdinesupperclub@
yahoo.com or visit v,ww.myspace.com/lcsdinesupperc!
ub . LesDine is for lesbianidentified
women in NE Oklahoma who
like to socialize and eat good food.
\,X,'e have been meeting for 6 month, now
and have had a great turn-om. Peopk are
finding out via ~ord-of-mou.t:h ancf thru
-.lahoof chat groups. Last n1onth \VC had 26
\von1cn attend.
The New Oklahoma
Mr. Leather 2007
By Victor Gorin
OKLAHOMA CITY~James Hollingwood
captured the tide of Oklahoma's new fvfr.
Leather at Oklahoma City's Pho~nix Rising
October 21, It was a festive occasion emceed
by California titleholder Mark tvfalon who
kept the evening lively and entertaining
with earchv humor, and even treated us to
his musical prowess with h1s priceless rendition
of a Shirley Bassey dassic, "Dildos are
Forever."
Attended bv;;. capacitv crowd of leather
folk and th~ir friends,' the contest featured
not only entenainmcnt but also education
and wonhwhile fundraising, the highlight
of which was the raffling of;; Garth Brooks
\Yiorld Tour Jacket that will be autographed
by the man himself. Proceeds for that raffie
went to Tulsa's Open Arms Youth Project.
David Tempie~on won the tide of First Runnerup,
and the reigning currelt Mr.Leather,
James Dean Scudder ofTi,is:,, passed the
tide on to Mr.Hollingwood. James wiil go
on to con1petc in the lntcrnationai l\-1r.
Leather Comest held in Cbicago during the
Memorial Day Weekend.
l() the cornrnunity Jarocs. had this to say/'
J fCci very honored that n1y peers have
honored n1c 1:1vith the ti tie of ()kiahon1a ~vir
Leather, and l \vill do rny unnost to support
the leather comrnunitics of'Tu!sa~ ()klahorna
(~ity and statevvide. I ;:1111 looking fon.vard to
the Jntcrnational lV1r. Leather contcsc but
1 an1 still in ~hock, letting this vvin sir1k in.
/tgain I say I ~un. honored that the cornrnu•~
has supported rne in rhis vvay
A Face in the Crowd celebrates the
and challenges of those who identify as gay,
lesbian, bisexual or transgender.
The book, "A Face in the Crowd: Expressions of Gay Life in
America," edited by John Peterson and Martin Bedogne, presents a
diverse group of people living their lives filled with iove, hope, and
happiness as well as fear and oppression. Highlighting stories and
profiles of gay men and women who share tales of families and challenges,
"A Face in the Crowd" poignantly illustrates that gay life in
North America does not fit a single stereotype.
Sponsored by the Matthew Shepard Foundation, ''A Face in the
Crowd" seeks to educate and empower today's youth w actively take
part in developing solutions to problems that are rooted in ignorance
and hatred. In the book's introduction, Judy Shepard, whose
son, Matthew, was the Yicdm of a gav hate crime, convevs, "A Face
in the Crowd is a reflection of Matthew's dreams. He id1ew that
judging people bdc,re knov;ing chem was rhe loss of an opportunity."
"A Face in rhe Crowd" can be ordered di,ectly from the ;\1atthcw
Shepard Foti!ldation, which will be signed by Judy Shepard and
includes the benefo: single "W'hat Matters" by Randi Driscoll. 'Ihe
mission of the ?vfanhew Shepard Foundation is w support divcrsirv
programs in education and ;o help youth organizatio;1s es.:ablish ·
environments where young people can fed safe and be themselves.
The goal of rhc !vfatthe,v Shepard Foundation is to replace hate ,vith
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un erstanct1ng, compassion an acceptance. t-·or n1orc 1r1torn1at1on ;~~:,~;t~~:;~~;;~_Shepard Foundarion, visit their ·website: www.mar-
John Peterson created rhe initial concept for"~,\ 1:;ace in the (~rtnvcr·
and further developed and published the book to rr1eet the goals and
tnission of the ?viatthew Foundation. orders and
discounts on group saies arc availabic through the pubHsher. For
rnon~ inforn1<.,tion~ visit d1(:ir •.vcbsirc at
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Election 2006
By Joe Solmonese, HRC President
Tuesday was a watershed moment for our comrnunity. A wave of
pro-equality candidates was swept into office, from Philadelphia to
Fort Lauderdale and from Minneapolis to Tucson, and are now the
majority in the United States House and Senate. To date, 93 percent
ofHRC-endorsed candidates have won their races (210 of225),
with a handful of races still pending.
Perhaps most exciting of all, we had a first-ever win against a
discriminatory, anti-GLBT constitutionai amendment. While we
had heartbreaking losses in seven states, with a near-win in South
Dakota, Arizona made history this week by defeating a ban on domestic
partnerships. We salute everyone who worked to defeat these
discriminarory measures and we especially congratulate Arizona
Together for its successful campaign to defeat that state's discriminatory
initiative. HRC was proud to play a role in helping to achieve
this historic victory. Steve May, co-chair of Arizona Together, had
this to say about HRC's help in the campaign: "When we first got
started, no national organization thought we could win ... except
HRC. They believed in us and we thank them so much."
\Ve have an incredible slate of amazing trailblazers coming to
Washington - people like Congressman-Elect Harry Mitcheli, Senator-
Elect Amy Klobuchar and Senaror-Elect Sherrod Brown. We
fought to get them elected, and now they wil! fight for us. Congress
promises to be much friendlier now that bigots like Rick Santorum
are gone. With your help, we raised more than $375.000 for
Santorum's opponent, Bob Casey, and spent an additionai $200,000
to mobilize hundreds of volunteers to guarantee Santorum's defeat.
It paid off.
Here is what Senator-Elect Casey had to say about us: "HRC
got behind my campaign early and has been a tremendous help.
The energy and commitment they put behind our campaign was
exrraordinary. I iook forward to working with HRC's incredible staff
and membership, especially to advance hare crimes legislation in the
Senate."
All over tht country, anti-GLBT candidare$ and campaign tac.:ic,
were rejected by vorers. Scapegoating and anacking GLBT Amc:ricans
is no longer a winning campaign strategy. At least 21 Houst:
n1embers --~vith O percent votine: records on (;LB1-- issues ~,,vili not be
returning to ·wa.~hingron, and in the Senate, five Fcderai Marriage
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Other races aiso mark in1pon::ant shifts in the debate about our
relationships. Supporters of fuH marriage equality \von the governorships
oft~c .. N ~{ork and 1v1assachusetts, and Jodi Rell ;vas rcst}undingiy
re-elected governor of Con.necticut: after signing ~~ civil union~
bilL Furthern1orel no candidate in f'1ev<l Jersey, or '"''·"''•"'·,. in rhc
country for that 1nar:t:erl appears r,,1 ha•le suffered from the f~c;;v
Supre111e Court's decision requiring and benefits
Progressive Church
Shakes Up Northwest
Arkansas.
by Kay Massey
BENTONVILLE, AR_ Amid the conservative
religious congregations in Northwest
Arkansas, an entrepreneurial deacon is offering
something ... a iittle different for Gays,
Lesbians and their allies.
In July 2006, the
Rev. Roger Joslin
moved to Bentonville
from Los
Angeles to start
the Episcopalian
Community of
Bentonville. Roger
is a native Texan,
receiving both a BA
and an MA from the
University ofTexas
at Austin. He did
additional graduate
work in International
Relations at the
University of Sussex
in Brighton, England.
After working
for many years in the
architectural woodwork
business, Roger
graduated from the
Episcopal 1beological
Seminarv of the Southwest in Austin
Texas in 2005 ·.vith a Masters of Divinity
degree.
Roger's bhck o:.nfic .md white clerical collar
mm heads wi11:rever he goes, and for now,
he's everywhere. His mission is dear: Find a
diverse group of people ~o form an Episcopal
congregation with radical hospitality at
its core. Joslin hopes :o offer a progressiv..:
aiternative to other churches in the ilrca.
HI think it 1.vill "vork here in t'Jorth\vest
1\rkansas/J he said of the radical hospjrality,
which focuse5 on meeting p;:<ople':, physical
and spiritual needs. <iit's a ·very friendly
place.'' ~❖7hile h:1s been treated ,vell
here~ he's not sure the reception \Vouid he as
~narn1 for a black, hon1oscxual or
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poor person. "Ours is the kind of church
where everyone is welcome," he said. That
focus must start from the beginning. Rather
than creating a core group of white, middleclass
people, then expanding the group, Joslin
wants to start wirh a mixed core group
from the beginning. That is exactly what he
has done so far.
One of the local group members says,
"What makes this really special is that we
arc defining what we feel our church needs
to be about. We're all accepting, that's
very important, that ali backgrounds arc
welcome, all types of people, ro be very
hospitable and community-
oriented."
Joslin's church-planting
plans are moving
quickly. The plan is to
create small groups of
roughly 12 adults until
the total reaches about
300 people, which
could take about a year,
Joslin said. Currendv
·there are 4 groups of
adults that meet weekly,
a "Walk and Talk"
group for exercising
and meditating adulr.s,
and a group of children
who are exploring the
"Godly Play" progran1.
Roger stresses that a
person need nor be an
Episcopai ro parricipate
in any of the groups.
Study is designed for
people of any faith. 'Ihere are people from
all backgrnunds involved in the groups.
These are truly diverse groups of people on a
spirimai journey rogei:her.
Roger is continuously seek;ng out Gay,
Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendcred group
and individuals in the area. hoping to welcome
:hem into the fold. "Many have been
raised in churches and have hj_d devout upbringings~
yet most churches have reiected
themn, Jos_Hn said,-_ Gay's and Lcsb~a1:s arc
an integral part ot our groups, anct tt1e soon
to be church. l\1any are already attending
the "\Ycekly meetings and becorning invoived t)!,~r?~:~~:~a~~~11~~~1:;;~:;:;;(~ Benwr;
other Episcopal churches in rhe area
there is a church in Henton ··~Lz.
progressive Episcopaiian church interprets
the Bible in terms of context and in light of
the times, he said. He believes fundamentalists
interpret the Bibic rno literally.
The Episcopalian church has liturgical
services like a Carhoiic Church, bu: Masses
and Sunday Communion ser✓ices - Eucharists
- arc in English, Joslin said.
The Diocese of Arkansas has been rhinking
about a church in Bentonville fOi about 15
years. Joslin seems rhe perfect fit. "I have a
strong enrreprcneurial bent," he said. "I do
like to create and start things. 'This is abour
creation." After many years of being involved
with the Church, Joslin was ordained
as a Deacon in May 2006. He will be ordained
as an Episcopal Priest on December
2, 2006 at St. Paul's Episcopal; Church in
Fayetteviiic, Ar.
Roger is aiso rhe author of Running the
Spiritual Path: A Runner's Guide to Breathing,
Meditating, and Exploring the Prayerful
Dimension of the Sport. He wrote the
book while a seminarian. He continues w
run and write in Arkansas as a dimension
of his spiritual practice. He is a ,'creran of
several marathons and thousands of miles
of solitary running on trails and back roads
throughout the United States. Rev. Joslin's
book emerged from a running journal
he maintained over the course of the iast
decade. Many years of meditation pr:1.ctice,
punctuated wfth the nurturing rnlitude of
periodic visits to numerous retreat cemcrs
~nd monasteries, led the author, quite naturally,
to combine his love for running with
his spiritual search.
Roger is borh an experienced ,cacher and a:1
engaging speaker and is ;;!ways eager to tab,
on the rask of avvakcning a wider audicnc,·
~o the value of spiriruai pracrict.
For n1orc infonnation about the ,-,,,,,,,,u,_,..,
c=o1n1nunity of Benton C:ounry, contacr
the IZcv. R,ngcr Joslin at 4?9-1~26-1 ')() j or
rogcrioslin@sbcg1obal.net .
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The show went on and on and
on .... and oh, how we loved it!
ByD. Norman
EUREKA SPRINGS_AR~On Saturday November 4, 2006 during
FALL Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas, ANT and
Sabrina tvfatthews flew in from Los Angeles, California to headline
Diversity Pride Events' first 'LOL Dive;:sity Comedy' Show and
simply awed everyone at rhc Al.JD!
Sabrina kjcked ofF the evening ddighting the very diverse crowd of
Glbti, straigi~t fricncis and allies. Both men and women were laughing
and nodding chcir heads in agreement at her hiiarious observations
of our lives. Her humor was down to earth and true to life,
covering everything from skim. p1.,rses, pets, job interviews and of
course, love lives. By the time she left the stage, you feit like she v1as
one of your pals.
ANT hit stage in an incredible spar~ling Hight suit covered with
rhinestones, setting the pace for a high energy non-stop ride to hysterical
bughre~. His jokes had u:; roar;ng, and he was at his absolute
bes: ribbing and n•·,.,..,, .. ,, .. ,, v,itb ,he audience. He pulled people
up on stage gettiag thrn1 to say and do things that had us failing
out of our seats and ('l:~tn ht~ ~cerncd an1azed at the quirky Siories he
brought out of Eurckans and her 'Vishors. He told us he just had to
use sorne of then1 ¥h:i-<~:•: Tl '>Vf" r"•~rtf~riranro •·n ,..h,::. "fon1oht 'hov.1 .i ,C_rs.,. {J"'-,. l•-•~. :h,.. .._._ '"' L, ,._., . •t,c" ...__, ,.
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and the audience- can1c
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Conservative Christian Group
Boycott almart.
By Staff Reporter
Donald E. \Vildmon, Fotmder and Chairman of American Family
Association, a Tupeio, MS conserntive Christian organization
ordered a mass-emailing to about 3 million recipients, on November
9, 2006. The petition was circulated because of Walmart's support
of GLBT organizations and GLBT equality in the workplace.
W'almart recently donated SS000 to N\'1/l\ GLBT Community Center
in Bentonville, AR. Below is the communication sem to \'1/almart
byWildmon.
Dear President Scott,
This will let you know that I will not be shopping at Wal-Mart or
Sam's Club on the Friday or Saturday following Thanksgiving.
Your decision to financially support groups promoting homosexual
marriage is very unfortunate. You could have remained neutral but
decided to join the battle on the side of homosexuai activist organizations.
With great disappointment, I will help spread the word to my
friends and family about your decision.
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"At Century 21 Gold Castie our
•. BEST properties are our PEOPLE''
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pklahoma City, OK 73116
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Summary: Past Out is a rerrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT
history. Each instailment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and
its impact on the queer present.
Photo: Madon Brando in The W'ild One (1953)
November 1954 (52 years ago last month): The Saytrs
motorcycle club is founded in Los Angeles.
What is the historv of gay motorcvde
clubs? · ,i
Motorcvcle dubs, a ~ainsrav <,f gav culture
since rh~ 19'i0s, ushered in ; ne; brand of
queer masculinity and gave rise to today',
leather.1SM co:wnunity.
Motorcyck culture 1:merged in the ·united
States in the l 920~ and i 930.,, ofteE revolving
around racing, ,viih enthusiasts "'Nho
forn1ed ciubs and vvore distinctive unifonns
and "colors.:,~ The popularity of n1otorcycles
grev; <luring \~1orld War JI - as n1otorcyclists
\vere regarded as son1ething of a n1odern-day
cavalry ~ and cheap n1ilitary surplus
becamt: available after the 1.var.
lJpon leaving n1i1itary si:rvicc in the late
1940s, n1any gay 1ncn in port cities
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ra,her than returning to their hometowns.
Just as the Hell's Angels were purpon:ediy
started by furmer bomber pilots and pararroopers
unwilling to settle into mainstream
life, gay men aiso sought an alternative.
"Only in the swashbuckling motorcycle
culture,'' argues author Guy Baldwin, were
they abie to retain the ''easy camaraderie.
the stress and thrill of real risk raking, and
the 111ascu!ine sexuality that they had kno1.vn
during their n1ilitary da:rs." (;ay and straight
n1cn alike einbraced the irnage of the outLnv
biker as a frcc~spirired rebel, as r.:xen1piified
by the Marlon Brande, fi!n1 The Wild
()ne inspired by an infirnous riot
at a n1ororcycie con1lcntion in Hollister,
in 1947,
The first gay motorcycle dub in the United
States was the Satyrs, founded in Los Angeles
in 1954; the second, Oedipus, was
an offshoot started in 1958. The eariiest
Norrhern California club was the \Y/ariocks,
founded in 1960, fo!!owed by the California
Motorcycle Club (CMC). By the
mid-1960s, San Francisco's Somh of Market
district had become a hotbed of the gay
motorcycle scene, home to clubs such as the
Constantines and the Barbary Coasters.
While California - with irs climate conducive
to year-round riding - continued
to host the greatest concentration of gay
motorcycle clubs, similar groups cropped up
around the country, including, in 1963, the
Second City Motorcyde Club in Chicago,
an early hub of rhe gay ieather scene. 1he
Empire City Motorcycle Club of New York
City, founded rhe following year, claims to
be the oldest ongoing GLBT organization
east of the Rockies. Gav motorcycle culture
also crossed over to Eu~ope, starting with
London's 69 Club. As motorcycle clubs grew
more numerous, they formed imerdub organizations
such as rhe Atlantic Motorcycle
Coordinating Council. ,
Gay motorcycle clubs provided an outlet
for socialization · and often for sex. The
earlv biker scene was closely allied with the
<;m;rging "Old Guard" lea;her/SM culture,
and the clubs watering holes became some
of the first leather bars. Stylized biker gear
became a son of uniform for a segment
of rhe gay community, feamring engineer
boors, crotchless black ieather chaps (designed
by D.L. Sterling in 1960), and military-
style caps. The look - which caught on
even among men wbo had never sat astride
a motorcycle - was embodied by e:av artis,
fom of Finland s characters. Pere; Berlin in
the movie _Nighrs in Black Le:nher (1973),
ana' ("1l enn J1'u ~g.h es o f t he d.i. sco group t he
VilL,ge Peopie.
~vfotorcycle club outings. known as runs,
typically involved n1anly activities such as
can1ping trips. But \vhilc bikers esche·.,vcd
;:~~ era. their ever~;:,·~~'.:!~:::::;~:•;~~~~
pageantry and can1p of a different sort)
including drag shov.-'s. Events such as the
annual (]v!(~ (~arnival becainc popular even
arnong nonbikers, and n1any n1en organized
their social H·ves around annu;-11 runs such as
vvw~lv. ozarkssta r. corn
Photo: lhe new community center coming soon.
Community Celebrations
]he end of a year brings things we all usualiy
like par.:ies, gathering wirh friends
and family, once-;,-year food and drink
- celebrations of all kinds. This year is no
differem. Special events, holiday dinners,
and concem fili foe momh of December
on the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexuai, Ti:ansgender
(GLBT) and allied Community Calendar.
A month full of acrivities begins in Tulsa on
Friday, December 1, 2006. 'w'ith the theme,
"Stop AIDS: Keep Ihe Promise," the annual
Wori<l AIDS Day Interfaith Service remembers
those losr r; HIV/ AIDS while renewing
o~ir cornmiunent to stop HIV/AIDS.
The candlclighr service, scheduied for 7:00
P?vf ar All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952
S Peoria, v.1iU f(~ature rhe n1usic of Council
C>ak Iv1cn's Chorale ((~(}fv1C) and guest
speakers Dr. 1v1clanie Spector and Iarnara
LcBak~ l\ssistant lviinister of/\H Souls lJni-·
tarian Church.
!'~ext up on the 'fulsa (~01nn1uniry C:alendar
is the [)inner on
Monday; l)eccn1ber 11th. ]he annual din~
ner features the presentation of the S..,·J?/t!"~J
.:~wards an.d the rnusic of the \Y/or:nen of
(:ouncil ()ale A. 6:30 PJv{ reception kicks c:fF
the at feilcnvship (:ongregationai
2~100 S I-1t1rYard. ~111e
~u 7:00 Pivt fr:atnn.:~ holiday entree~:
and harn1 drinks and r:~srive table~
~V\.vvv.ozarksstar.corn
side, or dessert. You'll wam to arrive early as
over 200 individuals, coupies and families
are expected for this annuai event co-sponsored
by Tulsa PFLAG and TOHR.
Music of A Snowv Starlit Nie-ht. the annual
COMC Holiday Cone~(, will thriE
you with seasonal fa;orites, as well as new
~unes to warm your heart. SRO crowds are
expected for the performances on December
12th, 15(h & 16th, 8:00 P1v1 each night at
All Souls Unitarian Church, 2952 S Peoria
in Tulsa.
The Tulsa GLBT Community Center will
celebrate the end of the leased space era with
the 41st Finale on Sunday, December 17,
2006. The evening, featuring a free concert,
free food and drinks, and door prizes will be
the last event held in the current Center at
5545 E 41st Streei:.
Ihe 41st Finale features the music of
recording-artist Amy 5(einberg of Orlando,
Florida. With irreverent humor and crafty
intelligence, Amy uses her original music to
promote tolerance, openness and diversity.
Combining a sassy sensibility and loquacious
socio-political and spiritual awareness,
Amy brings forth a fresh and solid energy.
The winner of several honors, including
Songwriter of the Year from the Songwrirer
Showcases of the Year and Best Individual
Performer bv the Orlando lvlusic Awards,
Amv tours ;u over the countrv. Notable
sho~s include performances ~ith Ani Defranco,
Alix Oison, Lisa Loeb, Melissa Ferrick,
Meredith Brooks and Vonda Shepard,
as well as many others.
Classically trained on the piano since age
4, with a degree in rheaue (from studies at
Boston Conservatory, American Musical
and Dramatic Academy and ?\.farvmount
Manhattan) and sclf-t;ught on the guitar,
Amys shows display ,.viid!y inaovative
musicality combined with extraordinary
perfonnance skills to create an arousing
;~nviron1nent like none other. 'Ihen1cs ~f
her 1nusic include sexuality, ,von1an po~,ver,
~-·.:
1
j~·h•.~.".!~~~.-. , ~~:~b~~.~1s~!~,o~1
1
.. ~d love. ·nie audience . ~-: .. :~ ~;_:;:; ;::-.:. t -· _, ~.. sings along, an(1
laughs untH they cry. a soul-shifting and
original n,.r,nnn nt,t "..V,dlt tu
rniss this FR .. EE concert 1.vith
1be 41st Finale marks the last day the Tulsa
GLBT Community Center will be open
before we pack-up, move-our and re-open
in the new location in downtown Tulsa!
The Tulsa GLBT Communitv Center will
close on December 18, 2006. and remain
closed through the end of the year. During
this time, we'll be packing up the last
items, loading up the moving trucks and
heading to the permanent location of the
Tulsa GLBT Community Center at 621 E
4th Street. We'll then re-open in January,
celebrating the Oklahoma-Centennial year
of 2007 - in a new, permanent home for the
Tulsa GLBT & allied community.
1itlsa Okiahomans for Human Rights
(TOHR) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian,
Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals
and families through advocacy, education,
programs, alliances and the operation of the
Tulsa GLBT Community Cmter.
Creating
Community for
People living
vvith
HIV/AIDS
Our House, Too offers a variety of
activities for people who are HP✓+ and
or living with AIDS to help combat the
social isolation that many of our
people live through each and everyday.
·we provide a Toiletry and Household
Pantry for those who are HIV+
and or lh:ing ,,,;Ith AJDS \•Vho cannot
afford to purchase these items for
themsei\.res. \/Ve invite anyone \,vho
vvould Hke to \1olunteer or provide fi-nanciai
assistance to please contact
us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-•rnaH
harrismrnjr@y·ahoo.corn.
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1 tsp. salt
1/2 cup pecans (chopped)
1 /2 cup milk chocolate chips
2 Tbs. Bourbon
-mix pecans, choco1ate chips and bourbon and let
soak for 1 /2 hour. stirring occasional1y.
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~TRAVEL
by Donald Piie and Ray Williams
"SAVANNAH, GA"
Savannah, Georgia (better known as Savannah GA) is one of the
most historical cities in che country dating back to it's founding by
General James E, Ogiethorpe in 1733, It has a wealth of history and
archircccure that few American cities can match. Savannah has managed
to prcscrvc it', Southern Colonial grace and charm. The ciry's
many rich, green parks are blooming legacies of che brilliance of it's
founder. \¼'hat was already a remarkable city was re-invenc,d when
our friend John Berendr, che author wrote his fabulous book, MIDNIGHT
IN THE GARDEi\! OF GOOD AND EVIL about iifr
in Savannah a frw years ago. John Berendt's book takes the reader
through all che very colorfi.d characters in the town, in particular
with the late Jim \Villiams, the
gay amiqt!Cs dealer who was
said to have shot and killed
· his lrnsder/lover. He owned
the house that fonnerlv wa:,
owned by the song writer
Johnny Mercer. Clint Eastwood
later made the book
into a wonderfol moYic by the
same name ..
SaYannah sito on the
Atlantic Ocean and has a
population of about 140,000.
"fouri,t, Hock to the city
to cake adYantagc of all the
historical and architectural
highlight,. Savannah i, known
:1, the QUEE:-,.,.: CITY of
rhc Snuth, \vhcr~ you enter
,ome<me's home, d1l' FIRST
thing t!\l'\' ask i, "\\'hat cio vou w:mt w drink?'' Everyone there is
t·xtrcn1cl:· h<lspi1ablc.
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"TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD"
"Carlos Fernandez on Bravo TV's TOP CHEF"
By Donald Pile and Ray Williams
In our travels all over the country we are so fortunate
in that we meet so many wonderful and exciting people.
A few years ago in Florida we met Carios Fernandez and
Chuck Smith who are life partners and co-owners of the
Hi-LIFE CAFE which is a very upscale restaurant in Ft.
Lauderdale. It is located at 3000 North Federal Highway.
Chuck Smith who is the excellent host of the restaurant
and his partner Carlos Fernandez, the extremely talented
Chef opened the restaurant 11 years ago and they have
developed a very strong following of devoted follmvers
over the years. \Vhen we were there last time they were
celebrati~g their 10th Anniversary of the Hi-Lit~ Cafe.
rlheir hours are Tuesday-'Thursday 5:30 PM to 10:00
PM, Friday & Saturday, 5:30 PM - 11 PM and Sunday,
5:30 PM - 9:00 PM. Their website is: www.hilifecafe.
com. After laying in rhe sun all day at the beach and before
heading off for the night to party, be sure and dine
there. You won't be sorr1. It is a must-do for almost all
the gay tourists that goes to Ft. Lauderdale.
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Carlos is a fantastic Che£ Actually he is now on the
top rated Bravo TV sho\v; TOP CHEF! Filmed in Los
Angeles he is one of 15 chefs from ail over the country
that was chosen to be on the shmv. It airs on \'v'ednesdav
nights on Bravo. Stay tuned to see just how far he gees
on the show One Chef is eliminated each ,veek. The
TOP CHEF a.: the end receives $100,000.00l It's ahv,l\'s
g-- reat to see a .g..,,.,. av_, coup- le own a business together. \'fc (,_
wiil be down in Ft. Lauderdale at the season's finale and
what a grand pany it will be if he gets the top prize: He
will alwavs be our Number 1 Top Chef in Florida! l ,ast
January ,vhen ,ve were 111 Ft. Lauderdale we presented
Chuck and Carlos with a special crystal plate engr:r.. cd
with gold to help them ceiebrate their 10th c\nni,:ersar:,
of the Hi-Life.
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Fringing the ocean, Starwood Hotels' glimorous and gay-friendly Adantic
resort has been a key feature of Fort Lauderdale's stunning redevelopment.
(Photo ~y Andrew Collim)
December 2006
by Andrew Collins
Fort Lauderdale
Fort Lauderdaie, which has transformed itself into Florida's leading
gay vacation destination over rhe past decade, continues to turn
heads with the spectacular redevelopment of its stunning beachfrom.
1his neighborhood with a number of gay resorts has seen - or
will soon see - the opening of several upscale, gay-friendly hotels,
include the Adamic, the St. Regis, the W Hotel, and the Trump
International. New bars, restaurants, and attractions also continue
to open throughout the city and in the neighboring community of
Wilton Manors, helping to make the region a vibrant and exciting
gay destination year-round.
In deciding where to stay in Fort Lauderdale, consider whether
you'd prefer a gay, dor.~ing-optional resort or a ia:ger mainstream
provertv. Among the latrer is the charming Riverside HoteL set
;lo~g f;shionable Las Olas Boulevard. Ih; natty 1936 property
recendy complered a stunning, multimillion-dollar makeover. ~nw
first of Starwood Hotels' snazzy new beac:1front properties to open
here, rhe dashing Atlantic offers ucobHructed ocean views from the
majority of its spacious, airy rooms, aII of them with Bose CD-stereos,
lovely patios, and small kitchens. Starwood's St. Regis, with
a mid-December 2006 opening, is even more sumprnous: Jviost
roon1s overlook the ocean or Intracoastal \XlarerwayJ and they con1c
"'Nith such deluxe perks as burler service~ a f3.buious spa, and leather
furniture. Starwood·s next big project, th..: W Hord Fort Ltudcrdale,
is expected to open in [)ecember 2007.
LL..:: ~ay resorts, the upscale pro1=1erty that
I .... :1uderdale's gro\vth into a iT1ajor
and it continues
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and beer, CD players and VCRs in many units, glass-brick showers
with high-end bath amenities, and dedicated top-notch service.
Guests can relax all day around the stunning pool with a waterfall
and fiber-optic lighting. There are several other fine upscale resorts
of comparable repute, including Pineapple Point, a handsome l 930s
spread that has the grace and st:yie of a Caribbean plantation. and
the Flamingo Resor;:, opened by the former direcwr of Paris' famous
Ritz hotel; it resembles a luxury boudque hotei on an exclusive British
West Indies isle, with its hand-carved dark-wood furniture and
sumptuous linens. Relatively new owners have continued ro upgrade
the reson: with improved furnishings and amenides.
The more reasonably priced Eiysium Resort, just 200 yards from
the beach, has p::rfectly comfortable rooms. Here you'll always find
friendly guys lounging on the expansive sundeck, with its hot tub,
hammock, and tropical bar - there are nvo heated pools. Even the
simplest rooms at nearby Villa Venice are warm and attractive, with
refrigerarnrs and microwaves. With its friendly staff and an extensive
pool area where breakfast is served, the resort draws an energetic
fun-in-the-sun bunch. The similarly priced Worthington Guest
House ranks among the cruisier resorts in town, wi,h a playful vibe
and attractive grounds for sunning and swimming au naturale. 1he
same owners opened the neighboring Alcazar Resort in 2006, also
featuring a frisky ambience and lovely rooms. Mode:ateiy priced
Coconut Cove, just a short walk from the beach, is another reliable
choice in the neighborhood.
The gav-resort scene in Fort Lauderdale is constantly evolving, with
rrend/new properties opening seemingly every few months, and
oider ones receiving massive makeovers. A great example of the latter
is the elegam Nev, Zealand House, which was vin:ually rebuilt in
2003; now its sleek rooms have flat-screen TVs, DVD/CD piayers,
cordless phones, and Wi-Fi. Orhcr highly recommended properties
include the Grand Resort, whose urbane decorative scheme contrasts
markedly with the tropical beachy ambience of Fon Lauderdale
beach; it's one of the few gay iodgings with a gym. With about
30 rooms, the Schubert Resort, fashioned out of a rerro-cool l 950s
hotel compound, affords a similar level of opuience and alluring facilities,
including a cafc with a full bar. Although it's set a shon drive
inland from the beach, the Coral Reef Guest House is a worthwhile
option thanks to its attractive g.1rdens, massage offerings, and eight
cheerfdly furnis'."!cci, reasonably priced rooms. One of the dosest
resorts to the mar:y gay bar, and restaurants in Wiiton ~Aanors,
Cabanas Guest House appeab w social butterflies, with its l 0-man
Jacuzzi and eight-man aroma,herapy steam room. The posh rooms
h~tvc goose-dov~rn con1fcH·ters~ Wi-I:i, and (=I)ifviP3 players.
Fort Lauderdaic is les~ about sightseeing than ~v1iami or ()rlando
- people come hnc ro relax in rhe sun :-u•~"''""-· and shop. This latter
activity you can enjoy at the fiuncd Sawgrass J\.-iills J\r1a1L whosr
more than .300 designer outlets include l)onna Karan) Saks, Ann
'riy1or; and ()r stroll along Las_
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is also a great place to while away the occasional rainy afternoon.
It's known for its first-rate collection of works by leading American
impressionist painter Wiliiam Giackens.
The city's dining scene continues ro evolve. For creative contemporary
cuisine, it's hard to beat stylish Mark's Las Olas, which has a
chic decor and A-list clientele. Perhaps the hottest venue in town is
Johnny V, helmed by celeb chef Johnny Vinczencz - at this hip Las
Olas restaurant you might try ancho-cinnamon-grilled pork t~nderioin
or corn-dusted yellowtail snapper with smoked-pepper relish.
At the Atlantic hotel, Trina has become a favorite for its signature
Trinatini cocktails (with vodka, lavender syrup, and pomegranate
and lemon juices), such tempting Mediterranean-inspired fare as
Moroccan chicken pizza and tagine-baked grouper with almond
couscous, and the awesome ocean views.
Or consider one of Fort Lauderdale's several gay faves, such as HiLife,
a homey bistro with delicious, sensibly priced pastas, salads,
and seafood and poultry grills - try the grilled bacon-wrapped jalapenos
stuffed with shrimp and cheese. Kitchenetta Tratroria serves
some of the best Italian food in rhe region, including knockout
ricotra cheesecake for dessert. A favorite piano cabaret in Wilton
Manors, Tropics offers above-average Continental fare, such as a
prosciutto-pocket starrer - a pastry stuffed with prosciutro, apples,
walnuts, and mozzarella.
\v'ilton Manors is also home to Rosie's, a former Hamburger
Mary's restaurant that's still a convivial spot for casual pub fare
and socializing, and Galanga, known for its outstanding sushi and
weil-prepared Thai food. For dessert, coffee, and wine, or delicious
sandwiches during the day, be sure to stop by breezy and hip Stork's
Bakery. There's also a Stork's on Las Olas Boulevard, from which
you can book a romantic gondola tour along rhe Himmarshee
Canal. A great, relatively new addition to Wilton Manors is the
Naked Grape, a handsome iittle wine bar with light food and live
music most nights as well as a nice selection of microbrew beers to
go along with the vino.
Fort Lauderdale pulses with gay bars. If you're in the mood to cut
loose at a big-time warehouse disco, head to rhe Coliseum, a glitzy
megaclub with a variety of parties and theme nights. The elegant
China White nightclub has a number oflively parties throughout
the week, and has become quite famous for its giant elephant
sculpture and distinctive leopard-prim carpets and lavish Buddha
~tatuary.
Learher bars like the hard-edged Sr.eel lounge and dance dub and
the dungeoncsque Ramrod, with its Tom of Finland artwork, always
dra1.,v big crcn,vds. BHfs Fiiling Station is a quintessential neighbor~
hood hangout and home t0 one of the city's top happy hours, especially
an1ong the 35~and-older cro-\vd. \Xfilton Manors, a l 5-111inute
drive fro!n the beach resorts, has several appealing nightspots,
. ' •. ~ l 1 ., ~~ 1nclu~1ng a te\~l n:at_cate: ne.a:11r to r'ort .T.. _,au•~ erd' a. .1. _ e•-s CO!lS•H ' .1era• bI. e
over-)0 gay populatton. ln th1s latter group, (_,hardees, a restaurant
and lounge: is queen of the hill; its nightly piano cabaret is always
hie Sidelines Sports Bar dra"'.,v-s a great 1nix of folks to shoot
and vilatch sports on T\1~ and the lesbian-popular i-...Jev1 J\.,1oon~ a
neighborhood joint -.~vith great on Vr'eekends, (:lub
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Boom, Elements, and Georgie's Alibi are slick, happening video bars
nearby, ali three of them good places to meet locals and converse
with friends. There's something for everybody in this constantly
growing gay resort community.
Photo: White-faced (capuchin) monkeys frequently cavort in
the trees behind the beach in Costa Rica's Manuel Antonio
National Park. (Photo by Andrew Collins)
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DECEMBER 2006
"CHRISTMAS IN NOVEMBER"
Jolie Justus, newly elected member of the Missouri state Sena,e
I'm still a lirrle dazed - I was up pretty late on election night - but
I'm cerrainiy not confused. And neither is rhe country.
No longer content to be sv.-ayed by the politics ~f fear and hare,
1 middle Americans came our in record numbers lasr Tuesday ana
shoured from the rooftops - "We want change!" And change is what
they got.
President Bush and the Republican Party have been put on notice.
The Democrats have raken control of the U.S. House of RepresentatiYes,
a change that was 12 years in the making. And the improbable
is no-w reality - both Montana and Virginia have turned blue, giving
the U.S. Senate to the Democrats as we!L "I11e election is welcome
news certainly for us tried-and-true Dems, but also for rhe lesbian
and gay commc:nity.
i'fothing was more satisf1ing than to see Rick "man on dog" Sar,torum,
one of Pennsylvania's two Republican U.S. senators, become
history. Santorum is one of the most disgustingly homophobic
elected officials of ail time. He's been a wp Bush apologist, who carried
the radical Christian right's warer, and he w:11 now be replaced
by Bob Casey, the son of a forn1er Pennsylvania governor.
lust as sweet as Santorum\ exit from office is the fact that his chief
~f staff and coinn1unications director, Robert T'raynham, an
openly gay Af'rican-i\meric:m man, wiH soon b~ om of,,. jo~. L for
one, don't kno,v hovv 'Tfaynham can get up in the morning knov✓1ng
he helped elect and put ·\vords in the ffiouth of one of this counrry:s
biggest gay~haters.
'•X'hen you look at the cndors~:rricnts 1nade the l-!11n1an :Rights
C:an1pajgnt '\VC did pretty ·w·elL ()f !-1R..C:'s 231 endorsecs, 208
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won, while only 16 losr. (At press time, seven races were still undecided.'!
\Y/hen vou break down the numbers, rhere were 18 senators,
179 ~embers ~f r:he House, and 11 governors elected ,vho purportedly
support our issues.
Of the 51 key Congressional and Gubernatorial races tha.: HRC
identified, 15 candidares ,von in the House, and nine were successfui
in the Senate. HRC's president, Joe Soimonese, told me the day
after the election that his group's top priorii:ies were thre<:' Senate
races - Casey in Pennsylvania, Sherrod Brown in Ohio, and Amy
Klobuchar in Minnesota. All three won. But HRC's strategy went
beyond those top races.
"The greatest hope for our community resred in our ability to be a
powerful polirical force in key races and do ir in a way ,ha;: people
felt our oresence," said Solmonese. "We iooked within those states,
and as a 'national organization, considered what else we could do in
each of them to effect change for our community.''
In Minnesota, HRC pm: considerable resources into the state bod1
raising and spending money to organize the community and impact
the race. Klobuchar beat her Republican challenger, Mark Ken:1edy,
in an open race with 58 percent of rhe vote. Tim \Y/a!z, a Democ,r_at
endorsed by HRC, defeated an incumbent U.S. Congressma;:i, Gil
Gutknecht; and furthermore, according to HRC's website, thar
state's legislature will have a "fair-minded majority in 2007 .''
]be Servicemembers Legal Defense Network (SLDNJ did a bit of its
own election analvsis and concluded that all the co-sponsors of the
bill to repeal "Do;1't Ask, Don't Tell" who sought re-~lection were
successful except for one outstanding race in Connecticut. SLDN
also said that no one was thrown out of office for supporting the repeal,
and that, according to a recent Gailup poll, nearly four in f.ve
Americans support gays and lesbian serving openly in the milh:ary.
Perhaps with the new Congression;,J leadership and rhe polii:ically
expedient exit of Secretary of Dei:ense Donald Rumsfeld, we'll actually
see some movement on rhis issue. The military is already hardpressed
to Eli its quotas, so not letting us serve is just plai1: sn:pid.
Unfortunately, all but one of the same-sex marriage bans passed.
i\rizona turned away from hatred and dcfca!ed its anti-gay-marriage
baliot measure, and Sourh Dako,a's vote was surprisingiy verv dose
- 52 percent for, 48 percent against. Virginia passed its measare, but
not after a long, hard fight and the organizing of a terrific coalirion
that \Vill hopefnlly continue ro battle for our rights.
,.;v~hile n1uch attention has been placed on the national scene. 1..ve
can\ forget that politics is aiso local, and that 1.ve did pretty ~~vell on
that levei, too.
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performed charitable work, sponsorino
holiday toy drives for children and fi.u~draisers
that originally assisred injured riders and
iater helped people ·with AIDS.
While early gay motorcycle clubs were
men-only, some lesbian~ also embraced the
lifestyle, forming women's clubs such as the
Moving Violations in Boston (19851 and
the Sirens in New York Citv 0986): The
m_ost well-known queer wo.men motorcyclJSts
are the Dykes on Bikes. 1he original
group, which rode in the 1976 San F~ancisco
Pride parade, became a nonprofit
offici~lly known as the Women's Mororcycle
Contmgent. After the U.S. Patent and
Trademark Office twice rejected the oroup's
application - claiming the word "dyk~" w;s
derogatory and vulgar it finally registered
the name 'Dykes on Bikes" in 2005.
Over the years, the nature of queer motorcycle
culture has changed. With the advent
of gay liberation in the iate 1960s, m.my
men no longer felt the need for secretive
fraternal organizations, and liberal activisrs
rejected the hierarchy anci militarism of the
early clubs. In the 1980s, rhe AIDS epidemic
devastated the gay male motorcycle
com~unity. With the emergence of groups
specifically devoted rn leather/SM, motorcycle
riding and fetish sexuality diverged as,
accor~ing to Bald"".in. ~ome .serious riders
were embarrassed by the irotic visibiliry of
the kinky crowd." ·
w'hile motorcycle dubs no longer plav
as prominent a role in rhe gav world, the
cuiture continues to thrive, 2~1d new dubs
emerge, such as the Stonewall Kniohts in
-Ft. L aua' erd a l' e and t I1 e '1--,:"va•l iers o~°- New
Orleans, both founded '11 2002. Mirroring
trends in the larger GLBT comnumitY,
many of today's motorcycic dubs wclcon;e
members of all genders and scxuai orientations.
In the words of ,he organizc:s of the
annual Queer Biker Invasior; of Dead~ Valley~
being queer is "a state of n1ind~ and vou
know if it fits you." '
For further information:
Baidwin, Guy. 1993. ~~fies ~!hat
(Daedaius).
Bloom, Scott, 2005.
Satyrs iv10torcycie (]ub _
Guggenheirn iv1usetu11. 1998.
fvianhi: 'The Biker Book _ .
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All in all. HRC flexed its political muscle in
unprecedented ways. We invested more than
$5 million in these elections and mobilized
our more than 650,000 members and supporters
to participate in campaigns and to
rnte. We placed 84 staffers in 30 races in
more than 18 states and we sent 22 HRC
Youth College campaign workers all over the
country. We also dramatically expanded our
field operations this election cycle, playing
key roles in coordinated progressive efforts
and helping fair-minded leaders take back
the New Hampshire state House and Senate,
the Iowa House and Senate, the Indiana
House, the Minnesota House, the Oregon
House and the Michigan House.
\'i/e were literally on the front lines in dozens
of states. (For a more extensive analysis on
what HRC accomplished, check our HRC
":ice President David Smith's insider postelection
analysis memo here:http:/ /www.hrc.
org/election2006/)
With a new fair-minded leadership in both
the United Srates House and Senate, the
Federal Marriage Amendment is dead! And
we look forward to working strategically ·
with our allies on the Hill to build momentum
and support for passing the Employment
Non-Discrimination Act and making
hate crimes protections the law of the land.
A truly exciting new chapter of GLBT history
is beginning.
I ~vant to offer a very special thanks to all
ot you. Your ongoing belief in rhe work we ?o made these historic vicrories possible.
Your contributions, the time vou rnok to
volunteer and your participation in HRC
evems and HRC-endorsed campaigns are
the reasons we were able to secure a more
pro-equality 11 Orh Congress and Senate. I
feel very iucky to work with such a talented
team at HRC ar;d, as I rravei around rhe
cmmtrv, I am inspired bv vour commirm~nr
to our ·rn.arch t<Y,,;ard full ;quaiitv. i·h~pe ~· ·
vou will rake some time to ~deb~atc o~r
~.,vins. because it trulv is a ne½~ dav for the
(;LR1. con1n1unity ;nd for our c~untry.
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(1 OZ) CHAMBORD
(1/2 OZ) PINEAPPLE JUICE.:___.
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1. Chill a martini glasses with ice and
water.
2. Add aii ingredients with ice in
shaker
3. Shake well.
4. Strain into the chilied martini
glasses.
HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU !
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Salutations Kittens and welcome to Uncle's corner of the world once
again. Like a friend with benefits, Uncle shall continue to provide
enjoyment to all that seek. Uncle Mikey finds a Twink that wants
to be fabulous, while a queen ponders the afteriife. Never a dull
moment in Uncle's corner, Kittens.
Dear Uncle Mikey,
Wby does everyone think that just because you are deeper than a basket of
hair products. you are a drag? I am so sick of this plastic existence, where
the most important matter of discussion is where the next piece of ass is
coming from. Can't we just pretend there is more to life than just a selfserving
int~rest?
Seeking Depth
Dearest SD,
Kitten, it takes all kinds to keep this world turning. I agree with your
plight of mind-candy. It was just this morning kittens that Uncle, while
sitting on the balcony. was pondering real life issues affecting us ail. Ifl
wear my blonde wig to the winter carnival, will the queens forgive me? Yes,
Kitten as you can see, Uncle Mikey is a twin soul; one seeking fun while the
other is seeking wisdom. Maybe I should call Ru!
Smooches,
Uncle Mikey
Dear Uncle,
I am beginning to wo,,der what comes in the afterlife. I am dating a man
of the church, who is in const211t deniai. He lies to himself, his wife, and
his church. I sit there, 01;. the sidelines in love, with a man who cannot
even walk with me in the light of day. I am wondering if there really is
anything after this !if-:. I mean, every day we hear from those in the church
who are noth:ng more thar, :mpostors living a life oflies. What is to come?
Seeing the jaded gates '\
Dearest Jade.
Kitten, I understmd t:hc bbrn::d iine between iife's happiness and moments
fillt:d wit!1 a fairhfoi search. I myself recall my first love, which happened to
be a priest, at« locai parish. He was the man who taught me passion, romance,
and commitment. A romance that gave uncie Mikey the first taste
oflo,·e and pass1on i,1 the southern skyway. It was the toughest break up of
my life. 'That vear was such a time of change for Uncle, the break up wi.:h
Father Flanagan and starting rniddlc schooi ail in one year. It was rough
but taught 1ne to be strong to say the lease
Smooches,
Uncle
[)ear lJnde fvfikcy,
1-io~~l do you tell someone you just want a booty call so they do not uy to
get aU hon1cn1akcr on your ass?
Booty-Boy
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You could say something like, ·'Booty; parry of one!" Keep it simple young
player.
Uncle
Uncle Mikey,
I am surviving a breakup after ren years ofioving th:: s;ime and onl, man.
Now I find mvsdf in a world that has chane.ed in that de;::ade of bliss. 1he
men are so m{believably outrageous about tl1eir ways and desires. I fear
time has passed me ieaving me to remai!1 alone. I just do not know how
to be "so'' out there as it seems co be the protocol. Am I just destined to be
alone?
Party of One
Dearest One,
Poor love, iife is on a fast tr2ck rhac ;::an oe a bit unnerving at first. Uncle
has watched the times change, ar!d fads co;ne ;;nd go. \veicome to the
drive through of the booty age. wl1ere or.ce we had to seek out iove in
midnight hidden embraces, we now can't walk a park mile without rripping
over someone's throbbing desire. 111at reminds me of a walk Uncle took
the ocher dav, Kittens. This man was absolutclv Matthew fine! Well he
approached ·me with his! Oh sorry One! Uncle.got lost in the moment.
Back to rhe issue at hand! Kitten, buy a new ,vardrobe, and don a new look.
Tnen hit the town. Just think of the wonders tbat wait. Kitten, this too
shall pass, pd! up a ~cat to Twink :If]. and enjoy the new found,freedom!
Smooches
Uncle
Uncle Mikey,
Do you think it iS, wro~f ro ask a_ coapi~ to have a th,eesome, when you're
related ro one of tnem, tb(:y an: JUSt so not.
Looking for family .:ime
Kitten, I swear I am hearing banjos again. Let us step out of the trailer
court when looking for a hook up - shall we Darling? Remember there are
branches on the Famiiv Tree for a reason.
Smooches Mikey ·
Uncie Mikey, '
What do you tell a friend who is really getting to be: mer weight and chinking
they are still hot? I do not icnow what he sees when he looks in the mirror,
but people are talking. He jt!st seems no; :o care anymore. He never
works out anymore, and he eats anything ar;d evcryrh;ng. l am almost
embarrassed of him. What c,m I do;
Friend of chubby
A fdl-iength mirror v,ith overhead lighting should do the cick. "
Smooches r,1ikey
•Disclaimer - Looking at: oneself in a full-length rnirrnr \vich overhead lighting
may be hazardous to :{ou heahh. l}nck rccornnH:nds having a good stifF
one before doing this. \Ou do not ,varn to go into shock. Be afraid be
very afraid. (~onsult a queen near
Unde discovered
an overhead mirror JS you
has been there ev,:r since!
look best v.ri,Hc looking J.t yoursdf fron1
( 1!: ,r( ?fr ;),cn ... k, 1'.Jccdkss to say lJnde
tJnde is out of sight once nHHe, Until
rnake of itJ so
and. -i Hlct!es too.
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FRIDAY December 1
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6.6-12
THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm
PEC'S: .\faie Dan~m, 9pm
SATURDAY December 2
THE ROCKIES: OGRA Benefit Shew
8:30gm
TH~ COPA: Maie D:rncers 9pm
GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfas: Buffet
1 arn.~.3:30am
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12
PEC'S: Male Dancers, 9pm
SUNDAY December 3
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Fr~e Brunch
2pm, Danc~rs 4pm
CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show
8:30pm.
CLUB MAJESTIC: Caria Lee Love
Show 10pm
THE CO!'A: Raci,ac! Erikks Show
10:30pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12
MONDAY December4
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9om
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
TUESDAY December 5
PEC'S: Well cirinks 2.50 from 7-9pm
,vcar lc•thcr.
THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest 12am
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
WEDNESDAY December 6
BAMBOO LOUNGE: K:uaoke 9pm.
PEC'S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9om
wear lcad:er. •
TNT'S: Karaoke 9pm
THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm
FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament l 0pm
THE ROCKlES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
THURSDAY December 7
CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show
,viRachad Erikks :!,;at=;i:t;:;~ drink~ 2.50 from 7•9pm
THE COP~-'\.: ()pen Taienr ~NiShcrnoanc
~I~;~~;i~};/~f~:~ fotm,amcn, lGp:li
LEDO: Kari-,Okic host. Pancho 9orr:
THE ROCKJE..5: Beer Bust 'lpm~7pm
FRIDAY December 8
TBJ::. COPA: t .. {a!c l)ancers 9prn
THE ROCKIES: Beer Busr 1-6.6-12
CLUB ROX: Alison Scott. 9:30pm
PEC'S: ~\1Jlc l)~u1ccrs, 9pm
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SATURDAY December 9
THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm
PEC'S: Maie Dar!cers, 9pm
GUSHERS: Lare Niehr Breakfast Buffe,
lam-3:30am ,.
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12
SUNDAY December 10
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch
2pm, Dancers 4pm
CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show
8:30pm.
CLUB MAjESTiC: Catia Lee Love
Show 10pm
THE COPA: R;,;.chad Erikks Show
i0:30om
THE 'ROCKIES: Beer Bu!t 1-6,6-12
MONDAY December 11
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
TUESDAY. December Ii
PEC'S: Wdl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm
wear leather.
THE COPA: Seip-Off Contest 12am
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
WEDNESDAY December 13
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm
PEC'S: Wei! cl.inks 2.50 from 7-9pm
wear leather.
TNT'S: Karaoke 9om.
THE COPA· Variety Show i0:30pm
FiNISHLINE: Dart Tourn;smem 10pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bun 4pm-7pm
THURSDAY December 14
CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show
w/Rachael Erikks
PEC'S: Wdl dri:-.ks 2.50 from 7-9om
wear leather. ·
THE COPA: Open Talem w/Shcmoanc
Somemore ! 0:30pm
FiNISHLINE: 6an ·fouroamcm 10L>m
LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9p::;
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
FRIDAY December 15
CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings
Show 10pm. ··
Tl-iE COPA; J-..1:ak Dancers 9prn
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12
PEC'S: Male l)ancers, 9prn
SATURDAY December 16
-rNT's: fundraiscr for Susln c; Komen
BreEr Cm1e<::r Foundation, l0;)m
Tl-IE COPA: ~1:.tlt l)311e.:-rs 9i,m
GCSHERS: 1..1,a
larn-J:30am
Brcakf1st Buffer
PECtS: fvfa.k D.1n-..:cc . c;t,,,·,.
THE RC)CKIES: Beer Bust l-6;6 .. 12
SUNDAY December 17
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch
2pm, Dancers 4pm Kris Kohl Show
8pm
CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show
8:30pm.
CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love
Show 10pm
THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show
10:30pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12
MONDAY December 18
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
TUESDAY December 19
PEC'S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7 -
9pm wear leather.
THE COPA: Sc;p-Off Comest
Midnight.
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
WEDNESDAY December 20
BA..\fBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm
PEC'S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-
9pm wear leather.
JNT'S: Karaoke 9pm.
THE COPA: Variety Show I 0:30pm
FINISHLINE: DanTournament 10pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
THURSDAY December 21
CLUB MAJESTIC: Taienc Show
w/Rachad Erikks
PECS: Wdl drinks 2.50 fcOJ:: 7-90::,
wear leathe,. ·
THE COPA: Open 'Ialmr wiShemo;;.nc
Somemore i 0:30pm
FJNISHUNE: Darr ·1ournamcnc l (1pm
LEDO: Kari-Okk host Pancho 9om
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm~7pm
FRIDAY D«.ember 22
THE COPA: Maie Dancers 9pm
PEC'S: lvfoJe I)ancers, 9pm
THE ROCKiES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12
CLUB ROX: Alison Scott Show9:30pm
SATURDAY ~mber 23
TNT?s: Chrisrn1as P.anv. Raffle Benefit
for Childrcns f·iospitaL·
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CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Sh°'"
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CLUB MAJESTIC: Caria Lee Love
Show 10pm
THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show
10:30pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12
MONDAY December 25
CHRISTMAS DAY
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Din:
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THE ROCKIES: Beer Buse 4pm-7pm
TUESDAY December 26
PEC'S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-
9pm wc;;.r leather.
THE COPA: Seip-Off Comest
Midnight.
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust ,ipm-7pm
WEDNESDAY December 27
BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm
PEC'S: Wdl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm
·wear leather.
TNT'S: Karaoke 9pm.
THE COPA: VarietJ Show 10:30pm
FINISHLINE: Dare Toarnament l 0pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
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CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wi
Rachael Erikks
PEC':".: Weil drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm
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THE COPA: Open Taicn, w/Shemoane
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LEDO; Kari-Okie host. Pancho 9pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm
FRIDAY December 29
THE COPA: ?,fale Dancer,; 9pm
PEC'S: Male Dancers, 9pm
THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 1-6,6-12
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"Welcome criticism, Gemini!""
Venus aligns with Pluto (yes, to astrologers he's still a
planet!) drawing us to erotic confrontation and artistic or
financial challenges. Both planets trine Saturn in Leo,
grounding us to more secure personalities or others without
a need to prove themselves.
ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Embrace new adventures
like your life depends on it. The quality of your life depends
on a catalytic change; familiar pleasures aren't cutting it.
Don't be afraid of a challenge. There's more to fear if you
don't go for a big one!
TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Review your mortgage or
debts to see if you can get a better deal. New erotic opportunities
will push your boundaries and rouse parental or cuitural
voices - all the better to face them down and be free.
GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): If you want perfection, it's
best to work on yourself, not your partner! Even efforts
at self-improvement may come off as annoying to others.
Perhaps that's a clue to how you realiy need to adapt. Welcome
supportive criticism.
CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Be careful of your health,
especially when it comes to erotic and culinary indulgences
that could affect your liver. Hard work sustains you - up to
a point. Overwork is very dangerous. Know your limits and
err on the side of caution.
LEO (July 23 - August 22): You need some recreation to
steel yourself against life's challenges. Some light, fluffy
_divertissements_ will not do the trick, but a powerful creative
or athletic challenge is needed to provide the required
release and reinforcement.
VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Famiiy or roommates
will drive you mad if given half a chance. Take time
out and away from them to be centered and clear on your
own priorities. Then you can stand your ground with unwavering
assurance.
LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your nOimally
famous diplomacy seems to be on vacation. Despite your
best efforts, you tend to come across as forceful and locked
onto an immutabie goal. That can be good in the right time
and place, but use your forcefulness wisely!
SCORPIO (October 23 w November 21 ): Having a crisis
of values is just a process of maturing. How you face and
resoive it is more important than the crisis itself. Your approach
to the problem will be on view and couid affect your
career.
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SAGITTARIUS (November 22 ® December 20): You could
seduce almost anyone you want now. The trick may be
keeping away those you don't want. !f you really want to
turn the seduction up, a mature, slightly exotic look will
work for you.
CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Erotic dreams
(nightmares?) are suddenly very vivid. They may shake up
familiar patterns, but isn't that a!i for the better? Embrace
the challenges and someone, perhaps with more experience,
who can share them with you.
AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You love a good
debate, now more than ever. You are especially sure of
yourself, but learning is bettei than conquest. The greater
victory would be in keeping an open mind and respecting
whatever authority your opponent may have.
PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Hard work now can
have transformative effects on your career. Expend some
effort, but don't push too hard, to make sure your accomplishments
are noticed. Standing up to the boss may be
necessary. Be calm and open to criticism while holding firm
when you know you're right.
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PROUDLY SERVING THE GLBTA COMMUNITY
sa's
Event of the Year
3rd ~ualMiss
Batn),oo"·Pageant!
. Inside Page 16
Page 2
Joplin,Mo
Our. first issue distributed on New Years
Eve 2003 was just eigh/'. ··., half were
color and half no color; copies where
banded 01,1t at Ree's Bar ln:Joplin and
several bars in Springfield. Ree's was the
first paid advertisement. We were so
excited, SW Missouri_ at last bad a gay
paper.
Chaz Jr., T. J Kelly and myself came up
with the idea one night in Ree's whil~
planning a beiiefit for the Community Free
Clinic. We needed to advertise the event,
but the only GI.BT publications \Vb.ere .
from Kansas City, Wichita, and The; !3-ayly.
We couldn't afford the ad's arid we_w~nted
more than just a printed piece of paper;_We
had often discussed the fact that the hi:ige
GLBT population in the region ha<L!?-9
representation or community voice_:/);'h:g~,
what you know today as the "Ozarks; Star"
was born.
Through the efforts of many people in the
past year, the Ozarks Star has become a
viable source 0£ community information
and news, not only locally, but from
;around the world. The SW Missouri, NW
Arkansas, Oklahoma, SE Kansas •GLBT
communities have become closer and_ people
. :tre traveling the region to places that \Vete
unknown a year ago. I have personally
made many wonderful new friendships and
acquaintances this year because of the ·
magazine. You are all sincerely appreciated.
May your heart be fifkd with h.ppiness and low
this holiday season and throu?}out the coming
year ................... C.D. Ward
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A call for Action ...
We have just fought a tough and difficult
campaign to loose. And now there is no
time to stop, rest or even take time to
evaluate what just happed because now
we face a new challenge here in little
Joplin, Missouri or rather Webb City,
Missouri. A Webb City High School
student wore his pride shirt to school. It
seems that they have a dress code that
excludes clothing that promotes or
advertises products, causes or anything
that may cause a commotion. Yet
students were allowed to use bumper
stickers on clipboards, notebooks and
cars that promoted hate issue such as gay
marriage. It seems as though this dress
code is being enforced only when it is
convenient. One teacher asks what the
pride emblem meant, it was explained
and that teacher responded with, "cool".
Then one teacher decided to make it a
"commotion" by asking him if he
thought it was appropriate for school.
When he said there was nothing wrong
with the T-shirt he was sent to the school
office. He was given the option of
turning the shirt inside out or going
home. He was in the process of leaving
when a friend offered to exchange shirts
with him and they did. The friend stayed
the remainder of the day without being
challenged. Imagine that... consistency
between teachers and enforcement of
rules.
This has now gone to the ACLU for
review and at iast resort they will be
pursuing this through legal means. But
the ACLU has a nasty shirt tail they
can't shake and so does our community.
The Rev ( title used with reservation
)Fred Phelps of Kansas has decided to
protest all sinners at the Webb City High
School and surrounding churches that
allow God's love to seep in. Fred Phelps
has protested churches around the
country and is well known for his
hateful, almost Nazi approach in dealing
with anyone who does not agree with his
and only his view. At the funeral of
Matthew Shepherd he had a sign that
read, "God Hates Fags, Just Ask
Matthew, and he will answer from hell."
I am getting a lot of calls about this and
what stand the church is taking. I t.hink
the more we react to this man the more
fuel it gives him and by staying away we
steal his thunder. Some Queer business
leaders are hoping this will just go away,
The B-GLAD organization from MSSU
and the Young Democrats are planning a
"peaceful" counter protest. I believe
where we go from here is being the best
we can be. That means showing all
people that we are families in the best
since of the word.
Now let's put this in perspective and let's
keep it in HOPE! We must understand
the system and we need to remember
that our Government is not a democracy
but a republic ... basic Government 101.
We need then to take hope in our system
and know that even though it won't be
an easy four years there is hope. As Rev.
Troy Perry stated, "the hard work of
human rights has always been that of
many steps forward and some steps
backward." We have all heard the
verbiage; we lost the battle, not the war."
This is a set-back but it only means
NOW IS THE TIME FOR ACTION.
We need to start with a definition of
family, morale values and put church
were it belongs while that doesn't mean
in war. I am sickened by the righteous
conservatives and those that oppose
human rights even in this country and
use God instead of serving God! We need
to a definition of family that promotes
varues that we can all share . .. cont-pg 15
Page 6
NGLTF_ Media Release
-Older Gays Involved in Caregiving
For Family Member At Rates Equal
To Or Exceeding Those in the
General Population
~FAMILIES OFTEN
EXPECT MORE
CAREGIVING FROM GAY
SIBLINGS
-But U.S. Policies on Aging Do Not
Reflect Needs of Older Gav
Caregivers, Study Finds ·
NEW YORK - Nearly half of lesbian, gay,
bisexual and transgender (LGB1) individuals
over 50 are heavily involved in caregiving,
both for members of the families they grew
up in and for same-sex partners and close
friends, according to a new study released
today by the National Gay and Lesbian
Task Force Policy Institute, Pride Senior
Network, and the Fordham University
Graduate School of Social Service. In fact,
gay people over 50 may actually be
caregivers at a higher- rate than their
counterparts in the general population.
The largest-ever study of older gay people's
caregiving experiences, "Caregiving Among
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
New Yorkers" was released' by the Task
Force Policy Instirute at the SAGE National
Conference on Aging in the Lesbian, Gay,
Bisexual and Trarisgender Communities,
held at New York University, today, June
18. (Caregiving is the extensive, hands-on
help with the tllSks of daily living for the
very sick or frail.)
"Far from shying away from family
responsibilities, this study shows that gay
people are equally if not more devoted to
&mily members and loved ones in need,"
said Matt Foreman, Task Force executive
director.
Forty-six percent of the 341 LGBT New
Yorkers surveyed had been caregivers at the
rime of the survey or in the previous five
years, greater than the 44% rate among
people over 50 in the general population, as
estimated by the AARP. The average length
of a caregiving episode among survey
respondents was eight years: among the.
general population in the United States, the
average length of a caregiving episode is only
4.3 years.
"We are very appreciative of the Task Force's
effons in this study. The findings underscore
what we have learned from both caregivers
and care recipients in the LGBT
community," said Terry Kaelber, executive
director of SAGE, _Services & Advocacy for
LGBT Elders. "Ours is a community with a
strong history of caregiving to both our
biological and our chosen families. To
provide care on a regular basis can be an
overwhelming responsibility and there
simply ate not enough support mechanisms
in place for those people in a caregiving role.
More than one-third of the caregiving
respondents said that their non-gay siblings
expected more of them when it came to
providing care for older relatives precisely
because they were gay. Nearly one-quarter
(22%) of respondents provided assistance to a
blood relation for reasons ranging from
Alzheimer's to the frailty that comes with
old age. More than two-thirds of those
providing such cate were primary caregivers
for that family member. Half provided
assistance daily, and anotber 24% several
times a week.
Another quarter (24%) had been caregiv:ers
for same-sex partners or close friends. Fiftyeight
percent of those had provided assistllnce
on a daily basis; 23% provided care several
times per week. (Other key findings appear at
the end of this release.)
In spite of this, some respondents were
unable to be open about their own sexual
orientation with other family members. Not
surprisingly, nearly three-quarters of the
caregivers in this srudy reported high levels of
emotional stress related to caregiving, and
respondents were six times more likely to
report feeling depressed than the population
as a whole.
Worse, key poiicy frameworks that support
caregivers such as the federal Family and
Medical Leave Act, Social Security, and
Medicaid, as well as most state family leave
programs - discriminate against same-sex
partners who need to care for their loved
ones.
Continued page-25 ........... ..
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by Donald Pile and Ray Williams
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OUR SEPTEMBER
WEST COAST TRIP
2nd /,zstal/ment
(Photo: Donald and Ray with Claude,
the famous Swiss skier and his life pdrtner, Prince Fabien) After a fun time in West
Hollywood it was time to travel to Palm Springs for more fun, excitement, parties
and ? We AL WAYS have a grand time in Palm Springs. Our very special favorite
place to stay is the Fabulous TERRAZZO Resort, 1600 East Palm Canyon Drive.
Tom and Doug have done a remarkable job with their resort. That is why they have
so many repeat guests there all the time. They simply "DO THINGS RIGHT"!
We gave a party at the Terrazzo our second night there and it was attended by the
guests at the Terrazzo as well as dear friends who live in Palm Springs. When you
can give a party under the stars in Palm Springs and have so many wonderful and
exciting people there you have to have a grand time. Two wonderful artists were at
our party .... Robert Shafer and Giorgos Dimakis are extremely professional artists
who have a thriving business in Palm Springs. Their still life oil paintings are the
best that we have ever seen by a living artist. They both are tremendous. Their
studio/ gallery is downtown. Palm Springs. Also attending our party were Denise,
Joanna and the fabulous Doreen, all from the Casitas La.quite Resort in Palm
Springs. The following day we hosted Tom and Doug to lunch at Melvyn's which is
our very favorite restaurant in Palm Springs. Melvyn of course is a real gem. Brian,
the Maitre 'd and Miguel our waiter KNOW how to do things the right way. It is
always such a treat to experience such a fabulous dining experience as we always do
when we dine at Melvyn's. People have been coming to this restaurant for many
years simply because it is the "best of the best". Later that evening our dear friend,
Stefan Hemming hosted a party at his estll.te which is the former estate of the late
Liberace. A grand time was had by all and we got to meet new and exciting people.
Bradley who is one of the finest singers in the business graciously sang a few songs.
The next day two Swiss gentlemen checked into the Terrazzo Resort from Zurich,
Switzerland. One was the noted skier, Qaude and his life partner, Prince Fabien.
They had flown in to California and were touring several cities. They were very
interesting, good looking and extremely intelligent. We took them shopping at all
the fun places in Palm Springs and then we dined at the Cedar Creek Inn in the
evening. We ordered their very special Pasta dishes. What is money for if you don't
spend it? Another very interesting gentleman, Alf, originally from Germany also
was staying at the Terrazzo Reson. He now is living in the Northwest pan of the
United States. He is good looking, educated with a brilliant mind. He was very
interesting to talk with.
The next night, our dear friend Burt hosted a dinner party at LcValarise Restaurant.
Dining under the stars, we WERE the stars, and why not? Jim and Stefan even
performed a duet at the piano. Burt is one of the most energetic and interesting men
we have met . .................................... continued page-26
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Dame Edna Storms back to
Broadway in her newly minted
extravaganza.
Following the national success of her previous lifeenhancing
and much loved shows which hllve been
buried beneath an avalanche of international awards,
Dame Edna returned to her private estate in her native
Australia to review the state of the world from her
unique point of view. During that time she crafted her
latest offering, which is set in an all-new theatrical
infrastructure.
"Edna will glow from the stage in a series of never-before-seen gowns. She will sing,
dance, give psychic readings to astonished audience members, offer marriage counseling
and perhaps even heal," promises Tony Award-winning production designer
Brian Thomson.
"I'm glad you didn't ring a minute earlier because
I was. with my gynecologist," declares Dame Edna
Everage in lieu of hello, "and he said thli.t I was fit
for Broadway. He said, 'Edna, you've still got
your drives and juices, and you're all ready for
The Great White Way.' Mind you, it wasn't The
Great White Way he was looking at."
Dame Edna's Coffee Table Book, Dame Edna's Bedside
Companion and her seminal autobiography, My
Gorgeous Life, which is currently being adapting for the
stage and screen. Possibly Jewish, Dame Edna is a
widow, with three grown children.She spends her time
visiting world leaders and jet-setting between her homes
in Los Angeles, London, Sydney, Switzerland and
Martha's Vineyard.She is the Founder and Governor of
Friends of the Prostate and the creator of The World Prostate Olympics.
Date of Birth: February 17 Place of Birth: Kew, Melbourne, Victoria, Australill Sign:
Aquarius Occupation: Actor, Comedian, Writer, Composer, Painter Education:
Melbourne University, Griffith University (Honorary Doctorate)
Relations: Father: (construction manager), wife: Lizzie Sepnder, father-in-law:
Stephen Spender (poet), daughters: Emily Humphries (artist) and Tessa Humphries
(actress), son: Oscar Humphries Qournalist) Broadway Debut: 1963 (Oli'Oerl)
Barry Humphries as Dame Edna Everage
Out of drag (at right), Humphries made his Broadway
debut as understudy to Fagin in the original 1963
production of OlifJer!. As his drag alter ego, he's
become a superstar, earnitig a 2000 Tony Award for
Dame Edna: The Royal Tour.
Humphries is best known as his drag persona - the
purple haired, Melbourne housewife named Dame
Edna - that he created in connection with the
Olympic Games in 1956.
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MCC Comm,miutions
Dq,artmmt. Prtss
R~ Nowmber 4, 2004
MCC Leader
Lupe V~ld--.z
Elected Sheriff
of Dallas
County, Texas
(
~ Tq11s ~ On November 2, Lupe
Valdez, a longtime ~ember and lay
leader of Mcffi?politan Community
Churches, was elected as the new Sheriff
of Dallas
County in
Texas.
The Dallas
Morning News
describes Lupe's
election as a
"breakthrough
victory." An
article under the
headline "Vi,ldez
scores historic
victory" notes
that Lupe is the first woman and the
first Hispanic to be elected Dallas
County Sheriff in this heavily
Republican county.
As the Democratic candidate, Lupe
defeated the Republican candidate, who
was a three-decade veteran of the
sherifrs department. Prior to the
election, political observers favored her
opponent to win the election.
A major factor in Lupe's campaign
success was her more than 30 yean in
professional law enforcqgient. Lupe has
served as a corrections officer at both
county_ and federal levels, and has many
years experience as a US Special Agent.
Most recently she was a Senior Special
Agent with the US Department of
Homeland Security. Lupe retired from
fedeml law enforcement in January 2004
to run for the office of sheriff in Dallas
County. Toward the end of the
campaign, her opponent raised Lupe's
sexual orientation as an issue.
Cotnplaioing that she had received an
endorsement and contribution from the
Victory Fund, an organization that
supports openly gay or lesbian
candidates, Lupe's opponent suggested
that she would use the office of sheriff as
a platform to advance issues such as gay/
lesbian rights and same-sex marriage.
Lupe asserted that sexual orientittion
should have no bearing on the race, and
would play no role in how she ran the
department.
In a profile on the candidates three days
before the election, the Dallas Morning
News reported that Lope is "openly gay"
and stated that "She is a member of the
Metropolitan Community Churches, a
worldwide fellowship of Christian
churches with a special outreach to gay
and lesbian communities."
In her victory statement to supporters
and the media on Tuesday night, Lupe
Valdez said, "We are an intcmational
county with people of all ethnic groups,
rich and poor, gay and straight, and this
is what I want to represent."
For more than 25 years, Lupe Valdez has
been an active lay leader in Metropolitan
Community Churches, serving MCC in
Dallas as a deacon and boa.rd member
and serving the denomination as Director
of Security for General Conferences
from 1989 to 2003. She currently serves
as a member of the Moderators
Nominating Committee and is an active
member of Metropolitan Community
Church of Greater Dallas.
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Page 15 The Ozarks Star
Steve Urie from pg-5
My family doesn't fit that box. My
family is the man I call my husband,
Heath and we have family values that we
can share and be proud of. We are in a
relationship, love each other, both work
and are dedicated to our jobs but take
time for each other. It is always a
struggle but we are attempting to be a
family role-model for your homosexual
people to follow.
Morale values are new to a lot of the
GLBT community and it is time to
bring them out of the closet and begin
discussions. We have been children far
too long and it is time to bring into the
light the ability to be honest with
ourselves to make a change. Mature
enough to recognize that the "Queer As
Folks" mentality is destroying our
community with alcohol, drugs and a
disease that we are still sharing with one
another. .. you know the one, "I'll never
catch." Let's name it while we here... the
HIV virus and the disease AIDS. And
let's include that low self-esteem that we
just love to poor me with. How long do
we have to be down on ourselves? And
where does church belong? Well, I don't
believe it is in the signs I hear about
across this country. The signs posted
outside of churches with pictures of our
military and the caption, "Our troops
doing God's work." This is religion at
its very worse. God doesn't need us
assigning God duties. It actually works
in reverse. Jesus stood with those that
no one would associate with and showed
them the way. I believe that if our
churches were paying attention to God's
will; they would be serving their
communities, feeding the hungry,
clothing people and providing shelter
for those without homes. The church
has a place and it is one of service. It
must be there for everyone and that is
when it is doing what it is suppose to
do. Not when it is being pushed and
pulled into action to destroy lives, Not
when it joins in a union with the
government. As a church we are to exist
for people, life, justice, community,
love and the true conscious of the
government. The church needs to bring
itself to a higher level, to share its God
given responsibilities and to let the world
sec how God's spirit is there for all
people. The church is a beacon of light
for al) people and we are to be those
beacons leading others to this great hope.
This is what Jesus would do and NO
ONE WOULD BE TURNED AWAY.
Had the Democrats been just as verbal
and strong with our beliefs then we quit
possibly could have pulled it off. It isn't
that we have a weak faith, a lack of
commitment to God; it's that we don't
stand on the rock and say this is why we
support programs helping people and not
just the rich. What a schism. the
Republican Party has put into this great
country by telling churches they need to
fear us. Let them be put on notice .tfu.t
51% is not a landslide. Let them be put
on notice that we will not be used as a
wedge to divide this country. Let them
be put on notice that we arc who we are,
we are not going to be silenced and we
are going to be bold in not only our faith
but in our citizenry.
It is a great time of hope, a great time of
boldness and strength. I am going to
quote from an article by the Rev. Dr.
Peony Nixon (MCC Clergy). Do not
underestimate how difficult times might
be in the next few years. There will be
tactics, overt and covert, to squeeze us
out and shut us down. This is all the
more reason to be bold with whom we
are.
During the Viet Nam war a lone
protester stood outside the White House
gates with a smgle candle. He was ask,
"Do you think you are going to change
the government with one candle?" and
his reply was, "No, but it will keep them
from changing me." I challenge you to
take part supporting B-GLAD and the
Young Democrats in their peaceful and
silent protest. Don't let the light go out!
Until 2005
The Ozarks Star
Toe ~ia Annual Miss Bamboo Pageant,
Wwsa's Social Event of the Year.
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Tulsa, OK November 13,2004
by Star Writer Greg Steele
The House was packed and the beauties filled
the Bamboo Lounge vying for the title of
Miss Bamboo 2005. As the winner was about
to be announced the crowd was silent, eyes
were tearing in anticipation. The nine
contestants held their breath with hands
clasped. Dickie Tucker fainted from the
pressure. The crown had arrived by Brinks
armored vehicle just in time. Now for the big
moment, Bamboo Co-owner Terry asked for
silence, and the winner is, Miss Nelly Ann
Manly. The crowd roared, as the press
photographers flashed their camera's. It had
been a great show. (left photo: Terry and Miss
The winner was deteonined by the amount of tips each collected. In t1.U'? was donated
to the nonprofit organization R.A.I.N ., a Tulsa
group dedicated to assisting people with H.I.V. and
A.I.D.S. The event raised $500.00. This was the third
year the charity pageant has donated to the group.
Terry and Stan, owners of the Bamboo Lounge said "
It's a worthy organization that out reaches to the
community. They provide food, rent and utility
assistance, transportation for medical treatment and
we have. a ball doing it." From a reporter's prospec-
. · tive, Stan (Photo at right)
· llad a damn good time
himself, we know how he
loves the spotlight! Everyone enjoyed his performance as
well. The MC for the night (Photo at left) did a fantastic job
_also keeping all those Pretty's in line.
In addition to the nights festivities, the H.O.P.E. organiza-
. contributed their time and effort with free H.I.V.
· g and handing out condom's to all who wanted. The
Ozarks Star congratulates Terry and Stan, job well done.
Page 18
. The Night Larry Kra11,1er
Dissed M&---And All the
Rest of You!
A Politidu Commentary:
November 15; :2004
New York City
A week ago Sunday we had the most gorgeous weather
ever. I sti:cilled·down to the piers, and as the sun shone
down. and th~ fall breeze tickled the trees playfully, I
thoug!it to myself; "See, there are still some things in
· fife worth fi#ig' for after Bush's victory. Before I got
caught up";'tnCatf election frenzy of emails and CNN I
• could tllke _the time· to enjoy a beautiful day-and I still
· ~n." But-9ot,-:for long. Not with Larry Kramer's speech
'The Tragedy Of Today's Gays" beckoning to me from
~ooper Union. I longed to escape the sunshine and
· nook into someone who could voice mv bitterness
more eloquently than I. Larry did not disappoint. I urge
you all to read his cntitc speech onlinc at
~.rodneycroome.id.au/other/0/, but here is my
attempt to sum up the major points of a long speech in
a short article.
I wasn't involved in ACT UP so I wasn't too familiar
with Mr. Kramer. I knew he'd kissed David Drake*
· but who hasn't? I'd been warned that he was very~
and extreme. I must be too, since I agreed with every
bitter, truthful word he had to say. His basic message to
gays? You arc just too f--lc:ed by this election,. and you're
just too f--kcd UP with crystal, barebacking and apathy
to confront your attackers, the conservative right. A
"vast right-wing conspiracy" was hatched in 1971 bv
Lewis Powell and financed by 9 rich families who ~ere
scared of hippies, war protesters, and civil rights
activists. The right saw their safe, conservative world
crumbling and began to implement a highly organized
plan to reinstate it. On November 3rd, after 35 vea.rs
the plan was successful and the conservative pre;iden~
co~grcss and supreme court are now poised to turn back the clock on civil rights to defeat any
gains. ~sys, women, blacks or ~en dissenters have made. ''The people (this plan) was written
for diet not then go off to a. ~sco o~ to the Pines, or into therapy or into drugs. They took the
P~ and th~y. have executed tt religiously every day and night for the IAst 35 years, initially
with 400 million dollars ... and some back-breaking, grinding, unglamorous work ·of civic
engagements c<>unty by county ... '.lley took the richest and most liberal nation in the world"
an~ ~ansfonned it so that no': 30% of li.mericans self-identify as conservatives, as opposed to
10¼ m 1971. And make no mistake; They hate us and they arc in a position of complete
power.
An~ whcr,e is our plan to c~mbat them? In a shambles, as arc we. "Our org:tnizations stink"
ana are either powerless and or on the verge of financial collapse. When will the rich and
powerful gays step up to help? We. can't count on the government because they hate us and arc
gl~d that we're doing ourselves _in with AIDS and crystal. We're murdering each other by not
u5:1g condoms. 'W_c know that un~rotectcd sex causes AIDS and yet new infections are up
401/o. If we know n~ _to prevent tt and we aren't, then we arc bringing the .AIDS cri&is onto
o~rselves and are. refusing to accept responsibility for it. "Has it never occurred to you that not
usmg a condom ts tantamount to murder? ....... continued next page-19
p~ 19
It is in.credibly selfish not to at least have
thought that question ... make whatever
excuses you = to carry on in your state of
denial, but this is the fact of the matter." In
an extremely poignant moment Larry
pondered "Was it my sperm that killed them,
th9.t aid the trick? .It.is no longer possible for
m'e to avo'id the que';tion of myself. Hav~ you
ever wondered how many men you have
killed?"
Instead of considering this crucial question,
we deny each other's hum_anity :1:nd define
each other as. sex objects, shallow whores who
are only looking for _the neit piece of nieat,
We're bright and talented but our. efforts are
focused primarily on partyu?.g arid sex. "I
have recently come to believe that gay men
and women arc tragic people. W c arc. so
wonderful, b_ut we are so fucked up." Our
brightness isn't being put to use. "How much
public service on behalf of your brothers and
sisters have you performed recently? Don't
tell me you ~on't know what to do ... if you
can find another ass to hump."
We've lost the war against AIDS with over 70
million expected to die worldwide. But gay
youth are in a stll.tc of denial and don't want
to lcun the lessons of their eiders. Larry
lashed out at the notion that protease
inhibitors are any sort of cure. "We like to
call it 'the cocktail'." But it's chemotherapy,
which either kills the disease or you, and is
very difficult to tll.ke, with many side effects.
"And you say, 'Can't I get stoned and try
barcbacking one last time?' ARE YOU OUT
OF YOUR F--KING MIND? You kida want
to die ... wcll, then die." Hell, youth won't
even acknowledge their elders, and how can
they have any sense of community without
any sense of their past? "Every moral code I
know of requires respect for the dead. You
disdain anyone older who was there ... but you
do not seem al:!le to fashion your future. To
distove~ what ybu want. You don't even ask
what you want. How can you not have
curiosity about your future as a gay
person? .. .! had
people to follow and many of you have not.
No baton was passed to you ... A large,
congealed mass of potentially superior beings
doc ,n't even know what to do with
thcn,selvcs or bother to learn their history.
So they dance. So they drug. So they go to
the internet to find more scx ... You don't
seem to be able to connect with anyone
beyond the basest way ... I'm not so proud of
us right now."
In a Q & A afterwards (which demonstrated
quite clearly how clueless some gay youth
are) someone mentioned the low current
attendance at ACT UP meetings. I had a
thought on how to get ACT UP and activism
going agsun-free crystal at the meetings! And
maybe barebacking how-to demonscrationsKIDDING!
Larry iaid out his bleak diagnosis
and ended with more questions than answers.
Milybc it's time for us to start thinking for
ourselves ... That baton's been passed now,
kids. You gonna drop fr? Or come out
swinging? Or go to the gym and cruise the
steam room? Or shop for your next circuit
party outfit? Or do another bump?
Ask Uncle Mikey
Advice Column!
December 2004
·~ December is here.again Kittens. It is such a special time of
ycllf, where hope spritigli ·in winter bottoms, Err, I mean
· blossoms. A time for hope of the New Y car and all it shall bring
us. Uncle Mikey truly l~vcs December best. It is also the time of
.year for Uncle Mikeya™s.annual Wet Jock contest, which is
· always a smash. The.winter fest that is Uncle MikcyaTMs life, will
surely spring forth new idvcnturcs hopefully filled with I
Tw:inkies - as I can not get enough of that cream filling. Is it ·I
Uncle Mikcv, or dd tl:tosc commercials with that Twinkie in
cowboy ~ do anything for anyone besides me? ffuuna something to ponder I guess.
V' ,'•, , ' ' '
Uncle hfttd a new house bov as I will of course have endless wk for the young man this year.
He attii.cs.triday. J'li?,d·him,1hippcd express mail. His name is Mr. Delight and I am hopeful.
Uncl~)fi¥§:;will keeR you posted on.how he works out:.All of my staff is lucky to have me. I
includ~ a. uitlform <:Httilig with matching rhincs.tonc collar. With all of these things springing
forth, let's sec what,sonic read.ca hitvc on their minds this holiday season.
Dear Uncle, I am at.a crossroads with a new relationship. We have been together for three
months now,. the longest l hlNc been trne · to someone. However, he is always acting like he has
something to hide. T do. not want to get crazy jealous, but I followed him one night where, I
saw him go into solllC,,guf! li..ousc ,!lld WIIS in . . · tw;o hours. I didn't tell him I saw him,
as I didn't·w'lUlt hirii to, get n:iAd. What should I JS{ I confront him, or do I just kceg quiet?
Monogamously confused.·
Dearest MC, Kitten, where do you buy your stalker equipment at? Is the reason you have
not been with anyone loogtt than three months possibly due to the &ct that you are out there
reenacting mission impossible? Dllfling, does the word stalker mean anything to you? How do
you even pretend to give someone ti:ust when you 11.fe following the poor dear around like
that? If you ate ever ro have a hc:;i.!thy lasting relationship some serious self evaluation is
needed to figure out why you are so insecure. You obviciudy have some issues with intimacy
and need to figure those: out .fir4t. Hop~ this man does not find out al:iout your private eye act,
and work on you fusi. .If someone is cheating it shall show itself in tinie. At least give him a
chance before you decide he is unfaithful .. Acting like a guest of the Jerry show will
quench love beforc.it,.eveμ has a.chance. Kitten, sort these matters out in hopes that
you will become a more trusting soul.
Smooches Uncle Mikey
Uncle sees this lrind of mistrust as. a factoring reason for infidelity in relationships. If you make
someone feel distrusted ou will encourage their straying ways; as they' already have
been. accu1ed. Leaving but .. .. · r.o be done. Trust is important to any relationship. If
trust is not there, it is but 11. tttnc bbioh: of drama just waiting fur the fuse to be lit.
Dear Uncle Mikey, I ·used to _have a. circle of friends that were pretty right. Now,
they have all settled into long-tcim (elationships leaving me arid the other guy out.
Now, I £ind myself lonely as I just do not think it is what I am looking for. They all
tdl me it is the very thing I need in my life is someone stable and act like there is
something wrong with me, as I don't want to settle down. Family life makes me
nauseous. Am I wrong for wanting to remain single?
Pia.yet at heart .................................... continucd next page-21
Page 21
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Dear Player heart:
There is something to be said for both
lifestyles. Uncle has enjoyed both sides of
the fence, and though Uncle has decided
that I have had my share of love, leaving
me now to enjoy a life of sampling the
delicacies of Gaydom, I. assure you nothing
is wrong with you. However, you do come
off a bit judgmental on their lifestyle of
choice. If they are happy with family life,
wish them well. Understand that it will
most likely bring a dividing barrier into the
friendship as they 11.fC moving .on with life.
If you arc lonely for your pals make some
new ones. And one last question here, have
you and the other guy thought fate may
have left you two alone for a reason? That's
something to think: on. Yau never know
where love will come from, keeping your
options open 1md the ability to see
opportunity is important even to players.
Smooches Uncle Mikey
Kittens never close your mind to the
possibilities that fate may offer us. Live life
under one rule and that is simpiy - be all
you can be; young queer. Play by the rules
of love and life, while being rruc to
yourself.
Do not try to live life by others standards.
Make your own happiness.
It is as I was just telling a very dear friend of
mine, Sir Comesalot, you have to seize the
moment. Believe me he did and it was a night
we won't soon forget. Life is but several
moments of possibilities. It is the Player that
keeps his eyes wide open that will find those
winning moments that makes life worth
while.
It seems my time has &dcd faster than a trick
at sunrise. Until we meet again. Remember
Kittens: When someone asks you this season
to help stuff their turkey. They 11.fe of course
referring to cooking darling, not sympathy
sex. Oh, was I embarrassed.
Merry Cht-istmas Kittens!
Smooches Uncle Mikey (and Tiddles too).
U nclclnikey4you@Aol.com,
Uncle Milcey is " character &om Freelance writer Michael
Hln:mum. Michael h2s been writing for ten yon.
Utili,cing his 1todle1, and life cxpctiencc to help others in
his community, through humor and sound advice.
Michael applied his study of p,ychology and creative
writing, u well his extensive background in mcn12l health
Direct cue to bring a n= s:ylc and approsch to helping
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Page 22
11 States Approve
Gay Marriage Ban
StaJe.m~!'}t fr_o.rn the. Reverend
Dr. Troy D~ Perry
Foundeir and Mor::terator of ' , ""<",/.",,,~;./
Ji':'• sap . . . . . .
approved ballot measures to limit the
rights of gay, lesbian, bisexual and
transgender persons to equal protection
under the marriage laws.
In the midst of today's disappoint, we
take hope. The hard work of human
rights has always been that of many
steps· forward; · arid some steps
backward. The outcome of these ballot
measures is a setback:; but only a
temporary setback, in the forward
march of justice and equality for all
people.
These votes are powerful reminders that
it is always wrong to put human rights
and equality to a public vote. Equality
under the law, by its very · t
be afforded to all people,
LGBT people, and must nctict be based
on public popularity.
History is a powerful teacher, and gives
us hope. Had African-Americans in the
U.S. had ro wait for a public vote, their
wait for equality undet the law would
have been even longer. Thank God for
the court system in the United States.
Just as the courts righted injustices
against our African-American brothers
. and sisters, we, too, take hope that the
· courts will ultimately rule that America
must live out the promise of its
.founding documents, of liberty and
justice for .all.
We Jalute the many LGBT people in
thos~ 11 sates who, along with our
family and friends,. turned out to vote
no, on thes:OC laws and who boldly
supi:iorted equality under the law.
Thanks to so many in our community
for. being willing, · yet again, to talk
· abou.t our filmilies and our lives. This
public conversation changes public
atti°:1-des and will change laws.
· Already today groups across the U.S.
are mobilizing to challenge the
con~titutionality of these ballot
measures in the courts. I strongly
.support these efforts, and encourage all
· ,peoele of goodwill to support these
challenges with your prayers,
cominitlnent and finances.
·N0TE:
the Reverend Dr. Troy D. Perry
performed the first-ever public same-sex
wedding ceremony in the U.S. in 1969,
and in 1970 fil,ed the first-ever lawsuit in
the US. seeking legal recognition of samegender
marriages. He was. rrwrried under
Canadian law to bis partner of 20 years,
Phillip Ray DeBlieck, in July 2003.
Quotable
Quotes
"That [getting married] was better,
deeper, more meaningful than I
thought it would be. I never really
invested in marriage. I come from
the g-cneration of gays that were
like; that's the straight thing to do,
that's not a part of my life. So it
wds a long journey to doing that
and, once I did it, it's huge, and it's
really more than I ever imagined."
Singer Mclissa·Etheridge on her
marriage to actress Tammy Lynn
Michads, to the Memphis gay
magazine Family & Friends, August
issue.
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Creator: Paula Maitinac _has
been writing for the gay and
lesbian press for more than 20
years. She served for three years as
the co-chair of the board of
directors of New York City's
Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and
Transgender Community Center,
where she founded a
groundbreaking reading series
called "In Our Own Write."
by Paula Marti.nae
December, 2004
Overcoming the
Red-State Blues ...
"Why Kerry Lost." "Kerry Really Won." "23
Percent of Gays Voted for Bush." "How to
Immigrate to Canada." E-mail messages with
tormenting subject lines like these, sent by
various progressive groups and individuals,
have been landmg in my mailbox at a .&st and
furious pace. Despair on the left is widespread,
because so mariy of u~ considered this election
to be the most important one of our lives, and
now we're rushing .to analyze what the results
mean for our future.
Much of the spin from the 'left seems to follow
one of two sttancfs: citlicr-Ji.mcrieans are too
stupid to up.~ef~i . . . . . . . is sliding
into fascism, or clsi .... . .. failed to
give voters _a v#Hl~,~teipaf.ivc.fo Bush. That
"--------------~ st:.i.rk dichotomy iep,indi aie of those funny
"critical issues" books we read in high school history disses, .'the ones with titles like
"Napoleon: Revolutionary or Despot?" that never allowed for a gtay area in
between the two choices. · ·
Now, in our despondency over Kerry's loss and the passage of all those anti-gaymarriage
amendments, we may not be able to see any bright spots amid the gloom -
and believe it or not, there iire a few. And no, I haven't changed my name from
Paula to Pollyant1J1.; I went trawling for positive things to cling to so that I wouldn't
go insane, and I offer them here for you to cling to, too.
1. A number of openly lesbian and gay Democratic candidates either won historic
victories or made impressive ·showings in local nces in areas of the country where
they should have lost big - the red S1:ll.tes. Consider, in particular, three courageous
lesbian candidates. Nicole LeFavour won a seat in the Idaho House of
Represent:.i.tives, becoming the first out gay official in that conservative state. Julia
Boseman garnered a place _in the Stll.te .Senate of North Carolina and will .be its first
LGBT legislator. On Bush's home turf, Lupe Valdez becomes the o~t lesbwi Latina
sheriff of Dallas County, its higliest-nnking law-enforcement official. Keep in mind
that these states aren't just red;· they're deep criinson.
The courage of these women is precisely what we'll need to see more of in coming
months and years, since a big Republican win calls for a big progressive response.
That includes many more gay people running for office. Local nices matter greatly,
sini;:e laws that affect our daily lives ?ZC Im.de in · the atatc legislatures. But also, aa we
saw this year with the amAZing Batack Obama Jn Illiriois, local political bodies can
become steppingstones to natiomi office.
2. Another ray of hope is that there was no antigay backlash at the polls in
Massachusetts, the state that sparked same-sex marmge furor across the country.
Every Massachusetts state legislator who upheld gay marriage rights won. re-dection,
and the antigay House Speaker h11.s been replaced by one who supports gay rights.
The state's proposed constitutional amendment to ban same-aex marriage may be
scrapped. Could it be Bay Smters have realized that living next to married same~sex
couples is not very different from living next to unmarried ones? ... cont.-page-26
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Deep Inside
Hollywood
by:Romeo San
Vicente
December 2004
Carson Comes Down
It's going to be a very Carson Kres~ley
Christmas over at Bravo. The favonte
gay fashiooista of hetero · makeover
candidates .everywhere is hosting .his very
first holiday special for the network that
made him a stiu-. It's called _The .
Christmas Special Christmas Special_,
and no,i you djdn•t read .that incorrectly.
This will pay tribute. to all
specials that came
way _I Love the
1:'h~ A-Team_.
the Night Visitors_ are in this party mix,
with the quippy Carson n~~g ~. and
most .likely jmgling -: all. the !it ~e
wx:app.μig · co~es off Dl=cem_,. t, with f
what Js sure o
repeats until the
Star Coob Up _Kitchen Confidential_
His _Se:t and the.City_ la,;liel! ~P-~~.t t:4eir
time hanging out in .~nc · • · · · . after
another, but now. _Sex_
Stat is going . ~ . . -
his new project. A hebwd-the-scenes
comedy about life oit the other end of
the entree, _Kitchen Confidential_ - a
half-hour series based on the memoir of
the same name by Anthony
Bourdain executive chef at New York's
Les Hall;s · restaurant - will move straight
past the la.dies who lunch and into the
fast-paced kitchens where those $99
truffle-laden hamburgers get made. The
project is now in the hands of writers,
who'll translate Bourdain•s book for the
small screen; Stat himsdf will be
supervising the pil~t ~pth_ 20th Century
Fox Television and New line TV are on
board to produce, and Romeo's mouth is
already watering in anticipation.
Set It Off Again
The very c~l 1996 women-robbingbanks
drama _Set It Off_ ended in a hail
of bullets, with three of its four main
characters on ice. So ... sequel? Why not?
And that's exactly the plan that's in the
works over at New line, with producer
Darryl Taja setting up the ~~xt chapter
in that crime spree. The onginal film
staned Jada Pinkett Smith, Vivica Fox,
Kimberly Elise, and Queen Latifah
(playing a butch lesbian with nothing to
lose) as an all-female, gun-toting gang of
desperate women in need of qttlck cash.
But since Pinkett,-Smith's character was
the lone survivor when that movie's
credits rolled, it's unclear at this point if
the sequd will involve any of the original
felons. Hey, it worked in _Teen Wolf,
Too._ Sort 0£
Kathy Griffin•• Cup Runs Over
Comedian Kathy Griffin's legion, of gay
followem - tμe woman seems to have an
a.Im.oat rdigiou1 preference for her queer &n1
- will be happy to know that after her new
concert film, _Allegedly_, drops thi1 month
on DVD, their favorite funny lady baa a
multiplex'• worth of movies heading down
the pike. In the forthcoming_ Vegas Baby_,
Griffin plays 1omcthing called a "Shc-EJvis"
(really, don't aalt); in the Cinderella story
_Dirty Love .... she stars opposite Jenny
McCarthy and Csumcn Electra; the _Blue
Lagoon_-ish _Lovcwrccked_ secs her joining
cut memben Amanda Bynes and Lance Ba11;
and in the Charle• Matthau-directed _Her
Minor Thing_, Griffin will worlt opposite
_Saturday Night Live_'1 Rachel Dratch and
former _SNL_-er Victoria Jaclt,on.
Meanwhile, if you're too lazy to commit all
that to memory, you could juat catch her on
_Hollywood Squucs_.
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G,y C.rtgiversfrom jMge-6 .
"Government agencies serv10g elders
should target funding to the gay .
community, just as th~y mr,~et .~thruc
minority elder populations, SIU~
Marjorie Cantor, professor ementus at
Fordham University Graduate School
of Social Service and a principal ..
investigator of the study.
The National Gay and Lesbian Task
Force Policy Institute is a think ~
dedicated to research, policy analysts
and strategy development. to ~ance
greater uncferstanding and equality for
lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgcnder
people.
SAGE, Services and Advocacy for Gay,
Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgcnder
Elders, is the nation's oldest and ~~st
social service and advocacy orgaruzation
dedicated to gay, bisexual and
transgcnder seniors.
Some Additional Findings in Caregiving
Among Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and
Transgender New Yorkers:
_ One in five caregivers surveyed relied
on a member of the clergy for
emotional support around issues rdatcd
to caregiving. In contraSt, less than 1 %
of family of origin caregiv~s, and .
approximately 15% of family of ch~tce
caregivers, relied on a gay commuruty
organization for support.
- At least one-third of caregivers said
that the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and
transgcnder (LGBT) community had. a
key role to play in providing support to
LGBT caregivers. When a.sk~d why_ the
gay community should help its_ seruor
members, most respondents s~d that .
the community was best a~ ~ fo~ tts
own, reflecting an underlying belief tn
the persistence of discrimination.
_ The LGBT community-based services
in which the respondents were mo~t
interested themselves were counsding
(26%), retirement, or a_s~i~tcd ~
communities (19%), VlStttng setv1ces
(19%), and assistance with thy-to-day
tasks (14%).
_ One in five respondents had children of
their own, and 7% were grandparents. Fortysix
percent of the respondents were between
50 and 59; 35¾ were between '60 and 69; 19%
were 70 and older.
Fifty-two percent of the respondents
were single; 40% were partnered.
- Tolhy, the population of gay ~e~ors
in America. is just under three million.
By 2030, as gay baby ~oon:iers head into
their sixties . and seventies, tt could be
nearly twice that.
The foil report can be found in the Task
Force publications library at
www.TheTaskForce.org/library
Quotable Quotes
"Sexual orgies eliminate social tensions
b aged
,,
and ought to e encour .
_ U.S. Supreme Court Justice_ Ant?nio
Scalia speaking at Harvard Uruvers1ty
Sept. 28, according to The Harvard
Crimson.
Page 26 Gay Tramers from pdge 7
Another dear friend, Tyke gave a
brunch for us at his condo which is
decorated beautifully. Tyke also is an
artist and we got to see some of his
lovely oil. pain~. We love Tyke for
many reasons and one of them is that he
loves giving wi shirts! In the photo
above at Millie's party, we ate wearing
two of the shirts that he gave us.
The iast night we were in Palm Springs
Millie Bollin, the Grande Dame of Palm
Springs ll~ciety, gave us a party at her
estate attended by exceptionally
enjoyable people in Palm Springs. She is
a rare jewel. Fun, funny, educated,
intelligent, witty, great party hostess
and just a truly NlCE person. Her
neighbor, Princess Rcg4ia. attended as
well as lots of other interesting guests.
Millie has a won9erful dog and bird to
keep her company.
People! That is what it is all about.
Meeting new, fun, cxcitlng and
interesting people. Our special
THANKS for our wonderful time in
Palm Springs goes to Tom and Doug,
o~ers of the TERRAZZO Resort.
They ~ super guys and once you stay
with them .yo_u wili :w~i: tt> return
forcrer: Th6re ii onlyon~ bad tbfug
about.the.; · however. And that
•; You simply never.
And" BlG t#~'.Y.0'11.,to Jim Poyle ~s~~~~lt:\~::::~
in QUt tt'lfVe!s: Jinfcap.Ao an~g, and
WC do.mean ~G I :.He plays
the piatto SQ b~utifally anais'.onc of
the best.bartenders in'thc cc4ritry. He is
a gr~ businessman ~d all irourid
super nice guy. Th~s Jlgi fo.t: all you
have done.
So, next time yotit bored, whynot fly
out to Palm Springs, check ·illti:i· the
TERRAZZO Resort ahdhiive yourself
a wonderful and exciting time.
usbian Notions from pg-23
3. Although the mainstream media only
reported on the gay movement's
crushing defeats in 11 states, exit polls
conducted by the National Election Pool
(NEP) found that an astounding 60
percent of Americans support some sort
of legal protection for same-sex couples.
While only 25 percent said that
protection should take the fonn of
marriage, another 35 percent favored
civil unions.
Of course, "marriage lite" is not what we
want or deserve. Still, the NEP poll
numbers are encouraging because they
point to Americans' fundamental belief
in basic civil rights. And that belief is
what we must hang on to as we continue
the struggle for full equality under the
law.
4. In Ohio, four major public universities
whose domestic-partner benefits have
been jeopardized by that state's anti-gaymarriage
amendment have vowed to
preserve those benefits until forced to do
otherwise. Gov. Robert Taft (R.) has also
opposed the antigay measure, fearing that
it "will make it more difficult for us to
retain and attract the young. talented
knowledge workers we need to advance
Ohio's prosperity." When straight
people begin to sec g,a.y rights as being in
their own· self-interest, it's .a sign that
we're making progtcss - even when it
looks like we've lost.
These few glimmers of hope may not
seem like much after such a huge blow;
but remember that. the path of social
change proceeds like a glacier - slow and
steac;ly. Susan B. Anthony and Elizabeth
Cady Stanton wo.rke.d their entire lives
for women's suffrage, but didn't live to
see it. Similarly, most of us who work
for equal marriage rights may never
enjoy ·them ourselves, but we will, in
fact, have helped to change the world.
Paula M,.rti,n4c is a Lambd4 Liter11rv
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Seo es
by Jack Fertig
December 2004
"Cover yourself, Libra!"
Mercury turns retrograde this week,
while in quincunx to Saturn. New ideas
require testing, and most will fail - . but
don't let that deter you! The biggest
challenge is to be pragmatic, sensitive,
and above all, adaptable.
ARIES (Much 21 to April 20): Arguments
are hard to avoid! Religion and politics
always make discussions more interesting
than polite. This is especially so now at
home and with family. Staying open-minded
takes special effort, but if you can manage
that, you'll be ahead.
TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): Expressing .
grief and frustration is hard, but worth the
effort. Those feelings will get worse before
they dear away, but opening channels no:w
will help. Confide in a dose friend,
preferably someone grandmotherly.
GEMINI ~ 21 to June 21): Money
problems can strain any relationship; Now
the stress is pretty rough. It is very
important to discuss these issues. Solutions
won't come this month, but communication.
shows awareness and willingness to work on
things, and that's enough for now.
CANCER (June 22 to July 22): You're
especially vulnerable now to contagious
respiratory problems. Stay warm and dry,
and choose your company carefully.
Whether or not you deserve blame for
miscommunications at work, take
responsibility for. fixing them.
LEO (July 23 to Augnst 22): Creative blocks
will pass, but never quickly enough.
Dreams, fears, and old f.unily disasteu can
be sources of inspiration, or can at leut help
you to undentand the bloc~. Face the
grim and dark. - better to appreciate the
merry and bright.
VIRGO (August 23 to Septcinb~ 22): . In
our communities, how we redefine "family"
among our friend~ has little in the way of ·
rules or precedent. Either category has its
assumed obligations - but what are they?
You need to adjust expectations there; look
for a little turbulence, but nothing serious.
LIBRA (September 23 to October 21):
Anything you say can and will be held
against you! Cover yourself by
consulting with authorities; and double
check all references. Things will still go
wrong, but make sure where
responsibility lies and be prepared to
take responsibility as is appropriate.
SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21):
Financial problems will pop up over the
next few weeks. Think carefully about
them. Take a long view to what can be done
now to ease the cuts. Education and travel
plans may have to be reconsidered.
SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to
December 20): Who are you as a sexual
being? That question gets opened up to
profound exploration. Reconsider your
integrity, limits, and desires. You may back
away from some situations, but you will
ultimately find something better.
CAPRICORN (December 21 to January
19): Problems with your partner are largely
in your own head, but whatever worries
and doubts you have should be discussed.
Yeah, it can get pretty messy over the next
few weeks, but in the long run it will work
out for the better.
AQUARIUS (January 20 to February 18):
Remember that friends and colleagues are all
fallibly human. Now they are quite
frustrating, pushing you to reconsider social
commitments and long-term goals. Think
slowly and carefully. It's time· for
adjustments, not radical breaks.
PISCES (February 19 to March 19): Your
reputation is 'about to take some knocks.
Accept the challellge to adapt. With a bii of
creative hard· work,· you can figure out a way
to establish .whatever connections and bona
£ides you need to get through this.
Jack Fertig has been working as a professional
astrologer since 19 77 and is a founding member
of the Association for Astrological Nef!Working.
He can be,~~ for consultations at 415-864-
8302, throtJgh his uiebrite at
http://f flf11'flJ.St4rjackcom
Page 28 Four States Community Directory
-Bars- Nightclubs- -Lodging-
Arkansas, Fayetteville (479)
Studio 716- -716 W. Sycamore- - - - 479-571-130
Ron's Pl11ce- - 523 W. Poplar- - - - 479-442-3052
Wild-On - - - - - -3570 W. 6th- - - - - - 479-521-9453
Arkansas, Fort Smith (479)
Kinkellds-10041/2 Garrison Ave- - -479-783-9988
Club 1022 - -1022 Dodson Ave. - - - -479-782-1845
Arkuau, Hot Springs (501)
Club One Eleven- - - 111 Gllrden St- - - - -620-4111
Our House Lounge - 660 E. Gnnd Ave- -624-6868
Arkansas, Little Rock (501)
Back Street - - - -1021 Jessie Rd- -501-664-2744
Discovery- - - -1021 Jessie Rd- - - - - - 501-666-6900
The Factory - -412 LoUWllllll St- - - -501-372-3070
Miao11rl, JopHa (417)
Ree's-••• 716 S. Main•• - -.. -417-627-9035
Mlssoarl, Kansas City (816)
Buddies - - - - - - - 3715 Main St - - - - 816-561-2600
Belle Sw's- - - - 1321 Gr11nd Ave- -816-421-1288
DB Wll!ehouse- -- 1915 Milin St- - - -816-471-1575
Misr.ie B's- - -805 W. 39th St- - - - -- - 816-561-0625
Sidestreet Bu - - - -413 E. 3rd- - - - - 816-531-1775
Sidelcicb Sllloon - 3707 Milin St- - 816- 931-1430
Missouri, Springfield (417)
The Edge- -424 Boo~ville Ave- - - - - --417-831-4700
Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive - -417-864-4572
Oz Bar• 50-4 E. Commercial• - • • • -417-831-9001
Ronisuz Place- - --821. College- - - - - - -417-864-0036
Rumon • -1109 E. Commercial- - -417-873-2225
Okluoma,•Oldakoma City (405)
Boom Rocim- 2807 NW 36th St- -- - - - -405.:.601-7200
Club Rox- - - -3535 NW 39th Expwy- 405-947-2351
Copa- - - - - - - -2200 NW 39th Expwy- -405-525-0730
Finish Line - -2200 NW 39th Expwy- - 405-525--0730
Hi-Lo Quh - - 1221 NW 50th- - - -405-843-1722
Lido- - - - - - - -2200 NW 39th_ Expwy- 4()5-5~~0730
Partners- - - - -2805 NW 36th St - - - - - 40.S.:942-2199
Sisters- - - - - - 2120 NW 39th s;. -----405!521-9533
The Rockies- - -3201 N. Ml!.Y Ave.- - - - 405-~7-9361
Topanga Grill&: Bar- 3535 NW 39th:-4()5-947-2351
. Oklaboma, Tuia (918)
Bamboo Lounp 720-4 E. Pine - • _..918-836-8700
Clnb Maverick-· 822 s. Sheridan - 918:835-3301
End Up Oub- - - 424 S. Memodal- - - 9111c-836-2480
Heads &"Tails- - 7944 E. 21st - • - - - - 9i8'660-7878
Club'~jestic- - 124 N. Botton - - - • -918'584-9494
Rencgadea- - - -1649 S, Main-• - - - -91if:5135.3405
Play-Mor-Oub- - 1737 S. Memorial - -918-838-9792
Silver Star- -1565 S. Sherid20 - - - - - -918-834-4234
Yellow Brick Road- - 2630 E. 15th - - 918-293-0304
Missouri, Joplin (417)
Fairfield Inn by Marnett- - - - 417-624-7800
Miuouri,Ava
Catus Canyon Campground- - - . - 417-683-9199
Missouri, Lampe
KOKOMO Campground· - - - - - - - 417-779-5084
Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405)
Hollywood.Hotel- 3535 NW 39th Ex-405-947-2351
Habana Inn - 2200 NW 39th Exp- - -405-528-2221
-OrganizationsArkansu,
Eareka Springs
MCC Living Spring- - - - - - - - - - - -870-253-9337
Arkansas, Avoca
Natural State Nanni.st!- - - - - - - . -479-451-8066
Kansas, Pittsburg {620)
Ri,cr of Life Church - 1709 N Walnut - -11.AM
PSU-QSA. . 1701 S. Broadway- - - - 620-231--0938
Missouri, Joplin ( 417)
MCC Spirit of Christ-2902 E 20th, • - - • 6PM
UCCFF-204 N. Jack.on Ave, - - - - - -10:30.AM
.Aids Project O:i:atb- 513 Kentucky- 417-624-5788
Missouri, Spriagfleld (417)
Rllinbow Christian Ch-837 W. Madison- 866-6206
Unitarian Univemlist Church - - - 417-833-2723
APO- - - - 1901 E. Bennett, suite D- - 417-881-1900
ShowMe MO Pride • - - - - - - - - - - - --417-864-4459
GLO Comm. Ctr- -518 E. Commericlll- -869-3978
PFLAG-Springfield- - - ~ - - - - - - - -417-889-1059
PROMO SW MO- promoswmo@hotmail.com
Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405)
Cathedrlll of Hope~ - 600 NW 13th St- - 232-HOPE
The Center- - 2135 NW 39th St - - 405-524-6000
Oklahoma, McAlester
McPride- - - - - -POBox 1515, McAlester, OK 74502
Oklaboma, Talsa (918)
MCC United- -1623 N. Miaplewood- -918-838-1715
TOHR- c - - - - -'Fo Box 2687, Tulsa, OK 74101
GlBT Comm. Ctr- -5545 E. 41st- - •. - 918-743-4297
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-Business Services,Missouri,
Eureka
Shelter Insurance- -Greg Tainter- - 636-938-5500
Missouri, Joplin (417)
Body Swim Massage Therapy- - - • -417-825-5800
Charles Burt Realtors-Vicki Bronson-- -434-0077
RE/MAX- - - -Cathe Letts- - - - - -417-483-5313
Office Max- -440 Rllngeline Rd- - - - 417-623-1007
Joan Szymanski- Be11uty Consult,- - 417-673-1181
Missouri, Springfield (417)
Priscilla's - • - • 1918 S. Glenstone • --417-881-8-4-4-4
Oklahoma, Oklahoma City
Century21 • -4301 NW 63rd #10Q- 405- 840-2106
Prucilla's- 615 E. Memorial - - - - - - 405-755-8600
Jungle Reds - - 2200 NW Expwy- • • 405-524-5733
Oklahoma, Taha
Kelly Kirby,CPA-4815 S Huvard. - 918-747-5466
Underguy.i::om · · -825 E. 3rd- - - 877-7-BOXERS
Prucil_la's - - - - - 7925 E. 41st - - - - - -918~627~84
Priscilla's - ~ · · 5634 W. Sully - - • ·-918-#6--63~6
Priscilla's••• •11344 E. 11th•••• - 918-4iB-4224
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Title
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[2004] The Ozark Star Magazine, December 1, 2004; Volume 1, Issue 12
Subject
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Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics
Description
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The Ozark Star’s first issue began in August of 2004. Before this Issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) then follows The Star (2005) and The Metro Star (2008)
This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit.
This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission.
Creator
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Star Media, Ltd
Publisher
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Star Media, Ltd
Date
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December 1, 2004
Contributor
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C.D. Ward
Greg Steele
Paula Martinac
Lady Bunny
Romeo San Vincente
Steve T. Urie
Donald Pile
Ray Williams
Michael Hinzman
Jack Fertig
Format
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Image
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PDF
Language
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English
Type
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magazine
Coverage
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Southwest Missouri
Western Arkansas
Eastern Oklahoma
Southeast Kansas
The United States of America (50 states)
Source
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https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19
Relation
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The Ozark Star Magazine, November 1, 2004; Volume 1, Issue 11
https://history.okeq.org/items/show/173
The Ozark Star Magazine January 1, 2005; Volume 2, Issue 1
https://history.okeq.org/items/show/143
Identifier
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https://history.okeq.org/items/show/142
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