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Text Any textual data included in the document By Mary Bishop-Baldwin Oklahomans for Equality History Project It’s Oct. 19, National LGBTQ Center Awareness Day, and today we at the History Project celebrate the very existence of Oklahomans for Equality’s Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Since the Equality Center opened nearly two decades ago, thousands of people have come through its doors, joining with like-minded folks and advocating for LGBTQ people, accessing services, using a free library with thousands of LGBTQ-themed books, and rallying for justice and equality for all. The Equality Center is a gift for us all – and for future generations – from many dedicated volunteers who gave of their time, labor and money to establish this home for the LGBTQ community in Tulsa. Before the Equality Center opened in 2007, Oklahomans for Equality and its predecessor organizations had no permanent home. When the group was founded in 1980, its members met in places such as the Central Library and All Souls Unitarian Church. Within a few years of its founding, the group had rented small spaces for storing the organization’s records and for such things as board meetings, but any community meetings and gatherings were held elsewhere. Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights opened Tulsa’s first “Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Transgendered Community Center” in a rented space at 1338 E. 38th St. on Peoria Avenue in Brookside in October 1996, according to a “History of TOHR 1980 to 2003” document in the OkEq archives. “The center quickly became a popular meeting spot for community groups, support groups, and those who wished to network with other members of the GLBT community. The center began to operate a book and video library, referral service, and pride retail store,” the document says. The center, which also was known as the Pride Center, was named the Tulsa Gay Community Services Center in 1998, Greg Gatewood, a former TOHR executive director, recalled in an oral history interview that is part of the History Project’s archives. Keeping the center’s doors open was always a concern, particularly from the standpoint of money. “As the end of 1998 approached, and despite very careful budgeting with strict adherence to that budget, the serious question of ‘how we will pay rent’ and ‘will we have to close the doors’ was a real threat,” Gatewood said in an addendum to that interview. “An anonymous gift, an amount to cover rent though the end of year plus a bit more, was then delivered to the TOHR office in the newly renamed ‘Tulsa Gay Community Services Center.’ That anonymous gift kept the doors open in 1998 and helped set the course for success in 1999.” The property owner wanted no exterior signage indicating that this was a gay center, but Gatewood said that in 1998 he and two other members raised a Pride flag and hung banners that said “Gay Community Center and Pride Store” from the roof down two sides of the center’s building to enhance its visibility in Brookside. “We got kicked out. We lost our lease because we hung up the signs,” he said in the interview. A legal fight ensued, and TOHR lost that battle. Part of the reason landlords insisted on no obvious signage is that they feared potential vandalism to their buildings from anti-gay extremists. A Sept. 15, 2014, Oklahomans for Equality Facebook post says that “we had to move the existing gay community center every few years because landlords overreacted to vandalism and felt our visibility hurt other tenants’ business.” Indeed, “the Community Center has been vandalized numerous times in the many locations in which it has operated,” TOHR noted in its Pyramid Project Capital Campaign Executive Summary in explaining part of the rationale for buying its own property. In former TOHR President Tom Neal’s oral history interview, he and Dennis Neill discussed the vandalism at the Brookside center, recalling that the front glass was broken twice. The organization moved to a rented space on Memorial Drive at 21st Street in October 2000. The Nov. 10, 1999, TOHR membership meeting minutes, housed in the History Project archives, state that the organization “can put up permanent signs once outside renovations are substantially complete.” Before that lease expired in September 2003, TOHR began looking for a new space to lease – explicitly stating in an Aug. 1, 2003, “Request for Space” document that it needed the “right to place visible exterior signage with text similar to the following: ‘Tulsa GLBT Community Center,’ including graphics for the TOHR logo and the rainbow colors associated with the GLBT worldwide community.” The Tulsa GLBT Community Center moved in 2003 to the Highland Plaza shopping center, 5545 E. 41st St., east of Yale Avenue. TOHR had launched its first capital fundraising campaign, the Pyramid Project, in 2000. The “History of TOHR 1980 to 2003” document says the goal was to raise $1 million to buy “a permanent and visible home for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center.” “Those brave and self-sacrificing folk believed if they would ‘build it, they would come’ to a center that provided direct services, advocated daily for a more inclusive Oklahoma, and connected individuals and created paths to friendships,” OkEq’s Sept. 15, 2014, Facebook post says. Not long after OkEq bought the building that would become the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center – and long before the building was remodeled and opened to the community – Gatewood went onto the roof and raised a Pride flag above the building for the first time. “One of the most memorable days of my decade-plus of involvement with TOHR /OkEq was the day (in November 2005) I raised the Pride flag on the roof of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center,” Gatewood said in his oral history interview. “It was a celebration attended by hundreds of the Tulsa LGBT community on a beautiful November day filled with sunshine. I will never forget that feeling. I will never forget that day.” More than a year later, the Jan. 22, 2007, Oklahomans for Equality eNews reported that “after hundreds of thousands of dollars, over 7,000 hours of volunteer work, … 275+ volunteers, 2 big trucks and countless weekday and weekend workdays – the day is finally here! Oklahomans for Equality will open the new Dennis R. Neill Equality Center today, Tuesday, January 23, 2007.” A five-day grand opening celebration was held from Feb. 14 through Feb. 18, 2007, with various events every day. A Jan. 23, 2007, email from Oklahomans for Equality announced that “defying conventional expectations, Tulsa is now home to one of the largest (18,000-square-foot) lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community centers in the United States.” Celebratory events ranging from an art exhibit to GayBingO to a Wild Hearts Ball were held at the Equality Center. The email contains extensive information about the grand opening events. Our ownership of our own building was a remarkable accomplishment, and while it gave us a permanent home with no chance of being evicted, it didn’t stop the vandalism. Around 12:30 a.m. on March 6, 2017, a white four-door pickup pulled up in front of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and fired 13 shots at the windows and front door. The damage was discovered when staff arrived later that morning, and the drive-by shooting was viewed on the center’s security video. Over the years, TOHR/OkEq and other organizations in Tulsa and across the nation have held events to mark National Coming Out Day. But the community was resilient. “The board of directors has chosen to keep the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center open and programming to continue as it does on a regular basis. They have hired an off duty Tulsa police officer to provide extra security during this time of uncertainty,” the March 8, 2017, OkEq eNews reported. After OkEq member Wes Smith challenged members of the community to send in $13 each – one dollar for each of the pellets that had hit the building – to replace the glass, people across the country and world sent in more than $33,000, which allowed OkEq to replace all the downstairs windows and the front door with more bullet-resistant glass, Sue Welch and Marcy Smith recalled in their oral history interview with the History Project. The damaged door is now a part of the History Project’s office. On July 22, 2019, a little more than two years after that drive-by, the mural depicting Lynn Riggs on the exterior of the Equality Center’s Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater was vandalized with spray paint, the July 31, 2019, OkEq eNews reported. A Tulsa World article about the vandalism and OkEq’s resilience is on file in the History Project’s archives. Our home at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center can never be taken for granted. It is meant to be our safe place. While Oklahomans for Equality owns the building, it is the community’s responsibility to foster its continued existence by contributing resources and participating in programming. On this National LGBTQ Center Awareness Day, think of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center and all those who have made its existence possible for us and for future generations. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. 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Text Any textual data included in the document National Coming Out Day, Oct. 11 By Mary Bishop-Baldwin Oklahomans for Equality History Project Today, Oct. 11, is National Coming Out Day, and the Oklahomans for Equality History Project is taking a look back at how this day came to be and how Tulsans have acknowledged it over its nearly four decades of existence. “Coming out” is something that is near and dear to our hearts at the History Project as we consider the risks OkEq’s founders took when putting their names and faces with a gay rights organization in 1980, when the group was founded. Times were very different then, and it took bravery and a bit of self-righteous indignation for those individuals to come together and acknowledge being gay. But that’s the thing: It’s always been easier when you find others who share traits with you – when you know you’re not the only one. So coming out allows others who think they are the only one to see someone like them and find the courage to live their lives openly and authentically. Beyond helping other LGBTQ+ people, though, coming out lets other people know that they know someone who is gay or lesbian or bisexual or transgender or two spirit or nonbinary or anything that is not cisgender heterosexual, and this can make all the difference in how the larger society responds to us. When straight cis people know us as people, they’re less likely to demonize us and work against our human rights. Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, OkEq’s forerunner organization, informed its members in the May 1988 edition of the TOHR Reporter that “lesbians and gay men across the country are being called to join in a nationally publicized ‘Coming Out Day’ scheduled for October 11th, 1988. According to a recent report in the Washington Blade, organizers of the event plan to involve hundreds of thousands of people in order to boost the visibility and political clout of gays and lesbians by showing that they exist in all walks of life.” This 1988 event was the first National Coming Out Day. The May 1988 article explained how it was started: The ‘Coming Out Day’ activities were jointly sponsored by the National Gay Rights Advocates, a California based litigation group, and The Experience Weekend, a gay-oriented consciousness-raising program run by Rob Eichberg. Jean O’Leary, NGRA’s executive director, said she and Eichberg volunteered to organize the event after it was proposed at a national gay rights conference held that February. “The National Coming Out Day campaign will encourage every individual to take the ‘next step’ in coming out, by telling a parent, relative, business associate or friend,” the TOHR article said. It added that “coming out” could be done through “a simple action like placing a photograph of your lover on your desk at work, or a bold step like a teenager taking his or her first step in acknowledging their sexual identity.” That national conference mentioned in the article was a February 1988 gathering in Warrenton, Virginia, of “approximately 200 recognized leaders of the national GLBT community” who collaborated on strategies to change public policy toward gays. A formal statement from the group prioritized visibility of the community through coming out. “We are mindful of the invisibility of our community,” it said. “As long as the overwhelming majority of our community remains closeted we will continue to be dismissed. We must do a better job of encouraging people to begin the process of coming out, and to support them when they do. We all know the exhilarating liberation of the process. We must convey that to others. The closet means invisibility, impotence, crippling and even death.” Later in the statement, the organizers said: “Finally, we must have a national coming out day, or week, to be held in the fall. We recognize that coming out is a process, not a single event. On the coming out event we can encourage everyone in our community to take the next step – it may be coming out to a friend, to a sister or brother, to parents, to coworkers, or even in the media. Or it might be to join a gay organization, to become an activist, to engage in civil disobedience. We must move to the next stage, no matter where on the spectrum we presently are.” As that first National Coming Out Day approached, TOHR reported in the October 1988 edition of the TOHR Reporter that: “The goal of National Coming Out Day, Oct. 11,1988, is to increase the visibility and the political clout of the more than 25 million gay men and lesbians in this country. “Coming out is the most self-empowering and political move that any one of us can make. Coming out is a liberating experience that enhances our self-esteem. It enables us to share our true selves and feelings with the people we care about – our families and friends. “Coming out also is a political act that uses gay visibility to influence the attitudes of people who respect us. “We are of all races and religions. We work in every profession in every city. We touch the lives of millions of people whose negative view of homosexuality would change dramatically if they were to know who we are. “By remaining silent, we ensure our continued oppression as we allow an ignorant and intolerant society to make the rules that govern our lives. “On Oct. 11, the first anniversary of the historic March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, hundreds of thousands of people will be bringing the spirit of the march home to their local communities. Be one of those people. Help to create a world where lesbians and gay men can live and work with their heterosexual counterparts as equal citizens in a society that recognizes their legitimacy and place in America!” The article offered some “ideas for coming out”: • Speak the truth when asked, “So are you engaged yet?” • Stop lying to your fraternity brother about all the women you’ve had • Call him a him and her a her when talking about your love life • Acknowledge that “those roses” are not from your mother • Be affectionate with your lover upon arrival or departure at the airport • Put your lover’s photo on your desk at work • Read a gay paper on the bus or in a restaurant • Take your lover home for the holidays • Come out to your family – parents, brothers and sisters • Come out to your extended family – uncles, aunts and cousins It also offered ways “non-gay friends of gays” could offer support: • Write a letter to your congressperson in support of human rights • Challenge homophobic jokes and comments when you hear them • Attend a lesbian or gay event with your lesbian and gay friends Over the years, TOHR/OkEq and other organizations in Tulsa and across the nation have held events to mark National Coming Out Day. The Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Fall 2002 edition of The Torch newsletter notes that “many communities and college campuses sponsor activities such as dances, film festivals, workshops, literature booths, and rallies on National Coming Out Day. Tulsans can do their part in this year’s National Coming Out Day. Simply stop by the TOHR Pride Store, located in the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 2114 S. Memorial, and pick up a bumper sticker or T-shirt. Then slap that sticker on your car or wear that T-shirt.’ “Come out! It’s what you should do. Period.” The November 1993 edition of The Parachute includes information about a National Coming Out Day event held by TOHR. It included an auction as well as free food and drinks. The Oct. 15-Nov. 14, 1995, edition of the Tulsa Family News includes information about local NCOD events. The Family of Faith Metropolitan Community Church held a commemorative service attended by 35 people, the newspaper said. The University of Tulsa’s Bisexual, Lesbian and Gay Alliance presented three days of programming ranging from a panel of PFLAG speakers to a discussion of gays and lesbians in the church. The next year, in 1996, multiple events again were held over a three-day period at TU. According to the September-October 1996 Tulsa Family News, a roundtable discussion of “Sexuality: Nature vs. Nurture” was held one evening, while a panel discussion on same-sex marriage was held the next. On the third day, all campus groups were invited to attend a Unity Party in honor of National Coming Out Day. The August 1999 edition of the Tulsa Family News, as well as the publication’s September 1999 edition, reported that TOHR would present a National Coming Out Day Festival and Fair, which was to include a mini film festival. The October 2001 edition of the Tulsa Family News reported that Tulsa’s PFLAG chapter was having a Come Out and Fly Your Kite event at a local park in honor of National Coming Out Day. The Oct. 10, 2013, edition of the Oklahomans for Equality eNews contains a National Coming Out Day reminder that “OkEq offers a FREE Coming Out Workshop every Monday evening.” In 2017, OkEq held a T-shirt printing and open mic Coming Out Day event at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The community was invited to bring their own T-shirts and print their own messages on them for free and to tell their coming-out stories through comedy, poetry, spoken word or performance, the Sept. 27, 2017, OkEq eNews announced. Oklahomans for Equality made a statement in the Oct. 10, 2018, eNews: “Coming out – whether it is as lesbian, gay, bissexual, transgender, queer or allied – STILL MATTERS. When people know someone who is LGBTQ, they are far more likely to support equality under the law. Beyond that, our stories can be powerful to each other. “Every year on National Coming Out Day, we celebrate coming out as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer (LGBTQ) or as an ally. On Oct. 11, 2018, we will mark the 30th anniversary of National Coming Out Day. “Nearly 30 years ago, on the anniversary of the National March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, we first observed National Coming Out Day as a reminder that one of our most basic tools is the power of coming out. One out of every two Americans has someone close to them who is gay or lesbian. For transgender people, that number is only one in 10.” In 2019, OkEq created an #outinokla Facebook frame, which it promoted on a Facebook post featuring a photo of gay playwright Lynn Riggs. The Oct. 11, 2021, OkEq eNews acknowledged that “in the LGBTQ2S+ community, ‘coming out’ is a process that never truly ends. First, we must come out to ourselves, accepting who we are in the community. Then comes telling others, which never really ends, as we have to keep coming out at work, with friendships, with family, and in other situations. “It takes time. It takes tremendous self care. It takes a whole community of support to feel ready to come out! At Oklahomans for Equality, we are dedicated to helping individuals no matter where you are on your journey. Join us for our Coming Out Workshops, connect with our gender and sexuality support groups, get sliding scale fee counseling, visit our OKEQ Health Clinic for HRT services, and check out our LGBTQ+ Youth Group. Coming out is a journey, and we are here to support you!” (Groups and events at the Equality Center change from time to time. Check out what’s happening on Oklahomans for Equality’s event calendar here.) So make your statement today, National Coming Out Day, but continue to honor yourself and our past during the entire month of October, LGBT History Month. Check out the Oklahomans for Equality History Project’s online archives at history.okeq.org. And you can come out, find your community and celebrate with Oklahomans for Equality at the Tulsa Pride parade and festival on Saturday, Oct. 17. Wear your rainbows. We’ll see you there. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource National Coming Out Day article Subject The topic of the resource National Coming Out Day Description An account of the resource The Oklahomans for Equality History Project looks at National Coming Out Day's history and significance and how OkEq and Tulsa have marked it over the decades. 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document Oklahoma marriage equality 12th anniversary By Mary Bishop-Baldwin Oklahomans for Equality History Project I’ve been researching and writing articles on OkEq’s and Oklahoma’s LGBTQ history since this spring, and with my journalism background, I’ve written them from a third-person perspective. But today’s issue is profoundly personal for me, so, in the interest of transparency, I’m writing this in first person, and I’m drawing on my own memories as well as on historical documents. I hope you’ll indulge me. Today, Oct. 6, 2026, is the 12th anniversary of marriage equality in Oklahoma. It’s also my 12th wedding anniversary. Twenty-two years ago next month, Sharon Baldwin, Sue Barton, Gay Phillips and I filed a federal lawsuit against Oklahoma Gov. Brad Henry, Oklahoma Attorney General Drew Edmondson, United States Attorney General John Ashcroft and U.S. President George W. Bush seeking the right to marry (Sharon and me) or to have our existing relationship recognized. (Sue and Gay already had a domestic partnership in Vermont.) We filed the case the morning after 76 percent of Oklahomans who bothered to go to the polls voted to put the state’s existing statutory ban against same-sex marriage into the state constitution. Our case took lots of twists and turns over the next decade, including a complete change of lawyers and defendants (Drew Edmondson later told us he’d always been on our side), but we eventually prevailed in the courts, and marriage equality became the law in Oklahoma on Oct. 6, 2014 – a year before Jim Obergefell’s case won marriage equality nationwide. We weren’t affiliated with Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights – Oklahomans for Equality’s previous name – in the early years of our legal action, but the organization threw its weight behind our cause starting in 2008, and we will forever remain indebted to OkEq for the support it gave us and the home it provided us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. It is my honor and privilege to be working for the Oklahomans for Equality History Project now to bring attention not just to this but to all the milestones along the road to LGBTQ equality so far. As Sharon discusses in her book about our case, “Becoming Brave: Winning Marriage Equality in Oklahoma and Finding Our Voice” (available for check-out in OkEq’s Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library), Oklahomans for Equality hosted many events and was the primary fund-raiser for costs associated with our lawsuit. (Thank you, OkEq and all of you who donated!) OkEq declared “Marriage Equality Week” and organized several events during the week of March 25-30, 2013, when the U.S. Supreme Court heard oral arguments in New York resident Edie Windsor’s case challenging the Defense of Marriage Act and in the challenge to California’s anti-equality Proposition 8. On that Monday, the University of Tulsa law school’s gay student group presented a “Preview to the Supreme Court Hearings on Marriage Equality” at the Equality Center, and faith leaders from local inclusive congregations spoke in support of marriage equality. That Tuesday, OkEq board member and attorney Mike Redman discussed that day’s U.S. Supreme Court hearings. On Wednesday, Oklahoma’s marriage-equality plaintiffs and local couples who had been legally married in other jurisdictions held a panel discussion on why marriage matters. That Thursday, attorney and OkEq board member Conor Cleary recapped discussions in the DOMA and Prop 8 hearings, and on Friday, a marriage equality documentary was screened and wedding cake was served. A flier from Oklahomans for Equality to its Equality Business Alliance members invited them to participate in an OkEq Wedding Fair by showing off their business services to prospective brides & brides and grooms & grooms during that week’s events. Then, more than nine years after our lawsuit was filed, U.S. Senior District Judge Terence Kern ruled on Jan. 14, 2014, that Oklahoma’s ban on same-sex marriage violated the U.S. Constitution’s equal protection provision. He stayed his ruling, however, until the case could play out in appeals. We had known from the beginning that if we lost at any point, we would appeal, and we knew that if we won, the state would appeal. So we were OK with the stay at that point. We were elated that we had won, and we continued to have faith that we would win on appeal. Anticipating new costs as the case would go to the 10th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals in Denver, Oklahomans for Equality encouraged supporters in its Jan. 17, 2014 eNews to contribute to the legal fund. The Feb. 5, 2014, OkEq eNews promoted a pre-Valentine’s Day marriage-equality engagement party to be held at All Souls Unitarian Church, one of our supporting congregations, on Feb. 12. “Announce your desire to marry as soon as it is legal in Oklahoma,” the article said. “Certificates provided to couples announcing. There will be food, drink and music.” The first and only time oral arguments were heard in our case was April 17, 2014, in the Byron White U.S. Courthouse in Denver, the home of the 10th Circuit. Three months and a day later, on July 18, the appeals court issued a ruling upholding Judge Kern’s U.S. District Court ruling declaring Oklahoma’s ban unconstitutional. We had won again, but the court left the stay in place pending appeal to the U.S. Supreme Court. Indeed, the defendant (by this point, the defendant was the Tulsa County court clerk) did appeal. We also urged the U.S. Supreme Court to hear our case, even though we had won. We wanted the high court to make a ruling that would apply to the entire nation and end the patchwork quilt of marriage-equality states that had emerged during the past decade. One of the original printings of the Brief for Respondents – or “orange book” – with our attorneys’ pleading to the high court to take up our case, signed by all four plaintiffs and three exceptional lawyers – Don Holladay, James Warner III and Joe Thai – is on file in the OkEq History Project collection, and a digital reproduction is available in our online archives. But on Oct. 6, 2014, nearly 10 years after we filed our lawsuit, the U.S. Supreme Court issued a statement saying it would not take up the appeal of our lower court ruling, thus letting it stand. The stay was lifted, and same-sex couples were able to marry starting that day. The staff and board of Oklahomans for Equality jumped into action, and by 5 o’clock that evening, Sharon and I were holding wedding bouquets and standing in front of Oklahoma Court of Civil Appeals Judge Jane Wiseman on the front steps of the Tulsa County Courthouse, where we had obtained a marriage license just hours before, and were saying our vows in front of a crowd of hundreds of friends, family, co-workers, supporters and onlookers. Then what seemed like even more people attended a reception at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, complete with a hastily obtained wedding cake and plenty of champagne for toasting the historic occasion. We were elated, and while we were ecstatic to finally be married, we were even more thrilled for our community. Now same-sex couples in our state and region (10th Circuit states) could publicly acknowledge their relationships and have them recognized by our government! We all could lift our heads higher and walk more proudly, knowing that we were no longer second-class citizens under the law. On the marriage front, at least, we were equal to heterosexuals in the eyes of the law. And we were far from the only same-sex couple married in Oklahoma that day. When Sharon and I arrived at the courthouse, several other couples were already there to get their marriage licenses. Very kindly, though, they were waiting for us to get there and then let us go to the head of the line so we could have the honor of obtaining the first marriage license issued to a same-sex couple in Tulsa County. Some of them went ahead with their ceremonies as soon as possible, but we scheduled ours for that evening to allow for arrangements to be made and for friends and family to get to Tulsa from out of town. Oklahomans for Equality determined that during the next three months, more than 3,200 Oklahoma marriage licenses were issued to same-sex couples in 23 of the state’s 77 counties, then-OkEq Executive Director Toby Jenkins told the Tulsa World in January 2015. County court clerks’ offices weren’t keeping a count, but OkEq staff members went through online records and tallied the numbers of marriage license applications issued to couples with apparently same-gender names. The tally sheets are on file in the Oklahomans for Equality History Project archives. Immediately after marriage equality became the law in Oklahoma, Oklahomans for Equality made a list of gay-friendly officiants for wedding ceremonies available for pickup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center or by email. Also in its Oct. 8, 2014, eNews, it encouraged couples to look through the Equality Business Alliance directory for LGBTQ-friendly businesses to help create the perfect wedding, and it promoted spaces within the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as places to hold a ceremony. For those with questions about how the legality of same-sex marriage would affect them, Conor Cleary led an Oct. 9, 2014, session of OkEq’s OUTlaw Legal Series focused on the state of same-sex marriage in Oklahoma. Also as early as Oct. 8, 2014, OkEq put out a call for wedding photos from the same-sex couples who had gotten legally married since Oct. 6. “If you have a photo of you and your partner getting your marriage license or photos of your wedding, we'd like to see them, the organization wrote in the Jan. 22, 2015, OkEq eNews. The organization continued collecting photographs, and then, near the one-year anniversary of marriage equality in Oklahoma, Oklahomans for Equality released a video compilation of those that had been submitted. A link to the YouTube video is included in the Oct. 7, 2015, OkEq eNews. Within one year of same-sex marriage becoming legal in Oklahoma, marriage equality became the law of the land nationwide when the Supreme Court ruled in the Obergefell case on June 26, 2015. The patchwork quilt of marriage-equality states was no more! Finally we could fly through Dallas and not have our marriages nullified by the state of Texas as soon as the plane’s wheels hit the tarmac at DFW! (Yes, Oklahoma beat Texas!) Same-sex couples could drive across the country without having to plan their routes to avoid non-marriage-equality states. Besides the psychological reasons for wanting our marriages intact, we had practical reasons. If one spouse had a medical emergency and ended up in a hospital – or dead – the laws of the state would determine whether the other could make medical decisions and body-disposition arrangements or whether the two were “strangers under the law.” These things were among the reasons we wanted and needed marriage equality in the first place, and they were important whether we were at home or traveling. Committed, loving same-sex couples had long yearned for the ability to take care of each other and to protect their financial and property rights in the event of a death. Before marriage was possible, some gay couples became legally next-of-kin through adult adoption, in which one partner would legally adopt the other to establish familial rights. Such was the case with Bruce Schultz and Jared Bruce, who obtained an adult adoption when they were both 50 years old in 2005. Thus related under the law, they were not eligible to marry when same-sex marriage was legalized in Oklahoma in 2014 and across the United States in 2015. But longing to have a legal relationship that truly fit their status as life partners, they sought to have their adult adoption vacated. Represented by attorney Mike Redman, who was then the Oklahoma ACLU president and a longtime OkEq board member, the couple obtained the first reversal of an adult adoption from the Oklahoma Supreme Court on Feb. 1, 2017, and were legally married at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on that same day. They had been together 35 years. “I was orphaned at 10 o’clock in the morning and married at 5,” Jared Bruce said Friday. Their case set a precedent for other adult adoptions to be vacated when deemed by a court to be in the best interest of the parties. For their dedication and determination in this cause, “the Bruces,” as they are known, were honored with the Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award in 2018. Redman received the award the next year. The adoption of children is another legal issue that was affected by marriage equality. On Nov. 20, 2015, Julie and Crystal Loveland-Davis, represented by attorneys (and husbands) Chris Brecht-Smith and Michael Brecht-Smith, both past OkEq board presidents, obtained the first same-sex second-parent adoption in the state of Oklahoma for their 3-year-old daughter. Kyler Loveland-Davis was born June 1, 2013, and the couple were legally married nine days after marriage became possible for them in Oklahoma in October 2014. As Oklahomans for Equality noted in its Feb. 10, 2016, eNews, “LGBT families have existed for years, but only recently has Oklahoma law begun recognizing us.” To help our families navigate the legal waters of protecting their family members, OkEq held an informational seminar on a variety of family law topics, including marriage, adoption, divorce, child custody and military service as it relates to family law. The event was facilitated by Chris Brecht-Smith, who talked about adoption and child custody issues and answered questions from the audience. As we approach Oklahomans for Equality’s Tulsa Pride parade and festival on Oct. 17 – just a week and a half away – we recognize that while we still have a long way to go in gaining equal rights for all LGBTQ people, we can look back with pride on how far we’ve come. We have achieved marriage equality and the benefits that come with it. Happy anniversary, everyone. This is a day of celebration for all of us. 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NICO DIALESANDRO SEP 12, 2026 31 1 10 Share Photo by the White House. https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 1/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made Over the past 100 days, President Donald Trump and his administration have intensified their campaign against LGBTQ people, with transgender Americans the most consistent target. Federal agencies have threatened schools and healthcare providers with investigations, funding cuts and legal action over gender-affirming policies and trans care. Several lower courts have blocked and limited some of the administration’s efforts while the Supreme Court has upheld Trump-supported stat bans on trans athletes. Here is a chronological list of the administration’s latest actions centered on LGBT Americans, along with responses to those actions—from court rulings to research reports. June 5, 2026 The Department of Justice (DOJ) and Cleveland Clinic come to an agreement to gender-affirming care for transgender minors, including the prescription of pube blockers and the provision of hormone therapy. Under the deal, the Ohio medica center admits no liability and denies all allegations but agrees to pay $308,000 to resolve false billing allegations and commits an additional $2 million for detransition care. June 7, 2026 U.S. District Judge Royce Lamberth issues an injunction blocking the Federal Bureau of Prisons from transferring 14 transgender women to men’s prisons. Th follows Trump’s 2025 executive order “Defending Women From Gender Ideology Extremism and Restoring Biological Truth to the Federal Government,” which declared sex immutable and sought the removal of incarcerated trans women fro women’s prisons. June 9, 2026 https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 2/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration announces its intention to reinstate the LGBTQ option on the 988 suicide hotline, which the Trump administration had axed last year. However, later reporting reveals The Trevor Project, the nonprofit originally behind the LGBTQ option, is being shut out from collaborating on the relaunched program, leading advocates to express concern about its implementation. June 10, 2026 Three national HIV medical associations and two healthcare providers sue the Trump administration over new restrictions on the Ryan White HIV/AIDS Progr the country’s largest federal safety-net program for low-income people living wit HIV. The new grant conditions prohibit providers from using federal money for gender-affirming care or to promote what the administration calls “gender ideology.” Plaintiffs say the policy also prevents medical staff from acknowledgin and respecting transgender patients’ identities. June 11, 2026 The Department of Education’s (DOE) Office for Civil Rights (OCR) accuses four Kansas school districts of failing to comply with Title IX of the Education Amendments of 1972. The OCR alleges the school districts violated federal civil rights law by allowing transgender students to access bathrooms, locker rooms a in some cases, sports teams aligned with their gender identity. The OCR says the districts “must come into compliance with Title IX or risk further enforcement action,” which could include the loss of federal funding. During a press event, Trump falsely claims that six states take away children from their parents and subject them to “transgender mutilization.” It is unclear what h is referring to, leading many on social media to question his lucidity. Research published in 2024 in the journal JAMA Network Open found that gender-affirmi https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 3/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made surgeries on minors are rare and that the majority of them are breast reductions both cisgender males and transgender people. June 12, 2026 The Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) issues a directive ordering VA health facilities to eliminate initiatives focused on gender identity. One program, LGBT Veteran Care Coordinators, which was initially slated to remain in operation wit the reference to LGBTQ people removed from its name, was eventually dismantl altogether in July. June 16, 2026 The Department of Health and Human Services’ (HHS) Health Resources and Services Administration proposes collecting information about gender-affirming care from federally supported health centers. Under the proposal, the centers wo be required to report whether they provide puberty blockers, hormone therapy o transition-related surgeries to patients under 19, regardless of which funding source pays for the care. Advocates warn the data could help federal investigator identify and target providers. June 17, 2026 The Federal Trade Commission and the Republican attorneys general of Alaska, Iowa, Nebraska and Texas sue the World Professional Association for Transgend Health. The lawsuit accuses the organization of using deceptive claims to promo gender-affirming care for minors. The DOE opens a Title IX investigation into North Carolina’s Buncombe County Schools for allowing transgender girls to use girls’ restrooms. In its announceme the DOE repeatedly refers to the trans female students as male. https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 4/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made June 18, 2026 The DOE opens three investigations into Michigan school districts. The investigations concern transgender students’ participation in athletics and acces locker rooms. Parents of students protest transgender students’ participation in sports. Screenshot from CBS News. June 23, 2026 The DOE launches investigations into the Maryland State Department of Educat and school districts in Montgomery, Prince George’s and Frederick counties. Th department alleges policies allowing transgender students to use facilities and participate on sports teams corresponding with their gender identity violate Titl IX. https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 5/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made Eight activists, three of whom are trans, are sentenced to prison terms of 30-100 years for their connection or participation in an anti-ICE protest in Texas last ye The case was the Trump administration’s first major legal action in its crackdow on so-called antifa terrorists. Antifa is not an organization but rather a decentralized movement focused on militant opposition to fascism. June 24, 2026 A federal judge blocks the DOJ from using grand jury subpoenas to obtain the medical records of transgender patients who received gender-affirming care as minors at New York hospitals. U.S. District Judge Katherine Polk Failla finds tha Trump’s executive order that seeks to end gender-affirming care for minors is lik an unconstitutional attempt to “demonize” and “eradicate an entire population o transgender people,” rather than a legitimate criminal inquiry. The decision represents another setback for the administration’s ongoing effort to obtain priv medical information from transgender minors. June 26, 2026 Trump’s Religious Liberty Commission delivers its draft report on “emerging threats to religious liberty” to the president. The report portrays opposition to transgender healthcare and LGBTQ-inclusive schools as protected religious conduct. It presents Texas surgeon Eithan Haim as a victim of religious persecut for leaking information about transgender patients at Texas Children’s Hospital highlights parents who claim schools pushed “gender ideology” on their children The DOE sends an enforcement letter to Jefferson County Public Schools in Colorado. It threatens the district’s federal funding over policies allowing transgender students to access sports teams, bathrooms, locker rooms and overnight accommodations consistent with their gender identity. June 30, 2026 https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 6/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made In a statement titled “Supreme Court Bolsters President Trump’s Push to Elimin Transgender Insanity,” the White House celebrates the high court’s 6-3 decision uphold transgender sports bans in Idaho and West Virginia. The ruling, which rejects the trans plaintiffs’ equal protection claims, has implications for 25 other states with similar laws to Idaho and West Virginia. The DOE and DOJ announce they will take joint “enforcement measures” agains Kansas City, Kansas Public Schools after alleging the district violated federal parental rights law maintaining a policy that prevents school officials from disclosing a student’s “transgender status or gender nonconforming presentation others, including parents.” Enforcement measures could include judicial proceedings and the loss of federal funding, according to the departments. A federal court certifies a nationwide class of transgender military personnel, paving the way for a potential class action lawsuit challenging Trump’s military ban. The decision temporarily protects current transgender service members fro being discharged while the lawsuit proceeds. July 2, 2026 A federal judge blocks the DOJ from obtaining identifying information and med records for transgender patients who received gender-affirming care as minors a Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital Stanford. U.S. District Judge P. Casey Pitts fi that patients are likely to prove the government’s demand violates their constitutional right to medical privacy. He describes the subpoenas as part of a “bad-faith campaign” to intimidate hospitals into ending lawful gender-affirmin care. https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 7/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made U.S. District Judge P. Casey Pitts. July 13, 2026 The Department of Health and Human Services abandons a proposed rule that sought to block Medicare and Medicaid funding from hospitals that provide gender-affirming care to trans youth. (While a similar rule is implemented in August, it is greatly reduced in scope and only applies to Medicaid.) July 14, 2026 https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 8/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made HHS formally eliminates a Biden-era rule requiring states and tribes to ensure LGBTQ foster children have access to affirming placements and supportive serv and are protected against harassment, mistreatment and abuse. The Trump administration had previously joined litigation against the Biden-era protections prior to removing them through the federal rulemaking process. July 15, 2026 During a speech at the U.S. Army War College, Trump falsely claims that companies receiving money under the CHIPS and Science Act, a federal statute t authorizes spending to boost semiconductor manufacturing, were required to hir transgender executives: “If you weren’t transgender ... you didn’t qualify.” The wo “transgender” does not appear anywhere in the law. July 16, 2026 The DOJ tells the U.S. Court of Appeals for the D.C. Circuit that it plans to ask t Supreme Court to restore Trump’s ban on transgender military personnel. It also asks the federal appeals court to delay enforcement of a decision protecting curr service members while the administration prepares its petition. July 21, 2026 HIV/AIDS-focused research foundation amfAR publishes a report finding that more than 1,700 HIV clinics have closed and over 16,000 jobs have been lost as a result of the Trump administration’s funding cuts to the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief, or PEPFAR. July 26, 2026 Days after making a joke comparing CNN anchor Kaitlan Collins to trans influencer Dylan Mulvaney at the White House Correspondents’ Dinner, Trump https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=215278647… 9/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made posts a bizarre AI-generated image merging their likenesses to Truth Social. July 27, 2026 The DOE and DOJ announce they are taking “significant action” against school districts in Maryland and Michigan over policies that prevent transgender stude from being outed to their parents. The administration accuses Anne Arundel County Public Schools and Ann Arbor Public Schools of “secretly transitioning” children in violation of the Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act. Such violations could lead to judicial proceedings and loss of federal funding. July 28, 2026 The DOE opens investigations into Denver Public Schools and Washington’s Be School District. Bethel is probed over a Pride display that reportedly included testosterone vials, while Denver is investigated over a classroom assignment that allegedly required students of the same sex to kiss. The teacher who had given sa assignment had been fired in a unanimous decision by the district school board over a month before the investigation began. July 29, 2026 The DOE opens an investigation into the Minnesota Department of Education o dolls designed to teach children about gender identity. The MyGender Dolls hav interchangeable clothing and anatomy and use gender-neutral names. Federal officials call the materials “perverted ideologies” and threaten consequences und the Protection of Pupil Rights Amendment. The DOE finds that Burlington Public Schools in Massachusetts violated federal law by requiring students to participate in a health survey after their parents opt them out. The Youth Risk Behavior Survey, conducted by the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, includes questions about sexual orientation and gender https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=21527864… 10/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made identity. In a statement, a spokesperson for the district says, “The District identified and addressed this matter in 2024 and 2025, and we no longer have a contract with the outside vendor that drafted the original survey in question” an that they will respond to the DOE’s findings “expeditiously.” July 30, 2026 The DOE demands that California and Washington explain how they will change policies preventing transgender students from being outed to their parents. The department cites recent court rulings and warns that it will consider further acti if the states do not revise their guidance. The states’ current policies dictate that teachers not inform parents of their child’s sexual and gender identities if doing is likely to lead to abuse in the home. Aug. 3, 2026 The New York Times reports that transgender troops who appeal their removal under the trans military ban are being handled in secretive closed-door hearings similar to those used to discipline troops for domestic abuse, theft or drug use. T Times spoke with an attorney who said some troops were barred from attending their own hearings because they refused to present as their assigned gender at birth. The administration did not respond to the Times’ report. Aug. 5, 2026 The DOJ reaches an agreement with Connecticut Children’s Medical Center requiring it to stop providing puberty blockers, hormone therapy and transitionrelated surgeries to minors. The hospital also agrees to a civil penalty and dedica $500,000 to services for people seeking to reverse their transitions. Connecticut Children’s denies wrongdoing and admits no liability. Aug. 11, 2026 https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=21527864… 11/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made The Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services finalizes a rule prohibiting fede Medicaid and Children’s Health Insurance Program (CHIP) funding from being used for gender-affirming care for minors. The rule applies to Medicaid patients under 18 and CHIP patients under 19 and covers puberty blockers, hormone therapy and surgeries. States can continue paying for the care with state-only funding, but the federal restriction takes effect Oct. 13. https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=21527864… 12/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=21527864… 13/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made Robert F. Kennedy, Jr.’s official portrait (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services). Aug. 12, 2026 HHS releases a 64-page report titled “Wolves in White Coats: How Doctors and Hospitals Pushed and Profited from the Fraud of ‘Gender Medicine.’” The report accuses hospitals, providers and medical associations of profiting from transgen healthcare and misusing billing codes. Contributors include representatives from the Ethics and Public Policy Center, Independent Women’s Forum and Center fo Christian Virtue, organizations with histories of opposing transgender rights. Using the report as justification, HHS Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr. refers mor than 100 providers to the agency’s inspector general for possible violations of federal billing and healthcare laws. Aug. 14, 2026 The 9th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals revives a DOJ subpoena seeking informati from QueerDoc, a telehealth provider specializing in gender-affirming care. A lower court previously quashed the subpoena after finding that it lacked a legitimate law-enforcement purpose. The appeals court sends unresolved questio about the request’s scope and burden back to the lower court, meaning QueerDo not immediately required to provide every document requested by the governme A federal judge vacates a Trump administration policy excluding gender-affirmin care from the Affordable Care Act’s essential health benefits. The judge finds tha HHS failed to submit a legally required actuarial report before changing the benefits. The decision restores financial protections for the care in states that all it, including out-of-pocket limits and protections against annual or lifetime coverage caps. Aug. 17, 2026 https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=21527864… 14/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made Speaking at the Iowa State Fair while campaigning for Republican Rep. Zach Nu Defense Secretary Pete Hegseth uses an anti-transgender slur: “At the Departme of War, we do training, not trannies,” said Hegseth, who oversees the departmen implementing Trump’s ban on transgender military personnel. Hegseth uses transphobic slur at Iowa State Fair CNN Watch on Pete Hegseth at the Iowa State Fair. Clip from CNN on YouTube. Aug. 19, 2026 Maryland’s Anne Arundel County Public Schools changes its transgender-studen privacy policy after the Trump administration threatens its federal funding. The new policy allows parents to access records mentioning a student’s gender identi transgender status, sexual orientation, chosen name and pronouns. Aug. 21, 2026 https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=21527864… 15/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made At a campaign rally in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, Trump falsely claims that hospitals are performing operations to reverse patients’ gender transitions at his order. No executive order requires hospitals to perform transition-reversal surgeries. The DOJ settlements with Texas Children’s Hospital, Cleveland Clinic and Connecticut Children’s instead require the hospitals to finance services for people seeking to detransition. Trump on route to Myrtle Beach. Photo by the White House. Aug. 24, 2026 During a White House back-to-school event, President Trump and Education Secretary Linda McMahon take aim at schools that affirm transgender students’ identities. Trump says a school that tells a child he or she is “trapped in the wron body” is “committing child abuse,” while McMahon claims that “the Biden https://www.unclosetedmedia.com/p/days-501-600-every-anti-lgbtq-move?utm_source=post-email-title&publication_id=2837882&post_id=21527864… 16/18 �9/15/26, 4:23 PM Days 501-600: Every Anti-LGBTQ Move the Trump Administration Has Made administration allowed schools to secretly transition students without parents’ knowledge.” Aug. 30, 2026 In an interview with Fox News, Trump encourages his supporters to “pretend [he on the ballot” and go out and vote, adding if Republicans don’t win midterm elections, “transgender will never end”: “Our country’s going to be in sad shape, because we’re going to go through a lot of things. You’re going to have the taxes raised, you’re going to have crazy things happening, like the men in women’s spo will never end. None of this stuff—transgender will never end.” Additional reporting by Hope Pisoni. 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With the achievement of marriage equality in Oklahoma 12 years ago and nationwide a year later, it seemed that LGBTQ people were on our way to being accepted as part of a diverse society. But having lost that battle, the culture warriors made transgender people their next target and began attacking them through ongoing legislation, executive orders, rhetoric and intimidation that spurs physical violence. Transgender people must deal with much higher rates of physical violence than do cisgender people. Among the key findings of the “Gender Identity Disparities in Criminal Victimization: National Crime Victimization Survey, 2017-2018” study by the Williams Institute at the UCLA School of Law: • • • Transgender people (16+) are victimized over four times more often than cisgender people. In 2017-2018, transgender people experienced 86.2 victimizations per 1,000 people compared to 21.7 victimizations per 1,000 people for cisgender people. Transgender women and men had higher rates of violent victimization (86.1 and 107.5 per 1,000 people, respectively) than cisgender women and men (23.7 and 19.8 per 1,000 people, respectively). In 2017-2018, transgender households had higher rates of property victimization (214.1 per 1,000 households) than cisgender households (108 per 1,000 households). And the Human Rights Campaign reports that “in the 12 years from January 2013 through Nov. 2024, HRC and other advocates identified 372 transgender and gender-expansive individuals who were victims of fatal violence in the United States. … People living at the intersections of multiple marginalized identities have been disproportionately impacted relative to others. Specifically, Black transgender women, who face multiple layers of violence due to their gender identity, gender, and race, comprise 61% of all victims of fatal violence against transgender and gender-expansive people.” History shows that transgender people have always existed, and the Oklahomans for Equality History Project is taking August – Transgender History Month – as an opportunity to highlight some of the contributions of transgender people in Oklahoma and put a spotlight on the attacks that have inundated them in recent years. There’s a lot of information, so we are presenting it in a series of three articles that are being distributed through email and social media from Monday, Aug. 24, through Wednesday, Aug. 26, 2026. Part 1 looks at transgender people’s progression over time from invisibility in society to the out-and-proud individuals they have become, as well as their inclusion in the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. Part 2 considers the transgender community’s needs and how the larger community has responded. Part 3 showcases brave transgender individuals who have taken stands in the �public spotlight and the resilience of the trans community. The entire series is presented here on the History Project’s website. PART 1: FROM INVISIBILITY TO INCLUSION A survey of early documents from Oklahomans for Equality’s forerunner organizations, Oklahomans for Human Rights and Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, turns up no references to the word “transgender” or other words that might indicate that transgender issues were among the organization’s original concerns in the 1980s. But through the organization, LGBTQ people found each other, and transgender people have been included in the organization’s mission for more than a quarter-century. Transgender issues were on Tulsans’ radars at least by 1994, when the Tulsa Family News’ March edition included news briefs on Washington state legislation that would “make it illegal to place a foster child in a household with a homosexual, bisexual, transsexual or transvestite” and on the formation of a national group, Gay and Lesbian Americans, which, despite its limiting name, said it was “committed to civil rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people” in the United States. The same issue included an advertisement for a psychologist who was “sensitive to the challenges of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgendered Individuals, Couples & Families.” (Note the “ed” at the end of the word “Transgender” – a common usage at that time that has since fallen out of practice.) In 1998, during the late Nancy McDonald’s tenure as president of PFLAG National, the organization extended PFLAG’s mission to include transgender people. McDonald, a Tulsan, was a driving force behind OkEq’s growth and for inclusion in Tulsa. TOHR had a transgender support group at least by the late 1990s, and transgender issues were among the central priorities for the organization by the new millennium. By the time the Pyramid Project kicked off in 2000 to raise funds for the purchase and renovation of OkEq’s building, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, the word “transgender” was included in its mission statement. The TOHR Torch Fall 2002 newsletter is full of references to the organization’s inclusion of transgender people in its mission, programs and community center name, the Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bi & Transgender (GLBT) Community Center, which was a rented facility at 2114 S. Memorial Drive at the time. A circa 2003 document in the History Project’s physical archives is specifically about a transgender support group and spells out the group’s mission statement/purpose: “Gender Outreach of Oklahoma is a volunteer, educational, outreach, support, and social organization for The Transgendered Community (TTC), their significant others (SOs), families and friends. The purpose of Gender Outreach of Oklahoma is to act as a nonsexual support group for TTC and their significant others.” The document says that: �Toward this end, it will: • Provide programs, speakers, services, and social activities for the support of the members and to promote the acceptance of TTC. • Provide opportunities for TTC, for the purpose of developing self-understanding and self-acceptance. • Provide Outreach by passing on knowledge and understanding of TTC to related organizations and to the public. • Assist members with problems related to their specific needs, whenever possible. • Assist SOs in the establishment and continued existence of their own interest. • Encourage members to participate in Gender Outreach of Oklahoma Unity Events. • Encourage members to participate in Gay/Lesbian/Bi-sexual/Transgendered community (GLBT) promotions of legislation affecting anti-discrimination of the GLBT community. The group, a part of TOHR, was hoping a new community center could provide its members a room for meetings, doctors and therapists, a safe place to be themselves, “2 Lockers for the cross-dressers to store their clothes” and “a dressing room,” apparently because its members did not feel free to dress in alignment with their gender identities at home or in other places. Also in the History Project’s physical archives is a copy of a grant application to an organization called Resist dated Nov. 28, 2004, which mentions that TOHR had held a “highly successful” regional conference on transgender issues in 2003 and that “TOHR’s Gender Outreach Program provides education, meeting space and social interaction for northeastern Oklahoma’s transgender and intersex population.” An accompanying chart shows that TOHR at the time had one transgender board member and five active volunteers who were transgender. An archived 2016 document on the Gender Outreach Program lists the average monthly attendance as follows: • General meeting – 35 • FTM specific meeting – 11 • Teen specific meeting – 11 • Parent specific meeting – 20 • Gender non binary – 5 • Bartlesville – 5 Yes, the document indicates that “OkEq has started a transgender support group in Bartlesville. For now,” it says, “that group will meet monthly at First Presbyterian Church. Thank you to Josie Peacock for being willing to facilitate that meeting. The Tulsa group will �assist in getting that group up and running. Thank you to the Bartlesville PFLAG group for pointing out the need for a transgender group in that area.” In 2013, OkEq’s transgender program was featured in the documentary “Just Gender,” which premiered at Tulsa’s Circle Cinema to a packed house, the Dec. 30, 2013, OkEq eNews reported. The same issue noted that “youth and parents from our transgender youth and family support group continue to receive international attention. Taylor Burns, our family therapist, and physician Laura Arrowsmith have presented at more than a dozen conferences, universities and medical societies nationwide. Both Taylor and Laura have worked with several Oklahoma school districts to provide services for families with transgender children.” The Feb. 20, 2013, OkEq eNews notes that “to honor the courage and bravery of the transgender community, Havah Gordon has made a donation to OkEq's Be Our Voice, Give a Day campaign and is sponsoring the Equality Center for the week of Sun, February 17th, 2013 through Sat, February 23rd, 2013.” Dr. Arrowsmith brought National Center for Transgender Equality founding Executive Director Mara Kiesling to Tulsa and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in 2014. OkEq's Gender Outreach Program held a daylong workshop on transgender issues in April 2015. Dr. Arrowsmith, a board member of the National Center for Transgender Equality and a former Oklahomans for Equality board member, provided the keynote address. On New Year’s Day 2016, OkEq hosted a panel discussion featuring Dr. Arrowsmith, Taylor Burns and attorney Alyssa Bryant after a viewing of the film “The Danish Girl,” about the Danish artist who was one of the first recipients of sexual reassignment surgery in the 1920s, at the Circle Cinema. OkEq’s Gender Support Program has continued its services through the years, offering “support, education, and community for transgender and intersex individuals in a safe, welcoming space,” a 2025 Facebook post says. “Breakout groups for Non-Binary folks, Trans Men, and Trans Women. … Come as you are, find your people, and grow together in community.” PART 2: NEEDS AND RESPONSE The Oklahomans for Equality History Project archives include a September 2005 Needs Assessment Report on Tulsa’s Gay Community from the Tulsa Community Foundation, the Tulsa Reaches Out Project and the Community Service Council of Greater Tulsa, which said the following percentages of transgender survey respondents perceived these issues as among the Top 5 services needed for GLBT people: �       50.0% Advocacy at the State Legislature 37.5% Physical Health Services 37.5% Mental Health Services 37.5% STD/HIV Prevention 37.5% Public Awareness about GLBT Issues 37.5% GLBT Center 37.5% Legal Services Related to Sexual Orientation Over the years, Oklahomans for Equality has made strides to meet those needs through advocacy, services, partnerships and education. Here’s how our archives reveal those efforts: LEGISLATIVE ADVOCACY The May 2006 edition of the Tulsa Star includes mention of an upcoming Day at the Legislature sponsored by TOHR and Oklahoma PFLAG when participants could visit with legislators about the needs of the LGBT community. OkEq has continued the tradition of hosting annual days for advocacy at the state Capitol and has sent representatives at other times, as well, specifically to talk to legislators and advocate for or against specific bills that would have protected or targeted LGBTQ people. In March 2008, Oklahomans for Equality hosted a press conference to denounce thenstate Rep. Sally Kern’s widely publicized statement that homosexuality is "the biggest threat that our nation has, even more so than terrorism or Islam." The press conference agenda went beyond the issue of sexual orientation and Islamophobia to include gender identity. “Citing recent acts of violence against gay and transgender people, (thenOklahomans for Equality Executive Director Justice) Waidner said comments such as Kern's have dangerous effects, adding that ‘Rep. Kern has repeatedly used her public office to demonize lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender Oklahomans and to attempt to deny them the exact same civil liberties she now defends so passionately,’” the Tulsa World reported. OkEq sent out an Action Alert in July 2020 encouraging people to contact the federal Department of Housing and Urban Development in protest of a proposed rule that would have established homeless shelter admission and placement policies based on a person's biological sex assigned at birth rather than self-identified gender identity. “By removing these protections, shelters and programs that receive or operate using HUD grants are now able to ignore nondiscrimination protections for transgender people, leaving them vulnerable to being denied shelter and forced out onto the streets,” OkEq said in the Action Alert. OkEq also noted that “one in three transgender Americans has been homeless at some point in their lives,” making the need for this action all the more critical. The proposed rule was never implemented. �Transgender-rights advocates marched through downtown Tulsa on March 31, 2023, to protest bills in the Oklahoma Legislature targeting transgender care. The march went from the Central Library to OkEq’s Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, with participants shouting, “This is what humanity looks like,” the entire way, the Tulsa World reported. While advocating before the Oklahoma Legislature and federal government has been challenging, to say the least, the city of Tulsa’s government has shown much more willingness and intention to be inclusive. In 2015, then-Mayor Dewey Bartlett signed an ordinance that for the first time included gender identity in the city’s list of protected classes under its fair-housing policy. And in 2019, after OkEq had worked for a decade to persuade the city of Tulsa to include gender identity and expression to its employment nondiscrimination policy, then-Mayor G.T. Bynum signed an executive order doing just that, The Gayly reported. And in 2020, the Tulsa City Council passed and Bynum signed the Hate Crime Protections Ordinance, adding LGBTQIA+ hate crime protections at the local level. SERVICES, EDUCATION AND PARTNERSHIPS On Dec. 11, 2018, Oklahomans for Equality was notified that it had received a $75,000 grant so that it could hire a full-time employee to coordinate medical services in the Equality Center’s newly renovated (in 2017) health clinic so OkEq could address LGBTQ health disparities and the “stigmatization … not experienced by heterosexual, cisgender Oklahomans” that often prevents LGBTQ people “from talking openly about their medical conditions and needs with medical providers,” in the words of OkEq’s grant application. This money started the clinic that now provides medical services available nowhere else in the state for transgender health care, as well as for HIV/AIDS care. To further its outreach, Oklahomans for Equality provided a webinar with expert panelists on “Understanding Transgender Healthcare & Wellness” in 2023. The webinar was “for anyone interested in learning from experts in the field about gender-affirming care for adults and youth, debunking myths, and bringing awareness to this important topic,” the OkEq eNews article announcing the event said. The event moderator was trans advocate and consultant Lucas Hall, and the speakers included Dr. Al Carlozzi, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Dr. Shauna Lawlis, Elliot Parker and Kelly Kemp. Topics to be discussed included “processes and protocols for transgender youth and adults seeking genderaffirming care and support, understanding gender-diversity from a medical and scientific perspective, addressing common myths about trans people of all ages and the genderaffirming care they could receive, and best practices for supporting transgender youth and adults.” Outside health-care practitioners and medical facilities were crucial to some transgender Oklahomans’ gender-affirming care at that time, but more people have come to rely on Oklahomans for Equality’s health clinic in the wake of the enactment of Senate Bill 904 into law in May. The law “restricts the use of state funds, facilities, and resources for genderaffirming healthcare, creating new barriers for transgender Oklahomans seeking medically �necessary care and increasing uncertainty for healthcare providers across the state,” OkEq Executive Director Hailey Briggs wrote in a letter to constituents this spring. The law resulted in a total shutdown of gender-affirming care by those providers and facilities that accept any state money. But because OkEq’s clinic receives no state funds, it has been free to carry on the work that other providers have abandoned. “Our commitment remains unchanged: our clinic is open, and we will continue doing everything we can to ensure transgender Oklahomans have access to affirming, compassionate care,” Briggs wrote in announcing a $10,000 challenge grant from Dennis Neill and John Southard to raise additional funds to care for the influx of patients the OkEq clinic was receiving after other facilities turned them away. And in March of this year, the Tulsa Flyer published a story on mental health in the LGBTQ community, particularly in transgender and nonbinary people. Oklahomans for Equality’s counseling services, including clinical social worker and therapist Matthew Gibbons, were featured heavily in that article. Former OkEq board member Conor Cleary, a lawyer who then was an associate at Hall, Estill, Hardwick, Gable, Golden & Nelson, facilitated an “OUTlaw Legal Workshop” twice a month at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in 2013, the OkEq eNews from Feb. 20 of that year indicates. Topics were to include wills, rights of survivorship, medical issues, durable power of attorney and inheritances, transgender name changes and trans rights. That same eNews edition also mentioned the continuing Gender Outreach Program, which was to provide “support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals.” In 2020, attorney Joshua Payton started OkEq’s Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic, which continues to meet monthly at the Equality Center. Payton, who with his wife, Jennifer Payton, incorporated the Oklahoma Equality Law Center as a nonprofit in 2023, received the Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award at the OkEq Equality Gala in 2022 for his work on behalf of transgender people. LAWS AND LEGAL CASES In 2021, the state of Oklahoma began allowing gender nonbinary changes to birth certificates, but soon thereafter, through an executive order, it became the first state in the nation to reverse action and ban nonbinary gender markers on birth certificates. Gov. Kevin Stitt also signed House Joint Resolution 1032, which repealed the ability for residents to change their gender markers on Oklahoma driver's licenses. With the rapid changes in state laws and policies, “I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer,” Payton has said. �Payton successfully represented two transgender students who obtained court orders for gender-marker changes on their school records in 2023. The Oklahoma State Board of Education then refused to make those changes. But Payton’s Oklahoma Equality Law Center and the Oklahoma Appleseed Center for Law and Justice sued the board and thenState Superintendent Ryan Walters and prevailed in June 2025. Payton is also fighting a law signed by Gov. Stitt in March of this year that made it impossible for people to change their gender markers on Oklahoma driver's licenses. The law does not invalidate those licenses that were already changed. Gender markers are just one aspect of the law that has come under attack by the Legislature and governor in recent years, which also have seen the passage of bans on gender-affirming medical care for minors and prohibitions on the use of state funds and properties for gender-affirming care. These policies remain the subject of ongoing state and federal legal challenges. Lambda Legal, for example, reports that it is currently fighting policies targeting transgender people in Oklahoma in the areas of identification documents, school facilities and healthcare. The Fowler v. Stitt case challenges the state’s prohibition of gender-marker changes on birth certificates. “Starting in at least 2007, the Oklahoma State Department of Health (had) permitted transgender people to obtain Oklahoma birth certificates with amended sex designations,” the 10th Circuit court noted in a 2024 ruling. But the 2021 executive order from Gov. Kevin Stitt stopped that practice. The appeals court found that the plaintiffs had a “plausible equal protection claim” and remanded the case back to district court for a ruling consistent with its findings. However, the U.S. Supreme Court vacated that ruling in 2025 and sent the case back to the 10th Circuit for reconsideration. The Bridge v. Oklahoma State Department of Education case challenges 2022’s Senate Bill 615, which prohibits transgender people from using Oklahoma school restrooms that align with their gender identity. The district court ruled in favor of the defendants, and the case is on appeal at the 10th Circuit. In the area of healthcare, the Poe v. Drummond case challenged the law created by 2023’s Senate Bill 613, which bans gender-affirming medical care for transgender minors, but the 10th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals upheld a lower court’s ruling upholding the ban. In 2022, Gov. Kevin Stitt signed into law an act to prevent University of Oklahoma medical facilities from providing gender-transition medical services to minors. Oklahomans for Equality distributed a statement on social media that fall and in the Nov. 7, 2022, eNews, saying: “Medical decisions should be between the patient, the parents, and their doctors. The interjection of politicians into that space is wildly inappropriate and nothing more than an act of bullying. This carrot and stick approach to promote their transphobic ideals hurts all Oklahomans who access medical services at University �Hospitals. They would rather deny funding for medical services than respect the rights of transgender kids and their families. Transgender medical care is a form of suicide prevention. Because without this care, our young people often don't live to see adulthood. These are Oklahoma kids who need support and care. To all trans kids and their families, no matter what Oklahoma (legislators) think or do, you are valued, and people will continue to fight for you.” In a case from Tennessee last year, the U.S. Supreme Court said states could legally ban medical treatments such as puberty blockers and hormones for transgender people younger than 18. Also in 2022, Gov. Kevin Stitt signed the “Save Women’s Sports Act,” which prohibits those assigned male at birth from participating in girls’ or women’s sports. This June, hearing cases from Idaho and West Virginia, the Supreme Court ruled that states’ bans on transgender athletes from women’s and girls’ sports teams are legal. PART 3: OUT AND PROUD Despite all the obstacles that are stacked against them, brave and determined transgender people have stood in the public spotlight and have taken stands for their own and others’ rights. Among the first openly transgender public figures in Oklahoma history have been Paula Sophia Schonauer, who was an Oklahoma City police officer when she transitioned in 2001 and who was a candidate for a seat in the Oklahoma House of Representatives in 2014; attorney Brittany Novotny (now Brittany Stewart), a transgender attorney who faced ridicule when she ran in 2010 for the Oklahoma House seat held by Rep. Sally Kern, ROklahoma City (Charlie Meadows, then-chairman of the Oklahoma Conservative Political Action Committee, called Novotny a "confused it."); Mauree Turner, who was elected to the Oklahoma House in 2020 as the nation's first openly nonbinary lawmaker; and Nat Wachowski-Estes, who in 2020 was the first openly transgender candidate for the Tulsa City Council. And in the 2010s Tulsa-area transgender teenagers Katie Hill of Bixby and Arin Andrews of Catoosa made history with local and national publicity about their transition journeys through newspaper stories (“PART ONE: Katie Hill finds herself after 16 years living as a boy”; “PART TWO: Katie Hill braves returning to school, finds love”, “Katie Hill and Arin Andrews attend the Equality Gala held at the Convention Center,”); magazine articles (“I Transitioned From Female to Male as a Teen. Here's My Story”); books (“Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transition” by Katie Hill and “Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a Transgender Teen” by Arin Andrews, both available in OkEq’s Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library); and modeling for a national ad campaign (“A Barneys Campaign Embraces a Gender Identity Issue”). �Discrimination against transgender people in employment became a topic of public interest across Oklahoma after Rachel Tudor, Ph.D., was denied tenure and dismissed from her position as a professor at Southeastern Oklahoma State University in 2011. Tudor, who had transitioned from male to female during her time on the faculty, sued the university under Title VII, claiming discrimination on the basis of sex. Oklahomans for Equality presented her with the Bishop-Baldwin, Barton & Phillips Civil Rights Advocacy Award at its 2016 Equality Gala. Ten years after her dismissal from the faculty, the 10th U.S. Circuit Court of Appeals ordered her reinstatement in 2021. RESILIANCE With legislative and administrative attacks continuing to target transgender people, it’s important to remember that through community, they have found ways to flourish and move forward with dignity, grace and pride. Oklahomans for Equality presented the Lynn Riggs Performing Arts Award to transgender baritone Lucia Lucas in 2019 after she made history by performing the lead role in the Tulsa Opera’s presentation of “Don Giovanni” at the Tulsa Performing Arts Center in May of that year. This was the first opera appearance by a trans woman in a principal role in the United States. A film about Lucas’ journey was shown at Tulsa’s Circle Cinema that April, with a mixer with the artist held before the showing and a presentation afterward by Tulsa Opera Artistic Director Tobias Picker about the significance of the transgender movement in opera and performing arts. And on this year’s Transgender Day of Visibility, March 31, Tulsa-based Paully Steele staged an all-trans fashion show at the Equality Center presented by her GENDER magazine in partnership with Twisted Arts and OkEq. The participants were “ready to TEAR UP the runway and celebrate trans creativity, visibility, and community,” a social media post said. Oklahomans for Equality itself has put transgender employees and board members front and center over the years, with Alex Wade, a former OkEq medical services director, serving as deputy director and then interim executive director over the years from 2016 to the early 2020s. Sharon Queen, a transgender Navy veteran who was the Equality Center’s events coordinator, also coordinated the Gender Support Program and helped coordinate a Support Our Troops Rally at the Equality Center in 2017 after President Donald Trump indicated that the government would no longer allow transgender people to serve in the military. Then-OkEq board member Alyssa Bryant spoke at that event, saying in advance that “OkEq will continue to fight the ongoing attempts by regressive forces in our culture, no matter what title or office they hold, to exclude our members from the life and defense of our country.” Krissy Dudley served as OkEq’s administrative coordinator from 2019-2022, and Anna Puhl, who identifies as nonbinary, has recently returned as the Lynn Riggs Theater’s audio and lighting engineer. Puhl raised the nonbinary flag over the Equality Center for the first time during Nonbinary Awareness Week in July 2020. �Oklahomans for Equality continues to bring together and fight for all the diverse aspects of our 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We know that our collection does not reflect the complete history of transgender people in Oklahoma, so we welcome the submission of documents, memorabilia and details that would make our archives more representative. Please contact OkEq at 918-743-4297 or at historyproject@okeq.org if you have items to submit, and visit our History Project website at history.okeq.org to find more examples of how you fit into our history. � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Discover inspiring stories, community efforts, and the importance of resilience and support. Keywords HIV, LGBTQ+, community activism, Tulsa, HIV awareness, advocacy, Rainbow Library, Pride, HIV retreats, community service Key Topics MJ's personal HIV journey and living with HIV for nearly 30 years Community activism and LGBTQ+ advocacy in Tulsa The significance of HIV retreats and community support programs Historical overview of LGBTQ+ bars and social spaces in Tulsa MJ's involvement with American Airlines' diversity and inclusion efforts The story behind the AIDS quilts and their importance in remembrance MJ's role in organizing Pride events and community fundraising The impact of healthcare policies on people living with HIV The importance of resilience, support, and community in health and advocacy Future directions for HIV awareness and LGBTQ+ support in Tulsa Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction 00:56 MJ's Volunteer Work and Community Involvement 03:51 The HIV Wellness Retreat and Its Impact 07:00 MJ's Personal HIV Diagnosis and Early Days 10:06 Living with HIV Since 1992 and Medical Care �3 14:59 MJ's Childhood and Coming Out Journey 19:58 MJ's Military Service and Awareness of Sexual Orientation 24:51 Early Social Life and LGBTQ+ Social Spaces in Tulsa 30:01 Career Transition and Work at American Airlines 34:45 Involvement in LGBTQ+ Employee Groups and Pride 39:55 Community Fundraising and Support Activities 44:59 The AIDS Quilts and Their Significance 55:01 MJ's Advocacy and Community Leadership 59:59 Future of HIV Awareness and Community Support 01:05:00 MJ's Message to Future Generations Michael James Oral History Interview July 21, 2026 Toby Jenkins: Good afternoon. Today we are in the Joe and Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library. It is July 21st, 2026. The thermometer outside is a hundred degrees, and it's a hot interview coming up for you. We look forward to it. Today, our special guest is: Michael James: Michael James. Toby Jenkins: Michael James, better known in the community as MJ, and he gives a whole new definition to the worker bee, and we are so honored to have him here. We are in the library, and this is the Oklahomans for Equality History Project interview in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, home and headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality, which sits on Pride Street in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. Today our interview panelists are Dennis Neill, founder of Oklahomans for Equality; Mary Bishop-Baldwin, plaintiff in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit. We are so glad to have you today, Michael James. Are you comfortable with us calling you MJ, since that's how we all know you, or would you rather use your Christian name? Michael James: MJ is fine. Toby Jenkins: Okay, we want to jump right in. Got a page full of yeah, yeah, amazing to have you. First of all, I want us to start with talk – kind of tell us some of your volunteer work that you do right now, today, here at the Equality Center, so people know kind of what you do, and do you still serve on the Advisory Board? Michael James: Unfortunately, no, in regard to the Advisory Board, because they did away with those at the – here just recently, so didn't have enough to go. So as far as volunteering, now I am, I manage the bar down in the Linn Riggs Theater. I'm here for every event. Within those events, I make sure that they have a crafted cocktail specific to their event to make their event just that much bigger, better, you know, for their, their �4 clientele. So I do that. I also do some volunteer work, and I'm part of a group called Positively Grateful, which is an HIV resource group, and we meet here every Friday at 6 o'clock and have a community meal. That is really open to the public. If you don't know anything about HIV, STDs, we have learning situations. Other than that, it's a place to just come and meet new folks that have the same issues that you do. You know. So. Toby Jenkins: So are there – do families attend these meetings sometimes who recently there maybe their loved one has got an HIV diagnosis, or I mean, is this … ? Michael James: So, my mother comes to every meeting that she possibly can. She hasn't here lately to her health issues. But, yes, we have partners; we have family; we have grandchildren; we have nieces, you know, and we also get that at our yearly retreat. That's the whole point of Positively Grateful is we fundraise for a yearly retreat every year at the end of August, and that just goes so, so that anybody who is newly diagnosed, has been living with HIV, or their caregivers, can come spend four days for a nominal registration fee of $50, meals included, all types of – you're out Choteau, Oklahoma, 45 minutes away, but yeah, it's so that they can know what to expect. Toby Jenkins: And how many years have y’all had this? Michael James: Positively Grateful is going on three years. Prior to that there was a group called Positively Grateful – no, Grateful -- anyway. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Grateful Day. Michael James: Grateful Day. Thank you, sorry. And I was with them about five years, and we started in a camp up in northeast Oklahoma – really great camp. But I've been supportive of those events. I have been a camper. I've been a volunteer. Anything I can do to help that go smoothly for not only the organization but the campers, I'm gonna, … Toby Jenkins: Maybe I – I may be merging some things. Was this originally, this HIV wellness retreat, wasn't it started by Hope Church, Michael James: Community of Hope. Toby Jenkins: Community of Hope by Rev. Bob Lawrence? Michael James: That is a true statement, yes. Toby Jenkins: So the retreat's been around at least 20 years probably. Michael James: Yes, and then it went away, and then we picked it up. The original founders of Grateful Day were Sabrina K. Marshall, Shana, I can't remember Shanna's last name. Toby Jenkins: Justice Flowers, aka Sabrina. Michael James: Yes, Shana, and then they brought, Toby Jenkins: Cozad �5 Michael James: Yes, Cozad, and then Chuck, they brought Chuck Courtney in, and that's how I really got involved with them was through Chuck. Chuck and I went to school together, so. Toby Jenkins: Now, is Penny Fruth still involved with this? Michael James: Unfortunately, Penny has left the group. Toby Jenkins: Okay, but she was involved. Michael James: She was involved, yes. Very good ally. Toby Jenkins: Now, tell us how critically important this retreat is to a portion of the community that – it's kind of like the highlight of their year. Michael James: So it is. I mean, being a person diagnosed with HIV back in '92, you feel like you're on an island and, you know, yes, you have all these people that you see day to day and stuff, but you really can't truly just be yourself and, you know, and what this does is it gives them four days to come be themselves and not worry about any stigma. Just the people themselves, seeing them come in, you know, just kind of cornered up, you know, and then by the end of the retreat, it's just this big, beautiful … person, you know, that you didn't even expect to see. Things like that just really... Toby Jenkins: And where is the retreat taking place now? Michael James: Retreat now is at Camp Christian. Toby Jenkins: It's been there for now how many years? Michael James: Oh, uh … Toby Jenkins: Ten something? Michael James: Yes, yeah. I would say eight to 10. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Michael James: So, very wonderful group. They shut down the camp altogether so that we can have that weekend to be ourselves. Toby Jenkins: We're gonna ask you to do something with either slip your watch in your pocket or something, so we don't... Yeah, sorry about that. Okay, and now that way you can feel free to use your hands. I love this retreat. It meant the world to me. For several years, I had to help secure the grants for this retreat, and they would gather here and transport up there. Now, I know back in the day, usually they had 30, 35 people. Is it still? Michael James: Yes, yes. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Michael James: They did have one of the lodges burned down. Yes, one of the newest lodges burned down, like, right after they referred. We had just left. It was their first year �6 to have it open, like, two months, and, yeah, it was scary. But wonderful group of people out there. We went to their grand opening, their groundbreaking ceremony for the new lodge. Very welcoming, you know, all different types of faiths. Toby Jenkins: So, the name of the camp is? Michael James: Camp Christian. Toby Jenkins: Now, is it a faith-based nonprofit, or is it tied to a particular denomination? Michael James: So, I can't remember. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: It's a camp of the Christian Church (Disciples of Christ) in Oklahoma. Toby Jenkins: So, it's the Disciples of Christ? Michael James: Yes, yes, yes, exactly, exactly. Toby Jenkins: So, it's an inclusive denominational... I guess the Disciples of Christ now are inclusive and affirming. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: I wouldn't say every congregation is, no. Toby Jenkins: But it's an official policy of the denomination, right? So, I'm glad that they work closely with you. Anything else about that retreat? Michael James: Oh, you know, I just, if you know somebody who is, please support them. Show them all the love you can. If you can go learn about the, you know, HIV or STDs, take the time to do it. Toby Jenkins: Okay, so you said you were diagnosed in 1992. Was that here in Tulsa? Michael James: Yes. Toby Jenkins: And can you tell us a little bit about that experience? And now that's, so that means you've been living with HIV for almost 30 years, 34 years? Michael James: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Michael James: It was really scary. I had just gotten with my partner and something happened that made me go to the doctor. And I think I had just gotten insurance. Not always been the life of luxury for me, you know, just like everybody else. Ups and downs. You know, I was a hairdresser after I came out of the Army. Went to school to be a hairdresser, did that for a while. Met up with my partner, and in '92 found out that I was HIV positive and got kicked to the curb. Yeah. My mother was there and very supportive, went to my appointments with me. If it wasn't for our lab tech, Dorinda, you know, telling me, “Hey, you know, it's kind of like drugs. You don't worry. You don't let them work you. You work this disease. You tell it what's gonna happen.” And that's �7 pretty much how I've lived my life, you know. I'm not gonna let it get me down. I'm gonna do what I can. Toby Jenkins: Now in 1992, this would have been still during the ATZ years. Michael James: Compavir, yeah. Toby Jenkins: I mean, so was that what, were you started on it immediately? Michael James: Yes, yes, yeah. I wasn't diagnosed with HIV, with, AIDS. I was diagnosed HIV positive. I was just above. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So you had no symptoms? Michael James: Correct. So, yeah. Toby Jenkins: But you started on the medication? Michael James: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Because there was a period where if, unless you had symptoms, they didn't start you on the medication, but they started. Michael James: They gave me the option, yeah. Toby Jenkins: Okay, and that would have been in 1992. Had you had friends who had had HIV, and had you had friends who had died of AIDS? Michael James: At that time, I didn't know. I was fairly new to the coming out at that point in time. Yeah, so a small-town boy. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, so you weren't necessarily aware of … . You hadn't had a friend die of AIDS. Michael James: Correct. Toby Jenkins: I'm so glad that your mother was there with you and supported you. Let's talk a little bit about your childhood. Where were you born? Michael James: Cushing, Oklahoma. Toby Jenkins: Whoa, didn't know that. I had no idea. Michael James: My mother had to drive. We lived in Sapulpa. On Mother's Day, they drove to Cushing, Oklahoma, to deliver me. Toby Jenkins: Why did they go to Cushing? Michael James: That's where her doctor was. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Michael James: This was back in 1966, Toby. �8 Toby Jenkins: The good ol’ days. Michael James: Rural Oklahoma. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Well, also would have had big oil influence. Rural hospitals in those days in Oklahoma were heavily funded by the petroleum industry, so that's a side fact. So, you were born in Cushing, but your family lived in Sapulpa. Michael James: I grew up in the Creek County area. My grandmother lived in Sapulpa. I had a Sapulpa address, a Kiefer telephone number, and I went to school in Mounds. Toby Jenkins: Oh, Mounds. Okay. Michael James: Not Liberty! Liberty is on the east side. We got nuts. Toby Jenkins: So, in school, were you athletic or in the music program or band? Michael James: I was actually in the choir. So, went to state several times. I was like a first soprano up until sophomore year, so, and then, yeah, I started smoking. Toby Jenkins: Okay, so you were used music in high school. When you graduated, what year would that have been? Michael James: 1984. Toby Jenkins: From Mounds High School? Michael James: From Mounds High School. Toby Jenkins: And how many were in your graduating class? Michael James: A little over 30. Toby Jenkins: Oh, really? Michael James: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Okay, I thought Mounds was bigger than that. Michael James: No. Toby Jenkins: Well, I guess not. Michael James: Not back then. Yeah, yeah, it's grown tremendously somehow. Toby Jenkins: So, you graduate from Mounds High School in 19Michael James: 84. Toby Jenkins: Okay, now, just curious. How do you, what's your sexual orientation? How do you identify? Michael James: I'm gay. Toby Jenkins: Okay, and pronouns? �9 Michael James: He, him. Toby Jenkins: Okay, and so you're in Mounds, Oklahoma, and you're in the choir, which is like gay preschool, but especially if you went to state college. When did you begin to be aware of your orientation and that you might be gay? Michael James: You know, we all experimented when we were going through puberty and stuff, but it really wasn't until after high school. Like I said earlier, I went into the -- I graduated high school weighing 275 pounds and then went straight into the military from there. So that's really pretty much all I know out of high school. So. Toby Jenkins: So in the military, you got away from Mounds, Oklahoma, and you're now in the military. And where did you go to basic and all? Michael James: I went to basic at Fort Dix, New Jersey, in the middle of wintertime. Toby Jenkins: Oh, mercy. Michael James: Literally bivouac and having to do push-ups where the snow went in and touched my cheek. Yeah, buried my nose. Toby Jenkins: And so then you were exposed to a bigger world. Were you aware that you were gay? I mean, had you? Michael James: I thought about it, I mean, but I didn't take action on it, because I really enjoyed being in the military, and I didn't want to screw it up. Dennis Neill: So when you were in high school, did you do the typical dating girls thing? Michael James: Yeah, yeah. Had a girl. Took her to the … Dennis Neill: You had no inclination then that there was anything different? Michael James: No. Yeah, you know. You guys know me now. I love everybody, OK? And that's just how I've always been. So yeah. Toby Jenkins: OK. So when did you acknowledge your orientation, and when did you develop an intimate relationship with someone? Michael James: Well, it was around 1989, ‘90-ish, OK? Maybe a little earlier, because I graduated high school, went directly from high school into the military. And then about eight months later, I was discharged. Toby Jenkins: Came back to Tulsa. Michael James: Yep. 25-inch waist, shaved head, baby blues, youth on my side, yes. And that's kind of when I kind of let go and said, “Here I am, world.” You know, so. Toby Jenkins: So did you go to gay bars, or did you? Michael James: At one point, I got into a really popular bar when I was underage on a $5 well night. But other than that, I didn't really. �10 Toby Jenkins: Do you remember what the bar was? Michael James: Yes, Zippers. Michael James: Zippers? OK. Yeah. So tell us about the clubs you went to in those days. Michael James: Let's see. Zippers was the only one I went to when I was underage. Everything else, I waited until after the fact. We would go hang out. There was an afterhours club called Exile. I don't know if you remember that off of 11th Street, I think it was. So we'd always go do their hang out. Toby Jenkins: So during those days, you were going to, that's primarily how you were connecting with gay people, was at the clubs. OK. Do you remember some of the bars that were popular in those days? Michael James: Yes. Renegades, Levi's 501, Concessions, Bamboo, Yellow Brick Road. Toby Jenkins: End Up? Michael James: That was before the End Up, wasn't it? Toby Jenkins: OK. Michael James: Yeah. Trying to think, there was one, I think. Toby Jenkins: Did you ever go to Tim's Playroom? Michael James: No, no. My ex performed there, though. Toby Jenkins: Taj Mahal? Michael James: No. Toby Jenkins: Caruso's? Michael James: No. Dennis Neill: A lot of those were probably closed, weren't they? Michael James: Yeah. Dennis Neill: So tell us a little more about Levi's. Michael James: Strokes. Toby Jenkins: Strokes. Dennis Neill: Oh, yeah. Tell us a little bit more about Levi's 501. Where was it located? Michael James: Levi's 501, if you are standing in front of Renegades, looking at the front door, OK, this street over here, I think is like 17th or something like that. If you went straight down that road, like two blocks on the right hand side on the corner, there was �11 a big industrial looking barn type thing. And that was where Levi's 501 was. At that point in time, I was dating Marsha LaRue. Toby Jenkins: Which is? Michael James: Marsha LaRue was a local female entertainer. Michael James: And she was I believe a Miss Gay Something at one point. Toby Jenkins: Okay, so that was the drag name. Michael James: Yes. Toby Jenkins: What was the … Michael James: Mark Lanier. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So you were dating a title holder. Michael James: Yes, yes. I was the trophy husband, I guess. Toby Jenkins: And you went to the clubs, and that's how you connected. Michael James: Yeah. Tiki Nook. My dad actually went to that bar. Dennis Neill: And where was it located? Michael James: Tiki Nook was uh, corner of right there off of, so Camelot Hotel, Highway 44, there was a big hotel complex there, and it was upstairs. And then there was an after-hours bar downstairs called Buddies that Mike Treat ran, if I'm not mistaken, so. Toby Jenkins: Good lord, Dennis. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: These were gay bars? Michael James: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Where was Strokes? Michael James: Strokes, wasn't it where Concessions was? Dennis Neill: Yes. Same place. Michael James: Yeah. Dennis Neill: And then also, MJ, about that time close to Levi's, now that you explain it, was a bar called Ma Bell's. You remember that one? It may have closed before then, but Ma Bell's was at 15th and Boulder. Michael James: I don't remember Ma Bell's. I do remember SRO, which was at 15th and Boulder. And it's now that Mexican place, and then it became … Oh, what was it? Dennis Neill: No, SRO was at 18th and Boulder. �12 Michael James: Okay. So no. I'm sorry. Dennis Neill: Okay. No. Toby Jenkins: What does SRO stand for? Michael James: Standing room only. Toby Jenkins: Okay, none of these bars have I heard of – in all the interviews and research. Dennis Neill: And I’d forgotten about Ma Bell’s. Michael James: Delasandro’s, you know Delasandro’s? Yeah, you know that connecting little area with the patio there. That used to be SRO. Toby Jenkins: Oh, yeah. Dennis Neill: And that became Area 18. Michael James: That's right. That's, that's what I was. Yes, Area. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Michael James: Hazmat symbol. Toby Jenkins: All right. So it was the gay bars that you were connecting with? Okay, so during this time were you out to your family? Michael James: No. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Michael James: Everybody probably knew, 'cause … Toby Jenkins: You mentioned earlier that you were a hairdresser by profession. Michael James: Correct. So after I came back, you know, like I said, everybody's got bad times in their life. Got into a little drug issue and, yeah, got down on my luck and just had to rebuild myself back up. So my mother was married to a vet who was very closed-minded and did not want me around. So unfortunately during that time I didn't see a lot of my family. Toby Jenkins: He didn't want you around because of the drugs or … Michael James: Because of my sexuality. Toby Jenkins: So you had told your mother you were gay? Michael James: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Do you remember that experience? �13 Michael James: I don't. I really don't remember coming out to my mother. The only really bad thing I was, you know letting her know that I was HIV positive, so, and that was really hard. Toby Jenkins: So this would have been in the late '80s, early '90s. And you, were you working at a hair salon, a commercial hair salon, or were you were your own? Michael James: I worked in a place called A Cut Above the Others owned by Woody – I cannot remember Woody's last name – but I started there as his apprentice and built my own clientele up, and then I got with my partner that kicked me to the curb when I found out I was HIV positive because he didn't like me working late nights. Of course, at that time we had also adopted a 5-year-old autistic child. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Didn’t know this. Michael James: Yes, so we were foster parents of this young man. Toby Jenkins: And how long did you have him? Michael James: We were together about five years, and two of that we had … Toby Jenkins: Had the child. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And did the child stay with him or? Michael James: Yes, yeah, yeah. Dennis Neill: So, MJ, you adopted together as a couple? Michael James: It was, not legally. Yes, it was a foster program type thing. And really I don't know all the specifics of it because he worked in that area, so he knew all the bells and whistles, the ins and outs. Dennis Neill: So he was a state employee? Michael James: Not a state employee, okay, because at that point in time they were getting away from state employees. They were doing – Hissom (Memorial Center) was no longer; they were putting everybody out of Hissom, so there were a lot of developmentally disabled individuals moving into the community, and this person worked with those. Dennis Neill: I see. Toby Jenkins: So, you were a hairdresser, and we come up to the point where in 1992 you were diagnosed. When did you change careers, and, because I know you've been with American Airlines, how many years now? Michael James: I've been with American Airlines for 25. Toby Jenkins: 25 years, okay. So did you go from hairdressing to American Airlines, or was there... �14 Michael James: No, there was a period of time in there, okay, I mean, screw it, here I go, you know, party boy. So that's, yeah, and then I was about, what was it, I guess 35ish. Actually, it was before that. I was, oh, I was working in a bar downtown called The Underground. And what was the name of the bar that was next to that? Dennis Neill: The Dance Park. Michael James: Yes, Regina was there. Dennis Neill: I can't remember the name of it. It's very simple. Michael James: Yeah, yeah, I was working at The Underground, and this... Toby Jenkins: Well, you've already listed 12 bars that I have been to. Were there any straight bars in Tulsa in those days? Michael James: So actually there, so at the place where The End Up is, okay, you asked about End Up, there was actually, it was an Irish-named bar, I think it was called The Shamrock, and Marsha LaRue, Amanda Love, Trudy Tyler, oh, gosh, Bobby, Bobby, I cannot think of his name, Randy, yeah, they went there and did a show. Toby Jenkins: At the Shamrock? Michael James: At the Shamrock, yes, straight, I mean, and that was, yeah, but it was a great time. It was really neat. Dennis Neill: Just real briefly, back when you were diagnosed and you were living in Tulsa, how did you find, one, the medical care here to support you with your diagnosis and any of the support groups that you got associated with? Michael James: So my doctor referred me to Tulsa Cares, and I went through the program, and I actually, like a former director here, I utilized the system to get me through until I could take and provide for myself, you know, so. Dennis Neill: And the doctor, is it somebody you can name? Michael James: So Int to say his name was Dr. Lewis. Dennis Neill: So it wasn't one of the doctors that was? Michael James: No, it was nobody, not at that time, so, yeah. Dennis Neill: And you continued to get medical care through Dr. Lewis? Michael James: So I used the system up until I got my job with American. So as I was saying, I was working at Underground, and a gentleman would come in every day, a really nice gentleman, and we became friends. Well, he just happened to own a local computer software company, and his secretary was getting ready to retire, so he offered me that position. So during my downtime as a receptionist, I taught myself how to use the computer. I mean, I had keystrokes, the whole nine yards. I did that for seven years, and then I was hired March, went to work at American, January the 2nd, 2001, and then got hired on March 19th full-time. �15 Toby Jenkins: And American Airlines has been through multiple transitions, and you never lost your job? Michael James: This close. This close to 9/11. So back then it was a management/staff clerk type position, and now it's a union position, so I got time. Toby Jenkins: And so with American Airlines came insurance and a lot of resources for your personal life. Michael James: Yep. So at that point in time, you know, I had to jump ship. Toby Jenkins: Jump ship? Michael James: As far as I was making too much money for the Ryan White program at Tulsa Cares, so I had my own insurance and stuff, went to my own private care. I went to Dr. Haas. She was my doctor for forever. Toby Jenkins: Let's just take this opportunity for our viewers to understand this. Health care, medical insurance was a defining moment because prior to the Affordable Care Act, Obamacare as we call that, which decided you could not refuse treatment or you could not deny somebody based on a pre-existing condition. So that was a life-saving … So all of a sudden we had this surge of people who were able to return to the work force, because in those days, Michael, you went to work for American Airlines, you got insurance, your pre-existing illness didn't disqualify you. But did you always be afraid that if you ever lost your job with American Airlines that you would lose your health insurance? Because your health insurance didn't travel with you. Michael James: Correct. Toby Jenkins: And so I just want our viewers to understand historically it was the difference in people who were able to work and have health insurance, but sometimes you would stick with the job you hated because you had health insurance and you didn't want to lose your health insurance, which people still do for other reasons, too. Okay, so you went to work at American Airlines. I notice that there's so many things that you've been involved in. I want to … You went to work for American Airlines. Were you out at work? Michael James: I was myself, okay? No matter what, I'm kind of a back, shied off guy, but I'm gonna be myself no matter what. And I mean everybody knew. Whenever I came out and joined the pride group and started our pride group out there, I didn't have to do any. I didn't have to come out, you know. Toby Jenkins: What year would that have been? Michael James: About ten years ago? Toby Jenkins: I thought longer than that. Michael James: No, it's been about … Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And this is an employee resource group? �16 Michael James: Employee business resource, the Pride Employee Business Resource group that started in 1984, I believe it was, right when the AIDS epidemic was in full swing and they wanted American Airlines to burn the blankets and pillows and everything after pride flights, yes. Yes, ma'am. And we formed a pride – or actually it was called GLEAAM back then. Yes, Gay Lesbian Employees of American Airlines, so. Toby Jenkins: Because of the discrimination and the stigma? Michael James: Correct. If you're gay, you got AIDS. Toby Jenkins: So did you have to revive the chapter here in Tulsa or did you have to start it? I mean, had they ever had … Michael James: We had to revive it. So, as you said, American’s been through a lot of stuff. At one point they really brought DEI to the forefront, and it really wasn't DEI back then, though. This was before all that came around. They had a chapter, but it was a downlow chapter. They would meet off base. You know, they wouldn’t let – you had to be part of the group to know where to meet. They were that afraid. Toby Jenkins: So you began to organize in 2016? Michael James: Yep, something like that. Then we started coming out. Toby Jenkins: Did you have the support of American Airlines corporate? Michael James: Yes. Toby Jenkins: And HR personnel? Michael James: We had the entire Tulsa base behind us. Corporate down south was behind us. Of course, we had many other chapters that we had to share with. I was fortunate for the time that I was there to be able to be a proud $10,000 sponsorship for several years for our Pride. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, so you said they had to share for other chapters. You mean other chapters at other cities in American Airlines? Michael James: Correct. Toby Jenkins: Or other affinity groups at the …? Michael James: No, it's that there are different pride chapters everywhere throughout the world.. Toby Jenkins: So you would network with all them and get ideas? Michael James: Yes, yeah. We would go down and have meetings and stuff. Toby Jenkins: Now, when you, did a group of you decide, did you find out American Airlines had this out there and you said, I want to do this? Or did y'all begin to meet and say, hey, we need to organize here? �17 Michael James: So I found out there was a group, and then I really wanted to become more involved. And this was the time that they started pushing the employee business resource groups at that time. So I'm like, sure, I'll step up. So took it from there, got it ... Toby Jenkins: So in the regular workforce, so the people you worked with, the other employees who were not gay, were they aware this group had formed? And was there any, I mean, if you went, if people went to it, was there people, I just assume that meant they automatically knew they were sexual? Because I know you had several straight allies involved. Michael James: Yes, yes. And there's that stigma once again. Yes, if you're part of a queer club, a gay club, whatever, straight alliance, gay alliance club, you're automatically gay no matter what. That was the biggest issue that I had. Unfortunately, a lot of the guys and the ladies and all those in between would come up and say, I appreciate you wearing that shirt to work. I couldn't do it. But you were online and married and everything else is about, so. Toby Jenkins: Ah. Interesting. So y'all had T-shirts that you could wear in the workplace that were American Airlines. Michael James: American branded, uh-huh. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So that let other people know. Yes. When you were wearing that Tshirt, did people come up? Hey, I'm gay, and did they not know about the group and they started coming into the group? Michael James: Nope, nope. It was, you know, I never, yes, I got people who wanted to come join the group. Nobody who actually came out, okay? Believe it or not, I, … there were more straight allies joined during my time than anything, so, yeah. And I really, they're still there for me. Toby Jenkins: So previously, American Airlines had been one of our big corporate sponsors of Tulsa Pride back in the early 2000s, and then when the economic downturn happened, we lost State Farm, Cox Cable, and American Airlines, and then when you got involved, you brought them back to the table in a big way. Michael James: So wasn't this before that? Toby Jenkins: Yeah, it would have been, this would have been the early 2000s, and then, you know, 2007 when we had the big, 2007, 2008, all corporate support went away. I mean, that's why we moved Pride from the park to here. We couldn't afford to have it over there anymore. But you brought them back to the table. Yes. Yeah. So, and how did you, where did y'all jump in? I mean, you not only brought them back as a Pride sponsor. Michael James: I jumped in, I mean, you know, I knew the Equality Center. I had been to Prides before. I had never been on the other side of that. Toby Jenkins: The organizing. �18 Michael James: You're correct, so our group, hey, let's get some community, you know, going here. So we started volunteering through the Equality Center when we did drag bingos to raise funds for our Pride Festival in January through May, you know? Toby Jenkins: Every year, we would, about 10 years ago, we started doing Pride bingos here at the center. Dale Hogan helped start that, and companies would buy tables or individuals, and. Michael James: And then we would come out, we would take and serve them. We would be behind the bar. We would have people coming out to their tables, making sure that they were full and happy and having a great time, and then. Toby Jenkins: And y'all would wear your American Airlines shirt. Michael James: Yes, sir, yep, yep. Toby Jenkins: So that people knew we had our volunteers running drinks. It was, … Michael James: We even, I think we brought some bar cart out here at one time and pushed it around. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, some bar cart like you see on the flights. Michael James: Flight attendant carts. We then started working, okay, well, if we can do this, you know, I know that there are other corporations out there that have these groups, you know? So we all started working together, and that's when we started getting Blue Cross Blue Shield to come in and all that stuff. Toby Jenkins: PSO. Michael James: Right, yep, yep, yep. Toby Jenkins: One Gas. Michael James: Uh huh. Yep, we had volunteers out at the wazoo, and it was fabulous. It was fabulous. Bingos would sell out. Toby Jenkins: Both rooms. Michael James: Yes. Yes. Yes. Toby Jenkins: And it helped us pay for Pride. Michael James: Mm-hmm. Toby Jenkins: Yes. So you created that, you recruited them and got them involved, and they were just wonderful volunteers. And then I know that you also, while you were at American Airlines, y’all began to do some diversity training, and you would invite us to come and do presentations. Michael James: Yes. If I recall, you'd come out and do how to be an ally. They did some youth training – abuse and stuff. There was also one, yes. �19 Toby Jenkins: I know we did a presentation on marriage equality. Didn't you serve on that panel? Mary Bishop-Baldwin: I don't recall. Toby Jenkins: But I know you had us come out and talk about why marriage mattered. Michael James: Yeah. Equality time. Yeah. Very well-attended events. Toby Jenkins: So you were helping with Pride Bingo, but then you also, I know American Airlines kind of stepped up with the Grateful Day Foundation and helped with their big fundraisers, too. Michael James: Correct. Yes. We would just do different portions of proceeds. I mean, yeah. Toby Jenkins: Yes? Michael James: Yes. I don't know where else to go with that. Toby Jenkins: Another big spaghetti dinner every year, y'all. Michael James: So, no. We didn't really do, we did more for the Equality Center. Wasn't really more for Grateful Day. That was more of a personal thing on the Grateful Day side of it. So now, did my people take in, also come and volunteer at those events? Yes. I had my people from American and other organizations that did that as well. But yes, we go out and we volunteer for the awards dinner. Toby Jenkins: So tell us a little bit about how you got inspired to come up with the beverage carts, which were branded. We had an OkEq branded one, and then we had a, whatever the Pride logo was. Michael James: Yes, we did. There were two or three years that we were able to, our leadership donated flight attendant carts, and they would take and refurbish them. I would use the theme of that year's Pride to put – one year we did it on one side, I think. One side was Pride; one side was OKEQ. And then the next year, when we did the Tulsa to Oklahoma City theme, that wrapped all the way around the flight attendant cart. They would take exotic woods and carve them out to specific bottles, like crown bottles, glassware, ice bin, the whole lot, lights, remote control. We donated. Toby Jenkins: And we would sell these for $10,000. Michael James: Yes, at Gala. Toby Jenkins: People would go nuts. And I remember one year, he was with the chamber, and his partner was a flight attendant, and they bought that. His flight attendant partner asked, “Why in the world are you buying that?” He said, “Well, I thought it was neat,” and he said, “I have to deal with one of those all the time.” Gary Meadows and his partner bought one one year. �20 Michael James: And then, yeah, somebody bought one, and then we, they matched it but didn't want the cart or something like that. And then somebody donated on top of that. I mean, that year it was like $30,000. It was amazing. I mean, I was very proud. Toby Jenkins: And then American Airlines would sponsor a Gala table. Michael James: Yes, yes. Toby Jenkins: And they would sponsor Pride. Michael James: We'd sponsor bingos. Very, very great. Toby Jenkins: Because they would walk in, if I remember this correctly, you would keep a list of the people that volunteered, and then we would verify that, and then they, American Airlines, would match those volunteers? Or was that ConocoPhillips that I'm thinking of? Michael James: No, that’s ConocoPhillips. Dennis Neill: So, MJ, what is your thought about why that has changed so much? Where we lost all of these affinity groups, this corporate support. Toby Jenkins: Diversity. I mean, do you still have this at American Airlines? Michael James: So, it's tough to say. I don't know if we overdid things, you know? I mean, at the end of my tenure with the EBRG, our DEI group made me want to DIE. I mean, it was just shove it, you know. I get that, okay? But I don't, it's tough to say. Unfortunately, we had COVID that came around. Nobody wanted to be around anybody, and then you became that recluse, and how hard is it to get out of that, you know? So, and it's just a lot, it takes a lot to build back, and we're building back. Dennis Neill: You are building back? Michael James: We are building back. Dennis Neill: So the corporation isn't blocking you from building back? Michael James: No, they still have, they're called team member resource groups now. We no longer have a chapter in Tulsa, so we can't get sponsorship. However, I still have my management sponsor that we have a core group of people that still, to this day, we drive shuttles for Pride. They'll be the back of the thing so that people can walk behind and dance and just be themselves for Pride. So they, our local is still very involved, so. Toby Jenkins: So you're still in Pride, the Pride parade and all that? Michael James: Not since I've been bartending. Toby Jenkins: Oh, okay, all right. I was thinking I’d seen American Airlines in the parade. Michael James: So yes, we, yes, like I said, they bring up the rear of the parade. We've got music on the back. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: So you're saying American is still in the parade? �21 Michael James: American is still, yes. Me, I'm behind the bar. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, and when he says bar, he means he's running the bar for Pride. Michael James: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: For thousands of people pouring and overseeing all the volunteers with that. Okay, I want to talk about, a little bit about you were involved with Friend for a Friend and tell kind of what that is and what you. Michael James: So when I got diagnosed, resources are there. One of the resources was an organization called A Friend for a Friend, and it was started by Alice Bates. And if I'm not mistaken, it was in her son's memory. Excuse me, he was diagnosed with HIV, and he had a dog, and “Who's gonna care for that poor dog?” she thought. So she started A Friend for a Friend. I used their resources, and then I actually started volunteering for the organization. Toby Jenkins: And so Friend for a Friend provided pet food, veterinarian care, helped out financially if there was some kind of issues associated with someone living with HIV/AIDS and they didn't have the resources to care for their pets. Michael James: Correct. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Dennis Neill: In that, did you have a physical location, and did you have a paid staff person that ran the program, or is this all volunteers? Michael James: I was, to my knowledge, it was just all volunteers. And when I was delivering, we went and picked the dog food up from Alice's house. And then. Toby Jenkins: And you say as a client, you had benefited from it. Michael James: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So you believed in it. Michael James: Yes. And then when Alice passed away, my best friend, Jason Eddingfield, was her right-hand person, and he took it over, and then we carried on. I was still volunteering with that. And unfortunately we lost all the other support when we lost Alice. So it had to go. Dennis Neill: So what year do you think that was? Michael James: It's only been, what, five years ago? Toby Jenkins: Less than five years. Dennis Neill: Because they had her service at Unity, right? Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Dennis Neill: And that's kind of when things stopped. �22 Michael James: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Well, nobody could tell Alice no. She would ask, but. So did you help with the big fundraisers they'd have here at the center where Al Triggs would cook carrot cake cupcakes? Michael James: Yes, yes, that's correct, yes. We would have our like fall meals, and Al would make his infamous carrot cupcakes and, oh my gosh. But yes, we would volunteer with that for Grateful Day Foundation for that. Toby Jenkins: So, yeah. Toby Jenkins: So just to talk about that, you said that you had been a client at one time. Toby Jenkins: So you had a pet, and obviously you were struggling financially and on disability taking care of you or however the rhyme went. Were there times that you were afraid you were going to have to give up your pet because …? Michael James: That wouldn't happen. Toby Jenkins: It wasn’t going to happen. Michael James: No, that wasn't going to happen. No. No. Ride or die. Toby Jenkins: But it meant a lot to you to know that this resource was available for you. Michael James: It did. It meant a lot that it was there for me, able to keep my security while I didn’t have my mother. Dennis Neill: So were you dealing with symptoms at this period of time? Michael James: No, no. I was dealing with drug and mental issues at that time. Dennis Neill: But you were on disability? Michael James: No. Dennis Neill: Okay. Michael James: No, I was on the Ryan White program. Dennis Neill: Okay. Sorry. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And what did that provide for you? Michael James: That provided me, let's see here, doctors. Okay, that's where I – OSU. I got in on at OSU. Food, whatever. Toby Jenkins: Did they help with housing? Michael James: Housing, yes, and they helped with housing in the days. Toby Jenkins: Bus passes? �23 Dennis Neill: And this was all through the Tulsa Cares case worker? Michael James: Yes. Dennis Neill: And that's when they were on Admiral, I assume. Right? Michael James: Yes, correct. Toby Jenkins: Did you ever do anything with the Lambda Bowling League, which is the LGBT bowling league? Michael James: So, yes. Every year they would have a yearly bowling tournament. And when Grateful Day was around and Chuck Courtney, we would always go out to their big fundraiser and sell raffle tickets and donate our time there. So, got to meet lots of people, spread, you know, lots of people would ask about our group and stuff. And we'd sit down and tell them, and they’d … . Toby Jenkins: And in those days, the bowling league was huge. Michael James: Huge. I mean, it's at Sheridan Lanes. And, I mean, yeah, it's a good thing I didn't track my steps back then because... Toby Jenkins: Yeah, I'd say probably as many as 25 lanes. And there would be five to six team people in each. Michael James: Yep, and then you've got their people with them and so, yeah. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Once a week? Toby Jenkins: Yeah, every week. Michael James: Well, no, this was for their yearly bowling tournament, but yes, they would. Toby Jenkins: Oh, yeah, they had a huge tournament. Oh, yeah, it'd be bigger than that, yeah. And so, that helped them fund Grateful Day Foundation. So, tell us a little about Chuck Courtney. You've mentioned him. Michael James: Chuck Courtney. Toby Jenkins: And how did you meet him? Michael James: Oh, Chuck Courtney and I met somewhere out between Mounds and Kiefer. Back in the '80s, the late '80s, after I came back from the military. Went our ways, and then somehow or another we ended up connecting somehow. And it was like, bam, bada bing, bada boom. I got involved with Grateful Day at that point in time, like I said. Wonderful man, very knowledgeable. Toby Jenkins: You were roommates for a while. Michael James: Yes, yep, and we lived back-to-back. So, great guy. Like I said, he was part of one of the founders of Grateful Day. Just so much about him, you know. �24 Toby Jenkins: Yeah, he's just like you – a workhorse. He just was a doer. Michael James: You ask him a question. If he didn't know he was going to dig until he found out, yeah. Needed the shirt off your back, yeah, he'd give it to you. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And you were both from Mounds. Michael James: He was from Kiefer. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Oh, he was from Kiefer. Michael James: Yep, and I was from Mounds. But remember, I had a Kiefer telephone number. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Yes, I understand that. Toby Jenkins: There's a legend here that people probably think is a legend, but we're going to tell the true story on the legend. So you and Chuck, and you all were involved, I guess, with Grateful Day Foundation, which eventually became Positively Grateful. But during that time, if I remember correctly, there was a group of people that wanted to do a documentary on HIV/AIDS in Tulsa, and I can’t remember the name of the people that were wanting to do that. And so they connected with Chuck, and Chuck was helping with that. Michael James: Chuck spearheaded that with them. Toby Jenkins: And so they wanted to do a story on Alice's Our House. She headed Our House, which was an HIV/AIDS resource house for people in the community and Friend for a Friend and all the work she had done. And during that time, there began to be questions about the AIDS quilts. And you all got involved in that. Michael James: Yes, yes. Chuck came to me one day and said, “Hey, break out the mystery machine. We're going to solve a mystery.” So, and he told me that the Center had received a call saying that they were missing quilts. We had help find them. Toby Jenkins: AIDS quilts. Michael James: AIDS quilts. Toby Jenkins: So when the Equality Center opened at this location at 621 East 4th Street, we were one of the few places in the United States that it was our permanent home that we were going to own. And it was very common for the NAMES project, which was based in Atlanta, they would allow LGBT community centers, resource centers, they would allow them to permanently display the quilts. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Certain panels. Toby Jenkins: Certain panels. Michael James: Right, and so there was an organization from there that was local. Toby Jenkins: Right. And we had a NAMES Project committee here, and so they reached out, and those individuals, who are no longer with us, got the quilts. All I know �25 is that from the day when we opened the building, we always had the AIDS quilts hanging on the wall, the original AIDS quilts that were Oklahoma specific, and we had at least four. So we had two, and we would take the others out for World AIDS Day. OSU sometimes would request them, sometimes Tulsa Care, All Souls would come and, you know. But we only had four that I knew of. Then when they decided to move the NAMES Project to the National AIDS Museum in San Francisco, they said all the AIDS quilts need to return to the NAMES project. And we went into this legal battle with them, because we kept saying we have the paperwork saying we could have these here on permanent display. And we kept telling – they said, you've got 10 quilts, and we said, we've got four. And so pick it up there. Michael James: So Chuck, being the guy he is, he picked it up and ran with it. I worked during the day, so I wasn't able to do a lot of stuff, but he would do a lot of the background work. We got to go into the Catholic archives and look in it. It was very, oh my gosh. Just the search. Go, go, go. Toby Jenkins: St. Joseph’s House. Michael James: Look, look, find this … . We'd go look. Finally, we found them at the 11th hour before, I can't remember what they said. They were going to charge us some outrageous amount. Toby Jenkins: They were going to sue us. Michael James: Yeah. And American Airlines helped pay cargo for those. Toby Jenkins: And you found them where? Michael James: We found them in... Toby Jenkins: Now, you checked multiple locations, Tulsa Cares, St. Jerome's. Michael James: St. Jerome's, OSU, because they had even borrowed it to hang from their, several locations. And we found them in the shed. And I can't remember – we said it. Toby Jenkins: Ray Chance. Michael James: Ray Chance's house. Still in a box. Very minimal damage, thank goodness. So we were able to bring them back here. Toby Jenkins: Weren't they buried under newspapers, like gay magazines? Michael James: Yeah, they were in a big. Yeah, they were buried, but there was a little bit of... Mary Bishop-Baldwin: How many were in the box? Michael James: Six. Toby Jenkins: Six. There were six. We had four, and they had six. Dennis Neill: What led you to Ray's location? �26 Michael James: So Chuck got a lead. Seriously. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: This should be a movie. Michael James: No, like I said, the mystery machine, you know? We were like, yeah, Scooby and Freddy or something. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: That’s amazing. Michael James: Brought them back here. And then at that point in time, we were able to do some high-resolution stuff, get the quilts back to the National Archives, and now we have local copies here. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Facsimiles, essentially. Full size. How did you do that? Michael James: With the talents of … Toby Jenkins: Jeremy Stevens and his partner Alan Mueggenberg, if I'm saying that right. Alan's company was able to create those, and so they paid for that, and then we were able to send them away. And we had a big ceremony that they would be, we told people, we had them on display and told people to come down and see them. Michael James: We had them right there in the Bruce Goff, World AIDS Day, if I'm not mistaken. Toby Jenkins: All of them, not just the... We've probably got video of that somewhere. And so I quit fighting with the National Names Project, and y'all paid to have them boxed up and mailed back. They're there, available. I mean, you can pull it up on their website. Yes. And we now have what are high-resolution facsimiles. Most people don't even realize they're not the original quilts. And we just recently found about one. We know we have four, but we found a third one. So I want to thank you and Chuck for doing that. That was a pretty historical event. Michael James: It was very interesting, learned a lot, and made me even want to get into it more so. Toby Jenkins: Now I know you were also involved in T.U.L.S.A., which is the Tulsa Uniform and Leather Seekers Association. Michael James: Correct. I was in that organization for a couple of years, started out as a pledge. How I got started was my friend, Richard Ziese, a former Mr. Tulsa Leather, and it was more of a fun thing to me. I didn't really fit the lifestyle, but the people were cool, you know, and it's just another form of drag, right? You put on your leathers and, you know, and they're an organization that go out and do fundraisers, okay, not only for themselves, but they'll join with other organizations and help fundraise for them as well. So they ended up disbanding as well, I think. Toby Jenkins: You used to meet here. Michael James: Yes, met here. �27 Toby Jenkins: You would have a room full of 30 or 40 people. Now, did you help with Richard when they did the leather archives? Michael James: Yes, that was when I was being initiated, and we were actually ribboncutting, and yeah, it was a very wonderful thing. Toby Jenkins: Thank you. So you know the details on the display case that has... Michael James: I know several of the people in there. Toby Jenkins: Okay, very good. That's helpful information. Because eventually it will move down here, right? And this area is going to be redone, and the library's ... Is it all right to say that? Dennis Neill: Uh huh. Toby Jenkins: It's going to be moved out there … Michael James: Oh, right on. Toby Jenkins: … to make it more accessible, and you know, we've got kind of a dead space. Used to, we had a computer lounge there, and we don't necessarily do that. And so the leather archives will eventually be here. Michael James: Right on. Okay, that's cool. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Along with other archives. Michael James: And then during that time... Toby Jenkins: So you and Richard were the ones that put all that together? Michael James: Yes, along with some of the other... Toby Jenkins: David Howell down in Florida, I think. Didn't he help some? Michael James: I think so. And then somewhere down the road, with Grateful Day, I got involved, not as a member, but working with the Imperial Court of all Oklahoma, as well. And we would, as the organization Grateful Day, we would go volunteer with them, help them raise funds. We were a... What am I looking for? At the end, they take in, they pay their, we're like a benefactor. We benefit the organization, so. And then, ever since then, I go every year for their coronation and volunteer as their bartender for their hospitality. Toby Jenkins: Tell our viewers a little bit what the Imperial Court is. Michael James: So, Imperial Court of All Oklahoma is, it's a court system all throughout the states. And they go around raising funds for different, they're another fundraising organization. That's really what I know about them. Toby Jenkins: So, they're modeled after the European court system. There's kings and queens and dukes and duchesses and princes and princesses and ... �28 Michael James: Tiaras. Toby Jenkins: We have Carolyn Wiley's interview. She was an empress. Michael James: She was, yes, like the main mama entry. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, yeah. So, we had her as part of our archives. Okay, I forgot about that. Anything else, Michael, that you, since you've just sit on your hands and you've not done anything for the last 15, anything else that you were involved in that we, well, you served on for years here on the advisory board. Michael James: Yes, I served for a couple years here on the advisory board. I volunteered, I've been a volunteer here for 10 years. I’ve managed the bar in the theater for three now. Yeah. Toby Jenkins: And it's kind of seen a resurgence. Will you be helping this weekend with the Fringe Fest? Michael James: I'll be right here with two signature cocktails. Dennis Neill: So, MJ, of all of your activities that you participated in through these many years, what is kind of the high point that you can think of that has been so meaningful to you personally? Michael James: My high point is seeing our community benefit from some of the things that I can do. Whether it be getting them dog food, whether it be hanging with them for a weekend at a retreat, whether it be behind the bar making a cocktail. I just love our community. And that’s, yeah. Toby Jenkins: I know recently I've been able to attend a new thing that's happening in the Lynn Riggs Theater with Jason and Bill Nelson called Broadway Clubhouse, and that's capacity crowds. And are you enjoying, I know you just seem to be flying with the energy that you feed off of. Michael James: Oh my gosh. That's been an idea of Mr. Neill's for quite some time to bring something very similar to Marie's Crisis here to Tulsa. We started it. Unfortunately, that didn't work out, but we have two wonderful people who are in charge of it now, and I'll tell you what. I mean, being a former choir boy and just hearing all that, coming right, not at me, but just up, it's just the energy in the house and the energy that I feel when I'm here. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Show tunes. Michael James: And it's not just show tunes. I mean, come on, we do some Queen in there, too, right? Toby Jenkins: So we get together and we sing Broadway show tunes, and of course it'll be music that may have been featured in by musical artists or Disney shows. I mean, when you say Broadway shows, you don't realize how comprehensive and expansive that is. Michael James: Yeah, and jukebox jingles or something ... �29 Toby Jenkins: But I will tell you that the warmth and the friendliness and the excitement that you bring to those events, I know you're happiest when it's a packed house and people are enjoying themselves. Dennis Neill: MJ, you mentioned that when you were diagnosed and you lost that partner, because he couldn't deal, I guess, right, with your diagnosis. How about since then? Have you had some long-term relationships that have been meaningful to you? Michael James: Yes, Dale Hogan is really about the only other long-term relationship. It's been about seven years. We were together about seven years. We still remain friends. Sure wish I could get him to come back as Rainbow Granny, dang it. But... Toby Jenkins: So it can be a strain, a medical diagnosis for people, and some people just can't deal with it. They're not equipped. But that doesn't help somebody who's dealing with it. Yeah, I mean, and hopefully in the wellness retreats, y’all address some of that, probably. Michael James: Yes, yes. Toby Jenkins: Have some discussion groups. Toby Jenkins: Yes, we have. Michael James: For a, go ahead, I'm sorry. Michael James: We have panelists. We have a doctor that comes out. We have a... Toby Jenkins: Mental health provider. Michael James: Mental health. We have pharmacists, a pharmacologist that comes out. We even have, uh, wanding sessions. So like spirit, just wellness. You take wellness and go however. Toby Jenkins: You have chaplains sometimes. Michael James: Yeah, George is always there providing services. There's a labyrinth that takes you through a journey, you know. So very, yeah. Dennis Neill: So with the people you've been close to that have been dealing with HIV, and with all the new medications, have you still seen some people that we lose to the actual disease, or is it usually other complications? Michael James: It's always other complications, unfortunately. Dennis Neill: Do they have a relationship to their compromised systems? Michael James: Yeah, I could see some of them, but you know, not everybody's that. It's not that, you know, granted, okay, pneumonia. Okay, you can have pneumonia, but is it truly caused because of your HIV? You know, I mean, yeah. Dennis Neill: So we've seen a real sea change there, right, in the treatment and the longevity? �30 Michael James: Yeah, yes, yes. You know, I mean, I didn't think I would be here now, you know. I've, in the beginning, I had several medication changes, but I've only had probably two medication changes within the last 30 years, 25. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Do you attribute your longevity, the fact that you didn't die in those earlier days, to the timing of when you were diagnosed, because these drugs had come about then, or to what do you attribute this? Michael James: Have you met me? My hard head, okay? My stubbornness, my will to live, okay? I am not ready to die, okay? As y'all know, I got too much stuff to do. I almost said a bad word. Toby Jenkins: And obviously, you're not willing to sit on the sidelines. … World AIDS Day, have you ever participated in any of the World AIDS Day events? Michael James: World AIDS Day, we did with Grateful Day, and that we stuck, talked earlier, we took the quilts, we hung them from the ceiling in the Bruce Goff, and they kind of wrapped around, and people could walk through and see that. That's really about the only one that I, you know. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, well, we're trying to revive World AIDS Day. Michael James: Let's do it. Dennis Neill: It's going to be on Tuesday, this time, and we have been challenged by others, including you, to make sure that we have a real recognition of World AIDS Day, and so we hope that Mary and you and some others can kind of help lead this effort of pulling back the community that we used to have such a robust remembrance of World AIDS Day. Michael James: I'd be honored to, so. Toby Jenkins: Anything else from our interview panel? So usually we ask our guests, give you just a second to think about it, is there any message you want to give anybody who comes after you, maybe younger people or just people who review your interview, do you have a final message for them? Michael James: Man, amongst all the BS, don't lose yourself, and don't give in. Don't give in. Be that person to help make the world a better place. Toby Jenkins: It has been our distinct pleasure to interview Michael James, known in the community as MJ. Our interview panelists have been Dennis Neill, founder of Oklahomans for Equality; Mary Bishop Baldwin, the Marriage Equality Plaintiff, and Toby Jenkins. It is July 21st, 2026, and I believe it's now 101 degrees outside, but it's been a warm, warm experience. Thank you so much, Michael. Michael James: Thank you all. Look for me down in the bar. Remember, if the light's on, bring it on. If the light's off, back off. Dennis Neill: Ha, ha. Thank you, MJ. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Thank you, Michael. � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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He shares his powerful story of overcoming trauma, fighting for LGBTQ+ rights, serving as Program Director and Deputy Director at Oklahomans for Equality, and building community through advocacy, education, and leadership. Keywords LGBTQ+ advocacy, Tulsa, California, trauma, resilience, community building, public health, HIV prevention, leadership, immigration Key Topics José Vega's childhood and family background Experiences with child abuse and conversion therapy Journey of coming out and self-acceptance Advocacy for LGBTQ+ rights and immigrant communities Impact of hate crimes and community response Leadership in Oklahoma and California Innovative programs like rainbow crosswalks and chapters International perspectives on LGBTQ+ issues and human rights Future goals for community empowerment and education �3 Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:21 Childhood and Family Dynamics 12:23 Experiences with Conversion Therapy 21:36 Struggles with Identity and Survival 30:06 Education and Career Path 34:39 Professional Growth and Advocacy 38:00 Finding Stability and Community 44:52 Confronting Discrimination in Safe Spaces 50:52 Advocacy and Leadership in the LGBTQ Community 57:56 Reconnecting with Family and Personal Growth 01:05:05 Navigating Hate Crimes and Advocacy for Protection 01:09:10 Handling Hate Crimes and Community Safety 01:11:58 Advocacy and Activism in the LGBTQ Community 01:15:07 Building Support Networks and Chapters 01:20:07 International Perspectives on LGBTQ Rights 01:25:07 Navigating Divisive Issues in the LGBTQ Community 01:29:54 Career Growth and Community Impact 01:34:54 Education and Public Health Initiatives 01:40:03 Inspiring Future Generations of Activists Jose Vega Oral History Interview May 22, 2026 Toby Jenkins: Good afternoon, and welcome to Oklahomans for Equality. We're at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma. It is May 22nd, 2026. It's a beautiful Friday afternoon. We're here in the Joe and Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library with a history project interview. And today, our special guest, we all call him Jose, but will you give us your name the way you say it? Jose Vega: Jose Emanuel Vega. Toby Jenkins: Very good. And Jose, where do you live presently? Jose Vega: Yeah, I currently live in Sacramento, California. �4 Toby Jenkins: Where were you born and where are you from? Jose Vega: Yeah, I'm originally from Tulsa, Oklahoma. Family is from Mexico, Michoacan, Uruapan. And I was born and raised in Oklahoma. And I moved away from Oklahoma in October 2020. But it'll always be home for me. Toby Jenkins: And so you moved, where were you working when you left Tulsa? Jose Vega: I was at Oklahomans for Equality, and then I had the opportunity to move to Sacramento, California for the Sacramento LGBT Community Center there and work as Director of Health Services and Programs. And it was in the middle of COVID. Toby Jenkins: Right, and you were the Deputy Director here at the Oklahomans for Equality. Jose Vega: Yes. Toby Jenkins: All right, so we're gonna have what we call, you've heard of bisexual interviews. This is a bicoastal interview. We're gonna have a West Coast gay who comes back to the heartland, and we're gonna hear Jose's story. So today, our interviewing panel is Dennis Neill, the founder of Oklahomans for Equality, Mary Bishop-Baldwin, who works here with the archives, and also was the plaintiff in the marriage equality lawsuit that secured marriage for Oklahoma and a big section of the country, and I'm Toby Jenkins. Toby Jenkins: Jose, let's start with, like we do all of our interview people, I’d like to hear a little bit about, your childhood and kind of your experience. You were here in Oklahoma. Tell us a little bit about your family. Jose Vega: Yeah, I was born in 1992 and raised here, and my family, I'm a son of immigrants. My family is from Mexico. All my family lives here. They're either here in Tulsa or in Mexico. You know, the only two. I am the oldest of my dad's children. He remarried six times, so he's on his sixth marriage now, but growing up was only me and him with one woman and her kids, and then a revolving door and so forth, but it's always been me and him. Childhood hasn't been… I had a rough childhood with growing up with him in that aspect. I Can share, you know, my coming out story. So with that, now what I know now with my dad, I know that he gave what he could give to the best of his ability, but during that time, that's not how I saw it or how it was lived with. So, you know, my story, I came out at 15. I was a sophomore in high school, but before that, I had a lot of child abuse. My dad would come home and I knew that, now what I know is that he had bipolarism and he would beat me, lock me up in my room. Sometimes I'd have to skip meals. I would show up to school with bruises and they'd ask, what happened here? And I would always lie to protect my dad and my family. But it wasn'tToby Jenkins: Because you had your extended family. You had aunts and uncles and cousins and then you still were pretty connected to your grandmother, and she was still in Mexico at the time, right? Jose Vega: Yeah, yeah. As all migrant families, we're all very interconnected. �5 Toby Jenkins: No connection to your biological mother. Jose Vega: Not during that time. Not before the age of 18. Toby Jenkins: Ok. You were experiencing, he would be very violent and abusive, and you felt that you had to protect him and your family. Why did you feel like you needed to protect them rather than protect yourself? Just curious about that. Jose Vega: Well, what happens a lot in child abuse is that there will be a parent or family member say, don't say anything because it will break the family apart, and you don't want to risk that. And so that's what happened to me. I had aunts, stepmoms tell me, don't tell anybody, tell them that you fell down, that you hurt yourself, and that's kind of what I did, ended up doing. But it wasn't until I was 14 when I've had enough. And there was suicide in my history, and at that age of 14 is when I was going through physical abuse, mental abuse, and verbal abuse, and it was every day waking up that you're a piece of shit, you're a son of a bitch, worthless, and so you tell that to a child so much that they end up believing it. And at 14, that's what I believed. My own father doesn't love me or thinks of me this way, then I must be this. And so that's the first attempt. And I felt very depressed, and I remember his words telling me, you didn't take enough [pills]. And from that moment on, that's kind of where I took empowerment of who I was and kind of protect myself. But even before that, I asked myself, they knew I was gay for some reason, because growing up too, I would have my hand, little cap [limp] like this, you know, fallen, or my hand on my hip, and I would get beaten for having these mannerisms. And so at the age of 14 when that happened, it was the last beating I had. And I was about to turn 15, and he came in and he striked me, and I stood up for myself and I said, you know what? I can't do this anymore. You're not going to do this to me. And you talk about you'd rather have a thief as a son, or a rapist as a son, or somebody else as a son, or a drug dealer as a son, but not a homosexual or a faggot. And I said, I'm a faggot. And crying, I said that. And so he was like, get your stuff and get out. There will never be a faggot in my household. And at 15, I grabbed everything I could and I started packing my bags. And then he comes into the room and says, what are you doing? I was like, I'm packing my bags like you asked me to. He's like, but I paid for all of this. And so I left with the clothes on my back and a blanket. And I managed. I couch surfed through high school. I slept in the ditch next to Webster High School. That's kind of where I graduated. Slept in a ditch at a park. Couch surfed with friends; with anybody I could. I would shower in the gym at school. But I was a happy child because I wasn't getting beaten. I wasn't getting the abuse. Toby Jenkins: You didn't go to the school counselor and tell her you were homeless? You didn't go to foster agencies? Jose Vega: No, and the reason why is because at school, I became the student who would put newcomers together. And I loved it. I loved helping a new student come in, learn the system. I've always had that passion of helping folks. But I ended up �6 partnering and helping foster kids, foster youth. And they would share some of the stories that they were dealing with. And I knew that if I was caught, I would have to end up in a foster shelter or some system where I would be limited and not have the opportunities that I'm having now, that I was having at that time. I worked at Reasor’s [grocery store] as a sacker at the age of 15 after school. Once I turned 16, it became full-time. But I was very appreciative because it gave me money to pay for a cell phone, so I would go to the admissions office at school and I said, here's my new parent's number. And anytime they needed a parent's signature, I forged the signature. Anytime they would call, I would pretend to be the translator. Usually a lot of Latinos, youth, are the translators. We, a lot of youth, end up translating medical paperwork or school paperwork or even legal paperwork for their parents because they don't understand the language. I would translate, yeah, the teacher's saying this, and I would just make my own decisions. And I never got caught, and I was really good at school. I do appreciate Mary Waters, who was my high school counselor. She did look out for me. She helped me with getting enrolled with scholarships, the universities, and prepared me. And then I had a lesbian gym teacher. She would see that me walking down very early, like at six in the morning, walking down to the school. And she knew because she would leave the gym door open and the shower room open where we just knew… We looked at each other, and we just knew what was going on. But nobody ever said anything or reported anything. Also food-wise, too, they would help me cover for food and meals. But also during that time, as a 15, 16-year-old, working at Reasor’s and putting myself through high school, sex work was a thing too, that sometimes I needed to do to find a ride. To help me with wash clothes, laundry. And so that's part of my history too, where I needed to do certain things to get by. Toby Jenkins: I know at one point you talked about there was a period where your family decided they were going to send you to Mexico. One, so you could learn to speak Spanish the proper way, but also interact with your family, but to get you more connected to the church. So can you share with us a little bit about what that was like going through what we call today conversion therapy. I think it was called reparative therapy at that time. Can you tell us a little bit about that experience? Jose Vega: So yeah, my aunt said that she could heal me, and there could be a cure for this. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: At what age? Jose Vega: I was 14 to 15. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Had you already left home? Jose Vega: No, this was before leaving home. So there was already this talk among my family that I was gay. There was already this talk, and they're like, well, we keep hearing his dad keep saying faggots this, faggot that, and that he doesn't want this at home and so forth. So maybe we can heal Joselito, that's what we call me. And so during the abuse too, it was a great getaway. �7 I can get away from my father from the abuse. So yeah. So I did a year in Mexico, my freshman year of high school, and they sent me to conversion therapy at a church, and it started with droplets and people just praying on me at church and telling me, you're going to go to hell if you don't change and so forth. But these droplets were black oil, black oil that I would take after every meal as soon as I woke up. If I had impure thoughts, I'd ingest, and every time I would throw up after a meal because it was covered with this coat… it was just black ooze. And the priest would say that that is the demon coming out of you. And I lost a lot of weight. And then I would remember to read from this little yellow book two hours before school. So I had to wake up early and be on my knees, not trying to lean, bend. So just be on your hard knees for two hours, praying from this little yellow book before and after. So early in the morning and then before bed. And then also a VHS tape of a priest that died and that God took him through hell and showed him how every sin is paid. So if you're a thief, this is how your sin is paid in hell. If you're a rapist or if you're a, whatever it may be every sin, but the one that I, that is embedded in my mind and I can see it so clearly because I would watch it for a whole year- was how homosexuality is paid and the priest can... I can describe it. It's not graphic, well, a little bit, but the priest would say: a hot metal rod is inserted through the anus, all through the body and out the throat at multiple times. And that's how homosexuality was paid in hell. And so having to watch this every day, read from this little yellow book and then be coated with this black oil stuff that I would ingest, I lost a lot of weight. I didn't even recognize myself. I was failing at school and then I was like: you know, I can't do this. I did it for nine months and I said, no, I can't do this anymore. And so that's kind of where I went back home and that's kind of when I stood up for myself with my dad. I said: you know what, I'd rather be gay, be where, I'd rather be homeless, gay and alone than having to endure this, this therapy or cure aspect, or even any abuse in the household. So I left. Toby Jenkins: Now, during this time when you're basically you don't have a permanent physical address, were you still in contact with your father and your aunts and uncles and cousins? Jose Vega: No, so all my family turned their back on me because I didn't finish the conversion therapy and I I wanted to… I just left home. So everybody turned their back on me. 15, 16 and um, nobody, nobody would reach out to me or talk to me. They knew where I was. They sometimes would see me at the grocery store or even see me walking on the street to my next destination. Toby Jenkins: Yet you made some friends, and those two are still your lifelong friends. Jose Vega: Yes, that's Martha and Jordan. Martha I met in high school and she knew so she was very, very sweet to me. She would bring me food from her home, just sometimes help cover lunch. And that's where it hurts, because when I needed somebody the most, she was there. She's my best friend. She's like the sister I never had. �8 Toby Jenkins: With all of that, dropped out of school and became a drug addict, right? Jose Vega: No. Toby Jenkins: What did you do? What happened? You graduated, didn’t you? Jose Vega: I graduated, I did so. So sophomore year of high school, I finished the year, but it became hard. It was hard because I was like I either need to quit school and get to work or find another alternative because I can't do this. I couldn't do this another two years of figuring it out how I was gonna get by. And I talked to Mary Waters, my high school counselor, and I said: I, I either need my GED, or graduate early or something. And so we looked at my grades and everything. She's like, Jose, you have great grades, you could jump a year. You could pay for summer school and do your junior year for that summer and then go straight into senior [year]. And I did. I did English Three that summer and came back to school as a senior. So I skipped my junior year. This is Pebbles [dog], she is three years old. Mary Waters helped me jump from sophomore straight to senior and I graduated early. And so I said, okay, I can do this one more year. So with that, one year is where I was able to move up along workwise at Reasor’s and stay in school and graduate early and then win scholarships. And then I moved to TCC, Tulsa Community College, where I went straight after high school. Mary Bishop – Baldwin: And did you get an apartment or were you still couch-surfing? Jose Vega: I was still couch-surfing during high school, but I was able to find something more stable and solid. I jumped a little bit ahead. There was a time where my aunt during that time- also senior high school- where she said: oh, Jose, God has touched my soul. And because she saw me as I was walking down the street, she says: God has touched my soul and I'm here to help you. I'm like, okay, yeah, I'll take any help. She's like: you can live with me, you can sleep on my couch, you'll have a shelter. And it was family. So I was like, oh, probably they finally came around. But she was charging me $300 to sleep on the couch, charging me for everything, well, you're using water, you're using gas and I have to pick you up and do this and do that. It started to get expensive and as a high school senior, I'm like I can't afford this. I went back to couch surfing with friends, where I didn't have to pay anything, and start saving up. And then finally I was able to save up to get A little $1,000 car and that's kind of where I started my TCC journey. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And did you sleep in your car? Jose Vega: There was a time where I slept in my car here and there, but I'm very grateful because Martha and my best friend, but I had met a boyfriend by that time, so I wasn't doing any more sex work or trying to get by. I met a boyfriend and we both moved in together and we had dual income and we were able to grow together. I was 18. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Can we go back to when you were in Mexico in the conversion therapy program? What were your personal beliefs about yourself at that time? Did you believe that homosexuality was a sin, or did you feel like you knew within yourself that what you were and what you were doing was not wrong? �9 Jose Vega: No, I did grow up thinking that it was something wrong. My family- but my family's very- was very religious, very Catholic, and I was so embedded in the Catholic Church that they did tell us homosexuality was a sin. And so very young, I knew that I was different. I knew that why do I find other boys attractive, or why do I find this taller man attractive? And I didn't say anything, but I would hear. And then also a lot of media. There was this talk show, a Mexican Latina talk show, where there was a transgender woman or somebody who dressed up as a woman, man who dressed up as a woman who came to the talk show, kind of like it was a Mexican Oprah. Her name was Christina, so she was a Mexican Oprah. And in this talk show I was probably 10 or 11 and I saw that they were talking about homosexuality and gay men and they felt so to me. I was like that's how I feel I can see that. But I knew it was a…this mentality of it's a sin, it's a sin, you're gonna go to hell was very embedded in me and that's why I hated myself. I was like no, I gotta do this conversion therapy. Probably my dad will love me this time. Probably my family will accept me. I don't want to be different. So my mentality there was that. But it wasn't till I was 14 and going on 15, where I tried to commit suicide and my dad said you didn't take enough. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Didn't take enough what? Jose Vega: Didn’t take enough medication. It was pills. I tried to do it by oral, but medication went to the hospital, my stomach got pumped, I had to eat charcoal. But when he said you didn't take enough, it was like a click, just something like a click where I'm like: why am I living for you or for anybody? No, I'm doing me, and very young, and I know that a lot like this is why I advocate for teen suicide and all and care, because- because not a lot of teens make it, or- and I don't know where I got the strength from- I know the strength that's saying I'm not doing it for anybody, but for myself, and that's why I broke the chains. I said I'm gay and you don't like it, and I hit the street afterwards. Toby Jenkins: So the sense of survival your own. You took it within yourself to take to survive. But you had to do it at a much younger age, while you're still a child yourself. You couldn't depend on any of them. So you decided, I'm gonna survive on my own terms, without any of your help. And if I lose you, I'll lose you. Jose Vega: And that's what happened. Toby Jenkins: And so you graduate from high school early, go to college. Were you in the Achieves program? Jose Vega: I was, Tulsa Achieves. Toby Jenkins: Now I remember a portion of your story, there was a time when y'all visited City Hall, you were a part of a youth program, which you later implemented under Mayor Bynum. Was that during high school or college? Jose Vega: That was during high school. My senior year of high school is when I applied for the Tulsa Mayor Youth Council. And it was run by Nick Doctor and his wife, what's her name again? Forgot her name, I'm blanking [Mana Tahaie]. �10 Nick Doctor started the program, the Tulsa Mayor's Youth Council, where youth would get involved with local politics and advocate. And I shared, like, we need to do something for our youth, our LGBTQ youth, and advocate more rights. And that's kind of where my passion for advocacy started growing. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: What year would this have been? Jose Vega: This was 2009 to 2010. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, but your earlier experience, you had been exposed to something like this that you… Jose Vega: Yeah, there is a footage, there's several interviews. In 2006, I was interviewed because there was a Latino career fair and advocacy to bring Latino men up into the workforce. So, every aspect of it, I enjoyed. Every aspect of supporting those who needed their voice heard, even in high school. Dennis Neill: Jose, during this period of time, until you finished TCC, did you experience bullying because of either your sexual orientation or your racial identity? Jose Vega: Oh, yes. Dennis Neill: And could you probe that a little bit more? And how the adults and other peers reacted to that? Did they help you address some of those issues? And can you explain a little bit about that background? Jose Vega: Yes, before I was 14, there was bullying for my skin tone. I would be called beaner, wetback, go back to where you're from, and also kind of, like, fruity. And I remember some parents at school saying, it looks like that kid has sugar in his tank. And I didn't understand it until now, but there was. But it wasn't until age 14, in high school, 15, 16, I would still get bullied, but you couldn't do anything to me. I didn't care about it. And I didn't care about it because if I didn't care about it from my own family or father, you're just a kid in school. And so that empowered me. Dennis Neill: How did the school authorities react to these issues that you were facing? Jose Vega: My high school counselor for the bullying aspect, she stood up for me. And I just…my friends, too. I remember Martha, my best friend, she stood up to these bullies, too. She was a tough cookie, and she would sometimes fight my fights. So she was, and what I love about it, because she was one year behind me. We would have graduated the same year, but because I jumped a year, her senior year, and I was in college, she started the first GSA at Webster High School. And she said, I did it for you because there's more gays…there's more LGBT people at school. And now that you're gone, I don't know who to protect. And that's who I'm gonna protect. She became…she was an ally. But during that time of high school to college, yeah, there was bullying, there was wordage, but you couldn't do anything to me because if I didn't accept it from my dad, I couldn't do anything. Dennis Neill: Did you experience that, even at TCC �11 Jose Vega: ? No, not at TCC. I didn't experience that at TCC. But workwise or anywhere else, growing up, yeah, you couldn't say anything to me. I didn't care for it. Toby Jenkins: But you did hear it. Jose Vega: I did hear it, but it didn't, it was likeToby Jenkins: So you're at TCC, you're on your own, you are in a relationship. Was it this time that you chose your career path? I mean, you had… tell us kind of some of the different places you worked, because I know you worked in, you worked in multiple places, agencies. Was it there that you developed your passion for public health? Jose Vega: Yes, so it was there. So I chose the dental hygienist program, but then I moved it to health administration, or just medical terminology, because I wanted to help our community and learn more about health care. My first official health care job was Saint Francis Hospital as a patient transporter on the weekends, and I would move patients from the emergency room all the way up to their room or from the room to the x-ray room and so forth. That was every weekend and it wasn't until I was translating, because there wasn't a translating system or somebody wasn't there to translate from English to Spanish. And I was translating for this patient and this doctor, this Orthodontist, sees me translating. And then he offers me a job and he's like: well, why don't you come work for me? I was like, well, I'm still in school and I enjoy doing this. And he's like: well, you'll work on the weekdays when you don't have school. And so, yeah, I worked for him for a while. He paid for me to go to get my dental x-ray certification, my dental sterilization equipment certification. And this was me during TCC, going through the dental hygienist. But then, after that role- that's when I switched work, switched to something else, to health care, but that was that's what I did for a while and then after that, and what made me do the switch was when I worked for Nova Health, which was the abortion clinic here in Oklahoma, and at that time it helped me understand more for women, understand more for also part of my religion, where we know that, where they were, in my Catholicism, where they say abortion is evil, is bad and so forth. But working there helped me understand what women go through, from assaults to their body, their choice. Everybody has a reason why they do what they want to do, and it helped me understand that these women need help as well, and I worked there for about 9 to 10 months. I learned a lot from that experience. I'm very proud to have helped those women who would come from the street to the clinic while protesters would chase them, show images, and I would go out there with umbrellas, with coats, and just give them access to health care when they needed it the most. I did that for a while too. Toby Jenkins: So TCC, living on your own with your partner or your boyfriend, did you complete your program at TCC? Jose Vega: I did, yes. It was medical terminology and a minor study like medical science, and then I went to University of Phoenix and finished it online because work was starting to pick up and I was like I need to switch online. I can't take off work or do it �12 in person and so forth. So I finished my degree online on health administration and hospital management and that's kind of where my health aspects started. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Is that your bachelor's degree? Jose Vega: That is my bachelor's- health administration, hospital management- and that's because I was a record technician and an administrative medical administrator at the Nova Health where I'm helping these women self-pay for these protocols and workflows and they didn't have an electronic medical record so logging all of their files. Toby Jenkins: Did you do any translation work? Jose Vega: I did do translation work too. I was able to do medical translation documentations- medical and legal. I did all of that and that's kind of where my career, through health aspects, started and that's why I graduated with that degree. Toby Jenkins: Somewhere in there you ended up the Tulsa World. So school, and you were still with this partner… Jose Vega: Yes. And then the ten months at the Nova Health Center is when the Tulsa World opportunity came. And well, hold on very shortly- sorry, backtrack- I worked at a medical imaging center- sorry, from Nova Health Center- for 10 months, then I worked at a medical imaging center and at this medical imaging center- it was a faith-based medical imaging center and I was let go after six or seven months, when they found out I was gay and they just said, Jose, we just we terminated, we just don't accept your lifestyle. And I was doing so good, I was translating their medical paperwork. I was translating their…I was helping with their records to electronic and I helped so many Spanish-speaking patients. I managed their schedule, but just because of who I was, I was let go and I was never back in the closet until that moment. And I remember going to the Tulsa World. I remember going to several interviews and they all asked what happened at your last job and I just said, just decided to move, just decided to do another role or something. It put me back in the closet. It wasn't till I was at the Tulsa World and I was interviewed by Susan Ellerbach and she asked me the same question that every interview asked me: what happened at your last job? And I broke down and I cried and I said I was let go for being gay and I've been holding this inside so much and in every interview they've asked me I've said for personal issues or something else, but I don't want to be hiding anymore. And she hugged me and she offered me the job right then and there, and that gave me the strength again. That gave me the I don't need to be, I don't need to be sure who I am anymore. I was very happy again because, she gave me the job. I was the newsroom assistant, I was her executive assistant and I enjoyed every moment and I helped with obituaries. I helped Mary and Sharon, everybody there at the Tulsa World. I loved it because it felt like I was working with, I was working for like…I think at that time the movie Devil Wears Prada had come out and I feel like Andy, you know just oh, yes, Susan, I'm ready to go, Susan, here's your coffee and so forth, but I loved it, but she was nothing like that, okay, �13 nothing. That's later on when we move into the center. But I, that was one of my favorite roles, yes. Dennis Neill: How long were you in that position? Jose Vega: Oh, that was about a year, some change. But during that time, I was the happiest I could have been because I was finally having a good, stable job. I wasn't ashamed of myself anymore. I had a boyfriend and had friends. But I wasn't active out in community. Toby Jenkins: Can I just ask you, were you having any kind of communication with family, your father? Jose Vega: No, I was still alone. Dennis Neill: When was it that you're at the Tulsa world. Jose Vega: 2012, 2013. Toby Jenkins: You are at the Tulsa World. And when you say you weren't active in the community, you mean the LGBTQ community. Jose Vega: Yeah, the LGBTQ community. And I say that because we would go to this club. We go to the clubs and you know, I was a young man… Toby Jenkins: Most of your friends and the community, the gay people, it was other Latino, Hispanic, immigrant community. Jose Vega: Yes. I had met in the Latino community, a lot of, a lot of LGBTQ, Latino, undocumented individuals- and that's who my community was- and a lot of Dreamers in Tulsa, and so I had my little posse and we would go out to the bars and clubs and I remember going out. They showed that you know, they didn't have documentationOklahoma documentation- but they had their IDs and passports from their country. We ended up going to a bar named Renegades. That's where we enjoyed going. And so we go, we show up, I give my Oklahoma ID and they give their passports and we're at the door and then they tell them: well, where's your Oklahoma ID? I'm like, what are you asking? This is an ID that tells you their age. And they're like: no, we need to show proof of their citizenship. And that's got started feeling like what are you doing? This is a real proof of ID. And they said: nope, we can't accept this and if you don't leave, we're gonna call immigration. That destroyed my friends. That happens a lot in the Latino community and document community is that they don't any kind of discrimination like that. They're just like: okay, okay, we're sorry, and they just leave. Toby Jenkins: It never occurs to them it might be illegal. Jose Vega: Exactly, and- and it still happens to today. �14 Toby Jenkins: Their first thought is: not my rights, treat me with respect, they just assume… Jose Vega: But they also don't want to cause trouble and they're afraid of immigration. Many of these people are running away from countries or neighborhoods or areas in their town or city where, for them, being gay, it's a death sentence, so they don't want to ruffle feathers. And I see that in my family too. When my stepmom or my dad or anybody was discriminated, they just bowed their heads and leave and just never came again. But I was so tired. I grew up like that and I was like how can a marginalized community marginalize another community. Toby Jenkins: And how can the gay community marginalize immigrants, undocumented individuals? Jose Vega: I thought this was a safe space, a safe place for all. This is why we have these safe places and especially like they're LGBTQ too. Doesn't matter where you're from or your skin color or your language, you're LGBT. I was very upset. I was very, very upset. This happened on a Friday night. I was very upset and I remember calling the LGBT Center the next day and leaving a voicemail and saying: how could somebody do this? Why would this happen? There needs to be some education on what IDs, identifications are acceptable, but also, how can this, how can this happen? And my friends were like Jose, just leave it, leave it. I'm like no, no, because I'm not that kind of person to leave anything like that. I didn't leave it when I was 15, 14 and Susan empowered me. So that happened during the weekend. I submitted a report, an incident report at the LGBT Center in Tulsa and through the helpline. And then that Monday I came in and I cried to Susan, I told her what happened that weekend and she was frustrated. She's like: how dare they do that to you too? She said, if they don't apologize by the end of the week, we'll run a front-page story on the Sunday newspaper. And I called the center and I said, hey, I really want to work this out. There needs to be an apology and there needs to be some education. But also I don't want any bad news for our community, but they need to apologize and they need to apologize to my community. So, Toby- and at that time it was Stewart the lawyer, Stewart Ashworth, and I think you both helped a lot in that aspect of legal and so forth- and so you, Toby, talked to the Renegade team and it wasn't till Thursday. They come around and we're like: okay, okay, we'll set up a meeting. And so we did. We met at Renegades. My friends didn't want to join. They're like no, no, we're just, we're never touching a foot there again. We're too scared. And I was like, okay, then I'm gonna represent you guys and I'm gonna represent all of those that came before us, because if they did it to you, they probably did it to other people and I don't want that ever to happen again. So I show up with Toby and this is kind of, I think, one of the first time we met, and it was a two-hour back and forth of no, we would never do that. We did not do that, this and �15 that. And we were very calm and collected and after two hours I just said: you know what? That's fine, I'm done here. You know what you did. Just know that you did it to the wrong person this time. And I'm going to be more active, and I'm going to create a committee and educate the bars and make sure that all of these LGBTQ places are safe places for everyone. And they ended up apologizing. And that Friday I came in, Susan, they apologized. Everything's good. And that's when I started getting more involved with the LGBT Center. Toby Jenkins: I think it was during that time, just while we're here, do you feel like racism and prejudice against immigrant communities is it an issue in the LGBTQ community? Jose Vega: I believe there may be some, but everybody has a personal experience. And as much as we've seen, I can speak on my behalf. Have I seen it? Yes. Have I spoken out towards it? Yes. Is there something we can all do about it? Yes. Because the LGBT community is so inclusive and intertwined that as long as you fall under the umbrella, you're part of the community, regardless of what your skin tone documentation is. But there is, so there's still a lot of education needed to happen. But why have inner fighting? Why not stick together instead? And that's kind of what stems my work with the LGBT Center and our DACA recipients. So in 2015... Toby Jenkins: So let's make sure of your... So you went through this experience and you said you wanted to get more involved. So we ask you to serve on our board of advisors and specifically create programming for immigrants, community, and Hispanic and Latino, Latinx individuals, basically becoming the liaison on this particular portion of our community to make the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center more inclusive and its programming more targeted towards our immigrant community and for specifically Hispanic Latino people. You had been asked to serve on that advisory committee. So that's kind of... You were on the board of advisors, so there we went on with that. And so you go ahead. Jose Vega: Yeah, so on the advisory board, I represented our Latino community, was more active. I was still involved with DACA students from TCC because during my time at TCC, I was involved with them. Even though I'm not a DACA recipient, I saw the need that they had. Toby Jenkins: And for our viewers, what does DACA stand for? Jose Vega: Dream Act... Deferred Action [Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals]. I just know that the group was called D-A-O-K, Deferred Action Oklahoma Group. This was for individuals, some immigrants who were raised here, not born here, but were raised here. They're practically citizens, right? They're paying taxes. They're working. They're trying to live the American dream. And so they were at TCC. I was very involved with them, helping them, supporting them. During my time here, I said, well, why don't we collaborate and bring them in? And I had the opportunity to bring their support group here and do some intertwined intersectionality education. The LGBT community to learn about Latino cultural, the homophobia within the Latino and the LGBT community to learn more about the Latino �16 backgrounds and support of their communities. So that's the first few active things I did. And then it wasn't until the opportunity to work... Toby Jenkins: Were you still with your boyfriend at this time? Jose Vega: Yes. Toby Jenkins: What was the next step? You're still working at the Tulsa World. Jose Vega: Yes. And then I had the opportunity to apply for a role, program coordinator at the LGBT Center. And it was a hard day because I came to Susan. I said, Susan, I'm thinking about applying. And she's like, Jose, do you really want to go? I was like, it's not that I want to go, but I really feel a calling. And she said, okay, that's a great place. So I went from the Tulsa World to the LGBT Center. But Susan was always supportive throughout that as well. I started as a program coordinator. And that's kind of where Toby and I were two partners in crime. Batman and Robin. Because he really took me under his wing. Gave me the professionalism, the guidance. He saw the Latino passion and fire that I had. Because I wanted to help those LGBTQ youth, LGBTQ Latinos, everybody under the LGBTQ umbrella, and to feel welcome. Because I saw the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as the home that I didn't grow up or have. Or the home that I dreamed of. Because this center does mean a lot to me. So that's kind of where our role started here. And then we did a lot of programming. Dennis Neill: Jose, do you remember what year and how old you were when you joined? Jose Vega: 2015. Dennis Neill: And how old would you have been? Jose Vega: 22, 23. Dennis Neill: When you joined, how many staff were working here at the center? Jose Vega: Probably like a handful. Just three. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. And I think it was him and we had one other and a janitor and me. Jose Vega: Very small. We managed a lot of programs. Toby Jenkins: The center was packed. It was. Jose Vega: We kept it packed. Toby Jenkins: So you came on board and I remember you had a very good aptitude for public policy and engagement of our elected officials. You just naturally took to that. I know that's when you reconvened the Mayor's Youth Commission. Jose Vega: Yeah. I love that you brought that point because the Mayor's Youth Council really prepared me to talk about local politics and city officials. Every step of my world and life has got me to the point where I am and prepared me for the next. During that time, working on programming, developing new programming and events, �17 collaborating, helping take over the Equality Business Alliance. I loved the Mayor's Youth Council so much and the impact that it had on me that I was like, how can I help our youth? How can we grow the next generation as well? So I brought back the Mayor's Youth Council and we had our first cohort and it was great. We did get a lot of GSA leaders from it. That's another part that I like. Toby Jenkins: Explain what GSA is. Jose Vega: Gay Straight Alliance. A lot of those students from that first cohort developed GSAs at their school. And then that's kind of where we also collaborated and partnered with the Tulsa Youth Services and they started developing GSAs and so forth. Toby Jenkins: Campfire. Jose Vega: Campfire. The Mayor's Youth Council was really impactful. We did that, I did that every year from 2015 all the way to my last year in 2020. Toby Jenkins: So you also, two things, I've got to make sure we talk about this. Hispanic Affairs Commission, you were appointed… Jose Vega: Yeah, I joined the Hispanic Affairs Commission. I was the youngest to be appointed, and I was there for about a year and a half, and then I became the chair, also the youngest to run the Hispanic Affairs Commission for the city of Tulsa. And I worked in collaboration with city officials, our Latino partners, our Hispanic businesses, and we really helped move forward a lot of issues that our Latino youth and families go through from school to neighborhood aspects. Toby Jenkins: Okay, so you were appointed to the Mayor's Hispanic Affairs Commission. You started the Mayor's, and you were working with our allies that we work with here at the Equality Center. All of a sudden, I noticed you began to get some attention, and we began to convene and host Dream Act, would meet here. Sometimes we'd have 60 or 70 Hispanic young adults in the building. You were working with the Tulsa Metro Chamber on Mosaic and the Equality Business Alliance. Somewhere in there, some people began to notice that you could get the job done, and they started recognizing you, and you began to get some awards. Yeah. And the next thing I know, your dad is by your side, and your family's back in your life. Where in that time did you reconnect with your family? Jose Vega: It was at the age of 24 when my family came back around, and they had seen all these stories coming about. I was being reported on the news. Why are we at the Capitol today? We're here to fight for LGBTQ rights. Why are you doing this program? Because our Latino community needs access. And then my story was also being shared. Why are you fighting for homeless youth? Because I'm a lived experience of homeless youth. And my family came back around, and they apologized, and they asked for me to stop sharing my story. They said, Jose, we're sorry. We really want to try to reconnect but stop sharing your story. You know, people are looking at us, and they were seeing what they had done. And I said, you're more than welcome to come back into my life, but you cannot stop me from sharing my story. Because even today, it is still happening, and people need to know that there's a safe place, safe home. There �18 are programs out here. There are people fighting for you, so they need to know. And they said, okay. It was like, perfect. And so I'm not one to hold grudges, so we just forgave, and we learned to continue on. And my dad is by my side now. He starts showing up at Pride. He showed up one time, and I'm in tears. I'm like, oh, I thought you would never come around. And so he comes back. He comes around. I win my first award, 30 Under 30, and we had to go to Oklahoma City, and he's very proud of me. And then I win the Gracias Latino Award, and then I win the Tulsa Young Professionals, because I got involved with the Tulsa Young Professionals. And then the last one I won before leaving was the Leadership Oklahoma Award. Toby Jenkins: So you got involved with Leadership Oklahoma. They recruited you, and then you went through that, and they wanted you to create a Latino. .. Jose Vega: No, they had a Latino one already. Toby Jenkins: So you went through that cohort. Toby Jenkins: And then you said, why is there not a LGBT one? Jose Vega: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Oh, gosh, this is good. So you created that program through Leadership Tulsa. Jose Vega: Yeah, so I did the Hispanic one, and it was so impactful. It really prepared me for the Hispanic Affairs. It really helped me get the tools that I needed for my Latino community. It made me great contacts too. And I saw how impactful it was. I was like, there needs to be a specific one for our LGBTQ communities. And in collaboration with them… Toby Jenkins: You almost had to force them to do it, didn't you? They were pretty resistant. Jose Vega: There was a little bit of resistance, but we showed them from the LGBT Center. We showed our data. We showed our community people that they needed it and wanted it. Toby Jenkins: And who funded that program? Jose Vega: The Schusterman Family Foundation. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Jose Vega: And so we had two programs. It was called Lead Together. Toby Jenkins: And if I'm not mistaken, that became the first LGBTQ specific cohort in the entire nation in the leadership Oklahoma Leadership program that was networked across the country was the first one, yeah, where somebody had said, oh, we need to have one that raises up LGBT young professionals to serve nonprofits- okay. �19 Jose Vega: And we did get many people from that cohort joined the center, from volunteering to… Toby Jenkins: Went on to become on, get on the staff and serve on the board, yeah, okay. So you mentioned Tulsa Young Professionals. I just want to say how profound I am that you included that your family reconnected and that you forgave them. That is an incredible testament of your personality and your character. You were connected to Tulsa Young Professionals and you got it in your head that we needed to have a rainbow crosswalk. So with Tulsa young professionals and the mayor's office, Mayor Bynum and the City Council tell us a little bit about our rainbow crosswalks in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Jose Vega: As I was involved with Tulsa Young Professionals with the diversity team and we always did pride together and then they did one year the chalk, they did a crosswalk chalk that year and we saw how impactful it was for the community. They loved it. I would scroll on Facebook and see so many photos, and then you could see it from a mile, from down the street, on 4th Street, as you're crossing over the bridge you could see it and to me I was like we need this permanent. Tulsa Young Professionals had a grant to make Tulsa better and to what can we improve in Tulsa, and so forth. So I had applied for a crosswalk to get that funded and we won. It got approved. But we were getting pushback from City Hall. No, that is not traffic regulations, and so forth. So we got a lot of pushback and I I encouraged city officials like please help me, we need to write a letter, we need to do this. So this is where more advocacy came in. But at the end of the day, they said no. Toby Jenkins: Let's stop right there. The reason the answer is no is because crosswalks must comply with federal regulation, which also includes ADA specific. They have to be a certain color, they have to be a certain width, they have to be at certain areas. So we were mad about this. Jose Vega: We showed data from all this…from Dallas, Miami, New York, Sacramento has one. So all of these had them. So I'm like: what are you talking about? Just because it's federal, we as city officials we can decide what we want in our city and town, but no, I understand the regulations. So as I'm talking with Tulsa Young Professionals, they're like: well, Jose, what else can we do? And as I'm thinking and thinking and thinking, I was like: then we shall take over the street and called it Pride Street then. And that's when 4th Street became Pride Street and we got these pride signs and that's what, right down the center, you know? Toby Jenkins: Good, now, the reason I want to specifically talk about this is right now, while we're having this interview, all across the United States, cities are being forced to remove their rainbow crosswalks because of pushback from the Trump administration and federal regulations, and state after state governors have said we're removing them in their own homophobia and transphobia. But yet, for some reason, Tulsa's safe because we have street signs because street signs are controlled- a part of municipal code, not federal code. The lesson I want this interview is: ask big and grab what you can get. �20 Jose Vega: Yeah, well, how I word that is: shoot for the moon and if you land among the stars. Toby Jenkins: Okay, very good. I've got a bunch of other things. Any questions, Mr. Neill? Dennis Neill: Let's talk about your growth within OkEq, your changing positions, and then also we want to touch on your hate crime or hate crimes during your experience as an adult. Jose Vega: I started as program coordinator, and then we've had such great success and growth. I had the opportunity to get a promotion and become program director. And then deputy director. I ran pride. I loved it, every moment of it. We fundraised for pride. I loved the Gala, all of those aspects. And then I was learning everything from Toby, and he shared with me on how we need to be more active within the Capitol. Take students, take youth out there, their voices, write letters. We did a lot of letter campaigns and so forth, that I said, Toby, how can I learn more and take a more leadership role? And I had the opportunity to become deputy director, and I helped make executive decisions within the organization to make visible, to make our spot and space even more visible in different areas. So, that's when we were very active in that portion, you know. Toby Jenkins: Tell us a bit about the hate crime incident that you had happen. Jose Vega: There was a moment where I, it was during flu season, because I was so sick, and I go to Walgreens, and I go pick up some medication as I'm waiting in line… I have this Revolution shirt that I love, because, you know, it is, we were trying to take back what the state is taking away from us. And even to today, they're taking even more away from us. So, that Revolution shirt, I still have it. It doesn't fit me anymore, you know, it got a little thicker. I know, the Revolution continues. I remember working on that video, too. Pride t-shirt, the pride rainbow flag. And as I'm waiting in line, this man just turns around and calls me fucking Mexican faggot. And he starts getting pushy and trying to cause a reaction from me. And I'm like, just please leave me alone. I'm just trying to check out. He's just picking and picking and picking at me, and I ignore it. And that's kind of what we do with, we encourage our constituents, that if they're being bullied or targeted, do not... they're just trying to get a reaction from you. Try to get somewhere safe. So, the safe place where I was trying to run to, because nobody was doing anything, was to my car. So, as this person's just nitpicking, picking me, and calling me names, homophobic slurs and racial slurs in the Walgreens drugstore. I walk out, continues. It's not till I start unlocking my car that where he attacks me. He starts hitting me inside the car, and I'm pushing him out. Grab the door, lock it. He starts spitting and then breaking my mirror. But just the adrenaline, the fear of, I could probably, something really bad could be happening to me right now. And we've seen, during our time here at the center, a lot of lives lost in this way. From getting attacked, assaulted, just for being who you are. So, I thought that was my time. �21 And he left. We called the cops, and something that struck me was, the only reason we will consider this a hate crime is because they did racial slurs. I was like, what about the homophobic slurs? He called me faggot and started spitting at me, assaulting me. He's like, that's not a protected class. But because he said, Mexican and go back to Mexico and all that, that's how we'll classify this as a hate crime. And to me, I was like, how is only half of who I am protected? No. And that's kind of where we started to do more advocacy from municipal to capitol. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So how did the cops handle the issue? Professionally, or were you disappointed in the response by them and any other legal authorities? Jose Vega: No, I was not. I wasn't disappointed at all. They really handled it well. Dennis Neill: I believe he got arrested, didn’t he? Jose Vega: They did get caught. Years later on. Years later. But the thing is that they kept that case open until years later on he was associated with that hate crime. Dennis Neill: And with regard to that terrible incident that you experienced, you were very visible with OkEq these five years that you were there. How about other incidents of both the good and the bad? E-mails, calls, threatening you, threatening friends. Did you experience any of that or was this kind of a one-off, this one incident? Jose Vega: No, no…Working at the center, you are visible as a target. Toby and I would share a lot of fearful moments. You know, when the bullets came through the center, when there was a drive-by, that was a scary time. What if that happened while we were here? I'm very glad that we had bullet resistant… Toby Jenkins: We installed that later. Jose Vega: But that's scary. And then also my car being vandalized multiple times. Dennis Neill: While parked here? Jose Vega: Not while parked here. But parked at home. Slashed tires. Toby Jenkins: I think that happened at a gay bar. Jose Vega: At a gay bar. I knew the risk that it came. But I also knew the reward of what we needed to do. Toby Jenkins: One of the things that I want to make sure we include in this portion of the story, we're talking about the incident, and I don't remember the exact date, when the center, someone shot up the front windows and the front door. Dennis Neill: March 6, 2017. There's the door [leading into the archives]. Toby Jenkins: Olivia caught her ride at work that morning, and she got here at 8 o'clock and called it in the police. But what was hanging up on the porch? What was hanging on the sign? Jose Vega: Immigrants are welcome here. �22 Toby Jenkins: So we never know for sure if they targeted us because we were the LGBTQ center or that we were advocating it's a safe place for the immigrant community. Jose Vega: Regardless of which one it was, it's the Equality Center. The Equality Center is for everyone. Race, orientation, gender identity, or documentation. Toby Jenkins: We were doing a lot of work at the Capitol, and we would take how many students to the Capitol? Jose Vega: Like two busloads? I think one time it was. Toby Jenkins: We'd take over 100 kids, and you would march them through the Capitol. And legislators would just run for cover. They wouldn't have to talk to us. Jose Vega: I do remember us chasing one down. I was like, no, no, no. Where are you going? Toby Jenkins: Now, I can't remember. Were you with us when we were up there and they sent out the memo that there's cross-dressers in the bathroom? See if you can tell a little bit about that story. Jose Vega: Oh, yes. So we all arrive, and every youth is like, oh, where do we goto the restrooms? We show them where the restrooms are. Then, I think a little before, after lunch, they send a memo saying there's cross-dressers in the building. Watch out. They're using the restrooms. And do not use the restrooms. Go use these private ones. And it was offensive for the youth. Toby Jenkins: And that's the image I will forever remember. Jose and a bunch of young people chasing the Lieutenant Governor across the rotunda of the Capitol, demanding an answer. Jose Vega: They were avoiding us. Toby Jenkins: And, of course, by the time we got on the bus to come home, when we arrived in Tulsa, the streets were full of TV cameras and news sources. And within two days, one of the persons who's running for governor had issued an apology to the community. Jose Vega: They saw the mistake they made, yeah. And they apologized. Toby Jenkins: Now, how did you feel about that situation? Did you feel we're not putting up with it? Jose Vega: What was going through my mind during that time? Yeah. One, I love the youth taking charge. And we put them in front of the cameras. They expressed their feelings. So, to me, it was a proud moment to see the youth come together and see the change that they could create. And, yes, we accept apologies. But there's a lot more work needing to be done. So, thank you for the apology. Now let's create that apology into policies. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So it was during this time that we kept getting phone calls on the helpline from all across the country or all across the state. So we were getting as many �23 phone calls locally on the helpline as we were from rural communities all across the state, and so you were instrumental in rolling out our chapter establishment. Jose Vega: But part of that I want to share, the story of when you and I were working late one night, because that that that was what ignited my fire even more. It's like you already have a fire and just pour more gas into it. It was when Toby and I were working late, and there was many nights we worked late. You know, prepare the next thing. Toby Jenkins: It was like midnight. Jose Vega: Midnight, it was around midnight and as we're walking out of the center, on our right corner, on the right, I see we see a young man with his bare footed, bleeding and crying, and we look over. They share their name and they said: I just turned 18, and my family has kicked me out for being gay. And I walked from the [Oklahoma] Panhandle to the center because I saw on the internet that there was this place, and I just got here walking from the Panhandle to me and then we bring him in, we bring them in, we give them water, and to me I'm like we need to do something for all the LGBT people in Oklahoma. We need to let them know that there's something here but there's also made something in their hometown, because seeing that, we needed to do something. So that's kind of where we started doing these chapters- OkEq chapters- and we had one in Norman, in Stillwater, McAllister, Bartlesville. Toby Jenkins: We traveled all over the state. We went to Altus, Oklahoma. Jose Vega: Yeah, we wanted to make sure that every Okla queer, I think, and we came up with a logo too for that too. They knew that there was a home here. Toby Jenkins: And that they could organize in their own communities. You were there when we organized the chapter in McAllister, Oklahoma and on January 1st, 2020, Dustin Parker, who was one of the members- founding members- of our chapter in McAllister, Oklahoma, he was murdered and they just recently arrested his murderer. Yeah, and do you remember traveling…I think you traveled with Dennis down there for the memorial service, where a thousand McAllister folks were standing in a field outside of their little gay bar across from the prison, behind the prison cemetery. Jose Vega: Dustin was a staple in his community and he really showed what activism looks like- grassroots- and shared his story. Toby Jenkins: I can remember that night. What was your thoughts? While we're standing in that field with Dennis, the founder of Oklahomans for Equality, in McAllister, Oklahoma, to see how that city was grieving and also showing their support for LGBTQ people, did you have thoughts? Jose Vega: Yeah, as much as there's much more love in Oklahoma than hate, there's much more love, and love trumps all hate that there's out there. So seeing this small town come together for a community member- they didn't care about their gender, their identity, they came together for somebody who helps the community- come together show me that we need to do more for our state. We need to help our communities. They �24 made the- it's a small percentage- that are against LGBTQ community members. Because Oklahoma is about love. Our community is about care and support. That's why we have that southern love and charm. And we, I love that you always said, we're the prairie gays, you know. We have our lesbians chopping wood and helping build homes. And our gays churning butter to make sure we are fed and taken care of. And I see that, that's what we are. And all of those quotes stay with me. And I do share it still in California. And I was like, and in California they always tell me, oh that's a flyover state, who's all there? And I was like, there's prairie gays there. Our lesbians building homes, chopping wood, and our gays churning butter. That's my stomping ground. Toby Jenkins: That's funny. Let's go ahead and catch our viewers up. Because the pandemic comes. And then you eventually made some career choices. Before we talk about you going to do missionary work among the heathen in California... we sent you as a home missionary to California. You also, through collaboration with our foundations, created some programs that allowed you to travel nationally, internationally, and see LGBTQ people around the world. Jose Vega: Yeah, the Kaiser Family Foundation and the Schusterman Family Foundation, they support our LGBT community. They supported our cause. They allowed us to go to Creating Change, which is a conference that helped us prepare, you know, and learn what other people are doing and create change in Oklahoma. I did have the opportunity to join the Schusterman Reality Program. Toby Jenkins: Charles and Lynn Schusterman Family Foundation Reality Program. Jose Vega: Reality Program. And their first one was on LGBTQ pride. Bringing LGBTQ leaders from across the country and going to go to Israel and get to see the great work that they're doing on LGBTQ aspects. And they have an LGBTQ elected official helping. And it was a beautiful experience getting to hear stories, sharing their cause, what they're doing to advance, and then get to see Tel Aviv Pride, which is one of the largest prides, come together and share that it's one love that we're trying to build here. Toby Jenkins: In your experience with these opportunities that you were allowed to travel internationally, because you always went to represent our center at International Pride, InterPride. So you went to several of those international conferences. Your thoughts when you've traveled internationally and all the divisive things humanity has that make us hate each other and... Jose Vega: We're fighting ourselves. Our inner selves. Each other. To me, that's not what the cause is. We have enough people that are not part of our community fighting us. Why should we fight among ourselves? We should focus our energy elsewhere. Toby Jenkins: If our panelists have anything else, jump in here. You decided to go to California. Jose Vega: But during my time at Oklahomans for Equality, I've had many opportunities. I have great opportunities to travel, to see things, to create change. I love every moment of my life that during my time here, it's become maybe the man I am today. But there was one thing where I've never experienced living somewhere else. And I felt in my heart of hearts that I need to have that experience. I've traveled, I've seen, I've done, but I've �25 never lived anywhere else. And I'm the first to come out as gay in my family. First to graduate high school. First to get a bachelor's, and now to get a master's. In 2019, I told Toby, I want to experience living somewhere else. I may come back, but I need to have that experience. And so I started sending my resume everywhere. And COVID came, February, January, offers started getting pulled out. We didn't know what was happening. And I had two offers, the LGBT Community Center in Albany, New York, and the LGBT Community Center in Sacramento. And then in August, I made the decision and I got the Sacramento offer, moved there in October, and I've been there ever since. I've had multiple opportunities out there too. So from the LGBT Center, I focused on COVID. Our LGBT community members didn't have access to COVID testing, vaccines, and so we were focused on that. But also, HIV rates were going up because people were not getting tested. But also, we're now staying six feet apart and we're still having sex. And so we focused on at-home HIV test kits. We opened a new LGBT Center out there as well. Toby Jenkins: Medical Center. Jose Vega: Yeah. And so I helped facilitate that conversation. So everything that I did in Oklahoma prepared me for that because we opened a new center. We created little chapters. I helped with pride. I was there for two years. And then I had the opportunity to think and see, you know what, I think I'm ready to come back home. And there was a moment where I came home and wanted to apply and applied for the role to run the center. And at that time, you had already retired. Unfortunately, it wasn't in the cards. And I decided to go back. I said, okay. So I went back. Dennis Neill: And just from perspective, this is June of 2022, correct? Jose Vega: Yeah. June of 2022. That was the last pride year and we talked about it. And I said, Toby, I loved everything I learned out here. I saw what programs and policies and things that we could do. I think I'm ready to take the reins. Due to other factors, it didn't happen. But I had the opportunity to go back to California and work with the Office of AIDS, the state public health department and work with the Office of AIDS. And I worked there for two years and a half helping across the state to develop programs to enhance their HIV testing, education, and capacity building. Toby Jenkins: You also got involved in their public broadcasting system. You want to talk a little bit about that. Jose Vega: Yeah. So my master's is in public health promotion and education. And I'm a firm believer that education is key to getting community involved. And so I started working with PBS and NPR and access channels to build educational programming in English and Spanish. And so we built, we did, it's called County Edition. And our first episode was on sexual health. And it was such a big success that they were like, let's replicate it. But now it's completely in Spanish. And it consists of a host, of a doctor out in the public getting information. �26 And from that, I collected data. And it's shocking that so many people still believe that you can get an STI from sitting on a public toilet. And it's 2026 now and people still believe that. So to me, education still needs to continue growing as STI and HIV rates continue to go up. And all of these fund cuts that are happening at a federal level where HIV prevention and STI prevention are getting pulled out, we're going to see a high rise on HIV infections and even co-infections with a rise of syphilis. And that's going to hurt our mothers. And I say mothers by childbirth because the rate of congenital syphilis has been skyrocketing. And those are little young ones. Toby Jenkins: And so you talk a bit about your master's. What was your master's on? You just completed it. That's why we're getting this interview. Jose has come home for a family celebration to celebrate his graduation from his master's program. So he wanted Pebbles to see what Oklahoma looked like. So he brought his companion dog. Talk a little bit about your master's work there. Jose Vega: Yeah, so my it was a focus on HIV education within Latino communities and what I love about it is the program that we've developed is PrEP 15 years ago next year It'll be 15 years where PrEP was the first medication to be approved to Prevent HIV and I'll share a little bit of my work about PrEP here in Oklahoma. As a gay young man I know that I was even more highly potential exposure to HIV, so I started advocating for PrEP and talking about PrEP that I wanted to be on PrEP. Many doctors here in California would say I would come in to the office and say hey, I want to get on PrEP medication What is that? Mary Bishop-Baldwin: You mean here in Oklahoma? Jose Vega: Here in Oklahoma, so this was before…taking you back into back into time during my time here at the LGBT Center where I was like, I want to get on PrEP Many doctors said no, I don't feel comfortable with that. I don't understand it. I don't treat AIDS patients. And I said well, this is before before I get HIV and this is to prevent it. Nope, I don't accept your lifestyle It was constantly and it was during my time here at the center because I had Community Care insurance at that time and no doctor would accept me or see me for PrEP. There was many times where I needed PrEP postexposure so having access to that too. That's kind of what drove my master's degree and advocate for that because that still happens in California even totoday. As an Oklahoman, I would think that Oh, California is more liberal, more open, more accepting. There's more access. The honest truth is it's not, there's still a lot a lot to do. My program and proposal and project development was - PrEP was approved in 2016-2015 15 years ago. So let's give PrEP a Quinceanera, It'll bring Latino communities together. It'll bring trans communities together. It'll bring youth together because as a Latino man, there's I was in about 15 Quinceaneras growing up. My cousin. Toby Jenkins: And a Quinceanera is… Jose Vega: Quinceanera is a coming-of-age for a young woman that they are from childhood into womanhood at 15 and my cousins did one. There's gonna be one tomorrow for my nieces. So I was like, let's give PrEP a Quinceanera. And so we're �27 building this program in California in the Central Valley where every Latino will be like, why are they giving this medication a Quinceanera? I had one like we're about to do one for my daughter. It starts the conversation and said perfect. Let's tell you about this medication because our Latinos make the highest population on HIV in California of new infections So prevention is key and that's kind of what I do and that's my role because I know the barriers I had to access in Oklahoma so that's the work of my masters. Toby Jenkins: I don't think we're really able to talk about the company you work for. Jose Vega: No, but what my role - I'm the HIV community liaison For Sacramento and Central Valley. I've now been promoted to the Northern California Region where I come into organizations and clinics to help with their protocols, their workflows, education, support their program capacity, building evaluations, collect data. But also bring the community together to help end HIV. Toby Jenkins: Okay So I guess you're organizing chapters again. Jose Vega: Exactly from everything I learned from Oklahomans for Equality prepared me. Toby Jenkins: We're coming to the end unless our panelists have any other questions for you. Dennis Neill: Jose, where do you see your future going? What's your passion in the next five to ten years? Jose Vega: My passion is to help elevate and grow others, you know, and what was done to me what in support for me I want to give it back. That's always been my love and passion. I had the opportunity to do The mayor's Youth Council at high school, so I wanted youth to have that opportunity. I had the opportunity to grow and develop at the LGBT Center, so I want to help other youth other LGBTQ professionals grow and develop. I had the opportunity to move of California and help with HIV elimination. I'm doing that too. My goal in life is to continue doing that prepare the next generation because there's only so much I'm gonna be able to do or get to that we need to prepare our next LGBTQ warriors. I tell Toby we're in a slingshot era where yes, they're pulling us back. But the moment they let go they're gonna catapult us forward where we're better prepared now. Of all the rights they've taken from us, we're better prepared to learn how they went around it to build better policies and procedures. A better understanding of what we need to do to prepare our next generation because they're going to continue attacking us. I want to create a space where every LGBTQ person can live, thrive, and be happy. And during this time, it breaks my heart to hear all of our Oklahoma prairies move and leave away, and that leaves no voices out there. So I want to give back to community. I want to continue doing what I'm doing and help every aspect of our population. Dennis Neill: So you see yourself professionally staying for the foreseeable future within the LGBTQ community doing this work? �28 Jose Vega: In the LGBTQ movement, yes. I will continue to dedicate my life to the LGBTQ movement, at one capacity or another. Toby Jenkins: Any questions? Mary Bishop-Baldwin: No questions. I just want to say that your story is the most incredible that I think I've ever heard. How you've come from such beginnings and had to overcome so much trauma and adversity, and you stayed with it until you achieved goals every time. You never took no for an answer, and you knew your worth, your personal worth, and you weren't going to let somebody else establish boundaries for what you could be. And look what you've done. I admire you so much. Jose Vega: Thank you. Thank you. And that's what I want. I want to inspire others. I want them to see you can do it. There's still more to you. Something that we always told our youth, you know, it gets better. Keep at it. It keeps getting better. Toby Jenkins: Sometimes. It may get tougher, but it also can get better. While we think about that, let's say, do you have a message for the future, for people who come after us and for people who may review this and are just starting out? Do you have a message for them? Jose Vega: Continue believing in you. There's people that love you. There's home here. Believe in you. You have to believe in yourself. It may seem tough right now. It may seem like the world is against you. It may seem like there's no safe spaces. Come together. Come together and create it. Come together and join forces. Find your people. Your people are out there. You just need to find them. And where you can find them is here at the center. I'm a firm believer of the center. I love it. There were many times where I wanted to give up, but I found community here and purpose, inspiration. Every single person here in this room has inspired me one way or the other. From Dennis in a little closet behind the bar doing the helpline. From Toby helping lead the charge for creating change and sharing that his first job was the portapotties at Pride and helping with trash. And from Mary advocating for our marriage equality when the time seemed that we could never achieve it. These are all stepping stones. This center was built from block to block. We need you to be the second layer of block and glue. Toby Jenkins: You've been joining us today. If you'll say your name the way you like to say it. Jose Vega: Jose Emanuel Vega. Toby Jenkins: And his sidekick Pebbles. Pebbles, you did a great job during the interview. You've been joining us today here in the Joe and Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality that sits on Pride Street in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Dennis Neill, founder of Oklahomans for Equality, Mary Bishop-Baldwin and Toby Jenkins have been your interviewing panel. Thank you so much, Jose. And congratulations on your Master's, your promotion at work. And thank you for not forgetting us and your family in Oklahoma. �29 Jose Vega: The revolution will always continue. Addendum: Top photo: Sign hanging at the Equality Center on March 6, 2017 when the windows and door were damaged by 13 pellet shots. Bottom Photo: Mayor G.T. Bynum, Jose and others celebrating the dedication of Pride Street on June 1, 2018. � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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He discusses his journey of self-discovery, love, and advocacy, offering valuable insights for future generations. Keywords LGBTQ, Oklahoma history, activism, community service, personal story, Tulsa, diversity, inclusion, mental health, legacy Key Topics Al Triggs' childhood and family history in Oklahoma Meeting and falling in love with David in Tulsa Al's involvement in LGBTQ activism and community service The significance of the Bruce Goff house and historical preservation Al's career transition to Medicare and health advocacy Experiences of racism and discrimination in LGBTQ spaces The journey of coming out and family acceptance David's health struggles and caregiving experiences The impact of community events like Feast for Friends and the NAMES Quilt Al's message of expectation and resilience for future generations Chapters 00:00 Celebrating 250 Years: A Special Interview 01:10 A Divine Meeting: The Story of Al and David 09:34 Home Sweet Home: Life in a Historic House 12:26 Friend for a Friend: Community Support and Care 18:17 Roots and Upbringing: Growing Up in Oktaha 29:26 Education and Early Career: A Journey Begins 29:53 Artistic Beginnings and College Life 31:12 Navigating Identity in College �3 33:11 First Connections to the Gay Community 36:34 Awareness of AIDS and Community Connections 38:03 Experiences of Race and Acceptance 40:04 Career Development in Tulsa 44:37 Involvement in the Arts and Community 51:14 Service in LGBTQ Organizations 57:58 The Importance of Documentation 58:01 Feast for Friends: A Community Tradition 59:55 Transitioning Careers: From Graphic Arts to Medicare 01:03:06 Teaching Medicare: Empowering the Community 01:06:12 Family Dynamics: Love and Acceptance 01:08:55 David's Journey: Love, Struggles, and Acceptance 01:11:51 Caring for David: The Challenges of Dementia 01:20:59 Final Reflections: Expectation and Empowerment Al Triggs Oral History Interview July 6, 2026 Toby Jenkins: Good afternoon. Today is Tuesday, July 7th, 2026. Our country just celebrated our 250th birthday. We are in the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma, headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. And today we have a special guest. Can you give us your name? Al Triggs: My name is Al Triggs. Toby Jenkins: Al Triggs will be a part of our interview today. This is your life. This is your story. And you get to tell us about your life. And thank you so much for being willing to do this. Our interviewers today are Dennis Neill, founder of Oklahomans for Equality, Mary Bishop-Baldwin, plaintiff in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit, and Toby Jenkins. Al, just to honor our time, could you tell us, could we start, we're going to start not in the middle, but at the early part of your life. I would like for us to talk about your partner, David, and how you all met. Is that all right, panelists, if we start right there, and then we'll work back in the early part of your life. Tell us about your partner and how you all met, and how long you all were together. Al Triggs: Well, I'll start by saying it was truly nothing short of divine intervention. It really is. It is an incredible story. I met David, so being in the Muskogee area and would come up on the weekends and finally met someone, a couple of guys that were living in Tulsa that would invite me up to pool parties. And so this one particular pool party, I see this curly-haired blonde guy in a yellow bikini swimsuit walk out, and I'm like, oh my God, who is that? But at that time, he was with someone. And I thought, oh, they’re probably partnered up, not really knowing him that well, but I just made that assumption. And then I made another assumption, and that was, well, gee, he's gay. Every gay man in Tulsa probably goes out, so all I've got to do is come up to the bar on the weekends, Friday, Saturday, from Muskogee, and just hang out. Toby Jenkins: What year would this have been, Al? �4 Al Triggs: This would have been 1996. Al Triggs: And so I figured if I just hung out at the bar, I would eventually run into him. And so every weekend for a year, I would come up in hopes of seeing David. Now, meanwhile, my life back in Muskogee, as far as they were grooming me to be, I was already an usher in the church, so grooming me to be a deacon. And so needless to say, it was a little bit of, not conflict, but a challenge to kind of come out of that a little bit and to reach out to try to find this guy. But I continued for an entire year, and one night, I'm just completely fed up. I said, you know what, God? I've had enough. I've looked for over a year, and I'm done. And I was at Renegades, and I used to call it Rent-A-Gay. But anyway... Toby Jenkins: That is great! I've never heard anybody say that. Have you ever heard that? Oh, that is wonderful. Rent-A-Gay. And that was a bar, was a gay bar, at 17th and Main. Al Triggs: Yes, exactly. And that's where I was thinking, you know, it was probably one of the most popular bars back then, and that's where I would hang out. And so it's like, I'm just done. I'm headed to the door, and I look at the bar, and there's David. And I'm like, oh my gosh. And so I went over, and I said, hi, remember me? And he was a little bit three sheets to the wind, and so he's like, yeah, I remember you. I got to talking to him and, but the conditions, so David didn't go out. He was not one of those Tulsa queens that went out. He just never went out. And the circumstances that brought him out, this is what makes it, to me, nothing short of divine intervention, because the guy that actually helped him or provided him this wonderful piano, an 1896 Knabe piano, that's just incredible, from Tyler, Texas, was up visiting. And his name is David as well. And David from Tyler, Texas, had gotten and brought a friend with him from Texas. David had gotten really completely, from Tyler, Texas, drunk. And so much to the point to where it left my David, communicating with a perfect stranger. So David's like, well, gee, what are we gonna do? And he's like, I know what, we could walk to Renegades from here. And that's what they did. Otherwise, it would have never happened. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Where were they? Al Triggs: They were at the house, which is within walking distance. Toby Jenkins: Is it the present house now? Al Triggs: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Okay, I didn't realize that that was that close to it. Al Triggs: It's about five blocks, something like that. But yeah, so that's what brought him out, was to get this other guy out of the house after David had passed out. And so anyway, we went home that night and I spent the night with him. And get up the next morning, I think that was a Friday. And so I got up to go to work that next morning and I thought, I had heard things like, you don't wanna call too quickly and all this stuff. And �5 so here it is a week later. And this was pre-cell phone. And so I'd given him the number to where I work. He's like, I've gotta have your number. And it's like, okay, sure. And I said, but I'm not out there and so forth like that. And so all of a sudden, the following Thursday, I get this call. And my partner, work partner, William answered the phone and he's like, there's this guy on the phone called David was wanting to speak to you. And so I pick up the phone and he's like, this is David. He's like, why wouldn’t you call me? He's like, I think I'm in love with you. It's like, oh my God. Here it is. I'm just kind of, yes, okay, well, excuse me. You know. So it's like, yeah, but you're not gonna bring me out today. Toby Jenkins: Just for our viewers who are listening, this is in the days before mobile phones and cell phones, everybody had one. You had to have a landline. So you had your work phone number, your home phone number. Al Triggs: And that's it. Toby Jenkins: And you can remember all these numbers in your head. Al Triggs: Yes. Oh yeah, I could remember 20 numbers back then. But today, one or two. But so anyway, he said, well, you should come up and see me. And then so I did, and that was a Thursday evening. And then I got up that next morning and went to work. And he's like, it's the weekend. You're coming back, right? You know, he's like, why don't you just stay the weekend with me? And so I said, okay. And so was there that Friday, Saturday, Sunday night, Monday, I realized I'm commuting to Muskogee now. Cause literally it just, we were together every evening since then. Toby Jenkins: All right. And that would have been in 96. That's a beautiful story. So you said this, you brought it up. So I'll, we'll jump right in here. You went back to David's house and it's the present house you still live in. And in this interview, we'll bring up that David, Al's partner, we lost him. How, how many? Al Triggs: October of last year. Toby Jenkins: And so we'll hear a lot more about David, but the house you lived in, can you tell us a little bit about David's house that became y'all's house? Al Triggs: David, he was living at the Broadmoor on 21st street, which is condos there. And he happened to go down Madison one day and see that this house, a Bruce Goff home was for sale. And probably the reason why, and it had sat empty for about six months, but probably the reason why is because the neighborhood I'm in is more family oriented. And this house only has one bathroom. And so it wasn't really family oriented, but anyway, David found it and been there ever since. It's a wonderful home. 1919 Bruce Goff home. Bruce designed the house when he was 16 years old. Yeah, so it's a great house. I really enjoy it. It's just, it's magnificent. Toby Jenkins: And y'all spent your life there. Al Triggs: Mm-hmm, exactly. �6 Toby Jenkins: And so you've lived in a historical home, an original Bruce Goff home in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Dennis Neill: Tell us a little bit about the stove that is in that house. And how many carrot cakes have you baked in that stove? Al Triggs: 1925 Magic Chef. We figure they purchased it when it first came out in 1925. It still works. I have it serviced every once and a while. I can’t tell you how many cupcakes and carrot cakes it has cooked. Remember a Friend for a Friend, I would make some 150 carrot cake cupcakes. And so it's cooked quite a few carrot cakes. Toby Jenkins: You brought up the house. Are y'all ever on the Bruce Goff tours? I mean, have y'all ever... Al Triggs: You know, I do participate when I can, but they haven't done a house tour lately. You know, recently, about a month ago, was the Bruce Goff Fest. They seem to be more oriented towards the buildings more so. Toby Jenkins: Boy, I wish people were aware that homes... because from what we understand, Bruce Goff was an openly gay man, open about his sexuality. Al Triggs: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: I think it must probably delight him in the spirit realm that there's a beautiful couple that lived in his home, still lives in one of his homes. Al Triggs: Exactly. Toby Jenkins: Okay, you brought this up, so I've got it on my list. Friend for a Friend. You mentioned to Dennis, Friend for a Friend. Tell us a little bit about what Friend for a Friend was and your involvement in it. Al Triggs: Alice W. Bates is what I have to say first. An incredible woman. Gosh, such a huge heart. Channel 6, oh man, probably 28 years ago, did an interview with her about what she does specifically. An organization she developed as a result of her son who had passed from HIV… she wanted to do some type of tribute to him, and so she developed this incredible organization called a Friend for a Friend. It just simply was there to provide food, veterinary services for any HIV person in the entire city of Tulsa, if she could accommodate all of them. They would have free veterinary services, grooming, they would bring food. Toby Jenkins: So it was an agency that provided care for their pets. Al Triggs: Yes, for their pets. Toby Jenkins: That's why it's called Friend for a Friend, you were taking care of their pet friends. Al Triggs: Their pet friends, right, exactly. And Alice had, it was kind of a meager fundraising effort, I mean as far as... Toby Jenkins: Very grassroots. �7 Al Triggs: She was doing a thing at Panera Bread, and to where Panera Bread would give her a percentage of, so she, you know, let people know, hey come to Panera because part of your meal will be donated to Friend for a Friend. And so one day, after doing this for many years, I went up to her and I asked, well Alice, what kind of money did you make from that? Because I know they're just giving you like, is it 10%? And something like that. It was ridiculous, it was a joke, it pissed me off. I said to her, thinking about it, brings back that anger, that they could really do that to this organization. They really deserve a whole lot more than 10%. So I said, Alice, well gee, I guess if they made $3,000, you made $300. And it's because of you they made $3,000. I said, that's just not fair, Alice. I said, I said, I think we can do better. I said, I make a pretty mean smoked chicken, and my friend Kathy, she can make some pretty mean ribs. And I think I can find some organizations like Lambrusco's to donate sides. And I think we can have our own event. And I think Oklahomans for Equality would be the perfect place to do it. And I think they'd probably even donate the facility for us to do it, just for you to have a better fundraiser. So we did that. Like I said, I would make some 150 carrot cake cupcakes. And then I'd get smoke inhalation from smoking all the smoked chicken. And the ribs, I mean, it would be enough to feed 80 to 100 people, yeah, at least. And so her first year, instead of her making a measly $300, she made about six grand, yeah. Toby Jenkins: And Friend for a Friend, why that organization, it was a specific need in the community because people living with HIV AIDS, all of their resources was going to their medication and their survival. And they didn't want to give up their pets. And so many times, they would go without food and maybe even their medication to make sure their pets were cared for. And so she saw that as a need. And it was such a feel-good experience. And you were such a leader in that. Did you work with Alice on any of her other projects…her Our House? Al Triggs: No, no, I just exclusively stayed within that lane. It was kind of like if there was someone that tried to be more of the executive director of it, that's kind of the position I kind of felt in. Especially after putting together the fundraiser. And then we'd have entertainment, too, that would come and just have a wonderful event every time. It was great. Alice loved it. She really did, mm-hm. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And that was here at the Equality Center? Al Triggs: Yes, it was. Toby Jenkins: Well, those fundraisers, but they, I don't know how many people. I mean, they had a veterinarian who would basically let them treat them on credit. When Alice raised the money, she would go in and pay them off. And sometimes that vet bill would get up to $3,000. Al Triggs: Yeah, definitely would. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, such a grassroots event. You alluded to this, that you were living in Muskogee. Let's talk a little bit about your childhood and tell us a little bit about your family. �8 Toby Jenkins: And then you mentioned that they were trying to groom you, I guess, in your family's church to be a spiritual leader. So just kind of tell us about your childhood. Al Triggs: Okay, so let's see. I'm the youngest of ten. Toby Jenkins: Audience, I want you to note, before all of the TV families who've made millions with bunches of kids, Al Trigg's family had ten people, had ten kids. Al Triggs: Ten kids. You know, I felt like I grew up in a family of three, though, because all the other siblings were often married with kids. I've got a few nieces and nephews that are older than me. Toby Jenkins: Were you one of the youngest? Al Triggs: Yeah, I'm the youngest of ten. Toby Jenkins: Did not realize that. Al Triggs: I had a great upbringing in Oktaha, but getting to the root of it, my, we were there because of a result of my ancestry was free slaves from Arkansas that was given 40 acres and a mule. And so the government back then came in and built a church and a school and initially built homes for about ten different black families. Toby Jenkins: So you were freedmen, you had beenMary Bishop-Baldwin: You didn't say freedmen. You said freed slaves. Al Triggs: Freed slaves from Arkansas. Toby Jenkins: Okay, so there was no tribal connection or anything like that? Al Triggs: No, there wasn't. Although we are Creek and Cherokee, but we don't have a role number, so forth like that. But so anyway, and that community was named New Hope. Perfect name for freed slaves. And so it was within the town of Oktaha. Oktaha was about five miles east of New Hope. I went to school in New Hope up until third grade. And that's when desegregation took place and that's when they basically said, you guys would have to start paying private school taxes in order to still be legal. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Was New Hope one of Oklahoma's all black towns? Al Triggs: Yes. Toby Jenkins: One of the original black towns. Al Triggs: You don't really find it on the map though. You would find Rentiesville and so forth like that. But New Hope was never really chartered as an actual city or town or anything. It's just not on the map. Toby Jenkins: But it had a church and a school? Al Triggs: Yes. And it got famous for its rodeo. The rodeo was pretty popular there and so forth like that. �9 Toby Jenkins: So in the third grade, you had to… Al Triggs: Desegregation took place and that's when they then bused us to Oktaha, which was the greatest experience a young black child could ever have. Because, yeah, it's incredible. There was no racism. No, even though we knew it was going on in Muskogee, heard about it, but that that community of New Hope and Oktaha, just so one hand within another. I would pick cotton on people's property. We would pick pecans and then white people would come and help us bale hay on our property on the 40 acres. It was just people loving people. Never, not once from third grade to 12th grade was there ever a racial incident, which is refreshing, was refreshing. And it helped me to grow up. I'm a different person because of it. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Did it make you expect that you would be treated that way throughout your life? Al Triggs: You said the key word. It gave me a different level of expectation. It was nothing but validation. And so, therefore, I grew up expecting validation. To this day, I don't just expect it, I demand it. And I see others that grew up otherwise and their expectation is totally different. And so you said the key word is about expectation because paired with this whole law of attraction, things are just, when things are not a match, if they do not match my expectation, I do not see this person. I do not visit with this person. They could be standing right in front of me, behind me, but we're never gonna have contact just simply because of my expectation. So that's the thing about Oktaha that is dear to my heart. Toby Jenkins: And you realize that that wasn't other people's experiences living in Oklahoma? Al Triggs: I did. Toby Jenkins: So you graduated from Oktaha. How large was your graduating class and what year did you graduate? Al Triggs: 38 and graduated in 1978. Toby Jenkins: Just curious, once the school integrated and they closed the New Hope School, what percentage of the student body would have been people of color? Al Triggs: About 9%. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So you still were the minority population in the school district. High school or school, did you have, were you involved in music programs, debate, sports? Al Triggs: Basketball, because of the height, they would look at me and say, oh, you're a center. And it's like, okay, I am, sure, why not? And then a little bit of baseball, yeah, stuff like that. Interesting thing, since we're on the subject of, I'll go ahead and answer this question that I know is probably one coming up, but this seems like an appropriate time to say it. So in high school, we were in the gym, and everyone was lined up to shoot free throws. And so all the guys were lined up, and so my shoes weren't tied, and the �10 class bully was in front of me. I bent down to tie my shoes, and all of a sudden, he turns around and grabs my head and sticks it in his crotch. And you know, everyone laughs and stuff like that, but I think that's when I discovered, I kind of actually liked it, and I think that's when I actually realized, I think you may be gay, Al. See, that was clean enough, right? Toby Jenkins: Yeah, that was great. All the coming up of the self-awareness, sexuality, that's probably the most unique spin on the being willing, okay, so, sports, but yet you were the youngest, was your family close? I mean, were they supportive of their kids' participation in school programs? Al Triggs: Oh, yeah. Toby Jenkins: And then you mentioned earlier in the interview that apparently religion was very important to your family. Al Triggs: Yes, my uncle was the Baptist minister in New Hope, and he was one of three uncles that were Baptist ministers, and then I had two brothers, Baptist ministers as well, so I was literally born in the church. Sunday school every Sunday, would never miss a Sunday, and yeah, it was, I enjoyed it, you know, enjoyed a lot of it, but I just couldn't, they lost me when they kept saying firely lake of hell is what my destination was, you know, I just couldn't buy that. Toby Jenkins: So, was your congregation integrated, or was it a black Baptist church, and it was still in New Hope? Al Triggs: Black Baptist church and that church is still there, and still going. Toby Jenkins: And is your family still heavily involved in it? Al Triggs: Oh, not heavily involved, one of the other families, their son became a minister, so now he's the minister of it. My family does still go to it, I think pretty well every Sunday. Toby Jenkins: So, you were the youngest, how many of your siblings, as you were growing, as they were spaced out, and you would get on the school bus in the third grade, how many of your siblings were also riding that same bus, I mean… Al Triggs: Two. It feels like a family of three that I grew up in, there was my sister right up above me, and then Leonard, and so I think, yeah, he graduated in 74, and she graduated in 76, so yeah, we're like two years apart. Toby Jenkins: And one more time, what year did you graduate? Al Triggs: 1978. Toby Jenkins: Are your, of the ten siblings, are all of them still with us, or? Al Triggs: No, there's six of us living now. Toby Jenkins: All right, so, this is incredible, just so fascinating. I can't get the image of the bully, but I'm trying to figure it out. �11 Al Triggs: He was really cute. Toby Jenkins: So, you graduate from high school, did you go to technical school, were you in the military? Al Triggs: No, I went straight to, I got out and went straight to college. To Northeastern. I got myself a grant to go to Tahlequah, and I majored in commercial art, that's what they were calling it back then, you know, these pre-computer days, so, they weren't even calling it graphic arts then. Toby Jenkins: Did you, as a kid, did you like to sketch? Al Triggs: Yes, and my sister Gwen, she was an artist too. What's funny is she used to take me to school with her at Northeastern, and I would stay with her, and she'd take me to the art course with her and not knowing that I would grow up and go to school at the exact same school with the exact same instructor, he was still there. R.C. Coons, definitely, but anyway, yeah, that was a nice experience, but I enjoyed school at Northeastern. I got involved in a lot of tennis. I directed a few tennis tournaments there, probably four or five, played with the tennis team a little bit. Toby Jenkins: Did your high school have a tennis team? Al Triggs: No. Toby Jenkins: Was there a tennis court in Oktaha? Al Triggs: No. Toby Jenkins: So you got exposed in college? Al Triggs: In college, yeah, and I was part of Northeastern's Activities Board, which is kind of the board that comes up with events for the entire school to do and so forth like that. Toby Jenkins: Interscholastic sports, intramural sports. Al Triggs: Exactly, and all the events that would go on. Toby Jenkins: So you're at Northeastern in Tahlequah You're a college student. Were you aware of your...how do you identify? What's your identity, your sexual orientation? Al Triggs: Him, his... Toby Jenkins: We see that's your pronoun. Al Triggs: Oh, well, I'm gay. Toby Jenkins: Okay, you identify as gay. Al Triggs: But yet, I didn't back then, because I'm like, how do you do this? I mean, I'm at Northeastern. I'm, you know, in the dorm, and I'm like, okay, you know, it's like a thousand plus people on this campus, and it's like, surely they're not all straight. And so the bathroom walls... �12 Toby Jenkins: But you had in your head that you knew you were attracted to men. Al Triggs: Oh, yeah, yeah. Toby Jenkins: Had you talked to anybody about this? Al Triggs: No, I hadn't. I just kind of kept it to myself and had difficulties in the shower in high school right before graduating. I was like, I'm gonna use the shower right here. But anyway, and so, sure, the bathroom walls would have all of this information on it, and I'm like, I'm not gonna lower myself to, you know, whatever the process is, whether it's tap your foot or sit in the restroom. It's just like, there's just no dignity in it. And so I decided, I'd just rather play it straight. So I did for five years. Five years. And it just didn't seem to be a validating environment to even consider coming out or anything like that and pursuing anything. Toby Jenkins: So this would have been in the early 80s, I guess? Al Triggs: Yes, 78 to 83. Toby Jenkins: Okay, at Northeastern in Tahlequah. Was there an LGBTQ gay campus group? Al Triggs: No Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Were you aware of any other students who you thought were gay? Al Triggs: Yeah, I was, but he was kind of trying to play it off with, I don't know, heavy involvement with this one girl or something, but I could tell he was gay and didn't, you know, want to... Toby Jenkins: So you get through college. Where did you first get connected to the gay community? I mean, because I know you've told us you eventually ended up in Muskogee. Al Triggs: Oh, yes, and so a good friend of mine, we became workout buddies. This stunning blonde-haired, blue-eyed guy, and just so nice. I would call him questioning, but yet also somewhat attracted to men, it seemed like. But anyway, he introduced me to the first two actual gay people I felt like I had ever actually been introduced to in Muskogee, and that couple wound up moving to Tulsa, and one of them started working at Renegades, and so he would always say, Al, you should come by Renegades, and it's like, oh, yeah. I know you're not out or anything, but he's like, it would probably help if you, you know, if you come out, and so I said, well, okay, guy, if you gonna be at the bar this weekend, I'll come. Toby Jenkins: And that would have been what year? Al Triggs: That would have been 1984. Toby Jenkins: So, in 1984 you had met some gay people. Some of them had originally lived in Muskogee and they moved to Tulsa. You were living in Muskogee. �13 Al Triggs: I'm still living in Muskogee. Toby Jenkins: And what were you doing? What was your work? Al Triggs: I was working at the Muskogee Daily Phoenix. I was a commercial artist for them for eight years. And this was, like I say, pre-computer. And so, there's a reason why they called it clip art. It's because there's a book over there with a ton of art in it and you literally have to go cut it out with scissors, run it through a waxer and adhere it to a grid sheet which represented the newspaper. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, so viewers, while you're listening to this, realize that in the old days you had to clip out the art and paste it in a book and take a picture of it. And now you just move it around on your computer. So, you're in Muskogee. You've met some gay people in Tulsa. Now, this is during the period…when did you start hearing about AIDS? Were you aware of that? Al Triggs: I was aware of it. Didn't have much knowledge about it back then being that I was still kind of in the coming out. Eventually after going to Renegades and visiting with my friend, sitting at the bar and visiting with him, I started meeting other people and that's when I met the couple that put on the pool parties which led to David. Toby Jenkins: During this time, most of your connection was through friends and the gay bars. Did you ever, as a black man, did you ever feel discriminated against in those gay spaces? Or did you ever feel fetishized? You know, people thought, here's a beautiful black man. Or did you just feel welcome? And as you said earlier, you demanded respect and expected respect. Was that your experience? Al Triggs: I think that was totally my experience. You know, people will ask me every once in a while, it's like, gee, you live in Tulsa. It's like, we know what happened there. It's kind of like, have you ever experienced racism in Tulsa? And I can proudly say I've never experienced racism in Tulsa. I can proudly say I think that's something I've been well protected from just simply because of the expectation. It's not a match to who I am, and so therefore it can't. Toby Jenkins: But surely you realize that that's not a lot of people's experience. Al Triggs: I do. And I realize how blessed I am to have this whole, even just the attitude towards it. And to know that this is truly how it works for me. And once I realized that this is what was going on, it was quite an aha moment because I realized it's just, I don't experience these things just simply because I'm not attracted. I expect the exact opposite. And so as a black and gay, it's the same both ways. To me, I expect to be accepted as a gay man, and I expect to be accepted as a black man. I think once accepting me as a black man first, the gay is just a shoo-in. Toby Jenkins: So you're living in Muskogee. We mentioned earlier how you met David, and you were commuting back and forth. So eventually, when did you move to Tulsa, and what became your career once you got to Tulsa? Al Triggs: I commuted to Fort Gibson for work, gosh, six, seven years. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: What were you doing at Fort Gibson? �14 Al Triggs: A graphic artist, specializing in packaging design. And it's the company that we were doing graphic arts for…A lady there made that carrot cake for me for my birthday. Every year. And when it came to that company closing, I got down on my hands and knees and begged for the recipe. Like, I gotta have this recipe. It's like, and I thought, this is everyone's grandma's recipe, everyone's, she gave it to me like it wasn't nothing but a thing, oh yeah, here, you know. I gotta tell ya, it's been since 1994, and I've never ran into that cake recipe anywhere. Toby Jenkins: And how many of those do you think you've made? Al Triggs: Hundreds, hundreds. I can't make enough of them. Toby Jenkins: So you're in Fort Gibson. Al Triggs: Oh yeah, and so I just had to throw that in there. But yeah, so I did that, and then I got a job here in Tulsa working for a company off of Peoria. They're still there, called Noria. Noria, that's just simply patented, they're a bunch of engineers that they do training on how to properly lubricate heavy equipment. We're talking like caterpillars. We're talking any industry, if there's oil in the machine, then they're gonna benefit and save multi-millions upon implementation of these, what they call, best practices within the first year. They had quite a few impressive clients, you know, Mercedes, Cargill, Toyota, Coca-Cola, Pepsi, the list goes on, across the world. They hired me, they would give me an 8 ½ by 11 sheet of paper with stick figures on it and text that I couldn't read and said, here, make it into a slide, make it into a PowerPoint slide. So that's what I did. I created a manual that's about two inches thick and I'd have printers come and bid on the print job and so forth like that. After two years of doing that, my manager comes to me and he says, Al, I want to pay you a compliment. I ask, okay, what's that? He says, I believe you've got the gift of gab. You're an incredible graphic artist, I think we would benefit better from you being our account executive. We'll increase your salary, plus you'll make commission and we’ll give you our database of clients for you to upsell. I want you to accompany all of our instructors on our training events. They did training events in just about every major city in the U.S. And so I would leave on a Sunday and the training would be Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, and on Thursday. And so if it was someplace nice like Miami, I'd fly David in and we'd spend the weekend and I'd say, oh, just fly me back on Sunday. Toby Jenkins: And you were living in Tulsa by then? Al Triggs: I was in Tulsa at that time, by then. Toby Jenkins: And what was it that David did? What was his career? Al Triggs: David was a court reporter. For court reporters, it's a six-year job security. And you have to hope and pray that your judge get reelected, or the judge that is elected that replaces your judge is open to you being their court reporter. David was blessed to have 28 years, six years at a time. It was fantastic. Eventually, the last judge wanted a skirt. But yeah, he was really good at that. �15 Toby Jenkins: So you had this career. Let me kind of rush us along here. So you're living in Tulsa. I guess y'all had developed friends. I know at one time you sang with Council Oak Men's Chorale. Al Triggs: Yes, I did for, gosh, probably maybe five years. Toby Jenkins: How did you get involved in that? Al Triggs: David and I went to a concert, and he mentioned to one of our friends that was singing in Council Oak, I'm trying to remember who it was, he said, well, Al is a good singer. And I'm like, David, stop. The guy asked me if I'd come and basically interview and sing with him. And so I thought it sounded, it seemed like a lot of fun. I chose to enjoy it. The sound of the chorus, you know, and just the harmony that would be on the stage was just, it was just mesmerizing. I enjoyed it. Al Triggs: Were you singing with the chorale, the Council Oak Men's Chorale, which is our gay men's chorus, I mean, bi men, even straight men can sing in it. Were you with them when they went and sang at the state capitol? Al Triggs: No. Toby Jenkins: You did that for five years. Do you remember who the conductor was? Al Triggs: Andre Martin. Before him, I think Rick Fortner. But I was mostly under Andre. Toby Jenkins: That was such a, I call it a cross-over outreach. It was such an effective way to represent our community and pull in straight allies and people who needed to know our community. Were you aware that you ‘all were doing something pretty significant and historic? Al Triggs: I was. I think back then I was the only black member and I could tell the effect we were having on audiences. It seems that after you hear your audience kind of gasp after a certain song, it’s just so rewarding. I think that the statement that Council Oak Men’s Chorale makes is very important to our gay community. There are a lot of leaders within that group. There are a lot of people who are willing to stand up for the gay mission. I enjoyed my time singing with them and it just, you really only get six Mondays off a year. And it's a big commitment and my career started requiring me to be more involved with that, so I kind of had to let it go. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, and rehearsal's mandatory. They expect you to be at practice. Al Triggs: They do. But I was so, I've got to mention Greg Davis, I just, he's an incredible writer. That song I sang at David’s Memorial, which I'm still shocked to this day I was able to do. Toby Jenkins: Can you sing a little bit of it for us? I know the song you're talking about. Al Triggs: Yeah, it's the core of who I am and who David was, and still is. I've got to say, I've got to stop referring to him as was because he's gone out of his way to prove to me that he still lives and still does, definitely. �16 [Singing]-“I hear a deeper voice telling me I'm lovely and I am just what God intended. I am no mistake. The voice says welcome to this world. You need not live alone. I hear the words of shame and condemnation. But now I hear the voice. I hear a deeper voice.” Al Triggs: Greg Davis, for viewers, was a celebrated music composer and wrote extensively in the Nashville music circuit and the emergence of contemporary Christian music, which came out of Nashville, Tennessee, and many of America's top Christian contemporary artists sang his music until he was kicked out of that music industry for being a gay man. And we're fortunate to have still with us here in Tulsa and a lot of songs of the Council Oak that they performed, which other choruses went on to perform it across the country. I know you best from serving on the boards of TOHR and Oklahomans for Equality. Can you tell us how you got involved with TOHR and Oklahomans for Equality and eventually served on the board? I don't know how many times. Al Triggs: You know David, he loved TOHR and the organization and he- he was the one that took me to the first meeting and was involved…he was the type that he wouldn't, wouldn't the type that would get on the board and so forth, like that, but he would kind of coerce me and he's like: well, you should really join that organization. He's like you know, not only you know, because you know you're gay, but he's like you know you're a black gay man, which is like you know. He's like you've got the double whammy. You've got to be the example. Toby Jenkins: Representation. Al Triggs: Exactly. And so that's… Toby Jenkins: That's why your first meeting was. He invited you to, took you to a meeting. Al Triggs: I'm trying to remember- I think it was in this strip mall area, 41st street, but I'm trying to remember where exactly. Toby Jenkins: The Highland Park location. Al Triggs: Yes, that's exactly right. Yeah, yeah, exactly yeah. Once I started- I think, the Pyramid Project had already - I was just right on the heels of that, meaning I think you guys had already started that campaign. Toby Jenkins: And then the Pyramid Project was what? Al Triggs: Wasn't that the um, uh, where they were raising money for the organization to the tune of like, now, that was different than the capital campaign. Toby Jenkins: Well, no, it's the same. Al Triggs: It's the same thing. For the support of Oklahomans for Equality work. Toby Jenkins: Well, to buy their own property. �17 Al Triggs: That's right. Toby Jenkins: Renting facilities… Al Triggs: Right, because of the problem of being potentially kicked out every place we go. Toby Jenkins: And so you started getting involved and that would have been the early 2000s. Dennis Neill: I'm showing that you were the membership director in 2006 while you were on the board, and then I see that you, pretty much consistently, you stayed on the board most of the time of the 2000s into the 2010s. Do you recall when you first joined and how many years you served on the board? Al Triggs: I think it's been a total of about 18 years, I think it's somewhere along there. I pretty well just been a board member, you know, other than that one position that you just mentioned, just kind of an outside of the box thinker on the board, you know, and so forth, like that. Plus, I wanted to represent, as far as someone black in in the presence of the with the board. My goal was initially to try to integrate more black people in the organization and so forth, like that, which, you know, seemed like there seemed to be a disconnect and so that's one thing that kind of kept me on the board and re-upping, so to speak, as you know, just being a face. Dennis Neill: With all those years of service, what was kind of a high point of your service with Oklahomans for Equality? Al Triggs: A lot of the Pride events and so forth, there was just so much to do, but I don't know. I guess just all the support of the organization and seeing how people would support it and seeing it grow, basically, I think has been the most rewarding thing of all, being on the board that long and then now seeing where we're at and so forth like that. To me, the most rewarding thing is seeing the growth of the whole organization and how it continues to attract new members and so forth. I thought, well, I'm getting to be an old dog here. I can step off and let these young kids take care of it for a while. I must say, a few hiccups here and there, but for the most part, I think they've done an exceptional job. Dennis Neill: During this time that you've been in Tulsa, have there been some other non-profit organizations that you've been involved with? Al Triggs: Yes, there has been… the Tulsa Girl School. I was on their board for a while as well, and probably about some five or six years. And years ago, RAIN. I was on the board for RAIN for many years. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: It's the Regional AIDS Interfaith Network. Dennis Neill: And with RAIN, were you also on a team affiliated with one of the faith communities? Al Triggs: No, I was never on one of the teams, but I was just a board member that kind of supported. �18 Dennis Neill: Do you recall who was our director during that period of time here in Tulsa while you were serving on the board? Al Triggs: I do, and she's a Facebook friend, but I cannot remember her name. Well, Justice [Desiree Waidner-Smith] was heavily involved. Toby Jenkins: I know who you're talking about. Dennis Neill: It seems like there was one that was named Mary. Al Triggs: Mary? Dennis Neill: Well, Mary Catherine [Smotherman] was the head of the whole thing, but it seemed like we had a local... Mary Catherine she was head of the Oklahoma organization. And so she was head of Tulsa until we got further down the road, and then we had our own executive director here. And I can't remember, but it seemed like maybe her name was Mary. I could be wrong about that. Al Triggs: Yeah, I know exactly who you're talking about, but I just can't remember her. Toby Jenkins: That's why we say everybody write it down. Al Triggs: Everyone write it down, definitely, for sure. Toby Jenkins: I know one time I attended a Feast for Friends. Al Triggs: Oh, there you go. Toby Jenkins: We were having our Feast for Friends, and one of the stops was at you and David's home. But do you remember what Feast for Friends was and what it was a fundraiser for? Al Triggs: It was a wonderful event that basically people that would want to put on a dinner would volunteer to do so and supply the food, and the person would pay a certain amount to come and have dinner at your house. And David and I, we used to love to just make it just a wonderful event. And so I do the cooking, and one time we had Ernestine Diller perform in the living room. Toby Jenkins: Incredible performer here in Tulsa. Al Triggs: Exactly and had a wonderful pianist as well. We just love those events. And I had even, last time I was on the board, I was trying to talk them up again. Toby Jenkins: You talked about, do you remember what they raised funds for, Feast for Friends? Al Triggs: Wasn't it just for the organization [TOHR]? Toby Jenkins: No, it wasn't. Dennis Neill: It was for the Names Project. �19 Al Triggs: Oh yes, for the AIDS Quilts. Oh, and that's another thing too that I enjoyed with David was a trip to D.C. to see the entire quilt. Yeah, and David, he used to, whenever it was here, he would offer massages to the people working and watching the quilt. Toby Jenkins: When you saw it on display in Washington, D.C., were you all helping, were you volunteering to help lay the quilt down? Al Triggs: We were. David even, I don't know whether he took his massage bed or what, but he was doing massages up there too. I mean, it was quite a sight, especially when they had, all the quilts had been laid out, and they had everyone join hands around the whole mall area. It was just something. Toby Jenkins: Mary says RAIN… Mary Bishop-Baldwin: [reviewing publication] It says Jean Ann Van Krevelen, RAIN Executive Director [she was the state-wide director]. This was in 2002. Toby Jenkins: Feast for Friends was the principal fundraiser for the NAMES project and it funded, which are on display here at the Equality Center, facsimiles of them. One other thing, I know you've done a lot of work with our seniors, our older LGBT community, especially since your specialty and now you're a broker for Medicare. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Let me ask you when you changed careers from Graphic Arts to Medicare. Al Triggs: That was back in 2008. That wonderful job I had traveling for Noria, due to the economy falling in 2008, I basically lost that job because the first thing people cut back on in a bad economy, especially industry, is training. That can always wait. So a friend of mine that was there, that's a graphic artist, said, well, what are you going to do now? He's like, are you going to come back into graphics? And I'm like, to be quite honest, graphics is kind of saturated. The computer is taking that over, especially AI nowadays. He said, well, have you heard of the baby boomers turning 65? And I said, no, what's the statistic? Yeah, and he's like, between 2008 and 2012, there's going to be a 70% increase in Medicare beneficiaries. I'm like, oh my God, someone's going to need to help those people. And he's like, yeah, and there's not enough insurance brokers. So I decided to get my license to become an insurance broker, which felt like nothing short of getting another college semester under my belt. And got it done and happened to run into the right agency that kind of taught me everything I needed to know about Medicare and still do. So I've enjoyed doing that for 18 years now. It doesn't feel like it's been that long. And I teach Medicare a lot at different nutritional centers and so forth like that, because there's certain programs that just breaks my heart that there's people in Oklahoma right now that are paying that Medicare Part B premium having no idea that they qualify for what's called the Medicare Savings Program that will pay it on their behalf. The state of Oklahoma, DHS would actually pay that $202 per month. And I'll meet someone that's qualified for that seven years ago. It's just heartbreaking. �20 Toby Jenkins: Okay, note to self. Call Al about my supplemental. Al Triggs: Yeah, definitely, because I enjoy doing it. I helped a lady in North Tulsa years ago put $280 back into her little old $680 check. She didn't know she qualified for Medicaid. She didn't know she qualified for the premium to be paid. And the problem was I was seven years late. When I told her that, she said, well, praise God. I was getting ready to pull out my phone and do the horrible calculation of $280 times 12 times seven years. And she said the best thing she could have ever said, she said, well, praise God I've got it now. And I said, well, yes, ma'am. Praise God you've got it now, and you'll have it for the rest of your life. But I got to the car, did the math, and it was $24,000. I was so upset, pointing a finger at Medicare, crying all the way home, pointing a finger at Social Security, who failed this woman? And in the midst of my tears, I could hear my mother's voice saying, well, boy, you know what I taught you about pointing a finger. And I'm like, what are you talking about? Three's pointing at me. Sure. Yeah, I know. But how could I be responsible for this, you know? And then I just simply heard her say, well, who taught her to know? What? Who taught her? Wait a minute. Who? Wait. Who's teaching this stuff? It forced me to realize, wait, you've been doing it for three years now. Have you ever taught? Have you ever ran into anyone teaching Medicare? No. And so my sister in Muskogee, she goes to this nutritional center, and she had told the lady there in charge of it that I'm a broker and I teach Medicare. And she's like, well, have them come see me. I ask her, and she's like, well, boy, I've been here 40 years. Where have you been? I'm like, you mean in 40 years, nobody has come? She referred me to nutritional centers in Tulsa, 12 of which I would go in and teach Medicare, just freely teach it. It taught me the value of teaching first and putting the sale on the back burner. But there's just such a beautiful principle around kind of releasing something and releasing your resistance around it and just, I know it sounds crazy, but not giving a rip whether you made a sale or not and having that honesty about it. And it's just like some type of trigger or something because I never, I definitely didn't starve. If anything, I was doing really well because of logically people, once I taught them to know, they would be like, well, gee, maybe we should talk about our insurance. So as a result of my teaching, it's led me to be the, they call me their health benefit advisor for the Absentee Shawnee tribe. And it's just a contract that while I travel down there every other Wednesday, Thursday, sit at their clinic and talk to their people about Medicare marketplace, look for people that qualifies for this extra help program, just like the lady in North Tulsa and have found a few of those that qualified seven, eight years ago. The initial lack of teaching is how people have fallen through some of these cracks and not on my shift, my goal is to make sure every single member of the Absentee Shawnee tribe that is a Medicare beneficiary knows about this program that is, will pay their Part B, the premium. I'd love to have a bullhorn and go down the road and just announce it because there's people probably within yelling distance of here. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And that's for very low income. �21 Al Triggs: For low income. Dennis Neill: Al, I think there was a program that David was involved in called Experience Weekend. Al Triggs: Oh, yes. Dennis Neill: Is that something that you recall and were you also involved in the Experience Weekend? Al Triggs: No, David had a lot of, and it's kind of like I was alluding to at the service, there was a lot of self-help type organizations and programs and so like, but this, that one was specifically a men's group that it was about validating who you were or who you are as a gay man and acknowledging that in other gay men and so yeah, he was, he was heavily involved in that, but I never, I never got involved with it. Dennis Neill: I think they had one or two of them here at the center, as I recall. Al Triggs: Yes. Yeah, I've got a few friends that I think attended the one here. Toby Jenkins: I want to talk a little bit about David and y'all's life together and then David's health diagnosis and talk a little bit about that….the last few years that he was physically here with us, and your thoughts about that, and as being a caregiver, and having a family, a partner. I'd like for you to talk a little bit about that, not just necessarily about, but your life together. I know at David's memorial service we shared a detail about the struggle he had had accepting his sexuality, and could you tell that story about him deciding Hawaii. Al Triggs: David was troubled once he realized that he was different in that way, and so he wanted to escape it all, and had planned to go to Hawaii and basically off himself. But when he got there, evidently Hawaii is so beautiful until the beauty of the place convinced him otherwise. And so instead he lived in Hawaii for about three years, and his brothers would come and visit him, and one of them, the last time that he had come over there, he said, well you need to come home. It's time to come home. That was after David had experienced being with the guy there. They were kind of in a slight relationship for a while, and so he had gotten more comfortable with self in a beautiful environment. And so then he was able to come home, and he returned to the States, and that's when he became a full-fledged court reporter. Toby Jenkins: And was out to his family. Al Triggs: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Okay, tell me, tell us about the time that you invited your family and David's family to share a holiday meal. Al Triggs: When we first met that first year, 1996, the Thanksgiving of that year, we decided to do Thanksgiving for his family and my family. Toby Jenkins: Together. �22 Al Triggs: Together. David has four brothers. Toby Jenkins: Okay, I just want to set the stage. Most Oklahoma families, the holiday meals are already stressful enough and so let's add to the component. It's a black family, a white family, and they're there in the home of their gay sons, who are a couple. What could possibly go wrong? This could have been a movie, Who's Coming to Dinner? Al Triggs: It could have easily been. I think it's a testament to each family as far as how much love is within the family and love no matter what. But yeah, so we invited everyone to Thanksgiving dinner. It was a, between the living room and dining room, it was a sit-down dinner for 38 people. And David was like, we had done little fancy name tags, and so David, it was…when it came to placement, who's sitting where, David took these name tags, and he went black, white, black, white, black, white, black, white. That way was a mixture of everyone, and it was so interesting, you know, doing that, everyone really got to know each other, and saw a lot of similarities in each other, and like to the oldest brother, his oldest brother, and my oldest brother, just hit it off like they've been friends forever. And so it was a testament to just a whole lot of love within his family, and within my family, and even my brother-in-law, he said, you know, especially within the passing of David and so forth, he said, that family is just really a nice family. And I said, yeah, and ours is too, and that's why we're such a good match. So I have two families. I do, I still participate. Toby Jenkins: Two Oklahoma families. Al Triggs: Yeah, I still participate with the Parsons as well. As a matter of fact, his brother, Uncle Steve, and Aunt Kathy Watch, my little baby, my little angel, my little Morkie at the house, so anytime I go to Norman, they take care of him for me. Toby Jenkins: Your puppy? Al Triggs: Uh-huh, they do, and I still attend their family events and so forth. I made it clear to them; I've been in your family for 30 years. I said, if there's ever a second family to me, you guys are totally it. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Well, it sounds like your own family was very accepting of you as well as of you, David. Al Triggs: Yeah, yeah. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: When did you come out to your family? Al Triggs: Oh, great question there. So, I alluded to earlier that David was always participating in these self-awareness type courses. There's one called Landmark Education, and it's an incredible experience. I learned so much through Landmark. But when I was in Dallas, and so there's this whole curriculum for living. I mean, I took a three-month course on one word, integrity. And, you know, you would think, how can you teach three months on one word? But they did it, and they did it well. I know integrity inside and out. �23 One of the courses was in Dallas, and I saw all of these people making bold moves. It's like a three-day…a Friday, Saturday, ending on Sunday. This one girl that stood up and said, well, I think I'm going to come out to my father. And he's a minister of this big church, a Baptist minister. And so, she told us all that. Well, the next day, so she did. She went home that night and told them. And then she came, and she told us exactly what happened then. She said, at one moment, he was coming into the room with his Bible, quoting certain verses. The next moment, he was coming into the room with a gun. And she said, but I was finally able to…he realized that it's his love for me that he had to come into alignment. And I thought, wow, how brave was that? So, I'm like, who am I? You know, here it is. I'm still not out. And so, in that very moment, I went out, and on the next break, I went out and got my phone and called my brother, Dezo, outside of Chicago, who was one of the Baptist ministers. He had about a 1,200-member church up there. And I said, Dezo, I said, I just wanted to call you because I said I think there's a reason why you and I have not been very close. And it may be because of the fact that I'm hiding that I'm gay. And the gentleman that you've known for me to be living with in Tulsa all these many years is not my roommate. He's my partner. The greatest thing about it was that this organization had you create an expectation. It's like, okay, well, before you do this, what do you really want to get out of it? And so what I had said was, well, I would want him to simply not judge me. And almost verbatim, that's what he said over the phone. He's like, well, he said, well, I will not cast judgment upon you. And implying that, someone else would. But yet, it was the most accepting thing he could say in that moment. It was like, you call the oldest and you call the one that you were the most fearful of knowing this information and just set it free. And I did. And before I knew it, the whole family knew, you know, because it spread like wildfire. A lot of my family members called me and said, well, we were kind of… She's one of my sisters said, well, mom always did say, I wonder why, he's a nice-looking guy. I wonder why he's never brought some young filly to church. And I said, oh, well, what would you say back to her? And she said, well, mom, maybe he's just taking his time. Then she said, but I kind of in the back of my mind kind of knew. Two of my best friends from Northeastern, one of them that I would play tennis with him and his wife and I, we became really good friends. And to this day, really good friends. And as soon as I came out to them, they're just like, oh Al, we already knew. Dennis Neill: Al, what year was this when you had this first disclosure? And have there been any family members either on your side or David's that have not accepted the direction of your all’s lives? Al Triggs: That would have been about 2000. David and I have been together about four years. What was the other part of the question? Dennis Neill: Are there any family members on either side that really have not been accepting of your decisions? �24 Al Triggs: Not really. Not in the, what I call, immediate family. I have a sister in, well, she passed away, but she was in California, in Sacramento, and they would probably, some of her kids may would probably be some of the ones that would be coming from, but I don't see them, and we don't really communicate very much too often. It's just the last time I was in their presence, they did seem to kinda… I had taken David out to meet my sister and stuff like that, and I could tell then that there were a few that had some opposition on it, but yet, such a tight family to where they…no one would ever really bring something like that up. If anything, they acted as if they were really more accepting of it than anything, when deep down inside, I knew it was like, you know, what are you doing here with your man? Toby Jenkins: So, tell us a little bit about when David's health began to decline. Al Triggs: David had dementia for seven years. It's kind of like, there's a aloneness that comes with that, with dementia. You feel like you've kinda semi-lost, your partner. The conversations become less and less. The time seems to somewhat go slow, because everything's just at a standstill pace. Your love for the person causes you to go through some incredible things. You realize that this person, if they were in their right mind, everything would still be wonderful. It was a lot. Toby Jenkins: And you chose for him to be in the house. Al Triggs: Oh yes, definitely, yeah. Toby Jenkins: And I know that y'all had a lot of folks who helped out, or, you know, I know he was…. Toby Jenkins: Warren Duvall made sure that he continued to participate in the seniors programming here at the Equality Center, and Prime Timers. Al Triggs: Warren was quite a good friend for him, definitely. He started falling close to the end. I can remember the actual day, May, no, it was March 24th of last year, when he initially had a horrific fall off of the back porch, which is five steps up, and just solid cement. And I had come home, and the first thing I would do would be… David was good to walk in the neighborhood, and he even developed some really close friends from some neighbors that, amazingly enough, lives in a house, same color, flat roof home. I don't think it's a Bruce Goff, but it looks similar. It's near Swan Lake, and it's exact same house number. And David, all of these characteristics, David just walked up to this perfect stranger on the porch inside, and said, I live in a home, looks a lot like yours, same color, same house number. I believe yours may be a Bruce Goff home. Anyway, and just developed, David was still, he could still find his way back and forth and developed some wonderful friends there that would not allow him to cross Peoria. David was the type to, if he was walking somewhere, especially in his later years, he would not speed up if there was a car coming. That car would have to slow down. After the fall, and that was such a bad fall, it was a good thing I was there, because he would have literally bled to death. He hit his head and evidently hit the main blood vein over �25 here. Cause it was spouting out about the diameter of my pinky. And I literally had to rush in the house to grab a towel and hold on his head. And thank God I had my phone where I could call 911. And so I had to held it to his head for 15 minutes before the ambulance got there. It was just downhill from there. Cause falls can bring on Parkinson's at an older age. And that's initially what happened. He fell at the house, hit his head again about four months later. And the next thing you know, he couldn't stand or walk or anything like that. And that's when Dr. Thomason said, well, we've got to get him into a skilled nursing facility to see if they can recoup him, and that was not possible, which led to a nursing home. That's where David just simply chose to stop eating. And eight days of no food definitely will do it. It was quite a journey. I'm happy that he was able to still be in the house the biggest majority of the time. We still came to the Gala, and we still attended everything that we would normally attend just like life was still going on. And he still recognized people and so forth like that. He had a great life, he really did. And I just hate it ended like it did, but he had a great life, for sure. Toby Jenkins: As we come to the end of this time together, you've already mentioned it. You're of a certain age, you've had a partner of 30 years in a career, and you work a lot with older adults. But what message would you want to give to someone who is looking for something to inspire them to work hard for our community or make the world a better place? Or what final message would you give to someone who comes after us and sees this interview? Al Triggs: It all focuses upon one word, and because I am a total result of this one word, and that is expectation. If you've got that, you can have everything, you really can. I'm just totally convinced. I would want them to expect life to be good for them. I would want them to expect to be powerful, not powerless, just because they're gay or just because they're black. I would want them to teach their kids the same thing. Because it is how I've gotten to where I am today, and how I will continue to survive and excel because it's everything. Just something as simple as expecting life to go well for you, and demanding it, and giving it up for God to take care of the rest of it, and I guarantee you, he will. Toby Jenkins: Well, today, our guest has been Al Triggs. It is July 7th, 2026. This is another oral history of the Oklahomans for Equality History Project. Thank you so much. Al Triggs: Thank you for the opportunity. I appreciate it. � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Discover their journey through love, family rejection, activism, and resilience. In this episode, Terry Baxter and Barry Hensley share their experiences with LGBTQ+ advocacy, their careers in public service, and personal stories of love and resilience. Discover how their efforts have shaped community acceptance and the importance of authenticity. Keywords LGBTQ+ history, Tulsa, Oklahoma, gay rights, family rejection, activism, HIV/AIDS, coming out, community, personal stories LGBTQ+ advocacy, Tulsa, public service, marriage equality, community activism, personal stories, diversity, inclusion, history, Pride Chapters 00:00 Celebrating Pride and Public Service 01:59 A Love Story: How They Met 06:06 Life in Dallas: The Early Years 09:50 Facing the AIDS Crisis Together 12:03 Childhood and Family Background 19:56 College Life and Early Relationships 27:48 Moving to Tulsa: A New Beginning 30:40 Coming Out and Family Dynamics 36:10 Reconciliation and Family Relationships �3 38:38 Childhood and Family Background 44:42 High School Experiences and Friendships 50:10 College Life and Activism 01:03:37 Community Connections and Support 01:04:12 Early Community Engagement and Pride Events 01:07:54 Library Displays and LGBTQ Representation 01:13:17 Involvement of PFLAG and Community Outreach 01:15:27 Building LGBTQ Literature Collections 01:18:03 Experiences at College Hill Presbyterian Church 01:29:14 Marriage Equality Journey and Community Support 01:32:52 A Memorable Wedding in Victoria 01:34:36 The Importance of Legal Recognition in Relationships 01:36:01 Insights from Working in Municipal Government 01:49:30 Navigating Politics and Civil Service 01:52:06 The Evolution of Anti-Discrimination Policies 02:03:48 Reflections on Life and Legacy Barry Hensley and Terry Baxter Oral History Interview June 30, 2026 Toby Jenkins: Good morning, it is June 30th, 2026, the last day of Pride Month. And so, viewers, we have for you a very special treat. Individuals who spent their life in public service. It's such an honor and we have so much respect for them. Today, our interview and panel is Dennis Neill, founder of Oklahomans for Equality, Mary Bishop-Baldwin, here a part of the archives. And the marriage plaintiff from the marriage equality lawsuit. And this is Toby Jenkins. We're in the Joe and Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R Neill Equality Center, headquarters of Oklahomans for Equality. And the dead center of the country, we're the gay outpost in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Today, our guests are very special to me and always been an inspiration. Could you please introduce yourselves? Barry Hensley: I'm Barry Hensley. Terry Baxter: I'm Terry Baxter. Toby Jenkins: Terry Baxter. And just give us your age. �4 Barry Hensley: I am 67. Terry Baxter: I am 72. Toby Jenkins: And you look marvelous. And just to blow our audience away, how long have you gentlemen been a couple? Terry Baxter: 46 years. Toby Jenkins: Yes. So we're just going to get started. And they've had incredible eyewitness accounts of our region and this part of the United States. But I just, if it's all right with our panel, I'd like to start at the very beginning part, how they met each other. And then we'll work backwards from the early part of your life. Barry Hensley: Sure. Toby Jenkins: And then your careers over the last 47 years. All right. So tell us the good stuff. Tell us, boys, how you met. Terry Baxter: I went to the University of Texas at Arlington for my undergraduate. And I met a guy there and we became friends. And he ran a flower shop in a mall when he wasn't at school. And so we stayed friends after I graduated from college. And every year he'd have a Halloween party, and people would dress up and come over and have fun. And Barry also went to University of Texas at Arlington. But being younger than me, I never knew he was there or anything. But he also met this mutual friend because he would go to the mall when he was bored and buy flowers for the apartment that he was living in. Barry Hensley: I’d go to the record stores and the bookstores. Terry Baxter: And all that stuff. So we ended up, both of us, going to the same party one year at this guy's house for Halloween. And we met each other at a Halloween party. I was dressed up in a bad toga. I looked like a, and I had a beard and a wreath over my head. Barry Hensley: It was the animal house era. Terry Baxter: Yeah. So I kind of looked like an animal house victim. And he was dressed up like a, I guess, what? Barry Hensley: I had a World War II sailor outfit on and a little hat and a necklace. So maybe an Andrews’ sister, maybe. Something like that. And I was very, very shy. Very withdrawn. And I was there with a friend. I kind of stuck by him. Because I didn't know anybody except the host. And everywhere I went in that house, Terry was right there. I'd go in the dining room to get something to eat and there's Terry. And I'd go in the living room where people were watching TV and there's Terry. Wherever I went, Terry was. Terry Baxter: I was magic. Barry Hensley: So we hit it off pretty fast. And the following Tuesday was election day, 1980, November 4th, I guess it was. And we had arranged a date to go to the Granada �5 Theater out in East Dallas to watch Elizabeth Taylor double feature, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof and Butterfield Eight. And so Terry has come to the condo where I was staying. There were four of us living there, college years, you know. A whole pile of us in this condo. And Terry knocks on the door to pick me up for this date. And I let him in. I introduced him to my friends. And he said, what are you all doing? And they said, oh, we're watching the election results. Reagan is ahead. And Terry said, oh, good. And I said, WHAT? Terry Baxter: That was almost the beginning of the end. Barry Hensley: Almost the beginning of the end. We managed to work it out. But that was how we met. Terry Baxter: Well, Anderson. Barry Hensley: I know. I voted for John Anderson that year. I was so irritated with some of the stuff that Jimmy Carter had done, which of course I'd love to have back now. But at the time it seemed like... Terry Baxter: I'd like to have Reagan back now. Barry Hensley: I know. Yeah. So that's how we met. Toby Jenkins: In Texas. Barry Hensley: In Texas, Dallas. Toby Jenkins: So the city of Tulsa owes Texas a debt of gratitude. You met in Texas and was it love at first sight or did you, I mean, were you able to overlook his... Barry Hensley: I was unaccustomed to such attention, so it took me a while to kind of figure out, you know, what this was like. Terry Baxter: It was okay. Barry Hensley: So, I hadn't really been much of a dater or anything, and I didn't really have a lot of experience. I was 20, but it wasn't really part of my reality, and so it was a new experience for me. So, it took about till January before we finally decided that we were probably going to try to make a go of staying together. I think I moved in later that spring or early summer. Toby Jenkins: In Arlington? Barry Hensley: Well, it was in Dallas. I was commuting, actually, with Tom Neal. He was another one of the roommates, and he was getting his architecture graduate degree at UTA, and I was still getting my communications bachelor's degree at UTA, so we would carpool every morning from Dallas to Arlington. Terry Baxter: So while he was carpooling to go to school, I was carpooling to go to work. Barry Hensley: But it was good. Dallas was fun at that time, in the early 80s. It was a lot of fun to be down there. �6 Toby Jenkins: What were kind of some of the things that y'all did? I mean, did you go to the Cedar Springs afternoon gig? Barry Hensley: Oh, yeah. Cedar Springs was really hopping, the restaurants and the gift shops, and the Village Station was there. We weren't really bar people. I mean, Terry had been, like the Old Plantation was. The Old Old Plantation, which was downtown Dallas. So we didn't really do the bar stuff, but it was so exciting to be in that place at that time. Divine came in to do a book signing at one of the bookstores, it's like, wow, this is crazy. Crossroads Market. Crossroads Market. And just a fun, fun neighborhood to be in. I did have a friend, another, it was Tom and Laurie and a friend of mine named Al. The four of us were living together on Cedar Springs, just north of the Strip. And Al was a playboy, and he liked to stay out late. And one night I got a call, the phone rang for us, a landline back then, and asked me to come pick him up. And he had run down, he was walking back from the bars and had been accosted on the street. He was at one of the toll booths at the Dallas North Tollway, which was right off Cedar Springs there. And so I picked him up and we went right over to St. Paul's Hospital. They really worked him over. That was the only time that really happened. I don't think we ever felt afraid or anything at that time in the Cedar Springs area. Terry Baxter: We didn't walk around by ourselves at two in the morning, in the middle of the night. Barry Hensley: That wasn't, no, I've always been an early to bed and late to rise sort of person. Terry Baxter: He's early to bed and I'm late to rise, make that work. Toby Jenkins: It should have been, at the time, the proliferation of gay bars as finding ourselves all across the country and bars opening up all over the place. Barry Hensley: J.R.'s was there, Hunky's was there. And they're still there. Yeah, J.R.'s is still there, yeah. Terry Baxter: And every bar had their own kind of clientele. So no matter what you were into, you always had a place to go and feel, at least feel that other people were kind of like you were. Toby Jenkins: So this would have been the 1980s? Barry Hensley: We were there until I graduated in 83 and was living with Terry then. He had bought a condo down off of Maple, still in the neighborhood. And I was having trouble getting a job. And he worked for MCI, the telephone company. And you were a regional manager, is that what it's called? And so he managed to get me a job temporarily, we thought, when the mail girl had to go on pregnancy leave and I filled in for her and they liked me. So I stayed and they found another spot for me at the customer service office. Terry Baxter: He did a much better job than she did. �7 Barry Hensley: And so it was great. We were both working for MCI. That was the company at that time. Man, they were giving Ma Bell a run for her money. And Sprint was hot on our tails, and it was exciting to work there. It was a lot of fun. Toby Jenkins: But it was pre-cell phone. Barry Hensley: Right, right. This is 1983, 84. Toby Jenkins: Okay, just curious, you're in Dallas, which had a pretty large organized gay movement. And you just, young men, you just found each other and got with each other. Do you remember at that time when you began to hear about AIDS and HIV infections? Barry Hensley: We have always been, one of the things that was so frustrating to me is that if Mary's suit [referring to Mary Bishop-Baldwin and the marriage equality lawsuit] had come before the Supreme Court in the 80s and we had gotten that passed back then and the American public was able to get on at that time, which would have encouraged young men to partner up, you know, we were off the market basically, I guess is a way to say it, at that time. So we avoided that situation. Lost so many friends. Absolutely heartbreaking. Terry Baxter: I was in the Turtle Creek Chorale at the time. Yeah. Barry Hensley: When they first started. Toby Jenkins: The Gay Men’s Chorus. Terry Baxter: Yes, and I guess my first problem with AIDS was having friends getting sick and dying that were in the choir with me. One of the unfortunate events was we had a concert and the guy who was supposed to sing one of the tenor solos got too sick to sing, and so I just got to sing his solo for him and I felt, in a way, I felt good because here was my chance to sing a solo, but then you're singing because somebody else is sick and not able to sing, and when you're a singer, that's a very important part of your life, and it was very crazy that you know that people were treating it like it was his problem rather than a disease and or something he did that he deserved, instead of just luck or bad luck. We both are thankful that we got each other when we did, because we both have had so many friends pass because of HIV/AIDS and other things too. But if we had been continuing dating and doing the typical gay lifestyle that the Bible Thumpers talk about at that time, we might have been subject to that bad luck as well. Barry Hensley: As I said, that wasn't really our reality. Yeah, we didn't. We didn't date a lot and go out a lot, so I don't know what our you know who knows what your chances I mean I had. Terry Baxter: I could count on two hands and I had one longtime boyfriend who's still a good friend of both of ours- yeah, our best friends, yeah, but you know, that was the extent. Barry Hensley: I was ready to settle down with the white picket fence when I was 14. �8 Toby Jenkins: Beautiful, okay. So thank you so much for starting right there. But you know you found each other, you got with each other and you were an eyewitness to history together. But you have a pre-story before you got together. So let's pick that up. Terry, tell us a little bit about your childhood, your family background and your when you came out as gay or whenever you decided to live your authentic life. Terry Baxter: Okay, let's see, I was born in the 50s and in Dallas, Texas. You barely made it to elementary school in Dallas and you know, when you're in elementary school there's no gay or straight. You're just a person. And you know some of the videos we've watched there. They've talked about being bullied and stuff a lot. I'm sure I was kind of effeminate because you look at pictures of me, but you know, if anybody tried to bully me, I would just turn to them say, look, you bully me. Your parents are going to get a lawsuit and you don't want that to be your responsibility and they go. They didn't know what to do with being faced with reality instead of somebody wanting to fight back or run. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And what made you have the presence as a child to say I'll sue you? Terry Baxter: I was a. I was a- what do you call it? Smartass. And that may be what kept me from being bullied more, because I could speak rings around other people. In fourth grade I had a teacher and a friend of mine. We were sitting in the back of the class. I usually sat near the front of the class because I didn't want to be distracted, but in this English class I was sitting in the back for some reason and we were talking and she was up there like Charlie Brown's teacher. So she says: Mr. Baxter, yes, ma'am, you're back there having a conversation. Would you please tell me what you just said? Well, I just said, and I said sure, and I quoted her verbatim because part of my brain was listening to her and part of it was involved in the conversation. So I was even kind of smart. I got all A's on grades, but then I always got marked down on citizenship because I wasn't. You know, I was. You know, Terry's a good student, but he needs to learn how to keep his mouth shut. Barry Hensley: And somehow, he never got fired. Figure out how that happened. Terry Baxter: Because I was smarter than the people I was working for, and so my father worked for the government, federal government, General Services Administration- and they built a new federal building in Fort Worth and so half of the government workers who had positions in Dallas were transferred to Fort Worth. And so that would happen to coincide with me leaving elementary school and going into junior high school. And my sister was sad because she was a freshman in high school, and all the people she had grown up with, she wasn't gonna be going to high school. And my brother was one year younger than me, so he was in sixth grade, so he didn't get to graduate from elementary school. Not that we really had any official thing like they do now when you graduate from every grade you go to. So we moved to Fort Worth, and I went to junior high and high school in Fort Worth. �9 When I went back to my reunions, I was happy to see how many gay people there were, but upset that I didn't know that they were when I was in high school, because we just didn't talk about things like that. Toby Jenkins: So did you know that you had feelings that were different than most of your classmates? Terry Baxter: Yeah, even in elementary school, we lived across the street from a 23acre park with a recreation center that had two basketball areas and a swimming pool and all that kind of stuff. And I would go watch the basketball games, not because I liked basketball, but because I liked seeing the guys in the shorts run around on the basketball floor. That wasn't in my head, I wasn't thinking I'm gonna go watch the guys in the skimpy shorts play basketball, or I wouldn't be thinking I'm gonna go look at the guys in the speedos in the swimming pool. It's just what I innately was attracted to, but I didn't think about it. So I don't say I didn't know why, because there was no knowledge of anything. It's just, I recollect as being an older person in high school that I, yes, there were signs of that when I was in as far back as elementary school. But there was never any action on it, because it was, you know, I became a Christian when I was 12, and... Toby Jenkins: What was your family background? Terry Baxter: My dad was a Methodist, my mother was a Baptist. My mother grew up in South Georgia, where they still have Confederate statues in the park. And my dad grew up in Chicago, so we had a blended, so we would go one week to the Baptist church, one week to the Methodist church, back and forth. And one time, my sister and brother and I just got together and said, we wanna join a church. And they said, well, which one do you wanna join? We said, the Methodist church. So I guess we were progressives even back then as kids. But, and later on in life, one of the interim pastors at my current church, when we were going between pastors, asked, how did you reconcile being gay with being Christian? And I said, well, there was never a reason to reconcile it, because I was Christian first, before I was sexual, anything. And then when I became having a sexual awareness, it was just another part of me. It had nothing to do with my Christianity. And so there was nothing for me to reconcile with. It was for other people to reconcile. Toby Jenkins: It wasn't a faith struggle? Terry Baxter: I never had a faith struggle, because God loved me, and it had nothing to do with my sex or the color of my hair or anything. So in high school, I didn't. I mean, it was funny that I found out about all these people that were gay, who they must have known each other was gay, but I never knew it. But I was the good kid that would go to, I'd go to school. After school was over, the church we went to was across the street from the school. So we'd go over there in the youth room and play pool and listen to records, early 70s records, Led Zeppelin and all that stuff on the turntable. So- �10 Barry Hensley: And you're still friends with those folks? Terry Baxter: Yeah. Went 50th reunion, and I mean, a couple of them we visited when we were in San Diego. AndBarry Hensley: Visiting another one next week in Portland. Terry Baxter: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: And this, you would have graduated from Fort Worth High School? Terry Baxter: Yeah, Paschal High School in Fort Worth. Toby Jenkins: And that would have been what year? Terry Baxter: 72. Toby Jenkins: And how many would have been in your graduating class? How big was that? Terry Baxter: 830. Toby Jenkins: So it was a large...is that a suburban school? Terry Baxter: It was the original Fort Worth High School, and it's not downtown, but it's close to downtown, and they built other schools as the city grew out. And so it was... and then at the time, I would have had 1,200 people in my graduating class, but the year I was a senior, they split, they built a new school, and some of the people went to that school. Toby Jenkins: So you went from there to Arlington to school, right into college? Terry Baxter: Right, right into college. I moved into a dorm, didn't know anybody, had a strange roommate. He brought a deep fat fryer into the room, because that's what he wanted to cook with, because his parents owned some kind of restaurant in Tyler, Texas, and he grew up eating deep fat fried everything. I'm just thinking about that deep fat fryer and all that grease and everything in the dorm room, and the smell. Barry Hensley: Don't think they allow that now. Terry Baxter: No, I don't either. I had a hot plate so I could heat up my soup. That was before microwaves. Toby Jenkins: So in college, did you begin to explore your sexuality? Terry Baxter: Yeah, when I went to college, I realized in high school that I was gay, but I didn't, I don't think I called it that. I just liked guys, and I didn't call myself a homosexual, as some people did. So I went to college, and I just, the guy that I told you a little bit about earlier, I met him, and we became friends and boyfriends, and we were, gosh, several years during school. Then when I graduated, he was still in school one more year, and two more years, and I moved to Plano because I got a job in Plano, and so we weren't living together anymore, �11 and we decided it would be okay for us to just break up and be friends. And then, interestingly, when I moved back to Dallas, we got back together, and then we just kind of drifted apart, partly because I was living with him when I met Barry, so Barry broke us up. And we would go to the bars. The Old, Old Plantation that was on Harwood in Dallas, we would go there on Sundays right after about two o'clock in the afternoon for the tea dance. You'd pay a dollar cover, well drinks are ten cents, and they fed you a good meal. They had an actual cook there that would make turkey and dressing and green beans one week, or fried chicken another week, and so basically for a couple bucks, you'd have a whole afternoon of socializing and dancing and eating, and you'd go there at 2 in the afternoon and go home Sunday night at 2 in the morning and hope you can get to work the next day. Dennis Neill: Terry, while you were at the University, what was your major or your extracurricular activities, and was there an organized gay community as part of the student campus life? Terry Baxter: If there was an organized community, I think that organized after Barry was there. Barry Hensley: Yes, I was part of it. Terry Baxter: Yeah, he helped start it, so there wasn't an organized gay community when I first started. Toby Jenkins: Visible, there wasn't a visible… Terry Baxter: Yeah, there wasn't an organized, I'm sure, right, and there was only one bar in Arlington, Texas, and it started up when I was a junior. So, you know, Tim was a, he wouldn't care, Tim was my, the guy I was dating at the time, was a film major, and I was a biology major, except I took all my other subjects were business classes, interestingly. My goal was to become a doctor, but that didn't happen because I didn't have perfect grades. I still talk too much, and it was during an era when the state medical schools in Texas were really striving to get women and minorities into the medical field because they'd always been kind of white men, and so even when I would have an interview, I could tell that they were just interviewing because they should, and not because they were really looking for another white guy to put into medical school. So I was taking business classes. Anyway, there wasn't an official recognition of it at the time. Barry can tell you about when he started it. I went to Plano because I had worked as a teller in banks when I was in school all the time and that's how I got kind of into financial stuff and I decided, since I had a biology degree and a minor in chemistry, I should at least try to use that degree somewhere. So I went to Plano, Texas, where Anderson Clayton Foods- which got bought up by Kraft ultimately- but they're the ones who had Chiffon margarine- it's not nice to fool mother nature- and Seven Seas Green Goddess salad dressing and all that kind of stuff and Mrs �12 Tucker's shortening. It was a viable company, and I went there and did my job to develop imitation cheese products and it was interesting at first. But then I realized that standing in a lab by myself all day in a lab coat, making minute adjustments to recipes to create imitation cheese and then holding panels for people to taste them and say which one's better and using that as your path to make it better, and not having any communication with people- I was in the lab eight hours a day by myself and I'm a talker and it's hard to talk to the blender that's blending up your imitation cheese. Barry Hensley: But to this day we'll be in the grocery store and he'll grab something. He'll look at it, look at all the chemicals in it and verbalize: oh, this one's okay, oh, you shouldn't have this. You know, put that back on the shelf. So he knows stuff. Terry Baxter: And when I was at a restaurant one time, I said the cheese in this is imitation and it's not a good one. And Barry said: how can you tell? I said because it tastes like a barnyard and it's just…You know, you develop the sensitivity to those things. I decided to go back into the banking business and moved back into Dallas and worked at a small bank- metro bank- in downtown Dallas and the lady who I worked with, the supervisor of the drive-in that I was working in, felt threatened by me, not in a physical sense but because I was smart and quick and being noticed by the management of the place. So her daughter got me an interview at MCI in the credit department, and I interviewed there and got that job. So I'd say it made her feel better and it made me feel better because it was a much better paying job and I was with MCI four and a half years. They transferred me, eight months before I quit, to Washington DC and I lived in Arlington, Virginia. And then they wanted to transfer me to New York and pay me the same thing they were paying in Washington DC, and I couldn't figure out how to afford living in New York on the same salary in Washington DC. Barry couldn't find a job in Washington, DC because he had come relocated temporarily- it's turned out to be, and so we both packed up our bags, put Grandma on top of that truck and drove to Hollywood- no, drove to Tulsa, and then we're out of work for most of the summer. But I got a pretty good severance package because they were doing a reorganization and so if you could not be in a place, fit you in the reorganization, they would give you a severance package. It was a couple weeks of pay for every year you worked for them, all your vacation and all your sick leave, and so that was pretty good. Barry Hensley: We'd moved to Tulsa and my mom was here and I had a lot of friends here. Terry didn't know anybody, so it was new to him. This is spring of 85. And so that summer we're trying to find jobs, and we ended up living at the Harvard Terrace Apartments at 26th and Harvard. I don't know how many people we know have gone through those apartments at some point in their lives. Toby Jenkins: They are great apartments. Terry Baxter: They still are. �13 Barry Hensley: It was 250 bucks a month. We didn't have jobs, they didn't care, as long as we could pay it. Terry Baxter: And then, of course, we signed the lease and I go: uh-oh, it says we can't have pets. She said, oh, don't worry about that, and she scratched it out because we had cats. Barry Hensley: So very nice place to live, but that got us through the summer. Dennis Neill: So how did you decide on Tulsa as opposed to your home state of Texas? Terry Baxter: Dallas had gotten really big. Fort Worth was beginning to become the right-wing bastion that it is today, and so I, just after having lived in Washington DC and spent my weekends on DuPont Circle, had the bookstore and stuff like that it was, I'd rather go to some place that hadn't grown up yet than go to a place that grew up wrong. So, and Barry's mother was here. Barry Hensley: She'd had some health issues, she'd had a heart attack. Terry Baxter: Oh, I guess I should go back. My parents had disowned me, so I guess I better go back and say how that came about. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, give us that real quick and then we'll get Barry's background. Terry Baxter: Yeah, because Barry can talk about Arlington and start again. But anyway, when I was working at the bank, I worked part-time at Sears in the credit office, and another worker at the credit office who— Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Is this while you were in college? Terry Baxter: Yeah. So I worked two jobs in college. And we were just talking to each other. And the sister of my brother's wife—so I guess whatever, she's not related to me—but my brother's wife's sister saw us talking together, and I guess he or I made some movement that made her think we were faggy. And so she told my brother's wife. And so one Saturday night when I got off work, I usually would go stop by my parents, because they had moved to Arlington at the time, sold their house in Fort Worth, moved to Arlington. And I'd go by their house just to visit for a little while, and then I would drive back to Dallas to go live where I live. I got there, and my brother and his wife were there, and there was a confrontation of— and to this day, I don't know what my sister-in-law thought she was going to get out of it, but she felt it necessary to tell my parents that I was gay, even though she didn't know for sure, but she made assumptions that happened to be correct. And it was not a good situation. I didn't speak to my father for ten years after that, because he wouldn't speak to me. My mother, I would send letters, and occasionally she would write a little note back, got your letter. But I never did understand that, but I couldn't drive home, because I was so shaken, because I didn't know what to say, because I didn't come out, because I knew it would bother them. But there was no reason to come out, because what I was doing �14 when I wasn't at home was not affecting them at all, but my sister-in-law had decided to make it affect them, which I thought was not in their best interest or mine. So luckily, Tim, who we'd been boyfriends and now we're just friends, was still at UTA, and I drove from their house to his place and stayed there overnight, because I just wasn't up to driving all the way back to Dallas with that going on. And so that's how I came out, or I was outed. In work situations, it wasn't officially don't ask, don't tell, but there was no reason to talk about it, because it was work. I think I didn't come out at the city until I was in, probably it was about four years before I retired, and we were in a meeting, and we were talking about something, and my boss said, well, what did you and your wife do? And I said, I don't have a wife, I'm gay. And that was the first time I said it out loud, because nobody else had ever asked. And she was like, you are? Oh, well, I don't know, it didn't mean anything, and she wasn't prejudiced about it or anything. But everybody else just knew, even though we never talked about it, because it was a state of being, not a thing. It was, you know, that's who I was. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: This was about four years before you retired, so that would have been about what year? Terry Baxter: About 2014. And every other place, I did my job better than most people do their jobs. I kept getting promotions. Every time I took a different job in the city, I had 12 different jobs, and that was to get more money, because if you work for the city, you don't get pay raises in place. You might get a 2% raise or 3% raise, but if you take a new position that's higher grade, you get a 10% raise. Barry Hensley: And you're still in the pension plan. Terry Baxter: And that's giving you more retirement and more of that. So I took advantage of the opportunities. I only used the opportunities once to escape, and I took a downgrade at that time to escape from a particular boss who was kind of like one of his later bosses. She loved you when you weren't working for her, but once you worked for her, she hated you if she hadn't hired you. And she tried to demote me, because I did not report into office when I was on jury duty. And I said, the city policy doesn't require you to report to work when you're on jury duty. And she says, well, that doesn't matter. I expect you to come to work. So I got with her boss and said, we can keep this in the family, and you can tell her that she doesn't have the right to do that, or I can go to HR and make this public to everybody that she's violating city policy by telling me I have to report to work when I'm on jury duty. And she said, that doesn’t matter, I expect you to come to work. I got with her boss and said, we can keep this in the family and you can tell her she doesn’t have the right, or I can go to HR and make this public that she is violating city policy by telling me I have to report to work when I am on jury duty. He took care of it. And so that was, but then I knew that I wasn't gonna, I was persona non grata with her from then forward. So I left the finance department and went to the fire department. �15 Toby Jenkins: What was your family's objection? I mean, were they embarrassed by it? Was it a religious objection over your sexuality? Was it political… Terry Baxter: I never got a good explanation from them. Dennis Neill: Was there a reconciliation over these years, the four players in that scene? Terry Baxter: When my dad got cancer and was dying, my mother decided that we should be able to, I should be able to see him before he died. Barry Hensley: It's 1990. Terry Baxter: And so I went back, spent some time at Thanksgiving, and spent some time at Christmas, and he died in January, 1st of January, not on the 1st, but in the 1st week of January. And that was the only, and he was already kind of not there because of the medication. And so it wasn't really a reconciliation. It was just a, you should not be able to see your father before he dies, and he should not be able to see you. SoBarry Hensley: We're friends with the brother now. Terry Baxter: Yeah, now. My mother, it tookBarry Hensley: His mother, okay. So she allowed him to come see his dad as he was dying in 1990. We had already been together ten years at that time. She did not allow me to come meet her or any of the family until 2002. We'd been together 22 years before she allowed me to meet the family. And I went downTerry Baxter: And she liked him better than me. Barry Hensley: And met the family, and they were lovely people, and this has been great ever since. So we've just wasted a lot of years. Toby Jenkins: This is profound, and I wanna make sure viewers capture that part of it. The alienation from the family, the family reject you, but yet apparently you stay somehow connected to them. Terry Baxter: Yeah, I would send birthday cards, but I always got them backwards until my dad finally said, I came first. Barry Hensley: Right. Terry Baxter: Cuz his birthday was September 16th, and hers was October 23rd. But I would always think it was her birthday on September 23rd, and his on October 16th. And so he said, in both cases, I came first, September, and 16 comes before 23. So then I finally knew how to figure out whose birthday card I was sending. But I tried to keep in touch. My sister and I kept in touch. My brother and I didn't for quite some years. But we do now. Toby Jenkins: Let's find out about Barry. Tell us a little bit about your childhood, your family background. Because if I understand, you were a Tulsan. �16 Barry Hensley: I was. My grandfather, my mother's father, left the extreme poverty of southern Missouri in 1915. Excuse me, 1910, and he was 15 years old. And he was hitchhiking to California, because that's where you went back then. And he made it to Yale, Oklahoma, ran out of money, turned around and came back to Tulsa, because that was the closest big city. And he stayed there the rest of his life. He went to World War I, came back and started the Moulder, Oldham Janitorial Supply Company, which was at 219 North Denver, which is where the jail is now, the county jail. And he had that business until he died in 1975. So my mom was born in 1930, and she and my dad got together. My grandmother was a very hard-nosed woman. She was a difficult mother, apparently, I have heard from her kids and from other family members back in the 40s into the 50s. She was a really difficult personality. By the time I came along in the 60s, she had mellowed a lot. She was a big supporter of mine, and I appreciated her a lot. But I knew I didn't want to do anything to cross her. So when I was a teenager, if someone suggested that you do some stupid teenage thing to get in trouble or whatever, I'd say, I can't do that. Grandmother will kill me. So that's how I stayed out of trouble, was having the invisible grandmother looking over my shoulder at that moment. But yeah, my parents bought the house we're living in now over near 21st and Lewis. It's not the big fancy houses on the south side. It's the little bungalows on the north side, although we did a big renovation on it when my mom died. But they bought that house in 1951, and that's where I grew up, went to Barnard Elementary, my beloved Barnard Elementary. My parents divorced. I was very young. Dad had already remarried and moved to Dallas by the time I was five, so I don't remember him at the house at all, and he had distanced himself quite a bit. Nice guy, and he would come up and see me and my brother. My brother was developmentally disabled, just the two of us, and Dad would come up on the holidays, you know, when you're in elementary school, Thanksgiving and whatever, the 4th of July. And we'd go down and spend a week or two in Dallas every summer with him and his new family. Toby Jenkins: Did he still continue to financially support the family? Barry Hensley: Not, no. Nope, nope, nope. He was supposed to. He did his own, well, he had his own family, and his new wife, bless her heart, she was a, he had a tiger by the tail there, so he had to provide for the two new boys that he ended up with when he married her. But yeah, I grew up at Barnard, and after Dad left, Mom, it's just Mom and I, because David, my brother, was off at school, as you called it back then, he was at school. He went to Hissom and some other places. But Mom had some issues. She had some demons that she had a hard time overcoming, and it's one of those things where the kid becomes the parent, you know, elementary school sort of thing. So there were, I didn't choke up here, because Barnard, that was my refuge. That was the place that I got away from the real world, and I loved it so much. And when it burned down, that just about killed me, even though it had been decades, you know, decades �17 after that. But it was a really good experience working at working, thank you, working at, or going to school at Barnard. Lifelong friends I still have. And then junior high school, I went to Holland Hall. The family decided that was a spot. My uncles had gone to Cascia, and Holland Hall seemed like a good alternative, and so I went. It was at the old campus at 26th and Birmingham. Toby Jenkins: Were you all Episcopal or… Barry Hensley: No, we were Presbyterian. Yeah, so grew up in the First Presbyterian Church downtown. I was in the choir, children's choir, and we participated. Mom distanced herself from it. She didn't really like it that much anymore, even though that's where she had grown up as well. My grandparents were already there when they built that building in 1925. So their names are all over the place down there. But grandmother still liked to go, and after granddaddy died, and I got my driver's license, I would take her down on Sunday mornings, and Dr. Wiseman was there then, and she liked him a lot. Toby Jenkins: Legend. Barry Hensley: Yeah, and but I think I was 17 or 18, and it wasn't Dr. Wiseman, it was a guest minister that week, and who went on this anti-gay tirade. Absolute tirade, and I'm sitting there looking at this. I'm thinking, this guy is nuts. This is crazy. The stuff he's saying is just not even true. Toby Jenkins: You were in high school? Barry Hensley: I was in high school. I was probably 17, and I probably hadn't really come to grips with my sexuality necessarily. You did what you did back then. You know, I'd go take a girl to the you know, dance and to the sweetheart ball or whatever, and those lovely young ladies, I'm still friends with every one of them. They are wonderful people. But yeah, so after that... Terry Baxter: And now they know why he didn't go any farther than just taking them to the dance. Barry Hensley: I was safe. Yeah, their mothers liked me. But after that event at First Prez, I still took Grandmother because she wanted to go, but I knew that I was not going to end up at First Prez, and Mom had already left. She had been exploring some other places, and so we'll talk about College Hill here in a minute. Dennis Neill: So Barry, how did your mother provide for you all? Barry Hensley: It was a difficult situation. She... My grandparents basically provided for us. Mom was... She was capable of holding a job, but as I say, these demons would get involved, and it made it really difficult. She worked for the Tulsa County Health Department for several years, off and on, sometimes part-time, that sort of thing. So I think the finances... You don't know it when you're that age, you know, but yeah, I mean, we got food on the table, but I had an entire... I had an entire group that helped raise �18 me. The two little ladies across the street, they were sisters, elderly sisters, and I would go spend time over there. I'd sleep over there. They'd feed me. They'd take me on trips with them. You know, the neighborhood and the family would step in when Mom wasn't able to do that, and I am forever grateful for all those folks coming together when I needed them. But it was funny. I keep thinking back now. I never got the talk from either of my parents, you know. You're just supposed to find out how the world works sexually on your own. Terry Baxter: Except his mother working in the health department. Barry Hensley: That's what I'm going to tell you about. So she does these county health fairs around Tulsa County. And so my education was all the stuff she left in the back of the car, which were brochures and fake breasts where you determine where the lumps are and all of those sorts of things. Because that's what she was doing, educating young women was her primary job. So I had all of this information in the backseat of the car. That was the talk. Yes, it was so funny. Toby Jenkins: You had more than most anybody else. Barry Hensley: Yeah, it didn't occur to me to go to the library. I should have done that. But I was at Holland Hall for three years, and then one year at the new campus. The new campus, been there 50 years now out on Yale at 81st Street. Good friends there, lifelong friends I made there. And then I went to Edison for 10th, 11th, and 12th grade. And we were just across… We were north of 21st Street, so we weren't in the Edison district. We were in the Central District. And at that time, Central had just moved from the building downtown where PSO is now, way the heck out, south of Gilcrease, their new campus out there. And mom said, I am not taking you all the way out there. Terry Baxter: Not that she took you to Edison. Barry Hensley: And Rogers was so close, it made no sense the way the lines were drawn. And Edison was literally two miles south of us. Terry Baxter: And it was because the railroad track that goes down to Broken Arrow Expressway, before the highway was there, was the dividing line, because kids could not cross railroad tracks to go to school. Terry Baxter: Yeah, my grandmother lived at 26th and Columbia. And so we used her address. And nobody was any wiser. Dennis Neill: And I think one of your good friends growing up was Scott Goodpaster. Barry Hensley: Indeed. Dennis Neill: Can you talk when you first met Scott? Barry Hensley: Yes. So at Edison, again, a bunch of lifelong friends, wonderful people. Toby Jenkins: Let me ask this real quick. So what year did you graduate? �19 Barry Hensley: 78. Toby Jenkins: 78. And how many were in your graduating class at Edison? Barry Hensley: Maybe 700, maybe. Terry Baxter: I can't remember exactly. Toby Jenkins: Still a big school. Barry Hensley: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: OK, now talk about your high school friends. Barry Hensley: So yeah, so several high school friends. Scott was a good one. I met him pretty quickly. We were 16. He just passed away. He turned into the most incredible artist and most incredible landscaper, gardener, just unbelievable. His yard is pristine. And when he died back in May, his family was so generous. None of them lived here. But they all came in to do all these arrangements. And they allowed me to take some plants out of his yard, which just really, so I sit in the backyard now. We have plants from friends, neighbors, co-workers, family, all of these plants, perennials. So I see them every year. And I sit out there in the evenings with an adult beverage and just toast the world. Terry Baxter: That was, we learned to do that during COVID and ever since then… Barry Hensley: We still do it. Yeah, I love it so much. But Scott was a golden boy. He was a handsome guy. Everybody wanted to be his friend. And he was a very private, very private guy. His best friend, who then became one of my best friends, was Stephen Breckenridge. Stephen was the great grandson of Waite and Genevieve Phillips, of Philbrook fame. And Stephen was a wild child. He was funny, everybody loved him. And that's part of it. He managed to get through school, I think, without being bullied. And the same way I did. I never got bullied. Because I think we subconsciously at that time realized that if you could make the bullies laugh, they wouldn't beat you up. So you did, you came up with humor, was the way that you diffused those situations. And Stephen was a prime example of that. And he was a hoot. So he was in theater, so I was in the theater stuff, and enjoyed that a lot. Toby Jenkins: So Steve Breckenridge, Scott Goodpaster, you’re all at Edison. Was anybody telling anybody that they had same-sex attraction? Barry Hensley: Yeah, yeah, there was a group of us, theater guys, you know. We... You know, you started experimenting when you were 16, 17 years old. Toby Jenkins: So, you know, there were high school kids at Edison that you were friends, lifelong friends, and you had figured it out by then. Barry Hensley: I had. �20 Toby Jenkins: And they had also. Terry Baxter: Yeah, I think so. Terry Baxter: Especially Stephen . Barry Hensley: Yeah, especially Stephen. I had never come out to my parents. I never did that. We never had a discussion about it. I lived my life the way I wanted to. I took the girls, as I said, to the dances and whatnot. Terry Baxter: But they did know because when we moved into our first house, his dad and I were working on basically stuff you do when you want to. Barry Hensley: Carpentry. Terry Baxter: Carpentry stuff. Toby Jenkins: That's right, because your father lived in Texas. Terry Baxter: Yeah, they didn't know. And he would come up here and he helped us. And we were planing the bottom of a door. And Gene just said, I'm glad Barry ended up with somebody like you. And I guess I took it meaning, because I knew how to do that woodwork and all that kind of stuff. But he also said, ended up with someone like you, which made it obvious that he wasn't confused about what our relationship was. Barry Hensley: He was a great guy. He just wanted me to be happy. I appreciated that. Toby Jenkins: So you were in high school. You've got this circle of friends. You were in theater and. . . Bary Hensley: Yeah, pretty much. I had been a soccer kid at Holland Hall, but didn't really do much in the gym at Edison. Graduated in 78. And Scott and another friend, Ben Crockett, and I decided to go to Oklahoma State University that fall. It would be the fall of 78. So we went. And you'll find this funny about Scott. So Ben and I got a dorm room together in Parker dorm. Scott pledged a fraternity. And we hadn't been at school more than probably a week or ten days. And one night after midnight, our dorm room door, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam. And it's Scott. And we open the door and he says, I am not going through this initiation ceremony. And we said, good for you. It's like we could have told you that was going to happen. But anyway, he slept on the floor that night and managed to get a room in our dorm, the other end of the hall. And these are the old-fashioned dorms where you have one central bathroom, you know, with the shower stalls and everything. And so Ben and I would get your towel and walk down the hall in your underwear with your bar of soap. And that was about it. And there comes Scott, who has his long robe on and his slippers. And he has a satchel over his shoulder going to the shower. Terry Baxter: Full of products. �21 Barry Hensley: Full of moisturizers and all of those sorts of things, cleansers of one kind or another. He was so careful about his skin. So it was a lot of fun. Toby Jenkins: He probably had a subscription to GQ magazine. Barry Hensley: Oh, yes, of course. No, he turned me on to GQ magazine back in the 70s. You bet. So we're at Oklahoma State University. And I decided it wasn't a very good fit, although it was kind of funny. I have a picture of it. So this was the era of Farrah Fawcett. You know, that poster of her and Linda Carter as Wonder Woman. And all the guys had all that up in their dorms. And I have this huge poster of Judy Garland at the Palace in 1967 on my wall at OSU. But again, I didn't get bullied about it. They were just completely confused, having no idea what it was. Terry Baxter: Who is that old lady on your wall? Barry Hensley: Yeah, that was pretty fun. So I decided that that wasn't where I wanted to stay the rest of my college career and that I hadn't really known my dad very well. And so he was in Dallas, and I decided to go to—I went down to several schools down there. I could use in-state tuition since he lived in Dallas and started going to UTA. UTA is a commuter school, so the weekends are pretty dull. People live everywhere else except for Terry and a handful of people in the dorms. It's empty on the weekends. So I'd go back to my dad's house on the weekends. My stepmother, bless her heart, would do my laundry. And so I would get to know them a little better. And this would be the fall of 79 I started at UTA. And quickly discovered, as you do when you're 19, 20, 21, I think it was in 1981, I would have been 21, and there was a group of us. We weren't best friends, but we kind of recognized each other as gay. And UT Austin, there had been some stuff coming out about their sort of gay-straight alliance, whatever it was called at that time, and we didn't have one. And we needed our little group. We got together at the one bar that Terry was talking about in Arlington to strategize about how we approach the administration about recognizing our organization. We went through all of this stuff and had to go through all of these, you know, bylaws and all these things to make sure that we fit the criteria for what they needed so they couldn't say no. And we did. We went through that process and I remember, I'll remember to this day, sitting outside the door. Only one of us could go in to make the presentation to the, whatever, the president and the board or whatever it was called. And the rest of us were sitting out in the lobby area just, you know, sweating like crazy. And he came out with a great big smile on his face. And that was the first recognition of a gay group at the University of Texas at Arlington. So that was very exciting. Dennis Neill: Do you recall your acronym? Barry Hensley: I don't. I don't know what it was called. It wasn't the Gay-Straight Alliance. We had a different name for it. But, it didn't do a lot. We didn't do a lot of, I mean, we'd have like a booth maybe, you know, at events and such. Terry Baxter: Registration. �22 Barry Hensley: Right. But I don't remember being really active that much. And I wasn't living on campus. Dennis Neill: When I interviewed Tom Neal, he talked about being active and helping form a group at OU. Was he also involved in this effort? Barry Hensley: No, I don't think so. I don't remember him being involved in that. No, I don't remember that. Terry Baxter: He was in graduate school and so he was not involved with the same people that Barry was. Barry Hensley: But when I was first at UTA, I lived just off campus in a little apartment. And that's when we were forming this organization. By the time I was living with Tom and Laurie and Al in Dallas, it was already in existence by the time we were commuting every day. So I got my degree in communications in 1983. And as Terry said, you know, went to work for MCI. And we came back to Tulsa in the summer of 85. And Terry had an interview at the city of Tulsa. And at that time, the city offices were [where the] the Aloft Hotel [is now]. Toby Jenkins: So why did you come back to Tulsa? Barry Hensley: Well, the cost of living is very inexpensive. And my mom was having some health issues. So we didn't live with her in the summer of 85. Terry Baxter: And we didn't want to go back to Texas. Barry Hensley: Yeah. And I still hadn't met Terry's family or anything. So there wasn't too much reason for me to be involved there. But anyway, so Terry has an interview at the city of Tulsa. There's a parking lot between that building and the Central Library. And so I'm sitting in the car. Toby Jenkins: Because in those days, City Hall was... Barry Hensley: Where the Aloft is now. Toby Jenkins: Civic Center. Yeah. Barry Hensley: 100 Civic Center. Right. The library is 300, I think, Civic Center. 400. 400 Civic Center. So I'm sitting there in the parking lot. And I'm staring at the Aloft Hotel, the city of Tulsa. And while Terry's having his interview, I didn't have a job either. And back then, if you needed a job, you had a trunk full of resumes. You know? And if something looked interesting or you saw a sign somewhere, you'd go in and talk to them. So I popped the trunk and I got a resume. And I went up to the fourth floor. That's where the business office was then. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: At the library? Barry Hensley: At the library. I didn't have any library experience. You know, I'm 25 years old. And the personnel director happened to be standing there at the little desk, talking to some of the staff. And she introduced herself and said, Well, I have a few minutes. Come on in. �23 And so I did. And she is still alive. She's having her 90th birthday next month. Lovely lady. And my life would not have been the same without her. Because she got me an interview, first of all, with Wayne Hardy in the Media Center. Which is where I really wanted to work. Because it was not books. It was movies and music and all the stuff that I really loved. I was into all the golden era of Hollywood and all of those things. And Wayne, very unwisely, turned me down. Because there was a former staff member that applied also, so he hired her back. I didn't understand it. But anyway, the personnel director then sent me out to Hardesty, which was then by Woodland Hills Mall, across from Dillard's at Woodland Hills Mall. And I got the job out there without one day of library experience. I started as a library associate. Terry Baxter: And we were in Eureka Springs when you got called saying you needed to come to work on Monday. Barry Hensley: I needed to come to work on Monday. So it was a very exciting time. I started in September of 85. Terry started in October of 85 at the City. He got a job there. Terry Baxter: They didn't want to hire me at first because I was overqualified. Toby Jenkins: So, City employee, and it was County-City… Barry Hensley: City-County employee, yeah. But we both are part of the same retirement system. Toby Jenkins: So you're part of the pension, the City, the County pension, or the City? Terry Baxter: It's the City one. Barry Hensley: The library had to make a choice decades ago and they went with the City. Terry Baxter: The City and the County formed them as a joint thing with their own board and all that kind of stuff. They kind of chose the parts that they wanted from each organization. Toby Jenkins: So they have the health department, some other things. Barry Hensley: I wanted to go back to something real quick because I thought it was, I thought it was interesting. You asked to put, have notes in, so I do. I realized after we moved back to Tulsa that my mom's, many of my mom's friends, I had known all my life, I had seen them in and out and, you know, they were just her friends from high school, mainly, and a couple of those guys were gay. And I, we sort of started realizing that and I thought it was so interesting that she, I think it was a don't ask, don't tell sort of situation, you know, back then. But these guys would step up and they would, you know, escort mom or her other friends to events or whatever. So, you know, I think that, I think it was a win-win situation. But I remember one of them, John, John Raveill, he was a Prime Timer here and he was, he and mom were good buddies from Central High School on. �24 And he told me one time, I just thought this was interesting, back in the 60s, back in the good old days, they would go, he and his buddies would go to, I think it was called the Taj Mahal, down on 7th Street, across from the Holiday Inn. And when they would get done, you know, middle of the night, late, the police would be waiting for them. And I'm so grateful for the police officers now. I always thank them at the pride parades and whatever else because they're so supportive and so helpful. Not so back then. So John said what would happen is his buddy would go through the door, the police officer would intercept him and order him to walk across the street. And so he would walk across the street and be promptly arrested for jaywalking. And John said, aha. So when the officer ordered him to do that, he walked to the corner to walk across with the light, where he was promptly arrested for disobeying an officer. So that was the environment that those guys had to live in. Toby Jenkins: Police harassment. Barry Hensley: It was harassment. Very basic harassment. So I was so grateful that, you know, things have changed through the years, yes. So are you ready for the library? Dennis Neill: Well, when you first came here in 1985, did you get connected with the gay community at that time? Or were you pretty isolated from the community? Barry Hensley: My old friends were the gay community for us. And we weren't bar guys. We didn't go out and do that. Terry Baxter: We would have friends over to Barry's mother's pool. And she would have all her friends and we'd have our friends. So there'd be 40 people at the pool every Sunday. Half of her friends, and almost all of our friends, were gay. But it was an interesting mixture of people. Dennis Neill: So TOHR wasn't part of your early introduction to the community, Barry Hensley: Not at that time. Terry Baxter: Only ancillarily, you know, like Tom's bookstore, we'd go there every once in a while to get stuff. But it was funny. Toby Jenkins: Did you attend any of the meetings at the library? Barry Hensley: I don't remember doing that, no. Terry Baxter: We went to the Red Ribbon Gala several times, until it became more of a social outlet instead of a fundraiser cause. Toby Jenkins: Did you ever attend the Pride Picnics? Terry Baxter: Yeah. Barry Hensley: Oh, yeah. Terry Baxter: He has a story about that. �25 Barry Hensley: Well, so I'm at the library in 1994, 25th anniversary of the Stonewall situation. And the library had never had a display of Pride anything. Yeah, I don't know if you can see that or not. But that's the first Pride display at the library in 1994. I had gone to the Central Library Manager at that time, my boss, John. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Did you still work at Hardesty? Barry Hensley: I had moved down to Central. I had been an interlibrary loan at Central in the late 80s and then moved to the Circulation Department. I managed the Circulation Department when this transpired, and then I went out to what was then West Regional and became the Zarrow Regional Library at 51st and Union. I was there for 21 years, and then I became a Regional Director and moved back to Central and was in charge of half the branches, the North and West branches. I went to John and asked if I could do this display, and he said, sure. So I commandeered this display unit, which was outside of... Toby Jenkins: Were you out to John? Did John know you were gay? Barry Hensley: Oh, we never talked about it, but sure. And the library staff were always, I mean, Terry was just with me. There was never any discussion. The library was a very supportive environment without necessarily verbalizing it, I think, at that time. And so I went around and found these books. This was in the South Foyer outside of Aaronson Auditorium, one of the old 1960s, the original display units. And at that time, Bruce Bower's A Place at the Table had been a big book. There were several things, and I thought that the 25th anniversary of Stonewall was a good opportunity to do a display. And at that time, analog…to get magazine articles that I wanted to put in the display on the other side, I had to go to the periodicals department. I got big binders of books, of magazines. You find Life magazine, you find Newsweek, you find the articles, you take them to the photocopier. You cut and you paste, and very analog. But I got the information out there, man. And so this display went up, and I hadn't heard any response about it, which I thought was fine. And then John caught me on the elevator a couple weeks after it went up. And he said, oh, I got a comment about your display. And I was kind of steeling myself for whatever that comment would be. He said, yeah, this guy pulled me over, and he said, oh man, thank you so much for putting up that Stonewall Jackson display. And I was thinking, Stonewall Jackson, 25 years ago? Is it really? Terry Baxter: He obviously didn't read what was in there. Barry Hensley: But I'll take it. Terry Baxter: He just saw the word Stonewall. Barry Hensley: So anyway, that was the first one. Toby Jenkins: And no protest? You had nobody? Barry Hensley: No, no. Nobody said a word. �26 Toby Jenkins: That is astonishing. Barry Hensley: Nobody said a word. Toby Jenkins: Maybe everybody thought it was Stonewall Jackson. Barry Hensley: Yeah, maybe. Dennis Neill: Did it make the media? Barry Hensley: Not that I recall. Terry Baxter: I think Tom said something in TFN about it. Barry Hensley: So yeah, so what happened after that was, I was on a roll. So Tom Neal had started the Tulsa Family News. I got approval to have a library column every month in the Tulsa Family News, the new books, the new, you know, whatever we were getting relating to the community. So I did that for as long as he had TFN. And there was some, there was a little kerfuffle about the distribution, because I don't think the library administration at that time wanted to go overboard on all of this. And so they found a loophole in the laws, the library rules and regulations, that we could not distribute to the branches and whatnot…You know, they have, in the lobbies, there are display units that have magazines and newspapers and that sort of thing. If it wasn't a Tulsa-oriented piece of publication. And at that time, Tom was getting blackballed by the local publishers in the city of Tulsa. He had to go to the city of Claremore, where he found someone to publish his newspaper. He would go up there and get it and drive it back and distribute it wherever he wanted to. And that was the loophole. It was in Claremore, it was published in Claremore, not in Tulsa. So the library decided they didn't need to do that. Well, after quite a bit of, if you know Tom, he doesn't take that sort of thing well. So eventually it rectified itself and we were able to distribute it to all the locations in Tulsa County, all the libraries in Tulsa County, which was very cool. But that also was the beginning of having a booth, a library booth, at the Pride events. So we had a booth at Mohawk, we had a booth at Owen Park. Terry Baxter: We had a picnic table. Barry Hensley: That's right, a picnic table with a rainbow flag that we bought across it, that's right, and a homemade sign. And a few books. Terry Baxter: And this table was slowly sinking into the mud. Barry Hensley: Yeah, at Mohawk Park, that was a soggy one, yes, I remember that. And at Owen Park, I remember, I know we were there at the summer of 1996, because over the intercom, they would play music and Ella Fitzgerald came on, and that's when we realized that Ella Fitzgerald had died that day. So I can't complain exactly. She was one of my heroes. Oh my god, it was so exciting when we were living in Dallas. Terry was my sugar daddy, sort of, you know. �27 He had a job at the time. I was a starving college student, and the Fairmont Hotel had a place called the Venetian Room. It was a showroom. For 25 bucks, you could have dinner and a show. So he started taking me down there and I realized I had this record collection of great American songbook stuff and jazz, a lot, still have it, and I realized that I could take my album down there and get these performers to autograph them because they didn't have a green room at the showroom. The performer stayed in the hotel so they would come down and go back up the elevator, which was in the middle of the lobby, and that gave me an opportunity to intercept them before or after the show, and they were all very gracious, and I got to meet and get autographs from Carmen McRae and Sarah Vaughan and Ella Fitzgerald and Cab Calloway and, oh my gosh, it was so exciting, Mel Torme and George Shearing and Keeley Smith and so much - Peggy Lee. You all may remember Peter Athens. He was a good friend of ours and from Holland Hall, before I met him, and he was down there for our, when we went to see Peggy Lee, and so I hightailed it after the show to get Miss Lee to autograph my album. She was very gracious, and I came back and Peter was so funny. He said, I can't believe you stalked Peggy Lee. I said, I did not stalk Peggy Lee. I escorted Miss Lee to the elevator and managed to get an autograph while I was there, but those performers, you know, these huge names, they didn't have any entourage. There were no security guards or anything, and when we saw Torme, Mel Torme, there were three of us. There was Terry and his old friend Tim, our friend Tim, and me, and another friend named Barry, and we were on the front row, the four of us, and Shearing was playing the piano. He was playing a solo. Torme was standing on the stage, just kind of acknowledging the audience sort of thing, and he looked down at us, looked at the four of us, and he said, what, no dames? You got us there, Mel, you know. I thought if I had gotten my wits together, I would have said, no, they like Jack Jones, because he and Jack Jones were big rivals, you know, but anyway, sorry, that was a little diversion, but so when Ella Fitzgerald died, and we found out about it at the Pride picnic, it just broke my heart, but in fact, when the PAC opened, I took one of the girls from high school to see Ella Fitzgerald as the opening of the PAC, and we're still friends today. She and Terry sing together in the Tulsa Chorale, so it's... Toby Jenkins: So, just curious, the library is at the Pride picnics, you've done this, were y'all, was the senior management ever telling you that they were getting complaints, or people protesting? Barry Hensley: No, and if there were, they at that time were very good about saying just what we discussed earlier, which is, you know, the library is there for everybody. Dennis Neill: When did PFLAG or TOHR become involved in helping you with the displays? �28 Barry Hensley: That must have been after I left the Central Library, which would be in 95, so... Toby Jenkins: Because I was always led to believe it was Mary Waidner and Nancy McDonald who got the... Barry Hensley: Well, Mary was certainly there, she was certainly involved, she worked there, yeah. Yeah, but it was a fun time, an exciting time, you know, to be there, and now, you know, every Pride parade, there's the bookmobile, you know, we have to go say hi. Dennis Neill: You really laid the basis for that outreach by the public libraries into our community? Barry Hensley: Yeah, and we never had any problem getting staff to participate. It was like, oh sure, I'll come down and do that. Toby Jenkins: But you included the books in Tom's publication, making sure the community... Barry Hensley: Yep, whatever new materials came out. Toby Jenkins: ...we have his collection domain, Tom's… Dennis Neill: Yes, all of those newspapers are digitized and available to the public. Barry Hensley: Great, that's great. Well, my columns are in there every month. Toby Jenkins: So we can go back and look at his… Dennis Neill: And we have a video from when one of the news stations covered the library display, and it featured, I think, maybe Nancy in that discussion or somebody, so it was Channel 2, Channel 6, but you laid the basis for all of that opportunity to expose people to... Toby Jenkins: Thank you. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Thank you. Barry Hensley: It was very exciting. Terry Baxter: And that John, straight man who's in the library, says, oh yeah, go ahead. And that was kind of good, too. Toby Jenkins: I'm curious, because, I mean, it became a lifeline. It became my salvation, my deliverance to an authentic life. Why were there so many books in the library around these issues? Were they asking you to research this and find the books you all needed in your collection? How was that happening? Barry Hensley: Well, I'm sure Mary was a big part of that. I was not at that time. I wasn't a part of collection building in any way. I mean, anybody could recommend. You know that we get something. But there are national booksellers, you know, who contract with libraries and bookstores to get the newest releases and whatever, and the library will �29 put their parameters in. We would like to do releases on these topics and this and this and this, and it was kind of becoming, you know, in the mid-90s. It was kind of becoming a thing that was being discussed and so the library wanted to be on top of it and, as I say, I'm sure Mary was a part of that, making sure that because she was in… Dennis Neill: Well, and part of it, you might recall, is that Mary and Nancy worked together to raise money that we would contribute to help buy those books. Barry Hensley: Yeah, that's so cool. Dennis Neill: So we did that, both through PFLAG and through TOHR, and there used to be a lot of the library plates and we would give them the books they noted it was donated. Toby Jenkins: So, was it wish lists? They would publish a wish list and then y'all would Dennis Neill: It was all very informal, but Mary and Nancy said we need to acquire these books, let's raise the money and we'd help the library buy those books. So we'd send out funds, probably to the library trust and they'd use those funds then to purchase those books. And then there were plates they would put in the front inside cover donated by... Toby Jenkins: Okay, I just want to take this opportunity to tell you connect some dots, Scott Goodpaster. He and I had ended up in a confirmation class at St Jerome's and he was very well read and he knew I was kind of newly out and he said, well, you need to read the Gay classics. And so he gave me a whole list of books that I needed to read that were at the Tulsa Library, like Giovanni's Room. You know several of those books. Barry Hensley: That's so cool. Toby Jenkins: and I would come out with a stack of books like that. Barry Hensley: That's the idea. Toby Jenkins: He had a list of movies, so I'd check the movies out. That's great, all right, anything. So this is. It's getting very lengthy, but it's just so good we're finding out anything else you want to tell us. Barry Hensley: I want to talk about when Terry started going to College Hill Presbyterian Church over here by TU. So he was working in the Finance and Revenue Department with Gary Watts and Gary said: this is 1994, same year, very exciting year. And Gary said: you sing, don't you Terry? He said well, yeah, he hadn't sung really since he'd been back here in Tulsa, but he'd grown up singing and been in the Turtle Creek Chorale. And Gary said: well, my little church needs some tenors if you'd like to come audition us. Terry Baxter: Well, that's not how he said it. He said: if you'd like to come visit and see. And so I actually went to audition. I wanted to hear if it was a real organ- and it was a real pipe organ. And I wanted to hear what the choir sounded like, because I didn't want to lend my voice to a ragtag. And it was a small choir but they sounded great- still do, �30 amazingly- and so I started going there to sing- not anything to do with it being church, really, but to have a singing outlet to go to. They just so happened to have a party two weeks after I first went there, and so the choir director invited me to the party, and it later came out at the party because she and I went into my car and were talking that she was gay and had a girlfriend. But the girlfriend was married and it was just one of those type things. But after they became girlfriend and girlfriend, the lady and her husband stayed at College Hill. Nobody chose sides, it was just: oh well, I guess she finally found herself. But everybody was that way and I felt for the first time in my life that it was a group of people who didn't think you had to reconcile being gay with being a Christian. Toby Jenkins: And who would have been the minister at the time was Radford in there. Terry Baxter: Radford was the next called minister. David Caldwell was there. It was his last day as minister when I went that first time and then we had the interim pastor and that's the one that asked me: how do I reconcile being gay with being a Christian? And I told him that you don't need to reconcile. That, which I think was an odd answer, that he did not expect, that there's no reconciliation necessary. Toby Jenkins: Very profound. Barry Hensley: So Terry had suggested that I start coming to College Hill. I didn't want to do that. From my experience at First Pres- I didn't have an organized religion at all. But I went and the people were so genuine and so open, friendly and outgoing and welcoming. I thought, is this a cult or something, because I'm not used to this sort of organized religion at all. And turns out they are just great, great people. And it also turned out that there were several refugees from First Prez and my mom's generation. She had, I think there were three ladies that she had known back in the early 50s. They were all in the mariners class together when they were all newlyweds back in the Eisenhower era, and so she started coming as well. So it became this really nice, nice place that is wonderful… Terry Baxter: And your brother David started coming. Barry Hensley: David started coming. It was just wonderful… It's a wonderful place and you're able to have a traditional sort of service experience that I was used to from when I've been a kid, but built around this welcoming environment, it's just a really neat little place. So I want to get College Hill a shout out. Mary Bishop-Baldwin. And having an openly gay minister. Barry Hensley: That's correct. Terry Baxter: Yeah, we actually suggested to him that he talked to you guys. Yeah, let's hope he does. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, he just retired. Todd Freeman. Yeah, yeah, he's gonna stay in Tulsa. �31 Barry Hensley: Yes, for at least for right now. Toby Jenkins: He's traveling all over the world. So you would have been there, because I think, wasn't it under Radford that they became a More Light congregation. [More Light is a network of Presbyterian churches which are open and affirming for the LGBTQ+ community.] Barry Hensley: Yeah, Terry was a part of that. Toby Jenkins: Talk about that a little bit. Terry Baxter: Well, there was a discerning process going on and and I was not on session, which is a governing body in the Presbyterian Church at that time, but a friend of ours, Margaret Watson, Margaret Duncan at the time was- was on it and they, they just decided that the Presbyterian Church in Tulsa needed to have an open and outward exposure. To contrast, Kirk of the Hills and First Prez. First Prez has always been kind of the don't ask, don't tell type. Seems like it's gotten worse since they got their new pastor. But Kirk of the Hills, you know, when the Presbyterian Church ultimately decided that it was okay to ordain gays and and that kind of stuff, Kirk of the Hills just [left]. Not to speak bad of the Presbyterian Church. But the Presbytery gave them a good deal when they let them keep their building. Toby Jenkins: Well, it required a lawsuit… Terry Baxter: But the church actually won and they still turned around and allowed them to purchase it for a million dollars. Even though the church won the lawsuit and could have retained the property, as is in the Presbyterian bylaws, the presbytery was nice and said: give us a million dollars, we'll let you go and be whoever you want to be, and- and that's probably the Christian thing to do- but for people who are hoping to make strides in improving the acceptability of gay people. You don't want people like that to win, you want them to suffer a loss. Who knows, the church ultimately won because they're not part of it and so those people can be away. Then we called Radford Rader, who, initially, was instrumental in pushing for the More Light stuff to continue, even though he had done his associate work and youth pastor work at Kirk of the Hills, which is kind of interesting. So even Radford's position had moved and grown and he became instrumental as a straight man, pushing for college to become More Light and accepting. Actually, when we got married, we asked him if he would do the service and he said: well, you know, the denomination is still officially not agreeing with the right of gay people to have a commitment ceremony, and, and I could lose my retirement pension fund if I did that, even though it was in Canada. Barry Hensley: That was in 2005. We decided to go to Canada. We never dreamed it would happen here, but thanks to you [Mary Bishop-Baldwin], other people like you. So we ended up married in Canada, yes, but so he and we became More Light. The Session which is a, I said before the governing body. They've always been. When prohibition came, they were always not for prohibition. What was the next? �32 Terry Baxter: They were very anxious for women to be able to vote. In World War II they would, the members of the church, would take in the international Asian students who were being harassed at TU because of their heritage, and the Japanese. Barry Hensley: If you looked Asian. Terry Baxter: Yeah, if your eyes were not like our eyes. Barry Hensley: And they were behind, they were the first, my understanding is, they were the first church in Tulsa to have an integrated membership, that there was a black family that moved in in the 1950s that became members. And then the gay rights stuff, and they've just been on the right side of every one of these topics. It's a wonderful, wonderful place. Toby Jenkins: So after Radford they called Todd Freeman, and he has been there... Barry Hensley: He was there 18 years. Terry Baxter: Yeah, Todd, I was, I was on session and actually on the pastor nominating committee when we called Todd. It was kind of interesting story because we just could not find the right person, could not find the right person. And Todd hadn't even applied for the job. He was in Dallas at a church there. And we reposted it in all the Presbyterian outlets, I guess you call it, so that in order to get new applicants, because we just had not been able to find anybody that fit what we thought we needed. And a friend of his convinced him, because they saw that new posting, said this church is still looking for somebody, maybe you should apply for it. And he did, and he ended up being the successful applicant. I mean, the first time he came here, interestingly enough, at one of those More Light groupings where his church and we were also at one campsite together. Some of us had met him, didn't remember we had met him until we saw him. But he could preach a sermon, he could minister to people, and he wasn't stupid. He was intelligent. And so he just fit perfectly. And the average length of time for a pastor in a Presbyterian church is eight years, and he was there 18 years. So it was a good fit. It's gonna be hard to find somebody who… Barry Hensley: And unlike so many small churches, the membership is growing. It's not declining, and so many... Terry Baxter: And it's not going up by getting refugees from other churches, it's young. Toby Jenkins: You have several prominent community leaders, and I will say on record that that was the beautiful thing about Reverend Todd Freeman. He was such a good community collaborator. He worked with the interfaith community, he worked on social issues, he worked on issues that would expand services to marginalized communities. He was a very good fit for Tulsa, what we needed at that time. Terry Baxter: And if he does what he says he's gonna do, he's gonna continue doing that. He wants to do more of that, and being a pastor of a church sometimes gets in the way of doing more of that. So he just, I think he also wanted to retire so he wouldn't �33 have to be preaching all our funerals. Because so many of his friends are his age level or more. Toby Jenkins: I'll say this one more about him, then I have some questions about Terry at the City. During the marriage equality fight, which was a 10-year long journey from the time that Mary and Sharon and Gay and Sue filed their lawsuit, we were trying to educate our community and help people understand it better because there was such a religious objection component to it. Reverend Freeman and dozens of other clergy persons were so vital to us because we were able to get them to make statements, write articles that we could then get media publications so that they knew that it wasn't just all churches, all Christian congregations saw this one way. And when we got marriage equality and Tulsa World had their huge front page, there was First Presbyterian, their thoughts on it, me representing the organization of Oklahomans for Equality, and another, Asbury United Methodist, their pastors, conservatives. They had me sandwiched in an Oreo, and then whoever was there decided they needed to get another reflection from religious community. So Todd Freeman, so it went from me being stuck in the middle to it was two to one. He gave a religious perspective on it, and I was always so grateful. Because we had trouble finding, at that point, I mean, United Methodists were not decided on it, the Episcopal Church was still trying to decide. Terry Baxter: And the Presbyterians hadn't decided on it then. When they finally did decide on it, he came out in the newspaper. Toby Jenkins: Anything else in your notes, Barry, that you feel like it's important that we cover? Because then I want to talk to Terry a little bit about, do you feel like we've... Barry Hensley: I'm good. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Well, I want to ask about your marriage. You say it was 2005, is that right? Barry Hensley: January. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: You went to Canada to get legally married there. When had marriage equality become the law in Canada? Barry Hensley: Not too long before that, I don't think. Terry Baxter: I think it was about three years. Barry Hensley: Yeah, just a few years. Terry Baxter: But it was interesting that when we went, you had to go to the capital of the province that you were getting married in to get the license first. So we went to Vancouver first to get the license. And we didn't know our way around Vancouver. And so we went in a drugstore and said, where's the Marriage License Bureau? And they �34 said, go down the street. They didn't just tell us, go down the street. Oh, you're getting married? Oh, how wonderful. And it was... Barry Hensley: So cool. Terry Baxter: Then we went and he said, are we going in the right direction? And another person says, oh yeah, you're going in the right direction. And every place we went, the people were saying thank you for visiting us and congratulations. And it was so contrary to what it was like in the United States where everybody was, if they were anything... Toby Jenkins: A lot of protesters. Barry Hensley: Don't ask, don't tell. If they were supportive of you, it would just keep quiet. And we even went to a liquor store and they said... Toby Jenkins: So what year, what month would you have gotten married? Terry Baxter: January. Barry Hensley: And we went from Vancouver to Victoria. Beautiful little 1912 bed and breakfast in Victoria. And they were so nice. The couple that lived there, husband and wife, have since split up, I think. But they arranged everything. They arranged the marriage commissioner. They arranged the flowers. They arranged an after party. They arranged everything for us. It was just a wonderful experience. And we had just a handful of people. We had three friends from Tulsa. Tom Neal was one of them who came to our wedding. Very small. Dennis Neill: And I think maybe right before you all got married, two other individuals from Tulsa went there and got married in Vancouver and ended up living there permanently. Barry Hensley: Oh man, what a dream that would have been. Dennis Neill: And do you remember them? Were they an inspiration for your decision to go to Vancouver? Terry Baxter: Barry, we decided we wanted to do it and Barry got online to start looking at places. Barry Hensley: So where in Canada in January? Terry Baxter: Yeah, where is it warm in January? And we realized, well, on the coast there. Barry Hensley: That's right. Terry Baxter: It's warm in January. I mean, there were hummingbirds there in January. Barry Hensley: Oh, it's so beautiful. I just love it so much. Terry Baxter: So it was basically decided, where could we go in January in Canada to get married? And we had always wanted to pick a place that would be some place we could remember. And that's why we actually went to Victoria Island. �35 Toby Jenkins: Since 2005, you’d been together 25 years. Terry Baxter: We figured we knew each other well enough by then to get married. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Why was it important to you to have your marriage, your relationship legally recognized somewhere, even if it wouldn't be recognized… Terry Baxter: I think the main reason was at that time, we were hearing more and more about people who are having medical situations in hospitals where their partner, longtime partner, wasn't able to be involved in decisions or even visit them in some places. And we had gone through all sorts of hoops. Barry Hensley: We spent thousands of dollars making sure that we had all the documentation we needed to protect ourselves. Terry Baxter: Even though you have that stuff, there's just assumptions if you're married that are made by people that you're gonna have 15 pages of documentation. But if you have a marriage license, it's just instant proof. And interestingly, I mean, I'm glad we got married in Canada because if the United States changes things and wants to retroactively do away with that, like they are with the people who have changed their sex on their birth certificates, they can't undo the sovereign act of the government of Canada. So the Supreme Court can do all they want to and we're still married. Barry Hensley: But the Defense of Marriage Act had just been a big thing at that time. And so we really realized that it wasn't gonna be in the United States for some time to come, which was fine. Terry Baxter: We were surprised, but. Barry Hensley: Oh, we were so pleasantly surprised. Toby Jenkins: Terry, what would you like to tell us about working in municipal government in the city of Tulsa? Terry Baxter: Working for the government in the city of Tulsa was very interesting. One of the best things about the city is people don't look at the city or any government job for that matter as very opportunity filled. The pay is lower than in the private sector. A month after I got hired, a private company offered to hire me, and I told the people at the city what they were going to hire me for, and my boss actually went to the city commission at the time and asked for special personnel action to raise my salary to what the people were going to pay in order to keep me. So that was pretty good. But you have opportunity because the city's involved in so many different things, and so is the federal government. I think that's one thing that our current administration didn't realize when they got into office is that there are professional people doing professional jobs that you have no idea what they're doing, and they've got backgrounds to fit those jobs, and you can't just put somebody in there and hope it gets done right. But the other thing that does is if you're working for the city, you have the opportunity to move around to different jobs. �36 I always, and maybe it was part of how you protect yourself when you're growing up if you're gay, is you learn more about everything than most other people do, so they can't question your knowledge. And so even though I was working in the finance department when I first started, I learned about all the other departments, what they did, how they did it, how they interfaced with each other. If you remember at that time in 1985, 86, personal computers were first being introduced into the workplace, and people were still smoking in the workplace, so all those beige personal computers quickly became yellow from the cigarette smoke. But I started learning more about the personal computers and going more in-depth, not just how to use them as a software user, but how they work. Toby Jenkins: Did you take classes or study the manuals? Terry Baxter: I took some classes. Most of it was self-study and getting in there and just doing it. Barry Hensley: I had my own IT guy who was great. Terry Baxter: We had just installed a point-of-sale system right after, not too long after I got there. So all the cashiers, instead of writing paper receipts and then going to the key punch people to put into the computer, they would actually transact it through the computer. And it was written in a strange form of basic, not visual basic, just basic. And so I kind of learned how to program so that we could, if we needed to be able to issue a different kind of license, I could do the programming instead of hiring people to come in and do it from outside. So I kind of learned that, was in the finance department supervising the licensing area, which meant making sure that taxicab drivers were licensed and insured and all that kind of stuff. And I have an interesting little story. One year when a new taxicab company was trying to get a license in town, I explained to them what the rules were. And so he went away and then he came back two weeks later and said, I need to get that license. And I said, well, where's your certificate of insurance? So one of my positions was regulating taxi cabs, and this is a quick story. But this man wanted to start a new taxi cab, he needed a certificate of insurance. And for some reason he couldn't get one. He came to my office and started taking money out and setting it on the table, said, how much is it going to take for me to get my certificate of convenience and necessity? He kept putting these stacks of $20 bills in the bands on the table. I said, you don't have enough money. Just go use that money and get yourself some insurance and you'll get approved. And so as soon as he left the office with his money, I called the police department and talked to their legal person and he says, well, you should have taken the money. I said, why? And they said, well, he can't be guilty of, we can't find him guilty of trying to bribe you if we have no evidence. And I said, yes, but if I took the money, I would have been guilty of accepting a bribe and he could have gotten me in trouble for that more than you could get him in trouble. So it �37 just didn't make any sense to me that you had to have, the proof was that you did it. But how could I not, how could I do it and not be guilty of doing it? Toby Jenkins: So in that capacity, you actually had people who tried to persuade y'all or they tried to bribe you. To persuade you or pressure them to get their permits? Terry Baxter: Yeah, and because you couldn't do business without the city license. You know, a restaurant couldn't do business without a city license. Toby Jenkins: And you couldn't sell liquor at the Pride event, unless the city said so. Terry Baxter: One of the other interesting things was that, so then they created the Revenue Collections and Enforcement Division, and I was the first administrator of that division, and it was created because the state was not doing a good job of collecting city sales tax. The city got the state statutes and it said, and there was no reason in our agreement with the Tax Commission that we couldn't also collect our taxes. We couldn't tell them they can't collect it, but we could make an effort to get them to pay it to them for them to collect it. I started being the person sending letters out and visiting places that were in arrears on their city sales taxes. It was an interesting job, but I couldn't talk about it with anybody because, you know, there were a lot of restaurants people really loved to go to that we'd end up going out of business because I put them out of business. So I won't tell you who they were, but let's just say some of the favorite restaurants in the mid-80s that suddenly quit business because they weren't paying their sales taxes. And the same with hotel and lodging taxes. Hotels and motels collect a tax from the people who stay there, and it's collected on behalf of the city, and the entity gets to remit the money to the city and keep part of it if they do it in a timely manner. And there was a particular hotel that didn't do that, and that particular hotel operator had a brother who was a bigwig in Tulsa education circles who called the mayor. And so the mayor called me and asked me, have I done everything I could to make sure that that guy has opportunities? And I said, I've done everything I can under the ordinance. Are you asking me to see if there's another way to do it? And the mayor at the time said, no, I just want to make sure. But I got the feeling that he was trying to convince me to look the other way for a while. But it's interesting. So you have some interesting things in the city government. And then the reorganization of the government came around, and it became a city council form instead of a city commission form. And so the Finance and Revenue Department was merged into the Treasury Department under the Finance Director. The Treasury Manager, she and I just, we were really good friends until I worked for her, and then all of a sudden I was some kind of threat. I seem to have that pattern with female bosses. They're afraid of me. And maybe it's because of the discrimination they get in the workplace. When a guy comes up and is below their position but is really good at what they do, they're going back to thinking, well, that person's going to take my job away from me because that always happens when a man and a woman come up competing against each other. �38 Well, I don't think it always happens. I was a gay man, but I didn't have a sign on me. So I went from there to the Fire Department in their IT area, and my job at first was making sure all the fire houses were connected through a very obscure form of CO land, which was a central office land that AT&T offered that nobody bought. And so they basically gave it to the fire departments to use for free because we didn't have network connections between the fire department buildings. And then I went to 9-1-1 and got a new computer dispatch system put in. 2000 came in, and we stayed up. Everybody had their hands on deck at 9-1-1, and most of the calls we got were people calling, I just want to see if 9-1-1 worked. Toby Jenkins: So just so our viewers will understand, it was Y2K. Explain that. Terry Baxter: Y2K, people who wrote computer programs never anticipated that they would have to have a four-year date field. When it became 99, it'd go back to 00 the next year instead of 2000, and computers would go crazy because then all of a sudden you're back a hundred years from where you were just yesterday. And so every computer application had to be changed to have a four-year date for the year instead of a two-year date. And 9-1-1 was a fairly old system, especially in Tulsa, because we were one of the first places that actually had digital 9-1-1 services. And so we had to go back and work with AT&T and the vendors to fix all those computers. Everybody was expecting the sky to fall when 2000 rolled over from 1999. Barry Hensley: So Terry's down there at the office, they're all waiting to see what's going to happen. They're all sitting at home, are the lights going to go off, you know, what's going to happen? Toby Jenkins: This was real anxiety. Terry Baxter: It was, it was. Toby Jenkins: We thought planes might fall out of the sky. Terry Baxter: A lot of money was spent fixing things in anticipation of that so it wouldn't happen. And I guess it was money well spent because the sky didn't fall. And the next day we didn't go back 100 years. We've gone back 100 years in other ways now. But it wasn't for year 2000. And then, so then I was there for a while. And then another reorganization came under Mayor Taylor where she took all the IT areas and moved them into one centralized IT department. I got moved out of the 9-1-1 public safety communications into IT and became a project manager there in IT projects. And then I went to the mayor's review group, performance review group, for a year. And then back to 9-1-1 as director for a year. Because it got taken away from IT but not put into police or fire because they were competing for it. And so the mayor made it a separate entity and I was over there for that one-year period. And then he just decided to put it over into the police department where it still is. Then I went back to IT as the manager of the project management group and that's when I retired. So I was involved in a lot of different areas. And I take that as they gave �39 me the opportunity to be involved in those areas because the city requires jobs to be posted internally before they go externally. And if a qualified applicant applies for it then they're not required to accept that applicant, but they're strongly encouraged to give that applicant the opportunity to succeed or fail in that position. So much so that they have a policy that for the first 90 days, actually you're on probation for a year, but for the first 90 days it's kind of like no fault. The other department, if they backfill your position and you're not successful in the one you went to, you can actually go back to your old position. So usually there's a vacancy for 90 days. Toby Jenkins: So let me ask this for our viewers. So you're working in civil service, basically municipal civil service. Every time a new mayor came in, did the people that worked for the city of Tulsa, were they afraid they would be fired because the new mayor can... Terry Baxter: The new mayor has influence over civil service positions and the new mayor hires whoever they want for their own office. But the civil service protections have policies in place that they just can't fire you to be firing you for no cause. Toby Jenkins: Why is that critical, Terry? Terry Baxter: That is critical because if you did that and you fired for no cause and you cleaned out everything every time a new mayor came in, the expertise that is necessary to do the day-to-day stuff that citizens expect to have done, I just cannot imagine if a new water commissioner got in and they fired everybody, then how would our water get, the chemicals get adjusted appropriately because all the chemists were gone. People don't realize how many professional people there are in any government, city, county, state, federal government. You can't just run it like a business because the business is so diverse. You have to have people with expertise in all those different kinds of business. You can have a business philosophy. You can be overarching, we want to make sure that we're efficient, but to just say efficiency is to get rid of half the people and then don't even pick the people you get rid of. You could get rid of half the people in a lot of departments, but you better spend some time evaluating which people are the half that you get rid of because some of them you can't do without. It's an interesting thing. Politics is very interesting. I think the civil service part of politics, of government, keeps politics from basically throwing the baby away with the bath water every time a new elected official comes in. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, it's such a dangerous thing for elected officials to be able to gut an entire community, a nation, a state. Terry Baxter: And it's also difficult for the citizens, because if you don't have consistency between things that occur politically, then your life is less certain, and you don't know, you know, everybody's life is kind of up in the air about what's going to be happening and how you're going to be accomplishing the goals and objectives of the people who elected the people in the first place. �40 It's very unfortunate that it's almost like the public needs to have an education on how government is supposed to work, and then start assessing, can we make it better, rather than just saying, oh, government is just a waste, there's too many of it, too much of it, let's chop off half of it and see what happens. And it's frustrating, because people don't get the things that they need to have. I would hate it if the police department lost half the police force, because who knows if it would lose the right half. Toby Jenkins: Right. What year did you retire from the city of Tulsa? Terry Baxter: 2017. Toby Jenkins: 2017. How many mayors did you work for and city council? Terry Baxter: Worked for seven mayors. Some not very long, some longer. I mean, who remembers Mayor Crawford? He came from out of town, and as soon as he was not mayor any longer, he left. Let's see, the first was Terry Young, all the way back to the 84. I wasn't working there in 84 when the flood came, but I was in Tulsa the night it happened. Toby Jenkins: The Memorial Day flood, Memorial Weekend flood. Terry Baxter: The big flood before we had stormwater detention ponds. And that was under the county, out of the commission form of government at the time. The commission worked real hard to cooperate with each other to get the Department of Stormwater Management created out of people from streets, out of people from water and sewer, so that they could start figuring out how to control the damage that the floods in Tulsa did. Barry Hensley: They were professionals, they knew what they were doing, and it worked. Terry Baxter: And if they had done it in a political way, we may not have the safety that we have now from floods and storms, because it would never have happened, because the politics would have kept people from working with each other. Toby Jenkins: So you would have been in the city in 2010 when we passed the ordinance where you could not be discriminated against because of your sexual orientation. I'm just curious, prior to that ordinance and after the ordinance, was there a different temperament at City Hall? Did more people feel... Terry Baxter: Well, interestingly, the ordinance got passed a couple years after the city actually put that in the employees' anti-discrimination stuff. So the HR department and the mayor at the time were progressive enough to put that in the policies. And I know of a couple cases where before that was in the city's policy, and in both cases, the person who felt discriminated against because they were different prevailed with the Civil Service Commission. So even the Civil Service Commission was... It's interesting what you have in the government. We had a person actually transition from being male to female while they were in their job at the city, and they retained their job at the city while they were through that whole process. And it was very difficult at that time because some people were very �41 discriminatory toward that person. The person needed to have a restroom to use, and nobody wanted them to use their restroom. And so the mayor said, well, she can come use my restroom. Toby Jenkins: Do you remember what mayor that was? Terry Baxter: Kathy Taylor, when she first got elected, which was interesting. After the transition occurred, life still is not simple for that person, because people will be people. And he, she, afterwards, he, before, and since he was there as a he and a she, depending upon who you're talking about, it depends upon whether he was a he or she was a she. But, you know, she had courage to go. I cannot imagine going through that process in the same position, in the same job. And ultimately, she relocated to a different city, because her marriage didn't stick, even though at first they were trying to make it work. And so it was, it was a very interesting thing. But the point of that was, is the city realized that their employees needed some protection, and so they built that in the policy. And then later, the city council decided, hey, maybe we need to have that kind of protection in the city. Toby Jenkins: Y'all would have gone through that same thing at the library, because I remember when... I remember when you got ready to hire the new director, I can't remember his name right now, Gary. Barry Hensley: Gary. Toby Jenkins: That was one of the requirements he had, wasn't it? Barry Hensley: Well, years before, I'm talking about 1990 or so, Mike Williams, who was the head of the circulation department at that time, I was in the InterLibrary Loan, we went to Pat Woodrum, lovely lady, because there were no protections at all at that time, and we just were asking to slip sexual orientation into the policies, because we weren't under the city or the county's jurisdiction. We were our own thing, you know. It would just need to go through the Library Commission to get changed, and she wasn't ready to do that at that time. She said, well, are you all having a... is there a problem? You know, is there an issue I need to be aware of? And we said, no, we're just kind of trying to prevent an issue from happening, and she wasn't ready to do it at that time. I don't remember when it actually went in, but it was kind of a non-event by then. Toby Jenkins: Terry, anything else about your time at the city? And you mentioned you saw a transgender individual who had a kind of a rough time and experienced some harassment. Did you ever feel that you were targeted? Did you ever feel like you were impacted by people who knew about your private life and maybe were just being discriminatory? And did you witness any of that? Terry Baxter: I don't know if I was lucky or just... I never had that personally. I did witness it in other departments. It's, you know, one of the things about the city is it's got blue-collar jobs and it's got white-collar jobs, and I always was in a white-collar job. And maybe there's less discriminatory action in that atmosphere than in the blue-collar job, �42 but I knew of a couple of individuals in Water and Sewer that were discriminated against and overlooked for promotions. And that was one of the other reasons that HR, I guess, was interesting because the change in the city's policy was started by HR, not by an external force. So they just realized that, and probably realized after there had been a couple instances where people had filed complaints with the Civil Service Commission and those complaints were upheld, that they were indeed discriminated against for things that had nothing to do with a job, that there needed to be a policy so that they wouldn't have to have hearings. Toby Jenkins: Let me ask you just your perspective, having worked for the city, understanding how government works, municipal government, why have we had so much trouble with the City of Tulsa getting counselors and mayors to push forward an ordinance where for the city you cannot discriminate against people in the public spaces, in public accommodations, where businesses, because this was an issue I raised repeatedly, we took them stories repeatedly with multiple city councilors, multiple mayors to say that people in our community would be denied services at businesses. Everything from restaurant supply businesses, to hotels, toTerry Baxter: Well, the reason is called politics. It's because elected officials do what they perceive the people who elected them expect them to do. And in Tulsa, and in Oklahoma, and apparently, quite many places in this United States, there are people who can't see past the end of their nose, who are in positions of authority. And what they perceive may be a misrepresentation of what their electorate wishes them to do. But it's been going on forever. A friend of Barry's, the one that he was talking about earlier, Barry knew a person who was working for the city before we even were working here. And they would go to hotels and try to rent a room. And an African American person would go to a hotel to rent a room and they wouldn't do it. So then she asked one of Barry's friends and another friend of hers to go and be obviously gay and try to rent a room, and they would rent a room. So that's been going on since a lot… Barry Hensley: That's 1979 or 80, something like that. Terry Baxter: It's just people, and people who don't think they have to, who feel that they have been given permission by their religion, by their government, they decide not to support people who don't believe the same way they do. Barry Hensley: Apparently, empathy is a bad word these days, and I can't quite comprehend that. I can't wrap my head around that. Terry Baxter: We had a friend of mine who worked with me at the city say that you can't have empathy for someone unless you are exactly that kind of person. So you cannot have empathy for a minority unless you are that minority. And that's contrary to the whole definition of what empathy is, but apparently a lot of people believe that. You can't have empathy for me because you aren't me. Barry Hensley: And- You don't know what my struggle has been.. It's very strange. �43 Toby Jenkins: Anything else about your time at the city of Tulsa, and anything else you feel like you want to include in our time today? Terry Baxter: No, I'm just glad that there are those people in this world who still want to push forward and not go backward. And we hope to be part of that, but we're old folks now. So I'm lucky. I'm happy to see what a lot of the younger people are doing, that they're picking up the mantle and not letting the right wing take the charge. It's good. Toby Jenkins: Anything you would like to say to the generation coming after us or people who see this interview, maybe in 100 years when somebodyBarry Hensley: I just hope they can comprehend what people have gone through to get to the point where we are, and that life is too short to go through all of this drama of preventing other people from living their lives. I will never comprehend why that would be so important to me. I don't care what you do, as long as it's not illegal. But I think we've just been very fortunate. I know I have, my entire life, it has fallen into place. Finding Terry, getting the job, having such a good fit, inheriting my parents' house, all of this, being able to retire and travel. And life has just given me every possible break it could, and I don't understand it. There's no strategy on my part. I don't know how it happens, but I'm very grateful for it. And thank you all for recording the histories of so many people while you can. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: Our pleasure. Terry Baxter: We're all different, but we're all trying to struggle to survive and help each other survive. That's the important thing. Mary Bishop-Baldwin: And it's our honor to be able to talk to people like you and tell your stories. Barry Hensley: This has been quite an honor for us. Dennis Neill: Wonderful. Thank you for sharing your story and your 46 years together. Barry Hensley: We'll have a big party at 50, I can tell you that. Toby Jenkins: This is June 30th, 2026. Today, Dennis Neill, Mary Bishop-Baldwin, Toby Jenkins, have had the pleasure here at Oklahomans for Equality, the History Project, to interview Terry Baxter and Barry Hensley. Thank you for your service to the citizens of Tulsa County. Thank you for your service to our community and for being such good examples of we're here and we're queer, so get used to it. Terry Baxter: Happy Pride. Barry Hensley: Back at you. Thank you. � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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Flyer Text us. 7/9/2026, 3:48 PM �Tulsa is home to America’s reigning ‘president of drag’ 2 of 7 https://tulsaflyer.org/2026/06/23/culture/post/president-of-drag/ The country’s reigning Miss Gay America — a title she sometimes playfully refers to as “the president of drag” — doesn’t live in a Los Angeles mansion or a New York City walkup. She calls midtown Tulsa home. Travis Guillory is the last person to predict he would be standing among the dozens of shimmering costumes, wigs and crowns required to transform into Tracy La Louisianne, who he describes as “Travis on steroids.” A former local TV anchor and current executive director of Theatre Tulsa, Guillory’s drag career began less than four years ago. Now he’s fielding requests from America’s Got Talent producers who watched Tracy earn the national title in January. “I’m not kidding when I say my life literally changed overnight,” Guillory said. Have a question or a tip? Text us. 7/9/2026, 3:48 PM �Tulsa is home to America’s reigning ‘president of drag’ 3 of 7 https://tulsaflyer.org/2026/06/23/culture/post/president-of-drag/ Tracy La Louisianne was crowned Miss Gay America 2026 in January. Credit: Courtesy Tracy La Louisianne / Miss Gay America ‘Proved every single one of us wrong’ Guillory’s journey to winning the country’s longest-running and largest drag pageant wasn’t linear. Originally from southern Louisiana, he moved to Tulsa in 2017 to work for 2 News Oklahoma. The longtime performer and director quickly became involved in the local theater scene. That’s where Tracy was born. Guillory was cast as seasoned drag queen Miss Tracy Mills in World Stage Theatre Company’s 2021 production of “The Legend of Georgia McBride.” The role required him to take a “crash course” on drag performance and culture. The University of Tulsa’s HallowQueens show came calling soon after. First, though, Guillory needed a name. “I looked up Louisiana cocktails and I found ‘La Louisianne,’ which is basically a New Orleans version of a Manhattan, my favorite drink,” he said. “It just stuck.” Alongside a career shift to public relations, Guillory began performing one-woman cabarets with Oklahomans for Equality and expanding Tracy’s repertoire. Her persona is inspired by the largerthan-life female leads Guillory grew up watching in Broadway musicals. Think Mrs. Lovett from “Sweeney Todd” or Miss Hannigan from “Annie.” “I get to be what my younger self always wanted to be,” Guillory said. The act caught the attention of the then-reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma, who encouraged Guillory to condense the cabaret into a six-minute routine and enter a pageant. The contest follows a similar format to the Miss America competition, featuring an on-stage Q&A, judges interview, evening gown and talent showcase. Travis Guillory in his home drag room in his midtown Tulsa home. Have a question or a tip? Text us. Over time he began to see each element of the Credit: Tim Landes / Tulsa Flyer 7/9/2026, 3:48 PM �Tulsa is home to America’s reigning ‘president of drag’ 4 of 7 https://tulsaflyer.org/2026/06/23/culture/post/president-of-drag/ score as a chance to do what he does best: communicate, think on his feet and embody Tracy’s theatrical personality. “You don’t have to fit the mold. You have to be the mold,” Guillory said. “It’s not like you’re trying to show up with what people expect Miss Gay America to be and look like. You show up the way you do your art at a very high level, and that’s Miss Gay America that year.” When he met Guillory in Tracy’s early days, Tulsan Ryan Bennett was already an established drag artist performing as Natalia Masters. Guillory was always talented, Bennett said, but a bit hesitant to lean “into his shtick” as a ball of energy on and off the stage. That’s no longer the case. “The one thing that I have seen him grow in is actually just his self confidence as an entertainer,” said Bennett, now one of Guillory’s best friends and collaborators. “There were so many people that told him that the direction that he was going wouldn’t get him very far, and he just proved every single one of us wrong in the best way possible.” The weight of the crown By the time she headed to Little Rock for the national competition in January, Tracy had already racked up honors like Miss Gay Oklahoma and Miss Gay Gulf Coast. In the days prior, Theatre Tulsa company director Mandy Gross and Guillory began discussing what it would look like if Guillory returned with the title. “I think Tracy knew that she was going to win, but Travis didn’t think that he was going to win,” Gross said. Many peers are in the pageant system for years before reaching the big stage. But Tracy pulled out all the stops — walking the stage in a gator costume holding a detached head and earning audience roars during her cabaret, which forced judges to pick their own adventure — and stole the show in her second national competition. Have a question or a tip? Text us. 7/9/2026, 3:48 PM �Tulsa is home to America’s reigning ‘president of drag’ 5 of 7 https://tulsaflyer.org/2026/06/23/culture/post/president-of-drag/ Part of Tracy’s pitch was her ability to build a brand and lead the Miss Gay America organization through an ownership transition and moving its national competition to Atlanta. “I can put on a nice gown and a nice wig and do all of these things. I can figure out the aesthetic,” Guillory said. “But it’s more of what’s in somebody’s heart and what’s in somebody’s brain that actually makes them a successful Miss Gay America.” The crown can weigh heavily on the head that wears it. Bennett describes the duties as “grueling,” requiring weeks of travel to lead contestant orientations and judge briefings at competitions across the country in addition to performing and promoting gigs. Many winners quit their day jobs to complete their reigns. Not Guillory. He and Gross have worked together to ensure he can still give his energy to Theatre Tulsa, which he took over in summer 2024, and keep shows running smoothly. “You know how people are left-brained or right-brained? He’s got both,” Gross said. “He is really great at the creative stuff, and really great at scheduling and being organized and the stuff that super creative people usually aren’t. I don’t know where he gets that from, and I don’t know where he gets all the energy to do it.” Bennett has watched Guillory weather the highs and lows that come with pursuing a burgeoning drag career and keeping up with responsibilities at home. He has a community of supporters, including his partner and fellow drag performer Kallaya, who understand the pressure. Have a question or a tip? Text us. It also comes down to feeling the emotions in the moment and not letting them overtake you, Bennett said. When Guillory needs to cry or scream, he lets it out. 7/9/2026, 3:48 PM �Tulsa is home to America’s reigning ‘president of drag’ 6 of 7 https://tulsaflyer.org/2026/06/23/culture/post/president-of-drag/ “He’s a superstar in that,” Bennett said. “He knows when it is appropriate to let loose and be vulnerable, and he knows when it’s time to put your big girl panties on and be professional, be the administrator and do the job of being Miss Gay America.” Have a question or a tip? Text us. 7/9/2026, 3:48 PM �Tulsa is home to America’s reigning ‘president of drag’ 7 of 7 https://tulsaflyer.org/2026/06/23/culture/post/president-of-drag/ ‘We just want to exist’ Five months after returning from Little Rock, Guillory is still navigating his new reality. He’s embracing the flood of new opportunities — potential residency in Puerto Vallarta, anyone? — while still appreciating what Tulsa has to offer as an affordable home base for regular gigs in Arkansas and Missouri. He’s passionate about growing the city’s arts scene and says he’s never had a reason to leave. “I’ve lived three lifetimes in Tulsa and I’m on my fourth one now,” Guillory said. He’s not sure where life will take him by the time his reign ends in January. For now, he’s focused on a full calendar of gigs and the mission in front of him: representing Oklahoma on the national stage and serving as a beacon of hope for those feeling targeted by anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric. “We just want to exist,” Guillory said. “When people see Miss Gay America, they need to see somebody who’s just existing to the f–king fullest.” News decisions at the Tulsa Flyer are made independently of our board members and financial supporters. Read more about our editorial independence policy here. Have a question or a tip? Text us. 7/9/2026, 3:48 PM � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. 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But it wasn’t always that way. Think about a time when Pride didn’t exist – a time when many of you weren’t yet born but when a large number of our LGBTQ community WERE here, trying to live in a world that didn’t acknowledge their humanity. LGBTQ people existed, but pride did not. Being gay or trans meant living in the closet for fear of losing one’s family, job, religious affiliation and home and being ostracized – and even jailed or institutionalized – for living openly. Beyond those outward realities, LGBTQ people often were self-loathing, longing to change their sexual orientation or gender identity so they could fit in with society and live in accordance with what society said their God demanded. But throughout history, some gay and trans people have stood up to challenge the status quo and say, “We’re OK just as we are.” Accepting ourselves was the beginning of Pride. �Oklahomans for Equality’s forerunner organization, Oklahomans for Human Rights, was organized in Tulsa as a chapter of an Oklahoma City-based organization in 1980, and a handful of Tulsa’s gay men and lesbians came together in 1982 to organize and produce Tulsa’s first Gay Pride Week. In its May 26, 1982, newsletter, available in the OkEq History Project archives, OHR called it “Tulsa’s first major commemoration of the beginning of gay liberation,” the Stonewall riots of 1969. Events included a picnic and festival at Chandler Park; softball games at Manion Park; beer busts at local bars Tulsa County Mining Co., Tracy’s New Edition, Tim’s Playroom and Zippers; a screening of the “Rocky Horror Picture Show” at the Brook Theater; Gay Day at Discoveryland; Gayskate at the Rinky Dink Skating Rink in Sand Springs; and a benefit drag show. The next year’s Pride Week Picnic, held at Mohawk Park, drew about 300 people, according to OHR’s July 1983 newsletter. Records in Oklahomans for Equality’s archives show that the 1983 Gay Pride Week Committee’s total income was $1,910.66, while expenses totaled $1,473.83, bringing the organization a $436.83 profit. �Those early Tulsa Pride events didn’t involve parades and were relatively low-key events in out-of-the-way locations. In contrast, it costs anywhere from $150,000 to $200,000 to put on today’s Pride events. OHR became TOHR in 1985, when local activists formed the nonprofit Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights and separated from the Oklahoma City organization. The annual picnics continued, and it seemed that perhaps greater visibility and even acceptance had come to Tulsa Pride in 1994 when then-Mayor Susan Savage proclaimed the week of June 19 through June 25 that year “as Gay & Lesbian Pride Week in our city.” Tulsa’s first Pride march came in 1997. Without closing the roads, marchers traveled one-half mile on Edison Street from Gilcrease Museum Road to Owen Park, where a picnic was held. Participants also listened to music, and community organizations and businesses offered information and merchandise at booths. The second Pride march, in 1998, saw about 150 people march from 15th and Main streets to Veterans �Park (now Dream Keepers Park) at 21st Street and Boulder Avenue. The 1999 event was the first parade that involved street closings and police escorts. Tulsa’s first Pride parade went from 38th Street and Peoria Avenue in the Brookside District to 31st Street, then west to Riverside Drive, and then north to Veterans Park. With the political and social environments of the times, it took Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights quite some doing to acquire a permit for the parade. The Tulsa City Council delayed a vote on the permit twice before finally approving it. In the meantime, one councilor, Sam Roop, had proposed and then dropped a resolution stating that the City Council did not endorse the June 12 parade. The Tulsa World reported that Roop had been concerned that approval of the parade permit “might be construed as an endorsement of the ‘gay pride agenda.’” In the end, he joined the other councilors in unanimously approving the permit – but not the “lifestyle.” Tulsa World archives record that Councilor Darla Hall said that "the gay community is not before this council tonight so that we can stand in judgment of �their lifestyle. They will appear before God for that, just as we all will answer to God for our lifestyles. I only pray they are as prepared for that day as they are for the parade.” But with the parades came increased visibility. The keynote speaker at a gala hosted by Tulsa Oklahomans for Equality and the Cimarron Alliance, as well as the grand marshal of the first Pride parade, was U.S. Rep. Barney Frank of Massachusetts, who brought with him increased media coverage of Tulsa Pride. Big names were also included in the next year’s Pride, which showcased as gala speakers and co-grand marshals Olympic diver Greg Louganis and Col. Grethe Cammermeyer, who had successfully challenged her dismissal from the Army for being a lesbian and who later worked for the repeal of the military’s Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell policy. That same year, 2000, the Rev. Dr. Mel White, founder of Soul Force and author of “Stranger at the Gate,” spoke at the Tulsa Pride Week Interfaith Service. Activities related to Pride were growing in number, too, with film festivals, book discussions, high school gay-straight alliance showcases, Council Oak Men’s Chorale performances, PFLAG parents panel �discussions, art shows and a NAMES Project AIDS memorial quilt display included along with a parade and festival during Pride Weeks by the early years of the 21st century. By 2001, the parade route had shifted to Cherry Street, with step-off at 15th Street and Utica Avenue and the conclusion again at Veterans Park. Archives show that the annual parade continued along that route until 2009, when it ran through the Arts District and ended at the Diversity Festival’s new location at Centennial Park (now Veterans Park), at Sixth Street and Peoria Avenue. During those years, paradegoers mixed with athletes and the crowd watching Tulsa Tough bicycle races in the Arts District. TOHR changed its name to Oklahomans for Equality in 2006 in advance of the opening of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center – OkEq’s permanent home – in February 2007, and in 2011, the festival was moved to Fourth Street – Pride Street – and Kenosha Avenue in front of the Equality Center. In 2014, the parade route shifted to start at Boston Avenue United Methodist Church, 13th Street and Boston Avenue, still ending at the Equality Center. The �annual Rainbow Run’s inaugural year, with a 5K race and a 1K fun run, was 2014. The timing of Tulsa’s Pride parade and festival changed in 2024 to October to avoid the extreme heat of Oklahoma’s summers and to coincide with LGBTQ History Month and National Coming Out Day, Oct. 11. The Equality Gala and other events still take place in June. Inclusion and acceptance have grown along with Pride, with some push and pull, advancements and backlash, along the way. This year’s events this fall are expected to draw nearly 70 parade entries, with a crowd size along the parade route estimated at 10,000 and attendees at the Pride festival projected at 26,000. The Oklahomans for Equality History Project encourages you to learn more about OkEq’s history by visiting our online archives at history.okeq.org. � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2026] History of Tulsa Pride Subject The topic of the resource Tulsa Pride history Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Mary Bishop-Baldwin Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 23, 2026 Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource Copyright (c) 2026 Oklahomans for Equality Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Text Description An account of the resource 5 pictures and 1 article regarding the history of Tulsa Pride celebrations. https://history.okeq.org/files/original/4adebf0d44994d369d09f3575feec61d.jpg ad72637811113670aa330f4ea33f8595 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/7c2883bf7ed6d734cf5f7159d6a5724f.jpg 0667fe995ad8830d0ee5454a0496092b https://history.okeq.org/files/original/27c6287171392a77018730fd0c5c30fc.pdf 7e2c30bad114e57670a3f5c51112bb2d PDF Text Text The Oklahomans for Equality History Project remembers with pride the U.S. Supreme Court opinions handed down on June 26 in various years that made monumental strides in the quest for equality for LGBTQ people. We think June 26 should be National Equality Day! ●​ On June 26, 2003, the Supreme Court struck down state sodomy laws across the nation in Lawrence v. Texas. ●​ On June 26, 2013, the Supreme Court killed the Defense of Marriage Act in U.S. v. Windsor AND overturned Prop 8 in California. ●​ On June 26, 2015, the Supreme Court made marriage equality the law of the land in Obergefell v. Hodges. ●​ On June 26, 2017, the Supreme Court ruled that all states must provide married same-sex couples the same "constellation of benefits" and recognition afforded to heterosexual couples. The OkEq History Project’s archives remind us of how Tulsa acknowledged all those cases and rulings. June 26, 2003 The Spring 2003 edition of the TOHR Torch, the publication of Oklahomans for Equality’s forerunner, Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, noted that Oklahoma was one of only four states that still specifically criminalized same-sex sodomy at that time. The others were Texas, Kansas and Missouri. The Arkansas Supreme Court had overturned that state’s same-sex sodomy law the previous year. The U.S. Supreme Court was expected to issue a ruling in Lawrence v. Texas in June, and an article in the Spring 2003 Torch announced that Lee Taft, Lambda Legal regional director in Dallas, was to discuss the case at Fellowship Congregational United Church of Christ in Tulsa on April 14. Lambda Legal had represented the two defendants in a criminal sodomy case and led the case through appeals. “Battling for years in the Texas courts, we sought to overturn the criminal convictions (which made the two men registerable ‘sex offenders’ in several states) and to have Texas’s law declared unconstitutional,” Lambda says on its website. “When the highest court in Texas eventually refused to even hear our arguments, we convinced the U.S. Supreme Court to take the case. In a stunning victory, the highest court in the land found the “Homosexual Conduct” law unconstitutional and established, for the first time, that lesbians and gay men share the same fundamental liberty right to private sexual intimacy with another adult that heterosexuals have.” The ruling overturned the June 30, 1986, precedent of Bowers v. Hardwick, in which the U.S. Supreme Court had ruled that states had the right to criminalize sodomy on the grounds of public morality. �The TOHR Torch noted that “sodomy laws (were) used to justify discrimination against lesbians and gay men … in every day life; they’re invoked in denying employment to gay people, in refusing custody or visitation for gay parents, and even in intimidating gay people out of exercising their free speech rights.” The Lawrence ruling set the stage for later advances in the struggle for equal rights under the law, with each case building on those that had come before. The Summer 2003 TOHR Torch included an article from the History Project outlining the history of sodomy laws, with a focus on Oklahoma, where in 1890 the pre-statehood territory’s Legislature had codified its sodomy law with a penalty of up to 10 years in prison. The relevant statute, Title 21, Section 21-886, refers to the crime as “the detestable and abominable crime against nature.” State courts made consensual heterosexual sodomy legal in 1986 but retained the right to prosecute consensual homosexual conduct. That Summer 2003 article noted that “Oklahoma’s law has become legal justification for firing gay and lesbian teachers, administrators and school personnel, nursing home workers and others. These Oklahomans and other gays and lesbians are therefore required to choose between their livelihoods and their ability to be open about who they are. As a result, gays and lesbians in Oklahoma are deterred from seeking political and social change.” With repercussions like those, it’s no wonder so many gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Oklahomans continued to live in the closet. The Lawrence ruling made it possible for many to come out of the shadows and was a major building block for the legal victories that came later. June 26, 2013 Ten years later, two huge advances in the quest for marriage equality came out of the U.S. Supreme Court on June 26, 2013. The July 3, 2013, OkEq eNews reported that on the evening of Wednesday, June 26, 2013, more than 400 celebrants gathered at a Decision Day Rally at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to celebrate that morning’s Supreme Court rulings on both the Defense of Marriage Act and Proposition 8, making same-sex marriage legal in California again. The group heard from attorney and OkEq board member Mike Redman and the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit, Mary Bishop & Sharon Baldwin and Sue Barton & Gay Phillips. “There was a champagne toast and a fabulous wedding cake from Merritt's Bakery,” the article says. The eNews article shares photos from the Decision Day Rally. �Oklahomans for Equality Board of Directors President Angela Sivadon, center, and her now-wife, Mary Robinson, serve wedding cake to the crowd at the Decision Day rally in 2013. The overturning of DOMA meant that the United States government would recognize any marriage – including same-sex marriages – recognized by any state. It did not, however, force states to recognize same-sex marriages. That fight was left for other cases, but, like Lawrence v. Texas, United States v. Windsor was a fundamental building block for those that followed. In California, the nation’s largest state, marriages of same-sex couples had been legal since June 17, 2008, after a May 15 ruling by that state’s Supreme Court. But a group of people, known as the proponents of Prop 8, gathered enough signatures to put Proposition 8, a proposed state constitutional amendment, on the ballot. Prop 8 was to define marriage as between only a man and a woman and to stop the same-sex marriages. When they went to the polls on Nov. 4, 2008, more than 13 million Californians voted 52% to 48% in favor of the state question. No more same-sex marriages were allowed – at least for the time being – but about 18,000 had already been solemnized. The resulting amendment was challenged in court in Hollingsworth v. �Perry, and on June 26, 2013, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the proponents, who defended the constitutional amendment after the state of California refused to do so, did not have standing – or the legal right – to defend the case. Therefore, the Aug. 4, 2010, ruling of U.S. District Judge Vaughn Walker that Prop 8 violated the U.S. Constitution was upheld. Same-sex marriages began again in California on June 28, 2013. June 26, 2015 Marriage equality was achieved for all the land on June 26, 2015, when the U.S. Supreme Court ruled in Obergefell v. Hodges that marriage is a fundamental right that is guaranteed by the U.S. Constitution to everyone, including same-sex couples. Oklahoma had achieved marriage equality through the courts a year earlier, but all the states that still did not have marriage equality were required at that time to authorize and recognize marriages of same-sex couples. Oklahomans for Equality proclaimed in its June 30, 2015, eNews that “at long last, there is no such thing as ‘gay marriage’ – now it's just MARRIAGE!” The eNews article shares photos from the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally that OkEq held at the Equality Center that evening. Attendees at the Marriage Equality Celebration Rally on June 26, 2015 – the day the U.S. Supreme Court made marriage equality the law of the land in the Obergefell case – give attorneys Don Holladay and Joe Thai, front left, a standing ovation. Holladay and Thai, along with attorneys James Warner III and Jeffrey Fisher, represented the plaintiffs in the Oklahoma marriage equality lawsuit, which they had won the year before. June 26, 2017 �The U.S. Supreme Court followed up exactly two years later with a ruling that clarified for states that didn’t yet get it what it had meant by marriage equality in 2015. Its ruling in Pavan v. Smith would establish that all states must provide married same-sex couples with the same benefits and recognition they afford to heterosexual couples. The plaintiffs were two legally married Arkansas same-sex couples, the Jacobses and the Pavans, who had conceived children through anonymous sperm donation. The state refused to list the wives of the birth mothers as co-parents on the children’s birth certificates, citing a state law. The U.S. Supreme Court ruled that the law was “inconsistent” with its Obergefell ruling. “When an opposite-sex couple conceives a child by way of anonymous sperm donation – just as the petitioners did here – state law requires the placement of the birth mother’s husband on the child’s birth certificate. … And that is so even though (as the State concedes) the husband “is definitively not the biological father” in those circumstances. … Arkansas may not, consistent with Obergefell, deny married same-sex couples that recognition,” the Supreme Court wrote in its decision. 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Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Register Today In Memoriam Iln Merrnoriaurn Timothy (Tim) Linus Dickmann Dec. 18, 1967 - June 24, 2024 Bernd (Eric) Oehler Dec. 08, 1942 - June 7, 2024 Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 In Memoriam Submissions click on the name to view obituary, if available. OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC CulturallyCompetentCar•forthelGBTQ•Communlly Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. 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The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM .,,,,,_ WE ARE NOW OFFERING TULSA 6?1TI-R6CI5T Support Group Rwhlt.e·letl2roupforpet:rsupportandeducationaboutsyst.emicracism -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. lut Thundau of ~-lllonth at the Dennis R. 11111 tiq1lalltg C8ntar mElllst.7--1:Ml Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Al~Bf)oantwithLegalAidServicesof OkLahoma will be assisting the LGBTGI+ _ 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeeoa>'ictim of housing discrimination.please caUherat9 18-238-165&,oremail her al a ! ~ ~ g . Theseservicesa,eopentoe..eryone rega,dlessolincomeandare avaitable throughouttheSta1et0< GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende-rSupportprovides support,education,andsocial oppor1unitiesfortransgende.- LGBTQ+persons. ~ w.dnndl,y of 1M :' ;:: = :;:: ="::;:: ;";;::: with;;;; fai;,;;; '"= ;;;;;;"' ;:,,; -•;;;;; "'~ ;;;._;';'~-• ;;; - - ' Atonffl ,,_, J2PM- 4PM. First-time interview is required be!ore attending your first meeting Pleasecontact918-743-4297 71 c-,.......,.,.ol,,.. monfltfrom 7""'1f09PM DlnnllR.NellEqw,llty, Tuia OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------ opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;.. Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. lriJ FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual- 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALA ID~~ SERVI CES .,. = QKlAIIO .. . .<, l ,_C, ............ 71 ~ Gender L Correction Clinic 94290, . . . . . . . . . . . . . JulieLGofeewithl.egalAidSeMcesof Ok lahomaisavailablefordropindiscussions rngardinglega l issUf!!o. --- ...,.....,,......., .. c.MbllNellEquallty,TulSa.OK74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma !or Equa lity Law Center ishostingaclinicfornameand AnorneyJosh Paytonandhisteam wi nass;stthosewithnameand Qendercorrec1ions. can·1 ma kelt inpen.on?contac1 inlottokequalitylaw.comtoschedu(e a consultation by Zoom. a.,, wcond ~ y ofrt,e .--'-M _,._,m _,._~_,_"'.., """-·- -- - -...... momfl from 5,:39f'M' ,0 7PM DMnisR.Neill Equality, TulSa, OK 74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS Denn,sR Nc1l1Equat,ty Tulsa OK74128 OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social o,ganlzation for mature-minded GayandBise,ualmeo. A .o,;._ orv-r,iation for ma1Urernlnded gay -,Id bisex1Jc1l men to ftUbllshlriendshlpandwpport lhroughsoclallnlef'ac11on 71 ,-,._...,r---,.,,°' AttendNs musl be 21 l'N;,. o r ~ - - - - .__.,,_7NllioPAM Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t ih SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGAL AID t ih SERVICES O F These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. '"'• Get help- applying for A • center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? S upplemental : ~!~~--i:;ce P rogram No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: Call toll-free to l (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. 1. 2. alerts across the country. Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: You may qualify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium 's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortiu m Housing Navigator by emai lin g Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com ~ TULSA HIGHER I ,1.;1 1 1EDUCATION Learn more a, buogertceeok o~/reso11cresKoap/ ~ I I ~ - li-..l HUNGER * FREE n CONSORTIUM OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:55 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays This week with OKEQ 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride We wish all cyclists a safe trip on the 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride. The cyclists started their journey from the New Echota Historic Site and are making their way back to Tahlequah, Cherokee Nation, Oklahoma. This is an annual bicycle ride of nearly 1,000 miles commemorating the forced removal of Cherokee people from their ancestral homelands. The riders departed from Georgia on Monday, June 3rd. ?⚧?❤????????????? One of the riders is Shawna Baker, the first openly lesbian on the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court and an OKEQ Trustee. Shawna Baker Interview 2024 Tulsa Pride 83 United x FC TULSA Shout out to 83 United, they showed PRIDE this past Saturday at the FC Tulsa vs Sacramento Republic FC with the OKEQ Rainbow Pride Flag! "83 United is an independent supporter group uniting all fans of the USL Championship side FC Tulsa. Together we serve a mission that is twofold: cheer the boys in black and gold to victory and grow the game we love in the city we call home." Join them in section 115 for the 2024 season for the best party in downtown Tulsa!" www.83United.org 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧ HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA?⚧ Tulsa Pride may have moved to October but we're still celebrating PRIDE all month long!! Check out these PRIDE events that are happening around town and some of the Pride events that benefit Oklahomans for Equality! We wish everybody and our community partners a FUN, SAFE, and LOVING month of PRIDE and we hope to see y'all at the Be Your Own Masterpiece Equality Gala on June 22nd! " ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit www.okeq.org! ?? HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA TULSA ?? Who doesn't love Huffy? Now he's supporting LGBTQ+ people too? Even better. A portion of all sales will be donated to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma to support the LGBTQ+ community! ?⚧?❤????????????? Show your Tulsa pride and celebrate love in all its vibrant forms with this limited-edition tee! Our iconic mascot, Huffy, takes center stage, reimagined in a dazzling rainbow of Pride colors. This comfy classic features a durable 100% polyester front for bold graphics, while the cool 100% nylon mesh back keeps you breezy. An adjustable snap closure ensures a perfect fit, ready for cheers, adventures, and everyday Tulsa love. PRIDE WITH HUFFY 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? f ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? SPECI --..~· ENING UIUI UII "' . COME EARLY FOR OKEQ BUSINESS MIXER . PRESENHD WITH OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Birdcage Screening with Circle Cinema and EBA Mixer Thursday, June 27nd, 6PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK Presented with Circle Cinema during Pride month! A portion of ticket proceeds will benefit OKEQ. Film at 7:30PM, and come early for OKEQ’s Equality BusinessAllianceMixer in the lobby starting at 6PM - with free popcorn samples and a cash bar. Tickets for the film are $11 Circle members, $13 nonmembers. 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ MEMBERS ARE ELIGIBLE FOR A DISCOUNTED PROMO CODE. VERIFY YOUR MEMBERSHIP BY EMAILING KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG TO RECEIVE YOUR PROMO CODE. The Equality Business Alliance (EBA) exists to strengthen 2SLGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa Community. The EBA is held every fourth Thursday of the month. The EBA provides a directory of 2SLBGTQ+ online at OkEq.org. EBA is an opportunity to network with like-minded businesses creating professional environments where 2SLGBTQ+ businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. About the film: In this remake of the classic French farce "La Cage aux Folles," engaged couple Val Goldman (Dan Futterman) and Barbara Keeley (Calista Flockhart) shakily introduce their future in-laws. Val's father, Armand (Robin Williams), a gay Miami drag club owner, pretends to be straight and attempts to hide his relationship with Albert (Nathan Lane), his life partner and the club's flamboyant star attraction, so as to please Barbara's father, controversial Republican Sen. Kevin Keeley (Gene Hackman). ?⚧?❤????????????? BIRDCAGE TICKETS Andy B's PRIDE Fundraiser Friday, June 28th, 3pm-11pm Andy B's Bowl | Social 8511 S. Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Join Andy Bs for a Pride fundraiser on Friday, June 28th, from 3pm-11pm. Join 2024 Tulsa Pride, King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya for an evening of bowling, food, drinks, and fun. Guest will receive a $5 game card and 20% of sales will go to The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ?⚧?❤????????????? Be sure to let them know you or there for the OKEQ Pride fundraiser. 1censingbyConcordTheatricals . cc,£,\f\NS EATINGAQU, S \..,V"' June 28 & 29 'ICJte Written by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood B&Z PRODUCT IONS in collaboration with 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... '''" AMERICAN TMEATRE Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c111h11 to.1rd,th D1nt1isR. N1il1(41HlitrC11t1r '9 918.804.2907 8 americantheatrecompany.org (9 atc@a tctulsa.org 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm Norris Park 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) later in the evening and a campout on the river. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Pride Month with The Tavern All Month of June The Tavern 201 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Join us in celebrating Pride month at Tavern on Main St. with our special cocktail, the Pride Paradise. ?⚧?❤????????????? For every Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita) and other select drinks purchased, we will donate $2 to the Equality Center. The Tavern will be donating $2 from each of the following drinks: Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita), Non-alcoholic Pride Paradise, glasses of our Rotating Rosè of the Day, and Neff Raspberry Pride sour beer. The Pride Paradise is made with either Cimarron Tequila or Boval Mezcal, Fair Acai Liqueur, Agave, and Lime. The Nonalcoholic Pride Paradise contains Acai Juice, Lime Juice, and Sprite. ?⚧?❤????????????? The Pride Paradise is made with the finest 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 ' I - ,. ,.. ,. - "".., -~ "' ~- - https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ingredients and is available both with and without alcohol, so everyone can join in the celebration. Your support helps us make a difference. Cheers to equality and inclusion! ' I The Tavern Special Events FREE HIV TESTING 71 Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, June 25th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 27th, 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Then and Now takes the audience on a historical journey of the Broadway musical. Join Larry Gray, Jill Lingle, Alyssa McGuire, and accompanist Tracy Watson as they bounce back and forth through the history of their favorite Broadway tunes with a couple non-Broadway performance pieces added for fun. Also – featuring original artwork by Pamela Watson. Then and Now will journey from the waters of Dames @ Sea to the French Revolution; from Pajama Games to Untitled Show; and from Charlie Brown to The Bridges of Madison County. TICKETS Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step-parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is fo r parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2O22blended@g!Ill!il&2m • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections July 16th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Il111 Meimoriaurrn Bernd (Eric) Oehler Dec. 08, 1942 - June 7, 2024 Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 In Memoriam Submissions click on the name to view obituary, if available. OKEQ Programming OKEQ -ci=-«r- HEALTH -ci=-«rCLINIC Culturally Comp•Unt Car• for th~ lGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow Library DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;.."7,;:7:.:-:;::,::.:::,~., 71 ASEXUAL AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA 6?1TI-R6CI5T Support Group WE ARE NOW OFFERING ~'F/RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. laat Thursdau of BV81'U_fflonth at th8 lllnnia R. lllil Equalitu C8ntllr IIElltst.7-ta Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Alys.saBf)oantwithLegalAidServiceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ _ 71 lfyoubelieveyouVebeeoavictim ofhouslngdiscrimination,please callherat9 18-238-165&,oremai l herat,lJ~~g GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides Theseservicesareopentoe,,e,yon• rega,dlessofir,comeandare available throoghouttheStatetor LGBTQ+persons a,..,, .........J' of lne ;:::: '=;;;; m"";;;: ;",;;;; '"'";:::: fai;-"= ::::,;;;;.:., "'-•;:::: lated _ ;,_,oo_, - - ' Monett from 12PM- 4PM. support,educa tioo,andsocial opponunitiesfortransgender First-timeinterviewisrequiredbe!ore attending your first meeting Ptea,;econ!act918-743-42Q7 71 ~ ~"'"- ~ fnlnt 7'Wf09flM DlnnltR.NellE(pM,llty,Tuba. OK7◄12& Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tul$.a, OK 7◄ 12& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;., Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALA m ~, SERv1ct:s .... =ii 01<1A HO.\IA, l sc. --................. 71 Gender L Correction Clinic 9Q9 . . . . . _ . . . . . . . _ JulieLGoreewithlegalAidSetvicesof OklahomaisasailablefordrOl)indiscussions re<,ar<linglegalissues. Denna R. Neill Equality, Tulsa. OK 74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center is hosting a clink for name and ,__,_~_,._•=-•-~-'-"'-"""- -- - - - - AnomeyJoshPaytonandhisteam willassistthosewithoameand genderc01Tections. Can'lma keit inperson?contact infof>okequalilylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom rwr, s«ond Wedr,e,scayof rhe ,no,,tt,frv,nS;JSPMto 7PM Dennis R.NelUEquallty,Tuls.a,OK74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS ( OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asociatorganizationformatu re-minded GayandBise,ualmen 71 Ato,;ll,lorganizationlormah.1..rnlnd9dgay-,,dbisex1,1;1l,....,10 ftUbllshlriendshipand$UPl)Ol't llvvugt,10Ciallni.rac1ion AttendNs must be 21 YN~ or l'wwy---,n-c..,,o1 _ _..... ... _.,,_7NlliofPM Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRIJ&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. \11£'1 Get helpapplying for • • :~!~~\i:;ce Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? S upplemental P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol You may qua lify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailin g jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at buogertceeok oq,/resourceslsoap/ CONSORTIUM - li-..l HUNGER • FREE n OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:54 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, April 6th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQVOUTH PROGRAMING Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack is provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, April 12th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Nestled in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Zen Recovery Inc. stands as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction. Led by women and LGBTQ+ individuals, our 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offers weekly gatherings known as "Zen & the Art of Whatever Works," providing a safe haven for individuals seeking solace and support on their journey to sobriety. With a focus on harm reduction and mindfulness, our meetings, held every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, offer a space for individuals to explore their struggles and triumphs within a community of understanding and acceptance. As the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance, we pride ourselves on our commitment to radical inclusivity, ensuring that all voices are valued and heard. Join us at Zen Recovery Inc., where compassion reigns supreme, and the path to healing is paved with courage and acceptance. Special Events Rising Stars Saturday, April 6th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, December 2nd at 3 PM Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of each month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Coronation XVI - A Night in the Halls of Valhalla Saturday, April 6th, 7 pm Renaissance Hotel 6808 S 107th E Ave, Tulsa, OK You can purchase a ticket for $100 that allows you in earlier for a formal dinner. If interested, let me know, and I'll send you the ticket link. This is our biggest annual fundraiser of the year. All funds made throughout the year go right back into the LGBTQIA+ Community here in Oklahoma. This is a formal attire event. You'll see and meet Drag queens from all over the US and Canada. We are an international 501c3 non-profit organization. Check us out at impcourtok.org Bill W. and Dr. Bob April 11th-14th Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is a powerful and often humorous play detailing the events that led to the creation of Alcoholics Anonymous. BILL W. and Dr. BOB Written by Samuel Shem & Janet Surrey, Directed by Paula Scheider, Sponsored by Hippie Chick Heart Featuring: Dara Renee Allen, Kim Li Carlson, Marc Carlson, Mark Ingham, DeeDee Huffman-Jones, Zero Steiert 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Marriott Southern Hills Ruffin Event Center 1902 E 71st Street, Tulsa Oklahoma Saturday, April 13th 10am ·6~m Shop with SO+ Local Artisans Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland & John Wooley Celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th Birthday Thursday, April 18th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Thursdays in the Rainbow Room welcomes Janet Rutland back to Lynn Riggs Theatre on April 18. Rutland will be joined by author John Wooley, and together they will celebrate the 100th birthday of Henry Mancini, with music and narration about the talented composer’s life. Musical accompaniment by Scott McQuade and Jake Erwin. TICKETS Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 19th, 7-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Enjoy a fun evening of professional drag performers, AND root for your favorite novice lip-syncer! Feeling extra? Join us in the sync! The winner of the novice contest receives a $100 cash prize! All proceeds benefit the LGBTQ students at the Little Blue House at TU. r Blended Saturday, April 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in non-traditional households (stepparents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Free childcare is available! This peer led support group is fo r parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com. Free childcare is also available! Please join us at 10am on April 20th at OKEQ! For questions, email ~@gm..ai..l&2m Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th 12-4 pm WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK "2-Spirit Fest" is a three-day event open to the public, celebrating diverse artistic expressions deeply rooted in traditional cultures. Attendees can look forward to musical performances by both local and non-local artists, captivating video installations, dynamic drumming and dancing, an artist market, and an insightful panel discussion. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For a detailed schedule and additional information, please visit Twisted Arts’ website at: https://twistedfest.org/twospirit Funding for this program has been generously provided by a grant from Oklahoma Humanities (OH) and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH). It is important to note that any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this program do not necessarily represent those of OH or NEH. Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ Pride Bingo Saturday, April 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, April 20th Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Sasha Turrelle and Sean Tylr Davis Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Please get your tickets before they sell out! 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE a MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION AUJFT OICLAHOIIA crrY QIIAL SPRMS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ---------- 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Il1111 Meimoriaurn Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Rick Spring October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -ci=-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -ci=-f- CulturallyCompetentCareforthelGBTQ•Communlty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up 111111 1111111 1111111 IIII Aces Committed ASEXUAL Equality _ ,,.: ...~=~"_:,;, 71 T..C.., 0.,_,,,.__.._ A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSC::I5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhltt:-letl 2roupfurp£ersupportandeducationaboutsyst:.emicr-acism .,#F'1RN -CAREGIVER- 1a8t1hffldau of l!"ll'll_lllonth at t.ha 111nnia R. lllil Equalitu Cantar mElblt.7..,_ Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Affirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! f GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende..Suppor1 provides suppon,educa !ion,andsocial opponunitiesfortransgender First-lime interview is required before alt efldingyourlirstmeeting PK!asecontact918-743-4297 71 Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7◄ 129 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB.f)'antwithLegalAidServiceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ _ 71 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. lfyoubelieveyouVebeeoa>'ictim of housing discrimination.please callherat9 18-238-165&,oremai l herata!~~Theseservicesareopentoe-ite,yon• rega,dlessofincomeandare available throughouttheStateto, LGBTQ+persons ~ .........,of ,ne ,_= _m""- ;"-"""- fai_ - "= _ ;.,, _ -•_••~ _ ;•-•oo-• - - ' AtonM from 12PM-4PM. DlnnilR.Nell~,TulN. OK7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY BEARS 7484 ..., Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. <rr • Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 Free HIV Testing Every Tuesday from4pm-&pml elizabeth.oni,....,eq.o,g ______...., ... __ Ungrupodeapo)'Opa,ramujeres 1ransgene,'oene5P<'i',ol DeonisR.Neill~uar __.. ,..._,..itimo; - - Tulsa OK7412& 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt ~ c:==:i Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALI TY 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. 8 JAMMOUTT E==i EVEI\Y2N0 &; 41'11 MOND AY ~ 6:30-7:30PM This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. t Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALAID ~ SERVI CESo• = ~ Q1<lAIIO .. . .<, l ,_c, JulieLGofeewithl.egalAidSef'vlcesof Oklahomaisa,ailablefordr<>11indiscussions ............ 71 regardinglega l iss...,... ~ .. Gender Correction Clinic 94290, . . . . . . . . . . . . . --- ...,.....,,......., c.MbllNellEquallty,TulSa.OK74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklal'loma !orE:qua litylawCeoter AnorneyJosh Paytonandhisteam wi nass;s11hosewi1hnameand Qendercorrec1ions. can·1 ma kelt inpen.on?con1ac1 inl~kequalityiaw.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. ishostingaclinicfornameand a,..,, wcond w.dnnday of rne gender m arker changes. momfl from 5:39PM' to 7PM ~----------DMnisR.Neill Equality, TulSa, OK74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... from 10AM to 1PM I Denn,sl! Ne,U£qua lay Tulsa OK7412& 91&.r- 34297 OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A~orv-,iation lo,matu,._ mlndedvayand bisexual men to fttabllshfril'ndshipandsuPPOM Asocial0<ganlza1ionforma1u,e-minded GayandBise, ualmen 71 through10elalln..,ac1'on AttendNsmustbe21yNrsO<~ 1w,y_--,n.nc,a,,o1 _ _ _ _ _ , ---fnlm1Pllltoff"M Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRIJ&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Veteran Support Group Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Fridays 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LEGAL AID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. 4/29/26, 12:37 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at bungerfreeok or_g/resources/soap/ - ~ HUNGER FREE nn OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm OkEq Security Funding You may have noticed a familiar face at the Equality Center these last few weeks of December. Through limited and restricted funding, OkEq will benefit through mid-January from the presence of a Security Officer during our standard business hours. Suzy S., (She/Her/They/Them), has over a decade of direct security experience, is CLEET certified, and holds specialized training in mental health intervention and substance abuse. DONATE TODAY! As a member of our community, they also bring deep understanding and compassion while serving OkEq in an environment that is wholly affirming to their own identity. The only piece missing in this incredible partnership is the capacity to fund the role as a permanent one. One of our main initiatives over this year has been to increase safety at the 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Center. In operating one of the largest 2SLGBTQIA+ focused human rights organizations serving Oklahoma, OkEq staff and volunteers often find themselves as the target of threats, vandalism, and having to navigate crises. From within our walls is also the work of pushing back against anti-2SLGBTQIA+ legislation and social policy, while threats against our communities are on the rise and intensifying, according to the latest briefings from the Department of Homeland Security. Tulsa Pride 2023 was also a stark reminder that even after decades of activism and celebration, we still face very real and present dangers. We all deserve safe and affirming spaces, so we are reaching out to you, our community, for help. Keeping OUR Center secure and welcoming to all we serve can be met through a one-time recurring commitment and allow OkEq to provide a permanent post for Suzy. The current costs for a twelve-hour shift are $360 dollars. Will you help? Use the link below to donate now, or drop by the Center at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120, to donate in person. Thank you, Dorothy Ballard Executive Director | OkEq Volunteer Opportunity: Become the Welcoming Face of OKEQ! Are you passionate about serving your community? OKEQ is seeking enthusiastic front desk volunteers to be the welcoming presence at our center. As a front desk volunteer, you'll greet and guide guests, handle phone inquiries, and assist in distributing essential resources. This role offers an exceptional chance to engage with our community and make a meaningful impact. Front desk shifts typically run for 3 hours once a week, with opportunities for more involvement if your schedule allows. We currently have openings during the following times: Tuesdays 9 am-12 pm Wednesdays 9 am-12 pm 12-3 pm Thursdays 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Fridays 12-3 pm 3-6 pm 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturdays 12-3 pm 1st & 3rd 3-6 pm 1st & 3rd If you can dedicate some of your time and want to join our dedicated team, please email Olivia at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Make a difference and be a vital part of our community at OKEQ! Special Events STORYTELLING ROUNDTABLE Discuss the Impact of Food Insecurity & Hunger on Your Life! Storytellers receive: • $150 Check or Gift Card after W-9 is received • Mileage reimbursement • Childcare reimbursement • Transportation if needed • Lunch and snacks • A safe space to share stories & create community 18+ & 2SLGBTQIA+ ONLY! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, January 27, 2024 10 AM - 3 PM CST Limited Space Available Apply Here by January 10: hfok.org/Jan27Roundtable 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HUNGER • FREE OKLAHOMA Mancini Plays Mancini Thursday, January 18th, 7.30pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Vibraphonist, composer, and band-leader, Nick Mancini headlines January's Rainbow Room. All ticket proceeds will benefit the Mancini family's medical bills for their son, Max, who was born with HLHS and still faces another major surgery as he turns 1 year old. Come join the vibe! TICKETS Wonderland is Real, A Reading Supporting Women in Recovery Friday, January 19th, 7pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK TICKETS Come and immerse yourself in an evening of powerful storytelling as we celebrate the strength and resilience of families in recovery. Join us for " Wonderland is Real" a reading supporting Women in Recovery on Friday, January 19, 2024, at 7:30 PM. This event is a fundraiser for Women in Recovery, an intensive outpatient alternative for eligible women facing long prison sentences. Blackjack Rewrite Company, with the support of Oklahomans for Equality, bring you a fundraiser for the Women in Recovery program at FCSOK. "Wonderland is Real" by acclaimed playwright and Tulsa-based artist Carlyn Flint will be presented as a staged reading at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street, on January 19th, 2024, at 7.30 pm. Through the literary magic of a very different Wonderland - this time seen through the eyes of a young boy in the midst of pain and loss, we aim to 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... explore themes of resilience, growth, and empowerment in a family undergoing a journey towards healing and self-discovery. Join us for an unforgettable night of connection, support, and inspiration. Together, we can support Tulsa's families and encourage a space of solace and community, providing a platform for their voices to be heard. Don't miss out on this incredible event! "Wonderland is Real" is directed by Dionne Lambert. The cast includes the talents of Jason Chunu, Christian Stubblefield, Kimberly Martin, Andrew Smith, Kathryn Hartney, Maria Pita Carmona, and Courtney Meadows. This reading contains mature and sensitive language and themes. Atlas Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, January 25th, 1-5 pm Atlas School 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK SCHOOL Oklahomans for Equality is kicking off the new year to showcase Atlas School. Please note going forward the EBA meetings will be held the last Thursday of the month. Atlas School, formerly Holberton School Tulsa, is a software engineering vocational school dedicated to training the next generation of Tulsa's tech workforce. Our campus started classes in 2020 and has since graduated over 100 students. Our current programs are all 20 months long designed to prepare anyone, regardless of previous experience level, for technical and professional success in a career in software development. If you are interested in seeing if a career in tech might be for you, reach out to us at www.atlasschool.com! Atlas School is located at 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103. You may reach them at 918.392.5530. The evening will include a brief overview about Atlas School. As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. Drag Show Pug Rescue Fundraiser Saturday, January 27th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is proud to present Drag Show Pug Rescue Fundraiser! Join us for an exciting evening of 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tickets will be available at the door TikTok Twitter Youtube Facebook Instagram entertainment and compassion! Only $2 grants you access to various activities like bidding on silent auction items or meeting and greeting adorable pugs. This event is perfect for families and people of all ages, and the best part is that every penny of the proceeds will go to Homeward Bound Pug Rescue & Adoption of Oklahoma. Be part of a great cause and have fun at the same time! TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING ft _ 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~u * Refute Tlr 8e /tAuiriRe! Sal(Jie I ~' Advocacy & Services for LGBTQ> Elders Were fu se to be invisible This research study focuses on learning more about LGBTQ+ people aged 50 and older across the country, including their experiences, needs, and resiliencies as they get older. The information you provide about your experiences will help us to identify what kinds of healthcare and related services may be important for LGBTQ+ older people from diverse backgrounds. You are being asked to participate in the study because you meet the following criteria: You are aged 50 or older, and you identify as LGBTQ+. If you agree to participate in this study, you will be asked to complete a onetime survey that may take 30 to 45 minutes. This study includes only a minimal risk related to potential psychological discomfort when discussing sensitive matters related to your health and life experiences. Participation in research is voluntary. You may choose either to take part or not to take part in the study. If you decide to take part in this study, you may leave the study at any time. No matter what decision you make, there will be no penalty to you in any way. You will not lose any of your regular benefits, and you can still access services the way you usually do. If you have any questions about the study, please contact Dr. Jason Flatt, Assistant Professor at UNLV at 702-895-5586. If you wish to ask questions about the study or your rights as a research participant to someone other than the researchers or if you wish to voice any problems or concerns you may have about the study, please call the UNLV Institutional Review Board at 702-895-2794. TAKE SURVEY WEARE HIRING _____ _ 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Require men ts: • High school diploma or equivalent required. • Knowledge of community resources of targeted LGBTIQA+ population • Experience working with the targeted population • Pay begins at $36,729.76 annually tu lsa-health.org/careers ~ ~ TULSA HEALTH n l W Department In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michael Duncan died December 31, 2023 after an extended illness. He attended Central High (class of 1988). Michael enjoyed all forms of rock music, and loved to tell stories about working at Cain's Ballroom or the Chalkboard Restaurant. He used to manage a local pet store near 11th and Memorial. He is survived by his best friend, Bob Lawrence, and his beloved tortoise, Gaw-ke-la. A celebration of Michael's life will be Thursday, January 11, 2024 at 1pm at Fellowship Congregational UCC, 2900 S Harvard Ave. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Na~&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Ofclohoma will be assist'.ns . LGBTQ+ cotM1unity with fair hoosms- scour rrzooP l1S1 COV1"1ROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRL.5 ANO 5 TRAN5/NON81NARY YOIJTI, 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ff€RY TffU/UMY OF Tff, MONTff oop"' .;.. !JI Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... interview. Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 YOlll Bi 1 T 1lt1J~ lL@;f t@;r -~~~ ~~~~~~ 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ m:r::!J@JO@!O@QJJ§§~~ "iJ"QJJ[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§l:PO~D"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncfil®lf ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @lf®Dnl]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 ~ https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&s first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. QTULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner 4/29/26, 12:25 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:25 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/840970525b655997aa0f15b0d36cc84b.pdf e0525db691a8e979bf4bfe49661e3d05 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Special Events AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, January 18th, 6pm Oklahomans for Equality WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF/RN -CAREGIVER- 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. FOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH I All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. Thursdays, 6 pm Meet and Greet: January 18th, 6 pm This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage in-person meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Mancini Plays Mancini Thursday, January 18th, 7.30pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Vibraphonist, composer, and band leader Nick Mancini headline January's Rainbow Room. All ticket proceeds will benefit the Mancini family's medical bills for their son, Max, who was born with HLHS and still faces another major surgery as he turns 1 year old. Come join the vibe! TICKETS Wonderland is Real, A Reading Supporting Women in Recovery Friday, January 19th, 7pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Come and immerse yourself in an evening of powerful storytelling as we celebrate the strength and resilience of families in recovery. Join us for " Wonderland is Real" a reading supporting Women in Recovery on Friday, January 19, 2024, at 7:30 PM. This event is a fundraiser for Women in Recovery, an intensive outpatient alternative for eligible women facing long prison sentences. Blackjack Rewrite Company, with the support of Oklahomans for Equality, bring you a fundraiser for the Women in Recovery program at FCSOK. "Wonderland is Real" by acclaimed playwright and Tulsa-based artist Carlyn Flint will be presented as a staged reading at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street, on January 19th, 2024, at 7.30 pm. Through the literary magic of a very different Wonderland - this time seen through the eyes of a young boy in the midst of pain and loss, we aim to explore themes of resilience, growth, and empowerment in a family undergoing a journey towards healing and self-discovery. Join us for an unforgettable night of connection, support, and inspiration. 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Together, we can support Tulsa's families and encourage a space of solace and community, providing a platform for their voices to be heard. Don't miss out on this incredible event! "Wonderland is Real" is directed by Dionne Lambert. The cast includes the talents of Jason Chunu, Christian Stubblefield, Kimberly Martin, Andrew Smith, Kathryn Hartney, Maria Pita Carmona, and Courtney Meadows. This reading contains mature and sensitive language and themes. TICKETS [!]. CCSD Diversity and Inclusion Hiring Fair Saturday, January 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK ID SCAN ME Are you interested in a career with CCSD? Scan the QR code or visit https:// recruitment.ccsd.net/ for more information. Welcome to the CCSD Diversity Hiring Event Thank you for yo ur interest in a career with CCSD! Please scan to fi ll out an int erest form. For more information or to apply, visit recrui t ment. ccsd.net Pride Bingo: 80s Saturday, January 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, January 20th, as we celebrate the 80s era with some amazing hits. Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment! Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and Kitty Marie Legacy, with special guest appearance by Pastel. Hosted by Scrappy Legacy | Doors open at 6:30 PM. Equality Business Alliance Mixer 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... E UALITY Thursday, January 25th, 6 pm Atlas School l 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK Business Alliance EBA MIXER Atlas SCHOOL 1 okeq.com/eba Atlas School, formerly Holberton SchoolTulsa,isa software engineering vocational school offering 261-month programs for a career in software development The Equality Business Alliance exists to Oklahomans for Equality is kicking off the new year to showcase Atlas School. Please note going forward the EBA meetings will be held the last Thursday of the month. 7HRSDAY, JAM.JARY 257H I 6Rl-1 15 N. Cheyenne AIIE', Tulsa, OK 741$3. Atlas School, formerly Holberton School Tulsa, is a software engineering vocational school dedicated to training the next generation of Tulsa's tech workforce. Our campus started classes in 2020 and has since graduated over 100 students. Our current programs are all 20 months long designed to prepare anyone, regardless of previous experience level, for technical and professional success in a career in software development. If you are interested in seeing if a career in tech might be for you, reach out to us at www.atlasschool.com! Atlas School Tulsa, OK 741613 918.392.553& Atlas School is located at 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103. You may reach them at 918.392.5530. The evening will include a brief overview about Atlas School. As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. TULSA EUlTI-RGCI5T Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandedurationaboutsystemicracism la8t Thursday of ~_lllonth at thB lltnuri8 R. 1llil Equality Cntar 621 E'Iii st. 7-uPIII Cratiq asafa space and facilitatina support. Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, January 25th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Bducation and social opportuitia fur all individuala 11181rina to divat l'rmn sustamic racism in thair daily liva Ull..:.c.-=.::i.":;.r::: ~~ OkEq is excited to onnounce the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program launch is OkEq Youth Program Returns! Saturday, January 27th 10 am-6 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa OK OkEq is excited to announce the return of 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ,,saturaay, Jan. LI, ror LC3~ llllA+ youth oges 12 to 19. weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program launch is Saturday, Jan. 27, for LGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. Facilitated in partnership with CREOKS, every Saturday from 10 am to 6 pm, it will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, and, of course, socializing and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and a lunch are provided. Sign-ups open inperson and online Friday, Jan. 19! For questions, please email youth@okeq.org. Drag Show Pug Rescue Fundraiser Saturday, January 27th 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an exciting evening of entertainment and compassion! Only $2 grants you access to various activities like bidding on silent auction items or meeting and greeting adorable pugs. This event is perfect for families and people of all ages, and the best part is that every penny of the proceeds will go to Homeward Bound Pug Rescue & Adoption of Oklahoma. Be part of a great cause and have fun at the same time! Tickets will be available at the door. TikTok - Twitter - Youtube - Facebook - Instagram OkEq Town Hall Monday, January 29th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Please join Oklahomans for Equality on Monday, Jan. 29, at 7 pm for our second quarterly Town Hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Our Executive Director Dorothy Ballard will share updates on staff, programs and services, upcoming events, and current financial standing and milestones. Time will be reserved for an open forum to facilitate community discussion. We hope to see you there! 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rising Stars Saturday, February 3rd, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. WEARE HIRING Requirements: • High school diploma or equivalent required. • Knowledge of community resources of targeted LGBTIQA+ population • Experience working with the targeted population • Pay begins at $36,729.76 annually tu lsa-health.org/careers 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 ~ TULSA https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HEALTH n l&I Department In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI Michael Duncan died December 31, 2023 after an extended illness. He attended Central High (class of 1988). Michael enjoyed all forms of rock music, and loved to tell stories about working at Cain's Ballroom or the Chalkboard Restaurant. He used to manage a local pet store near 11th and Memorial. He is survived by his best friend, Bob Lawrence, and his beloved tortoise, Gaw-ke-la. A celebration of Michael's life will be Thursday, January 11, 2024 at 1pm at Fellowship Congregational UCC, 2900 S Harvard Ave. 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dr. Robert Thompson, age 88, died on January 7th, 2024. Rosary will be held at 7 pm Friday, January 26th and the funeral mass at 10 am January 27th at Holly Family Cathedral. Dr. Thompson earned his Ph. D in Communication Disorders at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center, and has been a prominent professional in eastern Oklahoma in pediatric programs. He specialized in autism (ASD), Selective Mutism, and language disorders in Pre-K children; he used play therapy techniques and involved parents and caregivers in diagnosis and treatment. His professional history included Director of Speech-Language and Audiology at Tulsa Children’s Medical Center (16 years), consultant at Children’s Medical Center at Hillcrest MC (5 years), and consultant to the Pediatric Department at the Cherokee Nation W. W. Hastings Hospital (12 years) in Tahlequah. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 a https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... y & oe cDo aid a· o ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up .. ASEXUAL FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Aces Committed . Equality Aces Committed to Equality is an activist support group for the Asexual community in Tulsa, Oklahoma. ~ / I A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin SCOUT TROOP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. 7484 ..;. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program for youth. Support Group for Partners of Transgender 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Brougbt ,,Jo Yollt Bi Tjlt1J@ ll~tt~r ~~~~ ~~!:."'!:."'~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... women, who are always welcome! For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) 1n ontera X OKEQ 0~@)0~0@!10§§~~ 7J"l10[b§& "iJ"W@=§lP0~0"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY ~ 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 ~ AMMOUTT ~J . PM 4'1'11 MONDA\' EVEI\Y ZND !li 6:30-7:30 ~":'.'.'; r' 1 - - " - - ~ - --- 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Game Night Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ---- --- - ---- f GENDER ~ SUPPORT GROUP 1 \ The Gender Support provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex i ndividuals. First-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact 918-743-4297 71 £wry Wednnctay of the month from 7PM to 9PM Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. OKEQ SENIORS QKEQ Seniors is a daytime program for retired or free individuals aimed at improving the quality of life of elder LGBT adults. 71 TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social organization for mature-minded ~ Gay and Bisexual men. / A social organization for matureminded gay and bisexual men to estabtish friendship and support through social interaction. Attendees must be 21 years or older, I Ewr,y - - - -- - NC'Oftd Tuesday of n. montll from 7PM to 9PM 918.743.4297 OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. GREEN COUNTRY DCI\D~ Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 Green Country Bears is a social group that identifies as "Bears· https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 71 Dennis R. Neill Equa lity, Tulsa, OK 7412(5) For more information, contact Daniel Gouvion at daniel.gouvion@gmail.com Every second Thursday of the month from 7PM to B:3&PM Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. 918.743.4297 Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&s First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans genera en espar\ol. cada pn,,,.,. y ciltimo;u.,v.s _ __ _ ____. dolmn Opm-a,,m Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Contacto: elizabeth.ort iz@okeq.org 91&.7,3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 1 Get help applying for S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:26 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:26 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/9db000f47569cfe1b51aef5fde3241b6.pdf 137de3fe3b782c3576f3ac2288917621 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Special Events AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, January 25th, 6pm Oklahomans for Equality WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF/RN -CAREGIVER- 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. FOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH I All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage in-person meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, January 25th, 6 pm Atlas School UALITY Business Alliance 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK l EBA MIXER Atlas SCHOOL The Equality Business Alliance exists to support businesses in t he Tulsa area that 1 okeq.com/ eba Atlas School, formerly Holberton School Tulsa, is a software engineering vocational school offering 219-month programs for a career in software development Oklahomans for Equality is kicking off the new year to showcase Atlas School. Please note going forward the EBA meetings will be held the last Thursday of the month. 7H.RSDAY, JAM.JARY 257H I 6FM 15 N. Cheyenne Ave, Tufsa, OK 74103. Atlas School, formerly Holberton School Tulsa, is a software engineering vocational school dedicated to training the next generation of Tulsa's tech workforce. Our campus started classes in 2020 and has since graduated over 100 students. Our current programs are all 20 months long designed to prepare anyone, regardless of previous experience level, for technical and professional success in a career in software development. If you are interested in seeing if a career in tech might be for you, reach out to us at www.atlasschool.com! Atlas School Tulsa, OK 741193 918.392.5538 Atlas School is located at 15 N. Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK 74103. You may reach them at 918.392.5530. The evening will include a brief overview about Atlas School. As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism laBt Thursday of Ml'II_IDonth at tha DlnniB R. Dall Equality Cnt8r 821 E'ltk It. 7-l:3IPIII support. atucJ.m aru18:aiand facilitatina . . l'arall Cr8atiq 1111'1 Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, January 25th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. individuals llllkina t o ~BUBf;8mic racism in thair daily lives u:.::.....:::i.i-::.r::: OkEq Youth Program Returns! Saturday, January 27th 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~~ OkEq is excited to announce the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program launch is '>Saturday, Jan. 27, for LGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. 10 am-6 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa OK OkEq is excited to announce the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program launch is Saturday, Jan. 27, for LGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. Facilitated in partnership with CREOKS, every Saturday from 10 am to 6 pm, it will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, and, of course, socializing and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and a lunch are provided. Sign-ups open inperson and online Friday, Jan. 19! For questions, please email youth@okeq.org. Drag Show Pug Rescue Fundraiser Saturday, January 27th 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an exciting evening of entertainment and compassion! Only $2 grants you access to various activities like bidding on silent auction items or meeting and greeting adorable pugs. This event is perfect for families and people of all ages, and the best part is that every penny of the proceeds will go to Homeward Bound Pug Rescue & Adoption of Oklahoma. Be part of a great cause and have fun at the same time! Tickets will be available at the door. TikTok - Twitter - Youtube - Facebook - Instagram OkEq Town Hall Monday, January 29th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Please join Oklahomans for Equality on Monday, Jan. 29, at 7 pm for our second quarterly Town Hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Our Executive Director Dorothy Ballard will share updates on staff, programs and services, upcoming events, and current financial standing and 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and milestones 0 milestones. Time will be reserved for an open forum to facilitate community discussion. We hope to see you there! Rising Stars Saturday, February 3rd, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. In Memoriam Iln Memoriaunni 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michael Duncan died December 31, 2023 after an extended illness. He attended Central High (class of 1988). Michael enjoyed all forms of rock music, and loved to tell stories about working at Cain's Ballroom or the Chalkboard Restaurant. He used to manage a local pet store near 11th and Memorial. He is survived by his best friend, Bob Lawrence, and his beloved tortoise, Gaw-ke-la. A celebration of Michael's life will be Thursday, January 11, 2024 at 1pm at Fellowship Congregational UCC, 2900 S Harvard Ave. Dr. Robert Thompson, age 88, died on January 7th, 2024. Rosary will be held at 7 pm Friday, January 26th and the funeral mass at 10 am January 27th at Holly Family Cathedral. Dr. Thompson earned his Ph. D in Communication Disorders at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center, and has been a prominent professional in eastern Oklahoma in pediatric programs. He specialized in autism (ASD), Selective Mutism, and language disorders in Pre-K children; he used play therapy techniques and involved parents and caregivers in diagnosis and treatment. His professional history included Director of Speech-Language and Audiology at Tulsa Children’s Medical Center (16 years), consultant at Children’s Medical Center at Hillcrest MC (5 years), and consultant to the Pediatric Department at the Cherokee Nation W. W. Hastings Hospital (12 years) in Tahlequah. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesdays - 9a-5p who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! a y & oe cDo aid a· o ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1 1 1 11 1 11 1 111 1 1 1 1 11 11 11 111 FREE HIV Testing Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL Aces Committed to Equality is an activist H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin SCOUT TROOP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. 7484 SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based [ program for youth. Affirm Support Group for Partners of Transgender People We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Lawyer in the Library Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1'10 Yo11i Bi ,rjt1Je l(_,~tt~r ~ ~~~ ~~ !:,,' !:,,' ~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. UA Y 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the Equality Game Night 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ---- --- - ---- GENDER ~ SUPPORT 1\ GROUP 71 The Gender Support provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex i ndividuals. First-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Please contact 918-743-4297 Every Wednftday of the Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 74128 918.743..42'7 month from 7PM to 9PM Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ♦ OKEQ SENIORS /I I OKEQ Seniors is a daytime program for retired or free individuals aimed at improving / the quality of life of elder LG BT adults. --------- I ' Dennis R Neill Equality, I TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men. 71 A social organization for matureminded gay and bisexual men to estabtish friendship and support through social interaction. Attendees must be 21 years or older Ew,y ucond Tuesday of monffl from 7PM to 9PM _ _ _ _ __ _ _ _ __ _ _,. n.. - Eqallly. Tulu, OK74128 918.743.4297 OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Relationships Outside the Box Green Country Bears is a social group that identifies as "Bears· Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres transgeneroenespaRol. ~ Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. -- / I CMMprinwry ciltimo jwws - - - ~ .... Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Tulsa TTRPGs Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org 916.743.4297 Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Tl II C' /\ 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I V L...;;JI""'\ RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 877 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: r ■l~r ■l r ■l~r ■l 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:27 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:27 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/80bed91df12dfc5b2d41d8f40823963e.pdf a5acb652b67326f6882122a913e348c1 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Special Events OkEq Town Hall Monday, January 29th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Please join Oklahomans for Equality on Monday, Jan. 29, at 7 pm for our second quarterly Town Hall meeting at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Our Executive Director Dorothy Ballard will share updates on staff, programs and services, upcoming events, and current financial standing and milestones. Time will be reserved for an open forum to facilitate community discussion. We hope to see you there! 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... WE ARE NOW OFFERING AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 1st, 6pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK ~FF/RN AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. -CAREGIVER- FOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage in-person meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Rising Stars Saturday, February 3rd, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. QUEER WOMEN ' S COLLECTIVE Queer Women's Collective: February Meetup 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, February 7th, 5.30-7.30 pm Bar 46 107 N Boulder Ave, Tulsa, OK BAR 46 107 N . BOULDER AVE WEDNESDAY , FEB . 7TH S:30-7:30 P . M. Anyone feeling like ‘HOW are we planning for February already?!’ (Yeah, us too) Let’s have a drink about it! Please join us to hang with our friends over at Bar 46 - play some pool or ping pong; beers, cocktails, and mocktails will be available for all! We can’t wait to see you! As a reminder, this is a queer, trans, and non-binary inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! ~ Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, February 10th, 12 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK RRFMTulsa A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Blended Saturday, February 17th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc) . Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com ..... Join us for our monthly peer-led support group for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, this group is a welcoming space for you. We'll meet on the 3rd Saturday of each month, starting February 17th, at OKEQ. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 - https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ffnll website. Looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences! C~tr! iee>ut Ce>e>kr~s }ie>US~ 1?ffty Come stock up on your stash of Girl Scout Cookies! P.O.C. Brunch 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sunday, February 25th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an unforgettable experience at the Annual POC Brunch at noon on February 25th! We'll be serving a delicious breakfast, along with bottles of champagne, mimosas, and much more! You won't want to miss out on the electrifying performances by the best Black Drag artists in town, including Sasha V. King, Drevion Dior, Nalaa Jade, Robyn D. Fierce, Londenn D. Raine, and Scrappy Legacy. Get ready to indulge in a day filled with great food, drinks, and entertainment! Mark your calendars and join us! All are welcome. TULSA EUITI-eeCI5T Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Int Thlll'Sday of BVll'II_IDDnth attha DBRnia R. llail Equality C8nt8r 821 E'ltk st. 7-l:DIII Cr8atiq a safe and facilitatina support. education am18::at • • for all individuals sakina t o ~sustemic racism in thair daily liva Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. u::=.r:::i.":;.r:::: In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dr. Robert Thompson, age 88, died on January 7th, 2024. Rosary will be held at 7 pm Friday, January 26th and the funeral mass at 10 am January 27th at Holly Family Cathedral. Dr. Thompson earned his Ph. D in Communication Disorders at the University of Oklahoma Health Sciences Center, and has been a prominent professional in eastern Oklahoma in pediatric programs. He specialized in autism (ASD), Selective Mutism, and language disorders in Pre-K children; he used play therapy techniques and involved parents and caregivers in diagnosis and treatment. His professional history included Director of Speech-Language and Audiology at Tulsa Children’s Medical Center (16 years), consultant at Children’s Medical Center at Hillcrest MC (5 years), and consultant to the Pediatric Department at the Cherokee Nation W. W. Hastings Hospital (12 years) in Tahlequah. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! a cy& oe cDo aid a· o ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed . . Equality Aces Committed to Equality is an activist support group for the Asexual community in Tutsa,Oklahoma. 71 A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program for youth. 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R Neill Equality Tulsa OK 7412@ A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com 412& 91& 743 4297 Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TULSR SSTI-RSCI~T Support Group last Thursdau of 1!_1181'11_fflonth at the Dennis R. Reil Equatitu Center 621 £'Ith st. 7-B:30PD1 Creating a safe space and facilitating support. education and social opportunities for all individuals ~ki!'I t o ~ fi:om sustemic Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin of Oklahoma will be assistins the LGBTQ+ community with fair housins- Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming -------- - Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender andintersex indlviduals. First-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ... 71 Every ~ Y of,,_ Please conta_ct_9,_8--7 4-3 -4-29_7 _ _ _ _ _ month from 7PM to 9PM Dennis R. Neill Eq uality, Tulsa, OK 7412& 918.743.4297 Gender Support Group SCOUTS TROOP 7484 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Green Country Bears is a social Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres ~ trans genero en espar'iol. / I Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org a,m,,,;,,,.,- y&Htimo )w,vn - --------- ....... ~ Dennis R Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 74129 911.743.4297 Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from 4pm - &pml O(j:::!][Q)0@:10(2)0:::DI::§ 1:3 ~:; "u'~D:,§& 'D"W@=§~O~O"u' FREE HIV Testing IndigiQueer H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris H, B g OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 JAMMOUTT § 6:;o:r;oPM I www.o1'.E.Q. --r Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. i . Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma for Equality Law Center is hosting a clinic for name and 1 Attorney Josh Payton and his team will assis t those with name and gender corrections. Can't make it in person?contact info@okequalitylaw.com to schedule a consultation by Zoom. OKEQ SENIORS £wwy H'Cond We-d'nesday of the .,..-'-'"-'•-•-m-"-"-"-"'-"-'•-'·________. month from 5:39PM' to 7PM I Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& I 914.743.4297 Dennis R Neill Equality Tulsa OK 741261 I Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 clarity until we have an answer. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. i..._ TULSA OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY ~- TULSA~ 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... AREA PRIME TIMERS A social organization for matureminoea gay and bisexual men to establish friendship and support A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men. /1 _ _ _....J 74129 through social interactk>n. Attendee$ must be 21 years or older, ""'7' NCondTl,ncfa,yof •mont11 from 1Pllfto 9PM TTRIJ&S First 11nd third S11turd11y of the month from 12noon - 6pm 91L743.4297 Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:28 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:28 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/a6a9c6b9cb368d22875e0c68297abc9b.pdf b83ad5e9fd6c0a2ae751a5b318898ac4 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed, Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 8th, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF,RI, -CAREGIVERFOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org r Blended Saturday, February 17th, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2Q22blended~g~ TULSR a~TI-~aC:I5T Support Group Aat1-lldrr1Qfw,m-su,,-tllllalltui~Nllts,stni:l'm Join us for our monthly peer-led support group for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, this group is a welcoming space for you. We'll meet on the 3rd Saturday of each month, starting February 17th, at OKEQ. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences! Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events Queer Women's Collective: February Meetup Wednesday, February 7th, 5.30-7.30 pm Bar 46 107 N Boulder Ave, Tulsa, OK QUEER WOMEN'S COLLECTIVE Anyone feeling like ‘HOW are we planning for February already?!’ (Yeah, us too) Let’s have a drink about it! . BAR 46 107 N. BOULDER AVE WEONESDAY,FEB.7TH 5:30-7:30 P.M. ~ ~ RRFMTulsa Tulsa Really Really Free Market Help Girl Sco"t Troop 7484 meet otAr Cookie SQles GM1s 1 Please join us to hang with our friends over at Bar 46 - play some pool or ping pong; beers, cocktails, and mocktails will be available for all! We can’t wait to see you! As a reminder, this is a queer, trans, and nonbinary inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, February 10th, 12-4 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Girl Scout Troop 7484: Cookie House Party Thursday, February 22nd, 6.30-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join Troop 7484 of Girl Scouts Eastern Oklahoma on February 22nd for the Cookie House Party! Enjoy some cookies and support Troop 7484! At 621 E 4 1~ Street; T.. lsa, Ok 74120 Scout Troop 7484 meets every Thursday from 6:30 to 7:30 PM, giving you the opportunity to make friends, learn new skills, and have fun. To learn more about Troop 7484, contact our dedicated Troop Leader, Teresa Marler, at gseok.troop7484@gmail.com. P.O.C. Brunch Sunday, February 25th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an unforgettable experience at the Annual POC Brunch at noon on February 25th! We'll be serving a delicious breakfast, along with bottles of champagne, mimosas, and much more! You won't want to miss out on the electrifying performances by the best Black Drag artists in town, including Sasha V. King, Drevion Dior, Nalaa Jade, Robyn D. Fierce, Londenn D. Raine, and Scrappy Legacy. Get ready to indulge in a day filled with great food, drinks, and entertainment! Mark your calendars and join us! All are welcome. 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ACLU OF OKLAHOMA ADVOCACY DAY 2024 Monday, February 26, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd Oklahoma City, OK 73105 As the ACLU of Oklahoma enters its 60th Anniversary of protecting the civil liberties of all Oklahomans, we are so excited to present our 2024 Advocacy Day! Join us on Monday, February 26, at 9 a.m. at the Oklahoma State Capitol for an advocacy day that we hope will empower you to use our collective power to make legislative change. Registration is required. This event is free and open to the public. OKEQ will be facilitating transportation to the Capitol on February 26th. If you send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org expressing your interest in securing a seat, Olivia will confirm your reservation on the bus through email. Rising Stars Saturday, March 2nd, 3-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. In Memoriam Iln Meimoriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 12 -:&= er - https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -:&= er CulturallyCompetentC•reforthetGBTQ•Communoty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL ACognitivellehaviotalTherapy-<>ased prog,amtor1()Ulh A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TllLSR GilTI-RGCI5T Support Group AwhiU-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystllmicracism laBt ThUl'ldau of IVll'll_fflonth atths DBRnia R. 1llil EQUllitu CBRtlr Broiigltt irjo Yollll Bii If1J e IL~ t t ~ r ,____.__.__,~ rj ~~~~~-- 621 E~ st. 7-uPIII Cratiq asafa space and facilitatina support. Bducation and IIOt:ial opportunitia for all individuals lllllldq . . to divat r . l'rom systamic Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin of Oklahoma will be assisting Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ---------· -- Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ----- f GENDER ~ SUPPORT 1\ 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... uHUUP heGenclerSUP!)Or'lprOVl<le!I 5upport,education, andsocial opportunitiesfortransgeoder andintersexindividu.als First-timeinterviewisrequiredbefore an ending)'Ollrfirs1 m~1ing Pleasecontacl 918-743-4297 71 llw,y _ _ _,,o1_ monffl'"""7""1to9PM DennisR.NeiUEqu.a!it)',Tulsa,OK74129 Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Espanol Trans en 71 elizabeth.ortizl>okeq.org ________. - -- Ungrupode apoyopara mujeres transQeneroenespailoL udaprime,- y..t,._}wwa DennisR. Neill Equ.ality, Tulsa,0K 7412' Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 0[,:!]@0@l0@11DIBIB~~ 'iJ'l1DCb.§& 'i:f'W@=§~O~D'i:f' FREE HIV Testing IndigiQueer 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahomafor Equa lity LawCenter ist>osting a clinic fornameand 7 Attorney Josh Payton and his team wil!assistthose withnameand geooe<corrPCtions. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tmakeitinper,;on?contact infol!>okequalitylaw.comtoschedule aconsu ltationb)'Zoom CllffY M'CondW--yoflhe __,._,,._,m_.,_ •~-'"-• = ______. _,,.from5:38Plll'to7PM DennisR.NeillEQ.Ul!lllty,Tuls.l,0K7.. 12& Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in Denn1sR Ne,llEqual1tyTuls.a OK7412& OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA :r:rour.~ 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ..,.., ■ 71 - - - - -- ~ _ _ ,,_,..,.IJPM Asoclal0<ganlzatloof0<mature-minded GayalldBise,ualmen. AttendNsmus1be21yea,so,-~ .,_,._..,~of First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. HOPE Testing Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. OTULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENT ER A C TION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. APROG-= CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0]14 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at bungerfreeok or_g/resources/soap/ - ~ HUNGER FREE nn OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:30 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm The state of Oklahoma’s legislative session is kicking off, and we need your help! More than 70 hateful bills have been filed targeting the rights of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families. Let’s send the message that love is stronger than hate. Support OkEq and our life-saving programs by donating toward our goal of $100K by Valentine’s Day today! Donate Today Exciting News Alert! ? Magic City Books and Saturn Room have spread love and support this February! In the spirit of giving back, they've pledged to donate a portion of their profits until February 14th to OKEQ. It's the perfect opportunity to indulge in your favorite reads or sip on delicious cocktails while positively impacting our community. Let's spread the love together! ? 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 OF ALL SALES SUNDAY 2/11-WEDNESDAY 2/14. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ... day-Wednesday to Oklahomans for below for more Information an c New Programming WE ARE NOW OFFERING -4"1RN -CAREGIVER- FOR All PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 15th, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Pride Bingo Saturday, February 17th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, February 17th, as we celebrate love and pride! Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment! Features performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy, King Mykal Khrystian, and Tiffany Paige Doors open at 6:30 PM All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, February 22nd, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK The Equality Business Alliance exists to strengthen gay-welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: • Providing a directory of gay-welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; • Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and • Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The Equality Business Alliance fosters the sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and community. 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... EBA networking mixers are usually the last Thursday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, please email EBA for more information. All EBA Events will be listed on our website and Facebook Event Page. Please plan on joining us! . . ........ ..,......,..__ .,_.._..._ ... _. ......, ,.. ..... b«"'JJ li o11alOi11i 11 g- l::xp"ri"nce• .......... _ . _ M _ , . . . _ _ _ _ _ • • ... _,w_ •• TULSR S?lTI-EiSCI5T Support Group Awhite-ledgroupforpmsupportandeducationaboutsyst.emicracism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. llllt 1huradau of 1!."8"11.IDonth at thB lllnnis R. llail Equality C8nt8r mE'llist. 7-l:DIIII Cr8atina asafe spa and fldlitatina IIIQIIIOrt. Bducation and sacial opportunitin for all individuals llllkina ta diVl8t from systlnlil: racimn in tllair dailg liva °!:~~~==.'='='= r Blended Saturday, March 16th, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Join us for our monthly peer-led support group for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, this group is a welcoming space for you. We'll meet on the 3rd Saturday of each month, starting February 17th, at OKEQ. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences! Special Events OKEQ Seniors: Pizza Party Tuesday, February 13th, 11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK nvcn At OKEQ Seniors, we're all about celebrating life and community. Join us as we share laughter, stories, and the simple pleasure of enjoying 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... delicious food in the company of friends who understand and support one another. Un.I::.'-' SENIORS ??? Don't miss out on this opportunity to connect with fellow LGBT older adults, advocate for our rights, and promote positive images of aging within our vibrant community. Let's come together to enhance our quality of life and spread love, acceptance, and inclusivity! ??? ??✨ See you there! ✨?? Help Girl Sco1At Troop 7484 rneet 01Ar Cookie s~les Go~ls! Girl Scout Troop 7484: Cookie House Party Thursday, February 22nd, 6.30-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join Troop 7484 of Girl Scouts Eastern Oklahoma on February 22nd for the Cookie House Party! Enjoy some cookies and support Troop 7484! Scout Troop 7484 meets every Thursday from 6:30 to 7:30 PM, giving you the opportunity to make friends, learn new skills, and have fun. To learn more about Troop 7484, contact our dedicated Troop Leader, Teresa Marler, at gseok.troop7484@gmail.com. Jo ir'\ 1-ts on Febru.a(j 22"" fr om. 6:30 - 8:00 P.M. for o•r COOKIE HOUSE PART Y! At 621 E 4" street; r.1,., OK 74120 Tulsa Health Department Community Listening Sessions Saturday, February 24th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK HELP US SHAPE OUR FUTURE Join us and .share )'QUr insights to shape the Tulsa Health Department's upcoming Strategic Plan. Your input matters to us! Meals prcMded." Participants will haw a chance to win a g ift card. 18+ only. Dennis R Nerll Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturday, February 24112:00 - 2:00 pm (Event Center) Be a part of shaping our future! Join us in contributing your valuable insights to developing Tulsa Health Department's upcoming Strategic Plan. Your input is highly valued! Plus, enjoy complimentary meals* and get a chance to win a gift card. Unfortunately, limited spots are available so you can secure your place now. You must be 18 or older to participate. RSVP by scanning the code or calling 918.595.4061. *Spaces are limited, so registration is required. Scan to RSVP or call 918-595-4061 •space is limited. Registration required Visit tulsa-health.org/strategicplan to learn more. Improving health in Tulsa County together. P.O.C. Brunch Sunday, February 25th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an unforgettable experience at the Annual POC Brunch at noon on February 25th! We'll be serving a delicious breakfast, along with bottles of champagne, mimosas, and much more! You won't want to miss out on the electrifying performances by the best Black Drag artists in town, including Sasha V. King, Drevion Dior, Nalaa Jade, Robyn D. Fierce, Londenn D. Raine, and Scrappy Legacy. Get ready to indulge in a day filled with great food, drinks, and entertainment! Mark your calendars and join us! All are welcome. 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ACLU OF OKLAHOMA ADVOCACY DAY 2024 Monday, February 26, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd Oklahoma City, OK 73105 As the ACLU of Oklahoma enters its 60th Anniversary of protecting the civil liberties of all Oklahomans, we are so excited to present our 2024 Advocacy Day! Join us on Monday, February 26, at 9 a.m. at the Oklahoma State Capitol for an advocacy day that we hope will empower you to use our collective power to make legislative change. Registration is required. This event is free and open to the public. OKEQ will be facilitating transportation to the Capitol on February 26th. If you send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org expressing your interest in securing a seat, Olivia will confirm your reservation on the bus through email. Rising Stars Saturday, March 2nd, 3-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, February 3rd at 3PM ✨ ?⚧❤?????????? Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! ?⚧❤?????????? lW Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! ?⚧❤?????????? Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. You may be a la,gel ... Bui you don •1 have lo be a victim! Wotluhop Don' t Be A Victim Workshop Saturday, March 9 th 2024 12:00 - 3:00 PM Dennis R. Neil l Equal ity Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa OK 74120 No Cost ... It's FREE i Instructors: ~ Wear comfortable clothes to move in. Water and some snacks available. The workshop will : Involve group discussions on experienced situations and possib le avoida nce techniques Utilize Krav M aga martial 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... arts for physica l situations. Aria Lynn Chase M ike McDougal Don't Be A V1ct1m workshop sponsored by DarkHorseDoJo.com & Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Memoriam In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC Culturally Comp.t•nt Car• for the lGBTQ• Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! The OKEQ Library System now has more places for 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed Equality A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TllLSR EUlTI-eacieT Support Group Rwhite-led2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism I.alt Thursdag of 1V81'11_1Danth at th8 Dannis R. lllil Equalitg Cantar 821 E'hi st. 7-l:OOPIII Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ---------- · Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- - GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende<Su!)!)Ortprovides support,education,ar\dsoclal opp0rtunitiesfor1ransg,eoder First-time interview is required belotl.' 71 Please contact 918-743-42117 E-,..........,.,,.0,.,.. _..,. fnrm 7PM fO 9PM DennisR.Neill[qlJa(ity,Tu1$a,OK7412$ '1t.743.4297 anendingl'Ollrfirntmeetlng SCOUT TROOP 7484 .;. Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS Green Country Bears Grupo Espanol 71 ____ ____, ... Trans en __ l!'lizabeth.orti~eq,org Ungrupoc!eapoyoparamujeres trans~oenespallol ,;..a.,,,.._.,111mno;,- Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 74128 91&.7'3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. <>r ' Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml 0Cr:!J@□~□@0=1J [3[3~~ 'iJ'OdJ[b,§& "IT'W@=§[;'DO~D"IT' FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma 10< Equa lity law Center Is hoStir,g a cl;nic tor name and 7 A!le>ml"fJoshPaytonandh isteam wiUassistthosewithnameand genc!ercorrections. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tmakeftinperwn?contact inlo$okequalitylaw.comtoschedule a consu ltation by Zoom. n.r,,Meond W!Jdn,nday of me - -'"-"'"-•m-••-~-'"-'""'-•- - - - - momhfl'om 5:381'Mf07PM O..mis R. ~ill EqU.1lity, Tutsa, OK 7412- Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , TULSA TTRP~s TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocia l organizationtormatu re-minded Ga,,JandBi sexu.alrneo 71 .---- OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 11vvu,;it,10Ct.l ln1e,11etion AttendNsmus1be2lyearsor ... _..,,_,,.. ...... .,_,._,.,~of First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ,.,,. Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • t tz. = LEGAL AID SERVICES O F • t tz. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. QTULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling APROG-OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jl t'1 Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • ~ ~!;~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espariol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:31 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:31 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/a02177560d9099c0c64655e827b5bbc4.pdf b366f0d9f601344207e979c9e15b070a PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm ? A Heartfelt Thank You, Tulsa! ? Dear Tulsa Community, We are thrilled to announce that we have reached our goal, thanks to your fantastic support! Your dedication and generosity have propelled us forward, and we couldn't have done it without you. Each contribution, big or small, has made a significant impact, and we are deeply grateful. As our lights shine brighter tonight, we want to express our sincerest gratitude for standing by us every step of the way. Together, we have achieved something extraordinary, and we're excited for what the future holds. Thank you, Tulsa, for your unwavering support and belief in our mission. Here's to many more milestones together! With heartfelt appreciation, OKEQ staff and all those who make the center run New Programming WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF,RN -CAREGIVER- FOR All PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 22nd, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Support Group Rwhitr:-ledgroupforpeersupportandriucationaboutsystr:micracism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Creatina asafe spa and facilitatina support. Bducation and social -•nitin for all individuals aakina to iviit1rom sgstmi: ramm in thBir dailu Hva U:.:C."-=-:=.i::,r;:,=- r Blended Saturday, March 16th, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for our monthly peer-led support group for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, this group is a welcoming space for you. We'll meet on the 3rd Saturday of each month, starting February 17th, at OKEQ. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step paren t s, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences! Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended~gm ail.com Special Events ~= ,-.; ADULTS SOCIAL • : ... ~ T: :SA Feb 20th • • ' '<..:J' = OKLA.HOMANS FOR EQUALITY PM •• • Adult Socials Tulsa Tuesday, February 20th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK Join Beyond The Spectrum OK and the Autism Foundation of Oklahoma for an unforgettable evening of connection and celebration! This month, we're thrilled to partner with Oklahomans for Equality at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a special event! Get ready to unleash your creativity with cookie decorating, indulge in delicious treats, and engage in meaningful conversations. Plus, we're honored to have autistic therapist Lindsey Vendeventer, LCSW, leading a community discussion and Q&A session. Whether you're a supporter of equality, passionate about autism advocacy, or simply looking for a fun and inclusive event, this is the place to be! Register now to secure your spot and join us for an evening of connection, celebration, and learning. Let's come together to spread love, understanding, and acceptance in our community! 'Pump Up the Volume' - Benefit for OKEQ Wednesday, February 21st, 7.30 pm Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Presented with Twisted Arts, the classic coming-of-age film is back on the big screen with all ticket proceeds donated to Oklahomans for Equality! For more information or to make an additional donation to OKEQ, visit OKEQ.org. One night only, tickets at regular price. OKEQ has been serving LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and allies since 1980. Thank you for joining Twisted Arts and Circle Cinema in support of their fundraiser to keep the doors open for this vital community resource. About the film: In Arizona, an introverted and insightful teenager, Mark Hunter (Christian Slater), finds an outlet for his viewpoints through shortwave radio. Broadcasting as "Hard Harry," Hunter uses his pirate radio show to rant against the injustices and hypocrisies taking place in the area and in society in general. Hunter conceals his off-air identity, but a determined student (Samantha Mathis) discovers the truth, while Principal Creswood (Annie Ross) seeks to shut down Hunter once and for all. About Twisted Arts: Founded in Tulsa, OK, Twisted Arts was created to highlight local, national, and international 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ2S+ artists through year-round programs which include an annual fall film festival, monthly film screenings & performances, an LGBTQ2S+ youth filmmaking Summer camp, members-only sneak peeks, access to year-round short films, special events, and private screenings with directors, actors, and other queer media icons. Visit TwistedFest.org for more Help Girl Sco1.tt Troop 7484 meet 01Ar Cookie S~les Go~ls! Girl Scout Troop 7484: Cookie House Party Thursday, February 22nd, 6.30-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join Troop 7484 of Girl Scouts Eastern Oklahoma on February 22nd for the Cookie House Party! Enjoy some cookies and support Troop 7484! Scout Troop 7484 meets every Thursday from 6:30 to 7:30 PM, giving you the opportunity to make friends, learn new skills, and have fun. To learn more about Troop 7484, contact our dedicated Troop Leader, Teresa Marler, at gseok.troop7484@gmail.com. Join u.s on Feb r u.~tj 22".i fr o 6:30 - 8 :00 P.M. for oor COO IE-HOUSE PARTY! At 621 E 4 th Street; T.ls•. OK 74120 UALITY Business Alliance l EBA MIXER TheEqualityBu5inessAllianceexiststo Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, February 22nd, 7-8.30 pm Isla's Kitchen 404 E. Archer St., Tulsa, OK Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Isla's Kitchen on Thursday, February 22nd at 6 PM. ????????? Isla’s Kitchen (pronounced ‘eye-luhs’) is a charming Southern-themed restaurant offering a range of new Southern, creole, & low-country cuisine, all served with a generous helping of Southern hospitality. ?⚧❤?????????? 1W EBA networking mixers are usually held on the last Thursday of each month from 6:00 pm to 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues to meet prospective clients, expand your professional network, and support the LGBTQ+ community. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you want to host a mixer, please email EBA for more information. All EBA Events will be listed on our website and Facebook Event Page. Please plan on joining us! Tulsa Health Department Community Listening Sessions Saturday, February 24th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK HELP US SHAPE OUR FUTURE Join us and 5hare your insights to shape the Tulsa Health Department's upcoming Strategic Plan. Your input mattefs to us! Meals pmvided." Participants wi11 haw a chance to win a gift. card. 18• only. Dennis R Nell/ Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Saturday, February 24112:00 - 2:00 pm (Event Center) Be a part of shaping our future! Join us in contributing your valuable insights to developing Tulsa Health Department's upcoming Strategic Plan. Your input is highly valued! Plus, enjoy complimentary meals* and get a chance to win a gift card. Unfortunately, limited spots are available so you can secure your place now. You must be 18 or older to participate. RSVP by scanning the code or calling 918.595.4061. *Spaces are limited, so registration is required. Scan to RSVP or call 918-595-4061 •space is limited. Registration required. Visit tulsa-health.org/strategicplan to learn more. Improving health in Tulsa County together. 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... P.O.C. Brunch Sunday, February 25th, 12-2 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for an unforgettable experience at the Annual POC Brunch at noon on February 25th! We'll be serving a delicious breakfast, along with bottles of champagne, mimosas, and much more! You won't want to miss out on the electrifying performances by the best Black Drag artists in town, including Sasha V. King, Drevion Dior, Nalaa Jade, Robyn D. Fierce, Londenn D. Raine, and Scrappy Legacy. Get ready to indulge in a day filled with great food, drinks, and entertainment! Mark your calendars and join us! All are welcome. ACLU OF OKLAHOMA ADVOCACY DAY 2024 Monday, February 26, 9 a.m. – 4 p.m. Oklahoma State Capitol 2300 N Lincoln Blvd Oklahoma City, OK 73105 As the ACLU of Oklahoma enters its 60th Anniversary of protecting the civil liberties of all Oklahomans, we are so excited to present our 2024 Advocacy Day! Join us on Monday, February 26, at 9 a.m. at the Oklahoma State Capitol for an advocacy day that we hope will empower you to use our collective power to make legislative change. Registration is required. This event is free and open to the public. OKEQ will be facilitating transportation to the Capitol on February 26th. If you send an email to olivia.cotter@okeq.org expressing your interest in securing a seat, Olivia will confirm your reservation on the bus through email. Rising Stars Saturday, March 2nd, 3-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, February 3rd at 3PM ✨ ?⚧❤?????????? Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! ?⚧❤?????????? 1W Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! ?⚧❤?????????? 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. ,>.=:>· : .. . • •,• { I SIGN UP:WWW.OKEQ.ORG - You may be a la,gel ... Bui you don•t have lo be a victim! Wo,luhop Don't Be A Victi m Workshop Saturday, March 9th 2024 12:00 - 3:00 PM Dennis R. Neill Equal ity Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa OK 74120 No Cost... It's FREE i ~ • Instructors: Aria Lynn Chase M ike McDougal Wear comfortable clothes to move in. Water and some snacks available. The workshop will : Involve group discussions on experienced situations and possible avoidance techniques Utilize Krav Maga martial arts for physical situations. Don't Be A V1ct1m workshop sponsored by DarkHorseDoJo.com & Dennis R. Neill Equality Center In Memoriam Iln MellTioriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed Equality A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I UlllH ~.1·~·.-.. ~l.i~iiiiil'~' Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Bro11tgltt '11Jo VOllt Bi Tjlte Let:ter 1 last Thul'Sdau of ~ _month at tha Dannia R. Dail Equality CantBr 621 E~ st. 7-Qllffl Craatiq aaafa space and facilitatina support, aducation and social opportunjtiaa for all individuals mlrina to divat l'rom sustamic racism in their • lives Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - . --- Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. --------- 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... f GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende<Supponproyides s upport education.and social opportuni1ies for1ransgend,er andln1erse,individuals. First-limeinterviewisrequiredbefo,e a tteodingrourfir,;tm.,.,ling. Please contact918-74 3-4297 71 SCOUT TROOP 7484 .;. rwwy...,...,.o,.,,. mondl from 7PM ro fPllf Deonis R.NeiUEqua(lty,TuLsa,0K74128 Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 elilabelh.Ol'li?~eq,org ___ ...-- Ungrupocieapoy,oparamujeres trans{lfflefoenespai'lol ____. c:..-~yultiono~ DeonisR.NeillEquality,Tuls.a,OK74128 Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ◊r ' Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0[,:!J@:l0@10@11D§§~~ 'i:f'l1Dl1a§& 'i:f'W@=§~O~D'i:f' FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris i J~~. 9.~2: 6:30-7:30PM §. • Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org - - --- - - - Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. f Gender L Correction Clinic O klahomafor Equality l.aw Center Is hostir>g a c(i ni c for name and 7 Anomey Josh Payton and his team will assisttt>o,;ewithnameand genoe, corrections. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tma ke i tinperson?contact i nfo9>okequalitylaw.comtoschedu le a consu ltation by Zoom. ~ w,;ond w - y of ,,.. __ ,,._,.,_m•-""- "-'""-•_ _ _ ___, mon#ifrom5:3flPMto7PM Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 1• 12& Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so Dcnn1sR Nell\EquahtyTulsa OK7412& OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~ TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS 71 UI\LI\MUffll\lU tUK t\lUI\LII J TULSA TTRP~S A so,;_, orp,iation for ma1Uremlnd9d g.-,and bisexual ,....,.10 ftUbtlsh friendship and wppon lhrou9hsoclal ln1eraction AttendNsmus1be21ye~or~ Asocia l organlzationformatu re-mioded Gay and Bisexual men. .,_,._..,~of _ ____, _ _ ,,_7"1111iolJPM First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services = Health Outreach Prevention • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. HOPE Testing These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. QTULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENT ER A C T ION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. APROG-= CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 118771 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP speciali sts call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: 4/29/26, 12:32 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at buogerfreeok org/resources/soap/ HUNGER • FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF,RI, -CAREGIVERFOR ALL PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF LGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, February 29th, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org TULSR S?lTI-EiSCI5T Support Group Rwhitr:-ledgroupforpmsupportandtducationaboutsystr:micracism ,u' [] Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, February 29th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Laatlhuraday of ~_lllonth at thB Dannis R. llBil Equality Cantar llE~st.7-UPIII Cratina 1111'11 BU(lplll't. ~-8:atand flcilitati..Ill far all indlviduala 888kina to =='8aumia1c raci8m in tll8ir dailg liva u:.:c:.r:-::=.i;r:=::::.- r A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on March 23rd at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@g!!JAi..l&.Qm Blended Saturday, March 23rd, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, nonbiological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Special Events Rising Stars Saturday, March 2nd, 3-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, March 2nd at 3PM ✨ ?⚧❤?????????? Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧❤?????????? Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! ?⚧❤?????????? lW Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. ARCHMEETU L . . - - - -l'IANftt6TH 5:30-7:30 PM YELLOW BRICK ROAD PUB 2630 E. 15th St. Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, March 6th, 5.30-7.30 pm Yellow Brick Road Pub 2630 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK We’re headed back to our favorite little dive bar for the March meetup! They have assured me that Tony will be even more adorable than usual (if that’s possible) and the beers will be extra cold. ?☘☀? Tulsa, OK 74104 We can’t wait to see you! ❤ As a reminder this is a queer, trans and non-binary inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! You may be a la,gel ... Bui you don •1 have lo be a viclim! Wo,luhop Don' t Be A Victim Workshop Saturday, March 9 t h 2024 12:00 - 3 :00 PM Dennis R. Neill Equal ity Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa OK 74120 No Cost... It's FREE i Instructors: Aria Lynn Chase M ike McDougal ' Wear comfortable clothes to move in. Water and some snacks available. The workshop will : Involve group discussions on experienced situations and possible avoidance techniques Utilize Krav Maga martial arts for physica I situations. Don't Be A V1ct1m workshop sponsored by DarkHorseDoJo.com & Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market 2024 Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form Pie Day Cabaret Thursday, March 14th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Fearuring songs from l+',1itr1'H , S 11•1't'11q Tmld, T/,c Great Britisli /11,b, OjJMusi,11/, and MORE! Sam Briggs is proud to present "Pie Day Cabaret," coming to Tulsa's Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday, March 14! A star-studded cast is whipping up songs from Waitress, Sweeney Todd, The Great British Bake Off Musical, and MORE! Pi(e) Day never sounded so sweet! SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.I.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families, and allies. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome here - come just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH OF THE HOLY CROSS - EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129th East Ave Owasso , OK 74055 www.CHC EP1SC0f'AL 0R.G Pride Bingo Saturday, March 16th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, March 16th! Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, enjoy delicious food, and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment, and compete in our Best Sunday Bonnet contest. Features performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy, Aurora Morningstar, and Alistair A.D. Summers. Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam n Merrnoriaurn Nex Benedict Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming '=&=' cf OKEO HEALTH CLINIC '=&=' cf CulturallyCompetenrC•reforthelG8TQ•Commun,1y Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL ACognitivellehavioralTher"l)y-<lased prog,amtor1()Ulh A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TllLSR SI1TI-~SCI5T Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Int Thlll'Sdau of IVll'II_IDOnth at tha DBRnia R. 11811 Equalltg CBRt.lr Bro11igltt irjo Vo11t Bi irJlf1Je l~tt~r ____,__.__,~ ~~~~~- 621 E'Iii st. 7-1:mll support. au:aJon aru18:aiand l'acilitatina nitils for all individuals8!18ki!'lto ~fl:omsystBRtic Creatilll 1111'1 Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - . --- Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. --------- 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides suppor1.education,aOOsocial opportunitiesforlransgeooe< andinterse,indivlduals. Fir.;Mime interview is required belorn anl.'<Klingl'(>Urfirntmeeting. Pleasecontact 918-743-4207 71 SCOUT TROOP 7484 .;. rw,y..........,.,.ol,,,. _..,.,,_7PMrofPM Deflnisll.NeiUEqua(ity,Tu1$;1.0K74129 Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 elizabeth.0<1iza>o1<eq,org ___ ____. - -- Ungrupoo:ieapoyoparamujeres Green Country Bears trans~roenespallol CMM,..._ y lkrimo }w'lfl Dermis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 74128 91&.7'3.A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml OCr:!J@□@l□@M §§w ~ "iJ'(!d)Cb.§& "iJ'W@ = § [;e)Ow □lJ 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris TULSAOK7 4120 ~ 8, JAMMOUT EVEll \' 2ND &, 4.'l'll MONDA 6:30-7:30P l ~] Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma lo, Equa lify Law Cl.'llter is hosting a clinic fo, name and 71 - -"-""-•m-••-~-'"-•- ----- Anomey Josh Payton and his team wiHas.sistthosewithnameand geodefcorrections. Can'lma keitinpernon?contact inlo$okequalitytaw.comtoschedu le a consu ltation by Zoom Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS ~ wcond Wedrwsdly o f tt,e ,,_frvm5:38PM to7PM DennisR.NeillEqualify, Tub.1,0K7412$ Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to Denn1sRNe1ltEqua!nyTulsaOK741W OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Socialaodwpportgroop!orl!OO-traditiooal Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ A l""'lir- A P"'lr.TR f i r - OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... At1CA t""t1.11VIC TIMERS TTRP~s A social C>r9Mizatlon for maluremlnclecl gar and blsexual men to ~tn.ndst,ipands.upport ___71 ... lhrou,;ihsoclal in1er...::tion Asocialorganilatlonformature-minoed ~and8isexu.almen .... AttendNslnU$lbe21yearsoroldel: ___. .,_,._.,T--,. _..,. ,._,,.. ol First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t ti. SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the • LEGAL AID t ti. SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... most at-risk. 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. HOPE Testing These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jl t'1 Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • ~ ~!;~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol: Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Cydney Williams Yonah Sienna Jasper Grace Fallon 4/29/26, 12:33 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:33 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/8058e2ba94e1e5798ad061fe2f0c1454.pdf 7c16148f8ec2c80deaa1ce41da834ce1 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm OKEQ Open Board Positions Do you want to help shape the future of Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ)? Are there any valuable skills, lived or professional experiences, and/or different perspectives you possess that you think OKEQ needs as it evolves to meet the needs of the communities it serves? This is your chance! We are seeking new people to join our Board of Directors or Board of Advisors. Applications will be received online until 11:59 PM CT on Friday, March 8, 2024. You will hear back from the Board Governance & Development Committee no later than Monday, March 18, 2024. We currently have limited spots available, but anyone not selected for this round will be considered for any future openings. These positions are volunteer roles. Members are not paid and dedicate their time and expertise to support OKEQ, its mission, and its collective purpose. Members of the Board of Directors generally serve for 2-year terms and members of the Board of Advisors for 1-year terms. If selected to serve on the Board from this round, you will be filling the remainder of an existing board member’s term in accordance with our by-laws, so your first term may not be the full length of time mentioned above. General Expectations for Board Members: • Attend monthly board meetings. • Participate in at least one board committee. • Participate in and attend special events and functions throughout the year. • Actively contribute to the Board from your lived experiences, knowledge, skills, etc. to help • further OKEQ’s mission and operations. • Attend and/or sponsor the Equality Gala. • Volunteer for the Tulsa Pride Festival. Additional Expectations for Members of the Board of Directors: • Personally contribute at least $500.00 annually OR procure at least $500.00 in direct contributions from others and/or in sponsorships. Our Commitment to Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion: We know that to achieve our goals, fulfill our mission, and realize our vision, we need to include individuals with perspectives drawn from a wide range of backgrounds, skill sets, areas of expertise, and lived experiences to help us avoid decision-making that could diminish the impact of our work. We are publicly recruiting for board positions to ensure that we move beyond our immediate networks and honor our ongoing commitment to creating a board that is diverse in its composition, inclusive in its culture, and equity-focused in its approach to how it views its mission, its work, and the communities it serves. New Programming WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fFF,RI, -CAREGIVERFOR All PARENTS & CAREGIVERS OF lGBTQ+ YOUTH! AFFIRM Caregiver Thursday, March 7th, 6-8 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK AFFIRM Caregiver is a 7-session group program designed to help parents and caregivers build the confidence and skills they need to best support their LGBTQ+ youth. All people who parent and support LGBTQ+ young people are welcome, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents. This group will have a blended option. We will meet in person on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We will have a Zoom open simultaneously for anyone unable to make the in-person meeting; we encourage inperson meetings as often as possible! 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Space is limited, so please reserve a spot as soon as possible! For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, March 9th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQYOUTH PROGRAMING Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm, it will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, and socializing and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and a lunch are provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, March 15th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. r Blended Saturday, March 23rd, 10-11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on March 23rd at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@g!DIDl&Qm Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in non-traditional households! Whether you're a step-parent, nonbiological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Support Group Awhitl·ledgroup for pm support and &ducation aboutsyst.emic r.1cism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, March 28th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. 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L . . - - - -t'IAHett6TH 5:30-7:30 PM YELLOW BRICK ROAD PUB 2630 E. 15th St. Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, March 6th, 5.30-7.30 pm Yellow Brick Road Pub 2630 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK We’re headed back to our favorite little dive bar for the March meetup! They have assured me that Tony will be even more adorable than usual (if that’s possible) and the beers will be extra cold. ?☘☀? Tulsa, OK 74104 We can’t wait to see you! ❤ As a reminder this is a queer, trans and non-binary inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! You may be a la,gel ... Bui you don•t have lo be a victim! Wo,luhop Don' t Be A Victi m Workshop Saturday, March 9 th 2024 12:00 - 3:00 PM Dennis R. Neill Equal ity Center 621 E 4th Street, Tulsa OK 74120 No Cost... It's FREE i Instructors: Aria Lynn Cha se M ike McDougal ~ Wear comfortable clothes to move in. Water and some snacks available. The workshop will : Involve group discussions on experienced situations and possible avoidance techniques Utilize Krav Maga martial arts for physica I situations. Don't Be A V1ct1m workshop sponsored by DarkHorseDoJo.com & Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pie Day Cabaret Thursday, March 14th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Fc~ruri ng songs from W ,1itn'H , SwN'lll'Y Tmld. T /,c Grmt Britisli B"b, Ojf M usital, and MO RE! Sam Briggs is proud to present "Pie Day Cabaret," coming to Tulsa's Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday, March 14! A star-studded cast is whipping up songs from Waitress, Sweeney Todd, The Great British Bake Off Musical, and MORE! Pi(e) Day never sounded so sweet! Pride Bingo Saturday, March 16th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, March 16th! Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, enjoy delicious food, and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment, and compete in our Best Sunday Bonnet contest. Features performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy, Aurora Morningstar, and Alistair A.D. Summers. Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. REMIX Genre-Fluid Cabaret I e i March 21st, 7.30 pm J7✓REMIX'\:-- 1 Thursday Oklahomans for Equality "1.a Genre-Fluid Cabaret / • _ • • • 1·· ll ! ... ~ , . I1a roclit•~. ImIH•rsoI1.1l111ns.. and !(!'Ill"(' d)s11hona THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM < 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ Get ready to mix things up at REMIX - a night of music, parodies, improv, and other shenanigans on March 21, 2024! i , , ·· MARCH 21 l~ 7:39PM ·i_ LYNN RIGGS THEATRE ti- -~ , @OKEQ , ~ \_., "" IJ4':.. 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 Dancer, Actress &~ o e https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... _oet, Aut o]i& Artj~ @)WH SPElliNGWILLOWPllODUCTIONS COM WHERE MUSIC, AND ART CONVERGE IN A SYMPHONY OF CULTURAL CELEBRATION SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.I.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families and allies. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome here - come just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH OF THE HOLY CROSS - EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129th East Ave Owasso, OK 74055 www.CHCEP1SC0PAL.0R.G In Memoriam Il111 Me1moriaurn Vernon Leon Jones Vernon Leon Jones, 88, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, left this earthly plane to be with his late partner Phil Wiley, on February 5th, 2024. He was born in Oklahoma, on May 3rd, 1935. As a gay man, born and raised here, Vernon's chosen family is vast. He is survived by Hayward Jones, Nekesha Jones, JaKobe Jones, Sue Davis, Fred Hilliard, Arlowe Clementine, Mason Thomas, Rey Thomas, and so many other individuals that claimed Vernon as their friend, family, and elder. Vernon was an active learner, even in his later years. He was always working to understand the world around him and was eternally hopeful for a better world. He was a strong advocate for marginalized peoples and was particularly committed to Queer and Black Liberation. 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Vernon was a clear Taurus. He was intelligent, dependable, logical, honest, and generous. Vernon spent most of his life focused on making his community better. He was a holder of receipts. A maker of spreadsheets. A true community historian and archivist. Vernon was dedicated to making people safer, both in his career in emergency management and his activist work in the fight against AIDS. He was not a stranger to controversy and was unrelenting in speaking his truth and the truth of the people he loved. In the years before his death, Vernon worked hard to ensure that the legacy of LGBTQ activism in Tulsa was properly recorded and preserved for current and future generations. His substantial archive is now housed in Oklahoma State University's Archives. This collection will be witnessed by researchers and community members for years to come. Vernon was a connector. He worked hard to bring people together and was always willing to give someone support that needed it. Even in his death, he is connecting individuals over their shared love and respect for him and his life. Vernon fought hard for his community and the legacy of his late partner Phil Wiley. Anyone who knew Vernon was graced with stories of Phil's life and legacy as well as their love for one another. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Vernon by learning something new, taking a stand on social issues that are important to you, and keeping his life and legacy alive through storytelling. Gregory Paul Spencer Gregory Paul Spencer was born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma on October 18, 1958. He passed away on the evening of February 22, 2024, at the early age of 65 after a very sudden decline in his health with his grandson Tristin Reeves and his wife Amanda and their children by his side. Greg was preceded by both parents Frank and Isla Spencer. He is survived by his seven siblings, sister Judith Vaughn and her husband Donald of Lake Helan, FL., sister Linda Spencer of Bartlesville, brother Mark Spencer and his wife Diana of Bixby and their children and grandchildren, sister Margaret Bouvier and her husband Michael of Bartlesville and her children, sister Bernadette Spencer and B.J. Hargrave of Essex Junction, Vermont. and her son, brother John Spencer of Forsyth, MO and his children, and brother Eric Spencer and Gerard Cloete of Cape Town, South Africa. Greg is also survived by loyal friends and extended family. Greg has left his earthly life to soon leaving behind his daughter Kathryn Chambers and husband David of Bartlesville and their children, sons, Steven Spencer of Kansas City and Everett Spencer of Pawhuska and his children and grandchildren and his beloved Bayley. Gregory spent his younger years in Pawhuska, left for college and came back to teach and make a difference in his community. In 1987, he led the local vocational carpentry class to start renovations on the Constantine Theater where he left his handcrafted talent of the detailed masks of comedy and tragedy proudly displayed at the entrance. He also seen the need and was the Mayor of Pawhuska for a term. Later in life, Greg continued with his passion of carpentry and construction which brought on a long-time friendship with David Baker and many others that will miss him dearly. His love of the arts was shared when he would entertain and light up a room with song and dance. Greg recently found the same love for pipes that his father had and opened Bayley Pipe Shop and Museum where he proudly collected varieties of beautiful pipes, his carved Meerschaum collection was his pride and joy. Greg never met a stranger and always knew how to carry on a good conversation. He will be deeply missed. Nex Benedict Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -=,=- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -=,=- Cultur•llyCompetentC• re forthetGEITQ+Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog ASEXUAL Equality Ac""CommittedtoEq"3tityisanactiv~t ·- "'71 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Affirm A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! TilLSR SilTI-E?SCieT Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Bro1rngl11t ,.,Jo Yollt Bi irjlt~ Let te r 1 last Thursdau of ~_manth at th8 Dannis R. lllil Equalitg Cantar 621 E~ st. 7-l:DIII Cr8atinll asafe space and facilitatina support. education and social -•nitin for all individuals ~!II t.o ~ sust,Bmic 1i:om Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Brought To You Bi The Letter B A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Monthly on the last Thursday. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) rHousin of Oklahoma will be assistins Equality Game Night Fair Housing: Legal Aid Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p - Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ------------ . -- SCOUT TROOP GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGer>derSUPl)OMprovides suPJ)O<'l,education,andsocial opponunitiesfor1ransgender First-!imeinter-iewis,equiredbetore atteodingyourfirst meeling. Pleasecontact 918 -743-4297 at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- 7484 ..., 71 ~ ....... ,.o1 ... momflfnJm7PMro!JfW DennisR.NeiUEqua!ity,Tulsa,OK74128 Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Trans en Espanol ________ ... __ l'li zabeth.ortizOokeq,org Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans~oenespa,~ ~ /I .__,,,.._,111m,o;,- DeonisR.NeillEquality,Tulsa,OK74128 Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. r • Free HIV Testing Every Tuesday from4Dm -&Dml 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OCr:!J@O~O@Odl§§~ ~ 'IT'OdJ[b, § & 'IT'W@ = §[)e)O~ □'IT' FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris E==l JAMMOUTT ~ 6~;a:r;oPM ~ ]Jill~.."....... 'Q{{~\\ -..-111 Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ist>osting a c!inic fornameand 7 Attorney Josh Payton and his team wiUassistthosewithnameand geooe<corrections. Canlmakeilinper.;on7contact Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS infof>okequalitylaw.comtoschedu le aconsu ltationb)'Zoom Cl/ffYM'CondW-yofltN ,,_.;."-""-'m_.,_•~-'"_'.,.,_ ;..__ _ _ __, monfflfrom5:38PM'to7PM Denn1sRNe1UEquahtyTulsaOK7412& Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ TULSA TTRP~S TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS ::::;".:::::.::,:.:: ntablllhfrieodshipandMJPPOrt Asocia l orgaoizatioo!ormature-miooed Gayand8i51!xualmeo. OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY 71 .,._.,,_,.., . Pflll lhnlugh10Clal lnte.acUoo. AttendNsmusl be21 yearsoroide!: .,_,._...,Twsefayof First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Alliances uality Community Partners LEGAL AID SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • t tz:. LEGAL AID SERVICES OF = • t tz:. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JIS'1 G e t h e l p . supplemental applying for • • ~ ~!;~\i:;ce P rogram 4/29/26, 12:34 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, March 16th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQYOUTH PROGRAMING Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm, it will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, and socializing and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and a lunch are provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, March 15th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Support Group Awhitl-ledgroupforpmsupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, March 28th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. LIit lhursdau or ~ -lllanth at the lllnnia R. 11811 EqUality C8nt8r &Zl E~st. 7-8:Dllll Craatina a safe spa and facilitatina support. education and social opportunitia for all individuals 888kina to divat frllm sustmi: rm:ilm in their dailg livaa u:.=:.r:-:==.i::.r:::=.- Special Events 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pie Day Cabaret Thursday, March 14th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Featuring songs from W11itn•ss, Swtr11..y Toi/ii. The Gm11 /1ritislt /111~'1' Ojf Musirnl, and MORE! Sam Briggs is proud to present "Pie Day Cabaret," coming to Tulsa's Lynn Riggs Theatre on Thursday, March 14! A star-studded cast is whipping up songs from Waitress, Sweeney Todd, The Great British Bake Off Musical, and MORE! Pi(e) Day never sounded so sweet! Lynn Riggs Theatre Thursday, March 14, 2024 I 7:30pm LOVE LIES BLEEDING Friday, March 15th Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Friday, March 15 – Thursday, March 21 Synopsis: New from A24, see Kristen Stewart in a new LGBTQ+ neo-noir thriller. From Director Rose Glass comes an electric new love story; reclusive gym manager Lou falls hard for Jackie, an ambitious bodybuilder headed through town to Vegas in pursuit of her dream. But their love ignites violence, pulling them deep into the web of Lou's criminal family. Tickets Trailer Pride Bingo Saturday, March 16th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, March 16th! Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, enjoy delicious food, and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment, and compete in our Best Sunday Bonnet contest. Features performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy, Aurora Morningstar, and Alistair A.D. Summers. Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride. I ~· J7REMIX'\!-'1 ~ a Genre-Fluid Dlbaret J , • . , • · r· , Ll ... ~ ~ ~ . I"' rod it•~. 1mpl'rso11.1tmns.. and !-(t•nn• d~sphorrn < ~ ~ f THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM Get ready to mix things up at REMIX - a night of music, parodies, improv, and other shenanigans on March 21, 2024! MARCH 21 7:39PM ,;_ LYNN RIGGS THEATRE t" .~ , REMIX Genre-Fluid Cabaret Thursday March 21st, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK @OKEQ ~ \,, .,T . l:..'14-~ Still Here, Still Queer Saturday March 30th, 6-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Come join us and DJ Dec, Nakita Fierce, Ace, Londenn Davenport Raine, Scrappy Legacy, Band Bronco Henryetta, and MC Brett Jeffries and Special Guests for a Fundraiser for TACO & OKEQ at Oklahomans for Equality on March, 30th 6 pm-10 pm all Ages!!! Music, Food, Vendors, Silent Auction, and Drinks!! Sponsored by Twisted Arts! li'iIB ~ I love who I am, and so should you, Trans Visibility!!! TlflSTED ARTS Scrappy Legacy Mr. Trans Oklahoma 2024 Trans USA National Pageantry 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE & MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events ,. LOCATION ALOFT OICLAHOIIA CITY QUAL SPRMS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ----- STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Ju SAGE works to achieve a high qua lity of life for LGBTQ+ older people. To help do so, we are starting A NEW NATIONAL SURVEY every other year to better understand the current experiences needs, and resi liencies of LGBTQ+ older people in the U.S . WHO • If you are 50 years or older AND identify as LGBTQ+, we want to hear from you! • WHAT 30-minute survey on line or over the phone WHEN Now Open! Re/1.f ~ To- 8e /1A.uisi.He! ~ Visit the link to start the survey! https://www.sageusa.org/SOLA2023 Trans Men and Women Online Paid Research 2 hours: $200 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 ~111'-JI - BGNG RECRUITING https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... WE NEED YOUR HELP WITH OUR IMPORTANT RESEARCH Big Bang Recruiting is inviting both trans men and women— to a paid in-person public opinion study We will discuss challenges and concerns that this population in our society face today. Participants will receive $200 for a 2-hour discussion. WHAT IS INVOLVED? Please answer the questions below to see if you would be a good candidate for this study. The demographic questions are asked so that we are sure to get a mix of different ages, gender, ethnicity, etc. Answers are used for that purpose only. Your responses in the group are reported in aggregate and no personally identifiable information will be shared. HOW TO HELP: 1) Participate yourself. When you fill out the preliminary survey we will contact you immediately if you meet the research criteria. 2) Share this with your friends/family that you think will qualify and be interested. Please contact me with any questions: Hannah Hardin, Project Manager 918-978-6594, hannah@bigbangrecruiting.com, https://www.bigbangrecruiting.com SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.I.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families, and allies. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome here - come just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH O F THE HOLY CROSS - EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129th East Ave Ow.mo, OK 74055 www.CHCEP1SCOPAL.OR.G In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 eimonru11 Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Vernon Leon Jones May 3rd, 1935 ~ February 5th, 2024 Vernon Leon Jones, 88, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, left this earthly plane to be with his late partner Phil Wiley, on February 5th, 2024. He was born in Oklahoma, on May 3rd, 1935. As a gay man, born and raised here, Vernon's chosen family is vast. He is survived by Hayward Jones, Nekesha Jones, JaKobe Jones, Sue Davis, Fred Hilliard, Arlowe Clementine, Mason Thomas, Rey Thomas, and so many other individuals that claimed Vernon as their friend, family, and elder. Vernon was an active learner, even in his later years. He was always working to understand the world around him and was eternally hopeful for a better world. He was a strong advocate for marginalized peoples and was particularly committed to Queer and Black Liberation. Vernon was a clear Taurus. He was intelligent, dependable, logical, honest, and generous. Vernon spent most of his life focused on making his community better. He was a holder of receipts. A maker of spreadsheets. A true community historian and archivist. Vernon was dedicated to making people safer, both in his career in emergency management and his activist work in the fight against AIDS. He was not a stranger to controversy and was unrelenting in speaking his truth and the truth of the people he loved. In the years before his death, Vernon worked hard to ensure that the legacy of LGBTQ activism in Tulsa was properly recorded and preserved for current and future generations. His substantial archive is now housed in Oklahoma State University's Archives. This collection will be witnessed by researchers and community members for years to come. Vernon was a connector. He worked hard to bring people together and was always willing to give someone support that needed it. Even in his death, he is connecting individuals over their shared love and respect for him and his life. Vernon fought hard for his community and the legacy of his late partner Phil Wiley. Anyone who knew Vernon was graced with stories of Phil's life and legacy as well as their love for one another. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Vernon by learning something new, taking a stand on social issues that are important to you, and keeping his life and legacy alive through storytelling. Gregory Paul Spencer 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... October 18, 1958 ~ February 22, 2024 Gregory Paul Spencer was born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma on October 18, 1958. He passed away on the evening of February 22, 2024, at the early age of 65 after a very sudden decline in his health with his grandson Tristin Reeves and his wife Amanda and their children by his side. Greg was preceded by both parents Frank and Isla Spencer. He is survived by his seven siblings, sister Judith Vaughn and her husband Donald of Lake Helan, FL., sister Linda Spencer of Bartlesville, brother Mark Spencer and his wife Diana of Bixby and their children and grandchildren, sister Margaret Bouvier and her husband Michael of Bartlesville and her children, sister Bernadette Spencer and B.J. Hargrave of Essex Junction, Vermont. and her son, brother John Spencer of Forsyth, MO and his children, and brother Eric Spencer and Gerard Cloete of Cape Town, South Africa. Greg is also survived by loyal friends and extended family. Greg has left his earthly life too soon leaving behind his daughter Kathryn Chambers and husband David of Bartlesville and their children, sons, Steven Spencer of Kansas City and Everett Spencer of Pawhuska and his children and grandchildren and his beloved Bayley. Gregory spent his younger years in Pawhuska, left for college and came back to teach and make a difference in his community. In 1987, he led the local vocational carpentry class to start renovations on the Constantine Theater where he left his handcrafted talent of the detailed masks of comedy and tragedy proudly displayed at the entrance. He also seen the need and was the Mayor of Pawhuska for a term. Later in life, Greg continued with his passion of carpentry and construction which brought on a long-time friendship with David Baker and many others that will miss him dearly. His love of the arts was shared when he would entertain and light up a room with song and dance. Greg recently found the same love for pipes that his father had and opened Bayley Pipe Shop and Museum where he proudly collected varieties of beautiful pipes, his carved Meerschaum collection was his pride and joy. Greg never met a stranger and always knew how to carry on a good conversation. He will be deeply missed. Nex Benedict February 8, 2024 Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. Rick Spring October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- CulturallyCompetentCareforthelGBTQ•Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;.;.7,.:::7:;:::,::;;::,~., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com •eog.,., ;.. - , 1 n... _ . , , : 1 .,.,,.,,....,k><><>LO!I. AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA EltlTI-RE1CI5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhitl-led2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicr:icism -,IFF/RN -CAREGIVERwtlhursdau of ~ _lllanth Affirm Caregiver at th8 IIBnnia R.llail EqUaDtg Clnt8r AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. • asafe and facilitatina IUPPlll'li, Cl~and":a.Qll'tUaitiafurllll individualsllllllina t.11 diVll8t l'rmR suatamlc raciBm ii tuir • liva 11Elllst.7-l:30Plll Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org - 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bro1rngl11t A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontrad itional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). '1rjo Vollt Bi irjlt~ Letter 1 Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB,yanlwithlega lAidServicesol O~lahoma will be assisti119 the LGBTG+ _ _,_= _m_oo_ i!Y -'"'-"'-air- •oo _ ,_,.,_.,._. _ , .,_,,_, = _ 71 _ lf youbelieveyou'vebeenavictim olhousir,gdiscrimination,please callhefat 918-238-t65&,oremail heratjlj~~g Theseservicesareopentoeve,yooe regard lessof incomeandare available throughouttheState for LGBTQ+ perwns n.,y Wednnday o f ~ _,. Mont,, from 12PM- - · De!IIIIIR. . . . Equatlty. Tutsa.OK7412& Equality Game Night Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ---------- ---- --- - --- Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. f GENDER \ SUPPORT GIRL SCOOIH.S.A. -,A,...A 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... r,e,.,.,.,....-:,u~ - uHUUfJ First-timeinterviewisrequiredbefore anending)'OUrfirst mee1ing Pleasecontact918-743-4 2117 support,education,andsocial opportunitiesfortransgeoder andinter.;ex individu.als 71 IE:Wq...._,ol_ monffl,..,.,.7PMto9PM Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Espanol Trans en _______ .. __ Ungrupodeapoyoparamujeres transQeoeroenespaflol 71 Con1acto: eUzabeth.ortlzl!>okeq.org ua,llrlmw,..trfmo.Jwwa Dennis R.Neill Equ.ality, Tulsa,0K7412$ Green Country Bears Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. rn,~J@:>□~□@11D CB§~g 'iJ'!1DCb.§& 'iI'W@=§~ □ ~ □'iI' FREE HIV Testing IndigiQueer 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahomafor Equa lity LawCenter ist>osting a clinic fornameand 7 Attorney Josh Payton and his team wil!assistthose withnameand geooe<corrPCtions. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org -- -----Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tmakeitinper,;on?contact infol!>okequalitylaw.comtoschedule aconsu ltationb)'Zoom CllffY M'CondW--yoflhe __,._,,._,m_.,_ •~-'"-• = ______. _,,.from5:38Plll'to7PM DennisR.NeillEQ.Ul!lllty,Tuls.l,0K7.. 12& Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in Denn1sR Ne,llEqual1tyTuls.a OK7412& OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA :r:rour.~ 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 71 --r-- - - - ~ __ Asoclal0<ganlzatloof0<mature-minded GayalldBise,ualmen. ■ AttendNsmus1be21yea,so,-~ ■ ..,.., .,_,._..,~of First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ,,_,..,.IJPM Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Fridays 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID t h. 4/29/26, 12:35 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SERvicEs OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing :r - SERvicEs OF :r - OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental • • ~ ~!;~~i:;ce applying for Program SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 2. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, March 22nd, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Nestled in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Zen Recovery Inc. stands as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction. Led by women and LGBTQ+ individuals, our 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offers weekly gatherings known as "Zen & the Art of Whatever Works," providing a safe haven for individuals seeking solace and support on their journey to sobriety. With a focus on harm reduction and mindfulness, our meetings, held every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, offer a space for individuals to explore their struggles and triumphs within a community of understanding and acceptance. In March, our meetings on the 22nd and 29th extend a special invitation for connection and growth. As the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance, we pride ourselves on our commitment to radical inclusivity, ensuring that all voices are valued and heard. Join us at Zen Recovery Inc., where compassion reigns supreme, and the path to healing is paved with courage and acceptance. OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, March 23rd, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQVOUTH PROGRAMING Support Group AwhiU-ledgroupforpeersupportandedu~tionaboutsystemicracism Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack is provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, March 28th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. last Thursday of IVll'U_month at the ll8nni8 R. ll8il Equalltg C8nt8r 821E'llist.7-l:30PIII Cratina asafe spa and facilitatina support. Bducation and social opportunitia for all individuals saakina to divat l'rom sustmic racism in th8ir dailu liva u:.:~~~==.i::.r::.=- 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events OKEQ Seniors Movie Day Tuesday March 19th, 11 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Every Tuesday at 10 am, the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center opens its doors to retirees and those accessible during the day for a special gathering with OKEQ Seniors. This daytime programming is dedicated to addressing the unique issues faced by aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender individuals. OKEQ SENIORS Step into a community of love, support, and understanding as we come together to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults. Through a partnership with constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors advocates for rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Dennis R Neill Equallty Tulsa OK 7412& Join us for a movie day that promises to be filled with laughter, tears, and unforgettable moments. Be part of a movement that celebrates diversity, resilience, and the beauty of aging gracefully. We can't wait to share these enriching experiences with you—see you at OKEQ Seniors' Movie Day! I J,~,REMix,·\·1 e f ~,-_ a Genre-Flwd Cabaret -- • _ :0. • • . -~ • 1rnrodi1·::;. (!" I lll(l!'rsonal IOllS, - .• r·: , and genn• d~i;phoria Ll ~ • THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM I ,,. , •· • l-~ _, ;_, REMIX Genre-Fluid Cabaret Thursday March 21st, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get ready to mix things up at REMIX - a night of music, parodies, improv, and other shenanigans on March 21, 2024! , MARCH 21 7:39PM 1ti' LYNN RIGGS THEATRE ~ ~,, @OKEQ _.,. I••· ·, . _;,,-- CC COZY CUISI E EBA Mixer Thursday, March 28th, 6-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is excited to announce that Cozy Cuisine, Teresa Parrott, Chef/Owner, will be holding its next EBA Mixer at Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120. Teresa rents the commercial kitchen space at the Oklahomans for Equality to prepare meals for the catering part of her business as well as the prepared frozen meals. We love having Teresa as a part of our equality family. Cozy Cuisine is the culmination of my philosophy on cuisine. High-quality food should be enjoyed with good company in a comfy place. I didn’t want to compromise on ingredient quality or method, but I really wanted to create products that were both easily enjoyed and convenient. This philosophy comes from my Italian family gathering and enjoying good food together. I remember my interest in cooking started because only those who were cooking or doing dishes could be in the kitchen. I remember, as a child, loving the warm energy that came from the kitchen. That’s where all the fun was happening. Cozy Cuisine - Teresa Parrott, Chef/Owner www.cozy-cuisine.com - Teresaparrott@gmail.com - 918.949.1510 ~@1!fjjfg}j (!J!Iijj] Still Here, Still Queer Saturday March 30th, 6-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We invite you to join us for a heartfelt Trans Day of Visibility fundraiser event with Oklahomans for Equality & Twisted Arts! The evening promises to be filled with joy, laughter, and entertainment. Immerse yourself in the stunning performances from some of your local drag favorites such as Londenn D. Raine, Nakita Fierce, Scrappy Legacy, and ACE. Moreover, Bronco Henryetta will also grace the stage with a soulful musical performance. We look forward to welcoming you when the doors open at 6 PM. 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK 2-Spirit Fest returns in 2024 with a series of events at the First American Museum in Oklahoma City on April 18, 2024, and in Tulsa at the Oklahoma Center for Humanities on April 19, 2024, and WOMPA on April 20, 2024. Exciting news alert! ? Get ready for an unforgettable experience at Two Spirit Fest presented by Twisted Arts Tulsa ? happening on FOUR TWENTY? (April 20th). Representing the intersections of black, Queer, and Native American identities, Quentin Marcellis is honored to be one of the headliners. ? Join us for an electrifying performance featuring tracks from TWO mixtapes, Days In The Midwest? & On A Journey?, available NOW on Soundcloud and YouTube, along with hit singles like Carefree Black Boy, Four Wings?, 11:11✨ Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE I MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION ALOFT OICLAHOIIA crrY QIIAL SPRIIIS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ------ STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Ju SAGE works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older people_ To help do so, we are starting A NEW NATIONAL SURVEY every other year to better understand the current experiences, needs, and resiliencies of LGBTQ+ older people in the U-5. WHO If you are 50 years or older AND identify as LGBTQ+, we want to hear from you! WHAT 30-minute survey online or WHEN Now Open! over the phone 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Re{u1e 77r ~e /tAIIUtlJ{e.' ~ Visit the link to start the survey! https://www.sageusa.org/SOLA2023 .JI LOF l'CBU . 111-.ALTl l sa~ Advocacy ~E~ We re.fu~ to be invisible BlG~ BaNG RECRUITING Trans Men and Women Online Paid Research 2 hours: $200 WE NEED YOUR HELP WITH OUR IMPORTANT RESEARCH Big Bang Recruiting is inviting both trans men and women— to a paid in-person public opinion study We will discuss challenges and concerns that this population in our society face today. Participants will receive $200 for a 2-hour discussion. WHAT IS INVOLVED? Please answer the questions below to see if you would be a good candidate for this study. The demographic questions are asked so that we are sure to get a mix of different ages, gender, ethnicity, etc. Answers are used for that purpose only. Your responses in the group are reported in aggregate and no personally identifiable information will be shared. HOW TO HELP: 1) Participate yourself. When you fill out the preliminary survey we will contact you immediately if you meet the research criteria. 2) Share this with your friends/family that you think will qualify and be interested. Please contact me with any questions: Hannah Hardin, Project Manager 918-978-6594, hannah@bigbangrecruiting.com, https://www.bigbangrecruiting.com SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.I.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families, and allies. Wh rever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcome here - com just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH OF THE HOLY CROSS- EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129mEast Ave Owu,io, OK 74055 www.CHCEP1SCOPAL.0R.G 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Il111 Me1111oriarrn Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Vernon Leon Jones May 3rd, 1935 ~ February 5th, 2024 Vernon Leon Jones, 88, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, left this earthly plane to be with his late partner Phil Wiley, on February 5th, 2024. He was born in Oklahoma, on May 3rd, 1935. As a gay man, born and raised here, Vernon's chosen family is vast. He is survived by Hayward Jones, Nekesha Jones, JaKobe Jones, Sue Davis, Fred Hilliard, Arlowe Clementine, Mason Thomas, Rey Thomas, and so many other individuals that claimed Vernon as their friend, family, and elder. Vernon was an active learner, even in his later years. He was always working to understand the world around him and was eternally hopeful for a better world. He was a strong advocate for marginalized peoples and was particularly committed to Queer and Black Liberation. Vernon was a clear Taurus. He was intelligent, dependable, logical, honest, and generous. Vernon spent most of his life focused on making his community better. He was a holder of receipts. A maker of spreadsheets. A true community historian and archivist. Vernon was dedicated to making people safer, both in his career in emergency management and his activist work in the fight against AIDS. He was not a stranger to controversy and was unrelenting in speaking his truth and the truth of the people he loved. In the years before his death, Vernon worked hard to ensure that the legacy of LGBTQ activism in Tulsa was properly recorded and preserved for current and future generations. His substantial archive is now housed in Oklahoma State University's Archives. This collection will be witnessed by researchers and community members for years to come. Vernon was a connector. He worked hard to bring people together and was always willing to give someone support that needed it. Even in his death, he is connecting individuals over their shared love and respect for him and his life. Vernon fought hard for his community and the legacy of his late partner Phil Wiley. Anyone who knew Vernon was graced with stories of Phil's life and legacy as well as their love for one another. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Vernon by learning something new, taking a stand on social issues that 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac.. are important to you, and keeping his life and legacy alive through storytelling. Gregory Paul Spencer October 18, 1958 ~ February 22, 2024 Gregory Paul Spencer was born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma on October 18, 1958. He passed away on the evening of February 22, 2024, at the early age of 65 after a very sudden decline in his health with his grandson Tristin Reeves and his wife Amanda and their children by his side. Greg was preceded by both parents Frank and Isla Spencer. He is survived by his seven siblings, sister Judith Vaughn and her husband Donald of Lake Helan, FL., sister Linda Spencer of Bartlesville, brother Mark Spencer and his wife Diana of Bixby and their children and grandchildren, sister Margaret Bouvier and her husband Michael of Bartlesville and her children, sister Bernadette Spencer and B.J. Hargrave of Essex Junction, Vermont. and her son, brother John Spencer of Forsyth, MO and his children, and brother Eric Spencer and Gerard Cloete of Cape Town, South Africa. Greg is also survived by loyal friends and extended family. Greg has left his earthly life too soon leaving behind his daughter Kathryn Chambers and husband David of Bartlesville and their children, sons, Steven Spencer of Kansas City and Everett Spencer of Pawhuska and his children and grandchildren and his beloved Bayley. Gregory spent his younger years in Pawhuska, left for college and came back to teach and make a difference in his community. In 1987, he led the local vocational carpentry class to start renovations on the Constantine Theater where he left his handcrafted talent of the detailed masks of comedy and tragedy proudly displayed at the entrance. He also seen the need and was the Mayor of Pawhuska for a term. Later in life, Greg continued with his passion of carpentry and construction which brought on a long-time friendship with David Baker and many others that will miss him dearly. His love of the arts was shared when he would entertain and light up a room with song and dance. Greg recently found the same love for pipes that his father had and opened Bayley Pipe Shop and Museum where he proudly collected varieties of beautiful pipes, his carved Meerschaum collection was his pride and joy. Greg never met a stranger and always knew how to carry on a good conversation. He will be deeply missed. . \ II! I, ., ~ - ' • ·"'' ' , •• , . ,..' ~. , . , i'- i ~; Nex Benedict February 8, 2024 ~ ~ Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. Rick Spring October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. 7 of 17 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Cultur•llyCompt'UntC• •<' forthetGBTQ+Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! Volunteer Sign-up In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed Equality =~~7:..:::::::..~;, :71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA ElilTI-RElCieT WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhite-letl2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism .,fF~RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are lalt1lwr8dau of ~ _lllllnth at tha 111nnia R.llail Equality Cantar mElhlt.7-tMI Creatiqasaflspaand~~all Bducationandaocial~ ,,.. individuals..:::::.,. . fl:olR sustemic Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (st ep parents, non-bio parent s, bonus parents, etc). Bro11igltt irjo Yollt Bii If1J e- IL~ t t ~ r '1rj ____.__.__,~ ~~~~~-- Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma A!r-;~Bryan!wilhlegalAidServiceso! O!<lahoma will be assisting the LGBTG+ 71 lf youbelieveyou'vebeenavictim olhous;ngdiscrimination,please callherat 918-238-t65~,oremail herati.)~~ Theseservicesareopentoeve.-yooe regard lessol incomeandare ava ilable throughouttheState !or LGBTQ+pefSOOS n.y w.dnndaJ' of rn,, ___,_=_m _oo-ity-~-'"-"-'• -•oo_,,..,,_ ., .,._,.,_.,_,,_,= _ _ __, Monrfl from f2PM- 4PM. o.mi. R. Ne41 Equatlry. Tuisa,OK7412& Equality Game Night Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! - Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/tulsaequalitygaming ------------ . -- GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides support,educatlon,andsoclal opportunltiesforlransg,eoder 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. SCOUT TROOP 7484 .., First-timeinterviewisrequiredbelore aneodingyourfirs1mff1ing. Pleasecontact918-743-4297 DeonlsR.NeillE:qua!ity,Tulsa,OK7412& Gender Support Group Scout Troop 7484 The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 ______ ... __ elizabeth.o<"li~eq,org Ungrupo<leapoyoparamujeres Green Country Bears transget>efoenespallol Utapri,Ntylkrimo }ww. Dermis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& 91&.7'3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Test:ing 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Tuesday from4pm -&pml 0[;:;!)@0@10@(1D§§~~ '1f'(1D[1, § £ FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. 'v'W@=§(;e)O~O'v' IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and twospirit native/indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris r-7 OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY ~ °'""Hmm,C<SAOK"''° e, JAMMOUTT ,---- 1 ~ 'I'll MONIJAV 6~30:r30PM Lawyer in the Library Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center Is hosting a ct;nic for name and 7 Atlomt"fJoshPaytonandhisteam wiUassistthosewithnameand gen,:!ercorrections. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org - - --- - - - Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. OKEQ SENIORS Can'tmakef!inperwn?contact infol>okequalitylaw.comtoschedu le aconsu l!ationbyZoom. n,..,,Meond WIJdnndayof me -.;.. ' ""_'••-m•_•~- '"-' """ ;;.__ _ ___. -"'from5:38PMf07PM 0..mis R. Neill Equality, Tuts.a.OK 7412& Name Change & Gender Marker Denms R Ne11\Equa\1ty Tulsa OK7412lil OKEQ Seniors 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , TULSA TTRP~S TULSA AREA PRIME ._.. TIMERS ...,;m;,, <M=•"~ mlnd9dg.-,andbisex1,111lme-nto fttaltlshlriendshipand1,Upp0rt 71 .,_,._..,,-_.,,of lhrou9hsoclal ln1eraction A socia l organ;zationtormatu re-mioded Gay and Bisexual men. --- OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY Attenc1Nsmus1be21yea,sor~ ... _ , . ,,_ 7NI eo"""' First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tulsa TTRPGs A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Fridays 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGAL AID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing = These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get help"'a iiii:! S upplemental ---1,,:-- .J-.- ~ N utrit i on 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... "'t"t"·T···~ IV ■ ilttJttl Assistance P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0] 14 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at buogerfreeok or:g/resources/soap/ - li-::,J HUNGER FREE n OKLAHOMA OKE , okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Staff Trustees 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Cydney Williams Yonah Sienna Jasper Grace Fallon Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:36 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/9c2a08aa40698874c14234d347a6e0eb.pdf da39c36115705255d0054c9dc27abb99 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming TULSR S?ITI-eSCI~T Support Group Rwhite-ledgroupforpmsupportandtducationaboutsyst.emicracism Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group Thursday, March 28th, 7-8.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Laatlhursdau of ~ _month at thB lllnnill R. llail Equality C8ntar 11E'llist.7-l:30PIII Cratin& a1181'8 span and facilitatine support. Bdw:ation and social opportunitia for all individuals llllkine r.u diVl8t from aysta11i: raciam in thBir dailu liv8S ~i:==.i.r;= Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, March 29th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Nestled in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Zen Recovery Inc. stands as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction. Led by women and LGBTQ+ individuals, our 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offers weekly gatherings known as "Zen & the Art of Whatever Works," providing a safe haven for individuals seeking solace and support on their journey to sobriety. With a focus on harm reduction and mindfulness, our meetings, held every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, offer a space for individuals to explore their struggles and triumphs within a community of understanding and acceptance. In March, our meetings on the 22nd and 29th extend a special invitation for connection and growth. As the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance, we pride ourselves on our commitment to radical inclusivity, ensuring that all voices are valued and heard. Join us at Zen Recovery Inc., where compassion reigns supreme, and the path to healing is paved with courage and acceptance. OKEQ Youth Programming Saturday, March 30th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 12 to 19. OKEQYOUTH PROGRAMING Every Saturday from 1 to 5 pm will involve opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack is provided. For questions, please email youth@okeq.org 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events EBA Mixer Thursday, March 28th, 6-7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK rr, cozy ~ CUISI E Oklahomans for Equality is excited to announce that Cozy Cuisine, Teresa Parrott, Chef/Owner, will be holding its next EBA Mixer at Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120. Teresa rents the commercial kitchen space at the Oklahomans for Equality to prepare meals for the catering part of her business as well as the prepared frozen meals. We love having Teresa as a part of our equality family. Cozy Cuisine is the culmination of my philosophy on cuisine. High-quality food should be enjoyed with good company in a comfy place. I didn’t want to compromise on ingredient quality or method, but I really wanted to create products that were both easily enjoyed and convenient. This philosophy comes from my Italian family gathering and enjoying good food together. I remember my interest in cooking started because only those who were cooking or doing dishes could be in the kitchen. I remember, as a child, loving the warm energy that came from the kitchen. That’s where all the fun was happening. Cozy Cuisine - Teresa Parrott, Chef/Owner www.cozy-cuisine.com - Teresaparrott@gmail.com - 918.949.1510 Visibly Happy, Saturday March 30th, 6-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We invite you to join us for a visibly happy, visibly queer, Trans Day of Visibility event with Oklahomans for Equality & Twisted Arts! The evening promises to be filled with joy, laughter, and entertainment. Immerse yourself in the stunning performances from some of your local 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... drag favorites such as Londenn D. Raine, Nakita Fierce, Scrappy Legacy, and ACE. Moreover, Bronco Henryetta will also grace the stage with a soulful musical performance. We look forward to welcoming you when the doors open at 6 PM. This event is free and for all ages! Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, April 3rd, 5.30-7.30 pm Fulton Street Books 21 N Greenwood Ave, Tulsa, OK an awesome selection of books. Black Queer Tulsa and Queer Women’s Collective are combining forces for our April 3rd Meetup! The folks at Fulton Street Books & Coffee (21 N Greenwood Ave) are staying open late and bringing in a bartender for us, so you’ll have coffee , cocktail, beer, and wine options all while checking out their new(ish) location, meeting new queer friends, and checking out As always, these are queer, trans and nonbinary inclusive gatherings. Allies are welcome, assholes are not. Rising Stars Saturday, April 6th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, December 2nd at 3 PM Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of each month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Coronation XVI - A Night in the Halls of Valhalla Saturday, April 6th, 7 pm Renaissance Hotel 6808 S 107th E Ave, Tulsa, OK You can purchase a ticket for $100 that allows you in earlier for a formal dinner. If interested, let me know, and I'll send you the ticket link. This is our biggest annual fundraiser of the year. All funds made throughout the year go right back into the LGBTQIA+ Community here in Oklahoma. This is a formal attire event. You'll see and meet Drag queens from all over the US and Canada. We are an international 501c3 non-profit organization. Check us out at impcourtok.org 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bill W. and Dr. Bob April 11th-14th Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is a powerful and often humorous play detailing the events that led to the creation of Alcoholics Anonymous. BILL W. and Dr. BOB Written by Samuel Shem & Janet Surrey, Directed by Paula Scheider, Sponsored by Hippie Chick Heart Featuring: Dara Renee Allen, Kim Li Carlson, Marc Carlson, Mark Ingham, DeeDee Huffman-Jones, Zero Steiert 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form Saturday, April 13th 10am ·6~m r Blended Saturday, April 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in non-traditional households (stepparents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Free childcare is available! This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com. Free childcare is also available! Please join us at 10am on April 20th at OKEQ! For questions, email ~@gm..ai..l..k2ID Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th 12-4 pm WOMPA 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK "2-Spirit Fest" is a three-day event open to the public, celebrating diverse artistic expressions deeply rooted in traditional cultures. Attendees can look forward to musical performances by both local and non-local artists, captivating video installations, dynamic drumming and dancing, an artist market, and an insightful panel discussion. For a detailed schedule and additional information, please visit Twisted Arts’ website at: https://twistedfest.org/twospirit Funding for this program has been generously provided by a grant from Oklahoma Humanities (OH) and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH). It is important to note that any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this program do not necessarily represent those of OH or NEH. Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ Pride Bingo Saturday, April 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, April 20th Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Sasha Turrelle and Sean Tylr Davis Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Please get your tickets before they sell out! 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE a MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION ALOFT OICLAHOIIA crrY QIIAL SPRINOS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ------- Over three-quarters of a century have passed since the 1945 liberation of Au.,Lhwiu and the end of the war against the Jews. And yet we are once again standing at the l 1 I 1'\I\J\ • • • 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Ju SAGE works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBTQ+ older people. To help do so, we are starting A NEW NATIONAL SURVEY every other year to better understand the current experiences, needs, and resiliencies of LGBTQ+ older people in the U.S . WHO • If you are 50 years or older AND identify as LGBTQ+, we want to hear from you! WHAT • WHEN 30-minute survey online or over the phone Now Open! Ref,Ae To- Be !klnfiHe! ~ V isit the link to start the survey! https://www.sageusa.org/SOLA2023 MfJu .\11.~LTil sage =l:n We refuse IO be invis.ible 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 BZG~ BGNG RECRUITING https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Trans Men and Women Online Paid Research 2 hours: $200 WE NEED YOUR HELP WITH OUR IMPORTANT RESEARCH Big Bang Recruiting is inviting both trans men and women— to a paid in-person public opinion study We will discuss challenges and concerns that this population in our society face today. Participants will receive $200 for a 2-hour discussion. WHAT IS INVOLVED? Please answer the questions below to see if you would be a good candidate for this study. The demographic questions are asked so that we are sure to get a mix of different ages, gender, ethnicity, etc. Answers are used for that purpose only. Your responses in the group are reported in aggregate and no personally identifiable information will be shared. HOW TO HELP: 1) Participate yourself. When you fill out the preliminary survey we will contact you immediately if you meet the research criteria. 2) Share this with your friends/family that you think will qualify and be interested. Please contact me with any questions: Hannah Hardin, Project Manager 918-978-6594, hannah@bigbangrecruiting.com, https://www.bigbangrecruiting.com SAFE PRAYER SERVICE JOIN US FOR S.1.P.S. on Wednesday evenings at 7:00pm. It's a zero pressure, affirming prayer time for our 2SLGBTIA+ friends, families, and allies. Wherever you are on your spiritual journey, you are welcom here - come just as you are. Wednesdays at 7:00 pm CHURCH O F THE HOLY CROSS - EPISCOPAL 9309 N 129th East Ave Owasso, OK 74055 www.CHCEP1SC0f'AL.0R.G In Memoriam Il111 Meimoriaurn 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Vernon Leon Jones May 3rd, 1935 ~ February 5th, 2024 Vernon Leon Jones, 88, of Tulsa, Oklahoma, left this earthly plane to be with his late partner Phil Wiley, on February 5th, 2024. He was born in Oklahoma, on May 3rd, 1935. As a gay man, born and raised here, Vernon's chosen family is vast. He is survived by Hayward Jones, Nekesha Jones, JaKobe Jones, Sue Davis, Fred Hilliard, Arlowe Clementine, Mason Thomas, Rey Thomas, and so many other individuals that claimed Vernon as their friend, family, and elder. Vernon was an active learner, even in his later years. He was always working to understand the world around him and was eternally hopeful for a better world. He was a strong advocate for marginalized peoples and was particularly committed to Queer and Black Liberation. Vernon was a clear Taurus. He was intelligent, dependable, logical, honest, and generous. Vernon spent most of his life focused on making his community better. He was a holder of receipts. A maker of spreadsheets. A true community historian and archivist. Vernon was dedicated to making people safer, both in his career in emergency management and his activist work in the fight against AIDS. He was not a stranger to controversy and was unrelenting in speaking his truth and the truth of the people he loved. In the years before his death, Vernon worked hard to ensure that the legacy of LGBTQ activism in Tulsa was properly recorded and preserved for current and future generations. His substantial archive is now housed in Oklahoma State University's Archives. This collection will be witnessed by researchers and community members for years to come. Vernon was a connector. He worked hard to bring people together and was always willing to give someone support that needed it. Even in his death, he is connecting individuals over their shared love and respect for him and his life. Vernon fought hard for his community and the legacy of his late partner Phil Wiley. Anyone who knew Vernon was graced with stories of Phil's life and legacy as well as their love for one another. In lieu of flowers, we ask that you remember Vernon by learning something new, taking a stand on social issues that are important to you, and keeping his life and legacy alive through storytelling. Gregory Paul Spencer October 18, 1958 ~ February 22, 2024 Gregory Paul Spencer was born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma on October 18, 1958. He passed away on the evening of February 22, 2024, at the early age of 65 after a very sudden decline in his health with his grandson Tristin Reeves and his wife Amanda and their children by his side. Greg was preceded by both parents Frank and Isla Spencer. He is survived by his seven siblings, sister Judith Vaughn and her husband Donald of Lake Helan, FL., sister Linda Spencer of Bartlesville, brother Mark Spencer and his wife Diana of Bixby and their children and grandchildren, sister Margaret Bouvier and her husband Michael of Bartlesville and her children, sister Bernadette Spencer and B.J. Hargrave of Essex Junction, Vermont. and her son, brother John Spencer 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac.. of Forsyth, MO and his children, and brother Eric Spencer and Gerard Cloete of Cape Town, South Africa. Greg is also survived by loyal friends and extended family. Greg has left his earthly life too soon leaving behind his daughter Kathryn Chambers and husband David of Bartlesville and their children, sons, Steven Spencer of Kansas City and Everett Spencer of Pawhuska and his children and grandchildren and his beloved Bayley. Gregory spent his younger years in Pawhuska, left for college and came back to teach and make a difference in his community. In 1987, he led the local vocational carpentry class to start renovations on the Constantine Theater where he left his handcrafted talent of the detailed masks of comedy and tragedy proudly displayed at the entrance. He also seen the need and was the Mayor of Pawhuska for a term. Later in life, Greg continued with his passion of carpentry and construction which brought on a long-time friendship with David Baker and many others that will miss him dearly. His love of the arts was shared when he would entertain and light up a room with song and dance. Greg recently found the same love for pipes that his father had and opened Bayley Pipe Shop and Museum where he proudly collected varieties of beautiful pipes, his carved Meerschaum collection was his pride and joy. Greg never met a stranger and always knew how to carry on a good conversation. He will be deeply missed. .~ . t -' ~ ~ '\ ~ . ,·,. . .... r- i ~i ~~ Nex Benedict February 8, 2024 Our hearts are broken for the Oklahoma 2SLGBTQIA+ community and for the family, friends, and loved ones of Nex Benedict. While we are still learning all of the facts surrounding the death of the 16year-old Owasso student, we are certain that every student has the right to a safe learning environment, free from deadnaming, misgendering, outing, and violence, as well as appropriate medical care. The persistent, vitriolic legislation and rhetoric being championed by our state leaders are breeding animosity, inciting violence, and harming the queer community, especially our youth. As we grieve and acknowledge this loss, we are reminded of the work yet to be done because our lives depend on it. Nex Benedict and the countless 2SLGBTQIA+ teens like them deserve better from our state and medical facilities. They deserve the chance to fully be themselves. They deserve to grow up. Rest in power, Nex. ·~,"""· ' October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 .. Rick Spring Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. 9 ! r :-..,~ )f Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. 10 of 19 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC Cultur• llyCompetentC• re forthetG8TQ•Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Aces Committed Equality A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA 6?1TI-RSCI5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhit.e-letl2M1upfurpeersupportandeducationaboutsyst.emicracism .,1,F/RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. lut Thul'8dau of IIV8l'U_lllonth at t.h8 lllnnia R. IIBil Equality Cant.Ir 121Elht.7-ta Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Monthly on the last Thursday. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontrad itional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaBf)oantwithLega l AidServicesof Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTGl-t 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeeoa>'ictim of housing discrimination.please callherat9 18-238-16561,orema il hefalil!~~g. Theseservicesa,eopentoeveryone rega,dlessolincomeand3re avaHable throughoultheSta1etor LGBTQ+persons. ~ w.drlnday of 1M , - -'-=-=- "-;"-•'-" -fai_ . ,_ = _;o,,;.-,_••-•~- ;_,.~ _ •_ __, Atonffl ,,_, J2PM- oU'M. GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides support, educa tion,andsocial oppor1unitiesfor transgender First-timein teiviewisrequiredbe!ore attendingyourlirstm~ting Pk>asecontact918-743-4297 71 &.yw.ctond,iyola. ~from7""'1f09PM DlllnllltNIIIEqw,llty,TutaOK7412$ Ot'nnis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 w;. GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. f Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 ____ ...-- elizabe!h.ort;z~eq.o,g Ungrupodeapoyoparamujeres transg,'oeroeoespallol Dl'<lnisll.NeiUEqua(ity,Tu1$;1.0K7412$ _. UfM,..._.yUU1mo}ur,fl 91&.7"3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Q 8 § JAMMOUTT EVJ;i\Y 2NIJfl;4'1'11MONIJ/\\' 6:30-7:30PM f 8 m1mLJtl.ill.\.___.___. . This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... f Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGA LA ID~~ SE MV I CES o• a; 0 KIAIIO .. . A, ( S"C , ....·~ 71 ----....,....,,___.,_ Gender L Correction Clinic Mfffll ..... . _ _ JulieLGofeewithlegalAidSefvicesof Oklahomaisavailablelordropindiscussions regardinglega l issUM. --- c.Mbll'-l!l~lty.T...._ OK74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma !or Equa lity Law Ceoter is hosting a clinic for name and Anorne)'Josh Paytonandhisteam wi llass;s11t>osewi1hnameand genderc0<rec1ions. Can'1 makeit inpen.on?contac1 inl~ kequalitylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom. aw,y w,:onc, w~ yof rite ,__,_~_,._,m _••-~-'-"'-"'°' - - - - - - - momfltrom5:39J'Mto 7PM O.-Onis R.Neill Equ.ality, Tulsa, OK.74 129 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org --- --- ----Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. - ' ....... • • •• 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN'S UEERLECTIVE 0 L Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS __ .. Asociatoroanizationformatu,.,....minded Gay and Bisexual men Asodalo,vanlzatlonlofmaturemlndedgayanClblw.ualmento 71 ..wM1$1'1frlendsl'llpanCIS.Upport uwoui:,isoc;~inleraclion . Att.ndNslTIU$tbl-21)•,;1rsor . . , . _ . . , 1\INdap'ol _, _.,._,,., .,.., Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa TTRPGs Veteran Support Group Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Fridays 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction focused, mindfulness based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0]]4 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at buogerfreeok ocg/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:36 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Eddie Carreno - Member at Large Board of Directors Zoe Brett Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Cydney Williams Yonah Sienna Jasper Grace Fallon Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:36 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/b9b2fc5d32f681ac9ecff2ff819f7113.pdf 55031b48637e80cbdf1168fe9344719f PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm OkEq Security Funding You may have noticed a familiar face at the Equality Center these last few weeks of December. Through limited and restricted funding, OkEq will benefit through mid-January from the presence of a Security Officer during our standard business hours. Suzy S., (She/Her/They/Them), pictured above, has over a decade of direct security experience, is CLEET certified, and holds specialized training in mental health intervention and substance abuse. As a member of our community, they also bring deep understanding and compassion while serving OkEq in an environment that is wholly affirming to their own identity. The only piece missing in this incredible partnership is the capacity to fund the role as a permanent one. One of our main initiatives over this year has been to increase safety at the Equality Center. In operating one of the largest 2SLGBTQIA+ focused human rights organizations serving Oklahoma, OkEq staff and volunteers often find themselves as the target of threats, vandalism, and having to navigate crises. From within our walls is also the work of pushing back against anti-2SLGBTQIA+ legislation and social policy, while threats against our communities are on the rise and intensifying, according to the latest briefings from the Department of Homeland Security. Tulsa Pride 2023 was also a stark reminder that even after decades of activism and celebration, we still face very real and present dangers. 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We all deserve safe and affirming spaces, so we are reaching out to you, our community, for help. Keeping OUR center secure and welcoming to all we serve can be met through a one-time recurring commitment, and allow OkEq to provide a permanent post for Suzy. The current costs for a twelve-hour shift are $360 dollars. Will you help? Use the link below to donate now, or drop by the Center at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 to donate in person. Thank you, Dorothy Ballard Executive Director | OkEq DONATE TODAY! Volunteer Opportunity: Become the Welcoming Face of OKEQ! Are you passionate about serving your community? OKEQ is seeking enthusiastic front desk volunteers to be the welcoming presence at our center. As a front desk volunteer, you'll greet and guide guests, handle phone inquiries, and assist in distributing essential resources. This role offers an exceptional chance to engage with our community and make a meaningful impact. Front desk shifts typically run for 3 hours once a week, with opportunities for more involvement if your schedule allows. We currently have openings during the following times: Tuesdays 9 am-12 pm Wednesdays 9 am-12 pm Thursdays 9 am-12 pm 12-3 pm 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Fridays 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Saturdays 12-3 pm 1st & 3rd 3-6 pm 1st & 3rd If you can dedicate some of your time and want to join our dedicated team, please email Olivia at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Make a difference and be a vital part of our community at OKEQ! 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events ..af. ouT OF 0..G 11\t.llMATION j DONATE BLOOD &SAVE LIVES Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive THIS WINTER! - NATIONAL BLOOD Oklahomans for Equality R~~<?~ Blood Drive Saturday, January 6 • 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. Event Center (621 E. 4th St.) Saturday, January 6th l 10a - 2p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Schedule an Appointment Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, January 6th l 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Eclectic Sunday, January 7th | 9:30p-1a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We would like to invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. STORYTELLING ROUNDTABLE Discuss the Impact of Food Insecurity & Hunger on Your Life! Storytellers receive: • $150 Check or Gift Card after W-9 is received • Mileage reimbursement • Childcare reimbursement • Transportation if needed • Lunch and snacks • A safe snace to share 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... •• --·- -.---- -- -· ·-· stories & create community 18+ & 2SLGBTQIA+ ONLY! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, January 27, 2024 10 AM - 3 PM CST Limited Space Available Apply Here by January 10: hfok.org/Jan27Roundtable - ~ HUNGER • FREE nn OKLAHOMA HOMEWUD BOUND PUG RESCUE &lllmlllfllUIIU 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Ju sao-e I~~~~~~~o~ ~' LGBTQ• Elders We refuse to be invisible 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This research study focuses on learning more about LGBTQ+ people aged 50 and older across the country, including their experiences, needs, and resiliencies as they get older. The information you provide about your experiences will help us to identify what kinds of healthcare and related services may be important for LGBTQ+ older people from diverse backgrounds. You are being asked to participate in the study because you meet the following criteria: You are aged 50 or older, and you identify as LGBTQ+. If you agree to participate in this study, you will be asked to complete a one-time survey that may take 30 to 45 minutes. This study includes only a minimal risk related to potential psychological discomfort when discussing sensitive matters related to your health and life experiences. Participation in research is voluntary. You may choose either to take part or not to take part in the study. If you decide to take part in this study, you may leave the study at any time. No matter what decision you make, there will be no penalty to you in any way. You will not lose any of your regular benefits, and you can still access services the way you usually do. If you have any questions about the study, please contact Dr. Jason Flatt, Assistant Professor at UNLV at 702-895-5586. If you wish to ask questions about the study or your rights as a research participant to someone other than the researchers or if you wish to voice any problems or concerns you may have about the study, please call the UNLV Institutional Review Board at 702-895-2794. TAKE SURVEY WEARE HIRING Require men ts: • High school diploma or equivalent required. • Knowledge of community resources of targeted LGBTIQA+ population • Experience working with the 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... targeted population • Pay begins at $36,729.76 annually tu lsa-health.org/careers ~ ~ TULSA HEALTH n I&, Department In Memoriam Iln Memoriaim In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP of Ofdohoma will be assisting 74-g4- 5COl/fTROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS ANO TRAN5/NON81NARY YOUTH f:VfRY THVllSDAY OF TH, MONTH 6'30p«, .;. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality 1o.1n1.1 o~~~n11o. 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... l'tUft Ul"'l"'CRll'tU a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... .org Phone (918)295-9429. 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1'10 Yo11i Bi ,rjt1J~ l(_,~tt~r ~~~~ ~~!:,,'!:,,'~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "i:f'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§!PD~ □"IT' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the Equality Game Night Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · @r@rncll®IP ~ffi]])]]:@lru @rf®Dn]]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ~ / J i . tJtmljj,O!!J',iYJP • ~ Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID tSL SERVICES OF LEGAL AID tSL SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. nu I IUll Lllll\ C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espariol : 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:24 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:24 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/ef4f35f2838ae1a8dcb4a5e695388b7a.pdf 207dfcf2447cf96f40333f4b02c7ea96 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala & Pride Festival I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invit es you to our 1AM EQ.UALITY Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! Gala & Benefit This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ()at,fJwn, ~ 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o 'clock in the evening c omplim e n ta r y v al e t Cox Bu s in ess Con ve nti o n Ce n ter Legacy H a ll , 2n d Fl oo r Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! c ocktails I m oc ktail s I dinn e r th e atr e live au c tion I d a n ce party Honorary Chairs S u e W e lc h & Marcy Sm it h www.OKE Q.or g Sponsorships & Tickets Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed décor! 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. New Programming Fruity Pebbles Youth Group Saturday, April 13th, 1-5 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK OkEq is excited to have the return of weekly Saturday youth programming 'Fruity Pebbles' at the Equality Center! The program is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. Every Saturday from 1 pm to 5 pm, there will be opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutual-aid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack and lunch are provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Friday, April 12th, 10-11.30 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride St, Tulsa, OK Nestled in the heart of Tulsa, Oklahoma, Zen Recovery Inc. stands as a beacon of hope for those navigating the complexities of addiction. Led by women and LGBTQ+ individuals, our 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization offers weekly gatherings known as "Zen & the Art of Whatever Works," providing a safe haven for individuals seeking solace and support on their journey to sobriety. With a focus on harm reduction and mindfulness, our meetings, held every 2nd and 4th Friday of the month, offer a space for individuals to explore their struggles and triumphs within a community of understanding and acceptance. As the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance, we pride ourselves on our commitment to radical inclusivity, ensuring that all voices are valued and heard. Join us at Zen Recovery Inc., where compassion reigns supreme, and the path to healing is paved with courage and acceptance. Special Events Bill W. and Dr. Bob April 11th-14th Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is a powerful and often humorous play detailing the events that led to the creation of Alcoholics Anonymous. B LL W. and Dr. BOB Written by Samuel Shem & Janet Surrey, Directed by Paula Scheider, Sponsored by Hippie Chick Heart Featuring: Dara Renee Allen, Kim Li Carlson, Marc Carlson, Mark Ingham, DeeDee Huffman-Jones, Zero Steiert 1st Annual Multi-Cultural Celebration Spring Festival & Market Saturday, April 13th, 10 am-6 pm Marriot Southern Hills 1902 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We welcome ALL Artisans and Entertainers, Indigenous, LGBTQ2IA, Alternative, Hispanic, African American, Gothic, Pagan, Disabled, Autistic, and MORE! NO HATE SPEECH ALLOWED! A CHILL ROOM is provided for those with SENSORY ISSUES! This event is ADA-compliant and has plenty of parking. Vendor Form Saturday, April 13th 10am-6P-m Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland & John Wooley Celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th Birthday Thursday, April 18th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Thursdays in the Rainbow Room welcomes Janet Rutland back to Lynn Riggs Theatre on April 18. Author John Wooley will join Rutland, and together, they will celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th birthday with music and narration about the talented composer's life. Musical accompaniment by Scott McQuade and Jake Erwin. TICKETS Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 19th, 7-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Enjoy a fun evening of professional drag performers, AND root for your favorite novice lip-syncer! Feeling extra? Join us in the sync! The winner of the novice contest receives a $100 cash prize! All proceeds benefit the LGBTQ students at the Little Blue House at TU. r Blended Saturday, April 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in non-traditional households (stepparents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Free childcare is available! This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com. Free childcare is also available! Please Join us at 10am on April 20th at OKEQ! For questions, email ~ @ g ~ 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th 12-4 pm WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK "2-Spirit Fest" is a three-day event open to the public, celebrating diverse artistic expressions deeply rooted in traditional cultures. Attendees can look forward to musical performances by both local and non-local artists, captivating video installations, dynamic drumming and dancing, an artist market, and an insightful panel discussion. For a detailed schedule and additional information, please visit Twisted Arts’ website at: https://twistedfest.org/twospirit Funding for this program has been generously provided by a grant from Oklahoma Humanities (OH) and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH). It is important to note that any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this program do not necessarily represent those of OH or NEH. Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ Pride Bingo Saturday, April 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, April 20th Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Sasha Turrelle and Sean Tylr Davis Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Please get your tickets before they sell out! 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLANP TRANSGENPER SPRING SOIREE 6 MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 ,. THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 ALOFT OICUHOMA CffY GUM SPRINflS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 - ------- - 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Over three-quarters of a century have passed since the 1945 liberation of Am(_hwitL and the end of the war against the Jews. And yet we are once again standing at the threshold. Some 1 l '->.000 Holocaust survivors are still alive, but many of them were very young children during the Second World War. The few who can speak with the force of first -hand perception will soon be gone. Wh..it h..ippl'n'> nl'xt.' 1 In Memoriam Il111 Me1111oriaum Raymond Johnson August 4, 1948 ~ January 16, 2024 In January 2024, Ray, aged 75, passed away. We remember Ray for his talent with the violin, his infectious smile, and his valued presence as a member of the OKEQ Seniors group. Rick Spring October 10, 1943 ~ January 24, 2024 Richard Kent Spring, Jr., a long time Okmulgee resident, passed away on Wednesday, January 24, 2024, in Tulsa, Oklahoma at the age of 80. He was born to Richard Kent, Sr., and Ruth Lucille (Anderson) Spring on October 10, 1943. Rick had many interests and passions, but he truly loved traveling in Europe. He took his family on a Rick Steves tour in 2001, and returned on another Rick Steves tour with his daughter, her husband, and son in 2017. He enjoyed several other Europe trips throughout the years as well. Rick loved spending time with his grandson, Spencer; driving to Oklahoma City weekly to see him for many years. And he rarely missed happy hour at Dee Hennigan’s house. 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rick served in the United States Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. He returned home in 1967, and in 1970, married Carolyn Morgan. After spending time in Stillwater for university, they moved to Houston where Rick worked for the Parks Department. They left the Houston area and returned to life in Okmulgee in 1978. They had a daughter, Morgan, in 1979, and a son, Evan, followed in 1982. Rick was a lifelong member of the Episcopal Church of the Redeemer, serving on the vestry for decades and wearing many hats along the way. Rick is preceded in death by his parents, Kent and Lu Spring and his sister, Kay Schmidt. He is survived by his daughter, Morgan Harris, husband Graham, and grandson Spencer of Oklahoma City; son, Evan, of Norman; nephew, Wes Schmidt, and niece, Judy Schmidt. Whether it was as a teacher, a social worker, a community volunteer, or through helping other veterans access their benefits, Rick spent his adult life serving others, working to give folks a hand up and access the resources they needed to live a better life. The family would like to extend special thanks to the Dale K. Graham Veterans Foundation in Norman, Oklahoma, for helping Rick navigate the Veterans Administration benefits process. In lieu of flowers, the family encourages donations to the Foundation to help other veterans get the benefits they’ve earned. Donations can be made here: https://www.dalekgrahamveteransfoundation.org/donate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cf- HEALTH -ci=-cfCLINIC Cultura lly (ompetrnt Ca r~ for the lGBTQ+ (ommun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSl:I5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhite·l£!12roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicracism .,t,F/RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program wt 1hundau of ~ -month at tha Dennis R. 11111 Eq1Wltg C8nt8r mElllst.7-1:Ml Cl'atilll!Blll'l~and~IIUIJPlll't. 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontrad itional households (st ep parents, non-bio parent s, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! f Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaBrya ntwithLega l AidSeivicesof Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ 71 JfyoubeHeveyou',ebffnavictim oft>oosingdiscrimination,please callherat Ql S-238-165&,oremaH heraljlJY.lliJ!a~g Theseservices areopentoE"o'eryone regardlessofincomeandare availablethrooghouttheStatefo, LGBTQ +pernons ~ ~ y o f it._ __,_--~-"-'"-· '-"-"'-',_ - _,,,,_.•_.._.._ ,,_ ~~-·- - - ...,.,c,, from 12PM- - GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende.-Suppor1provides support,education,andsocial opportunitiesfortransgender First-lime interview i5 required before alt efld ingyourli rstmeeting. Pleasecontact 918-743-4297 71 Ew,y~ollM mwtatfnlm 7Nl' fDIJPM 0.-R.Nell~.Tulu.0K7"12fl Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tulsa, OK 7◄ 12& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Gender Support Group 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;. Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Testing Every Tuesday from4pm-&pml Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 e1;zabeth.oniz~eq.oro ______, ...-- UngriJpodeapoyoparamujeres transgeoe<oeoespal\ol QCM~ylicrimo}fwws DeonisR.NeillEqua!ity,Tuls.a,OK7,412& Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY ~ 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 ~ JAMM OUTT ~ i;v1mv2NU &;~ 'l'l1 MONDAY 6:30-7:30PM (3 . t Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L i>G.4-LA m ~, ,. SERV I CF.So• :a 01<,..110,,u, l "c. ~~:~~:::~;f:,~~~;:::sions •~ardingl~a l iSSlll;"5. 71 .................. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender Correction Clinic Lawyer in the Library gender corrections. Can'lmake;tinperson?contact inf,,..,kequalilylaw.comtoschedute 9429 . . . . .. . . . . . . . . Dennb It Neil [qi.I.illy, Tulu. OK 7412e Anomey Josh Payton and his team willassis1thosewi1hnameand Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostingaclinicfornameand gendermarkerthanges. ------------ a consultation by Zoom. rwrtH'CondW~yof lhe monffl from 5:38PM lo 7PM DennisR.NeillEqu;,lity,Tutw,OK7412' Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org --- ----Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. -- OKEQ SENIORS DenmsR Ne1llEqual,ty Tulsa OK7412S OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocialo,~nlzationformatu,e-minded Gay and Bisexual men 71 Asocl.iorv,,niutionlormaturernlncled~andbise>:ualmento ..ublbhfriendshipandsupp,:,,i ttvougt,soclallni.recooo Attendlonmustbe21ye,1rsor 1w,p---,J'uftuJ'ol _ _...., _ _ _ ,,_1Plllflilffl'M Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. ~ Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY r 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA TTRP&S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Veteran Support Group Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second & fourth Friday of each month, 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction-focused, mindfulness-based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID t tz. SERVICES OF LEGAL AID t tz. SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. HOPE Testing TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jl t'1 Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • ~ ~!;~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol: Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Regis McDaniel - Archivist Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams 4/29/26, 12:38 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:38 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/39bad6dc3e6baf8d6c03ad440864e86a.pdf b4663b22b6c6d83256d6fde95bc80055 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala & Pride Festival I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invit es you to our 1AM EQ.UALITY Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! Gala & Benefit This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ()at,fJwn, ~ 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o 'clock in the evening c omplim e n ta r y v al e t Cox Bu s in ess Con ve nti o n Ce n ter Legacy H a ll , 2n d Fl oo r Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! c ocktails I m oc ktail s I dinn e r th e atr e live au c tion I d a n ce party Honorary Chairs S u e W e lc h & Marcy Sm it h www.OKE Q.or g Sponsorships & Tickets Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed décor! 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. Special Events Thursdays in the Rainbow Room: Janet Rutland & John Wooley Celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th Birthday Thursday, April 18th, 7.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Thursdays in the Rainbow Room welcomes Janet Rutland back to Lynn Riggs Theatre on April 18. Author John Wooley will join Rutland, and together, they will celebrate Henry Mancini's 100th birthday with music and narration about the talented composer's life. Musical accompaniment by Scott McQuade and Jake Erwin. TICKETS Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 19th, 7-10 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Enjoy a fun evening of professional drag performers, AND root for your favorite novice lip-syncer! Feeling extra? Join us in the sync! The winner of the novice contest receives a $100 cash prize! All proceeds benefit the LGBTQ students at the Little Blue House at TU. r Blended Saturday, April 20th, 10 am Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in non-traditional households (stepparents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Free childcare is available! This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (st ep parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc) For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com. Free childcare is also available' Please join us at 10am on April 20th at OKEQ! For questions, email ~@gmAi1.l.2.m Two Spirit Fest Saturday, April 20th 12-4 pm WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... "2-Spirit Fest" is a three-day event open to the public, celebrating diverse artistic expressions deeply rooted in traditional cultures. Attendees can look forward to musical performances by both local and non-local artists, captivating video installations, dynamic drumming and dancing, an artist market, and an insightful panel discussion. For a detailed schedule and additional information, please visit Twisted Arts’ website at: https://twistedfest.org/twospirit Funding for this program has been generously provided by a grant from Oklahoma Humanities (OH) and the National Endowment for the Humanities (NEH). It is important to note that any views, findings, conclusions, or recommendations expressed in this program do not necessarily represent those of OH or NEH. Muskogee #Creek family, this one's for you - see you during festival season! ?✨ ✨ Pride Bingo Saturday, April 20th, 6.30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, April 20th Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Sasha Turrelle and Sean Tylr Davis Doors open at 6:30 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Please get your tickets before they sell out! Leave a Legacy Workshop Tuesday, April 23rd, 6-8 pm VENUE 918 11505 E 43rd St, Tulsa, OK Join us and learn how to make a plan for your future. Whether you want to learn about the different instruments available to you or dive into specifics about a Will or Trust, this is the session to attend for FREE advice and how to get started! JOIN US FOR OUR FREE "LEAVE ALEGACY" WORKSHOP TUESDAY J.!!!!11 APRI L 23fd, 2024 ~ STARTAT ~ ' 6:00 PM · 8:00 PM ~ : TOPIC OF DISCUSSION REGISTER NOW MAKE APLAN FOR YOUR FUTURE RSVP USING QR CODE Please ensure your family's legacy and peace of mind with expert guidance at our upcoming Estate Planning Event. By making a plan for your future, you'll unlock the keys to financial security, inheritance optimization, and safeguarding your loved ones' futures. Highlights: *Personalized strategies tailored to your unique circumstances *Expert advice from seasoned estate planning professionals *Insights on instruments like Wills, Trusts, Probate & More! Don't leave your legacy to chance – take control of your future. We look forward to seeing you at the workshop. RSVP now to secure your spot! OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 621 E 4TH ST TULSA OK 74401 MAV04,2024 , ~ Rising Stars Saturday, May 4th, 1 pm 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! From 12 p.m. to 3 p.m., our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE i MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events ,. LOCATION ALOFT OICLAHOIIA CffY QUAL SPRINIS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 ---------- In Memoriam I ' j ..........._ 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Merrnoriaurn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=CLINIC i Cultur• llyCompetentC• reforthetGBTQ+Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up 111111 1111111 1111111 IIII Aces Committed Equality _,_.,·-~-·-··•~'~~~==, . -.. ,-:.,. 71 ASEXUAL it, A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA a~TI-RSCieT WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fF~RN -CAREGIVER- Support Group RwhiU-led 2roup fnr peer support and education aboutSJlstlmic racism ,:u' laltlhursdau of ~ _lllllnth Affirm Caregiver at th8 ll8nni8 R.llail Eq1lllitg Cl1lt8r AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, o:.i~-:iaru1~r::r, 11£1hlt.7-l:30Plll indlvldualsllllldna . . t.11 ~ . . livasuatamtc 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP Th is peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Please join us at 10am on February 17th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gmail.com Blended Brought To You Bi The Letter B Join us for our monthly peer-led support group, a safe and inclusive space for parents in nontraditional households! Whether you're a stepparent, non-biological parent, bonus parent, or in any unique family structure, we welcome you with open arms. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. This month, our meeting will be held on the 4th Saturday, and starting next month, we will consistently meet on the third Saturday of each month. If you have any questions, please email us at 2022blended@gmail.com. More details can be found on our support group website. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) We're eagerly looking forward to connecting and sharing our experiences with you! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaBf)oantwithLega l AidServicesof OkLahoma will be assisting the LGBTGl-t 71 GENDER\ SUPPORT GROUP The Gende-r SuppOrtprovides rega,dlessofincomeandare ava;lable throughouttheSta1et0< LGBTQ+persons. ~ w.dnftdl,y of 1M - •'•=•=•"•;•••'•"•fai•'"•=•;"'•·•• •••~- ;_ ,.~_•___. Atonffl ,,_, J2PM- 4PM. support,educa tioo,andsocial opportunitiesfor transgende.- First-timein terviewisrequiredbe!0<e attending your first meeting PleasecontactQ18-743-42Q7 71 c-,.......,.,.ol,,.. monfltfrom7""'1f09PM DlnnllR.NellEqw,llty, Tuia OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;., Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Grupo Trans en Espanol 71 elizabe!h.Ofl;z~eq.o,g _______. ...-- Ungrupodeaporoparamujeres traMg,'neroeoespallol cau,.._.,uuimo,/ur,N Dennisli.NeiUEqua(iry,Tul$il.0K7412$ t1t,7"3A297 Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGAL AID -t:~ SEltvl CES.,. = 0K IA H O .. . A, I NC. .,.. ______ ......... .. --- 71 ..,.....,,......, Name& Gender Correction Clinic 9G9•...a.Mllalllllllll, Julie LGoree withle,;;al AidSeMcesof Ok lahomaisaeailablefordropindiscussions regarding lega l issues. DennlsR.Nelll[Cluallty,Tutu,OK7•t2& Lawyer in the Library ~ Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostingaclinicfornameand / I - '-""-"~ - •-'"'-"'"-"'- - - - ~ At1omeyJosl!Paytonandhis t eam willassislthosewilh nameand genderco,rections. Can't ma ke it in perwn? contact info9>okequali1~w.comtoschedute a consultation by Zoom. C.,,.,, ucond W-..sday ofthe montt>from 5:38PMro 7PM ~nisR.NeiUEquality,Tulu,OK7•128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org - - --- - - - Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS Denn ,s R Ne1llEquatn1Tuts.aOK741W OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A socialorganizationformatu,e-mir>ded Gay and Bisexual men 71 AIOCWOf91"izatlon tor matu~ mlndedgayandblw.ualmento establllhfrleodshlpandsuppo,1 thn)ugl'lsociallnterac:tion. ~ must bl'21 yursorolde<'. ~MCGlld1\INdllpol _ ___, .. _.,,_,,.,hi,,., Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY l l'ULSD_ 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Veteran Support Group Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second & fourth Friday of each month, 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction-focused, mindfulness-based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • t tz:. = LEGAL AID SERVICES O F • t tz:. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. HOPE Testing Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0]]4 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at bungerfreeok ocg/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Olivia Cotter - Administrative Coordinator Regis McDaniel - Archivist Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US 4/29/26, 12:39 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:39 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/4efeea72ff9fd7b80fc8701632b1e7ea.pdf 3e0471371938d3190cc594e04b3fc0f5 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invit es you to our 1AM EQ.UALITY Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! Gala & Benefit This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ()at,fJwn, ~ 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o 'clock in the evening c omplim e n ta r y v al e t Cox Bu s in es s Con ve nti o n Ce n ter Legacy H a ll , 2n d Fl oo r Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! c ocktails I m oc ktail s I dinn e r th e atr e live au c tion I d a n ce party Honorary Chairs S u e W e lc h & Marcy Sm it h www.OKE Q.or g Sponsorships & Tickets Special Events Leave a Legacy Workshop Tuesday, April 23rd, 6-8 pm VENUE 918 11505 E 43rd St, Tulsa, OK Join us and learn how to make a plan for your future. Whether you want to learn about the different instruments available to you or dive into specifics about a Will or Trust, this is the session to attend for FREE advice and how to get started! JOIN US FOR OUR FREE "LEAVE ALEGACY" WORKSHOP TUESDAY ~ APRI L 23rd, 2024 ~ STARTAT ~ ' 6:00PM-8:00PM ~ ; TOPIC OF DISCUSSION REGISTER NOW Please ensure your family's legacy and peace of mind with expert guidance at our upcoming Estate Planning Event. By making a plan for your future, you'll unlock the keys to financial security, inheritance optimization, and safeguarding your loved ones' futures. Highlights: *Personalized strategies tailored to your unique circumstances *Expert advice from seasoned estate planning professionals *Insights on instruments like Wills, Trusts, Probate & More! 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Don't leave your legacy to chance – take control of your future. We look forward to seeing you at the workshop. RSVP now to secure your spot! FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, April 23rd, 4-6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. FREE HIV TESTING •• Know your staus today! UALITY Business Alliance l. EBA MIXER EMPIRE 1 okeq.com/eba Empire Slice we do what we do because we love people. food. art.music and drinks. EBA Mixer w/ Empire Slice House Thursday, April 25th, 6-8 pm VENUE 918 11505 E 43rd St, Tulsa, OK ⚡Oklahomans for Equality is excited to have Empire Slice House host our Equality Business Alliance Mixer this month! ?⚧?❤??????????????????? At Empire Slice, we do what we do because we love people, food, art, music, and drinks. Empire Slice allows us to take all of the things we love and package them inside four walls and for the EBA Mixer, the patio. Please join us for a great networking opportunity to meet other like-minded businesses. Thtnday, Apn1 25th I 6.1SJ&C'M 417 N. Main St., Tufsa, OK 741@3 DennisR.NeillEqualityCenter Empire Slice House located at 417 N. Main St., Tulsa, OK 74103 will co-host our next EBA Mixer on Thursday, April 25th beginning at 6 p.m. until 7:30 p.m. ?⚧❤?????????? OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. Rising Stars Saturday, May 4th, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! From 12 p.m. to 3 p.m., our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 12 OPEN FLOOR QUESTIONS 0 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • ' . . •• ·f :.-:-·. t ~:-· :{ ·: •• WWW.OKEQ.ORG •• • - 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE a MUSIC JAM 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION ALOFT OICUHONA CffY GUM SPRIN8S 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and t-men like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 -------- In Memoriam Iln Merrnoriaurn In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming -ci=-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -ci=-f- CulturallyCompetenrC•refortllelG8TQ•Commun,1y Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;.;.7,.:::7:;:::,::;;::,~., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA EltlTI-RE1CI5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhitl-led2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutsystemicr:icism -,IFF/RN -CAREGIVERwtlhursdau of ~ _lllanth Affirm Caregiver at th8 IIBnnia R.llail EqUaDtg Clnt8r AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. • asafe and facilitatina IUPPlll'li, Cl~and":a.Qll'tUaitiafurllll individualsllllllina t.11 diVll8t l'rmR suatamlc raciBm ii tuir • liva 11Elllst.7-l:30Plll Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Alyss.aB<yantwilhLegalAidSeJViceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ ~ 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeenavic!im oft>ovsingdiscriminarion,please callherat918-238-165&,oremaH heraljJ~~rg GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende..Suppor1provides Theseservicesareopentoeo;eryone regardlessofincomeandare available throoghouttheStatetor LGBTQ+per.;ons n.,y ~ y of .,.._ '_ =m_unity _ w<_o<,_i,hou - sing _ ••-••~- ;~_ ~ •- ~ "'°""'"°'" 12PM-- support,educatioo,andsocial opponunitiesfortransgender Fir,;t-time interview is required before attendingyourlir,;tm,..,..1ing PK,asecontact918-743-4297 0.-R.Nell~.Tulsa. OK7412fl Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tulsa, OK 7◄129 Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ,... GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Grupo Trans en Espanol Free HIV Testing Every Tuesday from4pm-&pml 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... _________ 71 ., __ e!i zabeth.or1iz~ UngruPOdeaPOyoparamujeres transge<leroe-nespai'ool eq.0<g ,c-,.prin»r, Uiltim o ~ DennisR.NeillEqua!ity.Tu1$.a.OK 7412$ Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. ~ ~ ~ OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALITY ~ 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 § JAMMOUTT C----l § . NIJ o,4:1•HMONDAY f\1£1\Y Z1 °, 6:30-7:30PM Lawyer in th~ [ibrary ,,.. L EGAL A 1u ~ , 5ERV I CES o• ■ 01< ,..110,,u. l "c. 0 ~~:~~::.:::~:iif:.~~~;:u:sions regarding lega l issues. 71 ................ .............. . . . . . ~ Dennb It Nell [qi.I.illy, TulM, OK 7412& Lawyer in the Library This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Oklahoma fo, Equa lity Law Center isho5tingaclinicfornameand AnomeyJoshPaytonaodhisteam willassistthosewi1hnameaod genderc01Teclions. Can'lma keit inperson?contact info4!>okequalilylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom rwr,SKO<ld'W~yof!he __,_~_,._,m_,_"'-"-"'-""' - - - - - - - ' monfflfrom5:38PMfo 1PM Dennis R.Neill Equality. Tutsa.OK.7412$ Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocial0<9"nizationformature-mioded Gay and Bisexual men Sin Fronteras 71 Asoclal0f91"izatlontorma1urernlndedvayandblWJ<ualrneoto Ntablllhfnendshlpandsupporl ttwaugt,sociallnteractlon. A ~ must t>e21 ye,,rsorolde~ D9yNCOllll'~ol _ _ ____, _ _.,,_,,.,IDWW Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 ..._ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS :::::.;.:.":::::,:.:: ~lriendshlpandS,lll)port 71 .....,.__,~,., . ..... ,._,,...,,... ll'ln)u,;il'l1oc:~ in1er..::tion. Asocialorganizationformature--minded Gayand8ise•ualmen AttendNslnU$1be21yeilt5orolder: ,.,. Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. TULSA TTRP~S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second & fourth Friday of each month, 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction-focused, mindfulness-based, & radically inclusive. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t tz. SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGAL AID t tz. SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ext.3 to make an appointment today. an appointment. SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 18771 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaflol: Learn more at bungerfreeok ocg/resources/soap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Operations & Health Clinic Manager Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Regis McDaniel - Archivist Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:40 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/462143faeb639891edc2d75dd843d637.pdf 384c9cc24bbad2190c359055143d4df0 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE o 'clock in the evening complimentary va let Cox Business Convention Center Legac y H a ll , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue W e lc h & Mar c y Smith www.OKEQ.org Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, April 30th, 4-6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK FREE HIV TESTING 18TH ANNUAL HEARTLAND TRANSGENDER SPRING SOIREE le MUSIC JAM ~ l l~~E!IIr!ll H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Know your status today! 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam Tuesday April 30th-Monday May 6th ALOFT Oklahoma City Quail Springs 13111 Highland Park Blvd, OKC, OK Welcome to our 18th Annual Heartland Transgender Spring Soiree & Music Jam May 2-3-4 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... THE PURPOSE FOR OUR EVENTS: They are designed for the first time out tgirl, to provide them with the real life experience of being out among others like us, in a safe and affirming venue, for an extended weekend. That said, our events are not play parties or is sex part of our events LOCATION ALOFT OICLAIIOIIA CffY QUAL SPRINIIS 13111 Highland Park Blvd OKC Phone: 405-849-5577 WHO IS INVITED: All transgender women and men: transsexuals, transvestites, drag queens, drag kings, fully feminine or masculine crossdressers, plus spouses, girlfriends, boyfriends, and Mistresses, Sirs, and BBC who love girls and tmen like us. TRANSPORTATION: Rides to or from Will Rogers World Airport, Oklahoma City Amtrak Station, or the Oklahoma City Greyhound Bus Station can be arranged with Uber, Lyft, or taxi PET-FRIENDLY: The Aloft Hotel Quail Springs is a pet-friendly hotel. Please get in touch with the hotel for their pet policy, and please make sure to clean up after your pet. Hotel offering your special group rate: Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs for USD 112 per night plus tax If you would like to book your group rate for our 2024 HeartlandTG Spring Soiree, you can reserve from this link. The group block expires on April 19, 2024. Aloft Oklahoma City Quail Springs A Marriott Bonvoy Hotel Phone: 405-849-5577 Toll-Free: 1-888-236-2427 Contact: Hanna, Hanna_olsenxd@yahoo.com or Lindsay https://fetlife.com/users/2281123 -------- Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, May 1st, 5:30 pm 473 2224 E Admiral Blvd, Tulsa, OK We know we're all ready for some Girl Dinner with Swan Song Studios on 5/10.....BUT FIRST, let's meet up at 473 on 5/1! Fingers crossed for gorgeous spring weather to soak up the sun on their patio! See you there!!? As a reminder, this is a queer, trans, and non-binary-inclusive gathering. Allies are welcome, assholes are not! RSVP Rising Stars Youth Talent Show Saturday, May 4th, 1 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! From 12 p.m. to 3 p.m., our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for more information. 1907South Harvard Ave Tulsa,OK • Pl • MAY 20% ~ BACKTO OKEQ 14TH OKEQ X PIZZA HUT FUNDRAISER Tuesday, May 14th, All Day Pizza Hut 1907 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡Are you looking for an easy way to make a difference in your community? Look no further! Join Oklahomans for Equality on May 14th by ordering pizza from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave. ✨You'll not only be treating yourself to some delicious pizza, but +.+ you'll also be helping OKEQ. 20% of the proceeds will be donated to the Equality Center, which provides vital resources and support to 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals. So, let's come together and make a positive impact in our community! :::. You can participate in this fundraiser by Dining in, take out, drive-thru, and pick up. ⚡Mark your calendars for May 14th and order from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave to help support Oklahomans for Equality. OKEQ Pizza Hunt Fundraiser Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, May 18th, 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, May 18th ????????? Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Jay Kash & Adonia. . Doors open at 6:30 PM | Game Starts at 7:05 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Tulsa Pride Bingo Tickets In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Merrnoriaurn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-«r- HEALTH -ci=-«rCLINIC Cultur•lly Competent C• re for the ~GBTQ+ Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 13 The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;..";:::~:::::::::;:,~., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com •eoi...., ;.. - 1 n.....,........, - - ----- .,.,,.,,....,k><,oLOtl. AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSC:I~T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhlt:.e-letl2M1upforpeersupportandeducationaboutsyst:.emicracism .,1,'1RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, I.alt 1hul'8dau of l!'f8l'll_lllonth at t.ha 111nnia R. lllilEquatitg Cantar mElblt.7..,_ Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. f Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB<)antwithlegalAidSeivicesof Oklahomawillbeassistir.gtheLGBTGl+ __ ,_m,_e,__ .,_ ·1hf_"' -•= _•.. . ... ·•-""-"'-" ~-• _ 71 lf)'Ollbel;eveyou',et,e,enaeictim ofhovsingdiscrim;na1ion,please callherat Ql S-236-165&,oremaH heral;alr.lliJl!Y~g Theseservicesareopentoeo;eryo11<1 regardlessofincomear>dare availablethrooghouttheStatefo, GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGendefSupport provides support,educarion,andsocial opportunitiesfor transgender LG BTGl +pernons. n - . , y ~ y of - __, Moneftfrom 12PM-- Fir.,t.time interview is required before atte-ndingyourlirstmeeting. Pleasecontact918-743-4297 71 Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ..., GREEN COUNTRY BEARS GreenCountryBear.; isasocial 71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Grupo Trans en Espanol elizabe!h.Ofl;z~eq_.o,g Ungn.ipodeapoyopa,ramujeres traosgeoe<oeoespaool ---:7I /I - ------~ .., __ Clldll ~yiiltimo;.-s DeonlsR.NeillEqua!ity,Tuls.a,OK7412& Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. ~ ~ OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALI TY r--:J 6 21 E 4 TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 ~ ci 8 JAMMOUTT EVEIIY2Nn &; 4'1'H MONDAY § 6:30-7:30PM Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGA LAID ~ SE MV I C F.S ..., ■ 0 0 14 1..<1 110.. . ~. l "c . Julie L Goree with legal Aid Sefvices of ---:71 Oklahoma is available for drop in discussions / <e<;1ardinglega l issues. .......-........... This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Mffor .... - - . . I 1>9nmslti.ill~ity,Tu!N.OK7412e Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org ----Phone (918)295-9429. - - --- This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostir,gaclinicfornameand At1orne)'JoshPaytonandhisteam willassis111>osewi1hnameand gendercorrecHoos. Can'tma keit inperson?contact in l ~kequalilylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom. l'-,.H'CondW~ y oflhe ,__,ffi_,_••-m•-•~-•-"'"-'°'- - - - - - monfflfrom5;3111PMto 7PM DMnis R.Neill Equality, Tu1$a, OK 74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 13 Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social O<{l,lnlzation for matu,e-mir.ded Gay and Bisexual men 71 Asoclaloro,,ni:aiion tormaturemlndedvaYandblse>:Uill~to ..ubllahfriendshlpandsuppo,i lhrougt,soclallnl«Kllon AttendN& must be 21 ye,irs or old« ._,._...,n..u,,ol _ _ ___. ... _.,,_1Pllfflloff'M Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide muchneeded support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Zen & the Art of Whatever Works Zen Recovery Inc. is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization in Tulsa, Oklahoma. We provide weekly, in-person, secular, addiction recovery support 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. meetings (called zen & the art of whatever works) & events in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Second & fourth Friday of each month, 10-11.30 am We are woman and LGBTQ+ led & the only recovery support group in the area registered with the SafeSpaceAlliance. We are harm reduction-focused, mindfulness-based, & radically inclusive. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental • • : ~!:~~i:;ce applying for P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at huogerfreeok org/resources/soap/ - li-::,J HUNGER FREE n OKLAHOMA OKE , okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:40 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:40 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/01e7f73bb2f626b2675dc2cb5646a861.pdf 43d4d350e19ae2862a8e3adbd8007958 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE o 'clock in the evening complimentary va let Cox Business Convention Center Legac y H a ll , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue W e lc h & Mar c y Smith www.OKEQ.org Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22n, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, May 7th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ca urc,1c, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV & STD testing at the Equality Cen ter. TESTING Know your status today! £very Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM hop 918.743.4297 Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412151 Put the FUN in ~ ~ut FUNDRAISING OKEQ X PIZZA HUT FUNDRAISER Tuesday, May 14th, All Day Pizza Hut 1907 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡Are you looking for an easy way to make a difference in your community? Look no further! Join Oklahomans for Equality on May 14th by ordering pizza from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave. ✨You'll not only be treating yourself to some delicious pizza, but you'll also be helping OKEQ. 20% of the proceeds will be donated to the Equality Center, which provides vital resources and support to 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals. So, let's come together and make a positive impact in our community! Show your support for OKEQ - Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday - May 14, 2024 Fundraiser Code: You can participate in this fundraiser by Dining in, take out, drive-thru, and pick up. ⚡Mark your calendars for May 14th and order from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave to help support Oklahomans for Equality. RY ORDER ONLINE@ PIZZAHUT.COM Find participating locations at Hutarnerican.com/fundraisers OKEQ Pizza Hunt Fundraiser fllldra,~,g-t~oolyval,do11~J1 Ml'!oo~owlledf'lmHL1loot.Msontheday1peof,~.Fu'llr•M"rMWOO!!dfrompu•~rJ,1lcohot1.1t. de' 1'!/)'fttlp~ndfu!ll'toffl ()2023 P111, H~ LL( LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, May 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online ⚡ Join this free three-part webinar series for a discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. Session Dates/Topics: Host ed & Presented By: Soge =i.. NotionalRHOWUCenter onLGITO+Aginsl <ti, FEOUIAI.TRAOECOO-SSION ReportFraud.ftc.gov ~·--·-..,..,_, cf Offlc.ollnwaorEducatlon Register Today May 14th, 2024 - Reverse Mortgages & Housing Related Scams Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on housing issues, including how to spot, avoid, and report home repair and rental listing scams, and how reverse mortgages work. July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, May 18th, 6:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, May 18th ????????? Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Jay Kash & Adonia. . Doors open at 6:30 PM | Game Starts at 7:05 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Tulsa Pride Bingo Tickets Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Saturday, May 23rd, 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Devre Jackson & Friends are bringing Jazz, Blues, and Soul to the Rainbow Room on Thursday, May 23rd. The band includes Devre on vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Dean Demerritt on bass, Nick Mancini on vibraphone, and Johnny D'ova on drums. Rainbow Room Tickets In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Imonaurrn 0 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -ci=-f■ OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -ci=-f- CulturallyCompetentCarefortllelG8TQ•Commun,1y Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 13 The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;..";:::~:::::::::;:,~., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com •eoi...., ;.. - 1 n.....,........, - - ----- .,.,,.,,....,k><,oLOtl. AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSC:I~T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhlt:.e-letl2M1upforpeersupportandeducationaboutsyst:.emicracism .,1,'1RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, I.alt 1hul'8dau of l!'f8l'll_lllonth at t.ha 111nnia R. lllilEquatitg Cantar mElblt.7..,_ Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. f Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB<)antwithlegalAidSeivicesof Oklahomawillbeassistir.gtheLGBTGl+ __ ,_m,_e,__ .,_ ·1hf_"' -•= _•.. . ... ·•-""-"'-" ~-• _ 71 lf)'Ollbel;eveyou',et,e,enaeictim ofhovsingdiscrim;na1ion,please callherat Ql S-236-165&,oremaH heral;alr.lliJl!Y~g Theseservicesareopentoeo;eryo11<1 regardlessofincomear>dare availablethrooghouttheStatefo, GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGendefSupport provides support,educarion,andsocial opportunitiesfor transgender LG BTGl +pernons. n - . , y ~ y of - __, Moneftfrom 12PM-- Fir.,t.time interview is required before atte-ndingyourlirstmeeting. Pleasecontact918-743-4297 71 Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ..., GREEN COUNTRY BEARS GreenCountryBear.; isasocial 71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Grupo Trans en Espanol elizabe!h.Ofl;z~eq_.o,g Ungn.ipodeapoyopa,ramujeres traosgeoe<oeoespaool ---:7I /I - ------~ .., __ Clldll ~yiiltimo;.-s DeonlsR.NeillEqua!ity,Tuls.a,OK7412& Grupo Trans en Espanol FREE HIV Testing Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 6PM - 8PM Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. ~ ~ OKLAHOMAN FOR EQUALI TY r--:J 6 21 E 4 TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 ~ ci 8 JAMMOUTT EVEIIY2Nn &; 4'1'H MONDAY § 6:30-7:30PM Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGA LAID ~ SE MV I C F.S ..., ■ 0 0 14 1..<1 110.. . ~. l "c . Julie L Goree with legal Aid Sefvices of ---:71 Oklahoma is available for drop in discussions / <e<;1ardinglega l issues. .......-........... This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic Mffor .... - - . . I 1>9nmslti.ill~ity,Tu!N.OK7412e Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org ----Phone (918)295-9429. - - --- This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostir,gaclinicfornameand At1orne)'JoshPaytonandhisteam willassis111>osewi1hnameand gendercorrecHoos. Can'tma keit inperson?contact in l ~kequalilylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom. l'-,.H'CondW~ y oflhe ,__,ffi_,_••-m•-•~-•-"'"-'°'- - - - - - monfflfrom5;3111PMto 7PM DMnis R.Neill Equality, Tu1$a, OK 74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 13 Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social O<{l,lnlzation for matu,e-mir.ded Gay and Bisexual men 71 Asoclaloro,,ni:aiion tormaturemlndedvaYandblse>:Uill~to ..ubllahfriendshlpandsuppo,i lhrougt,soclallnl«Kllon AttendN& must be 21 ye,irs or old« ._,._...,n..u,,ol _ _ ___. ... _.,,_1Pllfflloff'M Sin Fronteras Tulsa Area Prime Timers Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. , Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Community Partners • • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing = These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. .\11£'1 Get helpapplying for • • : ~!~~i.i::ce Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? S upp l emental P rog r am SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaflol: You may qua lify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 colleges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tu lsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Complete this form to be connected to a Mnm::i n o N::au io::atnr• 4/29/26, 12:44 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 13 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Navigator by ema iling jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com ~ TULSA HIGHER I r;;1 I EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/reso11crestsnap/ " ' I - li-..l HUNGER • FREE n I ~ I CONSORTIUM OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked Operating Hours Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE o 'clock in the evening complimentary va let Cox Business Convention Center Legac y H a ll , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue W e lc h & Mar c y Smith www.OKEQ.org Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Tuesday, June 4th, 6:30pm - 9pm Pinot's Palette 1621 E 15th St., Tulsa, OK Pl Join us for our second annual Pride, Paint, and Drag Show at Pinot's Palette Cherry Street! We will have a few Drag performances starting at 6:30pm before painting begins at 7pm. This is a Painting it Forward fundraiser for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $10 from each seat sold will be donated. pJ/1ors PALt.rr, · _ ___ CHERRY STREET 1621 E 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 Live Boldly Tickets This class is held in the studio. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early so you can check-in, chat with friends and settle in with one of our signature drinks from our bar. (Try the Frida Fizz or the Pinot Colada!) Painting begins promptly at the start time. Painters must be 13 or older to attend. Ages 13-17 must be accompanied by an adult painter. Guests enjoy a no-experience-required art class— all supplies included—directed by trained, local artists, who guide guests step-by-step through a featured painting. 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SATURDAvJUNE 2 2 N D 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. MUSIC , DANCING & DRU I 6+ VINUIS I PHOTOGRAPHIRS FIN AITIR PARTY I A PORTION DI PRDCIIDS BINIIIT: OKLAHOMANS FOR !QUALITY Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Licensing by Con cord Theat ricals s\ANS EATING A QU. 7CJte S\JS June 28 & 29 Written by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ Y.(¼ ~ In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? 0,1 7i B&Z PRODU CT IO NS in collaboration with $ l\'rC If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1C11th11 to.1rd, t h Den11isR. N1illEt1H lilrC H lt r '9 918.804.2907 • americantheatrecompany.org a atc@a tctulsa.or1 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, May 14th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. t-Ht:t: HIV Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM TESTING Get culturally competent care for the ~ 2SLGBTQIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill / I Equality Center. Put the FUN in l!tmt ~ut FUNDRAISING OKEQ X PIZZA HUT FUNDRAISER Tuesday, May 14th, All Day Pizza Hut 1907 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡Are you looking for an easy way to make a difference in your community? Look no further! Join Oklahomans for Equality on May 14th by ordering pizza from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave. Show your support for OKEQ - Oklahomans for Equality Tuesday - May 14, 2024 Fundraiser Code: RY ✨You'll not only be treating yourself to some delicious pizza, but you'll also be helping OKEQ. 20% of the proceeds will be donated to the Equality Center, which provides vital resources and support to 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals. So, let's come together and make a positive impact in our community! You can participate in this fundraiser by Dining in, take out, drive-thru, and pick up. ⚡Mark your calendars for May 14th and order from Pizza Hut at 1907 S Harvard Ave to help support Oklahomans for Equality. ORDER ONLINE@ PIZZAHUT.COM Find participating locations at Hutamerican.com/fundraisers OKEQ Pizza Hunt Fundraiser foodra,~,g Milt ~ on~wal,d al ~Jt M'ioelltl~·l1,r<l'l('(j Pma ~.i locat,oos on th!! day spoof,~. Fu'.N1ra,ser ~eo.dudaj from pu'Cfwst ol ale~. ~t. delil'el)' ftttparllfu:urecrofil.Cli'OllPmaHLt.llC. LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, May 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: May 14th, 2024 - Reverse Mortgages & Housing Related Scams Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on housing issues, including how to spot, avoid, and report home repair and rental listing scams, and how reverse mortgages work. July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning ⚡ Join this free three-part webinar series for a discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today OKEQ Board Meeting Thursday, May 16th, 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. OKEQ Oklahomans for Equality Board Meetings are held every third Thursday of the month from 6pm to 8pm. BOARD MEETING Mami-larEqall!J _ , . . . . . . _ _ to IIOIIEq-llldb RSVP COllll1lllllly. All Oklahomans for Equality board meetings are open to all OkEq members. ------- --------CIIC- Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, May 18th, 6:30 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, May 18th ????????? Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and special guest performers Jay Kash & Adonia. . Doors open at 6:30 PM | Game Starts at 7:05 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. Tulsa Pride Bingo Tickets Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, May 23rd, 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Devre Jackson & Friends are bringing Jazz, Blues, and Soul to the Rainbow Room on Thursday, May 23rd. The band includes Devre on vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Dean Demerritt on bass, Nick Mancini on vibraphone, and Johnny D'ova on drums. Rainbow Room Tickets In Memoriam Iln Meimoriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEQ -ci=-«r- HEALTH -ci=-«rCLINIC Cultura lly Comprunt Carr for thr lGBTQ+ Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow Library DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ::;;.."7,;:7:.:-:;::,::.:::,~., 71 ASEXUAL AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA 6?1TI-R6CI5T Support Group WE ARE NOW OFFERING ~'F/RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. laat Thursdau of BV81'U_fflonth at th8 lllnnia R. lllil Equalitu C8ntllr IIElltst.7-ta Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Alys.saBf)oantwithLegalAidServiceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ _ 71 lfyoubelieveyouVebeeoavictim ofhouslngdiscrimination,please callherat9 18-238-165&,oremai l herat,lJ~~g GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides Theseservicesareopentoe,,e,yon• rega,dlessofir,comeandare available throoghouttheStatetor LGBTQ+persons a,..,, .........J' of lne ;:::: '=;;;; m"";;;: ;",;;;; '"'";:::: fai;-"= ::::,;;;;.:., "'-•;:::: lated _ ;,_,oo_, - - ' Monett from 12PM- 4PM. support,educa tioo,andsocial opponunitiesfortransgender First-timeinterviewisrequiredbe!ore attending your first meeting Ptea,;econ!act918-743-42Q7 71 ~ ~"'"- ~ fnlnt 7'Wf09flM DlnnltR.NellE(pM,llty,Tuba. OK7◄12& Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tul$.a, OK 7◄ 12& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------ You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;., GreenCoontryBear.; isasocial '71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Jamm Outt a 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK 74120 B JAMMOUT 8. f3. EVEIIY2Nn&;4-1'HMONDAY 6:30-7:30P www.oKEQ.onG Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALA rn-t-~ S1mv1cu .... = 01<1AHO.\IA, I NC. .,.._......... ......... 71 ..,. ,......, .... .. --- Name& Gender Correction Clinic tGt . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . JutieLGoreewithLeoatAidServicesof Oklahomaisa•ailablefordropindiscussions regarding legal issues. c.nms1ti.t11~ity,Tu1M.OK7412e Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma for Equa lit~ Law Cen!er is hosting a clinic for name and AttomeyJosl!Paytonandhisteam willassislthosewilhnameand g,enderco,rections. Can't make it in pe,wn? contact inf~kequalitylaw.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. c.,,.,, ucond W-..sday of the _ ,_~'-"m-"-'"'-"'".... "'-· - - - - - - ' monfflfrom5'3IPMto7PM Do-nnis R. Neill Equality,Tuba,OK.74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org - - --- - - - Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A soda! o,ganization for mature-minded GayandBise,ualmeo. A ~ i . org,,niution for ma1uremlnded gay and blse>:ual men 10 fttabllahlriendshipands.upport lhrough1oclallntefactlon. 71 ..,_,.__..,n..cta,,°' Attenden musl be 21 \'NI'S or older _ _ __ _ . . . . . . . . ,,_7"11fl!OH'M Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. \11£'1 Get helpapplying for • • :~!~~\i:;ce Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? S upplemental P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol You may qua lify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailin g jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at buogertceeok oq,/resourceslsoap/ CONSORTIUM - li-..l HUNGER • FREE n OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:45 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 14 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today ! 4/29/26, 12:45 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/e762baa01afb70ef7360389aecd5e5a7.pdf b620b085fb5a01bf41831d269bb8578e PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Business Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue Welch & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ.org 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? f ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧ ?❤??????????? Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Tuesday, June 4th, 6:30pm - 9pm Pinot's Palette 1621 E 15th St., Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us for our second annual Pride, Paint, and Drag Show at Pinot's Palette Cherry Street! We will have a few Drag performances starting at 6:30pm before painting begins at 7pm. This is a Painting it Forward fundraiser for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $10 from each seat sold will be donated. VYors PALt.fT~· -...,.--.CHERRY STREET 1621 E 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 Live Boldly Tickets This class is held in the studio. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early so you can check-in, chat with friends and settle in with one of our signature drinks from our bar. (Try the Frida Fizz or the Pinot Colada!) Painting begins promptly at the start time. Painters must be 13 or older to attend. Ages 13-17 must be accompanied by an adult painter. Guests enjoy a no-experience-required art class— all supplies included—directed by trained, local artists, who guide guests step-by-step through a featured painting. EMBRACINC INTERSECTIONAl IDENTlff: A QUEER 8lACK-JEWISN PERSPECTIVE ON JUNETEENTII, JEWISN PRIDE, fl PRIDE MONTN Embracing Intersectional Identity w/ Tony Westbrook Thursday, June 6th, 6:00pm Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021E 71st St. Tulsa, OK Embracing Intersectional Identity: A Queer Black-Jewish Perspective on Juneteenth, Jewish Pride, and Pride Month” with Jewish influencer Tony Westbrook @/ frumjewishblackboy. THURSDAY, JUNE 6, 7 PM AT TNE JEWISN FEDERATION OF TULSA 2021 E 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media with his motto, “I promise to be Jewish ten times more than anyone hates me for it”. This Pride month, join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media, Join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community. RSVP for this free event at JEWISNTUlSA.ORC/CRC-JUNE In partnership with: RSVP Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Saturday, June 8th, 9:00pm The District Bar & Grill 106 S Atlanta St., Owasoo, OK Experience the dazzling start of Pride Month with the 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... captivating performances of The Turrelle Sisters at The District Bar & Grill on Saturday, June 8th at 9 PM for a night filled with glitz, glamour, and pure entertainment. Be prepared to be swept away by the mesmerizing performances of Josie Turrelle, Sasha Turrelle, Scrappy Legacy, Maxine Turrelle, Jazmyn Turrelle, and the reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA At Large 2023, Aurora LeKohl. This isn't just an ordinary show; it's a jubilant celebration brimming with unexpected delights that will keep you enthralled all night long. Don't miss out on the opportunity to win exciting prizes with raffle drawings throughout the evening, generously sponsored by Patricia's In Tulsa. Get ready to be an active part of the event with audience participation activities, graciously presented by The Donut Hole. Indulge in delectable cuisine and take advantage of our drink specials to elevate your evening even further. Additionally, ensure your well-being with the presence of Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) Mobile STD testing, offering free and confidential services to prioritize your health and safety. To secure the best seats, make your table reservations by contacting The District Bar and Grill at 918-274-9006. Let's paint this Pride Month with unforgettable memories, vibrant pride, and pure joy! ??✨ RSVP on Facebook Spectrum of Pride Saturday, June 15th,1PM The Hedge 2606 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK LET'S CELEBRATE! THE 2ND ANNUAL SPECTRUM .t The 2nd Annual Spectrum of Pride event promises a day filled with comedy, advocacy, performance, and an abundance of community resources. It's an occasion to celebrate diversity and inclusivity while fostering a supportive environment for all. COMEDYiRESOURCESiADVOCACYiPERFORMANCE SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH, 1PM 2606 S. SHERIDAN RD, TULSA AUTISM FOUNDATION of OKLAHOMA SATURDAvJUNE 22ND 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. MUSIC , DANCING & DRAG I 6+ VENUES I PHOTOGRAPHERS FIN AITIR PARTY I A PORTION 01 PROCEEDS BENEFIT : OIIAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR ~JAWLWITH.US Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ licensing by Concord Theatricals s\ANS EATING A QU, 70te S~ June 28 &29 Written by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ y,(¼ ~ In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? GI B&Z PROD UCT IO NS in collaboration with If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c11tls 11 tow1rdsth Du11iiR.N1i11(,1alitrC111ttr '9 918.804.2907 • americanthutrecompany.or& a atc@alctulsa.orr 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, May 20th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. FREE Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM HIV TESTING 71 Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTGIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. UALITY Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, May 23rd, 6pm Tulsa Garden Center 2435 S Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ou:;111e::;:; ;-;111011L-t: Join us for this month's Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Tulsa Garden Center Thursday, May 23rd at 6pm l EBA MIXER okeq .com/eba located in the historic Snedden Mansion within Woodward Park, a nonprofit organization whose Tulsa Garden Center ismission is to provide a variety of at Woodward Park horticultural and environmental education opportunities for the community The Equality Business Alliance exists to support businesses in the Tulsa area that and to serve as horticultural headquarters for the Tulsa area. Thursday, May 23rd I 6:ti>GPM 2435 S Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK Dermis R. Neill Equality Center 918.743.4297 ?⚧?❤??????????????????? The Tulsa Garden Center is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to serve as horticultural headquarters with diverse educational opportunities for our community and to provide exceptional and unique guest experiences within Woodward Park. Tulsa Garden Center fulfills this role by offering numerous lectures, classes, training, plant shows, and special events throughout the year, which are predominantly free for its Members. Additionally, 16 affiliated “Plant Society” organizations such as the Oklahoma Mycological Society, Audubon Society, Sierra Club, Tulsa Rose Society, and Tulsa Garden Club call Tulsa Garden Center home for their horticultural and environmental activities, supplementing our extensive list of educational opportunities with even more events open the public. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, May 23rd, 7:30 pm Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Devre Jackson & Friends are bringing Jazz, Blues, and Soul to the Rainbow Room on Thursday, May 23rd. -i:r---~ - 2 :.:. nn 1 - ~- . - The band includes Devre on vocals, Chuck Fluker on guitar, Dean Demerritt on bass, Nick Mancini on vibraphone, and Johnny D'ova on drums. + + Rainbow Room Tickets LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, May 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Hosted & Presented By: ,p F~OEIW..TRAOEC~ ReportFraud.ft:c.gov cf Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam Il111 Me1111oriarrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -=,= OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -=,= Cultur• llyCompetentC• reforthetGl:ITQ+Commun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality : c : : " '[qooOt,j>""><1"'.°'. 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA S?lTI-RSCI5T WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group RwhiU-led2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutSJ1stemicracism .,#FF/RN -CAREGIVER1aat 1hursdau of ~.inonth at th8 ll8nnia R.llail Eq1l8litg C8nt8r Affirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. m£111st. 7-1:Ml Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB(YantwithLegalAidSeJViceso! Oklahoma will be assisting the LGBTQ+ 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeeoa•ictim of housing discrimination.please caUherat918-238-165&,oremai l heratil~~g GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides Thesese,,,icesareopentoeveryone rega,dlessofincomeandare available throughouttheStatetor LGBTQ+persons n.,y ~ y of 1ne ___:'== ==":::::, ity :::; wit";;;; fai,;;;; "= ; ;;;"' ;:,,; ·•;;; lated ;;;,..;';'oo;;;,.. ;;; • - - ' Moflctt'1om 12PM-~ support,educatioo,andsocial opporiunitiesfortransgender andintersexindividuals First-timeinterviewisrequiredbe!ore attendingyourliri;tmeeting Pteasecontact918-743-4297 71 ~~ollnol' m.Nltfnlm7'WfD9PM OlllnkR.Nell[(pM,llty,TulSa. OK74126 Dennis R. NeiU Equality, Tul$a, OK 74129 Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. o f! 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;. Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALAID ~ SEMV I CF.S o• ■ ; Na Gender Correction Cl·1n1·c "'="'""'""~""'"'•"·· M,,~,,.,, .... M,.~-·"" gendercorrec11oos. C_ao·1 ma ke;t inperson?contact 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 0Kl-'Ho.,u, I NC. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 71 ..,.....,,......, .. 9G9•---~ Julie L Goree with Leoat AiclSeMces of Ok lahomaisasailableforclropincliscussions regarding lega l issues. --- DennlsR.Nelll[Cluallty,Tutu,OK7•t28 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center is hosting a clink for name and inf~ keq_ualir;'law.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. c.,,.,, ucond W-..sday of the ,--'';..~_,._,m _"_'"-'-" '.;; "o« _ __ _ _ __. month from 5:38PM to 7PM ~nis R.NeiUEquality,Tulu,OK7•128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS ( OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS A social oroa,niution lot maturernlnded gay and blse,cual ~ to _____ ntablltl,lrieodshipandMlppo,1 71 ._,.__..,n..c,ay°' lhrOUQt,IOCiallnlefactlon. A socia! <><ganization !or mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men AttendNs must be 21 l'N~ or older _..,,_,..,.""" Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID t tz:. SERVICES OF LEGAL AID t tz:. SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing = These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JIISCi) Get help- Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? s ,pplemental • • N utrition nnnlv1nn fnr ~ ~ _, ... __ ,_. ___ _ Vni1 m::iv m1::i l ifv fnr thP T11k::i l-li ohi:ir J:'rl11r::it inn r.nn<:nrtinm ' <: R:rnirl 4/29/26, 12:46 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enroll ing or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefi ts in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760:0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailing jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Pedir una llamada en espaliol: Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok o~/resrn,rcestsnap/ CONSORTIUM - L-..1 HUNGER FREE nn OKLAHOMA www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:46 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/09a473963e9ae304fec015e0e6f5a709.pdf bd0f7879d2059dab2137ea7c87a20db5 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Business Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue Welch & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ.org 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? f ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Tuesday, June 4th, 6:30pm - 9pm Pinot's Palette 1621 E 15th St., Tulsa, OK Join us for our second annual Pride, Paint, and Drag 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Show at Pinot's Palette Cherry Street! We will have a few Drag performances starting at 6:30pm before painting begins at 7pm. This is a Painting it Forward fundraiser for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $10 from each seat sold will be donated. VYors PALt.fT~· -...,.--.CHERRY STREET 1621 E 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 Live Boldly Tickets lMBRACINC INTERSECTIONAL IDENTlff: A QUEER BLACK-JEWISN PERSPECTIVE ON JUNETEENTII, JEWISN PRIDE, fl PRIDE MONTN This class is held in the studio. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early so you can check-in, chat with friends and settle in with one of our signature drinks from our bar. (Try the Frida Fizz or the Pinot Colada!) Painting begins promptly at the start time. ?⚧?❤????????????? Painters must be 13 or older to attend. Ages 13-17 must be accompanied by an adult painter. Guests enjoy a no-experience-required art class—all supplies included—directed by trained, local artists, who guide guests step-by-step through a featured painting. Embracing Intersectional Identity w/ Tony Westbrook Thursday, June 6th, 6:00pm Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021E 71st St. Tulsa, OK Embracing Intersectional Identity: A Queer Black-Jewish Perspective on Juneteenth, Jewish Pride, and Pride Month” with Jewish influencer Tony Westbrook @/ frumjewishblackboy. THURSDAY, JUNE 6, 7 PM AT TNE JEWISN FEDERATION OF TULSA 2021 E 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media. Join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community. Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media with his motto, “I promise to be Jewish ten times more than anyone hates me for it”. This Pride month, join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community ?⚧?❤????????????? RSVP for this free event at JEWISNTULSA.ORC/CRC-JUNE In partnership with: RSVP Turrelle Sister's Drag Show Saturday, June 8th, 9:00pm The District Bar & Grill 106 S Atlanta St., Owasso, OK Experience the dazzling start of Pride Month with the captivating performances of The Turrelle Sisters at The District Bar & Grill on Saturday, June 8th at 9 PM for a night filled with glitz, glamour, and pure entertainment. Be prepared to be swept away by the mesmerizing performances of Josie Turrelle, Sasha Turrelle, Scrappy 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP on Facebook LET'S CELEBRATE! THE 2ND ANNUAL SPECTRUM Legacy, Maxine Turrelle, Jazmyn Turrelle, and the reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA At Large 2023, Aurora LeKohl. This isn't just an ordinary show; it's a jubilant celebration brimming with unexpected delights that will keep you enthralled all night long. Don't miss out on the opportunity to win exciting prizes with raffle drawings throughout the evening, generously sponsored by Patricia's In Tulsa. Get ready to be an active part of the event with audience participation activities, graciously presented by The Donut Hole. Indulge in delectable cuisine and take advantage of our drink specials to elevate your evening even further. Additionally, ensure your well-being with the presence of Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) Mobile STD testing, offering free and confidential services to prioritize your health and safety. To secure the best seats, make your table reservations by contacting The District Bar and Grill at 918-274-9006. Let's paint this Pride Month with unforgettable memories, vibrant pride, and pure joy! ??✨ Spectrum of Pride Saturday, June 15th,1PM The Hedge 2606 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK The 2nd Annual Spectrum of Pride event promises a day filled with comedy, advocacy, performance, and an abundance of community resources. ?⚧?❤????????????? It's an occasion to celebrate diversity and inclusivity while fostering a supportive environment for all. COMEDYIRESOURCESiADVOCACYiPERFORMANCE SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH, 1PM 2606 S. SHERIDAN RD, TULSA AUTISM FOUNDATION of OKLAHOMA SATURDAvJUNE 22ND 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. ?⚧?❤????????????? MUSIC , DANCING & DRAG I 6+ VENUES I PHOTOGRAPHERS FIN AFTIR PARTY I A PORTION Of PROCEEDS BINIFIT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Turrelle Sister's Bingo: Pride Edition Saturday, June 22nd, 8pm The Raw Center 1227 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡The Turrelle Sisters and The RAW Center are excited to bring you the Turrelle Sisters' Bingo: PRIDE EDITION celebrating Pride Month on June 22nd Come play FREE BINGO and WIN some fun prizes!! $10 DOOR COVER w/ Partial Proceeds from the door cover will be donated to OKEQ and The RAW Center) ?⚧?❤????????????? BINGO IS FREE (8 Games + 1 SUPER GAME) | 18+ with valid ID Facebook RSVP licensing by Concord Theatricals s\f'.NS EATING A QU. 7CJ.fe S\J-5 June 28 &29 Written by, Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood 7i B&Z PRODUCTIONS in collaboration with $ IHC Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c11tls 11 ta.1rds th D1n11i1R. N1ill(.11litrC111t1r '3 91 8.804.2907 8 americantheatrecompany.or1 a atc@a tctulsa.orr 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Norris Park 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) and a campout on the river in the evening. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, May 28th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. FREE Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM HIV TESTING Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTGIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 71 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, May 30th, 6pm Tulsa Garden Center 2435 S Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK Join us for this month's Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Tulsa Garden Center on Thursday, May 30th at 6pm ?⚧?❤??????????????????? The Tulsa Garden Center is a nonprofit organization whose mission is to serve as horticultural headquarters with diverse educational opportunities for our community and to provide exceptional and unique guest experiences within Woodward Park. Tulsa Garden Center fulfills this role by offering numerous lectures, classes, training, plant shows, and special events throughout the year, which are predominantly free for its 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Members. Additionally, 16 affiliated “Plant Society” organizations such as the Oklahoma Mycological Society, Audubon Society, Sierra Club, Tulsa Rose Society, and Tulsa Garden Club call Tulsa Garden Center home for their horticultural and environmental activities, supplementing our extensive list of educational opportunities with even more events open the public. UALITY Business Alliance l EBA MIXER - okeq.com/ eba located in the historic Snedden Mansion within Woodward Park, a nonprofit organization whose Tulsa Garden Center ismission is to provide a variety of at Woodward Park The Equality Business Alliance exists to horticultural and environmental education opportunities for the community and to serve as horticultural headquarters for the Tulsa area. Thursday, May 23n1 I 6:0m>M 2435 S Peoria Ave. Tulsa, OK Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 918.743.4297 Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households (step parents, non-blo parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available ! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 20 22bleoded@gDJ.s.i.l..&.Qm • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, June 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning cf \...,,., _ _ O , otl'luof-orEduatlon ⚡ Join this free three-part webinar series for a discussion of consumer rights and protections Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam Il1 Meimoriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC CulturallyCompeuntCar•forthelGBTQ•Communlty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow Library DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up ASEXUAL Aces Committed Equality =o;.::~.'s":.:.::::.:::' 71 • A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA 6?1TI-RSCI5T Support Group WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,1,'1RN -CAREGIVERlastlhursdau of ~_month at th8 ll8nni8 R.llail EqU8litg C8nt8r Affirm Caregiver mEllllt.7-1:Ml AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. Craa.::J.m~S:.arut~r::r, individuals llllllina t.a ~sustamic racism in tbir • liva Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AtyssaB,yantwithlegalAidServiceso! OklahomawillbeassistingtheLGBTQ+ _ 71 lfl'Qubelieveyou\oe~avictim ofhoosingdiscrimination,please callheratQ18-238-165ISl, orema H her 31 ~ n a J I D ~ g GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP TheGende,Supponprovides Theseservicesareopento<Ne,yone regardlessofiocomeandare availablethroughoul theStatel0< LGBTGl+l)<!™"1S. CllffY-yoflhe ;,;;. =;;; ="...;. ""...;. "'ith_, fai_,; '"= - •"O.;._·•-·"-'"'-'~-• - - Mantfl from 121'M-- suppon,education,andsocial oppOrtunitie,sfor transgender andintersexindividuals. First-time interview is required beforn attending your first meeting. Pleasecontactll18-743-421l7 71 L«.uAm t o.........:.., __ ·- Dennis R. Nei\l Equality, Tulsa,01(7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS 7484 .;.. Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EGALA ID~~ SERV I CESo• I: 0KIAIIO .. . .<, ( S"C, ....·~ 71 ----...,....,,___.,_ Gender Correction Clinic Mfffll ..... . _ _ JulieLGofeewithlegalAid5efvlcesof Oklahomaisavailablelordr<>11indiscussions regardinglega l issUM. --- c.Mbll'-l!l~lty.Tubt. OK74129 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma !or Equa lity Law Ceoter is hosting a clinic for name and Anorne)'Josh Paytonandhisteam wi llass;s11t>osewi1hnameand gendercO<Tec1ions. Can'1 ma keit lnpen.on?contac1 inl~ kequalitylaw.comtoschedule a consultation by Zoom. a.,, wcond w~ yof rite __,_M _,._,m _•_·~-'-"'-"'"' - ·- - - - - - momfl t,om 5:39PM to 7PM O.-OnisR.NeillEqu.ality, Tulsa, OK.74 129 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org --- --- ----Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS Denms R Neill Equat,ty Tuts.a OK 74128 OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocia!o,ganizationformature-minoed GayandBlse,ualmen _ 71 A tcX"lal organization for matu~ rnlnd9d~andbisex1,1;11,....,10 ftUbllshlriendshipand$l,ll)l)Ol't llvvugt,10Cialln1.,Ktion AttendNs must be 21 ye.,rs or l'wwy---,n-.,,o1 _ _ _ _ , . . . . . . . ,,_7Nllio ..... Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA :r:rour.~ 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • t tz. = LEGAL AID SERVICES OF • t tz. = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Oklahomans for Equality and the 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. applying for , • Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? s ,pplemental : ~!~~'ti~:ce Program SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English· Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JIIS'1 Get h e l p . Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Pedir una llamada en espai\ol You may qua lify for the Tulsa Hi gher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enroll ing or currently enrolled in one of the 9 col leges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by ema ilin g Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at buogertceeok om/resrn,cceslsoap/ CONSORTIUM www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:48 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:48 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/4149ea58c4007ccd54a5e1f73256b661.pdf a09f132686f179eb89db9469825f967f PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Business Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue Welch & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ.org 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Tulsa Pride 2024 PRIDE EVENTS 2024 PRIDE EVENTS 2024 PRIDE EVENTS ?⚧ HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA ?⚧ Tulsa Pride may have moved to October but we're still celebrating PRIDE all month long!! Check out these PRIDE events that are happening around town and some of the Pride events that benefit Oklahomans for Equality! We wish everybody and our community partners a FUN, SAFE, and LOVING month of PRIDE and we hope to see y'all at the Be Your Own Masterpiece Equality Gala on June 22nd! " ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit www.okeq.org! Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? Pinot Platte: Live Boldly Tuesday, June 4th, 6:30pm - 9pm Pinot's Palette 1621 E 15th St., Tulsa, OK Join us for our second annual Pride, Paint, and Drag Show at Pinot's Palette Cherry Street! We will have a few Drag performances starting at 6:30pm before painting begins at 7pm. This is a Painting it Forward fundraiser for the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. $10 from each seat sold will be donated. pl/foTs PALqTi · - . ~ CHERRY STREET 1621 E ISTH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 This class is held in the studio. We recommend arriving 15-20 minutes early so you can check-in, chat with friends and settle in with one of our signature drinks from our bar. (Try the Frida Fizz or the Pinot Colada!) Painting begins promptly at the start time. ?⚧?❤????????????? Painters must be 13 or older to attend. Ages 13-17 must be accompanied by an adult painter. Guests enjoy a no-experience-required art class—all supplies included—directed by trained, local artists, who guide guests step-by-step through a featured painting. Live Boldly Tickets 'EMBRACINC INTERSECTIONAl IDENTlff: A QUEER BlACK-JEWISN PERSPECTIVE ON JUNET'EENTNi JEWISN PRIDE, fl PRIDE MONTN Embracing Intersectional Identity w/ Tony Westbrook Thursday, June 6th, 6:00pm Jewish Federation of Tulsa 2021E 71st St. Tulsa, OK Embracing Intersectional Identity: A Queer Black-Jewish Perspective on Juneteenth, Jewish Pride, and Pride Month” with Jewish influencer Tony Westbrook @/ frumjewishblackboy. THURSDAY, JUNE 6, 7 PM AT TNE JEWISN FEDERATION OF TUlSA 2027 E 71st St. Tulsa, OK 74136 Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, adva nces Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media. Join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and ' ,.. , , ,, Tony Westbrook shares relatable stories, advances Jewish education, and spreads Jewish and Black joy to over 55,000 followers on social media with his motto, “I promise to be Jewish ten times more than anyone hates me for it”. This Pride month, join us for an evening of conversation on navigating and embracing intersectionality within our community ?⚧?❤????????????? .. 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... emoracing in1ersec11ona111y w1min our communny, RSVP for this free event at JEWISNTUlSA.ORC/CRC-JUNE In partnership with: RSVP Turrelle Sister's Drag Show Saturday, June 8th, 9:00pm The District Bar & Grill 106 S Atlanta St., Owasso, OK Experience the dazzling start of Pride Month with the captivating performances of The Turrelle Sisters at The District Bar & Grill on Saturday, June 8th at 9 PM for a night filled with glitz, glamour, and pure entertainment. RSVP on Facebook LET'S CELEBRATE! THE 2ND ANNUAL SPECTRUM Be prepared to be swept away by the mesmerizing performances of Josie Turrelle, Sasha Turrelle, Scrappy Legacy, Maxine Turrelle, Jazmyn Turrelle, and the reigning Miss Gay Oklahoma USofA At Large 2023, Aurora LeKohl. This isn't just an ordinary show; it's a jubilant celebration brimming with unexpected delights that will keep you enthralled all night long. Don't miss out on the opportunity to win exciting prizes with raffle drawings throughout the evening, generously sponsored by Patricia's In Tulsa. Get ready to be an active part of the event with audience participation activities, graciously presented by The Donut Hole. Indulge in delectable cuisine and take advantage of our drink specials to elevate your evening even further. Additionally, ensure your well-being with the presence of Health Outreach Prevention Education (H.O.P.E.) Mobile STD testing, offering free and confidential services to prioritize your health and safety. To secure the best seats, make your table reservations by contacting The District Bar and Grill at 918-274-9006. Let's paint this Pride Month with unforgettable memories, vibrant pride, and pure joy! ??✨ Spectrum of Pride Saturday, June 15th,1PM The Hedge 2606 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK The 2nd Annual Spectrum of Pride event promises a day filled with comedy, advocacy, performance, and an abundance of community resources. ?⚧?❤????????????? It's an occasion to celebrate diversity and inclusivity while fostering a supportive environment for all. COMEDYiRESOURCESiADYOCACYiPERFORMANCE SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH, 1PM 2606 S. SHERIDAN RD, TULSA .. •····•. ~~ ! ,l. u l. .\ ~ 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Oilers Football Saturday, June 15th, 7PM BOK CENTER 200 S Dever Ave, Tulsa, OK ?Join the Tulsa Oilers football team as they take on Sioux Falls Storm at the BOK Center on June 15th at 7PM and get that W! Donate $6 to Oklahomans for Equality and get 1 ticket or $10 and get 2 tickets! Let's fill the stands with PRIDE and enjoy Pride Month with the Tulsa Oilers! ?⚧?❤????????????? Once you donate email kao.morris@okeq.org with the first and last name associated with the donation. TICKETS SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH UM TAHLEQUAH PUBLIC LIBRARY 9:00AM-3:00PM TWO SPIRIT SYM FREE INDIAN TACO MEAL AT5:00PM STOMP DANCE HONORING TWO SPIRIT PEOPLE 1ST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH ACTIVITY BUI LDING 6:00PM-10:00PM WEBSITE: TAHLEQUAH2SCELEBRATION. MY.CANVA.SITE VENDORS CONTACT YOUNGDEER1491@GMAILCO 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... But I'm A Cheerleader Thursday, June 20th, 7:30PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK TICKETS Circle Cinema is proud to partner with Twisted Arts for "Drag Me to the Movies," a new monthly retro screening series! Kicking it off a special screening of the cult classic “But I’m a Cheerleader” on June 20. But wait, there’s more! Before the main event, our talented local performers hilariously parody the film. Featuring the fabulous lineup of Adonia Hunter, Laura Cook, Londenn Davenport Raine, Missy MG, and Tracy La Louisianne. Tickets $10 Circle members, $12 non-members. Expect the unexpected and remember “Foreplay is for sissies!” or “I get good grades! I go to church! I’m a cheerleader!” Megan (Natasha Lyonne) considers herself a typical American girl. She excels in school and cheerleading, and she has a handsome football-playing boyfriend, even though she isn't that crazy about him. So she's stunned when her parents decide she's gay and send her to True Directions, a boot camp meant to alter her sexual orientation. While there, Megan meets a rebellious and unashamed teen lesbian, Graham (Clea DuVall). Though Megan still feels confused, she starts to have feelings for Graham. Learn more about the performers at Twistedfest.org/ dragmovies. Founded in Tulsa, OK, Twisted Arts was created to highlight local, national, and international LGBTQ2S+ artists through year-round programs which include an annual fall film festival, monthly film screenings & performances, an LGBTQ2S+ youth filmmaking Summer camp, members-only sneak peeks, access to year-round short films, special events, and private screenings with directors, actors, and other queer media icons. SATURDAvJUNE 22ND 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. ?⚧?❤????????????? MUSIC , DANCING & DRU I 6+ IINUIS I PHOTOGBIPHIBS FIN AFTIR PARTY I A PORTION 01 PBOCIIDS BINIIIT : OKLAHOMANS FOR !QUALITY "- Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~ Tulsa 01( WW Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Turrelle Sister's Bingo: Pride Edition Saturday, June 22nd, 8pm The Raw Center 1227 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡The Turrelle Sisters and The RAW Center are excited to bring you the Turrelle Sisters' Bingo: PRIDE EDITION celebrating Pride Month on June 22nd Come play FREE BINGO and WIN some fun prizes!! $10 DOOR COVER w/ Partial Proceeds from the door cover will be donated to OKEQ and The RAW Center) ?⚧?❤????????????? BINGO IS FREE (8 Games + 1 SUPER GAME) | 18+ with valid ID Facebook RSVP licensing by Concord Theatricals . cc.,£,\ANS EATING A QU. 70te S \_,\;,u' June 28 & 29 Written by, Evan Under & Andrew Hobgood 3 B&Z PRODUCTIONS in collaboration with Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c11tls11 to.uds th Du11iiR. N1i11l,111ityC111ttr '9 918.804.290) 8 americantheatrecompany.or1 a atc@atctulsa.orr 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm Norris Park 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) and a campout on the river in the evening. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, June 4th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. FREE HIV Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM TESTING Dennis R Neill Equality Tulsa OK 741261 ~ 916 743 4297 o~@ One . upon a tim~ .. , lilwiWlii"!:! l,fl,1 /1 ~L/'\.IU"l.ll.l· tr\J~ Once Upon A Time... Friday, June 7th & 8th, 8pm Fellowship Congregational UCC 2900 S Havard, Tulsa, OK Enjoy this musical narrative of a boy’s journey through the challenges of childhood and the excruciating heartbreak of young love. By the end of the concert, our hero matures into a man who has found wisdom and contentment living in our beloved state of Oklahoma. Please join Council Oak Men’s Chorale as we head into our 26th year of amazing concerts showcasing our vast array of musical talent and excellence here in Tulsa and in July at the 2024 Gala Choruses event in 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Minneapolis, MN. TICKETS Big, Scary Animals Friday, June 7th-16th, 8pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center – Liddy Doenges Theatre 110 E 2nd St S, Tulsa, OK What begins as a polite dinner conversation with their gay, multi-ethnic neighbors careens out of control. A hilarious collision of race, sex, guns, and sports, BIG, SCARY ANIMALS examines shifting generational beliefs and just how hard it is to raise a child regardless of who you are and where you live. TICKETS Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 27th, 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Then and Now takes the audience on a historical journey of the Broadway musical. Join Larry Gray, Jill Lingle, Alyssa McGuire, and accompanist Tracy Watson as they bounce back and forth through the history of their favorite Broadway tunes with a couple non-Broadway performance pieces added for fun. Also – featuring original artwork by Pamela Watson. Then and Now will journey from the waters of Dames @ Sea to the French Revolution; from Pajama Games to Untitled Show; and from Charlie Brown to The Bridges of Madison County. TICKETS Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step-parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nontraditional households 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@g~ • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, June 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. Hosted & Presented By: , 11 cf •~ou,...._ TRAO!aCOM,l,ll5.SION ReportFraud.ftc.gov ..--·-........, ... 0mc.ollnwaorEducatlon f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam Il111 Meimoriaurrn 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-if- OKEO HEALTH -~-if- CLINIC II Cul1urallyCompetentCarefortllelG8TQ•Commun,1y Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM Support Group Rwhlt.e-letl2roupfurpeersupportandeducationaboutsyst.emicracism 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... WE ARE NOW OFFERING .,fF~RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. Craatilll a8111'1 spa and facllitatina support. Bducationandaocial--.. farall individuals llllllina t.a iv'iit-rrimsustamu: raciBm ia tbir • • Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB<yantwilhLegal AidServicesof 71 GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides - - - , H ... , . . , . , ~ -· rega,dlessolincomeandare availablethroughoultheSta1el0< support education.and social opportunitiesfortransgender LGBTQ+persons. Oklahomawill be assisting the LGBTQ+ ~ ~ y of lM First-timein terviewisrequiredbef0<e community with fair housing.related issue,;. Atonffl ,,._ J2PM- 4PM. att endingyourlirstmttting. P!easecontact Q1 8-743-42Q7 71 &.,-~ol,,.. ~front7""'1f091W DIMIIR. .... Equallty, Tulw.OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. ------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. GREEN ~OIJNTRV 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 7484 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ...., BEARS 71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary L EG.4.LA 10 ~~ 5ERV I CESo• 11 01C1-' IIO ...,A, I NC. JulieLGoreewithlegalAid Se<vice,;of Oklahomais asailablefordropindiscussions regarding lega l issues. . ........... 71 ..,...... ,......,.. v. ............. ...... Gender Correction Clinic ~ --- Oklahoma for Equa1;ry Law Cf.'flter AnomeyJoshPaytonaodhisteam willassistthosewithnameand geoderc01Teclions. Can'lmake it inperson?contact inlof>okequalily!aw.comtoschedule a consult ation by Zoom ishostingaclinicfornameand Cwr, SKO<ld Wednt,sdayof !he gender marker changes. monfflfrom5:3 8PMfo1PM 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 Dennl&R.Nelll[Quallty,Tulu.OK74129 Lawyer in the Library https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... DennlsR.NelllEquallty,Tuls.a,OK74129 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org ------Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS ( OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS -.-.. ..., •'"';w,,,• •~"~.,~ 111 mlncledgayandblse>:ual....,,10 fttabllahtriendshipandwpport ttvOUQt,soclallnlefactlon. Asociatorganizatiooformature-min<ied GayandBise, ualmeo 71 ._,.__..,n..cta,'°' AttendN&muslbe21ye.1rsoroidef , - - -.... -_..,,_,..,.""" Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Alliances uality Community Partners • • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing = These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JWSf.l Get help- applying for Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? s ,pplemental , • :~!~~\i::ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. You may qua lify for the Tulsa Hi gher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencin g homelessness or at-risk of homelessness 4/29/26, 12:49 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • 1meresiea 1n enro111ng orcurrem1y enro11ea in one or rne ~ co1ieges and universities that are in the Consortium No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 44th Annual Equality Gala! Join us this year as we celebrate Equality, Art, and Masterpieces! This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Business Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue Welch & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ.org 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sponsorships & Tickets 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride We wish all cyclists a safe trip on the 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride. The cyclists started their journey from the New Echota Historic Site and are making their way back to Tahlequah, Cherokee Nation, Oklahoma. This is an annual bicycle ride of nearly 1,000 miles commemorating the forced removal of Cherokee people from their ancestral homelands. The riders departed from Georgia on Monday, June 3rd. ?⚧?❤????????????? One of the riders is Shawna Baker, the first openly lesbian on the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court and an OKEQ Trustee. Shawna Baker Interview 2024 Tulsa Pride 2024 PRIDE EVENTS ~5 w : !JJJllJDQJifli) 2024 PRIDE EVENTS NMAIN ST. TIILSA,OK Q. w § !JJJllJDQJifli) ?⚧ HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA ?⚧ Tulsa Pride may have moved to October but we're still celebrating PRIDE all month long!! Check out these PRIDE events that are happening around town and some of the Pride events that benefit Oklahomans for Equality! We wish everybody and our community partners a FUN, SAFE, and LOVING month of PRIDE and we hope to see y'all at the Be Your Own Masterpiece Equality Gala on June 22nd! ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit www.okeq.org! 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?? HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA TULSA ?? Who doesn't love Huffy? Now he's supporting LGBTQ+ people too? Even better. A portion of all sales will be donated to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma to support the LGBTQ+ community! ?⚧?❤????????????? Show your Tulsa pride and celebrate love in all its vibrant forms with this limited-edition tee! Our iconic mascot, Huffy, takes center stage, reimagined in a dazzling rainbow of Pride colors. This comfy classic features a durable 100% polyester front for bold graphics, while the cool 100% nylon mesh back keeps you breezy. An adjustable snap closure ensures a perfect fit, ready for cheers, adventures, and everyday Tulsa love. PRIDE WITH HUFFY Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? While doing research in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, Ryan Fitzgibbon came across a June 1983 newsletter by the Gay Press Association containing the following appeal, “During our celebrating, we must set new goals. There is still a great need to join closer together. We must work together and not be at odds with each other…[keeping] in mind this year’s theme: PRIDE IN UNITY.” ?⚧?❤????????????? Inspired by decades of queer activism, this design highlights a broad range of issues facing 2SLGBTQ+ people today. Critical updates acknowledge the members of our community that for too long were overlooked and erased from the telling of our history. This remixed version of Ryan’s 2SLGBTQ+ design features an appeal for PRIDE IN UNITY he found while doing research in the Equality Center archives. Critical updates acknowledge community members that for too long were overlooked and erased from the telling queer history. A percentage of the proceeds will be donated to Tulsa Pride PRESALES CLOSE ON 6/16 MIDNIGHT. ALL ORDERS WILL BE PRINTED & SHIPPED BEFORE THE END OF JUNE. Pride in Unity Tee Pride Tech Trivia with Atlas School Wednesday, June 12th, 5:30PM Atlas School 15 N Cheyenne Ave., Tulsa, OK ??On June 12, check in will begin at 5:30 and the games will begin at 6 pm. Light snacks and beverages will be available. Prizes for best team name, grand prize winner, as well as random prize drawings will be awarded throughout the night. Bring your friends to cheer you on or encourage them to register a team and compete with you! ?⚧?❤????????????? Teams of 2 will have a buzzer to answer queer tech Jeopardy-style trivia, with answers in the form of a question. Please RSVP for your team and include your team name below. Pride Tech Trivia Sign Up 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tahlequah Two Spirit Celebration Saturday, June 15th, 9AM Tahlequah Public Library 120 S College Ave., Tahlequah, OK FREE INDIAN TACO MEAL AT5:OOPM STOMP DANCE HONORING TWO SPIRIT PEOPLE 1ST UNITED METHODIST CHU RCH ACTI VITY BUI LDING 6:OOPM·lO:OOPM LET'S CELEBRATE! THE 2ND ANNUAL THE TAHLEQUAH AREA COMMUNITY IS INVITED TO A TWO SPIRIT SYMPOSIUM, INDIAN TACO MEAL, AND STOMP DANCE ON SATURDAY, JUNE 15, 2024. ?⚧?❤????????????? THE SYMPOSIUM WILL BE HELD IN THE TAHLEQUAH PUBLIC LIBRARY WITH BREAKFAST SNACKS AT 8:30AM AND PRESENTATIONS FROM 9:00AM-3:00PM. THERE WILL BE AMPLE TIME FOR DISCUSSIONS AND BREAKS. TOPICS INCLUDE “TWO SPIRIT PEOPLE IN TRADITIONAL CHEROKEE CULTURE”, A “POLITICAL UPDATE PANEL DISCUSSION”, “TOOLS TO DEAL WITH BULLYING AND HARASSMENT”, AND “DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN THE LGBTQ COMMUNITY”. WE WILL SHARE A INDIAN TACO MEAL AT 5:00PM IN THE TAHLEQUAH METHODIST CHURCH ACTIVITIES BUILDING. AGALISIGA "CHUJ" MACKEY WILL BE PERFORMING DURING THE MEAL. THE STOMP DANCE, HOSTED BY THE SQUIRREL RIDGE CEREMONIAL GROUND, WILL BEGIN AT 6:00PM AND END AT 10:00PM. CHEROKEE NATIONAL TREASURE STORYTELLER ROBERT LEWIS WILL PERFORM DURING A BREAK IN THE DANCE. PLEASE BE AWARE THAT THERE WILL BE A POLICE PRESENCE AT BOTH THE TWO SPIRIT SYMPOSIUM AND THE STOMP DANCE. VENDORS ARE WELCOME AND COMMUNITY-SERVING NON-PROFIT ORGANIZATIONS MAY SET UP INFORMATION TABLES AT NO CHARGE. FOR MORE INFORMATION ON VENDOR OPPORTUNITIES AND NONPROFIT TABLES, PLEASE CONTACT AHYOKA YOUNGDEER AT YOUNGDEER1491@GMAIL.COM. ?⚧?❤????????????? FOR GENERAL INFORMATION, CONTACT JONATHAN HOOK AT JHOOKCOMM@GMAIL.COM. Spectrum of Pride Saturday, June 15th, 1PM The Hedge 2606 S Sheridan Rd, Tulsa, OK The 2nd Annual Spectrum of Pride event promises a day filled with comedy, advocacy, performance, and an abundance of community resources. ?⚧?❤????????????? It's an occasion to celebrate diversity and inclusivity while fostering a supportive environment for all. COMEDYiRESOURCESiADVOCACYiPERFORMANCE SATURDAY, JUNE 15TH, 1PM 2606 S. SHERIDAN RD, TULSA AUTISM FOUNDATION of OKLAHOMA D[I If! PFLAG Pride Popsicles in the Park Saturday, June 15th, 2PM The Arboretum at Woodward Park 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 2435 S Peoria Ave., Tulsa, OK rrLIIU TULSA PRIDE POPSICLES IN THE PARK Saturday, June 15 • Join PFLAG Tulsa for our Pride month social! Popsicles in the Park will be held on Saturday, June 15th from 2-4pm at Woodward Park at 21st and Peoria. You’re welcome to bring picnic blankets, kiddos, and any snacks or drinks you’d like (to share or for yourself) - we’ll bring the popsicles! ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit https://tulsapflag.org/ 2:00-4:00pm The Aboretum at Woodward Park ULTl:-.1,\TI:: 8110\\'C.\SE OF T,\LEXT ,\:-iD FL\!R! EXPrnlEXCE ,\;'\ ELECTR IFYl:-:G rus10:,.: or 1),\:-:ci:, KICKS, ,\XI) co:-.u:DY BROUGIIT TO un: BY TIIREE OF Tl!E ST,\TE'S ,\\OST ICO;'\[C PERFOR,\IERS. Ir's XOT JUST,\ 8110\\'·IT'S ,\ CELEBR,\TIO:-i or IXDl\'IDU,\UT\', P,\8810;'\, ,\\'.D rm: FREED(),\\ TO BE \\'IIOE\'[R YOU Meet la~ette outside for what is beiomM9 our ANNUAL l?AINJ'IOW SC,AVfNGfl? llUNT! Two perso~ teams. llriz.es for the wi~~i~9 teaml \\',\:-i'T TO BE. co.,u: OXE, CO:\\E ,\LL, ,\XD u:r's Do:-:'r FORGET TO BRl'.\'G YOUR DOU ..\RS ,\XI) Rainbow Scavenger Hunt with Okalake Trails Naturist Park Saturday, June 15th, 4PM The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E Prode St., Tulsa, OK 74120 tj June 15, 2024, Oaklake Trails Naturist Park (OLT) welcomes all LGBTQIA+ persons and Allies to celebrate ?⚧ PRIDE through a clothing-optional experience. For the safety and security of all visitors, we ask that your first stop, upon arrival to OLT, be the office. Upon your arrival to the office, you will be asked to complete some paperwork (first-time visitors only). Just say "I'm here for PRIDE DAY!" to receive a DISCOUNT!* The park will be, as always, open to all visitors. At any point during your visit, you are welcome to enjoy the hot tub, pools, all trails, the clubhouse with indoor games such as darts, pool, and foosball, pickleball (equipment available in the office), shuffleboard, horseshoes or cornhole. ?⚧?❤????????????? MORE INFORMATION Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 15th, 6:30PM The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E Prode St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo on Saturday, June 15th 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧?❤????????????? JUNE15Tlli6!SOPM fl [i) [i) [j) 0 !I !ll rJ !I[]] rJ!i1 0!ll !lil !I !ll rJ O lP []] Oll!I~ Stand a chance to win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy delicious food and drinks while watching some spectacular drag entertainment. Featuring performances from your 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Davenport Jade and 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya, along with Scrappy Legacy and Pride Royalty ?⚧?❤????????????? Doors open at 6:30 PM | Game Starts at 7:05 PM | All proceeds benefit Tulsa Pride Additional Bingo Cards can be purchased at the door for $5. You can buy tickets at the door. TICKETS Tulsa Oilers Football Saturday, June 15th, 7PM BOK CENTER 200 S Dever Ave, Tulsa, OK ?Join the Tulsa Oilers football team as they take on Sioux Falls Storm at the BOK Center on June 15th at 7PM and get that W! Donate $6 to Oklahomans for Equality and get 1 ticket or $10 and get 2 tickets! Let's fill the stands with PRIDE and enjoy Pride Month with the Tulsa Oilers! ?⚧?❤????????????? Once you donate email kao.morris@okeq.org with the first and last name associated with the donation. TICKETS But I'm A Cheerleader Thursday, June 20th, 7:30PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Circle Cinema is proud to partner with Twisted Arts for "Drag Me to the Movies," a new monthly retro screening series! Kicking it off a special screening of the cult classic “But I’m a Cheerleader” on June 20. But wait, there’s more! Before the main event, our talented local performers hilariously parody the film. Featuring the fabulous lineup of Adonia Hunter, Laura Cook, Londenn Davenport Raine, Missy MG, and Tracy La Louisianne. Tickets $10 Circle 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TICKETS members, $12 non-members. Expect the unexpected and remember “Foreplay is for sissies!” or “I get good grades! I go to church! I’m a cheerleader!” Megan (Natasha Lyonne) considers herself a typical American girl. She excels in school and cheerleading, and she has a handsome football-playing boyfriend, even though she isn't that crazy about him. So she's stunned when her parents decide she's gay and send her to True Directions, a boot camp meant to alter her sexual orientation. While there, Megan meets a rebellious and unashamed teen lesbian, Graham (Clea DuVall). Though Megan still feels confused, she starts to have feelings for Graham. Learn more about the performers at Twistedfest.org/ dragmovies. Founded in Tulsa, OK, Twisted Arts was created to highlight local, national, and international LGBTQ2S+ artists through year-round programs which include an annual fall film festival, monthly film screenings & performances, an LGBTQ2S+ youth filmmaking Summer camp, members-only sneak peeks, access to year-round short films, special events, and private screenings with directors, actors, and other queer media icons. SATURDAvJUNE 22ND 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. ?⚧?❤????????????? MUSIC , DANCING & DRU I 6+ VENUES I PHOTOGRAPHERS FIN AFTER PARTY I A PORTION DI PROCEEDS BENEFIT: OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Turrelle Sister's Bingo: Pride Edition Saturday, June 22nd, 8pm The Raw Center 1227 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡The Turrelle Sisters and The RAW Center are excited to bring you the Turrelle Sisters' Bingo: PRIDE EDITION celebrating Pride Month on June 22nd Come play FREE BINGO and WIN some fun prizes!! $10 DOOR COVER w/ Partial Proceeds from the door cover will be donated to OKEQ and The RAW Center) 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?⚧?❤????????????? BINGO IS FREE (8 Games + 1 SUPER GAME) | 18+ with valid ID Facebook RSVP COME EARLY FOR OKEQ BUSINESS MIXER JUN 2 PRESENHD WITH OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY - 7:30PM Birdcage Screening with Circle Cinema and EBA Mixer Thursday, June 27nd, 6PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK Presented with Circle Cinema during Pride month! A portion of ticket proceeds will benefit OKEQ. Film at 7:30PM, and come early for OKEQ’s Equality BusinessAllianceMixer in the lobby starting at 6PM - with free popcorn samples and a cash bar. Tickets for the film are $11 Circle members, $13 nonmembers. OKEQ MEMBERS ARE ELIGIBLE FOR A DISCOUNTED PROMO CODE. VERIFY YOUR MEMBERSHIP BY EMAILING KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG TO RECEIVE YOUR PROMO CODE. The Equality Business Alliance (EBA) exists to strengthen 2SLGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa Community. The EBA is held every fourth Thursday of the month. The EBA provides a directory of 2SLBGTQ+ online at OkEq.org. EBA is an opportunity to network with like-minded businesses creating professional environments where 2SLGBTQ+ businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. About the film: In this remake of the classic French farce "La Cage aux Folles," engaged couple Val Goldman (Dan Futterman) and Barbara Keeley (Calista Flockhart) shakily introduce their future in-laws. Val's father, Armand (Robin Williams), a gay Miami drag club owner, pretends to be straight and attempts to hide his relationship with Albert (Nathan Lane), his life partner and the club's flamboyant star attraction, so as to please Barbara's father, controversial Republican Sen. Kevin Keeley (Gene 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hackman). ?⚧?❤????????????? BIRDCAGE TICKETS L1censingbyConcordTheatricals . cc.,£,\ANS EATING A QU. 7CJte S \..,V"" June 28 & 29 Written by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood B&Z PRODUCTIONS in collaboration with Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c t1lls 11 ta.ardsth 01n■iiR.N 1 i11E•■a litrC 11l tr "' "'·"'·"') • americantheatrecompany.ar& a atc@alctulsa.or& 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm Norris Park 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) later in the evening and a campout on the river. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Pride Month with The Tavern All Month of June The Tavern 201 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Join us in celebrating Pride month at Tavern on Main St. with our special cocktail, the Pride Paradise. ?⚧?❤????????????? For every Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita) and other select drinks purchased, we will donate $2 to the Equality Center. The Tavern will be donating $2 from each of the following drinks: Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita), Non-alcoholic Pride Paradise, glasses of our Rotating Rosè of the Day, and Neff Raspberry Pride sour beer. The Pride Paradise is made with either Cimarron Tequila or Boval Mezcal, Fair Acai Liqueur, Agave, and Lime. The Nonalcoholic Pride Paradise contains Acai Juice, Lime Juice, and Sprite. ?⚧?❤????????????? The Tavern The Pride Paradise is made with the finest ingredients and is available both with and without alcohol, so everyone can join in the celebration. Your support helps us make a difference. Cheers to equality and inclusion! Special Events FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, June 11th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK FREE HIV H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM TESTING 71 Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTGIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Big, Scary Animals Friday, June 7th-16th, 8pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center – Liddy Doenges Theatre 110 E 2nd St S, Tulsa, OK What begins as a polite dinner conversation with their gay, multi-ethnic neighbors careens out of control. A hilarious collision of race, sex, guns, and sports, BIG, SCARY ANIMALS examines shifting generational beliefs and just how hard it is to raise a child regardless of who you are and where you live. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TICKETS Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 27th, 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Then and Now takes the audience on a historical journey of the Broadway musical. Join Larry Gray, Jill Lingle, Alyssa McGuire, and accompanist Tracy Watson as they bounce back and forth through the history of their favorite Broadway tunes with a couple non-Broadway performance pieces added for fun. Also – featuring original artwork by Pamela Watson. Then and Now will journey from the waters of Dames @ Sea to the French Revolution; from Pajama Games to Untitled Show; and from Charlie Brown to The Bridges of Madison County. TICKETS Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step-parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nont raditional households (step parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2022blended@gDJAi..l&Qm • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections Tuesday, June 14th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning ,t,,FEOEIIAI.TRAOEC~ ReportFraud.ftc.gov Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... investment fraud. f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam Ilin Merrnoriaurrn Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK CullurallyCompeUntCar•forthelGBTQ•Communlly Clinic Hours: Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up 11 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 111111 1111111 1111111 IIII ASEXUAL Aces Committed Equality ::.::::;.::~~ :::::.:::, 7 1 • Tubo. 0...,.-omo. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com ~ COll"''"°...,._at n ... >?\'-N_, '"""""'°'"'""' AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSA El?lTI-RElCieT WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhitr:-leil2roupforpeersupportandeducationabouts-ystemicracism .,fF~RN -CAREGIVERAffirm Caregiver AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. laat 1lwrsdau of ~ -month at tha ll8nnia R.llail Equality Cant8r IZlElltst.7-1:MI Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... f yoijliilleveyo,.tyebeenavlctim LIC~i:111-\IU Services of Oklahoma AlyssaB,yantwithLega l AidServicesof OklahomawillbeassistingtheLGBTQ+ 71 ofllousingdiscrimination,please caUherat9 18-238-16561,orema il herala!~~g. Theseservicesa,eopentoeveryone rega,dlessollncomeand3re available throughouttheSta1e1or LGBTQ+persons. ~~yoflM .--'-=-~-·_;,_.,_,_,. ;_,,_-_;.,_.,_.,._,~_;_,.~_.___. Atonffl "°'" J2PM- 4PM. SUPPORT\ GROUP The Gender Support provides support,educatioo,andsoclal oppor1unitiesfortransgender First-timein terviewlsrequiredbe!O<e attendingyou,lirstmtt>tlng PleasecontactQ18-743-42Q7 71 &w,-~ol,,.. ~front7""'1f09PM DIMilltNIIIEquallty, Tut...OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. SCOUT TROOP 7484 ...., GREEN COUNTRY BEARS 71 Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Gender L Correction Clinic JulieL Got-ee wil hl.egal Aid Se<vicesof ---:71 Ok lahoma is available for drOl) ln discussions / regarding lega l issues. I --- ...,. ..... n-.-,., . . Dennl&R.NelllEQuallty,Tulu.OK74128 Lawyer in the Library Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center ishostingaclinicfornameand 7 At1omeyJosllPaytonandhisteam willassistthosewithnameand g,endercorrections Can'\ ma keitinpe<'SOl'l?contac\ inl~kequali1ylaw.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. n.,, SKOna"........-y ofrtt. --'''-~-"_,m _.,_•~-'-"'.;; "'"' - ·- - - - - - - - ' monfflfrom5.:3SPMro 7PM DennlsR.NeillEquallty,Tuls.a,OK74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS Denn,sR Ne1l1Equal,ty Tulsa OK7412& ( 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Relationships Outside the Box Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocia!<><yanizatlontormatu,..,...miooed Gay and Bisexual men Asoclalc,rvanizatlonformatu,..,... rnlndedgayandblseicual~to fttablllhlnendshlpandsuppo,1 lhrauQl,IOCiallnlefK!lon. AttendNs must be 21 yNrs or older 71 ._,.__..,n--,.°' . - - - - - - - IN-"""-,..,IOPflflll Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t ti. SERVICES O F OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGAL AID t ti. SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Actionlink Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? JIISfi) Get help= applying for , • : ~!~~'ti::ce s ,pplemental P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll -free to 1 (877) 760· 0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai\ol: You may qua lify for the Tulsa Higher Education Consortium's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 colleges and universities that are in the Consortium contact a Tulsa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailing Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com ~ TULSA HIGHER I ,i_, 1 1EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok ocg/resoucceskoap/ " I I , CONSORTIUM www.tulsahighered.com OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:52 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Sue Welch Board of Advisors Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Tom Vincent Cydney Williams Regis McDaniel - Archivist Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today ! 4/29/26, 12:52 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/410b238d566e0c2b08036f238b7fdfbc.pdf fa55a2e2918b13bb68a9241316d0c153 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked THE DENNIS A. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER WWW.OICEQ.ORG 918.7&13.&1297 Starting Saturday, May 25th The Dennis R. Neill Equality will be opening at noon on Saturdays 2024 Equality Gala Oklahomans for Equality invites you to our 1AM E UALITY Gala & Benefit I am Equality: Be Your Own Masterpiece Saturday, June 22nd, 6 pm Cox Business Convention Center 100 Civic Center, Legacy Hall 2nd Floor, Tulsa, OK The 2024 I AM EQUALITY Gala and Benefit is sold out! We are so thankful for all of the support we have received from the community and beyond. And we can't wait to see you at the Gala! 2024 SAT I 22 I JUNE six o ' clock in the evening complimentary valet Cox Bu si ness Convention Center Legacy Hall , 2nd Floor cocktails I mocktails I dinner theatre live auction I dance party Honorary Chairs Sue W e lc h & Marcy Smith www.OKEQ .org You can still support Oklahomans for Equality's mission by donating, becoming a member, or enter to win one of three vacation packages. Only 100 golden tickets are being offered in advance of the I AM Equality Gala event on June 22nd, 2024. This event serves as OkEq's anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for 2SLGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 2SLGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Our mission would not be possible without the generous contributions of our sponsors and partners! GOLDEN TICKET DONATE JOIN OKEQ 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride We wish all cyclists a safe trip on the 2024 Remember The Removal Bike Ride. The cyclists started their journey from the New Echota Historic Site and are making their way back to Tahlequah, Cherokee Nation, Oklahoma. This is an annual bicycle ride of nearly 1,000 miles commemorating the forced removal of Cherokee people from their ancestral homelands. The riders departed from Georgia on Monday, June 3rd. ?⚧?❤????????????? One of the riders is Shawna Baker, the first openly lesbian on the Cherokee Nation Supreme Court and an OKEQ Trustee. Shawna Baker Interview 2024 Tulsa Pride 2024 PRIDE EVENTS Q. ~ § liJJllm(jJf{Jf) ?⚧ HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA ?⚧ Tulsa Pride may have moved to October but we're still celebrating PRIDE all month long!! Check out these PRIDE events that are happening around town and some of the Pride events that benefit Oklahomans for Equality! We wish everybody and our community partners a FUN, SAFE, and LOVING month of PRIDE and we hope to see y'all at the Be Your Own Masterpiece Equality Gala on June 22nd! ?⚧?❤????????????? For more information visit www.okeq.org! 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?? HAPPY PRIDE MONTH OKLAHOMA TULSA ?? Who doesn't love Huffy? Now he's supporting LGBTQ+ people too? Even better. A portion of all sales will be donated to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in Tulsa, Oklahoma to support the LGBTQ+ community! ?⚧?❤????????????? Show your Tulsa pride and celebrate love in all its vibrant forms with this limited-edition tee! Our iconic mascot, Huffy, takes center stage, reimagined in a dazzling rainbow of Pride colors. This comfy classic features a durable 100% polyester front for bold graphics, while the cool 100% nylon mesh back keeps you breezy. An adjustable snap closure ensures a perfect fit, ready for cheers, adventures, and everyday Tulsa love. PRIDE WITH HUFFY Your reigning 2024 Tulsa Pride King Haze Valentino Davenport-Jade & 2024 Tulsa Pride Queen Sara De La Hoya. ?⚧?❤????????????? f ⚡Pride Month (June) will look a little different moving forward, but it will also mean more Pride throughout the year! Amidst a growing nationwide trend, Oklahomans for Equality has elected to move our Tulsa Pride event to October in 2024 and subsequent years. Pride is tentatively scheduled for the weekend of October 11th through the 13th, which aligns with LGBT History Month and National Coming Out Day. This shift comes as a response to concerns about the scorching temperatures experienced in June that pose significant health risks 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... for heat-related ailments. By transitioning the event to the fall season, we anticipate the Rainbow Run, festival, and parade will become safer and more inclusive for all attendees. OkEq will still host weekly, smaller-scale events in June. Most notably, we will host our annual Equality Gala on June 22nd, 2024, and we will have a “Pride on Your Street” competition to increase awareness and visibility for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community. We will invite people living in the greater Tulsa area to deck out their living quarters with rainbows, flags, and any Pride-themed decor! We are thankful for all of the support we have received from the community as we build a path toward inclusion, accountability, transparency, and financial sustainability. We look forward to continuing to create spaces to celebrate the resilience, beauty, and power of 2SLGBTQIA+ Oklahomans. ?⚧?❤????????????? But I'm A Cheerleader Thursday, June 20th, 7:30PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK TICKETS Circle Cinema is proud to partner with Twisted Arts for "Drag Me to the Movies," a new monthly retro screening series! Kicking it off a special screening of the cult classic “But I’m a Cheerleader” on June 20. But wait, there’s more! Before the main event, our talented local performers hilariously parody the film. Featuring the fabulous lineup of Adonia Hunter, Laura Cook, Londenn Davenport Raine, Missy MG, and Tracy La Louisianne. Tickets $10 Circle members, $12 non-members. Expect the unexpected and remember “Foreplay is for sissies!” or “I get good grades! I go to church! I’m a cheerleader!” Megan (Natasha Lyonne) considers herself a typical American girl. She excels in school and cheerleading, and she has a handsome football-playing boyfriend, even though she isn't that crazy about him. So she's stunned when her parents decide she's gay and send her to True Directions, a boot camp meant to alter her sexual orientation. While there, Megan meets a rebellious and unashamed teen lesbian, Graham (Clea DuVall). Though Megan still feels confused, she starts to have feelings for Graham. Learn more about the performers at Twistedfest.org/ dragmovies. Founded in Tulsa, OK, Twisted Arts was created to highlight local, national, and international LGBTQ2S+ artists through year-round programs which include an annual fall film festival, monthly film screenings & performances, an LGBTQ2S+ youth filmmaking Summer camp, members-only sneak peeks, access to year-round short films, special events, and private screenings with directors, actors, and other queer media icons. SATURDAY Ju N E 22 N D 2024 Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Saturday, June 22nd, 4pm - 12am The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK Join Us For The Ultimate Celebration - The Official Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl on June 22nd. ?⚧?❤????????????? Exclusive Perks: Enjoy Drag Shows ($15 Without Ticket), handpicked inclusive bars, exclusive drink specials, and freebies that are available only to our Pride Bar Crawl participants. Grab your tickets now and let's paint the town in 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 18 ~Iii https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... -- MUSIC, DANCING & DRU I &+ VINUIS I PHOTOGBAPHIRS FIN AFTER PARTY I A PORTION 01 PROCIIOS BINIFIT: OIIAHOMINS FOR !QUALITY Tulsa OK Tulsa Pride Bar Crawl Tickets every color of the rainbow! Your love is revolutionary, and united, we can enact positive change. BAR 46, ELOTE CAFE & CATERING, The Hunt Club, RABBIT HOLE BAR & GRILL. THE MAX RETROPUB DRAG SHOW TIME 7PM-9PM AFTER PARTY TIME 10PM - 12AM INNER CIRCLE VODKA BAR ✨DRINK RESPONSIBLY✨ Turrelle Sister's Bingo: Pride Edition Saturday, June 22nd, 8pm The Raw Center 1227 S Harvard Ave, Tulsa, OK ⚡The Turrelle Sisters and The RAW Center are excited to bring you the Turrelle Sisters' Bingo: PRIDE EDITION celebrating Pride Month on June 22nd Come play FREE BINGO and WIN some fun prizes!! $10 DOOR COVER w/ Partial Proceeds from the door cover will be donated to OKEQ and The RAW Center) ?⚧?❤????????????? BINGO IS FREE (8 Games + 1 SUPER GAME) | 18+ with valid ID Facebook RSVP SPECI COME EARLY FOR OKEQ BUSINESS MIXER ENING PRESENHD WITH OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY JUN 2 ~ 7:30PM 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Birdcage Screening with Circle Cinema and EBA Mixer Thursday, June 27nd, 6PM Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave., Tulsa, OK Presented with Circle Cinema during Pride month! A portion of ticket proceeds will benefit OKEQ. Film at 7:30PM, and come early for OKEQ’s Equality Business Alliance Mixer in the lobby starting at 6PM - - ------ ----------------with free popcorn samples and a cash bar. Tickets for the film are $11 Circle members, $13 nonmembers. OKEQ MEMBERS ARE ELIGIBLE FOR A DISCOUNTED PROMO CODE. VERIFY YOUR MEMBERSHIP BY EMAILING KAO.MORRIS@OKEQ.ORG TO RECEIVE YOUR PROMO CODE. The Equality Business Alliance (EBA) exists to strengthen 2SLGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa Community. The EBA is held every fourth Thursday of the month. The EBA provides a directory of 2SLBGTQ+ online at OkEq.org. EBA is an opportunity to network with like-minded businesses creating professional environments where 2SLGBTQ+ businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. About the film: In this remake of the classic French farce "La Cage aux Folles," engaged couple Val Goldman (Dan Futterman) and Barbara Keeley (Calista Flockhart) shakily introduce their future in-laws. Val's father, Armand (Robin Williams), a gay Miami drag club owner, pretends to be straight and attempts to hide his relationship with Albert (Nathan Lane), his life partner and the club's flamboyant star attraction, so as to please Barbara's father, controversial Republican Sen. Kevin Keeley (Gene Hackman). ?⚧?❤????????????? BIRDCAGE TICKETS licensing by Concord Theatricals . cc,£,\ANS EATING A QU. S~ June 28 & 29 'IC!-fe Wri ten by: Evan Linder & Andrew Hobgood \ B&Z PRODU CT IO NS in collaboration with Lynn Riggs Black Box Theatre 621 E4th ST Tulsa, OK 74120 Allpr1c11tls11tow1rdsth Den11$ R, N1ill(.Hlit,c,.,., '9 918.804.290) 8 americantheatrecompany.or& () atc@alclulsa.orr 5 Lesbian Eating Tickets ALL PROCEEDS from ticket sales go to the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. 5 Lesbians Eating A Quiche June 28th & 29th, 7:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK In 1956, the Susan B. Anthony Society for the Sisters of Gertrude Stein organized their annual quiche breakfast. The event took place in an idyllic town, and the "widows" were eagerly waiting for the announcement of the society's prize-winning quiche. However, the event was interrupted by the sound of atomic bomb sirens, and the "widows" were faced with an attack on their town and way of life. What will they do in response to the threat of communism? If you're looking for some entertainment, 5 Lesbians Eating a Quiche is a production you might be interested in. It won the Best Overall Production award at the 2012 NYC International Fringe Festival. The show is packed with hilarious laughs, sexual innuendoes, unsuccessful repressions, and delicious discoveries. It stars Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Rooney, Vivica Walkenbach, Amanda Nicols, and Erika Reider. ?⚧?❤????????????? TahlEquality's 10th Pride Picnic & June 29th & 30th, 12:00pm Norris Park 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 400 N Muskogee Ave, Tahlequah, OK Get ready to join us for Pride in the Park on Saturday, 6/29, with the kick-off at 12pm with a drag show at Ned's (18+ with valid ID) later in the evening and a campout on the river. Sunday 6/30, there will be a float trip, more details to come. The events will be family-friendly, except for the adult after-show at Ned's. Let's celebrate our 10th anniversary with s'mores, hotdogs, families, and good humor during June LGBT month! ?⚧?❤????????????? Please stay tuned for updates and RSVP on facebook to stay up to date for all things TahlEquality. TahlEquality 10th Annual Pride Celebration Pride Month with The Tavern All Month of June The Tavern 201 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Join us in celebrating Pride month at Tavern on Main St. with our special cocktail, the Pride Paradise. ?⚧?❤????????????? For every Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita) and other select drinks purchased, we will donate $2 to the Equality Center. The Tavern will be donating $2 from each of the following drinks: Pride Paradise (Acai Margarita), Non-alcoholic Pride Paradise, glasses of our Rotating Rosè of the Day, and Neff Raspberry Pride sour beer. The Pride Paradise is made with either Cimarron Tequila or Boval Mezcal, Fair Acai Liqueur, Agave, and Lime. The Nonalcoholic Pride Paradise contains Acai Juice, Lime Juice, and Sprite. ?⚧?❤????????????? The Tavern The Pride Paradise is made with the finest ingredients and is available both with and without alcohol, so everyone can join in the celebration. Your support helps us make a difference. Cheers to equality and inclusion! Special Events 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV TESTING 71 Get culturally competent care for the 2SLGBTQIA+ community at the Dennis R. Neill FREE HIV TESTING Tuesday, June 11th, 4pm - 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Know your status today! Every Tuesday from 4PM - 6PM Big, Scary Animals Friday, June 7th-16th, 8pm Tulsa Performing Arts Center – Liddy Doenges Theatre 110 E 2nd St S, Tulsa, OK What begins as a polite dinner conversation with their gay, multi-ethnic neighbors careens out of control. A hilarious collision of race, sex, guns, and sports, BIG, SCARY ANIMALS examines shifting generational beliefs and just how hard it is to raise a child regardless of who you are and where you live. TICKETS Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, June 27th, 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theatre 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Then and Now takes the audience on a historical journey of the Broadway musical. Join Larry Gray, Jill Lingle, Alyssa McGuire, and accompanist Tracy Watson as they bounce back and forth through the history of their favorite Broadway tunes with a couple non-Broadway performance pieces added for fun. Also – featuring original artwork by Pamela Watson. Then and Now will journey from the waters of Dames @ Sea to the French Revolution; from Pajama Games to Untitled Show; and from Charlie Brown to The Bridges of Madison County. TICKETS Blended Saturday, June 29th, 12 Noon Oklahomans for Equality 621 E 4th St, Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This peer-led support group is for parents in ono-traditional households (step-parents, non-bio parents, bonus parents etc.) Free childcare is also available! For more information email 2022blended@gmail.com A QUEER FRIENDLY PARENTING SUPPORT GROUP This peer led support group is for parents in nont raditional households (step parents, non-blo parents, bonus parents, etc). Free chi ldcare is also available! Please join us at NOON on JUNE 29th at OKEQ! For questions, email 2O22blended@g~ • LGBTQ+ Consumer Rights and Protections July 16th SAGE x CFPB x FTC Virtual/Online Session Dates/Topics: July 16th, 2024 - Retirement and Long-term Financial Planning Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), and the Securities and Exchange Commission (SEC) for a free webinar on retirement and long-term financial planning. Speakers from the three agencies will talk about how to protect resources from scammers, steps to becoming a financial caregiver, and information on investing and avoiding investment fraud. Hosted & Presente d By: qi ~{OEIW..TIIAOEC~ ReportFraud.ftc.gov cf -- OfflClloflnYntor Educnlon f Join this free three-part webinar series for a ⚡ discussion of consumer rights and protections in housing, retirement, and end-of-life planning. Learn about your rights in the marketplace and how to spot, avoid, and report frauds and scams. This series is hosted by the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, Federal Trade Commission, Securities and Exchange Commission, and SAGE National Resource Center on LGBTQ+ Aging. September 17th, 2024 - End-of-life planning and your consumer rights Join the SAGE National Resources Center on LGBTQ+ Aging, the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB), and the Federal Trade Commission (FTC) for a free webinar on end-of-life planning issues. Speakers from FTC and CFPB will speak about: how to shop for funeral services with your consumer rights in mind; your options for longterm care; protections when it comes to nursing home debt collection; and how to take control of your finances after the death of a spouse or partner. Register Today In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ellTionaurn Bill Young Born Day - May 21st 2024 Bernd (Eric) Oehler Dec. 08, 1942 - June 7, 2024 In Memoriam Submissions click on the name to view obituary, if available. OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-«r- HEALTH -ci=-«rCLINIC Culturally(ompdrnt(arrforth~lGBTQ+(ommun,ty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a selfpay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! ancy & Joe McDonald Rain ow ibrary 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... DISC Surplus Computers is proud to help supply the laptops that will be used for the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library satellite program, Unbanned Voices. As a small family business operating in Sand Springs since 2005, DISC Surplus Computers strives to provide access to affordable technology for everyone. The store opened in 2005 by father and son duo, Bill and Scott Black. The store was operated by Bill Black for over 17 years until his death in 2022. Seeing the continued demand for unique services that the store provided, particularly for rural residents and senior citizens on fixed incomes, Scott and his husband, Houston Conner, chose to keep the store open on a part-time basis with the help of Scott's mother and Bill's widow, Kathy. Now in its 18th year, DISC Surplus Computers continues to sell refurbished computers and laptops as affordable and sustainable options, helping decrease the amount of e-waste generated in the United States each year (6.9 million tons). The store supports the recycling of electronics by accepting select items for free drop-off at the store, and they offer affordable upgrades and repairs on computers in-house or on-site at customers' homes or offices in the greater Tulsa area. Visit www.surpluscomputerstore.com or on social media @surpluscomputerstore for more information. Current store hours are Monday 5:30-7:30 p.m., Wednesday 1-7:30 p.m., Fri 1-7:30 p.m., and Saturday 9-3 p.m. The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the day and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up Aces Committed Equality ASEXUAL ::;;.:.:::7:::::,::;;;:,:., 71 A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com AFFIRM AFFIRM! A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program is available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. AFFIRM interventions are designed to meet the unique needs of LGBTQ+ clients. Collaborating with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners, we have developed practice models that ensure our interventions are tailored to the experiences and challenges faced by this community. With AFFIRM, you can trust that you are receiving care that is both effective and empathetic. For youth ages 14-19. Attendees must have parental support and speak to the group facilitator before attending. For more information, contact Lily Piña at 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918.938.6537 opt 1 AFFIRM meets every Friday from 6 PM to 7 PM TULSR ElilTI-RElCieT WE ARE NOW OFFERING Support Group Rwhitr:-IB!l2roupforpeersupportandeducationaboutS'gstr:micracism .,fF~RN -CAREGIVER- lalt1lwr8dau of ~ AFFIRM Caregiver offers a 7-session group program aimed at empowering parents and caregivers to effectively support their LGBTQ+ youth by enhancing confidence and skills. All caregivers, including adoptive parents, kinship/family members, chosen family, and foster and resource parents, are welcome. The program offers a blended option with in-person meetings on Thursdays at 6 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, alongside a simultaneous Zoom session for those unable to attend in person, although in-person attendance is encouraged. Due to limited space, early reservation of spots is advised. _month at tha lllnnia R.llail Equality Cant8r Affirm Caregiver IZlElltst.7-1:MI Tulsa Anti-Racist Support Group A white-led peer support and educational group learning about systemic racism. Creating a safe space and facilitating support, education, and social opportunities for all individuals seeking to divest from systemic racism in their daily lives. Monthly on the last Thursday. For more information or to register, please contact: Angela.Buchanan@creoks.org, 918-973-3150 (call or text) or Wendy.Rider@creoks.org Fair Housing: Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma Alyssa B<yant withLegal AidServicesof Oklahoma will beassisting the LGBTQ+ ___:'::::;: == :::::;•;::,; iryw::::; '" ;;;;, 'air ;;; - ;;;;: ;"';•rela ;;;'~;;; ;;; issue ;;;; •_ 71 lfyoubelieveyou'vebeeoavictim ofhousingdiscrimination,please caUtierat918-238-16561,oremail hefala!~~g. TheseseMcesa,eopentoeveryone rega,dlessolincomeand3re available throughouttheSta1e1or LGBTQ+persons. ~ ~ y of lM _, Atonffl ,,._ J2PM- 4PM. GENDER \ SUPPORT GROUP The Gender Support provides support,educatioo,andsocial opportunitiesfortransgender andinterse~indilnduals. First-timein terviewis requiredbe!O<e att endingyourlirstmtt"ting Pk-asecontact Q1 8-74 3-4 2Q7 71 &.,-~ol,,.. ~front7""'1 f0 91W DIMilltNIIIEquallty, Tut...OK 7412$ Dennis R. Neill Equality, Tulsa, OK 7412& Fair Housing: Legal Aid Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. -------- Gender Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. o i i 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... GREEN COUNTRY . BEARS Scout Troop 7484 Green Country Bears Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Free HIV Test:ing Every Tuesday from4pm - &pml FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Fruity Pebbles Fruity Pebbles is for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth ages 13 to 17. ?⚧❤?????????? Every ✨Saturday from 1PM to 5PM✨ Fruity Pebbles gives youth opportunities for peer support, skill building, leadership learning, advocacy work, mutualaid organizing, socializing, and fun! Participation is free, and a snack/lunch is provided. For questions, please email shay.brewer@okeq.org for parent/guardian enrollment. This group meets every Saturday of the month at 1pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Lawyer in th~ [ibrary Na Gender Qgrrection ::":.:.-:.::.:·;::::..:-:·.:,"m 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ....,. ~:;:1~!~:.t-~ _______ OKIA H m ,tA, l sc . tat . .... - - . . . . . . JulieLGo,eewithl.e9,,lAid Se<vicesof --:71 Oklahoma is available for drOl) ln discussions / regarding lega l issues. I DennkR.Nelll[quallty.Tuisa,OK74128 Lawyer in the Library Clinic Oklahoma for Equa lity Law Center is hosting a clinic for name and 7 oenderco<rections. Can'\ makeitinpe,-son?conract inf~kequali1ylaw.comtoschedu!e a consultation by Zoom. i--,, SKOnd ........-y of rtt. --'''-~-"_,m_.,_•~-'-"'.;; "'"' - ·- - - - - - - - ' -,,fro,nS.,3SPMro 7PM Dennls R.Neill Equallty.Tuls.a.OK74128 Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok.org Phone (918)295-9429. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ SENIORS ( OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month from 7 to 8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Relationships Outside the Box Our monthly meet-ups are come-and-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Relationships Outside the Box Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. TULSA AREA PRIME TIMERS Asocia!o,ganizationformature-minoed GayandBlse,ualmen 71 A tcX"lal organization for matu~ rnlnd9d~andbisex1,1;11,....,10 ftUbllshlriendshipand$l,ll)l)Ol't llvvugt,10Cialln1.,Ktion AttendNs must be 21 ye.,rs or l'wwy---,n-.,,o1 _ ____. . . . . . . . ,,_7Nllio ..... Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for mature-minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 , OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRIJ&S First Qnd third SQturdQy of the month from 12noon - 6pm Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGAL AID t SERVICES OF ti. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGAL AID t SERVICES OF =ti. OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS action 1n a program of centerlink OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navigators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of ActionLink: A program of CenterLink. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Actionlink 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org/ healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Are you a young adult experiencing homelessness or housing instability? \IIJfi Get h e l p . applying for S upplemental A • : ~!~~'ti::ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. You may qualify for the Tulsa Hi gher Education Consortium 's Rapid Rehousing Program. Program requirements include: • Being ages 18-24 • Experiencing homelessness or at-risk of homelessness • Interested in enrolling or currently enrolled in one of the 9 colleges and universities that are in the Consortium Call toll-free to 1.18ZZl.l§.Q:filH 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: contact a Tul sa Higher Education Consortium Housing Navigator by emailing jjones@tulsahighered.com / sbrantley@tulsahighered.com Complete this form to be connected to a Housing Navigator: TULSA HIGHER EDUCATION Learn more at bungerfreeok ocg/resourcestsnap/ CONSORTIUM www.tulsahighered.com 11 I II OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:53 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Whitney Cipolla - President Paula Shannon - Vice President Eddie Carreno - Treasurer Yonah Jasper - Secretary Kaylyn Compton - Member at Large Board of Directors William Bonney Zoe Brett Grace Fallon Julia Fletcher Ben Matthews Lollie Moore Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Kasey Rhone Kylie Vanderslice Staff Andi Gunter - Deputy Director Kao Morris - Marketing & Outreach Coordinator Shay Brewer - Program & Event Coordinator Beverly Cotton - Grant & Development Coordinator Lily Pina - APRN, NP-C - Family Nurse Practitioner Eli Saunders - Theater & Event Manager Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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Title A name given to the resource [2024] OKEQ eNews https://history.okeq.org/files/original/534cffa08b82fec10c2dd013894df979.pdf 24d2640b98aac8ef8e9bb3cae4859f1e PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Honoring the Memory of Fernande Galindo: Caring for Our Community Our community is mourning the loss of a true friend today. Fern was a one-ofa-kind human being, a true force for good in our community. They had a remarkable gift for bringing people together, building relationships, and supporting networks wherever they went. Fern's heart was open wide, and they would drop everything to help a needy friend. They embodied the spirit of compassion. Fern’s dedication to a better, more inclusive world was truly inspiring. Known for their community service and advocacy, Fern founded several advocacy groups in Tulsa while working three jobs and single-parenting three neurodivergent and queer children. Their advocacy work includes founding the Tulsa Intersectional Care Network (TICN), a mutual aid organization that helps Tulsans in need access economic, social, and health resources among others. 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fern was the embodiment of selflessness. They would give you the shirt off their back, and their commitment to their friends and the communities they built was unwavering. Sadly, Fern left us too soon, leaving their chosen family in Tulsa, OK, in deep grief and shock. Yet, in a testament to Fern's incredible impact, their chosen Tulsa family rallied to honor their memory. Within hours, their chosen family in St. Louis also joined in to offer support. In this challenging time, we must unite as a community and prioritize our mental health and well-being. Grief is a heavy burden, and we should remember that we are not alone. If you are struggling, please reach out to your community for support. Together, we can heal and carry Fern's legacy forward. As we remember Fern, we honor their memory by caring for one another. Their children's immediate needs are a priority, and we would like to ask you to consider supporting them if you can. Any contribution, no matter the size, will make a difference. In the spirit of Fern's kindness and dedication, let us remember them as a beacon of love and activism. May their memory be a source of inspiration and strength for our community. If you would like support or someone to talk to, please don't hesitate to contact OKEQ. Your mental health and well-being matter, and you are loved and valued. Thank you for taking the time to read and share this message. Let's come together and lift each other during this difficult time. As we remember and honor Fern, let us unite as a community to celebrate their impact on our lives and those they touched. In their memory, let us work toward a more equitable society, ensuring everyone knows they are loved, wanted, and valued. For those in our community who may be struggling, please don't hesitate to reach out for support. Below, you will find a list of resources that Fern would have wanted to share: • National Mental Health Lifeline: Call or text 988 It provides 24/7, free, and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals in the United States. • COPES: 918.744.4800 If you're in crisis and need immediate help, adults and children can call COPES at • Trans Lifeline: 877.565.8860 A peer support phone service run by trans people for our trans and questioning peers. Call us if you need someone trans to talk to, even if you’re not in a crisis or are not sure you’re trans. • LGBTQ National Hotline: 888.843.4564 Serves callers of all ages, 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... offering peer counseling, information, and local resources. • Al Carlozzi Center for Counseling: 918-594-8568 or online Let's carry forward Fern's compassion and activism spirit as we build a more inclusive and supportive community. New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 17th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, October 20th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. •J•·: ....,.. CENTER of EXCELLENCE - " - LGIITD+NNAVIOIIAL......._fl+IOUITY ,ii:';, Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages: 14-19 lstGro~:C,~~g~ st 25t h NOW OFFERING ~'~-~;~ti~•.• ..,.rr1 ~r~1fllf : ..' I . r:1 r L!J t,. • ·-~ • iJ a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy- based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Register Here the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Special Events Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets V ... .. . Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! 4)once of t{)e 4)eob en ml,}il'e CBoU - 621 E. tffH Sfll EET ---.T=U IS = A. OK 7='•12""0'-_ _ Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! N:::.~~~R 3PM-6PM SHOW ■ AGES r:, L:J . 10&UNDER . . WORKSHOP 12PM-3PM AWARDS Saturday, November 4th | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to assist you in bringing your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Ofdahoma will be assisting LGSTQ+ community with fair hoosins· scour rr<ooP 7131 5COUfTROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS ANO TRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH ,VERY THVllSDAY OF TH, MONTH 6'30pM .;,. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTO+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1' 0 ¥01111 Bi 1 ,rjt1Je ll.~tt~r _ __.~~ ~~!!.-"!!.-"~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "i:f'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§~ □~ □"IT' 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP - ~lID]])I]XIDlru ®rf®l!U]]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ persons. knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. • • ecialists are ava1lab • Ie to help you apply for SNAP apphcat1on sp . . bout 20 minutes. or renew SNAP benefits m a 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol: Learn more at hungedreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:13 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed O O G & Q i> Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:13 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/5c9b062a4f235df8f9a4d3d24411049c.pdf c553fbd3396bc888a68c3aa3c5a914e6 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Now More Than Ever We Need You! Join Us in Building a More Inclusive Oklahoma Donate Today! Dear Friends, I hope this email finds you in good health and high spirits. As we mark the milestones of another successful Gala and Tulsa Pride this year, Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) continues in its vital mission — To seek equal rights for Two-Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, and plus (2SLGBTQIA) individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We also hold the distinction of being the most comprehensive non-profit organization in the region and operating the 7th largest community center in the nation dedicated to 2SLGBTQIA+ focused human rights, services, and advocacy. However, we cannot do this work alone. Our success depends on the alliances of fellow community service partners, and most importantly, the generosity and support of individuals and business partners like you who share our vision for a more tolerant and compassionate Oklahoma. To continue meeting our mission under the hostile national and state-level legislative climate targeting our communities, we kindly ask for your assistance in the form of a one-time or recurring donation to help continue and further our vital work. 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your contribution will directly impact the lives of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families here in Tulsa and across the state. With your support, we can: Strengthen Advocacy: Advocate for equal rights, protection against discrimination, and fair representation in policies and legislation. Empower Youth and Seniors: Provide a nurturing environment for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth and seniors, offering mentorship, counseling, and educational resources. Offer Support Services: Extend assistance to those in need through support groups, mental health counseling, and crisis intervention. Foster Community: Organize events, workshops, and social gatherings that promote inclusivity and bridge gaps between different communities. Promote Education: Raise awareness and understanding through educational programs, seminars, and outreach initiatives. Your donation, no matter the size, will make a meaningful difference in the lives of countless individuals who rely on OkEq for support, empowerment, and hope. Donating is easy; simply visit our website at https://okeq.org/donate to contribute securely online. If you prefer, you can also mail your donation with the memo notated for “Operations” to the address below: Oklahomans for Equality 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We are a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, and all contributions are taxdeductible to the extent allowed by law. On behalf of the entire team at OkEq and the 2SLGBTQIA+ community we serve, we extend our heartfelt gratitude for your continued support. Together, let's continue building a more inclusive, loving, and accepting Oklahoma. Thank you for your generosity and compassion! Sincerely, Dorothy Ballard Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality www.okeq.org Phone: (918) 743-4297 Please follow us on social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram) @OklahomansforEquality to stay updated on our latest events, success stories, and opportunities to get involved! Donate Now Special Events Coming Up 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 1st | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Queer Walking Group Wednesday, August 2nd | 7a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join a new Queer walking group and take part in their weekly meetups! Every Wednesday at 7am, weather permitting, on the La Fortune Park Trail. Come along and enjoy a refreshing and energizing morning walk. For more information, contact Miki at mikismagikals@gmail.com. Housin of otlahoma wm be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 2nd | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 RSVP https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Queer Women Collective Wednesday, August 2nd | 5.30p The Max Retropub 114 S Elgin Ave, Tulsa, OK Is anyone up for some pop rocks and skeeball?! We will see you at @themaxretropub on 8/2! Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie Tuesday, August 3rd | 6p - 9p 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rules-sloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. My focus now is healing from a traumatic situation via a deepening practice of self-compassion. You will see themes of compassionate self-talk and learning to trust self in the Love Yo Self show and I hope it can inspire others to find the self-compassion to heal from traumatic experiences. I also have a fascination for AI art and am curious as to how it will evolve into our lives, good and bad. I will be sharing some of my favorite AI art pieces and inviting guests to start a discussion about what they think of AI art. First Thursdays Gallery Openings: Discover the heart and soul behind the art at our First Thursdays gallery openings. Meet the brilliant artists in person, and engage in fascinating conversations about their creative process. While you indulge your senses in the mesmerizing artwork, we'll pamper your taste buds with delectable snacks and refreshing drinks. Join us and let this artistic journey inspire you to embrace and "Love Yo' Self!" For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/art-gallery.html - -- - --------- ---- ---- or follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery. - -- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Take advantage of this exceptional artistic experience! See you there! scour rrzooP 71S1 5COIJT1ROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND 1RAN5INONBINARY YOUTH ,v,RY TMRSD~Y OF m, MONT~ 6,30pw, .;.. ---- 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Thursday, August 3rd | 6.30p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. ASL 101 Saturday, August 5th | 10.30a-12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Embark on an exciting and captivating American Sign Language course at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to begin your learning journey! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a fun and interactive American Sign Language (ASL) class every Saturday at 10:30am til August 19th. For more information, please get in touch with Yonah at yonah.sienna@gmail.com. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, August 8th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie can answer basic questions on 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. RSVP If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. - - Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 9th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Focus Group Discussion 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... COVIfJ # WE MEED YOUR VOICE! WHEN: FRIDAY, 8/11/23 TIME: 5:JOPM-7:00 PM YWCA TULSA 1910 S. LEWIS A VE. E ALITY Business Alliance If you would like to host a mixer, EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 16th |6p Ingredion Incorporated 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Join us for our EBA Mixer with Ingredion Ingredion Incorporated is an 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Presents Swing West! Thursday, August 17th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get your tickets today! Oklahomans For Equality Affirm Friday, August 18th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to helo LGBTO+ vouth We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... manage stress. ~;-•:: ••r.• CENTER of EXCELLENCE .,,.._ lG.TQ•lfMAVIOAAlMIEALTMfOUITV ~ Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages:14-19 lstGroupAugust NOW OFFERING 18,6pm 10-12 weeks Jllf Upto15 participants ~r~, .,.rrt a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. l!lH.1,_:., 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Free to Participate Register Here TULSA RE~LLY.z REALLY FRE1: MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 18th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts from 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! RSVP Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ----- --- --- - ~ ,, TULSA PRIDE ~ BHN0 0 Ever~ third So.turdo.~ of the month. Doors open o.t 6:30 pm. TI CKETS AVA ILABLE ,H WWW.OkEQ.ORG Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, August 19th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tickets around! Mark your calendars for every third Saturday of the month! Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. The OIT U Mentorship Program application process is underway for the Fall 2023 cohort! Deadline to Apply: August 20, 2023 (we encourage applying as soon as possible). Out in Tech U’s Mentorship Program pairs LGBTQ+ youth aged 17-24 with tech professionals from Out in Tech’s membership. Each mentee is paired with a mentor to learn a mix of technical and professional skills needed for launching a successful career in tech. The Fall 2023 cohort for Out in Tech U starts in October and runs for 8 consecutive weeks. Mentees will work towards the completion of a project throughout the program. Mentee Application Time Requirements: 3 hours per week with some upfront training and kickoff preparation. Mentorship generally consists of two x 1-hour one-on-one sessions. We strongly encourage women, Black, Latinx, and transgender/nonbinary / or gender non-conforming individuals to apply for mentor and mentee roles. Know someone? Pass this on! 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRES ENTS OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK lfp~;!r~ S H OW 02,2023 ~AGES ~ 13-18 Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE REGISTER HERE For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP GN UP Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! ~~-''T. '' ! ' ! ... ,~"...--.~ Tulsa Equality Game Night ,:i' ··a AMENIGHT EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Flyover Fest 2023 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. Na!,.1CY &Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Medicaid 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -ci=-f- OKEO HEALTH -ci=-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tom Burton 1/18/1948 - 7/10/2023 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1' 0 YOlli Bi 1 ,~t1Je lL~tt~r ___. ~~ ~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and ~ ~ ~ ~ ~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "IT'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§~ □~ □"IT' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ®®rncll®IP ~Dnl])I]XIDlru @rP®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners hone • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 ■ testing Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA O RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. \IS'1 Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: ~ ~~ Learn more at hungedreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington 4/29/26, 12:00 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:00 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/16cd293b903f0fb69087be937a4aaa19.pdf e86fa5f6b3c36874a1d3f1722e15d319 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Now More Than Ever We Need You! Join Us in Building a More Inclusive Oklahoma Donate Today! Dear Friends, I hope this email finds you in good health and high spirits. As we mark the milestones of another successful Gala and Tulsa Pride this year, Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) continues in its vital mission — To seek equal rights for Two-Spirit, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, and plus (2SLGBTQIA) individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We also hold the distinction of being the most comprehensive non-profit organization in the region and operating the 7th largest community center in the nation dedicated to 2SLGBTQIA+ focused human rights, services, and advocacy. However, we cannot do this work alone. Our success depends on the alliances of fellow community service partners, and most importantly, the generosity and support of individuals and business partners like you who share our vision for a more tolerant and compassionate Oklahoma. To continue meeting our mission under the hostile national and state-level legislative climate targeting our communities, we kindly ask for your assistance in the form of a one-time or recurring donation to help continue and further our vital work. 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your contribution will directly impact the lives of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families here in Tulsa and across the state. With your support, we can: Strengthen Advocacy: Advocate for equal rights, protection against discrimination, and fair representation in policies and legislation. Empower Youth and Seniors: Provide a nurturing environment for 2SLGBTQIA+ youth and seniors, offering mentorship, counseling, and educational resources. Offer Support Services: Extend assistance to those in need through support groups, mental health counseling, and crisis intervention. Foster Community: Organize events, workshops, and social gatherings that promote inclusivity and bridge gaps between different communities. Promote Education: Raise awareness and understanding through educational programs, seminars, and outreach initiatives. Your donation, no matter the size, will make a meaningful difference in the lives of countless individuals who rely on OkEq for support, empowerment, and hope. Donating is easy; simply visit our website at https://okeq.org/donate to contribute securely online. If you prefer, you can also mail your donation with the memo notated for “Operations” to the address below: Oklahomans for Equality 621 E. 4th Street Tulsa, OK 74120 We are a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, and all contributions are taxdeductible to the extent allowed by law. On behalf of the entire team at OkEq and the 2SLGBTQIA+ community we serve, we extend our heartfelt gratitude for your continued support. Together, let's continue building a more inclusive, loving, and accepting Oklahoma. Thank you for your generosity and compassion! Sincerely, Dorothy Ballard Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality www.okeq.org Phone: (918) 743-4297 Please follow us on social media (Facebook, Twitter, Instagram) @OklahomansforEquality to stay updated on our latest events, success stories, and opportunities to get involved! Donate Now Special Events Coming Up 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 8th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, August 8th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. RSVP Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. LaFo,tune Pa,k -= Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. ~ Queer Walking Group 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 UEER https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, August 9th | 7a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join a new Queer walking group and take part in their weekly meetups! Every Wednesday at 7am, weather permitting, on the La Fortune Park Trail. Come along and enjoy a refreshing and energizing morning walk. For more information, contact Miki at mikismagikals@gmail.com. Housin of otlohomo will be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 9th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 9th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, August 9th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ( The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals. Ages 18+. As part of our enrollment process, we request that all interested participants undergo a first-time interview before attending their initial meeting. We recommend arriving early and letting the front desk know you are here for the discussion to facilitate this process. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 71S1 5COUTTROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND TRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH fVeRY TMRSDAY OF Tfff MO/JTff 6,30 pw, Thursday, August 10th | 6.30p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... :- . ,• '! ...... .. ::_'.~~· Sl"PPORT CO. •. "EC r,o. • GRO 0 H ....... . call or t~nu ii for mor<• in format ion ASL 101 Saturday, August 12th | 10.30a-12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Embark on an exciting and 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... captivating American Sign Language course at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to begin your learning journey! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a fun and interactive American Sign Language (ASL) class every Saturday at 10:30am til August 19th. For more information, please get in touch with Yonah at yonah.sienna@gmail.com. Focus Group Discussion # WE MEED YOUR VOICE! WHEM: FRIDAY, 8/11/23 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... YWCA TULSA 1910 S. LEWIS A VE. EBA Mixer with Inheritance Juicery Wednesday, August 16th |6p Inheritance Juicery 108 S Detroit Ave, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm We would love to continue to grow and expand our reach to bring organic, cold-pressed juice to towns all over Oklahoma. Whether it is an Inheritance Juicery or another organic juice bar, we hope to one day see as many health-focused food options as we see fast-food restaurants. We want to inspire other businesses to choose quality over convenience and people over profit. We hope to inspire communities t want health, honesty, courage, and honor. inheritancejuicery.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 .– 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Presents Swing West! Thursday, August 17th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get your tickets today! Oklahomans For Equality Affirm Friday, August 18th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. ~:~ ··: ~ Affirmative t •f.i CENTER of EXCELLENCE > , . LG&lQ•8lHAVIOIIALHIALTHIQUlfY ~ RESEARCH Ages:14-19 lstGroupAugust NOW OFFERING 18,6pm 10-12 weeks ftlf Upto15 ~f!~, participants .,.rrt [!] ,._ a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Free to Participate Register Here TULSA RE LLY.a REALLY FRE1: MARKET A Community Sharing Event I 621 E. 4th St Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! RSVP We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 18th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts from 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, August 19th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Ever~ third Saturda~ of the month. Doors open at 6:30 pm. TICKETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OICEQ.ORG ~m~ "' Tickets HN Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year around! Mark your calendars for every third Saturday of the month! Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. The OIT U Mentorship Program application process is underway for the Fall 2023 cohort! Deadline to Apply: August 20, 2023 (we encourage applying as soon as possible). Out in Tech U’s Mentorship Program pairs LGBTQ+ youth aged 17-24 with tech professionals from Out in Tech’s membership. Each mentee is paired with a mentor to learn a mix of technical and professional skills needed for launching a successful career in tech. 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Fall 2023 cohort for Out in Tech U starts in October and runs for 8 consecutive weeks. Mentees will work towards the completion of a project throughout the program. Mentee Application Time Requirements: 3 hours per week with some upfront training and kickoff preparation. Mentorship generally consists of two x 1-hour one-on-one sessions. We strongly encourage women, Black, Latinx, and transgender/nonbinary / or gender non-conforming individuals to apply for mentor and mentee roles. Know someone? Pass this on! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie Through August 31st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rulessloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS OKEQ Youth Talent Show V f t 11 T U 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK lfp~;!r: SHOW 02,2023 ~AGES 13-18 iiil Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP ~~~ GN UP Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Register Here -;-:;~'7. ', f' ! .... -:...~~·~ ...... Tulsa Equality Game Night [3/),'i/.~.&ili.'ll:ill,~'i/. , ,.i-' GAME NIGHT EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming A BENEIII FDR OKIAHOMANS FDR IQUAIITY FLYOVER FEST 2023 NOVEMBER 17™ -191H .of1/1' VFW POST 5n - TULSA, OK ~Jllll ol tnl(~ TBAONB/1 l'IZn~ 7(t HES'l'lu\lNJN(.. 1,1;. -'J.21 C)llDl~ll 8 I8 Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. II MOURNING STIIR - IINKLEBITER - BIIZOOKIITOOTH - BRIil 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurrn 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tom Burton 1/18/1948 - 7/10/2023 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broug11lt T10 Yott Bi T lt1J@; IL~ t t ~ it 1 -~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 0[i:::!)@)0~0@(!:D§ § ~~ 'v'MC!:::,s& 'v'W@ = §lPD~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncfil®lf ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @lf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Outside the Box Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... make an appointment today. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jlst} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for :~!~~\i:;ce A • P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors 4/29/26, 12:01 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:01 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/e0c85a889f270c787986ae3a4636a166.pdf 2e5898f813fbd220860bc5abc09a878b PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 15th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Queer Walking Group Wednesday, August 16th | 7a LaFortune Park Trail 5202 S Hudson Ave, Tulsa, OK Join a new Queer walking group and take part in their weekly meetups! 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Wednesday at 7 am, weather permitting, on the La Fortune Park Trail. Come along and enjoy a refreshing and energizing morning walk. For more information, contact Miki at mikismagikals@gmail.com. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, August 16th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals. Ages 18+. As part of our enrollment process, we ask that all interested participants undergo a first-time interview before attending their first meeting. We recommend arriving early and letting the front desk know you are here for the discussion to facilitate this process. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 74-g4- SCOUTTIWOP IS OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS AND 1RANS/NONBINARY YOlfTH fVfRY THURSD~Y OF Tfff MONTH 6:30pW1 Thursday, August 17th | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ --- Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Presents Swing West! Thursday, August 17th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get your tickets today! Oklahomans For Equality Affirm Friday, August 18th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. '.. Affirmative ~:-• .CENTER of EXCELLENCE ~ ~ RESEARCH LGaTQ• • EH ...YIO RALH&ALTH EQUITT Ages:14-19 lstGroupAugust NOW OFFERING 18,6pm 10-12 weeks Up to 15 We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 participants https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... f'T ,.,_, ./f a Cognitive Behavioral N W ~ ~ l ' ! I Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Free to Participate Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 18th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts from 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! ASL 101 Saturday, August 19th | 10.30a-12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Embark on an exciting and captivating American Sign Language course at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center to begin your learning journey! Join us at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for a fun and interactive American Sign Language (ASL) class every Saturday at 10:30am til August 19th. For more information, please get in touch with Yonah at yonah.sienna@gmail.com. TULSA RE LLY.z REALLY FRE1: MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ 111'1' , ~ ,ULSA PRIDE ... BHN© O . Ever~ third So.turdo.~ of the month. Doors open o.t 6:30 pm. TICKETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OICEQ.ORG ~ m~ "' Tickets HN Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, August 19th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year around! Mark your calendars for every third Saturday of the month! Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. The OIT U Mentorship Program application process is underway for the Fall 2023 cohort! Deadline to Apply: August 20, 2023 (we encourage applying as soon as possible). Out in Tech U’s Mentorship Program pairs LGBTQ+ youth aged 17-24 with tech professionals from Out in Tech’s membership. Each mentee is paired with a mentor to learn a mix of technical and professional skills 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... needed for launching a successful career in tech. The Fall 2023 cohort for Out in Tech U starts in October and runs for 8 consecutive weeks. Mentees will work towards the completion of a project throughout the program. Mentee Application Time Requirements: 3 hours per week with some upfront training and kickoff preparation. Mentorship generally consists of two x 1-hour one-on-one sessions. We strongly encourage women, Black, Latinx, and transgender/nonbinary / or gender non-conforming individuals to apply for mentor and mentee roles. Know someone? Pass this on! OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Tuesday, August 22nd l 10 am RSVP for address Members should meet on Tuesday, August 22, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center if they want to carpool to the party. Lunch at the pool party will be burgers and hot dogs. Participants are encouraged to bring side dishes, desserts, and drinks. The pool has a shallow end and a railing with steps to help people into the pool. If you would like to attend, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org to RSVP. Put "Pool Party" in the subject line. E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 24th |6p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie Through August 31st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rulessloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 ....... . c·all or <'Ill~ ii for more• in format ion OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS 3PM-6PM SEPTEMBER 02,2023 sHOw OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Show off your talent and skills at our 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! ~ AGES iii 13-18 Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP GN UP Register Here ~v":'1; f' ! .. .~-!.~-...: A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A ce's Committed to Equality All are welcome, Aces and Allies. Contact Tyger Songbird at TygerSongbird@gmail.com q O.W.llNeilE(ll,dilyCenttt Tuesday, September 5th l 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 1>21E•lh.St., Tuho,OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to get in touch with Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Equality Game Night W:,'u'.~.~ ~'u'. EVERYLASTTUESDAYOFTHEMONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! - 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... «.?JJI ll ll Zora Cates Lamb Oct. 31, 1924 - Aug. 11, 2023 Grandmother "Nona" of Olivia Cotter In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broug!1t 1' 0 Yo11i Bi 1 t1J ~ IL(?; t f (?; r ,~~~~ rj ~~!:,,"!:,,"~~ 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D[j::;!]@)0@10@(1[)§ § ~~ 7J"(1[J[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§[pO~O"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ~rncll@1r ~Dnl])]]XIDlfa @rf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. ....-.. - - -- - - 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jl l f.l Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq. org/ donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 4/29/26, 12:02 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:02 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/c64b5304e0b23b9c31972e13a0428d5a.pdf 855e3d57e5553de6b5fd90689295b69b PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up OKEQ Seniors Pool Party Canceled due to unforeseen circumstances Members should meet on Tuesday, August 22, at 10:00 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center as usual for coffee. If you have any questions, please email olivia.cotter@okeq.org. FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 22nd | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK kc H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Queer Walking Group Wednesday, August 23rd | 7a LaFortune Park Trail 5202 S Hudson Ave, Tulsa, OK Join a new Queer walking group and take part in their weekly meetups! Every Wednesday at 7 am, weather permitting, on the La Fortune Park Trail. Come along and enjoy a refreshing and energizing morning walk. For more information, contact Miki at mikismagikals@gmail.com. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 23rd | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP E ALITY usiness Alliance Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 24th |6p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rr<ooP 74-g4- 5COIJ1"1ROOP 15 OPEN m All GIRL5 AND 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOU1H .VERY rttuRSD~Y OF rtt, MONTH Thursday, August 24th | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 6,30 PIM Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality Affirm Friday, August 25th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... manage stress. ~ ... \-1.-•CENTER of EXCELLENCE A .. G.TQ• 111:MAVIORAI..MIAI.TM t:OUITY ~ Affirmative W RESEARCH Ages:14-19 lstGroupAugust NOW OFFERING 18,6pm 10-12 weeks lllf Upto15 participants ~r~, -,.rrt a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Free to Participate Register Here available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie Through August 31st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rulessloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. PASSAGES 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Runs thru August 31st Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Celebrated filmmaker Ira Sachs (Love is Strange) makes a breathtaking return with PASSAGES, a fresh, honest, and brutally funny take on messy, modern relationships, starring Franz Rogowski (Great Freedom), Ben Whishaw (Women Talking) and Adèle Exarchopoulos (Blue Is the Warmest Colour). Set in Paris, this seductive drama tells the story of Tomas (Rogowski) and Martin (Whishaw), a gay couple whose marriage is thrown into crisis when Tomas begins a passionate affair with Agathe (Exarchopoulos), a younger woman he meets after completing his latest film. Trailer Tickets OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. Register Here 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS lrp~;!r~ S HOW 02,2023 • AGES . 13-18 AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP GN UP ½-''7. '' ! ' 1.,. -:.~-·•'-~ A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A ce's Committed to Equality All are welcome, Aces and Allies. Contact Tyger Songbi rd at TygerSongbird@gmail.com DannilRNoilE<IU<lfity-Cer>10< q. Tuesday, September 5th l 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 1>2\E41h.St., T......_OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to get in touch with Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, September 6th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ( The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. This preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. TULSA RE LLY.z REALLYFREc MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, September 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ II'"' ,ULSA PRIDE .,, ~ BHN0 0 Saturday, September 16th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Ever~ third Saturda~ of the month. Doors open at 6:30 pm. TICKETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OICEQ.ORG ~m~ lyf Tickets Tulsa Pride Bingo "" Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year around! Mark your calendars for every third Saturday of the month! Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is the last meeting of our current fiscal year, and we will be electing the officers for the next fiscal year. We would love to have members of the community come. Self Defense Class 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FENSE s~ SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 23RD Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 1:00 PM Tulsa Equality Game Night ,i' GAMENIGH'T EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming ~ance of t{)e ~eab en ml,)ire Q,afl 621 E. tffH Sfll EET TU ISA, O K 7,,_ ,,1._.2,, 0_ _ _ _ Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Vendor Signup readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Sl.PPORT c◄O . •. ·..:c rto. • CiRO H o 'rul.· 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... <·all or t~mail for mor<' informal ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-<r- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-<r- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoriaum Zora Cates Lamb Oct. 31, 1924 - Aug. 11, 2023 Grandmother "Nona" of Olivia Cotter Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac.. OKEQ Programming ~~il~1J ~Tl{rL J9 ffilOj\ OrL i11il1noi9 ((A a Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) 15 of 23 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D[j::;!]@)0@10@(1[)§§~~ 7J"(1[J[b,§£ 7J"W@=§[p0~07J" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncfil®lf ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @lf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Outside the Box Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... make an appointment today. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jlst} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for :~!~~\i:;ce A • P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors 4/29/26, 12:03 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:03 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/6a74618a7e28acefe4b8a6318207bb77.pdf 2aa09a6a2c203583b110459455ebc5da PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up OKEQ Seniors Movie Day Tuesday, August 29th | 10a-12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ? Calling all movie enthusiasts over 55! ? Join us for a fantastic movie day hosted by OKEQ Seniors. ? Mark your calendars for Tuesday, August 29th, at 10 a.m. Enjoy a morning of films, drinks, snacks, and wonderful community vibes. ?? We can't wait to see you there! Don't miss out on the fun. ? FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, August 29th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin of Oldahoma will be ossistins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, August 30th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 74-g4- 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRL5 AND lRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH €VfRY Tff~RSMY OF Tff€ MO/JTff Thursday, August 31st | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 630 pw, Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Chandra Valkyrie 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Through August 31st Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK My name is Chandra Valkyrie, and I'm a visionary artist. My approach to art revolves around my mental health, as I find it incredibly therapeutic to allow my emotions to spill onto whatever object I can find in a colorful, full-bleed, no-rulessloppy-mandala style. To achieve this, I often use the surrealist automatism method of art-making, which involves suppressing conscious control over the process and letting the unconscious mind take over. Because of the therapeutic way I create, themes from events from my life will spill out onto my current artwork. PASSAGES Runs thru August 31st Circle Cinema 10 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK Celebrated filmmaker Ira Sachs (Love is Strange) makes a breathtaking return with PASSAGES, a fresh, honest, and brutally funny take on messy, modern relationships, starring Franz Rogowski (Great Freedom), Ben Whishaw (Women Talking) and Adèle Exarchopoulos (Blue Is the Warmest Colour). Set in Paris, this seductive drama tells the story of Tomas (Rogowski) and Martin (Whishaw), a gay couple whose marriage is thrown into crisis when Tomas begins a passionate affair with Agathe (Exarchopoulos), a younger woman he meets after completing his latest film. 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Trailer Tickets Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 1st |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. ~ ;: ~ CENTER of EXCELLENCE L~TQ+ ...IIAYIOIIALHUJ.THlQUITY ,~ ~ Affirmative iif =~~~~No RE SEARCH -....:. ,• ....,_,_,.,._,.,_ ,.,,...,,.0,,, .. _ •. .,., Ages: 14-19 lstG,o~:o~~g~ ,t 25th NOW OFFERING ~~::_:;,@ AFFllllf :r:1..~r- •·-~• L!J t,, a Cognitive Behavioral iJ Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS 3PM-6PM SEPTEMBER 02,2023 • sHOw AGES . 13-18 We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 3:00 PM. AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP GN UP Register Here ;-~-''7:. '. ! ' ( ':.~-"'- ~ ....... ~ A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A ce's Committed to Equality All are welcome, Aces and Allies. . Contact Tyger Songbi rd at TygerSongbird@gmail.com 0-W..ll.WE.,..,,i;tyCenttt 1>21Elolh.Sl., Tulto,OK q Tuesday, September 5th l 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to get in touch with Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, September 6th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. This 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Tulsa Really Really Free Market TULSA RE L~Y.z REALLYFREc MARKET Saturday, September 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ------ --- Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, September 16th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Ever8 third Sa.turda.8 of the month. Doors open a.t 6:30 pm. TICKETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OKEQ.ORG ~ m~ lyl" HU Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year around! Mark your calendars for 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... every third Saturday of the month! Tickets Join us for an evening filled with mouth-watering pizza and exciting prizes from our Equality Business Alliance members on Saturday, August 19th. Our EBA member, Empire Slice House Tulsa, will provide delicious pizzas for your indulgence. You will be entertained by an incredible lineup of performers, including Anita Richards, Josie Turelle, 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Nakita Fierce! If you want to experience it; doors open at 6:30 pm. OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK It is the last meeting of our current fiscal year, and we will be electing the officers for the next fiscal year. We would love to have members of the community come. Self Defense Class ~ SATURDAY Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK SEPTEMBER 23R ? Enhance your self-defense skills in a safe and supportive environment. Join us for an empowering selfdefense class tailored for the transgender community. ? Our expert instructors will guide you through practical techniques and strategies. ? Don't miss this opportunity to prioritize your safety. 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming E ALITY Business Alliance Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Thursday, September 28th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm (:3)ance of t{>e (:3)eab The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... S 11. NEI LL EQUA LITY CENTER 621 E. l,TH STUEET TULSA OK 71,~12~0:__ _ ,_ Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Tickets Vendor Signup Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... &:===¾le===sJ Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Sl.PPORT c◄ O . •. ·..:c r,o. • CiRO H 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~i ti( p o 'rul.· c·ull or t~nu ii for mor<• in format ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Zora Cates Lamb Oct. 31, 1924 - Aug. 11, 2023 Grandmother "Nona" of Olivia Cotter Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'0 V Olll Bi 1' lte Letter 1 1 Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... X OKEQ m:;:::!J@J0@!0@QJJ§ § ~~ 'lr'QJJC!::::.§£ 7J"W@=§[p0~07J" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~lIDIJ)I]XIDlru -@rP©l!UIJ) Gener Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ~ •T ++ -.-, ~ ...l 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... uK h ll T + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... \:iet help_ ___ S upplementa l applying for A • : ~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/29/26, 12:04 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up A ce's Committed to Equality All are welcome, Aces and Allies. Contact Tyger Songbi rd at TygerSongbird@gmail.com O.V...llNeilE~c.nttt A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, September 5th l 5 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 1>2\E 4th.St., Tuha,OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to get in touch with Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, September 5th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin of otlohomo will be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, September 6th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, September 6th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... engage in an initial interview. This preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 71S1 5COIJT1ROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND mAN51NONBINARY YOUTH fVfRY TMRSD~Y OF m, MONT~ 6,30 pw, Thursday, September 7th | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK .;. ---- Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 8th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. --~~ • ·ceNTER of EXCELLENCE LG. .O+U:IIAVIOltALHUJ.THlQUITY Ages: 14-19 lstGrn~:C,~~g~st25th NOW OFFERING ~l~i~)i~ ~~~,fllf :~ ..~ -- -.--~_.• .,.rr1 r:1 r • • L!J t,. iJ a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to We are thrilled to share the news that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. The AFFIRM practice models were hAln LGRTO+ vnuth 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 I https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework aimed at ensuring the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This amazing program lasts 10-12 weeks and has plenty of room for up to 15 participants. Don't miss out on this incredible opportunity! Blackjack Rewrite Company presents THE DIVINE RESIGNS Fridays & Saturdays September 8th, 9th, 15th, & 16th |7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A New Musical Comedy Book by Ilan Kozlowski Original Music by Patrick Savage Directed by George Romero Vocal Direction by David Rowe Choreography by David Rickel & David Rowe Bring a friend, and be a part of the jury determining the fate of Humanity! Tickets When The Divine suddenly decides NOT to renew the lease with Planet Earth, his lawyer finds a clause giving humanity the right to defend itself before going the way of the dinosaur. A trial in Paradise will decide humanity's fate. Meanwhile, the Devil and his sexy secretary plot to steal Earth for themselves. This terrific cast features the talents of Alex Isaak, Kendon Henry, Andrew Smith, Brian Grace, Paulette Record, and Ashe Baileigh - plus a host of other excellent Tulsa performers. 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 TULSA REALLrY.1 REALLY JFRE1: MARKET A Community Shoring Event I 621 E. ~th St Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-~p Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, September 9th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ----- --- --- - Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Email julie.goree@laok.org. ---Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Queer Women's Collective: September Happy Hour Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7.30p Cabin Boys Brewpub 223 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Cabin Boys has opened a Brew Pub on Main. It's all remodeled and pretty, with many beers, bottled sodas, cocktails, and a great new food menu! LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! There's a large patio as well if the weather cooperates. More Information 3 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 ~8_~0 ~ I ~ o ~W& INMENT' EM Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, September 16th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! Tickets E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Wednesday, September 20th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Community members are invited to attend the annual meeting for the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Directors. New Directors recommended by the Governance Committee will be voted on, as well as officers for the next fiscal year. The Board will also vote on updating the bylaws, which serve as the governing document for the Board. The meeting will be held on Thursday, September 21st at 6 PM in the Event Center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Self Defense Class Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ? Enhance your self-defense skills in a safe and supportive environment. Join us for an empowering selfdefense class tailored for the transgender community. ? Our expert instructors will guide you 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 FOR FURTHER INFORMATION CONTAC T MASTER MAC AT 918-464-877 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... through practical techniques and strategies. ? Don't miss this opportunity to prioritize your safety. Tulsa Equality Game Night @l\\'u'.~.&il\\llill,~'u'. ,.i-' --GAME NIGHT EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets ~ance of tpe ~cab en mµire ~aII Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... S 11. NEILL EQUA LITY CEl'ITER 621 E. t,TH STII EET TU LSA O K__1_7.'!1 '•1~20t 1.--- • 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Tickets Vendor Signup Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatKY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Sl"PPORT c◄O . •. ·..:c r,o • iRO H 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 ........ c·all or mm ii for more• informal ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Zora Cates Lamb Oct. 31, 1924 - Aug. 11, 2023 Grandmother "Nona" of Olivia Cotter Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'0 V Olll Bi 1' lte Letter 1 1 Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... X OKEQ m:;:::!J@J0@!0@QJJ§ § ~~ 'lr'QJJC!::::.§£ 7J"W@=§[p0~07J" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~lIDIJ)I]XIDlru -@rP©l!UIJ) Gener Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ~ •T ++ -.-, ~ ...l 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... uK h ll T + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... \:iet help_ ___ S upplementa l applying for A • : ~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/29/26, 12:05 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up Kelly A. Melvin presents "Artistic Detour Highly Divergent" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Artistic Detour Highly Divergent (ADHD) Through September 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This exhibit presents a glimpse of some of the random rabbit holes I fall into daily. Constant chaos swarms my mind; art is my creative outlet to express my feelings and process experiences. Join us today in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery for 'Artistic Detour Highly Divergent' (ADHD) from local artist Kelly A. Melvin. It’s an ongoing game of cat and mouse... some days, I’m the cat, and some days I’m the mouse. But today, I am the artist, and this is the world I live in. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, September 12th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, September 12th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, September 12th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, September 13th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... our resource. desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Queer Women's Collective: September Happy Hour Wednesday, September 13th | 5.30p-7.30p Cabin Boys Brewpub 223 N Main St., Tulsa, OK Cabin Boys has opened a Brew Pub on Main. It's all remodeled and pretty, with many beers, bottled sodas, cocktails, and a great new food menu! LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! There's a large patio as well if the weather cooperates. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rr<ooP 74-g4- 5COIJ1"1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRL5 AND 1RAN5INONBINARY YOLJrn. f:Vf:RY TffURSD~Y OF Tfff: MO/ITff Thursday, September 14th | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 6,30 PIM Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 15th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. •!~-•· ~ f.-•CENTER of EXCELLENCE _.Ai;. lfHTO•MHAVIOltAlHllAl,.TMlQUITY Ages: 14-19 lstG,o~:o~';,'~" 25'" NOW OFFERING ~~::Ji@ AFFllllf :r:1.., - ·-~ r L!J t,, • Iii ~•J a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-ba sed group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here Tulsa, OK We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! - •. EM I INMENT" Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, September 16th |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! Tickets Blackjack Rewrite Company presents THE DIVINE RESIGNS Fridays & Saturdays September 15th & 16th |7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A New Musical Comedy Book by Ilan Kozlowski Original Music by Patrick Savage Directed by George Romero Vocal Direction by David Rowe Choreography by David Rickel & David Rowe Bring a friend, and be a part of the jury determining the fate of Humanity! Tickets When The Divine suddenly decides NOT to renew the lease with Planet Earth, his lawyer finds a clause giving humanity the right to defend itself before going the way of the dinosaur. A trial in Paradise will decide humanity's fate. Meanwhile, the Devil and his sexy secretary plot to steal Earth for themselves. This terrific cast features the talents of Alex Isaak, Kendon Henry, Andrew Smith, Brian Grace, Paulette Record, and Ashe Baileigh - plus a host of other excellent Tulsa performers. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Aly & AJ Tuesday, September 19th |6.30 p Cain's Ballroom 423 N Main St, Tulsa, OK Aly & AJ are heading to Tulsa on their With Love From Tour! Catch the sister duo at Cain's Ballroom on September 19. Doors :: 6:30pm Show :: 7:30pm alyandaj.com Tickets E ALITY Business Alliance • Advance: $30+ • Day of Show: $32+ • Door: $41 • Mezzanine (21+): $55+ • "Love You This Way" Guided Stage Tour Experience: $580+ • "Tear The Night Up" Meet & Greet Experience: $229+ • "After Hours" VIP Experience: $129+ EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Wednesday, September 20th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... establishment or use The Equality Center. OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Community members are invited to attend the annual meeting for the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Directors. New Directors recommended by the Governance Committee will be voted on, as well as officers for the next fiscal year. The Board will also vote on updating the bylaws, which serve as the governing document for the Board. The meeting will be held on Thursday, September 21st at 6 PM in the Event Center at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Self Defense Class ~ SATURDAY Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK SEPTEMBER 23R ? Enhance your self-defense skills in a safe and supportive environment. Join us for an empowering selfdefense class tailored for the transgender community. ? Our expert instructors will guide you through practical techniques and strategies. ? Don't miss this opportunity to prioritize your safety. Tulsa Equality Game Night ~'u'o@IYilj)o@i6Jllill. llffi§'i.\'u'o Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, October 4th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ( The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. This preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. ------- -- -4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - ------ --- Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets ~ance of t{)e ~eab en m:pite ~au 621 E. l,TH STll EET TULSA. OK 711"-"' 120, __ _ Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Tickets Vendor Signup Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. NatxY&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Volunteer Sign-up Library Catalog Sl"PPORT c·o. •. ·t.:c 1'10. • iRO H 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0 ........ c·all or <'Ill~ ii for mor<• informal ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ m:;:::!J@JO@!O@QJJ§§~~ "iJ"QJJ[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§!PD~O"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get .\1st} h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!~~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Ca ll toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists ca ll you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espafiol: 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~ Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:06 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:06 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/a4b1fd7cabca66250e9230b4db366bb9.pdf 778008acf512caddaa7e7c5588c050ac PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm. Important Notification: OKEQ's Participation at the Tulsa State Fair - September 28th to October 8th Dear OKEQ Community, We are delighted to announce that OKEQ will participate in the Tulsa State Fair from September 28th to October 8th. This event requires extensive coordination of staff and volunteers to ensure its success. In light of this, please be advised that the center will be temporarily closed during this period. Please don't worry. Our clinic will continue to operate as scheduled, ensuring our medical services remain uninterrupted for your convenience. If you have any questions or need help during this time, please do not hesitate to reach out to Olivia Cotter, who can be reached at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Thank you for your understanding and continued support of OKEQ. We look forward to seeing you at the Tulsa State Fair. Special Events 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing lr_o Tuesday, September 19th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, September 19th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Aly & AJ Tuesday, September 19th |6.30 Cain's Ballroom 423 N Main St, Tulsa, OK Aly & AJ are heading to Tulsa on their With Love From Tour! Catch the sister duo at Cain's Ballroom on September 19. Doors :: 6:30pm Show :: 7:30pm • Advance: $30+ • Day of Show: $32+ • Door: $41 • Mezzanine (21+): $55+ 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... alyandaj.com Tickets Housin of otlohomo will be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP • "Love You This Way" Guided Stage Tour Experience: $580+ • "Tear The Night Up" Meet & Greet Experience: $229+ • "After Hours" VIP Experience: $129+ Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, September 20th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Underdog Kitchen Wednesday, September 20th | 5.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We're calling on all the UnderDogs! All my artsy folks, everyone who believes in my concept or just believes in me. Or maybe you just want to do something silly on a Wednesday evening. Come see me and tag my wall! I’ll be hanging out in front of OKEQ downtown with a big ole brick wall backdrop and a fistful of acrylic paint markers! I want to have everyone graffiti up my backdrop for an upcoming event. Bonus: if you have a small local business or one that you love, bring their stickers and slap those on the wall, too! (I’m also open to 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... collaborations, contributions, etc., with future UnderDog Kitchen events and projects!) OKEQ Annual Board Meeting Thursday, September 21st | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Community members are invited to attend the annual meeting of the Oklahomans for Equality Board of Directors. New Directors recommended by the Governance Committee and officers for the next fiscal year will be voted on. The Board will also vote on updating the bylaws, which serve as the governing document for the Board. The meeting will be held on Thursday, September 21st, at 6 PM in the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center event center. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 scour rrzooP 74-g4- 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS AND 1RAN5INONBINARY YOlffii. EVERY TffUI\SMY OF TffE MO/ITff Thursday, September 21st | 6.30p-7.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 630 P"' Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 22nd |6p 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. . ":. -•· ~ !."•CENTER o f EXCELLENCE A lGITO•HHAYIOltAlHllAI.THIC>Ul1Y Ages: 14·19 1st Group August 25th 6:00 pm ,~ IIMJ' Affirmative RESEARCH NOW OFFERING ~:~i;@ ~,,,"" 0 1 ~-~ 0 : • -.t .,., r:, r- •iJ•, L!J t, • a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Self Defense Class ~ SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 23R Saturday, September 23rd | 1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ? Enhance your self-defense skills in a safe and supportive environment. Join us for an empowering selfdefense class tailored for the transgender community. ? Our expert instructors will guide you through practical techniques and strategies. ? Don't miss this opportunity to prioritize your safety. Miami NEOK Pride * PRID~~HOW * * * * Riverview Park Pavilion lpm-7pm Saturday, September 23rd | 1p 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Riverview Park 201 9th Ave SE, Miami, OK GRAND MARSHALL SASHA TU RRELLE Join us for our 3rd Annual Miami NEOK Pride! We are returning to the Riverview Park Pavilion in Miami, Oklahoma, and bringing you more activities and more entertainment! r Party 9pm- Tom DOORS OPEN AT 9 PM SHOWTIME 10PM Miami Elks Lodge 401 S. Miami. Ok We will have our PRIDE AFTER PARTY SHOW that night at the local Elk’s Lodge in Miami, OK. DJ Kennedy will be bringing his skills and light show to the party. Doors Open at 9 pm Show at 10 pm. 21+ show. Included in the day will be our 3rd Annual March of Solidarity around the park, a massive FOAM PARTY to kick the day off, coming out confessions, Talent/Drag Pageant for the Title of Mr./Miss/Teen NEOK Pride 2023, and the crowning of each. A best dress PRIDE contest with cash prizes of $100 for 1st place and $50 for 2nd place. There will be food vendors, booths, and plenty of FAMILY FUN at the festival. We will have inflatables such as slides, an obstacle course, and bounce houses for everyone to enjoy. We have games planned and many fun booths for you and your children. T-Mobile is joining us again with their Free Pride Swag Booth, and of course, we will have our own Miami NEOK Pride booth as well. Tulsa Equality Game Night @/.\\'i/.~.@i/.\\llill,~'i/. ,.i-' • GAMENIGH'F EVERYLASTTUESDAYOFTHEMONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, September 26th | 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought to You Bi the Letter B Brought To The Letter Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Tuesday, September 26th | 7p-8p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Thursday, September 28th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 4th Thursday of each month, 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Center. Kelly A. Melvin presents "Artistic Detour Highly Divergent" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Artistic Detour Highly Divergent (ADHD) Through September 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This exhibit presents a glimpse of some of the random rabbit holes I fall into daily. Constant chaos swarms my mind; art is my creative outlet to express my feelings and process experiences. Join us today in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery for 'Artistic Detour Highly Divergent' (ADHD) from local artist Kelly A. Melvin. It’s an ongoing game of cat and mouse... some days, I’m the cat, and some days I’m the mouse. But today, I am the artist, and this is the world I live in. Queer Women's Collective: October Meetup Wednesday, October 4th | 5.30p-7.30p Tulsa, OK More Information LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! There's a large patio as well if the weather cooperates. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People Wednesday, October 4th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non-binary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled monthly on the first Wednesday of each month. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. This preliminary interaction is designed to enhance the familiarity and comfort of our participants before their inaugural meeting. For seamless integration, we suggest arriving a bit earlier and notifying our reception staff of your presence, specifying your attendance for the upcoming discussion. This proactive step will help expedite the process and streamline your introduction to the community. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! OCTOBERS H 07,2023 3PM-6PM ■ ... r:, L:J • AGES , 10&UNDER , , WORKSHOP 12PM-3PM AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP O W Saturday, October 7th | 3p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Tickets Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Fern's Birthday FUNdraiser & FLM 1in2 Campaign Watch Party Fern's DELIC U Birthday FU Nd raiser Sun, Oct 8th from 6-9 PM Also! Stay for a Foundation for Liberating Minds' lin2 Campaign narrative video watch party! Location: Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa RSVP: By 10/6 to Fern at 918-808-8076 Why am I doing this? We need to replenish our fund so we can continue supporting the 2SLGBTQ/A+ community with food, housing, & aid • 5tJffORT• What is Tl CN? Tulsa lntersectional Care Network (TICN) is a project BY and FOR trans, queer, disabled and BIPOC Tu/sans using mutual aid and community care practices for our shared empowerment. Fern's DELIC IOU Birthday FUNdraiser yl0/6 -808-80 ,.-:' Tres Leches Sunday, October 8th | 6p - 9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK On October 8th, Fern turns 38. They've decided to celebrate by feeding the community and raising money for Tulsa Intersectional Care Network's rental assistance fund, Meal Train project, and direct aid pot. TICN is a project BY and FOR Trans, Queer, Disabled, and BIPOC Tulsans, using mutual aid and community care practices for their shared empowerment. Fern cofounded TICN in 2021 with some of their best friends and accomplices in the movement for making a better world. Fern is selling dinner plates of their beloved family recipe Sonoran Enchiladas, arroz mexicano, y frijoles refritos, plus Tres Leches Cake for dessert! And if you don't eat that but still want to support, feel free to make a donation. Come by the Equality Center on Sunday, October 8th, from 6-9 pm to purchase a plate and support their work! Let's make it a party! Bring snacks, drinks, and edibles to share, and come see Fern even if you can't partake in the fundraiser. They will also be showing narrative videos by the Foundation for Liberating Minds of their 1 in 2 ::: Enchilad~ 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 26 Cake https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... __,..,~ ~ W -"''RRice & Beans $5 $20 Campaign...learn about the challenges faced by incarcerated and formerly incarcerated Oklahomans. Let this inform your prison abolition efforts! Questions? Text Fern at 918-808-8076. They can't wait to see you! Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, Octobeber 10th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. ------Phone (918)295-9429. : ; otlahomans forEquallty Tulsa Area PRIME TIMERS Every 2nd Tuesday 7p Tulsa Area Prime Timers Tuesday, October 10th |7p - 9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men to establish friendship and support through social interaction. 21+ 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 pm Contact stevendubois@cox.net / 918.592.0088 or visit our website for more information. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, October 11th | 5.30p-7p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. OKEQ Seniors Trip: The Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park Thursday, October 12th |10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK OKEQ Seniors offers daytime programming tailored for retirees or those with daytime availability. Our seniors group will convene at Oklahomans for Equality at 10 am, and together, they will embark on a journey aboard the Pridemobile to Foyil, OK, where they will explore the fascinating Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park. Here, they will have the 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... chance to marvel at the world's largest concrete totem pole, standing at an impressive 90 feet in height with an 18foot base. This iconic roadside attraction is nestled along Route 66 near Foyil, making it a must-visit destination for history and art enthusiasts alike. GREEN COUNTRY BEARS Every second Thursday of the month. 7p-8:30p Green Country Bears Thursday, October 12th | 7p-8.30p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK We are a social group within the LGBT community in Tulsa, Oklahoma, that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture." Green Country Bears meets every second Tuesday of the month. For more information, contact Daniel Gouvion at 918.812.4640 or daniel.gouvion@gmail.com TULSA REALLY REALLY FREE Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - - - - --- THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM Real Boos, Real Booze, 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets IP", tULSA PRIDE ~ BHN© O t,J Ever~ third So.turdo.~ of the month. Doors open o.t 6:30 pm. flCl::ETS AVAILABLE AT WWW.OICEQ.ORG o::i:!1:m~~ Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! ~ance of tpe ~cab en mµite ~all 621 E. l,TH Sfll EET - . .----1..,,_, 1.S"A'-"' "' OK 7'1"" 120 , , __ _. Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. Nat1Cf&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The OKEQ Library System now 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 26 The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... o 'rul.· f all or nu ii for mor • infommt ion Medicaid Medicaid covers a broad range of services, many of which are important for people living with HIV or those at risk for HIV, including prescription drugs, inpatient and outpatient care, and preventative measures. Go to healthcare.gov to see if you qualify. #MedicaidMatters #KnowYourStatus #GetCovered #Enroll365 -~-er- OKEO HEALTH -~-er- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Bob Glahn Jan. 4 - Aug. 2, 2023 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ m:r::!J@:i □@m@M l:3§~ ~ 7J'(1[)[b§£ 7J'W@=§CPD~D7J' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 26 cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are Tulsa Area Prime Timers A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00 pm For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:08 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 26 of 26 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:08 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/2ef222e8221fc3bcea436c9ddab8c223.pdf b451e95b15cf427d03ad07dde6b08acd PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm. Important Notification: OKEQ's Participation at the Tulsa State Fair - September 28th to October 8th Dear OKEQ Community, We are delighted to announce that OKEQ will participate in the Tulsa State Fair from September 28th to October 8th. This event requires extensive coordination of staff and volunteers to ensure its success. In light of this, please be advised that the center will be temporarily closed during this period. Please don't worry. Our clinic will continue to operate as scheduled, ensuring our medical services remain uninterrupted for your convenience. If you have any questions or need help during this time, please do not hesitate to reach out to Olivia Cotter, who can be reached at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Thank you for your understanding and continued support of OKEQ. We look forward to seeing you at the Tulsa State Fair. New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Tuesday, September 26th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, September 29th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. -!:. ·• ':f.f.■CENTER o f EXCELLENCE A LGITO•HH ...VIOOI ... LHV.I.T>IICMIITY ,~ "81' Affirmative RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 lstG,o~:C,~upg~ st 25th -~ NOW OFFERING i~~ AFFlfllf L!J t- • iJ -~•·"··-·'··' The,apy-based grnup to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Volunteer Peer Support Specialist 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... l"'IC:C:U nC:la~; Do you need to find community resources? Housing Employment Food Healthcare Caregiver support Education & More Fern Galindo (they/them) Saturdays 10 am - 1 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Professiona l Fern @Gmail.com (3 14) 669 - 4623 Saturday, October 14th |10a-1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Would you like some help finding affirming community resources? Need housing, employment, food, education, caregiver support, or healthcare? Starting Saturday, September 30th, come see our new volunteer Peer Support Specialist! They will help connect you with the resources you need and support you along the way. Office hours are Saturdays, 10 am 1 pm, in the Glass Conference room. Special Events E ALITY usiness Alliance EBA Mixer with Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) Thursday, September 28th |6p Fifteenth and Home (Cityscape, Alycia Williams Therapy) 1512 E 15th St, Tulsa, OK If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website The Equality Business Alliance fosters sharing information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, strengthening and expanding our businesses, careers, and community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 4th Thursday of each month, 6:00 p.m.-7:30 p.m. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to nonmembers as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... establishment or use The Equality Center. Kelly A. Melvin presents "Artistic Detour Highly Divergent" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Callery. Artistic Detour Highly Divergent (ADHD) Through September 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This exhibit presents a glimpse of some of the random rabbit holes I fall into daily. Constant chaos swarms my mind; art is my creative outlet to express my feelings and process experiences. Join us today in the Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery for 'Artistic Detour Highly Divergent' (ADHD) from local artist Kelly A. Melvin. It’s an ongoing game of cat and mouse... some days, I’m the cat, and some days I’m the mouse. But today, I am the artist, and this is the world I live in. Queer Women's Collective: October Meetup Wednesday, October 4th | 5.30p-7.30p The Starlite 1902 East 11th Street, Tulsa, OK More Information LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! October is on its way in! Let’s welcome fall and cooler weather with a little HH at The Starlite. Bring your flannels and we’ll see you there! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OCTOBERS 07,2023 3PM-6PM ■ ... r:, L:J HOW • AGES . 1B&UNDER . . WORKSHOP 12PM-3PM AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME Show! Saturday, October 7th | 3p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. BEST MAKEUP Tickets Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Fern's DELIC IOU Birthday FU Nd raiser Sun, Oct 8th from 6-9 PM #. Also! Stay for a Foundation for Liberating Minds' 1in2 Campaign narrative video watch party! Location: Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa RSVP: By 10/6 to Fern at 918-808-8076 More Information Fern's Birthday FUNdraiser & FLM 1in2 Campaign Watch Party Sunday, October 8th | 6p - 9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK On October 8th, Fern turns 38. They've decided to celebrate by feeding the community and raising money for Tulsa Intersectional Care Network's rental assistance fund, Meal Train project, and direct aid pot. TICN is a project BY and FOR Trans, Queer, Disabled, and BIPOC Tulsans, using mutual aid and community care practices for their shared empowerment. Fern cofounded TICN in 2021 with some of their best friends and accomplices in the movement for making a 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... better world. Questions? Text Fern at 918-808-8076. They can't wait to see you! OKEQ Seniors Trip: The Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park Thursday, October 12th |10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join OKEQ Seniors for a tailored daytime adventure! Our seniors' group will meet at Oklahomans for Equality at 10 a.m. before embarking on an exciting journey aboard the Pridemobile to Foyil, OK. There, they'll explore the captivating Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park, home to the world's largest concrete totem pole—an impressive 90 feet tall with an 18-foot base. Situated along Route 66 near Foyil, this iconic roadside attraction is a must-visit for history and art enthusiasts. TULSA REALLY REALLYrFREE Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - - - 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! (:3)ance of t{>e (:3)eab Q3 ml,)ire ~arr Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK S 11. NEI LL EQUA LITY CE1'TEB _..__ ...,."""A "'-'OK 71,e,12,.,. .0,._~- -- Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Tickets Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoriaum In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Na!,KY &Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I 77EiT1 The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin ot Oldahoma will be assist'.ns . lGBTQ+ community with fair housing· scour rr<ooP 11g1 SCOLJflROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND lRANS/NONBINARY YOUTH 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ff,RY rttvRSMY OF rtt, MONTH 6,30pM ~ /JI Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... interview. Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 YOlll Bi 1 T 1lt1J~ lL@;f t@;r -~~~ ~~~~~~ 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ m:r::!J@JO@!O@QJJ§§~~ "iJ"QJJ[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§l:PO~D"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ~rncll@1r ~Dnl])]]XIDlfa @rf®Dnl]) 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Tl II C' /\ 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I V L...;;JI""'\ RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get \ISt} h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!'.~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists ca ll you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snapt HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees 4/29/26, 12:09 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:09 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/40e725ce7c070df96b17523789336265.pdf 4ef5da0bd62e5f120a9658f8c86daaa5 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm. Important Notification: OKEQ's Participation at the Tulsa State Fair - September 28th to October 8th Dear OKEQ Community, We are delighted to announce that OKEQ will participate in the Tulsa State Fair from September 28th to October 8th. This event requires extensive coordination of staff and volunteers to ensure its success. In light of this, please be advised that the center will be temporarily closed during this period. Please don't worry. Our clinic will continue to operate as scheduled, ensuring our medical services remain uninterrupted for your convenience. If you have any questions or need help during this time, please do not hesitate to reach out to Olivia Cotter, who can be reached at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Thank you for your understanding and continued support of OKEQ. We look forward to seeing you at the Tulsa State Fair. New Programming tJOW CCCDI _I Affirm 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Friday, October 6th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. .':t-J·• f.■CENTER A o f EXCELLENC E LGITO•HH ..... IOII ... LHU.l.nllOUITY ,~ ~ Affirmative RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 lstGro~:C,~~g~st25th NOW OFFERING ~,~i~l~ ~r~1fllf ~--•.• ..,.rr1 r •iJ• L!J : ._'I. r:1 t,. We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. --~ a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 10th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Need Help? Volunteer Peer Support Specialist 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Do you need to find community resources? Housing Employment Food Healthcare Caregiver support Education & More Fern Galindo (they/them) Saturdays 10 am - 1 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Professiona l Fern @Gmail.com (314) 669-4623 Saturday, October 14th |10a-1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Would you like some help finding affirming community resources? Need housing, employment, food, education, caregiver support, or healthcare? Starting Saturday, September 30th, come see our new volunteer Peer Support Specialist! They will help connect you with the resources you need and support you along the way. Office hours are Saturdays, 10 am 1 pm, in the Glass Conference room. Special Events Queer Women's Collective: October Meetup Wednesday, October 4th | 5.30p-7.30p The Starlite 1902 East 11th Street, Tulsa, OK More Information LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included); we hope some of you will join us! October is on its way in! Let’s welcome fall and cooler weather with a little HH at The Starlite. Bring your flannels and we’ll see you there! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OCTOBERS 07,2023 3PM-6PM ■ ... r:, L:J • AGES How . 1B&UNDER . . WORKSHOP 12PM-3PM AWARDS BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP Saturday, October 7th | 3p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Tickets Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Every first Saturday of the month | contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Fern's DELIC IOU Birthday FU Nd raiser Sun, Oct 8th from 6-9 PM ~Also! Stay for a Foundation for Liberating Minds' lin2 Campaign narrative video watch party! Location: Equality Center, 621 E 4th St, Tulsa RSVP: By 10/6 to Fern at 918-808-8076 More Information Fern's Birthday FUNdraiser & FLM 1in2 Campaign Watch Party Sunday, October 8th | 6p - 9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK On October 8th, Fern turns 38. They've decided to celebrate by feeding the community and raising money for Tulsa Intersectional Care Network's rental assistance fund, Meal Train project, and direct aid pot. TICN is a project BY and FOR Trans, Queer, Disabled, and BIPOC Tulsans, using mutual aid and community care practices for their shared empowerment. Fern cofounded TICN in 2021 with some of their best friends and accomplices in the movement for making a better world. 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Questions? Text Fern at 918-808-8076. They can't wait to see you! OKEQ Seniors Trip: The Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park Thursday, October 12th |10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join OKEQ Seniors for a tailored daytime adventure! Our seniors' group will meet at Oklahomans for Equality at 10 a.m. before embarking on an exciting journey aboard the Pridemobile to Foyil, OK. There, they'll explore the captivating Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park, home to the world's largest concrete totem pole—an impressive 90 feet tall with an 18-foot base. Situated along Route 66 near Foyil, this iconic roadside attraction is a must-visit for history and art enthusiasts. TULSA REALLY REALLY FREE Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - - - - --- THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Real Boos, Real Booze, Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! ~once of tpe ~eab ~ m:pire CBaU 621 E. t,TH STII EET TULSA OK 7111.I!Q ZO ! -- - Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. In Memoriam • . • •. I 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoriWTI William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III September 16, 2023-July 2, 1959 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cr- HEALTH -ci=-crCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rrzooP l1S1 5COU1"1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D All GIRL5 ANO 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOIJTH ff,RY rttvRSMY OF rtt, MONTH 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality NOW OFFERI a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1' 0 ¥01111 Bi 1 ,rjt1Je ll.~tt~r _ __.~~ ~~!!.-"!!.-"~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "i:f'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§~ □~ □"IT' 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP - ~lID]])I]XIDlru ®rf®l!U]]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ persons. knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. • • ecialists are ava1lab • Ie to help you apply for SNAP apphcat1on sp . . bout 20 minutes. or renew SNAP benefits m a 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol: Learn more at hungedreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:10 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed O O G & Q i> Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:10 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/6a902daa6e05d158fcae2e50bec59851.pdf 38cb0e01128f4ca1b8cd2479205624fc PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm. New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 10th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, October 13th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. . ~ ·• ~ /.•CENTER of EXCELLENCE A n .G HQ• HH,.vio.,. • ......_n,1ou,rv ,/!:ii Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 lstG,o~:C,~upg~ st25th NOW OFFERING i~~ AFFlfllf =fl•,t r:, r- • •, L!J I-• •■J We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Need Help? Do you need to find community resources? Housing Employment Food Volunteer Peer Support Specialist Saturday, October 14th |10a-1p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Healthcare Caregiver support Education & More Fern Galindo (they/them) Saturdays 10 am - 1 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Pr ofess io na l Fe rn @Gm a il. co m (3 14) 669- 4 6 23 Would you like some help finding affirming community resources? Need housing, employment, food, education, caregiver support, or healthcare? Starting Saturday, September 30th, come see our new volunteer Peer Support Specialist! They will help connect you with the resources you need and support you along the way. Office hours are Saturdays, 10 am 1 pm, in the Glass Conference room. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events OKEQ Seniors Trip: The Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park Thursday, October 12th |10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join OKEQ Seniors for a tailored daytime adventure! Our seniors' group will meet at Oklahomans for Equality at 10 a.m. before embarking on an exciting journey aboard the Pridemobile to Foyil, OK. There, they'll explore the captivating Ed Galloway Totem Pole Park, home to the world's largest concrete totem pole—an impressive 90 feet tall with an 18-foot base. Situated along Route 66 near Foyil, this iconic roadside attraction is a must-visit for history and art enthusiasts. TULSA REALLY REALL~FREE Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, October 14th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - - - - --- THIRD THURSDAYS IN THE RAINBOW ROOM Real Boos, Real Booze, 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fake Boobs Thursday, October 19th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa Cabaret Queen is back for Third Thursdays in the Rainbow Room! Join Tracy laLouisianne for a spooktacular Halloween drag cabaret. Tickets Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, October 21st |6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo! With performances by Pride Royalty, Anita Richards, Karma Eclectic, Scrappy Legacy, and Special Guests Josie Lee Turrelle and Kallaya K Fierce. Win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa food! Tulsa Pride Bingo is now year-round, every 3rd Saturday of the month! Cl)ance of t{)e Cl)eab m m:pite Q3a{{ 621 E. t,Tl-l STII EET _ ___,,_ ru~ . ,,,, A.OK._E!741g! 1201 -- - Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Tickets Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III September 16, 2023-July 2, 1959 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... information via email! SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Nat1(Y&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP 11g1 SCOUT TROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND TRANS/NONBINARY YOUTH fVfRY rttvRSDAY OF rttf MONTH 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non- 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! binary individuals aged 18 and above. Lawyer in the Library Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... T 0 Yotll Bi 1 T lt1J~ lL~tt~r 1 ~ ....... ~ ~ ~ ~ !!." !!." ~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Randall Weiss (he/they) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ O[r::!J@) □~□@l1D §§~~ 7J"!1D[b§& lJ"W@=§lPD~DlJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 18 alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners LEGAL AID ' SERVICES OF • SL = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing LEGAL AID ' SERVICES OF • SL = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. JIIS&J Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:11 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:11 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/6267890eea9f399643d36a73fada0f0e.pdf da551ff66107b64ae5701c76b0a9ca39 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library catalog link: https://www.librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer sign-up link: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C084CAAAE22A7F8C07modernize Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 25th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 26th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thursday, July 27th | 6.30p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 5COUTTROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRL5 AND TRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK €VERY TMRSDAY OF Tff€ MO/JTff 630 pw, Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Tulsa Equality Game Night ,i ' ~'ij'o@IYilj)o @i6.\[lill. llffi§'i.\'ij'o ••GAMENIGH'T EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Tuesday, July 25th | 6p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, August 8th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. RSVP Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. --Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 9th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. E Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. ALITY usiness Alliance ,I ' 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 16th |6p Ingredion Incorporated 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Join us for our EBA Mixer with Ingredion Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/equality-business-alliance.htm TULSA RE~LLY.z REALLY FRE1: MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p I 621 E. 4th St Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! RSVP Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ - - - - ----- --- --- - OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY PRESENTS OKEQ Youth Talent Show Saturday, September 2nd | 3p 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK SO lfp~;![~ H W 02,2023 • AGES . 13-18 Show off your talent and skills at our Youth Talent Show, hosted by Scrappy Legacy! Ages 13 - 18! Saturday, September 2nd. Doors at 3:00 PM. AWARDS REGISTER HERE BEST PERFORMANCE BEST COSTUME BEST MAKEUP ~~f.lilM. GN UP Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! For more information, email shay.brewer@okeq.org. ~~-~': .:_~~•.....: ! ' ! ... OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey Link to Spanish Survey) - and -- so that we can understand your needs. We'd also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tom Burton 1/18/1948 - 7/10/2023 In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming llrougbt 1'10 VOlli Bi T lt1J@ lL~tt~r 1 ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. ~~!:-"!:-"~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "IT'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =slPD~ 09:F Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ®®rncll®IP ~1111,I])I]XIDlru @rP®ml]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Relationships 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners I_ - -- - - T y-:,r, .. T A T ....... a• T y-:,r, .. T A T....... a• 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... .Dr,\.;rl\..L .n...11...1 SERVICES OF Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing 'lh = .Dr,\Jl\..L .n...11...1 SERVICES OF 'lh = OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Network supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:59 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/10841179ea8f02346f1db2c72b5eb2cf.pdf a3d56e96e3f8daa4844eb1a60747fcac PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 24th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, October 27th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. . ~ ·• ~ /.•CENTER of EXCELLENCE A n .GH Q• HH,.vio.,. • ......_n,1ou,rv ,/!:ii Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 lstG,o~:C,~upg~st25th NOW OFFERING i~~ AFFlfllf =fl•,t r:, r- • •, L!J I-• •■J We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th St. Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Special Events OkEq - Equality Business Alliance Mixer Cornerstone Wealth Management Equality Business Alliance Networking Mixer Thursday, October 26th | 6-8 p 2738 E. 51st Street, Suite 200, Tulsa, OK 2738 E. 51s1 Street, Suite 200, Tulsa, OK 74105 Cornerstone 7 Equality Business Alliance Networking Mixer is excited to feature Cornerstone Wealth Management this month. As independent advisors, they will spend their energy on you - not meeting sales goals or product quotas. Their Advisors strive to provide comprehensive wealth management services for every stage of your journey. Cornerstone's mission is to enhance your life by helping you create sound financial strategies. Justin Maddox will 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... present a brief presentation. Please RSVP as refreshments will be served, as it helps us better plan for the evening. You may access their website at www.tclwm.com. 4)once of t{)e 4)eob en ml,}il'e CBoU _ 621 E. tffH Sfll EET _ ,ru _,,_,IS ,= A. OK 7~'•12~0_ _ _. Calling all creatures of the night for delights and temptations at Tulsa's premier Halloween event in the heart of downtown. Tickets are limited, so secure your spot now! 18+ to enter 21 + with valid ID to drink Dance of the Dead Vampire Ball Presented by WitchWorx Tulsa Tuesday, October 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Sink your teeth into a night of music and mystery at our Vampire Ball! With a DJ, door prizes, vampiric games, and a costume contest. Have your fortune read, visit our photo booth, and shop witchy goods at our vendor fair. From tarot readings to handmaid crafts, there’s something for everyone. Don’t miss out on this mystical event! It's sure to be a fantastic evening! Arrive dressed to impress and be immersed into a dark fairytale offering up a feast for the senses, including live entertainment, costume contest, raffles, cash bar and food, and a bounty of goodies for our VIP guests. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Ofdahoma will be assisting LGSTQ+ community with fair hoosins· scour rr<ooP 7131 5COUfTROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS ANO TRAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH ,VERY THVllSDAY OF TH, MONTH 6'30pM .;,. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTO+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... clarity until we have an answer. Brougl1lt 1' 0 ¥01111 Bi 1 ,rjt1Je ll.~tt~r _ __.~~ ~~!!.-"!!.-"~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "i:f'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =§~ □~ □"IT' 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP - ~lID]])I]XIDlru ®rf®l!U]]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ persons. knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. • • ecialists are ava1lab • Ie to help you apply for SNAP apphcat1on sp . . bout 20 minutes. or renew SNAP benefits m a 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espai'iol: Learn more at hungedreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:14 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed O O G & Q i> Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:14 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/8d45255c08dbceee0ba7bc531f07cdb3.pdf 304f6f95097cc7e0570200b8de058da8 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Memorial Service for Fernande Galindo Please join us in celebrating Fern's Life. 11.3.2023 3pm Floral Haven 6500 S 129th E Ave Broken Arrow, OK Friday, November 3rd l 3 pm Floral Haven 6500 S 129th E Ave Broken Arrow, OK Please join us in celebrating Fern's life. November 3, 2023, at 3 p.m. at Floral Haven 6500 S 129th E Ave Broken Arrow, OK. This is organized by Fern's family, who will be in attendance. Please join us as we remember a dear friend and community leader. Memorial Service for Nancy McDonald Sunday, November 12th l 4 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Please join us in celebrating the life of Nancy McDonald at All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa OK on Sunday, November 12th, 2023 4 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Nancy’s honor to Partners in Education. If you are able, please bring homemade cookies to share! (No store-bought cookies, per her request.) We hope to see you there! New Programming A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, October 31st l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, November 3rd |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Ages: 14·19 1stGro~~~ugust25th We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to tJnW nCCE:DltJt: 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... b:uupm •~-•• - • , _,,,,~Up to 15 participants support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. ~-:~-~~ AFFllllf ~ •~•"""°""M"••' L!J t, • iJ Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Special Events Equality Game Night Tuesday, October 31st | 6-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 6:00 9:00 pm 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Black Queer Tulsa Presents: Halloween Boo Ball Tuesday, October 31st | 6-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Get ready to immerse yourself in the vibrant and colorful celebration of Día de Muertos! Join us for a night of excitement and cultural exploration. Shop from local vendors, indulge in delicious food, and move to the rhythm of lively music. You'll be captivated by the stunning performance of Ballet Folklorico Tierra Mestiza, showcasing traditional cultural dances that will leave you breathless. Dia De Los Muertos Friday, November 3rd | 6-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK To have a loved one placed on the ofrenda, please email kao.morris@okeq.org with the picture and name. Single Admission: $10 | Group Admission (4): $15 Single Admission at door: $15 | Group Admission (4) at door: $20 Tickets Get ready to immerse yourself in the vibrant and colorful celebration of Día de Muertos! Join us for a night of excitement and cultural exploration. Shop from local vendors, indulge in delicious food, and move to the rhythm of lively music. You'll be captivated by the stunning performance of Ballet Folklorico Tierra Mestiza, showcasing traditional cultural dances that will leave you breathless. Take advantage of this unforgettable experience! Come early - doors open at 6 pm, and the show starts at 7 pm. Stick around for a dance or two, and enjoy the evening with us! Flyover Fest 2023 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Il111 MemoriWTI Nancy McDonald June 4, 1966 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rrzooP l1S1 m 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN All GIRL5 ANO 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOIJTH fWRY TttVRSMY OF Tttf MONTtt 6'30p«, ~ Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE 1' 0 Yo111 Bi 1 1fjt1Je l(_,(?;f f'(?;lf ~~~~ ~~!:,,'!:,,'~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@O~O@QdJ§ § ~~ 'v'QdJ C!:::,§& 'v'W@=§[pO~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:15 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:15 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/d4129fd850f45e7edfab60b77c4ff3d6.pdf d93c31867013f9535894749d70117ac2 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Memorial Service for Nancy McDonald Sunday, November 12th l 4 pm All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave Tulsa, OK Please join us in celebrating the life of Nancy McDonald at All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S. Peoria Ave, Tulsa OK on Sunday, November 12th, 2023 4 PM. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made in Nancy’s honor to Partners in Education. If you are able, please bring homemade cookies to share! (No store-bought cookies, per her request.) We hope to see you there! New Programming 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, November 18th l 12pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now take place on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting this month on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality Tuesday, November 14th l 6 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly beginning Sept. 5th. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Affirm NOW OFFERI Friday, November 17th |6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. ~\ ·: • CENTER of EXCELLENCE lGIITO•HIIAYIOOIAI.MU-1..THIC>UITY ,m Affirmative ~ RESEARCH Ages: 14·19 l.stG,o~:o~~g~ ,t 25th NOW OFFERING ~l~i~I~ ~,!~' " " ~JI·. . :r:1..... r L!J t- • --~ • • iJ .,.rr1 a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. 621 E 4th Sl Tulsa Ok 74120 Register Here We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall wellbeing. The AFFIRM practice models were developed in collaboration with LGBTQ+ youth and adult community partners utilizing an adapt and evaluate framework to ensure the AFFIRM interventions are rooted in the needs and experiences of LGBTQ+ clients. For ages 14-19! The first cohort starts August 25th at 6 pm. This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events Rainbow Renewal: Framily Day at OKEQ Friday, November 24th |12-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A day of healing, community, and celebration! After Thanksgiving, we invite you to relax, connect, and recharge in a safe and welcoming space. Enjoy movies, arts and crafts, board games, karaoke, and more. Plus, we'll have delicious snacks and nonalcoholic drinks. This event is all about inclusivity, so come as you are and be yourself. Whether you need healing or want to enjoy a great day with friends, you're welcome here. Let's unite and make "Framily" memories that will last a lifetime! Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... sell out quickly. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI Nancy McDonald June 4, 1966 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Oldohoma will be ~ssist'.ns LGSTQ+ community with fo,r hoosins· scour rr<ooP 74-g4- 5COl/fTROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRLS ANO TRAN5/NONBINARY YOVll, f:VfRY THVllSDAY OF TH, MONTH 6:30 pw, Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 Yo111 Bi 1 ,rjt1Je lL(?;f f'(?;r ___. ~~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 0~@)0~0@!10§§~~ 7J"l10[b§& "iJ"W@=§lP0~0"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncll@1r ~'Oill])]JXIDrffi @lP®'Oill]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. • - • ..... 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... COUNTRY RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. country. from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get \ISfi h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!;~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Ca ll toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists ca ll you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Lea rn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq. org/ donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Board of Advisors Ron Brady Fern Galindo Jodi Rachel Green Ryan Fitzpatrick Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig 4/29/26, 12:16 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Caleb Jackson Bonita James Michael James Kevin Knight Gary Percefull Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:16 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/1c8a02cb7c2b491ff0190772b59dabfa.pdf c7a5c6f32bbbd8cf257d7691fd35debf PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm NOVEMBER 28th – GIVING TUESDAY Gl~ INGTUESDAY Oklahomans for Equality is reaching out to you as Giving Tuesday approaches, and you are deciding the charitable organizations you wish to receive your generous gift on Tuesday, November 28th. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We need your support to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, outreach, and events: • OkEq Health Clinic: • Hormone Replacement Therapy • PrEP • Hope Testing – Weekly HIV & STI testing • Gender Support & Outreach • Transgender Intersectional Support • AFFIRM – A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program for youth 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • Two Spirit: IndigiQueer – Queer and two-spirit Indigenous persons support group • OKEQ Seniors – For those age 55+ • Green Country Bears – Bear culture/subculture social group • Lambda Bowling League • Volunteer Peer Support Specialist – Help connect with the resources you need • Tulsa Pride Festival and Parade • Queer Women’s Collective Tulsa – Monthly meetups for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allies • Tulsa Area Prime Timers – Gay and Bisexual men 21+ social group • Scouts Troop 7484 – Open to all girls and trans/nonbinary youth • Jamm Outt – A youth music program • Sin Fronteras – A Latin-led movement • Brought to you Bi+ the Letter B – Bi+ social & support group • A.C.E. (Ace’s Committed to Equality) – An asexual support group • Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater – Available to rent for events • Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library – 3,500 LBBTIQ+ related titles • Rental space and meeting rooms • CREOKS Behavioral Health Counseling Services • Bruce Goff Event Center – Rental space with commercial kitchen and more • Chapter outreach: Muskogee, Bartlesville, McAlester, Wagoner, Miami • Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery • Name and Gender Correction Clinic • Legal Aid Services – Housing discrimination and other legal issues • Tulsa Really Really Free Market You may also bring your donation to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120. Thank you for your continued support, Dorothy Ballard, Executive Director Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... day learn more at www.okeq.org DONATE NOW New Programming OKLAMOMANS rou EQUALITY i, Tulsa TTRPG Tulsa tabletop role-playing gaming group now at the Equality Center; Contact Weaver Haney at weaverotales@gmail.com for more information. FIRST AND THIRD SATURDAY OF THE MONTH FROM 12NOON - 6PM I DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E 4TH ST., TULSA OK OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, November 18th l 12pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now take place on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting this month on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. Transgender Awareness Week Events Tran~gender Awareness Week Nov 'Queer the Mic' Open Mic Night 17th @ Park Grove Creative Community (Fri] 7:DDpm-10:0Dpm Rollerqueers Meetup @ The Gathering Place Nov [weather permitting] 1:DDpm-3:00pm 18th , , [Sat] Trans the Disco Starlite Bar "Takeover" @ The Starlite Bar, Tulsa 8:00pm 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer the Mic 2: Transgender Awareness Week Open Mic Friday, November 17th | 6.45-9.30 p Park Grove Creative Community 4241 S. 37th W. Ave, Tulsa, OK Another round of hijinks and shenanigans, our treat! If you're gender-bent, gender-queer, or gender-f***ed; Admission will be donate-what-youcan, and proceeds will be split between our gracious hosts at Park Grove and the Transgender Advocacy Coalition of Oklahoma. If you've trans-ed your gender, merged your gender, or lost your gender in a game of cards; Acts will be limited to 10 minutes and must be suitable for an all-ages audience. Doors will open at 6:45 pm; The Event begins sharply at 7 pm. --- -- Join activists, accomplices, and comrades from across the queer community for the penultimate event of Transgender Awareness Week! P.S. If you lead, participate in, or support an organization that would like to share its work at this event, please reach out via DM or email (transadvocacyok@gmail.com). r;,:J ·'&' T.A.c.o. Trans9ender Da .o! If you love your gender, hate your gender, or dance a will-they-won'tthey with your gender. This open mic is for you (but everyone is welcome to attend)! Transgender Awareness Week Day of Action!! Activism Fair and Workshops Sunday, November 19th | 11 a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This Day of Action will host numerous activist organizations with ways that you can get involved to support and participate in their work. T.A.C.O. Transgender Day of Remembrance Vigil 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Your copy should address 3 key questions: Who am I writing for (audience)? Why should they care (benefit)? What do I want them to do (call-to-action)? Create a great offer by adding words like "free," "personalized," "complimentary," or "customized." A sense of urgency often helps readers take action, so consider inserting phrases like "for a limited time only" or "only 7 remaining!" Monday, November 20th |6.3010 p All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of the transgender people whose lives were lost in acts of antitransgender violence. Special Events SAFE AND SOUND _ FULTO N STREET B OO KS & CO FFEE PRE S ENT S BOOK SIGNING W I T H M E RCURY ST ARDUS T WEDNESDAY . NOVEMBER 15TH 6:30 PM • 8:30 PM WOMPA 3306 CHARLES PAGE BLVD mrumN ~rmr PRE ORDER BOOK HERE : https:// www.fultonstreet918.com/ books/safe-and-sound Tickets Ri1H r1rv,r A Pi= Mercury Stardust Book Tour Wednesday, November 15th | 6.30-8.30 p WOMPA 3306 Charles Page Blvd Tulsa, OK Join Fulton Street for an in-person signing line with author and TikToker Mercury Stardust to celebrate the release of Safe and Sound: A Renter-Friendly Guide to Home Repair. Mercury will sign and personalize copies of her new book and take photos with attendees if they wish! Your purchased ticket includes a copy of the book! Don't panic--Mercury Stardust, AKA The Trans Handy Ma'am, is here to help! Remember--a little bit of knowledge can go a long way toward making you feel more safe and in control of your own life. Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 iii https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... '-"'1 I I V'-"'1 ,1 L. HOME MORTGAGE ALYCIA WILLIAMS Sex & Relationship Therapy Thursday, November 16th |6 p Cityscape Home Mortgage and Co-Host Alycia Williams, Sex & Relationship Therapist 1115 S. Lewis Ave., Suite D, Tulsa, OK The evening will include a brief overview of their services , including bingo and prizes! Should you have questions, they can be reached at 918.622.0900. As a local lender, Cityscape Home Mortgage, http:// www.cityscapehome.com, takes pride in its ability to approve and fund your loan locally. This speeds up the loan process, saving you time and money. Howard Doak, Branch Manager, and his team welcome you to join them for an evening of networking, food, beverages, and fun! Alycia Williams, Ms, LPC, CST, Licensed Psychotherapist, http:// www.alyciawilliams.com Are you looking for a way to improve your relationship, cope with life stressors, welcome or increase your sense of well-being? Do you hope to overcome the pain of infidelity, regain desire, or feel more confident and satisfied in your sexual life? Alycia Williams can help. Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, November 18th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK Join us for Pride Bingo, on Saturday, November 18th as we raise money for Tulsa Pride 2024! ?⚧???????????? 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Enjoy performances from Tulsa Pride Royalty and special guest, hosted by Scrappy Legacy, win prizes from the Equality Business Alliance, and enjoy Empire Slice House Tulsa pizza! ?⚧???????????? Tickets Help us give back with bikes for the holidays! You can bring a bike for entry into Pride Bingo! The bikes will be donated to local youths in the Tulsa metro area as a part of the ticket price for admission. ?⚧???????????? Saturday, November 18th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Doors open at 6:30 pm | Game starts at 7 pm Rainbow Renewal: Framily Day at OKEQ Friday, November 24th |12-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A day of healing, community, and celebration! Framily (noun) Definition: Framily refers to a cherished group of individuals who, despite the absence of shared DNA, are bound together by bonds of friendship, love, and mutual support. Those extraordinary people who have become an integral and inseparable part of one's life journey. After Thanksgiving, we invite you to relax, connect, and recharge in a safe and welcoming space. Enjoy movies, arts and crafts, board games, karaoke, and more. Plus, we'll have delicious snacks and nonalcoholic drinks. This event is all about inclusivity, so come as you are and be yourself. You're welcome here if you need healing or want to enjoy a great day with friends. Let's unite and make "Framily" memories that will last a lifetime! 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Il111 Memoriaurn Nancy McDonald June 4, 1936 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. William Maurice "Rusty" Clyma III July 2, 1959 - September 16, 2023 Rusty was Emperor VII of the Imperial Court of All Oklahoma and the bishop of the Inckusive Celtic Church. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP l1S1 5COU1"1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D All GIRL5 ANO 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOIJTH ff,RY rttvRSMY OF rtt, MONTH 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality NOW OFFERI a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brougl1Lt T 0 Yott Bi 1 Tlt~ L~tt~r 1 Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ O[r::!]@)0~ □@!10 §§~~ 7J"l10[b§& Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un 'D"W@=§lPD~D'D" IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... JI S&J Get h e l p . supplemental applying for :~!~~\i:;ce A • P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:17 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm NOVEMBER 28th – GIVING TUESDAY Gl~ INGTUESDAY learn more at www.okeq.org ♦ DONATE NOW 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality is reaching out to you as Giving Tuesday approaches, and you are deciding the charitable organizations you wish to receive your generous gift on Tuesday, November 28th. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We need your support to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, outreach, and events. You may also donate at the Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Gl~ INGTUESDAY GiViNG TUESDAY SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL RAINBOW LIBRARY www.oKaQ.ORG • , ~ GaNaRAL SUPPLlas &J o e ~ ~ """" [!I ' i) ·,J SATaLLITas CHAPTaRS General Supplies Oklahomans for Equality's Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library seeks to increase access to affirming literature in Eastern Oklahoma and beyond. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We need your support to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, outreach, and events. You may also donate at the Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. Satellites Chapters 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... New Programming OKLRMOMRNS ro~ fQURLlTY Tulsa tabletop role•playing gaming group now at the Equality Center; Contact Weaver Haney at weoverotales@gmail.com for more information. ~ FIRST ANO THIRD SATURDAY Of THE MONTH FROM 12NOON • IW'M I DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER I 621 E H H ST .• TULSAOI< ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, December 2nd l 12 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Special Events T.A.C.O. Transsender Day of Rememberance Yi9il J. ~ J. J. .Q, .a. T.A.C.O. Transgender Day of Remembrance Vigil Monday, November 20th |6.3010 p All Souls Unitarian Church 2952 S Peoria Ave, Tulsa, OK Transgender Day of Remembrance (TDOR) is an annual observance on November 20 that honors the memory of the transgender people whose lives were lost in acts of antitransgender violence. 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Renewal: Framily Day at OKEQ Friday, November 24th |12-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A day of healing, community, and celebration! Framily (noun) Definition: Framily refers to a cherished group of individuals who, despite the absence of shared DNA, are bound together by bonds of friendship, love, and mutual support. Those extraordinary people who have become an integral and inseparable part of one's life journey. After Thanksgiving, we invite you to relax, connect, and recharge in a safe and welcoming space. Enjoy movies, arts and crafts, board games, karaoke, and more. Plus, we'll have delicious snacks and nonalcoholic drinks. This event is all about inclusivity, so come as you are and be yourself. You're welcome here if you need healing or want to enjoy a great day with friends. Let's unite and make "Framily" memories that will last a lifetime! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first I 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum Nancy McDonald June 4, 1936 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers '• I / lj () I) '/ - 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fernande Galindo October 8, 1985 - October 12, 2023 Founder of Tulsa Intersectional Care Network and Tulsa Queer Exchange. Fern was a community builder and revolutionary. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... W The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. Na!:,XY&.Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin of Oldahoma will be assisting LGSTQ+ community with fair hoosins· 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... m SCOlJflROOP IS OPEN ALL GIRLS AND lRANSINONBINARY YOUTH fffRY TttVRSMY OF rtt, MONTtt 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTO+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 YOlll Bi 1 T 1lt1J~ IL@;f t@;r ~ ~~ ~ ~ ~ !!,,"' !!,,"' ~~ 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@illJ§§~~ 'v'MCbs& 'v'W@=§[pO~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncll@1r ~DUl])]JXIDrffi @IBIDDU]]) 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY ~-- ■ --... __ Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IUCSR TTRP&S starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:18 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:18 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/b8d33d4198abba5ac18f65114234d877.pdf 61899b9d995e74f40be24156d1e3be40 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm NOVEMBER 28th – GIVING TUESDAY Gl~ INGTUESDAY Oklahomans for Equality is reaching out to you as Giving Tuesday approaches and you are making your decision as to the charitable organizations you wish to receive your generous gift on Tuesday, November 28th. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. learn more at www.okeq.org DONATE NOW ♦ We need your support to be able to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, outreach, and events: OkEq Health Clinic, Hormone 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Replacement Therapy, PrEP, Hope Testing – Weekly HIV & STI testing, Gender Support & Outreach, Transgender Intersectional Support, AFFIRM – A Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program for youth, Two Spirit: IndigiQueer, OKEQ Seniors, Green Country Bears, Lambda Bowling League, Volunteer Peer Support Specialist, Tulsa Pride festival and parade, Queer Women’s Collective Tulsa, Tulsa Area Prime Timers, Scouts Troop 7484, Jamm Outt, Sin Fronteras, Brought to you Bi+ the Letter B, A.C.E. (Ace’s Committed to Equality), Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater, Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library, Rental space and meeting rooms, CREOKS Behavioral Health Counseling Services, Bruce Goff Event Center and more. Chapter outreach: Muskogee, Bartlesville, McAlester, Wagoner, Miami., Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, Name and Gender Correction Clinic, Legal Aid Services, Really Really Free Market You may also bring your donation to the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center located at 621 E. 4th Street, Tulsa, OK 74120. Gl~ INGTUESDAY . .•~ GiViNG TUESDAY SUPPORT YOUR LOCAL RAINBOW LIBRARY WWW.OKaQ.O ■ G Nancy & .lcNI McDonlld lbinbcM Ubn,y II [!I o} ·,J Oklahomans for Equality's Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library seeks to increase access to affirming literature in Eastern Oklahoma and beyond. OkEQ’s mission: Oklahomans for Equality seeks equal rights for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We need your support to continue as a resource center and safe place for our community. Your dollars will go to support our programs, services, 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... outreach, and events. General Supplies Satellites Chapters You may also donate at the Oklahomans for Equality located at 621 E. 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120. New Programming OKLRMOMRNS ro~ £QUALITY Tulsa tabletop role•playing gaming group now at the Equality Center; Contact Weaver Haney at weoverotales@gmail.com for more information. "" FIRST ANO THIRD SATIJIIOAY Of' THE MONTH FROM 12N00N • 6PM I [)tNNIS R. NEJll EQU,t,.LJTY CENTEll I 6?1 E 4TH ST., TULSAOI< ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, December 2nd l 12 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Special Events Oklahomans for Equality Presents Youth Talent Show! Saturday, December 2nd | 1-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! First Saturday of the month, contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information.On the first Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, December 14th | 6-8p yogaQUEST & Energy Environments, Inc. 3325 E. 31st Street Tulsa, OK Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. are excited to Co-host the final OkEq Monthly Mixer of 2023! The evening will include a brief overview of their services, as well as an invitation to sample the weekly Functional Movement class that will be taking place – you are able to wear street clothes! EQ.VALITY .a. Additionally, the Mixer will take place amidst a gallery of artwork for sale to benefit a family of six (6) and three (3) children from YST in Tulsa. Their 2 nd Annual WellArts Exhibit & Sale opened Saturday, 11/25 and will have the Opening Reception & Holiday Bash, Friday, 12/1 6-8p – all are welcome to attend! There will be food, drink and live entertainment from local talent, 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Andrea Kyle! Even though the intent is to sell artwork to raise funds, a lover of art may not have the wall space so instead, yogaQUEST and Energy Environments are also accepting donations for the recipients. Visit the website, tulsayogaquest.com to view the list of items received from F&CS and YST. They are also accepting gift cards for purchases of the family’s needs. Please visit Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. to learn more information about offerings about upcoming events. Kathy Clarke, CEO, Owner, Energy Environments, Inc., www.energyenvironments.com. Dee Anne Day, CEO, Owner, yogaQUEST, tulsayogaquest.com As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. rA-lA-lA ICHTMAR! ,r,oRr CHRltTMAt (fflyliillareii£)~ !NT!ATAINM!NT * f00D * DRINK! * AAffl!! 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th 9:30 p-1 a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We cordially invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. In Memoriam Iln Memoriaim 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Nancy McDonald June 4, 1936 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate Rob Hill August 10, 1944 - October 16, 2023 Member of OKEQ Seniors and Tulsa Area Prime Timers In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-<r11 OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-<r- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Natx)'&.Joe McDc:inald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP 11g1 SCOUT TROOP 15 OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND TRANS/NONBINARY YOUTH fVfRY rttvRSDAY OF rttf MONTH 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and non- 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! binary individuals aged 18 and above. Lawyer in the Library Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... T 0 Yotll Bi 1 T lt1J~ lL~tt~r 1 ~ ....... ~ ~ ~ ~ !!." !!." ~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ O[r::!J@) □~□@l1D §§~~ 7J"!1D[b§& lJ"W@=§lPD~DlJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6-9:00 p.m. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30 p.m. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7 p.m. For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10 a.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8 p.m. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00 p.m. at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ . OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA TTRP&s First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 12:19 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:19 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/430073e0a1d9fb5e4cb5bcf6cc80602c.pdf 1423914680ad91fa0ac1c686c4262a3a PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming OKI..RMOMRNS fOij £QURl..1TY Tulsa tabletop role·ploying gaming group now ot the Equality Center; Contact weaver Honey at weoverotoles@gmoil.com for more information. tit FIRST ANO THIRD SATURDAY Of TM£ MONTH FROM 12NOON • 6,PM I DENNIS R. NEILL EQUA.l.lTY CENTER I 621 E H H ST .. TULSAOI< ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, December 16th l 12 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Special Events Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree at OKEQ Wednesday, December 13th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Would you be able to make a difference this holiday season? Look no further than the Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! By adopting a fairy from the tree, you can help bring joy and happiness to those in need. Join us and be a part of this beautiful cause! Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs Don't wait to get started - gift lists are ready for pick-up, and center hours are 9 am to 9 pm, Tuesday to 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs, and we specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, selfworth, inclusion, and hope. Tulsa CARES Thursday, and 9 am to 6 pm Friday and Saturday. The deadline for gifts to be returned is Wednesday, December 13th. Gifts should be returned unwrapped. Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/ AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/ AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically managed disease. TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, December 14th | 6-8p yogaQUEST & Energy Environments, Inc. 3325 E. 31st Street Tulsa, OK Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. are excited to Co-host the final OkEq Monthly Mixer of 2023! The evening will include a brief overview of their services, as well as an invitation to sample the weekly Functional Movement class that will be taking place – you are able to wear street clothes! Additionally, the Mixer will take place amidst a gallery of artwork for sale to benefit a family of six (6) and three (3) children from YST in Tulsa. Their 2 nd Annual WellArts Exhibit & Sale opened Saturday, 11/25 and will have the Opening Reception & Holiday Bash, Friday, 12/1 6-8p – all are welcome to attend! There will be food, drink and live entertainment from local talent, Andrea Kyle! Kathy Clarke, CEO, Owner, Energy Environments, Inc., www.energyenvironments.com. Dee Anne Day, CEO, Owner, yogaQUEST, tulsayogaquest.com As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. Even though the intent is to sell artwork to raise funds, a lover of art may not have the wall space so instead, yogaQUEST and Energy Environments are also accepting donations for the recipients. Visit the website, tulsayogaquest.com to view the list of items received from F&CS and YST. They are also accepting gift cards for purchases of the family’s needs. Please visit Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. to 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... learn more information about offerings about upcoming events. rA-lA-lA ICHTMAR! 8!rOR! CHRl!TMA! mJl.llifilrefil!JliB.llib (Ia I fflffllTAlNM!NT * FOOi> * l>RlNK! * RAfflR Fa-La-La Ball: Nightmare Before Christmas Saturday, December 16th l 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Prepare for an unforgettable holiday season with the Falala Ball: Nightmare Before Christmas, brought by Oklahomans for Equality! Please consider donating an unwrapped toy or making a direct monetary donation to help us support the less fortunate. Tickets Join us for an evening filled with live entertainment, delicious food and drinks, and exciting raffles that will make your night even more magical. Not only will you have a fantastic time, but you'll also be giving back to those in need. Take advantage of the chance to celebrate the holidays in style while making a difference in your community! We are also accepting donations of non-perishable food items, hygiene and grooming items (such as hair care, soap, nail clippers, deodorant, and menstruation products), household essentials (like toilet paper, cleaning supplies, small kitchen utensils and countertop appliances), and pet supplies. Thank you for your generosity in advance. Rainbow Room Present: A Christmas Cabaret Thursday, December 21st 7-10p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Rainbow Room returns with a nontraditional spin on holiday classics. Join us on December 21st at 7 p in the Lynn 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Riggs Theater for an unforgettable night with your favorite headliners. Get your tickets now! Tickets Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, December 26th l 7-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 7:00 9:00 p.m. NYE: Cheers to the New Year Sunday, December 31st l 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tickets Are you looking for the perfect way to welcome the New Year? Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! With one free raffle ticket and a complimentary champagne toast with delicious snacks, your taste buds will be delighted. And that's not all - there will also be short-order food to satisfy your cravings. But the real party starts when the Live DJ hits the stage, playing all your favorite tunes and setting the perfect vibe for the night. And that's just the beginning - you'll also enjoy performances from the 2023 Queen 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, and Tracy La Louisianne! Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th 9:30 p-1 a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We cordially invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoriaum Nancy McDonald June 4, 1936 - October 24, 2023 Founder of Tulsa PFLAG, a community leader and civil rights advocate In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-if- OKEO HEALTH -~-if- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Nat1C)'&Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rr<ooP 11g1 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D All GIRL5 ANO 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH ff,RY rttvRSMY OF rtt, MONTH 6,30 P"' .;. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ O[r::!]@)0~ □@!10 §§~~ 7J"l10[b§& Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la lJ"W@=§lPD~DlJ" IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ . OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TULSA TTRP&s First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ~ / J i , , li!m!J!, ~P'IJ!}},•~ & i Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = = 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Ann Reynolds ooe e s e Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:20 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/10b7b270925138958c541fa5bcdb4f7b.pdf 235c597077380a3f0c7949756fccfe28 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm New Programming OKI..RMOMRNS fOij £QURl..1TY Tulsa tabletop role·ploying gaming group now ot the Equality Center; Contact weaver Honey at weoverotoles@gmoil.com for more information. tit FIRST ANO THIRD SATURDAY Of TM£ MONTH FROM 12NOON • 6,PM I DENNIS R. NEILL EQUA.l.lTY CENTER I 621 E H H ST .. TULSAOI< ? The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center continues to be our safe and inclusive haven for diverse gamers to come together and have a fantastic time. Whether you're an experienced Dungeon Master or a player seeking a table, we're here for you. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Tulsa TTRPGS Saturday, December 16th l 12 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Our group has undergone an exciting transformation, expanding to encompass all tabletop games and providing a welcoming space for members and supporters of the Tulsa LGBT+ community. Prepare to embark on epic adventures, forge new friendships, and immerse yourself in tabletop gaming. ? Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Special Events Brought to You Bi the Letter B Holiday Party Tuesday, December 12th | 7 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The Letter B is hosting a Holiday Party from 7-9 pm at the Equality Center. You can expect a familyfriendly holiday movie, an ugly sweater contest, and a potluck! The Dec 26 meeting is canceled due to the holiday. (Our next support group meeting will be Jan 9.) .. . . .. .. • • • . ·.• • ·-: •• • • •• Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree at OKEQ 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesday, December 13th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Can you make a difference this holiday season? Look no further than the Tulsa CARES Fairy Tree at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! By adopting a fairy from the tree, you can help bring joy and happiness to those in need. Join us and be a part of this beautiful cause! Today, Tulsa CARES is the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevention and care programs serving low-income individuals living with HIV/AIDS and Hepatitis C in the state. We recognize the critical importance of addressing social determinants of health to improve community health and reduce costs, and we specialize in wrap-around, client-tailored care that is rooted in principles of empowerment, selfworth, inclusion, and hope. Tulsa CARES Don't wait to get started - gift lists are ready for pick-up, and center hours are 9 am to 9 pm, Tuesday to Thursday, and 9 am to 6 pm Friday and Saturday. The deadline for gifts to be returned is Wednesday, December 13th. Gifts should be returned unwrapped. Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 as a community response to the growing need for coordinated HIV/ AIDS care during some of the darkest days of the epidemic. For more than three decades, Tulsa CARES has provided a compassionate response as HIV/ AIDS has evolved from a fatal illness to a chronically managed disease. Equality Business Alliance Monthly Mixer Thursday, December 14th | 6-8p yogaQUEST & Energy Environments, Inc. 3325 E. 31st Street Tulsa, OK Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. are excited to Co-host the final OkEq Monthly Mixer of 2023! The evening will include a brief 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... overview of their services, as well as an invitation to sample the weekly Functional Movement class that will be taking place – you are able to wear street clothes! Additionally, the Mixer will take place amidst a gallery of artwork for sale to benefit a family of six (6) and three (3) children from YST in Tulsa. Their 2 nd Annual WellArts Exhibit & Sale opened Saturday, 11/25 and will have the Opening Reception & Holiday Bash, Friday, 12/1 6-8p – all are welcome to attend! There will be food, drink and live entertainment from local talent, Andrea Kyle! Kathy Clarke, CEO, Owner, Energy Environments, Inc., www.energyenvironments.com. Dee Anne Day, CEO, Owner, yogaQUEST, tulsayogaquest.com As food and beverages will be served, please RSVP so that we may plan accordingly. You may RSVP by calling 918.743.4297. rA-lA-lA ICHTMAR! 8!rOR! CH AlfTMAt ffl!Jlfilfil'/\Zill!\.&i~,--,v,liti);,...,...:fil•.,.,,.,.l•lJ Even though the intent is to sell artwork to raise funds, a lover of art may not have the wall space so instead, yogaQUEST and Energy Environments are also accepting donations for the recipients. Visit the website, tulsayogaquest.com to view the list of items received from F&CS and YST. They are also accepting gift cards for purchases of the family’s needs. Please visit Tulsa yogaQUEST and Energy Environments, Inc. to learn more information about offerings about upcoming events. Fa-La-La Ball: Nightmare Before Christmas Saturday, December 16th l 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Prepare for an unforgettable holiday season with the Falala Ball: Nightmare Before Christmas, brought by Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Please consider donating an unwrapped toy or making a direct monetary donation to help us support the less fortunate. Tickets Join us for an evening filled with live entertainment, delicious food and drinks, and exciting raffles that will make your night even more magical. Not only will you have a fantastic time, but you'll also be giving back to those in need. Take advantage of the chance to celebrate the holidays in style while making a difference in your community! We are also accepting donations of non-perishable food items, hygiene and grooming items (such as hair care, soap, nail clippers, deodorant, and menstruation products), household essentials (like toilet paper, cleaning supplies, small kitchen utensils and countertop appliances), and pet supplies. Thank you for your generosity in advance. Rainbow Room Present: A Christmas Cabaret Thursday, December | 21st 7-10p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Rainbow Room returns with a nontraditional spin on holiday classics. Join us on December 21st at 7 p in the Lynn Riggs Theater for an unforgettable night with your favorite headliners. Get your tickets now! Tickets Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, December 26th l 7-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 7:00 9:00 p.m. Rocky Horror Picture Show Friday-Sunday December 29th-31st l 10p Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK Tickets View Trailer "THE ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW" returns to Circle Cinema's big screen for the 13th consecutive year. Let's do the Time Warp again on Friday, Dec 28, and Saturday, Dec 29, at 10 pm28! As usual, audience participation is encouraged. Circle Cinema will have prop bags for sale at the concession stand. *No throwing objects at the screen and no water guns* Tickets $10, $8.00 Circle Cinema members Join in on the fun as hapless Janet and Brad attempt to navigate the exotic and erotic castle of Dr. FrankN-Furter (Tim Curry). Also stars Susan Sarandon NYE: Cheers to the New Year Sunday, December 31st l 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tickets Are you looking for the perfect way to welcome the New Year? Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! With one free raffle ticket and a complimentary 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... champagne toast with delicious snacks, your taste buds will be delighted. And that's not all - there will also be short-order food to satisfy your cravings. But the real party starts when the Live DJ hits the stage, playing all your favorite tunes and setting the perfect vibe for the night. And that's just the beginning - you'll also enjoy performances from the 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, and Tracy La Louisianne! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, January 6th l 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th | 9:30p-1a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We would like to invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... V . 621 E 4TH STREET TULSA OK, 74120 · . HOIEWUD BOUND PUG RESCUE TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo In Memoriam 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoriWTI In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming OKEO -ci=-cf- HEALTH -ci=-cfCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! The Library is in need of volunteers! The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! If you are interested in volunteering, 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. scour rrzooP 74-g4- 5C0Uf1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D ALL GIRL5 AND 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOUTH fffRY rttv/UMY OF TH, MONTH 6,30 P"' Fair Housing: Legal Aid .;. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 .&.. O https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... i,, T it( I 1/ir,11) / 1•11} ~1,1111d Tu1 ,do1y ti/ Tl1t \ fo111J, ~ ➔ Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Broug11lt Tjo Yott Bi lt1J ~ IL~ t t ~ tt --~~ ,rj ~~~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "IT'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =slPD~ 09:F Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncll@1r ~'Oill])]JXIDrffi @lP®'Oill]) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&S First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm ~IJ!. llm1l1, ~ p . ~ Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Grupo Trans en Espanol Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 877 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol : Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq. org/ donate 4/29/26, 12:20 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:20 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/3459860b62ba3795dc1dee82d591f16c.pdf 626684bb30791ae279e2a271ee34d227 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm Volunteer Opportunity: Become the Welcoming Face of OKEQ! Are you passionate about serving your community? OKEQ is seeking enthusiastic front desk volunteers to be the welcoming presence at our center. As a front desk volunteer, you'll greet and guide guests, handle phone inquiries, and assist in distributing essential resources. This role offers an exceptional chance to engage with our community and make a meaningful impact. Front desk shifts typically run for 3 hours once a week, with opportunities for more involvement if your schedule allows. We currently have openings during the following times: Tuesdays 9 am-12 pm Wednesdays 9 am-12 pm Thursdays 9 am-12 pm Fridays Saturdays 9 am-12 pm 12-3 pm 12-3 pm 3-6 pm 12-3 pm 3-6 pm 12-3 pm 1st &3rd 3-6 pm If you can dedicate some of your time and want to join our dedicated team, please email Olivia at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Make a difference and be a vital part of our community at OKEQ! Special Events Rainbow Room Present: A Christmas Cabaret Thursday, December | 21st 7-10p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Rainbow Room returns with a nontraditional spin on holiday classics. Join us on December 21st at 7 p in the Lynn Riggs Theater for an unforgettable night with your favorite headliners. Get your tickets now! Tickets Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, December 26th l 7-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming • Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 7:00 9:00 p.m. • ---- 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rocky Horror Picture Show Friday-Sunday December 29th-31st l 10p Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK Tickets View Trailer "THE ROCKY HORROR PICTURE SHOW" returns to Circle Cinema's big screen for the 13th consecutive year. Let's do the Time Warp again on Friday, Dec 28, and Saturday, Dec 29, at 10 pm28! As usual, audience participation is encouraged. Circle Cinema will have prop bags for sale at the concession stand. *No throwing objects at the screen and no water guns* Tickets $10, $8.00 Circle Cinema members Join in on the fun as hapless Janet and Brad attempt to navigate the 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... exotic and erotic castle of Dr. FrankN-Furter (Tim Curry). Also stars Susan Sarandon NYE: Cheers to the New Year Sunday, December 31st l 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tickets Are you looking for the perfect way to welcome the New Year? Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! With one free raffle ticket and a complimentary champagne toast with delicious snacks, your taste buds will be delighted. And that's not all - there will also be short-order food to satisfy your cravings. But the real party starts when the Live DJ hits the stage, playing all your favorite tunes and setting the perfect vibe for the night. And that's just the beginning - you'll also enjoy performances from the 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, and Tracy La Louisianne! Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, January 6th l 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th | 9:30p-1a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We would like to invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be recognized for their contributions. Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. STORYTELLING ROUNDTABLE 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... UISCUSS tne impact OT t-OOO Insecurity & Hunger on Your Life! Storytellers receive: • $150 Check or Gift Card after W-9 is received • Mileage reimbursement • Childcare reimbursement • Transportation if needed • Lunch and snacks • A safe space to share stories & create community 18+ & 2SLGBTQIA+ ONLY! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, January 27, 2024 10 AM - 3 PM CST Limited Space Available Apply Here by January 10: hfok.org/Jan27Roundtable -e-:,a HUNGER • FREE nn OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HOIEWUD BOUND PUG RESCUE ' &lllmlllfllUIIU TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: STATE-WIDE COMMUNITY SURVEY Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-s://t.ly/EEO mo 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaum In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-5p Wednesdays - 9a-5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. Thursdays - 9a-1 p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog Volunteer Sign-up . FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Housin scour rrzooP 11g1 SCOlJf"ffiOOP IS OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND "ffiANSINONBINARY YOUTH fffRY TttVRSMY OF rtt, MONTtt 6,30pM ~ Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to help LGBTQ+ youth manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Lawyer in the Library Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt r::'\ lJIUE~R WOMEN ' S 1'Jo YOlll Bi ,~ilJ~ )L(?;f t(?;lf 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§ § ~~ 'v'QdJ C!:::,§& 'v'W@=§[pO~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ---· This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r®rncil®1r - ~'Olll])~lru @IBID'Olll]) 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ ► OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA ~~nnnn 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I I Kl'li:i First and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaf\ol : Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds 4/29/26, 12:21 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ooe e s • Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:21 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/5eb2c79d1d4d74e663a5fa74c60fe606.pdf 072e013882f11fc9789f0d9bcedccf31 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed Tuesday through Thursday: 9 am-9 pm Friday/Saturday: 9 am-6 pm WE WILL BE CLOSED FoR THE HOLIDAYS\ CLOSED 30th December 2023 REOPENING 2nd January 2023 at 9 :00 M + 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Volunteer Opportunity: Become the Welcoming Face of OKEQ! Are you passionate about serving your community? OKEQ is seeking enthusiastic front desk volunteers to be the welcoming presence at our center. As a front desk volunteer, you'll greet and guide guests, handle phone inquiries, and assist in distributing essential resources. This role offers an exceptional chance to engage with our community and make a meaningful impact. Front desk shifts typically run for 3 hours once a week, with opportunities for more involvement if your schedule allows. We currently have openings during the following times: Tuesdays 9 am-12 pm Wednesdays 9 am-12 pm Thursdays 9 am-12 pm 12-3 pm 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Fridays 12-3 pm 3-6 pm Saturdays 12-3 pm 1st & 3rd 3-6 pm 1st & 3rd If you can dedicate some of your time and want to join our dedicated team, please email Olivia at olivia.cotter@okeq.org. Make a difference and be a vital part of our community at OKEQ! New Programming • ON-SITE COUNSELING • -. . . - - .. . -4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Uklahomans tor .l:!.quallty now otters counseling services for adults and youths on-site at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center through CREOKS Health Services. CREOKS Behavioral Health Services • DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 918. 743-4297 • • ON-SITE COUNSELING • • ON-SITE COUNSELING • YOUTH COUNSELING ADULT COUNSELING We nd y will b e providin g se rvices to youths age d 25 a nd und e r. Pe tr a will b e providin g se rvice s to adults a ges 21 and up. ~ ~ iii ~ ~ iii CREOKS CREOKS Behavioral Health Services e Behavioral Health Services DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 918.743-4297 e e DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 918.743-4297 e Special Events WEARE HIRING 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Require men ts: • High school diploma or equivalent required. • Knowledge of community resources of targeted LGBTIQA+ population • Experience working with the targeted population • Pay begins at $36,729.76 annually tu lsa-health.org/careers ~ ~ TULSA HEALTH n l&I Department Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, December 26th l 7-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 7:00 9:00 p.m. 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?Framily Day Returns for a Joyful Celebration! ? Friday, December 29th l 12-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for another heartwarming day filled with laughter, connection, and support. Whether you're seeking a space for relaxation, healing, or to enjoy the company of your Framily, this event is for you! ?? Save the date, invite your Framily members, and make December 29th a day of love, laughter, and connection. ?✨?? We can't wait to celebrate the warmth of Framily with you again! ? Activities for Everyone: Explore arts and crafts, engage in thoughtful discussions, and partake in community-building activities that celebrate the beautiful diversity within our Framily. ? Family Grief and Religious Trauma Support Group: For those navigating family grief or religious trauma, our support group will meet again during Framily Day. Join us in a safe and understanding space to share experiences and find support. Rocky Horror Picture Show Friday-Sunday December 29th-31st l 10p Circle Cinema 10 S. Lewis Ave. Tulsa, OK A Circle Cinema tradition returns for its 17th consecutive year! Let’s do the time warp again with a Special Guest Host each night. As usual, audience participation and costumes are encouraged! Prop bags for sale at the concession stand for $5. 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Fri, Dec 29 – Anita Richards Sat, Dec 30 – Little Miss MG Sun, Dec 31 - Adonia 9 PM Gallery Pre-show 10 PM Film $15 General Admission $12 Circle Members Tickets View Trailer NYE: Cheers to the New Year Sunday, December 31st l 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Are you looking for the perfect way to welcome the New Year? Join us for an unforgettable New Year's Eve celebration! With one free raffle ticket and a complimentary champagne toast with delicious snacks, your taste buds will be delighted. And that's not all - there will also be short-order food to satisfy your cravings. Tickets But the real party starts when the Live DJ hits the stage, playing all your favorite tunes and setting the perfect vibe for the night. And that's just the beginning - you'll also enjoy performances from the 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, and Tracy La Louisianne! ..af. ouT OF 0..C 11\t.llMATION ti j DONATE BLOOD &SAVE LIVES Oklahomans for Equality Blood Drive THIS WINTER! NATIONAL BLOOD Oklahomans for Equality R~~<?~ Blood Drive Saturday, January 6 • 10 a.m. - 2 p.m. Event Center (621 E. 4th St.) Saturday, January 6th l 10 a-2 p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tn m.::akA ;an ;annnintmAnt~ 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Schedule an Appointment Oklahomans for Equality Presents Rising Stars! Saturday, January 6th l 3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Do you possess exceptional talent and skills and are between the ages of 13 and 18? Oklahomans for Equality Youth Talent Show is the perfect platform for you to showcase your abilities on stage! Our team of experienced stylists and makeup artists will be available via our workshop to help you bring your vision to life. Don't let this incredible opportunity slip away! Be sure to display your talents to the world! Contact shay.brewer@okeq.org for more information. Tulsa Pride Pageant 2024 honoring King and Queen Micah Membrane & Karma Eclectic Sunday, January 7th | 9:30p-1a Club Majestic 124 N Boston Tulsa, OK We would like to invite you to attend the 2024 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Our 2024 Tulsa Pride King and Queen will be crowned, and our esteemed 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Karma Eclectic, will be 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 f I https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... HONORING . MICAH MEMBRANE& l -KARMA 30AY TULSA PRIDE BOOKING ' CROWN/SASH ' WINNER $300.00 ($150.00 AT SIGNING) recognized for their contributions. MORE INFORMATION PLEASE CONTACT: MICAH MEMBRANE & KARMA ECLECTIC To participate in the pageant, candidates must have completed a minimum of 10 to 15 hours of community service from any organization, accompanied by a certified letter. Additionally, entrants must be of a minimum age of 18 years. I ~ ClfCTIC_ - Should you have any queries, please do not hesitate to contact 2023 Tulsa Pride King Micah Membrane at Mollylynne@me.com or 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Eclectic at jackpaustin13@gmail.com. Promoters: Tanna Gioletti-Brewer and Shay Brewer. For additional information, please get in touch with Shay.Brewer@okeq.com. The crowned winners will receive a Tulsa Pride Crown and Sash, bookings for Tulsa Pride Bingos, Tulsa Pride, and OKEQ Chapter Prides, two (2) promo pictures, and a cash prize of $300. All proceeds go to Oklahomans for Equality and Tulsa Pride. STORYTELLING ROUNDTABLE Discuss the Impact of Food Insecurity & Hunger on Your Life! Storytellers receive: • $150 Check or Gift Card after W-9 is received • Mileage reimbursement • Childcare reimbursement • Transportation if needed • Lunch and snacks • A safe space to share stories & create community 18+ & 2SLGBTQIA+ ONLY! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Saturday, January 27, 2024 10 AM - 3 PM CST Limited Space Available Apply Here by January 10: J_ L_ _ I - 1, _ ""'It.~,....,. - _a 1- 1 - 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... nroK.org/ JanL1Kounacao1e - ~ HUNGER • FREE nn OKLAHOMA TRANS ADVOCACY COALITION OF OKLAHOMA PRESENTS: 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ._....,. ....... ... - - ,,...,,,.... __ - - ._. Are you an Oklahoman whose gender identity, expression, or experience is different from the norm? Are you 13 or older? We want to determine community needs for financial and other support programs. Please fill out this survey and send it to anyone else you know! httP-S://t.ly /EEO mo STATE OF LGBTQ+ AGING Re/weTtr8e I • .:ll./ ilAIIU~. sao-e I~~~~~~~! ~' LGBTQ+ Elders We refuse to be invisible This research study focuses on learning more about LGBTQ+ people aged 50 and older across the country, including their experiences, needs, and resiliencies as they get older. The information you provide about your experiences will help us to identify what kinds of healthcare and related services may be important for LGBTQ+ older people from diverse backgrounds. You are being asked to participate in the study because you meet the following criteria: You are aged 50 or older, and you identify as LGBTQ+. If you agree to participate in this study, you will be asked to complete a one-time survey that may take 30 to 45 minutes. This study includes only a minimal risk related to potential psychological discomfort when discussing sensitive matters related to your health and life experiences. 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Participation in research is voluntary. You may choose either to take part or not to take part in the study. If you decide to take part in this study, you may leave the study at any time. No matter what decision you make, there will be no penalty to you in any way. You will not lose any of your regular benefits, and you can still access services the way you usually do. If you have any questions about the study, please contact Dr. Jason Flatt, Assistant Professor at UNLV at 702-895-5586. If you wish to ask questions about the study or your rights as a research participant to someone other than the researchers or if you wish to voice any problems or concerns you may have about the study, please call the UNLV Institutional Review Board at 702-895-2794. TAKE SURVEY In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurrn In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming -1-- OKEO LIC:AI TLJ -1-- OKEQ Health Clinic 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 er ■ https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I IL..f""'\L.111 CLINIC er Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a-4p Wednesdays - 9a-4p Thursdays - 9a-12p Fridays - 1p-4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you want to start or transfer services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Nat,XY &Joe McDonald Rainbow Library The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer Sign-up The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library Catalog 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... .. FREE HIV Testing H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention, and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4-6 p.m. A.C.E. - Ace's Committed to Equality A.C.E. is a new weekly support group for the asexual community and Allies. They will meet weekly on Tuesdays at 6-7 p.m. If you would like more information, please don't hesitate to contact Tyger at TygerSongbird@gmail.com. Housin scour rrzooP 11g1 SCOUflROOP IS OPEN TO ALL GIRLS AND lRANS/NONBINARY YOUTH ff.RY TttVRSMY OF rtt, MONTtt 6,30pM .;.. Fair Housing: Legal Aid SCOUTS TROOP 7484 Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues on Wednesdays from 12 to 4 p.m. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650 or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Hey there! If you want to join Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet on Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Oklahomans For Equality NOW OFFERI a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based group to helo LGBTO+ vouth 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... manage stress. Affirm We are thrilled to share that AFFIRM, a Cognitive Behavioral Therapy-based program, is now available through Oklahomans for Equality. This program is designed to support LGBTQ+ youth in managing stress and promoting overall well-being. For ages 14-19! Affirm meets Fridays at 6 p.m. on This fantastic program lasts 10-12 weeks and has room for up to 15 participants. Take advantage of this incredible opportunity! Lawyer in the Library Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Email julie.goree@laok .org Phone (918)295-9429. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. She is available the second Tuesday of each ( Support Group for Partners of Transgender People The initiative offers a comprehensive platform encompassing support, educational enrichment, and social engagement tailored for partners of transgender and nonbinary individuals aged 18 and above. To ensure a cohesive experience, our gatherings are scheduled on the first Wednesday of each month, from 7-8 p.m. As an essential component of our enrollment procedure, we would like to ask all prospective attendees to engage in an initial interview. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. This clinic occurs the second Wednesday of each month, 5.30-7.30 p.m. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... month from 5.30-7 p.m. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Brougbt 1' 0 Yott Bi 1'!1~ L~tter 1 1 Queer Women's Collective Brought To You Bi The Letter B Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. The program provides support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied women, who are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month at 7:00 pm.- 8:00 pm. For more information, email Amanda Gould (she/her) or Miranda Weiss (she/her) Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0~@)0~0@!10§§~~ 7J"l10[b§& "iJ"W@=§lP0~0"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month, 7-9p - This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · @r@rncil®IP ~l!UIJ)I]XIDlru @rP©l!UIJ) Gender Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach You'll need to have a first-time interview before attending your first meeting. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7-8.30p For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS l. l. ' 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month at 7p For more information, email madiganconnect@cox.net or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10a at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7-8p - 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00p at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. ~ OKLAHOMANS FOR £QUALITY TULSA TTRP&s first and third Saturday of the month from 12noon - 6pm Grupo Trans en Espanol Tulsa TTRPGs Mark your calendars! Our gaming sessions now occur on the 1st and 3rd Saturday of each month 12-6p, starting on the 18th. From Dungeons & Dragons to board games and beyond, there's something for everyone to enjoy. Please feel free to contact Weaver with any questions. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. Reúne cada primer y último jueves de cada mes. Un grupo de apoyo para mujeres trans género en español. 6PM - 8PM. | Contacto: elizabeth.ortiz@okeq.org Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navi gators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.o rg/healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get help applying for 1~ S upplemental : ~!~~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ - ... .I HUNGER FREE 4/29/26, 12:23 PM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ••■■ UKLAHUMA OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Directors Zoe Brett Eddie Carreno Claire Combs Kaylyn Compton Julia Fletcher Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Kylie Vanderslice Monique Washington Board of Advisors Jodi Rachel Green Stephen Haney Alexandria Hefner Bonita James Michael James Tifany Oslin Denise Reid Ann Reynolds Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 12:23 PM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/4a6636e8f92f38137454560e150b40c0.pdf f4963c4c6921350e70fb0150e46853af PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! With special performances by Branjae and Black Queer Tulsa! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS RSVP 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ?????Hold that pose for me! Join BQT & OKEQ at the Afro Punk Kiki Ball! It’s going down on May 13th, 9:30 at the Cox Business Center. Battle it out in three classic categories for the ultimate prize of not only cash but also the coveted bragging rights in Tulsa Ballroom. All proceeds from the Kiki Ball go directly to Black Queer Tulsa! Bring your best punk looks, collect your 10s & leave it on the floor! AFRO PUNK KIKI BALL TICKETS Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER TULSA PRIDE 2023 Tees and Tanks are Now Available for Pre-Order! OKEQ is excited to partner with Flash Flood Print Studios for Tulsa Pride 2023! Your purchase goes directly to supporting Tulsa Pride festivities and Oklahomans for Equality’s continuing mission of protecting the rights of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Order now! Pre-orders end at Midnight on Sunday, May 21. Orders will be ready on Friday, June 2, for shipping or pickup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 coco MONTRESE FRIDAY JOEY JAY SATURDAY JUNE 24TH 0 JAYZEER SHANTEY JUNE 23.24.25 8 PM 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec Meet and Greet 6 30pm-7 10pm $30 .00 COCO MONTRESEMEET & JAYZEER SHANTEYMEET & 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 GREET https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... GREET JOEY JAYMEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/ pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gal Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." Homicide Investigation Update Incident #2023-00023246 Date and Time: 04-09-2023 at approximately 0733 hours Location: SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street Victim: Stephens, Clayton Suspect(s): Unknown Disposition: Detectives are currently investigating a homicide that happened on 04-09-2023 . Officers responded to SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street on a report of a possible deceased individual. When officers arrived, they located a deceased male, later identified at Clayton Stephens. The Oklahoma Medical Examiner has taken Mr. Stephens' body and will conduct an autopsy for an official cause of death. The Lawton Police Department will release more information as it becomes available. If you have any information or witnessed anything, please contact the Lawton Police Department at 580-581-3272. You can remain anonymous and contact Crime Stoppers of Southwest 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahoma at 580-355-4636. -END- KSWO NEWS STORY GoFundMe \IS& Get h e l p . supplementa l applying for A • :~!~~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espanol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, May 9th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. LGBTQ+ Tulsa Community Forum Tuesday, May 9th | 10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK MAY 9 10 AM TO 11:30 AM DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 621 E 4TH STREET, TULSA OK 74120 We want to hear from you! How can the Alzheimer's Association better serve the LGBTQ+ Community in the Greater Tulsa area? Join us for a community forum to share your views on Alzheimer's and dementia care in the community and how we can help. Contact Jacob Guinan at jbguinan@alz.org for more information. REGISTER Housin of otlahoma will be assistins Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, May 10th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ~XPeR1menT8L D81nTlnG WORIG~OP THURSDAY, MAY 11 I 7pm ot Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Experimental Painting Workshop Thursday, May 11th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Have a fun night out with friends or a date and paint with unique objects! This program is for adults, 18+. Capacity is limited. Adult beverages available for purchase with valid ID, and snacks will be provided. Tickets are $10 for members, $15 for non-members and cover all supplies and materials. TICKETS TULSA RE~LLY.z REALLYFREc MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Sunday• 12p-~p I 621 E. ~th St Clothing • Housewores • Books • Godgets • Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, May 21st | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle Month of May | Open during center 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tammye Randle presents at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. Pride Bar Crawl x OKEQ Saturday, June 17th | 4p-12a Hunt Club 224 N Main St, Tulsa, OK The 2022 Pride Crawl was a huge success and we were able to donate $22,653 to the Trevor Project! This year, we are donating locally. 20% of all event proceeds will be going to Oklahomans For Equality. ___ Donation Page https://okeq.org/donate/ TICKETS -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurrn Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Carol Smith Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Matt Brooks Born Day - 2022 Daniel Davis Aston Jul 8, 1994 - Nov 20, 2022 Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member Steve Walley Mar, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming ~W OMEN ' S UEER 0 L L ECTIVE Brougbt T 0 Yott Bi 1 T lt1J ~ IL(?; t t (?; tt 1 -~~~ ~~!!,,"!!,,"~~ 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 0~@0~0@(10@:§~~ 'v'QdJCbs& 'v'W@=§[p0~0'v' Sin Fronteras IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... @®rncll@1r ~DD.l])!PXIDifa ®rf@DD.1]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE ' 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustee Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:38 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... oo• Our Company | Contact Us | FAQs | Privacy Policy Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:38 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/412bbe8c30b572a46527c48aaab59039.pdf ff1080306496ae2f42cc7dd05b414e66 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OF TULSA PRIDE 2023 Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Thank you to our 2022 King of Tulsa Pride King Mykal Khrystian, and 2022 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, for serving their term and being a part of the Tulsa Pride Royal Family. ? Thank you to our 2020-2021 King of Tulsa Pride King Blaze Khrystian and 2020-2021 Queen of Tulsa Pride Kitty Marie Legacy 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ? Thank you to our hosts, 2019 King and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Scrappy Legacy, and Emeritus Anita Richards. ? Thank you to our judges, volunteers, and attendees for joining us and crowning our Tulsa Pride King and Queen for 2023. ❤??????? We want to thank Club Majestic Tulsa for hosting our 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, January 24th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, Jan 26th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Tulsa Ballet. The international press has described Tulsa Ballet as “one of the best in the world” A professional company of international dancers representing 14 countries performs six times a year. The Tulsa Ballet Center for Dance Education offers classes for ages 3adult at two campuses: in Tulsa on Brookside and in Broken Arrow at the Hardesty Center for Dance Education. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, Jan 28th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tu l,o Prode Ementu, Ar,to Rocho,d,& Scrappy Legocy ,ngo u,o Queeno/ Tul,o P,de P,d., M,coh Me,.,b,one Karmo Eclechc ,t1, TICK ET S WWW O KE O ORG TICKETS Tulsa Pride Bingo is BACK! This Saturday, January 28th, play some Bingo, be entertained, win prizes, and raise money for Tulsa Pride 2023! - Enjoy performances from our newly crowned Pride Royalty, 2023 King of Tulsa Pride Micah Membrane & 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, 2019 King of Tulsa Pride Scrappy Legacy, and 2019 Queen of Tulsa Pride and Emeritus Anita Richards with special guests Keisha Kye and Granny Rainbow! - Prizes are sponsored by Equality Business Alliance members, Aaru Entertainment, Dalesandro's Italian Cuisine, Hodges Bend, Bohemian Wood Fire Pizza, Go 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Beyond Performance, Empire Slice House, Tonsorial Barbershop, and St. Vitus. This event is 18+ 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Nancy Moran Month of January Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Nancy Moran presents "Collage Conversations: Self-care for the Activist Soul" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, January 5th at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display for the month of January. Nancy Moran, a long time Tulsa activist, dares to believe that people can, and will, do the right thing. To her that has meant organizing to open Tulsa’s first transitional living center for unhoused persons with chronic mental illness, leading an antiwar movement, supporting immigrant rights, and working on getting Tulsa, an oil and gas town, to commit to 100% renewable energy. It takes a lot of energy, and positive self-talk, to continue acting upon these convictions. She sees other people having the same struggles. Creating collages is a means of providing encouragement, for herself and others. As a nurse and a mindbody medicine scholar, she sees collage-making as a whole body-brain activity allowing her to steep herself in the values and motivation needed to keep up the good fight. Through her “Dispatches from the Collage Cutting Factory,” she uses these collages as a means to reflect on a variety of topics ranging from mindfulness, selfcompassion, spirituality, ecology, 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tenacity, and the importance of refusing to be a spectator in a world that needs each and every one of us to be a force for good. Her collages in essays may be found at https://www.facebook.com/ Collagesandcoktails 0 Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - HITS & Misses Thursday, Feb 16th | 7:30 pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren’t so lucky. Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren't so lucky. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Tickets are on sale now. 0 Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, Feb 19th | 12:00pm-4pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades!?? Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures.? 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEO -ci=- HEALTH -ci=-f- -i CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Letter From the President Dear Friends, We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR ; SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER - AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION. WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SIC.NED , OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS." I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA+ COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED, BOB HANSON ~ 11 . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME . PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES . WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ •s VOLUNTEER TREASURER : • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS . WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ENGAGED A NEW ACCOUNTING FIRM : •WEARE WORKING WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY . WE ARE SHARING THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKING URGENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVING FORWARD . WE ARE DETERMINING WHAT PROGRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARING MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME . I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTING OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE . HEALTHY AND THRIVING . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11. l 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT ----~ DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOL I DAY SEASON I S A T I ME FOR GRATITUDE , AND THIS YEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY GRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMING SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURING THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LGBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRING WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS GRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS . THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKING TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENGTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LEGACY OF TOBY "S WORK THROUGH THE MANY EVENTS . PROGRAMS . AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVING YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS . I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS . THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDGE . DEDICATION . AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINGS MORE THAN lS YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS . MARKETING . AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANAGEMENT . WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINGNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ THROUGH TH I S TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE GROUND RUNNING AND IS BUILDING A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARING MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROGRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RIGGS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURING TRAVIS GUILLORY AT 7 : 30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE AGAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTING OUR STRATEGY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR GENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUGH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENGES , WE HAVE AN EXCITING OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EXPANDING NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUND I NG AND HISTORY AS A GRASSROOTS ORGANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS . THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS GROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE GREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUING TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUGH THIS TIME OF CHANGE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BIGGER AND BRIGHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11. 2 l . 2 2 11.21.22 In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 20 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @r@mcll@IT ~ffil])l]XID~ @IT®ffil]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 20 lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E - Stuck figuring out what you want t o submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ~ - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ohort - performonce crdocumontaru FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, o, drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClck on~ v: - - ~ ~ - - YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQlUII.IL.aitwy © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Beklngs Ycu VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES c.wnpe.gn IO ra«se Nnds and 5'JPPOf1 for O-.. llbfaty seeks 10 increese ec::cess 10 and sa,pe of LBGTOIA• mMeo9ls Donal& 10d8yl ......,.,, 0. COngrlb,la)llslOWA'l(ffOStalOTmBIUMIOIIIMl'ftOllll'lg Ollr~lllflOM(ftClll..-h011011ot'August'SeplemDef T Reql,esill.lnlycard Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ - The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... persons. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A P ROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES KAO MORRIS ANDI GUNTER HE/ HIM I HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHE / HER / HERS SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS OPERATIONS MANGER 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 20 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • DONNA MATTHEWS SHE/ HER/ HERS LILY PINA GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free t oday! 4/29/26, 11:27 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/5b37920d55333e3da6e6b118b0b1e0fd.pdf 85432cbae0be73ff2e2ba41a5887d746 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! the center is closed Monday, January 30th due to inclement weather. please stay safe and warm. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OF TULSA PRIDE 2023 Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Thank you to our 2022 King of Tulsa Pride King Mykal Khrystian, and 2022 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, for serving their term and being a part of the Tulsa Pride Royal Family. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ? Thank you to our 2020-2021 King of Tulsa Pride King Blaze Khrystian and 2020-2021 Queen of Tulsa Pride Kitty Marie Legacy ? Thank you to our hosts, 2019 King and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Scrappy Legacy, and Emeritus Anita Richards. ? Thank you to our judges, volunteers, and attendees for joining us and crowning our Tulsa Pride King and Queen for 2023. ❤??????? We want to thank Club Majestic Tulsa for hosting our 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, January 31st | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Free HIV Testing Wednesday, February 1st | 5:30pm - 7:00pm Nothing's Left Brewing Co. 1502 E 6th, Tulsa, OK Facebook Event Join like-minded women in Tulsa at a monthly happy hour for queer professionals. LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! 08 Thursdays in the Rainbow 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Room - HITS & Misses TICKETS Thursday, February 16th | 7:30pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren’t so lucky. Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren't so lucky. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Tickets are on sale now. 0 Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, February 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo 2023!?⚧ frj T I CKETS WWW OKEQ ORG Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride. Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from local Drag Kings and Queens and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic. ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+ 0 TULSA REALLY,.a REALLYFREi: MARKET E • A Co mmun1ty $ hor1n9 Evc nt 2/19 12p,pl621E 4thSt Fu•ftCl•thz•. K.u..wuo• • ~k• • ~'!r"i Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, Feb 19th | 12:00pm-4pm RSVP 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades!?? Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures.? Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, February 23th | 6:00pm - 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Aaru Games A Community for Game Lovers, Professionals, and Creators. Meet up, play games, and collaborate. We welcome you to work from our cafe, take part in events, or just spend time with friends and your favorite tabletop games. https://www.aaru.games/ The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm 0 PROUD BRUNCH Sunday, February 26th | 12pm-2pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Join us as we PROUDLY celebrate Black History Month with our PROUD BRUNCH. Performance by Drevion Dior, Londenn D. Raine, Scarppy Legacy, Iman Scott, Sasha V. King, and Kayy Kayy! Menu: French Toast Chicken & Waffles Bottomless: Mimosa's Bloody Marys This event is 18+. This event is open to all. 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Carle THE Artiste RSVP Month of February Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Carle THE Artiste presents "Matter of the Heart" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, February 2nd, at 6pm. The exhibit will 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... be on display for the month of February. Carle THE Artiste (he/they/Xe) is a gender-fluid painter and dancer that uses surrealism to bring their pain and traumatic experiences to life. Their main source of creating is through oil and acrylic painting, but he has also found that their soul resonates through interpretive ritualistic dancing and drag. For more information about the artist visit, https:// www.outofmindart.com/ Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, March 4th | 11am-5pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Transgendered Resource Fair of 2023 on March 4th from 11a-5p. The Resource Fair will be hosted in the Bruce Goff Event Center and Lynn Riggs Theatre. TICKETS EXHIBITO R SIGN UP ?⚧ Information, help, and support for the Transgendered, Gender NonConforming, and Gender Question Community as well as their allies. ?⚧ 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For this event, we will be offering a platform to our exhibitors to give a 10 or 25 minute presentation in the Lynn Riggs Theatre concerning their Organization, Products, or Services. If you'd like to be an exhibitor, please click the exhibitor link to sign up. 0 Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, March 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo 2023!?⚧ TI CKETS WWW OKEQ ORG Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride. Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from local Drag Kings and Queens and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic. ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+ 0 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Letter From the President 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dear Friends, We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 \..ANNV I https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... l:.At'Ha:.;ai;, l:.NVU\.IM MUYY '-tHAI 1:.t"UL YYI:. 14.;, I Ml:. DUA.HU AHi:. r-uH Ml:.H \.IUILIAN\..I:. ANLI Ll:.ALll:.H;ain1..- UYl:.H I Ml:. LA~ I VEAR ; SHE HAS GUIDED US THROUGH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS VEAR HAS BEEN A VEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME GOOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUGH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO GRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE. OUR STAFF IS AMAZING AND HAS BEEN WORKING SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITING NEW THINGS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSING ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERING REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FIGHTING THE ATTACK ON GENDER · AFFIRMING CARE. THE RECENT PASSAGE AND SIGNING OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDING CENDERAFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVING FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES . LEGISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LEGISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SIGNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , "THIS MAKES ME SO MAD. ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS." I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKING ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT AGAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARGETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA+ COMMUNITY AGAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US, NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED, BOB HANSON ~ 11 . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME , PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MV HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER : • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TD THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM : •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLV TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT ~ 11 , 1 4 , 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT - ~-~ DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUDE , AND THIS VEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY CRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSACES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TD SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS CRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENCTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACV OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS, PROCRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVINC VDU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDCE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETINC , AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANACEMENT . WE ARE CRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINCNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH TH I S TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNINC AND IS BUILDINC A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORV AT 7 : 30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECV TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... :lUUNU ANU \..AN :lU:l IAIN I I~ IWll~~ I UN t"UH \.tt:Nt:HA I IUN~ I U \..UIWlt: . AL I NUU\.,oN I Nt:~t: ~Nit" I~ NULU I Nt:IH 11,,;NALLt:N\.tt:~ , Wt: HAVE AN EXCITINC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRICHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT ~ 11 , 2 1 , 2 2 11.21.22 In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111,gl11t T 0 You. Bi l-.JI11e Letter 1 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... women and build your network Curious, & Questioning individuals. Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @i@rncfil®IT ~ffi]])If@Lffi @IT@ffi]]) O~@O@O@ Qdl§§ ~g 'u'Qdl11,§ £ 'D'W@-§[)e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. ~~w@~H'll-00 ;-. ~@wu@ ~H@lhl'll' 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort - pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: 1. OKEQ Mwuwwy © ~ - _,,., _ _ _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOUI VOICE Belongs VoL.- VOICE IS Vahd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES t,,npeign 10 r81Se l,,nds and support lo, our library seeks to increase eccess 10 and scope: ol LBGTOIA• ma1e091s Donate 10d8yl Q. Searchtor ~ 10 U,rll rrosi.., TWI l!ltOM'I on llelf ~ C M ~ 11 Sl)OMOred II h"'I" IKll'IOl" lor ......~ • ~aux.,, C.-0 Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Library JANUARv2on c 1v 1L RI G HTS AWARENESS Donate & Support GAYLYco• d h te offq, .....,...,1, ... ~,,.i.. ....... r11...,1,,,_.,., ,,..__,_,.,..,_, ,.__..,, 11,1."1 ,\Ell,r-:,,:, 7 COUliC www.pyly.0D111 h~•noclle i•Jock""' fl~L nom>I· ~~"~ft~~~J~~io~;•: ~;ff pc~:n:•!~~::~; :~:;~~::~'.: :;•~:~IO:hn~:;;ct:::?.:ifr~; ~G YLY To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library , visit libraryc at.org/l ib/Tuls aRainb owLibr ary 1 (888) 773-8267 F-• ~ttf11l,proMd, 11nJpriw,u pl,11rM«yup,Nltf~ t:\ l':RY D,\\' ~IM, R_\I AC\ ' SP£aa4. LTl \lr 1Hc.-.·1l{)'IIS 11 - - - - '''REV,AJ\J - HEALT H n -- 5601 NW S!rtel ~ 142, OKC 11...,. Hnlf•,-.i4,• .,,1u.1"11, " '~lf"'f,,_,/y_lt'l~fa ,•II,,,.,._ (405) 896-7975 .. _, 1/_,r//H /J •. ('fJM Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an appointment. OKE 1 okeq. org/ donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE/ HER/ HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE I HER I HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James 4/29/26, 11:27 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:27 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/fe9a5ef1074f4b1c0963a864d10abf1c.pdf f8a37a09698bb3ca01c5be0972172bc3 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! The center is closed Monday, February 6th, 2023 for advocacy work at the Oklahoma State Capitol. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ABilly S. Jones-Hennin (b. 1942) Grew up in South Carolina and Virginia, adopted by civil rights activists with nine other adopted kids. ABilly served in the US Marine Corps and graduated from Virginia State University in 1967. After seven years of marriage, with three kids, he and his wife separated. ABilly moved to Minneapolis, where his LGBTQ activism started and where his identity as a sexual and racial minority came to the forefront. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ABilly and others launched the National Coalition of Black Gays in Columbia, Maryland, in 1978, a national advocacy org for African American gay men and lesbians, the first of its kind. In 1979 he helped to mobilize the first March on Washington for Lesbian and Gay Rights, that same historic weekend, he helped to convene the National Third World LGBT Conference at Howard University, which gave rise to Howard University’s Lambda Student Alliance, the first openly LGBT organization at an HBCU. ABilly has held many leadership roles within the Black and LGBTQ movements, including Minority Affairs Director of the National AIDS Network, founding member and co-chair of the National Coalition of Black Lesbians and Gays, a founding member of the Gay Married Men’s Association and the National Association of Black & White Men Together, board member of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force a.k.a The Task Force, and board member of BiNet USA. During the President Jimmy Carter administration, Jones-Hennin participated in the first delegation of gay people of color to meet with representatives of the President of the United States of America. ABilly identifies as bisexual* 2023 TULSA PRI 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Thank you to our 2022 King of Tulsa Pride King Mykal Khrystian, and 2022 Queen of Tulsa Pride, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, for serving their term and being a part of the Tulsa Pride Royal Family. ? Thank you to our 2020-2021 King of Tulsa Pride King Blaze Khrystian and 2020-2021 Queen of Tulsa Pride Kitty Marie Legacy ? Thank you to our hosts, 2019 King and Queen of Tulsa Pride, Scrappy Legacy, and Emeritus Anita Richards. ? Thank you to our judges, volunteers, and attendees for joining us and crowning our Tulsa Pride King and Queen for 2023. ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We want to thank Club Majestic Tulsa for hosting our 2023 Tulsa Pride Pageant. Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, February 7th | 4:00p 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Facebook Event H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name/Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, February 8th | 5:30p 7:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process and those who are interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Appointments are first come first serve. 08 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - HITS & Misses TICKETS Thursday, February 16th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren’t so lucky. Join Jeremy Stevens and his friends as they travel through the years singing songs that were winners - and songs that weren't so lucky. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Tickets are on sale now. Neff Love is Love Pint Night Thursday, February 16th | 5:00p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP It's February and love and/or the warm fuzzies of good craft beer is in the air! ? ?: @beercattbrett on instagram. Our February pint night features a "Love is Love" theme and a portion of the proceeds from this pint night will go to Oklahomans for Equality! ?❤ Love is Love Pint Night will be on February 16th starting at 5pm. For $15 you get this awesome limited edition, full color pint glass filled with your choice of beer. Buy the pint, keep the glass! ? Our last pint night sold out very quickly so if you NEED THIS AWESOME GLASS in your collection, make sure to head to the taproom at or right after 5pm. Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday, February 18th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo 2023!?⚧ Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride. Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic with special guest Adonis Alessi ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+. 0 TULSA REALLY,a REALLYFREc MARKET E A Commu n 1tyShar1n9Evenl : 2119 llp <p I 021 E <tn St ~ Fu,nClothn9 •.";i•..,.o•o, • ~ b • a:"';,•"j Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, Feb 19th | 12:00p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades!?? Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures.? Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, February 23th | 6:00p 7:30p Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Aaru Games - 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A Community for Game Lovers, Professionals, and Creators. Meet up, play games, and collaborate. We welcome you to work from our cafe, take part in events, or just spend time with friends and your favorite tabletop games. https://www.aaru.games/ The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.htm 0 PROUD BRUNCH Sunday, February 26th | 12p-2p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Join us as we PROUDLY celebrate Black History Month with our PROUD BRUNCH. Performance by Drevion Dior, Londenn D. Raine, Scarppy Legacy, Iman Scott, Sasha V. King, and Kayy Kayy! Menu: 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... French Toast Chicken & Waffles Bottomless: Mimosa's Bloody Marys This event is 18+. This event is open to all. 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Carle THE Artiste Month of February Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Art Carle THE Artiste presents "Matter of the Heart" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, February 2nd, at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display for the month of February. Carle THE Artiste (he/they/Xe) is a gender-fluid painter and dancer that uses surrealism to bring their pain and traumatic experiences to life. Their main source of creating is through oil and acrylic painting, but he has also found that their soul resonates through interpretive ritualistic dancing and drag. For more information about the artist visit, https:// www.outofmindart.com/ Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Transgender Resource Fair Saturday, March 4th | 11a-5p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us for our first Transgender Resource Fair of 2023 on March 4th from 11a-5p. The Resource Fair will be hosted in the Bruce Goff Event Center and Lynn Riggs Theatre. EXHIBITO R SIGN UP RSVP ?⚧ Information, help, and support for the Transgendered, Gender NonConforming, and Gender Question Community as well as their allies. ?⚧ For this event, we will be offering a platform to our exhibitors to give a 10 or 25 minute presentation in the Lynn Riggs Theatre concerning their Organization, Products, or Services. If you'd like to be an exhibitor, please click the exhibitor link to sign up. Our Voices Launch Party Thursday, March 9th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Our Voices Launch Party . . . .,,....,,.,. ? Anthology Project Vol.1 is out now, Be a part of Vol.2! Special Guests: K.O, rapper and singer from Endi, OK! ? Share your story with the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in the Lynn Riggs Theatre! ? For more information, contact Michelle at 918.850.7972 Check out our selection of books: https:// www.librarycat.org/lib/ TulsaRainbowLibrary. Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, March 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo 2023!?⚧ TI CKETS WWW O K EO ORG Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride. Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from local Drag Kings and Queens and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic. ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+ 0 -~-if- OKEO HEALTH -~-if- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Letter From the President Dear Friends, We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS. I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVI NC THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUCH HOW CRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER CUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR : SHE HAS CUIDED US THROUCH SOME OF THE TOUCH EST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON . BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER · AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN ' S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES. LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER - AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SICNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY, ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS .• I HAVEN ' T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME . OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA • COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US , NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED , BOB HANSON ~ l l . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME . PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZAT I ON RUN BY VOLUN T EERS . OVER T HE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW T O A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCAN I ZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER ; • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPET I TIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM : •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIA T ION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC . 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... :tJN\;lt.Hlt.LT BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 . l 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR GRATITUDE , AND THIS VEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY GRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMING SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURING THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSAGES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERING COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRING WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY , ESPECIALLY HIS GRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKING TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENGTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACV OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROGRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVING YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDGE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINGS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS , MARKETING , AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANAGEMENT. WE ARE GRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINGNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE GROUND RUNNING AND IS BUILDING A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 ATS PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROGRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURING TRAVIS GUILLORY AT 7,30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTING OUR STRATEGY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR GENERATIONS TO COME , ALTHOUGH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENGES , WE HAVE AN EXCITING OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD , WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDING AND HISTORY AS A GRASSROOTS ORGANIZATION CREATED TO SERVE ALL IN OUR COMMUNITY . AFTER OVER 40 YEARS , THE RICH DIVERSITY OF OUR COMMUNITY HAS CROWN AND OUR NEEDS • YOUR NEEDS · ARE GREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUING TO STAND WITH US AS WE WORK THROUGH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER AND BRIGHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT q 11 , 2 l , 2 2 11.21.22 In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum • t•• -.,,,,.,. .• r; O ti"' ,,,,, . V ... ~,. - .. ,.._., -~ . 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brou,g1tt "I1o You, Bi 1~1t~ Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @r@mcfil®IT ~ffil])l]XID~ @IT®ffil]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 25 during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E - Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ~ - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ohort - performonce crdocumontaru FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, o, drawing PICTURE IT ~ ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClck on~ v: - - ~ ~ - - YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQ lUII.IUlnly © Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Beklngs Your VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OOR VOtCES c.wnpe.gn 10 raise llnds Incl supp0f1 for 011 library seeks 10 increase ec::cess 10 and so::,pe of LBGTOIA• mateoals Donel& 10d8yl 0. Seara>f0< COngnb,lalllSIOWA'II rivsiaionrn Brown on IMl'-.eoall!!! OYrCIUlc9Ue11spoMOreCJ llftn'"hCIIIOl lofAu111n1:sepcer11Def Rirques11 T L.aai)'Card 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. 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Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... life. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC . OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER HE I HIM I HIS ANDI GUNTER KAO MORRIS SHE / HER / HERS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER OPERATIONS MANGER .:--=. • • DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE / HER / HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE/ HER/ HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid 4/29/26, 11:28 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:28 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/27251acbb08831885996dcc18162b13d.pdf 8da9149270c5a369faf2e5445c146f04 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to its annual Equality Gala. This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... MARCH 7TH. 7AM - 7PM ? Know before you vote: Check out the SQ 820 Fact Sheet via OK Policy. ? Check your registration status and find your polling location at the OK Voter Portal here. 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, March 7th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name/Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, March 8th | 5:30p 7:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process and those who are interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Appointments are first come, first serve. Our Voices Launch Party ,. Ill fORMORE INFORMATION.CONTACTMOCHELLEU 11 3 IS0-711' Thursday, March 9th | 6:30p 7:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Our Voices Launch Party Anthology Project Vol.1 is out now, Be a part of Vol.2! Special Guests: K.O, rapper and singer from Endi, OK! Share your story with the Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in the Lynn Riggs Theatre! 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, contact Michelle at 918.850.7972 Check out our selection of books: https:// www.librarycat.org/lib/ TulsaRainbowLibrary. 0 &POINT EAR ACUPUNCTURE !Iii;, Free 5 Point Ear Acupuncture March 18th & 19th | 10a-2p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Come out, relax, chill, and de-stress. Renew your energy and balance. Free Treatments. For more information contact Phyllis 520.471.1701 Robin 818.457.6750 Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, March 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo!?⚧ Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guest Londenn D Raine and Ivana B Real Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa This event is 18+ Doors open at 6:30p; Bingo at 7p 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, March 23th | 6:00p 7:30p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK 74119 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Ingredion. Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html 0 Thur_s1a1 ~ m i he Rainbow Rbom++ 111111 I II t t , I + FRESH MEAT: t + Th&l)lew Jen of Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Cabat"etA;tists 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Caleb Vaughn ~ March \ 0-7 ]oprn 111 • I + + + • Thursday, March 30th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Fresh Meat: The new Gen of Cabaret Artists with Clare Holt and Caleb Vaughn. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Doors open at 7p; Show at 7:30p Ill Kln.~ , fl~Jnl 111: 0l\uusn lll . QUIJJisc, The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Audrey Byrd Month of March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Audrey Byrd presents "The Diversity of Queer Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibit will be on display for the month of March. “The Diversity of Queer Sex” is a special project that intends to show the many ways that queer people show their love and affection, outside of the as-seen-onTV heteronormative trope. Queer sex is not heavily represented in mainstream media, and there are often misconceptions about what intimacy looks like in the queer community. We are often hypersexualized and disrespected, but I wanted to reclaim that stereotyped sexuality by showing both modest sensuality and kinky dominance veiled in exaggerated colors and abstract contortions. Yes, our love can be alternative and shocking to the public eye, but it is also gentle and precious. It goes without saying that this collection doesn’t scratch the surface of the true scope of queer sexuality but is representative of some of the experiences by myself and those close to me. I dedicate much of my artistic vision and motivation to my stunning future wife, 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sydney, and I could not have done this without her. Two years ago, we met at this very gallery for my first show at OKEQ, “The Divine Feminine.” She has seen my art grow and has supported me in every area of life since. Thank you, darling. Audrey is a Tulsa native that has tapped into the local art scene to share her love for the human body, sexuality, and intimacy. Her bold colors and risqué subjects represent her desire to destigmatize sex and embrace the diversity of human interaction. Art has not only been a means of helping her models fall in deeper love with their own bodies, but it has also helped Audrey love her curves in a radical way. Outside of the studio, Audrey is a strong community activist and physician that aims to marry her love of art and medicine for the rest of her career. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT information via email! Board President Updates 11.21.22 In Memoriam Il111 MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brou1g111t "I1o YOllll Bi "I11i~ Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @r®mcll@IT ~ffi]])If@lffi @IT@ffi]]) O~@O@O@ QdJ§§ ~g 'u'QdJD:,§ £ 'D'W@-§(;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. ~~@@~a'll'oo ;i1t ~@!Mi}@ ~a@llil'll' 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... BE HEA RD. USE YOU R VOICE Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. ,!, _ _ _ ___ ,,,_ SCREAM IT FILM IT Flrn a lhort-performonce ordocurnontary FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, or a-awing PICTURE IT ~ ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClckon~v:--~~-- YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQl\lll.lUlnly © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE BekwlgS Ycu VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES c.wnpe.gn IO ra«se Nnds and 5'JPPOf1 for O-.. llbfaty seeks 10 increese ec::cess 10 and sa,pe of LBGTOIA• mMeo9ls Donal& 10d8yl ......,.,, 0. COngntula)nslOWA'l(ffOStalOTmBIUM!Olllhel'ftOllll'lg Ollr~lllflOM(ftClll..-h011011ot'August'SeplemDef T Reql,esill.lnlycard Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 JAN UARY2023 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... C IVIL RI G HTS AWAREN ESS GAYLYcoM b I bigotry and Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways 10 com a Banned book\ available at OkEq 's Rain~.~: ,~r!!~n~~:" h t a e ~~.~~,1 ~ :,t~,:;~::::,~~~•~: IIA'l"-lm, p.,j!C 7 C<)UfSC hc aruchc i, J,ckwo, ll"I""'" "· ~~~';:,=t,~~D~•~~::io~:•r~?;~ P<~:,:•!~;~~~; ::;;;;,~::1~:'.~:;~,~1°:~hn~:~•~e!.·::::.::ufri~ ~GAYLY To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library, visit librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary !;« llA<;S[D.pal!" lS l (888) 773-8267 FM a ("uu f,, I, proud. and pri,.,,,r pltor1n•cy exp,ri~,ic~. £VERYD,W ~IIA R\IAC\ ' SPECIALTY \IFDJ0 , 11 0'1S LOC Ai, DELIVERY OKC .\ lf.TRO ,\R F.A '~• 5601 NW n -- Sr~et II 142, OKC H,•/r-1',_;.,> --.oz, " '1'"!/olf,,.;1y..,4/rl~ fe,o ll "ll'S. (40S) 896-797S ,..,...., R,...,nHr4/,lr.ro"' Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, ~"' too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Trustees 4/29/26, 11:30 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:30 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/ecffb8fdec918782119655784c138840.pdf 42d6addcf94149917168295067a93ca8 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, March 14th | 4:00p 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, March 14th | 5:30p 7:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first come, first serve basis". Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, then she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org. Office phone is (918)295-9429. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, March 15th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo 2023 Saturday, March 18th | 6:30pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 ?? Join us for Tulsa Pride Bingo!?⚧ RSVP TICKETS Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guest Londenn D Raine and Ivana B Real Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards ?Food sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This event is 18+ Doors open at 6:30p; Bingo at 7p Free 5 Point Ear Acupuncture &POINT EAR ACUPUNCTURE !Iii;, March 18th & 19th | 10a-2p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Come out, relax, chill, and de-stress. Renew your energy and balance. Free Treatments. For more information contact Phyllis 520.471.1701 Robin 818.457.6750 iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Shar,ng Event Every lrd Sunday• 12p-~p I 621 E ~th St Fu,n,t:~: ~'A~1••Hpj~~~;':'H~.,;.n::;:, a~d"::::!i 1 0 Sunday, March 19th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ~;;;1;1L~:,:•::: !S,~,::'; M,.,, • Equality Business Alliance Mixer r..,,. OK 11.IO< .,. Thursday, March 23th | 6:00p 7:30p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK 74119 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Charcuteray. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... https://linktr.ee/charcuteray The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Thursday, March 30th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Fresh Meat: The new Gen of Cabaret Artists with Clare Holt and Caleb Vaughn. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Doors open at 7p; Show at 7:30p The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Audrey Byrd Month of March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Art 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Audrey Byrd presents "The Diversity of Queer Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibit will be on display for the month of March. “The Diversity of Queer Sex” is a special project that intends to show the many ways that queer people show their love and affection, outside of the as-seen-onTV heteronormative trope. Queer sex is not heavily represented in mainstream media, and there are often misconceptions about what intimacy looks like in the queer community. We are often hypersexualized and disrespected, but I wanted to reclaim that stereotyped sexuality by showing both modest sensuality and kinky dominance veiled in exaggerated colors and abstract contortions. Yes, our love can be alternative and shocking to the public eye, but it is also gentle and precious. It goes without saying that this collection doesn’t scratch the surface of the true scope of queer sexuality but is representative of some of the experiences by myself and those close to me. I dedicate much of my artistic vision and motivation to my stunning future wife, Sydney, and I could not have done this without her. Two years ago, we met at this very gallery for my first show at OKEQ, “The Divine Feminine.” She has seen my art grow and has supported me in every area of life since. Thank you, darling. Audrey is a Tulsa native that has tapped into the local art scene to share her love for the human body, sexuality, and intimacy. Her bold colors and risqué subjects represent her desire to destigmatize sex and embrace the diversity of human interaction. Art has not only been a means of helping her models fall in deeper love with their own bodies, but it has also helped Audrey love her curves in a radical way. Outside of the studio, Audrey is a strong community activist and physician that aims to marry her love of art and medicine for the rest of her career. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Please do not send medical or private information via email! SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT w u z -c WORLD - CLASS DANCE AND MUSIC (HQREGUS PRODUCTIONS CHOREGUS .ORG PRESENTS M~rrh ?? 7nm ■ Dorrance Dance is an award-winning tap dance company based in New York City. Founded in 2011 by Artistic Director and 2015 MacArthur Fellow Michelle Dorrance, the company shares the incredibly dynamic range that tap dance has to offer through performance & education. ■ The company's goal is to engage with audiences on a musical and emotional level, and to share the complex history and powerful legacy of this American art form throughout the country and the world . ■ At its core, tap dance is a subversive form. Rooted in protest and transcendence, im- 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... I ■- ■ -■ I -- I ,.., ■ ■ ■ Lorton Performance Center The University of Tulsa u z provisation and innovation were paramount to its survival and are innately embedded in its very foundation. ■ Dorrance Dance strives to honor this legacy with an unconquerable respect for this art form - its traditions and its possib ilities. OKEQ Friends get 25% Off with code OKEQ25 Tickets >>>>> (if QR code doesn't work, go to tix.com and search " Dorrance" ) or call 918-688-6112. $45* withcode Adults Orch Prime or Bale Prime reg. $60* a: 0 C $33.75* with code Adults Orch Rear or Bale Rear reg. $45* *+$3 ticket fee Students/children $5 walk-up, no fee Must call 918-688-6112 to purchase student/children tickets in advance Choregus Productions 2526 E. 71st St., Suite H Tulsa, OK 74136 Tickets 918-688-6112 or ti x.com choregus.org In Memoriam Il111 Mlemoniaurn 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @®mcfil®IT ~ffil])I]XID!ffi @IT@ffil]) O~ @O@l0(2)QdJ@! @!~~ 'u'QdJlb§ ~ 'u'W@=§[;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, and traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding their musical knowledge. Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E - Stuck figuring out what you want t o submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT ~ - - --•-... FILM IT Flm a ohort - performonce crdocumontaru FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color pencil, o, drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ ~ - - - - , , . , .. _todluClck on~ v: - - ~ ~ - - YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: J. OKEQlUII.IL.aitwy © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE Beklngs Ycu VOICE IS Yehd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES c.wnpe.gn IO ra«se Nnds and 5'JPPOf1 for O-.. llbfaty seeks 10 increese ec::cess 10 and sa,pe of LBGTOIA• mMeo9ls Donal& 10d8yl ......,.,, 0. COngrlb,la)llslOWA'l(ffOStalOTmBIUMIOIIIMl'ftOllll'lg Ollr~lllflOM(ftClll..-h011011ot'August'SeplemDef T Reql,esill.lnlycard Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library CIVIL RIGHTS AWAREN ESS Donate & Support GAYLYco• t bi otry and bate Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways to comha g Banned h,J1Jb available at OkEq •.~ Rain~o: ,~ ::::n~2'""· ,o •a'.'." ~-:;!;70•t~.1;,11: JANUARv202J ::~~;:;u,. . 0 ,1.,,.i...,,.,,,__U/~:::::.,,11o,,!,,-_,,.,,.,,,...,,.h::~:h<k1un Bulnumat- www.gayly.com ~~•;:,:t~~~h~:i~~:•f:~~;f pe~:::•!:~~~:~; :n~::;,~~~:~'.; :;~,~~~:hn7.:~~~•t: :?.:ifri~ ~G YLY To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library, visit librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary IR 1 (888) 773-8267 Fora fH'•«/11/, pro11d, .,.4 pri,.,,u p1,,,,,,,.q u~rle'1U, f:\[IIYD.Wl'IIAR.\IACY Sl'OCIALTY\IFDICAI IO',S S601 NW n- s,r,tt ~ 142, OKC • ...._.Hull•,-.;., ~•-"¥"fl-'fa-J'1-ri,.,fa,fll..,_._ (405) 896-7975 ,...,.•. R,,..n11,.11•.,.,,., Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! • 4/29/26, 11:31 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:31 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/f45c1ebfeffa0bc5651dcad624399623.pdf f83a4f47d8623d945997b36d60e0ab9a PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP RAINBOW RUN More details and information to come! 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... commemorQ 1n9 Qn encourQ91n9 e s u Y> observQnCe Qnd celebrQtion of the vitQI role of women in AmeriCQn history. Happy First Day of Spring! 2023 TULSA PRI 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, March 21st | 4:00p 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, March 22nd | 12p - 6p 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, March 23th | 6:00p 7:30p Ingredion 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK 74119 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Charcuteray. https://linktr.ee/charcuteray The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. - 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Thursday, March 30th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Fresh Meat: The new Gen of Cabaret Artists with Clare Holt and Caleb Vaughn. Bistro Seats are sold out, and General Admission seating is $15. Doors open at 7p; Show at 7:30p IP.i·· ··~:~·~~~~~~: 3.31.23 '-" Trans Day of Visibility March DayOf VislblU!Y WEWONTBE ERADICATED! ·:::::::::::::::::::::::~··♦ 3.31.23 Diode/a VislblUdad Friday, March 31st | 4:00pm Central Library 400 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74120 We won't be eradicated! Feel free to dress up in your best daytime drag or anything colorful fit for a march down Tulsa’s streets. ?? RSVP RSVP TransgSnero ELLOSNONOS ERRADICARAN II YOU ARE VALID! ?⚧?? Blblloteca Central I 400 Civic Center 4 :00PM i~ ;V a;. 1 " ~ ,~ ~ Q. m ~ 1"' V •L I D / ,IKlrClJ Bynl The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Audrey Byrd Month of March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Audrey Byrd presents "The Diversity of 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibit will be on display for the month of March. “The Diversity of Queer Sex” is a special project that intends to show the many ways that queer people show their love and affection, outside of the as-seen-onTV heteronormative trope. Queer sex is not heavily represented in mainstream media, and there are often misconceptions about what intimacy looks like in the queer community. We are often hypersexualized and disrespected, but I wanted to reclaim that stereotyped sexuality by showing both modest sensuality and kinky dominance veiled in exaggerated colors and abstract contortions. Yes, our love can be alternative and shocking to the public eye, but it is also gentle and precious. It goes without saying that this collection doesn’t scratch the surface of the true scope of queer sexuality but is representative of some of the experiences by myself and those close to me. I dedicate much of my artistic vision and motivation to my stunning future wife, Sydney, and I could not have done this without her. Two years ago, we met at this very gallery for my first show at OKEQ, “The Divine Feminine.” She has seen my art grow and has supported me in every area of life since. Thank you, darling. Audrey is a Tulsa native that has tapped into the local art scene to share her love for the human body, sexuality, and intimacy. Her bold colors and risqué subjects represent her desire to destigmatize sex and embrace the diversity of human interaction. Art has not only been a means of helping her models fall in deeper love with their own bodies, but it has also helped Audrey love her curves in a radical way. Outside of the studio, Audrey is a strong community activist and physician that aims to marry her love of art and medicine for the rest of her career. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Sha r ing Evont EverylrdSunday • 12p'p I 1>21E ,th St Fu,n,t:~:l~•;.~1°•Hi!j~~~;'~~:.,;.B.;:;:, a~d'::::!i 0 Sunday,April 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Please do not send medical or private 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... information via email! This will be a night of Heavy Metal, Country, and Queer Visibility. Sonja (Philly), Morgul Blade (Philly), and Bronco Henryetta, (Tulsa.) March 21st. 8pm. $15. 21+ 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Whittier Bar 2405 E. Admiral. RSVP glaad ~MEDIA INSTITUTE PRESENTS : ENGAGEMENT 101, TELLING YOUR STORY: MESSAGING & MEDIA TOOLS FOR TODAY'S ACTIVIST JOIN US FOR A FREE, LIVE TRAINING SATURDAY, MARCH 25 FROM 10AM-2PM CST In this training participants will learn the basics about media structure and how to tell their stories in traditional , online, and social media platforms . SPOTS ARE LIMITED! You MUST register to attend. Please DM us for the RSVP link. HOSTED BY: OKEQ DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER 0 Please DM Kao for the RSVP link. w u ., WORLD - CLASS DANCE AND MUSIC (HOREGUS PRODUCTIONS CHOREGUS .ORG PRESENTS ■ Dorrance Dance is an award-winning tap dance company based in New York City. Founded in 2011 by Artistic Director and 2015 MacArthur Fellow Michelle Dorrance, the company shares the incredibly dynamic range that tap dance has to offer through performance & education . ■ The company's goal is to engage with audiences on a musical and emo- 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ._ ti1·M:1r:11'14L March 22 7pm Lorton Performance Cent The University of Tulsa u z tional level, and to share the complex history and powerful legacy of this American art form throughout the country and the world . ■ At its core, tap dance is a subversive form. Rooted in protest and transcendence, improvisation and innovation were paramount to its survival and are innately embedded in its very foundation. ■ Dorrance Dance strives to honor this legacy with an unconquerable respect for this art form - its traditions and its possibilities. OKEQ Friends get 25% Off with code OKEQ25 Tickets >>>>> (if QR code doesn't work, go to tix.com and search "Dorrance") or call 918-688-6112. $45 * with code Adults Orch Prime or Bale Prime reg. $60* a: 0 C $33.75* withcode Adults Orch Rear or Bale Rear reg. $45* *+$3 ticket fee Students/children $5 walk-up, no fee Must call 918-688-6112 to purchase student/children tickets in advance Choregus Productions 2526 E. 71st St., Suite H Tulsa, OK 74136 Ti ckets 918-688-6112 or tix.com choregus.org In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaurn 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Brou.gl11t "I1o Yo1111 Bi "f111l~ Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @@TID.cfil®IT ~ffi]]))]XID~ @IT@ffi]]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort-pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. OKIEOl\lll.lll.Jtlrary© N::anr-.v R. . lniP Mr:nnn::1lrl R::1inhnw I ihr::1rv 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ........ -,. _...,...,_ .......................... , .............................. ,. YOU/ VOICE Belongs YOLl'VOICE is Vahd The 2022 2023 OUR VOtCES t,,npeign 10 raise funds and support lof OU/ llbra,y seeks to ncreeseeccess IOand sccpe: ofLBGTOIA• mateoals Donate 10deyl Seac.,tor Q. ~IOMlfllfrosl_,Tw.BtOM'lonlleS~ Ol~IISl)OMClrt'dl'l..el"IW:ll'IOl"U ......~ . • Altql.lNtll.CIIW)'C.-0 Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 CIVIL RIGHTS AWARENES S Donate & Support GAYLYCOM b' otry and bate Tulsa's OkEq finding new w~ys to ~om b a t ,g Banned boo•s available ot o•Eq 's Rainbow L,brory 10 1,.,1 ;, "'• onhme c•talog •• i~Etl l~iii 'IPl)'ly.a,m LY the isit S«;IIA'i:'li[D.page IS 1 (888) 773-8267 p,,,,, pe#uful, proud. ""d p,;,,,,,~ p}ta,,.,aq tx~rir1t~r. r\'ERY D.W ~II AR\IACl' SPECIALTY \IFIIICA"I IU'IS 'iO.'<-l>TLKJ LE CO\l,OL l<D1~·c ,·r.r~RI'< \RV CflMPOU<o11<c LOC,1.1. 1u;L1Y[R\' OKC .\IETRO AREA D/$CRfJ£11.X/'ICKUP ll - - - - ' ' REVAN tt,..n H.. HEALTH ~1r,.,. 5.;6!~ :::...:~::;o1~1!2,;!.!~~Mforoll-,,s. (405) 896-7975 ,.....,.,11.,..,_,.,,Hlllt.ro,,. Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 4/29/26, 11:32 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:32 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/a52b43950b8c4fa9604526119df27f70.pdf df07f330ef94da97c819e44be94cc5f4 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! Closed JAMM OUTT 6:30p 3/31 OKEQ Health Clinic lp-4p Trans Day of Visibility / March 4/1 Open 9a-6p 4/02 Closed OKEQ Dungeon and Dragons New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP RAINBOW RUN More details and information to come! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... commemorQ 1n9 Qn encourQ91n9 e s u Y> observQnCe Qnd celebrQtion of the vitQI role of women in AmeriCQn history. ........................... ► .. .. ... .......... 3.31.23 Transgender --.----,, Day Of ~- - -Visibilit~_ ____... WE WON'T BE ERADICATED! Central Library I 400 Civic Center 4:00 PM ~,::.,~V W1 . VAL I D ~rl ~~ ,. _ -_ - .... This March 31st, on International Day of Transgender Visibility, we are going to take to the streets to be loud, proud, and visible in the face of hateful legislation being proposed in our state and across the Nation that would hurt drag artists and transgender, non-binary, Two Spirit, and gender nonconforming people in our communities. RSVP 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, March 28th | 4:00p 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, March 29nd | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Thursday, March 30th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Fresh Meat: The new Gen of Cabaret Artists with Clare Holt and Caleb Vaughn. Bistro Seats are sold out, and General Admission seating is $15. Doors open at 7p; Show at 7:30p ~ ......~~~~-~~~-~~~: 3.31.23 '-ii' Trans Day of Visibility March DayOf VislblU!Y WEWONTBE ERADICATED! •• •• ••• •• • •• •• ••• ••• ••• •••• ♦ ·······················• 3.31.23 Dfade/a VlslblUdad Friday, March 31st | 4:00pm Central Library 400 Civic Center, Tulsa, OK 74120 We won't be eradicated! Feel free to dress up in your best daytime drag or anything colorful fit for a march down Tulsa’s streets. ?? RSVP RSVP Transg,nero ELLOSNONOS ERRADICARAN YOU ARE VALID! ?⚧?? 8 1bUoteea Cent ral t 400 Civic Cent er ~ ~ ti♦0 v ''fl" -·· · , ~ "''" ' ~ n ~ ~~ ~ limt :'iir AtKlr~J R!Jr<l 11 1~ Df\1J~ n O1· Qt.• n ~sr , The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Audrey Byrd Month of March Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Audrey Byrd presents "The Diversity of 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. The exhibit will be on display for the month of March. “The Diversity of Queer Sex” is a special project that intends to show the many ways that queer people show their love and affection, outside of the as-seen-onTV heteronormative trope. Queer sex is not heavily represented in mainstream media, and there are often misconceptions about what intimacy looks like in the queer community. We are often hypersexualized and disrespected, but I wanted to reclaim that stereotyped sexuality by showing both modest sensuality and kinky dominance veiled in exaggerated colors and abstract contortions. Yes, our love can be alternative and shocking to the public eye, but it is also gentle and precious. It goes without saying that this collection doesn’t scratch the surface of the true scope of queer sexuality but is representative of some of the experiences by myself and those close to me. I dedicate much of my artistic vision and motivation to my stunning future wife, Sydney, and I could not have done this without her. Two years ago, we met at this very gallery for my first show at OKEQ, “The Divine Feminine.” She has seen my art grow and has supported me in every area of life since. Thank you, darling. Audrey is a Tulsa native that has tapped into the local art scene to share her love for the human body, sexuality, and intimacy. Her bold colors and risqué subjects represent her desire to destigmatize sex and embrace the diversity of human interaction. Art has not only been a means of helping her models fall in deeper love with their own bodies, but it has also helped Audrey love her curves in a radical way. Outside of the studio, Audrey is a strong community activist and physician that aims to marry her love of art and medicine for the rest of her career. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 OBI x OKEQ Blood Drive Thursday, April 6th | 1pm-7pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Why not save a life? Join us for a Blood Drive with Oklahoma Blood Institute at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 6th, from 1p-7p. ? To schedule an appointment, contact Oklahoma Blood institute at 877.340.8777 or visit obi.org The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles Thursday, April 6th | 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Coming Soon Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Tulsa Pride Bingo Sunday, April 15th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride! Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guests Sasha Turrelle and Aurora Lekohl ✨ 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members! An individual ticket is $25. An individual ticket with 3 drink tickets is $35. A table of 8 with an open bar is $300. Empire Slice House Tulsa sponsors food. Doors open at 6:30 pm. The game starts at 7pm. iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Shar,ng Evont Ev e ry lrd Sunday 12p 'P I 621 E ,t~ St Fu,n,1:~:1~'A~1••Hp'j~~~:V:'H;.,;.no:;;, a~;;~;:;j 0 Sunday, April 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ -~-if- OKEO HEALTH -~-if- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. Please do not send medical or private information via email! Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT In Memoriam Il1111 MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 23 Joseph Edward Johnson https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. 1947 - 2022 In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Brou1,gltt T 0 You. Bi 1-.Jlte Letter 1 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @®rncil@IT ~ffi[g)I]XID~ @IT@ffi[g) 0~@0@l0(2)Ck!J§§~~ "O'Ck!Jlb§ w "O'W@=§IJ")0~O"O' 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their For more information email Daniel or call 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 23 rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want t o submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort-pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ ~ - -...... -,,.,.. Uol"IDdlu, ClckCOla::=....-va:.V:--...:=.~--- YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. 0Kll0 1'111.11Ulfwy © Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOI.K VOICE BNongs Ycu VOICE 15 Vahd The 2022-2023 OUR votCES Campaign lo ra,se funds and suppor1 kif c u lltnry seeks to n:rNSe aa:@55 lo and saipe of l.BGTOIA• mateoals Donate t>dlryl 0. Seardllor ~IOMMFIVltaMTfflllrOlllflonlhel''ftCdllg Oll'c:atague~tpOMCft(llllhel'llanCJIOl'AugUSt~ ... ~aunryc.a Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 CIVIL RIG HTS AWARENESS Donate & Support GAYLYco• Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways to com b a t bigotry and hate Banned book!> al'ailable at OkEq '.,; Rainbow Library 1 .,.n ;, lh• .""1,,.. ••1.11° •1 o::~~;:~;:•,-d"pi°"'"'1,,·' 11 ~::;.:_,oa.,,1,'"ff" ,,,.,,,., '"''J'"' 'h::~~'.: l■ckwn fl ul n<> mot- www.gayly.aJIJl ~,:;~•~;: ,:~:~: ~,:~o~:•£~;r, :.:.,:•!;~~::~: :no~;;;~~~:: :~:,:,~:~~:~;•~f: : : ; 2; ~G YLY 1 ,~ Sc-< RAV'ii[ D.parc, U To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library , visit libraryc at.org/l ib/Tuls aRainb owLibr ary 1 (888) 773-8267 Fo, 11~•«/IU. pro11d. • nJ I";,.,,, pl,11,,.,•cyup,rlmu . f.\[IIYD.\\· ~HAR.\IAC\' s r tCIALTY \ l rOICA I IO 'iS ,,,REVAN (1 - - - - - HEALT H 5601 NW 72.. Strttt If 142. OKC .,_,lln,.,,,,,._ ,--.;~.,,.,wlf al~-,_f-• R-it>. (405) 896-7975 ~-....._ ltrN11H~.,,1i.,..,. Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 23 Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A P ROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... make an appointment today. 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 23 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/6e30fa8dce3b83df66484b5fff57ffe0.pdf 0f94d6326efc32d6cbbfbe38f7e10a78 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES RSVP More details and information to come! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." OKEQ x Tulsa Cares TDOV Statement Contact: Dorothy Ballard Interim Executive Director 918.743 .4297 dorothy. ba Ila rd@okeq.org •••• tulsacares Local Agencies Band Together to Recognize Transgender Day of Visibility Tu lsa, Okla ., March 31, 2023-Oklahomans for Equality (OKEQ) and Tulsa CARES stand in solidarity in recognizing Transgender Day of Visibility on March 31, 2023. On this day and every day, we honor the resilience, strength, and joy of transgender, Two-Spirit, and nonbinary people . We celebrate their activism, victories, and continued tenacity in the face of adversity. We reaffirm that transgender rights are human rights, empowering them to live authentically wh ile acknowledging that due to discrimination, not every trans person can or wants to be visible . We recognize the importance of representation, especially in a political climate filled with misinformation on the value of transgender, Two-Spirited, and nonbinary people. So today and every day, we will continue to echo their voices to our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues who have yet to hear their joy. Transgender, Two-Spirit, and nonbinary people continue to break the barriers of visibili ty by holding office at all levels of government, running thriving businesses, serving proudly in our military, and cont ributing to our communit ies in count less meaningful ways . We stand committed to closing the gap to both access and care for our transgender, Two-Spirited, and nonbinary community. It is up to all of us to help ensure everyone is treated fairly, with compassion and 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... understanding. Together, we must strive for our state to be a place where everyone is welcomed with respect and dignity because we are all entitled to our bodily autonomy and self-determination. About Tulsa CARES Tulsa CARES was founded in 1991 and today serves as the largest and most comprehensive provider of prevent ion and care programs serving vulnerable individuals living with HIV and Hepatitis C (HCV) in Oklahoma. Recognizing the critical importance of addressing social determ inants of health to improve community health and reduce costs, Tulsa CARES aims to meet the unmet health and social needs of clients under one roof. Wrap-around, client-tailored care includes prevention, medical services, case management, health insurance and benefits navigation, prescription drug assistance, transportation, housing, mental health, and food and nutrition . The agency serves more than 1,000 clients annually across the 23 counties of Northeastern Oklahoma. For more information, visit http://www.tulsacares .org/. About OKEQ OkEq seeks equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, all iances, and the operation of the Denn is R. Neill Equality Center. Serving LGBTQ+ Oklahomans and their allies since 1980, Oklahomans for Equality is home to a diverse, vibrant, and engaged community of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons, knowledgeable staff, and dedicated volunteers. For more information, visit http://www .okeg.org ##II For Trans Day of Visibility, we march from Tulsa Central Library to Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. We were being visible in the heart of Tulsa! We thank those who donated, walked, and showed support for our Trans siblings! ❤ 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A PRIDlc2U2 AH MEMBRANE Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, April 4th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, April 5th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 """ KA I' fl L l{ffe/'r' lcll'lL l{ffe.Fl"1f h n ,t ~ ~CURY LOLNGE, w - , . . .,,.., l//1 '"'""',. "'"' n -u..s• https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Wednesday, April 5th | 5:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! Join us at Mercury Lounge for our April meetup. Merc has a great indoor and patio space, they're dog friendly and we'll plan to hang outside if the weather cooperates! OBI x OKEQ Blood Drive Thursday, April 6th | 1pm-7pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Why not save a life? Join us for a Blood Drive with Oklahoma Blood Institute at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on April 6th, from 1p-7p. ? To schedule an appointment, contact Oklahoma Blood institute at 877.340.8777 or visit obi.org The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles Thursday, April 6th | 6pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Art Coming Soon Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Tulsa Pride Bingo Sunday, April 15th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride! Join us as we raise money, and enjoy entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guests Sasha Turrelle and Aurora Lekohl ✨ Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members! An individual ticket is $25. An individual ticket with 3 drink tickets is $35. A table of 8 with an open bar is $300. Empire Slice House Tulsa sponsors food. Doors open at 6:30 pm. The game starts at 7pm. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Fresh Meat Saturday, April 15th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Opera’s Filstrup Resident Artists are taking over the Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for ONE NIGHT ONLY! Join us downtown on Saturday, April 15th, to hear Tulsa’s premiere local talents sing spectacular arias, musical theatre hits, and popular tunes like never before! ULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Shorrng Event E~erv 3rd Sunday Fu,n,1:~:1~•:;.~, • • 12P 'P I 1,21 E ,th St Hi:;~~~;':~;.,:.a_;:;;,•.,~d~::;j Sunday, April 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Non-Binary Parent's Party 4.16.2 m I Equality Center Sunday, April 16th | 12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us on April 16th at 12pm for a party celebrating Non-binary parents! All who identify as any gender variant identity that falls under the Non-Binary umbrella are welcome to bring their kids to this family-friendly event. Genderqueer, agender, Two Spirit, gendefluid, demiboy, demigirl, or Intersex? You're welcome here! Binary Trans parents and gendernonconforming cis parents are totally welcome, too. Won't have your children that day? You're still welcome to join us! There will be a light lunch, crafts, coloring, family pictures, and more in the Wellness room upstairs in the Equality Center. Be sure to stay for the Really, Really Free Market in the Event center, too! Questions? Email tulsaintersectionalcarenetwork@gmail. com or text Fern at 918-808-8076 EQ.Yu~~lI!~ JM'41•-■,l,,i; Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, April 27th | 6p Dogtopia 8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever! https://www.dogtopia.com/southtulsa The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games! Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast! Miss Gay Oklahoma America Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America! RSVP Showtime 8p General Admission $25 Reserved Seating $30 -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield CLINIC and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @@mcll@IT ~ffil])l]XID~ @IT®ffil]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Every Wednesday from 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 + + https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. -,!, SCREAM _ _ __ __.,,_ IT FILM IT Flm a llhart - ~. , , ~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... - _r: ·11111 YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. _,,., OKEQllllNI.Jlory © __- _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOUI VOICE Belongs VoL.- VOICE IS Vahd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES t,,npeign 10 raise l,,nds and support lo, our library seeks to increase eccess 10 and scope: ol LBGTOIA• ma1e091s Donate 10d8yl Q. Searchfor ~ . , ...,,_ rrost..,TWI l!WOM'lon l l e l f ~ CM~IISl)OMOred ll~IKll'IOl" lorAugl,!St~ • ~ • uir.,,car-a Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 CIVIL RIGHTS AWARENESS Donate & Support GAYLY.coM b • try and hate Tulsa's OkEq finding new ways to combat ,go Banned htJoks available at OkEq's Rainbow Library ,0 """ ;, lhc onhne caulog • 1 To request a library card from OkEq, to email the library or to support the Rainbow Library, visit librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary n,,_,....,,.,:.r, 1-oo1,• ,1ro, 0•"'1PiwaNJ,,,..••""" -:i~;l~•:i:~::i~:;;,y Dim/o, £1.h<r< " on< ,.,o,d -•~al ~k:l•:i ~:~:~:~~:~:i: :~ ~•: •; a:001> lo thccoll«1ion REV2tJ.E?x I I I l (888) 773-8267 F a n , ~ r , ( ' nr,,u,I dnAnr'-•• n•••-•-• n - - ' -•• 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE ' 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 4/29/26, 11:33 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:33 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/25933a6d03dbad421c10315bc67007fe.pdf 26b92976ab9ea6c1651280c7adebadf4 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1013 Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES RSVP Meet and Greet 6:30pm - 7 :15pm $30 .00 Meet and Greet 6:30pm - 7 :15pm $30 .00 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet & Greet Tickets Meet & Greet Tickets Congratulations to our newly crowned King of Tulsa Pride 2023, Micah Membrane, and Queen of Tulsa Pride 2023, Karma Eclectic. ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Vote for Oklahomans for Equality for Best Event - Nonprofit (Equality Gala) and Best Festival (Tulsa Pride) Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." Upcoming Special Events r..... HIVT-tfns, Free HIV Testing ■ v..-.,,-.,..-..:1-., f'rom 4pm - 8prnl 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tuesday, April 11th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, April 11th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is a "first come first serve basis". Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, then she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Email is julie.goree@laok.org . Office phone is (918)295-9429. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, April 12th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Name & Gender Marker Correction Clinic Wednesday, April 12th | 5:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name change clinic. We are focusing on those who are starting the name change process and those who are interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Pride Bingo Sunday, April 15th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Pride Drag Bingo is a fundraiser for Tulsa Pride! Join us as we raise money, and enjoy 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... entertainment from Pride Royalty and our newly crowned 2023 King of Tulsa Pride, Micah Membrane, and 2023 Queen of Tulsa Pride Karma Eclectic, with our special guests Sasha Turrelle and Aurora Lekohl ✨ Hosted by Scrappy Legacy and Anita Richards Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members! An individual ticket is $25. An individual ticket with 3 drink tickets is $35. A table of 8 with an open bar is $300. Empire Slice House Tulsa sponsors food. Doors open at 6:30 pm. The game starts at 7pm. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Saturday, April 15th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 TICKETS Tulsa Opera’s Filstrup Resident Artists are taking over the Lynn Riggs Theatre at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for ONE NIGHT ONLY! Join us downtown on Saturday, April 15th, to hear Tulsa’s premiere local talents sing spectacular arias, musical theatre hits, and popular tunes like never before! il'ULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Sharing Ev ent Every !rd Sunday Fu,n ,t:~~t~•;_~,•, 12p 'P I 621 E ~th St H;.~~~;':';::.,:.a~;:, •a~:~;:;; Sunday, April 16th | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ Non-Binary Parent's Party 4.16.2 m I Equality Center Sunday, April 16th | 12p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us on April 16th at 12pm for a party celebrating Non-binary parents! All who identify as any gender variant identity that falls under the Non-Binary umbrella are welcome to bring their kids to this family-friendly event. Genderqueer, agender, Two Spirit, gendefluid, demiboy, demigirl, or Intersex? You're welcome here! Binary Trans parents and gendernonconforming cis parents are totally welcome, too. Won't have your children that day? You're still welcome to join us! There will be a light lunch, crafts, coloring, family pictures, and more in the Wellness room upstairs in the Equality Center. Be sure to stay for the Really, Really Free Market in the Event center, too! Questions? Email tulsaintersectionalcarenetwork@gmail. com or text Fern at 918-808-8076 EQ.Yu~~lI!-!. JM'41•-■'1w Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, April 27th | 6p Dogtopia 8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137 RSVP 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever! https://www.dogtopia.com/southtulsa The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, April 27th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 East 4th St., Pride Sreet, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Together Again for the First Time! After performing together for years at various charity events, The Piano Player and The Crooner team up for a special one-night-only concert “From Swing to the Sixties: Stories Behind the Songs.” 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Presenting Swing Era songs from “Angel Eyes” to prom favorites such as “Sleep Walk,” Pat Hobbs, and John Hamill bring back memories with performances of, and stories behind million-selling popular songs. Tickets: 36 Bistro at $20 60 GA at $15 Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games! Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno. Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles The Month of April | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Miss Gay Oklahoma America TICKETS RSVP 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America! Showtime 8p General Admission $25 Reserved Seating $30 OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield CLINIC and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Il111 Memoniaum 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Brou.gl11t "I1o Yo1111 Bi "f111l~ Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @@TID.cfil®IT ~ffi]]))]XID~ @IT@ffi]]) IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort-pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. OKIEOl\lll.lll.Jtlrary© N::anr-.v R. . lniP Mr:nnn::1lrl R::1inhnw I ihr::1rv 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ........ -,. _...,...,_ .......................... , .............................. ,. YOU/ VOICE Belongs YOLl'VOICE is Vahd The 2022 2023 OUR VOtCES t,,npeign 10 raise funds and support lof OU/ llbra,y seeks to ncreeseeccess IOand sccpe: ofLBGTOIA• mateoals Donate 10deyl Seac.,tor Q. ~IOMlfllfrosl_,Tw.BtOM'lonlleS~ Ol~IISl)OMClrt'dl'l..el"IW:ll'IOl"U ......~ . • Altql.lNtll.CIIW)'C.-0 Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library JANUARY2023 CIVIL RIGHTS AWARENES S Donate & Support GAYLYCOM b' otry and bate Tulsa's OkEq finding new w~ys to ~om b a t ,g Banned boo•s available ot o•Eq 's Rainbow L,brory 10 1,.,1 ;, "'• onhme c•talog •• i~Etl l~iii 'IPl)'ly.a,m LY the isit S«;IIA'i:'li[D.page IS 1 (888) 773-8267 p,,,,, pe#uful, proud. ""d p,;,,,,,~ p}ta,,.,aq tx~rir1t~r. r\'ERY D.W ~II AR\IACl' SPECIALTY \IFIIICA"I IU'IS 'iO.'<-l>TLKJ LE CO\l,OL l<D1~·c ,·r.r~RI'< \RV CflMPOU<o11<c LOC,1.1. 1u;L1Y[R\' OKC .\IETRO AREA D/$CRfJ£11.X/'ICKUP ll - - - - ' ' REVAN tt,..n H.. HEALTH ~1r,.,. 5.;6!~ :::...:~::;o1~1!2,;!.!~~Mforoll-,,s. (405) 896-7975 ,.....,.,11.,..,_,.,,Hlllt.ro,,. Our library director, Michelle Simmons, was recently featured in The Gayly! Read about our Rainbow Library and Banned Books, and come check out a book today at the Nancy and Joe McDonald Rainbow Library! 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 okeq.org/donate SUPPORT TODAY !·~ ~ IIUIIIUI 1111111111 •m!!!!!• 4/29/26, 11:34 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:34 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/6643de0d52c13f99cd09e09dffb7733c.pdf 25bdf60276f1aeff2ab7175230946476 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! With special performances by Branjae and Black Queer Tulsa! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS RSVP Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES RSVP 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... t and G pm-7 :1 $30.00 Meet & Greet Tickets Meet & Greet Tickets a in bow Run- Friday June 2 Fun Run at 7pm-Sk 7:30pm e~tivrll Rt Prlrrlrle- Srlturrlrlv June ?4 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ---· - -· ~. -· - - - ----·· -·-J - -· ·- - Gates Open at 12pm-10pm • -· Pride In The Park- Sunday June 25th 12pm-Spm ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... VOTE FO R US FOR THE 20 23 A-LIST! 1 1 VISIT TULSAPEOPLE.COM/A-LIST APRIL 1-16 TO SUBMIT YOUR VOTES AND YOU COULD WIN ONE OF FIVE PRIZES VALUED AT $50-$200! Vote for Oklahomans for Equality for Best Event - Nonprofit (Equality Gala) and Best Festival (Tulsa Pride) 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKLAHOMANS FOR E®ALITY Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." Homicide Investigation Update Incident #2023-00023246 Date and Time: 04-09-2023 at approxitnately 0733 hours Location: SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street Victim: Stephens, Clayton Suspect(s): Unknown Disposition: Detectives are currently investigating a homicide that happened on 04-09-2023 . Officers responded to SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street on a report of a possible deceased individual. When officers arrived, they located a deceased male, later identified at Clayton Stephens. The Oklahoma Medical Examiner has taken Mr. Stephens' body and will conduct an autopsy for an official cause of death. The Lawton Police Department will release more information as it becomes available. If you have any information or witnessed anything, please contact the Lawton Police Department at 580-581-3272. You can remain anonymous and contact Crime Stoppers of Southwest Okl~hom~ ~t ~R0-1 -4616 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... -ENDKSWO News Story GoFundMe Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, April 18th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, April 12th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. EQ.Yu~~lI!.!. 1,,,,,•••,4,,; Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, April 27th | 6p 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dogtopia 8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever! https://www.dogtopia.com/southtulsa The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, April 27th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 East 4th St., Pride Sreet, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Together Again for the First Time! After performing together for years at 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... various charity events, The Piano Player and The Crooner team up for a special one-night-only concert “From Swing to the Sixties: Stories Behind the Songs.” Presenting Swing Era songs from “Angel Eyes” to prom favorites such as “Sleep Walk,” Pat Hobbs, and John Hamill bring back memories with performances of, and stories behind million-selling popular songs. Tickets: 36 Bistro at $20 60 GA at $15 Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games! Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno. Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast! The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles The Month of April | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Miss Gay Oklahoma America Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America! TICKETS RSVP Showtime 8p 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... General Admission $25 Reserved Seating $30 iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKEiT Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Sharong Event Every3rdSunday 12P'Pl1>21E ,thSt ~'A~1••Hp'j~~~;':H;.,;.no:;;, a~d.i,:;:;j Fu,n,1:~:1 0 Sunday, May 21st | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield CLINIC and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Commumty Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln Memoniaurn Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Paul Wayne Gossett 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111glllt !if1o You, Bi l~llle Letter Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @i@rncll@IT ~Dn]])!P])Iffi @IT@Dn]]) O~@O@O@ (!D@l@l ~g 'u'(!D11,§ £ 'u'W@ - § (;e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space Sin Fronteras es un The program is 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. -,!, SCREAM _ _ __ __.,,_ IT PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo- a collage or self - portrait ~ ~ - -...... -,,.,.. Uol"IDdlu, ClckCOla::=....-va:.V:--...:=.~--- YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: l. 0Kll0 1'111.11Ulory © ~ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Your VOICE BekJng5 Yow VOICE 15 WIii The 2022-2023 OUR votCES ~ lo rBM kmds and 5tippor1 lor c u ~ seeks lo n:reese aa:@55 lo and 5C098 of LBGTOIA• mllleoal5 Donale t>deyl Seat:htor Q. ~IOUlfllFrmtanclllffl~Olllhel'wecdllg 011'~1SsponMR(llnftet'110n01kll'AUglllt~ ... Reql,etl11..D1ryc.a 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE ' 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:36 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 22 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:36 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/bda8baf50b25ad48d8c7ea6a16abd17e.pdf e25a6981691f280dba90c33f1b66ad3c PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am to 6pm. 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality invites you again to our annual Equality Gala! With special performances by Branjae and Black Queer Tulsa! This event serves as our anchor fundraising endeavor, garnering support for our mission of seeking equal rights for LGBTQ+ individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every dollar and in-kind donation benefits our local communities through tangible and needed programs and services. By bridging the gap in resources and representation, we help all persons within and allied to the LGBTQ+ spectrum to thrive and live proudly. TICKETS RSVP BQT & OKEQ PRESENTS 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 9:30 ------------ CO H BUSIHESS CEHTER ~ ?????Hold that pose for me! Join BQT & OKEQ at the Afro Punk Kiki Ball! It’s going down on May 13th, 9:30 at the Cox Business Center. Battle it out in three classic categories for the ultimate prize of not only cash but also the coveted bragging rights in Tulsa Ballroom. AFRO PUNK KIKI BALL TICKETS 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bring your best punk looks, collect your 10s & leave it on the floor! 8013 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIP VOLUNTEER RAINBOW RUN VENDORS PARADE ENTRIES Tulsa Pride TULSA PRIDE 2023 Tees and Tanks are Now Available for Pre-Order! OKEQ is excited to partner with Flash Flood Print Studios for Tulsa Pride 2023! Your purchase goes directly to supporting Tulsa Pride festivities and 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality’s continuing mission of protecting the rights of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Order now! Pre-orders end at Midnight on Sunday, May 21. Orders will be ready on Friday, June 2 for shipping or pickup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ???⚧ Meet & Greet Tickets Meet & Greet Tickets Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 icah Membra Karma Eclec ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Vote for Oklahomans for Equality for Best Event - Nonprofit (Equality Gala) and Best Festival (Tulsa Pride) Dennis R. Neill Equality Center (621 E4th St. Tulsa, OK 74120) A fashion show with a mission to include foster youth and ensure they have access to the same opportunities and support to thrive in the face of adversity. • Launching You Are the Prize Merchandise • Featuring New Aromatherapy Shop LVDR • Performances by Local Tulsa Talent • Sneaker Raffle • And More! It's time to mark your calendars and get ready for an evening that will warm your heart and uplift your soul! ? Join us on May 19th for the Threads of Change Fashion Show, presented by You Are the Prize featuring LVDR as we celebrate and honor foster youth, and empower them with the opportunities they deserve. ?? Get ready to immerse yourself in an amazing event filled with local Tulsa talent performances, an indoor vendor market highlighting Tulsa artisans and small businesses, and exciting giveaways and a sneaker raffle to benefit Youth Services of Tulsa & Tulsa Individuals in Need. Tickets coming soon! 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Homicide Investigation Update Incident #2023-00023246 Date and Time: 04-09-2023 at approxitnately 0733 hours Location: SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street Victim: Stephens, Clayton Suspect(s): Unknown Disposition: Detectives are currently investigating a homicide that happened on 04-09-2023 . Officers responded to SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street on a report of a possible deceased individual. When officers arrived, they located a deceased male, later identified at Clayton Stephens. The Oklahoma Medical Examiner has taken Mr. Stephens' body and will conduct an autopsy for an official cause of death. The Lawton Police Department will release more information as it becomes available. If you have any information or witnessed anything, please contact the Lawton Police Department at 580-581-3272. You can remain anonymous and contact Crime Stoppers of Southwest Oklahoma at 580-355-4636. -ENDKSWO News Story Get hel applying for GoFundMe 1S upplemental : ~!~~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 1. Call toll-free to 1 (877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friend ly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espafiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, April 25th | 4:00p - 6:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, April 26th | 12p - 6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housingrelated issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. EQ.Yu~~lI!.!. fH1'41•-■"'- Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, April 27th | 6p Dogtopia 8170 S Lewis Ave, Tulsa, OK, 74137 RSVP Join us for our EBA Mixer with Dogtopia At Dogtopia, we’re a unique breed. We love and care for your pup like they are our own. We realize that your dog is a furry member of your family, and they deserve the highest level of care. With our award-winning daycare, boarding, and spa services, you’ll be treating your pup to its most exciting day ever! https://www.dogtopia.com/southtulsa The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Thursdays in the Rainbow Room Thursday, April 27th | 7:30p Lynn Riggs Theater 621 East 4th St., Pride Sreet, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets Together Again for the First Time! After performing together for years at various charity events, The Piano Player and The Crooner team up for a special one-night-only concert “From Swing to the Sixties: Stories Behind the Songs.” Presenting Swing Era songs from “Angel Eyes” to prom favorites such as “Sleep Walk,” Pat Hobbs, and John Hamill bring back memories with performances of, and stories behind million-selling popular songs. Tickets: 36 Bistro at $20 60 GA at $15 Little Blue Lip Sync Friday, April 28th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP Join us for a night of lip sync, drag, and raunchy games! Enjoy local performers, both professional and amateur, while supporting the LGBTQ+ community. In addition to entertainment, a cash bar and complimentary dinner will be provided where we finally figure out who wins in Bell v. Bueno. Some of you may know our spring event by its former name, however we have rebranded in an effort to avoid playing into damaging mental health stigmas. While the name is different, this night promises to be a blast! 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Ace Stiles The Month of April | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Ace Stiles presents "I Think I Want Sex" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, April 6th, at 6pm. Refreshments sponsored by Starbucks. The exhibit will be on display through the end of April. “I Think I Want Sex” is a representation of my inner world. As a chronic overthinker, I feel I have found myself at a crossroad – not quite accepted as an equal to my peers, but far beyond where I could be. I portray my thoughts of worry that I will never have the experiences of people my age, first kisses or dates, my anticipations for things to come, my impatience, my devastation, my hope. I use a range of mediums and sizes to express these notions, primarily abstract in nature and incorporating bold bright colors, and the written word. This show aims to hold your eye and let you feel seen.. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle RSVP The Month of May | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tammye Randle presents at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, May 4th, at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display through the end of May. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 0 Miss Gay Oklahoma America Saturday, May 6th | 8:00p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Join us on May 6th for the 45th annual Miss Gay Oklahoma America! TICKETS RSVP Showtime 8p General Admission $25 Reserved Seating $30 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... LGBTQ+ Tulsa Community Forum Tuesday, May 9th | 10a Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 REGISTER RSVP We want to hear from you! How can the Alzheimer's Association better serve the LGBTQ+ Community in the Greater Tulsa area? Join us for a community forum to share your views on Alzheimer's and dementia care in the community and how we can help. Contact Jacob Guinan at jbguinan@alz.org for more information. iTULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET Tulsa Really, Really Free Market A Community Shar,ng Ev ent Every !rd Sunday • llp ~p I 1>21 E ~th St Fu,n,t:~:1~'A~1••HPl:~~;':H:..:.80:::, a~d~::;j 0 Sunday, May 21st | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 RSVP A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. If you are interested in starting or transferring Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Illl1 MlemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Steve Walley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member March, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111,gltt T 0 You. Bi 1-.;Ite Letter 1 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network Our monthly meet-ups are come and go The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 For more information email Daniel ~cll@rr ~Dn]])If®lru @IT®ffi]]) O~@O@l0(£)CkD§§~~ 'D'Ck!Jlb§& 'D'W@=§IPO~O'D' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris + + Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule a interview call 918.743.4297. The purpose of the group is to provide We are a Social Group that identifies as ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 27 for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. -,!, SCREAM _ _ __ __.,,_ IT FILM IT Flm a llhart - ~. , , ~ FINCER PAINT IT Create digital art, color penc,1, or drawing PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: 1. OKl:Q lUINuon,,y © - -,.& _ _ _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOU/ VOICE Belongs Vol.l'VOICE is Vahd The 2022 2023 OUR VOICES t,,npeign 10 raise funds and support lof our library seeks to ncreeseeccess IOand sccpe: oflBGTOIA• mateoels Donate 10deyl 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 0. Seardllor ~IOMMFIVltaMTfflBIOWflonlhel''ftCdllg Oll'c:atague~tpOMCft(llllhel'llonCJIOl'AugUSt~ ... ~II.DlryClfU Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. Rainbow Library Donate & Support Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ - The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... persons. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A P ROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 26 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SUPPORT TODAY OKEQ BOARD AND TRUSTEES Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers 4/29/26, 11:37 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 27 of 27 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Shelta Sneed 080S9 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:37 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/0708c331d7a18510e1ad4c048de1cce8.pdf 752e6aea9e4dc05a43e07c67980307dc PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OkEq Weekly eNews Pictures are hyperlinked! 1/16 Bowling League 7p Martin Luther King Jr. Day 1/17 OKEQ Health Clinic 9a-5p OKEQ Seniors I0a-lp FREE HIV Testing 4p-6p 1/18 1/19 1/20 1/21 • • . • . . .. • •• • • • OkEq Board Meeting 6p Veteran Support Group 6p SCOUTS Troop 6:30p ,i b Room 7p OKEQ Health Clinic lp-4p Closed The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is closed to the general public Monday, January 16th in recognition of Martin Luther King Jr. Day. Letter From the President Dear Friends, 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We hope this letter finds you safe, warm, and in the company of those most important in your life. As temperatures drop and days slow down, I begin again to reflect. To celebrate the successes of the waning year while looking to the incredible opportunities ahead. Together, we have moved through significant triumphs and adjustments here at OkEq. There is much to be grateful for as we count our blessings and look ahead. Over the last year, and under the guidance of former President Stacy Turner, we had the most successful Gala and Pride events in the organization's history. Over 700 attendees joined us for our Gala, while Pride welcomed its largest number of vendors and participants since its inception. We also navigated staffing, Board, and program adjustments. Most recently, pausing some events and programs along with slightly reduced center hours (noon to 8 pm weekdays) as we turn inward to focus on the infrastructure needed to keep OkEq thriving well into the future. Moving into 2023, we are building on our successes with committees preparing for the Gala and Pride to be even bigger and concentrate on celebrating every single one of you. Supporting that is the first segment of our interim Executive Directors strategic plan for OkEq, the Three Ps — People, Programs, and Purpose. Here are some of the exciting things you can expect through January: • Defined employee roles and additions to staff and volunteers • New financial protocols for efficiency and accountability • Safety improvements, including a new camera system and intercoms • Expanded support group offerings • The return of youth and young adult programs • New education and outreach training through OkEq and select partners • The first details about our new counseling initiatives • A return to standard operating hours at the Center • Website and social media refreshes As you can see, these are exciting times! We invite you in this season of reflection, generosity, and hope, to share the great work happening at OkEq and encourage your networks to consider giving or matching your support of our growing services. There is no end destination in our work, and we remain ever focused and full of gratitude for your support of OkEq. On behalf of the OkEq Staff, Board, and Trustees, I wish you all a very warm and happy Holiday Season! Sincerely, Bob Hanson Board President Board President Updates MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT HI , OKEQ MEMBERS . I WANTED TO TAKE A MOMENT TO INTRODUCE MYSELF. I AM BOB HANSON AND HAVE STEPPED INTO THE ROLE OF BOARD PRESIDENT FOR OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY. AFTER SERVING THE MEMBERS AND CENTER FOR THE LAST YEAR , STACY TURNER HAS TAKEN SOME VERY WELL EARNED TIME OFF TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY IN DIFFERENT WAYS. I CANNOT EXPRESS ENOUGH HOW GRATEFUL WE AS THE BOARD ARE FOR HER GUIDANCE AND LEADERSHIP OVER THE LAST YEAR ; SHE HAS GUIDED US THROUGH SOME OF THE TOUGHEST TIMES OKEQ HAS EVER SEEN . 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... THIS YEAR HAS BEEN A YEAR OF MANY CHANCES FOR THE CENTER - SOME COOD AND SOME BAD. THE STAFF AT THE CENTER HAS BEEN THROUCH SO MUCH , AND WE ARE SO CRATEFUL FOR THEIR DEDICATION TO THE CENTER AND THE COMMUNITY THEY SERVE . OUR STAFF IS AMAZINC AND HAS BEEN WORKINC SO HARD TO HELP KEEP THE IMPORTANT SERVICES THE CENTER PROVIDES AVAILABLE . AS WE TAKE THE NEXT STEPS , THERE ARE A LOT OF EXCITINC NEW THINCS OKEQ WILL BE FOCUSINC ON. BUT UNFORTUNATELY, EVENTS OVER THE LAST SEVERAL WEEKS HAVE REMINDED ALL OF US WHY THE WORK OF THE CENTER IS SO IMPORTANT. THE VIOLENT ATTACKS AT THE DONUT HOLE (PLEASE SHOW YOUR SUPPORT AND LOVE TO THEM) ARE A SOBERINC REMINDER THAT WE STILL HAVE WORK TO DO. WE ARE ALSO FOCUSED ON FICHTINC THE ATTACK ON CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE. THE RECENT PASSACE AND SICNINC OF SENATE BILL 3XX PROHIBITS OU HEALTH FROM PROVIDINC CENDER AFFIRMINC CARE AS A CONDITION OF RECEIVINC FEDERAL AMERICAN RESCUE PLAN DOLLARS FOR THE EXPANSION OF CHILDREN'S BEHAVIORAL HEALTH FACILITIES . LECISLATORS HAVE ALREADY EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BAN CENDER - AFFIRMINC CARE TO MINORS STATEWIDE IN THE 2023 LECISLATIVE SESSION . WHEN SENATE BILL 3XX WAS SICNED, OUR BOARD SECRETARY , ERIC WILSON , SENT A SIMPLE BUT POWERFUL EMAIL THAT SAID , " THIS MAKES ME SO MAD . ALL THIS WILL DO IS HURT KIDS ." I HAVEN 'T STOPPED THINKINC ABOUT THAT EMAIL , AND IT HAS BECOME A BATTLE CRY FOR ME. OKEQ WILL CONTINUE TO FICHT ACAINST THE HATE AND VIOLENCE THAT TARCETS OUR COMMUNITY. OKEQ WILL BE A SAFE PLACE FOR ALL WITHIN THE LCBTQIAA + COMMUNITY ACAINST WHATEVER IS THROWN AT US, NOT OUT OF HATE FOR OTHERS, BUT FOR THE LOVE OF OUR COMMUNITY. THIS IS WHY WE FICHT - SO ALL MAY KNOW LOVE WINS AND WILL PREVAIL. HUMBLED AND HONORED, BOB HANSON ~ 11 . 0 7 . 2 2 11.07.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT AS I WRITE THIS ON THE EVEN INC OF THE MIDTERM ELECTIONS , I AM FILLED WITH EMOTION AND REMINDED THAT TRANSFORMATIONAL CHANCE TAKES TIME , PATIENCE AND AN UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO PUSH TH ROUCH CHALLENCES . THERE HAVE BEEN MANY CHANCES AT OKEQ RECENTLY . THOSE CHANCES MAY BE HARD TO ACCEPT FOR SOME IN OUR COMMUNITY BUT ARE DUE IN PART TO THE CROWTH OF OUR ORCANIZATION . IT IS MY HOPE THAT THIS MESSACE WILL HELP YOU UNDERSTAND WHERE WE ARE TODAY AND WHY YOUR SUPPORT IS ESSENTIAL TO OUR FUTURE . OKEQ BECAN AS A SMALL ORCANIZATION RUN BY VOLUNTEERS . OVER THE YEARS , DRIVEN BY THE NEEDS OF OUR COMMUNITY , OKEQ CREW TO A LARCE CENTER REQUIRINC BOTH A FULL STAFF AND VOLUNTEERS . THIS CROWTH HAPPENED QUICKLY , AND THE STAFF , VOLUNTEERS , AND BOARD OF DIRECTORS WORKED TO SUSTAIN US TH ROUCH THIS EVOLUTION . THEIR PASSION FOR OKEQ IS WHAT LED TO AMAZINC ACCOMPLISHMENTS , EVEN IN THE FACE OF AN ADVERSE AND EVEN HOSTILE POLITICAL CLIMATE . AS WE SOUCHT TO RESPOND TO OVERWHELMINC DEMAND FOR THE SERVICES OKEQ PROVIDES , WE DID NOT ESTABLISH THE ADEQUATE ACCOUNTABILITY MEASURES A HEALTHY AND CROWINC ORCANIZATION NEEDS , PARTICULARLY IN TERMS OF FISCAL OVERSICHT. WE BELIEVE IN TRANSPARENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY AND WANT OUR COMMUNITY TO KNOW : • IN OUR WORK TO ASSESS THE ORCANIZATION ' S CURRENT FINANCIAL STATE , THE BOARD IDENTIFIED IRRECULARITIES IN THE FINANCES OVERSEEN BY OKEQ ' S VOLUNTEER TREASURER : • WE TOOK IMMEDIATE ACTION IN RESPONSE TO THIS FINDINC , AND THE TREASURER IS NO LONCER INVOLVED WITH OKEQ: • WE MET WITH OUR FUNDERS AND PHILANTHROPIC PARTNERS TO MAKE THEM AWARE OF THE SITUATION : • WITH THE CONTINUED SUPPORT OF OUR FUNDERS , WE COMPLETED A COMPETITIVE REQUEST FOR PROPOSALS PROCESS AND ENCACED A NEW ACCOUNTINC FIRM : •WEARE WORKINC WITH THAT FIRM AND WITH OTHER PARTNERS TO COMPLETE A COMPREHENSIVE FINANCIAL RECONCILIATION PROCESS AND BUILD A NEW INFRASTRUCTURE TO ENSURE THAT EVERY DOLLAR IS ACCOUNTED FOR AND USED FOR ITS INTENDED PURPOSE . IMPORTANTLY , WE ARE SHARI NC THIS UPDATE AND THE INFORMATION WE HAVE AVAILABLE AT THIS TIME WITH THE PEOPLE WHO MATTER MOST - YOU . OKEQ EXISTS TO SERVE OUR COMMUNITY AND WE ARE WORKINC URCENTLY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ CAN BE FINANCIALLY VIABLE AND CAN SUSTAIN FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . YOUR SUPPORT MATTERS NOW MORE THAN EVER . MOVINC FORWARD , WE ARE DETERMININC WHAT PROCRAMS AND SERVICES WILL LOOK LIKE FOR THE NEXT FEW MONTHS . I WILL BE SHARINC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT OUR SCHEDULE SOON . IN THE MEANTIME , I WANT TO THANK YOU FOR YOUR STEADFAST COMMITMENT TO OKEQ AND TO SUPPORTINC OUR COMMUNITY TO BE SAFE , HEALTHY AND THRIVINC . SINCERELY BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT ~ 11 . 1 4. 2 2 11.14.22 MESSAGE FROM THE BOARD PRESIDENT DEAR FRIENDS , THE WINTER HOLIDAY SEASON IS A TIME FOR CRATITUDE , AND THIS VEAR I AM PROFOUNDLY CRATEFUL FOR THE OVERWHELMINC SUPPORT WE HAVE SEEN FROM THE OKEQ COMMUNITY DURINC THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . THANK YOU FOR YOUR MESSACES OF SUPPORT AND YOUR UNWAVERINC COMMITMENT TO OUR WORK ON BEHALF OF THE LCBTQ + COMMUNITY . AS YOU MAY KNOW , LAST SPRINC WE CELEBRATED TOBY JENKINS ' 26 YEARS OF LEADERSHIP AS EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR OF OKEQ AND WISHED HIM THE BEST ON HIS WELL - EARNED RETIREMENT TO SPEND TIME WITH HIS FAMILY . ESPECIALLY HIS CRANDCHILDREN . OVER THE LAST FIVE MONTHS , THE BOARD HAS BEEN WORKINC TO IDENTIFY A NEW LEADER TO HELP STRENCTHEN AND SUSTAIN OUR MISSION AND THE LECACY OF TOBY ' S WORK TH ROUCH THE MANY EVENTS , PROCRAMS , AND RESOURCES THAT OKEQ PROVIDES IN SERVINC YOU , OUR COMMUNITY . ON BEHALF OF THE BOARD OF DIRECTORS , I AM THRILLED TO ANNOUNCE THAT DOROTHY BALLARD HAS JOINED OKEQ AS OUR NEW INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR . AFTER A COMPETITIVE INTERVIEW PROCESS , THE EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE OF THE BOARD RECOMMENDED DOROTHY BECAUSE OF HER KNOWLEDCE , DEDICATION , AND PASSION FOR THE MISSION OF OKEQ . SHE BRINCS MORE THAN 15 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE IN COMMUNICATIONS . MARKETINC . AND PROJECT DEVELOPMENT AND MANACEMENT . WE ARE CRATEFUL FOR HER WILLINCNESS TO STEP FORWARD AND LEAD OKEQ TH ROUCH THIS TIME OF TRANSITION . DOROTHY HAS HIT THE CROUND RUNNINC AND IS BUILDINC A COMPREHENSIVE PLAN TO STABILIZE AND SUSTAIN OKEQ . WE WILL BE SHARI NC MORE INFORMATION ABOUT THOSE PLANS SOON . I HOPE YOU WILL SAVE THE DATE OF THURSDAY , DECEMBER 8 AT 5 PM FOR A HOLIDAY OPEN HOUSE AT OKEQ FOR A CHANCE TO MEET DOROTHY AND THE OKEQ TEAM , TOUR THE CENTER , AND LEARN ABOUT OUR PROCRAMS AND SERVICES . WE ALSO HOPE YOU JOIN US AFTERWARDS IN THE LYNN RICCS THEATER TO ENJOY DECEMBER ' S RAINBOW ROOM EVENT " A QUIRKY QUEEN ' S QUEER CHRISTMAS CABARET " FEATURINC TRAVIS CUILLORY AT 7 :30 PM . LOOK FOR AN INVITATION TO THESE LATER THIS WEEK ! NOW THAT WE ACAIN HAVE LEADERSHIP IN PLACE THAT HOLDS THE CONFIDENCE OF THE BOARD AND STAFF , WE CAN CONTINUE TO ADDRESS THE BROADER WORK OF IMPLEMENTINC OUR STRATECY TO MAKE SURE THAT OKEQ IS FINANCIALLY SOUND AND CAN SUSTAIN ITS MISSION FOR CENERATIONS TO COME . ALTHOUCH THESE SHIFTS HOLD THEIR CHALLENCES , WE HAVE AN EXCITINC OPPORTUNITY FOR OKEQ TO MEET THE EX PAN DI NC NEEDS OF THE COMMUNITY . AS WE MOVE FORWARD . WE ARE MINDFUL OF OUR FOUNDINC AND HISTORY AS A CRASSROOTS ORCANIZATION CREATED TO CCDVC Al I llrJ n110 r n U U I I I J I T V ACTCD nvco L n VCADC TUC Dlr'U ftlVCDCITV n c n 1 u , r n U U I I M I T V UAC r.Dn\AllrJ A Mn n110 ••11:cnc 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • YOUR NEEDS · ARE CREATER THAN EVER . THANK YOU FOR CONTINUINC TO STANO WITH US AS WE WORK THROUCH THIS TIME OF CHANCE AS WE TURN THE CORNER TOWARD A BICCER ANO BRICHTER FUTURE . SINCERELY , BOB HANSON BOARD PRESIDENT ~ 11 , 2 1 , 2 2 11.21.22 111 WE SHALL OVERCOME BECAUSE THE ARC OF THE MORAL UNIVERSE ms LONG, BUT IT BENDS TOWARD lUSTICE. * 111 + Upcoming Special Events Free HIV Testing Tuesday, Janaury 17th | 4:00pm 6:00pm Dennis E. Neill Equality Center 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Thursdays in the Rainbow Room - Two Tenors, Too Many, Tonight! Facebook Event TICKETS Thursday, Jan 19th | 7:00pm Lynn Riggs Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Local award-winning performers Sam Briggs and Thomas Farnan-Williams are celebrating a decade of friendship the only way they know how: through song! Come enjoy stories and songs from their past decade performing together as well as some of the great duets from Broadway and the Great American Songbook! Doors open at 7:00 p.m. The show starts at 7:30 p.m. Bistro Seats are $20, and General Admission seating is $15. Tickets are on sale now. 0 Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, Jan 26th | 6:00pm 7:30pm Tulsa Ballet 1212 E 45th Pl S, Tulsa, OK 74105 RSVP Join us for our Equality Business Alliance Mixer at Tulsa Ballet. The international press has described Tulsa Ballet as “one of the best in the world” A professional company of 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... international dancers representing 14 countries performs six times a year. The Tulsa Ballet Center for Dance Education offers classes for ages 3adult at two campuses: in Tulsa on Brookside and in Broken Arrow at the Hardesty Center for Dance Education. The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services, and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are each month 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator, Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/ equality-business-alliance.html 0 The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Nancy Moran Month of January Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 74120 Nancy Moran presents "Collage Conversations: Self-care for the Activist Soul" at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Exhibit opening night is Thursday, January 5th at 6pm. The exhibit will be on display for the month of January. - 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Nancy Moran, a long time Tulsa activist, dares to believe that people can, and will, do the right thing. To her that has meant organizing to open Tulsa’s first transitional living center for unhoused persons with chronic mental illness, leading an antiwar movement, supporting immigrant rights, and working on getting Tulsa, an oil and gas town, to commit to 100% renewable energy. It takes a lot of energy, and positive self-talk, to continue acting upon these convictions. She sees other people having the same struggles. Creating collages is a means of providing encouragement, for herself and others. As a nurse and a mindbody medicine scholar, she sees collage-making as a whole body-brain activity allowing her to steep herself in the values and motivation needed to keep up the good fight. Through her “Dispatches from the Collage Cutting Factory,” she uses these collages as a means to reflect on a variety of topics ranging from mindfulness, selfcompassion, spirituality, ecology, tenacity, and the importance of refusing to be a spectator in a world that needs each and every one of us to be a force for good. Her collages in essays may be found at https://www.facebook.com/ Collagesandcoktails 0 OKEO -ci=-f- HEALTH -ci=-fCLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Communny Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Wednesdays - 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fridays - 1:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m. OKEQ HEALTH CLINIC We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. Please do not send medical or private information via email! SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT In Memoriam Iln MemoniWTI Stan Simpson Carol Smith Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Joseph Edward Johnson Matt Brooks Daniel Davis Aston Born Day - 2022 Born Day - 2022 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jonathan Stanley Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Aug 16, 1948 - Dec 1, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bro1111,gl11t T 0 You. Bi l-.JI11e Letter 1 Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bisexual and Pansexual, A social organization for mature minded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... women and build your network Curious, & Questioning individuals. Our monthly meet-ups are come and go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+ and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.8:00pm For more information email Daniel interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information email Steven or call 918.592.0088 @i@rncfil®IT ~ffi]])If@Lffi @IT@ffi]]) O~@O@O@ Qdl§§ ~g 'u'Qdl11,§ £ 'D'W@-§[)e)O~O'u' IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latinled movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. The program is providing support, education and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, NonBinary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Email Rowan to schedule interview Every Wednesday from 7:00pm - 8:30pm. For more information call 918.743.4297. ~~w@~H'll-00 ;-. ~@wu@ ~H@lhl'll' 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 5:00pm 9:00pm Jamm Outt will learn about different cultures, traditional music from around the world, and get to play instruments while expanding musical knowledge. This group meets every first and third Monday of the month at 5:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay with Name, School, and Age. + + Join PFLAG & OKEQ for our new support group for parents of LGBTQ+ teens. Coffee and cookies will be provided. This group meets monthly on the first Saturday from 4:00 pm - 5:00 pm at Fellowship Congregational Church 2900 S. Harvard Ave. Tulsa, OK 74114 ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ ++ OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans, who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/ Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Veterans Support Group meets every Thursday at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center For more information email Daniel or call 918.812.4640 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... images of LGBT life in later years. OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Email SAGE@OKEQ.ORG for more information. Social and support group for non-traditional, complicated relationships. It's Complicated will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library Hopefully you have had the chance to check out the online catalog, check out a new book, and explore some of the new additions as we are expanding and growing. Speaking of changes, there are two brand new initiatives we’ve implemented, and if you’d like to help with either of those, please let me know! CHILDREN’S BOOKS: We have gotten some new children’s books in! You can view them here: https://tinyurl.com/2s4ku89v. We’ve also started adding links to Teachers’ and Family Guides where available, as well as any reading/interest levels as we can find. Take a look at this book: https://tinyurl.com/yxt8hzh2. If you scroll down to the “Local Notes,” you’ll find where this information can be found. (Quick tip: If you have logged into your library account, you can click “Place Hold” for a book to be set aside for you to pick up). BOOK DONATIONS: We’ve also been asked if there is a wish list for the library. It is now live! You can view it here: https://tinyurl.com/yv4wn46t. As part of your holiday charity giving, consider donating a book or two, or make it a monthly commitment to purchase a book along with a regular Amazon delivery. Thank you for all your support this year. It has been a rollercoaster ride with all the political and societal issues that have impacted the 2SLGBTQIA+ community, but together, we can become stronger and find ways to overcome these challenges. Happy holidays, 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Michelle Simmons Library Director BE HEARD. USE YOU R VOI C E Stuck figuring out what you want to submit? Here's some ideas. SCREAM IT -!i ------..-FILM IT Fhaahort - pemrmoncecr~ PICTURE IT ~ Take a photo - a collage or self - portrait ~ YOUR VOICE SUBMISSION IT'S OFFICIALLY HERE! The Rainbow Library online catalog is live! ➡ The Rainbow Library Here's how you can request a library card: 1. OKEQ Mwuwwy © ~ - _,,., _ _ _ Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library YOUI VOICE Belongs VoL.- VOICE IS Vahd The 2022-2023 OUR VOtCES t,,npeign 10 r81Se l,,nds and support lo, our library seeks to increase eccess 10 and scope: ol LBGTOIA• ma1e091s Donate 10d8yl Q. Searchtor ~ 10 U,rll rrosi.., TWI l!ltOM'I on llelf ~ C M ~ 11 Sl)OMOred II h"'I" IKll'IOl" lor ......~ • ~aux.,, C.-0 Or, if you have a library card already, you can log in to the catalog to see what you have checked out and request a hold on a book. You can also email the librarian. Currently, we are compiling a list of over 100 books, primarily Young Adult titles, to purchase in the next month. In addition, we sent out our first batch of library cards, with more to be mailed out soon. There is still a lot of work to be done. With limited time, the other library volunteers and I are doing what we can to finish sending out our backlog of library card requests, add new books, process current books (since the conversion from the old system to this one was not entirely 100% smooth), and become fluent on the new system. So bear with us as we work through these things, but most importantly, come enjoy YOUR new library. 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Library Donate & Support Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood at The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center While Gilcrease is rebuilding, we want to bring art from their collection to you through their new program, Gilcrease in Your Neighborhood, which begins this fall. Reproductions from their collection will pop-up in at least 30 locations around Tulsa. One artwork will be displayed for three months simultaneously all over town, with three different pieces displayed over 12 months. Gilcrease has programming based on the art planned for select locations so we’re sure to get as many people interacting with the art—and Gilcrease—as possible. The first piece is "Forest Scene" by Pop Chalee (Taos Pueblo). Read More Equality Alliances The EBA exists to strengthen LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community by: 1. Providing a directory of LGBTQ+ welcoming businesses in the Tulsa community; 2. Creating regular networking opportunities with these businesses; and 3. Creating professional The EFA exists to connect the LGBTQIA+ community with affirming faith communities. All participating faith communities must show a commitment to being an affirming and welcoming place for the LGBTQ+ community in their spaces and in their practices. The EHA strives to connect the LGBTQ+ community with friendly healthcare providers. We provide healthcare professionals with training on working with the LGBTQ+ community as well as follow-up support and education on evolving best practices. 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... environments where gay-welcoming businesses can meet to have their voices heard on important issues that affect how we do business and our quality of life. Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.o rg. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Every Tuesday from 4:00 pm - 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. (Free Testing) Hope Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. A PROGRAM OF OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. LltN I tKLINI\ Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Sign Up for Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 okeq. org/ donate SUPPORT TODAY Amazon Smile. You Shop. Amazon Gives. 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Get your house in order and help us get our house in order, too! Go to smile.amazon.com for your shopping needs, and Amazon will donate a portion to Oklahomans for Equality! OKEQ STAFF, BOARD, AND TRUSTEES HE/ HIM/ HIS DIGITAL MEDIA & BIPOC PROGRAM COORDINATOR SHAY BREWER ANDI GUNTER SHE I HER I HERS KAO MORRIS HE/ HIM/ HIS CLINIC OPERATIONS MANAGER OPERATIONS MANGER •• DONNA MATTHEWS LILY PINA SHE/ HER/ HERS GRANT COORDINATOR LUKE SCUITTO SHE I HER I HERS HE/ HIM/ HIS NURSE PRACTITIONER MEMBERSHIP COORDINATOR Executive Committee Bob Hanson, PharmD - President Julie Chase - Treasurer Eric Wilson - Secretary Whitney Cipolla - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips 4/29/26, 11:25 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 18 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Board of Directors Dani Byrd Angelyn L. Dale, Esq. Elizabeth Ortiz Crista Patrick Justin Ross Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Claire Combs Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Karen Keith Wilkins, Esq. Denise Reid Jane Wiseman 080S8 Oklahomans for Equality & The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Monday - Friday: 9:00 am - 9:00 pm Saturday: Open for Events Only | Sunday: Open for Events Only 621 E. 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:25 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/da417f136afb14194cce8bee972203c4.pdf 6080f448e7769dbbca07f5358cd9d750 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Oklahomans for Equality Selects Executive Director Tulsa, OK - Dorothy Ballard (she/her), previously Interim Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq), was confirmed as the organization’s permanent Executive Director on May 12, 2023. The recruitment process was managed by a professional recruiter and included an open search process, resume review, screening, and multiple rounds of interviews. The Board of Directors' vote was unanimous in choosing Ms. Ballard as the new Executive Director, a testament to her qualifications and experience. "We are thrilled to have Dorothy leading our organization," said OkEq Board President, Eric Wilson. "She has already made a significant impact during her time as Interim Executive Director, and we are confident in her abilities to lead OkEq into a bright future." Ms. Ballard brings to the role a master’s in industrial and organizational psychology, as well as nearly two decades of experience in communications and leadership. Her experience includes community outreach and education, financial and risk management, board relations, fund development, and advocacy, making her an excellent fit for the 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Executive Director position. As a strong and compassionate servant leader, Ms. Ballard has proven to be equally comfortable with staff, board, funders, legislative and local leaders, media, and most importantly, OkEq's wonderfully diverse constituency. Her expertise in organizational management and development is evident in the way she has already conceived and executed important improvements in process, documentation, and programming during her six-month tenure as Interim Executive Director. "I am honored and deeply privileged to have been chosen to lead OkEq," said Ms. Ballard. "The mission of our organization has never been more critical, and I look forward to continuing to work alongside our staff, board, and community to further advance equality with an eye toward equity for all Oklahomans." About Oklahomans for Equality OkEq is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting equality for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. With the appointment of Ms. Ballard as Executive Director, the organization is poised to continue its efforts to build a more inclusive and equitable society. For more information about OkEq, please visit our website at okeq.org. Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER TULSA PRIDE 2023 Tees and Tanks are Now Available for Pre-Order! OKEQ is excited to partner with Flash Flood Print Studios for Tulsa Pride 2023! Your purchase goes directly to supporting Tulsa Pride festivities and Oklahomans for Equality’s continuing mission of protecting the rights of 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Order now! Pre-orders end at Midnight on Sunday, May 21. Orders will be ready on Friday, June 2, for shipping or pickup at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 JAYZEER 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run - Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec e an J0p m-7 1 $30.00 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 21 COCO MONTRESEMEET & GREET https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... JAYZEER SHANTEYMEET & GREET JOEY JAYMEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/ pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gal Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." Homicide Investigation Update Incident #2023-00023246 Date and Time: 04-09-2023 at approximately 0733 hours Location: SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street Victim: Stephens, Clayton Suspect(s): Unknown Disposition: Detectives are currently investigating a homicide that happened on 04-09-2023 . Officers responded to SW Coombs RD near SW 38 th Street on a report of a possible deceased individual. When officers arrived, they located a deceased male, later identified at Clayton Stephens. The Oklahoma Medical Examiner has taken Mr. Stephens' body and will conduct an autopsy for an official cause of death. The Lawton Police Department will release more information as it becomes available. If you have any information or witnessed anything, nlea"e contact the Lawton Police Denartment at 5R0-5Rl-3 272 You 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... can remain anonymous and contact Crime Stoppers of Southwest Oklahoma at 580-355-4636. -END- KSWO NEWS STORY GoFundMe .\ISf.} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!~~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, May 15th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, May 17th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP National Honor Our LGBTY Elders Day Saturday, May 20th | 1p-3p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting Coffee and Connections, an afternoon of fellowship and sharing and a chance to honor the elders within our community. Join us for coffee, comradery, sharing, and “Getting to Know You” BINGO as we recognize the elders who have worked tirelessly to pave the way for a better world for all of us. The event is free and open to all ages. While the event is meant to honor all of our elders, we’ll be taking time out to recognize these four 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... individuals: • Sue Davis • John Waako Hawk Co-Cke’ • John Madigan • Gordon George Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, May 20th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Join us for Pride Bingo as we raise money for Tulsa Pride 2023 with costume contest, prizes, food, and entertainment featuring 2023 Tulsa Pride Queen Karma Electric, Dayton Thomas, Boston Cervantes, Shanel Sterling, Anita Richards, and Scrappy Legacy. Pizza sponsored by Empire Slice House Tulsa. TICKETS virtual, educational, informative Expert Panel: Understanding Transgender Healthcare & Wellness Sunday, May 21st, 2023 6:00 - 7:30 p.m. CST Register: bit.ly/3Vmahl9 Topics discussed in this secured Zoom webinarwill include: • Processes, protocols, and best practices for supporting transgender youth and adults seeking gender-affirming care • Medical and scientific understanding of gender-diversity • Common myths about trans people of all ages Event will be moderated by Lucas Hall, a trans advocate and consultant. Speakers are all based in Oklahoma, including Dr. Al Carlozzi, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Dr. Shauna Lawlis, Elliot Parker, and Kelly Kemp. Expert Panel: Understanding Transgender Healthcare & Wellness Sunday, May 21st | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK This webinar is for anyone interested in learning from experts in the field about gender-affirming care for adults and youth, debunking myths, and bringing awareness to this important topic. The event will take place virtually on Sunday, May 21st, 6:00 - 7:30 p.m. CST through a Zoom webinar to maintain attendee privacy and event safety. Topics discussed will include processes and protocols for transgender youth and adults seeking gender-affirming care and support, understanding gender-diversity from a 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... medical and scientific perspective, addressing common myths about trans people of all ages and the genderaffirming care they could receive, and best practices for supporting transgender youth and adults. The event moderator will be Lucas Hall, a trans advocate and consultant, and the speakers include Dr. Al Carlozzi, Dr. Laura Arrowsmith, Dr. Shauna Lawlis, Elliot Parker, and Kelly Kemp. We look forward to seeing you there! REGISTER TULSA REALLY.a REALLYFREc MARKET A Community Sharing Event Every 3rd Sunday• 12p - 4p I 621 E. 4th St Tulsa Really, Really Free Market Sunday, May 21st | 12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP Rainbow Room w/ Lisa Stefanic Thursday, May 25th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa actress Lisa R. Stefanic stars in an original cabaret-style show, “Love. I’m Not Kidding,” a musical journey through the ups, downs, and never- 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ending discoveries of people and emotions on the bumpy road to love. Featuring Tulsa favorite Randy Weimer on guitar and Broadway veteran Cathy Venable on piano. Curtain: 7:30p TICKETS The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle Month of May | Open during center hours Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tammye Randle presents at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. Pride Bar Crawl x OKEQ Saturday, June 17th | 4p-12a Hunt Club 224 N Main St, Tulsa, OK The 2022 Pride Crawl was a huge success and we were able to donate $22,653 to the Trevor Project! This year, we are donating locally. 20% of all event proceeds will be going to Oklahomans For Equality. ___ 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Donation Page https://okeq.org/donate/ TICKETS ~,:r OKEO HEALTH ~,:r CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 21 Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 Joseph Edward Johnson 1947 - 2022 Bob Hendricks Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Carol Smith Sept 14, 1940 - Aug 22, 2022 Paul Wayne Gossett Feb 9, 1944 - Aug 23, 2022 Matt Brooks Born Day - 2022 Daniel Davis Aston Jul 8, 1994 - Nov 20, 2022 Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member Steve Walley Mar, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Bvoug11lt 1' 0 Yott Bi 1 T lr1J@ IL ~t t~ r 1 -'----' ~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~ !:."' !:."' ~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D[j::;!]@)0@10@(1[)§§~~ 7J"(1[J[b,§£ 7J"W@=§[p0~07J" Sin Fronteras IndigiQueer 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 21 Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... @®rncll@1r ~DD.l])!PXIDifa ®rf@DD.1]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ ++ 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE ' 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustee Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:39 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 21 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... oo• Our Company | Contact Us | FAQs | Privacy Policy Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:39 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/2c0b350a6f6a2e0630003ca9dd3bc67a.pdf c20445fe8502c0c4d1192d0226184357 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Oklahomans for Equality Selects Executive Director Tulsa, OK - Dorothy Ballard (she/her), previously Interim Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq), was confirmed as the organization’s permanent Executive Director on May 12, 2023. The recruitment process was managed by a professional recruiter and included an open search process, resume review, screening, and multiple rounds of interviews. The Board of Directors' vote was unanimous in choosing Ms. Ballard as the new Executive Director, a testament to her qualifications and experience. "We are thrilled to have Dorothy leading our organization," said OkEq Board President, Eric Wilson. "She has already made a significant impact during her time as Interim Executive Director, and we are confident in her abilities to lead OkEq into a bright future." Ms. Ballard brings to the role a master’s in industrial and organizational psychology, as well as nearly two decades of experience in communications and leadership. Her experience includes community outreach and education, financial and risk management, board relations, fund development, and advocacy, making her an excellent fit for the Executive Director position. As a strong and compassionate servant leader, Ms. Ballard has proven to be equally comfortable with staff, board, funders, legislative and local leaders, media, and most importantly, OkEq's wonderfully diverse constituency. Her expertise in organizational management and development is evident in the way she has already conceived and executed important improvements in process, documentation, and programming during her six-month tenure as Interim Executive Director. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... "I am honored and deeply privileged to have been chosen to lead OkEq," said Ms. Ballard. "The mission of our organization has never been more critical, and I look forward to continuing to work alongside our staff, board, and community to further advance equality with an eye toward equity for all Oklahomans." About Oklahomans for Equality OkEq is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting equality for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. With the appointment of Ms. Ballard as Executive Director, the organization is poised to continue its efforts to build a more inclusive and equitable society. For more information about OkEq, please visit our website at okeq.org. The Board of Directors for OkEq is looking for additional Directors. If you or someone you know would like to apply, please fill out this interest form. Submitted forms will be considered on a rolling basis until the vacancies are filled. Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... □ !STIIIAIIDN AIIIISTS TJLRIIG !Gel£' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet and Greet 6 30pm -7 10pm $30 .00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/ pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gal Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." JIS&J G e t h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!'.~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, May 23rd | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin of otlahoma will be assist ins Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, May 24th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP E ALITY Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance Mixer Thursday, May 25th | 6p-7:30p Farmers Insurance - Brian Farnswoth 8238 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK Join us for the May EBA Mixer at Farmers Insurance - Brian Farnsworth. Rainbow Room w/ Lisa Stefanic Thursday, May 25th | 7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tulsa actress Lisa R. Stefanic stars in an original cabaret-style show, “Love. I’m Not Kidding,” a musical journey through the ups, downs, and neverending discoveries of people and emotions on the bumpy road to love. Featuring Tulsa favorite Randy Weimer on guitar and Broadway veteran Cathy Venable on piano. Curtain: 7:30p TICKETS Summer Bash Saturday, May 27th | 6:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ☀ GIVEAWAY! ☀ We want to see you at the Youth Leadership Council’s #SummerBash on May 27 at the Equality Center! This teen-focused sexual health resource fair is for all people ages 13-19. Activities include live music, trivia, free food and resources, and more. We’ll have prizes at the event and we’re running THREE social media giveaways leading up to it! To win the Instax camera giveaway… ? follow our account ? share this post to your story ? AND tag 3 friends below in the comments Winner will be announced May 29. See you at Summer Bash! #YouthLeadershipCouncil #Amplify Tulsa #VibrantCommunities Please visit amplifytulsa.org/summerbash for more information. Trnn1nye Randle -nI[ SIST/,11 COLL[CllO:-.! - The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle Tuesday, May 30th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tammye Randle presents at The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Join us for the closing of the exhibit. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. Pride Bar Crawl x OKEQ Saturday, June 17th | 4p-12a Hunt Club 224 N Main St, Tulsa, OK The 2022 Pride Crawl was a huge success and we were able to donate $22,653 to the Trevor Project! This year, we are donating locally. 20% of all event proceeds will be going to Oklahomans For Equality. ___ Donation Page https://okeq.org/donate/ TICKETS -~-f11 OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Ill 11 MemoriWTI Daniel Davis Aston Jul 8, 1994 - Nov 20, 2022 Bob Hendricks Jan 27, 1957 - Dec 3, 2022 Community Leader Stan Simpson Aug 29, 1929 - Jul 21, 2022 OKEQ Seniors Member Steve Walley Mar, 1948 - Feb 1, 2022 Steve was owner of Silver Star, a popular night spot in Tulsa. He is survived by his husband and partner of 40 years John Rothrock. In Memoriam Submissions 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1' 0 V Olll Bi 1 1f,jt1Je IL~tt~r ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@O:D§§~:; 'TI'O:D~§& 'TI'W@=§~D~D'TI' 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 19 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... tulsaequalitygaming ®®rn@l®IP - ~lID]])I]XIDlru ®rf®l!U]]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. Q TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. OKE 1 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustee Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:50 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 19 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... oo• Our Company | Contact Us | FAQs | Privacy Policy Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:50 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/091c1770df4031c3b4042f66d62d2260.pdf 8e2dd678ef7b597199c65b6c77a5ba85 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Oklahomans for Equality Selects Executive Director 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa, OK - Dorothy Ballard (she/her), previously Interim Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq), was confirmed as the organization’s permanent Executive Director on May 12, 2023. The recruitment process was managed by a professional recruiter and included an open search process, resume review, screening, and multiple rounds of interviews. The Board of Directors' vote was unanimous in choosing Ms. Ballard as the new Executive Director, a testament to her qualifications and experience. "We are thrilled to have Dorothy leading our organization," said OkEq Board President, Eric Wilson. "She has already made a significant impact during her time as Interim Executive Director, and we are confident in her abilities to lead OkEq into a bright future." Ms. Ballard brings to the role a master’s in industrial and organizational psychology, as well as nearly two decades of experience in communications and leadership. Her experience includes community outreach and education, financial and risk management, board relations, fund development, and advocacy, making her an excellent fit for the Executive Director position. As a strong and compassionate servant leader, Ms. Ballard has proven to be equally comfortable with staff, board, funders, legislative and local leaders, media, and most importantly, OkEq's wonderfully diverse constituency. Her expertise in organizational management and development is evident in the way she has already conceived and executed important improvements in process, documentation, and programming during her six-month tenure as Interim Executive Director. "I am honored and deeply privileged to have been chosen to lead OkEq," said Ms. Ballard. "The mission of our organization has never been more critical, and I look forward to continuing to work alongside our staff, board, and community to further advance equality with an eye toward equity for all Oklahomans." About Oklahomans for Equality OkEq is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting equality for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. With the appointment of Ms. Ballard as Executive Director, the organization is poised to continue its efforts to build a more inclusive and equitable society. For more information about OkEq, please visit our website at okeq.org. OKEQ Equality Gala Award Winners 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gala The Board of Directors for OkEq is looking for additional Directors. If you or someone you know would like to apply, please fill out this interest form. Submitted forms will be considered on a rolling basis until the vacancies are filled. 1081 Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... D!STIIJAIION AllllSTS TJLRIIG lG:IC' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th Isa Pride 20 icah Membra Karma Eclec ~ 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Meet and Greet 6 30pm-7 10pm $30 .00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/ pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? Oklahomans for Equality applauds the City of Tulsa for passing the proposed resolution and "reaffirms Tulsa is a welcoming, compassionate, and inclusive city to all regardless of race, color, religion, sex, national origin, ancestry, marital status, familial status, sexual orientation, gender identity, gender expression, or disability." National Center for RANSGENDER EQUALITY This Pride Month Show #TransIntersexSolidarity! This Pride month, the National Center for Transgender Equality - in partnership with InterACT - celebrates intersex and trans solidarity! As part of our shared goal to raise awareness, we are hosting #TransIntersexSolidarity Week from June 12th - 16th–and we invite your organization to join us. 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Why #TransIntersexSolidarity? Over the last few years, we have seen an increase in regressive anti-trans rhetoric that has led to a loss of rights and an increase in danger for trans adults and youth. These same bills intended to target and eliminate transness also impact intersex people, especially intersex girls, and women of color, who already face body policing in schools and sports. Intersex people face human rights violations rooted in transphobia, including medically unnecessary “corrective surgeries” to change the appearance of an infant’s sex. This extremely harmful practice is specifically included in most bills that aim to strip away rights to genderaffirming care for trans teens - which is unacceptable. We hope you will join us in uplifting messages of solidarity between transgender and intersex communities and raising up the overlapping struggles that these communities share. Here’s what you can do: • Use our #TransIntersexSolidarity toolkit here to get the word out on your social media platforms and to your networks! • Use the #TransIntersexSolidarity hashtag to help us create more visibility. • Attend our “Ask Us Anything” Instagram Live with InterACT to talk about trans-intersex issues on June 14th at 6 PM EST at @transequalitynow or @InterACT_adv! • Uplift current trans and intersex content and issues throughout the rest of the month– and every month! For any questions, please get in touch with Alex del Rosario (they/he). Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, May 30th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Trnn1nye Randle -nI[ SISTI ,I I COLL[CllON - The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Tammye Randle Tuesday, May 30th | 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tammye Randle presents at The Allie 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jensen Memorial Art Gallery. Join us for the closing of the exhibit. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, May 31st | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Thursday, June 1st | 7p 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... THE OPENING or WHERE LOVE 1s ILLEGAL EXHIBIT THURSDAY. JUNE 1ST AT 6PA Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ViNS The Witness Change project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/artgallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/ OKEQArtGallery. 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP BOK CENTER + STUDIO 66 PRESENT LET'S GOY'ALL! I Let's Go Y'ALL! Saturday, June 3rd | 9p-1a BOK Center 200 South Denver Avenue Tulsa, OK 74103 Let's Go Y'ALL is a block party for EVERY-body! Join Studio 66 and BOK Center for a giddy-up good time at this Pride Month kick-off. TICKETS ~~~ -3i:zs Zl+ TO ENTER ITlITIIIB ITilBJHilID' STREET DISCO st&0~ filfulR Sydney Lee Heertwerk UnsocialJ's B-Day Drag Brunch Fundraiser Saturday, June 5th | 11a & 2p Open Container 502 E 3rd St #39, Tulsa, OK 74120 Help kick off Pride Month with Support of Tulsa's Latinx Movement! You are invited to UnsocialJ's B-Day Drag Brunch Fundraiser at the Cuban-owned Open Container Bar & Grill at The Boxyard in downtown Tulsa on June 4th! Just $10 at the door or $5 for presale tickets! Latinx Drag show featuring Angela Doll, Bosston, and Valentino Minaj. Showtimes at 11 am and 2 pm. Cuban brunch and drinks available for purchase. A percentage of drink and door sales goes to the Latinx group Sin Fronteras x OkEq for 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... community outreach purposes! ks! RSVP TICKETS OKEQ x Night Muses: The Rainbow Revue Friday, June 16th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Rainbow Revue is a Drag & Burlesque Fundraiser for Tulsa Pride, an event that is presented by OKEQ & Night Muses, which promises to be an unforgettable experience. You do not want to miss it! James Sparks ==-====--, Lynn Riggs Theatre OKEQ Center 621 E 4th St, Tulsa, OK 74120 Tickets $20 Boak Tickets At www .akeq .org -------------------- The Rainbow Revue will feature aweinspiring performances by some of the most talented artists out there, including Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Tyler Davis, Scrappy Legacy, Karama Eclectic, Micah Membrane, Trixie Noir, Cleo, Lucy Furr, James Sparks, and Lady Jade. Their performances are guaranteed to leave you spellbound. This remarkable event will take place on June 16th at 7:30 pm, and tickets are available at the affordable price of $20. By attending the Rainbow Revue, not only will you have a blast, but you will also be supporting a noble cause. It is a perfect opportunity to enjoy a night out while contributing to the community. We hope to see you there!! 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... TICKETS ♦ UPCOMING MARKETS ♦ JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ JULY RRFM JUN 17 AUG 19 @ RRFM 12-4 PM SEPTEMBER RRFM 12-4 PM TULSA Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, June 17th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 JUL 15 SEPT 16 A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP Pride Bar Crawl x OKEQ Saturday, June 17th | 4p-12a Hunt Club 224 N Main St, Tulsa, OK The 2022 Pride Crawl was a huge success and we were able to donate $22,653 to the Trevor Project! This year, we are donating locally. 20% of all event proceeds will be going to Oklahomans For Equality. ___ Donation Page https://okeq.org/donate/ TICKETS E ALITY R, ,r:::.inPc::.c:. .4//i;::mrP 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Triangle Home Solutions Thursday, June 22nd | 6p-7:30p Elote Café & Catering 1660 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join us for June's EBA Mixer hosted by Triangle Home Solutions. We look forward to seeing everyone from 6-7:30pm on the 22nd. To RSVP or for more information, email Luke -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memori8UITI 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jonathan Stanley 08/16/1948 - 12/1/2022 Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 OKEQ Seniors Member Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. A picture is below. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broug11lt 0 Yott Bi 1 ,, T ltlJ@; [, ~ t t ~ )t 1 ~~~~ ~~~~~~ 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D[j::;!]@)0@10@(1[)§ § ~~ 7J"(1[J[b,§£ "iJ"W@=§[pO~O"iJ" Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ~rncll@1r ~Dnl])]]XIDlfa @rf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Community Partners • LEGAL AID t SL SERVICES OF LEGAL AID t SL SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She also will accept questions via email or phone if someone does not feel comfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ElWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with 4/29/26, 11:51 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. "''• Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. 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OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The Board of Directors for OkEq is looking for additional Directors. If you or someone you know would like to apply, please fill out this interest form. Submitted forms will be considered on a rolling basis until the vacancies are filled. ❤??????? As we celebrate Pride Month, it is crucial to show our unwavering support for the 2SLGBTQ+ community, especially our transgender brothers and sisters, who are the targets of numerous discriminatory bills both nationally and internationally. Let us be vocal in our stand for their right to live freely. Remember, your identity is valid and should be celebrated. No matter your identity ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... D!STIIJAIION Al!llSTS TJLRIIG lG~C' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec Meet and Greet 6 30pm -7 10pm $30.00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/pride#tickets --------------Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? National Center for RANSGENDER EQUALITY This Pride Month Show #TransIntersexSolidarity! This Pride month, the National Center for Transgender Equality - in partnership with InterACT - celebrates intersex and trans solidarity! As part of our shared goal to raise awareness, we are hosting #TransIntersexSolidarity Week from June 12th - 16th–and we invite your organization to join us. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Why #TransIntersexSolidarity? Over the last few years, we have seen an increase in regressive anti-trans rhetoric that has led to a loss of rights and an increase in danger for trans adults and youth. These same bills intended to target and eliminate transness also impact intersex people, especially intersex girls, and women of color, who already face body policing in schools and sports. Intersex people face human rights violations rooted in transphobia, including medically unnecessary “corrective surgeries” to change the appearance of an infant’s sex. This extremely harmful practice is specifically included in most bills that aim to strip away rights to genderaffirming care for trans teens - which is unacceptable. We hope you will join us in uplifting messages of solidarity between transgender and intersex communities and raising up the overlapping struggles that these communities share. Here’s what you can do: • Use our #TransIntersexSolidarity toolkit here to get the word out on your social media platforms and to your networks! • Use the #TransIntersexSolidarity hashtag to help us create more visibility. • Attend our “Ask Us Anything” Instagram Live with InterACT to talk about trans-intersex issues on June 14th at 6 PM EST at @transequalitynow or @InterACT_adv! • Uplift current trans and intersex content and issues throughout the rest of the month– and every month! For any questions, please get in touch with Alex del Rosario (they/he). Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, June 6th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Queer Women's Collective: June Happy Hour Wednesday, June 7th | 5.30p-7.30p Fassler Hall 304 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 25 - Housin of otlohomo will be assisting https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! June meetup = Fassler Hall. Let's kick off pride month together! Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, June 7th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP OKEQ x Night Muses: The Rainbow Revue Friday, June 16th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 The Rainbow Revue is a Drag & Burlesque Fundraiser for Tulsa Pride, an event that is presented by OKEQ & Night Muses, which promises to be an unforgettable experience. You do not want to miss it! The Rainbow Revue will feature awe- 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 25 Tri xie Nair https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Cleo Lynn Riggs Theatre Tickets SZD DKEQ Center Boak Tickets At www .akeq . org 621 E 4th 51, Tulsa, OK 74120 ---------------- inspiring performances by some of the most talented artists out there, including Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Tyler Davis, Scrappy Legacy, Karama Eclectic, Micah Membrane, Trixie Noir, Cleo, Lucy Furr, James Sparks, and Lady Jade. Their performances are guaranteed to leave you spellbound. This remarkable event will take place on June 16th at 7:30 pm, and tickets are available at the affordable price of $20. By attending the Rainbow Revue, not only will you have a blast, but you will also be supporting a noble cause. It is a perfect opportunity to enjoy a night out while contributing to the community. We hope to see you there!! TICKETS ♦ UPCOMING MARKETS ♦ JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ JULY RRFM JUN 17 AUG 19 @ RRFM 12-4 PM SEPTEMBER RRFM 12-4 PM TULSA Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, June 17th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Tulsa, OK 74120 JUL 15 SEPT 16 A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 17th|Doors at 6.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Performances by 2023 Pride Royalty, Pride King Micah Membrane, Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, with Mykal Khrystian, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Blaze Khrystian, Kitty Marie Legacy, Anita Richards, Scrappy Legacy, Flynn St. James, and special guests Patty Bourey. This event is 18+. 21 to drink with drinks by Michael James. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members and AT&T League, food by Empire Slice House Tulsa! There's a special raffle and costume contest! Come on out and support Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. E ALITY usiness Alliance Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Triangle Home Solutions Thursday, June 22nd | 6p-7:30p Elote Café & Catering 1660 E 71st St, Tulsa, OK 74136 Join us for June's EBA Mixer hosted by Triangle Home Solutions. We look forward to seeing everyone from 6-7:30pm on the 22nd. To RSVP or for more information, email Luke 83 United Prideraiser for the Equality Center Through June 30th Join 83 United in supporting our LGBTQIA+ friends and family by pledging to our Prideraiser Drive! We simply ask that you pledge at least 1 dollar for every goal that FC Tulsa scores in the month of June. Funds raised will stay right here in Tulsa and benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Conway Twitch OKEQ x Tulsa Pride Fundraiser Through June 30th All month long, ConwayxT1tty will be raising money for Oklahomans for Equality. Come hang out and play some games while helping support the mission of Oklahomans for Equality 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sensitive Content must be 18yrs or older. The Krispy Kreme Fundraiser for OKEQ Through June 30th KRISPY KREME DOZENS TO SUPPORT OKEQ OVER 50% $15 PER DOZEN ENDS June 30 DONATED BACK GIi https://grouprai.u/krispykreme1122Ssa Support the cause of OKEQ and treat yourself to some scrumptious snacks! At Oklahomans for Equality, we strive to promote fairness and justice for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families through inclusive advocacy, education, programs, partnerships, and the management of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. a- The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Through June 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The Witness Change project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6:00 pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art- -- - - - - - - - -- --gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ - -- ------------OKEQArtGallery. people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. RSVP Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-f- OKEO HEALTH -~-f- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 25 Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Please do not send medical or private information via email! Oklahomans for Equality Selects Executive Director Tulsa, OK - Dorothy Ballard (she/her), previously Interim Executive Director of Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq), was confirmed as the organization’s permanent Executive Director on May 12, 2023. The recruitment process was managed by a professional recruiter and included an open search process, resume review, screening, and multiple rounds of interviews. The Board of Directors' vote was unanimous in choosing Ms. Ballard as the new Executive Director, a testament to her qualifications and experience. About Oklahomans for Equality OkEq is a non-profit organization dedicated to promoting equality for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and families through intersectional advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. With the appointment of Ms. Ballard as Executive Director, the organization is poised to continue its efforts to build a more inclusive and equitable society. For more information about OkEq, please visit our website at okeq.org. "We are thrilled to have Dorothy leading our organization," said OkEq Board President, Eric Wilson. "She has already made a significant impact during her time as Interim Executive Director, and we are confident in her abilities to lead OkEq into a bright future." Ms. Ballard brings to the role a master’s in industrial and organizational psychology, as well as nearly two decades of experience in communications and leadership. Her experience includes community outreach and education, financial and risk management, board relations, fund development, and advocacy, making her an excellent fit for the Executive Director position. As a strong and compassionate servant leader, Ms. Ballard has proven to be equally comfortable with staff, board, 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... funders, legislative and local leaders, media, and most importantly, OkEq's wonderfully diverse constituency. Her expertise in organizational management and development is evident in the way she has already conceived and executed important improvements in process, documentation, and programming during her six-month tenure as Interim Executive Director. "I am honored and deeply privileged to have been chosen to lead OkEq," said Ms. Ballard. "The mission of our organization has never been more critical, and I look forward to continuing to work alongside our staff, board, and community to further advance equality with an eye toward equity for all Oklahomans." OKEQ Equality Gala Award Winners 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Best Event - Non-Profit: Equality Gala In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoriWTI Jonathan Stanley 08/16/1948 - 12/1/2022 Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 OKEQ Seniors Member Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Bvougbt ~ ~ 1'10 Yott Bi WOMEN ' S EOE~ L E C T I V E 1f,jlt1Je IL~tt~lf ~~~~ ~~~~~~ 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@Odl§§~:; 'v'Odl°==,§& 'v'W@=§~D~D'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... @@rn@l®1r - ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @rP®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC . OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. ,,,. Get h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 (877} 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espafiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ - L""":.I HUNGER nn OKLAHOMA FREE OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:52 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 25 of 25 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:52 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/db29246513e3eb9ea3fdbdf3cd53e615.pdf 90e6810b1198adc185fda926945511db PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The Board of Directors for OkEq is looking for additional Directors. If you or someone you know would like to apply, please fill out this interest form. Submitted forms will be considered on a rolling basis until the vacancies are filled. ❤??????? As we celebrate Pride Month, it is crucial to show our unwavering support for the 2SLGBTQ+ community, especially our transgender brothers and sisters, who are the targets of numerous discriminatory bills both nationally and internationally. Let us be vocal in our stand for their right to live freely. Remember, your identity is valid and should be celebrated. No matter your identity ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... D!STIIJAIION Al!llSTS TJLRIIG lG~C' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run-Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec Meet and Greet 6 30pm -7 10pm $30.00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET OKLAHOMANS FOR EQUALITY 6GUTHRIE GREEN PRESENT - - Pride in the Park! SUNDAY, JUNE 25 * 12PM - 5PM 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... PRIDE BAR CRAWL WITH OKEQ Saturday, June 17th, 2023 | 4p-12p Get Your Tickets Now -> https:// www.crawlwith.us/tulsa/pride#tickets Click GOING So You Don't Miss The Proudest Crawl Of The Year! __________________________________ A Portion Of Proceeds Will Be Donated To Local Pride Organizations And The Trevor Project! __________________________________ What You Get: • 1-2 Drink Or Shot Included With Ticket! • Crawl With US Stadium Cup! (First 400 Check Ins) • Free Cover To Our Drag Show! ($15 Without Ticket) 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • Exclusive Drink Specials • Food Specials At Partner Venues! • Waived Cover At All Venues ($5-$15 at Some Venues Without Ticket) • Professional Photographers! • Awesome After Party! • Access To Our Crawl Map! • Custom Pride Badge With Vouchers _______________________________________ PRIDE CRAWL RSVP ❤??????? ♦ Find LGBTQ+ friendly care including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. ♦ ♦ ♦ As we celebrate PRIDE Month, let’s talk about Medicaid. Medicaid helps you find LGBTQ+-friendly care, including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. Visit healthcare.gov or call 1-800-318-2596 to take PRIDE in your health. ♦ •• National Center for RANSGENDER EQUALITY 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This Pride Month Show #TransIntersexSolidarity! This Pride month, the National Center for Transgender Equality - in partnership with InterACT - celebrates intersex and trans solidarity! As part of our shared goal to raise awareness, we are hosting #TransIntersexSolidarity Week from June 12th - 16th–and we invite your organization to join us. Why #TransIntersexSolidarity? Over the last few years, we have seen an increase in regressive anti-trans rhetoric that has led to a loss of rights and an increase in danger for trans adults and youth. These same bills intended to target and eliminate transness also impact intersex people, especially intersex girls, and women of color, who already face body policing in schools and sports. Intersex people face human rights violations rooted in transphobia, including medically unnecessary “corrective surgeries” to change the appearance of an infant’s sex. This extremely harmful practice is specifically included in most bills that aim to strip away rights to genderaffirming care for trans teens - which is unacceptable. We hope you will join us in uplifting messages of solidarity between transgender and intersex communities and raising up the overlapping struggles that these communities share. Here’s what you can do: • Use our #TransIntersexSolidarity toolkit here to get the word out on your social media platforms and to your networks! • Use the #TransIntersexSolidarity hashtag to help us create more visibility. • Attend our “Ask Us Anything” Instagram Live with InterACT to talk about trans-intersex issues on June 14th at 6 PM EST at @transequalitynow or @InterACT_adv! • Uplift current trans and intersex content and issues throughout the rest of the month– and every month! For any questions, please get in touch with Alex del Rosario (they/he). Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, June 13th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name Change & Gender 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, June 14th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, June 14th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP OKEQ x Night Muses: The Rainbow Revue Friday, June 16th |7:30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The Rainbow Revue is a Drag & Burlesque Fundraiser for Tulsa Pride, an event that is presented by OKEQ & Night Muses, which promises to be an unforgettable experience. You do not want to miss it! Lynn Riggs Theatre DKEQ Center 621 E 4th SI, Tulsa, DK 74120 Tickets 520 Book Tickets Al www.okeq.org The Rainbow Revue will feature aweinspiring performances by some of the most talented artists out there, including Tracy La Louisianne, Sean Tyler Davis, Scrappy Legacy, Karama Eclectic, Micah Membrane, Trixie Noir, Cleo, Lucy Furr, James Sparks, and Lady Jade. Their performances are guaranteed to leave you spellbound. This remarkable event will take place on June 16th at 7:30 pm, and tickets are available at the affordable price of $20. By attending the Rainbow Revue, not only will you have a blast, but you will also be supporting a noble cause. It is a perfect opportunity to enjoy a night out while contributing to the community. We hope to see you there!! TICKETS ~ UPCOMING Tulsa Really Really Free Market 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 T https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... MARKETS JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM JULY RRFM JUN 17 AUG 19 ii, ♦ @ RRFM 12-4 PM SEPTEMBER RRFM . 12-4 PM TULSA ♦ JUL 15 SEPT 16 Saturday, June 17th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Tulsa Pride Bingo Saturday, June 17th|Doors at 6.30p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Performances by 2023 Pride Royalty, Pride King Micah Membrane, Pride Queen Karma Eclectic, with Mykal Khrystian, Kitty Quinn Khrystian, Blaze Khrystian, Kitty Marie Legacy, Anita Richards, Scrappy Legacy, Flynn St. James, and special guests Patty Bourey. This event is 18+. 21 to drink with drinks by Michael James. Prizes from our Equality Business Alliance Members and AT&T League, food by Empire Slice House Tulsa! There's a special raffle and costume contest! Come on out and support Tulsa Pride and Oklahomans for Equality. E ALITY Business Alliance Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Elote Café and Catering Thursday, June 22nd | 6p-7:30p Elote Café & Catering 514 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK Join us for June's EBA Mixer hosted by Triangle Home Solutions. We look forward to seeing everyone from 6-7:30 pm on the 22nd. To RSVP or for more information, email Luke Queer Women's Collective: PRIDE Happy Hour Saturday, June 24th | 2p-4p Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK, 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... lOo4 E 4TH ST, TULSA Qt<. ?A\'J.O United States, Oklahoma LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! June happy hour x2: Join us for a preparade pride day hang at Dead Armadillo from 2-4 PM! We'll be within walking distance of the festival and parade and DA is kid and pup-friendly! 83 United Prideraiser for the Equality Center Through June 30th Join 83 United in supporting our LGBTQIA+ friends and family by pledging to our Prideraiser Drive! We simply ask that you pledge at least 1 dollar for every goal that FC Tulsa scores in the month of June. Funds raised will stay right here in Tulsa and benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Conway Twitch OKEQ x Tulsa Pride Fundraiser Through June 30th All month long, ConwayxT1tty will be raising money for Oklahomans for Equality. Come hang out and play some games while helping support the mission of Oklahomans for Equality and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sensitive Content must be 18yrs or older. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... The Krispy Kreme Fundraiser for OKEQ KRISPY KREME DOZENS TO SUPPORT Through June 30th OKEQ $15 PER DOZEN OVER 50% ENDS June 30 DONATED BACK . . http1://groupr1i.se/kri1pykreme1122511 Q...._ Support the cause of OKEQ and treat yourself to some scrumptious snacks! At Oklahomans for Equality, we strive to promote fairness and justice for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families through inclusive advocacy, education, programs, partnerships, and the management of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Through June 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6:00 pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art- -- - ------ -- --gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery. The Witness Change (@witness_change @whereloveis illegal) project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. RSVP Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Bvougbt 1'Jo Yott Bi 1f,jt1Je IL~tt~r ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ 0~@)0@;0@(10@:[B~:; 7J'(10Cb§& 7I'W@=§[p0~D7J' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming ----- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ®®rn@l®IP ~DnlJ)I]XIDlru @rPCIDDUIJ) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY ARS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... \:iet help_ ___ S upplementa l applying for A • : ~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice Constant @ Contact 4/29/26, 11:53 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:53 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/a250d9b00b7843fcc6a3ab797a76a834.pdf c3d2a5994ce36bf373a802e82558ab7e PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Today (6/19) is Juneteenth, a federal holiday marking a crucial landmark in America’s long and ongoing struggle for racial justice. Also called Freedom Day, Emancipation Day, or even America’s second Independence Day, Juneteenth commemorates June 19, 1865, the day Major General Gordon Granger led a regiment of soldiers to Galveston, Texas, where they delivered the message that the Union had won the war and was prepared to enforce the end of slavery. One way to honor Juneteenth is to support Black-owned businesses in our community today and yearround. Stop by the Equality Center to pick up your Shop Black Tulsa guide. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ❤??????? As we celebrate Pride Month, it is crucial to show our unwavering support for the 2SLGBTQ+ community, especially our transgender brothers and sisters, who are the targets of numerous discriminatory bills both nationally and internationally. Let us be vocal in our stand for their right to live freely. Remember, your identity is valid and should be celebrated. No matter your identity ❤??????? 1081 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Rainbow Run - Friday, June 23rd Fun Run at 7:00 p.m. 5K at 7:30 p.m. Festival & Parade - Saturday, June 24th Gates Open at Noon Pride in the Park - Sunday, June 25th 12:00 p.m.- 5:00 p.m. SPONSORSHIPS VENDORS RAINBOW RUN PARADE ENTRIES TULSA PRIDE VOLUNTEER 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... □ !STIIIAIIDN Al!TISTS TJLRIIC !GEil' Main Stage Tulsa Pride 2023 0 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ainbow Run- Friday June 23rd Fun Run at 7pm-5k at 7:30pm Gates Open at 5pm-10pm Festival & Parade -Saturday June24th Gates Open at 12pm-10pm Pride in The Park-Sunday June 25th 12pm-5pm Isa Pride 20 cah Membra Karma Eclec Tulsa Pride T-shirts are available for pick up at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center during center hours! Meet and Greet 6 30pm -7 10pm $30 .00 COCO MONTRESE MEET & GREET JAYZEER SHANTEY MEET & GREET JOEY JAY MEET & GREET 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ❤??????? 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ CLOSED JUNE 26th - JULY 4th We want to ensure our staff has a chance to recharge after Pride, so please note that the Equality Center will be closed from June 26th to July 4th. We will resume regular operations and welcome you back starting Wednesday, July 5th. During this time, the clinic will maintain its usual hours on Tuesday and Wednesday from 9 am to 5 pm and Friday from 1 pm to 5 pm. We are also excited to invite you to the DVIS panel at the center on June 29th. We look forward to seeing you again soon! PLEASE JOIN US! In partnership with Oklahomans for Equality and in conjunction with PRIDE Month: CJav1s Thursday community'. talks June 29 Sp.m. CONVER5ATIONs7r o CON-FR-O N VIO LEN CE While the domestic violence awareness movement has largely focused on hetero relationships, recent research shows that LGBTQ+ individuals fall victim to domestic violence at equal or even higher rates than DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence Thursday, June 29th | 6p-7p Bruce Goff Event Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK their hetero or cisgender counterparts. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621E. 4"' St. RSVP at dvis.org face forms of abuse and barriers to support based specifically on prejudices against their gender expression or sexuality. and it's time for a conversation. Tomaro lebok. o Restorotive/Tronsformotive Justice Practitioner, Trainer. Minister, and Author, will facilitate a panel discussion on relationship violence omong the LGBTO+ Community. FREE and OPEN TO THE PUBLIC RSVP at dvis.org The need for domestic violence awareness and support is as great as it has ever been in today’s world. And yet historically, domestic violence awareness has primarily focused on hetero relationships despite the reality that LGBTQ+ individuals are not only equally susceptible to domestic violence but may even face higher rates of abuse compared to their heterosexual or cisgender counterparts — a reality supported by recent research. Sadly, LGBTQ+ individuals are often subjected to abuse explicitly based on prejudices against their gender expression and sexuality while facing additional barriers when seeking support for domestic abuse. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on relationship violence within the LGBTQ+ community facilitated by Tamara Lebak. As a restorative/transformative justice practitioner, trainer, minister, and author, Tamara brings a wealth of expertise to the table, aiming to foster understanding and compassion. P R I S M A T I C - An Exhibition of Artstic Queer Liberation June 21st - 24th | 4p-8p Mojito Bar 1133 S Memorial Drive., Tulsa, OK Come and join us at Rabbit Hole on June 21st starting from 9 pm until closing time! We will be singing karaoke with Sin Fronteras x OkEq to support a great cause. You can make a difference in the Latinx Tulsa Community by purchasing a Mexican Candy Margarita drink. Let's come together and make an impact! make a difference together! make a difference together! ♦ Find LGBTQ+ friendly care including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. As we celebrate PRIDE Month, let’s talk about Medicaid. Medicaid helps you find LGBTQ+-friendly care, including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. Visit healthcare.gov or call 1-800-318-2596 to take PRIDE in your health. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Special Events Coming Up Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Elote Café and Catering Thursday, June 21st | 9p Rabbit Hole 116 S Elgin Ave., Tulsa, OK - - E . ALITY usiness Alliance Come and join us at Rabbit Hole on June 21st starting from 9 pm until closing time! We will be singing karaoke with Sin Fronteras x OkEq to support a great cause. You can make a difference in the Latinx Tulsa Community by purchasing a Mexican Candy Margarita drink. Let's come together and make an impact! make a difference together! make a difference together! Equality Business Alliance Mixer with Elote Café and Catering Thursday, June 22nd | 6p-7:30p Elote Café & Catering 514 S Boston Ave., Tulsa, OK Join us for June's EBA Mixer hosted by Triangle Home Solutions. We look forward to seeing everyone from 6-7:30 pm on the 22nd. To RSVP or for more information, email Luke 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Queer Women's Collective: PRIDE Happy Hour Saturday, June 24th | 2p-4p Dead Armadillo Brewery 1004 East 4th Street, Tulsa, OK, United States, Oklahoma LGBTQIA++ gathering to meet new faces, imbibe, and network if you want to. ALL are welcome (allies included) and we hope some of you will join us! June happy hour x2: Join us for a preparade pride day hang at Dead Armadillo from 2-4 PM! We'll be within walking distance of the festival and parade and DA is kid and pup-friendly! Housin of Oldahoma will be ossistins Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 5th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP FREE HIV Testing Every Tuesday Tuesday, July 11th | 4p-6p 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK kc H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 12th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Really Really Free Market ♦ UPCOMING JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM JUN 17 ~ JULY RRFM JUL 12-4 PM 1s ' - ---======- ' ... .- Saturday, July 15th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ♦ MARKETS I ----==::::..I A community-sharing event! 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 24 AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... AUG 19 SEPTEMBER RRFM 12-4 PM (ffl RRFM TULSA SEPT 16 Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP 83 United Prideraiser for the Equality Center Through June 30th Join 83 United in supporting our LGBTQIA+ friends and family by pledging to our Prideraiser Drive! We simply ask that you pledge at least 1 dollar for every goal that FC Tulsa scores in the month of June. Funds raised will stay right here in Tulsa and benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Conway Twitch OKEQ x Tulsa Pride Fundraiser Through June 30th All month long, ConwayxT1tty will be raising money for Oklahomans for Equality. Come hang out and play some games while helping support the mission of Oklahomans for Equality and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sensitive Content must be 18yrs or older. The Krispy Kreme Fundraiser for OKEQ 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Through June 30th KRISPY KREME DOZENS TO SUPPORT OKEQ $15 PER DOZEN OVER 50% ENDS June 30 DONATED BACK - - http1://groupr,1i.H/ kri1pykreme1122Sn Support the cause of OKEQ and treat yourself to some scrumptious snacks! At Oklahomans for Equality, we strive to promote fairness and justice for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families through inclusive advocacy, education, programs, partnerships, and the management of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. a- The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Through June 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6:00 pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art- -- - ------- -- --gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery. The Witness Change (@witness_change @whereloveis illegal) project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. RSVP OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and Link toSpanish Survey) ----- - so that we can understand your needs. We'd also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 24 -~-f• https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'10 YOlli Bi 1~t1Je lL(?;f f'(?;lf __. ~~ ~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~ ~ !:."' !:."' ~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D@D@l1D§§~~ 7J'!1D[b,§£ 7J'W@=§[p0~07J' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 18 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming --- · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. @r@rncfil®lf ~Dlll])I]XIDrffi @lf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 19 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ+ + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. COUNTRY 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 20 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Outside the Box Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 21 of 24 sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 22 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... make an appointment today. OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Jlst} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for :~!~~\i:;ce A • P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok erg/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 23 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKE okeq.org/donate OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors 4/29/26, 11:54 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 24 of 24 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:54 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/fec2077bd477b2d1f8e0f2b47dcfb1d6.pdf 863033e5f021b7c98f8229a1d85fc84b PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. OKEQ CLOSED JUNE 26th - JULY 4th We want to ensure our staff has a chance to recharge after Pride, so please note that the Equality Center will be closed from June 26th to July 4th. We will resume regular operations and welcome you back starting Wednesday, July 5th. During this time, the clinic will maintain its usual hours on Tuesday and Wednesday from 9 am to 5 pm and Friday from 1 pm to 5 pm. We are also excited to invite you to the DVIS panel at the center on June 29th. We look forward to seeing you again soon! ❤??????? As we celebrate Pride Month, it is crucial to show our unwavering support for the 2SLGBTQ+ community, especially our transgender brothers 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... and sisters, who are the targets of numerous discriminatory bills both nationally and internationally. Let us be vocal in our stand for their right to live freely. Remember, your identity is valid and should be celebrated. No matter your identity ❤??????? PLEASE .JOIN US! In partner ship with Okla homans for Equality o nd in conjunction with PRI DE Month: CJav1s Thursday community'. talks June 29 6p.m. CONVERSATIONS .TO CON-FRON VIO LENCE While the domestic violence awareness movement has largely focused on hetero relationships, recent research shows that LGBTQ+ individuals fall victim to domestic violence at equal or even higher rates than DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence Thursday, June 29th | 6p-7p Bruce Goff Event Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK their hetero or cisgender counterparts. Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621E. 4"' St. RSVP at dvis.org face forms of abuse and barriers to support based specifically on prejudices against their gender expression or sexuality. and it's time for a conversation. Tamaro Lebak, a Restorative/Transformative Justice Practitioner. Trainer. Minister. and Author. will facili tate o panel discussion on relationship violence omong the LGBTQ+ Community. FREE and OPEN TO THE PUBLIC RSVP at dvis.org Join us for a thought-provoking discussion on relationship violence within the LGBTQ+ community facilitated by Tamara Lebak. As a restorative/transformative justice practitioner, trainer, minister, and author, Tamara brings a wealth of expertise to the table, aiming to foster understanding and compassion. ♦ Find LGBTQ+ friendly care including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more . The need for domestic violence awareness and support is as great as it has ever been in today’s world. And yet historically, domestic violence awareness has primarily focused on hetero relationships despite the reality that LGBTQ+ individuals are not only equally susceptible to domestic violence but may even face higher rates of abuse compared to their heterosexual or cisgender counterparts — a reality supported by recent research. Sadly, LGBTQ+ individuals are often subjected to abuse explicitly based on prejudices against their gender expression and sexuality while facing additional barriers when seeking support for domestic abuse. As we celebrate PRIDE Month, let’s talk about Medicaid. Medicaid helps you find LGBTQ+-friendly care, including doctor visits, prescription drugs, mental health services, and more. Visit healthcare.gov or call 1-800-318-2596 to take 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... PRIDE in your health. Special Events Coming Up Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 5th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 11th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 12th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. ♦ UPCOMING MARKETS ♦ JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ JULY RRFM JUN 17 AUG 19 @ RRFM 12-4 PM SEPTEMBER RRFM 12-4 PM TULSA JUL 15 SEPT 16 Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, July 15th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery with Witness Change Through June 30th Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK The exhibit opens June 1st, 2023, at 6:00 pm. The exhibit will be up for the month of June. Each month, the Equality Center gallery spotlights work by local artists. Meet the artist at our First Thursdays gallery openings, 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm on the first Thursday of every month. Snacks and drinks will be provided. For more information about The Allie Jensen Memorial Art Gallery, visit https://www.okeq.org/art- -- - - - - - - - -- --gallery.html or like us on Facebook: https:// www.facebook.com/OKEQArtGallery. The Witness Change (@witness_change @whereloveis illegal) project is documenting and sharing LGBTQ+ stories of discrimination and survival from around the world. Oklahomans for Equality is hosting an exhibit at Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for the month of June 2023. Tulsa is one of two cities selected in the United States to host this exhibit, which will be used to catalyze a larger conversation of discrimination, survival, and resiliency of LGBTQ+ people here. Selected stories will be printed and included alongside existing stories from around the world. ❤??????? Despite gains made in many parts of the world, lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, and intersex (LGBTI) people are, in some regions, increasingly persecuted and denied basic human rights. Because bigotry thrives where we are silenced by fear, we've created this space for people to share stories of discrimination and survival. Read these stories, share them, and contribute your own. Let the world know that we will not be silent. RSVP 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... PRIDE Fundraisers 83 United Prideraiser for the Equality Center Through June 30th Join 83 United in supporting our LGBTQIA+ friends and family by pledging to our Prideraiser Drive! We simply ask that you pledge at least 1 dollar for every goal that FC Tulsa scores in the month of June. Funds raised will stay right here in Tulsa and benefit OkEq and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center! Conway Twitch OKEQ x Tulsa Pride Fundraiser Through June 30th All month long, ConwayxT1tty will be raising money for Oklahomans for Equality. Come hang out and play some games while helping support the mission of Oklahomans for Equality and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Sensitive Content must be 18yrs or older. The Krispy Kreme Fundraiser for OKEQ Through June 30th KRISPY KREME DOZENS TO SUPPORT OKEQ $15 PER DOZEN OVER 50% DONATED BACK ENDS June 30 Support the cause of OKEQ and treat yourself to some scrumptious snacks! At Oklahomans for Equality, we strive to promote fairness and justice for 2SLGBTQIA+ individuals and their families through inclusive advocacy, education, programs, partnerships, and the management of the Dennis R. Neill 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Equality Center. - - https://groupr1i.se/krispykreme11225H a- OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and --Link --to Spanish Survey) so that we can understand your needs. We'd ---------also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-<r- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-<r- OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaurn 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Scott Perry 03/26/1956 - 05/05/2023 Scott was the owner of Novel Idea bookstores in Tulsa. He became a realtor when he closed the stores. In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Broug!1t 1' 0 Yo11i Bi 1 ,rjt1Je lL(?;t f(?;lf ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... X OKEQ 0~@0~0@(1[)§§~~ 'v'QdJC!:::,§& 'v'W@=§[p0~0'v' Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~lIDIJ)I]XIDlru -@rP©l!UIJ) Gener Support Group Veteran Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ~ •T ++ -.-, ~ ...l 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... uK h ll T + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID , ~ SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 17 HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... \:iet help_ ___ S upplementa l applying for A • : ~!;~\i~;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 1111111111 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice Constant @ Contact 4/29/26, 11:55 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 17 of 17 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:55 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/22eaf063d9758288f965b1fecc5c48e3.pdf 42a638065c8b2b839c195f85b08f49cc PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. Special Events Coming Up Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 5th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RSVP FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 11th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 12th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Really Really Free 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ♦ UPCOMING Market ♦ MARKETS JUNE RRFM JULY RRFM JUN 17 12-4 PM 12-4 PM JUL 15 --AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ AUG SEPTEMBER RRFM 19 12-4 PM @ RRFM SEPT 16 TULSA Saturday, July 15th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/ rrfm_tulsa/ RSVP OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and Link toSpanish -- - - -Survey) - - - so that we can understand your needs. We'd also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-f- OKEO HEALTH CLINIC -~-f- Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln Memoriaunni 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'Jo YOlll Bi ,~ilJ~ )L@;f t@;lf -~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~~~~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ O[:r::!J[Q) □~□@)l10 §§~~ 7J"l10[b§£ Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. "u'W@=§lPD~D"u' IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! This program is for ages 13 - 17. 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~DnlJ)I]XIDlru @rP©DUIJ) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEO+ 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • "' + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Relationships Outside the Box Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. HOPE Testing These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 11:57 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 12 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:57 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/1b21a0c45f6b139544fa779de6c47ae7.pdf 088c89943ae797581b63e960e3f558f7 PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library catalog link: https://www.librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer sign-up link: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C084CAAAE22A7F8C07modernize Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 11th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, July 11th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. RSVP Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Housin of otlohomo will be assist ins These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 12th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, July 12th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. Tulsa Really Really Free Market 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... • IVIAll.ft.1:.1 ~ JUNE RRFM 12-4 PM AUGUST RRFM 12-4 PM ♦ RSVP JULY RRFM JUN 17 12-4 PM AUG SEPTEMBER RRFM 19 12-4 PM @ RRFM JUL 15 SEPT 16 Saturday, July 15th |12p-4p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! TULSA Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ ----- --- --- - 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence Thursday, July 20th | 6p-7p Bruce Goff Event Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK During the event, attendees will have the opportunity to engage in informative panel discussions led by experts, community leaders and advocates who specialize in addressing interpersonal violence within the LGBTQIA+ community. Topics to be covered include the prevalence of relationship violence, its impact on different subgroups within the community, the unique challenges faced by survivors when seeking support and local resources available to support victims. In addition to the panel discussions, the event will feature resource booths where attendees can access information on local support services, counseling resources, legal assistance, and community organizations working towards ending relationship violence. Launched in October of 2022, DVIS Community Talks, explores a variety of topics, including sexual and domestic violence, stalking, and human trafficking. The series is geared toward exploring, understanding and responding to different types of interpersonal violence in our communities. More information is available online. Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) and Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) will host a panel discussion focused on addressing interpersonal violence within the LGBTQIA+ community. The event, which is part of an ongoing series DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence, aims to foster meaningful discussions, promote awareness and explore strategies to combat relationship violence in a safe and inclusive manner. RSVP OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and --Link --to Spanish Survey) so that we can understand your needs. We'd ---------also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-er- OKEO HEALTH -~-er- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Iln MemoriWTI In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 0 Yott Bi 1 ,, 1~lt1J@ lL(?;f f'(?;tr ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. ~~!:."'!:."'~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin Fronteras X OKEQ D~@D~D@QdJ§§~~ "IT'QdJ[b s & "IT'W@ =slPD~ 09:F Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ®®rncll®IP ~11111])I]XID1ru @rP®11111]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS ++ + + OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. ReRatlonshlps 4~ 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... RS Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • • LEGALAID th SERVICES OF LEGALAID th SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. = = 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 15 Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. Get ,,,. h e l p . supplemental applying for A • :~!'.~\i;;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways to start an application: 1. 2. Call toll-free to 1 1877) 760-0114 Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Board of Directors Dani Byrd Claire Combs Liz Ortiz Crista Patrick Paula Shannon Matthew Stroud Ovidio Trejo Monique Washington Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. Dan Burnstein Kirk Holt Cynthia Phillips Kris Wilmes - Chair Board of Advisors Ron Brady Eddie Carreno Kaylyn Compton Ryan Fitzpatrick Julia Fletcher Stephen Haney Alexandria Henfer Heather Hornig Caleb Jackson Michael James Kevin Knight Emma Garrett Nelson Jennifer Nolen Denise Reid Tamecca Rogers Shelta Sneed 4/29/26, 11:58 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 15 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ooe e s • Oklahomans for Equality | 621 East Fourth Street | Tulsa, OK 74120 US Unsubscribe | Update Profile | Constant Contact Data Notice @ Constant Contact Try email marketing for free today! 4/29/26, 11:58 AM � https://history.okeq.org/files/original/36dd55e949b38ec0013c30f4645faf7a.pdf abac696c4d9831566cc3e9edad8718ea PDF Text Text Email from Oklahomans for Equality 1 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Weekly eNews All pictures are hyperlinked New Center Operating Hours! Sunday/Monday: Closed. Tuesday thru Thursday: 9am-9pm. Friday/Saturday: 9am-6pm. The OKEQ Library System now has more places for you to find your next queer read! In addition to the original Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library at the Center, you can now also find books at All Souls Unitarian Church and House Church (starting Sunday, July 23rd). If you know of a location that would enjoy hosting and assisting with book circulation in other parts of town, please email the library at michelle.simmons@okeq.org with that location's point of contact. We hope to get another three satellite locations open before the next Pride. Library catalog link: https://www.librarycat.org/lib/TulsaRainbowLibrary The Library is in need of volunteers! If you are interested in volunteering, please sign up at the link below. Look for the New Volunteer slot on Friday evenings from 4-6. Come by anytime during that time slot. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 2 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... We will also need volunteers to attend Gender/Sexuality Alliances in schools once school starts back up, bringing a mobile library and helping our young people check out books. Please let us know if you are free during the days and would love to be a part of this vital outreach. Volunteer sign-up link: https://www.signupgenius.com/go/10C084CAAAE22A7F8C07modernize Special Events Coming Up FREE HIV Testing Tuesday, July 18th | 4p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK ~ H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach, Prevention and Education) Testing Clinic provides free HIV testing at the Equality Center on Tuesdays from 4:00 - 6:00 pm. Housin Fair Housing: Legal Aid Wednesday, July 19th | 12p-6p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. RSVP Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 3 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Violence Thursday, July 20th | 6p-7p Bruce Goff Event Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Domestic Violence Intervention Services (DVIS) and Oklahomans for Equality (OkEq) will host a panel discussion focused on addressing interpersonal violence within the LGBTQIA+ community. The event, which is part of an ongoing series DVIS Community Talks: Conversations to Confront Violence, aims to foster meaningful discussions, promote awareness and explore strategies to combat relationship violence in a safe and inclusive manner. More information is available online. During the event, attendees will have the opportunity to engage in informative panel discussions led by experts, community leaders and advocates who specialize in addressing interpersonal violence within the LGBTQIA+ community. Topics to be covered include the prevalence of relationship violence, its impact on different subgroups within the community, the unique challenges faced by survivors when seeking support and local resources available to support victims. In addition to the panel discussions, the event will feature resource booths where attendees can access information on local support services, counseling resources, legal assistance, and community organizations working towards ending relationship violence. RSVP Rainbow Room with Lis Masters Thursday, July 20th |7.30p Lynn Riggs Black Box Theater 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Tickets Sister Mary Ignatius commands you to attend an evening of satirical Durang bits, accompanied by some beautiful Sondheim songs. Thursday, July 20 - Curtain 7:30 p.m. SCOUTS TROOP 7484 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 4 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... scour rr<ooP 74-g4- 5COUT1ROOP 15 OPEN 1D All GIRL5 AND 1RAN5/NONBINARY YOU1H Thursday, July 20th | 6.30p-9p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK .VERY rttuRSD~Y OF rtt, MONTH 6,30 PIM Hey there! If you're interested in joining Girl Scout Troop 7484, they meet every Thursday at 6:30 pm and welcome all girls, trans, and nonbinary youth. Reach out to Teresa Marler at t.marler@cox.net to join in on the fun and growth opportunities. Tulsa Equality Game Night Tuesday, July 25th | 6p-9p ,_l' GAME NIGHT EVERY LAST TUESDAY OF THE MONTH DENNIS R. NEILL EQUALITY CENTER Follow Tulsa Equality Gaming Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00 pm - 9:00 pm Lawyer in the Library Tuesday, August 8th |5:30p - 7p Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. It is on a "first come, first serve basis." Please be patient and prepared to wait your turn. Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So, divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. She has some knowledge about those fields of law. If the question is beyond her knowledge, 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 5 of 16 RSVP https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... she can take the person's phone number and call them back after discussing it with another Legal Aid attorney. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. Email julie.goree@laok.org. Phone (918)295-9429. Name Change & Gender Marker Change Clinic Wednesday, August 9th | 5.30p-7.00p Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainbow Library 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Oklahomans for Equality is hosting a name-change clinic. We are focusing on those starting the name change process and those interested in doing so soon. Joshua Payton will be our resource. Josh, has eight years of experience as a practicing attorney and six years in the entertainment industry working for Celebrity Attractions. My desire is to apply my legal and business experience to serve at the Equality Center. I may not immediately know the answer to a question, but I pledge to walk in solidarity with those seeking clarity until we have an answer. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 6 of 16 E https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... ALITY usiness Alliance ' II I- , 1 EBA Mixer with Ingredion Wednesday, August 16th |6p Ingredion Incorporated 810 S Cincinnati Ave, 4th Floor Tulsa, OK Join us for our EBA Mixer with Ingredion Ingredion Incorporated is an American multinational ingredient provider based in Westchester, Illinois, producing mainly starch, modified starches, and starch sugars such as glucose syrup and high fructose syrup. www.ingredion.com The Equality Business Alliance fosters a sharing of information, ideas, contacts, products, and services and also strengthens and expands our businesses, careers, and our community. EBA networking mixers are usually on the 3rd Wednesday of each month, 6:00 pm – 7:30 pm. The EBA networking mixers are terrific venues for you to meet prospective clients. Mixers are open to non-members as well as EBA members. Hosting a networking mixer is a great way to showcase your business. You may host at your establishment or use The Equality Center. If you would like to host a mixer, send an email to Membership Coordinator Luke Scuitto at luke.scuitto@okeq.org for more information or visit our website: https://www.okeq.org/equality-business-alliance.htm TULSA REALL .1 REALLY JFREc MARKET Tulsa Really Really Free Market Saturday, August 19th |12p-4p 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 7 of 16 i l :, https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... A Community Shoring Event I 621 E. 4th St Every 3rd Saturday • 12p-4p Clothing • Housewares • Books • Gadgets• Furniture • Art • Plants • Home Decor and More! Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK A community-sharing event! Bring what you can, and take what you'd like! No cash, barter, or trades! RSVP Share your unwanted goods and/or shop for other people's treasures. Follow The Really Really Free Market Tulsa on Instagram: www.instagram.com/rrfm_tulsa/ OU Tulsa Leadership Survey In order to better understand the current and future leadership needs from Tulsan's perspectives, Leadership Tulsa and OU Tulsa have worked to create a collaborative community group to put together a survey. Our goal is that these survey results will be shared with current and prospective leaders, along with leadership development programs, who will be able to compare the needs of Tulsans with their current approaches. We aim to get diverse perspectives to understand our community's differing needs and ideas. This tool will lead to more representative leadership and ultimately equips our community to work towards more equitable outcomes. We'd love for you to take 15 minutes to complete the survey (Link to English survey and ---Link ---to Spanish Survey) so that we can understand your needs. ----------We'd also love for you to share this with your networks (think book clubs, church groups, PTA's, family, colleagues, etc.). You are welcome to reference or edit this link to help give you ideas for sharing the survey in ways that maximize perspectives. Thank you in advance for vast our community better understand the wide array of needs that exist so we can all take action to develop leaders that are equipped to meet those needs. A BENEIIT FDR OKIAHOMANS FDR (QUAlflV FLYOVER FEST 2023 NOVEMBER 17111 -19™ ·oil,1, VFW POST 577 -TULSA. DK ~~illll ol (!;rut~ TBAONB/1 ,i:n"7't 1,1; lt2J H.ESTlL\INJN(. C>llDl~ll 818 II MOURNING STIIR - IINKLEBITER - BIIZOOKIIMOTH - BRIil CANOY APPLE - CAUSTIC - COLO SHOULDER - CONTENTION DIIVZ LOST - DOUBT IT - DDWNWIIRD - EN LOVE - ENERVATE FADING SIGNAL - FREE 4 llll - GAGGING ORDER - GNIIW - GUMM HOLD MY OWN - INITIIITE - INSIDE YOU - JIVEBOMB Flyover Fest 2023 November 17th-19th VFW Post 577 1109 E 6th St., Tulsa, OK New name, same purpose. Flyover Fest 2023 in Tulsa, Oklahoma, November 17-19. A benefit for Oklahomans For Equality. Weekend passes are on sale now! Payment options are available through Affirm. Day-to-day lineups, two-day 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 8 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... passes, and single-day passes are available on August 1st when we announce the final two headliners. Grab a pass and invite your friends! 400 cap room; this will sell out quickly. -~-er- OKEO HEALTH -~-er- CLINIC Culturally Competent Care for the LGBTQ+ Community Clinic Hours: Tuesdays - 9a - 5p Wednesdays - 9a- 5p Fridays - 1p - 4p SCHEDULE APPOINTMENT OKEQ Health Clinic Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E 4th St., Pride Street, Tulsa, OK Appointments need to be made 24 hours prior to your requested appointment time. We currently accept Blue Cross and Blue Shield and offer a self-pay option. At the moment, we are only able to see patients who are 18 and older. If you are interested in starting or transferring services, please call 918-938-6537 to set up an appointment or use the link below. Please do not send medical or private information via email! In Memoriam Iln MemoriWTI 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 9 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... In Memoriam Submissions OKEQ Programming Brougbt 1'10 V Olli Bi ,~t1Je lL~tt~r ~~~~ Queer Women's Collective Queer Women's Collective Tulsa *usually* meets every First Wednesday of the month. Meet like-minded Tulsa women and build your network. Our monthly meet-ups are comeand-go gatherings for Tulsa Women who identify as LGBTQ+, and Allied Women are always welcome! ~~!:."'!:."'~~ Brought To You Bi The Letter B The program exists to provide support, encouragement, education, and social opportunities for all Bis,exual and Pansexual, Curious, & Questioning individuals. Brought to You Bi the Letter B meets every 2nd and 4th Tuesdays of the month 7:00pm.- 8:00pm For more information, email Daniel Sin rontera X OKEQ 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 10 of 16 Sin Fronteras Sin Fronteras es un movimiento liderado por latinos que brinda un entorno acogedor y seguro en el cual sus miembros y aliados de la comunidad LGBTQ+ pueden prosperar en Tulsa y sus alrededores. Sin Fronteras is a Latin-led movement that provides a welcoming and safe environment in which LGBTQ+ community members and allies can thrive in Tulsa and surrounding areas. https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... IndigiQueer IndigiQueer is a space created for queer and two-spirit native/ indigenous persons. IndigiQueer aims to empower our indigenous community through cultural learning, connection, and tribal involvement. Every First Tuesday of the month. For more information, email Brian Jennings or Kao Morris Sin Fronteras meets every Third Wednesday of the month. Jamm Outt Equality Game Night Learn about different cultures and traditional music from around the world and play instruments while expanding your musical knowledge. Looking for something fun to do on a Tuesday night? Wanna meet up with friends and make new ones? Do you have board games you've been eager to play? Then Equality Gaming Night is for you! Last Tuesday of the Month 6:00pm 9:00pm Follow Tulsa Equality This program is for ages 13 - 17. Email Shay (shay.brewer@okeq.org) with Name, School, and Age. This group meets every second and fourth Monday of the month at 6:30 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 11 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... Center. Gaming: https:// www.facebook.com/ tulsaequalitygaming - - - · ®®rn@l®IP ~Dnl])I]XIDiru @rf®Dnl]) Gener Support Group The program provides support, education, and social opportunities for transgender and intersex individuals. Groups: Trans Men, Trans Women, Non-Binary, Partners of Trans, & Gender Outreach A first-time interview is required before attending your first meeting. Veteran Support Group The purpose of the group is to provide much-needed support to LGBTQ+ veterans who are looking for safe spaces among those who share their identities. Veterans Support Group meets every second Thursday of the month at 6:00 pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Every Wednesday from 7:00pm 8:30pm. For more information or to schedule an interview, call 918.743.4297. + + ++ OKEQ + + SENIORS + + L + 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 12 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Seniors Tulsa Area Prime Timers OKEQ Seniors is daytime programming for those who are retired or accessible during the day. The mission of OKEQ Seniors is to address issues related to aging lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender persons. In partnership with its constituents and allies, OKEQ Seniors works to achieve a high quality of life for LGBT older adults, supports and advocates for their rights, fosters a greater understanding of aging in all communities, and promotes positive images of LGBT life in later years. A social organization for matureminded Gay and Bisexual men age 21+. The purpose is to establish friendship and support through social interaction. Prime Timers meets every 2nd Tuesday of every month 7:00pm For more information, email Steven or call 918.592.0088 OKEQ Seniors meets every Tuesday morning at 10:00 am at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. Green Country Bears Relationships Outside the Box We are a Social Group that identifies as "Bears" or part of the "Bear Culture/Subculture" that falls within the LGBT Community and is based in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Social and support group for nontraditional, complicated relationships. Relationships Outside the Box will meet Every First Thursday of the Month from 7pm - 8pm. Email Thomas for more information. Green Country Bears meets every 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 13 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... second Thursday of the month at 7:00pm at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. For more information, email Daniel or call 918.812.4640. Equality Alliances Equality Business Alliance OKEQ's Equality Alliance seeks to connect people to LGBTQ+ community partners. Through our Equality Alliance, you can find friendly businesses to shop, eat, and find work. You can also find healthcare providers across healthcare fields. OKEQ Alliances Community Partners • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF OKLAHOMA, INC. OKLAHOMA, INC. Alyssa Bryant is a Staff Attorney at Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma. Alyssa will be assisting members of the LGBTQ+ community with fair housing-related issues. If you believe you've been a victim of housing discrimination, please call her at 918-238-1650, or email her at alyssa.bryant@laok.org. Julie L. Goree with Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma is available for drop-in discussions regarding legal issues. = Health Outreach Prevention Education, Inc. (H.O.P.E.) provides health services for Hepatitis C, HIV, and other sexually transmitted infections (STIs) in our Tulsa clinic open to all and through outreach across Oklahoma focused on the most at-risk. HOPE Testing • LEGALAID t h SERVICES OF These legal services are open to everyone regardless of income and are available throughout the = Julie can answer basic questions on any matter that Legal Aid covers. So divorces, paternity, child custody, protective orders, child support, guardianships, housing, expungements, Wills/ Estates, and Social Security. Legal Aid does not cover criminal, personal injury, or worker's comp. 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 14 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... State of Oklahoma for LGBTQ+ persons. However, she has some knowledge about those fields of law. She will also accept questions via email or phone if someone feels uncomfortable getting out or coming in. TULSA RESPONDS Do you, your partner, or your family members qualify for SNAP or Soonercare benefits? American citizens living in Oklahoma who make less than roughly $19k a year qualify for these free government services, and Tulsa Responds navig ators would love to help you get enrolled and support you in the process of using those benefits. To get these services or avoid being kicked off Soonercare/ SNAP, please make an appointment for assistance at www.tulsaresponds.org /healthinsurance or call 918-900-0918 ext.3 to make an appointment today. ACTIONLINK C ENTER A CTION N ETWORK OSU - Tulsa Counseling Services The Oklahoma State Tulsa Counseling Center is an LGBTQ+ affirming center located in Main Hall of OSU Tulsa. You do not have to be affiliated with OSU to benefit from these services! Our center offers clients from OKEQ sessions for only 5 dollars. Each member of our counseling team receives additional training and supervision in LGBTQ+ issues and is excited to work with clients from OKEQ. A PROGRAM OF CENTERLINK Oklahomans for Equality and the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center are affiliates of Action Link: Center Action Network. Sign up at the link below to keep up to date with advocacy alerts across the country. Center Action Network Please contact us at 918-594-8568 for more information or to schedule an appointment. \ISt} Get h e l p . supplemental applying for • • :~!;~\i:;ce P rogram SNAP application specialists are available to help you apply for or renew SNAP benefits in about 20 minutes. .. No documentation is needed to get started. Here are two ways _--------- -- ___ __..._. __ _ .... 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 15 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... to stan an appncauon; 1. Call toll-free to 11877) 760-0114 2. Use the QR code or link to request that one of our friendly SNAP specialists call you. Request a call in English: Pedir una llamada en espaiiol: Learn more at hungerfreeok org/resources/snap/ HUNGER FREE OKLAHOMA OKE okeq.org/donate 4/29/26, 11:59 AM �Email from Oklahomans for Equality 16 of 16 https://app.constantcontact.com/pages/campaigns/email-details/details/ac... OKEQ Board & Trustees Executive Committee Eric Wilson - President Bob Hanson - Vice President Julie Chase - Treasurer Whitney Cipolla - Secretary Kristy Vann - Member at Large Trustees Shawna Baker, Esq. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2025] Pulse Memorial Images Subject The topic of the resource Pulse Memorial Images from Orlando, Florida, and Tulsa, Oklahoma Description An account of the resource 8 images related to memorials for the Pulse nightclub shooting that occurred on June 12, 2016. The first is from the official memorial site in Orlando, Florida taken during the summer of 2025 by Mary Bishop-Baldwin, and 6 of them are from various locations in Tulsa, including the Equality Center, that displayed rainbow lights in solidarity on the day of the attack. The last image features the names of the 49 victims. This entry also includes an article written by Mary Bishop-Baldwin for the 10th anniversary. Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 12, 2016; 2025 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Mary Bishop-Baldwin