21 20 644 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/5def031c0de17566796f005756d651ef.jpg 15f093733bbed629fbc74174a69efdae https://history.okeq.org/files/original/80cb5265f347f0dcd59ae4932e377022.pdf 5a2863b74d69e5ea9b5ff866d325cf85 PDF Text Text �Recruit, Recruit, Recruit! for human rights About I5 years ago. I went to my first PRIDE march in Washington, DC. 1 was ver~ amused by the classic chant "10% is not enough, recruit, recruit, recruit!" Although Alfi’ed Kinsey’s eadmato that 10% of the population is exclusively homosexual is now I. is undeniable that as far as the future of TOILIR www,tohr.org of Uncle Sam attire (flannel? leather? you pick[) and let me explain why "l Want You" to .join us in bringing TOIIR and the Tulsa GLBT community to new levels of visibility | and organization. We are experiencing a tremendous amount of growth and change in the world of TOHR these days. Following a 300% increase in traffic at the Tulsa GLB1 Community Centor last year, this year we are on track to triple that. We expect 10,000 visitors by year’s end. II1 a mere two years, our annual Diversity Gala has outgrown the Oilcrease Museum, a venue which seats over 300. Steve Eberle, our Gala organizer, persuaded both Danna Sue Walker and Jason Ashley Wright to feature the Gala in their Tulsa Worm columns. That exposure not only shows Tulsa that we have a large and vibrant communily, but also inspires our many sttaight allies to support us the way that most of us support them in social justice causes, health advocacy, and the aFts. We need more straight fi’iends in forging organizational partnerships, expanding our donor base, and making it c~Nstal-clem to the powers that be that gay rights do not matter only to gay people. There are so many iadividuals working to make Tulsa an economically and culturally dynamic place that ce[ebrales diversity. The more voices in the chorus propagating that message, the better for us all. Occupancy-related work at our new buildiag is proceeding well. So ~ar~ over 100 people have volunteered at our workdays. Volunteered, I might add, for physically arduous, di~, and hot work. We are seeing old friends and making new ones. We have been warmly greeted by our neighbors. We are eager to become a vital part of the renaissance of the East Village. We are blessed with so much talent in this community, One great example is the amazing team of architects and interior designers that will be help us to plan Phase 2 of the building. We will have the 6~ largest GLBT center in America - and it wi[! be one of which we can all be incredibly proud. But we can - and will - do much more. Two things will be critical to ensuring that: People and resoumes. In early July, we will begin plotfing a strategy for the next 2-4 years. We are preparing budget projections and fundraising needs, laying out a plan for hMng more staff, puRing in place policies for our impending responsibilities in running the Events Center and leasing a portion of our space, and assessing the best ways for our Board and committees to serve our complex community. We are determined not to squander this once-in-a-lifetime opportanity to catapult TOHR to new levels of professionalism and efficacy. continued on page 3 At this exciting time, we need you more than ever, Consider becoming one of the 50 volunteers we will need each lnonth in running the new building. Isn’t it worth 3 ho~rs a month of your time to be connected to your GLBT brothers and sisters, to help others in need. to make new friends, and to show TOHR’s CaBital Camoaion The Pyramid Project Sue Welch �I The Gilcrease Musuem was the place to be on Friday, Jtme 9th for the annual Diversity Gala. 320 individuals supporting equality packed tbe museum, eqioying the even ing to support the programs of Tulsa Oklabomans fbr Human Rights (TOHR). Tbank you to all who attended and made tbis special evening possible. Don’t miss next year’s "night of the year." cowering in f~ar? Consider devoting 3 hours a month to skills in accotmting or finance, media and pubIic relations, strategic planning, building management, events planuing, grant writing, or grass-roots advocacy? We need all of tbose and Are you interested in starting a new program or bringing your current program to our new Facility? I cammt emphasize enougb that flais building is for the community. We welcome your ideas, we welcome your energy. If you bave an idea and some volunteers to build a program, let me know lab~elmonte~hotmail.com). Are you willing to d~vote your expertise toward our planned Wellness Center? We want to offer mental bealtb services, yoga, meditation, smoking cessation, I2-steps programs, a running/walking group, and more, but we need trained professionals to help us makes these goals a reality. Sue Welch receives TOHR’s Communii~ Hero A ward Senator Bernest H Cain receives TOHR’s L(fetime Achievement Award Kirk Holt accepts TOHR ’s CommuniO" Hero Awardfi)r Cisar-Holt Inc Charles Faudree accepts TOHR’s Community Hero Award from Laura Belmonte We ~vant to share our space and to help you publicize programs not only for tbose ill crisis, but those of a purely social nature. We have a community comprised of people of all ages, races, interests, physical abilities, and income levets~belp us bring as many people as possible into the TOHR family. Finally, if you have not coutributed financially to TOHR or are not a current member, we would be bonored if you would invest a portion of your hat&earned cash in the furore of Oklahoma’s oldest GLBT organization. Here’s to our next 26 years. In Solidarity, Laura A. Belmonte, Ph.D. President, TOHR Win up to $10,000 with the GREAT DIVIDE! $20 / ticket Drawing to be held this Fall GET YOUR TICKETS AT THE TULSA GLBTCOMMUNITY CENTER, 5545 E 41st Street in Highland Plaza �bullying. When asked if she would author a bullying bill, she responded that she would, but will not include langtmge specific to homosexuals. As expected, the did say homosexuNity is against the bible. TOHR Members Lobby in OKC Representative Lucky Lamons welcomed a group from Tulsa into his office and a discussion followed about former Tulsa Police Major Lynn Jones who chaired the TOHR Gala this year. Tulsa Police Department talk continued and Lucky thanked the Tulsa group for their visit. Stephen Eber~ Early risiug on Tuesday, May 9th began the lobby effort fbr many Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Trangender (GLBT) individuals and their friends and families. The soon-to-be lobbyists left from Stillwater, Norman, and Tulsa to an-ire at the OK State Capitol by 10:00 AM. TW’s Catering provided a continental breakfast in the rotanda for us as well as House and Senate staffers and legislators. Lobbyist Keith Smith presented a brief training on "Lobby I01", providing sound bites on AIDS Prescription Drug Assistance Program funding cuts, and possible future bullying and hate crimes bills. Armed with the legislative picture book and an information packet about TOHR, PFLAG and OYP, plus timely articles on GLBT issues for each of the legislators, our constituents divided the floors of the Capitol and began a morning of lobbying. With many legislators in committee, in many offices we lefl these packets witb the secretary along with an explanation of why we were at the Capitol. We were, however, able to meet directly with several legislators. Representative Jeannie McDanie! was her typical warm, understanding self, giving us the lowdown on how things operate at the Capitol, wishing us well and asking if she could call us wben she hears conflicting information on GLBT issues. Senator Judy Eason-Mclntyl~ was equally welcoming. Representative Brian Bingman was able to make time before a committee meeting and remarked that he has financially supported RAIN - a discussion of RAIN’s programs fo!lowed. Wbile breaking for luuch in the rottmda, John Sawyer of Tulsa sang his famous rendition of the National Anthem. Dr. Laura Belmonte, TOHR President spoke about why we had come to the Capitol that day. The GLBT Lobby Day is a yearly event to strenglhen our presence at the Capitol and let our legislators know about our issues, that we care and are here, and that we vote. Please join us next year at the Capitol. Some of us we~ able to quiz Representative Sally Kern on her library bill. Her response was while naturally little girls play with little girls and little boys play with little boys, they should not be exposed to books that say this is okay to do as an adult. When asked about bullying, Kern responded dmt, as a former teacher, she has zero tolerance for Oklahoma’s Antigay Adoption Invalidation Law Stricken A federal court in May struck down an Oklahoma law that would have had the potential to make children adopted by same-sex couples in other states legal orphans should the families move to Oklahoma. The Adoption Invalidation Law, bastily passed at the end of the 2004 Oklahoma legislative session, had said that Oklahoma "shall not recognize an adoption by more than one individual of the same sex from any other state or foreign jurisdiction." The federal courts ruled that this statute violates the U.S. Constitution by singling out a specific group for discrimination. U.S. district.judge R. Cauthron wrote in her opinion, "The very fact that the adoptions have occurred is evidence that a court of law has tbund the adoptions to be in the best interests of the children." Lambda Legal brought the case against the state of Oklahoma, and Ken Upton, Lambda Legal senior staff attorney stated: "Gay and lesbian parents in Oklahoma can now breathe a collective sigh of relief because their relationships witb their children are no longer threatened by the state of Oklahoma. We’re gratified that justice has been handed down in our case and that the court saw to it tbat Oklahoma h~s to treat the children of gay and lesbian parents the same as all other kids." �Tulsa GLBT Community Center Weekly Schedule SUNDAY l0 AM Ekklesia* the Gathering 2 PM Why Weight? MONDAY 3-9 PM Tulsa GLBT Communi~ Center Open 7 PM Twentysolnetbing 3rd Monday of month TUESDAY_ 3-9 PM Tulsa GLBT CommtmilT Center Open FREE HIV Testing 6-8 PM Take Me OUT to the Ballgame! 6-8 PM Volunteer Workdays Continue @ New Center FREE Syphilis Testing 1st Tuesday of month 6 PM Tulsa Area Primetimers 1st Tuesday of month WEDNESDAY 3-9 PM Tulsa GLBT Community Center Open 6:30 PM Tulsa Two=Spirit Society 1st Wednesday ofm0ntb 7:30 PM Gender Ou~xeach Trans/Intersex group THURSDAY 3-gPM Tulsa GLBT Community Center Open 6:30 PM Pyramid Project Comm. 3rd Thursday of month TOHR Board Meeting 7 PM Last Thursday of month 7 PM Lesbians of Tulsa Social group for women FRIDAY 3-9 PM Tulsa GLBT Community Center Open 7 PM Center Cinema FREE GLBT Movie SATURDAY 3-9 PM Tulsa GLBT Communiiy Center Open 4-7 PM FREE H1V Testing 4 PM 5 PM 6 PM T.U.L,S.A. Board Mtg. 1st Saturday of month T.U.L.S,A. Member Mtg. 1 st Saturday o}’month DeafGLBT Social Group Quarterly PM OHP Meetings/Events Quarterly The Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender (GLBT) & allied community is headed to the ballpark with "OUT oil the Town," Saturday, July 22nd. Yon and your family and fi’iends can eujoy tbe evening game (7:05 PM) of the Tulsa Drillers vs. the Arkansas Travelers followed by a Fireworks Extravaganza, have tile opportunity to see "TuIsa Oklahonam]s for Human Rights" up in lights on the video scoreboard and get a 10% discount on pre-game souveuir merchandise - all for only $5.00 / person! 25 seats have been reserved witb more available. Please reselwe all the seats you’ll need by, calling 918.743.4297 by July, 14th. Renovation and improvements continue ~t the new Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) Community Center iu downtown Tulsa. Tbank you to the 100+ community volunteers wbo have given countless hours to improve the communities home. Volunteer workdays at the facility continue on Saturday and Sund~y July Ist & 2nd, July 15tb & 16th, July 22rid & 23rd and July 29th and 30th - from 10:00 AM to 2:00 PM each day. Drinks, lunch and good times are benefits for each volunteer in appreciation of your time and talent. Please call Sue at 918.810.8156 for more information on how you can be a part of the excitement. TOHR PARTNERS WITH THE VIERSEN FAMILY FOUNDATION TOHR thanks the Sam Viersen Family Foundation of Tulsa and Okmulgee jbr its generous grant of $5,000 in support of TOHR ’s efforts to secure equal rights for the GLBT Community in NE OK. �OUT.OK Summer Film Series WOMEN IN LOVE is a wild story of love and friendship set within the sexually WOMEN IN LOVE Thursday, July 20, 2006 7:00 PM Chapman Hall, University of Tulsa East 5th Street & S Delaware Ave The Diversi~ Council is made up of Open Arms Youth Project, PFLAG and Tulsa Oklahomans for H!man Rigltts (TOHR). These three organizations have spent months working out erect detail in order to make the nine-day Diversity Celebration a reality. As one of the representatives for TOHR on the Diversity Council. I would like to say "Thank You" to the council for their support mid leadership over the past months. Together we have strengthened the foundation of the Diversity Cdebrabon and have guided it toward a better futm~. Also, I would like to say "Thank You" to the faith communities for your participation in one of "The Best" Interfaith Services ever. "Thaak you" to New Age Renegades, Club Majestic and Club Maverick for your sponsorsldps and all of your volunteers in the pmade. "Thaok you" to Mary T. for heading !p GayDay at the Zoo. "Thank yo!" to Steve Eberle for the magnificent Gala. "Thank you" to the Prirnetimers for the wonderf!l balloon arch. "Thank you" to Zach B for his strong leadership over the pride parade. "Thank you" to Brian B for the hard work on the entertainment. "Thank you" to the men and women who kept it flowing in the Condom Sense Beer Garden. "Thank you" to Norman, Terrie G., Marcia and Neal for being a big help to me the morning of the festival. And finally, a "HUGE THANK YOU" to Greg Gatewood for dealing with the good and the bad with me 24/7. (Literally) charged, politically active, and artistically involved lesbian communiU of San Francisco. Filmmaker Karen Everett (I Shall Not Be Removed: The Life of Marion Riggs; Framing Lesbian Fashion) turns the camera on her love life and a remarkable community of culturally significant, sex radicals in San Francisco. This riveting documentary explores one woman’s journey through fifteen years of friendship and love. Through home videos, candid interviews and video diaries, Everett poses universal questions about the nature of relationships through monogamy and polyamory. Looking at ways of loving that range from friendship to marriage to brief encounters of the passionate kind, WOMEN 1N LOVE is a video autobiography that dares much and bares all. Featuring Jackie Strano and Shar Rednour, leading directors of lesbian pornography and Phyllis Christopher, one of North America’s leading photographers of lesbian erotica this is a film not to be missed! ALSO CHECK OUT TWO OUT-OK 5 PRE-FESTIVAL SCREENTNGS: Last but never least; I want to say "THANK YOU" to the Tulsa Comnluni~ for your support, encouragement, and especially your commitment to our community. Diversity Celebration - Tulsa Pride is for you and about you. We have tried to have a wide range of events so we can reach tile inasses. Please continue to share your ideas and your thoughts so we can keep the celebration growing for years to come. WHOLE NEW THING: August 3t, 7:00pm. Join us as the planning begins tbr Diversity Celebration - Tulsa Pl’ide 2007! We will be celebrating the 25tu Anniversary of the Tulsa GLBT Pride Festival along with the OkIahoma Centennial. Come and bea part of the magic! OUT OK 5~ The Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian International Film Festival: October 11-15 (Tulsa) and October 19-21 Oklahoma City). For more information, please contact Philip Au at 918.682-4654, ext. 3 or pau6a~out-ok.com Kelly Rechelle Carter Director of Special events Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights C.R.A.Z.Y.: August 24, 7:00pro. �tul a oklahomans for human rights Tulsa Oklahomans f’or Human Rights (TOHR) works for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) equalily. Working for GLBT equality since 1980, TOHR is entering a new phase of its 26year history. Tiffs summer, the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, TOHR’s largest community program, will move into the permanent Center at 621 E 4th Street in the East Village of downtown Tulsa. The 20+ - and growing - list of community-oriented programs reach and directly affect over 25,000 individuals annually in Oklahoma and the surrounding areas. With the move to the permanent Center and with your continued support, TOHR’s commun0y programs will reach thousands more - making strides toward the goal, the mission, of GLBT equality. Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bi & Transgender (GLBT) Community Center TOHR’s largest program, the Tulsa GLBT Community (’e~ter is the fbcal point of the community. The Center will welcome over I0,000 visitors in 2006 ÷ the I 0th Anniversao, of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Advocacy Coalition Working in a united front, I’OHR and other like-minded organizations, have come together to educate the public on GLBT truths & issues to obtain equality. A priority of tbe Adw)cacy Coalition is working with city leaders and officials to add sexual orientation and gender identity to Tulsa’s non-discrimination policies. Advocacy Flash Utilizing today’s electronic world, TOHR issues an Advocacy Flash on issues of the day. In parlnership with the Advocacy Coalition, the flashes reach over 3.000 individuals instantly. Thanks to this, recent state decisions and local elections have been positive for the GLBT & allied community. Community Resource Kiosk The Community Resource Kiosk offers Community. Health, Faith and Business inIbrmation of the GLBT & allied community. FREE copies of the Torch, the Advocote, the Gayly Oklahoman, the Star, Gay Parent. and other publications are also available at the kiosk. David Bohnett CyberCenter Open just over a year, the David Bolmett CyberCent~r (DBC), gives the public free access to the world with 10 DSL computer stations. Over 30% (and growing) of the nearly 250 monthly users of the DBC are under the age of 25. Nancy McDonald Rainbow Library Since opening in ! 999. the Nan~V McDonald Rainbow Library (NMRL) has expanded in size and scope in for the community. Now with over 4,000 GLBT titles, the NMRL is a major TOHR educational program for the community. The PRIDE Store If it’s bumper stickers, flags, jewelry or novelty items you’re looking fbr, the PRIDE Store has Ttdsa’s largest selection of pride and rainbow merchandise. In the Tulsa GLBT Community Center\ the store is open during regular Center hours of Monday - Saturday: 3-9 PM. Tulsa GkBT Information Line - 743GAYS TOHR’s oldest, continually operating program, the Tulsa GLBT Informc~tion Lbze averages nearly 300 calls / month requesting community & health information, professional refel~als, etc. & is often the first place individuals contact the GLBT & allied community. Tulsa GLBT History Proiect The rich history of Oklahoma’s GLBT community is being collected, filmed, documented and preserved for thture generations with the Tulsa GLBT History Project. The Dennis Nei[l & John Southm’d History Project Room and display area in the new Center will highlight rotating shows of the prqject. Health & Wellness Partnerships TOHR began NE Oklahoma’s first anonymous HIV testing site and years later, continues Health & Wellness Partnerships for the GLBT & allied community. Working in partnership with local agencies, free HIV tests, including the 20- minute result test, are provided twice a week. The Pyramid Proiect- TOHR’s Capital Campaictn The goal of the Pyramid Projec! - to purchase a permanent home for the Tulsa GLBT Community Center was met TOHR pul~hased a building. The project will continue to raise funds to sustain the new Center and pay offthe mortgage. �Diversity Celebration - Tulsa PRIDE A true community event, Tulsa’s annual celebration of GLBT Pride and diversity is now in its 24th year[ As founding members of the Tulsa Diversity Council, TOHR, Tulsa PFLAG and OYP work together to plan and execute Diversity Celebration-Tulsa Pride! - one of the Midwest’s largest celebrations of its kind. Center Cinema Feature & short fihns, comedy & drama, documentafies and classics ~ they’re all featured at Center Cinema on a 65" high definition TV. The Tulsa GLBT Community Center hosts the free fihns every Friday evening at 7:00 PM in the Commons to kick-off your weekend. Check tohr.org for a list of upcoming films. TURBO -Tulsa Rainbow Business Orqanization GLBT & fi’iendly business owners & managers demonstrate the importance of a diverse economy. The Tulsa Rainbow Business Organization, TURBO, helps GLBT & friendly business owners through shared marketing opportunities, net working & community building. Gender Outreach Concentrating on the "T" in GLBT, Gender Outreach is a social and support group for Transgender and ln/ersex individuals in the community. Meeting every Wednesday evening at 7:30 PM in the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. the group is planning increased involvement in the community during 2006. OUTlife Coming Out is not a once-in-a-lifetime happening - it’s a lifelong experience, OutL~e, a peerqed discussion group for individuals beginning or in the li[blong process of coming out, meets on Wednesday evenings at 7:00 PM in the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. OUT on the Town Girls - and guys ~ just want to have fun! Oz~t on the Town is your chance for yo~ and all your friends and family to enjoy an evening together. Out on the Town, on the 2nd Saturday of the month, gives you a chance to get to know others in the community while enjoying the tastes, sights and sounds of Tulsa. KidsCorner Toys, videos and games are all in KidsCorner in the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Educational books like The Sissy Duckling, King & King, Heather Hctr Two Mommies and The Boy Who Cried Fabu]ous, mnong others, are available. Parents Niqht Out Parents sometimes need a break - and GLBT parents are no exception. Parents Night Out provides childcare in a safe environment, allowing parents to enjoy a night on the town or a quiet evening at home. Parents Night Out is held during special events and during the holiday season. the Torah - TOHR’s newsletter TOHR’s newsletter, the Torch, provides donors and members an in-depth look at the community-oriented programs, events and advocacy efforts of TOHR. The Torch is sent electronically, througb mail delivery and is also available on the Fairy Tree The holiday season is marked with giviug through the Fairy Tree. The Fairy Tree, annually set up in the Tulsa GLBT Community Center benefits individuals and families living with HIV/AIDS. Thank You Thank you to all who helped make "Diversity Celebration - Tulsa Pride 2006!" a huge success. THANK YOU Presenting Partners: TOHR, Tulsa PFLAG, OYP aud Club Majestic. Unity Partaers: Camille Quinn, PC, Parish Church of St. Jerome & Vocal Pride Foundation. Communi~ Partners: Blockbuster Video, College Hill Presb~erian Church, Ekklesia - the Garhering, New Age Renegades, Sooner State Rodeo Association, U.S. Cellular & Wild Oats Natural Marketplace. Media Partners: the Gayly Oklahoman and the Star. Event / Activity Sponsors: All Souls Pride Shuttle, American Red Cross First Aid Station, Condom Sense Beer Garden, Diversity Christian Fellowship Diniug Tent, Eastern Oklaboma Communi~ Food Bank Drive, Families First Fun Zone, Jackie Cooper hnports Display & Tulsa Eagle Dunk Tank �Thank You to the 2006 Diversity Gala Patrons Platinum Patron~ Kimb~rly Lorhlg Anita Randza Dan Bumstein - Martin Martinez Trey Abrabamson. Denise Abrams. 1,ynelle Acebo. Roger Aeebo, Ernie AIcala, Steve Alken. Brooke Andrews. Alison Anthony, Peter A~hens Phillip Au. Craig Baker. Rex Bal!. Eric Ballou. 7old Patrons 818 Martini Bar Silver Patrons KinsIow, Keith & Todd Williams Companies Bronze Patrons Nm~cy & Joe McDonald BetDe & Jim Knight Dennis Neill - John Southard Kirk Holt Parish Church of St. Jerome Monty & Dave Duncan Tracey & Joel Norvell - VtDOOP Lynn Jones - James Madill Rhodes, Hiemonymous, Jones, Tucker & Gable US Cellular Sue Welch - Marcy Smith Tulsa Man-iott Southena Hills JeffZumwalt Tulsa Opera Dr, Greg Gray 5 T Construction Tim Williams -- Jonathan Brown Williams - Biffle Family Mar~ Newman Neff Zink ~pecial Thanks Class Act Starbuck Petal Pushers John D. Cutright, MSW, LCSW Counselor & Psychotherapist 4870 S. Lewis Avenue Suite 190 Tulsa, OK 74105 918-284-0123 Children~ Adolescents+ Adult~ Couples �CALLING ALL VOLUNTEERS! Gay OKC History No Longer an Oxymoron Aaron Bae/thctfer, Ph.D Traditionally, scholars who produced Gay, Lesbain, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) community studies focused solely on subcultures in coastal cities or huge metropolitan areas, m~d too often their histories became the history of of ~actors~the end of state-mandated prohibition, public outcries over vice, and the election of a homophobic county attorney--allowed authorities to pursue vice more fervently, and it forced many ga~ and bisexual men back into the closet. Although Oklahoma City did not bare a "Stonewall" moment, political activism was not absent in the 1970s and 1980s. Serious grass-roots politicization occurred in response to the Oklahoma leg- The Tulsa GLBT Community Center ig looking for a few go~ peop! tb jhin the ranks Of Tulsa’s finest volun~ reefs. Centar volunteers respond tO the GLBT InfoLiiae, talking with people who need every imaginable kihd of information. Voluhteers operate the Pride Store as well as help people with the CyberCenter. We provide tcalning, a wonderful environment with Direct TV on our Big Screen TV, f~ee pool table, ~d great coffees and teas. Most of all, it s a great place to meet Up With ~iends, old and new: You can vMum teer your time and talent Once a month to once a week..al’ternoon and evening shills are available. Just send an omail to eommunity~tobr.org with your contact information or just stop by the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, E 41st Street ka Highland Plaza. 743-GAYS GLBT Americans. My dissertation, completed in May of 2006 at OSU under Laura Belmonte, challenged that notion. It reconstructs the social and sexual lives of gay and bisexual Oklahoma City residents, 1889-2005, and tests many cherished assumptions regarding the roles played by geography, urbanization, World War lI, and Civil Rights-era protests on the growth of queer s~bcultures. My research indicated that a diverse gay and bisexual male world existed in Oklahoma City with roots that extended back before World War II, something normally associated only with cities like New York. That subculture included well-’known spots for sex and socialization, openly-gay residents and it operated rather smoothly until the late 1950s. At that juncture, a sunthT islature’s aRempt to deny homosexuals the right to teach in public schools, to combat police brutality, and to fight AIDS. Although recent setbacks, such as Oklahoma’s prohibition against samesex marriage and adoptions, seem to overshadow that tradition of activism, they do not diminish the decades-old community spirit established by queer pioneers. Oklahoma City’s story reminds scholars that GLBT subcultures existed in the Western regiol~ of the United States, and that their narratives, although different, also enrich our understanding of the history of American sexuality. Dr. Bachh(?fer can aibach@attg.net be contacted at �Steve Eberle TORCH: Where is home Jor you? Where did you grow up? SE: I was born and raised in Albany, NY and lived there until I attended Texas A&M University. Upon graduation in 1977, 1 moved to Tulsa for a horticulture sales position. TORCH: How did you first become involved with TOHR? SE: My first involvement was in the early nineties organizing the first formal benefit auction for TOHR. The Mid Continent Tower’s 15th Floor was the venue in October 1993. That was our 7th annual auction. TORCH: What other organizations" have you been involved with? SE: I have been either on the Board or fund-raised for probably 25 Oklahoma charities ~mce moving to Tulsa. I prefer direct care social service organizations, ranging from HIV/AIDS, incarcerated women, education, international relations, to animal protection: animal protection is what I have the greatest passion for. TORCH: Based on your experience in the community, how is Tulsa changing? SE: I have always found Tulsa to be gay-friendly and an easy town to be out, both in sexual orientation and HIV stares. Tulsa continues to rank high in philanthropy, both individual and corporate giving. I think that is a sign of a caring community. TORCH: TOHR just hosted the fantastic 2006 Diversity Gala. Do you have anyfinal words’ on this? SE: We had 320 guests fill the Gilcrease Museum’s Vista Room and we were able to celebrate our achievements of the past 26 years. I was especially pleased that we were able to honor Senator Bemest Cain with our Lifetime Achievement Award for his years of assistance defending the GLBT community on the floor of the State Senate. �Domestic Partner Benefits Domestic partner benefits~ offered to an employee’s unmarried partner, are essential for an employer that wishes to harness the thll polential of all employees. As of 2004, the average benefits plan constituted nearly one-fifth of total compensafion packages for employees, with rougbly half of that devoted to bealth insurance. For most gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender employees, the poMon of those benefit plans that covers an employee’s dependents traditionally the employee’s spouse and children--is unavailable, creating significant disparity in compensation and the interred value of that employee’s contribufions tothe colnpany. Employers increasingly [ookto domestic partner benefits as a means to promote a diverse workforce and ensure maximum elnployee productivity. A study by Hewitt Associates in 2005 concluded that the prevailing reason most companies currently offer domestic partner benefits is to attract and retain employees. The History of Domestic Partner Benefits The Village Voice, a New York City weekly, became the first employer to offer domestic partner benefits to its lesbian and gay employees in 1982. By 1990, there were fewer than two dozen U.S. employers that offered "spousal equivalent" benefits to their gay employees’ partners. In 1992, Lotus Development Corp,, now a division of IBM, became the first publicly traded company to offer such benefits. The real impetus began in 1996 when San Francisco enacted its Domestic Partner Ordinance. The Ordinance was tbe first law in the country to legally mandate employer provided domestic partner benefits. The Ordinance prohibits the Ci~ or County of San Francisco fi’om entering into contracts or agreements with parties who discriminate in the provision of benefits to domestic pm’tners, Since I996, more jurisdictions have passed similar laws. Tbese laws have led mol~ than 8,000 employers to provide equal benefits to employees’ unmarried partners. Most sigmificantly, the State of California passed a law that requires any entiW that does more than $50,000 of business with the state to offer domestic partner benefits. Who now offers domestic partner benefits? As of March 1, 2006, 49% of the Fortune 500 and 78% of the Fortune 100 largest corporations offered health benefits to employee’s domestic partners, compared to just 25% of the Fortune 500 in 2000. In total, approximately 8,281 employers offer beafih benefits to domestic partners. What is a "Domestic Partner"? There is no single definition. Because federal non-discrimination laws do not inclnde "sexual orientation" or "gender identity" or expression," a consistent definition of"domestic pal~er" is not required. Generally, domestic partners are two individuals who are in a long-term comm0ted relationship and are responsible for each other’s financial and emotional well~being. Employers usually set their own definitions of domestic pm~tner when they decide who is eligible for domestic partner benefits. Many employers require a domestic pal~.ner to meet some or all of the following : * Must be at least 18 years of age; * Must have an exclusive and committed relationship; * Must share the same residence and be financially interdependent; * Must not be married; and * Must have been eacb other’s sole domestic partner for the past twelve months, Tax Implications of Domestic Partner Benefits The Internal Revenue Se~wice has ruled that domestic partners cannot be considered spouses for tax purposes. Thus, employers ~re obligated to report the fair market value of the domestic partner coverage as income to the employee. The employee must pay income tax and social security taxes on tbat money and the employer must pay its share of taxes as well. There is a bill pending to amend the Internal Revenue Code to exclude domestic partner benefits from being taxed. Domestic partner benefits may be considered non-taxable only if the domestic partner meets the IRS definition of a "dependent." Internal Revenue Code Section 152 defines a dependent as someone who resides in the employee’s household and who receives at least half of his or her support from the employee. Issues to Consider When Signing Up for Domestic Partner Benefits inadvertently "Outing" Your Partner �Some employers are obligated to provide insurance to all of its employees, unless the employee is covered under another plan, If your partner’s employer requires employees to disclose the source of their illsurance coverage, your partner’s use of your domestic partnership plan could ’out" your partner, ~hich may be a concern if he or she has an unfriendly workplace. This is especially true if your partner is in the milita0~. What if the Partner is a Foreign National in the Country on a Temporary Visa? Foreign nationals in the country on temporary visas should be aware that signing a domestic partnership afi7davit could constitute evidence of an intent to stay in the count~7 indefinitely, in violation of the visa requirements. Consult an immigration altomey if this concern applies to yot~. Employers Offering Domestic Par~er Benefits N a~io r~,’id e Could the Domestic Partner Affidavit Be Used In Future Court Proceedings? In some jurisdictions, the law creates obligations~uch as providing financial support or dividing property~n couples who break up. Whether a domestic partnership affidavit could be used in a suit f~r support or propel~y division would depend on the jurisdiction you are in. Some states have super-DefEnse of Mmriage Act laws that would most likely prevent the courts from recognizing any kind of relationship between you and your pal’tner. Even in states without super-DOMA laws, alimony a~vards are increasingly rare; however, if there was complete economic dependence by one partner on the other partner, it is possible that a domestic partnership affidavit might be used as some evidence that palimony would be appropriate. Healthcare Savings Accounts and Domestic Partners A Healthcare Savings Account is a federally defined, tax-fi-ee account used to pay for medical expenses, such as eyeglasses and prescriptions. At present, the federal tax code does not permit employees to use these accounts for a domestic partner’s medical expense, even if the partner is enrolled in an employer-sponsored insurance program. Unfortunately, this is something that can only be changed through a change in federal law your employer cannot fix the situation fl~rough a change in its benefits plan. Retirement Plan Issues Under the San Francisco Ordinance, retirement pimps must treat domestic partners the same as spouses for purposes of qualified joint sulwivor annuities. Additionally, Internal Revenue regulations affect the employee’s ability to take loans out against the retirement plan--you must obtain the consent and signature of the domestic partner before a loan against the retirement money is permitted. for humsn rights do you get them? sign up @ tohr.org �membership Name (as it should appear on mail addressed to you): I (we) want to join TOHR! __ Student, Senior or Americorps Volunteer $15 __ Individual $30 __ Family / Household $50 __ Patron $100 Mailing Address Method of Donation Check enclosed, payable to TOHR My company offers a matching gift pro- Telephone gram. or will follow. The proper forms are enclosed Please bill (our) credit card: Visa IMPORTANT - Emaf/ Address Card # __ MC __ AMEX � Still Image A static visual representation. 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Title A name given to the resource [2006] TOHR Torch, July-August 2006; Volume 5, Issue 5 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 2006 July-August Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights August 2006 July 2006 TOHR Torch https://history.okeq.org/files/original/1942dd3c5201efb8e5f299605646519c.jpg ea6c8080dd95c23cfb5a340aae51a7f4 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/bbc4b8e233008cb882bbabd2b41f6239.pdf f692c6d7dd3e7bd8077d1324cd757b27 PDF Text Text September/October 2006 the volume five/issue six CH ~omans for human rights �Thinking Globally, Acting Locally As [ sit at my desk amazed at the quick passage of this blistering summer, I am staring at the rainbow and U.S, flags 1 keep in a clip before me. Both symbolize two personaI traits that illuminate the very core of my bei~g. for human rights Oklahomans for Human Right~ (TOHR) Tulsa, OK 74~01 The first embodies my pride in being openly gay, especially in a place like Tulsa where tha~ is not exactly easy. www.tohr,or8 The second reflects my even greater pride in being an American. As a historian, [ have devoted nay career to teaching about and studying our nation’s glorious, complicated past. 1 have a deep and abiding love for our count.2/and its ideals of"life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness" for all. Although gay and lesbian people in the United States still do not enjoy full pebtical equality, we have far more freedoms and rights tban our brothers and sisters in many other countries a fact made horribly apparent all over the globe in recent weeks.. In July, thanks to local activist extraordinaire Toby Jenkins, Tulsa joined dozens of cities nationwide that held vigils commemorating the first annNersary of the vicious, public executions of two banian boys, Mabmoud Asgari and Ayaz Marboni. The boys, aged 14 and 17, were accused of aggravated sodomy by the Iranian government. The reality is that the boys were killed for being gay. Their tragic stol2/ highlights the oppression millions of gay and lesbian people face worldwide. While the violence between Hezbollah and Israel provided a frigbtening illustration of the hatreds that divide the Middle East, it is very striking that, in Jerusalem, Christian, Jewish. and Muslim leaders joined forces in opposing an international gay rights parade. Indeed, a flyer circulated in ultraorthodox Jewish neighborhoods offered $4,400 to anyone who would assassinate a marcher. Earlier this year. the State Department’s annual report on human rights painted an equally harsh picture of homophobic violence and hostili~ elsewhere. In Nigeria, bomosexualily is a federal offense punishable by prison sentences of up to 14 years. In Jamaica, Steve Harvey, a leading AIDS activist, and Brian Williamson. a wellknown advocate Ibr gay rights, were both brutally murdered. In Poland, Latvia, and Russia, peaceful gay rights demonstrators were subjected to physical assaults, and pelted with rocks, bottles, and rotten eggs. In Uganda, consensual homosexual sex can be punished by life in prison, In Saudi Arabia, gay men have received up to 2,000 lashes and have been bebeaded in public squares. TOHR stands in solidarity with thousands of others across the world in decrying these horrible abuses. Take a moment and send a sileat wish that we may someday live in a world where every gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender person is accorded peace, dignib’, and freedom. II1 Solidari~, Laura A Belmonte, PhD President, TOHR TOHR’s CaPital CamPaign The Pyramid Project Sue Welch �10th Anniversary Celebration of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center If l Had a Hammer ... or some fringe Renovations are progressing well at the new building which will permanently house the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Plans are to move into the facility in late October - only a few weeks away. Consequently, if you would like to help with renovations, come on down! Any skill level is appreciated and there is still much to do. If you have a ladder, drill, paint supplies, bring them. If you would like to help but do not have any of the above tools, come anyway and we will gladly assign you a task. Volunteer weekend workdays for September are at 10:00 AM on the following dates: 9th, 10th, 23rd, 24th and 30th. Lunch and a good time with friends are provided. Over 125 volunteers, a design group of local professionals and TOHR representatives, have been working hard to make this a place we can be proud oP. Members of the design group are: Kirk Holt, Amanda Daily, Steven Edwards, Charles Faudree, Brett Logan, Rick Phillips, Carson Smith from Kinslow Keith & Todd, Larry Synar, Shannon Walker, Laura Belmonte, Mark Bonney, Greg Gatewood and Sue Welch. Please come lend a hand and be one of the first to see the progress! For more info, call Sue Welch at 918-810-8156. The Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) Community Center (the Center), will celebrate its first decade of serving the GLBT & allied community during Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) Annual Meeting on Thursday, September 28, 2006 at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 5545 E 41st Street in Highland Plaza. The evening kicks off at 6:00 PM with the Center’s 10th Anniversary Reception. Celebratory drinks, individualized cakes and exhibits highlighting the first 10 years of the Center will mark the occasion. The TOHR Annual Meeting, with Awards & Recognitions, the State of the Organization, a Year in Review and Board of Director elections (see "Preparing for the Future," page 11, for nominees), follows the reception at 7:00 PM. The evening will also mark the last official TOHR function in a leased space, as the Tulsa GLBT Community Center will be moving to its permanent home, 621 E 4th Street in the East End of downtown Tulsa, this October. It’s been an exciting and busy year for Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). TOHR has partnered with Tulsa PFLAG (Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays) and OYP (OpenArms Youth Project) to plan and make "Diversity Celebration--Tulsa PPdDE!" bigger and better. Your input and ideas can help take it to the next level. We’re also implementing a strategic plan and a marketing initiative that will help change Tulsa and Oklahoma for the better. You can help make it all happen with your support and by attending the TOHR Annual Meeting on September 28th at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 5545 E 41st Street in Highland Plaza. See you at the Center. Win up to $10,000! the GREAT DIVIDE! $20/ticket Drawing in February 2007 GET YOUR TICKETS AT THE TULSA GLBTCOMMUNITY CENTER 5545 E 41st Street in Highland Plaza 3:00-9:00 PM Monday-Saturday �The 2006 Elections can change things for the better - or the worse - for the Oklahoma Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, Transgender (GLBT) & allied community. With your help, it’ll be for the better. Now is the time to register to vote if you’re not already registered or update your registration. It’s simple and fast. Just stop by the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 5545 E 41st Street, Monday through Saturday from 3:00-9:00 PM. The Voter Registration Form takes just about 5 minutes to complete. We’ll then send your completed form to the Tulsa County Election Board and you’ll be ready to help change Oklahoma for the better with your vote. Democrat Sue Barton, who won her party’s nomination last month, will face incumbent Frank Lucas in Oklahoma’s 3rd District. The 3rd District is Oklahoma’s largest and includes Osage, Pawnee, and parts of Creek counties. Barton has worked as an advocate for more than 20 years on behalf of children, youth and families, including working with Youth Services of Oklahoma. She is co-owner and director of barton.phillips and associates, a consulting company providing training and technical assistance to agencies that provide care for children and youth. A progressive Democrat, Barton’s campaign is focusing on affordable health care, a livable wage, preserving social security and fiscal accountability, among other issues. Frank Lucas, the Republican Incumbent who is running for his seventh term in Congress, operates a cattle ranch and farm in Roger Mills County. His website currently features his votes in Congress to keep the phrase "under God" in the pledge of allegiance, to forbid the use of federal money to print ballots in languages other than English, and against possible electric rate increases in rural areas. thank you Thanks to the dedication and hard work from volunteers and auction donors, Diversity Gala 2006 at the Gilcrease Museum achieved 35% over our goal! Thanks to all below who did so much to ensure a successful evening. Laura Belmonte Brent Be~Otolino Andrew Carter Stephen Eberle Greg Gatewood Janet Gearin Richard Hurtig Devre Jackson Lynn Jones Meagan Kauffman Dwight Kealiher Norman Kopp Lamont Lindstrom John Madigan Nancy & Joe McDonald Dennis Neill Tracey Norvell David Parsons Don Rush Andy Smith Keith Smith John Southard Linda Stevens A1 Triggs Michael Villafuerte Wendy Whysel Justice Waidner Ken Youngblood 818 Martini Bar Aberson’s Ernie Acala Christina Applegate Jimmy Black Brook Restaurant Burnett’s Flowers Cynthia Brumbaugh Can’abba’s Italian Grill Chalkboard Charleston’s Cisar-Holt Class Act Party Rental Council Oak Men’s Chorale Dr. Sean Costello, DDS Sarah Diggdon Dog Dish Amanda Earl Charles Faudree Flemings Garden Diva Garlic Rose Mitchell Garrett Gilcrease Museum Dale Gillman’s Antique Warehouse Lou & Jack Hodgson Kirk Holt Home Collection Ihloff Salon and Day Spa LaDonna’s on 15th Street Mark Lackey Loring Winery McGills McNellie’s Irish Pub Miss Jackson’s Salon Nielson’s Fine Gifts Margos PF Changs Prive Samson, et AI. Sheri-Mayer Designs Blane Snodgrass, OD Snow Goose Starbucks TA Lorton Julie Trainum Candance Trombka Thyme Bistro Tulsa Opera University of Tulsa Golf Bob VanFleet White Lion The Yoga Room Zeigler’s Framing �is tulsa moving forward? Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor Responds to TOHR The Advocacy Committee of Tulsa Oklahonmns tbr Human Rights (TOHR) works with allied organizations to monitor and defend the rights of’lulsa’s Gay, Lesbian, Bi-sexual & Transgender (GLBF) community. One of our major goals is to persuade the City of Tulsa to add "sexual orientation" and "gender identity" as listed categories on the City’s stataments of non discrimination. TOHR President Laura Behnonta, who also chairs TOHR’s Advocacy Comnfi/tee, recently contacted newly elected Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor requesting that City policy apply equally ta alI Tulsa citizens: Dear Mayor Taylor: [ am writing in regard to your call for ] ulsans to extol the virtues of our city in au effort to generate national interest in our amenities and oppo~lunities. While I agree entirely with your faith in Tulsa, I would also like to discuss a much-deserved negative aspect of Tulsa’s reputation. Many thoughtful citizens think our city is doomed if it does not take steps to protect and celebrate it’s diversity. This is particularly true in the gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender (GLBT) comlnunity. By some indices, Oklahol~aa ranks 45~h in the nation in terms of inclusion and civil rights protections for gay people. While Manford and Oklahoma County have amended their non-discrimination ordinances to encompass sexual orientation, Tulsa has not taken this vital step despite the fact that the city’s Human Rights Comnlission first began recommending such a change in 1975. As you undoubtedly know, GLBT people are an integral element of this city. We own dozens of businesses and employ thousands of people. We are doctors, lawyers, teachers, firefighters, police officers, m~d every other occupation under the sun. Eighty-six percent of Fortune 500 companies now explicitly protect their GLBT employees. Despite widespread and legitimate concern fbr the city’s economic futm~, Tulsa has refused to join over 300 cites across the United States including Cincinnati and Salt Lake City who have expanded their non-discrimination policies to ensure that sexual minorities are judged solely on their merits as employees, tenants, alld customers. In my capacity as a professor at Oklahoma State University. 1 have seen dozens of extremely promising ga~ people flee our state or refi~se job offers mainly because of the region’s reputation as a stronghold of intolerance. These individuals include a Rhodes Scholar nominee, t~vo Goldwater Fellows, and Ph.D.s from universities including Ha~ward. Yale, and Stanford. These are precisely tile type of professionals we must keep in and draw to Tulsa if we are to build tbe city to ,,~hich we aspire. You have broad support in tile GLBT community and we very much hope you wilI recti~ this glaring flaw in the fabric of our city. Sincerely, Laura A. Belmonte, Ph.D. Laura A. Belmonte, Ph.D. President, TOHR Chair, Say No to Hate Coalition June 8, 2006 Dear Dr. Belmonte: Thank you so much for raking the time to share your views regarding the City of Tulsa’s non-diseriinination policies. Please know tbat your input is impo~ant to me as I work through the mm~y issues facing our city. As you know, Tulsa is borne to a wonderful gathering of diverse and talented individuals and families. It is indeed one of our greatest strengtbs as a city and an asset that I recognize. As I have stated before; I am committed to making sure my appoinUnents on our many boards, commissions and trust authorities reflect the face of Tulsa. I am also committed to making sure our hiring policies are fair and nondiscriminatory. I am copying your le~er to the chairman of the Human Rights Commission for review and recommendations. Again, thank you for your letter and for keeping the best interests of Tulsa in mind. Sincerely, Kathy Taylor Mayor Tulsa Oklahomans for Htunan Rights (TOHR) will continue to work with Mayor Taylor, members of Tulsa’s City Council and ~ith the City of Tuls~’s Human Rights Commission to ensure that all Tulsans enjoy equal employntent, housing, and other rights. You cm~ coutact the mayor at hrcp:// www.cityofl~lsa.org/Reporting/ General.asp mad Tulsa City Council members at hltp:/ www.tulsacoun¢il.org/aboutcc.php �THERE WOULO BE NO WITHOUT LYNN RIGG3 Oklahoma’s has one of the best state songs around thanks to Rodgers and Hammerstein’s Oklahoma.~ (1943), a musical adaptation of Lynn Rigg’s play Green Grow the Lilacs (1931). Riggs was born in 1899 on a farm near Claremore. He escaped Oklahoma when he turned I8, surviving on odd jobs in Chicago and New York. He returned to Tulsa a year later and worked briefly as a reporter fbr the Oil and Gas Journal. Par~-Chemkee, Riggs used income from leasing his Claremore land allotment to attend the University of Oklahoma where he studied English and started to write poetry. Stress and illness (probably connected with a growing awareness of his homosexuality), however, prevented Riggs from graduating. Instead, in 1923. he left Norman and moved to Santa Fe at the invitation of gay poet Witter (Hal) Bynner (1881-1968) who had briefly taught at OU in 1922. Bynner, who edited the literary ~oumal the Laughing Horse, published a few of Rigg’s early poems. Bynner’s own Santa Fe home is now a gay-friendly Bed and Breakfast, the Inn of the Turquoise Bear. In Santa Fe, Riggs joined m~ literary and artistic circle that partly rotated around the wealthy Taos socialite Mabel Dodge Luhan who had talked bisexuaI British author D. H. Lawrence into moving to New Mexico. Along with Bynner, Rigg’s New Mexico friends included gay artist Cady Wells and gay novelist Myron Brinig. Bet~een 1935 and 1940, Riggs owned a home in Santa Fe located at 770 Acequia Madre. He also had an apartment in New York, at J Christophe~ St and also lived, for a few years, in France and Los Angeles working on Holly~vood movie screenplays These included 77~e Garden of Allah (1936), fe~taring Marlene Dietrich and Charles Boyer, Cecil B. DeMille’s The Ploinsman (1936) starring Gary Cooper and Jean Arthur, and also two early Basil Rathbone features, gT~erlock Homes and the Voice of Terror and Sherlock Holmes h! Washington. In Hollywood, Joan Crawford was a fgvorite beard. She gave Riggs a Scottish Terrier named Baron. Riggs only returned to Oklahoma for brief visits. One of these was to attend the History Project Memories John. D. Cutright, MSW, LCSW Counselor 8, Psychotherapist 4870 E Lewis Ave Suite 190 Tulsa, OK 74105 918.284.0123 Providing Mental Health Services for Children, Adolescents, Adults and Couples. �up DBAT ~tulsa oklahomans for human rights Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals and families tkrough advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Tulsa GLBT Conmaunity Center. Working for GLBT equality since 1980, TOHR is entering a new phase of its 26- year history. This Foil, the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, TOFIR’s largest cotrmaunity program, will move into its permanent home in dovcntown Tulsa. The 20+, and growing~ list of community-oriented programs directly affect over 25,000 individuals annually in Oklahoma and the surrounding areas. With the move to the permanent Center, and with your continued support, TOHR programs will reach thousands more - malting strides toward our mission of GLBT equality for Oklahoma. We invite you to visit the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 5545 E 41st Street to learn more of how you can be involved. We look forward to working with you to achieve the mission of equality for GLBT Oklahoma. New Association for GLBT Owners & Professionals Forms in Tulsa Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) is offering a new program for the Gay, Lesbian. Bisexual, Transgel~der (GLB~I) and allied community - Diversity Business Association Tulsa (DBAT), DBAT provides a forum Io the GLBT buslaess and professional comnmngy and its allies for tbe purpose of net,~orking, professiona! development, increasing visibility and strengthening reIationships among business and communb3, members. The new group is working with DBA in OKC to enhance statewide cooperation. The next DBAT session is Thursday, October 5th. 6:30-8:00 PM at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 5545 E 41st Street in Highland Plaza. At this meeting, we’ll explain the structure of the new group, sign up members, and discuss volunteer needs/opportunities. This session will also have a networking segment in which pm’dcipants can give a short presentation on their business. Our first official meeting will be held in the NEW Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 621 E 4tb Street in downtown Tulsa, on November 14th. Our program for this meeting will be on healthcare insurance and the new Oklahoma Healthcare Premium Assistance program for small businesses. For more information, please contact Su- for the record The new Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) Community Center in downtown Tulsa will open its doors none too soon as we’ll welcome 10.000 visitors (for the year) before the end of the December. During the first 8 months of this year, 7.631 visitors (a 305% increase in traffic compmed to last year) have helped make the Center a hotspot for community activities, meetings and special events. The David Bohnett CyberCenter is one of the fastest growing community programs. Teenagers to seniors, 2,029 in the past 8 months, utilize the I0 stateof-the-art computer stations for web access, research, chatting, homework, etc. on a daily basis. The oldest, continually operating community program of TOHR is the Tulsa GLBT Information Llae. In existence since 1982, the line averages nearly 10 calls per day, providing business/professional referrals, nightclub into/ locations and community event information to over 300 people per month. community resource kiosk hivtesting 20’something david bohnett cybementer the pride store nancy mcdonald rainbow library tulsa, .... ~-"communib! center Monday-Saturday 3to9PM o~,~o ~. ~/~t /~.o,~to tulsa glbtinfo line twe-spiritsociety tulsa area primetimers gender outreach t.u,l,s,a, ekklesia-the gathering much more �OUT,OK in Tulsa & OKC OUT OK, tbe longest-running GLBT film festival in Oklaboma. returns tbr another outrageous year of celluloid fun this October llth-22nd. OUT OK 5 is unleashing first-run, independent. gay movies in Tulsa and Oklahoma Cit2 . In addition to tbe vein popular ABSOLUT Cocktail Parties, OUT OK is proud to announce "In Concert with FUNNY KINDA GUY", following the screening of the riveting Scottish documentary of the same name. Direct from Scotland, Simon, a postop transperson will serenade us with his jazz-inspired tunes which have captured the Glasgow music and club Arguably the first gay sequel, writ- Right to Serve - 09.12.06 Tbe Soulforce "Right to Serve" Campaign is confi’ontiug tbe government-sanctioned discrimination of the military policy "Do~Et Ask, Don’t Tell." The U.S. House of Representatives is currently considering a repeal, however the legislation lacks support and needs public awareness to move it along. Direct actions began August 23rd witb genuine intentions to serve openly in the mititmy. Tbe next step is tbe "Right to Setwe" sit-in and demonstration on Tuesday, September 12 at I1:00 AM at the U.S. Army Recruitment Center, 6401 NW Expressway, OKC. For more in~brmatiou, please contact Michael E. Cich at michael.cich@okstate.edu. Walls - 09.21-23/28-30.06 An original production Walls aims to break down walls of fear through showing tbat wbetber black or wbite or gay or straigbt.., we are really not all that different. Walls tells tile story of two individuals - wbo bappeued to be women - that fall in love. Friends since they were 5, the story follows their lives showing that the journey of life is not that different for may of us. Written by a ~oup from Commmaity of Hope UCC, Walls hits tbe stage on SeNember 2Ist-23rd and September 28th-30th at Fellowship Congregational Churcb UCC. 29th & Harvard. Tickets range from $20 to $50 and are available by calling Community of Hope at 918.747.6300. McPride - 09.23.06 You’l! want to bead to Southeast Oklahoma on Saturday, September 23rd for tbe 2nd Annual McPride Family Picnic in McAlester. Chadick Park, near downtown McAlester, is the site of entertainment, information, games & more from 1 !:00 AM to 5:00 PM. Oklaboma’s Cowboy Crooner Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald, former MGO Kris Kobl of Tulsa, 100 Ways lead vocalist Susan Lea, OKC entertainer Stephanie DeBarge, Phillip Parker aud Michael Camfield beadline the entertaimnent for the day. Booths from across the state, including TOHR, the Ttdsa GLBT Community Center and the Pride Store, along with guest speakers, volleyball, and music will fill the park all day. TOHR Annual Meeting - 09.28.06 eNdirector Q.Allan Brocka returns with EATING OUT 2: SLOPPY SECONDS. Director Phillip J. Bartell re-introduces the cast of hot sex kittens, Gwen and Tiffani, man-whore Marc, awkward gay boy Kyle (Jim Verraros of American ldol 1), and a hot bubbling menu of All-American beef (see photo). Fine-dining at its dirtiestbest! Actors will in atl.endance. For more information, contact Philip Au at 918-682-4654, ex~ 3 or pau@out-ok.com The TOHR Annual Meeting, ~vith Awards & Recognitions, the State of the Organization, a Year in Review and Board of Director elections (please see page 4 for nominees), is Thursday, September 28th. The evening kicks off with the Tulsa GLBT Community, Center 10th Anuiversary Receptiou at 6:00 PM with celebratory drinks and refreshments. The evening also marks the last oft5cial TOHR function in a leased space, as the Center will be moving to its permanent home at 621 E 4th Street in the East End of downtown Tulsa later this year. See page 3 for more information on how you can help tbe move happen during voluuteer Weekend Workdays, and more information on the TOHR Annual Meeting. DBAT - 10.05.06 Diversity Busiuess Association Tulsa (DBAT), a new association program of TOHR tbr GLBT business owners aud professionals, has fanned in Tulsa. The uext meeting of DBAT is October 5th, 6:30-8:00 PM at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 5545 E 41st Street. The session features the structure of the new group, member sign-ups and a discussion for opportunities. There’ll also be a networking segment in which participants can give a sbort presentation on their business. For more information, please contact Susan Hartman ar slhartman@cox.net or 918.274.1699. AIDS Walk Tulsa 2006 - 10.07.06 All in Oklahoma wbo want to raise awareness of HIV/AIDS and help meet the needs for HIV prevention and care, are encouraged to participate in AIDS Walk Tulsa 2006 on Satmday, October 7th. The Ibstivities begin at 9:00 AM at Veterans Park, 1875 S Boulder, with refreshments and awards presented to the top individuals and teams Ibllowing the 2-mile walk. Tulsa’s 14th annual walk raises I~nds to support direct HIV/AIDS ser- �vices in Tulsa and reealves matching funds ~om a National AIDS Challenge Grant. The Tulsa AIDS Walk is a project of the Community Se~Mce Council of Greater Tulsa. Silver sponsors are the Gay & Lesbian Fund for Tulsa and Starbucks Coffee. Bronze sponsors are Ciao, Baby!, Evan Taylor Photography, MAC AIDS Fund, Miss Jackson’s Network-I.T.. Tulsa PFLAG and Tnlsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR). OUT OK - 10.11-21.06 OUT OK has more days, more movies, and more beautiful actors m~d talented flhmnakers than ever. OUT OK 5 opens with Stewart Wade’s delightfully romantic comedy of errors, COFFEE DATE. As a practical joke, gorgeous straight man, Todd, is sent on a blind date with hot gay man. Kelly. With hilarious performances from Wilson Cruz (My So-Called Life, Noah’s Arc), Oscar-nominated Sally Kirkland (Anna, Bruce Almighty), Jonathan Silvermm~ (Weekend at Bernie’s, Death Becomes Her), ninety’s teen singing sensation Deborah Gibson, and Jonathan Bray (King of Queens, The Practice), dating will never be the same. Director and actors will be in attendance. See page 8 for more information on more films and how to get one of the hottest tickets in town - OUT OK. Masterpieces of Hope- 10.14.06 It’s time for runaway fun on the runway for RAIN (Regional AIDS intercommunity Network)! Join RAIN and local fashion designers on Saturday, October 14th at the Tulsa Marrio~ Southern Hills at 1902 E 71st Street. The event benefits people living with H1V/AIDS. Enjoy dinner, dancing, and the auction of designer denim jackets, including a jacket designed by Todd Oldham. For more information, please call 918.834.4195 or visit the RAIN webahe at www.rainoklahommorg. OML 2007 - 10.20-22.06 T.U.L.S.A. (Tulsa Uniform & Leather Seekers Association) is proud to present the Oklahoma Mr. Leather 2007 weekend October 20-22, 2006. The weekend kicks off with a meet and greet, followed by a tour of niglatclubs on Friday evening. Saturday, October 21st is the big day with NLA-OKC Educational Classes during the day and the OML 2007 contest at Phoenix Rising in OKC at 10:00 PM. A Victory Brunch closes out the weekend. Visit w~vw.tulsaleather.com for more information. TestFest 2006 - 10.28.06 H.O.P.E. (Health Outreach. Prevention & Education) is gearing up for TestFest 2006 on Saturday, October 28, 2006. FREE 20-minute result HIV tests and additional STD testing will take place at the new Tulsa GLBT Communit3~ Center. 621 E 4th Street, from 11 AM to 7 PM. Log onto w~vw.hopetesting.org or vrvvw.tohr.org for more information. Harvest Festival - 10.28/29.06 The ne~v Tulsa GLBT Community Center will be the site of the Harvest Festival on SaParday & Sunday, October 28th & 29th. The FREE Festival features an array of booths and information with palm readings, card readings and much more from 11 AM to 8 PM. The Witches Ball on Saturday night from 8 PM ’til midnight is something you don’t want to miss. See www.witchesballtolsa.com for more information. �Julie Trainum TORCH: Where did you grow up? Where is home for you? JT: I grew up mostly in Ankeny, Iowa. I am a proud lowan. I came to Tulsa to attend TU back in the early 80’s. I have to say that I call Ttdsa my home. I’ve left several times but 1 keep moving back to Tulsa. I’ve got the "Take Me Back to Tulsa" disease...some may think that this qualifies as a mental health disorder ready for the DSM V! TORCH: When and wt~v did you get involved with TOHR? JT: I became involved in Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) because of three big reasons. First, in 1998, I had been working for a national organization to assist churches in becoming open and affimaing and I was motivated and interested in advocacy and education and the connecfion to TOHR was a good fit for my interests. Second, when 1 got involved in TOHR in 1999, I needed contact with the Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) community in Tulsa because I hadn’t been out for very long. I didn’t know very many people and it seemed a belter way to meet people for me than bars. Third, I began working with GLBT youth at Youth Services of Tulsa tions of TOHR would be of great assistance to youth who were struggling with their identities, family issues, and the need for healthy "out" role models. TORCH: Working fi)r Youth S~rvices of Tulsa, what are some oj the biggest challenges that young GLBT people face? JT: After working with youth over the past seven years, l think some of their challenges and issues have changed and yet some have not. Youth continue to need support and a safe environment to understand their sexuality. Media attention that GLBT persons have received over the past five years has produced a false sense of safety that says, in the genera! public’s eye, that "It’s okay to be gay." Unfortunately, this leaves off the second half of the point which is, "unless it is in MY family." At home and at school, youth continue to deal with a barrage of re]igious abuse and alienation. Schools are coming around to assisting these youth in allowing (under Title IX) Gay Straight Alliances. However, these youth face a lot of bureaucracy when establishing a group, and they still need advocacy and assistance from the community. And, of course, school bullying of selfidentified GLBT youth and their straight allies continues to be quite accepted locally and does not stop in school hallways, lunchrooms, and even classrooms. TORCI~’ Can you give us a preview of TOHR’s new programming fl~r young adults? JT: I am excited to see the 20Something goup getting offthe ground with TOHR. 1 have ce~ainly met many youth who couldn’t wait to be 21 and hit the bar scene only to be soon disappointed. And so many leave Tulsa for points more a~epting and open on the east coast or in ~e noghwest. This group w~nts to have a social connection and also one that wil! make a difference, whether they commit to working on a Habi~t House or in the AIDS Walk. We need these young adults in our communi~. We don’t have to wait for them to become the leaders of tomo~ow, because they are leaders today, mad we are behind them. TORCH: How can the new Tulsa GLBT Commu~li~y Center better se~we Tulsa area young adults? JT: The new Tulsa GLBT Community Center can be a place where youth and adults will learn froth each other and work together in a partnership. Yes, thel~ will be computers in the David Bohnett CyberCenter and other things like the Pride store, but there can be so much more! Career mentoring? Employment resources? Drama groups? Art shows? TOHR wishes to be a resource for advocacy and supporting GSAs, education, and other adult mentors. The Tulsa GLBT History Project alone is one of all youth’s greatest resources in understanding where the GLBT communi~ has been in Oklahoma, what it h~s accomplished, and how it has dealt with adversity. �TOHR Welcomes New StaffDkloho_ minis for Human Rights (TOHR) welcomes Sue Arrth~on 0z our part-time Office Manager. Sue has recently relocated to Oklahoma from Mhmeapoils, Mitmesota. Sue will be working with community volunteers at lhe Tulsa GLBT Community Center and assisting in the operational management of TOHR. Stop by the Tulsa GLBT Community Center soon to welcome Sue to the GLBT & allied community of Tulsa and Oklahoma. JOHN EDWARD ERICKSON Seeking any information about John Edward Erickson who was a student at the University of Tulsa during the summer of 1967, before moving back home to the Chicago Area. If anyone has information about John, please contact Phyllis Algeo at phyllisalgeo@yahoo.com. Phyllis is married to an old friend of John who would much like to reestablish ties. Tulsa Oklahomans tbr Human Rights (TOHR) will be celebrating the 10th Anniversary of the Tulsa GLBT Commtmity Center and charting a course for the filture with elections of a new Board of Directors during the TOHR Ammal Meeting on Thursday, September 28, 2006. The new and continuing slate of Board of Directors with their positions, and short bio’s are listed below: Paul Allen Laura Belmonte, Ph.D. President Brian K. Bertolino i! Chair of Special Events Steve W. Eberle Secretary, Co-chair Grants Committee Janet Gearin Chair of Event Colnmittee Lamont Lindstrom Co-chair Grants Committee Mike Mills 2nd Vice-President, Chab- of Board Jeremy Simmons Chair of Advocacy Andy Smith 1st Vice-President, (’hair of Facilities Commiltee, Capital Fund Trustee AI Triggs Co-Chair of Membership Julie A. Trainum Chair of Programming Tim Williams Chair of Public Relations - Marketing Kristopher Wilmes Co-Chair of Membership Paul Allen A [ifeloug resident of Bixby, Oklahoma, Paul holds a BS from Oklahoma State University and a MS from Northeastern State UniversilT. Fol~lerly employed as the Director of Business Services for a large medical group, he currently works as a Senior Consultant for GE Healthcare. Active in Council Oak Men’s Chorale for over six years, Paul currently serves on the Vocal Pride Foundation Board. Paui also has served as the Minister of Worship at MCC United iu Tulsa. He is finishing up serving on the Pyramid Prqiect Con]mittee and the Field of Dreams Committee for TOHR. Paul is the fnther of t~o children and enjoys participating in their many activities. Laura A. Belmonte, Ph.D. Raised in New York and Atlauta, Laura has lived in Tulsa since 1997. After graduating from the Universi~ of Georgia, she earned a doctorate at the University, of Virginia. She is currently an associate professor of American histo~T at OSU. She has served on the TOHR board since 2003 and is also the chair of the city’s Say No to Hate coalition. Her interests include Buddlfism. meditation, yoga, running, working out, golf, and film. Brian K. Bertolino II Brian was born and raised iu Hollywood, FL where he graduated from South Broward High. He has lived in Ttdsa for six years and has become active in onr commtmity believing that the younger generation needs to take an active role in the decisions that will affect them tomorrow. He has been a volunteer at the Community Center, and this year was the Entertainment Chair for Diversity Celebration - Tulsa Pride 2006! He plans to return to college this spring to pursue a career in event coordination for non-profit organizations. Stephen W. Eberle Steve ~vas born and raised in Albany, NY. Steve graduated from Texas A&M University in 1977 with a Bachelor of Science in Horticulture, the family business. Following a 16-year sales career with the Vaughan Seed Company of Chicago, Steve moved to Tulsa and sold to greenhouse and garden center accounts in Kansas and Oklahoma. His career then shifted to animal protection, a life-long passion, serving as Executive Director of the Washington County SPCA in Bartlesville for two years. That led to vohmteer work in animal protectiou legislation and successful campaigns to outlaw cockfighting, bear wrestling and horse tripping in Oklaho(Continued on page i 2) �opening of Oklahoma! in Tulsa’s Convention Hall (Brady Theater) in April 1947. Riggs had mixed memories of his boyhood state, describing Oklahomarts as "a suspect fraterniW, as fearful of being recognized by others as they were by themselves. Gamblers, traders, vagabonds, daredevils, fools. Men with a sickness, men with a distemper. Men disdainful of the set~led, the admired, the regular ways of life... Pioneers, eaten people." On the other hm~d, he wrote his play Green Grow the Lilacs featuring Oklahomans "who were not parsimonious of speech and ordinarily, not parched in flieir fruity enjoyment of life. These people were few and far between indeed; but they existed, uneaten, undisturbed, hearty, fertile~ and gay." Riggs had complicated relations with friends and lovers. He had only two longer-term partners, both younger: the Mexican artist Emdque GasqueMolina (who painted and wrote as Ramon Naya) and Gui Machado, a performer in Jos~ Limon’s New York dance company. With profits from Oklahoma!, Riggs bougbt a home on Shelter Island, off Long Island, where he died fi’om stomach cancer in 1958. Besides Green Grow the Lilacs, Riggs lel~ behind a legacy of poems and plays (including the experimental Cherokee Night). And who can ignore Oklahoma!’s lyrical plea? The farmer and the cowman should befriends, Oh, the farmer and the cowman Association of Oklahoma fbr three years, traiued as an Enviromnental Consultant and now provides environmental consulting and education to homes, schools and business through the University of Tulsa and Oklahoma State University. Steve has worked for the past 28 years with nearIy 50 different not-for-profits in Tulsa. priularily in fundraising and Board se~wice. Steve resides near downtown Tulsa, attends Iloly Family Cathedral and has a strong group of Iongtimc friends with a commol~ goal of serving those in need. Janet Gearln Oklahoma born and bred. Janet left Oklahoma to pursue degrees that would lead her into a career as a Psychiatric Clinical Specialist. Her first stop was in Denver where she speut 3 years getting her BS in Nursing. As a University of Colorado graduate, Janet then had to make a decisiou of where to go for her Masters degree. She chose the great city San Francisco and spent 2 years there getting that Clinical Specialist certification from the University of Califbrnia-San Francisco. Janet chose to return to her home state to be close to family aud to be the first Clinical Specialist to practice in the state of Oklaboma. She is now well into her 31st year with the Department of Veterm~s AB;airs. In the 1980’s, she began helping those with HIV and AIDS. She was among those who established the TOHR helpline. She was with Shanti for several years, served on its first Board of Directors, and worked as a facilitator for mauy support groups for friends, t:amily and persons with H1V/AIDS. Janet remembers the early d~ys of RAIN, PFLAG, and interfaith AIDS Ministries as organizations that led the way. She worked with the Community Service Council for a number of years to expand, build and organize community services. She spoke to many different groups-.from secretaries to Dental hygienists to other nurses during those years trying to build bridges oF support and assistance tbr the Gay community as well as those living with HIV/AIDS. In 1989, with the founding of Follies Revue, Inc., she Found her real passion. She served as President several years and helped Follies raise hundreds of thousands of dollars for HIV/AIDS sttpport and service organizations over a 10-year period of time. Since 2003, Janet has served on the TOHR board and she also works as a Center voluuteer on Friday evenings. Larnont Lindstrom Lamout currently serves as the 2nd Vice President of TOHR. Lamont received his Ph.D. from the Uuiversity of California at Berkeley and is a Professor of Anthrognlogy at the Univel’sity of Tulsa. Lamont is active in the Society of Gay and Lesbian Anthropologists and the advisor of the Unive~3ity of Tulsa’s BLGTA (Bi, Lesbian, Gay & Transgender Association). Michael Mills Michael has approximately twenty-five years of diverse experience in private industry and higher education. For the past eighteen years, he has held a variety of administrative management positions at The University of Tulsa, encomgnssing the areas of academic support services and student services administratiou. Currently, he holds the position of Associate Dean of Students and Director of Career Services and University and Community Setwice. Mr. Mills received his undergraduate degree from Oklahoma State University and his master’s degree from The University of Oklahoma. Mr. Mills has presented workshops on a variety of topics, including Resume Writing, Interview Techniques, Dress-for-Success, Business Etiquet*e, The Successful Job Search, and Effective Communication. He currently serves as VicePresident for Community Outreach on the Board of Directors for Youth Services of Tulsa. �(Cont#Tuedfrom page 12) Jeremy Simmons Jeremy grew up in Ramona, OK, lived in Stillwater for a few years, then moved to Tulsa in 1994. He began volunteering with TOHR’s HIV Testing Clinic at the beginning of 1996 and ~vas hired for outreach work that summer. He worked on various outreach contracts for the first several years that focused on HIV prevention for gay and bisexual men. This included testing and distributing condoms at the bars and facilitatiug groups like the weekly Coming Out Suppo~ Group. In 2001, he became the HOPE Testing Clinic Coordinator, which entails training new employees on HIV testing and makin gsure that everything runs smooth in the cliuic. He has also been active locally with the Human Rights Campaign (HRC) and was President of the BLGTA at TU. He is an HIV Instructor Trainer with the American Red Cross and helps out the OSU Prevention for Positives program. Andy Smith 22 years old, is a recent graduate of the University of Tulsa with a degree in Engineering Physics and works for the United States Department of Energy - Southwestern Power Administration. Andy is a transgender female-to-male individual who is diversely involved in the community. He currently serves as First Vice-President of TOHR, directs the Gender Outreach program for TOHR, is involved with the Community of Hope UCC, the musical group - The Key of Q, the leather comlnunity, OUTOK, and the Tulsa School of Metaphysics. Andy just recently celebrated his three-year anniversary with girlfriend Carrie Whitmarsh. A! Triggs AI is a graphic designer in the Tulsa area, is active in the Green Country Marketing Association and currently serves on the TOHR Board of Directors. He and his partnet live in mid-town Tulsa and are involved with the GLBT & allied community in numerous endeavors and avid supporters of community organizations. Juiie A. Trainum Julie holds a BS in Therapeutic Recreation from the University of Tulsa and an MDiv from Phillips Theological Seminary. She is the Health Education and Prevention Coordinator for Youth Se~wices of Tulsa. She works within the community building referral sources for youth to receive sexual health services. Julie provides educational seminars and classes to youth and parents on sexual health issues and healthy relationships. Julie also provides HIV testing and counseling in collaboration with H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic. She also trains medical staff and community leaders working with young adults in issues for GLBT youth and other hard to reach youth. At Youth Services, Julie co-facilitates "Out and Loud" a GLBT educational support group for youth. Tim Williams Born in Pawhuska, Oklahoma - the heart of the Osage Indian Nation, Tim and his family moved from there to Ardmore, Oklahoma and finally to Tulsa in 1970. Tim graduated from Union High School and began working in the food service indust~2 . Currently he is a caterer by trade; for the last 20+ years he has owned and operated his own company in Tulsa: TW’s-Anything for a Buck Catering. Specializing in Corporate Jet Catering, TW’s-AFAB Catering also has a faithful clientele in the corporate field as well as private and non-profit customers. The Company has a great reputation for donating their services to the community. His lifelong passion has been Historic Preservation and to that end, he currently serves on the City of Tulsa’s COA Committee of the Tulsa Historic Preservation Commission. Personally active in preservation, Tim has restored 12 houses in the Brady Heights Historic District (Continued on page 14) �where he currently resides in a 1909 Folk Victoriau SVIe home with his partner of 4 years. Jonathan Brown and their 120-pound adorable (log h’mnan. Tim served on the Pyramid Project Committee for TOHR and participates in the myriad of events and fnndraisers created fbr the benefit of the new Tnlsa GLBT Community Center. Kristopher Wilmes Born in Missouri. Kfistopher reIocated to TuIsa at a ve~ young age. lle loves enterraining Ills friends and ~amily at his mid-town borne with partner of 3 yeats, Dustin Gross and their 80 lb. Akita. His interests aIso include going to the theatre, walking Riverside Park with the dog, traveling and socializing with friends around town. Kris has a marketing degree from Northeastern State University. but was drawn to the profession of Human Resonrces right out of college. He has 10 years of HR experience at various companies in the Tulsa area, including: Olsten Staffing. MCI/ Worldco~n, and for the last two years at U.S. Cellular as an Associate Relations Manager, Itis professional focus is on leadership training, diversity and inclusion m~d employee relations. thank you The TOHR Board of Directors is a working board as menlbers govern the organization and perform many hands-on duties for the benefit of the organization and the community. Our deepest appreciation goes to several long-time members of the TOHR Board who are retiring this year. Thank you to Mark Bonney, Andrew Carter, Kelly Carter, Dwight Kealiher, John Madigan, Mike Redman, Linda Reis. Kaye Smith. Marcia Telukevich. Mike Villafuerte, and Ken Yonngblood for your years of service and dedication to tbe Gak, Lesbian. Bisexual, Transgender (GLBT) & allied community of Tulsa and all of Oklahoma. Your expertise, time and talents have benefited the community greatly - thank you. TOHR PARTNERS WITH OKLAHOMA COMPANIES & FOUNDATIONS Tulsa Oklahonums fi~r Human Rights (TOHR) thank~ the Tulsa-based Wil/iam~ Companies fi~r it~ recent generous grant oJ $ 7,146 to support technoloyy ~rowth in TOHR ’~ qf/orts to secure GLBT equality f~r Oklahoma, Grant funds ~ ill enhance the David Bohnett CyberCenter. A new ~erver and color lmerjet will greatly TOHR also thanks the Hille Foundation for it,s recent suppor¢ and ongoing ~artnership to ensure the Tulsa & Oklahoma GLBT & allied community are served through the various community-oriented pro~’ams qf TOHR. 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Text Any textual data included in the document Recognition of guests, Extended Family, Michelle Hoffman's tireless work on the video. Rene Potter, our dear friend from Tucson, coming to join us and provide this wonderful entertainment. For 27 years, OkEq has been here, working for equality, being a community supporter, providing outreach and services. For an organization which has grown from an annual budget of a few thousand dollars to one with a budget of a few hundred thousand dollars, one constant has been there, an absolute reliance on dedicated volunteers and board and recently a few loyal staff who work day in and day out for our important mission. I can only accept this very gracious gesture of OkEq by recognizing that every step of the way, what we have done has been a team effort sharing in our successes and dealing with our losses. We could not have done our important work without our allies and friends in the community. 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Rene Potter, our dear friend from Tucson, coming to join us and provide this wonderful entertainment. For 27 years, OkEq has been here, working for equality, being a community supporter, providing outreach and services. For an organization which has grown from an annual budget of a few thousand dollars to one with a budget of a few hundred thousand dollars, one constant has been there, an absolute reliance on dedicated volunteers and board and recently a few loyal staff who work day m and day out for our important mission. I can only accept this very gracious gesture of OkEq by recognizing that every step ofthe way, what we have done has been a team effort sharing in our successes and dealing with our losses. We could not have done our important work without our allies and friends in the community. And the partners who provide the support throughout the ups and downs. Thank you John. We now have a center the entire community can be proud of. This new home is here today and will be �here tomorrow. And for tomorrow’s generation. Most importantly, programs and services are offered to address a great need in education, advocacy and support. Services and space together imder one roof means that OkEq provides a beacon of acceptance in a nation, state and city which have yet to fully deal with their past and current biases. Without us, fighting on the frontier, where we would be? Where would the next generation find the voice for what is right? We should all have a renewed sense of hope for equality because ofrecent developments to which mmiy in this room have contributed and to which all of us support. Let us continue our efforts, together Thank you so much,I will never forget the true meaning ofthis night-teamwork for equality! � Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. 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Rene Potter, our dear friend from Tucson, coming to join us and provide this wonderful entertainment. For 27 years, OkEq has been here, working for equality, being a community supporter, providing outreach and services. For an organization which has grown from an annual budget of a few thousand dollars to one with a budget of a few hundred thousand dollars, one constant has been there, an absolute reliance on dedicated volunteers and board and recently a few loyal staff who work day m and day out for our important mission. I can only accept this very gracious gesture of OkEq by recognizing that every step ofthe way, what we have done has been a team effort sharing in our successes and dealing with our losses. We could not have done our important work without our allies and friends in the community. And the partners who provide the support throughout the ups and downs. Thank you John. We now have a center the entire community can be proud of. 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Great Sunday "Thursday Rates Eric Alva, 36, a native of San Antonio, was sworn into the U.S. Marine Corps when he was 19 years old after attending community college. He graduated from Southwest High School in 1989. Alva served in the Marine Corps for 13 years, and ~vas a member of the 3rd Battalion of the 7th Marines. At the age of 22 he was deployed to Somalia, and later he was stationed in Japan and Iraq. He re-enlisted following the Gulf War. ¯ Visitors center and area attraction ticket center o Jacuzzi king rooms for two° On-site weddings and wedding packages o Close to restaurants and attractions. Small pets allowed, Family reunions . Ozark ao.untain Motorcycle Tours of p.o, pular area destinations Picnic and barbecue area Group rates and package plans. Church group packages available . Friendliest atmosphere in Eureka Springs’ Family owned and operated. Trolley stop, Free tanning b for guests o Continental breakfast, Meeting hold 80 with full kitchen. On-site massage therapy center. Guest laundry. Center of all attractions On March 21, 2003, Marine StaffSgt. Alva was traveling in Iraq in a convoy to Basra with his battalion -- where he was in charge of 11 Marines -- when he stepped on a landmine, breaking his right arm and damaging his leg so badly that it needed to be amputated. Alva was awarded a Purple Heart and received a medical discharge from the military: Alva, the first American wounded in the war in Iraq, has been on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" and various TV news shows and has appeared in People magazine and major newspapers. Alva, who was a distance runner before his injury in Iraq, continues to run and ski with a prosthesis. Currently he is studying for a degree in social work in San Antonio where he lives with his partner, Darrell, to continue, he says, to work for "social justice." Eric recently became a National Spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign. He publicly announced, for the first time, that he is gay during a Capitol Hill press conference. .................................... Feature story on page-5 www.ozarksstar.com Call for toll free reservations: i =888-582o84 4 P.O. Box 430 o Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 479-253,950t the STAR 3 �On March 21, 2003, Alva was in charge of 11 Marines in a supply unit in Iraq when he stepped on a tandmine, losing his right leg. "Is Your Baby Gay? -What if You Could Know? What if You Could Do Something about It?" What is the history of"ONE, Inc.?" Founded in the early 1950s, was at the forefront of the nascent homophile movement. Eric Alva lobbies for repeal of "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" - page 5 ~ ~ ~AO TRAVEL Gay Travelers "Texas Mansion" & New Orleans, Go or Not? Out of Town " Puerto Vallarta, Mexico" "Now I shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish". Uncle Mikey changes course. Equality Riders Arrested - page 6 NDEX Repeal "DADT". ............ 5 Gay Gene ................ 10 James Nimo .............. 11 OUT in Arkansas ........... 12 Past Out .................. 14 The Wine Rack ............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions ............ 22 Star Scene ................ 24 Uncle Mikey ............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes ............... 28 Distributors ............... 29 Cartoons .................. 30 Classifieds ................ 31 MOVIES: "300" - page 25 STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �FIRST U.S. MILITARY SERVICE MEMBER TO BE WOUNDED tN IRAQ\VAR COMES OUT, URGES REPEAL OF ’DON’T ASK, DON’T TEL12 Eric Alva Named Human Rights Campaign National Spokesperson \VASHINGTON --February 28, 2007. Today, the first U.S. military personnel wounded in the Iraq war, retired Marine StaffSgt. Eric Alva, came out as a gay man. The Human Rights Campaign announced that Alva will serve as a national spokesperson in an effort to repeal the U.S. military’s discriminatory "Don’t Ask, Dodt Tell" policy. On March 21, 2003, Alva was in charge of 11 Marines in a supply unit in Iraq when he stepped on a landmine, losing his right leg. Alva spent months of rehabilitation at Walter Reed Army Hospital where he was visited by President Bush, First Lady Laura Bush and former Defense Secretary Donald Rumsfeld. He was awarded a Purple Heart for his service and received a medical discharge from the military. Alva publicly announced, for the first time, that he is gay today during a Capitol Hill press conference to reintroduce the Military Readiness Enhancement Act, legislation to repeal the ban against openly gay and lesbian Americans serving in the military. "When Eric Alva lost his leg in Iraq, it didn’t matter whether he was gay or straight, only that he was a courageous American serving his country," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "Eric’s voice represents the sacrifice of thousands of gay and lesbian service members fighting for the safety and freedom of all Americans. We believe his story should help move this issue forward and educate Congress as to why it’s so important to lift the discriminatory ban that compromises our nation’s security." "Any Americans willing to serve their country shouldn’t have to worry about whether or not the government will give them fair and equal treatment when they return home," said Alva. "My, proudest moment in the military came when I would confide in one of my friends about my sexual orientation, and they still treated me with the same respect as before. And although I’m no longer wearing the uniform of the U.S. Marine Corps, my mission continues to be protecting the rights and freedoms of all Americans." Show." He has also been profiled in severa! major newspapers and in People magazine. But today is the first time he has publicly talked about his sexual orientation in relation to his military service. "We salute Eric for his bravery on and off the battlefield," continued Solmonese. "The courage and sacrifice of gay and lesbian service members, like Eric Alva, should be heralded, not silenced." As spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign, Alva will raise awareness of the harmful effects of the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy through public appearances, media interviews and blog postings. Alva will also meet with key congressional leaders to urge the repeal of this costly, discriminatory policy during the Human Rights Campaign lobby day on Thursday, March 1. In 2005, the Government Accountability Office estimated that the cost to recruit and train replacements for enlisted service members separated under the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tel!" ban was more than $!90 million from fiscal years 1994 through 2003. Americans support allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly. The vast majority of Americans support the right of service members to serve openly and honestly, and the majority of service members are comfortable serving alongside gay and lesbian troops. In addition, numerous allies in the war on terror allow gays and lesbians to serve openly and proudly. ® 67% of civilians support allowing gays to serve openly. (Annenberg 2004 survey). In 2003, FOX News reported 64 percent support, and the Gallup organization 79 percent on a similar question. ® Nearly 3 in 4 troops (73%) say they are personally comfortable in the presence of gays and lesbians. (Zogby International & the Michael D. Palm Center 2006 study). o 1 in 4 U.S. troops who served in Afghanistan or Iraq knows a member of their unit who is gay. More than 55% of the troops who know a gay colleague said the presence of gays or lesbians in their unit is well known by others. (Zogby International). The DADT policy serves no purpose as troops already know and are comfortable serving alongside gays and lesbians. ® All published Pentagon studies, induding the 1993 Rand Report, conclude that there should be no special restrictions on service by gay personnel. ® 24 other nations, induding Great Britain, Australia, Canada and Israel, already allow open service by gays and lesbians, and none of the 24 report morale or recruitment problems. 9 nations allowing open service have fought alongside American troops in Operation Iraqi Freedom. In addition, 12 nations allowing open service fought alongside U.S. troops in Operation Enduring Freedom. * 23 of the 26 NATO nations allow gays and lesbians to serve openly and proudly. The United States, Turkey, and Portugal are the only NATO nations that forbid gays and lesbians from serving openly in the armed services. ® Federal CIA, FBI, DIA and Secret Service agents all serve proudly as openly gay and lesbian personnel fighting the war on terrorism. To support the "Military Readiness Enhancement Act" to repeal DADT, contact your elected officials today. Alva has widely discussed his recovery and the war through appearances on numerous TV news shows and "The Oprah Winfrey www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �By Jeanne Flanigan Photo by l~ctor Gorin: Reverend Kathy ~kIcCallie of Church of Open Arms with Casey ofEqualio, Ride OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The SoulForce Equality Ride bus arrived in Oklahoma City Tuesday, March 13, in preparation for a civil action at Oklahoma Baptist University in Shawnee. Twenty five riders were greeted by members and friends of Church of the Open Arms at a dinner that night. Their plan was to go to OBU the following day to talk to students there about the school not including sexual orientation in their anti-harassment policy. ~hursday the riders would go to OBU again, construct a tapestry of Pride rainbow colors, with affirmations, scriptures and personal messages to OBU students. Friday would be a de-stress day, with a BBQ held for students, riders, and community friends at \goodland Park in Shawnee. Events went as planned by OBU Action Coordinators, Rachel Loskill, Michigan, and Greg Johnson, OKC. Equality Riders went to the campus to try to talk to students, met with an administrator, and attempted to attend the chapel where a service was being held for students and faculty. OBU called the Shawnee Police to have the riders removed from campus, and 5 were arrested and held for 8 hours. SoulForce pays for bond and fines for each activist immediately upon arrest. It is not dear why the riders were held for so long. Loskill, who was arrested, said she and others prayed, meditated, and talked quietly while in jail. ~eir training is in nonviolent actions, which involve bringing forth love from your heart in speech and thought, even for those arresting and challenging you. Reaction to the civil disobedience was mixed, with some students saying that homosexuality is a sin, but finding the arrests shocking, upsetting, and unnecessary. Several students revealed to riders that ¯ they were hiding their sexuality while at OBU, and appreciated the riders’ attempt to enlighten the administrators and students. On Wednesday; the tapestry was constructed near OBU campus, and was brought to the wall near the student center, where 6 people were arrested. There was more community and student support this day, with 2 students arrested also. Another two students brought the tapestry into the student union. When the riders were allowed to leave and return to the bus, they were greeted with hugs of support for their commitment and courage to bring to life the .......................... Continued page-23 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTiSiNG today. 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �L LY TOML N AT THE PERFORMING ARTS CENTER "THE LADY ST LL ROCKS" By Victor Gorin Tulsa Pride 2007! United for Equality Photo left to right Chaz Ward, Lily Tomlin & Hctor Gorin back stage. June 2- June 9 Afew hundred people gathered at Chandler Park in 1982 for the first TULSA, OK__On March 18 Tulsans were treated to a night of timeless laughter when the legendary comedienne Lily Tomlin graced the stage of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center March 18. Playing to a packed house that included Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor, she entertained all ages, but the crowd surely had many who had probably seen her on "Rowan and Martin’s Laugh Id’ in times past, and of course a lot of family. Doing her one woman show she kept the pace lively, mLxing past and present laments, hopes and societal change that she proved had a funny side. She touched on the GLBT community, commenting that "when we start imitating heterosexuals, we’re going on a slippery slope." She also touched on politics, expressing admiration for "our duly elected president, A1 Gore." She took many of us down Memory Lane, bringing to life her many personas including Edith Anne, Trudy the Street Lady, Madame Lupe & of course the classic telephone operator Ernestine. pride celebration of the Tulsa lesbain, gay, bisexual & transgender (LGBT) & allied community. This June, over 15,000 individuals and families are expected to take part in the 25th Anniversary celebration of Tulsa Pride & Diversity 2007! oklahomans for equality (OkEq) * 621 E 4th Street * Tulsa. OK STAR Fan Discovered Fort Laudetda e! W’nile celebrating the past she and her audience shared together, she also talked about her present and future plans including her upcoming HBO series, "Twelve Miles of Bad Roads", where she will play a matriarch of a very rich Dallas real estate family In that series Mary Kay Place (Tulsa native & star of"Mary Hartman Mary Hartman’) will portray her sister and Leslie Jordan her cousin Kenny, Uniting the diverse audience together in laughter, she truly gave them a night to remember, and was proof positive that the gal’s still got it! FORT LAUDERDALE, FL Taylor, a senior at New York University is an avid fan of the STAR on-line. While vacationing in Fort Lauderdale he was delighted to get his first hard copy of the Ozarks Star Magazine. The Gay Travelers, Donald and Ray captured this photo of Taylor relaxing by the pool at the Grand Resort and Spa in Fort Lauderdale. wvvw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �an effort- to change a child’s inherent orientation, and-- he goes on to claim -- thereby fiwther the good ofhumanity and God’s glory. In this, Rev. Mohler crosses the line that merely separates differing opinions and moves into a realm that justifies violence against human beings who are created in God’s image. His suggestion is eerily Mengelean. Editor’s Note: The Reverend R. Albert ~lohlet; president of Soulhern Baptist Theolo~cal Seminaq and a long-#me leader in the Southern Baptist Conven#on, the largest Protestant denomination in the United States, su~ested he would support medical treamzent to change the sexuM orientatiou ofa~tus inside its mother~ womb ~om homosexual to heterosexual, fsuch treatment were available. Mohler floated the idea in his blog on 3£mvh Z 200Z STATEMENT BY The Reverend Elder Nancy L. Wilson Moderator Metropolitan Community Churches The use of Scripture and faith perspectives to justify prejudice and hatred, and ultimately our extinction as a people, cannot be condoned by anyone who "knows God’s love and acceptance for all creation. Today, on behalf of Metropolitan Communit,,# Churches, I am joining my voice with the rising chorus of those condemning Rev. Mohler’s shameful misuse of Scripture and science to inspire prospective parents to genetically eliminate LGBT people while simultaneously justifying our condemnation. Biological determination of sexual orientation, he maintains, would not "compromise or mitigate" Biblical condemnation of LGBT people because, he claims, we are the result of sin and God’s judgment. REMARKS: I read with horror the recent article by Nae Reverend R. Albert Mohler, President of Southern Baptist Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky, entitled "Is Your Baby Gay? What if You Could Know? What if You Could Do Something about It?" I beg to differ, Rev. Mohler. All life, including LGBT life, is the result of God’s love and God’s creative genius. All life is pronounced "good" by God. There are no exceptions. God knew us by name and knit us together in our mother’s wombs. This is the witness of Scripture. Generally we say someone or something has added "insult to injury." But Rev. Mohler has, I believe, done genuine harm to countless lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people (LGBT) who will read or be mistreated because of his words. And his rhetoric has accomplished something rise: It is an affront to the God-given quest to tear down the walls of separation between communions of the faith and create a future with hope and promise for all life. Rev Mohler also writes: "... The human genetic structure, along with evety other a~pect of creation, shows the pernicious effects ofthe Fall and of God’s judgment. The discovery of a biological basis for homosexuality would be ofgreat pastoral significance, allowingfor a greater understanding of why certain persons struggle with these particular sexual temptations. " With his chilling words, Rev. Mohler has accomplished something both startling and tragic: He has added injury to insult. Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people are not the result of sin or God’s judgment. If some LGBT people struggle with our identities, it is not because our orientations are in any way inherently sinful. ivly more than 35 years of affirming, supportive ministry to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people of faith reveal the underlying reasons why some LGBT people struggle with their own acceptance and identities: Here is Rev. Mohler’s suggestion: With a growing body of evidence to suggest that sexual orientation may in some measure be the result of biologicalfactors, Christians have a moral responsibility to use any medical advancements at their disposal, including experimental hormonal treatments for pre~ant women, in 10 the STAR Let me say clearly: -- It is because some of our brothers and sisters in Christ insist that we are an aberration, call for our virtual elimination from the human race, and advocate "unapologetic support" for "the use of any appropriate means" to change our God-given orientations. -- And it is because too many faith leaders have used their positions of authori9, and their publicly acclaimed voices to fan the flames of homophobia, leaving some LGBT people singed with unnecessary shame and false guilt. I thank God that the Scriptures offer the promise of a "more excellent way" (I Corinthian 12:31). MORE RETIRED MILITARY OFFICERS COME OUT TO SUPPORT REPEAL OF "DADT" Seven retired military officers publicly came out of the closet March 16th, hoping their actions will stir Congress to repeal "don’t ask, don’t tell" and force Gen. Peter Pace, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff; to apologize for calling gays "immoral" this week. The officers are all highly decorated and have earned numerous honors and commendations. They include Army Col. Stewart Bornhoft; NaW Capt. Joan E. Darrah, Naval Reserve Capt. Robert D. Dockendorff; Army Chaplain Col. Paul W. Dodd; Naval Reserve Capt. Sandra Geiselman; Army Col. E. A. Leonard and NaW Capt. Robert Michael Rankin. www.ozarksstar.com �We’ve been warned! Gay Needs to Get the of Wars! Why is the dogma of the United Church of Christ, which performs same-gender blessings, suppressed by the dogma of the Southern Baptist Convention? Why is Reformed Judaism held hostage to its cousin, Hasidim Judaism? By James Nimmo We’ve been warned! Religious fundies are going to now use the tactic of lobbying all 50 state legislatures to demand that Congress pass an anti-gay constitutional amendment outlawing same-gender marriage. (http:l/okstonewall.org/forums/index.php?topic=1663.0) Ever notice that the history ofhomophobia has nearly always been rooted in religious dogma? With the halting progress that gay equality has achieved in America, we’ve seen the spectacle of religious hypocrites advocating for strict opposite--gender marriage laws which they claim will stren~hen the "natural, god ordained" institution of marriage. But these same loud, in-your-face, self-appointed advocates of piety are very quiet when you ask them about opposing dNorce, the undoing of marriage. Nope, nary a negative word drops from their slavering lips. As they proclaim marriage to be a religious rite, they forget, or disingenuously disguise that they ever knew, that this right of marriage is only possible due to the issuance by the state in which they are living a license to marry. That is, the civil authority, not any religious corporation, is what makes a religious marriage ceremony valid under state and federal law. No one is compelled by law to have a religious prelate validate the state-issued marriage license. AW ot~cial described by law can complete the marriage license and the opposite-gendered couple is as married as if they had the Pope or any other suitably costumed ot~ciate, doing the honors. When legislators trumpet that marriage is a religious bond between heteros that should not be tampered with, they are ,nixing the emotion-laden desires of religion with the neutral point-of-view that civil justice requires. They are violating the First Amendment of the Constitution: Congress shall make no law honoring religion nor interfering with its practice. By this long-established legal precedent, the states which refuse to honor the request of same-gendered people for a marriage license are violating the b~asic premise of justice--previous decisions are used to provide consistency to the implementation of laws deemed necessary for a just society. Why is Roman Catholic dogma more authoritative than the Episcopal Church? (Interesting side note being that the Anglican Church of which the American branch is called Episcopal is only here as an historical relic of the need for Henry VIII to get a divorce.) Why should American cM1 law be immersed in the hornet’s nest of religious doctrinal disputes--the verbal equivalent of civi! war? Why does the "God" of the legislators and homophobes only seem to speak for the public record to them? The word "marriage" is a loaded religious word that carries hundreds of years of tradition that doesdt include gay people. "Civil union" is self-defining--no supernatural intrusion has weighed this phrase with oppression. That’s why I’m going to be agitating for la,vs to be passed that legalize civil unions, domestic partnerships, reciprocal benefits, whatever civil language is developed that recognizes the full citizenship of America’s gay people who want all the rights and benefits received by straight people. As Ms. Jo-Ann Adams of the Hawaii GLBT Caucus said recently in regard to Ha~vaii’s tabling of a marriage rights bill, "If you can’t give us the word, give us the rights." Spiritual gay people can always find a welcoming minister, rabbi, or priest that will bless them for as long as necessary. No homophobic religious building will ever be required to host a same gendered marriage ceremony, "and what sane couple would try to force such an imposition on that denomination’s property anyway? The time is here that our gay equality leaders recognize that our civil equality will not be won in an endless contest of dueling bible verses. Religious teachings are based on historical conflicts of a Bronze Age mentality that has very little to do with us here in the 21st century other than as examples of how ignorance should not be used to advance human decency. We need to declare victory and, indeed, march to our own drummer. What are we to make of the denominations which do honor the desire and need ofsame-gendered people to marry and receive the federal and state civil benefits given to those who have followed the procedures set out by state law’? http://www.marriageequality. ’ ’ org/meusa/facts.shtml~reh~lous . ’~" -vs - Clv!l www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 �A Sa£e P ace £or Recovering GLBTI’s EUPdSKA SPRINGS, AR__Recovery from alcoho!, drugs, sex or any other addictions is a challenge of a lifetime for anyone, but GLBTI’s, their spouses, friends and families really have it tough when they live in smaller towns. They themselves may not even realize what. they’re missing. Well meaning, but inadequately informed sponsors and mental health professionals, may erroneously assume an "addict is an addict" and sexual orientation or gender identity is not a significant factor. Specialized therapy and support are almost non-existent. Professional assistance may be sometimes tainted by the prejudices of those providing it, or at a minimum be limited by the caregivers’ lack of knowledge of those aspects of the GLBT socie~y that distin~dsh" itJ~ora the larger straight communi~ These limitations may become more pmnounced when one seeks assistance f~om mainstream sobriety self-help groups, where prejudices and lack of knowledge can be more glaring in lay men and women who, though sober; may lack professional helping skills. "-- Gayalcoholics. corn It is imperative to help create safe and supportive environments for GLBTI’s and their loved ones. With that goal in mind, starting this Spring, at least one regular meeting will be held on every Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Diversity Pride Events has enlisted the help of Marty Perry, Exec Director of the Pride Institute, one of the top experts in this rid& Mr. Perry will attend SPRING ’07 DIVERSITY WEEKEND and present a short 1/2 hour presentation for GLBTI’s & their Sponsors, friends and families on Saturday April 14, 2007 at 10am. An hour "Recovery in Pride" selfhelp group style meeting will follmv. In addition, Mr. Perry will return the following weekend during the 31 st Annual "SPRINGTIME IN THE OZARKS" Convention, 4/19 - 22, 2007. On Saturday April 21, 2007 at 3pm, for the first time, there will be a special one hour presentation for *Mental Health Professionals, Sponsors, & Allies of GLBTI’s in Recovery. An hour "Recovery in Pride" self-help group style meeting will follow. 12 the STAR (*Attn Mental Health Professionals and Sponsors, please RSVP for the presentation so we will have an idea of size of space needed) / anxiety, internalized heterosexism, identit), / self-esteem issues, and sexual issues need to be addressed simultaneously with the chemical dependency to assure optimal chances for successful recovery. Spring Diversity Weekend SAT 4-14-07 10am to Noon * Topic: Chemical Dependency / Mental Health In Our (LGBT) Community o 30 minute presentation followed by a 1 hour LGBT AA style meeting o Audience: LGBT and Allies attending Diversity Weekend This brief presentation will address why addictive behavior has become so prevalent in the LGBT community (studi~s estimate 25-50% of LGBT people struggle with an addictive behavior in their lifetime). Understanding hmv LGBT identity develops will guide us to what our needs may be as adults. For many, these unmet needs fuel addictive behavior and create barriers to successful recovery. Treatment, 12-Step support, and therapy ,vill be discussed as options to overcoming addiction and leading healthier lives. "Springtime in the Ozarks" Convention SAT 4-21-07 3pm to 5pro o Topic: Chemical Dependency in the LGBT Community o I hour presentation followed by a 1 hour LGBT AA style meeting ¯ Audience: Mental Health Professionals, Sponsors, Allies in Recovery This presentation will cover addictive behaviors and how they manifest in the LGBT population. Studies show that alcohol and drug addiction occurs in 6-8% of the mainstream population; in the LGBT population, however, addiction occurs in 18-24% of the population -- three times that in the mainstream population. Said another way, approximately 1 in 4 LGBT individuals (25%) have an addictive behavior issue at some point in their lives. Many studies suggest that this estimate is low; that true numbers may be nearer 40-50%, especially in urban areas. In order to address chemical dependency issues in the LGBT community, we must first understand the complex factors associated with chemical dependency in this specific population. Co-occurrence with depression Identifying / developing LGBT-friendly resources is a critical need of our communities if LGBT people are to have successful recoveries. We wdcome volunteers and encourage emails with any other resources for the GLBTI community with details and contact person/s to Recovery@diversitypride.com. Relevant Links: http://www.pride-institute.com http://wwvv.hp-h.com/p/arkansasaalspringtime.htm http://ww~v.diversitypride.com CONTACT INFO: Deborah Rose 479-253-2555 deborah@diversitypride.com Rodeo Time Litt ÷ Rock LITTLE ROCK, AR__Diamond State Rodeo Association (DS1LR) will ki& off the 2007 season for the four state area. Oklahoma (OGRA) will saddle up next for their event in Oklahoma City. Missouri is scheduled for September. Kansas has not released a date. 13th Annual DSRA "Rodeo In The Rock 2007" April 20-22, 2007 Arkansas State Fairgrounds Equestrian Center Schedule of Events: o Thursday, 4/19 - Welcome to Little Rock Party at the DSRA Clubhouse. o Friday, 4/20 - Registration at Fairgrounds plus Sparkles & Spurs Party at SideTracks in North Little Rock. o Saturday, 4/21 - Rodeo and Dinner/Dance at the Fairgrounds o Sunday, 4/22 - Rodeo and Awards at the Fairgrounds plus Last Roundup Party at DSRA Clubhouse. Go to w~vw.dsra.org for more info. www.ozarksstar.com �By Tim Gillea~ TULSA, OK__Openarms Youth Project (OYP) hosted twelve Boston University- undergraduates and their faculty chaperone during Boston. U’s spring break, from March 10th-17th. The college students chose Tulsa as the destination for their community service volunteer trip, with the goal of helping OYP complete several major planned improvements and upgrades. "Ihe group drove an astounding 30 hours in a van and arrived to a grand welcome and lunch served by Openarms youth and board members. After leaving for the hotel to catch a quick nap, they returned to have dinner and begin preparations fbr a week o£hard labor and clean up projects. PRELI~o~ TO ~a~$$ GAY OKLAHOMAAMER~CA During their week-long visit, the students improved almost every room at Openarms, including the dance floor and patio area. They worked long and hard getting all of the projects completed, from painting the walls and building a trestle for the newly-redone OYP stage to disposing of" excess rubbish and dusting most of the building. Beyond p!~ysical renovations, the Boston team helped even more by preparing dinner on "fhursday for the youth and leading a group discussion about coming out at school and the importance of attending college. ~ll~ey were also present for Wednesday’s movie night, where the crowd opted to watch the OYP Fashion Show video from last Pride week and then the Miss USofA pageant from 20O6. April 4, 2007 10:00 PM @The Copa, OKC OK CONTESTANT INQUIRES CALL MARK OR JAMES (NIKKI STARR) (580) 216-2715 must be 21 y~’s old to enter colt5294@yahoo.com w~w.ozarksstar.com The Boston group later got to enjoy an evening of dancing and relaxation compliments of David at the Club Majestic on Thursday. Finall> on Friday evening, the youth o£ Openarms hosted a special party for the Boston team. ~Ihey opened the center just like it was a Saturday- evening Social night, and they allowed everyone to come in free to dance and have some entertainment. Performances at the party included Daphne Rio, Lady Tamia, Damien Sky and special guest Melissa fi’om Boston University. It was great fun, and all the youth of Openarms were amazed to see all of the great improvements the Boston students were able to complete during their week in Tulsa. What a great experience for all of the youth and benefit for Openarms. the STAR 13 �WNat is the history of ONE Inc.? ONE Inc., founded in the early 1950s, was at the forefront of the nascent homophile movement, and has played an important role in preserving GLBT history and culture to the present day. In the wake of World War II, Los Angeles became the hub of a burgeoning homosexual community. In October 1952, two years after Harry Hay co-founded the Mattachine Society, several members decided to start the first gay magazine with a national circulation. The founding members included Dorr Legg, Donald Slater, Martin Block, Tony Reyes, Merton Bird, and Dale Jennings, who months earlier had becoine a movement hero when he successfully contested a false charge of sexual solicitation. The group was interracial from the start, and before long women took part, too, including Joan Corbin, Irma Wolf, and Stella Rush. In November, the group incorporated as an independent nonprofit organization called ONE Inc. - inspired by writer Thomas Carlyle’s "mystic bond of brotherhood that makes all men one." Its stated goal: "To promote the integration into society of such persons xvhose behavior varies from current moral and social standards." The first issue of ONE was published in January 1953. Along with essays, poetry, and book reviews, the magazine also featured the "Tangents" column by Jim Kepner, which compiled relevant news from around the world. Initially sold in gay bars for 25 cents, the magazine achieved a nationwide circulation of 5,000 copies by the end of the decade. By the mid-1950s, the Mattachine Society had ousted its founders and turned in a more conservative direction, leaving ONE Inc. as the community’s radical voice, promoting, in the words of historian John D’Emilio, "a stance of combative pride in being gay." In 1954, the Los Angeles postmaster refused to accept the October issue, branding it "obscene, lewd, lascivious, and filthy." ONE Inc. sued, and the case (ONE v. Olesen) made its way to the United States Supreme Court. In January 1958, the 14 the STAR high court unanimously overturned two lmver court rulings, affirming that gay publications were not, per se, obscene. ONE Inc. also made history as the first homophile organization to open a public office. Located in a run-down area of downtown Los Angeles, the two-room office became the first de facto gay community center. As the only visible homosexual presence outside the bars, the young organization began offering social services such as job placement and help for newcomers to the city. Legg, the group’s business manager, quit his job as an architect and was hired as the nascent movement’s first full-time paid employee, earning $25 per week. Within a few years, ONE began offering courses on various aspects of homosexuality and compiled a library of research materials. In 1956, Legg, Kepner, and retired University of Southern California (USC) professor Merritt Thompson established the ONE Institute of Homophile Studies, the first American academic institution dealing with gay issues. Two years later, the group created the first gay scholarly journal, the _ONE Institute Quarterly of Homophile Studies_. Kepner served as the initial editor, but left to concentrate on his own gay archives, which grew out of a collection of books and newspaper clippings he had started in the early 1940s. In 1964, ONE began receiving funding from female-to-male philanthropist Reed Erickson, which for tax purposes was funneled through a new nonprofit, the Institute for the Study of Human Resources (ISHR). But the influx of money spurred disagreement about ONE’s mission. In 1965, Legg, the chairman, installed his allies on ONE’s board, and Slater (then editor of ONE magazine) retaliated by removing the contents of ONE’s offices in a late-night raid. After a series of lawsuits, Slater obtained the organization’s property, while Legg retained exclusive use of the "ONE" name. Slater changed the title of his magazine to Tangents and founded the Homosexual Information Center. Legg’s faction contin ued to publish a separate magazine called ONE until 1968. Under Legg, the ONE Institute and ISHR coordinated the compilation of an extensive bibliography of homosexuality and offered a public lecture series featuring GLBT luminaries such as Harry Hay and writer Christopher Isherwood, as well as heterosexual allies, including psychologist Evelyn Hooker and sexologist Vern Bullough. In 1981, the ONE Institute Graduate School of Homophile Studies was accredited by California to offer the first raaster’s and doctoral degrees in GLBT studies. But the relationship between Legg and Erickson gre~v increasingly contentious, sparking a legal battle that consumed the organization’s attention well into the 1990s. By 1986, ONE stopped granting degrees, though it continued its lecture series and maintained its library; Legg exercised control over the institute until his death in 1994. In the mid-1990s, what remained of the ONE Institute and ISHR merged with Kepner’s International Gay and Lesbian Archives. In May 2001, the combined ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives - the largest collection of GLBT material in the world - opened in a building donated by USC. More than 50 years after its founding, ONE remains, according to its current mission statement, "dedicated to collecting, preserving, documenting, studying, and communicating our history, our challenges, and our aspirations." For further information: ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives: w~v. onearchives.org. D’Emilio, John. 1983. _Sexual Politics, Sexual Communities: The Making of a Homosexual Minority in the U.S., 1940-1970 (University of Chicago Press). Faderman, Lillian, and Stuart Timmons. 2006. Gay L.A. (Basic Books). www.ozarksstar.com �Employment Opportunity L,egal Notice $tate°s Leading Civil Libe ies Organic zation seeks a 20ohour week emNoyee. Duties include data entry in Quick Books; using Microsoft Front Page to post information on organizational website; using office equipment, filing and some research. He or she should have strong written and verbal communication skills. He or she should also be adequately proficient in basic mathematics, logic and organization. Retirees, people with disabilities, students, racial minorities, ethnic minorities, Gay men, Lesbians and bisexual or transgender people are encouraged to apply. Position could possibly become full-time later. Mail or FAX resumes with list of references to: J. Bell Attn: Personnel 3000 Paseo Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73103 email: jbell@coxinet.net FAX: 405-524-2296 No phone calls please. GLBT People Included in Federal Hate Crimes Legislation Introduced. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director NGLTF WASHINGTON, DC__"At long last, Congress is poised to recognize the reality of hate violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. It’s a disgrace that bigotry and ignorance have prevented Congress from taking real action to address hate crimes for nearly 20 years. "Federal laws embody the values of our nation and through this legislation Congress will say clearly and unequivocally that the people of this country reject and condemn all forms of hate violence, including crimes motivated by hatred of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. 3~ne symbolic importance of this cannot be overstated, particularly in light of the venomous disinformation campaign that has been waged against the bill by right-wing forces. "No one can deny the reality of hate violence against LGBT people -- in fact, almost everyone has seen it firsthand growing up. For the last 25 years, since we created our groundbreaking Anti-Violence Project in 1982, we have been working to get the federal government to take a stand against this scourge. Sadly, little progress has been made in the 17 years since Congress passed the Hate Crimes Statistics Act. Why? The hard but real answer is that right-wing forces would rather see anti-LGBT crimes go unaddressed by law enforcement than have the words ’sexual orientatioff or ’gender identity’ appear alongside other protected classes in federa! law. "This bill is important for the entire country because it adds or improves federal hate crimes protections based on race, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity and disability. www.ozarksstar.com Class Actior~ Sett~emeat FuR Cash Payers, Co-payers and their Heirs are Included You may be able to get cash from Who Represents You? The Court has appointed attorneys to represent the Consumer and TPPs who comprise the Class. Class Counsel wilt request the Court award fair and reasonable attorneys’ fees and costs not to exceed $3.96 million, plus reimbursement of expenses. You may him your own attorney, if you wish. However, you will What Is the Class Action About? be responsible for that attorney’s Plaintiffs claim that Defendants |~es and expenses. improperly marketed Serostim, a drng approved by FDA to treat What Are Your Options? HIV/AIDS wasting or cachexia. o If you do not want to be part of the Proposed Settlement, you The lawsuits claim that must exclude yourself, in Defendants encouraged doctors writing, postmarked by May 21, to prescribe Serostim based on 20!)7. Excluding yourself will diagnostic criteria that were not approved by FDA. The lawsuits allow you to bring your own do not allege that Serostim is claims against the DeK-ndants. dangerous to padent health, or -If you stay in the Setdement Class you can file a claim. Your that Serostim is not sate and claim must be posunarked by effective for its approved uses. July 19, 2007. All claim The Defendants deny any documentation submitted by liability and have decided m settle you will be kept confidential to avoid the expense and and will be used only for the uncertainty of litigation. purpose of proce~ssing claims. o You may object to or com.ment Who is Involved? on any part of the Proposed The Proposed Settlement Class Settlement. Your objection/ includes all persons or entities nationwide that paid in whole or comment must be written and postmarked by May 21, 2007. in pea~ for the drug Serosfim from July I, t995 to December 3I, Yon may also request in writing to speak at the Final Approval 2006, and their heirs. Hearing. The Notice of Proposed Class What Does the Proposed Action Settlement explains Settlement Provide? o $10.8 million will be allocamd excluding yourself, making a to certain large Third-Party claim, objecting/commenting and Payors (e.g., insurance requesting to speak at the Heating. companies) who have a separate agreement with the Wilt the Court Approve the Proposed Settlement? Defendants. - $13.2 million will be allocated The Court will hold a Final to the remaining Third-Party Approval Hearing on June 19, Payors (82%) and consmners 2(3)7 at 2:(3)p.m. and wil! consider (18%), after attorneys’ fees and wbether to approve the ~Opo~ the costs of administering the Settlement, award attorneys’ fees Proposed Settlement are and allow reimbursement of expends. deducted. a $24 million Proposed Seitlernent if you paid for the presm:ipdon drug Serostim. The Proposed Settlement is with Merck Serono International, S.A., Serono Laboratories, Inc., and EMD Serono, Inc. ("Defendants"). It is ~nding in the U.S. District Court for the District of Massachusetts. For Additienal information For the Notice of Proposed Class Action Settlement, information on your rights and how to file a claim: Call: 1-800-378-3615 ~s~t: ~.Serost~mge~lement.com or Write: Serostim Litigation Administrator c/o Complete Claim Solutions, LLC PO Box 24676, West Palm Beach, EL 334:~6 the STAR 15 ����"TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Don~d Pile & Ray ~qlliams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast CAFE POCA COSA Tucson, Arizona In what is arguably Tucson’s most creative Me,can restaurant, t~he chet7ovmer Suzar~a Devila prepares recipes inspk~d by ~ff ~t tenons of her native Mexico. fhe ~enn, w~ch ch~ges d~ k~clude chicken mole or pork pibil (made x~dth a tmg~ Yucatan becue season~g). Serv~gs ~ plenoM, and each ta~e gets a of warm corn tort~as and a bowl of beans to share. Or~te~ m~ davy Plato Poca Cosa. and the chef w~ select one bee£ one cNckeni one veget~rian enu:~e for you to sample. The bold-colored W~= h~g with Ladn Ame~cma art. It is worth makh~g the ~p to Tu just to dh-~e at tl~s restaurant. They are located at 1t0 E. Pen,~ St. in downtown T~acson. ~so wh~e ~ Tucson be s~e to Stay ~ t the Royal Elizabeth Bed and Breakfast inn. Their website is: ww~ro~,alelizaberh.com. By Donald Pile and Ray Williams New Orleans is aquestion on many traveler’s minds. Do you go or do you not go.> It would be great to say that the entire city has completely rebuilt itself since t~e devast£~ing hurricane how’eve~ it has not. "I?aNc lights are stin no! up and rhnning in many, parts of the cit> abandoned autos are ex er;~where and houses still’ stand emp~D~ and unlivable. Many business owners just simply Walked away and left. Others are trying to come bac~:, but ~;{th few tourist dollars coming in they are l~ar£1y making it. Such a shame, bu~ i{. is the truth. ~xTionths )}er~vards the core ~f the City is still a c0rn2 plete mess. We had several friends who ~ent for £,Iardi Gras thi} year was terribly disappointed and will never return. Right in the French Quarter ther£ is part of the hustle and bustle of~vhat used to be, but it just isn’t the same. ~e crime rate has exp!oded in New Orleans both in robberies ~ well as muggings. In great cities such as Chicago, New York CiD; San FranciSco a~d thd like, they would KNOW that they would HAVE to rebuild their cities if so~ething were to happen and the entire population of the City- would get behind the effort to rebuild. And they would do it quickly! In New Orleans however thousands oftheir ~esidents simply fled the;city and are staving asvay and the city government is not doing its job at all. 2Ihere is so much inner turmoil between all the departments. New Orleans was always a big parD’ town, and it seems that once the ~’party atmosphere" is gone that the city, is also gone. We have been to New Orleans several t!,mes before }he hu,yricane and enjoyed the citT, but it was always the part7 atmosphere that kept us ~oifig back a!l the time. Like So many things in li~, some things just are not meant to go on forever and ever, and we are afraid tfaat NeW Orleans is one of those things. We have been back once after WWW. ozarksstar.com �Puerto Vallarta, which has grown to become one of the world’s premier gay resort destinations, enjoys an enviable setting overlooking Bandera~ Bay (Photo by Andrew Collins) especially during the bustling high season (from about December through April), certain blocks of Zona Romantica seem at least as gay as the downtowns of Provincetown and Palm Springs. ~here are a few more general attributes that further enhance Puerto Vallartgs standing. Although the city has become significantly more expensive as its star has risen, it’s still less costly than many other alluring tropical resorts. Dinner entrees at top restaurants rarely cost more than $25 and often run $10 to $15. Hotel rates, cab rides, cocktails, fashionable clothing, and handcrafted gifts also tend to cost less than those in the Caribbean, Hawaii, or California, although it’s absolutely possible to find high-end exceptions to many of these rules. APRIL 2007 By Andrew Collins It’s hard to name a gay resort destination in North America that has more going for it than Puerto Vallarta, a fast-growing city on the Pacific Coast’s fabled Mexican Riviera. PV’s historic downtown ("El Centro") is nestled beneath the verdant slopes of the Sierra Madre Mountains. Just south of E1 Centro, in Zona Romantica, you’ll find a bustling gay scene comprising hip martini bars, pulsing dance clubs, relatively affordable hotels and condo rentals, and critically acclaimed restaurants. But there’s far more to this friendly city that offers everything from posh full-service resorts, exhilarating recreational activities, and gorgeous scenery. In recent years, PV has developed into one of Mexico’s most desirable resorts, its diverse elements appealing to a wide range of visitors. It’s a major port on the Mexican Riviera cruise-ship circuit (along with Cabo San Lucas, Mazatlan, Acapulco, and Manzanillo). Sprawling international resorts and condo developments, which have been built from the edge of downtown to many miles north of the city, attract families, retirees, and honeymooners. Sporting and adventure enthusiasts come for the zip-lining forest canopy tours, scuba diving, mountain biking, deep-sea fishing, and many other outdoorsy activities. With a population of roughly 220,000, Puerto Vallarta has seen huge growth in recent years, to the point that it bears little resemblance to the sleepy fishing port that provided the 1963 filming location for the movie version of Tennessee Williams’ The Night of the Iguana. Star Richard Burton and new love Elizabeth Taylor, ~vho joined him on the shoot, became entranced with the city - they bought a house here together during filming. Zona Romantica is a compact patchwork of hilly lanes tucked beneath the Sierra Madre foothills. The neighborhood fringes Los Muertos Beach, and narrow auto and pedestrian bridges connect the district with E1 Centro. The relative isolation of Zona Romantica as well as its elegantly faded veneer and historic charm may very well account for its ever-increasing draw among gay visitors and bohemian types. It’s a neighborhood that cdebrates its insularity and diversity - everyone is welcome, but 20 the STAR Although it helps to understand Spanish, you can get by easily in PV speaking only English. Adding to its draw, this city set stunningly in the center of Bahia de Banderas (the largest natural bay in Mexico) enjoys a spectacular climate. The city is generally dry and breezy with temperatures in the 80s, the exception being the summer rainy season (generally June through September), when highs often reach the low 90s and humidity can sometimes be oppressive. Puerto Vallarta receives far fewer visitors off-season, and some businesses dose for extended periods in summer. If you’re a fan of outdoor activities or are interested in some of the many side excursions available from this area, book a trip through the gay-friendly outfitter Vallarta Adventures. One excellent tour option is the company’s thrilling Outdoor Adventure, which entails a white-knuckle boat trip across the bay, folloxved by a bumpy mule ride up a hillside, zip-lining through a lush forest, and rappelling down waterfalls. The company also offers trips to colonial San Sebastian and bustling Guadalajara as well as whale-watching, scuba and snorkeling, sailing trips, and up-close encounters with bottlenose dolphins. PV has dozens of outstanding restaurants as well as a slew of hip bars, and the scene is continuously evolving, but among dining options, there are some "must tastes." At the upper end, don’t miss Care des Artistes, a sumptuous spot with refined service and rarefied contemporary cuisine. www.ozarksstar.com �For authentic regional Mexican food served in a &arming, warmly furnished dining room, try lesbian-owned E1 Arrayan. Boca Bento serves some of the tastiest fusion Latino-Asian fare in town, and the setting - a handsome historic hacienda - is quite elegant. Chiles and Kit-Kat are a pair of hip gay lounges that also serve reasonably priced lunch and dinner fare, and slightly more upscale Banana Cantina turns out superb contemporary Latin cuisine. For a snack, grab a sandwich or iced java at the gay-owned Coffee Cup, or enjoy a hearty meal at the campy gay diner, Mama Dolores. When the mood to socialize strikes you, keep in mind that things start late here and continue into the wee hours. The after-dinner crowd tends to congregate at one of the low-keyed lounges, such as lesbianowned Apaches, upscale La No&e, or the tiny but fun Stereo. Another great bet is Garbo, a jazz dub and piano cabaret that’s often packed. Bench and Bar, an import from Oakland, Calif., is a great Latino bar with lively drag shows. And just about everybody ends up at the city’s hottest gay dub, Manana’s, a stunning former hacienda with a big swimming pool in the center of its open-air lounge-and-dance area. "II~is spacious, trendy club also has a separate strip bar to one side, and a large show stage. This is just a sampling of favorite options - Puerto Vallarta has more than dozen gay bars. The city also offers a wide range of accommodations. Many gay travelers opt to stay in or near Zona Romantica, within walking distance of bars, but if you’d prefer to chill out at a large mainstream resort that’s a bit far from the fray and actually has a nicer beach than Los Muertos, consider the regal Marriott CasaMagna, a s~vanky full-service resort that’s just a short cab ride from the airport and enioys an enviable oceanfront setting. To be sure, it’s a mainstream property popular with families and honeymooners, but the management is very gay-friendly. This is a nice option, especially the day you arrive or the day before you leave, when it’s handy to be near the airport. The resort’s stunning new Ohtli spa, one of the most lavish on the Mexican Riviera, opened in February 2007. fasts each morning. This elegant hideaway, just a 10-minute walk from the beach, comprises three smartly furnished units, each with sweeping bay views. Amenities include an eight-person Jacuzzi and a theater room with a 70-in&-screen, plus satellite TV and free calls within North America. Puerto Vallarta dramatically any- is also home to one of the most alluring, situated gay resorts you’ll find where, the stellar Casa Cupula, which excels as much for its stately accommodations as for its friendly, knowledgeable, and charming staff. The main building comprises six rooms and two unbelievably lavish suites, and owner Don Pickens also rents out two cozier but still comfy rooms in his adjacent villa - these share a with unparalleled of the city and Banderas Bay. Casa Cupula has also developed the ~vorld’s first gay condo hotel - these seven residences adjacent to the inn are currently under construction and for sale (for full or fractional ownership). Facilities - for the inn and the condos - include a well-stocked gym, a pool, and a large open-air lounge with adjacent computer room. The property, which tumbles down a hillside high above Zona Romantica, is a 10- to 15minute walk from the gay beach and the many bars and restaurants. But once you’ve spent a little time relaxing here, away from the crowds and in full view of Puerto Vallarta’s stunning shoreline, you may find it hard to leave this romantic resort. In Zona Romantica, you’ll find a nice mix of gay-friendly options. If you’re on a budget and seek a clean, comfortable, and friendly gay property in the center of the action, check into the 28-room Hotel Mercurio, which is just steps from many gay bars and restaurants (and two blocks from the beach), and offers compact but pleasant rooms and a youthful, social vibe - there’s always plenty of frolicking going on around the pool, and the staffis super-friendly. PV’s famed Blue Chairs Resort is a six-story hotel right on the gay beach - the location couldn’t be better, but the property underwent some major management changes recently, and it remains to be seen how this will affect the quality of the place. An intimate gay B&B with a stunning view and a quiet location in the upscale Con&as Chinas district just south of Zona Romantica, the lovely Arco Iris B&B is run by helpful owners Ran and Thom - the latter is a expert chef who whips up amazingly tasty break www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �APRIL 2007 Spoiled for Choice Who ~vould have ever thought that gay Republicans ~vould be spoiled for choice in the upcoming presidential primaries? 2Pnere are actually two Republican contenders who support us, in some way, although with reservations, caveats, and conditions. Neither supports same-sex marriage. But let’s be honest - neither do the leading Democrats. Rudy Giuliani is solidly in the civil union camp, with a record of signing a generous domestic-partner law into effect when he was New York City’s mayor. He supports gay rights - anti-discrimination and hate crimes laws - and ~vhen his marriage to Donna Hanover hit the skids, he moved in with a gay couple so that he could canoodle with his then-girlfriend, now-wife, Judith Nathan. So I guess you can say that both personally and politically, he’s OK with the gays. (For a hysterical bit of him in drag, go to ~wcw.youtube.com/watch?v=4IrE6FMpai8.) Giuliani is also pro-choice, although he tries to mollify the radical Christian Republicans on the abortion issue with his undying love and affection for Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia (clearly antichoice), and his contention that, as president, he would appoint strict constitutional constructionists. Another issue where Giuliani diverges with the radical Christian mullahs guiding the moral center of the GOP is gun control. They’re against, and, of course, Giuliani supports it - he wa~ the mayor of New York. He brought down crime by taking guns off the street - and giving unprecedented power to the police department. He also cleaned up the city. I’m sure there are many in the Big Apple’s LGBT community who considered Giuliani’s actions to be sanitizing the city, not just cleaning it up. But for this girl from Long Island who has spent the last 30 years living in Albany, I have to tell you it is nice to go visit and feel safe on the streets. Yes, Disney may have taken over 42nd Street, but, from my perspective, I’d rather see The Lion King than signs for "Girls, Girls, Girls," and guys, guys, guys walking out of peep shows with their zippers still undone. Then there’s U.S. Sen. John McCain (Ariz.). While Rudy’s popularity surges as he supports the troop surge in Iraq, McCain’s campaign is faltering under the weight of his support for the ~var. Go figure. When it comes to our issues, McCain supports basic civil rights for LGBT people - like protection from being fired from your job or thrown out of your apartment - but is a little schizophrenic when it comes to marriage equality. He was vocal in his opposition to the federal amendment to ban same-sex marriage, but then in 2006 supported an amendment to his state’s constitution that would have also denied recognition to any type of legal status for our relationships. Thankfully, the voters didn’t listen, and the state amendment failed 51 percent to 49. McCain is also not a darling of the Christian right. He’s gotten into some hot water with them over the years. They were categorically dismayed by his opposition to the federal amendment and for taking Bob Jones University to task during his 2000 presidential bid. The school, a Christian fundamentalist college, bans interracial dating - McCain thinks that’s not right. However, McCain’s penchant for power is outpacing his politics. He has been playing footsie with Jerry Falwell and recently spoke at a pro-abstinence event in South Carolina. McCain’s actions, however, don’t play with political idiot savant James Dobson of Focus on the Family, who says "no way’’ to McCain. In an attempt to deflect attention away from his lukewarm support for us, McCain’s camp intends to target Mitt Romney,s flip-flopping on LGBT issues. McCain has hired Rob Gray, a former Romney political operative out of Boston, to help him shape his New England strategy and pick away at Mitt’s new-found social conservatism. Rudy Giuliani and John McCain - are gay Republicans spoiled for choice, or faced with pretty slim pickings? If the country continues in the direction it’s headed, it really won’t matter - the electorate will be so sick and tired of Bush and Iraq, they’ll clamor for the antiGeorge candidate, the Democratic nominee. And then there’s 9/11. Almost six years after the fact, Giuliani is still considered ’~rnerica’s Mayor." When he starts talking about fighting terrorism, he has a credibility- whether you agree with him or not - that can’t be undermined by political doublespeak, Democratic or Republican. While some radical Christians may have trouble with Rudy because he’s been divorced t~vice and is pro-gay-rights and pro-choice, the looking-for-a-reason-to-get-excited, middle-of-the-road Republicans (as well as independents) may well get energized by his tough stand on terror. Like no other candidate for either side, he can talk about our borders being breached by terrorists and the impact it had on this nation’s greatest city. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �SoulForce motto: Freedom for LGBT people from religious and political oppression through the practice of relentless nonviolent resistance. The BBQ in the park was a great way to unwind after a couple of tense days, even for seasoned veterans of the ride. Many people from the community and student body came out for the free food and fellowship. Several riders attended the Peace Rally at the capitol on Saturday, and Sunday they headed to Dallas and Baylor University. Riders expressed various reactions to their challenging days. They said that each person experiences each arrest differently. Some of the riders have been arrested for a misdemeanor in several states, with SoulForce la~vyers standing in for them at hearings after they had gone on to other locations. They all make a commitment to non-violence in their application process, and bond together through this mutual experience. The misdemeanors show up on their records, and have to be explained to employers, friends and family, and, in one case, Divinity School. Jays Tat~nt Seaxch ~ Call Toaay (405)946~5297 See 0u¢" Display Ads in Fr~Sb~an ~ Men Mag~e Equality Rider founder Katie Higgins is a rider with this bus, called the East Bus, which loops down from Iowa to Oklahoma and Texas, to Mississippi, Georgia, then up to Pennsylvania, and back to Minnesota. The West Bus goes from Indiana, to Kansas, Utah, California and Oregon, then back through Montana to Minnesota. This year 32 colleges are targeted, mostly for having policies banning the enrollment of openly LGBT students. SoulForce is supported by many individuals, foundations, businesses, and corporations. Details about the buses and their destinations, sponsoring the riders, and a blog from the road are on the SoulForce website: www.soulforce.org Videos and books are also available. Equality Ride East Bus wants to thank Church of the Open Arms, OKC Cathedral of Hope, Stilhvater and OKC PFLAG, SODA, Cimarron Alliance and the Habana Inn for supporting their stay in Oklahoma. ~wvw.0zarksstar.c0m Creating Community for People iving H V!A1D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.com. 1 oz. White crer Ch0c0 ate stick for garnish (optional) Pour liquid ingredients into mixing glass. Add ice and to chill. Strain into martini glass and garnish chocolate stick. h The STAR 23 ��Starring: Gerard Butler; Lena Headey ; Michael Fassbender If your fantasy is naked Gladiators and drop dead gorgeous hunks with not an ounce of body fat, "300" is a must see. ~he women aren’t to shabby either. As Marc Breindel of Planet Out said in his review, "We’re not just talking pretty boys here, although every man in "300" is movie~star handsome. They’re also the baddest-ass near-naked, body-armor-bedamned fighters since "Fight Club." Each one of the 300 semimude warriors from the movie’s title fights to the death for Sparta, skewering or decapitating every overdressed Persian soldier he can get his bloody sword on. It’s a battle of shirts versus skins, with the gloriously skin-baring, zero-body-fat Greeks taking the day in the audience’s heart, at least." "Occasionally the testosterone overflows to uncomfortable levels of machismo. Leonidas curses his supposedly wimpy allies in neighboring Athens as "philosophers and boy-lovers." In fact, scholars credit Sparta with initiating the culture of Greek homoeroticism as part of its military indoctrination; Leonidas himself is raised away from home by men, spending a good portion of his adolescence wrestling guys in underwear. " 300 is a 2007 film adaptation of the graphic novel 300 by Frank Miller, itself a fictionalized account of the Battle of Thermopylae in 480 BC. ~-he film is directed by Zack Snyder with Frank Miller attached as an executive producer and constfltant, and was shot mostly with bluescreen to duplicate the imagery of the original comic book. Spartan King Leonidas (Gerard Butler) and 300 Spartans fight to the last man against Persian King Xerxes (Rodrigo Santoro) and his army of more than one million soldiers. "~e sacrifice of the Spartans inspires all of Greece to unite against the Persian invaders. In Sparta, Queen Gorgo (Lena Headey) attempts to rally support for her husband. ~l-he story is flamed by a voice-over narrauve by the Spartan soldier Dilios (David Wenham). As 300 uses historical narrative to introduce fantastic creatures, it fits within the genre of historical fantasy. 300 was released in both conventional and IMAX theaters in America on March 9, 2007. The film broke box office records, although critics were dMded over its look and style. Some acclaimed itas an original achievement, while others accused it of favoring visuals over characterizatiom Controversy arose over its depiction of the ancient Persian and Greek civilizations. "STAR TREK" New Movie Will Have Gay Characters[ "Star Trek" has always had a tremendous gay following, but has al~vays been void of a definitive GLBT character. 7his will soon be rectified by "Star Trek" New Voyages "who produces homespun but highly slick short movies is making a queer Web episode. As pre-production on David Gerrold’s "Blood and Fire" continues, additional guest cast members are announced for the upcoming episode. Bobby Rice is already slated to join the New Voyages crew as Ensign Peter Kirk, nephew of Captain James Kirk. A recent addition to the team is Evan Fowler, who will play Lt. Alex Freeman, a significantly pivotal role in "Blood and Fire." This story will center around Capt. James T. Kirk’s nephew, Ensign Peter Kirk (played by Bobby Rice) and his boyfriend, Lt. Alex Freeman (Evan Fowler). It is scheduled to shoot in June. For more info: wwv.startreknewvoyages.com the STAR 25 �by Michael Hinzman Salutations Kittens- Uncle Mikey here... \Vvrhat a year it is turning out to be - not only has Mr. Tiddles gotten a tummy tuck, but I am learning to accept those that are less fabulous than yours trul}~. Yes, this is a new uncle which shall reach out to those that need that special touch, and touch them I shall. We find a female and an African American presidential hopeful, a stronger policy protecting our brothers and sisters in the military, same sex couples adopting children into their fashionably superior loving homes not to mention the wonderful new personal care products for men now on the market. What an exciting time it is in our country. Uncle has a dream of a rainbow election not too far off in the distance. Can you imagine the White house White parties? search you sought from me. Even the lovely Chef* John left a special warm memory in my heart, one that is keeping Uncle selfinspired on those chilly spring evenings. Moreover, it is onto bigger issues for this Queen. Yes, Uncle Mikey has been called to arms by those in the community. Uncle shall be writing articles in depth on a plethora ranging from the paramount as well as the delicious. Look for big things here Kittens. As that ciga,ette smoking tart, Virginia Slim, would say, "We’ve come a long way baby!" It has truly been Uncle’s pleasure, being the house Guru here at the Star for so long. I have watched as our widdle family has grown and became a publication of great pride and high standard. Now l shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish. Uncle is just full of Pride kittens, as I watch my community grow in strength, pride, and most of all, knowing that Uncle has become a part of your community, here at the Star family. Chaz has truly built something great and Uncle firmly believes the best is yet to come. Keep reading and support your family. Yes, it has been such a roller coaster of a ride with the Twinks seeking the delightful substance of wishes while the lesbians sought sanity within their U-haul contracts. -Yes, Uncle remembers all and even those that he couldn’t forget at gunpoint. Yes, Crisco boy! I have still not recovered from the deep 26 the STAR Yes Kittens, Uncle Mikey is moving onward and upward (maybe even underward), as I continue to serve the gay community. After all, we all know servicing is in a queen’s nature, Wherever there is a lonely man (of course, pending a credit check) I’ll be there. Where there is a Twink in the night, I’ll be there too. Uncle Mikey is not leaving you, just spreading those glittery wings and flying over Queerdom, seeking only to serve his fellow man and sister alike. Ok, so maybe my service wil! be more in depth with the male members of the community, however, I am there for my sisters too. a Queenly touch? Name the hot issue that you want to hear Uncle Mikey take on. Drop a line and share your thoughts. Uncle ~vill take on the issues with his Queenly flare. Write to Uncle at Unclemikey4you@ ao!.com and tell what is on your mind. Your man on the scene, no matter how many locker rooms, steam houses, underwear shoots, Uncle Mikey will go down to into the depths to get the scoop! Uncle shall talk about the Hollywood slim down, the Washington ho dmvn, yes Uncle shall be there when the ho does fall. No issue too scandalous, no dish to sweet for uncle to serve. You can count on a view gaily straight. No issue to small, no issue to big. Uncle Mikey shall take them all! You know, they have been saying it for years in the ladies room, Now I shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish. Just as a face can launch a thousand ships, a single voice can overcome the silent ignorance which has ran amuck for so long, so Queerdom stand proud and be heard! Watch the upcoming issues for the new face of the scene... Smooches-Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too... AKA The Ass Whisperer Contact: Undemikey4you@aol.com As ~ve move forward Uncle wants to hear from his readers. Know a topic that needs www.ozarksstar.com �EASTER SUNDAY BANIBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, 5th Annual Easter Bonnet Contest CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show" lOpm THE COPA: Rachad Erikks Show 10:30pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachae! 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It’s a good time for dance lessons, martial arts, spiritual pursuits, or meditation, but a challenging time to accomplish anything. Try to stick to established plans. If that becomes difficult, let go of the process and stay focused on the goal. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Lately, you’re especially outspoken, but logic deserts you now. You can argue about artistic matters, but most academic ideas will leave you swimming. Political arguments could best be made satirically - maybe through a drag persona. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Beware of hidden costs, balloon payments, and other sudden expenses popping out of nowhere. Making charitable donations could help, but be sure you know where that money is going. Treating buddies to drinks is not charitable! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Recent plans you made with friends can get lost in the shuffle or morph into something unexpected. It doesn’t matter, as long as enjoying their company remains most important. Exuberant drinking or drugging could be a problem. Collaborate instead on some community service. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Your energy has been high, but your focus is getting weak, which could make you especially susceptible to accidents or simple screw-ups in anything you try. Go slow and easy, and take time out to meditate and clear your busy brain. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your increased efforts at work could be misguided, causing confusion, perhaps even arguments, with the boss. Swallow your pride. A humble, flexible approach will work best in the long run, even if it’s uncomfortable now. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Mars entering your sign makes you forceful - but to what end? You could experience some sexual magnetism, but you need to decide with whom to enjoy it. A quiet retreat is recommended now, but you don’t have to be all alone! GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): It seems you have so much to say, but your usually well-organized thoughts are a mad, impressionist jumble. Whenever you feel logic-impaired, explore the illogical. New artistic and/or musical experiences will offer great, original insights. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Recent adventures in sexual exploration can leave you wondering, _Is that all there is?_ Never! Erotic technique is not emotional connection. Your emotional desires may exceed real possibilities. Enjoying fantasies is fine - as long as you remember that’s all they are. SPIR~T OF CHRIST JOPLIN, MO LEO (July 23 - August 22): Recent changes in your partnership are running into confusion. You could let go of logic and old expectations and enjoy a sensual, poetic adventure. Just avoid anything involving legal obligations or entanglements. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Be especially careful of your health. Moderate your exercise, and guard against anything that’s going around while you are so susceptible. If you’re working too hard, stop, think, focus on the goal, and rethink your approach. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Kick up your heels and dance! Physical activity will open creative channels, but you’re a little spacey for sporting events. Dancing, tai chi, swimming, and meditative jogs are good. Still, be careful. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Resist the urge to stay at home, for whatever "good reasons." Get involved in something to help your neighborhood or community. You have a lot more to offer, and to gain, than you realize! 28 the STAR FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appointment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to o~ Community Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. 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Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document The 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Eric Alva, 36, a native of San Antonio, was sworn into the U.S. Marine Corps when he was 19 years old after attending community college. He graduated from Southwest High School in 1989. Alva served in the Marine Corps for 13 years, and ~vas a member of the 3rd Battalion of the 7th Marines. At the age of 22 he was deployed to Somalia, and later he was stationed in Japan and Iraq. He re-enlisted following the Gulf War. On March 21, 2003, Marine StaffSgt. Alva was traveling in Iraq in a convoy to Basra with his battalion -- where he was in charge of 11 Marines -- when he stepped on a landmine, breaking his right arm and damaging his leg so badly that it needed to be amputated. Alva was awarded a Purple Heart and received a medical discharge from the military: Alva, the first American wounded in the war in Iraq, has been on "The Oprah Winfrey Show" and various TV news shows and has appeared in People magazine and major newspapers. Alva, who was a distance runner before his injury in Iraq, continues to run and ski with a prosthesis. Currently he is studying for a degree in social work in San Antonio where he lives with his partner, Darrell, to continue, he says, to work for "social justice." Eric recently became a National Spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign. He publicly announced, for the first time, that he is gay during a Capitol Hill press conference. ....................................Feature story on page-5 www.ozarksstar.com No Surprises Staying with:, Rodeway Inn Ozarks Family Owned! 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Eric Alva lobbies for repeal of "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" - page 5 NDEX Repeal "DADT". ............5 Gay Gene................ 10 James Nimo .............. 11 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Past Out.................. 14 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds................ 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Equality Riders Arrested - page 6 MOVIES: "300" - page 25 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA * LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com FIRST U.S. MILITARY SERVICE MEMBER TO BEWOUNDED tN IRAQ\VAR COMES OUT, URGES REPEAL OF ’DON’T ASK, DON’T TEL12 Eric Alva Named Human Rights Campaign National Spokesperson \VASHINGTON --February 28, 2007. Today, the first U.S. military personnel wounded in the Iraq war, retired Marine StaffSgt. Eric Alva, came out as a gay man. The Human Rights Campaign announced that Alva will serve as a national spokesperson in an effort to repeal the U.S. military’s discriminatory "Don’t Ask, Dodt Tell" policy. On March 21, 2003, Alva was in charge of 11 Marines in a supply unit in Iraq when he stepped on a landmine, losing his right leg. Alva spent months of rehabilitation at Walter Reed Army Hospital where he was visited by President Bush, First Lady Laura Bush and former Defense Secretary Donald Rumsfeld. He was awarded a Purple Heart for his service and received a medical discharge from the military. Alva publicly announced, for the first time, that he is gay today during a Capitol Hill press conference to reintroduce the Military Readiness Enhancement Act, legislation to repeal the ban against openly gay and lesbian Americans serving in the military. "When Eric Alva lost his leg in Iraq, it didn’t matter whether he was gay or straight, only that he was a courageous American serving his country," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "Eric’s voice represents the sacrifice of thousands of gay and lesbian service members fighting for the safety and freedom of all Americans. We believe his story should help move this issue forward and educate Congress as to why it’s so important to lift the discriminatory ban that compromises our nation’s security." "Any Americans willing to serve their country shouldn’t have to worry about whether or not the government will give them fair and equal treatment when they return home," said Alva. "My, proudest moment in the military came when I would confide in one of my friends about my sexual orientation, and they still treated me with the same respect as before. And although I’m no longer wearing the uniform of the U.S. Marine Corps, my mission continues to be protecting the rights and freedoms of all Americans." Alva has widely discussed his recovery and the war through appearances on numerous TV news shows and "The Oprah Winfrey www.ozarksstar.com Show." He has also been profiled in severa! major newspapers and in People magazine. But today is the first time he has publicly talked about his sexual orientation in relation to his military service. "We salute Eric for his bravery on and off the battlefield," continued Solmonese. "The courage and sacrifice of gay and lesbian service members, like Eric Alva, should be heralded, not silenced." As spokesperson for the Human Rights Campaign, Alva will raise awareness of the harmful effects of the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell" policy through public appearances, media interviews and blog postings. Alva will also meet with key congressional leaders to urge the repeal of this costly, discriminatory policy during the Human Rights Campaign lobby day on Thursday, March 1. In 2005, the Government Accountability Office estimated that the cost to recruit and train replacements for enlisted service members separated under the "Don’t Ask, Don’t Tel!" ban was more than $!90 million from fiscal years 1994 through 2003. Americans support allowing gays and lesbians to serve openly. The vast majority ofAmericans support the right of service members to serve openly and honestly, and the majority of service members are comfortable serving alongside gay and lesbian troops. In addition, numerous allies in the war on terror allow gays and lesbians to serve openly and proudly. ® 67% of civilians support allowing gays to serve openly. (Annenberg 2004 survey). In 2003, FOX News reported 64 percent support, and the Gallup organization 79 percent on a similar question. ® Nearly 3 in 4 troops (73%) say they are personally comfortable in the presence of gays and lesbians. (Zogby International & the Michael D. Palm Center 2006 study). o 1 in 4 U.S. troops who served in Afghanistan or Iraq knows a member of their unit who is gay. More than 55% of the troops who know a gay colleague said the presence of gays or lesbians in their unit is well known by others. (Zogby International). The DADT policy serves no purpose as troops already know and are comfortable serving alongside gays and lesbians. ® All published Pentagon studies, induding the 1993 Rand Report, conclude that there should be no special restrictions on service by gay personnel. ® 24 other nations, induding Great Britain, Australia, Canada and Israel, already allow open service by gays and lesbians, and none of the 24 report morale or recruitment problems. 9 nations allowing open service have fought alongside American troops in Operation Iraqi Freedom. In addition, 12 nations allowing open service fought alongside U.S. troops in Operation Enduring Freedom. * 23 of the 26 NATO nations allow gays and lesbians to serve openly and proudly. The United States, Turkey, and Portugal are the only NATO nations that forbid gays and lesbians from serving openly in the armed services. ® Federal CIA, FBI, DIA and Secret Service agents all serve proudly as openly gay and lesbian personnel fighting the war on terrorism. To support the "Military Readiness Enhancement Act" to repeal DADT, contact your elected officials today. the STAR 5 By Jeanne Flanigan Photo by l~ctor Gorin: Reverend Kathy ~kIcCallie ofChurch ofOpen Arms with Casey ofEqualio, Ride OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The SoulForce Equality Ride bus arrived in Oklahoma City Tuesday, March 13, in preparation for a civil action at Oklahoma Baptist University in Shawnee. Twenty five riders were greeted by members and friends of Church of the Open Arms at a dinner that night. Their plan was to go to OBU the following day to talk to students there about the school not including sexual orientation in their anti-harassment policy. ~hursday the riders would go to OBU again, construct a tapestry of Pride rainbow colors, with affirmations, scriptures and personal messages to OBU students. Friday would be a de-stress day, with a BBQ held for students, riders, and community friends at \goodland Park in Shawnee. Events went as planned by OBU Action Coordinators, Rachel Loskill, Michigan, and Greg Johnson, OKC. Equality Riders went to the campus to try to talk to students, met with an administrator, and attempted to attend the chapel where a service was being held for students and faculty. OBU called the Shawnee Police to have the riders removed from campus, and 5 were arrested and held for 8 hours. SoulForce pays for bond and fines for each activist immediately upon arrest. It is not dear why the riders were held for so long. Loskill, who was arrested, said she and others prayed, meditated, and talked quietly while in jail. ~eir training is in nonviolent actions, which involve bringing forth love from your heart in speech and thought, even for those arresting and challenging you. Reaction to the civil disobedience was mixed, with some students saying that homosexuality is a sin, but finding the arrests shocking, upsetting, and unnecessary. Several students revealed to riders that ¯ they were hiding their sexuality while at OBU, and appreciated the riders’ attempt to enlighten the administrators and students. On Wednesday; the tapestry was constructed near OBU campus, and was brought to the wall near the student center, where 6 people were arrested. There was more community and student support this day, with 2 students arrested also. Another two students brought the tapestry into the student union. When the riders were allowed to leave and return to the bus, they were greeted with hugs of support for their commitment and courage to bring to life the .......................... Continued page-23 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & DIVERSE market. Call STAR ADVERTiSiNG today. 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com L LY TOML N AT THE PERFORMING ARTS CENTER "THE LADY ST LL ROCKS" By Victor Gorin Photo left to right Chaz Ward, Lily Tomlin & Hctor Gorin back stage. TULSA, OK__On March 18 Tulsans were treated to a night of timeless laughter when the legendary comedienne Lily Tomlin graced the stage of the Tulsa Performing Arts Center March 18. Playing to a packed house that included Tulsa Mayor Kathy Taylor, she entertained all ages, but the crowd surely had many who had probably seen her on "Rowan and Martin’s Laugh Id’ in times past, and of course a lot of family. Doing her one woman show she kept the pace lively, mLxing past and present laments, hopes and societal change that she proved had a funny side. She touched on the GLBT community, commenting that "when we start imitating heterosexuals, we’re going on a slippery slope." She also touched on politics, expressing admiration for "our duly elected president, A1 Gore." She took many of us down Memory Lane, bringing to life her many personas including Edith Anne, Trudy the Street Lady, Madame Lupe & of course the classic telephone operator Ernestine. W’nile celebrating the past she and her audience shared together, she also talked about her present and future plans including her upcoming HBO series, "Twelve Miles of Bad Roads", where she will play a matriarch of a very rich Dallas real estate family In that series Mary Kay Place (Tulsa native & star of"Mary Hartman Mary Hartman’) will portray her sister and Leslie Jordan her cousin Kenny, Uniting the diverse audience together in laughter, she truly gave them a night to remember, and was proof positive that the gal’s still got it! Tulsa Pride 2007! United for Equality June 2- June 9 Afew hundred people gathered at Chandler Park in 1982 for the first pride celebration of the Tulsa lesbain, gay, bisexual & transgender (LGBT) & allied community. This June, over 15,000 individuals and families are expected to take part in the 25th Anniversary celebration of Tulsa Pride & Diversity 2007! oklahomans for equality (OkEq) * 621 E 4th Street * Tulsa. OK STAR Fan Discovered Fort Laudetda e! FORT LAUDERDALE, FL Taylor, a senior at New York University is an avid fan of the STAR on-line. While vacationing in Fort Lauderdale he was delighted to get his first hard copy of the Ozarks Star Magazine. The Gay Travelers, Donald and Ray captured this photo ofTaylor relaxing by the pool at the Grand Resort and Spa in Fort Lauderdale. wvvw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Editor’s Note: The Reverend R. Albert ~lohlet; president ofSoulhern Baptist Theolo~cal Seminaq and a long-#me leader in the Southern Baptist Conven#on, the largest Protestant denomination in the United States, su~ested he would support medical treamzent to change the sexuM orientatiou ofa~tus inside its mother~ womb~om homosexual to heterosexual, fsuch treatment were available. Mohlerfloated the idea in his blog on 3£mvh Z 200Z STATEMENT BY The Reverend Elder Nancy L. Wilson Moderator Metropolitan Community Churches REMARKS: I read with horror the recent article by Nae Reverend R. Albert Mohler, President of Southern Baptist Seminary in Louisville, Kentucky, entitled "Is Your Baby Gay? What ifYou Could Know? What ifYou Could Do Something about It?" Generally we say someone or something has added "insult to injury." But Rev. Mohler has, I believe, done genuine harm to countless lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people (LGBT) who will read or be mistreated because of his words. And his rhetoric has accomplished something rise: It is an affront to the God-given quest to tear down the walls of separation between communions of the faith and create a future with hope and promise for all life. With his chilling words, Rev. Mohler has accomplished something both startling and tragic: He has added injury to insult. Here is Rev. Mohler’s suggestion: With a growing body ofevidence to suggest that sexual orientation may in some measure be the result ofbiologicalfactors, Christians have a moral responsibility to use any medical advancements at their disposal, including experimental hormonal treatmentsforpre~ant women, in an effort- to change a child’s inherent orientation, and-- he goes on to claim -- therebyfiwther the good ofhumanity and God’s glory. In this, Rev. Mohler crosses the line that merely separates differing opinions and moves into a realm that justifies violence against human beings who are created in God’s image. His suggestion is eerily Mengelean. The use of Scripture and faith perspectives to justify prejudice and hatred, and ultimately our extinction as a people, cannot be condoned by anyone who "knows God’s love and acceptance for all creation. Today, on behalf of Metropolitan Communit,,# Churches, I am joining my voice with the rising chorus of those condemning Rev. Mohler’s shameful misuse of Scripture and science to inspire prospective parents to genetically eliminate LGBT people while simultaneously justifying our condemnation. Biological determination of sexual orientation, he maintains, would not "compromise or mitigate" Biblical condemnation of LGBT people because, he claims, we are the result of sin and God’s judgment. I beg to differ, Rev. Mohler. All life, including LGBT life, is the result of God’s love and God’s creative genius. All life is pronounced "good" by God. There are no exceptions. God knew us by name and knit us together in our mother’s wombs. This is the witness of Scripture. Rev Mohler also writes: "... The human genetic structure, along with evety other a~pect ofcreation, shows the pernicious effects ofthe Fall and ofGod’sjudgment. The discovery of a biological basisfor homosexuality would be ofgreatpastoral significance, allowingfor a greater understanding ofwhy certain persons struggle with these particular sexual temptations. " Let me say clearly: Lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people are not the result of sin or God’s judgment. If some LGBT people struggle with our identities, it is not because our orientations are in any way inherently sinful. ivly more than 35 years of affirming, supportive ministry to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people of faith reveal the underlying reasons why some LGBT people struggle with their own acceptance and identities: -- It is because some of our brothers and sisters in Christ insist that we are an aberration, call for our virtual elimination from the human race, and advocate "unapologetic support" for "the use of any appropriate means" to change our God-given orientations. -- And it is because too many faith leaders have used their positions of authori9, and their publicly acclaimed voices to fan the flames of homophobia, leaving some LGBT people singed with unnecessary shame and false guilt. I thank God that the Scriptures offer the promise of a "more excellent way" (I Corinthian 12:31). MORE RETIRED MILITARY OFFICERS COME OUT TO SUPPORT REPEAL OF "DADT" Seven retired military officers publicly came out of the closet March 16th, hoping their actions will stir Congress to repeal "don’t ask, don’t tell" and force Gen. Peter Pace, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff; to apologize for calling gays "immoral" this week. The officers are all highly decorated and have earned numerous honors and commendations. They include Army Col. Stewart Bornhoft; NaW Capt. Joan E. Darrah, Naval Reserve Capt. Robert D. Dockendorff; Army Chaplain Col. Paul W. Dodd; Naval Reserve Capt. Sandra Geiselman; Army Col. E. A. Leonard and NaW Capt. Robert Michael Rankin. 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com We’ve been warned! Gay Needs to Get of the Wars! By James Nimmo We’ve been warned! Religious fundies are going to now use the tactic of lobbying all 50 state legislatures to demand that Congress pass an anti-gay constitutional amendment outlawing same-gender marriage. (http:l/okstonewall.org/forums/index.php?topic=1663.0) Ever notice that the history ofhomophobia has nearly always been rooted in religious dogma? With the halting progress that gay equality has achieved in America, we’ve seen the spectacle of religious hypocrites advocating for strict opposite--gender marriage laws which they claim will stren~hen the "natural, god ordained" institution of marriage. But these same loud, in-your-face, self-appointed advocates of piety are very quiet when you ask them about opposing dNorce, the undoing of marriage. Nope, nary a negative word drops from their slavering lips. As they proclaim marriage to be a religious rite, they forget, or disingenuously disguise that they ever knew, that this right of marriage is only possible due to the issuance by the state in which they are living a license to marry. That is, the civil authority, not any religious corporation, is what makes a religious marriage ceremony valid under state and federal law. No one is compelled by law to have a religious prelate validate the state-issued marriage license. AW ot~cial described by law can complete the marriage license and the opposite-gendered couple is as married as if they had the Pope or any other suitably costumed ot~ciate, doing the honors. When legislators trumpet that marriage is a religious bond between heteros that should not be tampered with, they are ,nixing the emotion- laden desires of religion with the neutral point-of-view that civil justice requires. They are violating the First Amendment of the Constitution: Congress shall make no law honoring religion nor interfering with its practice. By this long-established legal precedent, the states which refuse to honor the request of same-gendered people for a marriage license are violating the b~asic premise of justice--previous decisions are used to provide consistency to the implementation of laws deemed necessary for a just society. What are we to make of the denominations which do honor the desire and need ofsame-gendered people to marry and receive the federal and state civil benefits given to those who have followed the procedures set out by state law’? http://www.marriageequality. org/meusa/facts.shtml~. reh’~~"lous-vs-C’lv!’l Why is the dogma of the United Church of Christ, which performs same-gender blessings, suppressed by the dogma of the Southern Baptist Convention? Why is Reformed Judaism held hostage to its cousin, Hasidim Judaism? Why is Roman Catholic dogma more authoritative than the Episcopal Church? (Interesting side note being that the Anglican Church of which the American branch is called Episcopal is only here as an historical relic of the need for Henry VIII to get a divorce.) Why should American cM1 law be immersed in the hornet’s nest of religious doctrinal disputes--the verbal equivalent of civi! war? Why does the "God" of the legislators and homophobes only seem to speak for the public record to them? The word "marriage" is a loaded religious word that carries hundreds of years of tradition that doesdt include gay people. "Civil union" is self-defining--no supernatural intrusion has weighed this phrase with oppression. That’s why I’m going to be agitating for la,vs to be passed that legalize civil unions, domestic partnerships, reciprocal benefits, whatever civil language is developed that recognizes the full citizenship of America’s gay people who want all the rights and benefits received by straight people. As Ms. Jo-Ann Adams of the Hawaii GLBT Caucus said recently in regard to Ha~vaii’s tabling of a marriage rights bill, "If you can’t give us the word, give us the rights." Spiritual gay people can always find a welcoming minister, rabbi, or priest that will bless them for as long as necessary. No homophobic religious building will ever be required to host a same gendered marriage ceremony, "and what sane couple would try to force such an imposition on that denomination’s property anyway? The time is here that our gay equality leaders recognize that our civil equality will not be won in an endless contest of dueling bible verses. Religious teachings are based on historical conflicts of a Bronze Age mentality that has very little to do with us here in the 21st century other than as examples of how ignorance should not be used to advance human decency. We need to declare victory and, indeed, march to our own drummer. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 A Sa£e P ace £or Recovering GLBTI’s EUPdSKA SPRINGS, AR__Recovery from alcoho!, drugs, sex or any other addictions is a challenge of a lifetime for anyone, but GLBTI’s, their spouses, friends and families really have it tough when they live in smaller towns. They themselves may not even realize what. they’re missing. Well meaning, but inadequately informed sponsors and mental health professionals, may erroneously assume an "addict is an addict" and sexual orientation or gender identity is not a significant factor. Specialized therapy and support are almost non-existent. Professional assistance may be sometimes tainted by the prejudices ofthose providing it, or at a minimum be limited by the caregivers’ lack ofknowledge ofthose aspects ofthe GLBTsocie~y that distin~dsh" itJ~ora the larger straight communi~ These limitations may become morepmnounced when one seeks assistancef~om mainstream sobriety self-help groups, where prejudices and lack ofknowledge can be more glaring in lay men and women who, though sober; may lack professional helping skills. "-- Gayalcoholics. corn It is imperative to help create safe and supportive environments for GLBTI’s and their loved ones. With that goal in mind, starting this Spring, at least one regular meeting will be held on every Diversity Weekend in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. Diversity Pride Events has enlisted the help of Marty Perry, Exec Director of the Pride Institute, one of the top experts in this rid& Mr. Perry will attend SPRING ’07 DIVERSITY WEEKEND and present a short 1/2 hour presentation for GLBTI’s & their Sponsors, friends and families on Saturday April 14, 2007 at 10am. An hour "Recovery in Pride" selfhelp group style meeting will follmv. In addition, Mr. Perry will return the following weekend during the 31 st Annual "SPRINGTIME IN THE OZARKS" Convention, 4/19 - 22, 2007. On Saturday April 21, 2007 at 3pm, for the first time, there will be a special one hour presentation for *Mental Health Professionals, Sponsors, & Allies of GLBTI’s in Recovery. An hour "Recovery in Pride" self-help group style meeting will follow. 12 the STAR (*Attn Mental Health Professionals and Sponsors, please RSVP for the presentation so we will have an idea of size of space needed) Spring Diversity Weekend SAT 4-14-07 10am to Noon * Topic: Chemical Dependency / Mental Health In Our (LGBT) Community o 30 minute presentation followed by a 1 hour LGBT AA style meeting o Audience: LGBT and Allies attending Diversity Weekend This brief presentation will address why addictive behavior has become so prevalent in the LGBT community (studi~s estimate 25-50% of LGBT people struggle with an addictive behavior in their lifetime). Understanding hmv LGBT identity develops will guide us to what our needs may be as adults. For many, these unmet needs fuel addictive behavior and create barriers to successful recovery. Treatment, 12-Step support, and therapy ,vill be discussed as options to overcoming addiction and leading healthier lives. "Springtime in the Ozarks" Convention SAT 4-21-07 3pm to 5pro o Topic: Chemical Dependency in the LGBT Community o I hour presentation followed by a 1 hour LGBT AA style meeting ¯ Audience: Mental Health Professionals, Sponsors, Allies in Recovery This presentation will cover addictive behaviors and how they manifest in the LGBT population. Studies show that alcohol and drug addiction occurs in 6-8% of the mainstream population; in the LGBT population, however, addiction occurs in 18-24% of the population -- three times that in the mainstream population. Said another way, approximately 1 in 4 LGBT individuals (25%) have an addictive behavior issue at some point in their lives. Many studies suggest that this estimate is low; that true numbers may be nearer 40-50%, especially in urban areas. In order to address chemical dependency issues in the LGBT community, we must first understand the complex factors associated with chemical dependency in this specific population. Co-occurrence with depression / anxiety, internalized heterosexism, identit), / self-esteem issues, and sexual issues need to be addressed simultaneously with the chemical dependency to assure optimal chances for successful recovery. Identifying / developing LGBT-friendly resources is a critical need of our communities if LGBT people are to have successful recoveries. We wdcome volunteers and encourage emails with any other resources for the GLBTI community with details and contact person/s to Recovery@diversitypride.com. Relevant Links: http://www.pride-institute.com http://wwvv.hp-h.com/p/arkansasaalspringtime. htm http://ww~v.diversitypride.com CONTACT INFO: Deborah Rose 479-253-2555 deborah@diversitypride.com Rodeo Time Litt ÷ Rock LITTLE ROCK, AR__Diamond State Rodeo Association (DS1LR) will ki& off the 2007 season for the four state area. Oklahoma (OGRA) will saddle up next for their event in Oklahoma City. Missouri is scheduled for September. Kansas has not released a date. 13th Annual DSRA "Rodeo In The Rock 2007" April 20-22, 2007 Arkansas State Fairgrounds Equestrian Center Schedule of Events: o Thursday, 4/19 - Welcome to Little Rock Party at the DSRA Clubhouse. o Friday, 4/20 - Registration at Fairgrounds plus Sparkles & Spurs Party at SideTracks in North Little Rock. o Saturday, 4/21 - Rodeo and Dinner/Dance at the Fairgrounds o Sunday, 4/22 - Rodeo and Awards at the Fairgrounds plus Last Roundup Party at DSRA Clubhouse. Go to w~vw.dsra.org for more info. www.ozarksstar.com By Tim Gillea~ PRELI~o~ TO ~a~$$ GAY OKLAHOMAAMER~CA April 4, 2007 10:00 PM @The Copa, OKC OK CONTESTANT INQUIRES CALL MARK OR JAMES (NIKKI STARR) (580) 216-2715 must be 21 y~’s old to enter colt5294@yahoo.com TULSA, OK__Openarms Youth Project (OYP) hosted twelve Boston University- undergraduates and their faculty chaperone during Boston. U’s spring break, from March 10th-17th. The college students chose Tulsa as the destination for their community service volunteer trip, with the goal of helping OYP complete several major planned improvements and upgrades. "Ihe group drove an astounding 30 hours in a van and arrived to a grand welcome and lunch served by Openarms youth and board members. After leaving for the hotel to catch a quick nap, they returned to have dinner and begin preparations fbr a week o£hard labor and clean up projects. During their week-long visit, the students improved almost every room at Openarms, including the dance floor and patio area. They worked long and hard getting all of the projects completed, from painting the walls and building a trestle for the newly-redone OYP stage to disposing of" excess rubbish and dusting most of the building. Beyond p!~ysical renovations, the Boston team helped even more by preparing dinner on "fhursday for the youth and leading a group discussion about coming out at school and the importance of attending college. ~ll~ey were also present for Wednesday’s movie night, where the crowd opted to watch the OYP Fashion Show video from last Pride week and then the Miss USofA pageant from 20O6. The Boston group later got to enjoy an evening of dancing and relaxation compliments of David at the Club Majestic on Thursday. Finall> on Friday evening, the youth o£ Openarms hosted a special party for the Boston team. ~Ihey opened the center just like it was a Saturday- evening Social night, and they allowed everyone to come in free to dance and have some entertainment. Performances at the party included Daphne Rio, Lady Tamia, Damien Sky and special guest Melissa fi’om Boston University. It was great fun, and all the youth of Openarms were amazed to see all of the great improvements the Boston students were able to complete during their week in Tulsa. What a great experience for all of the youth and benefit for Openarms. w~w.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 WNat is the history ofONE Inc.? ONE Inc., founded in the early 1950s, was at the forefront of the nascent homophile movement, and has played an important role in preserving GLBT history and culture to the present day. In the wake ofWorld War II, Los Angeles became the hub of a burgeoning homosexual community. In October 1952, two years after Harry Hay co-founded the Mattachine Society, several members decided to start the first gay magazine with a national circulation. The founding members included Dorr Legg, Donald Slater, Martin Block, Tony Reyes, Merton Bird, and Dale Jennings, who months earlier had becoine a movement hero when he successfully contested a false charge of sexual solicitation. The group was interracial from the start, and before long women took part, too, including Joan Corbin, Irma Wolf, and Stella Rush. In November, the group incorporated as an independent nonprofit organization called ONE Inc. - inspired by writer Thomas Carlyle’s "mystic bond of brotherhood that makes all men one." Its stated goal: "To promote the integration into society of such persons xvhose behavior varies from current moral and social standards." The first issue ofONE was published in January 1953. Along with essays, poetry, and book reviews, the magazine also featured the "Tangents" column by Jim Kepner, which compiled relevant news from around the world. Initially sold in gay bars for 25 cents, the magazine achieved a nationwide circulation of 5,000 copies by the end of the decade. By the mid-1950s, the Mattachine Society had ousted its founders and turned in a more conservative direction, leaving ONE Inc. as the community’s radical voice, promoting, in the words of historian John D’Emilio, "a stance of combative pride in being gay." In 1954, the Los Angeles postmaster refused to accept the October issue, branding it "obscene, lewd, lascivious, and filthy." ONE Inc. sued, and the case (ONE v. Olesen) made its way to the United States Supreme Court. In January 1958, the high court unanimously overturned two lmver court rulings, affirming that gay publications were not, per se, obscene. ONE Inc. also made history as the first homophile organization to open a public office. Located in a run-down area of downtown Los Angeles, the two-room office became the first de facto gay community center. As the only visible homosexual presence outside the bars, the young organization began offering social services such as job placement and help for newcomers to the city. Legg, the group’s business manager, quit his job as an architect and was hired as the nascent movement’s first full-time paid employee, earning $25 per week. Within a few years, ONE began offering courses on various aspects of homosexuality and compiled a library of research materials. In 1956, Legg, Kepner, and retired University of Southern California (USC) professor Merritt Thompson established the ONE Institute of Homophile Studies, the first American academic institution dealing with gay issues. Two years later, the group created the first gay scholarly journal, the _ONE Institute Quarterly of Homophile Studies_. Kepner served as the initial editor, but left to concentrate on his own gay archives, which grew out of a collection of books and newspaper clippings he had started in the early 1940s. In 1964, ONE began receiving funding from female-to-male philanthropist Reed Erickson, which for tax purposes was funneled through a new nonprofit, the Institute for the Study of Human Resources (ISHR). But the influx of money spurred disagreement about ONE’s mission. In 1965, Legg, the chairman, installed his allies on ONE’s board, and Slater (then editor of ONE magazine) retaliated by removing the contents of ONE’s offices in a late-night raid. After a series of lawsuits, Slater obtained the organization’s property, while Legg retained exclusive use of the "ONE" name. Slater changed the title of his magazine to Tangents and founded the Homosexual Information Center. Legg’s faction contin ued to publish a separate magazine called ONE until 1968. Under Legg, the ONE Institute and ISHR coordinated the compilation of an extensive bibliography of homosexuality and offered a public lecture series featuring GLBT luminaries such as Harry Hay and writer Christopher Isherwood, as well as heterosexual allies, including psychologist Evelyn Hooker and sexologist Vern Bullough. In 1981, the ONE Institute Graduate School of Homophile Studies was accredited by California to offer the first raaster’s and doctoral degrees in GLBT studies. But the relationship between Legg and Erickson gre~v increasingly contentious, sparking a legal battle that consumed the organization’s attention well into the 1990s. By 1986, ONE stopped granting degrees, though it continued its lecture series and maintained its library; Legg exercised control over the institute until his death in 1994. In the mid-1990s, what remained of the ONE Institute and ISHR merged with Kepner’s International Gay and Lesbian Archives. In May 2001, the combined ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives - the largest collection of GLBT material in the world - opened in a building donated by USC. More than 50 years after its founding, ONE remains, according to its current mission statement, "dedicated to collecting, preserving, documenting, studying, and communicating our history, our challenges, and our aspirations." For further information: ONE National Gay and Lesbian Archives: w~v.onearchives.org. D’Emilio, John. 1983. _Sexual Politics, Sexual Communities: The Making of a Homosexual Minority in the U.S., 1940-1970 (University of Chicago Press). Faderman, Lillian, and Stuart Timmons. 2006. Gay L.A. (Basic Books). 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Employment Opportunity $tate°s Leading Civil Libe ies Organic zation seeks a 20ohour week emNoyee. Duties include data entry in Quick Books; using Microsoft Front Page to post information on organizational website; using office equipment, filing and some research. He or she should have strong written and verbal communication skills. He or she should also be adequately proficient in basic mathematics, logic and organization. Retirees, people with disabilities, students, racial minorities, ethnic minorities, Gay men, Lesbians and bisexual or transgender people are encouraged to apply. Position could possibly become full-time later. Mail or FAX resumes with list of references to: J. Bell Attn: Personnel 3000 Paseo Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 73103 email: jbell@coxinet.net FAX: 405-524-2296 No phone calls please. GLBT People Included in Federal Hate Crimes Legislation Introduced. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director NGLTF WASHINGTON, DC__"At long last, Congress is poised to recognize the reality of hate violence against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. It’s a disgrace that bigotry and ignorance have prevented Congress from taking real action to address hate crimes for nearly 20 years. "Federal laws embody the values of our nation and through this legislation Congress will say clearly and unequivocally that the people of this country reject and condemn all forms of hate violence, including crimes motivated by hatred of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people. 3~ne symbolic importance of this cannot be overstated, particularly in light of the venomous disinformation campaign that has been waged against the bill by right-wing forces. "No one can deny the reality of hate violence against LGBT people -- in fact, almost everyone has seen it firsthand growing up. For the last 25 years, since we created our groundbreaking Anti-Violence Project in 1982, we have been working to get the federal government to take a stand against this scourge. Sadly, little progress has been made in the 17 years since Congress passed the Hate Crimes Statistics Act. Why? The hard but real answer is that right-wing forces would rather see anti-LGBT crimes go unaddressed by law enforcement than have the words ’sexual orientatioff or ’gender identity’ appear alongside other protected classes in federa! law. "This bill is important for the entire country because it adds or improves federal hate crimes protections based on race, religion, national origin, gender, sexual orientation, gender identity and disability. www.ozarksstar.com L,egal Notice Class Actior~ Sett~emeat FuR Cash Payers, Co-payers and their Heirs are Included You may be able to get cash from Who Represents You? a $24 million Proposed Seitlernent if you paid for the presm:ipdon drug Serostim. The Proposed Settlement is with Merck Serono International, S.A., Serono Laboratories, Inc., and EMD Serono, Inc. ("Defendants"). It is ~nding in the U.S. District Court for the District of Massachusetts. What Is the Class Action About? Plaintiffs claim that Defendants improperly marketed Serostim, a drng approved by FDA to treat HIV/AIDS wasting or cachexia. The lawsuits claim that Defendants encouraged doctors to prescribe Serostim based on diagnostic criteria that were not approved by FDA. The lawsuits do not allege that Serostim is dangerous to padent health, or that Serostim is not sate and effective for its approved uses. The Defendants deny any liability and have decidedm settle to avoid the expense and uncertainty of litigation. Who is Involved? The Proposed Settlement Class includes all persons or entities nationwide that paid in whole or in pea~ for the drug Serosfim from July I, t995 to December 3I, 2006, and their heirs. What Does the Proposed Settlement Provide? o $10.8 million will be allocamd to certain large Third-Party Payors (e.g., insurance companies) who have a separate agreement with the Defendants. - $13.2 million will be allocated to the remaining Third-Party Payors (82%) and consmners (18%), after attorneys’ fees and the costs of administering the Proposed Settlement are deducted. The Court has appointed attorneys to represent the Consumer and TPPs who comprise the Class. Class Counsel wilt request the Court award fair and reasonable attorneys’ fees and costs not to exceed $3.96 million, plus reimbursement of expenses. You may him your own attorney, if you wish. However, you will be responsible for that attorney’s |~es and expenses. What Are Your Options? o If you do not want to be part of the Proposed Settlement, you must exclude yourself, in writing, postmarked by May 21, 20!)7. Excluding yourself will allow you to bring your own claims against the DeK-ndants. -If you stay in the Setdement Class you can file a claim. Your claim must be posunarked by July 19, 2007. All claim documentation submitted by you will be kept confidential and will be used only for the purpose of proce~ssing claims. o You may object to or com.ment on any part of the Proposed Settlement. Your objection/ comment must be written and postmarked by May 21, 2007. Yon may also request in writing to speak at the Final Approval Hearing. The Notice of Proposed Class Action Settlement explains excluding yourself, making a claim, objecting/commenting and requesting to speak at the Heating. Wilt the Court Approve the Proposed Settlement? The Court will hold a Final Approval Hearing on June 19, 2(3)7 at 2:(3)p.m. and wil! consider wbether to approve the ~Opo~ Settlement, award attorneys’ fees and allow reimbursement of expends. For Additienal information For the Notice of Proposed Class Action Settlement, information on your rights and how to file a claim: Call: 1-800-378-3615 ~s~t: ~.Serost~mge~lement.com or Write: Serostim Litigation Administrator c/o Complete Claim Solutions, LLC PO Box 24676, West Palm Beach, EL 334:~6 the STAR 15 "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Don~d Pile & Ray ~qlliams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast CAFE POCA COSA Tucson, Arizona In what is arguably Tucson’s most creative Me,can restaurant, t~he chet7ovmer Suzar~a Devila prepares recipes inspk~d by ~ff~t tenons of her native Mexico. fhe ~enn, w~ch ch~gesd~ k~clude chicken mole or pork pibil (made x~dth a tmg~ Yucatan becue season~g). Serv~gs ~plenoM, and each ta~e gets a of warm corn tort~as and a bowl of beans to share. Or~te~ m~ davy Plato Poca Cosa. and the chef w~ select one bee£ one cNckeni one veget~rian enu:~e for you to sample. The bold-colored W~= h~g with Ladn Ame~cma art. It is worth makh~g the ~p to Tu just to dh-~e at tl~s restaurant. They are located at 1t0 E. Pen,~ St. in downtown T~acson. ~so wh~e ~ Tucson be s~e to Stay ~ t the Royal Elizabeth Bed and Breakfast inn. Their website is: ww~ro~,alelizaberh.com. By Donald Pile and Ray Williams New Orleans is aquestion on many traveler’s minds. Do you go or do you not go.> It would be great to say that the entire city has completely rebuilt itself since t~e devast£~ing hurricane how’eve~ it has not. "I?aNc lights are stin no! up and rhnning in many, parts of the cit> abandoned autos are ex er;~where and houses still’ stand emp~D~ and unlivable. Many business owners just simply Walked away and left. Others are trying to come bac~:, but ~;{th few tourist dollars coming in they are l~ar£1y making it. Such a shame, bu~ i{. is the truth. ~xTionths )}er~vards the core ~f the City is still a c0rn2 plete mess. We had several friends who ~ent for £,Iardi Gras thi} year was terribly disappointed and will never return. Right in the French Quarter ther£ is part of the hustle and bustle of~vhat used to be, but it just isn’t the same. ~e crime rate has exp!oded in New Orleans both in robberies ~ well as muggings. In great cities such as Chicago, New York CiD; San FranciSco a~d thd like, they would KNOW that they would HAVE to rebuild their cities if so~ething were to happen and the entire population of the City- would get behind the effort to rebuild. And they would do it quickly! In New Orleans however thousands oftheir ~esidents simply fled the;city and are staving asvay and the city government is not doing its job at all. 2Ihere is so much inner turmoil between all the departments. New Orleans was always a big parD’ town, and it seems that once the ~’party atmosphere" is gone that the city, is also gone. We have been to New Orleans several t!,mes before }he hu,yricane and enjoyed the citT, but it was always the part7 atmosphere that kept us ~oifig back a!l the time. Like So many things in li~, some things just are not meant to go on forever and ever, and we are afraid tfaat NeW Orleans is one of those things. We have been back once after WWW. ozarksstar.com Puerto Vallarta, which has grown to become one ofthe world’spremier gay resort destinations, enjoys an enviable setting overlooking Bandera~ Bay (Photo by Andrew Collins) APRIL 2007 By Andrew Collins especially during the bustling high season (from about December through April), certain blocks of Zona Romantica seem at least as gay as the downtowns of Provincetown and Palm Springs. ~here are a few more general attributes that further enhance Puerto Vallartgs standing. Although the city has become significantly more expensive as its star has risen, it’s still less costly than many other alluring tropical resorts. Dinner entrees at top restaurants rarely cost more than $25 and often run $10 to $15. Hotel rates, cab rides, cocktails, fashionable clothing, and handcrafted gifts also tend to cost less than those in the Caribbean, Hawaii, or California, although it’s absolutely possible to find high-end exceptions to many of these rules. It’s hard to name a gay resort destination in North America that has more going for it than Puerto Vallarta, a fast-growing city on the Pacific Coast’s fabled Mexican Riviera. PV’s historic downtown ("El Centro") is nestled beneath the verdant slopes of the Sierra Madre Mountains. Just south of E1 Centro, in Zona Romantica, you’ll find a bustling gay scene comprising hip martini bars, pulsing dance clubs, relatively affordable hotels and condo rentals, and critically acclaimed restaurants. But there’s far more to this friendly city that offers everything from posh full-service resorts, exhilarating recreational activities, and gorgeous scenery. With a population of roughly 220,000, Puerto Vallarta has seen huge growth in recent years, to the point that it bears little resemblance to the sleepy fishing port that provided the 1963 filming location for the movie version of Tennessee Williams’ The Night of the Iguana. Star Richard Burton and new love Elizabeth Taylor, ~vho joined him on the shoot, became entranced with the city - they bought a house here together during filming. In recent years, PV has developed into one of Mexico’s most desirable resorts, its diverse elements appealing to a wide range of visitors. It’s a major port on the Mexican Riviera cruise-ship circuit (along with Cabo San Lucas, Mazatlan, Acapulco, and Manzanillo). Sprawling international resorts and condo developments, which have been built from the edge of downtown to many miles north of the city, attract families, retirees, and honeymooners. Sporting and adventure enthusiasts come for the zip-lining forest canopy tours, scuba diving, mountain biking, deep-sea fishing, and many other outdoorsy activities. Zona Romantica is a compact patchwork of hilly lanes tucked beneath the Sierra Madre foothills. The neighborhood fringes Los Muertos Beach, and narrow auto and pedestrian bridges connect the district with E1 Centro. The relative isolation of Zona Romantica as well as its elegantly faded veneer and historic charm may very well account for its ever-increasing draw among gay visitors and bohemian types. It’s a neighborhood that cdebrates its insularity and diversity - everyone is welcome, but Although it helps to understand Spanish, you can get by easily in PV speaking only English. Adding to its draw, this city set stunningly in the center of Bahia de Banderas (the largest natural bay in Mexico) enjoys a spectacular climate. The city is generally dry and breezy with temperatures in the 80s, the exception being the summer rainy season (generally June through September), when highs often reach the low 90s and humidity can sometimes be oppressive. Puerto Vallarta receives far fewer visitors off-season, and some businesses dose for extended periods in summer. If you’re a fan of outdoor activities or are interested in some of the many side excursions available from this area, book a trip through the gay-friendly outfitter Vallarta Adventures. One excellent tour option is the company’s thrilling Outdoor Adventure, which entails a white-knuckle boat trip across the bay, folloxved by a bumpy mule ride up a hillside, zip-lining through a lush forest, and rappelling down waterfalls. The company also offers trips to colonial San Sebastian and bustling Guadalajara as well as whale-watching, scuba and snorkeling, sailing trips, and up-close encounters with bottlenose dolphins. PV has dozens of outstanding restaurants as well as a slew of hip bars, and the scene is continuously evolving, but among dining options, there are some "must tastes." At the upper end, don’t miss Care des Artistes, a sumptuous spot with refined service and rarefied contemporary cuisine. 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com For authentic regional Mexican food served in a &arming, warmly furnished dining room, try lesbian-owned E1 Arrayan. Boca Bento serves some of the tastiest fusion Latino-Asian fare in town, and the setting - a handsome historic hacienda - is quite elegant. Chiles and Kit-Kat are a pair of hip gay lounges that also serve reasonably priced lunch and dinner fare, and slightly more upscale Banana Cantina turns out superb contemporary Latin cuisine. For a snack, grab a sandwich or iced java at the gay-owned Coffee Cup, or enjoy a hearty meal at the campy gay diner, Mama Dolores. When the mood to socialize strikes you, keep in mind that things start late here and continue into the wee hours. The after-dinner crowd tends to congregate at one of the low-keyed lounges, such as lesbianowned Apaches, upscale La No&e, or the tiny but fun Stereo. Another great bet is Garbo, a jazz dub and piano cabaret that’s often packed. Bench and Bar, an import from Oakland, Calif., is a great Latino bar with lively drag shows. And just about everybody ends up at the city’s hottest gay dub, Manana’s, a stunning former hacienda with a big swimming pool in the center of its open-air lounge-and-dance area. "II~is spacious, trendy club also has a separate strip bar to one side, and a large show stage. This is just a sampling of favorite options - Puerto Vallarta has more than dozen gay bars. The city also offers a wide range of accommodations. Many gay travelers opt to stay in or near Zona Romantica, within walking distance of bars, but if you’d prefer to chill out at a large mainstream resort that’s a bit far from the fray and actually has a nicer beach than Los Muertos, consider the regal Marriott CasaMagna, a s~vanky full-service resort that’s just a short cab ride from the airport and enioys an enviable oceanfront setting. To be sure, it’s a mainstream property popular with families and honeymooners, but the management is very gay-friendly. This is a nice option, especially the day you arrive or the day before you leave, when it’s handy to be near the airport. The resort’s stunning new Ohtli spa, one of the most lavish on the Mexican Riviera, opened in February 2007. In Zona Romantica, you’ll find a nice mix of gay-friendly options. If you’re on a budget and seek a clean, comfortable, and friendly gay property in the center of the action, check into the 28-room Hotel Mercurio, which is just steps from many gay bars and restaurants (and two blocks from the beach), and offers compact but pleasant rooms and a youthful, social vibe - there’s always plenty of frolicking going on around the pool, and the staffis super-friendly. PV’s famed Blue Chairs Resort is a six-story hotel right on the gay beach - the location couldn’t be better, but the property underwent some major management changes recently, and it remains to be seen how this will affect the quality of the place. An intimate gay B&B with a stunning view and a quiet location in the upscale Con&as Chinas district just south of Zona Romantica, the lovely Arco Iris B&B is run by helpful owners Ran and Thom - the latter is a expert chefwho whips up amazingly tasty break fasts each morning. This elegant hideaway, just a 10-minute walk from the beach, comprises three smartly furnished units, each with sweeping bay views. Amenities include an eight-person Jacuzzi and a theater room with a 70-in&-screen, plus satellite TV and free calls within North America. Puerto Vallarta is also home to one of the most alluring, dramatically situated gay resorts you’ll find any- where, the stellar Casa Cupula, which excels as much for its stately accommodations as for its friendly, knowledgeable, and charming staff. The main building comprises six rooms and two unbelievably lavish suites, and owner Don Pickens also rents out two cozier but still comfy rooms in his adjacent villa - these share a with unparalleled of the city and Banderas Bay. Casa Cupula has also developed the ~vorld’s first gay condo hotel - these seven residences adjacent to the inn are currently under construction and for sale (for full or fractional ownership). Facilities - for the inn and the condos - include a well-stocked gym, a pool, and a large open-air lounge with adjacent computer room. The property, which tumbles down a hillside high above Zona Romantica, is a 10- to 15- minute walk from the gay beach and the many bars and restaurants. But once you’ve spent a little time relaxing here, away from the crowds and in full view of Puerto Vallarta’s stunning shoreline, you may find it hard to leave this romantic resort. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 APRIL 2007 Spoiled for Choice Who ~vould have ever thought that gay Republicans ~vould be spoiled for choice in the upcoming presidential primaries? 2Pnere are actually two Republican contenders who support us, in some way, although with reservations, caveats, and conditions. Neither supports same-sex marriage. But let’s be honest - neither do the leading Democrats. Rudy Giuliani is solidly in the civil union camp, with a record of signing a generous domestic-partner law into effect when he was New York City’s mayor. He supports gay rights - anti-discrimination and hate crimes laws - and ~vhen his marriage to Donna Hanover hit the skids, he moved in with a gay couple so that he could canoodle with his then-girlfriend, now-wife, Judith Nathan. So I guess you can say that both personally and politically, he’s OK with the gays. (For a hysterical bit of him in drag, go to ~wcw.youtube. com/watch?v=4IrE6FMpai8.) Giuliani is also pro-choice, although he tries to mollify the radical Christian Republicans on the abortion issue with his undying love and affection for Supreme Court Justice Antonin Scalia (clearly antichoice), and his contention that, as president, he would appoint strict constitutional constructionists. Another issue where Giuliani diverges with the radical Christian mullahs guiding the moral center of the GOP is gun control. They’re against, and, of course, Giuliani supports it - he wa~ the mayor ofNew York. He brought down crime by taking guns off the street - and giving unprecedented power to the police department. He also cleaned up the city. I’m sure there are many in the Big Apple’s LGBT community who considered Giuliani’s actions to be sanitizing the city, not just cleaning it up. But for this girl from Long Island who has spent the last 30 years living in Albany, I have to tell you it is nice to go visit and feel safe on the streets. Yes, Disney may have taken over 42nd Street, but, from my perspective, I’d rather see The Lion King than signs for "Girls, Girls, Girls," and guys, guys, guys walking out of peep shows with their zippers still undone. And then there’s 9/11. Almost six years after the fact, Giuliani is still considered ’~rnerica’s Mayor." When he starts talking about fighting terrorism, he has a credibility- whether you agree with him or not - that can’t be undermined by political doublespeak, Democratic or Republican. While some radical Christians may have trouble with Rudy because he’s been divorced t~vice and is pro-gay-rights and pro-choice, the looking-for-a-reason-to-get-excited, middle-of-the-road Republicans (as well as independents) may well get energized by his tough stand on terror. Like no other candidate for either side, he can talk about our borders being breached by terrorists and the impact it had on this nation’s greatest city. Then there’s U.S. Sen. John McCain (Ariz.). While Rudy’s popularity surges as he supports the troop surge in Iraq, McCain’s campaign is faltering under the weight of his support for the ~var. Go figure. When it comes to our issues, McCain supports basic civil rights for LGBT people - like protection from being fired from your job or thrown out of your apartment - but is a little schizophrenic when it comes to marriage equality. He was vocal in his opposition to the federal amendment to ban same-sex marriage, but then in 2006 supported an amendment to his state’s constitution that would have also denied recognition to any type of legal status for our relationships. Thankfully, the voters didn’t listen, and the state amendment failed 51 percent to 49. McCain is also not a darling of the Christian right. He’s gotten into some hot water with them over the years. They were categorically dismayed by his opposition to the federal amendment and for taking Bob Jones University to task during his 2000 presidential bid. The school, a Christian fundamentalist college, bans interracial dating - McCain thinks that’s not right. However, McCain’s penchant for power is outpacing his politics. He has been playing footsie with Jerry Falwell and recently spoke at a pro-abstinence event in South Carolina. McCain’s actions, however, don’t play with political idiot savant James Dobson of Focus on the Family, who says "no way’’ to McCain. In an attempt to deflect attention away from his lukewarm support for us, McCain’s camp intends to target Mitt Romney,s flip-flopping on LGBT issues. McCain has hired Rob Gray, a former Romney political operative out of Boston, to help him shape his New England strategy and pick away at Mitt’s new-found social conservatism. Rudy Giuliani and John McCain - are gay Republicans spoiled for choice, or faced with pretty slim pickings? If the country continues in the direction it’s headed, it really won’t matter - the electorate will be so sick and tired of Bush and Iraq, they’ll clamor for the anti- George candidate, the Democratic nominee. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com SoulForce motto: Freedom for LGBT people from religious and political oppression through the practice of relentless nonviolent resistance. The BBQ in the park was a great way to unwind after a couple of tense days, even for seasoned veterans of the ride. Many people from the community and student body came out for the free food and fellowship. Several riders attended the Peace Rally at the capitol on Saturday, and Sunday they headed to Dallas and Baylor University. Riders expressed various reactions to their challenging days. They said that each person experiences each arrest differently. Some of the riders have been arrested for a misdemeanor in several states, with SoulForce la~vyers standing in for them at hearings after they had gone on to other locations. They all make a commitment to non-violence in their application process, and bond together through this mutual experience. The misdemeanors show up on their records, and have to be explained to employers, friends and family, and, in one case, Divinity School. Equality Rider founder Katie Higgins is a rider with this bus, called the East Bus, which loops down from Iowa to Oklahoma and Texas, to Mississippi, Georgia, then up to Pennsylvania, and back to Minnesota. The West Bus goes from Indiana, to Kansas, Utah, California and Oregon, then back through Montana to Minnesota. This year 32 colleges are targeted, mostly for having policies banning the enrollment of openly LGBT students. SoulForce is supported by many individuals, foundations, businesses, and corporations. Details about the buses and their destinations, sponsoring the riders, and a blog from the road are on the SoulForce website: www.soulforce.org Videos and books are also available. Equality Ride East Bus wants to thank Church of the Open Arms, OKC Cathedral of Hope, Stilhvater and OKC PFLAG, SODA, Cimarron Alliance and the Habana Inn for supporting their stay in Oklahoma. Jays Tat~nt Seaxch ~ Call Toaay (405)946~5297 See 0u¢" Display Ads in Fr~Sb~an ~ Men Mag~e Creating Community for People iving H V!A1D8 A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. 1 oz. White crer Ch0c0 ate stick for garnish (optional) Pour liquid ingredients into mixing glass. Add ice and to chill. Strain into martini glass and garnish h chocolate stick. ~wvw.0zarksstar.c0m The STAR 23 Starring: Gerard Butler; Lena Headey ; Michael Fassbender If your fantasy is naked Gladiators and drop dead gorgeous hunks with not an ounce of body fat, "300" is a must see. ~he women aren’t to shabby either. As Marc Breindel of Planet Out said in his review, "We’re not just talking pretty boys here, although every man in "300" is movie~star handsome. They’re also the baddest-ass near-naked, body-armor-bedamned fighters since "Fight Club." Each one of the 300 semimude warriors from the movie’s title fights to the death for Sparta, skewering or decapitating every overdressed Persian soldier he can get his bloody sword on. It’s a battle of shirts versus skins, with the gloriously skin-baring, zero-body-fat Greeks taking the day in the audience’s heart, at least." "Occasionally the testosterone overflows to uncomfortable levels of machismo. Leonidas curses his supposedly wimpy allies in neighboring Athens as "philosophers and boy-lovers." In fact, scholars credit Sparta with initiating the culture of Greek homoeroticism as part of its military indoctrination; Leonidas himself is raised away from home by men, spending a good portion of his adolescence wrestling guys in underwear. " 300 is a 2007 film adaptation of the graphic novel 300 by Frank Miller, itself a fictionalized account of the Battle of Thermopylae in 480 BC. ~-he film is directed by Zack Snyder with Frank Miller attached as an executive producer and constfltant, and was shot mostly with bluescreen to duplicate the imagery of the original comic book. Spartan King Leonidas (Gerard Butler) and 300 Spartans fight to the last man against Persian King Xerxes (Rodrigo Santoro) and his army of more than one million soldiers. "~e sacrifice of the Spartans inspires all of Greece to unite against the Persian invaders. In Sparta, Queen Gorgo (Lena Headey) attempts to rally support for her husband. ~l-he story is flamed by a voice-over narrauve by the Spartan soldier Dilios (David Wenham). As 300 uses historical narrative to introduce fantastic creatures, it fits within the genre of historical fantasy. 300 was released in both conventional and IMAX theaters in America on March 9, 2007. The film broke box office records, although critics were dMded over its look and style. Some acclaimed itas an original achievement, while others accused it of favoring visuals over characterizatiom Controversy arose over its depiction of the ancient Persian and Greek civilizations. "STAR TREK" New Movie Will Have Gay Characters[ "Star Trek" has always had a tremendous gay following, but has al~vays been void of a definitive GLBT character. 7his will soon be rectified by "Star Trek" New Voyages "who produces homespun but highly slick short movies is making a queer Web episode. As pre-production on David Gerrold’s "Blood and Fire" continues, additional guest cast members are announced for the upcoming episode. Bobby Rice is already slated to join the New Voyages crew as Ensign Peter Kirk, nephew of Captain James Kirk. A recent addition to the team is Evan Fowler, who will play Lt. Alex Freeman, a significantly pivotal role in "Blood and Fire." This story will center around Capt. James T. Kirk’s nephew, Ensign Peter Kirk (played by Bobby Rice) and his boyfriend, Lt. Alex Freeman (Evan Fowler). It is scheduled to shoot in June. For more info: wwv.startreknewvoyages.com the STAR 25 by Michael Hinzman Salutations Kittens- Uncle Mikey here... \Vvrhat a year it is turning out to be - not only has Mr. Tiddles gotten a tummy tuck, but I am learning to accept those that are less fabulous than yours trul}~. Yes, this is a new uncle which shall reach out to those that need that special touch, and touch them I shall. We find a female and an African American presidential hopeful, a stronger policy protecting our brothers and sisters in the military, same sex couples adopting children into their fashionably superior loving homes not to mention the wonderful new personal care products for men now on the market. What an exciting time it is in our country. Uncle has a dream of a rainbow election not too far off in the distance. Can you imagine the White house White parties? search you sought from me. Even the lovely Chef* John left a special warm memory in my heart, one that is keeping Uncle selfinspired on those chilly spring evenings. Moreover, it is onto bigger issues for this Queen. Yes, Uncle Mikey has been called to arms by those in the community. Uncle shall be writing articles in depth on a plethora ranging from the paramount as well as the delicious. Look for big things here Kittens. Now l shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish. Uncle is just full of Pride kittens, as I watch my community grow in strength, pride, and most of all, knowing that Uncle has become a part of your community, here at the Star family. Chaz has truly built something great and Uncle firmly believes the best is yet to come. Keep reading and support your family. Yes, it has been such a roller coaster of a ride with the Twinks seeking the delightful substance of wishes while the lesbians sought sanity within their U-haul contracts. -Yes, Uncle remembers all and even those that he couldn’t forget at gunpoint. Yes, Crisco boy! I have still not recovered from the deep As that ciga,ette smoking tart, Virginia Slim, would say, "We’ve come a long way baby!" It has truly been Uncle’s pleasure, being the house Guru here at the Star for so long. I have watched as our widdle family has grown and became a publication of great pride and high standard. Yes Kittens, Uncle Mikey is moving onward and upward (maybe even underward), as I continue to serve the gay community. After all, we all know servicing is in a queen’s nature, Wherever there is a lonely man (of course, pending a credit check) I’ll be there. Where there is a Twink in the night, I’ll be there too. Uncle Mikey is not leaving you, just spreading those glittery wings and flying over Queerdom, seeking only to serve his fellow man and sister alike. Ok, so maybe my service wil! be more in depth with the male members of the community, however, I am there for my sisters too. As ~ve move forward Uncle wants to hear from his readers. Know a topic that needs 26 the STAR a Queenly touch? Name the hot issue that you want to hear Uncle Mikey take on. Drop a line and share your thoughts. Uncle ~vill take on the issues with his Queenly flare. Write to Uncle at Unclemikey4you@ ao!.com and tell what is on your mind. Your man on the scene, no matter how many locker rooms, steam houses, underwear shoots, Uncle Mikey will go down to into the depths to get the scoop! Uncle shall talk about the Hollywood slim down, the Washington ho dmvn, yes Uncle shall be there when the ho does fall. No issue too scandalous, no dish to sweet for uncle to serve. You can count on a view gaily straight. No issue to small, no issue to big. Uncle Mikey shall take them all! You know, they have been saying it for years in the ladies room, Now I shall show Uncles immeasurable appetite for the dish. Just as a face can launch a thousand ships, a single voice can overcome the silent ignorance which has ran amuck for so long, so Queerdom stand proud and be heard! Watch the upcoming issues for the new face of the scene... Smooches-Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too... AKA The Ass Whisperer Contact: Undemikey4you@aol.com www.ozarksstar.com BANIBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachae! 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After Dark is a free service to our advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in xvriting of updates, additions or discontinued events, The STAR is not responsible for accurac): the STAR 27 "Swallow your pride, Taurus" Mars enters Pisces on April 6, and he’ll be there for about six weeks, diffusing energy into steamy or esoteric, directionless pursuits. It’s a good time for dance lessons, martial arts, spiritual pursuits, or meditation, but a challenging time to accomplish anything. Try to stick to established plans. If that becomes difficult, let go of the process and stay focused on the goal. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Recent plans you made with friends can get lost in the shuffle or morph into something unexpected. It doesn’t matter, as long as enjoying their company remains most important. Exuberant drinking or drugging could be a problem. Collaborate instead on some community service. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Lately, you’re especially outspoken, but logic deserts you now. You can argue about artistic matters, but most academic ideas will leave you swimming. Political arguments could best be made satirically - maybe through a drag persona. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Beware of hidden costs, balloon payments, and other sudden expenses popping out of nowhere. Making charitable donations could help, but be sure you know where that money is going. Treating buddies to drinks is not charitable! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February t8): Your energy has been high, but your focus is getting weak, which could make you especially susceptible to accidents or simple screw-ups in anything you try. Go slow and easy, and take time out to meditate and clear your busy brain. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Your increased efforts at work could be misguided, causing confusion, perhaps even arguments, with the boss. Swallow your pride. A humble, flexible approach will work best in the long run, even if it’s uncomfortable now. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Mars entering your sign makes you forceful - but to what end? You could experience some sexual magnetism, but you need to decide with whom to enjoy it. A quiet retreat is recommended now, but you don’t have to be all alone! GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): It seems you have so much to say, but your usually well-organized thoughts are a mad, impressionist jumble. Whenever you feel logic-impaired, explore the illogical. New artistic and/or musical experiences will offer great, original insights. CANCER (June 21- July 22): Recent adventures in sexual exploration can leave you wondering, _Is that all there is?_ Never! Erotic technique is not emotional connection. Your emotional desires may exceed real possibilities. Enjoying fantasies is fine - as long as you remember that’s all they are. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Recent changes in your partnership are running into confusion. You could let go of logic and old expectations and enjoy a sensual, poetic adventure. Just avoid anything involving legal obligations or entanglements. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Be especially careful of your health. Moderate your exercise, and guard against anything that’s going around while you are so susceptible. If you’re working too hard, stop, think, focus on the goal, and rethink your approach. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Kick up your heels and dance! Physical activity will open creative channels, but you’re a little spacey for sporting events. Dancing, tai chi, swimming, and meditative jogs are good. Still, be careful. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Resist the urge to stay at home, for whatever "good reasons." Get involved in something to help your neighborhood or community. 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Main 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante.... 309 WVanBuren....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St-- -479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill--- 105 E VanBuren....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton........ 17B Spring Street .......... 479-981-6060 Tiki Torch........ 75 S. Main Street. - -479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren. 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 Condom Sense 418 W. Dickson...... -479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave- - -479-521-0009 Flames Bar--- 40 E. Center- ............... 479-251-1922 Passages ......930 N. College Ave- -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -2! N. Block Ave-- - 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads.......1004 1/2 Garrison Ave........ 479-783-9988 Klub XLR8 ......1022 Dodson Ave- - 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave ........501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street ....1021 Jessie Rd. Diamond State Rodeo Assoc. Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd Sidetracks--- 415 Main St--North L.R.~ The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.- Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave- 501-6642744 www.dsra.org .501-666-6900 501-244-0444 501-372-3070 50t-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club...... 384 GrantAve. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.- - 1701 S. Broadway- -620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut- -Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40..... 3201 S. Hillside......316-682-5494 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg Dr............316-942-1244 Club Glacier- 2828 E. 31st South......316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campgrou nd ................. 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (4t7) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ......Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803--417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn....www.40thstreetinn.com.......816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton BIvd 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s....805 W. 39th St- Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge..... 424 Boonville Ave- GLO Comm. Ctr- - -518 E. Commerical. JR’s Nightclub.... 504 E. Commerical Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive Ronisuz Place....821 College- --816-561-0625 417-831-4700 417-869-3978 417-831-9001 417-864-4572 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books....104 Sunset- 580-242-6838 Priscilla’s.........4810-A West Garriott....... 580-233-5511 Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore..... 1124 NW Cache Rd......580-353-1488 Oklahoma, McAlester (918) McPride- - - POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ..... -4015 N. Penn - 405-606-7000 Boom Room....... 2807 NW 36th St- -405-601-7200 Border’s Books...... 3209 NW Expressway..... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse...... 4001 N. Penn 405-525-7766 Club Rox.......3535 NW 39th Expwy.........405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box.....3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms......3131 N. Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa.............2200 NW 39th Exp....... -405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave........405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy........405-525-0730 Gushers Restaurant- ....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St--405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp 405-947-2351 Hi-Lo Club ....... 1221 NW 50th 405-843-1722 Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- 405-524-5733 Ledo.............2200 NW Expwy- 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ........405-681-5044 Partners- 2805 NW 36th St - -405-942-2199 Pec’s 3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Priscilla’s........ 615 E. Memorial 405-755-8600 Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St 405-525-5165 Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw.........405-947-2351 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- 405-601-3711 The Park- 2125 NW 39th St-- 405-528-4690 The Rockies...... 3201 N. MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th. -405-947-2351 Tramps- 2201 NW 39th 405-521-9888 Ziggy’s- 4005 N. Penn- -405-521-9999 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine -918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E. 21st- 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - ~ - 8015 S. Yale 918-494-2665 Circle Cinema...... 10 S. Lewis....918-592-3456 Club 209 209 N. Boulder ............ 918-584-9944 Club Majestic....... 124 N. Boston Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan Cosmo Deli & Bar - - 6746 S. Memorial Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral Pt Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street........ Hideaway Lounge..... 11730 E. 11th HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st Midtown 3!9 E. 3rd- 918-584-9494 -918-835-3301 -918-459-0497 .918-834-1051 -918-743-4297 918-437-0449 ---918-749-8378 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave.........918-585-9552 Priscilla’s -7925 E. 41st -918-627-4884 Priscilla’s 5634 W. Skelly 918-446-6336 Priscilla’s 11344 E. 11th -918-438-4224 Priscilla’s 2333 E. 71 st- -918-499-1661 Renegades........ 1649 S. Main - - 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd......... 9!8-627-1505 Sappho’s......... 6373-C E 31st St- 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI- 918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center.... 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd ................918-592-1188 TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial- 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th 918-293-0304 bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicate.com www.joanhilty,net 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com NW’_Arkansas GLBT Community Center "Linking Togeti~er as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG www,ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, April 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 4 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Dougls Glenn Michael Dee Paul Wortman James Nimmo Victor Gorin Greg Gatewood Kibby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Michael Hinzman Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Chaz Ward Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, March 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 3 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/209 The Star Magazine, April 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 5 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/210 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/202 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/2e52778fbcc544e93d5bfef3d7a2abfd.jpg 08633d2d73d3318eda50a34658eb9baa https://history.okeq.org/files/original/ca78b619bfc20eb37da0d4fdea5c6994.pdf b292af46b2d9025a4dc40b9cc320e523 PDF Text Text �2 the STAR W~N.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �T ~ Y~3LSA HONE YO~3R Brady Heights has a spectacular history of rebirth. Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed on the National Register of Historic Places. Scheduled Events for Summer Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs Arkansas. August 3-5th In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. SUMMER WINES: She said "I want to discover new white wines for the warm weather and the wines must be ABC." Gay Travelers: St. Louis, Missouri Out of Town: Portland, Oregon Dining In or OUT Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President. BOOKS This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get ,vhat you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CiTY TULSA LAVVTON MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS ON THE COVER: EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS 4 the STAR CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.com �Home Tour sllated for O dest Historic District "Brady Heights" Green Renovation Home Tour 2007" TULSA, OK___On Sunday, October 14th residents of Brady Heights, Tulsa’s oldest historic district, will open their homes to the public for a neighborhood tour of some of the State’s most original and historic homes, as part of Oklahoma’s Centennial celebration. Oklahoma’s early political, mercantile, oil, spiritual and social leaders made Brady Heights their home in an era that spanned Territorial Days through the 1930s. The homes vary in style and design from Victorian and American Foursquare Style, through to the Wright inspired Prairie Style and the Craftsman Bungalow Style. Residents have lovingly restored the homes and guests will be treated to casual discussions by the homeowners relating the history of their home and the machinations they Went through to restore them. Many of the homes still retain original details such as: leaded glass, carriage houses, craftsman made detailing and broad front porches. The tour provides a unique look into the preservation of Oklahoma’s architectural history while highlighting resource conversation. Visitors will have the opportunity to review the resource-conserving materials and practices used in these historic restorations as well as talk with providers of"greeff’ products and technologies. Brady Heights abuts the Brady Arts District and lies on North Denver and North Cheyenne Avenues. The tour will start at 12 noon on Sunday, October 14th and begins at the Centenary United Methodist Church, 621 N. Denver Ave. The fee is $7.50 for adults and $3.00 for children under seventeen with no charge for children under twelve. Tickets will be available until 4pm the day of the event and the tour ends at 5pm. Advance tickets are available at www.bradyheights. com. Proceeds will benefit community projects of the Brady Heights Neighborhood Association. www.ozarksstar.com Brady Heights has a spectacular history of rebirth. Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed On the National Register of Historic Places. The most diverse neighborhood in Tulsa, Brady Heights boasts a co!lection of families and individuals of all races, income ranges, ages, sexual orientations and religions. Proud urban pioneers were guaranteed continued historic integrity of their homes and neighborhood when the Brady Heights Historic District was granted the Historic Preservation Overlay Zoning by the City of Tulsa. For more information about Brady Heights mad The Historic Home Tour, please visit www.bradyheights.com. the STAR 5 �DC, Dan Boren, voted against our LGBT citizenship, but then he was swimming upstream against the popular tide with the minority of House GOP’ers. By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ I’m a big fan of the Internet and think it’s one of the most momentous advances in human communication since our hairy, howling, humanoid ancestors developed spoken language. I say against the tide because a recent NYTimes poll indicated that 75% of DEMOS and 49% of GOP’ers thought same-gender couples should have marriage equality or civil marriage. Can it be anymore clear that the people are ahead, the engine is in front of the caboose. Now, the electronic Internet takes care of distance and time, while cell phones introduce the convenience of mobility in communication. A recent report tabulating the current roster of presidential candidates published by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF, www.thetaskforce.org) shows that based on the candidates’s own words, all the DEMOS support ENDA and MSA, while the GOP’ers have disdain or no opinion. With DOMA and DODT the count is much the same. But some DEMOS are dragging their feet in regard to same-gender marriage. Only Kucinich and Gravel clearly support unequivocally full-blown same-gender marriage. TXT MSGing (text messaging) has caught on in a big way. It allows frequently used expressions to be condensed to acronyms and abbreviations for quick notes to be displayed in the small confines of the cell phone display window. IMO, we LGBT people need to tell our candidates to get on the equality train. Never before have our issues been so prominently in the spotlight of public view and we need to push our candidates, regardless of party, to keep the light on fairness and parity. "l-he American LGBT equality movement has its own list ofTXT MSG acronyms that represents the core of discrimination still being directed at us, even as many countries in western Europe, the Southern Hemisphere, Canada, and Mexico have recognized the inherent right of their own LGBT citizens to the legal equality of a modern, humane society. BTW, CUA, and THX for reading. EOM. Then, with Gutenberg and the invention of movable type, it became possible for large numbers of people to communicate over great distance and beyond life times, two of the greatest inconveniences in maintaining human progress. ENDA -- Employment Non-Discrimination Act MSA/HCPA -- Mathew Shepard Act/Hate Crimes Protection Act DOMA -- Defense of Marriage Act DODT -- Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (Don’t Pursue) Anyone who knows he/she is LGBT should be familiar with these text letters and know the importance of having the first two passed and the last two overturned. ENDA and MSA have passed the House where there is a Democratic majority, though full disclosure nags me to remind you that Oklahoma’s lone DEMO in 6 the STAR Creati ng Community for People living ~7ith H Dd/Ai DS A 501 c (3) Non Profit" Org~tnizat~ioia Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the soolal isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those "~,’ho are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone would like to volunteer or provide nancial assistan~ to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrisrn mjr@yahco.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �Recognized by Keller Williams For outstanding achi~rnent 2005 and 2006 Chuck Breckenddge 918-706-1887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �Summer 2007 Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs, Arkansas, August 3,5 Saturdaj6 August 4 Straddle This: DIVERSITY BIKERS BRUNCH & RIDE 10AM. Join Diversity Pride Events and the Diversity Bikers at the Best Western Inn of the Ozarks, 207 W Van Buren. Then, saddle up and ride to show your true Rainbmv colors. By STAR Staff EUREKA SPRINGS, AR__Ifyour planning a trip to the Gayest little city in America, this coming weekend should prove to be a fun time, and if you plan to hitch up with that special love of your life with a Domestic Partner Registration you will need to get there early on Friday August 3rd or you’ll have to wait until Monday. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available at http://www. cityofeurekasprings.org/. Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. The City Clerk’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carroll County Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 a.m. to 12 noon and 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. Once you have that certificate safely tucked away in your travel bag, step out and enjoy some live action, good food and the great hospitality of Eureka Springs. Friday/Saturday, August 3, 4: Hitch up the U-Haul: The 12th annual YARDS AND YARDS OF YARD SALES (almost 100 last year). Find locator maps at shops and restaurants. Sponsored-oddly-by the Greater Eureka Springs Chamber of Commerce. Patronized-avidly-by antique queens from far and near. Friday - Sunday, August 3, 4, 5: Hitch up the Pop-up: DIVERSITY CAMP OUT, Lake Leather~vood (nice combo there, doncha think?) campground (479) 253-2866. Advance reservations for RV sites ($15/night) and cabins ($70/night) required. Tenters ($10/night) pre-register at (479) 3872871 or RaeSwt@yahoo.com by July 30. Canoe & Paddle Boat Rentals Available. Fishing, Hiking, Biking and Swimming. Community Potluck Dinners & Campfires. Weenies and S’mores. Just two miles west of Eureka Springs offU.S. Highway 62. Frida~ August 3 S&M: Stand and Model at the Diversity Weekend Kick-Off Party. Serious cruising begins here. ’PRINCESS’ WELCOME MIXER Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren, 7-9 p.m.ish. Cosponsored by Diversity Pride Events and Eureka Pride. Mix and mingle with locals and visitors from around the countryLipstick ladies and sturdy gurls, leather to Levi guys, twinks, trans, clones, bis and burly bears. Contact: info@eurekapride.com Spin Cycle: 10 pm - DJ Kyle Egan Live at Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Dance to the hottest hip hop and R&B mixed live on two turntables. Shot specials all night. 10 the STAR \Vet n’ Wild: MENS AND WOMENS SWIM PARTIES, 11 a.m. to 4 p,m. MEN: Rodeway Inn Swiss Holiday Resort, 2015 E. Van Buren. Featuring DJ Rob. \VOMEN: Carolyn’s Ozark Swiss Inn, 3061 E. Van Buren. Kiss Off: PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) photo shoot, 12 noon in Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. And to amuse the tourists and annoy the fundies. A chance, too, to show a Christian biker group-the Jericho Riders from Missouri-the difference between love and hate. The bikers will be in the park at the same time, praying for the Domestic Partnership Registry to go away. Not a chance. But be NICE to them anywa): Remember, the whole world is watching. Cake ’n Cocktails: A reception honoring DOMESTIC PARTNERS, family and friends at 6 to 8 p.m. Generously hosted by Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Sponsored by gaynewsbureau.com. No cover. Cash bar. Open to the public. Even-or especially-the Jericho Christian Bikers. Splane it to us Lucy: Robbie Walker and a special guest, or a cavalcade of stars, xWith Robbie, you just never know. 9 pm Saturday night at Henri’s Just One More. Come early. Robbie PACKS the house. Subterranean Collision Course: Diversity Pride Events brings "COLLIDE" DANCE PARTY to Eureka Live Night Club, one flight belmv street level at 35 N. Main, 9 p.m.-2 p.m. Featuring DJ Rob. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Disco Hoedown: Diversity Pride Event’s RETRO/COUNTRY D~a~NCE & CABARET, 9 pm. to 2 p.m. at Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren. Featuring DJ/singer Mary King and additional performers. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Sunday, August 5: A Feather In Your Cap: See Hitchcock classic "THE BIRDS" at our downtown BYO-canvas-chair-or-blanket and kids-and-dogs outdoor, under-the-stars Luckyl3 Starlight Cinema. The TIPI HEDREN LOOK-ALIKE CONTEST alone is reason enough to extend your visit to Eureka Springs one more day. In the parking lot next to the Basin Park Bath House (huh?), 1 N. Main St. Start time: When the bats fly. Weekend schedule provided by http://www.eurekagaynews.com/ ~wvw.ozarksstar.com �Joplin’s Seventh Annual "Night of Stars 2007" %Viii Feature Ben Miller Band By STAR Staff JOPLIN, MO Tim and Tom’s 7th annual Night of Stars Gala is scheduled for September 12th. ~Ihe Event will be held at Kitchen Pass Bar and Restaurant, 1212 S. Main Street, Joplin, MO. Phone 417-624-9095. The Night of Stars affair is held each year to raise awareness within the GLBTA community, and to raise money for the critical needs of those living with HIV/AIDS in the SW Missouri area. All proceeds go to the non-profit organization AIDS Project of the Ozarks. No Surprises Staying with... Rodeway inn Ozarks Family Owned! Great Sunday, Thursday Rates In an interview Tim said, "We still need auction items. This year we are doing a buffet from 5:30 pm to 7pm and 2 beer tickets for $25.00 per person or you can buy a table for 10 for $200.00. After 7:00 pm door charge will be $6.00 per person. Entertainment this year will be the Ben Miller Band. The silent auction will start then also. I think it will be a great night and raise money for a greater cause. We are looking forward to seeing you there." If you have any questions please feel free to call Tom @ 417-6298994 or Tim @ 417-629-8995 ’Visitors center and area attraction ticket center o Jacuzzi king rooms for two, On.site weddings and wedding .packages Close to restaurants and attraCti0ns Small pets allowed. Family reunions ,0~ark Mountain Motorcycle Tours of popular area deStinations, Picnic. and barbecue area- Group rates and package plans Church group packages,a{,ailable , Friendliest atmosphere in Eureka.Springs Family . owned and.operated, Trolley stop. Meeting Free tanning forguests Continental breakfast r0o~bed to h01d 80 with full kitchen ; On-site massage therapy mater,Guest aundry Center of all attracti0ns 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVISTD Hotline Call for toll free reservations: 1-888o582o84 4 P.O’ Box 430° Eureka Springs, Arkansas 72632 479’253-9501 www, eurekaspringsresort,com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 �]~t~s hard to believe. Here’s a x 6th- young artist he strt~gg]ed for years century Baroque master whose bold to make a living. He was angry. naturalistic painting style t~rst created Yet the angry contrast between iight and darkness in h~ work isthe very no~v hangs in countless whose life was filled reason it with museums ~around the world. ~e turbulence If nothing else, it’s a case study and excess of a do~e:n Mario Pu~o of the importance of having art as novels. an outlet. Unfomanately, one we’re fast removing from our kids" lives. ~ouM~, u~y found re~mption and i~ormliW in his ~t. But does the averag~ kid on the s~eer even know ~vho Carava~io If the arts are indeed a vital part o£ your child’s education ~and studies show F~hgedaboudit. you believe they a~e), th,n you T~ ~d. Xs~cmHy when you consider how much should demand his or her fair our c~ldren can lea~ ~om the conflicted life share. To find out how, or for a ~eat ar~st like Miche~ngelo Caravaggio. more information about ~e grew up in less ~an ideal circ~stances. Most benefits of arts education, of his f~ily died m the plague. Much of his youth please visit us at AmericansForTheArts;org, Because, was misspent on the mean s~¢ets of Rome. And as a as Caravagglo would tel! you~ life without artis tomlre. �Historic American Event August 9th on LOGO TVo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Maintaining its grassroots traditions, the Oklahoma Democratic Party and OK Stonewall Democrats will host a meet-n-greet on Thursday, August 9, starting at 6:00pm at the Party’s headquarters at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard. Christmas In Ju y Fundraiser A Great Success! By STAR Staff This informal reception will have refreshments and live entertainment until 8:00pro. Following immediately will be a watch party to view the live streaming video of the LOGO TV and Human Rights Campaign sponsored forum between the Democratic Presidential candidates. This is the first forum in American election history devoted exclusively to LGBT concerns. Both events are free to the public. Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (wwv.okstonewall.org) is a chapter of National Stonwall Democrats in Washington, DC (wvw. stonewalldemocrats.org) and a recognized dub of the State Democratic Party (www. okdemocrats.org). We work for the equality of America’s LGBT citizens in its social and political life. TAMMY FAYE DIES AT AGE 65 WASHINGTON, DC~The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force expressed its condolences at the passing ofTammy Faye (Bakker) Messner, ex-wife of disgraced evangelist Jim Bakker. Messner died last Friday after a long battle with cancer. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force "Tammy Faye became an icon for our community. In spite of-- and perhaps because of the hardships she faced -- she embraced us, she refused to judge and repudiated those who did. She will be long-remembered and deeply missed. Our condolences go to her family and her wide circle of loving friends." www.ozarksstar.com TULSA, OK Yes Mrs. Hood, there is a Santa Clause! But in July? Bamboo Lounge Tulsa and Miss Bamboo 2007, Holly Rose hosted the First Annual Miss Bamboo Christmas in July charity event to a packed house and a delighted crowd. The entertainers and auction raised $600 to benefit H.O.EE. Clinic of Tulsa. Clinic personnel were also in attendance and administering free AIDS/HIV testing. H.O.EE. testing clinic is a non-profit Mens Outreach program providing free HIV testing, including the 20 minute OraQuick test. The Clinic is located at 3540 East 31st Street in Tulsa. Phone (918) 812-7045. The Clinic is closed on Friday and Sunday. Their Oklahoma HIV/STD Hotline number is (800) 535-2437 Combine ingredients in mixi~ glass. Add ice, stir to strain into your chille( Glass. Pop in CD for fun the STAR 13 �who was now a woman. The 1970s also saw the first sympathetic made-for-TV movies, including That Certain Summer (1972), in which a teenage boy discovers his father is gay. elevision is a major influence on American popular culture, and the evolving presence of LGBT people on the small screen has both reflected and fostered acceptance of gays in main- While reality TV is often regarded as a recent phenomenon, the 1970s PBS series An American Family portrayed the real-life travails of a Southern California family, the Louds. Teenage son Lance came out on screen in January 1973, sparking both condemnation and applause. He performed in a punk rock band and wrote for magazines, including The Advocate, before dying of liver failure related to HIV and hepatitis C at age 50. stream society In the 1950s and 1960s - a time when homosexuality ~vas regarded as a crime or a mental illness - a few brave queers began appearing on local television talk shows. In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. Asked whether he would change his sexual orientation if he could, Olson replied that he would not; the next day, he was fired from his job. Four years later, New York’s WABD ran a similar program featuring sympathetic psychologist Albert Ellis and Gonzolo Segura, a gay chemist who wore a hood to hide his identity. In November 1964, New York Mattachine Society member Randy, Wicker went undisguised on the popular Les Crane Show, and in 1967, activists Franklin Kameny, Jack Nichols, and Lilli Vincenz appeared on channel WOOK in Washington, D.C. "Once we started appearing on TV and on talk radio shows, [the public] started seeing us as more real," Vincenz later said. LGBT people garnered a national audience in March 1967 with a special episode of CBS Reports entitled "The Homosexuals," hosted by Mike Wallace. The program - which ran with virtually no ads since sponsors wouldn’t touch it - featured Jack Nichols, author Gore Vidal, a federal judge, and conservative psychiatrist Charles Socarides; though Nichols used an alias, he too lost his job. That same year, New York Mattachine president Dick Leitsch appeared on The David Susskind Show, which aired on PBS stations nationwide. In 1971, Susskind featured a panel of lesbians, including Daughters of Bilitis member Barbara Gittings, 14 the STAR Wayland Flowers (with his puppet "Madame") who proclaimed, "Homosexuals today are taking it for granted that their homosexuality is not at all something dreadful - it’s good, it’s right, it’s natural, it’s moral, and this is the way they are going to be." By the late 1960s, talk show host Phil Donahue also began featuring queer people (originally on his local program in Dayton, Ohio, which was later nationally syndicated), despite his fear that some viewers might think he was gay, himself. After the Stonewall Riots in June 1969, occasional queer characters began to appear on TV with increasing frequency. The CBS series Medical Center (1969-1976) featured perhaps the first-ever sympathetic portrayals of gay and lesbian characters on television. During the first season of CBS’s _All in the Family_ in 1971, Archie Bunker was taken aback to learn that an old drinking buddy - a former pro football player - was gay. The show prompted then-president Richard Nixon to complain to his staff, "Goddamn it, I don’t think you glorify [homosexuality] on public television." In a later episode, Archie saved the life of a female impersonator, and in the spin-offThe Jeffersons, lead character George reunited with an old Navy buddy Variety shows of the 1970s, such as Rowan and Martin’s Laugh-In and Saturday Night Live, addressed homosexuality in their skits, often by making fun of stereotypical gay characters. By mid-decade, three gay men - Paul Lynde (~vho previously played a bachelor warlock on Bewitched), Charles Nelson Reilly (who had a role in the children’s show Lidsville), and Wayland Flmvers (with his puppet "Madame"), had become flamboyant fixtures on popular game shows, though they did not openly acknowledge their sexuality. While several programs in the 1970s occasionally featured queers, regular LGBT characters were scarce, q-he first, in 1972, was Peter Panama, a gay designer on the short-lived ABC sitcom The Corner Bar. This was followed in 1975 by the first gay male couple, on the network’s Hot L Baltimore. An unhappily married woman on the daytime soap opera Days of Our Lives admitted she was bisexual in 1977, but the storyline was brief. A longer-running and better-known example of a recurring queer character was Jodie Dallas on ABC’s Soap (1977-1982). www.ozarksstar.com �As the gay liberation movement gained political clout, the National Gay Task Force and other activists protested against shows that cast queers in a negative light, including a 1974 episode of Marcus Welby, M.D., in which a male teacher molested a boy. During the first season of Soap, the campy, effeminate Jodie dated a closeted football player and planned to have a sex-change operation, until the Task Force successfially demanded that the script be altered. By the late 1970s, however, the religious right had also become more powerful, and producers and advertisers began to face competing boycott threats from queers and conservatives. (Continued in part 2.) What were some mile- stones for queers on television? (Part 2) by Mariel Hemingway, and the following year on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, the character Jadzia Dax kissed a woman who xvas the re-embodiment of her dead husband. A January 1997 episode of Relativity showed a passionate, close-up lesbian lip-lock, and two years latin; TV lawyer Ally McBeal shared a prolonged smooch with a female office rival. Fox’s _Melrose Place_ deleted a planned prime-time gay male kiss due to boycott threats in 1994, leaving Jack and Ethan on WB Network’s Dawson’s Creek to break that barrier in 2000. Paul Lynde (who previously played a bachelor warlock on Bewitched) milestones. The first same-sex wedding be~veen two women - with activist Candace Gingrich serving as the minister - came on Friends in 1996. NBC’s TV movie Serving in Silence (1995) related the story of Lt. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who was ousted from the military after acknowledging that she was a lesbian. But not until 2006 did The L Word introduce Moira/Max, the first female-tomale character to transition on the small screen, followed later that year by Zarf/Zoe’s male-to-female transition on All My Children. In 1981, ABC’s popular Dynasty introduced Steven Carrington, the first openly bisexual regular character in a dramatic series. The network’s daytime soap opera All My Children featured its first gay storyline in 1983, when erstwhile heterosexual Devon McFadden declared her love for her lesbian psychiatrist. Five years later, ABC presented the first recurring out lesbian character in prime time - nurse Marilyn McGrath on the short-lived medical drama Heartbeat. In a bid for increased visibility, LGBT people continued to appear on television talk shows, even as such programs shifted from the measured affairs hosted by David Susskind and Phil Donahue to shows in which hosts and audience members blatantly attacked the guests. The controversy over "trash TV" came to a head in March 1995, when Jonathan Schmitz killed Scott Amedure after Amedure revealed his crush on Schmitz on The JenW Jones Show. During these decades, television increasingly addressed issues of concern to the LGBT community. The 1985 made-for-TV movie An Early Frost offered one of the first portrayals of people with AIDS. MTV’s The Real World also dealt with AIDS, featuring HIV-positive Pedro Zamora during its 1994 season. That same year saw the first televised gay male wedding, on the CBS series Northern Exposure, set in a small Alaska town founded by a lesbian couple. Over the years, expressions of same-sex affection between women were more accepted than those between men. In November 1989, the sitcom thirtysomething lost more than $1 million in ad revenue when it showed two men in bed together, even though a preceding kiss was axed. In February 1991, C.J. Lamb and Abby Perkins, two attorneys on NBC’s L.A. Law, shared the first lesbian kiss on network TV. In 1994, over the objections of network executives, Roseanne kissed a lesbian character played espite growing pressure from conservatives follmving the proliferation of LGBT characters in the mid-1970s, the 1980s and 1990s witnessed no shortage of queer television www.ozarksstar.com The late 1990s saw the first shows with prominent LGBT lead characters. On April 30, 1997 - after months of innuendo - Ellen DeGeneres had the most famous smallscreen coming-out, in a star-studded episode of her ABC sitcom Ellen that attracted some 35 million viewers. But not tong thereafter, her same-sex kiss on the show prompted a parental advisory warning, and the program’s ratings dropped as it began to focus more on gay issues. NBC’s Will and Grace also broke new ground, though some viewers were disappointed that the gay male lead never had an ongoing romantic relationship. The turn of the century witnessed the most visible queer personality on reality TV since Lance Loud, when self-proclaimed "fat naked fag" Richard Hatch - who later served time for evading taxes on his prize money - won the first season of Survivor in 2000. Reichen Lehmkuhl and Chip Arndt, the couple who triumphed in the fourth season of CBS’s The Amazing Race (2003), proved to be more likable gay role models. That year also saw the debut of Bravo’s popular Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, featuring five gay men giving fashion and lifestyle advice to style-challenged heterosexuals. Cable television offered the most daring series featuring primarily queer casts, beginning with Showtime’s Queer as Folk in 2000 and The L Word in 2004. In a reflection of growing LGBT economic clout, Canada’s PrideVision (later renamed OutTV) became the world’s first channel offering full-time programming for a queer audience in 1991. The U.S. cable channels Here! TV, QTelevision Network, and MTV/Viacom’s Logo followed suit, ................ Continued page 23 the STAR 15 �����One ofPortland’s hippest hangouts for cocktails and terrificfood, the Mint restaurant and adjoining 820 bar are owned by highly talented and openly gay drink mixologist Lucy Brennan. (Photo by Andrew Collins) It’s both a cliche and an injustice to compare Portland xvith Seat~e and Vancouver, but people do it all the rime - the three eiries are, after all, the crown jewels of the Pacific Northxvest. Portland stands very much on its oxvn, however, and despite its considerable groxv~ in recent years, it retains a surprisingly intimate scale and lowkeyed personalit3: Gay and lesbian visitors xvill discover a city xvith no predon~finantly alternative neighborhood, but a progressive, welcoming attitude that permeates every inch of the city. The city’s strengths include a plethora of classy, gay-friendly, boutique-style hotds (many of them xvithin walking distance of the city’s best gay bars); a pedestrian-friendly downtown with lively cultural venues and engaging retail strips; and one of the most exciting restaurant scenes around. Even better, accommodations and meals cost considerably l~ss here than in other West Coast cities of comparable acclaim. If it seems odd that you haven’t heard more about Portland, keep in mind that locals are fiercely intent on keeping it from groxving too big and too croxvded - the city is, by design, a well-guarded secret. 20 the STAR Portland lies just below the confluence of the Columbia and the Willamette rivers. The Columbia forms the border between Washington and Oregon; from it, the Willamette txvists in a southerly direction, bisecting the city and its attractive skyline. In this eclectic city center, high-end boutiques border funky pawn shops, dapper bistros sit beside humble burger joints, and postmodern office towers rise above cast-iron Victorians. Along the river, Tom McCall Waterfront Park stretches for more than a mile, providing a scenic venue for cycling, jogging, and sunning. Brown baggers congregate at Pioneer Square, a tidy redbrick plaza at Yamhill Street and Broadxvay. Many high-end chain stores are clustered here, including NikeTown, the unabashedly commercial tribute to the Portland-based maker of athletic wear, and Nordstrom. South of Pioneer Square the impressive Portland Center for the Performing Arts presents ballet, opera, and classical music, and the Portland Art Museum specializes in Native American, regional contemporary, and graphic arts. A fexv blocks northwest lies the city’s compact gay entertainment district, mostly along bar-studded Stark Street. Vintageclothing, book, and used-record shops line Burnside and Oak streets, including one of the nation’s most famous bookstores, Powell’s, which has an enormous GLBT section. Across Burnside is Portland’s hottest neighborhood, the swank Pearl District, where massive warehouse buildings have been converted into trendy loft-style condos and hip eateries. The Pearl District’s Bluehour is well-regarded for its inventive seafood, such as semolina-encrusted halibut with lava beans and an herb-risotto cake. The same culinary team is behind Saucebox, a sdf-conseiously hip care delivering tasty multinational fare. Budget time to explore Portland’s Northwest neighborhood, along 23rd and 21st avenues, where upscale boutiques and restaurants proliferate, including one of Portland’s hottest purveyors of Pacific Northwest cuisine, Wildwood. The menu here changes often but might feature, for example, day-oven roasted leg of lamb with summer squash grarin. From Northwest you’re a short drive from Metro Washington Park Zoo, which anchors 322-acre, densely wooded Washington Park, opposite xvhich sits the International Rose Test Garden; 10,000 bushes with more than 500 varieties are displayed xvithin its 4 acres. Just up the hill is a serene Japanese garden. The wooded grounds abut the 5,000-acre Forest Park, great for hiking and biking. Across the Williamette River from downtown you’ll find several neighborhoods acclaimed for their artsy fed, popularity with gays and lesbians, and wealth of great shopping and dining options. The Hawthorne District might just be Portland’s most lesbian-popular neighborhood, and it also has scads of pleasing retail and dining options, including the superb Castagna Restaurant, known for its creative regional Northwestern cuisine. Bread and Ink Care is another Hawthorne favorite, captivating regulars with its Mediterranean, Mexican, and Yiddish fare (how’s that for an unlikely trinity?). The cheeseburgers garner raves all around, as do the chicken enchiladas. Nearby Southeast Stark and Southeast Belmont streets also hold a share of the area’s coffeehouses, boutiques, and music clubs. Other East Side neighborhoods of note www.ozarksstar.com �include Alberta, Division/Clinton, and East Burnside. And the once derelict industrial area on the northeastern shores of the Willamette, the Lloyd District, now contains a convention center, sports stadiums, and the impressive 200-store Lloyd Center mall. The variety of excellent, gay-friendly restaurants on the East Side is staggering, but standouts include Mint/820, a contemporary bistro and cocktail bar owned by openly gay and nationally renowned drink mixologist Lucy Brennan; and Rocket, a see-and-be-seen space known for such simple but mouthwatering fare as braised beef rib with red wine jus and black cod with a radish salad. Also consider sassy Rou_x for imaginatively rendered New Orleans-style cuisine; Helser’s on Alberta for amazingly delicious breakfast and lunch fare; and Vindalho for modern Indian food. There are countless opportunities for getting out and enjoying the countryside within a short drive of Portland. Rooster Rock (aka Cock Rock) State Park lies 20 miles east of the city in the scenic Columbia Gorge and is a favorite place for gay sunbathers. Sauvies Island, about 8 miles northwest of Portland, has another scenic and scene-y clothing-optional beach with a decidedly gay following. This area is also poptflar for kayaking and boating - you can rent kayaks or take tours from Scappoose Bay Kayaking, and Portland’s own Out Kayatdng is a GLBT social group dedicated to this very ?ctivity - it welcomes visitors on its frequent weekend excursions. In the other direction, magnificent Mt. Hood (elevation 11,300 feet) offers year-round skiing, great hiking, challenging rock-climbing, and plenty more to get the blood flowing. In the same area, you can take a hair-raising whitewater rafting trip on the roiling Clackamas River - a highly reliable outfitter for this activity is Destination Wilderness. And south of Portland, you’ll find the fantastic Willamette Valley wine country, which has become internationally renowned for its pinot noir and pinot gris. Numerous wineries in the valley are open for tastings. With one of the more pronounced and vibrant women’s scenes on the West Coast, Portland has not only a couple of popular lesbian bars but also many spots where both women and men congregate. Near Hawthorne, the Egyptian Club is the most popular such venue, with strippers some nights and always a big crowd for dancing. Also on the east side of town, Crush is a swish and sophisticated cocktail lounge drawing a mix of women and men. The kitchen here turns out excellent bistro fare, and there’s a popular brunch on weekends. Portland abounds with distinctive hotels. The famously gay-friendly Kimpton Group has a pair of gems. With the Hotel Monaco, Kimpton improved on a familiar Portland strategy: Take a classy old building and convert it into a charming hotel. Many of the accommodations here are full suites, and all have such high-end amenities as DVD players and 12Occitane bath products. You’ll find the same level of quality at intimate Hotel Vintage Plaza. Rooms in this restored downtown 1894 building are large and done in warm colors; many have two-person hot tubs and spiral staircases leading to second-story sleeping lofts. The hotel’s Pazzo Ristorante serves exceptional contemporary Italian fare. You’l! find several more gay-friendly hotels of note around the city, some high-end, and some geared toward travelers on a budget. On the inexpensive side, try the offbeat Ace Hotel, which is set inside a vintage 1912 building along Stark Street’s gay bar strip. There’s a bohemian sensibility to the place, from the coffeehouse off the lobby to the contemporary paintings in the large but modestly furnished rooms. Upscale choices include the Hotel Deluxe, a retro-cool property with plush rooms and one of the coolest little bars in the city, the Driftwood Room. Its sister property is the even more stunning Hotel Lucia, a modern, artful lodging in the heart of downtown. Among the perks are iPod docking stations in every room. For a more intimate experience, try the MacMaster House B&B, which is on swank King’s Hill, two blocks from Washington Park. This grand turn-of-the-century Colonial Revival home is convenient to the business district. The rooms have a romantic mix of antiques and reproductions, and four have fireplaces. Arguably Portland’s most distinctive accommodations, however, are found at the Jupiter Hotel, which is just across the Willamette from downtown and is a favorite roost among hipsters, musicians, artists, and bon vivants. The once prosaic motor court has been transformed into a mod boutique hotel with sleek furnishings and a playful sensibility. ~he on-site Doug Fir restaurant and lounge hosts a wide range of indie rock bands, and the Jupiter has its own branch of the popular Portland adult erotica shop, Spartacus Leathers. This is one hotel where you’re never far from romantic inspiration. Stark Street has the bulk of the city’s top gay clubs, including Boxxes and Red Cap, a pulsing dance club-cum-video bar; Eagle PDX, a cruisy leather bar; Silverado (think go-go boys); and Scandals, a convivial and laid-back video bar popular with the after-work set. After the bars close, gay meets grunge in the neighborhood’s 24hour diner, the Roxy; on any given night you’ll see big hair, pierced extremities, lotsa muscle, leather, rubber, drag - you name it. Old Town, a short walk from the Stark Street area, also has a handful of noteworthy gay hangouts, among them the upscale steak house Hobo’s - this popular lounge has piano music nightly. Darcelle XV Showplace is famous for its elaborate drag revues; on nights the gals don’t dress up, strippers dress down. C. C. Slaughter’s is Old Town’s top gay dance club, pulling in a mostly under-35 crowd and pulsing into the late hours. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �AUGUST 2007 Repeating Holocaust History Lesbian Notions, looks at people who seem to forget the history ofthe Holocaust. Photo: Anti-Gay protest marc,b 1939Nazi Germany it wasn’t unril the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C., opened in 1993 that this treatment was brought to national and international attention. I was in D.C. for the 1993 lesbian and gay March on Washington. Hundreds of us gathered at the museum the evening before it opened, laying down carnations to symbolize the lives of gays and lesbians lost in the Holocaust and praying for their souls. As a second-generation Jew on the cusp of turning 50, I grew up with stories of World War II and the reality ofthd Holocaust. My father fought in the war; my mother was in the Signal Corps. Anti-Semitism was a hatred I was taught about at an early age - from hearing the stories of pogroms in Eastern Europe, where my family was from, to reading and talking about Hitler’s rage against anyone different from his Aryan ideal. In the 1960s and ’70s, few publicly questioned whether the Holocaust happened, as some revisionist historians, Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, and others do today. It was a time when the slogan "Never Again" was a rallying cry for American Jews so that we would never forget the six million who died in the camps, It was only after I came out that I learned that gay men and lesbians were also interred in the concentration camps. It certainly wasn’t something I was taught in Hebrew school. I knew early on that Jews were not the only ones targeted by the Nazis, although we were the largest group. Germans with disabilities or mental illness, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Gypsies, Poles, and Soviet prisoners of war, among others, also found themselves in concentration camps. But no one ever talked about the gays. Richard Plant published The Pink Triangle in 1988, which chronicled the atrocities against lesbians and gays inthe camps. But 22 the STAR Since opening, the museum has printed educational material, sponsored major exhibitions about gays and the Holocaust, and has an online exhibition dedicated to the subject. Thousands of gay men were killed in the concentration camps, forced to wear pink triangles so everyone knew why they ~vere there. These men ~vere not only abused - and even killed - by the Nazis and the people who ran the camps, but they were also subjected to the homophobic reactions of their fellow prisoners. More than 100,000 gay men were arrested under the Nazis’ notorious Paragraph 175 law that broadly defined lewd behavior between men. A man could literally be arrested for just looking at another man the "wrong" way. Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Hundreds of men were castrated under court order or coercion. According to the museum, record-keeping on gay concentration camp victims is sketchy, but it estimates that between 5,000 and 15,000 gay men were imprisoned at the camps, where many died from starvation, disease, exhaustion, beatings, and murder. After the camps were liberated, many of the German gays were sent back to prison to finish their terms, because Paragraph 175 was not among the Nazi laws that were repealed. The museum is one of the world’s leaders in making sure we don’t forget what happened during the Nazi reign of terror. Too bad some others - like the ultra-orthodox Haredi sect of Jews in Israel - apparently haven’t made the trip to D.C. or availed themselves of the museum’s online resources. The Haredi are the folks who routinely protest Gay Pride parades in Israel - the country that was established as a democracy that would be a haven for the persecuted Jews of Nazi Germany, the former Soviet Union, and other countries. All the Haredi are doing is repeating the hatred that fueled the Holocaust in the first place. They put a hate-filled coalition of reactionary Christians, Muslims, and Jews together to try and stop World Pride from happening in Jerusalem. It always amazes me how conveniently and quickly enemies become allies when it comes to denying us our rights, our pride, our way of life. This year in Jerusalem, the Orthodox Righteous Court of Law actually placed a curse on the city’s Pride parade organizers and marchers, as well as on the police who helped to keep the event safe and secure. It went like this: "To all those involved, sinners in spirit, and whoever helps and protects them, may they feel a curse on their souls, may it plague them and may evil pursue them; they will not be acquitted of their transgressions from heavenly judgment." Then you have the ultra-orthodox members of the Knesset, Israel’s parliament, sponsoring bills to outlaw al! gay Pride parades or to establish "rehab centers" to teach us how to repress our sexuality. Knesset member Nissim Ze’ev considers us dangerous and says that the government needs to keep an eye on us. The rehab centers would be staffed with a special team of psychologists, psychiatrists, and social workers who will help us return to "a normal life." According to Ze’ev, lesbian and gay people must be made aware of "how their lifestyle is destroying our existence." Camps, curses, making us the enemy of society - it all smacks of Hitler’s rhetoric. But this time, it’s wrapped in an ultra-orthodox tallit (prayer shawl) that gives it a credibility it doesn’ deserve. www.ozarksstar.com �Past Out: producing original programs such as Noah’s Arc - described by The Economist as a takeoff on Sex and the City from an AfricanAmerican gay male perspective - and the supernatural gay drama Dante’s Cove. Transgender Seeks Office of President of the United States. by STAR Staff The increased presence of LGBT people on TV over the past half century reflects the growing influence of both out queers in the entertainment industry and straight producers who grew up in an era of greater acceptance of sexual diversity. Nonetheless, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation found that during the 2006-2007 broadcast network television season, only 1.3 percent of regular characters on scripted, prime-time programs were gay or lesbian, and none were bisexual or transgender. was one of the three candidates at the first Republican debate to declare the theory of evolution invalid. Ferguson’s campaign isn’t necessarily based on being transgender. The candidate’s platform is firmly rooted in the Libertarian philosophy, preservation of personal civil liberties being the supporting plank of the Libertarian platform. While Ferguson is not running specifically as a transgender candidate, the idea of the preservation of individual liberties is certainly consistent with the interests of the transgender community. Candidate Ferguson faces an uphill batde in both the Presidential and the House of Representatives race. This is her second bid for a seat in this district. Of course, the opportunity to project a positive image of transgender people as active participants in the American political process is certainly an endeavor worth supporting. For further information: Alwood, Edward. 1996. Straight News: Gays, Lesbians, and the News Media (Columbia University Press). Eisenbach, David. 2006. Gay Power: An American Revolution (Carroll & Graf). Raymond, Susan, and Alan Raymond. 2002. Lance Loud! A Death in an American Family (PBS documentary). HUTCHINSON, KS__Bennie Lee Ferguson, of Hutchinson, Kansas, has officially declared candidacy for the office of President of The United States, and for a House of Representatives seat in Kansas district 104. Born on February 25, 1953 at Grace Hospital in Hutchinson, Kansas. The son of an Air Force aerospace engineer and a Kansas farm girl, he spent his childhood in cities and towns all across the nation, from Massachusetts to California, always returning, however, to his home in Reno County and Hutchinson. Ferguson is running on the Libertarian ticket, and will be a write-in candidate in the General Presidential Election in 2008. Ferguson holds a Bachelor’s degree from Wichita State University where he is currently enrolled in the graduate program. He expects to graduate with a Master’s degree in history in spring of 2008. In connection with his master’s thesis on the subject of micropatrology (the study of small self-proclaimed nations), he has founded The Kingdom of Fergus within the city limits of Hutchinson, Kansas. The principles espoused by the micronations movement are philosophically akin to Libertarian views. Following his graduation, he intends to commute to law school at Oklahoma City University having already taken the Law School Admissions Test in 2004. Ferguson also continues to work as an entertainer. The Ben Ferguson Band is a popular attraction throughout the area and he has appeared several times at Hutch Fest and the Kansas State Fair. Bennie will answer your questions and accept campaign contributions at bennieleeferg@hotmail.com. While openly transgender candidates for office like Kim Coco Iwamoto (HI), Dana Beyers (MD) and Amanda Simpson (AZ) have experienced some modicum of success at the state level, Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President, and is certainly the first transgender candidate for a state legislative seat in the state that elected Sam Brownback (R, KS). It should be noted that now Republican Presidential Candidate Brownback www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ���ARE RIGHT AROUND THE CO ER FROM NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY AND SHE IS COMING OUT IN A BIG WAY @~nother National Coming Out Day is approaching and change is in the air. Gays are fighting for the right to get legally married and to be legally protected against hate crimes and discrimination. Scientists are looking for the gay gene. Gay themes are frequently seen in major T~. shows. We have GLBT cable stations, LOGO and here! and shows like Queer as Folk, Will and Grace, Noah’s Arc, and the L-Word, which focus on the lives of homosexual people. Openly gay people like Rosie O’Donnell, Melissa Ethridge, and Ellen have successful careers that are building a bridge between gays and straight people. And The Secret, a new bestselling book by Rhonda Byrnes, describes a new spirituality, a new way of thinking about God, the universe and ourselves. So, where are we headed? We are running down the yellow brick road toward freedom - freedom in the truest sense of the word. Freedom from discrimination; freedom to marry the one we love; freedom from traditional spirituality; freedom to feel good about ourselves; freedom to break down cultural walls, freedom from labels of good and bad, freedom from society’s rules and government propaganda, freedom from the "musts" and "shoulds" and "need tos;" freedom from limiting beliefs about who we are and our value to the world; freedom from separateness and freedom to pursue our dreams. 26 the STAR Grace Lawson realized at the age of 41 that she is gay. Since then she has gone through significant personal transformation including leaving a heterosexual marriage, finding her true love, and moving from a traditional Christian view of God to a much deeper spirituality. She has written a book called Coming Out Coming Alive which is about personal freedom; about becoming who you truly are. And this book is the final stage of her own coming out. The environment at the corporate office where she works may be homophobic and she could loose her job over this, but she is willing to take the risk for the sake of the book and what it can do for the world. This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get what you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. Coming Out Coming Alive will be in stores on September 1st, but you can get it early at http:// www.comingoutcomingalive.com/COCABook. htm. www.ozarksstar.com �Openly-Gay Democrats Elected to Lead Young Democrats of America Stonewall Democrats to Serve as YDA President and Vice President WASHINGTON, DC Today July 23rd, the Nationa! Stonewall Democrats (NSD) congratulated a newly-elected leadership of the Young Democrats of America (YDA), including two openly-gay Stonewall Democrats who will now lead the organization as President and Executive Vice-President through 2009. "Young voters are the new base of the Democratic Party, and we are proud that the Young Democrats of America support equality for LGBT families and have placed their faith in the leadership of two great Democratic leaders who happen to be gay," said Jo Wyrick, NSD Executive Director. "The future of our party now has an opportunity to demonstrate to all Democrats how fully engaging our community is politically viable and smart." On Sunday, David Hardt (Texas) was elected as President of the Young Democrats of America with 93% of the delegate votes during the organization’ s national convention in Dallas. Also elected on Sunday was Chris kaqderson (Tennessee) as the organization’ s Executive Vice President. The election of Hardt and Anderson mark the first time that the Young Democrats of America will be led by an openly-gay leadership team. The Young Democrats of America GLBT Caucus also elected its new leadership on Saturday, including the election of NSD Board Member Kyle Bailey (Georgia) as Caucus Vice-Chair. Bailey also serves as President of the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats. The other elected GLBT Caucus officers include Rachel Kau-Tayler (California) as Caucus Chair, Rob Hudson (Florida) as Caucus Secretary and Byron LaMasters (Texas) as Caucus Treasurer. The Young Democrats of America have undertaken a dramatic outreach to LGBT Democrats over the past several years. Congruently, the National Stonewall Democrats have also increased their outreach to LGBT Young and College Democrats. NSD has established youth scholarships for national trainings, including the "Keith Smith Fund" wvw~.ozarksstar.com designed to honor the outreach work of former NSD Board Member Keith Smith of Oklahoma. Over the past two years, young leaders within the Stonewall Democrats have also established Stonewall Young Democrats chapters across the country, which serve to organize LGBT Youth within the Democratic Party. As the official youth arm of the Democratic Party, YDA mobilizes young people under the age of 36 to participate in the electoral process, influence the ideals oft,he Democratic Party and develops the skills of the youth generation to serve as leaders at the local and national level. YDA has 43 chartered states and US territories with over 1,500 local chapters. In 2003, members of the National Stonewall Democrats authored and passed language adopted by YDA which declared the organization’ s support for civil marriage for same-sex couples. To learn more about the Keith Smith Fund for LGBT Students go to: www.stonewal ldemocrats, org/smithfund/ Task Force, Inc., releases first comprehensive analysis of 2008 presidential candidates’ positions on LGBT issues WASHINGTON, June 27 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc., today released the first comprehensive analysis of the top 19 candidates for the 2008 presidency on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues. Democrats discussed in this report include Hillary Clinton, John Edwards and Barack Obama. Republicans include Rudy Giuliani, John McCain and Mitt Romney. The report, The 2008 Presidential Candidates’ Positions on Lesbian, Gay; Bisexual and Transgender Issues, and its accompanying chart are based on an analysis of the voting records and public statements of the candidates in eight key LGBT issue areas, including sexual orientation and gender identity nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws; HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment; lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members; and partnership recognition for same-sex couples. According to the report, all Democratic candidates are supportive of the majority of LGBT issues, including transgender-inclusive nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws. Only two Democratic candidates support marriage equality for same-sex couples, however, yet all of them are in support of other partnership recognition fights, such as civil unions. Across the board, Republican candidates were in opposition to the majority of LGBT issues, with most publicly opposing lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members. Ten of 11 Republican candidates also oppose any partnership recognition for samesex couples, whether it be marriage equality, civil unions or domestic partnerships. U.S. Rep. Dennis Kucinich is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly supported all eight LGBT issues. Former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly opposed all eight LGBT issues. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. "The differences between the Democratic and Republican fields of candidates on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues are shockingly stark and profoundly depressing. Over time, the majority of Ameficans have moved to support basic fairness for LGBT Americans, including nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws, repeal of ’Don’t Ask Don’t’ Tell,’ and protections for our families. Sadly, the Republican field has gone in the opposite direction, still dearly pandering to the venom of the so-called ’religious right.’ This only means that they will continue to use our lives as cultural wedge fodder whenever it’s deemed politically expedient. "The public statements and voting records of the Democratic candidates show that they are clearly light years ahead of the Republicans on almost every issue important to the LGBT community. Nevertheless, the lack of courage on marriage equality is disturbing on both political and moral grounds. Politically, being for civil unions but against marriage doesn’t bring a single voter over from the other side. Morally, it’s hard to understand how a Democratic candidate can say to people they know individually and to one of the most loyal and generous voting blocs the party has, ’Sorry, I just can’t go there -- you understand, right?’ Actually, we don’t." the STAR 27 �"Take a hike, Sagittarius!" Venus squaring Mars provokes libido and creativity. Mars is moving forward from Taurus to Gemini, and Venus is retrograding from Virgo into Leo. This activity creates bold talk and uncertain or ill-considered action. Be very careful what you wish for, especially out loud! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play! But it’s going to end up costing you in ways you hadn’t bargained on. Caution and forethought were never the best traits of your sign; this would be a good time to work on developing them! TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Most families are mortal embarrassments, but we see the flaws at home far more clearly than our guests do. (At least we’ll invite the guests back!) These universal constants are driving you mad. Think about home impro.vements, but don’t act now. SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Your wanderlust is showing, and that could be causing both general nervous tension for you and irritation among your colleagues. Go ahead and get away if you can. At least put on the lederhosen and go for a hike in the hills. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): You’re feeling a little too frisky, and everyone’s noticing it. Getting it out of your system won’t stop the indiscretion; but if everyone suspects you of philandering, you might as well be guilty! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Are you showering your darling with too much or too little praise and attention? Pay close attention to your baby’s needs, but you’re still likely to get it wrong. Talking about it at home helps. Listening is even better! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Wanting to shine at work can cause friction with your colleagues. Just do your best work, let it speak for itself, and make sure to share all due credit - and perhaps a bit more - with the rest of the team. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): With your current inability to keep a secret, you must be careful to listen to none. Your own secrets - so deep and dark, even you don’t know them - can come to light in playful banter, so be careful whom you play with! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your friends will surely enjoy your charitable impulses, but let a little generosity go a long way. Spending like a drunken sailor could leave you with a titanic financial hangover. LEO (July 23 - August 22): You feel pretty, and you _are_ pretty. Everyone already sees that, and even your slightest efforts to play up your glamour will only push you way over the top. Relax, honey. You’re already too fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): You want to be absolutely correct, but nobody is! Don’t fret. Worrying about it can lead you into silly arguments, provoking others to feel criticized and take offense, even when your aims are entirely self-critical. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your reputation as a lover is getting around, perhaps with details you’d prefer to keep quiet. Take it all with good humor. Cheerfully refusing either to admit or to deny anything may be your best bet. Or invite some of the gossipers to find out for themselves. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): You’re concerned about your career, but you have other problems closer to home. Discussions, even arguments, with your partner should clear the air, perhaps even shedding light on those issues at work! MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479,253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and Blessed Day! 28 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org ......... 888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers- - - -479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) Diversity Pride Events .............. ww~.diversitypdde.com A Byrd’s Eye View ..... 36 N. Main ........... 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante .... 309 W VanBuren ....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s 19 1/2 Spring St ............. 479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill- - - 105 E VanBuren ....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Tiki Torch ........ 75 S. Main Street479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Condom Sense 418 W. Dickson ...... -479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 6t2 N. College Ave-479-521-0009 Flames Bar--- 40 E. Center--- 479-251-1922 Passages ......930 N. College Ave- -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave. 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Klub XLR8 ...... 1022 Dodson Ave- - 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St.479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave ........ 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street .... 1021 Jessie Rd-501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... www.dsra.org Discovery- .... 1021 Jessie Rd-501-666-6900 Sidetracks- ~- 415 Main St--North L.R. 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.- ......... 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave. 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club ...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway- .............. 620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut-Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40 ..... 3201 S. Hillside ...... 316-682-5494 Club Glacier- ........ 2828 E. 31st South ...... 316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground ................. 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (417) Fantasy2331 E 7th St- ....... -417-626-7275 MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ...... Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn ....www.40thstreetinn.com ....... 816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Blvd 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s .... 805 W. 39th St................ 816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge ..... 424 Boonville Ave417-831-4700 GLO Comm. Ctr- - -518 E. Commedcal417-869-3978 JR’s Nightclub .... 504 E. Commerical. 417-831-9001 Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place .... 821 College ............... 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books .... 104 Sunset 580-242-6838 Oklahoma, Law-ton (580) Ingrids Bookstore ..... 1124 NW Cache Rd ...... 580-353-1488 Oklahoma, IVlcAlester (918) McPride ........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642 ...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ..... -4015 N. Penn 405-606-7000 Boom Room ....... 2807 NW 36th St405-601-7200 Border’s Books ...... 3209 NW Expressway- .... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse ...... 4001 N. Penn 405-525-7766 Christie’s Toy Box ..... 3126 N. May Ave 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms ...... 3131 N. Penn ...... 405-525-9555 Copa,2200 NW 39th Exp ........ -405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave ....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy........405-525-9200 First Amendment Tatoo Shop- - - 2135 NW 39th - - -405-604-3911 Gushers Restaurant- ....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 .2200 NW 39th Exp Habana Inn 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources .... 2312 NW 39th St--405-521-9696 Hi-Lo Club ....... 1221 NW 50th ............ 405-843-1722 Jungle Reds ....... 2200 NW Expwy -405-524-5733 Ledo.2200 NW Expwy- 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ....... -405-681-5044 Partners. 2805 NW 36th St -405-942-2199 Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St-405-525-5165 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St. -405-601-3711 The Park 2125 NW 39th St -405-528-4690 The Patio ........ 320! N. MayAve ........ -405-917-1663 Tramps. -2201 NW 39th. -405-521-9888 Ziggy’s. -4005 N. Penn. -405-521-9999 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge .... 7204 E. Pine 918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E. 21st. 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale 918-494-2665 Circle Cinema ...... 10 S. Lewis918-592-3456 Club 209 209 N. Boulder - 918-584-9944 Club Majestic ........ 124 N. Boston ...... .... 918-584-9494 Club Maverick- .... 822 S. Sheridan .918-835-3301 Cosmo Dell & Bar - - 6746 S. Memorial - ~ ...... -918-459-0497 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI .... -918-834-1051 Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street ........ -918-743-4297 Hideaway Cocktail Lounge--- 11730 E. 11th ..... -918-437-0449 HOPE Clinic- ...... 3540 E. 31st ............ 918-749-8378 Midtown 319 E. 3rd918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood ..... 918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave ......... 918-585-9552 Renegades ........ 1649 S. Main 918-585-3405 Tulsa CARES .... 3507 E. Admiral PI918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle ..... 1338 E. 3rd 918-592-1188 TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd ....... 2630 E. 15th .......... 918-293-0304 �HAG R~,~Y ART CRITIC FROM THE VO/C~" AN GOTTA TAKE TNIG... bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicate,com 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �N~V Arkansas GLBT Communi~ Center "Linking Together as One" For more information: 888-391-9222 WWW.NWAGLBTCC.ORG www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 �F 07 Ghad[¢k Speakers, 9ames, food, information booths and our terrific #i¢ni¢ show! GING LAMAR Oklahoma’s Cowboy Crooner Matthew HeathoFitzgerald Susan Leah 10i Ways � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR W~N.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 T ~ Y~3LSA HONE YO~3R Brady Heights has a spectacular history of rebirth. Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed on the National Register of Historic Places. Scheduled Events for Summer Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs Arkansas. August 3-5th In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. SUMMER WINES: She said "I want to discover new white wines for the warm weather and the wines must be ABC." Gay Travelers: St. Louis, Missouri Out of Town: Portland, Oregon Dining In or OUT Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President. BOOKS This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get ,vhat you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. ON THE COVER: EUREKA SPRINGS, ARKANSAS STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CiTY TULSA LAVVTON MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Home Tour sllated for O dest Historic District "Brady Heights" Green Renovation Home Tour 2007" TULSA, OK___On Sunday, October 14th residents of Brady Heights, Tulsa’s oldest historic district, will open their homes to the public for a neighborhood tour of some of the State’s most original and historic homes, as part of Oklahoma’s Centennial celebration. Oklahoma’s early political, mercantile, oil, spiritual and social leaders made Brady Heights their home in an era that spanned Territorial Days through the 1930s. The homes vary in style and design from Victorian and American Foursquare Style, through to the Wright inspired Prairie Style and the Craftsman Bungalow Style. Residents have lovingly restored the homes and guests will be treated to casual discussions by the homeowners relating the history of their home and the machinations they Went through to restore them. Many of the homes still retain original details such as: leaded glass, carriage houses, craftsman made detailing and broad front porches. The tour provides a unique look into the preservation of Oklahoma’s architectural history while highlighting resource conversation. Visitors will have the opportunity to review the resource-conserving materials and practices used in these historic restorations as well as talk with providers of"greeff’ products and technologies. Brady Heights abuts the Brady Arts District and lies on North Denver and North Cheyenne Avenues. The tour will start at 12 noon on Sunday, October 14th and begins at the Centenary United Methodist Church, 621 N. Denver Ave. The fee is $7.50 for adults and $3.00 for children under seventeen with no charge for children under twelve. Tickets will be available until 4pm the day of the event and the tour ends at 5pm. Advance tickets are available at www.bradyheights. com. Proceeds will benefit community projects of the Brady Heights Neighborhood Association. www.ozarksstar.com Brady Heights has a spectacular history of rebirth. Suffering from abandonment and crime in the 60’s and 70’s, a renaissance began in the early 80’s when Brady Heights was placed On the National Register of Historic Places. The most diverse neighborhood in Tulsa, Brady Heights boasts a co!- lection of families and individuals of all races, income ranges, ages, sexual orientations and religions. Proud urban pioneers were guaranteed continued historic integrity of their homes and neighborhood when the Brady Heights Historic District was granted the Historic Preservation Overlay Zoning by the City ofTulsa. For more information about Brady Heights mad The Historic Home Tour, please visit www.bradyheights.com. the STAR 5 6 the STAR By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ I’m a big fan of the Internet and think it’s one of the most momentous advances in human communication since our hairy, howling, humanoid ancestors developed spoken language. Then, with Gutenberg and the invention of movable type, it became possible for large numbers of people to communicate over great distance and beyond life times, two of the greatest inconveniences in maintaining human progress. Now, the electronic Internet takes care of distance and time, while cell phones introduce the convenience of mobility in communication. TXT MSGing (text messaging) has caught on in a big way. It allows frequently used expressions to be condensed to acronyms and abbreviations for quick notes to be displayed in the small confines of the cell phone display window. "l-he American LGBT equality movement has its own list ofTXT MSG acronyms that represents the core of discrimination still being directed at us, even as many countries in western Europe, the Southern Hemisphere, Canada, and Mexico have recognized the inherent right of their own LGBT citizens to the legal equality of a modern, humane society. ENDA -- Employment Non-Discrimination Act MSA/HCPA -- Mathew Shepard Act/Hate Crimes Protection Act DOMA -- Defense of Marriage Act DODT -- Don’t Ask Don’t Tell (Don’t Pursue) Anyone who knows he/she is LGBT should be familiar with these text letters and know the importance of having the first two passed and the last two overturned. ENDA and MSA have passed the House where there is a Democratic majority, though full disclosure nags me to remind you that Oklahoma’s lone DEMO in DC, Dan Boren, voted against our LGBT citizenship, but then he was swimming upstream against the popular tide with the minority of House GOP’ers. I say against the tide because a recent NYTimes poll indicated that 75% ofDEMOS and 49% of GOP’ers thought same-gender couples should have marriage equality or civil marriage. Can it be anymore clear that the people are ahead, the engine is in front of the caboose. A recent report tabulating the current roster of presidential candidates published by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force (NGLTF, www.thetaskforce.org) shows that based on the candidates’s own words, all the DEMOS support ENDA and MSA, while the GOP’ers have disdain or no opinion. With DOMA and DODT the count is much the same. But some DEMOS are dragging their feet in regard to same-gender marriage. Only Kucinich and Gravel clearly support unequivocally full-blown same-gender marriage. IMO, we LGBT people need to tell our candidates to get on the equality train. Never before have our issues been so prominently in the spotlight of public view and we need to push our candidates, regardless of party, to keep the light on fairness and parity. BTW, CUA, and THX for reading. EOM. Creating Community for People living ~7ith H Dd/AiDS A 501 c (3) Non Profit" Org~tnizat~ioia Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the soolal isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those "~,’ho are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone would like to volunteer or provide nancial assistan~ to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrisrnmjr@yahco.com. www.0zarksstar.c0m www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 Recognized by Keller Williams For outstanding achi~rnent 2005 and 2006 Chuck Breckenddge 918-706-1887 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Summer 2007 Diversity Weekend Eureka Springs, Arkansas, August 3,5 By STAR Staff EUREKA SPRINGS, AR__Ifyour planning a trip to the Gayest little city in America, this coming weekend should prove to be a fun time, and if you plan to hitch up with that special love of your life with a Domestic Partner Registration you will need to get there early on Friday August 3rd or you’ll have to wait until Monday. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available at http://www. cityofeurekasprings.org/. Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. The City Clerk’s office is in the City Hall, lower level of the Western Carroll County Courthouse, 44 S. Main. Office hours are 9:30 a.m. to 12 noon and 1:30 to 4:30 p.m. Once you have that certificate safely tucked away in your travel bag, step out and enjoy some live action, good food and the great hospitality of Eureka Springs. Friday/Saturday, August 3, 4: Hitch up the U-Haul: The 12th annual YARDS AND YARDS OF YARD SALES (almost 100 last year). Find locator maps at shops and restaurants. Sponsored-oddly-by the Greater Eureka Springs Chamber of Commerce. Patronized-avidly-by antique queens from far and near. Friday - Sunday, August 3, 4, 5: Hitch up the Pop-up: DIVERSITY CAMP OUT, Lake Leather~ vood (nice combo there, doncha think?) campground (479) 253-2866. Advance reservations for RV sites ($15/night) and cabins ($70/night) required. Tenters ($10/night) pre-register at (479) 387- 2871 or RaeSwt@yahoo.com by July 30. Canoe & Paddle Boat Rentals Available. Fishing, Hiking, Biking and Swimming. Community Potluck Dinners & Campfires. Weenies and S’mores. Just two miles west of Eureka Springs offU.S. Highway 62. Frida~ August 3 S&M: Stand and Model at the Diversity Weekend Kick-Off Party. Serious cruising begins here. ’PRINCESS’ WELCOME MIXER Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren, 7-9 p.m.ish. Cosponsored by Diversity Pride Events and Eureka Pride. Mix and mingle with locals and visitors from around the country- Lipstick ladies and sturdy gurls, leather to Levi guys, twinks, trans, clones, bis and burly bears. Contact: info@eurekapride.com Spin Cycle: 10 pm - DJ Kyle Egan Live at Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Dance to the hottest hip hop and R&B mixed live on two turntables. Shot specials all night. Saturdaj6 August 4 Straddle This: DIVERSITY BIKERS BRUNCH & RIDE 10AM. Join Diversity Pride Events and the Diversity Bikers at the Best Western Inn of the Ozarks, 207 WVan Buren. Then, saddle up and ride to show your true Rainbmv colors. \Vet n’ Wild: MENS AND WOMENS SWIM PARTIES, 11 a.m. to 4 p,m. MEN: Rodeway Inn Swiss Holiday Resort, 2015 E. Van Buren. Featuring DJ Rob. \VOMEN: Carolyn’s Ozark Swiss Inn, 3061 E. Van Buren. Kiss Off: PUBLIC DISPLAY OF AFFECTION (PDA) photo shoot, 12 noon in Basin Park band shell, downtown. A G-rated opportunity to smooch your sweetie-or the perfect stranger-for posterity. And to amuse the tourists and annoy the fundies. A chance, too, to show a Christian biker group-the Jericho Riders from Missouri-the difference between love and hate. The bikers will be in the park at the same time, praying for the Domestic Partnership Registry to go away. Not a chance. But be NICE to them anywa): Remember, the whole world is watching. Cake ’n Cocktails: A reception honoring DOMESTIC PARTNERS, family and friends at 6 to 8 p.m. Generously hosted by Henri’s Just One More, 19 1/2 Spring St. Sponsored by gaynewsbureau. com. No cover. Cash bar. Open to the public. Even-or especially-the Jericho Christian Bikers. Splane it to us Lucy: Robbie Walker and a special guest, or a cavalcade of stars, xWith Robbie, you just never know. 9 pm Saturday night at Henri’s Just One More. Come early. Robbie PACKS the house. Subterranean Collision Course: Diversity Pride Events brings "COLLIDE" DANCE PARTY to Eureka Live Night Club, one flight belmv street level at 35 N. Main, 9 p.m.-2 p.m. Featuring DJ Rob. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Disco Hoedown: Diversity Pride Event’s RETRO/COUNTRY D~a~NCE & CABARET, 9 pm. to 2 p.m. at Caribe Restaurante y Cantina, 309 W. Van Buren. Featuring DJ/singer Mary King and additional performers. Contact: deborah@diversitypride.com Sunday, August 5: A Feather In Your Cap: See Hitchcock classic "THE BIRDS" at our downtown BYO-canvas-chair-or-blanket and kids-and-dogs outdoor, under-the-stars Luckyl3 Starlight Cinema. The TIPI HEDREN LOOK-ALIKE CONTEST alone is reason enough to extend your visit to Eureka Springs one more day. In the parking lot next to the Basin Park Bath House (huh?), 1 N. Main St. Start time: When the bats fly. Weekend schedule provided by http://www.eurekagaynews.com/ 10 the STAR ~wvw.ozarksstar.com Joplin’s Seventh Annual "Night of Stars 2007" %Viii Feature Ben Miller Band By STAR Staff JOPLIN, MO Tim and Tom’s 7th annual Night of Stars Gala is scheduled for September 12th. ~Ihe Event will be held at Kitchen Pass Bar and Restaurant, 1212 S. Main Street, Joplin, MO. Phone 417-624-9095. The Night of Stars affair is held each year to raise awareness within the GLBTA community, and to raise money for the critical needs of those living with HIV/AIDS in the SW Missouri area. All proceeds go to the non-profit organization AIDS Project of the Ozarks. In an interview Tim said, "We still need auction items. This year we are doing a buffet from 5:30 pm to 7pm and 2 beer tickets for $25.00 per person or you can buy a table for 10 for $200.00. After 7:00 pm door charge will be $6.00 per person. Entertainment this year will be the Ben Miller Band. The silent auction will start then also. I think it will be a great night and raise money for a greater cause. We are looking forward to seeing you there." If you have any questions please feel free to call Tom @ 417-629- 8994 or Tim @ 417-629-8995 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVISTD Hotline www.ozarksstar.com No Surprises Staying with... Rodeway inn Ozarks Family Owned! 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Here’s a x 6thcentury Baroque master whose bold naturalistic painting style t~rst created whose life was filled with ~e turbulence and excess of a do~e:n Mario Pu~o novels. ~ouM~,u~yfound re~mption and i~ormliW in his ~t. But does the averag~ kid on the s~eer even know ~vho Carava~io F~hgedaboudit. T~ ~d. Xs~cmHy when you consider how much our c~ldren can lea~ ~om the conflicted life a ~eat ar~st like Miche~ngelo Caravaggio. ~e grew up in less ~an ideal circ~stances. Most ofhis f~ily died m the plague. Much of his youth was misspent on the mean s~¢ets of Rome. And as a young artist he strt~gg]ed for years to make a living. He was angry. Yet the angry contrast between iight and darkness in h~ work isthe very reason it no~v hangs in countless museums ~around the world. If nothing else, it’s a case study of the importance of having art as an outlet. Unfomanately, one we’re fast removing from our kids" lives. If the arts are indeed a vital part o£ your child’s education ~and studies show you believe they a~e), th,n you should demand his or her fair share. To find out how, or for more information about benefits of arts education, please visit us at AmericansForTheArts;org, Because, as Caravagglo would tel! you~ life without artis tomlre. Historic American Event August 9th on LOGO TVo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Maintaining its grassroots traditions, the Oklahoma Democratic Party and OK Stonewall Democrats will host a meet-n-greet on Thursday, August 9, starting at 6:00pm at the Party’s headquarters at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard. This informal reception will have refreshments and live entertainment until 8:00pro. Following immediately will be a watch party to view the live streaming video of the LOGO TV and Human Rights Campaign sponsored forum between the Democratic Presidential candidates. This is the first forum in American election history devoted exclusively to LGBT concerns. Both events are free to the public. Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats (wwv.okstonewall. org) is a chapter of National Stonwall Democrats in Washington, DC (wvw. stonewalldemocrats.org) and a recognized dub of the State Democratic Party (www. okdemocrats.org). We work for the equality ofAmerica’s LGBT citizens in its social and political life. TAMMY FAYE DIES AT AGE 65 WASHINGTON, DC~The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force expressed its condolences at the passing ofTammy Faye (Bakker) Messner, ex-wife of disgraced evangelist Jim Bakker. Messner died last Friday after a long battle with cancer. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force "Tammy Faye became an icon for our community. In spite of-- and perhaps because of the hardships she faced -- she embraced us, she refused to judge and repudiated those who did. She will be long-remembered and deeply missed. Our condolences go to her family and her wide circle of loving friends." Christmas In Ju y Fundraiser A Great Success! By STAR Staff TULSA, OK Yes Mrs. Hood, there is a Santa Clause! But in July? Bamboo Lounge Tulsa and Miss Bamboo 2007, Holly Rose hosted the First Annual Miss Bamboo Christmas in July charity event to a packed house and a delighted crowd. The entertainers and auction raised $600 to benefit H.O.EE. Clinic ofTulsa. Clinic personnel were also in attendance and administering free AIDS/HIV testing. H.O.EE. testing clinic is a non-profit Mens Outreach program providing free HIV testing, including the 20 minute OraQuick test. The Clinic is located at 3540 East 31st Street in Tulsa. Phone (918) 812-7045. The Clinic is closed on Friday and Sunday. Their Oklahoma HIV/STD Hotline number is (800) 535-2437 Combine ingredients in mixi~ glass. Add ice, stir to strain into your chille( Glass. Pop in CD for fun www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 stream society elevision is a major influence on American popular culture, and the evolving presence ofLGBT people on the small screen has both reflected and fostered acceptance of gays in main- In the 1950s and 1960s - a time when homosexuality ~vas regarded as a crime or a mental illness - a few brave queers began appearing on local television talk shows. In April 1954, Los Angeles station KTTV ran a program called Confidential File featuring a policeman, a psychiatrist, and a gay man, Dale Olson. Asked whether he would change his sexual orientation if he could, Olson replied that he would not; the next day, he was fired from his job. Four years later, New York’s WABD ran a similar program featuring sympathetic psychologist Albert Ellis and Gonzolo Segura, a gay chemist who wore a hood to hide his identity. In November 1964, New York Mattachine Society member Randy, Wicker went undisguised on the popular Les Crane Show, and in 1967, activists Franklin Kameny, Jack Nichols, and Lilli Vincenz appeared on channel WOOK in Washington, D.C. "Once we started appearing on TV and on talk radio shows, [the public] started seeing us as more real," Vincenz later said. LGBT people garnered a national audience in March 1967 with a special episode of CBS Reports entitled "The Homosexuals," hosted by Mike Wallace. The program - which ran with virtually no ads since sponsors wouldn’t touch it - featured Jack Nichols, author Gore Vidal, a federal judge, and conservative psychiatrist Charles Socarides; though Nichols used an alias, he too lost his job. That same year, New York Mattachine president Dick Leitsch appeared on The David Susskind Show, which aired on PBS stations nationwide. In 1971, Susskind featured a panel of lesbians, including Daughters of Bilitis member Barbara Gittings, Wayland Flowers (with his puppet "Madame") who proclaimed, "Homosexuals today are taking it for granted that their homosexuality is not at all something dreadful - it’s good, it’s right, it’s natural, it’s moral, and this is the way they are going to be." By the late 1960s, talk show host Phil Donahue also began featuring queer people (originally on his local program in Dayton, Ohio, which was later nationally syndicated), despite his fear that some viewers might think he was gay, himself. After the Stonewall Riots in June 1969, occasional queer characters began to appear on TV with increasing frequency. The CBS series Medical Center (1969-1976) featured perhaps the first-ever sympathetic portrayals of gay and lesbian characters on television. During the first season of CBS’s _All in the Family_ in 1971, Archie Bunker was taken aback to learn that an old drinking buddy - a former pro football player - was gay. The show prompted then-president Richard Nixon to complain to his staff, "Goddamn it, I don’t think you glorify [homosexuality] on public television." In a later episode, Archie saved the life of a female impersonator, and in the spin-offThe Jeffersons, lead character George reunited with an old Navy buddy who was now a woman. The 1970s also saw the first sympathetic made-for-TV movies, including That Certain Summer (1972), in which a teenage boy discovers his father is gay. While reality TV is often regarded as a recent phenomenon, the 1970s PBS series An American Family portrayed the real-life travails of a Southern California family, the Louds. Teenage son Lance came out on screen in January 1973, sparking both condemnation and applause. He performed in a punk rock band and wrote for magazines, including The Advocate, before dying of liver failure related to HIV and hepatitis C at age 50. Variety shows of the 1970s, such as Rowan and Martin’s Laugh-In and Saturday Night Live, addressed homosexuality in their skits, often by making fun of stereotypical gay characters. By mid-decade, three gay men - Paul Lynde (~vho previously played a bachelor warlock on Bewitched), Charles Nelson Reilly (who had a role in the children’s show Lidsville), and Wayland Flmvers (with his puppet "Madame"), had become flamboyant fixtures on popular game shows, though they did not openly acknowledge their sexuality. While several programs in the 1970s occasionally featured queers, regular LGBT characters were scarce, q-he first, in 1972, was Peter Panama, a gay designer on the short-lived ABC sitcom The Corner Bar. This was followed in 1975 by the first gay male couple, on the network’s Hot L Baltimore. An unhappily married woman on the daytime soap opera Days of Our Lives admitted she was bisexual in 1977, but the storyline was brief. A longer-running and better-known example of a recurring queer character was Jodie Dallas on ABC’s Soap (1977-1982). 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com As the gay liberation movement gained political clout, the National Gay Task Force and other activists protested against shows that cast queers in a negative light, including a 1974 episode of Marcus Welby, M.D., in which a male teacher molested a boy. During the first season of Soap, the campy, effeminate Jodie dated a closeted football player and planned to have a sex-change operation, until the Task Force successfially demanded that the script be altered. By the late 1970s, however, the religious right had also become more powerful, and producers and advertisers began to face competing boycott threats from queers and conservatives. (Continued in part 2.) What were some milestones for queers on television? (Part 2) milestones. espite growing pressure from conservatives follmving the proliferation of LGBT characters in the mid-1970s, the 1980s and 1990s witnessed no shortage of queer television In 1981, ABC’s popular Dynasty introduced Steven Carrington, the first openly bisexual regular character in a dramatic series. The network’s daytime soap opera All My Children featured its first gay storyline in 1983, when erstwhile heterosexual Devon McFadden declared her love for her lesbian psychiatrist. Five years later, ABC presented the first recurring out lesbian character in prime time - nurse Marilyn McGrath on the short-lived medical drama Heartbeat. During these decades, television increasingly addressed issues of concern to the LGBT community. The 1985 made-for-TV movie An Early Frost offered one of the first portrayals of people with AIDS. MTV’s The Real World also dealt with AIDS, featuring HIV-positive Pedro Zamora during its 1994 season. That same year saw the first televised gay male wedding, on the CBS series Northern Exposure, set in a small Alaska town founded by a lesbian couple. www.ozarksstar.com Paul Lynde (who previouslyplayed a bachelor warlock on Bewitched) The first same-sex wedding be~veen two women - with activist Candace Gingrich serving as the minister - came on Friends in 1996. NBC’s TV movie Serving in Silence (1995) related the story of Lt. Margarethe Cammermeyer, who was ousted from the military after acknowledging that she was a lesbian. But not until 2006 did The L Word introduce Moira/Max, the first female-tomale character to transition on the small screen, followed later that year by Zarf/Zoe’s male-to-female transition on All My Children. In a bid for increased visibility, LGBT people continued to appear on television talk shows, even as such programs shifted from the measured affairs hosted by David Susskind and Phil Donahue to shows in which hosts and audience members blatantly attacked the guests. The controversy over "trash TV" came to a head in March 1995, when Jonathan Schmitz killed Scott Amedure after Amedure revealed his crush on Schmitz on The JenW Jones Show. Over the years, expressions of same-sex affection between women were more accepted than those between men. In November 1989, the sitcom thirtysomething lost more than $1 million in ad revenue when it showed two men in bed together, even though a preceding kiss was axed. In February 1991, C.J. Lamb and Abby Perkins, two attorneys on NBC’s L.A. Law, shared the first lesbian kiss on network TV. In 1994, over the objections of network executives, Roseanne kissed a lesbian character played by Mariel Hemingway, and the following year on Star Trek: Deep Space Nine, the character Jadzia Dax kissed a woman who xvas the re-embodiment of her dead husband. AJanuary 1997 episode of Relativity showed a passionate, close-up lesbian lip-lock, and two years latin; TV lawyer Ally McBeal shared a prolonged smooch with a female office rival. Fox’s _Melrose Place_ deleted a planned prime-time gay male kiss due to boycott threats in 1994, leaving Jack and Ethan on WB Network’s Dawson’s Creek to break that barrier in 2000. The late 1990s saw the first shows with prominent LGBT lead characters. On April 30, 1997 - after months of innuendo - Ellen DeGeneres had the most famous smallscreen coming-out, in a star-studded episode of her ABC sitcom Ellen that attracted some 35 million viewers. But not tong thereafter, her same-sex kiss on the show prompted a parental advisory warning, and the program’s ratings dropped as it began to focus more on gay issues. NBC’s Will and Grace also broke new ground, though some viewers were disappointed that the gay male lead never had an ongoing romantic relationship. The turn of the century witnessed the most visible queer personality on reality TV since Lance Loud, when self-proclaimed "fat naked fag" Richard Hatch - who later served time for evading taxes on his prize money - won the first season of Survivor in 2000. Reichen Lehmkuhl and Chip Arndt, the couple who triumphed in the fourth season of CBS’s The Amazing Race (2003), proved to be more likable gay role models. That year also saw the debut of Bravo’s popular Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, featuring five gay men giving fashion and lifestyle advice to style-challenged heterosexuals. Cable television offered the most daring series featuring primarily queer casts, beginning with Showtime’s Queer as Folk in 2000 and The L Word in 2004. In a reflection of growing LGBT economic clout, Canada’s PrideVision (later renamed OutTV) became the world’s first channel offering full-time programming for a queer audience in 1991. The U.S. cable channels Here! TV, QTelevision Network, and MTV/Viacom’s Logo followed suit, ................ Continued page 23 the STAR 15 One ofPortland’s hippest hangoutsfor cocktails and terrificfood, the Mint restaurant and adjoining 820 bar are owned by highly talented and openly gay drink mixologist Lucy Brennan. (Photo by Andrew Collins) It’s both a cliche and an injustice to compare Portland xvith Seat~e and Vancouver, but people do it all the rime - the three eiries are, after all, the crown jewels of the Pacific Northxvest. Portland stands very much on its oxvn, however, and despite its considerable groxv~ in recent years, it retains a surprisingly intimate scale and lowkeyed personalit3: Gay and lesbian visitors xvill discover a city xvith no predon~finantly alternative neighborhood, but a progressive, welcoming attitude that permeates every inch of the city. The city’s strengths include a plethora of classy, gay-friendly, boutique-style hotds (many of them xvithin walking distance of the city’s best gay bars); a pedestrian-friendly downtown with lively cultural venues and engaging retail strips; and one of the most exciting restaurant scenes around. Even better, accommodations and meals cost considerably l~ss here than in other West Coast cities of comparable acclaim. If it seems odd that you haven’t heard more about Portland, keep in mind that locals are fiercely intent on keeping it from groxving too big and too croxvded - the city is, by design, a well-guarded secret. Portland lies just below the confluence of the Columbia and the Willamette rivers. The Columbia forms the border between Washington and Oregon; from it, the Willamette txvists in a southerly direction, bisecting the city and its attractive skyline. In this eclectic city center, high-end boutiques border funky pawn shops, dapper bistros sit beside humble burger joints, and postmodern office towers rise above cast-iron Victorians. Along the river, Tom McCall Waterfront Park stretches for more than a mile, providing a scenic venue for cycling, jogging, and sunning. Brown baggers congregate at Pioneer Square, a tidy redbrick plaza at Yamhill Street and Broadxvay. Many high-end chain stores are clustered here, including NikeTown, the unabashedly commercial tribute to the Portland-based maker of athletic wear, and Nordstrom. South of Pioneer Square the impressive Portland Center for the Performing Arts presents ballet, opera, and classical music, and the Portland Art Museum specializes in Native American, regional contemporary, and graphic arts. A fexv blocks northwest lies the city’s compact gay entertainment district, mostly along bar-studded Stark Street. Vintageclothing, book, and used-record shops line Burnside and Oak streets, including one of the nation’s most famous bookstores, Powell’s, which has an enormous GLBT section. Across Burnside is Portland’s hottest neighborhood, the swank Pearl District, where massive warehouse buildings have been converted into trendy loft-style condos and hip eateries. The Pearl District’s Bluehour is well-regarded for its inventive seafood, such as semolina-encrusted halibut with lava beans and an herb-risotto cake. The same culinary team is behind Saucebox, a sdf-conseiously hip care delivering tasty multinational fare. Budget time to explore Portland’s Northwest neighborhood, along 23rd and 21st avenues, where upscale boutiques and restaurants proliferate, including one of Portland’s hottest purveyors of Pacific Northwest cuisine, Wildwood. The menu here changes often but might feature, for example, day-oven roasted leg of lamb with summer squash grarin. From Northwest you’re a short drive from Metro Washington Park Zoo, which anchors 322-acre, densely wooded Washington Park, opposite xvhich sits the International Rose Test Garden; 10,000 bushes with more than 500 varieties are displayed xvithin its 4 acres. Just up the hill is a serene Japanese garden. The wooded grounds abut the 5,000-acre Forest Park, great for hiking and biking. Across the Williamette River from downtown you’ll find several neighborhoods acclaimed for their artsy fed, popularity with gays and lesbians, and wealth of great shopping and dining options. The Hawthorne District might just be Portland’s most lesbian-popular neighborhood, and it also has scads of pleasing retail and dining options, including the superb Castagna Restaurant, known for its creative regional Northwestern cuisine. Bread and Ink Care is another Hawthorne favorite, captivating regulars with its Mediterranean, Mexican, and Yiddish fare (how’s that for an unlikely trinity?). The cheeseburgers garner raves all around, as do the chicken enchiladas. Nearby Southeast Stark and Southeast Belmont streets also hold a share of the area’s coffeehouses, boutiques, and music clubs. Other East Side neighborhoods of note 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com include Alberta, Division/Clinton, and East Burnside. And the once derelict industrial area on the northeastern shores of the Willamette, the Lloyd District, now contains a convention center, sports stadiums, and the impressive 200-store Lloyd Center mall. The variety of excellent, gay-friendly restaurants on the East Side is staggering, but standouts include Mint/820, a contemporary bistro and cocktail bar owned by openly gay and nationally renowned drink mixologist Lucy Brennan; and Rocket, a see-and-be-seen space known for such simple but mouthwatering fare as braised beef rib with red wine jus and black cod with a radish salad. Also consider sassy Rou_x for imaginatively rendered New Orleans-style cuisine; Helser’s on Alberta for amazingly delicious breakfast and lunch fare; and Vindalho for modern Indian food. There are countless opportunities for getting out and enjoying the countryside within a short drive of Portland. Rooster Rock (aka Cock Rock) State Park lies 20 miles east of the city in the scenic Columbia Gorge and is a favorite place for gay sunbathers. Sauvies Island, about 8 miles northwest of Portland, has another scenic and scene-y clothing-optional beach with a decidedly gay following. This area is also poptflar for kayaking and boating - you can rent kayaks or take tours from Scappoose Bay Kayaking, and Portland’s own Out Kayatdng is a GLBT social group dedicated to this very ?ctivity - it welcomes visitors on its frequent weekend excursions. In the other direction, magnificent Mt. Hood (elevation 11,300 feet) offers year-round skiing, great hiking, challenging rock-climbing, and plenty more to get the blood flowing. In the same area, you can take a hair-raising whitewater rafting trip on the roiling Clackamas River - a highly reliable outfitter for this activity is Destination Wilderness. And south of Portland, you’ll find the fantastic Willamette Valley wine country, which has become internationally renowned for its pinot noir and pinot gris. Numerous wineries in the valley are open for tastings. With one of the more pronounced and vibrant women’s scenes on the West Coast, Portland has not only a couple of popular lesbian bars but also many spots where both women and men congregate. Near Hawthorne, the Egyptian Club is the most popular such venue, with strippers some nights and always a big crowd for dancing. Also on the east side of town, Crush is a swish and sophisticated cocktail lounge drawing a mix ofwomen and men. The kitchen here turns out excellent bistro fare, and there’s a popular brunch on weekends. Stark Street has the bulk of the city’s top gay clubs, including Boxxes and Red Cap, a pulsing dance club-cum-video bar; Eagle PDX, a cruisy leather bar; Silverado (think go-go boys); and Scandals, a convivial and laid-back video bar popular with the after-work set. After the bars close, gay meets grunge in the neighborhood’s 24- hour diner, the Roxy; on any given night you’ll see big hair, pierced extremities, lotsa muscle, leather, rubber, drag - you name it. Old Town, a short walk from the Stark Street area, also has a handful of noteworthy gay hangouts, among them the upscale steak house Hobo’s - this popular lounge has piano music nightly. Darcelle XV Showplace is famous for its elaborate drag revues; on nights the gals don’t dress up, strippers dress down. C. C. Slaughter’s is Old Town’s top gay dance club, pulling in a mostly under-35 crowd and pulsing into the late hours. Portland abounds with distinctive hotels. The famously gay-friendly Kimpton Group has a pair of gems. With the Hotel Monaco, Kimpton improved on a familiar Portland strategy: Take a classy old building and convert it into a charming hotel. Many of the accommodations here are full suites, and all have such high-end amenities as DVD players and 12Occitane bath products. You’ll find the same level of quality at intimate Hotel Vintage Plaza. Rooms in this restored downtown 1894 building are large and done in warm colors; many have two-person hot tubs and spiral staircases leading to second-story sleeping lofts. The hotel’s Pazzo Ristorante serves exceptional contemporary Italian fare. You’l! find several more gay-friendly hotels of note around the city, some high-end, and some geared toward travelers on a budget. On the inexpensive side, try the offbeat Ace Hotel, which is set inside a vintage 1912 building along Stark Street’s gay bar strip. There’s a bohemian sensibility to the place, from the coffeehouse off the lobby to the contemporary paintings in the large but modestly furnished rooms. Upscale choices include the Hotel Deluxe, a retro-cool property with plush rooms and one of the coolest little bars in the city, the Driftwood Room. Its sister property is the even more stunning Hotel Lucia, a modern, artful lodging in the heart of downtown. Among the perks are iPod docking stations in every room. For a more intimate experience, try the MacMaster House B&B, which is on swank King’s Hill, two blocks from Washington Park. This grand turn-of-the-century Colonial Revival home is convenient to the business district. The rooms have a romantic mix of antiques and reproductions, and four have fireplaces. Arguably Portland’s most distinctive accommodations, however, are found at the Jupiter Hotel, which is just across the Willamette from downtown and is a favorite roost among hipsters, musicians, artists, and bon vivants. The once prosaic motor court has been transformed into a mod boutique hotel with sleek furnishings and a playful sensibility. ~he on-site Doug Fir restaurant and lounge hosts a wide range of indie rock bands, and the Jupiter has its own branch of the popular Portland adult erotica shop, Spartacus Leathers. This is one hotel where you’re never far from romantic inspiration. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 AUGUST 2007 Repeating Holocaust History Lesbian Notions, looks atpeople who seem toforget the history ofthe Holocaust. Photo: Anti-Gayprotest marc,b 1939Nazi Germany it wasn’t unril the U.S. Holocaust Memorial Museum in Washington, D.C., opened in 1993 that this treatment was brought to national and international attention. As a second-generation Jew on the cusp of turning 50, I grew up with stories ofWorld War II and the reality ofthd Holocaust. My father fought in the war; my mother was in the Signal Corps. Anti-Semitism was a hatred I was taught about at an early age - from hearing the stories of pogroms in Eastern Europe, where my family was from, to reading and talking about Hitler’s rage against anyone different from his Aryan ideal. In the 1960s and ’70s, few publicly questioned whether the Holocaust happened, as some revisionist historians, Iranian President Mahmoud Ahmadinejad, and others do today. It was a time when the slogan "Never I was in D.C. for the 1993 lesbian and gay March on Washington. Hundreds of us gathered at the museum the evening before it opened, laying down carnations to symbolize the lives of gays and lesbians lost in the Holocaust and praying for their souls. Since opening, the museum has printed educational material, sponsored major exhibitions about gays and the Holocaust, and has an online exhibition dedicated to the subject. Thousands of gay men were killed in the concentration camps, forced to wear pink triangles so everyone knew why they ~vere there. These men ~vere not only abused - and even killed - by the Nazis and the people who ran the camps, but they were also subjected to the homophobic reactions of their fellow prisoners. Again" was a rallying cry for American Jews More than 100,000 gay men were arrested under the Nazis’ notorious Paragraph 175 so that we would never forget the six million law that broadly defined lewd behavior who died in the camps, between men. A man could literally be ar- It was only after I came out that I learned that gay men and lesbians were also interred in the concentration camps. It certainly wasn’t something I was taught in Hebrew school. I knew early on that Jews were not the only ones targeted by the Nazis, although we were the largest group. Germans with disabilities or mental illness, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Gypsies, Poles, and Soviet prisoners of war, among others, also found themselves in concentration camps. But no one ever talked about the gays. Richard Plant published The Pink Triangle in 1988, which chronicled the atrocities against lesbians and gays inthe camps. But rested for just looking at another man the "wrong" way. Approximately, 50,000 served prison terms as convicted homosexuals, while an unknown number were institutionalized in mental hospitals. Hundreds of men were castrated under court order or coercion. According to the museum, record-keeping on gay concentration camp victims is sketchy, but it estimates that between 5,000 and 15,000 gay men were imprisoned at the camps, where many died from starvation, disease, exhaustion, beatings, and murder. After the camps were liberated, many of the German gays were sent back to prison to finish their terms, because Paragraph 175 was not among the Nazi laws that were repealed. 22 the STAR The museum is one of the world’s leaders in making sure we don’t forget what happened during the Nazi reign of terror. Too bad some others - like the ultra-orthodox Haredi sect ofJews in Israel - apparently haven’t made the trip to D.C. or availed themselves of the museum’s online resources. The Haredi are the folks who routinely protest Gay Pride parades in Israel - the country that was established as a democracy that would be a haven for the persecuted Jews of Nazi Germany, the former Soviet Union, and other countries. All the Haredi are doing is repeating the hatred that fueled the Holocaust in the first place. They put a hate-filled coalition of reactionary Christians, Muslims, and Jews together to try and stop World Pride from happening in Jerusalem. It always amazes me how conveniently and quickly enemies become allies when it comes to denying us our rights, our pride, our way of life. This year in Jerusalem, the Orthodox Righteous Court of Law actually placed a curse on the city’s Pride parade organizers and marchers, as well as on the police who helped to keep the event safe and secure. It went like this: "To all those involved, sinners in spirit, and whoever helps and protects them, may they feel a curse on their souls, may it plague them and may evil pursue them; they will not be acquitted of their transgressions from heavenly judgment." Then you have the ultra-orthodox members of the Knesset, Israel’s parliament, sponsoring bills to outlaw al! gay Pride parades or to establish "rehab centers" to teach us how to repress our sexuality. Knesset member Nissim Ze’ev considers us dangerous and says that the government needs to keep an eye on us. The rehab centers would be staffed with a special team of psychologists, psychiatrists, and social workers who will help us return to "a normal life." According to Ze’ev, lesbian and gay people must be made aware of "how their lifestyle is destroying our existence." Camps, curses, making us the enemy of society - it all smacks of Hitler’s rhetoric. But this time, it’s wrapped in an ultra-orthodox tallit (prayer shawl) that gives it a credibility it doesn’ deserve. www.ozarksstar.com Past Out: producing original programs such as Noah’s Arc - described by The Economist as a takeoff on Sex and the City from an African- American gay male perspective - and the supernatural gay drama Dante’s Cove. The increased presence of LGBT people on TV over the past half century reflects the growing influence of both out queers in the entertainment industry and straight producers who grew up in an era of greater acceptance of sexual diversity. Nonetheless, the Gay and Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation found that during the 2006-2007 broadcast network television season, only 1.3 percent of regular characters on scripted, prime-time programs were gay or lesbian, and none were bisexual or transgender. For further information: Alwood, Edward. 1996. Straight News: Gays, Lesbians, and the News Media (Columbia University Press). Eisenbach, David. 2006. Gay Power: An American Revolution (Carroll & Graf). Raymond, Susan, and Alan Raymond. 2002. Lance Loud! A Death in an American Family (PBS documentary). Transgender Seeks Office ofPresident of the United States. by STAR Staff HUTCHINSON, KS__Bennie Lee Ferguson, of Hutchinson, Kansas, has officially declared candidacy for the office of President of The United States, and for a House of Representatives seat in Kansas district 104. Born on February 25, 1953 at Grace Hospital in Hutchinson, Kansas. The son of an Air Force aerospace engineer and a Kansas farm girl, he spent his childhood in cities and towns all across the nation, from Massachusetts to California, always returning, however, to his home in Reno County and Hutchinson. Ferguson is running on the Libertarian ticket, and will be a write-in candidate in the General Presidential Election in 2008. While openly transgender candidates for office like Kim Coco Iwamoto (HI), Dana Beyers (MD) and Amanda Simpson (AZ) have experienced some modicum of success at the state level, Ferguson could be the first openly transgender candidate for President, and is certainly the first transgender candidate for a state legislative seat in the state that elected Sam Brownback (R, KS). It should be noted that now Republican Presidential Candidate Brownback was one of the three candidates at the first Republican debate to declare the theory of evolution invalid. Ferguson’s campaign isn’t necessarily based on being transgender. The candidate’s platform is firmly rooted in the Libertarian philosophy, preservation of personal civil liberties being the supporting plank of the Libertarian platform. While Ferguson is not running specifically as a transgender candidate, the idea of the preservation of individual liberties is certainly consistent with the interests of the transgender community. Candidate Ferguson faces an uphill batde in both the Presidential and the House of Representatives race. This is her second bid for a seat in this district. Of course, the opportunity to project a positive image of transgender people as active participants in the American political process is certainly an endeavor worth supporting. Ferguson holds a Bachelor’s degree from Wichita State University where he is currently enrolled in the graduate program. He expects to graduate with a Master’s degree in history in spring of 2008. In connection with his master’s thesis on the subject of micropatrology (the study of small self-proclaimed nations), he has founded The Kingdom of Fergus within the city limits of Hutchinson, Kansas. The principles espoused by the micronations movement are philosophically akin to Libertarian views. Following his graduation, he intends to commute to law school at Oklahoma City University having already taken the Law School Admissions Test in 2004. Ferguson also continues to work as an entertainer. The Ben Ferguson Band is a popular attraction throughout the area and he has appeared several times at Hutch Fest and the Kansas State Fair. Bennie will answer your questions and accept campaign contributions at bennieleeferg@ hotmail.com. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ARE RIGHT AROUND THE CO ER FROM NATIONAL COMING OUT DAY AND SHE IS COMING OUT IN A BIG WAY @~nother National Coming Out Day is approaching and change is in the air. Gays are fighting for the right to get legally married and to be legally protected against hate crimes and discrimination. Scientists are looking for the gay gene. Gay themes are frequently seen in major T~. shows. We have GLBT cable stations, LOGO and here! and shows like Queer as Folk, Will and Grace, Noah’s Arc, and the L-Word, which focus on the lives of homosexual people. Openly gay people like Rosie O’Donnell, Melissa Ethridge, and Ellen have successful careers that are building a bridge between gays and straight people. And The Secret, a new bestselling book by Rhonda Byrnes, describes a new spirituality, a new way of thinking about God, the universe and ourselves. So, where are we headed? We are running down the yellow brick road toward freedom - freedom in the truest sense of the word. Freedom from discrimination; freedom to marry the one we love; freedom from traditional spirituality; freedom to feel good about ourselves; freedom to break down cultural walls, freedom from labels of good and bad, freedom from society’s rules and government propaganda, freedom from the "musts" and "shoulds" and "need tos;" freedom from limiting beliefs about who we are and our value to the world; freedom from separateness and freedom to pursue our dreams. Grace Lawson realized at the age of 41 that she is gay. Since then she has gone through significant personal transformation including leaving a heterosexual marriage, finding her true love, and moving from a traditional Christian view of God to a much deeper spirituality. She has written a book called Coming Out Coming Alive which is about personal freedom; about becoming who you truly are. And this book is the final stage of her own coming out. The environment at the corporate office where she works may be homophobic and she could loose her job over this, but she is willing to take the risk for the sake of the book and what it can do for the world. This book will help you to live authentically and achieve your dreams. You can embrace who you are, get what you want, and make a difference in the world. Love, money, joy, peace, power and passion can be yours. htm. Coming Out Coming Alive will be in stores on September 1st, but you can get it early at http:// www.comingoutcomingalive. com/COCABook. 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Openly-Gay Democrats Elected to Lead Young Democrats ofAmerica Stonewall Democrats to Serve as YDA President and Vice President WASHINGTON, DC Today July 23rd, the Nationa! Stonewall Democrats (NSD) congratulated a newly-elected leadership of the Young Democrats ofAmerica (YDA), including two openly-gay Stonewall Democrats who will now lead the organization as President and Executive Vice-President through 2009. "Young voters are the new base of the Democratic Party, and we are proud that the Young Democrats ofAmerica support equality for LGBT families and have placed their faith in the leadership of two great Democratic leaders who happen to be gay," said Jo Wyrick, NSD Executive Director. "The future of our party now has an opportunity to demonstrate to all Democrats how fully engaging our community is politically viable and smart." On Sunday, David Hardt (Texas) was elected as President of the Young Democrats ofAmerica with 93% of the delegate votes during the organization’ s national convention in Dallas. Also elected on Sunday was Chris kaqderson (Tennessee) as the organization’ s Executive Vice President. The election of Hardt and Anderson mark the first time that the Young Democrats ofAmerica will be led by an openly-gay leadership team. The Young Democrats of America GLBT Caucus also elected its new leadership on Saturday, including the election of NSD Board Member Kyle Bailey (Georgia) as Caucus Vice-Chair. Bailey also serves as President of the Atlanta Stonewall Democrats. The other elected GLBT Caucus officers include Rachel Kau-Tayler (California) as Caucus Chair, Rob Hudson (Florida) as Caucus Secretary and Byron LaMasters (Texas) as Caucus Treasurer. The Young Democrats ofAmerica have undertaken a dramatic outreach to LGBT Democrats over the past several years. Congruently, the National Stonewall Democrats have also increased their outreach to LGBT Young and College Democrats. NSD has established youth scholarships for national trainings, including the "Keith Smith Fund" designed to honor the outreach work of former NSD Board Member Keith Smith of Oklahoma. Over the past two years, young leaders within the Stonewall Democrats have also established Stonewall Young Democrats chapters across the country, which serve to organize LGBT Youth within the Democratic Party. As the official youth arm of the Democratic Party, YDA mobilizes young people under the age of 36 to participate in the electoral process, influence the ideals oft,he Democratic Party and develops the skills of the youth generation to serve as leaders at the local and national level. YDA has 43 chartered states and US territories with over 1,500 local chapters. In 2003, members of the National Stonewall Democrats authored and passed language adopted by YDA which declared the organization’ s support for civil marriage for same-sex couples. To learn more about the Keith Smith Fund for LGBT Students go to: www.stonewal ldemocrats, org/smithfund/ Task Force, Inc., releases first comprehensive analysis of2008 presidential candidates’ positions on LGBT issues WASHINGTON, June 27 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc., today released the first comprehensive analysis of the top 19 candidates for the 2008 presidency on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) issues. Democrats discussed in this report include Hillary Clinton, John Edwards and Barack Obama. Republicans include Rudy Giuliani, John McCain and Mitt Romney. The report, The 2008 Presidential Candidates’ Positions on Lesbian, Gay; Bisexual and Transgender Issues, and its accompanying chart are based on an analysis of the voting records and public statements of the candidates in eight key LGBT issue areas, including sexual orientation and gender identity nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws; HIV/AIDS prevention and treatment; lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members; and partnership recognition for same-sex couples. According to the report, all Democratic candidates are supportive of the majority of LGBT issues, including transgender-inclusive nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws. Only two Democratic candidates support marriage equality for same-sex couples, however, yet all of them are in support of other partnership recognition fights, such as civil unions. Across the board, Republican candidates were in opposition to the majority ofLGBT issues, with most publicly opposing lifting the military’s ban on openly lesbian, gay and bisexual service members. Ten of 11 Republican candidates also oppose any partnership recognition for samesex couples, whether it be marriage equality, civil unions or domestic partnerships. U.S. Rep. Dennis Kucinich is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly supported all eight LGBT issues. Former Massachusetts Gov. Mitt Romney is the only 2008 presidential candidate who has publicly opposed all eight LGBT issues. Statement by Matt Foreman, Executive Director National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Inc. "The differences between the Democratic and Republican fields of candidates on lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender issues are shockingly stark and profoundly depressing. Over time, the majority ofAmeficans have moved to support basic fairness for LGBT Americans, including nondiscrimination and hate crimes laws, repeal of ’Don’t Ask Don’t’ Tell,’ and protections for our families. Sadly, the Republican field has gone in the opposite direction, still dearly pandering to the venom of the so-called ’religious right.’ This only means that they will continue to use our lives as cultural wedge fodder whenever it’s deemed politically expedient. "The public statements and voting records of the Democratic candidates show that they are clearly light years ahead of the Republicans on almost every issue important to the LGBT community. Nevertheless, the lack of courage on marriage equality is disturbing on both political and moral grounds. Politically, being for civil unions but against marriage doesn’t bring a single voter over from the other side. Morally, it’s hard to understand how a Democratic candidate can say to people they know individually and to one of the most loyal and generous voting blocs the party has, ’Sorry, I just can’t go there -- you understand, right?’ Actually, we don’t." wvw~.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 "Take a hike, Sagittarius!" Venus squaring Mars provokes libido and creativity. Mars is moving forward from Taurus to Gemini, and Venus is retrograding from Virgo into Leo. This activity creates bold talk and uncertain or ill-considered action. Be very careful what you wish for, especially out loud! ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Baby wants to play! But it’s going to end up costing you in ways you hadn’t bargained on. Caution and forethought were never the best traits of your sign; this would be a good time to work on developing them! TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Most families are mortal embarrassments, but we see the flaws at home far more clearly than our guests do. (At least we’ll invite the guests back!) These universal constants are driving you mad. Think about home impro.vements, but don’t act now. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): With your current inability to keep a secret, you must be careful to listen to none. Your own secrets - so deep and dark, even you don’t know them - can come to light in playful banter, so be careful whom you play with! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Your friends will surely enjoy your charitable impulses, but let a little generosity go a long way. Spending like a drunken sailor could leave you with a titanic financial hangover. LEO (July 23 - August 22): You feel pretty, and you _are_ pretty. Everyone already sees that, and even your slightest efforts to play up your glamour will only push you way over the top. Relax, honey. You’re already too fabulous. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): You want to be absolutely correct, but nobody is! Don’t fret. Worrying about it can lead you into silly arguments, provoking others to feel criticized and take offense, even when your aims are entirely self-critical. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your reputation as a lover is getting around, perhaps with details you’d prefer to keep quiet. Take it all with good humor. Cheerfully refusing either to admit or to deny anything may be your best bet. Or invite some of the gossipers to find out for themselves. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): You’re concerned about your career, but you have other problems closer to home. Discussions, even arguments, with your partner should clear the air, perhaps even shedding light on those issues at work! 28 the STAR SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Your wanderlust is showing, and that could be causing both general nervous tension for you and irritation among your colleagues. Go ahead and get away if you can. At least put on the lederhosen and go for a hike in the hills. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): You’re feeling a little too frisky, and everyone’s noticing it. Getting it out of your system won’t stop the indiscretion; but if everyone suspects you of philandering, you might as well be guilty! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Are you showering your darling with too much or too little praise and attention? Pay close attention to your baby’s needs, but you’re still likely to get it wrong. Talking about it at home helps. Listening is even better! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Wanting to shine at work can cause friction with your colleagues. Just do your best work, let it speak for itself, and make sure to share all due credit - and perhaps a bit more - with the rest of the team. MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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DBAT provides a forum to the gay; lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networ!dng, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. We’re the heart of LGBT networking and business growth. We support. -We lead. X,ge promote professional development, business diversity and personal enrichment - so get involved today! For more information contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@ scrubs2go.net or 918-274-1699. TULSA, OK (P/R) __ %e Dennis R. Neil! Equality Center art gallery will host its monthly First Thursday meet-the-artist reception from 6-9pro, ~lhursday, December 6, 2007, for the opening of its December exhibit, photography by artist Karen Greenawalt. Greenawalt grew up in eastern Pennsylvania and earned a degree in art education at Kutztown University. She received a camera at an early age and has been taking pictures ever since. After taldng a course in college she got more serious and started honing her skiIls. She studied at the Santa Fe Photographic "Workshops and other photography classes. Karen discovered Oldahoma and has made Tulsa her home since the mid 70s. She has been a Financial Consultant most of that time and has been expanding her photography business in recent years. \~qen her fellow photographers complained that there was nothing worth t~ng pictures of in Tulsa, she took ~hat as a personal challenge and started studying the city with a creative eye. She’s produced many stunning images of details that are often overlooked. 10 the STAR Oklahoma’s firs o.p.e ly gay legislator v s ts DalIaSo Photo: Driller By Karen Greenawalt She will not sell an image more than once in the same size, so each of her pictures is unique. She has made an exception with one print that is available as a limited edition, so that it could be more affordable. Karen has exhibited in galleries and festivals around the area, and her work is included in collections across the country. DALLAS, TX (P/R) __From one "blue" region to another, gay Oklahoma Rep. A! MckA}’rey came to share his experiences with Dallas’ political activists. "We ha:¢e a lot in common with his district," said Jesse Garcia, president of Stonewall Democrats of Dallas. "He’s in a little blue island of Oldahoma City, and he’s coming to Dallas County where there’s another blue island in a sea of red." The exhibit will remain up through the month of December, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the-web at okeq.org. vcww.ozarksstar.com �Tu sa’s Socia Event of the Yea A Campy C assi¢ Show for a Great Cause, Copa, OKC Hosts National Mro Gay A erica Cor teSto By Victor Gorin Photo: (left) 1st runnerup Austin Gene of Tulsa, (cwnter) Taz Bailey M~ Gay All American 2007 of~Iidwest City Oklahoma, (right) Sebastian Armonte a~Ir. Gay All American 2008 Pittsburgh, PA Top Photo: right il/Iiss Bamboo 2008 Sydney Vicious, left Miss Bamboo 2006Mona Lott and selfproclaimed "Empress of the Bamboo" By Greg Stede Photo Czarina Rotc,~acokoff, l~Iiss Bamboo 2007 (by default) and Handsome Escort, Prince Hartness. TULSA, OK __ November 17th marked the 6th annual Miss Bamboo Pageant Fundraiser and was the most successful ever. ~’he crown was held in top security by BrinkT Security Armored Division and entered the building only after the votes had been counted by the Accounting Firm of Chicken, Bunns and Stevens. Votes for each contestant were determined by the amount of money each was given by the audience for their performance. The winner of the coveted crown for 2008 Sydney Vicious, an unknown bag lady who just happened onto the scene, wowed the crowd with a stunning performance, and our sympathy goes out to Queen Vicious as we understand at the time of this writing, her grocery cart was hit by Ms. Detricks Hummer in the parking lot and completely totaled. Our House Too of Tulsa was the recipient of this years proceeds of $900.00. Our House Too offers a variety- of services for people who are HIV÷ or living with .AADS. You can contact the Director Milton Harris at (918) 585-9552 or harrismmjr@yahoo.com The big surprise at this years pageant was Miss Bamboo 2006 and self proclaimed Empress Mona Lott who was extremely well behaved. A tradition at past Bamboo events, all were expecting her usual display of vulgarity, a ritual wimessed every year that is nothing less than sleazy striptease. Thank you Mona for being a perfect lady this year. ~his years event was hosted by Kris Kohl a Tulsa Diva and MC’d by Earlena Detrick a local flower sales person. A wonderful job was done by both. No prelim, no registration fees, not known for glamour, but an absolute celebration of campy fun with a big heart. That is the Miss Bamboo Pageant. ~,#ww.ozarksstar.com OKL~IOMA CITY, OK__ It was a steamy Saturday night at the Copa with the national Mr. Gay All American Contest held November 10. ~With 5 contestants and 7 former winners present the audience got treated to mankind at their best. Owned for the past 2 years by OKC local John Beebe, a former Mr.Gay All American himself (1996), he has taken on the project of this contest -with the passion it takes to do the work to make it come together. The contest began over 24 years ago as part of Norma Kristie’s Pageant System in Little Rock, Arkansas (owned by Norman Jones of the Miss Gay America Pageant System), and even today the scoring system and categories are the same. It separated from that system, taken over by Gib Hauersperger for several years until 2002. It then was purchased by Paul Lopez ( also a former Mr.Gay All American), then it was taken over by Richard Greer who had it until 2005 when it dosed. Mr.Beebe then saw an opportunity to revive the contest, and took it over in 2006. Although it did prove to be a lot of work, Mr. Beebe has secured several national sponsorships of the event and is optimistic about the future of the contest. There is now a $2500 prize package for the winner, and those interested in participating should contact Mr.Beebe at wvw.myspace.com/mgaacontest or johnbeebe96@yahoo.com the STAR 11 �REVIEW By Donald Pile a~d Ray Williams gay~avders@aol.com "GAY VEGAS A Guide to the Other Side of Sin City" by Steve Friess We have just read one of the and we thought that we knew Then he tells about the "best oftbe best" and the MUST DO and MUST SEE things about Las Vegas. Any gay person going to L~ Vegas whether for the first time or if they flare been there many times should purchase this book. Steve’s "Gay Las Vegas" book deals with lodging, restaurant% shows, gay nightlife, shopping, gay weddings ~nd is the most definitive book for gaps gohag to Las Vegas. Steve has lived in Las Veg~ since 1996 and was originally from Long Island, New York. Ftiess ~nd his partner, NBC producer Miles Smith, co-host "The Strip" podc~t, a weekly Vegas~centrie celebrity-hiterview progsara found at q~eStripPodc~st.com. Fdess and Smith wed at the Pabos HotelCasino in March 2007 and live with their two Chihuahuas, Black and Jack. Steve is a former contributing writer for q~e Advocate, Friess has also covered gay topics for USA Today, the New York Times, Newsweek, and dozpns of other major periodicals. 12 the STAR ff yot~ can’t go to Las Vegss, buy Stevens book and read it and you w~l think that you are there! He writes so directly ~d tells about all aspects of the cit~ "llaere should be a informative book like this written about all the great gay cities in the country. Steve LOVES his city and it shows! He has certainly done his research and pulls no punches in describing the differ ent aspects of gay life ~nd gay destinations when going to l&s Vegas. Gay Vegas - A Gnlde to the Other Side ofiSin City can be purchased around the country at mmay Borders and Barnes and Nobles and also on line thr~ Amazon.com. We HIGHLY recommend rhls great book! It w’dl save you a lot of time ~d money die next time you visit Las Vegas. On a side note. Kansas City’s own Wes Winters enter t~as at the Liberace Mtmettm weekly in Las Vegas. A~ always, when we write ~nything about L~ Vegas, we like to remind everybody to remember the words of lAberace, "No one will believe in you unless you believe in yourself! " G.ay ca.ndidates v ctonous across the U.S. WASHINGTON, D.C. (P/R) __ Dozens of openly gay and lesbi~a~ candidates running in municipal and state legislative races across the country won their elections Tuesday, according to the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund. Of the record 71 candidates endorsed by die gsoup in 2007, at least 31 won their races on Tuesday, while 10 were elected earlier this year. At least three more endorsed candidates received enough votes to edvance to runoff elections. V~ctory Fund president and CEO Chuck Wolfe said the growing number of out candidates demonstrates the gay community’s increasing involvement in electoral politics. ~Thls is the path to change. We are not content to sit on the snlelLqes and hope that others do the right thing for our community. We will step up and lead the fight for a more equal and fair America, mad we will win," Wolfe said. ¯ae Victory Fund’s 7I endorsements set a new record for an odthnumbered year in which there ~re no scheduled federal elections. In 2006, the group endorsed 88 cmadidates ~ad it expects to endorse more than 100 candidates in 2008, according to Wolfe. He added that planning has already begun for n~xt year’s races. "2008 will be another record-breaking year for gay c~adidates, and they’ll need help to counter the inevitable amacks from anti-gay hate groups. We’ll be ready to fight," Wolfe Among the h@lighrs Tuesday: ¯ Joel Burns, a candidate for the Fort Worth, Tex., City Council edv~lced to a December rtmoff election as the top votegetter a~er being subject to anti-gay smears from an opponent. ¯ Craig Covey won his race for mayor of Femdale, Mich., becoming the first openly gay mayor elected in the state of Michigan. ¯ Michefie Bruce, an openly transgender incumbent on the Riverdale, Ga., City Council was the top vote-getter in her race and advances to a runoff election. ................ Continued next page �Gay car didar.es cont. @ New Jersey State Assemblyman Reed Gusciora, who became the state’s first openly LGBT state legislator when he came out publicly during his current term, won re-election to his seat. @ Jeffrey Anderson was elected to the Duluth City Council, becoming the first openly gay elected official in northern Minnesota. Tim Eustace won his race for mayor of Maywood, N.J. @ Brian Bates, won a seat on the Doraville, Ga., City Council, becoming the first openly gay Republican ever to win office in the state. @ Lydia Lavelle won a seat on the Carrboro, N.C., Board of Aldermen, becoming the seventh openly LGBT candidate ever elected in the state. For up-to-date election results for all endorsed candidates, go to www.victoryfund. org. The Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund is the only national organization dedicated to increasing the number of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender public officials at all levels of government. It is the nation’s www.ozarksstar.corn largest LGBT political action committee. Since its founding in 1991, the Victory Fund has helped grow the number of out elected officials from just 49 to nearly 400 in the United States. OKLAHOMA STONEWALL DEMOCRATS FUNDRAISER AT ANGLES A Stonewall welcomes new members, only requiring that one be a registered Democrats & believe in equality for all Americans including the GLBT community. Person interested in joining may log in on our Oklahoma website v~vw.okstonewall.org, or call Treasurer Jim Nimmo at (405) 843 3651.The website of the national organization is www.stonewalldemocrats.org. Meetings are held at 7 p.m. the first Tuesday of every month at the Otdahoma State Democratic Party Headquarters located at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard in Oklahoma City and are open to all. SUCCESS By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Bringing together the GLBT community and their allies together for an evening of fun and unity was hosted by the newly reopened Angles Club of Oklahoma City. The fundraiser featured not only the executive Director Jon Hoadley, but also elected officials State Representative AI McAffrey & Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth. They were also entertained by Alison Scott & Miss Gay Oklahoma 1 st Runnerup Melody Michaels, a British lass now a US citizen and proud member of Stonewall. QuotaNe Quotes AIDS vaccine didn’t guard against virus~ Drugmaker Merck & Co. released new data on an experimental AIDS vaccine that failed to work, the data shows volunteers who got the shots were far more likely to get infected with the virus through sex or other risky behavior than those who got dummy shots. the STAR 13 �November 29, 1984 (23 years ago last month): West Hollywood, Calif., incorporates as a city. How did West Hollywood become so gay? os Angeles has been a town of many firsts for the GLBT communisy, including, in the 1950s, the llrst enduring U.S. gay and lesbian or ga~zizations and publications. West Hollywood, an enclave within L.A., is widely regarded as the world’s first gay city Popularly known as "WeHo," West Hollywood is a small city of just 1.9 square miles located in the northwest part of LOs Angeles County, suzrounded by L.A.’s Hollywood district and the independent city of’Beverly The land that is now West Hofiywood was occupied by the Tongna Indian tribe when Spanish missionaries and ranchers setded the ~ea in the late 18di centmy. More than 100 years later, the Los Angeles ~aad Pacific RaJlway was built, and a small town ca~ed Sherman grew up around the main tall yard and trolley barns to accommodate the The people of Sherman declined to be incorporated into the city of Los Angeles. Because the town was outside the jurisdiction of the L.A. Police Dep~rtment. gambling casinos flourished a~d alcohol flowed freely din:rag the Prohibition era. In the 1920s and 1930s, the Sunset Strip running along WeHo’s northwest border became the ~playgsotmd of the stars,’~ a major nightlife destination for celebrities of the burgeoning motion picture industry. Nearby, posh apartment complexes housed Ho0ywood luminaries. One of fire most lavish - lesbian acrxess KiLn Nasimo~a’s Garden o f AlLah ÷ became infamous for its wild parties, But during World War ii, celebrities opted for a more wholesome public image as the cotmt~T’s pofiricad climate became more conservative, and the Strip fell out of £avor. 14 the STAR During the first half of fire 20th century, gay people also began gravitating to West Hdilywood. ~ie area was beyond the reach of the notoriously homophobic L.A.ED. and convenient for the gay creative talent work~ hag behind the scenes in the fihn industry. So many gay men bought and renovated working-class bungalows ha the 1960s and 1970s that the area around the Strip became known as the "Swish Kips." In fire 1960s, the Sunset Strip underwent a revival and became a hub of the hippie sic venues such as the Roxy and the ~ghisky a Go Go. But fire gay social scene centered on Santa Monica Boultward. A plethora of flubs, restaurants, and boutiques catering to gay patrons sprang up on fire west end of the street, dubbed "Boys Town" (though it also included a longolived lesbian bar~ The Palms). But not eceryone w~s gay-friendly Barney’s Beanery, a popular eatery since the 1920s, for decades posted a sign reading "Fagnrs [sic] Stay Out," the target of nttmer- The grittier east end of Santa Morea Boulevard. near the border with Hollywood, became a well-known prostitution stroll frequented by male hustlers ~nd transvestites. In the 1970s, the area was home to cheap motels, massage parlors, and sex shops. A Time magazine article in Aprtl 1976 described the so’etch as a "a flelible ribbon of smut that expands or contracts according to the apathy or indignation of the surrounding stucco-house neighborhoods." Indeed, there were periodic campaigns to clean up the area, but fire illicit activity never completely disappeared. In the 1980s and 1990s, the city saw an influx of Russian Jewish immigrants. With a large population of renters, residents grew concerned when L~. County proposed scrapping rent control amid skyrocketing real estate prices. A coalition of gays, Jews, ment to establish a separate city. West Hob lywood was incorporaied on November 29. I984, and elected the first-ever city council with a gay majority and the first operdy lesbian mayor, Valerie Terrigno. The council quickly passed strong rent conu’ol and anti-eviction laws and an ordinance bam~ng antigay discrimination, Terrigno bersulf removed the "Fagots Keep Out" sign from Barney’s Beanery In 1985, WeHo bega~ offering domestic parmership benefits, becoming the first An~erlcan city to legally recognize same-sex rrlarionships. But Ter rig.no resigned later that yca~ after she was charged with embezzling from her former employer, and the scandal divided the gay community. While West Hofiywood has never had an actual gay majority, it has perhaps the Largest proportion of gay residents of any city - es~ated at around 40 percent of a to’cA population of 39,000 - and is a hub of queer cultare. The Christopher Street West Pride parade and festival, first held in 1970, moved from Los Angeles to West Hollywood in 1979; in 1987 the city started its annual Halloween Carnaval, which at txacts halfa million revelers. R~nbew flags fly on Santa Moniea Boulevard year-round, and even the L.A. County Sheriff vehicles that patrol the city sport a rainbow logo. While San Frandsco’s Castro, New York City’s West Village, and Chicago’s North Ha[stead area are renowned gay enclaves in the midst of larger cities, only in West Hollywood are the reins of polirical power firmly in the hands oftbe GLBT community "In the sixties, many of us - mysdf inaluded - stood on the outside and shouted epithets," said Steve Sehulte, an original WeHo city council member and later mayor. "But one of the really important lessons of die eighties is that gay and lesbian people have to run for office and get elected." For further reading: Faderman, Lillian, and Stuart Timmons. 2006. Gay L.A. (Basic Books). Gierach, Ryan. 2003. Images of America: West Hollywood (Arcadia Publishers). v,~wv.ozarksstar.com �Red wine in stereo is a and can have lots of ripe, ing black cherries, black roast coffee or chocolat~ mas. On the palate Black raspberry and bright fruit fill can be full and livel, can be a similar www.wineed~ Included here are a white wines, champagne Po~t a Grahams 6 grape port with Mr D also hosts wine & food events as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. I think we’ve got it all covered. Mr. D’s baker’s dozen. Cab Elyse Nei Sang Masi Copain BR Cohn Joel Gott Cabemet’05 w~rw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 �Spexton Pal7013 Knurled Gold "Koenig" NEW!. H~ndcrarled stainless steel ring by Spexton. Featttres 22k gold inlay in raised center stripe with knuded fizAsh and mirror edges, Sizes ~ boxed. Order $450.00 -~vw, spexron.com Spexton NEI062 3 Dot Pendant New! From o~ new pendant collection, this intricate design per and s~lver blending Monin Gourmet Classic Flavors revered in my,e and eternity, luicy sweet fl as,~r. ~0w Monin Pomegranate and a dash of playfitL "Ihe holiday season means many things to many people. For many gays and lesbians, it me~.s wardrobe shopping and new acces sories. Oh yes] When it comes to looking sharper th~ ever this fall, the sleeker, smarter, stronger MotoroIa’s RAZR2 has redefined the mobile phone into a must- gift-boxed Perfect in cocktails rlom m~rdnis to daiquiris, Monin Pom~granate’s deep red color makes a dramatic statement while its Monin produces many other flavors and products for that perfect girl. 800-966-5225 "lhe Sa~ Francisco Chronicle recendy wrote, =...the phone itse~’has got to be one of the most fashionable devices out there, with its solid construction and k~ury feel." "Ibis new phone is "Out" already. The less tech]more fashion conscious in our community will have a tough decision to make with the variety of colors including the Mahogany V9 from AT&T, Espresso Vgm from Verizo n Wireless, or Dark Pead Grey Vgm rlom Sprint. Prices vary depending on the carrier. Sprint is $249.99 with two-year contract. For more consumer informarion, visit http:lhwcw.motorota.coml2. the STAR Spexton Jewelry 222 S Lansing Trdsa, OK 74120 877.981.6060 Factory Store Now Open Now open in Tul~s Downtowns East End] Visit the soatho shop and watch them make your favorite Spexton jewelry. On the corner of 3rd and Lansing, across the street and around the corner from the Tiny Lotmge (Formerly 818). Hours: Mon-Sat Noon to 7:00pm Give a subscription to the STAR, 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheddan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 See pag~ 29for onter blank. �~ of the brown su~gar until light. Add the egg well after each addition. Fold see page 22. �TRAVEL SEATTLE, WASHINGTON We have fuutid olle oftbe most wonderhi[ arid exciting eldes in the country to visit. Tile first mid most imporoult thing about Searde is that you do nor need a car! "!hey have one of the fin~st pubhc tr~u~spor tatlon systems hi the country. Upon our arrival, we first went to the Gay Colrmlunity Cew~er, 1122 E. Pike, which is open daily to help tourists and locals as weIh "lhey offer a very infurmative packet of hlformation for the gay traveler. Check them out at www.seardelgboorg. ’~hey are open 10 AM to 9 PM dally and 11 AM to 8 PM on Sunda}z What a real treat to be welcomed to a city[ qhey have a veer" strong Greater Seatde Business Association which has been se~vlng w~dr pride since 1981. Check them out at: tkegtha.org. A~er that we checked into the Gaslight Inn Bed and B~t located at 1727 15th Aver~ue which is in the Capitol Hill area. qheir websise is: w~w.gaslight itm.com. You woHt find a more congenial or ftiend~ier host that Steve Betmett. Steve has owned a~d operated die Gaslight for over 25 years. A~er all these years, Steve is still "bubbly and enthusiastic about life" and it shows. He can give you great ideas on what to do and where to go whoa visiting and he can a~sist you in finding the right bars to go to. It is located in a wonderful old home and it’s motif is the arts a~l crafts period. It is decorated with beaurihii old Stialdey furniture and Steve has a great collection of contemporary glassware as well as some American dian artifacts. The rooms and suites are great, some with fi~eplac~s, omside decks and there is a heated swimming pool. It is located right on the bus llne and every 12 minutes you can catch a bus to downtown. "fh]k about accessibility? Within a few blocl~ you can walk to a dozen gay bars and 3 dozen restaurants in the area. Tiae Gaslight is the ONLY place to stay. The great thing about St ~y~ig at a B and B is that you get to meet other travelers as well. Tom and 18 the STAR Doris from I ~rtg Island were staying there and they were ddightful! (Most straight people hate that word, But, they WERE delightful ).. Also staying there was Greg from Attstralia. He was just starting out on a three month business trip around the world[ He was extremely enjoyable ttl talk with and we wish him well on his trip. He has since emailed $evei~] thnes to keep tl.S up to date on his journey. Down town Searde is one rd" the most be~miful, cLean, modem vib~axt downtowns in the cmmtry: Pike Place Market is the fu~t place that we went and enioyed the antiques ard gift shops as well performers, musicians and a~dsts. You can purchase a huge bouquet of flowers for $10 to $15 which would run $50 and up anywhere else in the country. Pike Place Market is celebrating their 100th year this year. Pioneer Square is also downtown aad is extremely historic with ilx tmdergrmmd tours. Most of the buildings in this area are over 100 year old. You cou!d spend all day in downtown Seattle iust lookir~g at all the wonderful old architecture. We drove all around Searde one day and visited mar~y different neighbor fu~:ls which were all quite ultique atrd di[~hrent. Tile-i have dozens and dorxns of hadlvidually mvned cafes and restaurants. From downtown you can take the Monorail to the Seattle Center which has the Space Needle as weg as Pacific Science Center, Science Fiction Museum mad Hag was built for the 1962 \gorld’s Fair. The elevator ride takes just 43 seconds to get to the top which is 520 feet to the obser vatiori dock. scum of Flight where they have a Concorde, ALr Force One and 85 other pL~n~, the Museum of Iq-istory ~a~d Industry, the Seattle Art M~setun and the Burke Mt~scum of Natural History and Cdlture. Seattle is one beck of city to visit! !rod they also have a great Gay Meffs Chorus! ��Aj&ican pen~dns amble about the beach at Cape Town’s Boulders National Park, apopular spot on the tours qffTe’ted by Premier Tours. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Unusual Tours to Great Destinations If you’ve come to associate organized tours with massive chartered cruise ships, packed buses, and onerously large groups of fellow travelers, you might want to give this concept a fresh look. Today’s organized-travel options include a tremendous variety of companies offering intimate, upscale, customized adventures. In many cases, the method of transportation - canal barges, bicycles, vintage trains - are part of the excitement. Many upscale tour companies that cater to relatively small groups are also extremely gay-friendly, attracting educated and sophisticated travelers who appreciate a diverse mix of participants. Here’s a look at five exceptional tour operators, four of them mainstream and one specifically gay-oriented, but all offering guests unusual ways to experience some of the most intriguing destinations in the world. Ride the Rails q-hrough nhe Rockies With its accepting and tolerant attitude toward gays and lesbians, Canada continues to generate plenty of interest from GLBT travelers. Of course, it doesn’t hurt that parts of this country rival just about anywhere in the world for stunning scenery - the Canadian Rockies, a region best explored by luxury rail, are especially breathtaking. Gay-friendly Royal Canadian Pacific offers cushy, distinctive rail excursions from late spring to early summer. Transportation and accommodations are inside beautifully refurbished 1920s and ’30s railcars, where large windows afford dazzling views of snowcapped mountains and pristine lakes. At a number of points, passengers leave the train for touring, hiking, golfing, fly-fishing, and horseback riding through the countryside. The 6-day Royal Canadian Rockies Experience starts and ends in "Calgary, Alberta (you spend the first night at the historic Fairmont Palliser Hotel), a modern and lively city with an intriguing gay scene (and, in late June, the Canadian Rockies International Rodeo - the 20 world’s largest such gay event). The route winds west through Canmore (where Brokeback Mountain was filmed), Banff National Park, Lake Louise, and the Columbia River town of Golden. Then the train heads south through the Rockies before cutting east at Cranbrook and venturing into the Canadian Prairie and the city of Lethbridge, before finally heading north back to Calgary. Tne 6-day Royal Culinary, Wine, and Music Experience is another great itinerary - it begins in Calgary and continues through Banff, Yoho, and Glacier national parks, before ending at beautiful Kamloops, with a side trip to the stunning Kelowna and Okanagan \Vine Country. Royal Canadian Pacific tours include fantastic food and ultra-posh accommodations, and they start at around $5,500 per person, double-occupancy. Stroll Through Northern New Mexico, Tuscany; or New Zealan~l We live in a super-speedy, boom-boom world, and it’s in part for this reason that so-called "walking" vacations have become increasingly popular in recent years. One company that has tapped into this market with great success, offering tours to a variety of stunning and gay-popular destinations around the world, is The Wayfarers, whose intimate and pleasingly slow-going 4- to 12-day rambles cater to educated, independent-minded, and curious adventurers who are fit enough for extended walks but still appreciate upscale accommodations and superlative food. On Wayfarers vacations, during the day you’ll hike with a guide and your small group of fellow travelers, maintaining a leisurely clip through some of the world’s most picturesque terrain. At night, you stay in distinctive accommodations, from adobe inns in Santa Fe to posh resorts in the South of France to seaside villas on Croatia’s Dalmatian Coast. the STAR ~’~vw. oza rksstar.com �Wa)4:arers offers tours in several regions, including such European destinations as the British Isles, Italy, Slovenia, Croatia, Austria, the South of France, and Spain. In the United States, you can tour the Maine coast, New Mexico, Utah, Washington’s Cascades and Olympic Peninsula, and Santa Barbara. In a few destinations (Italy’s lakes, England’s Cotswolds, New Mexico) you can choose between women-only and mixed-gender tours. These trips are great for couples or groups of friends traveling together. They’re well-suited to outdoorsy types, but they’re also accessible and enjoyable to globetrotters who don’t get outside much yet still enjoy occasional opportunities to commune with nature. Prices vary a bit according to the itinerary - the 5-day New Mexico trip is about $2,300 per person, the 6-day Tuscany adventures cost $3,500 per person, and the 12-day New Zealand treks cost $4,200 to $4,500 per person. Pedal Across Provence, Adalucia, or Iceland Of the many gay-oriented (i.e., open to gays and lesbians as well as friends of the community) tour companies out there, few have earned a more stellar reputation over the years than Alyson Adventures, which offers a slew of soft-adventure getaways that focus on such invigorating activities as canyoneering, rock-climbing, hiking, kayaldng, rafting, and scuba diving. In particular, Alyson offers wonderful bike tours through some of the world’s most fascinating places. These tours typically last about a week; are led by knowledgeable guides; include accommodations in well-chosen, mid-range hotels; include all breakfasts and some lunches and dinners (for others you’re on your own); and use of a bike. The trips are geared toward all levels of biking experience (they average 25 to 40 miles of travel per day, depending on the route), as participants are free to go at their own pace, and you’re as likely to meet single travelers on these adventures as you are couples or groups of friends. Alyson offers about a dozen itineraries, most of them in France (Provence, the Dordogne River, the Loire Valley, etc.), but others through Tuscany, Spain’s Andalusia, Iceland’s volcano and hotsprings country, Vietnam, and Arizona’s Mission Trail. There are tours from mid-spring through mid-fall, and prices range from about $1,700 to $2,800 per person, double-occupancy. This helpful company has even created a website, www.gay-bike.com, filled not only with further information on the tours it offers but also with tips on traveling by bike. If you’re keen on other types of adventure, consider some of Alyson’s similarly intriguing getaways, such as rafting the Grand Canyon, diving offthe Caribbean island of Saba, or eco-touring Costa Rica. and snacks, and richly furnished dining rooms in which you’ll be treated to superb classic French cuisine and fine wines. Special meals are also planned at a number of restaurants along each itinerary. French Country’Waterways cruises last a week, are offered April through October, and cost from about $5,000 per person, double occupancy. Trek Xhrough the African Bush Among the many companies out there offering African safari adventures, Philadelphia-based Premier Tours earns kudos for its distinctive and well-planned itineraries, which provide participants a nice mix of in-the-bush adventure and sophisticated big-city and wine-country diversion. The gay-friendly company has a huge range of trips covering several African nations - Uganda, Kenya, Tanzania, Namibia, Botswana, Zimbabwe, and South Africa. Gay travelers should book a trip that includes some time in the scenic and vibrant city of Cape Town, South Africa. For instance, the 7-day Cape Town & Safari excursion includes Cape Town and nearby wineries as well as safari experiences in Kruger National Park and the stunning Hephant Plains Game Lodge. There are also much more extensive 15- to 17-day South Africa tours, some that include Johannesburg, Zambia’s Victoria Falls, and Swaziland. The company’s many different types of tours cater to a wide range of interests and capabilities, as you can try anything from a rugged adventure trip that includes hiking and camping to cushier trips where you spend the night in fine hotels and posh game lodges. Premier Tours provides accommodations, many of the meals, airport transfers, game-viewing experiences, and other daily tours. Tour prices start around $1,300 per person, double-occupancy, for the 7-day Cape Town & Safari tour. This is a pretty amazing deal, when you consider the once-in-a-lifetime chance to see elephants and leopards in the wild, not to mention the swank restaurants and lively gay nightclubs of Cape Town. Cruise the French Canals French Country Waterways offers travelers an intimate, upscale way to traverse some 4,800 miles of navigable rivers and canals throughout the Gallic countryside. This is not your conventional cruise adventure. These leisurely and romantic excursions are offered in four regions: Champagne (a short distance east of Paris), the Upper Loire, Burgundy, and Alsace-Lorraine. If you’re planning a gay vacation to Paris and its hip Marais District, consider tacking on one of these boat trips after your city stay. The company uses five beautifully outfitted barges, which accommodate from 8 to 18 passengers, and whose staterooms and suites all have private bathrooms and individual climate control. Each barge has a large wooden sundeck, ample lounge space and bars stocked ~vith complimentary beverages w~w.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 21 �by Donald Pile & Ray X~dliams Featufmg Cuisine From Coast m Coast YELLOWSTONE’S FAMOUS OLD FAITHFUL INN Located in the heart of Yellowstone National Park in Wyoming, the ru~tlc-style lodge, with log and wood shingle exterior is located adjacent to the world famous Old Faithful Geyser. The original part of the Inn, knovm as the "Old House" was completed in 1904 and hadudes an immense tobby with a huge stone place. The East and West Wings were added in the teens and the twenties, with many rooms having been remodeled ha recent years. Guest accommodations include rooms with and with shared baths. Additiona~y, deli, gift store and interpre- 22 the STAR Add all of the Li Lato a thzker 3/4 full of cracked cocon~ a~d I slice of peach Sip, sip--and enjoy! / items and buffet. Ltmch offers a selection of fresh salads, sandwiches, house specialties and a western buffet. For dinner you c;m either enjoy the dinner buffet or choose from a menu offering signature specialties such as p~n-se~ed dk medallions or pork osso buco. ’,wvw.ozarksstar.com ��by Chaz & Victor ��The theme song for this season of roundball cotfld easily be P~M’s "Everybody Hurts". To my disbelief, I have already been injured and I have felt the sting of many a painful practice and game. I run forty- miles a week, I workout three days per week, and I even take long bike rides for cross-training purposes. How could this suffering be a possibility for someone like me? The reality is that I am working a different range of motion for my muscles. Even Superman has his Kryptonite and Achilles had his heel. I have given greater credence to the expression that what doesn’t kill me will only raake me stronger. Ianl thirty-eight years old and I recently desired a change in my life. I contemplated the notion of dying my hair, buying a convertible, wearing skater shoes, and purchasing a cool puka shell necklace. I was informed that these are all signs of a midlife crisis and I can’t be associated with any labels like that. I thus decided to satisfy my hunger for variety in a non-crisis fashion and I joined a softball team. It’s been about a month and I’ve managed to survive about a half dozen softb,~Jl games. ~xese are my stories. I have been a solitary runner for twenty years. Teamwork has not been a necessary part of my designated sport of distance running. I have been master and commander of my ship. Softball demands that ten players contribute for the common good of the tem-n. My days of spinsterhood, playing solitaire, and reclusiveness are over. I have to look out for my fellow brethren. It has been great learning to be part of something. I can’t function without them and vice versa. Not everyone is good. Some of the outfielders race in to catch a fly ball only to see it sail thirty feet over their noggin. There are still others who throw like Blanche, Rose, Sophia, and Dorothy. I have experienced the trials and tribulations of watching guys swing the bat with all the grace of a fairy godmother and her wand. I don’t mind these dreadful displays of athleticism. It is humbling to me because I k~ov¢ that there is something out there that I am horrible at. I proceed with this mindset and complete understanding 26 the STAR Quotable Quotes The first five-star gay hote! in Latin America opened Wednesday in the Argentine capita! of Buenos Aires, an increasingly popular destination on the worldwide gay tourist circuit. The hotel, set near the historic San Telmo neighborhood, is the second of its kind developed by Spain’s Axel Corp., which opened a five-star, 66-room gay hotel in Barcelona in 2003. Softball certainly has its gadabout tendendes. I am especially fond of this social side of the sport. The reward for engaging in the weekly ritual of two consecutive seven-inning games is found in a mug of Bud Light at ye olde watering hole after the barbarism has subsided. Rewards have even been known to involve some backTard frolicking in our shortstop’s pool ~xe horse is bound to gallop when he has that carrot stuck in front of his nose. Our team has tremendous galloping power thanks to our "carrots". I am enjoying the break in my daily monotony that has come from this thing called softball. I am reaping the benefits from the healthy mental and physical aspects of the activity. I have found a niche that has proved exciting for me. It has been quite cheaper than acquiring that box of Clairol, the ragtop Mustang, the black pair of Vans, and the island accessory with the shark tooth that would have adorned my neck. I even feel ten years younger since my first day of taking to right center field. My midlife emergency has suffered a crippling blow. The world is safe now, but for how long? This health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy whose ten gallon hat has been largely unaffected by his fifteen gallon mouth. That guy is Ron Blake and he can reached at www.goblakefitness.com. Creating Community for People living A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vaiety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com �awarded 5500 000 Executive Director Michael Adams. "This initiative serves a critical need: in the ne~:t 20 years the number of LGBT people age 65 and above will grow by 70 percent -- from approximately 3 million now to roughly 5 million over the next quarter century. This demographic tida! wave, combined with the endemic invisibility, marginalization, and discrimination faced by LGBT older people, lends an added urgency to this first-of-a-kind national advocacy effort. Thanks to this Banding from Arcus, we wil! be able to launch a strategic and focused effort to increase visibility; awareness, policy protections and support for LGBT older people." Adams added that the new initiative is especially timely since SAGE is celebrating its 30th anniversary in 2008, just launched an online community of LGBT aging advocates and service providers nationwide, and plans on hosting its fourth national conference on LGBT aging next fall. "We are grateful to the Arcus Foundation for funding this innovative partnership between the Task Force and SAGE," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "This project will combine the Task Force’s federal policy and research expertise, SAGE’s unparalleled understanding of the needs of LGBT elders, and the energy of activists across the nation to shape a better future for all our seniors." Joint coL~aboration wfl! address LGBT a&in~ concerns and improve qualig~ o~ ~iFe £o_ LGBT seniors NEW YORK, Nov. 13 -- Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) and the _’National Gay and Lesbian Task Force announced this week they have received a $500,000 grant from the kacus Gay and Lesbian Fund to support a joint national advocacy and policy effort around lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. For this new project, SAGE and the Task Force will collaborate on a series of ventures that push public policies that address LGBT aging concerns and enhance support, protections and quality of life for LGBT seniors. The grant will fund two new staffpositions -- one at each organization -- and related prograna expenses. "As the one organization that focuses on the full gamut of LGBT aging issues both locally and nationally, SAGE is thrilled to partner with the Task Force on this national effort to improve the lives of the senior members of our community," said SAGE www.ozarksstar.oom The Task Force’s existing aging initiative, headed up by Amber Hollibaugh, a Task Force senior strategist and specialist on LGBT aging issues, convenes and coordinates the National LGBT Aging Roundtabte, worked successfully with SAGE to gain the first-ever specific inclusion of LGBT elders in the Final Report of the 2005 VThite House Conference on Aging (which will guide federal aging work through 2015), and will be issuing a second edition of Outing Age, a seminal report on policy issues affecting LGBT elders, issued in 2000. Quotab ÷ Quotes Editor and comic writer ~dan Coren asked actor MichaeI Caine, who once was a neighbour of actor Richard Gere. Coren: "You must know the answer to the big question, Michad. Is Richard Gere gay?" Caine replied: "I don’t know if he is actually gay, but he would probably help out if they were short-handed." Ireland’s government announced late last week that it will introduce legislation legalizing civil unions for same-sex and heterosexual couples by March 2008. Known as the Civil Unions Bill 2006, the legislation will provide gay couples with unions legally equivalent to marriage, akin to the Civil Partnership _Act in the United Kingdom. Both openly-gay members of Congress have now endorsed Hi!lary Clinton for the Democratic presidential nomination. The New York senator secured the support of Tammy Baldwin, the "Wisconsin congresswoman who is the only out lesbian in the House, months ago. And this week Clinton gained the enthusiastic endorsement of House Financial Services Committee Chairman Barney Frank, the only out gay man currently serving in the chamber. The new SAGE-Task Force collaboration has four main goals: to build and provide leadership to an action-oriented national LGBT aging network; to win strategic policy victories for LGBT older people at the federal and state/local levels; to build the capacity for LGBT aging policy advocacy in communities across the country; and to ensure that LGBT aging issues are a focus in broader aging policy discussions. SAGE and the Task Force will carry out this work in dose collaboration with local LGBT aging organizations, as well as "mainstream" and "minority" senior organizations. the STAR 27 �"Have a Plan B, PiscesV’ The Sun square Uranus inspires bold acts of daring and innovation, but most of those will lack proper planning and precaution. Keep everything in the mental realm; explore new ideas and philosophies. This is not the time to try out skydiving! ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Don’t let anyone trust you with a secret. Even your own aren’t safe now. Exploring new ideas or arguing over old ones can lead to deep new insights. Carefully choose the company, time, and place for opening up. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Sexual tensions with a friend come to the surface, offering the potential of "benefits." Acting on those impulses might bring trouble, but discuss it, clear the air, and see if it might be worth exploring. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your partner or a close work colleague may let a secret slip that could change your reputafion. How you handle it can prove more important than the "scandal" itself. Keep a sense of humor and perspective, and be flexible with everything except the truth. SAGITrARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You may find it liberating to divulge family secrets, but your family probably doesn’t share your opinion. The benefits of disclosure may be worth the trouble, but the trouble will be considerable. Think it through before saying anything! CAPRICORN (December 21 -January 19): Stay quietly in the background, and keep your ears open. What you hear will be astounding and potentially very helpful. A noisy brain may seem like an impediment to meditation, but letting it run is part of the process. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Arguments with friends over money will come too easily. Do your best to make sure debts are paid and everything’s even. You’re likely to create friction despite your best efforts, so be prepared to apologize and back off. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): The impulse to strut your stuff may have you showing off a lot more than you intended. Make sure presentations are thoroughly planned out, complete with a Plan B if things go completely awry. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Accidents, arguments, weird allergic reactions, and other rude surprises are just waiting in the wings. Be ready to adapt and improvise, as there’s no escape. Often the difference between an adventure and a disaster is in your attitude. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Novelties in erotic play will open up new doors for you that you’d never imagined. Just be very careful, as some kinks require special precautions, and everyone is a little more accident-prone these days. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Arguments at home are almost inevitable. Accept them as a chance to clear the air. You’ll be surprised at what comes up. Problems revealed now can be solved later. Explore new ideas, recognizing that they will need work. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Impatience can lead to outbursts that you’ll regret. You’re a bit too eager for adventure, which could lead you into accidents. Try to focus that energy into learning new skills, especially those that could be useful at work. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21 ): Most of your brilliant inspirations about money are ready to blow up in your face. 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ON THE COVER: Virgin Galactic 4 the STAR w~,~v.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 6 the STAR Diversity Business ~[~ere were no gay men in America in the eighteenth centmy or Brokeback Mountain, the prequel. qlae author admits that was just to get the reader’s attention just as I got yours with my Jefferson, to the completely obscure, known Dofft let the word "Nstotical" dim yore bulb; it’s a very good introduction to our American gay heritage. qlxe period covered is approximatdy 1660 m 1850, ~md centers on the dme of the One p~;mt the author stresses is that the flowery writing style seem in private letters should not distract us from the gender of the writer and the letter’s recipient. hy a young wom~n and read, ’Often too, he sha~ed mypillow, or I his, and how sweet to sleep with him, hold his beloged form in my embrace, to have hi# arms about my neck, to imprint upon his face sweet kisses.’ We reasonably assume that she and the maa in quesdon shared a sexual relationship, There is no justifiable grounds for changing that amumpdon when we faarn that the words were actu~y written by Albm Dodd, a Yale undergraduate in the 1830s, describing his relationship with a fallow student, Anthony Gore Vidal (ff I could only know what he’s forgotten since bre~ffast): "What is sheer high animal spirits in the roaring boy who buys a pre-femlnlst girl is vileness in the roaring boy who buys another bo)~" Yes, indeed, it wasn’t just a style, it was the real McCoy of same-sex attraction. Benjamin Walker and William North were in the Revoludorxary Army under George Woshingmn, served honorably, attained blgh rank, a~d were set on a wall-w-do coarse in Iifa after their discharge. Both of them served Ln the House and Senate of Congress representing NewYork state. They kept in much through letters and "dsits when they were able. As was the style at that tlme dose male friends would name a child in honor of the other; however North’s wife, Polly, would not a~low their son to be named in that manner. It’s thought by the author that Polly suspected her husband and his friend children the author takes this as a sign that perhaps she xnd her husband were no longer connubial. "lhe whole friendship ends on a sad note with londiness and mLfaLfilled hope. 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After taldng a course in college she got more serious and started honing her skiIls. She studied at the Santa Fe Photographic "Workshops and other photography classes. Karen discovered Oldahoma and has made Tulsa her home since the mid 70s. She has been a Financial Consultant most of that time and has been expanding her photography business in recent years. \~qen her fellow photographers complained that there was nothing worth t~ng pictures of in Tulsa, she took ~hat as a personal challenge and started studying the city with a creative eye. She’s produced many stunning images of details that are often overlooked. Photo: Driller By Karen Greenawalt She will not sell an image more than once in the same size, so each of her pictures is unique. She has made an exception with one print that is available as a limited edition, so that it could be more affordable. Karen has exhibited in galleries and festivals around the area, and her work is included in collections across the country. The exhibit will remain up through the month of December, and can be viewed Monday thru Saturday from 3-9pro. The Dennis R. Neill Equality Center is located at 621 E. 4th St., in downtown Tulsa. More info can be found on the-web at okeq.org. DBAT Hos s Holiday Receptior TULSA, OK (PR) __ Diversity Business Association ofTulsa members a.s well as those interested in joining DBAT are invited to attend a Holiday Wine and Cheese Reception on ~gednesda}; December 12th at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. The reception will be help from 6:00 to 9:00pro. DBAT provides a forum to the gay; lesbian, bisexual and transgender business and professional community and its allies for the purpose of networ!dng, professional development, creating increased visibility and strengthening relationships among business and professional community members. We’re the heart ofLGBT networking and business growth. We support. -We lead. X,ge promote professional development, business diversity and personal enrichment - so get involved today! For more information contact Susan Hartman at slhartman@ scrubs2go.net or 918-274-1699. Oklahoma’s firs o.p.e ly gay legislator v s ts DalIaSo DALLAS, TX (P/R) __From one "blue" region to another, gay Oklahoma Rep. A! MckA}’rey came to share his experiences with Dallas’ political activists. "We ha:¢e a lot in common with his district," said Jesse Garcia, president of Stonewall Democrats of Dallas. "He’s in a little blue island of Oldahoma City, and he’s coming to Dallas County where there’s another blue island in a sea of red." 10 the STAR vcww.ozarksstar.com Tu sa’s Socia Event of the Yea A Campy C assi¢ Show for a Great Cause, Photo Czarina Rotc,~acokoff, l~Iiss Bamboo 2007 (by default) and Handsome Escort, Prince Hartness. Top Photo: right il/Iiss Bamboo 2008 Sydney Vicious, left Miss Bamboo 2006Mona Lott and selfproclaimed "Empress ofthe Bamboo" By Greg Stede TULSA, OK __ November 17th marked the 6th annual Miss Bamboo Pageant Fundraiser and was the most successful ever. ~’he crown was held in top security by BrinkT Security Armored Division and entered the building only after the votes had been counted by the Accounting Firm of Chicken, Bunns and Stevens. Votes for each contestant were determined by the amount of money each was given by the audience for their performance. Our House Too ofTulsa was the recipient of this years proceeds of $900.00. Our House Too offers a variety- of services for people who are HIV÷ or living with .AADS. You can contact the Director Milton Harris at (918) 585-9552 or harrismmjr@yahoo.com ~his years event was hosted by Kris Kohl a Tulsa Diva and MC’d by Earlena Detrick a local flower sales person. A wonderful job was done by both. The winner of the coveted crown for 2008 Sydney Vicious, an unknown bag lady who just happened onto the scene, wowed the crowd with a stunning performance, and our sympathy goes out to Queen Vicious as we understand at the time of this writing, her grocery cart was hit by Ms. Detricks Hummer in the parking lot and completely totaled. The big surprise at this years pageant was Miss Bamboo 2006 and self proclaimed Empress Mona Lott who was extremely well behaved. A tradition at past Bamboo events, all were expecting her usual display of vulgarity, a ritual wimessed every year that is nothing less than sleazy striptease. Thank you Mona for being a perfect lady this year. No prelim, no registration fees, not known for glamour, but an absolute celebration of campy fun with a big heart. That is the Miss Bamboo Pageant. Copa, OKC Hosts National Mro Gay A erica Cor teSto By Victor Gorin Photo: (left) 1st runnerup Austin Gene ofTulsa, (cwnter) Taz Bailey M~ Gay AllAmerican 2007 of~Iidwest City Oklahoma, (right) Sebastian Armonte a~Ir. Gay AllAmerican 2008 Pittsburgh, PA OKL~IOMA CITY, OK__ It was a steamy Saturday night at the Copa with the national Mr. Gay All American Contest held November 10. ~With 5 contestants and 7 former winners present the audience got treated to mankind at their best. Owned for the past 2 years by OKC local John Beebe, a former Mr.Gay All American himself (1996), he has taken on the project of this contest -with the passion it takes to do the work to make it come together. The contest began over 24 years ago as part of Norma Kristie’s Pageant System in Little Rock, Arkansas (owned by Norman Jones of the Miss Gay America Pageant System), and even today the scoring system and categories are the same. It separated from that system, taken over by Gib Hauersperger for several years until 2002. It then was purchased by Paul Lopez ( also a former Mr.Gay All American), then it was taken over by Richard Greer who had it until 2005 when it dosed. Mr.Beebe then saw an opportunity to revive the contest, and took it over in 2006. Although it did prove to be a lot of work, Mr. Beebe has secured several national sponsorships of the event and is optimistic about the future of the contest. There is now a $2500 prize package for the winner, and those interested in participating should contact Mr.Beebe at wvw.myspace.com/mgaacontest or johnbeebe96@yahoo.com ~,#ww.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 REVIEW By Donald Pile a~d Ray Williams gay~avders@aol.com "GAY VEGAS - A Guide to the Other Side of Sin City" by Steve Friess We have just read one of the and we thought that we knew Then he tells about the "best oftbe best" and the MUST DO and MUST SEE things about Las Vegas. Any gay person going to L~ Vegas whether for the first time or if they flare been there many times should purchase this book. Steve’s "Gay Las Vegas" book deals with lodging, restaurant% shows, gay nightlife, shopping, gay weddings ~nd is the most definitive book for gaps gohag to Las Vegas. Steve has lived in Las Veg~ since 1996 and was originally from Long Island, New York. Ftiess ~nd his partner, NBC producer Miles Smith, co-host "The Strip" podc~t, a weekly Vegas~centrie celebrity-hiterview progsara found at q~eStripPodc~st.com. Fdess and Smith wed at the Pabos Hotel- Casino in March 2007 and live with their two Chihuahuas, Black and Jack. Steve is a former contributing writer for q~e Advocate, Friess has also covered gay topics for USA Today, the New York Times, Newsweek, and dozpns of other major periodicals. 12 the STAR ff yot~ can’t go to Las Vegss, buy Stevens book and read it and you w~l think that you are there! He writes so directly ~d tells about all aspects of the cit~ "llaere should be a informative book like this written about all the great gay cities in the country. Steve LOVES his city and it shows! He has certainly done his research and pulls no punches in describing the different aspects of gay life ~nd gay destinations when going to l&s Vegas. Gay Vegas - A Gnlde to the Other Side ofiSin City can be purchased around the country at mmay Borders and Barnes and Nobles and also on line thr~ Amazon.com. We HIGHLY recommend rhls great book! It w’dl save you a lot of time ~d money die next time you visit Las Vegas. On a side note. Kansas City’s own Wes Winters entert~as at the Liberace Mtmettm weekly in Las Vegas. A~ always, when we write ~nything about L~ Vegas, we like to remind everybody to remember the words of lAberace, "No one will believe in you unless you believe in yourself! " G.ay ca.ndidates v ctonous across the U.S. WASHINGTON, D.C. (P/R) __ Dozens of openly gay and lesbi~a~ candidates running in municipal and state legislative races across the country won their elections Tuesday, according to the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund. Ofthe record 71 candidates endorsed by die gsoup in 2007, at least 31 won their races on Tuesday, while 10 were elected earlier this year. At least three more endorsed candidates received enough votes to edvance to runoff elections. V~ctory Fund president and CEO Chuck Wolfe said the growing number of out candidates demonstrates the gay community’s increasing involvement in electoral politics. ~Thls is the path to change. We are not content to sit on the snlelLqes and hope that others do the right thing for our community. We will step up and lead the fight for a more equal and fair America, mad we will win," Wolfe said. ¯ae Victory Fund’s 7I endorsements set a new record for an odthnumbered year in which there ~re no scheduled federal elections. In 2006, the group endorsed 88 cmadidates ~ad it expects to endorse more than 100 candidates in 2008, according to Wolfe. He added that planning has already begun for n~xt year’s races. "2008 will be another record-breaking year for gay c~adidates, and they’ll need help to counter the inevitable amacks from anti-gay hate groups. We’ll be ready to fight," Wolfe Among the h@lighrs Tuesday: ¯ Joel Burns, a candidate for the Fort Worth, Tex., City Council edv~lced to a December rtmoff election as the top votegetter a~er being subject to anti-gay smears from an opponent. ¯ Craig Covey won his race for mayor of Femdale, Mich., becoming the first openly gay mayor elected in the state of Michigan. ¯ Michefie Bruce, an openly transgender incumbent on the Riverdale, Ga., City Council was the top vote-getter in her race and advances to a runoff election. ................Continued next page Gay car didar.es cont. @ New Jersey State Assemblyman Reed Gusciora, who became the state’s first openly LGBT state legislator when he came out publicly during his current term, won re-election to his seat. @ Jeffrey Anderson was elected to the Duluth City Council, becoming the first openly gay elected official in northern Minnesota. Tim Eustace won his race for mayor of Maywood, N.J. @ Brian Bates, won a seat on the Doraville, Ga., City Council, becoming the first openly gay Republican ever to win office in the state. @ Lydia Lavelle won a seat on the Carrboro, N.C., Board ofAldermen, becoming the seventh openly LGBT candidate ever elected in the state. For up-to-date election results for all endorsed candidates, go to www.victoryfund. org. The Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund is the only national organization dedicated to increasing the number of openly lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender public officials at all levels of government. It is the nation’s largest LGBT political action committee. Since its founding in 1991, the Victory Fund has helped grow the number of out elected officials from just 49 to nearly 400 in the United States. OKLAHOMA STONEWALL DEMOCRATS FUNDRAISER AT ANGLES A SUCCESS By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK __ Bringing together the GLBT community and their allies together for an evening of fun and unity was hosted by the newly reopened Angles Club of Oklahoma City. The fundraiser featured not only the executive Director Jon Hoadley, but also elected officials State Representative AI McAffrey & Oklahoma Corporation Commissioner Jim Roth. They were also entertained by Alison Scott & Miss Gay Oklahoma 1 st Runnerup Melody Michaels, a British lass now a US citizen and proud member of Stonewall. Stonewall welcomes new members, only requiring that one be a registered Democrats & believe in equality for all Americans including the GLBT community. Person interested in joining may log in on our Oklahoma website v~vw.okstonewall.org, or call Treasurer Jim Nimmo at (405) 843 3651.The website of the national organization is www.stonewalldemocrats.org. Meetings are held at 7 p.m. the first Tuesday of every month at the Otdahoma State Democratic Party Headquarters located at 4100 N. Lincoln Boulevard in Oklahoma City and are open to all. QuotaNe Quotes AIDS vaccine didn’t guard against virus~ Drugmaker Merck & Co. released new data on an experimental AIDS vaccine that failed to work, the data shows volunteers who got the shots were far more likely to get infected with the virus through sex or other risky behavior than those who got dummy shots. www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 13 November 29, 1984 (23 years ago last month): West Hollywood, Calif., incorporates as a city. How did West Hollywood become so gay? os Angeles has been a town of many firsts for the GLBT communisy, including, in the 1950s, the llrst enduring U.S. gay and lesbian orga~zizations and publications. West Hollywood, an enclave within L.A., is widely regarded as the world’s first gay city Popularly known as "WeHo," West Hollywood is a small city ofjust 1.9 square miles located in the northwest part of LOs Angeles County, suzrounded by L.A.’s Hollywood district and the independent city of’Beverly During the first halfof fire 20th century, gay people also began gravitating to West Hdilywood. ~ie area was beyond the reach of the notoriously homophobic L.A.ED. and convenient for the gay creative talent work~ hag behind the scenes in the fihn industry. So many gay men bought and renovated working-class bungalows ha the 1960s and 1970s that the area around the Strip became known as the "Swish Kips." In fire 1960s, the Sunset Strip underwent a revival and became a hub of the hippie sic venues such as the Roxy and the ~ghisky a Go Go. But fire gay social scene centered on Santa Monica Boultward. A plethora of flubs, restaurants, and boutiques catering to gay patrons sprang up on fire west end of the street, dubbed "Boys Town" (though it also included a longolived lesbian bar~ The Palms). But not eceryone w~s gay-friendly Barney’s Beanery, a popular eatery since the 1920s, for decades posted a sign reading "Fagnrs [sic] Stay Out," the target of nttmer- The land that is now West Hofiywood was occupied by the Tongna Indian tribe when Spanish missionaries and ranchers setded the ~ea in the late 18di centmy. More than 100 years later, the Los Angeles ~aad Pacific RaJlway was built, and a small town ca~ed Sherman grew up around the main tall yard and trolley barns to accommodate the The people of Sherman declined to be incorporated into the city of Los Angeles. Because the town was outside the jurisdiction ofthe L.A. Police Dep~rtment. gambling casinos flourished a~d alcohol flowed freely din:rag the Prohibition era. In the 1920s and 1930s, the Sunset Strip running along WeHo’s northwest border became the ~playgsotmd of the stars,’~ a major nightlife destination for celebrities of the burgeoning motion picture industry. Nearby, posh apartment complexes housed Ho0ywood luminaries. One of fire most lavish - lesbian acrxess KiLn Nasimo~a’s Garden ofAlLah ÷ became infamous for its wild parties, But during World War ii, celebrities opted for a more wholesome public image as the cotmt~T’s pofiricad climate became more conservative, and the Strip fell out of £avor. The grittier east end of Santa Morea Boulevard. near the border with Hollywood, became a well-known prostitution stroll frequented by male hustlers ~nd transvestites. In the 1970s, the area was home to cheap motels, massage parlors, and sex shops. A Time magazine article in Aprtl 1976 described the so’etch as a "a flelible ribbon of smut that expands or contracts according to the apathy or indignation of the surrounding stucco-house neighborhoods." Indeed, there were periodic campaigns to clean up the area, but fire illicit activity never completely disappeared. In the 1980s and 1990s, the city saw an influx of Russian Jewish immigrants. With a large population of renters, residents grew concerned when L~. County proposed scrapping rent control amid skyrocketing real estate prices. A coalition of gays, Jews, ment to establish a separate city. West Hob lywood was incorporaied on November 29. I984, and elected the first-ever city council with a gay majority and the first operdy lesbian mayor, Valerie Terrigno. The council quickly passed strong rent conu’ol and anti-eviction laws and an ordinance bam~ng antigay discrimination, Terrigno bersulf 14 the STAR removed the "Fagots Keep Out" sign from Barney’s Beanery In 1985, WeHo bega~ offering domestic parmership benefits, becoming the first An~erlcan city to legally recognize same-sex rrlarionships. But Ter rig.no resigned later that yca~ after she was charged with embezzling from her former employer, and the scandal divided the gay community. While West Hofiywood has never had an actual gay majority, it has perhaps the Largest proportion of gay residents of any city - es~ated at around 40 percent of a to’cA population of 39,000 - and is a hub of queer cultare. The Christopher Street West Pride parade and festival, first held in 1970, moved from Los Angeles to West Hollywood in 1979; in 1987 the city started its annual Halloween Carnaval, which attxacts halfa million revelers. R~nbew flags fly on Santa Moniea Boulevard year-round, and even the L.A. County Sheriff vehicles that patrol the city sport a rainbow logo. While San Frandsco’s Castro, New York City’s West Village, and Chicago’s North Ha[stead area are renowned gay enclaves in the midst of larger cities, only in West Hollywood are the reins ofpolirical power firmly in the hands oftbe GLBT community "In the sixties, many of us - mysdf inaluded - stood on the outside and shouted epithets," said Steve Sehulte, an original WeHo city council member and later mayor. "But one of the really important lessons of die eighties is that gay and lesbian people have to run for office and get elected." Forfurther reading: Faderman, Lillian, and Stuart Timmons. 2006. Gay L.A. (Basic Books). Gierach, Ryan. 2003. Images ofAmerica: West Hollywood (Arcadia Publishers). v,~wv.ozarksstar.com Red wine in stereo is a and can have lots of ripe, ing black cherries, black roast coffee or chocolat~ mas. On the palate Black raspberry and bright fruit fill can be full and livel, can be a similar www.wineed~ Included here are a white wines, champagne I think we’ve got it all covered. Mr. D’s baker’s dozen. Po~t Grahams 6 grape port a with Mr D also hosts wine & food events as the Wine Enthusiasts of Tulsa. Cab Elyse Nei Sang Masi Copain BR Cohn Joel Gott Cabemet’05 w~rw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 "Ihe holiday season means many things to many people. For many gays and lesbians, it me~.s wardrobe shopping and new acces sories. Oh yes] When it comes to looking sharper th~ ever this fall, the sleeker, smarter, stronger MotoroIa’s RAZR2 has redefined the mobile phone into a must- "lhe Sa~ Francisco Chronicle recendy wrote, =...the phone itse~’has got to be one of the most fashionable devices out there, with its solid construction and k~ury feel." "Ibis new phone is "Out" already. The less tech]more fashion conscious in our community will have a tough decision to make with the variety of colors including the Mahogany V9 from AT&T, Espresso Vgm from Verizon Wireless, or Dark Pead Grey Vgm rlom Sprint. Prices vary depending on the carrier. Sprint is $249.99 with two-year contract. For more consumer informarion, visit http:lhwcw.motorota.coml2. the STAR Monin Gourmet Classic Flavors revered in my- ,e and eternity, luicy sweet fl as,~r. ~0w Monin Pomegranate and a dash of playfitL Perfect in cocktails rlom m~rdnis to daiquiris, Monin Pom~granate’s deep red color makes a dramatic statement while its Monin produces many other flavors and products for that perfect girl. 800-966-5225 Spexton Jewelry 222 S Lansing Trdsa, OK 74120 877.981.6060 Factory Store Now Open Now open in Tul~s Downtowns East End] Visit the soatho shop and watch them make your favorite Spexton jewelry. On the corner of 3rd and Lansing, across the street and around the corner from the Tiny Lotmge (Formerly 818). Hours: Mon-Sat Noon to 7:00pm Spexton Pal7013 Knurled Gold "Koenig" NEW!. H~ndcrarled stainless steel ring by Spexton. Featttres 22k gold inlay in raised center stripe with ~ knuded fizAsh and mirror edges, Sizes boxed. Order $450.00 -~vw,spexron.com Spexton NEI062 3 Dot Pendant New! From o~ new pendant collection, this intricate design per and s~lver blending gift-boxed Give a subscription to the STAR, 12 issues only $33.95. Send Check or Money Order to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheddan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 Seepag~ 29for onter blank. see page 22. ~ of the brown su~gar until light. Add the egg well after each addition. Fold TRAVEL SEATTLE, WASHINGTON We have fuutid olle oftbe most wonderhi[ arid exciting eldes in the country to visit. Tile first mid most imporoult thing about Searde is that you do nor need a car! "!hey have one ofthe fin- ~st pubhc tr~u~sportatlon systems hi the country. Upon our arrival, we first went to the Gay Colrmlunity Cew~er, 1122 E. Pike, which is open daily to help tourists and locals as weIh "lhey offer a very infurmative packet of hlformation for the gay traveler. Check them out at www.seardelgboorg. ’~hey are open 10 AM to 9 PM dally and 11 AM to 8 PM on Sunda}z What a real treat to be welcomed to a city[ qhey have a veer" strong Greater Seatde Business Association which has been se~vlng w~dr pride since 1981. Check them out at: tkegtha.org. A~er that we checked into the Gaslight Inn Bed andB~t located at 1727 15th Aver~ue which is in the Capitol Hill area. qheir websise is: w~w.gaslight itm.com. You woHt find a more congenial or ftiend~ier host that Steve Betmett. Steve has owned a~d operated die Gaslight for over 25 years. A~er all these years, Steve is still "bubbly and enthusiastic about life" and it shows. He can give you great ideas on what to do and where to go whoa visiting and he can a~sist you in finding the right bars to go to. It is located in a wonderful old home and it’s motif is the arts a~l crafts period. It is decorated with beaurihii old Stialdey furniture and Steve has a great collection of contemporary glassware as well as some American dian artifacts. The rooms and suites are great, some with fi~eplac~s, omside decks and there is a heated swimming pool. It is located right on the bus llne and every 12 minutes you can catch a bus to downtown. "fh]k about accessibility? Within a few blocl~ you can walk to a dozen gay bars and 3 dozen restaurants in the area. Tiae Gaslight is the ONLY place to stay. The great thing about St~y~ig at a B and B is that you get to meet other travelers as well. Tom and 18 the STAR Doris from I ~rtg Island were staying there and they were ddightful! (Most straight people hate that word, But, they WERE delightful ).. Also staying there was Greg from Attstralia. He was just starting out on a three month business trip around the world[ He was extremely enjoyable ttl talk with and we wish him well on his trip. He has since emailed $evei~] thnes to keep tl.S up to date on his journey. Downtown Searde is one rd" the most be~miful, cLean, modem vib~axt downtowns in the cmmtry: Pike Place Market is the fu~t place that we went and enioyed the antiques ard gift shops as well performers, musicians and a~dsts. You can purchase a huge bouquet of flowers for $10 to $15 which would run $50 and up anywhere else in the country. Pike Place Market is celebrating their 100th year this year. Pioneer Square is also downtown aad is extremely historic with ilx tmdergrmmd tours. Most of the buildings in this area are over 100 year old. You cou!d spend all day in downtown Seattle iust lookir~g at all the wonderful old architecture. We drove all around Searde one day and visited mar~y different neighborfu~:ls which were all quite ultique atrd di[~hrent. Tile-i have dozens and dorxns of hadlvidually mvned cafes and restaurants. From downtown you can take the Monorail to the Seattle Center which has the Space Needle as weg as Pacific Science Center, Science Fiction Museum mad Hag was built for the 1962 \gorld’s Fair. The elevator ride takes just 43 seconds to get to the top which is 520 feet to the observatiori dock. scum of Flight where they have a Concorde, ALr Force One and 85 other pL~n~, the Museum of Iq-istory ~a~d Industry, the Seattle Art M~setun and the Burke Mt~scum of Natural History and Cdlture. Seattle is one beck of city to visit! !rod they also have a great Gay Meffs Chorus! Aj&ican pen~dns amble about the beach at Cape Town’s Boulders National Park, apopular spot on the tours qffTe’ted by Premier Tours. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Unusual Tours to Great Destinations If you’ve come to associate organized tours with massive chartered cruise ships, packed buses, and onerously large groups of fellow travelers, you might want to give this concept a fresh look. Today’s organized-travel options include a tremendous variety of companies offering intimate, upscale, customized adventures. In many cases, the method of transportation - canal barges, bicycles, vintage trains - are part of the excitement. Many upscale tour companies that cater to relatively small groups are also extremely gay-friendly, attracting educated and sophisticated travelers who appreciate a diverse mix of participants. Here’s a look at five exceptional tour operators, four of them mainstream and one specifically gay-oriented, but all offering guests unusual ways to experience some of the most intriguing destinations in the world. Ride the Rails q-hrough nhe Rockies With its accepting and tolerant attitude toward gays and lesbians, Canada continues to generate plenty of interest from GLBT travelers. Ofcourse, it doesn’t hurt that parts of this country rival just about anywhere in the world for stunning scenery - the Canadian Rockies, a region best explored by luxury rail, are especially breathtaking. Gay-friendly Royal Canadian Pacific offers cushy, distinctive rail excursions from late spring to early summer. Transportation and accommodations are inside beautifully refurbished 1920s and ’30s railcars, where large windows afford dazzling views of snowcapped mountains and pristine lakes. At a number of points, passengers leave the train for touring, hiking, golfing, fly-fishing, and horseback riding through the countryside. The 6-day Royal Canadian Rockies Experience starts and ends in "Calgary, Alberta (you spend the first night at the historic Fairmont Palliser Hotel), a modern and lively city with an intriguing gay scene (and, in late June, the Canadian Rockies International Rodeo - the 20 the STAR world’s largest such gay event). The route winds west through Canmore (where Brokeback Mountain was filmed), Banff National Park, Lake Louise, and the Columbia River town of Golden. Then the train heads south through the Rockies before cutting east at Cranbrook and venturing into the Canadian Prairie and the city of Lethbridge, before finally heading north back to Calgary. Tne 6-day Royal Culinary, Wine, and Music Experience is another great itinerary - it begins in Calgary and continues through Banff, Yoho, and Glacier national parks, before ending at beautiful Kamloops, with a side trip to the stunning Kelowna and Okanagan \Vine Country. Royal Canadian Pacific tours include fantastic food and ultra-posh accommodations, and they start at around $5,500 per person, double-occupancy. Stroll Through Northern New Mexico, Tuscany; or New Zealan~l We live in a super-speedy, boom-boom world, and it’s in part for this reason that so-called "walking" vacations have become increasingly popular in recent years. One company that has tapped into this market with great success, offering tours to a variety of stunning and gay-popular destinations around the world, is The Wayfarers, whose intimate and pleasingly slow-going 4- to 12-day rambles cater to educated, independent-minded, and curious adventurers who are fit enough for extended walks but still appreciate upscale accommodations and superlative food. On Wayfarers vacations, during the day you’ll hike with a guide and your small group of fellow travelers, maintaining a leisurely clip through some of the world’s most picturesque terrain. At night, you stay in distinctive accommodations, from adobe inns in Santa Fe to posh resorts in the South of France to seaside villas on Croatia’s Dalmatian Coast. ~’~vw.ozarksstar.com Wa)4:arers offers tours in several regions, including such European destinations as the British Isles, Italy, Slovenia, Croatia, Austria, the South of France, and Spain. In the United States, you can tour the Maine coast, New Mexico, Utah, Washington’s Cascades and Olympic Peninsula, and Santa Barbara. In a few destinations (Italy’s lakes, England’s Cotswolds, New Mexico) you can choose between women- only and mixed-gender tours. These trips are great for couples or groups of friends traveling together. They’re well-suited to outdoorsy types, but they’re also accessible and enjoyable to globetrotters who don’t get outside much yet still enjoy occasional opportunities to commune with nature. Prices vary a bit according to the itinerary - the 5-day New Mexico trip is about $2,300 per person, the 6-day Tuscany adventures cost $3,500 per person, and the 12-day New Zealand treks cost $4,200 to $4,500 per person. Pedal Across Provence, Adalucia, or Iceland Of the many gay-oriented (i.e., open to gays and lesbians as well as friends of the community) tour companies out there, few have earned a more stellar reputation over the years than Alyson Adventures, which offers a slew of soft-adventure getaways that focus on such invigorating activities as canyoneering, rock-climbing, hiking, kayaldng, rafting, and scuba diving. In particular, Alyson offers wonderful bike tours through some of the world’s most fascinating places. These tours typically last about a week; are led by knowledgeable guides; include accommodations in well-chosen, mid-range hotels; include all breakfasts and some lunches and dinners (for others you’re on your own); and use of a bike. The trips are geared toward all levels of biking experience (they average 25 to 40 miles of travel per day, depending on the route), as participants are free to go at their own pace, and you’re as likely to meet single travelers on these adventures as you are couples or groups of friends. Alyson offers about a dozen itineraries, most of them in France (Provence, the Dordogne River, the Loire Valley, etc.), but others through Tuscany, Spain’s Andalusia, Iceland’s volcano and hotsprings country, Vietnam, and Arizona’s Mission Trail. There are tours from mid-spring through mid-fall, and prices range from about $1,700 to $2,800 per person, double-occupancy. This helpful company has even created a website, www.gay-bike.com, filled not only with further information on the tours it offers but also with tips on traveling by bike. If you’re keen on other types of adventure, consider some ofAlyson’s similarly intriguing getaways, such as rafting the Grand Canyon, diving offthe Caribbean island of Saba, or eco-touring Costa Rica. Cruise the French Canals and snacks, and richly furnished dining rooms in which you’ll be treated to superb classic French cuisine and fine wines. Special meals are also planned at a number of restaurants along each itinerary. French Country’Waterways cruises last a week, are offered April through October, and cost from about $5,000 per person, double occupancy. Trek Xhrough the African Bush Among the many companies out there offering African safari adventures, Philadelphia-based Premier Tours earns kudos for its distinctive and well-planned itineraries, which provide participants a nice mix of in-the-bush adventure and sophisticated big-city and wine-country diversion. The gay-friendly company has a huge range of trips covering several African nations - Uganda, Kenya, Tanzania, Namibia, Botswana, Zimbabwe, and South Africa. Gay travelers should book a trip that includes some time in the scenic and vibrant city of Cape Town, South Africa. For instance, the 7-day Cape Town & Safari excursion includes Cape Town and nearby wineries as well as safari experiences in Kruger National Park and the stunning Hephant Plains Game Lodge. There are also much more extensive 15- to 17-day South Africa tours, some that include Johannesburg, Zambia’s Victoria Falls, and Swaziland. The company’s many different types of tours cater to a wide range of interests and capabilities, as you can try anything from a rugged adventure trip that includes hiking and camping to cushier trips where you spend the night in fine hotels and posh game lodges. Premier Tours provides accommodations, many of the meals, airport transfers, game-viewing experiences, and other daily tours. Tour prices start around $1,300 per person, double-occupancy, for the 7-day Cape Town & Safari tour. This is a pretty amazing deal, when you consider the once-in-a-lifetime chance to see elephants and leopards in the wild, not to mention the swank restaurants and lively gay nightclubs of Cape Town. French Country Waterways offers travelers an intimate, upscale way to traverse some 4,800 miles of navigable rivers and canals throughout the Gallic countryside. This is not your conventional cruise adventure. These leisurely and romantic excursions are offered in four regions: Champagne (a short distance east of Paris), the Upper Loire, Burgundy, and Alsace-Lorraine. If you’re planning a gay vacation to Paris and its hip Marais District, consider tacking on one of these boat trips after your city stay. The company uses five beautifully outfitted barges, which accommodate from 8 to 18 passengers, and whose staterooms and suites all have private bathrooms and individual climate control. Each barge has a large wooden sundeck, ample lounge space and bars stocked ~vith complimentary beverages w~w.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 21 by Donald Pile & Ray X~dliams Featufmg Cuisine From Coast m Coast YELLOWSTONE’S FAMOUS OLD FAITHFUL INN Located in the heart ofYellowstone National Park in Wyoming, the ru~tlc-style lodge, with log and wood shingle exterior is located adjacent to the world famous Old Faithful Geyser. The original part of the Inn, knovm as the "Old House" was completed in 1904 and hadudes an immense tobby with a huge stone place. The East and West Wings were added in the teens and the twenties, with many rooms having been remodeled ha recent years. Guest accommodations include rooms with and with shared baths. Additiona~y, deli, gift store and interpre- 22 the STAR items and buffet. Ltmch offers a selection of fresh salads, sandwiches, house specialties and a western buffet. For dinner you c;m either enjoy the dinner buffet or choose from a menu offering signature specialties such as p~n-se~ed dk medallions or pork osso buco. Add all of the Li Lato a thzker 3/4 full of cracked cocon~ a~d I slice ofpeach / Sip, sip--and enjoy! ’,wvw.ozarksstar.com by Chaz & Victor Ianl thirty-eight years old and I recently desired a change in my life. I contemplated the notion of dying my hair, buying a convertible, wearing skater shoes, and purchasing a cool puka shell necklace. I was informed that these are all signs of a midlife crisis and I can’t be associated with any labels like that. I thus decided to satisfy my hunger for variety in a non-crisis fashion and I joined a softball team. It’s been about a month and I’ve managed to survive about a half dozen softb,~Jl games. ~xese are my stories. I have been a solitary runner for twenty years. Teamwork has not been a necessary part of my designated sport of distance running. I have been master and commander of my ship. Softball demands that ten players contribute for the common good of the tem-n. My days of spinsterhood, playing solitaire, and reclusiveness are over. I have to look out for my fellow brethren. It has been great learning to be part of something. I can’t function without them and vice versa. Not everyone is good. Some of the outfielders race in to catch a fly ball only to see it sail thirty feet over their noggin. There are still others who throw like Blanche, Rose, Sophia, and Dorothy. I have experienced the trials and tribulations of watching guys swing the bat with all the grace of a fairy godmother and her wand. I don’t mind these dreadful displays of athleticism. It is humbling to me because I k~ov¢ that there is something out there that I am horrible at. I proceed with this mindset and complete understanding 26 the STAR The theme song for this season of roundball cotfld easily be P~M’s "Everybody Hurts". To my disbelief, I have already been injured and I have felt the sting of many a painful practice and game. I run forty- miles a week, I workout three days per week, and I even take long bike rides for cross-training purposes. How could this suffering be a possibility for someone like me? The reality is that I am working a different range of motion for my muscles. Even Superman has his Kryptonite and Achilles had his heel. I have given greater credence to the expression that what doesn’t kill me will only raake me stronger. Softball certainly has its gadabout tendendes. I am especially fond of this social side of the sport. The reward for engaging in the weekly ritual of two consecutive seven-inning games is found in a mug of Bud Light at ye olde watering hole after the barbarism has subsided. Rewards have even been known to involve some backTard frolicking in our shortstop’s pool ~xe horse is bound to gallop when he has that carrot stuck in front of his nose. Our team has tremendous galloping power thanks to our "carrots". I am enjoying the break in my daily monotony that has come from this thing called softball. I am reaping the benefits from the healthy mental and physical aspects of the activity. I have found a niche that has proved exciting for me. It has been quite cheaper than acquiring that box of Clairol, the ragtop Mustang, the black pair of Vans, and the island accessory with the shark tooth that would have adorned my neck. I even feel ten years younger since my first day of taking to right center field. My midlife emergency has suffered a crippling blow. The world is safe now, but for how long? This health and fitness column is brought to you by that guy whose ten gallon hat has been largely unaffected by his fifteen gallon mouth. That guy is Ron Blake and he can reached at www.goblakefitness.com. Quotable Quotes The first five-star gay hote! in Latin America opened Wednesday in the Argentine capita! of Buenos Aires, an increasingly popular destination on the worldwide gay tourist circuit. The hotel, set near the historic San Telmo neighborhood, is the second of its kind developed by Spain’s Axel Corp., which opened a five-star, 66-room gay hotel in Barcelona in 2003. Creating Community for People living A 501 c (3) Non Profit Organization Our House, Too offers a vaiety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail hardsmmjr@yahoo.com. www.ozarksstar.com awarded 5500 000 Joint coL~aboration wfl! address LGBT a&in~ concerns and improve qualig~ o~ ~iFe £o_ LGBT seniors NEWYORK, Nov. 13 -- Services and Advocacy for GLBT Elders (SAGE) and the _’National Gay and Lesbian Task Force announced this week they have received a $500,000 grant from the kacus Gay and Lesbian Fund to support a joint national advocacy and policy effort around lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) aging. For this new project, SAGE and the Task Force will collaborate on a series of ventures that push public policies that address LGBT aging concerns and enhance support, protections and quality of life for LGBT seniors. The grant will fund two new staffpositions -- one at each organization -- and related prograna expenses. "As the one organization that focuses on the full gamut ofLGBT aging issues both locally and nationally, SAGE is thrilled to partner with the Task Force on this national effort to improve the lives of the senior members of our community," said SAGE www.ozarksstar.oom Executive Director Michael Adams. "This initiative serves a critical need: in the ne~:t 20 years the number ofLGBT people age 65 and above will grow by 70 percent -- from approximately 3 million now to roughly 5 million over the next quarter century. This demographic tida! wave, combined with the endemic invisibility, marginalization, and discrimination faced by LGBT older people, lends an added urgency to this first-of-a-kind national advocacy effort. Thanks to this Banding from Arcus, we wil! be able to launch a strategic and focused effort to increase visibility; awareness, policy protections and support for LGBT older people." Adams added that the new initiative is especially timely since SAGE is celebrating its 30th anniversary in 2008, just launched an online community ofLGBT aging advocates and service providers nationwide, and plans on hosting its fourth national conference on LGBT aging next fall. "We are grateful to the Arcus Foundation for funding this innovative partnership between the Task Force and SAGE," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "This project will combine the Task Force’s federal policy and research expertise, SAGE’s unparalleled understanding of the needs ofLGBT elders, and the energy of activists across the nation to shape a better future for all our seniors." The Task Force’s existing aging initiative, headed up by Amber Hollibaugh, a Task Force senior strategist and specialist on LGBT aging issues, convenes and coordinates the National LGBT Aging Roundtabte, worked successfully with SAGE to gain the first-ever specific inclusion ofLGBT elders in the Final Report of the 2005 VThite House Conference on Aging (which will guide federal aging work through 2015), and will be issuing a second edition of Outing Age, a seminal report on policy issues affecting LGBT elders, issued in 2000. The new SAGE-Task Force collaboration has four main goals: to build and provide leadership to an action-oriented national LGBT aging network; to win strategic policy victories for LGBT older people at the federal and state/local levels; to build the capacity for LGBT aging policy advocacy in communities across the country; and to ensure that LGBT aging issues are a focus in broader aging policy discussions. SAGE and the Task Force will carry out this work in dose collaboration with local LGBT aging organizations, as well as "mainstream" and "minority" senior organizations. Quotab ÷ Quotes Editor and comic writer ~dan Coren asked actor MichaeI Caine, who once was a neighbour of actor Richard Gere. Coren: "You must know the answer to the big question, Michad. Is Richard Gere gay?" Caine replied: "I don’t know if he is actually gay, but he would probably help out if they were short-handed." Ireland’s government announced late last week that it will introduce legislation legalizing civil unions for same-sex and heterosexual couples by March 2008. Known as the Civil Unions Bill 2006, the legislation will provide gay couples with unions legally equivalent to marriage, akin to the Civil Partnership _Act in the United Kingdom. Both openly-gay members of Congress have now endorsed Hi!lary Clinton for the Democratic presidential nomination. The New York senator secured the support ofTammy Baldwin, the "Wisconsin congresswoman who is the only out lesbian in the House, months ago. And this week Clinton gained the enthusiastic endorsement of House Financial Services Committee Chairman Barney Frank, the only out gay man currently serving in the chamber. the STAR 27 "Have a Plan B, PiscesV’ The Sun square Uranus inspires bold acts of daring and innovation, but most of those will lack proper planning and precaution. Keep everything in the mental realm; explore new ideas and philosophies. This is not the time to try out skydiving! ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Don’t let anyone trust you with a secret. Even your own aren’t safe now. Exploring new ideas or arguing over old ones can lead to deep new insights. Carefully choose the company, time, and place for opening up. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Sexual tensions with a friend come to the surface, offering the potential of "benefits." Acting on those impulses might bring trouble, but discuss it, clear the air, and see if it might be worth exploring. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your partner or a close work colleague may let a secret slip that could change your reputafion. How you handle it can prove more important than the "scandal" itself. Keep a sense of humor and perspective, and be flexible with everything except the truth. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Accidents, arguments, weird allergic reactions, and other rude surprises are just waiting in the wings. Be ready to adapt and improvise, as there’s no escape. Often the difference between an adventure and a disaster is in your attitude. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Novelties in erotic play will open up new doors for you that you’d never imagined. Just be very careful, as some kinks require special precautions, and everyone is a little more accident-prone these days. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Arguments at home are almost inevitable. Accept them as a chance to clear the air. You’ll be surprised at what comes up. Problems revealed now can be solved later. Explore new ideas, recognizing that they will need work. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Impatience can lead to outbursts that you’ll regret. You’re a bit too eager for adventure, which could lead you into accidents. Try to focus that energy into learning new skills, especially those that could be useful at work. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21 ): Most of your brilliant inspirations about money are ready to blow up in your face. A few of those ideas are actually good, but talk them over with someone whose advice you can trust, and take time to think them over. SAGITrARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You may find it liberating to divulge family secrets, but your family probably doesn’t share your opinion. The benefits of disclosure may be worth the trouble, but the trouble will be considerable. Think it through before saying anything! CAPRICORN (December 21 -January 19): Stay quietly in the background, and keep your ears open. What you hear will be astounding and potentially very helpful. A noisy brain may seem like an impediment to meditation, but letting it run is part of the process. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Arguments with friends over money will come too easily. Do your best to make sure debts are paid and everything’s even. You’re likely to create friction despite your best efforts, so be prepared to apologize and back off. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): The impulse to strut your stuff may have you showing off a lot more than you intended. Make sure presentations are thoroughly planned out, complete with a Plan B if things go completely awry. MCCo METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. 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Complete the form below and send with a check or moneyorder to: The STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 (Single Copies $3.00 per issue) NAME: Address: City: St: Zip:. Phone: Check enclosed Money Order Start Date: www.ozarksstar.com 29 Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 FINAI.J.Y! A~V HONF-.f,’~" I~EPUELIO~I! 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com w~vw.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, December 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 12 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource December 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Paul Wortman James Nimmo Joey D. Victor Gorin Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Chaz Ward Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, November 1. 2007; Colume 4, Issue 11 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/211 The Star Magazine, January 1, 2008; Volume 5, Issue 1 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/246 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/204 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/faa554bbcf4aa7f5e371496025b3c195.jpg d9394e2dd85b5fe9373b6b04d98aa24c https://history.okeq.org/files/original/04d73a333e5edc76fa4a972a23a19cc0.pdf f5b1712b16862fb209444c90d79904ea PDF Text Text �www.ozarksstar.com 2 the STAR �The of Sair t Valentine’s Day started in the time of the Roman Empire. In ancient Rome, February 14th was a holiday to honour Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. The following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia.The lives of young boys and girls were strictly separate. However, one of the customs of the young people was name drawing. On the eve of the festival of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl’s name from the jar and would then be partners for the duration of the festival with the girl whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing of the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would fall in love and would later marry. Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in many bloody and unpopular campaigns. Claudius the Cruel was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. He believed that the reason was that roman men did not want to leave their loves or families. As a result, Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome. The good Saint Valentine (photo above) was a priest at Rome in the days of Claudius II. He and Saint Marius aided the Christian martyrs and secretly married couples, and for this kind deed Saint Valentine was apprehended and dragged before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. He suffered martyrdom on the 14th day of February, about the year 270. At that time it was the custom in Rome, a very ancient custom, indeed, to celebrate in the month of February the Lupercalia, feasts in honour of a heathen god. On these occasions, amidst a variety of pagan ceremonies, the names of young women were placed in a box, from which they were drawn by the men as chance directed.The pastors of the early Christian Church in Rome endeavoured to do away with the pagan element in these feasts by substituting the names of saints for those of maidens. And as the Lupercalia began about the middle of February, the pastors appear to have chosen Saint Valentine’s Day for the celebration of this new feast. So it seems that the custom of young men choosing maidens for valentines, or saints as patrons for the coming year, arose in this way. www.ozarksstar.com 1 (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVtSTD Hotlir~e PROTECT CastI÷ "At Century 2I Gold Castle our the STAR 3 �Eight new laws advancing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality and protections go into effect in California 4@ TV here! Networks’ Original Horror Series ’q2ae Lair" Coming This Spring. Starring Peter Stickles and David Moretti "Cowboy Junction" DVD to be released Feb. 27th- page 11 Who was Oliver Sipple? The Gay man who saved Presidents Fords life. Gay Travelers "Fire Island, NY" Out of Town "Phoenix, Arizona" Valentines Day. While some believe in saying it ~vith roses, Uncle has always been fond of unconventional tokens of affection. A bouquet of flavored lubes and massage oils always brought a little warmth my way. "The Lair" StalTing Peter Stickles and David Moretti - page 10 5 10 12 13 14 15 16 17 22 24 26 27 28 29 30 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Equality Center Grand Opening -page 15 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Eight new laws adv dng lesbian, gay; bisexual and transgender equality and pro ec ions go into effect irt California %gqth eight pro-equality laws going into effect this month, California stands head and shoulders above any ol/Jer state in treating all its people equally under the law. "-- Matt Foreman, Evec~tive Director; National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, Jan. 16 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force applauds Equality California (EQCA) and legislative leaders for the record number of pro-equality laws taking effect this month in California. "With eight pro-equality laws going into effect this month, California stands head and shoulders above aW other state in treating all its people equally under the law," said Matt Foreman, executive ¯ director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Thanks to the extraordinary leadership of Geoff Kors and Equality California and lesbian and gay members of the Legislature -- Senators Sheila Kuehl, Christine Kehoe and Carole Migden and Assemblymember Mark Leno -- tens of thousands will now have greater access to health care, discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in housing and state services will be prohibited, and the use of the pernicious ’homosexual panic’ defense will be limited, among many other advances." One of the most sweeping rneasures is the Equal Benefits in State Contracting law, which prohibits the state from contracting with businesses that do not offer equal benefits to employees with domestic partners on the same terms that benefits are offered to employees with spouses. The measure, authored by former Assemblymember and current Sen. Christine Kehoe, D-San Diego, passed during the 2003-2004 legislative session and took effect on Jan. 1. It was modeled after a very successful 1996 equal benefits ordinance enacted in San Francisco. "\gre are excited to see this policy become state law," said EQCA Executive Director Geoff Kors, who initiated the idea of enacting an equal benefits policy in San Francisco in the 1990s. "The new law establishes the fair principle of equal pay for equal work, regardless of sexual orientation." In addition to the equal benefits law, domestic partners in 2007 have the right to prepare their California income tax returns together. Couples can file jointly in 2008, covering the 2007 tax year. Other new laws that went into effect on Jan. 1 reduce courtroom bias against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people, expand the state’s nondiscrimination protections, and ensure dignity and stability for LGBT seniors. "These new laws not only provide essential protections for the LGBT community, but they also reiterate California’s commitment to treat all people equally under the law," Kors said. Prohibits the state from contracting with businesses that do not offer equal benefits to employees with domestic partners on the same State Income Tax Equity Act SB 1827: Sen. Carole Migden~ D-San Francisco Enables registered domestic partners to file joint state income tax returns and have their earned income treated as community property. Civil Rights Housing Act of 2006 AB 2800: Assemblymember John Laird, D-Santa Cruz Prohibits discrimination in housing based on race, color, religion, national origin, ancestry, disability and sex (including gender identity), marital status, sexual orientation, familial status and source of income. Older Californians Equality and Protection Act AB 2920: Assemblymember Mark Leno, D-San Francisco Ensures that LGBT seniors are adequately served by government services available to older Californians. Nondiscrimination in State Programs and Activities Act SB 1441: Sen. Sheila Kuehl, D-Santa Monica Prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in state-operated programs. Equality in Prevention and Services for Domestic Abuse Act AB 2051: Assemblymember Rebecca Cohn, D-Saratoga Creates a fund to develop and support education and services for LGBT victims of domestic violence. Gwen Araujo Justice for Victims Act AB 1160: Assemblymember Sally Lieber, D-San Jose Creates jury instructions and prosecutor training to limit the use of so-called"panic strategies" to influence criminal trial proceedings. Code of Fair Campaign Practices AB 1207: Speaker pro Tem Leland Yee, D-San Francisco Prohibits the use of negative appeals based on prejudice against LGBT people by candidates who sign the voluntary pledge in the Code of Fair Campaign Practices. (Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger vetoed a similar bill in 2005.) MARDI GRAS FAT TUESDAY Official name Mardi Gras Also called Shrove Tuesday, Fat Tuesday Observed by Various locales, usually ones historically associated with Catholic populations Type Local, cultural, christian Significance Celebration prior to fasting season of Lent. Date Day before Ash Wednesday 2007 date February 20 Celebrations Parades, parties Related to Carnival The following pro-equality bills were enacted in California on Jan. 1: Equal Benefits in State Contracting (2003) AB 17: Assemblymember Christine Kehoe, D-San Diego terms that benefits are offered to employees with spouses. w~wv.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �Northern Mexican state of Coahuila approves law recognizing gay unions The Associated Press Published: January 12, 2007 PIEDRAS NEGRAS, Mexico__ The legislature for the northern Mexican state of Coahuila approved a law recognizing gay unions on Thursday, the second assembly to take such an action in the predominantly Roman Catholic nation. The measure, which will provide gay couples with numerous social benefits similar to those of married couples, was approved with 20 votes in favor and13 votes against, said Rep. Julieta Lopez, of the centrist Institutional Revolutionary Party, or PRI. Lopez helped the draft the bill. Coahuila Gov. Humberto Moreira, who is also in the PRI, is expected to sign the bill into law. In November, the Mexico City assembly passed a similar measure for the first time in the nation’s history. That law has been sharply criticized by the Roman Catholic Church and the conservative Nation.al Action Party of President Felipe Calderon. While homosexuality is still taboo in many rural parts of Latin America, the region’s urban areas are becoming more socially liberal. Mexico City and Coahuila join the Argentine capital of Buenos Aires and the southern Brazilian state of Rio Grande do Sul in legalizing same-sex civil unions. At the national level, lawmakers in Costa Rica and Colombia have debated, but not passed, similar measures. http://www.iht, corn/articles/ap/2007/01/12/america/LA-GENMexico-Gay-Unions.php Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center to host wine and beer reception. JOPLIN, MO__A "Freedom To Marry Week" event in support of Equal Civil Marriage For Gays and Lesbians will be held on Saturday night February 17th, 7pm to 1 lpm at the UCCFF Building, 204 North Jackson Ave. The event hosted by the Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center will include Dancing, Show, Music with DJ, Wedding Cake, Wine and Beer. The fundraiser is to raise money for Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center, to have fun, socialize, and to meet new people. Mardi Gras Parw at the Hollywood Hotel to benefit Her!and Sister Resources by Jeanne Flanigan OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Lose the winter blues at the First Annual Herland Mardi Gras Party, on Saturday, February 17, at the Hollywood Hotel and Suites, 3535 NW Expressway, OKC. Tickets are $7 per person, at the door, or from Herland Sister Resources (HSR) Board members. Sorry, no table reservations. ~lere will be a cash bar, and the event is smoke-free. There are several smoking areas within the hotel, and outside under the portico. All room rentals are $45 during the winter season. The fun will start at 7 pm with live music by Tara Henry, Alison Scott, DeShawna, Shannen Porter, and others TBA. In between entertainers Miss Ivanna DeVille will dazzle the crowd, and a DJ will play tunes to get dmvn by. A costume contest for the Best Solo, the Best Couple and the Best Group will be held at 9 pm. Between music sets, a couple of other contests will be held: the selection of a King and Queen (by who raises the most money), not to be confused with the Hog-Calling contest (xvhich will raise the most laughs). A silent auction will be conducted, with bidding closing at 10 pm. Several tables near the entrance will be reserved for information from CimarronArts Project, Okdahoma Visual Arts Coalition, AIDS Mastery Workshop, Herland, and OKC Pride. HSR is a woraen’s collective founded over 20 years ago. Their bookstore is located at 2312 NW 39th, in OKC, just west of the Strip. The bookstore hosts poetry readings, art shows, and is a lending library and reading room, open Saturdays flora 1-5. HSR also sponsors monthly events, such as the Supper Club, nature hikes, game and nights, and potluck dinners. Yearly events include the Pride Picnic, the Spring and Fall Retreats, and several holiday parties. HSR is highly valued for the publishing of the "Herland Voice" newsletter, with events, articles, and an annual Poetry issue. Nxe Mardi Gras Party will help to pay for the printing and postage of the newsletter for 2007. Donations of auction items are needed, small and large, due Saturday, February 10th, at the bookstore. For further information, contact Herland at herland@herlandsisters.org, or call (405) 521-9696 and leave a message. All donations are tax-deductible. Herland’s website is www.herlandsisters.org Come and part,/down with the sisters.., and brothers too! The Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center is a newly formed non-profit organization in Joplin, MO. For more information contact Lee McDaniel at 417/622-7821 or email: gaylesbiancenter@yahoo.com 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �DiversiW Weekend April 13-t5, 2007 437 E. 141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY Glenpool Cleaners {inside Glenpoo[ Flowers] 9z8-z91-3275 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ��works’ Or g na I orror Ser es LOS ANGELES, CA -January 16, 2007 - here!, America’s premium gay television network, is pleased to announce that it has wrapped production on the first season of the new provocative original, scripted series 7he Lair. The first of six half-hour episodes will premiere on the network in Spring 2007. "The Lair continues herd’s substantial rollout of provocative original programming in 2007 that can only, be seen on here!," said Paul Colichman, Founder and Chief Executive Officer of here! Networks. "This newest addition to our line up authentically and unapologetically reclaims the horror genre for a LGBT audience." Set in a small coastal town, ~l~ne Lair opens as the bodies of young nameless men are turning up dead with vicious wounds to their necks. A young journalist is investigating a series of mysterious John Doe murders. Clues to these crimes lead him directly to a private gentlemen’s club called "Ihe Lair, where the deepest, darkest desires are fulfilled. As he gets closer to solving the mystery, Thorn finds himself ensnared in a blood thirsty coven of vampires. The Lair stars Peter Stickles, who gathered a following this year ~’rom his work in the acclaimed indie Shortbus, as Damian, the leader of the coven of gay vampires, as well as newcomer David Moretti, who takes the lead as "iI~om. "With a strong, talented cast, we are pleased to add "I-he Lair as another original scripted series to our growing slate of projects," noted Meredith Kadtec, here!’s Vice President of Original Programming. "Our programming runs the gamut, from sexy soap operas to thought-provokdng documentaries, and The Lair is a welcome addition to that line up." The Lair is the latest project reflecting here!’s commitment to bring fresh original programming to the LGBT communib: For a sampiing of provocative and innovative here! content, visit the here! Video Player found at www.heret~acom/videoplayer. Read more about here! and out how to get the channel in your area at www. heretv.com. Photo fi’orn: here! Recent and upcoming here! original films, series and specials include: The DL Chronicles, an award-~vinning series focusing on the diverse stories of men of color who by consequence and by choice, live sexually duplicitous and secret lifestyles; The Lair, a provocative and sexy vampire horror series; Dante’s Cove, ranked "Best Soap of the Year" by The Advocate; the critically acclaimed Shock To The System: A Donald Strachey Mystery, the second installment in the series of original films starring Chad Mlen as a gay private investigator; the provocative six-part docu-series Lesbian Sex and Sexuality, an unblinking look inside the world of lesbian culture from award-winning producer Katherine Linton; and the original film Shelter, an indie romantic drama about love, family and trying to stay true to yourself. here!, America’s premium gay television network, was established in 2002 and is currently available nationwide on all major cable systems and Internet TV providers as either a 24/7 premium subscription channel, a video on demand (VOD) service, and/or a subscription video on demand (SVOD) service, here! offers a wide variety of ground breaking and acclaimed original movies and series plus the world’s largest collection of gay and lesbian films appealing to the broad-based, diverse LGBT audience. 10 the STAR w,~v.ozarksstar.com �COWBOY JUNCTION DVD TO BE RELEASED FEBRUARY 27TH. "Cowboy JunctioN’ was originally conceived as a short story entitled Me, Bobby McGee and the Gun. The simple yet sweet tale of two men who meet by chance and throw caution to the wind has always resonated for screenwriter Gregory Christian. "It is a fairy-tale of sorts," he has said. "Just think back to the last time you fell in love with a stranger." But this "boy meets boy" tale took on a completely different twist when he began adapting it as a short screenplay for entry into the film festival circuit. Suddenly, one of the boys was now a married man caught up in a world of homo-erotic fantasy and coveting his gardener (the Bobby McGee character now envisioned as a rugged cowboy). James Bobby - The Coxvboy When the script was ready, the problem of finding two suitable leads arose. \Vhile working at the Kingsmen Shakespeare Festival, Mr. Christian decided, after much debate, to cast himself as the MAN and fellow actor James Bobby as the COWBOY. Bobby was more than up for the task of tackling such challenging and tongue-in-cheek material. The wheels were in motion and a summer 2004 shoot was set. Gregory calls the short a "one-day ,vonder." The entire piece was shot on a Saturday in August in less than 14 hours. When the final cut was ready, he began submitting it to numerous film festivals. Gregory Christian - The Husband Executive Producer, Director Screemvriter In May 2005, the "Cowboy Junction" short premiered at the Miami Film Festival. It played on multiple screens at the Regal Theatre as part of their wildly popular "Boys’ Shorts" program. The piece was a definite crowd pleaser and also garnered a cover on local Floridian magazine "411" as part of an article about the festival. The short was so well-received, Mr. Christian announced at the showings that the short would be pulled off the circuit and a feature would be going into production. Matt Austin - Young Co~vboy The Hustler www.ozarksstar.com The script was ready, the cast and crew were in place and production was set for five days following the conclusion of the festival. The character of the wife was now a prominent part of the storlyine and would be played by veteran actress Elyse Mirto (another Kingsmen Shakespeare alumni). The tale was now a story of her husband’s sexual repression and gut-wrenching "coming out," amongst the most dire of circumstances. The entire movie was a wonder in it’s own right: completed in nine days of total production time. Elyse Mirto - The Wife the STAR 11 �Little Reck CapitN Pride Nects new President Arkansas Citizens First Congress is still seeking interns. Bill Kopsky LITTLE ROCK, AR Little Rock Capital Pride Board President, David \vvq. Quinn, has stepped down in order to pursue other personal and professional goals. David plans to remain active in the group and the board wishes him well in his future endeavors. Following David’s resignation, the board of Little Rock Capital Pride has voted to name Board Secretary, Joe LaFountaine, its new leader. Joe is a native Arkansan that returned home this May, most recently from Atlanta, Georgia where he was a volunteer with Atlanta Pride Committee, which produces the third largest Pride festival in the United States. In October, Joe received a scholarship to represent LRCP at the InterPride World Conference in Portland, Maine. The conference provided workshops on many facets of Pride planning, entertainment and networking with over 200 Pride organizers representing over 50 Pride groups from across the world. With less than six months remaining until the third annual Capital Pride celebration, Joe asks the community for its support and assistance to help achieve the lofty" goals the board has set. Capital Pride will be held June 3rd at the Little Rock River Market Amphitheatre and financial support and participation is very much needed for a successful event. To learn more about how Capital Pride, please visit http://www.littlerockcapitalpride.org. About Little Rock Capital Pride Little Rock Capital Pride (http://www. littlerockcapitalpride.org/) is a 501(c) 3 non-profit organization whose mission is to host events that honor the history and diversity of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) individuals in the State of Arkansas and surrounding areas and create unity within the GLBT community and its allies by providing social support and enhancing awareness of the past and present contributions of GLBT individuals through community activities and services, including an annual Pride event. LITTLE ROCK, AR The Arkansas Citizens First Congress is still seeking interns for this coming session of the Arkansas General Assembly. Interns are a key part of the Congress’ ability to monitor a legislative process that considers over 3000 pieces of legislation in a little over 3 months; while also moving key parts of a proactive agenda forward. The Congress is looking for one full-time intern who will receive $200 a week, and several part-time interns who will be volunteers. Academic credit is possible from many institutions. DIVERSITY WEEKEID DATES Eureka Springs, Arkansa VALENTINE’S DIVERSITYWEEKEND Frida> Feb 16, 2007- Sunda> Feb 18, 2007 SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com Interns will be joining an experienced staff led by lobbyist and Policy Director Alice Lightle who is a veteran of several legislative sessions as well as time in the Governor’s Office, the Attorney General’s Office and as a campaign manager for Federal and State Offices. We are recruiting mature candidates who want hands on experience in how state government works and how grass roots communities can affect it. Job description is pasted below as well as attached. Full-time position 45+ hours a week during the Arkansas legislative session January thru mid-April Part-time positions Minimum of 12 hours / week during the Arkansas legislative session January thru mid-April Send resumes and letter of inquiry to: The Arkansas Citizens First Congress 1308 West Second Little Rock, AR 72201 or email: Congress@CitizensFirst.org Web at www.CitizensFirst.org Creating Community for People iving DS 501 c (3) Non Profit Orga~aization The Arkansas Citizens First Congress is a coalition of community and labor organizations from across Arkansas that advocate a common agenda before the Arkansas legislature and some state agencies. We are a multi-issue coalition working on the environment, civil rights, agriculture, economic justice, government accountability, and consumer rights. Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.com. 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Photo: Ronald Blake ~11I Really Need To Know was a book written by Robert Ful: simplicity. Everyone wants to make the that is why it becomes so complicated. and healthy body, let’s adhere to some of presented in Mr. Fulgham’s opus. Goldfish and white mice and hamsters all a mother load to throw at dressed sometime. The sooner, the better. This the time to prepare for the inevitable passing ofI the pondering as to why some lucky squares live others. \X~ny mommy? Because some folks treat ~ dumpsters while others treat them go easy on the booze, exercise frequently, and eat Lohan but less than Bruce Vilanch. Warm cookies and cold milk are morsel of advice. However, let’s wave the wand those delicious cookies into Snack~vells or wheat troduce that dairy product as a skim milk variety. you sir, can I have another? ~l:ake a nap every afternoon. A smashing and dare I cept. Don’t you even think of working through or engaging in that nonsensical gossip with your quiet office space or your Nissan Maxima and fifteen to twenty minutes. It’s a devil of a lot better Pepsi, a cancer stick, or that proliferation of a vicious ugly Betty in the loss prevention department. Wash your hands before you eat. Germs are omnipresent ing their opportunity to invade and infect you. There are places you go and many things you touch that are laden guys. Don’t go Mommy Dearest on me and obsess about the i of it all. Just lather up the Lifebuoy or the Lever 2000 away those microbial monsters before your eating events. Put things back where you found them. If you have a membershi]3 then you know the importance of this lodestar. conspicuous signs adorning the fitness room walls should www.ozarksstar.com ¯ the STAR 3 �was Oliver Sipple? Oliver Sipple is credited with saving the life of President Gerald Ford in 1975, but the outing that followed his heroic act wreaked havoc on his personal life. Sipple, known by the nickname "Billy," was born in Detroit in November 1941. In high school, he was a star football player. During the mid-1960s, after moving to New York City, Sipple hung out with a circle of gay men who frequented Kelly’s, a hustler bar. He began a relationship with Joe Campbell (later immortalized as the "Sugar Plum Fairy" in Lou Reed’s song "Walk on the Wild Side"), who previously had been a lover of Harvey Milk. 7he couple moved to Fort Lauderdale, but S~pple soon left Campbell, prompting Campbel! to attempt suicide. During the Vietnam War, Sipple joined the Marine Corps as a private first-class. He was wounded twice, and completed his tour of duty in a Philadelphia veterans’ hospital. He received an honorable discharge in 1970 and moved to San Francisco, where he lived on a veteran’s pension due to physical and psychological disability. He had numerous friends among the city’s burgeoning gay community, and he worked on Milk’s campaign for a seat on the Board of Supervisors. On the afternoon of Sept. 22, 1975, Sipple was taking a walk when he joined a crowd gathered outside the St. Francis Hotel in Union Square to greet President Ford - who just weeks earlier had survived an assassination attempt by Charles Manson follower Lynette "Squeaky" Fromme. As Ford exited the hotel, Sipple noticed that the gray-haired woman standing beside him - later identified as Sara Jane Moore - had pulled a revolver out of her raincoat. Sipple grabbed Moore’s arm, causing her shot to miss the president by a few feet, then wrestled her to the ground to prevent her from firing again; Moore was captured, pleaded guilty, and is serving a life sentence in prison. (photo rig,bt) When questioned by police and Secret Service agents, Sipple asked them not to release his name. Nevertheless, reporters got wind 14 the STAR of him, and he was hailed as a hero. According to journalist Randy Shilts, Milk told San Francisco Chronicle_ gossip columnist Herb Caen that Sipple was gay. "That guy saved the president’s life," Milk reportedly said. "It shows that we do good things, not just all that ca-ca about molesting children and hanging out in bathrooms." Caen noted in a column that Sipple was gay, and the news was picked up by several other papers across the country - including the Chicago Sun-Times, which called Sipple a "Homosexual Hero." But Sipple was not interested in being a "gay hero." "My sexual orientation has nothing to do with saving the president’s life," he said, "just as the color of my eyes or my race has nothing to do with what happened in front of the St. Francis Hotel." The outing devastated Sipple, who had not revealed his sexuality to his conservative family back in Michigan. "My mother told me today she can’t walk out of her front door, or even go to church, because of the pressures she feels because of the press stories concerning my sexual orientation," Sipple lamented to reporters. His brother George later recalled that he, his father, and another brother, all of whom worked for General Motors, were taunted on the factory floor. Sipple’s parents cut off contact with him, although George said that they did not disown him and eventually reconciled. Sipple filed a $15 million lawsuit against the Chronicle, the Sun-Times, and five other newspapers for invasion of privacy. A San Francisco Superior Court judge dismissed the case on First Amendment grounds, and a state appeals court upheld the decision in May 1984. Although Sipple received a letter expressing Ford’s "heartfelt appreciation," he was never invited to the White House to accept more formal recognition. Milk and some other activists attributed this slight to Sipple’s sexuality, but Ford later told a reporter that he thought he had "done the right thing," and that he hadn’t learned until sometime later that Sipple was gay. increasingly bitter and descended into alcoholism. "There were a lot of times he wished he had never saved the president’s life, for all the anguish it caused him," his brother recalled. "He said life -would have been so m~ch simpler if he hadn’t have done it." Though in ill health, Sipple was a regular denizen at several gay watering holes on Polk Street. On Feb. 2, 1989, after Sipple had failed to appear for several days, a friend found him dead in his Tenderloin apartment, the walls plastered with press clippings from the 1975 incident. Ford sent a letter of condolence to the patrons of the New Bell Saloon - acknowledging them as Sipple’s chosen family - stating that he "strongly regretted the problems that developed" for Sipple after the assassination attempt. The tragic end to Sipple’s life contributed to a debate within the LGBT community over identity politics and outing that persists to this day. In addition, his story is widely used in law and journalism schools as a case study in the ethics of revealing a person’s sexual orientation against his or her will. Oliver Sip2ole thwarted an assassination atte,wt on President Ford in 1975 For further information: Duke, Lynne. 2006. "Caught in Fate’s Trajectory, Along With Gerald Ford." Washington Post (December 31). hilts, Randy. 1982. The Mayor of Castro Street(St. Martin’s Press). In the years that followed, Sipple grew www.ozarksstar.com �abandoned industrial building. Over the last year, more than 225 unique volunteers have worked over 6000 hours in refurbishing the facility. At the same time, an outstanding team of design professionals have volunteered their services in orchestrating exterior and interior design concepts and dra-wings. EQUALITY CENTER GRAND OPENING SCHEDULE OF EVENTS Love: The Higher Law ~tlursday, February 14th GRAND OPENING of EQUALITY CENTER Defying conventional expectations, Tulsa is now home to one of the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community centers in the United States. Beginning February 14th, a five-day Grand Opening celebration will be held at the Equality Center, an 18,000 square-foot facility in the gentrifying East End district of downtown Tulsa at 621 E. 4th Street. For a schedule of events, see below. Oklahomans for Equality/OkEq (formerly Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights/ TOHR) mvns and operates the Equality Center. In addition to serving as a base for statewide advocacy efforts, the Equality Center will house wellness programs, a David Bohnett Cyber Center, the Tulsa LGBT History Project, meeting rooms, health testing services, a pro-bono legal clinic, an art gallery, retail operations, the Nancy & Joe Rainbow Library, and rental space for events. An eviction for using gay in signage at the first Tulsa LGBT Community Center and landlordsfi TM repeated refusals to lease space to a gay organization inspired Oklahomans for Equality to purchase a home of its own. Established in 2000, the OkEq capital campaign has currently raised almost $900,000 in private and foundation gifts. Not a cent of public or corporate money has been contributed toward the costs of purchasing or renovating the formerly www.ozarksstar.com In support of the 10th anniversary of Freedom to Marry Week, Oklahomans for Equality (O "~q) is sponsoring Love: The Higher Law, a Valentine’s Day demonstration calling for marriage equality for same-gender Oklahomans. A coalition of same-gender couples, pro-LGBT ministers, and activists will go to the Tulsa County Courthouse and attempt to register for marriage licenses. If you are interested in participating in this historic event, please contact OkEq President Laura Behnonte at labelmonte@hotmail.com or 918.906.2134. Xhere will be a mandatory training session for all participants prior to the demonstration. Following the Valentines Day action, a wedding reception will be held in the Great Hall of the Equality Center from 5:00 to 7:00 PM. Free and open to the public, the wedding reception honors those ~vho attempted to register for marriage licenses earlier in the day and all same-sex couples denied the 1,049 federal benefits of marriage equality. Opening Doors Art Exhibit & Competition ~Pnursday, Februa~7 15tih Unique art that speaks to all and opens doors to the heart, soul and mind ~vill be featured during the Opening Doors Exhibit & Competition. The exhibit/competition debuts on Thursday, February 15, 2007 with a flee Champagne & Chocolate reception from 5:00-9:00 PM and runs through March 15, 2007. Each entry of the exhibit and competition will be on, or a part of, a door - car, cabinet, house or any other type of door. Individuals, groups and organizations are ~velcome to submit an entry free of charge. Awards, determined by a vote of the public, will recognize an outstanding piece by a young adult (under 21), as well as an adult entry. GayBingO Friday, February 16th No straight lines - just nice shapes. No toy prizes just cash. This isdt the bingo your grandmother played! GayBingO makes its debut on Friday, February 16, 7:00-10:00 PM, in the Event Center. Outrageous entertainment, 6 of the gayest bingo games you’ve seen, drink specials like the BingoBlast, and a couple of special surprises make GayBingO the night you won’t want to miss. Tickets, $15 in advance, include a fi’ee drink and are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. XWelcome Home Open House - LGBT Community Expo & TestFest 2007 Saturda> February 17th A full, free afternoon dedicated to the LGBT & allied community is featured on Saturday, February 17, 2007, 2:00-6:00 PM. The Welcome Home Open House features tours of the new facility and refreshments in the Great Hall. You’ll be able to learn more of the numerous community groups, social organizations, houses of worship and agencies during the LGBT Community, Expo in the Wellness Center. While you’re enjoying the afternoon, free HIV and syphilis tests will be available during TestFest 2007 in the Health Testing Ofiqce and additional locations in the Center. \Vild Hearts Ball VII - Mardi Gras Madness Saturday, February 17th The signature event of the Ok~q Capital Campaign, the Wild Hearts Ball, celebrates its 7th year with Mardi Gras Madness, 8:00-11:00 PM, in the Event Center of the Equality Center. Free food, delicious dancers, cash bar and a live DJ will make you want to dance the night away. The drawing for the Great Divide, your chance to win thousands of dollars ($20/ticket) in the 50/50 cash split, will also be held during the Wild Hearts Ball. Of course, it wouldn’t be Mardi Gras without a little madness. If you come in full Mardi Gras regalia, as long as itfi % legal, you can compete for prizes during the costume contest at 10:00 PM. Tickets, $15 in advance or $20 at the door, are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downto~vn Tulsa ............ Continued 2age-23 the STAR 15 �This IS the season to enjoy red wines. While visiting wine country in California this holiday season, I was most impressed with the Zins. From Paso Robles to Sonoma, Zins are truly worth exploring. Briefhistory of the grape: [ZIHN-fuhn-dehl] This is considered California’s red-wine grape because it’s not widely gro~vn in other parts of the world. Zinfandel vines were brought to California in the 1850’s. By the 1880’s, this variety was rapidly gaining acceptance by California growers, and it is now that state’s second most extensively planted red grape behind cabernet sauvignon. For years Zinfandel’s origins were ~" mysterious. Initially, research confirmed a relationship between Zinfandel Primitivo (a variety grown in Italy’s Puglia region), causing speculation that might have originated in Italy¯ ~However, in late 2001, DNA findetermined that Crljenak KaAitelanski (a little-known grape from and Zinfandel have identical DNA profiles. existence of Crljenak Ka~_itelanski could be found in only one vineyard " thousands of vines and dozens of varieties, of which only nine vines Zinfandel. Vineyards get replanted periodically, and nobody recognized special about this particular vineyard, so it is likely that in a few years grape might have ceased to exist. Beside the Zinfandel grown in California (and Italy’s Primitivo), there are only isolated planting of this grape, mainly in South Africa and Australia. Zinfandel is vinified in many styles, which vary greatly in quality. One popular style is white zinfandel, a fruity-flavored blush wine that’s usually slightly sweet and ranges in color from light to dark pink. When made into red wine, Zinfandel can produce wines ranging from light, nouveau styles to hearty, robust reds with berrylike, spicy (sometimes peppery) flavors, plenty of tannins, enough complexity and longevity to be compared to cabernet sauvignons. Another style is late-harvest Zinfandel, which exhibits higher alcohol levels and some residual sugar. The Italians produce dry red Primitivo grape-based wines that are similar to some California Zins. As Zinfandel’s popularity increases, more and more enterprising Italian Primitivo growers are labeling their wines "Zinfandel" and exporting them to the United States. Foods that pair well: Vegetable pasta dishes, beef sirloin tips, BBQ ribs, sausages, brisket and some sharp cheeses¯ Some cool vineyards to look out for Rodney Strong Sonoma County Reserve 2004, Gnarly Red 2005, J. Lohr Old Vines 2004, Dancing Bull 2004, Norman Vineyards, the Monster, Fire Station Red/Old Vines 2003, Calistoga Cellars 2003 Thanks for reading, now go into your favorite wine shop and ask questions. Bring some bottles home and share some food & wine with friends. 1 6 the 8TAF~ www.ozarksstar.com �-Spaghetti Josephine(Serves: 4) Ingredients: 1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil 1/4 cup onion, minced 1/4 cup celery, minced 1/4 cup shallots, minced 1/4 cup carrots, minced 1 teaspoon minced garlic 1-1/4 cups (8 oz.) ground beef 1-1/4 cups (8 oz.) ground pork 1 tablespoon tomato paste 1 cup dry red wine 2 cups brown veal stock Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste 1/8 teaspoon nutmeg 1/’8 teaspoon red chili flakes 1 lb. fedelini pasta #2 Parmesan cheese to taste 1 ounce chopped parsley 1. Pour the olive oi! into a large saute pan over medium heat. Cook the onions, celery, shallots and carrots, stirring frequently, until soft. 2. Add the garlic, ground beef and ground pork. Cook for 2 minutes, stirring. Add the tomato paste and stir for I minute. Add the red wine and veal stock. Reduce heat to low and simmer for 15 minutes. 3. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Add red pepper flakes and nutmeg. Taste for seasonings. Cook the pasta in salted water until al dente. In a large serving bowl, toss the pasta with the sauce. Add Parmesan cheese to taste and garnish with parsley. Serve. More on Chez Josephine owner Jean-Claude Bake~" andJosephine Baker, page 19. �by Donald Pile and Ray Williams Located abou~ 50 miles East of New York Cib~ on the South side of Long Island. Fire Island is the gay" Fantasy Island in the United States. It is a "barrier island approximately 30 miles long az~d a half mile wide. Once you get offthe ferry that takes you from Sa;~wille, New ~%rk to this ,£onderful enchanted Island, you KNOW }o~ are in gay heaven. It is a world unto itsel£ Except for the very :xpensive plane hop, the only way to the Island is by the ferry, " which takes about 20 minutes. It leaves every hour ~n the weekends a~3d ever5" two hours weekdays. From NYC you can take the bus m Sayville or, if you have a car, a just park it in the ferry parking lot. Fire Island is quite small and there are no autos, no bicycles or any other means of transportation other than walking, which is done either on the beach or on the boardwalks. Literally, board " plank:; are raised above the sand and measure from ~hree to six feet wide. The ~wo communities on Fire Island are "l~ne Pines and Cherry" Grove which are located about a 25 minute walk apart, ~he Pines is more upscale and costly: Cherry- Grove is a bit more taSd back. Prices for accommodations, food mid drink are very expensive at either place. All fbod. liquor, hotd supplies, etc. have to be brought over by the ferry each day, so don’t expect any bargains here. But it is 99% ~y! You pay ~br what you get. Fire Island is a must when travding ro the East coast for a few days. New York gays have been coming here for years, mostly on weekends as a great ge>a-way fi:omthe cib: A lot of New 21~rkers have built weekend homes here and the parties run 24 hours a day" on weekends.. Don’t expect any great accommodations on Fire Island. there iust aren’t any. [~e Botet Pines and Dunes Yacht Club are the only public hotel in the Pines and it is really in need of updating. ~the Fire Island Pines is relatively new. On the CherU Grove side, there are severa! options including the Dune Poim, a small sb: unit lodging: the Carousel Guest House, Holly House and the Cherry Grove Hotel. Then there is the Belevedere Guesthouse which wa~ built in 1957 and has almost 40 rooms. It is qui~e nice and has wonderful views. Most of the restaurants on the, Island are in Cherry Grove. For night life you might enjoy Cherry} which has a piano bar, video bar and poll table or the Gro;,oe Hotel whi& has a grea~ disco bar. On the Pines side, be sure and check out Island Club with it~ piano bar and dance floor and the Pavilion which is the largest disco on the entire Island. evening. ’~’~ also recon~at~e~d that you purchase your bee~ liquor and groceries in Sayvitle b4{bre tal~ng the f~rry to Fire Island and save yourself a LOT of money~ YOU can take ~;NYFHING on the ferry with you! \x;’%en you debark from the ferry they has, e F~E little red wagons for tourists tO Use to cart your groceries and luggage to your accommodations. At the Fire Island Pines, Low [lSa {aka "Ihe %a Dan~") is a tradition going back many mOonS that continues today on it’s original turf- ~ne Blue W~ale LoW %a takes place eac!~ day at the Blue Whale. From 5 PM to 8PM. Bartenders serve up concocuons to get your hydrated before you sweat it all out dancing to the tunes of one of their DJ~. High Tea is your chance to coot down after burning it up ateach Lowday %aat . Held the balcoW above Pavilion, High .Tea kicks off at 8 PM aid runs till 10 PM. It~ w)ur chance m lounge and watch all the the ashore with literally a boa>load of guys for you to meet. ~e sure and take your camera as there are real deer all over the Island and they wil! come right uP to you for fi~od, Nature hiking is a great exP efience here as the trees, bushes and flowers are very" plentiful. We promise you witi love it ~n Fire Island as it is an experience of a lifetime, it is simply, the gavest place in Am4rica, even ~ore so than San FranciscO! "l:~t~e gr~at" webSites are:ww~a:fireisland,com/, htrp:/Ix~vw.cherrygrovd.com/and hrtp://www.fireistandmen.com/ Path:. sun and sex are the only reasons to go to Fire Island and you certainly won’, get much res,:. ~Ihey par~" begins the moment you step off" the ferry and doesn’t stop until you get back on it fi)r your return to the mainland. Needless to say~ dress is veiT informal and dnring the days, most just wear their swimming shorts or bikinis. ~lhe "IN" season begins on Memorial Day and runs through I.abor DaB however it is open all )’ear long. If you are not looking to be with throngs of people the go during the offseason when the prices are much lower. Prices almost double on weekends so if you can, stay during the week. Another alternative would be to stay in 5a)’vil~e and take the ferry- over in the morning and return in the 18 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �"TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald iPile & Ray \Villiams CHEZ JOSEPHINE in New York City- who have dined at Chez Josephine~ and they relate ~he same sroLv that we had. "Ihey catfr wai~ ro return ro enjoy themselves. A grea restaurant stays basically the same year after year after year. It was perfect when they opened and it is soil perfect today. Why change a perfiect thing? But it is the "People" who make a restaurant. ~e owner/host, entire restaurant staff’as we!l as the customers who inrermi ngle with each other while enjoying their own fine dining experience. On our first dining experience at Chez Josephin& we nler a tfyou have never dined at Chez Josephine Restaurant in New ~i)rk City you sim ly have not lived mu Located at 4 !4 \g~est 42nd Street it is right in the heart of the Theatre District. For over 20 years, the "beyond Fabulous" owner, Jean-Claude Baker h£s been the finest host of any restaurant in the city. A tribute to the late Josephine Baker, the restaurant and it’s live music exude theatrical panache. Recently remodeled, now with a private dining room, this landmark jewel is even more inviting and romantic with its blue-On ceiling, red velvet walls and cavalcade of chandeliers which light up the vintage portraits of "La Baker": 7he eclectic menu reinvents the traditional Cuisine of the French bistro in an explosion of tantalizing flavors. They have won numerous awards over the years including the AAA Four Diamond Award and Zagats. When we dine out. whether it be in New York Cit% Chicago, Palm Beach, Palm Springs or wh~tever, selecting the right restaurant is so important. Any "cook" can prepare a ,ned that is edible! So we have ~ to search for something far beyond that. We always tell Our readers that when they travel, that "people" are the most important thing. So it is when dining at a restaurant .... People! From the moment you walk into the door at a restaurant until the time you leave, "People" is what it is all about. Sure, a restaurant HAS to have properly prepared food and presented in a wonderful manner. Tile restaurant itself~S to have a certain ambiance. But it is the "People" who make a dining experience ~br us. From the moment we walked into Chez Josephine’s the first rime, the absolutely fabtflous host, Jean-Claude was standing there waiting, for us His Charm emnowered the entire restaurant The waiters and entire staff made certain that we were the most ma " p or rant people in the restaurant, as they do with every- customer. Even thou we new none of the other customers we all had a common camaraderie amongst ourselves. We were all taking part in a delightful and unfbrgettable dining experience and we all tmew it. You were in a very special place ar a very special time and everything was perfect! ~md we know }br certain that this takes place every day with every customer at Chez Josephine’s. Now that they have reached a memorable milestone of being i~ business for 20 years, ttxere legacy just continues and gets better and better each year. As we travel to both coasts we talk with others ~.ozarksstar.com had never had anyone send them a gift just for sitting next to them ar a restaurant but that is how it is when dining at Chez Josephine. It is £~ experience. \g’~e have been in fine restaurants country from Coast to CoaSt but in the the cake so to speak for the finest dais is one takes ~e in everything! ambiance, the service, the ~bod ..... everything is just PERFECY ! ! ! ! ! Jean-Claude lmows how to treat his guests and they return over the years in droves. It m~es for a marvelous din!,ng experience. Fron.i the moment yo,u. step in th~ restaurant until you leave, you are m a completely different world, leaving behind your troubles and that of dae world. You really never ~ant to lea~e ~ ¯ "lhey serve dinner from 5 PM to 1 AM Tuesday thru Saturday and Sunday Brunch and Dinner from Noon to 10 PM. Their menu offers Spaghetti Josephine, Grilled Atlantic Salmon, Maryland Crab Cakes. Lobster Cassoutet with Shrimp, Lemon Shrimp ~sotto, Boudin Noir, Elvira’s Down Home Fried chicken, French Cut .~aixish Chicken Breast, Roasted Duck a t’Orange, Pan Seared Calf’s Live. Grilled Skirt Steak, Black _&ngus Filet Mignon arid Double Cut Lamb Chops. Their website is: ww~v.chezjosephine.com and their phone number is: 212.594.1925. the STAR 19 �7/se S/semton Wild Horse Pass, just a 20-minute driveJ~om the gay nightlife and shopping of downtown Phoenix, is acclaimedfor its superb Kai restaurant and elegant Aji Spa. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Februa ’ 2007 ew cities have grown faster and more dramatically in the past half-century than Phoenix, which in 2,005 overtook Philadelphia to become the fifth most populous city in the nation. It s also larger in area than Los Angeles and the hub of a metro region that includes several other fast-growing metropolises, including Scottsdale, Mesa, Tempe, and Glendale. But the "Valley of the Sun" is much more than a popular place to live - tourism here has taken off thanks to the bounty of lavish resorts, a cultural renaissance in downtown Phoenix, and some of the best shopping, dining, and recreational opportunities in the West. More recently, the region’s oI~ce of tourism has begun enthusiastically wooing GLBT travelers. A highly contemporary metropolis surrounded by mountains and high desert, Phoenix is in many ways the last stronghold of the western frontier. The region is dogged by certain challenges prevalent in the West, such as rampant sprawl and sometimes oppressive smog. It’s also bone-dry here - only the Sahara is less humid than Phoenix’s Sonoran Desert. Most of the year, the weather is ideal for outdoor recreation, with winter highs in the mid-60s and spring and fall highs in the mid-80s. About the only period with blistering heat is summer, when daytime temperatures routinely climb into the low 100s (and many accommodations drop their rates precipitously). In terms of gay-friendliness, Phoenix defies labels. This somewhat conservative capital city has long maintained strong Republican leanings, but some of the region’s most famous right-of-center politicians - including Sen. John McCain and the late Sen. Barry Goldwater - have expressed relatively accepting attitudes toward gays and lesbians. And somewhat surprisingly in 2006, this traditionally "red" state became the first in the nation to vote down a proposed ban on same-sex marriage. Phoenix has a highly visible GLBT community, and a huge number of queer bars, social organizations, and "family"-fi’iendly eateries. Visitors to this area have traditionally madea beeline for swanky Scottsdale, with its chichi hotels, lush golf courses, haute galleries, and sumptuous spas. However, Phoenix proper - which is home to most of the region’s GLBT bars and other businesses - has enjoyed a notable comeback of late, especially the once soulless downtown commercial center. 20 the STAR The action centers on Copper Square and its massively expanded convention center, plus dozens of trendy restaurants, high-end hotels, and fine performance venues. There are also a 24-screen cinema, several museurns, and sports stadiums that host baseball’s Arizona Diamondbacks and basketball’s Phoenix Suns. A cultural must is the outstanding Phoenix ~t Museum, a dramatic green-quartz structure containing 19th-century European paintings, delightful artworks of the American West, and Abstract Expressionist masterworks. Two blocks north is the Heard Museum, a 1928 Spanish Colonial Revival hacienda containing the nation’s top collection of Native American art and artifacts. Several peripheral residential neighborhoods have become gentrified of late, such as the Willo and Garfield Place historic districts. Of particular note is Roosevelt Row, a burgeoning mixed-use residential district that supports several excellent galleries as well as a wonderful bakery, Tammie Coe Cakes (stop in for a latte and a sweet treat or two). Speaking of baked goods, ardent pizza connoisseurs have been k~own to travel thousands of miles for a meal at Pizzeria Bianco, inside a historic building in the heart of the bustling Heritage Square section of downtown. Chef-owner Chris Bianco has been dubbed a pizza-making genius for his simply sensational wood-fired pies, including the Wiseguy (topped ~vith roasted onion, housesmoked mozzarella, and fennel sausage). Just beware the long lines. Vinophiles have taken a shine to Cheuvront Wine & Cheese Cafe, the brainchild of the city’s openly gay state senator, Ken Cheuvront. This happening place near the Phoenix Art Museum serves countless vintages by the glass and bottle as well as a long menu of stellar cheeses, salads, pizzas, and snacks. It’s a short walk down Central Avenue from here to reach the city’s premier gay bar, Amsterdam, an elegant lounge that’s part of a larger complex that includes Club Miami and Malibu Beach Bar. Other gay night spots within a short drive include the lesbian-favored Club Vibe, which replaced long-running Ain’t Nobody’s Biz and offers dancing, darts, and pool; the leather-andLevi’s-oriented Phoenix Eagle; and the highenergy Karamba Nightclub. Gay two-steppers and country-western fans gather at Chartie’s, while fans of drag and karaoke get their fix at Burger Betty’s, an Aussie-themed gay restaurant and bar. www.ozarksstar.com �With all the snazzy new resorts that have opened in Scottsdale and other outlying cities, it’s easy to forget that Phoenix itself is home to a pair of aces: the Frank Lloyd Wright-inspired Arizona Biltmore, and the intimate, old-world Royal Palms, both of which opened in the late ’20s. ~ne 40-acre Biltmore, with its gray, low-slung, angular buildings containing 738 guest rooms, lies in the shadows of Phoenix Mountain Reserve. There’s also fine golfing and an acclaimed spa. Set aside an evening to dine at Wright’s at the Biltmore, where such inventive regional American fare as milk-poached pork tenderloin with foie gras sauce draws fawning accolades. Many a diva whiles away a Saturday afternoon at the nearby Biltmore Fashion Park, strolling through high-end boutiques and snacking at trendy restaurants. area and rooms and suites in a variety of configurations. For $10, non-overnight guests can spend the day here swimming, tanning, and mingling with fellow sun-bunnies. It may lack the pizzazz of the Biltmore, but this frisky compound is the closest you’ll find in these parts to a Palm Springs-style gay resort. ~lhe genteel and cozier Royal Palms Resort and Spa could pass for a splendid private villa in Spain, with its fanciful stone paths meandering past flagrant gardens and citrus-tree-shrouded casitas decked in old-world antiques and tiles. The weekend brunch at T. Cook’s - best enjoyed on the sunny patio - is a Phoenix tradition, and the resort’s tranquil Alvadora Spa provides some of the most supremely relaxing treatments you can imagine, from Watsu water therapy to crystal-stone facials. Die-hard massage junkies should book one of the seven state-of-the-art spa suites. In downtown Phoenix, the upscale Hyatt Regency Phoenix and the eight-story, moderately priced Best Western Central Phoenix Inn are solid options, all within a short drive or walk of area bars, restaurants, shops, and museums. A less obvious pick is the funky, gay-friendly Hotel San Carlos, a grand if faded 121-room Italian Renaissance-style lodging that’s allegedly haunted (by friendly ghosts). It’s definitely seen better days, but for the price, it’s a good bet with a convenient, central location - especially if you prefer quirky over glamorous. Nearby Scottsdale abounds with more recently built resorts, from the supremely cushy Sanctuary Camelback Mountain resort and swish Four Seasons Scottsdale, to the sexy and hip Scottsdale Mondrian and retro-chic Hotel Valley Ho. In Chandler, consider the Sheraton Wild Horse Pass (which is expected to become a Starwood Luxury Collection property later in 2007), an attractive spread on the Gila River Indian Reservation, 20 miles southeast of downtown. The vibe here is low-keyed and unpretentious, thanks in part to the consistently genial employees. The much-lauded Kai restaurant and the transcendent Aii Spa remind you,however, that you’re staying at a truly splendid desert hideaway. An equestrian center offering trail rides and a campy ersatz frontier town called Rawhide (think stagecoach rides, goofy gift shops, and gunfightin’ reenactments) may help you to channel your inner cowgirl or -boy. Greater Phoenix also has a handful of gay-oriented accommodations, which range flom homey B&Bs to saucy clothing-optional retreats. Downtown’s gay-owned but mainstream Yum Yum Tree Guest House, in the hip and historic Willo neighborhood, occupies a 1920s school building with soaring ceilings and Mexican-tile floors. Shaded patios and gurgling fountains surround the Spanish Mission-style building, which also adjoins a relaxing pool area. A racier option is the Arizona Royal Villa, a nudity-permitted men’s compound with an impressively enticing pool, hot tub, and sunning www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �FEBRUARY 2007 "The Facts Will Set Us Free" ~he Republican Party may be do,vn, but make no mistake, it is far from out. Ttxe foundation of its revolution is still solid, and perhaps more energized than ever. I’m not talking about the "Get Out the Vote" folks or candidates wing for office. I’m talking about the base from which most Republican activity evolves. Former New Jersey U.S. Senator and 2000 Democratic presidential candidate Bill Bradley ~vrote a piece in the March 30, 2005, New York Times entitled ’[A Party Inverted," which explained that the GOP is structured like a pyramid - with the top being the president, who can be changed every four years, and the base being the rich conservative financiers and the Republican think tanks they finance. It’s those think tanks - like the Family Research Institute or the Heritage Foundation - that have armed the Republicans with the "facts and figures" they use.to advance their conservative agenda. These think tanks have been instrumental in casting us as demons and sinners in any of the myriad issues we fight for, from nondiscrimination laws to marriage equality. Just because the Republicans have policy institutes doesn’t mean that tactically it’s the wrong way to do things. Developing think tanks on LGBT issues - and, hopefully, the well-to-do donor base one needs to fund them - is crucial if we are to succeed in being recognized as first-class citizens. Lee Badgett, an out lesbian, who also happens to have a Ph.D. in economics from the University of California at Berkeley, understands how important academia can be in shaping public policy - especially the public policy that affects our everyday lives. Currently the research director of the Williams Institute at UCLA, Badgett founded what is considered the first LGBT academic think tank in the nation, the Institute for Gay and Lesbian Strategic Studies (IGLSS), in the mid-’90s when she was living in Washington, D.C. "\Ve’ve done a lot of family-related research on domestic-partner benefits and the economics of marriage. We looked at the fiscal impact same-sex marriage would have on states," she said. "\Vvre’ve studied the psychological impact of antigay policies and the strategies to overcome them. We’ve also received funding from the Ford Foundation to do methodological research on how to ask questions about sexual orientation - it’s not as easy as you’d think." Badgett has successfully brought the Williams Institute and IGLSS together. "We’re talking about it as more of joining of forces," she told me, but the reality is that IGLSS has merged with Williams, creating an even stronger, more academically rigorous think tank for our issues. Whether Badgett will remain on the West Coast is a bit up in the air. She and her partner, Elizabeth Silver, a legal services attorney, are wife and wife in Massachusetts, so California, while warmer, may not ultimately be the best place for them. Badgett still has a position waiting for her in the UMass-Amherst economics department. What will be in her future is more research on LGBT issues. "I’m sure that marriage will continue to be one of our biggest areas of research," she said. "Policy makers want to know what the impact on their own particular states will be. These issues are pertinent everywhere because we are everywhere. We’ll be asking whether marriage really makes a difference for gay people, and what does it mean for those who dofft get married." She said that employment discrimination is also on the research agenda, since only 17 states have nondiscrimination laws. "A lot of people think this is good time to focus on this issue again," she said. "\Ve’re still lacking data - for some reason, people don’t want to believe that antigay discrimination really exists." As LGBT people, we live that reality every day. We know discrimination exists; we know that civil unions give us second-class status. With researchers like Badgett and think tanks like Williams, the truth (facts) will inevitably set us free. "Living in D.C., I saw how important those big think tanks were. They were the heart of the Republican resurgence, well-funded, strategically creative - they pulled the various conservative movements together," Badgett told me in a recent telephone interview. "Together with activists and academics, we formed IGLSS because we all saw we needed to have some kind of institution to bridge the big gap of what was happening in the academic world and the real world. We needed the facts and figures to fight back against the stereotypes and distortions from the right." When Badgett got a teaching job at the University of Massachusetts at Amherst, she brought IGLSS with her. As a separate not-forprofit, IGLSS was never formally associated with the school, but her colleagues were quite supportive. More of a virtual think tank than a bricks-and-mortar institution, IGLSS published a number of groundbreaking studies that have helped the community move forward. 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Equality Center: Brunch & Blessings Sunday, February 18th A buffet brunch & live gospel entertainment will close out the Equality, Center Grand Opening weekend on Sunday, February 18, 2007. You’ll have not one, but two opportunities to enjoy this unique event for the LGBT & allied community: An 11:00 AM seating, as well as a 1:00 PM seating, will fill your stomach with a delicious brunch and bring you to your feet ,vith hand-clapping, foot-stomping inspiration. Tickets, $10 in advance, are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. Please visit www.okeq.org or call 918.743.4297 for more information on the events of the Grand Opening celebration Equality Center serving the LGBT & allied community since 1980. Oklahomans for Equalio, (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Lesbian, Gg)’, Bis~’ual dr 7?ansgender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocao; educatian, lord,’ares, alliances, and the operation of the Equali{y Center: Hdp Feed Your CommunisT! Become A Distributor. The program is open to all people without restriction. It doesn’t matter what the need or socio-economic group; there is simply no qualifying. The program is set up to assist people to learn accountability by planning their food dollars, being responsible to pay for their food and to bring a box to take their food home in. A box of food (restaurant quality) will feed a family of four for about a week, two people for about two weeks and a single person for a month. host site is different but we continue to take checks, cash and are approved for Food Stamp EBT payments. Over half of our clients do not belong to our GLBT community and many of them have at times joined us for our Wednesday evening meal or Sunday service. Nothing but positive come from this good works being servants to our community. At Spirit of Christ MCC our volunteers will pack your food and carry it out to the car for you. We take orders on Wednesdays from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM and Saturdays from 8:00 AM to 11:30 AM. Questions concerning sites in Tulsa, OK; the greater Joplin, MO area or Eureka Springs, AR may be directed to spiritofchrist@cableone.net or you can go to www.angelfoodministries. com/and look under host sites. Donations for food orders may be sent to Spirit of Christ MCC, PO Box 4711, Joplin, MO 64803. By Steve T. Urie What a difference volunteerism can make in a community. In 2005 Spirit of Christ MCC, a member church of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches founded by Rev. Troy D. Perry, started serving the greater Joplin, MO community with a food program. One of the smallest MCC churches in the country and in the middle of the Bible Belt we found ourselves answering a call to provide lowcost, high value foods stuffs to people in our area. A large Christian church had previously worked with this program but gave up after being unsuccessful in maintaining a volunteer program large enough to serve the area. Spirit of Christ MCC with a membership of only 18 members took on the task and was the original site in Joplin. Angel Food Ministries is a non-profit, nondenominational organization dedicated to providing grocery relief to communities throughout the United States. Now serving 32 states it continues to grow as more people in different communities answer the need. www, ozarksstar.com Angel Food’s groceries are sold in a quantity that can fit into a medium-sized box at $25 per unit. Each month’s menu is different than the previous month and consists of both fresh and frozen items with an average retail value of approximately $50. Comparison shopping has been done across the country in various communities using a wide range of retail grocery stores and has resulted in the same food items costing from between $42 and $78. Organizations wanting to become a host of the program go to www.angelfoodministries for an application. Or call 770-267-7015 or 888-819-3745. ENADINE MES, ORANGES CHERRIES 1. Add all ingr with ice. ..... . ~ 2. Shake well. 3. Chil martini glasses with ice and water. 4. Pour into martini glasses and garnish with fruit. ENJOY The STAR 23 ��OKLAHOMA COUNTY By James Nimrao Photo by ½"ctor Gorin: Jim Roth taking oath Former Oklahoma State Attorney General Robert Hemy administers oath, partner Worth in background. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Since the January 2nd swearing-in ceremony, two-thirds of Oklahoma County has been in the safe hands of the returning veteran Jim Roth, district 1; and the rookie Ray Vaughn, district 3. Later in the day, Mr.. Roth was re-elected for the third year in a row as chair of the County Commission. In his remarks from the stage Mr. Roth thanked the voters for re-hiring him and his team. He continued by renewing his commitment to doing good by the strangers ,ve will never meet the physically ~nd mentally ill, the downtrodden, the homeless those who rarely have an advocate in elected office. In his turn Mr. Vaughn pledged to run an office in a professional manner without personal disputes. Commissioners Roth and Vaughn, along with most of the County officers, are keen to restore the county budget board which will bring back greater scrutiny of tax dollar expenditures; this oversight board was abolished two years ago by Commissioners Brent Rinehart and Stan Inman. This action played a major role in removing Stan Inman from office. The remaining Commissioner, Brent Rinehart, district 2, was in attendance at the ceremony and seemed to be listening intently to the comments being made. Mr. Rinehart has proven to be divisive and contrary during the first two years of his term. He now has two good examples to work with. Should he wish to run for a second term, he’ll have to be a quick study and clean up his act in the less than two years remaining to him on the County Commission. Time will tell. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 25 �friends shares my lust for the pastime and they give me a hard time for it. I do not care for club hoping or the typical gay lifestyle. How can I show them the pride and adventure of this lifestyle? Rodeo boy Dear Rodeo Boy, Kitten, the rodeo is an adventuresome good time. You cannot allow others to dictate your likes and dislikes. Sometimes a man must stand-alone for ,vhat he desires or believes in. If you want them to except your choices, than you must have a solid conviction, which will magnify your confidence through inner self. Uncle has loved many a cowboy in his time, and yes, Virginia the south will rise again! Saddle up young one its rodeo time. Smooches Uncle Mikey Salutations Kittens Once more too Uncle Mikey’s take on all things Queer. February here again, bringing us another chance at being a twinkle in that someone’s special eye, this Valentines Day. While some believe in saying it with roses, Uncle has always been fond of unconventional tokens of affection. A bouquet of flavored lubes and massage oils always brought a little warmth my way. Yes, however you choose to say I love you, or what was your name again, whatever the case may be, Tis the month oflovin’. Let’s see what others have on their mind this chilly February. Dear Uncle Mikey. I am seriously thinking of asking the man I have been with for a year now to marry me. I l~ow a lot of guys do not think even a commitment ceremony means much since we lack the rights as those in the straight world; however, I truly am in love with this man. He has brought so much into my life, and I am ready to settle down and spend my life with him alone. How should I pop the question? Ready to Pop Dearest Jiffy, Kitten, have you come to the right place. You know you just would not believe how maW times I have used that line. The key to a successful proposal is romance. This is a serious question in which you want to convey the intense love and commitment you hold for this person. Personalize the moment with an activity you two share, making it an unforgettable moment in time, one the two of you will always share. Most of all do convey the love you have in your heart for him. All other matters will fall into place. Smooches_ Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I feel like no one in the gay world understands me. I am looking for someone to share my life. I want someone who can find contentment in loving only one. I have been hurt so many times, and so many men have walked over me using me as their doormat. I do not think there are truly any monogamous men left in the world, no wonder the straight world sees us the way they do. We bring it on ourselves. Am I the only one seeing this? Tired of being gay Dear Zinfandel, Darling, may I offer you some serious to go with that Wine? Sweetheart and I say this with all of the love in Uncles heart, (taxes and fees not included. Excluded in some states), you have to stop sounding like such a victim if you truly want people to stop treating you as though. I mean just by the time I finished your words; I was ready to sleep with your best friend and steal your escalade. Sometimes we must help ourselves before we can look or expect others to see us for who we really are beneath the emotional mess we have allowed ourselves to become. Of course, uncle means you by us, as I am too fabulous to allow victimization here. It sounds as if you seriously need a makeover. Also, one last matter. Kitten, we are not being gay. We are gay, don’t allow self-loathing to become the next cross you carry. Smooches- Uncle Mikey Well Kittens, I fear I have just exhausted myself. I must refresh, maybe have a twinky or two. You know, I am a manabectic. It is important prescribed by my personal physician of love, that I keep my romantic strength up. Yea, that is it. Proving my love for Queerdom one man at a time-Next! Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! Uncles third husband popped at the bathhouse. Imagine my surprise in the shower room, when he handed me that shiny steel ring. Tt~at was a night, I will never forget. I asked the gentleman I was entertaining in that moment to hold the ring while I rewarded that man of mine. It ,vas a night the three of us never did forget. I swear I get all misty just thinking of it. Uncle Mikey, I am twenty-four years old and an avid fan of the rodeo. I want to work the circuit one day. Hmvever, none of my 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Febm~~ 9 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB IVIAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikk~ THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournanient 10pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Show !0pm. HIDEAWAY: Mate Dancers, 9pro SATURDAY February" 10 LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm GUSHERS: Late Night Break~st Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEA\VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Mardi Gras Part),!~ "\Vhat will you do for beads" SUNDAY February 11 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pro SUNDAY Fe BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Cada Lee Love Shmv 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm HIDEA~,VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Eritd~ Show 10:30pm HIDEA"~SAY: Dominique LaRtle’s Girls Night Out, 10:30pro. MONDAY February 12 THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest !2am VALENTINES DAY BAMBOO LOUNGE: RED PARTT! Karaoke 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pm HIDEA’WAY: Male Dancers, 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Showg:30pm HIDEA~VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Mardi Gras Party! "What xvill you do for beads" HIDEA\VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm TNT’s: Super Bowl Part)" wlfood. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm THE COPA: !vide Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lan~-3:30am CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachael Erikks CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ~v/Rachael Erikks BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm Kns Koht Sho 8pm. Mardi Gras QUEEN & KING BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Shiny 10pm THE COPA: Rachad Erikks Shiny 10:30pm HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm Contest, CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm, HIDEA’~VAY: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Shiny t0:30pm FINISHLINE: DartToumament 10pro THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pro sharp. HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Shiny t0:30pm sharp. TNT’s: Black & White Valentines Party, Open 7pm. THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight¯ BAMBOO LOUNGE: Kamoke 9pm. FAT TUESDAY THE COPA: Strip-O~Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm ¯ TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Eril&s THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pra www.ozarksstar.com BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pm sharp. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pm sharp. After Dark is a free secvice m our advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in writing of updates, addkions or discontinued events. Nxe STAR is not responsible for accuracy. the STAR 27 �"Roll up your sleeves, Capricorn!" We still have that Jupiter-Uranus square shaking things up. Mars and the Sun are helping us to see ways to turn surprises into opportunities. Ha~d work, foresight, and cooperation come a little more easily and will prove well worth the effort. alone, you could invite disaster. Even without broaching the subject, talking with relatives will provide grounding and insight. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Hard work wilt pay off in any event. Utilizing your connections and looking ahead wilt help a lot. Coping innovatively with the inevitable snafus will get you recognized as a brilliant achiever. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January t9): Volunteer work is ultimately about enlightened self-interest. Even if the point is ostensibly to help others, you’ll quickly see what you have to gain from your "altruistic" efforts. Roll up your sleeves and dig in! TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Friends and their demands are getting complicated, leading to political conflicts. Going to bed with pals is not one of your values, so play that card carefully, if at all. Stay true to your own values and goals, and let your friends work around them. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Recent financial upsets could be opportunities in disguise. Confirm inspirations and hunches by talking with friends you trust about such matters. Your own brilliance may carry the day, but only if you acknowledge the efforts of others. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your partner’s efforts to promote your career will lead to some interesting new developments - perhaps a new career? Taking a long-range perspective and keeping your baby busy in bed can avoid trouble and help inspire your own career moves. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Friends will draw notice your way when you least expect or want it. Relax and accept the attention with good grace. It could prove very helpful for your career. Professionally or otherwise, your reputation will be boosted. CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Urges for novelty and experimentation can lead you into risky territory. Sexplay with someone you love and trust is the safest way to satisfy that desire. Exotic strangers can be great fun, but those you meet now may have some awful disease. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Real creativity takes discipline. This is one of those times you can be more creative by focusing your attention on the mundane tasks at hand and being supportive of your partner. Out of these everyday details will come inspiration and joy. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): It’s a great time for fussing around the house and decorating. Doing it with your partner, or even a roommate, can vastly improve your relationship. Play with new and different ideas; you don’t need to commit to any of them. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Explore some new, expressive outlet or take a class to brush up on neglected skills. Grab the first mad impulse in your head, think it through, make a plan, and let reality throw you into "Plan B." It will work out better than your "Plan A." SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Practicing domestic economy does not mean hitting the sales and spending "less" money. Sort treasures from trash, but take a creative look at the latter. There should be some new life or good resale value in your old junk. SPIRIT OF CHRIST JOPLIN, MO FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Tesdng appointment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our Community Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. No one is turned a~vay. SAGITTARlUS (November 22 - December 20): You are especially articulate now on matters of family or community finances. Work on those issues with others in your tribe; 28 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) .888-391-9222 NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.orgBarnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers ....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) Diversity Pride Events .............. www.diversitypride.com 479-253-0200 A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main. Caribe Restaurante .... 309 W VanBuren ....... 479-253-8102 -479-253-5795 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring StLumberyard Bar&Grill--- 105 E VanBuren ....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton ........ t7B Spring Street .......... 479-981-6060 - -479-253-2305 Tiki Torch. 75 S. Main Street. 800-242-1615 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren. Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant--- 412 W. Dixon--- 479-442-3515 Condom Sense ........ 418 W. Dickson ...... -479-444-6228 479-521-0009 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave- 479442-5845 Passages ......930 N. College Ave- 479-587-9512 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave-- Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads ....... 1004 1/2 Garrison Ave ........ 479-783-9988 - 479-782-9578 Klub XLR8 ...... 1022 Dodson Ave479-242-2489 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St. Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street .... 1021 Jessie Rd ............... 501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... www.dsra.org -501-666-6900 Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd501-244-0444 Sidetracks --- 415 Main St--North L.R. 501-372-3070 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.-50!-375-8580 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol AveKansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club ...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. BroadwayRiver of Life Church.- - 1709 N. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com The of Sair t Valentine’s Day started in the time of the Roman Empire. In ancient Rome, February 14th was a holiday to honour Juno. Juno was the Queen of the Roman Gods and Goddesses. The Romans also knew her as the Goddess of women and marriage. The following day, February 15th, began the Feast of Lupercalia.The lives of young boys and girls were strictly separate. However, one of the customs of the young people was name drawing. On the eve of the festival of Lupercalia the names of Roman girls were written on slips of paper and placed into jars. Each young man would draw a girl’s name from the jar and would then be partners for the duration of the festival with the girl whom he chose. Sometimes the pairing of the children lasted an entire year, and often, they would fall in love and would later marry. Under the rule of Emperor Claudius II Rome was involved in many bloody and unpopular campaigns. Claudius the Cruel was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. He believed that the reason was that roman men did not want to leave their loves or families. As a result, Claudius cancelled all marriages and engagements in Rome. The good Saint Valentine (photo above) was a priest at Rome in the days of Claudius II. He and Saint Marius aided the Christian martyrs and secretly married couples, and for this kind deed Saint Valentine was apprehended and dragged before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. He suffered martyrdom on the 14th day of February, about the year 270. At that time it was the custom in Rome, a very ancient custom, indeed, to celebrate in the month of February the Lupercalia, feasts in honour of a heathen god. On these occasions, amidst a variety of pagan ceremonies, the names of young women were placed in a box, from which they were drawn by the men as chance directed.The pastors of the early Christian Church in Rome endeavoured to do away with the pagan element in these feasts by substituting the names of saints for those of maidens. And as the Lupercalia began about the middle of February, the pastors appear to have chosen Saint Valentine’s Day for the celebration of this new feast. So it seems that the custom of young men choosing maidens for valentines, or saints as patrons for the coming year, arose in this way. www.ozarksstar.com 1 (2437) Oklahoma’s HIVtSTD Hotlir~e PROTECT CastI÷ "At Century 2I Gold Castle our the STAR 3 Eight new laws advancing lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender equality and protections go into effect in California 4@ TV here! Networks’ Original Horror Series ’q2ae Lair" Coming This Spring. Starring Peter Stickles and David Moretti Who was Oliver Sipple? The Gay man who saved Presidents Fords life. "Cowboy Junction" DVD to be released Feb. 27th- page 11 Gay Travelers "Fire Island, NY" Out of Town "Phoenix, Arizona" Valentines Day. While some believe in saying it ~vith roses, Uncle has always been fond of unconventional tokens of affection. A bouquet of flavored lubes and massage oils always brought a little warmth my way. 5 10 12 13 14 15 16 17 22 24 26 27 28 29 30 31 "The Lair" StalTing Peter Stickles and David Moretti - page 10 STAR DISTRIBUTION: Equality Center Grand Opening -page 15 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA * WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Eight new laws adv dng lesbian, gay; bisexual and transgender equality and pro ec ions go into effect irt California %gqth eight pro-equality laws going into effect this month, California stands head and shoulders above any ol/Jer state in treating all its people equally under the law. "-- Matt Foreman, Evec~tive Director; National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, Jan. 16 -- The National Gay and Lesbian Task Force applauds Equality California (EQCA) and legislative leaders for the record number of pro-equality laws taking effect this month in California. "With eight pro-equality laws going into effect this month, California stands head and shoulders above aW other state in treating all its people equally under the law," said Matt Foreman, executive ¯ director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "Thanks to the extraordinary leadership of Geoff Kors and Equality California and lesbian and gay members of the Legislature -- Senators Sheila Kuehl, Christine Kehoe and Carole Migden and Assemblymember Mark Leno -- tens of thousands will now have greater access to health care, discrimination against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people in housing and state services will be prohibited, and the use of the pernicious ’homosexual panic’ defense will be limited, among many other advances." One of the most sweeping rneasures is the Equal Benefits in State Contracting law, which prohibits the state from contracting with businesses that do not offer equal benefits to employees with domestic partners on the same terms that benefits are offered to employees with spouses. The measure, authored by former Assemblymember and current Sen. Christine Kehoe, D-San Diego, passed during the 2003-2004 legislative session and took effect on Jan. 1. It was modeled after a very successful 1996 equal benefits ordinance enacted in San Francisco. "\gre are excited to see this policy become state law," said EQCA Executive Director Geoff Kors, who initiated the idea of enacting an equal benefits policy in San Francisco in the 1990s. "The new law establishes the fair principle of equal pay for equal work, regardless of sexual orientation." In addition to the equal benefits law, domestic partners in 2007 have the right to prepare their California income tax returns together. Couples can file jointly in 2008, covering the 2007 tax year. Other new laws that went into effect on Jan. 1 reduce courtroom bias against lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) people, expand the state’s nondiscrimination protections, and ensure dignity and stability for LGBT seniors. "These new laws not only provide essential protections for the LGBT community, but they also reiterate California’s commitment to treat all people equally under the law," Kors said. The following pro-equality bills were enacted in California on Jan. 1: Equal Benefits in State Contracting (2003) AB 17: Assemblymember Christine Kehoe, D-San Diego terms that benefits are offered to employees with spouses. Prohibits the state from contracting with businesses that do not offer equal benefits to employees with domestic partners on the same State Income Tax Equity Act SB 1827: Sen. Carole Migden~ D-San Francisco Enables registered domestic partners to file joint state income tax returns and have their earned income treated as community property. Civil Rights Housing Act of 2006 AB 2800: Assemblymember John Laird, D-Santa Cruz Prohibits discrimination in housing based on race, color, religion, national origin, ancestry, disability and sex (including gender identity), marital status, sexual orientation, familial status and source of income. Older Californians Equality and Protection Act AB 2920: Assemblymember Mark Leno, D-San Francisco Ensures that LGBT seniors are adequately served by government services available to older Californians. Nondiscrimination in State Programs and Activities Act SB 1441: Sen. Sheila Kuehl, D-Santa Monica Prohibits discrimination based on sexual orientation and gender identity in state-operated programs. Equality in Prevention and Services for Domestic Abuse Act AB 2051: Assemblymember Rebecca Cohn, D-Saratoga Creates a fund to develop and support education and services for LGBT victims of domestic violence. Gwen Araujo Justice for Victims Act AB 1160: Assemblymember Sally Lieber, D-San Jose Creates jury instructions and prosecutor training to limit the use of so-called"panic strategies" to influence criminal trial proceedings. Code of Fair Campaign Practices AB 1207: Speaker pro Tem Leland Yee, D-San Francisco Prohibits the use of negative appeals based on prejudice against LGBT people by candidates who sign the voluntary pledge in the Code of Fair Campaign Practices. (Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger vetoed a similar bill in 2005.) MARDI GRAS FAT TUESDAY Official name Mardi Gras Also called Shrove Tuesday, Fat Tuesday Observed by Various locales, usually ones historically associated with Catholic populations Type Local, cultural, christian Significance Celebration prior to fasting season of Lent. Date Day before Ash Wednesday 2007 date February 20 Celebrations Parades, parties Related to Carnival w~wv.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 Northern Mexican state of Coahuila approves law recognizing gay unions The Associated Press Published: January 12, 2007 PIEDRAS NEGRAS, Mexico__ The legislature for the northern Mexican state of Coahuila approved a law recognizing gay unions on Thursday, the second assembly to take such an action in the predominantly Roman Catholic nation. The measure, which will provide gay couples with numerous social benefits similar to those of married couples, was approved with 20 votes in favor and13 votes against, said Rep. Julieta Lopez, of the centrist Institutional Revolutionary Party, or PRI. Lopez helped the draft the bill. Coahuila Gov. Humberto Moreira, who is also in the PRI, is expected to sign the bill into law. In November, the Mexico City assembly passed a similar measure for the first time in the nation’s history. That law has been sharply criticized by the Roman Catholic Church and the conservative Nation.al Action Party of President Felipe Calderon. While homosexuality is still taboo in many rural parts of Latin America, the region’s urban areas are becoming more socially liberal. Mexico City and Coahuila join the Argentine capital of Buenos Aires and the southern Brazilian state of Rio Grande do Sul in legalizing same-sex civil unions. At the national level, lawmakers in Costa Rica and Colombia have debated, but not passed, similar measures. http://www.iht, corn/articles/ap/2007/01/12/america/LA-GENMexico- Gay-Unions.php Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center to host wine and beer reception. JOPLIN, MO__A "Freedom To Marry Week" event in support of Equal Civil Marriage For Gays and Lesbians will be held on Saturday night February 17th, 7pm to 1 lpm at the UCCFF Building, 204 North Jackson Ave. The event hosted by the Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center will include Dancing, Show, Music with DJ, Wedding Cake, Wine and Beer. The fundraiser is to raise money for Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center, to have fun, socialize, and to meet new people. The Joplin Gay/Lesbian Center is a newly formed non-profit organization in Joplin, MO. For more information contact Lee McDaniel at 417/622-7821 or email: gaylesbiancenter@yahoo.com Mardi Gras Parw at the Hollywood Hotel to benefit Her!and Sister Resources by Jeanne Flanigan OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Lose the winter blues at the First Annual Herland Mardi Gras Party, on Saturday, February 17, at the Hollywood Hotel and Suites, 3535 NW Expressway, OKC. Tickets are $7 per person, at the door, or from Herland Sister Resources (HSR) Board members. Sorry, no table reservations. ~lere will be a cash bar, and the event is smoke-free. There are several smoking areas within the hotel, and outside under the portico. All room rentals are $45 during the winter season. The fun will start at 7 pm with live music by Tara Henry, Alison Scott, DeShawna, Shannen Porter, and others TBA. In between entertainers Miss Ivanna DeVille will dazzle the crowd, and a DJ will play tunes to get dmvn by. A costume contest for the Best Solo, the Best Couple and the Best Group will be held at 9 pm. Between music sets, a couple of other contests will be held: the selection of a King and Queen (by who raises the most money), not to be confused with the Hog-Calling contest (xvhich will raise the most laughs). A silent auction will be conducted, with bidding closing at 10 pm. Several tables near the entrance will be reserved for information from CimarronArts Project, Okdahoma Visual Arts Coalition, AIDS Mastery Workshop, Herland, and OKC Pride. HSR is a woraen’s collective founded over 20 years ago. Their bookstore is located at 2312 NW 39th, in OKC, just west of the Strip. The bookstore hosts poetry readings, art shows, and is a lending library and reading room, open Saturdays flora 1-5. HSR also sponsors monthly events, such as the Supper Club, nature hikes, game and nights, and potluck dinners. Yearly events include the Pride Picnic, the Spring and Fall Retreats, and several holiday parties. HSR is highly valued for the publishing of the "Herland Voice" newsletter, with events, articles, and an annual Poetry issue. Nxe Mardi Gras Party will help to pay for the printing and postage of the newsletter for 2007. Donations of auction items are needed, small and large, due Saturday, February 10th, at the bookstore. For further information, contact Herland at herland@herlandsisters.org, or call (405) 521-9696 and leave a message. All donations are tax-deductible. Herland’s website is www.herlandsisters.org Come and part,/down with the sisters.., and brothers too! 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 DiversiW Weekend April 13-t5, 2007 437 E. 141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY Glenpool Cleaners {inside Glenpoo[ Flowers] 9z8-z91-3275 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com works’ Or g na I orror Ser es LOS ANGELES, CA -January 16, 2007 - here!, America’s premium gay television network, is pleased to announce that it has wrapped production on the first season of the new provocative original, scripted series 7he Lair. The first of six half-hour episodes will premiere on the network in Spring 2007. "The Lair continues herd’s substantial rollout of provocative original programming in 2007 that can only, be seen on here!," said Paul Colichman, Founder and Chief Executive Officer of here! Networks. "This newest addition to our line up authentically and unapologetically reclaims the horror genre for a LGBT audience." Set in a small coastal town, ~l~ne Lair opens as the bodies of young nameless men are turning up dead with vicious wounds to their necks. A young journalist is investigating a series of mysterious John Doe murders. Clues to these crimes lead him directly to a private gentlemen’s club called "Ihe Lair, where the deepest, darkest desires are fulfilled. As he gets closer to solving the mystery, Thorn finds himself ensnared in a blood thirsty coven of vampires. The Lair stars Peter Stickles, who gathered a following this year ~’rom his work in the acclaimed indie Shortbus, as Damian, the leader of the coven of gay vampires, as well as newcomer David Moretti, who takes the lead as "iI~om. "With a strong, talented cast, we are pleased to add "I-he Lair as another original scripted series to our growing slate of projects," noted Meredith Kadtec, here!’s Vice President of Original Programming. "Our programming runs the gamut, from sexy soap operas to thought-provokdng documentaries, and The Lair is a welcome addition to that line up." The Lair is the latest project reflecting here!’s commitment to bring fresh original programming to the LGBT communib: For a sampiing of provocative and innovative here! content, visit the here! Video Player found at www.heret~acom/videoplayer. Read more about here! and out how to get the channel in your area at www. heretv.com. Recent and upcoming here! original films, series and specials include: The DL Chronicles, an award-~vinning series focusing on the diverse stories of men of color who by consequence and by choice, live sexually duplicitous and secret lifestyles; The Lair, a provocative and sexy vampire horror series; Dante’s Cove, ranked "Best Soap of the Year" by The Advocate; the critically acclaimed Shock To The System: A Donald Strachey Mystery, the second installment in the series of original films starring Chad Mlen as a gay private investigator; the provocative six-part docu-series Lesbian Sex and Sexuality, an unblinking look inside the world of lesbian culture from award-winning producer Katherine Linton; and the original film Shelter, an indie romantic drama about love, family and trying to stay true to yourself. Photofi’orn: here! here!, America’s premium gay television network, was established in 2002 and is currently available nationwide on all major cable systems and Internet TV providers as either a 24/7 premium subscription channel, a video on demand (VOD) service, and/or a subscription video on demand (SVOD) service, here! offers a wide variety of ground breaking and acclaimed original movies and series plus the world’s largest collection of gay and lesbian films appealing to the broad-based, diverse LGBT audience. 10 the STAR w,~v.ozarksstar.com COWBOYJUNCTION DVD TO RELEASED FEBRUARY 27TH. BE James Bobby - The Coxvboy Matt Austin - Young Co~vboy The Hustler "Cowboy JunctioN’ was originally conceived as a short story entitled Me, Bobby McGee and the Gun. The simple yet sweet tale of two men who meet by chance and throw caution to the wind has always resonated for screenwriter Gregory Christian. "It is a fairy-tale of sorts," he has said. "Just think back to the last time you fell in love with a stranger." But this "boy meets boy" tale took on a completely different twist when he began adapting it as a short screenplay for entry into the film festival circuit. Suddenly, one of the boys was now a married man caught up in a world of homo-erotic fantasy and coveting his gardener (the Bobby McGee character now envisioned as a rugged cowboy). When the script was ready, the problem of finding two suitable leads arose. \Vhile working at the Kingsmen Shakespeare Festival, Mr. Christian decided, after much debate, to cast himself as the MAN and fellow actor James Bobby as the COWBOY. Bobby was more than up for the task of tackling such challenging and tongue-in-cheek material. The wheels were in motion and a summer 2004 shoot was set. Gregory calls the short a "one-day ,vonder." The entire piece was shot on a Saturday in August in less than 14 hours. When the final cut was ready, he began submitting it to numerous film festivals. In May 2005, the "Cowboy Junction" short premiered at the Miami Film Festival. It played on multiple screens at the Regal Theatre as part of their wildly popular "Boys’ Shorts" program. The piece was a definite crowd pleaser and also garnered a cover on local Floridian magazine "411" as part of an article about the festival. The short was so well-received, Mr. Christian announced at the showings that the short would be pulled off the circuit and a feature would be going into production. The script was ready, the cast and crew were in place and production was set for five days following the conclusion of the festival. The character of the wife was now a prominent part of the storlyine and would be played by veteran actress Elyse Mirto (another Kingsmen Shakespeare alumni). The tale was now a story of her husband’s sexual repression and gut-wrenching "coming out," amongst the most dire of circumstances. The entire movie was a wonder in it’s own right: completed in nine days of total production time. Gregory Christian - The Husband Executive Producer, Director Screemvriter Elyse Mirto - The Wife www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Little Reck CapitN Pride Nects new President LITTLE ROCK, AR Little Rock Capital Pride Board President, David \vvq. Quinn, has stepped down in order to pursue other personal and professional goals. David plans to remain active in the group and the board wishes him well in his future endeavors. Following David’s resignation, the board of Little Rock Capital Pride has voted to name Board Secretary, Joe LaFountaine, its new leader. Joe is a native Arkansan that returned home this May, most recently from Atlanta, Georgia where he was a volunteer with Atlanta Pride Committee, which produces the third largest Pride festival in the United States. In October, Joe received a scholarship to represent LRCP at the InterPride World Conference in Portland, Maine. The conference provided workshops on many facets of Pride planning, entertainment and networking with over 200 Pride organizers representing over 50 Pride groups from across the world. With less than six months remaining until the third annual Capital Pride celebration, Joe asks the community for its support and assistance to help achieve the lofty" goals the board has set. Capital Pride will be held June 3rd at the Little Rock River Market Amphitheatre and financial support and participation is very much needed for a successful event. To learn more about how Capital Pride, please visit http://www.littlerockcapitalpride.org. About Little Rock Capital Pride Little Rock Capital Pride (http://www. littlerockcapitalpride.org/) is a 501(c) 3 non-profit organization whose mission is to host events that honor the history and diversity of Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) individuals in the State ofArkansas and surrounding areas and create unity within the GLBT community and its allies by providing social support and enhancing awareness of the past and present contributions of GLBT individuals through community activities and services, including an annual Pride event. Arkansas Citizens First Congress is still seeking interns. Bill Kopsky LITTLE ROCK, AR The Arkansas Citizens First Congress is still seeking interns for this coming session of the Arkansas General Assembly. Interns are a key part of the Congress’ ability to monitor a legislative process that considers over 3000 pieces of legislation in a little over 3 months; while also moving key parts of a proactive agenda forward. The Congress is looking for one full-time intern who will receive $200 a week, and several part-time interns who will be volunteers. Academic credit is possible from many institutions. Interns will be joining an experienced staff led by lobbyist and Policy Director Alice Lightle who is a veteran of several legislative sessions as well as time in the Governor’s Office, the Attorney General’s Office and as a campaign manager for Federal and State Offices. We are recruiting mature candidates who want hands on experience in how state government works and how grass roots communities can affect it. Job description is pasted below as well as attached. Full-time position 45+ hours a week during the Arkansas legislative session January thru mid-April Part-time positions Minimum of 12 hours / week during the Arkansas legislative session January thru mid-April Send resumes and letter of inquiry to: The Arkansas Citizens First Congress 1308 West Second Little Rock, AR 72201 or email: Congress@CitizensFirst.org Web at www.CitizensFirst.org The Arkansas Citizens First Congress is a coalition of community and labor organizations from across Arkansas that advocate a common agenda before the Arkansas legislature and some state agencies. We are a multi-issue coalition working on the environment, civil rights, agriculture, economic justice, government accountability, and consumer rights. DIVERSITY WEEKEID DATES Eureka Springs, Arkansa VALENTINE’S DIVERSITYWEEKEND Frida> Feb 16, 2007- Sunda> Feb 18, 2007 SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com Creating Community for People iving DS 501 c (3) Non Profit Orga~aization Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. 12 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Photo: Ronald Blake ~11IReally Need To Know was a book written by Robert Ful: simplicity. Everyone wants to make the that is why it becomes so complicated. and healthy body, let’s adhere to some of presented in Mr. Fulgham’s opus. Goldfish and white mice and hamsters all a mother load to throw at dressed sometime. The sooner, the better. This the time to prepare for the inevitable passing ofI the pondering as to why some lucky squares live others. \X~ny mommy? Because some folks treat ~ dumpsters while others treat them go easy on the booze, exercise frequently, and eat Lohan but less than Bruce Vilanch. Warm cookies and cold milk are morsel of advice. However, let’s wave the wand those delicious cookies into Snack~vells or wheat troduce that dairy product as a skim milk variety. you sir, can I have another? ~l:ake a nap every afternoon. A smashing and dare I cept. Don’t you even think of working through or engaging in that nonsensical gossip with your quiet office space or your Nissan Maxima and fifteen to twenty minutes. It’s a devil of a lot better Pepsi, a cancer stick, or that proliferation of a vicious ugly Betty in the loss prevention department. Wash your hands before you eat. Germs are omnipresent ing their opportunity to invade and infect you. There are places you go and many things you touch that are laden guys. Don’t go Mommy Dearest on me and obsess about the i of it all. Just lather up the Lifebuoy or the Lever 2000 away those microbial monsters before your eating events. Put things back where you found them. If you have a membershi]3 then you know the importance of this lodestar. conspicuous signs adorning the fitness room walls should www.ozarksstar.com ¯ the STAR 3 was Oliver Sipple? Oliver Sipple is credited with saving the life of President Gerald Ford in 1975, but the outing that followed his heroic act wreaked havoc on his personal life. Sipple, known by the nickname "Billy," was born in Detroit in November 1941. In high school, he was a star football player. During the mid-1960s, after moving to New York City, Sipple hung out with a circle of gay men who frequented Kelly’s, a hustler bar. He began a relationship with Joe Campbell (later immortalized as the "Sugar Plum Fairy" in Lou Reed’s song "Walk on the Wild Side"), who previously had been a lover of Harvey Milk. 7he couple moved to Fort Lauderdale, but S~pple soon left Campbell, prompting Campbel! to attempt suicide. During the Vietnam War, Sipple joined the Marine Corps as a private first-class. He was wounded twice, and completed his tour of duty in a Philadelphia veterans’ hospital. He received an honorable discharge in 1970 and moved to San Francisco, where he lived on a veteran’s pension due to physical and psychological disability. He had numerous friends among the city’s burgeoning gay community, and he worked on Milk’s campaign for a seat on the Board of Supervisors. On the afternoon of Sept. 22, 1975, Sipple was taking a walk when he joined a crowd gathered outside the St. Francis Hotel in Union Square to greet President Ford - who just weeks earlier had survived an assassination attempt by Charles Manson follower Lynette "Squeaky" Fromme. As Ford exited the hotel, Sipple noticed that the gray-haired woman standing beside him - later identified as Sara Jane Moore - had pulled a revolver out of her raincoat. Sipple grabbed Moore’s arm, causing her shot to miss the president by a few feet, then wrestled her to the ground to prevent her from firing again; Moore was captured, pleaded guilty, and is serving a life sentence in prison. (photo rig,bt) When questioned by police and Secret Service agents, Sipple asked them not to release his name. Nevertheless, reporters got wind of him, and he was hailed as a hero. According to journalist Randy Shilts, Milk told San Francisco Chronicle_ gossip columnist Herb Caen that Sipple was gay. "That guy saved the president’s life," Milk reportedly said. "It shows that we do good things, not just all that ca-ca about molesting children and hanging out in bathrooms." Caen noted in a column that Sipple was gay, and the news was picked up by several other papers across the country - including the Chicago Sun-Times, which called Sipple a "Homosexual Hero." But Sipple was not interested in being a "gay hero." "My sexual orientation has nothing to do with saving the president’s life," he said, "just as the color of my eyes or my race has nothing to do with what happened in front of the St. Francis Hotel." The outing devastated Sipple, who had not revealed his sexuality to his conservative family back in Michigan. "My mother told me today she can’t walk out of her front door, or even go to church, because of the pressures she feels because of the press stories concerning my sexual orientation," Sipple lamented to reporters. His brother George later recalled that he, his father, and another brother, all ofwhom worked for General Motors, were taunted on the factory floor. Sipple’s parents cut off contact with him, although George said that they did not disown him and eventually reconciled. Sipple filed a $15 million lawsuit against the Chronicle, the Sun-Times, and five other newspapers for invasion of privacy. A San Francisco Superior Court judge dismissed the case on First Amendment grounds, and a state appeals court upheld the decision in May 1984. Although Sipple received a letter expressing Ford’s "heartfelt appreciation," he was never invited to the White House to accept more formal recognition. Milk and some other activists attributed this slight to Sipple’s sexuality, but Ford later told a reporter that he thought he had "done the right thing," and that he hadn’t learned until sometime later that Sipple was gay. In the years that followed, Sipple grew 14 the STAR increasingly bitter and descended into alcoholism. "There were a lot of times he wished he had never saved the president’s life, for all the anguish it caused him," his brother recalled. "He said life -would have been so m~ch simpler if he hadn’t have done it." Though in ill health, Sipple was a regular denizen at several gay watering holes on Polk Street. On Feb. 2, 1989, after Sipple had failed to appear for several days, a friend found him dead in his Tenderloin apartment, the walls plastered with press clippings from the 1975 incident. Ford sent a letter of condolence to the patrons of the New Bell Saloon - acknowledging them as Sipple’s chosen family - stating that he "strongly regretted the problems that developed" for Sipple after the assassination attempt. The tragic end to Sipple’s life contributed to a debate within the LGBT community over identity politics and outing that persists to this day. In addition, his story is widely used in law and journalism schools as a case study in the ethics of revealing a person’s sexual orientation against his or her will. Oliver Sip2ole thwarted an assassination atte, wt on President Ford in 1975 For further information: Duke, Lynne. 2006. "Caught in Fate’s Trajectory, Along With Gerald Ford." Washington Post (December 31). hilts, Randy. 1982. The Mayor of Castro Street(St. Martin’s Press). www.ozarksstar.com GRAND OPENING of EQUALITY CENTER Defying conventional expectations, Tulsa is now home to one of the largest lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) community centers in the United States. Beginning February 14th, a five-day Grand Opening celebration will be held at the Equality Center, an 18,000 square-foot facility in the gentrifying East End district of downtown Tulsa at 621 E. 4th Street. For a schedule of events, see below. Oklahomans for Equality/OkEq (formerly Tulsa Oldahomans for Human Rights/ TOHR) mvns and operates the Equality Center. In addition to serving as a base for statewide advocacy efforts, the Equality Center will house wellness programs, a David Bohnett Cyber Center, the Tulsa LGBT History Project, meeting rooms, health testing services, a pro-bono legal clinic, an art gallery, retail operations, the Nancy & Joe Rainbow Library, and rental space for events. An eviction for using gay in signage at the first Tulsa LGBT Community Center and landlordsfi€TM repeated refusals to lease space to a gay organization inspired Oklahomans for Equality to purchase a home of its own. Established in 2000, the OkEq capital campaign has currently raised almost $900,000 in private and foundation gifts. Not a cent of public or corporate money has been contributed toward the costs of purchasing or renovating the formerly abandoned industrial building. Over the last year, more than 225 unique volunteers have worked over 6000 hours in refurbishing the facility. At the same time, an outstanding team of design professionals have volunteered their services in orchestrating exterior and interior design concepts and dra-wings. EQUALITY CENTER GRAND OPENING SCHEDULE OF EVENTS Love: The Higher Law ~tlursday, February 14th In support of the 10th anniversary of Freedom to Marry Week, Oklahomans for Equality (O"~q) is sponsoring Love: The Higher Law, a Valentine’s Day demonstration calling for marriage equality for same-gender Oklahomans. A coalition of same-gender couples, pro-LGBT ministers, and activists will go to the Tulsa County Courthouse and attempt to register for marriage licenses. If you are interested in participating in this historic event, please contact OkEq President Laura Behnonte at labelmonte@hotmail.com or 918.906.2134. Xhere will be a mandatory training session for all participants prior to the demonstration. Following the Valentines Day action, a wedding reception will be held in the Great Hall of the Equality Center from 5:00 to 7:00 PM. Free and open to the public, the wedding reception honors those ~vho attempted to register for marriage licenses earlier in the day and all same-sex couples denied the 1,049 federal benefits of marriage equality. Opening Doors Art Exhibit & Competition ~Pnursday, Februa~7 15tih Unique art that speaks to all and opens doors to the heart, soul and mind ~vill be featured during the Opening Doors Exhibit & Competition. The exhibit/competition debuts on Thursday, February 15, 2007 with a flee Champagne & Chocolate reception from 5:00-9:00 PM and runs through March 15, 2007. Each entry of the exhibit and competition will be on, or a part of, a door - car, cabinet, house or any other type of door. Individuals, groups and organizations are ~velcome to submit an entry free of charge. Awards, determined by a vote of the public, will recognize an outstanding piece by a young adult (under 21), as well as an adult entry. GayBingO Friday, February 16th No straight lines - just nice shapes. No toy prizes just cash. This isdt the bingo your grandmother played! GayBingO makes its debut on Friday, February 16, 7:00-10:00 PM, in the Event Center. Outrageous entertainment, 6 of the gayest bingo games you’ve seen, drink specials like the BingoBlast, and a couple of special surprises make GayBingO the night you won’t want to miss. Tickets, $15 in advance, include a fi’ee drink and are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. XWelcome Home Open House - LGBT Community Expo & TestFest 2007 Saturda> February 17th A full, free afternoon dedicated to the LGBT & allied community is featured on Saturday, February 17, 2007, 2:00-6:00 PM. The Welcome Home Open House features tours of the new facility and refreshments in the Great Hall. You’ll be able to learn more of the numerous community groups, social organizations, houses of worship and agencies during the LGBT Community, Expo in the Wellness Center. While you’re enjoying the afternoon, free HIV and syphilis tests will be available during Test- Fest 2007 in the Health Testing Ofiqce and additional locations in the Center. \Vild Hearts Ball VII - Mardi Gras Madness Saturday, February 17th The signature event of the Ok~q Capital Campaign, the Wild Hearts Ball, celebrates its 7th year with Mardi Gras Madness, 8:00-11:00 PM, in the Event Center of the Equality Center. Free food, delicious dancers, cash bar and a live DJ will make you want to dance the night away. The drawing for the Great Divide, your chance to win thousands of dollars ($20/ticket) in the 50/50 cash split, will also be held during the Wild Hearts Ball. Of course, it wouldn’t be Mardi Gras without a little madness. If you come in full Mardi Gras regalia, as long as itfi€% legal, you can compete for prizes during the costume contest at 10:00 PM. Tickets, $15 in advance or $20 at the door, are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downto~vn Tulsa ............ Continued2age-23 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 This IS the season to enjoy red wines. While visiting wine country in California this holiday season, I was most impressed with the Zins. From Paso Robles to Sonoma, Zins are truly worth exploring. Briefhistory ofthe grape: [ZIHN-fuhn-dehl] This is considered California’s red-wine grape because it’s not widely gro~vn in other parts of the world. Zinfandel vines were brought to California in the 1850’s. By the 1880’s, this variety was rapidly gaining acceptance by California growers, and it is now that state’s second most extensively planted red grape behind cabernet sauvignon. For years Zinfandel’s origins were ~" mysterious. Initially, research confirmed a relationship between Zinfandel Primitivo (a variety grown in Italy’s Puglia region), causing speculation that might have originated in Italy¯ ~However, in late 2001, DNA findetermined that Crljenak KaAitelanski (a little-known grape from and Zinfandel have identical DNA profiles. existence of Crljenak Ka~_itelanski could be found in only one vineyard " thousands of vines and dozens of varieties, of which only nine vines Zinfandel. Vineyards get replanted periodically, and nobody recognized special about this particular vineyard, so it is likely that in a few years grape might have ceased to exist. Beside the Zinfandel grown in California (and Italy’s Primitivo), there are only isolated planting of this grape, mainly in South Africa and Australia. Zinfandel is vinified in many styles, which vary greatly in quality. One popular style is white zinfandel, a fruity-flavored blush wine that’s usually slightly sweet and ranges in color from light to dark pink. When made into red wine, Zinfandel can produce wines ranging from light, nouveau styles to hearty, robust reds with berrylike, spicy (sometimes peppery) flavors, plenty of tannins, enough complexity and longevity to be compared to cabernet sauvignons. Another style is late-harvest Zinfandel, which exhibits higher alcohol levels and some residual sugar. The Italians produce dry red Primitivo grape-based wines that are similar to some California Zins. As Zinfandel’s popularity increases, more and more enterprising Italian Primitivo growers are labeling their wines "Zinfandel" and exporting them to the United States. Foods thatpair well: Vegetable pasta dishes, beef sirloin tips, BBQ ribs, sausages, brisket and some sharp cheeses¯ Some cool vineyards to look out for Rodney Strong Sonoma County Reserve 2004, Gnarly Red 2005, J. Lohr Old Vines 2004, Dancing Bull 2004, Norman Vineyards, the Monster, Fire Station Red/Old Vines 2003, Calistoga Cellars 2003 Thanks for reading, now go into your favorite wine shop and ask questions. Bring some bottles home and share some food & wine with friends. 1 6 the 8TAF~ www.ozarksstar.com Ingredients: -Spaghetti Josephine- (Serves: 4) 1/4 cup extra virgin olive oil 1/4 cup onion, minced 1/4 cup celery, minced 1/4 cup shallots, minced 1/4 cup carrots, minced 1 teaspoon minced garlic 1-1/4 cups (8 oz.) ground beef 1-1/4 cups (8 oz.) ground pork 1 tablespoon tomato paste 1 cup dry red wine 2 cups brown veal stock Salt and freshly ground black pepper to taste 1/8 teaspoon nutmeg 1/’8 teaspoon red chili flakes 1 lb. fedelini pasta #2 Parmesan cheese to taste 1 ounce chopped parsley 1. Pour the olive oi! into a large saute pan over medium heat. Cook the onions, celery, shallots and carrots, stirring frequently, until soft. 2. Add the garlic, ground beef and ground pork. Cook for 2 minutes, stirring. Add the tomato paste and stir for I minute. Add the red wine and veal stock. Reduce heat to low and simmer for 15 minutes. 3. Season with salt and pepper to taste. Add red pepper flakes and nutmeg. Taste for seasonings. Cook the pasta in salted water until al dente. In a large serving bowl, toss the pasta with the sauce. Add Parmesan cheese to taste and garnish with parsley. Serve. More on ChezJosephine ownerJean-Claude Bake~" andJosephine Baker, page 19. by Donald Pile and Ray Williams evening. ’~’~ also recon~at~e~d that you purchase your bee~ liquor and groceries in Sayvitle b4{bre tal~ng the f~rry to Fire Island and save yourself a LOT of money~ YOU can take ~;NYFHING on the ferry with you! \x;’%en you debark from the ferry they has,e F~E little red wagons for tourists tO Use to cart your groceries and luggage to your accommodations. Located abou~ 50 miles East ofNew York Cib~ on the South side of Long Island. Fire Island is the gay" Fantasy Island in the United States. It is a "barrier island approximately 30 miles long az~d a half mile wide. Once you get offthe ferry that takes you from Sa;~wille, New ~%rk to this ,£onderful enchanted Island, you KNOW }o~ are in gay heaven. It is a world unto itsel£ Except for the very :xpensive plane hop, the only way to the Island is by the ferry, " which takes about 20 minutes. It leaves every hour ~n the weekends a~3d ever5" two hours weekdays. From NYC you can take the bus m Sayville or, if you have a car, a just park it in the ferry parking lot. Fire Island is quite small and there are no autos, no bicycles or any other means of transportation other than walking, which At the Fire Island Pines, Low [lSa {aka "Ihe %a Dan~") is a tradition going back many mOonS that continues today on it’s original turf- ~ne Blue W~ale LoW%a takes place eac!~ day at the Blue Whale. From 5 PM to 8PM. Bartenders serve up concocuons to get your hydrated before you sweat it all out dancing to the tunes of one of their DJ~. High Tea is your chance to coot is done either on the beach or on the boardwalks. Literally, board down after burning " plank:; are raised above the sand and measure from ~hree to six feet i. tHuepldateLacohwd%ayaat wide. The ~wo communities on Fire Island are "l~ne Pines and Cherry" Grove which are located about a 25 minute walk apart, ~he Pines is more upscale and costly: Cherry- Grove is a bit more taSd back. Prices for accommodations, food mid drink are very expensive at either place. All fbod. liquor, hotd supplies, etc. have to be brought over by the ferry each day, so don’t expect any bargains here. But it is 99% ~y! You pay ~br what you get. Fire Island is a must when travding ro the East coast for a few days. New York gays have been coming here for years, mostly on weekends as a great ge>a-way fi:omthe cib: A lot ofNew 21~rkers have built weekend homes here and the parties run 24 hours a day" on weekends.. Don’t expect any great accommodations on Fire Island. there iust aren’t any. [~e Botet Pines and Dunes Yacht Club are the only public hotel in the Pines and it is really in need of updating. ~the Fire Island Pines is relatively new. On the CherU Grove side, there are severa! options including the Dune Poim, a small sb: unit lodging: the Carousel Guest House, Holly House and the Cherry Grove Hotel. Then there is the Belevedere Guesthouse which wa~ built in 1957 and has almost 40 rooms. It is qui~e nice and has wonderful views. Most of the restaurants on the, Island are in Cherry Grove. For night life you might enjoy Cherry} which has a piano bar, video bar and poll table or the Gro;,oe Hotel whi& has a grea~ disco bar. On the Pines side, be sure and check out Island Club with it~ piano bar and dance floor and the Pavilion which is the largest disco on the entire Island. the balcoW above Pavilion, High .Tea kicks off at 8 PM aid runs till 10 PM. It~ w)ur chance m lounge and watch all the the ashore with literally a boa>load of guys for you to meet. ~e sure and take your camera as there are real deer all over the Island and they wil! come right uP to you for fi~od, Nature hiking is a great exPefience here as the trees, bushes and flowers are very" plentiful. We promise you witi love it ~n Fire Island as it is an experience ofa lifetime, it is simply, the gavest place in Am4rica, even ~ore so than San FranciscO! "l:~t~e gr~at" webSites are:ww~a:fireisland,com/, htrp:/Ix~vw.cherrygrovd.com/and hrtp://www.fireistandmen.com/ Path:. sun and sex are the only reasons to go to Fire Island and you certainly won’, get much res,:. ~Ihey par~" begins the moment you step off" the ferry and doesn’t stop until you get back on it fi)r your return to the mainland. Needless to say~ dress is veiT informal and dnring the days, most just wear their swimming shorts or bikinis. ~lhe "IN" season begins on Memorial Day and runs through I.abor DaB however it is open all )’ear long. Ifyou are not looking to be with throngs of people the go during the offseason when the prices are much lower. Prices almost double on weekends so if you can, stay during the week. Another alternative would be to stay in 5a)’vil~e and take the ferry- over in the morning and return in the 18 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald iPile & Ray \Villiams CHEZ JOSEPHINE in NewYork Citywho have dined at Chez Josephine~ and they relate ~he same sroLv that we had. "Ihey catfr wai~ ro return ro enjoy themselves. A grea restaurant stays basically the same year after year after year. It was perfect when they opened and it is soil perfect today. Why change a perfiect thing? But it is the "People" who make a restaurant. ~e owner/host, entire restaurant staff’as we!l as the customers who inrermi ngle with each other while enjoying their own fine dining experience. On our first dining experience at Chez Josephin& we nler a tfyou have never dined at Chez Josephine Restaurant in New ~i)rk City you sim ly have not lived mu Located at 4 !4 \g~est 42nd Street it is right in the heart of the Theatre District. For over 20 years, the "beyond Fabulous" owner, Jean-Claude Baker h£s been the finest host of any restaurant in the city. A tribute to the late Josephine Baker, the restaurant and it’s live music exude theatrical panache. Recently remodeled, now with a private dining room, this landmark jewel is even more inviting and romantic with its blue-On ceiling, red velvet walls and cavalcade of chandeliers which light up the vintage portraits of "La Baker": 7he eclectic menu reinvents the traditional Cuisine of the French bistro in an explosion of tantalizing flavors. They have won numerous awards over the years including the AAA Four Diamond Award and Zagats. When we dine out. whether it be in New York Cit% Chicago, Palm Beach, Palm Springs or wh~tever, selecting the right restaurant is so important. Any "cook" can prepare a ,ned that is edible! So we have ~ to search for something far beyond that. We always tell Our readers that when they travel, that "people" are the most important thing. So it is when had never had anyone send them a gift just for sitting next to them ar a restaurant but that is how it is when dining at Chez Josephine. It is £~ experience. dining at a restaurant.... People! From the moment you walk into the door at a restaurant until the time you leave, "People" is what it \g’~e have been in fine restaurants is all about. Sure, a restaurant HAS to have properly prepared food in the country from Coast to CoaSt but and presented in a wonderful manner. Tile restaurant itself~S to dais is one takes the cake so to speak for the finest have a certain ambiance. But it is the "People" who make a dining in everything! ~e ambiance, the service, the ~bod..... experience ~br us. everything is just PERFECY ! ! ! ! ! Jean-Claude lmows how to treat his guests and they return over the years in droves. It m~es for a From the moment we walked into Chez Josephine’s the first marvelous din!,ng experience. Fron.i the momentyo,u. step in th~ rime, the absolutely fabtflous host, Jean-Claude was standing there restaurant until you leave, you are m a completely different world, waiting, for us His Charm emnowered the entire restaurant The leaving behind your troubles and that of dae world. You really never waiters and entire staffmade certain that we were the most m" apor- ~ant to lea~~e¯ rant people in the restaurant, as they do with every- customer. Even thou we new none of the other customers we all had a common ca- "lhey serve dinner from 5 PM to 1 AM Tuesday thru Saturday maraderie amongst ourselves. We were all taking part in a delightful and Sunday Brunch and Dinner from Noon to 10 PM. Their menu and unfbrgettable dining experience and we all tmew it. You were in offers Spaghetti Josephine, Grilled Atlantic Salmon, Maryland Crab a very special place ar a very special time and everything was perfect! Cakes. Lobster Cassoutet with Shrimp, Lemon Shrimp ~sotto, ~md we know }br certain that this takes place every day with every Boudin Noir, Elvira’s Down Home Fried chicken, French Cut customer at Chez Josephine’s. .~aixish Chicken Breast, Roasted Duck a t’Orange, Pan Seared Calf’s Live. Grilled Skirt Steak, Black _&ngus Filet Mignon arid Double Now that they have reached a memorable milestone of being i~ Cut Lamb Chops. business for 20 years, ttxere legacy just continues and gets better and better each year. As we travel to both coasts we talk with others Their website is: ww~v.chezjosephine.com and their phone number is: 212.594.1925. ~.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 7/se S/semton Wild Horse Pass, just a 20-minute driveJ~om the gay nightlife and shopping of downtown Phoenix, is acclaimedfor its superb Kai restaurant and elegant Aji Spa. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Februa ’ 2007 The action centers on Copper Square and its massively expanded convention center, plus dozens of trendy restaurants, high-end hotels, and fine performance venues. There are also a 24-screen cinema, several museurns, and sports stadiums that host baseball’s Arizona Diamondbacks and basketball’s Phoenix Suns. A cultural must is the outstanding Phoenix ~t Museum, a dramatic green-quartz structure containing 19th-century European paintings, delightful artworks of the American West, and Abstract Expressionist masterworks. Two blocks north is the Heard Museum, a 1928 Spanish Colonial Revival hacienda containing the nation’s top collection of Native American art and artifacts. ew cities have grown faster and more dramatically in the past half-century than Phoenix, which in 2,005 overtook Philadelphia to become the fifth most populous city in the nation. It s also larger in area than Los Angeles and the hub of a metro region that includes several other fast-growing metropolises, including Scottsdale, Mesa, Tempe, and Glendale. But the "Valley of the Sun" is much more than a popular place to live - tourism here has taken off thanks to the bounty of lavish resorts, a cultural renaissance in downtown Phoenix, and some of the best shopping, dining, and recreational opportunities in the West. More recently, the region’s oI~ce of tourism has begun enthusiastically wooing GLBT travelers. A highly contemporary metropolis surrounded by mountains and high desert, Phoenix is in many ways the last stronghold of the western frontier. The region is dogged by certain challenges prevalent in the West, such as rampant sprawl and sometimes oppressive smog. It’s also bone-dry here - only the Sahara is less humid than Phoenix’s Sonoran Desert. Most of the year, the weather is ideal for outdoor recreation, with winter highs in the mid-60s and spring and fall highs in the mid-80s. About the only period with blistering heat is summer, when daytime temperatures routinely climb into the low 100s (and many accommodations drop their rates precipitously). In terms of gay-friendliness, Phoenix defies labels. This somewhat conservative capital city has long maintained strong Republican leanings, but some of the region’s most famous right-of-center politicians - including Sen. John McCain and the late Sen. Barry Goldwater - have expressed relatively accepting attitudes toward gays and lesbians. And somewhat surprisingly in 2006, this traditionally "red" state became the first in the nation to vote down a proposed ban on same-sex marriage. Phoenix has a highly visible GLBT community, and a huge number of queer bars, social organizations, and "family"-fi’iendly eateries. Visitors to this area have traditionally madea beeline for swanky Scottsdale, with its chichi hotels, lush golf courses, haute galleries, and sumptuous spas. However, Phoenix proper - which is home to most of the region’s GLBT bars and other businesses - has enjoyed a notable comeback of late, especially the once soulless downtown commercial center. 20 the STAR Several peripheral residential neighborhoods have become gentrified of late, such as the Willo and Garfield Place historic districts. Of particular note is Roosevelt Row, a burgeoning mixed-use residential district that supports several excellent galleries as well as a wonderful bakery, Tammie Coe Cakes (stop in for a latte and a sweet treat or two). Speaking of baked goods, ardent pizza connoisseurs have been k~own to travel thousands of miles for a meal at Pizzeria Bianco, inside a historic building in the heart of the bustling Heritage Square section of downtown. Chef-owner Chris Bianco has been dubbed a pizza-making genius for his simply sensational wood-fired pies, including the Wiseguy (topped ~vith roasted onion, housesmoked mozzarella, and fennel sausage). Just beware the long lines. Vinophiles have taken a shine to Cheuvront Wine & Cheese Cafe, the brainchild of the city’s openly gay state senator, Ken Cheuvront. This happening place near the Phoenix Art Museum serves countless vintages by the glass and bottle as well as a long menu of stellar cheeses, salads, pizzas, and snacks. It’s a short walk down Central Avenue from here to reach the city’s premier gay bar, Amsterdam, an elegant lounge that’s part of a larger complex that includes Club Miami and Malibu Beach Bar. Other gay night spots within a short drive include the lesbian-favored Club Vibe, which replaced long-running Ain’t Nobody’s Biz and offers dancing, darts, and pool; the leather-and- Levi’s-oriented Phoenix Eagle; and the highenergy Karamba Nightclub. Gay two-steppers and country-western fans gather at Chartie’s, while fans of drag and karaoke get their fix at Burger Betty’s, an Aussie-themed gay restaurant and bar. www.ozarksstar.com With all the snazzy new resorts that have opened in Scottsdale and other outlying cities, it’s easy to forget that Phoenix itself is home to a pair of aces: the Frank Lloyd Wright-inspired Arizona Biltmore, and the intimate, old-world Royal Palms, both of which opened in the late ’20s. ~ne 40-acre Biltmore, with its gray, low-slung, angular buildings containing 738 guest rooms, lies in the shadows of Phoenix Mountain Reserve. There’s also fine golfing and an acclaimed spa. Set aside an evening to dine at Wright’s at the Biltmore, where such inventive regional American fare as milk-poached pork tenderloin with foie gras sauce draws fawning accolades. Many a diva whiles away a Saturday afternoon at the nearby Biltmore Fashion Park, strolling through high-end boutiques and snacking at trendy restaurants. ~lhe genteel and cozier Royal Palms Resort and Spa could pass for a splendid private villa in Spain, with its fanciful stone paths meandering past flagrant gardens and citrus-tree-shrouded casitas decked in old-world antiques and tiles. The weekend brunch at T. Cook’s - best enjoyed on the sunny patio - is a Phoenix tradition, and the resort’s tranquil Alvadora Spa provides some of the most supremely relaxing treatments you can imagine, from Watsu water therapy to crystal-stone facials. Die-hard massage junkies should book one of the seven state-of-the-art spa suites. In downtown Phoenix, the upscale Hyatt Regency Phoenix and the eight-story, moderately priced Best Western Central Phoenix Inn are solid options, all within a short drive or walk of area bars, restaurants, shops, and museums. A less obvious pick is the funky, gay-friendly Hotel San Carlos, a grand if faded 121-room Italian Renaissance-style lodging that’s allegedly haunted (by friendly ghosts). It’s definitely seen better days, but for the price, it’s a good bet with a convenient, central location - especially if you prefer quirky over glamorous. Nearby Scottsdale abounds with more recently built resorts, from the supremely cushy Sanctuary Camelback Mountain resort and swish Four Seasons Scottsdale, to the sexy and hip Scottsdale Mondrian and retro-chic Hotel Valley Ho. In Chandler, consider the Sheraton Wild Horse Pass (which is expected to become a Starwood Luxury Collection property later in 2007), an attractive spread on the Gila River Indian Reservation, 20 miles southeast of downtown. The vibe here is low-keyed and unpretentious, thanks in part to the consistently genial employees. The much-lauded Kai restaurant and the transcendent Aii Spa remind you,however, that you’re staying at a truly splendid desert hideaway. An equestrian center offering trail rides and a campy ersatz frontier town called Rawhide (think stagecoach rides, goofy gift shops, and gunfightin’ reenactments) may help you to channel your inner cowgirl or -boy. Greater Phoenix also has a handful of gay-oriented accommodations, which range flom homey B&Bs to saucy clothing-optional retreats. Downtown’s gay-owned but mainstream Yum Yum Tree Guest House, in the hip and historic Willo neighborhood, occupies a 1920s school building with soaring ceilings and Mexican-tile floors. Shaded patios and gurgling fountains surround the Spanish Mission-style building, which also adjoins a relaxing pool area. A racier option is the Arizona Royal Villa, a nudity-permitted men’s compound with an impressively enticing pool, hot tub, and sunning area and rooms and suites in a variety of configurations. For $10, non-overnight guests can spend the day here swimming, tanning, and mingling with fellow sun-bunnies. It may lack the pizzazz of the Biltmore, but this frisky compound is the closest you’ll find in these parts to a Palm Springs-style gay resort. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 FEBRUARY 2007 "The Facts Will Set Us Free" ~he Republican Party may be do,vn, but make no mistake, it is far from out. Ttxe foundation of its revolution is still solid, and perhaps more energized than ever. I’m not talking about the "Get Out the Vote" folks or candidates wing for office. I’m talking about the base from which most Republican activity evolves. Former New Jersey U.S. Senator and 2000 Democratic presidential candidate Bill Bradley ~vrote a piece in the March 30, 2005, New York Times entitled ’[A Party Inverted," which explained that the GOP is structured like a pyramid - with the top being the president, who can be changed every four years, and the base being the rich conservative financiers and the Republican think tanks they finance. It’s those think tanks - like the Family Research Institute or the Heritage Foundation - that have armed the Republicans with the "facts and figures" they use.to advance their conservative agenda. These think tanks have been instrumental in casting us as demons and sinners in any of the myriad issues we fight for, from nondiscrimination laws to marriage equality. Just because the Republicans have policy institutes doesn’t mean that tactically it’s the wrong way to do things. Developing think tanks on LGBT issues - and, hopefully, the well-to-do donor base one needs to fund them - is crucial if we are to succeed in being recognized as first-class citizens. Lee Badgett, an out lesbian, who also happens to have a Ph.D. in economics from the University of California at Berkeley, understands how important academia can be in shaping public policy - especially the public policy that affects our everyday lives. Currently the research director of the Williams Institute at UCLA, Badgett founded what is considered the first LGBT academic think tank in the nation, the Institute for Gay and Lesbian Strategic Studies (IGLSS), in the mid-’90s when she was living in Washington, D.C. "Living in D.C., I saw how important those big think tanks were. They were the heart of the Republican resurgence, well-funded, strategically creative - they pulled the various conservative movements together," Badgett told me in a recent telephone interview. "Together with activists and academics, we formed IGLSS because we all saw we needed to have some kind of institution to bridge the big gap of what was happening in the academic world and the real world. We needed the facts and figures to fight back against the stereotypes and distortions from the right." When Badgett got a teaching job at the University of Massachusetts at Amherst, she brought IGLSS with her. As a separate not-forprofit, IGLSS was never formally associated with the school, but her colleagues were quite supportive. More of a virtual think tank than a bricks-and-mortar institution, IGLSS published a number of groundbreaking studies that have helped the community move forward. 22 the STAR "\Ve’ve done a lot of family-related research on domestic-partner benefits and the economics of marriage. We looked at the fiscal impact same-sex marriage would have on states," she said. "\Vvre’ve studied the psychological impact of antigay policies and the strategies to overcome them. We’ve also received funding from the Ford Foundation to do methodological research on how to ask questions about sexual orientation - it’s not as easy as you’d think." Badgett has successfully brought the Williams Institute and IGLSS together. "We’re talking about it as more of joining of forces," she told me, but the reality is that IGLSS has merged with Williams, creating an even stronger, more academically rigorous think tank for our issues. Whether Badgett will remain on the West Coast is a bit up in the air. She and her partner, Elizabeth Silver, a legal services attorney, are wife and wife in Massachusetts, so California, while warmer, may not ultimately be the best place for them. Badgett still has a position waiting for her in the UMass-Amherst economics department. What will be in her future is more research on LGBT issues. "I’m sure that marriage will continue to be one of our biggest areas of research," she said. "Policy makers want to know what the impact on their own particular states will be. These issues are pertinent everywhere because we are everywhere. We’ll be asking whether marriage really makes a difference for gay people, and what does it mean for those who dofft get married." She said that employment discrimination is also on the research agenda, since only 17 states have nondiscrimination laws. "A lot of people think this is good time to focus on this issue again," she said. "\Ve’re still lacking data - for some reason, people don’t want to believe that antigay discrimination really exists." As LGBT people, we live that reality every day. We know discrimination exists; we know that civil unions give us second-class status. With researchers like Badgett and think tanks like Williams, the truth (facts) will inevitably set us free. www.ozarksstar.com Equality Center: Brunch & Blessings Sunday, February 18th A buffet brunch & live gospel entertainment will close out the Equality, Center Grand Opening weekend on Sunday, February 18, 2007. You’ll have not one, but two opportunities to enjoy this unique event for the LGBT & allied community: An 11:00 AM seating, as well as a 1:00 PM seating, will fill your stomach with a delicious brunch and bring you to your feet ,vith hand-clapping, foot-stomping inspiration. Tickets, $10 in advance, are available at the Equality Center, 621 E 4th Street in downtown Tulsa. Please visit www.okeq.org or call 918.743.4297 for more information on the events of the Grand Opening celebration Equality Center serving the LGBT & allied community since 1980. Oklahomansfor Equalio, (OkEq) seeks equal rightsfor Lesbian, Gg)’, Bis~’ual dr 7?ansgender (LGBT) individuals andfamilies through advocao; educatian, lord,’ares, alliances, and the operation ofthe Equali{y Center: Hdp Feed Your CommunisT! Become A Distributor. By Steve T. Urie What a difference volunteerism can make in a community. In 2005 Spirit of Christ MCC, a member church of the Universal Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches founded by Rev. Troy D. Perry, started serving the greater Joplin, MO community with a food program. One of the smallest MCC churches in the country and in the middle of the Bible Belt we found ourselves answering a call to provide lowcost, high value foods stuffs to people in our area. A large Christian church had previously worked with this program but gave up after being unsuccessful in maintaining a volunteer program large enough to serve the area. Spirit of Christ MCC with a membership of only 18 members took on the task and was the original site in Joplin. Angel Food Ministries is a non-profit, nondenominational organization dedicated to providing grocery relief to communities throughout the United States. Now serving 32 states it continues to grow as more people in different communities answer the need. www,ozarksstar.com The program is open to all people without restriction. It doesn’t matter what the need or socio-economic group; there is simply no qualifying. The program is set up to assist people to learn accountability by planning their food dollars, being responsible to pay for their food and to bring a box to take their food home in. A box of food (restaurant quality) will feed a family of four for about a week, two people for about two weeks and a single person for a month. host site is different but we continue to take checks, cash and are approved for Food Stamp EBT payments. Over half of our clients do not belong to our GLBT community and many of them have at times joined us for our Wednesday evening meal or Sunday service. Nothing but positive come from this good works being servants to our community. At Spirit of Christ MCC our volunteers will pack your food and carry it out to the car for you. We take orders on Wednesdays from 4:00 PM to 7:00 PM and Saturdays from 8:00 AM to 11:30 AM. Questions concerning sites in Tulsa, OK; the greater Joplin, MO area or Eureka Springs, AR may be directed to spiritofchrist@cableone.net or you can go to www.angelfoodministries. com/and look under host sites. Donations for food orders may be sent to Spirit of Christ MCC, PO Box 4711, Joplin, MO 64803. Angel Food’s groceries are sold in a quantity that can fit into a medium-sized box at $25 per unit. Each month’s menu is different than the previous month and consists of both fresh and frozen items with an average retail value of approximately $50. Comparison shopping has been done across the country in various communities using a wide range of retail grocery stores and has resulted in the same food items costing from between $42 and $78. Organizations wanting to become a host of the program go to www.angelfoodministries for an application. Or call 770-267-7015 or 888-819-3745. ENADINE MES, ORANGES CHERRIES 1. Add all ingr with ice. ..... . ~ 2. Shake well. 3. Chil martini glasses with ice and water. 4. Pour into martini glasses and garnish with fruit. ENJOY The STAR 23 OKLAHOMA COUNTY By James Nimrao Photo by ½"ctor Gorin: Jim Roth taking oath Former Oklahoma State Attorney General Robert Hemy administers oath, partner Worth in background. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Since the January 2nd swearing-in ceremony, two-thirds of Oklahoma County has been in the safe hands of the returning veteran Jim Roth, district 1; and the rookie Ray Vaughn, district 3. Later in the day, Mr.. Roth was re-elected for the third year in a row as chair of the County Commission. In his remarks from the stage Mr. Roth thanked the voters for re-hiring him and his team. He continued by renewing his commitment to doing good by the strangers ,ve will never meet the physically ~nd mentally ill, the downtrodden, the homeless those who rarely have an advocate in elected office. In his turn Mr. Vaughn pledged to run an office in a professional manner without personal disputes. Commissioners Roth and Vaughn, along with most of the County officers, are keen to restore the county budget board which will bring back greater scrutiny of tax dollar expenditures; this oversight board was abolished two years ago by Commissioners Brent Rinehart and Stan Inman. This action played a major role in removing Stan Inman from office. The remaining Commissioner, Brent Rinehart, district 2, was in attendance at the ceremony and seemed to be listening intently to the comments being made. Mr. Rinehart has proven to be divisive and contrary during the first two years of his term. He now has two good examples to work with. Should he wish to run for a second term, he’ll have to be a quick study and clean up his act in the less than two years remaining to him on the County Commission. Time will tell. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 25 Salutations Kittens Once more too Uncle Mikey’s take on all things Queer. February here again, bringing us another chance at being a twinkle in that someone’s special eye, this Valentines Day. While some believe in saying it with roses, Uncle has always been fond of unconventional tokens of affection. A bouquet of flavored lubes and massage oils always brought a little warmth my way. Yes, however you choose to say I love you, or what was your name again, whatever the case may be, Tis the month oflovin’. Let’s see what others have on their mind this chilly February. Dear Uncle Mikey. I am seriously thinking of asking the man I have been with for a year now to marry me. I l~ow a lot of guys do not think even a commitment ceremony means much since we lack the rights as those in the straight world; however, I truly am in love with this man. He has brought so much into my life, and I am ready to settle down and spend my life with him alone. How should I pop the question? Ready to Pop Dearest Jiffy, Kitten, have you come to the right place. You know you just would not believe how maW times I have used that line. The key to a successful proposal is romance. This is a serious question in which you want to convey the intense love and commitment you hold for this person. Personalize the moment with an activity you two share, making it an unforgettable moment in time, one the two ofyou will always share. Most of all do convey the love you have in your heart for him. All other matters will fall into place. Smooches_ Uncle Mikey Uncles third husband popped at the bathhouse. Imagine my surprise in the shower room, when he handed me that shiny steel ring. Tt~at was a night, I will never forget. I asked the gentleman I was entertaining in that moment to hold the ring while I rewarded that man of mine. It ,vas a night the three of us never did forget. I swear I get all misty just thinking of it. Uncle Mikey, I am twenty-four years old and an avid fan of the rodeo. I want to work the circuit one day. Hmvever, none of my friends shares my lust for the pastime and they give me a hard time for it. I do not care for club hoping or the typical gay lifestyle. How can I show them the pride and adventure of this lifestyle? Rodeo boy Dear Rodeo Boy, Kitten, the rodeo is an adventuresome good time. You cannot allow others to dictate your likes and dislikes. Sometimes a man must stand-alone for ,vhat he desires or believes in. If you want them to except your choices, than you must have a solid conviction, which will magnify your confidence through inner self. Uncle has loved many a cowboy in his time, and yes, Virginia the south will rise again! Saddle up young one its rodeo time. Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I feel like no one in the gay world understands me. I am looking for someone to share my life. I want someone who can find contentment in loving only one. I have been hurt so many times, and so many men have walked over me using me as their doormat. I do not think there are truly any monogamous men left in the world, no wonder the straight world sees us the way they do. We bring it on ourselves. Am I the only one seeing this? Tired of being gay Dear Zinfandel, Darling, may I offer you some serious to go with that Wine? Sweetheart and I say this with all of the love in Uncles heart, (taxes and fees not included. Excluded in some states), you have to stop sounding like such a victim if you truly want people to stop treating you as though. I mean just by the time I finished your words; I was ready to sleep with your best friend and steal your escalade. Sometimes we must help ourselves before we can look or expect others to see us for who we really are beneath the emotional mess we have allowed ourselves to become. Of course, uncle means you by us, as I am too fabulous to allow victimization here. It sounds as if you seriously need a makeover. Also, one last matter. Kitten, we are not being gay. We are gay, don’t allow self-loathing to become the next cross you carry. Smooches- Uncle Mikey Well Kittens, I fear I have just exhausted myself. I must refresh, maybe have a twinky or two. You know, I am a manabectic. It is important prescribed by my personal physician of love, that I keep my romantic strength up. Yea, that is it. Proving my love for Queerdom one man at a time-Next! Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com CLUB IVIAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikk~ THE COPA: Open Talent wlShemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournanient 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm HIDEA\VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: !vide Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lan~-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pro SUNDAY Fe BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Cada Lee Love Shmv 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm HIDEA~,VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm TNT’s: Super Bowl Part)" wlfood. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest !2am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Shiny t0:30pm sharp. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Eril&s THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pra Febm~~ 9 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Show !0pm. HIDEAWAY: Mate Dancers, 9pro SATURDAY February" 10 THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Break~st Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm SUNDAY February 11 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Eritd~ Show 10:30pm HIDEA"~SAY: Dominique LaRtle’s Girls Night Out, 10:30pro. MONDAY February 12 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight. VALENTINES DAY BAMBOO LOUNGE: RED PARTT! Karaoke 9pro TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Shiny t0:30pm FINISHLINE: DartToumament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pro sharp. TNT’s: Black & White Valentines Party, Open 7pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show ~v/Rachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Mardi Gras Part),!~ "\Vhat will you do for beads" THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Showg:30pm HIDEA~VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Mardi Gras Party! "What xvill you do for beads" THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm Kns Koht Sho 8pm. Mardi Gras QUEEN & KING Contest, CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pro HIDEA’~VAY: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Kamoke 9pm. FAT TUESDAY THE COPA: Strip-O~Contest ¯ Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pm sharp. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/ Rachael Erikks THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pm HIDEA’WAY: Male Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am HIDEA\VAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pm. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Shiny 10pm THE COPA: Rachad Erikks Shiny 10:30pm HIDEAWAY: Male Dancers, 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm, THE COPA: Strip-OffContest Midnight¯ BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro HIDEAWAY: Bobby Page Talent Show 10:30pm sharp. After Dark is a free secvice m our advertisers and is the responsibility of the advertiser to inform the STAR in www.ozarksstar.com writing of updates, addkions or discontinued events. Nxe STAR is not responsible for accuracy. the STAR 27 "Roll up your sleeves, Capricorn!" We still have that Jupiter-Uranus square shaking things up. Mars and the Sun are helping us to see ways to turn surprises into opportunities. Ha~d work, foresight, and cooperation come a little more easily and will prove well worth the effort. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Hard work wilt pay off in any event. Utilizing your connections and looking ahead wilt help a lot. Coping innovatively with the inevitable snafus will get you recognized as a brilliant achiever. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Friends and their demands are getting complicated, leading to political conflicts. Going to bed with pals is not one of your values, so play that card carefully, if at all. Stay true to your own values and goals, and let your friends work around them. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Your partner’s efforts to promote your career will lead to some interesting new developments - perhaps a new career? Taking a long-range perspective and keeping your baby busy in bed can avoid trouble and help inspire your own career moves. CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Urges for novelty and experimentation can lead you into risky territory. Sexplay with someone you love and trust is the safest way to satisfy that desire. Exotic strangers can be great fun, but those you meet now may have some awful disease. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Real creativity takes discipline. This is one of those times you can be more creative by focusing your attention on the mundane tasks at hand and being supportive of your partner. Out of these everyday details will come inspiration and joy. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): It’s a great time for fussing around the house and decorating. Doing it with your partner, or even a roommate, can vastly improve your relationship. Play with new and different ideas; you don’t need to commit to any of them. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Explore some new, expressive outlet or take a class to brush up on neglected skills. Grab the first mad impulse in your head, think it through, make a plan, and let reality throw you into "Plan B." It will work out better than your "Plan A." SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Practicing domestic economy does not mean hitting the sales and spending "less" money. Sort treasures from trash, but take a creative look at the latter. There should be some new life or good resale value in your old junk. SAGITTARlUS (November 22 - December 20): You are especially articulate now on matters of family or community finances. Work on those issues with others in your tribe; 28 the STAR alone, you could invite disaster. Even without broaching the subject, talking with relatives will provide grounding and insight. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January t9): Volunteer work is ultimately about enlightened self-interest. Even if the point is ostensibly to help others, you’ll quickly see what you have to gain from your "altruistic" efforts. Roll up your sleeves and dig in! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Recent financial upsets could be opportunities in disguise. Confirm inspirations and hunches by talking with friends you trust about such matters. Your own brilliance may carry the day, but only if you acknowledge the efforts of others. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Friends will draw notice your way when you least expect or want it. Relax and accept the attention with good grace. It could prove very helpful for your career. Professionally or otherwise, your reputation will be boosted. SPIRIT OF CHRIST JOPLIN, MO FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Tesdng appointment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our Community Dinner Every Wed. 6pm just $4.00. No one is turned a~vay. www.ozarksstar.com Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org- .888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) Diversity Pride Events .............. www.diversitypride.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main. 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante.... 309 W VanBuren....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St- -479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill--- 105 E VanBuren....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton........ t7B Spring Street .......... 479-981-6060 Tiki Torch. 75 S. Main Street. - -479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren. 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant--- 412 W. Dixon--- 479-442-3515 Condom Sense ........ 418 W. Dickson...... -479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave- - 479-521-0009 Passages ......930 N. College Ave- - 479442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave-- - 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads.......1004 1/2 Garrison Ave........ 479-783-9988 Klub XLR8 ......1022 Dodson Ave- - 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street .... 1021 Jessie Rd...............501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... www.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd- -501-666-6900 Sidetracks --- 415 Main St--North L.R. 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.-- 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave- 50!-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway- 620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut- -Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40..... 3201 S. Hillside......316-682-5494 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg Dr- -316-942-1244 Club Glacier......... 2828 E. 31st South......316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (417) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ......Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn....www.40thstreetinn.com.......816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B-- 300 Benton Blvd 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s....805 W. 39th St- -816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge..... 424 Boonville Ave.....417-831-4700 GLO Comm. Ctr---518 E. Commerical- 4!7-869-3978 JR’s Nightclub.... 504 E. Commerical- 417-831-9001 Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive -417-8644572 Ronisuz Place....82t College- 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books....104 Sunset .............. 580-242-6838 Priscilla’s........ 48!0-A West Garriott- ...... 580-233-5511 Oklahoma, Law,on (580) Ingrids Bookstore..... 1124 NW Cache Rd......580-353-1488 Oklahoma, McAlester (918) McPride- - POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B- POBox 270642...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ......4015 N. Penn 405-606-7000 Boom Room....... 2807 NW 36th St........ -405-601-7200 Border’s Books...... 3209 NW Expressway.... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse...... 4001 N. Penn .......... 405-525-7766 Club Rox.......3535 NW 39th Expwy.........405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box.....3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-9464438 Church of Open Arms......3131 N. Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa -2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave....... 405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy....... 405-525-0730 Gushers Restaurant.....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn .........2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St-405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp ........405-947-2351 Hi-Lo Club ....... 1221 NW 50th............ 405-843-1722 Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- 405-524-5733 Ledo -2200 NW Expwy.... - ..... 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St - ~ ..... 405-68!-5044 Partners- 2805 NW 36th St ......... 405-942-2199 Pec’s...........3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St........... 405-525-5165 Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw........ 405-947-2351 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- 405-601-3711 The Park. 2125 NW 39th St- 405-5284690 The Rockies...... 3201 N. MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th 405-947-2351 Tramps- .2201 NW 39th. - 405-521-9888 Ziggy’s- - - 4005 N. Penn- 405-521-9999 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine Border’s Book Store--- 2740 E. 21st- Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale Club 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder - - Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston .......... Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan Cosmo Care..... 67.46 S. Memorial -918459-0497 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI -918-834-1051 GLBT Comm. Ctr- - - - 621 E. 4th Street- 918-7434297 Hideaway Lounge..... 11730 E. 11th- -918437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st- 918-749-8378 Jazz’s Lounge...... 426 S. Memorial ,- 918-836-8544 Midtown- 319 E. 3rd.............. 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7!04 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave.........918-585-9552 Priscilla’s -7925 E. 41st.............918-6274884 Priscilla’s 5634 W. Skelly - - - 918446-6336 Priscilla’s 11344 E. 11th 9184384224 Priscilla’s 2333 E. 71st.............918499-1661 Renegades. 1649 S. Main ........... 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd- 918-627-1505 St. Michaels Alley......3324-L E 31st- 918-745-9998 Sterling & Co. Salon- - -1606 E.15th St.- ........ 918-742-9999 Sappho’s........ 6373-C E 31st St - - 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI. .918-8344194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd -918-592-1188 TNT’s - 2114 S. Memorial. 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd........ 2630 E. 15th- 918-293-0304 918-836-8700 918-712-9955 918-494-2665/ 918-584-9944 918-584-9494 .918-835-3301 ~ETt£ QUIT I~UNIGHIN~ OUI~G~L:VEG RDR B~tN~, (~A"/t ~TOP AND G’1"tART I~MBI:~&CIN~ AbL. 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Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, February 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 2 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource February 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Douglas Glenn Michael Dee Kay Massey Paul Wortman Carlotta Carlisle Vicotr Gorin Greg Gatewood Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Michael Hinzman Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Chaz Ward Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwest Missouri Western Arkansas Southeast Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, January 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 1 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/206 The Star Magazine, March 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 3 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/209 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/205 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/aa82cbbda58a8f60a735cb83dfd9d9dd.jpg 2485d9e2417fa32b2d4adde09d9df921 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/4a6a2ca907ad958b0e1ffc2d21c76426.pdf b0d512826d927ba9a896bbe54263bbfe PDF Text Text dAN UARY ~ 1 !Y ~nd Business Building From �2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Dear Chaz, It was exciting and thrilling to see your 3rd ,~mniversary Issue of the Star! Having lived from the Southern most tip of Florida to Northern California, this is just the best publication ever. Your smiling personality continues to spread it’s enthusiasm in this tremendous endeavor. Our community in Joplin, MO and Eureka Springs, AR benefit so much from your publication. I have people in both cities asking ~vhen the next issue is coming out almost as soon as they receive the current one. Ti~ank you so much for a job well done for the four states. As you brmvse through this months issue, you’ll notice numerous articles on fund-raisers, benefit shows, volunteers ,vorking to build and just people helping people. GLBT people who are giving their time, money and effort to help make another human life better. Many who need help themselves. Giving, is the key issue. This past month seeing and hearing about the many events to raise money for those living with HIV/AIDS, food drives, toys for kids, meals for the home-bound and ~o many other efforts, all within our own community, reminded me of how very proud I am to be a gay man. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could maintain that giving spirit for the entire year and not just for the holiday season. The spirit should not end on December 26th. Giving, to support those people and organizations who are fighting for equality not only for GLBT’s, but for everyone is another important issue we have to face in this new year. I am very optimistic for 2007. Many have predicted this will be the year we see tremendous gains in equal rights for Gay/Lesbian people. But, we must do our part to insure this happens. We voted! And you see the results. "We can make a difference." This is the year to build on our past achievements and open doors for future generations. Rev. Steve T. Urie, Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin, MO Chaz, I just saw this month’s magazine and I wanted to send you a note saying "congratulations" on your third anniversary. It has been an honor and a privilege to work with you the past few months. I want to thank you for your important contribution to the GLBT con> munity and I wish you much success for many, maW years to come! Joe LaFountaine Board Secretary Little Rock Capitol Pride Dear Editor: As we go to press we got the news that the Governor of New Jersey had signed the bill granting gay and lesbian couples all rights of marriage but the title. This is the third state offering civil unions to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. It’s starting to happen! On behalf of everyone involved with the STAR, I want to wish all of you a great and prosperous New Year. May your lives be filled with the spirit. Sincerely, C. D. Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief www.ozarksstar.corn I live in Texas and get to both Tulsa and Oklahoma City on business about once a month and never know xvhich bar to go to on any particular night. I noticed in the December issue of the STAR that you have begun to run a special page "AFTERDARI<[" where the bars let everyone knoxv exactly what is going on each night. This is certainly a tremendous help to anyone not living in Oldahoma City or Tulsa and most likely even a great help for those who do! What a great idea! I alxvays read the STAR online and enjoy it. Keep up the good xvork. Sincerely, Randy Cunningham Dallas, Texas the STAR 3 �NEW# N@N{N, NN~# N~NN, New Direction, Laura Belmonte, President of Otdahomans for Equality Speaks to the Community. Doug Ireland "Why should being Gay be a crime" "The Wine Rack" Cabernet Sauvlgnon on review- page 16 A retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Who was Joseph Beam? Gay Travelers "Casa de San Pedro" Otit of Town "Buenos Aires" Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Laura Belmonte ............. 5 Commentary.............. 11 OUT in Arkansas ........... 12 Inspiring Fitness ........... 13 Past Out .................. 14 Tulsa GLBT Center News ..... 15 The Wine Rack ............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions ............ 22 Star Scene ................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes ............... 28 Distributors ............... 29 Cartoons .................. 30 Classifieds ................ 31 New Tulsa GLBT Center Opens This Month - page 15 4 day Celtic Festival Eureka Springs - page 12 STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK ~ NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVlLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PtTTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �NEW HOME. NEW NAME. NEW D RECT ON. An amazing year has just passed for the organization formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights / TOHR! As I write, a dedicated team of volunteers is putting the final touches on Phase One of our marvelous new center; Marc Acuff, our new coordinator of the Tulsa Pride and Diversity Celebration is securing corporate sponsors; and the Capital Fund Trustees and the Facilities Committee are drafting new documents and policies to ensure that our building is financially secure and well-maintained for decades to come. From our brilliant IT crew to the immensely creative Design Group, I an awed by the talented and generous individuals who are helping me lead Oklahomans for Equality into an exciting new era. Why the name change? Lots of reasons. For one, Tulsa Otdahomans for Human Rights was an offshoot on an Oklahoma City-based organization that folded over twenty years ago " hence there is no need to saddle ourselves with the awkward Tulsa Oklahomans construct. Another reason is that human rights had a very different connotation in 1980 than it does now. I have often been asked whether our organization does work like Amnesty International or Human Rights Watch. So, we searched for alternatives. We contracted a public relations consultant. We formed focus groups. We spoke to key stakeholders. We listened to a host of opinions. And, after much deliberation and careful consideration, we adopted a new name, a name that encapsulates who we are and what we want: Oklahomans for Equality. Equality is the core of the gay rights struggle. We want equal employment rights, equal housing and health care access, equal pension and veteraffs benefits, equal treatment before the law, and equal legal standing for our intimate, committed relationships. We want equality for all gay, lesbian, bisexuals, and transgender Oklahomans, not just Tulsans. Whatever their race, class, gender, religion, age, or ability status, we want all the members of our diverse and beautiful community to have the liberties promised each and every U.S. citizen. We want equality for our allies too. We cannot expect them to support us if we do not support them. We cannot ignore our common interests. We must harness the collective power of our causes and constituencies. Proudly serving "i\lisa & OKC\s GLBT communities since 1982 "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BESTproperties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 City, OK 73116 How will we achieve these goals? By forming new partnerships that enable us to serve seniors, youth, those in physical or mental crisis. By offering programs that appeal across the entire spectrum of our community. By oldcastle.com broadening our volunteer resources so that any Oklahoraan can call our GLBT helpline "the only one in the state" and find a gay-friendly doctor, a supportive counselor, or simply a place to meet GLBT people. By expanding our advocacy efforts to include allies throughout the state so that we can mobilize hundreds of people for elections, lobbying days, and combating anti-gay and anti-trans discrimination at the local level. We have so much to do and we’ll soon be doing it in one of the largest GLBT centers in the United States. We at Oklahomans for Equality wish you a Happy New Year and express our gratitude for the gift of your support. In Solidarity, Laura Belmonte President, Oklahomans for Equalit3~ (OkEq) www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �JOHANNESBURG, South Afi’ica__ Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls got hitched Friday in South Africa’s first gay wedding, a day after the government made same-sex marriage legal. The couple, who run a guest lodge and animal rehabilitation center on the southwestern coast, donned their game-ranger outfits and went down to the local home affairs office in the town of George. In front of marriage officer Petro Kruger they exchanged rings and were pronounced a married couple. LOAVES AND F SHE8 FUND-RAISER BRIGHTENS THE HOUDAY8 AGNR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__On December 4-5 the Copa Club located in the Habana Hotel celebrated the 16th Anniversary of one of Oklahoma’s most heartwarming fund-raisers, the annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner and Show. This year it was dedicated to the memory of longtime activis.t Keith Smith who passed away November 20,2006. Featuring community icons Sonja Martinez, John Beebe, ToW Sinclair, Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald & Debbie Davies, the benefit raised OVER $5600 for this Catholic Charities ministry which provides meals & other assistance for those home bound by HIV. Judy Riley stated. "I am overcome by the generosity of the people who come to this event every year in support of our brothers and sisters who are living with HIV/MDS. Words cannot express the depth of our appreciation and gratitude to Sonja and all the performers, Nick Post and the Copa Staff, and also all the benefactors." Joplin Organia÷rs Announce Formation Of Long Awaited Gay Lesbian Center. JOPLIN, MO The Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center kick-offdinner was a rousing success on November 20th. Fifty people ate & drank great food, made new friends and saw old ones, and embraced the Center’s goal to raise money to build a community center. Guests were entertained by "Queer Duck," the Mike Reiss video shorts, Charlie Smith, Treasure Love, and the fab-u-lous Miss Latina Carlisle (Miss Gay Joplin 2002), who brought the house down with her version of"Somewhere Over the Rainbo~v." Door prizes included DVD’s of"Dante’s Cove" and "Fixing Frank," tank-top shirts from A & E’s original December movie, "Wedding Wars," and various CD’s, including music from Cirque de Soleil. Greetings and best wishes were offered by leaders of UCC Family Fellowship, the Joplin Junior Chamber (~e Jaycees), Wal-Mart’s Office of Diversig; and Shekinah Glory Church. President Lee McDaniel spoke about the need for a center here in conservative, rural southwest Missouri to encourage people, especially our youth, to be who they are - and to knmv that we are just normal, everyday people. He reported that the Center has joined the national association of gay & lesbian centers and plans to join the Joplin Chamber of Commerce in order to increase its visibility. The Center also is a member of GLAAD and HRC. The Center extends its thanks to all those involved and to all who attended. Special thanks to all the volunteers, the performers, UCCFF for rental of its building, Mr. David Garrison for the terrific food, the Karpel Group, Corporate Edge Marketing, and to Lee McDaniel at Gold Key Mortgage and Carberry Development Group. The Center’s next major fundraising events will be in February and June 2007. Details will follmv via www.myspace.com/gaylesbiancenter and http://360.yahoo.com/gaylesbiancenter. For more info, please email or call the Center’s President, Lee McDaniel, at gaylesbiancenter@ya~hoo.com or 417-622-7821. The Center, founded in October 2006, may be reached at PO Box 4383, Joplin, MO 64803-4383. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The board of directors of the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has awarded grants to nine local non-profit organizations totaling $50,100. Grantees and their respective award amounts are: Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network (RAIN) $5000; AIDS Support Program/The Winds House $5700; Red Rock Behavioral Health Services/Red Rock North $5400; Northern Lights Alternative $6100; Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma $6100; Guiding Right $5400; Other Options $6400; Latino Community Development Agency $5000; and the HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project of Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma $5000. Since 1998, the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has distributed more than $333,000 in grants to local non-profit organizations providing critically needed services to individuals living with HIV or AIDS. SAVE THE DATE FORTHE 2007 AIDS WALK OF OKLAHOMA CITY: Sunday, September 30th at the Myriad Botanical Gardens. 6 the STAR New-Jersey Denies Gay Marriage, Passes Civi Unions. TI~NTON, N.J. - Nexv Jersey’s governor signed legislation Thursday December 21 st giving gay couples all the rights and responsibilities of marriage alloxved under state law, but not the fltle. When the la\v goes into effect Feb. 19, Ne~vJersey xvill become the third state offering civil re’dons to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �437 E, i41st Street Gtenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY 8 the ,STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �Tu san°s B÷s end With 40 Bikes Chi d ÷n Of Pa ÷nts Living With H V/A D$o By Greg Steele By Victor Gorin P,6oto: 40 Bikes and over 3"00 other items f!lled the main bar of the climb. TULSA, OK No it’s not a bicycle shop and it’s not a Walmart store. It’s the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. Bar owners Terry Hood and Stan Smith put the word out in early December that their annual Christmas Drive for the Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. food pantry would not be just another food collection. "Ihis year was for the kids. The goal was a bike for all 30 children of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. clients. In an interview with Stan Smith he told us "The response was so incredible we had the 30 bicycle’s within a week and more were promised. We then called RAIN to see if any of their clients had children, there were five he was told. We have 35 bikes and five extra that I’m sure the two organizations will find homes for." Smith said. In addition to the bicycles, toys, non-perishable food items, toiletries, maW other gifts were donated. Well over 300 items filled the main bar of the club. The Tulsa Rough Riders also held a raffle and donated the proceeds. The 30 children of "/\~sa C.A.R.E.S. clients ages are 6 girls and 5 boys under the age of seven. 7-11 years of age, 3 female and 4 male. Ages 12-15 there are 4 girls and 8 boys. Some are themselves HIV positive but all are affected by the difficult lives of their parents living with HIV/AIDS. The majority of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. and RAIN HIV/AIDS clients are living below the poverty line and don’t have the means to provide a decent Christmas for their children. \VTe talked with Michael at Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. after the truck loads of gifts and food items had been delivered and he told us, "We thought it was going to be just another Christmas for the kids, and then these folks come along with this wonderful gift. It will certainly make a big difference for them on this special day of the year for children" There is going to be a lot of happiness and smiling faces in the homes of those who have so much hardship. 10 the STAR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Club Rox located in the Hollywood Hotel and Suites held a Masquerade Ball fund-raiser for Red Rock Saturday, December 16. Featuring entertainer Alison Scott, it was organized by Hollywood crew member Beaux Leaf, proceeds from the fund-raiser would go to help Red Rock deliver meals to home bound people living with HIV/MDS. The event was great success and for a very worthy cause. Pictured above is an anonymous donor who gave $100. SPECIAL WORSHIP CELEBRATION HONORING DR. KING AND THE GLBT COMMUNITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___On Sunday, January 14 at 10:45 a.m. and 3 p.m. Church of the Open Arms will host a special service with a renowned guest preacher, the Reverend Dr. Randall C. Bailey. He is a professor at the Interdenominational Theological Center in Atlanta, has lectured throughout the United States and abroad, and also has gained attention with his recent article, "Sanctified Hatred: Why Banning Same Sex Marriage is Wrong." This service is co-sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign, P-Flag OKC and the Peace House, and the public is invited. The theme says it all, "Peace ~vith Justice for M1- God has a Dream." Human rights leaders Clara Luper and the Reverend Orra Compton will be honored at the service. ~xis will be a landmark service, honoring not only the late Dr. King, but all people seeking equality including the GLBT community. It will coincide with the Oklahoma City Martin Luther King Parade which will be held the following day beginning at 2 p.m., at N.W. 7th Street & Robinson. www.ozarksstar.com �a crib÷? In 75 countries being gay is still a crime. French activist Louis-Georges Tin, founder of the International Day Against Homophobia, hopes to change that by having the United Nations adopt a resolution calling for the decriminalization of homosexuality worldwide. Tin spoke to The Advocate ahead of a press conference in Paris where he announced the news. By Doug Ireland On November 17 the Paris-based International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) will launch a global campaign for a United Nations resolution declaring that homosexuality should no longer be considered a crime anywhere in the world. The proposed U.N. resolution is the brainchild of IDAHO’s founder, Louis-Georges Tin, 32, a professor and author of a number of books (including the Dictionary of Homophobia) who is also a rising star of France’s emerging black movement for equality. not as utopian a project as it might seem at first glance: In October this year, the U.N. Working Group on Arbitrary Detention declared that the imprisonment in Cameroon of 11 men who’d been caught in a raid on a gay bar on charges of homosexuality was "an arbitrary deprivation of liberty" that violates the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights. That’s encouraging. How will you and IDAHO work for its passage? The campaign for the U.N. resolution will have two main components. An external media campaign to raise awareness within public opinion and governments will begin with the November 17 unveiling of a petition--for which VIP signatures are now being gathered--on IDAMO’s \geb site, ww~v.idahomophobia.org. Also, a host of international and country organizations have already signed on as cosponsors of the campaign for the resolution, like the International Lesbian and Gay Association and France’s Ligue des Droits de l’Homme. The second battle has to be waged within the new U.N. Council on Human Rights. \re have to lobby the states that are members and ask them to support the resolution or at least not to vote against it. We are talking with the government of South Africa, which is a member of the council to sponsor the resolution. South Africa was the first country in the world to include the principle of nondiscrimination against gays and lesbians in its constitution-and their sponsorship would show that LGBT rights are not just a "Western issue." What exactly does the resolution say? Tin will simultaneously release a list of hundreds of VIP endorsers of the proposed U.N. resolution, including a gaggle of Nobel Prize winners (among them, Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa, Dario Fo of Italy, Elfriede Jelinek of Austria, and Amartya Sen of India); political leaders, including two former French prime ministers (Laurent Fabius and Michel Rocard); academics (such as Princeton University President Shirley Tilghman and world-famous sociologist Richard Sennett); entertainers (such as Academy Award-winning actress Meryl Streep, David Bowie, Edward Norton, Mike Nichols, Lily Tomlin, actor-playwright Wallace Shawn, humorist Bruce Vilanch, and Spanish actress Victoria Abril); and a host of renowned writers, including Doug Wright, Jon Robin Baitz, Salman Rushdie, Gore Vidal, Sir Tom Stoppard, ToW Kushner, Martin Amis, Ian McEwan, Russell Banks, Bernard-Henri Levy, John Berendt, Lady Antonia Fraser, Christopher Hitchens, Michael Chambon, Peter Carey, and Edmund White. Getting the U.N. to commit to universal decriminalization of homosexuality is destined to become the central objective of the international LGBT movement for the next decade. Tin spoke to The Advocate. What chance do you think this resolution has of passing the U.N.? Many people believe such a resolution is beyond reach. I personally don’t. Why? Because there is already U.N. jurisprudence in our favor. In 1994, Mr. Toonen, a citizen of Tasmania, who had been condemned for same-sex relationships, won his case in what was then the U.N. Commission on Human Rights--it said his arrest was a breach of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and of the right of privacy. So we just ask the U.N. to extend this jurisprudence to other countries--75 in the world!--where same-sex relationships are still forbidden. There’s recent evidence that this is www.ozarksstar.com The text I wrote asl~ for a universal decriminalization of homosexuality. It is very clear, easy, and simple, and based solely on the articles of the U.N.’s Universal Declaration of Human Rights that were used to justify the decision in the Toonen case. I did not want to write a philosophical text on the issue, because an argument that may be relevant in one country will certainly be irrelevant in another one. We need a common language to support human rights. What could be more relevant and more international than the Universal Declaration of Human Rights itself?. Why did you choose this moment to launch this campaign? ~l}le Toonen case was ruled on 12 years ago, soI thought it was high time that LGBT organizations decided to take advantage of it at the U.N. To be honest, I fail to see any issue that could be more important than this one for LGBT organizations. On May 17, 1990, the World Health Organization decided that homosexuality could no longer be regarded as a disease, which is why I chose that date for the International Day Against Homophobia. The first IDAHO was only celebrated in 2005, so we really couldn’t do anything before that--but now our organization has spread to more than 50 countries and been endorsed by the European Parliament, so I think we are ready to go farther. Look, gays and lesbians around the world cannot wait any longer for their love to cease being made a crime. Many are in jail, or at risk of being jailed. Some are being killed. 7his has to stop now. Ireland is a veteran political journalist who can be reached through his blog, DIRELAND, at Direland.typepad.com/direland/ the STAR 11 �Four Day Celtic Festiva Eureka Springs EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ PaperMoon Attractions presents Celtic Connections Eureka, a four-day festival celebrating Celtic heritage, music, poetry, food and drink as the clans overtake the tiW hamlet of Eureka Springs January 18 - 21, 2007. Timed for the birthday bash for the great Robert Burns, the "Bard of Scotland", Celtic Connections Eureka calls to celto-philes from the seven nations hither and yon. tartan attire, the seven Celtic nations, demonstrate musical instruments, and more. "11artanic, the bagpipe comedy theater band from Houston who took Eureka Springs by storm last January; returns for Friday night’s concert at the City Auditorium. If you’re not planning to go to Arizona in February, this may be your last chance to enjoy the amazing Tartanic experience. Throughout the weekend guests will have a chance to enjoy all the workshops, multiple music sessions and concerts, "The Gypsy Faire" vendor market, along with Celtic-flavored special offerings by area pubs and restaurants. All-Day Tickets are: $28 for Thursday including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Friday’s events (without the Burns Supper); $45 or $80 per couple for Friday’s events, including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Saturday’s events. For more information and to purchase tickets online see www. EurekaCelts.com or call 866-363-9545. In these Ozark Highlands you’ll immerse yourself in the color and heritage of this rich world culture, as entertainers, crafters and historians from far and way create an experience designed to enrich your appreciatior{ and knowledge of Celtic traditions. The traditional Robert Burns Night Suppers are scheduled for Thursday and Friday evenings, with the Friday night dinner featuring a few extra touches including music and stories by Ed Miller, modern bard of Scotland and Scottish folksong preservationist. Both evenings’ dinners are hosted by the historic 1886 Crescent Hotel Crystal Dining Room where the setting provides the Castle-like backdrop for all the pomp and circumstance. This annual, around-theworld birthday tribute to the life, ~vorks and spirit of Robert Burns is the 9th year for this event in Eureka Springs. The evening promises highland pipes, poetry and pride, the traditional Scottish dinner with roast beef and haggis, the drinking of Scotch whiskey and the recitation of Burns works, along with general merry-making and songsinging. "Robert Burns was truly the voice of the Scots. Any ethnic group will collect around a cultural voice and for the Scots who endured British oppression for centuries, Burns covered the whole spectrum of life in those ages," says Bruce Crabtree, author and historian, who will be performing "Robert Bruce’s March to Bannockburn" in traditional attire and full brogue. Crabtree will also present a workshop about the Gads during the festival, along with other workshop presenters who will discuss the Scots and Irish influence in the Ozarks, traditional 12 the STAR added Eureka Springs to thei~ growing fan base when they performed last year. Rowan will also perform Sunday morning at the Crescent Hotel’s Sunday Brunch. Also joining the event will be Arkansas Celts Tinker’s Dam and the Crooked Creek Irish Dancers from Harrison and award-winning Celtic Heartstrings Linda Brocldnton and Brenda Ramsey from Alexander playing traditional music on mountain dulcimer and flute. "Eureka Springs can look forward to a pretty unique act," said Adrian Walter, the band’s lead, who also teaches theatre and dance in Houston, Texas. "The audience will see that bagpipes can go way beyond funerals," he quipped. "It’s like a rock and roll unplugged bagpipe theatre show without a plot. We do a fully audience integrated show that goes against the usual band formula." ANNOUNCING 2007 D VERSITY WEEKEND DATES Eureka 8pdngs, Arkansas VALENTINE’S DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Feb 16, 2007 - Sunday, Feb 18, 2007 Tartanic will be right at home with the Eureka Springs culture. How does one describe Tartanic? "hnagine one dancer, six drums, six drones, 18 notes, fast fingers, high comedy, flying bagpipes, taste-defying stunts, scorching hot music played at over 120 beats per minute with driving speed and high volume, all brought to you by five men without pants." SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 Also on the bill with Tartanic is Beth Patterson, Celtic singer-songwriter from Ne~v Orleans. Patterson, whose sound and style has been compared to Loreena McKennitt, also performs on Saturday night at the City Auditorium with Ed Miller and with Rowan, a traditional Celtic trio from Kansas For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 who w~v.ozarksstar.com �4) Do not watch TV in the bedroom. 5) Sleep in a cooler than normal room. 6) Avoid excessive alcohol. It causes restless sleep. All work and no play make Jack a dull boy! You don’t exactly want to emulate Jack Torrance at the Overlook Hotel. I could spout off a whole slew of abominable statistics and enlighten you on how much more that people are now working than they were fifty years ago. But I won’t. You are certainly keenly aware of this situation. When time is at a premium, the factors most neglected are personal health, relationships with the kiddies, and marriage or romantic time with the significant other. Recreation and leisure should be important components of your daily schedule. Why do you think the Japanese live so long? They work so much less than us Americanos and they love their play time. You can make your millions by the age of 40 but it ain’t gonna help ya if the stress sends ya packing early for that plot of land in Boot Hill. Be sure to factor in some moderate sessions of shenanigans along life’s yellow brick road! in the morning and stress at night; stress is that thing I just can’t fight. Or can you? Happiness is knowing that you can control the impact stress has on your life. This is important since stress has been linked to 70% of all illnesses. In addition, stress is directly related to negative health behaviors such as alcohol and drug abuse, and to psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression. This is no good my friends! Pay close attention and I’ll make it all feel better! Most stress is caused by inadequate time management. What do you want out of life? Write it all down on paper and then go back and prioritize. You can’t do it all so you will need to leave some of the items on the editing floor. Make a schedule of what you want to do each day or week and then stick to this schedule like a dutiful liege. Monitor this schedule and make changes accordingly as time marches on. It sounds so doggone simple but most of you do not listen to this sage advice. YOu watch American Idol when you should be washing the dishes or you gossip ad infinitum with Patty and Selma when you should be giving the dog his much needed bath. Don’t waste time on this pettiness unless of course you like this pettiness and it is part of your schedule. When you don’t prioritize and you try to force 36 hours into a 24 hour day, the first item up for sale is sleep. Did you know that lions sleep about 20 hours each day. ~lhat is quite fascinating but you will not need exactly that much of the forty winks! The average human adult needs between seven and eight hours of repose per night. You might believe you can maintain much less sleep than that each evening but stress will eventually get the better of you over the years. The Grim Reaper wilt just bide his time. The following are numerous suggestions for pleasant dreams: 1) Go to bed at the same time each night. 2) Don’t exercise right before bedtime. 3) Avoid eating meals shortly before lights out. A light snack is fine. www.ozarksstar.com There are several relaxation techniques that might help you push your stress to the back of the line. The nominees for outstanding relief methods are the quick fix, prayer, and positive thinking. The quick fix means taking a five minute time out from the rat race. Go to a quiet spot, loosen your clothing, remove your shoes, and shut your eyes. Inhale deeply for about five seconds and then exhale slowly for about ten seconds. Repeat this several times. Now mentally picture something pleasant like a lake, a cloud, or Jamaica. Keep relaxing and breathe deeply. After five minutes, stretch briefly and head back to the real world with renewed vi.gor. The next technique is prayer. Studies have indicated that prayer can decrease blood pressure and can be a tremendous source of comfort. Prayer can provide confidence to function more effectively and thus reduce stress from your rigors of life. Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, Protestant, Wiccan, or Taoist. It makes no difference. Try embracing the power of prayer. Finally there remains positive thinking. This is simple but not always followed. Do whatever it takes to create a positive mood when you have excessive stress. You do not want to dwell on any negative feelings. Always picture the positive side of life. Those that do this are those who prosper. Stress can be indeed harmful; stress can be quite a mighty hell; Stress ye now know must be managed for ye to be well! Ron Blake is a Certified Personal Trainer and Owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or on the web at www.blakefitness.com. the STAR 13 �Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. aH hearts and fists and min~ds needed in this struggle or will this faggot be tossed into the fire?" was . osepb Beam? and relieving Black women Dom the role of primary nurturers in our commmxity;" he wrote. "For too tong we have expected from Black women that which we could only obtain from other men...I dare us to dream that we are xvorth wandng each other. Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act of the eighties." One source of inspiration for Beam xvas the work of black lesbian feminist writers such as Audre Lorde. "I dream of Black men loving and supporting other Black men, An activist as well as an author, Beam worked as a consultant for the Gay and Lesbian ~ask Force of tile American Friends Service Committee. He helped resurrect the flagging National Coalition of Black Lesbians and Gays - originally founded in 1978 - joining the executive committee and editing the organization’s journal, Black/Out. African-American author and activist Joseph Beam secured his place in GLBT literary history as the editor of In the Life, a groundbreaking anthology of works by black same-gender-loving men. Beam was born December 30, 1954, in Philadelphia. With his working-class parents struggling to ensure that their only child received a good education, he attended Catholic preparatory and high schools, where he was one of only a few black students. He later studied journalism at Franklin College, a small Baptist college in Indiana. Influenced by the civil rights and Black Power movements, he was an active member of the Black Student Union. After graduating in 1976, he pursued a Master’s degree in communications and stayed in the Midwest, working at odd jobs for a few years, before returning to his native city. Back in Philadelphia in the early 1980s, Beam got a job at Giovanni’s Room, a GLBT bookstore. He began writing news articles, personal essays, poetry, and short stories for publications such as _The Advocate, Body Politic, Gay Community News, and the New York Native, Much of his work reflected on the life experiences of black gay men, criticizing both the racism of the mainstream white gay and lesbian movement and the homophobia of the black community. In 1984, the Lesbian and Gay Press Association honored him with an award for outstanding achievement by a minority journalist. Beam also maintained ongoing correspondence with prisoners, which he later attributed to his "deep sense of my own imprisonment as a closeted gay m,an and an oppressed Black man." Having ensconced himself in the GLBT literary scene - and having met numerous 14 the STAR authors and community leaders - Beam was disappointed about the lack of black male voices. \York by white gay writers addressed three camps, he claimed: "the incestuous literati of Manhattan and Fire Island, the San Francisco cropped-moustache-clones, and the Boston-to-Cambridge politically correct radical faggots. None of them spoke to me as a Black gay man." While some of the leading lights of the Harlem Renaissance - such as Langston Hughes, Countee Cullen, and Richard Bruce Nugent - were knoxvn or believed to have been {gay or bisexual, Beam found that contemporary xvorks by black samegender-loving men were fexv and far between. "By mid-1983 1 had grown weary of reading literature by xvhite gay men," he xvrote. "More and more each day, as I looked around the xvell-stocked shelves of Giovanni’s Room...I wondered xvhere xw~s the work of Black gay men." Beam therefore began collecting material for his pioneering anthology, in many cases nurturing the budding talents of men who had never before ~vritten for publication. He said that In the Life, published by Alyson Publications in 1986, spoke for "the brothers whose silence has cost them their sanitT," as well as the "2,500 brothers who have died of AIDS." Beam regarded the book as a tool for organizing and community building. His oxvn essa}; "Brother to Broti~er," extolled friendship, love, and eroticism among black men as a means of self-affirmation and group solidarity in the face of the pain and anger that arose from dealing xvith a xvhite GLBT movement that failed to address the concerns of people of color, and a heterosexual black community, that refused to accept queer men. "I cannot go home as xvho I am and that hurts me deeply," he wrote. "Aren’t Beam died of complications related to AIDS in December 1988, just three days shy of his 34th birthday. Though his life was brief, Beam’s influence was far-reaching. He served as both an inspiration and a mentor, promoting the idea that "visibility is survival." After his death, Beam’s mother and his fi-iend Essex Hemphill completed a second anthology of black gay men’s writing, _Brother to Brother_ (1991), which Beam was working on xvhen he died. Hemphill also remembered Beam in a memorial poem, "When My Brother Fell": He burned out his pure life force to bring us a chance to love ourselves... For fiwther reading: Beam, Joseph (ed.). 1986. _in the Life: A Black Gay Anthologo,_ (Alyson). Harris, E. Lynn (ed.). 2004. _Freedom in this Village: Twenty-Five Years ofBlack Gay 2]/Ien’s Writing_ (Carroll & Graf). Hemphill, Essex (ed.). 1991. _Brother to Brother: New IN’itings by Black Gay Men_ (Alyson). www.ozarksstar.corn �over 3,000 GLBT tides. A new xveekly Legal Clinic and Counseling office is adjacent to the library. The David Bohnett CyberCenter has 10, flat-screen, DSL computer stations free to the public. The nexv, light-filled \Vellness Center, with planned yoga and meditation session and dance lessons \vill feature many new additional programs for the communi~: NEW CENTER OPENS gH S MONgH It’s been a long journe?; but the finish line is in sight. O -klahomans for Equality (OkEq) xvill open the permanent Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 621 E. 4th Street, this month January 2007. The new Center, at 18,000 square feet, is one of the largest in the nadon and will be filled with nexv OkEq community programs, meeting rooms and spaces for community organizations, reception areas, educational, legal 8¢ xvellness services, the Events Center and much more! You’ll be xvelcomed in the Robert S. Cisar Lobby. With 14’ beamed ceilings, the front hall of the nexv Center features the reception area, an expanded Pride Store, OkEq offices and the original safe of the 1920’s building. Adjacent to the front hall is the Great Halt. The Great Hall " the living room" for the community is approximately 1,800 square foot of open space. A great space for receptions, parties and more, complete xvith a ~tchen, the space is a warm and inviting environment for the communi~: Through the rear lobby and to the right are the Gallery and Conference Rooms. With community groups and organizations in mind, the Gallery and Conference Room can hold small, medium and large groups. You’ll be surrounded by the art of coinmunity members in the Gallery while the Community Room features a floor to ceiling glass wall. Come up the elevator in the rear lobby and you xvill arrive in the Recreation Lounge. Around the corner, you’ll be welcomed into an expanse for the communits: The Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainboxv Library features VmNW.ozarksstar.com Past a relaxing lounge next to the CyberCenter is the KidsCorner. Featuring xvritable walls and a mural, KidsCorner also has an interior window to keep watch of your little ones. You’ll see history on display in the Dennis Neill & John Southard History Project Room, as well as be able to look-over historical documents. The Health Testing office offers free HIV testing 3 times per xveek xvhile syphilis testing is offered once a month. The Community Office Area xvill xvelcome small desk/office areas for organizations, as well as a meeting space. The sumptuous Board Room, loo -king out over 4th Street can easily seat 12 to 25 indMduals. And there is still another 8,000 square feet! Back on the street level is the Events Center. Able to seat nearly 200 people for a luncheon or dinner, the nearly 3,000 square foot space comes complete xvith a catering kitchen, a separate entry, facilities and a clerestory windoxv nearly the len~h of the space. The Kenosha Suite, xvith approximately 1,500 sq. ft. of space and the 4th Street frontage of 3,000 sq. ft. of retail space xvill help invigorate the East End of downtown Tulsa. The nexv year of 2007 xvelcomes a nexv home, a new name and nexv direction for OHahomans for Equality. We xvelcome you to visit the new community center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, be involved xvith your community and join us as we continue our 26-year history of working for GLBT equality. Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. ,J the STAR 15 �CaVe.net Cabernet Sauvignon is grown in many regions where red wine is made: Southern France, Spain, Italy, Bulgaria and Rumania in Europe; Argentina, Chile, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa and California in the New World. Wherever it is grown you find reliable, quality, drinkable wines. Cabernet Sauvignon is at the heart of most Bordeaux red wines, often blended with Merlot; they are the benchmark against which other producers judge their products. At the upper end of the market, the Bordeaux chateaux, such as Margaux and Haut-Brion, reign supreme, but there is increasing competition from Australia and California. At the bottom end of the market, Bordeaux is struggling to compete. Examples from Latin America, Australia and Eastern Europe consistently offer an excellent drinking experience and value for money. Cabernet Sauvignon is a fairly small, thick skinned, tannic, dark red grape that crops well in suitable growing conditions. It survives cold winters and well-drained soils but does need adequate sunshine in order to ripen fully. ~he grape’s thick skin makes it resistant to spoiling by rain and attack by insects, around harvest time, which helps to ensure ripeness before picking and to maintain yields. ~-he predominant flavor is blackcU~i but it also can exhibit black cherry, cedar, leather and tobacco notes, depending on where it is grown. Because of its high tannin content, it has good ageing potential (five to ten years) and is often matured in oak barrels to enhance the flavor. ~-he effect of contact with oak modifies the tannin structure, leading to smoother, elegant, more complex wines. Whether as a varietal or blended with Merlot, Sangiovese, Shiraz or Zinfandel, Cabernet Sauvignon is always a popular choice for informed lovers of red wine. Foods that pair well with Cabernet Sauvignon: duck, spicy beef, pate, rabbit, roasts, spicy poultry, cheddar, blue cheese, sausage, kidneys, pasta with tomato sauce and foods that are meaty, pungent or spicy. This year there are some exceptional Cab’s out there this year including; Chateau St Jean Cinq Cepages 2000 Justin Justification Paso Robles 2003 Irony Napa 2002 Beringer Napa 2002 Snoqualmie Columbia Valley 2004 Visit your favorite wine shop, bring a bottle & a dish and we’ll see ya there!! Devre 1 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ��Past m this tiny and we do m~fi TINY ~ommfinity mVfi; 1o800o535oAIDS (2437) kitchen j( they prepare the food. [[he so ~’0~ V[,ilt leave full. Karl and In the afternoons, they bake flesh pasrry/pk minute OraQuick Test * Free Syphillis screening at the GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin One night they drove us m Bisbee which is about 20 miles away. Bisbee is a very old mining town that has a lot of character. We dined at the Striped Stocking and had a wonderful evening. Bisbee ~s lust a very small town but has a very" active gay population. 18 the STAR H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Outreach Program Tulsa at {918) 812-7045 www.ozarksstar.c0m �to P pnngs By Donald Pile and Ray Williams ings begiIi on Valentine~ Da?; FebruaD, rants in .~nerica and we certainly agree. Melvyr~ is open ~br hmch Monday thru Friday from 11:30 to 3pro. Dinner is served daily 6 to 1 lpm. Lhampagn~ Brunch is served Saturday a,~d Sunday 9am to 3 pm. "Ilaeir web site is: www.inglesideim~.com. For reservations call (760)325-2323. Friday- Febru;apt 16, 2007 4 pm to 5:30 pm - Readings at the Quee~ 0fHeart~ Hotel. Saturday 2 February 17, 2007 3 pm - Book Signing at the Peppertree Bookstore. Please contact Joanna or Denise ~br Reservations and information: By E-maiI: Casitas@CasitasLaquita.com Phone: 760) 416-9999 - Toll Free: (877) 203-3410 w~,,~v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 �Fringing the ocean, Starwood Iqotels’g[amorolls and gay-J}iendly Atlantic resort has been a key feature ofFort Lauderdale’s stunning redevelopment. (P,~oto by Andrew Collins) January 2007 \vgith progressive attitudes on social issues and a spirited, chic style that evokes Paris, Rome, and New York City, buoyant Buenos Aires has become the GLBT capital of Latin America. In this distinctly European-feeling city, the worlds of high fashion, haute cuisine, and tango come together, and an unstable economy has become a boon for visitors from other nations, because it’s led to favorable foreign-currency exchange rates. Indeed, what was not long ago the most expensive capital city in South America has become one of the cheapest major metropolises in the world. This city of nearly 3 million (12 million live in the metro region) sits along the southern bank of the Rio de la Plata, a wide estuary that forms the border between Argentina and Uruguay. Spanish conquistadors established a foothold here in the early 1500s, and the city retains close ties to Europe - many _Portenos_ (as residents are known) have Spanish and Italian lineage, and significant numbers also trace their roots to Germany, Great Britain, Russia, and France. This is very much an international destination, and Buenos Aires has fol!owed the lead of many European cities by actively courting GLBT tourists (the tourism office produces an excellent gay brochure and map) and legalizing same-sex civil unions. top museums, performing arts venues, and political buildings, but you need to venture farther afield to get to know gay B.A. Start xvith a walk through Barrio Norte, a busy and bustling district with a sizable gay presence and loads of fine clothing, home-fur¯ nishings, and electronics stores along the main drag, Avenida Santa Fe. The most charming neighborhoods for exploring, however, are Palermo and the adjacent Palermo Viejo - the latter has the most pronounced GBLT presence in Buenos Aires. Narrow cobblestone streets lined with uber-chic boutiques, snazzy wine bars, Euro-inspired cafes, and offbeat galleries abound in both neighborhoods. but particularly in Palermo Viejo. Another district with gay cachet is San Telmo, which is close to downtmvn and whose elegantly faded 19th-century buildings, many of them former tenements, now contain a fabulous array of antiques dealers plus a growing number of hip restaurants. Among the many superb restaurants in Palermo Viejo, don’t miss Bar Uriarte, a sexy lounge with a convivial garden in back and outstanding brick-oven pizzas and innovative tapas; and Mott, a gorgeous, minimalist restaurant with high ceilings, stylish decor, and fantastic wines and healthful, light food. The beautifully modern space occupied by Miranda Restaurant fills up each evening with devotees of the kitchen’s delicious steaks and chops. North Americans are sometimes deterred from traveling to Buenos Aires by steep airfares (which typically range from around $800 to $1,200 round-trip), but once you’re actually in Argentina, the cost of travel is so amazingly low that you can easily spend less on a vacation here than you would in western Europe or the Caribbean. Also consider that during slower times, some airlines’ frequent flyer programs offer round-trip flights here for as few as 40,000 miles offpeak (typically March through May and again mid-August through November, which are perfectly pleasant times to visit). Prices for most goods - as well as food and cocktails, taxis, electronics, and many other items - are generally 40 to 70 percent less than in the United States. Look for especially great deals on leather goods (from wallets to jackets), and enjoy the shockingly low prices of fine steaks and wines (two products for which Argentina is justly renowned) at great restaurants. Buenos Aires (aka B.A.) is a sprawling city, but because cabs are easy to hail on the street and extremely inexpensive, they’re a very practical way to make your way around. This is also a generally safe and enjoyable city to explore on foot. The central neighborhoods of Microcentro, Congreso, and Retiro are typical business and commerce centers, and nearby Recoteta is a wealthy hub of high-end hotels and ritzy apartment towers. In these areas you’ll find many of the city’s 20 the STAR Freud & Fabler is an intimate place that’s a great bet for creative Mediterranean-inspired fare, and sleek Olsen has earned a loyal following for both its intriguing people-watching and delicious Scandinavian food (there’s also a huge vodka selection). If you’re just looking for a spot with free Wi-Fi and light breakfast and lunch fare, stop by gay-popular Mark’s Deli, a dapper little place with a pretty garden, or old-world Bartok, a graceful Euro-style coffeehouse with www.ozarksstar.com �sidewalk seating overlooking the edge of busy Plaza Palermo Viejo. Bartok serves tasty salads, sandwiches, and desserts. Other gustatory highlights around Buenos Aires - and this is just a tiny sampling - include Milion, an uber-modern resto-lounge in Barrio Norte, and Bond, one of the gay-friendliest of the many excellent restatlrants in snazzy Recoteta, serving an eclectic menu of sushi, Mediterranean-inspired tapas, and modern Argentinean fare. To sample the tender steaks for which Argentina is known, head just around the corner to E1 Mirasol, which is tourist}, but absolutely dependable for outstanding beef. Owned by the same talented folks who operate Bar Uriarte, Gran Bar Danzgn is one of Recoleta’s trendiest wine bars, serving outstanding Continental and Latino food, too. If you’re on a budget, consider Palermo Viejo’s absolutely wonderful, gay-owned Bayres B&B, where it feels like staying vdth kind (and knowledgeable) friends in their simple but pleasant home. Rates (which run from $35 to $65 per night) include full breakfast, and there’s free high-speed Intemet and cable TV in every room, and private or shared bathrooms. Considering that Bayres costs hundreds less per night less than some of the city’s fanciest hotels, it’s truly an amazing bargain. Aiad with the money you save on rooms, you can invest in such heady pleasures as haute couture and cuisine - if you’re a serious shopper, bring along an empty suitcase to fill with your bounty. As expected in a large, gay-friendly metropolis, Buenos Aires has a vibrant nightlife scene, although maW bars and clubs are only popular on certain nights of the week. It’s best to ask around to learn which are likely to be busy (or even open) on a given evening - also keep in mind that most places don’t get going until 2 or 3 in the morning (although they often remain busy until dawn). The majority of B.A.’s "gay" nightlife options draw a mix not only of women and men but, in many cases, gays and straights - this is a city where folks ftom all walks of life seem to revel quite happily together. Some of the larger dance clubs include the aptly named GLAM in Barrio Norte, long-running Contramano in Recoleta, and see-andbe-seen Alsina in the Monserrat district. More intimate yet still highly popular bars and lounges worth checking out are Kim y Noyak, a cozy and stylish Palermo Viejo hangout that also serves good food; Sitges, which is also in Palermo Viejo and presents lively drag shows; and Bach Bar, a mostly lesbian spot in Barrio Norte. Buenos Aires also has a few bathhouses, the most popular being Buenos Aires A Full, in Barrio Norte. Prices of accommodations in Buenos Aires vary wildly, as the large and often very impressive international hotels, which appeal to business travelers and well-heeled tourists, tend to charge rates comparable to those in other major world capitals. Among the city’s best high-end hotels, the relatively new Park Hyatt, which opened in 2006, is an absolute treasure, its rooms sleekly and artfully designed, and its restaurants, courtyard patio, wine-and-cheese bar, and spa all top-notch. The Hyatt’s well-trained, thoughtful staffwhisks about, tending to guests’ every need. In the same neighborhood of Recoleta, the classic Alvear Palace Hotel has been serving discerning travelers since it opened in 1932 - the elegant rooms are among the largest in the city. In Palermo Viejo, Bo Bo is a smart boutique hotel with moderately priced, avant-garde rooms and an excellent restaurant popular with models and celebs. The intimate FIVE hotel contains - despite its name - 16 rooms, each done with handsome, contemporary furnishings, but the big draw here are the extensive common areas, including a lovely rooftop sundeck with great city views and a hot tub. Charming owner Adriana Teplixke and her knowledgeable staff can recommend great places to shop and eat, and rates here are quite reasonable, beginning around $100 nightly. www.ozarksstar.com Owasse Community Theatre Opens The New Year With "StuaR Little" OWASSO, OK__Rehearsals have begun for the O~vasso Community Theatre’s presentation of Stuart Little by E.B. White, and performance dates have been scheduled for January 19-21 and 2527, 2007 at the Mary Glass Performing Arts Center in Owasso. All performances will occur at 7:00PM except the matinee on January 21st which will occur at 2:00PM. the STAR 21 �JANUARY 2007 "Resolve to Take Action" Well, it’s 2007, but many of us will probably be dating our checks 2006 for weeks to come. Old habits - 365 days worth - die hard, but soon the 2007 mental pathway will be established, and our dating habits (the written ones, anyway) will be corrected. Looking back, 2006 was quite a year. LOGO, the gay cable network, and the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association came up with their top 10 stories. It’s an interesting but not too surprising list, including everything from Outgames/Gay Games to Soulforce’s Equality Ride to Oscar coming out on Brokeback Mountain to Ted Haggard falling on his face (let alone from grace) to Mark Foley’s page folly to the Dems bringing democracy, back to Capitol Hill. I’m not about to rehash and recap - you can go to LOGOonline. corn and watch the four-part series complete with music, graphics, and Jason Bellini as anchor. My thoughts are on our future - what 2007 has in store for the community and for me, and even better, what we have in store for 2007. Personally; once the cast comes offmy ruptured right bicep tendon (when you’re almost 49, playing with the dog can be dangerous), I plan to segue physical therapy into future trips the gym. I’m one of those dykes who can put on weight just by thinking about it, and as I start my ascent to 50 1 really want to try and get back into some sort of shape. If any of you girls (or guys) have suggestions or secrets to share, just let me know. I’m open. "lhis is the year we could overtnrn "don’t ask, don’t tell." It’s the year we could get the federal nondlscrn-nmauon act and mclus~ve hate-crimes legislation passed. It’s the year we could see our national organizations ~vorldng in tandem on the issues that concern us the most. It’s the year we could see real progress on our issues. But for al! of that to happen this year, next year, or beyond, we, as a community, have to support the organizations that represent us. "lhat support could be a check to your local community center and!or to your statewide organization and/or to the national organization of choice. If we are to move forward in 2007, we must put LGBT human and financial capital to work. This is also the year for us to point out the lies of the radical Christian right and hold them accountable for their ,vords. After Mary Cheney announced in early December that she was pregnant, _Time_ magazine asked Focus on the Family’s James Dobson to write an opinion piece. In his usual homophobic, antigay-family way, Dobson - like other radical Christians - chastised Mary for bringing a child into the world without a dad. To back up his arguments, he cited the academic work of feminist scholar Carol Gilligan and Yale School of Medicine’s Kyle Pruett, M.D. Instead of just dismissing Dobson’s rantings as those of a rattled homophobe, Wayne Besen of Truth Wins Out contacted both scholars and asked them to repudiate this nse of their work. °II~ey did. Time’s embarrasment led the mag’s editors to ask Jennifer Chrisler of Fainily Pride to write a response. Her piece debunked Dobson’s dithering about how a kid needs a mommy and daddy more than she or he needs love. Besen plans to keep the heat on Dobson and others like him with his new website, xw~vw.dobsonlies.org. Also, 2007 gives me the opportunity to tell my partner, Lynn, how much she means to me. Let your partner know how you feel, too - how important they are to you, how dreary your life wonld be without them, how much you love them. Join Besen, and kick off 2007 vdth some action - write Time’s editor, Patrick Smith (patrick_smith@timemagazine.com), and tell him that if his magazine is going to let the right rant, it also has to make them prove their points with facts, not rely on the pseudo-fiction they’ve been parading behind. The new year also gives all of us the opportunity to let our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues know how much our partners mean to us. I’m not talking about being all mushy all the time at work or at family gatherings. I am talking about being clear about your life, who you live with, how you identify. After that, tell your honey you love her or him, tell your neighbor you’re gay, write a check, and don’t ever forget how important you are in the next 365 days. If there was ever a year to come out and build on our achievements, this is it. The more that people know us and feel connected with us, the more likely they are to stand beside us as allies and fight for our rights. It’s all about building relationships and normalizing straight people’s perceptions of who we are. With a new Congress (let’s all pray for Sen. Tim Johnson’s [D-S.D.] full recovery), and the president’s final two years in a death spiral, the ability for the LGBT community to make real change is within our reach. If a lesbian can get elected to the Alabama State House, anything is possible - if we put our minds to it. Gayly O ahomar No Lor ger Pr r t TULSA, OK The publisher of the 24 year old Oklalxoma GLBT news paper, Andrew Hicks, announced in the December 15th issue that the Gayly was shutting down their print version and going digital. "\V,/e ~vant to take the Gayly into the future and onto new levels and fulfill a vision that has kept this paper alive for nearly 25 years. The world is changing and our need for information is changing with it." Hicks said. The on-line operation is due to be up and running this month. For more information go to: wv~v.gayly.com 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �GAY R GHTS ADVOCATE & LOBBYIST KErFH SMITH PASSES AWAY AT AGE 51 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Keith Smith died at Integris Hospital from pneumonia on Monday, November 20. Up until the time of his death he had been a tireless lobbyist not only for gay rights for also environmental causes, reproductive freedom, and civil liberties. Lobbying clients included the Sierra Club, Planned Parenthood, and the ACLU. He was also the co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats as well as a national board member A memorial service was held in the rotunda of the Oklahoma State Capitol, and speakers honoring him included ne~vly elected State Representative AI McAffre); State Senators Andrew Rice and Bernest Cain, former Governor David Waiters, Native American Rights activist Kalyn Free, Oklahoma ACLU Executive Director Joann Bell & his dear friend, Linda Gray Murphy. A native of Alva, Oklahoma, he is survived by his mother Berda Murrow, and three brothers, Craig, Kurt and Kyle Smith. FROZEN CRANBERRIES 2. Stir well. 3. Chill for at least 1 hour. When ready to serve... 4. Chill martini glasses with ice and water, 5. Add club soda to mixture. 6. Pour into martini glasses and enjoy. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ! www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ��Congratulations Lawanda Jackson Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A 2007 by Victor Gorin Photo: Center Lawanda Jackson Miss Oklahoma US ofA 2007 & 1st runnerup Alexia" Nicole OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Copa was filled with excitement as the pageant for Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A came together in all its glory December 7-10. A pageant of Ragfin Productions, this marked the 20th anniversary of the event. Promoted by Regie Finley (a.k.a. Raghenna, Miss Oklahoma US of A 1990) the show featured Alyssa Edwards, the current reigning Miss Gay US of A. It was emceed by Rachael Erikks (former Miss Gay Oklahoma & America)& Reghenna herself, and their campy wit kept it lively. The winners were 2nd Alternate Victoria Weston, 1 st runner-up Alexis Nicole Whimey, and Lawanda Jackson was crowned the new Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A. Both Lawanda and Alexis Nicole will go on to compete for the national title in Dallas May 22-25 of next year. w~#v.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 25 �Dear played, ~ Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Uncle says count your blessing and remember it for what it obviously was, a holiday romance. Smooches Mikey Kittens: We all can find drama in our life if we try, however the one thing that we seem to forget is that we allow the drama in our life to begin with. You were home from school, lonely during the Christmas rush, and jumped onto stallion number one. You rode him straight through break, only to complain at the dismount. Kitten, selfanalazation might point out that we only deal with what we allow ourselves too. ~-hink about it, you wanted deep penetrating! Well this is as deep as it gets. Smooches Uncle Mikey Salutations and ~velcome to Uncle Mikey 2007! Yes Kittens, it ~vas a holiday triumph once more Kittens, as yours truly entertained, touched, and brought holiday warmth to those around me. According to the lucky, Uncle did all three. As we usher in the New Year, allow us to unite, if only for a moment in holiday cheer. Uncle Mikey, Why do so many people turn the holidays into future stories of drunken escapades? Doesn’t anyone take time to enjoy the true meaning of the season? Holiday-Cheer Dearest Cheer, Kitten, the holiday,s mean something different to everyone. For some it is a deep and meaningful time of their personal faith celebration. W~ile others, look at it as a time for friends and family, We cannot cheapen it by taking away from someone’s personal holiday meaning. Uncle sees the holidays as a bit different still yet. Christmas time for me is a time of white mink against the skin, while given a reason to dress hunk-a-licious men in red, green, and sliver holiday strings. Kitten; just remember that everyone has his or her own reason for the season! Smooches Mikey. Uncle Mikey, I thought I was going to get a commitment ring for Christmas and instead found that my partner is not as ready as I thought after all. It has been a year and still no advancement in the elevation of this relationship. Should I lClnd someone who is as ready as I, or hope that he will come around? Still Looking for Bling--Bling Dearest Bling, Can I get an amen? Uncle Mikey never committed to awthing less than two carats! Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I was out at a club during my Christmas break from school, when I ran into an old flame from High School. We hooked up and spent some time together. I though we had renewed some old feelings for one another, however, the only thing he left me with was a cold release, when he went back to school, leaving me in the dust. Should I confront him? Trick Played 26 the STAR Uncle Mikey, I started dating this guy a while ago, and while I do enjoy his company for the most part, I think it is that I am more afraid of being alone than being annoyed. It is not that I am a loser. It is that I do not lie to myself. I am not the most intelligent, or even the most desirable. Therefore, my question is this; is it wrong to settle? Only the lonely Dearest Lonely, Kitten Kitten, get off the cross because Madonna needs the wood! It is a shame to hear someone cutting oneself. It is not the package that sells the gift, it is the gift that makes the package. Kitten, we all begin with the simple package that the Gay Gods deliver to us. We make our identity. If you want to look better, it’s called a gym. Want to be a scholar, it’s called education. Want to improve your attitude, It’s called therapy, Bottom line kittens, it is all about self-help in a self-serving world. You can be a player or you can be played. No Kitten, it is not wrong to settle, it is a self-defeating cop out! Smooches Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, I caught my boyfriend in a lie. After I asked him if he was talking to people on the PC after I was in the bed, I decided to check for myself. I looked and found cookies left from him visiting the infamous site where they pick up booty calls. I didn’t’*=want to tell him I had been dipping into his business so I waited. Well, sure enough he told me that he had to be away on business overnight. After following him to the motel, it was clear what his business was. I have just been sick wondering what to do. Any advice for the betrayed? Seeing Red Dearest Red, Stalk-much? Kitten, a relationship is not worth it if you have to mistrust their every move. Kitten, I would strongly recommend some professional guidance here. I don’t mean spy gear either. Kitten, relationships are only as productive as the players in them. If you feel that yours is not what you want, may I suggest the emergency exit! Smooches Mikey Well, like the trick in the alley, I must slide out once more. Kittens, here is to a New Year- May all of your dreams come true. Wishing you all a very Queer New Year! www.ozarksstar.com �BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro and Combread 2pm, Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest t2am PEC’S: -"?’Fell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest 12am XgCEDNESDA?f Januaq~" !0 THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro xvear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: ~Tell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show !0:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart’Iburnament 10pm TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: \~ieD" Show 10:30pro THO~DA~~ Jarmary il FINISHLINE: Dart~lburnament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erild~s PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart %urnament ! 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro CLUB IVlAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \X;dl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart’l~3urnament i 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 79pro wear leather. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: KarbOkie host, Pancho 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: ICaraoke 9pro PEC’S: \Vell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament t 0pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wl Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \Yell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoaue Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Shm~X):30pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Shmv 10pro. THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB ROX: Alison Scott, 9:30pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro PEC’S: Mate Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast But})t 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE ROCKIES: OGRA Benefit Show 8:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm ~.ozarksstar.com BAMBoo LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Shmv 8:30pro. CLUB ~JESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: I~chael Erik~ Show ! 0:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: 50’s-60’s Sock Hop, BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinnet Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pm. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm PEC’S: V&ll drinks 2.50 from 79pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. MONDAY Jauuary 15 BAblBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-Tpm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinher Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pro. TUESDAY January 16 ..... PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 79pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest Midnight. PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 79pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dimcers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: tLachael Eril~&~ Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-gpm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro the STAR 27 �"Expect arguments, Sagittarius! ...... Sun and Mercury lining up in Capricorn clash with Saturn in Leo, making egos more important than actual ideas. Remember, you’re more often right if you can admit when you’re wrong! The open mind and humble ego will win in the long run. ARIES (r,~arch 20 o Apri~ 19): Your sense of your own brilliance may lead you to trust in a triumph of your will, but your confidence is a bit inflated and can get you into big trouble. Handle authority gently. Intuitive hunches will soon prove helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - IVlay 20): Tripping over your religious roots? Patriarchal authorities from childhood may still intimidate you or act out through you. See where that’s coming from and focus on humanitarian ideals to rise above it. GEi~IN~ (IVlay 21 - June 20): Your mouth is likely to get you into trouble, but the real problem is your ego. What do you need to prove? Shrewdly measured, carefully considered words will get the point across better, and holding back will nurture your genius. SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 o December 20}: Philosophy and pragmatism are heading for a nasty collision. Your challenge is to stay true to your ideals and to apply them in the real world. It will take some severe adaptation. Expect arguments along the way, and be ready to learn from them! CAPRICORN (December 2t o January 19): A little leather or some dominance games can bring up more than you’ve bargained for. Play with someone you trust enough to step back and explore those issues with. Switch roles? Aggravating sexual problems will soon be easily discussed. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Problems in relationships are bugging you. Take time out to examine the issues, bur remember you can only make changes on your side of the equation. Some rigorous introspection can make others seem more reasonable. PISCES (February 19 - March t9): Your idea of being a good team player may depend too heavily on the notion that your ideas and leadership are best. Focus on humility and attention to others. Still, offer your input - just don’t push! CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Fussing about debts, those you owe or those owed you, can damage a partnership or friendship. Get those accounts in order, but don’t gripe. A more philosophical approach to these relationships will prove helpful very soon. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Stressing out gets you into arguments with co-workers. Work smarter, not harder, and be nice about their suggestions - whatever you think of them. Success in that.area will help you look and feel sexier wherever you go. VlR60 (August 23 - September 22): If you start feeling old and cranky, try to make a game of it. Exaggerate your complaints whenever you can to make a joke of them. That will make it easier to put things in perspective and open up new opportunities for fun. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You are normally the world’s greatest hostess. Not this week. Put some energy into your community, but keep your home a private _sanctum sanctorum_. Don’t let pessimism get you down; focus that energy into sensible caution. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your clever notions are likely to irritate your boss. In order to get ahead, soften and adjust your ideas to fit the boss’ thinking, but be ready to backpedal as necessary. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document dAN UARY ~ 1 !Y ~nd Business Building From 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com As you brmvse through this months issue, you’ll notice numerous articles on fund-raisers, benefit shows, volunteers ,vorking to build and just people helping people. GLBT people who are giving their time, money and effort to help make another human life better. Many who need help themselves. Giving, is the key issue. This past month seeing and hearing about the many events to raise money for those living with HIV/AIDS, food drives, toys for kids, meals for the home-bound and ~o many other efforts, all within our own community, reminded me of how very proud I am to be a gay man. Wouldn’t it be wonderful ifwe could maintain that giving spirit for the entire year and not just for the holiday season. The spirit should not end on December 26th. Giving, to support those people and organizations who are fighting for equality not only for GLBT’s, but for everyone is another important issue we have to face in this new year. I am very optimistic for 2007. Many have predicted this will be the year we see tremendous gains in equal rights for Gay/Lesbian people. But, we must do our part to insure this happens. We voted! And you see the results. "We can make a difference." This is the year to build on our past achievements and open doors for future generations. As we go to press we got the news that the Governor of New Jersey had signed the bill granting gay and lesbian couples all rights of marriage but the title. This is the third state offering civil unions to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. It’s starting to happen! On behalf of everyone involved with the STAR, I want to wish all of you a great and prosperous New Year. May your lives be filled with the spirit. Dear Chaz, It was exciting and thrilling to see your 3rd ,~mniversary Issue of the Star! Having lived from the Southern most tip of Florida to Northern California, this is just the best publication ever. Your smiling personality continues to spread it’s enthusiasm in this tremendous endeavor. Our community in Joplin, MO and Eureka Springs, AR benefit so much from your publication. I have people in both cities asking ~vhen the next issue is coming out almost as soon as they receive the current one. Ti~ank you so much for a job well done for the four states. Rev. Steve T. Urie, Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin, MO Chaz, I just saw this month’s magazine and I wanted to send you a note saying "congratulations" on your third anniversary. It has been an honor and a privilege to work with you the past few months. I want to thank you for your important contribution to the GLBT con> munity and I wish you much success for many, maW years to come! Joe LaFountaine Board Secretary Little Rock Capitol Pride Dear Editor: I live in Texas and get to both Tulsa and Oklahoma City on business about once a month and never know xvhich bar to go to on any particular night. I noticed in the December issue of the STAR that you have begun to run a special page "AFTERDARI<[" where the bars let everyone knoxv exactly what is going on each night. This is certainly a tremendous help to anyone not living in Oldahoma City or Tulsa and most likely even a great help for those who do! What a great idea! I alxvays read the STAR online and enjoy it. Keep up the good xvork. Sincerely, C. D. Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief Sincerely, Randy Cunningham Dallas, Texas www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 NEW# N@N{N, NN~# N~NN, New Direction, Laura Belmonte, President of Otdahomans for Equality Speaks to the Community. Doug Ireland "Why should being Gay be a crime" A retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Who was Joseph Beam? "The Wine Rack" Cabernet Sauvlgnon on review- page 16 Gay Travelers "Casa de San Pedro" Otit of Town "Buenos Aires" Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Laura Belmonte.............5 Commentary.............. 11 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Inspiring Fitness ........... 13 Past Out.................. 14 Tulsa GLBT Center News..... 15 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds................ 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: New Tulsa GLBT Center Opens This Month - page 15 4 day Celtic Festival Eureka Springs - page 12 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK ~ NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVlLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PtTTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com NEW HOME. NEW NAME. NEW D RECT ON. An amazing year has just passed for the organization formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights / TOHR! As I write, a dedicated team of volunteers is putting the final touches on Phase One of our marvelous new center; Marc Acuff, our new coordinator of the Tulsa Pride and Diversity Celebration is securing corporate sponsors; and the Capital Fund Trustees and the Facilities Committee are drafting new documents and policies to ensure that our building is financially secure and well-maintained for decades to come. From our brilliant IT crew to the immensely creative Design Group, I an awed by the talented and generous individuals who are helping me lead Oklahomans for Equality into an exciting new era. Why the name change? Lots of reasons. For one, Tulsa Otdahomans for Human Rights was an offshoot on an Oklahoma City-based organization that folded over twenty years ago " hence there is no need to saddle ourselves with the awkward Tulsa Oklahomans construct. Another reason is that human rights had a very different connotation in 1980 than it does now. I have often been asked whether our organization does work like Amnesty International or Human Rights Watch. So, we searched for alternatives. We contracted a public relations consultant. We formed focus groups. We spoke to key stakeholders. We listened to a host of opinions. And, after much deliberation and careful consideration, we adopted a new name, a name that encapsulates who we are and what we want: Oklahomans for Equality. Equality is the core of the gay rights struggle. We want equal employment rights, equal housing and health care access, equal pension and veteraffs benefits, equal treatment before the law, and equal legal standing for our intimate, committed relationships. We want equality for all gay, lesbian, bisexuals, and transgender Oklahomans, not just Tulsans. Whatever their race, class, gender, religion, age, or ability status, we want all the members of our diverse and beautiful community to have the liberties promised each and every U.S. citizen. We want equality for our allies too. We cannot expect them to support us if we do not support them. We cannot ignore our common interests. We must harness the collective power of our causes and constituencies. How will we achieve these goals? By forming new partnerships that enable us to serve seniors, youth, those in physical or mental crisis. By offering programs that appeal across the entire spectrum of our community. By broadening our volunteer resources so that any Oklahoraan can call our GLBT helpline "the only one in the state" and find a gay-friendly doctor, a supportive counselor, or simply a place to meet GLBT people. By expanding our advocacy efforts to include allies throughout the state so that we can mobilize hundreds of people for elections, lobbying days, and combating anti-gay and anti-trans discrimination at the local level. We have so much to do and we’ll soon be doing it in one of the largest GLBT centers in the United States. We at Oklahomans for Equality wish you a Happy New Year and express our gratitude for the gift of your support. In Solidarity, Laura Belmonte President, Oklahomans for Equalit3~ (OkEq) Proudly serving "i\lisa & OKC\s GLBT communities since 1982 "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BESTproperties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 City, OK 73116 oldcastle.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 JOHANNESBURG, South Afi’ica__ Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls got hitched Friday in South Africa’s first gay wedding, a day after the government made same-sex marriage legal. The couple, who run a guest lodge and animal rehabilitation center on the southwestern coast, donned their game-ranger outfits and went down to the local home affairs office in the town of George. In front of marriage officer Petro Kruger they exchanged rings and were pronounced a married couple. LOAVES AND F SHE8 FUND-RAISER BRIGHTENS THE HOUDAY8 AGNR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__On December 4-5 the Copa Club located in the Habana Hotel celebrated the 16th Anniversary of one of Oklahoma’s most heartwarming fund-raisers, the annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner and Show. This year it was dedicated to the memory of longtime activis.t Keith Smith who passed away November 20,2006. Featuring community icons Sonja Martinez, John Beebe, ToW Sinclair, Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald & Debbie Davies, the benefit raised OVER $5600 for this Catholic Charities ministry which provides meals & other assistance for those home bound by HIV. Judy Riley stated. "I am overcome by the generosity of the people who come to this event every year in support of our brothers and sisters who are living with HIV/MDS. Words cannot express the depth of our appreciation and gratitude to Sonja and all the performers, Nick Post and the Copa Staff, and also all the benefactors." OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The board of directors of the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has awarded grants to nine local non-profit organizations totaling $50,100. Grantees and their respective award amounts are: Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network (RAIN) $5000; AIDS Support Program/The Winds House $5700; Red Rock Behavioral Health Services/Red Rock North $5400; Northern Lights Alternative $6100; Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma $6100; Guiding Right $5400; Other Options $6400; Latino Community Development Agency $5000; and the HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project of Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma $5000. Since 1998, the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has distributed more than $333,000 in grants to local non-profit organizations providing critically needed services to individuals living with HIV or AIDS. SAVE THE DATE FORTHE 2007 AIDS WALK OF OKLAHOMA CITY: Sunday, September 30th at the Myriad Botanical Gardens. Joplin Organia÷rs Announce Formation Of Long Awaited Gay Lesbian Center. JOPLIN, MO The Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center kick-offdinner was a rousing success on November 20th. Fifty people ate & drank great food, made new friends and saw old ones, and embraced the Center’s goal to raise money to build a community center. Guests were entertained by "Queer Duck," the Mike Reiss video shorts, Charlie Smith, Treasure Love, and the fab-u-lous Miss Latina Carlisle (Miss Gay Joplin 2002), who brought the house down with her version of"Somewhere Over the Rainbo~v." Door prizes included DVD’s of"Dante’s Cove" and "Fixing Frank," tank-top shirts from A & E’s original December movie, "Wedding Wars," and various CD’s, including music from Cirque de Soleil. Greetings and best wishes were offered by leaders ofUCC Family Fellowship, the Joplin Junior Chamber (~e Jaycees), Wal-Mart’s Office of Diversig; and Shekinah Glory Church. President Lee McDaniel spoke about the need for a center here in conservative, rural southwest Missouri to encourage people, especially our youth, to be who they are - and to knmv that we are just normal, everyday people. He reported that the Center has joined the national association of gay & lesbian centers and plans to join the Joplin Chamber of Commerce in order to increase its visibility. The Center also is a member of GLAAD and HRC. The Center extends its thanks to all those involved and to all who attended. Special thanks to all the volunteers, the performers, UCCFF for rental of its building, Mr. David Garrison for the terrific food, the Karpel Group, Corporate Edge Marketing, and to Lee McDaniel at Gold Key Mortgage and Carberry Development Group. The Center’s next major fundraising events will be in February and June 2007. Details will follmv via www.myspace.com/gaylesbiancenter and http://360.yahoo.com/gaylesbiancenter. For more info, please email or call the Center’s President, Lee McDaniel, at gaylesbiancenter@ya~hoo.com or 417-622-7821. The Center, founded in October 2006, may be reached at PO Box 4383, Joplin, MO 64803-4383. New-Jersey Denies Gay Marriage, Passes Civi Unions. TI~NTON, N.J. - Nexv Jersey’s governor signed legislation Thursday December 21 st giving gay couples all the rights and responsibilities of marriage alloxved under state law, but not the fltle. When the la\v goes into effect Feb. 19, Ne~vJersey xvill become the third state offering civil re’dons to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 437 E, i41st Street Gtenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY 8 the ,STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Tu san°s B÷s end With 40 Bikes Chi d ÷n Of Pa ÷nts Living With H V/A D$o By Greg Steele P,6oto: 40 Bikes and over 3"00 other itemsf!lled the main bar of the climb. By Victor Gorin TULSA, OK No it’s not a bicycle shop and it’s not a Walmart store. It’s the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. Bar owners Terry Hood and Stan Smith put the word out in early December that their annual Christmas Drive for the Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. food pantry would not be just another food collection. "Ihis year was for the kids. The goal was a bike for all 30 children of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. clients. In an interview with Stan Smith he told us "The response was so incredible we had the 30 bicycle’s within a week and more were promised. We then called RAIN to see if any of their clients had children, there were five he was told. We have 35 bikes and five extra that I’m sure the two organizations will find homes for." Smith said. In addition to the bicycles, toys, non-perishable food items, toiletries, maW other gifts were donated. Well over 300 items filled the main bar of the club. The Tulsa Rough Riders also held a raffle and donated the proceeds. The 30 children of "/\~sa C.A.R.E.S. clients ages are 6 girls and 5 boys under the age of seven. 7-11 years of age, 3 female and 4 male. Ages 12-15 there are 4 girls and 8 boys. Some are themselves HIV positive but all are affected by the difficult lives of their parents living with HIV/AIDS. The majority of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. and RAIN HIV/AIDS clients are living below the poverty line and don’t have the means to provide a decent Christmas for their children. \VTe talked with Michael at Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. after the truck loads of gifts and food items had been delivered and he told us, "We thought it was going to be just another Christmas for the kids, and then these folks come along with this wonderful gift. It will certainly make a big difference for them on this special day of the year for children" There is going to be a lot of happiness and smiling faces in the homes of those who have so much hardship. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Club Rox located in the Hollywood Hotel and Suites held a Masquerade Ball fund-raiser for Red Rock Saturday, December 16. Featuring entertainer Alison Scott, it was organized by Hollywood crew member Beaux Leaf, proceeds from the fund-raiser would go to help Red Rock deliver meals to home bound people living with HIV/MDS. The event was great success and for a very worthy cause. Pictured above is an anonymous donor who gave $100. SPECIAL WORSHIP CELEBRATION HONORING DR. KING AND THE GLBT COMMUNITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___On Sunday, January 14 at 10:45 a.m. and 3 p.m. Church of the Open Arms will host a special service with a renowned guest preacher, the Reverend Dr. Randall C. Bailey. He is a professor at the Interdenominational Theological Center in Atlanta, has lectured throughout the United States and abroad, and also has gained attention with his recent article, "Sanctified Hatred: Why Banning Same Sex Marriage is Wrong." This service is co-sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign, P-Flag OKC and the Peace House, and the public is invited. The theme says it all, "Peace ~vith Justice for M1- God has a Dream." Human rights leaders Clara Luper and the Reverend Orra Compton will be honored at the service. ~xis will be a landmark service, honoring not only the late Dr. King, but all people seeking equality including the GLBT community. It will coincide with the Oklahoma City Martin Luther King Parade which will be held the following day beginning at 2 p.m., at N.W. 7th Street & Robinson. 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com a crib÷? In 75 countries being gay is still a crime. French activist Louis-Georges Tin, founder of the International Day Against Homophobia, hopes to change that by having the United Nations adopt a resolution calling for the decriminalization of homosexuality worldwide. Tin spoke to The Advocate ahead of a press conference in Paris where he announced the news. By Doug Ireland On November 17 the Paris-based International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) will launch a global campaign for a United Nations resolution declaring that homosexuality should no longer be considered a crime anywhere in the world. The proposed U.N. resolution is the brainchild of IDAHO’s founder, Louis-Georges Tin, 32, a professor and author of a number of books (including the Dictionary of Homophobia) who is also a rising star of France’s emerging black movement for equality. Tin will simultaneously release a list of hundreds ofVIP endorsers of the proposed U.N. resolution, including a gaggle of Nobel Prize winners (among them, Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa, Dario Fo of Italy, Elfriede Jelinek ofAustria, and Amartya Sen of India); political leaders, including two former French prime ministers (Laurent Fabius and Michel Rocard); academics (such as Princeton University President Shirley Tilghman and world-famous sociologist Richard Sennett); entertainers (such as Academy Award-winning actress Meryl Streep, David Bowie, Edward Norton, Mike Nichols, Lily Tomlin, actor-playwright Wallace Shawn, humorist Bruce Vilanch, and Spanish actress Victoria Abril); and a host of renowned writers, including Doug Wright, Jon Robin Baitz, Salman Rushdie, Gore Vidal, Sir Tom Stoppard, ToW Kushner, Martin Amis, Ian McEwan, Russell Banks, Bernard-Henri Levy, John Berendt, Lady Antonia Fraser, Christopher Hitchens, Michael Chambon, Peter Carey, and Edmund White. Getting the U.N. to commit to universal decriminalization of homosexuality is destined to become the central objective of the international LGBT movement for the next decade. Tin spoke to The Advocate. What chance do you think this resolution has of passing the U.N.? Many people believe such a resolution is beyond reach. I personally don’t. Why? Because there is already U.N. jurisprudence in our favor. In 1994, Mr. Toonen, a citizen ofTasmania, who had been condemned for same-sex relationships, won his case in what was then the U.N. Commission on Human Rights--it said his arrest was a breach of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and of the right of privacy. So we just ask the U.N. to extend this jurisprudence to other countries--75 in the world!--where same-sex relationships are still forbidden. There’s recent evidence that this is not as utopian a project as it might seem at first glance: In October this year, the U.N. Working Group on Arbitrary Detention declared that the imprisonment in Cameroon of 11 men who’d been caught in a raid on a gay bar on charges of homosexuality was "an arbitrary deprivation of liberty" that violates the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights. That’s encouraging. How will you and IDAHO work for its passage? The campaign for the U.N. resolution will have two main components. An external media campaign to raise awareness within public opinion and governments will begin with the November 17 unveiling of a petition--for which VIP signatures are now being gathered--on IDAMO’s \geb site, ww~v.idahomophobia.org. Also, a host of international and country organizations have already signed on as cosponsors of the campaign for the resolution, like the International Lesbian and Gay Association and France’s Ligue des Droits de l’Homme. The second battle has to be waged within the new U.N. Council on Human Rights. \re have to lobby the states that are members and ask them to support the resolution or at least not to vote against it. We are talking with the government of South Africa, which is a member of the council to sponsor the resolution. South Africa was the first country in the world to include the principle of nondiscrimination against gays and lesbians in its constitution- and their sponsorship would show that LGBT rights are not just a "Western issue." What exactly does the resolution say? The text I wrote asl~ for a universal decriminalization of homosexuality. It is very clear, easy, and simple, and based solely on the articles of the U.N.’s Universal Declaration ofHuman Rights that were used to justify the decision in the Toonen case. I did not want to write a philosophical text on the issue, because an argument that may be relevant in one country will certainly be irrelevant in another one. We need a common language to support human rights. What could be more relevant and more international than the Universal Declaration of Human Rights itself?. Why did you choose this moment to launch this campaign? ~l}le Toonen case was ruled on 12 years ago, soI thought it was high time that LGBT organizations decided to take advantage of it at the U.N. To be honest, I fail to see any issue that could be more important than this one for LGBT organizations. On May 17, 1990, the World Health Organization decided that homosexuality could no longer be regarded as a disease, which is why I chose that date for the International Day Against Homophobia. The first IDAHO was only celebrated in 2005, so we really couldn’t do anything before that--but now our organization has spread to more than 50 countries and been endorsed by the European Parliament, so I think we are ready to go farther. Look, gays and lesbians around the world cannot wait any longer for their love to cease being made a crime. Many are in jail, or at risk of being jailed. Some are being killed. 7his has to stop now. Ireland is a veteran political journalist who can be reached through his blog, DIRELAND, at Direland.typepad.com/direland/ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Four Day Celtic Festiva Eureka Springs EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ PaperMoon Attractions presents Celtic Connections Eureka, a four-day festival celebrating Celtic heritage, music, poetry, food and drink as the clans overtake the tiW hamlet of Eureka Springs January 18 - 21, 2007. Timed for the birthday bash for the great Robert Burns, the "Bard of Scotland", Celtic Connections Eureka calls to celto-philes from the seven nations hither and yon. In these Ozark Highlands you’ll immerse yourself in the color and heritage of this rich world culture, as entertainers, crafters and historians from far and way create an experience designed to enrich your appreciatior{ and knowledge of Celtic traditions. The traditional Robert Burns Night Suppers are scheduled for Thursday and Friday evenings, with the Friday night dinner featuring a few extra touches including music and stories by Ed Miller, modern bard of Scotland and Scottish folksong preservationist. tartan attire, the seven Celtic nations, demonstrate musical instruments, and more. "11artanic, the bagpipe comedy theater band from Houston who took Eureka Springs by storm last January; returns for Friday night’s concert at the City Auditorium. If you’re not planning to go to Arizona in February, this may be your last chance to enjoy the amazing Tartanic experience. added Eureka Springs to thei~ growing fan base when they performed last year. Rowan will also perform Sunday morning at the Crescent Hotel’s Sunday Brunch. Also joining the event will be Arkansas Celts Tinker’s Dam and the Crooked Creek Irish Dancers from Harrison and award-winning Celtic Heartstrings Linda Brocldnton and Brenda Ramsey from Alexander playing traditional music on mountain dulcimer and flute. Throughout the weekend guests will have a chance to enjoy all the workshops, multiple music sessions and concerts, "The Gypsy Faire" vendor market, along with Celtic-flavored special offerings by area pubs and restaurants. All-Day Tickets are: $28 for Thursday including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Friday’s events (without the Burns Supper); $45 or $80 per couple for Friday’s events, including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Saturday’s events. For more information and to purchase tickets online see www. EurekaCelts.com or call 866-363-9545. Both evenings’ dinners are hosted by the historic 1886 Crescent Hotel Crystal Dining Room where the setting provides the Castle-like backdrop for all the pomp and circumstance. This annual, around-theworld birthday tribute to the life, ~vorks and spirit of Robert Burns is the 9th year for this event in Eureka Springs. The evening promises highland pipes, poetry and pride, the traditional Scottish dinner with roast beef and haggis, the drinking of Scotch whiskey and the recitation of Burns works, along with general merry-making and songsinging. "Robert Burns was truly the voice of the Scots. Any ethnic group will collect around a cultural voice and for the Scots who endured British oppression for centuries, Burns covered the whole spectrum of life in those ages," says Bruce Crabtree, author and historian, who will be performing "Robert Bruce’s March to Bannockburn" in traditional attire and full brogue. Crabtree will also present a workshop about the Gads during the festival, along with other workshop presenters who will discuss the Scots and Irish influence in the Ozarks, traditional "Eureka Springs can look forward to a pretty unique act," said Adrian Walter, the band’s lead, who also teaches theatre and dance in Houston, Texas. "The audience will see that bagpipes can go way beyond funerals," he quipped. "It’s like a rock and roll unplugged bagpipe theatre show without a plot. We do a fully audience integrated show that goes against the usual band formula." Tartanic will be right at home with the Eureka Springs culture. How does one describe Tartanic? "hnagine one dancer, six drums, six drones, 18 notes, fast fingers, high comedy, flying bagpipes, taste-defying stunts, scorching hot music played at over 120 beats per minute with driving speed and high volume, all brought to you by five men without pants." Also on the bill with Tartanic is Beth Patterson, Celtic singer-songwriter from Ne~v Orleans. Patterson, whose sound and style has been compared to Loreena McKennitt, also performs on Saturday night at the City Auditorium with Ed Miller and with Rowan, a traditional Celtic trio from Kansas who ANNOUNCING 2007 D VERSITY WEEKEND DATES Eureka 8pdngs, Arkansas VALENTINE’S DIVERSITYWEEKEND Friday, Feb 16, 2007 - Sunday, Feb 18, 2007 SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com 12 the STAR w~v.ozarksstar.com in the morning and stress at night; stress is that thing I just can’t fight. Or can you? Happiness is knowing that you can control the impact stress has on your life. This is important since stress has been linked to 70% of all illnesses. In addition, stress is directly related to negative health behaviors such as alcohol and drug abuse, and to psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression. This is no good my friends! Pay close attention and I’ll make it all feel better! Most stress is caused by inadequate time management. What do you want out of life? Write it all down on paper and then go back and prioritize. You can’t do it all so you will need to leave some of the items on the editing floor. Make a schedule of what you want to do each day or week and then stick to this schedule like a dutiful liege. Monitor this schedule and make changes accordingly as time marches on. It sounds so doggone simple but most of you do not listen to this sage advice. YOu watch American Idol when you should be washing the dishes or you gossip ad infinitum with Patty and Selma when you should be giving the dog his much needed bath. Don’t waste time on this pettiness unless of course you like this pettiness and it is part of your schedule. When you don’t prioritize and you try to force 36 hours into a 24 hour day, the first item up for sale is sleep. Did you know that lions sleep about 20 hours each day. ~lhat is quite fascinating but you will not need exactly that much of the forty winks! The average human adult needs between seven and eight hours of repose per night. You might believe you can maintain much less sleep than that each evening but stress will eventually get the better of you over the years. The Grim Reaper wilt just bide his time. The following are numerous suggestions for pleasant dreams: 1) Go to bed at the same time each night. 2) Don’t exercise right before bedtime. 3) Avoid eating meals shortly before lights out. A light snack is fine. 4) Do not watch TV in the bedroom. 5) Sleep in a cooler than normal room. 6) Avoid excessive alcohol. It causes restless sleep. All work and no play make Jack a dull boy! You don’t exactly want to emulate Jack Torrance at the Overlook Hotel. I could spout off a whole slew of abominable statistics and enlighten you on how much more that people are now working than they were fifty years ago. But I won’t. You are certainly keenly aware of this situation. When time is at a premium, the factors most neglected are personal health, relationships with the kiddies, and marriage or romantic time with the significant other. Recreation and leisure should be important components of your daily schedule. Why do you think the Japanese live so long? They work so much less than us Americanos and they love their play time. You can make your millions by the age of 40 but it ain’t gonna help ya if the stress sends ya packing early for that plot of land in Boot Hill. Be sure to factor in some moderate sessions of shenanigans along life’s yellow brick road! There are several relaxation techniques that might help you push your stress to the back of the line. The nominees for outstanding relief methods are the quick fix, prayer, and positive thinking. The quick fix means taking a five minute time out from the rat race. Go to a quiet spot, loosen your clothing, remove your shoes, and shut your eyes. Inhale deeply for about five seconds and then exhale slowly for about ten seconds. Repeat this several times. Now mentally picture something pleasant like a lake, a cloud, or Jamaica. Keep relaxing and breathe deeply. After five minutes, stretch briefly and head back to the real world with renewed vi.gor. The next technique is prayer. Studies have indicated that prayer can decrease blood pressure and can be a tremendous source of comfort. Prayer can provide confidence to function more effectively and thus reduce stress from your rigors of life. Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, Protestant, Wiccan, or Taoist. It makes no difference. Try embracing the power of prayer. Finally there remains positive thinking. This is simple but not always followed. Do whatever it takes to create a positive mood when you have excessive stress. You do not want to dwell on any negative feelings. Always picture the positive side of life. Those that do this are those who prosper. Stress can be indeed harmful; stress can be quite a mighty hell; Stress ye now know must be managed for ye to be well! Ron Blake is a Certified Personal Trainer and Owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or on the web at www.blakefitness.com. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. was . osepb Beam? African-American author and activist Joseph Beam secured his place in GLBT literary history as the editor of In the Life, a groundbreaking anthology of works by black same-gender-loving men. Beam was born December 30, 1954, in Philadelphia. With his working-class parents struggling to ensure that their only child received a good education, he attended Catholic preparatory and high schools, where he was one of only a few black students. He later studied journalism at Franklin College, a small Baptist college in Indiana. Influenced by the civil rights and Black Power movements, he was an active member of the Black Student Union. After graduating in 1976, he pursued a Master’s degree in communications and stayed in the Midwest, working at odd jobs for a few years, before returning to his native city. Back in Philadelphia in the early 1980s, Beam got a job at Giovanni’s Room, a GLBT bookstore. He began writing news articles, personal essays, poetry, and short stories for publications such as _The Advocate, Body Politic, Gay Community News, and the New York Native, Much of his work reflected on the life experiences of black gay men, criticizing both the racism of the mainstream white gay and lesbian movement and the homophobia of the black community. In 1984, the Lesbian and Gay Press Association honored him with an award for outstanding achievement by a minority journalist. Beam also maintained ongoing correspondence with prisoners, which he later attributed to his "deep sense ofmy own imprisonment as a closeted gay m,an and an oppressed Black man." Having ensconced himself in the GLBT literary scene - and having met numerous 14 the STAR authors and community leaders - Beam was disappointed about the lack of black male voices. \York by white gay writers addressed three camps, he claimed: "the incestuous literati of Manhattan and Fire Island, the San Francisco cropped-moustache-clones, and the Boston-to-Cambridge politically correct radical faggots. None of them spoke to me as a Black gay man." While some of the leading lights of the Harlem Renaissance - such as Langston Hughes, Countee Cullen, and Richard Bruce Nugent - were knoxvn or believed to have been {gay or bisexual, Beam found that contemporary xvorks by black samegender- loving men were fexv and far between. "By mid-1983 1 had grown weary of reading literature by xvhite gay men," he xvrote. "More and more each day, as I looked around the xvell-stocked shelves of Giovanni’s Room...I wondered xvhere xw~s the work of Black gay men." Beam therefore began collecting material for his pioneering anthology, in many cases nurturing the budding talents of men who had never before ~vritten for publication. He said that In the Life, published by Alyson Publications in 1986, spoke for "the brothers whose silence has cost them their sanitT," as well as the "2,500 brothers who have died of AIDS." Beam regarded the book as a tool for organizing and community building. His oxvn essa}; "Brother to Broti~er," extolled friendship, love, and eroticism among black men as a means of self-affirmation and group solidarity in the face of the pain and anger that arose from dealing xvith a xvhite GLBT movement that failed to address the concerns of people of color, and a heterosexual black community, that refused to accept queer men. "I cannot go home as xvho I am and that hurts me deeply," he wrote. "Aren’t aH hearts and fists and min~ds needed in this struggle or will this faggot be tossed into the fire?" and relieving Black women Dom the role of primary nurturers in our commmxity;" he wrote. "For too tong we have expected from Black women that which we could only obtain from other men...I dare us to dream that we are xvorth wandng each other. Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act of the eighties." One source of inspiration for Beam xvas the work of black lesbian feminist writers such as Audre Lorde. "I dream of Black men loving and supporting other Black men, An activist as well as an author, Beam worked as a consultant for the Gay and Lesbian ~ask Force of tile American Friends Service Committee. He helped resurrect the flagging National Coalition of Black Lesbians and Gays - originally founded in 1978 - joining the executive committee and editing the organization’s journal, Black/Out. Beam died of complications related to AIDS in December 1988, just three days shy of his 34th birthday. Though his life was brief, Beam’s influence was far-reaching. He served as both an inspiration and a mentor, promoting the idea that "visibility is survival." After his death, Beam’s mother and his fi-iend Essex Hemphill completed a second anthology of black gay men’s writing, _Brother to Brother_ (1991), which Beam was working on xvhen he died. Hemphill also remembered Beam in a memorial poem, "When My Brother Fell": He burned out his pure life force to bring us a chance to love ourselves... Forfiwther reading: Beam, Joseph (ed.). 1986. _in the Life:A Black Gay Anthologo,_ (Alyson). Harris, E. Lynn (ed.). 2004. _Freedom in this Village: Twenty-Five Years ofBlack Gay 2]/Ien’s Writing_ (Carroll & Graf). Hemphill, Essex (ed.). 1991. _Brother to Brother: New IN’itings by Black Gay Men_ (Alyson). www.ozarksstar.corn NEW CENTER OPENS gH S MONgH It’s been a long journe?; but the finish line is in sight. O-klahomans for Equality (OkEq) xvill open the permanent Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 621 E. 4th Street, this month January 2007. The new Center, at 18,000 square feet, is one of the largest in the nadon and will be filled with nexv OkEq community programs, meeting rooms and spaces for community organizations, reception areas, educational, legal 8¢ xvellness services, the Events Center and much more! You’ll be xvelcomed in the Robert S. Cisar Lobby. With 14’ beamed ceilings, the front hall of the nexv Center features the reception area, an expanded Pride Store, OkEq offices and the original safe of the 1920’s building. Adjacent to the front hall is the Great Halt. The Great Hall " the living room" for the community is approximately 1,800 square foot of open space. A great space for receptions, parties and more, complete xvith a ~tchen, the space is a warm and inviting environment for the communi~: Through the rear lobby and to the right are the Gallery and Conference Rooms. With community groups and organizations in mind, the Gallery and Conference Room can hold small, medium and large groups. You’ll be surrounded by the art of coinmunity members in the Gallery while the Community Room features a floor to ceiling glass wall. Come up the elevator in the rear lobby and you xvill arrive in the Recreation Lounge. Around the corner, you’ll be welcomed into an expanse for the communits: The Nancy &Joe McDonald Rainboxv Library features over 3,000 GLBT tides. A new xveekly Legal Clinic and Counseling office is adjacent to the library. The David Bohnett CyberCenter has 10, flat-screen, DSL computer stations free to the public. The nexv, light-filled \Vellness Center, with planned yoga and meditation session and dance lessons \vill feature many new additional programs for the communi~: Past a relaxing lounge next to the Cyber- Center is the KidsCorner. Featuring xvritable walls and a mural, KidsCorner also has an interior window to keep watch of your little ones. You’ll see history on display in the Dennis Neill &John Southard History Project Room, as well as be able to look-over historical documents. The Health Testing office offers free HIV testing 3 times per xveek xvhile syphilis testing is offered once a month. The Community Office Area xvill xvelcome small desk/office areas for organizations, as well as a meeting space. The sumptuous Board Room, loo-king out over 4th Street can easily seat 12 to 25 indMduals. And there is still another 8,000 square feet! Back on the street level is the Events Center. Able to seat nearly 200 people for a luncheon or dinner, the nearly 3,000 square foot space comes complete xvith a catering kitchen, a separate entry, facilities and a clerestory windoxv nearly the len~h of the space. The Kenosha Suite, xvith approximately 1,500 sq. ft. of space and the 4th Street frontage of 3,000 sq. ft. of retail space xvill help invigorate the East End of downtown Tulsa. The nexv year of 2007 xvelcomes a nexv home, a new name and nexv direction for OHahomans for Equality. We xvelcome you to visit the new community center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, be involved xvith your community and join us as we continue our 26-year history of working for GLBT equality. Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. ,J VmNW.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 CaVe.net Cabernet Sauvignon is grown in many regions where red wine is made: Southern France, Spain, Italy, Bulgaria and Rumania in Europe; Argentina, Chile, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa and California in the New World. Wherever it is grown you find reliable, quality, drinkable wines. Cabernet Sauvignon is at the heart of most Bordeaux red wines, often blended with Merlot; they are the benchmark against which other producers judge their products. At the upper end of the market, the Bordeaux chateaux, such as Margaux and Haut-Brion, reign supreme, but there is increasing competition from Australia and California. At the bottom end of the market, Bordeaux is struggling to compete. Examples from Latin America, Australia and Eastern Europe consistently offer an excellent drinking experience and value for money. Cabernet Sauvignon is a fairly small, thick skinned, tannic, dark red grape that crops well in suitable growing conditions. It survives cold winters and well-drained soils but does need adequate sunshine in order to ripen fully. ~he grape’s thick skin makes it resistant to spoiling by rain and attack by insects, around harvest time, which helps to ensure ripeness before picking and to maintain yields. ~-he predominant flavor is blackcU~i but it also can exhibit black cherry, cedar, leather and tobacco notes, depending on where it is grown. Because of its high tannin content, it has good ageing potential (five to ten years) and is often matured in oak barrels to enhance the flavor. ~-he effect of contact with oak modifies the tannin structure, leading to smoother, elegant, more complex wines. Whether as a varietal or blended with Merlot, Sangiovese, Shiraz or Zinfandel, Cabernet Sauvignon is always a popular choice for informed lovers of red wine. Foods that pair well with Cabernet Sauvignon: duck, spicy beef, pate, rabbit, roasts, spicy poultry, cheddar, blue cheese, sausage, kidneys, pasta with tomato sauce and foods that are meaty, pungent or spicy. This year there are some exceptional Cab’s out there this year including; Chateau St Jean Cinq Cepages 2000 Justin Justification Paso Robles 2003 Irony Napa 2002 Beringer Napa 2002 Snoqualmie Columbia Valley 2004 Visit your favorite wine shop, bring a bottle & a dish and we’ll see ya there!! Devre 1 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Past m this tiny and we do m~fi TINY ~ommfinity mVfi; kitchen j( they prepare the food. [[he so ~’0~ V[,ilt leave full. Karl and In the afternoons, they bake flesh pasrry/pk One night they drove us m Bisbee which is about 20 miles away. Bisbee is a very old mining town that has a lot of character. We dined at the Striped Stocking and had a wonderful evening. Bisbee ~s lust a very small town but has a very" active gay population. 1o800o535oAIDS (2437) minute OraQuick Test * Free Syphillis screening at the GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Outreach Program Tulsa at {918) 812-7045 18 the STAR www.ozarksstar.c0m to P pnngs By Donald Pile and Ray Williams ings begiIi on Valentine~ Da?; FebruaD, rants in .~nerica and we certainly agree. Friday- Febru;apt 16, 2007 4 pm to 5:30 pm - Readings at the Melvyr~ is open ~br hmch Monday thru Friday from 11:30 to 3pro. Quee~ 0fHeart~ Hotel. Dinner is served daily 6 to 1 lpm. Lhampagn~ Brunch is served Saturday 2 February 17, 2007 3 pm - Book Signing at the Pepper- Saturday a,~d Sunday 9am to 3 pm. "Ilaeir web site is: www.inglesi- tree Bookstore. deim~.com. For reservations call (760)325-2323. Please contact Joanna or Denise ~br Reservations and information: By E-maiI: Casitas@CasitasLaquita.com Phone: 760) 416-9999 - Toll Free: (877) 203-3410 w~,,~v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 Fringing the ocean, Starwood Iqotels’g[amorolls andgay-J}iendly Atlantic resort has been a keyfeature ofFort Lauderdale’s stunning redevelopment. (P,~oto by Andrew Collins) January 2007 \vgith progressive attitudes on social issues and a spirited, chic style that evokes Paris, Rome, and New York City, buoyant Buenos Aires has become the GLBT capital of Latin America. In this distinctly European-feeling city, the worlds of high fashion, haute cuisine, and tango come together, and an unstable economy has become a boon for visitors from other nations, because it’s led to favorable foreign-currency exchange rates. Indeed, what was not long ago the most expensive capital city in South America has become one of the cheapest major metropolises in the world. This city of nearly 3 million (12 million live in the metro region) sits along the southern bank of the Rio de la Plata, a wide estuary that forms the border between Argentina and Uruguay. Spanish conquistadors established a foothold here in the early 1500s, and the city retains close ties to Europe - many _Portenos_ (as residents are known) have Spanish and Italian lineage, and significant numbers also trace their roots to Germany, Great Britain, Russia, and France. This is very much an international destination, and Buenos Aires has fol!owed the lead of many European cities by actively courting GLBT tourists (the tourism office produces an excellent gay brochure and map) and legalizing same-sex civil unions. North Americans are sometimes deterred from traveling to Buenos Aires by steep airfares (which typically range from around $800 to $1,200 round-trip), but once you’re actually in Argentina, the cost of travel is so amazingly low that you can easily spend less on a vacation here than you would in western Europe or the Caribbean. Also consider that during slower times, some airlines’ frequent flyer programs offer round-trip flights here for as few as 40,000 miles offpeak (typically March through May and again mid-August through November, which are perfectly pleasant times to visit). Prices for most goods - as well as food and cocktails, taxis, electronics, and many other items - are generally 40 to 70 percent less than in the United States. Look for especially great deals on leather goods (from wallets to jackets), and enjoy the shockingly low prices of fine steaks and wines (two products for which Argentina is justly renowned) at great restaurants. Buenos Aires (aka B.A.) is a sprawling city, but because cabs are easy to hail on the street and extremely inexpensive, they’re a very practical way to make your way around. This is also a generally safe and enjoyable city to explore on foot. The central neighborhoods of Microcentro, Congreso, and Retiro are typical business and commerce centers, and nearby Recoteta is a wealthy hub of high-end hotels and ritzy apartment towers. In these areas you’ll find many of the city’s top museums, performing arts venues, and political buildings, but you need to venture farther afield to get to know gay B.A. Start xvith a walk through Barrio Norte, a busy and bustling district with a sizable gay presence and loads of fine clothing, home-fur- ¯ nishings, and electronics stores along the main drag, Avenida Santa Fe. The most charming neighborhoods for exploring, however, are Palermo and the adjacent Palermo Viejo - the latter has the most pronounced GBLT presence in Buenos Aires. Narrow cobblestone streets lined with uber-chic boutiques, snazzy wine bars, Euro-inspired cafes, and offbeat galleries abound in both neighborhoods. but particularly in Palermo Viejo. Another district with gay cachet is San Telmo, which is close to downtmvn and whose elegantly faded 19th-century buildings, many of them former tenements, now contain a fabulous array of antiques dealers plus a growing number of hip restaurants. Among the many superb restaurants in Palermo Viejo, don’t miss Bar Uriarte, a sexy lounge with a convivial garden in back and outstanding brick-oven pizzas and innovative tapas; and Mott, a gorgeous, minimalist restaurant with high ceilings, stylish decor, and fantastic wines and healthful, light food. The beautifully modern space occupied by Miranda Restaurant fills up each evening with devotees of the kitchen’s delicious steaks and chops. Freud & Fabler is an intimate place that’s a great bet for creative Mediterranean-inspired fare, and sleek Olsen has earned a loyal following for both its intriguing people-watching and delicious Scandinavian food (there’s also a huge vodka selection). If you’re just looking for a spot with free Wi-Fi and light breakfast and lunch fare, stop by gay-popular Mark’s Deli, a dapper little place with a pretty garden, or old-world Bartok, a graceful Euro-style coffeehouse with 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com sidewalk seating overlooking the edge of busy Plaza Palermo Viejo. Bartok serves tasty salads, sandwiches, and desserts. Other gustatory highlights around Buenos Aires - and this is just a tiny sampling - include Milion, an uber-modern resto-lounge in Barrio Norte, and Bond, one of the gay-friendliest of the many excellent restatlrants in snazzy Recoteta, serving an eclectic menu of sushi, Mediterranean-inspired tapas, and modern Argentinean fare. To sample the tender steaks for which Argentina is known, head just around the corner to E1 Mirasol, which is tourist}, but absolutely dependable for outstanding beef. Owned by the same talented folks who operate Bar Uriarte, Gran Bar Danzgn is one of Recoleta’s trendiest wine bars, serving outstanding Continental and Latino food, too. As expected in a large, gay-friendly metropolis, Buenos Aires has a vibrant nightlife scene, although maW bars and clubs are only popular on certain nights of the week. It’s best to ask around to learn which are likely to be busy (or even open) on a given evening - also keep in mind that most places don’t get going until 2 or 3 in the morning (although they often remain busy until dawn). The majority of B.A.’s "gay" nightlife options draw a mix not only ofwomen and men but, in many cases, gays and straights - this is a city where folks ftom all walks of life seem to revel quite happily together. Some of the larger dance clubs include the aptly named GLAM in Barrio Norte, long-running Contramano in Recoleta, and see-andbe- seen Alsina in the Monserrat district. More intimate yet still highly popular bars and lounges worth checking out are Kim y Noyak, a cozy and stylish Palermo Viejo hangout that also serves good food; Sitges, which is also in Palermo Viejo and presents lively drag shows; and Bach Bar, a mostly lesbian spot in Barrio Norte. Buenos Aires also has a few bathhouses, the most popular being Buenos Aires A Full, in Barrio Norte. Prices of accommodations in Buenos Aires vary wildly, as the large and often very impressive international hotels, which appeal to business travelers and well-heeled tourists, tend to charge rates comparable to those in other major world capitals. Among the city’s best high-end hotels, the relatively new Park Hyatt, which opened in 2006, is an absolute treasure, its rooms sleekly and artfully designed, and its restaurants, courtyard patio, wine-and-cheese bar, and spa all top-notch. The Hyatt’s well-trained, thoughtful staffwhisks about, tending to guests’ every need. In the same neighborhood of Recoleta, the classic Alvear Palace Hotel has been serving discerning travelers since it opened in 1932 - the elegant rooms are among the largest in the city. In Palermo Viejo, Bo Bo is a smart boutique hotel with moderately priced, avant-garde rooms and an excellent restaurant popular with models and celebs. The intimate FIVE hotel contains - despite its name - 16 rooms, each done with handsome, contemporary furnishings, but the big draw here are the extensive common areas, including a lovely rooftop sundeck with great city views and a hot tub. Charming owner Adriana Teplixke and her knowledgeable staff can recommend great places to shop and eat, and rates here are quite reasonable, beginning around $100 nightly. If you’re on a budget, consider Palermo Viejo’s absolutely wonderful, gay-owned Bayres B&B, where it feels like staying vdth kind (and knowledgeable) friends in their simple but pleasant home. Rates (which run from $35 to $65 per night) include full breakfast, and there’s free high-speed Intemet and cable TV in every room, and private or shared bathrooms. Considering that Bayres costs hundreds less per night less than some of the city’s fanciest hotels, it’s truly an amazing bargain. Aiad with the money you save on rooms, you can invest in such heady pleasures as haute couture and cuisine - if you’re a serious shopper, bring along an empty suitcase to fill with your bounty. Owasse Community Theatre Opens The New Year With "StuaR Little" OWASSO, OK__Rehearsals have begun for the O~vasso Community Theatre’s presentation of Stuart Little by E.B. White, and performance dates have been scheduled for January 19-21 and 25- 27, 2007 at the Mary Glass Performing Arts Center in Owasso. All performances will occur at 7:00PM except the matinee on January 21st which will occur at 2:00PM. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 JANUARY 2007 "Resolve to Take Action" Well, it’s 2007, but many of us will probably be dating our checks 2006 for weeks to come. Old habits - 365 days worth - die hard, but soon the 2007 mental pathway will be established, and our dating habits (the written ones, anyway) will be corrected. Looking back, 2006 was quite a year. LOGO, the gay cable network, and the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association came up with their top 10 stories. It’s an interesting but not too surprising list, including everything from Outgames/Gay Games to Soulforce’s Equality Ride to Oscar coming out on Brokeback Mountain to Ted Haggard falling on his face (let alone from grace) to Mark Foley’s page folly to the Dems bringing democracy, back to Capitol Hill. I’m not about to rehash and recap - you can go to LOGOonline. corn and watch the four-part series complete with music, graphics, and Jason Bellini as anchor. My thoughts are on our future - what 2007 has in store for the community and for me, and even better, what we have in store for 2007. Personally; once the cast comes offmy ruptured right bicep tendon (when you’re almost 49, playing with the dog can be dangerous), I plan to segue physical therapy into future trips the gym. I’m one of those dykes who can put on weight just by thinking about it, and as I start my ascent to 50 1 really want to try and get back into some sort of shape. If any of you girls (or guys) have suggestions or secrets to share, just let me know. I’m open. Also, 2007 gives me the opportunity to tell my partner, Lynn, how much she means to me. Let your partner know how you feel, too - how important they are to you, how dreary your life wonld be without them, how much you love them. The new year also gives all of us the opportunity to let our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues know how much our partners mean to us. I’m not talking about being all mushy all the time at work or at family gatherings. I am talking about being clear about your life, who you live with, how you identify. If there was ever a year to come out and build on our achievements, this is it. The more that people know us and feel connected with us, the more likely they are to stand beside us as allies and fight for our rights. It’s all about building relationships and normalizing straight people’s perceptions ofwho we are. With a new Congress (let’s all pray for Sen. Tim Johnson’s [D-S.D.] full recovery), and the president’s final two years in a death spiral, the ability for the LGBT community to make real change is within our reach. If a lesbian can get elected to the Alabama State House, anything is possible - ifwe put our minds to it. "lhis is the year we could overtnrn "don’t ask, don’t tell." It’s the year we could get the federal nondlscrn-nmauon act and mclus~ve hate-crimes legislation passed. It’s the year we could see our national organizations ~vorldng in tandem on the issues that concern us the most. It’s the year we could see real progress on our issues. But for al! of that to happen this year, next year, or beyond, we, as a community, have to support the organizations that represent us. "lhat support could be a check to your local community center and!or to your statewide organization and/or to the national organization of choice. If we are to move forward in 2007, we must put LGBT human and financial capital to work. This is also the year for us to point out the lies of the radical Christian right and hold them accountable for their ,vords. After Mary Cheney announced in early December that she was pregnant, _Time_ magazine asked Focus on the Family’s James Dobson to write an opinion piece. In his usual homophobic, antigay- family way, Dobson - like other radical Christians - chastised Mary for bringing a child into the world without a dad. To back up his arguments, he cited the academic work of feminist scholar Carol Gilligan and Yale School of Medicine’s Kyle Pruett, M.D. Instead of just dismissing Dobson’s rantings as those of a rattled homophobe, Wayne Besen ofTruth Wins Out contacted both scholars and asked them to repudiate this nse of their work. °II~ey did. Time’s embarrasment led the mag’s editors to ask Jennifer Chrisler of Fainily Pride to write a response. Her piece debunked Dobson’s dithering about how a kid needs a mommy and daddy more than she or he needs love. Besen plans to keep the heat on Dobson and others like him with his new website, xw~vw.dobsonlies.org. Join Besen, and kick off 2007 vdth some action - write Time’s editor, Patrick Smith (patrick_smith@timemagazine.com), and tell him that if his magazine is going to let the right rant, it also has to make them prove their points with facts, not rely on the pseudo-fiction they’ve been parading behind. After that, tell your honey you love her or him, tell your neighbor you’re gay, write a check, and don’t ever forget how important you are in the next 365 days. Gayly O ahomar No Lor ger Pr r t TULSA, OK The publisher of the 24 year old Oklalxoma GLBT news paper, Andrew Hicks, announced in the December 15th issue that the Gayly was shutting down their print version and going digital. "\V,/e ~vant to take the Gayly into the future and onto new levels and fulfill a vision that has kept this paper alive for nearly 25 years. The world is changing and our need for information is changing with it." Hicks said. The on-line operation is due to be up and running this month. For more information go to: wv~v.gayly.com 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com GAY R GHTS ADVOCATE & LOBBYIST KErFH SMITH PASSES AWAY AT AGE 51 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Keith Smith died at Integris Hospital from pneumonia on Monday, November 20. Up until the time of his death he had been a tireless lobbyist not only for gay rights for also environmental causes, reproductive freedom, and civil liberties. Lobbying clients included the Sierra Club, Planned Parenthood, and the ACLU. He was also the co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats as well as a national board member A memorial service was held in the rotunda of the Oklahoma State Capitol, and speakers honoring him included ne~vly elected State Representative AI McAffre); State Senators Andrew Rice and Bernest Cain, former Governor David Waiters, Native American Rights activist Kalyn Free, Oklahoma ACLU Executive Director Joann Bell & his dear friend, Linda Gray Murphy. A native of Alva, Oklahoma, he is survived by his mother Berda Murrow, and three brothers, Craig, Kurt and Kyle Smith. www.ozarksstar.com FROZEN CRANBERRIES 2. Stir well. 3. Chill for at least 1 hour. When ready to serve... 4. Chill martini glasses with ice and water, 5. Add club soda to mixture. 6. Pour into martini glasses and enjoy. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ! The STAR 23 Congratulations Lawanda Jackson Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A 2007 by Victor Gorin Photo: Center LawandaJackson Miss Oklahoma US ofA 2007 & 1st runnerup Alexia" Nicole OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Copa was filled with excitement as the pageant for Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA came together in all its glory December 7-10. A pageant of Ragfin Productions, this marked the 20th anniversary of the event. Promoted by Regie Finley (a.k.a. Raghenna, Miss Oklahoma US ofA 1990) the show featured Alyssa Edwards, the current reigning Miss Gay US of A. It was emceed by Rachael Erikks (former Miss Gay Oklahoma & America)& Reghenna herself, and their campy wit kept it lively. The winners were 2nd Alternate Victoria Weston, 1 st runner-up Alexis Nicole Whimey, and Lawanda Jackson was crowned the new Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA. Both Lawanda and Alexis Nicole will go on to compete for the national title in Dallas May 22-25 of next year. w~#v.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 25 Salutations and ~velcome to Uncle Mikey 2007! Yes Kittens, it ~vas a holiday triumph once more Kittens, as yours truly entertained, touched, and brought holiday warmth to those around me. According to the lucky, Uncle did all three. As we usher in the New Year, allow us to unite, if only for a moment in holiday cheer. Uncle Mikey, Why do so many people turn the holidays into future stories of drunken escapades? Doesn’t anyone take time to enjoy the true meaning of the season? Holiday-Cheer Dearest Cheer, Kitten, the holiday,s mean something different to everyone. For some it is a deep and meaningful time of their personal faith celebration. W~ile others, look at it as a time for friends and family, We cannot cheapen it by taking away from someone’s personal holiday meaning. Uncle sees the holidays as a bit different still yet. Christmas time for me is a time of white mink against the skin, while given a reason to dress hunk-a-licious men in red, green, and sliver holiday strings. Kitten; just remember that everyone has his or her own reason for the season! Smooches Mikey. Uncle Mikey, I thought I was going to get a commitment ring for Christmas and instead found that my partner is not as ready as I thought after all. It has been a year and still no advancement in the elevation of this relationship. Should I lClnd someone who is as ready as I, or hope that he will come around? Still Looking for Bling--Bling Dearest Bling, Can I get an amen? Uncle Mikey never committed to awthing less than two carats! Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I was out at a club during my Christmas break from school, when I ran into an old flame from High School. We hooked up and spent some time together. I though we had renewed some old feelings for one another, however, the only thing he left me with was a cold release, when he went back to school, leaving me in the dust. Should I confront him? Trick Played Dear played, ~ Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Uncle says count your blessing and remember it for what it obviously was, a holiday romance. Smooches Mikey Kittens: We all can find drama in our life ifwe try, however the one thing that we seem to forget is that we allow the drama in our life to begin with. You were home from school, lonely during the Christmas rush, and jumped onto stallion number one. You rode him straight through break, only to complain at the dismount. Kitten, selfanalazation might point out that we only deal with what we allow ourselves too. ~-hink about it, you wanted deep penetrating! Well this is as deep as it gets. Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I started dating this guy a while ago, and while I do enjoy his company for the most part, I think it is that I am more afraid of being alone than being annoyed. It is not that I am a loser. It is that I do not lie to myself. I am not the most intelligent, or even the most desirable. Therefore, my question is this; is it wrong to settle? Only the lonely Dearest Lonely, Kitten Kitten, get off the cross because Madonna needs the wood! It is a shame to hear someone cutting oneself. It is not the package that sells the gift, it is the gift that makes the package. Kitten, we all begin with the simple package that the Gay Gods deliver to us. We make our identity. If you want to look better, it’s called a gym. Want to be a scholar, it’s called education. Want to improve your attitude, It’s called therapy, Bottom line kittens, it is all about self-help in a self-serving world. You can be a player or you can be played. No Kitten, it is not wrong to settle, it is a self-defeating cop out! Smooches Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, I caught my boyfriend in a lie. After I asked him if he was talking to people on the PC after I was in the bed, I decided to check for myself. I looked and found cookies left from him visiting the infamous site where they pick up booty calls. I didn’t’*=want to tell him I had been dipping into his business so I waited. Well, sure enough he told me that he had to be away on business overnight. After following him to the motel, it was clear what his business was. I have just been sick wondering what to do. Any advice for the betrayed? Seeing Red Dearest Red, Stalk-much? Kitten, a relationship is not worth it if you have to mistrust their every move. Kitten, I would strongly recommend some professional guidance here. I don’t mean spy gear either. Kitten, relationships are only as productive as the players in them. Ifyou feel that yours is not what you want, may I suggest the emergency exit! Smooches Mikey Well, like the trick in the alley, I must slide out once more. Kittens, here is to a New Year- May all of your dreams come true. Wishing you all a very Queer New Year! 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com and Combread 2pm, Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: -"?’Fell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest 12am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro xvear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: \~ieD" Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart~lburnament 10pm CLUB IVlAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \X;dl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart’l~3urnament i 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro CLUB ROX: Alison Scott, 9:30pro PEC’S: Mate Dancers, 9pm THE ROCKIES: OGRA Benefit Show 8:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest t2am XgCEDNESDA?f Januaq~" !0 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro PEC’S: ~Tell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show !0:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart’Iburnament 10pm THO~DA~~ Jarmary il CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erild~s PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart %urnament ! 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast But})t 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBoo LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Shmv 8:30pro. CLUB ~JESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: I~chael Erik~ Show ! 0:30pm MONDAY Jauuary 15 BAblBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-Tpm TUESDAY January 16 ..... PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: KarbOkie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Shm~X):30pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Shmv 10pro. THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: 50’s-60’s Sock Hop, BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinher Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: ICaraoke 9pro PEC’S: \Vell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament t 0pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wl Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \Yell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoaue Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dimcers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: tLachael Eril~&~ Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinnet Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pm. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm PEC’S: V&ll drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-gpm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro ~.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 "Expect arguments, Sagittarius! ...... Sun and Mercury lining up in Capricorn clash with Saturn in Leo, making egos more important than actual ideas. Remember, you’re more often right if you can admit when you’re wrong! The open mind and humble ego will win in the long run. ARIES (r,~arch 20 o Apri~ 19): Your sense of your own brilliance may lead you to trust in a triumph of your will, but your confidence is a bit inflated and can get you into big trouble. Handle authority gently. Intuitive hunches will soon prove helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - IVlay 20): Tripping over your religious roots? Patriarchal authorities from childhood may still intimidate you or act out through you. See where that’s coming from and focus on humanitarian ideals to rise above it. GEi~IN~ (IVlay 21 - June 20): Your mouth is likely to get you into trouble, but the real problem is your ego. What do you need to prove? Shrewdly measured, carefully considered words will get the point across better, and holding back will nurture your genius. CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Fussing about debts, those you owe or those owed you, can damage a partnership or friendship. Get those accounts in order, but don’t gripe. A more philosophical approach to these relationships will prove helpful very soon. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Stressing out gets you into arguments with co-workers. Work smarter, not harder, and be nice about their suggestions - whatever you think of them. Success in that.area will help you look and feel sexier wherever you go. VlR60 (August 23 - September 22): If you start feeling old and cranky, try to make a game of it. Exaggerate your complaints whenever you can to make a joke of them. That will make it easier to put things in perspective and open up new opportunities for fun. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You are normally the world’s greatest hostess. Not this week. Put some energy into your community, but keep your home a private _sanctum sanctorum_. Don’t let pessimism get you down; focus that energy into sensible caution. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your clever notions are likely to irritate your boss. In order to get ahead, soften and adjust your ideas to fit the boss’ thinking, but be ready to backpedal as necessary. Your innovations will be more welcome, and more effective, very soon. 28 the STAR SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 o December 20}: Philosophy and pragmatism are heading for a nasty collision. Your challenge is to stay true to your ideals and to apply them in the real world. It will take some severe adaptation. Expect arguments along the way, and be ready to learn from them! CAPRICORN (December 2t o January 19): A little leather or some dominance games can bring up more than you’ve bargained for. Play with someone you trust enough to step back and explore those issues with. Switch roles? Aggravating sexual problems will soon be easily discussed. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Problems in relationships are bugging you. Take time out to examine the issues, bur remember you can only make changes on your side of the equation. 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Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa.............2200 NW 39th Exp....... -405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy....... -405-525-0730 Gushers Restaurant.....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp 405-947-2351 Hi-Lo Club ....... 1221 NW 50th- 405-843-1722 Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- 405-524-5733 Ledo.............2200 NW Expwy......... 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ........405-681-5044 Partners......... 2805 NW 36th St -405-942-2199 Pec’s- 3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Red Rock North--- 2240 NW39th St 405-525-5165 Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw..........405-947-2351 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- 405-601-3711 The Park. 2125 NW 39th St ...........405-528-4690 The Rockies...... 3201 N. MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th -405-947-2351 Tramps- .2201 NW 39th .405-521-9888 Ziggy’s- - - 4005 N. Penn- -405-521-9999 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine -918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store--- 2740 E. 21st- 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 Club 209 209 N. Boulder- 918-584-9944 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston 918-584-9494 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan .918-835-3301 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI .........918-834-1051 GLBT Comm. Ctr- - - - 621 E. 4th Street.........918-743-4297 Hideaway Lounge..... 11730 E. 1 lth...........918-437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st - - 918-749-8378 Jazz’s Lounge...... 426 S. Memorial 9t8-836-8544 Midtown.......... 319 E. 3rd- 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave- 918-585-9552 Priscilla’s -7925 E. 41st.............918-627-4884 Priscilla’s 5634 W. Skelly - 918-446-6336 Priscilla’s 11344 E. 11th....918-438-4224 Priscilla’s 2333 E. 71st.............918-499-166t Renegades. 1649 S. Main 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd- 918-627-1505 St. Michaels Alley......3324-L E 31st- 918-745-9998 Sterling & Co. Salon---1606 E.15th St.- 918-742-9999 Titan’s Lounge .... 6373-C E 31st St- 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI.......... 918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd .918-592-1188 TNT’s 2114 S. 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Ca~ STAR AIDVERT~S~NG today. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �Arkansas’s 1st. Film highlights how the two gay men met in the military, how they confronted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. I really haven’t changed, I’m still a vegetarian and a lesbian. What has changed is that people know everything about me so it’s not controversial anymore. q-he 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close ~vith an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the award-winning musical "Mamma Mia!" While the polite pickets of the mid!960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time ~vhen homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. A general characteristic of Sauvignon Blanc is its distinctive, penetrating aroma, which can evoke scents of grapefruit, lime, green melon, gooseberry, passion fruit, freshly mown grass, and bell pepper. Gay Travelers: Las Vegas, Nevada Out of Town: Martha’s Vineyard Dining In or OUT L~$E~I],~N NOTI;O~$ Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination of Dr. James W. Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. Pictorial review of Pride month in Oklahoma. STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS ON THE COVER: k. d. Lmag 4 the STAR CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.com �Jim Roth-A Pioneer for Ok ahomds Centennial by James Nimmo Mr. Roth often says that his family goes beyond the biological and that officeholders should be held accountable by the voters for how well the job is done, not by who they love. OkJa omans for Equal Icon Honored Ttxe voters who elected Mr. Roth to his first term as county commissioner re-hired him with a 65% majority for a second term. The 2008 election will be important for Mr. Roth as he will be required to run a statewide campaign for election to complete the remaining two-year term and, again in 2010 for a full six-year term. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___Oklahoma celebrates its centennial this year and one would think that with 93% of the state’s history having occurred in the 20th Century there wouldn’t be much in the way of frontier left to discover in the 21 st. Mr Roth and his campaign workers will need to be full of the pioneering spirit of the Sooners as they get the rest of Oklahoma acquainted with the future--a future where, to paraphrase Dr. M.L.King, office holders are judged on the quality of their character coupled with their job effectiveness, and not who they love. The flat earth view of many in Oklahoma will be made all the rounder with Mr. Roth in office. However, Oklahoma is full of surprises both on the regressive and progressive sides of the historical coin. oki~hom~ns for equality TULSA, OK___Print Magazine, one of America’s most prestigious publications in visual culture and design, has chosen the OkEq logo for its A+C=D Business Graphics Review to be featured in the September/October issue. Every year Print sponsors five high-profile design competitions. The newest and fastest growing competition, A+C=D, brings together the full range of work done for corporate clients around the world--from print ads, corporate identities, and flyers to animated short films, websites, and interactive games. Print chose winners from selections submitted by firms worldwide. Here’s one of those progressive surprises. T. MOSS, Inc., a Tulsa-based graphic design firm, produced the award-winning icon as part of a branding campaign begun in June 2006. T.MOSS provides a full range of creative services, from strategic planning to print production and Web programming. With over 30 years in the business, the firm has met many design challenges. The development of the Ok~q identity provided its own set of considerations. In mid-May Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to fill a vacancy on the state’s Corporation Commission. This is a very important position in Oklahoma for both the citizens and the corporations doing business in the state such as utilities, oil and gas companies, and transportation. Mr. Roth is a remarkable man with a razor sharp mind, an affable personality, and a happy home-life with his partner of seven years, Worth Ross. Our House, Too Just how remarkable is Mr. Roth’s appointment? It was made by a very conservative Democratic governor. It remains to be seen how the rural voters in Oklahoma will view an openly gay man running for state-wide office. www.0zarksstar.c0m offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. V~/e provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV÷ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 91 8~585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.com. "OkEq is a robust, purposeful organization that prides itself in its mission of inclusiveness, community outreach and human rights advocacy. We wanted to create a contemporary, upbeat visual image for OkEq that exemplifies their spirit and dedication," said Toni Moss who designed the logo. Oklahomans for Equality seel~ equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Community Center. the STAR 5 �TULSA GAY PRIDE FESTIVITIES Faces o£Ok ahoma Pride 2007 With two great metropolitan cities, Diversity Pride is strong in this Bible Belt State of Oklahoma. We have elected officials who are openly gay and glbt supportive. There are equal rights organizations both in Oklahoma City and Tulsa fighting for our future. Two Gay Rodeo Associations, numerous gay and glbt welcoming churches, entertainment venues, clubs, hotels and, two Diversity Business Associations, DBA Tulsa and DBA Metro. We have Oklahoma based Gay/Lesbian owned print and internet news publications supported by you and the business community. Most important is that we have an opportunity to grow stronger as a united group of Oklahoman’s with a huge glbt community separated by only 100 miles of turnpike. Yes, GLBT Pride is alive and ~vell in Oklahoma and we did celebrate. Check out our Faces of Oklahoma Pride on page 25. Sincerely, Charles (Chaz) Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief ARE WE FABULOUS O R WHAT By Victor Gorin From Memorial Day weekend through the month of June, GLBT Oklahomans gathered to share their pride in ways that nobody could have dreamed of less than 30 years ago. As we celebrate our state’s centennial keep in mind that all of us, from cowboy to fluff, from leatherman to drag queen, from lipstick lesbian to diesel divas, from disco boy to businessman, helped play a part of it and will shape our future. Tulsa celebrated their Gay Pride Parade June 9. Beginning at 15th & Utica, it concluded at Veteran’s Park where celebrants enjoyed Tulsa’s 25th LGBT Pride Festival. Although not forgotten by the protesters (with a banner reminding us to remember Sodom and Gommarha) (sic) the Parade came to a fabulous finale. The Festival featured maW of Tulsa’s finest entertainers, with diversions ranging from a Family Fun Zone to a beer garden, offering something for everyone. An estimated 17,000 people from all walks of life were in attendance. That night the Pride continued with the annual Oklahomans for Equality Diversity Gala, held in the Grand Ballroom of the Doubletree Warren Place. This year their Russell G. Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion went to the Reverend Leslie Penrose of Community of Hope UCC of Tulsa. Their Lifetime Achievement Award was presented to Dennis R. Neill, for whom the Tulsa gay community center is named, following a video depicting his life of service on behalf of GLBT Oklahomans. OKLAHOMA CITY GAY PRIDE FESTIVAL Oklahoma City celebrated the 20th Anniversary of their Gay Pride Parade, with their theme coinciding with the Oklahoma Centennial. For the first time the Festival and Parade were separate events, the Festival held in Memorial Park June 16-17 for ~wo days, featuring live entertainment as well as numerous vendors & exhibitors, with the Parade scheduled for June 24. The event was supported by a proclamation by State Senator Andrew Rice & State Representative A1 McAffrey, with Bob Lemon receiving the Irene Tyson Award from the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus for his generous philanthropy and service to the GLBT community of Oklahoma. Let’s all look forward to it. Diversity Business Association of Tulsa 6 the STAR GREAT PLAINS REGIONAL RODEO This annual event was held again at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds, bringing cowboys and cowgirls nationwide. Featuring standard rodeo events as well as the hilarity of"goatdressing," it proved again to be a major success for those who love the western lifestyle. www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �OKLAHOMAN CAPTU S THE TITLE OF MR GAY ALL AMERICAN By Victor Gorin O~AHOMA CITY, OKOklahoman Taz Bailey placed first at the National Mr. Gay M1Mnerican Contest held at the Copa in Oklahoma City May 19. Based on a competition that incorporated talent, modeling & interview, he captured the title followed by Sebastian Armonte of Pittsburgh (1 st alternate) and Dean Taylor of St. Louis (2nd alternate). Hosted by former Miss Gay America Rachael Erikks and Mr. Gay All American 2006 Lucas Flander, the event gave the spectators good eye candy as wet! as inspiration. Mr. Bailey will now promote the Mr. Gay All American Contest as a positive gay role model throughout the county. Recognized by Keller Williams For outstandiilg achievement 2005 and 2006 RIgA LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 ~47hether buying or selling I’ll work hard~bryo~ REALTOR~ 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.corr ��~he weekend-long festival will exhibit more than a dozen films including some of the best releases this ),ear in the genre of gay cinema. For more information about the event contact Amos Lassen: 501-372-3403(h) 870-550-6298(c) PREMIERE DATE: Saturday June 23 TIME: 8:00 pm LOCATION: Easy Street Piano Bar - 307 W. 7th Street, Little Rock, AR 72201 Phone: 501-372-3530 TICKETS: Tickets $5, $10 available at the door For more information, photographs and trailer visit: www.bobandjack.org (Top) Jack Reavley (L) and Bob Claunch in 1953 DOCUMENTARY ABOUT HALFCENTURY ROMANCE BETWEEN TWO MEN OPENS the 1ST ANNUAL ARY kNSAS GAY AND LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL. 7his f!lm highlights how the two gay men met in the rnilitat3,, how they conj~onted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. LITTLE ROCK, AR__ In 1952 an Army sergeant was cornered and courted by his commanding officer. Their romance grew so obvious that rumors became anonymous tips to headquarters. They avoided court-martial by confronting their entire unit. That pivotal moment cemented Bob and Jack together for the rest of their lives. 52-years later they share how they remained a couple, how one man left his wife and children, how together they moved to a small town and became a fixture in the community, and today how they survive in their eighties without the benefits of marriage. Now Bob and Jack’s 52-Year Adventure, an award winning documentary about their relationship, will premiere Saturday June 23rd, 8 PM at the Easy Street Piano Bar as the opening night film of Reel Attractions, The Arkansas GLBTQ Film Festival. A discussion with director Stu Maddux follows. "We feel extremely honored to premiere at this festival," says Bob Claunch, now 81, from their home in Los Angeles, CA. "With everything going across the country with "dofft ask don’t tell" and with gay marriage, we hope people are encouraged by our story. We didn’t have it easy but we didn’t give up." "That’s one of the reasons we think that the film is a good message for young people too", says partner Jack Reavley, 83. "They need to know that they can have successful relationships. The skeptics are just waiting for us to fail when we try to have lifelong love. Well we didn’t, and we’re here to tell you that you won’t either’." 10 the STAR Eureka Sprin.qs Domestic Partnership R gistry Begins After two petition attempts Reverend Philip Wilson, pastor of Eureka Springs" First Christian Church failed to stop registration of same sex couples. Domestic Partnership Regist*7 began Friday, June 22, 2007 at 9:30 AM. By Michael Walsh EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ Blockage of the state’s first Domestic Partnership Registry scheduled to take effect June 22 left Advocates more determined than ever to see the measure implemented. The ordinance creating the registry was unanimously approved May 14 by the Eureka Springs City Council, after two months of&liberation and dtizen input. However anti-gay minister Philip \Vgilson halted the effective date late last week by submitting to the city clerk a petition of 147 signatures from opponents, three more than the minimum required to force a referendum on the issue August 14. Though disappointed by the delay, proponents are confident a majority of the resort town’s voters would ratify the measure. Broadbased support from hundreds of residents, toUrists, church groups and dozens of local businesses, suggest the effort to circumvent the city Council’s approval would fail at the polls. Unless the referendum can be tied to a pending sewer bond election, Wilson’s maneuver could cost the city already cash strapped between $6,000 and $9,000, the price tag for g Special election. Until then, the city wil! also be deprived of revenue $35 per couple from tourists and residents wishing to register. Hotel, restaurant, nightclub and gift shops will see no profit from Arkansas and out-of-state tourists who were holding off on vacation plans until the domestic partnership registry is in effect. Ironically, Wilson has asserted the Domestic Partnership Registry available to same-sex and opposite-sex couples would negatively impact the town’s economy, transforming it into a "Homosexual mecca" incompatible with such "faith-based" tourist attractions such as the Great Passion Play. ......................... Continued next page. www.ozarksstar.com �EUREY& SPRINGS REGISTRY HOLLYWOOD HOTEL & SUITES Interestingly, almost 50 of the city’s businesses, about 25 percent, are gay owned and have existed in harmony with the Great Passion Play for years, even encouraging their customers to attend the staged production that depicts the life and death of Jesus Christ. Executives of the religious attraction, however, decline to return the favor, suggesting visitors avoid downto~vn Eureka Springs where they might see same-sex couples holding hands during any one of the city’s three annual "Diversity Weekends." COMPLEX-FUTURE UNCERTAIN By Victor Gorin Civil rights watchdog groups, such as the Human Rights Campaign Foundation and the ACLU have been monitoring events in Eureka Springs since April 9 when the Domestic Partnership ordinance first appeared on the city council’s agenda. So has the Arkansas Trial Lawyers Association. One member of the association has said he will lobby to have the group’s annual meeting in Eureka Springs moved to another city if the Domestic Partnership Registry is not enacted. Big business also has been waiting to see the fate of the Registry. AT&T alerted thousands of its employees last week that domestic partnership certificates would be available in Eureka Springs. The city clerk of Eureka Springs Mary Jean Sell rejected a first and second attempt to bring a domestic registry to a public vote. The petitions missed specific wording needed to bring the issue to a special election. Domestic Partnership Registry began Friday, June 22, at 9:30 AiM. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available online at (wwvv.cityofeurekasprings.org/DPRterm.html). Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association has just announced their 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest. The contest is open to anyone and everyone. Entries must be received by OGRA no later than July 31, 2007. OGRA sponsors the annual Great Plains Rodeo on Memorial Weekend. This event has been taking place since 1985. The 2008 edition of the Great Plains Rodeo will be the 23rd Annual. OGRA is proud to present this event each year as one of their largest fundraisers. As a major part of the rodeo they sponsor a poster contest with the winning design used for the rodeo poster, t-shirts and other publications. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__When the Hollywood Hotel and Suites opened in 2006, owned by John Lewis & Warren Burdick, there were high hopes of a grand complex that would not only serve Oklahoma City but also be a gay tourist attraction. In its heyday it boasted the Topanga a full service restaurant and bar, the dance bar Club Rox, and a leather club called Pecs. According to Oklahoma County records John Lewis purchased the hotel, originally constructed in 1971, in January of 2006 for $1.2 million under the name LB Financial Group Inc. As of this writing both clubs and the restaurant are closed, and no other information is available except that the front desk personnel stated that it was due to renovations. We have heard conflicting reports as to how long the hotel will continue operating. Responding to an inquiry by the Star at 11:20 a.m. June 20, the front desk person stated that there were no definite plans of a date to cease operations. ~le STAR attempted to contact the owners of the hotel for more details, but no one has returned our calls. All submissions have to be original works. THE WINNING DESIGN WILL RECEIVE $175.00 IN PRIZE MONEY AND BECOME THE SOLE PROPERTY OF OGRA, INC. The other entries will be returned to the contestant upon request. All entries should be submitted to OGRA Inc., EO. Box 12485, Oklahoma City, OK 73157. Please include a brief bio of yourself i£you wish. The entries will be judged by the OGRA Board of Directors with finalists being selected. Those finalists then will be put on display as a part of a voting competition. The OGRA Membership table will be setup inside the Habana Inn hallway, between the Finishline and Copa, the third weekend in August where the poster finalists will be put on display. For further information email info@ogra.net or ~ontact any OGRA Board Member. www.ozarksstar, com the STAR 11 ���Wha were some GLBT protests The Stonewall riots of June 1969 are often cited as the start of the gay liberation movement, but several GLBT protests occurred during the preceding ),ears. These early actions included both organized demonstrations and spontaneous bursts of outrage at specific injustices. Perhaps the first unplanned protest occurred in May 1959 at Cooper’s Donuts, an allnight hangout in downtown Los Angeles frequented by hustlers and drag queens. According to author John Rechy, who was present, police harassed and tried to arrest a few of the patrons, prompting others to throw food and tableware; the officers retreated to their car and summoned reinforcements, who closed the street and arrested several rioters. A similar event occurred in August 1966 at Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco. After a police officer tried to grab a young queen, some 50 customers hurled dishware and overturned tables, while outside a police car was destroyed and a newsstand was set on fire. ire Stonewall? activists demonstrated against the military ban outside the Whitehall Induction Center in New York CitT; the picketers included members of the Sexual Freedom League, some of whom were heterosexual. In early 1965, Craig Rodwell (who would later open the Oscar Wilde Memorial Bookshop, the first gay bookstore in the United States) and others demonstrated outside United Nations headquarters to protest ill treatment of gays in Cuba. While the polite pickets of In the spring and summer of 1965, activists with the East Coast Homophile Organizations - cofounded by Frank Kameny, who had himself been fired from a government job - picketed the White House, the Pentagon, the State Department, and the Civil Service Commission in Washington, D.C. the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. Police harassment of gay bars in Los Angeles also spurred early protests. Soon after midnight on New Year’s Eve in 1967, police raided the Black Cat bar on Sunset Boulevard, beating patrons and bartenders and arresting several people for lewd conduct. Protests erupted outside the bar that night and continued for several days. A year later, police raided the Patch, another gay bar in the same city. After owner Lee Glaze shouted, "It’s not against the law to be homosexual," the patrons marched to the nearby Harbor Division police station and pelted the building with flowers. The first organized GLBT demonstrations took place in the mid-1960s to protest antigay discrimination in federal employment and the military. Typically, these actions were small and polite, featuring men in suits and women in dresses walking in circles holding signs. In 1964, about a dozen 14 the STAR That summer, 40 activists staged the first of four ’~mnual Reminders" at Independence Hall in Philadelphia (home of the Liberty Bell) on July 4. The demonstration was organized by members of the Mattachine Society, the Daughters of Bilitis (DOB), and Philadelphia’s Janus Society; among the participants were several individuals who became well-known figures in the GLBT movement, including Barbara Gittings (an editor of DOB’s magazine, The Ladder) and Kiyoshi Kuromiya (later a prominent AIDS activist). ~lhe ?mnual Reminders ended after 1969 and were supplanted by yearly Gay Pride celebrations. "\Ve cracked the cocoon of invisibility," Gittings later recalled. "We had finally stepped forxvard and said to the public, ’I’m not going to live in a closet anymore."’ Added fetloxv participant Lilti Vincenz, "We exploded the myth that real homosexuals could [not] possibly look happy and proud and dignified and visible." In early 1966, the North American Conference of Homophile Organizations met in Kansas City and called for demonstrations on Armed Forces Day to protest the military ban. On May 21, actions took place in several cities, including a motorcade in Los Angeles with Mattachine Society founder Harry Hay. Homophile activists also took on the psychiatric establishment, protesting at professional conferences beginning in 1968. Public pickets initially proved controversial, as some members of the GLBT community preferred not to call attention to themselves. By the late 1960s, however, the country was in the grip of an era of militant protest by groups espousing diverse causes. One of the first actions of what would become known as the gay liberation (as opposed to the earlier homophile) movement was a March 1968 "gay-in" in Griffith Park in Los Angeles. In the same ci9; activists also began picketing Bamey’s Beanery, a diner that posted a sign reading "Fagots Stay Out" [sic]. In San Francisco in the spring of 1969, young queer militants demonstrated outside the offices of States Steamship Line for ,veeks to protest the firing of gay activist Gale Whittington. Tixe Stonewall riots garnered much more media attention than previous demonstrations and sparked intensified gay organizing across the country. Since that time, GLBT protests have been a mainstay of the movement’s strategy, waxing and waning in cycles that reflect the overall national political and social climate. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. "Visibility has always been the keystone of our struggle for civil rights," Gittings said in the 2004 documentary Gay Pioneers. "We are pushing for equality through visibility. Today, we have visibility - oh, do we have visibility!" ww,qozarksstar.com �Mamma Mia! Tour - P~ctur~cl Corey Greenan & Company Photo: 200~, Joan Marcua ~rna Mial Tour - Pictured Se~n ,~Jl~n Joan Marcus Wha a W dding! 200Z B~vacl~ay Season Ends with a Special Bon us By Joey De The 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close with an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the awardwinning musical "Mamma Mia!" to Tulsa audiences May 8-13. Featuring the music of the sensational seventies group Abba, "Mamma Mia!" is the sho~v that not only brought their music to a new generation, but also birthed an entirely new genre on Broadway. Following the show’s nearly sold out run, there is no question why. Using over twenty of the European group’s greatest hits, "Mamma Mia!" tells www.ozarksstar.com the story of young Sophie and her dream to find her father. Sophie’s mother, Donna, had a wild streak in the seventies and has never spoken much about her mate, leaving the young girl to invite three potential paternals to their quaint Greek island getaway just in time for her wedding. Brilliantly reflecting issues relevant to the Abba-generations such as fleeing fathers, self worth and the quest for true happiness, the show deals a heavy hand of social commentary wrapped in a comfortable blanket of feel-good comedy. In fact, the book brilliantly written by Catherine Johnson infuses the show with such a high dose of innocence and fun that its life lessons are delivered in witty one-liners. Amplifying the show’s feel good fun is the hit music that everybody knows. From "Dancing Queen," to "Take a Chance on Me," singing along with the young and enthusiastic cast becomes contagious. Perhaps though, the show’s greatest musical milestone is intertwining music that has been around for thirty years with an original story so seamlessly that you would swear they were written for each other. anything more than it is and it doesn’t fail to deliver. With its glitz, glam and spandex, it is a show that can make the most manically depressed smile. Following on the heels of"Mamma Mia!" is another show guaranteed to tickle your funny bone, or hit you over the head with a herring. As a bonus to the season, Celebrity Attractions will be presenting the smash hit musical "Monty Pythons Spamalot," the show that lovingly rips off the cult-classic film. "Spamalot," written by former Pythonite by Eric Idle, is based on the screenplay of "Monty Python and the Holy Grail," written by the original Monty Python troupe of Graham Chapman, John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Terry Jones, Michael Palin, and Idle. Epic in nature, "Spamalot," is tells the legendary tale of King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table, and their quest for the Holy Grail. It features a chorus line of dancing divas and knights, taunting Frenchmen, killer rabbits and one legless knight. Award-winning and side splitting, "Spamalot" will be in Tulsa Jul. 10-15. Tickets are on sale now at ~wcw.myticketoNce.com. At the heart, "Mamma Mia!" is a fun, frolicking musical. It doesn’t pretend to be the STAR 15 ��"Roasted Sweet Red Pepper & Potato Soup" To make the soup more colorful, use a combination of red, yellow and orange bel! peppers. And if you want to dress it up a little more, you can garnish it with pesto, croutons or minced fresh herbs. For a chowder like consistency, do not puree the soup but be sure to cut the peppers, onion and potatoes into neat uniform dice. Ingredients: 4 - 5 large red bell peppers 1 large or 2 medium yellow onions, diced 1 - 2 cloves garlic, minced 3 tablespoons olive oil 6 cups Chicken Stock 2 medium potatoes, peeled and diced 1/4 - 1/2 cup heavy cream 3 tablespoons chopped basil Kosher or sea salt Freshly ground pepper Procedure: Roast, peel, seed and dice the bell peppers. Heat the oil in a large pot and saute the onion and garlic over medium heat until translucent. Add the bel! peppers and stock and cook for 10 minutes. Add the potatoes and cook until tender. Puree the soup and strain it into a clean pot. Add the cream, basil, salt and pepper. Stir and bring just to a boil. Be VERY CAREFUL to heat the soup gently and take extra care NOT to boil it. Serv’es 8 to 10 people. More on FOG CITY DINER, San Francisco, California see page I9. ��we are in San ] www.ozarksstar.com �O,,e of the most sce.,ic views on Martha’s Vineyard is Aquinnah Lighthouse, which is perched big,:, , bo ,e the is/a.o:’s ,,,,de beach, a’hoto 6,.a,d ew Crocker House Inn, a 1920s beach house owned by young and friendly innkeepers Jeff and Jynd! Kristal. Rooms are casually smart, with white-wicker furnishings, and some have fireplaces and whirlpool tubs. \Vithin a 10-minute stroll of these inns are several fine shops, a quirky old movie theater, and a few nice eateries. A favorite is Cafe Moxie, which presents an intriguing range of relatively affordable rood-American dishes. If you’re in the mood for a lobster roll, drop by the Net Result, a simple fish market a 10-minute walk from the ferry terminal serving some of the freshest seafood around. JULY 2007 By Andrew Collins Since Provincetown bursts at the seams all summer long with excitement and socializing, quite a few lesbians and gay men across New England have begun heading to a quieter but no less charming and remote seaside getaway, Martha’s Vineyard. Over the past several years, especially since Massachusetts legalized gay marriage, the island has seen a gradual but discernible growth in gay and lesbian visitation. One key to enjoying this sparkling emerald island off the southern coast of Cape Cod (it’s accessible by only ferry or plane) is to arrive with a lover rather than hoping to find one upon arrival. Of course, Martha’s Vineyard - along with its neighbor to the east, Nantucket - has long been a highly desirable destination. Families have been building the nmv-ubiquitous weathered-shingle cape-style houses here for more than three centuries, dating to the island’s origins as a sleepy fishing settlement. Yachting and hobnobbing among the rich and famous became official pastimes during the early part of this century. Glitterati such as Carly Simon, James Taylor, Spike Lee, Sharon Stone, Meg Ryan, Denzel Washington, Ted Danson, and Mary Steen 20 the STAR bergen regularly spend time here. Members of the Kennedy clan have been sailing over for years, and political pundits will always associate Martha’s Vineyard with the Chappaquiddick scandal that ultimately cost Ted Kennedy the U.S. presidency. Come for a visit, however, and you’ll hear little talk of celebrity-spotting and rumormongering. Famous or unknown, gay or straight, folks come to Martha’s Vineyard to get away from the vagaries and pressures of life on the mainland. Here you’!l discover historic inns, some of the finest restaurants in coastal New England, and a handful of enchanting villages, each with its own pace and personality. The town of Vineyard Haven is an ideal base. This walkable village has a few gayfriendly inns, some hip restaurants and boutiques, and an enviable sheltered location overlooking Vineyard Haven Harbor. The other communities on the island are within a half-hour drive (or an afternoon’s bike ride - Martha’s Vineyard is ideal for cyclists, and there are rental shops near each of the ferry terminals). If you wish to stay right in Vineyard Haven, book a room at the breezy Oak Bluffs and Edgartown are the two other major settlements on the island (they are also the only towns ~vith liquor licenses; restaurants elsewhere on the island are BYOB, although it’s expected that by 2008, Vineyard Haven will obtain a license that permits the sale of liquor at restaurants). Oak Bluffs has been more heavily developed than other towns on the island, with a bounty of lively bars and rollicking amusements popular with college students and teenagers. It’s a fun town for window-shopping, picking up an ice cream cone at a local parlor, and eating - there are plenty of terrific restaurants in Oak Bluffs. At the upper end, the Sweet Life Cafe serves outstanding regional American fare and occupies a handsome Victorian house along the town’s main drag, Circuit Avenue - try the squid-ink fettuccine with shrimp, scallops, calamari, and a tomato-basil-garlic broth. More casual and less pricey options, both of which are also fun places to sip cocktails and socialize, include Sharky’s Cantina, which serves up terrific Tex-Mex in a festive ambience, and the Lookout Tavern, a rustic seafood shack overlooking the sea and serving not only great platters of fried and broiled fish and shellfish but also first-rate sushi. Edgartown is the island’s somewhat more conservative community, at least in appearance if not necessarily in politics (this is still a highly liberal part of the world, especially on social issues). This posh historic village defined by gorgeous white-clapboard Colonial homes and neatly manicured gardens has several convivial eateries, and numerous high-end clothiers and boutiques downtown. Tops for dining are Detente, a www.ozarksstar.com �hip little wine bar serving superbly crafted, innovative fare like lemon-honey-basted halibut with truffled leek puree, baby artichokes, and oven-dried tomatoes. A more casual but still reliable bet is the Wharf Pub, which serves consistently good burgers, salads, and pub fare. Right in Edgartown you’ll find some lovely, gay-friendly accommodations, including the Shiverick Inn, a grand Second Empire mansion where romantic rooms have sumptuous Victorian bedding and antiques, and the Hob Knob Inn, a handsome and well-run 18room Gothic Revival property with unfussy but attractive furnishings reminiscent of an English country house. Just south of Edgartown, with a fantastic location on Katama Beach, the Winnetu Oceanside Resort makes for a delightful retreat, especially if you’ve got kids in tow - in fact, this is one of the best gay-friendly, family-oriented properties on the East Coast. The property consists of a luxury inn with one- to four-bedroom suites as well as a cluster of three- to five-bedroom town homes. The resort offers dozens of diversions to keep you busy, from bike tours to whale-watching trips, and there’s a world-class tennis facility on-site. Also, Winnetu’s restaurant, Lure, serves some of the most inventive seafood fare on the island, such as butter-poached lobster with soft cornbread, roasted corn, and fava beans. This upscale resort draws mostly families with kids in summer, but it’s more of a couples destination during the mellower spring and fall shoulder seasons. Outdoors enthusiasts should stick to the western side of Martha’s Vineyard (referred to locally as Up-Island). Here you can sample fresh lobster dockside in the picturesque fishing village of Menemsha (a great place to stop for a casual seafood lunch - just try one of the restaurants on the pier), or admire ocean views from the lighthouse and multihued clay cliffs at Aquinnah (formerly known as Gay Head). Below the Gay Head cliffs you will find, appropriately, a popular nude beach with a moderate following among gays and lesbians - when you hit the beach, turn right, and walk all the way to the end (about 30 minutes). A tip: If you’d like to check the scene out in advance, drop some change into one of the coin-operated magnifying lenses near the base of the lighthouse - it’s the closest you’ll come to a peep show on Martha’s Vineyard. 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Ok~ahoma’~ H~V/STD Hotfine In the Up-Island community of West Tisbury, set back on a wooded property slightly off the beaten path, you’ll find the island’s most opulent gay-owned property, Lambert’s Cove Inn. Innkeepers Scott Jones and I. Kell Hicklin have restored what had been a somewhat dowdy country hotel into a sophisticated boutique inn with smartly furnished rooms set among three buildings. Amenities include DVD/CD players, high-speed Internet, and plush Egyptian cotton linens, and some rooms have private screened-in porches. A sunken pool in back is the perfect place to while away a hot afternoon. And in the evening, the inn’s elegant dining room serves outstanding contemporary American fare, such as braised veal cheeks with sweet corn, English pea risotto, and a Madeira wine reduction. It’s the definitive venue for a relaxing Martha’s Vineyard hideaway. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �J U L¥ 2007 Truth Calling Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination ofDr. James VX Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. My phone rang recently, and it was a local radio station asking me to respond to samesex marriage still being the law of the land in Massachusetts. The measure calling for a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage there was defeated by the full state legislature, 45 yes votes and a resounding 151 no’s. Of course, my response was measured, delivered in appropriate sound bites, and echoing what everyone else is saying about the victory. It’s great for Massachusetts, but even greater for the rest of the country, where many LGBT people are still struggling to attain basic civil rights. The vote lets us put our resources into 2008 where they need tO be - focusing on the presidential and pivotal state races, rather than having to pump tons of money into defeating another bad bill. Ah, but truth be told, this victory is sweet but short, because now we need to turn our attention to defeating a bad nomination - that of Kentucky’s Dr. James W. Holsinger for U.S. Surgeon General. My initial response after reading about Holsinger was, "Who the hell is giving W advice these days?" Didn’t they see what would happen if they nominated a homophobic, radical Christian who started an ex-gay ministry? Did they think we wouldn’t notice? On the face of it, Holsinger seems like a credible medical professional. He is a cardiologist who holds the University of Kentucky’s Charles T. Wethington Jr. Chair in the Health Sciences, and is the former chancellor of UK’s Chandler Medical Center. Just because he’s from the heart of the Bible Belt doesn’t mean we have to automatically jump to conclusions about his politics. After all, Abe Lincoln was born there, the LGBT community is gaining political strength in the Bluegrass State through the Kentucky Fairness Alliance, and they’ve even got an openly gay man in the state Senate - Ernesto Scorsone. Well, maybe you should start jumping after all. Because as Wayne Besen of Truth Wins Out put it, "Holsinger is an ideologue 22 the STAR whose medical views on gay and lesbian people resemble sorcery more than sound science." Holsinger is not only a doctor, but a devout Christian who is a high-ranking lay leader in the United Methodist Church - you know, the folks who talk about "Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors" - except, of course, when it comes to us. In his position on the United Methodist Judicial Council (the place where the buck stops in the Methodist Church), Holsinger’s record is anything but promising for LGBT people. He opposed the 2004 decision to allow Rev. Karen Dammann, a lesbian, to continue serving as a minister. He backed the deftocking of Rev. Beth Stroud, who came out to her Pennsylvania church community at the First United Methodist Church of Germantown. And, in one of the ugliest acts of religious discrimination, Holsinger backed a Virginia pastor who barred an openly gay man from church membership. One could argue that those actions were his personal beliefs and wouldn’t interfere with him being the country’s top doctor. Perhaps...but one need only read the Pathophysiology of Male Homosexuality, a "scientific" paper Holsinger wrote in 1991 for the Church’s Committee to Study Homosexuality, to see how his personal beliefs impact his science. The piece is available online at abcnews. go.com/images/Politics/Holsinger_on_Homosexuality.pdf. (If you want some laughs, Stephen Colbert of The Colbert Report did a hilarious send-up of the paper and Holsinger - you can watch it at http://rawstory. com/news/2007/Colbert Report Why are gays still 0614.html.) upon which one interlocks within the other. When the complementarity of the sexes is breached, injuries and diseases may occur.... Therefore, based on the simplest knmvn anatomy and physiology, xvhen dealing ~vith the complementarity of the human sexes, one can simply say, Res ipsa loquitur - the thing speaks for itself!" I guess the thing that is "speaking for itself" is a penis, which, in his estimation, belongs in only one place - a vagina. This is more like the science of a 6-year-old, not a 68-year-old. I won’t get any more graphic. But if you want a great deconstruction of the paper, go to Jim Burroway’s xwwv.boxturtlebulletin.com, a site that is devoted to debunking the lies told about us through research and well-reasoned writing. His conclusion puts Holsinger’s snake-oil chicanery in the proper perspective. To add insult to injury, when Holsinger and his wife were congregants at Lexington’s First United Methodist Church, they helped their pastor form a new "outreach, congregation called the Hope Springs Community Church. Hope Springs sports an antigay ministry. According to them, being gay is just a lifestyle. With Christ’s love, anyone can be straight. Next up are Holsinger’s confirmation hearings. When they’re scheduled, Holsinger will go before the U.S. Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions, which is chaired by Edward Kennedy (DMass.). Three Democratic presidential candidates - Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.), Chris Dodd (Conn.), and Barack Obama (I11.) - sit on the committee. Only Clinton has definitely said no to Holsinger. Dodd and Obama have strong concerns. John Edwards, although no longer in the Senate,opposes the nomination. We xvon in Massachusetts. Conservatives are calling for the repeal of "don’t ask, don’t tell." If there was ever a time for Democratic Party leaders to find their backbone, this is it. It’s time for truth to go a-calling- Holsinger’s homophobia has no place in medicine or in government. One of my favorite passages reads, "...the logical complementarity of the human sexes has been so recognized in our culture that it has entered our vocabulary in the form of naming various pipe fittings either the male fitting or the female fitting depending w~,~v.ozarksstar.com �By Joey De \vgith the placing of the cro~vn, Oklahoma City based performer Adrianna became the new Miss Oklahoma Continental on May 25 at Club Majestic in Tulsa. The evening, filled with national title holders and special entertainers marked the reign of Miss Oklahoma Continental 2006, Kandy Cayne. For Adrianna, the achievement is another milestone in a career highlighted with titles. "I now have been a state title holder in 3 of the big 4 pageant systems," says Adrianna. "I was Miss Kansas USofA in 2000 and Miss Gay Oklahoma America in 2004." "There are several differences between those and Continental," notes the performer. "The major one is the addition of the swimwear competition. Also, the interview process was a new experience as well since it is a group setting, not one-on-one. Overall, the style of the system seems to be more ’fashion-forward’ than any of the other systems that I have been involved in." Adrianna entered the Continental system hoping to become "known for her unique sense of style. "I heard one time that the ability to accessorize is what separates us from the animals," she jokes. According to Thompson, Adrianna was born on Halloween at a DIFFA masquerade ball, and has been performing since 1995. "I began doing drag after my friends hauled me to Miss Gay Oklahoma America the year that Gertrude Garnet won. I was barely 21 and was engaged to a female. However, I knew from that moment on I belonged in a dress on that stage. The rest is history." For Thompson, much of his inspiration behind the character or Adrianna comes from his morn. "I was a mamma’s boy... she’s a great lady. She’s an elected official who is very politically active, and stands up for what she believes in." www.ozarksstar.com A self described performer since birth, Adrianna is the drag transformation of Sapulpa native Jon Thompson. Thompson, who spends his days as a customer care representative for a major telecommunications firm, says that he has been happily married to his husband (and fellow performer) Chris for the past two years. The couple also shares custody of their child, Alden, their miniature Schnauzer. With his forthcoming reign as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson hopes to grow as a female impersonator and overcome new challenges. "I have already learned so much. It has made me expand my mind to think of drag in a new way. I have used it to launch me out of a rut, and made me have the perception that drag is fun again...I have been at it a few years, and like most things you can tire of it. But at this point...I am always thinking of the next best number or costume." Thompson also ~vishes to reach out as an ambassador of the community with his latest title. "I think that I am in a unique position by being a former Miss Oklahoma America. I can promote the pageant and the system by working with the other systems. I will also be launching a fund-raising campaign, in honor of my aunt who is a breast cancer survivor. The net proceeds will benefit the Susan G. Komen foundation." As a part of that campaign, Thompson will be walking with his cousin from Dallas to Fort Worth over the course of three days, and encourages people to visit www.the3day. org for more information. While not attending to appearances as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson can be seen performing as Adrianna on the third Sunday of every month. For information and updates on special appearances, fans can visit www.myspace.com/mgo2004. OGLP¢’s Tyson Award for 2007, Nr. Bob Lemon By James Nimmo Photo by Victor Gorin. Left to Right Bob Lemon and Paul Thompson. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Mr. Bob Lemon, a staunch Oklahoma Democrat and devoted supporter of LGBT equality, was named the recipient of the 2007 Irene Tyson Award given annually by the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Caucus (OGLPC) (http:// www.oglpc.com/). The award is given to an outstanding individual who has demonstrated long term commitment to the furtherance of LGBT equality under the law, and who is a role model for changing public opinion The award was a complete surprise for Mr. Lemon but he was not at a loss for words. "Gay people aren’t broken and don’t need fixing," he said in defiance of the notion that LGBT citizens are second-rate Americans in need of counseling. Mr. Lemon also had the honor of reading to the crowd of enthusiastic listeners an Oklahoma Legislative Proclamation recognizing LGBT Pride events in Oklahoma City issued by State Senator Andrew Rice and State Representative A1 McAffrey, both Democrats in their first term of office and firm believers in our LGBT equality. Mr. Lemon is also a front-line supporter, member of Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, (www.okstonewall.org) the LGBT voice of the Oklahoma and National Democratic Party, with chapters in all 50 states and Washington, DC. The STAR 23 ���The following column is very sarcastic and may not be suitable for sensitive readers. I present two potential clients that have threatened for months to begin a workout program with me. Simon is an affable creature who loves watching Diamondbacks and Cardinals games. He enjoys pina coladas and getting caught in the rain. He would give you the shirt offhis back if you needed it. The problem is you wouldn’t be able to use it. Or maybe you would. You would only, need to fit intoa Triple X kimono. Simon tips the scales at an awkward twenty-five stone. That’s 350 pounds for all you nonlimeys out there. He’s six feet tall so yeah that’s 99 Luft Balloons Big. This column is a la carte so I’!l feel free to load up Simon’s plate with more health impediments. Let’s add three packs of Viceroys per day. Don’t forget the four nights per week of all night benders and enough Sauza Gold to paralyze three Mexican towel boy,s. For good measure I’ll throw in the 6,0130 calorie per diem at "his expense" account. What advice would I give to Simple Simon? Dear see-mone, (enjoy the moment of French) I would recommend spending $10,000 on a remodeling project for your home. It would clearly be advantageous to blow your money on a whimsical attempt to make yourself feel better by painting the walls tropical tapioca and adding that new Ethan Allen collection to your living room. Think of hmv much excitement wil! pulse through your damaged vessels as you gaze adoringly upon your newly acquired Vc:aterford Crystal that sparkles like the glint of stupidity in your eyes. You were able to resist the temptation of hiring a qualified personal trainer for six months. This trainer would have only robbed you of those extra 150 pounds you have been safeguarding and would have charged you several thousands dollars for the difficult deed. He might have even saved you from hospitalization and tens of thousands of dollars spent on gastric bypass surgery. It’s lucky that you watch HGTV and have a subscription to Martha Stewart Living. Money well spent. Which room beckons next? Roger complains about the rigors of the dating world. He elaborates ad nauseam on the difficulties of finding Mr. Right. He has found glimmers of hope from escorts, massage "specialists", and websites featuring boy,s who seek Mr. Night. My advice for Roger Rabbit is as follows: Dear Roger, Don’t worry! The right guy for you is out there. Thank goodness for you that we dodt live in a superficial world where you are judged by your looks. Most 23 year old guys with chiseled bodies and dashing good looks will seek out your 45 year old flabby, elephantine physique. Further good news for you is that none of these Adonises will be attracted to your BMW, Versace Suits, or 3,000 square foot wallet that can buy them presents. They will appreciate your knowledge, bubbly personalib; and the ability to pick out the correct port wine to sip with your Dairy Queen Royal Treat of the day. I would continue to spend your hard earned cash on vacations to places where no one wants to see you with your shirt off. Perhaps love will truly blossom in the midst of a massage or in the throes of professionalism from that elegant escort. I wouldn’t bother evacuating your money from the bank for trivial purposes of bettering your health. What need have you for physical training when you are immortal? Heart attacks, diabetes, and high blood pressure always happen to that other guy. I think (hope) you get the point. This sardonicism is brought to you by Ron Blake. Ron can be reached at blake.fimess@yahoo.com or at 480-241-5651. Celebrate your PRIDE Parade Starts at 10 ar The earlier if will begin at East, then ling left on ri Park. Roger also weighs approximately 350 pounds and he too rises vertically to six feet. Roger eats like an F350 Ford truck and he waddles like an emperor penguin. He blames his excessive girth on a thyroid problem and has plenty more excuses ready if you don’t buy that one. He began his smoking career after watching Sunset Boulevard at age seventeen. He now smokes his Parliaments as elegantly as Gloria Swanson ever did. He has been ready for his close up for nearly 28 years. Roger works longer hours than an Indonesian schoolboy in a sweatshop. Fortunately for Roger he is earning considerably more money and is in no danger of breaking aW nails in his pristine white collar job. 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HIDF2XWAY LOUNGE: Karaoke 8pm ,amw.ozarksstar.¢om After Dark is a flee service m our advertisers andis the responsibility of the advertiser to inform dxe STAR in writing of updates, additions or discontinued events. The STAR is not responsible for accuracy. STAR 27 �"Practice economy, Gemini!" Mercury is in Cancer turning direct, offering an opportunity to apologize for emotional outbursts and correct al! the problems that erupted while he was retrograde. If you don’t know where to start, try the kitchen. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Get to the root of recent household messes. If you own, fix plumbing, electricity, or whatever. If you rent, make a list for the landlord. Call family members and resolve misunderstanding& At least have a nice chat with Morn. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Mend fences with neighbors, and call or write to your siblings. It’s an excellent time to sign up for classes in any basic skills or techniques that have interested you, especially if they touch on domestic arts or community-building. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Think about your patterns in impulse spending. Everyone does it, but now is your time to look at your own finar~cial strengths and weaknesses, to get those books better organized, and to practice better economy. SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Sex may be more trouble than it’s worth, but has that ever stopped you? You may have slowed down lately, but recent problems and odd shifts of desire can now be re-examined to achieve greater understanding and pleasure. Talking about those issues will help! CAPRlCORN (December 21 - January 19): You can finally clear up problems that have been brewing with your partner. That "seems-you-can’t-say-anything-right" period is over. Sing out, Louise, and let your baby hear what you have to say! Your listening skills are also suddenly improving. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Been delaying trips to the doctor or the gym? That’s probably been a good instinct, but get your tush back into action! See the doctor first for any problems with or advice about exercising. Discuss nutrition, too! And then renew your health regimen. PISCES (February 19 - hlarch 19): Your creative block is finally over! Drag out the canvases, manuscripts, and instruments. If your muse needs to be fed, get to the kitchen and dig out some long-neglected recipes. A small dinner party will help get your juices flowing, too. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): It’s OK - you can finally clean up the confusion and chaos that seem to have taken over in recent weeks. Look for long-latent, underlying problems at the root of those troubles. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worries and fears that have been aggravating you lately now seem like ridiculous shadows. But they’ll be back to haunt you again if you don’t take a look at them and their roots. A meditative retreat should help. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Give your friends a chance to apologize and correct recent disappointments. Or maybe you should be the one patching things up. You can only take responsibility for yourself; still, shouldering more than your share of the blame could go a long way toward fixing things. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Recent misunderstandings may have you hiding out from your boss, landlord, or other authority figures, and/or undermining your own authority. Now is the time to clean up the lines of command and get your career back on track. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): All those reasons that kept you from taking classes, traveling, or otherwise expanding your world and your mind have fallen away. At least reconsider those opportunities and look at ways to get over the obstacles. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 28 the STAR www.ozarksstar, com �Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org ......... 888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers ....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) ..... - www.e~vers ~ypr ae.com Diversity Pride Events A Byrd’s Eye View ..... 36 N. Main ........... 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante .... 309 W VanBuren ....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St ............. 479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill- - - 105 E VanBuren ....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton 17B Spring Street .......... 479-98t-6060 Tiki Torch ........ 75 S. Main Street- .......... 479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren .......... 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 418 W. Dickson ...... -479-444-6228 Condom Sense Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave .......... -479-521-0009 Flames Bar - - - 40 E. Center- ............... 479-251-1922 Passages ...... 930 N. College Ave .......... -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave ............. 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kin keads ....... 1004 1/2 Garrison Ave ........ 479-783-9988 - 479-782-9578 Klub XLR8 ...... 1022 Dodson AveRed Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St.- ............. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street .... 1021 Jessie Rd ............... 501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... ~vw.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd ............... 501-666-6900 Sidetracks - - -415 Main St - -North L.R.- ........ 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.- ......... 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave ......... 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club ...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) 620-231-0938 PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway-Service 11AM River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. WalnutKansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40 ..... 3201 S. Hillside ...... 316-682-5494 -316-942-1244 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg DrClub Glacier- ......... 2828 E. 31st South ...... 316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground ................. 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (4t7) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ...... Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn ....www.40thstreetinn.com ....... 816-561-7575 816-231-1196 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Bird Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s .... 805 W. 39th St................ 816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) 417-831-4700 The Edge ..... 424 Boonville Ave ..... 417-869-3978 GLO Comm, Ctr---518 E. Commerical417-831-9001 JR’s Nightclub .... 504 E. CommericalMartha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive ........... -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place .... 821 College ............... 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books .... 104 Sunset .............. 580-242-6838 4810-A West Garriott........ 580-233-5511 Priscilla’s. Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore ..... 1124 NW Cache Rd ...... 580-353-1488 Oklahoma, l~cA~ester (918) ~cPride ........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642 ...... 405-495-1111 405-606-7000 Blue Dog Liquor- ..... -4015 N. Penn 405-601-7200 Boom Room ....... 2807 NW 36th St Border’s Books ...... 3209 NW Expressway ..... 405-848-2667 - 405-525-7766 CD Warehouse ...... 4001 N. Penn Club Rox....... 3535 NW 39th Expw~j........ -405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box ..... 3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms ...... 3131 N. Penn ...... 405-525-9555 Copa ............. 2200 NW 39th Exp .........405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave ....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy ........405-525-9200 First Amendment Tatoo Shop- - - 2135 NW 39th - - -405-604-3911 Gushers Restaurant- .... 2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 405-528-2221 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp Herland Sisters Resources .... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel .... 3535 NW 39th Exp ....... -405-947-2351 405-843-1722 1221 NW 50th Hi-Lo Club 405-524-5733 Jungle Reds ....... 2200 NW ExpwyLedo ............. 2200 NW Expwy..... .... 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ....... -405-681-5044 405-942-2199 Partners ......... 2805 NW 36th St -3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Pec’s 405-755-8600 Priscilla’s......... 615 E. Memorial405-525-5165 Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St. Rudy’s Place ...... 3535 NW39th Expw .........405-947-2351 405-601-3711 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th StThe Park........ 2125 NW 39th St ......... -405-528-4690 405-917-1663 The Patio ........ 3201 N. May Ave -405-947-2351 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th. 405-521-9888 Tramps ............ 2201 NW 39th--405-521-9999 Ziggy’s............ 4005 N. PennOklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge .... 7204 E. Pine ............. 918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E. 21st ........... 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 - - 918-592-3456 Circle Cinema ...... 10 S, LewisClub 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder ............ 918-584-9944 918-584-9494 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston 9t8-835-3301 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan -918-459-0497 Cosmo Dell & Bar - - 6746 S. Memorial -918-834-1051 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street- ........ 918-743-4297 Hideaway Cocktail Lounge--- 11730 E. 11th ......918-437-0449 - 918-749-8378 HOPE Clinic ....... 3540 E. 31st 319 E. 3rd .............. 918-584-3112 MidtownOpenarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood ..... 918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave ..... ..... 918-585-9552 .918-627-4884 Priscilla’s ......... 7925 E. 41stPriscilla’s ........ 5634 W. Skelly ........... 918-446-6336 -918-438-4224 Priscilla’s ........ 11344 E. 11th Priscilla’s ......... 2333 E. 71st .............918-499-1661 Renegades 1649 S. Main ........... 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd ......... 918-627-1505 Sappho’s ........ 6373-C E 31st St.......... 918-836-0299 918-834-4194 Tulsa CARES .... 3507 E. Admiral PI. Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle ..... 1338 E. 3rd ................ 918-592-1188 918-660-0856 TNT’s ......... 2114 S. Memorial Yellow-Brick-Rd ....... 2630 E. 15th .......... 918-293-0304 �bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicateocom 30 the STAR www,joanhilty.net www.ozarksstar.com �Keller Williams Realty Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’I1 work hard for you. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document The 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & D~VERSE market. Ca~ STAR AIDVERT~S~NG today. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 Arkansas’s 1st. Film highlights how the two gay men met in the military, how they confronted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. I really haven’t changed, I’m still a vegetarian and a lesbian. What has changed is that people know everything about me so it’s not controversial anymore. q-he 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close ~vith an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the award-winning musical "Mamma Mia!" While the polite pickets of the mid- !960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time ~vhen homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. A general characteristic of Sauvignon Blanc is its distinctive, penetrating aroma, which can evoke scents of grapefruit, lime, green melon, gooseberry, passion fruit, freshly mown grass, and bell pepper. Gay Travelers: Las Vegas, Nevada Out of Town: Martha’s Vineyard Dining In or OUT L~$E~I],~N NOTI;O~$ Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination of Dr. James W. Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. Pictorial review of Pride month in Oklahoma. ON THE COVER: k. d. Lmag STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Jim Roth-A Pioneer for Ok ahomds Centennial by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___Oklahoma celebrates its centennial this year and one would think that with 93% of the state’s history having occurred in the 20th Century there wouldn’t be much in the way of frontier left to discover in the 21 st. However, Oklahoma is full of surprises both on the regressive and progressive sides of the historical coin. Here’s one of those progressive surprises. In mid-May Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to fill a vacancy on the state’s Corporation Commission. This is a very important position in Oklahoma for both the citizens and the corporations doing business in the state such as utilities, oil and gas companies, and transportation. Mr. Roth is a remarkable man with a razor sharp mind, an affable personality, and a happy home-life with his partner of seven years, Worth Ross. Just how remarkable is Mr. Roth’s appointment? It was made by a very conservative Democratic governor. It remains to be seen how the rural voters in Oklahoma will view an openly gay man running for state-wide office. www.0zarksstar.c0m Mr. Roth often says that his family goes beyond the biological and that officeholders should be held accountable by the voters for how well the job is done, not by who they love. Ttxe voters who elected Mr. Roth to his first term as county commissioner re-hired him with a 65% majority for a second term. The 2008 election will be important for Mr. Roth as he will be required to run a statewide campaign for election to complete the remaining two-year term and, again in 2010 for a full six-year term. Mr Roth and his campaign workers will need to be full of the pioneering spirit of the Sooners as they get the rest of Oklahoma acquainted with the future--a future where, to paraphrase Dr. M.L.King, office holders are judged on the quality of their character coupled with their job effectiveness, and not who they love. The flat earth view of many in Oklahoma will be made all the rounder with Mr. Roth in office. Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. V~/e provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV÷ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 91 8~585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. OkJa omans for Equal Icon Honored oki~hom~ns for equality TULSA, OK___Print Magazine, one of America’s most prestigious publications in visual culture and design, has chosen the OkEq logo for its A+C=D Business Graphics Review to be featured in the September/ October issue. Every year Print sponsors five high-profile design competitions. The newest and fastest growing competition, A+C=D, brings together the full range of work done for corporate clients around the world--from print ads, corporate identities, and flyers to animated short films, websites, and interactive games. Print chose winners from selections submitted by firms worldwide. T. MOSS, Inc., a Tulsa-based graphic design firm, produced the award-winning icon as part of a branding campaign begun in June 2006. T.MOSS provides a full range of creative services, from strategic planning to print production and Web programming. With over 30 years in the business, the firm has met many design challenges. The development of the Ok~q identity provided its own set of considerations. "OkEq is a robust, purposeful organization that prides itself in its mission of inclusiveness, community outreach and human rights advocacy. We wanted to create a contemporary, upbeat visual image for OkEq that exemplifies their spirit and dedication," said Toni Moss who designed the logo. Oklahomans for Equality seel~ equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Community Center. the STAR 5 6 the STAR Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Faces o£Ok ahoma Pride 2007 With two great metropolitan cities, Diversity Pride is strong in this Bible Belt State of Oklahoma. We have elected officials who are openly gay and glbt supportive. There are equal rights organizations both in Oklahoma City and Tulsa fighting for our future. Two Gay Rodeo Associations, numerous gay and glbt welcoming churches, entertainment venues, clubs, hotels and, two Diversity Business Associations, DBA Tulsa and DBA Metro. We have Oklahoma based Gay/Lesbian owned print and internet news publications supported by you and the business community. Most important is that we have an opportunity to grow stronger as a united group of Oklahoman’s with a huge glbt community separated by only 100 miles of turnpike. Yes, GLBT Pride is alive and ~vell in Oklahoma and we did celebrate. Check out our Faces of Oklahoma Pride on page 25. Sincerely, Charles (Chaz) Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief ARE WE FABULOUS ORWHAT By Victor Gorin From Memorial Day weekend through the month ofJune, GLBT Oklahomans gathered to share their pride in ways that nobody could have dreamed of less than 30 years ago. As we celebrate our state’s centennial keep in mind that all of us, from cowboy to fluff, from leatherman to drag queen, from lipstick lesbian to diesel divas, from disco boy to businessman, helped play a part of it and will shape our future. Let’s all look forward to it. GREAT PLAINS REGIONAL RODEO This annual event was held again at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds, bringing cowboys and cowgirls nationwide. Featuring standard rodeo events as well as the hilarity of"goatdressing," it proved again to be a major success for those who love the western lifestyle. TULSA GAY PRIDE FESTIVITIES Tulsa celebrated their Gay Pride Parade June 9. Beginning at 15th & Utica, it concluded at Veteran’s Park where celebrants enjoyed Tulsa’s 25th LGBT Pride Festival. Although not forgotten by the protesters (with a banner reminding us to remember Sodom and Gommarha) (sic) the Parade came to a fabulous finale. The Festival featured maW ofTulsa’s finest entertainers, with diversions ranging from a Family Fun Zone to a beer garden, offering something for everyone. An estimated 17,000 people from all walks of life were in attendance. That night the Pride continued with the annual Oklahomans for Equality Diversity Gala, held in the Grand Ballroom of the Doubletree Warren Place. This year their Russell G. Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion went to the Reverend Leslie Penrose of Community of Hope UCC of Tulsa. Their Lifetime Achievement Award was presented to Dennis R. Neill, for whom the Tulsa gay community center is named, following a video depicting his life of service on behalf of GLBT Oklahomans. OKLAHOMA CITY GAY PRIDE FESTIVAL Oklahoma City celebrated the 20th Anniversary of their Gay Pride Parade, with their theme coinciding with the Oklahoma Centennial. For the first time the Festival and Parade were separate events, the Festival held in Memorial Park June 16-17 for ~wo days, featuring live entertainment as well as numerous vendors & exhibitors, with the Parade scheduled for June 24. The event was supported by a proclamation by State Senator Andrew Rice & State Representative A1 McAffrey, with Bob Lemon receiving the Irene Tyson Award from the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus for his generous philanthropy and service to the GLBT community of Oklahoma. www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 OKLAHOMAN CAPTU S THE TITLE OF MR GAY ALL AMERICAN By Victor Gorin 8 the STAR O~AHOMA CITY, OKOklahomanTaz Bailey placed first at the National Mr. Gay M1Mnerican Contest held at the Copa in Oklahoma City May 19. Based on a competition that incorporated talent, modeling & interview, he captured the title followed by Sebastian Armonte of Pittsburgh (1 st alternate) and Dean Taylor of St. Louis (2nd alternate). Hosted by former Miss Gay America Rachael Erikks and Mr. Gay All American 2006 Lucas Flander, the event gave the spectators good eye candy as wet! as inspiration. Mr. Bailey will now promote the Mr. Gay All American Contest as a positive gay role model throughout the county. Recognized by Keller Williams For outstandiilg achievement 2005 and 2006 RIgA LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOR~ ~47hether buying or selling I’ll work hard~bryo~ www.ozarksstar.corr (Top) Jack Reavley (L) and Bob Claunch in 1953 ~he weekend-long festival will exhibit more than a dozen films including some of the best releases this ),ear in the genre of gay cinema. For more information about the event contact Amos Lassen: 501-372-3403(h) 870-550-6298(c) PREMIERE DATE: Saturday June 23 TIME: 8:00 pm LOCATION: Easy Street Piano Bar - 307 W. 7th Street, Little Rock, AR 72201 Phone: 501-372-3530 TICKETS: Tickets $5, $10 available at the door For more information, photographs and trailer visit: www.bobandjack. org DOCUMENTARY ABOUT HALFCENTURY ROMANCE BETWEEN TWO MEN OPENS the 1ST ANNUAL ARY kNSAS GAY AND LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL. 7hisf!lm highlights how the two gay men met in the rnilitat3,, how they conj~onted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. LITTLE ROCK, AR__ In 1952 an Army sergeant was cornered and courted by his commanding officer. Their romance grew so obvious that rumors became anonymous tips to headquarters. They avoided court-martial by confronting their entire unit. That pivotal moment cemented Bob and Jack together for the rest of their lives. 52-years later they share how they remained a couple, how one man left his wife and children, how together they moved to a small town and became a fixture in the community, and today how they survive in their eighties without the benefits of marriage. Now Bob and Jack’s 52-Year Adventure, an award winning documentary about their relationship, will premiere Saturday June 23rd, 8 PM at the Easy Street Piano Bar as the opening night film of Reel Attractions, The Arkansas GLBTQ Film Festival. A discussion with director Stu Maddux follows. "We feel extremely honored to premiere at this festival," says Bob Claunch, now 81, from their home in Los Angeles, CA. "With everything going across the country with "dofft ask don’t tell" and with gay marriage, we hope people are encouraged by our story. We didn’t have it easy but we didn’t give up." "That’s one of the reasons we think that the film is a good message for young people too", says partner Jack Reavley, 83. "They need to know that they can have successful relationships. The skeptics are just waiting for us to fail when we try to have lifelong love. Well we didn’t, and we’re here to tell you that you won’t either’." 10 the STAR Eureka Sprin.qs Domestic Partnership R gistry Begins After two petition attempts Reverend Philip Wilson, pastor of Eureka Springs" First Christian Churchfailed to stop registration of same sex couples. Domestic Partnership Regist*7 began Friday, June 22, 2007 at 9:30AM. By Michael Walsh EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ Blockage of the state’s first Domestic Partnership Registry scheduled to take effect June 22 left Advocates more determined than ever to see the measure implemented. The ordinance creating the registry was unanimously approved May 14 by the Eureka Springs City Council, after two months of&liberation and dtizen input. However anti-gay minister Philip \Vgilson halted the effective date late last week by submitting to the city clerk a petition of 147 signatures from opponents, three more than the minimum required to force a referendum on the issue August 14. Though disappointed by the delay, proponents are confident a majority of the resort town’s voters would ratify the measure. Broadbased support from hundreds of residents, toUrists, church groups and dozens of local businesses, suggest the effort to circumvent the city Council’s approval would fail at the polls. Unless the referendum can be tied to a pending sewer bond election, Wilson’s maneuver could cost the city already cash strapped between $6,000 and $9,000, the price tag for g Special election. Until then, the city wil! also be deprived of revenue $35 per couple from tourists and residents wishing to register. Hotel, restaurant, nightclub and gift shops will see no profit from Arkansas and out-of-state tourists who were holding off on vacation plans until the domestic partnership registry is in effect. Ironically, Wilson has asserted the Domestic Partnership Registry available to same-sex and opposite-sex couples would negatively impact the town’s economy, transforming it into a "Homosexual mecca" incompatible with such "faith-based" tourist attractions such as the Great Passion Play. .........................Continued next page. www.ozarksstar.com EUREY& SPRINGS REGISTRY Interestingly, almost 50 of the city’s businesses, about 25 percent, are gay owned and have existed in harmony with the Great Passion Play for years, even encouraging their customers to attend the staged production that depicts the life and death ofJesus Christ. Executives of the religious attraction, however, decline to return the favor, suggesting visitors avoid downto~vn Eureka Springs where they might see same-sex couples holding hands during any one of the city’s three annual "Diversity Weekends." Civil rights watchdog groups, such as the Human Rights Campaign Foundation and the ACLU have been monitoring events in Eureka Springs since April 9 when the Domestic Partnership ordinance first appeared on the city council’s agenda. So has the Arkansas Trial Lawyers Association. One member of the association has said he will lobby to have the group’s annual meeting in Eureka Springs moved to another city if the Domestic Partnership Registry is not enacted. Big business also has been waiting to see the fate of the Registry. AT&T alerted thousands of its employees last week that domestic partnership certificates would be available in Eureka Springs. The city clerk of Eureka Springs Mary Jean Sell rejected a first and second attempt to bring a domestic registry to a public vote. The petitions missed specific wording needed to bring the issue to a special election. Domestic Partnership Registry began Friday, June 22, at 9:30 AiM. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available online at (wwvv.cityofeurekasprings.org/DPRterm.html). Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association has just announced their 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest. The contest is open to anyone and everyone. Entries must be received by OGRA no later than July 31, 2007. OGRA sponsors the annual Great Plains Rodeo on Memorial Weekend. This event has been taking place since 1985. The 2008 edition of the Great Plains Rodeo will be the 23rd Annual. OGRA is proud to present this event each year as one of their largest fundraisers. As a major part of the rodeo they sponsor a poster contest with the winning design used for the rodeo poster, t-shirts and other publications. All submissions have to be original works. THE WINNING DESIGN WILL RECEIVE $175.00 IN PRIZE MONEY AND BECOME THE SOLE PROPERTY OF OGRA, INC. The other entries will be returned to the contestant upon request. All entries should be submitted to OGRA Inc., EO. Box 12485, Oklahoma City, OK 73157. Please include a brief bio of yourself i£you wish. The entries will be judged by the OGRA Board of Directors with finalists being selected. Those finalists then will be put on display as a part of a voting competition. The OGRA Membership table will be setup inside the Habana Inn hallway, between the Finishline and Copa, the third weekend in August where the poster finalists will be put on display. For further information email info@ogra.net or ~ontact any OGRA Board Member. HOLLYWOOD HOTEL & SUITES COMPLEX-FUTURE UNCERTAIN By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__When the Hollywood Hotel and Suites opened in 2006, owned by John Lewis & Warren Burdick, there were high hopes of a grand complex that would not only serve Oklahoma City but also be a gay tourist attraction. In its heyday it boasted the Topanga a full service restaurant and bar, the dance bar Club Rox, and a leather club called Pecs. According to Oklahoma County records John Lewis purchased the hotel, originally constructed in 1971, in January of 2006 for $1.2 million under the name LB Financial Group Inc. As of this writing both clubs and the restaurant are closed, and no other information is available except that the front desk personnel stated that it was due to renovations. We have heard conflicting reports as to how long the hotel will continue operating. Responding to an inquiry by the Star at 11:20 a.m. June 20, the front desk person stated that there were no definite plans of a date to cease operations. ~le STAR attempted to contact the owners of the hotel for more details, but no one has returned our calls. www.ozarksstar,com the STAR 11 Wha were some GLBT protests The Stonewall riots ofJune 1969 are often cited as the start of the gay liberation movement, but several GLBT protests occurred during the preceding ),ears. These early actions included both organized demonstrations and spontaneous bursts of outrage at specific injustices. Perhaps the first unplanned protest occurred in May 1959 at Cooper’s Donuts, an allnight hangout in downtown Los Angeles frequented by hustlers and drag queens. According to author John Rechy, who was present, police harassed and tried to arrest a few of the patrons, prompting others to throw food and tableware; the officers retreated to their car and summoned reinforcements, who closed the street and arrested several rioters. A similar event occurred in August 1966 at Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco. After a police officer tried to grab a young queen, some 50 customers hurled dishware and overturned tables, while outside a police car was destroyed and a newsstand was set on fire. ire Stonewall? activists demonstrated against the military ban outside the Whitehall Induction Center in New York CitT; the picketers included members of the Sexual Freedom League, some ofwhom were heterosexual. In early 1965, Craig Rodwell (who would later open the Oscar Wilde Memorial Bookshop, the first gay bookstore in the United States) and others demonstrated outside United Nations headquarters to protest ill treatment of gays in Cuba. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. Police harassment of gay bars in Los Angeles also spurred early protests. Soon after midnight on New Year’s Eve in 1967, police raided the Black Cat bar on Sunset Boulevard, beating patrons and bartenders and arresting several people for lewd conduct. Protests erupted outside the bar that night and continued for several days. A year later, police raided the Patch, another gay bar in the same city. After owner Lee Glaze shouted, "It’s not against the law to be homosexual," the patrons marched to the nearby Harbor Division police station and pelted the building with flowers. The first organized GLBT demonstrations took place in the mid-1960s to protest antigay discrimination in federal employment and the military. Typically, these actions were small and polite, featuring men in suits and women in dresses walking in circles holding signs. In 1964, about a dozen In the spring and summer of 1965, activists with the East Coast Homophile Organizations - cofounded by Frank Kameny, who had himself been fired from a government job - picketed the White House, the Pentagon, the State Department, and the Civil Service Commission in Washington, D.C. That summer, 40 activists staged the first of four ’~mnual Reminders" at Independence Hall in Philadelphia (home of the Liberty Bell) on July 4. The demonstration was organized by members of the Mattachine Society, the Daughters of Bilitis (DOB), and Philadelphia’s Janus Society; among the participants were several individuals who became well-known figures in the GLBT movement, including Barbara Gittings (an editor of DOB’s magazine, The Ladder) and Kiyoshi Kuromiya (later a prominent AIDS activist). ~lhe ?mnual Reminders ended after 1969 and were supplanted by yearly Gay Pride celebrations. "\Ve cracked the cocoon of invisibility," Gittings later recalled. "We had finally stepped forxvard and said to the public, ’I’m not going to live in a closet anymore."’ Added fetloxv participant Lilti Vincenz, "We exploded the myth that real homosexuals could [not] possibly look happy and proud and dignified and visible." In early 1966, the North American Conference of Homophile Organizations met in Kansas City and called for demonstrations on Armed Forces Day to protest the military ban. On May 21, actions took place in several cities, including a motorcade in Los Angeles with Mattachine Society founder Harry Hay. Homophile activists also took on the psychiatric establishment, protesting at professional conferences beginning in 1968. Public pickets initially proved controversial, as some members of the GLBT community preferred not to call attention to themselves. By the late 1960s, however, the country was in the grip of an era of militant protest by groups espousing diverse causes. One of the first actions of what would become known as the gay liberation (as opposed to the earlier homophile) movement was a March 1968 "gay-in" in Griffith Park in Los Angeles. In the same ci9; activists also began picketing Bamey’s Beanery, a diner that posted a sign reading "Fagots Stay Out" [sic]. In San Francisco in the spring of 1969, young queer militants demonstrated outside the offices of States Steamship Line for ,veeks to protest the firing of gay activist Gale Whittington. Tixe Stonewall riots garnered much more media attention than previous demonstrations and sparked intensified gay organizing across the country. Since that time, GLBT protests have been a mainstay of the movement’s strategy, waxing and waning in cycles that reflect the overall national political and social climate. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. "Visibility has always been the keystone of our struggle for civil rights," Gittings said in the 2004 documentary Gay Pioneers. "We are pushing for equality through visibility. Today, we have visibility - oh, do we have visibility!" 14 the STAR ww,qozarksstar.com ~rna Mial Tour - Pictured Se~n ,~Jl~n Joan Marcus Wha a W dding! 200Z B~vacl~ay Season Ends with a Special Bonus By Joey De The 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close with an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the awardwinning musical "Mamma Mia!" to Tulsa audiences May 8-13. Featuring the music of the sensational seventies group Abba, "Mamma Mia!" is the sho~v that not only brought their music to a new generation, but also birthed an entirely new genre on Broadway. Following the show’s nearly sold out run, there is no question why. Using over twenty of the European group’s greatest hits, "Mamma Mia!" tells Mamma Mia! Tour - P~ctur~cl Corey Greenan & Company Photo: 200~, Joan Marcua the story of young Sophie and her dream to find her father. Sophie’s mother, Donna, had a wild streak in the seventies and has never spoken much about her mate, leaving the young girl to invite three potential paternals to their quaint Greek island getaway just in time for her wedding. Brilliantly reflecting issues relevant to the Abba-generations such as fleeing fathers, self worth and the quest for true happiness, the show deals a heavy hand of social commentary wrapped in a comfortable blanket of feel-good comedy. In fact, the book brilliantly written by Catherine Johnson infuses the show with such a high dose of innocence and fun that its life lessons are delivered in witty one-liners. Amplifying the show’s feel good fun is the hit music that everybody knows. From "Dancing Queen," to "Take a Chance on Me," singing along with the young and enthusiastic cast becomes contagious. Perhaps though, the show’s greatest musical milestone is intertwining music that has been around for thirty years with an original story so seamlessly that you would swear they were written for each other. At the heart, "Mamma Mia!" is a fun, frolicking musical. It doesn’t pretend to be anything more than it is and it doesn’t fail to deliver. With its glitz, glam and spandex, it is a show that can make the most manically depressed smile. Following on the heels of"Mamma Mia!" is another show guaranteed to tickle your funny bone, or hit you over the head with a herring. As a bonus to the season, Celebrity Attractions will be presenting the smash hit musical "Monty Pythons Spamalot," the show that lovingly rips off the cult-classic film. "Spamalot," written by former Pythonite by Eric Idle, is based on the screenplay of "Monty Python and the Holy Grail," written by the original Monty Python troupe of Graham Chapman, John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Terry Jones, Michael Palin, and Idle. Epic in nature, "Spamalot," is tells the legendary tale of King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table, and their quest for the Holy Grail. It features a chorus line of dancing divas and knights, taunting Frenchmen, killer rabbits and one legless knight. Award-winning and side splitting, "Spamalot" will be in Tulsa Jul. 10-15. Tickets are on sale now at ~wcw.myticketoNce.com. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 "Roasted Sweet Red Pepper & Potato Soup" To make the soup more colorful, use a combination of red, yellow and orange bel! peppers. And if you want to dress it up a little more, you can garnish it with pesto, croutons or minced fresh herbs. For a chowder like consistency, do not puree the soup but be sure to cut the peppers, onion and potatoes into neat uniform dice. Ingredients: 4 - 5 large red bell peppers 1 large or 2 medium yellow onions, diced 1 - 2 cloves garlic, minced 3 tablespoons olive oil 6 cups Chicken Stock 2 medium potatoes, peeled and diced 1/4 - 1/2 cup heavy cream 3 tablespoons chopped basil Kosher or sea salt Freshly ground pepper Procedure: Roast, peel, seed and dice the bell peppers. Heat the oil in a large pot and saute the onion and garlic over medium heat until translucent. Add the bel! peppers and stock and cook for 10 minutes. Add the potatoes and cook until tender. Puree the soup and strain it into a clean pot. Add the cream, basil, salt and pepper. Stir and bring just to a boil. Be VERY CAREFUL to heat the soup gently and take extra care NOT to boil it. Serv’es 8 to 10 people. More on FOG CITY DINER, San Francisco, California see page I9. we are in San ] www.ozarksstar.com O,,e ofthe most sce.,ic views on Martha’s Vineyard is Aquinnah Lighthouse, which isperched big,:, , bo ,e the is/a.o:’s ,,,,de beach, a’hoto 6,.a,d ew JULY 2007 By Andrew Collins Since Provincetown bursts at the seams all summer long with excitement and socializing, quite a few lesbians and gay men across New England have begun heading to a quieter but no less charming and remote seaside getaway, Martha’s Vineyard. Over the past several years, especially since Massachusetts legalized gay marriage, the island has seen a gradual but discernible growth in gay and lesbian visitation. One key to enjoying this sparkling emerald island off the southern coast of Cape Cod (it’s accessible by only ferry or plane) is to arrive with a lover rather than hoping to find one upon arrival. Of course, Martha’s Vineyard - along with its neighbor to the east, Nantucket - has long been a highly desirable destination. Families have been building the nmv-ubiquitous weathered-shingle cape-style houses here for more than three centuries, dating to the island’s origins as a sleepy fishing settlement. Yachting and hobnobbing among the rich and famous became official pastimes during the early part of this century. Glitterati such as Carly Simon, James Taylor, Spike Lee, Sharon Stone, Meg Ryan, Denzel Washington, Ted Danson, and Mary Steen bergen regularly spend time here. Members of the Kennedy clan have been sailing over for years, and political pundits will always associate Martha’s Vineyard with the Chappaquiddick scandal that ultimately cost Ted Kennedy the U.S. presidency. Come for a visit, however, and you’ll hear little talk of celebrity-spotting and rumormongering. Famous or unknown, gay or straight, folks come to Martha’s Vineyard to get away from the vagaries and pressures of life on the mainland. Here you’!l discover historic inns, some of the finest restaurants in coastal New England, and a handful of enchanting villages, each with its own pace and personality. The town of Vineyard Haven is an ideal base. This walkable village has a few gayfriendly inns, some hip restaurants and boutiques, and an enviable sheltered location overlooking Vineyard Haven Harbor. The other communities on the island are within a half-hour drive (or an afternoon’s bike ride - Martha’s Vineyard is ideal for cyclists, and there are rental shops near each of the ferry terminals). If you wish to stay right in Vineyard Haven, book a room at the breezy Crocker House Inn, a 1920s beach house owned by young and friendly innkeepers Jeff and Jynd! Kristal. Rooms are casually smart, with white-wicker furnishings, and some have fireplaces and whirlpool tubs. \Vithin a 10-minute stroll of these inns are several fine shops, a quirky old movie theater, and a few nice eateries. A favorite is Cafe Moxie, which presents an intriguing range of relatively affordable rood-American dishes. If you’re in the mood for a lobster roll, drop by the Net Result, a simple fish market a 10-minute walk from the ferry terminal serving some of the freshest seafood around. Oak Bluffs and Edgartown are the two other major settlements on the island (they are also the only towns ~vith liquor licenses; restaurants elsewhere on the island are BYOB, although it’s expected that by 2008, Vineyard Haven will obtain a license that permits the sale of liquor at restaurants). Oak Bluffs has been more heavily developed than other towns on the island, with a bounty of lively bars and rollicking amusements popular with college students and teenagers. It’s a fun town for window-shopping, picking up an ice cream cone at a local parlor, and eating - there are plenty of terrific restaurants in Oak Bluffs. At the upper end, the Sweet Life Cafe serves outstanding regional American fare and occupies a handsome Victorian house along the town’s main drag, Circuit Avenue - try the squid-ink fettuccine with shrimp, scallops, calamari, and a tomato-basil-garlic broth. More casual and less pricey options, both of which are also fun places to sip cocktails and socialize, include Sharky’s Cantina, which serves up terrific Tex-Mex in a festive ambience, and the Lookout Tavern, a rustic seafood shack overlooking the sea and serving not only great platters of fried and broiled fish and shellfish but also first-rate sushi. Edgartown is the island’s somewhat more conservative community, at least in appearance if not necessarily in politics (this is still a highly liberal part of the world, especially on social issues). This posh historic village defined by gorgeous white-clapboard Colonial homes and neatly manicured gardens has several convivial eateries, and numerous high-end clothiers and boutiques downtown. Tops for dining are Detente, a 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com hip little wine bar serving superbly crafted, innovative fare like lemon-honey-basted halibut with truffled leek puree, baby artichokes, and oven-dried tomatoes. A more casual but still reliable bet is the Wharf Pub, which serves consistently good burgers, salads, and pub fare. Right in Edgartown you’ll find some lovely, gay-friendly accommodations, including the Shiverick Inn, a grand Second Empire mansion where romantic rooms have sumptuous Victorian bedding and antiques, and the Hob Knob Inn, a handsome and well-run 18- room Gothic Revival property with unfussy but attractive furnishings reminiscent of an English country house. Just south of Edgartown, with a fantastic location on Katama Beach, the Winnetu Oceanside Resort makes for a delightful retreat, especially if you’ve got kids in tow - in fact, this is one of the best gay-friendly, family-oriented properties on the East Coast. The property consists of a luxury inn with one- to four-bedroom suites as well as a cluster of three- to five-bedroom town homes. The resort offers dozens of diversions to keep you busy, from bike tours to whale-watching trips, and there’s a world-class tennis facility on-site. Also, Winnetu’s restaurant, Lure, serves some of the most inventive seafood fare on the island, such as butter-poached lobster with soft cornbread, roasted corn, and fava beans. This upscale resort draws mostly families with kids in summer, but it’s more of a couples destination during the mellower spring and fall shoulder seasons. Outdoors enthusiasts should stick to the western side of Martha’s Vineyard (referred to locally as Up-Island). Here you can sample fresh lobster dockside in the picturesque fishing village ofMenemsha (a great place to stop for a casual seafood lunch - just try one of the restaurants on the pier), or admire ocean views from the lighthouse and multihued clay cliffs at Aquinnah (formerly known as Gay Head). Below the Gay Head cliffs you will find, appropriately, a popular nude beach with a moderate following among gays and lesbians - when you hit the beach, turn right, and walk all the way to the end (about 30 minutes). A tip: If you’d like to check the scene out in advance, drop some change into one of the coin-operated magnifying lenses near the base of the lighthouse - it’s the closest you’ll come to a peep show on Martha’s Vineyard. In the Up-Island community of West Tisbury, set back on a wooded property slightly off the beaten path, you’ll find the island’s most opulent gay-owned property, Lambert’s Cove Inn. Innkeepers Scott Jones and I. Kell Hicklin have restored what had been a somewhat dowdy country hotel into a sophisticated boutique inn with smartly furnished rooms set among three buildings. Amenities include DVD/CD players, high-speed Internet, and plush Egyptian cotton linens, and some rooms have private screened-in porches. A sunken pool in back is the perfect place to while away a hot afternoon. And in the evening, the inn’s elegant dining room serves outstanding contemporary American fare, such as braised veal cheeks with sweet corn, English pea risotto, and a Madeira wine reduction. It’s the definitive venue for a relaxing Martha’s Vineyard hideaway. 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Ok~ahoma’~ H~V/STD Hotfine www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 J U L¥ 2007 Truth Calling Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination ofDr. James VX Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. My phone rang recently, and it was a local radio station asking me to respond to samesex marriage still being the law of the land in Massachusetts. The measure calling for a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage there was defeated by the full state legislature, 45 yes votes and a resounding 151 no’s. Of course, my response was measured, delivered in appropriate sound bites, and echoing what everyone else is saying about the victory. It’s great for Massachusetts, but even greater for the rest of the country, where many LGBT people are still struggling to attain basic civil rights. The vote lets us put our resources into 2008 where they need tO be - focusing on the presidential and pivotal state races, rather than having to pump tons of money into defeating another bad bill. Ah, but truth be told, this victory is sweet but short, because now we need to turn our attention to defeating a bad nomination - that of Kentucky’s Dr. James W. Holsinger for U.S. Surgeon General. My initial response after reading about Holsinger was, "Who the hell is givingWadvice these days?" Didn’t they see what would happen if they nominated a homophobic, radical Christian who started an ex-gay ministry? Did they think we wouldn’t notice? On the face of it, Holsinger seems like a credible medical professional. He is a cardiologist who holds the University of Kentucky’s Charles T. Wethington Jr. Chair in the Health Sciences, and is the former chancellor of UK’s Chandler Medical Center. Just because he’s from the heart of the Bible Belt doesn’t mean we have to automatically jump to conclusions about his politics. After all, Abe Lincoln was born there, the LGBT community is gaining political strength in the Bluegrass State through the Kentucky Fairness Alliance, and they’ve even got an openly gay man in the state Senate - Ernesto Scorsone. Well, maybe you should start jumping after all. Because as Wayne Besen ofTruth Wins Out put it, "Holsinger is an ideologue 22 the STAR whose medical views on gay and lesbian people resemble sorcery more than sound science." Holsinger is not only a doctor, but a devout Christian who is a high-ranking lay leader in the United Methodist Church - you know, the folks who talk about "Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors" - except, of course, when it comes to us. In his position on the United Methodist Judicial Council (the place where the buck stops in the Methodist Church), Holsinger’s record is anything but promising for LGBT people. He opposed the 2004 decision to allow Rev. Karen Dammann, a lesbian, to continue serving as a minister. He backed the deftocking of Rev. Beth Stroud, who came out to her Pennsylvania church community at the First United Methodist Church of Germantown. And, in one of the ugliest acts of religious discrimination, Holsinger backed a Virginia pastor who barred an openly gay man from church membership. One could argue that those actions were his personal beliefs and wouldn’t interfere with him being the country’s top doctor. Perhaps...but one need only read the Pathophysiology of Male Homosexuality, a "scientific" paper Holsinger wrote in 1991 for the Church’s Committee to Study Homosexuality, to see how his personal beliefs impact his science. The piece is available online at abcnews. go.com/images/Politics/Holsinger_on_Homosexuality. pdf. (If you want some laughs, Stephen Colbert of The Colbert Report did a hilarious send-up of the paper and Holsinger - you can watch it at http://rawstory. com/news/2007/Colbert Report Why are gays still 0614.html.) One of my favorite passages reads, "...the logical complementarity of the human sexes has been so recognized in our culture that it has entered our vocabulary in the form of naming various pipe fittings either the male fitting or the female fitting depending upon which one interlocks within the other. When the complementarity of the sexes is breached, injuries and diseases may occur.... Therefore, based on the simplest knmvn anatomy and physiology, xvhen dealing ~vith the complementarity of the human sexes, one can simply say, Res ipsa loquitur - the thing speaks for itself!" I guess the thing that is "speaking for itself" is a penis, which, in his estimation, belongs in only one place - a vagina. This is more like the science of a 6-year-old, not a 68-year-old. I won’t get any more graphic. But ifyou want a great deconstruction of the paper, go to Jim Burroway’s xwwv.boxturtlebulletin.com, a site that is devoted to debunking the lies told about us through research and well-reasoned writing. His conclusion puts Holsinger’s snake-oil chicanery in the proper perspective. To add insult to injury, when Holsinger and his wife were congregants at Lexington’s First United Methodist Church, they helped their pastor form a new "outreach, congregation called the Hope Springs Community Church. Hope Springs sports an antigay ministry. According to them, being gay is just a lifestyle. With Christ’s love, anyone can be straight. Next up are Holsinger’s confirmation hearings. When they’re scheduled, Holsinger will go before the U.S. Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions, which is chaired by Edward Kennedy (DMass.). Three Democratic presidential candidates - Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.), Chris Dodd (Conn.), and Barack Obama (I11.) - sit on the committee. Only Clinton has definitely said no to Holsinger. Dodd and Obama have strong concerns. John Edwards, although no longer in the Senate,opposes the nomination. We xvon in Massachusetts. Conservatives are calling for the repeal of "don’t ask, don’t tell." If there was ever a time for Democratic Party leaders to find their backbone, this is it. It’s time for truth to go a-calling- Holsinger’s homophobia has no place in medicine or in government. w~,~v.ozarksstar.com By Joey De \vgith the placing of the cro~vn, Oklahoma City based performer Adrianna became the new Miss Oklahoma Continental on May 25 at Club Majestic in Tulsa. The evening, filled with national title holders and special entertainers marked the reign of Miss Oklahoma Continental 2006, Kandy Cayne. For Adrianna, the achievement is another milestone in a career highlighted with titles. "I now have been a state title holder in 3 of the big 4 pageant systems," says Adrianna. "I was Miss Kansas USofA in 2000 and Miss Gay Oklahoma America in 2004." "There are several differences between those and Continental," notes the performer. "The major one is the addition of the swimwear competition. Also, the interview process was a new experience as well since it is a group setting, not one-on-one. Overall, the style of the system seems to be more ’fashion-forward’ than any of the other systems that I have been involved in." Adrianna entered the Continental system hoping to become "known for her unique sense of style. "I heard one time that the ability to accessorize is what separates us from the animals," she jokes. According to Thompson, Adrianna was born on Halloween at a DIFFA masquerade ball, and has been performing since 1995. "I began doing drag after my friends hauled me to Miss Gay Oklahoma America the year that Gertrude Garnet won. I was barely 21 and was engaged to a female. However, I knew from that moment on I belonged in a dress on that stage. The rest is history." For Thompson, much of his inspiration behind the character or Adrianna comes from his morn. "I was a mamma’s boy... she’s a great lady. She’s an elected official who is very politically active, and stands up for what she believes in." A self described performer since birth, Adrianna is the drag transformation of Sapulpa native Jon Thompson. Thompson, who spends his days as a customer care representative for a major telecommunications firm, says that he has been happily married to his husband (and fellow performer) Chris for the past two years. The couple also shares custody of their child, Alden, their miniature Schnauzer. With his forthcoming reign as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson hopes to grow as a female impersonator and overcome new challenges. "I have already learned so much. It has made me expand my mind to think of drag in a new way. I have used it to launch me out of a rut, and made me have the perception that drag is fun again...I have been at it a few years, and like most things you can tire of it. But at this point...I am always thinking of the next best number or costume." Thompson also ~vishes to reach out as an ambassador of the community with his latest title. "I think that I am in a unique position by being a former Miss Oklahoma America. I can promote the pageant and the system by working with the other systems. I will also be launching a fund-raising campaign, in honor ofmy aunt who is a breast cancer survivor. The net proceeds will benefit the Susan G. Komen foundation." As a part of that campaign, Thompson will be walking with his cousin from Dallas to Fort Worth over the course of three days, and encourages people to visit www.the3day. org for more information. While not attending to appearances as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson can be seen performing as Adrianna on the third Sunday of every month. For information and updates on special appearances, fans can visit www.myspace.com/mgo2004. OGLP¢’s Tyson Award for 2007, Nr. Bob Lemon By James Nimmo Photo by Victor Gorin. Left to Right Bob Lemon and Paul Thompson. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Mr. Bob Lemon, a staunch Oklahoma Democrat and devoted supporter of LGBT equality, was named the recipient of the 2007 Irene Tyson Award given annually by the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Caucus (OGLPC) (http:// www.oglpc.com/). The award is given to an outstanding individual who has demonstrated long term commitment to the furtherance of LGBT equality under the law, and who is a role model for changing public opinion The award was a complete surprise for Mr. Lemon but he was not at a loss for words. "Gay people aren’t broken and don’t need fixing," he said in defiance of the notion that LGBT citizens are second-rate Americans in need of counseling. Mr. Lemon also had the honor of reading to the crowd of enthusiastic listeners an Oklahoma Legislative Proclamation recognizing LGBT Pride events in Oklahoma City issued by State Senator Andrew Rice and State Representative A1 McAffrey, both Democrats in their first term of office and firm believers in our LGBT equality. Mr. Lemon is also a front-line supporter, member of Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, (www.okstonewall.org) the LGBT voice of the Oklahoma and National Democratic Party, with chapters in all 50 states and Washington, DC. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 The following column is very sarcastic and may not be suitable for sensitive readers. I present two potential clients that have threatened for months to begin a workout program with me. Simon is an affable creature who loves watching Diamondbacks and Cardinals games. He enjoys pina coladas and getting caught in the rain. He would give you the shirt offhis back if you needed it. The problem is you wouldn’t be able to use it. Or maybe you would. You would only, need to fit intoa Triple X kimono. Simon tips the scales at an awkward twenty-five stone. That’s 350 pounds for all you nonlimeys out there. He’s six feet tall so yeah that’s 99 Luft Balloons Big. This column is a la carte so I’!l feel free to load up Simon’s plate with more health impediments. Let’s add three packs ofViceroys per day. Don’t forget the four nights per week of all night benders and enough Sauza Gold to paralyze three Mexican towel boy,s. For good measure I’ll throw in the 6,0130 calorie per diem at "his expense" account. What advice would I give to Simple Simon? Dear see-mone, (enjoy the moment of French) I would recommend spending $10,000 on a remodeling project for your home. It would clearly be advantageous to blow your money on a whimsical attempt to make yourself feel better by painting the walls tropical tapioca and adding that new Ethan Allen collection to your living room. Think of hmv much excitement wil! pulse through your damaged vessels as you gaze adoringly upon your newly acquired Vc:aterford Crystal that sparkles like the glint of stupidity in your eyes. You were able to resist the temptation of hiring a qualified personal trainer for six months. This trainer would have only robbed you of those extra 150 pounds you have been safeguarding and would have charged you several thousands dollars for the difficult deed. He might have even saved you from hospitalization and tens of thousands of dollars spent on gastric bypass surgery. It’s lucky that you watch HGTV and have a subscription to Martha Stewart Living. Money well spent. Which room beckons next? Roger also weighs approximately 350 pounds and he too rises vertically to six feet. Roger eats like an F350 Ford truck and he waddles like an emperor penguin. He blames his excessive girth on a thyroid problem and has plenty more excuses ready if you don’t buy that one. He began his smoking career after watching Sunset Boulevard at age seventeen. He now smokes his Parliaments as elegantly as Gloria Swanson ever did. He has been ready for his close up for nearly 28 years. Roger works longer hours than an Indonesian schoolboy in a sweatshop. Fortunately for Roger he is earning considerably more money and is in no danger of breaking aW nails in his pristine white collar job. He has a significant stash of money and is well-educated from the University ofArizona. Roger complains about the rigors of the dating world. He elaborates ad nauseam on the difficulties of finding Mr. Right. He has found glimmers of hope from escorts, massage "specialists", and websites featuring boy,s who seek Mr. Night. My advice for Roger Rabbit is as follows: Dear Roger, Don’t worry! The right guy for you is out there. Thank goodness for you that we dodt live in a superficial world where you are judged by your looks. Most 23 year old guys with chiseled bodies and dashing good looks will seek out your 45 year old flabby, elephantine physique. Further good news for you is that none of these Adonises will be attracted to your BMW, Versace Suits, or 3,000 square foot wallet that can buy them presents. They will appreciate your knowledge, bubbly personalib; and the ability to pick out the correct port wine to sip with your Dairy Queen Royal Treat of the day. I would continue to spend your hard earned cash on vacations to places where no one wants to see you with your shirt off. Perhaps love will truly blossom in the midst of a massage or in the throes of professionalism from that elegant escort. I wouldn’t bother evacuating your money from the bank for trivial purposes of bettering your health. What need have you for physical training when you are immortal? Heart attacks, diabetes, and high blood pressure always happen to that other guy. I think (hope) you get the point. This sardonicism is brought to you by Ron Blake. Ron can be reached at blake.fimess@yahoo.com or at 480-241-5651. 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TUESDAY July 3~ THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. HIDF2XWAY LOUNGE: Karaoke 8pm After Dark is a flee service m our advertisers andis the responsibility of the advertiser to inform dxe STAR in ,amw.ozarksstar.¢om writing of updates, additions or discontinued events. The STAR is not responsible for accuracy. STAR 27 "Practice economy, Gemini!" Mercury is in Cancer turning direct, offering an opportunity to apologize for emotional outbursts and correct al! the problems that erupted while he was retrograde. If you don’t know where to start, try the kitchen. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Get to the root of recent household messes. If you own, fix plumbing, electricity, or whatever. If you rent, make a list for the landlord. Call family members and resolve misunderstanding& At least have a nice chat with Morn. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Mend fences with neighbors, and call or write to your siblings. It’s an excellent time to sign up for classes in any basic skills or techniques that have interested you, especially if they touch on domestic arts or community-building. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Think about your patterns in impulse spending. Everyone does it, but now is your time to look at your own finar~cial strengths and weaknesses, to get those books better organized, and to practice better economy. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): It’s OK - you can finally clean up the confusion and chaos that seem to have taken over in recent weeks. Look for long-latent, underlying problems at the root of those troubles. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worries and fears that have been aggravating you lately now seem like ridiculous shadows. But they’ll be back to haunt you again if you don’t take a look at them and their roots. A meditative retreat should help. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Give your friends a chance to apologize and correct recent disappointments. Or maybe you should be the one patching things up. You can only take responsibility for yourself; still, shouldering more than your share of the blame could go a long way toward fixing things. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Recent misunderstandings may have you hiding out from your boss, landlord, or other authority figures, and/or undermining your own authority. Now is the time to clean up the lines of command and get your career back on track. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): All those reasons that kept you from taking classes, traveling, or otherwise expanding your world and your mind have fallen away. At least reconsider those opportunities and look at ways to get over the obstacles. 28 the STAR SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Sex may be more trouble than it’s worth, but has that ever stopped you? You may have slowed down lately, but recent problems and odd shifts of desire can now be re-examined to achieve greater understanding and pleasure. Talking about those issues will help! CAPRlCORN (December 21 - January 19): You can finally clear up problems that have been brewing with your partner. That "seems-you-can’t-say-anything-right" period is over. Sing out, Louise, and let your baby hear what you have to say! Your listening skills are also suddenly improving. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Been delaying trips to the doctor or the gym? That’s probably been a good instinct, but get your tush back into action! See the doctor first for any problems with or advice about exercising. Discuss nutrition, too! And then renew your health regimen. PISCES (February 19 - hlarch 19): Your creative block is finally over! Drag out the canvases, manuscripts, and instruments. If your muse needs to be fed, get to the kitchen and dig out some long-neglected recipes. A small dinner party will help get your juices flowing, too. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! www.ozarksstar,com Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org.........888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) ..... Diversity Pride Events - www.e~vers ~ypr ae.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main........... 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante.... 309 W VanBuren....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St ............. 479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill- - - 105 E VanBuren....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton 17B Spring Street .......... 479-98t-6060 Tiki Torch........ 75 S. Main Street- ..........479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren.......... 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 Condom Sense 418 W. Dickson...... -479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave.......... -479-521-0009 Flames Bar - - - 40 E. Center- ............... 479-251-1922 Passages ......930 N. College Ave.......... -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave............. 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kin keads.......1004 1/2 Garrison Ave........ 479-783-9988 Klub XLR8 ......1022 Dodson Ave- - 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St.- ............. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street ....1021 Jessie Rd...............501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... ~vw.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd...............501-666-6900 Sidetracks - - -415 Main St - -North L.R.- ........ 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.- ......... 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave......... 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway- 620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut- -Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40..... 3201 S. Hillside......316-682-5494 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg Dr- -316-942-1244 Club Glacier- ......... 2828 E. 31st South......316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground ................. 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (4t7) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ......Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn....www.40thstreetinn.com.......816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Bird 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s....805 W. 39th St................816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge..... 424 Boonville Ave..... 417-831-4700 GLO Comm, Ctr---518 E. Commerical- 417-869-3978 JR’s Nightclub.... 504 E. Commerical- 417-831-9001 Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive ........... -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place....821 College............... 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books....104 Sunset .............. 580-242-6838 Priscilla’s. 4810-A West Garriott........ 580-233-5511 Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore..... 1124 NW Cache Rd......580-353-1488 Oklahoma, l~cA~ester (918) ~cPride........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ..... -4015 N. Penn 405-606-7000 Boom Room....... 2807 NW 36th St 405-601-7200 Border’s Books...... 3209 NW Expressway..... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse...... 4001 N. Penn - 405-525-7766 Club Rox.......3535 NW 39th Expw~j........ -405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box.....3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms......3131 N. Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa.............2200 NW 39th Exp.........405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy........405-525-9200 First Amendment Tatoo Shop- - - 2135 NW 39th - - -405-604-3911 Gushers Restaurant- ....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp ....... Hi-Lo Club 1221 NW 50th Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- Ledo.............2200 NW Expwy..... Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ....... Partners......... 2805 NW 36th St Pec’s -3535 NW 39th Expw ....... Priscilla’s......... 615 E. Memorial- Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St. Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw......... Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- The Park........ 2125 NW 39th St ......... -405-528-4690 The Patio........ 3201 N. May Ave 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th. -405-947-2351 Tramps............2201 NW 39th-- 405-521-9888 Ziggy’s............ 4005 N. Penn- -405-521-9999 -405-947-2351 405-843-1722 405-524-5733 .... 405-525-0730 -405-681-5044 405-942-2199 -405-947-2351 405-755-8600 405-525-5165 405-947-2351 405-601-3711 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine .............918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E. 21st........... 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 Circle Cinema...... 10 S, Lewis- - - 918-592-3456 Club 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder ............ 918-584-9944 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston - 918-584-9494 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan 9t8-835-3301 Cosmo Dell & Bar - - 6746 S. Memorial -918-459-0497 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI -918-834-1051 Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street- ........918-743-4297 Hideaway Cocktail Lounge--- 11730 E. 11th......918-437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st - 918-749-8378 Midtown- 319 E. 3rd.............. 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave..... .....918-585-9552 Priscilla’s .........7925 E. 41st- .918-627-4884 Priscilla’s ........ 5634 W. Skelly ........... 918-446-6336 Priscilla’s ........ 11344 E. 11th -918-438-4224 Priscilla’s ......... 2333 E. 71st.............918-499-1661 Renegades 1649 S. Main ........... 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd......... 918-627-1505 Sappho’s........ 6373-C E 31st St.......... 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI. 918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd ................918-592-1188 TNT’s ......... 2114 S. Memorial 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th.......... 918-293-0304 bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicateocom www,joanhilty.net 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Keller Williams Realty Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’I1 work hard for you. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, July 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 7 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource July 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Paul Wortman James Nimmo Joey D. Victor Gorin Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Jack Fertig Lz Highleyman Devre Jackson Chaz Ward Michael Leach Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, June 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 6 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/208 The Star Magazine, August 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 8 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/203 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/207 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/2892c7067a15c7831ba49b6d5cf1195a.jpg 2ef525ccbc2c38f11b54593dd000c2c5 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/64bca32d87b018efcff3bca88e0cd4d2.pdf 096ea0deb8da92fe37170209ba933ba2 PDF Text Text �2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY*TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID* LITTLE ROCK* NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN ¯ WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �OKLAHOMA COUNTY COMMISSIONER JIM ROTH APPOINTED TO THE OKLAHOMA CORPORATION COMMISSION Exclusive by Victor Gorin to complete his term which expires in 2010. Commissioner Roth hopes that the work of preparing the county’s 2008 budget will be completed by the time he leaves office. As specified in the Oklahoma Constitution, as an appointee to a statewide office, he must run in the next general election to fill the balance of Ms. Bode’s unexpired term, which also ends in 2010. If elected, he plans to run for re-election for a full six year term at that time. He will be serving on the Corporation Commission with Republicans Bob Anthony and Jeff Cloud. A giant step up from his county commissioner position, he stated that he fully understands the challenges of this statewide office. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___’Tm grateful to Governor Henry for his vote of confidence, I’m grateful to for the public that has employed me these past years, and I look forward to making a difference for the state of Oklahoma." On May 14 Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to the Oklahoma Corporation Commission to succeed Commissioner Denise Bode, who is resigning her seat for a job in the private sector. The Corporation Commission functions in Oklahoma state government to regulate telecommunications, utilities, the oil & gas industry & transportation providers. It consists of 3 commissioners elected statewide that serve 6 year terms. As the Governor stated, "Jim Roth has the intellect, the integrity and the dedication to public service needed to be an outstanding Corporation Commissioner." When he was elected to be Oklahoma County Commissioner of District 1 in 2002, he was the second openly gay elected official in Oklahoma. Despite a rough campaign where his opposition, the incumbent Republican Beverly Hodges, played the antigay card to the max, he still won based on a campaign of efficient, trustworthy county government that would serve all the citizens www.ozarksstar.com of the district. After his victory he and his stafffound that his predecessor had left the office with the computers crashed, files shredded, and a card with men in drag that said, "Don we now our gay apparel" that gave new meaning to the concept of sore losing. Despite this rock), welcome he gained the confidence of the district’s voters, achieving a balanced budget and getting 8 new bridges built in his district during his first term while the previous commissioner had built only one. He also was able to get Oklahoma County to adopt an employment nondiscrimination policy for their employees that protects them from discrimination based on sexual orientation, the first and only such government policy in Oklahoma. His job performance won the respect and support not only of the GLBT community and traditionally progressive groups, but also a surprising number of conservative Republicans. This showed clearly when he ran for a second term in 2006 and his opposition, Republican David Mehlhaff, ran a campaign almost entirely based on anti-gay rhetoric, and he still won handily ~ith 63% of the vote. He will retain his office until May 31. Unless she declines the position his chief deputy, Linda Simpson, will serve in his place pending the outcome from a special election that will be set by Governor Henry " I spent the last 3 weeks doing my due diligence exploring the position, finding out if it was something I could make a positive impact with. I also explored the idea about leaving a job that I loved and a county that relies on me. My partner (Worth Ross), my family and I all discussed my original intentions for public service, and that is to change people’s lives for the better, and we , decided that if the governor were to offer it this would be a tremendous opportunity to do that higher goal of helping change people’s lives for the better across the state. " "As for my skill sets, I feel I would be up to the challenge, "I feel that in the last 5 years I have learned a lot of what it takes to be successful as a member ofa 3 member board, pushing for progressive change even in contentious, difficult environments. My record for being fair and honest made me a good candidate in the governor’s eyes for that statewide position. Beyond that I would say that it is a huge honor to be able to take an oath to serve the state of Oklahoma just as I have felt it an honor to serve Oklahoma County". And as for the challenge of his upcoming statewide election? "I have always approached public service based on job performance, I work hard, I work long hours to make a difference. That will be my same strategy, that in the next year and a half that I will work so hard for the public that given the chance to rehire me, I hope they say yes." the STAR 5 �Dear Editor, Thank you for publishing information about the recent $24-miltion class action settlement with EMD Serono, the maker of AIDS -wasting drug Serostim. The lawsuit had alleged that EMD Serono promoted the use of an unapproved medical device that improperly diagnosed people as having AIDS wasting; provided doctors with travel stipends in exchange for their agreement to prescribe Serostim; and marketed the drug for uses that were not approved by the FDA. The U.S. Attorney in charge of a government case against EMD Serono asserted that "nearly 85% of prescriptions written for Serostim ~vere not medically necessary." It is important that anyone who paid for any of the cost of Serostim know that they may be eligible to receive a payment from this settlement. The deadline to make a claim is approaching fast! Claims must be submitted by June 19th, 2007. Claims forms and more information are available at www.serostimsettlement.com. Thank you, Mark D. Snyder Prescription Access Litigation www.prescriptionaccess.org Dear Editor barbarism many people would prefer to humanist progress. In that same light, our gay equality--despite some advancement in the area of civil unions and civil equality for same gendered couples--can be canceled by a Supreme Court decision should it decide that unanimity of a legislature is never to be had, and therefore, the law must bow to the least common denominator of human reason: bigotry. This is the logic that was used by the Supreme Court in denying any allowance for the health or life of the mother in the case of an abortion after consultation with the patient and her medical professional. The Court said that because the legislatures have a "right" to pass laws, and even should those laws be passed in contradiction to scientific fact, the ignorance shown by the law must be upheld. This reasoning is driven by religious fear and not sound jurisprudence. Let’s remember the slogan from a prior presidential election: "It’s the Supreme Court, Stupid!", and vote accordingly in November 2008 for the enforcement of the Constitution and not the Bible. James Nimmo Oklahoma City, OK I’m concerned about the takeover of my country by the Alice-in-Wonderland anti-Democratic nature of the religious far right. It’s my contention that fundie religious observance and stridency are a brake on natural human progress and diversity. As we’ve seen with the latest Supreme Court decision on privacy and women’s bodies, the opinions of six lower courts, logic, precedence, and rule of law are put aside when the observance of these important elements in human civilization would run counter to the biblical 6 the STAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 ��SATURDAY ,JUNE 23, 2007 THE JAZZ DEPOT ’lST AND CiNCINNATi OKLAHOMA JAZZ HALL OF FAME Creating U~ity Throu~ab Music FREE VVW’W.OEJAZ7-ORG ’A t Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST "¸ properties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405.840.2106 www, c21goldcastle.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �Old homa Stonewa l Democra,s The LGBT Voice of the Democratic Party Stonewall Democrats Work to Raise Awareness that LGBT Democrats Care and We VOTE! We Seek Equality and Human Rights for ALL People from within the oMv Political Party that Endorses LGBT Inclusiveness at All Levels ofPolitics and Governmen~ Help us elect Democrats who will welcome YOU into their campaigns, their lives, and their offic!s! We’re Proud of Oklahoma Stonewall Members ~State Corporatwn Commissioner dim Roth ~State Representative Al McAffrey ~State Senator Andrew Rice (Congratulations on the new baby, SenatorO Join us at wwwook~tonewallo~rg 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Pinkie and the Snakeshokers, Sa~rday Evening Come check out the improvements made to the festival as we~l as the many interactive activities such as Pride Idol, Pet Contest, Return of the Children’s Area, Two Stages of Entertainment plus a DJ Tent, Food, Shopping, Historical Exhibits, Karaoke ClMARRON m www.ozarksstar.com Q g a zi n e,,~ the STAR 11 �Unprecedented series of" gains coast tO coas for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people ’The tide is clearly shifting.’ Matt Foreman, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, May9 " ~{~007 state legislative season has b~ ~{ ~ost productive in the history of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights movement and, as a result, for the first time more than half the U.S. population will live in jurisdictions that outlaw discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, according to an analysis of Census data and current laws released today by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. In addition, nearly 40 percent of the population wilt now live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination -- a sevenfold increase since 2000, and one-fifth of all Americans will live in states that offer same-sex couples broad rights under state law, more than an eightfold increase since 2004. The Task Force said the 2006 elections and years of dogged work at the grassroots level were responsible for the surge in legislation. "This is a historic and long-overdue milestone. At long last, a majority of Americans will now live in jurisdictions that protect people from discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "As important, protections for transgender people and broad rights for same-sex couples are surging from coast to coast. We still have a very long way to go, but the tide is clearly shifting." Nondiscrimination Protections Surge Since Jan. 1, 2007, the legislatures in four states -- an all-time high -- have passed nondiscrimination laws. Three of those states -- Iowa, Oregon and Colorado -moved to extend protections to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, and the Vermont Legislature passed a bill amending its existing nondiscrimination laws to include transgender people. As a result, the t2 the STAR percentage of the U.S. population living in jurisdictions protecting lesbian, gay and bisexual people from discrimination will rise to 52 percent, crossing the halfway mark for the first time. The laws of Iowa, Oregon and Vermont prohibit discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations, among other categories; Colorado’s law covers employment only. I7 Oregon GoT. Ted Kulongoski is scheduled to sign his state’s ............... bill into law today; the governors in the other three states nondiscrimination laws covering gender have pledged to sign their bills into law. identity/expression grew 32 percentage Protections for Transgender People Growing Rapidly When the four state discrimination taws go into effect, 37 percent of the population will live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination. Protections for transgender people have grmvn much more quickly over the last decade than those for lesbian, gay and bisexual people because of a commitment of the LGBT movement to insist that transgender people be included in new nondiscrimination laws and to go back and add protections for transgender people to existing sexual orientation-only laws. Since 2000, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with nondiscrimination laws covering sexual orientation grew 14 percentage points (from 38 percent to 52 percent). During the same period, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with points (from 5 percent to 37 percent), more than five times the rate of growth for sexual orientation protections. The "Eask Force created and staffed its Transgender Civil Rights Project in 2001 with the goal of increasing the number of transgender-protective discrimination laws. Since the project’s inception, the proportion of the population covered by transgenderinclusive laws has increased from 6 percent to 37 percent. "It’s clear that legislators recognize that transgender people face widespread discrimination and deserve the same protections as other minorities," said Foreman. "The common wisdom used to be that including protections for transgender people would kill a bill -- that’s obviously not the case." Foreman noted that last week the U.S. House of Representatives passed a hate crimes bill containing explicit protections ................... Continued next page www.ozarksstar.com �for transgender people by a vote of 237-180 and that this year the Employment NonDiscrimination Act (ENDA) was amended to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity and expression. There is widespread expectation that both houses of Congress will take up ENDA before the end of the calendar year. Gains in Broad State Protections for SameSex Couples Over the last five months (December through April), legislatures in three states New Jersey, New Hampshire and Oregon passed laws granting same-sex couples the same rights and responsibilities afforded married couples under state law through civil unions or domestic partnerships. As in the nondiscrimination arena, this is more states taking such action than in any previous state legislative season. As a result, onefifth (20 percent) of the U.S. population will live in states that offer broad rights and responsibilities to same-sex couples. (Other jurisdictions, including \Vashington state, Hawaii and the District of Columbia, have passed laws that give significant but not comprehensive rights to domestic partners. These jurisdictions are not included in the calculations.) Five years ago (in 2002) just one state, Vermont, ~vith 0.2 percent of the population, offered broad protections to same-sex couples. When the bills passed this session take effect, seven states (California, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon and Vermont), with 20 percent of the population, will offer broad protections to same-sex couples. The Task Force said Oregon’s new law was a particularly satisfying turnaround from 2004, when voters approved a constitutional amendment banning the recognition of same-sex marriage by a margin of 57 percent to 43 percent, the narrowest margin among the 13 states voting on anti-marriage measures that year. The Task Force donated nearly $900,000 in cash in the attempt to defeat the amendment and sent 10 organizers to help staff the campaign. "While the 2004 loss really hurt, it’s now clear that our campaign really did convince people that all families deserve broad protections and relationship rights," said Thalia www.ozarksstar.com Zepatos, director of the Task Force’s Organizing & Training Department. Zepatos, who played a major role in fighting every anti-LGBT measure in Oregon since 1988, will attend today’s bill-signing ceremony in Salem, Ore. 2006 Elections and Years of Grassroots Work Credited with Surge in Protections The results of the 2006 election played a pivotal role in four (Colorado, Iowa, Ne~v Hampshire and Oregon) of the six states passing nondiscrimination or family protection laws since December, the Task Force said. Before the November elections, Democrats held control of both houses of the state legislatures in three of the states taking pro-LGBT action: Vermont, Colorado and New Jersey. As a result of the November elections, however, Democrats picked up control of both houses in the other three states: Iowa, Oregon and New Hampshire. Before the elections in Iowa, the Senate was evenly divided and the House was Republican-dominated; in Oregon, Democrats controlled the Senate and Republicans controlled the House; in New Hampshire, both houses were controlled by Republicans. In Co!orado, Democrats strengthened their control of the Legislature, and Democrat William Ritter succeeded Republican William Owens as governor, who had twice vetoed the nondiscrimination bill. Although it took Democratic control to move the bills, each passed with Republican support (although Colorado’s employment nondiscrimination bill passed with only one Republican voting for it). The Task Force stressed that while the change in party control was an essentia! factor in moving bills this year, grassroots activism over many years made it possible for legislators to vote on the pro-LGBT measures. In Oregon, for example, activists had been pushing a nondiscrimination law for nearly 30 years, and work on the comprehensive domestic partnership law began immediately after the 2004 election. Similarly, the LGBT community in Vermont has been pushing to include protections for transgender people for eight years, and New Hampshire’s civil union law is a direct result of marriage equality organizing by the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "These bills would have never passed without the dogged work of state and local leaders and organizations over many, many years," Foreman said. "Our national community owes them all its respect and gratitude." Since Jan. 1, the legislatures of all 50 states have been in session. As of May 8, 29 legislatures remain in session. The change in control of the state legislatures was due to Democratic gains nationwide, as well as specific work to elect pro-LGBT state legislators spearheaded by Colorado philanthropist Tim Gill. "The lesson here? What a difference an election makes!" said Foreman. In Oregon in 2006, then-House Speaker Karen Minnis was singularly responsible for blocking nondiscrimination and family recognition legislation bills. With Democrats taking control of that chamber, Minnis has since lost her leadership position. the STAR 13 �young and old, gathered in sister-brotherhood, while others spoke for us inside. We held our signs aloft, talked, laughed, and waited for the Counci!’s final vote. From an open window, two of our elders signaled victory and we roared with joy in our hearts! We hugged each other, we cried and fett" as ONE community. It was a wondrous evening!" -- Marie Howard, age 73, retired teacher By D. Rose "As a gay father and spouse raising two children, I see this action by the Council as a major step in the ongoing process of attaining equal rights for citizens that are unduly discriminated against. For couples who can’t otherwise be married or have a Civil Union, the Registry will give us a small way to publicly recognize and help solidify our loving families. And for some couples fortunate to work for an employer that offers Domestic Partner benefits, it will help them attain much needed spousal benefits." -- JT Williams, Arkansas "Eureka shows us LOVE is for everybody!" -- Joney Harper Photo: Eureka Springs Mayor Dani Wilson. EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~"Zhis is a monumental occasion for our town," proclaimed Mayor Dani Wilson. "I am so incredibly proud that our c0uncil has had the courage to stand for equality for all." She concluded, "It reinforces the fact that Eureka Springs was founded upon equality, inclusion, and love for all, and still holds those principals true today." Diversity thrives in a Victorian village wedged in the rocky Ozarks hills. On May 14, 2007, Eureka Springs, Arkansas added another jewel to her crown with the passing of the Domestic Partnership Registry, standing in the company of many astute cities choosing to push aside religious oppression to progress equality for all couples. For many, the benefits of the Registry may be more symbolic in nature, but it is a monumental step toward enlightenment. "Who does DP benefit? Any adult couple who, for whatever reason, chooses not to legally marry or who, because of antiquated and discriminatory laws, can not legally marry. Every woman, man and child in Eureka Springs, in Arkansas and in the rest of the nation. Anything that inches those who have been disenfranchised and marginalized closer to full citizenship, emancipation and equality under the law is a benefit for society." -- Michael Walsh "As a mother of a deceased gay man, my first thought was Robert would love this. My second, he would be so proud of his mother for standing in for him to celebrate the life he fought so hard for. EQUALITY! Parents’ love never dies, but grows because he/she is your child as well as God’s." - Jude Murphy For more details about ordinance 2052, go to www.Diversitypride.com Center for Artistic Revolution Blog BENTONVILLE, AR The father of two teenage boys has asked city Officials to fine the Bentonville Public Library for keeping The Whole Lesbian Sex Book by Felice Newman on the open shelves where his sons could find it. Earl Adams said his 14and 16-year-old sons discovered the book in January while browsing for literature on military academies and were "greatly disturbed," causing "many sleepless nights in our house." Adams wants the city to pay him $10,000 per child, the maximum allowed under Arkansas obscenity law. "God was speaking to my heart that day and helped me find the words that proved successful in removing this book from the shelf," Adams said in the April 20 Springdale Morning News. City Attorney Camille Thompson said the book was not pornographic and Adams has no "valid legal concern." After receiving his original complaint, the library advisory board voted April 3 to remove the book from circulation and look for a similar, less graphic resource for the open stacks. "I thought we had a very intelligent I almost want to say high-minded--discussion about the book," said board member, George Spence. Library Director Cindy Suter said that she disagreed with Adams’s conclusion that having Newman’s book in the library follows an "immoral social agenda," adding, "My focus was to develop an inclusive collection and not an exclusive collection." "In the parking lot outside of City Hall, an amazing combination of people: gay, straight, mothers, fathers, nurses, teachers, 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ��Anal PAP Smear For Men, Ana.1 Cancer Prevenuon SAN FRANCISCO, CA If you have followed the news, you’ve heard about advances in preventing cancers caused by HPV (human papilloma virus). The Food and Drug Administration has approved a vaccine for women and girls th~lt is expected to prevent up to 70 percent of cervical cancers caused by HPV. Unfortunately, there have been fewer advances in prevention and education for gay and bisexual men who face alarmingly high rates of another cancer caused by HPV, anal cancer. Most men and women who are sexually active acquire HPV at some point. Most HPV infections don’t cause cancer~, but some do. Rates of anal cancer among gay and bisexual men are 35 times greater than the general population -- comparable to rates of cervical cancer in women before routine Pap smear screening for cervical precancerous cells. HIV-positive men and women are even more susceptible, with HIV-positive men a staggering 80 times more at risk. Anal cancer rates have doubled in the last 10 years and are expected to continue rising. Black gay and bisexual men have seen the sharpest increase and have lower survival rates. The National Cancer Institute estimates that 4,650 people in the United States will be diagnosed with anal cancer this year and 690 people will die from it. Early detection of precancerous cells can save hundreds of lives each year and spare thousands of people from radiation therapy, chemotherapy and a lifetime of painful side 4ffects. The good news is that anal cancer is potentially preventable and highly curable. An anal Pap smear is an inexpensive and relatively painless screening procedure that can detect abnormal cells. A follow-up exam, which includes a high-resolution anoscopy, helps determine whether abnormal cells are precancerous. Specialists believe that treating anal precancerous cells, often through a simple in-office procedure, can prevent anal cancer. Despite the experience of specialists, these potential preventive measures are not part of routine care for those at risk. One reason 1 {5 the STAR is a disturbing lack of large-scale studies and research funding on anal cancer prevention. Without these studies, policymakers and medical associations are hesitant to recommend preventive measures. In contrast, cervical Pap smears became part of women’s health care before conclusive studies were published, yielding an 80 percent reduction in cervical cancer. Another reason that preventive measures are not in place is the limited number of providers trained in high-resolution anoscopy (HRA). Further, if pre-cancers are detected through the procedure, no guidelines exist for optimal treatment. This potentially preventable cancer is needlessly advancing among thousands of Americans each year. Some specialists are screening for and treating anal pre-cancers, but without randomized clinical studies, it hasn’t been proven that these measures prevent anal cancer. Required studies are in the planning stages and will take years to conduct. The STOP AIDS Project, a San Franciscobased community project that works to prevent the transmission of HIV among gay and bisexual men, supports evidence-based standards of care. However, until standards of care are implemented, something needs to be done. STOP AIDS advocates that policymakers and medical associations support and fund research on anal-cancer prevention, including the efficacy of HPV vaccines in males. In anticipation of published guidelines, a health-care infrastructure should be developed that includes provider training. Policymakers should also consider piloting screening programs to collect data and determine efficacy and feasibility. Gay and bisexual men and those with HIV should talk with their health-care providers about their risk for anal cance.r and HPV. Men can decrease their risk for HPV by using condoms. Those at risk should consider getting an anal Pap smear annually if they are HIV-positive or every two to three years if they are HIV-negative. At minimum, they should have a rectal exam to detect abnormal growths. Also, men at risk can !ower their risk by stopping smoking, because smoking is a risk factor for developing anal cancer. Men at risk can advance prevention efforts by volunteering for clinical trials or advocating for research funding and health insurance coverage. Additionally, providers can Seek training in preventive anal cancer procedures. The San Francisco Department of Public Health STD Control Branch and STOP AIDS are convening an expert panel to evaluate existing data on anal cancer and develop recommendations. Last month, New York’s MDS Institute became the first Department of Public Health in the nation to publish such recommendations. Other organizations, counties and states should follow this lead. Dr. Joel Palefsky is a professor of medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. Jen Hecht, Jason Riggs and Michael Scarce are staff members of STOP ,adDS Project, an HIV prevention and health promotion organization for gay; bisexual and transgender men. For more information visit www.stopaids.org and www.analcancerinfo.ucsf.edu/ Doctors in Bay Area, San Francisco are encouraging ga), men to have pap smears, after a significant increase in cases of anal cancer. In the United States, the number of people diagnosed with anal cancer has increased by close to forty percent since 1996. This is in contrast to the overall increase of cancer diagnoses of just one percent. Although the cancer can be easily treated, 660 people died ftom the disease last year, with over 4,500 new cases. Doctor Joel Palefsky, Director of the Anal Neoplasia Clinic at the University of California, spoke of how anal pap smears could detect legions before becoming malignant. "We haven’t proven it yet, but we believe that we are likely to be preventing anal cancer." Although women are more likely to be diagnosed with anal cancer, gay men and those who are HIV positive are also at risk. It is now believed that 35 out of every 100,000 gay men in the United States has anal cancer. A report is currently being prepared on the introduction and promotion of pap smears for gay men. www.ozarksstar.com �You want to be healthy. Go to bed and Try to mix and match these hues with the d’cor of your boudoir and serenade yourself into a lullaby. sleep on it. Sleep is a great way to maintain your health and it’s not that complicated. You just need to sleep. So, why is that everyone seems to get so little of it? People are always rushing about. There’s the nine to five job. There’s the one hour commute. There’s the grocery shopping. There’s always something that seems to eat away at your precious sleep time. Let me give you some good reasons to make room for the pillmv and mattress. First, you just simply need to make the time for sleep. The average adult needs seven to eight hours of sleep. This is a priority and you need to allocate a period of your day ~vhen you can accomplish this. If you can’t schedule it then you are doing too much during your daily routine. Cornell psychology professor James B. Maas provided research that shows that if you get less than eight hours of sleep per night, you are operating impaired; and your alertness, productivity, creativity, and general health are all affected. The body is able to restore itself during REM sleep. ~lis is when the body can process the emotional moments of the day through dream imagery. ~is explains why I have such a hard time sleeping after watching movies like The Grudge, White Noise, or Gigli. The brain tries to interpret and process this information so that we can forget and then move on for a new day. Some people tell me that they need to do as much as possible while they are alive. They tell me that there will be plenty of time to sleep when they’re knocking on heaven’s door. True but why not try to get as much quality out of your awake time as possible? Proper sleep equates to much more energetic and productive awake time. I opt for quality in lieu of quantity. "Goodnight, you princes Of Maine. You Kings of New England." Ron Blake is a personal fitness trainer and owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or blake.fitness@ yahoo.com. Owasso Community heatre’ Season Opens. OWASSO, OK__The O~vasso Community Theatre’s Season "It’s All About Family" will be opening on June 22, 2007 with a musical production of Ruthless! directed by Bruce Lewis. Season Tickets for all five shows are now available from the contacts listed below, and cost $25.00 for access to all four shows which include the mysterious Arsenic and Old Lace, the heartwarming Cheaper By The Dozen, and the entertaining Babes in Toyland. For further questions, please contact: Tammy Quick, tammylq@cox.net, (918) 851-3830 Bruce Lewis, brucel@tulsacares.org, (918) 906-8992 It becomes easier to fall asleep when you get in a routine. Watch the nine o’clock news each night and then head off to the bedroom. Notice I said head off to the bedroom. That would mean that you were watching the news in another room. Very good! The bedroom is just for sleeping and occasionally some carnal indulgences. Keep the television and DVDs out of this sacred slumber sanctuary. The more you associate this part of the house with somnolence, the easier it will be become to fall asleep quickly when your head hits the pillow. Don’t engage in disruptive activities just before being summoned by the sandman. Headbangers ball, a cup of joe, a row with your partner, and a tintinnabulary tango are bad ideas. Soothing music, non-caffeinated drinks, and a rendezvous with your favorite book are great ideas. Make your bed as comfortable and appealing as possible. There are certain colors that have that hypnotic effect on individuals. Green coos peace and serenity and helps lower the heart rate. It is a great comforter and stress reliever. Blue entices you to fantasize and daydream. Its cerulean effects cause the brain to emit tranquilizing hormones. Purple has the capacity to pacify frayed nerves and slow muscle activity. Pink just has a way with calm, cool, and collective. www,ozarksstar.com the 8TAR �OK .AHOMA SHAKESPEARE IN THE PARK MOVING TO THE HEART OF DOWNTOWN OKLAHOMA CITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park (OSP), Oklahoma’s premiere classical theater, announced at the Myriad Botanical Gardens that beginning in 2007 and beyond, it will stage its summer seasons in the heart of downtown Oklahoma City. The inaugural 2007 season will kick-off June 14 and continue through Sept. 1. It will be staged on the Myriad Botanical Gardens Water Stage, which the Myriad Gardens Foundation (MGF) in a partnership with OSP will renovate. OSP has partnered with the MGF to raise private funds for the renovation. Improvements will include new sound and lighting, seating and a stage structure. The renovated theater will add a new premiere venue to doxvntown Oklahoma City and will be available for other bookings when OSP is not in residence. OSP has also moved its offices to Stage Center in Oklahoma City’s Arts District. The 2007 Summer Season opens June 14 with A Midsummer Night’s Dream, followed by Cyrano de Bergerac and Macbeth. The final summer performance will be September 1. The announcement came on the day that OSP’s three-year lease with the Myriad Gardens Authority and the City of Oklahoma City for use of the \rater Stage was unanimously approved by the Oklahoma City Council. It had previously been unanimously approved by the OSP Board of Directors and the Myriad Gardens Authority. This approval represents the culmination of a process that began in the spring of 2005, when OSP’S stage in Edmond’s Hafer Park was burned down for a second time. Because of that tragedy, OSP staged its summer seasons the past two years at the University of Central Oklahoma. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park 2006 Season "The Temioest at Stage Center" Photo Subjects: Left: Holly McNatt (Miranda) and Rig/st: J. Shane McClure (Prospero). Photo by: Andrea NotTis O’Meara. The past 22 summer seasons have been staged in the City of Edmond. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park traditionally mounts a summer season consisting of three plays; a winter season of one play, which is traditionally performed at Stage Center in downtown Oklahoma City; a production of A Christmas Carol, which will remain at the University of Central Oklahoma; and statewide touring productions year-around. Educational outreach is also a core part of OSP’S mission. OSP is supported in part by the Oklahoma Arts Council, Allied Arts, Chesapeake Energy, OG&E, the Kirkpatrick Family Fund, the Kirkpatrick Foundation, the Inasmuch Foundation, and is in alliance with the University of Central Oklahoma’s Department of Theatre, Dance and Media Arts. For more information, visit www.oklahomashakespeare.com. Thi~ drink ! Yummy 1½ oz. Vodka 1 oz. Creme de Banana 1 oz. Dark Creme de Cacao ½ oz. Light cream Pour ingredients into mixini~ glass. Add ice, shake and strain into your Martini Gl~ss. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park was founded in 1985 by current Artistic Director Kathryn McGill and the late Jack 1 8 the BTAR www.ozarksstar.com �cabaret-style entertainment, billed with the show "Trial By Jury." "Jury," a one act Gilbert and Sullivan Operetta is about a philandering man who cheats on his intended and gets sued for breach of promise. An equally badly behaved judge presides over the case, and, you can guess the rest. By Joey De The boys are back in town, and for the 2007 Light Opera Oklahoma season, they’re behaving badly, beginning Jun. 15. All four shows have rotating schedules which can be found at wvw.tulsapac.com or at www.lightoperaok.org. For ticket information visit www.myticketoffice.com. Presented as a repertory festival and in conjunction with the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust’s Summerstage festival, the 2007 LOOK season features a classic, a contemporary and countess, in addition to three cabaret performances. "We select our shows and obtain rights about a year and a half to two years in advance," says Eric Gibson, artistic director of LOOK. "Then we take a look at the shows and if we can, hopefully find a theme or a common element to tie them all together." This year’s presentation of bad boys are Meredith Willsoffs "The Music Man," the dark opera/musical "Sweeney Todd" and the more light hearted operetta "Naughty Marietta." Kicking off the festival Jun. 13 and running through Jul. 8 is "The Music Man," a golden age musical about Professor Harold Hill, the most charming of con artists, and his descent upon River City, Iowa. Hill convinces the town’s youth that they are in so much terrible trouble the only way to keep them safe is to introduce the boys to music and join a band. The con’s plan includes getting unwitting parents to buy instruments and band uniforms and then skipping town with the proceeds. The plan hits a snag when Harold falls in love with the local librarian Marian Paroo. Resistant at first, Marian sees Harold transform the citizens of River City into exhilarated, musically challenged people. "This show’s a classic," says Gibson, "High schools everywhere do it, but rarely is it performed ’right,’ with professional talent." Following the feel-good frivolities of Music Man will be a trip to the dark side xvith Stephen Sondheim’s "Sweeney Todd," about the wrongfully imprisoned barber, Benjamin Barker. Barker, who returns to London to reclaim his life and reunite with www.ozarksstar.com his wife and daughter, finds that his judge has taken his wife and child, and swears revenge. Known on the streets as Sweeney Todd, Barker kills a street mountebank who recognizes him, and makes it that much more easy for him to kill anyone who gets in his revengeful way. His accomplice Mrs. Lovett, a fledgling pastry cook, has the brilliant idea of popping Todd’s victims into meat pies, boosting her own sagging business. Although it is a more contemporary piece of musical theatre, Gibson says that Sweeney Todd is very operatic, and is in fact performed frequently in opera houses throughout the United States. Rounding out the main stage season for LOOK is a light hearted return to the operettas that the company was built on. Although it is not Gilbert and Sullivan, as many have come to expect from the troupe, "~xe Naughty Marietta" is full of the same wit and charm that makes light opera fun. The show, which opens June 28, tells of the escape of the Countess D’Altena of Italy. D’Altena finds herself on a ship bound for New Orleans, but once there must escape the pirate Bras Pique. To join her in these escapades, Marietta enlists the aid of Captain Dick Warrington, a ranger in the US Army. They quickly fall in love and in order to foil the plot of Bras Pique, they enlist the aid of a French fop, marionettes, a jilted lover and many others! Through out the season, LOOK will also be offering three intimate evenings of LANG & LOVETT CONCERT COHING TO OKC AND TULSA TULLSA, OK Musician, singer, songwriter, and actor, Lyle Lovett, together with K.d. Lang is in concert at Oklahoma City’s ZOO Ampitheater Saturday July 7th and in Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Sunday July 8th, 2007. By breaking the rules and experimenting with music, each has earned a cult following around the world with a modern, eccentric sound coupled with literate, witty lyrics. K.d. Lang was inspired, at an early age, by the music of country western diva, Patsy Cline, and released a string of albums with a decidedly country flair enjoying moderate success in both sales and airplay. It was not, however, until the release of"Ing~nue" that K.d. Lang hit it big. Hailed as her "crossover" album, critics praised her work even as her country fans were feeling alienated. Lang further removed herself from her country/western fame by publicly declaring her lesbianism, shortly after the album’s release. �the 8TAR www.ozarksstar.com ��down and T;ad.K TO EVERYBODY! When harurally,, no one knOws y0u; s~ it is YOUR responsibility to start a conversation, that was in ��The colorful gutchart Gardens rank among !~ctoria’s most memorable at~actions. (Photo by Andrew Collins) around the city and its environs by car. A favorite excursion is so-called Marine Drive - not the name of any one street but a scenic coastal circuit extending from Ogden Point, which is southwest of the Inner Harbour, to Cadboro Bay. Victoria and the surrounding area are also idea! for outdoorsy activities - in fact, it’s been named Canada’s fittest city, owing to the high percentage of residents who regularly participate in outdoor recreation. Favorite activities include diving, kayaking, fishing, mountain biking, and hiking. A number of local outfitters lead tours through nearby old-growth forests, up rugged mountain peaks, and on whale-watching expeditions - visit Tourism Victoria’s helpful website (www.tourismvictoria.com) for a full list of providers. Dignified, historic, studded with parks, and packed with some of the nation’s most notable cultural attractions, Victoria offers the perfect recipe for a short getaway in western Canada - it’s also easily reached from Vancouver or Seattle by way of regular ferry service. At the southern tip of Vancouver Island, this leafy capital of British Columbia has also become a popular spot for gay honeymoons and weddings since Canada legalized same-sex marriage in 2005. Great Britain’s first colony on the Pacific Coast of North America, Victoria was established in 1849 as a trading outpost. By the end of the century, when the now much larger city of Vancouver was still a mere blip on the radar, Victoria had become B.C.’s capital. The city remains an important political center, but tourists definitely butter the bread these days. The formal, lmndon-inspired Parliament buildings and the Fairmont Empress Hotel edge the harbor, set against a commanding backdrop of snowcapped mountains. With its tow skyline, downtown is compact and user-friendly, and fine shopping and care-hopping abound. The south end of the Inner Harbour contains Victoria’s provincial government buildings as well as the imposing Fairmont Empress Hotel, which is famous not only as a place to stay but for its regal afternoon high teas. Few museums in Canada are more fascinating than the Royal British Columbia Museum, whose artifacts and exhibits document life 12,000 years ago in xvhat is now Western Canada. Around the corner, the Crystal Garden Conservatory contains more than 65 endangered species that make their home in this re-created tropical forest. just south of here, off Douglas Street, the 185-acre Beacon Hill Park is typically filled with joggers, strollers, and sun-worshipers soaking up the atmosphere and the floral aroma. Nearby you can visit the Carr House, which affords a glimpse into the life of British Columbia’s most beloved painter, Emily Cart. Walk 15 minutes or drive a short way east of downtown along Fort Street, which is lined for several blocks with fine antiques shops, to reach one of B.C.’s greatest house-museums, Craigdarroch Castle. From the top (fifth) floor you’re treated to outstanding views of the city. Just west is the Art Gallery of Greater Victoria, one of the top art museums in Western Canada. Once you’ve exhausted Victoria on foot, consider tooling Victoria lies at the southern tip of the Saanich Peninsula, a fertile strip of land dotted with family farms and a growing number of esteemed wineries. It’s worth spending an afternoon exploring this region, whose most famous attraction is Butchart Gardens, a half-hour northwest of the city. The Butchart family made its fortune manufacturing cement in the late 19th century; when they finished mining their quarry, they transformed it into this magnificent collection of gardens. Among the 55 acres you’ll see every imaginable flower, and there are concerts as well as Saturday-night fireworks displays in July and August. From Butchart, there are several wineries within an easy drive. As you motor around the countryside, keep an eye out for farm stands and roadside markets, many of them selling fresh jams, baked goods, flowers, and produce. They often operate on an honor system - pick out your goods, and leave behind payment. Wineries of particular note include Marley Farm, a family-run establishment that specializes in some quite unusual fruit wines, including kiwi, pear, loganberry, and quince varieties. You’re apt to see sheep and horses wandering the 5-acre grounds. Tiny Chalet Estate Vineyard is well-regarded for its high-quality, unfiltered vintages, from syrahs to viogniers. Where there are wineries, there are virtually always wonderful restaurants, and Victoria is no exception. Probably the most gaypopular of the city’s up-market restaurants, Cafe Brio is a sophisticated little chef-owned ........ Continued next page. vwvw.ozarksstar.com �bistro that’s an absolute delight for romantic, intimate meals. The contemporary West Coast cuisine has Tuscan overtones - you might start with crispy roasted sweetbreads with poached rhubarb, followed by tomato-and-molasses-braised lamb shank with fresh-mintpotato gnocchi. For some of the best modern Italian food in town, including fantastic wood-fired pizzas with such creative toppings as smoked ahi tuna and marinated artichokes, dine at I1 Terrazzo, whose airy dining room resembles a cloistered courtyard. It’s steps from the diverting shopping along Johnson Street and features one of the city’s best wine lists. been refitted into a distinctive all-suites accommodation. Groups of friends traveling together will find Swans a bargain - up to six people can easily fit into its huge rooms. Each has a dining nook, a patio or a terrace, and many have skylights. There’s a microbrewery and an excellent restaurant, Wild Saffron Bistro, on the premises. Also worth consideration is the Magnolia Hotel and Spa, a snazzy and modern boutique hotel with a first-rate spa and a great location in the Inner Harbour neighborhood. Rooms receive plenty of sunlight, with their floor-to-ceiling windows and views of downtown and the waterfront. With a memorable setting inside a former schoolhouse in Canada’s oldest Chinatown, Brasserie I2Ecole is the domain of talented chefowner Sean Brennan, who utilizes local produce in his innovative regional fare, such as local trout with escarole and Jerusalem artichokes. Well-seasoned, imaginatively prepared vegetarian fare is the specialty at Re-Bar Modern Food, an offbeat spot on downtown’s Bastion Square, where you might dine on shiitake-tofu potstickers or Thai coconut-cashew prawn curry. If you’d rather stay out in the country, but still within striking distance of Victoria, consider booking into the swank yet low-keyed Sooke Harbour House, which is a 45-minute drive away. This is the ultimate luxury hideaway, complete with 28 imaginatively decorated rooms, many with views of Washington’s Olympic Mountains and the Strait of Juan de Fuca. There’s also a splendid restaurant serving fantastic four- and seven-course dinners, complete with wine-pairing options. One signature dish is the trio of garden-inspired sorbets (which might include quince-lemon-verbena or rhubarb-fennel). Indeed, this perfectly tended inn is surrounded by some of Vancouver Island’s most beautiful gardens - a night or two here will leave you totally refreshed and relaxed. For lighter dining and snacking, grab a latte or cappuccino at gaypopular Bean Around the World Coffee, a Chinatown java joint that uses organic coffee beans. Or nosh on eggs Benedict, hefty burgers, and other short-order fare at Rosie’s Diner, a downtown cafe with a festive ’50s-inspired retro look. The city’s sizable Asian community ensures a wealth of first-rate Chinese, Thai, and Japanese restaurants. For sensational Tixai fare, try Siam Thai. Victoria is by no means a major hub for gay nightlife, but it does have a couple of friendly; laid-back gay hangouts. There’s the " popular (at least on weekends) dance club, Hush, as well as Prism Lounge, a basement space with fun drag shows and karaoke nights. The two bars lie within a short ,valk of one another, on the north side of downtown. You might find the ambience and vibe a bit hipper and more upbeat at some of Victoria mainstream but perfectly ’ gay-friendly social spots, such as the ornately decorated Temple Bar, known for its extensive lists of wines and martinis. Other good bets include Lucky Bar, a convivial beer hall set inside a historic building, and the Mint, a vaguely New Age-y space with Tibetan and .Nepalese food, and DJ music and dancing many evenings. In Victoria, there’s no fancier lodging in town than the Fairmont Empress Hotel. This 1908 Edwardian hostelry is the most sumptuous grand dan~e on Vancouver Island, and its Empress Room is a superb restaurant. Newer rooms are larger than those in the original section but keep with the hotel’s tradition. Celeb spotting is not uncommon. The hotel is also notable for its beautifully decorated Bengal Lounge, which serves traditional Indian cuisine in an oldworld Colonial ambience. Abigail’s Hotel is a great bet, in part for its enviable location - it’s at the end of a quiet, residential lane, yet it’s just three blocks from the Inner Harbour. The 23-room gayfriendly, hotel consists of two Tudor-style buildings, one with more traditional decor, and the other with more modern-feeling units. Many of the accommodations have wood-burning fireplaces and Jacuzzi tubs, and rates include an extensive full breakfast (enjoy it on the sunny patio, overlooking the English gardens, when the weather is cooperating). Set inside a former warehouse near Victoria’s Market Square and within ,valking distance of downtown attractions, Swans Hotel has www.ozarksstar.corn the ~TAF~ ~. 5 �GAY TRAVELERS from page-22 town for th~ weekend. Later in the day we did meet some ~vonderful people at the bar and they invited us to a big party that they were having the next day. The Dallas businessman lost out on a lot! "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast We make friends wherever we go, both gay and straight. Most people enjoy talking ~vith other people but sometimes you just have to make the first move. For us, we enjoy traveling to see interesting and new places, try new food, enjoy the sights and sounds of an area unknown to us but it is the people that we meet that are our real memories. We hear from way too many of our readers who return from their vacation and say that they didn’t have a good time, that they didn’t meet anyone and no one talked to them. Well, you cafft just go and sit like a bump on a log. Remember the immortal words of Auntie Marne, ""Life is a banquet and most people are starving to death". Don’t be one of those people! Have good safe fun when traveling, enjoy life and TALK TO EVERYONE. Harry Caray’s Restaurant, Chicago We have been so fortunate in our travels to meet authors, poets, writers, entertainers, movie and TV actors. We get invited to a lot of parties in Hollywood, New York, Chicago, Florida and everywhere we go only because we make the first move and talk to everybody. Life is just too short to do it any other way. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD is written by Donald Pile and Ray \Vi!liams, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. You can email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Hosts First DBAT After Hours During Tulsa Pride Week TULSA, OK A vital aspect ofDBAT partidpation is the opportunity to meet with and learn from other LGBT business owners and professionals. Such an opportunity is offered through DBAT After Hours, our own version of a business after hours event. Join us for June’s DBAT After Hours and network in an informal atmosphere, make new contacts or to get reacquainted with former contacts. Nibbles and beverages provided. DBAT After Hours Thursday, June 7th 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Downtown Tulsa 26 the STAR Harry Caray’s, named for the late, renowned baseball announcer, has become one of the most nationally recognized restaurant groups in the Midwest. Opened on October 23, 1987, this legendary Italian Steakhouse serves the finest prime, aged steaks and chops in a truly warm "Chicago" atmosphere. The friendly, energetic atmosphere embodies the amiable personality of the restaurant’s namesake. The combination of mahogany paneling, white tablecloths and a veritable museum of baseball history creates a warm and casual elegance. It is located at 33 W. Kinzie in downtown Chicago. They are open for lunch, Monday thru Saturday from 11:30 to 3:00. They are open for dinner Monday thru Thursday from 5:00 to 10:30 and Friday and Saturday from 5:00 to 11:00. Sunday they are open from 4 to 10 and their bar is open everyday from 11:30 to closing. The food served here is steak and Italian. The price range is from the $10’s to the $30’s per meal. Service is great. Each server is personable and enthusiastic. There is also a bar on one side of the restaurant with plenty of TVs. They also have a second location at the O’Hare International Center, 10233 West Higgins Road in Rosemont, Ill. In August 2007, Harry Caray’s Restaurant Group will open it’s third Harry Caray’s Italian Steakhouse in Lombard, Ill. And although it is not an Italian Steakhouse, Harry Caray’s Seventh Inning Stretch premiered in 2001 and is the largest restaurant and bar at Chicago’s Midway Airport. This restaurant is ideal for travelers looking to take a delicious sandwich to go or those who have a short respite while waiting for their flight. We have always enjoyed our meals and had a great dining experience at Harry Caray’s. w~v.ozarksstar.com �JUNE 2007 ExpoSing Hate World Congress ofFami/ies, a gathering thatfocused on "naturalfamilies. " No longer content with the obscene political and monetary profits they realize in the United States, the radical Christian right is now exporting its number one product - homoph0bia - to Europe. A few thousand zealots from the United States and other countries converged on Warsaw, Poland’s Palace of Culture and Science in mid-May for the World Congress of Families, a gathering that focused on "natural families." "Natural families"? Just more spin - another euphemism for degrading LGBT families. These folks only consider assembly-line-produced families using eggs and sperm - introduced to one another through that old heterosexual standb); the missionary position, engaged in by a married, heterosexual couple - to be the real thing when it comes to producing progeny. How hateful of our -kids and our f,mailies. But let’s face it - hate is all these folks know, even though they couch it all in "Jesus’ love." The usual cast of radical Christian right characters was on hand for this particular love-to-hate fest. James Dobson from Focus on the Family was joined by folks from the American Family Association, Concerned Women for America, the Family Research Council, the Helcitage Foundation, and the Discover), Institute, which isn’t about designing good, intelligent television programs, but instead about programming youth to believe in intelligent design. The World Congress was organized by a group I hadn’t heard of - the Howard Center for Family, Religion, and Society, whose president, Allan Carlson, declared, "The cultural battle has gone international. The American religious right, instead of being isolationist, has in fact gone global." 7his is a government that does nothing to stop sldnheads and other nationalistic groups from targeting its LGBT citizens. This is a government that is tailor-made to be the only elected Western European ally of America’s radical Christian right. So what canoe out of this love-to-hate lest? Poland’s education minister, Roman Giertych, a leader in the country’s right-wing League of Polish Families party - who also happens to be a Deputy Prime Minister - became the politico celebre as he told the group that combating the "propagation of homosexuality" was just "something I have to do." His remarks were echoed by Polish President Lech Kaczynski Rallying around the homophobic flagpole, World Congress participants cheered at the news that the Polish government would not be cowed by the European Union, which has warned Poland that its antigay policies might cost the country its voting rights. They listened to U.S. Assistant Secretary of State Hlen Sauerbrey bring greetings from W and thank the Howard Center "for all of their hard work in organizing this wonderful opportunity to celebrate and reflect upon the family and its vital role in society." No question that the current administration stands firmly alongside homophobic repression. They heard Ben Bull of the Alliance Defense Fund say, "Marriage will be destroyed by making all relationships equal," and Brigham Young law professor Lynn Wardle chime in with, "Legalizing samesex marriage will drain marriage of its social meaning." They also came together to embrace the "natural family manifesto." I think it’s kind of funny that a gathering in a former Communist country attended by those who hate Communism would support something called a "manifesto." But yes, there is a manifesto. It encourages mothers to stay home and have many children. It fervently opposes LGBT people and abortion in a single breath. Oh, joy. But what about their destination? Why Poland? Why not Rome, to be near their buddy, the pope? Or Nigeria, where Archbishop Peter Akinola is masterminding a homophobic schism within the Anglican Church? Nope, they chose Poland because of its state-sponsored homophobia. I’m not talking about the run-of-the-mill "we ~von’t pass a probill gay bill if our lives depended on it" homophobia. This is a government that bans Pride celebrations, speaks openly about purging "homosexual propaganda’’ from the country, refuses to recognize the rights of lesbians and gays, and is now considering a bill that would make it illegal for any teacher in any classroom, public or private, to discuss homosexuality, LGBT rights, or safe-sex practices, "It is not enough to stop public recognition of ’gay marriage,’ nor to oppose ’safe-sex education’ in the public schools, nor to ban partialbirth abortion, nor to create ’covenant’ marriages. Victory for the natural family will come only as we change the terms of the debate." If changing the terms of debate means the wholesale exporting of hate, they’ve offto a good start. I just wish folks would stop bwing it here in the States. An endnote of worth: While all this homophobia is defining Poland to the LGBT world, Warsaw Mayor Hanna Gronkiewicz Walz defied the country’s president and ultra-right-wing organizations by letting a Pride parade take place in her city on May 19. More than 5,000 marched amid bystanders who waved and were generally supportive. The bill would bar LGBT organizations from schools, and lesbian or gay teachers who come out would automatically be fired. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 �May 1920 (87 years ago this month): Erotic A~-tist Touko Laaksonen (Tom of Finland) is born in Kaarina, Finland. Who was Tom of Finland? The erotic art ofTouko Laaksonen - better known as Tom of Finland - shaped the erotic fantasies of countless gay men and helped redefine the popular image of male homosexuality. Laaksonen was born May 8, 1920, in Kaarina, a rural village in southwest Finland. Both his parents were schoolteachers, and he developed an early appreciation for art and music. Aware of his same-sex attractions from a young age, he created homoerotic drawings - often featuring farm boys and laborers - for his own enjoyment. At age 19, Laaksonen moved to Helsinki to attend art school, but was soon drafted into the Finnish army, which allied with Nazi Germany to fight the Soviet Union in World War II. Serving as a lieutenant, he began having sex with fellow soldiers and developed a fetish for men in uniform, which he reflected in his drawings. After the war, Laaksonen completed his art degree and studied piano at the Sibelius Institute. By day, he worked as a commercial graphic artist, then played the piano at cafes and private parties in the evenings. Feeling little affinity for the flamboyant and effeminate men who frequented Helsinki’s homosexual venues, he traveled often and became familiar with the gay leather scenes in several European cities. In 1953, while cruising in a Helsinki park, Laaksonen met his sole long-term romantic partner, a dancer named Veli (whose last name is not publicly known); their relationship endured until Veil’s death from cancer nearly 30 years later. Photo’s courtsey of: www.eroticartcollection.com 28 the STAR Encouraged by friends, Laaksonen submitted some of his sketches to the Los Angeles-based bodybuilding magazine _Physique Pictorial_. Publisher Bob Mizer was impressed enough to feature a drawing of a lumberjack on the cover of the spring 1957 issue, dubbing the artist "Tom of Finland." In 1973, Laaksonen had his first public exhibition in Hamburg, Germany, and was able to quit his job at an advertising agency and live offhis art. In 1978, he visited Los Angeles for his first U.S. exhibition, where met Durk Dehner, who became his friend and manager; after Veli’s death in 1981, Laaksonen split his time between Los Angeles and Helsinki. Laaksonen is credited with introducing the masculine homosexual into gay, and eventually mainstream, culture. His drawings of stereotypically macho men - bikers, cowboys, cops, sailors - were almost photographic in their detail, but grew increasingly idealistic in their portrayal of perfect male specimens with protruding nipples, exaggerated bubble butts, and enormous penises. As censorship laws loosened, his drawings also became more sexually explicit. He was among the first artists to portray manly men engaging in joyous, guilt-free sex; even his sadomasochistic scenes had a playful aspect. "I work very hard to make sure that the men I draw having sex are proud men having happy sex," he once declared. According to author Ron Suresha, "Tom of Finland’s visions of happy, masculine, loving men projected forth from the collective unconscious of gay men’s liberation and increasingly, through the second half of the 20th century, defined much of its erotic substance and style." Indeed, Laaksonen’s work helped bring the underground leather culture to light, and the "Castro clone" look - black leather jacket, cap, moustache - became a new gay stereotype. But Laaksonen’s work was not without controversy. Some critics accused him of harboring an affinity for Nazis, though he disavowed fascism and racism. In the ! 970s and 1980s, his work was caught up in gay and lesbian community debates about pornography and sadomasochism, as well as the charge that his idealized images were impossible for real men to live up to. For his part, Laaksonen maintained that his work reflected his own erotic sensibilities, not a .......... Continued next laage www.ozarksstar.com �Tom of Finland continued: larger politica! statement. "If I don’t have an erection when I’m doing a drawing," he said, "I know it’s no good." As his work grew more popular, Laaksonen became an international celebrity. His images spawned an industry, and in 1979 he and Dehner co-founded the Tom of Finland Company. In addition to several books of collected works, Laaksonen produced a multi-volume series of comics featuring Kake the leatherman and did private commissions (including a revisioning of Michelangelo’s David for Italian filmmaker Franco Zeffirelli). "Tom’s men" became cultural icons and inspired many imitations, including the "Tom Girls" series by punk artist G.B. Jones. Today, his work is included in the permanent collections of several museums, including the Ne~v York Museum of Modern Art and Finland’s Kiasma Contemporary Art Museum. The Tom of Finland Foundation, initially founded in 1984 to preserve Laaksonen’s work, now offers a "safe haven" for all erotic art. Laaksonen continued to frequent the leather and dance club scenes well into his 60s. Diagnosed with emphysema in 1988, he was forced to cut back on his travel, but continued to draw. In 1991, his life and work were chronicled in the documentary Daddy and the Muscle Academy. In November of the same year, he died of a stroke in Helsinki. "I know my little ’dirty drawings’ are never going to hang in the main salons of the Louvre," Laaksonen said shortly before his death. "But it ~votfld be nice if...our world learns to accept all the different ways of loving. Then maybe I could have a place in one of the smaller side rooms." For further information: Hooven, E Valentine. 1994. Tom of Finland: His Life and Times (St. Martin’s Press). Pohjola, Ilppo. 3.992. Daddy and the Muscle Academy_ (documentary film). Ramakers, Micha. 2000. Dirty Pictures: Tom of Finland, Masculinity, and Homosexuality (St. Martin’s Press). www.ozarksstar.com OKLAHOMA ACTIV ST, KE TH Bo SMITH HONORED By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Stonewall Democrats (OKSD) posthomously have presented the 2007 Mary Lou Lemon Humanitarian Award to Keith B. Smith, the well-known and effective professional lobbyist and activist who died suddenly in November, 2006. A memorial service was held on December 1 in the Oklahoma Capitol Rotunda. Mr. Smith’s tireless advocacy for gay equality and other progressive issues was legendary. His ideas and techniques live on in the many grassroots activists who continue to push back the stultifying limits of the ignorant and bigoted. No Oklahoma legislator, however recalcitrant in thinking, was immune to Mr. Smith’s wit, charm, and stunning strategies at passing progressive legislation. The award is named for the late Mary Lou Lemon, matriarch of a prominent Oklahoma Democratic family, who believed fervently in an American society free from discrimination directed at minorities, especially gay and lesbian citizens. It has been presented formally at the Activist Hall of Fame Dinner on Saturday, May 19, during the Oklahoma Democratic Party State Convention. Previous award recipients have been Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth, and Governor David and Rhonda Walters. OK Stonewall Democrats ( www.okstonewall.org) is a constitutional club of the Oklahoma Democratic Party and a chapter of National Stonewall Democrats, Washington, DC (www.stonewalldemocrats.org) NEW GALLUP POLL SHOWS 68 PERCENT OF AMERICANS SUPPORT HATE CRIMES BILL BEFORE CONGRESS Poll Shows Overwhelming Support Includes Majority ofRepublicans, Conservatives, and Religious Voters WASHINGTON, DC_. A new national poll conducted by Gallup shows an overwhelming support of the American people for passage of federal hate crimes legislation currently being considered in Congress. The poll, conducted on May !0-13, shmvs that 68 percent of all Americans believe that current federal hate crime laws should be expanded to include "sexual orientation, gender and gender identity." Even more impressive is that this support cuts across partisan, ideological and religious lines with a majority of each of those demographic groups supporting the legislation. "This new national poll continues to reiterate how incredibly out-of-touch rightwing organizations are with the will of the American people and underscores the need for the Senate to pass this bill," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "I hope President Bush will look at this poll and realize how unbelievably out-of-line a threatened veto of this critical crime-fighting piece of legislation is with a majority of Americans. President Bush’s threatened veto isn’t even supported by his base. The writing is on the wall and it is past time for President Bush to stop bowing to the pressure of James Dobson, Pat Robertson and other right-wing, anti-gay leaders and join the majority of Americans who want to see this bill become law." On May 3, the morning of the House vote on the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (H.R. 1592), the White House put out a "Statement of Administration Policy" stating, "IfH.R. 1592 were presented to the president, his senior advisors would recommend that he veto the bill." the STAR 29 ���By Joey De She’s known by only one name, has fabulous hair, incredible skin, the carefree spirit of the 80’s, and is mounting a tour to benefit gay rights. Cyndi Lauper, who has spent her career as the quintessential gay icon, is once again showing her fearless dedication to equality with her 15 city nation wide "True Colors" tour, presented by The Logo Network, kicking off June 8th in Las Vegas. Cyndi and special guests Erasure, Debbie Harry, The Dresden Dolls, The Gossip and The Misshapes will be taking the stage, with emcee Margaret Cho to present five hours of non-stop music benefiting the Human Rights Campaign. Also joining the bill on select dates will be Rufus Wainwright, Rosie O’Donnell, Indigo Girls, THE CLIKS and Jeffree Star. We caught up with Miss Lauper between breaks on her busy rehearsal schedule to find out more about the tour, her views on the gay community and why she still looks so good. STAR: Oh my god, I’m talking to Cyndi Lauper, I can’t believe this. You’re a gay legend. You have been since the beginning of your career. \re’hat do you credit with making you such a gay icon? CL: It’s a natural fit. When I came onto the scene, I guess what the community related to was my overall vibe, not just my music. I was and still am very colorful and animated. I was also a bit left of center in my artistic approach and I think that really resonated. I have always been in tune with gay people, even before I became famous, so I think the relationship was just another extension of Cyndi the person to Cyndi the artist. STAR: You first made your first big mark in the 80’s, a time when musical tastes were totally different. To what do you owe your continued success? www.ozarksstar.com �CL: I’ve stayed at it and I’ve strived to continue to grow as an artist. I still love to write, produce and perform and am still inspired by the world around me to create my music. I’m really fortunate to have the platform that I do and I don’t take that for granted. STAR: As a performer and gay rights advocate, ho~v would you say that the world has changed in the time since you began performing, in relation to equality? CL: Their have been some rumblings from the right about it, but that’s the whole point isn’t it? I have the right to do this tour and get the issues out there to be debated and discussed via music. They have the right to criticize, disagree and debate the issues. The more discussion the better as far as I’m concerned. STAR: You have an incredibly impressive line up of guest performers, how did you select them? CL: I think that the visibility of the GLBT community has come further than 20 years ago, but, as we can see by the past few years under this administration, things are going backwards. It outrages me. The further ahead the community has gotten, the more resistance and push back to progress it encounters. We have to keep pushing forward. CL: I’m glad you like the line up. I’ve worked with some of the artists before and I’m excited to be working with some of them for the first time. It’s really great to be sharing the stage with such talented artists. STAR: Would you care to share a story about a favorite gay companion who inspired you to take on the fight for equality? CL: I actually had that dress custom made for the Gay Games. I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve in regards to outfits for the tour...a girl’s gotta have some secrets (haha). You’ll have to come on down to the show for my runway action. CL: I wrote the song Boy Blue for my friend Gregory. He passed away from AIDS and his life and death affected and inspired me deeply. He still does. STAR: What was your inspiration behind the "True Colors" tour? CL: I’ve been trying to do the tour for the past five years. It came from my outrage about what is going on in this country and specifically what is going on with the erosion of GLBT civil liberties and rights. It has affected my family, my close friends and my fans. Your civil liberties are my civil liberties. If yours are being taken away or going backwards, so are mine. I’ve been a part of the women’s movement and the civil rights movement for the African American Community. I feel like what is happening in this country with the GLBT community is outrageous, and this tour is a reaction to that, STAR: Why did you select the Human Rights campaign as your benefactor? CL: I have ahvays admired and respected the work that the HRC has done. They are working on a federal level and a local level for issues that are important to me. STAR: Have you received any back lash or criticism about the tour? www.ozarksstar.com STAR: Will we get to see that fabulous rainbow statue of liberty dress? STAR: Your gay audience transcends generations and even includes the current generation of youth. What, as an ally, do you think is the biggest challenge facing them and what do you think is their greatest strength? CL: I think the gay youth of today hold great promise. You can look at the way they connect and interact on myspace and other community sites and they know that they are not alone. I also look at PFLAG, GLSEN and the many local youth organizations out there that provide support and outreach. They are vital. Ifa kid can come out and be accepted by his family then he should cherish that, not every kid gets the love and support they need at home. That’s why PFLAG is involved in this tour, if coverage of it can open a difficult discussion then I’m doing my job. This tour is as much for gay engaged family members and friends as it is for GLBT people. for parents of gay youth increases. It starts at home. It’s (the tour) all about opening up the discussions on the home front, the political front and the music and entertainment front, but let’s not lose sight of the fact that this is a great musica! celebration. It’s going to be a kick ass party... STAR: In addition to this tour, you have a new album coming out. Would you care to share a little bit about it? CL: It’s definitely NOT a mellow album. It’s an ass shaker. STAR: Can tour-goers expect to hear their favorite hits, or will there be a lot from the new album? CL: I’m still mulling over what the set list is...so we’ll see...I may sneak in a few new songs. STAR: Most importantly for gay men and drag queens everywhere: You look fabulous, and haven’t aged a bit! Please, tell us your secret. CL: Yoga and keeping up with my son’s energy level. STAR: What can we look for from Cyndi Lauper in the future? CL: I’m wide open. I’m in a great creative space and looking forward to touring and finishing the new CD. Once that’s done, I’m sure I’ll be on the hunt for my next creative endeavor. Right now, it’s all about the True Colors tour. STAR: Miss Lauper, thank you for your time. We wish you the greatest of success with the tour and the album. The True Colors Tour will be visiting Dallas on June 23 and Houston on June 24. For more information or for a complete list of tour dates visit www.truecolorstour.com. I do want to say that I hope some of the apathy around HIV with the younger generation changes. We’ve made great medical advances and people are living with HW and MDS, but people are still dying. I hope that the kids wil! be responsible if they are having sex and I hope that the education the STAR 33 �"Easy does it, Sagittarius!" Mercury is in Cancer, which normally facilitates sweet expressions of genuine affection and swapping old family recipes. But as Mercury clashes with Saturn in Leo, that "affection" may now seem overbearing and critical. Try to be modest and sincere, and offer healthy, low-fat recipes - or chocolate. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Efforts to show off your home in a good light can be a major source of irritation. Can you just relax, and let your place be comfortable and fun? Your real friends don’t care how it looks, as long as it’s happily lived in. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Do you really need to call your family now? Let it wait until next week. It’s bad enough hearing one of your parents in your own voice. Play that up for satirical effect and you’ll learn something useful, if not entirely pleasant. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Getting caught up on bills may be a hassle, but do what you can now to avoid trouble later. Advice from an older sibling - or a "sister" - can be irritating, but well worth heeding. At least think about it! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Trying to sound authoritative just makes you sound bitchy. Let your words follow the law of supply and demand. The less you say, the more valuable it is. Writing is safer than speaking, but scrutinize e-mails carefully before you send them! LEO (July 23 - August 22): Being cranky and bossy is largely a cover for doubts and worries. To be more truly your sweet, lovable self, take time out to meditate or talk with a confidante about what’s bugging you. An imaginary conversation with Mom will help. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): The future may seem dark and hopeless, and the next few years are challenging, but still you worry too much. You can make the most of it; use your instincts to figure out a way through the dark labyrinth ahead. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your foresight is especially sharp, but without caution, so is your tongue. Nagging undermines the effectiveness of your prescience. Imagine that everyone is your boss and be careful of what you say. That will heighten your own authority. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Any discussion can turn into an argument much too easily. What are you trying to prove and to whom? If you must assert your authority, keep it cool and simple. Overreacting will undermine others’ confidence in you. SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 o December 20): Your eagerness to tweak and provoke is dangerously high, tempting you to much more trouble than you’re ready to risk. New games in the bedroom may require innovative safety awareness. Slow and easy does it, Tiger! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): If demands (or lack thereof) in the boudoir are dampening your relationship, discussing the issues now could make or break it. How much courage, patience, and love do you have? Be very clear on your issues before taking on your partner’s. AQUARIUS (January 20 o February 18): Your clever innovations at work could irritate your colleagues. At least include them in some discussion before you make any changes. Mollify dissent by keeping your mind and ears open for further improvements. P~SCES (February 19 - March 19): Try to focus those playful urges into some modest, constructive activity. Showing off is too likely to get you into an awful accident. The more annoying you find criticism, the likelier you should heed it! MCC METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 4!7-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 34 the STAR vwvw.ozarksstar.com �Jur~e3,0 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY*TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID* LITTLE ROCK* NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN ¯ WICHITA* PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com OKLAHOMA COUNTY COMMISSIONERJIM ROTH APPOINTED TO THE OKLAHOMA CORPORATION COMMISSION Exclusive by Victor Gorin to complete his term which expires in 2010. Commissioner Roth hopes that the work of preparing the county’s 2008 budget will be completed by the time he leaves office. As specified in the Oklahoma Constitution, as an appointee to a statewide office, he must run in the next general election to fill the balance of Ms. Bode’s unexpired term, which also ends in 2010. If elected, he plans to run for re-election for a full six year term at that time. He will be serving on the Corporation Commission with Republicans Bob Anthony and Jeff Cloud. A giant step up from his county commissioner position, he stated that he fully understands the challenges of this statewide office. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___’Tm grateful to Governor Henry for his vote of confidence, I’m grateful to for the public that has employed me these past years, and I look forward to making a difference for the state of Oklahoma." On May 14 Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to the Oklahoma Corporation Commission to succeed Commissioner Denise Bode, who is resigning her seat for a job in the private sector. The Corporation Commission functions in Oklahoma state government to regulate telecommunications, utilities, the oil & gas industry & transportation providers. It consists of 3 commissioners elected statewide that serve 6 year terms. As the Governor stated, "Jim Roth has the intellect, the integrity and the dedication to public service needed to be an outstanding Corporation Commissioner." When he was elected to be Oklahoma County Commissioner of District 1 in 2002, he was the second openly gay elected official in Oklahoma. Despite a rough campaign where his opposition, the incumbent Republican Beverly Hodges, played the antigay card to the max, he still won based on a campaign of efficient, trustworthy county government that would serve all the citizens www.ozarksstar.com of the district. After his victory he and his stafffound that his predecessor had left the office with the computers crashed, files shredded, and a card with men in drag that said, "Don we now our gay apparel" that gave new meaning to the concept of sore losing. Despite this rock), welcome he gained the confidence of the district’s voters, achieving a balanced budget and getting 8 new bridges built in his district during his first term while the previous commissioner had built only one. He also was able to get Oklahoma County to adopt an employment nondiscrimination policy for their employees that protects them from discrimination based on sexual orientation, the first and only such government policy in Oklahoma. His job performance won the respect and support not only of the GLBT community and traditionally progressive groups, but also a surprising number of conservative Republicans. This showed clearly when he ran for a second term in 2006 and his opposition, Republican David Mehlhaff, ran a campaign almost entirely based on anti-gay rhetoric, and he still won handily ~ith 63% of the vote. He will retain his office until May 31. Unless she declines the position his chief deputy, Linda Simpson, will serve in his place pending the outcome from a special election that will be set by Governor Henry " I spent the last 3 weeks doing my due diligence exploring the position, finding out if it was something I could make a positive impact with. I also explored the idea about leaving a job that I loved and a county that relies on me. My partner (Worth Ross), my family and I all discussed my original intentions for public service, and that is to change people’s lives for the better, and we , decided that if the governor were to offer it this would be a tremendous opportunity to do that higher goal of helping change people’s lives for the better across the state. " "As for my skill sets, I feel I would be up to the challenge, "I feel that in the last 5 years I have learned a lot ofwhat it takes to be successful as a member ofa 3 member board, pushing for progressive change even in contentious, difficult environments. My record for being fair and honest made me a good candidate in the governor’s eyes for that statewide position. Beyond that I would say that it is a huge honor to be able to take an oath to serve the state of Oklahoma just as I have felt it an honor to serve Oklahoma County". And as for the challenge of his upcoming statewide election? "I have always approached public service based on job performance, I work hard, I work long hours to make a difference. That will be my same strategy, that in the next year and a half that I will work so hard for the public that given the chance to rehire me, I hope they say yes." the STAR 5 Dear Editor, Thank you for publishing information about the recent $24-miltion class action settlement with EMD Serono, the maker ofAIDS -wasting drug Serostim. The lawsuit had alleged that EMD Serono promoted the use of an unapproved medical device that improperly diagnosed people as having AIDS wasting; provided doctors with travel stipends in exchange for their agreement to prescribe Serostim; and marketed the drug for uses that were not approved by the FDA. The U.S. Attorney in charge ofa government case against EMD Serono asserted that "nearly 85% ofprescriptions written for Serostim ~vere not medically necessary." It is important that anyone who paid for any of the cost ofSerostim know that they may be eligible to receive a payment from this settlement. The deadline to make a claim is approaching fast! Claims must be submitted byJune 19th, 2007. Claims forms and more information are available at www.serostimsettlement. com. Thank you, Mark D. Snyder Prescription Access Litigation www.prescriptionaccess.org Dear Editor I’m concerned about the takeover of my country by the Alice-in-Wonderland anti-Democratic nature of the religious far right. It’s my contention that fundie religious observance and stridency are a brake on natural human progress and diversity. As we’ve seen with the latest Supreme Court decision on privacy and women’s bodies, the opinions of six lower courts, logic, precedence, and rule of law are put aside when the observance of these important elements in human civilization would run counter to the biblical barbarism many people would prefer to humanist progress. In that same light, our gay equality--despite some advancement in the area of civil unions and civil equality for same gendered couples--can be canceled by a Supreme Court decision should it decide that unanimity of a legislature is never to be had, and therefore, the law must bow to the least common denominator of human reason: bigotry. This is the logic that was used by the Supreme Court in denying any allowance for the health or life of the mother in the case of an abortion after consultation with the patient and her medical professional. The Court said that because the legislatures have a "right" to pass laws, and even should those laws be passed in contradiction to scientific fact, the ignorance shown by the law must be upheld. This reasoning is driven by religious fear and not sound jurisprudence. Let’s remember the slogan from a prior presidential election: "It’s the Supreme Court, Stupid!", and vote accordingly in November 2008 for the enforcement of the Constitution and not the Bible. James Nimmo Oklahoma City, OK 6 the STAR w~wv.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 SATURDAY ,JUNE 23, 2007 THE JAZZ DEPOT ’lST AND CiNCINNATi FREE VVW’W.OEJAZ7-ORG OKLAHOMA JAZZ HALL OF FAME Creating U~ity Throu~ab Music "’A¸ t Century 21 Gold Castle our BEST properties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 Oklahoma City, OK 73116 405.840.2106 www,c21goldcastle.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Old homa Stonewa l Democra,s The LGBT Voice ofthe Democratic Party 10 the STAR Stonewall Democrats Work to Raise Awareness that LGBT Democrats Care and We VOTE! We Seek Equality andHuman Rightsfor ALL Peoplefrom within the oMv Political Party that Endorses LGBT Inclusiveness at All Levels ofPolitics and Governmen~ Help us elect Democrats who will welcome YOU into their campaigns, their lives, and their offic!s! We’re Proud ofOklahoma Stonewall Members ~State Corporatwn Commissioner dim Roth ~State Representative Al McAffrey ~State Senator Andrew Rice (Congratulations on the new baby, SenatorO Join us at wwwook~tonewallo~rg www.ozarksstar.com Pinkie and the Snakeshokers, Sa~rday Evening Come check out the improvements made to the festival as we~l as the many interactive activities such as Pride Idol, Pet Contest, Return of the Children’s Area, Two Stages of Entertainment plus a DJ Tent, Food, Shopping, Historical Exhibits, Karaoke m Q ClMARRON g a zi n e,,~ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Unprecedented series of" gains coast tO coas for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people ’The tide is clearly shifting.’ Matt Foreman, Executive Director, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force WASHINGTON, May9 " ~{~007 state legislative season has b~ ~{ ~ost productive in the history of the lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) rights movement and, as a result, for the first time more than half the U.S. population will live in jurisdictions that outlaw discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation, according to an analysis of Census data and current laws released today by the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. In addition, nearly 40 percent of the population wilt now live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination -- a sevenfold increase since 2000, and one-fifth of all Americans will live in states that offer same-sex couples broad rights under state law, more than an eightfold increase since 2004. The Task Force said the 2006 elections and years of dogged work at the grassroots level were responsible for the surge in legislation. "This is a historic and long-overdue milestone. At long last, a majority ofAmericans will now live in jurisdictions that protect people from discrimination on the basis of sexual orientation," said Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force. "As important, protections for transgender people and broad rights for same-sex couples are surging from coast to coast. We still have a very long way to go, but the tide is clearly shifting." Nondiscrimination Protections Surge Since Jan. 1, 2007, the legislatures in four states -- an all-time high -- have passed nondiscrimination laws. Three of those states -- Iowa, Oregon and Colorado -- moved to extend protections to lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, and the Vermont Legislature passed a bill amending its existing nondiscrimination laws to include transgender people. As a result, the percentage of the U.S. population living in jurisdictions protecting lesbian, gay and bisexual people from discrimination will rise to 52 percent, crossing the halfway mark for the first time. The laws of Iowa, Oregon and Vermont prohibit discrimination in employment, housing and public accommodations, among other categories; Colorado’s law covers employment only. I7 Oregon GoT. Ted Kulongoski is scheduled to sign his state’s ............... bill into law today; the governors in the other three states have pledged to sign their bills into law. Protections for Transgender People Growing Rapidly nondiscrimination laws covering gender identity/expression grew 32 percentage points (from 5 percent to 37 percent), more than five times the rate of growth for sexual orientation protections. When the four state discrimination taws go into effect, 37 percent of the population will live in jurisdictions that protect transgender people from discrimination. Protections for transgender people have grmvn much more quickly over the last decade than those for lesbian, gay and bisexual people because of a commitment of the LGBT movement to insist that transgender people be included in new nondiscrimination laws and to go back and add protections for transgender people to existing sexual orientation-only laws. Since 2000, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with nondiscrimination laws covering sexual orientation grew 14 percentage points (from 38 percent to 52 percent). During the same period, the percentage of the population living in jurisdictions with The "Eask Force created and staffed its Transgender Civil Rights Project in 2001 with the goal of increasing the number of transgender-protective discrimination laws. Since the project’s inception, the proportion of the population covered by transgenderinclusive laws has increased from 6 percent to 37 percent. "It’s clear that legislators recognize that transgender people face widespread discrimination and deserve the same protections as other minorities," said Foreman. "The common wisdom used to be that including protections for transgender people would kill a bill -- that’s obviously not the case." Foreman noted that last week the U.S. House of Representatives passed a hate crimes bill containing explicit protections ................... Continued nextpage t2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com for transgender people by a vote of 237-180 and that this year the Employment Non- Discrimination Act (ENDA) was amended to prohibit discrimination on the basis of gender identity and expression. There is widespread expectation that both houses of Congress will take up ENDA before the end of the calendar year. Gains in Broad State Protections for Same- Sex Couples Over the last five months (December through April), legislatures in three states New Jersey, New Hampshire and Oregon passed laws granting same-sex couples the same rights and responsibilities afforded married couples under state law through civil unions or domestic partnerships. As in the nondiscrimination arena, this is more states taking such action than in any previous state legislative season. As a result, onefifth (20 percent) of the U.S. population will live in states that offer broad rights and responsibilities to same-sex couples. (Other jurisdictions, including \Vashington state, Hawaii and the District of Columbia, have passed laws that give significant but not comprehensive rights to domestic partners. These jurisdictions are not included in the calculations.) Five years ago (in 2002) just one state, Vermont, ~vith 0.2 percent of the population, offered broad protections to same-sex couples. When the bills passed this session take effect, seven states (California, Connecticut, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, New Jersey, Oregon and Vermont), with 20 percent of the population, will offer broad protections to same-sex couples. The Task Force said Oregon’s new law was a particularly satisfying turnaround from 2004, when voters approved a constitutional amendment banning the recognition of same-sex marriage by a margin of 57 percent to 43 percent, the narrowest margin among the 13 states voting on anti-marriage measures that year. The Task Force donated nearly $900,000 in cash in the attempt to defeat the amendment and sent 10 organizers to help staff the campaign. "While the 2004 loss really hurt, it’s now clear that our campaign really did convince people that all families deserve broad protections and relationship rights," said Thalia Zepatos, director of the Task Force’s Organizing & Training Department. Zepatos, who played a major role in fighting every anti-LGBT measure in Oregon since 1988, will attend today’s bill-signing ceremony in Salem, Ore. 2006 Elections and Years of Grassroots Work Credited with Surge in Protections The results of the 2006 election played a pivotal role in four (Colorado, Iowa, Ne~v Hampshire and Oregon) of the six states passing nondiscrimination or family protection laws since December, the Task Force said. Before the November elections, Democrats held control of both houses of the state legislatures in three of the states taking pro-LGBT action: Vermont, Colorado and New Jersey. As a result of the November elections, however, Democrats picked up control of both houses in the other three states: Iowa, Oregon and New Hampshire. Before the elections in Iowa, the Senate was evenly divided and the House was Republican- dominated; in Oregon, Democrats controlled the Senate and Republicans controlled the House; in New Hampshire, both houses were controlled by Republicans. In Co!orado, Democrats strengthened their control of the Legislature, and Democrat William Ritter succeeded Republican William Owens as governor, who had twice vetoed the nondiscrimination bill. The change in control of the state legislatures was due to Democratic gains nationwide, as well as specific work to elect pro-LGBT state legislators spearheaded by Colorado philanthropist Tim Gill. "The lesson here? What a difference an election makes!" said Foreman. In Oregon in 2006, then-House Speaker Karen Minnis was singularly responsible for blocking nondiscrimination and family recognition legislation bills. With Democrats taking control of that chamber, Minnis has since lost her leadership position. Although it took Democratic control to move the bills, each passed with Republican support (although Colorado’s employment nondiscrimination bill passed with only one Republican voting for it). The Task Force stressed that while the change in party control was an essentia! factor in moving bills this year, grassroots activism over many years made it possible for legislators to vote on the pro-LGBT measures. In Oregon, for example, activists had been pushing a nondiscrimination law for nearly 30 years, and work on the comprehensive domestic partnership law began immediately after the 2004 election. Similarly, the LGBT community in Vermont has been pushing to include protections for transgender people for eight years, and New Hampshire’s civil union law is a direct result of marriage equality organizing by the New Hampshire Freedom to Marry Coalition. "These bills would have never passed without the dogged work of state and local leaders and organizations over many, many years," Foreman said. "Our national community owes them all its respect and gratitude." Since Jan. 1, the legislatures of all 50 states have been in session. As ofMay 8, 29 legislatures remain in session. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 By D. Rose Photo: Eureka Springs Mayor Dani Wilson. EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~"Zhis is a monumental occasion for our town," proclaimed Mayor Dani Wilson. "I am so incredibly proud that our c0uncil has had the courage to stand for equality for all." She concluded, "It reinforces the fact that Eureka Springs was founded upon equality, inclusion, and love for all, and still holds those principals true today." Diversity thrives in a Victorian village wedged in the rocky Ozarks hills. On May 14, 2007, Eureka Springs, Arkansas added another jewel to her crown with the passing of the Domestic Partnership Registry, standing in the company of many astute cities choosing to push aside religious oppression to progress equality for all couples. For many, the benefits of the Registry may be more symbolic in nature, but it is a monumental step toward enlightenment. young and old, gathered in sister-brotherhood, while others spoke for us inside. We held our signs aloft, talked, laughed, and waited for the Counci!’s final vote. From an open window, two of our elders signaled victory and we roared with joy in our hearts! We hugged each other, we cried and fett" as ONE community. It was a wondrous evening!" -- Marie Howard, age 73, retired teacher "As a gay father and spouse raising two children, I see this action by the Council as a major step in the ongoing process of attaining equal rights for citizens that are unduly discriminated against. For couples who can’t otherwise be married or have a Civil Union, the Registry will give us a small way to publicly recognize and help solidify our loving families. And for some couples fortunate to work for an employer that offers Domestic Partner benefits, it will help them attain much needed spousal benefits." -- JT Williams, Arkansas "Eureka shows us LOVE is for everybody!" -- Joney Harper "Who does DP benefit? Any adult couple who, for whatever reason, chooses not to legally marry or who, because of antiquated and discriminatory laws, can not legally marry. Every woman, man and child in Eureka Springs, in Arkansas and in the rest of the nation. Anything that inches those who have been disenfranchised and marginalized closer to full citizenship, emancipation and equality under the law is a benefit for society." -- Michael Walsh "As a mother of a deceased gay man, my first thought was Robert would love this. My second, he would be so proud of his mother for standing in for him to celebrate the life he fought so hard for. EQUALITY! Parents’ love never dies, but grows because he/she is your child as well as God’s." - Jude Murphy For more details about ordinance 2052, go to www.Diversitypride.com Center for Artistic Revolution Blog BENTONVILLE, AR The father of two teenage boys has asked city Officials to fine the Bentonville Public Library for keeping The Whole Lesbian Sex Book by Felice Newman on the open shelves where his sons could find it. Earl Adams said his 14- and 16-year-old sons discovered the book in January while browsing for literature on military academies and were "greatly disturbed," causing "many sleepless nights in our house." Adams wants the city to pay him $10,000 per child, the maximum allowed under Arkansas obscenity law. "God was speaking to my heart that day and helped me find the words that proved successful in removing this book from the shelf," Adams said in the April 20 Springdale Morning News. City Attorney Camille Thompson said the book was not pornographic and Adams has no "valid legal concern." After receiving his original complaint, the library advisory board voted April 3 to remove the book from circulation and look for a similar, less graphic resource for the open stacks. "I thought we had a very intelligent I almost want to say high-minded--discussion about the book," said board member, George Spence. Library Director Cindy Suter said that she disagreed with Adams’s conclusion that having Newman’s book in the library follows an "immoral social agenda," adding, "My focus was to develop an inclusive collection and not an exclusive collection." "In the parking lot outside of City Hall, an amazing combination of people: gay, straight, mothers, fathers, nurses, teachers, 14 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Anal PAP Smear For Men, Ana.1 Cancer Prevenuon SAN FRANCISCO, CA If you have followed the news, you’ve heard about advances in preventing cancers caused by HPV (human papilloma virus). The Food and Drug Administration has approved a vaccine for women and girls th~lt is expected to prevent up to 70 percent of cervical cancers caused by HPV. Unfortunately, there have been fewer advances in prevention and education for gay and bisexual men who face alarmingly high rates of another cancer caused by HPV, anal cancer. Most men and women who are sexually active acquire HPV at some point. Most HPV infections don’t cause cancer~, but some do. Rates of anal cancer among gay and bisexual men are 35 times greater than the general population -- comparable to rates of cervical cancer in women before routine Pap smear screening for cervical precancerous cells. HIV-positive men and women are even more susceptible, with HIV-positive men a staggering 80 times more at risk. Anal cancer rates have doubled in the last 10 years and are expected to continue rising. Black gay and bisexual men have seen the sharpest increase and have lower survival rates. The National Cancer Institute estimates that 4,650 people in the United States will be diagnosed with anal cancer this year and 690 people will die from it. Early detection of precancerous cells can save hundreds of lives each year and spare thousands of people from radiation therapy, chemotherapy and a lifetime of painful side 4ffects. The good news is that anal cancer is potentially preventable and highly curable. An anal Pap smear is an inexpensive and relatively painless screening procedure that can detect abnormal cells. A follow-up exam, which includes a high-resolution anoscopy, helps determine whether abnormal cells are precancerous. Specialists believe that treating anal precancerous cells, often through a simple in-office procedure, can prevent anal cancer. Despite the experience of specialists, these potential preventive measures are not part of routine care for those at risk. One reason 1 {5 the STAR is a disturbing lack of large-scale studies and research funding on anal cancer prevention. Without these studies, policymakers and medical associations are hesitant to recommend preventive measures. In contrast, cervical Pap smears became part of women’s health care before conclusive studies were published, yielding an 80 percent reduction in cervical cancer. Another reason that preventive measures are not in place is the limited number of providers trained in high-resolution anoscopy (HRA). Further, if pre-cancers are detected through the procedure, no guidelines exist for optimal treatment. This potentially preventable cancer is needlessly advancing among thousands of Americans each year. Some specialists are screening for and treating anal pre-cancers, but without randomized clinical studies, it hasn’t been proven that these measures prevent anal cancer. Required studies are in the planning stages and will take years to conduct. The STOP AIDS Project, a San Franciscobased community project that works to prevent the transmission of HIV among gay and bisexual men, supports evidence-based standards of care. However, until standards of care are implemented, something needs to be done. STOP AIDS advocates that policymakers and medical associations support and fund research on anal-cancer prevention, including the efficacy of HPV vaccines in males. In anticipation of published guidelines, a health-care infrastructure should be developed that includes provider training. Policymakers should also consider piloting screening programs to collect data and determine efficacy and feasibility. Gay and bisexual men and those with HIV should talk with their health-care providers about their risk for anal cance.r and HPV. Men can decrease their risk for HPV by using condoms. Those at risk should consider getting an anal Pap smear annually if they are HIV-positive or every two to three years if they are HIV-negative. At minimum, they should have a rectal exam to detect abnormal growths. Also, men at risk can !ower their risk by stopping smoking, because smoking is a risk factor for developing anal cancer. Men at risk can advance prevention efforts by volunteering for clinical trials or advocating for research funding and health insurance coverage. Additionally, providers can Seek training in preventive anal cancer procedures. The San Francisco Department of Public Health STD Control Branch and STOP AIDS are convening an expert panel to evaluate existing data on anal cancer and develop recommendations. Last month, New York’s MDS Institute became the first Department of Public Health in the nation to publish such recommendations. Other organizations, counties and states should follow this lead. Dr. Joel Palefsky is a professor of medicine at the University of California, San Francisco. Jen Hecht, Jason Riggs and Michael Scarce are staff members of STOP ,adDS Project, an HIV prevention and health promotion organization for gay; bisexual and transgender men. For more information visit www.stopaids.org and www.analcancerinfo. ucsf.edu/ Doctors in Bay Area, San Francisco are encouraging ga), men to have pap smears, after a significant increase in cases of anal cancer. In the United States, the number of people diagnosed with anal cancer has increased by close to forty percent since 1996. This is in contrast to the overall increase of cancer diagnoses of just one percent. Although the cancer can be easily treated, 660 people died ftom the disease last year, with over 4,500 new cases. Doctor Joel Palefsky, Director of the Anal Neoplasia Clinic at the University of California, spoke of how anal pap smears could detect legions before becoming malignant. "We haven’t proven it yet, but we believe that we are likely to be preventing anal cancer." Although women are more likely to be diagnosed with anal cancer, gay men and those who are HIV positive are also at risk. It is now believed that 35 out of every 100,000 gay men in the United States has anal cancer. A report is currently being prepared on the introduction and promotion of pap smears for gay men. www.ozarksstar.com You want to be healthy. Go to bed and sleep on it. Sleep is a great way to maintain your health and it’s not that complicated. You just need to sleep. So, why is that everyone seems to get so little of it? People are always rushing about. There’s the nine to five job. There’s the one hour commute. There’s the grocery shopping. There’s always something that seems to eat away at your precious sleep time. Let me give you some good reasons to make room for the pillmv and mattress. First, you just simply need to make the time for sleep. The average adult needs seven to eight hours of sleep. This is a priority and you need to allocate a period of your day ~vhen you can accomplish this. If you can’t schedule it then you are doing too much during your daily routine. Cornell psychology professor James B. Maas provided research that shows that if you get less than eight hours of sleep per night, you are operating impaired; and your alertness, productivity, creativity, and general health are all affected. The body is able to restore itself during REM sleep. ~lis is when the body can process the emotional moments of the day through dream imagery. ~is explains why I have such a hard time sleeping after watching movies like The Grudge, White Noise, or Gigli. The brain tries to interpret and process this information so that we can forget and then move on for a new day. Try to mix and match these hues with the d’cor of your boudoir and serenade yourself into a lullaby. Some people tell me that they need to do as much as possible while they are alive. They tell me that there will be plenty of time to sleep when they’re knocking on heaven’s door. True but why not try to get as much quality out of your awake time as possible? Proper sleep equates to much more energetic and productive awake time. I opt for quality in lieu of quantity. "Goodnight, you princes Of Maine. You Kings ofNew England." Ron Blake is a personal fitness trainer and owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or blake.fitness@ yahoo.com. Owasso Community heatre’ Season Opens. OWASSO, OK__The O~vasso Community Theatre’s Season "It’s All About Family" will be opening on June 22, 2007 with a musical production of Ruthless! directed by Bruce Lewis. Season Tickets for all five shows are now available from the contacts listed below, and cost $25.00 for access to all four shows which include the mysterious Arsenic and Old Lace, the heartwarming Cheaper By The Dozen, and the entertaining Babes in Toyland. For further questions, please contact: Tammy Quick, tammylq@cox.net, (918) 851-3830 Bruce Lewis, brucel@tulsacares.org, (918) 906-8992 It becomes easier to fall asleep when you get in a routine. Watch the nine o’clock news each night and then head off to the bedroom. Notice I said head off to the bedroom. That would mean that you were watching the news in another room. Very good! The bedroom is just for sleeping and occasionally some carnal indulgences. Keep the television and DVDs out of this sacred slumber sanctuary. The more you associate this part of the house with somnolence, the easier it will be become to fall asleep quickly when your head hits the pillow. Don’t engage in disruptive activities just before being summoned by the sandman. Headbangers ball, a cup of joe, a row with your partner, and a tintinnabulary tango are bad ideas. Soothing music, non-caffeinated drinks, and a rendezvous with your favorite book are great ideas. Make your bed as comfortable and appealing as possible. There are certain colors that have that hypnotic effect on individuals. Green coos peace and serenity and helps lower the heart rate. It is a great comforter and stress reliever. Blue entices you to fantasize and daydream. Its cerulean effects cause the brain to emit tranquilizing hormones. Purple has the capacity to pacify frayed nerves and slow muscle activity. Pink just has a way with calm, cool, and collective. www,ozarksstar.com the 8TAR OK .AHOMA SHAKESPEARE IN THE PARK MOVING TO THE HEART OF DOWNTOWN OKLAHOMA CITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park (OSP), Oklahoma’s premiere classical theater, announced at the Myriad Botanical Gardens that beginning in 2007 and beyond, it will stage its summer seasons in the heart of downtown Oklahoma City. The inaugural 2007 season will kick-offJune 14 and continue through Sept. 1. It will be staged on the Myriad Botanical Gardens Water Stage, which the Myriad Gardens Foundation (MGF) in a partnership with OSP will renovate. OSP has partnered with the MGF to raise private funds for the renovation. Improvements will include new sound and lighting, seating and a stage structure. The renovated theater will add a new premiere venue to doxvntown Oklahoma City and will be available for other bookings when OSP is not in residence. OSP has also moved its offices to Stage Center in Oklahoma City’s Arts District. The 2007 Summer Season opens June 14 with A Midsummer Night’s Dream, followed by Cyrano de Bergerac and Macbeth. The final summer performance will be September 1. The announcement came on the day that OSP’s three-year lease with the Myriad Gardens Authority and the City of Oklahoma City for use of the \rater Stage was unanimously approved by the Oklahoma City Council. It had previously been unanimously approved by the OSP Board of Directors and the Myriad Gardens Authority. This approval represents the culmination of a process that began in the spring of 2005, when OSP’S stage in Edmond’s Hafer Park was burned down for a second time. Because of that tragedy, OSP staged its summer seasons the past two years at the University of Central Oklahoma. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park 2006 Season "The Temioest at Stage Center" Photo Subjects: Left: Holly McNatt (Miranda) and Rig/st: J. Shane McClure (Prospero). Photo by: Andrea NotTis O’Meara. The past 22 summer seasons have been staged in the City of Edmond. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park traditionally mounts a summer season consisting of three plays; a winter season of one play, which is traditionally performed at Stage Center in downtown Oklahoma City; a production ofA Christmas Carol, which will remain at the University of Central Oklahoma; and statewide touring productions year-around. Educational outreach is also a core part of OSP’S mission. OSP is supported in part by the Oklahoma Arts Council, Allied Arts, Chesapeake Energy, OG&E, the Kirkpatrick Family Fund, the Kirkpatrick Foundation, the Inasmuch Foundation, and is in alliance with the University of Central Oklahoma’s Department of Theatre, Dance and Media Arts. For more information, visit www.oklahomashakespeare. com. Thi~ drink ! Yummy 1½ oz. Vodka 1 oz. Creme de Banana 1 oz. Dark Creme de Cacao ½ oz. Light cream Pour ingredients into mixini~ glass. Add ice, shake and strain into your Martini Gl~ss. Oklahoma Shakespeare in the Park was founded in 1985 by current Artistic Director Kathryn McGill and the late Jack 1 8 the BTAR www.ozarksstar.com By Joey De The boys are back in town, and for the 2007 Light Opera Oklahoma season, they’re behaving badly, beginning Jun. 15. Presented as a repertory festival and in conjunction with the Tulsa Performing Arts Center Trust’s Summerstage festival, the 2007 LOOK season features a classic, a contemporary and countess, in addition to three cabaret performances. "We select our shows and obtain rights about a year and a half to two years in advance," says Eric Gibson, artistic director of LOOK. "Then we take a look at the shows and ifwe can, hopefully find a theme or a common element to tie them all together." This year’s presentation of bad boys are Meredith Willsoffs "The Music Man," the dark opera/musical "Sweeney Todd" and the more light hearted operetta "Naughty Marietta." Kicking off the festival Jun. 13 and running through Jul. 8 is "The Music Man," a golden age musical about Professor Harold Hill, the most charming of con artists, and his descent upon River City, Iowa. Hill convinces the town’s youth that they are in so much terrible trouble the only way to keep them safe is to introduce the boys to music and join a band. The con’s plan includes getting unwitting parents to buy instruments and band uniforms and then skipping town with the proceeds. The plan hits a snag when Harold falls in love with the local librarian Marian Paroo. Resistant at first, Marian sees Harold transform the citizens of River City into exhilarated, musically challenged people. "This show’s a classic," says Gibson, "High schools everywhere do it, but rarely is it performed ’right,’ with professional talent." Following the feel-good frivolities of Music Man will be a trip to the dark side xvith Stephen Sondheim’s "Sweeney Todd," about the wrongfully imprisoned barber, Benjamin Barker. Barker, who returns to London to reclaim his life and reunite with www.ozarksstar.com his wife and daughter, finds that his judge has taken his wife and child, and swears revenge. Known on the streets as Sweeney Todd, Barker kills a street mountebank who recognizes him, and makes it that much more easy for him to kill anyone who gets in his revengeful way. His accomplice Mrs. Lovett, a fledgling pastry cook, has the brilliant idea of popping Todd’s victims into meat pies, boosting her own sagging business. Although it is a more contemporary piece of musical theatre, Gibson says that Sweeney Todd is very operatic, and is in fact performed frequently in opera houses throughout the United States. Rounding out the main stage season for LOOK is a light hearted return to the operettas that the company was built on. Although it is not Gilbert and Sullivan, as many have come to expect from the troupe, "~xe Naughty Marietta" is full of the same wit and charm that makes light opera fun. The show, which opens June 28, tells of the escape of the Countess D’Altena of Italy. D’Altena finds herself on a ship bound for New Orleans, but once there must escape the pirate Bras Pique. To join her in these escapades, Marietta enlists the aid of Captain Dick Warrington, a ranger in the US Army. They quickly fall in love and in order to foil the plot of Bras Pique, they enlist the aid of a French fop, marionettes, a jilted lover and many others! Through out the season, LOOK will also be offering three intimate evenings of cabaret-style entertainment, billed with the show "Trial By Jury." "Jury," a one act Gilbert and Sullivan Operetta is about a philandering man who cheats on his intended and gets sued for breach of promise. An equally badly behaved judge presides over the case, and, you can guess the rest. All four shows have rotating schedules which can be found at wvw.tulsapac.com or at www.lightoperaok.org. For ticket information visit www.myticketoffice.com. LANG & LOVETT CONCERT COHING TO OKC AND TULSA TULLSA, OK Musician, singer, songwriter, and actor, Lyle Lovett, together with K.d. Lang is in concert at Oklahoma City’s ZOO Ampitheater Saturday July 7th and in Tulsa’s Historic Brady Theater on Sunday July 8th, 2007. By breaking the rules and experimenting with music, each has earned a cult following around the world with a modern, eccentric sound coupled with literate, witty lyrics. K.d. Lang was inspired, at an early age, by the music of country western diva, Patsy Cline, and released a string of albums with a decidedly country flair enjoying moderate success in both sales and airplay. It was not, however, until the release of"Ing~nue" that K.d. Lang hit it big. Hailed as her "crossover" album, critics praised her work even as her country fans were feeling alienated. Lang further removed herself from her country/western fame by publicly declaring her lesbianism, shortly after the album’s release. the 8TAR www.ozarksstar.com down and T;ad.K TO EVERYBODY! When that was in harurally,, no one knOws y0u; s~ it is YOUR responsibility to start a conversation, The colorful gutchart Gardens rank among !~ctoria’s most memorable at~actions. (Photo by Andrew Collins) around the city and its environs by car. A favorite excursion is so-called Marine Drive - not the name of any one street but a scenic coastal circuit extending from Ogden Point, which is southwest of the Inner Harbour, to Cadboro Bay. Dignified, historic, studded with parks, and packed with some of the nation’s most notable cultural attractions, Victoria offers the perfect recipe for a short getaway in western Canada - it’s also easily reached from Vancouver or Seattle by way of regular ferry service. At the southern tip ofVancouver Island, this leafy capital of British Columbia has also become a popular spot for gay honeymoons and weddings since Canada legalized same-sex marriage in 2005. Great Britain’s first colony on the Pacific Coast of North America, Victoria was established in 1849 as a trading outpost. By the end of the century, when the now much larger city ofVancouver was still a mere blip on the radar, Victoria had become B.C.’s capital. The city remains an important political center, but tourists definitely butter the bread these days. The formal, lmndon-inspired Parliament buildings and the Fairmont Empress Hotel edge the harbor, set against a commanding backdrop of snowcapped mountains. With its tow skyline, downtown is compact and user-friendly, and fine shopping and care-hopping abound. The south end of the Inner Harbour contains Victoria’s provincial government buildings as well as the imposing Fairmont Empress Hotel, which is famous not only as a place to stay but for its regal afternoon high teas. Few museums in Canada are more fascinating than the Royal British Columbia Museum, whose artifacts and exhibits document life 12,000 years ago in xvhat is now Western Canada. Around the corner, the Crystal Garden Conservatory contains more than 65 endangered species that make their home in this re-created tropical forest. just south of here, off Douglas Street, the 185-acre Beacon Hill Park is typically filled with joggers, strollers, and sun-worshipers soaking up the atmosphere and the floral aroma. Nearby you can visit the Carr House, which affords a glimpse into the life of British Columbia’s most beloved painter, Emily Cart. Walk 15 minutes or drive a short way east of downtown along Fort Street, which is lined for several blocks with fine antiques shops, to reach one of B.C.’s greatest house-museums, Craigdarroch Castle. From the top (fifth) floor you’re treated to outstanding views of the city. Just west is the Art Gallery of Greater Victoria, one of the top art museums in Western Canada. Once you’ve exhausted Victoria on foot, consider tooling Victoria and the surrounding area are also idea! for outdoorsy activities - in fact, it’s been named Canada’s fittest city, owing to the high percentage of residents who regularly participate in outdoor recreation. Favorite activities include diving, kayaking, fishing, mountain biking, and hiking. A number of local outfitters lead tours through nearby old-growth forests, up rugged mountain peaks, and on whale-watching expeditions - visit Tourism Victoria’s helpful website (www.tourismvictoria.com) for a full list of providers. Victoria lies at the southern tip of the Saanich Peninsula, a fertile strip of land dotted with family farms and a growing number of esteemed wineries. It’s worth spending an afternoon exploring this region, whose most famous attraction is Butchart Gardens, a half-hour northwest of the city. The Butchart family made its fortune manufacturing cement in the late 19th century; when they finished mining their quarry, they transformed it into this magnificent collection of gardens. Among the 55 acres you’ll see every imaginable flower, and there are concerts as well as Saturday-night fireworks displays in July and August. From Butchart, there are several wineries within an easy drive. As you motor around the countryside, keep an eye out for farm stands and roadside markets, many of them selling fresh jams, baked goods, flowers, and produce. They often operate on an honor system - pick out your goods, and leave behind payment. Wineries of particular note include Marley Farm, a family-run establishment that specializes in some quite unusual fruit wines, including kiwi, pear, loganberry, and quince varieties. You’re apt to see sheep and horses wandering the 5-acre grounds. Tiny Chalet Estate Vineyard is well-regarded for its high-quality, unfiltered vintages, from syrahs to viogniers. Where there are wineries, there are virtually always wonderful restaurants, and Victoria is no exception. Probably the most gaypopular of the city’s up-market restaurants, Cafe Brio is a sophisticated little chef-owned ........Continued next page. vwvw.ozarksstar.com bistro that’s an absolute delight for romantic, intimate meals. The contemporary West Coast cuisine has Tuscan overtones - you might start with crispy roasted sweetbreads with poached rhubarb, followed by tomato-and-molasses-braised lamb shank with fresh-mintpotato gnocchi. For some of the best modern Italian food in town, including fantastic wood-fired pizzas with such creative toppings as smoked ahi tuna and marinated artichokes, dine at I1 Terrazzo, whose airy dining room resembles a cloistered courtyard. It’s steps from the diverting shopping along Johnson Street and features one of the city’s best wine lists. been refitted into a distinctive all-suites accommodation. Groups of friends traveling together will find Swans a bargain - up to six people can easily fit into its huge rooms. Each has a dining nook, a patio or a terrace, and many have skylights. There’s a microbrewery and an excellent restaurant, Wild Saffron Bistro, on the premises. Also worth consideration is the Magnolia Hotel and Spa, a snazzy and modern boutique hotel with a first-rate spa and a great location in the Inner Harbour neighborhood. Rooms receive plenty of sunlight, with their floor-to-ceiling windows and views of downtown and the waterfront. With a memorable setting inside a former schoolhouse in Canada’s oldest Chinatown, Brasserie I2Ecole is the domain of talented chefowner Sean Brennan, who utilizes local produce in his innovative regional fare, such as local trout with escarole and Jerusalem artichokes. Well-seasoned, imaginatively prepared vegetarian fare is the specialty at Re-Bar Modern Food, an offbeat spot on downtown’s Bastion Square, where you might dine on shiitake-tofu potstickers or Thai coconut-cashew prawn curry. For lighter dining and snacking, grab a latte or cappuccino at gaypopular Bean Around the World Coffee, a Chinatown java joint that uses organic coffee beans. Or nosh on eggs Benedict, hefty burgers, and other short-order fare at Rosie’s Diner, a downtown cafe with a festive ’50s-inspired retro look. The city’s sizable Asian community ensures a wealth of first-rate Chinese, Thai, and Japanese restaurants. For sensational Tixai fare, try Siam Thai. If you’d rather stay out in the country, but still within striking distance ofVictoria, consider booking into the swank yet low-keyed Sooke Harbour House, which is a 45-minute drive away. This is the ultimate luxury hideaway, complete with 28 imaginatively decorated rooms, many with views ofWashington’s Olympic Mountains and the Strait ofJuan de Fuca. There’s also a splendid restaurant serving fantastic four- and seven-course dinners, complete with wine-pairing options. One signature dish is the trio of garden-inspired sorbets (which might include quince-lemon-verbena or rhubarb-fennel). Indeed, this perfectly tended inn is surrounded by some of Vancouver Island’s most beautiful gardens - a night or two here will leave you totally refreshed and relaxed. Victoria is by no means a major hub for gay nightlife, but it does have a couple of friendly; laid-back gay hangouts. There’s the " popular (at least on weekends) dance club, Hush, as well as Prism Lounge, a basement space with fun drag shows and karaoke nights. The two bars lie within a short ,valk of one another, on the north side of downtown. You might find the ambience and vibe a bit hipper and more upbeat at some of Victoria mainstream but perfectly ’ gay-friendly social spots, such as the ornately decorated Temple Bar, known for its extensive lists of wines and martinis. Other good bets include Lucky Bar, a convivial beer hall set inside a historic building, and the Mint, a vaguely New Age-y space with Tibetan and .Nepalese food, and DJ music and dancing many evenings. In Victoria, there’s no fancier lodging in town than the Fairmont Empress Hotel. This 1908 Edwardian hostelry is the most sumptuous grand dan~e on Vancouver Island, and its Empress Room is a superb restaurant. Newer rooms are larger than those in the original section but keep with the hotel’s tradition. Celeb spotting is not uncommon. The hotel is also notable for its beautifully decorated Bengal Lounge, which serves traditional Indian cuisine in an oldworld Colonial ambience. Abigail’s Hotel is a great bet, in part for its enviable location - it’s at the end of a quiet, residential lane, yet it’s just three blocks from the Inner Harbour. The 23-room gayfriendly, hotel consists of two Tudor-style buildings, one with more traditional decor, and the other with more modern-feeling units. Many of the accommodations have wood-burning fireplaces and Jacuzzi tubs, and rates include an extensive full breakfast (enjoy it on the sunny patio, overlooking the English gardens, when the weather is cooperating). Set inside a former warehouse near Victoria’s Market Square and within ,valking distance of downtown attractions, Swans Hotel has www.ozarksstar.corn the ~TAF~ ~. 5 GAY TRAVELERS from page-22 town for th~ weekend. Later in the day we did meet some ~vonderful people at the bar and they invited us to a big party that they were having the next day. The Dallas businessman lost out on a lot! We make friends wherever we go, both gay and straight. Most people enjoy talking ~vith other people but sometimes you just have to make the first move. For us, we enjoy traveling to see interesting and new places, try new food, enjoy the sights and sounds of an area unknown to us but it is the people that we meet that are our real memories. We hear from way too many of our readers who return from their vacation and say that they didn’t have a good time, that they didn’t meet anyone and no one talked to them. Well, you cafft just go and sit like a bump on a log. Remember the immortal words ofAuntie Marne, ""Life is a banquet and most people are starving to death". Don’t be one of those people! Have good safe fun when traveling, enjoy life and TALK TO EVERYONE. We have been so fortunate in our travels to meet authors, poets, writers, entertainers, movie and TV actors. We get invited to a lot of parties in Hollywood, New York, Chicago, Florida and everywhere we go only because we make the first move and talk to everybody. Life is just too short to do it any other way. Always remember to have fun when traveling, meet new people and talk to everyone! TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD is written by Donald Pile and Ray \Vi!liams, Award-winning Celebrity travel columnists who write for gay publications from Coast to Coast. You can email them at: gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Hosts First DBAT After Hours During Tulsa Pride Week TULSA, OK A vital aspect ofDBAT partidpation is the opportunity to meet with and learn from other LGBT business owners and professionals. Such an opportunity is offered through DBAT After Hours, our own version of a business after hours event. Join us for June’s DBAT After Hours and network in an informal atmosphere, make new contacts or to get reacquainted with former contacts. Nibbles and beverages provided. DBAT After Hours Thursday, June 7th 7:00 - 9:00 pm Dennis R. Neill Equality Center 621 E. 4th Street, Downtown Tulsa "TRAVELING IN OUR FABULOUS WORLD" by Donald Pile & Ray Williams Featuring Cuisine From Coast to Coast Harry Caray’s Restaurant, Chicago Harry Caray’s, named for the late, renowned baseball announcer, has become one of the most nationally recognized restaurant groups in the Midwest. Opened on October 23, 1987, this legendary Italian Steakhouse serves the finest prime, aged steaks and chops in a truly warm "Chicago" atmosphere. The friendly, energetic atmosphere embodies the amiable personality of the restaurant’s namesake. The combination of mahogany paneling, white tablecloths and a veritable museum of baseball history creates a warm and casual elegance. It is located at 33 W. Kinzie in downtown Chicago. They are open for lunch, Monday thru Saturday from 11:30 to 3:00. They are open for dinner Monday thru Thursday from 5:00 to 10:30 and Friday and Saturday from 5:00 to 11:00. Sunday they are open from 4 to 10 and their bar is open everyday from 11:30 to closing. The food served here is steak and Italian. The price range is from the $10’s to the $30’s per meal. Service is great. Each server is personable and enthusiastic. There is also a bar on one side of the restaurant with plenty ofTVs. They also have a second location at the O’Hare International Center, 10233 West Higgins Road in Rosemont, Ill. In August 2007, Harry Caray’s Restaurant Group will open it’s third Harry Caray’s Italian Steakhouse in Lombard, Ill. And although it is not an Italian Steakhouse, Harry Caray’s Seventh Inning Stretch premiered in 2001 and is the largest restaurant and bar at Chicago’s Midway Airport. This restaurant is ideal for travelers looking to take a delicious sandwich to go or those who have a short respite while waiting for their flight. We have always enjoyed our meals and had a great dining experience at Harry Caray’s. 26 the STAR w~v.ozarksstar.com JUNE 2007 ExpoSing Hate World Congress ofFami/ies, a gathering thatfocused on "naturalfamilies. " No longer content with the obscene political and monetary profits they realize in the United States, the radical Christian right is now exporting its number one product - homoph0bia - to Europe. A few thousand zealots from the United States and other countries converged on Warsaw, Poland’s Palace of Culture and Science in mid-May for the World Congress of Families, a gathering that focused on "natural families." "Natural families"? Just more spin - another euphemism for degrading LGBT families. These folks only consider assembly-line-produced families using eggs and sperm - introduced to one another through that old heterosexual standb); the missionary position, engaged in by a married, heterosexual couple - to be the real thing when it comes to producing progeny. How hateful of our -kids and our f,mailies. But let’s face it - hate is all these folks know, even though they couch it all in "Jesus’ love." The usual cast of radical Christian right characters was on hand for this particular love-to-hate fest. James Dobson from Focus on the Family was joined by folks from the American Family Association, Concerned Women for America, the Family Research Council, the Helcitage Foundation, and the Discover), Institute, which isn’t about designing good, intelligent television programs, but instead about programming youth to believe in intelligent design. The World Congress was organized by a group I hadn’t heard of - the Howard Center for Family, Religion, and Society, whose president, Allan Carlson, declared, "The cultural battle has gone international. The American religious right, instead of being isolationist, has in fact gone global." Oh, joy. But what about their destination? Why Poland? Why not Rome, to be near their buddy, the pope? Or Nigeria, where Archbishop Peter Akinola is masterminding a homophobic schism within the Anglican Church? Nope, they chose Poland because of its state-sponsored homophobia. I’m not talking about the run-of-the-mill "we ~von’t pass a probill gay bill if our lives depended on it" homophobia. This is a government that bans Pride celebrations, speaks openly about purging "homosexual propaganda’’ from the country, refuses to recognize the rights of lesbians and gays, and is now considering a bill that would make it illegal for any teacher in any classroom, public or private, to discuss homosexuality, LGBT rights, or safe-sex practices, The bill would bar LGBT organizations from schools, and lesbian or gay teachers who come out would automatically be fired. 7his is a government that does nothing to stop sldnheads and other nationalistic groups from targeting its LGBT citizens. This is a government that is tailor-made to be the only elected Western European ally ofAmerica’s radical Christian right. So what canoe out of this love-to-hate lest? Poland’s education minister, Roman Giertych, a leader in the country’s right-wing League of Polish Families party - who also happens to be a Deputy Prime Minister - became the politico celebre as he told the group that combating the "propagation of homosexuality" was just "something I have to do." His remarks were echoed by Polish President Lech Kaczynski Rallying around the homophobic flagpole, World Congress participants cheered at the news that the Polish government would not be cowed by the European Union, which has warned Poland that its antigay policies might cost the country its voting rights. They listened to U.S. Assistant Secretary of State Hlen Sauerbrey bring greetings fromW and thank the Howard Center "for all of their hard work in organizing this wonderful opportunity to celebrate and reflect upon the family and its vital role in society." No question that the current administration stands firmly alongside homophobic repression. They heard Ben Bull of the Alliance Defense Fund say, "Marriage will be destroyed by making all relationships equal," and Brigham Young law professor Lynn Wardle chime in with, "Legalizing samesex marriage will drain marriage of its social meaning." They also came together to embrace the "natural family manifesto." I think it’s kind of funny that a gathering in a former Communist country attended by those who hate Communism would support something called a "manifesto." But yes, there is a manifesto. It encourages mothers to stay home and have many children. It fervently opposes LGBT people and abortion in a single breath. "It is not enough to stop public recognition of ’gay marriage,’ nor to oppose ’safe-sex education’ in the public schools, nor to ban partialbirth abortion, nor to create ’covenant’ marriages. Victory for the natural family will come only as we change the terms of the debate." If changing the terms of debate means the wholesale exporting of hate, they’ve offto a good start. I just wish folks would stop bwing it here in the States. An endnote of worth: While all this homophobia is defining Poland to the LGBT world, Warsaw Mayor Hanna Gronkiewicz Walz defied the country’s president and ultra-right-wing organizations by letting a Pride parade take place in her city on May 19. More than 5,000 marched amid bystanders who waved and were generally supportive. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 May 1920 (87 years ago this month): Erotic A~-tist Touko Laaksonen (Tom of Finland) is born in Kaarina, Finland. Who was Tom of Finland? Photo’s courtsey of: www.eroticartcollection.com 28 the STAR The erotic art ofTouko Laaksonen - better known as Tom of Finland - shaped the erotic fantasies of countless gay men and helped redefine the popular image of male homosexuality. Laaksonen was born May 8, 1920, in Kaarina, a rural village in southwest Finland. Both his parents were schoolteachers, and he developed an early appreciation for art and music. Aware of his same-sex attractions from a young age, he created homoerotic drawings - often featuring farm boys and laborers - for his own enjoyment. At age 19, Laaksonen moved to Helsinki to attend art school, but was soon drafted into the Finnish army, which allied with Nazi Germany to fight the Soviet Union in World War II. Serving as a lieutenant, he began having sex with fellow soldiers and developed a fetish for men in uniform, which he reflected in his drawings. After the war, Laaksonen completed his art degree and studied piano at the Sibelius Institute. By day, he worked as a commercial graphic artist, then played the piano at cafes and private parties in the evenings. Feeling little affinity for the flamboyant and effeminate men who frequented Helsinki’s homosexual venues, he traveled often and became familiar with the gay leather scenes in several European cities. In 1953, while cruising in a Helsinki park, Laaksonen met his sole long-term romantic partner, a dancer named Veli (whose last name is not publicly known); their relationship endured until Veil’s death from cancer nearly 30 years later. Encouraged by friends, Laaksonen submitted some of his sketches to the Los Angeles- based bodybuilding magazine _Physique Pictorial_. Publisher Bob Mizer was impressed enough to feature a drawing of a lumberjack on the cover of the spring 1957 issue, dubbing the artist "Tom of Finland." In 1973, Laaksonen had his first public exhibition in Hamburg, Germany, and was able to quit his job at an advertising agency and live offhis art. In 1978, he visited Los Angeles for his first U.S. exhibition, where met Durk Dehner, who became his friend and manager; after Veli’s death in 1981, Laaksonen split his time between Los Angeles and Helsinki. Laaksonen is credited with introducing the masculine homosexual into gay, and eventually mainstream, culture. His drawings of stereotypically macho men - bikers, cowboys, cops, sailors - were almost photographic in their detail, but grew increasingly idealistic in their portrayal of perfect male specimens with protruding nipples, exaggerated bubble butts, and enormous penises. As censorship laws loosened, his drawings also became more sexually explicit. He was among the first artists to portray manly men engaging in joyous, guilt-free sex; even his sadomasochistic scenes had a playful aspect. "I work very hard to make sure that the men I draw having sex are proud men having happy sex," he once declared. According to author Ron Suresha, "Tom of Finland’s visions of happy, masculine, loving men projected forth from the collective unconscious of gay men’s liberation and increasingly, through the second half of the 20th century, defined much of its erotic substance and style." Indeed, Laaksonen’s work helped bring the underground leather culture to light, and the "Castro clone" look - black leather jacket, cap, moustache - became a new gay stereotype. But Laaksonen’s work was not without controversy. Some critics accused him of harboring an affinity for Nazis, though he disavowed fascism and racism. In the ! 970s and 1980s, his work was caught up in gay and lesbian community debates about pornography and sadomasochism, as well as the charge that his idealized images were impossible for real men to live up to. For his part, Laaksonen maintained that his work reflected his own erotic sensibilities, not a .......... Continued nextlaage www.ozarksstar.com Tom ofFinland continued: larger politica! statement. "If I don’t have an erection when I’m doing a drawing," he said, "I know it’s no good." As his work grew more popular, Laaksonen became an international celebrity. His images spawned an industry, and in 1979 he and Dehner co-founded the Tom of Finland Company. In addition to several books of collected works, Laaksonen produced a multi-volume series of comics featuring Kake the leatherman and did private commissions (including a revisioning of Michelangelo’s David for Italian filmmaker Franco Zeffirelli). "Tom’s men" became cultural icons and inspired many imitations, including the "Tom Girls" series by punk artist G.B. Jones. Today, his work is included in the permanent collections of several museums, including the Ne~v York Museum of Modern Art and Finland’s Kiasma Contemporary Art Museum. The Tom of Finland Foundation, initially founded in 1984 to preserve Laaksonen’s work, now offers a "safe haven" for all erotic art. Laaksonen continued to frequent the leather and dance club scenes well into his 60s. Diagnosed with emphysema in 1988, he was forced to cut back on his travel, but continued to draw. In 1991, his life and work were chronicled in the documentary Daddy and the Muscle Academy. In November of the same year, he died of a stroke in Helsinki. "I know my little ’dirty drawings’ are never going to hang in the main salons of the Louvre," Laaksonen said shortly before his death. "But it ~votfld be nice if...our world learns to accept all the different ways of loving. Then maybe I could have a place in one of the smaller side rooms." For further information: Hooven, E Valentine. 1994. Tom of Finland: His Life and Times (St. Martin’s Press). Pohjola, Ilppo. 3.992. Daddy and the Muscle Academy_ (documentary film). Ramakers, Micha. 2000. Dirty Pictures: Tom of Finland, Masculinity, and Homosexuality (St. Martin’s Press). OKLAHOMA ACTIV ST, KE TH Bo SMITH HONORED By James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Stonewall Democrats (OKSD) posthomously have presented the 2007 Mary Lou Lemon Humanitarian Award to Keith B. Smith, the well-known and effective professional lobbyist and activist who died suddenly in November, 2006. A memorial service was held on December 1 in the Oklahoma Capitol Rotunda. Mr. Smith’s tireless advocacy for gay equality and other progressive issues was legendary. His ideas and techniques live on in the many grassroots activists who continue to push back the stultifying limits of the ignorant and bigoted. No Oklahoma legislator, however recalcitrant in thinking, was immune to Mr. Smith’s wit, charm, and stunning strategies at passing progressive legislation. The award is named for the late Mary Lou Lemon, matriarch of a prominent Oklahoma Democratic family, who believed fervently in an American society free from discrimination directed at minorities, especially gay and lesbian citizens. It has been presented formally at the Activist Hall of Fame Dinner on Saturday, May 19, during the Oklahoma Democratic Party State Convention. Previous award recipients have been Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth, and Governor David and Rhonda Walters. OK Stonewall Democrats ( www.okstonewall. org) is a constitutional club of the Oklahoma Democratic Party and a chapter of National Stonewall Democrats, Washington, DC (www.stonewalldemocrats.org) NEW GALLUP POLL SHOWS 68 PERCENT OF AMERICANS SUPPORT HATE CRIMES BILL BEFORE CONGRESS Poll Shows Overwhelming Support Includes Majority ofRepublicans, Conservatives, and Religious Voters WASHINGTON, DC_. A new national poll conducted by Gallup shows an overwhelming support of the American people for passage of federal hate crimes legislation currently being considered in Congress. The poll, conducted on May !0-13, shmvs that 68 percent of all Americans believe that current federal hate crime laws should be expanded to include "sexual orientation, gender and gender identity." Even more impressive is that this support cuts across partisan, ideological and religious lines with a majority of each of those demographic groups supporting the legislation. "This new national poll continues to reiterate how incredibly out-of-touch rightwing organizations are with the will of the American people and underscores the need for the Senate to pass this bill," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. "I hope President Bush will look at this poll and realize how unbelievably out-of-line a threatened veto of this critical crime-fighting piece of legislation is with a majority of Americans. President Bush’s threatened veto isn’t even supported by his base. The writing is on the wall and it is past time for President Bush to stop bowing to the pressure ofJames Dobson, Pat Robertson and other right-wing, anti-gay leaders and join the majority of Americans who want to see this bill become law." On May 3, the morning of the House vote on the Local Law Enforcement Hate Crimes Prevention Act (H.R. 1592), the White House put out a "Statement ofAdministration Policy" stating, "IfH.R. 1592 were presented to the president, his senior advisors would recommend that he veto the bill." www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 29 By Joey De She’s known by only one name, has fabulous hair, incredible skin, the carefree spirit of the 80’s, and is mounting a tour to benefit gay rights. Cyndi Lauper, who has spent her career as the quintessential gay icon, is once again showing her fearless dedication to equality with her 15 city nation wide "True Colors" tour, presented by The Logo Network, kicking offJune 8th in Las Vegas. Cyndi and special guests Erasure, Debbie Harry, The Dresden Dolls, The Gossip and The Misshapes will be taking the stage, with emcee Margaret Cho to present five hours of non-stop music benefiting the Human Rights Campaign. Also joining the bill on select dates will be Rufus Wainwright, Rosie O’Donnell, Indigo Girls, THE CLIKS and Jeffree Star. We caught up with Miss Lauper between breaks on her busy rehearsal schedule to find out more about the tour, her views on the gay community and why she still looks so good. STAR: Oh my god, I’m talking to Cyndi Lauper, I can’t believe this. You’re a gay legend. You have been since the beginning of your career. \re’hat do you credit with making you such a gay icon? CL: It’s a natural fit. When I came onto the scene, I guess what the community related to was my overall vibe, not just my music. I was and still am very colorful and animated. I was also a bit left of center in my artistic approach and I think that really resonated. I have always been in tune with gay people, even before I became famous, so I think the relationship was just another extension of Cyndi the person to Cyndi the artist. STAR: You first made your first big mark in the 80’s, a time when musical tastes were totally different. To what do you owe your continued success? www.ozarksstar.com CL: I’ve stayed at it and I’ve strived to continue to grow as an artist. I still love to write, produce and perform and am still inspired by the world around me to create my music. I’m really fortunate to have the platform that I do and I don’t take that for granted. STAR: As a performer and gay rights advocate, ho~v would you say that the world has changed in the time since you began performing, in relation to equality? CL: I think that the visibility of the GLBT community has come further than 20 years ago, but, as we can see by the past few years under this administration, things are going backwards. It outrages me. The further ahead the community has gotten, the more resistance and push back to progress it encounters. We have to keep pushing forward. STAR: Would you care to share a story about a favorite gay companion who inspired you to take on the fight for equality? CL: I wrote the song Boy Blue for my friend Gregory. He passed away from AIDS and his life and death affected and inspired me deeply. He still does. STAR: What was your inspiration behind the "True Colors" tour? CL: I’ve been trying to do the tour for the past five years. It came from my outrage about what is going on in this country and specifically what is going on with the erosion of GLBT civil liberties and rights. It has affected my family, my close friends and my fans. Your civil liberties are my civil liberties. If yours are being taken away or going backwards, so are mine. I’ve been a part of the women’s movement and the civil rights movement for the African American Community. I feel like what is happening in this country with the GLBT community is outrageous, and this tour is a reaction to that, STAR: Why did you select the Human Rights campaign as your benefactor? CL: Their have been some rumblings from the right about it, but that’s the whole point isn’t it? I have the right to do this tour and get the issues out there to be debated and discussed via music. They have the right to criticize, disagree and debate the issues. The more discussion the better as far as I’m concerned. STAR: You have an incredibly impressive line up of guest performers, how did you select them? CL: I’m glad you like the line up. I’ve worked with some of the artists before and I’m excited to be working with some of them for the first time. It’s really great to be sharing the stage with such talented artists. STAR: Will we get to see that fabulous rainbow statue of liberty dress? CL: I actually had that dress custom made for the Gay Games. I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve in regards to outfits for the tour...a girl’s gotta have some secrets (haha). You’ll have to come on down to the show for my runway action. STAR: Your gay audience transcends generations and even includes the current generation of youth. What, as an ally, do you think is the biggest challenge facing them and what do you think is their greatest strength? CL: I think the gay youth of today hold great promise. You can look at the way they connect and interact on myspace and other community sites and they know that they are not alone. I also look at PFLAG, GLSEN and the many local youth organizations out there that provide support and outreach. They are vital. Ifa kid can come out and be accepted by his family then he should cherish that, not every kid gets the love and support they need at home. That’s why PFLAG is involved in this tour, if coverage of it can open a difficult discussion then I’m doing my job. This tour is as much for gay engaged family members and friends as it is for GLBT people. for parents of gay youth increases. It starts at home. It’s (the tour) all about opening up the discussions on the home front, the political front and the music and entertainment front, but let’s not lose sight of the fact that this is a great musica! celebration. It’s going to be a kick ass party... STAR: In addition to this tour, you have a new album coming out. Would you care to share a little bit about it? CL: It’s definitely NOT a mellow album. It’s an ass shaker. STAR: Can tour-goers expect to hear their favorite hits, or will there be a lot from the new album? CL: I’m still mulling over what the set list is...so we’ll see...I may sneak in a few new songs. STAR: Most importantly for gay men and drag queens everywhere: You look fabulous, and haven’t aged a bit! Please, tell us your secret. CL: Yoga and keeping up with my son’s energy level. STAR: What can we look for from Cyndi Lauper in the future? CL: I’m wide open. I’m in a great creative space and looking forward to touring and finishing the new CD. Once that’s done, I’m sure I’ll be on the hunt for my next creative endeavor. Right now, it’s all about the True Colors tour. STAR: Miss Lauper, thank you for your time. We wish you the greatest of success with the tour and the album. The True Colors Tour will be visiting Dallas on June 23 and Houston on June 24. For more information or for a complete list of tour dates visit www.truecolorstour.com. CL: I have ahvays admired and respected the work that the HRC has done. They are working on a federal level and a local level for issues that are important to me. STAR: Have you received any back lash or criticism about the tour? www.ozarksstar.com I do want to say that I hope some of the apathy around HIV with the younger generation changes. We’ve made great medical advances and people are living with HW and MDS, but people are still dying. I hope that the kids wil! be responsible if they are having sex and I hope that the education the STAR 33 "Easy does it, Sagittarius!" Mercury is in Cancer, which normally facilitates sweet expressions of genuine affection and swapping old family recipes. But as Mercury clashes with Saturn in Leo, that "affection" may now seem overbearing and critical. Try to be modest and sincere, and offer healthy, low-fat recipes - or chocolate. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Efforts to show off your home in a good light can be a major source of irritation. Can you just relax, and let your place be comfortable and fun? Your real friends don’t care how it looks, as long as it’s happily lived in. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Do you really need to call your family now? Let it wait until next week. It’s bad enough hearing one of your parents in your own voice. Play that up for satirical effect and you’ll learn something useful, if not entirely pleasant. GEMINI (May 21 - Jun~ 20): Getting caught up on bills may be a hassle, but do what you can now to avoid trouble later. Advice from an older sibling - or a "sister" - can be irritating, but well worth heeding. At least think about it! SAG~TTAR~US (November 22 o December 20): Your eagerness to tweak and provoke is dangerously high, tempting you to much more trouble than you’re ready to risk. New games in the bedroom may require innovative safety awareness. Slow and easy does it, Tiger! CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): If demands (or lack thereof) in the boudoir are dampening your relationship, discussing the issues now could make or break it. How much courage, patience, and love do you have? Be very clear on your issues before taking on your partner’s. AQUARIUS (January 20 o February 18): Your clever innovations at work could irritate your colleagues. At least include them in some discussion before you make any changes. Mollify dissent by keeping your mind and ears open for further improvements. P~SCES (February 19 - March 19): Try to focus those playful urges into some modest, constructive activity. Showing off is too likely to get you into an awful accident. The more annoying you find criticism, the likelier you should heed it! CANCER (June 21 - July 22): Trying to sound authoritative just makes you sound bitchy. Let your words follow the law of supply and demand. The less you say, the more valuable it is. Writing is safer than speaking, but scrutinize e-mails carefully before you send them! LEO (July 23 - August 22): Being cranky and bossy is largely a cover for doubts and worries. To be more truly your sweet, lovable self, take time out to meditate or talk with a confidante about what’s bugging you. An imaginary conversation with Mom will help. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): The future may seem dark and hopeless, and the next few years are challenging, but still you worry too much. You can make the most of it; use your instincts to figure out a way through the dark labyrinth ahead. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Your foresight is especially sharp, but without caution, so is your tongue. Nagging undermines the effectiveness of your prescience. Imagine that everyone is your boss and be careful of what you say. That will heighten your own authority. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Any discussion can turn into an argument much too easily. 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Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, June 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 6 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource June 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource C.D. Ward Victor Gorin Greg Steele Jeanne Flanigan Paul Wortman James Nimmo Joey D. Victor Gorin Greg Gatewood Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ronald Blake Ray Williams Michael Hinzman Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Michael Leach Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online test Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwestern Missouri Western Arkansas Southeastern Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, May 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 5 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/210 The Star Magazine, July 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 7 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/207 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/208