14 20 689 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/aa82cbbda58a8f60a735cb83dfd9d9dd.jpg 2485d9e2417fa32b2d4adde09d9df921 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/4a6a2ca907ad958b0e1ffc2d21c76426.pdf b0d512826d927ba9a896bbe54263bbfe PDF Text Text dAN UARY ~ 1 !Y ~nd Business Building From �2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Dear Chaz, It was exciting and thrilling to see your 3rd ,~mniversary Issue of the Star! Having lived from the Southern most tip of Florida to Northern California, this is just the best publication ever. Your smiling personality continues to spread it’s enthusiasm in this tremendous endeavor. Our community in Joplin, MO and Eureka Springs, AR benefit so much from your publication. I have people in both cities asking ~vhen the next issue is coming out almost as soon as they receive the current one. Ti~ank you so much for a job well done for the four states. As you brmvse through this months issue, you’ll notice numerous articles on fund-raisers, benefit shows, volunteers ,vorking to build and just people helping people. GLBT people who are giving their time, money and effort to help make another human life better. Many who need help themselves. Giving, is the key issue. This past month seeing and hearing about the many events to raise money for those living with HIV/AIDS, food drives, toys for kids, meals for the home-bound and ~o many other efforts, all within our own community, reminded me of how very proud I am to be a gay man. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if we could maintain that giving spirit for the entire year and not just for the holiday season. The spirit should not end on December 26th. Giving, to support those people and organizations who are fighting for equality not only for GLBT’s, but for everyone is another important issue we have to face in this new year. I am very optimistic for 2007. Many have predicted this will be the year we see tremendous gains in equal rights for Gay/Lesbian people. But, we must do our part to insure this happens. We voted! And you see the results. "We can make a difference." This is the year to build on our past achievements and open doors for future generations. Rev. Steve T. Urie, Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin, MO Chaz, I just saw this month’s magazine and I wanted to send you a note saying "congratulations" on your third anniversary. It has been an honor and a privilege to work with you the past few months. I want to thank you for your important contribution to the GLBT con> munity and I wish you much success for many, maW years to come! Joe LaFountaine Board Secretary Little Rock Capitol Pride Dear Editor: As we go to press we got the news that the Governor of New Jersey had signed the bill granting gay and lesbian couples all rights of marriage but the title. This is the third state offering civil unions to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. It’s starting to happen! On behalf of everyone involved with the STAR, I want to wish all of you a great and prosperous New Year. May your lives be filled with the spirit. Sincerely, C. D. Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief www.ozarksstar.corn I live in Texas and get to both Tulsa and Oklahoma City on business about once a month and never know xvhich bar to go to on any particular night. I noticed in the December issue of the STAR that you have begun to run a special page "AFTERDARI<[" where the bars let everyone knoxv exactly what is going on each night. This is certainly a tremendous help to anyone not living in Oldahoma City or Tulsa and most likely even a great help for those who do! What a great idea! I alxvays read the STAR online and enjoy it. Keep up the good xvork. Sincerely, Randy Cunningham Dallas, Texas the STAR 3 �NEW# N@N{N, NN~# N~NN, New Direction, Laura Belmonte, President of Otdahomans for Equality Speaks to the Community. Doug Ireland "Why should being Gay be a crime" "The Wine Rack" Cabernet Sauvlgnon on review- page 16 A retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Who was Joseph Beam? Gay Travelers "Casa de San Pedro" Otit of Town "Buenos Aires" Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Laura Belmonte ............. 5 Commentary.............. 11 OUT in Arkansas ........... 12 Inspiring Fitness ........... 13 Past Out .................. 14 Tulsa GLBT Center News ..... 15 The Wine Rack ............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions ............ 22 Star Scene ................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes ............... 28 Distributors ............... 29 Cartoons .................. 30 Classifieds ................ 31 New Tulsa GLBT Center Opens This Month - page 15 4 day Celtic Festival Eureka Springs - page 12 STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK ~ NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVlLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PtTTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �NEW HOME. NEW NAME. NEW D RECT ON. An amazing year has just passed for the organization formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights / TOHR! As I write, a dedicated team of volunteers is putting the final touches on Phase One of our marvelous new center; Marc Acuff, our new coordinator of the Tulsa Pride and Diversity Celebration is securing corporate sponsors; and the Capital Fund Trustees and the Facilities Committee are drafting new documents and policies to ensure that our building is financially secure and well-maintained for decades to come. From our brilliant IT crew to the immensely creative Design Group, I an awed by the talented and generous individuals who are helping me lead Oklahomans for Equality into an exciting new era. Why the name change? Lots of reasons. For one, Tulsa Otdahomans for Human Rights was an offshoot on an Oklahoma City-based organization that folded over twenty years ago " hence there is no need to saddle ourselves with the awkward Tulsa Oklahomans construct. Another reason is that human rights had a very different connotation in 1980 than it does now. I have often been asked whether our organization does work like Amnesty International or Human Rights Watch. So, we searched for alternatives. We contracted a public relations consultant. We formed focus groups. We spoke to key stakeholders. We listened to a host of opinions. And, after much deliberation and careful consideration, we adopted a new name, a name that encapsulates who we are and what we want: Oklahomans for Equality. Equality is the core of the gay rights struggle. We want equal employment rights, equal housing and health care access, equal pension and veteraffs benefits, equal treatment before the law, and equal legal standing for our intimate, committed relationships. We want equality for all gay, lesbian, bisexuals, and transgender Oklahomans, not just Tulsans. Whatever their race, class, gender, religion, age, or ability status, we want all the members of our diverse and beautiful community to have the liberties promised each and every U.S. citizen. We want equality for our allies too. We cannot expect them to support us if we do not support them. We cannot ignore our common interests. We must harness the collective power of our causes and constituencies. Proudly serving "i\lisa & OKC\s GLBT communities since 1982 "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BESTproperties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 City, OK 73116 How will we achieve these goals? By forming new partnerships that enable us to serve seniors, youth, those in physical or mental crisis. By offering programs that appeal across the entire spectrum of our community. By oldcastle.com broadening our volunteer resources so that any Oklahoraan can call our GLBT helpline "the only one in the state" and find a gay-friendly doctor, a supportive counselor, or simply a place to meet GLBT people. By expanding our advocacy efforts to include allies throughout the state so that we can mobilize hundreds of people for elections, lobbying days, and combating anti-gay and anti-trans discrimination at the local level. We have so much to do and we’ll soon be doing it in one of the largest GLBT centers in the United States. We at Oklahomans for Equality wish you a Happy New Year and express our gratitude for the gift of your support. In Solidarity, Laura Belmonte President, Oklahomans for Equalit3~ (OkEq) www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 �JOHANNESBURG, South Afi’ica__ Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls got hitched Friday in South Africa’s first gay wedding, a day after the government made same-sex marriage legal. The couple, who run a guest lodge and animal rehabilitation center on the southwestern coast, donned their game-ranger outfits and went down to the local home affairs office in the town of George. In front of marriage officer Petro Kruger they exchanged rings and were pronounced a married couple. LOAVES AND F SHE8 FUND-RAISER BRIGHTENS THE HOUDAY8 AGNR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__On December 4-5 the Copa Club located in the Habana Hotel celebrated the 16th Anniversary of one of Oklahoma’s most heartwarming fund-raisers, the annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner and Show. This year it was dedicated to the memory of longtime activis.t Keith Smith who passed away November 20,2006. Featuring community icons Sonja Martinez, John Beebe, ToW Sinclair, Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald & Debbie Davies, the benefit raised OVER $5600 for this Catholic Charities ministry which provides meals & other assistance for those home bound by HIV. Judy Riley stated. "I am overcome by the generosity of the people who come to this event every year in support of our brothers and sisters who are living with HIV/MDS. Words cannot express the depth of our appreciation and gratitude to Sonja and all the performers, Nick Post and the Copa Staff, and also all the benefactors." Joplin Organia÷rs Announce Formation Of Long Awaited Gay Lesbian Center. JOPLIN, MO The Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center kick-offdinner was a rousing success on November 20th. Fifty people ate & drank great food, made new friends and saw old ones, and embraced the Center’s goal to raise money to build a community center. Guests were entertained by "Queer Duck," the Mike Reiss video shorts, Charlie Smith, Treasure Love, and the fab-u-lous Miss Latina Carlisle (Miss Gay Joplin 2002), who brought the house down with her version of"Somewhere Over the Rainbo~v." Door prizes included DVD’s of"Dante’s Cove" and "Fixing Frank," tank-top shirts from A & E’s original December movie, "Wedding Wars," and various CD’s, including music from Cirque de Soleil. Greetings and best wishes were offered by leaders of UCC Family Fellowship, the Joplin Junior Chamber (~e Jaycees), Wal-Mart’s Office of Diversig; and Shekinah Glory Church. President Lee McDaniel spoke about the need for a center here in conservative, rural southwest Missouri to encourage people, especially our youth, to be who they are - and to knmv that we are just normal, everyday people. He reported that the Center has joined the national association of gay & lesbian centers and plans to join the Joplin Chamber of Commerce in order to increase its visibility. The Center also is a member of GLAAD and HRC. The Center extends its thanks to all those involved and to all who attended. Special thanks to all the volunteers, the performers, UCCFF for rental of its building, Mr. David Garrison for the terrific food, the Karpel Group, Corporate Edge Marketing, and to Lee McDaniel at Gold Key Mortgage and Carberry Development Group. The Center’s next major fundraising events will be in February and June 2007. Details will follmv via www.myspace.com/gaylesbiancenter and http://360.yahoo.com/gaylesbiancenter. For more info, please email or call the Center’s President, Lee McDaniel, at gaylesbiancenter@ya~hoo.com or 417-622-7821. The Center, founded in October 2006, may be reached at PO Box 4383, Joplin, MO 64803-4383. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The board of directors of the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has awarded grants to nine local non-profit organizations totaling $50,100. Grantees and their respective award amounts are: Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network (RAIN) $5000; AIDS Support Program/The Winds House $5700; Red Rock Behavioral Health Services/Red Rock North $5400; Northern Lights Alternative $6100; Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma $6100; Guiding Right $5400; Other Options $6400; Latino Community Development Agency $5000; and the HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project of Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma $5000. Since 1998, the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has distributed more than $333,000 in grants to local non-profit organizations providing critically needed services to individuals living with HIV or AIDS. SAVE THE DATE FORTHE 2007 AIDS WALK OF OKLAHOMA CITY: Sunday, September 30th at the Myriad Botanical Gardens. 6 the STAR New-Jersey Denies Gay Marriage, Passes Civi Unions. TI~NTON, N.J. - Nexv Jersey’s governor signed legislation Thursday December 21 st giving gay couples all the rights and responsibilities of marriage alloxved under state law, but not the fltle. When the la\v goes into effect Feb. 19, Ne~vJersey xvill become the third state offering civil re’dons to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �437 E, i41st Street Gtenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY 8 the ,STAR www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 �Tu san°s B÷s end With 40 Bikes Chi d ÷n Of Pa ÷nts Living With H V/A D$o By Greg Steele By Victor Gorin P,6oto: 40 Bikes and over 3"00 other items f!lled the main bar of the climb. TULSA, OK No it’s not a bicycle shop and it’s not a Walmart store. It’s the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. Bar owners Terry Hood and Stan Smith put the word out in early December that their annual Christmas Drive for the Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. food pantry would not be just another food collection. "Ihis year was for the kids. The goal was a bike for all 30 children of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. clients. In an interview with Stan Smith he told us "The response was so incredible we had the 30 bicycle’s within a week and more were promised. We then called RAIN to see if any of their clients had children, there were five he was told. We have 35 bikes and five extra that I’m sure the two organizations will find homes for." Smith said. In addition to the bicycles, toys, non-perishable food items, toiletries, maW other gifts were donated. Well over 300 items filled the main bar of the club. The Tulsa Rough Riders also held a raffle and donated the proceeds. The 30 children of "/\~sa C.A.R.E.S. clients ages are 6 girls and 5 boys under the age of seven. 7-11 years of age, 3 female and 4 male. Ages 12-15 there are 4 girls and 8 boys. Some are themselves HIV positive but all are affected by the difficult lives of their parents living with HIV/AIDS. The majority of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. and RAIN HIV/AIDS clients are living below the poverty line and don’t have the means to provide a decent Christmas for their children. \VTe talked with Michael at Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. after the truck loads of gifts and food items had been delivered and he told us, "We thought it was going to be just another Christmas for the kids, and then these folks come along with this wonderful gift. It will certainly make a big difference for them on this special day of the year for children" There is going to be a lot of happiness and smiling faces in the homes of those who have so much hardship. 10 the STAR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Club Rox located in the Hollywood Hotel and Suites held a Masquerade Ball fund-raiser for Red Rock Saturday, December 16. Featuring entertainer Alison Scott, it was organized by Hollywood crew member Beaux Leaf, proceeds from the fund-raiser would go to help Red Rock deliver meals to home bound people living with HIV/MDS. The event was great success and for a very worthy cause. Pictured above is an anonymous donor who gave $100. SPECIAL WORSHIP CELEBRATION HONORING DR. KING AND THE GLBT COMMUNITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___On Sunday, January 14 at 10:45 a.m. and 3 p.m. Church of the Open Arms will host a special service with a renowned guest preacher, the Reverend Dr. Randall C. Bailey. He is a professor at the Interdenominational Theological Center in Atlanta, has lectured throughout the United States and abroad, and also has gained attention with his recent article, "Sanctified Hatred: Why Banning Same Sex Marriage is Wrong." This service is co-sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign, P-Flag OKC and the Peace House, and the public is invited. The theme says it all, "Peace ~vith Justice for M1- God has a Dream." Human rights leaders Clara Luper and the Reverend Orra Compton will be honored at the service. ~xis will be a landmark service, honoring not only the late Dr. King, but all people seeking equality including the GLBT community. It will coincide with the Oklahoma City Martin Luther King Parade which will be held the following day beginning at 2 p.m., at N.W. 7th Street & Robinson. www.ozarksstar.com �a crib÷? In 75 countries being gay is still a crime. French activist Louis-Georges Tin, founder of the International Day Against Homophobia, hopes to change that by having the United Nations adopt a resolution calling for the decriminalization of homosexuality worldwide. Tin spoke to The Advocate ahead of a press conference in Paris where he announced the news. By Doug Ireland On November 17 the Paris-based International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) will launch a global campaign for a United Nations resolution declaring that homosexuality should no longer be considered a crime anywhere in the world. The proposed U.N. resolution is the brainchild of IDAHO’s founder, Louis-Georges Tin, 32, a professor and author of a number of books (including the Dictionary of Homophobia) who is also a rising star of France’s emerging black movement for equality. not as utopian a project as it might seem at first glance: In October this year, the U.N. Working Group on Arbitrary Detention declared that the imprisonment in Cameroon of 11 men who’d been caught in a raid on a gay bar on charges of homosexuality was "an arbitrary deprivation of liberty" that violates the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights. That’s encouraging. How will you and IDAHO work for its passage? The campaign for the U.N. resolution will have two main components. An external media campaign to raise awareness within public opinion and governments will begin with the November 17 unveiling of a petition--for which VIP signatures are now being gathered--on IDAMO’s \geb site, ww~v.idahomophobia.org. Also, a host of international and country organizations have already signed on as cosponsors of the campaign for the resolution, like the International Lesbian and Gay Association and France’s Ligue des Droits de l’Homme. The second battle has to be waged within the new U.N. Council on Human Rights. \re have to lobby the states that are members and ask them to support the resolution or at least not to vote against it. We are talking with the government of South Africa, which is a member of the council to sponsor the resolution. South Africa was the first country in the world to include the principle of nondiscrimination against gays and lesbians in its constitution-and their sponsorship would show that LGBT rights are not just a "Western issue." What exactly does the resolution say? Tin will simultaneously release a list of hundreds of VIP endorsers of the proposed U.N. resolution, including a gaggle of Nobel Prize winners (among them, Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa, Dario Fo of Italy, Elfriede Jelinek of Austria, and Amartya Sen of India); political leaders, including two former French prime ministers (Laurent Fabius and Michel Rocard); academics (such as Princeton University President Shirley Tilghman and world-famous sociologist Richard Sennett); entertainers (such as Academy Award-winning actress Meryl Streep, David Bowie, Edward Norton, Mike Nichols, Lily Tomlin, actor-playwright Wallace Shawn, humorist Bruce Vilanch, and Spanish actress Victoria Abril); and a host of renowned writers, including Doug Wright, Jon Robin Baitz, Salman Rushdie, Gore Vidal, Sir Tom Stoppard, ToW Kushner, Martin Amis, Ian McEwan, Russell Banks, Bernard-Henri Levy, John Berendt, Lady Antonia Fraser, Christopher Hitchens, Michael Chambon, Peter Carey, and Edmund White. Getting the U.N. to commit to universal decriminalization of homosexuality is destined to become the central objective of the international LGBT movement for the next decade. Tin spoke to The Advocate. What chance do you think this resolution has of passing the U.N.? Many people believe such a resolution is beyond reach. I personally don’t. Why? Because there is already U.N. jurisprudence in our favor. In 1994, Mr. Toonen, a citizen of Tasmania, who had been condemned for same-sex relationships, won his case in what was then the U.N. Commission on Human Rights--it said his arrest was a breach of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and of the right of privacy. So we just ask the U.N. to extend this jurisprudence to other countries--75 in the world!--where same-sex relationships are still forbidden. There’s recent evidence that this is www.ozarksstar.com The text I wrote asl~ for a universal decriminalization of homosexuality. It is very clear, easy, and simple, and based solely on the articles of the U.N.’s Universal Declaration of Human Rights that were used to justify the decision in the Toonen case. I did not want to write a philosophical text on the issue, because an argument that may be relevant in one country will certainly be irrelevant in another one. We need a common language to support human rights. What could be more relevant and more international than the Universal Declaration of Human Rights itself?. Why did you choose this moment to launch this campaign? ~l}le Toonen case was ruled on 12 years ago, soI thought it was high time that LGBT organizations decided to take advantage of it at the U.N. To be honest, I fail to see any issue that could be more important than this one for LGBT organizations. On May 17, 1990, the World Health Organization decided that homosexuality could no longer be regarded as a disease, which is why I chose that date for the International Day Against Homophobia. The first IDAHO was only celebrated in 2005, so we really couldn’t do anything before that--but now our organization has spread to more than 50 countries and been endorsed by the European Parliament, so I think we are ready to go farther. Look, gays and lesbians around the world cannot wait any longer for their love to cease being made a crime. Many are in jail, or at risk of being jailed. Some are being killed. 7his has to stop now. Ireland is a veteran political journalist who can be reached through his blog, DIRELAND, at Direland.typepad.com/direland/ the STAR 11 �Four Day Celtic Festiva Eureka Springs EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ PaperMoon Attractions presents Celtic Connections Eureka, a four-day festival celebrating Celtic heritage, music, poetry, food and drink as the clans overtake the tiW hamlet of Eureka Springs January 18 - 21, 2007. Timed for the birthday bash for the great Robert Burns, the "Bard of Scotland", Celtic Connections Eureka calls to celto-philes from the seven nations hither and yon. tartan attire, the seven Celtic nations, demonstrate musical instruments, and more. "11artanic, the bagpipe comedy theater band from Houston who took Eureka Springs by storm last January; returns for Friday night’s concert at the City Auditorium. If you’re not planning to go to Arizona in February, this may be your last chance to enjoy the amazing Tartanic experience. Throughout the weekend guests will have a chance to enjoy all the workshops, multiple music sessions and concerts, "The Gypsy Faire" vendor market, along with Celtic-flavored special offerings by area pubs and restaurants. All-Day Tickets are: $28 for Thursday including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Friday’s events (without the Burns Supper); $45 or $80 per couple for Friday’s events, including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Saturday’s events. For more information and to purchase tickets online see www. EurekaCelts.com or call 866-363-9545. In these Ozark Highlands you’ll immerse yourself in the color and heritage of this rich world culture, as entertainers, crafters and historians from far and way create an experience designed to enrich your appreciatior{ and knowledge of Celtic traditions. The traditional Robert Burns Night Suppers are scheduled for Thursday and Friday evenings, with the Friday night dinner featuring a few extra touches including music and stories by Ed Miller, modern bard of Scotland and Scottish folksong preservationist. Both evenings’ dinners are hosted by the historic 1886 Crescent Hotel Crystal Dining Room where the setting provides the Castle-like backdrop for all the pomp and circumstance. This annual, around-theworld birthday tribute to the life, ~vorks and spirit of Robert Burns is the 9th year for this event in Eureka Springs. The evening promises highland pipes, poetry and pride, the traditional Scottish dinner with roast beef and haggis, the drinking of Scotch whiskey and the recitation of Burns works, along with general merry-making and songsinging. "Robert Burns was truly the voice of the Scots. Any ethnic group will collect around a cultural voice and for the Scots who endured British oppression for centuries, Burns covered the whole spectrum of life in those ages," says Bruce Crabtree, author and historian, who will be performing "Robert Bruce’s March to Bannockburn" in traditional attire and full brogue. Crabtree will also present a workshop about the Gads during the festival, along with other workshop presenters who will discuss the Scots and Irish influence in the Ozarks, traditional 12 the STAR added Eureka Springs to thei~ growing fan base when they performed last year. Rowan will also perform Sunday morning at the Crescent Hotel’s Sunday Brunch. Also joining the event will be Arkansas Celts Tinker’s Dam and the Crooked Creek Irish Dancers from Harrison and award-winning Celtic Heartstrings Linda Brocldnton and Brenda Ramsey from Alexander playing traditional music on mountain dulcimer and flute. "Eureka Springs can look forward to a pretty unique act," said Adrian Walter, the band’s lead, who also teaches theatre and dance in Houston, Texas. "The audience will see that bagpipes can go way beyond funerals," he quipped. "It’s like a rock and roll unplugged bagpipe theatre show without a plot. We do a fully audience integrated show that goes against the usual band formula." ANNOUNCING 2007 D VERSITY WEEKEND DATES Eureka 8pdngs, Arkansas VALENTINE’S DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Feb 16, 2007 - Sunday, Feb 18, 2007 Tartanic will be right at home with the Eureka Springs culture. How does one describe Tartanic? "hnagine one dancer, six drums, six drones, 18 notes, fast fingers, high comedy, flying bagpipes, taste-defying stunts, scorching hot music played at over 120 beats per minute with driving speed and high volume, all brought to you by five men without pants." SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 Also on the bill with Tartanic is Beth Patterson, Celtic singer-songwriter from Ne~v Orleans. Patterson, whose sound and style has been compared to Loreena McKennitt, also performs on Saturday night at the City Auditorium with Ed Miller and with Rowan, a traditional Celtic trio from Kansas For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 who w~v.ozarksstar.com �4) Do not watch TV in the bedroom. 5) Sleep in a cooler than normal room. 6) Avoid excessive alcohol. It causes restless sleep. All work and no play make Jack a dull boy! You don’t exactly want to emulate Jack Torrance at the Overlook Hotel. I could spout off a whole slew of abominable statistics and enlighten you on how much more that people are now working than they were fifty years ago. But I won’t. You are certainly keenly aware of this situation. When time is at a premium, the factors most neglected are personal health, relationships with the kiddies, and marriage or romantic time with the significant other. Recreation and leisure should be important components of your daily schedule. Why do you think the Japanese live so long? They work so much less than us Americanos and they love their play time. You can make your millions by the age of 40 but it ain’t gonna help ya if the stress sends ya packing early for that plot of land in Boot Hill. Be sure to factor in some moderate sessions of shenanigans along life’s yellow brick road! in the morning and stress at night; stress is that thing I just can’t fight. Or can you? Happiness is knowing that you can control the impact stress has on your life. This is important since stress has been linked to 70% of all illnesses. In addition, stress is directly related to negative health behaviors such as alcohol and drug abuse, and to psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression. This is no good my friends! Pay close attention and I’ll make it all feel better! Most stress is caused by inadequate time management. What do you want out of life? Write it all down on paper and then go back and prioritize. You can’t do it all so you will need to leave some of the items on the editing floor. Make a schedule of what you want to do each day or week and then stick to this schedule like a dutiful liege. Monitor this schedule and make changes accordingly as time marches on. It sounds so doggone simple but most of you do not listen to this sage advice. YOu watch American Idol when you should be washing the dishes or you gossip ad infinitum with Patty and Selma when you should be giving the dog his much needed bath. Don’t waste time on this pettiness unless of course you like this pettiness and it is part of your schedule. When you don’t prioritize and you try to force 36 hours into a 24 hour day, the first item up for sale is sleep. Did you know that lions sleep about 20 hours each day. ~lhat is quite fascinating but you will not need exactly that much of the forty winks! The average human adult needs between seven and eight hours of repose per night. You might believe you can maintain much less sleep than that each evening but stress will eventually get the better of you over the years. The Grim Reaper wilt just bide his time. The following are numerous suggestions for pleasant dreams: 1) Go to bed at the same time each night. 2) Don’t exercise right before bedtime. 3) Avoid eating meals shortly before lights out. A light snack is fine. www.ozarksstar.com There are several relaxation techniques that might help you push your stress to the back of the line. The nominees for outstanding relief methods are the quick fix, prayer, and positive thinking. The quick fix means taking a five minute time out from the rat race. Go to a quiet spot, loosen your clothing, remove your shoes, and shut your eyes. Inhale deeply for about five seconds and then exhale slowly for about ten seconds. Repeat this several times. Now mentally picture something pleasant like a lake, a cloud, or Jamaica. Keep relaxing and breathe deeply. After five minutes, stretch briefly and head back to the real world with renewed vi.gor. The next technique is prayer. Studies have indicated that prayer can decrease blood pressure and can be a tremendous source of comfort. Prayer can provide confidence to function more effectively and thus reduce stress from your rigors of life. Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, Protestant, Wiccan, or Taoist. It makes no difference. Try embracing the power of prayer. Finally there remains positive thinking. This is simple but not always followed. Do whatever it takes to create a positive mood when you have excessive stress. You do not want to dwell on any negative feelings. Always picture the positive side of life. Those that do this are those who prosper. Stress can be indeed harmful; stress can be quite a mighty hell; Stress ye now know must be managed for ye to be well! Ron Blake is a Certified Personal Trainer and Owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or on the web at www.blakefitness.com. the STAR 13 �Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. aH hearts and fists and min~ds needed in this struggle or will this faggot be tossed into the fire?" was . osepb Beam? and relieving Black women Dom the role of primary nurturers in our commmxity;" he wrote. "For too tong we have expected from Black women that which we could only obtain from other men...I dare us to dream that we are xvorth wandng each other. Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act of the eighties." One source of inspiration for Beam xvas the work of black lesbian feminist writers such as Audre Lorde. "I dream of Black men loving and supporting other Black men, An activist as well as an author, Beam worked as a consultant for the Gay and Lesbian ~ask Force of tile American Friends Service Committee. He helped resurrect the flagging National Coalition of Black Lesbians and Gays - originally founded in 1978 - joining the executive committee and editing the organization’s journal, Black/Out. African-American author and activist Joseph Beam secured his place in GLBT literary history as the editor of In the Life, a groundbreaking anthology of works by black same-gender-loving men. Beam was born December 30, 1954, in Philadelphia. With his working-class parents struggling to ensure that their only child received a good education, he attended Catholic preparatory and high schools, where he was one of only a few black students. He later studied journalism at Franklin College, a small Baptist college in Indiana. Influenced by the civil rights and Black Power movements, he was an active member of the Black Student Union. After graduating in 1976, he pursued a Master’s degree in communications and stayed in the Midwest, working at odd jobs for a few years, before returning to his native city. Back in Philadelphia in the early 1980s, Beam got a job at Giovanni’s Room, a GLBT bookstore. He began writing news articles, personal essays, poetry, and short stories for publications such as _The Advocate, Body Politic, Gay Community News, and the New York Native, Much of his work reflected on the life experiences of black gay men, criticizing both the racism of the mainstream white gay and lesbian movement and the homophobia of the black community. In 1984, the Lesbian and Gay Press Association honored him with an award for outstanding achievement by a minority journalist. Beam also maintained ongoing correspondence with prisoners, which he later attributed to his "deep sense of my own imprisonment as a closeted gay m,an and an oppressed Black man." Having ensconced himself in the GLBT literary scene - and having met numerous 14 the STAR authors and community leaders - Beam was disappointed about the lack of black male voices. \York by white gay writers addressed three camps, he claimed: "the incestuous literati of Manhattan and Fire Island, the San Francisco cropped-moustache-clones, and the Boston-to-Cambridge politically correct radical faggots. None of them spoke to me as a Black gay man." While some of the leading lights of the Harlem Renaissance - such as Langston Hughes, Countee Cullen, and Richard Bruce Nugent - were knoxvn or believed to have been {gay or bisexual, Beam found that contemporary xvorks by black samegender-loving men were fexv and far between. "By mid-1983 1 had grown weary of reading literature by xvhite gay men," he xvrote. "More and more each day, as I looked around the xvell-stocked shelves of Giovanni’s Room...I wondered xvhere xw~s the work of Black gay men." Beam therefore began collecting material for his pioneering anthology, in many cases nurturing the budding talents of men who had never before ~vritten for publication. He said that In the Life, published by Alyson Publications in 1986, spoke for "the brothers whose silence has cost them their sanitT," as well as the "2,500 brothers who have died of AIDS." Beam regarded the book as a tool for organizing and community building. His oxvn essa}; "Brother to Broti~er," extolled friendship, love, and eroticism among black men as a means of self-affirmation and group solidarity in the face of the pain and anger that arose from dealing xvith a xvhite GLBT movement that failed to address the concerns of people of color, and a heterosexual black community, that refused to accept queer men. "I cannot go home as xvho I am and that hurts me deeply," he wrote. "Aren’t Beam died of complications related to AIDS in December 1988, just three days shy of his 34th birthday. Though his life was brief, Beam’s influence was far-reaching. He served as both an inspiration and a mentor, promoting the idea that "visibility is survival." After his death, Beam’s mother and his fi-iend Essex Hemphill completed a second anthology of black gay men’s writing, _Brother to Brother_ (1991), which Beam was working on xvhen he died. Hemphill also remembered Beam in a memorial poem, "When My Brother Fell": He burned out his pure life force to bring us a chance to love ourselves... For fiwther reading: Beam, Joseph (ed.). 1986. _in the Life: A Black Gay Anthologo,_ (Alyson). Harris, E. Lynn (ed.). 2004. _Freedom in this Village: Twenty-Five Years ofBlack Gay 2]/Ien’s Writing_ (Carroll & Graf). Hemphill, Essex (ed.). 1991. _Brother to Brother: New IN’itings by Black Gay Men_ (Alyson). www.ozarksstar.corn �over 3,000 GLBT tides. A new xveekly Legal Clinic and Counseling office is adjacent to the library. The David Bohnett CyberCenter has 10, flat-screen, DSL computer stations free to the public. The nexv, light-filled \Vellness Center, with planned yoga and meditation session and dance lessons \vill feature many new additional programs for the communi~: NEW CENTER OPENS gH S MONgH It’s been a long journe?; but the finish line is in sight. O -klahomans for Equality (OkEq) xvill open the permanent Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 621 E. 4th Street, this month January 2007. The new Center, at 18,000 square feet, is one of the largest in the nadon and will be filled with nexv OkEq community programs, meeting rooms and spaces for community organizations, reception areas, educational, legal 8¢ xvellness services, the Events Center and much more! You’ll be xvelcomed in the Robert S. Cisar Lobby. With 14’ beamed ceilings, the front hall of the nexv Center features the reception area, an expanded Pride Store, OkEq offices and the original safe of the 1920’s building. Adjacent to the front hall is the Great Halt. The Great Hall " the living room" for the community is approximately 1,800 square foot of open space. A great space for receptions, parties and more, complete xvith a ~tchen, the space is a warm and inviting environment for the communi~: Through the rear lobby and to the right are the Gallery and Conference Rooms. With community groups and organizations in mind, the Gallery and Conference Room can hold small, medium and large groups. You’ll be surrounded by the art of coinmunity members in the Gallery while the Community Room features a floor to ceiling glass wall. Come up the elevator in the rear lobby and you xvill arrive in the Recreation Lounge. Around the corner, you’ll be welcomed into an expanse for the communits: The Nancy & Joe McDonald Rainboxv Library features VmNW.ozarksstar.com Past a relaxing lounge next to the CyberCenter is the KidsCorner. Featuring xvritable walls and a mural, KidsCorner also has an interior window to keep watch of your little ones. You’ll see history on display in the Dennis Neill & John Southard History Project Room, as well as be able to look-over historical documents. The Health Testing office offers free HIV testing 3 times per xveek xvhile syphilis testing is offered once a month. The Community Office Area xvill xvelcome small desk/office areas for organizations, as well as a meeting space. The sumptuous Board Room, loo -king out over 4th Street can easily seat 12 to 25 indMduals. And there is still another 8,000 square feet! Back on the street level is the Events Center. Able to seat nearly 200 people for a luncheon or dinner, the nearly 3,000 square foot space comes complete xvith a catering kitchen, a separate entry, facilities and a clerestory windoxv nearly the len~h of the space. The Kenosha Suite, xvith approximately 1,500 sq. ft. of space and the 4th Street frontage of 3,000 sq. ft. of retail space xvill help invigorate the East End of downtown Tulsa. The nexv year of 2007 xvelcomes a nexv home, a new name and nexv direction for OHahomans for Equality. We xvelcome you to visit the new community center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, be involved xvith your community and join us as we continue our 26-year history of working for GLBT equality. Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. ,J the STAR 15 �CaVe.net Cabernet Sauvignon is grown in many regions where red wine is made: Southern France, Spain, Italy, Bulgaria and Rumania in Europe; Argentina, Chile, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa and California in the New World. Wherever it is grown you find reliable, quality, drinkable wines. Cabernet Sauvignon is at the heart of most Bordeaux red wines, often blended with Merlot; they are the benchmark against which other producers judge their products. At the upper end of the market, the Bordeaux chateaux, such as Margaux and Haut-Brion, reign supreme, but there is increasing competition from Australia and California. At the bottom end of the market, Bordeaux is struggling to compete. Examples from Latin America, Australia and Eastern Europe consistently offer an excellent drinking experience and value for money. Cabernet Sauvignon is a fairly small, thick skinned, tannic, dark red grape that crops well in suitable growing conditions. It survives cold winters and well-drained soils but does need adequate sunshine in order to ripen fully. ~he grape’s thick skin makes it resistant to spoiling by rain and attack by insects, around harvest time, which helps to ensure ripeness before picking and to maintain yields. ~-he predominant flavor is blackcU~i but it also can exhibit black cherry, cedar, leather and tobacco notes, depending on where it is grown. Because of its high tannin content, it has good ageing potential (five to ten years) and is often matured in oak barrels to enhance the flavor. ~-he effect of contact with oak modifies the tannin structure, leading to smoother, elegant, more complex wines. Whether as a varietal or blended with Merlot, Sangiovese, Shiraz or Zinfandel, Cabernet Sauvignon is always a popular choice for informed lovers of red wine. Foods that pair well with Cabernet Sauvignon: duck, spicy beef, pate, rabbit, roasts, spicy poultry, cheddar, blue cheese, sausage, kidneys, pasta with tomato sauce and foods that are meaty, pungent or spicy. This year there are some exceptional Cab’s out there this year including; Chateau St Jean Cinq Cepages 2000 Justin Justification Paso Robles 2003 Irony Napa 2002 Beringer Napa 2002 Snoqualmie Columbia Valley 2004 Visit your favorite wine shop, bring a bottle & a dish and we’ll see ya there!! Devre 1 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com ��Past m this tiny and we do m~fi TINY ~ommfinity mVfi; 1o800o535oAIDS (2437) kitchen j( they prepare the food. [[he so ~’0~ V[,ilt leave full. Karl and In the afternoons, they bake flesh pasrry/pk minute OraQuick Test * Free Syphillis screening at the GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin One night they drove us m Bisbee which is about 20 miles away. Bisbee is a very old mining town that has a lot of character. We dined at the Striped Stocking and had a wonderful evening. Bisbee ~s lust a very small town but has a very" active gay population. 18 the STAR H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Outreach Program Tulsa at {918) 812-7045 www.ozarksstar.c0m �to P pnngs By Donald Pile and Ray Williams ings begiIi on Valentine~ Da?; FebruaD, rants in .~nerica and we certainly agree. Melvyr~ is open ~br hmch Monday thru Friday from 11:30 to 3pro. Dinner is served daily 6 to 1 lpm. Lhampagn~ Brunch is served Saturday a,~d Sunday 9am to 3 pm. "Ilaeir web site is: www.inglesideim~.com. For reservations call (760)325-2323. Friday- Febru;apt 16, 2007 4 pm to 5:30 pm - Readings at the Quee~ 0fHeart~ Hotel. Saturday 2 February 17, 2007 3 pm - Book Signing at the Peppertree Bookstore. Please contact Joanna or Denise ~br Reservations and information: By E-maiI: Casitas@CasitasLaquita.com Phone: 760) 416-9999 - Toll Free: (877) 203-3410 w~,,~v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 �Fringing the ocean, Starwood Iqotels’g[amorolls and gay-J}iendly Atlantic resort has been a key feature ofFort Lauderdale’s stunning redevelopment. (P,~oto by Andrew Collins) January 2007 \vgith progressive attitudes on social issues and a spirited, chic style that evokes Paris, Rome, and New York City, buoyant Buenos Aires has become the GLBT capital of Latin America. In this distinctly European-feeling city, the worlds of high fashion, haute cuisine, and tango come together, and an unstable economy has become a boon for visitors from other nations, because it’s led to favorable foreign-currency exchange rates. Indeed, what was not long ago the most expensive capital city in South America has become one of the cheapest major metropolises in the world. This city of nearly 3 million (12 million live in the metro region) sits along the southern bank of the Rio de la Plata, a wide estuary that forms the border between Argentina and Uruguay. Spanish conquistadors established a foothold here in the early 1500s, and the city retains close ties to Europe - many _Portenos_ (as residents are known) have Spanish and Italian lineage, and significant numbers also trace their roots to Germany, Great Britain, Russia, and France. This is very much an international destination, and Buenos Aires has fol!owed the lead of many European cities by actively courting GLBT tourists (the tourism office produces an excellent gay brochure and map) and legalizing same-sex civil unions. top museums, performing arts venues, and political buildings, but you need to venture farther afield to get to know gay B.A. Start xvith a walk through Barrio Norte, a busy and bustling district with a sizable gay presence and loads of fine clothing, home-fur¯ nishings, and electronics stores along the main drag, Avenida Santa Fe. The most charming neighborhoods for exploring, however, are Palermo and the adjacent Palermo Viejo - the latter has the most pronounced GBLT presence in Buenos Aires. Narrow cobblestone streets lined with uber-chic boutiques, snazzy wine bars, Euro-inspired cafes, and offbeat galleries abound in both neighborhoods. but particularly in Palermo Viejo. Another district with gay cachet is San Telmo, which is close to downtmvn and whose elegantly faded 19th-century buildings, many of them former tenements, now contain a fabulous array of antiques dealers plus a growing number of hip restaurants. Among the many superb restaurants in Palermo Viejo, don’t miss Bar Uriarte, a sexy lounge with a convivial garden in back and outstanding brick-oven pizzas and innovative tapas; and Mott, a gorgeous, minimalist restaurant with high ceilings, stylish decor, and fantastic wines and healthful, light food. The beautifully modern space occupied by Miranda Restaurant fills up each evening with devotees of the kitchen’s delicious steaks and chops. North Americans are sometimes deterred from traveling to Buenos Aires by steep airfares (which typically range from around $800 to $1,200 round-trip), but once you’re actually in Argentina, the cost of travel is so amazingly low that you can easily spend less on a vacation here than you would in western Europe or the Caribbean. Also consider that during slower times, some airlines’ frequent flyer programs offer round-trip flights here for as few as 40,000 miles offpeak (typically March through May and again mid-August through November, which are perfectly pleasant times to visit). Prices for most goods - as well as food and cocktails, taxis, electronics, and many other items - are generally 40 to 70 percent less than in the United States. Look for especially great deals on leather goods (from wallets to jackets), and enjoy the shockingly low prices of fine steaks and wines (two products for which Argentina is justly renowned) at great restaurants. Buenos Aires (aka B.A.) is a sprawling city, but because cabs are easy to hail on the street and extremely inexpensive, they’re a very practical way to make your way around. This is also a generally safe and enjoyable city to explore on foot. The central neighborhoods of Microcentro, Congreso, and Retiro are typical business and commerce centers, and nearby Recoteta is a wealthy hub of high-end hotels and ritzy apartment towers. In these areas you’ll find many of the city’s 20 the STAR Freud & Fabler is an intimate place that’s a great bet for creative Mediterranean-inspired fare, and sleek Olsen has earned a loyal following for both its intriguing people-watching and delicious Scandinavian food (there’s also a huge vodka selection). If you’re just looking for a spot with free Wi-Fi and light breakfast and lunch fare, stop by gay-popular Mark’s Deli, a dapper little place with a pretty garden, or old-world Bartok, a graceful Euro-style coffeehouse with www.ozarksstar.com �sidewalk seating overlooking the edge of busy Plaza Palermo Viejo. Bartok serves tasty salads, sandwiches, and desserts. Other gustatory highlights around Buenos Aires - and this is just a tiny sampling - include Milion, an uber-modern resto-lounge in Barrio Norte, and Bond, one of the gay-friendliest of the many excellent restatlrants in snazzy Recoteta, serving an eclectic menu of sushi, Mediterranean-inspired tapas, and modern Argentinean fare. To sample the tender steaks for which Argentina is known, head just around the corner to E1 Mirasol, which is tourist}, but absolutely dependable for outstanding beef. Owned by the same talented folks who operate Bar Uriarte, Gran Bar Danzgn is one of Recoleta’s trendiest wine bars, serving outstanding Continental and Latino food, too. If you’re on a budget, consider Palermo Viejo’s absolutely wonderful, gay-owned Bayres B&B, where it feels like staying vdth kind (and knowledgeable) friends in their simple but pleasant home. Rates (which run from $35 to $65 per night) include full breakfast, and there’s free high-speed Intemet and cable TV in every room, and private or shared bathrooms. Considering that Bayres costs hundreds less per night less than some of the city’s fanciest hotels, it’s truly an amazing bargain. Aiad with the money you save on rooms, you can invest in such heady pleasures as haute couture and cuisine - if you’re a serious shopper, bring along an empty suitcase to fill with your bounty. As expected in a large, gay-friendly metropolis, Buenos Aires has a vibrant nightlife scene, although maW bars and clubs are only popular on certain nights of the week. It’s best to ask around to learn which are likely to be busy (or even open) on a given evening - also keep in mind that most places don’t get going until 2 or 3 in the morning (although they often remain busy until dawn). The majority of B.A.’s "gay" nightlife options draw a mix not only of women and men but, in many cases, gays and straights - this is a city where folks ftom all walks of life seem to revel quite happily together. Some of the larger dance clubs include the aptly named GLAM in Barrio Norte, long-running Contramano in Recoleta, and see-andbe-seen Alsina in the Monserrat district. More intimate yet still highly popular bars and lounges worth checking out are Kim y Noyak, a cozy and stylish Palermo Viejo hangout that also serves good food; Sitges, which is also in Palermo Viejo and presents lively drag shows; and Bach Bar, a mostly lesbian spot in Barrio Norte. Buenos Aires also has a few bathhouses, the most popular being Buenos Aires A Full, in Barrio Norte. Prices of accommodations in Buenos Aires vary wildly, as the large and often very impressive international hotels, which appeal to business travelers and well-heeled tourists, tend to charge rates comparable to those in other major world capitals. Among the city’s best high-end hotels, the relatively new Park Hyatt, which opened in 2006, is an absolute treasure, its rooms sleekly and artfully designed, and its restaurants, courtyard patio, wine-and-cheese bar, and spa all top-notch. The Hyatt’s well-trained, thoughtful staffwhisks about, tending to guests’ every need. In the same neighborhood of Recoleta, the classic Alvear Palace Hotel has been serving discerning travelers since it opened in 1932 - the elegant rooms are among the largest in the city. In Palermo Viejo, Bo Bo is a smart boutique hotel with moderately priced, avant-garde rooms and an excellent restaurant popular with models and celebs. The intimate FIVE hotel contains - despite its name - 16 rooms, each done with handsome, contemporary furnishings, but the big draw here are the extensive common areas, including a lovely rooftop sundeck with great city views and a hot tub. Charming owner Adriana Teplixke and her knowledgeable staff can recommend great places to shop and eat, and rates here are quite reasonable, beginning around $100 nightly. www.ozarksstar.com Owasse Community Theatre Opens The New Year With "StuaR Little" OWASSO, OK__Rehearsals have begun for the O~vasso Community Theatre’s presentation of Stuart Little by E.B. White, and performance dates have been scheduled for January 19-21 and 2527, 2007 at the Mary Glass Performing Arts Center in Owasso. All performances will occur at 7:00PM except the matinee on January 21st which will occur at 2:00PM. the STAR 21 �JANUARY 2007 "Resolve to Take Action" Well, it’s 2007, but many of us will probably be dating our checks 2006 for weeks to come. Old habits - 365 days worth - die hard, but soon the 2007 mental pathway will be established, and our dating habits (the written ones, anyway) will be corrected. Looking back, 2006 was quite a year. LOGO, the gay cable network, and the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association came up with their top 10 stories. It’s an interesting but not too surprising list, including everything from Outgames/Gay Games to Soulforce’s Equality Ride to Oscar coming out on Brokeback Mountain to Ted Haggard falling on his face (let alone from grace) to Mark Foley’s page folly to the Dems bringing democracy, back to Capitol Hill. I’m not about to rehash and recap - you can go to LOGOonline. corn and watch the four-part series complete with music, graphics, and Jason Bellini as anchor. My thoughts are on our future - what 2007 has in store for the community and for me, and even better, what we have in store for 2007. Personally; once the cast comes offmy ruptured right bicep tendon (when you’re almost 49, playing with the dog can be dangerous), I plan to segue physical therapy into future trips the gym. I’m one of those dykes who can put on weight just by thinking about it, and as I start my ascent to 50 1 really want to try and get back into some sort of shape. If any of you girls (or guys) have suggestions or secrets to share, just let me know. I’m open. "lhis is the year we could overtnrn "don’t ask, don’t tell." It’s the year we could get the federal nondlscrn-nmauon act and mclus~ve hate-crimes legislation passed. It’s the year we could see our national organizations ~vorldng in tandem on the issues that concern us the most. It’s the year we could see real progress on our issues. But for al! of that to happen this year, next year, or beyond, we, as a community, have to support the organizations that represent us. "lhat support could be a check to your local community center and!or to your statewide organization and/or to the national organization of choice. If we are to move forward in 2007, we must put LGBT human and financial capital to work. This is also the year for us to point out the lies of the radical Christian right and hold them accountable for their ,vords. After Mary Cheney announced in early December that she was pregnant, _Time_ magazine asked Focus on the Family’s James Dobson to write an opinion piece. In his usual homophobic, antigay-family way, Dobson - like other radical Christians - chastised Mary for bringing a child into the world without a dad. To back up his arguments, he cited the academic work of feminist scholar Carol Gilligan and Yale School of Medicine’s Kyle Pruett, M.D. Instead of just dismissing Dobson’s rantings as those of a rattled homophobe, Wayne Besen of Truth Wins Out contacted both scholars and asked them to repudiate this nse of their work. °II~ey did. Time’s embarrasment led the mag’s editors to ask Jennifer Chrisler of Fainily Pride to write a response. Her piece debunked Dobson’s dithering about how a kid needs a mommy and daddy more than she or he needs love. Besen plans to keep the heat on Dobson and others like him with his new website, xw~vw.dobsonlies.org. Also, 2007 gives me the opportunity to tell my partner, Lynn, how much she means to me. Let your partner know how you feel, too - how important they are to you, how dreary your life wonld be without them, how much you love them. Join Besen, and kick off 2007 vdth some action - write Time’s editor, Patrick Smith (patrick_smith@timemagazine.com), and tell him that if his magazine is going to let the right rant, it also has to make them prove their points with facts, not rely on the pseudo-fiction they’ve been parading behind. The new year also gives all of us the opportunity to let our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues know how much our partners mean to us. I’m not talking about being all mushy all the time at work or at family gatherings. I am talking about being clear about your life, who you live with, how you identify. After that, tell your honey you love her or him, tell your neighbor you’re gay, write a check, and don’t ever forget how important you are in the next 365 days. If there was ever a year to come out and build on our achievements, this is it. The more that people know us and feel connected with us, the more likely they are to stand beside us as allies and fight for our rights. It’s all about building relationships and normalizing straight people’s perceptions of who we are. With a new Congress (let’s all pray for Sen. Tim Johnson’s [D-S.D.] full recovery), and the president’s final two years in a death spiral, the ability for the LGBT community to make real change is within our reach. If a lesbian can get elected to the Alabama State House, anything is possible - if we put our minds to it. Gayly O ahomar No Lor ger Pr r t TULSA, OK The publisher of the 24 year old Oklalxoma GLBT news paper, Andrew Hicks, announced in the December 15th issue that the Gayly was shutting down their print version and going digital. "\V,/e ~vant to take the Gayly into the future and onto new levels and fulfill a vision that has kept this paper alive for nearly 25 years. The world is changing and our need for information is changing with it." Hicks said. The on-line operation is due to be up and running this month. For more information go to: wv~v.gayly.com 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �GAY R GHTS ADVOCATE & LOBBYIST KErFH SMITH PASSES AWAY AT AGE 51 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Keith Smith died at Integris Hospital from pneumonia on Monday, November 20. Up until the time of his death he had been a tireless lobbyist not only for gay rights for also environmental causes, reproductive freedom, and civil liberties. Lobbying clients included the Sierra Club, Planned Parenthood, and the ACLU. He was also the co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats as well as a national board member A memorial service was held in the rotunda of the Oklahoma State Capitol, and speakers honoring him included ne~vly elected State Representative AI McAffre); State Senators Andrew Rice and Bernest Cain, former Governor David Waiters, Native American Rights activist Kalyn Free, Oklahoma ACLU Executive Director Joann Bell & his dear friend, Linda Gray Murphy. A native of Alva, Oklahoma, he is survived by his mother Berda Murrow, and three brothers, Craig, Kurt and Kyle Smith. FROZEN CRANBERRIES 2. Stir well. 3. Chill for at least 1 hour. When ready to serve... 4. Chill martini glasses with ice and water, 5. Add club soda to mixture. 6. Pour into martini glasses and enjoy. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ! www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 ��Congratulations Lawanda Jackson Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A 2007 by Victor Gorin Photo: Center Lawanda Jackson Miss Oklahoma US ofA 2007 & 1st runnerup Alexia" Nicole OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Copa was filled with excitement as the pageant for Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A came together in all its glory December 7-10. A pageant of Ragfin Productions, this marked the 20th anniversary of the event. Promoted by Regie Finley (a.k.a. Raghenna, Miss Oklahoma US of A 1990) the show featured Alyssa Edwards, the current reigning Miss Gay US of A. It was emceed by Rachael Erikks (former Miss Gay Oklahoma & America)& Reghenna herself, and their campy wit kept it lively. The winners were 2nd Alternate Victoria Weston, 1 st runner-up Alexis Nicole Whimey, and Lawanda Jackson was crowned the new Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A. Both Lawanda and Alexis Nicole will go on to compete for the national title in Dallas May 22-25 of next year. w~#v.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 25 �Dear played, ~ Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Uncle says count your blessing and remember it for what it obviously was, a holiday romance. Smooches Mikey Kittens: We all can find drama in our life if we try, however the one thing that we seem to forget is that we allow the drama in our life to begin with. You were home from school, lonely during the Christmas rush, and jumped onto stallion number one. You rode him straight through break, only to complain at the dismount. Kitten, selfanalazation might point out that we only deal with what we allow ourselves too. ~-hink about it, you wanted deep penetrating! Well this is as deep as it gets. Smooches Uncle Mikey Salutations and ~velcome to Uncle Mikey 2007! Yes Kittens, it ~vas a holiday triumph once more Kittens, as yours truly entertained, touched, and brought holiday warmth to those around me. According to the lucky, Uncle did all three. As we usher in the New Year, allow us to unite, if only for a moment in holiday cheer. Uncle Mikey, Why do so many people turn the holidays into future stories of drunken escapades? Doesn’t anyone take time to enjoy the true meaning of the season? Holiday-Cheer Dearest Cheer, Kitten, the holiday,s mean something different to everyone. For some it is a deep and meaningful time of their personal faith celebration. W~ile others, look at it as a time for friends and family, We cannot cheapen it by taking away from someone’s personal holiday meaning. Uncle sees the holidays as a bit different still yet. Christmas time for me is a time of white mink against the skin, while given a reason to dress hunk-a-licious men in red, green, and sliver holiday strings. Kitten; just remember that everyone has his or her own reason for the season! Smooches Mikey. Uncle Mikey, I thought I was going to get a commitment ring for Christmas and instead found that my partner is not as ready as I thought after all. It has been a year and still no advancement in the elevation of this relationship. Should I lClnd someone who is as ready as I, or hope that he will come around? Still Looking for Bling--Bling Dearest Bling, Can I get an amen? Uncle Mikey never committed to awthing less than two carats! Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I was out at a club during my Christmas break from school, when I ran into an old flame from High School. We hooked up and spent some time together. I though we had renewed some old feelings for one another, however, the only thing he left me with was a cold release, when he went back to school, leaving me in the dust. Should I confront him? Trick Played 26 the STAR Uncle Mikey, I started dating this guy a while ago, and while I do enjoy his company for the most part, I think it is that I am more afraid of being alone than being annoyed. It is not that I am a loser. It is that I do not lie to myself. I am not the most intelligent, or even the most desirable. Therefore, my question is this; is it wrong to settle? Only the lonely Dearest Lonely, Kitten Kitten, get off the cross because Madonna needs the wood! It is a shame to hear someone cutting oneself. It is not the package that sells the gift, it is the gift that makes the package. Kitten, we all begin with the simple package that the Gay Gods deliver to us. We make our identity. If you want to look better, it’s called a gym. Want to be a scholar, it’s called education. Want to improve your attitude, It’s called therapy, Bottom line kittens, it is all about self-help in a self-serving world. You can be a player or you can be played. No Kitten, it is not wrong to settle, it is a self-defeating cop out! Smooches Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, I caught my boyfriend in a lie. After I asked him if he was talking to people on the PC after I was in the bed, I decided to check for myself. I looked and found cookies left from him visiting the infamous site where they pick up booty calls. I didn’t’*=want to tell him I had been dipping into his business so I waited. Well, sure enough he told me that he had to be away on business overnight. After following him to the motel, it was clear what his business was. I have just been sick wondering what to do. Any advice for the betrayed? Seeing Red Dearest Red, Stalk-much? Kitten, a relationship is not worth it if you have to mistrust their every move. Kitten, I would strongly recommend some professional guidance here. I don’t mean spy gear either. Kitten, relationships are only as productive as the players in them. If you feel that yours is not what you want, may I suggest the emergency exit! Smooches Mikey Well, like the trick in the alley, I must slide out once more. Kittens, here is to a New Year- May all of your dreams come true. Wishing you all a very Queer New Year! www.ozarksstar.com �BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro and Combread 2pm, Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest t2am PEC’S: -"?’Fell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest 12am XgCEDNESDA?f Januaq~" !0 THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro xvear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: ~Tell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show !0:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart’Iburnament 10pm TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: \~ieD" Show 10:30pro THO~DA~~ Jarmary il FINISHLINE: Dart~lburnament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erild~s PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart %urnament ! 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro CLUB IVlAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \X;dl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart’l~3urnament i 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 79pro wear leather. CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: KarbOkie host, Pancho 9pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: ICaraoke 9pro PEC’S: \Vell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament t 0pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wl Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \Yell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoaue Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Shm~X):30pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Shmv 10pro. THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm CLUB ROX: Alison Scott, 9:30pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro PEC’S: Mate Dancers, 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast But})t 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE ROCKIES: OGRA Benefit Show 8:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm ~.ozarksstar.com BAMBoo LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Shmv 8:30pro. CLUB ~JESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: I~chael Erik~ Show ! 0:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: 50’s-60’s Sock Hop, BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinnet Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pm. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm PEC’S: V&ll drinks 2.50 from 79pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. MONDAY Jauuary 15 BAblBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-Tpm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinher Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pro. TUESDAY January 16 ..... PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 79pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest Midnight. PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 79pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dimcers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: tLachael Eril~&~ Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-gpm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro the STAR 27 �"Expect arguments, Sagittarius! ...... Sun and Mercury lining up in Capricorn clash with Saturn in Leo, making egos more important than actual ideas. Remember, you’re more often right if you can admit when you’re wrong! The open mind and humble ego will win in the long run. ARIES (r,~arch 20 o Apri~ 19): Your sense of your own brilliance may lead you to trust in a triumph of your will, but your confidence is a bit inflated and can get you into big trouble. Handle authority gently. Intuitive hunches will soon prove helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - IVlay 20): Tripping over your religious roots? Patriarchal authorities from childhood may still intimidate you or act out through you. See where that’s coming from and focus on humanitarian ideals to rise above it. GEi~IN~ (IVlay 21 - June 20): Your mouth is likely to get you into trouble, but the real problem is your ego. What do you need to prove? Shrewdly measured, carefully considered words will get the point across better, and holding back will nurture your genius. SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 o December 20}: Philosophy and pragmatism are heading for a nasty collision. Your challenge is to stay true to your ideals and to apply them in the real world. It will take some severe adaptation. Expect arguments along the way, and be ready to learn from them! CAPRICORN (December 2t o January 19): A little leather or some dominance games can bring up more than you’ve bargained for. Play with someone you trust enough to step back and explore those issues with. Switch roles? Aggravating sexual problems will soon be easily discussed. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Problems in relationships are bugging you. Take time out to examine the issues, bur remember you can only make changes on your side of the equation. Some rigorous introspection can make others seem more reasonable. PISCES (February 19 - March t9): Your idea of being a good team player may depend too heavily on the notion that your ideas and leadership are best. Focus on humility and attention to others. Still, offer your input - just don’t push! CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Fussing about debts, those you owe or those owed you, can damage a partnership or friendship. Get those accounts in order, but don’t gripe. A more philosophical approach to these relationships will prove helpful very soon. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Stressing out gets you into arguments with co-workers. Work smarter, not harder, and be nice about their suggestions - whatever you think of them. Success in that.area will help you look and feel sexier wherever you go. VlR60 (August 23 - September 22): If you start feeling old and cranky, try to make a game of it. Exaggerate your complaints whenever you can to make a joke of them. That will make it easier to put things in perspective and open up new opportunities for fun. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You are normally the world’s greatest hostess. Not this week. Put some energy into your community, but keep your home a private _sanctum sanctorum_. Don’t let pessimism get you down; focus that energy into sensible caution. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your clever notions are likely to irritate your boss. In order to get ahead, soften and adjust your ideas to fit the boss’ thinking, but be ready to backpedal as necessary. 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MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 -405-947-2351 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th .405-521-9888 Tramps.2201 NW 39th -405-521-9999 Ziggy’s- - 4005 N. PennOklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge ....7204 E. Pine -918-836-8700 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store--- 2740 E. 21stBorder’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 918-584-9944 209 N. BoulderClub 209 918-584-9494 Club Majestic ........ 124 N. Boston .918-835-3301 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI ......... 918-834-1051 GLBT Comm. Ctr- - - - 621 E. 4th Street ......... 918-743-4297 Hideaway Lounge ..... 11730 E. 1 lth ........... 918-437-0449 - - 918-749-8378 HOPE Clinic ....... 3540 E. 31st 9t8-836-8544 Jazz’s Lounge ...... 426 S. Memorial 918-584-3112 Midtown .......... 319 E. 3rdOpenarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood ..... 918-838-7104 918-585-9552 Our House, Too .... 203 N Nogales Ave-7925 E. 41st............. 918-627-4884 Priscilla’s 5634 W. 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MemorialYellow-Brick-Rd ....... 2630 E. 15th .......... 918-293-0304 �NATHAN ANI~ RIBA WklOf9 NOW IN AN UNIT AT MOM~ AI~ YOU OKAY.~ HOW COM~ YOU~I~ IN A bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicate,com 30 the STAR www,joanhilty, net www.ozarksstar.com �EMPLOYMENT NW Arkansas GLBT Community Center "Linking Together as One" OPPORTUNITY ADVERTI SI NES FOR [~3KLAHOMA~ MISSOURI For more information: WWV,7.NWAGLBTCC.ORG www.ozarksstar.com SALES F;~ EPRES E NTATIVE KANSAS OR ARKANSAS qualifications to ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net or mail to: 5103 S. Sheridan, #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 the STAR 31 �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document dAN UARY ~ 1 !Y ~nd Business Building From 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com As you brmvse through this months issue, you’ll notice numerous articles on fund-raisers, benefit shows, volunteers ,vorking to build and just people helping people. GLBT people who are giving their time, money and effort to help make another human life better. Many who need help themselves. Giving, is the key issue. This past month seeing and hearing about the many events to raise money for those living with HIV/AIDS, food drives, toys for kids, meals for the home-bound and ~o many other efforts, all within our own community, reminded me of how very proud I am to be a gay man. Wouldn’t it be wonderful ifwe could maintain that giving spirit for the entire year and not just for the holiday season. The spirit should not end on December 26th. Giving, to support those people and organizations who are fighting for equality not only for GLBT’s, but for everyone is another important issue we have to face in this new year. I am very optimistic for 2007. Many have predicted this will be the year we see tremendous gains in equal rights for Gay/Lesbian people. But, we must do our part to insure this happens. We voted! And you see the results. "We can make a difference." This is the year to build on our past achievements and open doors for future generations. As we go to press we got the news that the Governor of New Jersey had signed the bill granting gay and lesbian couples all rights of marriage but the title. This is the third state offering civil unions to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. It’s starting to happen! On behalf of everyone involved with the STAR, I want to wish all of you a great and prosperous New Year. May your lives be filled with the spirit. Dear Chaz, It was exciting and thrilling to see your 3rd ,~mniversary Issue of the Star! Having lived from the Southern most tip of Florida to Northern California, this is just the best publication ever. Your smiling personality continues to spread it’s enthusiasm in this tremendous endeavor. Our community in Joplin, MO and Eureka Springs, AR benefit so much from your publication. I have people in both cities asking ~vhen the next issue is coming out almost as soon as they receive the current one. Ti~ank you so much for a job well done for the four states. Rev. Steve T. Urie, Pastor Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin, MO Chaz, I just saw this month’s magazine and I wanted to send you a note saying "congratulations" on your third anniversary. It has been an honor and a privilege to work with you the past few months. I want to thank you for your important contribution to the GLBT con> munity and I wish you much success for many, maW years to come! Joe LaFountaine Board Secretary Little Rock Capitol Pride Dear Editor: I live in Texas and get to both Tulsa and Oklahoma City on business about once a month and never know xvhich bar to go to on any particular night. I noticed in the December issue of the STAR that you have begun to run a special page "AFTERDARI<[" where the bars let everyone knoxv exactly what is going on each night. This is certainly a tremendous help to anyone not living in Oldahoma City or Tulsa and most likely even a great help for those who do! What a great idea! I alxvays read the STAR online and enjoy it. Keep up the good xvork. Sincerely, C. D. Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief Sincerely, Randy Cunningham Dallas, Texas www.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 3 NEW# N@N{N, NN~# N~NN, New Direction, Laura Belmonte, President of Otdahomans for Equality Speaks to the Community. Doug Ireland "Why should being Gay be a crime" A retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Who was Joseph Beam? "The Wine Rack" Cabernet Sauvlgnon on review- page 16 Gay Travelers "Casa de San Pedro" Otit of Town "Buenos Aires" Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Laura Belmonte.............5 Commentary.............. 11 OUT in Arkansas........... 12 Inspiring Fitness ........... 13 Past Out.................. 14 Tulsa GLBT Center News..... 15 The Wine Rack............. 16 Ciao Travel ................ 17 Lesbian Notions............ 22 Star Scene................ 24 Uncle Mikey............... 26 After Dark ................ 27 Horoscopes............... 28 Distributors............... 29 Cartoons..................30 Classifieds................ 31 STAR DISTRIBUTION: New Tulsa GLBT Center Opens This Month - page 15 4 day Celtic Festival Eureka Springs - page 12 OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK ~ NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVtLLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVlLLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA* PtTTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com NEW HOME. NEW NAME. NEW D RECT ON. An amazing year has just passed for the organization formerly known as Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights / TOHR! As I write, a dedicated team of volunteers is putting the final touches on Phase One of our marvelous new center; Marc Acuff, our new coordinator of the Tulsa Pride and Diversity Celebration is securing corporate sponsors; and the Capital Fund Trustees and the Facilities Committee are drafting new documents and policies to ensure that our building is financially secure and well-maintained for decades to come. From our brilliant IT crew to the immensely creative Design Group, I an awed by the talented and generous individuals who are helping me lead Oklahomans for Equality into an exciting new era. Why the name change? Lots of reasons. For one, Tulsa Otdahomans for Human Rights was an offshoot on an Oklahoma City-based organization that folded over twenty years ago " hence there is no need to saddle ourselves with the awkward Tulsa Oklahomans construct. Another reason is that human rights had a very different connotation in 1980 than it does now. I have often been asked whether our organization does work like Amnesty International or Human Rights Watch. So, we searched for alternatives. We contracted a public relations consultant. We formed focus groups. We spoke to key stakeholders. We listened to a host of opinions. And, after much deliberation and careful consideration, we adopted a new name, a name that encapsulates who we are and what we want: Oklahomans for Equality. Equality is the core of the gay rights struggle. We want equal employment rights, equal housing and health care access, equal pension and veteraffs benefits, equal treatment before the law, and equal legal standing for our intimate, committed relationships. We want equality for all gay, lesbian, bisexuals, and transgender Oklahomans, not just Tulsans. Whatever their race, class, gender, religion, age, or ability status, we want all the members of our diverse and beautiful community to have the liberties promised each and every U.S. citizen. We want equality for our allies too. We cannot expect them to support us if we do not support them. We cannot ignore our common interests. We must harness the collective power of our causes and constituencies. How will we achieve these goals? By forming new partnerships that enable us to serve seniors, youth, those in physical or mental crisis. By offering programs that appeal across the entire spectrum of our community. By broadening our volunteer resources so that any Oklahoraan can call our GLBT helpline "the only one in the state" and find a gay-friendly doctor, a supportive counselor, or simply a place to meet GLBT people. By expanding our advocacy efforts to include allies throughout the state so that we can mobilize hundreds of people for elections, lobbying days, and combating anti-gay and anti-trans discrimination at the local level. We have so much to do and we’ll soon be doing it in one of the largest GLBT centers in the United States. We at Oklahomans for Equality wish you a Happy New Year and express our gratitude for the gift of your support. In Solidarity, Laura Belmonte President, Oklahomans for Equalit3~ (OkEq) Proudly serving "i\lisa & OKC\s GLBT communities since 1982 "At Century 21 Gold Castle our BESTproperties are our PEOPLE’ 430t NW 63rd, Suite 100 City, OK 73116 oldcastle.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 5 JOHANNESBURG, South Afi’ica__ Vernon Gibbs and Tony Halls got hitched Friday in South Africa’s first gay wedding, a day after the government made same-sex marriage legal. The couple, who run a guest lodge and animal rehabilitation center on the southwestern coast, donned their game-ranger outfits and went down to the local home affairs office in the town of George. In front of marriage officer Petro Kruger they exchanged rings and were pronounced a married couple. LOAVES AND F SHE8 FUND-RAISER BRIGHTENS THE HOUDAY8 AGNR OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__On December 4-5 the Copa Club located in the Habana Hotel celebrated the 16th Anniversary of one of Oklahoma’s most heartwarming fund-raisers, the annual Loaves and Fishes Dinner and Show. This year it was dedicated to the memory of longtime activis.t Keith Smith who passed away November 20,2006. Featuring community icons Sonja Martinez, John Beebe, ToW Sinclair, Matthew Heath-Fitzgerald & Debbie Davies, the benefit raised OVER $5600 for this Catholic Charities ministry which provides meals & other assistance for those home bound by HIV. Judy Riley stated. "I am overcome by the generosity of the people who come to this event every year in support of our brothers and sisters who are living with HIV/MDS. Words cannot express the depth of our appreciation and gratitude to Sonja and all the performers, Nick Post and the Copa Staff, and also all the benefactors." OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The board of directors of the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has awarded grants to nine local non-profit organizations totaling $50,100. Grantees and their respective award amounts are: Regional AIDS Intercommunity Network (RAIN) $5000; AIDS Support Program/The Winds House $5700; Red Rock Behavioral Health Services/Red Rock North $5400; Northern Lights Alternative $6100; Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma $6100; Guiding Right $5400; Other Options $6400; Latino Community Development Agency $5000; and the HIV/AIDS Legal Resource Project of Legal Aid Services of Oklahoma $5000. Since 1998, the AIDS Walk of Oklahoma City has distributed more than $333,000 in grants to local non-profit organizations providing critically needed services to individuals living with HIV or AIDS. SAVE THE DATE FORTHE 2007 AIDS WALK OF OKLAHOMA CITY: Sunday, September 30th at the Myriad Botanical Gardens. Joplin Organia÷rs Announce Formation Of Long Awaited Gay Lesbian Center. JOPLIN, MO The Joplin Gay & Lesbian Center kick-offdinner was a rousing success on November 20th. Fifty people ate & drank great food, made new friends and saw old ones, and embraced the Center’s goal to raise money to build a community center. Guests were entertained by "Queer Duck," the Mike Reiss video shorts, Charlie Smith, Treasure Love, and the fab-u-lous Miss Latina Carlisle (Miss Gay Joplin 2002), who brought the house down with her version of"Somewhere Over the Rainbo~v." Door prizes included DVD’s of"Dante’s Cove" and "Fixing Frank," tank-top shirts from A & E’s original December movie, "Wedding Wars," and various CD’s, including music from Cirque de Soleil. Greetings and best wishes were offered by leaders ofUCC Family Fellowship, the Joplin Junior Chamber (~e Jaycees), Wal-Mart’s Office of Diversig; and Shekinah Glory Church. President Lee McDaniel spoke about the need for a center here in conservative, rural southwest Missouri to encourage people, especially our youth, to be who they are - and to knmv that we are just normal, everyday people. He reported that the Center has joined the national association of gay & lesbian centers and plans to join the Joplin Chamber of Commerce in order to increase its visibility. The Center also is a member of GLAAD and HRC. The Center extends its thanks to all those involved and to all who attended. Special thanks to all the volunteers, the performers, UCCFF for rental of its building, Mr. David Garrison for the terrific food, the Karpel Group, Corporate Edge Marketing, and to Lee McDaniel at Gold Key Mortgage and Carberry Development Group. The Center’s next major fundraising events will be in February and June 2007. Details will follmv via www.myspace.com/gaylesbiancenter and http://360.yahoo.com/gaylesbiancenter. For more info, please email or call the Center’s President, Lee McDaniel, at gaylesbiancenter@ya~hoo.com or 417-622-7821. The Center, founded in October 2006, may be reached at PO Box 4383, Joplin, MO 64803-4383. New-Jersey Denies Gay Marriage, Passes Civi Unions. TI~NTON, N.J. - Nexv Jersey’s governor signed legislation Thursday December 21 st giving gay couples all the rights and responsibilities of marriage alloxved under state law, but not the fltle. When the la\v goes into effect Feb. 19, Ne~vJersey xvill become the third state offering civil re’dons to gay couples and the fifth allowing gay couples some version of marriage. 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 437 E, i41st Street Gtenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) ORDERS BY 12NOON GUARANTEED SAME DAY DELIVERY 8 the ,STAR www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 9 Tu san°s B÷s end With 40 Bikes Chi d ÷n Of Pa ÷nts Living With H V/A D$o By Greg Steele P,6oto: 40 Bikes and over 3"00 other itemsf!lled the main bar of the climb. By Victor Gorin TULSA, OK No it’s not a bicycle shop and it’s not a Walmart store. It’s the Bamboo Lounge Tulsa. Bar owners Terry Hood and Stan Smith put the word out in early December that their annual Christmas Drive for the Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. food pantry would not be just another food collection. "Ihis year was for the kids. The goal was a bike for all 30 children of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. clients. In an interview with Stan Smith he told us "The response was so incredible we had the 30 bicycle’s within a week and more were promised. We then called RAIN to see if any of their clients had children, there were five he was told. We have 35 bikes and five extra that I’m sure the two organizations will find homes for." Smith said. In addition to the bicycles, toys, non-perishable food items, toiletries, maW other gifts were donated. Well over 300 items filled the main bar of the club. The Tulsa Rough Riders also held a raffle and donated the proceeds. The 30 children of "/\~sa C.A.R.E.S. clients ages are 6 girls and 5 boys under the age of seven. 7-11 years of age, 3 female and 4 male. Ages 12-15 there are 4 girls and 8 boys. Some are themselves HIV positive but all are affected by the difficult lives of their parents living with HIV/AIDS. The majority of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. and RAIN HIV/AIDS clients are living below the poverty line and don’t have the means to provide a decent Christmas for their children. \VTe talked with Michael at Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. after the truck loads of gifts and food items had been delivered and he told us, "We thought it was going to be just another Christmas for the kids, and then these folks come along with this wonderful gift. It will certainly make a big difference for them on this special day of the year for children" There is going to be a lot of happiness and smiling faces in the homes of those who have so much hardship. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Club Rox located in the Hollywood Hotel and Suites held a Masquerade Ball fund-raiser for Red Rock Saturday, December 16. Featuring entertainer Alison Scott, it was organized by Hollywood crew member Beaux Leaf, proceeds from the fund-raiser would go to help Red Rock deliver meals to home bound people living with HIV/MDS. The event was great success and for a very worthy cause. Pictured above is an anonymous donor who gave $100. SPECIAL WORSHIP CELEBRATION HONORING DR. KING AND THE GLBT COMMUNITY OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___On Sunday, January 14 at 10:45 a.m. and 3 p.m. Church of the Open Arms will host a special service with a renowned guest preacher, the Reverend Dr. Randall C. Bailey. He is a professor at the Interdenominational Theological Center in Atlanta, has lectured throughout the United States and abroad, and also has gained attention with his recent article, "Sanctified Hatred: Why Banning Same Sex Marriage is Wrong." This service is co-sponsored by the Human Rights Campaign, P-Flag OKC and the Peace House, and the public is invited. The theme says it all, "Peace ~vith Justice for M1- God has a Dream." Human rights leaders Clara Luper and the Reverend Orra Compton will be honored at the service. ~xis will be a landmark service, honoring not only the late Dr. King, but all people seeking equality including the GLBT community. It will coincide with the Oklahoma City Martin Luther King Parade which will be held the following day beginning at 2 p.m., at N.W. 7th Street & Robinson. 10 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com a crib÷? In 75 countries being gay is still a crime. French activist Louis-Georges Tin, founder of the International Day Against Homophobia, hopes to change that by having the United Nations adopt a resolution calling for the decriminalization of homosexuality worldwide. Tin spoke to The Advocate ahead of a press conference in Paris where he announced the news. By Doug Ireland On November 17 the Paris-based International Day Against Homophobia (IDAHO) will launch a global campaign for a United Nations resolution declaring that homosexuality should no longer be considered a crime anywhere in the world. The proposed U.N. resolution is the brainchild of IDAHO’s founder, Louis-Georges Tin, 32, a professor and author of a number of books (including the Dictionary of Homophobia) who is also a rising star of France’s emerging black movement for equality. Tin will simultaneously release a list of hundreds ofVIP endorsers of the proposed U.N. resolution, including a gaggle of Nobel Prize winners (among them, Bishop Desmond Tutu of South Africa, Dario Fo of Italy, Elfriede Jelinek ofAustria, and Amartya Sen of India); political leaders, including two former French prime ministers (Laurent Fabius and Michel Rocard); academics (such as Princeton University President Shirley Tilghman and world-famous sociologist Richard Sennett); entertainers (such as Academy Award-winning actress Meryl Streep, David Bowie, Edward Norton, Mike Nichols, Lily Tomlin, actor-playwright Wallace Shawn, humorist Bruce Vilanch, and Spanish actress Victoria Abril); and a host of renowned writers, including Doug Wright, Jon Robin Baitz, Salman Rushdie, Gore Vidal, Sir Tom Stoppard, ToW Kushner, Martin Amis, Ian McEwan, Russell Banks, Bernard-Henri Levy, John Berendt, Lady Antonia Fraser, Christopher Hitchens, Michael Chambon, Peter Carey, and Edmund White. Getting the U.N. to commit to universal decriminalization of homosexuality is destined to become the central objective of the international LGBT movement for the next decade. Tin spoke to The Advocate. What chance do you think this resolution has of passing the U.N.? Many people believe such a resolution is beyond reach. I personally don’t. Why? Because there is already U.N. jurisprudence in our favor. In 1994, Mr. Toonen, a citizen ofTasmania, who had been condemned for same-sex relationships, won his case in what was then the U.N. Commission on Human Rights--it said his arrest was a breach of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights and of the right of privacy. So we just ask the U.N. to extend this jurisprudence to other countries--75 in the world!--where same-sex relationships are still forbidden. There’s recent evidence that this is not as utopian a project as it might seem at first glance: In October this year, the U.N. Working Group on Arbitrary Detention declared that the imprisonment in Cameroon of 11 men who’d been caught in a raid on a gay bar on charges of homosexuality was "an arbitrary deprivation of liberty" that violates the International Covenant on Civil and Political Rights. That’s encouraging. How will you and IDAHO work for its passage? The campaign for the U.N. resolution will have two main components. An external media campaign to raise awareness within public opinion and governments will begin with the November 17 unveiling of a petition--for which VIP signatures are now being gathered--on IDAMO’s \geb site, ww~v.idahomophobia.org. Also, a host of international and country organizations have already signed on as cosponsors of the campaign for the resolution, like the International Lesbian and Gay Association and France’s Ligue des Droits de l’Homme. The second battle has to be waged within the new U.N. Council on Human Rights. \re have to lobby the states that are members and ask them to support the resolution or at least not to vote against it. We are talking with the government of South Africa, which is a member of the council to sponsor the resolution. South Africa was the first country in the world to include the principle of nondiscrimination against gays and lesbians in its constitution- and their sponsorship would show that LGBT rights are not just a "Western issue." What exactly does the resolution say? The text I wrote asl~ for a universal decriminalization of homosexuality. It is very clear, easy, and simple, and based solely on the articles of the U.N.’s Universal Declaration ofHuman Rights that were used to justify the decision in the Toonen case. I did not want to write a philosophical text on the issue, because an argument that may be relevant in one country will certainly be irrelevant in another one. We need a common language to support human rights. What could be more relevant and more international than the Universal Declaration of Human Rights itself?. Why did you choose this moment to launch this campaign? ~l}le Toonen case was ruled on 12 years ago, soI thought it was high time that LGBT organizations decided to take advantage of it at the U.N. To be honest, I fail to see any issue that could be more important than this one for LGBT organizations. On May 17, 1990, the World Health Organization decided that homosexuality could no longer be regarded as a disease, which is why I chose that date for the International Day Against Homophobia. The first IDAHO was only celebrated in 2005, so we really couldn’t do anything before that--but now our organization has spread to more than 50 countries and been endorsed by the European Parliament, so I think we are ready to go farther. Look, gays and lesbians around the world cannot wait any longer for their love to cease being made a crime. Many are in jail, or at risk of being jailed. Some are being killed. 7his has to stop now. Ireland is a veteran political journalist who can be reached through his blog, DIRELAND, at Direland.typepad.com/direland/ www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 11 Four Day Celtic Festiva Eureka Springs EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ PaperMoon Attractions presents Celtic Connections Eureka, a four-day festival celebrating Celtic heritage, music, poetry, food and drink as the clans overtake the tiW hamlet of Eureka Springs January 18 - 21, 2007. Timed for the birthday bash for the great Robert Burns, the "Bard of Scotland", Celtic Connections Eureka calls to celto-philes from the seven nations hither and yon. In these Ozark Highlands you’ll immerse yourself in the color and heritage of this rich world culture, as entertainers, crafters and historians from far and way create an experience designed to enrich your appreciatior{ and knowledge of Celtic traditions. The traditional Robert Burns Night Suppers are scheduled for Thursday and Friday evenings, with the Friday night dinner featuring a few extra touches including music and stories by Ed Miller, modern bard of Scotland and Scottish folksong preservationist. tartan attire, the seven Celtic nations, demonstrate musical instruments, and more. "11artanic, the bagpipe comedy theater band from Houston who took Eureka Springs by storm last January; returns for Friday night’s concert at the City Auditorium. If you’re not planning to go to Arizona in February, this may be your last chance to enjoy the amazing Tartanic experience. added Eureka Springs to thei~ growing fan base when they performed last year. Rowan will also perform Sunday morning at the Crescent Hotel’s Sunday Brunch. Also joining the event will be Arkansas Celts Tinker’s Dam and the Crooked Creek Irish Dancers from Harrison and award-winning Celtic Heartstrings Linda Brocldnton and Brenda Ramsey from Alexander playing traditional music on mountain dulcimer and flute. Throughout the weekend guests will have a chance to enjoy all the workshops, multiple music sessions and concerts, "The Gypsy Faire" vendor market, along with Celtic-flavored special offerings by area pubs and restaurants. All-Day Tickets are: $28 for Thursday including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Friday’s events (without the Burns Supper); $45 or $80 per couple for Friday’s events, including the Burns Night Supper; $25 for Saturday’s events. For more information and to purchase tickets online see www. EurekaCelts.com or call 866-363-9545. Both evenings’ dinners are hosted by the historic 1886 Crescent Hotel Crystal Dining Room where the setting provides the Castle-like backdrop for all the pomp and circumstance. This annual, around-theworld birthday tribute to the life, ~vorks and spirit of Robert Burns is the 9th year for this event in Eureka Springs. The evening promises highland pipes, poetry and pride, the traditional Scottish dinner with roast beef and haggis, the drinking of Scotch whiskey and the recitation of Burns works, along with general merry-making and songsinging. "Robert Burns was truly the voice of the Scots. Any ethnic group will collect around a cultural voice and for the Scots who endured British oppression for centuries, Burns covered the whole spectrum of life in those ages," says Bruce Crabtree, author and historian, who will be performing "Robert Bruce’s March to Bannockburn" in traditional attire and full brogue. Crabtree will also present a workshop about the Gads during the festival, along with other workshop presenters who will discuss the Scots and Irish influence in the Ozarks, traditional "Eureka Springs can look forward to a pretty unique act," said Adrian Walter, the band’s lead, who also teaches theatre and dance in Houston, Texas. "The audience will see that bagpipes can go way beyond funerals," he quipped. "It’s like a rock and roll unplugged bagpipe theatre show without a plot. We do a fully audience integrated show that goes against the usual band formula." Tartanic will be right at home with the Eureka Springs culture. How does one describe Tartanic? "hnagine one dancer, six drums, six drones, 18 notes, fast fingers, high comedy, flying bagpipes, taste-defying stunts, scorching hot music played at over 120 beats per minute with driving speed and high volume, all brought to you by five men without pants." Also on the bill with Tartanic is Beth Patterson, Celtic singer-songwriter from Ne~v Orleans. Patterson, whose sound and style has been compared to Loreena McKennitt, also performs on Saturday night at the City Auditorium with Ed Miller and with Rowan, a traditional Celtic trio from Kansas who ANNOUNCING 2007 D VERSITY WEEKEND DATES Eureka 8pdngs, Arkansas VALENTINE’S DIVERSITYWEEKEND Friday, Feb 16, 2007 - Sunday, Feb 18, 2007 SPRING DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, April 13, 2007 - Sunday, April 15, 2007 SUMMER DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Aug 3, 2007 - Sunday Aug 5, 2007 FALL DIVERSITY WEEKEND Friday, Nov 2, 2007 - Sunday, Nov 4, 2007 For more information go to: www.diversitypride.com 12 the STAR w~v.ozarksstar.com in the morning and stress at night; stress is that thing I just can’t fight. Or can you? Happiness is knowing that you can control the impact stress has on your life. This is important since stress has been linked to 70% of all illnesses. In addition, stress is directly related to negative health behaviors such as alcohol and drug abuse, and to psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression. This is no good my friends! Pay close attention and I’ll make it all feel better! Most stress is caused by inadequate time management. What do you want out of life? Write it all down on paper and then go back and prioritize. You can’t do it all so you will need to leave some of the items on the editing floor. Make a schedule of what you want to do each day or week and then stick to this schedule like a dutiful liege. Monitor this schedule and make changes accordingly as time marches on. It sounds so doggone simple but most of you do not listen to this sage advice. YOu watch American Idol when you should be washing the dishes or you gossip ad infinitum with Patty and Selma when you should be giving the dog his much needed bath. Don’t waste time on this pettiness unless of course you like this pettiness and it is part of your schedule. When you don’t prioritize and you try to force 36 hours into a 24 hour day, the first item up for sale is sleep. Did you know that lions sleep about 20 hours each day. ~lhat is quite fascinating but you will not need exactly that much of the forty winks! The average human adult needs between seven and eight hours of repose per night. You might believe you can maintain much less sleep than that each evening but stress will eventually get the better of you over the years. The Grim Reaper wilt just bide his time. The following are numerous suggestions for pleasant dreams: 1) Go to bed at the same time each night. 2) Don’t exercise right before bedtime. 3) Avoid eating meals shortly before lights out. A light snack is fine. 4) Do not watch TV in the bedroom. 5) Sleep in a cooler than normal room. 6) Avoid excessive alcohol. It causes restless sleep. All work and no play make Jack a dull boy! You don’t exactly want to emulate Jack Torrance at the Overlook Hotel. I could spout off a whole slew of abominable statistics and enlighten you on how much more that people are now working than they were fifty years ago. But I won’t. You are certainly keenly aware of this situation. When time is at a premium, the factors most neglected are personal health, relationships with the kiddies, and marriage or romantic time with the significant other. Recreation and leisure should be important components of your daily schedule. Why do you think the Japanese live so long? They work so much less than us Americanos and they love their play time. You can make your millions by the age of 40 but it ain’t gonna help ya if the stress sends ya packing early for that plot of land in Boot Hill. Be sure to factor in some moderate sessions of shenanigans along life’s yellow brick road! There are several relaxation techniques that might help you push your stress to the back of the line. The nominees for outstanding relief methods are the quick fix, prayer, and positive thinking. The quick fix means taking a five minute time out from the rat race. Go to a quiet spot, loosen your clothing, remove your shoes, and shut your eyes. Inhale deeply for about five seconds and then exhale slowly for about ten seconds. Repeat this several times. Now mentally picture something pleasant like a lake, a cloud, or Jamaica. Keep relaxing and breathe deeply. After five minutes, stretch briefly and head back to the real world with renewed vi.gor. The next technique is prayer. Studies have indicated that prayer can decrease blood pressure and can be a tremendous source of comfort. Prayer can provide confidence to function more effectively and thus reduce stress from your rigors of life. Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, Protestant, Wiccan, or Taoist. It makes no difference. Try embracing the power of prayer. Finally there remains positive thinking. This is simple but not always followed. Do whatever it takes to create a positive mood when you have excessive stress. You do not want to dwell on any negative feelings. Always picture the positive side of life. Those that do this are those who prosper. Stress can be indeed harmful; stress can be quite a mighty hell; Stress ye now know must be managed for ye to be well! Ron Blake is a Certified Personal Trainer and Owner of Blake Fitness in Phoenix. He can be reached at 480-241-5651 or on the web at www.blakefitness.com. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 13 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. was . osepb Beam? African-American author and activist Joseph Beam secured his place in GLBT literary history as the editor of In the Life, a groundbreaking anthology of works by black same-gender-loving men. Beam was born December 30, 1954, in Philadelphia. With his working-class parents struggling to ensure that their only child received a good education, he attended Catholic preparatory and high schools, where he was one of only a few black students. He later studied journalism at Franklin College, a small Baptist college in Indiana. Influenced by the civil rights and Black Power movements, he was an active member of the Black Student Union. After graduating in 1976, he pursued a Master’s degree in communications and stayed in the Midwest, working at odd jobs for a few years, before returning to his native city. Back in Philadelphia in the early 1980s, Beam got a job at Giovanni’s Room, a GLBT bookstore. He began writing news articles, personal essays, poetry, and short stories for publications such as _The Advocate, Body Politic, Gay Community News, and the New York Native, Much of his work reflected on the life experiences of black gay men, criticizing both the racism of the mainstream white gay and lesbian movement and the homophobia of the black community. In 1984, the Lesbian and Gay Press Association honored him with an award for outstanding achievement by a minority journalist. Beam also maintained ongoing correspondence with prisoners, which he later attributed to his "deep sense ofmy own imprisonment as a closeted gay m,an and an oppressed Black man." Having ensconced himself in the GLBT literary scene - and having met numerous 14 the STAR authors and community leaders - Beam was disappointed about the lack of black male voices. \York by white gay writers addressed three camps, he claimed: "the incestuous literati of Manhattan and Fire Island, the San Francisco cropped-moustache-clones, and the Boston-to-Cambridge politically correct radical faggots. None of them spoke to me as a Black gay man." While some of the leading lights of the Harlem Renaissance - such as Langston Hughes, Countee Cullen, and Richard Bruce Nugent - were knoxvn or believed to have been {gay or bisexual, Beam found that contemporary xvorks by black samegender- loving men were fexv and far between. "By mid-1983 1 had grown weary of reading literature by xvhite gay men," he xvrote. "More and more each day, as I looked around the xvell-stocked shelves of Giovanni’s Room...I wondered xvhere xw~s the work of Black gay men." Beam therefore began collecting material for his pioneering anthology, in many cases nurturing the budding talents of men who had never before ~vritten for publication. He said that In the Life, published by Alyson Publications in 1986, spoke for "the brothers whose silence has cost them their sanitT," as well as the "2,500 brothers who have died of AIDS." Beam regarded the book as a tool for organizing and community building. His oxvn essa}; "Brother to Broti~er," extolled friendship, love, and eroticism among black men as a means of self-affirmation and group solidarity in the face of the pain and anger that arose from dealing xvith a xvhite GLBT movement that failed to address the concerns of people of color, and a heterosexual black community, that refused to accept queer men. "I cannot go home as xvho I am and that hurts me deeply," he wrote. "Aren’t aH hearts and fists and min~ds needed in this struggle or will this faggot be tossed into the fire?" and relieving Black women Dom the role of primary nurturers in our commmxity;" he wrote. "For too tong we have expected from Black women that which we could only obtain from other men...I dare us to dream that we are xvorth wandng each other. Black men loving Black men is the revolutionary act of the eighties." One source of inspiration for Beam xvas the work of black lesbian feminist writers such as Audre Lorde. "I dream of Black men loving and supporting other Black men, An activist as well as an author, Beam worked as a consultant for the Gay and Lesbian ~ask Force of tile American Friends Service Committee. He helped resurrect the flagging National Coalition of Black Lesbians and Gays - originally founded in 1978 - joining the executive committee and editing the organization’s journal, Black/Out. Beam died of complications related to AIDS in December 1988, just three days shy of his 34th birthday. Though his life was brief, Beam’s influence was far-reaching. He served as both an inspiration and a mentor, promoting the idea that "visibility is survival." After his death, Beam’s mother and his fi-iend Essex Hemphill completed a second anthology of black gay men’s writing, _Brother to Brother_ (1991), which Beam was working on xvhen he died. Hemphill also remembered Beam in a memorial poem, "When My Brother Fell": He burned out his pure life force to bring us a chance to love ourselves... Forfiwther reading: Beam, Joseph (ed.). 1986. _in the Life:A Black Gay Anthologo,_ (Alyson). Harris, E. Lynn (ed.). 2004. _Freedom in this Village: Twenty-Five Years ofBlack Gay 2]/Ien’s Writing_ (Carroll & Graf). Hemphill, Essex (ed.). 1991. _Brother to Brother: New IN’itings by Black Gay Men_ (Alyson). www.ozarksstar.corn NEW CENTER OPENS gH S MONgH It’s been a long journe?; but the finish line is in sight. O-klahomans for Equality (OkEq) xvill open the permanent Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 621 E. 4th Street, this month January 2007. The new Center, at 18,000 square feet, is one of the largest in the nadon and will be filled with nexv OkEq community programs, meeting rooms and spaces for community organizations, reception areas, educational, legal 8¢ xvellness services, the Events Center and much more! You’ll be xvelcomed in the Robert S. Cisar Lobby. With 14’ beamed ceilings, the front hall of the nexv Center features the reception area, an expanded Pride Store, OkEq offices and the original safe of the 1920’s building. Adjacent to the front hall is the Great Halt. The Great Hall " the living room" for the community is approximately 1,800 square foot of open space. A great space for receptions, parties and more, complete xvith a ~tchen, the space is a warm and inviting environment for the communi~: Through the rear lobby and to the right are the Gallery and Conference Rooms. With community groups and organizations in mind, the Gallery and Conference Room can hold small, medium and large groups. You’ll be surrounded by the art of coinmunity members in the Gallery while the Community Room features a floor to ceiling glass wall. Come up the elevator in the rear lobby and you xvill arrive in the Recreation Lounge. Around the corner, you’ll be welcomed into an expanse for the communits: The Nancy &Joe McDonald Rainboxv Library features over 3,000 GLBT tides. A new xveekly Legal Clinic and Counseling office is adjacent to the library. The David Bohnett CyberCenter has 10, flat-screen, DSL computer stations free to the public. The nexv, light-filled \Vellness Center, with planned yoga and meditation session and dance lessons \vill feature many new additional programs for the communi~: Past a relaxing lounge next to the Cyber- Center is the KidsCorner. Featuring xvritable walls and a mural, KidsCorner also has an interior window to keep watch of your little ones. You’ll see history on display in the Dennis Neill &John Southard History Project Room, as well as be able to look-over historical documents. The Health Testing office offers free HIV testing 3 times per xveek xvhile syphilis testing is offered once a month. The Community Office Area xvill xvelcome small desk/office areas for organizations, as well as a meeting space. The sumptuous Board Room, loo-king out over 4th Street can easily seat 12 to 25 indMduals. And there is still another 8,000 square feet! Back on the street level is the Events Center. Able to seat nearly 200 people for a luncheon or dinner, the nearly 3,000 square foot space comes complete xvith a catering kitchen, a separate entry, facilities and a clerestory windoxv nearly the len~h of the space. The Kenosha Suite, xvith approximately 1,500 sq. ft. of space and the 4th Street frontage of 3,000 sq. ft. of retail space xvill help invigorate the East End of downtown Tulsa. The nexv year of 2007 xvelcomes a nexv home, a new name and nexv direction for OHahomans for Equality. We xvelcome you to visit the new community center, 621 E. 4th Street in downtown Tulsa, be involved xvith your community and join us as we continue our 26-year history of working for GLBT equality. Oldahomans for Equality (OkEq) seeks equal rights for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. Our House, Too offers a vadety of activities for people who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. We provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV+ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves. We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. ,J VmNW.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 CaVe.net Cabernet Sauvignon is grown in many regions where red wine is made: Southern France, Spain, Italy, Bulgaria and Rumania in Europe; Argentina, Chile, Australia, New Zealand, South Africa and California in the New World. Wherever it is grown you find reliable, quality, drinkable wines. Cabernet Sauvignon is at the heart of most Bordeaux red wines, often blended with Merlot; they are the benchmark against which other producers judge their products. At the upper end of the market, the Bordeaux chateaux, such as Margaux and Haut-Brion, reign supreme, but there is increasing competition from Australia and California. At the bottom end of the market, Bordeaux is struggling to compete. Examples from Latin America, Australia and Eastern Europe consistently offer an excellent drinking experience and value for money. Cabernet Sauvignon is a fairly small, thick skinned, tannic, dark red grape that crops well in suitable growing conditions. It survives cold winters and well-drained soils but does need adequate sunshine in order to ripen fully. ~he grape’s thick skin makes it resistant to spoiling by rain and attack by insects, around harvest time, which helps to ensure ripeness before picking and to maintain yields. ~-he predominant flavor is blackcU~i but it also can exhibit black cherry, cedar, leather and tobacco notes, depending on where it is grown. Because of its high tannin content, it has good ageing potential (five to ten years) and is often matured in oak barrels to enhance the flavor. ~-he effect of contact with oak modifies the tannin structure, leading to smoother, elegant, more complex wines. Whether as a varietal or blended with Merlot, Sangiovese, Shiraz or Zinfandel, Cabernet Sauvignon is always a popular choice for informed lovers of red wine. Foods that pair well with Cabernet Sauvignon: duck, spicy beef, pate, rabbit, roasts, spicy poultry, cheddar, blue cheese, sausage, kidneys, pasta with tomato sauce and foods that are meaty, pungent or spicy. This year there are some exceptional Cab’s out there this year including; Chateau St Jean Cinq Cepages 2000 Justin Justification Paso Robles 2003 Irony Napa 2002 Beringer Napa 2002 Snoqualmie Columbia Valley 2004 Visit your favorite wine shop, bring a bottle & a dish and we’ll see ya there!! Devre 1 6 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Past m this tiny and we do m~fi TINY ~ommfinity mVfi; kitchen j( they prepare the food. [[he so ~’0~ V[,ilt leave full. Karl and In the afternoons, they bake flesh pasrry/pk One night they drove us m Bisbee which is about 20 miles away. Bisbee is a very old mining town that has a lot of character. We dined at the Striped Stocking and had a wonderful evening. Bisbee ~s lust a very small town but has a very" active gay population. 1o800o535oAIDS (2437) minute OraQuick Test * Free Syphillis screening at the GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-Spin H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Outreach Program Tulsa at {918) 812-7045 18 the STAR www.ozarksstar.c0m to P pnngs By Donald Pile and Ray Williams ings begiIi on Valentine~ Da?; FebruaD, rants in .~nerica and we certainly agree. Friday- Febru;apt 16, 2007 4 pm to 5:30 pm - Readings at the Melvyr~ is open ~br hmch Monday thru Friday from 11:30 to 3pro. Quee~ 0fHeart~ Hotel. Dinner is served daily 6 to 1 lpm. Lhampagn~ Brunch is served Saturday 2 February 17, 2007 3 pm - Book Signing at the Pepper- Saturday a,~d Sunday 9am to 3 pm. "Ilaeir web site is: www.inglesi- tree Bookstore. deim~.com. For reservations call (760)325-2323. Please contact Joanna or Denise ~br Reservations and information: By E-maiI: Casitas@CasitasLaquita.com Phone: 760) 416-9999 - Toll Free: (877) 203-3410 w~,,~v.ozarksstar.com the STAR 19 Fringing the ocean, Starwood Iqotels’g[amorolls andgay-J}iendly Atlantic resort has been a keyfeature ofFort Lauderdale’s stunning redevelopment. (P,~oto by Andrew Collins) January 2007 \vgith progressive attitudes on social issues and a spirited, chic style that evokes Paris, Rome, and New York City, buoyant Buenos Aires has become the GLBT capital of Latin America. In this distinctly European-feeling city, the worlds of high fashion, haute cuisine, and tango come together, and an unstable economy has become a boon for visitors from other nations, because it’s led to favorable foreign-currency exchange rates. Indeed, what was not long ago the most expensive capital city in South America has become one of the cheapest major metropolises in the world. This city of nearly 3 million (12 million live in the metro region) sits along the southern bank of the Rio de la Plata, a wide estuary that forms the border between Argentina and Uruguay. Spanish conquistadors established a foothold here in the early 1500s, and the city retains close ties to Europe - many _Portenos_ (as residents are known) have Spanish and Italian lineage, and significant numbers also trace their roots to Germany, Great Britain, Russia, and France. This is very much an international destination, and Buenos Aires has fol!owed the lead of many European cities by actively courting GLBT tourists (the tourism office produces an excellent gay brochure and map) and legalizing same-sex civil unions. North Americans are sometimes deterred from traveling to Buenos Aires by steep airfares (which typically range from around $800 to $1,200 round-trip), but once you’re actually in Argentina, the cost of travel is so amazingly low that you can easily spend less on a vacation here than you would in western Europe or the Caribbean. Also consider that during slower times, some airlines’ frequent flyer programs offer round-trip flights here for as few as 40,000 miles offpeak (typically March through May and again mid-August through November, which are perfectly pleasant times to visit). Prices for most goods - as well as food and cocktails, taxis, electronics, and many other items - are generally 40 to 70 percent less than in the United States. Look for especially great deals on leather goods (from wallets to jackets), and enjoy the shockingly low prices of fine steaks and wines (two products for which Argentina is justly renowned) at great restaurants. Buenos Aires (aka B.A.) is a sprawling city, but because cabs are easy to hail on the street and extremely inexpensive, they’re a very practical way to make your way around. This is also a generally safe and enjoyable city to explore on foot. The central neighborhoods of Microcentro, Congreso, and Retiro are typical business and commerce centers, and nearby Recoteta is a wealthy hub of high-end hotels and ritzy apartment towers. In these areas you’ll find many of the city’s top museums, performing arts venues, and political buildings, but you need to venture farther afield to get to know gay B.A. Start xvith a walk through Barrio Norte, a busy and bustling district with a sizable gay presence and loads of fine clothing, home-fur- ¯ nishings, and electronics stores along the main drag, Avenida Santa Fe. The most charming neighborhoods for exploring, however, are Palermo and the adjacent Palermo Viejo - the latter has the most pronounced GBLT presence in Buenos Aires. Narrow cobblestone streets lined with uber-chic boutiques, snazzy wine bars, Euro-inspired cafes, and offbeat galleries abound in both neighborhoods. but particularly in Palermo Viejo. Another district with gay cachet is San Telmo, which is close to downtmvn and whose elegantly faded 19th-century buildings, many of them former tenements, now contain a fabulous array of antiques dealers plus a growing number of hip restaurants. Among the many superb restaurants in Palermo Viejo, don’t miss Bar Uriarte, a sexy lounge with a convivial garden in back and outstanding brick-oven pizzas and innovative tapas; and Mott, a gorgeous, minimalist restaurant with high ceilings, stylish decor, and fantastic wines and healthful, light food. The beautifully modern space occupied by Miranda Restaurant fills up each evening with devotees of the kitchen’s delicious steaks and chops. Freud & Fabler is an intimate place that’s a great bet for creative Mediterranean-inspired fare, and sleek Olsen has earned a loyal following for both its intriguing people-watching and delicious Scandinavian food (there’s also a huge vodka selection). If you’re just looking for a spot with free Wi-Fi and light breakfast and lunch fare, stop by gay-popular Mark’s Deli, a dapper little place with a pretty garden, or old-world Bartok, a graceful Euro-style coffeehouse with 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com sidewalk seating overlooking the edge of busy Plaza Palermo Viejo. Bartok serves tasty salads, sandwiches, and desserts. Other gustatory highlights around Buenos Aires - and this is just a tiny sampling - include Milion, an uber-modern resto-lounge in Barrio Norte, and Bond, one of the gay-friendliest of the many excellent restatlrants in snazzy Recoteta, serving an eclectic menu of sushi, Mediterranean-inspired tapas, and modern Argentinean fare. To sample the tender steaks for which Argentina is known, head just around the corner to E1 Mirasol, which is tourist}, but absolutely dependable for outstanding beef. Owned by the same talented folks who operate Bar Uriarte, Gran Bar Danzgn is one of Recoleta’s trendiest wine bars, serving outstanding Continental and Latino food, too. As expected in a large, gay-friendly metropolis, Buenos Aires has a vibrant nightlife scene, although maW bars and clubs are only popular on certain nights of the week. It’s best to ask around to learn which are likely to be busy (or even open) on a given evening - also keep in mind that most places don’t get going until 2 or 3 in the morning (although they often remain busy until dawn). The majority of B.A.’s "gay" nightlife options draw a mix not only ofwomen and men but, in many cases, gays and straights - this is a city where folks ftom all walks of life seem to revel quite happily together. Some of the larger dance clubs include the aptly named GLAM in Barrio Norte, long-running Contramano in Recoleta, and see-andbe- seen Alsina in the Monserrat district. More intimate yet still highly popular bars and lounges worth checking out are Kim y Noyak, a cozy and stylish Palermo Viejo hangout that also serves good food; Sitges, which is also in Palermo Viejo and presents lively drag shows; and Bach Bar, a mostly lesbian spot in Barrio Norte. Buenos Aires also has a few bathhouses, the most popular being Buenos Aires A Full, in Barrio Norte. Prices of accommodations in Buenos Aires vary wildly, as the large and often very impressive international hotels, which appeal to business travelers and well-heeled tourists, tend to charge rates comparable to those in other major world capitals. Among the city’s best high-end hotels, the relatively new Park Hyatt, which opened in 2006, is an absolute treasure, its rooms sleekly and artfully designed, and its restaurants, courtyard patio, wine-and-cheese bar, and spa all top-notch. The Hyatt’s well-trained, thoughtful staffwhisks about, tending to guests’ every need. In the same neighborhood of Recoleta, the classic Alvear Palace Hotel has been serving discerning travelers since it opened in 1932 - the elegant rooms are among the largest in the city. In Palermo Viejo, Bo Bo is a smart boutique hotel with moderately priced, avant-garde rooms and an excellent restaurant popular with models and celebs. The intimate FIVE hotel contains - despite its name - 16 rooms, each done with handsome, contemporary furnishings, but the big draw here are the extensive common areas, including a lovely rooftop sundeck with great city views and a hot tub. Charming owner Adriana Teplixke and her knowledgeable staff can recommend great places to shop and eat, and rates here are quite reasonable, beginning around $100 nightly. If you’re on a budget, consider Palermo Viejo’s absolutely wonderful, gay-owned Bayres B&B, where it feels like staying vdth kind (and knowledgeable) friends in their simple but pleasant home. Rates (which run from $35 to $65 per night) include full breakfast, and there’s free high-speed Intemet and cable TV in every room, and private or shared bathrooms. Considering that Bayres costs hundreds less per night less than some of the city’s fanciest hotels, it’s truly an amazing bargain. Aiad with the money you save on rooms, you can invest in such heady pleasures as haute couture and cuisine - if you’re a serious shopper, bring along an empty suitcase to fill with your bounty. Owasse Community Theatre Opens The New Year With "StuaR Little" OWASSO, OK__Rehearsals have begun for the O~vasso Community Theatre’s presentation of Stuart Little by E.B. White, and performance dates have been scheduled for January 19-21 and 25- 27, 2007 at the Mary Glass Performing Arts Center in Owasso. All performances will occur at 7:00PM except the matinee on January 21st which will occur at 2:00PM. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 JANUARY 2007 "Resolve to Take Action" Well, it’s 2007, but many of us will probably be dating our checks 2006 for weeks to come. Old habits - 365 days worth - die hard, but soon the 2007 mental pathway will be established, and our dating habits (the written ones, anyway) will be corrected. Looking back, 2006 was quite a year. LOGO, the gay cable network, and the National Lesbian and Gay Journalists Association came up with their top 10 stories. It’s an interesting but not too surprising list, including everything from Outgames/Gay Games to Soulforce’s Equality Ride to Oscar coming out on Brokeback Mountain to Ted Haggard falling on his face (let alone from grace) to Mark Foley’s page folly to the Dems bringing democracy, back to Capitol Hill. I’m not about to rehash and recap - you can go to LOGOonline. corn and watch the four-part series complete with music, graphics, and Jason Bellini as anchor. My thoughts are on our future - what 2007 has in store for the community and for me, and even better, what we have in store for 2007. Personally; once the cast comes offmy ruptured right bicep tendon (when you’re almost 49, playing with the dog can be dangerous), I plan to segue physical therapy into future trips the gym. I’m one of those dykes who can put on weight just by thinking about it, and as I start my ascent to 50 1 really want to try and get back into some sort of shape. If any of you girls (or guys) have suggestions or secrets to share, just let me know. I’m open. Also, 2007 gives me the opportunity to tell my partner, Lynn, how much she means to me. Let your partner know how you feel, too - how important they are to you, how dreary your life wonld be without them, how much you love them. The new year also gives all of us the opportunity to let our family, friends, neighbors, and colleagues know how much our partners mean to us. I’m not talking about being all mushy all the time at work or at family gatherings. I am talking about being clear about your life, who you live with, how you identify. If there was ever a year to come out and build on our achievements, this is it. The more that people know us and feel connected with us, the more likely they are to stand beside us as allies and fight for our rights. It’s all about building relationships and normalizing straight people’s perceptions ofwho we are. With a new Congress (let’s all pray for Sen. Tim Johnson’s [D-S.D.] full recovery), and the president’s final two years in a death spiral, the ability for the LGBT community to make real change is within our reach. If a lesbian can get elected to the Alabama State House, anything is possible - ifwe put our minds to it. "lhis is the year we could overtnrn "don’t ask, don’t tell." It’s the year we could get the federal nondlscrn-nmauon act and mclus~ve hate-crimes legislation passed. It’s the year we could see our national organizations ~vorldng in tandem on the issues that concern us the most. It’s the year we could see real progress on our issues. But for al! of that to happen this year, next year, or beyond, we, as a community, have to support the organizations that represent us. "lhat support could be a check to your local community center and!or to your statewide organization and/or to the national organization of choice. If we are to move forward in 2007, we must put LGBT human and financial capital to work. This is also the year for us to point out the lies of the radical Christian right and hold them accountable for their ,vords. After Mary Cheney announced in early December that she was pregnant, _Time_ magazine asked Focus on the Family’s James Dobson to write an opinion piece. In his usual homophobic, antigay- family way, Dobson - like other radical Christians - chastised Mary for bringing a child into the world without a dad. To back up his arguments, he cited the academic work of feminist scholar Carol Gilligan and Yale School of Medicine’s Kyle Pruett, M.D. Instead of just dismissing Dobson’s rantings as those of a rattled homophobe, Wayne Besen ofTruth Wins Out contacted both scholars and asked them to repudiate this nse of their work. °II~ey did. Time’s embarrasment led the mag’s editors to ask Jennifer Chrisler of Fainily Pride to write a response. Her piece debunked Dobson’s dithering about how a kid needs a mommy and daddy more than she or he needs love. Besen plans to keep the heat on Dobson and others like him with his new website, xw~vw.dobsonlies.org. Join Besen, and kick off 2007 vdth some action - write Time’s editor, Patrick Smith (patrick_smith@timemagazine.com), and tell him that if his magazine is going to let the right rant, it also has to make them prove their points with facts, not rely on the pseudo-fiction they’ve been parading behind. After that, tell your honey you love her or him, tell your neighbor you’re gay, write a check, and don’t ever forget how important you are in the next 365 days. Gayly O ahomar No Lor ger Pr r t TULSA, OK The publisher of the 24 year old Oklalxoma GLBT news paper, Andrew Hicks, announced in the December 15th issue that the Gayly was shutting down their print version and going digital. "\V,/e ~vant to take the Gayly into the future and onto new levels and fulfill a vision that has kept this paper alive for nearly 25 years. The world is changing and our need for information is changing with it." Hicks said. The on-line operation is due to be up and running this month. For more information go to: wv~v.gayly.com 22 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com GAY R GHTS ADVOCATE & LOBBYIST KErFH SMITH PASSES AWAY AT AGE 51 OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__Keith Smith died at Integris Hospital from pneumonia on Monday, November 20. Up until the time of his death he had been a tireless lobbyist not only for gay rights for also environmental causes, reproductive freedom, and civil liberties. Lobbying clients included the Sierra Club, Planned Parenthood, and the ACLU. He was also the co-chair of the Central Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats as well as a national board member A memorial service was held in the rotunda of the Oklahoma State Capitol, and speakers honoring him included ne~vly elected State Representative AI McAffre); State Senators Andrew Rice and Bernest Cain, former Governor David Waiters, Native American Rights activist Kalyn Free, Oklahoma ACLU Executive Director Joann Bell & his dear friend, Linda Gray Murphy. A native of Alva, Oklahoma, he is survived by his mother Berda Murrow, and three brothers, Craig, Kurt and Kyle Smith. www.ozarksstar.com FROZEN CRANBERRIES 2. Stir well. 3. Chill for at least 1 hour. When ready to serve... 4. Chill martini glasses with ice and water, 5. Add club soda to mixture. 6. Pour into martini glasses and enjoy. HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU ! The STAR 23 Congratulations Lawanda Jackson Miss Gay Oklahoma US of A 2007 by Victor Gorin Photo: Center LawandaJackson Miss Oklahoma US ofA 2007 & 1st runnerup Alexia" Nicole OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Copa was filled with excitement as the pageant for Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA came together in all its glory December 7-10. A pageant of Ragfin Productions, this marked the 20th anniversary of the event. Promoted by Regie Finley (a.k.a. Raghenna, Miss Oklahoma US ofA 1990) the show featured Alyssa Edwards, the current reigning Miss Gay US of A. It was emceed by Rachael Erikks (former Miss Gay Oklahoma & America)& Reghenna herself, and their campy wit kept it lively. The winners were 2nd Alternate Victoria Weston, 1 st runner-up Alexis Nicole Whimey, and Lawanda Jackson was crowned the new Miss Gay Oklahoma US ofA. Both Lawanda and Alexis Nicole will go on to compete for the national title in Dallas May 22-25 of next year. w~#v.ozarksstar.corn the STAR 25 Salutations and ~velcome to Uncle Mikey 2007! Yes Kittens, it ~vas a holiday triumph once more Kittens, as yours truly entertained, touched, and brought holiday warmth to those around me. According to the lucky, Uncle did all three. As we usher in the New Year, allow us to unite, if only for a moment in holiday cheer. Uncle Mikey, Why do so many people turn the holidays into future stories of drunken escapades? Doesn’t anyone take time to enjoy the true meaning of the season? Holiday-Cheer Dearest Cheer, Kitten, the holiday,s mean something different to everyone. For some it is a deep and meaningful time of their personal faith celebration. W~ile others, look at it as a time for friends and family, We cannot cheapen it by taking away from someone’s personal holiday meaning. Uncle sees the holidays as a bit different still yet. Christmas time for me is a time of white mink against the skin, while given a reason to dress hunk-a-licious men in red, green, and sliver holiday strings. Kitten; just remember that everyone has his or her own reason for the season! Smooches Mikey. Uncle Mikey, I thought I was going to get a commitment ring for Christmas and instead found that my partner is not as ready as I thought after all. It has been a year and still no advancement in the elevation of this relationship. Should I lClnd someone who is as ready as I, or hope that he will come around? Still Looking for Bling--Bling Dearest Bling, Can I get an amen? Uncle Mikey never committed to awthing less than two carats! Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I was out at a club during my Christmas break from school, when I ran into an old flame from High School. We hooked up and spent some time together. I though we had renewed some old feelings for one another, however, the only thing he left me with was a cold release, when he went back to school, leaving me in the dust. Should I confront him? Trick Played Dear played, ~ Kitten, it could have been worse, he could have left you with the gift that keeps giving, clap on--clap off. Uncle says count your blessing and remember it for what it obviously was, a holiday romance. Smooches Mikey Kittens: We all can find drama in our life ifwe try, however the one thing that we seem to forget is that we allow the drama in our life to begin with. You were home from school, lonely during the Christmas rush, and jumped onto stallion number one. You rode him straight through break, only to complain at the dismount. Kitten, selfanalazation might point out that we only deal with what we allow ourselves too. ~-hink about it, you wanted deep penetrating! Well this is as deep as it gets. Smooches Uncle Mikey Uncle Mikey, I started dating this guy a while ago, and while I do enjoy his company for the most part, I think it is that I am more afraid of being alone than being annoyed. It is not that I am a loser. It is that I do not lie to myself. I am not the most intelligent, or even the most desirable. Therefore, my question is this; is it wrong to settle? Only the lonely Dearest Lonely, Kitten Kitten, get off the cross because Madonna needs the wood! It is a shame to hear someone cutting oneself. It is not the package that sells the gift, it is the gift that makes the package. Kitten, we all begin with the simple package that the Gay Gods deliver to us. We make our identity. If you want to look better, it’s called a gym. Want to be a scholar, it’s called education. Want to improve your attitude, It’s called therapy, Bottom line kittens, it is all about self-help in a self-serving world. You can be a player or you can be played. No Kitten, it is not wrong to settle, it is a self-defeating cop out! Smooches Mikey Dear Uncle Mikey, I caught my boyfriend in a lie. After I asked him if he was talking to people on the PC after I was in the bed, I decided to check for myself. I looked and found cookies left from him visiting the infamous site where they pick up booty calls. I didn’t’*=want to tell him I had been dipping into his business so I waited. Well, sure enough he told me that he had to be away on business overnight. After following him to the motel, it was clear what his business was. I have just been sick wondering what to do. Any advice for the betrayed? Seeing Red Dearest Red, Stalk-much? Kitten, a relationship is not worth it if you have to mistrust their every move. Kitten, I would strongly recommend some professional guidance here. I don’t mean spy gear either. Kitten, relationships are only as productive as the players in them. Ifyou feel that yours is not what you want, may I suggest the emergency exit! Smooches Mikey Well, like the trick in the alley, I must slide out once more. Kittens, here is to a New Year- May all of your dreams come true. Wishing you all a very Queer New Year! 26 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com and Combread 2pm, Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: -"?’Fell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest 12am BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro xvear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: \~ieD" Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart~lburnament 10pm CLUB IVlAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \X;dl drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart’l~3urnament i 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro CLUB ROX: Alison Scott, 9:30pro PEC’S: Mate Dancers, 9pm THE ROCKIES: OGRA Benefit Show 8:30pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest t2am XgCEDNESDA?f Januaq~" !0 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro PEC’S: ~Tell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pm. THE COPA: Variety Show !0:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart’Iburnament 10pm THO~DA~~ Jarmary il CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erild~s PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart %urnament ! 0pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast But})t 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBoo LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pro, Dancers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Shmv 8:30pro. CLUB ~JESTIC: Catia Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: I~chael Erik~ Show ! 0:30pm MONDAY Jauuary 15 BAblBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-Tpm TUESDAY January 16 ..... PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pro wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pro PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pro wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show w/Rachael Erikks PEC’S: Well drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent w/Shemoane Somemore 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: KarbOkie host, Pancho 9pm THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pm CLUB ROX: Mison Scott Shm~X):30pm CLUB MAJESTIC: Majestic Kings Shmv 10pro. THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: 50’s-60’s Sock Hop, BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dancers 4pro Kris Kohl Show 8pm CLUB ROX: Whimey Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: Rachael Erikks Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinher Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pro. PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-OffContest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: ICaraoke 9pro PEC’S: \Vell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament t 0pro CLUB MAJESTIC: Talent Show wl Rachael Erikks PEC’S: \Yell drinks 2.50 from 7-9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Open Talent xvlShemoaue Somemore 10:30pro FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro LEDO: Kari-Okie host, Pancho 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pm GUSHERS: Late Night Breakfast Buffet 1 am-3:30am PEC’S: Male Dancers, 9pro BAMBOO LOUNGE: Free Brunch 2pm, Dimcers 4pm CLUB ROX: Whitney Paige Show 8:30pro. CLUB MAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pro THE COPA: tLachael Eril~&~ Show 10:30pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Christmas Dinnet Served 3pro. Karaoke 9pm. THE ROCKIES: Beer Bust 4pm-7pm PEC’S: V&ll drinks 2.50 from 7- 9pm wear leather. THE COPA: Stip-Off Contest Midnight. BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 9pm PEC’S: \Veil drinks 2.50 from 7-gpm wear leather. TNT’S: Karaoke 9pro. THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: Dart Tournament 10pro ~.ozarksstar.com the STAR 27 "Expect arguments, Sagittarius! ...... Sun and Mercury lining up in Capricorn clash with Saturn in Leo, making egos more important than actual ideas. Remember, you’re more often right if you can admit when you’re wrong! The open mind and humble ego will win in the long run. ARIES (r,~arch 20 o Apri~ 19): Your sense of your own brilliance may lead you to trust in a triumph of your will, but your confidence is a bit inflated and can get you into big trouble. Handle authority gently. Intuitive hunches will soon prove helpful. TAURUS (April 20 - IVlay 20): Tripping over your religious roots? Patriarchal authorities from childhood may still intimidate you or act out through you. See where that’s coming from and focus on humanitarian ideals to rise above it. GEi~IN~ (IVlay 21 - June 20): Your mouth is likely to get you into trouble, but the real problem is your ego. What do you need to prove? Shrewdly measured, carefully considered words will get the point across better, and holding back will nurture your genius. CANCER (June 21 - Ju~y 22): Fussing about debts, those you owe or those owed you, can damage a partnership or friendship. Get those accounts in order, but don’t gripe. A more philosophical approach to these relationships will prove helpful very soon. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Stressing out gets you into arguments with co-workers. Work smarter, not harder, and be nice about their suggestions - whatever you think of them. Success in that.area will help you look and feel sexier wherever you go. VlR60 (August 23 - September 22): If you start feeling old and cranky, try to make a game of it. Exaggerate your complaints whenever you can to make a joke of them. That will make it easier to put things in perspective and open up new opportunities for fun. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You are normally the world’s greatest hostess. Not this week. Put some energy into your community, but keep your home a private _sanctum sanctorum_. Don’t let pessimism get you down; focus that energy into sensible caution. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Your clever notions are likely to irritate your boss. In order to get ahead, soften and adjust your ideas to fit the boss’ thinking, but be ready to backpedal as necessary. Your innovations will be more welcome, and more effective, very soon. 28 the STAR SAG~TTARIUS (November 22 o December 20}: Philosophy and pragmatism are heading for a nasty collision. Your challenge is to stay true to your ideals and to apply them in the real world. It will take some severe adaptation. Expect arguments along the way, and be ready to learn from them! CAPRICORN (December 2t o January 19): A little leather or some dominance games can bring up more than you’ve bargained for. Play with someone you trust enough to step back and explore those issues with. Switch roles? Aggravating sexual problems will soon be easily discussed. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Problems in relationships are bugging you. Take time out to examine the issues, bur remember you can only make changes on your side of the equation. Some rigorous introspection can make others seem more reasonable. PISCES (February 19 - March t9): Your idea of being a good team player may depend too heavily on the notion that your ideas and leadership are best. Focus on humility and attention to others. Still, offer your input - just don’t push! SPIRIT OF CHRIST JOPUN, ~O FREE NIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appointment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30AM Your Invited to our Community Dinner Every Wed. 6pro just $4.00. No one is turned away. www.ozarksstar.com Arkansas, BentonvillelRogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org.........479-586-1062 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Sp~’ings (479) Diversity Pride Events .............. www.diversitypride.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main - - 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante.... 309 W VanBuren....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s 19 1/2 Spring St- - -479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill--- 105 E VanBuren........ 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton........ 17B Spring Street 479-981-6060 Tiki Torch 75 S. Main Street......... -479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 Condom Sense ........ 418 W. Dickson.......479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave...........479-521-0009 Passages ......930 N. College Ave- - -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads.......1004 1/2 Garrison Ave- 479-783-9988 Klub XLR8 ......1022 Dodson Ave........... 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (50t) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave ........501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street ....1021 Jessie Rd...............501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ................www.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd- -50!-666-6900 Sidetracks - - - 415 Main St - -North L.R., 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.-- 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave- 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway- 620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut- -Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40..... 3201 S. Hillside......316-682-5494 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg Dr- .316-942-1244 Club Glacier......... 2828 E. 31st South..... -316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (417) MCC Spirit o1: Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ......Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn....www.40thstreetinn.com.......816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Blvd ........ 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs -w~v.hydeskc.com -- 816-561-1010 Missie B’s....805 W. 39th St -816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge..... 424 Boonville Ave............. 417-831-4700 GLO Comm. Ctr- - -518 E. Commerical 417-869-3978 JR’s Nightclub.... 504 E. Commerical......... 417-83!-9001 Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive - -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place....821 College- 417-864-0036 Rumors---1109 E. Commercial- -417-873-2225 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books....104 Sunset 580-242-6838 Priscilla’s........ -4810-A West Garriott....... 580-233-5511 Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore..... 1124 NW Cache Rd......580-353-1488 Oklahoma, McAlester (918) McPride........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ......4015 N. Penn ......... 405-606-7000 Boom Room........ 2807 NW 36th St......... -405-601-7200 Border’s Books...... 3209 NW Expressway..... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse...... 4001 N. Penn 405-525-7766 Club Rox.......3535 NW 39th Expwy.........405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box.....3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms......3131 N. Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa.............2200 NW 39th Exp....... -405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy....... -405-525-0730 Gushers Restaurant.....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp....... 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp 405-947-2351 Hi-Lo Club ....... 1221 NW 50th- 405-843-1722 Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- 405-524-5733 Ledo.............2200 NW Expwy......... 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ........405-681-5044 Partners......... 2805 NW 36th St -405-942-2199 Pec’s- 3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Red Rock North--- 2240 NW39th St 405-525-5165 Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw..........405-947-2351 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- 405-601-3711 The Park. 2125 NW 39th St ...........405-528-4690 The Rockies...... 3201 N. MayAve ......... 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th -405-947-2351 Tramps- .2201 NW 39th .405-521-9888 Ziggy’s- - - 4005 N. Penn- -405-521-9999 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine -918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store--- 2740 E. 21st- 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 Club 209 209 N. Boulder- 918-584-9944 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston 918-584-9494 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan .918-835-3301 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI .........918-834-1051 GLBT Comm. Ctr- - - - 621 E. 4th Street.........918-743-4297 Hideaway Lounge..... 11730 E. 1 lth...........918-437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st - - 918-749-8378 Jazz’s Lounge...... 426 S. Memorial 9t8-836-8544 Midtown.......... 319 E. 3rd- 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave- 918-585-9552 Priscilla’s -7925 E. 41st.............918-627-4884 Priscilla’s 5634 W. Skelly - 918-446-6336 Priscilla’s 11344 E. 11th....918-438-4224 Priscilla’s 2333 E. 71st.............918-499-166t Renegades. 1649 S. Main 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd- 918-627-1505 St. Michaels Alley......3324-L E 31st- 918-745-9998 Sterling & Co. Salon---1606 E.15th St.- 918-742-9999 Titan’s Lounge .... 6373-C E 31st St- 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI.......... 918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd .918-592-1188 TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial- 9t 8-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th.......... 918-293-0304 NATHAN ANI~ RIBA WklOf9 NOW IN AN UNIT AT MOM~ AI~ YOU OKAY.~ HOW COM~ YOU~I~ IN A bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicate,com www,joanhilty,net 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com NWArkansas GLBT Community Center "Linking Together as One" For more information: WWV,7.NWAGLBTCC.ORG EMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNITY ADVERTI SI NES SALES F;~EPRES E NTATIVE FOR [~3KLAHOMA~ KANSAS MISSOURI OR ARKANSAS qualifications to ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net or mail to: 5103 S. Sheridan, #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, January 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 1 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Star Media, Ltd; Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Star Media, Ltd Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Greg Steele Josh Aterovis Douglas Glenn Michael Dee Kay Massey Paul Wortman Carlotta Carlisle Victor Gorin Greg Gatewood Libby Post Andrew Collins Donald Pile Ray Williams Michael Hinzman Jack Fertig Liz Highleyman Devre Jackson Chaz Ward Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image PDF Online text Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource magazine Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Southwest Missouri Western Arkansas Southeast Kansas Eastern Oklahoma The United States of America (50 states) Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/19 Relation A related resource The Star Magazine, December 1, 2006; Volume 3, Issue 12 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/225 The Star Magazine, February 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 2 https://history.okeq.org/items/show/205 Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/206 Advice Column AIDs Walk Bamboo Lounge Bitter Girls Bringing up Baby New Year CARES Chelsea Boys classifieds Club Rox Comic Strips Gay Marriage-Africa gay-crime Gay/Lesbian center H.O.P.E HIV/AIDs testing horoscopes Keith Smith Lawanda Jackson Lesbian Notions Loaves and Fishes Miss Gay Oklahoma mixology New Jersey-Gay marriage OUT in Arkansas Past Q Scope RAIN Star Distributors Star Scene The Gayly Oklahoman travel Tulsa GLBT community center news Uncle Mikey https://history.okeq.org/files/original/2ecfe27e3b12a46ac23e546dd3d695a3.jpg e31c8ee637ff9c4c0434722b76b424e1 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/980b4bf4c6f61ea9460b03d7d04ed456.pdf 911a580c27831471af397710af23436a PDF Text Text The �2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com �Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & D~VERSE market. Ca~ STAR AIDVERT~S~NG today. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 �Arkansas’s 1st. Film highlights how the two gay men met in the military, how they confronted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. I really haven’t changed, I’m still a vegetarian and a lesbian. What has changed is that people know everything about me so it’s not controversial anymore. q-he 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close ~vith an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the award-winning musical "Mamma Mia!" While the polite pickets of the mid!960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time ~vhen homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. A general characteristic of Sauvignon Blanc is its distinctive, penetrating aroma, which can evoke scents of grapefruit, lime, green melon, gooseberry, passion fruit, freshly mown grass, and bell pepper. Gay Travelers: Las Vegas, Nevada Out of Town: Martha’s Vineyard Dining In or OUT L~$E~I],~N NOTI;O~$ Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination of Dr. James W. Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. Pictorial review of Pride month in Oklahoma. STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS ON THE COVER: k. d. Lmag 4 the STAR CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY www.ozarksstar.com �Jim Roth-A Pioneer for Ok ahomds Centennial by James Nimmo Mr. Roth often says that his family goes beyond the biological and that officeholders should be held accountable by the voters for how well the job is done, not by who they love. OkJa omans for Equal Icon Honored Ttxe voters who elected Mr. Roth to his first term as county commissioner re-hired him with a 65% majority for a second term. The 2008 election will be important for Mr. Roth as he will be required to run a statewide campaign for election to complete the remaining two-year term and, again in 2010 for a full six-year term. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___Oklahoma celebrates its centennial this year and one would think that with 93% of the state’s history having occurred in the 20th Century there wouldn’t be much in the way of frontier left to discover in the 21 st. Mr Roth and his campaign workers will need to be full of the pioneering spirit of the Sooners as they get the rest of Oklahoma acquainted with the future--a future where, to paraphrase Dr. M.L.King, office holders are judged on the quality of their character coupled with their job effectiveness, and not who they love. The flat earth view of many in Oklahoma will be made all the rounder with Mr. Roth in office. However, Oklahoma is full of surprises both on the regressive and progressive sides of the historical coin. oki~hom~ns for equality TULSA, OK___Print Magazine, one of America’s most prestigious publications in visual culture and design, has chosen the OkEq logo for its A+C=D Business Graphics Review to be featured in the September/October issue. Every year Print sponsors five high-profile design competitions. The newest and fastest growing competition, A+C=D, brings together the full range of work done for corporate clients around the world--from print ads, corporate identities, and flyers to animated short films, websites, and interactive games. Print chose winners from selections submitted by firms worldwide. Here’s one of those progressive surprises. T. MOSS, Inc., a Tulsa-based graphic design firm, produced the award-winning icon as part of a branding campaign begun in June 2006. T.MOSS provides a full range of creative services, from strategic planning to print production and Web programming. With over 30 years in the business, the firm has met many design challenges. The development of the Ok~q identity provided its own set of considerations. In mid-May Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to fill a vacancy on the state’s Corporation Commission. This is a very important position in Oklahoma for both the citizens and the corporations doing business in the state such as utilities, oil and gas companies, and transportation. Mr. Roth is a remarkable man with a razor sharp mind, an affable personality, and a happy home-life with his partner of seven years, Worth Ross. Our House, Too Just how remarkable is Mr. Roth’s appointment? It was made by a very conservative Democratic governor. It remains to be seen how the rural voters in Oklahoma will view an openly gay man running for state-wide office. www.0zarksstar.c0m offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. V~/e provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV÷ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 91 8~585-9552 or e-mail harrism mjr@yahoo.com. "OkEq is a robust, purposeful organization that prides itself in its mission of inclusiveness, community outreach and human rights advocacy. We wanted to create a contemporary, upbeat visual image for OkEq that exemplifies their spirit and dedication," said Toni Moss who designed the logo. Oklahomans for Equality seel~ equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Community Center. the STAR 5 �TULSA GAY PRIDE FESTIVITIES Faces o£Ok ahoma Pride 2007 With two great metropolitan cities, Diversity Pride is strong in this Bible Belt State of Oklahoma. We have elected officials who are openly gay and glbt supportive. There are equal rights organizations both in Oklahoma City and Tulsa fighting for our future. Two Gay Rodeo Associations, numerous gay and glbt welcoming churches, entertainment venues, clubs, hotels and, two Diversity Business Associations, DBA Tulsa and DBA Metro. We have Oklahoma based Gay/Lesbian owned print and internet news publications supported by you and the business community. Most important is that we have an opportunity to grow stronger as a united group of Oklahoman’s with a huge glbt community separated by only 100 miles of turnpike. Yes, GLBT Pride is alive and ~vell in Oklahoma and we did celebrate. Check out our Faces of Oklahoma Pride on page 25. Sincerely, Charles (Chaz) Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief ARE WE FABULOUS O R WHAT By Victor Gorin From Memorial Day weekend through the month of June, GLBT Oklahomans gathered to share their pride in ways that nobody could have dreamed of less than 30 years ago. As we celebrate our state’s centennial keep in mind that all of us, from cowboy to fluff, from leatherman to drag queen, from lipstick lesbian to diesel divas, from disco boy to businessman, helped play a part of it and will shape our future. Tulsa celebrated their Gay Pride Parade June 9. Beginning at 15th & Utica, it concluded at Veteran’s Park where celebrants enjoyed Tulsa’s 25th LGBT Pride Festival. Although not forgotten by the protesters (with a banner reminding us to remember Sodom and Gommarha) (sic) the Parade came to a fabulous finale. The Festival featured maW of Tulsa’s finest entertainers, with diversions ranging from a Family Fun Zone to a beer garden, offering something for everyone. An estimated 17,000 people from all walks of life were in attendance. That night the Pride continued with the annual Oklahomans for Equality Diversity Gala, held in the Grand Ballroom of the Doubletree Warren Place. This year their Russell G. Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion went to the Reverend Leslie Penrose of Community of Hope UCC of Tulsa. Their Lifetime Achievement Award was presented to Dennis R. Neill, for whom the Tulsa gay community center is named, following a video depicting his life of service on behalf of GLBT Oklahomans. OKLAHOMA CITY GAY PRIDE FESTIVAL Oklahoma City celebrated the 20th Anniversary of their Gay Pride Parade, with their theme coinciding with the Oklahoma Centennial. For the first time the Festival and Parade were separate events, the Festival held in Memorial Park June 16-17 for ~wo days, featuring live entertainment as well as numerous vendors & exhibitors, with the Parade scheduled for June 24. The event was supported by a proclamation by State Senator Andrew Rice & State Representative A1 McAffrey, with Bob Lemon receiving the Irene Tyson Award from the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus for his generous philanthropy and service to the GLBT community of Oklahoma. Let’s all look forward to it. Diversity Business Association of Tulsa 6 the STAR GREAT PLAINS REGIONAL RODEO This annual event was held again at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds, bringing cowboys and cowgirls nationwide. Featuring standard rodeo events as well as the hilarity of"goatdressing," it proved again to be a major success for those who love the western lifestyle. www.ozarksstar.com �www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 �OKLAHOMAN CAPTU S THE TITLE OF MR GAY ALL AMERICAN By Victor Gorin O~AHOMA CITY, OKOklahoman Taz Bailey placed first at the National Mr. Gay M1Mnerican Contest held at the Copa in Oklahoma City May 19. Based on a competition that incorporated talent, modeling & interview, he captured the title followed by Sebastian Armonte of Pittsburgh (1 st alternate) and Dean Taylor of St. Louis (2nd alternate). Hosted by former Miss Gay America Rachael Erikks and Mr. Gay All American 2006 Lucas Flander, the event gave the spectators good eye candy as wet! as inspiration. Mr. Bailey will now promote the Mr. Gay All American Contest as a positive gay role model throughout the county. Recognized by Keller Williams For outstandiilg achievement 2005 and 2006 RIgA LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 ~47hether buying or selling I’ll work hard~bryo~ REALTOR~ 8 the STAR www.ozarksstar.corr ��~he weekend-long festival will exhibit more than a dozen films including some of the best releases this ),ear in the genre of gay cinema. For more information about the event contact Amos Lassen: 501-372-3403(h) 870-550-6298(c) PREMIERE DATE: Saturday June 23 TIME: 8:00 pm LOCATION: Easy Street Piano Bar - 307 W. 7th Street, Little Rock, AR 72201 Phone: 501-372-3530 TICKETS: Tickets $5, $10 available at the door For more information, photographs and trailer visit: www.bobandjack.org (Top) Jack Reavley (L) and Bob Claunch in 1953 DOCUMENTARY ABOUT HALFCENTURY ROMANCE BETWEEN TWO MEN OPENS the 1ST ANNUAL ARY kNSAS GAY AND LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL. 7his f!lm highlights how the two gay men met in the rnilitat3,, how they conj~onted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. LITTLE ROCK, AR__ In 1952 an Army sergeant was cornered and courted by his commanding officer. Their romance grew so obvious that rumors became anonymous tips to headquarters. They avoided court-martial by confronting their entire unit. That pivotal moment cemented Bob and Jack together for the rest of their lives. 52-years later they share how they remained a couple, how one man left his wife and children, how together they moved to a small town and became a fixture in the community, and today how they survive in their eighties without the benefits of marriage. Now Bob and Jack’s 52-Year Adventure, an award winning documentary about their relationship, will premiere Saturday June 23rd, 8 PM at the Easy Street Piano Bar as the opening night film of Reel Attractions, The Arkansas GLBTQ Film Festival. A discussion with director Stu Maddux follows. "We feel extremely honored to premiere at this festival," says Bob Claunch, now 81, from their home in Los Angeles, CA. "With everything going across the country with "dofft ask don’t tell" and with gay marriage, we hope people are encouraged by our story. We didn’t have it easy but we didn’t give up." "That’s one of the reasons we think that the film is a good message for young people too", says partner Jack Reavley, 83. "They need to know that they can have successful relationships. The skeptics are just waiting for us to fail when we try to have lifelong love. Well we didn’t, and we’re here to tell you that you won’t either’." 10 the STAR Eureka Sprin.qs Domestic Partnership R gistry Begins After two petition attempts Reverend Philip Wilson, pastor of Eureka Springs" First Christian Church failed to stop registration of same sex couples. Domestic Partnership Regist*7 began Friday, June 22, 2007 at 9:30 AM. By Michael Walsh EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ Blockage of the state’s first Domestic Partnership Registry scheduled to take effect June 22 left Advocates more determined than ever to see the measure implemented. The ordinance creating the registry was unanimously approved May 14 by the Eureka Springs City Council, after two months of&liberation and dtizen input. However anti-gay minister Philip \Vgilson halted the effective date late last week by submitting to the city clerk a petition of 147 signatures from opponents, three more than the minimum required to force a referendum on the issue August 14. Though disappointed by the delay, proponents are confident a majority of the resort town’s voters would ratify the measure. Broadbased support from hundreds of residents, toUrists, church groups and dozens of local businesses, suggest the effort to circumvent the city Council’s approval would fail at the polls. Unless the referendum can be tied to a pending sewer bond election, Wilson’s maneuver could cost the city already cash strapped between $6,000 and $9,000, the price tag for g Special election. Until then, the city wil! also be deprived of revenue $35 per couple from tourists and residents wishing to register. Hotel, restaurant, nightclub and gift shops will see no profit from Arkansas and out-of-state tourists who were holding off on vacation plans until the domestic partnership registry is in effect. Ironically, Wilson has asserted the Domestic Partnership Registry available to same-sex and opposite-sex couples would negatively impact the town’s economy, transforming it into a "Homosexual mecca" incompatible with such "faith-based" tourist attractions such as the Great Passion Play. ......................... Continued next page. www.ozarksstar.com �EUREY& SPRINGS REGISTRY HOLLYWOOD HOTEL & SUITES Interestingly, almost 50 of the city’s businesses, about 25 percent, are gay owned and have existed in harmony with the Great Passion Play for years, even encouraging their customers to attend the staged production that depicts the life and death of Jesus Christ. Executives of the religious attraction, however, decline to return the favor, suggesting visitors avoid downto~vn Eureka Springs where they might see same-sex couples holding hands during any one of the city’s three annual "Diversity Weekends." COMPLEX-FUTURE UNCERTAIN By Victor Gorin Civil rights watchdog groups, such as the Human Rights Campaign Foundation and the ACLU have been monitoring events in Eureka Springs since April 9 when the Domestic Partnership ordinance first appeared on the city council’s agenda. So has the Arkansas Trial Lawyers Association. One member of the association has said he will lobby to have the group’s annual meeting in Eureka Springs moved to another city if the Domestic Partnership Registry is not enacted. Big business also has been waiting to see the fate of the Registry. AT&T alerted thousands of its employees last week that domestic partnership certificates would be available in Eureka Springs. The city clerk of Eureka Springs Mary Jean Sell rejected a first and second attempt to bring a domestic registry to a public vote. The petitions missed specific wording needed to bring the issue to a special election. Domestic Partnership Registry began Friday, June 22, at 9:30 AiM. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available online at (wwvv.cityofeurekasprings.org/DPRterm.html). Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association has just announced their 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest. The contest is open to anyone and everyone. Entries must be received by OGRA no later than July 31, 2007. OGRA sponsors the annual Great Plains Rodeo on Memorial Weekend. This event has been taking place since 1985. The 2008 edition of the Great Plains Rodeo will be the 23rd Annual. OGRA is proud to present this event each year as one of their largest fundraisers. As a major part of the rodeo they sponsor a poster contest with the winning design used for the rodeo poster, t-shirts and other publications. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__When the Hollywood Hotel and Suites opened in 2006, owned by John Lewis & Warren Burdick, there were high hopes of a grand complex that would not only serve Oklahoma City but also be a gay tourist attraction. In its heyday it boasted the Topanga a full service restaurant and bar, the dance bar Club Rox, and a leather club called Pecs. According to Oklahoma County records John Lewis purchased the hotel, originally constructed in 1971, in January of 2006 for $1.2 million under the name LB Financial Group Inc. As of this writing both clubs and the restaurant are closed, and no other information is available except that the front desk personnel stated that it was due to renovations. We have heard conflicting reports as to how long the hotel will continue operating. Responding to an inquiry by the Star at 11:20 a.m. June 20, the front desk person stated that there were no definite plans of a date to cease operations. ~le STAR attempted to contact the owners of the hotel for more details, but no one has returned our calls. All submissions have to be original works. THE WINNING DESIGN WILL RECEIVE $175.00 IN PRIZE MONEY AND BECOME THE SOLE PROPERTY OF OGRA, INC. The other entries will be returned to the contestant upon request. All entries should be submitted to OGRA Inc., EO. Box 12485, Oklahoma City, OK 73157. Please include a brief bio of yourself i£you wish. The entries will be judged by the OGRA Board of Directors with finalists being selected. Those finalists then will be put on display as a part of a voting competition. The OGRA Membership table will be setup inside the Habana Inn hallway, between the Finishline and Copa, the third weekend in August where the poster finalists will be put on display. For further information email info@ogra.net or ~ontact any OGRA Board Member. www.ozarksstar, com the STAR 11 ���Wha were some GLBT protests The Stonewall riots of June 1969 are often cited as the start of the gay liberation movement, but several GLBT protests occurred during the preceding ),ears. These early actions included both organized demonstrations and spontaneous bursts of outrage at specific injustices. Perhaps the first unplanned protest occurred in May 1959 at Cooper’s Donuts, an allnight hangout in downtown Los Angeles frequented by hustlers and drag queens. According to author John Rechy, who was present, police harassed and tried to arrest a few of the patrons, prompting others to throw food and tableware; the officers retreated to their car and summoned reinforcements, who closed the street and arrested several rioters. A similar event occurred in August 1966 at Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco. After a police officer tried to grab a young queen, some 50 customers hurled dishware and overturned tables, while outside a police car was destroyed and a newsstand was set on fire. ire Stonewall? activists demonstrated against the military ban outside the Whitehall Induction Center in New York CitT; the picketers included members of the Sexual Freedom League, some of whom were heterosexual. In early 1965, Craig Rodwell (who would later open the Oscar Wilde Memorial Bookshop, the first gay bookstore in the United States) and others demonstrated outside United Nations headquarters to protest ill treatment of gays in Cuba. While the polite pickets of In the spring and summer of 1965, activists with the East Coast Homophile Organizations - cofounded by Frank Kameny, who had himself been fired from a government job - picketed the White House, the Pentagon, the State Department, and the Civil Service Commission in Washington, D.C. the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. Police harassment of gay bars in Los Angeles also spurred early protests. Soon after midnight on New Year’s Eve in 1967, police raided the Black Cat bar on Sunset Boulevard, beating patrons and bartenders and arresting several people for lewd conduct. Protests erupted outside the bar that night and continued for several days. A year later, police raided the Patch, another gay bar in the same city. After owner Lee Glaze shouted, "It’s not against the law to be homosexual," the patrons marched to the nearby Harbor Division police station and pelted the building with flowers. The first organized GLBT demonstrations took place in the mid-1960s to protest antigay discrimination in federal employment and the military. Typically, these actions were small and polite, featuring men in suits and women in dresses walking in circles holding signs. In 1964, about a dozen 14 the STAR That summer, 40 activists staged the first of four ’~mnual Reminders" at Independence Hall in Philadelphia (home of the Liberty Bell) on July 4. The demonstration was organized by members of the Mattachine Society, the Daughters of Bilitis (DOB), and Philadelphia’s Janus Society; among the participants were several individuals who became well-known figures in the GLBT movement, including Barbara Gittings (an editor of DOB’s magazine, The Ladder) and Kiyoshi Kuromiya (later a prominent AIDS activist). ~lhe ?mnual Reminders ended after 1969 and were supplanted by yearly Gay Pride celebrations. "\Ve cracked the cocoon of invisibility," Gittings later recalled. "We had finally stepped forxvard and said to the public, ’I’m not going to live in a closet anymore."’ Added fetloxv participant Lilti Vincenz, "We exploded the myth that real homosexuals could [not] possibly look happy and proud and dignified and visible." In early 1966, the North American Conference of Homophile Organizations met in Kansas City and called for demonstrations on Armed Forces Day to protest the military ban. On May 21, actions took place in several cities, including a motorcade in Los Angeles with Mattachine Society founder Harry Hay. Homophile activists also took on the psychiatric establishment, protesting at professional conferences beginning in 1968. Public pickets initially proved controversial, as some members of the GLBT community preferred not to call attention to themselves. By the late 1960s, however, the country was in the grip of an era of militant protest by groups espousing diverse causes. One of the first actions of what would become known as the gay liberation (as opposed to the earlier homophile) movement was a March 1968 "gay-in" in Griffith Park in Los Angeles. In the same ci9; activists also began picketing Bamey’s Beanery, a diner that posted a sign reading "Fagots Stay Out" [sic]. In San Francisco in the spring of 1969, young queer militants demonstrated outside the offices of States Steamship Line for ,veeks to protest the firing of gay activist Gale Whittington. Tixe Stonewall riots garnered much more media attention than previous demonstrations and sparked intensified gay organizing across the country. Since that time, GLBT protests have been a mainstay of the movement’s strategy, waxing and waning in cycles that reflect the overall national political and social climate. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. "Visibility has always been the keystone of our struggle for civil rights," Gittings said in the 2004 documentary Gay Pioneers. "We are pushing for equality through visibility. Today, we have visibility - oh, do we have visibility!" ww,qozarksstar.com �Mamma Mia! Tour - P~ctur~cl Corey Greenan & Company Photo: 200~, Joan Marcua ~rna Mial Tour - Pictured Se~n ,~Jl~n Joan Marcus Wha a W dding! 200Z B~vacl~ay Season Ends with a Special Bon us By Joey De The 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close with an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the awardwinning musical "Mamma Mia!" to Tulsa audiences May 8-13. Featuring the music of the sensational seventies group Abba, "Mamma Mia!" is the sho~v that not only brought their music to a new generation, but also birthed an entirely new genre on Broadway. Following the show’s nearly sold out run, there is no question why. Using over twenty of the European group’s greatest hits, "Mamma Mia!" tells www.ozarksstar.com the story of young Sophie and her dream to find her father. Sophie’s mother, Donna, had a wild streak in the seventies and has never spoken much about her mate, leaving the young girl to invite three potential paternals to their quaint Greek island getaway just in time for her wedding. Brilliantly reflecting issues relevant to the Abba-generations such as fleeing fathers, self worth and the quest for true happiness, the show deals a heavy hand of social commentary wrapped in a comfortable blanket of feel-good comedy. In fact, the book brilliantly written by Catherine Johnson infuses the show with such a high dose of innocence and fun that its life lessons are delivered in witty one-liners. Amplifying the show’s feel good fun is the hit music that everybody knows. From "Dancing Queen," to "Take a Chance on Me," singing along with the young and enthusiastic cast becomes contagious. Perhaps though, the show’s greatest musical milestone is intertwining music that has been around for thirty years with an original story so seamlessly that you would swear they were written for each other. anything more than it is and it doesn’t fail to deliver. With its glitz, glam and spandex, it is a show that can make the most manically depressed smile. Following on the heels of"Mamma Mia!" is another show guaranteed to tickle your funny bone, or hit you over the head with a herring. As a bonus to the season, Celebrity Attractions will be presenting the smash hit musical "Monty Pythons Spamalot," the show that lovingly rips off the cult-classic film. "Spamalot," written by former Pythonite by Eric Idle, is based on the screenplay of "Monty Python and the Holy Grail," written by the original Monty Python troupe of Graham Chapman, John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Terry Jones, Michael Palin, and Idle. Epic in nature, "Spamalot," is tells the legendary tale of King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table, and their quest for the Holy Grail. It features a chorus line of dancing divas and knights, taunting Frenchmen, killer rabbits and one legless knight. Award-winning and side splitting, "Spamalot" will be in Tulsa Jul. 10-15. Tickets are on sale now at ~wcw.myticketoNce.com. At the heart, "Mamma Mia!" is a fun, frolicking musical. It doesn’t pretend to be the STAR 15 ��"Roasted Sweet Red Pepper & Potato Soup" To make the soup more colorful, use a combination of red, yellow and orange bel! peppers. And if you want to dress it up a little more, you can garnish it with pesto, croutons or minced fresh herbs. For a chowder like consistency, do not puree the soup but be sure to cut the peppers, onion and potatoes into neat uniform dice. Ingredients: 4 - 5 large red bell peppers 1 large or 2 medium yellow onions, diced 1 - 2 cloves garlic, minced 3 tablespoons olive oil 6 cups Chicken Stock 2 medium potatoes, peeled and diced 1/4 - 1/2 cup heavy cream 3 tablespoons chopped basil Kosher or sea salt Freshly ground pepper Procedure: Roast, peel, seed and dice the bell peppers. Heat the oil in a large pot and saute the onion and garlic over medium heat until translucent. Add the bel! peppers and stock and cook for 10 minutes. Add the potatoes and cook until tender. Puree the soup and strain it into a clean pot. Add the cream, basil, salt and pepper. Stir and bring just to a boil. Be VERY CAREFUL to heat the soup gently and take extra care NOT to boil it. Serv’es 8 to 10 people. More on FOG CITY DINER, San Francisco, California see page I9. ��we are in San ] www.ozarksstar.com �O,,e of the most sce.,ic views on Martha’s Vineyard is Aquinnah Lighthouse, which is perched big,:, , bo ,e the is/a.o:’s ,,,,de beach, a’hoto 6,.a,d ew Crocker House Inn, a 1920s beach house owned by young and friendly innkeepers Jeff and Jynd! Kristal. Rooms are casually smart, with white-wicker furnishings, and some have fireplaces and whirlpool tubs. \Vithin a 10-minute stroll of these inns are several fine shops, a quirky old movie theater, and a few nice eateries. A favorite is Cafe Moxie, which presents an intriguing range of relatively affordable rood-American dishes. If you’re in the mood for a lobster roll, drop by the Net Result, a simple fish market a 10-minute walk from the ferry terminal serving some of the freshest seafood around. JULY 2007 By Andrew Collins Since Provincetown bursts at the seams all summer long with excitement and socializing, quite a few lesbians and gay men across New England have begun heading to a quieter but no less charming and remote seaside getaway, Martha’s Vineyard. Over the past several years, especially since Massachusetts legalized gay marriage, the island has seen a gradual but discernible growth in gay and lesbian visitation. One key to enjoying this sparkling emerald island off the southern coast of Cape Cod (it’s accessible by only ferry or plane) is to arrive with a lover rather than hoping to find one upon arrival. Of course, Martha’s Vineyard - along with its neighbor to the east, Nantucket - has long been a highly desirable destination. Families have been building the nmv-ubiquitous weathered-shingle cape-style houses here for more than three centuries, dating to the island’s origins as a sleepy fishing settlement. Yachting and hobnobbing among the rich and famous became official pastimes during the early part of this century. Glitterati such as Carly Simon, James Taylor, Spike Lee, Sharon Stone, Meg Ryan, Denzel Washington, Ted Danson, and Mary Steen 20 the STAR bergen regularly spend time here. Members of the Kennedy clan have been sailing over for years, and political pundits will always associate Martha’s Vineyard with the Chappaquiddick scandal that ultimately cost Ted Kennedy the U.S. presidency. Come for a visit, however, and you’ll hear little talk of celebrity-spotting and rumormongering. Famous or unknown, gay or straight, folks come to Martha’s Vineyard to get away from the vagaries and pressures of life on the mainland. Here you’!l discover historic inns, some of the finest restaurants in coastal New England, and a handful of enchanting villages, each with its own pace and personality. The town of Vineyard Haven is an ideal base. This walkable village has a few gayfriendly inns, some hip restaurants and boutiques, and an enviable sheltered location overlooking Vineyard Haven Harbor. The other communities on the island are within a half-hour drive (or an afternoon’s bike ride - Martha’s Vineyard is ideal for cyclists, and there are rental shops near each of the ferry terminals). If you wish to stay right in Vineyard Haven, book a room at the breezy Oak Bluffs and Edgartown are the two other major settlements on the island (they are also the only towns ~vith liquor licenses; restaurants elsewhere on the island are BYOB, although it’s expected that by 2008, Vineyard Haven will obtain a license that permits the sale of liquor at restaurants). Oak Bluffs has been more heavily developed than other towns on the island, with a bounty of lively bars and rollicking amusements popular with college students and teenagers. It’s a fun town for window-shopping, picking up an ice cream cone at a local parlor, and eating - there are plenty of terrific restaurants in Oak Bluffs. At the upper end, the Sweet Life Cafe serves outstanding regional American fare and occupies a handsome Victorian house along the town’s main drag, Circuit Avenue - try the squid-ink fettuccine with shrimp, scallops, calamari, and a tomato-basil-garlic broth. More casual and less pricey options, both of which are also fun places to sip cocktails and socialize, include Sharky’s Cantina, which serves up terrific Tex-Mex in a festive ambience, and the Lookout Tavern, a rustic seafood shack overlooking the sea and serving not only great platters of fried and broiled fish and shellfish but also first-rate sushi. Edgartown is the island’s somewhat more conservative community, at least in appearance if not necessarily in politics (this is still a highly liberal part of the world, especially on social issues). This posh historic village defined by gorgeous white-clapboard Colonial homes and neatly manicured gardens has several convivial eateries, and numerous high-end clothiers and boutiques downtown. Tops for dining are Detente, a www.ozarksstar.com �hip little wine bar serving superbly crafted, innovative fare like lemon-honey-basted halibut with truffled leek puree, baby artichokes, and oven-dried tomatoes. A more casual but still reliable bet is the Wharf Pub, which serves consistently good burgers, salads, and pub fare. Right in Edgartown you’ll find some lovely, gay-friendly accommodations, including the Shiverick Inn, a grand Second Empire mansion where romantic rooms have sumptuous Victorian bedding and antiques, and the Hob Knob Inn, a handsome and well-run 18room Gothic Revival property with unfussy but attractive furnishings reminiscent of an English country house. Just south of Edgartown, with a fantastic location on Katama Beach, the Winnetu Oceanside Resort makes for a delightful retreat, especially if you’ve got kids in tow - in fact, this is one of the best gay-friendly, family-oriented properties on the East Coast. The property consists of a luxury inn with one- to four-bedroom suites as well as a cluster of three- to five-bedroom town homes. The resort offers dozens of diversions to keep you busy, from bike tours to whale-watching trips, and there’s a world-class tennis facility on-site. Also, Winnetu’s restaurant, Lure, serves some of the most inventive seafood fare on the island, such as butter-poached lobster with soft cornbread, roasted corn, and fava beans. This upscale resort draws mostly families with kids in summer, but it’s more of a couples destination during the mellower spring and fall shoulder seasons. Outdoors enthusiasts should stick to the western side of Martha’s Vineyard (referred to locally as Up-Island). Here you can sample fresh lobster dockside in the picturesque fishing village of Menemsha (a great place to stop for a casual seafood lunch - just try one of the restaurants on the pier), or admire ocean views from the lighthouse and multihued clay cliffs at Aquinnah (formerly known as Gay Head). Below the Gay Head cliffs you will find, appropriately, a popular nude beach with a moderate following among gays and lesbians - when you hit the beach, turn right, and walk all the way to the end (about 30 minutes). A tip: If you’d like to check the scene out in advance, drop some change into one of the coin-operated magnifying lenses near the base of the lighthouse - it’s the closest you’ll come to a peep show on Martha’s Vineyard. 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Ok~ahoma’~ H~V/STD Hotfine In the Up-Island community of West Tisbury, set back on a wooded property slightly off the beaten path, you’ll find the island’s most opulent gay-owned property, Lambert’s Cove Inn. Innkeepers Scott Jones and I. Kell Hicklin have restored what had been a somewhat dowdy country hotel into a sophisticated boutique inn with smartly furnished rooms set among three buildings. Amenities include DVD/CD players, high-speed Internet, and plush Egyptian cotton linens, and some rooms have private screened-in porches. A sunken pool in back is the perfect place to while away a hot afternoon. And in the evening, the inn’s elegant dining room serves outstanding contemporary American fare, such as braised veal cheeks with sweet corn, English pea risotto, and a Madeira wine reduction. It’s the definitive venue for a relaxing Martha’s Vineyard hideaway. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 �J U L¥ 2007 Truth Calling Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination ofDr. James VX Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. My phone rang recently, and it was a local radio station asking me to respond to samesex marriage still being the law of the land in Massachusetts. The measure calling for a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage there was defeated by the full state legislature, 45 yes votes and a resounding 151 no’s. Of course, my response was measured, delivered in appropriate sound bites, and echoing what everyone else is saying about the victory. It’s great for Massachusetts, but even greater for the rest of the country, where many LGBT people are still struggling to attain basic civil rights. The vote lets us put our resources into 2008 where they need tO be - focusing on the presidential and pivotal state races, rather than having to pump tons of money into defeating another bad bill. Ah, but truth be told, this victory is sweet but short, because now we need to turn our attention to defeating a bad nomination - that of Kentucky’s Dr. James W. Holsinger for U.S. Surgeon General. My initial response after reading about Holsinger was, "Who the hell is giving W advice these days?" Didn’t they see what would happen if they nominated a homophobic, radical Christian who started an ex-gay ministry? Did they think we wouldn’t notice? On the face of it, Holsinger seems like a credible medical professional. He is a cardiologist who holds the University of Kentucky’s Charles T. Wethington Jr. Chair in the Health Sciences, and is the former chancellor of UK’s Chandler Medical Center. Just because he’s from the heart of the Bible Belt doesn’t mean we have to automatically jump to conclusions about his politics. After all, Abe Lincoln was born there, the LGBT community is gaining political strength in the Bluegrass State through the Kentucky Fairness Alliance, and they’ve even got an openly gay man in the state Senate - Ernesto Scorsone. Well, maybe you should start jumping after all. Because as Wayne Besen of Truth Wins Out put it, "Holsinger is an ideologue 22 the STAR whose medical views on gay and lesbian people resemble sorcery more than sound science." Holsinger is not only a doctor, but a devout Christian who is a high-ranking lay leader in the United Methodist Church - you know, the folks who talk about "Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors" - except, of course, when it comes to us. In his position on the United Methodist Judicial Council (the place where the buck stops in the Methodist Church), Holsinger’s record is anything but promising for LGBT people. He opposed the 2004 decision to allow Rev. Karen Dammann, a lesbian, to continue serving as a minister. He backed the deftocking of Rev. Beth Stroud, who came out to her Pennsylvania church community at the First United Methodist Church of Germantown. And, in one of the ugliest acts of religious discrimination, Holsinger backed a Virginia pastor who barred an openly gay man from church membership. One could argue that those actions were his personal beliefs and wouldn’t interfere with him being the country’s top doctor. Perhaps...but one need only read the Pathophysiology of Male Homosexuality, a "scientific" paper Holsinger wrote in 1991 for the Church’s Committee to Study Homosexuality, to see how his personal beliefs impact his science. The piece is available online at abcnews. go.com/images/Politics/Holsinger_on_Homosexuality.pdf. (If you want some laughs, Stephen Colbert of The Colbert Report did a hilarious send-up of the paper and Holsinger - you can watch it at http://rawstory. com/news/2007/Colbert Report Why are gays still 0614.html.) upon which one interlocks within the other. When the complementarity of the sexes is breached, injuries and diseases may occur.... Therefore, based on the simplest knmvn anatomy and physiology, xvhen dealing ~vith the complementarity of the human sexes, one can simply say, Res ipsa loquitur - the thing speaks for itself!" I guess the thing that is "speaking for itself" is a penis, which, in his estimation, belongs in only one place - a vagina. This is more like the science of a 6-year-old, not a 68-year-old. I won’t get any more graphic. But if you want a great deconstruction of the paper, go to Jim Burroway’s xwwv.boxturtlebulletin.com, a site that is devoted to debunking the lies told about us through research and well-reasoned writing. His conclusion puts Holsinger’s snake-oil chicanery in the proper perspective. To add insult to injury, when Holsinger and his wife were congregants at Lexington’s First United Methodist Church, they helped their pastor form a new "outreach, congregation called the Hope Springs Community Church. Hope Springs sports an antigay ministry. According to them, being gay is just a lifestyle. With Christ’s love, anyone can be straight. Next up are Holsinger’s confirmation hearings. When they’re scheduled, Holsinger will go before the U.S. Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions, which is chaired by Edward Kennedy (DMass.). Three Democratic presidential candidates - Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.), Chris Dodd (Conn.), and Barack Obama (I11.) - sit on the committee. Only Clinton has definitely said no to Holsinger. Dodd and Obama have strong concerns. John Edwards, although no longer in the Senate,opposes the nomination. We xvon in Massachusetts. Conservatives are calling for the repeal of "don’t ask, don’t tell." If there was ever a time for Democratic Party leaders to find their backbone, this is it. It’s time for truth to go a-calling- Holsinger’s homophobia has no place in medicine or in government. One of my favorite passages reads, "...the logical complementarity of the human sexes has been so recognized in our culture that it has entered our vocabulary in the form of naming various pipe fittings either the male fitting or the female fitting depending w~,~v.ozarksstar.com �By Joey De \vgith the placing of the cro~vn, Oklahoma City based performer Adrianna became the new Miss Oklahoma Continental on May 25 at Club Majestic in Tulsa. The evening, filled with national title holders and special entertainers marked the reign of Miss Oklahoma Continental 2006, Kandy Cayne. For Adrianna, the achievement is another milestone in a career highlighted with titles. "I now have been a state title holder in 3 of the big 4 pageant systems," says Adrianna. "I was Miss Kansas USofA in 2000 and Miss Gay Oklahoma America in 2004." "There are several differences between those and Continental," notes the performer. "The major one is the addition of the swimwear competition. Also, the interview process was a new experience as well since it is a group setting, not one-on-one. Overall, the style of the system seems to be more ’fashion-forward’ than any of the other systems that I have been involved in." Adrianna entered the Continental system hoping to become "known for her unique sense of style. "I heard one time that the ability to accessorize is what separates us from the animals," she jokes. According to Thompson, Adrianna was born on Halloween at a DIFFA masquerade ball, and has been performing since 1995. "I began doing drag after my friends hauled me to Miss Gay Oklahoma America the year that Gertrude Garnet won. I was barely 21 and was engaged to a female. However, I knew from that moment on I belonged in a dress on that stage. The rest is history." For Thompson, much of his inspiration behind the character or Adrianna comes from his morn. "I was a mamma’s boy... she’s a great lady. She’s an elected official who is very politically active, and stands up for what she believes in." www.ozarksstar.com A self described performer since birth, Adrianna is the drag transformation of Sapulpa native Jon Thompson. Thompson, who spends his days as a customer care representative for a major telecommunications firm, says that he has been happily married to his husband (and fellow performer) Chris for the past two years. The couple also shares custody of their child, Alden, their miniature Schnauzer. With his forthcoming reign as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson hopes to grow as a female impersonator and overcome new challenges. "I have already learned so much. It has made me expand my mind to think of drag in a new way. I have used it to launch me out of a rut, and made me have the perception that drag is fun again...I have been at it a few years, and like most things you can tire of it. But at this point...I am always thinking of the next best number or costume." Thompson also ~vishes to reach out as an ambassador of the community with his latest title. "I think that I am in a unique position by being a former Miss Oklahoma America. I can promote the pageant and the system by working with the other systems. I will also be launching a fund-raising campaign, in honor of my aunt who is a breast cancer survivor. The net proceeds will benefit the Susan G. Komen foundation." As a part of that campaign, Thompson will be walking with his cousin from Dallas to Fort Worth over the course of three days, and encourages people to visit www.the3day. org for more information. While not attending to appearances as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson can be seen performing as Adrianna on the third Sunday of every month. For information and updates on special appearances, fans can visit www.myspace.com/mgo2004. OGLP¢’s Tyson Award for 2007, Nr. Bob Lemon By James Nimmo Photo by Victor Gorin. Left to Right Bob Lemon and Paul Thompson. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Mr. Bob Lemon, a staunch Oklahoma Democrat and devoted supporter of LGBT equality, was named the recipient of the 2007 Irene Tyson Award given annually by the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Caucus (OGLPC) (http:// www.oglpc.com/). The award is given to an outstanding individual who has demonstrated long term commitment to the furtherance of LGBT equality under the law, and who is a role model for changing public opinion The award was a complete surprise for Mr. Lemon but he was not at a loss for words. "Gay people aren’t broken and don’t need fixing," he said in defiance of the notion that LGBT citizens are second-rate Americans in need of counseling. Mr. Lemon also had the honor of reading to the crowd of enthusiastic listeners an Oklahoma Legislative Proclamation recognizing LGBT Pride events in Oklahoma City issued by State Senator Andrew Rice and State Representative A1 McAffrey, both Democrats in their first term of office and firm believers in our LGBT equality. Mr. Lemon is also a front-line supporter, member of Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, (www.okstonewall.org) the LGBT voice of the Oklahoma and National Democratic Party, with chapters in all 50 states and Washington, DC. The STAR 23 ���The following column is very sarcastic and may not be suitable for sensitive readers. I present two potential clients that have threatened for months to begin a workout program with me. Simon is an affable creature who loves watching Diamondbacks and Cardinals games. He enjoys pina coladas and getting caught in the rain. He would give you the shirt offhis back if you needed it. The problem is you wouldn’t be able to use it. Or maybe you would. You would only, need to fit intoa Triple X kimono. Simon tips the scales at an awkward twenty-five stone. That’s 350 pounds for all you nonlimeys out there. He’s six feet tall so yeah that’s 99 Luft Balloons Big. This column is a la carte so I’!l feel free to load up Simon’s plate with more health impediments. Let’s add three packs of Viceroys per day. Don’t forget the four nights per week of all night benders and enough Sauza Gold to paralyze three Mexican towel boy,s. For good measure I’ll throw in the 6,0130 calorie per diem at "his expense" account. What advice would I give to Simple Simon? Dear see-mone, (enjoy the moment of French) I would recommend spending $10,000 on a remodeling project for your home. It would clearly be advantageous to blow your money on a whimsical attempt to make yourself feel better by painting the walls tropical tapioca and adding that new Ethan Allen collection to your living room. Think of hmv much excitement wil! pulse through your damaged vessels as you gaze adoringly upon your newly acquired Vc:aterford Crystal that sparkles like the glint of stupidity in your eyes. You were able to resist the temptation of hiring a qualified personal trainer for six months. This trainer would have only robbed you of those extra 150 pounds you have been safeguarding and would have charged you several thousands dollars for the difficult deed. He might have even saved you from hospitalization and tens of thousands of dollars spent on gastric bypass surgery. It’s lucky that you watch HGTV and have a subscription to Martha Stewart Living. Money well spent. Which room beckons next? Roger complains about the rigors of the dating world. He elaborates ad nauseam on the difficulties of finding Mr. Right. He has found glimmers of hope from escorts, massage "specialists", and websites featuring boy,s who seek Mr. Night. My advice for Roger Rabbit is as follows: Dear Roger, Don’t worry! The right guy for you is out there. Thank goodness for you that we dodt live in a superficial world where you are judged by your looks. Most 23 year old guys with chiseled bodies and dashing good looks will seek out your 45 year old flabby, elephantine physique. Further good news for you is that none of these Adonises will be attracted to your BMW, Versace Suits, or 3,000 square foot wallet that can buy them presents. They will appreciate your knowledge, bubbly personalib; and the ability to pick out the correct port wine to sip with your Dairy Queen Royal Treat of the day. I would continue to spend your hard earned cash on vacations to places where no one wants to see you with your shirt off. Perhaps love will truly blossom in the midst of a massage or in the throes of professionalism from that elegant escort. I wouldn’t bother evacuating your money from the bank for trivial purposes of bettering your health. What need have you for physical training when you are immortal? Heart attacks, diabetes, and high blood pressure always happen to that other guy. I think (hope) you get the point. This sardonicism is brought to you by Ron Blake. Ron can be reached at blake.fimess@yahoo.com or at 480-241-5651. Celebrate your PRIDE Parade Starts at 10 ar The earlier if will begin at East, then ling left on ri Park. Roger also weighs approximately 350 pounds and he too rises vertically to six feet. Roger eats like an F350 Ford truck and he waddles like an emperor penguin. He blames his excessive girth on a thyroid problem and has plenty more excuses ready if you don’t buy that one. He began his smoking career after watching Sunset Boulevard at age seventeen. He now smokes his Parliaments as elegantly as Gloria Swanson ever did. He has been ready for his close up for nearly 28 years. Roger works longer hours than an Indonesian schoolboy in a sweatshop. Fortunately for Roger he is earning considerably more money and is in no danger of breaking aW nails in his pristine white collar job. He has a significant stash of money and is well-educated from the University of Arizona. 26 the STAR at 12 Noon in Agri Park in Fayettev e Pride, immediately www.ozarksstar.com �s 2LUB MAJESTIC catia He Love [h?~. L0~p~. )~. ¯ . i,, ~, IH~ ~’A: r,acnae! ~rm~zs anow l0 30pm 2pro C~i~B MAJESTICi Carla Le~ Lo~e qlmw lOnm ~fi~ &brb~: Rachad Erikks Show 10:~0pm HID~_d0WAYLOUNGE: Danc4w/DJ Colt 6-12, D~ncers 9:30pro LOUNGE D6ai~ique HID ~Xmas i~J~vSho~v 10-30~r~ BRADYTH~fA’~ER~ LyI~ I~ovett BA~~Ii~ OO......... LOUNG[E :......... Kar~0ke 7p ~ .... BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 7pro ¯ ~ES THE COPA Strip-Off Contest 12~a ifly:I0~ ;i~? :~,i ~!;"7 2pro, Kris Kohl Benefig Show 8pm; ~LUI3.~UiJESTIC: ~tia ~ Love anow ~opm THE COPA: Rachael Eril-~ Show lo:30pm HI LOUNGE: Dacew!DJ Co!t 6d2, Dancers ~30 BAMBOO LOUNGE Karaoke 7pro ~" .......... CLUB MAJESTIC: Catia Led Love Show 10pm TrqE COPA: Rachad Erikks Show : h~U~A~CAY LOUNGE: Kris KohI 5how 10:~0pm, .... .......... THE COP& Strip-OffContest HID~WAY LODGE: Kara0ke 8pro HID~VAY LODGE: Ka~oke 8pm 7pm BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke ; THE COPA: V:ariety Show lO:30pm HID THE COPA: Variety Show 10:30pm FINISHLINE: DartTournament 10pro LOUNGE: B0bby Page Ophn Talent Show 10:30pro BIG 4th 6f July HID B~bby Page Open Talent Sh6~v 10:30pro FINIS~INE] Dart Toum~brlt 10pro THE COPA: Variety Sh~w I0:30pm yE COPA: mdm6re t0 Open 30pmTalent wtShem0ane THE COPA: Mate Dancers 9pro GUSHERSi Late Night Breakfast Buffet lam-3:30am HIDEAWAY: Hip Hop Dance Party lmn-3:30am THE COPA Male Dancers 9pm HIDEAWAY: Hip Hop Danc~ ParD" ZOO AMPITISIEA~RE Lyle Lo~ett &. k. d. Lange 7:30pm lam-3:30am THE COPA: Male Dancers 9pro HIDEAWAY: Hip Hop Dance Party HIDEAWAY: Hip Hop Dance Party BAMB66 LOgN~Ei F~ zpm2m C~LUB !vlAJESTIC: Carla Lee Love Show 10pm THE COPA: Rachael Erild~ Show 10:30pro HIDEAWAY LOUNGE: Dance wlDJ Colt 6-12, Dancers 9:30 BAMBOO LOUNGE: Karaoke 7pm. TUESDAY July 3~ THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. HIDF2XWAY LOUNGE: Karaoke 8pm ,amw.ozarksstar.¢om After Dark is a flee service m our advertisers andis the responsibility of the advertiser to inform dxe STAR in writing of updates, additions or discontinued events. The STAR is not responsible for accuracy. STAR 27 �"Practice economy, Gemini!" Mercury is in Cancer turning direct, offering an opportunity to apologize for emotional outbursts and correct al! the problems that erupted while he was retrograde. If you don’t know where to start, try the kitchen. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Get to the root of recent household messes. If you own, fix plumbing, electricity, or whatever. If you rent, make a list for the landlord. Call family members and resolve misunderstanding& At least have a nice chat with Morn. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Mend fences with neighbors, and call or write to your siblings. It’s an excellent time to sign up for classes in any basic skills or techniques that have interested you, especially if they touch on domestic arts or community-building. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Think about your patterns in impulse spending. Everyone does it, but now is your time to look at your own finar~cial strengths and weaknesses, to get those books better organized, and to practice better economy. SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Sex may be more trouble than it’s worth, but has that ever stopped you? You may have slowed down lately, but recent problems and odd shifts of desire can now be re-examined to achieve greater understanding and pleasure. Talking about those issues will help! CAPRlCORN (December 21 - January 19): You can finally clear up problems that have been brewing with your partner. That "seems-you-can’t-say-anything-right" period is over. Sing out, Louise, and let your baby hear what you have to say! Your listening skills are also suddenly improving. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Been delaying trips to the doctor or the gym? That’s probably been a good instinct, but get your tush back into action! See the doctor first for any problems with or advice about exercising. Discuss nutrition, too! And then renew your health regimen. PISCES (February 19 - hlarch 19): Your creative block is finally over! Drag out the canvases, manuscripts, and instruments. If your muse needs to be fed, get to the kitchen and dig out some long-neglected recipes. A small dinner party will help get your juices flowing, too. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): It’s OK - you can finally clean up the confusion and chaos that seem to have taken over in recent weeks. Look for long-latent, underlying problems at the root of those troubles. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worries and fears that have been aggravating you lately now seem like ridiculous shadows. But they’ll be back to haunt you again if you don’t take a look at them and their roots. A meditative retreat should help. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Give your friends a chance to apologize and correct recent disappointments. Or maybe you should be the one patching things up. You can only take responsibility for yourself; still, shouldering more than your share of the blame could go a long way toward fixing things. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Recent misunderstandings may have you hiding out from your boss, landlord, or other authority figures, and/or undermining your own authority. Now is the time to clean up the lines of command and get your career back on track. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): All those reasons that kept you from taking classes, traveling, or otherwise expanding your world and your mind have fallen away. At least reconsider those opportunities and look at ways to get over the obstacles. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! 28 the STAR www.ozarksstar, com �Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org ......... 888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers ....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) ..... - www.e~vers ~ypr ae.com Diversity Pride Events A Byrd’s Eye View ..... 36 N. Main ........... 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante .... 309 W VanBuren ....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St ............. 479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill- - - 105 E VanBuren ....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton 17B Spring Street .......... 479-98t-6060 Tiki Torch ........ 75 S. Main Street- .......... 479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren .......... 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 418 W. Dickson ...... -479-444-6228 Condom Sense Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave .......... -479-521-0009 Flames Bar - - - 40 E. Center- ............... 479-251-1922 Passages ...... 930 N. College Ave .......... -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave ............. 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kin keads ....... 1004 1/2 Garrison Ave ........ 479-783-9988 - 479-782-9578 Klub XLR8 ...... 1022 Dodson AveRed Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St.- ............. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street .... 1021 Jessie Rd ............... 501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... ~vw.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd ............... 501-666-6900 Sidetracks - - -415 Main St - -North L.R.- ........ 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.- ......... 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave ......... 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club ...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) 620-231-0938 PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway-Service 11AM River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. WalnutKansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40 ..... 3201 S. Hillside ...... 316-682-5494 -316-942-1244 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg DrClub Glacier- ......... 2828 E. 31st South ...... 316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground ................. 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (4t7) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ...... Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn ....www.40thstreetinn.com ....... 816-561-7575 816-231-1196 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Bird Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s .... 805 W. 39th St................ 816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) 417-831-4700 The Edge ..... 424 Boonville Ave ..... 417-869-3978 GLO Comm, Ctr---518 E. Commerical417-831-9001 JR’s Nightclub .... 504 E. CommericalMartha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive ........... -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place .... 821 College ............... 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books .... 104 Sunset .............. 580-242-6838 4810-A West Garriott........ 580-233-5511 Priscilla’s. Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore ..... 1124 NW Cache Rd ...... 580-353-1488 Oklahoma, l~cA~ester (918) ~cPride ........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642 ...... 405-495-1111 405-606-7000 Blue Dog Liquor- ..... -4015 N. Penn 405-601-7200 Boom Room ....... 2807 NW 36th St Border’s Books ...... 3209 NW Expressway ..... 405-848-2667 - 405-525-7766 CD Warehouse ...... 4001 N. Penn Club Rox....... 3535 NW 39th Expw~j........ -405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box ..... 3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms ...... 3131 N. Penn ...... 405-525-9555 Copa ............. 2200 NW 39th Exp .........405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave ....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy ........405-525-9200 First Amendment Tatoo Shop- - - 2135 NW 39th - - -405-604-3911 Gushers Restaurant- .... 2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 405-528-2221 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp Herland Sisters Resources .... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel .... 3535 NW 39th Exp ....... -405-947-2351 405-843-1722 1221 NW 50th Hi-Lo Club 405-524-5733 Jungle Reds ....... 2200 NW ExpwyLedo ............. 2200 NW Expwy..... .... 405-525-0730 Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ....... -405-681-5044 405-942-2199 Partners ......... 2805 NW 36th St -3535 NW 39th Expw ....... -405-947-2351 Pec’s 405-755-8600 Priscilla’s......... 615 E. Memorial405-525-5165 Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St. Rudy’s Place ...... 3535 NW39th Expw .........405-947-2351 405-601-3711 Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th StThe Park........ 2125 NW 39th St ......... -405-528-4690 405-917-1663 The Patio ........ 3201 N. May Ave -405-947-2351 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th. 405-521-9888 Tramps ............ 2201 NW 39th--405-521-9999 Ziggy’s............ 4005 N. PennOklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge .... 7204 E. Pine ............. 918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E. 21st ........... 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 - - 918-592-3456 Circle Cinema ...... 10 S, LewisClub 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder ............ 918-584-9944 918-584-9494 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston 9t8-835-3301 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan -918-459-0497 Cosmo Dell & Bar - - 6746 S. Memorial -918-834-1051 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street- ........ 918-743-4297 Hideaway Cocktail Lounge--- 11730 E. 11th ......918-437-0449 - 918-749-8378 HOPE Clinic ....... 3540 E. 31st 319 E. 3rd .............. 918-584-3112 MidtownOpenarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood ..... 918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave ..... ..... 918-585-9552 .918-627-4884 Priscilla’s ......... 7925 E. 41stPriscilla’s ........ 5634 W. Skelly ........... 918-446-6336 -918-438-4224 Priscilla’s ........ 11344 E. 11th Priscilla’s ......... 2333 E. 71st .............918-499-1661 Renegades 1649 S. Main ........... 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd ......... 918-627-1505 Sappho’s ........ 6373-C E 31st St.......... 918-836-0299 918-834-4194 Tulsa CARES .... 3507 E. Admiral PI. Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle ..... 1338 E. 3rd ................ 918-592-1188 918-660-0856 TNT’s ......... 2114 S. Memorial Yellow-Brick-Rd ....... 2630 E. 15th .......... 918-293-0304 �bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicateocom 30 the STAR www,joanhilty.net www.ozarksstar.com �Keller Williams Realty Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’I1 work hard for you. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document The 2 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Let us promote your business in a UNIQUE & D~VERSE market. Ca~ STAR AIDVERT~S~NG today. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 3 Arkansas’s 1st. Film highlights how the two gay men met in the military, how they confronted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. I really haven’t changed, I’m still a vegetarian and a lesbian. What has changed is that people know everything about me so it’s not controversial anymore. q-he 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close ~vith an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the award-winning musical "Mamma Mia!" While the polite pickets of the mid- !960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time ~vhen homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. A general characteristic of Sauvignon Blanc is its distinctive, penetrating aroma, which can evoke scents of grapefruit, lime, green melon, gooseberry, passion fruit, freshly mown grass, and bell pepper. Gay Travelers: Las Vegas, Nevada Out of Town: Martha’s Vineyard Dining In or OUT L~$E~I],~N NOTI;O~$ Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination of Dr. James W. Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. Pictorial review of Pride month in Oklahoma. ON THE COVER: k. d. Lmag STAR DISTRIBUTION: OKLAHOMA CITY * TULSA* LAWTON * MCALESTER * ENID * LITTLE ROCK * NORTH LITTLE RODK * FAYETTEVILLE * FT SMITH * EUREKA SPRINGS * HOT SPRINGS * BENTONVILLE * ROGERS * KANSAS CITY * SPRINGFIELD * JOPLIN * BRANSON AREA* WICHITA * PITTSBURG * JUNCTION CITY 4 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Jim Roth-A Pioneer for Ok ahomds Centennial by James Nimmo OKLAHOMA CITY, OK___Oklahoma celebrates its centennial this year and one would think that with 93% of the state’s history having occurred in the 20th Century there wouldn’t be much in the way of frontier left to discover in the 21 st. However, Oklahoma is full of surprises both on the regressive and progressive sides of the historical coin. Here’s one of those progressive surprises. In mid-May Governor Brad Henry appointed Oklahoma County Commissioner Jim Roth to fill a vacancy on the state’s Corporation Commission. This is a very important position in Oklahoma for both the citizens and the corporations doing business in the state such as utilities, oil and gas companies, and transportation. Mr. Roth is a remarkable man with a razor sharp mind, an affable personality, and a happy home-life with his partner of seven years, Worth Ross. Just how remarkable is Mr. Roth’s appointment? It was made by a very conservative Democratic governor. It remains to be seen how the rural voters in Oklahoma will view an openly gay man running for state-wide office. www.0zarksstar.c0m Mr. Roth often says that his family goes beyond the biological and that officeholders should be held accountable by the voters for how well the job is done, not by who they love. Ttxe voters who elected Mr. Roth to his first term as county commissioner re-hired him with a 65% majority for a second term. The 2008 election will be important for Mr. Roth as he will be required to run a statewide campaign for election to complete the remaining two-year term and, again in 2010 for a full six-year term. Mr Roth and his campaign workers will need to be full of the pioneering spirit of the Sooners as they get the rest of Oklahoma acquainted with the future--a future where, to paraphrase Dr. M.L.King, office holders are judged on the quality of their character coupled with their job effectiveness, and not who they love. The flat earth view of many in Oklahoma will be made all the rounder with Mr. Roth in office. Our House, Too offers a variety of activities for people who are HtV+ and or living with AIDS to help combat the social isolation that many of our people live through each and everyday. V~/e provide a Toiletry and Household Pantry for those who are HIV÷ and or living with AIDS who cannot afford to purchase these items for themselves, We invite anyone who would like to volunteer or provide financial assistance to please contact us by phone 91 8~585-9552 or e-mail harrismmjr@yahoo.com. OkJa omans for Equal Icon Honored oki~hom~ns for equality TULSA, OK___Print Magazine, one of America’s most prestigious publications in visual culture and design, has chosen the OkEq logo for its A+C=D Business Graphics Review to be featured in the September/ October issue. Every year Print sponsors five high-profile design competitions. The newest and fastest growing competition, A+C=D, brings together the full range of work done for corporate clients around the world--from print ads, corporate identities, and flyers to animated short films, websites, and interactive games. Print chose winners from selections submitted by firms worldwide. T. MOSS, Inc., a Tulsa-based graphic design firm, produced the award-winning icon as part of a branding campaign begun in June 2006. T.MOSS provides a full range of creative services, from strategic planning to print production and Web programming. With over 30 years in the business, the firm has met many design challenges. The development of the Ok~q identity provided its own set of considerations. "OkEq is a robust, purposeful organization that prides itself in its mission of inclusiveness, community outreach and human rights advocacy. We wanted to create a contemporary, upbeat visual image for OkEq that exemplifies their spirit and dedication," said Toni Moss who designed the logo. Oklahomans for Equality seel~ equal rights for gay, lesbian, bisexual, and transgender individuals and families through advocacy, education, programs, alliances, and the operation of the Dennis R. Neill Community Center. the STAR 5 6 the STAR Diversity Business Association of Tulsa Faces o£Ok ahoma Pride 2007 With two great metropolitan cities, Diversity Pride is strong in this Bible Belt State of Oklahoma. We have elected officials who are openly gay and glbt supportive. There are equal rights organizations both in Oklahoma City and Tulsa fighting for our future. Two Gay Rodeo Associations, numerous gay and glbt welcoming churches, entertainment venues, clubs, hotels and, two Diversity Business Associations, DBA Tulsa and DBA Metro. We have Oklahoma based Gay/Lesbian owned print and internet news publications supported by you and the business community. Most important is that we have an opportunity to grow stronger as a united group of Oklahoman’s with a huge glbt community separated by only 100 miles of turnpike. Yes, GLBT Pride is alive and ~vell in Oklahoma and we did celebrate. Check out our Faces of Oklahoma Pride on page 25. Sincerely, Charles (Chaz) Ward Publisher/Editor in Chief ARE WE FABULOUS ORWHAT By Victor Gorin From Memorial Day weekend through the month ofJune, GLBT Oklahomans gathered to share their pride in ways that nobody could have dreamed of less than 30 years ago. As we celebrate our state’s centennial keep in mind that all of us, from cowboy to fluff, from leatherman to drag queen, from lipstick lesbian to diesel divas, from disco boy to businessman, helped play a part of it and will shape our future. Let’s all look forward to it. GREAT PLAINS REGIONAL RODEO This annual event was held again at the Oklahoma State Fairgrounds, bringing cowboys and cowgirls nationwide. Featuring standard rodeo events as well as the hilarity of"goatdressing," it proved again to be a major success for those who love the western lifestyle. TULSA GAY PRIDE FESTIVITIES Tulsa celebrated their Gay Pride Parade June 9. Beginning at 15th & Utica, it concluded at Veteran’s Park where celebrants enjoyed Tulsa’s 25th LGBT Pride Festival. Although not forgotten by the protesters (with a banner reminding us to remember Sodom and Gommarha) (sic) the Parade came to a fabulous finale. The Festival featured maW ofTulsa’s finest entertainers, with diversions ranging from a Family Fun Zone to a beer garden, offering something for everyone. An estimated 17,000 people from all walks of life were in attendance. That night the Pride continued with the annual Oklahomans for Equality Diversity Gala, held in the Grand Ballroom of the Doubletree Warren Place. This year their Russell G. Bennett Award for Spiritual Inclusion went to the Reverend Leslie Penrose of Community of Hope UCC of Tulsa. Their Lifetime Achievement Award was presented to Dennis R. Neill, for whom the Tulsa gay community center is named, following a video depicting his life of service on behalf of GLBT Oklahomans. OKLAHOMA CITY GAY PRIDE FESTIVAL Oklahoma City celebrated the 20th Anniversary of their Gay Pride Parade, with their theme coinciding with the Oklahoma Centennial. For the first time the Festival and Parade were separate events, the Festival held in Memorial Park June 16-17 for ~wo days, featuring live entertainment as well as numerous vendors & exhibitors, with the Parade scheduled for June 24. The event was supported by a proclamation by State Senator Andrew Rice & State Representative A1 McAffrey, with Bob Lemon receiving the Irene Tyson Award from the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Political Caucus for his generous philanthropy and service to the GLBT community of Oklahoma. www.ozarksstar.com www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 7 OKLAHOMAN CAPTU S THE TITLE OF MR GAY ALL AMERICAN By Victor Gorin 8 the STAR O~AHOMA CITY, OKOklahomanTaz Bailey placed first at the National Mr. Gay M1Mnerican Contest held at the Copa in Oklahoma City May 19. Based on a competition that incorporated talent, modeling & interview, he captured the title followed by Sebastian Armonte of Pittsburgh (1 st alternate) and Dean Taylor of St. Louis (2nd alternate). Hosted by former Miss Gay America Rachael Erikks and Mr. Gay All American 2006 Lucas Flander, the event gave the spectators good eye candy as wet! as inspiration. Mr. Bailey will now promote the Mr. Gay All American Contest as a positive gay role model throughout the county. Recognized by Keller Williams For outstandiilg achievement 2005 and 2006 RIgA LTY Chuck Breckenridge 918-706-1887 REALTOR~ ~47hether buying or selling I’ll work hard~bryo~ www.ozarksstar.corr (Top) Jack Reavley (L) and Bob Claunch in 1953 ~he weekend-long festival will exhibit more than a dozen films including some of the best releases this ),ear in the genre of gay cinema. For more information about the event contact Amos Lassen: 501-372-3403(h) 870-550-6298(c) PREMIERE DATE: Saturday June 23 TIME: 8:00 pm LOCATION: Easy Street Piano Bar - 307 W. 7th Street, Little Rock, AR 72201 Phone: 501-372-3530 TICKETS: Tickets $5, $10 available at the door For more information, photographs and trailer visit: www.bobandjack. org DOCUMENTARY ABOUT HALFCENTURY ROMANCE BETWEEN TWO MEN OPENS the 1ST ANNUAL ARY kNSAS GAY AND LESBIAN FILM FESTIVAL. 7hisf!lm highlights how the two gay men met in the rnilitat3,, how they conj~onted the troops in their unit and how they struggle today as an unmarried couple in their eighties. LITTLE ROCK, AR__ In 1952 an Army sergeant was cornered and courted by his commanding officer. Their romance grew so obvious that rumors became anonymous tips to headquarters. They avoided court-martial by confronting their entire unit. That pivotal moment cemented Bob and Jack together for the rest of their lives. 52-years later they share how they remained a couple, how one man left his wife and children, how together they moved to a small town and became a fixture in the community, and today how they survive in their eighties without the benefits of marriage. Now Bob and Jack’s 52-Year Adventure, an award winning documentary about their relationship, will premiere Saturday June 23rd, 8 PM at the Easy Street Piano Bar as the opening night film of Reel Attractions, The Arkansas GLBTQ Film Festival. A discussion with director Stu Maddux follows. "We feel extremely honored to premiere at this festival," says Bob Claunch, now 81, from their home in Los Angeles, CA. "With everything going across the country with "dofft ask don’t tell" and with gay marriage, we hope people are encouraged by our story. We didn’t have it easy but we didn’t give up." "That’s one of the reasons we think that the film is a good message for young people too", says partner Jack Reavley, 83. "They need to know that they can have successful relationships. The skeptics are just waiting for us to fail when we try to have lifelong love. Well we didn’t, and we’re here to tell you that you won’t either’." 10 the STAR Eureka Sprin.qs Domestic Partnership R gistry Begins After two petition attempts Reverend Philip Wilson, pastor of Eureka Springs" First Christian Churchfailed to stop registration of same sex couples. Domestic Partnership Regist*7 began Friday, June 22, 2007 at 9:30AM. By Michael Walsh EUREKA SPRINGS, AR~ Blockage of the state’s first Domestic Partnership Registry scheduled to take effect June 22 left Advocates more determined than ever to see the measure implemented. The ordinance creating the registry was unanimously approved May 14 by the Eureka Springs City Council, after two months of&liberation and dtizen input. However anti-gay minister Philip \Vgilson halted the effective date late last week by submitting to the city clerk a petition of 147 signatures from opponents, three more than the minimum required to force a referendum on the issue August 14. Though disappointed by the delay, proponents are confident a majority of the resort town’s voters would ratify the measure. Broadbased support from hundreds of residents, toUrists, church groups and dozens of local businesses, suggest the effort to circumvent the city Council’s approval would fail at the polls. Unless the referendum can be tied to a pending sewer bond election, Wilson’s maneuver could cost the city already cash strapped between $6,000 and $9,000, the price tag for g Special election. Until then, the city wil! also be deprived of revenue $35 per couple from tourists and residents wishing to register. Hotel, restaurant, nightclub and gift shops will see no profit from Arkansas and out-of-state tourists who were holding off on vacation plans until the domestic partnership registry is in effect. Ironically, Wilson has asserted the Domestic Partnership Registry available to same-sex and opposite-sex couples would negatively impact the town’s economy, transforming it into a "Homosexual mecca" incompatible with such "faith-based" tourist attractions such as the Great Passion Play. .........................Continued next page. www.ozarksstar.com EUREY& SPRINGS REGISTRY Interestingly, almost 50 of the city’s businesses, about 25 percent, are gay owned and have existed in harmony with the Great Passion Play for years, even encouraging their customers to attend the staged production that depicts the life and death ofJesus Christ. Executives of the religious attraction, however, decline to return the favor, suggesting visitors avoid downto~vn Eureka Springs where they might see same-sex couples holding hands during any one of the city’s three annual "Diversity Weekends." Civil rights watchdog groups, such as the Human Rights Campaign Foundation and the ACLU have been monitoring events in Eureka Springs since April 9 when the Domestic Partnership ordinance first appeared on the city council’s agenda. So has the Arkansas Trial Lawyers Association. One member of the association has said he will lobby to have the group’s annual meeting in Eureka Springs moved to another city if the Domestic Partnership Registry is not enacted. Big business also has been waiting to see the fate of the Registry. AT&T alerted thousands of its employees last week that domestic partnership certificates would be available in Eureka Springs. The city clerk of Eureka Springs Mary Jean Sell rejected a first and second attempt to bring a domestic registry to a public vote. The petitions missed specific wording needed to bring the issue to a special election. Domestic Partnership Registry began Friday, June 22, at 9:30 AiM. Applicants must appear in person with proof of age and the $35 registration fee in cash. Application forms are available online at (wwvv.cityofeurekasprings.org/DPRterm.html). Certificates of Registry will not be mailed to applicants. 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest OKLAHOMA CITY, OK The Oklahoma Gay Rodeo Association has just announced their 2008 Great Plains Rodeo Poster Contest. The contest is open to anyone and everyone. Entries must be received by OGRA no later than July 31, 2007. OGRA sponsors the annual Great Plains Rodeo on Memorial Weekend. This event has been taking place since 1985. The 2008 edition of the Great Plains Rodeo will be the 23rd Annual. OGRA is proud to present this event each year as one of their largest fundraisers. As a major part of the rodeo they sponsor a poster contest with the winning design used for the rodeo poster, t-shirts and other publications. All submissions have to be original works. THE WINNING DESIGN WILL RECEIVE $175.00 IN PRIZE MONEY AND BECOME THE SOLE PROPERTY OF OGRA, INC. The other entries will be returned to the contestant upon request. All entries should be submitted to OGRA Inc., EO. Box 12485, Oklahoma City, OK 73157. Please include a brief bio of yourself i£you wish. The entries will be judged by the OGRA Board of Directors with finalists being selected. Those finalists then will be put on display as a part of a voting competition. The OGRA Membership table will be setup inside the Habana Inn hallway, between the Finishline and Copa, the third weekend in August where the poster finalists will be put on display. For further information email info@ogra.net or ~ontact any OGRA Board Member. HOLLYWOOD HOTEL & SUITES COMPLEX-FUTURE UNCERTAIN By Victor Gorin OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__When the Hollywood Hotel and Suites opened in 2006, owned by John Lewis & Warren Burdick, there were high hopes of a grand complex that would not only serve Oklahoma City but also be a gay tourist attraction. In its heyday it boasted the Topanga a full service restaurant and bar, the dance bar Club Rox, and a leather club called Pecs. According to Oklahoma County records John Lewis purchased the hotel, originally constructed in 1971, in January of 2006 for $1.2 million under the name LB Financial Group Inc. As of this writing both clubs and the restaurant are closed, and no other information is available except that the front desk personnel stated that it was due to renovations. We have heard conflicting reports as to how long the hotel will continue operating. Responding to an inquiry by the Star at 11:20 a.m. June 20, the front desk person stated that there were no definite plans of a date to cease operations. ~le STAR attempted to contact the owners of the hotel for more details, but no one has returned our calls. www.ozarksstar,com the STAR 11 Wha were some GLBT protests The Stonewall riots ofJune 1969 are often cited as the start of the gay liberation movement, but several GLBT protests occurred during the preceding ),ears. These early actions included both organized demonstrations and spontaneous bursts of outrage at specific injustices. Perhaps the first unplanned protest occurred in May 1959 at Cooper’s Donuts, an allnight hangout in downtown Los Angeles frequented by hustlers and drag queens. According to author John Rechy, who was present, police harassed and tried to arrest a few of the patrons, prompting others to throw food and tableware; the officers retreated to their car and summoned reinforcements, who closed the street and arrested several rioters. A similar event occurred in August 1966 at Compton’s Cafeteria in San Francisco. After a police officer tried to grab a young queen, some 50 customers hurled dishware and overturned tables, while outside a police car was destroyed and a newsstand was set on fire. ire Stonewall? activists demonstrated against the military ban outside the Whitehall Induction Center in New York CitT; the picketers included members of the Sexual Freedom League, some ofwhom were heterosexual. In early 1965, Craig Rodwell (who would later open the Oscar Wilde Memorial Bookshop, the first gay bookstore in the United States) and others demonstrated outside United Nations headquarters to protest ill treatment of gays in Cuba. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. Police harassment of gay bars in Los Angeles also spurred early protests. Soon after midnight on New Year’s Eve in 1967, police raided the Black Cat bar on Sunset Boulevard, beating patrons and bartenders and arresting several people for lewd conduct. Protests erupted outside the bar that night and continued for several days. A year later, police raided the Patch, another gay bar in the same city. After owner Lee Glaze shouted, "It’s not against the law to be homosexual," the patrons marched to the nearby Harbor Division police station and pelted the building with flowers. The first organized GLBT demonstrations took place in the mid-1960s to protest antigay discrimination in federal employment and the military. Typically, these actions were small and polite, featuring men in suits and women in dresses walking in circles holding signs. In 1964, about a dozen In the spring and summer of 1965, activists with the East Coast Homophile Organizations - cofounded by Frank Kameny, who had himself been fired from a government job - picketed the White House, the Pentagon, the State Department, and the Civil Service Commission in Washington, D.C. That summer, 40 activists staged the first of four ’~mnual Reminders" at Independence Hall in Philadelphia (home of the Liberty Bell) on July 4. The demonstration was organized by members of the Mattachine Society, the Daughters of Bilitis (DOB), and Philadelphia’s Janus Society; among the participants were several individuals who became well-known figures in the GLBT movement, including Barbara Gittings (an editor of DOB’s magazine, The Ladder) and Kiyoshi Kuromiya (later a prominent AIDS activist). ~lhe ?mnual Reminders ended after 1969 and were supplanted by yearly Gay Pride celebrations. "\Ve cracked the cocoon of invisibility," Gittings later recalled. "We had finally stepped forxvard and said to the public, ’I’m not going to live in a closet anymore."’ Added fetloxv participant Lilti Vincenz, "We exploded the myth that real homosexuals could [not] possibly look happy and proud and dignified and visible." In early 1966, the North American Conference of Homophile Organizations met in Kansas City and called for demonstrations on Armed Forces Day to protest the military ban. On May 21, actions took place in several cities, including a motorcade in Los Angeles with Mattachine Society founder Harry Hay. Homophile activists also took on the psychiatric establishment, protesting at professional conferences beginning in 1968. Public pickets initially proved controversial, as some members of the GLBT community preferred not to call attention to themselves. By the late 1960s, however, the country was in the grip of an era of militant protest by groups espousing diverse causes. One of the first actions of what would become known as the gay liberation (as opposed to the earlier homophile) movement was a March 1968 "gay-in" in Griffith Park in Los Angeles. In the same ci9; activists also began picketing Bamey’s Beanery, a diner that posted a sign reading "Fagots Stay Out" [sic]. In San Francisco in the spring of 1969, young queer militants demonstrated outside the offices of States Steamship Line for ,veeks to protest the firing of gay activist Gale Whittington. Tixe Stonewall riots garnered much more media attention than previous demonstrations and sparked intensified gay organizing across the country. Since that time, GLBT protests have been a mainstay of the movement’s strategy, waxing and waning in cycles that reflect the overall national political and social climate. While the polite pickets of the mid-1960s may appear tame to contemporary activists, it took considerable courage for GLBT people to demand their rights at a time when homosexual conduct was illegal and gays were considered mentally ill. "Visibility has always been the keystone of our struggle for civil rights," Gittings said in the 2004 documentary Gay Pioneers. "We are pushing for equality through visibility. Today, we have visibility - oh, do we have visibility!" 14 the STAR ww,qozarksstar.com ~rna Mial Tour - Pictured Se~n ,~Jl~n Joan Marcus Wha a W dding! 200Z B~vacl~ay Season Ends with a Special Bonus By Joey De The 2006-2007 Broadway Season came to a close with an Abba-solute hit when Celebrity Attractions presented the awardwinning musical "Mamma Mia!" to Tulsa audiences May 8-13. Featuring the music of the sensational seventies group Abba, "Mamma Mia!" is the sho~v that not only brought their music to a new generation, but also birthed an entirely new genre on Broadway. Following the show’s nearly sold out run, there is no question why. Using over twenty of the European group’s greatest hits, "Mamma Mia!" tells Mamma Mia! Tour - P~ctur~cl Corey Greenan & Company Photo: 200~, Joan Marcua the story of young Sophie and her dream to find her father. Sophie’s mother, Donna, had a wild streak in the seventies and has never spoken much about her mate, leaving the young girl to invite three potential paternals to their quaint Greek island getaway just in time for her wedding. Brilliantly reflecting issues relevant to the Abba-generations such as fleeing fathers, self worth and the quest for true happiness, the show deals a heavy hand of social commentary wrapped in a comfortable blanket of feel-good comedy. In fact, the book brilliantly written by Catherine Johnson infuses the show with such a high dose of innocence and fun that its life lessons are delivered in witty one-liners. Amplifying the show’s feel good fun is the hit music that everybody knows. From "Dancing Queen," to "Take a Chance on Me," singing along with the young and enthusiastic cast becomes contagious. Perhaps though, the show’s greatest musical milestone is intertwining music that has been around for thirty years with an original story so seamlessly that you would swear they were written for each other. At the heart, "Mamma Mia!" is a fun, frolicking musical. It doesn’t pretend to be anything more than it is and it doesn’t fail to deliver. With its glitz, glam and spandex, it is a show that can make the most manically depressed smile. Following on the heels of"Mamma Mia!" is another show guaranteed to tickle your funny bone, or hit you over the head with a herring. As a bonus to the season, Celebrity Attractions will be presenting the smash hit musical "Monty Pythons Spamalot," the show that lovingly rips off the cult-classic film. "Spamalot," written by former Pythonite by Eric Idle, is based on the screenplay of "Monty Python and the Holy Grail," written by the original Monty Python troupe of Graham Chapman, John Cleese, Terry Gilliam, Terry Jones, Michael Palin, and Idle. Epic in nature, "Spamalot," is tells the legendary tale of King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table, and their quest for the Holy Grail. It features a chorus line of dancing divas and knights, taunting Frenchmen, killer rabbits and one legless knight. Award-winning and side splitting, "Spamalot" will be in Tulsa Jul. 10-15. Tickets are on sale now at ~wcw.myticketoNce.com. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 15 "Roasted Sweet Red Pepper & Potato Soup" To make the soup more colorful, use a combination of red, yellow and orange bel! peppers. And if you want to dress it up a little more, you can garnish it with pesto, croutons or minced fresh herbs. For a chowder like consistency, do not puree the soup but be sure to cut the peppers, onion and potatoes into neat uniform dice. Ingredients: 4 - 5 large red bell peppers 1 large or 2 medium yellow onions, diced 1 - 2 cloves garlic, minced 3 tablespoons olive oil 6 cups Chicken Stock 2 medium potatoes, peeled and diced 1/4 - 1/2 cup heavy cream 3 tablespoons chopped basil Kosher or sea salt Freshly ground pepper Procedure: Roast, peel, seed and dice the bell peppers. Heat the oil in a large pot and saute the onion and garlic over medium heat until translucent. Add the bel! peppers and stock and cook for 10 minutes. Add the potatoes and cook until tender. Puree the soup and strain it into a clean pot. Add the cream, basil, salt and pepper. Stir and bring just to a boil. Be VERY CAREFUL to heat the soup gently and take extra care NOT to boil it. Serv’es 8 to 10 people. More on FOG CITY DINER, San Francisco, California see page I9. we are in San ] www.ozarksstar.com O,,e ofthe most sce.,ic views on Martha’s Vineyard is Aquinnah Lighthouse, which isperched big,:, , bo ,e the is/a.o:’s ,,,,de beach, a’hoto 6,.a,d ew JULY 2007 By Andrew Collins Since Provincetown bursts at the seams all summer long with excitement and socializing, quite a few lesbians and gay men across New England have begun heading to a quieter but no less charming and remote seaside getaway, Martha’s Vineyard. Over the past several years, especially since Massachusetts legalized gay marriage, the island has seen a gradual but discernible growth in gay and lesbian visitation. One key to enjoying this sparkling emerald island off the southern coast of Cape Cod (it’s accessible by only ferry or plane) is to arrive with a lover rather than hoping to find one upon arrival. Of course, Martha’s Vineyard - along with its neighbor to the east, Nantucket - has long been a highly desirable destination. Families have been building the nmv-ubiquitous weathered-shingle cape-style houses here for more than three centuries, dating to the island’s origins as a sleepy fishing settlement. Yachting and hobnobbing among the rich and famous became official pastimes during the early part of this century. Glitterati such as Carly Simon, James Taylor, Spike Lee, Sharon Stone, Meg Ryan, Denzel Washington, Ted Danson, and Mary Steen bergen regularly spend time here. Members of the Kennedy clan have been sailing over for years, and political pundits will always associate Martha’s Vineyard with the Chappaquiddick scandal that ultimately cost Ted Kennedy the U.S. presidency. Come for a visit, however, and you’ll hear little talk of celebrity-spotting and rumormongering. Famous or unknown, gay or straight, folks come to Martha’s Vineyard to get away from the vagaries and pressures of life on the mainland. Here you’!l discover historic inns, some of the finest restaurants in coastal New England, and a handful of enchanting villages, each with its own pace and personality. The town of Vineyard Haven is an ideal base. This walkable village has a few gayfriendly inns, some hip restaurants and boutiques, and an enviable sheltered location overlooking Vineyard Haven Harbor. The other communities on the island are within a half-hour drive (or an afternoon’s bike ride - Martha’s Vineyard is ideal for cyclists, and there are rental shops near each of the ferry terminals). If you wish to stay right in Vineyard Haven, book a room at the breezy Crocker House Inn, a 1920s beach house owned by young and friendly innkeepers Jeff and Jynd! Kristal. Rooms are casually smart, with white-wicker furnishings, and some have fireplaces and whirlpool tubs. \Vithin a 10-minute stroll of these inns are several fine shops, a quirky old movie theater, and a few nice eateries. A favorite is Cafe Moxie, which presents an intriguing range of relatively affordable rood-American dishes. If you’re in the mood for a lobster roll, drop by the Net Result, a simple fish market a 10-minute walk from the ferry terminal serving some of the freshest seafood around. Oak Bluffs and Edgartown are the two other major settlements on the island (they are also the only towns ~vith liquor licenses; restaurants elsewhere on the island are BYOB, although it’s expected that by 2008, Vineyard Haven will obtain a license that permits the sale of liquor at restaurants). Oak Bluffs has been more heavily developed than other towns on the island, with a bounty of lively bars and rollicking amusements popular with college students and teenagers. It’s a fun town for window-shopping, picking up an ice cream cone at a local parlor, and eating - there are plenty of terrific restaurants in Oak Bluffs. At the upper end, the Sweet Life Cafe serves outstanding regional American fare and occupies a handsome Victorian house along the town’s main drag, Circuit Avenue - try the squid-ink fettuccine with shrimp, scallops, calamari, and a tomato-basil-garlic broth. More casual and less pricey options, both of which are also fun places to sip cocktails and socialize, include Sharky’s Cantina, which serves up terrific Tex-Mex in a festive ambience, and the Lookout Tavern, a rustic seafood shack overlooking the sea and serving not only great platters of fried and broiled fish and shellfish but also first-rate sushi. Edgartown is the island’s somewhat more conservative community, at least in appearance if not necessarily in politics (this is still a highly liberal part of the world, especially on social issues). This posh historic village defined by gorgeous white-clapboard Colonial homes and neatly manicured gardens has several convivial eateries, and numerous high-end clothiers and boutiques downtown. Tops for dining are Detente, a 20 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com hip little wine bar serving superbly crafted, innovative fare like lemon-honey-basted halibut with truffled leek puree, baby artichokes, and oven-dried tomatoes. A more casual but still reliable bet is the Wharf Pub, which serves consistently good burgers, salads, and pub fare. Right in Edgartown you’ll find some lovely, gay-friendly accommodations, including the Shiverick Inn, a grand Second Empire mansion where romantic rooms have sumptuous Victorian bedding and antiques, and the Hob Knob Inn, a handsome and well-run 18- room Gothic Revival property with unfussy but attractive furnishings reminiscent of an English country house. Just south of Edgartown, with a fantastic location on Katama Beach, the Winnetu Oceanside Resort makes for a delightful retreat, especially if you’ve got kids in tow - in fact, this is one of the best gay-friendly, family-oriented properties on the East Coast. The property consists of a luxury inn with one- to four-bedroom suites as well as a cluster of three- to five-bedroom town homes. The resort offers dozens of diversions to keep you busy, from bike tours to whale-watching trips, and there’s a world-class tennis facility on-site. Also, Winnetu’s restaurant, Lure, serves some of the most inventive seafood fare on the island, such as butter-poached lobster with soft cornbread, roasted corn, and fava beans. This upscale resort draws mostly families with kids in summer, but it’s more of a couples destination during the mellower spring and fall shoulder seasons. Outdoors enthusiasts should stick to the western side of Martha’s Vineyard (referred to locally as Up-Island). Here you can sample fresh lobster dockside in the picturesque fishing village ofMenemsha (a great place to stop for a casual seafood lunch - just try one of the restaurants on the pier), or admire ocean views from the lighthouse and multihued clay cliffs at Aquinnah (formerly known as Gay Head). Below the Gay Head cliffs you will find, appropriately, a popular nude beach with a moderate following among gays and lesbians - when you hit the beach, turn right, and walk all the way to the end (about 30 minutes). A tip: If you’d like to check the scene out in advance, drop some change into one of the coin-operated magnifying lenses near the base of the lighthouse - it’s the closest you’ll come to a peep show on Martha’s Vineyard. In the Up-Island community of West Tisbury, set back on a wooded property slightly off the beaten path, you’ll find the island’s most opulent gay-owned property, Lambert’s Cove Inn. Innkeepers Scott Jones and I. Kell Hicklin have restored what had been a somewhat dowdy country hotel into a sophisticated boutique inn with smartly furnished rooms set among three buildings. Amenities include DVD/CD players, high-speed Internet, and plush Egyptian cotton linens, and some rooms have private screened-in porches. A sunken pool in back is the perfect place to while away a hot afternoon. And in the evening, the inn’s elegant dining room serves outstanding contemporary American fare, such as braised veal cheeks with sweet corn, English pea risotto, and a Madeira wine reduction. It’s the definitive venue for a relaxing Martha’s Vineyard hideaway. 1-800-535-NDS (2437) Ok~ahoma’~ H~V/STD Hotfine www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 21 J U L¥ 2007 Truth Calling Lesbian Notions, looks at the nomination ofDr. James VX Holsinger to be the U.S. Surgeon General. My phone rang recently, and it was a local radio station asking me to respond to samesex marriage still being the law of the land in Massachusetts. The measure calling for a constitutional amendment to ban same-sex marriage there was defeated by the full state legislature, 45 yes votes and a resounding 151 no’s. Of course, my response was measured, delivered in appropriate sound bites, and echoing what everyone else is saying about the victory. It’s great for Massachusetts, but even greater for the rest of the country, where many LGBT people are still struggling to attain basic civil rights. The vote lets us put our resources into 2008 where they need tO be - focusing on the presidential and pivotal state races, rather than having to pump tons of money into defeating another bad bill. Ah, but truth be told, this victory is sweet but short, because now we need to turn our attention to defeating a bad nomination - that of Kentucky’s Dr. James W. Holsinger for U.S. Surgeon General. My initial response after reading about Holsinger was, "Who the hell is givingWadvice these days?" Didn’t they see what would happen if they nominated a homophobic, radical Christian who started an ex-gay ministry? Did they think we wouldn’t notice? On the face of it, Holsinger seems like a credible medical professional. He is a cardiologist who holds the University of Kentucky’s Charles T. Wethington Jr. Chair in the Health Sciences, and is the former chancellor of UK’s Chandler Medical Center. Just because he’s from the heart of the Bible Belt doesn’t mean we have to automatically jump to conclusions about his politics. After all, Abe Lincoln was born there, the LGBT community is gaining political strength in the Bluegrass State through the Kentucky Fairness Alliance, and they’ve even got an openly gay man in the state Senate - Ernesto Scorsone. Well, maybe you should start jumping after all. Because as Wayne Besen ofTruth Wins Out put it, "Holsinger is an ideologue 22 the STAR whose medical views on gay and lesbian people resemble sorcery more than sound science." Holsinger is not only a doctor, but a devout Christian who is a high-ranking lay leader in the United Methodist Church - you know, the folks who talk about "Open Hearts, Open Minds, Open Doors" - except, of course, when it comes to us. In his position on the United Methodist Judicial Council (the place where the buck stops in the Methodist Church), Holsinger’s record is anything but promising for LGBT people. He opposed the 2004 decision to allow Rev. Karen Dammann, a lesbian, to continue serving as a minister. He backed the deftocking of Rev. Beth Stroud, who came out to her Pennsylvania church community at the First United Methodist Church of Germantown. And, in one of the ugliest acts of religious discrimination, Holsinger backed a Virginia pastor who barred an openly gay man from church membership. One could argue that those actions were his personal beliefs and wouldn’t interfere with him being the country’s top doctor. Perhaps...but one need only read the Pathophysiology of Male Homosexuality, a "scientific" paper Holsinger wrote in 1991 for the Church’s Committee to Study Homosexuality, to see how his personal beliefs impact his science. The piece is available online at abcnews. go.com/images/Politics/Holsinger_on_Homosexuality. pdf. (If you want some laughs, Stephen Colbert of The Colbert Report did a hilarious send-up of the paper and Holsinger - you can watch it at http://rawstory. com/news/2007/Colbert Report Why are gays still 0614.html.) One of my favorite passages reads, "...the logical complementarity of the human sexes has been so recognized in our culture that it has entered our vocabulary in the form of naming various pipe fittings either the male fitting or the female fitting depending upon which one interlocks within the other. When the complementarity of the sexes is breached, injuries and diseases may occur.... Therefore, based on the simplest knmvn anatomy and physiology, xvhen dealing ~vith the complementarity of the human sexes, one can simply say, Res ipsa loquitur - the thing speaks for itself!" I guess the thing that is "speaking for itself" is a penis, which, in his estimation, belongs in only one place - a vagina. This is more like the science of a 6-year-old, not a 68-year-old. I won’t get any more graphic. But ifyou want a great deconstruction of the paper, go to Jim Burroway’s xwwv.boxturtlebulletin.com, a site that is devoted to debunking the lies told about us through research and well-reasoned writing. His conclusion puts Holsinger’s snake-oil chicanery in the proper perspective. To add insult to injury, when Holsinger and his wife were congregants at Lexington’s First United Methodist Church, they helped their pastor form a new "outreach, congregation called the Hope Springs Community Church. Hope Springs sports an antigay ministry. According to them, being gay is just a lifestyle. With Christ’s love, anyone can be straight. Next up are Holsinger’s confirmation hearings. When they’re scheduled, Holsinger will go before the U.S. Senate Committee on Health, Education, Labor, and Pensions, which is chaired by Edward Kennedy (DMass.). Three Democratic presidential candidates - Hiltary Clinton (N.Y.), Chris Dodd (Conn.), and Barack Obama (I11.) - sit on the committee. Only Clinton has definitely said no to Holsinger. Dodd and Obama have strong concerns. John Edwards, although no longer in the Senate,opposes the nomination. We xvon in Massachusetts. Conservatives are calling for the repeal of "don’t ask, don’t tell." If there was ever a time for Democratic Party leaders to find their backbone, this is it. It’s time for truth to go a-calling- Holsinger’s homophobia has no place in medicine or in government. w~,~v.ozarksstar.com By Joey De \vgith the placing of the cro~vn, Oklahoma City based performer Adrianna became the new Miss Oklahoma Continental on May 25 at Club Majestic in Tulsa. The evening, filled with national title holders and special entertainers marked the reign of Miss Oklahoma Continental 2006, Kandy Cayne. For Adrianna, the achievement is another milestone in a career highlighted with titles. "I now have been a state title holder in 3 of the big 4 pageant systems," says Adrianna. "I was Miss Kansas USofA in 2000 and Miss Gay Oklahoma America in 2004." "There are several differences between those and Continental," notes the performer. "The major one is the addition of the swimwear competition. Also, the interview process was a new experience as well since it is a group setting, not one-on-one. Overall, the style of the system seems to be more ’fashion-forward’ than any of the other systems that I have been involved in." Adrianna entered the Continental system hoping to become "known for her unique sense of style. "I heard one time that the ability to accessorize is what separates us from the animals," she jokes. According to Thompson, Adrianna was born on Halloween at a DIFFA masquerade ball, and has been performing since 1995. "I began doing drag after my friends hauled me to Miss Gay Oklahoma America the year that Gertrude Garnet won. I was barely 21 and was engaged to a female. However, I knew from that moment on I belonged in a dress on that stage. The rest is history." For Thompson, much of his inspiration behind the character or Adrianna comes from his morn. "I was a mamma’s boy... she’s a great lady. She’s an elected official who is very politically active, and stands up for what she believes in." A self described performer since birth, Adrianna is the drag transformation of Sapulpa native Jon Thompson. Thompson, who spends his days as a customer care representative for a major telecommunications firm, says that he has been happily married to his husband (and fellow performer) Chris for the past two years. The couple also shares custody of their child, Alden, their miniature Schnauzer. With his forthcoming reign as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson hopes to grow as a female impersonator and overcome new challenges. "I have already learned so much. It has made me expand my mind to think of drag in a new way. I have used it to launch me out of a rut, and made me have the perception that drag is fun again...I have been at it a few years, and like most things you can tire of it. But at this point...I am always thinking of the next best number or costume." Thompson also ~vishes to reach out as an ambassador of the community with his latest title. "I think that I am in a unique position by being a former Miss Oklahoma America. I can promote the pageant and the system by working with the other systems. I will also be launching a fund-raising campaign, in honor ofmy aunt who is a breast cancer survivor. The net proceeds will benefit the Susan G. Komen foundation." As a part of that campaign, Thompson will be walking with his cousin from Dallas to Fort Worth over the course of three days, and encourages people to visit www.the3day. org for more information. While not attending to appearances as Miss Oklahoma Continental, Thompson can be seen performing as Adrianna on the third Sunday of every month. For information and updates on special appearances, fans can visit www.myspace.com/mgo2004. OGLP¢’s Tyson Award for 2007, Nr. Bob Lemon By James Nimmo Photo by Victor Gorin. Left to Right Bob Lemon and Paul Thompson. OKLAHOMA CITY, OK__ Mr. Bob Lemon, a staunch Oklahoma Democrat and devoted supporter of LGBT equality, was named the recipient of the 2007 Irene Tyson Award given annually by the Oklahoma Gay and Lesbian Caucus (OGLPC) (http:// www.oglpc.com/). The award is given to an outstanding individual who has demonstrated long term commitment to the furtherance of LGBT equality under the law, and who is a role model for changing public opinion The award was a complete surprise for Mr. Lemon but he was not at a loss for words. "Gay people aren’t broken and don’t need fixing," he said in defiance of the notion that LGBT citizens are second-rate Americans in need of counseling. Mr. Lemon also had the honor of reading to the crowd of enthusiastic listeners an Oklahoma Legislative Proclamation recognizing LGBT Pride events in Oklahoma City issued by State Senator Andrew Rice and State Representative A1 McAffrey, both Democrats in their first term of office and firm believers in our LGBT equality. Mr. Lemon is also a front-line supporter, member of Oklahoma Stonewall Democrats, (www.okstonewall.org) the LGBT voice of the Oklahoma and National Democratic Party, with chapters in all 50 states and Washington, DC. www.ozarksstar.com The STAR 23 The following column is very sarcastic and may not be suitable for sensitive readers. I present two potential clients that have threatened for months to begin a workout program with me. Simon is an affable creature who loves watching Diamondbacks and Cardinals games. He enjoys pina coladas and getting caught in the rain. He would give you the shirt offhis back if you needed it. The problem is you wouldn’t be able to use it. Or maybe you would. You would only, need to fit intoa Triple X kimono. Simon tips the scales at an awkward twenty-five stone. That’s 350 pounds for all you nonlimeys out there. He’s six feet tall so yeah that’s 99 Luft Balloons Big. This column is a la carte so I’!l feel free to load up Simon’s plate with more health impediments. Let’s add three packs ofViceroys per day. Don’t forget the four nights per week of all night benders and enough Sauza Gold to paralyze three Mexican towel boy,s. For good measure I’ll throw in the 6,0130 calorie per diem at "his expense" account. What advice would I give to Simple Simon? Dear see-mone, (enjoy the moment of French) I would recommend spending $10,000 on a remodeling project for your home. It would clearly be advantageous to blow your money on a whimsical attempt to make yourself feel better by painting the walls tropical tapioca and adding that new Ethan Allen collection to your living room. Think of hmv much excitement wil! pulse through your damaged vessels as you gaze adoringly upon your newly acquired Vc:aterford Crystal that sparkles like the glint of stupidity in your eyes. You were able to resist the temptation of hiring a qualified personal trainer for six months. This trainer would have only robbed you of those extra 150 pounds you have been safeguarding and would have charged you several thousands dollars for the difficult deed. He might have even saved you from hospitalization and tens of thousands of dollars spent on gastric bypass surgery. It’s lucky that you watch HGTV and have a subscription to Martha Stewart Living. Money well spent. Which room beckons next? Roger also weighs approximately 350 pounds and he too rises vertically to six feet. Roger eats like an F350 Ford truck and he waddles like an emperor penguin. He blames his excessive girth on a thyroid problem and has plenty more excuses ready if you don’t buy that one. He began his smoking career after watching Sunset Boulevard at age seventeen. He now smokes his Parliaments as elegantly as Gloria Swanson ever did. He has been ready for his close up for nearly 28 years. Roger works longer hours than an Indonesian schoolboy in a sweatshop. Fortunately for Roger he is earning considerably more money and is in no danger of breaking aW nails in his pristine white collar job. He has a significant stash of money and is well-educated from the University ofArizona. Roger complains about the rigors of the dating world. He elaborates ad nauseam on the difficulties of finding Mr. Right. He has found glimmers of hope from escorts, massage "specialists", and websites featuring boy,s who seek Mr. Night. My advice for Roger Rabbit is as follows: Dear Roger, Don’t worry! The right guy for you is out there. Thank goodness for you that we dodt live in a superficial world where you are judged by your looks. Most 23 year old guys with chiseled bodies and dashing good looks will seek out your 45 year old flabby, elephantine physique. Further good news for you is that none of these Adonises will be attracted to your BMW, Versace Suits, or 3,000 square foot wallet that can buy them presents. They will appreciate your knowledge, bubbly personalib; and the ability to pick out the correct port wine to sip with your Dairy Queen Royal Treat of the day. I would continue to spend your hard earned cash on vacations to places where no one wants to see you with your shirt off. Perhaps love will truly blossom in the midst of a massage or in the throes of professionalism from that elegant escort. I wouldn’t bother evacuating your money from the bank for trivial purposes of bettering your health. What need have you for physical training when you are immortal? Heart attacks, diabetes, and high blood pressure always happen to that other guy. I think (hope) you get the point. This sardonicism is brought to you by Ron Blake. Ron can be reached at blake.fimess@yahoo.com or at 480-241-5651. 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TUESDAY July 3~ THE COPA: Strip-Off Contest Midnight. HIDF2XWAY LOUNGE: Karaoke 8pm After Dark is a flee service m our advertisers andis the responsibility of the advertiser to inform dxe STAR in ,amw.ozarksstar.¢om writing of updates, additions or discontinued events. The STAR is not responsible for accuracy. STAR 27 "Practice economy, Gemini!" Mercury is in Cancer turning direct, offering an opportunity to apologize for emotional outbursts and correct al! the problems that erupted while he was retrograde. If you don’t know where to start, try the kitchen. ARIES (March 20 -April 19): Get to the root of recent household messes. If you own, fix plumbing, electricity, or whatever. If you rent, make a list for the landlord. Call family members and resolve misunderstanding& At least have a nice chat with Morn. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Mend fences with neighbors, and call or write to your siblings. It’s an excellent time to sign up for classes in any basic skills or techniques that have interested you, especially if they touch on domestic arts or community-building. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Think about your patterns in impulse spending. Everyone does it, but now is your time to look at your own finar~cial strengths and weaknesses, to get those books better organized, and to practice better economy. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): It’s OK - you can finally clean up the confusion and chaos that seem to have taken over in recent weeks. Look for long-latent, underlying problems at the root of those troubles. LEO (July 23 - August 22): Worries and fears that have been aggravating you lately now seem like ridiculous shadows. But they’ll be back to haunt you again if you don’t take a look at them and their roots. A meditative retreat should help. VlRGO (August 23 - September 22): Give your friends a chance to apologize and correct recent disappointments. Or maybe you should be the one patching things up. You can only take responsibility for yourself; still, shouldering more than your share of the blame could go a long way toward fixing things. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): Recent misunderstandings may have you hiding out from your boss, landlord, or other authority figures, and/or undermining your own authority. Now is the time to clean up the lines of command and get your career back on track. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): All those reasons that kept you from taking classes, traveling, or otherwise expanding your world and your mind have fallen away. At least reconsider those opportunities and look at ways to get over the obstacles. 28 the STAR SAGITTAR~US (November 22 - December 20): Sex may be more trouble than it’s worth, but has that ever stopped you? You may have slowed down lately, but recent problems and odd shifts of desire can now be re-examined to achieve greater understanding and pleasure. Talking about those issues will help! CAPRlCORN (December 21 - January 19): You can finally clear up problems that have been brewing with your partner. That "seems-you-can’t-say-anything-right" period is over. Sing out, Louise, and let your baby hear what you have to say! Your listening skills are also suddenly improving. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Been delaying trips to the doctor or the gym? That’s probably been a good instinct, but get your tush back into action! See the doctor first for any problems with or advice about exercising. Discuss nutrition, too! And then renew your health regimen. PISCES (February 19 - hlarch 19): Your creative block is finally over! Drag out the canvases, manuscripts, and instruments. If your muse needs to be fed, get to the kitchen and dig out some long-neglected recipes. A small dinner party will help get your juices flowing, too. METROPOLITAN COMMUNITY CHURCHES Rev Steve T. Urie Spirit of Christ MCC 2902 E 20th Street Joplin, MO 64804 417-529-8480 Worship Saturdays at 10:00 AM Community Meal Wednesdays at 6:00 PM MCC of the Living Spring 17 Elk Street Eureka Springs, AR 72632 479-253-9337 Worship Sundays at 6:00 PM Have a God filled and BleSSed Day! www.ozarksstar,com Arkansas, Bentonville/Rogers (479) NWA GLBT Ctr .... www.nwaglbtcc.org.........888-391-9222 Barnes & Noble Bks - - 261 N. 46th St., Rogers....479-636-2002 Arkansas, Eureka Springs (479) ..... Diversity Pride Events - www.e~vers ~ypr ae.com A Byrd’s Eye View..... 36 N. Main........... 479-253-0200 Caribe Restaurante.... 309 W VanBuren....... 479-253-8102 Henri’s ....... 19 1/2 Spring St ............. 479-253-5795 Lumberyard Bar&Grill- - - 105 E VanBuren....... 479-253-0400 MCC Living Spring - 17 Elk Street- Service 6PM- - -479-253-9337 Swiss Holiday Resort- Hwy 62 at Hwy 23 So.- .... 888-582-8464 Spexton 17B Spring Street .......... 479-98t-6060 Tiki Torch........ 75 S. Main Street- ..........479-253-2305 Tradewinds Lodge - 141 W. VanBuren.......... 800-242-1615 Arkansas, Fayetteville (479) Common Ground Restaurant- - - 412 W. Dixon - - - 479-442-3515 Condom Sense 418 W. Dickson...... -479-444-6228 Curry’s Video - - - 612 N. College Ave.......... -479-521-0009 Flames Bar - - - 40 E. Center- ............... 479-251-1922 Passages ......930 N. College Ave.......... -479-442-5845 Tangerine Club - -21 N. Block Ave............. 479-587-9512 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kin keads.......1004 1/2 Garrison Ave........ 479-783-9988 Klub XLR8 ......1022 Dodson Ave- - 479-782-9578 Red Rock City - - - 917 N. "A" St.- ............. 479-242-2489 Arkansas, Hot Springs (501) Jesters Lounge .... 1010 E. Grand Ave 501-624-5455 Arkansas, Little Rock (501) Back Street ....1021 Jessie Rd...............501-6642744 Diamond State Rodeo Assoc.- ............... ~vw.dsra.org Discovery..... 1021 Jessie Rd...............501-666-6900 Sidetracks - - -415 Main St - -North L.R.- ........ 501-244-0444 The Factory ...... 412 Louisiana St.- ......... 501-372-3070 Club U.B.U. - ..... 824 W Capitol Ave......... 501-375-8580 Kansas, Junction City (785) Xcalibur Club...... 384 Grant Ave. 785-762-2050 Kansas, Pittsburg (620) PSU-QSA.-- 1701 S. Broadway- 620-231-0938 River of Life Church.- - 1709 N. Walnut- -Service 11AM Kansas, Wichita (316) Our Fantasy/South40..... 3201 S. Hillside......316-682-5494 Priscilla’s..... 6143 W Kellogg Dr- -316-942-1244 Club Glacier- ......... 2828 E. 31st South......316-612-9331 Missouri, Ava (417) Catus Canyon Campground ................. 417-683-9199 Missouri, Joplin (4t7) MCC Spirit of Christ- - -2902 E 20th, - ......Sat Service-9:30AM Joplin Gay/Lesbian Cntr- PO Box 4383, zip 64803- -417-622-7821 Missouri, Kansas City (816) 40th Street Inn....www.40thstreetinn.com.......816-561-7575 Concourse Park B&B - - 300 Benton Bird 816-231-1196 Hydes KC Gym & Guest Hs - www.hydeskc.com - - 816-561-1010 Missie B’s....805 W. 39th St................816-561-0625 Missouri, Springfield (417) The Edge..... 424 Boonville Ave..... 417-831-4700 GLO Comm, Ctr---518 E. Commerical- 417-869-3978 JR’s Nightclub.... 504 E. Commerical- 417-831-9001 Martha’s Vineyard- - - 219 W Olive ........... -417-864-4572 Ronisuz Place....821 College............... 417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Enid (580) Hastings Books....104 Sunset .............. 580-242-6838 Priscilla’s. 4810-A West Garriott........ 580-233-5511 Oklahoma, Lawton (580) Ingrids Bookstore..... 1124 NW Cache Rd......580-353-1488 Oklahoma, l~cA~ester (918) ~cPride........... POBox 1515, - .... McAlester, OK 74502 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) American Crossroads B&B - POBox 270642...... 405-495-1111 Blue Dog Liquor- ..... -4015 N. Penn 405-606-7000 Boom Room....... 2807 NW 36th St 405-601-7200 Border’s Books...... 3209 NW Expressway..... 405-848-2667 CD Warehouse...... 4001 N. Penn - 405-525-7766 Club Rox.......3535 NW 39th Expw~j........ -405-947-2351 Christie’s Toy Box.....3126 N. May Ave ....... 405-946-4438 Church of Open Arms......3131 N. Penn...... 405-525-9555 Copa.............2200 NW 39th Exp.........405-525-0730 Eastern Ave Video- - -1105 S Eastern Ave....... -405-6726459 Finishline ....... 2200 NW 39th Expwy........405-525-9200 First Amendment Tatoo Shop- - - 2135 NW 39th - - -405-604-3911 Gushers Restaurant- ....2200 NW 39Exp ...... 405-525-0730 Habana Inn ........2200 NW 39th Exp 405-528-2221 Herland Sisters Resources.... 2312 NW 39th St- -405-521-9696 Hollywood Hotel.... 3535 NW 39th Exp ....... Hi-Lo Club 1221 NW 50th Jungle Reds .......2200 NW Expwy- Ledo.............2200 NW Expwy..... Naughty But Nice .... 3121 SW 29th St ....... Partners......... 2805 NW 36th St Pec’s -3535 NW 39th Expw ....... Priscilla’s......... 615 E. Memorial- Red Rock North- - - 2240 NW39th St. Rudy’s Place......3535 NW39th Expw......... Phoenix Rising .... 2120 NW 39th St- The Park........ 2125 NW 39th St ......... -405-528-4690 The Patio........ 3201 N. May Ave 405-917-1663 Topanga Grill & Bar- - - 3535 NW 39th. -405-947-2351 Tramps............2201 NW 39th-- 405-521-9888 Ziggy’s............ 4005 N. Penn- -405-521-9999 -405-947-2351 405-843-1722 405-524-5733 .... 405-525-0730 -405-681-5044 405-942-2199 -405-947-2351 405-755-8600 405-525-5165 405-947-2351 405-601-3711 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge....7204 E. Pine .............918-836-8700 Border’s Book Store- - - 2740 E. 21st........... 918-712-9955 Border’s Book Store - - - 8015 S. Yale .......... 918-494-2665 Circle Cinema...... 10 S, Lewis- - - 918-592-3456 Club 209 ....... 209 N. Boulder ............ 918-584-9944 Club Majestic........ 124 N. Boston - 918-584-9494 Club Maverick..... 822 S. Sheridan 9t8-835-3301 Cosmo Dell & Bar - - 6746 S. Memorial -918-459-0497 Dreamland Bks .... 8807 E. Admiral PI -918-834-1051 Equality Center ..... 621 E. 4th Street- ........918-743-4297 Hideaway Cocktail Lounge--- 11730 E. 11th......918-437-0449 HOPE Clinic....... 3540 E. 31st - 918-749-8378 Midtown- 319 E. 3rd.............. 918-584-3112 Openarms Youth Projt - - - 2015 S. Lakewood.....918-838-7104 Our House, Too ....203 N Nogales Ave..... .....918-585-9552 Priscilla’s .........7925 E. 41st- .918-627-4884 Priscilla’s ........ 5634 W. Skelly ........... 918-446-6336 Priscilla’s ........ 11344 E. 11th -918-438-4224 Priscilla’s ......... 2333 E. 71st.............918-499-1661 Renegades 1649 S. Main ........... 918-585-3405 Rob’s Records- - -2909 S. Sheridan Rd......... 918-627-1505 Sappho’s........ 6373-C E 31st St.......... 918-836-0299 Tulsa CARES.... 3507 E. Admiral PI. 918-834-4194 Tulsa Central Library ...... 400 Civic Center- - - - 918-596-7977 Tulsa Eagle.....1338 E. 3rd ................918-592-1188 TNT’s ......... 2114 S. Memorial 918-660-0856 Yellow-Brick-Rd....... 2630 E. 15th.......... 918-293-0304 bitter girl email: bittergirl@qsyndicateocom www,joanhilty.net 30 the STAR www.ozarksstar.com Keller Williams Realty Chuck Breckenridge Whether buying or selling I’I1 work hard for you. www.ozarksstar.com the STAR 31 Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2007] The Star Magazine, July 1, 2007; Volume 4, Issue 7 Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource July 01, 2007 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Star Magazine’s first issue began February of 2005. Before this issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) and The Ozark Star (2004). Follows is The Metro Star (2008). 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Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document PROUDLY SERVING TH E LG BT COMM U N IT Y. slie Jordan Best Actor at the New York Film and Video Festival for his portrayal of "Brother Boy~ in the film Sordid Lives and several Best Supporting Actor Awards for his work as "Peanut" in Southern Baptist Sissies, from the Los Angeles Drama Critics' Circle, LA. Weekly, a Backstage West Garland, a Maddy, a Robby, and the Ovation Award OPENS ONE MAN TOUR DE.FORCE IN HOLLYWOOD · A.t ih& tl~hant A&1lum 1beater, for mort. information& vi&it "'"'"'·brolhtrboy.GOm Meet Lallie In t:1111 monthl OzarbSl:arWO:lltOn Yac:1111onir· bJ DonllldP11e anc1 RayWllla1111. Page 2 Page 3 7204 East Pine, Tulsa, OK (918) 836-8700 www .bambooloungetulsa.com 0-amboo Lounge Whtrt £vi11ont I& tlapp1 from Optn To c.lo&t The Ozarks Star Is On The Move The future looks bright for the Ozarks Star. We have contracted with a new printing company an:d will be increasing our distribution to 5000 by January 2005. This increase will not only allow us to ship more copies to our distributors, but also allows us to increase the number of distribution points. In addition qualifies us to accept advertising through a national advertising agency. This increase in revenue from national advertisers should help keep our ad rates at a very . reasonable cost to you. We are working on adding new content and are open for suggestion from our readers. You can write to us or send an email to the addresses listed on this page. More content and new advertiser's means aJarger magazine, so stay tuned and watch us grow. The Ozarlcs Star is on the move and is fast becoming THE STAR of the four states region. On October 15th I was the very honored recipient of an award,presented by Metropolitan Community Church of Joplin at their · 7th anniversary dinner, for outstanding . service to the GLBT Community and · Church Family. The plaque read, "In promoting diversity and cooperation through the development and implementation of the Ozarks Star. A MCC 2004 · Outstanding Citizen and Member". I thank Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin Pastor Steve T. Urie and members, for this recognition and extend my appreciation for their efforts in building a more united community. Have a great Thanksgiving! C.D. Ward A call for better health ... Well, rhe summer is over, fall is inviting us into winter so what's next? Several opportunities to have fun, comribute to our community and make every effort to stay well. For this edition let's visit the "staying well" issue. Seems like we have been outsourcing out both sides of our wonderful face ... Bush that is. While denying us the opportuniry to purchase more cost effective medications under the guise and arrogance chat only our FDA can protect us while on the other side we find that a full half of our flu vaccine is brought into this country from overseas. Bush supporters will claim he knows best and the rest of us will reap the benefits or lack thereof. Not many of us were around for the 1918 Flu Epidemic that vriped out whole military camps, not the children or aged but strapping recruits, young healthy men. Some of us wiil just say, "I never take the flu shot anyway, it always made me sick." And some of us Rill simply fade inro biissful ( unless of course, we're the ones who get sick ) who cares, "it's not my worry." \X,'eii the parenting in me doesn't do the "the sky's falling in panic" but :t is aiways good to use common sense and take care of onese:f. The information below is taken off the Center for Disease Controls website ( :s rw ,cdc gp ) and is reproducible. It is good basic hygiene ... that thing our mothers' taught us and we seem to have forgotten ... well it's time to refresh our minds and get with the program. Stay well this flu season and follow these guidelines: Good Health Habits o A void close cont:act. Avoid close contact with people who are sick. When you are sick, keep your distance from others to protect them from getting sick too. • St:ay home when you are sick. If possible, stay home from work, school, and errands when you are sick. You will help prevent others from catching your illness. ( Steve adds this ... if your boss is more concerned about you being out sick, how will he or she like it if half of you are out sick ... stay home and get well ) o Cover your mouth and nose. Cover your mouth and nose with a tissue when coughing or sneezing. It may prevent those around you from getting sick. o Clean your hands. Washing your hands often will help protect you from germs. ( Steve adds ... wash, wash, wash ... it's doesn't hurt and will keep you healthy ... I still want big flashing red lights at every public bathroom exit that goes off when you don't wash your hands ) 0 Avoid touching your eyes, nose or mouth. Germs are often spread when a person touches something that is contaminated with germs and then touches his or her eyes, nose, or mouth. Until next time, be blessed, be safe and be Page 6 Gaytt,ire Release: Log Cabin Republicans File Suit to Overturn Military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell Policy'' Turning Over Policy Vital to National Security Interests Say Lawyers (Washington, Dq-Lawyers on behalf of Log Cabin Republicans are filing suit this morning against the United States government seeking to overturn the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, which requires the discharge of gay and lesbian service members. Log Cabin Republicans v: United States of America will be filed in the United States Federal E>istrict Court for the Central District of California. Log Cabin ig filing the suit on behalf of its· gay and lesbian members· cutrently serving in the United Stlltes Armed Forces. "Public opinion, the experience of our allies, and the national security interests of our nation all lead to the inescapable conclusion that gays and lesbians ghould be allowed to serve openly and honestly in our milituy," said Log Cabin Republicans Executive Director Patrick Guerriero. "A lawsuit should not he ne.cessary, when public opinion overwhelmingly f-avon gays and lesbians serving. openly and honestly. A lawsuit should not he necessafy when the aperience of our allie_i in·~~ war .on terror, including Great Britain, Is~el arid Auatralia, all allow gays and leshtaris to s¢ie openly and.honestly. A lawsuit iMllkl .riot be nece~,~ when outinili~ bas lost The suit asserts that the ''Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy imposes a ·discriminatory set of rules on gay and lesbian members of the Armed Forces in violation of .their constitutional rights of due· process, freedom of speech, and equal protection. The challenge requests a declru:ation that the policy is uncomtitutional, and a preliminary and permanent injunction enjoining the government from enforcing the policy. "\ Global law firm White & Case LLP is representing Log Cabin Republicans on a pro bono basis. The White & Case team is being led by Dan Woods and Marty Meekins from the Firm's Los .Angeles office. "Previous challenges to the policy failed mainly because Bowers v. Hardwick allowed governmental criminalization of homosexual conduct, but recent Supreme Court decisions demand an immediate reconsideration of the policy under the U.S. Constitution, which is why White & Case was so interested in being invoh-ed,'' said Woods, head. of White & Case's litigation practice in Los Angeles. Woods said those key decisions include Romer v. Evans, where in 1996 the Supreme Court held that government-sponsored discrimination against gay and lesbian Americans could not be justified. solely by animus or "morality." In 2003, the Court overruled Bowers in Lawrence v. State of Texas, and held the constitutional fundamental right to .privacy; includes .the right for gay and lesl>ian .Amcricang to enme in private, intimate relationships without State in,terference. Finally, the Supreme Court most recently limited. the Defense Departmtnt's discretion to. infringe upon Conatitutional due process rights in Hamdi v. Rumsfcld, which held. that enemy combatants, even in wartime, must be afford~d due process rights. ....................... ~ntmueefpage 25 thousands· 0£ needed m:iUtiITT ..--------persii~~ I under thla policy. However, under these circutnili:ancei, where we ate a nation at ~ fighting a global war against terrorism, we can no longer sit by and w~t fur our elected officials to find the political counge to do the right thing,'' aaid Guerriero. For Men In The OZarks "TM 4rgttf Min'., l.aa,tp,ground in ti» U~~ Full RV Hookup's, Tent Sites, Cabins, Lodge Rooms, Hot Tub/sauna, Pool, Cafe, Theme Weekends, Convenience Store, Clc:>thing Optional. Call 417-683-9199 or visit our website www .cactuscanyoncampground.com Page 7 our ON VAl.ATION "Trav4'Iiag in the gay friendly world" by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com OUR SEPTEMBER WEST COAST TRIP We have returned from our three week -------------------1 driving trip to the West Coast and what a fun and exciting and interesting trip it was. First we drove to Santa Rosa, New Mexico (but just to sleep). The next morning we drove in to Sedona, Arizona where we stayed at the Iris Garden Inn, www.irisgardeninn.com. Brian Johnson & Richard Hoffman recently purchased it and have made a lot of improvements. They are originally from Ohio and decided to move to Arizona. Their Inn is wonderful and they are doing lots of improvements on it. They are extremely hospitable hosts. Brian's sister and brother in law, Llsa and Rick had come from Ohio and were visiting also. They were delightful. As you know a LOT of straight people can be fun and wonderful just like we can! We gave a "Sordid Lives" Movie Party the second night there and everyone hooted and hollered throughout the entire mo,"ie. Brian and Richard had special margaritas for everyone. After two days in beautiful Sedona we drove to Las Vegas where we helped our dear friend, Ole Borresen celebrate his birthday. Ole was the former chef for Liberace and owns a wonderful B & B there. Check out his website at: members.aol.com/haven00069 /. . We always have a grand time with Ole. He is such a great host. Then on to West Hollywood where we always stay with our very dear friend, Raymond Bilbool at his utterly fabulous SECRET GARDEN B & B which is located in the Hollywood Hills. Such a grand estate! He usually reserves the guest cottage for us. He gets a very eclectic clientele staying there. Staying there were Daniella Cesarei the noted photographer and her partner, Lotte Jeffs, the noted freelance writer and journalist from London. They write for DIV A· magazine, the major Lesbian newspaper in Europe. . They were charming, witty, intelligent and wonderful. We had a wonderful time with them. ( right photo: "Ray, with Lotte Jeffs, the noted fee Lmce writer with her life partmr, Daniella Cessari, the noted free lance pbotogr11phe:r from Londcnj Also staying at the Secret Garden was Rick McKay, the New York producer and director. His latest film, "BROADWAY - The Golden Years By The Legends Who Were There" has just been released. We were lucky enough to see a screening of it and it is a MUST SEE movie. It is the most important, ambitious and comprehensive film ever made about America's most celebrated indigenous art form. For anyone into Broadway this is a movie that you simply cannot miss. Through interviews it chronicles the Broadway stage for long years past. This is truly a magnificent film. Rick not only wrote, edited, produced and directed the film, he also produced the film. What an outstanding talented man he is! Theatre historians and buffs for years to come will be thankful that he produced this epic. Be sure and check out the web site: www.bro.idwaythemovie.com/ dvd.htm .. .... continued page•26 Page 8 de The local & national media Is really getting to me today! \Vhy doesn't the media put this "outraged" father on the hot seat and ask Cheney how a father can support a president, administration and party that constantly uses the "gay card" to get votes and denies his own daughter equal rights? Why doesn't he stand up and support his own daughter! They use the gay issue to frighten conservative voters all the time. The daughter is out as a lesbian. He didn't reveal anything. And it is NOT anything to be ashamed of or hide. Kerry had every right to answer the question as he did. And I'm glad he brought it up. I just wish he would have gone further and pointed out her father's hypocrisy! Deborah Eureka Springs, AR Dear Editor, We wanted to keep you updated on what was happening with the Tulsa Rough Riders, a new club in Tulsa. We had our very first Club.Night at the End Up Club this past Sarurday and it was a BLAST! There were about 70 folks showed up give-or-take a few (with MOST in leather) and members of other iocai clubs such as T.U.L.S.A., the Driller Bears, and the Tulsa Dungeon Society also dropped by to show their suppon. Even some of the male dancers got in on the act by wearing leather G-strings and harnesses. We had a table of bondage/leather items that were for auction or given away to lucky ticket hoiders, and we had a WILD lea,her Post Office Game. continued next column ....... We also wanted to thank you for all the support you and the Ozarks Star have shown us these past f~ months as we got organized. You have no idea how much it has been and is now appreciated. Jerry S. President, Tulsa Rough Riders $450 BILLION GAY & LESBIAN MARKET TARGETED BY NEW SATELLITE NETWORK GtryWire Press Release_ North America's first 24 hour adult movie network has been successfully launched by two companies, XXXVISION.TV and WORLD VIEW NETWORKS of MIAMI FLORIDA. Targeting the burgeoning $450 billion a year gay and lesbian market,the XXX rated network is now available with a 24 hour a dav, seven day a week service. Included in tbe network package are three separate channels: BACKROOM: Europe's Number 1, 100% GAY XXX channel,now available to North America. FREEXTV: movies featuring a variety of alternative adult genres. XDREAM TV: featuring straight and amateur orientated movies. Although VIACOM's MTV announced its first channel (LOGO) catering to the lifestyle, it won't be available u1;1til sometime in 2005. In the meantime XXXVISION.TV hopes to reach the estimated 12-15 million household market by early fall. The fully digital satellite system which retails for $449 US, $599 CDN includes a full two (2) year subscription and. all the necessary equipment for reception. More information is available at the website: <www.xxxvision.tv> My boy friend found out I was screwing around with another guy. He got so mad he told my Lover! Page 10 October 14, 2004 Gaywire Release: NEW YORK STATE TO RECOGNIZE CANADIAN MARRIAGES OF SAME SEX COUPLES Influx of.Same-sex Couples will provide Economic Boost Toronto-Yesterday the New York State and Local Retirement System announced it will treat Canadian marriages of same-sex couples the same as any other marriage for purposes of retirement benefits and obligations. The decision was communicated in a letter dated October 8 from the state Comptroller to Mark Daigneault, a state employee who wrote in September asking how getting married in Canada would affect retirement benefits for him, his same-sex partner and their two children. (see Daigneault's letter at www.prideagenda.org) In state Comptroller Hevesi's letter, he tells Daigneault, "Based on current law, the Retirement System will recognize a same- sex Canadian marriage in the same manner as an opposite-sex New York marriage, under the principle of comity. That principle has been legal practice pursuant to New York Court of Appeals rulings for many; years." "Everyone deserves to.have their marriages recognized, both at home and abroad," said Laurie ·Arton, of Canadians for Equal Marriage. "This is good news for the thousands of samesex couples who have married in Canada. The decision of New York State to recognize Canadian marriages of same-sex couples demonstrates the increasing acceptance of our marriages. The legal principle that jurisdictions recognize each others' validly performed marriages is well established, and there's no reason the law should applied differently to same-sex couples." "Same-sex couples who reside in New York now have a dear incentive to marry in Canada," said Cicely McWtlliam, of Caoadians·for Equal Marriage. "The economic impact of all those couples traveling to Canada and having their weddings here will be significant. Being a beacon of equality pays economic dividends." A survey released July 1 by the Centre for Research and Information on Canada and Environics found that the number of Canadians agreeing that gays and lesbians should be allowed to get married has increased. Currently, 57% agree, the highest level since CRIC first asked the question two years ago. The number disagreeing currently stands at 38%. Quotable ·Quotes "When I came out and I went through all I did, I did it undcrstlnding that it essentially. would bc[comc] this kind of cultural wave. . .. And my position was just to be steady and try to have as much elegance and grace as po.ssible, while never shying away from the gay question. I knew people would get used to the &.ct that I'm gay and there'd be no weirdness about it, and that eventually the focus would be back on the music." Singer k.d. laog to the Miami gay publication The Weekly An Oklahoma Entertainment Legend by Star writer Chaz I've known Ginger, aka Grcgoooola to some of his older friends, since we were children in 1972. We both worked at a salon in Oklahoma City called the "Beauty Bar". Our work stations were side by side with no partitions. This made for no privacy at all, which lead to constant hilariously fun times, with each of us trying to wreck the other during the sometimes long busy days. Giggles and snickers would bring on painful laughter and one of us would have to remove ourself from the area. It was by no definition, boring working next to him. I had just recently moved back to Oklahoma City from Las Vegas when we met and Greg, who had at that time never seen the flash and glitter of show biz city, wanted to go. We planned a short vacation and decided to make the trip. We didn't think his car could make it so it had to be my El Camino. Now for those of you who know what an El Camino is, you have to imagine Ginger's 5' legs in the cab with no adjustable scats. Solution, hang those long mother's out the v.-"indowl You guessed it, with shorts up to his crotch and a pair of wedge's on those size 15's. I-40 has never been the same and the truckers were going into Cardiac Attest. We did make it to Vegas without incident and the first place we had to go in glamor town was, you guessed it again, the big girls shoe shop! We had a great time, an experience that I personally cherish. Ginger Lamar's career now spans some 35 years of entcltlining the gay community. He has gained the respect of not only his LGBTS audience, but his peers as well. Ginger's show's arc not to be considered "Drag Shows" He is a talented entcttliner who is impersonating a women. A career that stllrtcd in 1969 when the Midwest culture was very different from now. An atmosphere of police harassment, gay bashing and general intolerance of the gay community. He has weathered the storm's and remains an icon in the gay entertainment arena. "At that particular time, there was a law in the state, that when you performed in drag, you had to wear three articles of men's clothing, somewhere underneath your gown. You had to do something underneath, to be legal, if not, you could be arrested. They raided places a lot more often then, at that time it was not liquor by the drink, it was bring your own bottle. Often there were police raids, and when that happened- ............................. continNed page 22 Page 12 o i e.nent! for PFLA®s/GLBTis (p~r~t1ts,. fde:nds ,& f~lj.es/.of lesbians & gays) Fall Diver•··, Weekend N:ovem~t 5.~2004 ~ureka' Springs~ Arkansas , . . .. ·ances1. . . re . best western · town · inn. of th · arks rk hotel l'RGUS 1ui;.. 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Over the past fifty years, the line between what is "straight" and what is "gay" has blurred to the point that most heterosexuals are unaware of the vast contributions gay men have made to American culture. How the Homosexuals Saved Civilization presents a broad yet incisive look at. how an unusual "immigrant" group, homosexual men, have become so influential on mainstream American culture. The general public's tastes and consumer choices in food, fashion, humor, literature, and body image are becoming decidedly more gay. And Ameri<;a has shown a real interest in TV shows with gay content and themes, such as Queer Eye for the Straight Guy; Will & Grace; and Six Feet Under. Overall, it's hip to be gay, even if you're straight. How the Homosexuals Saved Civilization tells us somethine: about ourselves as a society. It celebrates the unique perspective of gay men and e{plains how essentiai their vitality has been to our civilization. Page 15 The Ozarks Star November 2004 Page 16 The Ozarks Star 1 NIOO$ft., TAX lNCt.UtmD HOLIDAYS AND SPECIAL g~ EXCLUDED WWW.HOLL YWOODitOTELOKC.COM 405-947-2351 November 2004 vp debate;, that Miry really cleat! Whil~ .rig!lt~o .A:iid it's the c1~ua. ilie teal i dy Bunny Takes n ,,· a a ,, ·A Political Commentary: · am trying to decipher the lunacy surrounding ;''Maryg:i.tc". No, I don't mean the attitudc-y :queen who works the door at many large NYC · · lubs, but rather the non-controversy uncling Kerry's reference to Dick Cheney's . off- spring, Mary. It all started with a question at the last presidential debate "Do you oclievc homosexuality is a choice?". Kind of a w~d question, since THAT was an issue a de~c or two ago. The issue at hand NOW is · · so why not ask what the bout that? Anyway Bush's simple a,nswcr was "I don't know". (Unfortunately, "I don't·know" would li.lso have to be Bush's answer to "How do you spell Iraq?". and "What ii2·+ 2?" and "Is Cheney human?') ~ut ~cr:ry mad/~ example of Cheney's lesbian , daughter Miry, 1 " • • he. felt sh.c'.s being who ·sh.c was born·. . . . ilic coiitroversy.began. Jfaving lost all 3 a~oatcs iina sc¢hig the gap in · tlic ·polls between ttie~ 2. candict#cs. cJosing, the ·i,:cpublicans began a desperate, s~ns~ess (though · inexplicably effective) . spin. to·. dis~i:t voters from Kerry's inorc solid viiiion:~fot Hie nation. <:Lynne Cheney lashed out against Kerry with ".tbi,s is not a ~od man" · blicans cried . :foul because Mary was a " , even though she works for her fatlicrts .very public · ! Kercy then issued a'b,pically mealymouthed statement to patch · · • up. At least . • some newscasters brought up. in the John Edwards after the senator mentioned the fact NOT be crca,~g.fircworks now. B,ut what discussjoii. i~ thJit.]wif by c;i~ting, ~he of the republican posittoh· 611 .. c. would dcnv his own flesh arid c of the · " ·· fos~ ag¥n; in the spin. · · · ·. · ·.· tp;~) giidtioi!,s ·"'" . . . . . :Airicricl!tl trqops t<:> their detths nc.ccllcss : t1stifie.d war?". Well, what is :woi:s~ SUGGESTING that lie sent.tl:i~ <it .a.ctuallv SENDIN<; THEM??!!! Hei:e;s an exaniple ih drag teims: RuPlilil tdl~ m~:''Bit~h! You stole my eyeliner!" aajl answer; "I can't believe yo~ .th~ sj~ta~gtirl!" to shift the gui}i.to lier for .. •ANSWERING HER ACC:US:tVI10N have my own eyeliner-arid here it is as proof', "I don't wear youi: ch:cap brand, hooker!", or "Arc you on crack again, bccyotch?", etc. continued next page 19 . Page 19 Lady Bunny from pg-18 And when it comes to gay marriage, make no mistake that the real issue is that Bush was so scared by the recent inroads towards legalizing gay unions in California, Massachusetts and New Paltz, NY , that he has proposed a constitutional amendment to ban it-a measure which even many of his fellow republicans denounced as extreme and unnecessary. And speaking of unnecessary, for a giggle, please check out an cxcctpt of Lynne Cheney's hilariously schmaltzy, soft-porn novel SISTERS from 1981 www.whitehousc.org/ administration/ sisters.asp ,vith a bi-sexual heroine. Here's a sample: "The young woman was heavily powdered, but quite attractive, a curvesome creature, rounded at bosom and cheek. When she smiled, even her teeth seemed puffed and rounded, like tiny ivory pillows." Yucch! Since when do dykes ( or anyone else, for that matter) get turned on by puffy pillow-teeth? Elizabeth Edwards said in a radio address that Kerry's mention of Miry shouldn't be causing such outrage, . unless the Chcneys were ashamed of their daughter's sexuality. This rotten book by Mary's mom suggests that perhaps they arc ashamed of it's author's homosexual tendencies too. As well as her bestiality, cuz that Dick Cheney is a toad! .OKC GLBT BUSINESS ASSOCIATION HOLDS MEETING Press Release 10/22/04 Oklahoma City, OK About 35 GLBT business-people and professionals attended Thursday's meeting to kick off a new GLBT business association for OKC, which was at least twice the number expected by organizers, according to committee member Monty Milburn. This turnout certainly implies strong interest in fonrung a grciup, which is long overdue in OKC. Evidence of at least one potential benefit of a "Gay and Lesbian chamber of commerce" was provided by the number of attendees taking advantage of the. opportunity to do some networking .. Other potential benefits mentioned by Milburn, who presented an overview of the organizing committee's suggestions for the new gro:up, included networking with the "str~t'~ business coriimwiity, promoting Ok:Widfu':t City's GLBT C:oaimub.ity, and "mentoring" new Giiy businesses. Milburn, a realtor with the Town & Country Crew - affiliated with Keller Williams Realty, presented the committee's ideas by making a very focused presentation that was obviously the result of the hard work of a motivated group of people, which included Milburn, Rob Howard, Stacey Young, Chris Finney, and Jason Campbell. Jason Campbell mentioned their experience at this year's Pride Festival, when the Town and Country Crew rented a booth in M~morial Park and ran it the. two days of the Festival, prior to the annual Pride Parade. He said that the contacts they made at that booth during thoic two days subsequently brought in $750,000 worth of business to · their real estate office - certainly one indication of the economic potential of Oklahoma City's GLBT Community. The group's next meeting will be Wednesday, November 3rd at 6:30PM at Keller Williams Realty, 2630 NW Expressway. For more information, contact Monty at monty@townandcountrycrew.com. Introducing A_!_k Uncle Mikey Advice Column! Hello Kittens. Uncle Mikey here. I have, as they say, exploded onto the scene. I must say that I had a rather unusual experience that I fee! compelled to share with you. I am sure you are sitting on rhe edge of your seats awaiting my fabulous words to enlighten and uplift you. Well, forget about it! Who do I look like? Glinda of the North? Well, Kittens, here it goes. I hope you enjoy the sheer amusement - which is mv life. I was at the doctors office. (Oh no Kittens. Don't worry. It was a routine wash and wax. At my age one must be persistent with maintenance and upkeep, you know.) Anyhow, I was exiting the office when I had a rather uplifting experience. His name is Romance - named by me of course - and he is the flavor of the week. Dish is but a mere _expression of this Adonis. Therefore, I invited him home and now cannot get him to leave. Heed my advice Kittens never feed them or they will never leave. He insists he cannot live without me. I told him that he could stay until I am no longer amused. So now it is official - my first houseboy. I have sem him to pick up my laundry and now I am all yours - so let us get to it. I hope· he remembered the bag, as I had him cake Mr. Tiddles with him. Mr. Tiddles is my love child, of sorts. He is a Persian Cat. You know that cats were revered as Gods throughout history. Well, he is mv widdle riddles and is mommvs baby. He displays a royal disposition to be sure. We have been through many a · rough relationships. He was a gift by my first husband, or was it mv third? Hmm who knows? I lost count after a while. Liz only thinks she is the div~ of marriage. I have more skeletons in my closet than Liz, Madge, and Ricky all put together. It took many men to keep me in the life of which I have grown accustomed. Anyhow, you wonder who Uncle Mikey is? Well, I am going to tell you, Kittens. I am the diva of life and love, sex and lust. Yes, I am here to spread my fairy dust onto all of you lonely Kittens out there. So write and share with me your glorious quandary and I shall give you the gift of my many years in Gaydom. So whatever is on your mind, do tell - I love a good dish. However, remember when writing, that you are addressing a queen, so do not ask that which you do not want a truthful and insightful, while fabulously delicious, response. Uncle Mikey is fair and kind (unless provoked by ignorance) to all who seek the wisdom of which oniy a queen may possess. Uncle Mikey tells it like it is and does not hold back. So get those fingers wrapped around my uh oh wait those are my houseboy instructions! Anyhow, get those fingers tapping and write to me at Unclemikey4you@Ao[com, and I will be sure to give you my utmost attention just as soon as Romance completes my entertainment for the evening. Until we meet again, may you find joys untoid and settle not - insist on cab fare Kittens! Smooches, Your humble (snickers) guide into Queerdom - Uncle Mikey Undemikey4you@Aol.com, Uncle Mikey is • chanctcr from Freelance wdter Michael Hinzman. Michael has been writing for ten year~. UtilDiog hi1 1tudic1, and life experience to help others in his community, through humor and !ouod 2dvicC':. Miducl applied his study of psychology 2nd creative writing, ;as ~:ell hi~ c:xtcntivc b2.ckground in menta.l health Direct c:.1rc lo bring a new styi~ t.od approach to hdping othen- tfich:1.d's oth«:":r works c;;.n be viewed at -· Micliac! is in proce,~ now with 2 sm21l publishing hou?-e working on his first pubHshcd fiction:,i novel, "Dragomir," Which will be out eariy 2005. l Page 21 A Benefit to be held for The Healing Quilt Project of the Ozarks Springfield, MO October 21, 2004 The Edge Club in Springfield, Missouri will hdst a benefit for The Healing Quilt Project of the Ozarks, a nonprofit organization of Springfield on November 6, 2004 at 9pm. Roxanne LaMoore and a cast of colorful favorites will be performing in memory of past performers Bette Davis, Ruby Flame and Tigress, among others. There will be a i3.00 cover charge. Proceeds from the "Threads of TimeReflections of the Past" fund-raiser event will go toward bringing a large portion of the Aids Memorial Quilt to Springfield for World Aids Month in December and to purchase much needed supplies for the Quilt Workshop. The Healing Quilt Project organization serves people with terminal illness and provides emotional support for those dealing with the loss of a loved one, through out the Ozarks by giving them a quilt for warmth and creating a memory quilt in remembrance. They also offer workshops and presentations to the community. The Quilt Project is located at, 823 W. Walnut, Springfield, MO 65806. Contributions should be directed to Founder/ Director Rick McCormack (417) 865-4358 or ( 417) 864-8,99. Website www .healingquilt.com MARY KAY t Than look lo Miry .Kew- \bll ftnd th!- lawt (l!Miend-o,lcrs OOOld!ldad furyuu.wtth emyto"... t.Lt"-flif ;lltA.,& - .t..c.. v ~ QJR git 1he hdtmt latlb wihri Mam:e ••• cr,da~bein ~ Independent BeaJty Cortdtrrt. . 41N~73·1181 .........,..,&11111/jUJDUDlldl yov, SIR, MAy 1 Ginger Latr1Ar in most clubs was a buzzer you pushed to get itl; and if there was a raid, they woulcl:push the·b~zer & blink lights. Itfetyone woul<i le~ve the dance floclr, beciitise it. was :illcgitl to danse &. .clrlrik. _So, y~>n would· go sit, & by .. the tim:'e#hey, came in, everyone would be sitiiri.g & talking. When they left ~cryonei w11.s back up & dancing again". · · When ask'ed if he plans to retire anytime soon, he replied ''Not as lopg as I can get into these spike beds and walk. I refuse to give in to flat's". Still performing in Oklahoma City at Club Rox located in the Hollywood Hotel Suites the first Saturdav of each month and the Boom Boom Room at 2807 NW 36th St every Sunday. The show at the Boom Boom will have an entire new look beginning Sunday November 7th. Called the "G" Spot the show will be featuring. live interviews, guesf appearances along with performances by Ginger and guest. 'The new show is going to be hilariously fun and very entertaining", Ginger said. Knowing Ginger, you can count on a fun ,entertaining evening at any of his shows. The Ozarks Star is proud to feature Ms Ginger Lamar, an entertainment legend in his own time. Another. example of multitalented people of the Four States region deserviJ:ig of community recognition. We also CQ~tiilaie Ginger aoci:liis life partncr'J:E. vrlio celtj:,~ted their 30th a~~ive,rssuy: on Ailgtlst 31st, 2004. To get an in-depth look into Ginger's life present 'and past, view some very glamorous plioto's and· ltcep up i:o date on his performance schedule, visit the official web sit at www.giogerlamar.com. Page 23 Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the co-chair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgeoder Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own Write." Lesbian Notions by Paula Ma.rtioac November, 2004 And the Winner Is ••. As the presidential campaign enters its final stage, more and· more lawn. signs are popping up in my neighborhood, which is in a swing county in. a .. swing st:lte. So far, the KerryEdwards sigtis ·.outnumber. the Bush-Cheney ones about 7:.toit ~ not. sutp · · · this liberal coo~cssibnal district: the · election werf ar cleattut as the signs on i:ny street! The truth is, it's going to be a down-tothe- wire nail-biter; and because; of t;hat,it would be wise for· us to think beyond Nov. 2 (maybe beyond December, given likely·votiog irregularities). What.is in store .for the ~y community if <leorge W. Bush \Vins? What will happen if John Kerry beats liim? In. either outcome, there will be. a lot of work . ahead • albeit of distinct varieties - for our movement. Outcome No. 1: Four More Years ... If Bush wins, will his gay~·. continue? True, he will no longer need gay marriage as · a punching ~~· to· distract voters from the war in Iraq or the continuing weak economy. For that .o:iatter, he will no longer need the religious right, which made aotigay policies a condition of its support. The best the gay community could hope for in this scenario is that we simply fall off Bush's radar screen, entering a period of neglect much like the first years of his administration, in which we kept doggedly working _under_ the White House radar and pulled off major victories in .:..Lawrence v. Te:xas_ and ..:..Goodrich v. Department of Public Health_. Io the worst-case scenario (which I think is more likely), the antigay right would be further emboldened by a Bush win, and he would pay them back for their loyalty with more aotigay judicial appointments. Since federal judges sit for life, that could turn back the clock on out rights for a generation. And because right-wing state and local officials would also claim a mandate, the gay community would spend the oe:xt four years fending off attacks at ~ levels of government, constantly on red alert for attempts to roll back the few rights we've Il'WlAgCd to· secure. - C'Ven · ones as benign as domestic partnership. We've seen the tip of this iceberg already, and it's clear that there would have to be a huge defensive effort against it. Many more of us would have to engage actively in contacting our representatives about votes on legislation and judicial appointments, and to convince our straight. family members and friends to do the same. (You can register for gay-specific updates at www.hrc.org; for broader libc:tal updates, visit www.pfaw.org.) Many more of us would have to work for moderate or progressive candidates or run for office ourselves. Outcome No. 2: "Don't Let the Door Hit You on the Way Out• Seo. John Kerry's campaign has touted his 100 percent rating from the Human Rights Campaign and has held him fonwrd as "a powerful voice in the ongoing fight for civil rights." Although Kerry has a laudable progay tecord in the Senate on everything from the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA) to gays in the military to HIV/ AIDS funding, ......... continued P-ge -25 Deep Inside ,HollyWood Magnolias_ and _First Wives Club_ screenwriter Robert Harling, will bring many of the original characters up to the present date, with oil Iring J.R. Ewing now rwining the moat powerful. energy company on the planet. Look for the aamc big cowboy hats, wicked plot tuma, and vicious backstabbing that made the original aeries 10 much fun. Romeo, meanwhile, ia hoping for the return of Charlene Tilton. . by:Romeo San Vicente November 2004 Nlxo.n. M-.ta Roosevelt One. wu, tg,g1.0t.ed to, hav.e had an a£fiur with a woman; tμe other juat recently. confirmed having a leabian relationship. That used to be the only common ground bctw:een Eleanqr Roosevelt and Cynthia Nixon. But now Nixon wil) play Franklin Roosevelt's fl.rat lady in .thc. l@O movie _\Varm Springa_. With .Kenneth •~agh u· FDR. the film will tell di:e 11toiy o.f }.looacvdt'a life before .he became prctidcnt, from hie time in the New York Stllte .. ~tc tq hi.• polio diagnoiia in 1921 atld. the y:arioua curca he ,ought afterward. Helmeci · by .veteran TV movie ditector Jo1epl1,, Sirgent, production ia acheduled to begin any minute with a probable 2005 air date. nn t,hen, Nixon faaatici can get their fix wit,h Roi>crt Altma,n'a .... Tanner. on Tanner..:. now airing on ShoW,time. ~ J.R. Lookalike South.fork Randi, h@a a ~lift in ita fu~. Aa if bigscreen temakes of cvciy 1V series ever ci:eated, from ....Dukes of Hazzard_ to _MiamfViiiC..::, weren't enough, Robert Lukctic .CJ..c;gally Blonde~ ia in negotjations to direct a feature-film version of thc,Jong-ruoning hit TV aeriea ...Dallas_. The movie, to be scripted by _Steel Schumacher Enten _ Ci.'QWded Room_ _ Andrew Uoyd Webber's P~tom of the Open.... Joel ~huniachcr'a latest film~ opens this Christmas. Meanwhile, the hardworking gay director ia already diving into his next projei:t, _The Crowded Room_, a complete abour.-face from a big romantic musical, Bueq on Daniel Keyes' book. .. The Minda of Billy Milligan_. _Room_ centers on a mentally ill min, ch~d with kidnapping and rape, who ia also discovered to have 2-4 aeparate peraonalitiea brought on by yeua of childhood sexual abu,e. The project bu been in and out of development for ycan, and at different times hu had cveiy major director from Steven Soderbci'gh to Gus Van Sant elated to helm it, and actors from BJ:lld Pitt to Scan Penh to Billy Crudup attached to atar. Now that Schumacher ia on board, the mystery of who'll run with all 24 lead, ahould be aolved aoon. _ Playing It Straight_: The Movie Once upon a time - OK. it wu just cul.let .. thia year - there wu a· doomed gay rcality aerie, called _Playing It Straight... in which gay men acted atraight to trick an unwitting bachclorette. Apparc11dy, no one but Romeo tuned in, and 10 it wu quickly cancelled, the winner forever unknown.· Now that show'• title ia · getting a aecobd chance. In production, the movie _Playing It Stralght.. hu nothing to do with the cancelled aliow except the potential for a little identity confuaion. The plot revolve• around a man who relic, on relationship advice from hi, gay identical twin. Unfortunately, too much homo advice botchea the hcteto' bliaa, and big laugha cnaue • or 10 it's hoped, unlc11 keeping that title turns out to be bad luck. Not that Romeo is aupentitioua or anything. ·, _Romeo San Vicente thinb having a gay twin would only increase the competition. He can be reached care of thia publication or at DccpinaidcHollywood@qayndicate.com._ Page 25 Don't.Ask Don't Tdlfrompg-6 ''These decisions require a reexamination of the reasoning employed in prior decisions upholding the 'Don't Ask, Don't Tell' policy, and they compel a finding and declaration by the court that the policy violates the Constitution,'' added Woods. White & Case lawyers are well versed in the constitutional issues involved with the service of gays md lesbians in. the United States Armed Forces. Last year, White & Case helped draft m amici brief submitted by the Log Cabin Republicans in support of the petitioners in the Supreme Court's case of Lawrence v. State of Texas, arguing successfully that m American's right to liberty under the Due Process clause includes the right to engage iti private consensual conduct without governmental intervention. In the early 1990s, the Firm also successfully represented Keith Meinhold in the . landmark decision in Mcinhold v. U.S. Department of Defense, which challenged the military's previous prohibition of gays and lesbians in the military. ''This case is fundamentally about correcting a misguided governmental policy based on prejudice towards gay and lesbian Americans. A decade of experience with the policy demonstrates that it actually weakens our national defense/' said Meekins. "It seems especially offensive to compd members of the Armed Forces, who fight to protect our liberty, to deny them their constitutional right to freedom of speech and to engage in private, intimate relationships." Guerriero said that he is confident that this challenge will result in the end of this discriminatory policy and ultimately a stronger U.S. military because highly trained, dedicated gay and lesbian soldiers will no longer be forced out simply because they disclose their sexual orientation Lesbian Notions from pg-23 the fact is he's spent the better part of tliis campaign dodging us and our issues, granting two brief, last-minute interviews to the gay press. He has also taken every opportunity (including in those interviews) to stress that he and John Edwards oppose gay marriage and favor separate-but-equal civil unions - a position that annoys and disappoints many of us. Still, in the interest of replacing a dishonest, corrupt administration, the gay movement has (rightfully, I think) cut ~ .a lot of slack. And it's likely that Pre.sidcnt Kerry would be generous in his appointments of openly gay officials to his administration, reinstating a tone of inclusion md fairness. That would be no small achievement, given that the mood in Washington under Bush has been one of increasingly unchecked hostility toward us. A fot of us might be satisfied with a change in tone under Kerry - but, then, that would simply . be returning to where we left off at the st:ut of 2001. If Ketty is elected, one danger is .that most of us would breathe a sigh of relief and sit back, waiting for change. But, in fact, the lesbian and gay community as a whole would still have an enormous job ahead.of it - that of holding the new president to his assertion of being a civil;-:rights leader. After all, he's. made no big promises to us, as Clinton did with gays in the military, and it will be up to us to push him for change. For with a shift in tone in Washington come opportunities • if not for marriage rights, then possibly for the passage of ENDA, a bill Kerry cosponsored, or even for· an end to "don't ask, don't tell," a policy he strongly opposed. A good slogan for us under Kenys White House would be, "Don't expect too much, but don't accept too little." _PIUJA Martinac is a umbda Literary · · and canbt m«bed care of this p,1blkAtion or at usbi4nNotions@qsyndicau.com . J>age Z§ G11 Tr4wlmfrom -page 7 . . This is a DVD that you must have for your library. The producer and agent, Joe Spotts witb his life partner, Michael WU mo/staying-at the B & B We have kriown them for years. Joe is the agent for several cntcrt2incrs including J.J. BuUock, Tammy Faye Baker and Leslie )ordan (Brother Boy in Sotdid Lives). He also is the· agent for Ruby Ann Boxcar! Joe is currently producing Leslie Jordan in. his one man show in Los -Angclcis , "Lac A Dog On Linoleum" We were there opening night and it wa's _tremendous! Not sin~c WC saw Elaine Stritch. - "At_Libcrty'' have we had such a d~tfiil evening at the thca~. Leslie pours his heart out to the audience. IJ; is a biographical sketch of his life.You ~ la~ (riotously), cry, ponder and delve into your own sense of being. This is. high dnma at is beat! From di_e land of hat-wearing southern belles addictcci to high driuna and painkillers comci. the unbelievably true talcs of a boy who fell o-iit of the womb and w,idca:~ hls Mama's high hells, hopped a_ G~yhound bus for "Hollywcird," and has never looked back! Leslie is one of those rare entertainers who is not afraid to show himself to his audicnc_e. It is gut wrenching! Even thou WC saw it weeks ago WC still think about it every day. If' you loved him in the movie Sordid Lives, then you will love his new play even more. · Seeing Leslie.Jordan perform on stage was absolutely a delight. After seeing him on numerous television shows and in movies we just knew tiiAt seeing him in his new stage production worild be else .. AND IT WAS! If you _ LIVES, then vou will like this stage production just· u much. It was a biographic sketch of his entire life ~th no holds batted. From his days of~-4rugs and_ sex, Leslie goes tbiu the entire production tcllirig it just how it wu. _ From his early years in school thtu Sotdid I:ivc8 he tells 81S story. It was fun, funny, sad and really made qne think about their- own life. He bad die entire audience in the Dahn of his hand the entire show. • At the end he received a standing ovation which he so richly deserved. After the show we got to talk with Leslie about his life and other matters. He is a gem of a guy and so sincere. He grew up in Tennessee and knew at an early age that he HAD to get out. As we all know, even today people in Tennessee arc not ill that tolerant. And thank goodness he got out of Tennessee to give laughter to millions of us. Leslie lives in the greater Los Angeles area and we just hope sometime in the near future that he can find that perfect someone to spend the rest of his life with. He devotes much of his time and talents to charity events throughout the country. We are just hoping that he takes his current production on the road and throughout America. We arc hoping that a DVD is soon to be released and a USA tour should be coming sometime soon. Leslie has thousands of fans throughout the · country. Our special thanks to his producer and agent, Joe Spotts who lives in Palm Springs. Our dear friend, Raymond, owner. of the Secret Garden· had great dinner parties for us. He is one "of the nicest, sweetest and caring people that we have ever met. We also went to the Getty Art Museum while we were there and went to several of the new bars that opened in L. A. But the real enjoyment is visiting with the different guests staying at the Secret Garden After a hectic, exciting, interesting and fun-filled week in Los Angles we drove to Palm Springs and we will have to tell you all about that in our next column. For more infomation on Do,wld 11ndR.ay or visit their web 'W'Wfl!.lxmutoum. com Page27 Seo es by Jack Fcrt1g November 2004 "Don't waste money, Gemini!" Ma.rs square Saturn is never pretty. Worse yet, Mars is not at his best in Libra, nor is Saturn very happy in Cancer, Look out for turf battles and rigid attitudes. ARIES (Ma.rch 21 to April 20): Domestic squabbles are nea.rly inevitable now, Lingering issues should be handled in a mature, serious fashion. Some rough play could help relieve stress, but if you're not experienced with kink, agree on a safeword and make limits very clear, TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): Misunderstandings at work feed resentments and make for harder work as well as a rougher workplace, Communication is the key to cooperation. If you can read and follow memos while your nose is pressed to the grindstone, you'll get through. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Resist impulses to invest right now, don't waste money on lottery tickets, and budget carefully if you must indulge in "retail therapy." Dancing, telllll sports, or anything else that gets you sweating while in good company will prove valuable, CANCER Qune 22 to July 22): Even the slightest problem at home cw have a huge emotional impact. Too sensitive? That's part of it, but just part. Cooperative housework can help - but it's the coopention that's more important than the actual housework. LEO Quly 23 to August 22): You're a natural ch=er, but now you have an odd need to cha.rm above and beyond the usual, revealing inner stresses deep beneath your surface. A massage and introspective chats will help to release those stresses. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): Are your friends carrying their weight, or do you get s~k too often with the tab? Social responsibilities can bum a hole in your wallet. Chlltitable donations may need prioritizing and review. Let moochy friends go dutch! LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): l?e professional and assertive, but cooperative - and for heaven's sake, don't take yourself too seriously. If you maintain a careful balanc'e, you can be monarch of all you survey. If you slip, you may win a title, but you'll surely lose respect, SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Comfort may be found in ancient spiritual teachings. The _Malus Maleficarum_ does not count! Confront religious conflicts from your own childhood, or get some perspective on the rites and teachings of something very different, SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): The stars recommend dungeon pllrties now, but if B & D is not your cup of tea, you may find yourself in a political confrontation of medieval proportions. Then you'll wish you had the manacles and ball gag! CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): Who's the boss? Telllllwork is very important now, but be very Cllteful about hierarchical structure. If you respect everybody's positions wd finesse your way through the minefield of office policies, you'll go very fa.r in the long run. AQUARIUS 0anua.ry 20 to Februa.ry 18): Resist all temptation to argue - and temptlltion will be fierce. You can't win a.rguments right now, and you Cll1l lea.rn lots if you just shush and listen. Questions a.re good. You can even ask some very pointed questions - just don't a.rgue. PISCES (Febru.uy 19 to Ma.rch 19): It's an ideal· time to explore some of the kinkier md rougher sides of sex play. Tell. your pa.rtner or a well-chosen friend what you really want to try out. Yes, it's good to be ca.reful, but don't be shy! Jade Fertig has been fllorking a.s a professional astrologer since 1977 and 4 a founding member of tlJe .Association for .A.stro/c,gical Net'fllorleing. He 1:1in be reached for consMltations at 415-864- 8302, tbroNgh bis website at http:/ /fllfllflJ.st4rjllck..com Page 28 Four States Community Directory -Bars- NightclubsArkansas, Fayetteville (479) Ron's Place- - 523 \".'. P:;plar- - - - - 479-442-3052 Studio 716- -716 W. Sycamore- - - -479-571-1300 Wild-On - - - - - -3570 W. 6th- - - - - - 479-521-9453 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads- 1004 1/2 Garrison Ave- - -479-783-9988 Club 1022 - -1022 Dodson Ave. - - - -479-782-1845 Arkansas, Little Rock (SCH) Back Street - - - -1021 Jessie Rd- --501-664-2744 Discovery- - 1021 JenieRd- -· - - - - 501-666-6900 The Factory - -412 Louisiana St.- - - - -501-372-3070 Ml111ouri, JopHa (417) Ree's• - • - 716 S. Main - - - - - - -417-627-9035 Mi&so-.irl, Kansas City (816) Buddies - - - - - - - 3715 ~ St- - - - 816-561-2600 DB Warehouse- -1915 Main;St- - - -816-471-1575 Missie B's- - - -805 W. 39th St- - - - -- - 816-561-0625 Sidestrcet Bar - - - -413 B. 3rd- - - - 816-531-1775 Sidekicks Saloon - - 3707 Main St- - 816- 931-1430 Mlssoari, Springfield (417) The Edge- -424 Boonville Ave- - - - --417-831<-4700 Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive - -417-864-4572 Oz Bar• 504 E. Commercial - - - - • -417-831-9001 Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - - - - -417-864-0036 Rumors• -1109 E. Commercial- - 417-873-2225 Oklahoma, Oklalaoma City (465) Hi-Lo Club - - 1221 NW SOth- - - -405-843-1722 Finish Line - -2200 NW 39th &pwy- - 405-525-0730 Club Rox- - - -3535 NW 39th Bxpwy - 405-947-2351 Topanga Grill & Bar- 3535 NW 39th--405-947-2351 Boom Room- 2807 NW 36th St- - - - - -405-601-7200 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge- 720-4 E. Pine - - --918-836-8700 Club Maverick• - 822 S. 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I 7 CIAO TRAVEL Gay Travelers "OGUNQUIT, 1-1AINE" & Out of Town "Philadelphia" 4 INDEX Heart to Heart .......... 6 Lesbian Notions ..... 10 People ................... 12 Past Out... .............. 14 Entertainment... ..... 16 Ciao Travel. ........... 17 Star Scene ............ 24 Uncle Mikey .......... 26 The Bistro ............. 27 Horoscopes ........... 28 Distributors ............ 29 Cartoons ................ 30 Classifieds ............. 31 (}av men and lesbians face .... ~, , ', , ,,, , ' situations, whether single oras couples. Let us help! I ( 1 ) 7 -5 6 ,4rkansas & Ok/ahoma1s 1\Aost Read GLBT ftAagazine :Executive Director, y ru::1d Lesbian Task Force YORK, NY_I never expected New ,~ court to rule for us o:1 marriage, solid legal reasons, New York the first tier for marriage test remember task 10 years ago of from going to court to ,en I read the stimmary Friday momtha- c the state constitution doesn't the recognition of same-sex mar- . I expected the body of the decision to b~ scholarly and well-reasoned, I also · · · · it :would express sympathy for · hardships gay · couples face and that it would ~ge die Legislature to act to add, tcss these jnjustices ... :\<Boy, ~was ! ~n& The o~inion w~s m~re ,. ·· poorly.wtitten, illogical and 10sultmg · · · • d;. it was olainlv homoohoppme ex~mple'of .th~ failur; of . . alitgedlf thinking straight people ,• .. · futbis·case judges - to grasp that we .... f:tfe:fiilly andemially.liwnan.· Sentences like: :Ji::?,· .. :., .ii::a~~~t:i~<;e sQgg~;t that a · ·· · his or in n cd they can ult of acci.dent or {the inajonty of the New ·Yoi1c.Court6f Appeals sb:ould feel the rest of their lives. * F AGAIN! NOW BY THE US HOUSE OF REPRESNTATIVES WASHINGTON,July 18 _Right-wing zealots are coming up empty-handed when they aim to push discrimination into our nation's Constimrion. Today, the U.S. House of Representatives voted against the Federal Marriage Amendment bv an.o-vcrwhelmiog margin. With 187 Repres;ntatives v~tiog agl!,lllst the FMA, the extremists pushing the amendment fell far short of tl;tc two.:tliirds ~ajority needed co write discrimination 1nto th; Constitution. You and thousands.of committed Human Rights Campaign §tipporters.have spoken up time and time again, urging our elected officials to stand on the side of equality and fairness. Together, bur work to combat discrirrunatlon.has' made a difference. ive .. nalGay "Task Force "Once ag~ii, a bipartisan bloc has soundly rejecteq · stimtional iunenclment . . . . gay Americans andt:hcir families:.In spite of intense to getdris . . . . the House-just as.it failed in the Senate. Clearly, thet:e's· no· traction itl this issue. . . . ''We i::o . Leader Nancy Pelosi, Min y Hoyer and the entire minority leadership, and especially Reps. Tammy Baldwin, Jei:!,'old Nadler, James McGo~ern and Barney Fr,-..nk for their work in otgaoizix.ig oppositi~n to this,am,~qd.ment. as well as all r.l}e others wno stood up ,, : , , ,' -> ,i , ,'' : ~' 1 - ' ' ·-· for our community ana our tamtl1es. "We hone this vote today will be the basis for a w~rjqng majority iri Congress to press forn"ll.rd on basic fairness for lesbian, gay, · bisexual and transgender people, including protection from bate crimes and disc~nation and access to the same protect:J.ons enjoyed by all other families. "Finally, as we move beyond yet another sound defeat of this un-American proposal, we hope all members of Congress and the American people think hard about. what truly is at stake here: Denying one · group of Americans the family recogni- . rion granted to others would r~erse the . . course of our nation's history oi: expanding equal rights. It would condemn one group • to a lesser citizenship and deny them the · social support our society has c<;>nsttucted to help families and children flourish. Gay and Ie'°sbian families need and deserve the. kind of protection and support we currently· extend to other families. Let's start acknowledging that truth. Let's start talki~g abo'.1tfrj . and let's start doing it because it 1s the right · thing to do." Creating Community for People iiving with Our House. Too offers a variety of activities for peopie \A/ho are HI\/+ and or living vvith' AIDS to help cornbat the social lsoiat!on that rnany of our dE;f ;1;,~~.!:1o~~~1~1=ti::~:s~I~· and or !!v!ng \.V!th ,A.!OS \.tvho cannot afford to purchase these !ten1s for themselves . ..,/Ve invite anyone \Vho \Vouid like to voiunteer or provide fi·nanciai assistance to piease contact us by phone 918-585-9552 or e-mail harrisrnrnjr,gyahoo_co!T1. the STAR 5 It Ain't Easy Being Green It ain't easy being green. The plaintive lament of Kermit the Frog became this year's theme at the annual meeting of Blind Friends of Lesbian, Gay, Transgender and Bisexual People, BFLAG for short. The message was one of selfacceptance, but the group is also fighting for another kind of acceptance: inclusion in the gay is to provide for the betterment of the lives of those who are visually impaired and who are lesbian, gay, bisexuai or transgender. Specifically, they're working to help blind gay people integrate into society. "LGBT disabled individuals have the same problems as straight disabled individuals," reports BFLAG president Butch Arnold. "Sometimes we're totally accepted but, more often than not, we're assumed to be different and are not accepted on an even playing field. With the closet factor added to the mix, disabled people, especially those who are visually impaired or blind, have major problems fitting in or simply being accepted by other LGBT individuals. This makes socializing difficult under many normal LGBT circumstances." Jason Perry, vice president of BFLAG and a law student at Ohio State University in Columbus, Ohio, agrees that handicapped people are often excluded from gay culture. 'There's a fear, number one, of just 'Goodness, what do we do?"' Perry explained. "The task iooks so monumental. The second issue is just logistical. A lot of gay bars aren't handicapped accessible." So how do we work together to change that? The first step, everyone agrees, is education. "Once a visually impaired or blind individual gets to be known, most barriers tend to disappear,'' Arnold asserted. •Educating the general public helps immensely with the acceptance of all disabled people." Perry advocates integration. "I'm a firm believer in getting blind gay people out in the community, in both the gay and straight community, because if community. Many people with disabilities feel isoiated from society, but gay people with disabilities often face further challenges. It ain't easy being green. Or blind. you put a human face on what the problems are, you help connect the discussion. The issue becomes tangible now. It's something people can relate to." ;The LGBT community is not reaily inclusive when it comes to the disabled," says Ken, a41-year-oid blind gay man. "While that's not a problem Or gay, Let's work together to make it a little easier on all of us. "Disabled individuals don't bite and our disabilities are not contagious," stressed Arnold. "People need to get to know us. As a visually impaired exclusive to the gay community, it is made worse with their fixation on beauty and perl'ection. A disability, no matter what it is, makes you imperfect." BFLAG started out as an inforrna! support group for people who are gay and blind. They first met in 1996 at the nationa! convention of the American Council of the Blind (ACB). it was the first of several annual meetings, with attendance continuing to grow year by year. The group became an official affiliate of the ACS in 2000. They've grown from a handful of attendees to about 150 active members Today, BFLAG states on their Vv'ebsite that their purpose individual, I'm often perceived to be a snob when I don't see someone wave or make eve contact with me. If i don't know a person is attempting to communicate with me, I can't respond. I have iost several potential friends because of this. We al! must !earn to communicate better and simply do more communicating." Perry reiterated the importance of eye contact and body ianguage, especialiy in American gay culture. He reported that he found it easier to meet people in other countries because it seemed they valued conversation over the complex system of eye contact and flirting used in the US. (:ontinued next page 6 Advertising in the STAR is just good business cents. Heart to Heart "Everyone must realize thai visually impaired and blind people simply can't communicate with body language and such," Arnold pointed out. "We still say and feel the same things, but many of us simply can't communicate in a visual manner." Another unique challenge is transportation. "Mobility seems to be of paramount importance," Perry said. "My friends like to go places and I don't drive, of course." Then there's the common stereotype that, as Ken put it, "disabled people are not thought to be sexual." Perry added, "Whenever I hang out at a gay bar, particularly if I've never been there before and people don't know me, a lot of times people look at me as a casual friend, but not much else." BFLAG is working hard to educate the LGBT community. This year alone, four cities saw a BFLAG contingent march in their pride parade: Baltimore, MD; Tulsa, OK; Houston, TX; and Washington, D.C. BFLAG helped organize a gay pride event in Columbus, OH, and they've also been accive in Katrina relief efforts doing everything from providing housing to collecting food and supplies. BFLAG is also reaching out to visually impaired LGBT people. They are currently working on organizing affiliate chapters in Baltimore, Houston, and Columbus. Arnold hopes that there will be even more group,s formed in the next couple years. They're also hoping to expand the website (www.bflag.org) and produce a radio web show. It's not just up to BFLAG, however. LGBT organizations and individuals need to be more proactive in reaching om to our disabled brothers and sisters. More bars and clubs need to be handicapped accessible. If you see a blind person at a bar, stare a conversation with them. If you know a blind person, invite him or her along the next time you're going out. Most importantly, let's not forget ::hat blind :ncn and woman have the same feelings, needs, and desires as anyone else. "We're just people," Ken :nsists. "I can accept it if I'm :10t liked fo: my personality, bat it ticks me off when someone won't talk to me just because I'm blind.'" It ain't easy being green. Or blind. Or gay. Let's work together to make it a little easier on all of us. * c Pride Announces 2nd nnual Family Picnic. by Carlotta Carlisie McALESTER, OK_McPride, a McAlester based non-profit GLBTA organization who's mission is to create a support group and provide help for the GLBT community of Southeast Oklahoma as well as heterosexual allies v;,ill be hosting the 2nd annual McPride Family Picnic on Saturday, September 23rd, 11 am to 5pm at Chadick Park, 6th and Delaware in McAlester. In addition to picnic space there will be space available for all pro GLBTA organizations to sell or display thier resources. This space must be reserved in advance. Sign up forms are available at www.mcpride. org or contact pau!@mcpride.org for more information. A donation is requested for this space. This event is a great opportunity for the GLBTA community of Oklahoma and Western Arkansas to get out and meer new people and show your support for this Southeastern Oklahoma organization. Although McAlester is a relitively small town there is a vibrant GLBT community in the Lake Eufaula area. Food and drink vendors are also invited and shouid contact Elizabeth at 918-423-7015 * Quotable Quotes A.rka?Jsas Gov. Mike Huckabee said Friday he hopes the Legisiature considers reimpos~ ing a ban on gay foster parems, struck down a day earlier by the state Supreme Court. Arkansas G,n-. Mike Huckabee said !:n.e state high court was more concer:1ed abom looking out for gay couples than foster chjldren. arm Yery disappointed that the court seems more interested in v,,rhat's good for gay couples than \vhat's good for children needing foster care," Huckabee said through his spokes"..voman ,,;-\Jice Ste\·vart. a diffaren~• ct Oklahoma I E JOiN US FOR McPride's 2nd Annual Family Picnic Saturday September 23rd 11AM to 5PM Chadick Park 6th and Delware, McAlester Oklahoma. Organizations Reserve your display table now. Contact paul@mcpride.org Food and Drink vendors Contact Elizabeth @ 918- 423-7015 www.mcpride.org McPride"' PO Box 1515, f\.~ci\iester, OK 74502 the STAR 7 DVD Review n Legend of Jackie Curtis" Donald Pile and Ray Williams We have run across one of the most interesting and touching biographies that we have seen in years! SUPERSTAR In a Housedress is a biography of the late Jackie Curtis of New York City. It is both a lmok and a DVD. Buv the book and the DVD comes with it. Everyone should order one and you can order so easily at amazon.com. Craig B. Highberger the writer/ director was a close friend of the late Jackie Curtis and he has produced a very touching biography/ documentary. The critics LOVE it! "Bright and entertaining'' writes Stephen Holden of the New York Times. "Bitchy, catt:y, moving and hilarious" writes the New York Magazine. Jackie Curtis was a poet, a playwright, and an Andy Warhol Superstar. He lived and the STAR . ;, '· I .,/ performed ... sometimes as a man, sometimes as a woman, but .ALWAYS performed! We think that the Village Voice summed it up best when they wrote, "A fabulouslv fond and entertainjng tribute." The DVD has so many wonderful and delightful imen·iews with such noted personalities as actor Paul Ambrose; Penny Arcade the performance artist; Harvey Fiersrein; Joe Franklin, the TV legend; Silvia Miles, actress; the extra-ordinary photographer, Jack lvfitchell; Michael Musto, entertainment journalise; Holly Woodland, superstar herself; Lily Tomlin; and our -very dear friend, the Countess Alexis Del Lago, artist and STAR ! who now resides in West Hollyv.rood. We always see her when we are in California. She is indeed the last of a dying breed of ELEGANT personalities. Director/writer Craig Highberger has touched on so many wonderful aspects of Jackie's life and the many interesting people around him. Craig was a close friend of Jackie's from 1972 until Jackie's death in 1985. This biography is certainly a true labor of love and it shows. Craig and his partner Andy of over 30 years lives in Ohio. Craig is coming out with a new biography on the life of photographer Jack Mitchell. We can't wait to see that one. If you want to read and see a DVD about a very interesting and colorful character then run out and· buy SUP ERST AR In a Housedress. You can check out th~ biography at: http:/ /www.jackiecurtis.com/ and · Craig's new project on Jack !vfitchell at http:/ /www. jackmitchellmovie.com/ Congratulations to Craig on not only one but great biographies. · Photo above: Coumess Alexis ol Arkansas (501) 525-12 or Toll Free 1-800-537-3714 www.carpetcleanersofarkansas.com COMPLETE CARPET CARE ADDfflONAI.. SERVICES • PET ODOR REMOVAL • CARPET PROTECTION • CARPET REPAIRS • RESTRETCHlNG • UPHOLSTERY CLEANING • PRESSURE WASHING I • ORIENTAL RUG CLEANING • QUICK DRY • - L--~~~~!~~~! ______ .-. NWA GLBT Community Center To Host Picnic BENTC)N1/ILLI~~ ,\R. _ ]]1e i'-~\X./\ c;LB-i·· (~canrnanity (:enter \vill ho]d a HMeet and c;reet'' event 12th from noon to 4pm at :tvlcCinre Park in Lo\veH. ~.Jc(]ur<:: Park 1::- across tb.e street frorn the Lowell Elemcntan· Schoc,L It -xill be BYOP (Bring your Ow:~ Picnic) and there \viH b:..: ::1 :n·2jlable. fyfc(]ure Park 1~~ an excel• ~ s l ,r t lent p1aygrounc1 tor tne MISSOURI AUGUST 8TH Be seen with the STAR, Advertise with us! 9 Lesbian Notions by Libby Post AUGUST 2006 Tennessee Burning Used to be that cross burnings were the KKK's calling card against African Americans. Now cross burnings have a different use. Just ask Brandon Waters. He and his partner, Brian Harmon, were having a quiet evening at home on Thursday, June 29, when Waters iooked out a window and saw a 7-foot cross burning on the front lawn of his Athens, Tenn., home. They rushed out and doused the fire. In the morning, they went back out to videotape the remains. On one of the bricks used to prop up the cross was scrawled "Better Leave Now Fags." Waters called the Meigs County sheriff's department, which started an investigation and cailed in the FBI to see if the incident would be considered a hate crime under federal statute. The feds said no, because under the federal hate crimes law, there is no provision for crimes against gays, lesbians, or the transgendered. Clearly, Sheriff Walter Hickman isn't familiar with the law - the nation's or his own state's. Tennessee has a hate crimes law that _does_ cover sexual orientation. "Why did they call in the FBI when they should have called in the state?" Waters asked me rhetorically in a recent interview. •·something doesn't sound right. It seems like the police are not taking it very seriously." ! couldn't agree more. Even though hate crimes against the LGBT community decreased siightly in 2005, the anti-LGBT rhetoric that characterizes this nation's political debate sends a clear message that we are and should continue to be seen as second-class citizens who don ·t deserve full protection under the law. According to the 2005 report by the National Coalition of Anti-Violence Programs, the number of anti-LGBT hate crime incidents fell 13 percent from 2004, and the number of victims who were tracked fell neariy at the same rate - 12 percent The number of offenders. however, decreased only half that rate, by 6 percent. This paltry decrease. says the report. "signals a truiy retrograde environment in which years of progress resuiting in 10 the STAR fewer people willing to violently act out anti-LGBT bias has been substantially reversed. With respect to hate-related violence, we are in fact 'back to the future."' That's certainly true for Waters and Harmon. "We've had many incidents with people yelling at us - fags, queers. I can't even sit out on my porch," said Waters. Clearly, there's no reason for him to have any faith in the local sheriff's department. "I feel like they're just blowing us off. This is not the first incident I've reported to the police." Waters had a hit-and-run with one of the local "yellers." "When one of the policemen took the report, I told him my name. He asked, 'How do you spell Brandon? Brandony?' I was born and raised here, they all know me." With local law enforcement not taking any of these incidents seriously, Waters says he is fearful for his life. He and Harmon have left their home and moved in with Waters' mother. "I have been waking up in the middle of the night, having nightmares and smelling smoke that's not there," said Waters. "I'm really depressed. I just feel like my civil rights have been violated, like the police are oot doing what they're supposed to do, and I really don't know who to turn to." Despite all this, Waters is willing to fight. His family has no resources to hire a lawyer, but he is willing to "pursue this as far as I can take it." if there was ever a case where nationai organizations could and shouid come in as knights in shining armor, this is it. To my mind, this is a perfect opportunity for Lambda Legal or the ACLU Lesbian and Gay Rights Project to make their iegal presence known in Senate Majority Leader Bill Frist's home state. With both sides gearing up for what will no doubt be a bruising campaign over the state's proposed Amendment 1, which seeks to ban same-sex marriage, the Task Force and the Human Rights Campaign should work side by side with the Tennessee Equality Project (TEP) to turn this hate crime around to the LGBT community's political advantage. Not doing so would certainly be an opportunity lost! In fact, TEP is now organizing a "Vote No on 1" campaign against the amendment. !t's time for us to play hardball. Why not use the image of a burning cross and the story of discrimination expeiienced by these two men who just want to iive their lives to underscore the need for marriage equaiity in Tennessee? i guarantee you that if the radical Christian right in Tennessee had visual ad copy like this to use to further its antisame- sex-marriage agenda, it would certainly use it. Newly ed's Test klahoma Tax ommission. Photo: Matt and Afichae! at the Cape Cod Wedding Ceremony. TULSA, OK_ Like most married couples in Oklahoma, Matt Brumley and Michaei Oaks struggle everyday: they struggle with the bills, with the children, and with the State of Oklahoma. But Matt and Michael's struggles are different in many respects to other married couples in Oklahoma: they are married to one another. While they hold a marriage certificate from the state of Massachusetts, they are not recognized by the State of Oklahoma. Until Tuesday. The pair decided the family needed a new car to accommodate both Matt and Michael's new jobs. Inevitably, paperwork needed to be dealt with, and that included going to the tag agency. When they produced their marriage license, the State of Oklahoma waived the state excise tax on the title of their car - a tax usually waived for family members. They met at their former jobs, as empioyees of St. Michaels Alley in 2001. Both had children when they met. Daniel, 11, and Lillian, 6, live with Man and Michael. As a family, ,hey take Daniel and Lillian on fumilv trips. The fumilv relishes holidavs as time to spend with their kids. · · , "I like decorating for the holidays," Matt said. "I love having fun with the kids.r They have struggled in the pasr five years, like aH couples do. They occasionally found working together frustrating, but they managed to overcome those difficulties. "V.10 11 '; e got to 1o e _a~ goo ct' coup1i e ,.~r, y~u :-vorK1 togct'n e: an~d: ~,,~ ve together and not klll each other1 said Kasey Cunun1ns~ a !'ormer coworker of the couple. 'Td kill my husband if I ,vorke:d with him. On l',1emorial Dav weekend, l',fatt and Michaei traveled to the East Coast. During th~ir trip, they traveled to Barnstable, Massachusetts to tie the knot. First, they flew into Providence, and drove to Newport, R.I. They stayed at ,Rivera Beach Resor:. After checking into the resort, the two performed a "tes: rm:" of Ihe trip to where they would marry. 1he next day, they of course - had ro stop to buy a oattery charger for their cell phone. After which, they saw the sites in Plymorh, Salem, and Boston. Finally rhe next day they went to the village of Barnstable. They were then referred to the town of Barnstable; they were referred back to a judge in the village of Barnstable, who would grant a waiver for the marriage. Once they received the waiver, they went back to the town of Barnstable, which issued the marriage license. "The whole process rook about four hours," Michael said. "The lady was so helpful," Matt said. "She ran her butt off for us." Although their families were not present, they did gather at .:he ceremony in Juiy. This time around, about 90 family and friends joined Matt and Michael v,hen they exchanged vows. The Reverend Diane Varner officiated. In addition to attending, Marr and Michael's friends also macie sure things ran smoothly with the ceremony. One friend, Susan Johnston, catered the evem. The wedding was a prototype for future enterprises; Johnston and the couple plan to he!p others in planning their weddings. Although the pair lived together for quite a whiie before marrying, rhey are still making preparations and attending to family business. Recently, both made the decision to pursue different jobs. 1he transition is a little bumpy, but with the addition of a new car, that transition has become that much e:~sier. The couple decided ::o add Michael to rhe title of the old car, and this task required the tag agency. When they went to th1: first tag agency-" 17th and Harv:nd - tag agen;,:}' employees wuald add Michael to rhe tide, but d1cy \vould be required to pay the stare excise tax) vvhich ,vas $244. f~Jo.,,vever., the st3te ~.;;a!ves the fee fi)r family members. !viatt explained I'vfichacl -...vas his husband, ;;.nd tht the state does not recognize n1arriage. ()n advice the couple then tra_·,.,weled to t<:ig agency at 9isr and Sheridan. 'Ihe employees' response \Vas different. vvere asked fiJr their rlbey vvere rc~ld •·w,:e advised sht: -:.:vould ntx'd to STAR 11 Josh ■ rov1s Artist, Author, Columnist. From the Editor: As recognition for the 18th "Heart to Heart" column published in the STAR, we wanted to introduce the author to you. The Aterovis column has become one of the most popuiar with our readers and hits on many issues important to our community. 'rhe honesty, sensitivity and hard truth style in which josh covei's the subject matter in each Heart to Heart issue fits weil with the philosophy our magazine. This young man of 20 something, is dedicated to the never ending equality and everyday struggle of GLBT people. The evidence 1s in his writing. Josh Aterovis, a twenty-something artist-author, was born and bred on the Eastern Shore of Maryland and lives there with his husband. Jon. Aterovis is a Latin pseudonym meaning "black sheep." Whenever anyone asked Josh what he wanted to be vvhen he grevv up, he aiways said an author. it got him plenty of strange looks. but he never really expected it to come true: 12 the STAR it was just one of those things a kid says. In 1999, Josh's wishful dream became reality when he began to write a story and post it on the Internet. Bleeding Hearts resonated deeply with readers, who encouraged him to seek publication. In 2001, the story was published by Renaissance Alliance Publishing, !nc. Named the Best Whodunit of 2002 by the Stonewall Society, Bleeding Hearts became the first book in the Ki!iian Kendall mystery series. Reap the Whirlwind, his second book featuring amateur sleuth Killian Kendall, was published in May of 2003 and the Stonewall Society promptly awarded it the Best Whodunit of the year. Josh has completed five books in the series and is currently working on a rewrite and edit of All Lost Things, the third book on the Killian Kendall series. He has won numerous awards for his writing and for his web site, which also features his well-received art gallery. "In addition to my writing, my primary income is through my artwork. I work in transparent watercolor. I paint in the purist form. Sorry to disappoint, but that doesn't mean I paint in the nude. It means I don't use any white paint. Any white areas you see in a painting are the white of the paper. I do take commissions, which means if you don't see-what you want, tell me and I'll paint it just for you." Josh wrote. In August of 2003, Josh and Jon publicly celebrated their commitment with a wedding ceremony. it is not yet recognized by the state of Mary!and or the United States of America, but they live in the hope that one day it will be fully legal. Thank you Josh for your contribution to the STAR and for the eighteenth issue of "Heart to Hearf, on the not much talked about issues confronting disabied LGBT people. ast Out by Liz Highleyn:an AUGUST 2006 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT hiscory. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diwrsity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. How queer is science fiction? A few well-kno\;·n science fiction '.vtiters are gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgcndered, and many who are not han: included queer themes in their work. For GLBT and strai,,ht authors aiii<.e, the C genre lends itself to exploration of new possibilities in the realms of sexuality, gender, and intimate relationships. Science ficrim, is ofren stereotyped as a genre for "geekr'' straigh~ men, and indeeci, much of the ,.vork has historically been sexist and i1omophoi)ic. Among the first stories to portray horroscxuality sympatheticaUy was Theodore Sturgeon's "The \X'orid WclJ Lost" (! 953), ·.;,·hich featared a gay male alien couple \Vho land on a represfr;e Planet Earth. \X;ith the ci,·ii rights mo,:ement and sexua; ~evo!uti()n •)f the 1960s and 1970s, science fiction began to boldly explore sex,.iaiity and gender. ;\JO[ed (jUCer authors who started writing during this period include Samuel D:c!an}~ Joanna Ru,s, and Octavia Butler (who died in Februan' 2006), all of whom received science fiction's i1ighe,t awards, the Hugo anci Nebula. Russ was among several feminist writers of :l:e era who exp!ored futuristic sepa!atis~ societies witi~out men, a~ in "When It Ch;.nged" (197 2) and Ti1c Female Man (1 Lcsb!an author Marion Zimmer Bradiey recalled that an agent introduced her to the Daughters of Bilitis after detecting hints of sarnc-sex croticisn1 in her science fiction and fantasy; i11 the 195th; and 196Us} she ,vro(e f,,c~r the group\ rnagazinc, 'The I ,,adder, ,1nd authored lesbian pulp ficrjon. _Arthur C:. C]arkc, one of the fathers of tht: genre, neady can1c ot1t in a 1986 Playbuy i11tcr,-ie\v; \J~~hen directly asked if he \Va~ gay, ho'-1,,,-evcr, he replied that he \\:\lS cheerful.'" and i\1ciissa Scott. \\Titers farnous for other Fenres havt· also dabbled in science fi(tion, Fellce Picano and Katherine \.1_ I::orre~;t~ ~,,.l·hosc ftatured 14 the STAR norm. In other cases, the tables are turned on heterosexuality: In joe Haldeman'~ The Foren:r War (197 4), for exam1:!c, sr:aigh: time-tra.-elers return to Earth ;1fter an interplanetary war, only t0 discm·er that homosexuality is no'.v the norm due '" m·crpc>pularion and they are considered perverts. Gay male rdarions!1ips haYe fascinated the straig!1t women authors of ''olash" fiction, who envision liaisons bet\vec:: ch,ssic characters such as Captain Kirk and ;\fr. Speck from Star Trek. ;\!any authors have explored various a!ternariYe reiariu:1ship srr~JCtL:res, such as the multi-partner marriages in Robe::t A. Heinleh's S~r«nger in a Strange Land (1961). "Geniuses and superge,1:uses always make their o,vn rules on sex as on e\~erything: else," a Hein;ein character says in Friday (1982). Gender nriance is also an enduring morif in science fiction; the Jame~ A. Tiptree Award (named after the pseudonym of author Alice Sheldon) was created for science fictio;; ur fanusy that ex;nncls or explores understandings of gender. Sex ci1;111ge is a common theme, either permanent or back-and-forth as the :nood s:rikes. Lrsula Le Gui:i's The Lefr Haed of Darkness tl 969) features ;, race of mutated humans who are i1,>ngcndered except d,:ring brief mating periods '.vhen they randomh· take on the sexual charac!erisrics of males or females; Le Gi.iin later said d:e regretted he: failure of ,magination in omitting same-sc:x reh,rionships. In Delany's Troub!e on Tritc-n (1976), a maci1<> !nan p:.u'.~ucs an unattainable woman in a sexuaily egalirnriaa society, at>d later ends up as a woman searci;ing for the kind of man he '>nee xas. .\Iany works feature aliens ·.vith more than t·.vc sexes, such as lsaac Asimrx,'s The Gods Themsel-ves (! 972). In Scott's Shadow :vla:1 (1995), most advanced ·.vorlds recognize fiyc lntr.an sexes, but individuals on the isolated plar:et Harn arc forced to live a~ either male o;· female. ,\fany autl1ors have explored teciu~olof,rical inno•:ations in the realms of sex and reproduction. As early as 1932, Aldous Huxley's Braye New \'{iorld portrayed a high-tech society m ·xhicr1 babies y,:ere grown in bottles in factories. Cloning anci parthenogenesis allm,· humans to abandon sexuai reproduction as in Charlotte Perkins Giiman's Berland (1915), about an all-fema:e utopia - ,ind inevitably proc:uce talcs of individua:s having sex \.,,;th them~eh·es. Time travel alkrHs charac~ers to go backwar(::, or fonvarl:s in time, often having sex with their ancestors or dcscendcnts. 1\urhors have alsc cn-n~ioned cross-breeding be0.veen species; in BL!tler's ''Blo()cichild" 11984), for example, a ma:e human is impregnated an insc:ct-Ekc alien. Several authors have explored s:,1do1nasochisn1 or the sex trade of the future. I)elany included an interspecies gay bathhouse sce:ie in , __ Stars in lv!y Pock:c-t Like (Jrains of Sand (1984), \vbiic Storrn c:onsrantinc's F1crn1ctech (]991) featured a ~\£rec~ tc, ha-ve his body \1.·itb 1nultiple ~ex nrgart~, /'1.uthor and editor >,;icob (irifhrh has \1,,Tlncn th:tt tjLlfl' rcaclers different fu.:e:ristic or dcnv:n1:-::tratt: their Photo: The new community center coming soon. The Tulsa Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual & Transgender (GLBT) Community Center, 5545 E 41 st Srreet in Highland Plaza, is the place to be this August as events, acti:,ities and concerts keep pace wit!: the heat of Summer. The highlight of August is the Summer Concert @ the Center featuring Amy Steinberg of Orlando, Florida. l\. veteran of performing with Ani DcFranco, Lisa Loeb and many others, Amy visits the Tulsa GLBT Communitv Center on Sundav, August 13. 2006. Am}· takes the stage a(7:00 PM. A cionation or SS :o $i0 is requested at the door. The Community Resource Kiosk is filled with infor1nadQn on comtnunir-v organizarions, health issues and businej~es tl1at support the GI.BT & allied communicv. FREE 20-minute HI\r rests are available t:~7"erv Tuesd,ay (6 t:i 8_ P:\t) an~ Saturday (4 t;, 7 PM). lt you·re hunting for bu1nper stickers~ je,Nelry, fla!:,tS, "'"vindsocks, item~ and more you'U find them at the Pride Store. The David Bohnctt ,.:vith 10 flat-panel co1nputer stations is FRJ~l~ for you to chat \vith friends, finish that research paper or sin1ply surf the \vcb, 'The f,,fcf)onald Rainbo\V w;{ 1 s libraries of its kind in the Midwest - all FREE to check-out. You can learn more about all the above by caliing the Tulsa GLBT Information Line at 918.743.GAYS (429'). twentySomething, a social group for young adults, the newest addition to the Tulsa GLBT Community Center and the future of the communitv, meets on the 2nd Monday of th.e month at 7:00 P.M. The group joins the community at the PFLAG Family Picnic on Monday, August 14th at Whiteside Park, 41 st and Pittsburg !between Harvard and Yale). The Tulsa Arca Prime-Timers, for mature men and their admirers, meet at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center the first Tuesday of the month at 6:30 PM. Gender Outreach, a social and support group for Transgendcr & Intersex individuals and their friends, meet even· \X'ednesdav of the month at 7:30 PM. Lockers and · changing rooms are provided for your pnvacy. The Tulsa Two-Spirit Society, a NativeAmerican GLBT group, meets on the 1st Wednesday of the month at the Tulsa GLBT Community Cemer. Thursdays bring the Lesbians of Tuisa to the Center for a rciaxing evening of socializing. Kick back and visit \Vith friends or inakc nc\v ones, surf the ,v-eb or catch a movie. The last Thursday of the month is the ~rC)HR_ Board of Directors n1ecting. ()pen to the public, the meetings gi,;c you rhc -=>pportunity to become n1ore invob.,,-ed 1;virh tht.: cornmunity, proYiding ·vision for the future. -You're fabulous ~ and you ha·ve 1he chance to przy,;.~e it .., :vith r7J\.B! Friday i\ftern{)OD 11ridge is your chance to sbo\\1 your skills :lnd 1neet other;; in the senior~·--------·-···--· (:ards and refreshments arc ,1, ailalJle for :11; Kick your weekend off in style with Center Cinema every Friday evening. The FREE GLBT films are shown on a 65" HDTV, gi,·ing you the opportunity ro get up close and personal ,vith the scars. Action kicks in!o high gear on Saturdays and Sundavs. The I st Saturday of the momh welcomes the Tulsa U~iform & Leather Seekers Association (f.U.L.S.A.). The Board of Directors of TU.LS.A meets at 4:00 PM while the general membership meets at 5:00 PM. The Tulsa Deaf GLBT Group meets quarterly at the Tulsa GLBT Communitv Center on Saturdays. Look for a new videophone at the Center soon, providing another opportunity to get and stay connected to the community and your family and friends. Dinner and entertainment are featured during Ol3T on the Town on the 2nd Saturday of the month. You can join the communin· for an evening of fun whether it's a night ;t the theatre to a night of bowling. Faith piays an important role for many in the community. Ekklesia rhe Gathering, featuring worship and song in a living-room setting, meets every Sunday at 10:30 AM at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center. TOHR welcomes all in the community to visit and enjoy the Tulsa GLBT Com~unity Center, 5545 E 41 st Street in Highland Plaza. Your Center is open Monday through Saturday, 3:00 PM 9:00 PM. Log onto www.tohr.org to learn more of whar's going on at the Center, the additional programs of TOHR and to sign up for free TOHR cncws and Advocac,· Flashes. MISSOURI AUGUSTBTH the STAR 15 TL;LSA, OK_ If rnu caught Bets,· and the Band in ( )kLlhonu Cin·'s Pride h:stival performing their first gig as Bersr and the Edge, \·uu kn<N: the music sizzled tn match the HOT weather! Some Blues, a little Rock and a whole !1Jt of Countrr made the show a roaring success. to a delighted crowd. Thri\·ing from Tulsa, ( )klahoma. Bctsr Smittle is most we!! knmn1 f1 ,r the ::; years she toured worldwide exclusffeh· with brother Ganh Brooks. She performed on Saturdm· \light Li\·c,J;n Leno and mam· ocher 0'.BC speci:ils. Orhcr artists that hare depended l)t1 Bet s\·'s numerous musical rakrns arc: Gus Hardin, 1\1111 Bell and Phoontz and Ronnie Dunn (of Brooks & Dunn). Her own album released in [ lJ(J4 on the !\orthSr,uth/ ;\,! antic label Bets\ "Rough r\mund tht: Edgt:s'·. ,ms criticalli· accbimed worldwide. Betsy's fa·,r,rite n·cnt in her career \vas ha,-ing her O\\'rl float a1 the i 9<14 i\lacr's Da\· P,!ra,k. BcLs~· is far frorn tr~;in.~ t, J ndc her brother's ~hin L!ib. :--;he i> ,l ruggedly in dependent Lid: dct ... -n~1in1-:d t() car\·c ;t career nt. he;-, J\\'!l. Like li:t lebrother (_!;1r;h, it i\ 1l1l- \Urcnor (l( Bl·l~r\ \-{)ict.- :ii:~t '-l'!;s: l:c:.:r ;ir•;tr1 • !lHi~ic:,tn ::nd ~it:,1.~cr i~\ tTi\h::-., :L·r .,-, ,:c·t. b;t:.; i)t:t.'t: c- •uq,:tr-__ -d ·ur b(HI-hr!_·;irh :-,;, ,ur11.! - ·1 H, ,:1::ic R.1'.;:: :tnd AND THE dge B, Greg Steele grmds. teases and demands in all the right places. She rocks out as few women or men can and when she murccrs on.:r tht: fade of the song Draggin' it Back say ing, "Drag ir back om· hea' honey, bring it back to mama,'' you know thar she means it1 ;\nwme who apprcciares a gut:-:,· female mice will LO\'!-: Bcts\·1 ::inct' t'.n· ,1gc of S. ~!tc hcL:,!!J !1~_:r f:t1.nily'--: ,i!uspcl uri ,~ip :tnd ,~rh:. : hr, \l,tEh{)ur her childh, :r ;d Bili Guinn is :1 na,i,c of Tulsa OK ,md has been playing the gunar since r:hc age of I 2. l ic is J product of ::ccing the J-k,1tk-s on J-:d ::-:ulliY,:r1 and knC\,· rhc \\"ouk! he ;! gu!r:H· player fro!n rhat point on, Pla\·intr in ,·:ulous locai bands since he \\.a'.' I-~ he grc\\. up cxp(Jscd to The Beatles, Rolling :-;1oncs. Cn:arn,Jimi Hendrix. (rosh\·, Sti!b. '.',ash. & Young etc. y.;hcn thl'!r n1u:.:ic \\·as fresh on ~;Jr1\1 \lcJst of hi~~ teen years ,,·ere spen1 in front of :1 rccnrd pb\·cr \\·lth his guitar h:tnging out ch< 1rd:-: and copyjng lyric:-: for hi~ hand'.-,: tu pla:· :-:o:rll· of the grcatcsr rock and roll in his.tor\·. ~ TRAVEL by Donald Pile and Ray Williams "OGUNQUIT, MAINE" . gunquit, Maine is an artsy resort village (located 66 miles north of Boston) that has been welcoming gay and lesbian visitors and their families for over 100 years. Ogunquit has three miles of white sandy beaches, dance clubs and restaurants for every taste and budget. In summer and even winter, there is always plenty to see and do! We will begin with the lodging. Gay and locally owned gay Guesthouses, Inns and B&B's offer a variety of choices and values for the gay traveler. Whether you're looking for an exquisite luxurious suite, condo rental, or an affordable summer vacation at an in town B&B close to the beach - Ogunquit Maine has it all! We stay at Moon Over Maine Bed and Breakfast (Photo right) which is located at 22 Berwick Road. It is located in the center of town just a block from the nightclubs, shopping, restaurants and a 5 minute walk to the beach. It features al! private baths, oalcony rooms, par~ing. cable, dvd/vcr, refrigerators, ale, iight breakfast and an outdoor hot tub. John. the owner is extremely friendly and can give you any tips or suggestions about the area. It is in an oid New England house and is just wonderful. Their toll free 1umber is Cail 800.851.6837 and you can check out their website at: http://www. rnoonovermaine.com. There are numerous other gay ownea B and B's in the area ana you can check them ai! tnd il:c :irc,t (;!-(er:-: ~'nr!c' 1;( the h·.:s;;'. .'.tHil],it ·ri1c j t,;y) l· 1:-rrL:r~ \];n:1n:,c 1dcntitic~. thi~ ,( ~!!,.: bcttt-r !~nn\\-~~ :-:!1, :trc.1-: ic. 1~1t· l :1itcd :'it.l!t5. ·rhr;.,·c ~ndc~ 1-1f hc:u.ni(~d \\·hue ~.incit." hc~ich. r~ttl·d a:; on~·:;; iishinF. Dock Square i, as cute a wwri square as one will find in ~cw England. Tber:.:: is an exccilent seicction or· restaurants and it's ()nly 20 minutes awa\·. The Kittery Outlets arc just !5 minut~s aw~y, with l2(; different stor:.::s, including Banana Rcpui)lic. Calvin Klein: DK,\;Y and The Gap. Ir· pu like LL Bean, the Frceoorr Outlets l arc about an hrmr ~orrh. 1\ short walk from downtown is Perkins ~on:, which is rmc of our ,·cry fan>rite places. Ir is a quaint New Engi.rnd co,-c -_,.-ith bu,n,, shopping and wonderful restaurants. \X'e arc alwa\·s thinking ,hat Jessica S.n-age from Murder She \Xfrote is going n, be waH~ing around the corner at am· giYen rime. ,\ walk along the cliffs with dramatic views of the ocean the i\!arginal \X·;y srart,. on Shore Road. From the center of ~own it's just _a t:ew block, to the Sparhawk Motel. The Marginal Way srarts behmc! rhe 5parh;;wk. You'!! see a iittle sign on the left side of the street that sa,·s ·'Marginal \\'ay" and has an arrow. 1\s you follow the path, be rnrc w look at the Sparhawk's flower gardens. They haye an incredible number of flowers, and each type is labeled! The Marginal Way speaks for itself. It has beautiful views of the ocean and the rocky cliffs. t ,·arious points so ou can sit and enjoy e beauty'. It's a worth noting. plicably, each ne has the name f a virrue printed nit. The Marginal y ends at Perkins ve. When we are Ogunquit we walk e Marginal Way very morning and Nightlife in the . . . smali town of Oguoc] LHt !S rcaliv 5pccracu!ar to say the ;east. In this sleepy Little town (,nc could univ imagine one tiny Ettlc bar, but you are in for a grand surpri:-::d 1~1.·crythjng is nghr do\vntO\\>-n and you can \Valk from any .1cco1nrnodation lo do\'-'l1tO\\.~n. ~rhc Front Porch Piano Bar at 9 · Shor-..'. Ro;:HJ ha:,;; been in business for O\~Cr 20 vears. Their \Vebsite 1s http:, /\\'YV\\:.thcfronrporch.ncr. 'Their cafc is open for l.,unch & l)lnncr day:-; a ..._,:eek '\vith a late night rncnu a;·ailablc. Piano LPU'.'((c open ~ d:ffs fr01°: 0lpn~ :iil ~ .im. h ,,id S,:rv1Cc now available up~I;lir~. \ 11<..:0).: >;.;:n~:r rcccndy tt1ok ,JYcr and fron1 all reports he is :1 F:\Bl · L< 1l 'S ]: ;h at tiic Front Porch! 'The ~IaincStreet Bar is 11 •catcd _it l 3 1 :-;~>u:b \lai:1 ~trccr (Route l; ;n do\vnto,vn ()gunquit. 'l'hcir \\-t:hs.t!c i:~: , -.-~.,. ~ .. -• · , - l)J·-~ · K 1('; J: 1,, '.',j,i, !in .. i ::l~'(::·:,'.:i:::c{;~1t1r~1~~;~;~~·;,;t,.l~d;;.:il .\L1inc:--;:tc~·t > rttY\\' ~>;,u1 ;U . l·cAP_lrine: I Route 1 18 )Arkansas & Okiahorna ·s rno.st read GLBT i\t1agazu1e GAY TRAVELERS: W'e have been to both of these wonderful bars and they are indeed wonderful! John Lane's Ogunquit Playhouse is one of Soutnern Maine's most important cultural landmarb and ·will celebrate 74 years of Broadway at the Beach in 2006. Opening in 1933, the work and vision of Walter and Maude Hartwig brought an outstanding, star-studded performing ans company tG Ogunquit. Continuing this tradition for aimost five decades, John Lane, owner and producer of ~he Playhouse, sought to pwvide his audience with the finest professional theatre in our region. In doing so, he successfully placed the playhouse on the narionai cultural map. The Ogunquit Playhouse Foundation, formed in 1995, is now the proud owner and trustee of the Playhouse. This year the;: are featuring BEEHIVE, Andrea McArdie in CABARffl~ Sally S:ruthers in HELLO DOLLY, Leslie Uggams in CINDERELLA and MENOPAUSE THE MUSICAL Their website is http://www.ogunquitplayhouse.org. There are dozeas of small res~aurants in and around Ogunquit and most all of them are iocaliy mvned. fr is a sea lovers delight! If you are im:o sea food you wiil ha,·e a marvelous time. We have been going ,o 0 6TUnCjuit for se,,eral years and it just keeps getting better and be0ter and be,ter. It is far better than Ptown, Fire Island or any of the other gay resort places in New England. We just can't wait to return. For more information on. Ogunquit go to: http:/ /www.gayogunc1uit.com. This column is warmly dedicated to our dear friend Crystlli Chandelier who lives near Ogunquit. He just happens to be one of the most sincere, honest and fun people that we have met in oμr tra·;e!s and SO ELEGANT ! We are so l:!appy that he has found the LOVE of his life. * WHAT OUR READERS ARE SAYING! We enjoyed reading your travel article about Dania Beach in the STAR July 2006 issue, you were right on point. it is all that you say and much more. We discovered Liberty Suites a couple of years ago & wouldn't dream of staying anywhere else. The accommodations are fabuious and the guys are just great. We have been looking for a home in Dania Beach and plan to retire there. By the way, ladies are also welcome at Liberty Suites. Jack & Joe are the best!!!!!!! Annie & Shorty health outreach prevention a<fucatlon, inc. 1-800-535-AIDS (2437) Oklahoma's HIV/STD Hotline PROTECT YOURSELF PROTECT YOUR PARTNER(SJ * Free nonjudgmental HIV testing, including the 20 minute OraQuick Test KNOW YOUR STATUS • Free Syphiflis screening at the GLBT Community Center on Tuesdays from 6-8pm H.O.P.E. Testing Clinic Mens Outreach Program In Tulsa at (918) 812-7045 Arkansas & Oklahoma ·s most read GLBT Magazine 19 Photo: A view up Broad Street (aka "the Avenue of the Arts'') toward Philadelphia's distinctive City Hall. (Photo by Andrew Collins) Philadelphia o city in the United States played a more critical role in the nation's founding than Philadelphia, and this progressive metropolis of about 1.5 million people has also been a pioneer in gay and lesbian rights. The Philadelphia Lesbian and Gay Task Force, formed in 1978, guided passage of the 1982 Philadelphia Fair Practices Act, one of the country's earliest gay civii rights measures, and countless other gay-positive laws and policies have been passed or implemented since tl1en. Additionally, the city's office of tourism was one of the first to enthusiastically court gay and lesbian visitors. But apart from a warm welcome, what else about the "City of Brm:herlv Love" makes it ideal for a summercime·•visit? Here's a list of just a fe'.v notable things to see or do, chronicied in no particular order, that make Philad~lphia so appealing: 1. Rittenhouse Square Park City-planning guru Jane Jacobs called this tiny patch of paradise tl1e most successful urban park in the United States; indeed, Rit~ enhouse Square is picturesque, socially diverse, highly sak and 1argdy unsullied by post-\'forld War II ,irchitecrurc. Off the Square•~ southeast comer is the prestigious Curtis Institute of Music, -;vhere Samuel Barber, Leonard Bernstein, and Ned Rorem studied, as well as the Philadelphia .i\,rt 1\Jiiance, -.;,.vhich presents outstanding exhibits and art sho\vs The square is also the site of the gay-friendly Rittenhouse Hotel, a sumptuous 98-room property that hosted the cast of the movie _Pbladelphia_ during filming. Rooms here are downright ca·:ernous, averaging more than 500 square feet, and all have iarge windows framing the park or the city's dramatic skyline. A short walk from the square, romantic Astral Plane has been a favorite gay-date restaurant since it opened in 1973 (it's also drawn such fab celebs as Bette 1,fidler, Liza Minnelli, Barry Maniiow, and Tommv Tune). From the eclectic menu you might choose slow-roasted pork shank ,vith asiago potatoes, or grilled scallops ,vith lemongrass-and-ginger butter. It's the perfect spot for a special dinner. 2. Clubbing in the Gayborhood The city's compact gay district, nicknamed the Gayborhood, contains the bulk of the Philadelphia's gay bars as well as quite a few gay-popular shops, restaurants, and hotels. It's right in the center of downtown, about as convenient to attractions, transportation, and entertainment as any gay neighborhood in America. Highlights include the city's premier lesbian club, Sisters, a three-floor establishment with a restaurant and disco, and long-running \X'oody's, a youthful video bar that pulis in a mostly male, some\Vhat cruisy, stand-and-model crowd. The ultra-swank Bump Lounge offers a more cosmopolitan ambience and is a great piace to chat witl1 friends, sip martinis, and dine on fine contemporary cuisine. Serious revelers head to Pure, the city's top gay warehouse disco. Tavern on Camac is a charming gay piano bar, with a cozy restaurant in the basement. Other friendly options in the neighborhood include Uncles, popular with players on Philly's lesbian and gay softball teams; 12th _l\.ir Command, a cavernous cruise bar with fun drag shows and dance parties; and the Venture Inn, tl1e oldest gay bar in town, set in a historic cavern. There are plenty of places to stay nearby. Particularly charming and well-priced, the gay-owned Alexander Inn is a fine boutique hotel right in the center of the action. The 48 rooms have a contemporary look with sleek furnishings and muted tones - other bonu;es include satellite TY, Wi-Fi, and Continental breakfast buffet. Practically across from Woody's, the Holiday Inn Express ,\fidtown has well-kept rooms and reasonable prices. Another excellent choice that's just steps from gay nightlife is the upscale Doubletret: Philadelphia, a handsome, contemporary high-rise whose rooms afford superb city views. Tne hotel is a blocK away fro;n tl1e Kimmel Center for the Performing .Arts, a magniticem 5-year-olci space designed by seminal architect Rafael Vinoly. 3. Brunch at the White Dog There's nothing more rciaxing on a sunny weekend mornini! or afternoon '.ban .. enjuying brunch :it a lin:l~· w,taurant with g;ear food and, ideally, some outside seating. Near the campus of the lipjversity of Pennsy+vania, the gay-popular YXlhite Dog Cafe fits the bill perfectly. This bric-a-brae-filled eatery set in t¾rce adjacent \ 1ictorian to,vn houses ser ..... ·es such delicious brunch fare as lemontnascarpone pancakes '\i/ith raspberry--n1aple syrup, and biack-pcpper- seared organic beef salad -."vith crurnbled blue cheese and balsamic "tinaigrette. i\Jso keep in mind that /\stral Plane restaurant~ mentioned above~ scrYes a t,:::rrific brunch on .- ....... -·······-········(=ont1nucd next page: 20 Arkansas & Oklahoma's most read GLBT Magazine 4. Cheesesteaks at Geno's or Pat's It mav sound a bit cliched to search out a cheesesteak in this citv that's, famous for them. But you're here - and you may as well h;ve a bite of Philadelphia's quintessential treat. Many connoisseurs favor two neighboring joints a bit south of downtown, Geno's and Pat's (of course, plenty of ardent critics deride these two places as rourist traps and prefer other holes-in-the-wall around town). Pat's is said to have invented this delicacy in 1930 - the restaurant serves 'em slathered with Cheez Whiz ~d fried onions, and the steak is finely chopped. Across the street at Geno's, the steaks are not shredded, and instead of Cheez Whiz, they come topped with provolone. Which one is better? You be the judge. 5. The Philadelphia Museum of Art One of the nation's most esteemed art institutions, the Philadelphia Museum of Art sits within a dramatic Greek Revival building amid 10 landscaped acres. Standouts in the permanent collection include contemporary masterpieces by Picasso, Braque, and Matisse as well as works by a number of post-World War II artists. The outstanding Marcel Duchamp collection includes renditions of his _Nude Descending a Staircase_ (fhe "nude," people often overlook, is male). Check out the fine collection of photos and paintings by gay artist Thomas Eakins of young, virile men crewing and boating on the nearby Schuylldll River. There's also an excellent display on Shaker furniture. And that's just scratching the surface. The museum is adjacent to lushly landscaped Fairmount Park, which straddles the Schuylkill River and comprises nearly 9,000 acres of picturesque gardens, walkways, and bildng and bridle paths, plus about a dozen historic (mostly Colonial} mansions, which are open to the public. 6. Reading Terminal Market For a century; the more than 80 stalls at the cavernous Reading Terminal Market have sold tantalizing, market-fresh foods, ranging from local oroduce to international dishes from around the world. There are (oo many great dining options to mention, but try not to miss the regionai Mexican fare at 12th Street Cantina, the ddi items at Saiumeria, Amish treats at Beiler's Bakery, ice cream at Bassetts, the Pennsylvania Dutch breakfasts at Dutch Eating Place, Italian hoagies at Carm~ds, and heavenly mac-and-cheese a, Delilah's. But wherever vou end uD eating, you won': go wrong - around every corner yo~'ll see, s:~eli, and have the cnance to taste delicio'.ls food. 7. Independence National Historic Park Even if you're not a big history buff, you can't visit Philadelphia and not soak up at ieast a whiff or ;:wo of the city's amazingly rich heritage. The Old Ci:y neighborhood con:aim the bulk of :he pre- 1800s attractions, most them centered around Independence National Historical Park, which celebrates the verr birth of our nation. Most famous is the Liberty Beil Pavilion. si:e of America's be!o,·ed and cracked 2,000-pound bell. Although commonly thought to have played a significant role in Colonial history, the Jjberty Bell actually rose to prominence during the 1830s as a symbol of the n1ovement to abolish slavery. Nearby Independence Hall is where the Second Continental Congress met in 1775, the Dec!aration of Independence "·as adopted in 177 6, the Articles of Confederation ,;verc signed in 1778, and the Constitution was adopted in 1787. It \,;as also tl1e site of the cirr's first major civil rights· demonstrations (which included the co1:c~rns of lesbians and gays). The list of important sights within the park goes on and on - you could easily spend a full day here. 8. Giovanni's Room In an age when independent bookstores are struggling to keep their doors open, this wonderful GLBT bookswre that's been going strong since 1973 is a true marvel. The homey two-floor shop on the edge of the Gayborhood has hundreds of queer titles plus a wealth of (Woody's has long been one of Philadelphia's hottest gay bars. Photo by Andrew Collins) feminist works. There are several community bulletin boards, a \Vidc range of periodicals, and a handful of skin mag,, too. The staff is extremely helpful and has a real knack for finding out-of-print, import, or hard-:o-find titles. 9. Coffee Kiatch ;\rguably .the ~ayeft j;,.va )oin_t_ in tuwn~_Yillage Coffrc House anchors the (_7ayborhooc1, otrertng carte1ne add1cts a cozy 1ntc:rior space as ,veil .as a ;=harniing cncl(:sed pa_ti:> tha: c~vc~ioo~~~ a .. borhood garden. 1~{ere you can $1p spec1aJty dnnks (n1ao~: \\~uJ1. Fair 1·radc coffee beans\ cute patrons, and nosh on cr,okics, cheesecake, and tasty sand-.xichcs. 1\ short v.walk a~;vay, the has been a fix.ture in the 'hood fur insist is the best apple ~~!!~~;: i~~; t~:::::~ ,~~;;\;::t:~~•.,·,d1v0 , and plenty of coffee ~1nd tea drink·~. [t\ the bc:sr \V!-1.ile a,1.·a,,- ~a af. C· ;l( _;{z, Liuie BhKk Book: Cr;ntzrmed page 22. Arkansas & Oklahoma's most read GLBT Magazine Want the STAR delivered to vour home or business? 12 issues for $26.95 will be mailed in a sealed envelope the 1st of each month. Complete the form below and send wirh a check or monevorder to: Ozarks STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 (Single Copies $3.00 per issue) Phone: ___________ _ Check enclosed 1V1oney Order ~tart Uate: _________ _ 22 the STAR Commission would accent Matt and .Michael as family. 1he empioyee then checked with the Commission. The couple called the next morning, anci ,hey paid $32.50 for the ovmer transfer title fee and administrative costs. The State of Oklahoma had waived 1 • me excise tax. \Vhile Matt and Michael are excited about the situation, ;:hey are uncertain abour what h means. They realize legally, their marriage is only recognized in Massachusetts. But this fact raises questions for the couple, those of family rights and recognition. Both have chosen to share their experience with others; with Johnsron, the trio plans to help other gay and lesbian families come together by offering wedding pianning. They are both ordained ministers, and Michael also offers therapy of the soul and counseling. For more information, please go to rhe couples' myspace page at http:/ /www.myspace.com/equal_luv. "All should have the right ro experience die joy and happiness that :Michael and I have experienced," lvian said. "We wane to nelp them do that." As this issue of the STAR goes to press Matt and !vlichael are anxiously waiting for the original auro title to arrive in the mail. Hoping the state did not disallow the family exemption. * 437 E. 141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL (3275) Metro Area for over 21 Years with PRID ORATING * HOLIDAY SPECIAL ame day delivery. Your order is treated with the upmost confidentiality. DIVERSITY WEEKEND Eureka Springs, Arkansas Aug 4-6, 2006 FREE HOME DELIVERY 5 Mile Se.vice Area 918. 734.6847 email lrrol:>o~~aol.,om COMING SOON! 11Jlld 6Lzdseed Salutations Kittens' \X'elcomc once more to an unruly addition of Vncle. Uncle :,like\· suffin:d another faiJulo,1s fourth. This year Uncle was on a mission to enio:,· the !oYe of the community, and 2J! I can ~ay is '.vhew - Uncle enjo\'i.:<l the Joye of the communitv! Au1:,>1.1st is blowing in like a bitter qu.:cn <1t the cad of her reign forced to release her crown. Cn6e prepares fot the cclebratio:1 of Fall. Linde has agreed robe th!: speaker at ~cveral celestial e\·ents this year. Cnclc's left ·vonckring if my thong sbmld be more in the earth tones for the c,·ents, I shall se<.'.k m:,· fashion guru just to be sure. Dear l.inc!e Mikey, My boyfriend and i have bcec rogether ffJr several years now. \'</hile we age. I expected changes to take pkcc, howe,·cr :10t to ~he point where I am embarrassed to be seen \\'ith him. liis fashion se:1se ha5 just been absence for some time no'.v, bur he is really being ro scare me. He has been adorning tragic r;utfits rhis season of the sun. I love him, ho\,'eYer not his blataEt disregard for g;.y fashion. Hu\· can I te1l him about thi~ issue without seemin~ like a birch? Li,·ing wirh a ia~hion ·.vasrela:1d. Deare$t F\'( Bitcn away bttd:! Ir is not only :-·,,ur dut}, bur abo rnur obligation to queers everrtvhcrc. \X?c arc not kno\1.-n in society for n1any positiYc attributes~ hcr\VCYe'r our i1npeccable taste and style happens to be 1no~:.r recognized. \'Ct: 1nust readily ln\~asion of bad taste. I ha\T: strict orders ft1r thcn1 to if (]1er forbid~ I eYcr louse mv fashion sen.st·. l kno\1: \vhat you arc thinking~ it could neYer happen! _Darling I have seen rn<n·e then one: 1night think,. 1 rncan the bad don1 couid choke a horse. Stn<.lochcs-l}nc!e ])ear lJncle \likey. !\Iv fficnd ha5 been 26 the STAR a 1on:h f< n· this jf he can con1c out Dearest Closeted L.oYc. Ir is all about mu Eve. Your kner screams self-serving motives. Ki,:ten, if ,·ou trah· hav; fce!ings for this man ,hen you first need to realize d1ac you :nust decide if you are v:illing to s:and supporti\·cly by, whilst he makes his way through the \Valk-in. You haYe your way with him if he so agrees after the emotional task at hand. Besides, sex is alway~ better with a bit of drama in the recipe. Smooches-Cncle Mike,· Dear Cncle, 1 ha\"C been seeing this guy for several months no\,: The orher day while in che shuwer, I noticed t;1at he has some kind of sores on h1s genital area. I was too embarrassed ro point this our to him. ! am now worried and do not kno·,,· about continuing a physical relationship with him, as i am afraid he mighr have some kind of STD or something, what should I do? Looking for the free clinic Dea~est Kitten, While I sir here holding your lertcr with my old sa!aci tongs, ] find myself cGnfuscd. Kmen, if Uncle l\likey c;-er suspecred, I would have an agent form ,he CDC cxamimng my little playmate. Ler me put ir simpler, CSI ain't got nothing on me, w'1en I was done with the black ligh, search, I would ~now what I was dealmg with. Cncle does not play when it comes to safecy. i\n old \vise queen once told rr.e, "If ym1 hear the drums of the Congo e<;ming from a tricks pants, its tune to reach out and wuch your own self." Good luck to you and rnur enchamed member. Smooches Hand shakes, Unck 1,!ikcy Dea:: C ncle :vlikey, Would you da,e your ex-boyfriend's new ex; Kitten, Shon and sweet. That reminds Uncle of his 6t!. husbanci. Ok, back on track why haggle? Date them both'. Smooches Dear Uncle, I am having an affair \,;th my mo:her's boyfriend. I know ,-;hat you're ti1inking. but j, was an innocent night with too much drink. My feelings for him !um: deepened. however I ca;rnot deal with what I am dQing. Should I walk a•.v,iy for hl'.r, or sbo.;ld I tcii her, rhat we are going to be rogethcr? Am I gcing to hell) I ,,uvin' \fotn's i\ian D:.:arcst Jean, l ~.vanred to kt you knO\\~ your rcscr~:arion is confirmed and rhat you ,v!Jl be ;ibk· ro get the stnoking ~cction, ~or only is the ans\vcr to your question yts1 it is undoubtedly yes, in a gasoline Speedo. What planer arc you living on? .\.for~l rnuch? Thar poor \VOt11en birthed you ,vhi1c also giving you the bl'.st year.s of her •;..,·astcd Efc. \'ou in turn take her rnaa, •~vho '\Vou!d be your Step i)addy. \'fell !10'\V, l kno\v that l)eliverancc is 1nore than an urban legend. l(irten, sec;~ proft'ssional help, and that docs not rnean sleep \\"ith your Unde'. rncrnber fatnily reunions arc not the Snuthern version of Bob tdls you'. lJntii ne:•:t tirne. P.S. * Asparagus Stuffed Dover Sole. 4 Fillets of Sole 1 Bunch of fresh Asparagus 3 TBLSP Real Butter 3 TBLSP Flour 2 Containers Heavy Cream 1 Container Plain Yogurt ½ TBLSP Dry Dill ½ Cup Real Butter ½ TBLSP Lemon Zest Preheat oven to 375 degrees Cut off ends of Asparagus and roil five spikes in each fillet and lay in a shallow pan. In a heavy saucepan melt 3TBLSP butter and add flour to make roux, add cream, and cook until thickened. Add yogurt, dil!, and lemon zest, while simmering adds ½ cup butter. Once done, pour over sole in pan, baked 15-20 minutes (until asparagus is tender). Plate so!e, pour extra sauce on top and garnish with sprig of rosemary to serve. "UNTIL NEXT MONTH, STAY COOL!" This months recipe is a twist on a summer classic. Have an outdoor party with appetizers and pretty cocktails instead of the same old bar-b-que and beer. You can find seasonal plastic glasses in fun colors for a festive gathering. Serve up this recipe for a good time. Enjoy ! SUMMER MELON MARGARITA (2 OZ) SKY VODKA (1 OZ) MIDORI LIQUEUR (1/2 OZ) TR!PLE SEC (1/2 OZ) SWEET & SOUR Fresh LIME JUICE 1. Chilled a martini giass. 2. Combine all ingredients with ice in shaker and shake very weiL 3. Strain into martini glass and garnish with A fresh lime wheel. CELEBRATE The Long Hot Summer With A Cool Drink! Arkansas & Okiahoma's most read GLBT Magazine Q Scopes by Jack Fertig AUGUST 2006 "Stick to a budget, Libra!"" Sun in Leo squaring Jupiter in Scorpio shows flamboyance, generosity, and libido all cranked up high. Venus in Cancer quincunx Neptune in Aquarius boosts generosity, but dulls judgment in favor of the easiest option. ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Your playfulness can easily get the better of you. Be careful! Getting out of a situation is a lot harder than getting into it. Some community work may channel that energy more safely. . TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Stay home as much as you can, playing with your partner or a good partner-prospect. Work, on the other hand, requires a serious hand and some finesse. Listen for hidden agendas, and be only as conciliatory as you need to be. GEMINI (May 21 * June 20): Showing off, or feeling you need to prove yourself, can lead to spectacular accidents. Stay focused on the job at hand! Arguments over money come too easily, and you're both wrong. Shelve those issues until next week, at least. CANCER (June 21 a July 22): Being as sexy as you are right now can get expensive. Be clever and resourceful instead of extravagant. Getting high opens you to dangerous risks. A clear head and a steady hand are better fun anyway. LEO (july 23 * August 22): Your birthday bash will be all the more fabulous if.jt's a bit more intimate and takes place at home. Think quality, not quantity. In an even cozier setting, you and your love can open up to deeper sharing that can change your relationship. VIRGO (August 23 * September 22): Rosy notions about where you'd like to be in the future clash with current frustrations in your work. You need to adjust both ends of the problem. Meditation and in-depth conversations with a trusted friend can help. LIBRA (September 23 • October 22): Charm and creativity can further your goals. Focus. which comes on!y with difficulty nov,1, 1Nou!d a!so heip. Set aside some money for frivoious games or shopaholic indulgences - but stick to the budget! SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Blowing your own horn will look overbearing, but it's no time to be shy either. Your work speaks loudly and clearly for itself. Distant older relatives can shed light on family mysteries, but will you like what you learn? SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): You are not to be trusted with other people's secrets now. Better to explore your own and share the deepest and darkest ones with a counselor or teacher who can help you work them out - or play them out - with an anonymous trick in a different town. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): It's time to reevaluate the whole "friends with benefits" business. What's really important to you in any relationship, especially your primary partnership? It's too easy to lose track of values right now. Let your partner remind you of what's really important! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): You're a bit fuzzy in your self-perception. And, although work offers some comfort, it doesn't give you any more certainty. Cooperation, now more than ever, is the key to success. Developing culinary skills can also bring clarity . PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Creative efforts heip to draw out your inner demons. Dealing with those demons remains a challenge, but you're up for it. Your inner conflicts can make you touchy and argumentative. Don't shy away from debate, but stay focused on what the disputes are really about! , < SPIRIT OF CHRIST JOPLIN, MO FREE HIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing appoinrment 417-529-8480. 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 joplin, Mo 64803 SATURDAY Service 9:30Aiv1 28 Advertising in the STAR is just good business cents. 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Where have the days gone when you dressed to the hilt and went to a nice dimly lit restaurant with your partner or date, listen to some soft music and looked into the eyes of the person across the table and said, whow you are beautiful? It seems to me gay life has become fast food, weird cloths, drugs, loud music and sex, sex, sex! Now some may say, that sounds like fun, that's the life. When was the last time you sent your partner flowers for no special ocqision, but to say I love you? Tulsa is strategically situated in an area that has close access to beautiful iakes, mountains, smali romantic towns like Eureka Springs, AR. Cities with totally gay restaurants and lodging such as, Kansas City, Dallas, Oklahoma City. Many weekend get-a-ways at our door steps. There are severai all gay camp grounds for those who want to get back to nature. There are numerous places to just go be romantic with your partner. With valentines coming in February and spring just around the comer why not make a date, get those fine threads out of moth balls, step out and do some star gazing and iots of smooching. Get the candles out, put on the white table c!oth, by some flowers and invite your favorite man or women over for a intimate dinner and suck some face. Whow! I'm in the mood now. olitics of tal eth A non-profit executive, governmentalemployee, financial advisor, travel agent, student, fashion designer - what these gay men have•in common is a knowledge of pain, obsession, despair, degradation, and finally freedom from the one element that connects their stories: crystal meth use. Dr. Ken Cimino reveals the intimate and horrifying nature of math abuse and presents ten inspiring true life dramas of math use and recovery in The Politics of Crystal Meth: <;;ay Men Share Rersonal Stories of Addiction and Recovery (www.gayitics.com). He describes the many reasons why gay men use methamphetarilines, from gay oppression to homophobia to building self.esteem to HIV issues. From addiction to resolution, he then shares ten personal and motivating stories of meth use and recovery. In The Politics of Crystal Meth, experts such as Kathy Rebak, Walter Odets and Lucianq Colonna talk about issues and problems created by gay men who use meth. · .~ .. Gay men addicts bear a social stigma that straight men · don't, for example, making it hard for them to admit their addiction and seek treatment. The Politics of Crystal Meth also answers the difficult questions, "Am I an addict?" and "T;c>'.whom do I turn?" It describes the principles of the n1ost successful treatment programs and lists the experts currently bringing help to gay men who have meth and.other addiction problems. The Politics of Crystal Meth will educate you, possibly scare you, and.alert you to math addiction as experienced by ordinary, respectable, average gay men. Whether you think you may be an addict, know someone or IQve someone who is, or work with gay addicts, this book offers self he!p through understanding and support. Dr. Kenneth Cimino has written for numerous publications including Advocate.com, GFN and CBS Marketwatch. His first non-fiction manuscript, Gay Assimilation: The Group Consciousness of Gay Conservatives, is forthcoming next year. He is a graduate of Claremont Graduate University with a Ph.D. in Political Science and also has a Master's in Public Administration from the University of Southern California. Quotable Quotes "When people show you who they are, believe them the first time ............. .. MAYA ANGELOU Reconsiders, dve ise in ay By Ross von Matzke o. ill edia Dearborn, Ml_ Representatives for the Ford Motor Co. have announced advertisements featuring the company's eight vehicle brands will ryn in gay publications, responding to complaints from gay rights groups when Jaguar and Land Rover pulled their spots. In a letter addressed to the groups, Ford said not only will it resume buying corporate ads featuring Land Rover and Jaguar, it will begin advertising Ford's other brands in gay-:themed publications as well. In the past, Ford had not purchased advertisements for the Ford, Mercury and Lincoln brands in gay-oriented publications. "I think we're back in gear with Ford," Matt Foreman, executive director of the National Gay and Lesbian Taskforce, said Thursday. "They responded to each of the concerns we raised in a positive way. It's a great outcome." Last week, Ford cited a need to cut marketing costs as its primary reason for pulling Jaguar and Land Rover ads from several gay publications in 2006. The announcement came days after the conservative American Family Association announced it had reached an agreement with Ford and declared victory. In May, the AFA threatened Foid with a boycott because it objected to the automaker extending partner benefits to gay employees and because Ford supported gay events and advertised in gay publlcations. Ford officials denied that pressure from the AFA had any effect on their decision. But gay groups questioned the timing of the ad Withdrawals and the decision by the American Family Association to cail off the boycott. On Wednesday, Ford wrote the gay rights groups that the luxury brands "made a business decision about their media plans and it wouid be inconsistent with the way we manage our business to direct them to do otherwise." Instead, Ford pledged to run corporate ads in the publications that would include its full lineup. "It is my hope that this will remove any ambiguity about Ford's desire to advertise to ail important audiences and put this particular issue to rest," wrote Joe continued page-10 Out of Town Sydney has emerged in recent years as one of the world capitals of inventive dining - there are great restaurants all over town. For a truly special occasion, few restaurants in Australia deliver more ·wow• factor than Rockpool, a temple of creative modem Australian (aka "Mod Oz") cuisine, where you might sample such innovate fare as stir-fried squid and King prawns with squid-ink noodles, smoked bacon, tomatoes, chilies, and coriander. Another must for gourmands is Altitude, which sits atop the ritzy Shangri-La Hotel (on the 36th floor), affording unrivaled views of Sydney Harbour and serving stellar Mod Oz fare. For more casual dining and drinking, stop by one of the city's quintessentially old-school pubs, such as the warm and festive Lord Nelson Hotel, which serves a nice array of ales arid lagers as well as superb Aussie wines and tasty pub food. And for incredibly delicious Thai•food, look to Sailors Thai, an elegant restaurant on one of the Rocks' busiest streets. If Asian cuisine il3your weaknes.s1 you've come to the right city. For the ultimate experience, venture a bit farther east into the Surry Hills n.eighborhood to Bniy;Kwong, an intimate restaurant wher~. international · Kylie Kwong dreams up magically modem takes on Cantonese food. In the heart of the main gay district, for inexpensive, homestyle food, drop byfaid-back Betty:!> Soup Kitchen, which is known for its huge, meal-size bov.,iin:if soup, from lentil to gazpacho, .plus simple pastas and,hQmemade desserts. The Grumpy Baker is a cute coffeehouse with delicious :baked goods and a typically delicious-looking clientele, too. On Taylor Square, Lure Fish Cafe and Oyster Bar serves up some of the best chow i.n the area. It's a hip space with clean lines and minimalist decor. Wok on ll)n and Don Don are side-by-side cheap and handy Asian restaurants, the first specializing in noodle bowls and the second in sushi. Nearby in trendy Paddington, Toko Sushi on Oxford turns out some of the most inventive sushi in town, in an uber-trendy dining room. In the up-and-coming Inner West part of Sydney, the Newtown and Glebe neighborhoods have become popular for funky shopping and ethnic dining. Great dining spots in these districts include Kilimanjaro for inexpensive, delicious African fare; Sumalee for tasty Thai treats; and lku Kitchen for vegetarian victuals. Sydney has a number of inviiing accommodations, most of them downtown, which is either a pleasant 20-minute walk or a relatively qllick cab ride from Oxford Street. Directly facing Sydney Harbour, you'll find the stunning Park Hyatt, a fourstory hotel with unbelievably cushy rooms, round-the-clock butler service, and a loyal celeb following. If you get a chance, eat iunch in the hotel's open~air dining room overlooking the harbor and opera house. Up tM street, The Establishment, run by Aussie design guru Justin Hemmes, turns heads with its 33 super-stylish rooms and chic public spaces, such as Tank nightclub, Est restaurant, and Sushi e cafe. For the ultimate in style, book one of the sleek rooms at the W Hotel Sydney, where Russell Crowe is said to have an apartment. There aren't too many accommodations right along Oxford Street, but one iove!y and relatively affordable option is Sullivans Hotei, just east of Darlinghurst in Paddington. This intimate and friendly property has 64 reasonably priced rooms plus a pool and exercise room. Right on Hyde Park, there's the Sheraton on the Park, a thoroughly upscale lodging with about 550 sleek rooms and a great health club, pool, and spa. If you're seeking a little extra leg room, try the nearby Southern Cross Suites, whose spacious and relatively affordable.- studio rooms have kitchenettes. Another smart Darlinghurst option is the Medusa, which has just 18 rooms, col.ors and mod furnishings. . . downt9.wn Sydney but right by the ocean, consider staying arDiyi:I Hotel, which is in Coogee Beach and just steps from the sand.This intimate 14-room hotel is done in cool blacks and w~it,es with striking modem furniture. In fact,·even if you don'tovemight out in this direction, at least plan a bi:iefexcursion. Sydney's fashionable seaside neighborhoods h~ve loads of character plus intriguing shops and restaurants. ·· · :.:: ·· You might plan to watch the.sun set from Bondi Beach's hottest restaurant, lcebergS'; a futuristic, glass-walled cantina overlooking the ocean and'serving·such memorable Mod Oz fare as char-grilled quail with gni,pe salad, and smoked eel with creme fraiche, arugala, and horseradish. The dessert of vanilla panna cotta with chocolate sauce and chestnut honey is a marvelous way to finish off a perfect Sydney evening. Tli.~ llitle Black Book . (the country code for Australia is 61) Altitude (Shangri-La Hotel, 176 Cumberland St'., 02/9250-6123). ARQ (16 Flin:aers St, 02/9380-8700, www.arqsydriey.com.:m). Bank Hotel (324 King St., 02/9557-1692). Betty's Soup Kitchen (84 Oxford St., 02/9 .. Kwong (355 Crown St., 02/9332- 3300). BridgeCJi~lt~ 4-"c7777, www.bridgeclimb.com). Colombian Hotd,(Gxford .and Crown Sts., 02/9360-2151). Dive Hotel (234 Aiden St., 02/9665-5538, www.divehotel.com.au). Don· Don (80 Oxford_ St.; 02/9331-3544). The Establishment (5 Bridge La.! 02/9240-3100; ~.esfahlishmenthotel.com). Exchange Hotel (34-44 Oxford St., 02/9331-1936). Grumpy Baker (151 Oxford St., 02/9380-4177). Icebergs (1 Notts Ave., 02/9365-9000). Iku )(itchen (25A Glebe Point Rd., 02/9692-8720). Imperial Hotel (35 Erskineville Rd., 02/9519-9899). Kilimanjaro (280 King St., 02/ 9557-4565). Kinsclas Hotel (383-387 Bourke St., 02/9331-3100). Lord Nelson Hotel (Kent and Argy:leSts.; 02/9251-1532). Lure Fish Cafe and Oyster Bar (381 Bourke St., 'J'.aylor Square, 02/9361- 3366). Manacle (b~sement .of Taylor Square Hotel, 1 Flinders St., 02/9331-2950). Medusa (267 Darlinghurst Rd., 02/9331-1000 www.medusa:com'.au). Midnight Shift' (85 Oxford St., 02/9360- 4319). Newrown Hotel (King and Watkins Sts., 02/9557-1329). Oxford Hotel (134 Oxford St., 02/9~~1-3467). Pm Hyatt (J Hickson Rd., 02/9241-1234, · · · om). Rockpool (107 George St., 02/9 . . (106 George St., 02/9251-2466). Sheraton on the P.aik(t61 Elizabeth St, 02/ 9286-6000, www.sheraton.com/syd · · · ,,· · · · · s (Wentworth and Goulbnrn Sts., . Stonewall Hotel (175 Oxford St., 02/936Q-1963). S~s Hotel (21 Oxford St., 02/ 9361-0211, www.sullivans.com.au). Sumalee (324 King St., 02/9565- 1730). Sydney Gay & Lesbian Mildi Gras (www.mardigras.org.au). Toko Sushi on Oxford (362 Oxford St., 02/9380-7001). W Hotel Sydney (6 Cooper Wharf Rd., 02/9331-9000, www.whotels.com). Wok on Inn (80 Oxford St., 02/9332-4554). oo,n To Eurelm. S~s. Amensas $ GET ROMA.NT/Cl C.O.U.J.U.8.I, ~sPEEO-DATING'PARTYI . ~MIMOSA BRUNCH'/ VALBJITllfB'8 DDIKBR • DAJICE AtleNI,_.,,. CMilU' ~ye.- DINE W/11{ YOIIR COIIIIIJNITY BEFORE THE DANCE! ... DMCII ...... CM,' If~,_, ............ For detalla & other DIVERSITY Info: lurekaPrlde.oom and To Buren Sprinqs. ArR8DS8.S '~ GET ROMANTIC! COUPWI SIIOLEJI 'SPEED-DATING'PARTY! 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"This anti-gay foster parenting ban goes against the recommendation of every major ctiildren!s health and welfare organization in the.country," said Rita Sklar, Executive Director of the ACLU of Arkansas. •These experts understand all too well how this policy hurts the many children in Arkansas in need of safe, stable homes: The la\1/suit was flied against the state in 1999 on behalf . of four prospective foster parents. In addition to today's brief from th.a ACLU, several other groups have submitted friend-of-the-court briefs in the case, including the Child Welfare League of America, the National Association of Social Workers and its Arkansas chapter, and the American Psychological Association. ·one thing that the proponents.of this policy can't seem to explain is, 'How do they expect the state to find homes for the children in Arkansas who need foster care when you diminish the already small pool of potential parents?'" said Rob Woro11off, a program manager with the Child Welfare League of America. "Policymakers should heed the advice of the child welfare professionals who know that the best way to meet the needs of foster children is to assess all prospective parents on a caseby- case basis: Four friend-of-the-court briefs, representing a broad range of support for ending the foster care ban, were flied today in support of the ACLU's lawsuit. These included: A brief signed by the Child Welfare League of America and the Evan B. Donaldson Adoption Institute explaining how all major child welfare organizations oppose categorical bans like the one in Arkansas because they deprive child.ran of.qualffied caregivers. A brief signed by the American Psychological Association, the Arkansas Psychological Association, and the National Association of Social Workers and its Arkansas chapter detailing over two decades of social science research showing that gay people·are equally capable parents who raise healthy children and that these facts are well-established and accepted in the scientific community. A brief from an assortment of Arkansas law professors and religious leaders explaining ttiat basing government discrimination against a group of people on nothing but moral disapproval is not a legitimate basis for the government to disadvantage a group and that different religious groups have diverse moral views about lesbian and gay people. SENATE APPROVES MEDICAID CUTS, HARMS HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF AMERICANS LIVING WITH HIV/ AIDS 'On HIV and AIDS, Congress handed over authority to extremists with the potential to hann thousands of Americans,' said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese. December 21, 2005 WASHINGTON- Tl)is morning in a vote of 50 to 50, with Vice President D.ick Cheney casting the tie-breaking vote, the U.S. Senate approved the budget reconciliation conference report containing billions in cuts to Medicaid that put at risk the lives of hundred of thousands of Americans living with HIV/AIDS; however, due to a Democratic point of or:c1er, the conference report will now be sent back to the H9(Jse of Representatives. The budget package permits new premiums and deductibles, and higher cost-sharing on Medicaid beneficiaries who already find themselves on the edge of being able to seek quality care and treatment for their HIV/AIDS. Medicaid is the nation's largest payer of HIV/AIDS care. ·on HIV and AIDS, Congress handed over authority to extremistswith the potential to hann thousands of Americans," said Human Rights Campaign President Joe Solmonese."lt is unacceptable to pull tlie rug out from under hundreds of thousands of our neighbors living with HIV/AIDS and simply say your government is not there for you. We should be focusing on ways to improve these programs, not shoving them onto the cutting room floor." A provision in the Senate's version of the reconciliation bill was stripped out in conference that would have given some states the option to extend Medicaid coverage through a demonstration program to chiidless adults with HIV who are currently ineligible for Medicaid until they develop AIDS. Currently, the law requires that all Medicaid beneficiaries be treated fair1y and have access to all of the medically necessary Medicaid services their state provides. The budget reconciliation package changes current law to provide new "flexibility" to states by allowing states to discriminate against groups of Medicaid beneficiaries. States will now be allowed to provide more services to some beneficiaries than others, based on political or arbitrary considerations - instead of relying on the professional judgments of health care providers about the necessity of Medicaid services. What Republicans Have Accomplished for the Gay Community! Dear Editor: Many Gay activists mockingly ask an important question that is rarely answered honestly in the gay press. · What have Log C_abin Republicans accomplished with their loyalty to the GOP? In the evolution of gay rights, the Republican Party has proven capable of making a place at the table for gay people, and stopping or opposing destructive legislation toward gay people, In 197 4, conservative GOP icon Ronald Regan opposed a California state amendment to outlaw the firing of homosexuals in public schools. The amendment failed with Reagan's help. Had toe amendment passed, it would be legal to fire any public school employee for being gay. In his retirement, the 1964 GOP Presidential nominee Barry Goldwater spoke out in support of gays in the military. ''Yqu don't have to be straight to shoot straight," he famously said. In 1996, Presidential Republican nominee Rol:>ert Dole returned a $25,000.00 contribution check to the Log Cabin Repuglicans. For several years now, Robert Dole now gives an annual $25,000.00 personal check to a New York-based disability group for PWAs. The Massachusetts Supreme Court majority in support of gay marriage was made up ENTIRELY of Republican appointees to the bench who were appointed by Republican governors. A fact that has little or no prominence in gay media coverage. Why? Does it not fit into the bias of many gay writers? Passage of the Connecticut civil unions law was primarily l~d by Republican Governor Jodi Rell. Across the country most gay writers were very muted in underscoring the Republican Governor's partisan identity. In Ohio,,the Republican Governor, GOP Attorney Generai, GOP U.S. Senators George Voinovich and Mike Dewine and the C9lumbus area GOP Congresswoman Deborah Pryce- the fourth ianking Republican in the U.S. House all publicly opposed state amendments to outlaw gay marriage. State Legislators in Michigan, Kansas, Minnesota, and Idaho opposed for the record amendments denying gay marriage. None of the gay friendly Republicans were defeated for re-election. Severai Republican Congresspersons from South and Centrai Florida voted to support federal hate crimes legisiation; repeal "Don't Ask.Don't Tell"; and have received local awards for their efforts in AIDS advocacy. At the same time,-traditional gay activists need to realize that not all is well in the Democratic Party of Inclusion. John Kerry pollsters determined that 45% of his voters voted AGAINST gay marriage, including 60+ percent of Hispanics, African-Americans and labor union households - pillars of the Democratic Party. Gay activists must not allow themselves to be uninformed ideologues: all venomous emotion, and little substantive research knowledge except for ghetto propaganda. Nor can they make themselves feel better by pretending that gay legislation can pass without GOP support. Historical land mark legislation requires large numbers of votes from both parties: · Gay Democrats, get a grip. Get the facts Bob Ruyack & Matthew Tsien Florida Gold Coast Log cabin Republicans atrimony! "Can you believe it?" Spence said. By Cam Lindquist "Yes I can believe it. You are always telling me about some conquest or another. This is a small town ... now hu~_h, some~ne might hear you," I replied. "But that 1s crazy. There are only two hundred or so people here. Half of them must be family. co-workers straight, or lesbians. So when you take them out the fact ~h~t I have slept with fifty two guys here is amazing. That 1s Irk~, more than half of the gay men in this room right now. Spence seemed amazed and proud of himself all at the same time. ":ine Spene~. Hush now, his momma could be right behind you talking smack at her son's wedding. You think knowing how many of the guests you slept with is how she wants to remember today?" I said. "Oh quit being such a granny, Cam. Besides, no one can hear ~s, we are whispering. Anyway, I have slept with the bnde and the groom so either one of their Mommas can chew on that piecE:' of fatback!" Spence was silent, for now, but the smug look of satisfaction plastered across his face was not going anywhere. Spence's notched headboard wasn't the onlv drama that came up at the nuptials of Hugh and Barry.' Hugh and Barry are two British blokes who met in London almost fifteen years ago. They crossed "The Pond" and the Mason-Dixon Line almost five years ago when Barry's employer asked him to become the director of ?pera~ions .ova~ th~ir U~ distribution. Three years ago Lhey_ a,most cahed 1t qu,ts but therapy was cheaper than moving all of Hugh's stuff back to the UK. So several months of couples counseling and many boxes of tissues iater (for crying oniy since the therapist was one of the guys Barry, Hugh, and Spence hadn't slept with) Barrv and Hugh professed their undying love for each other' and promised eternal monogamy. T~is was a disappointment to many, many gay men in our httle town. Barry and Hugh had the most open of open relationships. If you didn't mind, they didn't mind. They were both extraordinarily gorgeous, smart, witty, and the accents usually sealed the deal. They threw ~uge partie~ that even prudes like myself had a great time attending. And after I went home along with all the other guys who didn't "do orgies" the party raged on - no pun intended. But our little town in the South had to say goodbye to those days well over a year ago. And after they hit the • " year mark of fidelity they wanted to do it the old fas~ioned way. So they planned a shindig, ball-andchain- style, complete with matching tuxes and a white wedding cake. . _The drama all around us was people whispering and going on about how these two would never make it. Even some of their fellow countrymen and -women were hovering around the punch bowl at the reception placing be~s on everything from which bloke would stray first to which one would end up with their seaside home. B~t ironically: it was neither Spence nor the couple's gossip-worthy history that stole the show; it was Barry's you~ger bm_ther Bart. Bartwas a beefier, more rugged version of his older, more refined sibling. While his brother was tall, lean and looked like an International male model, Bart was .about three inches shy and twenty pounds heavier than Barry. But it looked good on him and every guy in the place thought so. Bart didn't seem too friendly at first. But•after several trips to the punch bowl his frown flipped upside down. He bec~me ~he_life of the party, floating from group to group, flexing his biceps for attentive groups of queens who oohhed and aahhed! I think he even let a few of the drag queens grab his butt to prove he had the best rear in the whole place. Of course the sisterhood agreed wholeheartedly. Barry and Hugh found his behavior quite amusing. He was the best man and gave a heartfelt, lovingly supp?rtive speech a~out love, their parents, and years of happiness. The dancing began and as I listened to Spence halfheartedly, I noticed my eye candy had been gone for a while. Less than five minutes later he reappeared, John Travolta style, on the dance floor -sliding across the floor , on his knees. Then he got up and twirled his jacket off ,. · trying to toss it to one of his adoring fans but it didn't make it because it appeared to be caught on his cufflink. He shook and swung, completely loosing his suave ?O's king of the disco tech air in exchange for a delusional schizophrenic who's off his mads thing. Finally the attached garments came undone. The "cufflink" in que~tion actually turned out to be a tiny pair of pink panties. The whole room was silent, even the music had stopped because the Dj had been waiting to restart it when Bart regained his composure. Bart stood iooking at continued page-23 HA~PY NEW'YEARI . . . - ' Welcome to a new year of possit)iHties and wonders for you and your garde.n. Your probably thinking it's ten degrees and she'stalking about gardening? True, butto ensur,e your garden comes back with strength ana (lJatLtrify itne~ds, there are a few musts, even when the;ter:rip~ ytailt to keep you inside. First thing first. Trim your bush! Prune deciduous shrubsfor i(ijtial shape and for restoration. Also prune deciduous shrubs that flower on new shoots. Prune bush roses, inpluding hybrid teas, floribundas and miniatures, repeat flowering roses and china, bourbon and portland old roses. You may have a huge bud, but who can see the blossom for the bush? Preve.nt snow damage to conifers by brushing it off immediateiy or tying the plant with twine Oi panty hose, you know you have a pair or two, to preserve the shape in heavy snow areas. Don't forget the vines. Prune established climbers and wall shiubs that flower on the current seasons shoots. Thin overgrown clematis and cut back. Check supports and renew them if necessary. Finish planting containerized and container grown shrubs. Give them an initial pruning after planting and stake if needed. Cut back hardy grasses an.d l;>amboos that have been ieft over winter to the ground before they start into growth. And the list goes on. With aii that done if your sitting looking out the window at the baron trees and dormant iawn, there is a fix for the gardening goddess who must have blossoms all year. Take it from a girl with huge forced bulbs, that's right forced bulbs, you know like paperwhites, tulips, hyacinth, and daffodiis to name a few. All you need is a groovy container that is water tight . a few stones, pebbles, marbles, rocks or whatevei it takes to keep your bulbs up and sunlight. You can find most of these easily at your local garden center quite cheap this time of year. Simply place the rooting end of the bulb into the water supported by the contents. Keep in a sunny window and before you know it you will have beautiful indoor blooms to help keep the winter blues away. Don't forget our woodland friends this season, as they also bring something to the winter garden by the way of flight and song. Keeping bird feeders, whether seed or suet, will bring hours of enjoyment for you and much needed nourishment for them. Water is also a welcome treat when temps fall below fre~zing. So put out water whenever possible for our·winged friends. No I didn't mean fairies. Auntie is a busy girl forcing her bulbs and trimming bushes and all, so until next time, and remember, in these cold temps the only difference between pink and purple is your grip. See ya in the dirt! ''You can lead a hor-to-culture, but you can't make her think" ~o FlowezS ~Gifts Earl Wheeler 437 E.141st Street Glenpool, OK 74033 918.291.EARL {3275) the Tulsa Metro tvea for i:11er 21 Years with PRIDE! CUSTOM DECORATING * HOLIDAY SPEOALS Congratulations to Elton John and David Furnish who were married in a civil ceremony in the royal town of Windsor December 21, 2005. The long time couple of twelve years tied the knot at Guildhall, the same building where heir-to-the throne Britain's Prince Charles married Camilla Parker Bowles this year. Elton had married once before to a women Renata Blauelin 1984. They separated and divorced in 1988. He was engaged once before to Linda Woodrow in the ?O's, but nothing came of it. He tried to get out of it, and even tried suicide. That is where the song, "Someone Saved My Life Tonight", came from. He has no children. New Travel Company for Women Launches with 2006 Slate of Cruises and Tours Press Release: Exploring the Emerald Shores of Turkey with a marine archaeoiogist, watching the sun set over Capri and sipping Limoncello on a culinary cruise or teeing off at St. Andrew's with an LPGA tour.ing pro. 12 Muses, a New York-based travel venture catering to lesbians and open-minded women, announces a maiden year line-up of five women-only itineraries to these destinations and more~ Margo Mallar, a travei-industry veteran who has spent more than a dozen years leading small-ship educationai cruises for alumni and cultural groups, founded the company to provide intimate travel experiences to women who want both physical comforts and intellectual stimulation. The five programs for 2006 include a Culinary Cruise to Southern Italy and Sicily in April, the Greek Isles in late May/Early June, Golfing in Scotland in July, Berlin, Prague, Vienna and Budapest in September and Southern Turkev in November. Cruises accommodate up to 34 passengers who will interact with a powerhouse line-up of guest lecturers including women's studies pioneer Lillian Faderman, poet Honor Moore, marriage historian Stephanie Coontz and LPGA touring pro Patty Rizzo, who accompany groups offering their insights and observations. The rates for 12 Muses cruises and land programs range from $3595:-5295 per person; ten percent of the proceeds of three of the trips go to support the efforts of the Pride Foundation, Gay and Lesbian Advocates and Defenders and the National Center for Lesbian Rights. The company has also released a CD entitled 12 Muses, Live from the Drylongso, a collection of 12 singersongwriters including Patty Larkin, Catie Curtis, Mary Gauthier, Jennifer Kimball and Grammy-nominee Bill Morrissey, the proceeds of which go to benefit New England Equality organizations. For more information, check out the website at www.12Muses.com or call 1 866-926 MUSE. The Ozarks STAR since 2003 Will Show in Tulsa? 'TIJLSA,OK _ Confiding reports where everywhere surrounding the opening of "Brokeback Mountain• in Tulsa and if AMC Southroads 20 would allow it to be shown here. The rumor mill had the movie opening Dec:ember 9th. Then the movie was canceled because of content. The Star reported in our December issue the movie would be opening in San Francisco, Chicago and New York on,oecember 3rd. At that time there was not a release date for Tulsa. • The ST AR contacted Senior Manager of the the~ter complex Troy Sagaser and he graciously responded with this comnieht. 'We were originally told. wee.ks ago that we would be tentatively opening Brokeback Mountain on 12/9, but since then, Focus Features decided to go into this platform release, pushing off the date. At this time, we don't know what the date might be. It could be as early as 12/16, or as late as mid".'January, depending on how Focus Features wants to roll it out. The movie exhibitors, like AMC Theatres, have no say on how this is done; it is solely up to the distributor on dates that their fiim opens. The idea that AMC Southroads 20 was thinking about not playing it because of its subject matter or content is not true at all. We have played several gay-theme films over the years, and we have hosted a portion of the Out OK Film Festival for the last three years. We (and I) have avidly supported and played hundreds of independent fiims that show several different points of view. After this explanation, I certainly hope that you will not think ill of me, AMC Southroads 20, or AMC Theatres as a whole Troy Sagaser has beenfarifastic with the Tulsa GLBT community. He has brought many GLBT related movies here. Sagaser evidently has no problem with communicating with the GLBT press and in. a communique dated December 15th Troy updated us with a possible opening date for Tulsa. •we have heard from Focus Features that we will tentatively be opening the film on February 3rd• Considering how well the film did this past weekend at the few theatres it played in, I personally wouldn't be surprised if it opened earlier than that". KRISS KOHL •. " AN OKLAHOMA LEGEND by Greg Steele . TULSA, OK_ Thirty :years of entertaining the Oklahoma · · · GLBT community and the four states · region.A female illusionist, Kriss Kohl is also known for his tireless fundraising efforts.for non-profit organizations who benefit people with ,HIV and AIDS.•Knss has the ability to stage a show equal to, or exceed most 'female impersonator 'productions we are exposed to in the GLBT community. . . It's not just another drag show! As a Diva amo; . he can ~ring together the best entertainer's available in our area. Star's like Tabitha Taylor, Matthew Heath Fitzgerald, Catia Lee Love just to name a few. Former owner of the old Playmor Club and Miss Okia.homa USofA 1999, Kriss has earned the respect of his piers and fans aiike and just keeps on running! Be sure and catch his show at the Bamboo Lounge Tu!sa every 3rd Sunday of the month, 8pm. You won't be disappointed. Serving the community in Missouri, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Colorado, Illinois, Iowa and Indiana. Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Tel: (866)208-9480 gtainte helterinsuranee.com Auto - Home - Life - au.tness Seek ShelerTodayl urn · lation Both winners will be repiesenting Oklahoma at.the Mis~ Gay USofA PageanNn Dallas in May of 2006. The. pageant was held in Oklahoma City at the Copa on December 11-12. Category Winners were: Interview • Victoria. Weston, Evening Gown. Isabella Vancartier, Talent- Kirsten Grey, Contestants * # 1 • Raven DclRay • repre11enting Lawton USofA. # 2 • Rhapsody DeMilJe • repretenting N.E. Oklahoma USofA /I 3 • Kirsten Grey• representing Capitol City USofA ii 4 • Jodyn Welch• representing COPA USofA II 5 • Bobby Page • representing Tulsa USofA Ii 6 • Aurora LeKohl • representing N.E. Oklahoma USofA II 7 • Mya Mokka • representing Capitol City USofA # 8 • Josie Lee • representing OYP Oklahoma USofA If 9 • Baija T. Towers• representing Tulsa USofA #10 • Sama Kovalinskiy • representing OYP Oklahoma USofA 111 · Adrianna • representing Oklahoma City USofA #12 • Lace.y St. James•. representing COPA USofA N13 • Lacie Dawn • representin,. Sooner States USofA 11-4 • Taylor Bryan's * representing MidWcmrn Plains USofA 115. Isabella Vancartier • representing Lawton USofA #16 * Victoria Weston• rep:esendng Oklahoma City USofA PromotenrRagfin Productions of Dallas, Texas. For more information visit: MrW ITUJHlQ/$ a omausofa,com Few ave. "Space, the final frontier. These are the voyages of the Starship• Enterprise, Its five year mission to explore sfralJ!J~ new worlds, to seek out new life, and new civilizatic,ns, to boldly go where no man has gone befbre ... " Almost forty years ago; acto·r George Takai v.ras a part of something gi1>llndbreaking. He was cast as Mr. Si.Jiu on the beloved original Star Trek series. With a racially diverse cast, the show tackled difficult issues such as racism and. intolerance, and even featured TV's first interracial Jdss. It was challenging sJuff for the '60s. George Ta~f:3f is still tackling difficult issues. He recently made . .headlines in the national news when he came out p4bUcly at age 68. In an interview with Frontiers, a biweekly gay and lesbian Web magazine, Mr. Takai talked openly c1bout his 18-year relationship with his partner Brad Altman. Technically, Mr. Takai wasri't really coming out, since he has made public appearances with his partner in the past, but he was making a very public statement to the press for the first time. •rve been 'open,•· Takai said in his interview, "but I have not talked to the press: He described it as a process, •more like a long, long walk through what began as a narrow corridor that starts to widen.· Just days before Mr. Takei's interview was published, another prominent celebrity came out, WNBA star Sheryl Swoopes. Considered by many to be the greatest female basketball player in history, Swoopes has been named the WNBA's Most Valuable Player a recordbreaking three times, and helped lead her team, the Houston Comets, to win four National Championships in a row-something no other team has ever done. She was also the first female athlete to have a Nike shoe named for her. By coming out on Good Morning America in late October, Swoopes added another first to her list She became the first major athlete to come out at the pinnacle of a career in a pro team sport. She decided to come out because she was tired of hiding who she was and lying about her seven-year relationship with partner Alisa "Scotty" Scott, a former assistant coach for the Comets. "I feel there's been a huge weight that's been taken off my shoulders," Swoopes told the Advocate in a recent interview, "and I feel I can inhale, I can exhale: · These celebrity •outingsa are significant for more than just the headlines or the future Jeopardy questions they will surely inspire. I have a confession. I'm addicted to Fark.com. Fark is an irreverent community news website that allows readers to comment on stories collected from around the world. When I heard about Swoopes and Takei coming out, I was eager to read the forums to gauge reactions. For the most part, those posting were supportive of both, but there was one sentiment that kept popping up that caught my attention. As one farker put it, ·why do homosexuals feel the need to tell everyone they are homosexual? I don't know of any hetero's who make press announcements that they are straight. I mean really. Who caresr On the one hand, you could take this as a positive sign. Besides the fact that there's no need foi a straight person to •come out" since we live in a predominantly heterocentrist worid where most people are assumed to be straight, this person obviously considered the news of a celebrity coming out as a nonevent. That implies that he or she views being gay as completely normai, or at least not newsworthy. Unfortunately, many do not share that view, which is exactly why it's so important for celebrities to keep coming out publicly. As evidenced by the anti-gay backlash that has spread across the US and world in recent months, gays and lesbians are not yet accepted. We are far from equal. We do not share the same rights as our HEART TO HEART heterosexual counterparts. Our relationships are not recognized in most of the country. Our families are not valued or respected. Every time a celebrity comes out, it helps put a face on gay rights. One of the reasons George Takei came out was Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger's veto of a bill legalizing same-sex marriage in California. When the Governator vetoed that bill, he wasn't just taking marriage right away from a bunch of faceless queers, he was denying Mr. Sulu the opportunity to have his relationship legally recognized as equal to that of heterosexuals'. Openly gay and lesbian celebrities serve as ambassadors to the straight world. The more people who come out, the more chances there are that someone will relate to at least one of them-something that could make a difference in how they think about gay rights. It's great that Ellen DeGeneres and Melissa Etheridge are out, but while Ellen's everyman humor and Melissa's recent victory over breast cancer have made each of them more relatable to many, not everyone can identify with these women. As Sheryl Swoopes said in her interview, " ... I was trying to figure out what gay AfricanAmerican woman has come out and can represent the gay African~American community. And I can't really think of one." L.ikewise, there are very few out Asian-Americans. GeorgeTakei joins a very short list consisting of actors BO Wong and Alec Mapa. We need more closeted celebrities to come out in every field-actors, musicians, politicians, athletes-and of every race. Of course, celebrities aren't the only ambassadors, and they shoulgn't be expected to shoulder the entire burden. While it's grectt when someone famous reveals that they are gay, oftentimes, knowing someone personally will make an even bigger impact. It's one thing to deny Rosie, Ellen, or George Takai the right to get married, it's something else entirely when it's your best friend, coworker, or relative. Maybe one day the sexuality of celebrities really won't be an issue. Maybe stars won't have to come out because they'll never have been in the closet in the first place. Maybe it really won't matter wha der they love. That is what we're all working for, er all. Unfortunately, we're not there yet-as the fact that Congress is once again considering an anti-gay federal marriage amendment proves. In the meantime, we welcome Sheryl Swoopes and George Takei with open arms, thank them for having the courage to do what so many fear, and we will keep fighting for the rights that we are unjustly denied. We wiB continue our mission to change the world, to seek equal lives and better civilizations, to boldly go where few have gone before ... The views expressed in this column are my opinions only. You don't have to agree with them. I just ask that you read them with an <YfJen heart and mind. Want the STAR delivered to your home or business? 12 issues for $26.95 will be mailed in a sealed envelo he 1st of each month. Complete the orm below and send with a check or moneyorder to: Ozarks STAR 5103 S. Sheridan Rd., #153 Tulsa, OK 74145 (Single Copies $3.00 per issue) NAME: ______________ _ Address: _______________ _ City: _______ St: ___ Zip: ___ _ Phone: ________ _ Check endosed Money Order Start Date: ______ _ FREE HIVTESTING, NO NEEDLES! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS Testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. 2902 E. 20tn St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 Sunday Service 6PM Your Invited to our Community_ Dinner !,very _Wed. just $4.U0. No one ts tum away. Lesbian Notions by Libby Post JANUARY 2006 "Today's McCarthys" awfew weeks back I went to see Good Night and Good Luck. George Clooney's excellent film about how Edward R. Murrow, who set the standard for what journalism could be, brought down U.S. Sen. Joseph McCarthy and his anticommunist witch hunts. · It all happened in 1953 and 1954. After years of McCarthy accusing everyone - including President Eisenhower - of being a communist or a sympathizer, Murrow and his boys at CBS said enough was enough .. They exposed McCarthy by showing him in action. McCarthy's rants and raves in his Senate subcommittee hearings were broadcast on television, and within months his reign of terror on freedom of thought was over. So much has changed in the 50 or so years since those witch hunts, yet so much has also stayed the same. The need to scapegoat one group for the problems in our country and our society has not gone away. The lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community is today's Communist Party. We're not necessarily accused of a wholesale takeover of the U.S. government. Instead, we're blamed and scapegoated for everything today's McCarthys see wrong with our culture. Did you know that our community is responsible for ruining heterosexual marriage, or that we've destroyed the family because we have kids, or that we are to blame for every youth that comes out as 14, 15, or 16, if not younger? Today's McCarthys are Donald Wildman and James Dobson and their organizations, the American Famiiy Association and Focus on the Family. They are Jerry Falwell and Pat Robertson, members of the clergy who use their positions to demonize us. They are Baylor University and Seton Hall University, religiously affiliated schools, which purge gay aiumni, faculty, staff, and students. Today's McCarthys are Kari Rove and George Bush, who used our desire to marry to hoodwink the nation and re-elect a poiitically and morally bankrupt administration. They are the Pope and his cardinals with their new directive against gay priests. They are the high school principals who confiscate the student newspaper simply because there was an ad for a LGBT support group or an article about LGBT students. Today's McCarthys are all around us, and some of their witch hunts are like McCarthy's - threatening to expose and purge - and some have taken on new and unusual forms. For a good old-fashioned witch hunt against the LGBT community, you don't have to look any further than the military. Its tactics are straight out of the McCarthy playbook - exploit someone you know to be gay, and get them to name names. The military has "don't ask, don't tel!" to hide behind, but now that we're at war, the amount of LGBT purging has dropped precipitously. But don't for a minute think they actually want us. If it were feasible, they would continue their LGBT witch hunts with fervor. Then there's the witch hunt of harassment that has gone on unchecked at Penn State University for years. It seems the school's women's basketball coach, Rene Portland, really hates lesbians. This might be an "I think she doth protest too much" situation, but nonetheless Portland's rants and raves over the years have effectively either kept the lesbians on her squad deep in the closet or purged them. But she went too far and kept accusing a straight player, Jennifer Harris, of being a dyke. Harris in turn has gone public and filed a suit with Pennsylvania's Human Rights Commission. Her actions gave other former players the courage to speak about their experiences as well. But Portland is still the coach, and her reign of terror against lesbians continues. And then there's the witch hunt that doesn't look like a witch hunt. Instead of purging us from this year's White House Conference on Aging, the administration simply refused to let us participate. Once every 10 years, aging experts gather for this· conference to meet, present papers, and make recommendations to the president and Congress on national aging policies. The last conference took place during the Clinton administration, and while our concerns never made it into any resolutions, at least there was discussion. But Bush ar;Jd his people even refuse to entertain that we exist and that there are issues specific to us as an aging population. A haif century ago, Murrow had the guts to stand up to McCarthy's demagoguery. Fifty years later, there may not be one person in the mainstream media willing to foilow in Murrow's footsteps and expose the sham and shame of today's McCarthies, but, thankfully, there are plenty of us in the LGBT community who are. anadian ou ules roup x Legal. December 22, 2005 OTTAWA "Consensual conduct behind code-locked doors canhardly be supposed to jeopardize a society as vigorous and tolerant as Canadian society," said the opinion of the seven-to-two majority, written by Chief ~fl Justice Beverley Mclachlin. ·~ The decision does not affect laws against prostitution because no money changed hands among the adults having sex. Group sex among consenting adults is neither prostitution nor a threat to society; the Supreme Court of Canada ruled on Wednesday as it lifted a ban on socalled "swingers" clubs or gay bathhouses. The court was reviewing an appeal by Jean-Paul Labaye, who ran the L'Orage (Thunderstorm) club. He had been convicted in 1999 of running a "bawdy house" - defined as a place where prostifl.1tion or acts of public indecency took place. Labaye - who is still running L'Orage despite his earlier conviction - said he was relieved, and would now go ahead with a new venture with backing from a group of Florida investors. "We hope clients will be more calm. This will probably lead the way to a good future," he told reporters, saying he was looking at adding a Jacuzzi and a swimming pool. . Labaye said he had a6out 2,000 regular clients who paid around C$20 ($17) a year for a membership card. The high court threw out Labaye's conviction and affirmed the Kouri decision. "Entry to the club and participation in the activities were voluntary. No one was forced to do anything or watch anything. No one was paid for sex," Mclachlin wrote in reference to the Labaye case. In indecency cases, Canadian courts have traditionally probed whether the acts in question "breached the rules of conduct necessary for the proper functioning of society". The Supreme Court ruled that from now on, judges should pay more attention to whether society would be actively harmed. · lfGPN -to OE1" MIDDLE 1'MERICA 1b SSE. '-'SROKE&ACK MOUN,-AIN" ast ut by Liz Highleyman JANUARY 2006 Summary : Past Out is a retrospective of key moments, .personalities, and subjects in LGBT history. Each installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. (104 years ago this month): Bisexual screen legend Marlene Dietrich is born in Berlin. Who was Marlene Dietrich? Marlene Dietrich, one of the premier stars of Hollywood's Golden Era, was infamous for her masculine dress and her numerous affairs with both women and men. Unlike many of the screen and stage divas beloved by gay men, Dietrich was queer in her own· right. Maria Magdalene Dietrich was · · · born December 27, 1901, to a bourgeois family in suburban Berlin; she adopted the name "Marlene" as a young girl. One of her earliest romantic relationships was reportedly with a female music teacher at her all-girls high school. Forced to give up playing violin due to a hand injury, in 1921 Dietrich enrolled in a drama school run by renowned director Max Reinhardt. Taking small roles in stage plays and films, she immersed herself in the decadent Weimar-era Berlin social scene. At ·age 22, she married director's assistant Rudolf Sieber; she gave birth to her oniy child the following year. After director Josef von Sternberg saw her in a cabaret performance, he cast the thenobscure actress to star in Germany's first major sound film, Der Blaue Engle (The Blue Angel). Dietrich's iconic portrayal of Lola Lola - a cabaret singer who seduces a repressed professor with oerformance of "~ailing in Love Again" - catapu her to fame. On the day of the film's German debut in April 1930, she departed for the United States to accept an offer from Paramount Studios, which positioned her as a rival to Swedish glamour queen Greta Garbo. In her American debut, Morocco (1930), Dietrich donned a white tailcoat and top hat and kissed a woman on the lips. That "masculine attitude" would increase her charm, van St~rnberg later explained. "I didn't only want to show a lesbian scene, but Marlene's own special sexuality." Though fondly remembered for this androgynous role, she mostly played femmes fatales - often prostitutes - in movies such as Shanghai Express (1932) and _Blond Venus (1932). By the mid-1930s, she was the most highly paid actress of her day. Off screen, Dietrich lived up to her image as an independent, sexually liberated woman. Remarked British critic Kenneth Tynan, "Marlene's masculinity appeals to women and her sexuality to men." Indeed, though she remained married to Sieber until his death in 1976, Dietrich had numerous affairs with both sexes. "In Europe it doesn't matter if you're a man or a woman," she once said. "We make love with anyone we find attractive." Dietrich's many male lovers - documented or rumored - included Douglas Fairbanks Jr., Yul Brynner, John Wayne, Frank Sinatra, Ernest Hemingway, General George Patton, and both President John F. Kennedy and his father, Joseph. But according to her daughter and biographer, Maria Riva, Dietrich was seeking romance and companionship, and didn't enjoy sex for its own sake. As such, she reportedly had a special fondness for men who were impotent (such as writer Erich Maria Remarque) or queer (like Maurice Chevalier and Noel Coward). Dietrich was part of a group of lesbian and bisexual Hollywood women referred to as the •sewing circle." Her female lovers reportedly included actresses Tallulah Bankhead and Claudette Colbert, chanteuse Edith Piaf. and French author Colette. In the · · 1930s, Dietrich had an unusually .open relationship with SpanishCuban writer Mercedes de Acosta, after de Acosta was dumped by Garbo. Many have speculated on .the possibility of a sexual liaison between Dietrich and Garbo, both of whom - somewhat implausibly, given the incestuous nature of their circle - denied they had ever met before 1945. Former Washington Post society columnist Diana Mclellan, for one, asserts that the two women had a brief affair in 1925 while working together on an obscure flim, The Joyless Street. But in a 2002 interview, Riva toid The Advocate "No matter how much your readers might wish it we;e so Dietrich never had a relationship with Garbo." ' .... continued next a e. The Ozarks STAR since 2f}f}$. Past Out: After parting ways with van Sternberg in the mid-1930s, Dietrich switched to more comic roles, including saloon hostess Frenchy in the Jimmy Stewart Western _Destry Rides Again_ (1939). Having become a U.S. citizen in 1937, she rejected an invita~ion from Adolf Hitler to return to Germany during World War II to make . propaganda films (and perhaps to be his mistress), opting instead to entertain American Gls near the front lines in Europe and North Africa. While some Germans long regarded her as a traitor, she called this "the only important work I've ever done.". . Dn1wing on her USO experience, Dietrich embarked on a career as a cabaret singer in the 1950s, performing in Las Vegas, on Broadway, and at venues throughout the world for the nexttwp decades. In the 1970s, she began drinking heavily, suffered several o.n-stage accidents, and started overusing pain medication. After breaking her leg in 1975, s.he finally retired. Unable to maintain her glamorous-image, she thereafter lived a secluded life in her, Paris apartment (although sl)e wrote hundreds of lette115 and spent thousands of dollars on phone calls). Dietriclidied in her sleep in 1992 and was buried next to her rnother in Berlin. Far from ruin reer, Dietrich's gender".' bending . ed to ner: allure; H - as mucfr.as her Jfnqrogyridus atilte .: helped change society)iJmage of femininity. .· ..... ,, . . . For·turther readlfig: . ·, ·; ~ '::<,·., Bach, Steven. 2000. · Marlene Dietrich: Life and Legend~ (Da Oapo ). - McLellan,.Diana;2000. _The Girls: Sappho Goes to Hollywood_ (St.'Martin's Press). Riva, Maria. 199A. _Marlene Dietrich_ (Ballantine). Ford: Laymon, .Ford's group vice president for c9rporate human resources. · · A spokesman for the American Family Association said the group. had no c.o.mment on Ford's reversal. The group owns 200 radio stations under the American Family Radio name and claims more than q million supporters. Last month, the association canceled its boycott after meeting with Ford officials and dealers. A dealer who attended the meeting said he initiated the summit because he. and other Ford dealers in the South feared that a boycott would hurt sales. Gay Matrimony the pink panties a bit confused, as if he didn't know where they came from. Then a huge gasp of embarrassment followed by footsteps racing away came from the caterf ng table as a cute college girl ran off covering her face. in shame. Bart's reaction was a "oh yeh, that is where I got these" grunt which he promptly followed by discarding t.hem with the jacket. Though by now no one caught either one. The entire room laughed out loud.hysterically and Bart was unmoved by the reaction. A~ .. the music played he began dancing. Within .a few moments everyone else returned to what they had Ileen c:fping.,. . Everyone except.tfi~ 91,,t}tmen who had been salivating over Bart, all dissipated throughout the room . knowing he was straight, good looking, and accepting wasn't enough to overshadow the reality of the. situation. Yes, you may grab his posterior or his. bicep, but it is the cute browneyed girl who ends up in the coat closet with him! Not that I blame them at all. Doesn't everyone do the same thing? Somet~ing is shiny, intriguing, or interesting until the reality of the situation slaps us in the face. Like having a crush on the foreman of a building crew that you pass everyday on your way to work until that fateful Friday morning when a stop light catches you and you catch him picking his nose. Or that Land Rover you really, really want until you find out a bulb for the headlight, which you can only get at the dealer, is sixty eight dollars. Because nothing and no one in life is reaily perfect. Everything has a catch, a string. or a flaw. You either realize you love the flaws as part of the whole package or move on and find a deal that fits you better. The ironic thing is that those who choose to move on find themselves continuaily at this crossroads, having to choose ... again and again. But, as Barry and Hugh discovered the secret to real happiness is to stop running and choose to iove what you have and cherish the one you are with. So as my grandfather used to say, "play the hand you were dealt, my friend." After all, in poker isn't a true that two pairs beat a straight? January 1 , STAR Is on . the streets. 8 15 22 29 9 10 16 17 23 24 30 31 11 12 13 14 18 19 20 21 Deadline for February STAR 25 26 February2] 28 STAR ship date to 4 states Advice Column! January 2006 Hello Queerdom! Welcome 2006 ... It will be a new year of the fabulousness Queer. Yes Kittens, Uncle rocked in the New Year on the waves of fabulousness with a Twink and a wink. It was a record setting time. Uncle arrived on the stroke of midnight ready to blow in the New Year. I assure you my date, Blake Worthington, was ever so grateful. The Doctor's have assured me that he will make a full recovery. He should regain the use of his legs soon. Uncle made his night most memorable to say the least. Dear Uncle Mikey, My New Year's.pate was a man i met online. I thought .we were ready to meet face-to-face. It was a night of love and lust. We danced, laughed, and had a wonderful time. I thought, Finally, i have met someone worth meeting. A someone that wiH hang around longer than the tricks that i have met in the past. I was looking for something more. Now, after all is said and done he has avoided me by not answering his phone or my emails. i am at a lost. I don't know what went wrong. What should !do? Lost in Love Dearest Kitten. What went wrong is that you were ordering off the wrong menu. While Internet iove has sprung upon us all like wild flowers in the mist, it is not without the old· fashioned risk of meeting outside of cyber-land. It sounds as though your midnight lovin was just that. Sorry but your Prince Charming was really your Midnight Minuteman. Kitten it is easy to get caught up in the moment of the world ~lebration, feeling the new unknown time at hand, of a new year. Allowing oneself to be carried away ever so blindly into the arms of false love. Uncle would cherish the night of the whirlwind romance and leave it at that. Do not become this poor misguided man's stalking reminder that he drank from the forbidden fruits. Celebrate the fact that in that moment you felt the passion of a special time and utilize that goodness to fuel your search for Prince Charming. Kitten, love will find a way, if you allow fate to guide your heart. Smooches Mikey I swear Kittens; it is as if my words run as ,a fountain of pure inspiration. If I was not a modest soul, I might point that fact out! Dear Uncle Mikey, Is sex wrorig if you are almost related? Cousin in Love Kitten, like your short letter, I found myself shortly hearing banjos in. th~ Bdyot.l. Uncle is just afraid of that question! Almost nothing has ever proved to be an uneasy topic for Uncle. It is all or nothing and in this case, unless you-know how to play a banjo, Uncle would have to say to leave whatever devilish ideas of kissir,g cousins you have going on, in that dangerous fork in the road. Turn back now, while you can still hold your head up at family reunions. Talk about a near miss, Aunt Pearl would never stand the shock kitten. Smooches Uncle Dear Mikey, I HAVE A PROBLEM WITH A WOMEN I HAVE BEEN SEEING FOR A FEW MONTHS. She has literary come into my life like a storm. She says she loves my daughte, and wants to be a family. However, she is jobless, and makes minimal effort to find a new one. She sits on my couch, while I go to work, and than acts like it is too much to pick up my daughter from school for me, I am having serious doubts about her intentions. However, it is also nice again having a companion for myself. Am I just being narcotic here? Looking for Mrs. Right Dearest Kitten, You words convey such an innocent, if not perhaps ignorant view. It seems that if ms. Couch potato, was even half as worried about the relationship as you, she would at the very least, happily help out in any way she could. I think you better watch your food stamps with this one. It is easy to convince oneself it is better to live with irritable circumstances, verse a cold bed. I mean Kitten, if Uncle met a man, who thought he wouid move Continued next a e .. ......... . Ask Uncle Mikey: onto my couch with his jobless wonder well, kitten, the laughter would be heard around the world. Throw this one back, and find one worthy of you and your daughter. It is better to love the employed, than suffer the trail of debt the homeless wonder will create for you. Smooches-Uncle Well Kittens, Uncle shall take his leave once more. Queerdom remember, sometimes love.is not enough. Do not settle for someone out of desperate reasoning. Accept someone equally fabulous while worthy of your love. Also, a footnote, it helps if. you do not swim in the same gene pool, kittens. Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too! Want more of Mikey? Visit Mikey's comer at www.askunclemikey.com. Free/ande w.J1ter Michael Hinzman, joining communities throughou{Queerclom ... NOW AVAILABLE IN THE STAR .CALL F'CR RATES 91 B.B:35.7Bl;S7 or email: ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net Delivering Quality, Value, Integrity and 1tUst in Affordable Advertising Service. "Fiesta Pa Dip" 2 pounds ground Italian Sausage or hamburger meat. 1 can cream of mushroom soup. 1 can cream of chicken soup. 1 large jar Pace Picante sauce (medium or hot) 1 small'white onion chopped. 1 bell peppei chopped. 1 small tomato chopped. 1/2.ppund Velveeta cheese. 3-4 green onions chopped. Salt and pepper to taste. Brown meat in large sauce pan over medium heat, pour off excess fat, add cream of mushroom and chicken soup (do not add milk). Add 1/2 jar picante sauce, white onion, bell peppers and tomatoes: You may add more picante sauce if the sauce is to thick. Cook about 10-15 minutes, then add veiveeta cheese and simmer until cheese is melted. Pour dip into a crock pot on low to keep warm. serve warm. Serve with tortilia chips and pita bread. Chef john wishes you a Fabuious Food Year 20061 Seo es by Jack Fertig • J JANUARY 2006 ··"Try a different approach, Capricorn!" · With the Sun in Capricorn, of course we focus on goals and improvements in the new year. The Sun in harmony with Jupiter and Mars gives your resolutions some extra dedication and momentum. Some of them just might make it this year! ARIES (March 20 - April 19): Sex and shopping are especially d1str1:1cting. Focus instead on human and material resources that can help you get ahead. Your reputation is at stake now. Your sexual reputation is already made, so focus on the professional. TAURUS (April 20- May 20): Usually your charm lies in your beauty and sensuality. With that as a given, reach out beyond your sexuality and be willing to embrace new ideas. The latter is a bit of a challenge, but you'll find the stretch exhilarating. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): Sex releases stress, but what's causing the stress? If questions of sexual integrity, values, and self-worth are at the root om, acting out will only feed a cycle of tension. Now is a great time to clarify those issues! CANCER,(June 21- July 22): Adapt your current efforts to serve your long-range purpose. Invite and graciously accept any critical support. Your partner - even a partner du jour - brings luck and feeds creativity. Welcome any and all suggestions! LEO (July 23 -August 22): Work, work, work ... It's the key to success, so keep your nose to the grindstone. Your inner reserves and inherited talents will come to the fore if you apply yourself. Your efforts are better seen and appreciated than you know. VIRGO (August 23 - September 22): Get into some good debates, or if you're too shy, just listen. New ideas will open your brain and your heart to new possibilities. The more you open up, the more you - and others - will realize how much you have to offer. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): It's hard to teli what's important for you personally, and what social concerns you need to address. Ask yourself how Mother would solve the dilemma. If that doesn't provide the answer, it wiH at least serve as a springboard. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21 ): Don't be afraid of arguments. It's an ideal time to take on the tough issues in your personai ielationships. Be willing to let go of your present stance so you can be open to deeper truths and stronger partnerships. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 - December 20): Worries, doubts, and general fretting undermine your health. Regular meditation helps, as does a spa retreat. Focus on priorities and values. Decide what matters in your life, and your worries will evaporate. CAPRICORN (December 21 · January 19): The more you find pleasure in your efforts now, the more you will see the rewards down the road. If you're not having fun, you're doing something wrong. Try a different approach! AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Demands at home and at work are taxing, but the real work you need to do is internal.. Take a little time out to be clear about your motivations, fears, dreams, assumptions, and habits, and your tasks will be much easier. 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Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data magazine Text Any textual data included in the document ,Ur • LS .. n ona ale Scott · row,· Man.:aging Broker Mc raw Davisson ew:art, R.ealtors • 1 Langley, Oklahoma s:cottCrow.mcgr,awok.com 918.782.3211 the STAR, Oklahoma's Premier GLBT Magazine. The most important direct-action you can do is vote. Local and state elections are this r, with many close ttles to be fought by our strongest allies. In rtnership with the nal Association of Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) Community Centers, the Tulsa GLBT Community Center annouces Promote the Vote. This program seeks to enhance the advocacy and organizing capacity of GLBT community centers by creating a visible, vocal and voting constituency. More importantly, it gives voice and power to the members of the GLBT community who are often made to feel invisible and powerless. Primaries are fast-approaching with local and state supporters of the GLBT community in close contests. If you aren't registered to vote - do it today. You can get registered to vote at the Tulsa GLBT Community Center, 5545 E 41 st Street in Highland Plaza. It's simple to do, the form is very short and we'll even send it in for you. Stop by today and r ter to vote in one easy step - then vote in every e action. It's important for you and future generations. ACLU ASK FOR DISMISSAL OF REV. LONNIE LATHAM'S CASE February 1, 2006 The American Civil Liberties Union filed a friend-of-the-court brief toda}'. urging an Oklahoma court to dismiss charges against a Soulhern · minister who was arrestea for soliciting private sex another male. 'The Supreme Court has made it crystal clear that, when it comes to their sex lives, ults are free to do whatever the 8 Bell, Executive Director of th klahoma. "Accordin to the police report, Rev. Latham did nothing more tha e another man to his hotel room for consensual sex. It is not a crime merely to invite someone to have completely lawful sex. If it were otherwise, every bar in the state may as well shut its doors." The Reverend Dr. Lonnie Latham was arrested on January ~. 2006,_ on the misdemeanor cha of "Off!:3ring to Engage m an Act of ice ne a ma! ted r back to otel room for oral sex. It is not alleged that Latham offered money in exchange for the sex act. The brief filed toda in the District Court of Oklahoma Coun argues , arges should be dismissed against because non-commercial sex between consentate is a constitutional! ACLU it is a violation s free speech guarantee for the state to criminal that is mereiy an invitation to engage in lawful Latham's arrest. which generated a s· of media attention, forced him to resig as a board member of the Baptist Generai Okiahoma. ut of To~n MARCH 2006 by Andrew Collins lbuquerque, New exico Q,Jt<::, Mexico's largest city, set dramatically at the base of the soaring Sandia Mountains, makes a great - and affordable - base for exploring the rest of the Land of Enchantment. Albuquerque lies just 60 miles south of Santa Fe and within an afternoon's drive of countless Indian pueblos, beautiful hiking and biking spots, and challenging ski areas. The "Duke City" (named for the city's founder, the Duke of Alburquerque - the first "r" was later dropped) enjoys a sunny, mild climate, and it's home to New Mexico's only gay bars as well as a handful of gay-owned B&Bs and restaurants. And thr9.ughout 2006, Albuquerque celebrates its tricentennial with dozens of performances, events, and museum instaliations that trace its rich and vibrant history. Albuquerque's once dull downtown has undergone an ambitious revitalization in recent years, with loads of new shops, restaurants, and bars along or near the main drag, Central Avenue between 2nd and 8th streets, and also along parallel Gold Avenue. From here, it's a five-minute drive to historic Old Town, which was laid out in 1706 and contains Albuquerque's earliest buiiding, the San Felipe de Neri Church, which fronts the serene, tree-shaded Plaza. The wares for sale at the more than 200 crafts and art galleries and boutiques in the area run the gamut from fine to kitschy, and a few very good restaurants are nearby. For an offbeat experience, step inside the small but venomous American International Rattlesnake Museum, which contains the world's largest assemblage of live rattlers. Within a short stroll of Old Town you'll find a handful of the city's most prominent attractions, including the recently expanded Albuquerque Museum of Art and History, which houses an astounding collection of Spanish Colonial artifacts, plus traditional and contemporary regional art. Exhibits on geology, volcanoes, and dinosaurs await you across the street at the New Mexico Museum of Natural History and Science. Also check out the Albuquerque Aquarium, Rio Grande Zoo, and Rio Grande Botanic Garden. It's just a short drive from Old Town to the Indian Pueblo Cultural Center as well as the National Hispanic Cultural Center of New Mexico, both of which have exhibits, cafes, and performances related to their respective cultures. Much of Albuquerque's gay scene is focused in the retro-hip Nob Hill neighborhood, a short drive east of downtown along Historic Route 66 (Central Avenue), which glows with the neon signs of coffeehouses. bars, greasyspoon diners, galleries, and boutiques selling everything from cool home-furnishings to campy giftsCentral Avenue fringes the southern edge of the University of New Mexico (UNM), whose noteworthy attractions include the Maxwell Museum of Anthropology and the University Art Maseum. The city sprawls a bit, and you need a car to venture out to some of the worthwhile outlying attractions. On the west side of town, visit Petroglyph National Monument to view some 25,000 rock drawings inscribed as far back as a thousand years ago along the 17-mile-long West Mesa escarpment. Drive east across town into the city's lofty foothills for a chance to ride the Sandia Peak Aerial Tramway to the crest of the 10,600-foot Sandia Mountains. The 2.7-mile ride is the longest aerial tramway in the world. At the top are observation decks, hiking trails, a visitor's center. and the High Finance Restaurant. On the north side of Albuquerque, you'll find the giamorous new Sandia Casino resort, which in addition to extensive gaming areas contains one of the city's best restaurants (Bien Shur, on the resort's rooftop), a brandnew luxury hotel and spa, and a golf course of considerable acclaim. The casino is close to Bailoon Fiesta Park, home to New Mexico's most famous festival, the Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta. This colorful hot-air balloon gathering - the world"s largest - takes place the first two weeks in October. At any time of year you can visit the park's AndersonAbruzzo international Balloon Museum, which opened in fall 2005. There are also a number of outfitters throughout Albuquerque offering hot-air balloon rides year-round; one of the most reliable is Rainbow Ryders. Albuquerque's already very good dining scene has improved dramatically just in the past few years. in the downtown area, don't miss gay-popu!ar Artichoke Cafe for first-rate Continental cooking in a romantic yet casual ambience. Thai Crystal is one of the city's top Asian restaurants, while the cozy Goid Street Gaffe serves up some of the ........ Continued next page. . Atw:efflsingin lfi~ STAIR/sjustgood business cents. Page6 Out of Town best breakfasts around, plus iight lunch and dinner fare, designer coffees, and delicious desserts. When in Old Town, book a table at elegant Ambrozia Cafe & Wine Bar, known for its quirky and inventive dishes, such as duck meatloaf with truffted cream corn, and lobster corn dogs with chipotle ketchup. In Nob Hill, the swanky Zinc Wine Bar and Bis~ro serves a memorable Sunday jazz brunch and terrific French-inspired dinner fare - try the crisp uck-confit egg rolls or mango creme brulee. Next door, y Fish serves tasty proof that it's possible to find super-fresh and creatively rendered sushi right in the heart of the des~rt. Talented chef Jennifer James is one of the leading new culinary stars of the Southwest, and you can sample her deftly prepared food at Graze, which specializes in affordable tapas-style small plates (she also owns the more formal Restaurant Jennifer James, a few miles north). Across the street, the upscale Gruet Steak House is run by the city's acclaimed Gruet Winery, which produces S?me ?f the nation's most respected champagne-style sparkling wines as well as commendable pinot noirs and chardonnays. Pre-clubbing gays and straights mix it ~ sophisticate~ Martini Grille which is lauded as much its tasty Amencan fare as fbr the fancy drinks served up in the schnazzy cocktail bar. Hang out among UNM students and other local hipsters at II Vicino, which serves out-of-this-world wood-fired pizzas and filling calzones, plus a nice array of leafy dinner- size salads. Try El Patio for some of the most authentic (and fiery) New Mexican cooking in town - be sure to sit on the tree-shaded The no-frills Frontier Restaurant is a 24/7 institution for its breakfast burritos and heavenly cinnamon buns - it's a real scene after the clubs close. Another must-do in Albuquerque is coffee and dessert at Flying Star, a bakery, restaurant, coffeehouse, and wine bar all rolled into one, with five locations around town, the gavest and coolest in Nob Hill and downtown. Among Albuquerque's six gay nightspots, Pulse draws th gest and wildest bunch for cruising and dancing stive patio and compact but fierce dance floor. Fans of line-dancing and two-stepping head to sprawling Sidewinders Ranch, which is owned by the same folks as Sidewinders in Palm Springs. Low-keyed Exhale (formerly Renea's} is the only lesbian bar in the state, although it pulls in of guys, too. The expansive Albuquerque Mining ers to a diverse crowd with its several bars, small dance area, and full volleyball court. The Albuquerque Social Ciub, a garden-variety video bar across the street from Pulse, attracts a fairly local following; guests are pennitted in this private club but must purchase a "membership" ( one year). The parking lot at Foxes ith beat-up pickup trucks, hints rish, and horny guys inside. main entertainment ue's lodging landscape is domin hotels, you'll find some distinctive historic properties and art-filled B&Bs, too. the latter, the beautifully restored Mauger Esta sits within easy walkin distance of downtown and Old Town. Anne Victorian has an ornate exterior, period antiques, wallpapers, and fabrics. Another property is Hacienda Antigua, a f ,ldadc>be hacienda northwest of downtown, filled with claw-foot tubs, wood carvings and Indian art, and beehive-shape kiva-style fireplaces. the historic La p grand dame, opened in 1939 by Conrad Hilton (who honeymooned here with Zsa Zsa Gabor). It's a stunning 10-story hotel in the heart of downtown. A few blocks west, the art deco Hotel Biue has simple but affordable rooms and a great location, making it one of the city's best bargains. Of the city's chain properties, the 17-story Albuquerque Marriott is a commendable, upscale choice with great views of the mountains. It's close to two shopping malls and a short drive from gay nightlife. And a 20-minute drive north of Albuauerque in the town of Bernalillo, the posh Hyatt Regency Tamaya offers the most lavish accommodations in the region. Amenities at this 500-acre resort on the. ~anta Ana Pueblo include a world-class spa, horseback riding, tennis, golf, superb restaurants, and ca_sino gaming. If you're looking for sumptuous Palm Springs-style glamour in the laid-back Duke City, look no further than this stunning resort, the perfect place to celebrate an ultra-romantic Southwest getaway. The Little Black Book Albuquerque International Balloon Fiesta (www.balloonfiesta. com). Albuquerque Convention & Visitors Bureau (505-842-9918 or 800-284-2282, www.itsatrip.org; www.albuquerque300. or deta que Tncentennial events). Al uerque 1 Louisiana Blvd. NE, 505-881- 6800 or 800-334-208 , www.marriott.com). uerque Mining Co. (7209 Central Ave. NE, 505-255- que Social Club (4021 Central Ave. NE, 505-255- Cafe & Wine Bar (108 Rio Grande Blvd. NW, 560). (424 Central Ave. 5-243-0200). 5 Central Ave., N 232-3474). arvard St. SE, 50 ' Flying tar 2 Centr;3I Ave. S 633; also downtown at 723 Silver Ave. SW 99). Foxes Lounge (8521 Central Av 5-3060). Graze (3128 Central Ave. SE, 50 . Frontier Restaurant (Cornell Dr. SE and Cen al Ave. SE, 505-266-0550). Gold Street Gaffe (218 Gold Ave. SW, 505-765-1633). Gruet Steak House (3201 Central Ave. NE, 505-256- WINE). Hacienda Antigua (6708 Tierra Dr. NW, 505-345- 5399 or 800/201-2986, www.hac~ier1da;ar ua). Hotel Blue (717 Central Ave. NW, 505-9 2400 or 877- 878-4868 www.thehotelblue.com). 9462). · Bernalillo, 505- att.com ). also 11225 t. NW. 505-242- 05 . , - __ 755 or -725-2477, WWW. . NW, 505-343-1554). 1-25 at Tramway Blvd., 505-796-7500 or .sandiacasino.com J. nch (8900 Central Ave. :::;E, 505-275-1616). 09 Gold Ave. SW. 505-244- and Bistro (3009 Central A . . 505-254- Dive April WE DO IT DIFFERENT in Eureka Springs, Arkansas! 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It is located about 120 miles East of Los Angeles. hen flying in from the f:Aidwest or_ East you _can ei~her . y directly into Palm Springs or fly into Ontario, California hich is less expensive and is only about 50 miles \J\'est_ f Palm Springs. Since you will need to rent an auto It will ve you money to fly to Ontario. weather in Palm ngs is beautiful all r around except if you 't like weather over 100 grees then it is best not July and August. we love the dry heat we love going there in he summer when it is hot. ecember thru April it is very pleasant there. e dozens of gay stay however our is the TERORT (www.ter) and located st of downtown Palm Canyon toll free phone is: 1-866-837-7996. and hosts, Tom nd Doug Sems are of the best -'<'hen it to knowing how to their guests. he Terrazzo Resort has 12 guest rooms surrounding heated swimming pool, (clothing optional) of course, · · and tropical gardens. The resort has s that includes the finest of linens, dial phones, Lar TV, DVD, VCR CD player, indiclimate control, speed Internet access, pre- Judith Jackson bath amenities and wonderful soft oiquet robes for their guests. All rooms comes with a · , refrigerator, wet bar, hair dryer, iron and ironing rd. Don't have your lap top with you? Don't worry. you check your emails in their guest services room. Comentary breakfast is served each momin_g outside at _the . A complimentary gourmet lunch Is served daily lside. Complimentary beverages and snacks are available throughout the day. In addition to their Resort they also have a condoiapartment just a few blocks from the Resort which can rented on a monthly basis. Guests renting that can take full advantage of the Resort amenities including pool, etc. This is truly a fabulous resort for the gay traveler. It is the only gay resort in Palm Springs that we recommend. As we travel around the country we have noticed that many owners hire managers and that in itself can be a major problem. Tom and Doug are the owners AND managers and they control everything themselves to insure that each guest gets full attention. And full attention to every detail is what you at the Terrazzo. They have received many award and citations for their hi ality of service and accommodations. Tom and Doug ve their work and what they are doing and it shows! Be sure to check out their web site. Downtown is just a few short blocks from the Terrazz<? and is filled with major shopping, museums, art galleries, restaurants, bars and even an Indian Casino. They have about a doz bars in Palm Springs and they run the range from piano bars, disco bars and just about any type of bar you are looking for. The one great thing about staying in a major gay city is that the bars are always busy! And we do mean ALWAYS! So even if you are kinda shy you won't have any problems meeti someo~e in Springs. o left Melvyn' aurant) There is so much to see and do in Palm Springs. Lots of museums to visit, great restaurants and tons of ·ng to do. UST SEE is the FABULOUS PALM SPRINGS FOLLIES located downtown at 128 So. Palm Canyon Drive. It is a Las Vegas type show with singing, dancing and plenty of laughter. What makes the show so fabulous is that all the performers are over 55 and they are GREAT! There are numemus performing arts centers around the city and plenty of concerts to go to. There are dozens and dozens of restaurants in Palm Springs. After many years of going there our very favorite 1s still Melvyn's Restaurant located in the Ingleside Inn just a couple b!ocks West of downtown at 200 W. Ramon. It is just like stepping back to "Old Hollvwood". The food, the service and the atmosphere is PERF CT! Mel Haber, the owner knows how to keep h:s guests coming back year after year. According to Life Styles of the. Ric. and Famous it is rated one of the 10 best and we certainly agree! Continued next page: the STAR, Oklahoma's Premier GLBT Magazine. Page 10 GAY TRAVELERS: The Palm Springs Aerial Tramway is the largest vertical cable in the country and the view from the top is magnificent. Take your lunch with you and dine right in the mountains. Other options for Palm Spri are hiking, tennis or sightseeing in the Joshua National , the Living Desert or visiting the local Indian grounds. But of course the main reason to go to Palm Springs is for the people! And what a FABULOUS collection of friends we have made there over the years. Our best to Stefan, Millie, Jerry, Jim, Tyke and Wayne! Check out www.palmspringsgay.com before making your travel plans. For more information about traveling, email Donald and Ray at gaytravelers@aol.com or visit their webpage at: http://www.hometown.aol.com/gaytravelers. Willie Nelson Releases New Gay Cowboy Song. NASHVILLE, TN_Willie Nelson released his new song titled "Cowboys Are Secretly, Frequently (Fond Of Each Other)" on Valentines Day February 14th 2006. Are Secretly, Frequently (Fond Of Each Other)" wa in 1981 by Texas-born, NYC resident musician/ songwriter Ned Sublette, long before gay cowboys were the current topic of conversation. Nelson recorded the song last ar during an iTunes Originals session at his Perdernales, io. This is the first time Nelson's version has been released. Dolly Parton did a song for "Transamerica," Emmylou Harris cut a track for "Brokeback Mountain" and Willie Nelson released a gay Valentine's song. Is country the new gay genre? HIV positive participants, spectators to be welcomed into United States during the 2006 Chicago Gay Games 'Designated Event Status· clears U.S. entrance restrictions SAN FRANCISCO A U.S. federal blanket waiver has been approved allowing non-U.S. citizens living with HIV/ AIDS to travel to the United States to participate in or attend the Gay Games 2006. The Federation of Gay Games (FGG), an~ Chicago Ga~es, Inc. (CGI), announced today that the waiver comes with federal approval of Designated Event Status for Gay Games VII Sports & Cultural Festival set for 15-22 July 2006 in Chicago, Illinois. "Many people with HIV/AIDS and other life-affecting health issues have competed and set Masters-division records at past Gay Games, and we are happy that all participants from outside the United States once again will be able to travel freely to attend the Gay Games this summer," said Kathleen Webster, co-president of the international Federation of Gay Games. HIV positive p · · nts and attendees of Gay Games VII can now a a sin B-2 travel visa from their local U.S. consulate. isa, valid 8-28 July 2006, will be issued on a special form instead of being placed permanently in the person·s passport. "Achieving Designated Event Status demonstrates our dedication to the Gay Games principles of Participation, Inclusion and Personal Best™ and to our mission adfor full acceptance and recognition of all LGBT said Brian McGuinness, Gay Games Chicago Executive Director. "We are grateful to Chicago Mayor Richard M. Daley, Congresswoman Jan Schakowsky (DIL) and the many CGI and FGG board, staff, volunteers and allies for helping us meet this important commitment to the HIV community." Information regarding procedures on how to apply for the B-2 visa at U.S. consulates in different countries will be available shortly on the FGG Web site at \~":N';N-~aygames. com) and the Chicago Gay Games eb site (www. gaygameschicago . .erg). For additionai information, lease contact Aimee Pine at the ~hi Ga~es, Inc. o,ffic:esat (773) 907-2006 or by email at mee.pme@gaygameschicago.org. Grand Opening ai Fort Smith's Newest Night Club. RED ROCK CITY By Bunky Walters The pizza delivery guy walked in just after 8 p.m. amid droningeleictnic drills, a symphony of cell phones and frenetic atter. But like an episode of "Extreme Makeover: Home Edition," everything was hammered, painted and plu in by midnight for the grand opening of Red Rock C Fort Smith's newest party venue, at 917 N. A St. · At 10 p.m., music was already blasting in beat to the din of finishing touches being made inside the historic two-story building with a red stone walls - hence the name of the club. It's attractive yet calm exterior was in sharp contrast, though, to the play pin being created inside. Leading the whip-quick renovation was owner Andv Osburn, who stayed cool as Crystal throughout the evening. Osburn, by the way, also owns Kinkead's, just a couple blocks away at 1004 ½ Garrison Ave. When he wasn't lending a hand or answering his cell phone, Osburn paused occasionally in the VIP lounge near the cool metal grate-floored DJ booth, ave the dance floor. By 11 p.m., some of his friend s and Kansas City had arrived, and they made themselves at home in the lounge, which was decorated with leather chairs and ottomans situated around a large, wide-screen TV. Roses and orchids were another elegant touch to the room. Out the lounge door several steps away was the upstairs bar area, which has a dance floor, as well. It was packed with le by 11 :30 p.m., slinging back beer and sipping them up alongside buttery nipple and cocksucker shots were bartenders in black dress shirts, with the word "Rockers'; spelled out in red on each one. Not long after midnight, a voice on the mic invited folks to "shake their tail feathers." They promptly obliged, spilling down the confetti-carpetted stairs to the new dance floor. The anced to everything from Salt 'n' Pepa to Depeche ,de, s1~oc1tina b,oots and scuttling about to the rhythm of the pounding bass. Every now and then, there were quick whooshes from the fog machine, blanketing the crowded dance floor. And it mig~t hav~ been chilly outside,. but it didn't keep a obv1ol!s gym _memberships from whipping o d shaking their bottoms under the dazzling disco lights of the club's exposed rafters. Not that but I had a ball and a half that night OK, two. te the nail-biting push of the midnight deadline, the club threw a flawless party. And I have no doubt they'!i continue to send folks in Fort Smith · and sweating to awesome beats and fabulous for many, many weekends to come. Speaking of coming, you should. Red Rock City is open 9 p.m.-5 a.m. Thursday-Saturday and 6 p.m.-midnight Sunday. · , either call (479) 242-CITY or visit _GLBT Magazine. . Page 1.2 .. NINTH ANNUAL RED RIBBON GALA, SET FOR TULSA MARCH 11, 2006. Above left to right: Kim Wood -Chairperson RRG, Shane Carter - Channel 2 Meteorologist and Master of Ceremonies, Pat Chernicky- President Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. TULSA, OK_Aa in the past, a sea of red wili encompass distinguished guests and friends of Tulsa C.A.R.E.'s RRG, as they arrive at one of Tulsa's most elegant and worthwhile affairs. Again this year, the event will be held at Southern Hills Country Club on Saturday, March 11th. Set in an atmosphere that only Southern Hills can create, the room will be ablaze with fabulous flower arrangements created by board member Toni Garner. Kim Wood, Gala Chairperson and Peter Walter, realtor extraordinaire, Gala Honorary Chairperson wiil welcome guests to a feast for the senses that will include the finest cuisine by Southern Hills Chef Devin Levine, complimented by fine wines. A portion of the festivities wili include both a silent and live auction offering stellar iist of antiques, furniture, original artwork, masterfully created jewelry, private dinner parties, special inteiest classes to name a few. A new feature this year, a special raffle of fine jewelry created by Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. board member Susan Sadler, wi!I be held during the event. Ali attending are encouraged to "just wear red" ... the color of AIDS awareness and a symbol of compassion for those affected by the disease. The Red Ribbon Gala is the largest fundraising activity for Tulsa C.A.R.E.S (Center for AIDS Resources, Education and Support). Ani:i, this year the event has received a tremendous "kick off'' for 2006 with the generous grant from the George Kaiser Famiiy Foundation and Bank of Oklahoma Foundation as Presenting Sponsor. A United Way agency, Tuisa C.A.R.E.S has been in existence since 1991. Executive Director , Sharon Thoeie, credits the generosity of the board members and donors of the difference they make for some of the community's most needy members. She states: "the best part of the Red Ribbon Gala is that it supports the ongoing efforts of Tulsa C.A.R.E.S. to provide a safe haven for low-income men, women and children with HIV/AIDS throughout northeastern Oklahoma. 2 marks the 15th anniversary of providing support services to the individuals no one wanted to serve. Without the proceeds from the Red Ribbon Gala our ability to provide these crucial services would cease." Board President, Patricia Chernickv, adds: "the RRG is not only a fabulous evening of food, fun and friends, but the money raised from the event provides the organization with the financial resources to serve over 450 individuals. HIV does not affect o up of people, it affects us all." RRG Chairperson, Kim also contributes: "A tremendous op · is provided through the RRG to provide support to Isa CARES so that the organization can continue to provide the services for those patients and families affected by the devastating disease." The Red Ribbon Gala begins at 6:30 p.m. with flowing red cocktails, stimulating conversation and a Ii silent auction and raffle. Dinner foilows at 7:30 p.m. w live auction commencing around 9:00 p.m. Dancing to music provided by "The Hero Factor" will begin at 9:45 p.m. Tickets are $150.00 per person. Sponsorship packages and reservations for priority seating are available. For more information, contact Bruce Lewis at (918) 834-4194. PRESIDENT'S BUDGET PRESENTS MIXED BAG ON HIV/AIDS WASHINGTON - President Bush's budget proposal, released yesterday, presents a mixed bag on HIV/AIDS, with modest funding increases in care and treatment programs, additional cuts in Medicaid and a dangerous increase in abstinence-only programs that keep thorough, scientific information out of the hands of those who need it most. "For the sake of hundreds of thousands of Americans living with HIV and AIDS, we can and we must do more," said Human Rights Campaign President joe Solmonese. "We welcome the president's attention to the critical needs facing HIV/AIDS programs, yet the new funding does not make up for the years of shortcomings and huge proposed cuts that may harm beneficiaries in other areas." The largest proposed HIV/AIDS increase is for the president's $188 million domestic AIDS initiative, with money split between the Ryan White CARE Act and the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. "We need a comprehensive and targeted strategy to combat this virus - particularly in at-risk communities and among people of color," said Soimonese. "Attention to this continually growing trend is long overdue." There are more African Americans among new AIDS cases, people estimated to be living with AIDS and H!V-reiated deaths than any other racial or ethnic group in the United States. Continued .. Aids Budget-page 23 IN RESPONSE 1'0 YOUR. PERSONAL AD LOOKING FOR. SOMEONE WMO CAN11' S1"AND GAYS AND LES&IANS. I L Fl E - ' Oklahoma City ur 5th Anniversary 3 Days of Quality Workshops, Vendors, Great Piains Olympus Contests, Cigar Smoker, Saints and Sinners Costume Contest, Many Free Prizes, Play Parties, other Social Activities, NLA-1 AGM and as always, a surprise or two! Only $125 if registered by April 21 ! Group Discounts for 6 or more! Vendor Market is FREE and Open to the Public www. ibalfire .com the STAR, Oklahoma's Premier GLBT Magazine. Page 14 I & THE BOYS Pack'em In At Club Maverick! by Greg Steele TULSA, OK_ Mary, Schellye, Brenda, Paula, & Valerie known as Tulsa's Moodswing Band certainly have the art of entertaining down pat. With st guitarist Betsy Smittle and the Boys, Brad in, Mark Dodson, Eric Daughtery, and Mike Busby, entertained a standing room only crowd at Tulsa's Club Maverick on January 27th. Just another example of the talent we in Oklahoma are fortunate enough to have in our GLBTA community. A five piece all female band, Moodswing has been together for two years. They have played at many events including Tulsa Pride Picnic, OKC Pride Picnic, Tulsa's Mayfest, The Women's Music Festival in Dripping Springs, Texas, the Sooner State Rodeo in Tulsa and Diversity Pride · Fall Festivai in Eureka Springs, Arkansas. And continue to draw big crowds at Oklahoma City and Tulsa nightclubs. They are currently working on their 2nd CD and hope to release it this summer. 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Society has continually isolated s and lesbians, leaving many with the desire or need into some type of adopted crowd or fa1 Meth is sadly, the common thread among many of the enfranchised. Meth a!so has the distinct capability of making men more libidinous, thereby making their feelings of inhibitions ali the more exaggerated. This has created a devastating paralle! between meth addiction, and HIV infection. www.Tulullaverlck.co111 9111 a Sllarldan, Tulsa, OK 918.aaL3301 THE T ith Sp iai Gu t E CEE John Pendal lnternatio I r. Leather 2003 Fri, Sat, & Sun March :I. 7th - :I.9th Fri - 10pm Meat & Greet @ Club Maverick Sat - 1.0pm Contest @ Club Maverick Sun - :1:l:30am Victory Brunch@ Metro Diner A History of Violence Anti-gay violence is on the rise -- not just in the U.S., but all over the world. !"- Swt:dish we~site lists 129 well-known gay individuals, 1~cluding pr(!minent actors, musicians, broadcasters, politicians and priests, and calls for their death. Despite having one of the world's toughest laws against the promotion of hate, Sweden's _chief prosecutor says he is powerless to shut down the site because it frames its death threats in the form of Biblical quotes. Britain is in the midst of a homophobic crime wave that has esc~lated to the PC?int that police have urged the LGBT ?ommurnty to u~e _caution when going out. A young man m Londonderry 1s rn danger of losing his eye after a recent attack, and it wasn't the first time he'd been assaulted. A g~y couf?le_ near London almost lost their home, and pos~ 1bly th_eir life, w~en they discovered someone had pushed 1nc~nd1ary maten~I through their mail slot, starting a fire in their hallw~y. Fortunately, they were able to extinguish the nre before 1t spread. In another incident a lesbian couple was pelted with snowballs that had sto~es and broken glass embedded in them. Police say they believe there have been dozens of other cases throughout the country that have gone unreported. Officials believe that the number of homophobic attacks on has increased with the publicity over civil partnerships, ich became legal in December. In_ New Bedford, Massachusetts, a community about 50 miles south of Boston, a violent attack rocked a lar gay club. A young man, 18 year old Jacot1 RcJbic struck a customer in the head with a hatchet before shoo two others. As I'm writing this, Robida is still on the run ile his victims remain in the hospital -- one in critical condition. When police searched Robida's room, they discovered Nazi a. The teen is being sought on charges of attempt murder, assault and civil-rights violations. What is behi~d this.increase in homophobic violence? Almost certainly, as the British officials stated it's due to increased publicity as gay rights issues have taken center stage in countries all over the worid. It's nothi new. Mankind h_~s a hist?ry of violence. especially concerns ~ trad1t1~:mally do~ntr?~d~n group trying to claim equality. During the 60 s c1v1I nghts movement it was violence ag~in~t blacks. '.he ignorant always resort to violence when their status quo 1s threatened. When the people the bigot has always demeaned and reviled suddenlv dare to stand up for themselves and demand rights, the bigot will lash out. It's no surprise th~ big~ts are worked up right now. Gay are one of tne biggest issues in the world right now. ng almost every state and country around the globe. Almost every political race is influenced by gay rights, and barely a day goes by when you don't see some LGBT-related story in the media. !n Canada_'s recent e_lec~ion, gay marriage was a crucial issue. Dun_ng campaigning, qonservative leader Stephen Harper claimed that overturning Canada's equal marriage law would be one of his first priorities. The Tory Party did win the election, but the results were less about rights than a country unwilling to trust a scandal-ridde ral ;. Fortunately, with a minority government even smaller he Liberals before them, the Conservatives will most likely be unable to change the marriage law. Continuing his homophobic policies, President Bush renewed his attack on gay families in his recent State of the Union Address. Addres · a joint session of Congress the p~esident said that "ma ericans, especially parents, still have deep concerns about the direction of our culture and the health of our most basic institutions. They are ' concerned about unethical conduct by public officials. and discouraged by activist courts that try to redefine marriage." "Trying to draw comparisons between the reprehensible ~cts of ~nethic~I politicians with fair and independent Judges 1s both ridiculous and wrong," said Joe Solmonese. president of the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). · Not is it ridiculous, but by continually demonizing gay and ian families, President Bush and other outspoken ns fan the flames of hatred. if someone like Jacob a already believes that gays are evil sinners then hearing the president make antigay statements only confirms that belief in his mind. The crusading Religious t, with their fire and brimstone wailing, will I fL1rtt1er rce those feelings. If he is already unbalan or prone to violence, it's just a matter of time before that hate will build to the point that it erupts into violence. What can we do to stem the tide of violence? There's an old proverb that says something along the lines of "in order to avoid repeating history, we have to learn from the past." If there's anything we can learn from the Black civil rights movement, it's that we have to keep fighting for equality. We can't let fear defeat us. We have to stand up against the bigots and hatemongers and demand our rights. So how do we do that? Vote! One of the easiest we can do to make a difference is elect fair-minded, p ressive officials. The only way to stop the homophobic cians is to get them out of office. Support gay-positive legislation and defeat antigay measur~ s. Many st~~E:~ are brin9i gay i~sues to the polls. We caf'! t afford to sit 1dly oy while ant1gay forces muster !heir troops with military precision. State after state is passmg same-sex marriage bans while other states struggle to P'.3Ss.antidiscrimination laws. Our opponents are well-organized and we!i-funded, so that makes it all the more important that we pay attention, spread the word. and vote Also don't be afraid to contact your representatives and let the~ ~now your feelings_ o~ important issu~s. As HRC president Joe _Solmones_e sa1_? rn,.reterence to the ~tt~cks at the gay bar rn MassacnuseLts, When a man walKs rnto a bar, asks Continued next page HEART TO HEART if it's a gay bar and starts shooting, there couldn't be any more glaringly obvious and enraging example that we need uniform hate crimes law and that Congress has stubbornly failed to act." Come out and speak up! This is perhaps the hardest, yet most important thing we can do as gay men and women. Coming out is a powerful statement that has been proven to change hearts and minds again and again. If you're already out, speak up. If your friends, family, and coworkers don't understand how these issues affect you, then how can they care? The mor o know and understand how homophobia adversely s their loved ones, the more allies we'll have on our side. I don't believe we are doomed to repeat history -- not if we can learn from the past and work together to create a better future. In 1964, Martin Luther King, Jr. said, "Nonviolence is the answer to the crucial political and moral questions of our time; the need for mankind to overcome oppression and violence without resorting to oppression and violence. Mankind must evolve for all human conflict a method which rejects revenge, aggression, and retaliation. The foundation of such a method is love." That message is as true today as it was then. Let's learn from our history and move forward in love. The views expressed in this column are my opinions only. You don't have to agree with them. I just ask that you read them \vith an open heart and mind. Isa's ouncil ak en's horale oncert eason 2006 "A Musical Feast" Thursday, May 11 Friday, May 12@ 8 PM Saturday, May 13 @ 8 PM "Summer in the City" Friday, August 25 @ 8 PM Saturday, August 26 @ 8 PM Williams Theater Tulsa Performing Arts Center For more information and ticket sa!es cai! 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At the United Nations recently, the United States joined with some of the most repressive governments to deny two international LGBT gro vernmental organization (NGO) observer status it comes to marginalizing the LGBT community, this administration will cozy up with anyone. Administration buddies like the American Family Association and Focus on the Family have been joined on the international scene by countries such as China, Zimbabwe, and Iran. Yes, you read that right - Iran. We may demonize that country publicly, but when it comes to privacy issues, George is a political whore. He'll become political bedfellows with anyone - an individual, an organization, or, in this case, a country he considers our sworn enemy - to further his radical°Christian right crusade against the LGBT community. Who would have been hurt if the International Lesbian and Gay Association (ILGA) and the Danish Association of Gays and Lesbians (LBL) were allowed to speak for the LGBT community at the United Natio.ns' Economic and Social Council (ECOSOC), which advises the international organization on economic and social issues? After all, there are 634 NGOs affiliated with ECOSOC. We're talking about groups like the Humane Society, the American Jewish Congress, and Greenpeace. But we're also talking ab like Focus on the Family, Feminists for Life of ica, the National Right to Life Education Trust Fund, and the Alliance for Marriage. I think it would only be fair tq balance out some of the homophobic political perspectives inherent in some of these organizations with a few LGBT voices But instead of a fair hearing - which ali othei NGOs who have requested representation have gotten - ILGA's and LBL's requests were summarily dismissed without any discussion. The dismissal, which was done by the ECOSOC NGO committee, happened after ILGA and LBL went through the rather exhausting process that got them to the point where they could even ask for a hearing. All of this was preceded by the behind-the-scenes maneuvering of Egypt and the Organization of Islamic Conferences to exclude the two groups. Rosanna Flamer Caldera, co-secretary general of ILGA, which ents a worldwide network of more than 400 LGBT zations, considers the exclusion "a clear violation of due process and an attempt to discriminate against LGBT NGOs on procedural grounds." Some may shrug their shoulders at the U.S. actions. But as 40 LGBT and LGBT-allied organizations pointed out to Secietary of State Condoleezza Rice in a Jan. 25 letter, the United States voted yes when the entire ECOSOC body voted in 2002 to include ILGA as an NGO. The groups, including the Human Rights Campaign, the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, Human Rights Watch, the National Center for Lesbian Rights, and the National Black Justice Coalition, asked Rice if it was now our country's policy to "oppose consultative status for all organizations working to promote the rights of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender people." If it is, this flies in the face of the State Department's own reporting on severe human rights violations based on sexual orientation or gender identity/expression. The department's 2004 report on Iran chronicled the executions of men. Its report on Zimbabwe noted that President Ro Mugabe has consistently denounced gays and lesbians, blaming them for "Africa's ills." So the question begs to be answered - how can the United States recognize human rights atrocities against LGBT people in other countries, yet refuse to give those who are repressed a voice in bringing that repression to light? We were more than happy to give voice to the Chinese students in Tiananmen Square who bristled against the yoke of that country's communist regime. Today, we're all about building democracy in Iraq. But let LGB stand up and speak for themselves? Never. And how make sure LGBT people won't be heard? We get into bed with our political enemies. If ever there was a situation that shows how morally bankrupt this administration is, this is it. I don't think Condi's written a response yet. But this year, there will be two great opportunities for the international LGBT community to respond for ourselves and shed light on the United States' complicity. ILGA's next world conference will be in Geneva from March 27-April 3, the same time the U.N. Commission on Human Rights will be in that city, and where the Commission's on-going discussion about sexual orientation and human rights is sure to continue. Later, in the summer, some 2,000 LGBT activists from around the globe will converge in Montreal from July 26-29 for the International Conference on LGBT Human Rights, which is sponsored by OutGames, an international LGBT sporting event that takes place right after the conference. "Our ultimate goal with this conference is to adopt what we're calling the 'Montreal Declaration,' an unequivocal affirmation that LGBT right are human rights," said Louise Roy, CEO of the conference and OutGames. "Once passed, we will do everything in our power to bring that resolution to the United Nations." It may be easy for our administration to ignore the events in Geneva. But when thousands of LGBT folks g miles north of our border, it wili be a bit more d turn a blind eye to the injustices we face each and every day and our collective resolve to stop them. Or, at least, it should be. EDITOR'S NOTE: One of Libby Post's firms, OutMarketing. biz, has been retained by Outgames Montreal 2006 to coordinate the event's United States' public relations activities. This column expresses her opinion and not that of her clients. The 0zar1<s STAR since 2003 ast Out by Liz Highleyman MARCH 2006 Summary : Past Our is a retrospective of key moments, personalities, and subjects in LGBT historv. Each , ' installment brings the past to life by exploring the diversity of the gay past and its impact on the queer present. February 1976 (30 years ago this month): British figure kater John Curry wins an Olympic gold medal. y is figure skating s As the most artisti etic events, figure skating is ely believed to be teeming with gay men - and, indeed, of the most renowned elite male skaters have been ·sexual. But the sport's fey reputation is I to the perceived gender nonconformity ants. It is impossible to know now whether early champion ater~ such as Jackson Haines, a ballet dancer by training o pioneered the modern artistic form of figure skating in 1860s, were queer. Lorrie Kim, creator of the Rainbow website, has compiled a list of 20 elite gay male skatrs, but only a few publicly revealed their sexuality while ey were champion contenders. American Ronnie Robertson, the 1956 Olympic silver edalist, was exposed as his former coach Mi- Kirby, in a memoir the of Robertson's (2000). The "Nureyev of the Ice, reat Britain's John reportedly made a little-noticed announcement that e was press conference shortly before winning e 19 c gold medal. The bronze medalist that r, Toller ston of Canada. mentioned affairs with men and women in his two- · :ihi,es; during 1973 World Championships, , he was se- Czech skater Ondrej Nepela, who went on to best red Cranston and win the title. In 1992, another was next after Cu come out during his competitive career; Hali ikely holds re skater to appear Fallen ngtime nadian champion Brian Orser was out when ex-boyfriend filed a palimony lawsuit. The best-known queer figure skater, Rudy Galindo - who "an openly gay trailer-trash ached the highest levels of pairs skating then-partner, Kristi Yamaguchi, when she decided on singles competition. After several years of , ances, a bout with alcohol and drug and the loss of his brother and two coaches to alindo went on to win the 1996 U.S. Nationals. his own HIV diagnosis and the cement of both Galindo has reoeatedlv challe, conservative rid - for example: performing to "Somewhere ainbov( and a medley of Village People songs, ueer ehte male skaters have included U.S. naRobert Wagenhoffer (who had long-term mmantic relationships with former junior champion Billy Lawe and professional show skater Sylvain Beauregard) champion ice dancer and choreographer Rob McCall, ' 1978-80 Canadian national champion Brian Pockar and former Dutch n~tional champion Edward van Campen; all but Beauregara and van Campen died of AIDS. Galindo once estimated that 98 percent of elite male skaters are ~traight. But "in the real trenches of show skating," according to openly gay skater Christopher Nolan, "guys are out all over the place." Many male figure skaters have described the harassment they received for pursing a sport considered to be queer. In reaction, skaters such as Kurt Browning, Philippe Candeloro, and Elvis Stojko emphasized a macho image and athletic .style !n the 199~s; others, including three-time U.S. champion Michael Weiss, regularly show off their wives and children. Current U.S. national champion and top Olympic contender Johnny Weir has tripped the gaydar of many with his flamboyant outfits and effeminate mannerisms, though he has yet to explicitly state his sexual orientation. Despite its queer reputation, the skating establishment has long mandated strict gender roles. Although things have come a long way since officials at the 1920 Olympics scolded Theresa Weld for performing an "uni ke" jump some judges still look askance at male skate o do too' many spins and spirals. So strict are the gender conventions that pie gold and bronze medalists Katarin mas provoked shock by performing in nontraditional costumes such as knee breeches and full-length leotards, p~ompting t~e spo.rt's st governing body, the International Skating Union (I to institute a rule that female competitors must wear skirts that cover their derrieres. While male skaters are often assumed to be gay, the sport's requisite femini renders queer women invisible. There are no openly le or bisexual women skaters among the elite ranks, though some of today's female champion contenders are so young that it may be premature to speculate about their sexuality. But a number of queer women participate in nonelite adult competition. including International Gay Figure Skating Union cofounder Laura Moore, who started skating at age 32 after divorcing her husband and coming out as a lesbian. Ironically, no sport emphasizes the appearance of hete~osexuality more tha~ competitive pair skating and ice dancing. The ISU regulation that teams must consist of "a man and a lady" has caused grief for elite skaters who wish to perform with same-sex partners. The ISU does not sanction events that do not adhere to its rules, but the inter nati?nal_ Ice Skating Institute and son:ie national governing ~odIes, _includ I S1:ateis Figure Skating Associat; on and offer sanctions or waivers for the Gay Games and similar events. "[T]he thrili of seeing a, op,enly gay pair team h_as nothi do with triple jumps," said Moore, who won tne 1994 y Games ice dance competition with her partner, Linda Carney. For further reading: Brennan, Christine. 1996, _Inside Edge: A Revealing Journey into the Secret World of Figure Skating_ (Anchor), Galindo, Rudy, and Eric Marcus. 1997. Icebreaker: The Autobiography of Rudy Galindo_ (Pocket Books). 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Mexican Masters pays humble recognition to Mexico's violence, war, and suffering, the United States Depression, and the artists' subsequent impression of inhumanity in an industrialized nation. For more information visit okcmoa.com. AIDS BUDGET: Among the president's proposals: Medicaid - our nation's largest provider of HIV/AIDS treatment and care - would face cuts of $5 billion over five years and $12 billion over 10 years, forcing those trimmed from Medicaid rolls to seek care through programs that are already overextended and under-funded. also pro cutting $15 million Nationa Institutes of Health and increases abstinence-only education funding by $28 million. State AIDS Drug Assistance Programs would receive $70 million under the president's plan to ease the waiting lists IDS program would receive a welcomed increase of $14 million et this is short of what is necessary to meet s needs. rge Congress to edicaid instead of weaken it, and put sound science over ideology in educational programs," added Solmonese. 1/12TH PAGE CLASSIFIED AD SPACE NOW AVAILABLE in the CALL FOR RATES 91 B.B35.7B87 or email: ozarksstar@sbcglobal.net Delivering Quality, Value, Integrity and Trust in Affordable Advertising Service. Advice Column! Kittens, as the whirlwind month of love has once more blown its course, Let us wipe the proverbial love awav from our chin, and move forward. Uncle spent most of the mont~ exhausted\y entertaining. A man briefly touched me; so briefly, uncle did not realize he had already reached the climatic point in the relationship. Alas Uncle finding himself once more on the hunt while looking for a aood man. Leaving me asking the uestion, how can someone be so bootylecious and such ty at the same time? Hmm I have to ponder that for a while. After seeing the much taiked about "Brokeback", Uncle f?und himself_ inspired to take riding lessons. After a positively productive week at the horse farm, while working with the trainer, Uncle has joined country riders everywhere. It took sweat, and teacs. One must be dedicated while working to achiev:3 ~ goal. ! have decided that next month, I may graduate to ndmg a horse. You know what they say Rome was not built in a day, baby steps! ' This mon~h Uncle has received several letters asking abo~t ~e~mg revenge on a lover's betrayal. Well, Kittens, Uncie Is Just shocked. A ay man, after revenge; it is just n?.t donea€l Snicker s · Kittens, taking the higher road w1il always allow you to mature into a well rounded. wonderfully developed, lo · responsible adult. Uncle ·encourages g~od karma, as w spiritual and personal growth. That said, karma helps those who help themselves. This month i dedicate my words of wisdom to a!I those ~ho h?ve found tha~ strange strap under the bed, hidden ooots m the closet, text message from the blonde Twink in the gym, who despite his physically delicious self, cant not seem to manage a sentence stiUcture. Since Uncle has given you pearls, let's get to the good stuff. The following is an actual list of carefully planned out exercises in revenge which uncle has used over the years. I am sure the men who each were carefully inspired by, will have a mo~ent of ~ecall whi!e reading a bit of their own history here m Uncles corner m Queerdom. Each one primed for specific levels of revenge. Kittens, a side dish served best when cold, I believe I feel a bitte; wind blowing in as we speak, bundle up kittens, it is going to be a rather frosty month of march. 12) Sleep with his best friends. Expected, yet sucker punch in the gut. 11) Take your self-shopping with his credit cards buying yourself that well deserved, while also delicious, little outfit you have always wanted. You have earned it. I mean the time on your knees alone warrants it. 10) Delivering a message to his co-workers that the clinic calla~ '.3nd you ~eed to speak to him _urgently, allowing all gossIpmg hags m ear shot to hear this, will defiantly deliver a certain message. 9) Informing the mother out of concern, of a horrible drug problem. Of course, this being the reason you have to leave him. • 8) Did I mention sleep with his closets and dearest friends? Oh, come now don't look at me that way. You have been eyeing them all along anyway. 7) Donate the bulk of his wardrobe to a nearby good will. Charity begins at home. 6) During conversations of the extreme vibe of hostility he is receiving from you, serve him a delicious cup of ex-lax cappuccino. This will allow for a few moments of him-time he so truly needs. 5) Go on Jerry and tell it all, going for the Emmy , for betrayed love interest. 4) Enter local hook up site under his name, hooking up with t~e _troll of all trolls,_ inviting h!m over unexpected by said vIctIm of course. Kitten, helping others is important. 3) Ciean the oven with his favorite label, leavina it in a pot on the stove. Cleanliness is next to cherliness. ~ 2) Announce to all of your friends, your inability of coping with on more night of his constant weeping after sex. ~) Deliver his t~ings, in a. box to his job with a note saymg good-bye, makmg sure his favorite sex toys are leaking onto the reception desk! Well there, it is in a nutshell. All is fair in love and revenae Kittens, I would wear a cup, this could be a full contact ~ sport d~pendinQ on the players involved. Those of you ?etermmed against bette~ advice, to foll~w this vengeful Journey, now have your flight plan. Sock !t and rock it, until the cockcrows, or feels your wrath, whichever one comes first. Until next time, smooches from your favorite guru, and Tlddles too! The Ozarks $TAR'slnce 20f)3 ·. Do Gays Have a Choice? Whether homosexuality is a genetic redisposition or a product of environmental factors haE; be,en hotly debated for the past several decades. The heart of the matter is: Does a person have a choice about his or her sexuality? Science att~mpts to answer this compelling question in the feature article "Do Gays Have a Choice?" in the February/March issue of Scientific American Mind. New York, NY (PRWEB) - Whether homosexuality is a genetic predisposition or a product of environmental factors has been hotly debated for the past several decades. The he~rt of the matter is: Does a person have a choice about his or her sexuality? Science atte answer this com · g question in the feature article ays Have a Cho . " in the February/March issue of Scientific American Mind. In addition to learning the science behind the matter, one may take the test and find out "How Gay Are You?" on Scientific American Mind's Web site (www.sciammind. com). According to the article's author, Robert Epstein, a Harvard- trained PhD, sexual orientation is not a black or white matter; rather, he concludes that sexuality falls on a continuum with heterosexuality and homosexuality at opposite ends. People may be attracted to members of both sexes b · determined by both genetics and their environment. n explains that genes determine wh~re '!"~ start but society exerts tremendous pressure on the md1v1dual to conform. Because the majority of people are "straight," most of us become heterosexual. The article also discusses the possibility of an individual changi sexual orientation. Whereas some people have as,serted that genes alone determine sexual orientation and that changing from gay to straight is not possible, others ha ued that homosexuality is a learned behavior and th 10ic:e.Epi;tein V11r,tes that changing orientation is possible for people whose sexuality lies toward the middle of the Sexual Orientation Continuum, but for most gay people such a switch would be very difficult if not impossible. "Do Gays Have a Choice?" presents a new school of thought that an individual's sexual orientation is not black or white, straight or gay. Instead an individual's sexual orientation falls along a continuum. 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TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Dares, challenges, and temptations from friends should be considered very carefully, if at all. Better to rely on your usual common sense. If you're hu for a new experience, check out local museums or a fore film. GEMINI (May 21 - June 20): If you must make any public presentations, double-check every detail, and be prepared to handle any screw-ups with good humor. If you come under attack, look for underlying motives. You could charm an apparent enemy into becoming a very good friend. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): You're better off listening to disputes than participating in them - unless you really want intense criticism. Still, arguments could be educational, and being very open-minded will make you look mighty attractive. LEO (July 23 -August 22): Refresh yourself on safe-sex information and techniques. Make sure to get the info first! Other fun and games are especially risky now. Be very careful of any sort of sporting injury. 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Think ahead about what you need, and take your time looking for it. CAPRICORN (December 21 - January 19): Although small disasters abound, do your best to maintain a calm, mature demeanor. Every problem has a solution. Track each one to its roots; consult with whomever you must. The clean-up process will uncover new strengths, and annoyances may then prove blessings in disguise. AQUARIUS (January 20 - February 18): Dig up receipts and records, but let any real work on your taxes wait until late March. Trying to collect on debts from friends can be even more contentious than usual. Let that wait, too! Paying your own debts will save a lot of trouble. PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Be careful of what you say and where you say it. Your mouth could get you into trouble with the boss or other authorities. Letting off steam and preparing important arguments with friends will help. But avoid those arguments unless they are absolutely necessary! 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GltAY"S- ~:~ff lat ', ,',' , fellowship with its member ~sociati~s, donates thousands of dollars to cha#fy each year. The Gay and . of the United States enriched by the ed • through its sanctioning · the various events and . part of wh.at ~• call Gay Rodeo. Your local Rodeq Associatio(! rieeds your support, :~e fi:tn: fur'~ sdo'a cause. They Do!·. Page 5 Sooner State Rodeo .entertainment. The cast included Rachel Ward, Kris Kole, Anita Dickey, Pat La Association F d . Morte, Jonathan Brown, Kris Enloe, Un raiser Jamie Summers and Reba Lynn Cole. A by Greg Steele dinner and show to benefit SSRA was photo's by Chaz Rachel Ward lvfiss SSRA 2005 TULSA, OK_ Royalty was out :in full force March 19th around T-Town. A benefit to raise funds for SSRA's T-Town Rodeo. The event was hosted by Rachel Ward Miss SSRA 2005 and held at the Bamboo Lounge. The audience was delighted with the variety of Jamie Summers Miss Iowa 2004 Kris Enloe Mr. SSRA 2003-2004 also held at The Supper Club in Tulsa. SSRA's T-Town Rodeo kicks off the four states rodeo season on April 8th, 9t.h and 10th at the Tulsa Expo Square Arena 4145 E. 21st. This is the 1st rodeo for SSRA and their 3rd year of incorporation. For tickets and information visit the website at ,vvlw.soonerstaterodeo.com. Jonathan Brown Mr. SSRA 2005 Anita Dicky Miss Bamboo 2005 (by default) Page 6 APRIL 2005 by Andrew Collins "Galveston, Texas" Although America's Gulf Coast doesn't have any major gay beach resorts, the Texas barrier island of Galveston has steadily become a popular option. This scenic haven of sandy beaches, opulent Victorian houses, and touristy but engaging seafo?d restaurant~ ~d souvenir shops attracts quite a few gays and lesbians from Texas and the Gulf South - it's Just 50 iniles south of Houston. Galveston has a handful of accommodations that market specifically to the gay community, as well as a few lively gay bars. and discos. Many of the queer folks yoi,i're apt to meet around town either own second homes or rent cottages here. Late spring through early fall, the city absolutely swells with visitors,· but no matter the time of year, the gay presence tends to be relatively discreet.. You won't see same-sex couples holding hands around town, as Galveston remains first and foremost a ,destination for families and retirees, many of whom tend toward the conservative side. Nevertheless, with colorful architecture, a small but discernible arts scene, and a laid-back. demeanor reminiscent of both Key West and New Orleans, this city of 65,000 tends to be ii. little more open-minded and offbeat than any other on the Texas Gulf Co11St. As you approach Galveston _from metro Houston, the scenety offers li~e inspir~tion:_ suburban sprawl and strip-mall development give way to the presence of gnm, hulking 011 refineries. But once you cross G:alveston Bay on I-45, you enter a different world - a narrow 32-mile-long windswept coastal island. Several historic neighborhoods abound w,i~ stately old mansions and cheerful clapboard cottages, and the main drag along the ~hordine, J;eawall Boulevard bustles with seafood restaurants, chain hotels, and shops selling postcaicl.~, seashells, ;wimsuits, and sungiii.s~cs. . ·· · · If vou're a beach lover, you'll want to hang out around the shorefront neighborhoods, but the, city's vibrant and quirky personality reveals itself most strongly a C0Ul'!le, of miles north, in the downtown Strand Historic District, which overlooks Galveston. Bay .. '.fhls warren of palm-shaded cobblestone lanes verges on quaint, but for 11 few tall builclμigs arid the frequent presence of massive cruise ships tied up. in port. Although it's too .fai to walk easily between downtown and the gulf, the city's convenient trolley runs regularly between them. There are numerous attr.i.ctions to keep you busy around Galveston, the most famous being the Moody Gardens, a dazzling nature-oriented complex consisting of ~ee h~ pyramidal buildings housing a vast tropical rain forest, an aquarium, a?~ a s~ence museum. Other points of interest include downtown's Ocean Star Offshore Drilling Rig and Museum, in which you can explore an actual retired oil rig; the drlllllatic 1894 Gtand OpC?- House, which now presents theater and music events; and the 1877 Tall Ship Elissa. . . If you start to feel a little peckish, downtown's festive Yaga's Cafe is a Ion~~. filvonte for casual Caribbean-inspired &re; it books live reggae, blues, and jazz bands on weekend evenings. For extremely tll~ty .Southwestem and Mexic~ fue, including delicious :liri~p tacos with mango salsa, head to Playa de Loro. A spacious, elegant restaurant over,ooking Galveston Bav, Willie G's serves huge and rich portions of seafood, including lump crab au gratin and sn;pper Kathleen (blackened with shrimp, crab, mushrooms, and iemo~ _b~tter). Gay-popular Mosquito Cafe, despite its pesty name, might just serv~ the mos_t soprusttcated and polished contemporary cuisine in town. This charming space with tall WU1dows exudes understated elegance. . .................... continued next page. Page 7 Good bets from the eclectic menu include rare yellowfin tuna over rice noodles and veggies with a trio of spicy Pan-Asian sauces, and farfalle pasta with artichoke hearts, calamata olives, pine nuts, and feta cheese. Yes, it's a chain, but downtown Galveston's Starbucks is a particularly appealing spot for a light bite, with a nice-size sundeck offering views of cruise ships pulling in and out of port, and several plush armchairs. Another good place for a snack, Java 213 offers plenty of character and warmth, with its high ceilings and vintage decor. Garza's Kon Tiki is the most popular gay nightclub downtown. It's in a modern building with kitschy, Mardi Gras-inspired decor, and it's steps from several great restaurants. Garza's, which has been going strong since the 1960s, draws a varied crowd. Women and men of all ages come to admu:e some of the best female impersonators in Texas (great drag shows are staged Friday and Saturday nights). The city's other three gay bars are down by·the beach. With a second-floor deck that offers superb gulf views and a great location, Undercurrent .is the snazziest gay disco around, drawing a trendy crowd for dancing and cruising. In a. slightly ragtag neighborhood on the east side of town, the low-keyed Third. Coast Bar overlooks the Gulf and has a small deck. outside. Robert's Lafitte is another neighborhood bat with an easy-going personality. Galveston claims a pair of Texas's most renowned historic hotels, both of them run by the gay-friendly Wyndham hotel chain. Anchoring the heart of downtown's Strand Historic District, the Tremont House captures the old-world dignity and warmth of a European boutique hotel. The 119-room property lies within steps of countless shops and restaurants, and rooms have marble baths and fluffy pillow-top bedding. A 10-minute drive south, the imposing Hotel Galvez offers a more peaceful setting. Even better, this regal 1911 grande dame overlooks the Gulf of Menco. Although rooms have such modern touches as high-speed Internet and cordless phones, the period decor thoroughly recalls the city's gilded era. You can sip cockwls at the pool's swim-up bar or relax to piano music over the Sunday champagne brunch. It's top-notch, all-around. Another mainstream property with a strong gay following, the Queen Anne-style Mermaid & Dolphin resort sits along a . peaceful, tree-lined street a short drive from both the gulf and downt9wn. Luxury is the buzzword here: the eight· suites have double Jacuzzi tubs, plush hand-carved mahogany beds, gas fireplaces, CD players, TVs with VCRs, and fine artwork and antiques. It doesn't get much fancier than this. If, on the other hand, you're looking to save a little money and simply want a basic but inviting motel, consider the prosaic but reasonably priced Ramada Galveston, which is right across from the beach and near Undercurrent • nightclub. Galveston has one gay mini-resort that captures the romantic tradition of Key West: Paradise Guesthouse. Set in a modest but historical residential enclave just two short blocks from the gulf, this secluded and cozy brick compound is situated around a pool and fountain, fringed by fragrant and meticulously tended gardens and lighted in the evening by flickering torches. Common amenities include a hot tub, several patios, and a common room stocked with snacks and soft drinks. The mood is more romantic than frisky - it's a perfect retreat for gay and lesbian co~r,le.s looking to celebrate a special occasion. There are three large suites and two smaller but still inviting guest rooms, all with refrigerators and TVs with VCRs. Finally, if you're planning on visiting with a few friends and you want to enjoy the convenience and privacy that comes with staying in your vety own summer house, consider renting one of the six beautiful bungalows available through Cottage by the Gulf. Just a half block from the gulf and convenient to picturesque Stewart Beach, these handsomely outfitted houses come in all different shapes and sizes, sleeping from 4 to 10 guests. The smallest, Magnolia House, has a wraparound deck; another has a small fenced yard that's perfect if you're traveling wi~ a dog. All have full kitchens, barbecue grills, espresso machines, stereos, cable TV with VCRs, and elegant furnishings, and you can rent them by the day, week, or month. Keep in mind that rates, which in summer begin at $125 nightly and $795 weekly, are about 20 to 30 percent less from October through April, making this a real off-season bargain. The Little Black Book Cottage by the Beach (810 Ave. L, 409-739- 0194, www.cottagebytbebeach.com). ...................... continued page 25 Page 8 Star's On The Plain Heart of America Mens Chorus Of Wichita WICHITA, KANSAS_HOAMC was conceptualized the summer of 2002 and created for a Christmas concert in December of 2002. A group of 5 guys wanted to sing and new that if they were going to sing in a mens chorus they were going to have to build it themselves. They then contacted Howard Webb and asked him if he would consider conducting the group. Webb is no stranger ro the Wichita Musical community. He has helped start other choral and musical organizations like the Wichita Chamber Chorale, a group that has flourished in the musical community of Wichita for over 25 years, and /the Plymouth Chamber Series. He has performed and conducted in many area venues. As Artistic Director/ Conductor of HOAMC his responsibilities include planning the concert, training the singers and conducting the concert. He is happy to tell you that his assistant conducror, Mark Walker, and accompanist John Cargile work very dose with him in all this work. The group has grown from 18 at the original concert to a present 50 men singing the upcoming concert. We have gained our 501c3 non-profit status this past year had successful fund drive and fund raising events. We have been invited to do a run-out concert sing tile national anthem for the river festival fireworks concert with the symphony, and are slowly but surely becoming recognized in the Wichita musical communitv as a talented and well prepared music~! organization. The group is diverse in all ways, from different religious backgrounds, race, careers and sexual orientation. Our requirement is that they are prepared to have fun and make music; all else is their personal business. And have fun we do. From reading the music for the first time co the learning process, building sets and taking the show to the stage for performance and the light come on and the audience roars as the curtain opens. As the curtain opens on "Thats Entertainment" vou will be invited to Be Our Guest (fro~ Beauty and the Beast) and our guest you will be from Hello Dolly to Le .Miserable and from Oklahoma to Chicago. .There is great music :.for mens chorus and HOAMC Chorus ;(HOAMC), now in their third season will be presenting Thats Entertainment, April 16'h and 17'h at 4:00. This concert will be at Mary Jane Teall Theater in Century II and will be music drawn from Broadway musicals. For tickets or more information call Kip at 316.264.2266 or www.hoamc.org Page 9 HEART OF AMERICA MEN'S CHORUS PRBSENTS. .. .......,.... BARB SCHOENHOFER SHA'\\-"N..;1\UCHAEL 1\-IORSE H0AJICt"EIGHT OF HEARTS"' • ••• SOUTH HIGHMADRIU-ALS A VJOWSll)llHl?S Saturday Aprll 16 - 4:00 pm AND Sunday .t\pril 17 -4:00 pn1 Century II -Mary Jane Teall Theatre Wichita, Kansas Tickets: $12 adv./ $15 door Call Kip.@ 264-2266 and llvenlngs Cl Week Also Open Holidays KENN Page 10 Daffy Lunch and Dinner Specials OHn 1 tam (ltflY Happy hpur 3-6 & 9 .. c1ose $t.7J .. t6oz$2.25-.23oz Bu.d U1Mlch-Uka Draws ~,.,,, free. HolldClt'$ qnd·~ Jv•nlt. &elur/id Monlhly Mc,v...ln $pedals Page 11 Diamond State Rodeo Association is proud .!9 present IN E K APRIL 22-24 2005 Uttle Rock, Atkansaa For ticket and parttcipation Information contact: www .dsra.org Or Call the Rodeo Hotline at: 501-960•7363 Visit www.eute. Spring Diversity Fall Diversity Ap_ril 1st, . November 4th, 5th, 6th Sprf~ & Fal 2005 Mntsincklde: ouldoor diYerslty festlva, vendors. drag show, king show. beat cantest, dlrlces, karaoke, country we$m, tarot, pride clseotlQ, peintball, fishing, boat rides, C8n1)1ng & BSQ's, fanlastic shopping. di;ing, live enterlaioment clld ........ nu:h fflOl81 Page 12 ,', ,, ' 4815 S~ttdi 0 Hatvard i~e'.~ Suite 424 Tulsa, OK 74135-3068 Phone: (918) 747-5466 Email: KellyKirbyCPA@sbcglobal.net accountmg needs of the GI.BT Community since 1982 Page 13 CANADA IS NOT THE ANSWER! by Greg Razer QUESTIONS During these past few months following the November 2°d election there seems to be nothing but questions within the progressive community. Some ask, "Should we take our mes to the right?" others ask, "Sh we take our message to the left?" or, "What did religious fundamentalist do to gain so much influence and power in this nation?" and of course, "Which way to Canada?" (The last question being the most disturbing to this observer.) These are questions that are being raised from the halls of the Capitol in Washington to the dinner table right here in the heart of the Midwest. Questions are also being raised in the LGBT community. "\Vas ii: too much to 'go after marriage'?" and "Do we wntinue the path that we are on, or push foi..n:iore realistic goals given today's political climate?" These quesi:ions too are being felt right here in our own towns and all the way to Washington. These are all broad and far-reaching questions that must be dealt wii:h and dealt with soon. However, perh;ps a more basic, fundamental question needs to be asked of us all as to how we ensure that the debacle of this past November never happens again. Did we as a community, and I as an individual, really do all I could to ensure victorv in November? , Think back for a moment to the months leading up IO the election. Never before have we seen so many conversations take place regarding national issues. How manv times did yo:, sit around a bar with your, friends for , Happy Hour and the marriage issue was discussed? How many times did you go to dinner with your loved ones and anger was expressed concerning the policies of President Bush? And now, how manv times did those discussions lead to · someone at the bar or table going to write a check or volunteer for a campaign to make sure the right men and women would be in office? The Greek philosopher Plato once noted, ''The price good men pay for indifference to public affairs is to be ruled by evil men . .., Ir is in that quote, first made thousands of years ago, that we find the problem that today's LGBT community faces. Our problem is not with our issues. We will not find our political problems by looking at elected officials that we think of as our "friends". Nor. will we find the answer by looking at those who oppose us. The answer to polii:ical problems that face the LGBT community are found right here at home, within our own community. PROVIDING THE RIGHT CURRENCY Many want IO see our LGBT political organizations begin to demand our rights be given to us by our elected officials. However, one cannot demand anything without the ability to back up that demand. When a person is elected to public office, he/she usually has certain issues that are most dear to them. With some legislators, LGBT equality is one of their issues and their support of our community is unwavering and our appreciation .is heartfelt. However, we must realize that there are even more legislators who are supportive, but LGBT equality is rarely one of their key issues. Therefore, when asking a legislator to support us in our efforts, we are essentially asking them to spend polii:ical capital on us, and not their own pet issues. To convince them to do so, we must show the official that. not only are we not a liability at electio~ time, that in fact, we are an asset to them. To accomplish this we must produce the three forms of currency every poiitician wants: Votes, money and ~ime. · On Election Day, many of us went about our daily business proudly wearing our "I Voted" sticker. We a:-e proud of that sticker because it shows that we did a part in making our ::iation and our state a better place to live . .. continued pg35 This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Life-Worker's Comp.-Home-Auto-Farm-Business Greg W. Tainter, LUTCF Office licensed in Missouri, Arkansas, Illinois & Colorado Post Office Box 339 Eureka, Missouri 63025 www .shelterinsurance.com Tel: (636) 938-5500 Fax:(636)938-3539 gtainter@shelterinsurance.com Sisters Talk Gay Battles with Weapons VStevens Llsa Miller-Jenkins, a lesbian once joined by civil union to Janet Miller-Jenlr.-ins, has decided to use laws designed. for. heterosexuals in order to win a custody dispute with her former partner. Lisa and Janet were joined by civil union in Vermont, where the couple decided to have a child using artificial insemination. When the couple split, Llsa, the birth mother, left Vermont (the state that recognizes homosexual unions) and moved to Virgina, where she thought she would be ensured full custody of the child she shared with Janet because Virgina docs not,reco~e · homosexual unions. Anything to win, rigli.t? Luckily for Janet, Vermont does not allqw; ., · that kind of creative manipru9:tio!i, of:theJaw. The state of Vermont says' lesbiiin 'co'tiples .. joined by civil union who have children using artificial insemination should be treated no differently than heterosexual couples who choose the same procedure or choose to adopt. Both women are legal parents of the child and Llsa has no more rights to the child than Janet does. . . What we see here is a lesbhm who enjoys those equal rights and freedoms that gay unions provide only if she is on the winning side of the law. Wnen she's not guannteed a win, she simply turns to archaic heterosexist laws that srack the odds in her f.i.vor. Millions of gays and lesbians in the United States still do not have the right to a civil union or a marriage: Lisa Miller-Jenkins enjoyed that right in Vermont, then moved to Virginia to take advantage of discrimination gainst gays and lesbians. Lisa is cheating. She's cheating just as · badly as George W. did when he used the gay ban to win votes at the polls. When homosexual couples accept those rights and freedoms associated with gay unions, we also accept all the · accompanying responsibilities. Children are a large responsibility. When we decide to share that responsiblity with another partner, our own desires tllke a backseat. Homosexual couples joined by civil union (or marriage in Massachusetts) who decide to raise childteri together, . then. ultimately sever tn,eir. r~latio°'s¥p, will'. &c.e riiany chilleo:gef! in. tJie. c~drts .. , ,·,,, ,·,-· , '.,. ''; .-emo B's •. jurisdiction, the · st:lte best equipped to help the former couple deal with the custody dispute. The best thiilg to come out of Ilsa Miller-Jenkins' creative maneuvering is awareness. Society has become more aware of the mess Clinton's Defense of Marriage Act has created in child custody disputes. I refuse to believe the courts will allow these kinds of messy disputes to continue for too long. Page 15 Guess that I am just a '\vild and crazy guy'' but I just don't see what all this crap about same-sex marriages is all about. Seems as thou the "religious right" is always on somebody's case. First it was the blacks and then the Jews and then the horrible Russian communists and now the homosexuals. They always have to have their "flock" hate someone so that they can get more money out of them. They WANT their "flock" to hate! After all isn't this more or less what religion is all about? Hating the people that don't agree with you? But what I would REALLY like to know is where are the Jerry Farwell's and all the other religious right leaders when it comes to Catholic Priests molesting little children? For the life of me I cannot possibly understand why they have not jumped on the bandwagon to degrade the Catholic Church for their actions! If anyone else would molest children they would have their ass thrown in jail so fast it would make their head spin but because the Catholic Church has so much power in the world they get off with only a slap on the wrist. It just doesn't make any sense to me at all. Living here in the midwest can be fun but there are still a lot of questions to be answered. Lucky for me I live near a large city and don't have to get real close to all my neighbors. Same sex marriages is NOT giving special treatment to us, it is mereiy giving us the SAME rights as all other Americans. I have some older gay friends who said that they had wanted to serve in the Army and Navy but couldn't. They wanted the benefits of serving in the Armed Services such as hospitalilzation, education and GI benefits on getting a house, etc. but they were denied. They were not wanting speciai treatment. They were mereiy · wanting the same treatment as all Americans. The State congressmen here in Oklahoma, Kansas, Missouri and Arkansas are only playing i:o special interest groups and could care less about us. This is very sad to say but it is plainly the truth. We have made a hell of a lot of progress i..11 the past few years but it is a VERY uphill battle. I don't want much out of life, a nice place to live, a nice job, a nice person to love, live with and to be able to live my life as I want to. I don't want to bother anybody and I don't want anybody to bother me. Even thou there are laws passed for Blacks and Jews eventually there will be laws passed for Gays however just because laws are on the books doesn't mean that the average American will change their minds about us. They will forever be biased and narrow-minded. I sure would like to think that some how, some way, some day all this would change for the better and hopefully it will. Until then I will just go day by day and enjoy life in my own way. Teaching Activism, Leadership, and Knowledge P.R.I.D.E. invites all college and high students, as well as activists and community members to TALK's Spring 2005 conference at the University of Arkansas in Fayetteville. This conference is a chance for students and community members to meet up, share, leam, org,.nize, and have fun. The intended effect will be a strengthened LGBT community and great impact on grassroots efforts. Though our last two conferences have been Ark.ansas focused, we are inviting anyone and everyone from AR, OK, MO, and KS this year because of the location of Fayetteville in proximity to the four state area. More than anything, this is a rejuvenating experience for those with activism experience and good training for those with little. So check out the website and convince yourself that it is the only piace to be on APRIL 1st anci 2nd. Come experience a weekend in Fayetteville-the best place to be gay in Arkansasii For more information call: 479-575-3880 or visit www.uark.edu/-pride Page 16 "AN EVENING OF HOPE" WITH PAT KUTTELES FRIDAY, APRIL 8th AT PITTSBURG STATE UNIVERSITY Press Release: PITTSBURG, KS_ The Pittsburg State University Queer Straight Alliance, a non-profit organization, Presents "An Evening of Hope" with Patricia Kutteles, to benefit Servicemembers Legal Defense Network. The event will be held Friday, April 8 at 6pm on the Campus at Pittsburg State University - Pittsburg, Kansas (Crimson & Gold Ballroom of the Overman Student Center) A black tie affair with silent auction and dinner. Reservations are required: $25 per person or $40/couple (For more information, or to RSVP, contact Brandon Plott at brandon@psuqsa.org.) Patricia Kutteles will be the keynote speaker. Patricia Kutteles, whose son Barry Winchell was murdered at Fort Campbell Kentucky after his fellow soldiers assumed he was gay, has worked tirelessly with SLDN to battle "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" and has spoken at numerous events across the country. Guests who are coming from out of town can contact the Comfort Inn and Suites of Pittsburg, Kansas and receive a room with either 2 queen size beds or one king size bed for $52.00 USD per night. The hotel room block is valid for the 8,9,10 of April. Contact Comfort Inn at (620) 231-8800. FOR MORE INFORMATION, OR TO RSVP, contact Brandon Plott at brandon@psuqsa.org. On Saturday April 9th 2005 beginning at 9:30 PM we will be hosting the First Annual MrJMs./Miss Kansas Gay University Student at 4 Oaks Golf Course in Pittsburg, $5 cover Charge 18+ Applicants Must be enrolled full time at any Kansas University FREE HIV TESTING,NO NEEDLES! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711 Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the last Sunday of each month between 5PM and 6PM. For your convenience you can aiso call 206-6179 for an appointment. We use the Ora-sure method which does not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentialit-f. You may also request Booklets on AIDS for People of Faith through the PO Box listed above. Spirit of Christ MCC Joplin "Serfling A Healthier Community" Page 17 t" INMALE Page 18 cori.tihti this)1;ap pegpl~;s, e11;ch.sta' checks· not allow rule .. The issue is YOU Iuv'e.to. i,~: tn~ watch: dog, you have. to ~pealf U ,_fo' . bark andy injustice co We don't n bias, religious indifference or spealoi:igTcff :i: gteit stil:te oi" a · great nation. We don't.need tllore GLBT bars · that mistreat _us or exploit our . communitf-.Whai WC ~cd ,are tnore groups like•-B.::'G . . .. National Gav atf and churche; like\tJtli Christ, Met that commitments · accept second · · class' citizen· . '<ve th . . . . >'that · in .t he· su.. b&. :. 6f.D .. r: M.. aitili :I..rithef- !forg , • JR and-~dbi as welFas :some 'of our · · · , leaders; &ET'i.4-IE, : .:: ;:,, if.' ·:., ·i{' , ., 'f .. :,J . . the Soutlietn Baptist Conv;entiori. .. the "J.IJli.~hville betlifration~'';;ri •stiie-1~:i · ~tffig~;,;, i~ which it stated ifs' opposition to-same-sex based on C it calico, "the designed of.one man ·Steven Discip~es of the N~.riai. Gay . v .. i;;..; .. ,.~~us esponds with ".A'.~;:~~;,in tnet£Jt~stian Church Page 19 Steve Urie from pg 18 ·MCC's Troy Perry Wins California (Disciples of Christ) .and a former Marriage Lawsuit! Thirty-five Years Southern Baptist minister, I am saddened Separate His First Milriage Lawsuit in 1970 And Court Victory in 2005. "I have and disappointed that leaders of the worked and prayed for this dav for 35 Southern Baptist Convention continue to years. Today~ our prayers wer~ present their discrimination against answered," says Perry. lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender At a Monday afternoon press Americans in the guise of compassion. conference at the Los Angeles law offices While diey conclude that, "marriage is a of riot_ed attorney Gloria Allured, Perry lifetitjie union of one man and one said, "I have worked for this day and womfu, according to the Bible, and may prayea for. this day for 35 years. Today, b · · · · · · · our prayers were answered." not cq~defin:ed," these so-called Bihlical · Perry also noted; "Monday's ruling is literali~ts ignore the fact that marriage in a significant step but not a final step _ the l3ible _has been used to justify tO~?:fd ~arriage equality." The Superior . , of,coricuhiries·iri. the case' of Couit'of. California will bold a review . (Genesi;·l6t3);·~·excuse:f<i/ •.seisi6.ti~9n;~cb.30, and the order extrav~t poly~y in the case of King.· enforcing the judge's ruling could be Solomon (1 Kings H:1-3) apd as a issued aftpat time, It is also:widely desperate, but infedor; 'alternative to 4ta1: state officials will appeal burning in lustful celibacy in the case of . . . . . to the California Appeals th A:.. • Court or_ the. California Supreme Court . .. e A'f:'o.stle Paul. (1 Cor•i. .n thians 7: 8). .· •• !'.The ru· ling by Judge Richard Kramer . Their sd;iptui2Ligi:iorarice only . • • gives hope t<> .all. of us," said Petry, undercuts tlieir.message: The ori.lything noting that the judge is both a Roman you'll l~arn ab?ut mai:tfage fron;i .reading Catholic and a Republican !:l!~~~~~~ir:t!th ~I~7d moon~~::a:n:d s~:r;t;~!: giant rais~d in the Southern Baptist .church and leap' for mankind. This court victory is a their. . . .. :i~-whit keeps small step for the GLBT community and th~tn with eacli. · a giant leap for humankind. Let your ._ 'JJliey,will s b~( not hw;nanity be the example for others. :will sti th~ dgai:ettc: . . . . t don't. . ,think of setYing S_il!Ve Urie has been an activist for over . ope of thetn wine. Their women can thirty years and is the pastor of the local · we,~ tr1ake up and they can eat pork but · MCC, Spirit of Christ MCC in Joplin, MO. Lo~;1'nows you cari}taccept that two men:, or women can love each other. They can ac:cept marrying concubines iri the Bible or having multiple wives because it was to procreate and multij?,le the world'.s citizenry out they can't' accept I might love my: partner .. Apru 1 M.2. SPRIN.l Diversity w .. kend BOTH .. , ·•,· 1CQUN & Gal coatutt VALENTINE'S, Concertsarif oiler Ewra Qlver•lty BEARBI CONTEST A BBQ LU#CH www.DiversityPride.com Page 20 Star Scene . me's Wichita, Kansas to our distribution area. With· a vibrate g1ty community, the people are not only goodlooking but very friendly. You will have a great time in Wichita. Include this growing city on the confluence of the Arkansas and Little Arkansas Rivers in your nex.t travel plans! Page 22 Quotable Quotes "This is now the law of the land in seven Canadian provinces and one Canadian territory. This is a decision taken bv our courts based on our Charter, of Rights. This is a question of equality .... The purpose of the Charter of Rights is to protect minorities ... against the oppression of the majority. ... One of the most damaging things, I believe, to the Canadian concept of equality and respect for each other would be in fact if we allow the Charter to be attacked." Canadian Prime Minister Paul Martin defending Canada's plans to legalize full same-sex marriage nationwide, at a Jan. 17 press conference in India. Courts already have legalized same-sex marriage in eight of Canada's 13 provinces and territories. Diversity Festival Eureka ncirs; AR EUREKA SPRINGS, AR_ Eureka Pride announces there 1st outdoor festival .event to be held Saturday April, 2nd from 1 pm to ????. The event will feature karaoke and dance party, food and beer vendors, mot readings, boat rides, archery, paint ball, live entertainment and more. At 5pm the stage will be set for "Drag Queens in Heels" drag show. A shuttle service will provide transportation to the outdoor festival event for those who prefer not to drive. Location is about 10 minutes west of Eureka Springs on Hwy 187. If your driving to the event, just iook for the waving rainbow flags. For more information visit: www.eurekapride.com Page 23 I Dee "bar service" ...... !!! What! a wonderful month 1brch was! Not too much ·snow, not too cold and evecyoO:e seemed to be a lot happier. I found the bar scene ro .be much better and nof as much bitdiirig around. the pool table. The same ·oJa:pfople who always bitch still "always bitch" but' that, is tliefr problem.. Why bitch for the hell of it? 0nly bitch. about things that you really liave control over. One thing that I would re'ally:like,to bitch about however is Bartenders!·'There·are a lot of great bartenders and)rr"bsthi&tlidm· ue very friendly: Bur there are a some of them who are vecy obnoxious! If they· don(t,'._like beiog·a bartender, why nor lo.ok' fur•aootifa'ijobl ,.-1;,. bartender MBST, be a "people'!\pett\dn:~ iBartcnders are NOT:the owners :6{ the bar, they are merely employees of the. t':li'.: ;l'.like• J:;air stylists or :iuiy other ~Ef!~=: had. never' .b~eii tt(Tulsa liefbre:. Thi! bartende.t didri't'even: say "bi" to biro: · He- just loo'ke'a' lifhiln n:nl:lf tJ:le. guy iold;liim wbat he wanted tcickirik:, ·He'thin,put thedtink down in front of hilii aaH 'ditln!f ~en tell ruin how much it was. Tbefr Ther giving him liis change the bartender·w.cnt= back over to the guys ·at the end of the, bar thiit he was tlllkmg with and completely ignored the new customer. · After one drink the out. of town businessman left the bar arid went to another bar. I happened to see him later .in the evening at another bar and scirted talking with him. He explained how rude the bartender at the fust bar was so he left after tlie first' tlrlnlt.' · At the secorid bar that he went to he Sllld that the bartender was very friendly, asked if he was new in town, introduced him to a few of the guys in the bar and:railfy IJU!de him feel right at home., He stayed at that bar, for several drinks:. He~siud that often when, lie· travels around on business that most bllrtcllders ·are very rude. •. T couldn't' expktln why that y.'liS• Seems to me that bartenders shorild be the friendliest people in town. When gays go to a n~ town whether on business or if they, have just moved there or only frequent a bar once in a while, ·the bartender should go out of his way to be extra 'nice to everybody. Sadly to say but when a gay person comes from out of town to Tuisa or Oklahoma City or Springfield, or Joplin, the first place that they go is to the gay bars. If they are not friendly there, where will they be fnendly? Bar owners are always bitching about no business or not enough business. If their bartenders were nicer, and friendlier to the patrons, then they would stay in the bar longer and drink and have fun. Doesn't this make sense? But some bar owners and bartenders would rather. bitch about no· b~sin;ss and no tips and, then wonder whv th~y don't :h~i ~ore b~siness. Oc~asion:illy I go to .a stpight ,bar arid .the ~attenders are always friendly! Why not in a gay bar? · But, d1en you walk into other bars and the bartender greets you by name, asks how your day has been and is real upbeat. That is the way it SHOULD be! M~.tig it a very pleasant experience for everyone should be the goal of all bars and bartenders. Luckily for me I look over 21 so I am rarely .asked for my ID but some bartenders and door people are downright rude when they ask to see ID's. I knpw that legally they need to check everyone but they could at,Ieast be nice about it. I love the bars in Oklahoma and get to Springfield and Joplin sometimes on weekends. But sometimes the attitudes of the bartenders turn me off so much that I just walk out and go to another bar whei~ they· are· friendly·; They should not !:>ring thei; problems to them at work. If they don't. like. their jobs, then quit and find another job that suits them better. -Why should customers have to put up with their bitching and problems. One of the worst .thirigs a bartender can do· is bad mouth the bar. owiler which has happineil several times. Luckily for me I usually go to the bars with a group of friends and we carry on,our own co~crsatian,but when we see someone come inCthat we don't know we like · to introduce ourselves fo them. Whether they aie new:in town, just · tri~ved here or iust came out, it is alwavs ' ru~e fo meet n~w. peopl~. Going out tb the bars SHOULD be a fun experience! Pa~e24 lesoiat?prcs; fut Hi . .· · ·. years. Slie serv~a for tlii:e'e :f~iis as• tli{'co~cliair of ttie Boaret:'Bf ·. ·. dir~~tors bfNei York' City's Lesbian,. Gay, Bis~xfral; iha Tr:liisg6~a~r ·co'rti'μittiii#· Center,· whei:~ she founded a . . . ' . grp\iodbt~:iking · · called ·«Jo Our by ;E'aiita .fy{artinac APruFzoos Beltway ie . Our two most prominent national :f,GBT organizations· recently• announced changes· · that, on the surface, may seem like. business as · usual. But;, in fact; tliese shifts could have a big impact on the course of o:ur, movement ... . First,· die National;G:ay and Le!!bian!Task Force created a new Department of Public Policy & Governmental,Affairs, whicb:will lobby me.mbers of C?»gr~ss,;and government agencies for LGBT rigllts ublic: ,; . ~tatement. ab'out,the. P.CW: • . one that,o Then;. Campaign. die~ odth l press attent;oh for th announcenienti.of its . HRC's neW:~h~ad will ___ ...;.. _ _.;. __ ..,;_;.;;._..,;..,;_,.. ;.._..,;_.;,,1 b:ian wh of EMIEY's List; a: grcnip that help's ·pro-choic office; . • : ,. . . . . . . What struck:. nic about these two ant\ounce&.inti .. inodifkations for the two gtouj:>s,,which - espedf:illy in been. at odds poU!=ically and ideologicallv, not to tilt.titi NGLTF,.i~Rresenting die more,progressive:wing,of out movement;,~ fot many .. Y.e:lrS. 9cc11pif:d a b~.ck. sea.t in' ~l!:.shingtoni,gay pblltic~,,~~rkirlg!:mbre at the state anc:l}ocal ky-els OD; aμttgay initiatives · , to Hit€. As a result, :we'veJiaa oasically one vision .of IB.~@'11,V .; : . ind.it's a yisigij. · ·. · f us hav[f6und,too: centrist. Ind~ed;<thete\was aJ~t. ~f talk after .Cneryl .the post at HRC that she was forced,,out for. m~kinit,.the. oiganizittfon foo y Democl::atic,.while uoder:,heti ;predecessor., Elizabeth B1rchtthe ,a· more. '.\pragg:,.atic/'., .bipartisancfaqe. . . .Now. iitepsito have a m1;1ch-l01;1de.n iY<:>ia~,in Washington. The grollp .has . 1.,IDJ!J9bbying • team,thal include~, lUlloi;ig others,• El~angr C:lintoJ?. ll<lministration of;iciaj.< and, intdguingly, . Am~er t,ac.tiv.ist ~.pq ?as long,p~e~.iavohrcd·in. AI:DS organizing an.cl. ga! .. '~ .also ,a (oi:thnght s~eaker on queer sexuality; her essay fp~s ~s:,A Queer GttLE>reaming Her0Way Home;. pro · over well' with many. Republican - · an:d I:>emocratic - !aw ., . ·.• . . . .. · At the s~nre time; HR:<£ seems to'b~ ripping a page. from NGL'fF's playbook and ~ass:ssi!fg the• im~o~cc ,e>floc:tl LGBT organizing, After till, as our • • · · · · oest-tanded orga:ntzattQn, l:£8.(i took most of the biame whcn,11 ameodri:,;ents . . . . . . ~; bu.ring his first we~k:on the So~~esc: ,sa . . · i::f9SS-countty tour. to talk. to. le;ade.i:s 1and offiq~~ ''I've. time in the last 10. years,~ " ~ol.l;Ilo.ntse .has $!Jlted .. Hi~ . list was i:o ''.go out acrotisF. 10 tt,le cf.fort to lielp wo~n j~ef . _ . · J_::~oin what I've read aodiit hitn~ Soimonese seems to suit .his 11ew. employer to a T. He·s someone who pleases Republicans and Democrats alike, ·as C'."'1:ideooed by the glowing bipartisan praise he's alffaoy picked up. But also, duritig the 2004 election, l ~ 1 i I Page 25 Lesbian Notions . ... he made a difficult, some would say "pragmatic" move - EMILY's List funded a Democratic pro-choice woman who was also in favor of passing the rabidly antigay Federal Marriage Amendment. While Solmonese argues he was just upholding his organization's mission, the move raised t.h.e ire of many of us who believe political and social movements should stick together, not sell each other out. It will be interesting to see how the sometime-rival NGLTF and HRC adjust to each other's turf. In quintessential NGLTF style, executive director Matt Foreman has already put forth his belief that there is plenty of room for "multiple voices" on Capitol Hill. In contrast, Solmonese told The Advocate that "we've got to come together and make sure .. :we share a common vision." You can probably tell that I'm a bigger fan of NGLTF than of HRC. Personally, I don't think any social movement can have a "common vision," unless it's a false one that's only the vision of the most vocal and powerful among us. But actually, I'm optimistic about both these changes in our two top groups. NGLTF has a lot to offer in the realm of federal lobbying, most notably a view of the LGBT community as bound up with other social-justice movements in an effort to bring about positive change for many different kinds of people. Indeed, the group's penchant for coalition-building has always been its strong suit. And HRC takes into America's heartland its reputation for holding the middle course - which will appeal to straight community and religious leaders who don't really understand what this "gay rights stuff' is about but who may be swayed by the stories of and faces individuals. 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Third Coast Bar (904 Ave. M, 409-765-6911). Tremont House (2300 Ship Mechanic's Row, 409-763-0300 or 800- WYNDHAM, www.wyndham.com). Undercurrent (3102 Seawall Blvd., 409-750- 8571). Willie G's (21st North Street Pier 21, 409~762-3030). Yaga's Cafe (2314 The Strand, 409-762-6676). Dear uncle Mikey Ask Uncle Mikey Advice Column! APRIL 2005 Uncle here once more bringing you a . different view of all things queer. This week · your old uncle has done his best to stay'warm. ]t is as If this winter is lik.e a queen crowing another queen, it just does not want to let go. • Uncle was able to manage however, with the . help of a couple of hot studs to keep me warm. · · ,~ Never underestimate the power of lust kittens. This month we find ourselves pondering llfes missed chances and the lesson learned in hindsight. I was in a relationship with my boyfriend for two years. I knew I loved him however foun~ mysel_f wanting to e~periment and be somewhat free to enjoy other ~en. My b<:>yfriend tne? to make ~gs work,_howevcr, felt that the relationship was ended with my straying ways. I s10ce. have become disenchanted with the Twinldes around me, and realize~ ·what I had with him. I have tried evetything I know to get him bac~ to no avail. Now, I am at a !oss wondering if I have lost the man I was meant to be with. What can I do? ' Missing him Dearest Missing, Uncle was most touched by your letter. It sounds as if you have learned one of lifes most unrealized lessons. It is always what we do not have, which drives our desires. Once obtained, we usuajJ.y realize we, already had. what A was. we sought in out deepest desires: U nfotgiv;ably, . this. i~ .a l~sson whlcii • bfi~ wi~ it .the ·reality of lost chances. It SOll!lds l!t o.fhcl:.li#fhas iiloved'.on; arid. :that yoti should do the ~ame. Realize your .. ~ arid'.uiiliie, this in die futi:lte: If this lo'9'e was meant to be, it shall conic back to you, how#cr, be prepared that this just may not be the case. Good luck-Uncle Mikey Kittens, it is tb,e prison of our own design. Desires unrealized, as the cake always seems sweeter. 1!om the other plate. It is mans folly to want the thing they do not have, not rcaliz111g they already have what substance in their own kitchen. Be careful of what you wish for; for the wish .itself may not be the truest desire of the dreamer. Dear Uncle MiJ[ey:: I recently met the. acqpaiiit;aacc of a n:ian which is ol>'riously in doubt of his sexualitv. He attempts to run from. Jps o..m self.: denying his scxuility; while acting .like a big , old butch. I _am ~<>st ll'tttacte'.l to this man and want to help him except himself I attempt to gtve hitn leads which, he either does not except or pick up on. How can I help this man come out already? Getting real Dearest Real, F~t off lets get real. Is it. the &<;t that. you want to help him, or yourself to his delights? You cannot tjish s6me~n~ into coming out lcittep,. just because .you arc h~ving ~ 9.11 in your pants. ~au cotdf seriously burn 'lllly.·· qiances you may have with this young one, if you insist on pu!ihing them he(orc ihev are readv to reveal: the pos_sibility that they play. for our team. If you re.ally waiit to hdp this souI,>th~ allow him to come at his own rate .. Support while letting him know he has a· good Page27 friend, which will be excepting of him. Patience is a virtue dearest one. Smooches Unde-Unde Uncle Mikey once attempted to help someone come out as well. I guess it was just too much for the poor dC2C. He ran like he was running through a white sale. It is not always easy when someone is attempting to come out. There are many variables during the coming out process. While, we may see it as the obvious choice, it remains a struggle for some. 'The best thing another can do, is just be supportive through the process. Dear Uncle: I have a friend who is such a queen, he puts most to shame. He is a one man. parade, as his is lllways wallcirig around with · buttons, stickers, and colon running off of him for the world to sec. He makes issues out of everything. I get somewhat embarrassed when we arc in public, as he openly challenges everyone he secs as a threat to his pride parade. How can I tell him he needs to tone.it down; so that I can be more comfortable while in his ·presence? It is not that I do not care about issues, I just do not sec the need to constantly lead the parade. Ashamed Dearest Kitten, It is not your friend which has the issue, it is yourself you need to look to here. It is the prideful advocates which live in this manor, which make it possible, for the continuing education of. society at large, on our issues. Maybe you need to hear his voice a little more, and realize it is you who has an issues .with being your self openly. Do not charge your friend with a wrong, when he is simply proud of himself and his community. Allow bis force to shine in your life. Smooches-Uncle It is that time again Kittens. So remember " you venture out again in that wonderful drama of life- It is the one which truly excepts themselves which will be aJ:,k to except others. Smooches Uncle Mikey and Tiddles too. Unck Mikey is 11. ~ from Freeuin~ ftlriUr A6chul Hinvrun. Michrid has been fliritingfor tm ~rs. Utiiizing his stlldies, ,nd lffe apmen« w J,e.'p othen in his comm,mity, thro,tgb b,111ior ,md so#nd ""'1itt. K,d,i,eJ ~ his stlldy of psyd,ol.ogy """ cm,tiw writing, lfS wdl bis extmsifle bwdtgro#nd in mtnt11.l be.ihh Direct OtTI! to bring" ,_ st:,le """ "l'fT04d, to bdping others. ~'s other fllOri!s o,n be fliewea at -.f"]linltcontent.com. May Day, May Da ''They don't just want marriage. They want to destroy marriage and the family, as we know it." -----Doctor James Dobson, Focus on the . Family SOULFORCE LEADS DIRECT ACTION TO CONFRONT FOCUS ON .THE FAMILY AND JAMES DOBSON, SUNDAY, MAY 1, 2005 IN COLORADO SPRINGS. STIGLER; OK_Soulforce in Oklahoma planning to confront the anti-gay rhetoric.. of James Dobson and Focus on the Family. "Out goal is to have enough people in Colorado Springs to be able to surround Focus. on tlie Family. That would take 1600 people! Our goal in Oklahoma is for 20 ~~ to. go. It. is only a 12 hour drive. Pl~se consider going and invite your ~ends. There is still plenty of time to register for this action. We are also asking for donations. to help with the travel expense. There arc qtiite a few young people going that need assistance." :...from Karen W cldin, Soulforcc in Oklahoma. Tax deductible donations should be made out to Soulforce in Oklahoma and mailed to: Soulforce in Oklahoma Rt. 4, Box 3534 Stigler, OK 74462 For more information email Karen at Karen@soulforceinoldahoma-org or visit the Soulforce web site · www.~()ulfo~cc.org ·and/or www.DearDrDobson.com and read more about the action and then register . at www.soulforce.org. If you register online, you should notify Karen you are going. Karen@soulforceinoklahoma.org Page 28 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente APRIL 2005 Someone Filmed His Life Tonight_ Romeo's favorite wardrobe-malfunction accomplice, Justin Timberlake, is about to get his name over the title for the first time in his budding movie career. The pop star will play Elton John in a feature about the queer music legend's life. Handpicked by Sir Reginald himself, Timberlake's already stuck his own hand in the script - the first draft was apparently too light on both tantrums and tiaras - and demanded that the film not sanitize the wild lifestyle John ied in the 1970s and '80s. Timbetlake's played John twice in music videos, so he's had som~ practice itμpersonating his hero. Now it's up. to the dialect coaches. The film is expected to start shooting later this year for a planned 2006 release. No other actors are attached yet, but Romeo hears the competition is fierce in the Kiki Dee casting sessions. Rupert Everett Straightens Up Forget the overused lesbian kiss plotline as a May sweeps ratings-grabber. Toe hot homo move this May is casting openly gay actors in straight roles. _Boston Legal_, the show that gives _ Will & Grace_ some stiff competition in the guest-star "get'' departmem and which has already seen Freddie Prinze Jr., Dana Delany, Carl Reiner, Shelly Long, Kerry Washington, and Al Sharpton pass through its halls of justice this season is about to host Rupert Everett. In his first stateside network prime.-time drama, the queer Brit will appear in at: least three May episodes of the lawyer-centric series, playing slick civil litigator· Malcoltt;1, Holmes. His hetero character will go head \b head in court against ex-girlfriend Tara· (_Legal_ regular Rhona Mitra), so expect oJd.romantic complaints to . be re-examined iri ~J'6urt. _Suckers_ for Mad~nna .qefying the idea that she; mixes with movies: like oH with water;, Madonna has two new big-sqreen projects on track. In the first .one, _Hello, Suckers_ (which she'll co-produce with _Aviator_ director Martin ~cor,scse), Madonna plays Texas Guin~, .the ~eal-life star of silent-movie Westerns .who also ran a New York speakeasy whe.re she greeted her customers with the title line. Meanwhile, a follow-up to _Truth or Dare_ is set to debut at the Cannes Film Fe.stival in May. Directed by Jonas Ackerlund (.:,Spun_), the st$untit! ed documentary follows the singer on her 2004 Reinvention Tour and is said to lay to rest rumors about Her Madgesty's life, as well as explain her devotion to Kuibalah. That's good news, because Romeo still can't figure it out. Jenni Olson's _Joy_San Francisco's Jenni Olson is a critic, film archivist (her _Homo Promo_ collection of vintage queer movie trailers was recently released on DVD), and now a feature direcror. Her debut, _The Joy of Life_, recently screened at the Sundance Film Festival and has just been acquired by Frameline for North American distribution. _Joy_ joins two tales of the city - one the story of a butch lesbian's search for love in San Francisco, and the other a history of the Golden Gate Bridge as a location for countless suicides - in an experimental examination on the search for both life's meaning and its end. The film will screen at the San Francisco International Film Festival in May and receive art-house distribution iater in the year. Expect it also to stir more hometown dialogue over the need for an . effective jumping barrier on the Golden Gate. _Romeo San Vicente has sampkd lots of San Fr,mr:isco 's trt'4ts. Costly Discriniliiation Since the policy went into effect, · approximately 10,000 service members have been discharged. Of those who left, 757 held critical jobs for which the Pentagon offers re-enlistment bonuses because. of their specialized nature, such as data processing technicians and translators. Many who were discharged • .had in,,t~nCC,:-related jobs. 322 spoke . foreign hllguages, including Arabic, Farsi; Ko:i~an, .and Mandarin, which the Pen~qn: has called critical skills amid thica~ "ft6m terrorists. "' research has found and confirmed is that 'Don't · .;Do~i '.Fell' harms military . ;:.:~s's1'' tild Aaron Belkin, director of · · · Sexual the ta Barbara. , Democratic assachusetts, study, and is . the House ~!l}!Illttee on. · onal Thteats and . . . , ced0 t,he ¥ilifary Readin;es~ . . . ... i.Act {MREA) before the HO\llle of Repre~cntlltive. MREA is. a ptc>posal that would end the bari on gay aii~ leabiah military · persorinet The: legisllltion has. lllore that1 forty. Cob.gi:essional co:.,spotlsors, It couid be argued that _discrimination itl~luding s~cri_gn the House Armed is always costly in any form. The loss of .· · Services Cqi#mittee. self-esteem, security, and basic .human . , In respon11e, a group of retired rights at the hands of bigotry.is · · . niilitary generals -and. admirals today . incalculable. For once, however; the announced their support for the !(ct. The price of prejudice just might work· in our officers are amorig the. bighcst-'ranking favor. yetemns to publicly support repeal of the A study released recently by $,e · rnij!tary's gay ban.. · General Accountability Office (<.it'AO), ll. '\ :- '"Our,nationa:l security depends on non-partisan congress· · ·'' '' having :the best and brlglitcst Americans agency, reported that . Don't . · · · · · .our freedoms;' said Brigadier Tell" has cost the us govemmerit nearly . Foote, OQe of the first women to $200 million dollars since President achi~e ,that rank. "As . a commander, I Clinton institutecl the conticrv~isial know: that 'lesbian; gay and.bisi:iua:i policy in 1994. It allowed giys ancf Atnciicans have se~ed ou_r country with lesbians to serve in tiie armed forces as honor aod distinction. Our ·armccl. forces iong as they abstained from homosexual should be able to recruit eve'.ry qwuified, activitv and did not disclose their sciiiai capa.ble American to .protect our orien~tion. Revealing their sexual · · homeland, regardless of their sexual orientation would result in expulsi,on. odentation. 'Don't ,Ask, Don't Tell' is The $200 million cost estin;uuc did.· not , not. oply unnecess!lry and. disctiixtinatory, include training and replacement for it is ~so detrimental to our milihuy officers or those with J:ugN.y ~P:C~ze9 readiness. The law does not meet the skills or the cost of· discharging the gay chmmtiii sense nile' our aiilitaxy. sholild. and lesbian officers. abide by;'' contin#ed page-32 P.:gc: 30 nF 21 1109 E. Commercial, Springfield, MO 417.873.2225 www.HearTheRumors.com A.rrow, OK 74012 pas-n-suoh.com Point: with this · 4/30/05 8-258-SPAS (7727) . ,ad prior to purchase. Thurs, Fri 6 Sat 10-5 . ha &cit (71st St) turn . oliet Just before the Xprswy, bctwccn Lyn11 Dlrectty behllld La Petite he street from Anchor PageJ2 . . .. . .. H&1rt to]it!ft:rtfrom pg-29 . The United St:ates continues to be one· of the as . . . . . cciuntries to ban currept debate · in a similar light; realizing : that notlring has been. lost or sacrificed by the. majority in extending full rights to .the minority." gays ·... . .. . . Sini:e ."Qou't . 4sk; I),<>n't:T.ell'' was implcn:ien~d; Grca . . thci;. .ch la . 19 gro .. people we the mill·· counity, · ' designate• -~~:,. ';/',, , , ; , , '- 1 , · Of course, there are other costs to ."Don't Ask, Don't Tell"-,-costs that can't · qe tallied ~th a dollar sig,;i.) have a ft:i,e!ld in the military. In. fact, he was my first botfriend. We'v:e:remained close .. . ' ~ when he tbld me · .. :plans to enlist; . I• thought he ··wai #It.')l'as·something,he really ~~d to do; however, so of course I . · supported him. He thoughtit ~ould be • . ~~irly:: c,asy hiding his orient:l,tiOn since he's very ·masculine. • : .:: .. A(~t:, lie .. ~ few problero.s: .He lov:cd ·hiil chosen brimch of semce and . e~fwea, : moving up. tfr rank. Sfowfy, 'h er: tlie :strain of constantly ·.·liiy,ing to hide #}19 he was be~ to wear op)i!rh .. Then. di_s:S..ster struck; ljis . ;dlitj.qn~hip of tbiee years ci;uinbled . linexpectedly ancl he was left devastated. To. make mlU:t:ets WO . . . . . ·. act as '.' ~ ·"' , ,, ·,· •, ··,: fes/14,~w,pjs, .i:ewntj-1Qmahi1jg drti,st:411tbor, 1ll4S ~ .. ,w Jwt4 on t/,eUSlfflJ S/Jore gf ¥i-ry14nd ,nd li'f/l!sd#,-e flliih his husb,md, ]o1h A~ is" Litin . ~w,,n nwning "bla&sbe,p. "Hews n.m,:d the Nit Wbodtmit of 2002 by th!! StotU':'IN!i Sc~ty, · Jil«;if #g He.srts hiiisrm bis ./Jnt book in the Killi,,n Kauull m,stery smes. . Page 33 Seo es by Jack Fertig APRIL 2005 ''listen politely, V~!" ------------·-· Admitting, confusion and ignorlltlce is the first step to enlightenment. Mercury retrograde is aspecting Mars in Aquarius and Uranus in Pisces .. Sudden snafus can set off th~ sort of confusion that· can lea~ to illumination. AIUES (March 21 to April 20): Just when all looks good with your · pals, a paranoid little bug is asking· who your mends really are. Recent sliglits can prob~ be chalked up t6 si;nplc human failure. The real question is, how faithful a friend ~ you? TAURUS (April 21 to M,;y.20): Your carcet secins ·~ be goc>ing great guns now. Still, some douli~ (Taurus? Toi?) about your iong-term aims.· are • complicating the picture. Much as you hate doub~ anything, take this· as an opportunity to rethink now and make better plans later. GμIINI (May 21 to June 21): Your mste for -adventure can lead you. into fun and games that arc better left private. y OU go, horleyl Just be. ca.reful if you ~y want priyac:J.- Whether your. reputatic:>n ~ a lm,oc.k o~ gets a boost piay be subjective, but yo_u will be talked aboμtl CANCEll 0une 22 to July 22): P.rivatcc matters with your part,ner may· not. be so private. Sure, you need to t:alk dijngs out with a friend, hut be carcfull If you want real help keeping or finding a relationship, listen in particular to the advice you don't want to hear. LEO 0uly 23 to August 22); Anything that loob, ~s, or smells like an office flirtation should be avoided. right ii.ow. It will coQlC · back to bite you on· the ass - and not in a nice way! An appar1=0.t . setback in a telatlon1hip could actaally unblock a problem, aiding in a solution later. VDlGO (A-aguat 23 to Sq,tember 22): Even in simple conversations, something's sure to be misunderstood, and yet such . a snafu could lead to new opportunities to improve cooperative efforts at work. In more formal negotilitions · or co_ntracts, however, disaster waits - and so should you! Listen politely, bμt don't follow advice you get at. the gym. LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): Housecleaning reveals hidden treasures that in tum provide a new creative direction. Anything from finger paints to thumbscrews can revive old interests and lead to new and very interesting levels of enjoyment. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): Your playful overtures are likely to be misinterpreted, causing some trouble, but it's noi:hing you can't handle. Keeping your fun and games on the home court will shed interesting insights on your family situation. SAGITI'ARIUS (November 22 to December 20): We all have domestic . squabbles here and there, but yours here and now offer more depth of possibility. than usual Take all argumerits at face value, but listen for hidden subtexts, especially about money. CAPRICORN (December 21 · to Janwry 19): Cool your jets, guard your current tendency to capricious impulse, and watch your words carefully. Mlsstatemcnts can prove expensive! Slow 11,nd careful is your usual mode, and ~11 a good time to stick to that. S Oanuaty 20. to February 18): · an ei;pecially bad small) financial revetSal can open up some profound personal ifisights. Getting angry with . ypurself in the process could be liberating. if you learn from the anger and kt go of it PISCES (Febnw:y 19 to MArch 19): Being unsμic of voμrsclf can open up a prqccss o( self-analysis that· provides grca~ enlightenment in the long run. Stay close to friends you can trust to call yo;o on your b.s. Friendly aignmcrits will get you closer to the truth. JMie Fertig bas been u,or/eing "5 a -profos,sumal 4StTOk,gt:r since 1977 and is a fo#ndi.ng mimber of tlR: .Association for Astro/ogial Net'U10rking:_ Page 35 Canada from pg-13 We're proud because it proclaims to all that see us that we did our duty as a citizen of this gteat land. You should be proud of voting, and never allow anyone to say that your vote does not count. We saw that to be false four years ago in Florida and are seeing it again now in Washington state where, out of the 2.8 million votes cast, the election for Governor came down to only 129 votes. And while voting is the most important thing you can do in the political process, it is also the least that you can do. It is when we as a people recognize this point that equality issues will begin to move forward. We as a community must also understand the importance of money in regards to campaigns. Consider this: To run for a statewide office in Missouri (U.S. Senate, Governor, etc), one needs to spend anywhere from $8 - $12 million dollars; Even to run for State Representative, an office that is unfortunately ovedooked all too often, one could need as much as $100,000. We must do a better job in financially assisting pro-LGBT candidates for office, and those candidates must know that the money is coming from our community. One of the ways of accomplishing this is to make your contribution to a candidate during a fundraiser hosted by an LGBT political organization. The candidate can then walk out and know exactly how much money he/ she has received from us. The other is to donate your money directly to one of our many local political organizations. Many area LGBT political organizations a.re set up in a fashion that they can receive money and spend it directly on behalf of an endorsed candidate (ex. PROMO PAC or HRC PAC). 1bis allows the leaders of these organizations to know how much money they spent on the candidate and serves as a lobbying tool once in office. It also allows the organizations to support friendly candidates in rural areas, where membership in our org:i.nizationa a.re low. Lastly, we as a community have to become more directly involved in the individual campaigns. We must get up from the bar ... show up to the dinner party a little later ... Tivo £fill & Graa if you have to ... whatever it takes, and go volunteer. We have to help stuff the envelopes, make the phone calls to registered votcn, and yes, we must knock on doors in support of our candidates. This tends to be the pan of campaigning that all people like the least. It also happens to be the most effective, especially in the close races. Studies show that in neighborhoods where candidates and volunteers knock on doors, voter turnout increases by as. inuch as twelve percent. In close elections that is the difference in the outcome. CONTROLING OUR OWN DESTINY What went \v'rong in this past election? Why did so many progressive candidates and causes get beaten so soundly? Those are questions that will be asked for many years to come. But we, the LGBT community, must look .within ourselves to understand what we did right,• and what we did wrong. We must come to the understanding that if we want our issues to advance, we must do what it takes in order to have the right people in office to advance that cause for us. Justified or not, our issues are very difficult for many legislators to support. The fear of backlash during the election cycle prevents our legislative agenda from advancing. Therefore, we must begin strengthening our campaigning muscles. Because our issues are perceived as so controversial, voting in similar numbers to the rest of the country is not good enough. Financial contributions made to campaigns at the same level other communities contribute just is not good enough. And volunteering with similar numbers as everyone else just will not be enough. If we truly believe in our issues ... if we truly believe in marriage equality, in employment protections, in the right of an LGBT student to feel safe in school, then we have to start doing to things necessary to put good legislators in office. Until we do, we have no one to blame but ourselves. The beauty of this situiuion is, we do in fact control our own destiny. We have truth and history on our side. Our opponents only have deception and a few last moments in the sun. We know who we are and that we are deserving of all the same rights that every other proud American enjoys. And with our hard work and focus, history shows us that we will succeed. The ehallenge is this: getting each and every member of our community committed to making a differ~nce during the next big election. 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H.i&ide - - -316-682-5494 Trends Bar - - - -1507 S. Pawnee- - - 316-262-4530 Mls11ouri, Joplin (417) Ree's-••• 716 S. Main•• - - - - -417-627-9035 Mhsouri, Kansas City (816) Buddies - - • • - 3715 Main St- - - - 816-561-2600 Belle Stllr'11- - - - 1321 Grand Ave- - - -816-421-1288 Club NV - - - - 220 Admiral Blvd- - 816-421-NVKC DB Warehouse- -- 1915 Main St- -816-471-1575 Missie B's- - - -805 W. 39th St- - - -- - 816-561-0625 SidestreetBar- - --413 E. 3rd- - - - 816-531-1775 Sidelcicks Saloon - - 3707 Main St- - 816- 931-1430 Ml11ouri, Springfield (417) The Edge- -424 Boonville Ave- - - - --417-831-4700 Liquors & Kickers- -1109 E. Commercial-873-2225 Martha'• Vineyard- 219 W Olive - -417-864-4572 Oz Bar• 50.J E. Commercial - - - - . -417-831-9001 Ronisw: Place- - --821 College- - - - - - -417-86-4-0036 Rumon • --1109 E. 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Planet Dee Q Scopes Quotable Quotes Sooner State Rodeo Association Uncle Mikey https://history.okeq.org/files/original/fe31c2dea84101f56a195147826781fc.jpg 73498dae0a0cbe0ec93efd6c664a6dee https://history.okeq.org/files/original/0df1ba0618742cac7cdebdc3ea6300f0.pdf 8efc7a5d9bf16546bc1fcb6a520d40c1 PDF Text Text ����������������� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document VOLUME 2, ISSUE 6 JUNE 2005 FREE DIVERSITY PRIDE 2005 Four States Gay Pride Celebration Schedule. Tulsa Pride Equal Rights No More No Less Dates: 6/3 - 6/11 Location: Tulsa, OK For more information go to www.tohr.org or call GLB'.I' Center 918-743-7297 Springfield, Show Me MO Pride: 6/4 - 6/12. Festival at Phelps Grove Park June 12, 12noon to 6:30pm. Kansas City Pride Dates: 6/3- 6/05 Location: Kansas City, :MO Liberty Memorial Pershing Avenue & Main Street June 3rd. Oklahoma City Unity in Pride Dates: 6/24 - 6/26 Location: Oklahoma City, OK For more information, go to www.okcpride.com. Northwest Arkansas Pride Weekend Fayetteville Parade starts at the Square and will go down Dickson St to the Powerhouse. Favetteville 6/25. Fort .Smith 6!1"9 - 6/26 Contact Kinkeads @ 479-783-9988 for more info Wichita Pride O 5 Stand UP, Step OUT! Parade and events June .?,5th 2pm Start Central and· Waco. End St Francis and Central. For more info call Carol Harrell 316.617.8813 All festivals aim is to educate the . community by invoking, promoting, and celebrating Gay/LesbiaI)./Bisexuai/ Transgender pride. Pages Mother and HRC Board member Judy Shepard, '7bere 1$ notmn(/ that ctilt 9ffl" britlg Matthew back but $upporfff/g·the$e i$$ues is flliMt htJ/pl me ~ through the d.,y.. .The ,-,,t·n.~ do for h;m and either vittfhts. or fr~•'""~ 11~1Jon /$ $#:ar'ld, up . n'ld c:ome tog«her to do w/iit~vtr: we tan·to•~ our., CR'm'tlunitiiJS_ 4 me, fail: p/a(» for GLBT \.. Amenc:ans .... -Judr Shepard _______________ __, It has been over 6 years since our son Matthew was brutally murdered in Laramie, Wyoming. No matter how much time passes, the pain of losing our son never seems to diminish. The understanding 'tl:;iat he was taken from us simply because he was gay only adds to the confusion and pain. Since bis death, my husband and I have devoted our ,lives to promoting acceptance and understanding in communities, churches, schools, workplaces - anywhere we can get people to listen, so that we can help end discrimination and hate against our gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender (GLB1) friends and family. Soon after Matthew's death, Dennis and I started the Matthew Shepard Foundation to help raise awareness. We felt that as allies to the GLBT community, we had an opportunity to make a difference. Although many GLBT people enjoy welcoming workpiaces and accepting families and communities, many still do not. -And it is all Americans, regardless of sexual orientation or religious beliefs, that we need standing with us today to create a truly accepting culture based on equality for every citiz~n. Because hate and discrimination has so personally affected my family's life, I know how critical HRC's work is to everyday pepple. When you join us, know that you'll be standing with over 600,000 Americans who will not tolerate discrimination of any kind in our constitution, in our schools, our workplaces, our places of worship, or our communities. HRC is not just an organization "for" GLBT people. It is an organization for all people who believe we can create a wodd where acceptance and diversity are welcomed and nurtured. Rep. Sally Kem (R-Oklahoma City) Calls King and King, "obscene". Oklahoma City; Oklahoma_ The Oklahoma House of Representatives has passed a resolution that would ban books on gay families from the children's sections of public libraries. The measure does not have the power of law but calls on Oklahoma libraries to "confine homosexually themed books and other age-inappropriate material to areas exclusively for adult access and distribution." It passed, 81-3 and now will be distributed to library boards across the state. The resolution's sponsor, Rep. Sally Kem (R-Oklahoma City) said that the vote shows public libraries that they must aware of the "values that our state upholds". The 32 page book ends with the two princes sharing a kiss. Tulsa Oklahoma's TOHR, strongly encourages the Gay, Lesbian, Bi, Transgender (GLB1) and allied community to call Mr. Richard Parker, Deputy Director of Community Relations at 918-596-7899 ASAP and voice your feelings and to contact the bill's author, Rep. Sally Kern (R), OKC at 405-557-7348. Thj st.«R'S:oviri·~Michaier ✓ H.iniril~r,a .. . . "·•· . .MJkey) FIRST IS RELEASED KENT, OHIO. May 2, 2005 - Michael Hinzman, current Kent resident, is excited to see his lifelong dream become reality. Michael's first novel, Dragomir, is currently available.. . ''Dragomir is the story of Richard Stonewall who, after the death of his aunt, begins to learn the truth about his family," said Michael in a recent interview. "Richard finds courage and support from his three best friends as he faces murder, intrigue, and a few surprises. I am fascinated with the world of magic. With that fascination and my desire to tell stories, Dragomir seemed to spill onto the pages. It is purely fictional and was fun to write," Michael continued. While exploring the unknown with this group of fresh chara<;ters, M,ichael Hinzman delivers a wonderfully told story that keeps the .reader in suspense from page to page. D. ~mit can currently. be found on websites selling publications including Amazon, Barnes and Noble, and Publish America. Dragomir's ISBN is 1-4137-5116-4. The author's audience is quickly spreading; his novel is also being sold' on a United Kingdom website. . Michael began writing in high school and writes when time permits between fatherhood and work. He and his children~ Mikayla, Michael, and Jacob, moved to Kent in 2003. Mich.ael and his family have found their home in Kent and: .hope to stay here for a long time. .About the Author: Born ln Okeechobee, Florida, Michael grew up in Toledo, Ohio. After living in Indiana for 10 years, he returned to Ohio. Michael currently is working on several writing projects. Contact: Michael Hinzman, Author Dragomir - ISBN 1-4137-5116-4 (330) 678-0221 micka1obe30@aol.com "," , ,,.,-. \" < Press Release TULSA, OK_A benefit show will be held on Saturday June 4th 10pII1 at the Bamboo Lounge. Hosted by Tulsa Diva Kriss Kohl and will feature many of Tulsa 's best entertainers. Proceeds from donations will go to support the Tulsa Pride 05 Parade organization. There will be no door cover charge. .• P•a•ge• 7• •••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••••• . •• •• Oklahoma City GLBTI Pride Celebration June24-26 FEST'\ ''AL t M . 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Plus other Pride Events! ,.p;rtfl@[ "pp And Watch Out For Nore .com •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• •• • Page 10 JUNE 2005 by Andrew Collins "Juneau laska" If it's outdoor adventure you're seeking this summer and you want . . a base of operations that's spectacularly scenic, relatively progressive, and surprisingly artsy, consider a trip to America's most remote state capital, Juneau, Alaska. This bustling city of 30,000, sometimes referred to as ''Little San Francisco" because of its hilly streets, fringes Gastineau Channel and lies beneath the sheer faces of Mt. Juneau (3,600 feet) and Mt. Roberts (3,800 feet). There are no roads in or out of Juneau (all travel here is by boat or plane), which is about 600 miles southeast of Anchorage and 900 miles northwest of S~attlc. If you're guessing that secluded Juneau isn't exactly a gay mecca, you're correct,· but gay visitors will hardly find themselves alone here. Although Alaska's one of the most conservative states in the Union, its capital city is an educated, outdoorsy place. It's home to the Southeast Alaska Gay & Lesbian Alliance, whose website (www.seagli.org) offers plenty of great information for visiting "family." Juneau also claims one of the most respected regional theaters in the country, the Perseverance Theatre. This first-rate company has produced such enlightened fare as _Hedwig and the Angry Inch_ and _Angels in America_; the 2005- 2006 season will include _Hair_ and _The Laramie Project_. Juneau also has several excellent art galleries and a local GLB'I' Pride Chorus that performs at a variety of venues. Most folks come to Juneau for one primary reason: to enjoy the great outdoors. The region lacks the frosty climate for which interior Alaska is known, with average temperatures in the 20s and 30s in winter, and in the 60s and 70s in summef. The city does experience plenty of rain, averaging as much 100 inches of annual precipitation (the worst of it in autumn). The driest and most pleasant months arc April through June. Keep in mind, however, that cruise ships dock in Juneau from mid-May through mid-September - good news if you're planning sightseeing excursions, as many of the touring outfitters in town operate only at this time; and bad news if you're put off by the sight of massive 20-story ships looming over downtown and unleashlog a torrent of pasty and portly passengers. That being said, if you're a fan of cruises, note that the gay-and-lesbian tour operator RSVP is offering an Alaska cruise in September 2005, and also that lesbian-oriented Olivia Cruises occasionally offers Alaska trips. Among Juneau's myriad outdoors activities, visiting a glacier tops the list. The simplest way to do this is to drive out to the Mendenhall Glacier Visitor Center, which sits just 10 miles north of downtown and contains some excellent exhibits on this hulking glacier, which you can view from a nearby observation area: You can hike right on the glacier by booking a helicopter trip through Northstar Trekking. A chopper lifts passengers and a guide up to Mendenhall Glacier, first circling over the massive Juneau Iceficld (which covers some 1,500 square miles, extending from Juneau well into British Columbia), then depositing everybody onto the glacier. Next your guide straps crampons (ice spikes) onto your shoes and leads you on a hike over the ice, with its eerie blue pools and streams. For a truly intensive glacier experience, opt for an all-day hike with Above & Beyond Alaska, whose friendly and knowiedgeable guides will lead you up a trail ..................... continued pg· 12 Page 11 Overexposure to Dan~rs can lead to vision problems ... .. . ·. ¢ ~aay! IIAllclll 1111111-,.. TD CL08I Cold $eer - Hot Bods - Strong Drinks 424 S. Memorial, Tulsa• (918) 836-2480 21 ANO OVER a ONE DRINK MINIMUM a CLOSED TUESDAYaWWW.ENOUPCLUB.COM R~ney Burgamy www.c21goldc:asth;,~c:om 405.840~2106 Joe Brennan Page 12 Out o/Town from pg-10 alongside Mendenhall Glacier, and then out onto the ice itself. The company also offers ice-climbing, rock-climbing, whalewatching charters, and water~taxi services. There's really no better way to understand the glacial process, which carved out much of North America during the last Ice Age, than to hike across one of these huge floes of ice - it's an unforgettable experience. Another fun opportunity for glacierviewing is taking a Wings Airways flightsecing trip to Taku Glacier Lodge. . You fly by seaplane from downtown Juneau's harbor over Taku Glacier and land in an inlet beside the rustic 1923 lodge, where you can enjoy an impressive salmon bake and roam the trails behind the lodge. It's not uncommon to spot a black bear in these parts. In fact, wildlife sightings are extremely likely around Juneau; keep your eyes peeled for moose, bald eagle~, blue heron, scoter ducks, mountain goats, whales, and marmots to name a few of the region's frequently observed fauna. Hikers will find dozens of great treks, · from scrambling up the backside of Mt. Roberts (you can also take the_ Mt. Roberts Tramway directly up the mountainside from downtown, but hiking is more fun) to strolling through a lush rain forest in North Douglas to walking among the ruins of a vast mining ghost town in Treadwell. You can hike most of the trails easily on your own by asking locals for directions, but if you want to learn about the flora, fauna, and history while you hike, consider a guided tour. Gastineau Guiding Company offers some of the best day-hiking trips as well as delightful kayaking tours around pristine Admiralty Island. Finally, you can rent your own kayaks or canoes from Alaska Boat & Kavak. Invariably, if you spe~d more than a few days in Juneau, you'll encounter a rainy day or two. If the weather is grim, pian a visit to the exceptional Alaska State Museum, which provides an excellent overview of Juneau's indigenous Tlingit heritage and culture, or a tour of the Alaskan Brewing Co., which turns out some of the tastiest brews in the region (and serves free samples, of course). For a small city, Juneau has plenty of excellent restaurants. In the historic Fisherman's Wharf building, both Doc Water's Pub and the Hangar serve outstanding food. Doc Water's is more casual, with outdoor seating and such tasty treats as halibut ceviche and salmon burgers. The Hangar turns out both pub fare (excellent halibut tacos) and more ce>smopolitan dishes, such as Dungeness crab cakes. Head to the airy and attractive Twisted Fish for designer pizzas and refined but still affordable food, from ahi' spina·ch salad to oysters on the half shell . Across the channel in Douglas, the new Island Pub serves creative steaks and seafood dishes as well as both savory and "dessert" pizzas (among the latter, try the apple pie pizza with mascarpone, sliced apples, sugar, cinnamon, and walriuts); it's right by the Perseverance Theatre. Overlooking Auke Bay Marina, not far from Mendenhall Glacier and the attractive campus of the University of Alaska Southeast, locals convene at the Hot Bite for creative short-order fare ' (from Thai peanut chicken sandwiches to green-chile cheeseburgers) and the most luscious milkshakes around, available in 16 flavors. This is a great town for coffee lovers. The funky Silverbow functions as a topnotch java house, bakery, bagelry, indiefilm theater, and six-room boutique hotel (with reasonable rates and upbeat decor, to boot). It's right in the center of town and draws an eclectic bunch. A couple of blocks away, Rainbow Foods is a superb gourmet health-food shop that also has a small coffee bar. The popular local chain, Heritage ·cafe, is another great option for coffee, wraps, sweets, and wireless Internet. Although Juneau lacks a gay bar, the Hangar tends to draw a mixed bunch to its lounge area, and you'll also sometimes find like-minded souls at the bar inside the funky Alaskan Hotel and in downtown's Triangle Bar. As for choosing a place to stay, luneau has few cookie-cutter chain ;ccom~odations - even the larger properties, such as the historic Baranof Hotel (which is also home to the elegant Gold Room restaurant) and the contemporary Goldbelt Hotel, have their own quirky personalities, Perhaps the gay-friendliest property in town, Crondahl's B&B is ........... cont. pg-26 Page 13 ·- ~J({l?l!lS,l/ ti/Ir-el Serving our community in Missouri, Arkansas, Oklahoma, Illinois & Colorado This Is Shelter Country. Here in our community you will find Shelter Agent Greg Tainter. We're proud to serve this community and our customers. Call today and ask about our services. Auto -Home - Life Business Greg W. 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In 1977, the Miami-Dade County Commission passed an ordinance making it illegal to discriminate on the basis of sexual orientation. Anita Bryant, a wellknown pop and gospel singer, qui'1kly launched a virulently anti-gay campaign she called "Save Our Children." Purportedly, the point of her group was to save children from recruitment by homosexuals, employing stereotypes and lies in support of her cause. She made claims such as "If gays are granted rights, next we'll have to give rights to prostitutes, and to people who sleep with St. Bernards, and to nailbiters," and "The recruitment of our children is absolutely necessary for the survival and growth of homosexuality. Since homosexuals cannot reproduce, they must recruit and freshen their ranks." She used God and religion to stir up a backlash of hatred and anti-gay violence. Six months after the ordinance was passed, voters overturned it by a ·wide margin. If all of this sounds eerily familiar, that's because it should. Obviously, religious conservatives have remembered their successes and they're once again pulling many of the same tricks. You may recall Republican Senator Rick Santorum's comments on .a radio program when commenting on the Lawrence vs. Texas sodomy law case in 2003 when he claimed, "If the Supreme Court says that you have the right to consensual [gay] sex within your home, then you have the right to bigamy, you have the right to polygamy, you have the right to incest, you have the right to adultery. You have the right to anything." He went on to compare homosexuality to bestiality as well. It almost sounds as if he was channeling Mrs. Bryant, doesn't it? We are once again living in an era of rampant anti-gay sentiment. Browsing LGBT news sites is not for the faint of heart these days. It seems like every day gay rights receive another blow. Politicians become bolder and bolder in their assaults. Once again, religion and "moral values" are being used to demonize and attack gays and lesbians. And once again, children are often the focus. On May 10, the Oklahoma House of Representatives passed a resolution banning books on gay families from the children's sections of public libraries. The measure does not have the power of law but calls on Oklahoma libraries to "confine homosexually themed books and other age-inappropriate material to areas exclusively for adult access and distribution." It passed, 81-3. The resolution states that a child's development "should be at the discretion of a child's parents free from interference from the distribution of inappropriate publicly cataloged materials" and that public libraries should not expose children to material "that mav be deemed harmful and inappropriate." '· The furor began when an Oklahoma City mother became upset after her child brought home King and King, a children's fairy tale book about a prince who falls in love with another prince. King and King is aimed at elementary school children and helps teach diversity. The book, by Linda De Haan and Stern Nijland, tells the story of Prince Bertie who searches for love through a bevy of eligible princes before falling for Prince Lee. The thirty-two page book ends with the two princes sharing a kiss. Rep. Sally Kern called the book "obscene." Libraries across the state have already pulled the books from the children's sections and, in some cases, created entirely new sections specifically for the offending materials. In Troy, Michigan, a poster in a high school classroom has created an uproar from concerned parents. The inflammatory poster's message? "Gay people are everyday people.'' Page 19 Heart to Heart_ Approximately eighty protesters are expected at the next school board meeting. Ironically, the poster has been on display in the classroom for two years. So far the school is defending the poster, claiming, "We do not allow our students to be harassed for any reason. It is an issue of tolerance." Patricia Raezler, a member of Parents Promoting Innocence in Bloomfield Hills, which supports Troy parents in the poster issue, said the school shouldn't be promoting sexuality of any kind. "\Ve are promoting innocence," said Raezler, whose children attend private school. "Once, these types of things were left up to the parents. Then there was a push to inform and let pupils know about sexuality. It hasn't decreased sexually transmitted diseases." Somehow, it is completely incomprehensible to these people that promoting tolerance and understanding of gay people has absolutely nothing to do with sex. It has everything to do with bigotry and discrimination. In their rush to paint gays as evil sinners, the religious conservatives have forgotten one important fact. While Anita Bryant's campaign was successful in overturning the civil rights ordinance, she also succeeded in mobilizing LGBT people across the country. Thousands marched in the streets of San Francisco, New York City, Chicago, Los Angeles, and New Orleans. Countless individuals came out of the closet, and numerous new local organizations sprang up. Most famously, the LGBT community launched a boycott of Florida orange juice, for whom Anita Bryant was spokesperson, that gained widespread support. It's time for us to rise up again. We have to fight these mean-spirited and immoral attacks. We need to make our voices heard. We can start by pointing out the absurdity of their arguments. Promoting rolerance of an abused minority has nothing to do with sex. Loveiy and charming books like King and King are not obscene, harmful, or inappropriate. And two consenting adults choosing to express their love for one another in a healthy manner has absolutely no c;ortelation to ioce9t, bigamy, or bestiality. . It's time we stop allowing the Religious Right to decide what is and isn't "moral." Whose standards are we using? When did the United States become a theocracy? And when did Conservative Christianity become the State Religion? What if my religious beliefs don't hold that homosexuals are sinners? What if I believe that spreading hate in the name of God is a sin? \X:'hat if I believe that denying a minority their basic civil rights is an immoral abomination? It's time we save the children of America from the hateful teachings of self-righteous bigots. In the immortal words of Mrs. Lovejoy, "Won't somebody think of the children?" Quotable Quotes "A straight man knows that if he knocks a woman up, he's on the hook for child-support payments for 18 years. [I propose that if you] infect someone with HIV out of malice or negligence ... the state [should] come after vou for half the cost of the meds the p~rson you infeci:ed is going to need. (The man you infected is 50 percent responsible for his own infection.) Once a few dozen men in New York City, San Francisco, Toronto, Los Angeles, Chicago, Miami, and Vancouver are having their wages docked for drug-support payments, other gay men will be a lot more careful about not spreading HIV. Trojan won't be able to make condoms fast enough." - Syndicated gay columnist Dan Savage, Feb. 24. 1 /STH PAC:iE CLASSIFIED AD SPACE NOW AVAILABLE IN THE STAR CALL F□ R RATES 91 B .. B35.7B87 Ask Uncle Mi Advice Column! June 2005 Hello out there in Queerdom-Kittens. Uncle here coming in like a heat wave. Uncle as excited as a farm boy; just off the bus in New York, during this our !Ilonth of pride. Uncle and Tiddles is ready for it after a long cold winter. Uncle suggest that , each and every kitten out there, celebrate till the tricks run home. Kittens, you know that Uncle is not a gossip; however, I must share this dish before we speak another word. Uncle does not believe in gossip, and idle hearsay, with this being said, Gurrl, you are ._ ______ ....;.. _ ...;. __ ....1 not going to believe this one; who knew? The movie which evervone has heard about Alexander, with ~ breath of fresh air, Colin Farrell, is a mu;t see. Well, kittens, 1 had to tell you, this man is a walking dream. Not only is he good looking, and a free spirit. Uncle heard a rumor that he had a nude scene pulled from another movie, because his how do you say, manhood, was just overwhelming. I heard from sources however, that he took it like a ma1.1,... simply throwing it over his shoulder and walking to wardrobe. That is a class act Kittens. Dear Uncle: I have known I am gay since I was sixteen. While, I have kept my familv in the dark about my lifestyle, since going to collage, I have been feeling guilty, and disconnected fr?m them. I would love to tell them about my happiness. However, I fear that they will not handle. the news well. Any advice on breaking it to them gently? · College-queen · Dear Queen:. W~ll, let's se~. You could send them. a postcard announcing your sexuality and ong? 11;1g e~u~atlon ~t man academy 101. Kitten, relax uncle is just joking with you. First oft kitten, lifestyle refers more to the social and environmerital choices we have as individuals. You have to realize that homosexuality is not a choice, it is simply who we are born ~o be. You want to make sure that you are accurately informed, so that, you can help them accept and educate themselves as well. Realize before you tell, that afterwards you must be prepared to deal with the outcome. There is ~o rush to tell, though af°J:,er finding your freedom in your own skin, it is the sheer delight "'.hich c~use.s -us too want to tell it from the mountain. Knowing your people best, dec~de whi:h 1s better. A private moment at home a public meeting, to avoicl the emotional display fit for stage and screen. Whichever· you choose, know this yo.ung queen. You are looking for acceptance and love, verse approval. You are fabulous in who you are no matter what! Smooches- Uncle Mih:y Dear Uncle: ~y ~artner and ~ of five ye~rs are rai~ing our chil~en (His biological) together. We 11~e 1n a _predomm~ntly straight suburban commuruty, and we get along fine. It was d!fficul_t m the ?eg10n10g however, :"e have let people know we are. a family unit, not going anywnere. I adore the children, and would not give them up for the world. l_'he issue~ we_ face are prima_rily about us as a couple. The two leading factors are simply this. Time restt~tits form Job, children, and the hectic schedules we deal with. Leaving us little to no time with one another. The second is the fact that not I 1 ;! Page 21 only do we get judged by the straight community, however the gay community as well. They act like we are not gay enough, if there is such a thing. With little to no family support, we have found· ourselves clearly on our own. I hate feeling this way, as I fill guilt and selflessness for wishing we had more us time. Is this wrong? The suburban Bradies. Well hello Mr. Br:ady: Kitten-It is not selfish to want to celebrate the love on which you quilt this family upon. This is natural, and appropriate to say the least. It is a commendable accomplishment which, you have your partner have done. There is another point to make here as well. There are more families than you realize out there, mirrored to your own. Dealing with the same issues. Uncles suggest that you go through your local GLTB community center, in order to find others such as yourse,lf. Support is invaluable, when dealing with this lifestyle. · As far as suffering ignorance, refuse. There is ignorance and sometimes, from within our own borders. Family life has just as much value as player life. Enjoy the precious gift which fate has bestowed onto you both. Remembering to· rejoice and keep the love which began that day in the park. Smooches and good luck~ Uncle Mikey Well, I guess that about wraps up this session; Uncle is just spent Kittens. Mr. Tiddles.is ever so persistently letting me know, mommies baby needs some attention. Until we meet again kittens remember; your life story is up to you. It can be a best selling page turner, Or a lonesome documentary sitting there alone collecting dust-It is up to you! Happy Pride everyone! Smooches-Uncle Mikey and Tiddles tool Unck Miieey is A dMncter from Ind.nee writer Mic/'4el Hinznun. MkhMJ !Ms b«n writing/or ten ye,,rs. Utilizing his st#dies, •nd life apmma to bdp others in bis comm,mity, thro11gb hHmor •nd s~nd ,uh,ia. MidMd ,ipplid. his stll.dy of ptyd,ology and crtativt urriting, .s -1! his extensive IMc/egroNnd in mentAl bet,hh Dim:t u" to bring• nev, style •nd appnMd, to bdping others. Mkh«J's other woris am be 'IMTll1ed at fl'fl1fl1,g11Jlinlecontmt.com. AIDS Drug Assistance Programs: Americans in Crisis Washington, D.C._ In order to provide AIDS therapies to all Americans who need them, a minimum of $303 million in additional federal funding is urgently needed for the AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP) for the Fiscal Year 2006. That is the consensus of ADAP experts , advocacy organizations and patients who participated in a Congressional briefing today, urging Congress to act. The call to action mirrored a letter sent last week to both President Bush and Members of Congress, which was signed by more than 300 organizations nationwide. ADAP, funded under Title II of the Ryan White CARE Act, provides access to treatment for low-income people living with HIV/ AIDS who are uninsured or lack adequate prescription coverage. It is the final safety net for Americans who have no other means of accessing HIV medications and a lifeline for approximately 100,000 people every month. According to a budget projection conducted a11nuaHy by the National ADAP Working Group, the program requires a minimum of $303 million in additional federal dollars in order to provide treatment for existing clients, as well as the 25,000 to 45,000 new patients that are expected to seek treatment through ADAP before April, 2007. The budget projection has been proven to be a highly reliable predictor of actual need since 1997. "Four years of inadequate federal ADAP funding have culminated in a genuine ADAP crisis which has worsened Cllch year'', stated Bill Arnold, Director of the National ADAP Working Group. The ADAP emergency i5 now a year older. We hope that this year Congress and the White House will address this esca!Ating crisis at the earliest possible moment. Last year, President Bush authorized an emergency allocation of $20 million in an effort the help the approximately 1,500 ADAP clients on official state ADAP waiting Hats in 10 states. However, that funding wu not sufficient for the thmuaods of those of people living with HIV/ AIDS around the country who are not able to access life-saving medications to keep them alive. Unfortunately, the president is recommending an increase of ooly $10 million for FY2006. That is not even enough to continue to keep the people served by his $20 million initiative on their drugs, let alone keep up with the growing demand. beeir writiiig for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. she se~ed. for three years as the co-chair of the board of d~ectors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Community Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called «In Our Own Write." Lesbian Notions by Paula Martinac JUNE 2005 Political Science The U.S. Food and Drug Administration's soon-to-be-implemented guidelines about anonymous sperm donors present a reproductive-rights issue for both gay men and lesbians. When a government can't directly stop "undesirable" people from reproducing, it simply makes it more difficult for them - in this case, by instituting a policy that is more politically motivated than it is rooted in science. The FDA's new guidelines - set to take effect on May 25 - recommend as "ineligible" for sperm donation any man who has had sex with another man in the previous five years, even if he's in a monogamous relationship or routinely practices safer sex. They further _______ ....;.. _____ .J· restrict donations from men who have had sex · in the previous 12 months with anyone "known or suspected to have HIV infection." (Ibe "suspected to" part is particularly creepy.) · This policy - which has no basis in the science of HIV - actually got its start six years ago, 'durfug the. Clinton administration, at the FDA's spooky-sounding "Human Tissue Se_tniriar.,,·At that _tinie, the agency announced its ihterition to make it illegal for all ~y Illen to_ be_come ~onymo~s sperm donors because of their supposed across~tl:\'.e-board nsk for HIV. Despite the growth of HIV infection in the heterosexual population, straight men with multiple sexual partners would have faced no similar restriction, . ·~ flood of protest eil~ued, primarily from sperm banks, which rightly saw it as mvasive regulation of an mdustry that already employed necessary safeguards against !'fIV. Indeed, tner~ were on record. C>nly a few cases of HIV transmission through mfected donor sp,erm. (And today, there is no recorded increase of such · transmissioh.) 'HaJ>pily; activists were successful at staving off the discriminatory change, but under Bush, the FDA began revisiting the idea in earnest. Let's fac: it -: ~e Ufderlyirig premise of the FDA guidelines is that gay men should not faili,er chil~en; al%bugl:i the agency doesn't conic right out and· say that. It co~ve~:uently c,1rctirilven_t~ the charges of antigay discrimination by noting ?1at the gw?elines don t have the force of law, and that the agency's official regulations - which _do_ carry legal force - never use the words "gay" or "homosexual." Yet, as one sperm-bank director aori:utted to gay blogger Michael Petrelis, "A lot of clinics will use the guidelines as. an intimidation document and refuse gay donors." · . What's more, .the new .guid~es also have a direct impact on lesbian reproductive choice. Many lesbian coup1es pterer gay sperm donors. Indeed, they mav have chosen a sperm bank where donors_ agree to have their identity revealed at soni~ point in the future - usually when the child comes of age and want that donor to be "familv"· in more ways than one. , _ If yo:1 think that I'm sounding a false alarm, that our government doesn't get mvolved m _who can and can't reproduce, think again. In fact, the U.S. government has o~en tned to prevent or discourage certain people from having children - e~pec~~ poor women, women of color, and people with mcntai or physicai d1sabtl1ttes. 1 l l Page 23 It has accomplished this through sterilization programs disguised as "contraception" - perhaps most heinously, in a campaign of the 1970s that succeeded in sterilizing a fourth of :all Native American women living on government reservations. Individual abuses are still being documented, especially in cities with high immigrant and people-of-color populations. The other significant means by which the government restricts the reproductive rights of specific people is through punitive, economic policies that make it impossible for them to raise th~ own childrc:n. For example, the 1996 "welfare reform" bill instituted a "family cap" that limits paynients to women if they becomc:/pregnant while accepting governp:ient' assistance. UndersiAnd that, at the same time, our goycmment tries to make it more difficult for white,· middle-class women to _opt out_ of motherhood, by · . away at their right to choose. . . abortion is still technically legal in the United· States, fewer and fewer m2dical schools now teach the proc::edurc:, ar1d tl1e numbc;r of doctors perfowiog: abortions .has therefore been drastically reduced since the historic _Roe v. Wade_ decision of 1973. Of course, the new FDA guidelines for sperm donors may seem benign compared to egregious examples from the women's reproductive-rights movement. But the lesbian and gay community shouldn't fool itself into complacency. The guidelines are ultimately all about who is and isn't "fit'' to parent - who is, in effect, "mommy material," a phrase I coined a few years back. Now the FDA is poised to include gay men - based on their sexual _identity_, not on the realities of their sexual _behavior_ - under the rubric of those who aren't "daddy material." ® B 1g NYC's Wisstock Festival. to Celibrate 20th Anniversary on ffugust 27 The iegendary dfllg festival which refuses to "curl up and dye" will once again rock it's original SO's location in the East Village's · Tompkins Square Park on Saturday, August 27th 2005, from 5:00-7:00 pm. For the last 2 years, the wiggy festival has been organized in association with FEVA, the Federation of East Village Artists, which adds Wigstock to it's annual HOWL Festival line-up. HOWL's goal is to revitalize the East Village and commemorate its promine.o.ce as a cultural hotbed. Last year, over 6,000 turned out in the pouring :min to see such acts as Boy George, RuPaul, Lypsinka, Drag King Murray Hill, Comedy Centtal's Graham Norton and Holly Woodlawn, the Warhol superstar whose life inspired Lou Reed's "Walk on the Wtld Side." So far, Wigstock 2005 has confirmed transexual superstar/David Lachapelle muse Amanda Lepore, dancing fool and former Miss Continent21 Candis Cayne, comedilln/actor Mike Albo, the super-sized t21.ents of Sweetie, Billboard chart-topping <W1ce divo Kevin A viance and Flotilla Barge, whose evil SruJones' impersonation in a recent PETA ad made nationwide headlines! Of course, they'll _all be curated and emceed by Wigstock founder Lady Bunny who notes "20 yearsi I'm 26 now so I must have starting organizing the festival when I was 6 years old!" (And she's bee.o. using that line since 1992Q Expect a frel!k show with raunchy putp0r, scintillating song and dance numbers and a vibe of which the New York Tt1nes has said "the ban.a was dynamite." The audience is encouraged to dress up as well, providing a perfect audience for the queens' zany antics. Plus, it's a throwback to the East Village's glory days when the area was much grittier, and freaks couid sci!! afford to live in Manhattan. 1 p C 25 I l JUNIE 24 • 26 OKLAHOMA G:l"A', DK Talent Night Drink S Is H1111p brinkS Is Poo1·toumments Karaoke Best·in· Town I 9toClose ...c..e..P....a.. ... . page-26 Out o/Town from pg-12 on a quiet downtown street and offers two simple rooms, with rates from $70 to $80. Owners Jay and Judy Crondahl give plenty back to the community - if you stay at their B&B for three or more consecutive nights and book with them directly, you can make an equivalent contribution to one of three local nonprofit organizations (including PFLAG) in lieu of one night's payment. Juneau's most luxurious accommodations are invariably found in B&Bs and smaller inns. The romantic Pearson's Pond sits close to Mendenhall G:ader and offers cushy rooms, many with fireplaces and hot tubs. Alaska's Capital Inn sits right in the heart of the restaurant and retail action, offering seven attractively furnished rooms with whirlpool tubs and fireplaces, and an excellent full breakfast. If it's a magnificent view you're after, book a room at the gay-friendly Aurora View Inn, a majestic contemporary house high o!1 a bluff in Douglas, with unparalleled · vistas of downtown and the mountains beyond. Just beware that gazing out over this charmed capital of America's 49th state may render you unable to return home. The Little Black Book Above & Beyond Alaska (907-364-2333, www.beyondak.com). Alaska Boat and Kayak (907-789-6886, www.juneaukayak.com). Alaskan Hotel (Franklin St., 907~586-1000, www.alaskanhotel-juneau.com). Alaska's Capital Inn (113 W. 5th St., 907 -586-6507 or 888-588-6507, www.alaskascapitalinn.com). Aurora View Inn (2917 Jackson Rd., 907-586- 3036 or 888-580-8439, www.auroraview.com). Crondahl's B&B (626 5th St., 907-586:14§4,. . www.juneaucrondahls.com). Doc Water's Pub (Fisherman's Wharf, 907- 586-3627). Gastineau Guiding (907-586- 8231, www.stepintoalaska.com). Goldbelt Hotel (51 ~n Dr., 907-586- 6900 or 888-478-6909, www.goldbelttours.com). The Hangar (Fisherman's Wharf, 907-586-5018). Heritage Cafe (174 S. Franklin St. 907- 586-1087). The Hot Bite (Aukc B~y Marina, 907-790-2483). Island Pub (1102 2nd St., Douglas, 907-364-1595). Juneau Convention and Visitors Bureau (907- 586-1737, www.travcljuncau.com). Northstar Trekking (907-790-4530, www.glacicrtrek1cing.com). Pearson's Pond (4541 Sawa Circle, 907-789-3772 or 888-658-6328, www.pearsonspond.com). Perseverance Theatre (914 3rd St., Douglas, 907-463-TIXS, www.pcrscveranccthcatre.org). The Silvcrbow (120 2nd St., 907-586-4146 or 800-586-4146, www.silvcrbowinn.com). Twisted Fish (550 S. Franklin St., 907- 463-5033). Westmark Baranof Hotel (127 N. Franklin St., 907-586-2660 or 800-544- 0~70, www.westmarkhotels.com). Wings Airways/Taku Glacier Lodge trips (907- 586-6275 or 907-789-0790, www.wingsairways.com). Press Release WICHITA, KS _"June is PRIDE month - Come one, come all to help Wichita, KS celebrate the diversity of the prairie. Scheduled for June 26, 2005 is a 2:00 p.m. PRipE parade, followed by a speaker, music entertainment, prized, and fun for all. Parade registration is still possible with discount entry fees valid until a May 22nd postmark. Full price entries will be accepted until June 22nd. Parade walkers (friends, families, and pets) are welcome at no cost. Dress in vour PRIDE best and come participate. Vendors interested in setting up during or after the parade arc invited to contact Prairie Pride Productions, 316-617-8813. V cndor fees arc being waived this year in exchange for donations from each vendor to assure success of a PRIDE celebration in future years. Call the number above for parade rcgistr2tion forms, vendor forms, t-shirt pre-order information, and any questions you may have." Page 27 Seo es by Jack Fertig JUNE 2005 "1bink it through, Libra!" Saturn quincunx Pluto is continuing to force you through difficult selfexamination and hard choices. Mars in Pisces is triggering them both, offering spiritual insight and a push to work. But think ahead and sort things out carefully before taking action. ARIES (March 20 April 19): There seems to be precious little going right these days, so you may as well take a meditative retreat and charge your batteries. Just working on those insights is quite enough for you to handle now. TAURUS (April 20 - May 20): Imagine vou're on one of those TV survivor ;hows with all your friends. List them on paper, and scratch them away one at a time, each time thinking about why you're making that choice. What does this process tell you about your friendships? GEMINI (May 21 June 20): Your career right now is feeling about as stable as a surfboard at sea. To avoid wiping out, consider the balance of values and associations your goals are built on, and remember that the values have to be stronger. CANCER (June 21 - July 22): You're hungry for adventure now, but that's a temptation to disaster. Dig into your safe little nest and get your thrills intellectually or artistically instead. A good philosophical read or a sci-fi epic will take you where you need to go. LEO (July 23 August 22): A mad, passionate, erotic getaway will raise problems and be more trouble than it's worth, but the problems it brings to surface are exactly those you need to deal with. You can handle it. Make sure your partner is ready! VIRGO ~August 23 September 22): Social opportunities can stir up problems at home. Try to involve your partner - or, if you're single, a good friend - in helping you reconcile the two. A friend can also help you with relationship problems. LIBRA (September 23 - October 22): You need to think your actions through, but be careful not to dit.'1er. Too little or too much thinking can lead to accidents. Guidance from your boss or from any authority, even parents, will help you stay focused. SCORPIO (October 23 - November 21): Money problems have been a dug for a while. There's no easy fix, and impulse spending is not therapy - _au contra.ire_! Adventure is helpful. Any version of diversion or perversion provides both relief and perspective on your problems. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 December 20): Although you're extra sexy these days, you have some questions about personal and sexual integrity. Are they compromised by easy sex or obsolete habits? What do you need to work on to make sex more satisfying? CAPRICORN (December 21 January 19): Relationships are often a source - or core of anxiety. The old-fashioned approach talking honestly abour your fears and worries is best. Don't worry about focusing your thoughts and words. That will develop during the discussion. AQUARIUS 0anuary 20 February 18): What you want to achieve at work is now less important than how you go about it. Focus on the process and stay on the track you set earlier. Challenges from colleagues can offer opportunities to improve, but just stay on that track! PISCES (February 19 - March 19): Your energy is very high now, but easily scattered. Your goals may seem impossible, and your boss oppressive. Weather It through by focusing your energy into tasks that offer a chance to exercise some small sense o: playful creativity. Jack Fertig has been working as a professionai astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Networ.king. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864- 8302, rhrough his website at hctp:l lwww.starjack.com Page 28 Four States Community Directory -Bars- NightclubsArkansas, Fayetteville (479) Studio 7Hi- -716 W. Syc:1morc- - - - 479-571-130 Arkansas, Fort Smith (479) Kinkeads- 1004 1/2 Garmon Ave- - -479-783-9988 Club 10~ - -1022 Dodson .Ave.. - -479-782-1845 ArkHsu, Hot Sprba1s (501) Club One Eleven- - · 111 Garden St- - • -620-4111 Our Houae Lounge - 6tiO E. 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Marcy recounts her childhood in Tulsa, her education at Oklahoma Christian College, and her early awareness of her sexual orientation. She reflects on the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in a conservative environment, including the need for stealth and the importance of finding community. Sue, on the other hand, shares her upbringing in Ponca City, her academic journey at OSU, and the pivotal moment when she realized her feelings for her best friend. Both women discuss their relationships, the evolution of their identities, and the significance of community support in their lives. As they delve deeper into their experiences, Marcy and Sue recount their involvement with Oklahomans for Human Rights and the development of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. They reflect on the challenges of coming out to their families, the societal pressures they faced, and the importance of creating a safe space for LGBTQ+ individuals in Tulsa. Their stories are filled with humor, resilience, and a sense of belonging, showcasing the power of love and community in overcoming adversity. In this episode, Marcy Smith and Sue Welch share their inspiring journey of establishing a community center for the LGBTQ+ community in Tulsa, Oklahoma. They recount the grassroots efforts that began in the late 2 �1980s, during the AIDS crisis, when they faced skepticism and pushback from within their own community. Despite the challenges, they successfully organized fundraising events, such as house parties and the Wild Hearts Ball, to raise awareness and funds. Their determination led to significant milestones, including securing a $10,000 grant from a New York foundation and eventually purchasing a permanent space for their community center, which became a hub for support, celebration, and activism. The conversation highlights the importance of physical spaces for community gathering, especially in a time when virtual connections are prevalent. Marcy and Sue emphasize the need for ongoing support and engagement within the community, particularly in light of recent political challenges. They reflect on the center's role in pivotal moments for LGBTQ+ rights, including the legalization of same-sex marriage and the repeal of discriminatory laws. Their message is clear: maintaining a physical home for the community is essential for fostering connection, support, and resilience against adversity. Keywords LGBTQ+, Tulsa, Oklahomans for Human Rights, coming out, community support, Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, personal stories, Marcy Smith, Sue Welch, LGBTQ+ history, LGBTQ+ community, Tulsa, fundraising, community center, activism, AIDS crisis, grassroots efforts, Wild Hearts Ball, same-sex marriage, community support Takeaways ● "I knew pretty early probably 10 or 11 years of age." ● "You just find your people and can do things." ● "It was kind of a cover, right?" ● "I felt like I was living in the 1950s." ● "It was a pivotal thing to see that." ● "I think they were upset that they were having to deal with it." ● "My family has always been very progressive, very liberal." ● "We moved into a duplex that I had previously moved into." ● "We developed a campaign for a permanent visible presence." 3 �● "It was fantastic because I think we had such a large group." It was a very grassroots campaign, one person at a time. ● We had to prove ourselves first before getting large donations. ● We wanted to bring disparate groups together behind the same cause. ● The community bought into this; it was a beautiful thing. ● We had to create a physical space for gathering and support. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:16 Marcy's Childhood and Education 12:10 Sue's Upbringing and Early Relationships 24:00 Finding Community in Tulsa 38:55 Coming Out to Family and Friends 46:58 Involvement with Oklahomans for Human Rights 48:21 Grassroots Beginnings: Building Support 52:28 Creating Community Events for Fundraising 01:00:10 Challenges and Triumphs in Fundraising 01:08:50 Finding a Permanent Home for the Center 01:18:31 The Grand Opening and Community Impact 01:25:42 Reflections on Community and Future Challenges __________________________________________________________________ ____ 4 �Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Oral History Interview Jan 16, 2026 Toby Jenkins: Today's date is Friday, January the 16th, 2026, at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center in downtown Tulsa, Oklahoma. And we have Marcy Smith and Sue Welch. For our archival purposes, would you please give us your name, your age as today's date. Marcy Smith: Me, Marcy Smith, 62, gonna be 63 this year. Sue Welch: Sue Welch, 64. Toby Jenkins: Joining me in the interview today is the founder of Oklahomans for Equality, Dennis R. Neill, and Amanda Thompson, who is the archivist at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center, which houses the Nancy and Joe MacDonald Rainbow Library [where this interview is being conducted]. Marcy, tell us a little bit about your childhood and your family. When were you born? Marcy Smith: October 10th, 1963, right here in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins: What hospital? Marcy Smith: Well, I thought I was born in St. John, but recently, I found out I was born in Hillcrest. Toby Jenkins: And so your family was from Tulsa? Marcy Smith: Yes, my mom's family eventually was from Tulsa, but they had spent some time in Texas for quite some time. And then my dad was a sales rep for Skelly Oil Company and moved around a lot. I was born in Tulsa, and then 11 months later, my sister Karen was born in Joplin. And then 18 months after that, my sister Cindy was born in Fort Smith, Arkansas. Then we hung out in Arkansas for a little bit and then came back to Tulsa, so yeah. Toby Jenkins: Did you go to school? Marcy Smith: Went to- yes, went to elementary school, where the center now is for- at 11th and Utica, went to Jefferson Elementary School, which does not exist anymore, because of the center now, so. Toby Jenkins: The center for those with physical challenged? Marcy Smith: Yes, yes, not Oklahomans for Equality Center. 5 �Marcy Smith: So went to school there, and then we moved way out south in 1971 to Jenks, which was- Woodland Hills Mall didn't even exist. That 71st and Memorial, it was a gravel road still. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, and it was called Jenks USA. Marcy Smith: That's right, it was Jenks USA, and it was way the heck out there. So we moved out to Jenks and then finished school at Jenks High School, and thenToby Jenkins: And what year did you graduate? Marcy Smith: Graduated 1982. Toby Jenkins: 1982. Marcy Smith: Then went toToby Jenkins: How many were in your graduating class at Jenks? Marcy Smith: I think there were 482 people, something like that, yeah. And then went to Oklahoma Christian College for a couple of years. Toby Jenkins: Which is locatedMarcy Smith: In Edmond, Oklahoma. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Marcy Smith: Still is. Toby Jenkins: And it's a disciple’s college? Marcy Smith: It's Church of Christ. Toby Jenkins: Church of Christ, okay. And that's where you went for your undergraduate degree? Marcy Smith: Couple years there, and the reason I went was that my best friend from high school was Church of Christ, and I didn't have a- it's like, "Okay, I'll go there, that's fine." And ran into probably one of the largest groups of gays and lesbians on the planet. It's kind of a joke. Anyway, although it was not a veryToby Jenkins: At the Christian University? Marcy Smith: At the Christian College. 6 �Toby Jenkins: Right. Marcy Smith: Lots of gays and lesbians, lots of people trying to escape their parents in the small town. So it was kind of a- I guess it was what you would call a beard, right? It was a cover. So they're like, "Oh yeah, we're gonna go to a Christian's college and fix ourselves." But that was not happening there. So anyway. Although when they caught someone, it was pretty brutal how they dealt with getting rid of students at the college when they found out they were gay or lesbian, so. Toby Jenkins: So you went thereMarcy Smith: I was there for a couple years, and my best friend was in love with a guy back in Tulsa. She just couldn't finish- she had to come back to Tulsa. So there really wasn't anything for me to stay there for, so I came back to Tulsa and finished my degree at the University of Tulsa.Graduated in 1986 with an MIS degree, which was one of the very first computer science and business majors at the University of Tulsa. We were the second class, and I think there were only about seven of us. Toby Jenkins: And that would have been what year? Marcy Smith: That was 1986. Toby Jenkins: Okay, and how big was the computer in those days? Marcy Smith: Well, soToby Jenkins: It wasn't on- it couldn't be on your desk yet, could it? I think- yeah. Marcy Smith: Well, no, no, yeah. No, but it was heading that way. It was heading that way. So, no, they were pretty big, pretty big computers. But I pushed it as long as I possibly could, so that I didn't have to use punch cards to do my programming. And thankfully, I got out of that, so. But computers as we would know them are desktops. I think that was around 1991-1992, or something like that, when that became kinda mainstream. Toby Jenkins: And did you go work for a company, or were youMarcy Smith: Fresh out of college, I ended up- I had two job offers. One was to be a tape hanger for American Airlines in their computer room. The other was to be a programmer analyst for Tulsa County. My dad thought I made a really horrible mistake by not working for American Airlines on the third shift hanging tapes, which was like an aerobic exercise job at the time. 7 �You can imagine their processing center and imagine their processing center today. But yeah, he thought I was silly for- 'cause I would've gotten fine benefits and stuff like that, so. But I never looked back on that. It's not what I wanted to do, so. Toby Jenkins: And how long were you with Tulsa County? Marcy Smith: About 18 years. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Toby Jenkins: And so are you gonna be able to draw your Tulsa County pension? Marcy Smith: As a matter of fact, in November of 2025, I got my first retirement check. Marcy Smith: So yeah, I'm happy about that. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. They didn't pay us much, but we've got pension. Marcy Smith: No. But yeah, the benefits are really good. Yeah, but when I left Tulsa County in 2004, that rule of '80, I thought, there's just no way I'm gonna reach that, right? So that was 22 years ago. But as it got closer and closer, I was really happy about it, so we'll have some fun on that. Toby Jenkins: So you encountered other lesbian and gay students. Is that when you begin to realizeMarcy Smith: No, no. I knew pretty early, probably 10 or 11 years of age. Marcy Smith: And then, just because of the climate, dated- in quotes, dated guys in high school and got asked in high school because there was some stuff going on with the girls' basketball team, which I was on the basketball team. There were several lesbians on the basketball team. And so there got to be a kind of an uproar at some point. People were being questioned. And so my parents sat me down and I just lied straight to their face, 'cause I didn't wanna be in the middle of it. So thankfully, got out of that without a whole lot of issues, so. But it was a- Jenks back then, it was a pretty rural school. A lot of bubba's running around, a lot of individuals threatening people and some violence and vandalism of cars and stuff like that going on, so. So I didn't wanna call attention to it. Toby Jenkins: At college, even at your Christian college, I mean, did you hang out with those individuals and y'all just kind of were stealth atMarcy Smith: Well, yeah, you know how we are. We find our people, right? And so you hang out with your people. And so yeah, it was just a matter of just figuring out what you 8 �can and cannot do. But I will say- yeah, Oklahoma Christian College was smaller than my high school.When we went there, and I felt like I was living in the 1950s. When we got on campus, the girls dorms were locked at night, the guys were not. The guys could do whatever they wanted at night after hours on the weekend, stuff like that. I knew I wasn't gonna be long for that. It was just like, well, I'm just going here because my friend was here. And once that started happening, I just felt like I was caged in and so- but it was kind of odd environment. It kinda felt like you were in a bubble, this Christian bubble, and everything was wonderful and fine and all of that. Who knows what the administrators thought, but that wasn't what was going on behind the scenes with the students and stuff, so you just find your people and can do things. I ended up getting a job at a really nice restaurant there in Edmond called Joe Kelly's and it was a steakhouse, and people would have their high school events there and graduation and stuff like that. But I was the first- it was called a barback, so you're a bartender's assistant. Here I am going to a Christian college and I'm working at a bar, and when I would come home at night after doing my shift at the restaurant, I was literally covered in alcohol and smoke, 'cause you could smoke back then, right? At 02:00-03:00 in the morning, I had to wake up the resident assistants, this woman who took care of us at the dorm, had to wake her up at 02:00 AM in the morning, coming in just covered in alcohol. So anyway, that was kinda funny, people would do that. Toby Jenkins: Did you start socializing with this group of students who were in hiding, or did that happen when you got to TU? I mean, when did you create a clique of friends, whoMarcy Smith: When I left Oklahoma Christian College which was in Edmond, obviously, and came home to Tulsa, I really didn't stay in touch with most of them. They were from all over Oklahoma and all over the country, actually. So when I came back to Tulsa, I came back to Tulsa because I had a relationship with a woman at the time. We ended up moving in together and I finished out my degree at University of Tulsa at that point, and then just kinda started hanging out with everybody here in Tulsa, so really kinda through the softball chain of- I mean, just kinda how it was. Toby Jenkins: Lesbian day, or? Marcy Smith: Yeah, yeah, that's right, softball stuff. And then, the bars at the time and line dancing and all that kinda stuff. So you're going out to the bars andToby Jenkins: Do you remember what bars you went to? 9 �Marcy Smith: Oh. Well, I can't remember the name of the bar that was on Memorial there at 15th Street. Toby Jenkins: TNT's? Marcy Smith: No. Well, it wasn't- no, it was prior to TNT's and where people were playingyou know the name of the bar? Sue Welch: The Club. Marcy Smith: The Club, it's called The Club. So anyway, you had to knock and they open up the window and let you in, and all that kinda stuff. Toby Jenkins: And that was at 15th at Memorial? Marcy Smith: 15th, right, yeah, yeah, 15th Street, dead-ended, right into Memorial. And then, The Club was there and it was like a little house, actually. It wasn't very big. But they had an outdoor space, so volleyball and have fires and stuff like that. You can hang out outside The Club. Sue Welch: Jodie and Mary owned it. Marcy Smith: Yeah. So thenToby Jenkins: And it was a girls club? Marcy Smith: Yeah. And then you had the star, Silver Star, right? So that was 15th and Sheridan, and then TNT's. And then, theMarcy Smith: Off of Yale, what was it? 34th and Yale. There's also a club called the Crash Landing at the time [Crash Landing was at 5th and S. Lewis], that was a pretty coolToby Jenkins: So is Zippers closed by this time? Marcy Smith: No, Zippers- was it always called Zippers? I don't know if it was always called Zippers or not, but that was another place that we would go to, so. Toby Jenkins: So softball. Marcy Smith: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: And these are clubs. Marcy Smith: Yes. 10 �Toby Jenkins: Did you know anything about Oklahomans for Human Rights or pride, or? Marcy Smith: I guess it was probably real early 90s when I got involved with OHR, TOHR. That was kinda the transition time, I think, when it was moving from those names and stuff over. Specifically, I believe it was when we were over on Peoria, I think. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Marcy Smith: So that's kinda the first access in trying to assist and volunteer and stuff like that, so. Toby Jenkins: Let's put Sue on the hot seat. Marcy Smith: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: And see how similar her story is or how different it is. Before we do that, I wanna ask you, tell me about meeting Sue. Marcy Smith: It was a New Year's Eve party at a friend's house. Lots of people there, I don't know, probably 30 or 40 women, maybe more than that. And this will date us- so it was all about Trivial Pursuit. So we're playing Trivial Pursuit, it's pretty competitive. She walked in with her then-partner, and I was around a coffee table or something like that, knee-deep in the Trivial Pursuit. And I just looked up and she walked in with her then-partner. And it wasI don't know how- maybe I said something to someone like, "Who's that?" They were like, "Sue Welch and Darlene." So anyway, that's how we met, but there was something at that just initial glance. And so anyway, I'll let her tell the rest, but it was just a party. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Beautiful. Sue, where were you born and where are you from? Sue Welch: I was born in Ponca City, Oklahoma on April 30th, 1961. Dennis was born there too, it's our hometown, both of us. Marcy Smith: It's in the water. Sue Welch: Yeah. A nice, sweet little, small town, a great town to be born and raised in. Not a great town to stay, but a great town to be born and raised in. Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Were you born in the hospital there? Sue Welch: Yes. Toby Jenkins: And what was the name of that hospital? Sue Welch: Ponca City Hospital. 11 �Toby Jenkins: Okay. And tell us about your family. Sue Welch: My family, my mother's Cherokee and my dad is English. And they had a great love affair and were married till they passed and were wonderful parents. But my dad is a third-generation brick mason. Hiss grandfather, before statehood, had a brick yard in Ponca City. And he built the first brick home. So from my great-grandfather to my grandfather to my father and his brothers, it was a third-generation brick mason company, Welch Masonry Construction. Toby Jenkins: So they've been there for a while. Are there still- if you were to go to Ponca City today, are there still buildings that they built? Sue Welch: Oh, dozens and dozens, yes. Buildings and homes, yes. Yeah, you could have a Welch Masonry tour of Ponca City. Toby Jenkins: So did you go to school in Ponca City? Sue Welch: Yes, I went to Ponca City High School. And it was- we actually had a very large graduating class. It was 415 people for our graduating class. And I thought it wasToby Jenkins: So you all probably played Jenks in sports. Sue Welch: I wasn't really into sports. I don't know that. Could be. But I studied a lot. Sue Welch: Well, it may have been a little too far away. Toby Jenkins: Oh, okay. Sue Welch: Maybe at state and regionals, but not on a conference level. Sue Welch: I wouldn't have known. I went to the football games just for fun. So don't ask me any of those stats. Marcy Smith: Too popular. Sue Welch: I was the prom queen. So there's that. Toby Jenkins: Says so much. Sue Welch: But not the football queen, so. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. So what year did you graduate? Sue Welch: I graduated in 1979. 12 �Toby Jenkins: And did you go to school after that? Sue Welch: Yes, after that, I went to OSU. And in 1983, got my degree in natural sciences, my bachelor's degree in natural sciences. Loved OSU. That was great. That was where my best friend and I started having deeper feelings about each other, so…in high school and throughout a large- oh, the first half of college, my boyfriend from high school, the wrestling star, we became engaged. So in high school- in college, we were going to be married right after college. My best friend and I started becoming very, very close, and I just kept thinking, "Oh my God, I can't graduate and leave my friend. This would be horrible." And we just kept getting deeper and deeper feelings, and I thought, "What is going on here?" Sue Welch: And so I talked to my mom about it, and I said, "I think I'm going crazy or something." She said, well, honey, I can't believe that any love is wrong. And I never looked back. So I left my fiancé. Toby Jenkins: And that would've been- you would've been ... Marcy Smith: She called off the wedding. Yeah. Sue Welch: Yeah. Sue Welch: The dress was all done. The invitations were ... - yeah. It was on the way. Marcy Smith: The colors were picked, all the stuff. Toby Jenkins: The runaway bride. Marcy Smith: Yes. Sue Welch: Yes. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. How old would you've been? Sue Welch: So that would have been, let's see, right when I graduated, right at 1983. So 21, 22. Toby Jenkins: So you had this discussion with your mother. I'm just guessing there probably weren't a bunch of lesbians in Ponca City to help mentor you. Sue Welch: There may have been, but I did not know them. Toby Jenkins: Okay. 13 �Sue Welch: I didn't know anyone in the community. I didn'tToby Jenkins: It's 'cause you weren't going to softball camp. Sue Welch: That's right. My gaydar was not tuned at the time, so yeah. Toby Jenkins: You went to OSU. What was that experience like for you now that you had ended that relationship and probably were figuring out? Sue Welch: We moved into a house together, and we had a few friends, both of us. We were each other's first experience, and so neither of us knew of any community per se, but we did find a few friends, half a dozen, 10 friends that we hung out with a little bit. Then we broke up, and someone introduced me to a woman in Tulsa. And when I left OSU and came to Tulsa to establish my practice here, there was a huge community. So many people. I was just like, "Wow, this is amazing." So much so that my partner was a teacher, and my sister, when she would visit, she said, "Well, are all teachers lesbians?" So such a great, huge community. So that was fantastic to experience. Marcy Smith: Well, and you have gay guy friends to this day from OSU. Sue Welch: Well, not from a- well, they were gone at the same time. Yeah, but we didn't hang out a lot. We found each other kind of after. In Tulsa. And I was like, "I knew you in OSU." So we kind of, all of us were in hiding there once I did come out of OSU. Toby Jenkins: So you didn't really connect to the LGBTQ community at OSU. It was when you came to Tulsa. Sue Welch: Yes. Toby Jenkins: And when you say there was a huge community, what did that look like? Sue Welch: Oh my gosh. Toby Jenkins: Were there just house parties, or people went to eat together, or? Sue Welch: House parties, going to the bars, dancing, potlucks, softball. My partner was a well-respected softball umpire, so lots of softball. Of course she was. And so yeah, just a lot of socializing. A lot of socializing. Toby Jenkins: Did either of you ladies ever interact with the flag football team, the girls' flag football team? Sue Welch: No. 14 �Toby Jenkins: Okay. Well, that's who helped me come out. I always say I was raised by wolves, because the girls' flag football team. So it was a huge community, and you were in a relationship. Sue Welch: Yes. Toby Jenkins: And what was your career at this time? Sue Welch: I was licensed by the medical board as an electrologist. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Sue Welch: And I did that for 22 years in Broken Arrow and in Tulsa. Toby Jenkins: And you were in a relationship. Do you remember kinda what the environment was like for you in Tulsa, what it was like to go to gay clubs and, as you said, find so many people? Sue Welch: It was fantastic. Because I think we had so many- such a large group, I didn't recognize feeling a lot of threat. I knew some of our male counterparts were threatened. But we just didn't go to places that allowed us to be threatened. We didn't go out unless we were in big numbers. We only went to certain places. The Club was very private, very protected. So that's kind of what that was like. Toby Jenkins: And what was that like? You hit the parking lot, and the minute you walk through the doorSue Welch: Yeah, it's freedom. Yeah, freedom. Toby Jenkins: You could hold hands. Like, cheers, hey. Sue Welch: Absolutely. Toby Jenkins: You could hold hands? Yeah. Sue Welch: Yeah, freedom, absolutely. Sue Welch: But not out at work, not out to any clients, not out to friends who were not LGBT. Toby Jenkins: So I'm gonna ask you both this question, but tell me about the first time you saw Marcy. 15 �Sue Welch: So it was a party, and my partner and I walked in, and there were people playing at a table. And Marcy has these beautiful brown piercing eyes, and so I noticed her naturally. And it was probably another year after, and it was a New Year's party, and it struck midnight. And I'm a pretty private person, private physically. I'm very demonstrative, but kissing on the lips was really a personal thing for me. And it struck midnight, and Marcy just planted a kiss right on my lips. And I was like, "Wow." Marcy Smith: She wasn't the only person that I kissed. Sue Welch: Well, no. Marcy Smith: I mean, it was New Year's Eve. Everybody ... . Sue Welch: Marcy wasn't as protective of her lips as I was. So but yes, I was like, "Oh, my God." That was sparky. So yeah. And then our partners, the four of us became close friends, and you know the story. So we could not- we were inseparable. And we all four worked on our partnerships. We knew there were some feelings. But we were inseparable and just in so much pain not being able to see each other that the partnership split. AndToby Jenkins: For you all to be together? Marcy Smith: Yep. Toby Jenkins: Okay. That would've been what year? Marcy Smith: '92. Toby Jenkins: '92? Marcy Smith: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Sue Welch: In the 1900s. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Sue Welch: In the 1900s, we got together. Toby Jenkins: So I asked both of you, and you said you found community here. You found that because you got on the Internet, right? And you looked up where the gay bars were. Marcy Smith: Oh right, because the Internet existed. No, the Internet didn't quite exist yet. Well, I guess 1992-ish is about the time it started taking off. Those were chat rooms. 16 �Toby Jenkins: Do you remember any public officials or movie stars or rockstars, who were out in open who you could look at and see, oh, this is how you- this is what it is? Sue Welch: Eventually, Lilly Tomlin came out. Eventually, through the horrible AIDS crisis, we saw stars, Rock Hudson die, whether they'd come out prior or not. But no, there were no authority figures, people that you could look up to, to have any kind of guidance that way. Toby Jenkins: Social media non-existent. Sue Welch No. The Gay Yellow Pages, literally a book that you would look in to find places. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Couldn't text people messages. Marcy Smith: Nope, nope. Sue Welch: No. Toby Jenkins: Couldn't send them pictures. Marcy Smith: No. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So we've talked about you meeting each other. Could you just real quickly emphasize to us and our viewers, what it was like when you had the discussion with your families to say, I'm a lesbian, I have a partner. Or can you kind of tell about those experiences, if you had those experiences with your parents. Marcy Smith: My family is kinda the 'don't ask, don't tell' family. Don't mess with my stuff. I'm not gonna mess with your stuff. We're not gonna have a lot of drama. So all this time, I was just kinda living my life, but wasn't really putting it in my parents' face, so to speak. Obviously, I wasn't bringing any guys home. And then Sue and I had been together for a little bit. But so what happened was, well, same-sex marriage didn't exist. So there was a company, a travel company called Olivia Travel Company. They were also a record company at the time that was promoting lesbian artists. And so it's an all-women's cruise, which is really neat. So Sue and I were gonna do that. And on these cruises, because you could not get legally married, they would haveSue Welch: Union ceremonies. Marcy Smith: Unions, yeah. Toby Jenkins: Commitment ceremony. 17 �March Smith: A commitment ceremony. So that's how my family found out, because we sent out announcements to my family that Sue and I were going to have a commitment ceremony in Mexico, and that's how my family found out. It was kind of ripply, quite frankly. And it was kinda like, I guess, how people can be like, how could you not know that Sue and I were a couple, but sometimes straight people don't really see things. So it was a little bit rough. We timed it pretty quickly before we went to the- so we could hurry up and get out of town and get on the cruise and let my family deal with it. So that's kinda how my family found out, which was literal announcement. Toby Jenkins: So you said it was rough. I mean, were they upset, or were they questioning you, or just mad that you hadn't told them before? Marcy Smith: Yeah, yeah. I think they- I don't know, 'cause I didn't really sit down and talk with them quite honestly. It was like, just y'all deal with it. Sue Welch: I think they were upset that they were having to deal with it. Marcy Smith: Yeah. Sue Welch: They were being forced to deal with it. Marcy Smith: Yes. Yeah, and this was something that they probably had pushed down for decades, obviously. It's like, "Oh my gosh, now they have to come to terms with it." I think my parents probably thought, in some form or fashion, that they had failed, and all those things that you hear. But ultimately, my mom embraced us and kinda became the mom down here at the center. So mom spent at least 10 years, I think, or more volunteering down at the center and baking brownies for people and things like that. So she committed to that once, I think, she came to terms with it. And so that was really neat. Sue Welch: She was great. Toby Jenkins: Sue, what about you, your family? I know you'd had the conversation with your mother. Sue Welch: Well, my family found out about our commitment ceremony in the same way, with the announcements. But all through Marcy had been my third relationship. And all through…they knew about my relationships, accepted my partners, and were very loving and accepting. Accepted them as family, they came to family reunions. So when we sent out the announcements, I got calls, "That sounds nice, honey. Well, good for you." 18 �Ohe worst one, or the most uncomfortable one, I guess, was from one of my sisters, and she just called and said, "Well, I just wanna call and tell you I got your announcement about your thing. And just wanna tell you I got it." That was about the most outside effect. But my family has just always been- I've been so fortunate, the way they've accepted me. Yeah. Toby Jenkins: Do you think your family's had issues with religion and sexuality? Were those any kinda struggles or politics? I mean, they were super conservative politically. Did they seem to show concern about how this was gonna make them look in their business or around, don't tell your grandmother. I mean, was there any kind of those? Marcy Smith: I think, from my father's perspective, that he was concerned about his reputation and his business reputation and the country club stuff and all of that. I remember in particular, he wanted a trip to Paris and through his company and he's like, "I don't wanna go to Paris. And I said, "Well, I'd like to go to Paris. I'll go on that trip." And it was an oil company trip thing and- so before it got too far down the line, he made it very clear to me that I was not to take my partner with me to on this trip. And so it was like, "You can take your mom." And so I said, "Okay, I'm gonna go to the city of love and take my mom." I mean, I love my mom, but. So anyway, so that was made very, very clear, that I was supposed to basically behave, in front of his peers and cronies and stuff like that for that trip, so. Toby Jenkins: Were you able to bring girlfriends home to your parents’ houses, your mom or dad's house for gatherings? Marcy Smith: So I mean, like Sue said, it's not like I was this dating feen. We had two- one, I had one, but I had a high school relationship but that was not, quite frankly, ever gonna go anywhere, but anyway. So two basic relationships before I got with Sue. Sue and I have been together for 34 years now, so it wasn't like there were this a bunch of women that I was bringing home. Toby Jenkins: Okay, what about you, Sue? Did the family feel any- I mean, were you able to take… Sue Welch: Oh yeah, yeah, from the get-go. My first relationship, second relationship, Marcy, they were all included in holidays, gatherings, accepted by my family and my sister that has lived in Oklahoma for- not currently, but for most of her life. Yeah, they were just part of the family and my partner. 19 �Marcy Smith: And I would agree with that. I don't want it to sound like my family was wanted me to not bring. ..I mean, they were- whoever I brought home, part of the family. My mom was one of seven children, so everybody was welcome. Toby Jenkins: No political pushback, no religious pushback? Marcy Smith No, because we are the 'don't ask, don't tell' family. So we didn't really bring that stuff up at all. Toby Jenkins: What about you, Sue? Sue Welch: No, no, my family's always been very progressive, very liberal, although we were raised in a fairly strict Lutheran Church, my family's never been that linear. Their Christianity really is what would Jesus do and love everyone. Toby Jenkins: Fortunate. Do you both feel fortunate that you were born into the families you were born into? Marcy Smith: Yes Sue Welch: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: 'Cause we're about to change gears just a little bit here, because surely, as you were hanging out at what places identified as the community, you were encountering people who did not have those experiences, could not take partners home, hadn't spoke to their families. I know that was something you probably were saying. So you're together…You're building your life together. I mean, did you move into an apartment together? Was there a U-Haul involved? We've always heard- I meanSue Welch: We moved into a duplex that I had previously moved into and we- then Marcy, moved in. Then we purchased the duplex and then we purchased a home in Midtown. Marcy Smith: Well, no, we purchased a second duplex. So we had two duplexes. Sue Welch: And then we purchased a home in Midtown, which we were renovating while we still lived in the first duplex. And when we moved to Midtown, it's kind of when we started finding more out about the gay pride parades and the center on Peoria and going to the center on Peoria, and seeing a little gift shop. And just- but for me, all the kids, the young kids that were there, and thinking, "Gosh, had I known about that sooner, I may have come out sooner, I don't know." but it was just- it was a pivotal thing to see that. Toby Jenkins: And of course, were you- at this time Marcy, you were still working for Tulsa County. Did they know? 20 �Marcy Smith I did not come out to- I mean literally say this to my peers, but I didn't hide my relationship with Sue and whenever we had- if we were doing chili cook-offs or whatever we were doing forToby Jenkins: Holiday parties. Marcy Smith: - fundraisers or things like that, it was just assumed that Sue would be there. So- but no, I didn't literally say to my boss, "This is who Sue is." Toby Jenkins: So you don't feel like you've experienced discrimination, justMarcy Smith: I don't know if I did or not, I just head down, get my career going and all that kinda stuff. So I don't know. Toby Jenkins: Just out of curiosity, would you have had a desk and would on your desk, would there have been a picture of your partner, and would you've had somebody ask you, like a new employee might say, "Are you married, do you have husband, do you have kids?" I meanMarcy Smith: I- to be honest, I cannot remember if I had a picture of SueSue Welch: You weren't out that much. Marcy Smith: No, no. No, I did not push that. No. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Okay. Sue, you had your medical profession. And what about with your clients? I mean, were youSue Welch: No, not out all. Toby Jenkins: You guarded that very carefully. Sue Welch: I may have had two clients that I was out to, but that's it. Toby Jenkins: Okay. So you've moved to Brookside, the Rainbow Ribbon, as it's called. And the center, as you call it, was just down the street. And what did that center look like? Sue Welch: It was small. It was small. It wasn't well appointed. I mean it was fantastic 'cause it served a great purpose, but just in comparison to where we're sitting now, it was small and not greatly appointed. It was hidden. Toby Jenkins: Wasn't accessible. 21 �Sue Welch: You had to go in a small door, climb some stairs. There wasn't signage, so that's kinda what I remember. The store was very, very small, maybe just one cabinet, some jewelry or something, as I recall. Toby Jenkins: And you would go to pride? Sue Welch: Yes, at that time, at least for a couple or few times, the pride parade went down Peoria, which was fantastic. So we started doing that and then we would go to pride every year beyond that. Toby Jenkins: Okay. When did- I mean, did you volunteer or did you just support it? Sue Welch: We mostly just supported at that time. And there were starting to be visible churches that were supportive, and there was one on Peoria also, and so we'd usually stand at that location. Toby Jenkins: That would've been All Souls ... ? Sue Welch: No, further south... . Toby Jenkins: Southwest Presbyterian, or? Sue Welch: Probably that Presbyterian one, yeah. Marcy Smith: It wasn't Southminster. It's not there anymore. It's right there where the green space is across from Charleston's. Sue Welch: Mm-hmm. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, the United Methodist Church. Marcy Smith: Yes, it was the United Methodist Church. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, I know. I forget the name of that, but. Okay, so you'd watch the parade. Sue Welch: And we'd join in at the end of the parade. At that time it was small enough, you could just walk with it. Toby Jenkins: Now did you ever attend the events like before the parade, where we had to walk down the sidewalks? Sue Welch: I don't know that we knew about those events. 22 �Toby Jenkins: Prior to that? Okay. And so the center was the headquarters of Tulsa Oklahoma for Human Rights, right? Correct? That y'all had already branded by that? Okay. Dennis Neill: Since '85. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. And, so you were there. I know that somewhere along the line, you got into the cause, got drafted, recruited, or fell into it accidentally. The desire for us to have a more permanent home because we weren't at- the center was not at that location very long, was it? Sue Welch: No. Toby Jenkins: And then it moved. Marcy Smith: And that happened at least three times within a fairly five to six year period of time. Because somehow or another, we got a lease signed but eventually the landlords weren't really happy about the clientele. Not that it was rowdy or outrageous or anything like that. So then we moved to, or TOHR moved to the space at 21st and Memorial by TNTs, the bar there. Toby Jenkins: Above TNT's. Marcy Smith: Above TNT's. And not a very, in my opinion, positive space because the smoke was seeping through the cinder block. It got to the point, I couldn't spend much time there because of how- it just was not a positive space. And that's kinda where the rumblings of the capital campaign happened. But yeah, we got recruited at a party by Nancy McDonald. We didn't know why we got invited to this party. Sue Welch: It was actually more surreptitious than that. We started having more friends, and so we got invited to this party. She was there but she told someone after that party, "You need to call those girls and get them involved." So we got a call and were asked to get on this group to help develop and work on a capital campaign for a permanent equality center. Toby Jenkins: Okay. Sue Welch: Found out later, Nancy was the impetus for that. Toby Jenkins: And so, you got asked to serve on that? Toby Jenkins: And what were those early days like? 23 �Sue Welch: So we did have, before moving from Peoria, we did have a couple, the very first meetings there. And Marcy and I are really organized and conducting meetings, let's get something done. So I think we exhibit our leadership pretty quickly. And a lot of people don't want to be in charge. So I became the capital chair at the time. And we developed a campaign, the United Way always has a name of their campaign, so we thought we need a name for this. And so we developed the Pyramid Project. And this was a beautiful little book telling everyone about it and how it would be such a wonderful thing to have our own center, where we wouldn't have to move, a permanent visible presence. And so we just went from there and from each place we would move, we would have more meetings. We did, thanks to Dennis and Nancy as I recall, we had training from the Gill Foundation that was a weekend long. And we brought in a lot of people to that and helped develop our focus a lot more about what amount we'd be raising, how we would do that. They had some really great booklets about fundraising. And again at the time, there were no foundations in Oklahoma, much less Tulsa, who would support us until later. So it was a very grassroots campaign. It was one person at a time, one gay person in Tulsa at a time getting them on board, having them donate funds. And then we got- I remember sending out a really sappy tear-jerky letter to a foundation in New York City, who I had heard reading through these manuals with Nancy, gave money to gay causes. And they gave us our first check from a foundation, a $10,000 check from a foundation. And after that, a friend called me from the George Kaiser Foundation and said, "George was looking at the newspaper on his desk about you all and the money you're raising, and he'd like to talk with you about this and see if he could get involved." And I was like, "Okay." Dominoes, so the dominoes started. The Schusterman Foundation. But we had- before any of this large money that way, we focused on house parties, individual people, really telling them how this could happen, would happen, and it would be amazing. We had our main donors. And Dennis helped with that group and really helped us get going. So it was a house party at a time. Marcy Smith: Then again, we're still in the midst of the AIDS crisis at this time. I mean, it's still kind of going on in the late 80s and early 90s as well. And when this kicked off, I will tell you, we got some pushback from the gay guys in the community that here are two women, two- that they didn't even know. Like, we're on the D list. They don't even know who we are. Stepping up to do this. And also, at the time, there had been at least one other nonprofit 24 �organization who had a capital campaign and the funds were misused. And so of course, the thought was like, "Well, this is gonna go the same way, even though it had nothing to do with it." It was really difficult to convince, I guess you'd call them the movers and shakers at the time, in the gay community. And then, of course, trying to pull the lesbian community into it was tough. But kind of being told to our face and also hearing what was being said behind our back gave us-Fuel…some fuel to kinda set this up. And we had to do it differently, like Sue said, because we weren't in L.A, we weren't in New York, we're literally- Ford Foundation would cut a check. We didn't have that here. And so, the way we had to do it here was totally opposite. Usually, you got these big donations at the beginning that kickstarted you. And here we had to prove ourselves first. Toby Jenkins: Public dollars. Oh, the public dollars in those places. Marcy Smith: And- yeah, there's not gonna be anything from the state. Nothing was going to happen like that here. But because of that, I think it really built this incredible foundation and support for the purpose of it. And again, it was about building this home, a permanent visible presence here. Toby Jenkins: Sue, talk a little bit about how y'all used social events to create buy-in and raise money at the same time. Sue Welch: I think there were disparate clubs around town and kind of cliquish groups around town. But we wanted to really bring everybody together. So we had- and in years past, there was a large party called the Black and White Party that was hosted by gay guys in Tulsa, which was a really nicely well-attended party. But it was just a party. So we wanted to bring this disparate group of people together behind the same cause. And there had not been a citywide gay party, LGBT party in decades. And so, we developed what we called the Wild Hearts Ball. And the first one we had was at the, then Brady Mansion. And there were so many people there. And this was the first big thing that had happened in Tulsa in a long time. And so we would show a big party, nice music, nice food. We'd show a video about this and ask for donations. And it was just so compelling for people to see so many people there joining in and know that we could all do this together. Toby Jenkins: And everybody could be invited to it. Marcy Smith: Exactly. Sue Welch: Oh yeah. Toby Jenkins: It wasn't an exclusive party. 25 �Sue Welch: Exactly, it was not exclusive. Toby Jenkins: It wasn't a girl party, a boy party. Sue Welch: No. Exactly. Yeah, it was the entire community. And that was really super because of our- we would send out a quarterly newsletter. Marcy Smith: This was postal mail about ... . Sue Welch: Postal mail. This is in sizeToby Jenkins: This one's an email. Sue Welch: This is in size 11 point font. See all these names? These are $10 donors to $10,000 donors. The entire community bought into this. It was a beautiful thing. Toby Jenkins: And it was all very smooth and unified, wasn't it? Seu Welch: Yes, yes. Everyone got along. Marcy Smith: Well, no. When we look at itSue Welch: Well, behind the scenes, we had to fight to get where we were, but everyone was just really pushing in the same direction. It was great that way. Marcy Smith: And again, it's tough to get- I'm sorry, lesbians onboard, 'cause they like to do their sports, they like to do the softball and all that kinda stuff and go to the bars. And so kinda pulling them out was a little difficult. So we did- so we- so it was like how many different ways can we slice this pie and serve it up to people to get people involved? So then we came up with the concept of the Women's Tea Dance. And also supporting women owned businesses and also provide nonprofit organizations the ability toSue Welch: Showcase. Marcy Smith: - Showcase their businesses to women. So imagine that, okay? So you got an all-women Women's Tea Dance, right? We are contacting, I don't know how many places we contacted and got no after no after no after no. No, we are not going to rent to you for a bunch of lesbians. I don't know what they thought it was gonna be. Some, I don't know, orgy or something like that. So we got turned down how many times and then we finally approached Frances. Sue Welch: So the last place I went to was the Greenwood Cultural Center. And I've been everywhere. Physically, meeting face-to-face with people. And so I met with Frances, told her who we were, what we were doing, that it was for ... campaign. 26 �Marcy Smith: She's director. Sue Welch: Frances Jordan, the Executive Director of the Greenwood Cultural Center. Marcy Smith: She, by the way, is still the Executive Director of the Greenwood today. Sue Welch: So I gave all my spiel and she said, "Well, Sue." And I expected a no. "Well, Sue, here at the Greenwood Cultural Center, we do not discriminate. So we'd be happy to have you." I was like, "Yay!" So at that first one and subsequent ones, we had 300- more than 300 lesbians from all across the city. And that was fantastic. Huge gatherings. Toby Jenkins: Now to pull in women, you also did the calendar girls. Marcy Smith: So yeah, there was a movie. I don't even know when the movie was, in the mid 90s or something. It was based on a true story. The calendar girls, which was an older group of women in Great Britain, who were trying to raise money for a wing to be added on to their very small hospital. So they came up with this idea to basically have a nudie calendar. Sue Welch: A boudoir calendar. Marcy Smith: A boudoir calendar. So we did the same thing, but what we did was- and I was really proud of these women that did this, 'cause we were partially Sue Welch: We were surprised by the women who said yes. Marcy Smith: Yeah, I mean, there were some pretty revealing photographs in this calendar. So what- so we didn't know if anybody was gonna- we didn't think anybody would buy the calendar. So we had them get sponsors. So they had to recruit as many people as possible to donate a minimum of like $250 or $500 or something like that to sponsor their month. That's how we raised. I mean, we were just happy to raise $5,000 at a time. $5,000 here, $5,000 there, to start building toward this million dollar, which was a monumental amount of money. When it was determined that that's what we were gonna need to do this, I mean, the community's likeSue Welch: Can't do it. Marcy Smith: "There's no way. You will never do that. Never do that." Sue Welch: The end point was $1.3 million. Toby Jenkins: And so there were naysayers, and there were people who were divisive, and there were people who may have been difficult. You had that, right? 27 �Sue Welch: Yeah, but not for long. Marcy Smith: And once the momentum started, itToby Jenkins: So I think I remember garden parties, the garden tour. Sue Welch: We did, we had a home and garden tour. Marcy Smith: Yeah, we did. Sue Welch: We really tried to model things that- the firemen did a calendar for United Way, so-and-so did a home and garden tour for whatever. So we try to model things that would make sense. That people would kind of already know how that worked and go, "Oh my gosh, so the gay community is doing that, great, let's get on to that." Toby Jenkins: What about the LGBT film festival? Was that alsoMarcy Smith: OUT OK. Sue Welch: So OUT OK, that was really progressive for the time. That was the first LGBT out film festival. Phillip Oh and Mark Bonney were in charge of that. They brought films from everywhere, amazing films, and all the proceeds went to the capital campaign. Marcy Smith: Yeah, talk about being ahead of its time. Sue Welch: Yeah. Marcy Smith: Now there's like gay film festival all the time. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. So it was a long lengthy process of raising the money, but you were also creating community and building a unified vision. Very impressed that you were able to do that. But at the same time, you still had to be take care in the community. So there was community centers, yet during this time. We still had community centers and you wanna talk about some of the locations andMarcy Smith: Well, I think where we were, we were at 21st and Memorial, and I think that was a very difficult landlord. It ended up being a very difficult landlord situation. But for me personally, I was glad we got the heck out of Dodge out of that location. I think it was an oppressive location, just because of the color of it and the smell of the smoke. I mean, it just was not- it didn't feel healthy. Toby Jenkins: And it wasn't accessible there. Sue Welch: No. 28 �Marcy Smith: It wasn't welcoming. Toby Jenkins: You had to steps to go up. Sue Welch: No. Yeah. Toby Jenkins: And then, got up there and the meeting room was downstairs, the bathrooms were downstairs, but we were- it was our center, and we were proud of it. Sue Welch: Yeah. Marcy Smith: Oh yeah. So the next location was the shopping center at 41st off of Yale, right across from Ricardo's Mexican restaurant, which is still there. And so that was, I would say, the best place we had been. And I'm gonna guess it was maybe 3,600 square feet, maybe. Sue Welch: Sounds about right. Yeah, maybe- 3,500. Marcy Smith: - 3,500, So it's give or take, right? And pretty much an open space, so not a lot of segregated space, where people could have private meetings or whatever they might've been doing and so but same kinda thing. We were there for a while, and then the landlord got a little weirded out and stuff. We were just trying to bide our time to get this going, so that we could own our own home instead of being kicked out eventually. And I say that- they just didn't wanna renew the lease. Or they just decided, given us notice and whatever, so. Toby Jenkins: What were some of the services that were being offered at the center? Sue Welch: Well, I'm glad you're bringing that up, Toby, because behind the scenes, while all this was going, certainly, Dennis and other people and the volunteers- Dennis was getting the Gill foundation to set up computer labs and all ofToby Jenkins: The Bohnett Foundation Sue Welch: Yes, the Bohnett. And all the services continuing, grief groups and game nights andToby Jenkins: HIV testing. Sue Welch: Yes, and counseling and all those things were still going on. Toby Jenkins: I can remember, just wanna throw this out there and get your thoughts on it. I can remember at that Center, at in the Highland Park Shopping Center, volunteering on a night where it was first time I'd ever been interacting. We had a transgender support group. 29 �So do you remember- we've talked about lesbian and gay men. Do you remember being an intentional outreach to transgender persons, or? Sue Welch: Not as far as with fundraising, because I don't think at that time we had a large group for the fundraising aspect. But certainly in the service, we established town halls finding out what people wanted, what we needed, so that we could provide that in this new place that was gonna be our permanent home. So absolutely in the services. Toby Jenkins: So you assess the community? Did y'all have surveys, or? Sue Welch: We did, at each Pride picnic, we had surveys. We had a large gathering at the library and we handed out surveys and collected information about what they want in the center, specifically as far as even rooms, art gallery, that sort of thing, kitchen, services they might want, locations they might want. Toby Jenkins: And so y'all were being paid to do all of this and you had a full-time position, right? Marcy Smith: No. Sue Welch: We had full-time positions at our jobs. Marcy Smith: : So every fundraising event for the Pyramid Project started off with a budgetSue Welch: Zero. Marcy Smith: - which was zero. That was what we started with. You're gonna donate this, you're gonna donate your time, you're gonna donate the goods, all that kinda thing. So our goal was that a lot of capital campaigns had budgets that as much as 25-30% would go to administrative overhead of what was being raised. Toby Jenkins: Paid to development workers. Marcy Smith: So our goal was to have 95% of the funds that we raised, go directly to the capital. So that meant 5% to do all this. And I think, ultimately, we ended up being aboutSue Welch: I think about seven. Marcy Smith: - 7-8% or something rather than 5%. So we were right around 92% of all the funds that were raised, stayed right there in the community foundation. That was the other thing. It was a big milestone, was going to Tulsa Community Foundation because it was about credibility. And so we needed to have our money at a place where it was managed for a place of credibility. So that was a huge milestone when we were able to have those 30 �funds placed at the Tulsa Community Foundation which they are still at today. So that was a big deal. That added some ... . Sue Welch: Yeah, through Dennis and Nancy, they introduced us to people there and got all that set up safe and safeguarded. So then, donors would feel even more comfortable. Toby Jenkins: So about how many years was the fundraising part of it? Marcy Smith: Six. Sue Welch: 6-7. Marcy Smith: Yeah, six, 2007 when we did it. Toby Jenkins: Did people grow fatigued from that? I mean, did theyMarcy Smith: Oh yeah. I mean, it didn't take too many years that when Sue and I would show up at a party, people were turning away. I mean, they knew we were gonna be pressing the flesh and, hi, how you doing? We haven't seen a donation from you in a while. But I mean, it just kinda got to be a joke. We were like, "Are we gonna get invited to anything this year?" Toby Jenkins: So I'm gonna take you back. This is your life. It's January 1st, 2000, the night after the Y2K fear. What were y'all doing on January 1st, 2000? Do you remember? Marcy Smith: Well, I can tell you what I was doing. I was head of the Y2K project at Tulsa County. So I spent that New Year's Eve in the computer room doing one of these. And it was a five-year project that I led. And I had the same budget from my boss which was, you're not gonna spend any money on this project. We weren't able to do that because of software costs, but it was a very small budget. So that's where I was. So I was in a computer room in Tulsa, Oklahoma that night. And it went perfectly, by the way. Sue Welch: Are you remembering a house party? Toby Jenkins: Yeah, on New Year's Day. Sue Welch: On New Year's Day. Marcy Smith: Oh, New Year's Day? Okay. Marcy Smith: New Year's Day, we had a house party at our house. Marcy Smith: Yeah, and invited several people. And I think we'd seen you peripherally, but this was your first time to really31 �Toby Jenkins: Be pulled into the project. Sue Welch: Yeah, yeah. To be ... . Toby Jenkins: My point isSue Welch: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: - I can remember getting invited to that on New Year's Day after we had all survived. And that was my first time to hear about it. The project to raise money for our permanent center. Now, I was very familiar with the center. Sue Welch: Sure. Toby Jenkins: But it was the first time I'd ever been included in that. And I had no money, but I was able to make just a little bitty tiny gift. But you made me feel like my little tiny gift was as important as the people who were writing the big checks. Sue Welch: It was. Toby Jenkins: So you spent five or six years raising this money and keeping the community focused on the prize. When did we buy the building? And do you wanna talk a little bit about the effort to finally purchase property? Sue Welch: So as we were getting, we set a goal that we would have a certain amount of money raised before we would even look at property. And we were reviewing a dozen or more properties over and over, as we got to that point. And Dennis called and said, "Hey, have you looked at this place at 4th and Kenosha?" And we're like, "Okay, we'll go look at that one." And so we called up the realtor who was listed there and I said, "Okay, great. I'm gonna have to talk to another realtor and tell him who we are and what we're looking for." And so went to his office and on his wall was a big picture of John F. Kennedy. I was like, "I think I'm okay." And so I met Max Tankersley and told him about who we were and he said, "Okay, great. I'd love to show you this". So we walked in and at the time, it had been a communications company, so there were wires literally everywhere. It was just full of communications things. But it was so solid because it used to be an oil company's building, where they built explosives to dig oil wells before they had the bits. So the walls are about 12 inches thick. It is just so solid. So walking through, it's really solid, it's not dirty, it's not dank, it's bright…Lots of windows, lots of space. We're thinking, "Oh my gosh, there's so much space here. But from these surveys, we could do this, we could do that, we could do all the 32 �things that the people are wanting." And so I think we probably called Dennis first and said, "Dennis, this is a really neat place." And we had a key group of donors who just kept donating, were donating substantially. And so, we rented two trolley cars. We had a nice little reception at a house in Terwilliger Heights. And we said, "We're gonna take you all to a place we want you to see that we believe this is gonna be our center." And so we got 'em all fed and liquored up and got 'em on the trolleys. And so we came in and several of them were like- because it wasn't rough compared to the things we've been looking at, but it wasn't fancy by any means. Marcy Smith: And grey. Sue Welch: And it was downtown, which was one of the locations people wanted, but not everyone. And so I think several of them went, "Oh, wow, this is really great, great vision." And some of 'em went, "Ugh, this is what you're picking? It was a little effort in getting people on board with that. So we created- we got together a group of designers and if you want to haveToby Jenkins: Gay designers. Sue Welch: Gay designers. And if you want to have fun, get a group of gay designers together and tell them, we're not paying them anything and everything they develop needs to come in free, all the accessories, all the furniture. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, but they have to raise the money to furnish the room. Sue Welch: And so that was fun. Kirk Holt, I appointed him as the chair, 'cause he's great at getting all those people together. So we developed these vision boards for each of the rooms and we had more people come and more people look, and that really helped with donations. This was, of course, after we bought the building, and that helped also engage people for volunteerism, if they couldn't give or if they wanted to do more, to physically work at the building in renovations. I served as the general contractor for the renovations and we had a ... . Marcy Smith: And she got paid zero. Sue Welch: And we had literally hundreds of volunteers working thousands of hours. The things we had to hire, have electricians, licensed plumbers, that sort of thing. We certainly did that. But I mean, so many people learned how to sheet rock, insulate things, tear down walls. Some of my happiest memories are remembering these guys and looking at you Dennis, doing that work, that heavy, hard work. 33 �Marcy Smith: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: So the building was purchased, let's talk about that morning after years of fundraising and this was the- you're trying to keep everybody rowing in the right direction. Tell us about that morning, when you invited the community to come and look at it and we raised the first rainbow flag. Sue Welch: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: From our flagpole and we had ... Marcy Smith: Talking about the Field of Dreams? Sue Welch: Nope. Marcy Smith: Oh, okay. Toby Jenkins: No, I'm talking about the morning we ... Marcy Smith: Oh, the grand opening. Toby Jenkins: Well, it wasn’t the grand opening, it was the morning that we ... Sue Welch: That was our first flag. Toby Jenkins: The building was ours, and we raised the flag for the first time. Marcy Smith: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: You had a bagpiper on the roof. Sue Welch: Yeah, yep, had a bagpiper on the roof, we had Rick Hollingsworth give us a blessing. Toby Jenkins: Probably, a thousand people showed up. Sue Welch: The first time so many people had even been in the building. And I remember it was so loud downstairs in the main hall. I was looking around, I'm not a loud speaker and I thought, "I've gotta find somebody, I've gotta get up on these stairs, I gotta find somebody to get the attention of this crowd. And I saw Rebecca Ungerman out there and I said, "Rebecca." And so I got Rebecca up on the stairs and everyone was milling about, crammed in there and just excited. And so she got the crowd's attention and we just had a little, here's your new home people, let's complete this project. Toby Jenkins: Yep, first time34 �Sue Welch: Yep. Toby Jenkins: - this was ours, it belonged to us. Sue Welch: Yeah, people were so excited. Toby Jenkins: Wasn't leased, wasn't rented, no landlord could take our mortgage away. Sue Welch: Exactly. Toby Jenkins: And we were able to raise our rainbow flag. Sue Welch: Yep, show who we were, know that we'd have signage on the building that it couldn't be taken away because that was a problem with so many of the places, moving so often caused breaks in services, not being able to identify our building, our storefront, where we were leasing, caused difficulty in people's access. And so now, we had a place we could put signage, have our flag, we had a corner in downtown Tulsa, in the heart of Oklahoma. Marcy Smith: And as most neighborhoods go after the gays move in, this area of Tulsa and downtown has exploded with development, exploded. Toby Jenkins: And here you have it, we can verify documentation that the gay folks revitalized downtown Tulsa you now at this point. Marcy Smith: Absolutely. Marcy Smith: This Pearl District, you have- absolutely right. Sue Welch: Absolutely. Toby Jenkins: 'Cause it was the truth. Sue Welch: Absolutely. Toby Jenkins: Because it was just, mostly downtown was abandoned buildings that were boarded up. Sue Welch: Yep. Toby Jenkins: Nobody lived down here. There weren't any stores or you didn't have people walking their pets, so. Sue Welch: Yeah. 35 �Toby Jenkins: But it's what we could afford and we got it. Tell us about that year we spent working on it, but at the same time, we were operating the centerSue Welch: Sure. Toby Jenkins: - with all of its servicesSue Welch: Sure. Toby Jenkins: - at its old location. Sue Welch: Marcy had a good job that allowed me to spend a lot of time during that time away from my practice. And so every Saturday and Sunday, we would have volunteers. One of my cohorts would help check 'em in and we give assignments. Some people would just be sweeping, some people would be putting up walls. Toby Jenkins: Or ladders. On ladders. Sue Welch: Yeah. Oh, on ladders, painting, cleaning, taking up tile from the floor. You name it. Tiling new bathroom floors, from A to Z. So volunteers full out Saturdays, Sundays, weekend after weekend after weekend to get this accomplished on a shoestring, but properly and still involving people. That was as much part of it as anything. It's one thing to pay for everything to get done and come on in. We created this beautiful jewel box for you. But it's another thing to have people go, I created this. I helped open these doors. I painted this door. That was huge. Toby Jenkins: So tell us about the grand opening, and the Field of Dreams, dinners, andSue Welch: So the Field of Dreams, we did have requirements because we were changing the use from what it was previously to a public space. So we had to create more accessible ramps, elevators, doorways, things like that, and all that added up to quite some expense. So our first official event here was called the Field of Dreams. If we build it, they will come. And so we had volunteers in softball uniforms, and we had teams thatToby Jenkins: Cute gay boys. Marcy Smith: Yeah. Marcy Smith: We had team captains. Sue Welch: Not girls in softball uniforms. Marcy Smith: We had team captains, so it was baseball teams and it was a competition. 36 �Sue Welch: So they were bidding against each other. There was nothing they were gonna win. There were no prizes. There were no auction items. This was full-out cash. They were playing against each other, and we raised all the money, over $130,000 cash, that night without any auction items to do all of the ADA requirements. Marcy Smith: And it was adopting rooms. So these were concept drawings of what the various spaces were gonna be. So if you were a kitchen person, or you were interested in the library, or the art gallery, the theater. That was really great to have those concept drawings, so that people could visualize what this incredible space was gonna look like, based on the town halls, and what they said they wanted in the space. So we were able to give 'em pretty much everything they asked for. The other thing I remember, too, is the size of the building, okay? So we were at 3,500 square feet. This facility is 18,000 square feet. We got so much pushback from, are you kidding me? You're never gonna be able to fill that space. Sue Welch: We don't need that. Marcy Smith: .. We don't need that space. And here we are, nearly 20 years later, and in my opinion, we could add on a few places, but. Toby Jenkins: So any details about the grand opening? I'm trying to remember. Sue Welch: I remember, we did balloons, 'cause at that timeMarcy Smith: We did an non-environmental thing. Sue Welch: - we were not that environmentally conscious. I'm sorry, I apologize. Marcy Smith: We released balloons. Sue Welch: But we did have a bagpiper on the roof, which was really cool. Everyone was just so thrilled, and walking through the place. It was just giddy, giddying us, it was wonderful. Marcy Smith: Smudging, blessing the building. People laying hands on the building. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Marcy Smith: Good energy. Sue Welch: It was. Toby Jenkins: ... American blessings. 37 �Marcy Smith: Yes, yes. Sue Welch: It was good energy. Toby Jenkins: And then we moved in. Sue Welch: Yes. Toby Jenkins: And the programs began. Sue Welch: And the programs began. And yes, if you build it, they will come. It's absolutely true. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Sue Welch: Given the proper leadership, and we had such great leadership then, and people pushing for great programs. Toby Jenkins: And so prior to this, we would have these huge meetings or events. We would have to rent space, or we would have to cram into whatever place we had. I can remember many, many things that we would use in those other spaces. Or when the sodomy laws were struck down, we didn't have a big enough space, so we had to use a restaurant on Cherry Street. But then this building finally had enough space that if we could mobilize and fight for our communitySue Welch: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: - Celebrate, remember those. I mean, it became a place where people did their funerals, their commitment ceremonies, and where we met for meetings to fight for our rights. Sue Welch: Yeah. Yeah, we could celebrate and mobilize and honor each other in our own home. Toby Jenkins: Do you remember some of the major events that this building was here to witness and testify to? Marcy Smith: Well, legalized same-sex marriage for number one. But also it becoming a hub for pride. So that we could centralize pride activities, which was really pretty cool to be able to do that. Otherwise, we were renting, leasing space to try to do pride events. We're not without negative things happening, and one of the things that wasn't publicized at the time that we did it but we did it for safety was, we put bulletproof glass in this building because we felt that at some point, unfortunately, that may be needed. And so we had a 38 �drive-by shooting in this building and thankfully, the bulletproof glass did its job. So never more thankful to have that particular decision to save people ... – [Bullet-resistant glass was not initially installed. It was added in 2017 after a drive-by shooting from a pellet gun made 13 holes in the front windows and front door. Wes Smith, an OkEq member, challenged the community to send in $13 each to replace the glass. The challenge went viral, people across the country and world sent in money. In total, more than $33,000 was committed which allowed OkEq to replace all downstairs windows and the front door with bullet-resistant glass.] Toby Jenkins: So do you remember when the sodomy laws were struck down, we celebrated at a restaurant, but the next major event was when gays were allowed to be in the military ... . And do you remember the events around that? Sue Welch: So yes, we were able to celebrate that in a fantastic way and we actually created the veterans lobby here, top second floor, off the elevator. And then another pivotal time ... Toby Jenkins: And we ... - just a minute. We invited military recruiters to come to this ... . Sue Welch: That's right, that's right. Toby Jenkins: And they came all the way from where, the Pentagon. Sue Welch: Fantastic, yes. That's right ... . Toby Jenkins: And we became the very first place in the United States where gay people served, signed up to join the military. We were the face of that on the front page of 1900 newspapers the next day in the heartland, in the middle of the country. Sue Welch We were also because of Mary and Sharon and Gay and Sue and were able to celebrate the pivotal gay marriage right here, in the center, with those ladies here in Tulsa. So yeah, so many pivotal things here. Toby Jenkins: Remember when the White House came to visit, when we got behind the Affordable Care Act cause we knew we needed to sign people up so that Obamacare, and they sent a representative here 'cause we had signed up 147 people in one day. Sue Welch: It's fantastic. It's fantastic, yeah. Toby Jenkins: So Sue, you called it the field of dreams. Why did you call it the field of dreams? Sue Welch: Because if we build it, they will come. 39 �Toby Jenkins: And did they come? Sue Welch: They did, and actually even more, in more numbers than I dreamed. I mean the programming and Toby, I know you're greatly responsible for a lot of that programming that started happening. And the people upon people, upon people who came and had fun or had a service or were recognized and seen or just got to be able to be with their family, their LGBTQ+ family, just people fill this place the whole entire time, all the time. I know I would get update calls from you saying how many people had come and what pivotal help had been given to certain people that day. Just incredible. Marcy Smith: Well, saving lives. Sue Welch: Absolutely, saving lives. Marcy Smith: People who were at the end of their rope. I mean, just needing a place to come where they can literally walk in the door. Sue Welch: ... you're safe. Marcy Smith: Yes, this is a safe place. Sue Welch: A safe affirming place. Toby Jenkins: So you spent a lot of work for the community to make this happen, and on behalf of the community, the LGBTQ+ community, I wanna say thank you so much for that. Any regrets about it? Sue Welch: None. Marcy Smith: None. Sue Welch: None. And I have to say there were so many hundreds of people behind us who really made it happen, who made it a success. We were just able to drive some of it. Toby Jenkins: So this is a- in 2026 and you ladies are moving into your middle age years. Marcy Smith: Thank you for that. Toby Jenkins: Yeah. Toby Jenkins: There were some difficult times, 'cause just because we had the building doesn't mean- I mean, we've had some vandalism, we've had physical threats, we've had some deaths, some heartaches, and we've had some other challenges too. You just didn't 40 �hang up your hats and say, we're done helping the community or being involved. What have you had to do in the last few years? Sue Welch: So things were rocking along really great for a while. We got some breathing time and just having fun with friends and things. But there were some individuals, boards, leaderships, that didn't go through what all of us went through. They didn't go through the turmoil and the trial and the difficulties that all of us went through. They're a younger generation, they grew up being able to be married, they grew up with less offense to them, they grew up being able to put their partner's picture on their office desk. Just so different from us. When some younger leadership, I think I'll just categorize it that way, came in, I don't think it was- they had less ownership. So, COVID came and that changed everything for everybody. But generationally, I think we're significantly different in that. We like to gather physically together and COVID made that really difficult. So coming out of that, changes started happening. We noticed we weren't getting notices about things happening at the center, even post-COVID. It seemed there was less going on. People weren't gathering at the center. We didn't reactivate those activities and events and things for people to physically gather. As the world did, we all became a little more siloed. So I think we lost a lot of interest, funding, relativity during that time. In February of 2024, we got a notice saying that the organization needed to raise $100,000 to keep the doors open. We were in shock. And so we met up with some people and said, "What's going on here? What's happening?" And so Marcy and I, thanks to some people, we were asked to be on the gala committee that year. We were generously given the leeway to co-chair the gala. And fortunately, we kinda did our thing. We've done a lot of galas. Well, by the gala committee, we were generously offered to co-chair the gala. We had leadership difficulty. I was coming in, again, as old lesbians going, "What do you know?" I mean, that was an old time. You can't do anything for us. And we had a hard time not going ... listen to whippersnappers. This is how it was. So ultimately, that gala was the highest grossing and highest net gala in OkEq’s history. And we were able to really build up our coffers again, and keep us open and keep the center going and alive. Marcy Smith: In 90 days. Sue Welch: Yeah, in a very short time. Marcy Smith: There was no one chairing this. It was not gonna happen. 41 �Sue Welch: Yeah, there was not gonna be a gala. We even had foundations tell us, "You should not be having a gala right now." And we said, "For two reasons. We have to have a gala. We must have a gala. One, of course, for the fundraising. And, we know we can do this. Two, for the community. Because our community has scattered to the winds. And we need to bring them back together." Toby Jenkins: So we talked about the pandemic, and we talked about the financial challenges the organizations have, and we've talked about generational differences, andbut we also have political issues that are impacting our community. It's 2026, so as your sign-off message, I've asked you to think about this. Do you have a challenge, or a message, or a final words that you'd like to give to people who might see this, and either feel the motivation to get involved, or maybe even have an explanation of how important it is? Do you have any final words for our viewers? Sue Welch: You go first. Marcy Smith: I would say that don't discount having a place, a physical place. I have an IT background and we're in a virtual world at this point, but there is so much in life, especially in a human experience, virtual stuff cannot give you and provide you that connection that you have to have by just being in the same space with people who support you, and that you can provide fine services. The whole point of this Center was for it to be a resource center for people. We didn't think that we were gonna be all things to all people, but we wanted to have a hub, a place where the organization could also work with other organizations to provide services to people, and to have a gathering place for us, and we're seeing this. We are seeing this in the world now. We are seeing psychological studies coming out about how this isolationism, and being at home, and this whole virtual reality, if you will, it's not. It's not real. What is real is being with people, engaging with people, celebrating with people, having really hard times with people. It's a human experience. It cannot be replaced with technology. That's my background, and I know that. And so it's about having a home and a place to come back to. And supporting an organization that's going to help our community be a better place. Not just the LGBTQ+ community, but other members in this community we call home, we call Tulsa, reaching out to other organizations to help in that effort, because it's a tough time, and funding is getting ripped out from non-profits. They are literally facing their demise. National public Radio… all of these things that we held to be, assumed that it was always gonna be here, always thought we would have public funding for the arts, really. 42 �Always thought we would have freedom of speech, thought we would have freedom of the press. The press is what is gonna hold our elected officials accountable, in addition to us. So we are at a really, really tough time, and it has been set on fire because of technology. Because we are not gathering together. Because we're holed up in our respective places, and we've got to come together again. We've got to support each other again in a physical way, in addition to a technological way. And having a home that is a place where we can gather, where we can rally, where we can figure out strategies to do this, is really important because if the decision is ever made to lose this space, then we become invisible again. They, whoever they are succeeded. They don't have a place to call home anymore. They don't have a place to gather anymore. They don't have a place to rally. They don't have a place to celebrate our artists. They don't have a place for our performers to come. They don't have a place to have counseling. Transgendered individuals don't have a place to have health care. We don't have a- we're burning books, and we're banning books. We don't have a library anymore to celebrate that aspect. All of these things are here for anyone who wants to come in and celebrate LGBTQIA+ individuals as a community, but as a community, as an accepting and affirming community that we call home. And that's Tulsa. It's so much more than a physical building, and that's where I would say, generationally moving forward, I hope that you all can understand how important the space is to maintain. Can we change the space? Absolutely. Can we change up the different things that are here? Absolutely. That's what a home's all about. It evolves and it changes as we need it to change. But I am hopeful and lay this on the table for folks coming behind us, please keep it. Please figure out how to keep it. Make it your own, make it evolve and change as our needs change. But allowing it to go away, I think, will be a grave mistake for our community. And I'm not saying that it is. I'm not saying that it is. But I think there are individuals out there that feel that we don't need a space to call our own, where we can celebrate each other, a physical space. And home is a really big word, encompasses a lot of things. Sue Welch: I really couldn't say any better than that, but just to say that, when you lose something that so many people have identified with, you lose your identity. When you don't communicate to every group, not just the current generation, but every group, about what's here for them. When you don't have physical group meetings, people physically gathering in large groups, that sounds scary to some people now, just because of COVID, but we have to have face-to-face large groups to support each other. 43 �The harder it gets politically, financially, the more we need to physically gather and we have our home to do it in. So let's not lose that, let's not take it for granted, let's use it. Toby Jenkins: This is perfect. So while you're the CP's ambassadors, called them the Iron Lady, Madam Prime Minister, was my nicknames for them. What are you presently doing? I mean what do you- your careers and the work that you do now? Sue Welch: Well, we are entrepreneurial. We own a business together called OsteoStrong, which is a wellness center that focuses on increasing your bone density, your muscular strength and your ligament and tendon strength. That's healthy for everybody. We have over 300 members. We're loving it and we do have some of our community members who are also OsteoStrong members and we do love that. We garden, we travel, we've loved that forever. I serve as a trustee again on the Board of Trustees for Oklahomans For Equality. Toby Jenkins: In your medical practice there, you're focusing a lot on issues with the emerging, growing older adult population, so that you're still serving a community, every aspect of it. Sue Welch: Sure, sure. Toby Jenkins: Anything else for us and our founder. Do you have any other things or archivist any things, before we bring our interview to a close? Sue Welch: I just wanna say thank you to all of you for all the work you're doing and have done, because we could not have done anything, any of this without you. Amanda Thompson: Yeah, no, it's great. And thank you guys for sharing this. And as the one youngster in the room, I wholeheartedly agree with everything you're saying and the stuff you talk about is really important. I'm personally very lucky and very happy to be a part of furthering those connections and helping people just get the word out, how important these things are. Sue Welch: Thank you, Amanda. Marcy Smith: We have to pay it forward. Amanda Thompson: Yeah. Marcy Smith: We do. Toby Jenkins: Yeah, thank you so much. You have been listening toMarcy Smith: Marcy Smith. 44 �Sue Welch: Sue Welch. Toby Jenkins: - here at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center on January the 16th, 2026. Addendum: Sue Welch requested the following be added to the transcript. "My Dad, Lloyd Welch was a 3rd generation brick mason and builder. He helped with the initial renovation when we bought the building for the Dennis R Neill Equality Center. He taught volunteers and various friends many skills that we needed during that time to get the building ready. He taught and worked with Stan Smalts, Dale Tune and Marty Steinmetz, replacing and hanging exterior doors; David Hoot patching interior plaster walls; Norm Kopp tuck pointing worn brick exterior wall joints of the building, as well as many other tasks with other volunteers. He had a great time with the guys and they with him. They all really appreciated learning from him. Some of them even took the skills they learned from our volunteer efforts into their own lives later as well. My Mom, Joan Welch provided moral encouragement and cheerleading support during that time filled with physical work. We would all break for lunch in the garage, now the Lynn Riggs Theatre. Nancy McDonald, everyone's Mom, brought cookies for snacks every weekend for the volunteer crew. It was a fantastic time of camaraderie, hard work and joy!" 45 � Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2026] Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Interview Description An account of the resource Sue Welch and Marcy Smith share their personal journeys, highlighting their experiences growing up in Oklahoma and navigating their identities as members of the LGBTQ+ community. Marcy recounts her childhood in Tulsa, her education at Oklahoma Christian College, and her early awareness of her sexual orientation. She reflects on the challenges faced by LGBTQ+ individuals in a conservative environment, including the need for stealth and the importance of finding community. Sue shares her upbringing in Ponca City and her academic journey at OSU. Both women discuss their relationships, the evolution of their identities, and the significance of community support in their lives.<br /><br />Marcy and Sue recount their involvement with Oklahomans for Equality and the development of the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center. They reflect on the challenges of coming out to their families, the societal pressures they faced, and the importance of creating a safe space for LGBTQ+ individuals in Tulsa. Their stories are filled with humor, resilience, and a sense of belonging, showcasing the power of love and community in overcoming adversity. In this episode, Marcy Smith and Sue Welch share their inspiring journey of establishing a community center for the LGBTQ+ community in Tulsa, Oklahoma. They successfully organized fundraising events, such as house parties and the Wild Hearts Ball, to raise awareness and funds. Their determination led to significant milestones, including securing a $10,000 grant from a New York foundation and eventually purchasing a permanent space for their community center, which became a hub for support, celebration, and activism.<br /><br />The conversation highlights the importance of physical spaces for community gathering, especially in a time when virtual connections are prevalent. Marcy and Sue emphasize the need for ongoing support and engagement within the community, particularly in light of recent political challenges. They reflect on the center's role in pivotal moments for LGBTQ+ rights, including the legalization of same-sex marriage and the repeal of discriminatory laws. Their message is clear: maintaining a physical home for the community is essential for fostering connection, support, and resilience against adversity. Subject The topic of the resource Sue Welch and Marcy Smith Oral History Interview from January 16, 2026 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Sue Welch, Marcy Smith, Toby Jenkins, Dennis Neill Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 16, 2026 2026 AIDS AIDS/HIV Dennis Neill Dennis R. Neill Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Equality Center Equality Center Opening Gay marriage HIV HIV/AIDs interview LGBT marriage Marcy Smith OHR OkEq Equality Center OKEQ Oral History Project Oklahoma Christian College Oklahoma State University Oklahoma State University (OSU) Oklahomans for Human Rights Oklahomans for Human Rights - Tulsa Chapter oral history oral history interview Oral History Project oral history transcript OSU Pyramid Project same sex marriage Sue Welch Toby Jenkins TOHR transcript Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) video Wild Hearts Ball Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2005] Tay Clare Interview Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource April 13, 2005 Description An account of the resource Video recording and transcript of oral history interview with Laura Belmonte on April 13, 2005. <strong>Video and Transcript available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for on-site research.</strong> Tay was born on September 5, 1932. She lived in New York City until her father’s work at American Airlines resulted in a transfer to Tulsa in 1950. Soon upon arriving in Tulsa, Tay attended the University of Tulsa. She described herself as a cultural and social lesbian more so than a sexual lesbian. She discussed the lesbian scene in Tulsa, the bars, sports, relationships and social activities. Also, the various efforts in the 1970s to form LGBT organizations and the Human Rights Commission’s survey and report on sexual preferences and the need for anti-discrimination protections. Tay was one of the organizers of the first Metropolitan Community Church which began by meeting in her home. She discussed Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights, including some of her concerns about their focus and training issues around the information line. Tay passed in the 2020s in Tulsa. Subject The topic of the resource Tay Clare Oral History Project Interview from April 13, 2005 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Tay Clare, Laura Belmonte, Dennis Neill 2005 anti-discrimination laws available at Center Human Rights Commission interview Laura A. Belmonte Laura Belmonte lesbian Metropolitan Community Church OKEQ Oral History Project oral history oral history interview Oral History Project oral history transcript Tay Clare TOHR transcript TU Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights (TOHR) University of Tulsa video https://history.okeq.org/files/original/55742e85e407b0e1a528156c623a4d13.pdf 2fd94098d7ee46b2d8cec22e1daf5e0e PDF Text Text ���� Still Image A static visual representation. Examples include paintings, drawings, graphic designs, plans and maps. Recommended best practice is to assign the type Text to images of textual materials. Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1993] Anti-Gay Discrimination: Some Illustrative Recent Studies Subject The topic of the resource Anti-Gay Discrimination Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Terry Luce Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource 1993 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Terry Luce Description An account of the resource As Part of its mission, the sexual Orientation Task Force's document, in 1976, detailed prejudicial behavior against gay persons. One of the missions of the current task force (1992-93) is to examine recent literature on attitudes and behavior towards gay persons; specifically, negative attitudes and aggression. This present report, therefore, will provide an update by reviewing recent, representative studies appearing in various psychology journals. It is not meant to be a comprehensive review, but rather attempts to provide a glimpse into attitudes toward, and abusive treatment of gays, as reflected in prominent psychology research journals. 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Title A name given to the resource [Series] Oral Histories Project > Interviews Description An account of the resource <strong>Physical Media:</strong> <br />Box 7, Folder 7 - Dr. Leisa Meyer Program<br />Box 7, Folder 8 - Interviewees Materials, Original Series 2003-2007<br /><br /><strong>Digital Media:</strong> Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2006] Terry Luce Interview Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource January 27, 2006 Description An account of the resource Video recording and transcript of oral history interview with Laura Belmonte on January 27, 2006. <strong>Video and Transcript available at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center for on-site research. </strong>Terry was born in New Jersey in 1933. Served in the 10 military and was in South Korea toward the end of the war. He attended Texas Christian University in Ft. Worth, the University of Maryland and then came to Tulsa in 1968 to join the faculty of the University of Tulsa teaching psychology where he stayed until his retirement in 2005. He became an anti-war activist. In 1976 was asked by then mayor Robert LaFortune to head a task force of the Human Rights Commission exploring if gay people should be protected by city ordinances from discrimination in housing, employment, etc. The one-year study and survey was a ground-breaking effort and received local and national coverage when the report was presented to the Human Rights Commission. With the election of Jim Inhofe in 1978, the work of the Sexual Orientation Taskforce and its recommendations where shelved. In 1993, another committee under the Tulsa Human Rights Commission was formed to add to the work from the 1970s. Attorney Bil Hinkle, co-chair of the committee [Dennis Neill served as the other co-chair] asked Terry to join the new effort, which he did. He discussed the strong negative reaction to the report at the public meetings when it was released. Married to Nancy Moran, Terry was diagnosed with cancer in 2007. He died on November 4, 2020, in Tulsa. Subject The topic of the resource Terry Luce Oral History Project Interview from January 27, 2006 Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource Terry Luce, Laura Belmonte, Dennis Neill 2006 anti-discrimination laws Attorney Bil Hinkle available at Center Bil Hinkle Dennis Neill Dennis R. Neill discrimination bans Human Rights Commission interview Jim Inhofe Laura A. 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Text Any textual data included in the document MONTHLY MAGAZINE INSIDE TIDS MONTH Book Review "American Evita" It's Time to RODEO Out on Vacation "Saugatuck" Male Dancer's of the 4 States "Q TV Network" FREE Volume 1 Issue 8 "A STAR IS BORN" The Ozarks Pride Magazine name change to "The Ozarks Star" is now official. We felt Ozarks Pride conflicted with gay pride organization's magazine and the name change more reflects a regional ne.vs publication although our distribution base goes beyond the Ozark Mountain region, S\x/ Missouri, \'vestern Arkansas, SE Kansas and Eastern Oklahoma is our main base of operations with an estimated 15,000 potential readership. With the name and the masthead design change done, many more improvements and features are in the grand plan for The Ozarks Star. Our goal is to continue to be a --.-iable source of information to the GLBT community. To be your voice in a community that in the past has had very little representation or acknowledgment from the straight community. \X'e are an educated, talented, successful and absolutely fantastic people who contributes to our community economically, spiritually and physically each and everyday. The recently organized "Gay Pride" e\·ents in Springfield, Fayetteville, Fort Smith and hopefully next year Joplin, shows we are here, we are out of the closet and we are not going away. Since our first publication in December 2003 there have been three other GLBT publications start up in this region and we \vclcome them and congratulate the editor's and publishers for their courage. There is a lot of hard work, learning and frustration with beginning a new \·enture such as a Gay/ Lesbian news publication. We support their efforts and applaud their tenacity. C.D. Ward /Editor { I The Ozarks Star ON CONS~ITUTIONAL DISCRIMINATION The Ozarkd Star Page 5 August 1, 2004 WHOW! DO YOU FEEL THE I did my part ... did you? As the debate concerning the Federal Marriage Amendment started to heat up in the U.S. Senate we were ask to get involved on the side of social justice to fight this very discriminate bill. As The Rev. Dr. Troy Perry Founder and Moderator of the ·unive~;al Fellowship of Metropolitan Community Churches is quoted, "They presented their amendment as a high-minded attempt to protect 'traditional' marriage, when in reality it was a cynical attempt to influence future elections and win power ... a sad reminder of the hostility and political oppression still faced by LGBT people" I \Yrote Senator Kit Bond and Senator Jim Talent, Missouri with my concern about this Senate Bill and what it stood for. As a person of faith, a parent, a constituent and yes a Gay person I encouraged both to oppose this bill. Some say an act of radical optimism considering that our own Missouri Senator Jim Talent co-sponsored the bill. Senator Kit Bond didn't even bother to respond to my email and Senator Jim Talent planted his feet and defended his stand. After receiving his seething and radical right response, a copy of his response was sent to every church belonging to the UFMCC denomination and gay organization that could be reached with encouragement for all others in our community, family, friends, GLBT and straight to right him as well. We have won this round but things will heat ·up as the U.S. House of Representatives takes up the debate next. Let us enjoy this win but be ever vigil that it is not over. After all, we pay more taxes with less representation then our straight friends that are married. Even as it was defeated Republican Senators and analyst \Vere stating that it is the only way to protect the integrity of marriage. Let's think on that one for a split second. I have every respect for the institution of marriage ... my parents have been married for over 50 years however I don't see the integrity of marriage being bolstered by the current divorce rate or by the straight males that abuse our gay brothers for their own release and then run home to their wives. They don't need to use us as their scapegoats fo; the failure of marriage in this country today. I included Senator Jim Talent's reply letter so you can see for yourself that he has no intention to represent all of the constituents that elected him. Let's us remember him when he runs for reelection! I for one will not even vote for him as the lesser of evils but ,vill remind you again of his "caring for you." Dear The Rev. Urie: Thank you for contacting me regarding your thoughts about same-sex marriages. I appreciate the time you have taken to share your views with me, and I welcome the opportunity to respond. I believe in the traditional definition of marriage as the union of a man and a woman and believe our legal institutions should reflect that understanding. The issue has serious implications for our families and our society and I believe that action sooner, rather than later, will be necessary and most effective. Certainly people have the freedom to live as they choose and to attempt to influence the direction of our culture. But just as certainly, the courts should not force Continued, see Senator's reply page-25 Volume 1 Issue 8 Page 6 MEN'S UNDERWEA~ STOBE . . . OPEN! 825 E 311n ST. DOWNTOWN TULSA. CALL: 877-7-.BOXERS fOR INFO! UNDERWEAR FOR EVERY MAN. OFFERINO THE . BO SOFTWEAR + JOCKO + WC LA ROCHE + MUNDIJ '"'Traveling in the gay friendly world'' by Donald Pile and Ray Williams gaytravelers@aol.com Saugatuck/Douglas, Michigan Tired of the hot, muggy and rainy weather? Then head up North to Saugatuck/Doulgas, Michigan. Located on the Lake Michigan side of the State it is nestled right on the coast. It is a little over a two hour drive from Chicago. Saugatuck and Douglas are actually two separate villages divided only by a waterway. Both villages are extremely gay-friendly Besides having a huge all-gay resort, The DUNES, www.dunesresort.com, there are also several gay Bed and Breakfasts and a fabulous CAMPIT campgrounds located just 10 minutes away. They have camping facilities for tents, RV'ers plus a Bed and Breakfast and you can even rent a log cabin for your stay. Michael, a hot gay man and Sally, an equally hot lesbian own the campground. It is extremely well tended. Plenty of wooded areas for camping, bonfires, hiking and for just enjoying the out of doors. This is the finest campground we have ever seen and what makes it extra special is that it is all gay! Their web site is: www.saugatuckweekends.com Try this for a wonderful alternative to what you usually do when traveling. They have a great community room/ shelter house adjacent to their swimming pool. :ivlichael and Sally are extremely hospitable to all their guests. They have guests that keep coming back year after year in addition to several who come EVERY weekend. At the Dunes Resort you will find plenty of action whether at the pool or at one of their 4 bars. They have a Cabaret ·which features strippers, drag queens and lots of other talented performers. On weekends all the bars are packed solid and they are famous for their Sunday afternoon and evening Tea Dances. But there is much more about the Saugatuck/Dunes area than just gay accommodations and bars.Dozens of the shops are gay mvned and what are not gay owned are very gay-friendly. Some of our favorties was the BACK ALLEY PIZZA JOINT where they make some of the best Pizza that we have ever tasted. Judy, the owner is extremely friendly. You can either dine in, take out or have it delivered to your room. The GLENN RESTAURANT ir1 Glenn, about 8 miles South is a delightful old cafe that has been there for years and years. Nothing fancy but the food is wonderful. Also in Glenn be sure and check out the YELLOW DOG },NTIQUE SHOP. If you get thirsty for coffee, the ONLY place in the area is the UNCOMMON GROUNDS in downtown Saugatuck. It is a Java and Juice Cafe. The owner, Stephen is extremely personable and the coffee is great. They always have a line of customers. Continued page 22 ...... . Volume 1 Issue 8 Page 8 "They were terrified of her" Compiled by: Star writer Greg Steele An Eva Paron in American! Most of us have seen the movie "Evita", the Faye Dunway version and the Maddona musical version, and admired Paron's rise to power. The glamour and the passion that was Eva, does suggest similar traits of Hillary Clinton, now that it has been written. Has Senator Clinton's rise to power put her in the position of number one candidate for the first women to become President of the United States? It certainly is a possibility. "There are many striking similarities to Eva Peron and Hillary'' Andersen claims. "Here we have two very strong-willed women who engineered their husbands' rise to the presidencr Then they used their power as first lady----some would say abused their August 1, 2004 power as first lady - and in the process became two of the most loved, .). hated, revered, feared women in the world. Sex, money, power, betrayal, tragedy, charges of corruption, all these things really characterized the lives of both Evitas." "When you look at Hillary, you realize that she is in fact not only the most powerful Democratic woman in the country, she is the most recognizable Democrat in the country. And she really is the first woman' with a serious chance of being elected president." Andersen was quoted. Anderson believes Clinton has a more than a good chance of going back to the White House, but this time as the head honcho. Author Clu:fstopher Andersen says Hillary Clinton influenced many of her husband Bill's decisions. The Book American Evita: Hillary Clinton's Path to Power is now in bookstores across the country. Volume l Issue 8 Page 10 MAIN ST. J □ PLIN, M □ MON: Request Dance Party w /Tercy. TUES: queer as folks 4th Season - Tuesdar, w /Tercy @9pm WED: Dancing with DJ Lil'Ken THUR: Brandon Bravado & The Justice Janelle Moore Show. Karaoke with DJ Robbie FRI: The Robbie Walker Showcase and DJ Lll'Ken SAT: Dance Party with DJ Lil'Ken OPEN MON-SAT FROM4PM TO1:3OAM. HAPPY HOUR 4-7PM EACH DAY WITH AUS~IM., Advertisement ., cactus Canyon Campground And Resort For Men In The Ozarks The L.ar9e$t Men's C.amp9round in the U'51\ Full RV Hookup's, Tent Sites, Cabins, Lodge Rooms, Hot Tub/sauna, Pool, Cafe, Theme Weekends, Convenience Store, Clothing Optional. Call 417-683-9199 or visit our website It's Rodeo Time! Press Release MGRA Shawnee, KS July 20, 2004 The Missouri Gay Rodeo Association (1vfGRA) is proud to announce its twelfth annual Show-Me State Rodeo this Labor Day Weekend, September 3-5, at the WyandotteCounty Fairgrounds, 1405 N. 98'\ Kansas City, Kansas. MGRA is one of 24 gay rodeo associations across the United States and Canada that make up the International Gay Rodeo Association (IGRA). There are 13 events in the Show-Me State Rodeo, including rough stock, speed, roping, and camp events. One of the few differences between gay rodeos and other rodeos is that men and women compete with and against each other for buckles, ribbons, and cash prizes. With the support of its Grand Sponsor Bud Light, MGRA is able to produce a first-class rodeo and give all profits from the event to its chosen charities: Hope Care Center (Kansas City), Southwest Boulevard Health Clinic (Kansas City), and the AIDS Project of the Ozarks (Southwest Missouri). Other international sponsors include American Airlines, Instinct Magazine, and Bacardi Silver. On board as a full sponsor this year August 1, 2004 is Sidekicks Saloon in Kansas City. Established in 1986 as a non-profit organization, MGRA has given hundreds of thousands of dollars to AIDS-related charities across l\fissouri. \vith chapters in Kansas City and Joplin, MGRA has a broad membership base filled with volunteers who make each years rodeo a success. \velcoming contestants and rodeo fans from across the country, MGR,'\ draws some of the finest competitors in the gay rodeo circuit. It is not uncommon to see a top barrel racer also compete in the wild drag race. The wild drag race is one of three camp events that always entertain the rodeo spectators. Besides the rodeo events, there is a great deal of entertainment at the rodeo grounds all weekend. International and Association Royalty all join forces to entertain in the evenings. Also appearing will be Cheer, Dorothy, Cheer! ... a group of high camp and high energy cheerleaders from 1'v1inneapolis. Tickets for the rodeo will be available at the gate for $12 per day. All evening events, dances, and parties are free to the public, and will be held at the Wyandotte County Fairgrounds. The Awards Ceremony will be held on Sunday, September 5, at 8:30 p.m. at the Fairgrounds. For more information about the Show-Me State Rodeo, visit their website: '£'l\v:w;mgra,us. An Ozarks Star Community Service FREE HIV TESTING, NO NEEDLES ! SPIRIT OF CHRIST MCC SPONSORS 2902 E. 20th St., PO Box 4711, Joplin, Mo 64803 In conjunction with AIDS Project of the Ozarks, MCC Joplin offers free HIV testing the bst Sunday of co.ch month between 5PM and 6PM. For your com·cnience you can also call 206-6179 for an appointment. W'e use the On-sure method which docs not require the use of needles and we offer complete confidentiality. You may aiso regucst Booklets on i\JDS for People of Faith through the PO Box iisted above. Volwne l Issue 8 Page 12 Open Mon-Fri 4pm to New NE Oklahoma-Leather Club! Preis Release: Tulsa,OK The TULSA ROUGH RIDERS - a leather club for all of Northeast Oklahoma, and for ALL sisters and brothers in Leather is having its organizational meeting on Saturday, August 14th. Please contact chancetulsa@gay.com for site/ time details, or visit: www.geocities.com/ weldertulsa/Leather_In_Tulsa.html for additional information about the club. Quotable Quotes "My first great love was a woman. 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The Ozarks Star Centerfold-A August 1, 2004 December 16, 1928 ;._ June 23, 2004 Volume 1 Issue 8 Centerfold Direct from Hollywood Squares For 2 shows only: ~ T opanga Bar and Grill-9:30pm ~ Club Rox-9:30pm With special appearances by: Sistagirl and Not So Holy Nun $10 in advance/$13 at the door August 1, 2004 •• lnl1A l }} For more information call or email: 405-947-2351 / info@hollywoodhotelokc.com Ozarks Star Centerfold August 1, 2004 c Night Special-$55 I Night-$35 Tax Included www.hollywoodhotelokc.com Saturday Sept 4th Girls Nite Out Starring the ONE and ONLY GINGER LAMAR With Special Guests Showtime 11:00pm Sunday Sept 5th Barbeque by the Pool Catered by HEAD COUNTRY BBQ Party starts at 7:00pm and ends ? Volume l Issu!'l 8 Centerfold-D Volume I Issue 8 Page 16 August 1, 2004 Town dbits by Randy Vineyard Introducing "T-Town Tidbits" by Star writer Randy . Vineyard, An Ozarks Star exclusive. Randy lives in Tulsa and will be covering the Star Scene in and around the T-Town area. Randy has lived in Tulsa since the age of two and wouldn't consider living anywhere else and loves the Tulsa GLBT scene. So stay tuned for some exciting Tidbits from T-Town. Randy is also The Ozarks Star advertising contact for Tulsa. I want to help those of you who are not from Tulsa understand a little bit of what we do here, along with where to ·go. Before I fill you in on the clubs and what they offer, I'd like to put the career of one of Tulsa's most loved entertainers in a nut shell for you. I was working at Club Renegades in downtown Tulsa, in the late 80's. The club had never done shows of any kind, I talked the owner into letting us try it out to see if it would fly. We slid the pool table against the wall put a piece of plywood on it and made steps out of empty bottle beer cases and duct tape. This was our stage, tiny but suitable. The young man I worked with the most was Ron - 'Mr Zeigfield' we called him. He was a very colorful and amazingly talented person. Around that same time the Tulsa Community was in need of financial help for persons living with HIV/ AJDS. Ron came up with the a benefit for this purpose. Many of the local' entertainers came forth to help and donate their time and energy to the cause. One of those people was Paul Sbuyler, a regular club patron, he decided it would be fun and a way to give something back to his community. This is a short storv about 'HELGA'. Paul first created Belg; at a benefit performance in the early 90's at the club Renegades. In an effort to raise help money, be donned a dress, the name 'HELGA', and proceeded to create who is now THE most recognizable personality for fund-raising in the state of Oklahoma. Paul and the host of entertainers from across Tulsa crawled up those beer crates and performed for standing room only audiences each month. This evenfwas so successful that it became THE RED RJBBON REVUE'. Through the years Ron pasted from us to a better place, but still has. dire~tor status in qur hearts. Paul went on to tum the fund-raiser into . . . . . 'HELGA'.S RED RIBBON REVUE'. She has hosted the first Saturday of every month now for 10+ years, . that comes to 150 consecutive shows. After many successfui years with the Renegades team, it was time for Helga to find another home for her benefit. At the ;equest of a dear friend, Kris Kohl continued .. page21 The Ozarks Star Page 17 Q Television Network. Delivers; Sample Broadcast Viewers Embrace the Nation's Premiere 24/7 Gay and Lesbian Television Network Press Release: NEW ORLEANS, May 18, 2004 Q Television Network announced today the successful completion of its five-hour test broadcast on Saturday, May 15th. The sample broadcast signal was available throughout all of North America, beginning at 10:00 a.m. PST. In addition, Cox Cable in New Orleans and Comcast in Seattle, Tacoma, Olympia and Everett, Washington, offered the broadcast to their viewers. Viewers were presented highlights from the network, which included a first look at "I Will, I Do, We Did," an original documentary about gay marriage. The sample broadcast also ran several sneak previews of motion pictures, as well as specials and documentaries. "The public has finally gotten a chance to see firsthand the unique programming Q Television Network will deliver for our third quarter launch," notes President of Programming and Acquisitions Steven Grunberg. "We encourage everyone to call their cable network or digital satellite provider and request Q Television Network." Company Overview This television network was organized to create and develop a network devoted to providing television programming for the gay and lesbian community. While the company expects much of its subscriber base t0 be comprised of members of the August 1, 2004 gay and lesbian population, management also believes that quality programming about the gay and lesbian experience, designed to entertain, educate and inform, will attract many other segments of the viewing public. The company's programming will be available on a subscription basis to those desiring its programming. The network will broadcast 24 hours per day, 7 days per week. Providing distribution via satellite ensures availability of the network across the United States, including Alaska, Hawaii and Puerto Rico. Safe Harbor Statement. For more information on the Q Television Network ~ , call the toll-free hotline: (888) 594-77 66, or the corporate headquarters: (760) 323-4455. SOURCE: Q Television Network MARY KAY the st s? Then bd<tol,lay Kay. Yoo'I find the- lolel!lt on-ll'l!lnd o:,kn coadlrdad for you with eor,y-to~ tiPf- Ade Me- haw 'fO!J oon get ihe holt9s:t loob of ilia taOl!a'I ___ or-.:1 (:I~ be 1n st)ilel Joan~ lndep!!ltld!t!I Beauty Ca-i!'JJbnl 417-673-1181 1¥"1f11J.muybf .eom/iazymanaki1 Advertisment Ozarks Star Creator: Paula Martinac has been writing for the gay and lesbian press for more than 20 years. She served for three years as the cochair of the board of directors of New York City's Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender Center, where she founded a groundbreaking reading series called "In Our Own \X!rite." You'd think there'd be nothing left to say about outing, some 15 years of debate about it in our community. But sure enough, outing has once again reared its controversial head. And to be honest, the political tactic that once looked bold has gone awry. The latest outing spree began in response to attempts by radical right-wingers in Congress, fueled by the support of our "compassionate" president, to pass the heinous Federal l\ll~trnage Amendment (FMA). Gay activists John Aravosis and :Michael Rogers launched a no-holdsbarred crusade to out high-level, closeted staffers of rabidly antigay congressmembers. Aravosis defended his much-publicized actions in the_ Washington Blade_, stating that "such staffers are, at best, enemy combatants; and, at worst, war criminals." that a gay activist would use the of Bush's so-called "war on terrorism" to justify a of action on behalf of our community. One of the major forces behind the FTvfA, the odious Rick Santorum of Pennsylvania, used eerie rhetoric to bolster the supposed need for the efforts to "defend" heterosexual mani:age "the ultimate homeland who held "outing" (thoug " osure of their m old \Vitch hunts like the blur. Decades ago, it was over the heads of average gay people, their jobs or their families or even their freedom. ruined many innocent gay people's lives. fonvard to the present, and as a tool of the gay mm·ement is very different, with gay and activists cA1-,v,,,u,.,. public who work the gay movement while "'""Aw,nn 1w,,t,.rt1nn of the closet. Sometimes the effort pays off: Jim Kolbe went public ho:mo,seirnal1ty when he faced with the likelihood of being outed by several gay b!J,:at:1011:s because he had voted for the notorious Defense of ,na,a,,,14-. Act in 1996. Kolbe then felt to vote his conscience, crn~Nwi'",ncY more pro-gay !CC)c;lO!CllJU'H than he did before his Volume l Issue 8 Page 20 August 1, 2004 Deep Inside Hollywood by:Romeo San Vicente August 2004 Been missingJodie lately? Of course, you have. We all have. But she's had kids to raise and, presumably, other things to do besides jumping into every movie that comes along. (fhat's Charlize Theron's job, anyway.) A while back Romeo reported on Foster's small role in the upcoming French film _A Very Long Engagement_, but now she's back in a big leading role in a big Hollywood film. _Flight Plan_, which also marks Hollywood's return to scary airplane mo,ies, will star Foster as a woman whose daughter mysteriously disappears during a flight. To complicate matters, no one remembers seeing the child on the plane in the first place. Earlier casting news placed Sean Penn in the role of a helpful fellow passenger, but now it seems that _Boys Don't Cry_ star Peter Sarsgaard will move from the indies to the majors with this co-starring project. Stone's New, Improved Ice Pick It's happening. It's not happening. And now it's happening again. That would be _Basic Instinct 2_, the beleaguered, long-:rwaited sequel to the smash 1992 Paul Verhoeven film about a murderous, ice-pick-wielding lesbian. Sharon Stone is finaliy ready to reprise her role as Killer Katherine now that director D;,.vid Cronenberg (_The Fly_) and acto: Rupert Everett have come and gone, and the multi-million doliar lawsuit Stone brought against the film's producers has been settled. With ali that behind them, the project can finally move forward. Don't expect Michael Douglas on board this time around Romeo assumes it has something to do with that spare pick Katherine had under the bed - but do expect a reprise of the first film's flashes of nudity. Bailey and Barbato Give _ Deep Throat One of the most culturally significant and successful films of all time, 1972's _Deep Throat_, is now the subject of a what else? sexually graphic documentary feature. _Inside Deep Throat_ , directed by _Party Monster_'s Fenton Bailey and Randy Barbato and produced by _A Beautiful Mind_'s Brian Grazer, will explore how a little porn film with a provocative title ended up being a big, big touchstone of '70s cinema. Universal Pictures is releasing the doc, which features interviews with playboys of the era like Jack Nicholson, Norman Mailer, \varren Beatty, and Hugh Hefner, as well as gay cultural icons John \i:laters and Gore Vidal. Romeo hopes that some of that era's feminists get to weigh in as well. After all, without Linda Lovelace's parlor trick, there'd ha,-e been no movie. Look for the unrated film to hit theaters in 2005. He's _Desperate_ Marc Cherry is probably no one you know, but his new TV series might become one you can't stop talking about. _Desperate Housewives_, debuting on ABC's fall schedule, begins ,vith a suicide in an otherwise perfect suburban neighborhood, and then proceeds to ,valk the line between _Knots Landing_-style nighttime soap and dark, mysterious comedy as the housewife who took her own life provides commentary from beyond the grave. Cherry, the show's gay creator and executive producer, has an over-the-top hit on his hands, provided an audience shows up to enjoy actresses like Teri Hatcher, Felicity Huffman, Marcia Cross, and Nicolette Sheridan (speaking of _Knots Landing_j do that Stepford 2.0 thing. Romeo San V:cente has never been, ;,.nd will never be, desperate. The Ozarks Star PEOPLE HAVE BE ASKING M A.GAY THE st OF THE B HOMOPH THE O.S. T-Townfrom page -16 &UT THE. WAY 1 SEE IT. BEING GAY IS ONLY A PAR:T OF WHO 1AM. August 1, 2004 and the crew at the PlayMor, her show found a new loving home. \'(/ith tl1e change in venue and location came a name change too. HELGA'S RED RIBBON REVUE became what is fondly known as HELGA'S HEART 2 HEART. Although the Red Ribbon Revue does continue at Renegades to this day, doing great things for the community, currently directed by Miss Tabitha Taylor, a fantastic oerformer herself. HELGA'S HEART 2 HEART still has the distinction of having the same hostess ~ith the longest running consecutive performance record, raising countless dollars for local charities. Along the way Helga is still assisted by Johnnie Cronin, a extremely talented young man who stepped up to help fill the shoes of 'Mr Ziegfield', and Kris Kohl, who has been there since the very beginning of Red Ribbon Revue. Lately Kris has been on hiatus, after lea,-ing the staff at the PlayMor, she has been pursuing her performance career and her life. She returns from time to time to perform and share in the joy of being part of the great shows at the PlayMor. Striving to grow the entertainment side of 'DR.AG,' Paul began drawing on more theatrical aspects and costuming to amplify the persona of Helga. After meeting his life partner, Tim, Paul transformed Helga beyond an individual persona, he formed HELGA:S HORRIBBLES. He established her own corner of cyberspace at _ · · which has become THE drag 'megasite', consisting of not only Helga's and her travels and numerous wonderful awards and shows, but also secrions devoted to other Tulsa performers. Perusing the ,veb page you can see the fun side of Helga, Heart 2 Heart, the fabulous shows at the PlayMor along with the show stopping productions the group has created through the years. These in~lude: CABARET, ROCKY HORIBBLE(a yearly tradition), UTILE SHOP OF HORRORS< and the annual 1WISTED TV. TWISTED TV is coming up again this summer on AUGUST 6th, 7th, and 8th at the PlayMor. As long as there is The PlayMor, Helga, and the circle of friends that are all willing to work so hard for the community, and the constant need for fund-raising, there will be HELGA and HELGA'S HEART 2 HEART. My hat is off to HELGA and her life partner TIM for making Tulsa a better p!ace through their efforts and wonderful talents . .,., ......................................... . You may contact Randy at: randy@ozarksstar.com Have a great month in T-Town. Volume 1 Issue 8 Page 22 August 1, 2004 Gay Tt-avelers from pagt! 7 BENTLEY'S Antiques and Fine Art is a great place to start your day for shopping for that special purchase to bring back home. The shop is loaded with fine quality antiques and art work including posters. HOOPDEE SCOOTEE which just celebrated it's 21st year under the same ownership is a Fabulous place to find that special gift to bring back home. Neil, the owner is the perfect owner for such a business. Selling lots of interesting collectibles, I Love Lucy items, pink flamingos, etc. You KNOW your in gay heaven when you enter the shop. MADISONS in downtown Saugatuck has lots of unique gifts, a gourmet pantry and lots of home decor items. The owners Tera and Lynn have just refurbished part of the shop and extended it to included more items. They are super businesswomen. Rob and Steve own severai businesses in Douglas including the PINES Motor Lodge, circa Antiques, Glitter & Garden Shop and Groovy! Groovy! Retro Gift Shop. For fun entertainment be sure and check out the MASON STREET WAREHOUSE. Tom and Kurt give outstanding Broadway perfonnances during the summer. Last summer they performed, "I Love you, your're perfect now change", "Dirty Blonde" and "Our Sinatra". Dirty Blonde which is a take off on Mae West was showing when we were there and they did an outstanding job. The audience loved it. The Pump House Gym of course is a favorite with the body builders. There are so many gay owned businesses in the area that one forgets to visit the "breeders" who own some of the shops also. Karen who manages the ArnericINN Lodge and Suites is fabulous even if she was born straight and Gene and Dee at the Olde House Antiques are delightful people too. The Fenn Valley Winery just down the road gives wine tours daily. Don't forget when traveling that straight people can be fun and exciting also. When in Saugatuck/Douglas don't foroet to check out the Oval Beach area "' which is full of gays during the day. There is a special area for nudists. Just ask around. Need to unwind? Then go to the Running Rivers Kayak Rentals. They offer one to 8 hour trips offering wilderness and wetlands. The Saugatuck/Douglas villages are a place where you can be yourself, walking hand in hand to all the shops and restaurants. Straights and gays get along beautifully here. Such a tranquil, serene way of life. For more information about Saugatuck/Doulgas go to either: W\Vw.dunesresort.com or www.saugatuck.com. Have fun traveling and always meet new people. And always remember, "Live, love, laugh ......... " Donald Pile and Ray Williams gayb]lvelers@ao 1. com The Ozarks Star Page 23 'Marriage Protection Act' Passes House, Task Force Calls Vote 'Disgusting' -Statement from Matt Foreman, National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Executive Director: July 22, 2004 "This is a sad dav for all Americans, not just because the U.S. House of Representatives passed a bill that seeks to deprive gay and lesbian Americans access to federal courts to challenge the ugly Defense of Marriage Act. It is particularly sad because 233 members of Congress ignored their oath to protect and defend the Constitution of the United States by voting in favor of a measure that is .. blatantly unconstitutional. On the pos1t1ve side, 194 Members of Congress rejected this mean-spirited, divisive, disgusting and clearlv unlawful bill. And, it is now clear that , as in the U.S. Senate - the "Federal Marriage Amendment" is far short of the two-thirds majority (290 votes) it ,vould need to pass." BACKGROUND: The Marriage Protection Act (MPA) seeks to strip power from all federal courts - including the U.S. Supreme Court - from hearing cases challenging the Defense of Marriage Act (DOI\fA). Most legal scholars agree this act is unconstitutional for several reasons. This "court stripping" would interfere with the a primary purpose of the federal courts, to interpret and decide on questions of federal law, such as DOMA. The act would interfere with our system of checks and balances which is put in place to co~mteract instances in which orre branch of the government August 1, 2004 oversteps its bounds. This act would severely impede the independence of the court system, undermining the role of the federal courts and Supreme Court. \'Vhile the Constitution gives authority to Congress to establish lower federal courts and their jurisdictions (e.g., the Circuit Courts of Appeal, Bankruptcy Courts, etc.), Congress has never passed a law deprhing the federal courts of jurisdiction to hear cases involving constitutional matters. l'Jl sides agree that the challenges to the Defense of Marriage Act will be based on Constitutional issues, including its Full Faith and Credit and Equal Protection clauses. Martha's Vine.1ard 19 W. Olive, Springfield, MO 417-864-4572 Southwest Missouri's Hottest Entertainment Complex. Now Celebrating 10 Years of Quality Entertainment www.marthascomplex.com Volume l Issue 8 co y Jack Fertig August 2004 tay real, Virgo!" Page 24 es This month, an opposition bet\veen the Sun and Neptune opens up creative visionary inspiration but triple-check all logic, facts, and ~1ath. ' Sensitivity runs high, but with tendencies to be selfish and co-dependent. Stick with ,varm, fuzzy, and creative; and be honest - at least with yourself - about ulterior motives! ARIES (tvfarch 21 to April 20): Your creative juices are running high; input from friends will be confusing at first, but can prove very helpful. Team ,vork isn't usually your forte, but this is a good time to work on your rapport with groups. TAURUS (April 21 to May 20): Nebulous work demands may scare you back to safe, predictable domesticity. Better to use your domestic security as an inspiration to clear up the confusion at work. Give up on turf battles now to win the war later. GEMINI (May 21 to June 21): Philosophical poetry (Milton? Blake?) or magical-realist prose holds special fascination nov., In any arguments, your heart is strong, but not your logic. Here's a good challenge: see how well you can do without logic for a few days! · CANCER Gune 22 to July 22): Resist temptation to get clever with money. It just won't work! To give in on some impulse-spending (probably something nasty and lurid), set aside some fun bucks for your secret passion. LEO Guly 23 to August 22): The indulgence of a birthday glow only goes so far. Those who get lost in your radiance can resent being overshadowed. Be appreciative and generous (usually you're much better at that!), but - here's the catch don't overdo it. VIRGO (August 23 to September 22): You could now worry yourself 5ick or meditate yourself into serene health. Real problems tempt vou to worrv but remember your problem-solving skills and ·' focus on solutions. Stay real, solve the deal, then bask and heal! August 1, 2004 LIBRA (September 23 to October 21): Your teamwork instincts are especially sharp now; Go out on a creative limb with a playful approach. It works both ways, of course: listening to others will hone your creativity. SCORPIO (October 23 to November 21): \'vork demands are complicating your home life, but you're probably making the hardest demands yourself. Discuss the problems with your housemate. S /he will likely agree that you're doing too much and ,vill be glad to help. SAGITTARIUS (November 22 to December 20): Your love of a good argument is stronger than usual, but your sense of logic is weakened by emotion. Argue from your heart, but don't try to pass emotion off as anything else. CAPRICORN (December 21 to January 19): You're especially sexy, but susceptible to expensive flattery. Think first about what you really value in your sexuality. Avoid important financial decisions and be careful not to let sticky fingers into your home. AQUARIUS Ganuary 20 to February 18): You're unusually vague about relationships now. Let your partner (even if it's just a date, a trick, or your pet Chihuahua) make the decisions for the present. You're such a control queen that giving it up for a few days makes a great exer_cise! PISCES (February 19 to March 19): Health problems seem worse than thev reallv are but check them out. Work is fu.ntic, but ~an be resolved by cleaning up and organizing. And meditate! You really need that now. Jack Fertig has been working as a professional astrologer since 1977 and is a founding member of the Association for Astrological Networking. He can be reached for consultations at 415-864-8302, through his website at http://www.starfack.com Volume l Issue 8 Page 25 Senator's reply from page-5 on the American people changes in their cultural institutions. The time has come for a Constitutional amendment to protect traditional marriage and the right of the people to decide the direction of their culture for themselves. That's why I am a cosponsor of SJR 30, the Federal Marriage Amendment introduced by Senator Allard that defines marriage as the union of a man and a woman. I was a cosponsor of the Defense of Marriage Act in 1996 (DOIVfA), which established a federal definition of "marriage" as only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife; and "spouse" as only a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or wife. Additionally, it ensured that no state is obligated to accept another state's nontraditional marriages (or civil unions) bv operation of the constitution's full faitl; and credit clause. It passed the House 342-67 and then in the Senate 85-14 including the "yes" votes of 61 curr~nt senators. Thirty-seven states, including :'vfissouri, have passed constitutional amendments or statutes commonlv known as "state DOJ\:1As" that fu;ther protect traditional, heterosexual marriage. The first political right of people is the right to govern themselves. Taking away this right saps the legitimacy and vitality of any democracy. One of the reasons America is so divided is iliat over the years courts have denied Americans the right to work out cultural divisions in the forums where healthv debate is possible-in the state legislatures or, · on national issues, in the Congress. We can protect our cultural institutions and our right to govern ourselves by amending the Constitution. Again, thank you for contacting me. If I can be of further assistance, please don't hesitate to call or v.-rite. Sincerely, Senator Jim Taiem August 1, 2004 Lesbian Notions from page-19 Granted, it's hard for the majority of us to understand someone like the head of the Hawaii Log Cabin Republicans, Jeffrey Bingham Mead, who told a reporter that, in his chapter, "1\ll of us, including me, believe that marriage is between one man and one woman." The likelihood that many gay people will vote for Bush this year boggles my mind. In a similar vein, it's hard to understand how Clarence Thomas could rule against affirmative action, or how women could be ardent anti-choice activists, working to eliminate their own reproductive freedom. Still, it seems that bullying gay people on the other side of ilie political fence to agree with the rest of us and to take up the activism we want them to do is pretty naive. That's really what this new round of outing amounts to: if you don't see things our way, we'll hunt you down, hound you, and tell everyone that you're gay. (But, oh yeah, being gay is good.) It's no coincidence that Aravosis is the activist who gave us t\vo other similarly rigid campaigns: StopDrLaura.com, an attempt to prevent the radio doctor's TV show from airing because she might use it to spout her antigay views; and DearMary.corn, an outpouring of messages to Mary Cheney trying to coerce her to use her sixfigure job in the Bush-Cheney campaign to wield influence with her powerful pop and his boss on the issue of marriage equality. (Personally, I'm skeptical that all those "Dear Mary" postcards have made her lose sleep - especially if she takes after her conscience-free Dad. I've read that there's a new verb corning into popular usage: "to Cheney" means to go from one cushy job to the next ilirough personal contacts.) I'm not suggesting that it's impossible for people to change their political opinions; Republicans and Democrats alike alter their political thinking all the time. In particular, there are ample instances of gay people who worked for homo-vicious rightwingers and later decided it was against their conscience to do so. But I am pretty certain the process comes about through personal reflection and political soul-searching, and not bec2use they're badgered into it. Volumn 1 Issue 8 Place you:r classified ad here for only $6.00 for the first 15 words, and only 25 cents for each additional word ........ . GooiLookingguy gm;youμeasure, ')00~ Call Hector @ 816-305-3988 In & Out Calls The Ozarks Star On-Line. Checkout our website for Daily breaking GLBT news. www.ozarksstar.com Need A House Mate: Advertise here for only $6.00 first 15 words, 25 cents for each additional word. Weekend Get-A-Way: Want to escape for the weekend? Meet some new people? Try Faces Guesthouse, Joplin, MO. Private bath w/queen bed start at $75.00 night, breakfast included. Resv. required. 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Main - - - - - --417-627-9035 Missouri, Kansas City (816) Bell Star's - - 1321 Grand A,·e- - - -816-421-1288 Missie B's- - - -805 W. 39th St- - - -816-561-0625 Sidestrcet Bar - - - -413 E. 3rd- - 816-531-1775 Sidekicks Saloon - - 3707 Main St- 816- 931-1430 Missouri, Springfield ( 417) The Edge- -424 Boom·ille A,·e- --417-831-4700 Martha's Vineyard- 219 W Olive- - -417-864-4572 Oz Bar - 504 E. Commercial - - - - - -417-831-9001 Ronisuz Place- - --821 College- - - -417-864-0036 Oklahoma, Oklahoma City (405) Hi-Lo Club - - 1221 NW SOth- - -405-843-1722 Finish Line -2200 NW 39th Expwy- 405-525-0730 Club Rox- -3535 NW 39th Expwy -405-947-2351 Top:mga Grill & Bar-3535 NW 39th -405-947-2351 Oklahoma, Tulsa (918) Bamboo Lounge- 7204 E. Pine• - --918-836-8700 Club Maverick-• 822 S. Sheridan• 918-835-3301 Heads & Tails- - 7944 E. 21st - - - - - - 918-660-7878 Club Majestic- 124 N. Boston - -918-584-9494 New 1\ge Renegades- -1649 S. Maio - -918-585-3405 Play-Mor-Club- - 1737 S. 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For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [2004] The Ozark Star Magazine, August 1, 2004; Volume 1, Issue 8 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation over LGBTQ+ topics Description An account of the resource The Ozark Star’s first issue began in August of 2004. Before this Issue was Ozarks Pride (2004) then follows The Star (2005) and The Metro Star (2008) This magazine discusses topics of AIDs, education, politics, local and national civil rights of the LGBT community, and advice for relationships and places to visit. This collection is PDF searchable. Physical copies are also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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DistribUtes Funds,#om~,=ge o~z presentedevent posters to spons~s, who included Miller Brands of Oklahoma and TCI Cablevision of Tulsa and recognized continued support from the Bravo Network, Joan and Bob Hunt, USAA Credit Card, the Williams Co.s Fonn_d~_!ion and the Zink FouDdatioo. Special thankg Went to. the Follies Cabaret cast,.Tulsa~ Ballet Theatre.and VOCalist Pam .Van Dyke. The Co-4~hai~$ of this. year’s .production, "An Evening-of Cabaret" were Dr. Eddie and Caroline Abbott-and:Dr. James and Jorja Johnson. The event involved over- 100 volunteers and nearly 700 patrons participated. A~ist Kelly Vandiver created a painting of Lisa Tiger for 1993 poster. It and t!~1992 poster are available.at Frame of Mine in Brookside.-The artist for the 1994 poster will be nationally known Native American artist, Dana Tiger. The annual theatrical production was establisheU to raise landsfor local agencies providing direct services~o Persons Living with AIDS or HIV, and for AIDS education for the community. ~ ~ Mission Statement of Lesbians & Gays for DC Statehood We, the lesbian, bisexual and gay community, demand statehood for the District of Columbia becanse we are honest, tax-paying and patriotic citizens and as such.are being denied the very i~alienable freed~ns, privileges and. hnman rights that our fellow Americans t_a_k_e for granted. Among those freedoms and privileges denied to us is a fullyrecognized and empowered voting representative in the United States Congress- the equivalent of taxation without representation. _We seek to educate, organiTe, mobilize and represent the lesbigay community in the straggle forequal h|nnan rights in the qnestfor statehood. We further seek to ed.ucate the,tatehood movement and the general public about the b,man rights straggles of the lesbigay community. As citizens of New Columbia we .would not be Subjects of an unrepresentative, tmsympathetic, and dictatorial government, but citizens of an accountable, representative and loyal government.Why should the lesbigay community care about statehood7 Domestic Partnership, Non-discrimlnation poficy in employmenL pubfic services, housing and assistance, Adoption, Marriage, Health Care, Sodomy Reform, Censorship. Three voting members of Congress to vote for yonon issues concerning: -the military ban on gay, lesbian and bisexual persons -the Fedend Lesbigay Ci~ Rights bin -national health care reform -National Commi~ion on Gay a~d Lesbian Youth ¯Why statehood? Of 155 nations in the world with elected national legislatures, the US stands alone in denying residents ofits capital representation. The average tax bill of each DC resident exceeded that of the residents of46 states, taxation wi thont representation. The District’ s population exceeds thai of 3 states- Alaska, Wyoming and Vermont. More DC residents have died in wars protecting America’s:freedom than 20 states. 70 Protest for DC State - 24 Arrested THE PARACHUTE OKLAHOMA Hovem~19, 1993- Washington, DC Over 70. people marched from the Mayor’s Office to Capitol Hill in the last p.La)m~ed publicdemonstration bef.ore the vote on HR51, Delegate Eleanor H01mes Norton’s (D-DC) bill to create the slate of New Columbia, this weekend. The Lesbigay community was represented with over 50 rainbow~pride flags being prominently displayed by gay, lesbian and bisexual people as well as their supporters. Barbara Helmick, co-~halr of the Lesbigay Action Task Force addressed the crowd, "We’re here to educate the people in the movement, in New Colum: bia, the Congress and the nafiofi on issues of hmn~n fights, democracy a~d participative government." George Neighbors, Jr., another of the co-ch~irS said, "We ~ here today as part of your movement. We are here to unite, not divide. Let’ s continue to w~ together down the. long mad to PublishedEditor-in-Chief Chuck Breckefidge Assistant Publisher Wayne D. Oklahoma Editors/Writers Chuck Breckenridge Tom Neal Writers Cookie At’buckle Advertising Chuck Breckenridge Tom Neal Graphic Design Tom Neal 316-536-6519 Issued on the 1st of each month, the entire contem of this publication are p~etected by US opyright 1993 by the Parachute and may not be ~elxoduced eithex in whole o~ in part At the steps of the Longworth House Building, 24 people were arrested in pro- without written pezmission hom the pubSshe~. . test to lack of representation. Of the 24, three were with the Task Force: Tony Smnmers of the DC Coalition of Black Lesbians, Bisexunls and Gays, Karen Annagost, former president of the DC Gertrude Stein Club, and co-chalr of the Lesbigay Action Task Force, George Neighbors, Jr. They were held for over 5 hours and released with an arraignment date of December 1, 1993. A trial is expected February 22,- 1993 with over ~ientation. (~a~a~p~ada~ i~ a~amn~d m be f~ Publication o~ a name ~ photo in no way indicates ~ reflects that pe~on’s sexual The Para~ho~ldahoma i~ a n~w.~ and ~wnt~ ~ stateh~ arrests putting the government on ~. ~e related mat’l, left. Certified Public Accountant 9933 East 16th, Suite 104 Tulsa 741~ 91~93~, OKC ~5-942-1~2 1635. E. 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 599-8070 ¯ . Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian & Gay l Communities with Pride Look for our Rainbow Flag Estate Planning Adoptions Personal Injury IIIIIIllllllllllllll:lllll.~_ Criminal Law .Bankruptcy . Perms-Cuts " Color - Nailsl . ,. . Workers Compensat, on I Beauty One ,. 1. 800 742-9468 or 91.8-352-9504 128 East.Broadway, Drumnght, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available~ ., I Shawn Bayliss Know Your THE PARACHUTE December 1993, OK-2 1 Full Service Stylist 3200 S. Riverside in: Place One Apartments I �, ... the NEW place to iparty in Tulsa~ " THURSDAYS& S SATURDAYS 21 to enter Alley Enfrancc fo 3 3-!. O S. Peoria ::!ii::ii i i !!i!! - �MTV MTV’s hip documentary series Real World II tracks the lives of several young adults living together in Los Angeles.The format is a combination of cinema verite intercut with talking head commentary.In the September 10 episode, a new roommate, Beth Stolarczyk, arrives on the scene. Wearing an ’Tin not gay but my .girlfriend is" t-shirt, Beth is defmitely an out lesbian. Reactions from others in the household demonstrated their own prejudices and curiousities; providing a clear comparison to the intelligent and upfront Beth. The October’7 episode featured the roommates playing a get-to-know-yon game where each answered questions about themselves.Beth Was eloquent in pointing out that questions to her were about her sexnallty only and that was only a part of who she was. This was a very positive presentation( Your commentsto MTV about " hands. They begin to dance; a little two step of sorts.A moment or two later they separate and walk off into the sunset. An on-screen message then reads, "Would you rather they killed each. other?" Very. we!l done, with beautiful production values. And, most importantly, very positive gay representation. ¯ Can CAN Never at aloss to distort, lmisrepresent and outfight lie to raise more money off the imzges of gays and lesbians, CAN, the Christian Aetion Network- abeterosexual supremacist group - has been sending "clips of pornographic films~ to politicians in Washington, D~C, including President Clin_ton. A 15 minute video, which CAN mlgrepresents as having the "stamp of approval".of the,National Endowment of theArts (NEA), is composed of excerpts from fllm.~ shown at the 1991 PimburghIntern~_aonalGay and. Lesbian Film Festival. The CAN excerpts depic.t+ inclusion ofgaysand l~biansin the world~ cen. be directed_ to: Office of :the Broadway+ New York !~, .. est, VA 24551. .founder of New York’s Gay Men’s Health Crisis and ACT UP, is interviewed by ¯ David Nimmons in Playboy Magazine’s FromJane Alexander upon being sworn September issue. Blunt as ever, Kramer in as the new Chair of the NEA; "If I can compares the Reagan and Bush inaction accomplish any~h ing as chairman, it would " on AIDS t9 I-lifter’s acts against the Jews; be to release the imagination and creative wonders whether Clinton may be one of spirit that I feel is alive in all people of all our worst Presidents; targets the Center ages in this ’vast and wonderful county of for Disease Control and the National Inours," ¯ stitutes of Health as wasteful and deWright Veering Right? structive and criticizes ACT UP for its NBC President Robert Wright has bureaucracy problems. named Roger Aries, media advisor to And he wants more from the gay comformer Presidents Nixon,:Reagan and munity, e~lling it "meek, recalcitrant and Bush and the executive producer of"The useless in the battle against A1DS. "When Rush Limbangh Show," as the president Nimmons says, "We know more about of CNBC, the cable ~k ishow and busiH1V than we have ever 0mown)," Kramer uess uews uetwork. SaidWright, ,(Roger responds, "Bo!!~hiL..If we knew so much Aries is a) one of a kind in the television we’d have a cure by now+"Kramer de, business. He represents a unique ombi- ~ scribes a "Manhattan Project" as the way nation of promoter, entrepreneur and, to an AIDS cure and says t_b+t_ letters to above all, a highly talented television congress, the President and newspapers is producer." Ailes will also lake charge of " " wex AmericaTalking, aNBC cable channel Whether thig lenethv.interview br~__Ir$. Quotable Quote... .In ~ .America of Ib,.. ’90s..:.those ap,.: : MTV.,. Cowboys. 14m.~ offand m=,k. you ttilvrrv,s "pree the dynamics between Kramer. and pointed tO ~apee,antmediaposmonsneed l~m,~ons.are sometimes: ontentiom’ to reflect an ability to understand the Pla be Your Mind" series f6r!their positive, im~ lesbi~ ~es credit for not onlY miutinm this in~iew but for atlowinx .present conuections~to the right wing. Share ¯ your concerns w~th" Mr,- Wright by writing: Robert ,Wright, president, NBC, 30 Rockefeller P~; New York¯ 10021; CNBC,, 3000 W~ Alameda Av, enue~ Burl~nk~ CA 91523. community~One ~parficul~ service aunoucement dep’mts two ,~0" gun, figh~ donning~ .tl~..typical attire (~g;; hats~ts, dasters, e~!)~e~ho~sun (a la.,rligh : Hisd :-~iionofWhatitwaslike~- out,he is HIV-poSitive may be the mint meaningful cbnfrontation withthereality of HIV Playboy readers have everhad,, To encourage more in-depth coverage ofsuch lOc, gold on black 10d, black on pink gay (g~)a.dj. f~k, j0Y0U~,fme, brilliant, merry,’lighthe~rted Want to stay that way...? Fight back- COME 0UT! HAq’EIS NOTA FAMILYVALUE" lOe, black ~n fuschia 10g: black on grey lOf,blackon white white;-pink.~ red on black What do Think MAI)E IN HEAl &LOVETHINGS " &USETHING.S T-$14.95, Sweats 19.95 : DeScritition~ .- Price each Total ~ ¯ Hght ~mk- COME I I Mail to: City, ST & ZIP Visa or MasterCard# Name as on Card Exp. Date Daytime phone: ( Merchandise’1~otal Shipping & Handling Grand Total ~hitroine Up to $25.00, add $3.50 $25.01 to 50.00, add $4.50 OK Residents, please add 7.5%/Sales Tax Out of the Closet, Inc. Suite 199, 1611 So. Utica Tulsa, OK 74104 918-749-2033, FAX 749-5992 �GLAAD Media News Briefs by Al Kielwasser San Francisco Bay Area Chapter Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation Fresh Prince, Stale Phobia A feature story in the Fail ’93 issue of Tell, a new teen magazine, profiles actor/ rapper Will Smith Coest known for his title role in the NBC sitcom The Fresh Prince of Bel Air). Feature writer Karen Catchpole describes Smith’s "commitment to growing as an actor," explaining that hejust hired his first acting coach and "is taking his best shot at becoming a bone fide movie star" by playing the lead in the upcoming fdm version of Six Degrees of Separation. However, the "actor" shows few signs of growth when it comes to homophobia.. Smith’s character in Six Degrees of Separation is gay. When he accepted the role, Smith knew that the script called for an on-screen kiss with another man. However, when the time came to shoot the scene, Smith refused. "I just couldn’t do it," Smith said. "I mean, I’m an actor. I can sit there with a greasy smile on my face and act like I kissed a man. But it’s different when you actually, physicaily, kiss a man. It wouldn’t have been acting. It would have been real. I have kissed girls on-screen. I could work that out. The difference is how people perceive it. If I’d kissed a guy and then went home, they’d be like, ’Yo, man. Why’d you do that?’ And I’d be like, ’You know, Man. I’m an actor. I was acting.’ Andthey’dbe like :Yo, man. You kissed a dude. Something’s wrong with you, man.’ I just didn’t want to hear that." Let’s just ignore (for now) why Smith is so worried that if he "actuaily, physically, kissed a man," he would not have been acting but that "it would have been real." Perhaps be’s just suffering from the common hetero-anxiety that straight men can become gay men just by touching or kissing another guy in "that way." Perhaps not. In any case, Smith’s attitude demonswates a remarkable lack of semi, tivity. For Smith, apparently, acting is not a means for expanding awareness but reinforcing ignorance. Write to Will Smith, Fresh Prince of Bel Air c/o NBC TV, 3000 West Alameda Ave., Burbank, CA 91505. Other Mothers The CBS School break Special, broadcast on the afternoon of October 15, depicted the travails of a high school freshman who weathers homophobic ostracism when his peers discover that he has two lesbian mothers. Other Mothers, directed by Lee Shallof and produced by Joseph Stem, depicts a happy home life for teenager Will Jergenson (William Russ),hisbiologicalmotherLinda(Joanna Cassidy) and his "other mother" Paula (Meredith Baxter). In a "Read More About It" postscript to the program, actress Meredith Baxter says: Fine Jewelry, as well as Jewelry & Watch Repair 4649 South Peoria, Tulsa, Corner o_f 48th & Peoria 918-743-5272, 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday 9:30 - 5:00 Saturdays, Nov. 20 - December 24th Shop Where You are Appreciated! 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Advertisers on this aff’n’ming program were: Multigrain Cheerios (General Mills), Jell-O Actifed Sinus medicine, Cortisone-10, Campbelrs-soup, Sears, Alrwick, Purina Cat Chow, Yuban Coffee, Aquafresh toothpaste, Efidac 24, Fleishmann’s Egg Beaters, Lever 2000 soap, Mrs. Dash spices, JC Penny, 1-800DENTIST (a registered service mark of Applied Anagmmics, Inc.), Post Raisin Bran, Muggies diapers, M&M’s, V-8 juice, Prego spaghetti sauce, Preparation H, Hershey’s Hugs, and Rolaids. Comments should be sent to Jeff Sagansky, President, CBS Entertainment, 7800 Beverly Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 90213. To Boldly Go Where No Queer Has Gone. Before Shortly before Gene Roddenberry’s death, he met with members of The USS Lambda, a lesbian and gay Star Trek fan club in Los Angeles. At this meeting, Roddenberry stated that, since there was virtually no racism in his 24th century TV world, he doubted that there would, be any homophobia either. He agreed to include openly (and umnistakenly) gay and lesbian main characters on Star Trek: The Next Generation as well as other Trek spin-offs. After Roddenberry’s death, his succes~rs promised to follow his wishes and develop lesbian, gay and bisexual characters. Star Trek: The Next Generation is now in its f’mai season and we have yet to see any openly queer figures on the show. Star Trek: Deep Space Nine has begun its second season; though there are representatives of widely diverse cultures--from shape shifters to Ferengi--there seems to be no room. for lesbian or gay characters on the Bajoran space station. Isn’t it about time that Star Trek really went where no one has gone before? Write Rick Berman and Mic.h~_el Piller, Executive Producers, Star Trek TNG & DS9, Paramount Domestic Television, 5555 Melrose Ave., Los Angeles, CA 90038. �OC SO0 FRIDAY-SATURDAY 10PM TILL 2AM SUNDAY 9PM TILL~ 2AM (SHOWS AT 10 & 12) PRO:UD.TO. 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I am embarrassedand appalled by the amou~nt of infighting, backstabbing and the directors of these organizaFUNDRAISERHUGE tions thinking Tulsa ..is their.own.. :=~"~sUCCESS i. " They know wing they are and-this iS A fund raiser, ’~ The Bonep0inter Sis-. my message: Get. :over =your seif ters & FriendS, Safari S~ Good"; h~ld righteousness and supl:xxt anyone .October 29that the Bunkhouse wasa and everyone who is making an efgreat success raising over five hundred -fort t6 heipand support Tuls~ns With dollars for. R.A.I.N.~and the ,Winds HIV-AIDS. Shame, shame, shame. House.i Also over eleven boxes of food Get with the program! , was collected atthe door for the Light.~ houseM.C.C, food pantw. P.S. It is important that this be A large.crowd showed up for the benpdnted because I am a client of these efit, despiti~ the.snow and cold weather ¯ Organizations. Being HW-ARC, Istili and enjoyed a fun evening of camp,drag findthe time and energy to give to and Coma[ade~y._ Manylof the perform~ everyone no matter who they.are or ers were new t0the scene having never what their problem is. There are . appeared On any stage.. The eveningenough people ~t~ givep~perser-. ¯ :.also included a costume conte~t and . vices, and anyone~should~be wel, " . raffle ofsome wonderfuldonated items~ come to join the fight against AIDS! If we don’t.join together we will all be : Facelift.Massage Arrives" in QUEER’ CONSORTIUM Oklahoma until recently, Belavi was available only in well known facial message salons in Hollywood and Bevedy Hills. All McGraw, U~dsay Wagner, Jodie Foster, Robert Wagner, Barbara Streisand, and many others have sought this rejuventing therapy for their stressed and aging skin. Belavi Facelift Massage Therapy is now available for the first time in Oklahoma. This hands-on approach often stpes, all of wich contribute to yothful, healther skin. The process uses soothingly warm towi_s through. out the ten steps. Stephen Scott, Oklahomas only Certiffed Belavi Specialist welcome you to try the system fo~ yourself, orgive a Figt Certifmated to someone you love for a more youthful, radiant appearance. Fo.r addisional information including a fee video otto schedule an appointment call (405) 5258689 in Metro Oklahoma or (800) 546-8689 Nationwide. ANNOUNCES SECOND ART EXHIBITION The Queer Consortium, a collective of Oklahoma queer a~sts, announces its second art exhibit titled, "Queers Unbound: Celebrating Our Culture." The exhibition will be held at the Tdangle Association, 2136 N.W. 39th Street in Oklahoma City. In observance of AIDS Awareness Day, the show will begin on December with all art draped in black. An opening reception for the show is scheduled for December 11 at 8 p.m., andthe art will be unveiled at thattime. The exhibition is scheduled to run through January 28, 1994. The Show will include the work of Shar Johnson, Diana Faulkner, TommyThomas, Keith Porter, Clif Trowbridge, all of Oklahoma City; Diane Duffer Gerald David, Ken Carlyle, all of Norman; Larry Harriman of Tulsa; and :Joe Rackley of Stillwater. The artists’ work includes photography, oil paintings, drawing, performance art, and sculpture. The work will be on display at the Triangle Association seven days a week, from noon to~10 p.m. Ad-mission is free of charge. "The Queer Consortium wishes to continue its mission of _celebrating the diverse cultures represented in Oklahoma’s lesbian, gay, and bisexual communities," said Dale Smithson Triangle Association Director and event coordinator. "This kind of event brings together people from . Oklahoma’s various queer commun~es, and draws attention to the talent these communities have to offer." The Queer Consortium recently achieved overwhelming success with its first exhibition, "Queerly R’s Art." For more information, call Dale at 405-843-8378: Deadline for Januarysubmissions and advertisemenl .December 16th Impress yourpartner. Use a condom. "Oklahoma’s Gay and Lesbian InformationSource." ¯ The Parachute Page 9-B Occupation: Agitator :, , " / Age: ~unknowable Hobbies: T-shirt collecting �CHRISTMAS CONCERT Preparations are underway for the fourth annual OKC METRO-MENS CHORUS Christmas concert, "Ring, Christmas Bells"_under the direction of Mr. Franklin Roberts. The concert will be held Saturday, December 4th, 1993 beginning at 8:07 P.M. at the First Unitarian Church, 600 N.W. 13, Oklahoma City; Okla, homa. This yeads-concert will feature many old favorites as well as some songs that many may not be famlhar with. Two songs scheduled for performance were written by local composer Mark Houston. Tl~e Chorus feels ored that Markis giving them the opportunity to perform these special Christmas songs. Mark is also preparing a commissioned piece for the OKC METROMENS CHORUS, which the Chorus hopes to perform at their Spring concerf in 1994. This commission is made possible by a grant awarded to the OKC METRO-MENS CHORUS by the G.A.L.A. Chorus Association and the fine grant writing skills of th# Chorus’ Accompanist, Stephanie Johnson. Also appearing at this yeads Christmas concert will be The Metropolitans, a five member group from within the chorus who perform at local benefits and services. TheMetropolitans are also making themselves available to perform at Christmas functions for a small donation. If you are interested, in having the Metropolitans perform for Christmas or any other function, please contact Terry Knapp at 405-6771646. The chorus is once again.offedng ad space in their Christmas program. Something new in the program this year is the offedng of a patPon page for those individual~" wishing to support the Chorus, but do not feel the need fora formal ad. No addressesor phone numbers will be included on the patron page, only individuals’ names, (either real names, nick names-or stage .names-). Those interested in placing an ad or their name on the patron page please contact Ralph Shafer at 405-737-6576 or David Coffey at 405-521-1378. To .purchase tickets for you and your guests please see any chorus member or contact Terry Knapp at 405-677-1646. The Chorus has enjoyed success at their previous Christmas concerts and hope to fill the house once again this year. ~ur~ 3007 THE PASEO OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (405)’525-CAFE TRACY TULLIS, Busin~s/Vtanas~r AFI-ER HOUIL~ PRIVATE PARTIES AVAILABLE LOCATED IN HISTORIC PASEO FAMILY OWNED & OPERATED �FINANCIAL PLANNING FOR THESERIOUS~ OTHER RECORDS AND IN-FORMATION ; -’,~ . ....¯ ................. iLL" By:-Cookie Arbuckle including SOCIAL SECURITY ADMiNtS~ ties you had on the job. -If you TRATION (SSA). DISABIEITY have a resume handy, or ,have PROGRAMS " kept records of where yoU.have~ SSA maintains two different worked, that will help. disability~ programs -, Social SeORIGINAL DOCUMENTATION curity Dis~ibility insurance(SSDI) SSA will need ORIGINAL and Supl~lementai Secudty In* DOCUMENTATION. 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" -Cincinatti;Ohio Dallas, TeXas H~uston, Texas By: Michael Canfield The fledgling coalition-known as the Oklahoma Human Rights Project is actively proceeding in accomplishing one of its in,ally stated primary goals, repeal of Oklahoma’s archaic and unequally enforced crime against nature (sodomy) law. The legal record already contains case, Post .v. the State of Oklahoma in which current sodomy law was ruled inapplicable io heterosexual citizens. This is contrary to the Fourteenth Amendment of the U.S. Cons~tution which guarantees all Americans, among other things, equal protection of the laws. ACLU of Olda.homa, in conjunction with the mission of the Oklahoma Human Rights Project, seeks to nullify the inequity of the sodomy law through litigation.~ In order for this stated goal to be accomplshed, plaintiffs are needed to make a legal challenge. The Project is looking for someone who has been accused of municipal offenses such as offering-to. engage in lewd acts; as tong as the charges do not involve minors or prostitutiot~, and the defendantis without legal representation. Alternately, the ACLU would also like to assemble a group of indMduals which would include both Gay men and Lesbians who wish to challenge the state statute. Becoming a pl~aintilf in this type ofcase ¯ would, of course, involve a great amount of publicity, those people with the convic, tions and the. courage step fOrward ira: mediately. If-youor anyone you know wishes to volunteer asa plaintiff, contact the ACLU of Oklahoma at 14i 1 .Class~n, Suite 318, Oklahoma~ City, OK 73106. -Thank You for your Isupport of The IParachute in 1-993 "Throughout theAIDS epidemic, lesbians have worked Side-by,side with gay. men to stop. this disease. We’re worked so hard that sometimes we haven’t taken care Of ourselves. It’s time we looked at our own risks. Say it... "Lesbians Get HIV. " A Service of the Oasis Resource Center. To volunteer call 405-525-2437. "Oklahoma’s Gay and Lesbian Information Source." . Joy Manes / Occupation: Student Age: 20 Member: Yo.~ Gay and L~h. �I a s s i f i e d s To.Place a. Classified Parachute DiScontinues Ad: Send: Personals section. NOTICE ~-~. ~~ Our Third Year! Get the areas longest running contacts publication for gays, lesbians, &.bisexuals. No charge to place an and and no forwarding fee to respond. For free info. senge age statement TO: Personally Speaking; P.O. Box 16782, Wichita, Kansas 67213-0782 31 6-269 4208 Holy Trinity .EcumeniCal ~_~yCatholic Church Sunday Mass 10:30AM. Wednesday Mass 7:00pm .2328 N. MacArthur, OKC For. information (405)755-8351 HELP WANTED FOR SALE For sale in Eureka Springs, Martha & Joyce are selling the Purple Iris Inn, with an excellent alerady build in "Family " Clientelle. Country s~tting, turn-key alton. Contact: Dinny Bullard of Double "D "Realty, Berryvill,e Ark. at 1-800-748-9772 D.J., send demo taPe to : Electric Circus, Attn: David Bridgeman, 311 E. 7nth, Tulsa, Ok. 74120 As of Decemberist, the Parachute will no longer carry the personals section of the Paper. We appreciate your response to the personals, however as-the paper has grown we find that we need room for expansion.. There are several other gay/ lesbian publications who carry personals and we.will be glad to helpyou contact them if you do not have their address. You may simply call the office of the Parachute at 316-651-0500. If you have placed a personal ad with us, you will be recieving a refund check in the mail soon. We will continue to forward any mail that comes in addressed to a personals box. Thank you for your support of the Parachute, and we look forward to serving you more in the future. Pianist Wanted; Charasmatic church looking for piano, player, must be able to play by ear. Pay is little, but reward is great.6316-651-0603 Name Address City. zip State Phone # Typeor print your ad, 25 words or less, send with this coup.o.n and $6.00 to: The Parachute P.O. Box 11347 Wichita, Kansas 67202 Ad will run only for number of insertions paid for. January Special CLASSIFIEDS $3.00 each, 25 words or less, must be received by December FOR RENT ,,17th. Roommates serving Wichita for 5 years, Lanlords can reg ister without any advance fee. Tenants may register; as little as $15.00 t529 W. Douglas 262-8444 Wanted: Locations where gays may Share housing in Wichita area: Call or stip by Roommates 1529 W. Douglas,262~444 .... ~,:..’~ Pets . .. To give awa£_in Wichita: 3 monthold Rotwiller (mostly), male pup, likes kids, and other pets. call 316-65_t .0603. ADVERTISE YOUR BUSiNESS IN THE PARACHUTE FOR AS LOW AS 29.00 PER MONTH FOR A DISLPAY AD, CALL 1-316-651-0500 ~ Selling or giving away somthing ? advertise it in the GeneraI Gay& Lesbian Discussion Groups Mondays, 6:30 at Red Rock- New Group starting Thursdays, 6:30 at Red Rock Couples of MixedHIV Status Contact Jim .Carter .for :details. YGLA, Young Gay& Lesbian Alliance Di~i~SSi.~n:~Group, Tuesdays, 6:30 at Oasis Activi~r~i~p,.SundayS; 8pm at Oasis ....... .-, : ..... . . ReferralAs~is~ance" Jiin 8~-Betsywiil provide free referral assistance forindividuals seeking counseling or substance usetreatment. Some support groups will require screening ofparticipants to insure group compatibility. Red Rock HIV Counseling Services Individual Counseling for HIV positive persons and their loved ones and HIV Prevention Etlucation. THE PARACHUTE December 1993, The Parachute Page 14-B �Sunday, ~hurgday 1 or 2 persons (holidays ~duded) OPen Wednesday-Sunday 9pro ,2am Dinner Video Friday-Saturday After Hours Breakfast Til 3:30am th8 Monday-Saturday 5pro,- 2am THE Open daily 12noon-2am shLine The finest in C&W music and dancing Monday- Friday 12n - 2am Saturday - Sunday lOam - 2am Sunday 3pm - 2am � Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document The MASSAGE SY....S’TEM Science of Timeless eauty Follies Revue, Inc. DistribUtes Funds,#om~,=ge o~z presentedevent posters to spons~s, who included Miller Brands ofOklahoma andTCI Cablevision ofTulsa and recognized continued support from the Bravo Network, Joan and Bob Hunt, USAA Credit Card, the Williams Co.s Fonn_d~_!ion and the Zink FouDdatioo. Special thankg Went to. the Follies Cabaret cast,.Tulsa~ Ballet Theatre.and VOCalist Pam .Van Dyke. The Co-4~hai~$ of this. year’s .production, "An Evening-of Cabaret" were Dr. Eddie and Caroline Abbott-and:Dr. James and Jorja Johnson. The event involved over- 100 volunteers and nearly 700 patrons participated. A~istKelly Vandiver created apainting ofLisa Tiger for 1993 poster. It and t!~1992 poster are available.at Frame ofMine in Brookside.-The artist for the 1994 poster will be nationally known Native American artist, Dana Tiger. The annual theatrical production was establisheU to raise landsfor local agencies providing direct services~o Persons Living with AIDS or HIV, and forAIDS education for the community. ~ ~ Mission Statement of Lesbians & Gays for DC Statehood We, the lesbian, bisexual and gay community, demand statehood for the District of Columbiabecanse weare honest, tax-paying andpatriotic citizens andas such.are being denied the very i~alienable freed~ns, privileges and. hnman rights that our fellow Americanst_a_k_eforgranted. Amongthosefreedomsandprivileges deniedtous isafullyrecognized and empowered voting representative in the United StatesCongress- the equivalent of taxation without representation. _We seek to educate, organiTe, mobilize and represent the lesbigay community in the straggle forequal h|nnan rights in the qnestfor statehood. We further seek to ed.ucate the,tatehood movement and the general public about the b,man rights straggles of the lesbigay community. As citizens of New Columbia we .would not be Subjects of an unrepresentative, tmsympathetic, and dictatorial government, but citizens of an accountable, representative and loyal government.Why should the lesbigay community care aboutstatehood7 Domestic Partnership, Non-discrimlnation poficy in employmenL pubfic services, housing andassistance, Adoption, Marriage, Health Care, Sodomy Reform, Censorship. Three voting members of Congress to vote for yonon issues concerning: -the military ban on gay, lesbian and bisexual persons -the Fedend Lesbigay Ci~ Rights bin -national health care reform -National Commi~ion on Gay a~d Lesbian Youth ¯Why statehood? Of 155 nations in the world with elected national legislatures, theUS stands alone in denying residents ofits capital representation. The average tax billofeachDCresident exceededthatoftheresidentsof46states, taxationwithontrepresentation.TheDistrict’s population exceeds thaiof3 states- Alaska, Wyoming and Vermont. MoreDCresidents have died in wars protecting America’s:freedom than 20 states. Estate Planning Adoptions Personal Injury Criminal Law " .Bankruptcy . . . Workers Compensat,on 1. 800 742-9468 or 91.8-352-9504 128 East.Broadway, Drumnght, Oklahoma Weekend and evening appointments are available~ Know Your THE PARACHUTE December 1993, OK-2 70 Protest for DC State - 24 Arrested Hovem~19, 1993- Washington, DC Over 70. people marched from the Mayor’s Office to Capitol Hill in the last p.La)m~ed publicdemonstration bef.ore the vote on HR51, Delegate Eleanor H01mes Norton’s (D-DC) bill to create the slate of New Columbia, this weekend. The Lesbigay community was represented with over 50 rainbow~pride flags being prominently displayed by gay, lesbian and bisexual people as well as their supporters. Barbara Helmick, co-~halr of theLesbigay ActionTaskForceaddressed the crowd, "We’re here to educate the people in the movement, in New Colum: bia, the Congress and the nafiofi on issues of hmn~n fights, democracy a~d participative government." George Neighbors, Jr., another of the co-ch~irS said, "We~ here today as part ofyourmovement. We areheretounite, notdivide. Let’scontinue to w~ together down the. long mad to At the steps of the Longworth House Building, 24 people were arrested in pro- . test to lack of representation. Of the 24, three were with the Task Force: Tony Smnmers of the DC Coalition of Black Lesbians, Bisexunls and Gays, Karen Annagost, former president of the DC Gertrude Stein Club, and co-chalr of the Lesbigay Action Task Force, George Neighbors, Jr. They were held for over 5 hours and released with an arraignment date of December 1, 1993. A trial is expected February 22,-1993 with over THE PARACHUTE OKLAHOMA PublishedEditor-in-Chief Chuck Breckefidge Assistant Publisher Wayne D. Oklahoma Editors/Writers Chuck Breckenridge Tom Neal Writers Cookie At’buckle Advertising Chuck Breckenridge Tom Neal Graphic Design Tom Neal 316-536-6519 Issued on the 1st of each month, the entire contem of this publication are p~etected by US €opyright 1993 by the Parachute and may not be ~elxoduced eithex in whole o~ in part without written pezmission hom the pubSshe~. Publication o~ a name ~photo in no way indicates ~reflects that pe~on’s sexual €~ientation. (~a~a~p~ada~ i~ a~amn~dmbe f~ The Para~ho~ldahoma i~ a n~w.~ and ~wnt~ ~stateh~ arrests putting the government on ~. ~e related mat’l, left. Certified Public Accountant 9933 East 16th, Suite 104 Tulsa 741~ - 91~93~, OKC ~5-942-1~2 1635. E. 15TH ST. TULSA, OK 74120 599-8070 ¯. Serving Tulsa’s Lesbian & Gay l Communities with Pride Look for our Rainbow Flag IIIIIIllllllllllllll:lllll.~_ Perms-Cuts Color - Nailsl I ,. Beauty One ,. ., I Shawn Bayliss 3200 S. Riverside in: 1 Full Service Stylist Place One Apartments I , ... the NEW place to iparty in Tulsa~ " THURSDAYS& S SATURDAYS Alley Enfrancc fo 21 to enter ::!ii::iiiiiii!!i!! - 3 3-!.O S. Peoria MTV MTV’s hip documentary series Real World II tracks the lives of several young adults living together in LosAngeles.The format is a combination of cinema verite intercut with talkingheadcommentary.In the September 10 episode, a new roommate, Beth Stolarczyk, arrives on the scene. Wearing an ’Tin not gay but my .girlfriend is" t-shirt, Beth is defmitely an out lesbian. Reactions from others in the household demonstrated their own prejudices and curiousities; providing a clear comparison to the intelligent and upfront Beth. The October’7 episode featured the roommates playing a get-to-know-yon game where each answered questions about themselves.Beth Was eloquent in pointing out that questions to her were abouthersexnallty onlyandthatwasonly a part of who she was. This was a very positive presentation( Your commentsto MTV about " inclusion ofgaysandl~biansin the world~ cen. be directed_ to: Office of :the Broadway+ New York !~, .. MTV.,. Cowboys. 14m.~ offand m=,k. you ttilvrrv,s "pree Your Mind" seriesf6r!their positive, im~ lesbi~ community~One ~parficul~ service aunoucement dep’mts two ,~0" gun, figh~ donning~ .tl~..typical attire (~g;; hats~ts, dasters,e~!)~e~ho~sun (a la.,rligh hands. They begin to dance; a little two step of sorts.A moment or two later they separate and walk off into the sunset. An on-screen message then reads, "Would you rather they killed each. other?" Very. we!l done, with beautiful production values. And, most importantly, very positive gay representation. ¯ Can CAN Never at aloss to distort,lmisrepresent and outfight lie to raise more money off the imzges ofgaysandlesbians,CAN, the Christian AetionNetwork- abeterosexual supremacist group - has been sending "clips of pornographic films~ to politicians in Washington, D~C, including President Clin_ton. A 15 minute video, which CAN mlgrepresents as having the est, VA 24551. Quotable Quote... FromJaneAlexanderuponbeing sworn in as the new Chair of the NEA; "If I can accomplishany~hingaschairman, itwould be to release the imagination and creative spirit that I feel is alive in all people ofall ages in this ’vast and wonderful county of ours," ¯ Wright Veering Right? - NBC President Robert Wright has named Roger Aries, media advisor to former Presidents Nixon,:Reagan and Bush and the executive producer of"The Rush Limbangh Show," as the president of CNBC, the cable ~k ishow and busi- "stamp of approval".of the,National En- uessuewsuetwork. SaidWright, ,(Roger dowmentoftheArts (NEA), is composed Aries is a) one of a kind in the television of excerpts from fllm.~ shown at the 1991 business. He represents a unique €ombi- PimburghIntern~_aonalGay and. Lesbian nation of promoter, entrepreneur and, Film Festival. The CAN excerpts depic.t+ above all, a highly talented television .founder ofNew York’s Gay Men’s Health Crisis and ACT UP, is interviewed by ¯ David Nimmons in Playboy Magazine’s September issue. Blunt as ever, Kramer compares the Reagan and Bush inaction " on AIDS t9 I-lifter’s acts against the Jews; wonders whether Clinton may be one of our worst Presidents; targets the Center for Disease Control and the National Institutes of Health as wasteful and destructive and criticizes ACT UP for its bureaucracy problems. And he wants more from the gay community, e~lling it "meek, recalcitrant and useless in the battle againstA1DS. "When Nimmons says, "We know more about H1Vthanwehaveever 0mown)," Kramer responds, "Bo!!~hiL..Ifweknew somuch we’d have a cure by now+"Kramer de, ~ scribes a "Manhattan Project" as the way to an AIDS cure and says t_b+t_ letters to congress, the Presidentandnewspapers is producer." Ailes will also lake charge of wex " " AmericaTalking, aNBCcable channel Whether thig lenethv.interview br~__Ir$. .In ~.America of Ib,.. ’90s..:.those ap,.: : the dynamics between Kramer. and pointed tO~apee,antmediaposmonsneed l~m,~ons.are sometimes:€ontentiom’ to reflect an ability to understand the Pla be ~es credit for not onlY miutinm this in~iew but for atlowinx .present conuections~to the right wing. : Hisd :-~iionofWhatitwaslike~- Sha¯ re your concerns w~th"M,r- Wright out,he is HIV-poSitive may be the mint by writing: Robert ,Wright, president, meaningful cbnfrontation withthereality NBC, 30 Rockefeller P~; New York¯ of HIV Playboy readers have everhad,, 10021; CNBC,, 3000 W~ Alameda Av, To encourage more in-depth coverage enue~ Burl~nk~ CA 91523. ofsuch HAq’EIS NOTA FAMILYVALUE" lOc, gold on black gay (g~)a.dj. f~k, j0Y0U~,fme, brilliant, merry,’lighthe~rted Want to stay that way...? 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Feature writer Karen Catchpole describes Smith’s "commitment to growing as an actor," explaining thathejust hiredhis first acting coach and "istaking his bestshot atbecoming abone fidemovie star" by playing the lead in the upcoming fdm version of Six Degrees of Separation. However, the "actor" shows few signs of growth when it comes to homophobia.. Smith’s character in Six Degrees ofSeparation is gay. When he accepted the role, Smith knew that the script called for an on-screen kiss with another man. However, when the time came to shoot the scene, Smith refused. "I just couldn’t do it," Smith said. "I mean, I’m an actor. I can sit there with a greasy smile on my face and act like I kissed a man. But it’s different when you actually, physicaily, kiss a man. It wouldn’t have been acting. It would have been real. I have kissed girls on-screen. I could work that out. The difference is how people perceive it. If I’d kissed a guy and then went home, they’d be like, ’Yo, man. Why’d you do that?’ And I’d be like, ’You know, Man. I’m an actor. I was acting.’ Andthey’dbe like :Yo, man. You kissed a dude. Something’s wrong with you, man.’ Ijust didn’t want to hear that." Let’s just ignore (for now) why Smith is so worried that if he "actuaily, physically, kissed a man," he would not have been acting but that "it would have been real." Perhaps be’sjust suffering from the common hetero-anxiety that straightmen can become gay men just by touching or kissing another guy in "that way." Perhaps not. In any case, Smith’s attitude demonswates a remarkable lack of semi, tivity. For Smith, apparently, acting is not a means for expanding awareness but reinforcing ignorance. Write to Will Smith, Fresh Prince of Bel Airc/oNBCTV, 3000WestAlameda Ave., Burbank, CA 91505. Other Mothers The CBS School break Special, broadcast on the afternoon of October 15, depicted the travails of a high school freshman who weathers homophobic ostracism when his peers discover that he has two lesbian mothers. Other Mothers, directed by Lee Shallof and produced by Joseph Stem, depicts a happy home life for teenager Will Jergenson (William Russ),hisbiologicalmotherLinda(Joanna Cassidy) and his "other mother" Paula (Meredith Baxter). In a "ReadMore AboutIt" postscript to theprogram, actressMeredith Baxter says: Fine Jewelry, as well as Jewelry & Watch Repair 4649 South Peoria, Tulsa, Corner o_f48th & Peoria 918-743-5272, 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday 9:30 - 5:00 Saturdays, Nov. 20 - December 24th Shop Where You are Appreciated! II|ililliliillllilil|lllil|||illlllllllil ¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯¯ ¯¯¯¯ ¯¯¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯¯¯ ¯¯¯¯ ¯¯¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯ ¯¯¯¯¯ PHUNsTH Adult Merchandise Gag Gifts- Novelties + T-Shirts + Cards 1519 East 15th Street, Tulsa 584-7486 10-6 Monday-Saturday, Closed Sunday VisalMC accepted. Under New Management. Open House, Dec. 4, 12-6 Register for $25 Gift Certificate Drawing mmaiimmammmmmmiiimimmmiliiimiiimmaimmaii )¯ ¯¯¯¯¯¯ ¯¯¯¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯ m. ¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯ ¯¯ ¯¯ THE PARACHUTE December 1993, OK-6 "To learn more about the changing roles in our parenting society, the Library of Congress recommends these books: Diversity in American Families, by Maxine Baca Zinn and D. Stanley Eitzen, and Rethinking the Family, edited by Barrie Thome and Marilyn Yaiom. Advertisers on this aff’n’ming program were: Multigrain Cheerios (General Mills), Jell-O Actifed Sinus medicine, Cortisone-10, Campbelrs-soup, Sears, Alrwick, PurinaCatChow,YubanCoffee, Aquafresh toothpaste, Efidac 24, Fleishmann’s Egg Beaters, Lever 2000 soap, Mrs. Dash spices, JC Penny, 1-800- DENTIST (a registered service mark of Applied Anagmmics, Inc.), Post Raisin Bran, Muggies diapers, M&M’s, V-8 juice, Prego spaghetti sauce, Preparation H, Hershey’s Hugs, and Rolaids. Comments should be sent to Jeff Sagansky, President, CBS Entertainment, 7800 Beverly Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 90213. To Boldly Go Where No Queer Has Gone. Before Shortly before Gene Roddenberry’s death, he met with members of The USS Lambda, a lesbian and gay Star Trek fan club in Los Angeles. At this meeting, Roddenberry stated that, since there was virtuallynoracism in his 24th centuryTV world, he doubted that there would, be any homophobia either. He agreed to include openly (and umnistakenly) gay and lesbian main characters on Star Trek: TheNextGeneration as well as other Trek spin-offs. After Roddenberry’s death, his succes~rs promised to follow his wishes and develop lesbian, gay and bisexual characters. Star Trek: The Next Generation is now in its f’mai season and we have yet to see any openly queer figures on the show. Star Trek: Deep Space Nine has begun its second season; though there are representatives of widely diverse cultures--from shape shifters to Ferengi--there seems to be no room. for lesbian or gay characters on the Bajoran space station. Isn’t it about time that Star Trek really went where no one has gone before? Write Rick Berman andMic.h~_el Piller, Executive Producers, Star Trek TNG & DS9, Paramount Domestic Television, 5555 Melrose Ave., Los Angeles, CA 90038. €OC SO0 FRIDAY-SATURDAY 10PM TILL 2AM SUNDAY 9PM TILL~ 2AM (SHOWS AT 10 & 12) PRO:UD.TO. BE GAY OWNED AND OPERATED Fresh Bouquets Blooming Plants Green Plants- & More Delivery A vai/able 3115 South Harvard, 742-1234 M-F 9-6, Sat.’9-7, Sun. 12-5 TULSA. OK 234--9007 The Parachute Page 8-B is skyrocketing. Unlike the West welcome all people regardless of Coast, ~Tblsa Organizations have for- theirHIV status,-age, ra~e, religious gotten that the main goal is TO " beliefs, forsexual .exwession. BE=- WORK TOGETHER TO EDUCATE ING AWARE ’focuses. on positive YOUTH AND PROVIDE SERVICES ~ thinking and living with HIV....not AND SUPPORTFORA~0NE IN- ~f~om it. ¯ ¯ FECTED. WII~H AIDS~.HIV./ ~ " ~ For meeting .times and location if there are .two ortwo hundred. " different services or Support groups everyone should .work together to bring this disease under control! I am embarrassedand appalled by the amou~nt of infighting, backstabbing and the directors of these organizations thinking Tulsa ..is their.own.. They know wing they are and-this iS my message: Get. :over =your seif righteousness and supl:xxt anyone and everyone who is making an ef- -fort t6 heipand support Tuls~ns With HIV-AIDS. Shame, shame, shame. Get with the program! , P.S. It is important that this be pdnted because I am a client ofthese ¯ Organizations. Being HW-ARC, Istili findthe time and energy to give to ~ everyone no matter who they.are or please call ProjectReach Out at (918) 298-4622 or (918) 451-0219. We look fonNard to headng from you. FUNDRAISERHUGE :=~"~sUCCESS i. " A fund raiser, ’~ The Bonep0inter Sis-. ters & FriendS, Safari S~ Good"; h~ld .October 29that the Bunkhouse wasa great success raising over five hundred dollars for. R.A.I.N.~and the ,Winds House.i Also over eleven boxes of food was collected atthe door for the Light.~ houseM.C.C, food pantw. A large.crowd showed up for the benefit, despiti~ the.snow and cold weather and enjoyed a fun evening of camp,drag and Coma[ade~y._ Manylof the performers were new t0the scene having never : Facelift.Massage Arrives" in Oklahoma until recently, Belavi was available only in well known facial message salons in Hollywood and Bevedy Hills. All McGraw, U~dsay Wagner, Jodie Foster, Robert Wagner, Barbara Streisand, and many others have sought this rejuventing therapy for their stressed and aging skin. Belavi Facelift Massage Therapy is now available for the first time in Oklahoma. This hands-on approach often stpes, all of wich contribute to yothful, healther skin. The process uses soothingly warm towi_s through. out the ten steps. Stephen Scott, Oklahomas only Certiffed Belavi Specialist welcome you to try the system fo~ yourself, orgive a Figt Certifmated to someone you love for a more youthful, radiant appearance. Fo.r addisional information including a fee video otto schedule an appointment call (405) 525- 8689 in Metro Oklahoma or (800) 546-8689 Nationwide. Deadline for Januarysubmissions and advertisemenl .December 16th what their problem is. There are . appeared On any stage.. The eveningenough people ~t~ givep~perser-. ¯ :.also included a costume conte~t and . vices, and anyone~should~be wel, " . raffle ofsome wonderfuldonated items~ come to join the fight against AIDS! Ifwe don’t.join togetherwe will all be Impress yourpartner. Use a condom. QUEER’ CONSORTIUM ANNOUNCES SECOND ART EXHIBITION The Queer Consortium, a collective of Oklahoma queer a~sts, announces its second art exhibit titled, "Queers Unbound: Celebrating Our Culture." The exhibition will be held at the Tdangle Association, 2136 N.W. 39th Street in Oklahoma City. In observance of AIDS Awareness Day, the show will begin on December with all art draped in black. An opening reception for the show is scheduled for December 11 at 8 p.m., andthe art will be unveiled at thattime. The exhibition is scheduled to run through January 28, 1994. The Show will include the work ofShar Johnson, Diana Faulkner, TommyThomas, Keith Porter, Clif Trowbridge, all of Oklahoma City; Diane Duffer Gerald David, Ken Carlyle, all of Norman; Larry Harriman of Tulsa; and :Joe Rackley of Stillwater. The artists’ work includes photography, oil paintings, drawing, performance art, and sculpture. The work will be on display at the Triangle Association seven days a week, from noon to~10 p.m. Ad-- mission is free of charge. "The Queer Consortium wishes to continue its mission of _celebrating the diverse cultures represented in Oklahoma’s lesbian, gay, and bisexual communities," said Dale Smithson Triangle Association Director and event coordinator. "This kind of event brings together people from . Oklahoma’s various queer commun~es, and draws attention to the talent these communities have to offer." The Queer Consortium recently achieved overwhelming success with its first exhibition, "Queerly R’s Art." For more information, call Dale at 405-843-8378: "Oklahoma’s Gay and Lesbian InformationSource." Occupation: Agitator ¯ :, , " / Age: ~unknowable Hobbies: T-shirt collecting The Parachute Page 9-B CHRISTMAS CONCERT Preparations are underway for the fourth annual OKC METRO-MENS CHORUS Christmas concert, "Ring, Christmas Bells"_under the direction of Mr. Franklin Roberts. The concert will be held Saturday, December 4th, 1993 beginning at 8:07 P.M. at the First Unitarian Church, 600 N.W. 13, Oklahoma City; Okla, homa. This yeads-concert will feature many old favorites as well as some songs that many may not be famlhar with. Two songs scheduled for performance were written by local composer Mark Houston. Tl~e Chorus feels ored that Markis giving them the opportunity to perform these special Christmas songs. Mark is also preparing a commissioned piece for the OKC METROMENS CHORUS, which the Chorus hopes to perform at their Spring concerf in 1994. This commission is made possible by a grant awarded to the OKC METRO-MENS CHORUS by the G.A.L.A. Chorus Association and the fine grant writing skills of th# Chorus’ Accompanist, Stephanie Johnson. Also appearing at this yeads Christmas concert will be The Metropolitans, a five member group from within the chorus who perform at local benefits and services. TheMetropolitans are also making themselves available to perform at Christmas functions for a small donation. If you are interested, in having the Metropolitans perform for Christmas or any other function, please contact Terry Knapp at 405-677- 1646. The chorus is once again.offedng ad space in their Christmas program. Something new in the program this year is the offedng of a patPon page for those individual~" wishing to support the Chorus, but do not feel the need fora formal ad. No addressesor phone numbers will be included on the patron page, only individuals’ names, (either real names, nick names-or stage .names-). Those interested in placing an ad or their name on the patron page please contact Ralph Shafer at 405-737-6576 or David Coffey at 405-521-1378. To .purchase tickets for you and your guests please see any chorus member or contact Terry Knapp at 405-677-1646. The Chorus has enjoyed success at their previous Christmas concerts and hope to fill the house once again this year. ~ur~ 3007 THE PASEO OKLAHOMA CITY, OK (405)’525-CAFE TRACYTULLIS, Busin~s/Vtanas~r AFI-ER HOUIL~ PRIVATE PARTIES AVAILABLE LOCATED IN HISTORIC PASEO FAMILY OWNED & OPERATED FINANCIAL PLANNING OTHER RECORDS AND INFOR THESERIOUS~ -FORMATION ; -’,~ . ....¯ ................. iLL" By:-Cookie Arbuckle SOCIAL SECURITY ADMiNtS~ including ties you had on the job. -If you TRATION (SSA). DISABIEITY have a resume handy, or ,have PROGRAMS " kept records of where yoU.have~ SSA maintains two different worked, that will help. disability~ programs -, Social Security Dis~ibility insurance(SSDI) ORIGINAL DOCUMENTATION and Supl~lementai Secudty In* SSA will need ORIGINAL DOCUMENTATION. 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The"physi- cai part (meaning literally all QUIREMENTS ARETHE SAME medical records and anything FOR BOTH PROGRAMS.AND about your physical condition) will DISABILITY IS~ ~DECIDED B;Y --be sent to the State’s Disability THE SAME PROCESS, Determination Service or Unit, Some helpful hintstorem~3-~ ~, The "oaoer work" Dart or the fi- .be~i Keep a dngb~d..~~ ~~,.~-. ~na171ce~ ;re handt~c~ at another In !t you..may recor~l specmc ~ ~-"-=~ffiCe: USually, paperwork atthat events, wit..h.,, c,,=orrect~nam~, ~e.s.,.;~~,,a~d~; -~~ le.v.e.l.~w~¯ ll, stay, unless there are dresses and phonenumbers for diffi~=l~i~x ~h~n th~ f’m=ancial oart your physicians Keep tra~ck~.o ,~ ~........ent" ~;~ e - " " dates of ,#is|tS arid~, hosp.tal" ad- ~ ~,~b~ ~iled at~nv time dresses Wit- h "dates" of ws~~and " -for further information by either the types of treatment~received, of the offices,~ Theymay sched- Make a list of all the medications ule for an exam or mail, other you :have been-,onfor at least a : f0rm,~f~r youto fill out. year. ~ Mark, the ones you ~have..... 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La~wton, Oklahoma Stitlwater, Oklahoma Ponca City, Oklahoma Norman, Oklahoma Pauls ¯Valley, Oklahoma El Reno, Oklahoma Fayetteville, Arkansas Eureka~Spdngs, Arkansas -Hot Springs, Arkansas LittleRock, Arkansas S~dngfield,~. -Cincinatti;Ohio Dallas, TeXas " H~uston, Texas ACLU of Oklahoma Human Rights P_roject News By: Michael Canfield The fledgling coalition-known as the Oklahoma Human Rights Project is actively proceeding in accomplishing one of its in,ally stated primary goals,repeal of Oklahoma’s archaic and unequally enforced crime against nature (sodomy) law. The legal record already contains case, Post .v. the State of Oklahoma in which current sodomy law was ruled inapplicable io heterosexual citizens. This is contrary to the Fourteenth Amendment ofthe U.S. Cons~tution which guarantees all Americans, among other things, equal protection of the laws. ACLU of Olda- .homa, in conjunction with the mission of the Oklahoma Human Rights Project, seeks to nullify the inequity of the sodomy law through litigation.~ In order for this stated goal to be accomplshed, plaintiffs are needed to make a legal challenge. The Project is looking for someone who has been accused of municipal offenses such as offering-to. engage in lewd acts; as tong as the charges do not involve minors or prostitutiot~, and the defendantis without legal representation. Alternately, the ACLU would also like to assemble a group of indMduals which would include both Gay men andLesbianswho wish to challenge the state statute. Becoming a pl~aintilf in this type ofcase ¯ would, of course, involve a great amount of publicity, those people with the convic, tions and the. courage step fOrward ira: mediately. If-youor anyone you know wishes to volunteerasa plaintiff, contact the ACLU of Oklahoma at 14i 1 .Class~n, Suite 318, Oklahoma~ City, OK 73106. -Thank You for your Isupport of The IParachute in 1-993 "Throughout theAIDS epidemic, lesbians have worked Side-by,side with gay. men to stop. this disease. We’re worked so hard that sometimes we haven’t taken care Of ourselves. It’s time we looked at our own risks. Say it... "Lesbians Get HIV. " A Service of the Oasis Resource Center. To volunteer call 405-525-2437. "Oklahoma’s Gay and Lesbian Information Source." . Joy Manes / Occupation: Student Age: 20 Member: Yo.~ Gay and L~h. I a s s NOTICE Our Third Year! Get the areas longest running contacts publication for gays, lesbians, &.bisexuals. No charge to place an and and no forwarding fee to respond. For free info. senge age statement TO: Personally Speaking; P.O. Box 16782, Wichita, Kansas 67213-0782 31 6-269 4208 FOR SALE For sale in Eureka Springs, Martha & Joyce are selling the Purple Iris Inn, with an excellent alerady build in "Family " Clientelle. Country s~tting, turn-key alton. Contact: Dinny Bullard of Double "D "Realty, Berryvill,e Ark. at 1-800-748-9772 FOR RENT Roommates serving Wichita for 5 years, Lanlords can reg ister without any advance fee. Tenants may register; as little as $15.00 t529 W. Douglas 262-8444 Wanted: Locations where gays may Share housing in Wichita area: Call or stip by Roommates 1529 W. Douglas,262~444 .... ~,:..’~ i f i e d s ~-~~. ~ .EHcoulymTerniinCitayl ~_~yCatholic Church Sunday Mass 10:30AM. Wednesday Mass 7:00pm .2328 N. MacArthur, OKC For. information (405)755-8351 HELP WANTED D.J., send demo taPe to : Electric Circus, Attn: David Bridgeman, 311 E. 7nth, Tulsa, Ok. 74120 Pianist Wanted; Charasmatic church looking for piano, player, must be able to play by ear. Pay is little, but reward is great.6316-651-0603 Pets .... To give awa£_in Wichita: 3 monthold Rotwiller (mostly), male pup, likes kids, and other pets. call 316-65_t .0603. Selling or giving away somthing ? advertise it in the Parachute DiScontinues Personals section. As of Decemberist, the Parachute will no longer carry the personals section of the Paper. We appreciate your response to the personals, however as-the paper has grown we find that we need room for expansion.. There are several other gay/ lesbian publications who carry personals and we.will be glad to helpyou contact them if you do not have their address. You may simply call the office of the Parachute at 316-651-0500. If you have placed a personal ad with us, you will be recieving a refund check in the mail soon. We will continue to forward any mail that comes in addressed to a personals box. Thank you for your support of the Parachute, and we look forward to serving you more in the future. To.Place a. Classified Name Address City. State Phone # Ad: Send: zip Typeor print your ad, 25 words or less, send with this coup.o.n and $6.00 to: The Parachute P.O. Box 11347 Wichita, Kansas 67202 Ad will run only for number of insertions paid for. January Special CLASSIFIEDS $3.00 each, 25 words or less, must be received by December ,,17th. . ADVERTISE YOUR BUSi- NESS IN THE PARACHUTE FOR AS LOW AS 29.00 PER MONTH FOR A DISLPAY AD, CALL 1-316-651-0500 ~ GeneraI Gay& Lesbian Discussion Groups Mondays, 6:30 at Red Rock- New Group starting Thursdays, 6:30 at Red Rock Couples of MixedHIV Status Contact Jim .Carter .for :details. YGLA, Young Gay& Lesbian Alliance Di~i~SSi.~n:~Group, Tuesdays, 6:30 at Oasis Activi~r~i~p,.SundayS; 8pm at Oasis ....... .-, : ..... . . ReferralAs~is~ance" Jiin 8~-Betsywiil provide free referral assistance forindividuals seeking counseling or substance usetreatment. Some support groups will require screening ofparticipants to insure group compatibility. Red Rock HIV Counseling Services Individual Counseling for HIV positive persons and their loved ones and HIV Prevention Etlucation. THE PARACHUTE December 1993, The Parachute Page 14-B Sunday, ~hurgday 1 or 2 persons (holidays ~duded) OPen Wednesday-Sunday 9pro ,2am Open daily 12noon-2am shLine Thefinest in C&Wmusic and dancing Dinner Friday-Saturday th8 After Hours Breakfast Til 3:30am THE Video Monday-Saturday Sunday 5pro,- 2am 3pm - 2am Monday- Friday 12n - 2am Saturday - Sunday lOam - 2am Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1993] The Parachute of Oklahoma, December 1993; Volume 1, Issue ? Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Oklahoma's Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource The Parachute of Oklahoma was a monthly newspaper; the publication that is accessible through the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center starts in 1993 and ends December 1993. The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. 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Neill Equality Center Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/453 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Relation A related resource The Parachute https://history.okeq.org/files/original/68bdb5b69682b6da0ce23daa8b2a6c02.jpg d5f52ab2632755507d90c04e47619c9f https://history.okeq.org/files/original/63fc78b10ca8d8fe41c6efdc08589d78.pdf 1b18de285bb260dcca94e9b1bbdfade4 PDF Text Text By Tom Neal, Tulsa Para~hute reporter ~ US House of R~presentatives S ..... B~ey Frank in s Oklahoma Congre Bill Brewstet, .... In an Octd~r 3 Story by 3im ~ye~s, ~ulsa world tnhofe; Ist~k and B~ewster indica(~ tha~ th~ Lesbians for their staffs. Glenn English)i sexual orientation inhirin related smries) i Only would hire b~(d ~ly On abiilty ~ pe~fo~ th’e the Oktaho~a Cdngressmen came td his attention througli i weekt) n~w~pg~r s(rving Cdngr(s~: On Oct. i9 Hou~ fl~ta ondemn these Okl~oma~ harassment . In response to McCurdy’s comment about not flaunting his heterosexuali![, the ParaChute called MeCUrdy ~ Norman and WaShingt0n offices to confirm that the Congressman keeps pictures of his wife and children in the offices and regularly wears a wedding ~ ring. The Parachute asked the Congressman if the photos of his children (the product of a heterosexual liason) and the daily Wearing of a ring (symbolizing a ca~n~l~eiationshi p) did~tconStitute a flaunting ot" h~s sexuahty. Mr. t Bray (formerly Media an indiVidual s sexualorientation in any 0~hisemployin,~nt capacities (private 0) governmdn~): ,~ifa~rson appliedfor a ~sition ~ith ~ign ~nhis cl~st, sayin~ i m Gay,! IprobaN) would not hire him. The i:’ar~chute ~ked the Senator if a person were hiredwiih whom there was a general concurranee on political views and Who was a good worker; could that person be open aboU[their sexual orienta~i0ngFore:£~ i. p e~coUidthat perso~bri nz the~rlongumepartner roan office event? see McCurdy on OK-2 us. And I will the next few 3ers of Congress and military leaders ~ther anti-Gay propaganda is portraying as possible, probably in seem ~ folks they’re going to g together across the state. see Nickles on OK-2 ght on OK-4 TRET F in concert November 1993, OK-1 THE PARACHUTE �Out of The Closet and Onto The Phone Frank, Continued from OK-1 " " orientation. Mr. Frank noted specifically that he would not recommend affirmative action as a remedy for discrimination againstLesbians,Gay men andBisexuals, nor was he calling for "special rights." Mr. Frank slated; "People have said, ’After all, there is no problem. People are not discriminated against in hiring in this country based on their sexual orientation. So why press for legislation?’....if that (anti-Gay discrimination) happens here in the House of Representatives, it is .obvious that it happens elsewhere_in societyo" ComratmltySpirlt Long Distance S~rvice Dcdkated to the Lesbian & Gay Community Call With Pride. Switch t~ C~mmunitySpirit Telephone. Lorig Distance To&y, When you switch to CommunitySpirit a portion of your 19ng distance bill will go to the lesl~ian, gay or HIV-related organization you choose. You can support your community while enjoying the finest service and savings available: ¯ Callanywhere in the world ¯ Simple Dial 1 service ¯ 24-hour op.erator services ¯ Free calling card to use when travelling ¯ 100% digital fiber optic network for ultimate clarity ¯ PLUS savings of up to 25% vs. AT&T, MCI, or Sprint CO~MMUN/TYSP/R/T Make The Switch Today 1"-800-546 0556 On Oct. 21, Speaker of the House Of Representatiq,,es, Tom Foley issued a statement to clarify remarks made in a press conference earlier that day. Mr. Foley said,. "....I emphatically restate my opposition to any employment bias based on criteria such as race, color, creed, gender or sexual orientation (emphasis added), He added that he agreed with Barney Frank that Congress should examine how to apply such stan.dards to itself to the "greatest degree_possible." McCu rdy, continuedfrom OK-1 McCurdy.responded, "I respectfully disagree that the wearing Of a wedding ring and the display of family photos....constitute p.arading one,s sexuality." THE .PARACHUTE OKLAHOMA Publisher/Editor4n-Chief Chuck Breckeridge Assistant Publisher Wayne D. Oklahoma Editors Chuck Breckenridge Tom Neal Writers Chuck Breekenridge Tom Neal Cookie Arbuckle Mary Arbuclde Stephen Scott Babby Leslie Thomas Catherine Boyle Kevyn Jacobs Michael Camfield Scott C~y Advertising Chuck Breckenridge Leslie Thomas Tom Neal 800-536-6519 918-832-0233 POB 4140, Tulsa 74159 P~,ac~t~ a~l m~y not I~ z~-Ix~,d ©ith~ in whol© ~ ~ p~ Nickles, continued from OK-1 Mr. Niekles’responded, "It would depend on how aggressive the individual was about pushing that lifestyle." The Parachute inquired further, "What about putting a photo of a spouse on a desk?" Sen. Nickles~ said, ’Tve already answered the question." He refused any - further comment. | occasionally politically Correct; and t0 bring you all the news that’s’ not always fit | tO print but we know you wanted to know.. First and foremost, Miss Thang wants toknow whyshe didn’t see more of you 1. at the.fabulous TOHR auction on National Coming Out Day? There was lots & 10ts 1 Of incredible food, drinks, a view for miles and lovely, lovely people, and it all was ~ free except for the auction items that went.for a s~teal. a . MissThang especially wants to mention the cute volunteer bar’boys from the | TONR clinic, all the stylish Lesbians and-particularly, the stellar jazz & blues | vocali.zations by .Pr~"tess Riley and Artie S.. You missed a good party and Miss | Thang just_can’t believe you really hadsomething better to do on a Monday! i Who was that Nasty Buckeroo? Miss Thang was so disappointed to hear this story (and | | you ,watch it., hear). Seems there was a fellow at one of our favorite.watering holes | - may be he’d just had one too many but he got just a little too enthusiatic in saving I a table. It’s said he was altogether too hatefulto several of our sisters. Honey, we’ve got way too many folks attacking us from the outside to attack 1 each other, ok? So you just be nice to our sisters and you know what, they’ll be nice I to you too. Next time just sayplease and thank you, and leave the hatefulness ~o me! Fresh Bouquets Blooming Plants Green Plants & More Defivery, A vailable 3115 South Harvard, 742-1234 M-F 9-6, Sat. 9-7, Sun. 12-5 THE PARACHUTE November 1993, OK-2 �Grand Opening People are like animals at .~.. See the boys take itoff and the girls dress up every week-end at Tuls.a’s original dance .club 4812 Eo (918) 745-9~93 Open Wed.-Sun. Male Dancers Fe_Lmale Im~personators Gay Operated Trisexual Oriented Never a Cover Levi-° Leather ¯ Lace November 1993, OK-3 THE PARACHUT~ �Fight, continued from OK-1 as a response to anti-Gay laws proposed in the Oklahoma legislature last winter. Those proposals werekept in committe~ then but it is rumored that they defmite!y will emerge when the legislature meets next.) Parachute: is there anything else you’d like to add? RC:when we were discussing the recent statements by US Congressmen from Oklahoma who said that they would not hire Lesbians & Gay men, Suzanne Pharr suggested that we ought to respond by flooding these guy’s offices with job ap: plications from us! Also because the conference was under-attended, it didn’t break even. Any donations would be welcome. Parachute: information about the shoWing of The Gay Agenda and other propaganda videos will be available at Tomfoolery! at the Silver" Star, 832-0233. Donatio_ns madp~ be made toSimply Equal, and sent to Robert, clo TOHR, 4154 S. Harvdrd, Ste. H,l ] Tulsa, 74105. Queer. Pen "Pals Ever wonder what Gay & Lesbian life is like in the countries behind the old Iron Curtain? Whatdo they talk.about? What do they read? NOW that the-Wall is dow~ are the closets next? The Pen Pal Project Of the International Gay and,Lesbian Human Rights Commission can link you with soem great women ’& men from most countries in Eastern/ Central Europe and the former,Sovietl Union. If you wanttocorrespond with a Siberianpfinceor a Bulgarian bulldagger, senda stamped, self-addressed envelope" to: IGLHRC Pen Pal Project , .. - - 5 Tulsa News TOHR Feast for Friends Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights will hold its monthly general meeting at 7:30 on Tuesday, November 2 in the Gathering Room of the HIV Resource Center at 4154 So. Harvard, ’Ste. H-1. Drive to the back of the office complex and look for the lower level entrance on the south building...., The agenda, includes el’~’tion of new officers, a report on the Fight the Right conference and a feature presentation by Alan Nitray of Oklahoma City on Lesbian & Gay Mental Health issues. .For .more i~formation, call TOHR’s Helpline, 743-GAYS, It was also reported at October’s TOHR meeting that Feast for Friends, a series of individual dinners to raise funds for THE NAMES PROJECT raised about $6,000. Prime Timers ’Prime TimetsiS ~ organization new to Tulsa for Gay and Bisexual men over 40. Prime Timers is primarily: a. soqial and support organization, focusing on cultural and reereationai activities, such as pot-lU~k dinners, bike rides, the opera and discossion groups. ~Member.s may bring their partners who are under 40 if the partner is at least 21 years old. For more information, write: Prime Timers POB 521.18 Tulsa 74105 Tulsa World Watch Several prominent Tulsa Lesbian/Gay , civil rights activists met with theEd~(orial. staff0fTulsa’s only daily, theTulsa World. Nancy McDonald, a board member of Tulsa’s Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays, and the nadonal board. of,P-FLAG, Kelly Kirby, president of Ttflsa 01dah0mans for Hum an Rights with several others met with Alex Adwon, Ken Neal, Judy Randle and other TulsaWorld write~in a "g,et:acquain_ted"m~¢ting. " Accrrding tO-Mrs. MeD0nald, the Editoi’ial Board does not.grant such interviews frequently but the writers showed an openess and willingness to begin a dialogue about.Lesbian & Gay equal rights" issues. The hCtivists were told that if they could just meet indiyidually with every Oklahoman,Lesbians andGay m~n would have no opposition related Mrs. McDonald. The activists also lef~ information packages about Lesbian/Gay issues with the writers. Tulsa University .Comes Out Tulsa AIDS Walk ’It was ’reported at October’s TOHR meeting that Tulsa’s first AIDSiHIV fundraising walk was suocessful. Over 50 people Walked and:approximately $3,000 .was ~ tO ._.be sh.ar_~ ~y.a!A..T_ulsa I-!!V that are In honor of National Coming Out Day, October 11, the Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance (formerly STIR) of the University of Tulsa held a reading-of poetry by Queer poe~ on Sunday, October 10. On M..onda~, several niembers_~.held a public the Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance." About25 people attended and asked questions about topics ranging from self-hatred, dealing with parents & friends, the status of bisexuals, and being out on campus. BLGA meetings are open to TU students and students from other local campus,es. The,meetings are.held at the Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay- AllianceCanterbury Ministry Center at 5th &Evanston on Sundays at 6pro. For more info. call: 5839780 Tulsa Man Reports Assault A Gay man leaving a Tulsa ’bar has reported being assaulted nearby where he had parked his car~ "Mr. Doe" related to the Parachute that he left the establishment just before 2 am and noticed 2 men in the parking lot talking. When he got in his car, they had managed to get in the back seat: They beat him on the baCk and shoulders. with a climb. "Mr. Doe". said he managed to getthe club away from one man and strike back. He reports that his assailants then fled. "Mr.Doe". wentto Hillcrest for treatment and also relates that he was questioned eourteous.ly by a Tulsa police office~:. NAMES PROJECT For those interested in making a panel for the AIDS Memorial Quilt, there will bea sewingbee on Sat. Nov. 20 at 1:30 pm inthe Gathering Room Of the HIV Re: sburce Center,4154 S. Harvard, Ste..H- 1, gr0und flooTrearentranc~.Eor moreinfo. Cali~ 748-31i1: Kelly-H Certified PuNic Accountant 9933 East 16th, Suite 104 Tulsa 74128918-6630399, OKC 405-942-1062 1565 South Sheridan, Tulsa 918-834-4234 The Silver Star Saloon Proudly Presents Dena Kaye Saturday, November 28 8:30 pro, $3Full time masseur available. Please call for an appointment. Free Two Step Lessons& $ 3 Beer Bust Every Wednesday Trash Disco & $ 3Beer Bust Every Thursday Free Line Dance Lessons & $ 3 Beer Bust Every Sunday : ¯¯ Please bring this ad in for a 50 % discount off one one-hour massage. (exp. 12/3/93) 4944 So. 83rd East Avenue, Ste.D, 918.665-1155 Make Plans to join the Silver Star for our New Year’s Eve Blowout! Watch. for Details! THE PARACHUTE November 1993, OK-4 One block easton 51st from Memorial. Visa/MasterCard accepted. Monday - Saturday, 9am- 8pro, Sunday, 1-6pm. �SOUTHWEST STUDENT GROUP TO SPONSOR TRIP TO NGLTF CONFERENCE, Creating Change DALLAS - The Coalition of Lesbian/ GayiBi Student Groups, Inc. announced they will.be sponsoring a trip to "creating Change", the 6th annual conference on gay/lesbian/bisexual cohcerns and politi= cal Organizing hosted by the National Gay and Lesbian Task~Force (NGLTF). This year’s conference will be held in Durham, North Carolina fromNovember 11. through 14. "Creating Change" is considered the preeminent national forum for lesbian/gay/bisexual activists and organizers to share skills and dialog about our politicaI .mo.veinent .arid discuss strategies for the year ahead. Lastyear’s conference in Los, Angeles .drew.o~,er 12.00 grassroots activist~and allies from across the natiom "The Coalition is, once again, glad to,be able to offer a 10w,cost alter. native for-queer studems and,youth :inl the Southwestito: :pa fici, pate directly in the natiOnal 6ivil rigtits . movement,,, - -. GA’ LESBIAt E A(~ ~E~MA~I:ON sponsored similar trips to this ~eur’s naFighting for fair, accurate & Inclusive re,presentation of lesbian and gay lives! tional gay and lesbian civil rights march Mr. Don Coo, President READING: OUR RIGHT in Washington D:C., as well as the"CreHiram Walker and Sons, Inc. OutMagazine tells us thatTheReader’s ating Change" conferences in 1991-and P.O. Box 33006 Catalog; a regular adver- tiser, in the 1992. Detroit,’M148232-3006 "We know that-after attending these magazine, is receiving hate mail and has events these future leaders become inlost 50 subscribers for: including lesbian Naya Water, a longtime supporter of and gay titles in the book lists. Catalogs vigorated, and,return some this. energy the community (and of GLAAD/NY).has and information toassist the in struggle at like this are. an important source of books, signed on as the first major sponsor of particularly for gay men and lesbians who the state, local and collegiate-level.Y~ Mr. cannot get tea welhstocked book- store; Gay GameslV, in the largest sponsorship Dorsey and CLGBSG Congress Secredeal everffor a single lesbian and gay or whosebookstores won.~t carry lesbiun~ tary Jeff McCanley will also present at event. Stu Levitan from Naya has also this year’s conference on youth organiz2 andTgay material. - gone out ofhis way personally to support ing and race/classjgender issues;. The Reader’s Catalog ShoUld be com. corporate involvement in our community. mended-for standing their groun~UI~etters The Coalition "Freedom Bus" will_deA very.warm thanks to: .part from Dallas at noon on Thursday; of support should be addressed to: Ms. Stephanie Smith " S tu Levitan November 11 and return back toDallas on ... Vice President/General Manager The Reader’ s Catalog Moflday,Nov. 15 ~t threep.m. The f~of 250 West 57th Street N0ra-Beverages USA $100includes rtund-trip transportation, ahd hotel lodging .at the.arena .- R~leigh New York, NY 10019 , " . ~ . 6 High Ridge Park,’B!dg. ¯ Thecatalog eanbe ordered freeofcharge . .... _ Stamford,. CT 06905 Durham, thesite of the conference. O~gaby calling 800-733.~BOOK.(say yousaw . : ¯ = " .............. #=ers suggest participants .should .also budget $60 for.food during~e m.’p. T~e_ abe ad:in Out Magazine), ~t’s .make,up .: --: GLAAD_/~_.... trip is 0peii_to°~all gay/l~sbian/bise~U~l .... for those50 lost Subscribers!" i: ...... u 15OWest 26th.St., Ste; 503 students and youth. Seam are limited. New York,. NY10001 : . : Participants fees must be received.by the SPONSORSHIP NEWS: 212-807-1700. ~ ’ , ..... .HIRAM WALKER & NAYACoalition by Saturday, November6th: Concert byLegendary Lesbian The increased interestin the lesbianland TheCLGBSG is-Dallas, Texas based Singer/Songwriters to Benefit non-profit (50i.c3)educationa~’organiza- " gay market in c6rporate America has led Herland Legal Defense Fund to an increase notonly in. advertising in . tion-founded.in 1989 to serve gay/lesbian and:bisexual-students and youth in the Cris. William.s0n and Trot Fure, both the lesbian and gay press, but in sponsorwell know for their roles in shaping the SOuthwest.- O~eiprograms include a ship ofcommunity events as well. Two women’s m uSic mo~’ement are performing regional conference, a three2day leadercompanies in particular are to be comm .the Ciqic Cehter Little Theatrdin mended for their continuedsponsorship ship skills retreat, a scholarship program, ¯ Oklahoma Ciiy on ThurSday, No~,ember communications network and. quarterly support: 18 at 8 pro. Hiram Walker, whose brands include student meetings in.the service, area. The Herland Legal Defense FUnd ~gi~ts For more infoi~nation,on the Creating Fris Vodka, Beefeater Gin, Courvoisier tO help defray the legal cost~ fOr"~bian Cognac,Cutty Sark Scotch~ MidoriMelon Changetripandother~LGBSGprograms, or for information on hd-W.to Sponsor a Liqueur~ and 0there(has supported over a & Gay parents~ Seeking to protect the_’n~ pa~efiting fights in~ilie oklahoma ~OurtS.. dozen community :organizations, _includ~ student’s participation, contact the Coaing the Nam~s.P~oject, Astraea(HRCF, Currently :support is~ ’l~i.ng given to-:~ lition at PO Box 190712, Dallas, Texas, l_~sbian~iitther ~ee~.ng to,retain custOdy The Center, and LifeBoat. Write~to thank= 75219 or. call (2!4)521~53~Z ~xt. 808: of her children. �GLAAD Media News Briefs by AI Kielwasser Ga~ & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation/San FranciscoBay Area Homophobla Illustrated Recently, Sports Illustrated(SI) rejected an advertisement from the Adidas,eomparty that featured a photo of the all-male Canadian soccer team, wearing nothing but Adidas Shoes. The players were not fully nude, though. Their .hands, soccer balls andtrophies were strategically placed. , Since when has SI tlad any qualms about running photos of semi-nude indi, viduals? .After all, this is the same magazine that earns its keep through annual sales of the "swimsuit issue," which features semi-nude women in various Obviously, Sis decision to reject the Adidas ad was based on nothing but sexism, homophobia’s constant companion. SI has sent a message that it’s okay to sprawl semi-nude photos_in their magazine as long-as thephotos are of women only. Forillustrating sexism, homophobiaand hypocrisy, direct criticism to Mark Mulvoy, Editor, Sports Illustrated, and Roger Jackson, Public Relations Director, Time, Inc., Tim e and Life Building, Rockefeller Ce~nter, New York, NY 10020. Spin Examines Hate Music In the August issue of the music magazine Spin, :Farad Chideya examines the use of homophobic lyrics in hip-hop, rap and dance hall reggae music. Chideya concludes that the blatantly homoph0bic lyrics of Such performers as Ice Cube, Big Daddy Kane, and Chubb Rock are an attempt to deny the existence of homosexuality within the/African American community. The author also takes.note of pro÷gay/ lesbian rappers, including female rapper Yo Yo and the rap duo Disposable Heroes of Hiphoprisy, whose sing(e "Language of Violence" railed.against gay bashing. To effectively counteract musical hate speech, Chideya argues that more performers need to come back with their own response, using rap as the format. Send compliments to Bob Guccione, .Jr., Editor, Spin, 6. West 18th Street, New York, NY 10011. Bad Vibe The October issue of Vibe magazine includes a scurrilou~ bit of journalistic phlegm. In "No Apologies~ No Regrets," author Joan Morgan profiles Jamaican singer Buju Banton and seeks to legitimize the reggae singer’s homophobia on cultural grounds.. Benton’Ssong "Boom Bye Bye" openly advocates murdering gay men. Tobe more specific, Baton calls upon listeners to shoot gays thrrugh the head. In her unbalanced discussion of Banton and his gay-bashing hit, Morgan manages to dredge up endless stereotypes about Jamaican gay men--that they are child molesters, rapists, classist leaches, and even that their sexual activities lead to incest, decapitation and death. Not one gay Jamaican.was quoted in ,esponse to such-hateful absurdities. The basicpremise of Morgan’s article is. that homophobia is an essential and integral part of Black culture.. 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In an open letter to Vibe magazine, numerous lesbian, gay and transgendered activists of African descent roundly denounce the conclusion "that. those who shun music or musicians who espouse homophobia do so out of racism or cul: tural insensitivity" and furthermore, they point out, "the decision of Vibe’s Editor~ In-Chief Jonathan Van Meter to publish so biased and defamatory a piece clearly illustrates that not all powerful, gay white men value or respect 0~r lives." In defending Buju Banton, Joan Mor-" gan joins in his hate-filled campaign and has allied herself with those who promote hatred rather than understanding~ Criticism should be directed to Jonathan Van Meter, Vibe, 205 Lexington Ave., 3rd Floor, New York, NY 10016. The Media Access Project: Playing Fair Legislation to reinstate the "Fairness Doctrine" is now pending in Congress. Before it was disbande.d in the midst of deregulation hysteria, the Fairness Doetrine required broadcasters to provide balanced coverage of "controversial" issues of public importance. Conservative radio talk show hosts’ and other media hate mongers (i.e,; Rush Limbaugh and clones) are spearheading an effort to defeat this legislation. The Media Acc.ess Project is encouraging the lesbian, gay and bisexual communities to support the Fairness Doctrine bills in the House of Representatives and Senate (H.R. 1985 and S. 333). The Media Access Project asks you to contact your Senators and Representatives in support of these bills (U.S. Senate, Wash- ingtOn, DC 20510, tel. 202-224-3121; U.S. House ofRepresentatives, Washington, DC 20515, tel. 202-225-3121). For more information, call Gigi Sohn at the Media Access Project, 202-2324300. November’s In The Life "School’s Outh Lesbian & Gay Youth"-will examine the Challenges faced by young queers. The program provides an overview of emerging educational pro.grams, high school.homophobia, lesbian/ gay teachers, and more. The November episode alsointroduces a new "Fact File" feature. Among the statistics that will be revealed: Half of all lesbian and gay youth surveyed report that their parents rejected them because of their sexual orientation. Fortyrfive percent of gays and 20 percent of lesbians ~xpedence verbal harassment in high school, and 28 percent are routinely forced to drop out because of homophobic harassment. In The Life is not fundedby the Public Broadcasting System. but is produced through a national membership network. For further information (and a copy of the In The Life program guide) call 800-627-ONTV. �THE HUMAN RIGHTS ~ an~form; includingodiscrimination. based on sexual orientation,~o-er~ emphasized t0ihe ~oun d-nt M~rk 14An-ric k~mndelivereda ~,. ~ " :~-:’. ,. -.. -; :*.~_=-*e~a~ ¯ wnichincmdeaexnoningmeas/~PilJ/~ ~ ¯ , cil ~. the bklahoma C. H~man, ~ ~f~::o~r:~’~ ~:~~ On Tuesday, October 5, the Rights Commission-~aff mereorder to challenge Oklaho~as Oklahoma City Council, led by bers and volunt~ unanimously archaic sodomy laws. The conMayor Ron Nodck, destroyed all suppoSedpassage of the prosensus of the coalition was .ah e~husia~ic~llingne~ to I~ig~e chances for local protection of -posedadd~ions to the Munici~l , -a~i~the S~y la~and s~vbasic human righ~ and civil liber. Code. . ties~ In .a 6~3 vote, the Council The ~e~can Civil Li~ies ~ e[al~people Vblunteered to be~ruck from theiragenda therfinal Union o~ Oklahoma "expressed~-L pl~in~tiff~: ~l,~addition, it was. h~fing ~ proposed amendmen-- p~blic ~isappoin--e~:~ ina~ ~- ". ~greedth~.th~Okllh~ma Human tion onpa~ 0fme Six~Council~:: Righ~Project sh6u[d:;foeus on to A~icles II, III and IV of ChapMr m~ ~o m~to~e :~ -~eg~st0pm~ent the~"age ~ 25 ~ the Oklahoma CiW Mu~icipal c~e. Due to the p~sum~x.~ the. Oklahoma C.. H~ma~=Rig ~. :..; -~~::i~[~£~:~ e~ed by Right Wing Religious’Sx-: Commis~on tO ~o~ a~Deiyand ~ , of la~"~fi~, o~ina~ces s~h as tremists, the Council refralne. ’~e~ivelyin com~ffigg~discdmi-, theone;Whichlh~Oklahoma"CiW from passing the ordinance be-~ ,na~o~ practices~bY~employers, -~.-,.CounCil ~uSed to~pa.:’~ cause s~xual o~enMtion was in-~ landi0rdsaadpubiiC.~cc6mm0da-~’ ~ ACLU ~’Oklahomwishesto cluded as a prote~ed’ cat~go~: " tions In addi:UOn;ACLUIOKc~m*~ retain-tithe Oklahoma ~C~.comHowever, failure to"paSs ~he mended c0un~il me~bersMark’ " mhniw a~i~-pmsenMti0n of amendments leaves no recourse " Schwa~,LWHla Joh~so~ and : THE:~OSPiCE."-Thisplay~ill ~ pmsenied on ~O~tobe~23 and 29 for individuals Who experience :, ~ Jackie Cam~ for~ei~ ou~geous at theWilI,Rogers Center~ 4322 N. discrimination on the ~basls of........ s~nce in"s~n~:~ ~sic~h~m~n ~t~rn~ time .... ~.: CUmin ;;L~ ~ " .. ~. Will. be at : ~; color, " . . ~ ’~" .~ ; ong~ :~’n , " .... - ..... race, creea, national ~ahts " 8:00 RM~. on bothevenings~ The = ¯ ethnicity, gender or disability s~On Thumday; Septem~r 30, productioo~addresses anti,gay tus. ¯ ~ ,-- ~ - ACLU of Oklahoma,in;solidad~pmjudi~sa~d~expioresthe posiSdl" Rogers, the cu~nt. Chair" with more than an dbzen other~:~ ti~e:a~itudes,~o[~chara~ers living of the Oklahoma ~ity Human OklahomaOroupr~, formed"the ~ with-AiDS~ Te~:pe~ofthe proRigh~ Commission: presented a Oklahoma HumaO,.Righ~ P~oject. c~d~will go t0the ~IDS Suppo~. broadband a~ay offac~ and m~. ¯ .Among~ theoth~ ~0maniz~ions. Program,, TiCkets ~ay ,be .purtistics which dem0nstrated ~that ~- m res~hted at the meetin were . chased at Jungle Red,Lobo,-the similar ordinances, have. ~ee.0~:~ ~,~’the-National Organization of T~angle AssoCiation and the HI" " .... ..... "~ ~’i ~ ~~ Women,Simply Equal t the Okla-: Lo Club ~ot by calHng passed m local commumtms across the nation. -He .alse cited homa Gay and Lesbian:Political ~ Oklahoma ,at (40S) 524-8511 and number and a numerous co~o~te~amples of Caucus and There will also ia iited ¯ number of.tickets which include sexual qdentation) -. meetin hts among Fortune 600 companies. of performance. Also noted ~ of m Sup~. the ’ ~i~tion that -i~O~ F~om - Amc~n Rcligi~. Amc~n ciVil Liberties Union of Free Speech, Press Civil. ~ibertics Unio. .you Equality and Du~ ~n Suppo~ ~ ACLU by Bccomin to: ACLU,- 132 West New York, NY 10036 43rd lOd, b]ackon pink 10c~ gold on black lob, blue/green 10a, red & black on grey ., gay (g~) adj. ~k, joyous, free, brilliant, merryili~htheart~ Want to stay that way...? Fight back- COME OUT! VISUALIZE. HATE IS. 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Th~s Yea~ ~gean~ N~C, w$ ’ o~~ the ~ fortune ~";" ~uuu are lesbian [ ; bl~xpa! i employee ~ th~ L~ ; ........ that iewer than NGLTF ~r ~mar og Oklahoma ~y. ¯e 98 Along with th~ cr~wni th~ win’ rec pro~ess ~rw$ bisexual.% Of for Why , w~th ~, discrimifiatioi~ against lesbian and gay ?, ,, ; : : , Congress~an Jim Inhofe, Ernest ’ Brewster have brought .........Bdl Istook and ’ lesbian and gay discrimination against people on Capitol Hill out of the . , ..... , . closet; saysum~v~cree~ey, execut~ve director of the Human Rights Campaign Fun~d. "We are surveying every member of the Houge and ~sking them to inform their stars that discrimination on the basis ~f ~al orientatiOn Will no/be offices," . . ..... Oklahoma membe{S of CongreSs October :3. T,P.4 S H $ 1 NIGH T L) / S ] LONGNECKS SUNDAYS 5 H O ~l/ N/ G H T S0mefhing Special ~very Sunday! communify o new s3 BEE£ BUST FROM 9- ] 2 dance c/u/z) offernofive $1_50 ioofers and Weekly Drink Specials EVERY Alley entrance to 3340 Doors open of (t:o~rnerty C~ STROKES) 2 1 ~o enter 91 8-F44-©89@ in an �the abi!ity.of neutrophiis to engulf ¯ and destroy b~cterla:~ .These ~.ef~ fects start’ within lessthan 30 minutes after ingestion and last for overfive hours: Typically, there is at least a 50% reduction in neutroph,s activity two hours alter ingestion. Since neutrophils consti, tute 60 - 70% of your total circula~ting white blood cells, impairment of their activity can sedouslysuppress your immune system~ Ingsstion of 75 grams of glucose has also been shown to depress lymphocyte activity. In contrast the ¯ ingestion of 110 grams of complex carbohydrates results in no supDamaging The Immune System pressive effect on immunefunc,._ Stress is one of thegreatest damtion.. agesof your immune, system. ~. SO, ho~i much sugar does the Many research studies have now ..... average ~ American Consume? A clearly demonstrated that stress su.rpdsing t50 grams of .sucrose ,~ induces-illness is a real phenomvery day, notincluding other sim- : enon and stress contributes to ply sugarslikelhosein fruit÷juiceomay-diseases. However, it is not andhoney. ~ It seems likely-~that. stre~;~;"per"say that-causes the mostAmericanshave chronically problem;.: but:rather howea~ch ins depressedimmune systems. ~ ~. divi dual. reacts to the -.stress. Obesity isalso-associat~d ~ith Stress.causes several changes ino the b~dy~ the most important for.~ dectdas~d i~mu~e~fiihctior~~¥ C~o~. your.im~nune system being in-. leste#orand lipid levels ’are Usu-~ ally elevated in obese indi~i~ls~ creased ~secretions of adrenal Increased blood levels off:holes; gland hormones.~ The~e horterol~free~fatty acidS, rtriglycerides, mones ~inhibit white: blood cells and bile acidsinhibit various iraand cause the thymus gland to mune functionsinduding theabi!~... shrink,. This leads, to a significant ity of lymphocytes .to proliferate reduction of immune funct.ions, and p~)duce antibodies, and the_ leaving you susceptible tp infecability. Of neutrophils to migrate to tions,.cancer,~ and other illnesses.. The.level of immune suppression : area,~ of infections and engulf.and destroy infectious organisms, is usually proportional to the level Alcohol increases susceptibility to. of stress experimentalinfection inanimals. Sugar consumption also ssdousiy inhibits immune function. .-.and alcoholics, are .known to be The_ingestion of just-100 grams: .... mo~e...~usc~e~p,ti~!y to p_n~u...monia. other inrecuons. ~tuoles 01 nlucose , fruc " " anu /three ouncest¯ of~,~ " : ~’ .’~i ¯ human neutrophds nutritiously (table sugar), or.. rose, Sucrose ¯ - even honey significantly reduces normal people, . Next.time: Damaging the¯ Immune System~. The Splendor_Of Truth?. ¯ Postcards fromParadise By: Father Marry Martin ~Holy Trinity E~C.C., OKC ~-~ Pope John Paul !! has released his latest encyclical, "Veritatis Splendor,,. the ,Splendor-of. Truth." it re-enforces traditional Roman Catholic"morality .with a vengeance with no dissent permitt~d from any quarter of the Church. It teachesmasturbation iSa sin; -birth control is ~asin, homosexuality is intri,sically evil; no abortions for any reason; and remarried: heterosexuals must live as brothel and ~is~er~amoiigsome if it’s deClarations of "truth,’. Haven,t you had enough .yet? Why would any gay. or !esbia~, Rom~n~Catholic COntinue to re~ main. in a homophobic church where they are.so condemned and unwelcomed? ¯ .: . General Gay & Lesbian, Discussion Groups . presentCds Williamson and Tret Fure in concert Nov. 18 at the Civic Center Little-Theater in OKC. Tickets for the perferance which benefits the Herland Legal Defense o Fund, are .$2.S, a.n.d $~6 in ~d.vance. Any remammgtlcksts will be at the dOord. Advance tickets are available .at Herland Resources, 2312 N.W. 39th, OKC, Tick.~s ~have been in great demand since going on sale on Sept. 18: The c6nert hal/seats 390 and .we eXpecttosell all of the tickets before the-night of the concert, says organizer WandaChapman. : Crisand .Tret have just released their first~ddo album, ~ "Postcards From Paradies", alter collaborat~ ing in .performance setting and on each other’s: !~cordi~gs¯ for-the past twelve y~irs. The:Hedand ~Legal Defense Fund provides assistance with-le~ gal fees for lesbians appealing child custody~:cou~t decisions.’~ More information about the Legal Defense Fund"ro the concert is available by ~ailing Herland.at (40S)521~sse6 f~iLindinO ofth~e Ecumenical.Catholic Church Wasbur opposition tO .traditional Roman Catholic morblity, espe(~!aily concerning lesbi: ans, gay men,,and bisexuals. We ¯ are a churchfo£~oday,- ~ith realistic moral.valuss ~cti~ thelove of Christ for all people. We wel: come you into the Ecumenical Catholic Church! Herland Sister’Resources will _ . .Mondays, 6:30 at Red Rock - New Group starting Thursdays,6:30 at Red Rock Couples of Mixed HIV Status Contact Jim Carter for details. YGLA, Young Gay & Lesbian Alliance Discussion Group, Tuesdays, 6:30 at Oasis Activity Group, Sundays, 8pm at Oasis Referral Assistance Jim& Betsy will provide free referral assistance for individuals seeking counseling or substance use treatment. Some support groups will require screening ofpartic.ipants ’ to insure group Compatibility. Red Rock HIV Counseling Services Individual Counseling for HIVpositivepersons: andtheir~!oved ones and HIV Prevention Education. THE PARACHUTE November 1993, OK-10 �HEALING -by: Cookie Arbuckle, Director of. Other ,Optoins. Inc. Gays have madea substantial impact on the personal lives and social.communities it has touched through the nation, throughout the world,~th~roughout all history, throughout time. The premier per-~ Day Without Art" when presented in New York by Visual Artists’.Caucus 2 Years ago..(they also brought you the "RedRibbon") It has.become a symbol for many and i,S now a continuous "celebrations" on AIDS. Day throughout the Wodd.~ We were not able.to bringthat kind 0f~thinking(o Oklahoma that year, .but perhaps this year. WichIta, formance of classical .movie was viewed, by the public in November of 1940 at Radio City Music Hall in New York City.i.: I am: sure. it " Changed the lives’of millions of Kansas, another~tate of seve#e - ~ people. It did mine.. " " conservatism, weare working on Reading overthe histo.r~ofthat , .Did you all like peter Pan, Alice film amazed me..one third of all the music was ~vdtten ~by a Gay in W0ndedandwhen yougrew up, man. Of the hundreds of artists The writers were Gaff. The most working forfouryearsonthefilm, famous artist~s of all was. Peter -IlichTchaikovsky ,The Nut~racker we fi~,,m~l at least half were "de. ferent! -or openly gay.. . Suite, Cinderella,._SWan Lake~ Their boss- a man who surSleeping. Beauty. And then there rounded himself with the m~’~t~l; was Shakespeare (who was ented artists available- sex-pref~ degreed-tO hai~e bisexual tenden~rence did not enter the picture,~ cies.) The children and adults came ’1 know-we can not all be Tchaikovsky, but we all have :been away With: a mentor to live,with influenced,:,impacted, inspired; daily, musicthat filled, them full of pictures, a way to view the wodd motivated, iml~iled, Persuaded from a different place, HOPEI andempowered ~by Gays. itis not These ch ildren hungered for-more |ust artist. I have worked with and become the first generation of people form all walks of .life. The DISNEY venerates. How many rainbow has affected all of us other pole are being impacted by whetherwe acknowledge it or not. Gays in this way. Who can say, I did an inservice workshop for who will admit. infusion therapy group and a phyDo you know what film name it ~ sician .was present I knew to be ~was? ,;FANTASIA! ~, 2800 N.W, 39th. what the Gay.problem was. We finally .decided thatGays had the same things to worry about that everyone else had, fear of Ionel|~eSs;~"~hd~nment, rejection and of coUrse on top of.that Equal Opportunity to Heterosexual Students Through Teaching and Counseling". Food for thought. Healing takes place though ownership and responsibility.. I will try that on a hetero- One of the nurses told me to take being. Gay and the answer could easily involve us all. We did and it read as follows: Empowerment occurs when the frustration. of a single individual creates a breakthrough to a differentlevel of involvement and that parson takes ownership of and responsibility for.whatever is the problem. Leann~ onebf our educators offered me a paged training handbook for educators titled "Affording Equal Opportunity to Gay and Lesbian Students Through Teachin collaboration; They have become the ’~teachers" in :.this field. Whyl Because early on. the gay.population took responsibility, So healing, has occurred. 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Have.lhome~ need mate, c0untr~ _ living, greater eke, GWMs0, City State Zip s/p hair, smoker, trim ori~nal equipment, top, levi’s~camping Typeor print y~-ur ad, 25 words canning, gardening. Seeks long or less.. Send with this coupon t~m partner. Box 117 and $6.00 to: The Parachute, Classifieds P.O. Box 11347 Gay male .seeking, male couples Wichita, Ks. 67202. for fun, mid20’s. Send Photo’s Your responses will be mailed Box 109. . " to you when they are received. GWM - 44 Professional very TO.RESPOND TO A .ha.h-y, li~ smooth man~ 18-30 to PERSONAL travel and be my sugar boy, this 1 ~ Write your response, please il summer and beyond. Please in an envelope, and seal the send photo :,and phone, OKC envelope. Be sure to .include a . area please. Box 125 way for the advertiser to .get in contact,with you. ¯ - . GWM 26, travel U.S. would like 2. :.,On the scaled envelope, write to meet ’GWM 20-30 for fun the advertisers box number in when in your area; 5’8 1201bs, lower corner and affix postage. looking for similar. Box 150 3. Place the sealed envelope an~ $2.00 insids a 2nd envelope: seal and address to - The DEADLINE FOR DECEMBER ISSUE Parachute P.O. 11347,Wichita, KS. 67202 Box Ad will Run only for the numi~r of insertions paid for, unless renewed. You must b~ ¯18 years of agg or older to use t~s / November 1993, OK-15 THE PARACHUTE �� Text A resource consisting primarily of words for reading. Examples include books, letters, dissertations, poems, newspapers, articles, archives of mailing lists. Note that facsimiles or images of texts are still of the genre Text. Text Any textual data included in the document By Tom Neal, Tulsa Para~hute reporter ~ US House of R~presentatives S ..... B~ey Frank in s Oklahoma Congre Bill Brewstet, .... In an Octd~r 3 Story by 3im ~ye~s, ~ulsa world tnhofe; Ist~k and B~ewster indica(~ tha~ th~ Lesbians for their staffs. Glenn English)i sexual orientation inhirin related smries)i Only would hire b~(d ~ly On abiilty ~ pe~fo~ th’e the Oktaho~a Cdngressmen came td his attention througli i weekt) n~w~pg~r s(rving Cdngr(s~: On Oct. i9 Hou~fl~ta €ondemn theseOkl~oma~ harassment . In response to McCurdy’s comment aboutnot flaunting his heterosexuali![, the ParaChute called MeCUrdy ~ an indiVidual s sexualorientation in any Norman and WaShingt0n offices to 0~hisemployin,~nt capacities (private 0) confirm that the Congressman keeps governmdn~): ,~ifa~rson appliedfor a pictures of his wife and children in the ~sition ~ith ~ign ~nhis cl~st, sayin~ offices and regularly wears a wedding i m Gay,! IprobaN) would not hire him. ring. ~ The i:’ar~chute ~ked the Senator if a The Parachute asked the Congress- person were hiredwiih whom there was a man if the photos of his children (the general concurranee on political views product of a heterosexual liason) and and Who was a good worker; could that the daily Wearing ofa ring (symbolizing person be open aboU[their sexual orientaa ca~n~l~eiationship) did~tconStitute ~i0nigFore.:£~p e~coUidthatperso~brinz a flaunting ot" h~s sexuahty. Mr. the~rlongumepartner roan office event? see McCurdy on OK-2 see Nickles on OK-2 us. And I will the next few t Bray (formerly Media 3ers ofCongress and military leaders ~ther anti-Gay propaganda is portraying as possible, probably in seem ~ folks they’re going to g together across the state. ght on OK-4 TRET F in concert November 1993, OK-1 THE PARACHUTE Out of The Closet and Onto The Phone ComratmltySpirlt - Long Distance S~rvice Dcdkated to the Lesbian & Gay Community Call With Pride. Switch t~ C~mmunitySpirit Telephone. Lorig Distance To&y, When you switch to CommunitySpirit a portion of your 19ng distance bill will go to the lesl~ian, gay or HIV-related organization you choose. You can support your community while enjoying the finest service and savings available: ¯ Callanywhere in the world ¯ Simple Dial 1 service ¯ 24-hour op.erator services ¯ Free calling card to use when travelling ¯ 100% digital fiber optic network for ultimate clarity ¯ PLUS savings of up to 25% vs. AT&T, MCI, or Sprint CO~MMUN/TYSP/R/T Make The Switch Today 1"-800-546 0556 | occasionally politically Correct; and t0 bring you all the news that’s’ not always fit | tO print but we know you wanted to know.. First and foremost, Miss Thang wants toknow whyshe didn’t see more of you 1. at the.fabulous TOHR auction on National Coming Out Day? There was lots & 10ts 1 Of incredible food, drinks, a view for miles and lovely, lovely people, and it all was ~ free except for the auction items that went.for a s~teal. a . MissThang especially wants to mention the cute volunteer bar’boys from the | TONR clinic, all the stylish Lesbians and-particularly, the stellar jazz & blues | vocali.zations by .Pr~"tess Riley and Artie S.. You missed a good party and Miss | Thang just_can’t believe you really hadsomething better to do on a Monday! i Who was that Nasty Buckeroo? | Miss Thang was so disappointed to hear this story (and | you ,watch it., hear). Seems there was a fellow at one of our favorite.watering holes | - may be he’d just had one too many but he gotjust a little too enthusiatic in saving I a table. It’s said he was altogether too hatefulto several of our sisters. Honey, we’ve got way too many folks attacking us from the outside to attack 1 each other, ok? So you just be nice to our sisters and you know what, they’ll be nice I to you too. Next timejust sayplease and thank you, and leave the hatefulness ~o me! Frank, Continuedfrom OK-1 " " orientation. Mr. Frank noted specifically that he would notrecommend affirmative action as a remedy for discrimination againstLesbians,Gay menandBisexuals, nor was he calling for "special rights." Mr. Frank slated; "People have said, ’After all, there is no problem. People are not discriminated against in hiring in this country based on their sexual orientation. So why press for legislation?’....if that (anti-Gay discrimination) happens here in the House of Representatives, it is .obvious that it happens elsewhere_in societyo" On Oct. 21, Speaker of the House Of Representatiq,,es, Tom Foley issued a statement to clarify remarks made in a press conferenceearlier that day. Mr. Foley said,. "....I emphatically restate my opposition to any employment bias based on criteria such as race, color, creed, gender or sexual orientation (emphasis added), He added that he agreed with Barney Frank that Congress should examine how to apply such stan.dards to itself to the "greatest degree_possible." McCurdy, continuedfrom OK-1 McCurdy.responded, "I respectfully disagree that the wearing Of a wedding ring and the display of family photos....constitute p.arading one,s sexuality." Nickles, continuedfrom OK-1 Mr. Niekles’responded, "It would depend on how aggressive the individual was about pushing that lifestyle." The Parachute inquired further, "What about putting a photo of a spouse on a desk?" Sen. Nickles~ said, ’Tve already answered the question." He refused any - further comment. THE .PARACHUTE OKLAHOMA Publisher/Editor4n-Chief Chuck Breckeridge Assistant Publisher Wayne D. Oklahoma Editors Chuck Breckenridge Tom Neal Writers Chuck Breekenridge Tom Neal Cookie Arbuckle Mary Arbuclde Stephen Scott Babby Leslie Thomas Catherine Boyle Kevyn Jacobs Michael Camfield Scott C~y Advertising Chuck Breckenridge Leslie Thomas Tom Neal Fresh Bouquets Blooming Plants Green Plants & More Defivery,Available 3115 South Harvard, 742-1234 M-F 9-6, Sat. 9-7, Sun. 12-5 800-536-6519 918-832-0233 POB 4140, Tulsa 74159 P~,ac~t~ a~l m~y not I~ z~-Ix~,d ©ith~ in whol© ~ ~ p~ THE PARACHUTE November 1993, OK-2 Grand Opening People are like animals at .~.. See the boys take itoff and the girls dress up every week-end at Tuls.a’s original dance .club 4812 Eo (918) 745-9~93 Open Wed.-Sun. Male Dancers Fe_Lmale Im~personators Gay Operated Trisexual Oriented Never a Cover Levi-° Leather ¯ Lace November 1993, OK-3 THE PARACHUT~ Fight, continuedfrom OK-1 as a response to anti-Gay laws proposed in the Oklahoma legislature last winter. Those proposals werekept in committe~ then but it is rumored that they defmite!y will emerge when the legislature meets next.) Parachute: is there anything else you’d like to add? RC:when we were discussing the recent statements by US Congressmen from Oklahoma who said that they would not hire Lesbians & Gay men, Suzanne Pharr suggested that we ought to respond by flooding these guy’s offices with job ap: plications from us! Also because the conference was under- attended, it didn’t break even. Any donations would be welcome. Parachute: information about the shoWing ofThe Gay Agenda and other propaganda videos will be available at Tomfoolery! at the Silver" Star, 832-0233. Donatio_nsmadp~ bemade toSimplyEqual, and sent to Robert, clo TOHR, 4154 S. Harvdrd, Ste. H,l ] Tulsa, 74105. Queer. Pen "Pals Ever wonder what Gay & Lesbian life is like in the countries behind the old Iron Curtain? Whatdo they talk.about? What do they read? NOW that the-Wall is dow~ are the closets next? The Pen Pal Project Of the International Gayand,Lesbian HumanRightsCommission can link you with soem great women ’& men from most countries in Eastern/ Central Europe and the former,Sovietl Union. If you wanttocorrespond with a Siberianpfinceora Bulgarian bulldagger, Tulsa News TOHR Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights will hold its monthly general meeting at 7:30 on Tuesday, November 2 in the Gathering Room of the HIV Resource Center at 4154 So. Harvard, ’Ste. H-1. Drive to the back of the office complex and look for the lower level entrance on the south building...., The agenda, includes el’~’tion of new officers, a report on the Fight the Right conference and a feature presentation by Alan Nitray ofOklahoma City on Lesbian & Gay Mental Health issues. .For .more i~formation, call TOHR’s Helpline, 743-GAYS, Prime Timers ’Prime TimetsiS~organization new to Tulsa for Gay and Bisexual men over 40. Prime Timers is primarily: a. soqial and support organization, focusing on cultural and reereationai activities, such as pot-lU~k dinners, bikerides, theopera and discossion groups. ~Member.s may bring their partners who are under 40 if the partner is at least 21 years old. For more information, write: Prime Timers POB 521.18 Tulsa 74105 Tulsa AIDS Walk ’It was ’reported at October’s TOHR meeting that Tulsa’s first AIDSiHIV fundraisingwalkwas suocessful. Over 50 Feast for Friends It was also reported at October’sTOHR meeting that Feast for Friends, a series of individual dinners to raise funds for THE NAMES PROJECTraised about $6,000. Tulsa World Watch Several prominent Tulsa Lesbian/Gay , civil rights activists met with theEd~(orial. staff0fTulsa’s only daily, theTulsa World. Nancy McDonald, a board member of Tulsa’s Parents, Families & Friends of Lesbians & Gays, and the nadonal board. of,P-FLAG, Kelly Kirby, president of Ttflsa01dah0mans forHumanRights with several others met with Alex Adwon, Ken Neal, Judy Randle and other TulsaWorld write~in a "g,et:acquain_ted"m~¢ting. " Accrrding tO-Mrs. MeD0nald, the Editoi’ial Board does not.grant such interviews frequently butthe writers showed an openess and willingness to begin a dialogueabout.Lesbian&Gayequal rights" issues. The hCtivists were told that if they could just meet indiyidually with every Oklahoman,Lesbians andGay m~n would have no opposition related Mrs. McDonald. The activists also lef~ information packagesaboutLesbian/Gayissues with the writers. Tulsa University .Comes Out In honor ofNational Coming Out Day, October 11, the Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance (formerly STIR) of the Univerthe Bisexual/Lesbian/Gay Alliance." About25 people attended and asked questionsabouttopicsranging from self-hatred, dealing with parents & friends, the status of bisexuals, and being out on campus. BLGA meetings are open to TU students and students from other local campus, es. The,meetings are.held at the Bisexual/ Lesbian/Gay- AllianceCanterbury Ministry Center at 5th &Evanston on Sundays at 6pro. For more info. call: 583- 9780 Tulsa Man Reports Assault A Gay man leaving a Tulsa ’bar has reported being assaulted nearby where he had parked his car~ "Mr. Doe" related to theParachute thatheleft theestablishment just before 2 am and noticed 2 men in the parking lot talking. When he got in his car, they had managed to get in the back seat: They beat him on the baCk and shoulders. with a climb. "Mr. Doe". said he managed to getthe club away from oneman andstrike back. He reports that his assailants then fled. "Mr.Doe". wenttoHillcrest fortreatment and also relates that he was questioned eourteous.ly by a Tulsa police office~:. NAMES PROJECT For those interested in making a panel for the AIDS Memorial Quilt, there will bea sewingbee on Sat. Nov. 20 at 1:30pm inthe Gathering Room Of the HIV Re: senda stamped, self-addressed envelope" people Walked and:approximately $3,000 to: IGLHRC Pen Pal Project , .was~tO ._.be sh.ar_~ ~y.a!A..T_ulsa I-!!V .. - - 5 that are 1565 South Sheridan, Tulsa 918-834-4234 The Silver Star Saloon Proudly Presents Dena Kaye Saturday, November 28 8:30 pro, $3- Free Two Step Lessons& $ 3 Beer Bust Every Wednesday Trash Disco & $ 3Beer Bust Every Thursday Free Line Dance Lessons & $ 3 Beer Bust Every Sunday Make Plans to join the Silver Star for our New Year’s Eve Blowout! Watch. for Details! THE PARACHUTE November 1993, OK-4 9933 East 16th, Suite 104 Tulsa 74128- 918-6630399, OKC 405-942-1062 Full time masseur available. Please call for an appointment. : Please bring this ad in for a 50% discount ¯¯ off one one-hour massage. (exp. 12/3/93) 4944 So. 83rd East Avenue, Ste.D, 918.665-1155 One block easton 51st from Memorial. Visa/MasterCard accepted. Monday - Saturday, 9am- 8pro, Sunday, 1-6pm. Kelly-H Certified PuNic Accountant sity of Tulsa held a reading-of poetry by sburce Center,4154 S. Harvard, Ste..H- 1, Queer poe~ on Sunday, October 10. On gr0und flooTrearentranc~.Eor moreinfo. M..onda~, several niembers_~.held a public Cali~ 748-31i1: SOUTHWEST STUDENT GROUP TO SPONSOR TRIP TO NGLTF CONFERENCE, Creating Change DALLAS - The Coalition of Lesbian/ GayiBi Student Groups, Inc. announced they will.be sponsoring a trip to "creating Change", the 6th annual conference on gay/lesbian/bisexual cohcerns and politi= cal Organizing hosted by theNational Gay and Lesbian Task~Force (NGLTF). This year’s conference will be held in Durham, North Carolina fromNovember 11. through 14. "Creating Change" is considered thepreeminentnational forum for lesbian/gay/bisexual activists and organizers to share skills and dialog about our politicaI .mo.veinent .arid discuss strategies for the year ahead. Lastyear’s conference in Los, Angeles .drew.o~,er 12.00 grassroots activist~and allies from across the natiom "The Coalition is, once again, glad to,be able to offer a 10w,cost alter. native for-queer studems and,youth :inl the Southwestito: :pa fici, pate directly in the natiOnal 6ivil rigtits . movement,,, - -. sponsored similar trips to this ~eur’s national gay and lesbian civil rights march in Washington D:C., as well as the"Creating Change" conferences in 1991-and 1992. "We know that-after attending these events these future leaders become invigorated, and,return some this. energy and information toassist the in struggle at the state, local and collegiate-level.Y~ Mr. Dorsey and CLGBSG Congress Secretary Jeff McCanley will also present at this year’s conference on youth organiz2 ing and race/classjgender issues;. The Coalition "Freedom Bus" will_de- .part from Dallas at noon on Thursday; November 11 andreturnback toDallas on Moflday,Nov. 15 ~t threep.m. The f~of $100includes rtund-trip transportation, ahd hotel lodging .at the.arena .- R~leigh Durham, thesiteoftheconference. O~ga- #=ers suggest participants .should .also GA’ LESBIAt E A(~ ~E~MA~I:ON Fighting for fair, accurate & Inclusive re,presentation of lesbian and gay lives! READING: OUR RIGHT OutMagazine tells us thatTheReader’s Catalog; a regular adver- tiser, in the magazine, is receiving hate mail and has lost 50 subscribers for: including lesbian and gay titles in the book lists. Catalogs like this are. an important source ofbooks, particularly for gay menand lesbians who cannot get tea welhstocked book- store; or whosebookstores won.~t carry lesbiun~ andTgay material. The Reader’s Catalog ShoUld be commended- for standing their groun~UI~etters of support should be addressed to: Ms. Stephanie Smith " Mr. Don Coo, President Hiram Walker and Sons, Inc. P.O. Box 33006 Detroit,’M148232-3006 Naya Water, a longtime supporter of the community (and ofGLAAD/NY).has signed on as the first major sponsor of Gay GameslV, in the largest sponsorship deal everffor a single lesbian and gay event. Stu Levitan from Naya has also - gone out ofhis way personally to support . corporate involvement in ourcommunity. A very.warm thanks to: Stu Levitan The Reader’s Catalog ...VicePresident/General Manager 250 West 57th Street N0ra-Beverages USA New York, NY 10019 , " . ~ . 6 High Ridge Park,’B!dg. ¯ Thecatalogeanbeorderedfreeofcharge . .... _ Stamford,.CT 06905 by calling 800-733.~BOOK.(say yousaw . : ¯ = " .............. budget $60 for.food during~e m.’p. T~e_ abe ad:in Out Magazine), ~t’s .make,up .: --: GLAAD_/~_.... trip is 0peii_to°~all gay/l~sbian/bise~U~l.... for those50 lost Subscribers!- " i: ......u 15OWest 26th.St., Ste; 503 students and youth. Seam are limited. : . : New York,. NY10001 Participants fees must be received.by the SPONSORSHIP NEWS: 212-807-1700. ~ Coalition by Saturday, November6th: .HIRAM WALKER & NAYA- ’ , ..... TheCLGBSG is-Dallas, Texas based non-profit (50i.c3)educationa~’organiza- " tion-founded.in 1989 to serve gay/lesbian and:bisexual-students and youth in the SOuthwest.- O~eiprograms include a regional conference, a three2day leadership skills retreat, a scholarship program, communications network and. quarterly student meetings in.the service, area. For more infoi~nation,on the Creating Changetripandother~LGBSGprograms, or for information on hd-W.to Sponsor a ~ student’s participation, contact the Coalition atPO Box 190712, Dallas, Texas, 75219 or. call (2!4)521~53~Z ~xt. 808: The increased interestin the lesbianland gay market in c6rporate America has led to an increase notonly in. advertising in . the lesbian and gay press, but in sponsorship ofcommunity events as well. Two companies in particular are to be commended for their continuedsponsorship support: Hiram Walker, whose brands include Fris Vodka, Beefeater Gin, Courvoisier Cognac,CuttySarkScotch~ MidoriMelon Liqueur~ and 0there(has supported over a dozen community :organizations,_including the Nam~s.P~oject, Astraea(HRCF, The Center, and LifeBoat. Write~to thank= Concert byLegendary Lesbian Singer/Songwriters to Benefit Herland Legal Defense Fund Cris. William.s0n and Trot Fure, both well know for their roles in shaping the women’smuSicmo~’ementareperforming m .the Ciqic Cehter Little Theatrdin ¯ Oklahoma Ciiy on ThurSday, No~,ember 18 at 8 pro. TheHerland Legal DefenseFUnd~gi~ts tO help defray the legal cost~ fOr"~bian & Gay parents~ Seeking to protect the_’n~ pa~efiting fights in~ilie oklahoma ~OurtS.. Currently :support is~ ’l~i.ng given to-:~ l_~sbian~iitther ~ee~.ng to,retain custOdy of her children. GLAAD Media News Briefs by AI Kielwasser Ga~ & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation/San FranciscoBay Area Homophobla Illustrated Recently, Sports Illustrated(SI) rejected an advertisement from the Adidas,eomparty that featured a photo of the all-male Canadian soccer team, wearing nothing but Adidas Shoes. The players were not fully nude, though. Their .hands, soccer balls andtrophies were strategically placed. , Since when has SI tlad any qualms about running photos of semi-nude indi, viduals? .After all, this is the same magazine that earns its keep through annual sales of the "swimsuit issue," which features semi-nude women in various Obviously, Sis decision to reject the Adidas ad was based on nothing but sexism, homophobia’s constant companion. SI has sent a message that it’s okay to sprawl semi-nude photos_in their magazine as long-as thephotos are of women only. Forillustrating sexism, homophobiaand hypocrisy, direct criticism to Mark Mulvoy, Editor, Sports Illustrated, and Roger Jackson, Public Relations Director, Time,Inc.,Time and Life Building, Rockefeller Ce~nter, New York, NY 10020. Spin Examines Hate Music In the August issue of the music magazine Spin, :Farad Chideya examines the use of homophobic lyrics in hip-hop, rap and dance hall reggae music. Chideya concludes that the blatantly homoph0bic lyrics of Such performers as Ice Cube, Big Daddy Kane, and Chubb Rock are an attempt to deny the existence of homosexuality within the/African American community. The author also takes.note of pro÷gay/ lesbian rappers, including female rapper Yo Yo and the rap duo Disposable Heroes ans, ga~.men and transgendered persons. of African, Afro-American, Afro-Caribbean, and Afro-Latin descent. In an open letter to Vibe magazine, numerous lesbian, gay and transgendered activists of African descent roundly denounce the conclusion "that. those who shun music or musicians who espouse homophobia do so out of racism or culof Hiphoprisy, whose sing(e "Language : tural insensitivity" and furthermore, they of Violence" railed.against gay bashing. To effectively counteract musical hate speech, Chideya argues that more performers need to come back with theirown response, using rap as the format. Send compliments to Bob Guccione, .Jr., Editor, Spin, 6. West 18th Street, New York,NY 10011. Bad Vibe The October issue of Vibe magazine includes a scurrilou~ bit of journalistic phlegm. In "No Apologies~ No Regrets," author Joan Morgan profiles Jamaican singer Buju Banton and seeks to legitimize the reggae singer’s homophobia on cultural grounds.. Benton’Ssong "Boom Bye Bye" openly advocates murdering gay men. Tobemorespecific, Baton calls upon listeners to shoot gays thrrugh the head. In herunbalanced discussion ofBanton and hisgay-bashing hit, Morgan manages to dredge up endless stereotypes about Jamaican gay men--that they are child molesters, rapists, classist leaches, and even that their sexual activities lead to incest, decapitation and death. Not one gay Jamaican.was quoted in ,esponse to such-hateful absurdities. Thebasicpremise ofMorgan’s article is. that homophobia is an essential and integral part of Black culture.. Of course, her definition ofBlack culture excludes lesbipoint out, "the decision of Vibe’s Editor~ In-Chief Jonathan Van Meter to publish so biased and defamatory a piece clearly illustrates that not all powerful, gay white men value or respect 0~r lives." In defending Buju Banton, Joan Mor-" gan joins in his hate-filled campaign and has allied herself with those whopromote hatred rather than understanding~ Criticism should be directed toJonathan Van Meter, Vibe, 205 Lexington Ave., 3rd Floor, New York, NY 10016. The Media Access Project: Playing Fair Legislation to reinstate the "Fairness Doctrine" is now pending in Congress. Before it was disbande.d in the midst of deregulation hysteria, the Fairness Doetrinerequiredbroadcasters to providebalanced coverage of "controversial" issues of public importance. Conservative radio talk show hosts’ and other media hate mongers (i.e,; RushLimbaugh and clones) are spearheading an effort to defeat this legislation. The Media Acc.ess Project is encouraging the lesbian, gay and bisexual communities to support the Fairness Doctrine bills in the House of Representatives and Senate (H.R. 1985 and S. 333). TheMedia Access Projectasks you to contact your Senators and Representatives in support of these bills (U.S. Senate, Wash- TOO Fine Jewelry, as well as Jewelry & Watch Repair 4649 South Peoria, T.ulsa, €ornerof48th & Peoria 918-743-5272, 9:30 - 5:00 Monday-Friday 9:30 - 5:00 Saturdays, Nov. 20 - December 24th flhop Where You are Appreciated! 1635 E. 15TH ST. 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Among the statistics that will be revealed: Half of all lesbian and gay youth surveyed report that theirparents rejectedthem because of their sexual orientation. Fortyrfive percent of gays and 20 percent of lesbians ~xpedence verbal harassment in high school, and28 percentare routinely forced to drop out because of homophobic harassment. In The Life is not fundedby the Public Broadcasting System. but is produced through a national membership network. For further information (and a copy of the In The Life program guide) call 800-627-ONTV. includingodiscrimination. d-nt M~rk 14An-rick~mndelivereda THE HUMAN RIGHTS an~form; :*.~_=-*e~a~ ~ based on sexual orientation,- ~,. ~ " :~-:’. ,. -.. -; /~PilJ/~ ¯ ~o-er~ emphasized t0ihe ~oun wnichincmdeaexnoningmeas- , ~ ¯ cil ~.the bklahoma C. H~man, ~ ~f~::o~r:~’~~:~~ ., ’ Sup~. the On Tuesday, October 5, the Rights Commission-~aff mere- order to challenge Oklaho~as Oklahoma City Council, led by bers and volunt~ unanimously archaic sodomy laws. The con- ~i~tion Mayor Ron Nodck, destroyed all suppoSedpassage of the pro- sensus of the coalition was .ah that chances for local protection of -posedadd~ions to the Munici~l e~husia~ic~llingne~ to I~ig~e basic human righ~ and civil liber. Code. . , -a~i~theS~yla~and s~vties~ In .a 6~3 vote, the Council The ~e~can Civil Li~ies ~ e[al~people Vblunteered to be- ~O~ ~ruck from theiragenda therfinal Union o~ Oklahoma "expressed~-L pl~in~tiff~: ~l,~addition, it was. h~fing ~proposed amendmen-- p~blic ~isappoin--e~:~ ina~ ~- ". ~greedth~.th~Okllh~ma Human F~om to A~icles II, III and IV of ChapMr tion onpa~ 0fme Six~Council~:: Righ~Project sh6u[d:;foeus on 25 ~ the Oklahoma CiW Mu~ici- m~~om~to~e:~ -~eg~st0pm~ent the~"age ~ pal c~e. Due to the p~sum~x.~ the. Oklahoma C.. H~ma~=Rig~. :..; -~~::i~[~£~:~ e~ed by Right Wing Religious’Sx-: Commis~on tO ~o~a~Deiyand ~ , of la~"~fi~, o~ina~ces s~h as tremists, the Council refralne. ’~e~ivelyin com~ffigg~discdmi-, theone;Whichlh~Oklahoma"CiW - from passing the ordinance be-~ ,na~o~ practices~bY~employers, -~.-,.CounCil ~uSed to~pa.:’~ cause s~xual o~enMtion was in-~ landi0rdsaadpubiiC.~cc6mm0da-~’ ~ ACLU ~’Oklahomwishesto cluded as a prote~ed’ cat~go~: " tions In addi:UOn;ACLUIOKc~m*~ retain-tithe Oklahoma ~C~.com- However, failure to"paSs ~he mended c0un~il me~bersMark’ " mhniw a~i~-pmsenMti0n of amendments leaves no recourse " Schwa~,LWHla Joh~so~ and : THE:~OSPiCE."-Thisplay~ill ~ for individuals Who experience :, ~ Jackie Cam~ for~ei~€ou~geous pmsenied on ~O~tobe~23 and 29 discrimination on the ~basls of........s~nce in"s~n~:~ ~sic~h~m~n at theWilI,Rogers Center~ 4322 N. ~; " - ; :~’n "....- ..... ~ ’~" ~ : ~t~rn~ : CUmin time Will. be at Amc~n race, creea, color, national ong~ , ~ahts " . . . .... ~. ;;L~ ~ " .. ~. = ¯ 8:00 RM~. on bothevenings~ The ethnicity, gender or disability s~- On Thumday; Septem~r 30, productioo~addresses anti,gay Rcligi~. tus. ¯ ~ ,-- ~ - ACLU of Oklahoma,in;solidad~- pmjudi~sa~d~expioresthe posi- Amc~n Sdl" Rogers, the cu~nt. Chair" with more than an dbzen other~:~ ti~e:a~itudes,~o[~chara~ers living of the Oklahoma ~ity Human OklahomaOroupr~, formed"the ~ with-AiDS~ Te~:pe~ofthe pro- Righ~ Commission: presented a Oklahoma HumaO,.Righ~ P~oject. c~d~will go t0the ~IDS Suppo~. broadband a~ay offac~ and m~. ¯ .Among~ theoth~ ~0maniz~ions. Program,, TiCkets ~ay ,be .purtistics which dem0nstrated ~that ~- m res~hted at the meetin were . chased at Jungle Red,Lobo,-the ~n Suppo~ ~€ ACLU by Bccomin similar ordinances, have. ~ee.0~:~ ~,~’the-National Organization of T~angle AssoCiation and the HIpassed "m l"ocal .c.o.m.mu...m.. "~t~m’i ~s~- ~ Women,Simply Equal t the Okla-: Lo Club ~ot by calHng across the nation. -He .alse cited homa Gay and Lesbian:Political ~ numerous co~o~te~amples of Caucus and ia which include sexual qdentation) -. meetin among Fortune 600 companies. Also noted ~ of m Oklahoma ,at (40S) 524-8511 and number and a There will also iited ¯ number of.tickets hts of performance. ciVil Liberties Union of Free Speech, Press Civil. ~ibertics Unio. .you Equality and Du~ to: ACLU,- 132 West 43rd New York, NY 10036 -i- 10a, red & black on grey HATE IS. NOT A FAMILY VALUE" lob, blue/green VISUALIZE. 10c~ gold on black gay (g~) adj. ~k, joyous,free, brilliant, merryili~htheart~ Want to stay that way...? Fight back- COME OUT! lOd, b]ackon pink 10e, blackon fuschia "I €&~Think t mgh.t,, lOf, black on white DON’TUSEPEOPLE &LOVETHINGS &USETHINGS 10g, black on grey MAI)E -’ IN HEAVEN 10x, white, pink& red on black T-$14.95, Sweat-S19.95 Visa or MasteK?~rd# . " ¯ Name as on Card - " Exp~ Date Daytime phone: ( ) " " - ’ " Merchandise Total Shipping & Handling Grand Total City, ST & ZIP ~hitmine . 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CM) T:h...e.... ~ ~ " ~ao not: ..... ~iscriminn~.r..i.o~n.-...i.n. ~~,.~~. n~t ~o ~mem~r in ~u~u National Gay and ~sblan Task ~0n: ~ Oklahoma Ci~y~ OK (EGCM)lu the . ~ake of ~’eports from three Oklahoma of the U.S; House of ;that they would not gay people f()r their staffs, ind is all members of who o~poses ::panics :include issues :related :to: discrimifiatioi~ against lesbian and gay F@~÷~ N~$ @a~ ~A~; €ha Oh~ ..... Sextlal Orientation their ?, ,, , [ralnmg, progams: : ; he re. ~ ~r~a~~ par, : , a~ og go~rs~ $~ ~rr~t Ni~ effect a cg~?ra~e: ~pQrt. ticipations C6mpani~S Congress~an Jim Inhofe, Ernest and, while ate a ....... tew ........... i ..... f ......... ’ ~ay . employee organ zed g oups O Istook and Bdl Brewster have brought companies w~th high marks, the the~e 31% ~o [z~ " ’ ~r. Th~s Yea~ ~gean~ N~C, w$ ’ ~ ~ ~";" , .... gn" y / discrimination against lesbian and gay ~ th~ o~ the fortune ~uuu are lesbian [ ; bl~xpa! i employee people on Capitol Hill out of the L~ ; ........ that iewer than . ,..... , . ¯e 98 ~r ~mar og Oklahoma ~y. NGLTF closet; saysum~v~cree~ey, execut~ve Along with th~ cr~wni th~ win’ rec director of the Human Rights ~rw$ pro~ess - for Why bisexual. Campaign Fun~d. "We are surveying % Of every member of the Houge and ~sking them to inform w~th , their stars that discrimination on the ~, basis ~f ~al orientatiOn Will no/be offices," .... ..... Oklahoma membe{S of CongreSs in an October :3. communify o new dance c/u/z) offernofive T,P.4 S H L) / S $ 1 LONGNECKS SUNDAYS NIGH T ] 5 H O ~l/ N / G H T S0mefhing Special ~very Sunday! s3 BEE£ BUST FROM 9- ] 2 $1_50 ioofers and Weekly Drink Specials EVERY Alley entrance to 3340 Doors open of C~ (t:o~rnerty STROKES) 2 1 ~o enter 91 8-F44-©89@ Damaging The Immune System - Stress is one of thegreatest damagesof your immune, system. ~. Many research studies have now..... clearly demonstrated that stress induces-illness is a real phenomenon and stress contributes to may-diseases. However, it is not stre~;~;"per"say that-causes the problem;.: but:rather howea~ch ins divi dual. reacts to the -.stress. Stress.causes several changes ino the b~dy~ the most important for.~ your.im~nune system being in-. creased ~secretions of adrenal gland hormones.~ The~e hormones ~inhibit white: blood cells and cause the thymus gland to shrink,. This leads, to a significant reduction of immune funct.ions, leaving you susceptible tp infections,. cancer,~ and other illnesses.. The.level of immune suppression : is usually proportional to the level of stress Sugar consumption also ssdthe abi!ity.of neutrophiis to engulf ¯ and destroy b~cterla:~ .These ~.ef~ fects start’ within lessthan 30 minutes after ingestion and last for overfive hours: Typically, there is atleast a 50% reduction in neutroph, s activity two hours alter ingestion. Since neutrophils consti, tute 60 - 70% of your total circula~ting white blood cells, impairment of their activity can sedouslysuppress your immune system~ Ingsstion of 75 grams of glucose has also been shown to depress lymphocyte activity. In contrast the ¯ingestion of 110 grams of complex carbohydrates results in no suppressive effect on immunefunc,._ tion.. SO, ho~i much sugar does the average ~ American Consume? A su.rpdsing t50 grams of .sucrose ,~ very day, notincluding other sim- : ply sugarslikelhosein fruit÷juiceoandhoney. ~ It seems likely-~that. mostAmericanshave chronically depressedimmune systems. ~ ~. Obesity isalso-associat~d ~ith dectdas~d i~mu~e~fiihctior~~¥ C~o~. leste#orand lipid levels ’are Usu-~ ally elevated in obese indi~i~ls~ Increased blood levels off:holes; terol~free~fatty acidS, rtriglycerides, - and bile acidsinhibit various iramune functionsinduding theabi!~... ity of lymphocytes .to proliferate and p~)duce antibodies, and the_ ability. Ofneutrophils to migrate to area,~ of infections andengulf.and destroy infectious organisms, Alcohol increases susceptibility to. experimentalinfection inanimals. ousiy inhibits immune function. .-.and alcoholics, are .known to be The_ingestion of just-100 grams:.... mo~e...~usc~e~p,ti~!y to p_n~u...monia. /three ouncest of nlucose fruc anu other inrecuons. ~tuoles 01 ¯ ¯ ~,~ , " " " i ’ .’~- : ~- rose, Sucrose (table sugar), or.- human neutro. phds nutritiously ¯ - even honey significantly reduces normal people, . Next.time: Damaging the¯ Immune System~. The Splendor_Of Truth?. ¯ PostcardsfromParadise By: Father Marry Martin Herland Sister’Resources will ~Holy Trinity E~C.C., OKC ~-~ . presentCds Williamson and Tret Pope John Paul !! has released Fure in concert Nov. 18 at the Civic his latest encyclical, "Veritatis Center Little-Theater in OKC. Tick- Splendor,,. the ,Splendor-of. ets for the perferance which ben- Truth." it re-enforces traditional efits the Herland Legal Defense o Roman Catholic"morality .with a Fund, are .$2.S, a.n.d $~6 in ~d.vance. vengeance with no dissent permit- Any remammgtlcksts will be t~d from any quarter ofthe Church. at the dOord. Advance tickets are It teachesmasturbation iSa sin; -birth control is ~asin, homosexuality is intri,sically evil; no abortions for any reason; and remarried: heterosexuals must live as brothel and ~is~er~amoiigsome if it’s deClarations of "truth,’. Haven,t you had enough .yet? Why would any gay. or !esbia~, Rom~n~Catholic COntinue to re~ main. in a homophobic church where they are.so condemned and unwelcomed? ¯ . : . f~iLindinO ofth~e Ecumenical.Catholic Church Wasbur opposition tO .traditional Roman Catholic morblity, espe(~!aily concerning lesbi: ans, gay men,,and bisexuals. We ¯ are a churchfo£~oday,- ~ith realistic moral.valuss ~cti~ thelove of Christ for all people. We wel: come you into the Ecumenical Catholic Church! _ available .at Herland Resources, 2312 N.W. 39th, OKC, Tick.~s ~have been in great demand since going on sale on Sept. 18: The c6nert hal/seats 390 and .we eXpecttosell all of the tickets before the-night of the concert, says organizer WandaChapman. : Crisand .Tret have just released their first~ddo album, ~ "Postcards From Paradies", alter collaborat~ ing in .performance setting and on each other’s: !~cordi~gs¯ for-the past twelve y~irs. The:Hedand ~Legal Defense Fund provides assistance with-le~ gal fees for lesbians appealing child custody~:cou~t decisions.’~ More information about the Legal Defense Fund"ro the concert is available by ~ailing Herland.at (40S)521~sse6 General Gay & Lesbian, Discussion Groups . .Mondays, 6:30 at Red Rock - New Group starting Thursdays,6:30 at Red Rock Couples of Mixed HIV Status Contact Jim Carter for details. YGLA, Young Gay & Lesbian Alliance Discussion Group, Tuesdays, 6:30 at Oasis Activity Group, Sundays, 8pm at Oasis Referral Assistance Jim& Betsy will provide free referral assistance for individuals seeking counseling or substance use treatment. Some support groups will requirescreening ofpartic.ipants ’to insure group Compatibility. Red Rock HIV Counseling Services Individual Counseling for HIVpositivepersons: andtheir~!oved ones and HIV Prevention Education. THE PARACHUTE November 1993, OK-10 HEALING -by: Cookie Arbuckle, Director of. Other ,Optoins. Inc. Gays have madea substantial impact on the personal lives and social.communities it has touched through the nation, throughout the world,~th~roughout all history, throughout time. The premier per-~ Day Without Art" when presented in NewYork by Visual Artists’.Caucus 2 Years ago..(they also brought you the "RedRibbon") It has.become a symbol for many and i,S now a continuous "celebrations" formance of classical .movie was on AIDS. Day throughoutthe Wodd.~ viewed, by the public in November Wewere not able.to bringthat kind of 1940 at Radio City Music Hall in 0f~thinking(o Oklahoma that year, New York City.i.: I am: sure. it " .but perhaps this year. WichIta, Changed the lives’of millions of Kansas, another~tate of seve#e - ~ people. It did mine.. " " conservatism, weare working on Reading overthe histo.r~ofthat film amazed me..one third of all , .Did you all like peter Pan, Alice the music was ~vdtten ~by a Gay in W0ndedandwhen yougrew up, man. Of the hundreds of artists The writers were Gaff. The most working forfouryearsonthefilm, famous artist~s of all was. Peter we fi~,,m~l at least half were "de. -IlichTchaikovsky ,The Nut~racker ferent! -or openly gay.. . Suite, Cinderella,._SWan Lake~ Their boss- a man who surrounded himself with the m~’~t~l; ented artists available- sex-pref~ ~rence did not enter the picture,~ The children and adults came away With: a mentor to live,with daily, musicthat filled, them full of pictures, a way to view the wodd from a different place, HOPEI These ch ildren hungered for-more and become the first generation of DISNEY venerates. How many other pole are being impacted by Gays in this way. Who can say, who will admit. Do you know what film name it ~was? ,;FANTASIA! ~, Sleeping. Beauty. And then there was Shakespeare (who was degreed-tO hai~e bisexual tendencies.) ’1 know-we can not all be Tchaikovsky, but we all have :been influenced,:,impacted, inspired; motivated, iml~iled, Persuaded andempowered ~by Gays. itis not |ust artist. I have worked with people form all walks of .life. The rainbow has affected all of us whetherwe acknowledge it or not. I did an inservice workshop for infusion therapy group and a phy- ~ sician .was present I knew to be what the Gay.problem was. We finally .decided thatGays had the same things to worry about that everyone else had, fear of Ionel|~eSs;~"~hd~nment, rejection and of coUrse on top of.that Equal Opportunity to Heterosexual Students Through Teaching and Counseling". Food for thought. Healing takes place though ownership and responsibility.. I will try that on a hetero- One of the nurses told me to take being. Gay and the answer could easily involve us all. 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Market 267-6522 Roommates , 262-8444 Paradise Antiq. 430 E. Harry 269.4411 Land ofAwesInfo. Ser.POB 16782 67216 Adult Entree, 220 E. 21st 832-1816 Plato’s, 1306 E. Harry St. 269-9036 T.B.’s, 1516 S. Oliver. 688-5343 Camelot Cinema, 1516 S. Olive688-5343 Adult Entertainm’t Ctr 3721 S. Broadway Adult Entertainm’tCtr 7805 W. Kellpgg AdultEntertainm’t Ctr2809 N. Broadway Adult Entree’ South, 8025 S. Broadway Circle Cinema, 2570 S. Seneca Organizations Wichita/Sedgwick Cty. Health DepL 1900 E. 9th 268-8441 Wichita Gay/Lesbian Alliance 1942-1786 The Lesbian Celebration 683-7561 P-FLAG,POB 686,67201-0686 687-4666 Gay Information Line 269-0913 Acceptance iC’roj. POB. 868, 67201 687-4666 Religious Organ3ozatlons..,. -~-"-:~’:?~ :~. wiCl~itaPraise ~ Worship Ctr.65i-6903:" First Unitarian Chttt~h 684-3481 Mission of Faith Fellowship 539-0633 Junc~tlon City, Kansas (913) After Dark Video, 1206 Grant Revolutions, 902 W. 7th 238-6374 Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Support Grbup 223-6125 Lawrence, Kansas (913) DouglasCounty AIDS Project 843-0040 Lesbigay Services, 410 KS Union Box 13, Kansas Univ. 66045 864-3091 Freedom Coalition, POB 1991 66044 Manhattan, Kansas (913) AIDS Project 843-0040 Flint Hills Alliance Gay &Lesbian Info.Line 587-0016 MCC-Manhattan 271-8431 Bisexual & Gay & Lesbian Society SAS Box 63, Kansas St.. Univ. 66506 Topeka, Kansas (913) Bars & Clubs Classics, 124 S.W 8th 357-1960 Expressions, 110 SE 8" 233-3622 Service & Retail Businesses Adult Entertainment Ctr. 903 N. Kansas Some Like It Hot 4732 S; Topeka Ave. Organizations Topeka AIDS Project 232-3100 Ga’y/Les. Task Force, POB 3829, 66604 357-8727 Mayors Task Force 234-6699 Gay Rap Line 223-6558 HIV Affected Group 234-8562 Religious Organizations MCC-Topeka, POB 4776, 66604 232-6196 Affirmation (Methodist) 235-6101 Tulsa, Oklahoma (918) ¯Bars & Restaurants ¯Electric Circus, 606 S.Elgin 587-8677 -*Laffrs, 311 E.-7th 583-5233 ¯Phoenix, 6328 S. Peoria 743-7062 ¯Silver Star Saloon, 1565 S. Sheridan 834-4234 ¯Renegade, 1649 S. Main 585-3405 ¯Time n’ Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial 660-0856 ¯TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial 664-8299 ¯Tool Box, 1338 E. 3rd 584-1308 Service & Retail Businesses ¯Tomfoolery, 1565 S. Sheridan 832-0233 Kelly Kirby, CPA 663-9399 ¯Elite Gbods, 814 S. Sheridan 838-8503 ¯Whittier Bkstore, 1 N. Lewis 592-0767 aDreamland, 8807E. Admiral 834-1051 ¯Indian Terr. Coffee Co. 16.13 E, 15th .587-1633 ¯Mohawk Music, 6157 E 51 P1 664-2951 ¯Tulsa Central Library, 400 Civic Ctr. 596-7977 ¯.Chapman Student Cir. TU, 631-0000 Organizations ACT-UP, POB .532 74101 Names Proj..POB 3181, 74101 748-3111 P-FLAG,POB 52800,74152 749.4901 ¯TOHR, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 ¯ GayLine Info. 743-4297 " -. ’ Shanti Hodine 749-7898 .*STIR, Tulsa U. student org. 583-9780 OldahomaAIDS Hotline 800-535-2437 Religious.Organizations " ¯Family ofFaith MCC, 500 W. ’A’ Jenks "298-4622 Afftrm~iiiori (Meth:~) ~B,. 14301, ;::741-59 .481-1528 Oklahoma City (405) Bars & Restaurants-- Angles, 2117 NW 39th 524-3431 Bunkhouse, 2800 NW 39th 943-0843 Coyote Club, 2120 NW 39th 521-9533 Finish Line & Gushers Bar & Grill 2200 NW 39 Ex.pwy 525-0730 Hi Lo Club 1221 NW 50th 834-.1722 KA’s;.2024.NW llth 525-3991 Levi’s 2807 NW 36th 947-5384 The Park, 2125 NW 39th 528-4690 ThePorthole,3630NW 39th 949-9837 Sneakers, 919 N.Virginia " - 272-9833 Tramps, 2201 NW 39th 528-9080 WreckRoom,2127NW 39th 525-7610 The Kitchen,2124 NW 39th 528-5133 La" Roca Mexican Restaurants SW4th/Walker, 409 W. Reno & .7550 N. May Service & Retail Businesses -Banana Products 341-8965 Exec. Travel, 2113NW36th 521-9100 Habana Inn, 2200NW39th 528-2221 Herland, 2312 NW 39th 521-9696 Jungle Red, 2200 NW 39th 524-5733 Lobe’s, 2131 NW 39th 528-5!56 Deb Roberts, Entertainer 843-5624 Second Chance Credit 752-2209 .Stephen¯Scott, Masseur 525-8689 Shirley. Hunter, M;Ed/counsel0r - 848-5429 Larry Prater,.MD, Psychiatry 232-5453 Religious Organizations New Beginnings MCC 3136 N. Portland 942,6313 Dignity/Integrity, POB 25473 360-0414 Friends Meeting. - 632:7574 Gay Christian Ecum. Council 52~;5635 Light House MCC, 2522. N. Shartel *MCC-Tulsa, l~.23Map!eycood 838-1715. Dignity/Integrity *Canterbury Ministry Ctr. Bars & Restaurarlts Center Street, 10.renter St. 253-8071 The HOP, 19 1/2 Spring St, 253~8361 Ermilio’s, 26 White St~~ .~’ .. 253-8806 ChurcheS . " MCC of the Living Springs 253-9337 Bed & Breakfast ArborGlen,7LemaSt. 800-515-GLEN Rock Cottage, 10EneniaSt. 253-8659 Dixie Cottage; 2 Prospect 253,7533 Southern Rose, 9 Benton St. 253-5800 Purple Iris Inn, RR 6 253-8748 Pond Mountain, RL 1 2.53-5877 MapleLeafInn, 6 Kingshgwy 253-6876 Service & Retail Businesses Satori Arts, .81 Spring St 253-9820 Crazy Bone, 37 Spring St.~ 253-6600 Corcelli Studio, 159.Spring St.. 253-7399 Ft. Smith, Arkansas (501) court Garden 305 Garrison 783-9822 B & B Lounge, 1004 Garrison 783-9347 Fayetteville, Arkansas (501) Ron’s Place, 523 W. Poplar 442-3052 Wash. Cty. AIDS Task Force 443-AIDS Gay/Lesbian Act’n Delegatiofis 521.4509 MCC of the Ozarks 443-4278 Parents-FLAG 756-8444 Hot Springs, Arkansas Our House Lounge/Rest. 235 Broadway 624-6868 Salina, Kansas (316) ~ternative Lifestyles, POB 2532, 67402 Pink Triangle Parents of Kansas POB 153, Falun, KS 67442 Emporia, Kansas (316) Gay & Lesbian Alliance forResources & Education, Box 65, ESU 66801 524-4687 unitarian Church, 600NW 13 232-9224.. H01y Trinity ECC, 2328 N. Bars & Restaurants Backstreet, 1021JessieRd.Q 666-6900 Micheal’s, 60i Center. 376-8301 Discovery III, 1021 JessieRd. : 66~.4784 Silver Dollar, 2710 AsherAve. 663-9886 Organizations HPWA, POB 4379, 72204; 666-6900 AIDS Support Group 374-’3605 RAIN-Arkansas 375-5908 The House 374-3758 PALS, People of Alter. Lifestls 374-3605 Womens Project 372-5113 Parents-FLAG 821-4865 Service & Retail Businesses TwistedEntermmt, 7201 Asher 568-4262 Shields-Marley Studios; 117 S. Victory 372-6148 Travel by Philip 227-7690 LitdeRock Conn.ections 227-7690 Springfield, Missouri (41.7 Club 1105, 1105 E. Commercial 831-9043 Down Beat, 219 W. Olive 846-4572 Bolivar News, 4030 B~ilivar 833-3354 . Joplin, Missouri (417) Parmers Western Lounge, 720 S, Main 78145453 Partners Dance Lounge~ 722 S. Main 623-9313 Oklahoma City. (405) Organizations ACLU, 1411Classen, Ste318 524-8511 Herland Sis. Res. 2313 NW 39 521-9696 Names Project, POB 12185 625-6277 OASIS Resourcg Ctr. 2135 NW 39 525-2437 OK GayPol. CaucusPOB 61186 73146 OK Gay Rodeo Assoc. 943-0843 OKC Metro Mens’ Chorus 424-1753 Pride Network 340-3575 RAIN 232-4372 ACT-UP/Queer Nation 447-4209 Womens’ Resource Ctr. 364-9424 AIDS Mastery 525-3636 A1-Anon (Gay) 947-3834 Alcoholics Anonymous 525-2437 OK AIDS Hotline 800-535-2437 Other Options 728-3222 Testing the Limits, 2136 NW 39~h 843-8378 Norman, Oklahoma (405) Simply Equal/Norman, POB 5684, 73030 OU Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Alliance 303 Ellison Hall, 633 Elm, Norman 731319 325-4452 Lawton, Oklahoma (405) HIV/AIDS Support 248-5890/351-2820 SW AIDSNetw0rk, POB 3924, 73505 Great Plains MCC, :1416 W.-Gore 357-7899 Enid, Oklahoma (405) Phillips U. Gay/Lesbian Gm~p 242-0628 Stillwater, Oklahoma (405) Comm. AIDS Action Network 624-2544_ OSU Gay/Lesbian/BiseX Comm. Assoc. Student Union 040, Box 601, 74078 744-5252 ’ ~. . 7". ; :-&~,~;~2.:~;@.2 FINAI.I.¥ ]_£)NG DISTANCE CAH rNG FOR (;all ar~yvchere in the worl, from your home-just like you I calling card to use away if’err now. Customer servic~ and are available 24 hours a service :. We ~rovide a likc~ou have hav’e now. WEMUSTAEkM1T~ TI-]ERE ISA~.o OFFICIAL LONG DISTANCE IHE 1993/AAR~I OH WESHI$1~OH MAKE THE SWITCH TODAY 1-800-596-0556 THEPARACHUTE November 1993, OK-14 Catholic, Church ! NOTICE ’ Hel~ Wanted _. . PERSONALS-CONT. - Wichita GWF- I travel KS. and"N~ send dcmo.tape to: Ele~’l~ic, Oklahoma Onbusiness. ~,Looking Our _Third Year! Get the areas longest running -contacts publication for gays, lesbians, & " bisexuals. No charge to"pla~ an ad a~d:no forwarding fce to play by ear. -Pay little, but respond. For -frec m"~ fO. sen’ d age reward great.. 316-651-0603. ’statement to - Personally Speaking; P.O.-", box. 16782; Wichitaks:67213-0782; 316-2694208 -Fa~ . Free personal ads, Worldwid~ ncwslett~,chenp or free to. HIV+, AIDSindividuals, Diccct or discreet ads. SASE-to: OWO]~,, #110, 116 Tustin, Anaheimi~CA~ 92807 information. Circus, A~tn: David Bridg,eman~, 311 E. 7nth, Tulsa, OK. 74120 partner-0f?ightyears~Box .136 - -Set.your own,hours! IfY0U live ~ ..- ~ ......... i in: Topeka,, or Mis:s0uri~ you ~_~t Bend,Ks. can sell advertisement:in the . GWF mid 30’s. Professional Parachute Call today: - seeks same .for stable 316-651"05001!~800"536"6519_ .relationship, .no drugs, social d~nker only. I enjoy-sports, PIANIST. WANTED: C&W music, sharing quiet times N.W. Ark-Married GWM, 40 Charismatic-:church looking for. .and hh~g:~,.Box:l23 yo, good-looking, healthy, piano player, must:be able to " ’ seeking Married BiWM for GWF, 30,s(~0fession~ See.ks monogamous intimate same. for starbleii~latiOnship. NO: .friendship., You. must be 35-45, ..... s, soci~ ’~-;~~:’~ ~i :~:~ttractive’-:~ healthy; intelligent, ASTROLOGICAL SERVICES Amazingly ac~wate, computerized compility _.report 25-47. Let’s get together. ,Box for friends & Lovers only 127. $25.00 or 6 mo.’s pcrson~! NewtoHutehinsonarec,~GWM,i‘~ Horoscope $29.95 43, ..5~!0, 185 ,nearly’ deaf but Call today 1-800-460-STAR . .~..SCcking.G~ or Bi Male FOR SALE for :~- fri’endship, possibly " s e xs, Wom ’s bar, in irelaaonshipi sb , OKC, 2024 N.W.- l.lth, speak to Jauice or Michcle at .405-272-9833 For Sale in Eureka springs, Martha & ~Joyccs arc ..selling The Purple Iris Inn, with an excellent .aready built in "Family" clientelle. Country wooded setting, turn-key operation, contact: _ Dinny PERSONALS - CONT. GWM, .mid 20’s seeks same or .younger.- for safe fun. Bottoms a.plu.s, but-versatile, send :photo for Gay-.-. female friends.: :for and phone. Box:142 dinn~’ ~or-:movies. :i .have a ~...... " ....... . AR,KANSAS Bi WM, 44~ handsome, healthy, &. inteHegent, Seeks a smooth feminine sissy GM/TV~FS in NW.. Ark. for fun, friendship, monogamy. I smoke. Box 142 FOR RENT " en’o : rts, ~ sh ": ~- " uiet ~sitive, and disereet Box 144 : . .. ~J y spo . ~,.:.:~q . - Roommates servmg Wichita ..-timcS, and ha~gfun:~.:P~se../..i_ for : 5 years, Landlords _can ,.sendpietore:Box 143:i’:i. : i.~:. :: - . ~--~.., ’Anywhere USA register without, any advmw,e .’- ~ . ~:~:: ’ " .-:¥oU*~ maSculine and fee~ Tenants.my register:as- N.E;Kan~-: /:;:’" stndght-aeting, but. canYt find little as-$15.00~ 1529 W.... GM-4~,-seeking.GWM f~ mate.: guys iike yourself?. Same with Douglas 262-8~.~.~., .46-68; ,,slim¯ . buil~-~:ii,~;....~y -m~! i/good loo~ing,, good build, :..... ¯ a-plu , bottom .: e|ocate .t0:late. 30’s,’ in ^us n. Xx. Wanted: Locations.where gays warmer,,state, star.t. : RV..park,.. Box i41.¯ my sbare housing in Wichita, -. apple.~c~ E~t;s~dphot0; " " / " aren~ -~:.C..all or stop :iby- p:iione Box146 i. " ~ - " :" " " ~ . . OHah~m City,OK.... : .::! Address. PERSON~S Have.lhome~ need mate, c0untr~ _ ~: living, greater eke, GWMs0, City State Zip GVv-M looking, for mate 47, s/p hair, smoker, trim ori~nal look and act younger, honest, equipment, top, levi’s~camping Typeor print y~-ur ad, 25 words romantic, non.~moker, loyal, canning, gardening. Seeks long or less.. Send with this coupon Slim build looking for same t~m partner. Box 117 and $6.00 to: The Parachute, Classifieds P.O. Box 11347 discreet, ¢~g.-Box 145 Bi W~M..:.::,:.33,..5’ 10, 1951bs, Brown::~,: blue eyes, very straight acting- and di~: Wants friends i"~th-: same lifestyle. Box 147 . Wichita GWM, 25 HIV+ seeks GWM Bnllard of Double "D"Realty, 21-35 for_ friendship and BctryviHe, Ar. at possible relationship. Serious 1-800-748-9772 replies only~ Send photo,phong..~ Penpals welcome. Box 122 Gay male .seeking, male couples Wichita, Ks. 67202. for fun, mid20’s. Send Photo’s Your responses will be mailed Box 109. . " to you when they are received. GWM - 44 Professional very TO.RESPOND TO A .ha.h-y, li~ smooth man~ 18-30 to PERSONAL travel and be my sugar boy, this 1 ~ Write your response, please il summer and beyond. Please in an envelope, and seal the send photo :,and phone, OKC envelope. Be sure to .include a . area please. Box 125 way for the advertiser to .get in ¯ - . contact,with you. GWM 26, travel U.S. would like 2. :.,On the scaled envelope, write to meet ’GWM 20-30 for fun the advertisers box number in when in your area; 5’8 1201bs, lower corner and affix postage. looking for similar. Box 150 3. Place the sealed envelope an~ $2.00 insids a 2nd envelope: seal and address to - The DEADLINE FOR Parachute P.O. Box 11347,Wichita, KS. 67202 DECEMBER Ad will Run only for the numi~r of ISSUE insertions paid for, unless renewed. You must b~ ¯18 years of agg or older to use t~s / November 1993, OK-15 THE PARACHUTE Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1993] The Parachute of Oklahoma, November 1, 1993; Volume 1, Issue ? Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Oklahoma's Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource The Parachute of Oklahoma is a monthly newspaper; the publications available begin August 1993 through December 1993. The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource The Parachute of Oklahoma Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Chuck Breckenridge Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource November 1993 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource Wayne D. 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Neill Equality Center Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/454 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Relation A related resource The Parachute https://history.okeq.org/files/original/7da16331cdf9d38416021d84c878e7c4.jpg cecdf8ce8ebb9f9b2fe2db0ad27e28e5 https://history.okeq.org/files/original/ae96973ea76cc9691e0a73fc9290b328.pdf 0d1b00cce9ef6ff32418740b60fddd06 PDF Text Text Serving the Gay & Lesbian Community in Kansas, Oklahoma, Arkansas and Missouri P.O. Box 11347 [,Vichita, Kansas 67202 ~,’bl: I, 0 ,.r Activities Include: :hill Cookoff ,++i Rodeo speed events for horses T ON de Events +all Games Games Shoes State Games Miss. OGRA ~ Review Show 9:00 p.m. For more i++formatio++ call 405-943-0843 after 1:00 p.m. �Wichita, Kansas (316) Wichita, Kansas (316) Eureka Spr’gs, Arkansas Bars & Restaurants Buddies Country, 4000 s. Broadwav 529-4953 Our Fantasy, 3201 So. Hillside 682-5494 South Forty, 3201 So. Hillside 682-5494 R & R Brass Rail, 2828 E. 31st 684-9009 T-Room, 1507 E. Pawnee 262-9327 Harbor Restaurant, 3201 S. Hillside 681-2746 Lassens Bar & Grill, 155 N. Market 263-2777 Th.e Upper Crust, 7038 E. Lincoln 683 -8088 Service & Retail Businesses Visions-& Dreams, 3414 Maple Churches Wichita Praise & Worship Ctr. 651-6903 First Unitarian Church 684-3481 Mission of Faith Fellowship 539-0633 Bars & Restaurants Center Street, 10 Center St. 253-8071 The HOP, 19 1/2 Spring St. 253-8361 Ermillio’s, 26 White St. (501) 253-8806 Churches MCC of the Living Springs 253-9337 Bed & Breakfast Rock Cottage, 10 Enenia St. 253-8659 Dixie Cottage, 2 Prospect 253-7533 Southern Rose, 9 Benton St. 253-5800 Purple Iris Inn, RR 6 253-8748 Pond Mountain, Rt. 1 253-5877 Maple Leaf Inn, 6 Kingshgwy 253-6876 Service & Retail Businesses Satori Arts, 81 Spring St. 253-9820 Crazy Bone, 37 Spring St. 253-6600 Corcelli Studio, 159 Spring’St. 253-7399 942-6333 Watermark Books, 149 N. Broadway 263 -3007 Queen Anne’s Lace 733 -4075 Dr. Laura Shook, D.C. 7(~0 N. Market 267-6522 Roommates 262-8444 Paradise Antiq. 430 E. Harry 269-441.1 Adult Entree, 220 E. 21st 832-1816 Plato’s, 1306 E. Harry St. 269-9036 T.B.’s, 1516 S. Oliver 688-5343 Camelot Cinema, 1516 S. O1ive688-5343 Adult Entertainm’t Ctr3721 S. Broadway Adult Entertainm’t Ctr 7805 W..Kellogg Adult Entertainm’t Ctr 2809 N. Broadway Adult Entree’ South, 8025 S. Broadway Circle Cinema, 2570 S. Seneca Organizations Wichita/Sedgwick Cty. Health Dept. 1900 E. 9th 268-8441 Wichita Gay/Lesbian Alliance 942-1786 The Lesbian Celebration 683-7561 P-FLAG 687-4666 Gay Information Line 269-0913 Junction City, Kansas Aftei Dark Video, 1206 Grant Lawrence, Kansas (913) Ek)uglas County AIDS Project 843-0040 G~ty & Lesbian Ser. of Kansas 864-3091 Manahattan, Kan/as (913) Douglas County AIDS Project 843-0040 Topeka~ Kansas (913) Bars & Clubs Classics, 124 SW 8th 357-1960 Expressions, 110 SE 8 233-3622 Service & Retail Businesses Adult Entertainment Ctr. 903 N. Kansas Some Like It Hot 4732 S. Topeka Ave. Organizations, Topeka AIDS Project 232-3100 Gay & Lesbian Task Force 357-8727 Mayors Task Force 234-6699 Gay Rap Line 223-6558 ’ Manhattan Outreach 271-8431 HIV Affected Group 234-8562Churches MCC of Topeka Z32-6196 United Methodist Affirmation 235-6101 Emporia, Kansas Gay & Lesbian Alliance Box.65, ESU, 1200 Commercial, 66801 Little Rock, Arkansas Bars & RestaurantsBackstreet, 1021 Jessie Rd. Q 666-6900 Micheal’s, 601 Center 376-8301 Discovery III, 1021 Jessie Rd. 664-4784 Silver Dollar, 2710 Asher Ave. 663-9886 Organizations HPWA, POB 4379, 72204, 666-6900 AIDS Support Group 374-3605 RAIN-Arkansas 375-5908 The House 374-3758 PALS, People of Alter. Lifestls 374-3605 Womens ~oject 372-5113 Service & R~ail Busin~es Twis~ ~tennmt, 7201 Asher ~-4262 Shields:Marley Studios, 117 S. Victou Travel by Philip 227-7690 Salina, Kansas Alternatives Lifestyles, POB 2532, 67402 Pink Triangle Parents of Kansas POB 153, Falun, KS.67442 Hot Springs, Arkansas, Our House ~unge/Rest. _35 Broadway 6 2 4 - 6 8 6 8 Tulsa, Oklahoma (918) Oklahoma City (405) Ft. Smith, Arkansas Springfield, Missouri (417) Bars & Restaurants Laff’.s " Underground. 31 l Bars & Restaurants Angles, 2117 NW 39th 524-3431 943-0843 Bunkhouse, 2800 NW 39th Coyote Club, 2120 NW 39th 521-9533 Finish Line & Gushers Bar & Grill 2200 NW 39 Expwy 525-0730 834-1722 Hi Ix) Club 1221 NW 50th 525-3991 KA’s, 2024 NW 1 lth Levi’s 2807 NW 36th 947-5384 528-4690 The Park, 2125 NW 391h 949-9’837 The Porthole. 3630 NW 39th Sneakers, 919 N. Virginia 272-9833 Tramps, 2201 NW 39th 528-9080 Wreck Room, 2127 NW 39th 525-7610 The Kitchen, 2124 NW 39th 528-5133 La Rocca Mexican Restaurants SW 4th/Walker, 409 W.’Reno & 7550 N. May Court Garden 305 Garrison 783-9822 B & B Lounge, 1004 Garrison 783-9347 Club E. 7th 583-5233 Tops (across from Laffs) 587 -8677 4812, 4812 E. 33rd 742-5262 Silver Star Saloon, 1565 S. Sheridan 834-4234 Taj Mahal, 2630 E. 15th 742-8274 Time n’ Time Again, 1515 S. Memorial 660-0856 TNT’s 2114 S, Memorial 664-8299 584-13 08 Tool Box. 1338 E. 3rd Service & Retail Businesses Tomfoolery at the Silver Star 1565 S. Sheridan 832-0233 .Kelly Kirby, CPA 663-9399 Elite Goods, 814 S. Sheridan 838-8503 Whittier Bkstore, 1 N. Lewis 592-0767 834-1051 Dreamland, 8807 E. Admiral Organizations ACT-UP; POB 532, 74101 Names Project, POB 3181, 74101 ¯ 748-3111 P-FLAG POB 52800, 74152 749-4901 TOHR, 4154 S. Harvard, Ste. H-1 Gay Lin~ Info. 743-4297 Shanti Hotline 749-7898 STIR (Tulsa Univ. student ors,) 583-9780 Oklahoma AIDS Hotline 800-535-2437 Churches Family of Faith MCC, 500 W. ’A" Jenks 298-4622 742-8213 Affirmation (Methodist) MCC of Tulsa, 1623 Maplewood 838~1715 Dignity/Integrity 298-4648 Enid, Oklahoma Phillips Univ. Gay & Lesbian Group 242-0628 Service & Retail BusinessesBanana Products 341-8965 521-9100 Exec. Travel, 2113 NW 36th 528-2221 Habana Inn, 2200 NW 39th 521-9696 Herland, 2312 NW 39th Jungle Red, 2200 NW 39th 524-5733 528-5156 Lobo’s, 2131 NW 39th 843-5624 Deb Roberts, Entertainer Second Chance Credit 752-2209 Stephen Scott, Masseur 525-8689 Shirley Hunter, M.Ed/counselor 848-5429 Larry Prater, MD, Psychiat~’ 232-5453 Religious Organizations New Beginnings MCC 3136 N. Portland 942-63 13 Dignity/Integrity, POB 25473 360-0414 Friends Meeting 632-7574 Gay Christian Ecum. Council 528-5635 Light House MCC, 2522 N. Shartel 524-4687 Unitarian Church, 600 NW 13 232-9224 Fayetteville, Arkansas Ron’s Place, 523 W. Poplar 442-3052 Wash. Cry. AIDS Task Force 443-AIDS Gay/Lesbian Act’n, Delegations 521-4509 MCC of the Ozarks 443-4278 Oklahoma City (405) Organizations ACLU, 1411 Classen, Ste 318 524-8511 Names Project, POB 12185 625-6277 OASIS Resource Ctr. 2135 NW 39 525-2437 OK Gay Pol. Caucus POB 61186 73146 943-0843 OK Gay Rodeo Assoc. OKC Metro Mens’ Chorus 424-1753 340-3575 Pride Network RAIN 232-4372 447-4209 ACT-UP/Queer Nation OU Gay/Lesbian/Bisexual Alliance 303 Ellison Hall, 633 Elm, Norman 73019 Womens’ Resource Ctr. 364-9424 AIDS Mastery 525-3636 947-3834 A1-Anon (Gay) " 525-2437 Alcoholics Anonymous 800-535-2437 OK AIDS Hotline Other Options 728-3222 Testing the Limits, 2136 NW 39th 843 -8378 1105, 1105 E. Commercial 831 ~9043 Down Beat, 219 W. Olive 846-4572 Bolivar News, 4030 Boli.var 833-3354 Joplin, Missouri (417) Billy Jack’s, 720 S. Main 781-6453 CG’s Cha Cha Palace 722 S, Main 781-9313 Lawton, Oklahoma (4o5) HIV/AIDS Support ~48-5890/351-_8_0 SW AIDS Network, POB 3924, 73505 Great Plains MCC, 1416 W. Gore 357-7899 Stillwater, Oklahoma (405) Comm. AIDS Action Network 624-2544 OSU Gay/Lesbian/Bisex Comm. Assoc. Student Union 040, Box 601, 74078 Helpline (MWTh. 8-10pm) 744-5252 Subcription " 6 months = $12.00 1 year = $18.00 Name _ Address City State Zip. $ Enclosed Subscriptions will be mailed out by the 5th of each month, in a sealed vnvdop¢. Send to: Th~ Parachute P.O. Box 11347 Wichita, Kansas 67202 The Parachute Page 2 ’ �WICHITA LESBIAN MOTHERS GROUP When Visions & Dreams opened its’ doors last month as a meeting place for the Wichita Lesbian Mothers Group their little shop soon proved an inadequate space. At the first gathering of the group there were twenty one women who have, or are considering having ~children. Another space has been located the W.L.M.G will now meet at the Y.W.C.A located at 420 E. English. That is the Cassado McKay building on the coruer of Topeka and English. The meetings are held on the 4th Saturday of each month at 7 p.m. The purpose of this group is to create a support network for Morns and their children. It is open to all Lesbians with children (regardless of custody status), any Lesbians who are considering becoming parents, and to Lesbians who haven’t de~ided about parenting but enjoy spending time with families. The mothers group-will always include the children. There will be an activities dir~tor on hand to provide the kids lots of fun things to do (child care is on a donation basis). This gives the children an opportunity to play with others who come from the same family structure. It’s very for them tosee they are not the only one with two morns, or if they have a single morn,, that they are not the only child with a morn who dates Women! The W.L.M.G. provide’s a relaxed atmosphere ".where women . van can discuss both trials and joys of the parenting experience, dealing with ex’s (of either gender), legal issues, step-parenting, alternative conception options, daycare, dealing with the sehool system ETC. You are invited to bring your topics of interest, and your areas of expertice to the next meeting. For more info. contact Rence at 316-942-6360. EQUALITY KANSAS NEEDS NEWSPAPER CLIPPINGS In order to follow what is going on in relation to lesbian and gay people in all parts of Kansas, EQUALITY KANSAS is initiating a statewide ’press wateh’ program. Equality Kansas is indivicb~als from all parts of Kansas, ESPECIALLY RURAL AND WESTERN KANSAS, to start clipping anything from your local paper that relates to lesbian and gay issues, and sending them to Equality Kansas. These clippings can be news articles, features, editorials, editorial cartoons, and letters to-the editor. They can be about Equality Kansas, the attempts by Darlene Cornfield & Co. to pass anti-gay initiatives in the Kansas House, Fred Phelps, or even a local reaction to events on the national level. Any clippings relating to lesbian and gay concerns from FROSTBITE 75 CENTS ALL MONTH LONG AHClippings must be attributablb: Visions & Dreams AN OPEN MINDED BOOKSTORE 3143 W. Maple, Wichita, Ks: 67213 316-942-6333 LOCATED IN MAPLE VILLA Gift Items, Music, Cards. Books and More SPECIALIZING IN GAY & LESB IAN ITEMS MASSAGE AND AROMA THERAPY SUPPLIES FEMINIST ISSUES, METAPHYSICAL,SELF HELP AND RECOVERY PUBLICATIONS ALSO AVAILABLE Rose~:~ country setting with hoc tub, fireplace, VCR. You.~ay visit wid~ fat~..pets or-stcoll along the cceek.: Double with private bath / ~40 ~~&’~ Call 316~3-4~75 Hosts - JacMd & Bob Collison 2617 Queen Anne’s Lace Rose Hill, The Parachute Page 3 ; ,. ., | �AIDS PREVENTION CAMPAIGN TO BREAK NATIONALLY IN JAN ’94 Nashville, TN -- Country singer Mark Chesnutt and songwriter Mary-Chapin Carpenter announce the beginning of an ambitious public service announcement program to prevent the spread of HIV and AIDS in the ’93 Country Music AIDS Awareness Campaign Nashville.~ The artists are serving as Co-Chairs of the industry initiative which has received the official endorsements of the Country Music Assuciation and the American Advertising Federation. The campaign features messages by 35 country music stars - including Garth Brooks, Wynonna and Willie Nelson - and will break nationally on radio, television and print in Jan. ’94 The campaign is the initiative of MCA recording artist Mark Chesnutt in response to published reports that AIDS is fastest growing in the South. "I don’t know lots of people outside urban areas who think that AIDS is strictly a big city problem or one that doesn’t concern them. But it’s affecting rural areas all over the country andthese are places that country music can speak to directly." Added Chesnutt’s fellow Co-Chair, Columbia artist Mary-Chapin Carpenter, "We’re hoping the campaign will help make it more ac~ptable for people to use condoms regularly for parents to talk to their children openly about AIDS - how you get it and how you don’t and for’learnln£ about HI3/ from local.AIDS agencies." The campaign is organized by a coalition of country music industry. professionals led by Bill Johnson, Design Director of Sony Music. Stated Jotnison, "This is the first national effort by the country music industry for AIDS education and is one of unprecedented frankness and directness. We’re utilizing the strategy that the-most effective through the support of leaders and transitters who then set the pace for the acceptance of behavior." OrganiF~rs are garnering the support of the entire industry in an effort to saturate every country music media outlet with education and prevention messages. The total audience outlets is potential for these estimated at 50 million. Plans call for capitalizing on country music’s burgeonin£ popularity by also aiming for exposure to a broad national consumer market as well. The campaign will be distributed to all television networks, cable networks and eable systems as well as consumer print publications. The American Advertising Federation is also workin~ to mobiliTe its network of advertising federations to distribute the c~unpaign on a local level to television network aff’fliates, radio stations and print outlets in 250 major markets across the U.S. "Country Music AIDS A@areness campaign is produced and directed by Audio Productions; the print campaign is art directed by Rollow Welch; and scoring is by 615 productions. Campaign logistieal and distribution support is provided by an impressive group of industry committees headed by respected community professional. Walt Wilson of MCA Nashville is Marketing Chair; Mary Hyde of Warner Bros. Records is M~ C~ir; J=k ~.~ier of Sony Music is Radio Chair; Tony Conway of B.~y I~ AU.~tions is Asency Chair; and Ted Hacker & Anita Hogin of International Artist Management are ~e ~pe C~,~st 7038 Lincoln Wi chi ta, Ks ° 31 6-- 683-- 8088 Manager Co-Chairs. Mary-Chapin Carpenter and Mark Ly~ A~der~, lint Black, L.~ry Boone, Crarth Brooks, Jenny Cash, Mark Collie, Charlie Danlels, Skeeter Davis, Desert Rose Band, Diamond Rio, Joe Dfffie, Holly Dram, Radney Foster, Clinton Headhunters. Kris Kristoffersnn, Nel$on, Dolly Patton, Collin Raye, like Parachute If it’s not iit doesn’ rkI a Sawyer.Brown, Ricky Skaggs, Larry Stewart, Marry Stuart, Kevin Welch, Michelle Wrighlg Tammy Wynette, Wynonna, Waylon Jennings, Campaign" is being created by a volunteer team of some of Nashville’s best talents. The television spots are directed and produced by Deaton Flanigen Productions; copywriting is ~URA L. SHOOK, D.C. contributed by Carden Cherry ..Advertising-Agency, Inc,; the radi~: 700 H. Market Suite A Wichita, Kansas 67214 316-267-6522 GORGES & COMPAN Volvo : Volkswagen MICHAEL BERTSCH Sales Representative 2660 South Oliver ¯ Wichita, Kansas 67210 316/685-2201. FAX 316/681-3220 Paradise Antiques ofhavingHIV.. There aren’t any you can se~ You can’t ten from outward appearance who is infected with ~ the virus that causes AIDS. Know how to determine your risk. Call your State or local.AIDS hotline, or the National AIDS Hotline at 1-800-342AIDS. Call 1-800-243-7889 (TTY) for deaf access. HN is the virus that causes AIDS. Appraisal~ - Auctions - Estates Centers for Disease Control 430 East Harry Wichita, K5 67211 (316) 269-4441 Mon - Sat lOam to 6ym Sun 11vn to 5pro Brought to you by: Wichita-Sedgwick County Health Department /1900 E. 9nth Wichita, Kansas Confidential AIDS/HIV Testing Fees based on a sliding scale The Parachute Page 4 �Come’ Celeb,rate¯ Jesus At Fairmo t s The Center,....for..Praise & .:Worship.,ini:.Wichita, Kansas 316 651-0603 OUTIHG BY ScoTr-CURR:. ~ .::~ The : rca~0nlhgbehi~l this stand is that ff ............. we all’were-out; our employers would At this point, almost everyone had suddenly discover tlmt there were too heard of the term "outing," a shorter many of us to fire. If we became way of describing bringing someone focused--agreeing that We were tired out of the closet, whether they’re of allowing others to. walk all over xeady or not. There are three major us, that there are millions of us in the schools of thought concerning this U.S. alone, and that we know it, we issue. would have the power to prevent the The Tirst is that no one, under any discrimination we now face. If we circumstances, has the right to bring were all out, it would become anyone out of the closet against their indisputable that every family has a will. The argttm generally used with lesbian in it, every organization a gaythis contention is that coming out is man. a process, one in which there are The problem with thi.~ approach is many steps, and each oft:these steps that angry gays and lesbians who .is important to go ~tltrough for the have been unwillingly outed do not growth of .the lesbian or gay. man happy campers make. It is naive to involved. suppose that those we would out In order for this argument to stand, would somehow miraculously see the on of tW.o: possible, implied truths error of :their ways.and embrace their must exist. One is that every gay lesl~ian and btotbers and Sisters. It is man and lesbian will eventually very likelythat~we would make many come out of the closet of they are : " enemies, enemies we do not need. just given the space and time to do The third school of thought partially "it. History, of course, proves this agrees with both the first and second belief untrue. group. For the most part, they see The second ".m that there are more that it is. imperative to live and let compelli~ reasons to. stay .in the live. Understandin~ the difficulties closet than come-out. Let’s think that come with being lesbian and gay, about that a bit. If no one knows they share with the f’~st group the we’re queer, we won’t be mugged or belief that we should allow others killed or harassed, righ~ If someone who are lesbian and gay to deal with finds out, then we’re in trouble. We it as best they are best able. might lose our family, our job, However, they side with the second maybe even our children. That’s group in believing that the largest rather string incentive to stay in the problem facing us right now is our closet. oppression by those who will not This brings us to the second leave us _alone to live as we see fit. philosophical stand on outing: Those The third group is tired of being in support of this philosophy preached to, .vilified, beaten, generally believe that everyone who separated from our children by an The third ~chool of thought.believes there is a simple solution tothe apparently contradictory beliefs. You out the oppressor, they say. You out those in ~positions of power who use their power to hurt you, either through inaction or through flagrant discriminatory practices. You out the heads of the military who state from their-closet that homosexuals have no place in the military. -You out the lesbian against legislators who vote legislation that would include anti-bias guidelines based on sexual orientation. On the local level, you out the Ku-Kinx-Kristian leaders, those who are lesbian and still think they can be head of a right-to-life organization and no one will know. You out the bar owners who, because they’re in the closet and axe afraid their family willfind o~:their "disgusting, dirty little secret," are sacred of the media. Because ~of their personal .fear, these people refuse to communicate with the media portrays, which in turn makes life miserable for lesbians and .gays in Wichita. Through outing, those who are eating their own will be forced to deal with their sexuality. It won’t be pretty. But, then again, neither is hypocrisy. They will be hurt and angry, andwill probably become our enemy. But, then again, aren’t they already? Th~ parachute Page 5 :.:i ~__~lited by Lor~ine Hut~hins & Lani Kaahumanu Re~vi~e~.wed by Catherine E. Boyle Confu8~ Oversexed, Promim3ttous, Sinful, Incapable Going . through of monogamy, a phase. Aids-carriers. Unstable. If you are family, all of these words ~ should sound familiar to you. For years, the. heterosexual world has used these words to justify their discrimination’ against lesbians and gays apply to bisexuals. In this wonderful anthology, bisexual people themselves tell how both straight and gay people have perpetuated these myths about bisexuals. In a community where "inclusiveness" and "freedom to loveY are war-cries, these people haveno homer"Each person-~IIS a story, testifying to the individuality of same-sex relationships. After reading, their words, you may begin to .see that loving people because who th~ey arc, rather than the shape of the genitals, is a rational, feminist way to view the world¯ For anyone seeking a greater understanding of queer diversity, Bx Any Other Name is the perfect place to start. However, this is not an academically oriented work. If you arc searchin~ for a -greater understanding of bisexual studies, you will~ t-rod overviews inadequ,a,te. Also, the section entitled ~Resources" is brief, so you may want to check out Bisexuality: A Reader and Sourcebook, edited by Thomas Gdler. �e’ s Country 4000 S. Broadway Wichita, Kansas 316-529-4953 BEACH PARTY LABOR DAY COOK-OUT MONDAY SEPT. 5 AT 2:00PM Hamburgers & Weonie’ s Furnished OR BRING YOUR OWN MEAT! Frostbite 75 Ccms All Month Chegk For Dialy Specials ] The Only Bar That Gives You Daily Cut Rate Specials! The P~achute P~gc 6 �Abundance of Adult Vidoes, Magazines, Books: Lubcs, Lotions, Novelties & Toys " We buy andsell used-magazines Large selection of gay & lesbian material Adult Entree 220 E. 21 st Wichita, Ks.. 316-83,8’1816 Platos 1306 E. Harry .Wichita, Ks. Adult Entree So. 8025 S. Broadway Private Dancers Conversation 316r269-9036 Booths 316-554-0307 Camelot Cinema Movies changed daily 1519 S. Oliver .316-688-5343 Adult Video Seniors 1515 S. Oliver Wichita, Ks. 316-688-5343 $4.00 with Coupon Most-discreet Land Phone Tree,, TB’s Most discreet ~ Wichita, KS. (EGCM) "This is the Land of Awes Information Services automated notification system." This is what you will hear if you are called by the Gay Information Line phone tree. Thisrevolutionary new service is designed to distribute important news and information about gay and AIDS issues, by calling people directly and telling them what is going on. The notification system can-be used for anything from reminding people of an upcoming meeting, to telling about an important vote in Con,gress. The voice message is digitally recorded by the Land of Awes computer and it is given a list of telephone numbers to dial. Each person on the list is called and the message is played when they say "hello." The recipient of the message has the option of repeating the message as many times as they wish or to end the call by pressing buttons on their touch, tone telephone pad. "The Land of Awes has always tried to used technology to advance gay and AIDS issues," said Rex Rivers, who is the manager of the information ¯ services. "This is another way for us to use the power of our computer systems to help others even if they don’t .have a computer themselves." to ¯ and req to the list. You may specify if you wish to be notified on gay or AIDS issues or both. Thisis an excellent way to :keepup with what is going on with late breaking news. Likewise, if you have some important news you . need distributed quickly to the gay community, or you would like to get the word out about an important meeting; call the Gay Information I,ine° and request that a notification be initiated. The service is free for gay and AIDS issues. Calls are limited to the local Wichita dialing area only. 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"Made in Gay America is our chance to channel our community’s tremendous spending .power into a constructive force," Boone said. "For straight consumers, it’s aiso an opportunity to make a gesture of support of gay friends and family." A full 10% of the catalog’s net profits will reach gay and AIDS charities. In an unprecedented arrangement, consumers can choose from a list of widely supported organiTations to receive donations. Most of Made in Gay America’s suppliers and wholesalers will also allocate part of their net profits to oommtmity causes, Boone said. The ¢olleetion features products that give gays and lesbians very visible vehicles for their spending power, like personai checks emblazoned with the pink triangle or the red AIDS awareness ribbon. "The cheeks can go places you never do. imply to ~ro~iont_t~a~ your oncerns are backed by capital strength," Boone said. 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JACOBS MANHATFAN In March 1993, eight concerned people from the Manhattan area came together because they had a dream they wanted to start an information & education resource center for the same-gender communities of North Central Kansas. Now, half a year later, that dream is a reality. In six months, The Flint Hills Alliance., has: --Ineorporated as a non-profit corporation in the state of Kansas --Applied for IRS 501 (o)(3) status for tax exemption. (Application still pending as of this writing) --Held two very successful fundraising dances at Revolutions, a STRAIGHT bar in Junction City. --Opened an office at 1221 Thurston, on the second floor of the UFM building (Office hours are 6-9pro & Saturday, Thursday, 12-3pm) --Started a lending library of lesbiafl, bi and gay materials ..for people to check out. (Donations being sought!) --Started a successful support group for Lesbian, Bisexual & Gays that meets twice a month. --Being hosting ’Third Thursday’ educational forums once a month. Past forums have included a discussion of Suzanne Pharr’s Homophobia - a Weapon of Sexism, a screening of Sacred Lies, Civil Truths, and a guest speaker, Rev. L. Johnathan Loppnow of MCC Manhattan. 903 N Kansas Fopeka, Kansas 66608 ~13-235-6010 --Started -a gay & Lesbian information / help line for the city of Manhattan. --Became an information outlet and member organiTation of Equality Kansas. But we’re not ones to rest on our laurels. Here’s what’s coming up in September: **Our guest speaker for this month’s ’Third Thursday’ educational forum will be Tom Poe, an expert on the vicious anti-gay video, ’The Gay Agenda’, giving a presentation called 2018, Manhattan, KS 66502-0023. **Volunteers ar needed to operate the phone line one evening a month. If you are a good listener and a good communicator, please consider ’Deconstruoting the Gay Agenda’. To Brenda, Terese, Sharon, and Sherrill: Thanks for the postage! To Monique: Thanks for letting is Mr. Poe is a professor of Media Studies teaching Political Communication at UMKC. He is also a member of the-national board of GLAAD: The Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, and active in KC gay politics. Mr. Poe lectures ragularly on The Gay Agenda, revealing the videos ’agenda’ by showing what kinds of propaganda and sensationalistic techniques it uses. The Alliance is very excited to wolcemo Mr. Poe to Manhattan. Everyoue is welcome to the screening, so please attend if you can.The program starts at 7:30 p.m. in the Banquet room of UFM, 1221 Thurston St. in Manhattan, on THursday, September 16. Admission is free. For information, call The Alliance office at 913-587-0016. **The Alliance is currently bolding a membership drive to raise money to cover operating costs of our office and phone line. MEmberships in The Alliance are $20/year for individuals, $30/year for families, and $5/year for individuals on public assistance. Our mailing address is P.O. Box helping us out in this project. **I.just wanted to take a moment to publicly thank everyone who has helped make The Flint Hills. Alliance, Inc. a success: To Wes, Karen, Teri, Terry, Jim, Penny and Earl, the founding parents: Thanks for believing in the dream. use your bar, Revolutions, for our fundraising dances. To Eileen: hanks for programming the music at actually DID take some of it! To. Chuck and The- Parachute: Thanks for all the free publicity And to anyone else I may have forgot: you know who you are. THANK YOU- and lets make the second s~ix months as successful as the first! Kevyn the second dance. Because of the help the two of you gave, we raised enough money to pay for three months rent! To UFM and Stormy: Tanks for giving us a reasonably priced office! To Dave, John, Donni, Gary and Wes: Thanks for UN-wallpapering and then painting the office. It look MUCH better. To Loy: Thanks for the Air Conditioner and answering machine. To Margaret: Thanks for the brochure racks! To Teri and Sharon: Thanks for the office supplies! To Kathy and Gary: Thanks for making the support group a success! To Donni and Gary: Thanks for making the Open House a success! To Ercilia: Thanks for your advice on the gay and lesbian information line! To Mike and John: Thanks for the phone, and your hard work starting National Coming Out Day P.O. Box 34640 Washington, DC 20043-4640 ,-~.’ .--~:: .. 7am to Midnight Including Holidays ADULT nI rI|anmtnI CENTER Arcade cg Preview Room Adult Video Sales& Rentals, Novelties cg I oungerie organization In Jtmo of 1993, Darlene Cornfield, a fundamentalist state representative from Valley Center, introduced a resolution (a copy of which is enclosed) to her colleagues in order to seek their support when it is introduced to the Ks. House of Representatives shortly after the next legislative session begins in January 1994. This resolution, while on its surface a meaningless letter to the U.S. Congress, actually endangers the constitutionally-protected rights of Lesbian and Gay Kansans A state-wide coalition of individuals, families, and organizations is already in the process of mounting a challenge, to the presentation .of this resolution to the Ks. House. That state~wide coalition is Equality Kansas. This resolution is being proposed at a time when hate crimes against Lesbian and Gay Kansans are growing in both number and 124 S.W.8th Topvka, Kansas I The Parachute Page 10 in starting up the information line! To Pastor Johnathan and MCC Manhattan: Thanks for the support & publicity. To Wes: my right-hand man and tireless treasurer. To Mr. Bulky: you know why! To Dean: volunteering! To Rex & The Land of Awes: I Thanks for all the advice viciousness. Bill Tanner of Wichita was recently gunned down by two teenagers out for a night on the town ,beatin’ up fags." Despite this and other signs of a rising tide of violence against Lesbian and Gay Kansans, Cornfield and other fundamentalist legislators have proposed this resolution, further encouraging violence and endangering the lives and livelihoods of Lesbian and Gay Kansans It is time a .State-wide organization worked to make our opposition to such violence known in Topeka. FundamentaliSts legislators plan to canvass the state with a hate campaign directed against Lesbian and Gay Kansans, supported by national evangelical organizations such as Pat Robertson’s Christian Coalition, in order to win support for the proposed resolution. State legislator Kay O’Connor from Olathe began an interview voicing her support for the resolution by saying "You know, the Indians were born a problem," and concluded by saying that Lesbians and Gays could "control their behavior much the dame way that the Indian has to learn to control his behavior." If this resolution passes, who will be next? O’Connor and Cornfield have stated that this resolution is just a beginning; they plan to introduce legislation that would make discrimination against Lesbian and Gay Kausans a right incorporated into the Kansas Constitution. This proposed resolution must be stopped. Equality Kansas can stop it, with your help Join us. 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" . h:~ae~ and cle~~e Z evident, we all. have even more to do and are constantly tempted, by health 0 N Meant To Be Fit HIGH DESIGN QUALITY MATERIAL FINE CRAFTSMANSHIP CRAZY BONE GALLERY 37 SPRING STREET EUREKA SPRINGS ARKANSAS 72632 501/253-6600 by: Stephen Scott. CMT~ CPFT YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM: KEEPING YOU HEALTHY FOR A LIFETIME! In thig day and age keeping your immune system healthy is more important than. ever! The immune sys_tt~n is one of the most complex systems in the human body. It ]ms special cells in the blood ~lled white cells, unique proteins in the blood called antibodies (which arc chemicals that mediate imml~l~ .re~tious)~ and special organs that, supervise, replenish and integrate the whole immu~e pro~css. It even has its own complex system of vessels called the lymphatic system. In this column duri~ the next several months, I’ll explain how your immune system works, how an unhealthy lifestyle or toxic envimoment damages your immtme system resulting~in allergies and frequent infectians: andhow better nutritional and lifestyle choices can help your immune system maintain your health. It’s . damaging foods-knowing the facts about how~ your nutritional choices immediately impact our health can help us choose wisely - at least most of the time. In this first installment let’s take a look at how your immune system works. When a foreign invader enters the body or a cell -becomes cancerous, your immune system goes into action in basically two ways. One way, called cell mediated immunity, involves special white cells (typically T cell lymphoeytes) which directly attack the invader. Cell-mediated immunity is important in resisting infection by yeast (including candida albicans). Fungi, parasites (worms), and viruses (including herpes simplex and Epstrein-barr)~ Ceil-mediated imm~lnity is alSO critical in protecting against the development of cancer. The second method is called humoral immtmity and involves antibodies. Antibodies are special proteins which are formed to uniquely match the surface of invaders and either directly damage the invaders (sometime by making them-clump together) or alert your white cells to come help. The’ white blood cells involved in cell-mediated immunity .are made in your bone marrow and thymus and distributed througlioutyour body. Next time: THE THYMUS GLAND AND THE LYMPHATIC SYSTEM. :} ;4; �Attention Members &Guests ARKANSAS’ BEST BLOCK PARTY ENTERTA I NM ENT A A T E = ~--’-] 1 !l 1 u B 1021 JESSIE ROAD LITTLE ROCK, AR 664-2744 or 666~6900 DISCOVERY, INC. Come and see your New Look 1021 JESSIE ROAD AI! New 501 Dance Floor - Dancing Now 7 days a week! 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The legal counsel for the plaintiffs alleges that ti~ new policy violates the, First Amendment and Equal Protection Clause of the U.S. Constitution, as well as a section of: the Unified Code of Military Justice. "With this lawsuit, we seek furl equality--nothlng more and nothing less--for all Americans. Lesbian and Gay service mvmber~ seek only to serve their country and do their jobs without being singled out for harassment," remarked William Rubenstein, Director of ACLU’s National Gay and Lesbian Rights Project, "Tbe central promise of our Constitution is that American citizens should be judged accordingto their abilities--not their skin color, their gender or their sextml orientation. We have one simple goal with this lawsuit--to force the military to safeguard this principle for Lesbians and GayAmerieans." middle ~round, between civil rights and prejudice," added Kevin Cathcart, Executive Director of the Lambda Legal Defense and Education Fund, "Both President ~Clinton and Secretary Aspin have acknowledged that Lesbians and Gay men serve with distinction in the military, yet the new poficy singles -out Lesbian and Gay service members for completely different .treatment." The plaintiffs in the A CLU-Lambda case range from a lieutenant colonel to a petty officer and include one active-duty service member and six reservists. Fearing that the-use of their, names in the court action would endanger their military careers, two of the plaintiffs are going forward under a pseudonym. Fora copy of the brief file by ACLU and LLDEF, please send a self addressed-stamped-envelope to ACLU of Oklahoma, 1411 Classen, Suite 318, Oklahoma City, OK 73106 ¯ Norma Kristie, Inc. presents THE 11TH ANNUAL OFFICIAL R, GAY ALL-AMERICAN CONTEST Nation~l Comhag Out Dgy ..... P’O" BOX 34640 Washt~agton, ,DC 20043-4640 We hold these lruths E.J. White Mr. Gay all-American 1993 #110 ~,ack # ] 09 #108 Pink & Gray Design on white ~o be serf evident-- SEPTEMBER 23-26, 1993 ST. LOUIS, MISSOURI on Whlfo f~ Hot Pink & ~ on ~,a~k Des,on White Red design on White Thursday & Friday ¯ September 23 & 24 PRELIMINARIES ANGLES ¯-3511 Chouteau ¯ St. Louis FINALS 7:30 p.m. ¯ Sunday, September 26 Holiday Inn Downtown/Riverfront 200 North 4th Street ¯ St. Louis Full Size Designs on Premium Ot~llW, $14.95 oo. 1 O0 % pre-shrunk cotton Plus $3.00 shipping ~i Hondllng Cash, check or money order Sl:~lh/de,slgn # ~ size. Sin. Please allow 3-4 weeks for delivery The Parachute Page 17 �John Willis MAZZIO’S RESPONDS John Willi~ of Tulsa past away Saturday August 28th. John had owned: Zippexs, Laffs Underground, Max’s, Tops, The Factory, Ikon, and the Electric Circus: John was 41 years old, and is survived by his life partner JeW Elder of Tulsa. John was a leader of In the August edition of the Parachute, we shared with you "A message from the President" of Mazzios Pizza, in which he made some discriminatory remarks to his employees. The reader’s of the " Parachute can be proud, after several of you phoned and sent letters the President has made an apology in his latest "Message from the President" as follows: I have written 364 Messages From the President" in the past 7 years and the last of April I wrote one that was totally inappropriate and in bad taste. I have received several letters complaining about it, and it has even been reproduced in a newspaper of publication of some the Gay and Lesbian Community. Ally time the zoning COmmission or the city was trying to give trouble to gay bars or for that matter the gay community yOU could count on John Willi.~ being on the front fighting back. John always had good business sense, he helped several people staring out in business, and was always willing to give a helping hand and some helpful advise. John Willis was never afraid to take a chance, and at times was willing to risk everything to prove a point. John hardly ever complained, regardless of what others might say or do, he would usually just ignore it and go on. John’s late~t business venture was clumgi,g Top’s to a new and exciting club called Electric Circus. It’s hard to say good-by so we won’t do that John, we will just ~ay that no one will evertake your place and ~v~ will rni~s you more than anyo,v could possib!y imagine. In ~e words of Carol Burnett...’I’m so glad we had this time together, just to have a laugh or sing a song, it seems we just Set started and befot~ you know it, comes the time we ha~v~ to say so long. I apologize for writing stwh a discriminatory article and want everyon~ to know that I do not discriminate against anyone and my article is not a true reflection of Mazzio’ s Corporation’ s attitude towards the gay community. Parachute Welcomes Hew Tulsa Sales Rcp. The Parachute is proud to welcome Tom Heal to the staff of the Parachute. Tom is a resident of Tulsa. He brings with him experience in sales, and in layout and design. We have been waiting a long time to hire someone in Tulsa. The response has been so tremendous we haven’t been able to keep up. Tom will serve as our Tulsa sales representative and will also be one of our contributing writers and reporters. ¯-,We are excited about the. opportuni~ -to-serve Tulsa,- which for.many years has not been paid as much attention as it deserves. How Tulsa we arc going to make sure you are served well! BACK BY POPULAR DEMAND THE TAJ MAHA.L TNT’s 2114 S. Memorial Time & Time Again 1515 S. Memorial Dart Tournament Tuesdays 8:00pm Welcome to all ball players to Labor Day ~Happy Hour 12-7 $1.50 Small Pitchers of Beer Softball Tournament Friday’s 9-11 $3 Bccr Bust - Show starts at i I pm Check for Specials at TNT’s & Time & Time Again Hours 12pm to 2am - 7 days a week Auction for Midwest Flood Victims Sponsored by Budweiser 2630 E. 15th Tulsa, Oklahoma 918-742=8274 The Parachute Page 18 September 12, 8:30 at TNT’s �’ I HIV TESTING Every Thursday Evenin Sponsored by: Tulsa Oklahomans For Human Rights 4154 S. Harvard, Suite H- 1 Tulsa, Oklahoma Free and Anonymous HIV Testin Daytime testin by appt. 74.9-4/ 4 . For more information call "HELPLINE"o For and by ,but not limited to the Gay/Lesbian Community and Bisexual Tulsa Oklahomans for Human Rights New in to wn ? Ha ving Problems ?Nccd referrals ? The TOHR Gaylnformation line_ is here for you! We offera var~eOc of referral~ , from legaland meitical to ADS ¯ TOHR and bar Information The belpline is staffed 6days a week, 8pm to l Opm 743- GAYS -- Personal Touch 5 Private Massage RoOms Spa nEUJ llTIPROUEI]! Toning Tables Massage Classes A¢cupressure - Rc~xolo~ NOTICE WE NOW HAVE AFULL TIME MASSEUR A three day display of the NAMES Project AIDS MEmorial Quilt, an international memorial to those who have died of AIDS, will open Friday December third at th~ Tulsa Convention Center. In ,preparation for this event the Tulsa Area NAMES Project Chapter is sponsoring Sewing Bees to be held the third Saturday of each month. Persons interested in making a panel for the AIDS Memorial Quilt can receive guidance by attending the Sewing Bees or by contacting the NAMES Project Tulsa Area Chapter. For information and locations call 918-748-3111, or write P.O. Box 3181 Tulsa, OK 74101-3181. The local display will feature about 1,000 three-foot by six-foot panels, each commemorating the life of someone who has died of AIDS. Panels are made by friends, family members and lovers, and include a wide variety of materials from a favorite t-shirt to photographs to teddy bears. The panels are just a portions of the 23,000 panels that make up the entire AIDS Memorial Quilt. The NAMES Project Foundation displays portions of the Quilt worldwide to encourage visitors to better understand and respond to the AIDS pandemic, to provide a positiye means of expression for those grieving the deaths of a-loVed one, and to raise funds for people living with HIV and AIDS. The NAMES project AIDS Memorial Quilt was nominated for a Nobel Prize in 1989. In 1990, Common Threads, a feature-length documentary fill about the Quilt, won an Academy Award. Since 1987, more than three million people have visited the Quilt, and organizations throughout North America. Tulsa Area Names Project Chapter P.O. Box 3181 Tulsa, OK 74101 TULSA 585-3405 -Red Ribbon Revue Benefit Saturday Sept. 4th COME ON DOWN FOR SOME TOMFOOLERY! AT THE SILVER STAR SALOON IN TULSA Tomfoolery! a Lesbian/Gay/Bi-Pride gift shop is open at the Silver Star Saloon at 1565 South Sheridanin Tulsa from 7-11 p.m. on Wed. & Thurs, from 7p.m.-la.m. on Fir.-Sat. and Sun. 7-10p.m.. Tomfoolery!carries t-shirts from In-10, : flags and windsocks. Tomfoolery! also has Pride jewelry, such as In 1992, Oklahoma had-the largest state increase in newAIDS "Pride rings and triangles," rainbow (and other) bolos and earrings for cases with 44% increase over 1991. pierced cars. In response to the resulting unmet Tomfoolery!has a selection of legal needs of persons affected, The greeting cards. Some specifically are Young Lawyers Division of the Lesbian and Gay and others are Oklahoma Bar Association, in simply right for us all. Other gifts at conjunction with Legal Aids of Tomfoolery!_ include sleek gift Oklahoma, will bergin providing items, such as photo frames, free legal representation September 1, 1993, to financially qualified welcome mats, coasters and the like with more on the way. persons who have AIDS or who are Tomfoolery! owner, Tom Neal infected with the tlIV virus in the recently returned home to Tulsa following areas of law: from Dallas where he was co-owner --Estate planning and living wills; and manager of a Cedar Springs. --Family law; shop. He notes that Oklahoma City --State and federal entitlement law; and Austin are served by --Insurance law, including ERISA Lesbian/Gay-owned shops are and COBRA issues; comparable to Tulsa in size and says --Discrimination issues in "Tulsans deserve to have their own employment, housing, education, place - you should not have to drive transportation and access to medical 2 or more hours to find a "family" care; store. I hope that folks will come out --Debtor/creditor law, including to Silver Star and shop with us. If bankruptcy. Persons desiring legal assistance we don’t have somethins, then will certainly try to find should contact the AIDS Legal Resource Project Coordinator af (405) 524-4611. If,you were Rich, Call for Appointment 49214 S. 83rd E. Ave. Ste. D 1 Block East Of Memorial off -51st 918-665-1155 .Hours: Men-Sat 9am- 8pm TULSA TO HOST DISPLAY OF THE NAMES PROJECT AIDS MEMORIAL QUILT DEC. 3rd-5th ~ Coupon for 50% Off One Hour Massage Expires 10/03/93 . . what would you buy.? Get your lucky number ~eport based on your B~ Chart With our new computeriy~d you get a lot of:.heavy computer hel~. The day for the action, and the #’s to pu the action on. Call today for only $I0 a too. or 3 mo.’s for $25.00 Call Toll Free 1-800-460-STAR The Parachute page 19 �SIMPLY EQUAL & OK NOW TELL THE NATION’S GOVS AND BILL CLINTON "WE’RE HERE, AND WE’RE WATCHING" Tulsa, Oklahoma. 8/15/93 On this hot August Sunday afternoon, about 35 persons from Simply Equal, and Oklahoma rights civil Lesbian/Gay were joined by organization, representatives of NOW, the Oklahoma National Organization for Women in a silent vigil outside Tulsa’s Maxwett COnvention Central, the site of the convention of the National Governors Association. Organizing in the shade neat the library, Simply Equal_ OKC facilitator, P~gy "John~0n emphasized that the purpose of the action at the Governors conference was to remind the nation that LEsbians & Gay men & friends are here &that we will not be silent. She said the purpose of the action was not to scream, yell at condemn the President for failing to lift the ban on "homosexuals" in-the military but to continue to call for the end to discrimination against Lesbians & Gay men. After establishing the ground rules for participation - only designated representatives were to speak with the media, all others were to be silent, many in fact wearing bandages taped over their mouths to symbolize the silence imposed on Lesbian & Gay soldiers by the "don’t ask, don’t tell" rule, the participants marched around the Maxwell Convention Center. Under the blazing sun in paddock made from sawhorses. & yellow tape, the protesters sweated & silently witnessed to the occasional car passing by, to the mounted police with mirrored sunglasses nearby in the shade & to the teievision crews talking with Simply Equal’s media reps. OKC rep. Terry Gatewood said,"...it’s immoral to discriminate against individual on a biological; basis...discrimination occurs on housing and in employment...many people don’t realize that ff you are Jewish or Haitian you have recourse that Lesbian & Gay men don’t have..." Gatewood went on to say he doubted that President Clinton’s recent actions would be final l& that Gatewood was pleased that Clinton had brought th~ i~St~e into.i ~ublic debate, noting that Lesbian and-Gay issues were not even discussed by a president in the prior 12 years. Gatewood further noted that the new "don’t ask, don’t tell" rule introduced great ambiguity. Under those rules, service members can go to a Lesbian/Gay bar or parade but cannot say that they are Lesbian or Gay. "The military’s ban discriminates by dollying those who have boon & would honorably serve..." Gat~wood added, noting that OKC facilitator, Peggy Johnson had seved in the Navy with distinction. Gatewood anticipated that the ban would beoverturned eventually by the courts. Oklahoma NOW co-sponsored that action & were represented by Donna Behnke of NEe NOW, the NorthEastern Oklahoma National Organization for Women. NOW’sposition paper encouraged Clinton to continue work for: an end to the ban of Lesbians and Gay men in the military, the proteeti0n of women’s reproductive rights, uational health insurance guaranteeing full access to bealth care for all, & the continued appointment .of women and minorities to government positions. Simply Equal has chapter in Oklahoma City, Norman, Tulsa & one forming in Ada with members form each group in attendance. Simply Equal began in response to the efforts of anti-Gay Oklahoma legislators who sought to add Colorado-styie anti-gay amendments constitutinn. While those efforts quietly were defeated, Simply Equal has continued, serving in Oklahoma -,City a~- a general e6mmunity -organization= ¯ In Norman, Simply ,Equal began 0 also in reaction to the passage of Colorado"s Amendment 2. Its to agenda now," according co-facilitator Kerman Raines, is to educate the Norman read about Lesbian & Gay issues, ultimately helping to include civil rights protections for Lesbians & Gay mean’ rights hmnan to Norman’s ¯ ordinance. Because each Simply Equal oh-~tpter is autonomous, each can adapt to its local conditions. Simply’ Equal Tulsa plays a somewhat different role than other chapters. TOHR, Tulsa Oklahomas for Human Rights Tulsa has long . served the community states" Robert Crow, adds Tulsa co-facilitaor. He of the actions it can take by it tax-exempt status and Simply Equal works in a complimentary fashion, providing an outlet for those interested in more politically actions. Down in Ada, a smaller college town in central Oklahoma, ~two’ women have begtm a Simply Equal chapter, bringing people together by word of mouth. This effort & their presence at this vigil some form a desire to be a part of the Lesbian/Gay civil rights movement despite the pressures of a smaller town. Surprisingly, both are discreetlly "out" on the job and at church, one serving as an officer on the church board. Though officially the vigil sought not to attack Bill Clinton for failing to lift the ,_ban, many were less forgig’ing: Shanof Tulsa (speaking as an individual not for Simply Equat)~,;:watehed :!the C-SPAN broadcast of thd’ Congressional hearings on the ban. She was gauck by/the Lesbian and Gay soldiers wlio testified. "Their graciousness & bravely (at the hearings)-that’s /honorable. Clinton called "don’t ask, don’t tell.." an honorable compromise - it isn’t honorable. It’s politics, possibly a trade-off for national health care and the budget..;-," Jimmy-Holland & Scan Horn drove over form the Univ. of Ark. in Fayetville, in part angered by - Clinton’s handling of the ban. Prior to Clinton’s announcement of his solution on the ban, Horn s~id he’d been "guardedly hopeful* but "don’t ask, don’t tell..." was just the same policy refrained. Elite Goods _, 814 S. Sheridan, Tulsa, Ok. 918-838-8053 1565 South Sheridan, Tulsa, Ok. 918-834-4234 COMING FRIDAY, OCTOBER 15/ America’s top Gay Country/Western Singer: Tulsa’s Largest Selection of Adult Magazines Rubber Goods Lotions, Lubes & Oils Serving Ga_v/-Losbian CommtmiD_ for 20 years at the ssme location We accept Visa and Mastorcard JEFF MILLER .Halloween at the Star A major event benefiting R.~A.I.N Saturday, October 3 0th toMfco e ry ! Beer Bust~ Wed. Thurs. & Sun. 9-12 Friday & Saturday 8-10 Two Step Lessons, Wed. 8-10 Trash Disco - Thursdays Line DanccoLcssons, Sunday 7-9 NEW LIGHT AND SOUND! The Paxachut¢ Pag~ 20 �Swcctwater Station Scandals ~ Casablanca.’s ¯ " ’ " Zippers ~ Flamingos Sterlings Drag Search 93 Wednesdays at ~10:30pm $100 in.Prizes. Welcome Jazmine Kelly Super Sunday Slmw~ase .l.0:30pm our new Labor Day I i/W~kend I " showcase director Sept..5.~Miss~ Gay Tulsa Metroplex of A~erica 9pro with Special Gue.st:TillieL~e~,~. Sept, 12Miss 481.2 Re~e: Sept. lg.:Suprise from Dallas Fundraiser (all door proceeds go.directly to St.Joseph’ s)~NAGED BY SHA~i~I~~YES AND ARDIE MARTIN Hours Wed- Sunday ~4-2 918.742-5262 .: ~ TheParadaate Page 21 �"Gay and lesbian people have existed in our tribes for centuries. As more of us are learning of this past, we are. also learning of the silent spread of HIV ~through our people. Wemust stop the spread of HIV so we can pass .our traditions to future gene rattons. " Our future depends on you:" Always gro Always Don Little~.~ A Service of the Oasis Resource Cer|t~r. To,volunteer call 405-525z2437. "Oklahoma’s Gay and Lesbian Information Source. AnceStry: Shawnee/Seminole: !ndlart.. - Oeeupati0n: Health Educator Age: 49 Hobbies: Gardening ....... MS, OKLAHOMA LEATHRR the Opportunity to represent the state of Oklahoma in 1994 International Leather Finals in San Franciso. The contestants, Jo Ann ’Shadow" Farthln~,. Becky- Gardener, and Cindy Bookout, appeared before a panel of judges on Saturday afternoon for the interview process. The Parachute is proud to welcome Leslie Thomas to the staff-of the Parachute. Leslie has a sales background, and has owned her own business. Leslie will be. working for us Oklahoma City. Our hope is that by having Leslie who can work solely in Oklahoma City, that we will be able to better serve OKC and the other three states that the Parachute Covers. Welcome aboard Leslie! The panel of seven judges, came from lo~al organizations and fromacross the country, & grilled the contestants on their knowledge of the leather organization, & their involvement, and also political knowledge. Later, the contestants appeared on stage whexe they were judged for attitude, image, on stage questions and fantasy. Contestants were scored on the positive leather image they portrayed, their confidence their ability to speak well before an audience. Following the judging the contestants placed in the following order: Second runner up, Becky Gardener; first runner up, Shadow Farthln~; and the winner of the--’rifle as the first Ms. Oklahoma Leather, Cindy Bookout. Mr. Woody’s Barber & S&list for Men & Women Eur Tan Beds Men-Sat 9am~7pm ,50 Cents off Tans $1.00 off Styles with this 943-4045 3914 North May Oklahoma City. OK 73 112 OKLAHOMA CITY -- Michael. G. Harmon has been ¯ named" first executive director of Oklahoma City Area HIV/AIDS Coalition. Harmon will organize, administer and coordinate programs as well as - develop funding for Coalition projects. Don Bell, chairman of the Coalition, announced Harmon’s appointment at last monthis meeting of the group’s membership. "Harmon’s administrative and fund raising skills, and AIDS volunl~er efforts represent the quality of leadership that the consortium needed," Bell said. ser~;ed as Harmon previously director for Omniplex Science Museum, Oklahoma City, where he more than doubled the museum’s active membership base and managed an annual giving program. He moved to Oklahoma City from Durant, Oklahoma in 1988 to assume the position of executive director of development and plannln~ at Mount Saint Mary High School. At Durant, Harmon spent ten years on the staff of Southeastern Oklahoma State University where he directed the continning education program and the Oklahoma Small Business Development C.enter’s south~ "¢eg~on. He is a former exeeurive vic~ president ¯ of - the ..-Durant ~b~.L~of Commerce and past president" of_ Bryan County United Way. Elected to serve on the Coalition’s Executive Committee for the coming year arc "Bell, director, OK Hemophilia Foundation; Mike Fischgr, HIV care coordinator, Dept, of Human Services; Mary Catherine Smothermon, executive director, Regional AIDS In~rfaith Network (RAIN); Roy Brown, Oklahoma City printer and chairman of the NAMES Project; Jan Hutehison, operations Educatioual OK. assistant, Terry Authority; Television director educational Dennison, services, Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma; Howard Parker, laboratory technician, Mary Mahoney Memorial Health Center; Jim Carter, counselor, Red Rock Mental Health Center. The OKC Area HIV/AIDS Coalition is a not for profit Oklahoma corporation serving OK eommtmities throughout the 405 phone dialln~ area. Its offices are in Oklahoma City. The Coalition was formed in 1989 as a consortium of community based organizations, government agencies and private sector entities concerned with HIV AIDS .The Coalition provides HIV/AIDS information and referral, education, dire~t services and advoeacy.Activities of the Coalition are supporte~ by grants, donations and fund raising efforts. Inquiries outside of OKC can be made by callln~n 1-800-285-CARE. The toeal number is 528-2273. The Parachute Page 23 " �A -concern has come to mihd. If a group, organization or individual chooses to do something in behalf of another individual , arc you at risk of public speculation and ridicule by half-witted, poorly,reported articles? I guess what is really getting at me is the attack made by P. Hand in her OKC/March on Wa~hlngton article published in THE GAYLY directed at people helping other people. I have seen the exceptional work done by many people who offer their time and their hard work as volunteers in our community who must face the risk of this type fictional scrutiny. Volunteers in our community arc as diverse as the gay community itself. We sec daily those people who arc heterosexually inclined who participate in our lifestyle challenges without being aske~ They choose to work for a common purpose, human beings, with many challenges and few rewards, with the exception of what they receive in helping ethos, They are vital part of our community, not by sexual orientation but by the for some people? I have no answer for this and I know the people who are leading the attack and those gang-banging for fun don’t know either. I would challenge those people in these various roles to no he subjected on looking over your shoulder before taking action for another human being. If you have the opportunity to give of yourself, do it and realize there are fictional writers out there waiting for their next sound-bite or byline, but don’t give in to the terrorism. I won’t. H. P. OKC EDITORIAL The Parachute policy is to publish all letters received -to the editor. The following letter’s we received are in response to an article written by Paula Hand, in the Gayly ( an Oklahoma City based paper). We did not have room to print all the letter’s we received, however we will print IN MEMORY OF CHRISTINE BOUNELL Jan. 1938-Aug. 1993 Many people have met Christine and never knew it. She was a skinny little person. She would he up before most who stay at the Habana, pushing~ that blue cart around, cleaning rooms or calling to see if you need fresh towels. A few months ago Chris approached the Parachute about a subject she felt strong about. Chris was a tranagendered person in OUr commtmity. She said much of the time people like me fall .through the cracks. Even people who have The opinions in these lettersdo not necessarily reflect the opinion of the Parachute. We remain in support of all those in the Gay and Lesbian Community including the Gayly and those whom the article is about. With so many forces enmlng against the gay , lesbian and bisexual gone through ~ the - struggle of being to help each other. gay, a lot of times won’t a~cept people like. me. Chris said, ~People usually have trouble tellin~,~ if I’m a manor a woman. I guess people just don’t understand." Well Christine, you were right. We would hope as Gay and Lesbian people we would be more compassionate of those who arc stru~ilng to be accepted. We were to do as more in-depth interview in October. However, since that isn’t possible we wanted to take this opportunity to share our conversations with Chris. She touched our lives and hopefully made us all more conscious of how we treat others. Christine we witl always remember yot~ caring, compassionated, convicted way they support those who have needs. Their actions and their respect have been witnessed by many of us in many _ways, including marching with us and verbally defending us in our on going battle of affLrmation and acknowledgment, whether we -are HIV+ or not. Are they also at risk of being alienated? I have read letters in this publication as well as others stating our need for unity although we are diverse. What makes this SO difficult A concern has_ come to mind. If a This letter is in regards to your article on the "OKC/March on This letter is in reference-to the article March on Washington in the August issne of the Gayly. My first response is two pages, WOW! I don’t think even President Clinton got two pages. Mary must be a very important person-to deserve that many pages. Second, I don’t think Paula must have road the article because she contradicted herself too many times. Third, bashing these two women for whatever reason you had is nor very good journalism. Fourth, if this was a respectable investigative story it would have been more balanced. Instead it was very one-sided story that repeated itself over and over again. Fifth, I don’t know Mary and Kern that well at all, but I know the work they have doneand arc continuing to do. It is a shame to hinder the wonderful work they do. Paula Hand, what kind of volunteer work have you ever done? You get paid to destroy people by writing very unprofessional articles. I would liketo see you get paid for nothing and volunteer all your time to HIV/AIDS. Sixth, because of this story, I have heard many people that back Mary and Kern in their efforts, and I am One Of them. Girls, keep your ohin~ up, .and don’t let someone like Paula Hand keep you from the wonderful work you both do. Sincerely, Mike Schiili~ The Parachu~ Page 22 Washln.mon Trip" printed in the August 15, 1993 issue. I do not know what set of journalistic principles under which you conduct your writing efforts, but I think you have made it clear to all readers of your publication that they are minimal standards at best. Most reporters who i~de stories for reputable publications operate under guidelines that separate themselves from writers in newspapers and of "yellow journalism." Your obvious slant on this story clearly places you in the latter group. It is so clear to anyone reading tiffs article that your opinion of the people involved is what is actually being reported. It is not a news story, it is a "slam" against two people that for one reason or another you do not particularly care for. This is stating the case very lightly in my opinion, because your attempt to ~barbecne~ these individuals is laughable, and your credibility is the true victim of this atta~k~ Ms. Hand, do you know what objectivity in reporting requires of a person who informs the public? It means that before writing a two-paged condemnation of any party in any circumstances, that you must mak¢ the effort to contact all concerned individuals to verify that what you are writing ~ true. Your selection of which interviews which were to be included in your story was an additional demonstration of :’ ifi~g, which position, and -not obtaining or including others is clearly wrong. I realize _that in response you would argue that you included excerpts of "interviews" of both parties you were "slamming." However, it is also clear that the statements you chose from their interviews were ones that would ~ be the easiest to mi~3onstrue, or through selective elimination of key parts of their answers, to suggest they were ineriminating themselves: My suggestion is that in the future, your "articles" would be better classified in the editorial section. You might even consider a new colnmn entitled "Paula’s Put-Downs" or maybe "Paula’s New . Inquirer are looking for someone at least of your caliber to cover the Whoopi Goldberg and Ted Danson WeO__ding? Perhaps. if you’re lucky, the llmo driver will not be qualiFted to drive interracial couples, and ~he organizer will fail her responsibility to he well-liked by yot~ Sincerely, Nick Porter. Dear Pauia: I thought you were a better writer than that and I believe they had a better time than you "heard". That would have made a hetter story. As is this one is... BORING ! ! It must be wonderful to be able to indiseriminately ~take such public "pot-shots" at people you don’t like. BUt my suggestion to your readers is that they complain and put a stop to your ov~-steppin8 of bounds, because next week you may "throw a hissy" towards one of them. And as we’ve seen in this story of yours, there’s no limit to what you would do to maliciously slander a reputation. You obviously aren’t constrained by the .boundaries of dec~cy and truthfulness. Hurry Ms. Hand, the deadline approaches and I’m sure you want to include this letter in your next issue. Have I given you enough time to pick it apart and miseonstrne its menning? I think I have after.all, you should he able to do so very quickly now that you’ve gotten so much practice. But let’s look at the future: Why are Two wbole pages! I don’t remember when anyone had "two whole pages’. There were much more interesting topics to write about out there, however, the cover~q~.e was good for’ Mary. She is a splendid person, as is Kern Wallace. We are a much better world with those two tha without them: Not many people - can say that. Cookie Arbuckle �"Gay and lesbian people have existed in our tribes for centuries. As more of us are lea~rning of this past, we are-also learning of the silent spread of HIV ~through our people, we must- stop the spread iof.HIV so we can pass .our traditions to future gene rattons. " Our future depends on you:" Always g .owing. .Always A Service of the .Oasis Resource Center. To volunteer call 405’525:2437. "Oklahoma’s-Gay and Lesbian Information Source. Don Littl¢i ""-i~... .AnceStry: Shawnee]Se~inolei!hdian :.... Occupation: Health Educator .... Age: 49 .~_ "i’ - ......... Hobbies: Gardening ..... MS. OKLAHOMA LEATHER OKC Sales Representative The Parachute is proud to welcome Leslie Thomas to the staff of the Parachute. Leslie has a sales background,-and has owned her own business. Leslie will be. working for us Oklahoma City. Our hope is that by having Leslie who can work solely in Oklahoma City, that we will be able to better serve OKC and the other three states that the Parachute Covers. Welcome aboard Leslie ! for the title, w~o~: gives the :wi~ner the opporttmity to repre~nt the state of Oklahoma in. 1994 Interimtional Leather Finals in San Franciso. The contestants, Jo Aim "Shadow" Farthln~,_ Becky Gardener, and Cindy Bookout, appeared before a panel of judges on Saturday afternoon for the interview process. The panel of seven judges, came from local organizations and from. across the country, & grilled the contestants on their knowledge of the leather organization, & their commtmity involvement, and also political knowledge. Later, the contestants appeared on stage whexe they were judged for attitude, image, on stage questions and fantasy. Contestants were scored on the positive leather image they portrayed, their confidence their ability to speak well before an andienee. Following the judging the contestants placed in the following order: Second runner up, Becky Gardener; first runner up, Shadow Farthlns; and the winner of the "title as the first Ms. Oklahoma Leather, Ci_ndy BookotR. Mr. Woocly’s Barber & S&listfor Men & Womvn Eur Tan Beds ¯Mon-Sat 9am~7pm 50 Cents off Tans $1.00 off Styles with ~s 943-404.5 39 14 North May OKLAHOMA CITY -- Michael G. Harmon has been named first executive director of Oklahoma City Area H1V/AIDS Coalition. Harmon wilt organize, administer and coordinate programs as well as develop funding for Coalition projects. Don Bell, chairman of the Coalition, announced Harmon’s appointment at last month’s meeting of the group’s membership. "Harmon’s adminintrative and fund raising skills, and AIDS volunteer efforts represent the quality of leadership that the consortium needed," Bell said. ser~;ed as Harmon previously director for Omniplex Science Museum, Oklahoma City, where he more than doubled the museum’s active membership base and managed an annual giving program. He moved to Oklahoma City from Durant, Oklahoma in 1988 to assume the position of executive director of development and planning at Mount Saint Mary High School At Durant, Harmon spent ten years on the staff of Southeastern Oklahoma State University where he directed the continuing education program and the Oklahoma Small Business Development Center’s ,,muthe~ Teg.ion. He is a former executive vice president-of-the ..... Durant C~.,~~,.b~.L.of Commerce and past presidvn’t of Bryan County United Way. Elected to serve on the Coalition’s Executive Committeo for the comins.. year are "Bell, director, OK Hemophilia Foundation; Mike Fischgr, HIV care coordinator, Dcpt, of Human Services; Mary Catherine Smothermon, executive director, Regional AIDS Interfaith Network (RAIN); Roy Brown, Oklahoma City printer and chairman of the NAMES Project; Jan Hutohison, operations Educational OK. assistant, Terry Authority; Television director educational Dennison, services, Planned Parenthood of Central Oklahoma; Howard Parker, laboratory technician, Mary Mahoney Memorial Health Center; Jim Carter, counselor, Red Rock Mental Health Center. The OKC Area HI-V/AIDS Coalition is a not for profit Oklahoma corporation serving OK communities throughout the 405 phone dialing area. Its offices are in Oklahoma City. The Coalition was formed in 1989 as a consortium of Community based organizations, government agencies and private sector entities concerned with H1V AIDS .The Coalition provides HIV/AIDS information and referral, education, direct services and advocacy. Activities of the Coalition are supported by grants, donations and fund raising efforts. Inquiries outside of OKC can he made by calling 1-800-285-CARE. The local number is 528-2273. Oklahoma City, OK 73 ] ] 2 The Parachute Page 23 �OTHER OPTIONS IN OKLAHOMA CITY, IS MEETING THE NEEDS OF PEOPLE LIVING WITH HIV/AIDS AND THE COMMUNITY OOI provides comprehensive, correct information and up-to-date,avallabld educational material to the commtmity and PLWHA’s. HIV is a chronic, manageable and serious illness so areas of concern are to maintain health, establish a uefwork of early medical and psychological support, establish a financial program and budget, seek emotional, spiritual, and mental health assistance. We believe OI answers those needs. We still give out the AIDS FOR HIV/AIDS book. As viable as it was in 1987 with the first edition, the expanded fourth v~rsion published in 1991 still remains the book of choice. In 1992, 2000 were distributed. In 1993, 1800 have been distributec~ New request for the books receive inserts with updated materials. W provide educational publications: OOI maintains a RESOURCE DIRECTORY call SUPPORT GROUPS STATE WIDE and WHERE TO GO FOR HELP that is corrected every 3-4 months and copies made available to health providers, social services, HIV support groups. CBO’s rural Oklahoma and PLWHA’s. We also give out POSITIVELY AWARE. We provided case management, counseling and social services to facilitate the HIV persons access to both medical services. We offer confidential and personal connections to~ assist them in putting their lives back in perspective and provide avenues to increase their quality of life. Our fourth area: Networking; referral and support services. Many beginning support groups and those in operation need assistance with start up - services, facilitator, speakers, educational materials, access to other support services. Those we sponsor receive assistance in these areas because support groups make a difference in peoples lives. We continue to network for rural Oklahoma, discharge planners, physicians, and PLWHA’s. We net-work, monitor, and provide help with 3 active meal programs. Our fifth area is HIV Testing and COunseling. Our ability to provide free, confidential and anonymous testing at 5 test sites. Our sites arc certified/monitored by Oklahoma State Health Department as well as providing ~xpert laboratory services. Our sixth area is education and public forum. We hold workshops, seminarS, inservio0_ education for commtmity groups, churches, schools, home health/Infusion services and nursing homes. Our once-a-month ABC’s of HIV seminar open-to-all meets on the last Sat. of each month. ABC includes infection, transmission, prevention, barrier~ protection, risk assessment, legal, ethical, and psyohosocial issues. The . last hours arefocused on Financial Planning/Counseling for:THE HIV INDMDUAL AND SOCIAL SECURITY SUPPORT SERVICES which covers budgeting, application pro~ss~:, for. ~.state., ~-programs, Fair Debt Law, How to Pay Your Hospital Bill (hospital low income plans), viatical we told folks it wouldhave to close. Too ,high! TO much criticism. But I Pharmacy first and the Coalition as well as any other routes before you try us. We urge you to support the medication account by donations. Funding for OOI has come from the siarkeys Foundation of Norman, Oklahoma, Kerr Foundation, Boeing Aircraft Company, Metropolitan Boards of Realtors, and especially form entertainers, benefits and individuals. We. have not received any assistance through the death of individuals with estates or insurance bequest. Probably the reason for that is we assist them early in the disease progression with medications, SSI Application process and net-worklng, later on those individuals have pretty mtmh forgotten we were even there, We do not charge for our services. NO, never ! All our 265 people (52 tested counselors and 17 speakers) arc volunteers. Our current ease load is about 392 people in 1993, 42 people in rural Oklahoma, 15 families with chit& n, 17 Hispanios, 31 Blacks, 1 Asian American, 5 deaf individuals, distributed over 100 educational paoke~ in a month, Spoke to 912 people in 47 different workshops, correspond and visit some 30 HIV+ personally to not have the heart to prisoners. insurance, how to obtain medical records and legal issues. We go over what is. required by Social Security Admi~stration for SSI and SSDI. I have completed over 200 Social Security applications and of those only two were denied so lets see what I know. Our specifieally designod training classes and seminars created for work place, office staff, support groups and Buddy programs are available by a phone call. Our speakers. Bureau of PLWHA’s are hand picked and most have been trained by OSDH and American Red Cross. We are still doing the Medication Program. We are usually the brunt of every clown who wants to criticize us-for medicating people with HIV. It is a hard one °to listen to. "No one wants to medicate an AIDS patient" Direct quote from a donor. Some really special individuals manage to keep this account door open and we thank them. You can help so it may stay open longer. At one point last month allow someone to do without. We do not personally medica~te anyone~ although we h~ve been accused that. A physician must write a prescription and it must be in the pharmacist possession like any other pharmacy. We are not a pharmacy. We have an account at a pharmacy and a detailed criteria for allowing charge OOI for their The congreghtion and leadership of New Horizons MCC on Oklahoma 9~9 ~’. Yir~qit~i,~ ¯ OKC . {405) 272-9855 Open Th ursday-6: 3 0/Friday - 8: 3 0/Saturday- 8: 3 0 Live D.J. Specials for the/Vlonll~ of September Friday @- 11 ~ 1.00 domeslic beer 5at.~3. cover optional {or .25 cent beer Coming in Ocotber New Winter Hours] For both Sneakers and KA’s KA"s Open Z days a week at 3pm Happy hour 5 to 7 $1.50 bottles $2.50 or $3.00 Pitchers Oct 3rd last Sunday {or KA "s to be open be{ore ~nter is on us. The Parachute Page 24 City would like to invite the Oklahoma City community to join in a celebration of official installment for Re . Kayo Lee, who has recently selected as a permanent pastor. Re . Lee has served the congregation of New Horizons over the past several weeks as interim pastor, and is now relocating to the OKC area to serve permanently at New Horizons. Installment celebration activities will take place September 10 and 11 with many South Central District leaders in attendance. Re . Margaret Walker from Fort Worth, Texas will officiate. Also present will be many. guest musician from Texas area. New Horizons will sponsor a garage sale on September 18 at .6415 N, Laird on OKC. The OKC Community is invited to come out and brouso. Anyone having items to donate for the garage sale _please contact the church at (405)942-63 On October 3, in celebration of St. Francis Day, there will be a special service held as A Blessing of the Animals, The OKC community is invited to bring all and any pets to tho service and receive a special blessing. The service will be held at an outside location which will be announced at a later date. Please remember to put your pets on a leash or in a cage as appropriate as many animals will be in attendance. New Horizons will be providing in the near future, a meeting space for CODA group. Anyone interested Reeogniz~ HIV to he a deadly disease, OOI had-been persistent in ourneed to educate and dedicate on making ourselves, our educational materials, and our expert test counselors, and volunteers available to PLWHA’s, to our community and tim public...We believe our programs to be the best contribution contact the otturchat (~403)y42=o$1:L Also, New Horizons is interested on providing a meeting place for a woman’s community choir and a drum and bngle corp. Anyone interested in organizing or sponsoring either the choir or the drum and bngle corp. please contact the church at (405)942-6313. Support the Organization that Supports Your Freedom ACLU The American Civil Liberties Union Protest Your Rights of Fr~ Speech, Press and Religion. The American Civil Liberties Union Helps Guarantee you Equality and Du~ Process. You Can Support the ACLU by B~comin8 a Mamber or Making a Contribution. 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Main 781-6453 CG’s Cha Cha Palace 722 S, Main 781-9313 Lawton, Oklahoma (4o5) HIV/AIDS Support ~48-5890/351-_8_0 SW AIDS Network, POB 3924, 73505 Great Plains MCC, 1416 W. Gore 357-7899 Stillwater, Oklahoma (405) Comm. AIDS Action Network 624-2544 OSU Gay/Lesbian/Bisex Comm. Assoc. Student Union 040, Box 601, 74078 Helpline (MWTh. 8-10pm) 744-5252 ’ Subcription " 6 months = $12.00 1 year = $18.00 Name _ Address City State Zip. $ Enclosed Subscriptions will be mailed out by the 5th of each month, in a sealed vnvdop¢. Send to: Th~ Parachute P.O. Box 11347 Wichita, Kansas 67202 Original Format The type of object, such as painting, sculpture, paper, photo, and additional data newspaper periodical Dublin Core The Dublin Core metadata element set is common to all Omeka records, including items, files, and collections. For more information see, http://dublincore.org/documents/dces/. Title A name given to the resource [1993] The Parachute, September 1, 1993; Volume 1, Issue 6 Subject The topic of the resource Politics, education, and social conversation toward Tulsa’s Lesbian, Gay, and Bisexual communities. Description An account of the resource The Parachute of Oklahoma was a monthly newspaper; the only publications available are August 1993-December 1993. The newspaper brings up important, evolving topics of marriage, Pride, TOHR, HIV/AIDs, events, advice, and politics all at the local and national level. This document is available in searchable PDF attached. It is also available to be seen at the Dennis R. Neill Equality Center with permission. Creator An entity primarily responsible for making the resource The Parachute of Oklahoma Publisher An entity responsible for making the resource available Chuck Breckenridge & Wayne D. (assistant publisher) Date A point or period of time associated with an event in the lifecycle of the resource September 1993 Contributor An entity responsible for making contributions to the resource John Christiansen Cookie Arbuckle Mary Arbuckle Stephan Scott Babby Michael Canfield Kevyn Jacobs Scott Curry Emerald Rainbow (horoscopes) Catherine Boyle Tom Neal Kelly Kirby David Stokes (volunteer) Rhonda Guy (volunteer) Leslie Thomas Format The file format, physical medium, or dimensions of the resource Image Online text PDF Language A language of the resource English Type The nature or genre of the resource newspaper periodical Coverage The spatial or temporal topic of the resource, the spatial applicability of the resource, or the jurisdiction under which the resource is relevant Tulsa---Oklahoma Oklahoma---Tulsa United States Oklahoma Tulsa United States of America (50 states) Rights Information about rights held in and over the resource The Parachute/Dennis R. Neill Equality Center Identifier An unambiguous reference to the resource within a given context https://history.okeq.org/items/show/455 Source A related resource from which the described resource is derived https://history.okeq.org/collections/show/24 Relation A related resource The Parachute